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2,713 | How to Attract Better Men | 1. Portray the qualities you seek in a man.
Birds of a feather flock together, so be the kind of person you want to flock with.
If you want a happy-go-lucky, physically fit, educated man, you should work on being a happy-go-lucky, physically fit, educated woman. You need to become the type of person you want to attract, first and foremost.
Not only will this attract the right kind of men, but working on yourself will also increase your self-confidence.
A good rule of thumb is to sporadically “check yourself,” and decide if you would want a man who is doing what you’re doing. In other words, if you’re lying on the couch eating Twinkies and feeling sorry for yourself, decide if you want a man lying on his couch doing the same thing. You’d probably rather have a man who is out, doing something he loves, and feeling great.
2. Carry yourself with confidence.
If you act like you deserve a great man, you will attract great men.
This does not mean that you should turn up your nose at every man who you deem unworthy, but rather be picky about who you accept on a romantic level. Be kind, and carry yourself with self-assurance and poise. If you don’t act like you deserve a better man, you probably won’t get one.
If you carry yourself like the prize that you are, you will be seen as a prize. The best kind of men will be willing to work for you.
3. Invest in yourself.
Take care of yourself, practice self-love daily, and pamper yourself.
By taking care of yourself, you’re ensuring that you feel great. When you feel great, you’ll ooze self-confidence and love that is irresistible to good men. If you are investing in yourself, you’ll attract men that want to invest in you as well.
4. Be yourself.
Don’t pretend to be a person that you aren’t, because you won’t be able to keep it up.
Imagine falling in love with a man, only to find out a couple of months later that he is not the man he pretended to be. It’s not fun, is it? When you want to attract an authentic man, you need to be authentic yourself.
By showing your true colors you’ll also immediately weed out the men who wouldn’t be interested in the real, genuine you. If you love to tell cheesy jokes and order two desserts, you might as well do it on the first date!
5. Decide what your deal breakers are.
Never settle for less than want you want and deserve.
When you’ve dated duds in the past, you probably found yourself compromising for what you’d accept from them. At first, it seems perfectly fine to overlook certain things they lacked, or make excuses for lackluster behavior. Stop doing this! If you want a better man, stop making excuses for them.
Note that this doesn’t mean you should reject any man who isn’t a billionaire with a supermodel face and an 8 pack. It means that you have every right to hold out for a man with a stable job, an active lifestyle, a generous spirit, and a sense of humor.
It’s OK to be picky. There are millions of men in this world, and you can and will find someone who has everything you’re looking for, if they are realistic expectations.
6. Make yourself available to the best kinds of men.
Increase your odds of finding a great man by spending time where they do.
If you want a man who spends his time volunteering, you need to get involved with volunteering. If you really want a guy who shares your faith, you need to be attending religious or spiritual events. While falling in love can feel like magic, use logic to set yourself up to find it.
7. Create your own independent, fulfilling life.
If you are happily single and satisfied, you don’t need a man to complete you.
When you don’t need a man, you won’t settle for just any man who comes along. By staying busy and following your own passions, you’ll naturally up your standards. You’ll only accept a man into your life that will add to it, not fill some sort of void.
Don’t be so fiercely independent that you refuse to open yourself up to love. It’s important that you can be content and satisfied on your own, but be careful not to completely block yourself off from receiving love.
8. Learn from your past relationships.
If you want a different type of man, you have to seek out a different type of man.
Instead of mourning over the time you wasted on less amazing men, take a lesson from it.
If you never had good luck meeting good men at bars, stop trying to meet men at bars. If you’ve all of your past failed relationships are with bad boys, don’t date bad boys.
9. Listen to your gut.
Your intuition is there for a reason.
When you meet the right man, you shouldn’t feel troubled or apprehensive. Don’t ignore your instinct. Every day that you waste with the wrong man is a day that you miss out meeting a better one. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself and walk away.
10. Ditch anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries.
Good men will never, under any circumstance, pressure you into doing something.
In fact, the best kind of men will admire the fact that you know your own boundaries and self-worth and will speak up when you don’t feel right about something.
If you find yourself having to repeatedly say “no,” he is not the kind of man you want. Move along, and find yourself a better man!
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If you want a better man, stop making excuses for them.\\nNote that this doesn’t mean you should reject any man who isn’t a billionaire with a supermodel face and an 8 pack. It means that you have every right to hold out for a man with a stable job, an active lifestyle, a generous spirit, and a sense of humor.\\nIt’s OK to be picky. There are millions of men in this world, and you can and will find someone who has everything you’re looking for, if they are realistic expectations.\\n6. Make yourself available to the best kinds of men.\\nIncrease your odds of finding a great man by spending time where they do.\\nIf you want a man who spends his time volunteering, you need to get involved with volunteering. If you really want a guy who shares your faith, you need to be attending religious or spiritual events. While falling in love can feel like magic, use logic to set yourself up to find it.\\n7. Create your own independent, fulfilling life.\\nIf you are happily single and satisfied, you don’t need a man to complete you.\\nWhen you don’t need a man, you won’t settle for just any man who comes along. By staying busy and following your own passions, you’ll naturally up your standards. You’ll only accept a man into your life that will add to it, not fill some sort of void.\\nDon’t be so fiercely independent that you refuse to open yourself up to love. It’s important that you can be content and satisfied on your own, but be careful not to completely block yourself off from receiving love.\\n8. Learn from your past relationships.\\nIf you want a different type of man, you have to seek out a different type of man.\\nInstead of mourning over the time you wasted on less amazing men, take a lesson from it.\\nIf you never had good luck meeting good men at bars, stop trying to meet men at bars. If you’ve all of your past failed relationships are with bad boys, don’t date bad boys.\\n9. 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2,714 | How to Attract Birds | 1. Providing Food
1-1. Research birds in your area.
Find out what types of birds live in your area or are likely to come to your property through migration. You may want to obtain a field guide to the area in order to know which birds to attract. Aim to create an environment that can support many different species. Bear in mind that you can attract different species depending on the season, as well.
1-2. Choose a bird feeder.
The type of feeder you choose will influence what bird species you attract. No matter what, your bird feeder should have a few essential qualities: it should keep food dry, and it should be easy to clean. Bird feeders need to be washed out regularly so the food inside remains free of fungi and disease. The most common types of feeders include:
Tray feeders. Tray feeders are simple, flat trays that allow birds very easy access to seed. Another advantage is that seed is also accessible to squirrels, allowing more diverse wildlife.
House feeders. These keep the seed in a contained area and dispense it as the birds feed on a small tray at the bottom of the feeder.
Window feeders. Window feeders attach to your window with suction cups, offering a full view of bird activity. They will attract birds like chickadees, finches, and some kinds of sparrows.
Suet feeders. Suet feeders are designed to offer suet cakes, which attract different birds like woodpeckers, nuthatches, and chickadees.
Tube feeders. To attract hummingbirds, use a tube feeder. These dispense sugar water through a tube.
1-3. Provide seed and other food.
Birds will be attracted to your yard if you offer them food. However, there are certain things to keep in mind. Do you know what species you are hoping to attract? If you would like to invite a wide range of native species, it's a good idea to have more than one type of feeder and to offer a variety of food.
Corn is a favorite among nearly all birds but is to be used sparingly -- it will attract all sorts of animals. It is also important to be careful about the source of the corn since cheap corn can be contaminated with pesticides that are toxic to birds.
Sunflower seeds are popular among all seed-eating birds, which makes them a good choice if you want a variety of species. However, the shells must be raked up frequently. Sunflower seeds will also tempt squirrels.
White proso millet is a tasty treat for cardinals, quail, sparrows, doves, and crows. It is also attractive to house sparrows and other animals. Hummingbirds love to drink sugar water, meanwhile, and safflower seeds are good for attracting cardinals, chickadees, doves, sparrows, and grosbeaks.
Suet, the fat around cow and sheep organs, attracts woodpeckers, nuthatches, wrens, jays, and starlings. Peanut butter makes a good winter food since it is highly nutritious. Just make sure that it doesn't contain additives.
1-4. Know what foods to avoid.
Birds can easily be poisoned by food that is contaminated or contains hard-to-digest ingredients. Be sure to buy high-quality seed or suet. Some cheap manufacturers of bird food cut corners, so consider springing for a more expensive brand. Here are a few foods to avoid putting out:
Bread, crackers, or other processed carbohydrates do not offer birds much nutritional value and can have toxic ingredients. Bacon drippings or other meats can meanwhile contain harmful nitrates. Both may end up attracting mice and rats instead.
Cheap feeds often contain “filler seeds” that are not eaten like red millet, golden millet, oats, and flax. Be sure to check the ingredients in the purchased feed.
1-5. Install the feeder in a safe location.
If you want the feeder to be near enough for you to view it from your house, place it within 3 ft (0.91 m) of your window. If you want to give the birds more space, place the feeder about 30 ft (9.1 m) from your home.
Also, keep the blinds in your home at least halfway closed during the day so the birds will be less likely to fly through the window.
1-6. Maintain the feeder.
It is important to change the food frequently and clean the feeder with soap and water every few weeks. Otherwise, bird droppings, fungus, and bacteria can contaminate the feeder and the food, potentially sickening birds. Be particularly vigilant during wet weather, when damp food is more susceptible to mold. For the same reason, and because it attracts undesirable animals, food that has fallen to the ground should be cleared away.
1-7. Provide grit.
Birds lack teeth and many instead rely on an organ called a gizzard to digest food. To work properly the gizzard needs grit – bits of sand, gravel, or other small stones. You can help by offering insoluble grit (e.g. small pieces of gravel) or soluble grit (like cuttlebone, crushed oyster shell, or crushed eggshell). Eggshell serves a dual purpose by giving the birds calcium needed for egg-laying.
2. Creating Nesting Spots
2-1. Plant native trees, shrubs, and plants.
Use a local field guide or call your local Audubon Society chapter (if you live in the United States) to find out what grows naturally in your region, and add these plants to your garden. Native trees, shrubs, and plants are more likely to attract birds than non-native trees, shrubs, and plants. A variety of native trees, shrubs, and grasses will also provide natural shelter and cover for birds.
Evergreen trees and shrubs like hollies make great homes for birds over the winter.
Many birds are attracted to fruit and berries, so consider planting an apple tree or planting a blueberry bush.
2-2. Build a birdhouse or nesting box.
Different species nest in different places, so it is a good idea to conduct research on the type of bird you wish to attract. If you plan to buy a birdhouse or build a nesting box, take note that boxes with different holes, shapes, and orientations will attract different species. Such a box can be mounted to a tree or hung from a pole. Make sure that the box is up no later than February if you are in a southerly location; if in the north, hang it in March.
Make sure that your nest site has adequate ventilation and is supplied with a "baffle" and reinforcement ring at the opening. This will prevent predators from entering.
2-3. Create a nesting site using natural materials.
If you would like to create a more natural nesting spot, an easy way to do it is to allow your yard to grow a bit wilder. Let the grass grow in a certain spot or build a brush pile. This simulates the type of habitat where birds nest in the wild. You might alternately heap branches into a large pile or create sites under your bushes by raking mulch around the base.
Consider supply nesting material such as string, hair, or other fibers, or stuff mesh bags with pieces of yarn or string, straw, pet fur, small bits of cloth, or anything else that a bird might use to nest.
Don't remove dead trees unless they are a danger. Standing dead trees are important nesting and foraging spots for many species, especially woodpeckers, which eat the insects that infest dead trees.
3. Making Your Yard More Inviting
3-1. Provide a water source.
Birds are attracted to the sound of dripping or moving water. You can buy a birdbath or create a shallow pond with a fountain. Make sure it is close to the ground and not made of slippery material. If you are short on time or resources, hang a water-filled container with a hole on the bottom above a dish. Try not to place the water source near trees or bushes where cats might hide. Also, make sure the water is not more than 1 inch (2.5cm) deep.
Consider using a heated water source during the winter. For the sake of sanitation, find a bath that is easy to clean. Ensure that the water does not become stagnant or harbor algae.
3-2. Avoid pesticides.
Pesticides are harmful to birds in more ways than one. First, they kill vital sources of food for some species. Second, the chemicals in the pesticides can be dangerous for birds to ingest. In order to attract birds to your property, use natural forms of insect control instead of chemicals on your lawn, trees, and shrubs.
3-3. Keep predators away.
Snakes, raccoons, and rats prey on songbirds or their eggs, killing millions every year. No matter how hospitable your yard may seem, having a predator prowling around will act as a disincentive. Hole restrictors, baffles, and tube entrances are good ways to secure birdhouses. Mounting the house well above ground and using predator repellent are two added safeguards.
Tips
Don't be discouraged if birds don't immediately come to your sanctuary. Birds are often wary of changes in their environment and will take time to adjust to the new feeder or bath.
Keep your feeders, houses, and water sources clean.
If you don't have the motivation, time, or resources to create a bird sanctuary in your yard, you can always contribute to a "communal" bird sanctuary. Donate money and/or volunteer hours to conservation organizations such as The Nature Conservancy that buys tracts of land and saves them from development.
Warnings
Avoid disturbing eggs or nest if you come across them.
Your nest boxes should not be too close together. Birds can be territorial and over-proximity can lead to conflicts.
Never add antifreeze to a birdbath during winter. Antifreeze is highly toxic and will kill any bird, animal, or pet that drinks it, and can cause severe damage or death in humans as well. You can buy heaters designed to defrost ponds, fountains, or birdbaths. Floating a tennis ball in the water will also allow you to break and remove ice easily.
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Both may end up attracting mice and rats instead.\\nCheap feeds often contain “filler seeds” that are not eaten like red millet, golden millet, oats, and flax. Be sure to check the ingredients in the purchased feed.\\n1-5. Install the feeder in a safe location.\\nIf you want the feeder to be near enough for you to view it from your house, place it within 3 ft (0.91 m) of your window. If you want to give the birds more space, place the feeder about 30 ft (9.1 m) from your home.\\nAlso, keep the blinds in your home at least halfway closed during the day so the birds will be less likely to fly through the window.\\n1-6. Maintain the feeder.\\nIt is important to change the food frequently and clean the feeder with soap and water every few weeks. Otherwise, bird droppings, fungus, and bacteria can contaminate the feeder and the food, potentially sickening birds. Be particularly vigilant during wet weather, when damp food is more susceptible to mold. For the same reason, and because it attracts undesirable animals, food that has fallen to the ground should be cleared away.\\n1-7. Provide grit.\\nBirds lack teeth and many instead rely on an organ called a gizzard to digest food. To work properly the gizzard needs grit – bits of sand, gravel, or other small stones. You can help by offering insoluble grit (e.g. small pieces of gravel) or soluble grit (like cuttlebone, crushed oyster shell, or crushed eggshell). Eggshell serves a dual purpose by giving the birds calcium needed for egg-laying.\\n2. Creating Nesting Spots\\n2-1. Plant native trees, shrubs, and plants.\\nUse a local field guide or call your local Audubon Society chapter (if you live in the United States) to find out what grows naturally in your region, and add these plants to your garden. Native trees, shrubs, and plants are more likely to attract birds than non-native trees, shrubs, and plants. A variety of native trees, shrubs, and grasses will also provide natural shelter and cover for birds.\\nEvergreen trees and shrubs like hollies make great homes for birds over the winter.\\nMany birds are attracted to fruit and berries, so consider planting an apple tree or planting a blueberry bush.\\n2-2. Build a birdhouse or nesting box.\\nDifferent species nest in different places, so it is a good idea to conduct research on the type of bird you wish to attract. If you plan to buy a birdhouse or build a nesting box, take note that boxes with different holes, shapes, and orientations will attract different species. Such a box can be mounted to a tree or hung from a pole. Make sure that the box is up no later than February if you are in a southerly location; if in the north, hang it in March.\\nMake sure that your nest site has adequate ventilation and is supplied with a \\\"baffle\\\" and reinforcement ring at the opening. This will prevent predators from entering.\\n2-3. Create a nesting site using natural materials.\\nIf you would like to create a more natural nesting spot, an easy way to do it is to allow your yard to grow a bit wilder. Let the grass grow in a certain spot or build a brush pile. This simulates the type of habitat where birds nest in the wild. You might alternately heap branches into a large pile or create sites under your bushes by raking mulch around the base.\\nConsider supply nesting material such as string, hair, or other fibers, or stuff mesh bags with pieces of yarn or string, straw, pet fur, small bits of cloth, or anything else that a bird might use to nest.\\nDon't remove dead trees unless they are a danger. Standing dead trees are important nesting and foraging spots for many species, especially woodpeckers, which eat the insects that infest dead trees.\\n3. Making Your Yard More Inviting\\n3-1. Provide a water source.\\nBirds are attracted to the sound of dripping or moving water. You can buy a birdbath or create a shallow pond with a fountain. Make sure it is close to the ground and not made of slippery material. If you are short on time or resources, hang a water-filled container with a hole on the bottom above a dish. Try not to place the water source near trees or bushes where cats might hide. Also, make sure the water is not more than 1 inch (2.5cm) deep.\\nConsider using a heated water source during the winter. For the sake of sanitation, find a bath that is easy to clean. Ensure that the water does not become stagnant or harbor algae.\\n3-2. Avoid pesticides.\\nPesticides are harmful to birds in more ways than one. First, they kill vital sources of food for some species. Second, the chemicals in the pesticides can be dangerous for birds to ingest. In order to attract birds to your property, use natural forms of insect control instead of chemicals on your lawn, trees, and shrubs.\\n3-3. Keep predators away.\\nSnakes, raccoons, and rats prey on songbirds or their eggs, killing millions every year. No matter how hospitable your yard may seem, having a predator prowling around will act as a disincentive. Hole restrictors, baffles, and tube entrances are good ways to secure birdhouses. Mounting the house well above ground and using predator repellent are two added safeguards.\\nTips\\nDon't be discouraged if birds don't immediately come to your sanctuary. Birds are often wary of changes in their environment and will take time to adjust to the new feeder or bath.\\nKeep your feeders, houses, and water sources clean.\\nIf you don't have the motivation, time, or resources to create a bird sanctuary in your yard, you can always contribute to a \\\"communal\\\" bird sanctuary. Donate money and/or volunteer hours to conservation organizations such as The Nature Conservancy that buys tracts of land and saves them from development.\\nWarnings\\nAvoid disturbing eggs or nest if you come across them.\\nYour nest boxes should not be too close together. Birds can be territorial and over-proximity can lead to conflicts.\\nNever add antifreeze to a birdbath during winter. Antifreeze is highly toxic and will kill any bird, animal, or pet that drinks it, and can cause severe damage or death in humans as well. You can buy heaters designed to defrost ponds, fountains, or birdbaths. Floating a tennis ball in the water will also allow you to break and remove ice easily.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"While songbirds like finches, sparrows, bluebirds, and others are a colorful and musical delight, these birds are becoming rarer as their natural habitat dwindles. However, you can help as a bird lover and homeowner by turning your backyard into a safe haven for all of your favorites. Birdseed, a birdbath, and safe nesting spots will make your yard much more inviting, and you will be amazed at how many different species you can attract.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Providing Food\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Research birds in your area.\", \"描述\": \"Find out what types of birds live in your area or are likely to come to your property through migration. You may want to obtain a field guide to the area in order to know which birds to attract. Aim to create an environment that can support many different species. Bear in mind that you can attract different species depending on the season, as well.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose a bird feeder.\", \"描述\": \"The type of feeder you choose will influence what bird species you attract. No matter what, your bird feeder should have a few essential qualities: it should keep food dry, and it should be easy to clean. Bird feeders need to be washed out regularly so the food inside remains free of fungi and disease. The most common types of feeders include:\\nTray feeders. Tray feeders are simple, flat trays that allow birds very easy access to seed. Another advantage is that seed is also accessible to squirrels, allowing more diverse wildlife.\\nHouse feeders. These keep the seed in a contained area and dispense it as the birds feed on a small tray at the bottom of the feeder.\\nWindow feeders. Window feeders attach to your window with suction cups, offering a full view of bird activity. They will attract birds like chickadees, finches, and some kinds of sparrows.\\nSuet feeders. Suet feeders are designed to offer suet cakes, which attract different birds like woodpeckers, nuthatches, and chickadees.\\nTube feeders. To attract hummingbirds, use a tube feeder. These dispense sugar water through a tube.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Provide seed and other food.\", \"描述\": \"Birds will be attracted to your yard if you offer them food. However, there are certain things to keep in mind. Do you know what species you are hoping to attract? If you would like to invite a wide range of native species, it's a good idea to have more than one type of feeder and to offer a variety of food.\\nCorn is a favorite among nearly all birds but is to be used sparingly -- it will attract all sorts of animals. It is also important to be careful about the source of the corn since cheap corn can be contaminated with pesticides that are toxic to birds.\\nSunflower seeds are popular among all seed-eating birds, which makes them a good choice if you want a variety of species. However, the shells must be raked up frequently. Sunflower seeds will also tempt squirrels.\\nWhite proso millet is a tasty treat for cardinals, quail, sparrows, doves, and crows. It is also attractive to house sparrows and other animals. Hummingbirds love to drink sugar water, meanwhile, and safflower seeds are good for attracting cardinals, chickadees, doves, sparrows, and grosbeaks.\\nSuet, the fat around cow and sheep organs, attracts woodpeckers, nuthatches, wrens, jays, and starlings. Peanut butter makes a good winter food since it is highly nutritious. Just make sure that it doesn't contain additives.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Know what foods to avoid.\", \"描述\": \"Birds can easily be poisoned by food that is contaminated or contains hard-to-digest ingredients. Be sure to buy high-quality seed or suet. Some cheap manufacturers of bird food cut corners, so consider springing for a more expensive brand. Here are a few foods to avoid putting out:\\nBread, crackers, or other processed carbohydrates do not offer birds much nutritional value and can have toxic ingredients. Bacon drippings or other meats can meanwhile contain harmful nitrates. Both may end up attracting mice and rats instead.\\nCheap feeds often contain “filler seeds” that are not eaten like red millet, golden millet, oats, and flax. Be sure to check the ingredients in the purchased feed.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Install the feeder in a safe location.\", \"描述\": \"If you want the feeder to be near enough for you to view it from your house, place it within 3 ft (0.91 m) of your window. If you want to give the birds more space, place the feeder about 30 ft (9.1 m) from your home.\\nAlso, keep the blinds in your home at least halfway closed during the day so the birds will be less likely to fly through the window.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Maintain the feeder.\", \"描述\": \"It is important to change the food frequently and clean the feeder with soap and water every few weeks. Otherwise, bird droppings, fungus, and bacteria can contaminate the feeder and the food, potentially sickening birds. 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2,715 | How to Attract Birds to Your Garden | 1. Providing Birds with Food
1-1. Choose appropriate feeders.
In order to decide on suitable feeders, you should research the types of birds in your area. This way, you can purchase a feeder that is appropriate for local birds. Regardless of the type of feeder you choose, make sure that you clean it regularly and replace the seeds every 2 to 3 days to prevent the development of harmful fungi and bacteria. Here are the most common types of feeders and some of the types of birds they will attract to your garden:
Tray feeders: Attract pigeons, starlings, and sparrows. Use a tray feeder that has a screened, rather than solid, bottom in order to allow for drainage. Water build up after rain can cause seeds to rot and facilitate the development of bacteria. Also bird droppings can contaminate the food.
House feeders: Attract finches, blue jays, cardinals, buntings, grosbeaks, sparrows, chickadees, and titmice. The feeders are covered and, therefore, the seeds are protected from water and droppings. You can mount hopper feeders on a pole or suspend them from a tree.
Tube feeders: Are cylindrical feeders with tiny feeding holes to allow for smaller seeds, such as Nyjer. These feeders often have small perches and attract smaller birds such as finches, sparrows, titmice, chickadees, and grosbeaks.
Suet feeders: Are constructed of wire or plastic mesh and can be nailed or tied to a tree trunk, suspended, or attached to a hopper feeder. These feeders attract woodpeckers, nuthatches, chickadees, blue jays, and starlings.
1-2. Provide a variety of bird food.
Different types of birds eat different types of food. If you want to attract a variety of birds to your yard, you will need to put out multiple feeders with different types of seeds. For instance, try sunflower seeds, nyger seeds, seed mixes, suet, and nectar. Use these helpful tips in order to choose the food that is best for the birds within your local area:
Sunflower seeds: Are the most popular seeds and will attract a large variety of birds to your garden including blue jays, cardinals, finches, chickadees, nuthatches, and sparrows. You can also purchase sunflower seeds that have already been removed from their shells in order to avoid a large mess beneath your feeder.
Nyjer seeds: Are very small, high quality seeds that attract a variety of finches, indigo buntings, pine siskins, and common redpolls. Because these seeds are so small, they require a special feeder with smaller holes, such as a tube feeder.
Seed mixes: Are popular among new birders because they offer a variety of seeds and attract a range of bird species. They can be quite messy, though, because birds will pick through the seeds to find what they like. This behaviour will attract ground feeders such as doves, juncos, sparrows, and even squirrels.
Suet: Is a great source of protein for birds, especially during the winter months. It consists of a cake of animal fat that is sometimes covered in seeds. In order to provide birds with suet, you will need to use a special suet feeder. Suet will attract woodpeckers, nuthatches, wrens, and jays, and starlings.
Nectar: Is a combination of sugar and water and requires a special feeder. Typically, nectar is used to feed hummingbirds. To make hummingbird nectar you will need to dissolve one part sugar into four parts hot water. Let the mixture cool to room temperature before putting it into the feeder.
Jelly or oranges: Are used to attract orioles. Use a specialty oriole feeder and bird-safe jelly or jam. If you'd rather not provide preserves, cut oranges will also attract this songbird.
1-3. Install feeders in a safe location.
You should install your feeder in a safe space in order to avoid window collisions and predators. Feeders should be installed either within 1 meter (3 feet) of a window or more than 9 meters (30 feet) away from a window in order to prevent death from collision.
You should also situate feeders relatively close to natural shelter such as trees or shrubs in order to provide both a resting place and quick shelter if a hawk or predator bird is in the area.
That being said, don’t place the feeder too close to the bushes because they can also provide a hiding place for other predators. A distance of about 3 meters (10 feet) is ideal.
1-4. Maintain your feeders.
It is important to change bird seed regularly (typically every 2 to 3 days) and wash the feeder with soap and water every few weeks. This will help remove any harmful bacteria and fungi that can develop as a result of stagnant water and bird droppings. It is especially important to clean feeders regularly during periods of rainy or wet weather.
1-5. Add a water feature to your garden.
Birds need a fresh, clean source of water for drinking and bathing. Setting up a water source will help to attract birds to your garden. Use a bird bath that is 2.5-10cm (1-4 inches) deep in order to attract a variety of different species. Alternatively, a pond or large fountain will also attract birds to your garden.
Add rocks or twigs to the bird bath in order to provide a spot for birds to perch.
Birds are attracted to the sound of running water, so a fountain may help get more birds into your garden.
Change water in a bird bath every 2-3 days and place the baths 3 meters (10 feet) from dense cover that predators may use for hiding.
2. Creating Spaces for Nesting
2-1. Hang a nest box.
You can help attract birds to your garden and encourage them to stay and nest by hanging up nest boxes. Nest boxes can be purchased at local pet supply stores. These boxes come in multiple different varieties and some boxes are more suitable to nesting than others. Take these tips into consideration when shopping for a nest box for your garden:
Choose a box made with insulating material. Look for a nest box made from thick wood (15-19mm thick) such as cedar, oak, or beech. Thinner woods, such as pine will not last as long. A nest box made out of ceramic will likely be too hot or too cold for chicks to survive.
Choose a box that is the right size for the bird you want to attract. Different birds will need different sized nest boxes.
Do not get a box with a perch. Perches are not necessary for nest boxes and can actually provide a way for predators such as weasels to access eggs and chicks living in the nest box.
You can also make your own nesting box.
2-2. Install the nest box in a safe and quiet location.
Nest boxes should be hung up early in the spring before birds begin to nest. It is very important that you choose a safe location so that birds will feel safe and remain nesting in your garden each year. Situate your nest box at least 3 meters off the ground and in an area that is sheltered from the weather.
Make sure that nest boxes are not positioned too close to bird feeders or other nest boxes because this may lead to competition, and too much activity in the area could disrupt a nesting pair.
Clean out the nest box once a year to encourage occupancy.
2-3. Provide birds with nesting materials.
Help birds with nest-making by putting out materials they can use to build their nests. You can purchase nesting materials such as wool and string or you can gather your own nesting material and place it in the garden for the birds. For example, you can provide birds with pet hair, lint, or grass clippings. Just place the materials into the hollow of a tree or attach them to a pile of twigs.
3. Providing a Natural Habitat for the Birds
3-1. Plant native trees and shrubs.
Local birds love native plants because they provide a great food source. Habitat loss is one of the leading causes of population declines among birds, and as a result, it is very important to grow native plant species. Select a variety of native plants that will offer birds year round food in the form of berries, nuts, and nectar. The best way to create a plentiful garden year round, is to mimic the plant ecosystem native to the area. Plants will also give birds shelter from potential predators, and natural nesting sites. Here are a few plant suggestions:
Black-eyed Susans and Sunflowers: Are an excellent source of food for some birds because their seeds and flowers are edible.
Ferns, thistles, and sumacs: Are great for producing materials that birds use while constructing nests.
Crabapples, Dogwoods, and Serviceberries: Are a great source of food and provide birds with small edible fruits and berries.
Coniferous trees: Pines and Spruce trees, for example, provide birds with cover and protection from predator species as well as sap and seeds for eating. They also make great nesting sites for many birds.
Deciduous trees: Oak, Cherry, and Hickory trees, to name a few, provide birds with nesting sites as well as multiple food sources. For instance, these trees often produce edible nuts and are home to a variety of insects.
3-2. Keep dead trees in your garden.
Dead trees can provide birds with a source of shelter and food. For example, dead trees will often contain hollow areas and alcoves that birds can use for nesting or to seek shelter from the weather. Insects are also often found on dead trees and can provide birds with a great source of food.
3-3. Create a brush pile.
Brush piles can provide birds with an area to hunt, roost, and even nest. Begin by putting down a few large logs, then add some smaller branches and leaves. This is relatively easy and can be a great way to make use of garden clippings after you have pruned the trees, hedges, and shrubs in your garden.
Brush piles also contain many insects and will provide ground feeders with an excellent food source. For instance, some bird species will never land on, or use, a bird feeder because they like to eat insects off the ground. Robins, Towhees, and Thrashers, for example, will use these piles as a food source.
3-4. Remove invasive plant species from your garden.
Invasive plants will compete with native plants for space, water, and sunlight. They can often out-compete the plants that are preferred by local bird and insect populations. As a result, you should minimize and remove the number of invasive species that are planted within your garden.
3-5. Reduce the lawn area in your yard.
Large areas of manicured lawn provides very little of substance for bird populations. If you want to attract birds to your garden, you should reduce the lawn area and ensure that the garden is filled with local plants, water sources, and feeders. Manicured grass is essentially wasted space and requires more maintenance in the form of mowing, watering, and fertilizing.
Tips
Be patient when attracting birds to your garden. They will come, but it may take some time for them to locate the new food and water sources in the area.
Make sure the bird feeders are at least 6 feet (1.8 m) off the ground to reduce the risk of a predator getting to the bird.
Warnings
Attracting a variety of birds to your garden can also result in competition between species. You may find that you prefer some birds over others. Monitor the habits of the birds in your area and cater your garden to attract specific species.
Do not use insecticides in your garden. Insects are an extremely important part of the diet for many bird species. Using insecticides will eliminate bugs making it difficult for bird populations, especially those feeding young birds.[21]
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This behaviour will attract ground feeders such as doves, juncos, sparrows, and even squirrels.\\nSuet: Is a great source of protein for birds, especially during the winter months. It consists of a cake of animal fat that is sometimes covered in seeds. In order to provide birds with suet, you will need to use a special suet feeder. Suet will attract woodpeckers, nuthatches, wrens, and jays, and starlings.\\nNectar: Is a combination of sugar and water and requires a special feeder. Typically, nectar is used to feed hummingbirds. To make hummingbird nectar you will need to dissolve one part sugar into four parts hot water. Let the mixture cool to room temperature before putting it into the feeder.\\nJelly or oranges: Are used to attract orioles. Use a specialty oriole feeder and bird-safe jelly or jam. If you'd rather not provide preserves, cut oranges will also attract this songbird.\\n1-3. Install feeders in a safe location.\\nYou should install your feeder in a safe space in order to avoid window collisions and predators. Feeders should be installed either within 1 meter (3 feet) of a window or more than 9 meters (30 feet) away from a window in order to prevent death from collision.\\nYou should also situate feeders relatively close to natural shelter such as trees or shrubs in order to provide both a resting place and quick shelter if a hawk or predator bird is in the area.\\nThat being said, don’t place the feeder too close to the bushes because they can also provide a hiding place for other predators. A distance of about 3 meters (10 feet) is ideal.\\n1-4. Maintain your feeders.\\nIt is important to change bird seed regularly (typically every 2 to 3 days) and wash the feeder with soap and water every few weeks. This will help remove any harmful bacteria and fungi that can develop as a result of stagnant water and bird droppings. It is especially important to clean feeders regularly during periods of rainy or wet weather.\\n1-5. Add a water feature to your garden.\\nBirds need a fresh, clean source of water for drinking and bathing. Setting up a water source will help to attract birds to your garden. Use a bird bath that is 2.5-10cm (1-4 inches) deep in order to attract a variety of different species. Alternatively, a pond or large fountain will also attract birds to your garden.\\nAdd rocks or twigs to the bird bath in order to provide a spot for birds to perch.\\nBirds are attracted to the sound of running water, so a fountain may help get more birds into your garden.\\nChange water in a bird bath every 2-3 days and place the baths 3 meters (10 feet) from dense cover that predators may use for hiding.\\n2. Creating Spaces for Nesting\\n2-1. Hang a nest box.\\nYou can help attract birds to your garden and encourage them to stay and nest by hanging up nest boxes. Nest boxes can be purchased at local pet supply stores. These boxes come in multiple different varieties and some boxes are more suitable to nesting than others. Take these tips into consideration when shopping for a nest box for your garden:\\nChoose a box made with insulating material. Look for a nest box made from thick wood (15-19mm thick) such as cedar, oak, or beech. Thinner woods, such as pine will not last as long. A nest box made out of ceramic will likely be too hot or too cold for chicks to survive.\\nChoose a box that is the right size for the bird you want to attract. Different birds will need different sized nest boxes.\\nDo not get a box with a perch. Perches are not necessary for nest boxes and can actually provide a way for predators such as weasels to access eggs and chicks living in the nest box.\\nYou can also make your own nesting box.\\n2-2. Install the nest box in a safe and quiet location.\\nNest boxes should be hung up early in the spring before birds begin to nest. It is very important that you choose a safe location so that birds will feel safe and remain nesting in your garden each year. Situate your nest box at least 3 meters off the ground and in an area that is sheltered from the weather. \\nMake sure that nest boxes are not positioned too close to bird feeders or other nest boxes because this may lead to competition, and too much activity in the area could disrupt a nesting pair.\\nClean out the nest box once a year to encourage occupancy.\\n2-3. Provide birds with nesting materials.\\nHelp birds with nest-making by putting out materials they can use to build their nests. You can purchase nesting materials such as wool and string or you can gather your own nesting material and place it in the garden for the birds. For example, you can provide birds with pet hair, lint, or grass clippings. Just place the materials into the hollow of a tree or attach them to a pile of twigs.\\n3. Providing a Natural Habitat for the Birds\\n3-1. Plant native trees and shrubs.\\nLocal birds love native plants because they provide a great food source. Habitat loss is one of the leading causes of population declines among birds, and as a result, it is very important to grow native plant species. Select a variety of native plants that will offer birds year round food in the form of berries, nuts, and nectar. The best way to create a plentiful garden year round, is to mimic the plant ecosystem native to the area. Plants will also give birds shelter from potential predators, and natural nesting sites. Here are a few plant suggestions:\\nBlack-eyed Susans and Sunflowers: Are an excellent source of food for some birds because their seeds and flowers are edible.\\nFerns, thistles, and sumacs: Are great for producing materials that birds use while constructing nests.\\nCrabapples, Dogwoods, and Serviceberries: Are a great source of food and provide birds with small edible fruits and berries.\\nConiferous trees: Pines and Spruce trees, for example, provide birds with cover and protection from predator species as well as sap and seeds for eating. They also make great nesting sites for many birds.\\nDeciduous trees: Oak, Cherry, and Hickory trees, to name a few, provide birds with nesting sites as well as multiple food sources. For instance, these trees often produce edible nuts and are home to a variety of insects.\\n3-2. Keep dead trees in your garden.\\nDead trees can provide birds with a source of shelter and food. For example, dead trees will often contain hollow areas and alcoves that birds can use for nesting or to seek shelter from the weather. Insects are also often found on dead trees and can provide birds with a great source of food.\\n3-3. Create a brush pile.\\nBrush piles can provide birds with an area to hunt, roost, and even nest. Begin by putting down a few large logs, then add some smaller branches and leaves. This is relatively easy and can be a great way to make use of garden clippings after you have pruned the trees, hedges, and shrubs in your garden.\\nBrush piles also contain many insects and will provide ground feeders with an excellent food source. For instance, some bird species will never land on, or use, a bird feeder because they like to eat insects off the ground. Robins, Towhees, and Thrashers, for example, will use these piles as a food source.\\n3-4. Remove invasive plant species from your garden.\\nInvasive plants will compete with native plants for space, water, and sunlight. They can often out-compete the plants that are preferred by local bird and insect populations. As a result, you should minimize and remove the number of invasive species that are planted within your garden.\\n3-5. Reduce the lawn area in your yard.\\nLarge areas of manicured lawn provides very little of substance for bird populations. If you want to attract birds to your garden, you should reduce the lawn area and ensure that the garden is filled with local plants, water sources, and feeders. Manicured grass is essentially wasted space and requires more maintenance in the form of mowing, watering, and fertilizing.\\nTips\\nBe patient when attracting birds to your garden. They will come, but it may take some time for them to locate the new food and water sources in the area.\\nMake sure the bird feeders are at least 6 feet (1.8 m) off the ground to reduce the risk of a predator getting to the bird.\\nWarnings\\nAttracting a variety of birds to your garden can also result in competition between species. You may find that you prefer some birds over others. Monitor the habits of the birds in your area and cater your garden to attract specific species.\\nDo not use insecticides in your garden. Insects are an extremely important part of the diet for many bird species. Using insecticides will eliminate bugs making it difficult for bird populations, especially those feeding young birds.[21]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Birds are funny, interesting, and wildly amusing to watch and care for in your garden. 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Use a tray feeder that has a screened, rather than solid, bottom in order to allow for drainage. Water build up after rain can cause seeds to rot and facilitate the development of bacteria. Also bird droppings can contaminate the food.\\nHouse feeders: Attract finches, blue jays, cardinals, buntings, grosbeaks, sparrows, chickadees, and titmice. The feeders are covered and, therefore, the seeds are protected from water and droppings. You can mount hopper feeders on a pole or suspend them from a tree.\\nTube feeders: Are cylindrical feeders with tiny feeding holes to allow for smaller seeds, such as Nyjer. These feeders often have small perches and attract smaller birds such as finches, sparrows, titmice, chickadees, and grosbeaks.\\nSuet feeders: Are constructed of wire or plastic mesh and can be nailed or tied to a tree trunk, suspended, or attached to a hopper feeder. These feeders attract woodpeckers, nuthatches, chickadees, blue jays, and starlings.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Provide a variety of bird food.\", \"描述\": \"Different types of birds eat different types of food. If you want to attract a variety of birds to your yard, you will need to put out multiple feeders with different types of seeds. For instance, try sunflower seeds, nyger seeds, seed mixes, suet, and nectar. Use these helpful tips in order to choose the food that is best for the birds within your local area:\\nSunflower seeds: Are the most popular seeds and will attract a large variety of birds to your garden including blue jays, cardinals, finches, chickadees, nuthatches, and sparrows. You can also purchase sunflower seeds that have already been removed from their shells in order to avoid a large mess beneath your feeder.\\nNyjer seeds: Are very small, high quality seeds that attract a variety of finches, indigo buntings, pine siskins, and common redpolls. Because these seeds are so small, they require a special feeder with smaller holes, such as a tube feeder.\\nSeed mixes: Are popular among new birders because they offer a variety of seeds and attract a range of bird species. They can be quite messy, though, because birds will pick through the seeds to find what they like. This behaviour will attract ground feeders such as doves, juncos, sparrows, and even squirrels.\\nSuet: Is a great source of protein for birds, especially during the winter months. It consists of a cake of animal fat that is sometimes covered in seeds. In order to provide birds with suet, you will need to use a special suet feeder. Suet will attract woodpeckers, nuthatches, wrens, and jays, and starlings.\\nNectar: Is a combination of sugar and water and requires a special feeder. Typically, nectar is used to feed hummingbirds. To make hummingbird nectar you will need to dissolve one part sugar into four parts hot water. 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Look for a nest box made from thick wood (15-19mm thick) such as cedar, oak, or beech. Thinner woods, such as pine will not last as long. A nest box made out of ceramic will likely be too hot or too cold for chicks to survive.\\nChoose a box that is the right size for the bird you want to attract. Different birds will need different sized nest boxes.\\nDo not get a box with a perch. Perches are not necessary for nest boxes and can actually provide a way for predators such as weasels to access eggs and chicks living in the nest box.\\nYou can also make your own nesting box.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Install the nest box in a safe and quiet location.\", \"描述\": \"Nest boxes should be hung up early in the spring before birds begin to nest. It is very important that you choose a safe location so that birds will feel safe and remain nesting in your garden each year. 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2,716 | How to Attract Boys | 1. Dressing Attractively
1-1. Think about what kind of style you’d like to have.
Your style can show people your interests and give them a preview of your personality. There are plenty of different styles to choose from, including preppy, sporty, edgy, hipster, and many more. Look for clothes that you like online and try to come up with a style that fits your personality.
If your style doesn’t fit into a category, that’s okay. There’s nothing wrong with being unique! The most important thing is that you’re comfortable in confident in what you wear.
1-2. Consider what you’ll be doing during the day when you get dressed in the morning.
Think about your plans for the day and any activities that you have going on. Sometimes, being too dressed up can come off as intimidating to boys. Try to keep your outfits casual unless it’s a special occasion like a dance or party.
If you’re playing volleyball in gym class, it’s probably not the best day to wear a dress to school.
If you’re worried about being over-dressed, ask your friends what they’re planning on wearing. This will give you a better idea of what everyone else is doing and keep you from sticking out.
1-3. Wear clothes that fit you well and feel comfortable.
When it comes to fashion, you can find clothes for your body no matter what size you are. The number on the tag isn’t important as long as the clothes fit, and you feel comfortable and confident in them. When you’re shopping, always try on your clothes before you buy them, and ask a friend or your parent what they think.
Make sure your clothes fit the dress code for your school and aren’t too revealing. That includes making sure your shirts aren’t too tight or low-cut and shorts and skirts are long enough.
If you’re shopping for tops, make sure they aren’t too tight and that you can freely move your arms up and down. Check to make sure long sleeves hit around your wrist.
If you’re buying jeans, make sure the button and zipper lay flat against your body when fastened. In the dressing room, touch your toes and bend your knees to make sure you can move around in them. If the waist is a little big but everywhere else fits, consider getting a belt.
When shopping for special occasions, like a dance, keep in mind that you can normally have dresses altered to fit your body better. Very few people fit perfectly into dresses without some kind of alteration!
1-4. Style your hair in a way that is comfortable and makes you feel pretty.
In the mornings, wash and dry your hair before styling it for the day. If you like your natural hair, leave it down after drying it. Curling your hair is a great way to draw attention to your beautiful hair, especially if you normally wear it straight! The most important part is that you feel happy with how it looks.
For a quick and easy look, pull your hair into a high ponytail or a braid if you have long hair.
If you have shorter hair, a headband can keep your hair out of your face.
1-5. Wear makeup that highlights your natural beauty
Most boys don’t really understand makeup, but it can be helpful for giving yourself some confidence. If you have a blemish on your face, you can cover it with some concealer. To draw attention to your eyes, apply a swipe or two of mascara.
Products like brightly colored eyeshadow or bold lipstick can be intimidating to boys, so it’s better to show off your natural beauty.
If you have issues with your skin, like redness or acne, don’t worry. Plenty of girls deal with these problems, and most of them can be taken care of by making a skincare routine that includes cleanser, spot treatment, and moisturizer.
1-6. Take care of your body
One of the best ways to attract boys is by making sure you’re clean and look nice. Make sure you shower every day, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, exercise, and eat a healthy diet. Getting enough sleep at night and drinking water will also help to improve your skin and mood throughout the day.
Men are attracted to all different types of women, so don’t worry so much about losing weight to fit the idea of a pretty girl in your mind. As long as you’re staying healthy and you’re confident in yourself, boys will like you!
2. Having an Attractive Attitude
2-1. Smile
Smiling is scientifically proven to cause boys to find you more beautiful, especially in situations where you want him to approach you. If you want to talk to a guy, smile at him to let him know that you’re interested in him and are happy to talk.
Don’t feel like you have to be happy all the time, though. It’s okay to have other emotions, and you don’t have to smile if you don’t feel like it.
2-2. Exhibit confidence
Sitting up straight and making eye contact will show boys that you’re confident in yourself. When you’re speaking, talk clearly and loud enough so that he can hear you. If you’re talking about something that you’re passionate about, let your knowledge show!
If you’re shy when it comes to meeting new people, focus on listening and responding to what the guy you’re interested in is saying. Remember that you’re smart and funny, and he’ll be able to see it, too!
Avoid bragging about your accomplishments or skills in front of boys. This can be intimidating to them and make them feel inadequate. You can bring up your achievements, but be sure to involve other people in the conversation as well!
2-3. Be open-minded
Everyone is attracted to people who are open to new experiences and information. If you’re talking to a guy about something that you disagree on, listen to what he has to say and encourage him to listen to your point of view. Keeping an open mind is especially important when it comes to meeting new people.
This doesn’t mean that you have to change your opinion whenever you disagree with a boy about something. Just be sure to be respectful of their point of view, even if you strongly disagree.
2-4. Avoid drama and gossip between your friends and other guys.
Boys tend to find gossip and drama unnecessary and confusing. If your friends are fighting or you don’t like one of your exes, try to avoid talking about it at first. Sometimes, boys think that if you have drama with other people, you’ll have it with them too.
Having positive and happy friendships is a sign to guys that you’re able to have good relationships. Even if you’re currently having drama with your friends, try to focus on the positive things about your friendship!
3. Getting a Boy to Like You
3-1. Give him a compliment on something that you like about him.
Being nice is a great way to make a boy feel more comfortable around you. Keep your compliments genuine and specific, and say them with a smile so he knows that you aren’t teasing him. Sometimes, it’s better to give compliments when you’re hanging out alone, to keep other people from making fun.
For example, if you’re both into sports, you can say something like “I like your Lebron James jersey, did you watch the game last night?”
If you’re working on a school project together, let him know that you admire his intelligence by saying something like “That’s a great idea, I would’ve never thought of that!”
3-2. Ask him questions about his hobbies and interests.
Focus on asking questions that require an explanation, not just a “yes” or a “no.” If you know you have a common interest, like music or sports, ask him questions to lead him into a conversation. Let him do the talking while you listen and throw in some comments here and there.
This is the best way to get to know a guy to see if you could actually like him beyond just a crush.
Letting him talk will show him that you’re interested in getting to know him better and that you’re a good listener.
3-3. Let your personality shine in your conversations.
Think about how you act around your girlfriends and how easily you can talk to them. Try to act the same way around the boy that you like by talking about things you both are interested in, like music, sports, or movies. Share your opinions and thoughts freely so he can get to know the real you.
If a guy seems less interested after you start talking to him, don’t worry about it. That just means that he’s not a good fit for you.
3-4. Make an excuse to touch his arm or hand.
Body language and touching are a great way to communicate to a guy that you like him without outwardly saying something. Sit close to him so that your knees are touching, and reach out to touch his arm or leg when he says something funny. This can signal to a guy that you’re interested in him as more than just a friend.
Avoid doing anything too overt, like grabbing his hand out of nowhere. This can scare him or make him think that you have the wrong impression about your relationship. Smaller gestures are better for figuring out how he feels.
3-5. Send him a text or like his posts on Instagram and Twitter.
It might seem simple, but guys are surprised when girls are confident enough to show interest in a public way, like on social media. Even a quick text to let him know that you saw something that made you think of him can ensure that you’re on his mind, too!
Sending a text can even start a whole conversation that can bring you closer together and give you something to talk about in person. Keep your texts light and flirty until you’re able to hang out with him and see how he’s feeling.
Be careful not to bombard him with notifications by sending multiple text messages in a row or liking more than 2 posts at a time. When responding to texts, send 1-2 messages as your response and then wait for him to answer.
3-6. Make time to be alone together.
Boys can sometimes act different when they’re alone with you. Ask him to partner with you for a project or even just talk to him between classes. This will give you time to see how he feels about you when no one is around, and gives him the opportunity to ask you out.
Most guys won’t ask out a girl in front their friends because they’ll be embarrassed if you say no in front of everyone. Alone time gives him a chance to talk to you without all of the pressure.
Tips
If a guy doesn’t seem to be showing interest in you, don’t take it personally. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you! He might be unsure of how to show it, or nervous about telling you.
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That includes making sure your shirts aren’t too tight or low-cut and shorts and skirts are long enough.\\nIf you’re shopping for tops, make sure they aren’t too tight and that you can freely move your arms up and down. Check to make sure long sleeves hit around your wrist.\\nIf you’re buying jeans, make sure the button and zipper lay flat against your body when fastened. In the dressing room, touch your toes and bend your knees to make sure you can move around in them. If the waist is a little big but everywhere else fits, consider getting a belt.\\nWhen shopping for special occasions, like a dance, keep in mind that you can normally have dresses altered to fit your body better. Very few people fit perfectly into dresses without some kind of alteration!\\n1-4. Style your hair in a way that is comfortable and makes you feel pretty.\\nIn the mornings, wash and dry your hair before styling it for the day. If you like your natural hair, leave it down after drying it. Curling your hair is a great way to draw attention to your beautiful hair, especially if you normally wear it straight! The most important part is that you feel happy with how it looks.\\nFor a quick and easy look, pull your hair into a high ponytail or a braid if you have long hair.\\nIf you have shorter hair, a headband can keep your hair out of your face.\\n1-5. Wear makeup that highlights your natural beauty\\nMost boys don’t really understand makeup, but it can be helpful for giving yourself some confidence. If you have a blemish on your face, you can cover it with some concealer. To draw attention to your eyes, apply a swipe or two of mascara.\\nProducts like brightly colored eyeshadow or bold lipstick can be intimidating to boys, so it’s better to show off your natural beauty.\\nIf you have issues with your skin, like redness or acne, don’t worry. Plenty of girls deal with these problems, and most of them can be taken care of by making a skincare routine that includes cleanser, spot treatment, and moisturizer.\\n1-6. Take care of your body\\nOne of the best ways to attract boys is by making sure you’re clean and look nice. Make sure you shower every day, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, exercise, and eat a healthy diet. Getting enough sleep at night and drinking water will also help to improve your skin and mood throughout the day.\\nMen are attracted to all different types of women, so don’t worry so much about losing weight to fit the idea of a pretty girl in your mind. As long as you’re staying healthy and you’re confident in yourself, boys will like you!\\n2. Having an Attractive Attitude\\n2-1. Smile\\nSmiling is scientifically proven to cause boys to find you more beautiful, especially in situations where you want him to approach you. If you want to talk to a guy, smile at him to let him know that you’re interested in him and are happy to talk.\\nDon’t feel like you have to be happy all the time, though. It’s okay to have other emotions, and you don’t have to smile if you don’t feel like it.\\n2-2. Exhibit confidence\\nSitting up straight and making eye contact will show boys that you’re confident in yourself. When you’re speaking, talk clearly and loud enough so that he can hear you. If you’re talking about something that you’re passionate about, let your knowledge show!\\nIf you’re shy when it comes to meeting new people, focus on listening and responding to what the guy you’re interested in is saying. Remember that you’re smart and funny, and he’ll be able to see it, too!\\nAvoid bragging about your accomplishments or skills in front of boys. This can be intimidating to them and make them feel inadequate. You can bring up your achievements, but be sure to involve other people in the conversation as well!\\n2-3. Be open-minded\\nEveryone is attracted to people who are open to new experiences and information. If you’re talking to a guy about something that you disagree on, listen to what he has to say and encourage him to listen to your point of view. Keeping an open mind is especially important when it comes to meeting new people.\\nThis doesn’t mean that you have to change your opinion whenever you disagree with a boy about something. Just be sure to be respectful of their point of view, even if you strongly disagree.\\n2-4. Avoid drama and gossip between your friends and other guys.\\nBoys tend to find gossip and drama unnecessary and confusing. If your friends are fighting or you don’t like one of your exes, try to avoid talking about it at first. Sometimes, boys think that if you have drama with other people, you’ll have it with them too.\\nHaving positive and happy friendships is a sign to guys that you’re able to have good relationships. Even if you’re currently having drama with your friends, try to focus on the positive things about your friendship!\\n3. Getting a Boy to Like You\\n3-1. Give him a compliment on something that you like about him.\\nBeing nice is a great way to make a boy feel more comfortable around you. Keep your compliments genuine and specific, and say them with a smile so he knows that you aren’t teasing him. Sometimes, it’s better to give compliments when you’re hanging out alone, to keep other people from making fun.\\nFor example, if you’re both into sports, you can say something like “I like your Lebron James jersey, did you watch the game last night?”\\nIf you’re working on a school project together, let him know that you admire his intelligence by saying something like “That’s a great idea, I would’ve never thought of that!”\\n3-2. Ask him questions about his hobbies and interests.\\nFocus on asking questions that require an explanation, not just a “yes” or a “no.” If you know you have a common interest, like music or sports, ask him questions to lead him into a conversation. Let him do the talking while you listen and throw in some comments here and there.\\nThis is the best way to get to know a guy to see if you could actually like him beyond just a crush.\\nLetting him talk will show him that you’re interested in getting to know him better and that you’re a good listener.\\n3-3. Let your personality shine in your conversations.\\nThink about how you act around your girlfriends and how easily you can talk to them. Try to act the same way around the boy that you like by talking about things you both are interested in, like music, sports, or movies. Share your opinions and thoughts freely so he can get to know the real you.\\nIf a guy seems less interested after you start talking to him, don’t worry about it. That just means that he’s not a good fit for you.\\n3-4. Make an excuse to touch his arm or hand.\\nBody language and touching are a great way to communicate to a guy that you like him without outwardly saying something. Sit close to him so that your knees are touching, and reach out to touch his arm or leg when he says something funny. This can signal to a guy that you’re interested in him as more than just a friend.\\nAvoid doing anything too overt, like grabbing his hand out of nowhere. This can scare him or make him think that you have the wrong impression about your relationship. Smaller gestures are better for figuring out how he feels.\\n3-5. Send him a text or like his posts on Instagram and Twitter.\\nIt might seem simple, but guys are surprised when girls are confident enough to show interest in a public way, like on social media. Even a quick text to let him know that you saw something that made you think of him can ensure that you’re on his mind, too!\\nSending a text can even start a whole conversation that can bring you closer together and give you something to talk about in person. Keep your texts light and flirty until you’re able to hang out with him and see how he’s feeling.\\nBe careful not to bombard him with notifications by sending multiple text messages in a row or liking more than 2 posts at a time. When responding to texts, send 1-2 messages as your response and then wait for him to answer.\\n3-6. Make time to be alone together.\\nBoys can sometimes act different when they’re alone with you. Ask him to partner with you for a project or even just talk to him between classes. This will give you time to see how he feels about you when no one is around, and gives him the opportunity to ask you out.\\nMost guys won’t ask out a girl in front their friends because they’ll be embarrassed if you say no in front of everyone. Alone time gives him a chance to talk to you without all of the pressure.\\nTips\\nIf a guy doesn’t seem to be showing interest in you, don’t take it personally. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you! He might be unsure of how to show it, or nervous about telling you.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Getting a boy to talk to you and like you might seem like an impossible task, especially if he’s shy. However, you can attract boys by showing off your positive attitude, talking to them, and being confident in yourself. 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2,717 | How to Attract Butterflies with Fruit | 1. Making a Butterfly Feeder
1-1. Place a plate on a larger saucer filled with water to keep ants away.
Unfortunately, ants will also want to snack on any fruit you leave out. Luckily, ants don’t cross water. By leaving the fruit on a plate and surrounding it with water, you can keep any ants away from your butterflies’ food.
Bees and wasps will also eat the fruit you leave out, so be careful so you or your family do not get stung.
Use sugar water on the bottom plate to give your butterflies a sweet drink.
Some birds may eat the fruit you leave out as well, but may grow disinterested when the fruit is overripe.
1-2. Wrap wires around a tree branch if you want to hang fruit.
Use a heavy gauge copper wire to form simple hooks. Space the hooks 6 inches (15 cm) apart along a tree branch in your yard. Once you hang the hooks on the branch, simply stab the fruit onto the hooks for an instant feeding station.
Fruit can also be stabbed through sturdy twigs attached to the main branch for a more natural feeder.
1-3. Build a hanging fruit tray from a plastic lid for a homemade feeder.
Use a hole punch to make 3 holes equal distances apart around the perimeter of a plastic lid from a large yogurt container. String a piece of twine through each of the holes twice and tie a knot to hold it secure. Tie the pieces of twine together at the top so you can hang the fruit tray anywhere in your yard. Place fruit pieces on the tray to attract butterflies.
Add colorful beads or silk flowers to the twine to make your feeder extra attractive for your butterflies.
This is an easy and safe craft you can do with children!
1-4. Use vibrant colors in your designs.
Even though butterflies have a great sense of smell and can probably find the fruit themselves, using bright colors will help attract them even more. Red, orange, yellow, pink, and purple decorations will bring more butterflies to your feeders.
Use plates with bright flower designs on them or even keep real flowers by your fruit feeders!
2. Setting out Fruit for Butterflies
2-1. Pick fruit that is ripe or overripe.
Since butterflies can’t chew their food, they need to drink the juices. Fruit that just ripe or fruit that is starting to get mushy is the best to keep in your feeders. When it comes to feeding butterflies, the softer the fruit, the easier it is to eat.
Butterflies aren’t picky when it comes to the fruit you leave out. Some commonly used fruits are mangos, watermelons, bananas, pineapples, oranges, and peaches. Experiment with different fruit to see what species you attract.
2-2. Cut the fruit into quarters to expose their flesh.
A butterfly proboscis can’t penetrate the thick peels of fruit. Use a sharp knife to slice the fruit open so the inside flesh is easier to eat and drink.
2-3. Make slits in the piece of fruit so the butterflies can get the juice.
In case the fruit still isn’t easy for a butterfly to eat, making multiple slits in the flesh of the fruit gives a space for the juice to collect. Using the same knife as before, make shallow cuts into each piece of fruit you’re leaving out.
You can also scrape the fruit or stab multiple holes into it with the tines of a fork for a similar effect.
2-4. Move the fruit at night to prevent unwanted pests.
Fruit left out overnight may attract raccoons or other destructive mammals to your yard. Store fruit in a cool place like a garage or shed overnight and put it back in the morning. As the fruit keeps rotting, it will get softer and easier for the butterflies to eat.
Replace the fruit once the fruits have turned black or moldy.
If you save the fruit, cut ⁄8 inch (3.2 mm) into the fruit with a knife or fork each day so there is easy access to the juices.
Tips
You can mash the fruit beforehand, though it is not required.
Try a variety of fruit. Different fruit may attract different species of butterflies to your yard.
Warnings
Fruit will also attract bees and wasps. Be mindful of the fruit so you don’t get stung.
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Once you hang the hooks on the branch, simply stab the fruit onto the hooks for an instant feeding station.\\nFruit can also be stabbed through sturdy twigs attached to the main branch for a more natural feeder.\\n1-3. Build a hanging fruit tray from a plastic lid for a homemade feeder.\\nUse a hole punch to make 3 holes equal distances apart around the perimeter of a plastic lid from a large yogurt container. String a piece of twine through each of the holes twice and tie a knot to hold it secure. Tie the pieces of twine together at the top so you can hang the fruit tray anywhere in your yard. Place fruit pieces on the tray to attract butterflies.\\nAdd colorful beads or silk flowers to the twine to make your feeder extra attractive for your butterflies.\\nThis is an easy and safe craft you can do with children!\\n1-4. Use vibrant colors in your designs.\\nEven though butterflies have a great sense of smell and can probably find the fruit themselves, using bright colors will help attract them even more. Red, orange, yellow, pink, and purple decorations will bring more butterflies to your feeders.\\nUse plates with bright flower designs on them or even keep real flowers by your fruit feeders!\\n2. Setting out Fruit for Butterflies\\n2-1. Pick fruit that is ripe or overripe.\\nSince butterflies can’t chew their food, they need to drink the juices. Fruit that just ripe or fruit that is starting to get mushy is the best to keep in your feeders. When it comes to feeding butterflies, the softer the fruit, the easier it is to eat.\\nButterflies aren’t picky when it comes to the fruit you leave out. Some commonly used fruits are mangos, watermelons, bananas, pineapples, oranges, and peaches. Experiment with different fruit to see what species you attract.\\n2-2. Cut the fruit into quarters to expose their flesh.\\nA butterfly proboscis can’t penetrate the thick peels of fruit. Use a sharp knife to slice the fruit open so the inside flesh is easier to eat and drink.\\n2-3. Make slits in the piece of fruit so the butterflies can get the juice.\\nIn case the fruit still isn’t easy for a butterfly to eat, making multiple slits in the flesh of the fruit gives a space for the juice to collect. Using the same knife as before, make shallow cuts into each piece of fruit you’re leaving out.\\nYou can also scrape the fruit or stab multiple holes into it with the tines of a fork for a similar effect.\\n2-4. Move the fruit at night to prevent unwanted pests.\\nFruit left out overnight may attract raccoons or other destructive mammals to your yard. Store fruit in a cool place like a garage or shed overnight and put it back in the morning. As the fruit keeps rotting, it will get softer and easier for the butterflies to eat.\\nReplace the fruit once the fruits have turned black or moldy.\\nIf you save the fruit, cut ⁄8 inch (3.2 mm) into the fruit with a knife or fork each day so there is easy access to the juices.\\nTips\\nYou can mash the fruit beforehand, though it is not required.\\nTry a variety of fruit. Different fruit may attract different species of butterflies to your yard.\\nWarnings\\nFruit will also attract bees and wasps. Be mindful of the fruit so you don’t get stung.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Butterflies are welcome guests to your home and garden. Not only do they help pollinate your plants, but they’re also beautiful to look at. If you want more butterflies in your yard, attracting them is as easy as making a fruit salad. By making a simple feeder and leaving out fruit, your yard will soon be full of butterflies for the summer!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Making a Butterfly Feeder\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Place a plate on a larger saucer filled with water to keep ants away.\", \"描述\": \"Unfortunately, ants will also want to snack on any fruit you leave out. Luckily, ants don’t cross water. By leaving the fruit on a plate and surrounding it with water, you can keep any ants away from your butterflies’ food.\\nBees and wasps will also eat the fruit you leave out, so be careful so you or your family do not get stung.\\nUse sugar water on the bottom plate to give your butterflies a sweet drink.\\nSome birds may eat the fruit you leave out as well, but may grow disinterested when the fruit is overripe.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wrap wires around a tree branch if you want to hang fruit.\", \"描述\": \"Use a heavy gauge copper wire to form simple hooks. Space the hooks 6 inches (15 cm) apart along a tree branch in your yard. Once you hang the hooks on the branch, simply stab the fruit onto the hooks for an instant feeding station.\\nFruit can also be stabbed through sturdy twigs attached to the main branch for a more natural feeder.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Build a hanging fruit tray from a plastic lid for a homemade feeder.\", \"描述\": \"Use a hole punch to make 3 holes equal distances apart around the perimeter of a plastic lid from a large yogurt container. String a piece of twine through each of the holes twice and tie a knot to hold it secure. Tie the pieces of twine together at the top so you can hang the fruit tray anywhere in your yard. Place fruit pieces on the tray to attract butterflies.\\nAdd colorful beads or silk flowers to the twine to make your feeder extra attractive for your butterflies.\\nThis is an easy and safe craft you can do with children!\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use vibrant colors in your designs.\", \"描述\": \"Even though butterflies have a great sense of smell and can probably find the fruit themselves, using bright colors will help attract them even more. Red, orange, yellow, pink, and purple decorations will bring more butterflies to your feeders.\\nUse plates with bright flower designs on them or even keep real flowers by your fruit feeders!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Setting out Fruit for Butterflies\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pick fruit that is ripe or overripe.\", \"描述\": \"Since butterflies can’t chew their food, they need to drink the juices. Fruit that just ripe or fruit that is starting to get mushy is the best to keep in your feeders. When it comes to feeding butterflies, the softer the fruit, the easier it is to eat.\\nButterflies aren’t picky when it comes to the fruit you leave out. Some commonly used fruits are mangos, watermelons, bananas, pineapples, oranges, and peaches. Experiment with different fruit to see what species you attract.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Cut the fruit into quarters to expose their flesh.\", \"描述\": \"A butterfly proboscis can’t penetrate the thick peels of fruit. Use a sharp knife to slice the fruit open so the inside flesh is easier to eat and drink.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make slits in the piece of fruit so the butterflies can get the juice.\", \"描述\": \"In case the fruit still isn’t easy for a butterfly to eat, making multiple slits in the flesh of the fruit gives a space for the juice to collect. Using the same knife as before, make shallow cuts into each piece of fruit you’re leaving out.\\nYou can also scrape the fruit or stab multiple holes into it with the tines of a fork for a similar effect.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Move the fruit at night to prevent unwanted pests.\", \"描述\": \"Fruit left out overnight may attract raccoons or other destructive mammals to your yard. Store fruit in a cool place like a garage or shed overnight and put it back in the morning. As the fruit keeps rotting, it will get softer and easier for the butterflies to eat.\\nReplace the fruit once the fruits have turned black or moldy.\\nIf you save the fruit, cut ⁄8 inch (3.2 mm) into the fruit with a knife or fork each day so there is easy access to the juices.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"You can mash the fruit beforehand, though it is not required.\\n\", \"Try a variety of fruit. 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2,718 | How to Attract Cardinals | 1. Making Your Yard Attractive to Cardinals
1-1. Make sure cardinals are native to your area.
Northern cardinals are found throughout eastern and central North America from southern Canada into parts of Mexico and Central America. These birds live as far north as Maine or Nova Scotia, Canada down south through Florida and the Gulf Coast. They range as far west as South Dakota, Nebraska, and Texas.
Cardinals have also been introduced to California, Hawaii, and Bermuda.
Northern cardinals do not migrate so they live in the same place year-round.
1-2. Buy a bird feeder.
Cardinals prefer stationary or platform feeders over a hanging variety. Make sure the feeder is sturdy enough to handle the weight of a cardinal (which is equal to 9 US nickels) and that the perches are long enough for the birds to fit on them.
Cardinals also like to have cover near feeders, so place it close to trees or shrubs that the birds can flee to if they are frightened.
Make sure the bird feeder is mounted at least 4–5 ft (1.2–1.5 m) off the ground to protect the birds from predators and other animals.
Cardinals like areas with dense foliage and high perches but usually stick to the edges of forests. Suburban landscaping and common backyard trees and scrubs are usually attractive habitats to cardinals.
1-3. Provide water.
Place a bird bath a few meters away. Bird baths do take a bit of upkeep to keep them clean and attractive to birds. Clean the birdbath every week or more often if used heavily.
Scrub the bird feeder with a stiff brush, rinse it with cold water, and then refill it.
If you have a buildup of algae or scum on the birdbath, use a mixture of one part chlorine bleach to nine parts water to clean the bath.
Rinse thoroughly before refilling the bath with fresh water.
If you live in an area where it freezes in winter, a heated birdbath will be very popular with your cardinals.
1-4. Make sure there are places for cardinals to nest in your yard.
Cardinals will not nest in nesting boxes, so you just need to make sure there are natural places for the birds. They like thick trees, thickets, or shrubs, where they can nest between 3 and 20 feet off the ground.
Food and water don't need to be really close to the potential nesting area, but should be relatively close.
For instance, if the thick shrubs are in the back of your house and the food and water are in the front, it should be ok.
1-5. Watch for cardinals in your yard.
Cardinals feed most heavily in the morning and evening, so keep track of their daily visits for maximum viewing. They shouldn't be hard to spot, due to their beautiful, brilliant color.
Male and female cardinals look different.
Male cardinals are typically bright red overall, with a black ring around the beak.
Female cardinals are usually predominately brown, with bright red bills and a red crest on the top of their heads.
1-6. Keep your yard free of predators and harmful chemicals.
Keep household pets away from feeders, birdbaths, and nesting areas. Avoid using deadly poisons, such as herbicides, insecticides, or fertilizers, in the vicinity of your feeders and birdbaths. Lawn-care chemicals, for instance, are known to contaminate bird food and water and kill all types of songbirds.
Help cardinals by eliminating the reflection on your windows near feeding or nesting areas.
Cardinals are known to fly into windows, which can seriously injure or kill them.
Install bird netting, awnings, window screens, or flash tape on the outside of your windows to help cardinals avoid crashing into your windows.
2. Feeding Cardinals
2-1. Put sunflower or safflower seeds in your feeder.
Black Sunflower seeds are a favorite of cardinals. However, cardinals also like safflower seeds and white milo.
If you are concerned about litter from seeds, buy hulled sunflower seeds.
Just make sure to change hulled seeds more often, since they go bad more easily than seeds with shells.
Cardinals like large seeds. They will eat smaller seeds if nothing else is available, but they prefer large seeds, such as sunflower, safflower, peanuts, or cracked corn.
2-2. Put a suet feeder out in winter to provide birds with extra energy.
Suet is essentially a block of animal fat mixed with seeds. While this will probably not be the primary feeding choice of cardinals in your area, they may come to a suet feeder to find extra food in the winter.
Only offer suet in colder months. If it gets too hot, it can melt and go rancid.
2-3. Put food on the ground as well.
Cardinals are actually ground feeders, so they will happily eat off the ground. If you have a patch of ground that is away from low bushes or shrubs, where predators may hide, you can also scatter seed there.
Be warned that ground feeding will also be attractive to squirrels and insects.
If you have a lot of squirrels in your area, avoid ground feeding and use squirrel baffles or squirrel proof feeders.
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Make sure the feeder is sturdy enough to handle the weight of a cardinal (which is equal to 9 US nickels) and that the perches are long enough for the birds to fit on them.\\nCardinals also like to have cover near feeders, so place it close to trees or shrubs that the birds can flee to if they are frightened.\\nMake sure the bird feeder is mounted at least 4–5 ft (1.2–1.5 m) off the ground to protect the birds from predators and other animals.\\nCardinals like areas with dense foliage and high perches but usually stick to the edges of forests. Suburban landscaping and common backyard trees and scrubs are usually attractive habitats to cardinals.\\n1-3. Provide water.\\nPlace a bird bath a few meters away. Bird baths do take a bit of upkeep to keep them clean and attractive to birds. Clean the birdbath every week or more often if used heavily.\\nScrub the bird feeder with a stiff brush, rinse it with cold water, and then refill it.\\nIf you have a buildup of algae or scum on the birdbath, use a mixture of one part chlorine bleach to nine parts water to clean the bath.\\nRinse thoroughly before refilling the bath with fresh water.\\nIf you live in an area where it freezes in winter, a heated birdbath will be very popular with your cardinals.\\n1-4. Make sure there are places for cardinals to nest in your yard.\\nCardinals will not nest in nesting boxes, so you just need to make sure there are natural places for the birds. They like thick trees, thickets, or shrubs, where they can nest between 3 and 20 feet off the ground.\\nFood and water don't need to be really close to the potential nesting area, but should be relatively close.\\nFor instance, if the thick shrubs are in the back of your house and the food and water are in the front, it should be ok.\\n1-5. Watch for cardinals in your yard.\\nCardinals feed most heavily in the morning and evening, so keep track of their daily visits for maximum viewing. They shouldn't be hard to spot, due to their beautiful, brilliant color.\\nMale and female cardinals look different.\\nMale cardinals are typically bright red overall, with a black ring around the beak.\\nFemale cardinals are usually predominately brown, with bright red bills and a red crest on the top of their heads.\\n1-6. Keep your yard free of predators and harmful chemicals.\\nKeep household pets away from feeders, birdbaths, and nesting areas. Avoid using deadly poisons, such as herbicides, insecticides, or fertilizers, in the vicinity of your feeders and birdbaths. Lawn-care chemicals, for instance, are known to contaminate bird food and water and kill all types of songbirds.\\nHelp cardinals by eliminating the reflection on your windows near feeding or nesting areas.\\nCardinals are known to fly into windows, which can seriously injure or kill them.\\nInstall bird netting, awnings, window screens, or flash tape on the outside of your windows to help cardinals avoid crashing into your windows.\\n2. Feeding Cardinals\\n2-1. Put sunflower or safflower seeds in your feeder.\\nBlack Sunflower seeds are a favorite of cardinals. However, cardinals also like safflower seeds and white milo.\\nIf you are concerned about litter from seeds, buy hulled sunflower seeds.\\nJust make sure to change hulled seeds more often, since they go bad more easily than seeds with shells.\\nCardinals like large seeds. They will eat smaller seeds if nothing else is available, but they prefer large seeds, such as sunflower, safflower, peanuts, or cracked corn.\\n2-2. Put a suet feeder out in winter to provide birds with extra energy.\\nSuet is essentially a block of animal fat mixed with seeds. While this will probably not be the primary feeding choice of cardinals in your area, they may come to a suet feeder to find extra food in the winter.\\nOnly offer suet in colder months. If it gets too hot, it can melt and go rancid.\\n2-3. Put food on the ground as well.\\nCardinals are actually ground feeders, so they will happily eat off the ground. If you have a patch of ground that is away from low bushes or shrubs, where predators may hide, you can also scatter seed there.\\nBe warned that ground feeding will also be attractive to squirrels and insects.\\nIf you have a lot of squirrels in your area, avoid ground feeding and use squirrel baffles or squirrel proof feeders.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Cardinals are a wonderful species to see in your yard, especially in the winter, when their bright red color contrasts so nicely with white snow. If you live in eastern North America, and you are not seeing enough cardinals in your yard, you can attract them with very little effort. If you provide adequate food, shelter, and water for cardinals, they are likely to visit your home often and enthusiastically.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Making Your Yard Attractive to Cardinals\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make sure cardinals are native to your area.\", \"描述\": \"Northern cardinals are found throughout eastern and central North America from southern Canada into parts of Mexico and Central America. These birds live as far north as Maine or Nova Scotia, Canada down south through Florida and the Gulf Coast. They range as far west as South Dakota, Nebraska, and Texas.\\nCardinals have also been introduced to California, Hawaii, and Bermuda.\\nNorthern cardinals do not migrate so they live in the same place year-round.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Buy a bird feeder.\", \"描述\": \"Cardinals prefer stationary or platform feeders over a hanging variety. Make sure the feeder is sturdy enough to handle the weight of a cardinal (which is equal to 9 US nickels) and that the perches are long enough for the birds to fit on them.\\nCardinals also like to have cover near feeders, so place it close to trees or shrubs that the birds can flee to if they are frightened.\\nMake sure the bird feeder is mounted at least 4–5 ft (1.2–1.5 m) off the ground to protect the birds from predators and other animals.\\nCardinals like areas with dense foliage and high perches but usually stick to the edges of forests. Suburban landscaping and common backyard trees and scrubs are usually attractive habitats to cardinals.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Provide water.\", \"描述\": \"Place a bird bath a few meters away. Bird baths do take a bit of upkeep to keep them clean and attractive to birds. Clean the birdbath every week or more often if used heavily.\\nScrub the bird feeder with a stiff brush, rinse it with cold water, and then refill it.\\nIf you have a buildup of algae or scum on the birdbath, use a mixture of one part chlorine bleach to nine parts water to clean the bath.\\nRinse thoroughly before refilling the bath with fresh water.\\nIf you live in an area where it freezes in winter, a heated birdbath will be very popular with your cardinals.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Make sure there are places for cardinals to nest in your yard.\", \"描述\": \"Cardinals will not nest in nesting boxes, so you just need to make sure there are natural places for the birds. They like thick trees, thickets, or shrubs, where they can nest between 3 and 20 feet off the ground.\\nFood and water don't need to be really close to the potential nesting area, but should be relatively close.\\nFor instance, if the thick shrubs are in the back of your house and the food and water are in the front, it should be ok.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Watch for cardinals in your yard.\", \"描述\": \"Cardinals feed most heavily in the morning and evening, so keep track of their daily visits for maximum viewing. They shouldn't be hard to spot, due to their beautiful, brilliant color.\\nMale and female cardinals look different.\\nMale cardinals are typically bright red overall, with a black ring around the beak.\\nFemale cardinals are usually predominately brown, with bright red bills and a red crest on the top of their heads.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Keep your yard free of predators and harmful chemicals.\", \"描述\": \"Keep household pets away from feeders, birdbaths, and nesting areas. Avoid using deadly poisons, such as herbicides, insecticides, or fertilizers, in the vicinity of your feeders and birdbaths. Lawn-care chemicals, for instance, are known to contaminate bird food and water and kill all types of songbirds.\\nHelp cardinals by eliminating the reflection on your windows near feeding or nesting areas.\\nCardinals are known to fly into windows, which can seriously injure or kill them.\\nInstall bird netting, awnings, window screens, or flash tape on the outside of your windows to help cardinals avoid crashing into your windows.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Feeding Cardinals\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Put sunflower or safflower seeds in your feeder.\", \"描述\": \"Black Sunflower seeds are a favorite of cardinals. However, cardinals also like safflower seeds and white milo.\\nIf you are concerned about litter from seeds, buy hulled sunflower seeds.\\nJust make sure to change hulled seeds more often, since they go bad more easily than seeds with shells.\\nCardinals like large seeds. 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2,719 | How to Attract Cats | 1. Luring Outdoor Cats
1-1. Place a pet carrier or upside-down box outside.
Use a small pet carrier for a cat that you already own, or use a cardboard box large enough for a cat to fit in. Flip the box upside down and use a pair of scissors or a utility knife to cut a 1 by 1 ft (30 by 30 cm) hole so a cat can fit inside.
Pet carriers can be purchased online or at your local pet store.
If you use a pet carrier with openings on top, weight a blanket on top to make the enclosure dark.
1-2. Line the bottom with soft bedding.
Use a fleece blanket or a similar soft fabric on the bottom of the enclosure to make it more comfortable for the cat. Use extra fabric so the cat is able to cover itself without pulling the bedding off of the floor.
1-3. Sprinkle catnip inside the enclosure.
Catnip is an herb that attracts cats and gives them a “high.” Pinch some catnip between your fingers and sprinkle it on the bedding. For added effect, spread a little bit around the outside of the enclosure so cats can smell it from a distance.
Catnip can be purchased at your local pet store or grown at home.
1-4. Use a can of wet food or tuna.
Cats can smell wet foods easier than they can smell dry foods. Once the can is opened, set it on the ground the enclosure. A cat may come when it’s ready to eat.
Keep a few extra cans in your pantry so you always have food when you need it.
Try different flavors of cat food to see what attracts the cat the most.
Let the cat eat without handling it. If it is an unfamiliar cat, leave it completely alone while it’s feeding. Talk at a normal volume around the cat so it can get used to your voice and associate it with feeding and good behavior.
1-5. Watch for cats around 2 AM.
Many cats are active while humans are asleep since they will be searching for food. Keep an eye on the enclosure to see if any cats come for the food or for a place to sleep.
2. Making a Shy Cat Trust You
2-1. Don’t make loud noises in the same room as a cat.
Avoid using vacuums, loud toys, or even brooms in the same room as a cat. Turn the volume of your music or TV to a reasonable level so the cat can get used to the common sounds of your home. While everything may sound like a lower volume to us, they are very loud to a cat’s sensitive ears.
If you need to clean in the same room as a cat, just be mindful of the noises you’re making so you don’t frighten them.
2-2. Allow the cat to come to you.
Sit still as the cat approaches you so it has a chance to get used to your scent and know that you will not harm it. Give the cat a chance to get used to you without attempting to handle it.
You can either stand, sit, or lay down as a cat approaches you, but be sure not to make any sudden movements.
2-3. Speak in a calm voice.
Talk at a normal volume and avoid using baby talk or a high-pitched voice while addressing your cat. Loud noises will spook the cat, so avoid yelling while you’re around it. As you speak to your cat more, it will start to have a sense of security around you.
2-4. Pet the cat slowly and watch its body language.
Make slow and predictable movements so you don’t startle the cat. Start petting it on its back and slowly work towards scratching behind its ears. If your cat tenses up or raises its hair, stop petting it and let it calm down.
2-5. Give the cat treats after good behavior.
As the cat gets used to you, give it a small treat as a reward. As it starts to grow closer to you, it will associate their good actions with one of their treats and continue to repeat them.
Keep treats near you to attract the cat and associate you as a safe person. Don’t pet it as it eats or you may startle it.
3. Getting Your Lost Cat Back Home
3-1. Place your cat’s soiled litter outside.
If you’re trying to get a lost cat back home, set the litter box just outside near your home. Your cat may smell it and come back since this is where it is comfortable doing their business.
Make sure the litter has been used so your cat can smell it. Fresh litter will not work as effectively.
Place a T-shirt or clothes you’ve worn recently near the litter so your cat is attracted to your scent.
3-2. Shake a container of treats to draw them closer.
If the cat is trained or housebroken, it may recognize the sound of their treats. Jostle the container so it makes a noise and see if the cat comes closer.
Cats associate treats with good behavior if they’re trained well.
3-3. Call the cat’s name.
Use your regular voice when you say its name so you don’t startle it. Cats will recognize their owner’s voice and may come back when they hear you calling them.
Have a treat ready so if the cat comes to you, you can reward it for good behavior.
Tips
Don’t make sudden loud movements around a new cat. This will startle them and scare them away rather than drawing them closer.
Leave clothes that you’ve worn near food bowls or a hiding area so the cat can get used to your scent.
Warnings
Cats tend to be protective, nocturnal, fearful, and VERY clever. Don't be upset if it doesn't work the first time.
Never give cats milk. Contrary to popular belief, most cats have allergies to dairy and milk of any kind can cause serious problems.
Be careful around feral cats since they have had little or no interaction with humans. Don’t try to handle them right away since they may bite or scratch.
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For added effect, spread a little bit around the outside of the enclosure so cats can smell it from a distance.\\nCatnip can be purchased at your local pet store or grown at home.\\n1-4. Use a can of wet food or tuna.\\nCats can smell wet foods easier than they can smell dry foods. Once the can is opened, set it on the ground the enclosure. A cat may come when it’s ready to eat.\\nKeep a few extra cans in your pantry so you always have food when you need it.\\nTry different flavors of cat food to see what attracts the cat the most.\\nLet the cat eat without handling it. If it is an unfamiliar cat, leave it completely alone while it’s feeding. Talk at a normal volume around the cat so it can get used to your voice and associate it with feeding and good behavior.\\n1-5. Watch for cats around 2 AM.\\nMany cats are active while humans are asleep since they will be searching for food. Keep an eye on the enclosure to see if any cats come for the food or for a place to sleep.\\n2. Making a Shy Cat Trust You\\n2-1. Don’t make loud noises in the same room as a cat.\\nAvoid using vacuums, loud toys, or even brooms in the same room as a cat. Turn the volume of your music or TV to a reasonable level so the cat can get used to the common sounds of your home. While everything may sound like a lower volume to us, they are very loud to a cat’s sensitive ears.\\nIf you need to clean in the same room as a cat, just be mindful of the noises you’re making so you don’t frighten them.\\n2-2. Allow the cat to come to you.\\nSit still as the cat approaches you so it has a chance to get used to your scent and know that you will not harm it. Give the cat a chance to get used to you without attempting to handle it.\\nYou can either stand, sit, or lay down as a cat approaches you, but be sure not to make any sudden movements.\\n2-3. Speak in a calm voice.\\nTalk at a normal volume and avoid using baby talk or a high-pitched voice while addressing your cat. Loud noises will spook the cat, so avoid yelling while you’re around it. As you speak to your cat more, it will start to have a sense of security around you.\\n2-4. Pet the cat slowly and watch its body language.\\nMake slow and predictable movements so you don’t startle the cat. Start petting it on its back and slowly work towards scratching behind its ears. If your cat tenses up or raises its hair, stop petting it and let it calm down.\\n2-5. Give the cat treats after good behavior.\\nAs the cat gets used to you, give it a small treat as a reward. As it starts to grow closer to you, it will associate their good actions with one of their treats and continue to repeat them.\\nKeep treats near you to attract the cat and associate you as a safe person. Don’t pet it as it eats or you may startle it.\\n3. Getting Your Lost Cat Back Home\\n3-1. Place your cat’s soiled litter outside.\\nIf you’re trying to get a lost cat back home, set the litter box just outside near your home. Your cat may smell it and come back since this is where it is comfortable doing their business.\\nMake sure the litter has been used so your cat can smell it. Fresh litter will not work as effectively.\\nPlace a T-shirt or clothes you’ve worn recently near the litter so your cat is attracted to your scent.\\n3-2. Shake a container of treats to draw them closer.\\nIf the cat is trained or housebroken, it may recognize the sound of their treats. Jostle the container so it makes a noise and see if the cat comes closer.\\nCats associate treats with good behavior if they’re trained well.\\n3-3. Call the cat’s name.\\nUse your regular voice when you say its name so you don’t startle it. Cats will recognize their owner’s voice and may come back when they hear you calling them.\\nHave a treat ready so if the cat comes to you, you can reward it for good behavior.\\nTips\\nDon’t make sudden loud movements around a new cat. This will startle them and scare them away rather than drawing them closer.\\nLeave clothes that you’ve worn near food bowls or a hiding area so the cat can get used to your scent.\\nWarnings\\nCats tend to be protective, nocturnal, fearful, and VERY clever. Don't be upset if it doesn't work the first time.\\nNever give cats milk. Contrary to popular belief, most cats have allergies to dairy and milk of any kind can cause serious problems.\\nBe careful around feral cats since they have had little or no interaction with humans. Don’t try to handle them right away since they may bite or scratch.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"New cats may be shy or scared of you when you first interact with them. Luckily, there are easy ways to make a cat come closer and trust you. Whether you're trying to attract cats outside or build trust in an indoor cat, with a little patience and dedication, you can make any reluctant cat come to you!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Luring Outdoor Cats\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Place a pet carrier or upside-down box outside.\", \"描述\": \"Use a small pet carrier for a cat that you already own, or use a cardboard box large enough for a cat to fit in. Flip the box upside down and use a pair of scissors or a utility knife to cut a 1 by 1 ft (30 by 30 cm) hole so a cat can fit inside.\\nPet carriers can be purchased online or at your local pet store.\\nIf you use a pet carrier with openings on top, weight a blanket on top to make the enclosure dark.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Line the bottom with soft bedding.\", \"描述\": \"Use a fleece blanket or a similar soft fabric on the bottom of the enclosure to make it more comfortable for the cat. Use extra fabric so the cat is able to cover itself without pulling the bedding off of the floor.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Sprinkle catnip inside the enclosure.\", \"描述\": \"Catnip is an herb that attracts cats and gives them a “high.” Pinch some catnip between your fingers and sprinkle it on the bedding. For added effect, spread a little bit around the outside of the enclosure so cats can smell it from a distance.\\nCatnip can be purchased at your local pet store or grown at home.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use a can of wet food or tuna.\", \"描述\": \"Cats can smell wet foods easier than they can smell dry foods. Once the can is opened, set it on the ground the enclosure. A cat may come when it’s ready to eat.\\nKeep a few extra cans in your pantry so you always have food when you need it.\\nTry different flavors of cat food to see what attracts the cat the most.\\nLet the cat eat without handling it. If it is an unfamiliar cat, leave it completely alone while it’s feeding. Talk at a normal volume around the cat so it can get used to your voice and associate it with feeding and good behavior.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Watch for cats around 2 AM.\", \"描述\": \"Many cats are active while humans are asleep since they will be searching for food. Keep an eye on the enclosure to see if any cats come for the food or for a place to sleep.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Making a Shy Cat Trust You\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Don’t make loud noises in the same room as a cat.\", \"描述\": \"Avoid using vacuums, loud toys, or even brooms in the same room as a cat. Turn the volume of your music or TV to a reasonable level so the cat can get used to the common sounds of your home. While everything may sound like a lower volume to us, they are very loud to a cat’s sensitive ears.\\nIf you need to clean in the same room as a cat, just be mindful of the noises you’re making so you don’t frighten them.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Allow the cat to come to you.\", \"描述\": \"Sit still as the cat approaches you so it has a chance to get used to your scent and know that you will not harm it. Give the cat a chance to get used to you without attempting to handle it.\\nYou can either stand, sit, or lay down as a cat approaches you, but be sure not to make any sudden movements.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Speak in a calm voice.\", \"描述\": \"Talk at a normal volume and avoid using baby talk or a high-pitched voice while addressing your cat. Loud noises will spook the cat, so avoid yelling while you’re around it. As you speak to your cat more, it will start to have a sense of security around you.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Pet the cat slowly and watch its body language.\", \"描述\": \"Make slow and predictable movements so you don’t startle the cat. Start petting it on its back and slowly work towards scratching behind its ears. If your cat tenses up or raises its hair, stop petting it and let it calm down.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give the cat treats after good behavior.\", \"描述\": \"As the cat gets used to you, give it a small treat as a reward. As it starts to grow closer to you, it will associate their good actions with one of their treats and continue to repeat them.\\nKeep treats near you to attract the cat and associate you as a safe person. Don’t pet it as it eats or you may startle it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Getting Your Lost Cat Back Home\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Place your cat’s soiled litter outside.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re trying to get a lost cat back home, set the litter box just outside near your home. Your cat may smell it and come back since this is where it is comfortable doing their business.\\nMake sure the litter has been used so your cat can smell it. Fresh litter will not work as effectively.\\nPlace a T-shirt or clothes you’ve worn recently near the litter so your cat is attracted to your scent.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Shake a container of treats to draw them closer.\", \"描述\": \"If the cat is trained or housebroken, it may recognize the sound of their treats. 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2,720 | How to Attract Cockroaches | 1. Using Food
1-1. Leave meats and bones out.
That rotisserie chicken carcass left over from dinner last night makes perfect roach bait. Leave out scraps of meat or bones that haven’t been picked clean in the areas where you want to attract roaches.
Remember that meat will rot, which will produce both strong smells and bacteria. Do not place it in areas where pets or children will be able to access it, and keep it out of spaces where the odor may become offensive.
Place scraps in isolated areas such as cabinets, garages, or other spaces where it will be easy to round up your roaches.
1-2. Sprinkle sugar where you want roaches.
Cockroaches are particularly attracted to sugars and starches. Sprinkling some sugar around is a fast and easy way to get roaches where you want them.
A trail of sugar can be particularly helpful when you’re looking to bring roaches through an extended path, such as along the length of a garden or lawn.
If you are looking to keep a roach problem under control, throw away any packages of sugar where you’ve found roaches. Be sure to seal any new packages in airtight containers.
1-3. Set out fruit rinds, peels, and cores.
Fruits are a natural source of sugar, and can be just as helpful in attracting roaches as the kitchen staple. Use fruit scraps such as rinds, peels, cores, and other discarded bits to attract roaches.
If you are looking to bring roaches into your yard or another outdoor space, you can bury fruit scraps just below the topsoil. This will attract roaches but keep decaying matter hidden from pets, children, and neighbors.
1-4. Use grease cans to attract roaches.
The can you fill with your extra bacon grease and frying oil is fantastic roach food. Set out open grease cans in the area where you want roaches. As a bonus, the cans can double as a temporary housing environment for your insects.
2. Attracting Roaches with Household Material
2-1. Compost your garbage
Composting garbage brings together lots of things roaches love, including food scraps and organic non-food materials like paper. Build a compost pile or use a composting bin to break down your trash into roach-attracting mulch.
Composting means committing to regular pile maintenance, including turning and watering. Composting is subsequently the best choice for when you want to attract roaches every season or over an extended period of time.
You can use the mulch from your compost pile to attract roaches to other areas, as well. Add mulch to your garden or organics waste bin to bring in the roaches.
2-2. Leave the lid to your trash can open if you don’t want to compost.
If maintaining a compost pile isn’t for you, try keeping the lid off your garbage can. This leaves your garbage exposed. The scent will attract the roaches, and the feast of food scraps will keep them in the area for as long as supplies last.
2-3. Keep old cardboard scraps together.
Cardboard is another household material that roaches love. Store old boxes, packaging supplies, and other cardboard material together. If you can, keep the cardboard in a damp space. This will make it especially appealing to roaches and other insects.
Pizza boxes can be especially useful for attracting roaches, as these make use of both cardboard and food scents.
2-4. Check local book binders for cockroaches.
Roaches have been known to be attracted to book bindings for the starches. Check in the areas around local book binders or book binding supplies stores for roaches that you can relocate to your desired area.
Use humane roach traps to keep your roaches alive and contained until you are ready to relocate them.
3. Maintaining a Roach-Friendly Environment
3-1. Provide them with shelter.
Roaches are attracted to areas where they can hide. Provide your roaches with shelter such as cardboard tubes and boxes. If you are keeping them in a terrarium, get rock shelters and other hiding areas from the fish and small pets sections of the pet store.
If you opt to keep your roaches in a terrarium, get them a strong plastic or glass space that is at least 6 times bigger than the area your roaches occupy. It should have very small air holes, as roaches can escape from even thin slits in their tanks.
Place moist soil at the bottom of the tank, and provide them with hiding places made from tree bark, flat stones, and chunks of wood. Egg cartons and small cardboard pieces also make good hiding places.
3-2. Keep the space warm.
Cockroaches do best in warm, damp environments. While an average room temperature of about 70° F (21.1° C) is suitable for daily activity, a temperature of about 80° F (26.7° C) is necessary if you want them to reproduce.
While cockroaches are hardy, cold, dry weather can cause difficulty for some species. Use a heat lamp in the cold winter months to help keep your roaches warm.
3-3. Make sure your roaches have constant water access.
Cockroaches seek out moist places, so it is essential that they have access to water. If you are keeping your roaches in a pet habitat, make sure they have a dish of clean, fresh water available at all times. Change the water daily to keep it fresh. You may also want to use a humidifier during dry months to help keep your roaches happy and healthy.
If you are trying to attract roaches to outdoor spaces like lawns, be sure to water them regularly to keep them moist.
3-4. Supply plenty of food.
Food doesn’t just attract roaches, it keeps them around. Supply your roaches with plenty of food including scraps of meat, fruit, and vegetables. If you are keeping your roaches as pets, you may be able to find specialty roach pet food at your local pet store. Make sure there is some food available to them at all times. Change out old food on a weekly basis.
The amount of food you need to supply will depend upon the number of roaches you have and their species. Read the packaging recommendations to assess the correct amount of food for your habitat.
Warnings
Leaving scraps, trash, sugar, and other organic material around can also attract other scavengers including insects, rodents, and animals like raccoons, possums, and coyotes. There isn't much you can do to attract roaches but keep away other predators, so exercise caution when you check your scraps.
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Sprinkling some sugar around is a fast and easy way to get roaches where you want them.\\nA trail of sugar can be particularly helpful when you’re looking to bring roaches through an extended path, such as along the length of a garden or lawn.\\nIf you are looking to keep a roach problem under control, throw away any packages of sugar where you’ve found roaches. Be sure to seal any new packages in airtight containers.\\n1-3. Set out fruit rinds, peels, and cores.\\nFruits are a natural source of sugar, and can be just as helpful in attracting roaches as the kitchen staple. Use fruit scraps such as rinds, peels, cores, and other discarded bits to attract roaches.\\nIf you are looking to bring roaches into your yard or another outdoor space, you can bury fruit scraps just below the topsoil. This will attract roaches but keep decaying matter hidden from pets, children, and neighbors.\\n1-4. Use grease cans to attract roaches.\\nThe can you fill with your extra bacon grease and frying oil is fantastic roach food. Set out open grease cans in the area where you want roaches. As a bonus, the cans can double as a temporary housing environment for your insects.\\n2. Attracting Roaches with Household Material\\n2-1. Compost your garbage\\nComposting garbage brings together lots of things roaches love, including food scraps and organic non-food materials like paper. Build a compost pile or use a composting bin to break down your trash into roach-attracting mulch.\\nComposting means committing to regular pile maintenance, including turning and watering. Composting is subsequently the best choice for when you want to attract roaches every season or over an extended period of time.\\nYou can use the mulch from your compost pile to attract roaches to other areas, as well. Add mulch to your garden or organics waste bin to bring in the roaches.\\n2-2. Leave the lid to your trash can open if you don’t want to compost.\\nIf maintaining a compost pile isn’t for you, try keeping the lid off your garbage can. This leaves your garbage exposed. The scent will attract the roaches, and the feast of food scraps will keep them in the area for as long as supplies last.\\n2-3. Keep old cardboard scraps together.\\nCardboard is another household material that roaches love. Store old boxes, packaging supplies, and other cardboard material together. If you can, keep the cardboard in a damp space. This will make it especially appealing to roaches and other insects.\\nPizza boxes can be especially useful for attracting roaches, as these make use of both cardboard and food scents.\\n2-4. Check local book binders for cockroaches.\\nRoaches have been known to be attracted to book bindings for the starches. Check in the areas around local book binders or book binding supplies stores for roaches that you can relocate to your desired area.\\nUse humane roach traps to keep your roaches alive and contained until you are ready to relocate them.\\n3. Maintaining a Roach-Friendly Environment\\n3-1. Provide them with shelter.\\nRoaches are attracted to areas where they can hide. Provide your roaches with shelter such as cardboard tubes and boxes. If you are keeping them in a terrarium, get rock shelters and other hiding areas from the fish and small pets sections of the pet store.\\nIf you opt to keep your roaches in a terrarium, get them a strong plastic or glass space that is at least 6 times bigger than the area your roaches occupy. It should have very small air holes, as roaches can escape from even thin slits in their tanks.\\nPlace moist soil at the bottom of the tank, and provide them with hiding places made from tree bark, flat stones, and chunks of wood. Egg cartons and small cardboard pieces also make good hiding places.\\n3-2. Keep the space warm.\\nCockroaches do best in warm, damp environments. While an average room temperature of about 70° F (21.1° C) is suitable for daily activity, a temperature of about 80° F (26.7° C) is necessary if you want them to reproduce.\\nWhile cockroaches are hardy, cold, dry weather can cause difficulty for some species. Use a heat lamp in the cold winter months to help keep your roaches warm.\\n3-3. Make sure your roaches have constant water access.\\nCockroaches seek out moist places, so it is essential that they have access to water. If you are keeping your roaches in a pet habitat, make sure they have a dish of clean, fresh water available at all times. Change the water daily to keep it fresh. You may also want to use a humidifier during dry months to help keep your roaches happy and healthy.\\nIf you are trying to attract roaches to outdoor spaces like lawns, be sure to water them regularly to keep them moist.\\n3-4. Supply plenty of food.\\nFood doesn’t just attract roaches, it keeps them around. Supply your roaches with plenty of food including scraps of meat, fruit, and vegetables. If you are keeping your roaches as pets, you may be able to find specialty roach pet food at your local pet store. Make sure there is some food available to them at all times. Change out old food on a weekly basis.\\nThe amount of food you need to supply will depend upon the number of roaches you have and their species. Read the packaging recommendations to assess the correct amount of food for your habitat.\\nWarnings\\nLeaving scraps, trash, sugar, and other organic material around can also attract other scavengers including insects, rodents, and animals like raccoons, possums, and coyotes. 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2,721 | How to Attract Crows | 1. Bringing Crows to Your Yard
1-1. Spread food.
Crows will eat just about anything, so you are pretty safe regardless of the food you put out for them. To first attract crows, you will want something noticeable, like peanuts in the shell. Once they become regulars in your yard, you can use a wider variety of foods, including kibbled pet food or meat scraps. Crows can eat a lot of food, so don't be afraid to spread more if they eat it all.
1-2. Clear your yard of things that might scare crows away.
Crows are easily spooked by random noises, so items like bells, wind chimes, and even squeaky loose gates can keep them away. Additionally, crows are frightened by reflective surfaces that move in the breeze, creating random flashes of light. Figures like scarecrows or owl decoys can be frightening to crows at first, but they are intelligent birds, and will not be fooled for long.
1-3. Place decoys.
If it looks like one crow is in your yard, others will want to follow. It should appear natural and alive, and figures hung upside-down, or otherwise appearing dead, like some Halloween decorations, will scare them off.
1-4. Use crow calls.
You can either purchase an electronic caller, or attempt using a hand caller yourself. There are a variety of different calls used by crows, many of which will draw a nearby group. Some popular calls are the Attention Call, the Rally Call, and the Distress Call, all of which will draw curious crows to your location.
Hand calling is difficult, but can give you greater flexibility in calling and communication with the birds. Place the call between your thumb and index finger, making a cup around the end with your hands. Rather than blow through, you will want to make a growling noise into the call, as if you were clearing your throat.
1-5. Create a roosting place.
Crows like horizontal places to rest, like fences and tree branches. They are sociable birds, so you will need many places for them to sit and stay. Crows are large birds, so any roosting place should be very sturdy. Old fashioned concrete birdbaths can be very useful.
You can also create an artificial structure if you do not have enough natural spaces. Drive or set poles into the ground, then place a cross-bar between them for more roosting room.
2. Keeping Crows Coming Back
2-1. Once you have started spreading food, create a regular feeding schedule.
Crows are intelligent, and will quickly learn if you provide food regularly, and a regular source of food is very attractive to any wild animal.
2-2. Have water available.
Keep it in small, shallow containers for the crows and other birds to drink. You will want it to be sturdy, so that cats looking for a drink, or a bird, will not knock it over easily. Make sure the water stays ice free during the winter.
2-3. Be patient.
You may not get crows right away, as your food supplies may attract squirrels, blue jays, and other small birds. You may need to spread food for several days before crows follow the blue jays to your food supplies.
Tips
Cats and dogs will not allow the crows to come to your yard. If you have a pet cat or dog keep him/her inside the house.
If you want crows to help keep pests out of a garden, you may want to provide some covering to keep the birds from eating your plants.
Crows can make a lot of racket. Make sure your neighbors are okay with it.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Bringing Crows to Your Yard\\n1-1. Spread food.\\nCrows will eat just about anything, so you are pretty safe regardless of the food you put out for them. To first attract crows, you will want something noticeable, like peanuts in the shell. Once they become regulars in your yard, you can use a wider variety of foods, including kibbled pet food or meat scraps. Crows can eat a lot of food, so don't be afraid to spread more if they eat it all.\\n1-2. Clear your yard of things that might scare crows away.\\nCrows are easily spooked by random noises, so items like bells, wind chimes, and even squeaky loose gates can keep them away. Additionally, crows are frightened by reflective surfaces that move in the breeze, creating random flashes of light. Figures like scarecrows or owl decoys can be frightening to crows at first, but they are intelligent birds, and will not be fooled for long.\\n1-3. Place decoys.\\nIf it looks like one crow is in your yard, others will want to follow. It should appear natural and alive, and figures hung upside-down, or otherwise appearing dead, like some Halloween decorations, will scare them off.\\n1-4. Use crow calls.\\nYou can either purchase an electronic caller, or attempt using a hand caller yourself. There are a variety of different calls used by crows, many of which will draw a nearby group. Some popular calls are the Attention Call, the Rally Call, and the Distress Call, all of which will draw curious crows to your location.\\nHand calling is difficult, but can give you greater flexibility in calling and communication with the birds. Place the call between your thumb and index finger, making a cup around the end with your hands. Rather than blow through, you will want to make a growling noise into the call, as if you were clearing your throat.\\n1-5. Create a roosting place.\\nCrows like horizontal places to rest, like fences and tree branches. They are sociable birds, so you will need many places for them to sit and stay. Crows are large birds, so any roosting place should be very sturdy. Old fashioned concrete birdbaths can be very useful.\\nYou can also create an artificial structure if you do not have enough natural spaces. Drive or set poles into the ground, then place a cross-bar between them for more roosting room.\\n2. Keeping Crows Coming Back\\n2-1. Once you have started spreading food, create a regular feeding schedule.\\nCrows are intelligent, and will quickly learn if you provide food regularly, and a regular source of food is very attractive to any wild animal.\\n2-2. Have water available.\\nKeep it in small, shallow containers for the crows and other birds to drink. You will want it to be sturdy, so that cats looking for a drink, or a bird, will not knock it over easily. Make sure the water stays ice free during the winter.\\n2-3. Be patient.\\nYou may not get crows right away, as your food supplies may attract squirrels, blue jays, and other small birds. You may need to spread food for several days before crows follow the blue jays to your food supplies.\\nTips\\nCats and dogs will not allow the crows to come to your yard. If you have a pet cat or dog keep him/her inside the house.\\nIf you want crows to help keep pests out of a garden, you may want to provide some covering to keep the birds from eating your plants.\\nCrows can make a lot of racket. Make sure your neighbors are okay with it.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Crows are very bright creatures, one of the most intelligent animal species, and a group of crows, called a \\\"flock\\\" or a \\\"murder,\\\" can be a useful addition to your yard. A small flock can keep plants free of insects and other pests, and their large size makes crows a deterrence to other predatory birds, like hawks. Attracting crows, and keeping them coming back, can be done quickly, and in an environmentally friendly way.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Bringing Crows to Your Yard\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Spread food.\", \"描述\": \"Crows will eat just about anything, so you are pretty safe regardless of the food you put out for them. To first attract crows, you will want something noticeable, like peanuts in the shell. Once they become regulars in your yard, you can use a wider variety of foods, including kibbled pet food or meat scraps. Crows can eat a lot of food, so don't be afraid to spread more if they eat it all.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Clear your yard of things that might scare crows away.\", \"描述\": \"Crows are easily spooked by random noises, so items like bells, wind chimes, and even squeaky loose gates can keep them away. Additionally, crows are frightened by reflective surfaces that move in the breeze, creating random flashes of light. 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2,722 | How to Attract Deer | 1. Drawing Deer with a Food Plot
1-1. Check local laws before establishing a feeding area.
In many states, feeding deer at certain times of the year is illegal and is discouraged. Deer that are fed may become nuisances to people.
1-2. Make sure that you locate your food plot away from roadways.
Deer might not come close if there is a lot of traffic nearby, and luring deer into the path of traffic can have serious consequences.
1-3. Plant a food plot.
A food plot is an area of land that you clear and seed with plants that deer like to eat. You could also plant several food plots throughout your property.
Deer are drawn to crops that are high in protein, such as kale, turnips, soybeans, peas, and alfalfa. A mix of plants that include clover and grasses, like wheat, oats and rye, will attract deer. Experts suggest that you plant 60 percent cool-season perennials like clovers, 20 percent cool-season annuals like turnip and kale, and 20 percent warm-season annuals, like corn, soybeans and alfalfa.
Deer also like nuts such as chestnuts and acorns. While it may be a long wait for results, planting mast trees such as these will eventually offer deer some of their favorite foods when the trees begin to bear nuts. Other trees that produce fruit deer like are persimmons, pears, and apples. Determine which trees will succeed in your location.
1-4. Choose food for your plot that is not already plentiful in your area.
Thus, if there are cornfields nearby, planting corn might not be as productive.
Some hunting stores sell seed mixes that are created specifically for deer food plots.
Local seed stores also can sell bulk seed to allow you to create your own blend, with winter peas, fescue, vetch, and sun hemp.
1-5. Choose a location that is fairly well drained and not subject to erosion or flooding for your food plot.
Planting on steep terrain or in a flood plain isn't a good idea.
1-6. Clear away brush and trees from the plot.
Depending on the plot size and the density of the existing vegetation, you may find you need a tractor with suitable implements to clear and prepare the ground for planting.
1-7. Test the soil for ph and nutrients, matching these to the crop you are going to plant.
As a general rule, a ph between 6.0 and 7.5 will support plant growth, beyond this range and you may need to add amendments to modify the soil chemistry.
1-8. Spread fertilizer in the area to spur plant growth.
You will need to try to incorporate the fertilizer into the top 4 inches of soil so it doesn't run off during rain.
1-9. Spread the seeds according to package instructions.
Usually, grains like oats and rye are applied at about 40-50 pounds per acre, and once the seed is spread you will want to rake or disc it in to improve germination.
1-10. Keep the food plot away from other plants or gardens if you don't want deer to eat those too.
Place the food plot away from areas that could flood. Food plots for deer can range from 1,000 square feet to several acres.
1-11. Provide the deer with a water source.
Deer will be drawn to water. This could come in the form of a watering hole or a tank.
Make sure you maintain trees on either side of rivers or other waterways to stop erosion and reduce the risk of polluting these streams.
Deer also like the cover from the trees.
Deer might be drawn to water in a plastic kiddie poll or a pedestal birdbath too.
2. Using Deer Lure
2-1. Choose deer urine as a lure.
This can be one of the most effective scents for drawing deer to an area. Hunters often use deer lure, but they can also be used to attract the animals for the simple pleasure of viewing them.
Put the deer urine lure around the area of your property where you want to draw deer. Apply doe scent on grass or trees if you want to lure bucks.
Deer will be most drawn to the scent about 10 weeks before the height of the local deer's breeding season.
2-2. Hang scent wicks.
If you are in a hunting stand, hang scent wicks around your tree stand. The scent wicks are often saturated with buck urine.
Put the scent wicks about 20 yards in front of the stand and make sure they are about four or five feet off the ground so the wind will disperse the scent.
Minimize human scent on the lure. Deer will be less attracted to the lure if they also smell human scent. So be careful when handling the lure. You can find deer scent in sporting or hunting goods stores.
2-3. Try using sweet apples.
Some deer may love the smell of sweet apples, so you could draw them with the fruit or its scent. This will be on the condition that apples are part of your local deer populations food supply.
Plant an apple or crab apple tree around the edge of your yard. Deer will like the cover, the tender leaves, and the fruit produced by these trees.
You could also put apples in a tub or bucket in addition to grain or deer feed and see if that will draw the deer. You could also fill barrels or buckets with corn. Try using 5-gallon pails, and put them throughout your property.
2-4. Use a salt block.
Deer may be drawn to salt and mineral blocks, as well as blocks made of cider and apple salt.
Feed stores and hunting goods stores should have these for sale. Place the salt blocks at the edge of your property.
If you have a food plot, you may want to locate the salt block there instead. Or you could put the salt block near a feeder. You could also bury the salt block in the ground, and sprinkle salt on top of it. It could take several weeks or even months for the deer to find the salt block, so be patient.
2-5. Buy commercial lures.
You can find many different deer scents packaged for sale at sporting goods stores. They include some creative scent combinations said to increase the chances you will attract deer.
For example, some stores sell scented deer corn, such as orange-flavored corn.
Products flavored with apples, such as corn, liquids and other attractants are known to draw deer, who love apple scent.
2-6. Use a game/trail camera to monitor your food plot.
This will show you what animals are visiting your plot, and help you establish what foods the deer are feeding on, as well as what food other animals may be stealing.
3. Making your Yard Deer Friendly
3-1. Keep pets, especially dogs away from any area you want to attract deer to.
Even the scent of a dog can frighten away deer.
3-2. Grow taller grass.
Deer prefer tall grass. So if you want a lot of deer in your yard, you could grow your grass longer. However, they also like a mixture of plant density.
Perhaps you could just grow the grass longer around the property's perimeter.
Deer enjoy a mixture of cleared areas, young trees and shrubs that provide cover and aid their diets and mature hardwood forests. They like to be on the edges of forests with a lot of different plants and densities. They often forage in clearings, especially at night, but they like to hide in the daylight in thicker foliage.
3-3. Remove fences that will deter deer.
If you have fences around your yard, deer may not be able to move around your property.
If removing a fence is not possible, you could create an opening within the fence for the deer to pass through.
Reduce bright lights and sounds. These things can scare deer, and make them stay away from your property. A lot of human activity on your property also might keep deer away.
3-4. Plant trees and shrubs that deer like.
Deer will be drawn to certain trees and shrubs. If you plant them throughout your property, they will be a natural draw.
Blackberry trees, elderberry, juniper, red cedar, Douglas fir, and flowering dogwood are enjoyed by deer.
Plant flowering plants. Deer will like blooming plans and legumes. Pay attention to the edges of your property. Deer often hang out around the edges of properties especially if there is foliage that provides them cover.
Tips
Planting a food plot can be costly, depending on the work needed to prepare and plant the soil.
Studies have shown that the effectiveness of these scents tends to wear off as the deer become accustomed to them.
Warnings
Do not touch a fawn if you find it alone. Does will leave their young in a safe location as they browse and will return for the baby.
Bucks become dangerous during the mating season and should not be approached.
Be aware that deer carry ticks that may be infected with and transmit Lyme disease. This disease is a bacterial infection that may cause numerous ailments, including fatigue, fever, swollen lymph nodes, headaches, and joint pain.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Drawing Deer with a Food Plot\\n1-1. Check local laws before establishing a feeding area.\\nIn many states, feeding deer at certain times of the year is illegal and is discouraged. Deer that are fed may become nuisances to people.\\n1-2. Make sure that you locate your food plot away from roadways.\\nDeer might not come close if there is a lot of traffic nearby, and luring deer into the path of traffic can have serious consequences.\\n1-3. Plant a food plot.\\nA food plot is an area of land that you clear and seed with plants that deer like to eat. You could also plant several food plots throughout your property.\\nDeer are drawn to crops that are high in protein, such as kale, turnips, soybeans, peas, and alfalfa. A mix of plants that include clover and grasses, like wheat, oats and rye, will attract deer. Experts suggest that you plant 60 percent cool-season perennials like clovers, 20 percent cool-season annuals like turnip and kale, and 20 percent warm-season annuals, like corn, soybeans and alfalfa.\\nDeer also like nuts such as chestnuts and acorns. While it may be a long wait for results, planting mast trees such as these will eventually offer deer some of their favorite foods when the trees begin to bear nuts. Other trees that produce fruit deer like are persimmons, pears, and apples. Determine which trees will succeed in your location.\\n1-4. Choose food for your plot that is not already plentiful in your area.\\nThus, if there are cornfields nearby, planting corn might not be as productive.\\nSome hunting stores sell seed mixes that are created specifically for deer food plots.\\nLocal seed stores also can sell bulk seed to allow you to create your own blend, with winter peas, fescue, vetch, and sun hemp.\\n1-5. Choose a location that is fairly well drained and not subject to erosion or flooding for your food plot.\\nPlanting on steep terrain or in a flood plain isn't a good idea.\\n1-6. Clear away brush and trees from the plot.\\nDepending on the plot size and the density of the existing vegetation, you may find you need a tractor with suitable implements to clear and prepare the ground for planting.\\n1-7. Test the soil for ph and nutrients, matching these to the crop you are going to plant.\\nAs a general rule, a ph between 6.0 and 7.5 will support plant growth, beyond this range and you may need to add amendments to modify the soil chemistry.\\n1-8. Spread fertilizer in the area to spur plant growth.\\nYou will need to try to incorporate the fertilizer into the top 4 inches of soil so it doesn't run off during rain.\\n1-9. Spread the seeds according to package instructions.\\nUsually, grains like oats and rye are applied at about 40-50 pounds per acre, and once the seed is spread you will want to rake or disc it in to improve germination.\\n1-10. Keep the food plot away from other plants or gardens if you don't want deer to eat those too.\\nPlace the food plot away from areas that could flood. Food plots for deer can range from 1,000 square feet to several acres.\\n1-11. Provide the deer with a water source.\\nDeer will be drawn to water. This could come in the form of a watering hole or a tank.\\nMake sure you maintain trees on either side of rivers or other waterways to stop erosion and reduce the risk of polluting these streams.\\nDeer also like the cover from the trees.\\nDeer might be drawn to water in a plastic kiddie poll or a pedestal birdbath too.\\n2. Using Deer Lure\\n2-1. Choose deer urine as a lure.\\nThis can be one of the most effective scents for drawing deer to an area. Hunters often use deer lure, but they can also be used to attract the animals for the simple pleasure of viewing them.\\nPut the deer urine lure around the area of your property where you want to draw deer. Apply doe scent on grass or trees if you want to lure bucks.\\nDeer will be most drawn to the scent about 10 weeks before the height of the local deer's breeding season.\\n2-2. Hang scent wicks.\\nIf you are in a hunting stand, hang scent wicks around your tree stand. The scent wicks are often saturated with buck urine.\\nPut the scent wicks about 20 yards in front of the stand and make sure they are about four or five feet off the ground so the wind will disperse the scent.\\nMinimize human scent on the lure. Deer will be less attracted to the lure if they also smell human scent. So be careful when handling the lure. You can find deer scent in sporting or hunting goods stores.\\n2-3. Try using sweet apples.\\nSome deer may love the smell of sweet apples, so you could draw them with the fruit or its scent. This will be on the condition that apples are part of your local deer populations food supply.\\nPlant an apple or crab apple tree around the edge of your yard. Deer will like the cover, the tender leaves, and the fruit produced by these trees.\\nYou could also put apples in a tub or bucket in addition to grain or deer feed and see if that will draw the deer. You could also fill barrels or buckets with corn. Try using 5-gallon pails, and put them throughout your property.\\n2-4. Use a salt block.\\nDeer may be drawn to salt and mineral blocks, as well as blocks made of cider and apple salt.\\nFeed stores and hunting goods stores should have these for sale. Place the salt blocks at the edge of your property.\\nIf you have a food plot, you may want to locate the salt block there instead. Or you could put the salt block near a feeder. You could also bury the salt block in the ground, and sprinkle salt on top of it. It could take several weeks or even months for the deer to find the salt block, so be patient.\\n2-5. Buy commercial lures.\\nYou can find many different deer scents packaged for sale at sporting goods stores. They include some creative scent combinations said to increase the chances you will attract deer.\\nFor example, some stores sell scented deer corn, such as orange-flavored corn.\\nProducts flavored with apples, such as corn, liquids and other attractants are known to draw deer, who love apple scent.\\n2-6. Use a game/trail camera to monitor your food plot.\\nThis will show you what animals are visiting your plot, and help you establish what foods the deer are feeding on, as well as what food other animals may be stealing.\\n3. Making your Yard Deer Friendly\\n3-1. Keep pets, especially dogs away from any area you want to attract deer to.\\nEven the scent of a dog can frighten away deer.\\n3-2. Grow taller grass.\\nDeer prefer tall grass. So if you want a lot of deer in your yard, you could grow your grass longer. However, they also like a mixture of plant density.\\nPerhaps you could just grow the grass longer around the property's perimeter.\\nDeer enjoy a mixture of cleared areas, young trees and shrubs that provide cover and aid their diets and mature hardwood forests. They like to be on the edges of forests with a lot of different plants and densities. They often forage in clearings, especially at night, but they like to hide in the daylight in thicker foliage.\\n3-3. Remove fences that will deter deer.\\nIf you have fences around your yard, deer may not be able to move around your property.\\nIf removing a fence is not possible, you could create an opening within the fence for the deer to pass through.\\nReduce bright lights and sounds. These things can scare deer, and make them stay away from your property. A lot of human activity on your property also might keep deer away.\\n3-4. Plant trees and shrubs that deer like.\\nDeer will be drawn to certain trees and shrubs. If you plant them throughout your property, they will be a natural draw.\\nBlackberry trees, elderberry, juniper, red cedar, Douglas fir, and flowering dogwood are enjoyed by deer.\\nPlant flowering plants. Deer will like blooming plans and legumes. Pay attention to the edges of your property. Deer often hang out around the edges of properties especially if there is foliage that provides them cover.\\nTips\\nPlanting a food plot can be costly, depending on the work needed to prepare and plant the soil.\\nStudies have shown that the effectiveness of these scents tends to wear off as the deer become accustomed to them.\\nWarnings\\nDo not touch a fawn if you find it alone. Does will leave their young in a safe location as they browse and will return for the baby.\\nBucks become dangerous during the mating season and should not be approached.\\nBe aware that deer carry ticks that may be infected with and transmit Lyme disease. This disease is a bacterial infection that may cause numerous ailments, including fatigue, fever, swollen lymph nodes, headaches, and joint pain.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Whether you are trying to draw deer to your property to hunt them or just to look at them, there are many different ways you can attract deer. Deer are drawn to certain scents, foods, and plants. Check local laws and regulations before you try to bait deer.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Drawing Deer with a Food Plot\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Check local laws before establishing a feeding area.\", \"描述\": \"In many states, feeding deer at certain times of the year is illegal and is discouraged. Deer that are fed may become nuisances to people.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make sure that you locate your food plot away from roadways.\", \"描述\": \"Deer might not come close if there is a lot of traffic nearby, and luring deer into the path of traffic can have serious consequences.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Plant a food plot.\", \"描述\": \"A food plot is an area of land that you clear and seed with plants that deer like to eat. You could also plant several food plots throughout your property.\\nDeer are drawn to crops that are high in protein, such as kale, turnips, soybeans, peas, and alfalfa. A mix of plants that include clover and grasses, like wheat, oats and rye, will attract deer. Experts suggest that you plant 60 percent cool-season perennials like clovers, 20 percent cool-season annuals like turnip and kale, and 20 percent warm-season annuals, like corn, soybeans and alfalfa.\\nDeer also like nuts such as chestnuts and acorns. While it may be a long wait for results, planting mast trees such as these will eventually offer deer some of their favorite foods when the trees begin to bear nuts. Other trees that produce fruit deer like are persimmons, pears, and apples. Determine which trees will succeed in your location.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Choose food for your plot that is not already plentiful in your area.\", \"描述\": \"Thus, if there are cornfields nearby, planting corn might not be as productive.\\nSome hunting stores sell seed mixes that are created specifically for deer food plots.\\nLocal seed stores also can sell bulk seed to allow you to create your own blend, with winter peas, fescue, vetch, and sun hemp.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Choose a location that is fairly well drained and not subject to erosion or flooding for your food plot.\", \"描述\": \"Planting on steep terrain or in a flood plain isn't a good idea.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Clear away brush and trees from the plot.\", \"描述\": \"Depending on the plot size and the density of the existing vegetation, you may find you need a tractor with suitable implements to clear and prepare the ground for planting.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Test the soil for ph and nutrients, matching these to the crop you are going to plant.\", \"描述\": \"As a general rule, a ph between 6.0 and 7.5 will support plant growth, beyond this range and you may need to add amendments to modify the soil chemistry.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Spread fertilizer in the area to spur plant growth.\", \"描述\": \"You will need to try to incorporate the fertilizer into the top 4 inches of soil so it doesn't run off during rain.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Spread the seeds according to package instructions.\", \"描述\": \"Usually, grains like oats and rye are applied at about 40-50 pounds per acre, and once the seed is spread you will want to rake or disc it in to improve germination.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Keep the food plot away from other plants or gardens if you don't want deer to eat those too.\", \"描述\": \"Place the food plot away from areas that could flood. Food plots for deer can range from 1,000 square feet to several acres.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Provide the deer with a water source.\", \"描述\": \"Deer will be drawn to water. This could come in the form of a watering hole or a tank.\\nMake sure you maintain trees on either side of rivers or other waterways to stop erosion and reduce the risk of polluting these streams.\\nDeer also like the cover from the trees.\\nDeer might be drawn to water in a plastic kiddie poll or a pedestal birdbath too.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Using Deer Lure\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose deer urine as a lure.\", \"描述\": \"This can be one of the most effective scents for drawing deer to an area. Hunters often use deer lure, but they can also be used to attract the animals for the simple pleasure of viewing them.\\nPut the deer urine lure around the area of your property where you want to draw deer. Apply doe scent on grass or trees if you want to lure bucks.\\nDeer will be most drawn to the scent about 10 weeks before the height of the local deer's breeding season.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Hang scent wicks.\", \"描述\": \"If you are in a hunting stand, hang scent wicks around your tree stand. The scent wicks are often saturated with buck urine.\\nPut the scent wicks about 20 yards in front of the stand and make sure they are about four or five feet off the ground so the wind will disperse the scent.\\nMinimize human scent on the lure. Deer will be less attracted to the lure if they also smell human scent. So be careful when handling the lure. You can find deer scent in sporting or hunting goods stores.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Try using sweet apples.\", \"描述\": \"Some deer may love the smell of sweet apples, so you could draw them with the fruit or its scent. This will be on the condition that apples are part of your local deer populations food supply.\\nPlant an apple or crab apple tree around the edge of your yard. Deer will like the cover, the tender leaves, and the fruit produced by these trees.\\nYou could also put apples in a tub or bucket in addition to grain or deer feed and see if that will draw the deer. You could also fill barrels or buckets with corn. Try using 5-gallon pails, and put them throughout your property.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use a salt block.\", \"描述\": \"Deer may be drawn to salt and mineral blocks, as well as blocks made of cider and apple salt.\\nFeed stores and hunting goods stores should have these for sale. Place the salt blocks at the edge of your property.\\nIf you have a food plot, you may want to locate the salt block there instead. Or you could put the salt block near a feeder. You could also bury the salt block in the ground, and sprinkle salt on top of it. It could take several weeks or even months for the deer to find the salt block, so be patient.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Buy commercial lures.\", \"描述\": \"You can find many different deer scents packaged for sale at sporting goods stores. They include some creative scent combinations said to increase the chances you will attract deer.\\nFor example, some stores sell scented deer corn, such as orange-flavored corn.\\nProducts flavored with apples, such as corn, liquids and other attractants are known to draw deer, who love apple scent.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Use a game/trail camera to monitor your food plot.\", \"描述\": \"This will show you what animals are visiting your plot, and help you establish what foods the deer are feeding on, as well as what food other animals may be stealing.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Making your Yard Deer Friendly\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep pets, especially dogs away from any area you want to attract deer to.\", \"描述\": \"Even the scent of a dog can frighten away deer.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Grow taller grass.\", \"描述\": \"Deer prefer tall grass. So if you want a lot of deer in your yard, you could grow your grass longer. However, they also like a mixture of plant density.\\nPerhaps you could just grow the grass longer around the property's perimeter.\\nDeer enjoy a mixture of cleared areas, young trees and shrubs that provide cover and aid their diets and mature hardwood forests. They like to be on the edges of forests with a lot of different plants and densities. They often forage in clearings, especially at night, but they like to hide in the daylight in thicker foliage.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Remove fences that will deter deer.\", \"描述\": \"If you have fences around your yard, deer may not be able to move around your property.\\nIf removing a fence is not possible, you could create an opening within the fence for the deer to pass through.\\nReduce bright lights and sounds. These things can scare deer, and make them stay away from your property. A lot of human activity on your property also might keep deer away.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Plant trees and shrubs that deer like.\", \"描述\": \"Deer will be drawn to certain trees and shrubs. If you plant them throughout your property, they will be a natural draw.\\nBlackberry trees, elderberry, juniper, red cedar, Douglas fir, and flowering dogwood are enjoyed by deer.\\nPlant flowering plants. Deer will like blooming plans and legumes. Pay attention to the edges of your property. Deer often hang out around the edges of properties especially if there is foliage that provides them cover.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Planting a food plot can be costly, depending on the work needed to prepare and plant the soil.\\n\", \"Studies have shown that the effectiveness of these scents tends to wear off as the deer become accustomed to them.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Do not touch a fawn if you find it alone. Does will leave their young in a safe location as they browse and will return for the baby.\\n\", \"Bucks become dangerous during the mating season and should not be approached.\\n\", \"Be aware that deer carry ticks that may be infected with and transmit Lyme disease. This disease is a bacterial infection that may cause numerous ailments, including fatigue, fever, swollen lymph nodes, headaches, and joint pain.\\n\"]}]}}",
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2,723 | How to Attract Fireflies | 1. Providing Attractive Plant Material
1-1. Let your grass grow.
Fireflies are attracted to long grasses and shrubbery. During the day they like to hide in the grass, and in the evening the like to perch on grass stems (especially the females). Allow the edges of your yard to grow long and allow the brush to build up.
Only let your yard accumulate brush around the edges.
Beware, though, these areas can also attract ticks.
1-2. Plant pine trees, if they’re native.
As forests, meadows, and fields are developed into shopping malls and other building, fireflies have fewer places to lay their eggs. You can attract fireflies by planting pine trees near your home. The canopies created by pine trees block out light that can interfere with mating, and the soft needles that fall to the ground create a perfect place for firefly larvae to grow.
1-3. Plant flowers
Fireflies are attracted to pollen and nectar. You can encourage them to hang out in your yard by planting flowers. Select a variety of local flowers to entice fireflies to visit you.
1-4. Store wood and allow it to rot.
Certain species of fireflies like to lay their eggs in rotten logs. The larvae then feast on the slugs, snails, and worms that are found in this habitat. You can attract fireflies by storing firewood in your yard. Stack the wood loosely to allow proper air flow.
If fireflies do settle into a portion of your woodpile, try not to disturb that area.
Keep the woodpile toward the edges of your yard. It may give off a smell or begin to look unsightly as it starts to rot.
Avoid doing this if you live in an area prone to wildfires.
2. Creating a Welcoming Environment
2-1. Build a pond.
Fireflies are drawn to moisture. They love standing water and marshy areas. Consider building a small pond in your yard to attract fireflies. Your pond might have decorative stones, koi fish, or plants.
Be aware that standing water can also attract mosquitoes.
2-2. Keep your lights switched off.
Fireflies prefer dark areas. They glow for 2 reasons: to scare away predators and to attract mates. If you’d like to draw fireflies to your yard, try keeping it as dark as possible.
2-3. Avoid using pesticides on your yard.
The widespread use of pesticide is one of leading causes of firefly decline. You can reduce the impact of this problem and help draw fireflies to your yard by staying away from pesticides, herbicides, and other chemicals.
2-4. Allow worms, grubs, slugs, and snails to hang out in your yard.
Believe it or not, fireflies are mainly carnivores. They feed on slimy insects. You can help attract fireflies to your area by allowing the slimy guys to hang out there as well.
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You can encourage them to hang out in your yard by planting flowers. Select a variety of local flowers to entice fireflies to visit you.\\n1-4. Store wood and allow it to rot.\\nCertain species of fireflies like to lay their eggs in rotten logs. The larvae then feast on the slugs, snails, and worms that are found in this habitat. You can attract fireflies by storing firewood in your yard. Stack the wood loosely to allow proper air flow.\\nIf fireflies do settle into a portion of your woodpile, try not to disturb that area.\\nKeep the woodpile toward the edges of your yard. It may give off a smell or begin to look unsightly as it starts to rot.\\nAvoid doing this if you live in an area prone to wildfires.\\n2. Creating a Welcoming Environment\\n2-1. Build a pond.\\nFireflies are drawn to moisture. They love standing water and marshy areas. Consider building a small pond in your yard to attract fireflies. Your pond might have decorative stones, koi fish, or plants.\\nBe aware that standing water can also attract mosquitoes.\\n2-2. Keep your lights switched off.\\nFireflies prefer dark areas. They glow for 2 reasons: to scare away predators and to attract mates. If you’d like to draw fireflies to your yard, try keeping it as dark as possible.\\n2-3. Avoid using pesticides on your yard.\\nThe widespread use of pesticide is one of leading causes of firefly decline. You can reduce the impact of this problem and help draw fireflies to your yard by staying away from pesticides, herbicides, and other chemicals.\\n2-4. Allow worms, grubs, slugs, and snails to hang out in your yard.\\nBelieve it or not, fireflies are mainly carnivores. They feed on slimy insects. You can help attract fireflies to your area by allowing the slimy guys to hang out there as well.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Fireflies are magical little insects. They brighten summer skies in warm, humid regions (such as the eastern US and the south of France). If you’d like to attract fireflies to your yard, there are several steps you can take. By providing certain plants and plant matter and creating a welcoming space, you can make your yard into a haven for happy fireflies. Remember, if you happen to catch fireflies in a jar, be sure to let them go within the hour.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Providing Attractive Plant Material\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Let your grass grow.\", \"描述\": \"Fireflies are attracted to long grasses and shrubbery. During the day they like to hide in the grass, and in the evening the like to perch on grass stems (especially the females). Allow the edges of your yard to grow long and allow the brush to build up.\\nOnly let your yard accumulate brush around the edges.\\nBeware, though, these areas can also attract ticks.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Plant pine trees, if they’re native.\", \"描述\": \"As forests, meadows, and fields are developed into shopping malls and other building, fireflies have fewer places to lay their eggs. You can attract fireflies by planting pine trees near your home. The canopies created by pine trees block out light that can interfere with mating, and the soft needles that fall to the ground create a perfect place for firefly larvae to grow.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Plant flowers\", \"描述\": \"Fireflies are attracted to pollen and nectar. You can encourage them to hang out in your yard by planting flowers. 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2,724 | How to Attract Foxes | 1. Setting up a Lure
1-1. Set out bait at night to increase your chances of seeing a fox.
Foxes are most active at dusk or dawn. Prepare the lure right before dusk sets in, then move it outdoors for the foxes to find. Plan on setting it in a well-lit area so you are able to see any approaching foxes from a distance. Setting out your bait at night will also help stop daytime animals, like roaming pets, from getting to the food first.
Foxes are easiest to attract in winter when food is scarce, but they can be found during other seasons.
Foxes are often active during the day, but they are a little skittish. If you live in a busy area, your best chance of seeing one is during a quieter part of the day.
If you’re trying to attract foxes in the wild, try setting bait close to their tracks or den.
1-2. Select small portions of food 0.5 oz (14 g) or less.
Keep your portion size small so that foxes don’t become dependent on you. If you use the right bait, such as a smelly piece of fish, this won’t be a problem. Use the same amount of food each time you attempt to lure in a fox. Place it in a small bowl or container you can set in your yard.
Foxes can forage for their own food. If they get all of their food from people, they become docile and stop hunting for themselves.
Docile foxes may visit your yard all the time looking for food. They could be caught or harmed while they are wandering around your neighborhood.
1-3. Choose meat, fish, and eggs to use as bait.
The stronger the bait smells, the better it will be as a lure. One of the easiest ways to feed a fox is with a can of wet dog food or fishy-smelling cat food. You can use any type of raw meat or fish as well. Foxes often eat things like eggs, fruit, seeds, and some vegetables in the wild as well, but these may not be a great choice unless you’re certain a fox is going to find the bait.
For example, foxes eat fruit like apples and blueberries, if they can find it.
Try providing root veggies like yams and potatoes. They usually don’t go after gardens, but sometimes they can dig up these types of plants if you have them.
Foxes eat a wide variety of things, including mushrooms, frogs, birds, and small rodents. They also enjoy salted peanuts and cheese.
1-4. Place the food away from your home.
Find a clear spot close to the edges of your yard or garden. Make sure you have a good view of the lure even when you’re standing far away. Foxes often enter new areas at the corners, but they don’t mind walking along clear paths to get food as long as there isn’t anything there to scare them. If you leave the food out in the open, you will be able to get a good view of any approaching foxes.
Watch out for any openings foxes may use to get in and out of enclosed areas. Look out for holes in fences, thick hedges, porches, and abandoned buildings. Move the food away from these spots so foxes can’t take it and run.
If food is close to your home, a fox could get accustomed to your presence. They have been known to hide under porches or even go inside pet doors. It could attract other animals, such as mice, too.
1-5. Fill a bowl with fresh water to place next to the bait.
Get a second bowl to place near the one that will hold the bait. Doing this is especially useful if you don’t have a pond or another source of fresh water nearby. Keep this bowl filled whenever you’re watching for foxes. Take it inside and clean it out when you’re not.
Keep the bowl clean to prevent the spread of disease. Refill it with fresh water every day.
1-6. Stand back at a distance while watching the bait.
Foxes won’t approach bait if they know you’re close to it. Position yourself on your porch, for instance, or on the opposite side of your yard. Get as far away as you’re able to, stand still, and wait. If you happen to see a fox approaching, don’t do anything to alert it to your presence.
If you wish to drive a fox away from your yard, just make loud noises. Yell, whistle, bang on something. Spraying them with water or throwing something soft, like a tennis ball, also works.
Additionally, you can set up inexpensive water sprayers that activate when they sense movement. This is typically used for deer repellant, but it works for foxes as well.
If a fox has gotten used to people feeding it, it may approach you. Don’t worry—it isn’t dangerous. However, don’t try to feed foxes yourself, since that teaches them to depend on people for food.
1-7. Remove leftover food and wash the bowl every day.
Anything not eaten by foxes will draw in other animals. When you’re done fox-watching, take the bait back inside and throw it away. Scrub the bowl clean with dish soap and water to prevent the spread of disease.
If you end up attracting a fox (or another animal), remember to clean up any leftovers on the ground. They are easy to miss, but they can still lure unwanted guests into your yard.
Mice and rats are the main animals drawn in by old bait, but you may also spot raccoons and other animals.
1-8. Place fresh bait out at the same time each night.
Getting a reluctant fox to venture into your yard can take a while. Keep putting fresh food out. If they know it’s there, they will wait for it and start creeping in to check it out. With patience and persistence, you can attract a fox!
It also depends on them detecting the food. If you know foxes are in the area and you put out food often, you will eventually lure one in.
Make a routine of it. Placing food at the same time each day helps ensure there isn’t anything left sitting around for other animals, particularly rats.
2. Improving Your Yard to Attract More Foxes
2-1. Plant thick shrubs so foxes have a place to hide.
Thick shrubs and bushes provide cover for visiting foxes. If you have a few along the perimeter of your yard, you will be much more likely to attract any foxes in the area. They sometimes burrow under overgrown bushes to set up their dens. If you don’t already have bushes, install a few to make your yard more inviting.
Foxes enjoy areas that have a variety of different natural elements, but bushy plants are among the most important.
Fruit bushes, such as blueberry, raspberry, and blackberry bushes, are great choices since they also produce sweet fruit foxes enjoy.
2-2. Set up a compost pile to dispose of old food.
Compost piles hold organic scraps to turn them into fertilizer for plants. Compost piles smell pretty terrible due to the rotting food, like fruit and vegetable scraps. The strong smell draws in all sorts of animals, including foxes, who treat it like it’s a normal part of their environment. It can also bring in rats and field mice foxes hunt.
To set up a compost pile, include equal amounts of wet material like food scraps and dry material like leaves. While meat can be composted, it isn’t great since it smells rancid and draws in maggots.
Remember to keep compost piles away from your home! Position it at least 12 in (30 cm) away, and check local regulations for more information.
2-3. Stack wood into piles to serve as a shelter.
Find a dry, breezy spot 6 to 9 m (20 to 30 ft) away from your home. To keep the wood dry, place a log rack or a wood pallet there. Then, stack firewood logs next to and on top of one another to build an even stack. Top the pile with a firewood cover to keep it dry. If the wood is spaced well enough, it can be a place for a fox to hide or even live, but it’s mainly to make your yard feel more like the woods.
Wood piles add a natural element to your yard, but foxes sometimes live in or burrow under logs. If you have a large property with plenty of trees, you could leave old logs or branches in the hopes of drawing in foxes.
Wood piles also serve as shelters for other creatures, including mice and rats, so be sure to keep them far from your home.
2-4. Place bird feeders to attract birds and scatter seeds.
Position a few standing feeders about 3 m (9.8 ft) from your home. If you have trees, you can also hang some feeders on the branches. Foxes eat seeds in the wild, so anything dropped by the birds could become a food source for ones wandering through the area.
Foxes eat birds as well, so be prepared for that possibility if you let both into your yard at the same time.
Leftover bird seed also attracts other animals, particularly rats and mice, so keep the feeders away from your home and sweep up every week.
2-5. Plant fruit trees if you have room for them in your yard.
You might not expect it, but foxes love sweet treats. They are particularly fond of apples and other fruit that tastes best in the fall. You can get some fruit trees or bushes at your local plant nursery. Space trees apart and keep them away from nearby structures so their roots don’t cause problems.
Cherries, persimmons, and plums are a few other examples of fruit foxes like to eat. They get the fruit when it drops on the ground, but you can also harvest it and set it out for them.
Don’t overlook fruit bushes. Foxes love raspberries, blueberries, and blackberries. They also eat grapes.
2-6. Create a small pond filled with fresh water.
Animals go where the water is, so a pond is great if you’re not too close to a lake or stream. If you have room in your yard, dig out a small area and install a pond liner. You can then install a filter to keep it clean and line its edges with rocks for decoration. Keep it filled with either rainwater or water from a hose so the foxes have something to drink.
In general, if you’re within 1 to 2 mi (1.6 to 3.2 km) of a freshwater source, you have a chance of attracting a fox to your yard. Having one closer means more animals are likely to show up.
You could also keep fish in your pond. If you’re protective of your pond, this won’t be a good idea since foxes will stop by to catch dinner.
Tips
Use a scent repellent to keep foxes away from your home, garden, and any other areas you don’t want them to visit. They don’t like strong scents, including citronella or pet urine, and you can also use water sprinklers or ultrasonic traps to keep them away.[15]
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Foxes have been known to dig through trash, so keep your trash bags in wheelie bins or heavy-lidded cans. This will also prevent other animals from showing up.[16]
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If you suspect a fox is a threat to you, call your local animal control office. Foxes are fairly harmless and rarely carry rabies, but they can go after small animals.[17]
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Warnings
Foxes generally don’t attack people, but they can prey on small animals. Keep your pets leashed when foxes are around, and lock them up at night.[18]
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If you use the right bait, such as a smelly piece of fish, this won’t be a problem. Use the same amount of food each time you attempt to lure in a fox. Place it in a small bowl or container you can set in your yard.\\nFoxes can forage for their own food. If they get all of their food from people, they become docile and stop hunting for themselves.\\nDocile foxes may visit your yard all the time looking for food. They could be caught or harmed while they are wandering around your neighborhood.\\n1-3. Choose meat, fish, and eggs to use as bait.\\nThe stronger the bait smells, the better it will be as a lure. One of the easiest ways to feed a fox is with a can of wet dog food or fishy-smelling cat food. You can use any type of raw meat or fish as well. Foxes often eat things like eggs, fruit, seeds, and some vegetables in the wild as well, but these may not be a great choice unless you’re certain a fox is going to find the bait.\\nFor example, foxes eat fruit like apples and blueberries, if they can find it.\\nTry providing root veggies like yams and potatoes. They usually don’t go after gardens, but sometimes they can dig up these types of plants if you have them.\\nFoxes eat a wide variety of things, including mushrooms, frogs, birds, and small rodents. They also enjoy salted peanuts and cheese.\\n1-4. Place the food away from your home.\\nFind a clear spot close to the edges of your yard or garden. Make sure you have a good view of the lure even when you’re standing far away. Foxes often enter new areas at the corners, but they don’t mind walking along clear paths to get food as long as there isn’t anything there to scare them. If you leave the food out in the open, you will be able to get a good view of any approaching foxes.\\nWatch out for any openings foxes may use to get in and out of enclosed areas. Look out for holes in fences, thick hedges, porches, and abandoned buildings. Move the food away from these spots so foxes can’t take it and run.\\nIf food is close to your home, a fox could get accustomed to your presence. They have been known to hide under porches or even go inside pet doors. It could attract other animals, such as mice, too.\\n1-5. Fill a bowl with fresh water to place next to the bait.\\nGet a second bowl to place near the one that will hold the bait. Doing this is especially useful if you don’t have a pond or another source of fresh water nearby. Keep this bowl filled whenever you’re watching for foxes. Take it inside and clean it out when you’re not.\\nKeep the bowl clean to prevent the spread of disease. Refill it with fresh water every day.\\n1-6. Stand back at a distance while watching the bait.\\nFoxes won’t approach bait if they know you’re close to it. Position yourself on your porch, for instance, or on the opposite side of your yard. Get as far away as you’re able to, stand still, and wait. If you happen to see a fox approaching, don’t do anything to alert it to your presence.\\nIf you wish to drive a fox away from your yard, just make loud noises. Yell, whistle, bang on something. Spraying them with water or throwing something soft, like a tennis ball, also works.\\nAdditionally, you can set up inexpensive water sprayers that activate when they sense movement. This is typically used for deer repellant, but it works for foxes as well.\\nIf a fox has gotten used to people feeding it, it may approach you. Don’t worry—it isn’t dangerous. However, don’t try to feed foxes yourself, since that teaches them to depend on people for food.\\n1-7. Remove leftover food and wash the bowl every day.\\nAnything not eaten by foxes will draw in other animals. When you’re done fox-watching, take the bait back inside and throw it away. Scrub the bowl clean with dish soap and water to prevent the spread of disease.\\nIf you end up attracting a fox (or another animal), remember to clean up any leftovers on the ground. They are easy to miss, but they can still lure unwanted guests into your yard.\\nMice and rats are the main animals drawn in by old bait, but you may also spot raccoons and other animals.\\n1-8. Place fresh bait out at the same time each night.\\nGetting a reluctant fox to venture into your yard can take a while. Keep putting fresh food out. If they know it’s there, they will wait for it and start creeping in to check it out. With patience and persistence, you can attract a fox!\\nIt also depends on them detecting the food. If you know foxes are in the area and you put out food often, you will eventually lure one in.\\nMake a routine of it. Placing food at the same time each day helps ensure there isn’t anything left sitting around for other animals, particularly rats.\\n2. Improving Your Yard to Attract More Foxes\\n2-1. Plant thick shrubs so foxes have a place to hide.\\nThick shrubs and bushes provide cover for visiting foxes. If you have a few along the perimeter of your yard, you will be much more likely to attract any foxes in the area. They sometimes burrow under overgrown bushes to set up their dens. If you don’t already have bushes, install a few to make your yard more inviting.\\nFoxes enjoy areas that have a variety of different natural elements, but bushy plants are among the most important.\\nFruit bushes, such as blueberry, raspberry, and blackberry bushes, are great choices since they also produce sweet fruit foxes enjoy.\\n2-2. Set up a compost pile to dispose of old food.\\nCompost piles hold organic scraps to turn them into fertilizer for plants. Compost piles smell pretty terrible due to the rotting food, like fruit and vegetable scraps. The strong smell draws in all sorts of animals, including foxes, who treat it like it’s a normal part of their environment. It can also bring in rats and field mice foxes hunt.\\nTo set up a compost pile, include equal amounts of wet material like food scraps and dry material like leaves. While meat can be composted, it isn’t great since it smells rancid and draws in maggots.\\nRemember to keep compost piles away from your home! Position it at least 12 in (30 cm) away, and check local regulations for more information.\\n2-3. Stack wood into piles to serve as a shelter.\\nFind a dry, breezy spot 6 to 9 m (20 to 30 ft) away from your home. To keep the wood dry, place a log rack or a wood pallet there. Then, stack firewood logs next to and on top of one another to build an even stack. Top the pile with a firewood cover to keep it dry. If the wood is spaced well enough, it can be a place for a fox to hide or even live, but it’s mainly to make your yard feel more like the woods.\\nWood piles add a natural element to your yard, but foxes sometimes live in or burrow under logs. If you have a large property with plenty of trees, you could leave old logs or branches in the hopes of drawing in foxes.\\nWood piles also serve as shelters for other creatures, including mice and rats, so be sure to keep them far from your home.\\n2-4. Place bird feeders to attract birds and scatter seeds.\\nPosition a few standing feeders about 3 m (9.8 ft) from your home. If you have trees, you can also hang some feeders on the branches. Foxes eat seeds in the wild, so anything dropped by the birds could become a food source for ones wandering through the area.\\nFoxes eat birds as well, so be prepared for that possibility if you let both into your yard at the same time.\\nLeftover bird seed also attracts other animals, particularly rats and mice, so keep the feeders away from your home and sweep up every week.\\n2-5. Plant fruit trees if you have room for them in your yard.\\nYou might not expect it, but foxes love sweet treats. They are particularly fond of apples and other fruit that tastes best in the fall. You can get some fruit trees or bushes at your local plant nursery. Space trees apart and keep them away from nearby structures so their roots don’t cause problems.\\nCherries, persimmons, and plums are a few other examples of fruit foxes like to eat. They get the fruit when it drops on the ground, but you can also harvest it and set it out for them.\\nDon’t overlook fruit bushes. Foxes love raspberries, blueberries, and blackberries. They also eat grapes.\\n2-6. Create a small pond filled with fresh water.\\nAnimals go where the water is, so a pond is great if you’re not too close to a lake or stream. If you have room in your yard, dig out a small area and install a pond liner. You can then install a filter to keep it clean and line its edges with rocks for decoration. Keep it filled with either rainwater or water from a hose so the foxes have something to drink.\\nIn general, if you’re within 1 to 2 mi (1.6 to 3.2 km) of a freshwater source, you have a chance of attracting a fox to your yard. Having one closer means more animals are likely to show up.\\nYou could also keep fish in your pond. If you’re protective of your pond, this won’t be a good idea since foxes will stop by to catch dinner.\\nTips\\nUse a scent repellent to keep foxes away from your home, garden, and any other areas you don’t want them to visit. 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Although people tend to give them a bad reputation, they are usually harmless, and you can attract them with the right bait. There are also ways you can improve the environment to make them more likely to show up. With a little bit of patience, you can make foxes a regular sight in your area.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Setting up a Lure\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Set out bait at night to increase your chances of seeing a fox.\", \"描述\": \"Foxes are most active at dusk or dawn. Prepare the lure right before dusk sets in, then move it outdoors for the foxes to find. Plan on setting it in a well-lit area so you are able to see any approaching foxes from a distance. Setting out your bait at night will also help stop daytime animals, like roaming pets, from getting to the food first.\\nFoxes are easiest to attract in winter when food is scarce, but they can be found during other seasons.\\nFoxes are often active during the day, but they are a little skittish. 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They could be caught or harmed while they are wandering around your neighborhood.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Choose meat, fish, and eggs to use as bait.\", \"描述\": \"The stronger the bait smells, the better it will be as a lure. One of the easiest ways to feed a fox is with a can of wet dog food or fishy-smelling cat food. You can use any type of raw meat or fish as well. Foxes often eat things like eggs, fruit, seeds, and some vegetables in the wild as well, but these may not be a great choice unless you’re certain a fox is going to find the bait.\\nFor example, foxes eat fruit like apples and blueberries, if they can find it.\\nTry providing root veggies like yams and potatoes. They usually don’t go after gardens, but sometimes they can dig up these types of plants if you have them.\\nFoxes eat a wide variety of things, including mushrooms, frogs, birds, and small rodents. They also enjoy salted peanuts and cheese.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Place the food away from your home.\", \"描述\": \"Find a clear spot close to the edges of your yard or garden. Make sure you have a good view of the lure even when you’re standing far away. Foxes often enter new areas at the corners, but they don’t mind walking along clear paths to get food as long as there isn’t anything there to scare them. If you leave the food out in the open, you will be able to get a good view of any approaching foxes.\\nWatch out for any openings foxes may use to get in and out of enclosed areas. Look out for holes in fences, thick hedges, porches, and abandoned buildings. Move the food away from these spots so foxes can’t take it and run.\\nIf food is close to your home, a fox could get accustomed to your presence. They have been known to hide under porches or even go inside pet doors. It could attract other animals, such as mice, too.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Fill a bowl with fresh water to place next to the bait.\", \"描述\": \"Get a second bowl to place near the one that will hold the bait. Doing this is especially useful if you don’t have a pond or another source of fresh water nearby. Keep this bowl filled whenever you’re watching for foxes. Take it inside and clean it out when you’re not.\\nKeep the bowl clean to prevent the spread of disease. Refill it with fresh water every day.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Stand back at a distance while watching the bait.\", \"描述\": \"Foxes won’t approach bait if they know you’re close to it. Position yourself on your porch, for instance, or on the opposite side of your yard. Get as far away as you’re able to, stand still, and wait. If you happen to see a fox approaching, don’t do anything to alert it to your presence.\\nIf you wish to drive a fox away from your yard, just make loud noises. Yell, whistle, bang on something. Spraying them with water or throwing something soft, like a tennis ball, also works.\\nAdditionally, you can set up inexpensive water sprayers that activate when they sense movement. This is typically used for deer repellant, but it works for foxes as well.\\nIf a fox has gotten used to people feeding it, it may approach you. Don’t worry—it isn’t dangerous. However, don’t try to feed foxes yourself, since that teaches them to depend on people for food.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Remove leftover food and wash the bowl every day.\", \"描述\": \"Anything not eaten by foxes will draw in other animals. When you’re done fox-watching, take the bait back inside and throw it away. Scrub the bowl clean with dish soap and water to prevent the spread of disease.\\nIf you end up attracting a fox (or another animal), remember to clean up any leftovers on the ground. 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2,725 | How to Attract Friends | 1. Meeting New People
1-1. Pick up a new hobby that involves interacting with other people.
It’s a lot easier to connect with people if you have a common interest to talk about. If you don’t have any social hobbies, pick one that appeals to you and find ways to start attending events or gatherings to meet strangers with similar interests. There are hundreds of subcultures and communities you can work your way into just by participating in events with new people.
Sports are a great option if you’re interested in them. Pick-up basketball games, intramural sports leagues, co-ed softball, and billiard leagues are all phenomenal ways to meet people interested in sports.
Board games or video games often have large events or tournaments at game stores and PC cafes. Games like Settlers of Catan, Chess, and Magic: the Gathering attract huge crowds of players. You can find school clubs and organized tournaments for video games like Smash Bros, League of Legends, and Madden.
Book readings and open mics are great if you’re looking to make some literary or creative friends. There are often tons of free readings and speaking events at local libraries and universities.
Gallery openings are great for meeting new people if you’re interested in the visual arts.
1-2. Join a club or take a class centered on a topic that intrigues you.
If you’re in school, find a student organization or club that appeals to you and reach out to see how you can join. If you aren’t in school, sign up for a fun class at your local community college, library, or nonprofit organization. Pick a subject you don’t know much about to meet other people that are interested in learning something new.
Book clubs are phenomenal if you’re looking to meet people that enjoy talking about complex subjects and reading.
Political groups and clubs that focus on social change are great if you’re interested in politics.
Volunteer organizations are an outstanding way to meet people that enjoy helping others.
Fraternities and sororities are a great option if you’re a college student.
1-3. Go to free events in your area to meet locals in an organized setting.
There are corkboards covered in flyers at most coffee shops, bookstores, and student recreation centers. The next time you see one of these corkboards, read the flyers. They’re often promoting free open mics, meetings, charity events, and concerts. These random events are a great way to meet people!
Only go to events that appeal to you. If you aren’t at all interested at knitting and you show up to a crochet workshop, you probably aren’t going to click with anybody.
1-4. Introduce yourself to neighbors your age the next time you see them.
Friendships often develop between people just because they’re in close proximity. If you have any neighbors that are your age, introduce yourself the next time you run into them. Strike up a series of small, friendly conversations and gradually build on these chats over time. Eventually, you may make a new friend or two.
If you live in a busy residential area, drink your morning coffee, do your homework, or read a book outside on your front porch every once in a while. You never know when someone will approach you!
1-5. Strike up more conversations with people you already interact with.
Many people make a lot of close friends with the people they work with or go to school with. If you have classmates or coworkers that you don’t know very well, start talking to them more often. You’ll already have something to talk about since you have a shared experience.
Mentioning a funny customer interaction, talking about a policy change at work, or discussing a difficult test is a great way to break the ice.
1-6. Head to your local bar if you’re over 21 to meet some new people.
If you’re old enough to drink, swing by your local bar every once in a while and sit at the bar (not a table). Slowly nurse a drink and wait for opportunities to crack a joke or join a conversation with the other regulars. People go to the bar to interact with others in the first place, so this is a great place to meet some new people.
Go to your local neighborhood bar, not a chain or restaurant. You’re more likely to run into a social crowd at the local spot.
Meetups and online communities are also a great option if you’re older. It isn’t a good idea to meet people online if you’re under 21, but as an adult there are all kinds of social meetups and events that get organized online.
1-7. Accept every initiation you receive and go to events alone.
If anyone ever invites you to something, say yes even if you don’t want to go or you feel anxious about attending. Go to events you’re invited to alone to force yourself to interact with new people. If you bring a close friend with you, you’ll spend the entire time talking to them instead of mingling with new potential friends.
This is particularly important advice for weddings! Weddings are a great way to meet new people since there are so many people in one place and, “So how do you know the groom or bride?” is the world’s easiest ice breaker.
1-8. Keep your chin up and stay visible when you’re at public events.
Whenever you go somewhere, literally keep your chin up. If you look down or stare at your phone, you’ll send a subconscious signal that you aren’t interested in talking to people. Avoid sitting in corners or at the back of the classroom to show that you’re open and willing to interact with others.
Body language is really important when it comes to attracting people and drawing them in to talk to you. Sitting quietly and not approaching people is a generally bad strategy for making friends, but if you’re going to entice people to come to you, you have to look open to chatting.
2. Being a Good Conversationalist
2-1. Keep the conversation light at first and let it develop naturally.
Start with the normal pleasantries and don’t try to drive the conversation into serious territory at first. Begin with a basic “How are you?” and let the person talk about how they’re doing. Avoid broaching any deeper topics until they come up naturally to avoid throwing people off or catching them off-guard.
”How are you” is likely the best question you can ask a new acquaintance. This question is an open invitation to get people talking about whatever they’d like to.
2-2. Ask people about themselves to get them talking.
If you just start talking about yourself, people will feel like you aren’t actually interested in them. Steer the conversation towards the person you’re talking to in order to send the signal that you want to know more about them. People enjoy talking about themselves and you’re more likely to develop a friendship if you seem actively invested in the person you’re talking to.
Questions like “What do you do for work,” “What do you do for fun around here,” and “Where’d you get that awesome shirt,” are subtle invitations for people to open up.
2-3. Laugh at their jokes and crack a few of your own if you can.
People enjoy sharing laughter and if you think back to your past friendships, some of your fondest memories likely involve laughing about something. If the person you’re talking to says something funny, laugh at their joke. Even if it isn’t really funny, act like it is and throw out a small, lighthearted chuckle. If you find an opening to make them laugh, go for it. Sharing a laugh is a phenomenal way to attract people to interact with you.
Don’t overdo it. If it really was a dud or you didn’t understand their joke, you may come off as disingenuous if you start laughing like they told the world’s greatest joke.
2-4. Smile and make eye contact while you’re talking to someone.
Body language is incredibly important when it comes to building positive associations. Maintain eye contact while you’re talking to someone and smile whenever it’s appropriate to show them that you’re happy to chat with them. If you look away while they speak, they may think you don’t want to talk to them. If you don’t smile, the other person may feel a little awkward.
Don’t smile so hard that your cheeks start hurting. Just maintain a simple, subtle grin.
Try to nod your head a little whenever the other person talks for more than 30-45 seconds. This sends the signal that you’re actively listening.
2-5. Work a few authentic compliments into your conversation.
People love compliments, and they’re more likely to enjoy talking to you if they feel appreciated or respected. Work a simple comment about their wardrobe, hair, or some point they’ve made to make them feel good about themselves. Just don’t overdo it and avoid getting too personal too quickly.
”I really like your shoes,” and, “That’s a great jacket,” are simple, noninvasive comments that are sure to put a smile on someone’s face.
If they say something you agree with, throw out a positive note about their comment. Say, “Wow, that’s a really good point,” or “I hadn’t thought of it like that, that’s a really smart way to put it” to make them feel like their opinion and voice are valuable to you.
2-6. Ask for contact information before you end the conversation.
If the conversation goes well and it lasts more than 5-10 minutes, ask the other person for their phone number, social media, or email. Try to link your request to something you’ve recently talked about. For example, if the two of you were discussing a local sports team, say something like, “Hey, we should catch a game sometime,” or, “I’m hosting a Super Bowl party this year if you’re interested.” Then, ask for their contact info.
Another way to go about this is to ask for something. For example, if the other person mentioned being into cycling, you may say, “Hey, I’m thinking about getting a bike. You mind if I get your email so I can ask an expert before buying a new bicycle?”
3. Exuding Confidence and Being Positive
3-1. Update your wardrobe and pick up some newer, trendier clothes.
Go through your clothing and pull out anything that is worn down, out of style, or doesn’t fit you anymore. Then, do some shopping and buy some new clothes. Don’t get anything you don’t personally like and don’t try to dress like someone you aren’t. Simply update your closet to give yourself more options and variety.
Sunglasses are a great wardrobe piece if you’re trying to meet new people and you have a bit of anxiety. Covering your eyes makes it easier to avoid showing people that you look nervous. They also make you look cool!
Don’t shy away from colorful wardrobe options. A fun jacket or shirt can be a great talking point.
3-2. Shake the anxiety by exposing yourself to new things and new people.
The more you go out and put yourself out there, the more comfortable you’ll become. Even if an attempt or two doesn’t go as planned, stick with it and keep introducing yourself to new people. Over time, you’ll get valuable experience and each new interaction will become easier than the last.
Interacting with new people can be scary, and there’s nothing wrong with you if this seems hard at first. Just do your best and stick with it.
3-3. Avoid self-deprecating humor and never put yourself down.
Nobody wants to be around a downer. People are much more likely to be attracted to you if you appear confident, positive, and well-adjusted. Don’t make jokes about yourself being bad at something or uninformed. It’s tempting to do this when you’re feeling awkward or nervous, but it’s important to avoid doing this if you want to make a good impression on potential friends.
3-4. Do things you enjoy to improve your overall attitude.
If you’re happy, you’re more likely to put other people in a good mood when you interact with them. In your quest to attract more friends, don’t forget to take time for yourself. Continue pursing hobbies you enjoy, stay on top of your schoolwork or work responsibilities, and exercise regularly to feel good physically.
If you already have a few close friends, hang out with them! Appreciating and enjoying the people already in your life is important.
3-5. Be positive and kind to uplift the people around you.
Be kind to others, avoid gossiping, and show compassion and empathy. If you’re a positive person, other people will naturally be more drawn to you. It’s easy to focus on the negative things, so take time every day to spread joy and focus on the positive. Even when you’re feeling a little down, remind yourself of things that bring you joy to keep your head up.
An easy way to do this is to practice a random act of kindness every day. Say something nice to a stranger, help a senior citizen cross the street, or offer up your seat on the bus to somebody that looks like they need it.
3-6. Spend time with your friends and cherish them.
When you make a new friend, stay in contact with them. Invite them to hang out with you regularly and check in on them from time to time to make see how they’re doing. Enjoy your time with your friends! The entire point of making friends is to build on the relationship so don’t neglect the friends you already have while you’re out making new friends.
Don't be afraid to let go of friendships that don't feel helpful, nourishing, or healthy anymore.
Tips
Offer to help people when they need it. Nobody likes moving furniture or struggling through a school assignment, and if you can make things easier for people, they’ll be more likely to reach out to you in the future.
People warm up to new friends over time. This process can take time so don’t get frustrated if you don’t make a ton of friends in the first week or so.
Warnings
Never show up to something uninvited. If you’re interested in going to a party or social gathering, just ask the organizer if you can attend.
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You can find school clubs and organized tournaments for video games like Smash Bros, League of Legends, and Madden.\\nBook readings and open mics are great if you’re looking to make some literary or creative friends. There are often tons of free readings and speaking events at local libraries and universities.\\nGallery openings are great for meeting new people if you’re interested in the visual arts.\\n1-2. Join a club or take a class centered on a topic that intrigues you.\\nIf you’re in school, find a student organization or club that appeals to you and reach out to see how you can join. If you aren’t in school, sign up for a fun class at your local community college, library, or nonprofit organization. Pick a subject you don’t know much about to meet other people that are interested in learning something new.\\nBook clubs are phenomenal if you’re looking to meet people that enjoy talking about complex subjects and reading.\\nPolitical groups and clubs that focus on social change are great if you’re interested in politics.\\nVolunteer organizations are an outstanding way to meet people that enjoy helping others.\\nFraternities and sororities are a great option if you’re a college student.\\n1-3. Go to free events in your area to meet locals in an organized setting.\\nThere are corkboards covered in flyers at most coffee shops, bookstores, and student recreation centers. The next time you see one of these corkboards, read the flyers. They’re often promoting free open mics, meetings, charity events, and concerts. These random events are a great way to meet people!\\nOnly go to events that appeal to you. If you aren’t at all interested at knitting and you show up to a crochet workshop, you probably aren’t going to click with anybody.\\n1-4. Introduce yourself to neighbors your age the next time you see them.\\nFriendships often develop between people just because they’re in close proximity. If you have any neighbors that are your age, introduce yourself the next time you run into them. Strike up a series of small, friendly conversations and gradually build on these chats over time. Eventually, you may make a new friend or two.\\nIf you live in a busy residential area, drink your morning coffee, do your homework, or read a book outside on your front porch every once in a while. You never know when someone will approach you!\\n1-5. Strike up more conversations with people you already interact with.\\nMany people make a lot of close friends with the people they work with or go to school with. If you have classmates or coworkers that you don’t know very well, start talking to them more often. You’ll already have something to talk about since you have a shared experience.\\nMentioning a funny customer interaction, talking about a policy change at work, or discussing a difficult test is a great way to break the ice.\\n1-6. Head to your local bar if you’re over 21 to meet some new people.\\nIf you’re old enough to drink, swing by your local bar every once in a while and sit at the bar (not a table). Slowly nurse a drink and wait for opportunities to crack a joke or join a conversation with the other regulars. People go to the bar to interact with others in the first place, so this is a great place to meet some new people.\\nGo to your local neighborhood bar, not a chain or restaurant. You’re more likely to run into a social crowd at the local spot.\\nMeetups and online communities are also a great option if you’re older. It isn’t a good idea to meet people online if you’re under 21, but as an adult there are all kinds of social meetups and events that get organized online.\\n1-7. Accept every initiation you receive and go to events alone.\\nIf anyone ever invites you to something, say yes even if you don’t want to go or you feel anxious about attending. Go to events you’re invited to alone to force yourself to interact with new people. If you bring a close friend with you, you’ll spend the entire time talking to them instead of mingling with new potential friends.\\nThis is particularly important advice for weddings! Weddings are a great way to meet new people since there are so many people in one place and, “So how do you know the groom or bride?” is the world’s easiest ice breaker.\\n1-8. Keep your chin up and stay visible when you’re at public events.\\nWhenever you go somewhere, literally keep your chin up. If you look down or stare at your phone, you’ll send a subconscious signal that you aren’t interested in talking to people. Avoid sitting in corners or at the back of the classroom to show that you’re open and willing to interact with others.\\nBody language is really important when it comes to attracting people and drawing them in to talk to you. Sitting quietly and not approaching people is a generally bad strategy for making friends, but if you’re going to entice people to come to you, you have to look open to chatting.\\n2. Being a Good Conversationalist\\n2-1. Keep the conversation light at first and let it develop naturally.\\nStart with the normal pleasantries and don’t try to drive the conversation into serious territory at first. Begin with a basic “How are you?” and let the person talk about how they’re doing. Avoid broaching any deeper topics until they come up naturally to avoid throwing people off or catching them off-guard.\\n”How are you” is likely the best question you can ask a new acquaintance. This question is an open invitation to get people talking about whatever they’d like to.\\n2-2. Ask people about themselves to get them talking.\\nIf you just start talking about yourself, people will feel like you aren’t actually interested in them. Steer the conversation towards the person you’re talking to in order to send the signal that you want to know more about them. People enjoy talking about themselves and you’re more likely to develop a friendship if you seem actively invested in the person you’re talking to.\\nQuestions like “What do you do for work,” “What do you do for fun around here,” and “Where’d you get that awesome shirt,” are subtle invitations for people to open up.\\n2-3. Laugh at their jokes and crack a few of your own if you can.\\nPeople enjoy sharing laughter and if you think back to your past friendships, some of your fondest memories likely involve laughing about something. If the person you’re talking to says something funny, laugh at their joke. Even if it isn’t really funny, act like it is and throw out a small, lighthearted chuckle. If you find an opening to make them laugh, go for it. Sharing a laugh is a phenomenal way to attract people to interact with you.\\nDon’t overdo it. If it really was a dud or you didn’t understand their joke, you may come off as disingenuous if you start laughing like they told the world’s greatest joke.\\n2-4. Smile and make eye contact while you’re talking to someone.\\nBody language is incredibly important when it comes to building positive associations. Maintain eye contact while you’re talking to someone and smile whenever it’s appropriate to show them that you’re happy to chat with them. If you look away while they speak, they may think you don’t want to talk to them. If you don’t smile, the other person may feel a little awkward.\\nDon’t smile so hard that your cheeks start hurting. Just maintain a simple, subtle grin.\\nTry to nod your head a little whenever the other person talks for more than 30-45 seconds. This sends the signal that you’re actively listening.\\n2-5. Work a few authentic compliments into your conversation.\\nPeople love compliments, and they’re more likely to enjoy talking to you if they feel appreciated or respected. Work a simple comment about their wardrobe, hair, or some point they’ve made to make them feel good about themselves. Just don’t overdo it and avoid getting too personal too quickly.\\n”I really like your shoes,” and, “That’s a great jacket,” are simple, noninvasive comments that are sure to put a smile on someone’s face.\\nIf they say something you agree with, throw out a positive note about their comment. Say, “Wow, that’s a really good point,” or “I hadn’t thought of it like that, that’s a really smart way to put it” to make them feel like their opinion and voice are valuable to you.\\n2-6. Ask for contact information before you end the conversation.\\nIf the conversation goes well and it lasts more than 5-10 minutes, ask the other person for their phone number, social media, or email. Try to link your request to something you’ve recently talked about. For example, if the two of you were discussing a local sports team, say something like, “Hey, we should catch a game sometime,” or, “I’m hosting a Super Bowl party this year if you’re interested.” Then, ask for their contact info.\\nAnother way to go about this is to ask for something. For example, if the other person mentioned being into cycling, you may say, “Hey, I’m thinking about getting a bike. You mind if I get your email so I can ask an expert before buying a new bicycle?”\\n3. Exuding Confidence and Being Positive\\n3-1. Update your wardrobe and pick up some newer, trendier clothes.\\nGo through your clothing and pull out anything that is worn down, out of style, or doesn’t fit you anymore. Then, do some shopping and buy some new clothes. Don’t get anything you don’t personally like and don’t try to dress like someone you aren’t. Simply update your closet to give yourself more options and variety.\\nSunglasses are a great wardrobe piece if you’re trying to meet new people and you have a bit of anxiety. Covering your eyes makes it easier to avoid showing people that you look nervous. They also make you look cool!\\nDon’t shy away from colorful wardrobe options. A fun jacket or shirt can be a great talking point.\\n3-2. Shake the anxiety by exposing yourself to new things and new people.\\nThe more you go out and put yourself out there, the more comfortable you’ll become. Even if an attempt or two doesn’t go as planned, stick with it and keep introducing yourself to new people. Over time, you’ll get valuable experience and each new interaction will become easier than the last.\\nInteracting with new people can be scary, and there’s nothing wrong with you if this seems hard at first. Just do your best and stick with it.\\n3-3. Avoid self-deprecating humor and never put yourself down.\\nNobody wants to be around a downer. People are much more likely to be attracted to you if you appear confident, positive, and well-adjusted. Don’t make jokes about yourself being bad at something or uninformed. It’s tempting to do this when you’re feeling awkward or nervous, but it’s important to avoid doing this if you want to make a good impression on potential friends.\\n3-4. Do things you enjoy to improve your overall attitude.\\nIf you’re happy, you’re more likely to put other people in a good mood when you interact with them. In your quest to attract more friends, don’t forget to take time for yourself. Continue pursing hobbies you enjoy, stay on top of your schoolwork or work responsibilities, and exercise regularly to feel good physically.\\nIf you already have a few close friends, hang out with them! Appreciating and enjoying the people already in your life is important.\\n3-5. Be positive and kind to uplift the people around you.\\nBe kind to others, avoid gossiping, and show compassion and empathy. If you’re a positive person, other people will naturally be more drawn to you. It’s easy to focus on the negative things, so take time every day to spread joy and focus on the positive. Even when you’re feeling a little down, remind yourself of things that bring you joy to keep your head up.\\nAn easy way to do this is to practice a random act of kindness every day. Say something nice to a stranger, help a senior citizen cross the street, or offer up your seat on the bus to somebody that looks like they need it.\\n3-6. Spend time with your friends and cherish them.\\nWhen you make a new friend, stay in contact with them. Invite them to hang out with you regularly and check in on them from time to time to make see how they’re doing. Enjoy your time with your friends! The entire point of making friends is to build on the relationship so don’t neglect the friends you already have while you’re out making new friends.\\nDon't be afraid to let go of friendships that don't feel helpful, nourishing, or healthy anymore.\\nTips\\nOffer to help people when they need it. Nobody likes moving furniture or struggling through a school assignment, and if you can make things easier for people, they’ll be more likely to reach out to you in the future.\\nPeople warm up to new friends over time. This process can take time so don’t get frustrated if you don’t make a ton of friends in the first week or so.\\nWarnings\\nNever show up to something uninvited. If you’re interested in going to a party or social gathering, just ask the organizer if you can attend.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Attracting new friends can be scary. It’s easy to get in your head and feel like people are judging every little thing you do, but the good news is that these feelings go away over time as you keep putting yourself out there. The more practice you get at interacting with new people and trying new things, the easier it’ll be to navigate conversations naturally and find people to hang out with. So long as you’re true to yourself, honest, and friendly, you’ll find yourself attracting new friends in no time.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Meeting New People\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pick up a new hobby that involves interacting with other people.\", \"描述\": \"It’s a lot easier to connect with people if you have a common interest to talk about. 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2,726 | How to Attract Frogs | 1. Giving Frogs the Essentials for Life
1-1. Provide a shallow, non-moving water source.
Frogs drink and breathe through their skin, which needs to be kept constantly moist in order for them to perform these basic life functions. Thus, the most essential requirement for attracting frogs is an accessible source of fresh water that's out of direct sunlight.
If you don't have a pond or other built-in water source in your yard, simply place some large, shallow dishes of water in a shady area of your lawn or garden. Be sure to clean the dish and change the water weekly so that it doesn't stagnate.
You could also try sinking a shallow plastic tub into the ground to provide a makeshift pond.
Frogs also spawn in water. Ideally, your water source or sources should be large enough to accommodate adult and young frogs.
1-2. Give them a shady, damp shelter.
Frogs are generally more active at night since too much exposure to the sun puts them at risk of dehydration. Create a simple shelter for frogs that will offer them a safe, cave-like space to rest during the day. It should be out of the sun and predators' reach.
You can create a simple shelter using an overturned ceramic pot propped up by some rocks. Place it in a shady location near to a water source, and leave just enough room between the rim of the pot and the earth for frogs to slip in and out.
1-3. Plant to attract insects.
If you want frogs to show up in your yard or garden, you need to provide them with adequate food. The best way to do that is plant a range of seasonal flowering plants that will attract insects throughout the year.
Aim to always have something in bloom during the spring, summer, and fall. That way, nectar-eating bugs will flock to your yard.
1-4. Keep a compost heap and mulch the beds in your garden.
The bugs that are attracted to a compost heap and mulch also make great food for frogs. Compost and mulch can also provide the damp conditions where frogs love to live.
Do not remove leaf litter from some areas in your yard. Leaf litter provides shelter for frogs and some of their prey also prefers areas with leaf litter.
2. Building a Pond for Frogs
2-1. Choose a good spot.
It should be a partially shaded corner of your yard. Ponds need some direct sunlight to be a healthy environment. However, frogs prefer shaded environments for breeding and shelter from the sun.
2-2. Dig a shallow hole.
Frog ponds can be as wide as you want, but they should be no more than a foot (or about 30 cm) deep. Be sure that your hole has shallow edges in it so that the frogs can enter and leave easily. Remove any roots, sticks, or stones that could damage the liner.
Frogs thrive best in shallow, non-moving water and are surprisingly susceptible to drowning in deeper water.
If you don't have tapering edges to your pool, you'll need to provide some sort of incline. Frogs need a gently sloping exit, like a slab of rock, so they can easily get out of the water.
If you would like your pond to be a specific shape, mark out the edges with a piece of rope before digging.
If you're digging up your lawn, keep the pieces of turf to help you secure the pond's edges.
2-3. Line the hole.
To keep the water in, you'll need a rubber or plastic pond liner. To protect the liner in the long-term, it's also a good idea to first insert a protective underlay between the plastic and the dirt to cushion the liner.
The easiest way to line your pond is to purchase a flexible or rigid plastic pond liner. However, any thick, durable plastic sheeting will do.
Make sure that your liner is big enough to cover the entirety of your pond with a least two feet (about 60 cm) of excess on all sides.
Ponds can also be lined with concrete, but you will need to treat it to ensure that lime does not leach into the water.
2-4. Secure the pond's perimeter.
Weigh down the plastic sheet around the edges of your pond with closely-packed rocks, and/or ring it with the pieces of turf you kept from digging the hole where your pond would go. Either way, make sure your perimeter is heavy and big enough to keep the liner in place.
Once you've secured the pond's perimeter, you can cut away any excess liner.
2-5. Let the pond fill with water.
Ideally, you should let your pond fill with rainwater rather than filling it from the hose or tap. You can speed up that process by collecting rain in buckets to add to the pond.
2-6. Add a bucket of natural pond water.
If you mix in a bucket-full of water taken from a local marsh or pond, it will introduce millions of microscopic organisms that can jump-start your pond's ecosystem. They will infuse the water with oxygen, making it more livable and appealing to native frogs in your area.
You can also try planting a few native water plants in your pond to attract local frogs. Just make sure that the plants don't overtake the whole pond and choke other wildlife out.
2-7. Give frogs cover.
At least one edge of the pond should be thickly vegetated with leafy plants that grow well in your area. Plant grasses and leafy perennials around the edges of the pond to provide frogs with adequate shade, dampness, and protection.
If you are looking to attract local species, it's a good idea to stick to native plants when planting around your pond. Pick a selection of native grasses, clumping plants (like ferns and lilies), and ground cover (like shrubs and vines) to grow around your frog pond.
2-8. Wait for frogs to colonize your yard or garden.
Keep in mind that it may take a couple years for frogs to populate your garden, even after you have created a suitable environment for them.
If attracting frogs takes longer than you would like, you can try seeding your pond with tadpoles in the spring. Make sure you use a type of tadpole that is native to your area.
3. Eliminating Risks to Frog Populations
3-1. Avoid using chemicals
Frogs are especially susceptible to poisoning from pesticides, herbicides, synthetic fertilizers, and other common garden chemicals because their hydration and respiration takes place through their porous skin. If you want to attract a healthy frog population, start by using organic gardening practices.
Instead of using synthetic fertilizer, encourage growth through picking nutrient-rich soils that are appropriate to each plant, rotating your crops to keep your soil rich, and using organic fertilizer when necessary.
Keep in mind that once you've attracted frogs, you shouldn't have any need of chemical pesticides since a single frog will consume more than 10,000 bugs a season.
3-2. Keep out invasive species.
You want to attract the right kind of frogs. Non-native frogs will compete with local ones for food and shelter. Sometimes they'll even eat local species. Their populations are also generally difficult to control because they have no natural predators.
Identify the species of frogs in your yard or garden to be sure that they're not invasive. Invasive.org has a list of dangerous non-native wildlife that can be searched by animal type and region.
If you do find invasive species of frogs in your yard or garden, contact your local government environmental agency, like your state's DNR, or a nonprofit conservation group, like the National Wildlife Federation, for advice and support about how to remove them responsibly.
3-3. Keep your grass short.
Frogs like to hide in tall grass and are frequent victims of lawn mowers. Be sure that you can see any rogue amphibians in your path by keeping the grass in your yard or garden well-trimmed.
3-4. Thaw water sources when necessary.
Most male frogs hibernate in water over the winter. A thin layer of ice will not harm them. However, if their water source is completely frozen, they won't survive. Protect any dormant amphibians by putting a pan of hot water over thickening ice.
3-5. Avoid plants that are toxic to frogs.
Many flowers and vegetables are poisonous to frogs. Protect the amphibian population in your yard or garden by either not planting species that are toxic to them or by planting them well away from your intended frog habitat.
Vegetables that are dangerous for frogs include eggplant, rhubarb, snow peas, and potatoes.
Flowers that are toxic to frogs include honeysuckle, azaleas, hydrangeas, daffodils, and hyacinth.
4. Attracting Tree Frogs
4-1. Keep an outdoor light on at night.
Tree frogs love to eat the moths and insects that are attracted to light sources. Keep a garden light on for part or all of the night in order to create an irresistible feeding spot for them.
4-2. Don't trim your trees.
You can provide tree frogs with natural habitat by avoiding trimming back bushes and tree branches near water or food sources. Keeping your trees and shrubs leafy and full will give frogs plenty of cover. It will also provide them with good hunting grounds.
4-3. Make a ground home for tree frogs.
Tree frogs won't gather in normal frog abodes on the ground; give them an alternative with a bit of height. Get a piece of PVC piping that's about 5 feet long. Drive it into the ground so that roughly half of the pipe is left exposed.
Place the PVC pipe about a foot from the base of a tree that's near a water source.
Water may gather in the bottom of the pipe, but it should be absorbed by the underlying ground before it reaches a dangerous depth.
PVC pipe is available from most home improvement stores.
4-4. Hang frog refuges in a tree.
Cut standard schedule-20 PVC piping into pieces that are about 2 feet in length. Cap the bottom-side of the pipe, and drill a hole about 3 or 4 inches above the capped bottom so that water can both gather and escape from the refuge.
Drill two holes on one side of the top of each pipe. String the holes with heavy fishing line, and tie the refuges around a tree.
If possible, pick a tree that's near a water source since that's the place where frogs are most likely to congregate naturally.
Keep the PVC refuges at a height that is easy for you to reach. Take the caps off at least once a month so that water doesn't stagnate in the bottom of them.
Tips
Frogs hibernate in winter. Do not worry about your frogs if they are lying dormant near the bottom of the pond during cold weather; that's normal.
Often elementary teachers have tadpoles in their classrooms that they need to find a home for at the end of the school year. They can be an excellent source of local tadpoles.
Warnings
Nylon mesh used to protect your garden plants should have a mesh that is at least 1.5 inches (4 cm) and all mesh should be taut. Otherwise garden frogs can be trapped in the mesh and die.
Do not put a fountain in a frog pond. Frog eggs and tadpoles can become caught in the pump.[25]
X
Research source
Fish will eat frog eggs and compete with them for food. Do not put them in a pond to which you wish to attract frogs.[26]
X
Research source
Never forcibly transport frogs away from their original habitat and into your yard or garden. Transplanted frogs are not likely to survive and can spread diseases that are dangerous to local wildlife.[27]
X
Research source
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Give them a shady, damp shelter.\\nFrogs are generally more active at night since too much exposure to the sun puts them at risk of dehydration. Create a simple shelter for frogs that will offer them a safe, cave-like space to rest during the day. It should be out of the sun and predators' reach.\\nYou can create a simple shelter using an overturned ceramic pot propped up by some rocks. Place it in a shady location near to a water source, and leave just enough room between the rim of the pot and the earth for frogs to slip in and out.\\n1-3. Plant to attract insects.\\nIf you want frogs to show up in your yard or garden, you need to provide them with adequate food. The best way to do that is plant a range of seasonal flowering plants that will attract insects throughout the year.\\nAim to always have something in bloom during the spring, summer, and fall. That way, nectar-eating bugs will flock to your yard.\\n1-4. Keep a compost heap and mulch the beds in your garden.\\nThe bugs that are attracted to a compost heap and mulch also make great food for frogs. Compost and mulch can also provide the damp conditions where frogs love to live.\\nDo not remove leaf litter from some areas in your yard. Leaf litter provides shelter for frogs and some of their prey also prefers areas with leaf litter.\\n2. Building a Pond for Frogs\\n2-1. Choose a good spot.\\nIt should be a partially shaded corner of your yard. Ponds need some direct sunlight to be a healthy environment. However, frogs prefer shaded environments for breeding and shelter from the sun.\\n2-2. Dig a shallow hole.\\nFrog ponds can be as wide as you want, but they should be no more than a foot (or about 30 cm) deep. Be sure that your hole has shallow edges in it so that the frogs can enter and leave easily. Remove any roots, sticks, or stones that could damage the liner.\\nFrogs thrive best in shallow, non-moving water and are surprisingly susceptible to drowning in deeper water.\\nIf you don't have tapering edges to your pool, you'll need to provide some sort of incline. Frogs need a gently sloping exit, like a slab of rock, so they can easily get out of the water.\\nIf you would like your pond to be a specific shape, mark out the edges with a piece of rope before digging.\\nIf you're digging up your lawn, keep the pieces of turf to help you secure the pond's edges.\\n2-3. Line the hole.\\nTo keep the water in, you'll need a rubber or plastic pond liner. To protect the liner in the long-term, it's also a good idea to first insert a protective underlay between the plastic and the dirt to cushion the liner.\\nThe easiest way to line your pond is to purchase a flexible or rigid plastic pond liner. However, any thick, durable plastic sheeting will do.\\nMake sure that your liner is big enough to cover the entirety of your pond with a least two feet (about 60 cm) of excess on all sides.\\nPonds can also be lined with concrete, but you will need to treat it to ensure that lime does not leach into the water.\\n2-4. Secure the pond's perimeter.\\nWeigh down the plastic sheet around the edges of your pond with closely-packed rocks, and/or ring it with the pieces of turf you kept from digging the hole where your pond would go. Either way, make sure your perimeter is heavy and big enough to keep the liner in place.\\nOnce you've secured the pond's perimeter, you can cut away any excess liner.\\n2-5. Let the pond fill with water.\\nIdeally, you should let your pond fill with rainwater rather than filling it from the hose or tap. You can speed up that process by collecting rain in buckets to add to the pond.\\n2-6. Add a bucket of natural pond water.\\nIf you mix in a bucket-full of water taken from a local marsh or pond, it will introduce millions of microscopic organisms that can jump-start your pond's ecosystem. They will infuse the water with oxygen, making it more livable and appealing to native frogs in your area.\\nYou can also try planting a few native water plants in your pond to attract local frogs. Just make sure that the plants don't overtake the whole pond and choke other wildlife out.\\n2-7. Give frogs cover.\\nAt least one edge of the pond should be thickly vegetated with leafy plants that grow well in your area. Plant grasses and leafy perennials around the edges of the pond to provide frogs with adequate shade, dampness, and protection.\\nIf you are looking to attract local species, it's a good idea to stick to native plants when planting around your pond. Pick a selection of native grasses, clumping plants (like ferns and lilies), and ground cover (like shrubs and vines) to grow around your frog pond.\\n2-8. Wait for frogs to colonize your yard or garden.\\nKeep in mind that it may take a couple years for frogs to populate your garden, even after you have created a suitable environment for them.\\nIf attracting frogs takes longer than you would like, you can try seeding your pond with tadpoles in the spring. Make sure you use a type of tadpole that is native to your area.\\n3. Eliminating Risks to Frog Populations\\n3-1. Avoid using chemicals\\nFrogs are especially susceptible to poisoning from pesticides, herbicides, synthetic fertilizers, and other common garden chemicals because their hydration and respiration takes place through their porous skin. If you want to attract a healthy frog population, start by using organic gardening practices.\\nInstead of using synthetic fertilizer, encourage growth through picking nutrient-rich soils that are appropriate to each plant, rotating your crops to keep your soil rich, and using organic fertilizer when necessary.\\nKeep in mind that once you've attracted frogs, you shouldn't have any need of chemical pesticides since a single frog will consume more than 10,000 bugs a season.\\n3-2. Keep out invasive species.\\nYou want to attract the right kind of frogs. Non-native frogs will compete with local ones for food and shelter. Sometimes they'll even eat local species. Their populations are also generally difficult to control because they have no natural predators.\\nIdentify the species of frogs in your yard or garden to be sure that they're not invasive. Invasive.org has a list of dangerous non-native wildlife that can be searched by animal type and region.\\nIf you do find invasive species of frogs in your yard or garden, contact your local government environmental agency, like your state's DNR, or a nonprofit conservation group, like the National Wildlife Federation, for advice and support about how to remove them responsibly.\\n3-3. Keep your grass short.\\nFrogs like to hide in tall grass and are frequent victims of lawn mowers. Be sure that you can see any rogue amphibians in your path by keeping the grass in your yard or garden well-trimmed.\\n3-4. Thaw water sources when necessary.\\nMost male frogs hibernate in water over the winter. A thin layer of ice will not harm them. However, if their water source is completely frozen, they won't survive. Protect any dormant amphibians by putting a pan of hot water over thickening ice.\\n3-5. Avoid plants that are toxic to frogs.\\nMany flowers and vegetables are poisonous to frogs. Protect the amphibian population in your yard or garden by either not planting species that are toxic to them or by planting them well away from your intended frog habitat.\\nVegetables that are dangerous for frogs include eggplant, rhubarb, snow peas, and potatoes.\\nFlowers that are toxic to frogs include honeysuckle, azaleas, hydrangeas, daffodils, and hyacinth.\\n4. Attracting Tree Frogs\\n4-1. Keep an outdoor light on at night.\\nTree frogs love to eat the moths and insects that are attracted to light sources. Keep a garden light on for part or all of the night in order to create an irresistible feeding spot for them.\\n4-2. Don't trim your trees.\\nYou can provide tree frogs with natural habitat by avoiding trimming back bushes and tree branches near water or food sources. Keeping your trees and shrubs leafy and full will give frogs plenty of cover. It will also provide them with good hunting grounds.\\n4-3. Make a ground home for tree frogs.\\nTree frogs won't gather in normal frog abodes on the ground; give them an alternative with a bit of height. Get a piece of PVC piping that's about 5 feet long. Drive it into the ground so that roughly half of the pipe is left exposed.\\nPlace the PVC pipe about a foot from the base of a tree that's near a water source.\\nWater may gather in the bottom of the pipe, but it should be absorbed by the underlying ground before it reaches a dangerous depth.\\nPVC pipe is available from most home improvement stores.\\n4-4. Hang frog refuges in a tree.\\nCut standard schedule-20 PVC piping into pieces that are about 2 feet in length. Cap the bottom-side of the pipe, and drill a hole about 3 or 4 inches above the capped bottom so that water can both gather and escape from the refuge.\\nDrill two holes on one side of the top of each pipe. String the holes with heavy fishing line, and tie the refuges around a tree.\\nIf possible, pick a tree that's near a water source since that's the place where frogs are most likely to congregate naturally.\\nKeep the PVC refuges at a height that is easy for you to reach. Take the caps off at least once a month so that water doesn't stagnate in the bottom of them.\\nTips\\nFrogs hibernate in winter. Do not worry about your frogs if they are lying dormant near the bottom of the pond during cold weather; that's normal.\\nOften elementary teachers have tadpoles in their classrooms that they need to find a home for at the end of the school year. They can be an excellent source of local tadpoles.\\nWarnings\\nNylon mesh used to protect your garden plants should have a mesh that is at least 1.5 inches (4 cm) and all mesh should be taut. Otherwise garden frogs can be trapped in the mesh and die.\\nDo not put a fountain in a frog pond. 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2,727 | How to Attract Girls | 1. Making Her Happy
1-1. Get to know her
Talk to her and listen to her. Ask her about her family and where she grew up, her religion and politics, and what she likes to do for fun. Don’t be critical or rude about her answers: they are hers, not yours! Respect her ideas, her opinions, and her beliefs. Girls like it when you treat them like people. If you want girls to find you attractive, respecting them as people is a great place to start.
For example, ask her about her favorite hobby, and then ask her how she got into that hobby. This is a great way to work into talking about where and how she grew up, her family, etc.
1-2. Find things you have in common.
She likes Metallica….you like Metallica…..bam! You now have something to talk about! Ask her about the music she listens to, the movies she watches, and the things she does in her spare time. Find some common ground and you will have a great way to get to know each other and bond.
1-3. Be a good friend
If we guaranteed you wouldn’t get friend-zoned, we’d be lying. But being friends with a girl and showing her what a wonderful person you are is the best way to attract her. Show her how happy she’d be with you and then see how much happier you are with her.
Be supportive when she is having a hard day, help take her mind off of her problems, be available when she needs help, and listen to her when she talks.
1-4. Don’t be disrespectful.
Don’t stare at her and then avoid eye contact. Don’t hover around her and then never actually manage to say anything. Don’t make unwanted physical advances. Things like this will upset her and definitely make you a lot less attractive.
2. Being Awesome
2-1. Build your self-esteem and confidence.
Self-confidence and self-esteem are very attractive qualities. Girls will fall head over heels for a guy that is confident in himself and what he can do. Do things that build your confidence in yourself like volunteering, learning a new skill, or traveling.
You can build confidence by volunteering with an organization like Homes for Humanity. This will give you the chance to prove to yourself and everyone else that you can do something and make a difference.
You can also boost your confidence by learning a new skill, like a second or third language. This can be done easily and for free online with sites like Livemocha.
2-2. Don’t compare yourself
This is not going to make you feel any better about yourself. The only person you can ever be is you and that is great! Show the world how awesome you can be and stop trying to be somebody else’s brand of awesome.
Don’t try to act like anyone other than yourself either. Girls will notice you trying to hard and being all fake and they will not find that attractive. Acting like some gangsta thug when you grew up rich in the suburbs? Sorry, poser. She’ll notice. Just be you and be happy about being you. Girls will find that very attractive.
2-3. Take care of yourself and your appearance.
Don’t neglect personal hygiene or your wardrobe. Why would a girl like you if you didn’t even like yourself enough to take care of your body? Wash your hair and body regularly, use deodorant, wear clothes that don’t have holes or stains, and brush your teeth.
Don't worry too much about wearing brand name clothes. She'll notice a lot more if your clothes fit you well and are in colors that make you look great, not what letter is written on the chest.
Don't go overboard, of course. Some gel in your hair is probably good, but it shouldn't look wet and be rock hard, you know?
For example, you might wear a nice-fitting T-shirt, well-fitting jeans, and an Apple watch or cool bracelet.
A lot of times, guys actually aren't used to wearing well-fitting clothes. With this in mind, try to wear clothes are a little bit tighter than what you think they should be.
2-4. Be approachable
Don’t seem angry, upset, douchey, or otherwise unpleasant to talk to. If you seem like you’re mad at her every time you talk to her, why would she want to talk to you, much less date you? Smile, be friendly, and try to make yourself easy to talk to by, you know, talking.
2-5. Be an amazing person.
Be someone that girls want to date. You don’t have to be smart but at least try to be knowledgeable and curious. Be a kind person that works hard to improve the lives of people around you. And do something with your life. That part is really important. Get out there and work to make a better life for yourself.
You can become more knowledgeable by reading about things that interest you. Did you know they have entire books about the evolution of weapons like swords? Books about how they think dinosaurs killed their prey? Yeah, library time.
Consider your dreams. What do you want for your life? What is your great passion? Showing that passion is really attractive to girls: they want to think that you'll love them as much as you love...baseball or whatever.
2-6. Be kind and funny.
Try to help her and always smile at her. A smile can make her day much better. Don't try to act cool and don't always talk to your friends when she's around. Try to set some time alone with her and talk to her in a kind voice.
2-7. Keep up in school.
You don't have to get perfect grades, but at least shoot for "A"s and "B"s. Get good grades, but don't become arrogant either. Offer to help her with assignments she is having trouble with or offer to help her study for a test. Don't take it personally if she says she doesn't want your help though.
Staying organized is also very important. You don't want to look like a mess in class all of the time trying to find your homework in front of her. Most girls like organized boys that turn in their assignments on time.
2-8. Join sports.
This can not only attract many girls, especially cheerleaders and other girls that also play sports, but also boost your self-confidence. Girls like boys who are in shape and are athletic. Tryout for sports and get on a team with people that go to your school.
Tips
Know that "attracting" is just a part of a relationship.
Girls like guys who understand them. So listening is very important.
Compliment her looks and she will feel confident. Understand her mind and you will know how to interact with her.
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2,728 | How to Attract Girls Without Being Annoying | 1. Having an Attractive Personality
1-1. Be comfortable with yourself.
Realize that you don’t need a girl to make you happy. Women are annoyed by men who act too needy. If you enjoy your own company, she will too. Spend some time finding out all the awesome traits of your personality so you know what you have to offer..
You may have a really goofy sense of humor.
You may be very kind and supportive.
You may be very adventurous.
1-2. Be positive.
Learn to enjoy life no matter what goes wrong. Look on the bright side of everything. Negativity is contagious. If you’re always thinking negative thoughts, you’ll bring down everyone’s mood. Develop an infectious positive attitude that she’ll want to be around.
You can read self help books from authors like Deepak Chopra to learn to be in a happy state of mind.
Practice Gratitude. Every day, remind yourself of the things that you’re grateful for.
1-3. Be social.
Try to make solid connections with all the people in your life. Have a good relationship with your family and make as many friends as you can. Show a genuine interest in connecting with people. Develop a social circle that she’ll want to be part of.
1-4. Be fun.
Girls like guys who can show them a good time and introduce them to new experiences. Find some things that you really enjoy doing and always be ready to try new things.
Take a dance class.
Sample exotic cuisine.
Go to museums and learn about art.
Go bungee jumping.
2. Paying Attention to Her
2-1. Make eye contact.
When you’re talking to a girl, look her in the eye so that she knows that she has your attention. Girls hate when men can’t concentrate on them long enough to build a connection.
Don’t try to split your attention. You can’t talk to her and watch the game at the same time. Choose one or the other.
Be sure to look away every once in awhile so you don’t make her feel uncomfortable.
Don’t stare at other girls when you’re with her.
2-2. Listen to her.
Don’t ramble on and on about yourself. Show interest in what she has to say. Everyone loves to talk and there’s nothing more annoying than a guy who hijacks a conversation.
2-3. Notice things about her.
Girls put in a lot of effort to look good and they want their hard work to be acknowledged. Compliment specific things you like about her outfit. Let her know that you dig her fashion sense.
Tell her you like her new hairstyle.
Compliment her make up.
Let her know you like how her shoes go with her dress.
Tell her you think her perfume is intoxicating.
2-4. Be in the moment.
You can’t give a girl your full attention if your mind is somewhere else. She’ll be able to tell if you’re not present. Try not to focus on the other things going on in your life when you’re around a girl you like.
Take a few minutes to meditate to clear your mind before you talk to a girl.
Realize that worry doesn’t accomplish anything. Focus on having a good time.
3. Respecting Her
3-1. Don’t be chauvinistic.
Girls are annoyed by guys who talk down to them. Don’t make comments that could be considered derogatory towards women or anyone else for that matter. If she feels like you objectify women, she definitely won’t want to spend time with you.
Don’t tell any jokes that could be construed as sexist or racist.
3-2. Leave the past in the past.
Don’t talk about your ex all the time. Girls hate when you can’t stop babbling about your past relationships. She’ll think you still have feelings for your ex. No woman wants to be your rebound girlfriend.
At some point, she may want to know about your former relationships to see what kind of guy you are, but let the conversation come up naturally.
If you are still hung up on your ex, you should take some time to recover before you try meeting new women.
3-3. Give her space.
Don’t be possessive. Girls get really annoyed when you act like they’re your property. She’ll also feel like you’re insecure if you feel the need to demonstrate ownership of her everywhere the two of you go. Girls don’t like being treated like trophies.
Abstain from public displays of affection to show other guys she’s with you.
Don’t try to stop her from talking to other guys.
3-4. Be a gentleman.
Always be polite and avoid being crass. Try not to say or do anything that she could be offended by. If you gross her out, she certainly won’t be attracted to you and she may even be embarrassed to be around you in public.
Hold the door open for her.
Don’t curse or swear.
Be kind to service staff.
4. Showing Her You’re Interested
4-1. Smile at her.
Smile to let her know that you’re having a good time. Make sure your smile is genuine. She’ll be able to tell if you’re faking it. A smile is an international sign that we like the person we’re talking to.
4-2. Be somewhat sober.
Girls don’t like being hit on by guys who smell like the inside of a keg. While a few drinks may help you loosen up, too many will make you look sloppy. If you’re slurring your words and stumbling all over the place, she’ll know you’re too drunk to focus on her.
4-3. Take it slow.
Don’t invade her space by trying to touch her before you build a connection with her. She’ll think you’re sleazy and only after one thing. Get to know her and let things develop naturally. Let her know you respect her boundaries.
Don’t kiss a girl on the cheek when you first meet her. Try shaking her hand.
4-4. Let her know you’re attracted to her.
Be direct and tell her that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Be sure she knows you like her for her personality. Keep your eyes on her face while you’re telling her you like her and try not to check out her body in an obvious way.
Refrain from using sexual innuendos.
Don’t be overly sexual or treat her like a piece of meat.
4-5. Ask for her number.
After you have a connection with a girl, politely ask for her number. By asking for her number, you’re showing her that you’d like to talk to her again and giving her a chance to do the same by giving it to you.
Don’t give her your number or she’ll think you’re afraid to put yourself out there.
Don’t be pushy. If she doesn’t want to give you her number, move on. She’ll find you annoying if you try to force her to give it to you.
Tips
Don’t try to hard to impress her or she’ll think you’re desperate.
Different women want different experiences. Make sure to learn what she wants out of a relationship.
Talk to her the same way you would talk to anybody else.
Warnings
Try not to talk about topics like politics and religion that could lead to an argument.
Girls don’t like being called pet names like “baby” or “honey” when you first meet them.
Don’t brag. Let her find out the great things about you for herself.
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Choose one or the other.\\nBe sure to look away every once in awhile so you don’t make her feel uncomfortable.\\nDon’t stare at other girls when you’re with her.\\n2-2. Listen to her.\\nDon’t ramble on and on about yourself. Show interest in what she has to say. Everyone loves to talk and there’s nothing more annoying than a guy who hijacks a conversation.\\n2-3. Notice things about her.\\nGirls put in a lot of effort to look good and they want their hard work to be acknowledged. Compliment specific things you like about her outfit. Let her know that you dig her fashion sense.\\nTell her you like her new hairstyle.\\nCompliment her make up.\\nLet her know you like how her shoes go with her dress.\\nTell her you think her perfume is intoxicating.\\n2-4. Be in the moment.\\nYou can’t give a girl your full attention if your mind is somewhere else. She’ll be able to tell if you’re not present. Try not to focus on the other things going on in your life when you’re around a girl you like.\\nTake a few minutes to meditate to clear your mind before you talk to a girl.\\nRealize that worry doesn’t accomplish anything. Focus on having a good time.\\n3. Respecting Her\\n3-1. Don’t be chauvinistic.\\nGirls are annoyed by guys who talk down to them. Don’t make comments that could be considered derogatory towards women or anyone else for that matter. If she feels like you objectify women, she definitely won’t want to spend time with you.\\nDon’t tell any jokes that could be construed as sexist or racist.\\n3-2. Leave the past in the past.\\nDon’t talk about your ex all the time. Girls hate when you can’t stop babbling about your past relationships. She’ll think you still have feelings for your ex. 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If you gross her out, she certainly won’t be attracted to you and she may even be embarrassed to be around you in public.\\nHold the door open for her.\\nDon’t curse or swear.\\nBe kind to service staff.\\n4. Showing Her You’re Interested\\n4-1. Smile at her.\\nSmile to let her know that you’re having a good time. Make sure your smile is genuine. She’ll be able to tell if you’re faking it. A smile is an international sign that we like the person we’re talking to.\\n4-2. Be somewhat sober.\\nGirls don’t like being hit on by guys who smell like the inside of a keg. While a few drinks may help you loosen up, too many will make you look sloppy. If you’re slurring your words and stumbling all over the place, she’ll know you’re too drunk to focus on her.\\n4-3. Take it slow.\\nDon’t invade her space by trying to touch her before you build a connection with her. She’ll think you’re sleazy and only after one thing. Get to know her and let things develop naturally. Let her know you respect her boundaries.\\nDon’t kiss a girl on the cheek when you first meet her. Try shaking her hand.\\n4-4. Let her know you’re attracted to her.\\nBe direct and tell her that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Be sure she knows you like her for her personality. Keep your eyes on her face while you’re telling her you like her and try not to check out her body in an obvious way.\\nRefrain from using sexual innuendos.\\nDon’t be overly sexual or treat her like a piece of meat.\\n4-5. Ask for her number.\\nAfter you have a connection with a girl, politely ask for her number. By asking for her number, you’re showing her that you’d like to talk to her again and giving her a chance to do the same by giving it to you.\\nDon’t give her your number or she’ll think you’re afraid to put yourself out there.\\nDon’t be pushy. If she doesn’t want to give you her number, move on. She’ll find you annoying if you try to force her to give it to you.\\nTips\\nDon’t try to hard to impress her or she’ll think you’re desperate.\\nDifferent women want different experiences. Make sure to learn what she wants out of a relationship.\\nTalk to her the same way you would talk to anybody else.\\nWarnings\\nTry not to talk about topics like politics and religion that could lead to an argument.\\nGirls don’t like being called pet names like “baby” or “honey” when you first meet them.\\nDon’t brag. Let her find out the great things about you for herself.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A lot of guys try to attract girls by showing off. However, girls aren’t always attracted to the men with the biggest muscles, the most money or the nicest cars. In fact, girls are often annoyed by men who try impress them. What’s really important to girls is the way you treat them.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Having an Attractive Personality\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be comfortable with yourself.\", \"描述\": \"Realize that you don’t need a girl to make you happy. Women are annoyed by men who act too needy. If you enjoy your own company, she will too. Spend some time finding out all the awesome traits of your personality so you know what you have to offer..\\nYou may have a really goofy sense of humor.\\nYou may be very kind and supportive.\\nYou may be very adventurous.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be positive.\", \"描述\": \"Learn to enjoy life no matter what goes wrong. Look on the bright side of everything. Negativity is contagious. If you’re always thinking negative thoughts, you’ll bring down everyone’s mood. Develop an infectious positive attitude that she’ll want to be around.\\nYou can read self help books from authors like Deepak Chopra to learn to be in a happy state of mind.\\nPractice Gratitude. Every day, remind yourself of the things that you’re grateful for.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be social.\", \"描述\": \"Try to make solid connections with all the people in your life. Have a good relationship with your family and make as many friends as you can. Show a genuine interest in connecting with people. Develop a social circle that she’ll want to be part of.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be fun.\", \"描述\": \"Girls like guys who can show them a good time and introduce them to new experiences. Find some things that you really enjoy doing and always be ready to try new things.\\nTake a dance class.\\nSample exotic cuisine.\\nGo to museums and learn about art.\\nGo bungee jumping.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Paying Attention to Her\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make eye contact.\", \"描述\": \"When you’re talking to a girl, look her in the eye so that she knows that she has your attention. Girls hate when men can’t concentrate on them long enough to build a connection.\\nDon’t try to split your attention. You can’t talk to her and watch the game at the same time. Choose one or the other.\\nBe sure to look away every once in awhile so you don’t make her feel uncomfortable.\\nDon’t stare at other girls when you’re with her.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Listen to her.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t ramble on and on about yourself. Show interest in what she has to say. Everyone loves to talk and there’s nothing more annoying than a guy who hijacks a conversation.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Notice things about her.\", \"描述\": \"Girls put in a lot of effort to look good and they want their hard work to be acknowledged. Compliment specific things you like about her outfit. Let her know that you dig her fashion sense.\\nTell her you like her new hairstyle.\\nCompliment her make up.\\nLet her know you like how her shoes go with her dress.\\nTell her you think her perfume is intoxicating.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be in the moment.\", \"描述\": \"You can’t give a girl your full attention if your mind is somewhere else. She’ll be able to tell if you’re not present. Try not to focus on the other things going on in your life when you’re around a girl you like.\\nTake a few minutes to meditate to clear your mind before you talk to a girl.\\nRealize that worry doesn’t accomplish anything. Focus on having a good time.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Respecting Her\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Don’t be chauvinistic.\", \"描述\": \"Girls are annoyed by guys who talk down to them. Don’t make comments that could be considered derogatory towards women or anyone else for that matter. If she feels like you objectify women, she definitely won’t want to spend time with you.\\nDon’t tell any jokes that could be construed as sexist or racist.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Leave the past in the past.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t talk about your ex all the time. Girls hate when you can’t stop babbling about your past relationships. She’ll think you still have feelings for your ex. No woman wants to be your rebound girlfriend.\\nAt some point, she may want to know about your former relationships to see what kind of guy you are, but let the conversation come up naturally.\\nIf you are still hung up on your ex, you should take some time to recover before you try meeting new women.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give her space.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t be possessive. Girls get really annoyed when you act like they’re your property. She’ll also feel like you’re insecure if you feel the need to demonstrate ownership of her everywhere the two of you go. Girls don’t like being treated like trophies.\\nAbstain from public displays of affection to show other guys she’s with you.\\nDon’t try to stop her from talking to other guys.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be a gentleman.\", \"描述\": \"Always be polite and avoid being crass. Try not to say or do anything that she could be offended by. 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2,729 | How to Attract Girls Without Talking to Them | 1. Projecting the Right Look
1-1. Build a wardrobe of great basics.
Remember: attraction isn't a conscious decision, but it can be triggered by the right visual cues. Paying attention to certain aspects of your wardrobe can go a long way when you're trying to catch a girl's attention. Keep the following things in mind, :
Focus on getting nice shirts and T-Shirts in preferably neutral colors (black, white, navy) without patterns.
If it's sweater season, get some nice crew or V-neck ones in neutral colors such as navy, white, or black.
Keep a nicer pair of shoes for special occasions, and more a casual sporty type for everyday use.
Update your look with cool jeans in darker washes. Those are so versatile that they can even be worn on dates.
1-2. Pay attention to how your clothes fit.
This is crucial; even if you followed all of the steps above, if your clothes are too baggy or ill-fitting you might go un-noticed. So make sure to enlist the help of a friend, or a sales associate, to help you get a second opinion on what looks best for your body-type.
Dress shirts. When you turn your head, the collar shouldn't turn with it. If it does, it means the shirt is too tight. The seam of your shirt should hit you right at the shoulder bone. Remember: you don't want the shirt to fit so tightly that you can see every detail of your upper body, but you also shouldn't swim in it.
T-shirts. Here, too, the seam of your T-shirt should sit at your shoulder bone. Depending on your body type, you might go for a slim fit or regular fit.
Pants. You don't have to opt for a slim fit, but avoid pants with pleats. They are a bit outdated and give the appearance of extra pounds on your stomach.
Jeans. In general, stick to straight of slim fit jeans (even if you're hesitant at first) and avoid boot cut jeans.
Visit a few stores. If you're not already pretty comfortable with fashion, going to a few clothing stores can go a long way. You'll be able to get a feel for those trends you like and for those you don't.
1-3. Wear clothes that reflect your personality.
Making an effort to show you understand trends can leave a lasting impact. After all, many women do like fashion! At the same time, you should avoid piling on every fashion trend you see. Just make sure that however you update your wardrobe you still feel like it's you. Note: a gradual transition might work best for most .
Take a look at your current wardrobe and pick one or two aspects you feel comfortable changing right away.
Incorporate something that is very you. Are you a big 49ers fan? Adding some of their color-scheme to your wardrobe might make you feel more comfortable with the transition (yes, even if those colors aren't neutral).
1-4. Start your transition.
It can be quite unsettling, and even difficult, to change the way you've been dressing because it might have become part of your personality. Just remember, change can be exhilarating, too!
Just do it. Sometimes, overanalyzing our style and wardrobe can delay our progress. Instead, make a timeline for the various steps involved in the transformation.
Commit to changing your style. Verbalizing your decision to others can have a powerful impact on yourself and can drive you forward.
Get rid of any obstacles to your wardrobe change. Just laying out your clothes the night before eliminates excuses the next morning, e.g. I had no time to coordinate my look.
2. Defining Your Body Language
2-1. Be aware of how you move around.
Here's the deal: the way you move your body says a lot about how secure or insecure you are. Simply being aware of this can make your movements more appealing to a girl.
Walk slower than you normally would, and keep your movements controlled. Such actions indicate that you're comfortable with the world and yourself.
Take up some space. Lean back and stretch out your legs. Think of it as marking your territory.
Be aware of your tonality. Though it's technically speaking, it's a huge part of body language. Slow down your talking speed, and maintain steady volume.
2-2. Don't be afraid to be touchy.
Slow down: we don't mean that you should be inappropriate. But not being afraid to express emotions physically can signal warmth and comfort. After all, attraction is an emotional response.
Patting a pal on their back.
Hugging or shaking their hand to greet them.
Patting their arm after telling a joke
Gently grabbing their hand
Don't be afraid to stand a little closer to other people than you normally would.
2-3. Be mindful of your body's posture.
Nothing suggests insecurity more than slouchy shoulders and an inclined head. Think about doing the following actions to adjust your posture:
While sitting, pull your chest forward, and roll your shoulders back. Keep your head high.
Walk with your back straight, and your head up. Take measured steps, and roll your shoulders back.
2-4. Make eye contact.
Don't be afraid to look around the room. You might catch her eye, in which case holding her glance for a second longer can establish a connection.
Keep your gaze on the horizon while walking. Doing so makes you appear more approachable and sociable.
Don't be afraid to be expressive through your eyes. Widening them in surprise, or narrowing them when you're skeptical, shows that you're engaged and paying attention.
Smile genuinely. If you're feeling extra confident, you could try a cocky smile.
3. Focusing Your Attention
3-1. Look rested and put-together.
If you're tired or had long night, it will show the next day. Take pre-cautions to always look fresh and rested, and make sure you look, well, clean .
Be sure your eyes are clear and white. Use eyedrops to get rid of the redness. Your eyes will look more awake and clear within seconds.
Take care of your finger nails. Keep them short and clean.
If your hair is buzzed, you might not have to do anything. But if it's longer, make sure it looks styled and clean.
Take care not to go overboard with cologne. Some women might not like cologne at all, or they could be very sensitive to strong scents.
Try to keep your arms relaxed and uncrossed so you look more open and friendly.
3-2. Be aware of your environment.
Different locations will require different attire. Especially if you've got your eye on someone. How you dress when you're going to a club should be very different than if you're going to the library. Let's take a look.
If you're going to a club, stand out by dressing in a more casual way. Every other guy there will probably be very dressed up. If you're not, you'll automatically project ease.
Note: we're not suggesting you wear your ratty gym shorts. Think a cool pair of jeans and a nice T-Shirt.
If you're going the library, chances are every guy there will be in their ratty gym shorts. This is a great opportunity to go in looking put together.
3-3. Have a task at hand.
Showing that you're a focused guy can be a very attractive trait as it signals commitment. Plus, it gives her the opportunity to observe your mannerisms from a safe distance .
If you're in the right environment, and you play an instrument, do it! What girl doesn't love a musician.
Going to a coffee shop? Bring a nice briefcase with your laptop in it, and dress business casual. Signaling that you're there to get work done can come across as determined and focused.
3-4. Pay attention to the people around you.
Whatever environment you're in, if you're talking to people make sure you're active in the interaction. It's not just polite to them, but will also signal that you're capable of paying attention to the people in your life.
Use head-nodding to confirm you're hearing what the people in your group are saying.
Periodically shift your center of focus by looking around to the other people in the group.
Don't take out your phone while someone is speaking. This signals disinterest and rudeness.
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So make sure to enlist the help of a friend, or a sales associate, to help you get a second opinion on what looks best for your body-type.\\nDress shirts. When you turn your head, the collar shouldn't turn with it. If it does, it means the shirt is too tight. The seam of your shirt should hit you right at the shoulder bone. Remember: you don't want the shirt to fit so tightly that you can see every detail of your upper body, but you also shouldn't swim in it.\\nT-shirts. Here, too, the seam of your T-shirt should sit at your shoulder bone. Depending on your body type, you might go for a slim fit or regular fit.\\nPants. You don't have to opt for a slim fit, but avoid pants with pleats. They are a bit outdated and give the appearance of extra pounds on your stomach.\\nJeans. In general, stick to straight of slim fit jeans (even if you're hesitant at first) and avoid boot cut jeans.\\nVisit a few stores. If you're not already pretty comfortable with fashion, going to a few clothing stores can go a long way. You'll be able to get a feel for those trends you like and for those you don't.\\n1-3. Wear clothes that reflect your personality.\\nMaking an effort to show you understand trends can leave a lasting impact. After all, many women do like fashion! At the same time, you should avoid piling on every fashion trend you see. Just make sure that however you update your wardrobe you still feel like it's you. Note: a gradual transition might work best for most .\\nTake a look at your current wardrobe and pick one or two aspects you feel comfortable changing right away.\\nIncorporate something that is very you. Are you a big 49ers fan? Adding some of their color-scheme to your wardrobe might make you feel more comfortable with the transition (yes, even if those colors aren't neutral).\\n1-4. Start your transition.\\nIt can be quite unsettling, and even difficult, to change the way you've been dressing because it might have become part of your personality. Just remember, change can be exhilarating, too!\\nJust do it. Sometimes, overanalyzing our style and wardrobe can delay our progress. Instead, make a timeline for the various steps involved in the transformation.\\nCommit to changing your style. Verbalizing your decision to others can have a powerful impact on yourself and can drive you forward.\\nGet rid of any obstacles to your wardrobe change. Just laying out your clothes the night before eliminates excuses the next morning, e.g. I had no time to coordinate my look.\\n2. Defining Your Body Language\\n2-1. Be aware of how you move around.\\nHere's the deal: the way you move your body says a lot about how secure or insecure you are. Simply being aware of this can make your movements more appealing to a girl.\\nWalk slower than you normally would, and keep your movements controlled. Such actions indicate that you're comfortable with the world and yourself.\\nTake up some space. Lean back and stretch out your legs. Think of it as marking your territory.\\nBe aware of your tonality. Though it's technically speaking, it's a huge part of body language. Slow down your talking speed, and maintain steady volume.\\n2-2. Don't be afraid to be touchy.\\nSlow down: we don't mean that you should be inappropriate. But not being afraid to express emotions physically can signal warmth and comfort. After all, attraction is an emotional response.\\nPatting a pal on their back.\\nHugging or shaking their hand to greet them.\\nPatting their arm after telling a joke\\nGently grabbing their hand\\nDon't be afraid to stand a little closer to other people than you normally would.\\n2-3. Be mindful of your body's posture.\\nNothing suggests insecurity more than slouchy shoulders and an inclined head. Think about doing the following actions to adjust your posture:\\nWhile sitting, pull your chest forward, and roll your shoulders back. Keep your head high.\\nWalk with your back straight, and your head up. Take measured steps, and roll your shoulders back.\\n2-4. Make eye contact.\\nDon't be afraid to look around the room. You might catch her eye, in which case holding her glance for a second longer can establish a connection.\\nKeep your gaze on the horizon while walking. Doing so makes you appear more approachable and sociable.\\nDon't be afraid to be expressive through your eyes. Widening them in surprise, or narrowing them when you're skeptical, shows that you're engaged and paying attention.\\nSmile genuinely. If you're feeling extra confident, you could try a cocky smile.\\n3. Focusing Your Attention\\n3-1. Look rested and put-together.\\nIf you're tired or had long night, it will show the next day. Take pre-cautions to always look fresh and rested, and make sure you look, well, clean .\\nBe sure your eyes are clear and white. Use eyedrops to get rid of the redness. Your eyes will look more awake and clear within seconds.\\nTake care of your finger nails. Keep them short and clean.\\nIf your hair is buzzed, you might not have to do anything. But if it's longer, make sure it looks styled and clean.\\nTake care not to go overboard with cologne. Some women might not like cologne at all, or they could be very sensitive to strong scents.\\nTry to keep your arms relaxed and uncrossed so you look more open and friendly.\\n3-2. Be aware of your environment.\\nDifferent locations will require different attire. Especially if you've got your eye on someone. How you dress when you're going to a club should be very different than if you're going to the library. 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Pay attention to the people around you.\\nWhatever environment you're in, if you're talking to people make sure you're active in the interaction. It's not just polite to them, but will also signal that you're capable of paying attention to the people in your life.\\nUse head-nodding to confirm you're hearing what the people in your group are saying.\\nPeriodically shift your center of focus by looking around to the other people in the group.\\nDon't take out your phone while someone is speaking. This signals disinterest and rudeness.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Finding the most beautiful and poetic phrases to spike your crush's interest isn't the easiest of tasks. But hey, we can't all be Shakespeare. And interestingly enough, most attraction between two people happens way before a single word is spoken. That's right. There are a myriad of ways to get the girl of your dreams to notice you without having to talk to her at all (well, at least at first). Check out this article to learn non-verbal tricks to attract any girl that strikes your fancy.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Projecting the Right Look\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Build a wardrobe of great basics.\", \"描述\": \"Remember: attraction isn't a conscious decision, but it can be triggered by the right visual cues. Paying attention to certain aspects of your wardrobe can go a long way when you're trying to catch a girl's attention. Keep the following things in mind, :\\nFocus on getting nice shirts and T-Shirts in preferably neutral colors (black, white, navy) without patterns.\\nIf it's sweater season, get some nice crew or V-neck ones in neutral colors such as navy, white, or black.\\nKeep a nicer pair of shoes for special occasions, and more a casual sporty type for everyday use.\\nUpdate your look with cool jeans in darker washes. 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You might catch her eye, in which case holding her glance for a second longer can establish a connection.\\nKeep your gaze on the horizon while walking. Doing so makes you appear more approachable and sociable.\\nDon't be afraid to be expressive through your eyes. Widening them in surprise, or narrowing them when you're skeptical, shows that you're engaged and paying attention.\\nSmile genuinely. If you're feeling extra confident, you could try a cocky smile.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Focusing Your Attention\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Look rested and put-together.\", \"描述\": \"If you're tired or had long night, it will show the next day. Take pre-cautions to always look fresh and rested, and make sure you look, well, clean .\\nBe sure your eyes are clear and white. Use eyedrops to get rid of the redness. Your eyes will look more awake and clear within seconds.\\nTake care of your finger nails. Keep them short and clean.\\nIf your hair is buzzed, you might not have to do anything. But if it's longer, make sure it looks styled and clean.\\nTake care not to go overboard with cologne. Some women might not like cologne at all, or they could be very sensitive to strong scents.\\nTry to keep your arms relaxed and uncrossed so you look more open and friendly.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be aware of your environment.\", \"描述\": \"Different locations will require different attire. Especially if you've got your eye on someone. How you dress when you're going to a club should be very different than if you're going to the library. Let's take a look.\\nIf you're going to a club, stand out by dressing in a more casual way. Every other guy there will probably be very dressed up. If you're not, you'll automatically project ease.\\nNote: we're not suggesting you wear your ratty gym shorts. 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2,730 | How to Attract Guys | 1. Go for a sunny, high-energy vibe.
A positive, friendly, enthusiastic personality will be magnetic to guys.
Everybody loves hanging around people that make them feel good. By being a super warm, excitable, and super outgoing, you’ll just be a genuinely fun person to be around. And if he’s having fun around you, there’s a good chance he’ll feel attracted, too!
Show him that you love having fun. Challenge him to a round of pool, don’t be afraid to do some karaoke, and invite him for a dance.
Try to keep conversation centered around the positives. Talk about fun things you’ve done lately, what you like about work, and avoid complaining.
2. Compliment him.
Flattering him can open the door to more flirtation and mutual attraction.
When you signal your interest to a guy, he's more likely to have an interest in you. So, don't be afraid to walk right up and give him a sweet compliment. This will let him know you're interested, give him a segue into more flirting with you, and at the same time, show off your kind, positive personality.
“I love your shirt! It really brings out the green in your eyes.”
"I swear, there's something about your smile! I can't stop staring."
"You probably get this all the time, but you have amazing arms."
3. Talk about your passions.
When you talk about things you love, your eyes light up.
Everyone loves listening to people talk about the things they really care about—including guys. When you can, find a way to talk about the things in life that really light your fire. This could be anything from snowboarding, to your job at an elementary school, to the volunteer work you do at the Humane Society.
"I try to commit at least one weekend every winter to a snowboarding trip. I just feel like myself out there, you know?"
"I almost became a writer instead. Can you believe that? Now I can't imagine myself doing anything else. I just love working with kids."
"I've been working at the Humane Society since I was in high school. There's no better feeling than watching an animal get adopted!"
4. Smile.
You look more attractive when you're wearing a cheerful expression.
Like magic, by throwing your crush a smile, you actually become instantly more appealing to him. On top of that, you come off as easy-going, fun-loving, and kind—three things that are totally attractive to guys!
Try finding reasons to smile in conversation. Pay attention to when he says something interesting or sweet. This is the perfect time to give a soft grin.
Even if you haven’t made it to the conversation stage yet, this hack can still help. Make sure you're all smiles, even from across the room.
Your smile is a powerful tool. Don’t be afraid to use it!
5. Make lots of eye contact.
Eye contact causes arousal, which can create attraction.
Depending on how well you know each other, eye contact can be useful for different reasons. First, if you’re out at a bar or restaurant, locking eyes with a cute guy signals him to your interest (making him much more likely to reciprocate an interest in you!). Plus, the arousal caused by eye contact can be great news for you, too.
Use eye contact in a crowded bar to signal that you’re interested.
Or, if you’re already in conversation, make sure to hold deep, lingering eye contact while you chat. Either way, this should definitely help your chances!
6. Wear flattering, classic looks.
Guys love simple outfits that look amazing on your figure.
Men don't usually follow or appreciate clothing trends. Try to avoid styles that are a bit eccentric, but super fashionable. He won't understand the trendiness behind the look, so he may not find it attractive (even if you do look cool!). Instead, go for something that makes you feel confident or a another look guys typically love:
A tight, bodycon dress
A simple white tee, jeans, and baseball cap
Backless or sleeveless looks
Anything red, like a cocktail dress with black heels
Anything that looks amazing on your figure
7. Stick with natural-looking makeup.
Guys don't typically like super trendy, heavy makeup looks.
Bright eyeshadow, black lipstick, and funky eyeliner, though fashionable, may not be a hit with them. Those styles are great for impressing girlfriends, but when aiming to impress your male crush, try going for looks that guys adore:
A fresh face with zero makeup
Smokey eyes
A light blush look
A bright red lip
Sultry cat eyeliner
8. Play with your hair.
Flipping your hair can be a nonverbal signal of romantic interest.
One of the key ways to be attractive to a guy is, simply, cluing him in to your interest in him. Studies show that by touching your hair, flipping it, or twirling some around your finger, you can hint that you're interested.
9. Laugh at his jokes.
Guys are attracted to people who think they're funny.
This makes him feel like the two of you are connected through a shared sense of humor. Plus, most guys think giggling is cute. When you’re in conversation, throw in a laugh to show that you like his humor, and him. Even from afar, laughing can make you look fun-loving and relaxed—AKA, things that he’ll love.
10. Be enthusiastic about what he has to say.
Positive responses signal interest and show off a warm personality.
If he’s talking about his interests, his successes at work, or something fun he did recently with friends, try to make it clear that you find the topic interesting. Phrases like these can help you seem more attractive in conversation:
“Wow, that’s really interesting. Tell me more about that.”
“That’s amazing! That must’ve been really difficult to accomplish.”
“That’s hilarious. It sounds like you guys live pretty crazy lives!”
11. Go out with just one other friend.
When you're in small circles, guys have an easier time approaching you.
If you’re surrounded by a whole gaggle of pals, he may feel it's impossible to chat you up, even if he really wants you to. By hitting the pub, the cafe, or the restaurant with just one other friend, you’ll be super approachable.
12. Bring or wear something he can comment on.
When a guy wants to hit on you, he may feel he needs an opener.
By reading a book in public, wearing a hat with a silly logo, or even as simple as mouthing the words to a song at the bar, you can give him a great way to start the conversation. Try to do or say things that can serve as an immediate conversation starter. This way, when a guys interested, he’ll feel like he can waltz right up to talk.
Read your favorite book while waiting for a pal at the bar. Now, that cute guy across the room can ask you what you're reading.
When out for a walk, wear your "gone fishing" hat. This way, a guy passing by can open with something like, "I love that! Are you an angler?"
By singing along to the jukebox at a bar, you're expressing an interest in the music. Now he's free to walk up and say, "You like Lucy Dacus? Me too!"
13. Stay off your phone.
If you're busy texting, he'll have a hard time approaching you.
When you’re looking to attract a guy in public, avoid anything that might put someone off from coming up for a chat. If you’re chatting on the phone, scrolling on TikTok, or listening to music, you’ll be putting out the vibe that you’re not interested in conversation.
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2,731 | How to Attract Guys Without Talking to Them | 1. Catching Their Eye
1-1. Wear red
The color red is an emotional trigger that can draw all eyes to you. Additionally, men typically perceive the color red as being sexy. When you're hoping to attract a man's attention, pick an outfit that incorporates the color red.
For instance, you might wear a red dress, a red blazer, or a red top or shirt.
You could also wear a pop of red, such as a scarf or tie.
1-2. Choose an outfit
When you feel confident, you seem more attractive, which can attract guys. Wear clothing that fits you well and helps you look your best. This can help you attract attention without doing anything.
Try on all of your clothes in your closet to figure out which outfits look best on you. Then, designate these clothes for when you're hoping to get a guy to talk to you.
1-3. Show off your neck and shoulders for subtle sex appeal.
Showing off skin is tricky because flashing too much skin can be a turn off to guys. Revealing your neck and shoulders grabs their attention because your skin is bare in a nonsexual way. This makes them want to see more. Wear a low cut top, sleeveless or off-the-shoulder top, or tank top to make guys want more of you.
For example, you might wear an off the shoulder top that covers your cleavage but bares your entire shoulder and neck area. As another option, wear a tank top that has thin straps.
You might not be able to do this while you're at school, and that's okay! Always follow the rules so you don't get in trouble.
1-4. Create a natural makeup look if you wear it.
You don't need to wear makeup to get a guy's attention, so don't feel pressured to use it. If you do enjoy makeup, use it to enhance your natural beauty but don't try out bold looks when you're trying to get a guy's attention. Most guys say they like a natural makeup look, so keeping your makeup subtle may help you attract a guy.
For instance, you might wear foundation, concealer, powder, blush, subtle eyeshadow, eyeliner on your top eyelashes, mascara on your top eyelashes, and a nude or berry lipstick.
If you're going to school, only wear makeup if it's allowed in your school's dress code.
1-5. Choose a flattering hairstyle
Styling your hair provides a frame for your face and can bring your whole look together. Pick a hairstyle that flatters your face shape, works well with your hair texture, and is easy for you to keep up. Then, style your hair when you're going to be around guys you hope to attract.
Ask your hairstylist how to keep up your hairstyle.
Look at pictures in magazines and online to get inspiration for your hairstyle.
2. Using Body Language
2-1. Make eye contact
When you meet his eyes, you're showing him that you noticed him. Hold his gaze for 1-3 seconds, then glance away. This is a subtle way to flirt without speaking.
Don't make eye contact for longer than 1-3 seconds because he might feel like you're staring.
If making eye contact is hard for you, practice by staring at your own eyes in the mirror. Then, make eye contact with people you care about, like friends and relatives. It'll get easier with practice!
2-2. Smile
Smiling brightens up your features so you look more attractive, and laughing makes you look like you're having a great time. This can make a guy more interested in getting to know you. Keep a smile on your face while you're out trying to meet guys. Additionally, find reasons to laugh, such as the conversation you're having or something that's happening around you.
If you're at school, try to look like you're always having fun at lunch or between classes. For instance, tell funny stories with your friends or talk about your favorite TV shows.
Practice smiling and laughing to make it easier for you to do it when you're trying to get a guy's attention.
2-3. Play with your hair so you look flirtatious.
Twirling, mussing, or flipping your hair can draw a guy's eyes to you. Additionally, it shows him that you're feeling flirty, which can make him feel comfortable approaching you. When you see a guy who interests you, casually flip your hair over your shoulder, twirl it around your finger, or run your fingers through it.
Film yourself playing with your hair so you can see what looks most attractive.
You don't need to play with your hair all of the time. In fact, that might make you seem nervous. Just do it for about 5-10 seconds to subtly flirt.
2-4. Wink
When you see a guy that interests you, signal to him that you're open to being approached by winking at him. If you're close to each other, catch his attention and wink. Otherwise, walk past him and give him a quick wink.
For instance, let's say you're getting a drink at a bar and see a hot guy a few seats down. You could lean against the bar and give him a wink to show him you're interested in talking.
If you're in school, you might cross paths with him in the hallway and give him a wink.
2-5. Touch yourself to make him imagine touching you.
When you know a guy may be looking, subtly touch your hip, play with your necklace, or stroke your arm. This will catch a guys attention and make him imagine touching you, which can make him approach you.
Don't be super obvious by touching your breasts or bum. Similarly, don't rub yourself, which might look weird. Instead, lightly touch yourself for 2-3 seconds or run your fingers along your skin.
2-6. Brush up against him as you pass him to break the touch barrier.
Touching is a great way to flirt with a guy, including casual touches. When you're trying to attract a guy without talking to him, “accidentally” grazing against him is a great way to make contact. Walk past him and lightly brush your body against him.
For instance, brush past him as you walk down the hallway at school or towards the counter at a coffee shop.
As another option, you could choose the seat behind or next to him. Then, lightly touch him as you sit down.
Since you don't want to talk to him, it's best not to bump into him too hard.
3. Drawing Him to You
3-1. Angle your body away from the friend you're talking to.
Being out with friends can get a guy's attention because it makes you appear popular. However, it can also make it hard for guys to approach you. To show guys you're open to being approached, face your body away from your friend as you talk.
For example, let's say you and your friend are at a party. While you're chatting, face the room instead of each other. This way guys will feel comfortable walking up to you.
3-2. Cross and uncross your legs every 2 minutes while you're sitting.
Guys are often attracted to legs because they make them think of touching you sexually. Moving your legs can catch a guy's attention, so crossing and uncrossing your legs often can attract guys to you. Angle your body so that your legs are facing the room. Then, slowly cross and uncross your legs about every 2 minutes.
This works best if you're sitting on a high stool, but you can also do it in a regular chair.
3-3. Stay off your phone while you're trying to attract guys.
You might want to pull out your phone so you look busy, but this can backfire. If you're looking down at your phone, it's hard for guys to approach you. Put your phone away so they know you're open to being approached.
It's okay to check your phone occasionally. However, don't focus all of your attention on your phone.
3-4. Act like you need help with something to trigger his protective instincts.
Many guys enjoy feeling helpful, so they're likely to offer assistance if you seem to need help. If the situation allows, create a minor problem that you need help with. Then, see if a guy will come to help.
For instance, let's say you're at a party. You might act like you're having trouble opening your drink.
Similarly, you could act like you're having trouble reaching a high object.
At school, you might act like you need help with an assignment.
Don't feel like you have to do this if you don't feel comfortable acting like you need help when you don't. Guys will be just as into you!
Tips
Don't act too excited when a guy comes over to you because he might think you're too eager to meet someone.
Try to have fun instead of just worrying about guys. If you're having a great time, they'll want to get to know you.
In the end, be yourself and be truthful to yourself. Guys do like honest girls.
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2,732 | How to Attract Honey Bees | 1. Planting Bee-Friendly Flowers
1-1. Plant flowers native to your area.
Bees evolved with wildflowers, and the bees in your area will respond best to the flowers they "grew up with," so to speak. What flowers are native to your area? If you're not sure, go to a local gardening store and ask for a native wildflower mix, or do some research online before ordering seeds. If you don't want your garden to be completely wild, choose at least a few species that will complement the rest of your garden and attract bees.
The more wildflowers you plant, the more bees you'll attract, and the better your garden will grow. Planting wildflowers is beneficial in more ways than one!
Aim to plant a great diversity of flowers with a range of shapes and textures, not just one or two types. The more diverse your garden is, the better it will support different bee species as well as other beneficial insects and wildlife.
1-2. Plant flowers with single petals.
Flowers with a single row of petals, rather than flowers with more than one row, are more attractive to bees. Single-petaled flowers have more pollen than other flowers, so they provide a little more food for hungry honey bees. It's also easier for bees to reach the pollen when there is only one row of petals to crawl across. Here are a few flowers bees particularly love:
Asters
Calliopsis
Clover
Cosmos
Crocuses
Dahlias
Foxglove
Geraniums
Hollyhocks
Hyacinth
Marigolds
Poppies
Roses
Snowdrops
Sunflowers
Zinnias
1-3. Plant yellow, white, blue and purple flowers.
These colors attract bees more than pinks, oranges and reds do. Your garden doesn't have to be exclusively yellow, blue and purple, but having a good amount of flowers with these hues will keep the bees buzzing in your yard.
1-4. Plant flowers that bloom in sequence.
If all of your flowers bloom at the same time, the bees will have a feast, then run out of food before the summer's end. Plant a variety of flowers that will bloom throughout the spring, summer, and into the fall to keep the bees in your neighborhood fed and happy.
1-5. Plant flowering vegetable and fruit plants.
Berries, melons, squash, cucumbers, and fruit trees, especially cherry trees, all produce fragrant flowers and fruit that are attractive to bees. Bees are beneficial to these plants, so providing them in your garden will be a treat for you both. Bees adore these fruits and vegetables:
Blackberries
Cantaloupe
Cucumbers
Gourds
Cherry trees
Peppers
Pumpkins
Squash
Strawberries
Watermelons
1-6. Plant herbs that attract bees.
If you have space for a little herb garden, that's another great way to attract bees. Mints attract certain types of bees, as do sage, rosemary, thyme, bee balm, and a number of other herbs. Here's a list of herbs that bees love, for your reference:
Bee Balm
Borage
Catnip
Coriander/Cilantro
Fennel
Lavender
Mints
Rosemary
Sage
Thyme
2. Making Your Yard a Bee Haven
2-1. Let it get a little wild.
If your grass is close-clipped, every stick has been picked up, and there's not a muddy spot to be found, bees will have trouble finding a home in your yard, no matter how many wildflowers you plant. Bees are wild creatures who need a wild habitat to thrive. If you want them to take up residence in your yard, do the following:
Allow for some open, meadow-like spaces in your yard and garden.
Leave an area un-mowed and let wild clover grow. If you don't have clover in your yard, scatter some white clover seed over the area in the fall.
Leave a small brush pile and some leaves lying where they fell. Bees will use them to make a home.
Leave patches of exposed dirt that turn to mud when it rains. Some bees live underground and will thank you for access to the mud they need.
2-2. Make a bee bath.
Bees have trouble using birdbaths, because they aren't able to land in deep water. They need an island to land on so they can walk to the edge and take a drink or a bath without drowning. To make a bee bath, take a wide, shallow dish or tray and line the edges with flat rocks. Pour water over the rocks and into the bottom of the tray. Place it in your garden near the flowers that attract the most bees. The bees will be able to land on the rocks and access the water.
2-3. Provide a bee shelter.
Rotting vegetation and stumps are great shelters for bees. More and more backyard gardeners are installing hives and other bee shelters to provide nesting spots for bees. If you're serious about attracting bees to your yard and helping them thrive, this option might be something to consider. You can start by building a small bee "house" using the following method:
Take a small wooden box and paint it a bright color, preferably white, yellow, bright blue or purple. Use organic paint so the bees won't get sick.
Layer the box with nesting tubes, standing them upright. You can buy them from a garden store or make your own by rolling brown craft paper around a pencil, pinching off the end and holding it together with tape, leaving the ends open. Fill the box to the top with these tubes standing upright, so that the exposed holes are open for the bees to climb in.
Turn the box on its side. Be sure you've used enough tubes so that they don't slip out when you move the box. Hang from a tree or a post at eye level in an area sheltered from rain.
Dig up an area of the ground nearby to expose dirt and clay the bees can use to build their nest.
2-4. Stop using pesticides of any kind.
Bees are susceptible to pesticides and other chemicals sprayed and used in gardens. Aim to have a pesticide-free garden and use pest-ridding remedies that are natural and not reliant on chemicals. If you do spray plants, only do so after dusk, when pollinators are least active, avoid using chemicals known to harm bees.
Integrated pest management combines many different methods of pest control to reduce the need to use pesticides. Research integrated pest management methods to find the right system for your yard.
2-5. Plant flowering trees to attract bees.
Trees provide large amounts of food for bees when they are in full bloom. They are also a beautiful addition to the landscape. If you are in North America, some good trees include:
American Basswood
Southern Magnolia
Sourwood
Redbud
Crabapple
Locust
Serviceberry
Tulip Trees
Tips
Plants which attract bees often attract hummingbirds and butterflies as well.
Instead of using pesticides, use natural pest eaters such as spiders and ladybugs, picking off pests by hand and natural pesticides made from plants.
Find a local beekeeper and see if he or she would like to have their bees forage on your property.
Warnings
If you or a family member has a bee allergy, be extremely careful. Consider not making any efforts to attract bees or have the allergic person take extra precautions such as wearing shoes, not going near bee-attracting bushes or plants and carrying an epi-pen––this is doable provided the allergic person behaves responsibly.
Do not harass bees at their nest.
Once there are more bees present on your property, be more careful about your movements, especially walking barefoot or walking among the flowers.
Avoid leaving sugar water, syrup or confectioners sugar out for bee feeding. Bees need healthy sources of food, not manufactured sweetness.
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Plant flowers with single petals.\\nFlowers with a single row of petals, rather than flowers with more than one row, are more attractive to bees. Single-petaled flowers have more pollen than other flowers, so they provide a little more food for hungry honey bees. It's also easier for bees to reach the pollen when there is only one row of petals to crawl across. Here are a few flowers bees particularly love:\\nAsters\\nCalliopsis\\nClover\\nCosmos\\nCrocuses\\nDahlias\\nFoxglove\\nGeraniums\\nHollyhocks\\nHyacinth\\nMarigolds\\nPoppies\\nRoses\\nSnowdrops\\nSunflowers\\nZinnias\\n1-3. Plant yellow, white, blue and purple flowers.\\nThese colors attract bees more than pinks, oranges and reds do. Your garden doesn't have to be exclusively yellow, blue and purple, but having a good amount of flowers with these hues will keep the bees buzzing in your yard.\\n1-4. Plant flowers that bloom in sequence.\\nIf all of your flowers bloom at the same time, the bees will have a feast, then run out of food before the summer's end. Plant a variety of flowers that will bloom throughout the spring, summer, and into the fall to keep the bees in your neighborhood fed and happy.\\n1-5. Plant flowering vegetable and fruit plants.\\nBerries, melons, squash, cucumbers, and fruit trees, especially cherry trees, all produce fragrant flowers and fruit that are attractive to bees. Bees are beneficial to these plants, so providing them in your garden will be a treat for you both. Bees adore these fruits and vegetables:\\nBlackberries\\nCantaloupe\\nCucumbers\\nGourds\\nCherry trees\\nPeppers\\nPumpkins\\nSquash\\nStrawberries\\nWatermelons\\n1-6. Plant herbs that attract bees.\\nIf you have space for a little herb garden, that's another great way to attract bees. Mints attract certain types of bees, as do sage, rosemary, thyme, bee balm, and a number of other herbs. Here's a list of herbs that bees love, for your reference:\\nBee Balm\\nBorage\\nCatnip\\nCoriander/Cilantro\\nFennel\\nLavender\\nMints\\nRosemary\\nSage\\nThyme\\n2. Making Your Yard a Bee Haven\\n2-1. Let it get a little wild.\\nIf your grass is close-clipped, every stick has been picked up, and there's not a muddy spot to be found, bees will have trouble finding a home in your yard, no matter how many wildflowers you plant. Bees are wild creatures who need a wild habitat to thrive. If you want them to take up residence in your yard, do the following:\\nAllow for some open, meadow-like spaces in your yard and garden.\\nLeave an area un-mowed and let wild clover grow. If you don't have clover in your yard, scatter some white clover seed over the area in the fall.\\nLeave a small brush pile and some leaves lying where they fell. Bees will use them to make a home.\\nLeave patches of exposed dirt that turn to mud when it rains. Some bees live underground and will thank you for access to the mud they need.\\n2-2. Make a bee bath.\\nBees have trouble using birdbaths, because they aren't able to land in deep water. They need an island to land on so they can walk to the edge and take a drink or a bath without drowning. To make a bee bath, take a wide, shallow dish or tray and line the edges with flat rocks. Pour water over the rocks and into the bottom of the tray. Place it in your garden near the flowers that attract the most bees. The bees will be able to land on the rocks and access the water.\\n2-3. Provide a bee shelter.\\nRotting vegetation and stumps are great shelters for bees. More and more backyard gardeners are installing hives and other bee shelters to provide nesting spots for bees. If you're serious about attracting bees to your yard and helping them thrive, this option might be something to consider. You can start by building a small bee \\\"house\\\" using the following method:\\nTake a small wooden box and paint it a bright color, preferably white, yellow, bright blue or purple. Use organic paint so the bees won't get sick.\\nLayer the box with nesting tubes, standing them upright. You can buy them from a garden store or make your own by rolling brown craft paper around a pencil, pinching off the end and holding it together with tape, leaving the ends open. Fill the box to the top with these tubes standing upright, so that the exposed holes are open for the bees to climb in.\\nTurn the box on its side. Be sure you've used enough tubes so that they don't slip out when you move the box. Hang from a tree or a post at eye level in an area sheltered from rain.\\nDig up an area of the ground nearby to expose dirt and clay the bees can use to build their nest.\\n2-4. Stop using pesticides of any kind.\\nBees are susceptible to pesticides and other chemicals sprayed and used in gardens. Aim to have a pesticide-free garden and use pest-ridding remedies that are natural and not reliant on chemicals. If you do spray plants, only do so after dusk, when pollinators are least active, avoid using chemicals known to harm bees.\\nIntegrated pest management combines many different methods of pest control to reduce the need to use pesticides. Research integrated pest management methods to find the right system for your yard.\\n2-5. Plant flowering trees to attract bees.\\nTrees provide large amounts of food for bees when they are in full bloom. They are also a beautiful addition to the landscape. If you are in North America, some good trees include:\\nAmerican Basswood\\nSouthern Magnolia\\nSourwood\\nRedbud\\nCrabapple\\nLocust\\nServiceberry\\nTulip Trees\\nTips\\nPlants which attract bees often attract hummingbirds and butterflies as well.\\nInstead of using pesticides, use natural pest eaters such as spiders and ladybugs, picking off pests by hand and natural pesticides made from plants.\\nFind a local beekeeper and see if he or she would like to have their bees forage on your property.\\nWarnings\\nIf you or a family member has a bee allergy, be extremely careful. Consider not making any efforts to attract bees or have the allergic person take extra precautions such as wearing shoes, not going near bee-attracting bushes or plants and carrying an epi-pen––this is doable provided the allergic person behaves responsibly.\\nDo not harass bees at their nest.\\nOnce there are more bees present on your property, be more careful about your movements, especially walking barefoot or walking among the flowers.\\nAvoid leaving sugar water, syrup or confectioners sugar out for bee feeding. Bees need healthy sources of food, not manufactured sweetness.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Honey bees help your garden to become more fruitful and beautiful then ever before. Having bees buzzing around to act as pollinators brings life to the yard and makes flowers and other plants lush and abundant. You can attract bees by planting wildflowers, fruits, native plants, vegetables and sunflowers; letting your yard grow a little wild; and providing water and shelter for bees. 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2,733 | How to Attract Hummingbirds to a Feeder | 1. Choosing the Best Feeders
1-1. Buy a feeder with an ant moat to keep ants out of the nectar.
Ant moats are bowls filled with water that are located above or near the center of the feeder. It will trap ants that are trying to get to the nectar. As a plus, hummingbirds love to eat ants for protein and will appreciate the additional snack!
If you live in a hot, dry area, the water in the ant moat may evaporate quickly so you may need to refill it every other day.
If your feeder doesn’t have an ant moat, you can also apply petroleum jelly to the chain above the feeder.
1-2. Purchase a saucer feeder made of UV-resistant plastic for durability.
Saucer-shaped feeders can be easier to clean and will give you a better view of the hummingbirds. UV-resistant plastic is more durable and will keep the nectar from evaporating quickly (especially on hot days).
Some saucer feeders come with a hanging wire and some have a suction cup on one side so you can attach it to an outside window.
Hummingbirds have no preference what style of feeder you have—they just care about the food!
You can also find ornate glass feeders but these can be harder to clean.
1-3. Repaint old feeders a vibrant red or orange hue.
Feeders with red or orange paint can look dull over time, and hummingbirds are more likely to stop when they see bright, vivid reds and oranges. Use acrylic paint or nail polish to repaint the feeder—just make sure it's dry before you refill and rehang it.
Bright magenta will also attract hummingbirds.
1-4. Use multiple feeders to attract more hummingbirds.
The more opportunities you give the hummingbirds to eat, the more likely it is they’ll flock to the buffet of feeders. If you only have 1 feeder, add 1 to 3 more to encourage more hummingbirds to stop by. Adding another feeder will also help topple the reign of any dominant male hummingbirds in the area.
If you have a dominant male that’s bullying other hummingbirds away from the feeder, place 2 or 3 more feeders within view of the existing feeder. That way, more hummingbirds can come and outnumber the dominant male.
2. Filling the Feeder with Nectar
2-1. Provide hummingbirds' favorite food of 1 part cane sugar to 4 parts water.
Depending on the size of your feeder, stir together sugar and water until the sugar is dissolved. To kill bacteria and keep it from spoiling too soon, bring the sugar-water mixture to a boil and let it cool before putting it in the feeder.
Don’t use honey, artificial sweeteners, turbinado sugar, raw sugar, powdered sugar, organic sugar, or brown sugar.
Spring water is best, but tap water will do—don’t use distilled water.
While it’s common to add red food dye to the nectar to make it more attractive-looking, it’s best to avoid doing this because it could potentially harm the hummingbirds.
Refrigerate the excess sugar water in an airtight container for up to 7 days.
2-2. Fill the feeder about halfway full to provide enough nectar for 1 or 2 days.
There’s no need to fill the feeder to the top, especially if you’re not sure how many hummingbirds your feeder will attract. If you notice the nectar is gone in 1 day due to lots of visitors, fill it about 3/4 of the way full.
Most feeders hold anywhere from 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) to 12 fluid ounces (350 mL) of liquid but you can find reservoir feeders that hold up to 32 fluid ounces (950 mL).
2-3. Clean the feeder every 2 to 3 days with warm water and mild dish soap.
Scrub the feeder with a bottle brush to reach every nook and cranny. Hummingbirds dip their tongues into the water as they drink, which can spread pathogens that can make them sick. A good rule of thumb: clean the feeder as you would your own drinking glass.
Hummingbirds will typically eat up all the nectar within 4 to 5 days, but if you notice any leftover nectar, go ahead and clean the feeder before refilling it (don’t just top it off!).
Hot weather can evaporate the sugar-water faster, so check the feeder every day if it’s over 90°F (32°C) to see if you need to clean and refill it.
If you notice the sugar-water is cloudy or growing mold, wash the feeder right away.
3. Positioning the Feeder
3-1. Hang the feeder at least 4 feet (1.2 m) off the ground to keep pests away.
Cats, opossums, squirrels, and other pests might be drawn to the sugar-water, so hang the feeder high enough off the ground so they can’t get to it. Cats can be ninjas, so make sure there are no places where cats can leap from to reach the feeder.
Make sure there’s no foliage underneath the feeder because sugar-water may drip down onto the leaves and attract pests.
3-2. Place the feeder 10 ft (3.0 m) to 15 ft (4.6 m) away from cover.
Hummingbirds love to sip on nectar in spots that are near to shade or any hiding place. Put the feeder 10 ft (3.0 m) to 15 ft (4.6 m) away from a shrub, tree, or other hiding place so the hummingbird can feed and rest in the safety of shade.
A porch of overhand of your house will also work. It will also allow you to watch your beautiful visitors close up!
Shade will keep the sugar water from spoiling too soon.
3-3. Put your feeder up in the early spring to attract early-migrators.
Don't wait until you see hummingbirds around to put your feeder out—start advertising your feeder as a good rest stop early to entice birds that migrate sooner than others. Early spring is a good time, but you can put it up sooner or later depending on where you live.
If you live near the Gulf Coast, put your feeder up at the beginning of March.
If you live in the northern U.S. or Canada, you can wait until the end of March.
4. Creating an Attractive Area around the Feeder
4-1. Plant plenty of flowers that have red blooms near your feeder.
When hummingbirds see bright red blooms, they think they're in for a tasty treat! Daylily, columbine, cardinal flowers, penstemon, bee balm, hibiscus, peonies, and oriental poppy are all vibrant flowers that hummingbirds will love.
Hummingbirds see ultraviolet light, so all colors—red especially—appear much more vivid to them than it does to us.
Be sure to look up your planting zone for particular flowers.
4-2. Deadhead the flowers in your garden to encourage more blooms.
The more blooms you have, the more likely it is that hummingbirds will come! Deadheading means removing old, wilted blossoms and seed heads (the dried flowering or fruiting part) from plants that are currently blooming.
In a way, this tricks the plant into thinking it's not done blooming yet.
This is most effective if your feeder is placed near the flowers or within viewing range.
4-3. Wrap red or orange plastic ribbon around something near the feeder.
Purchase bright red or orange surveyor’s tape from any hardware store and cut it into 12 in (30 cm) pieces so you can tie it around tree trunks, railings, or anywhere near the feeder. The bright color will pique the interest of high-flying hummingbirds, enticing them to stop and check out your feeder and flowering gardens.
Surveyor’s tape is also called flagging tape and can cost anywhere from $1.50 to $6.00.
4-4. Provide a "snag" perch near the feeder for the hummingbirds to rest.
Hummingbirds like to rest at the end of an exposed branch so they can see any rivals or predators approaching. Make a snag perch by inserting a dead branch into the ground so it stands upright. Put it somewhere within viewing range of the feeder or within 50 feet (15 m).
Hummingbirds' wings beat 80 times per second—they'll be happy to stop and rest if you provide a good perch!
4-5. Let spiders keep their webs near the feeder.
Hummingbirds use spiderweb silk to secure their nests, so the more webs you have around, the more likely it is that you'll have some quick-winged visitors. They also love to steal the spiders' dinners—the insects are a great source of protein!
However, orb-weaver spiders eat hummingbirds, so if you notice this type of spider setting up a home near the feeder, go ahead and get rid of the web.
4-6. Get a mister for your yard or garden and place it near the feeder.
A mister attaches to a regular garden hose and will spray a fine mist into the air. Hummingbirds love to fly through the mist before they rest to preen. As a plus, you’ll get to watch the birds play in the mist!
You can buy a mister at most garden or lawn-care stores.
Tips
Don’t fill the feeder all the way up if you notice the hummingbirds aren’t consuming all of it between refills.[17]
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If your climate allows for it, plant vibrant red and orange flowers on a continuous blooming schedule to increase the chance of getting hummingbird visitors year-round.
Warnings
Dirty feeders can grow bacteria that may kill hummingbirds, so be sure to clean your feeder.[18]
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UV-resistant plastic is more durable and will keep the nectar from evaporating quickly (especially on hot days).\\nSome saucer feeders come with a hanging wire and some have a suction cup on one side so you can attach it to an outside window.\\nHummingbirds have no preference what style of feeder you have—they just care about the food!\\nYou can also find ornate glass feeders but these can be harder to clean.\\n1-3. Repaint old feeders a vibrant red or orange hue.\\nFeeders with red or orange paint can look dull over time, and hummingbirds are more likely to stop when they see bright, vivid reds and oranges. Use acrylic paint or nail polish to repaint the feeder—just make sure it's dry before you refill and rehang it.\\nBright magenta will also attract hummingbirds.\\n1-4. Use multiple feeders to attract more hummingbirds.\\nThe more opportunities you give the hummingbirds to eat, the more likely it is they’ll flock to the buffet of feeders. If you only have 1 feeder, add 1 to 3 more to encourage more hummingbirds to stop by. Adding another feeder will also help topple the reign of any dominant male hummingbirds in the area.\\nIf you have a dominant male that’s bullying other hummingbirds away from the feeder, place 2 or 3 more feeders within view of the existing feeder. That way, more hummingbirds can come and outnumber the dominant male.\\n2. Filling the Feeder with Nectar\\n2-1. Provide hummingbirds' favorite food of 1 part cane sugar to 4 parts water.\\nDepending on the size of your feeder, stir together sugar and water until the sugar is dissolved. To kill bacteria and keep it from spoiling too soon, bring the sugar-water mixture to a boil and let it cool before putting it in the feeder.\\nDon’t use honey, artificial sweeteners, turbinado sugar, raw sugar, powdered sugar, organic sugar, or brown sugar.\\nSpring water is best, but tap water will do—don’t use distilled water.\\nWhile it’s common to add red food dye to the nectar to make it more attractive-looking, it’s best to avoid doing this because it could potentially harm the hummingbirds.\\nRefrigerate the excess sugar water in an airtight container for up to 7 days.\\n2-2. Fill the feeder about halfway full to provide enough nectar for 1 or 2 days.\\nThere’s no need to fill the feeder to the top, especially if you’re not sure how many hummingbirds your feeder will attract. If you notice the nectar is gone in 1 day due to lots of visitors, fill it about 3/4 of the way full.\\nMost feeders hold anywhere from 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) to 12 fluid ounces (350 mL) of liquid but you can find reservoir feeders that hold up to 32 fluid ounces (950 mL).\\n2-3. Clean the feeder every 2 to 3 days with warm water and mild dish soap.\\nScrub the feeder with a bottle brush to reach every nook and cranny. Hummingbirds dip their tongues into the water as they drink, which can spread pathogens that can make them sick. A good rule of thumb: clean the feeder as you would your own drinking glass.\\nHummingbirds will typically eat up all the nectar within 4 to 5 days, but if you notice any leftover nectar, go ahead and clean the feeder before refilling it (don’t just top it off!).\\nHot weather can evaporate the sugar-water faster, so check the feeder every day if it’s over 90°F (32°C) to see if you need to clean and refill it.\\nIf you notice the sugar-water is cloudy or growing mold, wash the feeder right away.\\n3. Positioning the Feeder\\n3-1. Hang the feeder at least 4 feet (1.2 m) off the ground to keep pests away.\\nCats, opossums, squirrels, and other pests might be drawn to the sugar-water, so hang the feeder high enough off the ground so they can’t get to it. Cats can be ninjas, so make sure there are no places where cats can leap from to reach the feeder.\\nMake sure there’s no foliage underneath the feeder because sugar-water may drip down onto the leaves and attract pests.\\n3-2. Place the feeder 10 ft (3.0 m) to 15 ft (4.6 m) away from cover.\\nHummingbirds love to sip on nectar in spots that are near to shade or any hiding place. Put the feeder 10 ft (3.0 m) to 15 ft (4.6 m) away from a shrub, tree, or other hiding place so the hummingbird can feed and rest in the safety of shade.\\nA porch of overhand of your house will also work. It will also allow you to watch your beautiful visitors close up!\\nShade will keep the sugar water from spoiling too soon.\\n3-3. Put your feeder up in the early spring to attract early-migrators.\\nDon't wait until you see hummingbirds around to put your feeder out—start advertising your feeder as a good rest stop early to entice birds that migrate sooner than others. Early spring is a good time, but you can put it up sooner or later depending on where you live.\\nIf you live near the Gulf Coast, put your feeder up at the beginning of March.\\nIf you live in the northern U.S. or Canada, you can wait until the end of March.\\n4. Creating an Attractive Area around the Feeder\\n4-1. Plant plenty of flowers that have red blooms near your feeder.\\nWhen hummingbirds see bright red blooms, they think they're in for a tasty treat! Daylily, columbine, cardinal flowers, penstemon, bee balm, hibiscus, peonies, and oriental poppy are all vibrant flowers that hummingbirds will love.\\nHummingbirds see ultraviolet light, so all colors—red especially—appear much more vivid to them than it does to us.\\nBe sure to look up your planting zone for particular flowers.\\n4-2. Deadhead the flowers in your garden to encourage more blooms.\\nThe more blooms you have, the more likely it is that hummingbirds will come! Deadheading means removing old, wilted blossoms and seed heads (the dried flowering or fruiting part) from plants that are currently blooming.\\nIn a way, this tricks the plant into thinking it's not done blooming yet.\\nThis is most effective if your feeder is placed near the flowers or within viewing range.\\n4-3. Wrap red or orange plastic ribbon around something near the feeder.\\nPurchase bright red or orange surveyor’s tape from any hardware store and cut it into 12 in (30 cm) pieces so you can tie it around tree trunks, railings, or anywhere near the feeder. The bright color will pique the interest of high-flying hummingbirds, enticing them to stop and check out your feeder and flowering gardens.\\nSurveyor’s tape is also called flagging tape and can cost anywhere from $1.50 to $6.00.\\n4-4. Provide a \\\"snag\\\" perch near the feeder for the hummingbirds to rest.\\nHummingbirds like to rest at the end of an exposed branch so they can see any rivals or predators approaching. Make a snag perch by inserting a dead branch into the ground so it stands upright. Put it somewhere within viewing range of the feeder or within 50 feet (15 m).\\nHummingbirds' wings beat 80 times per second—they'll be happy to stop and rest if you provide a good perch!\\n4-5. Let spiders keep their webs near the feeder.\\nHummingbirds use spiderweb silk to secure their nests, so the more webs you have around, the more likely it is that you'll have some quick-winged visitors. They also love to steal the spiders' dinners—the insects are a great source of protein!\\nHowever, orb-weaver spiders eat hummingbirds, so if you notice this type of spider setting up a home near the feeder, go ahead and get rid of the web.\\n4-6. Get a mister for your yard or garden and place it near the feeder.\\nA mister attaches to a regular garden hose and will spray a fine mist into the air. Hummingbirds love to fly through the mist before they rest to preen. As a plus, you’ll get to watch the birds play in the mist!\\nYou can buy a mister at most garden or lawn-care stores.\\nTips\\nDon’t fill the feeder all the way up if you notice the hummingbirds aren’t consuming all of it between refills.[17]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nIf your climate allows for it, plant vibrant red and orange flowers on a continuous blooming schedule to increase the chance of getting hummingbird visitors year-round.\\nWarnings\\nDirty feeders can grow bacteria that may kill hummingbirds, so be sure to clean your feeder.[18]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Hummingbirds are beautiful little creatures that are a joy to watch! If you want more of them to visit, you’ll need to know how to entice them to your feeder. Planting some of their favorite flowers and offering some amenities like perches and misters near your feeder can help create a perfect hummingbird hangout. Properly cleaning the feeder will ensure the birds stay healthy and filling it with their favorite meal will keep them coming back for more.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choosing the Best Feeders\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Buy a feeder with an ant moat to keep ants out of the nectar.\", \"描述\": \"Ant moats are bowls filled with water that are located above or near the center of the feeder. It will trap ants that are trying to get to the nectar. As a plus, hummingbirds love to eat ants for protein and will appreciate the additional snack!\\nIf you live in a hot, dry area, the water in the ant moat may evaporate quickly so you may need to refill it every other day.\\nIf your feeder doesn’t have an ant moat, you can also apply petroleum jelly to the chain above the feeder.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Purchase a saucer feeder made of UV-resistant plastic for durability.\", \"描述\": \"Saucer-shaped feeders can be easier to clean and will give you a better view of the hummingbirds. UV-resistant plastic is more durable and will keep the nectar from evaporating quickly (especially on hot days).\\nSome saucer feeders come with a hanging wire and some have a suction cup on one side so you can attach it to an outside window.\\nHummingbirds have no preference what style of feeder you have—they just care about the food!\\nYou can also find ornate glass feeders but these can be harder to clean.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Repaint old feeders a vibrant red or orange hue.\", \"描述\": \"Feeders with red or orange paint can look dull over time, and hummingbirds are more likely to stop when they see bright, vivid reds and oranges. Use acrylic paint or nail polish to repaint the feeder—just make sure it's dry before you refill and rehang it.\\nBright magenta will also attract hummingbirds.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use multiple feeders to attract more hummingbirds.\", \"描述\": \"The more opportunities you give the hummingbirds to eat, the more likely it is they’ll flock to the buffet of feeders. If you only have 1 feeder, add 1 to 3 more to encourage more hummingbirds to stop by. Adding another feeder will also help topple the reign of any dominant male hummingbirds in the area.\\nIf you have a dominant male that’s bullying other hummingbirds away from the feeder, place 2 or 3 more feeders within view of the existing feeder. That way, more hummingbirds can come and outnumber the dominant male.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Filling the Feeder with Nectar\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Provide hummingbirds' favorite food of 1 part cane sugar to 4 parts water.\", \"描述\": \"Depending on the size of your feeder, stir together sugar and water until the sugar is dissolved. To kill bacteria and keep it from spoiling too soon, bring the sugar-water mixture to a boil and let it cool before putting it in the feeder.\\nDon’t use honey, artificial sweeteners, turbinado sugar, raw sugar, powdered sugar, organic sugar, or brown sugar.\\nSpring water is best, but tap water will do—don’t use distilled water.\\nWhile it’s common to add red food dye to the nectar to make it more attractive-looking, it’s best to avoid doing this because it could potentially harm the hummingbirds.\\nRefrigerate the excess sugar water in an airtight container for up to 7 days.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Fill the feeder about halfway full to provide enough nectar for 1 or 2 days.\", \"描述\": \"There’s no need to fill the feeder to the top, especially if you’re not sure how many hummingbirds your feeder will attract. If you notice the nectar is gone in 1 day due to lots of visitors, fill it about 3/4 of the way full.\\nMost feeders hold anywhere from 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) to 12 fluid ounces (350 mL) of liquid but you can find reservoir feeders that hold up to 32 fluid ounces (950 mL).\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Clean the feeder every 2 to 3 days with warm water and mild dish soap.\", \"描述\": \"Scrub the feeder with a bottle brush to reach every nook and cranny. Hummingbirds dip their tongues into the water as they drink, which can spread pathogens that can make them sick. A good rule of thumb: clean the feeder as you would your own drinking glass.\\nHummingbirds will typically eat up all the nectar within 4 to 5 days, but if you notice any leftover nectar, go ahead and clean the feeder before refilling it (don’t just top it off!).\\nHot weather can evaporate the sugar-water faster, so check the feeder every day if it’s over 90°F (32°C) to see if you need to clean and refill it.\\nIf you notice the sugar-water is cloudy or growing mold, wash the feeder right away.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Positioning the Feeder\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Hang the feeder at least 4 feet (1.2 m) off the ground to keep pests away.\", \"描述\": \"Cats, opossums, squirrels, and other pests might be drawn to the sugar-water, so hang the feeder high enough off the ground so they can’t get to it. Cats can be ninjas, so make sure there are no places where cats can leap from to reach the feeder.\\nMake sure there’s no foliage underneath the feeder because sugar-water may drip down onto the leaves and attract pests.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Place the feeder 10 ft (3.0 m) to 15 ft (4.6 m) away from cover.\", \"描述\": \"Hummingbirds love to sip on nectar in spots that are near to shade or any hiding place. Put the feeder 10 ft (3.0 m) to 15 ft (4.6 m) away from a shrub, tree, or other hiding place so the hummingbird can feed and rest in the safety of shade.\\nA porch of overhand of your house will also work. 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Deadheading means removing old, wilted blossoms and seed heads (the dried flowering or fruiting part) from plants that are currently blooming.\\nIn a way, this tricks the plant into thinking it's not done blooming yet.\\nThis is most effective if your feeder is placed near the flowers or within viewing range.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Wrap red or orange plastic ribbon around something near the feeder.\", \"描述\": \"Purchase bright red or orange surveyor’s tape from any hardware store and cut it into 12 in (30 cm) pieces so you can tie it around tree trunks, railings, or anywhere near the feeder. The bright color will pique the interest of high-flying hummingbirds, enticing them to stop and check out your feeder and flowering gardens.\\nSurveyor’s tape is also called flagging tape and can cost anywhere from $1.50 to $6.00.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Provide a \\\"snag\\\" perch near the feeder for the hummingbirds to rest.\", \"描述\": \"Hummingbirds like to rest at the end of an exposed branch so they can see any rivals or predators approaching. Make a snag perch by inserting a dead branch into the ground so it stands upright. Put it somewhere within viewing range of the feeder or within 50 feet (15 m).\\nHummingbirds' wings beat 80 times per second—they'll be happy to stop and rest if you provide a good perch!\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Let spiders keep their webs near the feeder.\", \"描述\": \"Hummingbirds use spiderweb silk to secure their nests, so the more webs you have around, the more likely it is that you'll have some quick-winged visitors. 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2,734 | How to Attract Kookaburras to Your Garden | 1. Growing Kookaburra-Friendly Plants
1-1. Plant a variety of native vegetation.
Kookaburras are drawn to native vegetation, as it provides shelter and food. Blueberry Ash, Bottlebrush, Golden Wattle, and Paperbark are all known to attract kookaburras and other native species like wrens and magpies.
Kookaburras help to break down dead leaves, disperse seeds, and reduce insect pests in native vegetation.
1-2. Keep mature gum trees in your garden and plant 1-2 young seedlings.
Kookaburras love to nest in tree hollows, particularly those in gum trees. Don’t remove any mature gum trees from your backyard and talk with your neighbors to encourage them to do the same.
Plant a few young gum trees, if you have space, so that future kookaburras have a place to nest.
1-3. Preserve trees with thick and heavy branches.
Avoid removing the large and heavy branches from your mature trees. Stout tree branches are perfect roosting and perching sites for kookaburras. The kookaburras may also use the branches as guard posts during the day.
2. Providing Incentives
2-1. Install a kookaburra nest box on a high branch.
Purchase a kookaburra nest box from your local garden center or native bird organization. Place the nest box as high off the ground as possible on a stable and protected branch.
Kookaburra nest boxes are horizontal and have a small, circular entrance. The birds bring their own nesting materials.
2-2. Place a birdbath in the garden to provide water for the kookaburras.
Purchase a birdbath from your local garden center or make your own using a shallow platter or bowl. Keep it filled up with fresh water and clean it out every so often with a scrubbing brush if it looks dirty. The kookaburras will drink and bathe in the water.
Make sure the water is shallow enough for the kookaburras to stand in.
Birdbaths also encourage other insectivores like fairy-wrens and grey fantails to visit your garden.
2-3. Create piles of leaf litter and garden mulch.
Kookaburra prey on insects and small lizards which are often found in leaf litter and garden mulch. Try not to disturb the piles and you may see kookaburras fishing through!
As kookaburras go through the leaf litter and mulch, they overturn the decaying matter and help it to break down faster.
3. Protecting Kookaburras in Your Garden
3-1. Avoid using garden pesticides, insecticides, and fungicides.
These common garden chemicals disrupt the kookaburras' food source. Let your garden grow naturally to so insects, worms, and small reptiles thrive.
Kookaburras can get sick from eating contaminated prey.
3-2. Keep cats and dogs inside at night.
Cats and dogs sometimes prey on kookaburras, and birds that don’t feel safe in your garden won’t hang around. Lock your pets inside at night and attach a bell to your cat's collar if necessary.
3-3. Avoid leaving uneaten food outside.
Uneaten food, whether it’s from pets or people, can attract unwanted predators like foxes and feral cats. Kookaburras will avoid places where they feel unsafe. Always take any uneaten food inside, particularly at night, and clean up any crumbs.
Warnings
Avoid feeding kookaburras if possible, as they require a natural diet to stay healthy. It's also important for kookaburras to retain their hunting skills. If you do feed them, give them as little as possible, and give them things like sardines which contain calcium. [10]
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Create piles of leaf litter and garden mulch.\\nKookaburra prey on insects and small lizards which are often found in leaf litter and garden mulch. Try not to disturb the piles and you may see kookaburras fishing through!\\nAs kookaburras go through the leaf litter and mulch, they overturn the decaying matter and help it to break down faster.\\n3. Protecting Kookaburras in Your Garden\\n3-1. Avoid using garden pesticides, insecticides, and fungicides.\\nThese common garden chemicals disrupt the kookaburras' food source. Let your garden grow naturally to so insects, worms, and small reptiles thrive.\\nKookaburras can get sick from eating contaminated prey.\\n3-2. Keep cats and dogs inside at night.\\nCats and dogs sometimes prey on kookaburras, and birds that don’t feel safe in your garden won’t hang around. Lock your pets inside at night and attach a bell to your cat's collar if necessary.\\n3-3. Avoid leaving uneaten food outside.\\nUneaten food, whether it’s from pets or people, can attract unwanted predators like foxes and feral cats. Kookaburras will avoid places where they feel unsafe. Always take any uneaten food inside, particularly at night, and clean up any crumbs.\\nWarnings\\nAvoid feeding kookaburras if possible, as they require a natural diet to stay healthy. It's also important for kookaburras to retain their hunting skills. If you do feed them, give them as little as possible, and give them things like sardines which contain calcium. [10]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Kookaburras are native Australian birds and the largest in the kingfisher family. They are noisy and territorial, but their confidence makes them welcome and lovable backyard visitors. Kookaburras love native vegetation and in particular gum trees with plenty of nesting hollows. Incentives like nest boxes and birdbaths can also encourage Kookaburras to drop by. 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2,735 | How to Attract Ladybugs | 1. Growing Plants That Ladybugs Like
1-1. Cultivate plants that attract ladybug food.
You can easily lure ladybugs by attracting the pests that they like to eat such as aphids, mites, and scale. This might seem counterintuitive if you are trying to attract ladybugs in order to get rid of garden pests. However, a ladybug will not stick around your garden without a steady supply of food.
Consider growing cabbage, nasturtium, and radishes, all which attract aphids—a favorite ladybug treat!
Use these plants as decoys to draw aphids away from the plants that you’d like to protect.
1-2. Plant colorful fragrant flowers.
White and yellow flowers seem to especially attract ladybugs. Ladybugs flock to sunflowers for their bright, yellow flower petals as well as zinnias, which have vividly colored round blooms. Both plants also make great cut flowers that are excellent for indoor decoration!
Keep in mind that the shape and size of the flowers matter too! Ladybugs prefer flat, shallow flowers that are easy to land on and to eat from, such as dill, coriander or alyssum. Dill and coriander make great additions to your garden as they are delicious food seasonings as well.
1-3. Grow plants that ladybugs like to eat.
In addition to pests, ladybugs also feast on pollen and nectar from certain flowers. Ladybugs find the pollen from plants such as chives, fennel, cosmos, feverfew, marigolds, and yarrow to be extremely delicious!
Because ladybugs primarily eat flower nectar and pollen not plant leaves, they won’t do visible damage to your flowers or plants.
Some species of ladybugs feast on the white, powdery mildew that can sometimes form on the leaves of squash, cucumber, and zucchini plants. Mildew can harm plants, so this is another added bonus of ladybug eating habits!
2. Providing Bugs and Water
2-1. Do not use insecticides.
Insecticides are harmful to ladybugs and will also destroy the ladybug’s food supply. In their larval stage, ladybugs can eat up to 400 aphids in just one week. This means they need a lot of bugs to survive, so make sure to avoid chemical sprays that will reduce their access to food.
If you absolutely must treat your plants for serious pest or fungus problems, use a natural method. Certain plant soaps and horticultural oils are safe to use around ladybugs.
2-2. Place dishes of water lined with rocks in your garden.
Ladybugs need water to survive. Ladybugs will drink water directly from the surface of plants, but you can also guarantee a steady supply of water by placing shallow dishes of water throughout your garden. Line the bottom of the dishes with rocks to give the bugs a place to land.
Keep in mind that stagnant water can become a breeding ground for mosquitos. Make sure to empty and refill the dishes regularly to discourage mosquitos from laying their eggs.
2-3. Spray plants with an artificial food solution.
Once you’ve attracted ladybugs, you can encourage them to stay around by occasionally feeding them a homemade liquid food solution. This will supplement their diet of pollen and insects. You can easily make the solution by mixing equal amounts of water and brewer’s yeast together with a little bit of honey and spreading it around your garden.
Mix the solution in a spray bottle and apply it to the surface of your plants. It will not harm the plants.
3. Creating Ladybug Shelters
3-1. Grow low, stocky plants to create ground cover.
Ladybugs need a safe place to hide from predators. Give them cover from birds and frogs that may be looking to make them into a quick lunch! Low, stocky plants such as oregano and thyme will give ladybugs a safe hideout.
You can also cut and dry sprigs of oregano and thyme to use as a seasoning while you are cooking.
3-2. Cover the ground with mulch or straw for additional protection.
You can also provide safe hiding spots for ladybugs by covering the ground in and around your garden with mulch or straw. The mulch or straw will provide plenty of little nooks and crannies around your garden for ladybugs to get away from predators.
The ground cover will also help your soil retain nutrients and water.
3-3. Build a ladybug home.
Ladybugs need a safe, dry place to get out of the cold and to lay their eggs. In addition to providing natural shelters, you can also construct your own ladybug shelter using a few common items.
Ladybug homes can take many different shapes and sizes, but the simplest method involves threading a piece of twine through a hollow tube (you can use a bamboo stalk, a piece of PVC pipe, or a cardboard paper towel roll), tying the string in a knot, then hanging the tube on a fence or post near your garden.
You can even place a couple of raisins inside your structure to welcome ladybugs to their new home!
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Growing Plants That Ladybugs Like\\n1-1. Cultivate plants that attract ladybug food.\\nYou can easily lure ladybugs by attracting the pests that they like to eat such as aphids, mites, and scale. This might seem counterintuitive if you are trying to attract ladybugs in order to get rid of garden pests. However, a ladybug will not stick around your garden without a steady supply of food.\\nConsider growing cabbage, nasturtium, and radishes, all which attract aphids—a favorite ladybug treat!\\nUse these plants as decoys to draw aphids away from the plants that you’d like to protect.\\n1-2. Plant colorful fragrant flowers.\\nWhite and yellow flowers seem to especially attract ladybugs. Ladybugs flock to sunflowers for their bright, yellow flower petals as well as zinnias, which have vividly colored round blooms. Both plants also make great cut flowers that are excellent for indoor decoration!\\nKeep in mind that the shape and size of the flowers matter too! Ladybugs prefer flat, shallow flowers that are easy to land on and to eat from, such as dill, coriander or alyssum. Dill and coriander make great additions to your garden as they are delicious food seasonings as well.\\n1-3. Grow plants that ladybugs like to eat.\\nIn addition to pests, ladybugs also feast on pollen and nectar from certain flowers. Ladybugs find the pollen from plants such as chives, fennel, cosmos, feverfew, marigolds, and yarrow to be extremely delicious!\\nBecause ladybugs primarily eat flower nectar and pollen not plant leaves, they won’t do visible damage to your flowers or plants.\\nSome species of ladybugs feast on the white, powdery mildew that can sometimes form on the leaves of squash, cucumber, and zucchini plants. Mildew can harm plants, so this is another added bonus of ladybug eating habits!\\n2. Providing Bugs and Water\\n2-1. Do not use insecticides.\\nInsecticides are harmful to ladybugs and will also destroy the ladybug’s food supply. In their larval stage, ladybugs can eat up to 400 aphids in just one week. This means they need a lot of bugs to survive, so make sure to avoid chemical sprays that will reduce their access to food.\\nIf you absolutely must treat your plants for serious pest or fungus problems, use a natural method. Certain plant soaps and horticultural oils are safe to use around ladybugs.\\n2-2. Place dishes of water lined with rocks in your garden.\\nLadybugs need water to survive. Ladybugs will drink water directly from the surface of plants, but you can also guarantee a steady supply of water by placing shallow dishes of water throughout your garden. Line the bottom of the dishes with rocks to give the bugs a place to land.\\nKeep in mind that stagnant water can become a breeding ground for mosquitos. Make sure to empty and refill the dishes regularly to discourage mosquitos from laying their eggs.\\n2-3. Spray plants with an artificial food solution.\\nOnce you’ve attracted ladybugs, you can encourage them to stay around by occasionally feeding them a homemade liquid food solution. This will supplement their diet of pollen and insects. You can easily make the solution by mixing equal amounts of water and brewer’s yeast together with a little bit of honey and spreading it around your garden.\\nMix the solution in a spray bottle and apply it to the surface of your plants. It will not harm the plants.\\n3. Creating Ladybug Shelters\\n3-1. Grow low, stocky plants to create ground cover.\\nLadybugs need a safe place to hide from predators. Give them cover from birds and frogs that may be looking to make them into a quick lunch! Low, stocky plants such as oregano and thyme will give ladybugs a safe hideout.\\nYou can also cut and dry sprigs of oregano and thyme to use as a seasoning while you are cooking.\\n3-2. Cover the ground with mulch or straw for additional protection.\\nYou can also provide safe hiding spots for ladybugs by covering the ground in and around your garden with mulch or straw. The mulch or straw will provide plenty of little nooks and crannies around your garden for ladybugs to get away from predators.\\nThe ground cover will also help your soil retain nutrients and water.\\n3-3. Build a ladybug home.\\nLadybugs need a safe, dry place to get out of the cold and to lay their eggs. In addition to providing natural shelters, you can also construct your own ladybug shelter using a few common items.\\nLadybug homes can take many different shapes and sizes, but the simplest method involves threading a piece of twine through a hollow tube (you can use a bamboo stalk, a piece of PVC pipe, or a cardboard paper towel roll), tying the string in a knot, then hanging the tube on a fence or post near your garden.\\nYou can even place a couple of raisins inside your structure to welcome ladybugs to their new home!\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"There are many beneficial reasons to keep your garden teeming with ladybugs. Considered a sign of good luck in many cultures, ladybugs are also sought after for their ability to control unwanted garden pests. Whether you are looking for a safe, organic method to protect your veggies or a bit of extra luck, with a few quick tips you’ll be on your way to attracting a backyard full of these little, spotted beauties.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Growing Plants That Ladybugs Like\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cultivate plants that attract ladybug food.\", \"描述\": \"You can easily lure ladybugs by attracting the pests that they like to eat such as aphids, mites, and scale. This might seem counterintuitive if you are trying to attract ladybugs in order to get rid of garden pests. However, a ladybug will not stick around your garden without a steady supply of food.\\nConsider growing cabbage, nasturtium, and radishes, all which attract aphids—a favorite ladybug treat!\\nUse these plants as decoys to draw aphids away from the plants that you’d like to protect.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Plant colorful fragrant flowers.\", \"描述\": \"White and yellow flowers seem to especially attract ladybugs. Ladybugs flock to sunflowers for their bright, yellow flower petals as well as zinnias, which have vividly colored round blooms. Both plants also make great cut flowers that are excellent for indoor decoration!\\nKeep in mind that the shape and size of the flowers matter too! Ladybugs prefer flat, shallow flowers that are easy to land on and to eat from, such as dill, coriander or alyssum. 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2,736 | How to Attract Love | 1. Visualize your ideal soulmate.
Concentrate on your future lover to draw this person into your life.
Think about how this person would look and how they'd carry themselves. If you get specific with your visualization exercise, then you'll have clarity about who your soulmate will be and recognize them when you see them.
Picture someone you find incredibly attractive.
Think about the aura—like warmth or kindness—they’ll have.
Imagine habits or traits you’d adore, like generosity.
Consider values you’re seeking, like a thirst for justice.
Focus on how you’d feel around them—maybe you’ll feel valued.
Reflect on signs of compatibility, like similar interests.
2. Say affirmations to accept love into your life.
A positive affirmation tells the universe you're ready for romance.
Say affirmations—empowering comments—out loud, concentrate on them, or write them in your journal. Focus on personality traits you'd love a future partner to notice as well as the kind of love you hope to have:
Say an affirmation about yourself to align with someone with similar traits: "I am full of confidence, kindness, and drive."
State the type of support you deserve: "I am worthy of a best friend and lover who always has my back."
Focus on how love would feel like: "This love makes me feel happy and whole."
3. Love yourself to attract your “vibrational match.”
Celebrate yourself to find someone who also wants to worship you.
Prioritize self-care and you'll increase your chances of running into your soulmate. For example, you might meet them in the gym after you work out. When you radiate confidence and self-esteem, you'll attract someone who adores those qualities.
You'll both gravitate toward each other because your spiritual vibrations will be healthy and pure.
4. Watch romantic movies for inspiration.
These films will enter your subconscious and open your heart to love.
Visuals are incredibly important tools for shaping your mind and emotions. To get yourself in a sentimental mood and to fantasize about your own personal "fairy tale," lose yourself in movies that feature beautiful love stories.
Take notes while you stream your favorite dramas or rom-coms. Write an observation like, "I love how he took the initiative to introduce himself and ask her out on a real date."
If you're at the theater, relax and enjoy the story line, dialogue, and imagery of a romantic movie. These details may influence your decisions. For instance, you may be inspired to flirt with a stranger.
5. Journal about relationships that uplift you.
Practice appreciation for the love others share and use it as inspiration.
For a source of comfort, look at everyday moments and genuine displays of affection. Pay attention to couples that make you smile and melt your heart. Reflect on their dynamic and think about how you might want one like it. Write down specific details about couples you admire:
"I really look up to the bond that Kelly and Diane have. They always support and encourage each other."
"Seeing Leo worship Starr makes me realize that I want to be cherished and given lots of praise."
6. Make a vision board for your love life.
Admire it to see the amazing relationship that's in store for you.
Create a vision board on your computer—for example, make a Pinterest board—or get crafty with magazine cut-outs. Let your imagination run wild. No matter how fantastical your vision board is, it'll help make your dreams a reality by reinforcing what you want.
Decorate your board with inspiring quotes or write your affirmations on it.
Include romantic pictures—like ones that show couples kissing or embracing—or images of people that look like your ideal soulmate.
Add visuals that instantly make you think about love. For example, maybe you associate fire and rubies with passion.
Enhance your vision board with scenes of the house you'll share with your partner or the vacations—like a trip to Bali—you'll enjoy with them.
7. Use “crystal magic” to manifest love.
Infuse a crystal with your intentions
Activate it by setting a special intention and then placing it in a specific spot. For example, put a rose quartz sphere—which symbolizes endless love—on your nightstand so it can attract love all day, including while you sleep.
Choose multiple crystals to draw in different kinds of love at once. For instance, blue lapis promotes clear communication, while bloodstone can invite in a strong partner who nurtures you.
Wear a crystal necklace so it's close to your heart. It will channel your loving energy to attract a partner.
8. Practice a "soulmate meditation" to call in your partner.
Guided meditation leads you to your ideal love life.
Repeat a mantra—or meaningful statement—daily for a specific period of time, like two weeks. State an intention like, "I will cross paths with the person I’m destined to be with." Your clarity will enhance your chance of finding exactly who you want to be with.
A "soulmate meditation" helps you visualize the relationship that's best for you.
You'll open your heart and connect energetically to your soulmate.
Daily dedication to this practice will increase your ability to manifest love.
9. Create a "manifesting love" soundtrack.
This playlist will offer upbeat subliminal messages to uplift you.
Use a music streaming platform, like Spotify, to put together a playlist of romantic songs. For even better results, turn it on while you meditate or think about your future partner.
When you repeat inspiring lyrics in your head, you'll focus on the type of love you want to bring in.
Choose romantic music that makes you smile—it will promote positive feelings and raise your vibrations. That way, you'll give off a happy and alluring aura.
10. Ask the universe for a dream about your soulmate.
Reach out for a sign so you'll feel connected to your future partner.
Soulmates can send each other psychic messages, even before they've physically met each other. When you send a wish out to the universe, you may experience a "soulmate dream," the phenomenon of communicating with your future partner in your sleep.
If you see your soulmate in a dream, then the universe is telling you that you're likely to encounter the person you fantasize about.
If you hear your soulmate's voice in a dream, they may be sending you a message to reassure you they exist.
Pay attention to symbols that remind you of your ideal partner. For example, a dream about a fox might represent the clever lover you're looking for.
11. Write a message to your soulmate.
Send your intention for love out into the universe with this sweet letter.
Communicate with your soulmate by journaling all your thoughts. When you open up your heart and let your feelings pour through you, your future lover is highly likely to be more attuned to your desires and meet your needs when you cross paths.
Tell them what you'll offer: "I look forward to providing all my warmth and affection."
Ask for their support: "I hope to receive encouragement and kindness from you. That would mean the world to me."
Share your vision for the future: "I believe we’ll travel and change the world together."
12. Make your home a sanctuary for love.
Create space to welcome the special person who will enter your world.
Prepare your home for your soulmate's arrival. Put a lot of intention into how you can make them more comfortable. Also feel free to be spontaneous and pick them up something special on a whim. In the future, your partner will appreciate all the care you put into them.
Leave a drawer empty for their clothes.
Create a spot in your pantry for their favorite snacks.
Choose a cute mug for the coffee or tea you'll brew for them.
Buy a signature scent for them and leave it on your bathroom counter.
Stock up on enticing outfits for future date nights.
Pick up a picture frame in honor of your first couple photo.
13. Release old attachments that block love.
Let go of past relationships or patterns that don't serve you.
To be fully present and emotionally available for your future soulmate, make a pact to move on from exes or negative thought patterns. After you've put old flames and anxieties in the past, you'll be several steps closer to the lover who's destined for you.
Write a letter to your ex as a way to vent. State what you're moving past: "I will no longer pine over you." Then, tear up or burn your note to "cleanse" leftover energy from your former connection.
List patterns you want to break as well as healthy replacements for them. For example: "I won't fear rejection. Instead, I'll expect unconditional love."
14. Approach dates with enthusiasm and an open mind.
Put optimism out into the world so you attract that same energy.
When you keep your head up high and your heart open, you'll begin the first chapter of an incredibly rewarding romance. After all, cheerfulness is one of the most magical ingredients for a life-long partnership.
If polite and attractive people ask you out, accept their invitations.
When you feel bold, strike up a conversation with anyone you're drawn to.
Let friends and family set you up with people they think are perfect for you.
Join dating apps and create profiles with exciting bios and your best photos.
Thank the universe each time you get the chance to meet your potential soulmate.
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Focus on personality traits you'd love a future partner to notice as well as the kind of love you hope to have:\\nSay an affirmation about yourself to align with someone with similar traits: \\\"I am full of confidence, kindness, and drive.\\\"\\nState the type of support you deserve: \\\"I am worthy of a best friend and lover who always has my back.\\\"\\nFocus on how love would feel like: \\\"This love makes me feel happy and whole.\\\"\\n3. Love yourself to attract your “vibrational match.”\\nCelebrate yourself to find someone who also wants to worship you.\\nPrioritize self-care and you'll increase your chances of running into your soulmate. For example, you might meet them in the gym after you work out. When you radiate confidence and self-esteem, you'll attract someone who adores those qualities.\\nYou'll both gravitate toward each other because your spiritual vibrations will be healthy and pure.\\n4. Watch romantic movies for inspiration.\\nThese films will enter your subconscious and open your heart to love.\\nVisuals are incredibly important tools for shaping your mind and emotions. To get yourself in a sentimental mood and to fantasize about your own personal \\\"fairy tale,\\\" lose yourself in movies that feature beautiful love stories.\\nTake notes while you stream your favorite dramas or rom-coms. Write an observation like, \\\"I love how he took the initiative to introduce himself and ask her out on a real date.\\\"\\nIf you're at the theater, relax and enjoy the story line, dialogue, and imagery of a romantic movie. These details may influence your decisions. For instance, you may be inspired to flirt with a stranger.\\n5. Journal about relationships that uplift you.\\nPractice appreciation for the love others share and use it as inspiration.\\nFor a source of comfort, look at everyday moments and genuine displays of affection. Pay attention to couples that make you smile and melt your heart. Reflect on their dynamic and think about how you might want one like it. Write down specific details about couples you admire:\\n\\\"I really look up to the bond that Kelly and Diane have. They always support and encourage each other.\\\"\\n\\\"Seeing Leo worship Starr makes me realize that I want to be cherished and given lots of praise.\\\"\\n6. Make a vision board for your love life.\\nAdmire it to see the amazing relationship that's in store for you.\\nCreate a vision board on your computer—for example, make a Pinterest board—or get crafty with magazine cut-outs. Let your imagination run wild. No matter how fantastical your vision board is, it'll help make your dreams a reality by reinforcing what you want.\\nDecorate your board with inspiring quotes or write your affirmations on it.\\nInclude romantic pictures—like ones that show couples kissing or embracing—or images of people that look like your ideal soulmate.\\nAdd visuals that instantly make you think about love. For example, maybe you associate fire and rubies with passion.\\nEnhance your vision board with scenes of the house you'll share with your partner or the vacations—like a trip to Bali—you'll enjoy with them.\\n7. Use “crystal magic” to manifest love.\\nInfuse a crystal with your intentions\\nActivate it by setting a special intention and then placing it in a specific spot. For example, put a rose quartz sphere—which symbolizes endless love—on your nightstand so it can attract love all day, including while you sleep.\\nChoose multiple crystals to draw in different kinds of love at once. For instance, blue lapis promotes clear communication, while bloodstone can invite in a strong partner who nurtures you.\\nWear a crystal necklace so it's close to your heart. It will channel your loving energy to attract a partner.\\n8. Practice a \\\"soulmate meditation\\\" to call in your partner.\\nGuided meditation leads you to your ideal love life.\\nRepeat a mantra—or meaningful statement—daily for a specific period of time, like two weeks. State an intention like, \\\"I will cross paths with the person I’m destined to be with.\\\" Your clarity will enhance your chance of finding exactly who you want to be with.\\nA \\\"soulmate meditation\\\" helps you visualize the relationship that's best for you.\\nYou'll open your heart and connect energetically to your soulmate.\\nDaily dedication to this practice will increase your ability to manifest love.\\n9. Create a \\\"manifesting love\\\" soundtrack.\\nThis playlist will offer upbeat subliminal messages to uplift you.\\nUse a music streaming platform, like Spotify, to put together a playlist of romantic songs. For even better results, turn it on while you meditate or think about your future partner.\\nWhen you repeat inspiring lyrics in your head, you'll focus on the type of love you want to bring in.\\nChoose romantic music that makes you smile—it will promote positive feelings and raise your vibrations. That way, you'll give off a happy and alluring aura.\\n10. Ask the universe for a dream about your soulmate.\\nReach out for a sign so you'll feel connected to your future partner.\\nSoulmates can send each other psychic messages, even before they've physically met each other. When you send a wish out to the universe, you may experience a \\\"soulmate dream,\\\" the phenomenon of communicating with your future partner in your sleep.\\nIf you see your soulmate in a dream, then the universe is telling you that you're likely to encounter the person you fantasize about.\\nIf you hear your soulmate's voice in a dream, they may be sending you a message to reassure you they exist.\\nPay attention to symbols that remind you of your ideal partner. For example, a dream about a fox might represent the clever lover you're looking for.\\n11. Write a message to your soulmate.\\nSend your intention for love out into the universe with this sweet letter.\\nCommunicate with your soulmate by journaling all your thoughts. When you open up your heart and let your feelings pour through you, your future lover is highly likely to be more attuned to your desires and meet your needs when you cross paths.\\nTell them what you'll offer: \\\"I look forward to providing all my warmth and affection.\\\"\\nAsk for their support: \\\"I hope to receive encouragement and kindness from you. That would mean the world to me.\\\"\\nShare your vision for the future: \\\"I believe we’ll travel and change the world together.\\\"\\n12. Make your home a sanctuary for love.\\nCreate space to welcome the special person who will enter your world.\\nPrepare your home for your soulmate's arrival. Put a lot of intention into how you can make them more comfortable. Also feel free to be spontaneous and pick them up something special on a whim. In the future, your partner will appreciate all the care you put into them.\\nLeave a drawer empty for their clothes.\\nCreate a spot in your pantry for their favorite snacks.\\nChoose a cute mug for the coffee or tea you'll brew for them.\\nBuy a signature scent for them and leave it on your bathroom counter.\\nStock up on enticing outfits for future date nights.\\nPick up a picture frame in honor of your first couple photo.\\n13. Release old attachments that block love.\\nLet go of past relationships or patterns that don't serve you.\\nTo be fully present and emotionally available for your future soulmate, make a pact to move on from exes or negative thought patterns. After you've put old flames and anxieties in the past, you'll be several steps closer to the lover who's destined for you.\\nWrite a letter to your ex as a way to vent. State what you're moving past: \\\"I will no longer pine over you.\\\" Then, tear up or burn your note to \\\"cleanse\\\" leftover energy from your former connection.\\nList patterns you want to break as well as healthy replacements for them. For example: \\\"I won't fear rejection. Instead, I'll expect unconditional love.\\\"\\n14. Approach dates with enthusiasm and an open mind.\\nPut optimism out into the world so you attract that same energy.\\nWhen you keep your head up high and your heart open, you'll begin the first chapter of an incredibly rewarding romance. After all, cheerfulness is one of the most magical ingredients for a life-long partnership.\\nIf polite and attractive people ask you out, accept their invitations.\\nWhen you feel bold, strike up a conversation with anyone you're drawn to.\\nLet friends and family set you up with people they think are perfect for you.\\nJoin dating apps and create profiles with exciting bios and your best photos.\\nThank the universe each time you get the chance to meet your potential soulmate.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Are you ready to attract love right away? You might wish to start a promising new relationship or invite your soulmate into your life. Here, we'll help you with both of those magical possibilities. We'll also share simple but powerful methods to manifest love and draw in someone who will worship you. 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If you get specific with your visualization exercise, then you'll have clarity about who your soulmate will be and recognize them when you see them.\\nPicture someone you find incredibly attractive.\\nThink about the aura—like warmth or kindness—they’ll have.\\nImagine habits or traits you’d adore, like generosity.\\nConsider values you’re seeking, like a thirst for justice.\\nFocus on how you’d feel around them—maybe you’ll feel valued.\\nReflect on signs of compatibility, like similar interests.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Say affirmations to accept love into your life.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A positive affirmation tells the universe you're ready for romance.\", \"描述\": \"Say affirmations—empowering comments—out loud, concentrate on them, or write them in your journal. 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When you radiate confidence and self-esteem, you'll attract someone who adores those qualities.\\nYou'll both gravitate toward each other because your spiritual vibrations will be healthy and pure.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Watch romantic movies for inspiration.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"These films will enter your subconscious and open your heart to love.\", \"描述\": \"Visuals are incredibly important tools for shaping your mind and emotions. To get yourself in a sentimental mood and to fantasize about your own personal \\\"fairy tale,\\\" lose yourself in movies that feature beautiful love stories.\\nTake notes while you stream your favorite dramas or rom-coms. Write an observation like, \\\"I love how he took the initiative to introduce himself and ask her out on a real date.\\\"\\nIf you're at the theater, relax and enjoy the story line, dialogue, and imagery of a romantic movie. These details may influence your decisions. For instance, you may be inspired to flirt with a stranger.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Journal about relationships that uplift you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Practice appreciation for the love others share and use it as inspiration.\", \"描述\": \"For a source of comfort, look at everyday moments and genuine displays of affection. Pay attention to couples that make you smile and melt your heart. Reflect on their dynamic and think about how you might want one like it. Write down specific details about couples you admire:\\n\\\"I really look up to the bond that Kelly and Diane have. They always support and encourage each other.\\\"\\n\\\"Seeing Leo worship Starr makes me realize that I want to be cherished and given lots of praise.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Make a vision board for your love life.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Admire it to see the amazing relationship that's in store for you.\", \"描述\": \"Create a vision board on your computer—for example, make a Pinterest board—or get crafty with magazine cut-outs. Let your imagination run wild. No matter how fantastical your vision board is, it'll help make your dreams a reality by reinforcing what you want.\\nDecorate your board with inspiring quotes or write your affirmations on it.\\nInclude romantic pictures—like ones that show couples kissing or embracing—or images of people that look like your ideal soulmate.\\nAdd visuals that instantly make you think about love. For example, maybe you associate fire and rubies with passion.\\nEnhance your vision board with scenes of the house you'll share with your partner or the vacations—like a trip to Bali—you'll enjoy with them.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Use “crystal magic” to manifest love.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Infuse a crystal with your intentions\", \"描述\": \"Activate it by setting a special intention and then placing it in a specific spot. For example, put a rose quartz sphere—which symbolizes endless love—on your nightstand so it can attract love all day, including while you sleep.\\nChoose multiple crystals to draw in different kinds of love at once. For instance, blue lapis promotes clear communication, while bloodstone can invite in a strong partner who nurtures you.\\nWear a crystal necklace so it's close to your heart. It will channel your loving energy to attract a partner.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Practice a \\\"soulmate meditation\\\" to call in your partner.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Guided meditation leads you to your ideal love life.\", \"描述\": \"Repeat a mantra—or meaningful statement—daily for a specific period of time, like two weeks. State an intention like, \\\"I will cross paths with the person I’m destined to be with.\\\" Your clarity will enhance your chance of finding exactly who you want to be with.\\nA \\\"soulmate meditation\\\" helps you visualize the relationship that's best for you.\\nYou'll open your heart and connect energetically to your soulmate.\\nDaily dedication to this practice will increase your ability to manifest love.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Create a \\\"manifesting love\\\" soundtrack.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This playlist will offer upbeat subliminal messages to uplift you.\", \"描述\": \"Use a music streaming platform, like Spotify, to put together a playlist of romantic songs. For even better results, turn it on while you meditate or think about your future partner.\\nWhen you repeat inspiring lyrics in your head, you'll focus on the type of love you want to bring in.\\nChoose romantic music that makes you smile—it will promote positive feelings and raise your vibrations. That way, you'll give off a happy and alluring aura.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Ask the universe for a dream about your soulmate.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Reach out for a sign so you'll feel connected to your future partner.\", \"描述\": \"Soulmates can send each other psychic messages, even before they've physically met each other. When you send a wish out to the universe, you may experience a \\\"soulmate dream,\\\" the phenomenon of communicating with your future partner in your sleep.\\nIf you see your soulmate in a dream, then the universe is telling you that you're likely to encounter the person you fantasize about.\\nIf you hear your soulmate's voice in a dream, they may be sending you a message to reassure you they exist.\\nPay attention to symbols that remind you of your ideal partner. 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That would mean the world to me.\\\"\\nShare your vision for the future: \\\"I believe we’ll travel and change the world together.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Make your home a sanctuary for love.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Create space to welcome the special person who will enter your world.\", \"描述\": \"Prepare your home for your soulmate's arrival. Put a lot of intention into how you can make them more comfortable. Also feel free to be spontaneous and pick them up something special on a whim. In the future, your partner will appreciate all the care you put into them.\\nLeave a drawer empty for their clothes.\\nCreate a spot in your pantry for their favorite snacks.\\nChoose a cute mug for the coffee or tea you'll brew for them.\\nBuy a signature scent for them and leave it on your bathroom counter.\\nStock up on enticing outfits for future date nights.\\nPick up a picture frame in honor of your first couple photo.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Release old attachments that block love.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Let go of past relationships or patterns that don't serve you.\", \"描述\": \"To be fully present and emotionally available for your future soulmate, make a pact to move on from exes or negative thought patterns. After you've put old flames and anxieties in the past, you'll be several steps closer to the lover who's destined for you.\\nWrite a letter to your ex as a way to vent. State what you're moving past: \\\"I will no longer pine over you.\\\" Then, tear up or burn your note to \\\"cleanse\\\" leftover energy from your former connection.\\nList patterns you want to break as well as healthy replacements for them. For example: \\\"I won't fear rejection. Instead, I'll expect unconditional love.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Approach dates with enthusiasm and an open mind.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Put optimism out into the world so you attract that same energy.\", \"描述\": \"When you keep your head up high and your heart open, you'll begin the first chapter of an incredibly rewarding romance. After all, cheerfulness is one of the most magical ingredients for a life-long partnership.\\nIf polite and attractive people ask you out, accept their invitations.\\nWhen you feel bold, strike up a conversation with anyone you're drawn to.\\nLet friends and family set you up with people they think are perfect for you.\\nJoin dating apps and create profiles with exciting bios and your best photos.\\nThank the universe each time you get the chance to meet your potential soulmate.\"}]}]}}",
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2,737 | How to Attract Mason Bees | 1. Building a Nest
1-1. Create a nest by drilling holes into a block of non-treated wood.
Find a natural block of wood—about 5–6 inches (13–15 cm) in width and height, and 7 inches (18 cm) in depth—and use a drill to create holes that are 0.3 inches (0.76 cm) in diameter, the perfect size for bees. Drill the holes roughly 6 inches (15 cm) deep, being careful not to drill all the way through the block of wood.
It doesn't matter how many holes you drill, as long as each hole is fully-enclosed and isn't blended with another one.
Make sure the holes don’t have splinters in them.
Replace the nest blocks after a couple years to keep the bees safe and healthy. You can do this in the spring when the bees emerge from the nest.
1-2. Make a nest out of clean drinking straws for a quick fix.
Find empty, clean containers, such as a food can or milk carton, to put the straws in. Stack the straws on top of one another to create as many tubes as possible. Try to use paper straws if possible, gluing them to the bottom of the container with a non-toxic glue. Make the straws at least 1 centimetre (0.39 in) shorter than the container to help protect them.
Choose a container that is sturdy and will protect the straws from inclement weather.
Using paper straws instead of plastic ones will help prevent mold, but you should still change out the nest every year in the spring when the bees leave the nest.
If you're using a milk carton, cut off the top part so that you can easily stack lots of straws.
Situate the straws so that some stick out farther than others—this will help the bees locate their own hole. A depth of at least 6 inches (15 cm) is ideal.
1-3. Purchase a pre-made bee house for a long-lasting, more durable nest.
You can buy nests for bees at gardening centers or online that will be easier to clean and longer lasting. Choose from homes such as stackable wood nesting trays, paper tubes, or bundles of reeds.
These pre-made nests are often the size of a birdhouse.
Check the instructions or guidelines that come with the pre-made house to find out how often to switch them out.
1-4. Mount the nest in a secure, warm spot 4–7 feet (1.2–2.1 m) off the ground.
The nest should be facing the warmth of the morning sun, and it needs to be protected from rain and wind. Mount the nest on the side of a building, tree, or fence where it will get the proper warmth and protection.
Make sure the nest is placed close to plants and trees so that the bees can easily reach the pollen—200–300 feet (61–91 m) away is ideal.
Use nails or screws to attach the nest to the structure.
2. Growing Beneficial Flowers
2-1. Include plants that bloom at different times throughout the year.
By planting a wide variety of plants that don’t all bloom at the same time, the bees will have a constant source of pollen. You could consider planting things like asters, poppies, black-eyed Susans, or alyssum.
Asters will bloom in the late summer and early fall, and poppies bloom in the late spring and early summer. Black-eyed Susans peak during the summer, while alyssum is best for the fall.
Consider growing hyacinth in the spring, bee balm in the summer, and zinnias in the fall.
Include native species when deciding which plants to grow—ask a local nursery or go online to find out which plants are natives in your area.
2-2. Opt for composite flowers with open petals.
These flowers only have 1 ring of petals, making it much easier for the mason bees to get to the pollen. Deeper flowers with lots of rings of petals make it difficult for the bees to reach the pollen.
Bees like flowers such as alyssum, wildflowers, or Madrid Purple lavender.
Lilacs are an example of flowers that have multiple rings of petals, providing more difficulty for the bees.
2-3. Create large sections of flowers to encourage foraging.
If you only plant a couple flowers to attract the mason bees, you’re less likely to satisfy their curiosity and food needs. Plant large groups of 1 type of flower, or many types, together so that the bees are able to easily see and smell the flowers, while also giving them lots of pollen options.
A patch of 12-20 flowers of one species is a good size.
Plant as many patches as you'd like, making sure that each type of flower has enough room to grow and thrive.
2-4. Grow blue, purple, and yellow flowers to attract the bees.
While bees love lots of types of colorful plants, they’re attracted to these colors, along with white, the most. Choose bright blues, purples, and yellows to plant in your garden, if possible.
Lavender, crocus, and salvia are perfect purple flowers.
Sunflowers and black-eyed Susans are great yellow flowers.
Butterfly bush, catmint, and common heliotrope are options for blue flowers.
Pear blossoms and daisies are white flowers that attract mason bees.
2-5. Avoid using pesticides on your flowers.
It’s best to avoid using pesticides on your garden in general, but this is especially important if you’re trying to attract bees that will be eating the pollen.
If you have to use pesticides, use them when there aren’t open blossoms, which is when the bees will be pollinating.
3. Creating a Mud Source
3-1. Create a clay-mud source within 50 feet (15 m) of the nest.
The mason bees need mud nearby to use it when they divide the chambers of their nest. They’ll need to make many trips back and forth, so provide a mud source close to the nest for them, either by making your own mud source or buying a mud mix.
Unless you have super sandy soil and no access to other types of soil, you can easily make your own mud source.
3-2. Dig a shallow hole and line it with plastic.
Use a shovel to dig a shallow hole in the ground. The hole doesn't need to be wider than 1 foot (30 cm), and a depth of about 10–12 inches (25–30 cm) should be perfect.
You can also use a shallow metal or plastic tray to hold the mud instead of digging a hole in the ground.
3-3. Fill the hole with soil.
You don't have to fill the hole all the way up with soil, but it should be at least four-fifths full. Adding water to the soil will likely cause it to flatten a bit, so don't worry about adding too much.
You want the soil to be more clay-filled than sandy—sandy soil won’t work well.
If you have sandy soil, you can buy more clay-rich soils at a garden store, nursery, or online.
3-4. Keep the mud source moist throughout the season.
It’s important that the mud source not dry up so that the bees can easily use it. Monitor the mud source to ensure that it’s still wet, either allowing rainfall to keep it moist, or adding water to the soil yourself.
You can fill the hole using a hose, watering can, or simple glass of water, all depending on how big the mud source is.
Make the mud a medium-consistency—you don't want it to be super thick and difficult to move around, but it also shouldn't be dripping wet.
Add additional soil to the mud source as the bees use it, if necessary.
3-5. Buy a mason bee mud mix for an easy mud source.
If you go online, you can find several different kinds of mud mixes specifically designed for bees. This option is good if you don’t have access to soil, or just want an easy mud fix. Follow the directions on the box, most likely adding the mix to your soil to provide more clay.
You'll need to add water to the soil and mud mix to make it the right consistency.
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Try to use paper straws if possible, gluing them to the bottom of the container with a non-toxic glue. Make the straws at least 1 centimetre (0.39 in) shorter than the container to help protect them.\\nChoose a container that is sturdy and will protect the straws from inclement weather.\\nUsing paper straws instead of plastic ones will help prevent mold, but you should still change out the nest every year in the spring when the bees leave the nest.\\nIf you're using a milk carton, cut off the top part so that you can easily stack lots of straws.\\nSituate the straws so that some stick out farther than others—this will help the bees locate their own hole. A depth of at least 6 inches (15 cm) is ideal.\\n1-3. Purchase a pre-made bee house for a long-lasting, more durable nest.\\nYou can buy nests for bees at gardening centers or online that will be easier to clean and longer lasting. 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You could consider planting things like asters, poppies, black-eyed Susans, or alyssum.\\nAsters will bloom in the late summer and early fall, and poppies bloom in the late spring and early summer. Black-eyed Susans peak during the summer, while alyssum is best for the fall.\\nConsider growing hyacinth in the spring, bee balm in the summer, and zinnias in the fall.\\nInclude native species when deciding which plants to grow—ask a local nursery or go online to find out which plants are natives in your area.\\n2-2. Opt for composite flowers with open petals.\\nThese flowers only have 1 ring of petals, making it much easier for the mason bees to get to the pollen. Deeper flowers with lots of rings of petals make it difficult for the bees to reach the pollen.\\nBees like flowers such as alyssum, wildflowers, or Madrid Purple lavender.\\nLilacs are an example of flowers that have multiple rings of petals, providing more difficulty for the bees.\\n2-3. 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Buy a mason bee mud mix for an easy mud source.\\nIf you go online, you can find several different kinds of mud mixes specifically designed for bees. This option is good if you don’t have access to soil, or just want an easy mud fix. Follow the directions on the box, most likely adding the mix to your soil to provide more clay.\\nYou'll need to add water to the soil and mud mix to make it the right consistency.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Mason bees are super beneficial for your garden and crops—they pollinate very well and rarely sting. To attract mason bees and keep them happy, they need access to a nest, flowers for food, and a mud source. You can easily make a nest yourself, or you can buy one from a gardening store. 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They’ll need to make many trips back and forth, so provide a mud source close to the nest for them, either by making your own mud source or buying a mud mix.\\nUnless you have super sandy soil and no access to other types of soil, you can easily make your own mud source.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Dig a shallow hole and line it with plastic.\", \"描述\": \"Use a shovel to dig a shallow hole in the ground. The hole doesn't need to be wider than 1 foot (30 cm), and a depth of about 10–12 inches (25–30 cm) should be perfect.\\nYou can also use a shallow metal or plastic tray to hold the mud instead of digging a hole in the ground.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Fill the hole with soil.\", \"描述\": \"You don't have to fill the hole all the way up with soil, but it should be at least four-fifths full. Adding water to the soil will likely cause it to flatten a bit, so don't worry about adding too much.\\nYou want the soil to be more clay-filled than sandy—sandy soil won’t work well.\\nIf you have sandy soil, you can buy more clay-rich soils at a garden store, nursery, or online.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Keep the mud source moist throughout the season.\", \"描述\": \"It’s important that the mud source not dry up so that the bees can easily use it. 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2,738 | How to Attract Orioles and Tanagers | 1. Steps
1-1. Research orioles and tanagers.
Using the internet or an up-to-date bird book, find out which types of orioles and/or tanagers live in your area and when they come to visit. These birds may be present in your area year round, only during breeding season, or only in the winter for migration.
There are eleven species of North American orioles. The most well-known oriole, the Baltimore oriole, has a large breeding range across the midwest and eastern United States. Other species, like the hooded oriole or Bullock's oriole, are only found on the west coast.
There are also six species of tanagers you could attract. Like orioles, these species have a wide range and can be spotted across the United States during breeding season. On the east coast, you might be able to attract scarlet tanagers to your backyard, while on the west coast you'll find western and hepatic tanagers.
1-2. Prepare early.
If you want a better shot at attracting these birds to your yard, it's best to prepare before they arrive in your region. By making your backyard more appealing to them, they will be more likely to see it as a proper nesting location to spend their summer months.
1-3. Plant flowers and berry bushes.
Besides oranges, these birds also enjoy other fruits and even flower nectar. Orioles and tanagers will be more attracted to your yard if they see a steady source of food growing in the area. Introduce a variety of bushes and nectar producing flowers to your garden, preferably ones that are native to your region.
Any nectar producing flowers will be appealing for these birds, but they seem to be more attracted to brightly colored flowers. If you're on the west coast, orioles enjoy agave and ocotillos.
These birds aren't picky about their berries either. Plants like mulberries, wild cherries, serviceberries, grapes, raspberries, and blackberries will all be greatly appreciated by orioles and tanagers.
1-4. Know what trees they prefer.
Planting trees to attract birds isn't an effective short-term solution, but knowing what trees these birds like can help you know how likely they are to nest in your yard.
Orioles like trees that attract insects and have branches they can use to build their nests. Trees like cottonwoods, maples, elms, sycamores, and willows are all favorites.
Tanagers especially enjoy fruit trees, like plums or cherries, for the sweet fruits they bear and insects they attract. Tanagers will nest in a variety of different trees, though western tanagers tend to prefer pine trees and other evergreens.
1-5. Place bird feeders in your yard.
An average bird feeder might not be enough to attract these unique birds. Orioles and tanagers don't enjoy seeds or nuts, so your typical birdseed mix won't be very appealing to them. Orioles are also attracted to bright orange feeders, much like how hummingbirds only visit red feeders.
Consider buying or making bird feeders specifically designed for holding fruit. Some might have spikes to stick orange halves on or flat dishes to place cut fruits.
Try to place these feeders out in the open and not obscured by any trees or buildings. If the birds can't see any potential food sources when flying overhead, they might avoid your yard entirely.
1-6. Offer sliced oranges and grape jelly.
Orioles are best known for their love of oranges and other fruits. One of the best methods for attracting them, and tanagers, is to simply put out sliced oranges for them to snack on. You might also know that orioles have a particular love for grape jelly. The jelly can be placed on a separate dish, on top of the oranges, or just off to the side.
Cut just the base of the orange off so there is a flat surface for the orange half to rest on. Make sure you cut enough so that the base is flat, but not enough to cut through the fruit itself.
Be sure to change out the fruit and clean the feeders every couple of days to keep everything fresh. Birds won't be very interested in spoiled fruit, but bugs certainly will.
1-7. Provide other food sources for them.
Despite their love of fruit, the diet of these birds mainly consists of insects. Orioles also enjoy flower nectar, but will also feed from sugar water if it is provided. This is similar to hummingbird food, but orioles often have trouble eating from hummingbird specific feeders.
Avoid using pesticides around your yard to ensure that there are plenty of insects for these birds to feast on. Insecticide can also be harmful for birds if they eat too many bugs that have been sprayed.
Tips
Use grape jelly on the oranges; orioles and tanagers prefer this flavor.
Warnings
Be careful with sharp objects.
Children must be supervised by an adult.
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2,739 | How to Attract People | 1. Using Body Language
1-1. Imagine every person you meet is an old friend.
Think of a person you care about who you have known a long while, and picture that person when you first meet someone. This can trick your body and facial expressions into relaxing and becoming more open and friendly. For example, your eyebrows will soften, and smiling will come naturally. Additionally, when you pretend to like someone it is easier to actually start to enjoy their company.
1-2. Present a neat appearance.
Pay attention to how you will appear to others. Brush your hair, trim your facial hair and be sure to wash your face and neck before attending a social situation. If desired, use minimal makeup, and keep it natural for first impressions. Choose clothing colors and styles that compliment your figure but are not over flashy, skimpy or inappropriate (don’t wear a suit to a casual encounter or jeans to a formal event) for the event or meeting you will be attending.
1-3. Smile.
Smiling can help keep you in a positive mood, and people will be more willing to approach a person who seems friendly and is enjoying themselves. Be sure not to smile immediately when you meet someone, though. First, pause and look at the person’s face when greeting them, then smile warmly and let it show in your eyes as well. This makes them feel as if your smile is meant only for them.
1-4. Make eye contact.
When you make eye contact with someone, it signals that you are wanting to connect and are approachable. If you are interested in someone, occasionally look at them, no matter who is talking, to show that you want to see how they react. During conversations, hold eye contact for as long as is comfortable.
One trick is to pretend your eyes are glued to the other person’s eyes with sticky taffy. Don’t break eye contact until a few moments after they are done speaking. Slowly and reluctantly look away, pretending like you are stretching the sticky taffy between you until it breaks.
Another trick is to count the number of times the other person blinks while you are having a conversation.
Know that some people may be uncomfortable with this type of attention. If you notice that the other person seems to be reacting negatively to your behavior or seems nervous, break eye contact more often .
1-5. Turn your body toward the person.
People pay attention to the way you act towards them. When you first meet someone, turn your body completely toward them so you face them directly. When you turn toward someone this way, it tells the other person that you feel they are very special.
1-6. Don’t fidget.
Moving around a lot or using frequent hand motions near your face can make the other person feel unimportant or that you are anxious to get the conversation over with. It can even give the impression that you can’t be trusted. Earn credibility by keeping your eyes on the other person during the conversation and not fidgeting, twitching, wiggling, squirming, hair-twirling or scratching.
1-7. Keep an upright posture.
A straight but comfortable posture can give the impression of confidence. Hold your head high, put your shoulders back and step lightly. Move with self-assurance and poise, and sit with your back straight. Don’t stare at your feet, make your back overly rigid or slump over.
One trick you can use to help you do this is to visualize a leather bit is hanging from the ceiling or doorway. Pretend to take a bite on the leather bit. This will put a sweeping smile on your face, keep your posture lifted upright and your feet weightless.
1-8. Pay attention to body cues
Not only do you want to utilize body language that will attract people to you, but you need to be able to read others’ body cues as well. When you understand how people are feeling by the expression on their face, posture, ect., you will be able to react appropriately. People may give you clues that they are engaged, bored, disagree with you or are ready to flirt, and if you can recognize them, you will know what to do next.
Look for a genuine smile. When a person smiles, the corners of his or her eyes will crinkle and the cheeks will lift along with the mouth. This is a true smile and means the individual is enjoying your company.
See where the individual's feet are pointed, while either sitting or standing. if the feet are pointed toward you, then the person is having a good time with you. Likewise, if they are angled away, then that person is ready to leave.
While a torso facing you can be a sign that the other person is engaged, turning one's belly in another direction shows that that person may be defensive or not enjoying the conversation.
Fidgeting hands or legs and arm or leg crossing can signal that the person is anxious, bored or angry.
1-9. Make contact.
Move closer, and check to see how the other person reacts. If they tense up or seem nervous, then gradually increase a little more space between you. If they seem more comfortable or encourage the closeness, touch an arm to build more positive energy.
2. Knowing What To Say
2-1. Greet the person.
Always remember to give an introductory greeting—even something as informal as “hello" works fine in most situations. This opens up communication between you and sets the tone for the interaction. If the other person hasn’t noticed you, you will now be on their radar.
Tell the person your name and inquire about theirs if it isn’t offered.
Tell the person, “So nice to meet you” or something along those lines that tells them you are happy to be talking with them.
2-2. Ask questions.
One of the biggest things to remember when meeting and trying to attract new people is that people like to talk about themselves. If you seem genuinely interested in them, they may seek you out again or become more curious about you. Find out as much about the person as you can—ask what they like to do, the things they enjoy or find interesting or what their goals are. Open-ended questions work the best because they encourage the person to share more information.
Start with a compliment, such as one regarding their outfit. If they just performed or spoke during a conference or meeting, for example, then complement them on what they did or said. If you know about their work, find something about it to praise. Say something like, “I love your shoes” or “I really admired what you said…”
If you are attending a party or other special event, you might ask, “How do you know the host?”
You can ask questions like, “What’s your favorite type of music” or “What movies have you seen lately?” as ice breakers.
Point out something you have in common, such as “It looks like we’re both wine/art/fashion fans. What is your favorite kind?”
2-3. Remember names.
Remembering someone’s name is a sure way to come across as interested. Repeat the name after you hear it out loud. Then, try to remember it with a mnemonic device, such as a rhyme or alliteration, by repeating it in your head.
Something like Joe, Joe from So-Co can work wonders to help you put a face to a name later.
2-4. Avoid certain topics.
Negative energy tends to push people away. Don’t complain, insult the person, gossip or use sarcasm during your conversation. Stay away from controversial topics or ones that may make you seem superficial, such as money, religion or health.
2-5. Be polite and respectful.
Being a little more formal than necessary and using a sign of respect can earn you positive attention. Use words like “sir” and “ma’am” to refer to older individuals or superiors and always be sure to say, “thank you” and "you're welcome."
2-6. Be open, honest and helpful.
These factors are always important in any relationship but can be especially beneficial in a professional environment where information can sometimes be guarded. If there is something you don’t know but can find out for the person, let them know that you will be seeking an answer for them. This shows that you are willing to go out of your way to help.
Try phrases like, "Here's what's happening,” “How can I help?” or "I'll find out."
Offering to help is a great way to earn appreciation and gratitude. If you can make an impact on another person’s success, then go for it. People will notice you, and you will begin to attract more people who like your proactive, supportive nature.
Don’t be afraid to admit your weaknesses. People like those who are willing to confess what they need to work on or who aren’t afraid to acknowledge when they need help. Showing some humility will go a long way to make people like you.
2-7. Offer words of encouragement.
Validation from others can inspire us to work harder so we achieve more. You can really make a positive impact by offering words of encouragement. "I believe in you" is a heartening and reassuring thing for someone to hear. It also greatly increases your likeability factor.
2-8. Talk more.
People like those who aren’t afraid to fill the silences. When people are quiet during conversations, we tend to wonder what they are thinking and if they like us. When you let your thoughts be heard, you take the guesswork out of the interaction, and make others feel at ease.
If you need something to talk about, share good news. Be the person who has the positive outlook and has something uplifting to say. This could be anything from good national or world news, to good news for a company or organization. It could even be something personal, like the birth of a child.
Have a few funny or interesting stories ready. You can start the conversation off this way after your introduction to show that you are easy-going. These can also be used to fill silences.
2-9. Exit the conversation when you’ve made a good impression.
Excuse yourself and repeat the person’s name to leave the person feeling good after your interaction. The key is to make the person want something more from you, perhaps another conversation or maybe they are curious about something you said or did. Excuse yourself and ask for a number or email exchange before busying yourself with some other task or conversation.
Say “It’s been a pleasure to get to know you, John.”
Some relationship counselors recommend waiting to consummate a romantic relationship. Holding off can increase attraction, allowing you to try a relationship and get to know the person first.
3. Cultivating Attractive Character Traits
3-1. Be positive
Choose to nurture positive emotions, thoughts and conversations. People are attracted to other people and things that make them feel good. Practice being optimistic and looking on the bright side, so you spread your positivity to those around you.
Focus on the big picture instead of the individual obstacles that stand in the way. Expand your interests beyond your personal issues. Everyone likes the person who can set aside personal concerns, lighten up and be engaged with what others have to say.
Show gratitude for the people, events, successes and experiences in your life. Let this feeling of being grateful spill over into your conversation, and let the person know you are happy to meet him or her.Keeping a journal of everything that you are grateful for on a daily basis can help you to stay positive before and after meeting new people.
Catch yourself when you think negative, critical or judgmental thoughts about yourself or other people. Counter these negative thoughts with 2 positive things about the person or yourself.
Maintain a positive posture, keeping your back straight, shoulders slightly back, chin held high and your arms wide. Holding this posture during conversations can make you appear confident and positive and can reinforce your positive feelings.
3-2. Cultivate confidence
Your body language is not the only thing that will benefit from you thinking and behaving more confidently. Your relationships, self-esteem and ability to persuade people will also be enhanced. You should realize that you have value, are talented, skilled and have something to offer that others want or need.
Speak up when you have something to say and speak with confidence. Don't phrase what you say as a question with your tone of voice rising at the end. Make statements and don't use uncertain phrases like "I think".
Tell yourself daily what makes you special. Look in the mirror and say, “I like you.” When you can like yourself, others will like you too.
Recognize when you do a job well, and focus on solutions instead of problems.
3-3. Be energetic
Energy can be passed to others through your enthusiasm and excitement. Being a positive, confident, upbeat person with a can-do attitude will influence others in a good way. They will want to get to know you so they can feed off of your charisma and figure out where all that energy is coming from. Feel free to express your passion for a subject, hobby, project or individual.
Getting a good night's sleep, going to bed at the same time every night, turning off all lights and avoiding alcohol as well as large meals before bed can help you feel more energetic in the morning.
Drink water in the morning to replenish your body and eat breakfast.
Get 15-30 minutes of exposure to natural outside light or use a light box if it is cloudy. Take a walk. Being outside in nature for at least 20 minutes can make you 20 percent more physically and mentally energetic.
Avoid caffeine and energy drinks.
3-4. Don’t be pushy.
Pushy people are stressful. It is difficult to like someone who imposes their ideas, beliefs and choices on you. Be flexible and able to adjust to different situations and personalities. When others realize you are easy-going and open-minded, getting along with you will be easy too.
3-5. Be funny
Sharing laughter connects people on a deeper level. People are attracted to those who can make them laugh or who take a carefree approach to life and conversation. If you aren’t the funny type or aren’t comfortable joking around, then try to see the humor in something. It is natural to feel a bond with people who can laugh easily.
3-6. Be a good listener
Everyone wants to be around someone who will listen to them. Always pause after talking, look at the person and wait for a response. When they speak, maintain eye contact, nod your head and make sounds that express that you agree. Listening shows that you are interested in what the other person has to say, while rephrasing what the person said or asking questions afterward proves that you were listening.
3-7. Follow up.
Following up demonstrates your interest and further confirms that you were listening during the conversation. You can use something that came up during the conversation and relate it to another experience that reminds you of the person. For example, you might mention that you passed by a coffee shop with tables outside and recalled that the other person enjoys drinking coffee outside. You could then use the opportunity to request a follow-up meeting at the coffee shop.
You can follow up in-person or via a note, phone call or email.
If you can, remember specific dates that are important to the person, such as a birthday, anniversary or graduation dates. Send out cards or do something special for that person.
3-8. Place yourself in dynamic situations.
Many people call this, “putting yourself out there.” Whether you are looking for a new job, new boyfriend or new contacts, placing yourself in an environment with new people regularly will make your more at ease in social situations. It will also allow various types of people to connect with you.
When you are out and about, don’t stand in a large group. Make sure you are with no more than 2 other people. Large groups of men and women can be protective of each other, and you will give the signal that you are not looking for someone outside of your group.
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Choose clothing colors and styles that compliment your figure but are not over flashy, skimpy or inappropriate (don’t wear a suit to a casual encounter or jeans to a formal event) for the event or meeting you will be attending.\\n1-3. Smile.\\nSmiling can help keep you in a positive mood, and people will be more willing to approach a person who seems friendly and is enjoying themselves. Be sure not to smile immediately when you meet someone, though. First, pause and look at the person’s face when greeting them, then smile warmly and let it show in your eyes as well. This makes them feel as if your smile is meant only for them.\\n1-4. Make eye contact.\\nWhen you make eye contact with someone, it signals that you are wanting to connect and are approachable. If you are interested in someone, occasionally look at them, no matter who is talking, to show that you want to see how they react. During conversations, hold eye contact for as long as is comfortable.\\nOne trick is to pretend your eyes are glued to the other person’s eyes with sticky taffy. Don’t break eye contact until a few moments after they are done speaking. Slowly and reluctantly look away, pretending like you are stretching the sticky taffy between you until it breaks.\\nAnother trick is to count the number of times the other person blinks while you are having a conversation. \\nKnow that some people may be uncomfortable with this type of attention. If you notice that the other person seems to be reacting negatively to your behavior or seems nervous, break eye contact more often .\\n1-5. Turn your body toward the person.\\nPeople pay attention to the way you act towards them. When you first meet someone, turn your body completely toward them so you face them directly. When you turn toward someone this way, it tells the other person that you feel they are very special.\\n1-6. Don’t fidget.\\nMoving around a lot or using frequent hand motions near your face can make the other person feel unimportant or that you are anxious to get the conversation over with. It can even give the impression that you can’t be trusted. Earn credibility by keeping your eyes on the other person during the conversation and not fidgeting, twitching, wiggling, squirming, hair-twirling or scratching.\\n1-7. Keep an upright posture.\\nA straight but comfortable posture can give the impression of confidence. Hold your head high, put your shoulders back and step lightly. Move with self-assurance and poise, and sit with your back straight. Don’t stare at your feet, make your back overly rigid or slump over.\\nOne trick you can use to help you do this is to visualize a leather bit is hanging from the ceiling or doorway. Pretend to take a bite on the leather bit. This will put a sweeping smile on your face, keep your posture lifted upright and your feet weightless.\\n1-8. Pay attention to body cues\\nNot only do you want to utilize body language that will attract people to you, but you need to be able to read others’ body cues as well. When you understand how people are feeling by the expression on their face, posture, ect., you will be able to react appropriately. People may give you clues that they are engaged, bored, disagree with you or are ready to flirt, and if you can recognize them, you will know what to do next.\\nLook for a genuine smile. When a person smiles, the corners of his or her eyes will crinkle and the cheeks will lift along with the mouth. This is a true smile and means the individual is enjoying your company.\\nSee where the individual's feet are pointed, while either sitting or standing. if the feet are pointed toward you, then the person is having a good time with you. Likewise, if they are angled away, then that person is ready to leave.\\nWhile a torso facing you can be a sign that the other person is engaged, turning one's belly in another direction shows that that person may be defensive or not enjoying the conversation.\\nFidgeting hands or legs and arm or leg crossing can signal that the person is anxious, bored or angry.\\n1-9. Make contact.\\nMove closer, and check to see how the other person reacts. If they tense up or seem nervous, then gradually increase a little more space between you. If they seem more comfortable or encourage the closeness, touch an arm to build more positive energy.\\n2. Knowing What To Say\\n2-1. Greet the person.\\nAlways remember to give an introductory greeting—even something as informal as “hello\\\" works fine in most situations. This opens up communication between you and sets the tone for the interaction. If the other person hasn’t noticed you, you will now be on their radar. \\nTell the person your name and inquire about theirs if it isn’t offered.\\nTell the person, “So nice to meet you” or something along those lines that tells them you are happy to be talking with them.\\n2-2. Ask questions.\\nOne of the biggest things to remember when meeting and trying to attract new people is that people like to talk about themselves. If you seem genuinely interested in them, they may seek you out again or become more curious about you. Find out as much about the person as you can—ask what they like to do, the things they enjoy or find interesting or what their goals are. Open-ended questions work the best because they encourage the person to share more information.\\nStart with a compliment, such as one regarding their outfit. If they just performed or spoke during a conference or meeting, for example, then complement them on what they did or said. If you know about their work, find something about it to praise. Say something like, “I love your shoes” or “I really admired what you said…”\\nIf you are attending a party or other special event, you might ask, “How do you know the host?”\\nYou can ask questions like, “What’s your favorite type of music” or “What movies have you seen lately?” as ice breakers.\\nPoint out something you have in common, such as “It looks like we’re both wine/art/fashion fans. What is your favorite kind?”\\n2-3. Remember names.\\nRemembering someone’s name is a sure way to come across as interested. Repeat the name after you hear it out loud. Then, try to remember it with a mnemonic device, such as a rhyme or alliteration, by repeating it in your head.\\nSomething like Joe, Joe from So-Co can work wonders to help you put a face to a name later.\\n2-4. Avoid certain topics.\\nNegative energy tends to push people away. Don’t complain, insult the person, gossip or use sarcasm during your conversation. Stay away from controversial topics or ones that may make you seem superficial, such as money, religion or health.\\n2-5. Be polite and respectful.\\nBeing a little more formal than necessary and using a sign of respect can earn you positive attention. Use words like “sir” and “ma’am” to refer to older individuals or superiors and always be sure to say, “thank you” and \\\"you're welcome.\\\"\\n2-6. Be open, honest and helpful.\\nThese factors are always important in any relationship but can be especially beneficial in a professional environment where information can sometimes be guarded. If there is something you don’t know but can find out for the person, let them know that you will be seeking an answer for them. This shows that you are willing to go out of your way to help.\\nTry phrases like, \\\"Here's what's happening,” “How can I help?” or \\\"I'll find out.\\\"\\nOffering to help is a great way to earn appreciation and gratitude. If you can make an impact on another person’s success, then go for it. People will notice you, and you will begin to attract more people who like your proactive, supportive nature.\\nDon’t be afraid to admit your weaknesses. People like those who are willing to confess what they need to work on or who aren’t afraid to acknowledge when they need help. Showing some humility will go a long way to make people like you.\\n2-7. Offer words of encouragement.\\nValidation from others can inspire us to work harder so we achieve more. You can really make a positive impact by offering words of encouragement. \\\"I believe in you\\\" is a heartening and reassuring thing for someone to hear. It also greatly increases your likeability factor.\\n2-8. Talk more.\\nPeople like those who aren’t afraid to fill the silences. When people are quiet during conversations, we tend to wonder what they are thinking and if they like us. When you let your thoughts be heard, you take the guesswork out of the interaction, and make others feel at ease.\\nIf you need something to talk about, share good news. Be the person who has the positive outlook and has something uplifting to say. This could be anything from good national or world news, to good news for a company or organization. It could even be something personal, like the birth of a child.\\nHave a few funny or interesting stories ready. You can start the conversation off this way after your introduction to show that you are easy-going. These can also be used to fill silences.\\n2-9. Exit the conversation when you’ve made a good impression.\\nExcuse yourself and repeat the person’s name to leave the person feeling good after your interaction. The key is to make the person want something more from you, perhaps another conversation or maybe they are curious about something you said or did. Excuse yourself and ask for a number or email exchange before busying yourself with some other task or conversation.\\nSay “It’s been a pleasure to get to know you, John.”\\nSome relationship counselors recommend waiting to consummate a romantic relationship. Holding off can increase attraction, allowing you to try a relationship and get to know the person first.\\n3. Cultivating Attractive Character Traits\\n3-1. Be positive\\nChoose to nurture positive emotions, thoughts and conversations. People are attracted to other people and things that make them feel good. Practice being optimistic and looking on the bright side, so you spread your positivity to those around you.\\nFocus on the big picture instead of the individual obstacles that stand in the way. Expand your interests beyond your personal issues. Everyone likes the person who can set aside personal concerns, lighten up and be engaged with what others have to say.\\nShow gratitude for the people, events, successes and experiences in your life. Let this feeling of being grateful spill over into your conversation, and let the person know you are happy to meet him or her.Keeping a journal of everything that you are grateful for on a daily basis can help you to stay positive before and after meeting new people.\\nCatch yourself when you think negative, critical or judgmental thoughts about yourself or other people. Counter these negative thoughts with 2 positive things about the person or yourself.\\nMaintain a positive posture, keeping your back straight, shoulders slightly back, chin held high and your arms wide. Holding this posture during conversations can make you appear confident and positive and can reinforce your positive feelings.\\n3-2. Cultivate confidence\\nYour body language is not the only thing that will benefit from you thinking and behaving more confidently. Your relationships, self-esteem and ability to persuade people will also be enhanced. You should realize that you have value, are talented, skilled and have something to offer that others want or need.\\nSpeak up when you have something to say and speak with confidence. Don't phrase what you say as a question with your tone of voice rising at the end. Make statements and don't use uncertain phrases like \\\"I think\\\".\\nTell yourself daily what makes you special. Look in the mirror and say, “I like you.” When you can like yourself, others will like you too.\\nRecognize when you do a job well, and focus on solutions instead of problems.\\n3-3. Be energetic\\nEnergy can be passed to others through your enthusiasm and excitement. Being a positive, confident, upbeat person with a can-do attitude will influence others in a good way. They will want to get to know you so they can feed off of your charisma and figure out where all that energy is coming from. Feel free to express your passion for a subject, hobby, project or individual.\\nGetting a good night's sleep, going to bed at the same time every night, turning off all lights and avoiding alcohol as well as large meals before bed can help you feel more energetic in the morning.\\nDrink water in the morning to replenish your body and eat breakfast.\\nGet 15-30 minutes of exposure to natural outside light or use a light box if it is cloudy. Take a walk. Being outside in nature for at least 20 minutes can make you 20 percent more physically and mentally energetic.\\nAvoid caffeine and energy drinks.\\n3-4. Don’t be pushy.\\nPushy people are stressful. It is difficult to like someone who imposes their ideas, beliefs and choices on you. Be flexible and able to adjust to different situations and personalities. When others realize you are easy-going and open-minded, getting along with you will be easy too.\\n3-5. Be funny\\nSharing laughter connects people on a deeper level. People are attracted to those who can make them laugh or who take a carefree approach to life and conversation. If you aren’t the funny type or aren’t comfortable joking around, then try to see the humor in something. It is natural to feel a bond with people who can laugh easily.\\n3-6. Be a good listener\\nEveryone wants to be around someone who will listen to them. Always pause after talking, look at the person and wait for a response. When they speak, maintain eye contact, nod your head and make sounds that express that you agree. Listening shows that you are interested in what the other person has to say, while rephrasing what the person said or asking questions afterward proves that you were listening.\\n3-7. Follow up.\\nFollowing up demonstrates your interest and further confirms that you were listening during the conversation. You can use something that came up during the conversation and relate it to another experience that reminds you of the person. For example, you might mention that you passed by a coffee shop with tables outside and recalled that the other person enjoys drinking coffee outside. You could then use the opportunity to request a follow-up meeting at the coffee shop.\\nYou can follow up in-person or via a note, phone call or email.\\nIf you can, remember specific dates that are important to the person, such as a birthday, anniversary or graduation dates. Send out cards or do something special for that person.\\n3-8. Place yourself in dynamic situations.\\nMany people call this, “putting yourself out there.” Whether you are looking for a new job, new boyfriend or new contacts, placing yourself in an environment with new people regularly will make your more at ease in social situations. It will also allow various types of people to connect with you.\\nWhen you are out and about, don’t stand in a large group. Make sure you are with no more than 2 other people. Large groups of men and women can be protective of each other, and you will give the signal that you are not looking for someone outside of your group.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"We all want to be liked. When you connect with others on a deeper level, you can create great lasting impressions that can lead to new professional and personal relationships. Attracting people to you opens up new networking and relationship opportunities. To do this, you will want to use the appropriate body language, say the right things and cultivate engaging personality traits to make people special and comfortable around you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Using Body Language\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Imagine every person you meet is an old friend.\", \"描述\": \"Think of a person you care about who you have known a long while, and picture that person when you first meet someone. This can trick your body and facial expressions into relaxing and becoming more open and friendly. For example, your eyebrows will soften, and smiling will come naturally. Additionally, when you pretend to like someone it is easier to actually start to enjoy their company.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Present a neat appearance.\", \"描述\": \"Pay attention to how you will appear to others. Brush your hair, trim your facial hair and be sure to wash your face and neck before attending a social situation. If desired, use minimal makeup, and keep it natural for first impressions. Choose clothing colors and styles that compliment your figure but are not over flashy, skimpy or inappropriate (don’t wear a suit to a casual encounter or jeans to a formal event) for the event or meeting you will be attending.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Smile.\", \"描述\": \"Smiling can help keep you in a positive mood, and people will be more willing to approach a person who seems friendly and is enjoying themselves. Be sure not to smile immediately when you meet someone, though. First, pause and look at the person’s face when greeting them, then smile warmly and let it show in your eyes as well. This makes them feel as if your smile is meant only for them.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Make eye contact.\", \"描述\": \"When you make eye contact with someone, it signals that you are wanting to connect and are approachable. If you are interested in someone, occasionally look at them, no matter who is talking, to show that you want to see how they react. During conversations, hold eye contact for as long as is comfortable.\\nOne trick is to pretend your eyes are glued to the other person’s eyes with sticky taffy. Don’t break eye contact until a few moments after they are done speaking. Slowly and reluctantly look away, pretending like you are stretching the sticky taffy between you until it breaks.\\nAnother trick is to count the number of times the other person blinks while you are having a conversation. \\nKnow that some people may be uncomfortable with this type of attention. If you notice that the other person seems to be reacting negatively to your behavior or seems nervous, break eye contact more often .\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Turn your body toward the person.\", \"描述\": \"People pay attention to the way you act towards them. When you first meet someone, turn your body completely toward them so you face them directly. When you turn toward someone this way, it tells the other person that you feel they are very special.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Don’t fidget.\", \"描述\": \"Moving around a lot or using frequent hand motions near your face can make the other person feel unimportant or that you are anxious to get the conversation over with. It can even give the impression that you can’t be trusted. Earn credibility by keeping your eyes on the other person during the conversation and not fidgeting, twitching, wiggling, squirming, hair-twirling or scratching.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Keep an upright posture.\", \"描述\": \"A straight but comfortable posture can give the impression of confidence. Hold your head high, put your shoulders back and step lightly. Move with self-assurance and poise, and sit with your back straight. Don’t stare at your feet, make your back overly rigid or slump over.\\nOne trick you can use to help you do this is to visualize a leather bit is hanging from the ceiling or doorway. Pretend to take a bite on the leather bit. This will put a sweeping smile on your face, keep your posture lifted upright and your feet weightless.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Pay attention to body cues\", \"描述\": \"Not only do you want to utilize body language that will attract people to you, but you need to be able to read others’ body cues as well. When you understand how people are feeling by the expression on their face, posture, ect., you will be able to react appropriately. People may give you clues that they are engaged, bored, disagree with you or are ready to flirt, and if you can recognize them, you will know what to do next.\\nLook for a genuine smile. When a person smiles, the corners of his or her eyes will crinkle and the cheeks will lift along with the mouth. This is a true smile and means the individual is enjoying your company.\\nSee where the individual's feet are pointed, while either sitting or standing. if the feet are pointed toward you, then the person is having a good time with you. Likewise, if they are angled away, then that person is ready to leave.\\nWhile a torso facing you can be a sign that the other person is engaged, turning one's belly in another direction shows that that person may be defensive or not enjoying the conversation.\\nFidgeting hands or legs and arm or leg crossing can signal that the person is anxious, bored or angry.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Make contact.\", \"描述\": \"Move closer, and check to see how the other person reacts. If they tense up or seem nervous, then gradually increase a little more space between you. If they seem more comfortable or encourage the closeness, touch an arm to build more positive energy.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Knowing What To Say\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Greet the person.\", \"描述\": \"Always remember to give an introductory greeting—even something as informal as “hello\\\" works fine in most situations. This opens up communication between you and sets the tone for the interaction. If the other person hasn’t noticed you, you will now be on their radar. \\nTell the person your name and inquire about theirs if it isn’t offered.\\nTell the person, “So nice to meet you” or something along those lines that tells them you are happy to be talking with them.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Ask questions.\", \"描述\": \"One of the biggest things to remember when meeting and trying to attract new people is that people like to talk about themselves. If you seem genuinely interested in them, they may seek you out again or become more curious about you. Find out as much about the person as you can—ask what they like to do, the things they enjoy or find interesting or what their goals are. Open-ended questions work the best because they encourage the person to share more information.\\nStart with a compliment, such as one regarding their outfit. If they just performed or spoke during a conference or meeting, for example, then complement them on what they did or said. If you know about their work, find something about it to praise. Say something like, “I love your shoes” or “I really admired what you said…”\\nIf you are attending a party or other special event, you might ask, “How do you know the host?”\\nYou can ask questions like, “What’s your favorite type of music” or “What movies have you seen lately?” as ice breakers.\\nPoint out something you have in common, such as “It looks like we’re both wine/art/fashion fans. What is your favorite kind?”\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Remember names.\", \"描述\": \"Remembering someone’s name is a sure way to come across as interested. Repeat the name after you hear it out loud. Then, try to remember it with a mnemonic device, such as a rhyme or alliteration, by repeating it in your head.\\nSomething like Joe, Joe from So-Co can work wonders to help you put a face to a name later.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Avoid certain topics.\", \"描述\": \"Negative energy tends to push people away. Don’t complain, insult the person, gossip or use sarcasm during your conversation. Stay away from controversial topics or ones that may make you seem superficial, such as money, religion or health.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be polite and respectful.\", \"描述\": \"Being a little more formal than necessary and using a sign of respect can earn you positive attention. 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People like those who are willing to confess what they need to work on or who aren’t afraid to acknowledge when they need help. Showing some humility will go a long way to make people like you.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Offer words of encouragement.\", \"描述\": \"Validation from others can inspire us to work harder so we achieve more. You can really make a positive impact by offering words of encouragement. \\\"I believe in you\\\" is a heartening and reassuring thing for someone to hear. It also greatly increases your likeability factor.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Talk more.\", \"描述\": \"People like those who aren’t afraid to fill the silences. When people are quiet during conversations, we tend to wonder what they are thinking and if they like us. When you let your thoughts be heard, you take the guesswork out of the interaction, and make others feel at ease.\\nIf you need something to talk about, share good news. Be the person who has the positive outlook and has something uplifting to say. This could be anything from good national or world news, to good news for a company or organization. It could even be something personal, like the birth of a child.\\nHave a few funny or interesting stories ready. You can start the conversation off this way after your introduction to show that you are easy-going. These can also be used to fill silences.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Exit the conversation when you’ve made a good impression.\", \"描述\": \"Excuse yourself and repeat the person’s name to leave the person feeling good after your interaction. The key is to make the person want something more from you, perhaps another conversation or maybe they are curious about something you said or did. Excuse yourself and ask for a number or email exchange before busying yourself with some other task or conversation.\\nSay “It’s been a pleasure to get to know you, John.”\\nSome relationship counselors recommend waiting to consummate a romantic relationship. Holding off can increase attraction, allowing you to try a relationship and get to know the person first.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Cultivating Attractive Character Traits\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be positive\", \"描述\": \"Choose to nurture positive emotions, thoughts and conversations. People are attracted to other people and things that make them feel good. Practice being optimistic and looking on the bright side, so you spread your positivity to those around you.\\nFocus on the big picture instead of the individual obstacles that stand in the way. Expand your interests beyond your personal issues. Everyone likes the person who can set aside personal concerns, lighten up and be engaged with what others have to say.\\nShow gratitude for the people, events, successes and experiences in your life. Let this feeling of being grateful spill over into your conversation, and let the person know you are happy to meet him or her.Keeping a journal of everything that you are grateful for on a daily basis can help you to stay positive before and after meeting new people.\\nCatch yourself when you think negative, critical or judgmental thoughts about yourself or other people. Counter these negative thoughts with 2 positive things about the person or yourself.\\nMaintain a positive posture, keeping your back straight, shoulders slightly back, chin held high and your arms wide. 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2,740 | How to Attract Quail | 1. Making Your Yard Attractive to Quails
1-1. Plant native plants instead of introduced species.
Research plants that are native to your planting zone and choose native shrubs and trees that will attract quail. Native plants provide a protected place for quail to breed, roost, and nest. Many of the plants are also home to insects that the quail like to eat.
For example, if you live in Texas, you could plant black locust, eastern red cedar, and desert willow.
For example, if you live in Arizona, try planting velvet and honey mesquite trees, catclaw, saltbush, and globe mallow.
1-2. Grow dense ground cover to protect the quail.
Leave grass and foliage in your space to mimic the quail's natural habitat. Quail can hide in the tall grass and the shrubbery makes a windbreak that protects the birds from the elements.
Quail love thickets, tangles, and brush piles, so don't clear these from the space.
1-3. Set out dry nesting material.
Quail like to find an area where they can breed and raise their young. Provide dry straw, hay, grass, leaf litter, and twigs to encourage the quail to breed. Set these near the ground cover, so the quail feel protected.
1-4. Create a dry, dusty space for the quail to bathe.
Quail roll in the dust to protect their feathers and remove parasites. The dust also acts like a bath. To make a bathing spot for the quail, mix a little dry sand into a space filled with dirt.
Consider placing a cover or tree near the bathing spot, so the spot doesn't become muddy if it rains.
1-5. Arrange hollow logs or stumps in your space.
Hollow logs make great hiding spots or places for the quail to nest and feed. Place a few hollow logs near the shrubbery and ground cover. This will encourage the quail to investigate the logs. You should also set out a stump or large piece of timber.
If you attract a flock of quail, the male leader will perch on the stump.
1-6. Use fencing or shrubbery to secure the quail from predators.
If you have livestock in the area, install high fencing to prevent them from wandering into the space where you're trying to attract quail. Otherwise, shrubbery can act as a fence to keep other predators away. It's also important to keep house pets out of the space since they'll frighten the quail away.
You should also avoid walking around the space because you could disturb the quail.
1-7. Keep pets indoors.
Quail are very fragile and easily-frightened birds that can be discouraged by unwanted animals in your garden, such as cats or dogs. Limit the sessions your household pets spend outside.
2. Feeding the Quails
2-1. Set out wild bird seed and grains near the ground cover.
Purchase wild bird seed and grain sorghum. Then scatter it near the shrubs and ground cover. The quail will be attracted to the food, but will be protected by the plants.
You can find wild bird seed formulated for quail at most local pet stores or online.
2-2. Place millet sprays in the shrubbery.
You can buy millet seeds that are still attached to the stalk and insert them ground cover. The quail will be drawn to the millet and they'll be protected by the shrubbery while they're eating it.
Cowbirds and house sparrows also enjoy millet sprays.
2-3. Plant extra food resources.
Quail might be interested in herbs, vegetables, and berry bushes in your space, so consider planting these. Shrubs that produce food for quail include serviceberry, snowberry, huckleberry, blackberry, currant, and grape.
Quail also eat flowers and insects that are commonly found in gardens.
2-4. Avoid using hanging bird feeders.
Quail don't fly and they don't like to perch while they eat, so don't put food into bird feeders that hang from trees. If you still want to use a feeder, purchase one that sits just off of the ground and fill it with wild bird seed.
Keep in mind that predators, such as house cats or rats, may be drawn to the quail as they gather near the ground feeders.
2-5. Add a water source to your garden.
Quail don't usually like to drink from raised bird baths, but they are attracted to shallow, low-lying water sources. If you don't have an artificial pond in your space, set out shallow bowls of water.
Quail will also be drawn to streams or rivers that they can drink from.
Tips
Talk with your neighbors about making changes to their yards and acreage. Quail are more likely to be attracted to a large, safe area than a single yard.
Warnings
While these additions to your garden can attract quail, they can also entice unwanted pests and dangerous wildlife, such as snakes, spiders, reptiles and amphibians.
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Set out dry nesting material.\\nQuail like to find an area where they can breed and raise their young. Provide dry straw, hay, grass, leaf litter, and twigs to encourage the quail to breed. Set these near the ground cover, so the quail feel protected.\\n1-4. Create a dry, dusty space for the quail to bathe.\\nQuail roll in the dust to protect their feathers and remove parasites. The dust also acts like a bath. To make a bathing spot for the quail, mix a little dry sand into a space filled with dirt.\\nConsider placing a cover or tree near the bathing spot, so the spot doesn't become muddy if it rains.\\n1-5. Arrange hollow logs or stumps in your space.\\nHollow logs make great hiding spots or places for the quail to nest and feed. Place a few hollow logs near the shrubbery and ground cover. This will encourage the quail to investigate the logs. You should also set out a stump or large piece of timber.\\nIf you attract a flock of quail, the male leader will perch on the stump.\\n1-6. Use fencing or shrubbery to secure the quail from predators.\\nIf you have livestock in the area, install high fencing to prevent them from wandering into the space where you're trying to attract quail. Otherwise, shrubbery can act as a fence to keep other predators away. It's also important to keep house pets out of the space since they'll frighten the quail away.\\nYou should also avoid walking around the space because you could disturb the quail.\\n1-7. Keep pets indoors.\\nQuail are very fragile and easily-frightened birds that can be discouraged by unwanted animals in your garden, such as cats or dogs. Limit the sessions your household pets spend outside.\\n2. Feeding the Quails\\n2-1. Set out wild bird seed and grains near the ground cover.\\nPurchase wild bird seed and grain sorghum. Then scatter it near the shrubs and ground cover. The quail will be attracted to the food, but will be protected by the plants.\\nYou can find wild bird seed formulated for quail at most local pet stores or online.\\n2-2. Place millet sprays in the shrubbery.\\nYou can buy millet seeds that are still attached to the stalk and insert them ground cover. The quail will be drawn to the millet and they'll be protected by the shrubbery while they're eating it.\\nCowbirds and house sparrows also enjoy millet sprays.\\n2-3. Plant extra food resources.\\nQuail might be interested in herbs, vegetables, and berry bushes in your space, so consider planting these. Shrubs that produce food for quail include serviceberry, snowberry, huckleberry, blackberry, currant, and grape.\\nQuail also eat flowers and insects that are commonly found in gardens.\\n2-4. Avoid using hanging bird feeders.\\nQuail don't fly and they don't like to perch while they eat, so don't put food into bird feeders that hang from trees. If you still want to use a feeder, purchase one that sits just off of the ground and fill it with wild bird seed.\\nKeep in mind that predators, such as house cats or rats, may be drawn to the quail as they gather near the ground feeders.\\n2-5. Add a water source to your garden.\\nQuail don't usually like to drink from raised bird baths, but they are attracted to shallow, low-lying water sources. If you don't have an artificial pond in your space, set out shallow bowls of water.\\nQuail will also be drawn to streams or rivers that they can drink from.\\nTips\\nTalk with your neighbors about making changes to their yards and acreage. 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2,741 | How to Lure Rats Out of Hiding & Know When They’re Near | 1. Attracting Rats
1-1. Leave some food sitting out.
Rats aren't picky eaters—you can use just about any type of edible item as rodent bait, including meats, cheeses, fish, moldy bread, and produce that’s past its prime. Sweet offerings like fruit are among their favorites, particularly berries.
Rats prefer foods with strong odors, which they use to sniff out a meal. For this reason, spoiled items may be more effective for drawing them out than fresh ones.
1-2. Entice rats with grains and seeds.
Set out an open sack of flour or bucket of rotting feed. Grains, nuts, and other plant-based nibbles provide rats with a lot of energy, which is why it’s no coincidence that they can often be found in places like pantries and storage sheds.
It’s not uncommon to spot rats lurking near bird feeders or bags of grass seed.
1-3. Give outdoor rodents access to your garbage.
If you have an overflowing trash can or dumpster outside, you may not need to do anything special to whip a community of hidden rats into a frenzy. The mixture of rotting food items in the average waste receptacle is like a buffet for a hungry rodent.
Let your trash sit out for an extra day or two before having it hauled off so it’s extra smelly.
Your garbage will become a rat magnet in the sweltering summer months, when the heat speeds decomposition.
1-4. Look for rats around leaf and compost piles.
Rake the scattered leaves, twigs, and weeds from around your property into mounds and wait for the furry invaders to pour in. Rats often seek shelter in these places or make off with small pieces of debris to build their nests.
Situate leaf piles and compost heaps next to the tree line or close to dark or confined spaces. Rats are more likely to venture into these areas than those that are out in the open.
1-5. Employ a chemical rat attractant.
Squeeze a few drops of rat attractant around the area where you want to lure and trap rats. These products use natural compounds to mimic the scent of rat saliva. Any rats that happen to be passing by will pick up on the smell and think there’s something edible nearby.
You can buy rat attractant from most pet stores, or in the pest control aisle of your local home improvement center.
A little bit of rat attractant goes a long way. Hints of the chemical will make nearby rodents curious, but too much may actually repel them.
2. Baiting Rat Traps
2-1. Buy a set of rat traps.
There are many different varieties of traps available, from lethal rat-zappers and sticky traps to humane contraptions like spring-loaded cages. The type of trap you select will depend on the severity of the infestation and your attitude towards killing.
You should find an extensive selection to look over at most hardware stores, home improvement centers, and gardening shops.
If you’re not sure which type of trap would work best for a given space, ask a certified pest control specialist for a recommendation.
2-2. Pick up enough traps to keep unwanted rats from escaping.
As a rule, you should plan on laying out more traps than you think you realistically need. The majority of traps are only designed to catch a single rodent at a time, which means you'll need quite a few to put a stop to a horde of rampant rats.
If you're contending with a full-blown infestation, you may need as many as a dozen or more traps to get the job done
2-3. Situate the traps near possible entry points.
Don't concentrate all your traps in one area. Instead, place one or two around each individual opening where you suspect that rats might be getting in. This will minimize the chances of others sneaking by unscathed.
Keep the traps in plain sight to make it easy for the rats to find their way in.
Don't forget to make the other people inhabiting the space aware of the presence of the rat traps.
2-4. Choose the right bait.
Not all rats share the same diet. Brown rats, the species that most commonly turns up in and around homes, will eat everything from sliced hotdogs to leftover candy. By contrast, black rats are herbivores, and will only risk exposure for fruits, nuts, and grains. To spring a successful trap, you’ll need to know which sort you have hanging around.
A savory plant-based food like peanut butter will be your best bet when you’re not sure what type of rat you’re dealing with.
Brown rats are also known as Norway rats, gray rats, wharf rats, and sewer rats. Black rats are variously referred to as house rats, ship rats, and roof rats.
2-5. Bait your traps with food instead of poison.
Avoid baiting your traps with toxic chemicals unless absolutely necessary. The smallest trace of rat poison can be extremely dangerous to have around your home, especially if you have pets or small children. Even if it works, the chemicals will still be present in the dead rat, which will only become more of a hazard as it decomposes.
Though it requires more patience, eliminating rats one at a time using lethal or nonlethal traps is ultimately the safer and more effective way to go.
If you or someone in your home is accidentally exposed to rat poison, call your local Poison Control center and follow the first aid instructions laid out on the product label.
2-6. Place some bait just outside the trap.
Food that’s sitting out in the open is easier to see. Leaving a few pieces where they’re easy to grab will also motivate the rats to wander into the trap in order to get more.
Cut your bait of choice into thin strips or small crumbs so that they can be eaten quickly. Cautious rats might attempt to drag bigger chunks back to their nests or nibble around the edges from a safe distance.
2-7. Use the same bait consistently.
Rodents are suspicious of objects they haven’t encountered before. Once they develop a taste for something, however, they’ll keep coming back for more. For this reason, it’s a good idea to stick with one or two items rather than continuously switching them up. In particular, consider baiting the traps with a food that you already know the rats are eating.
Don’t give up on a particular food or lure if it doesn't work immediately. It may take a few days for the rats to work up enough curiosity to sample it.
2-8. Seal up any entryways to keep the rats out.
To keep rats from getting back into your home, be sure all of your doors close flush to the ground, and install rodent-proof door sweeps if they don't. Seal up any sewer caps, and check any base or ground-floor windows for holes or gaps.Also, keep trash away from the exterior of your home.
3. Signs of Rats
3-1. Keep an eye out for tracks.
Survey the ground around your home and the places where you’ve left your bait for sets of tiny footprints. Scurrying rats leave behind four-toed tracks with their front feet, while the tracks from their back feet resemble miniature human hand prints with five digits.
It may help to cover infested areas with a light dusting of flour or salt. Not only will this make the tracks easier to see, but it also happens to be quite the tasty treat for a rat.
Be on the lookout for long, linear marks from “tail drag” as well.
3-2. Learn to identify droppings.
Rat pellets range in size from ⁄2–1 inch (1.3–2.5 cm) long and are most often a dark gray or black color. You’ll typically spot them where there’s food or nesting materials to scavenge. The more droppings you come across, the more serious a rat problem you have on your hands.
Dried rat feces can carry diseases that are transmitted through particles in the air, so be sure to safely dispose of droppings as soon as you discover them. Always wear rubber gloves and cover your nose and mouth with a facemask or respirator while cleaning up.
3-3. Inspect for damage around possible entry points.
Scratches, gouges, and small rounded holes are all signs that may point to a possible rodent infestation. Other potential clues include teeth marks and dark smudges that are created when rats rub up against a surface with their greasy coats.
Most of these marks will be concentrated around places where rats tend to find their way inside, like gutters, crawl spaces, eaves, and window casings.
Structural damage coupled with the presence of droppings or stray nesting materials is a sure sign that there are rats afoot.
3-4. Listen for scratching, scampering, and other sounds of movement.
Determined rats will claw, scrape, dig, and chew in order to gain access to a structure. The noises they make are soft and persistent, and may sound like they’re coming from behind a wall, beneath the floor, or inside the ceiling. If your hearing is especially sharp, you may even be able to detect an occasional squeak.
You’re likely to overhear the most disturbances at night, when rats set out to hunt for food.
Tips
Check dark spaces like attics, basements, and crawl spaces for rats by shining a flashlight from corner to corner and watching for twinkling eyes.
Oscillation noisemakers emit high-frequency sounds that may repel rodents and prevent them from nesting in your home in the first place.
Warnings
Keep in mind that leaving rotting food and garbage lying around can also pose potential health risks to humans.
Take the proper safety precautions anytime you’re handling rats. There’s a chance that you could contract a serious disease if you’re bitten or exposed to their droppings.
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Give outdoor rodents access to your garbage.\\nIf you have an overflowing trash can or dumpster outside, you may not need to do anything special to whip a community of hidden rats into a frenzy. The mixture of rotting food items in the average waste receptacle is like a buffet for a hungry rodent.\\nLet your trash sit out for an extra day or two before having it hauled off so it’s extra smelly.\\nYour garbage will become a rat magnet in the sweltering summer months, when the heat speeds decomposition.\\n1-4. Look for rats around leaf and compost piles.\\nRake the scattered leaves, twigs, and weeds from around your property into mounds and wait for the furry invaders to pour in. Rats often seek shelter in these places or make off with small pieces of debris to build their nests.\\nSituate leaf piles and compost heaps next to the tree line or close to dark or confined spaces. Rats are more likely to venture into these areas than those that are out in the open.\\n1-5. Employ a chemical rat attractant.\\nSqueeze a few drops of rat attractant around the area where you want to lure and trap rats. These products use natural compounds to mimic the scent of rat saliva. Any rats that happen to be passing by will pick up on the smell and think there’s something edible nearby.\\nYou can buy rat attractant from most pet stores, or in the pest control aisle of your local home improvement center.\\nA little bit of rat attractant goes a long way. Hints of the chemical will make nearby rodents curious, but too much may actually repel them.\\n2. Baiting Rat Traps\\n2-1. Buy a set of rat traps.\\nThere are many different varieties of traps available, from lethal rat-zappers and sticky traps to humane contraptions like spring-loaded cages. The type of trap you select will depend on the severity of the infestation and your attitude towards killing.\\nYou should find an extensive selection to look over at most hardware stores, home improvement centers, and gardening shops.\\nIf you’re not sure which type of trap would work best for a given space, ask a certified pest control specialist for a recommendation.\\n2-2. Pick up enough traps to keep unwanted rats from escaping.\\nAs a rule, you should plan on laying out more traps than you think you realistically need. The majority of traps are only designed to catch a single rodent at a time, which means you'll need quite a few to put a stop to a horde of rampant rats.\\nIf you're contending with a full-blown infestation, you may need as many as a dozen or more traps to get the job done\\n2-3. Situate the traps near possible entry points.\\nDon't concentrate all your traps in one area. Instead, place one or two around each individual opening where you suspect that rats might be getting in. This will minimize the chances of others sneaking by unscathed.\\nKeep the traps in plain sight to make it easy for the rats to find their way in.\\nDon't forget to make the other people inhabiting the space aware of the presence of the rat traps.\\n2-4. Choose the right bait.\\nNot all rats share the same diet. Brown rats, the species that most commonly turns up in and around homes, will eat everything from sliced hotdogs to leftover candy. By contrast, black rats are herbivores, and will only risk exposure for fruits, nuts, and grains. To spring a successful trap, you’ll need to know which sort you have hanging around.\\nA savory plant-based food like peanut butter will be your best bet when you’re not sure what type of rat you’re dealing with.\\nBrown rats are also known as Norway rats, gray rats, wharf rats, and sewer rats. Black rats are variously referred to as house rats, ship rats, and roof rats.\\n2-5. Bait your traps with food instead of poison.\\nAvoid baiting your traps with toxic chemicals unless absolutely necessary. The smallest trace of rat poison can be extremely dangerous to have around your home, especially if you have pets or small children. Even if it works, the chemicals will still be present in the dead rat, which will only become more of a hazard as it decomposes.\\nThough it requires more patience, eliminating rats one at a time using lethal or nonlethal traps is ultimately the safer and more effective way to go.\\nIf you or someone in your home is accidentally exposed to rat poison, call your local Poison Control center and follow the first aid instructions laid out on the product label.\\n2-6. Place some bait just outside the trap.\\nFood that’s sitting out in the open is easier to see. Leaving a few pieces where they’re easy to grab will also motivate the rats to wander into the trap in order to get more.\\nCut your bait of choice into thin strips or small crumbs so that they can be eaten quickly. Cautious rats might attempt to drag bigger chunks back to their nests or nibble around the edges from a safe distance.\\n2-7. Use the same bait consistently.\\nRodents are suspicious of objects they haven’t encountered before. Once they develop a taste for something, however, they’ll keep coming back for more. For this reason, it’s a good idea to stick with one or two items rather than continuously switching them up. In particular, consider baiting the traps with a food that you already know the rats are eating.\\nDon’t give up on a particular food or lure if it doesn't work immediately. It may take a few days for the rats to work up enough curiosity to sample it.\\n2-8. Seal up any entryways to keep the rats out.\\nTo keep rats from getting back into your home, be sure all of your doors close flush to the ground, and install rodent-proof door sweeps if they don't. Seal up any sewer caps, and check any base or ground-floor windows for holes or gaps.Also, keep trash away from the exterior of your home.\\n3. Signs of Rats\\n3-1. Keep an eye out for tracks.\\nSurvey the ground around your home and the places where you’ve left your bait for sets of tiny footprints. Scurrying rats leave behind four-toed tracks with their front feet, while the tracks from their back feet resemble miniature human hand prints with five digits.\\nIt may help to cover infested areas with a light dusting of flour or salt. Not only will this make the tracks easier to see, but it also happens to be quite the tasty treat for a rat.\\nBe on the lookout for long, linear marks from “tail drag” as well.\\n3-2. Learn to identify droppings.\\nRat pellets range in size from ⁄2–1 inch (1.3–2.5 cm) long and are most often a dark gray or black color. You’ll typically spot them where there’s food or nesting materials to scavenge. The more droppings you come across, the more serious a rat problem you have on your hands.\\nDried rat feces can carry diseases that are transmitted through particles in the air, so be sure to safely dispose of droppings as soon as you discover them. Always wear rubber gloves and cover your nose and mouth with a facemask or respirator while cleaning up.\\n3-3. Inspect for damage around possible entry points.\\nScratches, gouges, and small rounded holes are all signs that may point to a possible rodent infestation. Other potential clues include teeth marks and dark smudges that are created when rats rub up against a surface with their greasy coats.\\nMost of these marks will be concentrated around places where rats tend to find their way inside, like gutters, crawl spaces, eaves, and window casings.\\nStructural damage coupled with the presence of droppings or stray nesting materials is a sure sign that there are rats afoot.\\n3-4. Listen for scratching, scampering, and other sounds of movement.\\nDetermined rats will claw, scrape, dig, and chew in order to gain access to a structure. The noises they make are soft and persistent, and may sound like they’re coming from behind a wall, beneath the floor, or inside the ceiling. If your hearing is especially sharp, you may even be able to detect an occasional squeak.\\nYou’re likely to overhear the most disturbances at night, when rats set out to hunt for food.\\nTips\\nCheck dark spaces like attics, basements, and crawl spaces for rats by shining a flashlight from corner to corner and watching for twinkling eyes.\\nOscillation noisemakers emit high-frequency sounds that may repel rodents and prevent them from nesting in your home in the first place.\\nWarnings\\nKeep in mind that leaving rotting food and garbage lying around can also pose potential health risks to humans.\\nTake the proper safety precautions anytime you’re handling rats. There’s a chance that you could contract a serious disease if you’re bitten or exposed to their droppings.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"When attempting to rid your home of unwanted rodents, there's one thing you should keep in mind. Rats are scavengers. They’ll eat just about anything they can get their tiny hands on, whether that's a creamy slice of cheese or a stinky sack of garbage. Luckily, you can use this natural instinct to your advantage. In this article, we'll teach you how to attract and lure rats out of their hiding spots, and all you need is something smelly and a few traps.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Attracting Rats\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leave some food sitting out.\", \"描述\": \"Rats aren't picky eaters—you can use just about any type of edible item as rodent bait, including meats, cheeses, fish, moldy bread, and produce that’s past its prime. Sweet offerings like fruit are among their favorites, particularly berries.\\nRats prefer foods with strong odors, which they use to sniff out a meal. For this reason, spoiled items may be more effective for drawing them out than fresh ones.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Entice rats with grains and seeds.\", \"描述\": \"Set out an open sack of flour or bucket of rotting feed. Grains, nuts, and other plant-based nibbles provide rats with a lot of energy, which is why it’s no coincidence that they can often be found in places like pantries and storage sheds.\\nIt’s not uncommon to spot rats lurking near bird feeders or bags of grass seed.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give outdoor rodents access to your garbage.\", \"描述\": \"If you have an overflowing trash can or dumpster outside, you may not need to do anything special to whip a community of hidden rats into a frenzy. The mixture of rotting food items in the average waste receptacle is like a buffet for a hungry rodent.\\nLet your trash sit out for an extra day or two before having it hauled off so it’s extra smelly.\\nYour garbage will become a rat magnet in the sweltering summer months, when the heat speeds decomposition.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Look for rats around leaf and compost piles.\", \"描述\": \"Rake the scattered leaves, twigs, and weeds from around your property into mounds and wait for the furry invaders to pour in. Rats often seek shelter in these places or make off with small pieces of debris to build their nests.\\nSituate leaf piles and compost heaps next to the tree line or close to dark or confined spaces. Rats are more likely to venture into these areas than those that are out in the open.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Employ a chemical rat attractant.\", \"描述\": \"Squeeze a few drops of rat attractant around the area where you want to lure and trap rats. These products use natural compounds to mimic the scent of rat saliva. Any rats that happen to be passing by will pick up on the smell and think there’s something edible nearby.\\nYou can buy rat attractant from most pet stores, or in the pest control aisle of your local home improvement center.\\nA little bit of rat attractant goes a long way. Hints of the chemical will make nearby rodents curious, but too much may actually repel them.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Baiting Rat Traps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Buy a set of rat traps.\", \"描述\": \"There are many different varieties of traps available, from lethal rat-zappers and sticky traps to humane contraptions like spring-loaded cages. The type of trap you select will depend on the severity of the infestation and your attitude towards killing.\\nYou should find an extensive selection to look over at most hardware stores, home improvement centers, and gardening shops.\\nIf you’re not sure which type of trap would work best for a given space, ask a certified pest control specialist for a recommendation.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pick up enough traps to keep unwanted rats from escaping.\", \"描述\": \"As a rule, you should plan on laying out more traps than you think you realistically need. The majority of traps are only designed to catch a single rodent at a time, which means you'll need quite a few to put a stop to a horde of rampant rats.\\nIf you're contending with a full-blown infestation, you may need as many as a dozen or more traps to get the job done\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Situate the traps near possible entry points.\", \"描述\": \"Don't concentrate all your traps in one area. Instead, place one or two around each individual opening where you suspect that rats might be getting in. This will minimize the chances of others sneaking by unscathed.\\nKeep the traps in plain sight to make it easy for the rats to find their way in.\\nDon't forget to make the other people inhabiting the space aware of the presence of the rat traps.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Choose the right bait.\", \"描述\": \"Not all rats share the same diet. Brown rats, the species that most commonly turns up in and around homes, will eat everything from sliced hotdogs to leftover candy. By contrast, black rats are herbivores, and will only risk exposure for fruits, nuts, and grains. To spring a successful trap, you’ll need to know which sort you have hanging around.\\nA savory plant-based food like peanut butter will be your best bet when you’re not sure what type of rat you’re dealing with.\\nBrown rats are also known as Norway rats, gray rats, wharf rats, and sewer rats. Black rats are variously referred to as house rats, ship rats, and roof rats.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Bait your traps with food instead of poison.\", \"描述\": \"Avoid baiting your traps with toxic chemicals unless absolutely necessary. The smallest trace of rat poison can be extremely dangerous to have around your home, especially if you have pets or small children. Even if it works, the chemicals will still be present in the dead rat, which will only become more of a hazard as it decomposes.\\nThough it requires more patience, eliminating rats one at a time using lethal or nonlethal traps is ultimately the safer and more effective way to go.\\nIf you or someone in your home is accidentally exposed to rat poison, call your local Poison Control center and follow the first aid instructions laid out on the product label.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Place some bait just outside the trap.\", \"描述\": \"Food that’s sitting out in the open is easier to see. Leaving a few pieces where they’re easy to grab will also motivate the rats to wander into the trap in order to get more.\\nCut your bait of choice into thin strips or small crumbs so that they can be eaten quickly. Cautious rats might attempt to drag bigger chunks back to their nests or nibble around the edges from a safe distance.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Use the same bait consistently.\", \"描述\": \"Rodents are suspicious of objects they haven’t encountered before. Once they develop a taste for something, however, they’ll keep coming back for more. For this reason, it’s a good idea to stick with one or two items rather than continuously switching them up. In particular, consider baiting the traps with a food that you already know the rats are eating.\\nDon’t give up on a particular food or lure if it doesn't work immediately. 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2,742 | How to Attract Scorpio Guys | 1. Understanding Scorpios
1-1. Learn to recognize the personality traits of the Scorpio.
Scorpios tend to be very powerful individuals who exhibit the drive and energy of Mars, as well as the dark energy of Pluto. Scorpio men tend to have a quiet and brooding intensity. You won't usually find them playing the role of class clown. In general, Scorpios will exhibit the following qualities:
Loyalty
Resourcefulness
Intensity
Passion
Jealousy
Seriousness
1-2. Decide what you want from your relationship.
Do you want a casual relationship with few attachments? Or a closer, long-term relationship that's a little more serious? Scorpios can be very intense and sexual in the short term, and can develop that passion into a deep and lasting bond, but learning to negotiate these differences is essential to the success of the relationship.
Scorpios can be great for a fling, making them ideal short-term partners. They sometimes struggle with long-term commitment, however. No matter what you want, go into it looking to make a connection, not with preconceived notions of what a relationship should be like.
Sometimes, people who talk about finding a Scorpio mate are looking for a sense of danger or drama. Looking for a "bad boy." Instead, focus on getting to know this guy and seeing where it leads.
1-3. Evaluate your own astrological chart.
Dating a Scorpio is a good choice if you are have a predominance of the water signs like Cancer or Pisces in your chart. This allows you to empathize with his moods, emotional undercurrents. and unspoken thoughts.
If you possess fire signs (Leo, Aries or Sagittarius), you may clash constantly with him and resent all the darkness and gloom Scorpios are famous for exhibiting.
In general, someone with lots of air signs like Libra, Aquarius, Gemini would not work with someone who has a Scorpio Sun, because your spontaneity may make him miserable.
If you are an Earthy person, you may enjoy having a Scorpio mate. But your love of material things and pragmatism could clash with his idealistic, dreamy and philosophical side. Sometimes the combination works, and sometimes it doesn't.
2. Talking to a Scorpio
2-1. Act naturally and prove your trustworthiness.
Scorpios can tell right off if you're being fake. They are the best lie detectors, and value sincerity and trustworthiness in prospective partners. You can know that they will never share a secret you trust them with, and for your own good, you'd best not be spreading any of theirs.
Never lie to a scorpio. Breaking trust can be one of the quickest ways of turning a Scorpio guy off and losing him. Even if you think the truth will hurt, it'll be better to be completely honest.
2-2. Show that you have some substance.
Talk with him about subjects which excite your passion. Many Scorpios secretly feel that the rest of the world lives on the surface of life while they go spelunking into the depths. Show him that you have investigated a few deep caves of meaning as well. Cut right for the heart of an issue and talk about big topics. Scorpios can spot insincerity a mile away, and will turn the other way when they see it coming.
It will help if you are as intrigued by some of Scorpio's favorite subjects like science, political power and the occult.
Stay up on current events and world issues. Voice your opinion about what's going on and ask him what he thinks as well. Don't shy away from a good debate. Challenge him on things you disagree about and stand up for yourself.
2-3. Share some intense emotional secrets with a Scorpio.
Scorpios are driven by the desire to lose themselves fully in The Other, to achieve an almost mystical state of Kundalini with another person that makes them feel regenerated, renewed, and reborn. Scorpios want to get to know you on an intimate level, but may shy away from making the first move.
Be forthright and answer questions he asks as sincerely as possible. If a Scorpio asks a question, he's not just asking to be polite. Scorpios truly want to know and understand you and figure out why you are the way you are. Clue him into what makes you tick.
A Scorpio will appreciate learning more about you, for Scorpios are cursed with craving intense emotional honesty. They often feel that nobody will ever truly understand them, but struggle to express themselves without some encouragement.
2-4. Spend time contemplating the same things together.
Scorpios are serious and will appreciate your desire to have serious conversations, or to spend time reflecting together. Scorpios don't need constant entertainment or constant chatter in their lives, but do require a lot of time spend in reflection. When you're with him, it's ok to share silence comfortably. Don't look for easy solutions or easy entertainments.
Talk about recent books that you've both read, or difficult films that you've seen. Don't brush things off by saying, "I didn't like it." Instead, think about it. Discuss it. Wrestle with things together.
Don't fill time by rambling. When you talk, it should be in terms of substance, sharing your hopes, fears, and dreams. No Twitter updates.
2-5. Give him your undivided attention.
When you're with a Scorpio, focus your attention on being together, and doing what you're doing. Shut off and put away your cell phone when you're hanging out and talking, so this guy won't feel and if he's being ignored.
Make eye contact while you're talking. Practice active listening skills, summarizing the things that he says and responding to them in turn.
2-6. Don't pry into his life, but listen to what he reveals.
A Scorpio prides himself on being mysterious and layered, and it might take a while to get to know him. But he'll appreciate the chance to share with you, if you play your cards right. Listen when he talks and look for opportunities to get him to open up even more.
If a Scorpio says something, take it to the bank. It will mean a lot to him later if you remember little details, like the name of his best friend from school, or the name of his favorite pet from childhood. These little details show you care.
Don't tease Scorpios. If you want to leave your conversation with humor, keep it a bit dark and sarcastic. A Scorpio man is not attracted by goofiness or silliness since it tends to deflate the intensity of a conversation.
3. Dating a Scorpio
3-1. Treat each date as an opportunity for adventure.
If you date a Scorpio, aim to keep things exciting. Try to stay have new adventures together, giving him the the motivation he needs to be endlessly fascinated by you.
Change the language you use to talk about your dates. Don't make vague plans like seeing "a movie" or "going out," and instead say that you want to "Catch a screening of a great new documentary" or you want to "Explore a few new places down by the waterfront." Make date ideas specific and engaging.
Be willing to change plans at the last minute, if something doesn't work out, or if he's not into a particular idea. Learn to fly by the seat of your pants when you're dating a Scorpio.
Try to plan things that are exciting for you. A Scorpio is interested in passion, and even if he's not as passionate as you are about a particular activity, he'll be turned on by your zest for it.
3-2. Go on dates that make you physically intimate.
Want to get closer to a Scorpio? Get your blood pumping and your bodies moving. Getting outside and doing something physical together can be a fast track to other kinds of intimacy, physical and emotional.
Couples massage
Yoga
Outdoor sports, like basketball, tennis, or golf
Swimming
Dancing
3-3. Go on dates that make you emotionally intimate.
Scorpios crave that connection, getting to know someone on a deeper level. Plan dates that will allow you to connect in a real way and build something together.
Spend private time away together. Go on long walks that allow you lots of time to talk, but also plenty of time to just be. Spend time together sharing silence and enjoying each others' presence.
Plan dates that will allow you to talk at length. A candlelight dinner will always be better than a movie, which you'll have to stay quiet for.
Attend intellectual events, like readings, lectures or debates. Discuss them afterward.
3-4. Be wary of the Scorpio's sting.
Scorpios are known for their sardonic and sometimes cutting sense of humor. It takes some thick skin to hang with a Scorpio sometimes, and you'll need to develop it. Try to remind yourself that when a Scorpio lashes out, it's a defensive mechanism that has more to do with him than it does with you.
Don't put up with jealousy or possessiveness, which are common stereotypes of the Scorpio. If your guy is domineering and controlling over your life, it may be more appropriate to end it.
3-5. Let yourself be passionate when the time is right.
You won't usually need to initiate intimacy with a Scorpio, who is passionate and fiery. If you feel passionate feelings stirred, don't hold back. Allow yourself to share, and you can spark that innate loyalty that Scorpios exhibit towards their nearest and dearest. For some, it can be the deepest kind of love.
Tips
Pay attention to the details. How they take their coffee, where in the neighbourhood they frequent, which album is most-played in their iTunes, which animals they get most excited about seeing on the street. A Scorpio loves to feel appreciated and understood.
Most Scorpios have a need to be alone from time to time, and on these occasions it is best not to disturb them if you can help it. In many cases a Scorpio's alone time has a positive effect on their psyche, allowing them to emerge rested and ready to face life's next set of challenges.
Warnings
Scorpio is the most jealous birth sign of the zodiac. They can also be violent, unforgiving, and even walk out on you permanently if they believe you don't really love them. Once you break a Scorpio's trust, you can consider yourself forgiven but forgotten.[8]
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Angel EyedealismAstrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 8 December 2021.
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They sometimes struggle with long-term commitment, however. No matter what you want, go into it looking to make a connection, not with preconceived notions of what a relationship should be like.\\nSometimes, people who talk about finding a Scorpio mate are looking for a sense of danger or drama. Looking for a \\\"bad boy.\\\" Instead, focus on getting to know this guy and seeing where it leads.\\n1-3. Evaluate your own astrological chart.\\nDating a Scorpio is a good choice if you are have a predominance of the water signs like Cancer or Pisces in your chart. This allows you to empathize with his moods, emotional undercurrents. and unspoken thoughts.\\nIf you possess fire signs (Leo, Aries or Sagittarius), you may clash constantly with him and resent all the darkness and gloom Scorpios are famous for exhibiting.\\nIn general, someone with lots of air signs like Libra, Aquarius, Gemini would not work with someone who has a Scorpio Sun, because your spontaneity may make him miserable.\\nIf you are an Earthy person, you may enjoy having a Scorpio mate. But your love of material things and pragmatism could clash with his idealistic, dreamy and philosophical side. Sometimes the combination works, and sometimes it doesn't.\\n2. Talking to a Scorpio\\n2-1. Act naturally and prove your trustworthiness.\\nScorpios can tell right off if you're being fake. They are the best lie detectors, and value sincerity and trustworthiness in prospective partners. You can know that they will never share a secret you trust them with, and for your own good, you'd best not be spreading any of theirs.\\nNever lie to a scorpio. Breaking trust can be one of the quickest ways of turning a Scorpio guy off and losing him. Even if you think the truth will hurt, it'll be better to be completely honest.\\n2-2. Show that you have some substance.\\nTalk with him about subjects which excite your passion. Many Scorpios secretly feel that the rest of the world lives on the surface of life while they go spelunking into the depths. Show him that you have investigated a few deep caves of meaning as well. Cut right for the heart of an issue and talk about big topics. Scorpios can spot insincerity a mile away, and will turn the other way when they see it coming.\\nIt will help if you are as intrigued by some of Scorpio's favorite subjects like science, political power and the occult.\\nStay up on current events and world issues. Voice your opinion about what's going on and ask him what he thinks as well. Don't shy away from a good debate. Challenge him on things you disagree about and stand up for yourself.\\n2-3. Share some intense emotional secrets with a Scorpio.\\nScorpios are driven by the desire to lose themselves fully in The Other, to achieve an almost mystical state of Kundalini with another person that makes them feel regenerated, renewed, and reborn. Scorpios want to get to know you on an intimate level, but may shy away from making the first move.\\nBe forthright and answer questions he asks as sincerely as possible. If a Scorpio asks a question, he's not just asking to be polite. Scorpios truly want to know and understand you and figure out why you are the way you are. Clue him into what makes you tick.\\nA Scorpio will appreciate learning more about you, for Scorpios are cursed with craving intense emotional honesty. They often feel that nobody will ever truly understand them, but struggle to express themselves without some encouragement.\\n2-4. Spend time contemplating the same things together.\\nScorpios are serious and will appreciate your desire to have serious conversations, or to spend time reflecting together. Scorpios don't need constant entertainment or constant chatter in their lives, but do require a lot of time spend in reflection. When you're with him, it's ok to share silence comfortably. Don't look for easy solutions or easy entertainments.\\nTalk about recent books that you've both read, or difficult films that you've seen. Don't brush things off by saying, \\\"I didn't like it.\\\" Instead, think about it. Discuss it. Wrestle with things together.\\nDon't fill time by rambling. When you talk, it should be in terms of substance, sharing your hopes, fears, and dreams. No Twitter updates.\\n2-5. Give him your undivided attention.\\nWhen you're with a Scorpio, focus your attention on being together, and doing what you're doing. Shut off and put away your cell phone when you're hanging out and talking, so this guy won't feel and if he's being ignored.\\nMake eye contact while you're talking. Practice active listening skills, summarizing the things that he says and responding to them in turn.\\n2-6. Don't pry into his life, but listen to what he reveals.\\nA Scorpio prides himself on being mysterious and layered, and it might take a while to get to know him. But he'll appreciate the chance to share with you, if you play your cards right. Listen when he talks and look for opportunities to get him to open up even more.\\nIf a Scorpio says something, take it to the bank. It will mean a lot to him later if you remember little details, like the name of his best friend from school, or the name of his favorite pet from childhood. These little details show you care.\\nDon't tease Scorpios. If you want to leave your conversation with humor, keep it a bit dark and sarcastic. A Scorpio man is not attracted by goofiness or silliness since it tends to deflate the intensity of a conversation.\\n3. Dating a Scorpio\\n3-1. Treat each date as an opportunity for adventure.\\nIf you date a Scorpio, aim to keep things exciting. Try to stay have new adventures together, giving him the the motivation he needs to be endlessly fascinated by you.\\nChange the language you use to talk about your dates. Don't make vague plans like seeing \\\"a movie\\\" or \\\"going out,\\\" and instead say that you want to \\\"Catch a screening of a great new documentary\\\" or you want to \\\"Explore a few new places down by the waterfront.\\\" Make date ideas specific and engaging.\\nBe willing to change plans at the last minute, if something doesn't work out, or if he's not into a particular idea. Learn to fly by the seat of your pants when you're dating a Scorpio.\\nTry to plan things that are exciting for you. A Scorpio is interested in passion, and even if he's not as passionate as you are about a particular activity, he'll be turned on by your zest for it.\\n3-2. Go on dates that make you physically intimate.\\nWant to get closer to a Scorpio? Get your blood pumping and your bodies moving. Getting outside and doing something physical together can be a fast track to other kinds of intimacy, physical and emotional.\\nCouples massage\\nYoga\\nOutdoor sports, like basketball, tennis, or golf\\nSwimming\\nDancing\\n3-3. Go on dates that make you emotionally intimate.\\nScorpios crave that connection, getting to know someone on a deeper level. Plan dates that will allow you to connect in a real way and build something together.\\nSpend private time away together. Go on long walks that allow you lots of time to talk, but also plenty of time to just be. Spend time together sharing silence and enjoying each others' presence.\\nPlan dates that will allow you to talk at length. A candlelight dinner will always be better than a movie, which you'll have to stay quiet for.\\nAttend intellectual events, like readings, lectures or debates. Discuss them afterward.\\n3-4. Be wary of the Scorpio's sting.\\nScorpios are known for their sardonic and sometimes cutting sense of humor. It takes some thick skin to hang with a Scorpio sometimes, and you'll need to develop it. Try to remind yourself that when a Scorpio lashes out, it's a defensive mechanism that has more to do with him than it does with you.\\nDon't put up with jealousy or possessiveness, which are common stereotypes of the Scorpio. If your guy is domineering and controlling over your life, it may be more appropriate to end it.\\n3-5. Let yourself be passionate when the time is right.\\nYou won't usually need to initiate intimacy with a Scorpio, who is passionate and fiery. If you feel passionate feelings stirred, don't hold back. Allow yourself to share, and you can spark that innate loyalty that Scorpios exhibit towards their nearest and dearest. For some, it can be the deepest kind of love.\\nTips\\nPay attention to the details. How they take their coffee, where in the neighbourhood they frequent, which album is most-played in their iTunes, which animals they get most excited about seeing on the street. A Scorpio loves to feel appreciated and understood.\\nMost Scorpios have a need to be alone from time to time, and on these occasions it is best not to disturb them if you can help it. In many cases a Scorpio's alone time has a positive effect on their psyche, allowing them to emerge rested and ready to face life's next set of challenges.\\nWarnings\\nScorpio is the most jealous birth sign of the zodiac. They can also be violent, unforgiving, and even walk out on you permanently if they believe you don't really love them. Once you break a Scorpio's trust, you can consider yourself forgiven but forgotten.[8]\\nX\\nExpert Source\\n\\nAngel EyedealismAstrologer & Performance Artist\\nExpert Interview. 8 December 2021.\\n\\n They will never let you back in.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Scorpios are some of the most private people. Even if you think you know them, they still have layers of mystery about them. But once you start peeling back those layers, Scorpios can have an emotional depth that is hard to match. If you want to learn more about how to get closer to these elusive men, you can learn more about what it takes to understand, talk to, and date the Scorpio. This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understanding Scorpios\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn to recognize the personality traits of the Scorpio.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpios tend to be very powerful individuals who exhibit the drive and energy of Mars, as well as the dark energy of Pluto. Scorpio men tend to have a quiet and brooding intensity. You won't usually find them playing the role of class clown. In general, Scorpios will exhibit the following qualities:\\nLoyalty\\nResourcefulness\\nIntensity\\nPassion\\nJealousy\\nSeriousness\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Decide what you want from your relationship.\", \"描述\": \"Do you want a casual relationship with few attachments? Or a closer, long-term relationship that's a little more serious? Scorpios can be very intense and sexual in the short term, and can develop that passion into a deep and lasting bond, but learning to negotiate these differences is essential to the success of the relationship.\\nScorpios can be great for a fling, making them ideal short-term partners. They sometimes struggle with long-term commitment, however. No matter what you want, go into it looking to make a connection, not with preconceived notions of what a relationship should be like.\\nSometimes, people who talk about finding a Scorpio mate are looking for a sense of danger or drama. Looking for a \\\"bad boy.\\\" Instead, focus on getting to know this guy and seeing where it leads.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Evaluate your own astrological chart.\", \"描述\": \"Dating a Scorpio is a good choice if you are have a predominance of the water signs like Cancer or Pisces in your chart. This allows you to empathize with his moods, emotional undercurrents. and unspoken thoughts.\\nIf you possess fire signs (Leo, Aries or Sagittarius), you may clash constantly with him and resent all the darkness and gloom Scorpios are famous for exhibiting.\\nIn general, someone with lots of air signs like Libra, Aquarius, Gemini would not work with someone who has a Scorpio Sun, because your spontaneity may make him miserable.\\nIf you are an Earthy person, you may enjoy having a Scorpio mate. But your love of material things and pragmatism could clash with his idealistic, dreamy and philosophical side. Sometimes the combination works, and sometimes it doesn't.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Talking to a Scorpio\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Act naturally and prove your trustworthiness.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpios can tell right off if you're being fake. They are the best lie detectors, and value sincerity and trustworthiness in prospective partners. You can know that they will never share a secret you trust them with, and for your own good, you'd best not be spreading any of theirs.\\nNever lie to a scorpio. Breaking trust can be one of the quickest ways of turning a Scorpio guy off and losing him. Even if you think the truth will hurt, it'll be better to be completely honest.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Show that you have some substance.\", \"描述\": \"Talk with him about subjects which excite your passion. Many Scorpios secretly feel that the rest of the world lives on the surface of life while they go spelunking into the depths. Show him that you have investigated a few deep caves of meaning as well. Cut right for the heart of an issue and talk about big topics. Scorpios can spot insincerity a mile away, and will turn the other way when they see it coming.\\nIt will help if you are as intrigued by some of Scorpio's favorite subjects like science, political power and the occult.\\nStay up on current events and world issues. Voice your opinion about what's going on and ask him what he thinks as well. Don't shy away from a good debate. Challenge him on things you disagree about and stand up for yourself.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Share some intense emotional secrets with a Scorpio.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpios are driven by the desire to lose themselves fully in The Other, to achieve an almost mystical state of Kundalini with another person that makes them feel regenerated, renewed, and reborn. Scorpios want to get to know you on an intimate level, but may shy away from making the first move.\\nBe forthright and answer questions he asks as sincerely as possible. If a Scorpio asks a question, he's not just asking to be polite. Scorpios truly want to know and understand you and figure out why you are the way you are. Clue him into what makes you tick.\\nA Scorpio will appreciate learning more about you, for Scorpios are cursed with craving intense emotional honesty. They often feel that nobody will ever truly understand them, but struggle to express themselves without some encouragement.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Spend time contemplating the same things together.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpios are serious and will appreciate your desire to have serious conversations, or to spend time reflecting together. Scorpios don't need constant entertainment or constant chatter in their lives, but do require a lot of time spend in reflection. When you're with him, it's ok to share silence comfortably. Don't look for easy solutions or easy entertainments.\\nTalk about recent books that you've both read, or difficult films that you've seen. Don't brush things off by saying, \\\"I didn't like it.\\\" Instead, think about it. Discuss it. Wrestle with things together.\\nDon't fill time by rambling. When you talk, it should be in terms of substance, sharing your hopes, fears, and dreams. No Twitter updates.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give him your undivided attention.\", \"描述\": \"When you're with a Scorpio, focus your attention on being together, and doing what you're doing. Shut off and put away your cell phone when you're hanging out and talking, so this guy won't feel and if he's being ignored.\\nMake eye contact while you're talking. Practice active listening skills, summarizing the things that he says and responding to them in turn.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Don't pry into his life, but listen to what he reveals.\", \"描述\": \"A Scorpio prides himself on being mysterious and layered, and it might take a while to get to know him. But he'll appreciate the chance to share with you, if you play your cards right. Listen when he talks and look for opportunities to get him to open up even more.\\nIf a Scorpio says something, take it to the bank. It will mean a lot to him later if you remember little details, like the name of his best friend from school, or the name of his favorite pet from childhood. These little details show you care.\\nDon't tease Scorpios. If you want to leave your conversation with humor, keep it a bit dark and sarcastic. A Scorpio man is not attracted by goofiness or silliness since it tends to deflate the intensity of a conversation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Dating a Scorpio\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Treat each date as an opportunity for adventure.\", \"描述\": \"If you date a Scorpio, aim to keep things exciting. Try to stay have new adventures together, giving him the the motivation he needs to be endlessly fascinated by you.\\nChange the language you use to talk about your dates. Don't make vague plans like seeing \\\"a movie\\\" or \\\"going out,\\\" and instead say that you want to \\\"Catch a screening of a great new documentary\\\" or you want to \\\"Explore a few new places down by the waterfront.\\\" Make date ideas specific and engaging.\\nBe willing to change plans at the last minute, if something doesn't work out, or if he's not into a particular idea. Learn to fly by the seat of your pants when you're dating a Scorpio.\\nTry to plan things that are exciting for you. A Scorpio is interested in passion, and even if he's not as passionate as you are about a particular activity, he'll be turned on by your zest for it.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Go on dates that make you physically intimate.\", \"描述\": \"Want to get closer to a Scorpio? Get your blood pumping and your bodies moving. Getting outside and doing something physical together can be a fast track to other kinds of intimacy, physical and emotional.\\nCouples massage\\nYoga\\nOutdoor sports, like basketball, tennis, or golf\\nSwimming\\nDancing\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Go on dates that make you emotionally intimate.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpios crave that connection, getting to know someone on a deeper level. Plan dates that will allow you to connect in a real way and build something together.\\nSpend private time away together. Go on long walks that allow you lots of time to talk, but also plenty of time to just be. Spend time together sharing silence and enjoying each others' presence.\\nPlan dates that will allow you to talk at length. A candlelight dinner will always be better than a movie, which you'll have to stay quiet for.\\nAttend intellectual events, like readings, lectures or debates. 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2,743 | How to Attract Teenage Girls as a Teen Boy | 1. Building Confidence
1-1. Focus on your talents.
Pay attention to your natural abilities. Think about areas where you excel. Commit yourself to discovering and cultivating your unique talents.
For example, you may be good at a certain sport, school subject, art or instrument.
Talent and success are both attractive qualities. Getting more involved with something you're good at can help you get noticed and acknowledged by others.
1-2. Practice good hygiene.
Shower every day. Choose a mild soap and make sure to wash all areas of your body, including under your fingernails. Keep your nails well-trimmed. Use deodorant or antiperspirant. Avoid bad breath by practicing good oral health. Make sure to wear clean clothing, including socks.
Opt for cotton clothing if you have a tendency to sweat a lot.
You may want to wash your face up to twice per day. Shave as needed.
If you show up to classes well-groomed, you'll probably feel better about yourself and attract more girls.
1-3. Dress confidently.
Aim to dress maturely instead of boyishly. Wear classic pieces instead of splurging on what's trendy. Dress appropriately for your climate. Wear what makes you feel good about yourself.
For example, don't buy oversized jeans just because they may be currently in fashion. You'll feel more confident in well-fitted pants than if you're constantly having to pull up your sagging jeans.
Consider wearing a polo shirt instead of a t-shirt.
Choose clothing that reflects the colors and necessary warmth of the season.
1-4. Speak confidently.
Don't mumble. Talk loudly enough to be heard. Don't be afraid to give your opinion, but think about the impact of what you're going to say first.
For example, don't compare a girl to someone you were in a previous relationship with.
Talking just for the sake of talking shows nervousness. Try asking yourself before you speak, “Is this the truth? Is it nice to say? Is it important to say?”
1-5. Use confident body language.
Smile, which shows that you're positive and approachable! Keep your posture straight. Avoid fidgeting, which can make you appear nervous.
Positive body language helps others relate to you and respect you.
If you're having trouble with slouching, practice keeping your back straight against a wall or a chair.
2. Interacting with Girls
2-1. Be a good listener.
Nod, make eye contact, and stay focused on what a girl is talking to you about. Try to understand her emotions and point of view. Imagine how she feels as she speaks, and react accordingly.
Everyone wants to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are. If you show a girl that you are genuinely interested in what she loves and want to learn more about it, she will truly feel like you care about her.
In future interactions with the girl, incorporate the information she shared in your conversations. This will help show you were paying attention when she spoke about it.
Teen boys who empathize with their female peers are more likely to have girlfriends.
For example, if she's upset, hear her out. Then try saying, “I'm sorry that happened to you.”
2-2. Make friends with girls.
Think of ways you can connect with each other. Make conversation about school or hobbies. Try asking her questions about herself, which will show you're interested in what she thinks.
Teen relationships often start with friendship.
If you've spoken to her before, try asking if you can add her as a friend on a social networking site.
If you've never spoken to her before, try asking her about a class, mutual friend, or after-school activity.
Try asking, “What type of music do you like?”
Try to create an authentic relationship where you both share and own your imperfections and mistakes.
2-3. Give girls compliments.
Notice something about a girl that you can give her a positive comment on. Don't make something up; put thought into noticing something she's put effort into. Then offer a sincere, heartfelt compliment.
Try saying, “Your hair looks great today.”
If you've witnessed her playing a sport or creating art in a class, you can compliment her on that.
Practice vulnerable intimacy when possible and say why you like the girl on a deeper level.
2-4. Practice good manners.
Make kind gestures whenever possible. Open doors for people. Offer your help when it may be appreciated, whether it's with carrying something or studying.
For example, offer to help a girl with putting her coat on.
If you see a girl carrying something bulky, try saying, “I can carry that for you.”
If you see a girl struggling with a school subject you understand, help explain it to them or offer to study together.
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Shave as needed.\\nIf you show up to classes well-groomed, you'll probably feel better about yourself and attract more girls.\\n1-3. Dress confidently.\\nAim to dress maturely instead of boyishly. Wear classic pieces instead of splurging on what's trendy. Dress appropriately for your climate. Wear what makes you feel good about yourself.\\nFor example, don't buy oversized jeans just because they may be currently in fashion. You'll feel more confident in well-fitted pants than if you're constantly having to pull up your sagging jeans.\\nConsider wearing a polo shirt instead of a t-shirt.\\nChoose clothing that reflects the colors and necessary warmth of the season.\\n1-4. Speak confidently.\\nDon't mumble. Talk loudly enough to be heard. Don't be afraid to give your opinion, but think about the impact of what you're going to say first.\\nFor example, don't compare a girl to someone you were in a previous relationship with.\\nTalking just for the sake of talking shows nervousness. Try asking yourself before you speak, “Is this the truth? Is it nice to say? Is it important to say?”\\n1-5. Use confident body language.\\nSmile, which shows that you're positive and approachable! Keep your posture straight. Avoid fidgeting, which can make you appear nervous.\\nPositive body language helps others relate to you and respect you.\\nIf you're having trouble with slouching, practice keeping your back straight against a wall or a chair.\\n2. Interacting with Girls\\n2-1. Be a good listener.\\nNod, make eye contact, and stay focused on what a girl is talking to you about. Try to understand her emotions and point of view. Imagine how she feels as she speaks, and react accordingly.\\nEveryone wants to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are. If you show a girl that you are genuinely interested in what she loves and want to learn more about it, she will truly feel like you care about her.\\nIn future interactions with the girl, incorporate the information she shared in your conversations. This will help show you were paying attention when she spoke about it.\\nTeen boys who empathize with their female peers are more likely to have girlfriends.\\nFor example, if she's upset, hear her out. Then try saying, “I'm sorry that happened to you.”\\n2-2. Make friends with girls.\\nThink of ways you can connect with each other. Make conversation about school or hobbies. Try asking her questions about herself, which will show you're interested in what she thinks.\\nTeen relationships often start with friendship.\\nIf you've spoken to her before, try asking if you can add her as a friend on a social networking site.\\nIf you've never spoken to her before, try asking her about a class, mutual friend, or after-school activity.\\nTry asking, “What type of music do you like?”\\nTry to create an authentic relationship where you both share and own your imperfections and mistakes.\\n2-3. Give girls compliments.\\nNotice something about a girl that you can give her a positive comment on. Don't make something up; put thought into noticing something she's put effort into. Then offer a sincere, heartfelt compliment.\\nTry saying, “Your hair looks great today.”\\nIf you've witnessed her playing a sport or creating art in a class, you can compliment her on that.\\nPractice vulnerable intimacy when possible and say why you like the girl on a deeper level.\\n2-4. Practice good manners.\\nMake kind gestures whenever possible. Open doors for people. Offer your help when it may be appreciated, whether it's with carrying something or studying.\\nFor example, offer to help a girl with putting her coat on.\\nIf you see a girl carrying something bulky, try saying, “I can carry that for you.”\\nIf you see a girl struggling with a school subject you understand, help explain it to them or offer to study together.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Girls tend to appreciate guys who are empathetic. Being a good friend, listener and gentleman are ways to be attractive without coming across as pushy or obnoxious. Work on yourself and how you socialize. This will equip you not just for attracting girls, but also for having positive future relationships!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Building Confidence\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Focus on your talents.\", \"描述\": \"Pay attention to your natural abilities. Think about areas where you excel. Commit yourself to discovering and cultivating your unique talents.\\nFor example, you may be good at a certain sport, school subject, art or instrument.\\nTalent and success are both attractive qualities. Getting more involved with something you're good at can help you get noticed and acknowledged by others.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Practice good hygiene.\", \"描述\": \"Shower every day. Choose a mild soap and make sure to wash all areas of your body, including under your fingernails. Keep your nails well-trimmed. Use deodorant or antiperspirant. Avoid bad breath by practicing good oral health. Make sure to wear clean clothing, including socks.\\nOpt for cotton clothing if you have a tendency to sweat a lot.\\nYou may want to wash your face up to twice per day. Shave as needed.\\nIf you show up to classes well-groomed, you'll probably feel better about yourself and attract more girls.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Dress confidently.\", \"描述\": \"Aim to dress maturely instead of boyishly. 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2,744 | How to Attract Tree Swallows | 1. Doing Research
1-1. Make sure Tree swallows populate where you live.
Tree swallows breed in most of the upper half of the United States into much of Canada. In the winter they migrate down into the lower states into Mexico. There are many maps online that tell the range of swallows. It's no use trying to attract them when you don't even know if they're there!
Make sure you use reputable maps and resources for your research.
1-2. Observe the kind of area you live in.
Since Tree swallows spend most of their time flying and catching bugs, they need an open space to live in. Too many trees can make it hard for Tree swallows to swoop low and cover a lot of area. Grassy, open land is perfect for these birds. Tree swallows will also live in marshlands and places with open freshwater.
1-3. Make sure no pesticides or insecticides are being used in your area.
These chemicals will not only hurt birds, but they will also kill the bug population which swallows feed on. If your city takes regular anti-mosquito measures, such as spraying down lakes, Tree swallows will most likely not nest near you.
2. Changing Your Landscape
2-1. Provide water sources.
All birds need water, especially swallows. These birds are known to skim over the water and dip their bills in for a drink instead of perching for a sip. If you don't have a body of water nearby, you may want to provide it yourself. Put up a birdbath or, if you are really committed, make a small pond.
Get a birdbath with a dripper so that the birds can hear the water.
Also consider getting a birdbath mister. Swallows sometimes will pass through the mist to cool down and get a drink. Alternatively, you could simply run a sprinkler in your yard.
2-2. See if you need to cut down some trees.
Because Tree swallows like open land, you may want to open up your property by cutting down large trees. A few trees here and there won't be an issue.
If you live in a forest, you probably won't be able to get Tree swallows.
2-3. Provide perching spots.
If your land has no trees or shrubs, you may want to give Tree swallows some spots to perch on. Providing these areas will give the swallows a chance to rest and clean themselves.
Simple things like clotheslines and antennas work great as perching spots. You can also build your own if you want to go more natural.
2-4. Put out food.
Although live insect bird food is hard to find, it may be worth it to provide some. Try buying some mealworms and putting them on a dish outside. You may be surprised at how much Tree swallows and other birds like them!
Getting swallows to come to these bird feeders may take a lot of patience and time. You certainly don't need to put out food to attract these wonderful birds. It is very easy to attract them without it.
3. Helping Swallows Nest
3-1. Put up nesting houses.
Putting up houses is a great way to attract Tree swallows. Doing this will give them places to rest and build a family. Here are a few rules that should be followed when putting them up.
Put a nesting box on a pole at least five feet off the ground. This will discourage squirrels from hurting the swallows.
Make sure to put the birdhouse in open land at least 50 yards away from houses and bodies of water. Also try to put up the houses away from trees, as this will reduce the risk of invasive bird attacks.
3-2. Provide nesting material.
If you don't have loose grass or other material available for Tree swallows to make nests with, you may want to provide it. Leaving small twigs out in your yard and scattering dryer lint will give the swallows plenty of ingredients to make a good nest for their young.
3-3. Monitor the nests.
Tree swallows have many invasive opponents when it comes to nesting spots. If you live in the United States, invasive birds like House sparrows and European starlings have been known to attack swallow nests. Monitor the nesting boxes to make sure the swallows are doing okay and are not being preyed on by other birds.
If you do see an invasive bird around the Tree swallow nests, you may want to consider trapping or even killing them. These birds can do a lot of damage to swallow populations.
Some mammals such as squirrels can also attack Tree swallow nests.
Tips
Consider cleaning out the nesting boxes at the end of the nesting season in the fall. Make sure to wash your hands thoroughly after this task if you choose to do it.
Buy a good pair of binoculars if you don't have any. You're sure to be watching these birds a lot!
Warnings
Check local regulations before shooting or trapping invasive bird species.
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Make sure no pesticides or insecticides are being used in your area.\\nThese chemicals will not only hurt birds, but they will also kill the bug population which swallows feed on. If your city takes regular anti-mosquito measures, such as spraying down lakes, Tree swallows will most likely not nest near you.\\n2. Changing Your Landscape\\n2-1. Provide water sources.\\nAll birds need water, especially swallows. These birds are known to skim over the water and dip their bills in for a drink instead of perching for a sip. If you don't have a body of water nearby, you may want to provide it yourself. Put up a birdbath or, if you are really committed, make a small pond.\\nGet a birdbath with a dripper so that the birds can hear the water.\\nAlso consider getting a birdbath mister. Swallows sometimes will pass through the mist to cool down and get a drink. Alternatively, you could simply run a sprinkler in your yard.\\n2-2. See if you need to cut down some trees.\\nBecause Tree swallows like open land, you may want to open up your property by cutting down large trees. A few trees here and there won't be an issue.\\nIf you live in a forest, you probably won't be able to get Tree swallows.\\n2-3. Provide perching spots.\\nIf your land has no trees or shrubs, you may want to give Tree swallows some spots to perch on. Providing these areas will give the swallows a chance to rest and clean themselves.\\nSimple things like clotheslines and antennas work great as perching spots. You can also build your own if you want to go more natural.\\n2-4. Put out food.\\nAlthough live insect bird food is hard to find, it may be worth it to provide some. Try buying some mealworms and putting them on a dish outside. You may be surprised at how much Tree swallows and other birds like them!\\nGetting swallows to come to these bird feeders may take a lot of patience and time. You certainly don't need to put out food to attract these wonderful birds. It is very easy to attract them without it.\\n3. Helping Swallows Nest\\n3-1. Put up nesting houses.\\nPutting up houses is a great way to attract Tree swallows. Doing this will give them places to rest and build a family. Here are a few rules that should be followed when putting them up.\\nPut a nesting box on a pole at least five feet off the ground. This will discourage squirrels from hurting the swallows.\\nMake sure to put the birdhouse in open land at least 50 yards away from houses and bodies of water. Also try to put up the houses away from trees, as this will reduce the risk of invasive bird attacks.\\n3-2. Provide nesting material.\\nIf you don't have loose grass or other material available for Tree swallows to make nests with, you may want to provide it. Leaving small twigs out in your yard and scattering dryer lint will give the swallows plenty of ingredients to make a good nest for their young.\\n3-3. Monitor the nests.\\nTree swallows have many invasive opponents when it comes to nesting spots. If you live in the United States, invasive birds like House sparrows and European starlings have been known to attack swallow nests. Monitor the nesting boxes to make sure the swallows are doing okay and are not being preyed on by other birds.\\nIf you do see an invasive bird around the Tree swallow nests, you may want to consider trapping or even killing them. These birds can do a lot of damage to swallow populations.\\nSome mammals such as squirrels can also attack Tree swallow nests.\\nTips\\nConsider cleaning out the nesting boxes at the end of the nesting season in the fall. Make sure to wash your hands thoroughly after this task if you choose to do it.\\nBuy a good pair of binoculars if you don't have any. You're sure to be watching these birds a lot!\\nWarnings\\nCheck local regulations before shooting or trapping invasive bird species.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Have you heard of Tree swallows but haven't seen them in your yard? Tree swallows are amazing animals that eat mosquitoes and other pesky bugs, thereby benefiting your garden and backyard life. They also have beautiful plumage and, unlike other birds, have quiet, pleasant calls. Attracting these birds might take a little effort, but it's well worth it. Note that this wikiHow will work for other cavity-nesting swallows like the Violet-Green swallow.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Doing Research\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make sure Tree swallows populate where you live.\", \"描述\": \"Tree swallows breed in most of the upper half of the United States into much of Canada. In the winter they migrate down into the lower states into Mexico. There are many maps online that tell the range of swallows. 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2,745 | How to Attract Wealth | 1. Steps
1-1. Change your mindset from one of want and need to one of openness and possibility.
In her book, "The Prosperity Plan," author and financial expert, Laura B. Fortgang, stresses that wealth and prosperity are a state of mind that can be attained by training the subconscious to welcome wealth with positive thinking rather than driving it away with negative messages.
1-2. Take action in creating new possibilities for wealth by writing down the specific kind of wealth you want in your life.
Commit yourself fully to this personal "Wealth Attraction Plan."
Realize that wealth comes in many forms. Wealth may be financial, yet it can also be romantic. You may desire a wealth of new friendships or in new professional possibilities. Write down the kind of wealth you want. Be specific.
1-3. Be aware of opportunities that exist around you for attracting abundance.
Be open to ideas and suggestions for new kinds of work and wealth-creating ideas that are offered to you.
Fortgang stresses that it is imperative to realize that opportunities exist all around us, yet if we don't allow ourselves to see them, we cannot take advantage of them. Saying "yes" to new opportunities is a way to become more "attractive" to wealth of all kinds.
1-4. Have gratitude.
Make a list each morning of at least 3 things you have to be grateful for. The list will grow as you begin to acknowledge all you already have. Be grateful for what you have now as you work to realize how to attract wealth into your life. Many people feel that they have no wealth in their lives because they do not acknowledge what they do already have. Having an "attitude of gratitude" is a critical component in knowing how to attract wealth.
1-5. Make a timeline for your "Wealth Attraction Plan."
Write down a goal of how much money you want to make in 3 months and then in 6 months. Be specific. Fortgang stresses that as we write out these specific goals, we must work gratitude into the statement. For example, write out "Thank you for the $100,000 I am going to make by the end of the year." If, as time goes on, you are not making as much as you set out in your goal, be grateful anyway and keep on making positive goals for yourself.
1-6. Commit to your "Wealth Attraction Plan" and make weekly, monthly, and yearly financial goals.
Begin each day with a meditation on gratitude and with the knowledge that wealth of all kinds will be entering your life immediately.
Tips
Release people and things in your life that are robbing you of your energy. It's hard to attract wealth if you are too exhausted to receive it, so be willing to say good-bye to the people and things that are dragging you down.
Reduce expenses. Sometimes we think wealth is only based on what we take in, yet if we can remove areas of waste in our budget, we will instantly have more wealth to use on things we really want and need.
Immerse yourself in the idea of wealth as an attainable goal by reading other books on the topic, including "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne and "Zero Limits" by Joe Vitale. These books, like "The Prosperity Plan," call on the reader to undergo a thought-shift in their thinking about what wealth truly is so that they can be open to receiving it into their lives.
Warnings
Negative messages in the media and negative-thinking people can create fearful thinking. Stay away from people and thought patterns that steal your positive energy and commitment to positive thinking. This is an important factor in knowing how to attract wealth into your life.
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Be aware of opportunities that exist around you for attracting abundance.\\nBe open to ideas and suggestions for new kinds of work and wealth-creating ideas that are offered to you.\\nFortgang stresses that it is imperative to realize that opportunities exist all around us, yet if we don't allow ourselves to see them, we cannot take advantage of them. Saying \\\"yes\\\" to new opportunities is a way to become more \\\"attractive\\\" to wealth of all kinds.\\n1-4. Have gratitude.\\nMake a list each morning of at least 3 things you have to be grateful for. The list will grow as you begin to acknowledge all you already have. Be grateful for what you have now as you work to realize how to attract wealth into your life. Many people feel that they have no wealth in their lives because they do not acknowledge what they do already have. Having an \\\"attitude of gratitude\\\" is a critical component in knowing how to attract wealth.\\n1-5. Make a timeline for your \\\"Wealth Attraction Plan.\\\"\\nWrite down a goal of how much money you want to make in 3 months and then in 6 months. Be specific. Fortgang stresses that as we write out these specific goals, we must work gratitude into the statement. For example, write out \\\"Thank you for the $100,000 I am going to make by the end of the year.\\\" If, as time goes on, you are not making as much as you set out in your goal, be grateful anyway and keep on making positive goals for yourself.\\n1-6. Commit to your \\\"Wealth Attraction Plan\\\" and make weekly, monthly, and yearly financial goals.\\nBegin each day with a meditation on gratitude and with the knowledge that wealth of all kinds will be entering your life immediately.\\nTips\\nRelease people and things in your life that are robbing you of your energy. It's hard to attract wealth if you are too exhausted to receive it, so be willing to say good-bye to the people and things that are dragging you down.\\nReduce expenses. Sometimes we think wealth is only based on what we take in, yet if we can remove areas of waste in our budget, we will instantly have more wealth to use on things we really want and need.\\nImmerse yourself in the idea of wealth as an attainable goal by reading other books on the topic, including \\\"The Secret\\\" by Rhonda Byrne and \\\"Zero Limits\\\" by Joe Vitale. These books, like \\\"The Prosperity Plan,\\\" call on the reader to undergo a thought-shift in their thinking about what wealth truly is so that they can be open to receiving it into their lives.\\nWarnings\\nNegative messages in the media and negative-thinking people can create fearful thinking. Stay away from people and thought patterns that steal your positive energy and commitment to positive thinking. This is an important factor in knowing how to attract wealth into your life.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Wealth and abundance are important elements in living a life that is financially stable and free of stress. Having a job and earning money is one way to have wealth, yet there is another level of abundant living that involves attracting the idea of wealth and prosperity. Having a mindset that brings abundance into one's life is the key to knowing how to attract wealth. Follow these steps to learn how to attract wealth and begin living a financially secure life.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Change your mindset from one of want and need to one of openness and possibility.\", \"描述\": \"In her book, \\\"The Prosperity Plan,\\\" author and financial expert, Laura B. 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Be specific.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be aware of opportunities that exist around you for attracting abundance.\", \"描述\": \"Be open to ideas and suggestions for new kinds of work and wealth-creating ideas that are offered to you.\\nFortgang stresses that it is imperative to realize that opportunities exist all around us, yet if we don't allow ourselves to see them, we cannot take advantage of them. Saying \\\"yes\\\" to new opportunities is a way to become more \\\"attractive\\\" to wealth of all kinds.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Have gratitude.\", \"描述\": \"Make a list each morning of at least 3 things you have to be grateful for. The list will grow as you begin to acknowledge all you already have. Be grateful for what you have now as you work to realize how to attract wealth into your life. Many people feel that they have no wealth in their lives because they do not acknowledge what they do already have. 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For example, write out \\\"Thank you for the $100,000 I am going to make by the end of the year.\\\" If, as time goes on, you are not making as much as you set out in your goal, be grateful anyway and keep on making positive goals for yourself.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Commit to your \\\"Wealth Attraction Plan\\\" and make weekly, monthly, and yearly financial goals.\", \"描述\": \"Begin each day with a meditation on gratitude and with the knowledge that wealth of all kinds will be entering your life immediately.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Release people and things in your life that are robbing you of your energy. It's hard to attract wealth if you are too exhausted to receive it, so be willing to say good-bye to the people and things that are dragging you down.\\n\", \"Reduce expenses. 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2,746 | How to Attract Women | 1. Be Comfortable with Yourself
1-1. Be confident in who you are.
The first step to getting women to like you is to like yourself. If you're not happy with who you are, then the woman across the room is likely to not be impressed, either. Here are some ways to gain confidence in who you are:
Be aware of your best attributes, whether it's your sense of humor or ability to make anyone open up. Emphasize them whenever you meet someone new.
Work to address your flaws. Nobody's perfect, but you can become a better person by making a concerted effort to improve yourself.
Confidence is key, but if you're too pleased with yourself, you may come off looking arrogant, and that is a big turn-off.
Learn to make fun of yourself. Without being self-deprecating, making the occasional joke about yourself will show that you don't take yourself too seriously.
1-2. Be comfortable with how you look.
You don't have to be a body builder to have a healthy body and to be happy with how you look. If you're not self-conscious about your body, you won't be a chick magnet. Here are some ways to improve the way you feel about how you look:
Be brave and take a dance or power yoga class. Not only will you improve the way you look, but you'll definitely meet some ladies in the process.
Hitting up the gym a few times a week can improve your cardio, your muscle tone, and your self-esteem. If you prefer to skip the gym, you can even build muscles naturally by adjusting your diet and through strength training at home.
Eat healthy foods. Eat three balanced meals a day and eat as many fruits and vegetables as you can. Avoid anything processed or fatty as much as you can, but splurge on the foods you really want once in a while.
Dress well. Take time to wear well-fitting pants, clean shirts, and shoes that match your outfits. Making the effort to look nice will show the ladies that you're likely to make effort in other parts of your life, too.
1-3. Love what you do.
If you want to attract ladies, you should already be happy with not only who you are and how you look, but with how you spend most of your time. If you're unhappy with your job or studies, it'll show, and the ladies will be put off by your negative attitude. Here's how to do it:
If you're working, try to love your job as much as possible by building a relationship with your coworkers, appreciating the perks of your work, and trying to do the best job you can so you feel good about yourself.
If you're in school, focus on the subjects that you love most so the ladies will see that there is something you're passionate about. You'll be a better student, will gain more knowledge, and will come off looking like a more interesting person.
Take up hobbies that improve your life. If you don't have many hobbies already, pick something to be passionate about, such as running, reading historical non-fiction, or building furniture. As long as you don't spend all of your time obsessing about your hobbies, you will not only be more appealing to women, but will become a better person in the process of pursuing your interests.
Let's face it---you may be in a place in your life where you don't like what you do very much. Work to change that, and in the meantime, try to keep your complaining to a minimum so the ladies don't think you're a pessimist.
2. Be a Dynamic Person
2-1. Be cultured.
Women will be attracted to you if you're a man of the world and are able to see things outside of your perspective. If you work to be more cultured, not only will you be more attractive to women, but you'll have a more informed outlook on life. Here's how to do it:
Learn a new language. You'll be able to appreciate a new culture, and if you become fluent in a sexy language like Italian or French, the ladies will be impressed and excited to hear you flatter them in a foreign tongue.
Read a wide variety of books. Reading fiction and non-fiction by a range of authors can help you appreciate how big the world is, and may give you topics to discuss with the ladies.
Travel if you can. See the world, or at least your part of the country. You will learn a lot about the world and will meet a variety of interesting people, some of whom could be sexy ladies.
Watch a variety of films. Watching both classics and current films can help you appreciate the complexity of the human existence. Your love for movies will also allow you to impress women with your insight when you invite them on movie dates.
Open your eyes to a variety of cuisine. Don't just stick to pizza and pasta--try the new Korean or Burmese place in your neighborhood. This will also help you find a great date destination.
2-2. Develop many healthy and exciting relationships.
If you have a great relationship with your family and an eclectic group of friends, the ladies will want to be a part of your life. Women are wary of a guy without friends or a close relationship with any of his relatives, because this may indicate that he doesn't know how to get along with people, or doesn't find meaning in friendships. Here's how to work on the relationships in your life:
Make a point of seeing or talking to your family members as much as possible. How you treat your family---especially your mother---says a lot about you, and ladies will be attracted to you if you're a doting son. You don't want to look like a momma's boy, but casually showing the ladies how much you love your mother will show them that you're a caring person.
Develop an eclectic group of friends. While being best friends with everyone in your fraternity or at your cool new workplace can be a lot of fun, having a diverse group of friends can make you a more interesting person. It's great to be friends with a few guys from your fraternity, but if you've also developed relationships with your friends in your weekend soccer league, you may learn more about the world. What's more, the ladies will be attracted to your ability to be able to get along with a variety of people.
Throw any dead weight off your friend-ship. If you're hanging out with a person who is rude or unpleasant just because you've been friends for years, it may be time to reevaluate the friendship. Besides, if you bring around someone who is deeply annoying or rude, the ladies will think this is a reflection of who you are.
2-3. Pick up some useful skills.
If you're not only interesting to be around but actually have a lot of knowledge, the ladies will be attracted to your manliness and your ability to get things done. Here are some examples:
Learn how to cook. Start by adding just a few simple items to your repertoire. Once you perfect something, like the perfect steak or glazed salmon, you can invite the ladies over for dinner. You'll look sexy with a chef's apron on, whether you're behind a grill or in front of a stove.
Learn how to be useful around the house. Whether you know how to fix a leak or a broken table, the ladies will be turned on by your know how and may even ask you for help.
2-4. Develop a sense of humor.
You may be interesting and cultured, but if you won't go far if you don't know how to make a lady laugh. If you have the right sense of humor, you will be much more likely to attract the ladies. Here's how to do it:
Be clever. You don't have to be the loudest or most outgoing person in the room, but if you make a cutting or sharp comment at the right time, the ladies will be impressed.
Have the right delivery. If you have a funny comment, make sure you say it loudly enough and when no one else is talking. If you have to repeat your joke, it won't be funny anymore.
Be appropriate. Make the right jokes for the right people. If you're hanging out with your best bro-friends, your jokes should be more raunchy than they are in front of a new group of girls, and especially if you're meeting a new lover's parents for the first time.
3. Make a Woman Feel Special
3-1. Don't be afraid to compliment a woman.
You don't have to overdo it, but the right compliment at the right time can make a woman attracted to your honesty and ability to put yourself out there. Here's how to do it:
When you first meet a girl, tell her you like a piece of her jewelry, her haircut, or one of her other accessories.
Once you get to know her, you can be more blunt. Say, "Has anyone ever told you that you have very expressive eyes?" Or, "You have the sweetest laugh." Don't be afraid to make her blush just a little bit.
Notice things about her personality. Really listen to what she says, and tell her that she sounds like a great friend, or that she has a great sense of humor.
3-2. Show an interest in your lady's life.
Your lady will be impressed by your interests and perspective, but you have to make sure to reciprocate by showing an interest in her pursuits as well. Here's how to show that you care:
Remember things she's told you. If you've met her before and bring up small details from your previous conversation, such as the name of her sister or the place where she studied abroad, she'll be attracted to how much you care.
Ask the right questions. Without sounding like you're heading an interrogation, you can ask her questions to get her perspective. Start small and ask for her opinion on topics that aren't very controversial, and once you get to know her better, you can dig deeper and ask about her perspective on balancing work and friends, or what she's looking for in a relationship.
Tease her. Once you know her well enough to know her foibles, don't be afraid to poke fun at her, as long as she goes along with it.
3-3. Be a thoughtful date.
Once the woman is attracted enough to go on a date with you, you want to keep her interested by continuing to be engaged on your dates. Here's how to let her know you care once you take her out:
Be a gentleman. Open doors, get her flowers, and give her your coat if she's cold.
Do the little things. Send her messages during the week to show that you're thinking of her. Get her small gifts.
Tell her you had a great time. Be honest. If you had an amazing time, let her know so you can see her again.
Once you're more comfortable, find some ways to get closer by brushing up against her. Become an expert on how to Touch a Girl.
Tips
Don't be disappointed if you've tried everything and still can't attract the lady you want. In the process of becoming more attractive to women, you've improved yourself!
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Be Comfortable with Yourself\\n1-1. Be confident in who you are.\\nThe first step to getting women to like you is to like yourself. If you're not happy with who you are, then the woman across the room is likely to not be impressed, either. Here are some ways to gain confidence in who you are:\\nBe aware of your best attributes, whether it's your sense of humor or ability to make anyone open up. Emphasize them whenever you meet someone new.\\nWork to address your flaws. Nobody's perfect, but you can become a better person by making a concerted effort to improve yourself.\\nConfidence is key, but if you're too pleased with yourself, you may come off looking arrogant, and that is a big turn-off.\\nLearn to make fun of yourself. Without being self-deprecating, making the occasional joke about yourself will show that you don't take yourself too seriously.\\n1-2. Be comfortable with how you look.\\nYou don't have to be a body builder to have a healthy body and to be happy with how you look. If you're not self-conscious about your body, you won't be a chick magnet. Here are some ways to improve the way you feel about how you look:\\nBe brave and take a dance or power yoga class. Not only will you improve the way you look, but you'll definitely meet some ladies in the process.\\nHitting up the gym a few times a week can improve your cardio, your muscle tone, and your self-esteem. If you prefer to skip the gym, you can even build muscles naturally by adjusting your diet and through strength training at home.\\nEat healthy foods. Eat three balanced meals a day and eat as many fruits and vegetables as you can. Avoid anything processed or fatty as much as you can, but splurge on the foods you really want once in a while.\\nDress well. Take time to wear well-fitting pants, clean shirts, and shoes that match your outfits. Making the effort to look nice will show the ladies that you're likely to make effort in other parts of your life, too.\\n1-3. Love what you do.\\nIf you want to attract ladies, you should already be happy with not only who you are and how you look, but with how you spend most of your time. If you're unhappy with your job or studies, it'll show, and the ladies will be put off by your negative attitude. Here's how to do it:\\nIf you're working, try to love your job as much as possible by building a relationship with your coworkers, appreciating the perks of your work, and trying to do the best job you can so you feel good about yourself.\\nIf you're in school, focus on the subjects that you love most so the ladies will see that there is something you're passionate about. You'll be a better student, will gain more knowledge, and will come off looking like a more interesting person.\\nTake up hobbies that improve your life. If you don't have many hobbies already, pick something to be passionate about, such as running, reading historical non-fiction, or building furniture. As long as you don't spend all of your time obsessing about your hobbies, you will not only be more appealing to women, but will become a better person in the process of pursuing your interests.\\nLet's face it---you may be in a place in your life where you don't like what you do very much. Work to change that, and in the meantime, try to keep your complaining to a minimum so the ladies don't think you're a pessimist.\\n2. Be a Dynamic Person\\n2-1. Be cultured.\\nWomen will be attracted to you if you're a man of the world and are able to see things outside of your perspective. If you work to be more cultured, not only will you be more attractive to women, but you'll have a more informed outlook on life. Here's how to do it:\\nLearn a new language. You'll be able to appreciate a new culture, and if you become fluent in a sexy language like Italian or French, the ladies will be impressed and excited to hear you flatter them in a foreign tongue.\\nRead a wide variety of books. Reading fiction and non-fiction by a range of authors can help you appreciate how big the world is, and may give you topics to discuss with the ladies.\\nTravel if you can. See the world, or at least your part of the country. You will learn a lot about the world and will meet a variety of interesting people, some of whom could be sexy ladies.\\nWatch a variety of films. Watching both classics and current films can help you appreciate the complexity of the human existence. Your love for movies will also allow you to impress women with your insight when you invite them on movie dates.\\nOpen your eyes to a variety of cuisine. Don't just stick to pizza and pasta--try the new Korean or Burmese place in your neighborhood. This will also help you find a great date destination.\\n2-2. Develop many healthy and exciting relationships.\\nIf you have a great relationship with your family and an eclectic group of friends, the ladies will want to be a part of your life. Women are wary of a guy without friends or a close relationship with any of his relatives, because this may indicate that he doesn't know how to get along with people, or doesn't find meaning in friendships. Here's how to work on the relationships in your life:\\nMake a point of seeing or talking to your family members as much as possible. How you treat your family---especially your mother---says a lot about you, and ladies will be attracted to you if you're a doting son. You don't want to look like a momma's boy, but casually showing the ladies how much you love your mother will show them that you're a caring person.\\nDevelop an eclectic group of friends. While being best friends with everyone in your fraternity or at your cool new workplace can be a lot of fun, having a diverse group of friends can make you a more interesting person. It's great to be friends with a few guys from your fraternity, but if you've also developed relationships with your friends in your weekend soccer league, you may learn more about the world. What's more, the ladies will be attracted to your ability to be able to get along with a variety of people.\\nThrow any dead weight off your friend-ship. If you're hanging out with a person who is rude or unpleasant just because you've been friends for years, it may be time to reevaluate the friendship. Besides, if you bring around someone who is deeply annoying or rude, the ladies will think this is a reflection of who you are.\\n2-3. Pick up some useful skills.\\nIf you're not only interesting to be around but actually have a lot of knowledge, the ladies will be attracted to your manliness and your ability to get things done. Here are some examples:\\nLearn how to cook. Start by adding just a few simple items to your repertoire. Once you perfect something, like the perfect steak or glazed salmon, you can invite the ladies over for dinner. You'll look sexy with a chef's apron on, whether you're behind a grill or in front of a stove.\\nLearn how to be useful around the house. Whether you know how to fix a leak or a broken table, the ladies will be turned on by your know how and may even ask you for help.\\n2-4. Develop a sense of humor.\\nYou may be interesting and cultured, but if you won't go far if you don't know how to make a lady laugh. If you have the right sense of humor, you will be much more likely to attract the ladies. Here's how to do it:\\nBe clever. You don't have to be the loudest or most outgoing person in the room, but if you make a cutting or sharp comment at the right time, the ladies will be impressed.\\nHave the right delivery. If you have a funny comment, make sure you say it loudly enough and when no one else is talking. If you have to repeat your joke, it won't be funny anymore.\\nBe appropriate. Make the right jokes for the right people. If you're hanging out with your best bro-friends, your jokes should be more raunchy than they are in front of a new group of girls, and especially if you're meeting a new lover's parents for the first time.\\n3. Make a Woman Feel Special\\n3-1. Don't be afraid to compliment a woman.\\nYou don't have to overdo it, but the right compliment at the right time can make a woman attracted to your honesty and ability to put yourself out there. Here's how to do it:\\nWhen you first meet a girl, tell her you like a piece of her jewelry, her haircut, or one of her other accessories.\\nOnce you get to know her, you can be more blunt. Say, \\\"Has anyone ever told you that you have very expressive eyes?\\\" Or, \\\"You have the sweetest laugh.\\\" Don't be afraid to make her blush just a little bit.\\nNotice things about her personality. Really listen to what she says, and tell her that she sounds like a great friend, or that she has a great sense of humor.\\n3-2. Show an interest in your lady's life.\\nYour lady will be impressed by your interests and perspective, but you have to make sure to reciprocate by showing an interest in her pursuits as well. Here's how to show that you care:\\nRemember things she's told you. If you've met her before and bring up small details from your previous conversation, such as the name of her sister or the place where she studied abroad, she'll be attracted to how much you care.\\nAsk the right questions. Without sounding like you're heading an interrogation, you can ask her questions to get her perspective. Start small and ask for her opinion on topics that aren't very controversial, and once you get to know her better, you can dig deeper and ask about her perspective on balancing work and friends, or what she's looking for in a relationship.\\nTease her. Once you know her well enough to know her foibles, don't be afraid to poke fun at her, as long as she goes along with it.\\n3-3. Be a thoughtful date.\\nOnce the woman is attracted enough to go on a date with you, you want to keep her interested by continuing to be engaged on your dates. Here's how to let her know you care once you take her out:\\nBe a gentleman. Open doors, get her flowers, and give her your coat if she's cold.\\nDo the little things. Send her messages during the week to show that you're thinking of her. Get her small gifts.\\nTell her you had a great time. Be honest. If you had an amazing time, let her know so you can see her again.\\nOnce you're more comfortable, find some ways to get closer by brushing up against her. Become an expert on how to Touch a Girl.\\nTips\\nDon't be disappointed if you've tried everything and still can't attract the lady you want. In the process of becoming more attractive to women, you've improved yourself!\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Though it's impossible to have every woman in the world want you, there are many things you can do to improve your chances of appealing to as many women as possible. If you want to know how to catch the eye of a particular woman, check out How to Attract a Woman. If you want to know how to appeal to a variety of women, look no further.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be Comfortable with Yourself\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be confident in who you are.\", \"描述\": \"The first step to getting women to like you is to like yourself. If you're not happy with who you are, then the woman across the room is likely to not be impressed, either. Here are some ways to gain confidence in who you are:\\nBe aware of your best attributes, whether it's your sense of humor or ability to make anyone open up. Emphasize them whenever you meet someone new.\\nWork to address your flaws. Nobody's perfect, but you can become a better person by making a concerted effort to improve yourself.\\nConfidence is key, but if you're too pleased with yourself, you may come off looking arrogant, and that is a big turn-off.\\nLearn to make fun of yourself. 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Here's how to do it:\\nIf you're working, try to love your job as much as possible by building a relationship with your coworkers, appreciating the perks of your work, and trying to do the best job you can so you feel good about yourself.\\nIf you're in school, focus on the subjects that you love most so the ladies will see that there is something you're passionate about. You'll be a better student, will gain more knowledge, and will come off looking like a more interesting person.\\nTake up hobbies that improve your life. If you don't have many hobbies already, pick something to be passionate about, such as running, reading historical non-fiction, or building furniture. As long as you don't spend all of your time obsessing about your hobbies, you will not only be more appealing to women, but will become a better person in the process of pursuing your interests.\\nLet's face it---you may be in a place in your life where you don't like what you do very much. 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2,747 | How to Attract Women Without Doing Anything | 1. Getting that Hot Body
1-1. Keep your body clean.
Women don't want to deal with your week-old BO. Man, YOU don't want to deal with your week-old BO. Take regular showers and use deodorant. It will surprise you how much of a difference this makes if you haven't been doing this already.
1-2. Wear nice clothes.
It's not like you have to go around wearing Armani or anything, just wear clothes that fit, suit your body, don't have holes or stains, and don't look like they were the height of fashion in 1986. Don't worry so much about brands: a woman worth having won't care what brand of clothing you wear. Just make sure you're dressed such that she wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with you.
1-3. Smell amazing.
Just like you love a woman who smells like a perfect princess fresh out of fairy land, women love it when men smell amazing too. You can do this by first keeping your body clean, and then adding a nice scent. This can be as simple as getting a really nice smelling deodorant. If you want to go a bit further, you can try cologne, aftershave or body sprays. Just make sure that the smell is subtle and that you put it on correctly. She doesn't want you to smell like you bathed in Axe.
1-4. Maintain your body.
Women like men who keep themselves fit and well. Don't feel like you have to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger, because she won't care so much whether you have a six-pack or not...just get yourself to a point where you're healthy and comfortable...say, walking up a large hill. This will make you feel better in your own skin and help attract women.
It's not that they're vain or hung up on societal ideas about weight, it's more than not exercising shows that you don't really care about yourself enough to keep your body healthy (even if that's not true).
If you've both got a couple of extra pounds, you better be prepared to work on your own weight if you're going to ask her to work on hers.
2. Showing Your Great Personality
2-1. Find your talents.
Everybody is attracted to people who can do cool things. Now, you probably already have a talent or the potential for a talent that you don't know about. You need to find that talent and feed it. Even if it isn't a classically attractive talent like playing an instrument, nurturing your talent and spending time with people who do the same thing will give you the opportunity to meet girls who enjoy the same things you do.
You can always learn a new talent too. Drawing is a good one, since it is a skill that can be learned, rather than something that really requires innate talent.
2-2. Be exciting.
Don't be the guy who sits at home all weekend, eating Funyuns and playing COD. There's nothing wrong with being introverted, but you still need to spend your time doing exciting things. If you're introverted, start writing a book or teaching yourself an art. If you're more comfortable talking to people and getting outside, go do those things. Join a club, go hiking, volunteer, whatever. Just make your life about something. You want to have something to talk to women about, don't you?
If you're going to insist on playing COD, you better plan on becoming a championship winning competitive player because that's basically what it's going to take.
2-3. Be kind and respectful to everybody.
While you're probably not walking around, if you have a bad attitude and you treat other people poorly, you are going to have a hard time attracting women. Even if you're nice to women you want to date but a total jerk to everyone else, women will notice. Be nice, legitimately nice, and respectful towards everyone and women will be reasonably assured that they can always expect the same.
2-4. Be stable.
Be stable by having a good job, doing the things you say that you will, and generally being responsible. Don't think that women want you to have an awesome job so that they'll be taken care of; they just want to know that you won't be a dead weight! Just like you might not want to have to support a woman who does nothing, women don't want a guy who sits around all day eating Cheetos. If you show her that you can pay your bills and hold down a good job, she'll be much more likely to want to date you.
2-5. Be her knight in shining armor.
Being her knight in armor isn't about treating her like she can't do things for herself. It's about giving her the tools she needs to rescue herself. Be emotionally supportive when she's had a bad day. Help her talk through her problems so that she can find a solution. When she asks you for help or advice, give it, without judgement or criticism. Find ways that you can make her life easier and help her achieve the things she wants for her life.
2-6. Don't be a jerk.
You could be Jon Hamm, it doesn't matter: women are not obligated to want to date you. Remember that. Just think, if some woman you found unattractive and boring started shouting about how you were a loser or something, how would you feel? Sometimes people just don't connect. That's not your fault and it's not her fault either. Just keep trying and you'll find Ms. Perfect.
3. Being Independent
3-1. Do your own thing.
If you don't want to go out and actively get women, you're going to have to be sure you're going off to do your own thing. Don't hang around waiting for them or send them flowers every week. Just go do your own thing and wait for them to come to you. Some things you can do are:
Hang with your friends. Gotta get in that COD time, after all.
Hang out alone. At last! Peace and quiet! Underwear rock out party time!
Do things you enjoy. This is a great time to develop those skills that women find so attractive.
3-2. Give women their freedom.
Women don't want to date someone who's really clingy or controlling. If you have girl friends that you're hoping to catch the eye of, show them that you're perfectly happy to go do your own thing without them. Don't annoy them by constantly asking to hang out, don't ask to go everywhere with them (or follow them around without asking!), don't try to trap them in a corner when you want to talk, and don't try to guilt them or manipulate them into going places with you. Show women that they are free to go where they want and do what they want, and if they want a buddy along for the ride, you're there for them.
3-3. Don't be a follower.
Start trends, don't follow them. Women are attracted to guys they perceive as cool. Try to be independent and show your own personality, rather than copying what the other guys are doing.
3-4. Don't be creepy.
This is very important for getting women to want to date you. Avoid awkward comments or jokes. Keep your eyes on her face. Don't stalk girls. If a few women decide that you are a creeper, they will probably warn others that you are a creeper and then you're just doomed.
A good rule of thumb is that if you wouldn't say something to your mom, don't say it to a woman you're not dating.
3-5. Don't be too independent.
You shouldn't leave women thinking you're uninterested in dating altogether. Flirt occasionally or find other ways to show that you're interested.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Getting that Hot Body\\n1-1. Keep your body clean.\\nWomen don't want to deal with your week-old BO. Man, YOU don't want to deal with your week-old BO. Take regular showers and use deodorant. It will surprise you how much of a difference this makes if you haven't been doing this already.\\n1-2. Wear nice clothes.\\nIt's not like you have to go around wearing Armani or anything, just wear clothes that fit, suit your body, don't have holes or stains, and don't look like they were the height of fashion in 1986. Don't worry so much about brands: a woman worth having won't care what brand of clothing you wear. Just make sure you're dressed such that she wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with you.\\n1-3. Smell amazing.\\nJust like you love a woman who smells like a perfect princess fresh out of fairy land, women love it when men smell amazing too. You can do this by first keeping your body clean, and then adding a nice scent. This can be as simple as getting a really nice smelling deodorant. If you want to go a bit further, you can try cologne, aftershave or body sprays. Just make sure that the smell is subtle and that you put it on correctly. She doesn't want you to smell like you bathed in Axe.\\n1-4. Maintain your body.\\nWomen like men who keep themselves fit and well. Don't feel like you have to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger, because she won't care so much whether you have a six-pack or not...just get yourself to a point where you're healthy and comfortable...say, walking up a large hill. This will make you feel better in your own skin and help attract women.\\nIt's not that they're vain or hung up on societal ideas about weight, it's more than not exercising shows that you don't really care about yourself enough to keep your body healthy (even if that's not true).\\nIf you've both got a couple of extra pounds, you better be prepared to work on your own weight if you're going to ask her to work on hers.\\n2. Showing Your Great Personality\\n2-1. Find your talents.\\nEverybody is attracted to people who can do cool things. Now, you probably already have a talent or the potential for a talent that you don't know about. You need to find that talent and feed it. Even if it isn't a classically attractive talent like playing an instrument, nurturing your talent and spending time with people who do the same thing will give you the opportunity to meet girls who enjoy the same things you do.\\nYou can always learn a new talent too. Drawing is a good one, since it is a skill that can be learned, rather than something that really requires innate talent.\\n2-2. Be exciting.\\nDon't be the guy who sits at home all weekend, eating Funyuns and playing COD. There's nothing wrong with being introverted, but you still need to spend your time doing exciting things. If you're introverted, start writing a book or teaching yourself an art. If you're more comfortable talking to people and getting outside, go do those things. Join a club, go hiking, volunteer, whatever. Just make your life about something. You want to have something to talk to women about, don't you?\\nIf you're going to insist on playing COD, you better plan on becoming a championship winning competitive player because that's basically what it's going to take.\\n2-3. Be kind and respectful to everybody.\\nWhile you're probably not walking around, if you have a bad attitude and you treat other people poorly, you are going to have a hard time attracting women. Even if you're nice to women you want to date but a total jerk to everyone else, women will notice. Be nice, legitimately nice, and respectful towards everyone and women will be reasonably assured that they can always expect the same.\\n2-4. Be stable.\\nBe stable by having a good job, doing the things you say that you will, and generally being responsible. Don't think that women want you to have an awesome job so that they'll be taken care of; they just want to know that you won't be a dead weight! Just like you might not want to have to support a woman who does nothing, women don't want a guy who sits around all day eating Cheetos. If you show her that you can pay your bills and hold down a good job, she'll be much more likely to want to date you.\\n2-5. Be her knight in shining armor.\\nBeing her knight in armor isn't about treating her like she can't do things for herself. It's about giving her the tools she needs to rescue herself. Be emotionally supportive when she's had a bad day. Help her talk through her problems so that she can find a solution. When she asks you for help or advice, give it, without judgement or criticism. Find ways that you can make her life easier and help her achieve the things she wants for her life.\\n2-6. Don't be a jerk.\\nYou could be Jon Hamm, it doesn't matter: women are not obligated to want to date you. Remember that. Just think, if some woman you found unattractive and boring started shouting about how you were a loser or something, how would you feel? Sometimes people just don't connect. That's not your fault and it's not her fault either. Just keep trying and you'll find Ms. Perfect.\\n3. Being Independent\\n3-1. Do your own thing.\\nIf you don't want to go out and actively get women, you're going to have to be sure you're going off to do your own thing. Don't hang around waiting for them or send them flowers every week. Just go do your own thing and wait for them to come to you. Some things you can do are:\\nHang with your friends. Gotta get in that COD time, after all.\\nHang out alone. At last! Peace and quiet! Underwear rock out party time!\\nDo things you enjoy. This is a great time to develop those skills that women find so attractive.\\n3-2. Give women their freedom.\\nWomen don't want to date someone who's really clingy or controlling. If you have girl friends that you're hoping to catch the eye of, show them that you're perfectly happy to go do your own thing without them. Don't annoy them by constantly asking to hang out, don't ask to go everywhere with them (or follow them around without asking!), don't try to trap them in a corner when you want to talk, and don't try to guilt them or manipulate them into going places with you. Show women that they are free to go where they want and do what they want, and if they want a buddy along for the ride, you're there for them.\\n3-3. 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This will make you feel better in your own skin and help attract women.\\nIt's not that they're vain or hung up on societal ideas about weight, it's more than not exercising shows that you don't really care about yourself enough to keep your body healthy (even if that's not true).\\nIf you've both got a couple of extra pounds, you better be prepared to work on your own weight if you're going to ask her to work on hers.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Showing Your Great Personality\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Find your talents.\", \"描述\": \"Everybody is attracted to people who can do cool things. Now, you probably already have a talent or the potential for a talent that you don't know about. You need to find that talent and feed it. Even if it isn't a classically attractive talent like playing an instrument, nurturing your talent and spending time with people who do the same thing will give you the opportunity to meet girls who enjoy the same things you do.\\nYou can always learn a new talent too. Drawing is a good one, since it is a skill that can be learned, rather than something that really requires innate talent.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be exciting.\", \"描述\": \"Don't be the guy who sits at home all weekend, eating Funyuns and playing COD. There's nothing wrong with being introverted, but you still need to spend your time doing exciting things. If you're introverted, start writing a book or teaching yourself an art. If you're more comfortable talking to people and getting outside, go do those things. Join a club, go hiking, volunteer, whatever. Just make your life about something. 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2,748 | How to Attract Your Husband | 1. Taking Care of Your Appearance
1-1. Stay well-groomed.
There are a lot of aspects of your appearance that you cannot control. Luckily, however, attraction is based more on those parts of your appearance that you can control. Staying neat, clean, and paying attention to your appearance will attract your husband more effectively than undertaking any drastic makeovers. Be sure that you:
Brush your teeth twice a day
Shower regularly
Shave or trim as appropriate
Keep your hair combed and neat
1-2. Buy nice clothes that fit.
You shouldn't have to change your style to please your husband. However, having clean clothes that fit your body are key to seeming attractive. It also helps to wear clothes that are a bit more formal, so avoid sweatpants or ripped jeans. Look for comfortable, natural fabrics that are easy to care for such as cotton, wool, and silk: this will help you keep your clothes in great shape.
If you struggle to find clothes that fit, consider finding a store that specializes in your body type. The clerks should be able to guide you to well-fitting clothes that suit your tastes.
1-3. Wear red.
Men tend to be more attracted to women wearing red than women who wear other colors. Red evokes passionate feelings and emotions, so buy some special red clothing, undergarments, and lingerie if you want to make an impression.
1-4. Stay moderately fit.
Age does not do the human body any favors. You don't need to be supermodel skinny or have a six-pack to look attractive to your husband, however. Simply manage your weight through a nutritious diet and moderate exercise to keep yourself healthy and in shape.
Maintaining a healthy and moderately fit physical appearance will also help you feel more self-confident. Self-confidence is often an attractive quality.
A little will usually go a long way. Take a brisk walk 20 minutes each day. Cut back on portion sizes and high-calorie foods.
1-5. Have good posture.
Good posture makes your body look its best and inspires feelings of attraction in others.Stand up straight, sit up straight, and resist the urge to slump or slouch. Keep your head up and your shoulders back in order to appear your best.
1-6. Buy with him in mind.
Once in a while, buy some sexy lingerie or a similarly sultry piece of clothing. Show it to your husband and let him know that you made the purchase with him in mind. You can also consider purchasing something eye-catching in his favorite color.
The way you deliver the message can have just as big an impact as the message itself. For example, casually slip your newest piece of lingerie into his hand, then silently walk away with a slight sway in your hips. Your body language can convey more meaning than the words alone would.
1-7. Give yourself a mini makeover.
You don't need to completely transform your appearance: changing even one quality in a subtle way can be enough to catch your husband's eye again. Consider getting a new hairstyle, adding highlights to your hair, or treating yourself to a day at the spa to give your skin a new glow. If you don't want the expense or permanency of a bigger change, try something as simple as buying a new shade of lipstick or eye makeup.
1-8. Smile.
Smiling is one of the most significant acts you can do to catch a man's eye when you're single, so it's little wonder that smiling at your man once you've married him will move him in the same way. Looking friendly, pleasant, and happy are keys to making your husband feel attracted to you.
2. Cultivating an Attractive Personality
2-1. Project self-confidence.
If you don't love yourself, your lack of confidence and self-esteem may bleed into the interactions you have with your husband. Confidence is an attractive quality, and conversely, a lack of confidence can make you seem unattractive. Tell yourself that you are sexy, attractive, and interesting. Focus on your favorite qualities about yourself, and remember that your husband fell in love with you for a good reason.
Speaking confidently and having a confident, upright posture will help you demonstrate your self-esteem.
If you are unable to remove the negative thoughts you have about yourself, consider taking up practices like meditation or therapy for a little extra help.
2-2. Be your own person.
Being able to care for yourself emotionally can help you maintain a more positive attitude. If you depend on your husband completely, you are more likely to feel critical when your husband fails to make you feel better. This criticism could push him further away. In order to work on being your own person, you can:
Spend time with your close friends and family
Work on a hobby
Take a class in something you are interested in
2-3. Stay connected.
Don't take your husband for granted. Value the time you spend together, and seek out quality time with him. Schedule dates or other ways to check in throughout the day. Talk to one another on the phone, Skype, or text at least once a day in order to display that he is in your thoughts.
2-4. Get help with chores when you're stressed out.
It can be hard to focus on a marriage when you have kids, careers, homes, and other responsibilities. Be sure that you don't have too much on your plate if you want to concentrate on attracting your husband. If you find the stress building up, find someone who can help share the load. This will also help reduce the likelihood of nagging, which is a buzzkill. You could:
Ask your husband to do more chores
Ask a friend to help you out around the house
Hire a babysitter to give you some relief
Use a cleaning service to take care of chores at home
2-5. Ask your husband questions about himself.
Remaining curious about your husband is key to revitalizing your marriage. Don't act like he is predictable or boring: tell yourself there is always more to learn about him. Ask him to talk about his life, emotions, and experiences in order to grow your relationship and your attraction to one another.
2-6. Talk about your feelings.
Don't keep your emotions a secret from your husband. Tell him what you are thinking and feeling. Don't be ashamed if you need extra support. Be honest and tell yourself that sharing your emotions is key to growing and developing a marriage rooted in mutual attraction.
2-7. Laugh together.
As you grow older, you might start treating life with a greater degree of seriousness than you did as a young newlywed. Be serious when seriousness is called for, but make sure that you still know how to laugh—and make sure your husband knows that you can still laugh, too. In order to keep your sense of humor alive in your marriage, you can:
Develop inside jokes
Go to a live comedy show
Rent a funny movie
Let go of your inhibitions and act goofy or silly sometimes
2-8. Demonstrate your attraction to your husband.
Show him that you still find him attractive. He will be more attracted to you in turn. There is nothing more attractive than being seen by others as attractive. In order to show your husband how attractive he is, you can:
Tell your husband how much you love him
Flirt with him
Make eye contact
Compliment his appearance and personality
Initiate sex
2-9. Be supportive.
Pay attention to your husband's needs and desires. Give him emotional and physical support when he's feeling low, even if he isn't honest about needing that support. Make sure your husband can feel love emanating from you through the sort of treatment you give him.
Take an interest in his interests. You don't need to force yourself to love everything he feels passionately about, but encourage him to talk to you about his passions by being an active listener.
Do something special for him every once in a while. Plan a surprise party on his birthday or cook his favorite meal. Offer to pack him a lunch or give him a shoulder massage after an especially long, tiresome day at work.
Show sympathy if he is having a hard time.
2-10. Don't play games.
You might be tempted to think that making your husband jealous will cause him to come rushing to your side. However, this sort of thinking backfires more often than not. Attract your husband with your honesty and care, not with dangerous games.
2-11. Resolve conflicts quickly.
Don't let problems in your marriage fester. Talk through your conflicts and problems in order to clear the air. If your husband seems distant or withdrawn, sit down with him and talk about what the problem is. Once everything is brought out into the open, the two of you can figure out how to make things better together.
Understand that problems in your marriage might have nothing to do with you. If your husband no longer finds you attractive, there could be a medical problem behind it, or there can be something going on with him psychologically, spiritually, or emotionally that you have no control over.
3. Adding Excitement to Your Marriage
3-1. Resolve to share exciting experiences with your husband.
Studies show that marriages are more satisfying when couples do exciting, stimulating activities with one another. Experiencing new activities, foods, places, and ideas can help reinforce the marriage bond. Some good ideas to add excitement to a relationship include:
Watching a scary or exciting movie
Joining a sports team or athletic club
Going somewhere new
Taking a hike in nature
3-2. Integrate touch into your day.
Positive touch is essential to maintaining a connection with your partner. Make sure this positive, intimate touch is routine throughout your day--not just during sex. Find ways to initiate sensual touching in your daily life. For example, you can:
Rub your husband's neck as he cooks dinner
Stroke his hair while you watch a movie together
Hold hands while you take a walk
Give him frequent pecks on the cheek
Offer to give him a backrub when he's feeling sore
3-3. Indulge each other's sexual fantasies.
Make sure your sex life doesn't remain rote or routine. Ask your husband about his sexual desires, and tell him about yours. Support one another in bringing your sexual desires to life. Even if you might not have kinks to share, you can still add spice to your marriage by shaking things up in the bedroom:
Try a new sexual position
Rent a hotel room and order room service
Hire a babysitter to watch the kids overnight so you don't have to worry about being interrupted
Massage one another
Wear new lingerie
3-4. Focus on quality, not quantity, of sex.
It is normal for the frequency of sex in a marriage to decrease over time, especially if you have kids. However, you still have to focus on your sex life in order to keep your attraction strong. Tell yourself that it is better to have good, mutually pleasurable sex than it is to have a lot of bad sex.
3-5. Kiss at least 10 seconds per day.
Kissing releases endorphins and allows couples to reinforce their bonds of attraction. Be sure that you take the time to kiss your husband for at least 10 seconds per day. You will feel closer, more satisfied, and happier with one another.
Tips
Working consciously on attraction in your marriage is important. However, it shouldn't be a higher priority than your own feelings and well-being. Don't let go of your own needs in order to please your spouse.
Understand that marriages will have many highs and lows over the years. Increasing responsibilities over time--especially children and careers--can take a toll on a marriage. Tell yourself that this is normal and will get better over time.
Focus on the physical and emotional components of attraction. Remember to make sure that your marriage is one that is rooted in respect and care as well as physical attraction.
Warnings
A diminished sex drive can be the result of a medical condition such as depression, fatigue, low blood pressure, diabetes, or substance abuse.[25]
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Research source
If your husband's libido is abnormally low, encourage him to see a doctor or therapist.
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Look for comfortable, natural fabrics that are easy to care for such as cotton, wool, and silk: this will help you keep your clothes in great shape.\\nIf you struggle to find clothes that fit, consider finding a store that specializes in your body type. The clerks should be able to guide you to well-fitting clothes that suit your tastes.\\n1-3. Wear red.\\nMen tend to be more attracted to women wearing red than women who wear other colors. Red evokes passionate feelings and emotions, so buy some special red clothing, undergarments, and lingerie if you want to make an impression.\\n1-4. Stay moderately fit.\\nAge does not do the human body any favors. You don't need to be supermodel skinny or have a six-pack to look attractive to your husband, however. Simply manage your weight through a nutritious diet and moderate exercise to keep yourself healthy and in shape.\\nMaintaining a healthy and moderately fit physical appearance will also help you feel more self-confident. Self-confidence is often an attractive quality.\\nA little will usually go a long way. Take a brisk walk 20 minutes each day. Cut back on portion sizes and high-calorie foods.\\n1-5. Have good posture.\\nGood posture makes your body look its best and inspires feelings of attraction in others.Stand up straight, sit up straight, and resist the urge to slump or slouch. Keep your head up and your shoulders back in order to appear your best.\\n1-6. Buy with him in mind.\\nOnce in a while, buy some sexy lingerie or a similarly sultry piece of clothing. Show it to your husband and let him know that you made the purchase with him in mind. You can also consider purchasing something eye-catching in his favorite color.\\nThe way you deliver the message can have just as big an impact as the message itself. For example, casually slip your newest piece of lingerie into his hand, then silently walk away with a slight sway in your hips. Your body language can convey more meaning than the words alone would.\\n1-7. Give yourself a mini makeover.\\nYou don't need to completely transform your appearance: changing even one quality in a subtle way can be enough to catch your husband's eye again. Consider getting a new hairstyle, adding highlights to your hair, or treating yourself to a day at the spa to give your skin a new glow. If you don't want the expense or permanency of a bigger change, try something as simple as buying a new shade of lipstick or eye makeup.\\n1-8. Smile.\\nSmiling is one of the most significant acts you can do to catch a man's eye when you're single, so it's little wonder that smiling at your man once you've married him will move him in the same way. Looking friendly, pleasant, and happy are keys to making your husband feel attracted to you.\\n2. Cultivating an Attractive Personality\\n2-1. Project self-confidence.\\nIf you don't love yourself, your lack of confidence and self-esteem may bleed into the interactions you have with your husband. Confidence is an attractive quality, and conversely, a lack of confidence can make you seem unattractive. Tell yourself that you are sexy, attractive, and interesting. Focus on your favorite qualities about yourself, and remember that your husband fell in love with you for a good reason.\\nSpeaking confidently and having a confident, upright posture will help you demonstrate your self-esteem.\\nIf you are unable to remove the negative thoughts you have about yourself, consider taking up practices like meditation or therapy for a little extra help.\\n2-2. Be your own person.\\nBeing able to care for yourself emotionally can help you maintain a more positive attitude. If you depend on your husband completely, you are more likely to feel critical when your husband fails to make you feel better. This criticism could push him further away. In order to work on being your own person, you can:\\nSpend time with your close friends and family\\nWork on a hobby\\nTake a class in something you are interested in\\n2-3. Stay connected.\\nDon't take your husband for granted. Value the time you spend together, and seek out quality time with him. Schedule dates or other ways to check in throughout the day. Talk to one another on the phone, Skype, or text at least once a day in order to display that he is in your thoughts.\\n2-4. Get help with chores when you're stressed out.\\nIt can be hard to focus on a marriage when you have kids, careers, homes, and other responsibilities. Be sure that you don't have too much on your plate if you want to concentrate on attracting your husband. If you find the stress building up, find someone who can help share the load. This will also help reduce the likelihood of nagging, which is a buzzkill. You could:\\nAsk your husband to do more chores\\nAsk a friend to help you out around the house\\nHire a babysitter to give you some relief\\nUse a cleaning service to take care of chores at home\\n2-5. Ask your husband questions about himself.\\nRemaining curious about your husband is key to revitalizing your marriage. Don't act like he is predictable or boring: tell yourself there is always more to learn about him. Ask him to talk about his life, emotions, and experiences in order to grow your relationship and your attraction to one another.\\n2-6. Talk about your feelings.\\nDon't keep your emotions a secret from your husband. Tell him what you are thinking and feeling. Don't be ashamed if you need extra support. Be honest and tell yourself that sharing your emotions is key to growing and developing a marriage rooted in mutual attraction.\\n2-7. Laugh together.\\nAs you grow older, you might start treating life with a greater degree of seriousness than you did as a young newlywed. 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Make sure your husband can feel love emanating from you through the sort of treatment you give him.\\nTake an interest in his interests. You don't need to force yourself to love everything he feels passionately about, but encourage him to talk to you about his passions by being an active listener.\\nDo something special for him every once in a while. Plan a surprise party on his birthday or cook his favorite meal. Offer to pack him a lunch or give him a shoulder massage after an especially long, tiresome day at work.\\nShow sympathy if he is having a hard time.\\n2-10. Don't play games.\\nYou might be tempted to think that making your husband jealous will cause him to come rushing to your side. However, this sort of thinking backfires more often than not. Attract your husband with your honesty and care, not with dangerous games.\\n2-11. Resolve conflicts quickly.\\nDon't let problems in your marriage fester. Talk through your conflicts and problems in order to clear the air. If your husband seems distant or withdrawn, sit down with him and talk about what the problem is. Once everything is brought out into the open, the two of you can figure out how to make things better together.\\nUnderstand that problems in your marriage might have nothing to do with you. If your husband no longer finds you attractive, there could be a medical problem behind it, or there can be something going on with him psychologically, spiritually, or emotionally that you have no control over.\\n3. Adding Excitement to Your Marriage\\n3-1. Resolve to share exciting experiences with your husband.\\nStudies show that marriages are more satisfying when couples do exciting, stimulating activities with one another. Experiencing new activities, foods, places, and ideas can help reinforce the marriage bond. Some good ideas to add excitement to a relationship include:\\nWatching a scary or exciting movie\\nJoining a sports team or athletic club\\nGoing somewhere new\\nTaking a hike in nature\\n3-2. Integrate touch into your day.\\nPositive touch is essential to maintaining a connection with your partner. Make sure this positive, intimate touch is routine throughout your day--not just during sex. Find ways to initiate sensual touching in your daily life. For example, you can:\\nRub your husband's neck as he cooks dinner\\nStroke his hair while you watch a movie together\\nHold hands while you take a walk\\nGive him frequent pecks on the cheek\\nOffer to give him a backrub when he's feeling sore\\n3-3. Indulge each other's sexual fantasies.\\nMake sure your sex life doesn't remain rote or routine. Ask your husband about his sexual desires, and tell him about yours. Support one another in bringing your sexual desires to life. Even if you might not have kinks to share, you can still add spice to your marriage by shaking things up in the bedroom:\\nTry a new sexual position\\nRent a hotel room and order room service\\nHire a babysitter to watch the kids overnight so you don't have to worry about being interrupted\\nMassage one another\\nWear new lingerie\\n3-4. Focus on quality, not quantity, of sex.\\nIt is normal for the frequency of sex in a marriage to decrease over time, especially if you have kids. However, you still have to focus on your sex life in order to keep your attraction strong. Tell yourself that it is better to have good, mutually pleasurable sex than it is to have a lot of bad sex.\\n3-5. Kiss at least 10 seconds per day.\\nKissing releases endorphins and allows couples to reinforce their bonds of attraction. Be sure that you take the time to kiss your husband for at least 10 seconds per day. You will feel closer, more satisfied, and happier with one another.\\nTips\\nWorking consciously on attraction in your marriage is important. However, it shouldn't be a higher priority than your own feelings and well-being. Don't let go of your own needs in order to please your spouse.\\nUnderstand that marriages will have many highs and lows over the years. Increasing responsibilities over time--especially children and careers--can take a toll on a marriage. Tell yourself that this is normal and will get better over time.\\nFocus on the physical and emotional components of attraction. Remember to make sure that your marriage is one that is rooted in respect and care as well as physical attraction.\\nWarnings\\nA diminished sex drive can be the result of a medical condition such as depression, fatigue, low blood pressure, diabetes, or substance abuse.[25]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\\n\\n\\n If your husband's libido is abnormally low, encourage him to see a doctor or therapist.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Attraction is an essential component of a marriage or long-term relationship. Marriages last longer and are more satisfying when spouses are attracted to one another. However, over the years it can be hard to prioritize attraction, especially when your other responsibilities increase. Pay attention to your physical self, develop your emotional self, and add excitement to your marriage in order to ensure that your husband remains attracted to you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Taking Care of Your Appearance\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Stay well-groomed.\", \"描述\": \"There are a lot of aspects of your appearance that you cannot control. Luckily, however, attraction is based more on those parts of your appearance that you can control. Staying neat, clean, and paying attention to your appearance will attract your husband more effectively than undertaking any drastic makeovers. Be sure that you:\\n\\nBrush your teeth twice a day\\nShower regularly\\nShave or trim as appropriate\\nKeep your hair combed and neat\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Buy nice clothes that fit.\", \"描述\": \"You shouldn't have to change your style to please your husband. However, having clean clothes that fit your body are key to seeming attractive. It also helps to wear clothes that are a bit more formal, so avoid sweatpants or ripped jeans. Look for comfortable, natural fabrics that are easy to care for such as cotton, wool, and silk: this will help you keep your clothes in great shape.\\nIf you struggle to find clothes that fit, consider finding a store that specializes in your body type. The clerks should be able to guide you to well-fitting clothes that suit your tastes.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Wear red.\", \"描述\": \"Men tend to be more attracted to women wearing red than women who wear other colors. Red evokes passionate feelings and emotions, so buy some special red clothing, undergarments, and lingerie if you want to make an impression.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stay moderately fit.\", \"描述\": \"Age does not do the human body any favors. You don't need to be supermodel skinny or have a six-pack to look attractive to your husband, however. Simply manage your weight through a nutritious diet and moderate exercise to keep yourself healthy and in shape.\\nMaintaining a healthy and moderately fit physical appearance will also help you feel more self-confident. Self-confidence is often an attractive quality.\\nA little will usually go a long way. Take a brisk walk 20 minutes each day. Cut back on portion sizes and high-calorie foods.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Have good posture.\", \"描述\": \"Good posture makes your body look its best and inspires feelings of attraction in others.Stand up straight, sit up straight, and resist the urge to slump or slouch. Keep your head up and your shoulders back in order to appear your best.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Buy with him in mind.\", \"描述\": \"Once in a while, buy some sexy lingerie or a similarly sultry piece of clothing. Show it to your husband and let him know that you made the purchase with him in mind. You can also consider purchasing something eye-catching in his favorite color.\\nThe way you deliver the message can have just as big an impact as the message itself. For example, casually slip your newest piece of lingerie into his hand, then silently walk away with a slight sway in your hips. Your body language can convey more meaning than the words alone would.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Give yourself a mini makeover.\", \"描述\": \"You don't need to completely transform your appearance: changing even one quality in a subtle way can be enough to catch your husband's eye again. Consider getting a new hairstyle, adding highlights to your hair, or treating yourself to a day at the spa to give your skin a new glow. If you don't want the expense or permanency of a bigger change, try something as simple as buying a new shade of lipstick or eye makeup.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Smile.\", \"描述\": \"Smiling is one of the most significant acts you can do to catch a man's eye when you're single, so it's little wonder that smiling at your man once you've married him will move him in the same way. Looking friendly, pleasant, and happy are keys to making your husband feel attracted to you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Cultivating an Attractive Personality\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Project self-confidence.\", \"描述\": \"If you don't love yourself, your lack of confidence and self-esteem may bleed into the interactions you have with your husband. Confidence is an attractive quality, and conversely, a lack of confidence can make you seem unattractive. Tell yourself that you are sexy, attractive, and interesting. Focus on your favorite qualities about yourself, and remember that your husband fell in love with you for a good reason.\\nSpeaking confidently and having a confident, upright posture will help you demonstrate your self-esteem.\\nIf you are unable to remove the negative thoughts you have about yourself, consider taking up practices like meditation or therapy for a little extra help.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be your own person.\", \"描述\": \"Being able to care for yourself emotionally can help you maintain a more positive attitude. If you depend on your husband completely, you are more likely to feel critical when your husband fails to make you feel better. This criticism could push him further away. In order to work on being your own person, you can:\\nSpend time with your close friends and family\\nWork on a hobby\\nTake a class in something you are interested in\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Stay connected.\", \"描述\": \"Don't take your husband for granted. Value the time you spend together, and seek out quality time with him. Schedule dates or other ways to check in throughout the day. Talk to one another on the phone, Skype, or text at least once a day in order to display that he is in your thoughts.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Get help with chores when you're stressed out.\", \"描述\": \"It can be hard to focus on a marriage when you have kids, careers, homes, and other responsibilities. Be sure that you don't have too much on your plate if you want to concentrate on attracting your husband. If you find the stress building up, find someone who can help share the load. This will also help reduce the likelihood of nagging, which is a buzzkill. You could:\\nAsk your husband to do more chores\\nAsk a friend to help you out around the house\\nHire a babysitter to give you some relief\\nUse a cleaning service to take care of chores at home\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Ask your husband questions about himself.\", \"描述\": \"Remaining curious about your husband is key to revitalizing your marriage. Don't act like he is predictable or boring: tell yourself there is always more to learn about him. Ask him to talk about his life, emotions, and experiences in order to grow your relationship and your attraction to one another.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Talk about your feelings.\", \"描述\": \"Don't keep your emotions a secret from your husband. Tell him what you are thinking and feeling. Don't be ashamed if you need extra support. Be honest and tell yourself that sharing your emotions is key to growing and developing a marriage rooted in mutual attraction.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Laugh together.\", \"描述\": \"As you grow older, you might start treating life with a greater degree of seriousness than you did as a young newlywed. Be serious when seriousness is called for, but make sure that you still know how to laugh—and make sure your husband knows that you can still laugh, too. In order to keep your sense of humor alive in your marriage, you can:\\nDevelop inside jokes\\nGo to a live comedy show\\nRent a funny movie\\nLet go of your inhibitions and act goofy or silly sometimes\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Demonstrate your attraction to your husband.\", \"描述\": \"Show him that you still find him attractive. He will be more attracted to you in turn. There is nothing more attractive than being seen by others as attractive. In order to show your husband how attractive he is, you can:\\nTell your husband how much you love him\\nFlirt with him\\nMake eye contact\\nCompliment his appearance and personality\\nInitiate sex\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Be supportive.\", \"描述\": \"Pay attention to your husband's needs and desires. Give him emotional and physical support when he's feeling low, even if he isn't honest about needing that support. Make sure your husband can feel love emanating from you through the sort of treatment you give him.\\nTake an interest in his interests. You don't need to force yourself to love everything he feels passionately about, but encourage him to talk to you about his passions by being an active listener.\\nDo something special for him every once in a while. Plan a surprise party on his birthday or cook his favorite meal. Offer to pack him a lunch or give him a shoulder massage after an especially long, tiresome day at work.\\nShow sympathy if he is having a hard time.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Don't play games.\", \"描述\": \"You might be tempted to think that making your husband jealous will cause him to come rushing to your side. However, this sort of thinking backfires more often than not. Attract your husband with your honesty and care, not with dangerous games.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Resolve conflicts quickly.\", \"描述\": \"Don't let problems in your marriage fester. Talk through your conflicts and problems in order to clear the air. If your husband seems distant or withdrawn, sit down with him and talk about what the problem is. Once everything is brought out into the open, the two of you can figure out how to make things better together.\\nUnderstand that problems in your marriage might have nothing to do with you. 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2,749 | How to Attract Your Older Brother's Friends | 1. Steps
1-1. Say hi.
When you see your brothers friends in the hallway, don't stare at them. If they're alone and you are the only two there, then you can smile or say "Hi_____", but don't be too forward or they will back off.
1-2. Chat
When you're at your house and they are over, with your brother there of course, make an excuse to go wherever they are and start a conversation. Boys actually like it when you confront them, and some find it attractive. Also don't just go over there and sit down and chat. Your brother will get annoyed, and know something is up. You could casually say something like "Hey guys, I'm gonna make myself a cup of coffee and just wanted to know if you would like some." If your brothers friends are into a sport then go to the games and "bump" into him. Don't be shy and make it awkward.
1-3. Sometimes your looks don't even matter to a guy; it's how you act and approach him.
Gain their interests, and don't just talk about yourself to them, . If it's one thing that almost all guys like loads is when they have attention. The shy guys usually need you to be open but don't get too pushy or involved in their business, it can come off as annoying.
1-4. Become an object of his desires.
You know that if you saw him in the hallway with another girl you would get jealous. Well reverse it. Don't try to make him jealous by flirting with another guy, but casually meet a boy and talk to him in front of your brothers friend. He will go nuts wanting to get the same attention. He will want you!
1-5. Find out what he is passionate about and use it to your advantage!
Don't like what he likes, unless you naturally do, but try to learn more about it. For example, he likes bowling. Next time you see him casually mention something about a bowling party. Who knows what he will say when he knows you like the same things as him.
1-6. Talk to your brother.
You don't want to go too far without his consent. But that doesn't mean you have to tell him that you like his friend, especially if you know he would get mad/angry.
1-7. Be Confident
You will definitely know if he comes over more and always is talking to you.
1-8. Present yourself well, Be healthy and clean your hair, brush teeth, clean nails, clean ears, eat healthy food, and remove acne.
Boys understand what its like to have some flaws, but don't be unhealthy about it. They will like you even more if That means stay active!
1-9. Always smile
Don't burp and be rude because you're not a guy.
1-10. Be yourself
Try to show him that you are good the way you are and that you're not going to change for him. Don't let him. If you want to get energized and change the way you look, or you want to change the way you do some things that's fine but don't do drugs, smoke, or drink just to get his attention or to be with him.
Tips
Don't hover or even Hoover around them all the time. They might get annoyed!
Joke with him! Guys love funny girls.
Be positive. If you feel good about yourself, they will notice and enjoy that you like company and yourself.
Warnings
Don't forget to be you and no one else. If it doesn't work out there are plenty other boys in this world and try not to make it awkward with your brother when you go out and break up. you wouldn't want him to lose a friendship just because of you.
Don't be bland. Don't not talk, or be boring. Bring up interesting conversations and try to keep it going. But don't force to talk about something. Guys hate it when girls make them do something they don't want to do.
Don't chew gum, especially fruity flavor, and pop it while talking. It comes off as cheap and immature, you want the guy to think you are mature for your age.
Don't annoy him all the time. Don't pretend to be stupid or show off or brag. That's being really disrespectful. And don't talk about other people with them either, word travels fast even in the boy world.
Don't look clumsy or lazy. Don't be waiting for him or them. When they are going out as a group and they are at your house, try to chill with them so you can go out with them. An invitation always opens up eventually.
Don't look dirty or gross when you are with him/them. It'll make them feel uncomfortable.
Don't be the girl to stalk them, or sit and wait for him. Take charge! and show him how amazing you are.
Don't do this unless you know your brother won't mind. If he does, you wouldn't like him liking yours best friends.
Don't be rude, disgusting, and icky.
Since there are older girls that might like them too, don't tell all your friends about your secret crush on your brother's friends. If you do, it might get around and some girls can either get jealous or upset, because maybe your brother's friends are your friend's brothers.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Steps\\n1-1. Say hi.\\nWhen you see your brothers friends in the hallway, don't stare at them. If they're alone and you are the only two there, then you can smile or say \\\"Hi_____\\\", but don't be too forward or they will back off.\\n1-2. Chat\\nWhen you're at your house and they are over, with your brother there of course, make an excuse to go wherever they are and start a conversation. Boys actually like it when you confront them, and some find it attractive. Also don't just go over there and sit down and chat. Your brother will get annoyed, and know something is up. You could casually say something like \\\"Hey guys, I'm gonna make myself a cup of coffee and just wanted to know if you would like some.\\\" If your brothers friends are into a sport then go to the games and \\\"bump\\\" into him. Don't be shy and make it awkward.\\n1-3. Sometimes your looks don't even matter to a guy; it's how you act and approach him.\\nGain their interests, and don't just talk about yourself to them, . If it's one thing that almost all guys like loads is when they have attention. The shy guys usually need you to be open but don't get too pushy or involved in their business, it can come off as annoying.\\n1-4. Become an object of his desires.\\nYou know that if you saw him in the hallway with another girl you would get jealous. Well reverse it. Don't try to make him jealous by flirting with another guy, but casually meet a boy and talk to him in front of your brothers friend. He will go nuts wanting to get the same attention. He will want you!\\n1-5. Find out what he is passionate about and use it to your advantage!\\nDon't like what he likes, unless you naturally do, but try to learn more about it. For example, he likes bowling. Next time you see him casually mention something about a bowling party. Who knows what he will say when he knows you like the same things as him.\\n1-6. Talk to your brother.\\nYou don't want to go too far without his consent. But that doesn't mean you have to tell him that you like his friend, especially if you know he would get mad/angry.\\n1-7. Be Confident\\nYou will definitely know if he comes over more and always is talking to you.\\n1-8. Present yourself well, Be healthy and clean your hair, brush teeth, clean nails, clean ears, eat healthy food, and remove acne.\\nBoys understand what its like to have some flaws, but don't be unhealthy about it. They will like you even more if That means stay active!\\n1-9. Always smile\\nDon't burp and be rude because you're not a guy.\\n1-10. Be yourself\\nTry to show him that you are good the way you are and that you're not going to change for him. Don't let him. If you want to get energized and change the way you look, or you want to change the way you do some things that's fine but don't do drugs, smoke, or drink just to get his attention or to be with him.\\nTips\\nDon't hover or even Hoover around them all the time. They might get annoyed!\\nJoke with him! Guys love funny girls.\\nBe positive. If you feel good about yourself, they will notice and enjoy that you like company and yourself.\\nWarnings\\nDon't forget to be you and no one else. If it doesn't work out there are plenty other boys in this world and try not to make it awkward with your brother when you go out and break up. you wouldn't want him to lose a friendship just because of you.\\nDon't be bland. Don't not talk, or be boring. Bring up interesting conversations and try to keep it going. But don't force to talk about something. Guys hate it when girls make them do something they don't want to do.\\nDon't chew gum, especially fruity flavor, and pop it while talking. It comes off as cheap and immature, you want the guy to think you are mature for your age.\\nDon't annoy him all the time. Don't pretend to be stupid or show off or brag. That's being really disrespectful. And don't talk about other people with them either, word travels fast even in the boy world.\\nDon't look clumsy or lazy. Don't be waiting for him or them. When they are going out as a group and they are at your house, try to chill with them so you can go out with them. An invitation always opens up eventually.\\nDon't look dirty or gross when you are with him/them. It'll make them feel uncomfortable.\\nDon't be the girl to stalk them, or sit and wait for him. Take charge! and show him how amazing you are.\\nDon't do this unless you know your brother won't mind. If he does, you wouldn't like him liking yours best friends.\\nDon't be rude, disgusting, and icky.\\nSince there are older girls that might like them too, don't tell all your friends about your secret crush on your brother's friends. If you do, it might get around and some girls can either get jealous or upset, because maybe your brother's friends are your friend's brothers.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Have you ever unexpectedly encountered your brother's friends? Have you ever caught one of them staring at you? Maybe one of them smiles at you and flashes a grin, getting you all excited? Maybe you have been out with your brother and his friends tag along, or you need a ride and his friends offer? Sick of hearing how your friends get all the boys? And they flirt like a pro? Well here is a guide to girls about how to attract/flirt with your older brothers friends, and maybe, just maybe, they will like you back!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Say hi.\", \"描述\": \"When you see your brothers friends in the hallway, don't stare at them. If they're alone and you are the only two there, then you can smile or say \\\"Hi_____\\\", but don't be too forward or they will back off.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Chat\", \"描述\": \"When you're at your house and they are over, with your brother there of course, make an excuse to go wherever they are and start a conversation. Boys actually like it when you confront them, and some find it attractive. Also don't just go over there and sit down and chat. Your brother will get annoyed, and know something is up. You could casually say something like \\\"Hey guys, I'm gonna make myself a cup of coffee and just wanted to know if you would like some.\\\" If your brothers friends are into a sport then go to the games and \\\"bump\\\" into him. Don't be shy and make it awkward.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Sometimes your looks don't even matter to a guy; it's how you act and approach him.\", \"描述\": \"Gain their interests, and don't just talk about yourself to them, . If it's one thing that almost all guys like loads is when they have attention. The shy guys usually need you to be open but don't get too pushy or involved in their business, it can come off as annoying.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Become an object of his desires.\", \"描述\": \"You know that if you saw him in the hallway with another girl you would get jealous. Well reverse it. Don't try to make him jealous by flirting with another guy, but casually meet a boy and talk to him in front of your brothers friend. He will go nuts wanting to get the same attention. He will want you!\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Find out what he is passionate about and use it to your advantage!\", \"描述\": \"Don't like what he likes, unless you naturally do, but try to learn more about it. For example, he likes bowling. Next time you see him casually mention something about a bowling party. Who knows what he will say when he knows you like the same things as him.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Talk to your brother.\", \"描述\": \"You don't want to go too far without his consent. 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2,750 | How to Attract a Bad Boy | 1. Catching His Eye
1-1. Make eye contact — and then break it.
If you want to get a bad boy's attention, then you have to show him just a tiny bit of interest before letting him see that you've got better things to do. Just look at him for two seconds — try looking down and looking up through your lashes for an extra sexy effect — and then turn away. Stare at him long enough to make an impression but not for so long that you look like you really care whether or not he likes you.
Bad boys like girls who want to give them a run for their money. They don't want girls who fawn all over them or give them their heart right away.
Once he notices you, turn away. That should give him enough incentive to pursue you. Of course, you can also take the initiative and pursue him first.
Bring up short, attention-provoking things to a guy and then walk away as if you are busy and have something else to do. For example, you can tell him that you saw him in your dream and leave him wondering what happened in the dream.
If you are in a group and he is there, do not engage too much in the conversation. Instead, stand there with a mysterious smile and let him wonder what is in your mind.
1-2. Stand out to him.
Bad boys don't go for the girls who blend in with the crowd. They go for the girls who don't quite fit in, who are worth a second look, and who don't try to look, act, or dress like everyone else. If you have a funky fashion sense, stick to it. If you have an unusual laugh, don't hide it. If you love sketching, playing the harmonica, or practicing karate, let him see what you love to do and don't be ashamed of it.
Bad boys want girls who know what they're about. If you look like everyone else and have nothing special going for you, then he won't be impressed. If you stand out, even if it means you're not like most girls, he'll be even more into you.
1-3. Don't be intimidated.
A lot of girls are intimidated by bad boys because they think they're too cool to give them a second of their time. If you want to attract one of them, the best thing you can do is to show them that you're not afraid of them at all. Think of it like coming face-to-face with a bear or a lion; the second you show fear, you'll be destroyed. If he comes up to you, don't back away and stand even taller instead. If he tries to interrupt you, then let him know you're not finished speaking and say what you have to say.
Bad boys are used to girls who bend at their will. If you stand up to him and let him see you as an equal, then he'll be truly impressed by you.
1-4. Do your own thing.
Bad boys don't like girls who do what everyone else is doing. Just because all of your friends are taking Art History, take The History of Motorcycles, if that's what you're into. If all of your friends love Taylor Swift, have pride in your love for The Stones or more indie bands like Bottomless Pit. If the crowd is lining up to see the latest Will Ferrell movie, go for the indie flick you've been meaning to catch instead.
Though you shouldn't be quirky or different just for the sake of being different, if there's something different that you would genuinely like to do, then you should go for it.
1-5. Ignore him a little bit.
Bad boys don't want girls who fawn all over them. Instead, they're looking for chicks who can take them or leave him. If you start talking to him and are clearly having a great conversation, you don't have to run up to him and give him a big hug the next time you see each other. Instead, give him a few minutes to come up to you and make him work for it. If he texts you or chats you, give it a few minutes before you get back to him. Let him see that you have better things to do than to wait for him to talk to you, and he'll want to talk to you even more.
Of course, you should be careful and make sure that you don't ignore him so much that he doesn't think you're interested. Find a balance between looking interested and making him work for it a bit.
You don't need to be rude to do this. If he comes up to you and says hello, you shouldn't ignore him, but if he walks by, you don't have to act like you've been waiting for him to come by and have been looking for him for hours.
1-6. Play hard to get.
Bad boys love it when girls play hard to get. If they feel like they can have you any time they want you, then they won't want to work for it. Instead, let him know you like him by flirting a bit or giving him a compliment or two, but don't put it all on the line. Let him reveal his feelings well before you do, and don't accept every invitation he gives you; make sure he asks you out at least a week in advance so he doesn't think your schedule is wide open and knows he has to work for your time and attention.
If he calls you, don't answer the phone on the first ring. In fact, give it an hour or two and call him back. If he texts you, wait at least half an hour to respond. You don't want him to feel like you're just sitting around waiting to hear from him.
1-7. Keep your friends out of it.
Bad boys hate girls who cling to their friends and care too much about what they think. If you want to start a relationship with a bad boy, then you shouldn't let your friends hang around too much until you get to know each other better. You should also avoid saying, “My friend thinks that…” when you talk about your relationship, or you'll make him feel that your friends are way too involved in your personal life. When it comes down to it, bad boys really want girls who think for themselves.
You should also avoid having your friends talk to the bad boy for you. If you really want to win him over, then you have to do the work yourself.
2. Keeping Him Hooked
2-1. Wow him with your confidence.
True bad boys don't want girls who they can boss around. They want girls who are confident enough to stand up to them and to believe in their relationship without questioning them every two seconds. If you want to keep your bad boy hooked, then you have to wow him with your confidence, showing him how happy you are with how you look, who you are, and what you do. Work on projecting a positive energy that shows that you're content with being yourself and don't need anybody for validation.
Focus on the positive and talk about the things that make you happy instead of complaining about things that aren't perfect.
Don't gossip about other girls or you'll look insecure. Instead, praise them and the bad boy will be impressed.
Avoid seeking validation. Don't act like you're only beautiful or smart or interesting if he says so.
2-2. Take charge.
To keep your bad boy interested, you should take charge of the relationship. Don't let him make all the calls, tell you where and when you'll be going on your date, or be the one who calls first all the time. Show him that you know what you want and that you won't go on a date last-minute because you've made other plans; don't let him take you to a bike show if you'd rather be out to dinner, and don't make him think that he has total control over you or he'll lose interest pretty fast.
You don't have to take charge with every situation or that may get tiring, but you should try to take charge at least as much as he does.
2-3. Be tough.
Bad boys want girls with a thick skin and they don't want to worry about whether or not they hurt your feelings every two seconds. Of course, if the bad boy is thoughtless or even verbally abusive, then you should ditch him ASAP, but if he treats you well, then you shouldn't second guess everything he says or does and be on the verge of tears if something doesn't go as planned. You can show him your softer side as you get to know each other, but it's good to work on keeping that skin nice and thick so the bad boy knows he can roll with you.
If you get upset every time he teases you or feel emotional if he's five minutes late, then you'll come off as a bit weak and insecure.
Learn to roll with the punches and only get upset when you have a legitimate reason to get upset. Of course, if he gets in the habit of being late all the time, then you should say something, but avoid getting prematurely upset or throwing a scene over something insignificant.
2-4. Challenge him.
Real bad boys want girls who give them a run for their money. You should show him that you're skilled and savvy and that you're not looking for a man to teach you how to do everything. While no relationship is great if you're constantly questioning your partner, if you keep him on his toes, he'll be even more interested in you. Don't get too comfortable with him and let him know that you want him to be dynamic and interesting and that you won't settle for less.
If he takes you to the pool hall, don't let him wrap his arms around you and show you how to play; instead, beat him at his own game.
If he cites a fact about Metallica that you just know is false, don't be afraid of calling him out on it instead of taking everything he says at face value.
2-5. Don't try to be a bad girl if you're not.
You may think that all bad boys only want bad girls, but in fact, a lot of them like girls who are more innocent-seeming, or who just like to do their own thing. If you'd already call yourself a bad girl, then keep doing what you're doing, but don't feel compelled to wear black leather or dark makeup, to smoke cigarettes, or to curse a lot if that's not really who you are. Bad boys are much more attracted to girls who are true to who they are than those who try to be someone they're not.
Most bad boys are just as attracted to good girls as they are to bad girls, so you shouldn't worry too much about changing your image. In fact, sometimes bad boys and bad girls can be too much alike to be compatible.
Bad boys have low tolerance for fakeness, and if you try to be someone other than who you are, then they'll be able to tell.
2-6. Avoid showing off.
If you're really cool and hip, then the bad boy will know it without you having to say so. Avoid talking about how much your bike costs, how you're best friends with the lead drummer of your favorite death metal band, or how you're the best tattoo artists in East Oakland. Instead, let him figure out how awesome you are for himself. If you brag too much, that'll be a sign that you're just trying too hard to prove yourself.
A true bad boy doesn't brag or show off, either. He doesn't like people who feel the need to talk themselves up too much.
3. Making it Last
3-1. Don't try to change him.
Most girls who date bad boys are convinced that they can change them. Though there are some exceptions to this rule, most of these girls end up disappointed when their favorite bad boy won't change his ways. If you want to really enjoy your relationship with your bad boy, then you shouldn't try to domesticate him and make him do things he doesn't want to do; instead, you should appreciate him for who he is instead of making him take yoga or spend an afternoon with your Aunt Mildred if that's not what he's into.
3-2. Have fun while it lasts.
If you're dating a bad boy, then chances are that you're not looking for marriage with him. Though some bad boys can change, if you want to enjoy your relationship with him, then you should work on being present in the moment and enjoying every moment you spend together in the now instead of worrying about what lies ahead. Have a great time hanging out with him, dining with him, drinking with him, riding his motorcycle, and letting your hair blow in the wind. If you want the relationship to last, then the best thing you can do is to focus on fun.
When you find yourself constantly worrying about where the relationship is going, you can have a talk with the bad boy about it, but you should know that this could discourage him.
Think of your relationship growing from week to week, instead of thinking about what you'll be doing in a year. If you want a guy with a clear future plan, then you should try going for some of those nice guys who are always asking you out at work.
3-3. Make sure he's not abusive.
There's a difference between being a bad boy and being abusive. If the guy you're with is either abusive to you verbally or physically, then it's time to remove yourself from the situation ASAP. No guy is worth the pain and suffering you'll have to face from abuse, even if he keeps promising that every time is the last and that he'll change his ways. Bad boys can be fun to date as long as they don't pose any harm to your well-being.
If you're being abused, talk to a close friend or family member and create a plan for leaving the situation as quickly and as safely as possible.
3-4. Don't let him boss you around.
If you want to enjoy your time with the bad boy, then you can't let him dictate every little thing you should do together. Though you may think he wants to be completely in control, you should give him a run for his money and show that you have ideas for where you should eat and where you should go over the weekend. Make sure you're both equally in control and don't let him tell you how to act, dress, or look; he'll like you much more if you stand up for yourself and prove yourself to be independent.
Most bad boys, if they're the harmless kind, like a girl with her own initiate and don't actually want to be in control all the time.
3-5. Don't put pressure on him.
If you want your relationship with the bad boy to last, then you can't put pressure on him to move in with you, meet all of your friends and family members, or marry you any time soon. Bad boys like to run free and to do their own thing, and as soon as you put the pressure on, he'll start to back off. Though it's natural to want the relationship to move forward, you should know that you're dealing with a bad boy and that he may be allergic to commitment.
Let him move at his own pace. If he wants to meet your friends or family members, then he'll ask to do it. You can casually mention meeting up with them to see if he wants to come, but you should avoid telling him that your friends or family members are dying to meet him, or he'll feel suffocated.
Don't compare the progression of your relationship to the progression of other relationships, either. Just because your best friend and your neighbor both got engaged this month doesn't mean that you two should do the same.
3-6. Don't be jealous or possessive.
If you want to make it work with the bad boy, then you can't keep tabs on him 24/7 to make sure he's been loyal to you. You've got to trust him to do his own thing because he has an independent spirit. If you text him every half hour, pop in on him unannounced, or just act insecure when he talks to other women, then he'll quickly get tired of your routine and will look for a woman who doesn't want to keep him on a tight leash.
Of course, if he's really flirtatious with other girls, then that's something you should have a talk about. If he's just having harmless interactions with girls and you're on his case, then his alarm bells will go off.
You have to be able to trust a man in every relationship. If he's legitimately suspiciously gone for hours, then you can ask him where he went, but if you freak out every time it takes him fifteen minutes to return your call, you'll be creating a fuss.
3-7. If it doesn't work, don't underestimate the nice guys.
Though you may think that you only want a bad boy in your life, in the end, you should know that there is a wealth of nice guys at your work or near your home that would love to get to know you. If you're looking for a level of commitment a bad boy won't give you, then you may have to look elsewhere to really get what you want. Instead of being skeptical of guys who actually want to get to know you without a chase, give the next guy a chance and see what happens. You may be pleasantly surprised.
Ask yourself what you're so afraid of when it comes to nice guys. Do you think they'll all be too boring, too sincere, too serious? Give one of them a chance and you may see that your expectations will change.
Tips
Some of them are purely in it for the sex, so don't be a doormat.[19]
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Remember, "they" aren't always the same, and often they have a background to why they might act the way they do, if they act cold too you understand they may have been hurt in the past. Whatever you do, do not push it, let them breathe.
Don't cling on to them as because it may scare them away, but don't try and be too hard to get or they may give up.
Warnings
They cause a little drama, but they love drama.
They can be a pain, but they will love you.
They can have a bad attitude sometimes. If you get in an argument with them then don't challenge them at that point, because that will be an argument that will never die! Just walk away and usually they apologize.
They live up to their title "bad boy", and it can cause some drama for you if he is a real troublemaker or a real G (gangster)
If he talks to you about other girls he might not see you in that way.
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Don't be intimidated.\\nA lot of girls are intimidated by bad boys because they think they're too cool to give them a second of their time. If you want to attract one of them, the best thing you can do is to show them that you're not afraid of them at all. Think of it like coming face-to-face with a bear or a lion; the second you show fear, you'll be destroyed. If he comes up to you, don't back away and stand even taller instead. If he tries to interrupt you, then let him know you're not finished speaking and say what you have to say.\\nBad boys are used to girls who bend at their will. If you stand up to him and let him see you as an equal, then he'll be truly impressed by you.\\n1-4. Do your own thing.\\nBad boys don't like girls who do what everyone else is doing. Just because all of your friends are taking Art History, take The History of Motorcycles, if that's what you're into. 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Let him see that you have better things to do than to wait for him to talk to you, and he'll want to talk to you even more.\\nOf course, you should be careful and make sure that you don't ignore him so much that he doesn't think you're interested. Find a balance between looking interested and making him work for it a bit.\\nYou don't need to be rude to do this. If he comes up to you and says hello, you shouldn't ignore him, but if he walks by, you don't have to act like you've been waiting for him to come by and have been looking for him for hours.\\n1-6. Play hard to get.\\nBad boys love it when girls play hard to get. If they feel like they can have you any time they want you, then they won't want to work for it. Instead, let him know you like him by flirting a bit or giving him a compliment or two, but don't put it all on the line. Let him reveal his feelings well before you do, and don't accept every invitation he gives you; make sure he asks you out at least a week in advance so he doesn't think your schedule is wide open and knows he has to work for your time and attention.\\nIf he calls you, don't answer the phone on the first ring. In fact, give it an hour or two and call him back. If he texts you, wait at least half an hour to respond. You don't want him to feel like you're just sitting around waiting to hear from him.\\n1-7. Keep your friends out of it.\\nBad boys hate girls who cling to their friends and care too much about what they think. If you want to start a relationship with a bad boy, then you shouldn't let your friends hang around too much until you get to know each other better. You should also avoid saying, “My friend thinks that…” when you talk about your relationship, or you'll make him feel that your friends are way too involved in your personal life. When it comes down to it, bad boys really want girls who think for themselves.\\nYou should also avoid having your friends talk to the bad boy for you. If you really want to win him over, then you have to do the work yourself.\\n2. Keeping Him Hooked\\n2-1. Wow him with your confidence.\\nTrue bad boys don't want girls who they can boss around. They want girls who are confident enough to stand up to them and to believe in their relationship without questioning them every two seconds. If you want to keep your bad boy hooked, then you have to wow him with your confidence, showing him how happy you are with how you look, who you are, and what you do. Work on projecting a positive energy that shows that you're content with being yourself and don't need anybody for validation.\\nFocus on the positive and talk about the things that make you happy instead of complaining about things that aren't perfect.\\nDon't gossip about other girls or you'll look insecure. Instead, praise them and the bad boy will be impressed.\\nAvoid seeking validation. Don't act like you're only beautiful or smart or interesting if he says so.\\n2-2. Take charge.\\nTo keep your bad boy interested, you should take charge of the relationship. Don't let him make all the calls, tell you where and when you'll be going on your date, or be the one who calls first all the time. Show him that you know what you want and that you won't go on a date last-minute because you've made other plans; don't let him take you to a bike show if you'd rather be out to dinner, and don't make him think that he has total control over you or he'll lose interest pretty fast.\\nYou don't have to take charge with every situation or that may get tiring, but you should try to take charge at least as much as he does.\\n2-3. Be tough.\\nBad boys want girls with a thick skin and they don't want to worry about whether or not they hurt your feelings every two seconds. Of course, if the bad boy is thoughtless or even verbally abusive, then you should ditch him ASAP, but if he treats you well, then you shouldn't second guess everything he says or does and be on the verge of tears if something doesn't go as planned. You can show him your softer side as you get to know each other, but it's good to work on keeping that skin nice and thick so the bad boy knows he can roll with you.\\nIf you get upset every time he teases you or feel emotional if he's five minutes late, then you'll come off as a bit weak and insecure.\\nLearn to roll with the punches and only get upset when you have a legitimate reason to get upset. Of course, if he gets in the habit of being late all the time, then you should say something, but avoid getting prematurely upset or throwing a scene over something insignificant.\\n2-4. Challenge him.\\nReal bad boys want girls who give them a run for their money. You should show him that you're skilled and savvy and that you're not looking for a man to teach you how to do everything. While no relationship is great if you're constantly questioning your partner, if you keep him on his toes, he'll be even more interested in you. Don't get too comfortable with him and let him know that you want him to be dynamic and interesting and that you won't settle for less.\\nIf he takes you to the pool hall, don't let him wrap his arms around you and show you how to play; instead, beat him at his own game.\\nIf he cites a fact about Metallica that you just know is false, don't be afraid of calling him out on it instead of taking everything he says at face value.\\n2-5. Don't try to be a bad girl if you're not.\\nYou may think that all bad boys only want bad girls, but in fact, a lot of them like girls who are more innocent-seeming, or who just like to do their own thing. If you'd already call yourself a bad girl, then keep doing what you're doing, but don't feel compelled to wear black leather or dark makeup, to smoke cigarettes, or to curse a lot if that's not really who you are. Bad boys are much more attracted to girls who are true to who they are than those who try to be someone they're not.\\nMost bad boys are just as attracted to good girls as they are to bad girls, so you shouldn't worry too much about changing your image. In fact, sometimes bad boys and bad girls can be too much alike to be compatible.\\nBad boys have low tolerance for fakeness, and if you try to be someone other than who you are, then they'll be able to tell.\\n2-6. Avoid showing off.\\nIf you're really cool and hip, then the bad boy will know it without you having to say so. Avoid talking about how much your bike costs, how you're best friends with the lead drummer of your favorite death metal band, or how you're the best tattoo artists in East Oakland. Instead, let him figure out how awesome you are for himself. If you brag too much, that'll be a sign that you're just trying too hard to prove yourself.\\nA true bad boy doesn't brag or show off, either. He doesn't like people who feel the need to talk themselves up too much.\\n3. Making it Last\\n3-1. Don't try to change him.\\nMost girls who date bad boys are convinced that they can change them. Though there are some exceptions to this rule, most of these girls end up disappointed when their favorite bad boy won't change his ways. If you want to really enjoy your relationship with your bad boy, then you shouldn't try to domesticate him and make him do things he doesn't want to do; instead, you should appreciate him for who he is instead of making him take yoga or spend an afternoon with your Aunt Mildred if that's not what he's into.\\n3-2. Have fun while it lasts.\\nIf you're dating a bad boy, then chances are that you're not looking for marriage with him. Though some bad boys can change, if you want to enjoy your relationship with him, then you should work on being present in the moment and enjoying every moment you spend together in the now instead of worrying about what lies ahead. Have a great time hanging out with him, dining with him, drinking with him, riding his motorcycle, and letting your hair blow in the wind. If you want the relationship to last, then the best thing you can do is to focus on fun.\\nWhen you find yourself constantly worrying about where the relationship is going, you can have a talk with the bad boy about it, but you should know that this could discourage him.\\nThink of your relationship growing from week to week, instead of thinking about what you'll be doing in a year. If you want a guy with a clear future plan, then you should try going for some of those nice guys who are always asking you out at work.\\n3-3. Make sure he's not abusive.\\nThere's a difference between being a bad boy and being abusive. If the guy you're with is either abusive to you verbally or physically, then it's time to remove yourself from the situation ASAP. No guy is worth the pain and suffering you'll have to face from abuse, even if he keeps promising that every time is the last and that he'll change his ways. Bad boys can be fun to date as long as they don't pose any harm to your well-being.\\nIf you're being abused, talk to a close friend or family member and create a plan for leaving the situation as quickly and as safely as possible.\\n3-4. Don't let him boss you around.\\nIf you want to enjoy your time with the bad boy, then you can't let him dictate every little thing you should do together. Though you may think he wants to be completely in control, you should give him a run for his money and show that you have ideas for where you should eat and where you should go over the weekend. Make sure you're both equally in control and don't let him tell you how to act, dress, or look; he'll like you much more if you stand up for yourself and prove yourself to be independent.\\nMost bad boys, if they're the harmless kind, like a girl with her own initiate and don't actually want to be in control all the time.\\n3-5. Don't put pressure on him.\\nIf you want your relationship with the bad boy to last, then you can't put pressure on him to move in with you, meet all of your friends and family members, or marry you any time soon. Bad boys like to run free and to do their own thing, and as soon as you put the pressure on, he'll start to back off. Though it's natural to want the relationship to move forward, you should know that you're dealing with a bad boy and that he may be allergic to commitment.\\nLet him move at his own pace. If he wants to meet your friends or family members, then he'll ask to do it. You can casually mention meeting up with them to see if he wants to come, but you should avoid telling him that your friends or family members are dying to meet him, or he'll feel suffocated.\\nDon't compare the progression of your relationship to the progression of other relationships, either. Just because your best friend and your neighbor both got engaged this month doesn't mean that you two should do the same.\\n3-6. Don't be jealous or possessive.\\nIf you want to make it work with the bad boy, then you can't keep tabs on him 24/7 to make sure he's been loyal to you. You've got to trust him to do his own thing because he has an independent spirit. If you text him every half hour, pop in on him unannounced, or just act insecure when he talks to other women, then he'll quickly get tired of your routine and will look for a woman who doesn't want to keep him on a tight leash.\\nOf course, if he's really flirtatious with other girls, then that's something you should have a talk about. If he's just having harmless interactions with girls and you're on his case, then his alarm bells will go off.\\nYou have to be able to trust a man in every relationship. If he's legitimately suspiciously gone for hours, then you can ask him where he went, but if you freak out every time it takes him fifteen minutes to return your call, you'll be creating a fuss.\\n3-7. If it doesn't work, don't underestimate the nice guys.\\nThough you may think that you only want a bad boy in your life, in the end, you should know that there is a wealth of nice guys at your work or near your home that would love to get to know you. If you're looking for a level of commitment a bad boy won't give you, then you may have to look elsewhere to really get what you want. Instead of being skeptical of guys who actually want to get to know you without a chase, give the next guy a chance and see what happens. You may be pleasantly surprised.\\nAsk yourself what you're so afraid of when it comes to nice guys. Do you think they'll all be too boring, too sincere, too serious? Give one of them a chance and you may see that your expectations will change.\\nTips\\nSome of them are purely in it for the sex, so don't be a doormat.[19]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nRemember, \\\"they\\\" aren't always the same, and often they have a background to why they might act the way they do, if they act cold too you understand they may have been hurt in the past. Whatever you do, do not push it, let them breathe.\\nDon't cling on to them as because it may scare them away, but don't try and be too hard to get or they may give up.\\nWarnings\\nThey cause a little drama, but they love drama.\\nThey can be a pain, but they will love you.\\nThey can have a bad attitude sometimes. If you get in an argument with them then don't challenge them at that point, because that will be an argument that will never die! Just walk away and usually they apologize.\\nThey live up to their title \\\"bad boy\\\", and it can cause some drama for you if he is a real troublemaker or a real G (gangster)\\nIf he talks to you about other girls he might not see you in that way.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Bad boys are known for their free spirit, edgy good looks, and irresistible charm. If you have your heart set on a bad boy, you're probably wondering what you can do to attract him and win him over. To help you out, we've compiled all of the best, proven strategies for winning a bad boy's heart, from flirting tips to ways to keep him hooked.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Catching His Eye\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make eye contact — and then break it.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to get a bad boy's attention, then you have to show him just a tiny bit of interest before letting him see that you've got better things to do. Just look at him for two seconds — try looking down and looking up through your lashes for an extra sexy effect — and then turn away. Stare at him long enough to make an impression but not for so long that you look like you really care whether or not he likes you.\\nBad boys like girls who want to give them a run for their money. They don't want girls who fawn all over them or give them their heart right away.\\nOnce he notices you, turn away. That should give him enough incentive to pursue you. Of course, you can also take the initiative and pursue him first.\\nBring up short, attention-provoking things to a guy and then walk away as if you are busy and have something else to do. For example, you can tell him that you saw him in your dream and leave him wondering what happened in the dream.\\nIf you are in a group and he is there, do not engage too much in the conversation. Instead, stand there with a mysterious smile and let him wonder what is in your mind.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Stand out to him.\", \"描述\": \"Bad boys don't go for the girls who blend in with the crowd. They go for the girls who don't quite fit in, who are worth a second look, and who don't try to look, act, or dress like everyone else. If you have a funky fashion sense, stick to it. If you have an unusual laugh, don't hide it. If you love sketching, playing the harmonica, or practicing karate, let him see what you love to do and don't be ashamed of it.\\nBad boys want girls who know what they're about. If you look like everyone else and have nothing special going for you, then he won't be impressed. If you stand out, even if it means you're not like most girls, he'll be even more into you.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Don't be intimidated.\", \"描述\": \"A lot of girls are intimidated by bad boys because they think they're too cool to give them a second of their time. If you want to attract one of them, the best thing you can do is to show them that you're not afraid of them at all. Think of it like coming face-to-face with a bear or a lion; the second you show fear, you'll be destroyed. If he comes up to you, don't back away and stand even taller instead. If he tries to interrupt you, then let him know you're not finished speaking and say what you have to say.\\nBad boys are used to girls who bend at their will. If you stand up to him and let him see you as an equal, then he'll be truly impressed by you.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Do your own thing.\", \"描述\": \"Bad boys don't like girls who do what everyone else is doing. Just because all of your friends are taking Art History, take The History of Motorcycles, if that's what you're into. If all of your friends love Taylor Swift, have pride in your love for The Stones or more indie bands like Bottomless Pit. If the crowd is lining up to see the latest Will Ferrell movie, go for the indie flick you've been meaning to catch instead.\\nThough you shouldn't be quirky or different just for the sake of being different, if there's something different that you would genuinely like to do, then you should go for it.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Ignore him a little bit.\", \"描述\": \"Bad boys don't want girls who fawn all over them. Instead, they're looking for chicks who can take them or leave him. If you start talking to him and are clearly having a great conversation, you don't have to run up to him and give him a big hug the next time you see each other. Instead, give him a few minutes to come up to you and make him work for it. If he texts you or chats you, give it a few minutes before you get back to him. Let him see that you have better things to do than to wait for him to talk to you, and he'll want to talk to you even more.\\nOf course, you should be careful and make sure that you don't ignore him so much that he doesn't think you're interested. Find a balance between looking interested and making him work for it a bit.\\nYou don't need to be rude to do this. If he comes up to you and says hello, you shouldn't ignore him, but if he walks by, you don't have to act like you've been waiting for him to come by and have been looking for him for hours.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Play hard to get.\", \"描述\": \"Bad boys love it when girls play hard to get. If they feel like they can have you any time they want you, then they won't want to work for it. Instead, let him know you like him by flirting a bit or giving him a compliment or two, but don't put it all on the line. Let him reveal his feelings well before you do, and don't accept every invitation he gives you; make sure he asks you out at least a week in advance so he doesn't think your schedule is wide open and knows he has to work for your time and attention.\\nIf he calls you, don't answer the phone on the first ring. In fact, give it an hour or two and call him back. If he texts you, wait at least half an hour to respond. You don't want him to feel like you're just sitting around waiting to hear from him.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Keep your friends out of it.\", \"描述\": \"Bad boys hate girls who cling to their friends and care too much about what they think. If you want to start a relationship with a bad boy, then you shouldn't let your friends hang around too much until you get to know each other better. You should also avoid saying, “My friend thinks that…” when you talk about your relationship, or you'll make him feel that your friends are way too involved in your personal life. When it comes down to it, bad boys really want girls who think for themselves.\\nYou should also avoid having your friends talk to the bad boy for you. If you really want to win him over, then you have to do the work yourself.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Keeping Him Hooked\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Wow him with your confidence.\", \"描述\": \"True bad boys don't want girls who they can boss around. They want girls who are confident enough to stand up to them and to believe in their relationship without questioning them every two seconds. If you want to keep your bad boy hooked, then you have to wow him with your confidence, showing him how happy you are with how you look, who you are, and what you do. Work on projecting a positive energy that shows that you're content with being yourself and don't need anybody for validation.\\nFocus on the positive and talk about the things that make you happy instead of complaining about things that aren't perfect.\\nDon't gossip about other girls or you'll look insecure. Instead, praise them and the bad boy will be impressed.\\nAvoid seeking validation. Don't act like you're only beautiful or smart or interesting if he says so.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Take charge.\", \"描述\": \"To keep your bad boy interested, you should take charge of the relationship. Don't let him make all the calls, tell you where and when you'll be going on your date, or be the one who calls first all the time. Show him that you know what you want and that you won't go on a date last-minute because you've made other plans; don't let him take you to a bike show if you'd rather be out to dinner, and don't make him think that he has total control over you or he'll lose interest pretty fast.\\nYou don't have to take charge with every situation or that may get tiring, but you should try to take charge at least as much as he does.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be tough.\", \"描述\": \"Bad boys want girls with a thick skin and they don't want to worry about whether or not they hurt your feelings every two seconds. Of course, if the bad boy is thoughtless or even verbally abusive, then you should ditch him ASAP, but if he treats you well, then you shouldn't second guess everything he says or does and be on the verge of tears if something doesn't go as planned. You can show him your softer side as you get to know each other, but it's good to work on keeping that skin nice and thick so the bad boy knows he can roll with you.\\nIf you get upset every time he teases you or feel emotional if he's five minutes late, then you'll come off as a bit weak and insecure.\\nLearn to roll with the punches and only get upset when you have a legitimate reason to get upset. Of course, if he gets in the habit of being late all the time, then you should say something, but avoid getting prematurely upset or throwing a scene over something insignificant.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Challenge him.\", \"描述\": \"Real bad boys want girls who give them a run for their money. You should show him that you're skilled and savvy and that you're not looking for a man to teach you how to do everything. While no relationship is great if you're constantly questioning your partner, if you keep him on his toes, he'll be even more interested in you. Don't get too comfortable with him and let him know that you want him to be dynamic and interesting and that you won't settle for less.\\nIf he takes you to the pool hall, don't let him wrap his arms around you and show you how to play; instead, beat him at his own game.\\nIf he cites a fact about Metallica that you just know is false, don't be afraid of calling him out on it instead of taking everything he says at face value.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Don't try to be a bad girl if you're not.\", \"描述\": \"You may think that all bad boys only want bad girls, but in fact, a lot of them like girls who are more innocent-seeming, or who just like to do their own thing. If you'd already call yourself a bad girl, then keep doing what you're doing, but don't feel compelled to wear black leather or dark makeup, to smoke cigarettes, or to curse a lot if that's not really who you are. Bad boys are much more attracted to girls who are true to who they are than those who try to be someone they're not.\\nMost bad boys are just as attracted to good girls as they are to bad girls, so you shouldn't worry too much about changing your image. In fact, sometimes bad boys and bad girls can be too much alike to be compatible.\\nBad boys have low tolerance for fakeness, and if you try to be someone other than who you are, then they'll be able to tell.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Avoid showing off.\", \"描述\": \"If you're really cool and hip, then the bad boy will know it without you having to say so. Avoid talking about how much your bike costs, how you're best friends with the lead drummer of your favorite death metal band, or how you're the best tattoo artists in East Oakland. Instead, let him figure out how awesome you are for himself. If you brag too much, that'll be a sign that you're just trying too hard to prove yourself.\\nA true bad boy doesn't brag or show off, either. He doesn't like people who feel the need to talk themselves up too much.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Making it Last\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Don't try to change him.\", \"描述\": \"Most girls who date bad boys are convinced that they can change them. Though there are some exceptions to this rule, most of these girls end up disappointed when their favorite bad boy won't change his ways. If you want to really enjoy your relationship with your bad boy, then you shouldn't try to domesticate him and make him do things he doesn't want to do; instead, you should appreciate him for who he is instead of making him take yoga or spend an afternoon with your Aunt Mildred if that's not what he's into.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Have fun while it lasts.\", \"描述\": \"If you're dating a bad boy, then chances are that you're not looking for marriage with him. Though some bad boys can change, if you want to enjoy your relationship with him, then you should work on being present in the moment and enjoying every moment you spend together in the now instead of worrying about what lies ahead. Have a great time hanging out with him, dining with him, drinking with him, riding his motorcycle, and letting your hair blow in the wind. If you want the relationship to last, then the best thing you can do is to focus on fun.\\nWhen you find yourself constantly worrying about where the relationship is going, you can have a talk with the bad boy about it, but you should know that this could discourage him.\\nThink of your relationship growing from week to week, instead of thinking about what you'll be doing in a year. If you want a guy with a clear future plan, then you should try going for some of those nice guys who are always asking you out at work.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make sure he's not abusive.\", \"描述\": \"There's a difference between being a bad boy and being abusive. If the guy you're with is either abusive to you verbally or physically, then it's time to remove yourself from the situation ASAP. No guy is worth the pain and suffering you'll have to face from abuse, even if he keeps promising that every time is the last and that he'll change his ways. Bad boys can be fun to date as long as they don't pose any harm to your well-being.\\nIf you're being abused, talk to a close friend or family member and create a plan for leaving the situation as quickly and as safely as possible.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Don't let him boss you around.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to enjoy your time with the bad boy, then you can't let him dictate every little thing you should do together. Though you may think he wants to be completely in control, you should give him a run for his money and show that you have ideas for where you should eat and where you should go over the weekend. Make sure you're both equally in control and don't let him tell you how to act, dress, or look; he'll like you much more if you stand up for yourself and prove yourself to be independent.\\nMost bad boys, if they're the harmless kind, like a girl with her own initiate and don't actually want to be in control all the time.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Don't put pressure on him.\", \"描述\": \"If you want your relationship with the bad boy to last, then you can't put pressure on him to move in with you, meet all of your friends and family members, or marry you any time soon. Bad boys like to run free and to do their own thing, and as soon as you put the pressure on, he'll start to back off. Though it's natural to want the relationship to move forward, you should know that you're dealing with a bad boy and that he may be allergic to commitment.\\nLet him move at his own pace. If he wants to meet your friends or family members, then he'll ask to do it. You can casually mention meeting up with them to see if he wants to come, but you should avoid telling him that your friends or family members are dying to meet him, or he'll feel suffocated.\\nDon't compare the progression of your relationship to the progression of other relationships, either. Just because your best friend and your neighbor both got engaged this month doesn't mean that you two should do the same.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Don't be jealous or possessive.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to make it work with the bad boy, then you can't keep tabs on him 24/7 to make sure he's been loyal to you. You've got to trust him to do his own thing because he has an independent spirit. If you text him every half hour, pop in on him unannounced, or just act insecure when he talks to other women, then he'll quickly get tired of your routine and will look for a woman who doesn't want to keep him on a tight leash.\\nOf course, if he's really flirtatious with other girls, then that's something you should have a talk about. If he's just having harmless interactions with girls and you're on his case, then his alarm bells will go off.\\nYou have to be able to trust a man in every relationship. If he's legitimately suspiciously gone for hours, then you can ask him where he went, but if you freak out every time it takes him fifteen minutes to return your call, you'll be creating a fuss.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"If it doesn't work, don't underestimate the nice guys.\", \"描述\": \"Though you may think that you only want a bad boy in your life, in the end, you should know that there is a wealth of nice guys at your work or near your home that would love to get to know you. 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2,751 | How to Attract a Boy | 1. Making Him Notice You
1-1. Primp yourself so that he is physically attracted to you.
Make sure to wear something that will catch his eye without being unnecessarily flashy. Studies show that men are especially attracted to women who wear red, and he’s sure to notice you from across the room.
Wear your signature scent around him. He’ll think of you whenever he catches a whiff of it elsewhere.
Show off your neck and shoulders, this represents femininity and vulnerability.
1-2. Be approachable.
If you’re out, make sure you’re never surrounded by more than two friends at a time, or he may be too intimidated to talk to you. He could also assume that you’re not interested and that he would be interrupting if he tried to approach you.
If you see that he’s noticing you, don’t be afraid to make eye contact. This will encourage him to approach you. A good rule of thumb is to hold his gaze for two seconds and be sure to smile.
Be aware that your facial expressions appear soft, rather than harsh or severe, especially if you think he's watching.
1-3. Be indifferent.
This doesn’t mean be rude to him, but showing that your attention is focused elsewhere, may make him more intrigued. Men aren’t typically attracted to women they perceive as desperate, and this will prove that you’re anything but.
Men love a challenge. The thought that you might be unimpressed by him will make him committed to wooing you.
If you're talking in a group of people, be sure to direct comments at the others just as often, if not more, than you do towards him.
1-4. Run into him on purpose.
Make sure to return to the place where you first met him, whether it's in the hallway at school, a cafe, or work. Remember that humans are creatures of habit, so chances are that if you saw him at noon at a park, he frequents that spot regularly and you're likely to see him there again.
Even if he doesn't notice you the first time, he's bound to realize that you keep running into each other.
1-5. Be natural and be yourself.
Men can sense if a woman is comfortable in her own skin rather than pretending to be someone she's not. Show him, and others around you, who you are and be bold about it. Candidly talk about your interests, habits, and what you're working to improve upon.
Men like imperfections, so you might as well embrace them too. Don't hide the fact that you bite your nails or are bad at math.
This doesn't mean offering up too much information right away, it's still beneficial to maintain a touch of mystery and leave him wanting more.
2. Interacting With Him
2-1. Be aware of your body language.
Carry yourself confidently and with your head up. He will be drawn to your self-assured attitude. When you interact, have open body language. This means leaning forward, facing him and nodding and keeping eye contact when he talks. This shows that you’re listening and interested in what he has to say.
Be sure to flash a smile periodically. This will show that you’re a happy positive person who is fun to be around.
A study shows that if you mimic someone’s gestures, their interest in you will increase. Make this a subtle action; it should only register with him subconsciously.
If his hands are resting on the table, try placing yours there as well.
2-2. Create an atmosphere for romance if at all possible.
Sunny, warm weather increases endorphins stimulating the body and making you happy. Hanging out together on a summer day will mean he’s sure to enjoy his time with you.
The darkness of movie theaters and restaurants can generate a romantic mood, as well.
2-3. Laugh, and look happy in general.
If he notices you laughing at something that he or someone else has said, you will portray that you’re carefree and fun. He’ll especially be intrigued if it’s his jokes that you’re laughing at.
This will make him feel confident and comfortable around you, meaning he’ll associate your presence with positive feelings.
Men are especially attracted to the sing-song laugh of women, that sounds similar to a musical scale. So don't get carried away with the volume of your laugh.
2-4. Amp up the chemistry and be playful.
Mischievously punch him in the arm or tousle his hair. Remember to never take yourself too seriously, especially if you don’t know him very well.
Be able to laugh at and make fun of yourself without being too self-deprecating.
Don’t be afraid to try new things because you might feel embarrassed. Show him your sense of adventure, even if it means making a fool of yourself.
If he suggests going on a roller coaster, but you're afraid of heights, show him that you can overcome your fear and be spontaneous.
2-5. Teach him something.
Men are attracted to women who display a passion and sense of motivation. He will assume that you are independent, which will make him more intrigued by you. He will also love that you’re multidimensional and want to get to know you more.
If you are good at drawing, suggest signing up for an art class together or teach him yourself how to draw. He’ll love seeing you in your element.
2-6. Find an excuse to talk to him.
Ask a question or for his opinion on something. If you're in school or working together, see if he'll help you with a project. He will feel masculine and competent that you turned to him for guidance.
You'll also come across as confident, because you're able to ask for help when you need it.
Make a comment about a current event or other topic that you both know about so the conversation is effortless. This is a good ice-breaker.
3. Asking Him Out
3-1. Ask him to dance.
Many guys find it refreshing when girls take charge. If you're out and notice him looking at you, but not making a move, take matters into your own hands. Be flirty and suggest you dance together. He'll admire your confidence and liveliness.
Try telling him that this is your favorite song to dance to, he might get the hint after that.
3-2. Ask him out in a way that he won't realize it's a date.
Include him in a daily activity. If you have to run errands or are staying in to watch a movie, casually ask if he wants to join.
There will be no pressure whatsoever, and he might not even realize that you technically were the one who asked him out.
Reach out to him at the last minute, rather than planning in advance. This will make it seem more spontaneous.
3-3. Include him in a group activity.
If you'd like to see more of him, invite him to a party or dance that your friends are all attending. This won't come off as too aggressive, but you'll still get a chance to get to know each other better.
If he is too shy to ask you out, a group activity might be more his style anyway. It keeps the pressure off him and you'll be able to spend time together in a relaxed setting.
He'll have a chance to see you interacting with the people you are most comfortable with, so your personality is sure to shine.
3-4. Suggest attending an event that focuses on your shared interests.
This will not only emphasize what you have in common, but give you a perfectly good reason to ask him out. You'll have plenty to talk about on the date, because the event itself centers around a passion point for each of you.
If you've talked about a band that you both listen to, suggest buying tickets to go together when they come to town.
If you know that he also enjoys horror films, see if he'd like to go see the new scary movie that's out this weekend.
3-5. Find out what his interests are and suggest an outing related to them.
He won't be able to refuse partaking in one of his favorite activities. Make sure you can at least carry a conversation about the particular topic. There's no need to pretend to be an expert, but he will be impressed that you are trying.
Let him know that you have an extra ticket to the game this weekend if he'd like to go.
Tell him you've been wanting to hit up the batting cages because you have a dreadful swing.
He'll be able to let loose and be himself around you.
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A good rule of thumb is to hold his gaze for two seconds and be sure to smile.\\nBe aware that your facial expressions appear soft, rather than harsh or severe, especially if you think he's watching.\\n1-3. Be indifferent.\\nThis doesn’t mean be rude to him, but showing that your attention is focused elsewhere, may make him more intrigued. Men aren’t typically attracted to women they perceive as desperate, and this will prove that you’re anything but.\\nMen love a challenge. The thought that you might be unimpressed by him will make him committed to wooing you.\\nIf you're talking in a group of people, be sure to direct comments at the others just as often, if not more, than you do towards him.\\n1-4. Run into him on purpose.\\nMake sure to return to the place where you first met him, whether it's in the hallway at school, a cafe, or work. Remember that humans are creatures of habit, so chances are that if you saw him at noon at a park, he frequents that spot regularly and you're likely to see him there again.\\nEven if he doesn't notice you the first time, he's bound to realize that you keep running into each other.\\n1-5. Be natural and be yourself.\\nMen can sense if a woman is comfortable in her own skin rather than pretending to be someone she's not. Show him, and others around you, who you are and be bold about it. Candidly talk about your interests, habits, and what you're working to improve upon.\\nMen like imperfections, so you might as well embrace them too. Don't hide the fact that you bite your nails or are bad at math.\\nThis doesn't mean offering up too much information right away, it's still beneficial to maintain a touch of mystery and leave him wanting more.\\n2. Interacting With Him\\n2-1. Be aware of your body language.\\nCarry yourself confidently and with your head up. He will be drawn to your self-assured attitude. When you interact, have open body language. This means leaning forward, facing him and nodding and keeping eye contact when he talks. This shows that you’re listening and interested in what he has to say.\\nBe sure to flash a smile periodically. This will show that you’re a happy positive person who is fun to be around.\\nA study shows that if you mimic someone’s gestures, their interest in you will increase. Make this a subtle action; it should only register with him subconsciously.\\nIf his hands are resting on the table, try placing yours there as well.\\n2-2. Create an atmosphere for romance if at all possible.\\nSunny, warm weather increases endorphins stimulating the body and making you happy. Hanging out together on a summer day will mean he’s sure to enjoy his time with you.\\nThe darkness of movie theaters and restaurants can generate a romantic mood, as well.\\n2-3. Laugh, and look happy in general.\\nIf he notices you laughing at something that he or someone else has said, you will portray that you’re carefree and fun. He’ll especially be intrigued if it’s his jokes that you’re laughing at.\\nThis will make him feel confident and comfortable around you, meaning he’ll associate your presence with positive feelings.\\nMen are especially attracted to the sing-song laugh of women, that sounds similar to a musical scale. So don't get carried away with the volume of your laugh.\\n2-4. Amp up the chemistry and be playful.\\nMischievously punch him in the arm or tousle his hair. Remember to never take yourself too seriously, especially if you don’t know him very well.\\nBe able to laugh at and make fun of yourself without being too self-deprecating.\\nDon’t be afraid to try new things because you might feel embarrassed. Show him your sense of adventure, even if it means making a fool of yourself.\\nIf he suggests going on a roller coaster, but you're afraid of heights, show him that you can overcome your fear and be spontaneous.\\n2-5. Teach him something.\\nMen are attracted to women who display a passion and sense of motivation. He will assume that you are independent, which will make him more intrigued by you. He will also love that you’re multidimensional and want to get to know you more.\\nIf you are good at drawing, suggest signing up for an art class together or teach him yourself how to draw. He’ll love seeing you in your element.\\n2-6. Find an excuse to talk to him.\\nAsk a question or for his opinion on something. If you're in school or working together, see if he'll help you with a project. He will feel masculine and competent that you turned to him for guidance.\\nYou'll also come across as confident, because you're able to ask for help when you need it.\\nMake a comment about a current event or other topic that you both know about so the conversation is effortless. This is a good ice-breaker.\\n3. Asking Him Out\\n3-1. Ask him to dance.\\nMany guys find it refreshing when girls take charge. If you're out and notice him looking at you, but not making a move, take matters into your own hands. Be flirty and suggest you dance together. He'll admire your confidence and liveliness.\\nTry telling him that this is your favorite song to dance to, he might get the hint after that.\\n3-2. Ask him out in a way that he won't realize it's a date.\\nInclude him in a daily activity. If you have to run errands or are staying in to watch a movie, casually ask if he wants to join.\\nThere will be no pressure whatsoever, and he might not even realize that you technically were the one who asked him out.\\nReach out to him at the last minute, rather than planning in advance. This will make it seem more spontaneous.\\n3-3. Include him in a group activity.\\nIf you'd like to see more of him, invite him to a party or dance that your friends are all attending. This won't come off as too aggressive, but you'll still get a chance to get to know each other better.\\nIf he is too shy to ask you out, a group activity might be more his style anyway. It keeps the pressure off him and you'll be able to spend time together in a relaxed setting.\\nHe'll have a chance to see you interacting with the people you are most comfortable with, so your personality is sure to shine.\\n3-4. Suggest attending an event that focuses on your shared interests.\\nThis will not only emphasize what you have in common, but give you a perfectly good reason to ask him out. You'll have plenty to talk about on the date, because the event itself centers around a passion point for each of you.\\nIf you've talked about a band that you both listen to, suggest buying tickets to go together when they come to town.\\nIf you know that he also enjoys horror films, see if he'd like to go see the new scary movie that's out this weekend.\\n3-5. Find out what his interests are and suggest an outing related to them.\\nHe won't be able to refuse partaking in one of his favorite activities. Make sure you can at least carry a conversation about the particular topic. There's no need to pretend to be an expert, but he will be impressed that you are trying.\\nLet him know that you have an extra ticket to the game this weekend if he'd like to go.\\nTell him you've been wanting to hit up the batting cages because you have a dreadful swing.\\nHe'll be able to let loose and be himself around you.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"When attracting a boy, it's important that you display an air of confidence and allure. You want to open up to him, without appearing too available. Making him notice you is one thing, but once you start to interact, you can reveal your personality in a way that intrigues him, making him want to get to know you even better. 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2,752 | How to Attract a Boy Who Ignores You | 1. Smile.
Flashing a smile helps him notice you from across the room.
Boys find you more attractive when you smile, so grab his attention by showing off your grin whenever he’s around. He’ll think you’re in a good mood and that you’re more approachable, so he may feel more interested coming up to talk to you.
2. Make eye contact with him.
Locking your eyes briefly shows that you’re interested.
Whether you’re across the room or see him walking by, try to look directly into his eyes, even if it’s just for a second. As you meet his gaze, give a small smile before looking away. Just a brief moment of eye contact could be enough to make him interested in you too.
Be careful not to stare at him so long that he gets uncomfortable. A quick glance is usually enough to convey that you want him to talk to you.
3. Raise your eyebrows toward him.
Show the boy you’ve noticed him with this quick gesture.
If you make eye contact from across the room, quickly raise your eyebrows for a split second before lowering them back down. Since the gesture is a form of recognition, the guy may try to figure out how he knows you and feel encouraged to come talk to you.
Some guys are nervous to approach someone if they don’t think they’re interested in them, so this lets him know you’re open to conversation.
4. Play with your hair or jewelry.
This tells him that you’re playful and open for a conversation.
Try twirling your hair around your finger, running your fingers through your hair, or gently caressing a necklace or bracelet. You’ll look fun and flirty to the guy, especially if you look in his direction while you do it.
5. Practice good posture.
Boost your confidence and attractiveness with this simple trick.
Keep your shoulders relaxed and look straight forward. Keep your back straight to help you seem more confident in how you look. The guy you’re crushing on may notice a slight change in how you look and be more willing to talk with you.
Be careful not to make yourself look closed off. Avoid crossing your arms and legs or leaning away from the person.
6. Wear something red.
Studies show that guys are more attracted to you in this bright color.
Look for a fun red top or accessory to add to your wardrobe so you can wear it around the boy you like. Since people associate warm and positive feelings, the guy you’re interested in might be more willing to reach out to you and ask you out.
You could also try putting on red lipstick to accentuate your lips.
7. Show a little skin.
Flaunting your neck and shoulders catches his eye and makes him want more.
Look for tops that are off-the-shoulder or have a lower neckline so you’re baring a little more skin. Things like body-slimming halters and tube tops work great too. If you’re a guy, try wearing clothes that show off your arms or a deeper V-neck. These confident and sexy looks discreetly make you more attractive to men without seeming like you’re desperate for their attention.
If you’re in school, make sure the clothes you’re wearing follow the dress code so you don’t get in trouble.
Try to draw attention to your neck dimple, which is the small indentation right above your collarbone, with a necklace.
8. Spray some perfume or cologne.
Choosing a unique scent helps him remember you whenever he smells it.
Find a subtle, good-smelling perfume or cologne to spritz on whenever you go out. Choose something that you haven’t smelled anyone else wearing since it’ll make you stand out better. Whenever the boy you like smells the perfume, it’ll remind him of you and make him more likely to talk to you.
Avoid scents that are strong or harsh since it could cause the guy to get a headache.
9. Brush against him.
A subtle touch lets a guy know you’re into him.
Try to make it seem like you weren’t trying to touch him on purpose. You could accidentally brush your hand against his leg as you walk by or accidentally bump into him on the way to class. Since you’ve made physical contact, you have a good excuse to chat with him.
Be careful that you aren’t too obvious when you bump into him, or else he may catch on and think you’re trying too hard.
10. Hang out with other people.
He’ll find you more attractive when surrounded by a group of friends.
When you’re around the guy that you like, try to be with at least 1 or 2 of your friends at the same time. It doesn’t matter if you’re hanging out with guys or girls. If the guy sees you in a small group, there’s a good chance they’ll be more attracted to you than if you were alone.
Once you get to know the guy a little better, you can break off from the group to spend time with him.
11. Ask him a question.
Break the ice with a fun question to get them talking.
Try to ask a question that’s about something you can both relate to. Keep it open-ended rather than asking a yes-or-no question to encourage the guy to talk to you even more. Whenever he answers, be sure to respond back with your thoughts too so he gets to know you better.
For example, if you run into a guy at a cafe, you can ask, “Excuse me, what’s your favorite drink to get here?”
As another example, if you’re at school, you may ask, “What did you think of that math test?”
12. Give him a compliment.
Saying something nice shows that you want to talk to them more.
Point out something small that you notice about his appearance and mention it to him. Even saying something quick in passing can make the guy feel better about himself and invite him to say something nice in return.
For example, you could say, “Oh I love that pin you’re wearing!” or “Those are really cool shoes.”
Try pairing your compliment with a question to keep talking. For example, you could say, “I really like that shirt. Where’d you get it?”
13. Try ignoring him.
Let him come after you if he doesn’t respond to your advances.
Sometimes, guys will act like they’re not interested if you’re chasing after them. Instead, do exactly what they’re doing to you. Whenever you pass by them, don’t look at or take notice of them. Before long, he may be the one chasing after you.
Ignoring them also helps you get some space from the guy and move on if things don’t work out.
Warnings
Avoid coming on too strong or acting desperate since it could turn him off even more.[16]
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Research source
If the guy still ignores you after everything, he just may not be into you. Remember you can’t control how he feels, so it may be best to move on and find someone new.[17]
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Raise your eyebrows toward him.\\nShow the boy you’ve noticed him with this quick gesture.\\nIf you make eye contact from across the room, quickly raise your eyebrows for a split second before lowering them back down. Since the gesture is a form of recognition, the guy may try to figure out how he knows you and feel encouraged to come talk to you.\\nSome guys are nervous to approach someone if they don’t think they’re interested in them, so this lets him know you’re open to conversation.\\n4. Play with your hair or jewelry.\\nThis tells him that you’re playful and open for a conversation.\\nTry twirling your hair around your finger, running your fingers through your hair, or gently caressing a necklace or bracelet. You’ll look fun and flirty to the guy, especially if you look in his direction while you do it.\\n5. Practice good posture.\\nBoost your confidence and attractiveness with this simple trick.\\nKeep your shoulders relaxed and look straight forward. Keep your back straight to help you seem more confident in how you look. The guy you’re crushing on may notice a slight change in how you look and be more willing to talk with you.\\nBe careful not to make yourself look closed off. Avoid crossing your arms and legs or leaning away from the person.\\n6. Wear something red.\\nStudies show that guys are more attracted to you in this bright color.\\nLook for a fun red top or accessory to add to your wardrobe so you can wear it around the boy you like. Since people associate warm and positive feelings, the guy you’re interested in might be more willing to reach out to you and ask you out.\\nYou could also try putting on red lipstick to accentuate your lips.\\n7. Show a little skin.\\nFlaunting your neck and shoulders catches his eye and makes him want more.\\nLook for tops that are off-the-shoulder or have a lower neckline so you’re baring a little more skin. Things like body-slimming halters and tube tops work great too. If you’re a guy, try wearing clothes that show off your arms or a deeper V-neck. These confident and sexy looks discreetly make you more attractive to men without seeming like you’re desperate for their attention.\\nIf you’re in school, make sure the clothes you’re wearing follow the dress code so you don’t get in trouble.\\nTry to draw attention to your neck dimple, which is the small indentation right above your collarbone, with a necklace.\\n8. Spray some perfume or cologne.\\nChoosing a unique scent helps him remember you whenever he smells it.\\nFind a subtle, good-smelling perfume or cologne to spritz on whenever you go out. Choose something that you haven’t smelled anyone else wearing since it’ll make you stand out better. Whenever the boy you like smells the perfume, it’ll remind him of you and make him more likely to talk to you.\\nAvoid scents that are strong or harsh since it could cause the guy to get a headache.\\n9. Brush against him.\\nA subtle touch lets a guy know you’re into him.\\nTry to make it seem like you weren’t trying to touch him on purpose. You could accidentally brush your hand against his leg as you walk by or accidentally bump into him on the way to class. Since you’ve made physical contact, you have a good excuse to chat with him.\\nBe careful that you aren’t too obvious when you bump into him, or else he may catch on and think you’re trying too hard.\\n10. Hang out with other people.\\nHe’ll find you more attractive when surrounded by a group of friends.\\nWhen you’re around the guy that you like, try to be with at least 1 or 2 of your friends at the same time. It doesn’t matter if you’re hanging out with guys or girls. If the guy sees you in a small group, there’s a good chance they’ll be more attracted to you than if you were alone.\\nOnce you get to know the guy a little better, you can break off from the group to spend time with him.\\n11. Ask him a question.\\nBreak the ice with a fun question to get them talking.\\nTry to ask a question that’s about something you can both relate to. Keep it open-ended rather than asking a yes-or-no question to encourage the guy to talk to you even more. Whenever he answers, be sure to respond back with your thoughts too so he gets to know you better.\\nFor example, if you run into a guy at a cafe, you can ask, “Excuse me, what’s your favorite drink to get here?”\\nAs another example, if you’re at school, you may ask, “What did you think of that math test?”\\n12. Give him a compliment.\\nSaying something nice shows that you want to talk to them more.\\nPoint out something small that you notice about his appearance and mention it to him. 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We’ll start with a few subtle ways to get his attention with your body language and move on to some other things to try out to break the ice!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Smile.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Flashing a smile helps him notice you from across the room.\", \"描述\": \"Boys find you more attractive when you smile, so grab his attention by showing off your grin whenever he’s around. He’ll think you’re in a good mood and that you’re more approachable, so he may feel more interested coming up to talk to you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make eye contact with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Locking your eyes briefly shows that you’re interested.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you’re across the room or see him walking by, try to look directly into his eyes, even if it’s just for a second. As you meet his gaze, give a small smile before looking away. 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Since the gesture is a form of recognition, the guy may try to figure out how he knows you and feel encouraged to come talk to you.\\nSome guys are nervous to approach someone if they don’t think they’re interested in them, so this lets him know you’re open to conversation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Play with your hair or jewelry.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This tells him that you’re playful and open for a conversation.\", \"描述\": \"Try twirling your hair around your finger, running your fingers through your hair, or gently caressing a necklace or bracelet. You’ll look fun and flirty to the guy, especially if you look in his direction while you do it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Practice good posture.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Boost your confidence and attractiveness with this simple trick.\", \"描述\": \"Keep your shoulders relaxed and look straight forward. Keep your back straight to help you seem more confident in how you look. The guy you’re crushing on may notice a slight change in how you look and be more willing to talk with you.\\nBe careful not to make yourself look closed off. Avoid crossing your arms and legs or leaning away from the person.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Wear something red.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Studies show that guys are more attracted to you in this bright color.\", \"描述\": \"Look for a fun red top or accessory to add to your wardrobe so you can wear it around the boy you like. Since people associate warm and positive feelings, the guy you’re interested in might be more willing to reach out to you and ask you out.\\nYou could also try putting on red lipstick to accentuate your lips.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Show a little skin.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Flaunting your neck and shoulders catches his eye and makes him want more.\", \"描述\": \"Look for tops that are off-the-shoulder or have a lower neckline so you’re baring a little more skin. Things like body-slimming halters and tube tops work great too. If you’re a guy, try wearing clothes that show off your arms or a deeper V-neck. These confident and sexy looks discreetly make you more attractive to men without seeming like you’re desperate for their attention.\\nIf you’re in school, make sure the clothes you’re wearing follow the dress code so you don’t get in trouble.\\nTry to draw attention to your neck dimple, which is the small indentation right above your collarbone, with a necklace.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Spray some perfume or cologne.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choosing a unique scent helps him remember you whenever he smells it.\", \"描述\": \"Find a subtle, good-smelling perfume or cologne to spritz on whenever you go out. Choose something that you haven’t smelled anyone else wearing since it’ll make you stand out better. Whenever the boy you like smells the perfume, it’ll remind him of you and make him more likely to talk to you.\\nAvoid scents that are strong or harsh since it could cause the guy to get a headache.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Brush against him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A subtle touch lets a guy know you’re into him.\", \"描述\": \"Try to make it seem like you weren’t trying to touch him on purpose. You could accidentally brush your hand against his leg as you walk by or accidentally bump into him on the way to class. Since you’ve made physical contact, you have a good excuse to chat with him.\\nBe careful that you aren’t too obvious when you bump into him, or else he may catch on and think you’re trying too hard.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Hang out with other people.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"He’ll find you more attractive when surrounded by a group of friends.\", \"描述\": \"When you’re around the guy that you like, try to be with at least 1 or 2 of your friends at the same time. It doesn’t matter if you’re hanging out with guys or girls. If the guy sees you in a small group, there’s a good chance they’ll be more attracted to you than if you were alone.\\nOnce you get to know the guy a little better, you can break off from the group to spend time with him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Ask him a question.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Break the ice with a fun question to get them talking.\", \"描述\": \"Try to ask a question that’s about something you can both relate to. 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2,753 | How to Attract a Cancer Man: Catching His Eye & Getting Him Like to You | 1. Be open and amiable towards him.
Cancers can be shy and unsure of themselves, so approach them first.
Even if he knows he likes you, your Cancer man might not make a move without reassurance. He may struggle with the possibility of rejection if he’s unsure of your feelings, so make sure you have an approachable and enthusiastic demeanor around him that clearly says, “I’m interested!”
Use your body language to convey interest. Lean in when he talks, smile, make frequent eye contact, and show interest in what he says.
Be persistent! Go out of your way to say hello and chat with him. Once he can see that your interest is real and lasting, he’ll develop his own attraction for you in return.
Don’t be aggressive. Be present in his life, but never push or pry your way inside his personal bubble, especially if he seems uncomfortable.
2. Get to know him as a friend first.
Cancer guys value friendship and find it easier to open up to friends.
The key to attracting a Cancer man is making him feel close to you emotionally, and one of the best ways to do that is to be his friend—and let that friendship naturally evolve into romance. Get to know him and his interests gradually. Let him open up to you over time and forge a strong emotional connection.
Friendship is important to a Cancer guy because it allows him to relax and be himself. Once he’s comfortable, it’ll be easier for him to start thinking of you romantically!
Don’t be bossy or domineering around him. For all their gentleness, Cancer guys like to take charge too. Be polite and considerate when you spend time with him.
3. Ask about his family often.
Traditional and devoted Cancer guys tend to have strong family values.
Out of all the zodiac signs, Cancer may be the most family-oriented. Odds are, your Cancer man has a lot of affection for his family, especially his mother, and he’ll be delighted if you show interest in them. Ask questions and take the time to learn about his family; it’ll strengthen your bond with him.
Talk about his family positively once you learn about them. For instance, if you've seen his mother and he shares some resemblance with her, mention it to him.
You could also compliment the relationship he has with his siblings or remark on how much you think his dad might enjoy this great new book you read.
Avoid insulting or talking negatively about his family and those he loves.
4. Emphasize your love of family.
Domestic Cancer men look for partners who share their values.
Since Cancer guys are so family-oriented, talk about your love for your current family—and mention any dreams you have about starting a family of your own, too. Cancer men tend to envision themselves having children one day, and his attraction to you will grow if your hopes and dreams line up with his.
Focus on the maternal side of your family. Talk about things you’ve learned from your mother or happy memories and fun times you’ve spent with her.
Apart from all the “mom” talk, share a few pleasant family memories from your childhood.
Show him that you’re a homebody too. Talk about where you live now and the kind of home you dream of someday; it’ll encourage him to share his hopes with you.
5. Be genuine.
Sincerity
Before you can get him to open up to you and establish an emotional bond, you’ll need to get your Cancer to trust you. The easiest way to do that is simply by being honest and sincere around him at all times. Cancer men are extremely intuitive; they can easily sense other people’s feelings and tell when they’re being truthful (or not).
Cancer is ruled by the Moon, which represents our deepest emotions and spiritual needs. This is why Cancer is so emotionally strong and intuitive!
6. Show kindness to everyone.
Caring Cancer guys are most interested in people with compassion.
He’s attracted to the person you are inside and your strength of character. Show him what a catch you are by being kind to everyone you meet (including him, of course). You can do this by supporting your friends, helping out your family, and performing random acts of kindness for strangers.
For example, you might help an elderly person cross the street or hold the door for someone who has their hands full.
If your friend needs an encouraging pep talk, or your brother needs a ride to school, be the first to offer. Look for simple but powerful ways to be kind in everyday life.
For Cancer guys, attraction is as much emotional and mental as it is physical. He’s not necessarily looking for sexy; Cancer men are compatible with sweet, compassionate, and trustworthy people.
7. Listen to him.
Emotional Cancers want to express themselves to receptive listeners.
You'll be even more attractive to your Cancer crush if you’re willing to really listen to everything he says. He needs to open up at his own pace and might do it slowly, but he’ll adore you if you’re there for him every step of the way. Actively listen when he confides in you to show him how much you care.
When he tells you about his feelings, validate them rather than dismissing him or telling him to get over it.
Make it a point to demonstrate that you've been actively listening to him every so often. For example, if he tells you about something he has going on at work in a few days, ask him how it went after the fact.
Remember important dates like his birthday, a family anniversary, or any other special days he mentions to you as well.
8. Be caring and supportive.
Cancer guys crave a partner who will match their nurturing nature.
Ask about his dreams and aspirations in life and encourage him to reach for the stars. Help him feel at ease by creating a safe space for him to express himself. As much as he loves taking care of his significant other, your Cancer man also wants to feel cared for, supported, and comforted as well.
Cancer guys can be moody at times, so try to make him smile or laugh when he’s down. He’ll adore someone who can help him find the bright side to any situation!
Show off your homemaking skills, too. Cook him a homemade meal every now and again (if you like to cook) to impress him, or invite him over to cook with you.
Try not to contradict him. If he’s in the wrong, tactfully and rationally correct him without getting emotional. Because he’s so reactive, he might lash out if he feels you’re being harsh.
9. Let him see your vulnerable side.
Your sensitive Cancer guy wants a partner he can be vulnerable with.
Because he’s so emotional, he’ll be most attracted to someone who is equally expressive and willing to open up to him. Share your feelings, hopes, fears, and deepest secrets with him as you grow closer. After all, he wants to connect with you emotionally—which means vulnerability is key.
Cancer guys love to feel needed and fulfill the role of a protector. By showing vulnerability, you can also show him how much you need (and want) him in your life, making him fall in love faster.
Since Cancer men tend to be a little insecure, the quickest way to establish a sense of security with your Cancer crush is to take initiative. Being vulnerable will encourage him to do the same!
10. Make romantic gestures for him.
Nothing warms Cancer’s heart like someone who makes him feel loved.
He might like to assume a traditionally male role, but he’s also fairly in touch with his emotions and craves love from his partner. Don’t be afraid to shower him with affection! Surprise him with treats and gifts, offer plenty of physical affection, and do small things to brighten his day. The more affection you give, the more he’ll offer in return.
You don’t have to get him anything big. Just do something thoughtful; you might prepare a candlelit evening with slow music, make his favorite snack, or open a bottle of wine for the two of you to share.
Offer sweet compliments about his appearance, skills, and the way he makes you feel. Compliments will make your Cancer man feel good about himself!
11. Show him you want a traditional relationship.
Cancers typically have old-fashioned values and don’t like flings.
Make it clear that you’re looking for true romance and a committed relationship, not something casual. Your traditional Cancer guy will likely find this reassuring—and will find himself far more attracted to someone kind, loyal, and modest rather than flashy and raunchy.
Similarly, rush to initiate intimacy, even if you’re pursuing a committed relationship. Cancer guys are sensual and thoughtful lovers, but jumping into bed too soon will put them outside their comfort zone.
12. Let him pursue you as the relationship develops.
Cancer guys are Cardinal signs who want to feel like they’re in charge.
Plus, since they have such traditional, old-fashioned values, Cancer guys often feel like it’s their job to do the wooing rather than be wooed. Allow him to set the pace and guide the relationship as it progresses, especially once he becomes more comfortable opening up to you.
Letting him lead will also build your Cancer’s confidence and help him lose some of that insecurity from the beginning of the relationship.
13. Be patient with him.
Cautious Cancer guys prefer to take relationships one step at a time.
Cancers tend to be protective of their emotions because they’re so sensitive inside. Thus, the only way to win his heart and get your Cancer man to open up is gradually and carefully—without pushing for more than he’s ready to give. Be clear that you’re willing to go slowly as the relationship develops.
Cancer is the sign of the crab, so picture him with a defensive shell around himself. He’ll emerge when he feels safe, but it’ll take time and trust for that to happen. Be patient, and you’ll get there!
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Get to know him as a friend first.\\nCancer guys value friendship and find it easier to open up to friends.\\nThe key to attracting a Cancer man is making him feel close to you emotionally, and one of the best ways to do that is to be his friend—and let that friendship naturally evolve into romance. Get to know him and his interests gradually. Let him open up to you over time and forge a strong emotional connection.\\nFriendship is important to a Cancer guy because it allows him to relax and be himself. Once he’s comfortable, it’ll be easier for him to start thinking of you romantically!\\nDon’t be bossy or domineering around him. For all their gentleness, Cancer guys like to take charge too. Be polite and considerate when you spend time with him.\\n3. Ask about his family often.\\nTraditional and devoted Cancer guys tend to have strong family values.\\nOut of all the zodiac signs, Cancer may be the most family-oriented. Odds are, your Cancer man has a lot of affection for his family, especially his mother, and he’ll be delighted if you show interest in them. Ask questions and take the time to learn about his family; it’ll strengthen your bond with him.\\nTalk about his family positively once you learn about them. For instance, if you've seen his mother and he shares some resemblance with her, mention it to him.\\nYou could also compliment the relationship he has with his siblings or remark on how much you think his dad might enjoy this great new book you read.\\nAvoid insulting or talking negatively about his family and those he loves.\\n4. Emphasize your love of family.\\nDomestic Cancer men look for partners who share their values.\\nSince Cancer guys are so family-oriented, talk about your love for your current family—and mention any dreams you have about starting a family of your own, too. Cancer men tend to envision themselves having children one day, and his attraction to you will grow if your hopes and dreams line up with his.\\nFocus on the maternal side of your family. Talk about things you’ve learned from your mother or happy memories and fun times you’ve spent with her.\\nApart from all the “mom” talk, share a few pleasant family memories from your childhood.\\nShow him that you’re a homebody too. Talk about where you live now and the kind of home you dream of someday; it’ll encourage him to share his hopes with you.\\n5. Be genuine.\\nSincerity\\nBefore you can get him to open up to you and establish an emotional bond, you’ll need to get your Cancer to trust you. The easiest way to do that is simply by being honest and sincere around him at all times. 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For example, if he tells you about something he has going on at work in a few days, ask him how it went after the fact.\\nRemember important dates like his birthday, a family anniversary, or any other special days he mentions to you as well.\\n8. Be caring and supportive.\\nCancer guys crave a partner who will match their nurturing nature.\\nAsk about his dreams and aspirations in life and encourage him to reach for the stars. Help him feel at ease by creating a safe space for him to express himself. As much as he loves taking care of his significant other, your Cancer man also wants to feel cared for, supported, and comforted as well.\\nCancer guys can be moody at times, so try to make him smile or laugh when he’s down. He’ll adore someone who can help him find the bright side to any situation!\\nShow off your homemaking skills, too. Cook him a homemade meal every now and again (if you like to cook) to impress him, or invite him over to cook with you.\\nTry not to contradict him. 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Make romantic gestures for him.\\nNothing warms Cancer’s heart like someone who makes him feel loved.\\nHe might like to assume a traditionally male role, but he’s also fairly in touch with his emotions and craves love from his partner. Don’t be afraid to shower him with affection! Surprise him with treats and gifts, offer plenty of physical affection, and do small things to brighten his day. The more affection you give, the more he’ll offer in return.\\nYou don’t have to get him anything big. Just do something thoughtful; you might prepare a candlelit evening with slow music, make his favorite snack, or open a bottle of wine for the two of you to share.\\nOffer sweet compliments about his appearance, skills, and the way he makes you feel. Compliments will make your Cancer man feel good about himself!\\n11. 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Once he’s comfortable, it’ll be easier for him to start thinking of you romantically!\\nDon’t be bossy or domineering around him. For all their gentleness, Cancer guys like to take charge too. Be polite and considerate when you spend time with him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Ask about his family often.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Traditional and devoted Cancer guys tend to have strong family values.\", \"描述\": \"Out of all the zodiac signs, Cancer may be the most family-oriented. Odds are, your Cancer man has a lot of affection for his family, especially his mother, and he’ll be delighted if you show interest in them. Ask questions and take the time to learn about his family; it’ll strengthen your bond with him.\\nTalk about his family positively once you learn about them. For instance, if you've seen his mother and he shares some resemblance with her, mention it to him.\\nYou could also compliment the relationship he has with his siblings or remark on how much you think his dad might enjoy this great new book you read.\\nAvoid insulting or talking negatively about his family and those he loves.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Emphasize your love of family.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Domestic Cancer men look for partners who share their values.\", \"描述\": \"Since Cancer guys are so family-oriented, talk about your love for your current family—and mention any dreams you have about starting a family of your own, too. Cancer men tend to envision themselves having children one day, and his attraction to you will grow if your hopes and dreams line up with his.\\nFocus on the maternal side of your family. Talk about things you’ve learned from your mother or happy memories and fun times you’ve spent with her.\\nApart from all the “mom” talk, share a few pleasant family memories from your childhood.\\nShow him that you’re a homebody too. Talk about where you live now and the kind of home you dream of someday; it’ll encourage him to share his hopes with you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be genuine.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Sincerity\", \"描述\": \"Before you can get him to open up to you and establish an emotional bond, you’ll need to get your Cancer to trust you. The easiest way to do that is simply by being honest and sincere around him at all times. Cancer men are extremely intuitive; they can easily sense other people’s feelings and tell when they’re being truthful (or not).\\nCancer is ruled by the Moon, which represents our deepest emotions and spiritual needs. This is why Cancer is so emotionally strong and intuitive!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Show kindness to everyone.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Caring Cancer guys are most interested in people with compassion.\", \"描述\": \"He’s attracted to the person you are inside and your strength of character. Show him what a catch you are by being kind to everyone you meet (including him, of course). You can do this by supporting your friends, helping out your family, and performing random acts of kindness for strangers.\\nFor example, you might help an elderly person cross the street or hold the door for someone who has their hands full.\\nIf your friend needs an encouraging pep talk, or your brother needs a ride to school, be the first to offer. Look for simple but powerful ways to be kind in everyday life.\\nFor Cancer guys, attraction is as much emotional and mental as it is physical. He’s not necessarily looking for sexy; Cancer men are compatible with sweet, compassionate, and trustworthy people.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Listen to him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Emotional Cancers want to express themselves to receptive listeners.\", \"描述\": \"You'll be even more attractive to your Cancer crush if you’re willing to really listen to everything he says. He needs to open up at his own pace and might do it slowly, but he’ll adore you if you’re there for him every step of the way. Actively listen when he confides in you to show him how much you care.\\nWhen he tells you about his feelings, validate them rather than dismissing him or telling him to get over it.\\nMake it a point to demonstrate that you've been actively listening to him every so often. For example, if he tells you about something he has going on at work in a few days, ask him how it went after the fact.\\nRemember important dates like his birthday, a family anniversary, or any other special days he mentions to you as well.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Be caring and supportive.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cancer guys crave a partner who will match their nurturing nature.\", \"描述\": \"Ask about his dreams and aspirations in life and encourage him to reach for the stars. Help him feel at ease by creating a safe space for him to express himself. As much as he loves taking care of his significant other, your Cancer man also wants to feel cared for, supported, and comforted as well.\\nCancer guys can be moody at times, so try to make him smile or laugh when he’s down. He’ll adore someone who can help him find the bright side to any situation!\\nShow off your homemaking skills, too. Cook him a homemade meal every now and again (if you like to cook) to impress him, or invite him over to cook with you.\\nTry not to contradict him. If he’s in the wrong, tactfully and rationally correct him without getting emotional. Because he’s so reactive, he might lash out if he feels you’re being harsh.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Let him see your vulnerable side.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your sensitive Cancer guy wants a partner he can be vulnerable with.\", \"描述\": \"Because he’s so emotional, he’ll be most attracted to someone who is equally expressive and willing to open up to him. Share your feelings, hopes, fears, and deepest secrets with him as you grow closer. After all, he wants to connect with you emotionally—which means vulnerability is key.\\nCancer guys love to feel needed and fulfill the role of a protector. By showing vulnerability, you can also show him how much you need (and want) him in your life, making him fall in love faster.\\nSince Cancer men tend to be a little insecure, the quickest way to establish a sense of security with your Cancer crush is to take initiative. Being vulnerable will encourage him to do the same!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Make romantic gestures for him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Nothing warms Cancer’s heart like someone who makes him feel loved.\", \"描述\": \"He might like to assume a traditionally male role, but he’s also fairly in touch with his emotions and craves love from his partner. Don’t be afraid to shower him with affection! Surprise him with treats and gifts, offer plenty of physical affection, and do small things to brighten his day. The more affection you give, the more he’ll offer in return.\\nYou don’t have to get him anything big. Just do something thoughtful; you might prepare a candlelit evening with slow music, make his favorite snack, or open a bottle of wine for the two of you to share.\\nOffer sweet compliments about his appearance, skills, and the way he makes you feel. Compliments will make your Cancer man feel good about himself!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Show him you want a traditional relationship.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cancers typically have old-fashioned values and don’t like flings.\", \"描述\": \"Make it clear that you’re looking for true romance and a committed relationship, not something casual. Your traditional Cancer guy will likely find this reassuring—and will find himself far more attracted to someone kind, loyal, and modest rather than flashy and raunchy.\\nSimilarly, rush to initiate intimacy, even if you’re pursuing a committed relationship. Cancer guys are sensual and thoughtful lovers, but jumping into bed too soon will put them outside their comfort zone.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Let him pursue you as the relationship develops.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cancer guys are Cardinal signs who want to feel like they’re in charge.\", \"描述\": \"Plus, since they have such traditional, old-fashioned values, Cancer guys often feel like it’s their job to do the wooing rather than be wooed. Allow him to set the pace and guide the relationship as it progresses, especially once he becomes more comfortable opening up to you.\\nLetting him lead will also build your Cancer’s confidence and help him lose some of that insecurity from the beginning of the relationship.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Be patient with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cautious Cancer guys prefer to take relationships one step at a time.\", \"描述\": \"Cancers tend to be protective of their emotions because they’re so sensitive inside. Thus, the only way to win his heart and get your Cancer man to open up is gradually and carefully—without pushing for more than he’s ready to give. Be clear that you’re willing to go slowly as the relationship develops.\\nCancer is the sign of the crab, so picture him with a defensive shell around himself. He’ll emerge when he feels safe, but it’ll take time and trust for that to happen. Be patient, and you’ll get there!\"}]}]}}",
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2,754 | How to Attract a Cancer Man As a Scorpio Woman | 1. Be authentic about who you are.
There's no use trying to fake it with a Cancer—he can smell a lie a mile away.
The Cancer man places great value on honesty and sincerity. As a Scorpio woman, this shouldn't be any problem for you, since you demand honesty and don't care to lead people on.
At the same time, be aware that your tendency toward brutal honesty can sometimes wound the sensitive Cancer man. Be gentle with any criticism and package it with plenty of reassurance.
2. Be kind to those around you.
Cancerian men are naturally attracted to kind and nurturing souls.
When you're out with a Cancer man, treat those around you with grace and kindness, even when they're not necessarily kind to you. He'll notice and swoon.
For example, if you see someone struggling to carry several bags of groceries, you might dash over and offer to help them.
If you volunteer for the local animal shelter or regularly donate to a charity, it doesn't hurt to talk those up as well. A Cancer will appreciate all that you do to help others in need.
He'll appreciate having a partner who hows how to give as well as receive.
3. Keep your flirting subtle and laid-back.
This is your natural flirting style so you shouldn't have any problems.
Scorpio women are passionate, but they also tend to be pretty subtle about their attraction. This works quite well with Cancer guys as they pay attention to detail and won't let subtlety pass undetected.
For example, you might lean in closer to him and let your hand linger on his arm as you're chatting.
You don't have to be over-the-top or dramatic with a Cancer man. In fact, if you're too aggressive or obvious, you run the risk of pushing him away.
4. Ask his advice to make him feel needed.
The chivalrous Cancer man loves a "damsel in distress."
Guys under this sign love when you need their help. Even though you might feel like you have things under control, giving a Cancer man an opportunity to help you can coax him out of his shell and bring out his strong protective side.
Don't be afraid to go to him when you're in a tough situation. He'll be thrilled to help you out however he can.
Be sure to tell him how helpful he was and how grateful you are. Cancerians can be insecure, so let him know just how much you appreciate him!
5. Engage in deep conversations about your hopes and dreams.
Cancer men are eager to probe the depths of your psyche.
Your Cancerian wants to know you on a deeper level. This shouldn't be too tough for you, Scorpio, since you love to get to know people on a deeper level and have little tolerance for superficial relationships.
Talking about deep matters of philosophy, religion, beliefs, and life will help a Cancer man bond with you and feel that he understands who you are and what makes you tick. Feeling like he understands you helps keep his insecurities from surfacing and potentially getting the better of him.
6. Open up about your feelings.
Cancer is attracted to people who are just as emotional as he is.
The Cancer man is highly emotional and empathetic but has a tendency to keep those emotions bottled up. By revealing your own feelings, you encourage him to open up as well.
A Cancerian also tends to be a great listener, so he's the perfect person for you to spill your emotions, regardless of how illogical they seem. Your Cancer man will feel them right along with you and empathize wholeheartedly.
7. Allow yourself to be vulnerable around him.
Let down your guard to help your Cancer man feel secure.
As a Scorpio woman, you tend to be pretty tough and independent—traits that, unfortunately, can make a Cancer man feel anxious and unneeded. But there's nothing like a little vulnerability to bring out his strong protective streak.
For example, you might ask him to help you open a jar or reach something on a high shelf. Asking for help is an easy way to show vulnerability and a Cancer man will always leap to help!
Sharing your fears or anxieties is a good way to show him emotional vulnerability.
Expect the emotional and empathetic Cancer to envelop you with warmth and love when you're feeling vulnerable and exposed. By covering and protecting you, he'll feel loved and needed.
You don't have to share all of your vulnerabilities with him at once, though. Opening your heart isn't an all-or-nothing process—it's okay to do it slow, nuanced way.
8. Validate his feelings and affection for you.
A Cancer man can be insecure and requires near-constant validation.
Since, as a Scorpio woman, you tend to be direct and clear about your feelings, you should have no problem keeping your Cancerian's anxieties in check. Just remember to express your feelings openly and show him plenty of love.
For example, if he holds the door open for you, you might say, "Such a gentleman! I love that about you!"
As a Scorpio, your focus might be more sensual. Keep in mind Cancerians tend to need more emotional love.
9. Place value on family and tradition.
Respect for family is important to a Cancer man.
You can expect him to be just as loyal to his family as he potentially will be to you. Old habits die hard with the Cancer man. Don't be surprised if he does things a certain way simply because that's how his family has always done them.
As a Scorpio woman, you also tend to be deeply loyal, which a Cancer man will definitely appreciate.
You can't go wrong with an outing or date idea that has a nostalgic or sentimental bent. A Cancer man tends to enjoy vintage, so take him along thrift store shopping with you.
10. Show your feminine and nurturing side.
With his focus on tradition, he's attracted to feminine women.
This doesn't mean you're out of luck if you have a more alternative or non-traditional style, but a few delicate touches will make all the difference. So break out your heels and wear your favorite dress to turn the Cancer man's head.
If the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, the way to a Cancer man's heart is a home-cooked meal followed by an evening snuggled up on the couch together watching a movie or just talking about life.
11. Let him know you want a long-term relationship.
When it comes to romance, Cancer men are in it for the long haul.
With his focus on tradition and family this should come as no surprise, but a Cancer man isn't looking for a fling! This loving, protective man wants to build a deep emotional bond that will last.
As a Scorpio woman, this shouldn't present any problems for you, since you're not into dating around. The Cancer man will more than fulfill your need for an intense bond with your romantic and sexual partners.
Your relationship will be more successful if you both want the same things.
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He'll notice and swoon.\\nFor example, if you see someone struggling to carry several bags of groceries, you might dash over and offer to help them.\\nIf you volunteer for the local animal shelter or regularly donate to a charity, it doesn't hurt to talk those up as well. A Cancer will appreciate all that you do to help others in need.\\nHe'll appreciate having a partner who hows how to give as well as receive.\\n3. Keep your flirting subtle and laid-back.\\nThis is your natural flirting style so you shouldn't have any problems.\\nScorpio women are passionate, but they also tend to be pretty subtle about their attraction. This works quite well with Cancer guys as they pay attention to detail and won't let subtlety pass undetected.\\nFor example, you might lean in closer to him and let your hand linger on his arm as you're chatting.\\nYou don't have to be over-the-top or dramatic with a Cancer man. In fact, if you're too aggressive or obvious, you run the risk of pushing him away.\\n4. Ask his advice to make him feel needed.\\nThe chivalrous Cancer man loves a \\\"damsel in distress.\\\"\\nGuys under this sign love when you need their help. Even though you might feel like you have things under control, giving a Cancer man an opportunity to help you can coax him out of his shell and bring out his strong protective side.\\nDon't be afraid to go to him when you're in a tough situation. He'll be thrilled to help you out however he can.\\nBe sure to tell him how helpful he was and how grateful you are. Cancerians can be insecure, so let him know just how much you appreciate him!\\n5. Engage in deep conversations about your hopes and dreams.\\nCancer men are eager to probe the depths of your psyche.\\nYour Cancerian wants to know you on a deeper level. This shouldn't be too tough for you, Scorpio, since you love to get to know people on a deeper level and have little tolerance for superficial relationships.\\nTalking about deep matters of philosophy, religion, beliefs, and life will help a Cancer man bond with you and feel that he understands who you are and what makes you tick. Feeling like he understands you helps keep his insecurities from surfacing and potentially getting the better of him.\\n6. Open up about your feelings.\\nCancer is attracted to people who are just as emotional as he is.\\nThe Cancer man is highly emotional and empathetic but has a tendency to keep those emotions bottled up. By revealing your own feelings, you encourage him to open up as well.\\nA Cancerian also tends to be a great listener, so he's the perfect person for you to spill your emotions, regardless of how illogical they seem. Your Cancer man will feel them right along with you and empathize wholeheartedly.\\n7. Allow yourself to be vulnerable around him.\\nLet down your guard to help your Cancer man feel secure.\\nAs a Scorpio woman, you tend to be pretty tough and independent—traits that, unfortunately, can make a Cancer man feel anxious and unneeded. But there's nothing like a little vulnerability to bring out his strong protective streak.\\nFor example, you might ask him to help you open a jar or reach something on a high shelf. Asking for help is an easy way to show vulnerability and a Cancer man will always leap to help!\\nSharing your fears or anxieties is a good way to show him emotional vulnerability.\\nExpect the emotional and empathetic Cancer to envelop you with warmth and love when you're feeling vulnerable and exposed. By covering and protecting you, he'll feel loved and needed.\\nYou don't have to share all of your vulnerabilities with him at once, though. Opening your heart isn't an all-or-nothing process—it's okay to do it slow, nuanced way.\\n8. Validate his feelings and affection for you.\\nA Cancer man can be insecure and requires near-constant validation.\\nSince, as a Scorpio woman, you tend to be direct and clear about your feelings, you should have no problem keeping your Cancerian's anxieties in check. Just remember to express your feelings openly and show him plenty of love.\\nFor example, if he holds the door open for you, you might say, \\\"Such a gentleman! I love that about you!\\\"\\nAs a Scorpio, your focus might be more sensual. Keep in mind Cancerians tend to need more emotional love.\\n9. Place value on family and tradition.\\nRespect for family is important to a Cancer man.\\nYou can expect him to be just as loyal to his family as he potentially will be to you. Old habits die hard with the Cancer man. 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He'll notice and swoon.\\nFor example, if you see someone struggling to carry several bags of groceries, you might dash over and offer to help them.\\nIf you volunteer for the local animal shelter or regularly donate to a charity, it doesn't hurt to talk those up as well. A Cancer will appreciate all that you do to help others in need.\\nHe'll appreciate having a partner who hows how to give as well as receive.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Keep your flirting subtle and laid-back.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This is your natural flirting style so you shouldn't have any problems.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpio women are passionate, but they also tend to be pretty subtle about their attraction. This works quite well with Cancer guys as they pay attention to detail and won't let subtlety pass undetected.\\nFor example, you might lean in closer to him and let your hand linger on his arm as you're chatting.\\nYou don't have to be over-the-top or dramatic with a Cancer man. In fact, if you're too aggressive or obvious, you run the risk of pushing him away.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Ask his advice to make him feel needed.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The chivalrous Cancer man loves a \\\"damsel in distress.\\\"\", \"描述\": \"Guys under this sign love when you need their help. Even though you might feel like you have things under control, giving a Cancer man an opportunity to help you can coax him out of his shell and bring out his strong protective side.\\nDon't be afraid to go to him when you're in a tough situation. He'll be thrilled to help you out however he can.\\nBe sure to tell him how helpful he was and how grateful you are. Cancerians can be insecure, so let him know just how much you appreciate him!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Engage in deep conversations about your hopes and dreams.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cancer men are eager to probe the depths of your psyche.\", \"描述\": \"Your Cancerian wants to know you on a deeper level. This shouldn't be too tough for you, Scorpio, since you love to get to know people on a deeper level and have little tolerance for superficial relationships.\\nTalking about deep matters of philosophy, religion, beliefs, and life will help a Cancer man bond with you and feel that he understands who you are and what makes you tick. Feeling like he understands you helps keep his insecurities from surfacing and potentially getting the better of him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Open up about your feelings.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cancer is attracted to people who are just as emotional as he is.\", \"描述\": \"The Cancer man is highly emotional and empathetic but has a tendency to keep those emotions bottled up. By revealing your own feelings, you encourage him to open up as well.\\nA Cancerian also tends to be a great listener, so he's the perfect person for you to spill your emotions, regardless of how illogical they seem. 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2,755 | How to Attract a Cancer Woman | 1. Overcoming Her Shyness
1-1. Make the first move.
Take the initiative and introduce yourself to a Cancer woman. Try not to be overly aggressive by using intimate pickup lines or invading her space. Cancer women are naturally shy and are apt to be more open to a laid-back approach. Try to notice what she’s doing, and use that information to say hello.
For example, if you see her select a candy bar a the grocery store, you could say, “Is that one good? I’ve been meaning to try it. I’m Mark, by the way.”
If she’s not doing anything in particular, just start simple. Say, “Hi.” If she says hi back, ask her how her day is going.
1-2. Choose activity-based dates.
Take your Cancer woman to a movie, concert, or another date activity where she is not the sole focus of attention. Having something for both of you to focus on will keep her most comfortable. If conversation lags, comment on the activity at hand.
Avoid intense one-on-one dinner dates early on, which may feel like an interrogation to a shy Cancer.
1-3. Show vulnerability.
Reveal a little bit about yourself when she asks you questions rather than giving short answers. If there’s a suitable opportunity to talk about something that was a challenge for you, go for it. Your Cancer woman will appreciate your ability to open up.
For example, if she asks how you got into teaching, rather than simply saying, “I like it.” You could say, “I really want to make a difference for kids. My dad wasn’t always around growing up, and I had a teacher who made a really strong impression on me during that time.”
1-4. Be patient if she takes a while to open up.
Try not to be put off if a Cancer woman dodges your questions. Table the topic for now, and circle back to it when you know each other a bit better. Cancers are protective and naturally shy, especially about their families and close friends.
For example, if she says avoids a personal question, say, “No problem. I want to make you feel comfortable.”
Give her opportunities to help you and be close to you.
Be careful about her changing moods. Give her space when required.
1-5. Do what you say you are going to do.
Prove you are trustworthy by following through on your actions and words. Cancer women crave a reliable, stable partner. By showing her you can be that person, she’ll be more attracted to you.
For example, if you say you’re going to pick her up from work, leave enough time in your schedule to make sure you can do it. If you offer to water her plants while she’s on vacation, do a good job and follow all of her directions.
1-6. Don’t date around.
Focus your romantic attentions on only the Cancer woman if you’d like to build a relationship. Fidelity and trustworthiness are very important to her. If you’re dating multiple people, you should be really clear about that to make sure you’re both on the same page.
For example, you might say, “I’m really interested in taking our relationship to the next level. I’m not dating anyone else right now because I don’t want to show disrespect to what we’re building.” She’s likely to respond favorably.
2. Appealing to Her Love of Friends and Family
2-1. Invite her family along for activities.
Plan a picnic or another casual, daytime activity that would enable you to get to know her family. Let her know that you want to invite them because you know how important they are to her.
For example, you could say, “I love how close you are with your mom. Does she want to come hiking with us on Sunday?”
2-2. Do a double date with a couple of her friends.
Grab dinner and a movie or play putt-putt golf with her friend and their significant other. If you don’t know them well enough to arrange it, show interest by suggesting it to her.
For example, you could say, “There’s a great new pizza place by my office. Do Suzy and John want to join us for a pie on Saturday night?”
It’s best to invite a longstanding couple and your Cancer woman on a double-date. That way, she won’t feel guarded meeting a friend’s significant other for the first time.
2-3. Show understanding when she prioritizes her friends and family.
Tell her you know how much she loves her friends and family when she has to change plans to accommodate their needs. Show concern for the wellbeing of people who are important to her by asking about them after the fact.
For example, if she bails on a date to take her brother to the doctor, you could say, “No problem at all. Pizza can happen anytime. Is he okay? What can I do for you both?
2-4. Ask about her family history.
Flip through family photo albums with her and ask about her heritage. This is a great time to ask her questions about beloved family members or simply let her tell stories from when she was a kid.
You could say, “Is that a picture of you and your Grandma Betty? It sounds like she was an amazing woman. What’s your favorite memory together?”
2-5. Introduce her to your friends and family.
Show her you’re willing to bring her into your life by letting her spend time with your family and friends. Arrange a fun activity that will let her shine.
For example, if your Cancer woman is a great artist, you could all do a sip-and-paint night at a local art studio with your sister.
2-6. Avoid criticizing those who are important to her.
Hold back critiques or feedback about friends and family of hers you don’t know well. If you do criticize someone important to her, do so only to show her you are on her side and want to support her. Try to show empathy whenever possible.
For example, if she and a friend get in a bad fight, you could say, “I know how much you guys care about each other. It concerns me that she got so personal with her attacks on you. Are you okay? Can I do anything to help?”
3. Showing off Your Domestic Side
3-1. Cook her a meal
Dust off a favorite family recipe of yours and make her a thoughtful meal at her place. Many Cancer women love a quiet night at home where they feel most comfortable. If you invite her friends or family, it will help illustrate how much you value those important to her, too.
If you don’t have a family recipe to share, pick a cookbook recipe that reflects some of her interests. It doesn’t have to be a complex roast. If she loves Mexican food, she will love the effort you put into some fresh guacamole.
Don’t forget to do the dishes!
3-2. Host a movie night.
Create a cozy atmosphere with dim lighting, lots of pillows, and some fresh-popped popcorn for a laid-back evening at home together. Tell her she’s welcome to wear sweats or pajamas, so she knows you are concerned with her comfort.
Have a couple of films lined up, and let her choose the direction of the evening.
3-3. Clean up after yourself.
Take care of her home by cleaning up after yourself when you cook or come over. Keep your own place tidy, too, so she can see that you treat your home with respect.
3-4. Fix things around the house.
If you’re handy, care for her home by making it function better. Repair a leaky faucet or humming refrigerator without her having to ask.
Taking good care of her place lets her know that you understand what a sanctuary her home is to her.
If you’re not particularly handy, unload her dishwasher or perform another simple chore to help out.
3-5. Take care of her pet.
Show love to her furry friends with walks, ear scratches, and treats when appropriate. By showing her you value her companion, she can begin seeing you as a seamless part of her life.
If she’s not an animal person, offer to housesit for her or pick up her mail when she’s out of town. It’ll make her return home that much sweeter.
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If conversation lags, comment on the activity at hand.\\nAvoid intense one-on-one dinner dates early on, which may feel like an interrogation to a shy Cancer.\\n1-3. Show vulnerability.\\nReveal a little bit about yourself when she asks you questions rather than giving short answers. If there’s a suitable opportunity to talk about something that was a challenge for you, go for it. Your Cancer woman will appreciate your ability to open up.\\nFor example, if she asks how you got into teaching, rather than simply saying, “I like it.” You could say, “I really want to make a difference for kids. My dad wasn’t always around growing up, and I had a teacher who made a really strong impression on me during that time.”\\n1-4. Be patient if she takes a while to open up.\\nTry not to be put off if a Cancer woman dodges your questions. Table the topic for now, and circle back to it when you know each other a bit better. Cancers are protective and naturally shy, especially about their families and close friends.\\nFor example, if she says avoids a personal question, say, “No problem. I want to make you feel comfortable.”\\nGive her opportunities to help you and be close to you.\\nBe careful about her changing moods. Give her space when required.\\n1-5. Do what you say you are going to do.\\nProve you are trustworthy by following through on your actions and words. Cancer women crave a reliable, stable partner. By showing her you can be that person, she’ll be more attracted to you.\\nFor example, if you say you’re going to pick her up from work, leave enough time in your schedule to make sure you can do it. If you offer to water her plants while she’s on vacation, do a good job and follow all of her directions.\\n1-6. Don’t date around.\\nFocus your romantic attentions on only the Cancer woman if you’d like to build a relationship. Fidelity and trustworthiness are very important to her. If you’re dating multiple people, you should be really clear about that to make sure you’re both on the same page.\\nFor example, you might say, “I’m really interested in taking our relationship to the next level. I’m not dating anyone else right now because I don’t want to show disrespect to what we’re building.” She’s likely to respond favorably.\\n2. Appealing to Her Love of Friends and Family\\n2-1. Invite her family along for activities.\\nPlan a picnic or another casual, daytime activity that would enable you to get to know her family. Let her know that you want to invite them because you know how important they are to her.\\nFor example, you could say, “I love how close you are with your mom. Does she want to come hiking with us on Sunday?”\\n2-2. Do a double date with a couple of her friends.\\nGrab dinner and a movie or play putt-putt golf with her friend and their significant other. If you don’t know them well enough to arrange it, show interest by suggesting it to her.\\nFor example, you could say, “There’s a great new pizza place by my office. Do Suzy and John want to join us for a pie on Saturday night?”\\nIt’s best to invite a longstanding couple and your Cancer woman on a double-date. That way, she won’t feel guarded meeting a friend’s significant other for the first time.\\n2-3. Show understanding when she prioritizes her friends and family.\\nTell her you know how much she loves her friends and family when she has to change plans to accommodate their needs. Show concern for the wellbeing of people who are important to her by asking about them after the fact.\\nFor example, if she bails on a date to take her brother to the doctor, you could say, “No problem at all. Pizza can happen anytime. Is he okay? What can I do for you both?\\n2-4. Ask about her family history.\\nFlip through family photo albums with her and ask about her heritage. This is a great time to ask her questions about beloved family members or simply let her tell stories from when she was a kid.\\nYou could say, “Is that a picture of you and your Grandma Betty? It sounds like she was an amazing woman. What’s your favorite memory together?”\\n2-5. Introduce her to your friends and family.\\nShow her you’re willing to bring her into your life by letting her spend time with your family and friends. Arrange a fun activity that will let her shine.\\nFor example, if your Cancer woman is a great artist, you could all do a sip-and-paint night at a local art studio with your sister.\\n2-6. Avoid criticizing those who are important to her.\\nHold back critiques or feedback about friends and family of hers you don’t know well. If you do criticize someone important to her, do so only to show her you are on her side and want to support her. Try to show empathy whenever possible.\\nFor example, if she and a friend get in a bad fight, you could say, “I know how much you guys care about each other. It concerns me that she got so personal with her attacks on you. Are you okay? Can I do anything to help?”\\n3. Showing off Your Domestic Side\\n3-1. Cook her a meal\\nDust off a favorite family recipe of yours and make her a thoughtful meal at her place. Many Cancer women love a quiet night at home where they feel most comfortable. If you invite her friends or family, it will help illustrate how much you value those important to her, too.\\nIf you don’t have a family recipe to share, pick a cookbook recipe that reflects some of her interests. It doesn’t have to be a complex roast. If she loves Mexican food, she will love the effort you put into some fresh guacamole.\\nDon’t forget to do the dishes!\\n3-2. Host a movie night.\\nCreate a cozy atmosphere with dim lighting, lots of pillows, and some fresh-popped popcorn for a laid-back evening at home together. Tell her she’s welcome to wear sweats or pajamas, so she knows you are concerned with her comfort.\\nHave a couple of films lined up, and let her choose the direction of the evening.\\n3-3. Clean up after yourself.\\nTake care of her home by cleaning up after yourself when you cook or come over. Keep your own place tidy, too, so she can see that you treat your home with respect.\\n3-4. Fix things around the house.\\nIf you’re handy, care for her home by making it function better. Repair a leaky faucet or humming refrigerator without her having to ask.\\nTaking good care of her place lets her know that you understand what a sanctuary her home is to her.\\nIf you’re not particularly handy, unload her dishwasher or perform another simple chore to help out.\\n3-5. 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2,756 | How to Attract a Cancer Woman Sexually | 1. Pour on the romance.
A Cancer woman loves traditional romantic trappings.
If you're wooing a Moon maiden, there's no romantic gesture too cheesy for her. Show her you know how to speak the language of love and she'll definitely be thinking about other ways to show her appreciation.
Since her sign is ruled by the Moon, a moonlit walk holds special appeal for her. Even better if it's on the beach or by any body of water.
Keep things close, personal, and private. She's likely to get overwhelmed by grand gestures or large, public spaces. Since she's a bit shy, she'd definitely feel more comfortable having a candlelit dinner on your balcony at home than at a big fancy restaurant.
2. Pamper her.
She tends to put others first so pampering is a real treat.
Being a real gentleman is also a great way to show how much you care for her and appreciate everything she does. Something as simple as cooking a nice meal for her or massaging her feet after a long day at work will go a long way toward getting her in the mood for a little sexy time.
Let her know how much you appreciate everything she does for you. Then, tell her that now you want to take care of her for a change. She'll be pleasantly surprised.
3. Add a little sentimental touch.
The nostalgic Cancer woman gets really turned on by sentimentality.
Reminiscing about sweet moments from the past or turning points in your relationship really gets her in the mood. Recreate your first date or make her a photo collage of your favorite times together to put her in the right frame of mind.
Mementos you saved work too! Maybe today is the anniversary of your first date. Break out the to-go menu you saved from the restaurant where you ate and she'll be eating out of your hand.
4. Create a comfortable environment.
Comfort and seclusion are paramount for the private Cancerian.
Your Cancer woman isn't likely to be an "anytime, anywhere" type of lover. She wants to feel comfortable, mentally and physically. Think soft, warm, and inviting—mood lighting, quiet music, blankets and pillows.
Kick your thermostat up a few degrees so it's slightly warm—you don't want her to catch a chill.
If you have roommates, choose an evening when they're going to be out. She'll feel more comfortable if she doesn't have to worry about anyone overhearing.
5. Suggest a bubble bath for two.
As a water sign, Cancers find baths really sensual.
Clean the bathroom ahead of time and place candles around the tub to set the mood. When she's ready, run the bath with plenty of scented oils and bubble bath (maybe even a bath bomb) for the ultimate in luxurious relaxation.
If there's not enough room in the tub for both of you, don't push it—make it a bath just for her instead. You can get the bedroom ready while she soaks.
6. Give her a sensual massage.
A massage is a great way to help her relax and get in the mood.
Light some candles, put on some soft music, and break out the softly scented massage oil. Your Cancerian woman will definitely be feeling the love after you devote so much time and energy to her.
Choose a massage oil in a scent that she loves for a special treat. If you're not sure what her favorites are, try lavender—it's soft and relaxing, two things Cancer women enjoy.
7. Take your time.
A Cancer woman isn't interested in a quickie.
She doesn't rush a romantic relationship and she's not going to rush the sex either. She wants you to really get to know her well, which you can't do if you race through it. Relax and give her time to open up to you. She'll show you what she enjoys and how she likes to be touched.
Remove clothing slowly, taking your time to caress and kiss each body part revealed before moving onto the next.
Talk to her, giving her plenty of compliments and letting her know how you're feeling and what's going through your mind. She'll feel more connected to you.
8. Engage in lots of foreplay.
For her, foreplay might be more important than the act itself.
Even if your ultimate goal is penetrative sex, there's no need to press the issue—especially with a Cancer woman. If you do, you're missing out on the best part of sex for her. Before you get down to business, she wants to spend time caressing each other tenderly and discovering all of your little erotic zones.
Cancerian women tend to be really into oral sex, so you definitely want to make that part of your foreplay journey. Include lots of kissing everywhere as well.
9. Pay particular attention to her breasts.
The breasts are a part of the body ruled by Cancer.
Because of this, Cancerian women tend to be especially sensitive in this area and she'll love it if you make her breasts your focus. If you add in a little nipple play, you're sure to get her fired up.
Communicate with her while this is going on. You'll get a good idea of what she likes and what she doesn't.
Start gentle—she'll let you know if you can be firmer.
10. Cuddle after sex.
She typically wants to stay close after being intimate.
Sex is an emotional experience for a Cancer woman. She likes laying with you as these emotions roll over her, feeling the intense connection. Don't be surprised if she ends up crying—it's not because you did anything wrong, it's just a release of all those intense emotions she's experiencing.
Hold her hand or caress her softly and let her know that you're there for her. Tell her how much you enjoyed the experience and how beautiful she is.
You might also ask if she wants anything. Have small snacks and water nearby so she can have something to eat or drink without you having to leave her.
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Something as simple as cooking a nice meal for her or massaging her feet after a long day at work will go a long way toward getting her in the mood for a little sexy time.\\nLet her know how much you appreciate everything she does for you. Then, tell her that now you want to take care of her for a change. She'll be pleasantly surprised.\\n3. Add a little sentimental touch.\\nThe nostalgic Cancer woman gets really turned on by sentimentality.\\nReminiscing about sweet moments from the past or turning points in your relationship really gets her in the mood. Recreate your first date or make her a photo collage of your favorite times together to put her in the right frame of mind.\\nMementos you saved work too! Maybe today is the anniversary of your first date. Break out the to-go menu you saved from the restaurant where you ate and she'll be eating out of your hand.\\n4. Create a comfortable environment.\\nComfort and seclusion are paramount for the private Cancerian.\\nYour Cancer woman isn't likely to be an \\\"anytime, anywhere\\\" type of lover. She wants to feel comfortable, mentally and physically. Think soft, warm, and inviting—mood lighting, quiet music, blankets and pillows.\\nKick your thermostat up a few degrees so it's slightly warm—you don't want her to catch a chill.\\nIf you have roommates, choose an evening when they're going to be out. She'll feel more comfortable if she doesn't have to worry about anyone overhearing.\\n5. Suggest a bubble bath for two.\\nAs a water sign, Cancers find baths really sensual.\\nClean the bathroom ahead of time and place candles around the tub to set the mood. When she's ready, run the bath with plenty of scented oils and bubble bath (maybe even a bath bomb) for the ultimate in luxurious relaxation.\\nIf there's not enough room in the tub for both of you, don't push it—make it a bath just for her instead. You can get the bedroom ready while she soaks.\\n6. Give her a sensual massage.\\nA massage is a great way to help her relax and get in the mood.\\nLight some candles, put on some soft music, and break out the softly scented massage oil. Your Cancerian woman will definitely be feeling the love after you devote so much time and energy to her.\\nChoose a massage oil in a scent that she loves for a special treat. If you're not sure what her favorites are, try lavender—it's soft and relaxing, two things Cancer women enjoy.\\n7. Take your time.\\nA Cancer woman isn't interested in a quickie.\\nShe doesn't rush a romantic relationship and she's not going to rush the sex either. She wants you to really get to know her well, which you can't do if you race through it. Relax and give her time to open up to you. She'll show you what she enjoys and how she likes to be touched.\\nRemove clothing slowly, taking your time to caress and kiss each body part revealed before moving onto the next.\\nTalk to her, giving her plenty of compliments and letting her know how you're feeling and what's going through your mind. She'll feel more connected to you.\\n8. Engage in lots of foreplay.\\nFor her, foreplay might be more important than the act itself.\\nEven if your ultimate goal is penetrative sex, there's no need to press the issue—especially with a Cancer woman. If you do, you're missing out on the best part of sex for her. Before you get down to business, she wants to spend time caressing each other tenderly and discovering all of your little erotic zones.\\nCancerian women tend to be really into oral sex, so you definitely want to make that part of your foreplay journey. Include lots of kissing everywhere as well.\\n9. Pay particular attention to her breasts.\\nThe breasts are a part of the body ruled by Cancer.\\nBecause of this, Cancerian women tend to be especially sensitive in this area and she'll love it if you make her breasts your focus. If you add in a little nipple play, you're sure to get her fired up.\\nCommunicate with her while this is going on. You'll get a good idea of what she likes and what she doesn't.\\nStart gentle—she'll let you know if you can be firmer.\\n10. Cuddle after sex.\\nShe typically wants to stay close after being intimate.\\nSex is an emotional experience for a Cancer woman. She likes laying with you as these emotions roll over her, feeling the intense connection. Don't be surprised if she ends up crying—it's not because you did anything wrong, it's just a release of all those intense emotions she's experiencing.\\nHold her hand or caress her softly and let her know that you're there for her. Tell her how much you enjoyed the experience and how beautiful she is.\\nYou might also ask if she wants anything. Have small snacks and water nearby so she can have something to eat or drink without you having to leave her.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you're hoping to get intimate with a Cancer woman, get ready for one of the most emotionally intense experiences of your life. Her sign is ruled by the Moon, and there's nothing sexier than moonlight, right? Put in the effort to really set the mood and she'll reward you tenfold. Read on to learn everything you need to know to seduce the Cancerian lady of your dreams and make her lust after you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pour on the romance.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Cancer woman loves traditional romantic trappings.\", \"描述\": \"If you're wooing a Moon maiden, there's no romantic gesture too cheesy for her. Show her you know how to speak the language of love and she'll definitely be thinking about other ways to show her appreciation.\\nSince her sign is ruled by the Moon, a moonlit walk holds special appeal for her. Even better if it's on the beach or by any body of water.\\nKeep things close, personal, and private. She's likely to get overwhelmed by grand gestures or large, public spaces. Since she's a bit shy, she'd definitely feel more comfortable having a candlelit dinner on your balcony at home than at a big fancy restaurant.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pamper her.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"She tends to put others first so pampering is a real treat.\", \"描述\": \"Being a real gentleman is also a great way to show how much you care for her and appreciate everything she does. Something as simple as cooking a nice meal for her or massaging her feet after a long day at work will go a long way toward getting her in the mood for a little sexy time.\\nLet her know how much you appreciate everything she does for you. Then, tell her that now you want to take care of her for a change. She'll be pleasantly surprised.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Add a little sentimental touch.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The nostalgic Cancer woman gets really turned on by sentimentality.\", \"描述\": \"Reminiscing about sweet moments from the past or turning points in your relationship really gets her in the mood. Recreate your first date or make her a photo collage of your favorite times together to put her in the right frame of mind.\\nMementos you saved work too! Maybe today is the anniversary of your first date. Break out the to-go menu you saved from the restaurant where you ate and she'll be eating out of your hand.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Create a comfortable environment.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Comfort and seclusion are paramount for the private Cancerian.\", \"描述\": \"Your Cancer woman isn't likely to be an \\\"anytime, anywhere\\\" type of lover. She wants to feel comfortable, mentally and physically. Think soft, warm, and inviting—mood lighting, quiet music, blankets and pillows.\\nKick your thermostat up a few degrees so it's slightly warm—you don't want her to catch a chill.\\nIf you have roommates, choose an evening when they're going to be out. She'll feel more comfortable if she doesn't have to worry about anyone overhearing.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Suggest a bubble bath for two.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"As a water sign, Cancers find baths really sensual.\", \"描述\": \"Clean the bathroom ahead of time and place candles around the tub to set the mood. 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2,757 | How to Attract a Capricorn Guy (an Expert Astrologer's Tips) | 1. Make the first move if you want to.
A Capricorn guy isn't afraid of how confident you are.
This sign does not need to be the one chasing you. In fact, he’ll probably love to see that you take matters into your own hands. So, if you’re crushing on a dreamy Capricorn boy, don’t be afraid to let him know.
Invite him for a walk, dinner, or movie if you feel inspired.
If you think he’s looking great at a party, tell him so.
You can even come right out and say it: “Hey, I wanted to let you know that I’m into you. What do you think about that?”
2. Appreciate his abilities and achievements.
Capricorn guys want compliments–but only ones they can really trust.
This sign hates to feel like the people around them are being fake, and they take themselves really seriously. If your compliment feels silly or over the top to him, he might not trust you. On the other hand, there’s nothing in the world a Capricorn craves more than an honest compliment. Play it safe by praising his skills, talents, or accomplishments, and he'll be totally into it.
“Wow, you’re great at commanding a room. How’d you become such a great public speaker?”
“You’ve got serious talent as a goalie. I can’t believe you stopped that last one.”
“You got an A in AP European History? I thought those were just a myth.”
3. Make him laugh.
Getting a Capricorn to lighten up can be tough, but he’ll love you for it.
These guys have got an amazing, dry sense of humor, but sometimes people have a hard time giving it back to them. If you can find a way to meet his deadpan jokes with even funnier, more deadpan jokes, he’ll be completely hooked.
Try out some sarcasm. If he asks if you're in a bad mood, you could say, "No I actually love when I forget to bring in my homework. Really adds some excitement to my day!"
If he asks you what you like to do, try a deadpan, silly response: "My main hobbies are watching TikToks and obsessing over how much time I waste on TikTok."
4. Stay sophisticated when you flirt.
No matter what, Capricorn boys want elegance and class.
If you’re trying to hit on a Capricorn crush (go you!), you should definitely make sure you keep things PG and polite. Some people flirt by making fun of their crush, making themselves the center of attention to gain their crush's notice, or by getting super physical. With a Capricorn, these would all be a bit too much for him. Instead, you want to go for casual, refined flirting, like simply giving him your undivided attention during long conversation and holding deep eye contact while we speaks.
Try some simple touches throughout the night. For instance, touch his hand gently to direct his attention towards something across the room.
5. Be super gentle and sweet.
Capricorn boys are their own worst critics, so he'll love your kindness.
This sign is often attracted to people that are able to be soft, understanding, and tender with the people they care about. If you can find ways to be a bright spot in your Capricorn crush’s day, it’ll mean the world to him.
If you catch him being self-critical, try offering some perspective. “Do you think you might be being a little hard on yourself?”
Celebrate his little wins with him. All of those little achievements he’d normally breeze right past, you can help him feel proud of.
6. Show him how independent you are.
Capricorn guys want someone who's comfortable on their own.
Even though he wants to be needed, deep down, he’s most attracted to people who are secure in themselves already. So in some ways, the best way to get his attention is just to focus on yourself! Spend time doing all of the things you love alone, work on yourself, and make sure he knows you’re thrive solo, too.
Focus on your sport, your craft, or your education.
Learn a new skill. Maybe it’s time to pick back up the violin lessons you took as a kid.
7. Prove that you’re ambitious.
A Capricorn’s life is all about hitting goals, and he’ll hope that's you, too.
He’s into hardworking people that take themselves seriously. Everyone has goals in life and things that they would do anything to achieve. Make sure he’s well aware of what yours are, and he’ll swoon.
If you’re working on a new painting that you’re really excited about, talk to him about it. Mention how many hours you’ve put in.
Maybe you just broke your 50 freestyle personal record in swimming. Don't be afraid to let him know. You could even explain how you stay motivated.
Or, maybe you’re working hard for someone you love. If you’ve been helping your BFF through a breakup, he’ll admire that, too.
8. Make sure he knows you don't think he's boring.
Capricorn boys might feel like others find them unexciting.
He’ll feel totally understood if you can find a way to express that you don’t see him that way at all. Of course, it’s hard to come right out and say, “You know, I actually don’t think you’re a snore!” But, you can openly appreciate him for qualities that he may worry other people think are bland.
If he’s spending hours responsibly planning his schedule, let him know that you think it’s great he’s so organized.
If he’s talking at length about his work or school life, express that you love how ambitious he is.
If he’s texting the group chat, reminding friends to bring sunscreen and be on time before a trip, thank him later for it.
9. Let him help you with something.
Your Capricorn crush wants you to be independent but still need him.
If you have an assignment, a project, or a problem that you think he’d be able to help you with, ask him for a hand. Guys of this sign absolutely thrive on being needed and usually end up feeling really close to people who appreciate their help.
If you’ve got a gnarly math assignment, ask him to walk you through a problem.
You may have a home decor project on your docket. Ask him to help you hang that new frame on the wall with you.
Maybe you’re trying to make some money for a summer trip. Ask him to help you strategize ways to meet your target before you leave.
10. Make him look good around other people.
When you’re on a Capricorn boy’s arm, he’ll want you to impress.
Men of this sign are all about how things look. If he’s introducing you to friends, his family, or his coworkers, he’ll definitely be hoping you present well. Or, even better, he’ll be hoping that you fluff him up a bit, too.
If he’s inviting you out somewhere, be on time, dress appropriately (if you’re unsure, err on the side of overdressed), and be polite.
When you get the chance, don’t be afraid to throw him a compliment around others. He’ll love it if you mention an award he won, for instance.
11. Surprise him with a little gift.
Capricorns are definitely driven by material goods.
To some guys, a nice shirt, a new wallet, or a journal may not mean too much. But to a Capricorn guy, this will definitely pull on his heart strings. For the ultimate planner who’s always taking care of everyone else, giving the gift as a surprise will make the gesture even more attractive to him.
12. Put playing games on the backburner.
When a Capricorn boy sees you’re playing games, he’ll want to quit.
These guys don’t see any point in messing around or sending mixed signals. If he starts to pick up on the fact that you’re doing that with him, he might start to feel like you’re not a serious person. If there’s one thing a Capricorn boy really wants, it’s someone who knows what they want and is upfront about it.
13. Get ready to take it slow.
Capricorn guys love commitment, but they’ll take a while to get there.
If you’re feeling impatient, he shouldn’t know that. If your Capricorn crush feels like he’s being pushed too hard, it could actually sway him in the opposite direction. Instead, you should trust that usually, when a Capricorn man does finally decide what he wants something (hopefully, you!), he’s super serious about it.
If you give him time to make his decision on his own, that'll make you all the more crush-worthy to him!
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Really adds some excitement to my day!\\\"\\nIf he asks you what you like to do, try a deadpan, silly response: \\\"My main hobbies are watching TikToks and obsessing over how much time I waste on TikTok.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stay sophisticated when you flirt.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"No matter what, Capricorn boys want elegance and class.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re trying to hit on a Capricorn crush (go you!), you should definitely make sure you keep things PG and polite. Some people flirt by making fun of their crush, making themselves the center of attention to gain their crush's notice, or by getting super physical. With a Capricorn, these would all be a bit too much for him. Instead, you want to go for casual, refined flirting, like simply giving him your undivided attention during long conversation and holding deep eye contact while we speaks.\\nTry some simple touches throughout the night. 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All of those little achievements he’d normally breeze right past, you can help him feel proud of.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Show him how independent you are.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Capricorn guys want someone who's comfortable on their own.\", \"描述\": \"Even though he wants to be needed, deep down, he’s most attracted to people who are secure in themselves already. So in some ways, the best way to get his attention is just to focus on yourself! Spend time doing all of the things you love alone, work on yourself, and make sure he knows you’re thrive solo, too.\\nFocus on your sport, your craft, or your education.\\nLearn a new skill. Maybe it’s time to pick back up the violin lessons you took as a kid.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Prove that you’re ambitious.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Capricorn’s life is all about hitting goals, and he’ll hope that's you, too.\", \"描述\": \"He’s into hardworking people that take themselves seriously. Everyone has goals in life and things that they would do anything to achieve. Make sure he’s well aware of what yours are, and he’ll swoon.\\nIf you’re working on a new painting that you’re really excited about, talk to him about it. Mention how many hours you’ve put in.\\nMaybe you just broke your 50 freestyle personal record in swimming. Don't be afraid to let him know. You could even explain how you stay motivated.\\nOr, maybe you’re working hard for someone you love. If you’ve been helping your BFF through a breakup, he’ll admire that, too.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Make sure he knows you don't think he's boring.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Capricorn boys might feel like others find them unexciting.\", \"描述\": \"He’ll feel totally understood if you can find a way to express that you don’t see him that way at all. Of course, it’s hard to come right out and say, “You know, I actually don’t think you’re a snore!” But, you can openly appreciate him for qualities that he may worry other people think are bland.\\nIf he’s spending hours responsibly planning his schedule, let him know that you think it’s great he’s so organized.\\nIf he’s talking at length about his work or school life, express that you love how ambitious he is.\\nIf he’s texting the group chat, reminding friends to bring sunscreen and be on time before a trip, thank him later for it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Let him help you with something.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Capricorn crush wants you to be independent but still need him.\", \"描述\": \"If you have an assignment, a project, or a problem that you think he’d be able to help you with, ask him for a hand. Guys of this sign absolutely thrive on being needed and usually end up feeling really close to people who appreciate their help.\\nIf you’ve got a gnarly math assignment, ask him to walk you through a problem.\\nYou may have a home decor project on your docket. Ask him to help you hang that new frame on the wall with you.\\nMaybe you’re trying to make some money for a summer trip. Ask him to help you strategize ways to meet your target before you leave.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Make him look good around other people.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"When you’re on a Capricorn boy’s arm, he’ll want you to impress.\", \"描述\": \"Men of this sign are all about how things look. If he’s introducing you to friends, his family, or his coworkers, he’ll definitely be hoping you present well. Or, even better, he’ll be hoping that you fluff him up a bit, too.\\nIf he’s inviting you out somewhere, be on time, dress appropriately (if you’re unsure, err on the side of overdressed), and be polite.\\nWhen you get the chance, don’t be afraid to throw him a compliment around others. He’ll love it if you mention an award he won, for instance.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Surprise him with a little gift.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Capricorns are definitely driven by material goods.\", \"描述\": \"To some guys, a nice shirt, a new wallet, or a journal may not mean too much. But to a Capricorn guy, this will definitely pull on his heart strings. 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2,758 | How to Attract a Capricorn Man As a Gemini Woman | 1. Share his sense of humor.
A Capricorn man wants someone who can match his killer sense of humor.
Guys of this sign don’t get a lot of credit for their dry wit, but in reality, they’re total comedians. He'll be over the moon if you show him that you see how hilarious he is. You’ll get extra points if you fire back with an even funnier deadpan joke!
To Geminis, humor and adaptability are second nature. You’ll have no issue getting him to crack a rib over your great comebacks.
2. Mirror his behavior.
Capricorns love people they really get—AKA, people just like them.
Geminis are the adapters of the zodiac, so you can embody just about any personality trait, anytime. Obviously, for the two of you to have an authentic and close relationship down the line, you should get to be your true self. But when you’re first getting to know your Capricorn crush, you’ll probably get farther faster if you leave him thinking, wow, we're so alike!
If the two of you are out on the scene and he’s acting a bit reserved, follow his lead and hang back with him.
When you sense his tone shift in conversation, maybe from humorous to serious, try to follow suit.
3. Help him relax.
If you can get a Capricorn man to lighten up, he’ll love you for it.
Men of this sign are ultra-serious, self-critical, and generally pretty high strung. He may have a hard time taking a breather and enjoying silly moments, but that doesn’t mean that he never wants that. You, Gemini woman, the queen of childlike wonder, can totally soften his edges if you put your mind to it.
Invite him to play a jokingly competitive game of basketball, making funny, dramatic moves while you play.
Try asking a silly question in response to something he says. He already knows you’re smart as a whip, so he'll find this disarming and funny.
4. Be a great listener.
Caps are afraid of being boring—but Geminis find everyone fascinating.
You ladies are famous for your ability to chat anyone up because you could find a way to be interested by paint drying. So, show him that his monologue on the stock market, his new project at work, or the history of NYC’s public transportation system completely fascinates you.
As a Gemini, you probably don’t need any advice on how to be a great listener. Just do your thing! Nod often, ask thoughtful questions, maintain eye contact, and validate his feelings.
He’ll feel super close to you–and super attracted to you, too!
5. Channel your curiosity into things he adores.
Geek out with a Capricorn over shared interests, and you’ll have him hooked.
Your Capricorn crush might’ve read a book on Greek mythology and is desperate to discuss it with someone. Offer to read it within the week and then share all of your intelligent, thoughtful reactions to discuss with him.
Capricorns are completely attracted to intelligence, hard-work, and sophistication.
Your ability to enjoy and think critically about every academic subject will be a huge turn on in his eyes.
6. Show off your smarts.
Capricorn guys love strong, intelligent women–and that’s definitely you!
You probably know a bit about every topic, and he should be aware of that. As a Gemini, you're considered the most curious sign, a true lifelong learner. When conversation dips into politics, the environment, the education system, or the NYT bestsellers list, let all of your super informed opinions fly.
7. Bring out your sophisticated side.
To Capricorn guys, class and intellect will always be attractive.
As a Gemini woman, you're definitely capable of emulating whatever niche your crush adores. With a Capricorn, you should be going for polite, posh, and academic.
At your next party, bring up one of the many worldly topics you’re interested in.
Even something as simple as keeping a great posture will send a signal to your Capricorn crush that you take yourself seriously.
8. Dress in classic styles.
At the end of the day, Capricorns are all about how things look.
To catch his eye and snag his interest, try dressing in chic, formal styles when you two hang out. Something as simple as how you present yourself will actually mean a lot to your Capricorn crush, so spend an extra ten minutes or so fine-tuning the details of your next gorgeous look.
If you’re attending an event with him and you’re not sure how to dress, err on the side of formal.
Go for solid neutrals, a bit of modesty, and limit your accessories.
9. Show him you’re independent(-ish).
Capricorns crush on totally self-sufficient people.
He’ll be attracted to someone if they can prove they don’t need to be attached to him at the hip. As a Gemini, you may have a bit of a tough time being alone (and that’s okay!), so try to focus on all of your other fabulous friendships while you’re courting a Capricorn. It's alright if you'd still like a crowd around you most of the time, as long as it’s not always him.
Instead of calling him to hang on every weeknight, go out with your friends instead. Host a dinner party, a book club, or join a pal for an exercise class.
10. Help him reach his goals.
Capricorns can be a bit transactional, even when it comes to their crush!
Men of this sign genuinely fall for people that they see as a value-add in their life. That may seem a bit stiff, but it doesn’t make their crush any less real. These guys are just extremely practical people, and that extends to romance, too. Find ways to improve his standing in life, and you’ll have his heart.
As a Gemini, you’re probably majorly connected. Introduce him to all of your successful, interesting, and ambitious friends.
Help him with a project. If he’s working on organizing his schedule, offer to pass him all the stickies and highlighters his heart desires.
Teach him something. You’ve got tons of know-how and facts to offer. He’ll love feeling like every time he talks to you, he’s getting smarter.
11. Be patient while he makes up his mind.
Capricorn men are all about taking their time in romance.
He’ll want to be totally certain about how he feels about you before he makes any formal commitment. That's because when he does, he’ll take your relationship super seriously. As a Gemini, you probably prefer to play the field anyway, so use this to your advantage! While you’re waiting for your Capricorn crush to come to terms with how he feels, enjoy yourself, don’t pressure him, and don’t read into how long he’ll take to think.
Make sure that while you’re enjoying your freedom, though, that you don’t make him jealous.
This sign won’t respond well to playing games or seeing you with other love interests. Try to play it cool, otherwise you run the risk of losing his attention.
They might be afraid of rejection. Because of that, a Capricorn might be slower to make a move, taking a little longer to contemplate it and plan it out.
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2,759 | How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Leo Woman: 11 Flirty Tips | 1. Send him a funny or entertaining text.
A Capricorn guy loves a good joke or a funny story.
Just keep it short—he's not one for long text exchanges. But if you can make him laugh or even crack a smile, he'll be sure to think of you often. As a lively Leo, you're probably well-known for your sense of humor, so you shouldn't have too much trouble figuring out how to crack up a Capricorn.
Capricorns are pretty serious and tend to have a really dry sense of humor. Watch episodes of "The Office" (the British version) for inspiration.
He's also going to enjoy a witty pun—not the "dad joke" kind of pun, the kind that would go over most people's heads. "There's a new theory on inertia, but it doesn't seem to be gaining momentum."
2. Ask him for help.
Capricorns are always willing to lend a helping hand.
He likes to feel needed, so if you ask him to help you with something, he'll come to the rescue. He'll probably even follow up and ask you about it later. You're a strong, independent woman, so you might find it a bit challenging to play the "damsel in distress"—but the payoff is worth it.
Start with something small, like a sound your car is making or a computer glitch you can't figure out. You'll make him feel needed without sacrificing any of your own power.
Resist the temptation to pretend you need help with something you already know how to do—Capricorns value honesty, and he'll feel taken advantage of if he finds out about your ruse.
3. Tell him about your ambitions.
This guy is goal-oriented and likes a woman who has a similar focus.
Leo ladies are known for having big dreams and working hard to achieve them. If you tell him your plans for achieving greatness, he'll hang on your every word.
While Capricorn and Leo are both ambitious signs, you view your ambitions very differently. As a luxurious Lioness, you tend to see work as a means to an end—hard work equals success and all its trappings. For your Goat guy, on the other hand, hard work is an end in and of itself.
4. Work hard to get close to him.
A Capricorn will be somewhat distant until you've met his expectations.
And he usually has a pretty long list of expectations! As a Capricorn, he tends to be introverted but cares deeply for a small group of people. He's known for being pretty picky when it comes to those he lets get close to him—but as a lovely Leo, you're definitely game. You'll go out of your way to impress someone you like, and your effort won't be wasted on him.
Cozy up to the people who are close to him as well. He cares about them and trusts them—if they like you, he'll be more likely to like you as well.
5. Let him know when he impresses you.
The typical Capricorn will work hard to exceed your expectations.
He's not shy about the fact that he pulled out all the stops to take you on the perfect date—and he needs to know that you appreciate it. A regal Lioness like you can be hard to impress, but that just makes your compliments more valuable.
For example, if he takes you out to a restaurant, you might say, "Oh wow, I'm so impressed that you got us a table here—I heard they were booked for months!"
Just make sure what you say is genuine—empty flattery is a big turn-off for him and he can smell it a mile away.
6. Display your honesty and integrity.
Honesty and integrity are traits you both value highly.
This is perhaps the biggest thing you have in common, astrologically speaking. Take every opportunity you have to highlight what an honest and forthright person you are and he'll gain respect and appreciation for you.
For example, you might tell him about the time you found a wallet on the ground and tracked down its owner so you could return it, cash and all.
Anecdotes are great, but how you behave around him will really seal the deal. Show yourself as a woman of integrity who stands up for what you believe in and he'll want to keep you close.
7. Give him space when he needs it.
Capricorn guys tend to be introverted and need their alone time.
As a Lioness, you have the reputation for being a devoted partner, but you also like a lot of attention. It might be difficult to leave him alone, but the key is to remind yourself that this is something he needs. You're showing your devotion to him by letting him have the time and space he needs to recharge.
If you're talking and he says that he was thinking about staying at home, let him know that you'll see him tomorrow—don't take it as an invitation to come over and hang out with him.
While you love being the life of the party, he won't necessarily want to accompany you every time you go out. If you sense that he needs some time to himself, don't pressure him! Just go out with friends and have a great time on your own.
8. Hold back on extravagant purchases around him.
A Capricorn tends to be pretty conservative with money.
He's not necessarily a cheapskate, but he's also not really one to splurge on something he doesn't need. This can be a sticking point for the typical Lioness who loves to treat herself to little luxuries. Just try to refrain when he's around—he's not likely to question purchases he doesn't see you make.
Be honest if he does ask you about the cost of something—he'll be more upset if he finds out you lied. He does appreciate quality, so it can help to frame it as an investment purchase.
If you get serious, maintaining separate finances is essential for this relationship to work. Money is already one of the main things couples argue about and your opposing spending habits can lead to conflict.
9. Reassure him that he's important to you.
Your Capricorn often needs a reminder he's your #1.
If you're a typical Lioness, you like to be surrounded by admirers and have a pretty big social circle. This can make your Goat uncomfortable because he keeps a small circle of close friends. Keep your focus on him and he'll never doubt his place in your heart.
If you're out with friends, you might check in on him periodically to show that he's still on your mind. Maybe send him a text that says, "Can't stop thinking about you! Just thought I'd say hi 😉"
Capricorn guys tend to keep a tight lid on their emotions, which can be frustrating for an emotion-led Leo. But if he knows where he stands, he'll trust you enough to open up to you.
10. Let him take the lead sometimes.
Because both of you are dominant people, a relationship requires compromise.
Once you start getting serious (if not before), you'll realize that you both want to take charge. This can lead you to butt heads often if you don't come up with a way to share control. Decide what's most important to each of you and go from there.
For example, you might put him in charge of choosing the restaurants for dates if you're allowed to be in charge of other dating activities, such as which movie to see or what activity to do.
After you've made your agreement, make sure you stick to it! Nothing will turn him cold faster than you going back on something you said.
11. Show him how faithful and devoted you are.
A Capricorn man expects his partner to be loyal.
A Leo lady is naturally loyal, and he'll adore this about you. Take every opportunity to express your support and stick by him when he's going through a rough patch. He'll feel honored that you chose him.
For example, if you give him advice that he doesn't follow and he ends up being right, keep your "I told you so" to yourself. This shows that you respect him enough to make his own decisions and are too loyal to rub it in when you're right and he's wrong.
Being faithful also means refraining from gossip—especially about him. Even if a nasty rumor never gets back to him, you don't want to get the reputation as someone who talks bad about him behind his back.
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You're showing your devotion to him by letting him have the time and space he needs to recharge.\\nIf you're talking and he says that he was thinking about staying at home, let him know that you'll see him tomorrow—don't take it as an invitation to come over and hang out with him.\\nWhile you love being the life of the party, he won't necessarily want to accompany you every time you go out. If you sense that he needs some time to himself, don't pressure him! Just go out with friends and have a great time on your own.\\n8. Hold back on extravagant purchases around him.\\nA Capricorn tends to be pretty conservative with money.\\nHe's not necessarily a cheapskate, but he's also not really one to splurge on something he doesn't need. This can be a sticking point for the typical Lioness who loves to treat herself to little luxuries. 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Maybe send him a text that says, \\\"Can't stop thinking about you! Just thought I'd say hi 😉\\\"\\nCapricorn guys tend to keep a tight lid on their emotions, which can be frustrating for an emotion-led Leo. But if he knows where he stands, he'll trust you enough to open up to you.\\n10. Let him take the lead sometimes.\\nBecause both of you are dominant people, a relationship requires compromise.\\nOnce you start getting serious (if not before), you'll realize that you both want to take charge. This can lead you to butt heads often if you don't come up with a way to share control. Decide what's most important to each of you and go from there.\\nFor example, you might put him in charge of choosing the restaurants for dates if you're allowed to be in charge of other dating activities, such as which movie to see or what activity to do.\\nAfter you've made your agreement, make sure you stick to it! Nothing will turn him cold faster than you going back on something you said.\\n11. 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2,760 | How to Attract a Capricorn Man As a Libra Woman | 1. Compliment him on his work ethic.
Capricorns are the most hardworking signs in the zodiac.
If you're the typical Libra, you might not quite understand Capricorn's drive. He seems stubborn and single-minded in the pursuit of his goals—he is a Goat, after all. But tell him you admire his tenacity and he might just turn to a stubborn and single-minded pursuit of you!
In his mind, his work ethic is his most prized virtue. Mention it and you've found a way directly into his heart. He wants nothing more than to be admired for his focus and drive.
2. Make the first move.
A Capricorn guy tends to be cautious when it comes to romance.
Starting a relationship means taking a risk, and Capricorns are one of the most risk-averse signs in the zodiac. As an outgoing, confident Libra, go ahead and make that leap he's hedging about—he'll thank you later.
For example, you might say, "Hey, I really like spending time with you. Wanna grab lunch sometime?"
If you have something special coming up, you might invite him along. He'll definitely enjoy getting to know you better through something you like.
This doesn't mean you want to push him. Keep it casual and let the relationship bloom in its own time. Rest assured a Capricorn will do everything in his power to build a strong foundation that will keep you two stable in the future.
You really need to cut to the chase with a Capricorn. Ask him directly what you need or want!
3. Ask him for advice or guidance.
The typical Capricorn is a natural leader who loves to guide others.
Libras have the reputation for being indecisive, but the truth is that you're not ready to make a decision until you've considered all the options. Your favorite Goat understands this and he'll be honored if you consult him about something important to you.
For example, you might say, "My company just offered me a promotion, but I'm not sure the added responsibility is worth the extra money. Would you mind taking a look at it and giving me your thoughts?"
Issues involving your career or your direction in life are areas where he'll likely be strongest and most comfortable guiding you. He's proud of his work ethic and goal-oriented lifestyle and feels he has a lot to offer here.
Keep in mind that his advice is likely to be very practical and utilitarian. If you tend to be more artsy and whimsical (and many Libras are!), you might not be the biggest fan of what he has to say.
Capricorns are very practical about the people they care about, and will be happy to offer help if you ask for it.
4. Flaunt your natural femininity.
A Capricorn typically wants a traditionally feminine woman on his arm.
He's the strong, silent type—think Humphrey Bogart (himself a Capricorn) in "Casablanca"—and he prefers a soft, ladylike partner. Fortunately for you, as a daughter of Venus, you personify femininity. There's no doubt he'll be interested when you saunter into any event dressed to the nines—and he'll definitely want to have you next to him.
Traditional femininity extends beyond your attire to your behavior as well. Ever the gentleman, the Capricorn guy will open doors and pull out chairs for you. Accept his chivalry with ladylike grace and poise.
Manners and social protocol also tend to be very important to Capricorn guys. As long as you're always polite, he'll be proud to spend time with you.
5. Be ready with a supportive boost when he's down.
Capricorns tend to be pretty pessimistic and can use an encouraging word.
Luckily, you Libra ladies are known for being happy and optimistic. You'll see the silver lining in his brewing cloud—all you have to do is point it out to him. If you lift him up, he'll know that he needs to keep you close.
For example, if he's frustrated about a coworker and convinced their project will be a bust, you might remind him how he always comes through in a pinch and assure him that he'll get the work done that needs to be done.
6. Let him make the plans when you go out together.
Your Capricorn man wants to take the lead in a relationship.
This likely suits you just fine—especially if you're the typical Libra woman who struggles to make decisions. Relieved of that pressure, you can just relax and have a good time, which is something you're definitely good at.
For example, you might say, "So, where are we going to dinner on Friday night?" This tells him that he's in charge and you're content to go along with his decision.
If you have ideas for things you want to do, suggest them in a subtle way, then let him make the final plans. For example, you might say, "I heard there's a new impressionist exhibit at the gallery downtown. That's always been my favorite style—I'd love to go."
7. Demonstrate that you take relationships seriously.
A Capricorn typically doesn't play games with romance.
Libras tend to be pretty flirtatious and take things lightly, which usually isn't going to go over well with a Capricorn. Ultimately, though, you're both looking for the same thing—you're just going about it in different ways. Let him know that while you do flirt and have fun, you don't take love lightly.
Treat feelings and emotions as serious and important things as well. Give them gravity instead of tossing them out in an offhand or joking way.
If you're after an exclusive commitment or looking forward to being a wife and mother, it will thrill him to hear you talk about that.
8. Follow through when you say you're going to do something.
Capricorn guys are focused on action and results rather than talk.
As a Libra lady, you love to talk, and you likely have a thousand different ideas and things you want to do. Just because you talk about them doesn't mean you're actually going to do them—but that doesn't make any sense to a Capricorn guy. You'll impress him if you keep your ideas to yourself until you're ready to take action, then follow through immediately.
For example, if you tell him that you want to start a new exercise program, he'll naturally expect you to start immediately. If you don't actually start for several months, he might start to think you don't mean what you say.
With a more creative project, remember to give him updates on steps you're taking towards your overall goal. He'll be impressed with how you break it down into manageable chunks so you can make steady progress.
9. Give him time to open up to you.
Capricorns are never in a rush when it comes to matters of the heart.
He might come across as cold and unemotional initially, but he's really not. Goats take emotions very seriously and are cautious about expressing them. Since Libra ladies tend to wear their hearts on their sleeves, this might be hard for you to understand at first. Don't worry—as you get to know him, it'll make more sense.
When he does tell you how he feels, treat what he says seriously and respond in kind. He'll be relieved to know that you aren't taking things lightly.
Keep in mind that Capricorns are very practical about their love, and he may not express his affection in a "mushy" way.
10. Communicate your expectations and boundaries clearly.
A Capricorn will put in the effort if he knows what's expected of him.
Capricorn and Libra are slightly mismatched in terms of what they typically want out of a relationship. You can overcome this, though, if you let him know what you need. Your Capricorn guy's goal-oriented work ethic will kick in and he'll do everything he can to be the partner of your dreams.
For example, Libra ladies tend to be more clingy than a Capricorn would normally like. But if you state clearly the type of reassurance you need from him, he'll know what he needs to do. And since you have the reassurance you need, you won't feel as though you have to cling to him—a win-win for your relationship!
You might say, "I know you need your space, but when I'm apart from you I worry. Could you text me occasionally to let me know I'm on your mind?"
11. Work on projects together as a team.
While you have different work styles, you can balance each other out.
As a Libra woman, you love balance, so this is a great fit for you. Unfortunately, you and your Capricorn guy both want to be leaders. To avoid squabbles, make sure each of you has a clearly defined role in the project before you begin.
Projects with a short scope and duration, like putting together a piece of furniture, are great to take on early in your relationship so you can learn to work together as a team.
Generally, it works best if you put your artistic sensibilities to work on the aesthetics of the project while he takes on a more utilitarian, workhorse role.
12. Try new activities together to keep things fresh.
Capricorn easily gets locked into a routine and needs you to shake things up.
He tends to be pretty regimented. It's not that he's afraid to try new things—he just needs a bit of a nudge. As much as you Libra ladies enjoy new adventures, you're just the person to coax him out of his comfort zone.
For example, if you both enjoy reading, you might suggest that you both read the same book and discuss it together. An intellectual Goat will enjoy that level of conversation and it'll give you a little break from the boring routine.
If you're both fairly active and sporty, you might try a new sport together. Learning something new together will strengthen your bond.
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Wanna grab lunch sometime?\\\"\\nIf you have something special coming up, you might invite him along. He'll definitely enjoy getting to know you better through something you like.\\nThis doesn't mean you want to push him. Keep it casual and let the relationship bloom in its own time. Rest assured a Capricorn will do everything in his power to build a strong foundation that will keep you two stable in the future.\\nYou really need to cut to the chase with a Capricorn. Ask him directly what you need or want!\\n3. Ask him for advice or guidance.\\nThe typical Capricorn is a natural leader who loves to guide others.\\nLibras have the reputation for being indecisive, but the truth is that you're not ready to make a decision until you've considered all the options. Your favorite Goat understands this and he'll be honored if you consult him about something important to you.\\nFor example, you might say, \\\"My company just offered me a promotion, but I'm not sure the added responsibility is worth the extra money. Would you mind taking a look at it and giving me your thoughts?\\\"\\nIssues involving your career or your direction in life are areas where he'll likely be strongest and most comfortable guiding you. He's proud of his work ethic and goal-oriented lifestyle and feels he has a lot to offer here.\\nKeep in mind that his advice is likely to be very practical and utilitarian. If you tend to be more artsy and whimsical (and many Libras are!), you might not be the biggest fan of what he has to say.\\nCapricorns are very practical about the people they care about, and will be happy to offer help if you ask for it.\\n4. Flaunt your natural femininity.\\nA Capricorn typically wants a traditionally feminine woman on his arm.\\nHe's the strong, silent type—think Humphrey Bogart (himself a Capricorn) in \\\"Casablanca\\\"—and he prefers a soft, ladylike partner. Fortunately for you, as a daughter of Venus, you personify femininity. There's no doubt he'll be interested when you saunter into any event dressed to the nines—and he'll definitely want to have you next to him.\\nTraditional femininity extends beyond your attire to your behavior as well. Ever the gentleman, the Capricorn guy will open doors and pull out chairs for you. Accept his chivalry with ladylike grace and poise.\\nManners and social protocol also tend to be very important to Capricorn guys. As long as you're always polite, he'll be proud to spend time with you.\\n5. Be ready with a supportive boost when he's down.\\nCapricorns tend to be pretty pessimistic and can use an encouraging word.\\nLuckily, you Libra ladies are known for being happy and optimistic. You'll see the silver lining in his brewing cloud—all you have to do is point it out to him. If you lift him up, he'll know that he needs to keep you close.\\nFor example, if he's frustrated about a coworker and convinced their project will be a bust, you might remind him how he always comes through in a pinch and assure him that he'll get the work done that needs to be done.\\n6. Let him make the plans when you go out together.\\nYour Capricorn man wants to take the lead in a relationship.\\nThis likely suits you just fine—especially if you're the typical Libra woman who struggles to make decisions. Relieved of that pressure, you can just relax and have a good time, which is something you're definitely good at.\\nFor example, you might say, \\\"So, where are we going to dinner on Friday night?\\\" This tells him that he's in charge and you're content to go along with his decision.\\nIf you have ideas for things you want to do, suggest them in a subtle way, then let him make the final plans. For example, you might say, \\\"I heard there's a new impressionist exhibit at the gallery downtown. That's always been my favorite style—I'd love to go.\\\"\\n7. Demonstrate that you take relationships seriously.\\nA Capricorn typically doesn't play games with romance.\\nLibras tend to be pretty flirtatious and take things lightly, which usually isn't going to go over well with a Capricorn. Ultimately, though, you're both looking for the same thing—you're just going about it in different ways. Let him know that while you do flirt and have fun, you don't take love lightly.\\nTreat feelings and emotions as serious and important things as well. Give them gravity instead of tossing them out in an offhand or joking way.\\nIf you're after an exclusive commitment or looking forward to being a wife and mother, it will thrill him to hear you talk about that.\\n8. Follow through when you say you're going to do something.\\nCapricorn guys are focused on action and results rather than talk.\\nAs a Libra lady, you love to talk, and you likely have a thousand different ideas and things you want to do. Just because you talk about them doesn't mean you're actually going to do them—but that doesn't make any sense to a Capricorn guy. You'll impress him if you keep your ideas to yourself until you're ready to take action, then follow through immediately.\\nFor example, if you tell him that you want to start a new exercise program, he'll naturally expect you to start immediately. If you don't actually start for several months, he might start to think you don't mean what you say.\\nWith a more creative project, remember to give him updates on steps you're taking towards your overall goal. He'll be impressed with how you break it down into manageable chunks so you can make steady progress.\\n9. Give him time to open up to you.\\nCapricorns are never in a rush when it comes to matters of the heart.\\nHe might come across as cold and unemotional initially, but he's really not. Goats take emotions very seriously and are cautious about expressing them. Since Libra ladies tend to wear their hearts on their sleeves, this might be hard for you to understand at first. Don't worry—as you get to know him, it'll make more sense.\\nWhen he does tell you how he feels, treat what he says seriously and respond in kind. He'll be relieved to know that you aren't taking things lightly.\\nKeep in mind that Capricorns are very practical about their love, and he may not express his affection in a \\\"mushy\\\" way.\\n10. Communicate your expectations and boundaries clearly.\\nA Capricorn will put in the effort if he knows what's expected of him.\\nCapricorn and Libra are slightly mismatched in terms of what they typically want out of a relationship. You can overcome this, though, if you let him know what you need. Your Capricorn guy's goal-oriented work ethic will kick in and he'll do everything he can to be the partner of your dreams.\\nFor example, Libra ladies tend to be more clingy than a Capricorn would normally like. But if you state clearly the type of reassurance you need from him, he'll know what he needs to do. And since you have the reassurance you need, you won't feel as though you have to cling to him—a win-win for your relationship!\\nYou might say, \\\"I know you need your space, but when I'm apart from you I worry. Could you text me occasionally to let me know I'm on your mind?\\\"\\n11. Work on projects together as a team.\\nWhile you have different work styles, you can balance each other out.\\nAs a Libra woman, you love balance, so this is a great fit for you. Unfortunately, you and your Capricorn guy both want to be leaders. To avoid squabbles, make sure each of you has a clearly defined role in the project before you begin.\\nProjects with a short scope and duration, like putting together a piece of furniture, are great to take on early in your relationship so you can learn to work together as a team.\\nGenerally, it works best if you put your artistic sensibilities to work on the aesthetics of the project while he takes on a more utilitarian, workhorse role.\\n12. 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2,761 | How to Attract a Capricorn Man As a Sagittarius Woman | 1. Talk openly about your inner thoughts.
Capricorn men crave a deep, mental connection with their partners.
Feel free to share your opinions, dreams, and experiences with your Capricorn man. Just be your transparent, straight-shooting self around him he'll relate to what you’re saying. The conversation between you two will drive itself, so don’t try to force anything. Here are a few more conversation tips:
State your opinions concretely. Try something like, “I don’t like reality TV” instead of “well, I don’t know, sometimes I don’t think reality TV is for me.”
Use his name and make eye contact while you talk so he knows you’re interested in what he has to say.
Clear, direct communication wins the day with this sign. If he responds to you in a similar way, it means he’s liking the conversation.
2. Wow him with your travel stories.
A shy Capricorn man will be in awe of your tales of adventure.
He’s normally reserved and practical, but your Sagittarius wanderlust and curiosity will pique his interest in exploring the world himself. Tell him all about your cross-country road trip or your last European backpacking trip and watch his eyes fill with wonder as he considers traversing the globe by your side. Give him exciting details to paint a vivid picture, like:
“I had to run through the airport like a maniac with Chanel luggage so I could board on time” instead of “I almost missed my flight.”
“I could barely keep my eyes open because all the ice was reflecting the sunlight back up at me” in place of “It was really sunny.”
“This all-inclusive resort had me feeling like the tipsy Queen of California all week” instead of “the place I stayed was super nice.”
3. Be a social butterfly around him.
A quiet Cap will be fascinated by your ability to shine in the spotlight.
As a Sagittarius, you know how to work a room, so invite your Capricorn guy to spend an evening with you and your friends. Let him watch as you dazzle everyone with your charisma and great conversation, and he’ll be dying to get to know you better.
Caps are a bit shy and often socialize well only with their few close companions. Take time to bring him into conversations so he can shine too. If your friends are squabbling over what the best wine is, you could say, “John’s dad used to work on a vineyard. Maybe he can settle this debate…”
Be careful that your socializing doesn’t look like flirting with other guys. Your Capricorn will retreat back into his shell if he thinks he can’t hold your attention.
4. Bring on the jokes.
Capricorn has a dry, sarcastic humor under his no-nonsense facade.
As an outwardly funny jokester, you can prod him into loosening up and revealing more of his personality. He has a unique perspective on the world that he’ll share once he feels comfortable around you.
Try a joke about current events, like “Can I get a Blue Origin rocket on Amazon?”
Or a satirical comment on something in pop culture, like “When I get out of bed, I’m an absolute monster before I have my morning viral TikTok.”
Or just ask a whacky question, like “Do you think my new air filter will trap the ghost in my house?”
5. Make the first move.
A Cap man takes a long time to decide if he should ask you out.
As a daring and open Sagittarius, speed up the process by bringing the question to him. His practical, business-like mind will appreciate a no-nonsense proposal, so take your shot, Archer! Try something short and sweet, like:
“Hey! We should grab dinner this week.”
“Do you want to grab coffee sometime this weekend?”
“Nice Bulls jersey! We should watch the next game together.”
6. Filter your candid comments.
Capricorn men are sensitive and take offhand comments seriously.
As a Sagittarius, you tend to be honest and a little blunt without thinking (it’s part of your charm!). He’s likely to misinterpret a comment as mean or a joke at his expense, so think before you say something about his appearance or behavior. Keep your thoughts inside if you think you’re at risk of offending him.
A Capricorn man is pretty private and doesn’t like to broadcast himself to others. Be careful what you share about him to friends and family, since he might view your harmless talking as gossip about him.
7. Enjoy cozy nights at home with him.
A Capricorn man tends to be a homebody rather than a party animal.
This might shock your Sagittarius sensibilities, since you prefer to be out and about whenever you can. Compromise from time to time and stay in with him. He may be enthralled by your free spirit, but his needs and wants should be acknowledged too.
These opposite tendencies are what attract you to each other. Please him by staying in occasionally, but don’t be afraid to prod him into joining you for a night out on the town too.
8. Bring him on a trip with you.
Deep down, he wants to experience the freedom you feel when you travel.
Your Sag wanderlust can’t be squashed, so invite your Capricorn man to join you on your next expedition, whether it’s across the ocean or just a few towns over. It might take some convincing, but if you can open him up to these feelings and show him the world, he’ll be hooked on you.
Capricorn is more likely to let loose on a trip if he knows there’s a solid plan to follow. It might not be your style, but put together a travel itinerary to lure him out of the house and onto a flight.
9. Put equal effort into the relationship.
A Capricorn man is a workaholic who always contributes his fair share.
The ever-wandering Sagittarius, on the other hand, has a tendency to get distracted and shirk some responsibilities. Make sure he knows you’re putting equal effort into your relationship, even if it means traveling a little less and staying in more.
Split everyday tasks evenly too. A Capricorn might grow resentful if he feels he is putting in most of the work towards cleaning, date planning, or unreciprocated favors for you.
Capricorn men are usually reserved with their money. If you can, save up a bit and offer to pay for a date or go Dutch to share financial responsibilities too.
10. Tell him what you want in the bedroom.
You’re both natural communicators who aren’t coy when it comes to sex.
As a fire sign, you tend to be more vibrant and flexible in bed than his earth sign, who sticks to a few moves that he does well. Simply tell him what you want him to do and he’ll usually be happy to oblige. Sexually, Capricorn and Sagittarius are a good match.
PSA about PDA: Capricorn men prefer to keep physical affection in private and get uncomfortable with public romancing or touching. Since you’re more open and affectionate, be conscious of keeping your hands to yourself (until you’re alone together).
11. Move at his pace.
A Capricorn guy won’t show a lot of emotion or commit quickly.
You need to become part of his circle first. He’s cool and takes things slow compared to a Sagittarius woman, who’s often passionate and fast. Be patient and give him time to open up and express himself to you. You’re far more likely to feel and express strong attraction before he does, but when he does admit his feelings for you, he means them.
12. Maintain your independence.
A Cap man is an ambitious worker that’s driven to meet his goals.
He expects his partner to be too, and this is great news since you tend to thrive in your own life, with or without a partner. Continue being your successful, independent self at work and in your social life. The more you flourish personally, the more seriously he’ll consider you a potential partner.
This is good news for Sagittarius women who love to travel and go out. Just remember that you might need to stay in with your Capricorn (or take him along) from time to time so he doesn’t feel neglected.
13. Work towards a goal together.
A Capricorn man is a natural leader who gets things done.
This is a great fit for a Sagittarius woman, who’s full of creative ideas but sometimes lacks the direction to get things going. He’ll feel valuable to you when he helps put your ideas into practice, and there’s nothing you two can’t accomplish when you work together as a team. By the time you hit your goal, he’ll be head over heels for you. Some example projects might be:
Training for a 10K race together if you’re both athletic or competitive.
A home improvement project, like painting the kitchen or rearranging the living room furniture.
Raising money for a charity or nonprofit you both care about.
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Wow him with your travel stories.\\nA shy Capricorn man will be in awe of your tales of adventure.\\nHe’s normally reserved and practical, but your Sagittarius wanderlust and curiosity will pique his interest in exploring the world himself. Tell him all about your cross-country road trip or your last European backpacking trip and watch his eyes fill with wonder as he considers traversing the globe by your side. Give him exciting details to paint a vivid picture, like:\\n“I had to run through the airport like a maniac with Chanel luggage so I could board on time” instead of “I almost missed my flight.”\\n“I could barely keep my eyes open because all the ice was reflecting the sunlight back up at me” in place of “It was really sunny.”\\n“This all-inclusive resort had me feeling like the tipsy Queen of California all week” instead of “the place I stayed was super nice.”\\n3. Be a social butterfly around him.\\nA quiet Cap will be fascinated by your ability to shine in the spotlight.\\nAs a Sagittarius, you know how to work a room, so invite your Capricorn guy to spend an evening with you and your friends. Let him watch as you dazzle everyone with your charisma and great conversation, and he’ll be dying to get to know you better.\\nCaps are a bit shy and often socialize well only with their few close companions. Take time to bring him into conversations so he can shine too. If your friends are squabbling over what the best wine is, you could say, “John’s dad used to work on a vineyard. Maybe he can settle this debate…”\\nBe careful that your socializing doesn’t look like flirting with other guys. Your Capricorn will retreat back into his shell if he thinks he can’t hold your attention.\\n4. Bring on the jokes.\\nCapricorn has a dry, sarcastic humor under his no-nonsense facade.\\nAs an outwardly funny jokester, you can prod him into loosening up and revealing more of his personality. He has a unique perspective on the world that he’ll share once he feels comfortable around you.\\nTry a joke about current events, like “Can I get a Blue Origin rocket on Amazon?”\\nOr a satirical comment on something in pop culture, like “When I get out of bed, I’m an absolute monster before I have my morning viral TikTok.”\\nOr just ask a whacky question, like “Do you think my new air filter will trap the ghost in my house?”\\n5. Make the first move.\\nA Cap man takes a long time to decide if he should ask you out.\\nAs a daring and open Sagittarius, speed up the process by bringing the question to him. His practical, business-like mind will appreciate a no-nonsense proposal, so take your shot, Archer! Try something short and sweet, like:\\n“Hey! We should grab dinner this week.”\\n“Do you want to grab coffee sometime this weekend?”\\n“Nice Bulls jersey! We should watch the next game together.”\\n6. Filter your candid comments.\\nCapricorn men are sensitive and take offhand comments seriously.\\nAs a Sagittarius, you tend to be honest and a little blunt without thinking (it’s part of your charm!). He’s likely to misinterpret a comment as mean or a joke at his expense, so think before you say something about his appearance or behavior. Keep your thoughts inside if you think you’re at risk of offending him.\\nA Capricorn man is pretty private and doesn’t like to broadcast himself to others. Be careful what you share about him to friends and family, since he might view your harmless talking as gossip about him.\\n7. Enjoy cozy nights at home with him.\\nA Capricorn man tends to be a homebody rather than a party animal.\\nThis might shock your Sagittarius sensibilities, since you prefer to be out and about whenever you can. Compromise from time to time and stay in with him. He may be enthralled by your free spirit, but his needs and wants should be acknowledged too.\\nThese opposite tendencies are what attract you to each other. Please him by staying in occasionally, but don’t be afraid to prod him into joining you for a night out on the town too.\\n8. Bring him on a trip with you.\\nDeep down, he wants to experience the freedom you feel when you travel.\\nYour Sag wanderlust can’t be squashed, so invite your Capricorn man to join you on your next expedition, whether it’s across the ocean or just a few towns over. It might take some convincing, but if you can open him up to these feelings and show him the world, he’ll be hooked on you.\\nCapricorn is more likely to let loose on a trip if he knows there’s a solid plan to follow. It might not be your style, but put together a travel itinerary to lure him out of the house and onto a flight.\\n9. Put equal effort into the relationship.\\nA Capricorn man is a workaholic who always contributes his fair share.\\nThe ever-wandering Sagittarius, on the other hand, has a tendency to get distracted and shirk some responsibilities. Make sure he knows you’re putting equal effort into your relationship, even if it means traveling a little less and staying in more.\\nSplit everyday tasks evenly too. A Capricorn might grow resentful if he feels he is putting in most of the work towards cleaning, date planning, or unreciprocated favors for you.\\nCapricorn men are usually reserved with their money. If you can, save up a bit and offer to pay for a date or go Dutch to share financial responsibilities too.\\n10. Tell him what you want in the bedroom.\\nYou’re both natural communicators who aren’t coy when it comes to sex.\\nAs a fire sign, you tend to be more vibrant and flexible in bed than his earth sign, who sticks to a few moves that he does well. Simply tell him what you want him to do and he’ll usually be happy to oblige. Sexually, Capricorn and Sagittarius are a good match.\\nPSA about PDA: Capricorn men prefer to keep physical affection in private and get uncomfortable with public romancing or touching. Since you’re more open and affectionate, be conscious of keeping your hands to yourself (until you’re alone together).\\n11. Move at his pace.\\nA Capricorn guy won’t show a lot of emotion or commit quickly.\\nYou need to become part of his circle first. He’s cool and takes things slow compared to a Sagittarius woman, who’s often passionate and fast. Be patient and give him time to open up and express himself to you. You’re far more likely to feel and express strong attraction before he does, but when he does admit his feelings for you, he means them.\\n12. Maintain your independence.\\nA Cap man is an ambitious worker that’s driven to meet his goals.\\nHe expects his partner to be too, and this is great news since you tend to thrive in your own life, with or without a partner. Continue being your successful, independent self at work and in your social life. The more you flourish personally, the more seriously he’ll consider you a potential partner.\\nThis is good news for Sagittarius women who love to travel and go out. Just remember that you might need to stay in with your Capricorn (or take him along) from time to time so he doesn’t feel neglected.\\n13. Work towards a goal together.\\nA Capricorn man is a natural leader who gets things done.\\nThis is a great fit for a Sagittarius woman, who’s full of creative ideas but sometimes lacks the direction to get things going. He’ll feel valuable to you when he helps put your ideas into practice, and there’s nothing you two can’t accomplish when you work together as a team. By the time you hit your goal, he’ll be head over heels for you. Some example projects might be:\\nTraining for a 10K race together if you’re both athletic or competitive.\\nA home improvement project, like painting the kitchen or rearranging the living room furniture.\\nRaising money for a charity or nonprofit you both care about.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"“Opposites attract” has never been more true than with a Sagittarius woman and a Capricorn man. Both have strong, unique characteristics that make this unlikely coupling work so well. In this article, we’ll show you how to use your fiery Sagittarian charm to grab his attention and turn your electric attraction into a fulfilling relationship. Read on for a comprehensive list of ways to attract an earthy Capricorn man and keep him by your side.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Talk openly about your inner thoughts.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Capricorn men crave a deep, mental connection with their partners.\", \"描述\": \"Feel free to share your opinions, dreams, and experiences with your Capricorn man. Just be your transparent, straight-shooting self around him he'll relate to what you’re saying. The conversation between you two will drive itself, so don’t try to force anything. Here are a few more conversation tips:\\nState your opinions concretely. Try something like, “I don’t like reality TV” instead of “well, I don’t know, sometimes I don’t think reality TV is for me.”\\nUse his name and make eye contact while you talk so he knows you’re interested in what he has to say.\\nClear, direct communication wins the day with this sign. If he responds to you in a similar way, it means he’s liking the conversation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wow him with your travel stories.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A shy Capricorn man will be in awe of your tales of adventure.\", \"描述\": \"He’s normally reserved and practical, but your Sagittarius wanderlust and curiosity will pique his interest in exploring the world himself. Tell him all about your cross-country road trip or your last European backpacking trip and watch his eyes fill with wonder as he considers traversing the globe by your side. Give him exciting details to paint a vivid picture, like:\\n“I had to run through the airport like a maniac with Chanel luggage so I could board on time” instead of “I almost missed my flight.”\\n“I could barely keep my eyes open because all the ice was reflecting the sunlight back up at me” in place of “It was really sunny.”\\n“This all-inclusive resort had me feeling like the tipsy Queen of California all week” instead of “the place I stayed was super nice.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be a social butterfly around him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A quiet Cap will be fascinated by your ability to shine in the spotlight.\", \"描述\": \"As a Sagittarius, you know how to work a room, so invite your Capricorn guy to spend an evening with you and your friends. Let him watch as you dazzle everyone with your charisma and great conversation, and he’ll be dying to get to know you better.\\nCaps are a bit shy and often socialize well only with their few close companions. Take time to bring him into conversations so he can shine too. If your friends are squabbling over what the best wine is, you could say, “John’s dad used to work on a vineyard. Maybe he can settle this debate…”\\nBe careful that your socializing doesn’t look like flirting with other guys. Your Capricorn will retreat back into his shell if he thinks he can’t hold your attention.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Bring on the jokes.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Capricorn has a dry, sarcastic humor under his no-nonsense facade.\", \"描述\": \"As an outwardly funny jokester, you can prod him into loosening up and revealing more of his personality. He has a unique perspective on the world that he’ll share once he feels comfortable around you.\\nTry a joke about current events, like “Can I get a Blue Origin rocket on Amazon?”\\nOr a satirical comment on something in pop culture, like “When I get out of bed, I’m an absolute monster before I have my morning viral TikTok.”\\nOr just ask a whacky question, like “Do you think my new air filter will trap the ghost in my house?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Make the first move.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Cap man takes a long time to decide if he should ask you out.\", \"描述\": \"As a daring and open Sagittarius, speed up the process by bringing the question to him. His practical, business-like mind will appreciate a no-nonsense proposal, so take your shot, Archer! Try something short and sweet, like:\\n“Hey! We should grab dinner this week.”\\n“Do you want to grab coffee sometime this weekend?”\\n“Nice Bulls jersey! We should watch the next game together.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Filter your candid comments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Capricorn men are sensitive and take offhand comments seriously.\", \"描述\": \"As a Sagittarius, you tend to be honest and a little blunt without thinking (it’s part of your charm!). He’s likely to misinterpret a comment as mean or a joke at his expense, so think before you say something about his appearance or behavior. Keep your thoughts inside if you think you’re at risk of offending him.\\nA Capricorn man is pretty private and doesn’t like to broadcast himself to others. Be careful what you share about him to friends and family, since he might view your harmless talking as gossip about him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Enjoy cozy nights at home with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Capricorn man tends to be a homebody rather than a party animal.\", \"描述\": \"This might shock your Sagittarius sensibilities, since you prefer to be out and about whenever you can. Compromise from time to time and stay in with him. He may be enthralled by your free spirit, but his needs and wants should be acknowledged too.\\nThese opposite tendencies are what attract you to each other. 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2,762 | 11+ Tips to Attract a Capricorn Woman and Treat Her Right | 1. Show you’re worth her time.
Use a direct or serious pick-up line.
Don’t try a flippant conversation-opener on a Capricorn. Stability-oriented Capricorns aren’t interested in casual relationships, and women tend to assume flirts who deliver over-the-top pickup lines are only good for short-term flings. Capricorns get more spontaneous as they age, but young Capricorns have little time for anything that doesn’t get them closer to their goals.
Start a conversation over a shared interest or signal your romantic intentions with a direct compliment.
For a perfect stranger, try: “You have a great laugh” or “You have a wonderful smile.”
If it’s a work or class peer, try: “I really liked how you handled that situation.”
If it’s a friend you’ve been too shy to make a move on: “You’re exactly the kind of woman I’d like to date.”
Don’t shower her with compliments about her physical appearance or clothing unless you suspect it’s something particularly meaningful to her. Later, she’ll want to know you find her attractive, but initially, she’ll want to know you’ve noticed her brain or accomplishments.
Capricorns have a sharp sense of humor, but it’s usually reserved for their inner circle, so avoid humor until you know each other better.
2. Honor traditions.
Bring history into the mix.
Capricorns love tradition and ritual, so try engaging your Capricorn crush in conversations about historical places, old movies, and events connected to her heritage or family life.
Get first date ideas from any tradition or heritage she brings up. It’ll show you know what’s important to her.
Dates at a museum or historical landmark can seem sterile, but many museums and landmarks offer more intimate themed events in the evening or on weekends.
Try catching a movie at a vintage drive-through. Not only will it appeal to her love of tradition, it’ll be more personal than a theater date, since you can talk (and maybe more) during the film.
If she’s more interested in esoteric topics, consider ordering in a grand take-out spread to eat while watching a streamed documentary or reality show.
Make it interactive — the movie or museum is just an excuse for conversation, a jump off point to engage her on an intellectual level. It might feel like you’re just trading facts and trivia, but to a brainy Cap, an intellectual connection is flirting.
3. Get used to dating on a schedule.
Make plans and then be on time.
Capricorns are one of the most ambitious signs, and the woman who’s caught your eye has a busy schedule. If you want to be a part of it, you’ll need to be reliable and proactive.
Suggest a variety of days and times for your first date.
If you can’t make it, explain what happened, and immediately reschedule so she knows you’re serious.
Be on time. Be prepared. Show that you did the research to make your plans work.
4. Dress the part.
The expression “dress for the job you want” was made for Capricorns.
Capricorns have an unfair reputation of coming across as snobbish and materialistic, but really they just like trappings that show you have worked for what you have. They work hard to be sure their outside appearance reflects what they’ve accomplished and what they admire, and they’ll respect if you do the same. Do you want a Capricorn woman on your arm? Dress for it.
Combine her love of history and status symbols by wearing your most traditional, dapper looks.
You don’t have to purchase clothing to accomplish a more stylish look. Pick your favorite article of clothing and look up other ways to style it. For instance, if you have a pair of dark jeans that make you feel like you can rule the world whenever you wear them, look up “how to style dark jeans men” or “how to style dark jeans women” to get inspired.
5. Watch the ego.
A Capricorn woman won't be happy if you're threatened by her big aspirations.
When faced with any extremely successful person, it can be easy to feel insecure, especially if you aren’t as far along in your career goals. The Capricorn woman doesn’t need you to have her intense aims, but she does need a partner who won’t get in her way. Show her you aren’t attracted to her despite her drive, but because of it, and you’ll immediately stand out from the crowd.
Talk to her about her work. Ask her what her goals are for one year, five years, and ten years, and watch her decide to include you in them!
Sometimes ego goes the other way: it can be intimidating to see a put-together woman who knows what she wants. Don’t let your own insecurity ruin your chances. Instead, let her good habits motivate you to change yours.
6. Support her work.
Get to her heart by going through her spreadsheets.
Capricorns are career women, and even if she wants to try a relationship with you, she might be worried you’ll be so all-encompassing that her grand plans will fall by the wayside. Show her she can have both. You don’t need to prove that you’ll be invisible —you need to prove you’ll be a value-add.
Try practical gestures like offering to bring dinner to her while she’s working late, or offering her rides to work while her ride’s getting an oil change. Bonus: you get to spend more time with her!
7. Show her she’s succeeded.
Give thoughtful gifts that hit her right where it matters:
Capricorns’ ambition can seem unending and all-consuming, but their relentless drive comes from a deep desire to accomplish something during their own lifetime. Caps are famous for being hungry for status-symbols and material goods, but really what they want is concrete proof they’ve made it.
Great gifts include framed photos of meaningful accomplishments, clothing items she can wear to work events, or hand-written “merit certificates” offering sexy favors as a reward for reaching important work milestones.
8. Value her family.
Learn who else is important to her.
Capricorns will do anything for their families and for their small friend group. Both friends and family are treated with the same care, and showing that you care about getting to know them will matter a lot to her.
Make an effort to spend time with her family around holidays. This will show her that you know her family connections are important to both of you.
Take the time to really get to know her parents or the family members she is closest to.
9. Be patient.
It will take a Capricorn woman time to make up her mind about you.
Don’t be discouraged if your Capricorn crush doesn’t rush to say “I love you” — and don’t be in a hurry to say it to her, either. Capricorns feel deeply, but they often feel uncomfortable with sentiment. As long as she’s still showing up, she’s in the game, and she probably assumes the same of you. Capricorn women value stability, structure, and goals, and the longer you’re around, the more convinced she’ll be that you truly do fit in her life.
Pay special attention to how she shows her friends and family that she cares. This will give you valuable clues for how you can share your feelings with her too.
10. Soften her landing.
Learn what hurts her and how to help her.
Capricorns hold themselves to high standards, and normally, they meet them. When they don’t, though, the disappointment and regret can be crushing.
Soothe your Capricorn’s bruised confidence by taking her to see an inspirational movie or by giving her a massage while encouraging her to talk about times she’s overcome failure in the past. She’ll remember how capable she is and you’ll be one step closer to enjoying a Capricorn’s surprisingly passionate side.
11. Be compatible, not identical.
Don’t be scared off.
It can be easy to let self-doubt stop a relationship with a Capricorn woman before it even begins. The Capricorn woman you can’t stop thinking about is ambitious, trend-setting, goal-oriented, and successful, but you don’t need to be her mirror . . . only her match. Women fall in love with those with complementary brain chemistry profiles, not identical ones. Remember that every couple is a power couple with a Capricorn in the mix.
Treat your Capricorn crush like a goddess and act like you’re her worthy consort, and reap the benefits.
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Capricorns get more spontaneous as they age, but young Capricorns have little time for anything that doesn’t get them closer to their goals.\\nStart a conversation over a shared interest or signal your romantic intentions with a direct compliment.\\nFor a perfect stranger, try: “You have a great laugh” or “You have a wonderful smile.”\\nIf it’s a work or class peer, try: “I really liked how you handled that situation.”\\nIf it’s a friend you’ve been too shy to make a move on: “You’re exactly the kind of woman I’d like to date.”\\nDon’t shower her with compliments about her physical appearance or clothing unless you suspect it’s something particularly meaningful to her. Later, she’ll want to know you find her attractive, but initially, she’ll want to know you’ve noticed her brain or accomplishments.\\nCapricorns have a sharp sense of humor, but it’s usually reserved for their inner circle, so avoid humor until you know each other better.\\n2. Honor traditions.\\nBring history into the mix.\\nCapricorns love tradition and ritual, so try engaging your Capricorn crush in conversations about historical places, old movies, and events connected to her heritage or family life.\\nGet first date ideas from any tradition or heritage she brings up. It’ll show you know what’s important to her.\\nDates at a museum or historical landmark can seem sterile, but many museums and landmarks offer more intimate themed events in the evening or on weekends.\\nTry catching a movie at a vintage drive-through. Not only will it appeal to her love of tradition, it’ll be more personal than a theater date, since you can talk (and maybe more) during the film.\\nIf she’s more interested in esoteric topics, consider ordering in a grand take-out spread to eat while watching a streamed documentary or reality show.\\nMake it interactive — the movie or museum is just an excuse for conversation, a jump off point to engage her on an intellectual level. It might feel like you’re just trading facts and trivia, but to a brainy Cap, an intellectual connection is flirting.\\n3. Get used to dating on a schedule.\\nMake plans and then be on time.\\nCapricorns are one of the most ambitious signs, and the woman who’s caught your eye has a busy schedule. If you want to be a part of it, you’ll need to be reliable and proactive.\\nSuggest a variety of days and times for your first date.\\nIf you can’t make it, explain what happened, and immediately reschedule so she knows you’re serious.\\nBe on time. Be prepared. Show that you did the research to make your plans work.\\n4. Dress the part.\\nThe expression “dress for the job you want” was made for Capricorns.\\nCapricorns have an unfair reputation of coming across as snobbish and materialistic, but really they just like trappings that show you have worked for what you have. They work hard to be sure their outside appearance reflects what they’ve accomplished and what they admire, and they’ll respect if you do the same. Do you want a Capricorn woman on your arm? Dress for it.\\nCombine her love of history and status symbols by wearing your most traditional, dapper looks.\\nYou don’t have to purchase clothing to accomplish a more stylish look. Pick your favorite article of clothing and look up other ways to style it. For instance, if you have a pair of dark jeans that make you feel like you can rule the world whenever you wear them, look up “how to style dark jeans men” or “how to style dark jeans women” to get inspired.\\n5. Watch the ego.\\nA Capricorn woman won't be happy if you're threatened by her big aspirations.\\nWhen faced with any extremely successful person, it can be easy to feel insecure, especially if you aren’t as far along in your career goals. The Capricorn woman doesn’t need you to have her intense aims, but she does need a partner who won’t get in her way. Show her you aren’t attracted to her despite her drive, but because of it, and you’ll immediately stand out from the crowd.\\nTalk to her about her work. Ask her what her goals are for one year, five years, and ten years, and watch her decide to include you in them!\\nSometimes ego goes the other way: it can be intimidating to see a put-together woman who knows what she wants. Don’t let your own insecurity ruin your chances. Instead, let her good habits motivate you to change yours.\\n6. Support her work.\\nGet to her heart by going through her spreadsheets.\\nCapricorns are career women, and even if she wants to try a relationship with you, she might be worried you’ll be so all-encompassing that her grand plans will fall by the wayside. Show her she can have both. You don’t need to prove that you’ll be invisible —you need to prove you’ll be a value-add.\\nTry practical gestures like offering to bring dinner to her while she’s working late, or offering her rides to work while her ride’s getting an oil change. Bonus: you get to spend more time with her!\\n7. Show her she’s succeeded.\\nGive thoughtful gifts that hit her right where it matters:\\nCapricorns’ ambition can seem unending and all-consuming, but their relentless drive comes from a deep desire to accomplish something during their own lifetime. Caps are famous for being hungry for status-symbols and material goods, but really what they want is concrete proof they’ve made it.\\nGreat gifts include framed photos of meaningful accomplishments, clothing items she can wear to work events, or hand-written “merit certificates” offering sexy favors as a reward for reaching important work milestones.\\n8. Value her family.\\nLearn who else is important to her.\\nCapricorns will do anything for their families and for their small friend group. Both friends and family are treated with the same care, and showing that you care about getting to know them will matter a lot to her.\\nMake an effort to spend time with her family around holidays. This will show her that you know her family connections are important to both of you.\\nTake the time to really get to know her parents or the family members she is closest to.\\n9. Be patient.\\nIt will take a Capricorn woman time to make up her mind about you.\\nDon’t be discouraged if your Capricorn crush doesn’t rush to say “I love you” — and don’t be in a hurry to say it to her, either. Capricorns feel deeply, but they often feel uncomfortable with sentiment. As long as she’s still showing up, she’s in the game, and she probably assumes the same of you. Capricorn women value stability, structure, and goals, and the longer you’re around, the more convinced she’ll be that you truly do fit in her life.\\nPay special attention to how she shows her friends and family that she cares. This will give you valuable clues for how you can share your feelings with her too.\\n10. Soften her landing.\\nLearn what hurts her and how to help her.\\nCapricorns hold themselves to high standards, and normally, they meet them. When they don’t, though, the disappointment and regret can be crushing.\\nSoothe your Capricorn’s bruised confidence by taking her to see an inspirational movie or by giving her a massage while encouraging her to talk about times she’s overcome failure in the past. She’ll remember how capable she is and you’ll be one step closer to enjoying a Capricorn’s surprisingly passionate side.\\n11. Be compatible, not identical.\\nDon’t be scared off.\\nIt can be easy to let self-doubt stop a relationship with a Capricorn woman before it even begins. The Capricorn woman you can’t stop thinking about is ambitious, trend-setting, goal-oriented, and successful, but you don’t need to be her mirror . . . only her match. Women fall in love with those with complementary brain chemistry profiles, not identical ones. Remember that every couple is a power couple with a Capricorn in the mix.\\nTreat your Capricorn crush like a goddess and act like you’re her worthy consort, and reap the benefits.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"So you’re crushing on a Capricorn (someone born between December 22-January 19) and want to know how to get closer to them? Knowing their birthday has already given you a leg up, since trustworthy, tradition-loving Capricorns are big on saving the date. Your ambitious Cap crush is probably scheduled down to the minute, so you’ll have to be sharp if you want her to make time for you. Don’t worry. Here’s a list of practical tips to help you win the heart of this practical sign.This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show you’re worth her time.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Use a direct or serious pick-up line.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t try a flippant conversation-opener on a Capricorn. Stability-oriented Capricorns aren’t interested in casual relationships, and women tend to assume flirts who deliver over-the-top pickup lines are only good for short-term flings. Capricorns get more spontaneous as they age, but young Capricorns have little time for anything that doesn’t get them closer to their goals.\\nStart a conversation over a shared interest or signal your romantic intentions with a direct compliment.\\nFor a perfect stranger, try: “You have a great laugh” or “You have a wonderful smile.”\\nIf it’s a work or class peer, try: “I really liked how you handled that situation.”\\nIf it’s a friend you’ve been too shy to make a move on: “You’re exactly the kind of woman I’d like to date.”\\nDon’t shower her with compliments about her physical appearance or clothing unless you suspect it’s something particularly meaningful to her. Later, she’ll want to know you find her attractive, but initially, she’ll want to know you’ve noticed her brain or accomplishments.\\nCapricorns have a sharp sense of humor, but it’s usually reserved for their inner circle, so avoid humor until you know each other better.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Honor traditions.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Bring history into the mix.\", \"描述\": \"Capricorns love tradition and ritual, so try engaging your Capricorn crush in conversations about historical places, old movies, and events connected to her heritage or family life.\\nGet first date ideas from any tradition or heritage she brings up. It’ll show you know what’s important to her.\\nDates at a museum or historical landmark can seem sterile, but many museums and landmarks offer more intimate themed events in the evening or on weekends.\\nTry catching a movie at a vintage drive-through. Not only will it appeal to her love of tradition, it’ll be more personal than a theater date, since you can talk (and maybe more) during the film.\\nIf she’s more interested in esoteric topics, consider ordering in a grand take-out spread to eat while watching a streamed documentary or reality show.\\nMake it interactive — the movie or museum is just an excuse for conversation, a jump off point to engage her on an intellectual level. It might feel like you’re just trading facts and trivia, but to a brainy Cap, an intellectual connection is flirting.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Get used to dating on a schedule.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make plans and then be on time.\", \"描述\": \"Capricorns are one of the most ambitious signs, and the woman who’s caught your eye has a busy schedule. If you want to be a part of it, you’ll need to be reliable and proactive.\\nSuggest a variety of days and times for your first date.\\nIf you can’t make it, explain what happened, and immediately reschedule so she knows you’re serious.\\nBe on time. Be prepared. Show that you did the research to make your plans work.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Dress the part.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The expression “dress for the job you want” was made for Capricorns.\", \"描述\": \"Capricorns have an unfair reputation of coming across as snobbish and materialistic, but really they just like trappings that show you have worked for what you have. They work hard to be sure their outside appearance reflects what they’ve accomplished and what they admire, and they’ll respect if you do the same. Do you want a Capricorn woman on your arm? Dress for it.\\nCombine her love of history and status symbols by wearing your most traditional, dapper looks.\\nYou don’t have to purchase clothing to accomplish a more stylish look. Pick your favorite article of clothing and look up other ways to style it. For instance, if you have a pair of dark jeans that make you feel like you can rule the world whenever you wear them, look up “how to style dark jeans men” or “how to style dark jeans women” to get inspired.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Watch the ego.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Capricorn woman won't be happy if you're threatened by her big aspirations.\", \"描述\": \"When faced with any extremely successful person, it can be easy to feel insecure, especially if you aren’t as far along in your career goals. The Capricorn woman doesn’t need you to have her intense aims, but she does need a partner who won’t get in her way. Show her you aren’t attracted to her despite her drive, but because of it, and you’ll immediately stand out from the crowd.\\nTalk to her about her work. Ask her what her goals are for one year, five years, and ten years, and watch her decide to include you in them!\\nSometimes ego goes the other way: it can be intimidating to see a put-together woman who knows what she wants. Don’t let your own insecurity ruin your chances. Instead, let her good habits motivate you to change yours.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Support her work.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get to her heart by going through her spreadsheets.\", \"描述\": \"Capricorns are career women, and even if she wants to try a relationship with you, she might be worried you’ll be so all-encompassing that her grand plans will fall by the wayside. Show her she can have both. You don’t need to prove that you’ll be invisible —you need to prove you’ll be a value-add.\\nTry practical gestures like offering to bring dinner to her while she’s working late, or offering her rides to work while her ride’s getting an oil change. Bonus: you get to spend more time with her!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Show her she’s succeeded.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Give thoughtful gifts that hit her right where it matters:\", \"描述\": \"Capricorns’ ambition can seem unending and all-consuming, but their relentless drive comes from a deep desire to accomplish something during their own lifetime. 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2,763 | How to Attract a Capricorn Woman As a Taurus Man | 1. Always be on time.
Show up when she expects you to and you’ll score a second date.
A Capricorn woman works really hard and has a very packed schedule, so she’s already going out of her way if she agrees to meet for lunch or coffee. Since she doesn't want to waste time, she’ll test you and see how reliable you are. If she looks up and you show up right when you promised to, you’ll put a huge smile on her face.
If you manage to throw in an extra special gesture, like bringing flowers, and are still really punctual, she’ll be blown away.
A Capricorn woman is ruled by Saturn, so she can make super quick judgments. If she notices your attention to details like logistics right away, you’ll already be at the top of her list.
2. Invite her to a small get-together.
You’re both choosy, so she’ll feel flattered when you include her.
When two earth signs like a Capricorn woman and a Taurus man get together, it’s pretty obvious that they’re both selective. Once you bond over taking time with people, tell her that you think she’d be a perfect fit for your group of friends. Ask her to come with you to a low-key event, like a trivia night. Her heart will flutter when you let her step into your world.
Explain why you’re inviting her so she knows you’re sincere. You can say something like, “You’re the wittiest person I know. With you as my secret weapon, I’ll dominate every trivia category!”
Point out that you rarely let dates tag along with you—she’ll appreciate that you enjoy her company and fantasize about being on your arm more often.
3. Be direct and say you’re into her.
This earth sign craves honesty, so just confess you’re attracted to her.
The biggest common ground between a Capricorn and a Taurus is a desire to know the truth. You’re better off if you tell her your feelings right away—reveal everything you love about her and you'll dazzle her. You’ll set yourself apart from anyone else trying to play it too cool, and she’ll see actual relationship potential with you.
When you cut to the chase and say you see more than a friendship or casual situation with her, she’ll think about your courage all day.
Cover all the bases—admit to an emotional, physical, and mental attraction. She’ll know you don’t hold anything back.
4. Take her out to a swanky dinner.
Appeal to all five of her senses and she’ll realize you’re her dream man.
Bring her to an upscale restaurant that smells aromatic, has gorgeous decor, and serves delicious dishes. Hold her hand to send shivers down her spine, and tell her that she deserves the royal treatment because she’s so exquisite. She’ll hardly believe that you’re real, and by the time the evening is over, your favorite Capricorn will want to be all yours.
A Capricorn and a Taurus are both sensual earth signs that love worldly pleasures like fine dining, so this date will prove what a great match you make.
While this is definitely a bit of an investment, she’ll respect that you’ll splurge a little for her. Plus, you’ll enjoy yourself, too!
5. Show you’re a great listener.
When she gets your full attention, you’ll leave her completely satisfied.
Make sure that she does most of the talking—as a tender and caring Taurus, you’ll make a point that you’re different from many of the other signs that may pursue her. Carefully consider whatever she tells you. Then, answer with detailed observations or follow-up comments. Because you’re so interested, she’ll feel like you’re worshiping her and find it incredibly seductive.
A Capricorn woman is highly analytical, so she’s been waiting for someone to let her unpack everything she notices.
Remind her that you’ll keep everything she tells you confidential. She’ll adore how trustworthy you are, and she’ll know she can be vulnerable around you.
6. Have deep conversations with her.
Play off your differences and hook her with how engaging you are.
A Capricorn is ruled by Saturn and focuses only on what’s practical or realistic. Since you’re influenced by Venus, you are more driven by emotions. The beauty in this contrast is that you’ll both have so much to talk about. She’ll be stirred up and challenged, but she’ll also know you’re the best person to turn to for a stimulating discussion.
A Capricorn needs a strong mental connection, so don’t be afraid of debates. As long as you keep everything respectful, she’ll feel really engaged.
Because she’s so drawn to your empathy, she’ll also seek you out when she needs to process her emotions.
7. Talk about big visions.
She finds ambition addictive, so share the goals you’re chasing after.
You’re two of the least impulsive signs, and you both like to map out your futures. Ask her wants to accomplish in 5-10 years. Naturally, she’ll ask you the same thing. If you jump right into your answers, she’ll be impressed. Outline all the steps you’ll take to manifest what you want to accomplish, too—she’ll picture you as the other half of an incredible power couple.
Suggest how you can help her out and she’ll be putty in your hands. For example, if she wants to set up an e-course, you can offer to edit her videos.
Encourage her with sincere praise to lift her spirits. You can say something like, “You know marketing inside and out! You definitely have so much to teach about that subject.”
8. Playfully compete with each other.
She’ll feel fired up and get lost in the fun little game.
After you’ve swapped standards you want to hold yourselves to, tease her and tell her you want to see who can meet their goal first. If there’s any overlap, like the fact that you both want to run a marathon, then motivate her so she pushes herself a little harder—in this case, you can sprint and see if she’ll keep up with you. With all your creative encouragement, she’ll feel like her best self around you and want you by her side.
Be sure to balance out all that flirty competition with compliments and praise—she’ll definitely want to hear you gush over her accomplishments!
9. Prove you’re responsible with money.
She’s a sucker for a good budget and will see you as a great provider.
A Capricorn always has her eye on her finances, and she respects a partner who isn’t cash-strapped. Explain that you like to make smart investments and how you plan to increase your income—when she hears that you’re just as careful as she is, she’ll imagine a more serious dynamic with you.
The cautious Capricorn loves to save all the money she can, while Venus’ influence over you allows you to grow your wealth pretty easily. She’ll love that the two of you can balance each other out and plan a future together.
10. Buy her a thoughtful gift.
A Capricorn rarely treats herself, so this will take her breath away.
She’s never tempted to make an impulse buy, and she sticks to the basics so she has a lot left over in the bank. Use your Venusian sensibilities to pick out something special that is perfect for her, even if it never crossed her mind. For example, give her a pendant necklace that matches her eyes or a chic bracelet watch. She’ll treasure whatever you find, and she’ll worship you for all the effort you went through.
Home decor, such as a beautiful vase, is another great choice for a Capricorn—she wants to create the most calming space that she can and loves to add extra touches. You’ll also show off your domestic side as a Taurus, which she’ll swoon over.
11. Show your sensual side.
Touch is the ultimate way to express love and passion to a Capricorn.
She would rather be held and caressed than told how much you adore her. After the beginning stages of dating, she’ll already know you’re attracted to her, so she’ll want to truly feel your affection for her instead. Whenever you’re with her, spend a lot of quality time exploring new forms of physical intimacy. She’ll long for your tenderness and intensity.
Since you come across as really strong and powerful as a Taurus, she’ll be honored to see your more vulnerable and caring side.
Saturn rules over a Capricorn, so she is used to taking her time with intimacy. However, once she falls for your Venusian charms and your loving energy, she’ll want to hold onto you for good.
12. Tell her you’re there to stay.
A Capricorn commits when she’s convinced about your loyalty.
She’s extremely practical and only wants to move forward with a partner who will be an ongoing part of her life. Explain to her that she has a place in your heart and that you’ll keep investing in your relationship. She’ll see you as a possible soulmate and stay around to see what else is in store for the both of you.
You’re both stable earth signs that hope for a life partner, so your long-term compatibility is extremely promising. Enjoy the journey!
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Once you bond over taking time with people, tell her that you think she’d be a perfect fit for your group of friends. Ask her to come with you to a low-key event, like a trivia night. Her heart will flutter when you let her step into your world.\\nExplain why you’re inviting her so she knows you’re sincere. You can say something like, “You’re the wittiest person I know. With you as my secret weapon, I’ll dominate every trivia category!”\\nPoint out that you rarely let dates tag along with you—she’ll appreciate that you enjoy her company and fantasize about being on your arm more often.\\n3. Be direct and say you’re into her.\\nThis earth sign craves honesty, so just confess you’re attracted to her.\\nThe biggest common ground between a Capricorn and a Taurus is a desire to know the truth. You’re better off if you tell her your feelings right away—reveal everything you love about her and you'll dazzle her. You’ll set yourself apart from anyone else trying to play it too cool, and she’ll see actual relationship potential with you.\\nWhen you cut to the chase and say you see more than a friendship or casual situation with her, she’ll think about your courage all day.\\nCover all the bases—admit to an emotional, physical, and mental attraction. She’ll know you don’t hold anything back.\\n4. Take her out to a swanky dinner.\\nAppeal to all five of her senses and she’ll realize you’re her dream man.\\nBring her to an upscale restaurant that smells aromatic, has gorgeous decor, and serves delicious dishes. Hold her hand to send shivers down her spine, and tell her that she deserves the royal treatment because she’s so exquisite. She’ll hardly believe that you’re real, and by the time the evening is over, your favorite Capricorn will want to be all yours.\\nA Capricorn and a Taurus are both sensual earth signs that love worldly pleasures like fine dining, so this date will prove what a great match you make.\\nWhile this is definitely a bit of an investment, she’ll respect that you’ll splurge a little for her. Plus, you’ll enjoy yourself, too!\\n5. Show you’re a great listener.\\nWhen she gets your full attention, you’ll leave her completely satisfied.\\nMake sure that she does most of the talking—as a tender and caring Taurus, you’ll make a point that you’re different from many of the other signs that may pursue her. Carefully consider whatever she tells you. Then, answer with detailed observations or follow-up comments. Because you’re so interested, she’ll feel like you’re worshiping her and find it incredibly seductive.\\nA Capricorn woman is highly analytical, so she’s been waiting for someone to let her unpack everything she notices.\\nRemind her that you’ll keep everything she tells you confidential. She’ll adore how trustworthy you are, and she’ll know she can be vulnerable around you.\\n6. Have deep conversations with her.\\nPlay off your differences and hook her with how engaging you are.\\nA Capricorn is ruled by Saturn and focuses only on what’s practical or realistic. Since you’re influenced by Venus, you are more driven by emotions. The beauty in this contrast is that you’ll both have so much to talk about. She’ll be stirred up and challenged, but she’ll also know you’re the best person to turn to for a stimulating discussion.\\nA Capricorn needs a strong mental connection, so don’t be afraid of debates. As long as you keep everything respectful, she’ll feel really engaged.\\nBecause she’s so drawn to your empathy, she’ll also seek you out when she needs to process her emotions.\\n7. Talk about big visions.\\nShe finds ambition addictive, so share the goals you’re chasing after.\\nYou’re two of the least impulsive signs, and you both like to map out your futures. Ask her wants to accomplish in 5-10 years. Naturally, she’ll ask you the same thing. If you jump right into your answers, she’ll be impressed. Outline all the steps you’ll take to manifest what you want to accomplish, too—she’ll picture you as the other half of an incredible power couple.\\nSuggest how you can help her out and she’ll be putty in your hands. For example, if she wants to set up an e-course, you can offer to edit her videos.\\nEncourage her with sincere praise to lift her spirits. You can say something like, “You know marketing inside and out! You definitely have so much to teach about that subject.”\\n8. Playfully compete with each other.\\nShe’ll feel fired up and get lost in the fun little game.\\nAfter you’ve swapped standards you want to hold yourselves to, tease her and tell her you want to see who can meet their goal first. If there’s any overlap, like the fact that you both want to run a marathon, then motivate her so she pushes herself a little harder—in this case, you can sprint and see if she’ll keep up with you. With all your creative encouragement, she’ll feel like her best self around you and want you by her side.\\nBe sure to balance out all that flirty competition with compliments and praise—she’ll definitely want to hear you gush over her accomplishments!\\n9. Prove you’re responsible with money.\\nShe’s a sucker for a good budget and will see you as a great provider.\\nA Capricorn always has her eye on her finances, and she respects a partner who isn’t cash-strapped. Explain that you like to make smart investments and how you plan to increase your income—when she hears that you’re just as careful as she is, she’ll imagine a more serious dynamic with you.\\nThe cautious Capricorn loves to save all the money she can, while Venus’ influence over you allows you to grow your wealth pretty easily. She’ll love that the two of you can balance each other out and plan a future together.\\n10. Buy her a thoughtful gift.\\nA Capricorn rarely treats herself, so this will take her breath away.\\nShe’s never tempted to make an impulse buy, and she sticks to the basics so she has a lot left over in the bank. Use your Venusian sensibilities to pick out something special that is perfect for her, even if it never crossed her mind. For example, give her a pendant necklace that matches her eyes or a chic bracelet watch. She’ll treasure whatever you find, and she’ll worship you for all the effort you went through.\\nHome decor, such as a beautiful vase, is another great choice for a Capricorn—she wants to create the most calming space that she can and loves to add extra touches. You’ll also show off your domestic side as a Taurus, which she’ll swoon over.\\n11. Show your sensual side.\\nTouch is the ultimate way to express love and passion to a Capricorn.\\nShe would rather be held and caressed than told how much you adore her. After the beginning stages of dating, she’ll already know you’re attracted to her, so she’ll want to truly feel your affection for her instead. Whenever you’re with her, spend a lot of quality time exploring new forms of physical intimacy. She’ll long for your tenderness and intensity.\\nSince you come across as really strong and powerful as a Taurus, she’ll be honored to see your more vulnerable and caring side.\\nSaturn rules over a Capricorn, so she is used to taking her time with intimacy. However, once she falls for your Venusian charms and your loving energy, she’ll want to hold onto you for good.\\n12. Tell her you’re there to stay.\\nA Capricorn commits when she’s convinced about your loyalty.\\nShe’s extremely practical and only wants to move forward with a partner who will be an ongoing part of her life. Explain to her that she has a place in your heart and that you’ll keep investing in your relationship. She’ll see you as a possible soulmate and stay around to see what else is in store for the both of you.\\nYou’re both stable earth signs that hope for a life partner, so your long-term compatibility is extremely promising. Enjoy the journey!\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A Capricorn woman is elegant, resourceful, and thoughtful. Of course any sign would see her as girlfriend or even wife material. Since she’s on the lookout for a partner who’s stable and reliable, you have a great shot as a Taurus. Your down-to-earth charm and honesty already put you way ahead of most people pursuing her. Check out this list and discover even more ways to attract her—with these tips on your side, you might just make her yours.This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Always be on time.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show up when she expects you to and you’ll score a second date.\", \"描述\": \"A Capricorn woman works really hard and has a very packed schedule, so she’s already going out of her way if she agrees to meet for lunch or coffee. Since she doesn't want to waste time, she’ll test you and see how reliable you are. If she looks up and you show up right when you promised to, you’ll put a huge smile on her face.\\nIf you manage to throw in an extra special gesture, like bringing flowers, and are still really punctual, she’ll be blown away.\\nA Capricorn woman is ruled by Saturn, so she can make super quick judgments. If she notices your attention to details like logistics right away, you’ll already be at the top of her list.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Invite her to a small get-together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"You’re both choosy, so she’ll feel flattered when you include her.\", \"描述\": \"When two earth signs like a Capricorn woman and a Taurus man get together, it’s pretty obvious that they’re both selective. Once you bond over taking time with people, tell her that you think she’d be a perfect fit for your group of friends. Ask her to come with you to a low-key event, like a trivia night. Her heart will flutter when you let her step into your world.\\nExplain why you’re inviting her so she knows you’re sincere. You can say something like, “You’re the wittiest person I know. With you as my secret weapon, I’ll dominate every trivia category!”\\nPoint out that you rarely let dates tag along with you—she’ll appreciate that you enjoy her company and fantasize about being on your arm more often.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be direct and say you’re into her.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This earth sign craves honesty, so just confess you’re attracted to her.\", \"描述\": \"The biggest common ground between a Capricorn and a Taurus is a desire to know the truth. You’re better off if you tell her your feelings right away—reveal everything you love about her and you'll dazzle her. You’ll set yourself apart from anyone else trying to play it too cool, and she’ll see actual relationship potential with you.\\nWhen you cut to the chase and say you see more than a friendship or casual situation with her, she’ll think about your courage all day.\\nCover all the bases—admit to an emotional, physical, and mental attraction. She’ll know you don’t hold anything back.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Take her out to a swanky dinner.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Appeal to all five of her senses and she’ll realize you’re her dream man.\", \"描述\": \"Bring her to an upscale restaurant that smells aromatic, has gorgeous decor, and serves delicious dishes. Hold her hand to send shivers down her spine, and tell her that she deserves the royal treatment because she’s so exquisite. She’ll hardly believe that you’re real, and by the time the evening is over, your favorite Capricorn will want to be all yours.\\nA Capricorn and a Taurus are both sensual earth signs that love worldly pleasures like fine dining, so this date will prove what a great match you make.\\nWhile this is definitely a bit of an investment, she’ll respect that you’ll splurge a little for her. Plus, you’ll enjoy yourself, too!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Show you’re a great listener.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"When she gets your full attention, you’ll leave her completely satisfied.\", \"描述\": \"Make sure that she does most of the talking—as a tender and caring Taurus, you’ll make a point that you’re different from many of the other signs that may pursue her. Carefully consider whatever she tells you. Then, answer with detailed observations or follow-up comments. Because you’re so interested, she’ll feel like you’re worshiping her and find it incredibly seductive.\\nA Capricorn woman is highly analytical, so she’s been waiting for someone to let her unpack everything she notices.\\nRemind her that you’ll keep everything she tells you confidential. She’ll adore how trustworthy you are, and she’ll know she can be vulnerable around you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Have deep conversations with her.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Play off your differences and hook her with how engaging you are.\", \"描述\": \"A Capricorn is ruled by Saturn and focuses only on what’s practical or realistic. Since you’re influenced by Venus, you are more driven by emotions. The beauty in this contrast is that you’ll both have so much to talk about. She’ll be stirred up and challenged, but she’ll also know you’re the best person to turn to for a stimulating discussion.\\nA Capricorn needs a strong mental connection, so don’t be afraid of debates. 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2,764 | How to Attract a Christian Girl | 1. Being a Good Match for Her
1-1. Put God first in your life.
If you want to have a healthy, long-lasting relationship with a girl who's a Christian, it helps to have similar priorities. Spend some time reflecting on God's role in your life and try to find ways to strengthen your relationship with Him. For instance, you might start each day with a 15-minute devotion where you read your Bible and pray.
Being active in your church can help you become closer to God, and it also provides you with the opportunity to be mentored by older Christians who've been in your shoes before.
As your relationship with God develops, you might also find yourself feeling led to avoid situations where you might be tempted to sin, like a party where you know there will be drinking, or doing something you'll have to lie to your parents about.
1-2. Work hard to be responsible and stable.
Whether you're still in school or you're an adult with an established career, it's important to be dependable if you want to attract a Christian girl. Most Christian girls don't want to date frivolously—they often want to know that their partner is someone they can eventually marry. Go to work or school every day and try hard to do your best.
If you do this, over time, you'll build a well-respected reputation that will show a girl that she can trust you to do your part in providing for a household.
1-3. Try to live in a virtuous way.
Having strong values is an important part of Christianity, so if you want a Christian girl to like you, do your best to embody the virtues described in the Bible. If you notice that there's an area of your life where you're struggling, like you often find yourself feeling impatient or suspicious, pray that God will help you overcome that. Whenever you find yourself dealing with those feelings, say a prayer and remind yourself that it's more important to be virtuous than to give in to temporary emotions.
For instance, you might read and reflect on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, which says: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
1-4. Convey confidence with your body language.
If you want a girl to like you, try to project an air of confidence by standing up straight, making eye contact when you talk to others, and being friendly and open with others. This will automatically make you seem more self-assured, even if you don't necessarily feel that way.
Remember, confidence is a good thing, but arrogance isn't. When you're around a girl you like, try to listen to her more than you talk about yourself so you don't seem self-absorbed.
1-5. Decide whether you're ready for commitment before you pursue her.
As a Christian, it's important to be intentional about dating—the idea is to find the person God has chosen as your future spouse. You don't necessarily have to marry someone just because the two of you date, but you should date with the idea that you might eventually marry that person if you're compatible.
If you're not sure you're ready for that level of commitment, be very clear about that from the start, but don't be surprised if she isn't interested in dating casually.
1-6. Follow God's calling for your life.
To be a truly good partner for someone else, you need to be deeply satisfied with your own life. In order to do this, you need to listen for God's directions about His path for your life. He might give you this direction by giving you a passion for a certain profession, or you might feel called to serve Him as a member of the clergy, for instance.
The way God speaks is unique for each person, but listen to your heart, pray, and read your Bible for insight into learning God's direction for you.
2. Courting Her Respectfully
2-1. Make small talk when you see the girl you like.
Even if you're shy, try to strike up a conversation when you see the girl you want to attract. Chances are, she'll be more attracted to you once she gets to know you, and she won't have a chance to do that if you never speak up.
If you only see her at church on Sundays, for example, you might say something like, "Hey Hannah, how was your week?"
Try to sit or stand near her when you get the chance so you'll have more opportunities to talk.
Over time, build up to longer conversations by asking her about her interests, hobbies, and friends. Show the girl that you are genuinely interested in what she loves and want to learn more about it. This will make her feel that you care about her.
2-2. Pay attention to nonverbal cues to tell if she's romantically interested in you.
Even if you have regular conversations with the girl you like, don't just assume because she talks to you that she's interested in dating you. However, you can pay attention to how she acts around you to get an idea of how she feels.
For instance, if she makes eye contact with you when you're talking, or if she always smiles or blushes when she sees you, she might be interested.
She might also play with her hair, lean toward you when you're talking, or soften her expression around you if she likes you.
If she doesn't seem interested, she may not be the girl God has chosen for you. However, she may just not know you well enough. Keep making efforts to chat with her when you cross paths until you have a better idea of how she feels about you.
2-3. Ask her to spend time with you as part of a group at first.
If you think the girl you like might be interested in you too, invite her to hang out with you and a few other friends. That will show her that you have a genuine interest in getting to know her, and it's fine if you start out just as friends.
For example, you might say something like, "Hey Kyla, I heard some of the kids from the youth group are going to a praise concert next weekend, and I was thinking of going. Do you want to come with me?"
It's up to you whether you want to call this a date. If you want to take a little more time to get to know each other, it's okay to go as just friends. However, if you really like her and you want her to know it, you can tell her that, too.
If you're ready to let her know how you feel about her, you might say, "Some of my friends are meeting for pizza tomorrow night. Do you want to go as my date?"
2-4. Don't be afraid to show her your authentic self.
As the two of you get to know each other better, be willing to open up to her. You don't have to tell her everything about yourself all at once, but as you get more comfortable, share your emotions and some of the meaningful things that have happened in your life. That will help her feel more connected to you, and she'll be able to make an honest decision about whether you're a good match for her.
When you're first getting to know a girl, for example, you might just tell her that you love to fish. As you get closer, though, you might reveal that your grandpa took you fishing when you were young, and now it's a way for you to remember him.
2-5. Ask her out
While you shouldn't just rush into asking out the first pretty girl you see, you also shouldn't wait too long to tell her how you feel. Once you feel comfortable knowing that you really like this girl, let her know. The way you do this is up to you, but it's best to find a quiet time when the two of you are alone. Be straightforward, and don't be afraid to let her know what you think makes her special.
For instance, you might say, "Rebecca, I love how true you are to your faith and the way you genuinely care about everyone. I'd really love to date you. Will you be my girlfriend?"
If you're shy, try asking her through a text message or in a note.
2-6. Respect her answer if she says no.
It can be hard to act in a godly way when you're feeling disappointed, but if you ask a girl out and she says no, remind yourself that it must not be part of God's plan right now. Try to put on a smile, tell her it's okay, and take some space if you need it while you process your emotions.
You might say something like, "Okay, I understand. I hope I didn't make you feel uncomfortable. I just think you're really special, and I hope we can still be friends." Then, politely excuse yourself.
No matter what, be proud of yourself! Asking someone out is really hard, and you should feel good that you were brave enough to do it.
Tips
Christian girls are typically very modest, so avoid making suggestive jokes or comments about her body.
You don't necessarily have to be a Christian to attract a Christian girl. However, over time, differences in your beliefs may cause problems in your relationship, especially if you marry and have children.
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However, if you really like her and you want her to know it, you can tell her that, too.\\nIf you're ready to let her know how you feel about her, you might say, \\\"Some of my friends are meeting for pizza tomorrow night. Do you want to go as my date?\\\"\\n2-4. Don't be afraid to show her your authentic self.\\nAs the two of you get to know each other better, be willing to open up to her. You don't have to tell her everything about yourself all at once, but as you get more comfortable, share your emotions and some of the meaningful things that have happened in your life. That will help her feel more connected to you, and she'll be able to make an honest decision about whether you're a good match for her.\\nWhen you're first getting to know a girl, for example, you might just tell her that you love to fish. As you get closer, though, you might reveal that your grandpa took you fishing when you were young, and now it's a way for you to remember him.\\n2-5. 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Go to work or school every day and try hard to do your best.\\nIf you do this, over time, you'll build a well-respected reputation that will show a girl that she can trust you to do your part in providing for a household.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Try to live in a virtuous way.\", \"描述\": \"Having strong values is an important part of Christianity, so if you want a Christian girl to like you, do your best to embody the virtues described in the Bible. If you notice that there's an area of your life where you're struggling, like you often find yourself feeling impatient or suspicious, pray that God will help you overcome that. Whenever you find yourself dealing with those feelings, say a prayer and remind yourself that it's more important to be virtuous than to give in to temporary emotions.\\nFor instance, you might read and reflect on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, which says: \\\"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Convey confidence with your body language.\", \"描述\": \"If you want a girl to like you, try to project an air of confidence by standing up straight, making eye contact when you talk to others, and being friendly and open with others. This will automatically make you seem more self-assured, even if you don't necessarily feel that way.\\nRemember, confidence is a good thing, but arrogance isn't. When you're around a girl you like, try to listen to her more than you talk about yourself so you don't seem self-absorbed.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Decide whether you're ready for commitment before you pursue her.\", \"描述\": \"As a Christian, it's important to be intentional about dating—the idea is to find the person God has chosen as your future spouse. You don't necessarily have to marry someone just because the two of you date, but you should date with the idea that you might eventually marry that person if you're compatible.\\nIf you're not sure you're ready for that level of commitment, be very clear about that from the start, but don't be surprised if she isn't interested in dating casually.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Follow God's calling for your life.\", \"描述\": \"To be a truly good partner for someone else, you need to be deeply satisfied with your own life. In order to do this, you need to listen for God's directions about His path for your life. He might give you this direction by giving you a passion for a certain profession, or you might feel called to serve Him as a member of the clergy, for instance.\\nThe way God speaks is unique for each person, but listen to your heart, pray, and read your Bible for insight into learning God's direction for you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Courting Her Respectfully\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make small talk when you see the girl you like.\", \"描述\": \"Even if you're shy, try to strike up a conversation when you see the girl you want to attract. Chances are, she'll be more attracted to you once she gets to know you, and she won't have a chance to do that if you never speak up.\\nIf you only see her at church on Sundays, for example, you might say something like, \\\"Hey Hannah, how was your week?\\\"\\nTry to sit or stand near her when you get the chance so you'll have more opportunities to talk.\\nOver time, build up to longer conversations by asking her about her interests, hobbies, and friends. Show the girl that you are genuinely interested in what she loves and want to learn more about it. This will make her feel that you care about her.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pay attention to nonverbal cues to tell if she's romantically interested in you.\", \"描述\": \"Even if you have regular conversations with the girl you like, don't just assume because she talks to you that she's interested in dating you. However, you can pay attention to how she acts around you to get an idea of how she feels.\\nFor instance, if she makes eye contact with you when you're talking, or if she always smiles or blushes when she sees you, she might be interested.\\nShe might also play with her hair, lean toward you when you're talking, or soften her expression around you if she likes you.\\nIf she doesn't seem interested, she may not be the girl God has chosen for you. However, she may just not know you well enough. Keep making efforts to chat with her when you cross paths until you have a better idea of how she feels about you.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Ask her to spend time with you as part of a group at first.\", \"描述\": \"If you think the girl you like might be interested in you too, invite her to hang out with you and a few other friends. 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2,765 | How to Attract a Gemini Cancer Cusp Man | 1. Ask him questions about himself.
Thank Gemini for this Cusp’s love of talking about himself.
He’s chatty most of the time anyway, so it only takes a small nudge to make the conversation about him. He’ll fall for anyone who makes him feel like the center of attention, even if you’re doing it on purpose. You might ask him things like:
“What drew you to your job?”
“What’s your favorite childhood memory?”
“Tell me about your first time leaving the country.”
2. Bring up philosophical topics.
His Gemini side thrives on deep talks and intellectual stimulation.
This Cusp can go on for hours and hours about the unknowns and “what ifs” of life and the universe. Talk to him about ridiculous hypothetical situations, like what he would do if he lived to be 1,000 years old or what he would go back in time to change in history. You could ask him things like:
“Where do you think the line between art and not-art is?”
“Is our society really free?”
“Is it better to be a big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a big pond?”
3. Give him lots of attention.
This Cusp man needs constant stimulation and validation.
Tell him frequently how interesting, talented, or handsome you think he is to satisfy possessive Cancer and Gemini’s short attention span. At times, this Cusp sign can seem needy or demanding for your time and affection, but remember that he only craves it because of his blooming attraction to you.
This Cusp takes notice of every little compliment you give him. Even a passing comment like “nice haircut” can make his day and boost his confidence.
Physical attention (like hand holding, cuddling, or massages) appeal to his Cancer side. Verbal compliments and praise feed his Gemini side’s hunger for validation.
4. Show affection with small favors.
This Cusp attaches a lot of meaning to tiny actions.
He gets sentimental over the little things, like the particular way you touch his lower back or how you always ask if he wants anything from Starbucks when you’re ordering. Find out what little things you can do to please him and then repeat them so he feels validated and reassured of your attraction to him. These can be things as simple as:
Bringing over his favorite flavor of ice cream
Planning a date night around his favorite TV show
Surprising him with neck rub or a massage on his tight spots
5. Show him your artistic side.
Gemini Cancer Cusp men love anything that fuels their imagination.
Many of them have an artistic hobby, and most enjoy reading, music, theater, poetry, and other arts in some form. They bond easily with other artistic minds, so show him a craft or project you’re working on, or suggest an outing to see the hot new play in town. Other ideas include:
Taking a painting class together.
Going to any live performance like musicals, comedy clubs, or concerts.
Asking for his opinion on one of your artistic projects (if you’re comfortable sharing).
6. Ask for his help or advice.
This Cusp sign is very empathetic and enjoys healing people.
His emotional Cancer and inquisitive Gemini sides combine to create an intuitive, generous man who wants to find a solution to every problem. He’ll relish the chance to comfort you and talk through what you’re feeling. Come to him with problems like:
Drama with coworkers
Arguments with your friends or family members
Grieving the loss of a pet
7. Try new or gourmet foods with him.
This Cusp has a refined palate for new and exotic foods.
He’s curious and always wants to try something new, so he’s likely to be a good cook or a connoisseur of fine dining. Let him cook for you if he volunteers or plan a date night where you make dinner together. Going out to eat at a new or upscale restaurant is another way to impress him.
Cooking for you is one way Cancers show affection. If he offers, let him! It’s a definite sign that he’s into you.
Extra points to you if you can find a restaurant or a food he’s never heard of. He’s very curious and likes it when someone can show him something new.
8. Accept his invites to come over.
His Cancer side is a homebody and puts a lot of effort into his space.
While the airy Gemini side of him loves to socialize and bounce around the town, the warm home he’s curated is his favorite place to be. He wants to spend lots of time there, and a night of Netflix and chill or a homemade meal at his place is his way of showing he’s into you and wants you around.
This Cusp puts effort into cleaning, cooking, or whatever else it takes to make your visit to his place comfortable. Compliment him on his decor choices or snack offerings—it’ll go a long way.
If he hasn’t offered you an invite, try asking him to come to your place first. He’ll probably reciprocate with an offer to come over the next time you make plans.
9. Keep things fresh in the bedroom.
This Cusp sign needs to mix things up to prevent boredom.
This comes mostly from his (sometimes unfocused) Gemini side. Try out new things like sexy outfits, toys, role playing, porn, or anything else that will stimulate him or give him something new to explore. He’ll welcome pretty much anything you want to try, so don’t be afraid to have fun with it and experiment together!
Sex with a Gemini Cancer Cusp man is more passionate when he feels an intellectual and emotional connection to you. The more you get to know each other, the more exciting it will be.
Talk freely with your Cusp man about what you’d like to try. He’s an expert communicator and will open up about his wants too.
10. Be his rock during mood swings.
Thank Cancer for this Cusp sign’s moodiness.
His feelings are complicated because of the conflict between Gemini’s cold logic and Cancer’s swirling emotions, and it’s common for him to switch from happy-go-lucky to sulking in just a few seconds. Reassure your Gemini Cancer Cusp man that his mood swings won’t scare you off, and he’ll start to see you as the reliable partner he needs.
His mood swings might be unexpected, but they don’t last long. You’ll have your usual, bubbly guy back after a few minutes or so.
Gemini Cancer Cusps often feel like no one understands their emotional complexity. Sticking with him through his ups and downs shows that you get him, and he’ll grow to trust you.
11. Give him space.
This Cusp needs just as much alone time as attention from you.
While his Cancer side wants to spend as much time as possible with you, his Gemini side needs room to go out on his own and explore the world. If his personal agenda or schedule feels infringed upon, he’ll start to pull away from you so he can do his own thing without worrying about someone else’s demands of him.
Remember his need for alone time isn’t because of a problem he has with you. He’s flighty by nature and the freedom to wander is important for his mental health.
This is one of the most hard-to-understand aspects of this Zodiac combination. Finding the balance of the attention and the space he needs is key to a long lasting relationship.
12. Show him you can be independent.
This Cusp needs someone who’s fine on their own.
As needy as he can sometimes be, this sign is repelled by any intrusion into his alone time and you’ll have plenty of opportunities to tend to your own life. His Gemini side will be especially curious about your travels and activities, and will want to hear all about your day when he’s ready to interact with the world again.
His Cancer side may become jealous or feel neglected if you stray too far from him too often. Check in with him to make sure he feels tended to.
13. Take things slow.
It takes time for a Gemini Cancer Cusp to warm up to people.
The combination of Cancer, which is emotional but slow to trust, and Gemini, which often shuns its own feelings, means it takes a lot of effort for him to get involved with someone emotionally. Prepare yourself for a marathon, not a sprint, to grab this man’s attention and make him yours.
Just because he hasn’t fessed up to his feelings doesn’t mean they aren’t there. Be consistent with your attention and flirting and he will eventually open up to you.
He’ll take even longer to open up if he feels pushed. Give him the time he needs and enjoy the journey together rather than racing to the destination.
14. Be ready to commit.
This Cusper takes commitment seriously.
He takes forever to decide he’s ready for a relationship because he wants to be sure his partner is the right fit and won’t hurt him. If you back away from him after he’s made up his mind, the moody Cancer in him will feel deeply betrayed and upset.
For this communicative man, the best way to assure him is to simply tell him something like, “I’m ready for a relationship with you” or “I’m committed to us.”
This is not a Cusp you want to alienate. He may be quick to forgive and move on, but he will never forget.
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You could ask him things like:\\n“Where do you think the line between art and not-art is?”\\n“Is our society really free?”\\n“Is it better to be a big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a big pond?”\\n3. Give him lots of attention.\\nThis Cusp man needs constant stimulation and validation.\\nTell him frequently how interesting, talented, or handsome you think he is to satisfy possessive Cancer and Gemini’s short attention span. At times, this Cusp sign can seem needy or demanding for your time and affection, but remember that he only craves it because of his blooming attraction to you.\\nThis Cusp takes notice of every little compliment you give him. Even a passing comment like “nice haircut” can make his day and boost his confidence.\\nPhysical attention (like hand holding, cuddling, or massages) appeal to his Cancer side. Verbal compliments and praise feed his Gemini side’s hunger for validation.\\n4. Show affection with small favors.\\nThis Cusp attaches a lot of meaning to tiny actions.\\nHe gets sentimental over the little things, like the particular way you touch his lower back or how you always ask if he wants anything from Starbucks when you’re ordering. Find out what little things you can do to please him and then repeat them so he feels validated and reassured of your attraction to him. These can be things as simple as:\\nBringing over his favorite flavor of ice cream\\nPlanning a date night around his favorite TV show\\nSurprising him with neck rub or a massage on his tight spots\\n5. Show him your artistic side.\\nGemini Cancer Cusp men love anything that fuels their imagination.\\nMany of them have an artistic hobby, and most enjoy reading, music, theater, poetry, and other arts in some form. They bond easily with other artistic minds, so show him a craft or project you’re working on, or suggest an outing to see the hot new play in town. Other ideas include:\\nTaking a painting class together.\\nGoing to any live performance like musicals, comedy clubs, or concerts.\\nAsking for his opinion on one of your artistic projects (if you’re comfortable sharing).\\n6. Ask for his help or advice.\\nThis Cusp sign is very empathetic and enjoys healing people.\\nHis emotional Cancer and inquisitive Gemini sides combine to create an intuitive, generous man who wants to find a solution to every problem. He’ll relish the chance to comfort you and talk through what you’re feeling. Come to him with problems like:\\nDrama with coworkers\\nArguments with your friends or family members\\nGrieving the loss of a pet\\n7. Try new or gourmet foods with him.\\nThis Cusp has a refined palate for new and exotic foods.\\nHe’s curious and always wants to try something new, so he’s likely to be a good cook or a connoisseur of fine dining. Let him cook for you if he volunteers or plan a date night where you make dinner together. Going out to eat at a new or upscale restaurant is another way to impress him.\\nCooking for you is one way Cancers show affection. If he offers, let him! It’s a definite sign that he’s into you.\\nExtra points to you if you can find a restaurant or a food he’s never heard of. He’s very curious and likes it when someone can show him something new.\\n8. Accept his invites to come over.\\nHis Cancer side is a homebody and puts a lot of effort into his space.\\nWhile the airy Gemini side of him loves to socialize and bounce around the town, the warm home he’s curated is his favorite place to be. He wants to spend lots of time there, and a night of Netflix and chill or a homemade meal at his place is his way of showing he’s into you and wants you around.\\nThis Cusp puts effort into cleaning, cooking, or whatever else it takes to make your visit to his place comfortable. Compliment him on his decor choices or snack offerings—it’ll go a long way.\\nIf he hasn’t offered you an invite, try asking him to come to your place first. He’ll probably reciprocate with an offer to come over the next time you make plans.\\n9. Keep things fresh in the bedroom.\\nThis Cusp sign needs to mix things up to prevent boredom.\\nThis comes mostly from his (sometimes unfocused) Gemini side. Try out new things like sexy outfits, toys, role playing, porn, or anything else that will stimulate him or give him something new to explore. He’ll welcome pretty much anything you want to try, so don’t be afraid to have fun with it and experiment together!\\nSex with a Gemini Cancer Cusp man is more passionate when he feels an intellectual and emotional connection to you. The more you get to know each other, the more exciting it will be.\\nTalk freely with your Cusp man about what you’d like to try. He’s an expert communicator and will open up about his wants too.\\n10. Be his rock during mood swings.\\nThank Cancer for this Cusp sign’s moodiness.\\nHis feelings are complicated because of the conflict between Gemini’s cold logic and Cancer’s swirling emotions, and it’s common for him to switch from happy-go-lucky to sulking in just a few seconds. Reassure your Gemini Cancer Cusp man that his mood swings won’t scare you off, and he’ll start to see you as the reliable partner he needs.\\nHis mood swings might be unexpected, but they don’t last long. You’ll have your usual, bubbly guy back after a few minutes or so.\\nGemini Cancer Cusps often feel like no one understands their emotional complexity. Sticking with him through his ups and downs shows that you get him, and he’ll grow to trust you.\\n11. Give him space.\\nThis Cusp needs just as much alone time as attention from you.\\nWhile his Cancer side wants to spend as much time as possible with you, his Gemini side needs room to go out on his own and explore the world. If his personal agenda or schedule feels infringed upon, he’ll start to pull away from you so he can do his own thing without worrying about someone else’s demands of him.\\nRemember his need for alone time isn’t because of a problem he has with you. He’s flighty by nature and the freedom to wander is important for his mental health.\\nThis is one of the most hard-to-understand aspects of this Zodiac combination. Finding the balance of the attention and the space he needs is key to a long lasting relationship.\\n12. Show him you can be independent.\\nThis Cusp needs someone who’s fine on their own.\\nAs needy as he can sometimes be, this sign is repelled by any intrusion into his alone time and you’ll have plenty of opportunities to tend to your own life. His Gemini side will be especially curious about your travels and activities, and will want to hear all about your day when he’s ready to interact with the world again.\\nHis Cancer side may become jealous or feel neglected if you stray too far from him too often. Check in with him to make sure he feels tended to.\\n13. Take things slow.\\nIt takes time for a Gemini Cancer Cusp to warm up to people.\\nThe combination of Cancer, which is emotional but slow to trust, and Gemini, which often shuns its own feelings, means it takes a lot of effort for him to get involved with someone emotionally. Prepare yourself for a marathon, not a sprint, to grab this man’s attention and make him yours.\\nJust because he hasn’t fessed up to his feelings doesn’t mean they aren’t there. Be consistent with your attention and flirting and he will eventually open up to you.\\nHe’ll take even longer to open up if he feels pushed. Give him the time he needs and enjoy the journey together rather than racing to the destination.\\n14. Be ready to commit.\\nThis Cusper takes commitment seriously.\\nHe takes forever to decide he’s ready for a relationship because he wants to be sure his partner is the right fit and won’t hurt him. If you back away from him after he’s made up his mind, the moody Cancer in him will feel deeply betrayed and upset.\\nFor this communicative man, the best way to assure him is to simply tell him something like, “I’m ready for a relationship with you” or “I’m committed to us.”\\nThis is not a Cusp you want to alienate. He may be quick to forgive and move on, but he will never forget.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The Gemini Cancer Cusp is one of the most unique, wonderful, and perplexing combinations of traits in the Zodiac—no wonder you’re trying to pin down a man born here! It’s called the Cusp of Magic for the way that seemingly opposing characteristics fit together like puzzle pieces to form an incredibly caring, inspiring, charismatic man. With the right knowledge and a little bit of patience, you can easily have this bubbly, intelligent man all to yourself. Read on for a comprehensive guide to attracting the effervescent Gemini Cancer Cusp man.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Ask him questions about himself.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Thank Gemini for this Cusp’s love of talking about himself.\", \"描述\": \"He’s chatty most of the time anyway, so it only takes a small nudge to make the conversation about him. He’ll fall for anyone who makes him feel like the center of attention, even if you’re doing it on purpose. You might ask him things like:\\n“What drew you to your job?”\\n“What’s your favorite childhood memory?”\\n“Tell me about your first time leaving the country.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Bring up philosophical topics.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"His Gemini side thrives on deep talks and intellectual stimulation.\", \"描述\": \"This Cusp can go on for hours and hours about the unknowns and “what ifs” of life and the universe. Talk to him about ridiculous hypothetical situations, like what he would do if he lived to be 1,000 years old or what he would go back in time to change in history. 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Verbal compliments and praise feed his Gemini side’s hunger for validation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Show affection with small favors.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp attaches a lot of meaning to tiny actions.\", \"描述\": \"He gets sentimental over the little things, like the particular way you touch his lower back or how you always ask if he wants anything from Starbucks when you’re ordering. Find out what little things you can do to please him and then repeat them so he feels validated and reassured of your attraction to him. These can be things as simple as:\\nBringing over his favorite flavor of ice cream\\nPlanning a date night around his favorite TV show\\nSurprising him with neck rub or a massage on his tight spots\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Show him your artistic side.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gemini Cancer Cusp men love anything that fuels their imagination.\", \"描述\": \"Many of them have an artistic hobby, and most enjoy reading, music, theater, poetry, and other arts in some form. They bond easily with other artistic minds, so show him a craft or project you’re working on, or suggest an outing to see the hot new play in town. Other ideas include:\\nTaking a painting class together.\\nGoing to any live performance like musicals, comedy clubs, or concerts.\\nAsking for his opinion on one of your artistic projects (if you’re comfortable sharing).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Ask for his help or advice.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp sign is very empathetic and enjoys healing people.\", \"描述\": \"His emotional Cancer and inquisitive Gemini sides combine to create an intuitive, generous man who wants to find a solution to every problem. He’ll relish the chance to comfort you and talk through what you’re feeling. Come to him with problems like:\\nDrama with coworkers\\nArguments with your friends or family members\\nGrieving the loss of a pet\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Try new or gourmet foods with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp has a refined palate for new and exotic foods.\", \"描述\": \"He’s curious and always wants to try something new, so he’s likely to be a good cook or a connoisseur of fine dining. Let him cook for you if he volunteers or plan a date night where you make dinner together. Going out to eat at a new or upscale restaurant is another way to impress him.\\nCooking for you is one way Cancers show affection. If he offers, let him! It’s a definite sign that he’s into you.\\nExtra points to you if you can find a restaurant or a food he’s never heard of. He’s very curious and likes it when someone can show him something new.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Accept his invites to come over.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"His Cancer side is a homebody and puts a lot of effort into his space.\", \"描述\": \"While the airy Gemini side of him loves to socialize and bounce around the town, the warm home he’s curated is his favorite place to be. He wants to spend lots of time there, and a night of Netflix and chill or a homemade meal at his place is his way of showing he’s into you and wants you around.\\nThis Cusp puts effort into cleaning, cooking, or whatever else it takes to make your visit to his place comfortable. Compliment him on his decor choices or snack offerings—it’ll go a long way.\\nIf he hasn’t offered you an invite, try asking him to come to your place first. He’ll probably reciprocate with an offer to come over the next time you make plans.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Keep things fresh in the bedroom.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp sign needs to mix things up to prevent boredom.\", \"描述\": \"This comes mostly from his (sometimes unfocused) Gemini side. Try out new things like sexy outfits, toys, role playing, porn, or anything else that will stimulate him or give him something new to explore. He’ll welcome pretty much anything you want to try, so don’t be afraid to have fun with it and experiment together!\\nSex with a Gemini Cancer Cusp man is more passionate when he feels an intellectual and emotional connection to you. The more you get to know each other, the more exciting it will be.\\nTalk freely with your Cusp man about what you’d like to try. He’s an expert communicator and will open up about his wants too.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Be his rock during mood swings.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Thank Cancer for this Cusp sign’s moodiness.\", \"描述\": \"His feelings are complicated because of the conflict between Gemini’s cold logic and Cancer’s swirling emotions, and it’s common for him to switch from happy-go-lucky to sulking in just a few seconds. Reassure your Gemini Cancer Cusp man that his mood swings won’t scare you off, and he’ll start to see you as the reliable partner he needs.\\nHis mood swings might be unexpected, but they don’t last long. You’ll have your usual, bubbly guy back after a few minutes or so.\\nGemini Cancer Cusps often feel like no one understands their emotional complexity. Sticking with him through his ups and downs shows that you get him, and he’ll grow to trust you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Give him space.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp needs just as much alone time as attention from you.\", \"描述\": \"While his Cancer side wants to spend as much time as possible with you, his Gemini side needs room to go out on his own and explore the world. If his personal agenda or schedule feels infringed upon, he’ll start to pull away from you so he can do his own thing without worrying about someone else’s demands of him.\\nRemember his need for alone time isn’t because of a problem he has with you. He’s flighty by nature and the freedom to wander is important for his mental health.\\nThis is one of the most hard-to-understand aspects of this Zodiac combination. Finding the balance of the attention and the space he needs is key to a long lasting relationship.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Show him you can be independent.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp needs someone who’s fine on their own.\", \"描述\": \"As needy as he can sometimes be, this sign is repelled by any intrusion into his alone time and you’ll have plenty of opportunities to tend to your own life. His Gemini side will be especially curious about your travels and activities, and will want to hear all about your day when he’s ready to interact with the world again.\\nHis Cancer side may become jealous or feel neglected if you stray too far from him too often. Check in with him to make sure he feels tended to.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Take things slow.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"It takes time for a Gemini Cancer Cusp to warm up to people.\", \"描述\": \"The combination of Cancer, which is emotional but slow to trust, and Gemini, which often shuns its own feelings, means it takes a lot of effort for him to get involved with someone emotionally. Prepare yourself for a marathon, not a sprint, to grab this man’s attention and make him yours.\\nJust because he hasn’t fessed up to his feelings doesn’t mean they aren’t there. Be consistent with your attention and flirting and he will eventually open up to you.\\nHe’ll take even longer to open up if he feels pushed. 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2,766 | How to Attract a Gemini Girl | 1. Understanding Her Personality
1-1. Be ready to be surprised.
Gemini is represented by twins, equal parts yin and yang. This at any time, you never know which twin you're going to get! One minute she'll be laughing and childlike, and the next minute she'll be serious and reserved. If you can handle both sides, you have a chance with this dynamic female.
You never know what you're going to get with a Gemini, so if you're looking for a girl to be consistent and always caring for you, you'd be better off courting a different sign, Virgo. She can be submissive and feminine but also dominant and masculine. If she's a true Gemini, she'll have a balance .
1-2. Understand how creative and witty she is.
Gemini women are unstoppable when it comes to their quick wit and creativity. They'll banter with you, do plays-on-words, and whip out their novel or painting that's in the works when you least expect it. She likely spends her free time doing something related to music, art, or literature.
A gemini girl is the type who can "dish it out" and also take it. She can take a joke if you poke fun at her flirtatiously, but you better expect her to have a cutting, witty remark to make back at you!
1-3. Know that she can be a bit immature.
There is a side to Gemini that is very young, childish, flighty, and immature. There almost has to be to balance her almost overly mature, serious side. However, she can't always control when it comes out. The "younger twin" may come out when she's meeting your parents or in the middle of a conference – who knows!
A Gemini benefits well from a person who can reign in the more radical sides of her disposition. A person who brings out their immaturity could lead to dangerous situations, while a person who brings out their darker, serious side could lead to no fun. It's best if you are well-balanced yourself.
1-4. Expect to never know what'll happen next.
If you have this girl around, one minute you could be reading poetry on the couch together and the next she's left you a note saying she's on vacation in Italy. This girl is curious and always looking for the next adventure, so when this side comes out, it's unstoppable.
This unpredictability gets to certain people. It's easy to mistake it for her not being loving or caring enough, when really she does care, she just needs to do her own thing. What's more, she's seeing if you'll be around when she gets back.
2. Courting a Gemini
2-1. Display your intelligence.
A Gemini girl wants someone who can sweep her off her feet physically and mentally. She needs to know you can match her when it comes to anything. The last thing she wants is a partner that she feel superior over – she wants someone she can share the glory with.
When you're with her, talk to her about the book you're reading. Ask her if she'd like to go to a museum. Mention an article you read the other day about a little known current event. She'll find you intriguing and wonder what it is she can learn from you.
2-2. Show her you can match her sexually.
Gemini has two sexual sides – submissive and dominant. You'll see her be coy and subtly flirtatious, batting an eyelash here and there, and then you'll see her being dominant, asking you out and making the moves. When this happens, roll with the punches! Let her take charge when she needs to take charge and take over the reigns when she's done.
She doesn't need someone who's just dominating enough or just submissive enough – she needs someone who can handle and complement whichever side she's currently showing.
2-3. Let her chat.
Geminis are notoriously very social creatures. When their childlike side comes out especially, they can be quite the chatterbox. When she's off on her tangent or telling you every little detail of the book she's reading, sit back and relax, allowing her the spotlight. Watch her go. Let her entertain you.
Since Gemini needs someone who can stimulate her mind, ask her questions. Pose thoughts or theories. Talk to her about what you're thinking or wondering about. You may open her up and get onto an exciting ride!
2-4. Ask her out on an interesting or exciting date.
A Gemini loves to be surprised, intrigued, and entertained. As you begin your relationship, she'll want to do things that aren't exactly traditional. Keep her amused. Ask her to go make pottery or to go to a cheese tasting. She'll be very impressed with your originality and ingenuity.
Don't feel pressured to keep this up all the time. She has two sides – once you've shown her that you can handle her more difficult side (the curious, adventurous one), show her that you can relax, too, in pajamas and with a movie and take-out.
2-5. Be ready to put in some work.
A Gemini can be emotionally unavailable and difficult to pin down one minute, and loving and nurturing the next. This sounds a little mentally unstable, but it's just the nature of this sign. However, for their partner, this can be a little unnerving. You'll have to work at the relationship, surviving the times when she's distant and being available when she's ready to return.
Remember: this isn't all about you. While she is very hesitant to get into a relationship, she is by no means unfaithful or unloving. Half of why she is hard to pin down is because she wants to make sure that when she is, it's totally and completely worth it.
3. Making the Relationship Last
3-1. Keep her guessing.
A Gemini girl needs to be kept on her toes. Since she's so full of surprises, she wants a partner that can be surprising, too. Tell her you're going out for dinner when really you planned a night at the planetarium. Bring home a song you wrote for her that you've been keeping from her. It's little things like that a Gemini will truly appreciate.
Keep her guessing with your personality, too. If you're not outdoorsy, ask her to go on a hike. If you're not huge into music, offer to go to the opera. If she thinks she can't pin you, you'll have her pinned.
3-2. Give her her space.
There's a very independent side to Gemini. She needs to be left alone at times and given space to find her own adventure. Don't be unnerved when this happens – she's not slipping away from you, she's just doing her own thing. And there's nothing wrong with that! She'll come back, raving about all her experiences that she wants to share with you.
If her independent streak bothers you, open up a forum for communication about it. She'll love talking to you, knowing how you feel, and explaining how she feels. She'll likely appreciate your concern and try to please you as much as she can.
3-3. Be able to handle jealousy.
The thing about a Gemini is that once she's finally decided that she'll commit to you openly, she can get pretty jealous. She's spent a ton of time deciding if you're worth a serious commitment, which is a little scary for her. If she feels you slipping away, she may not be able to handle it well.
Think of this as a declaration of love and not something that's aggravating. All it means is that she cares about you and wants to be sure you're hers.
Do keep in mind though, that if you purposefully make her jealous, she'll be onto you and she likely won't put up with it.
3-4. Know when she needs nurturing and when she needs adventure.
As you get to know her, you'll probably be able to tell which side of her you're dealing with. Knowing what to expect and handling her swings properly can keep the relationship flowing healthily for a very long time. She'll feel safe in your arms this way, too.
Simply accepting that these two dynamics of her personality are here to stay is the biggest challenge for any partner of a Gemini. Once you reach that point, the rest of the relationship will be smooth sailing.
Tips
Always be yourself when you are around a Gemini girl. You can be messy, nerdy, sporty, etc. But remember to stay clean and choose a nice perfume.
Maybe you can't always be the one she's always expecting to have or to be around. You have feelings just like she does. Sometimes you can be emotional as well, so when this is happening to you, speak up! Tell her clearly the reason why you're so upset, happy, etc.
Know that you can't hold back a Gemini girl when she's about to explode, but you surely can calm her down by saying, "Do you need me to be around you now?" when she's about to cry. If she doesn't give a response, just hold her hand/hug her for a while and say, "It's fine, you will be just fine because I know you are. Just call me when you need me." At this time you can leave her alone, if she literally needs you then she will call you soon. When she's angry just say, "Relax, sometimes everything is not what it's seems... but trust me, I care about you. You can talk to me when you have calmed down." Leave her for a while and you can give her a cup of tea or ice cream.
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Expect to never know what'll happen next.\\nIf you have this girl around, one minute you could be reading poetry on the couch together and the next she's left you a note saying she's on vacation in Italy. This girl is curious and always looking for the next adventure, so when this side comes out, it's unstoppable.\\nThis unpredictability gets to certain people. It's easy to mistake it for her not being loving or caring enough, when really she does care, she just needs to do her own thing. What's more, she's seeing if you'll be around when she gets back.\\n2. Courting a Gemini\\n2-1. Display your intelligence.\\nA Gemini girl wants someone who can sweep her off her feet physically and mentally. She needs to know you can match her when it comes to anything. The last thing she wants is a partner that she feel superior over – she wants someone she can share the glory with.\\nWhen you're with her, talk to her about the book you're reading. Ask her if she'd like to go to a museum. 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Be ready to put in some work.\\nA Gemini can be emotionally unavailable and difficult to pin down one minute, and loving and nurturing the next. This sounds a little mentally unstable, but it's just the nature of this sign. However, for their partner, this can be a little unnerving. You'll have to work at the relationship, surviving the times when she's distant and being available when she's ready to return.\\nRemember: this isn't all about you. While she is very hesitant to get into a relationship, she is by no means unfaithful or unloving. Half of why she is hard to pin down is because she wants to make sure that when she is, it's totally and completely worth it.\\n3. Making the Relationship Last\\n3-1. Keep her guessing.\\nA Gemini girl needs to be kept on her toes. Since she's so full of surprises, she wants a partner that can be surprising, too. Tell her you're going out for dinner when really you planned a night at the planetarium. 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When this happens, roll with the punches! Let her take charge when she needs to take charge and take over the reigns when she's done.\\nShe doesn't need someone who's just dominating enough or just submissive enough – she needs someone who can handle and complement whichever side she's currently showing.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Let her chat.\", \"描述\": \"Geminis are notoriously very social creatures. When their childlike side comes out especially, they can be quite the chatterbox. When she's off on her tangent or telling you every little detail of the book she's reading, sit back and relax, allowing her the spotlight. Watch her go. Let her entertain you.\\nSince Gemini needs someone who can stimulate her mind, ask her questions. Pose thoughts or theories. Talk to her about what you're thinking or wondering about. You may open her up and get onto an exciting ride!\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Ask her out on an interesting or exciting date.\", \"描述\": \"A Gemini loves to be surprised, intrigued, and entertained. As you begin your relationship, she'll want to do things that aren't exactly traditional. Keep her amused. Ask her to go make pottery or to go to a cheese tasting. She'll be very impressed with your originality and ingenuity.\\nDon't feel pressured to keep this up all the time. She has two sides – once you've shown her that you can handle her more difficult side (the curious, adventurous one), show her that you can relax, too, in pajamas and with a movie and take-out.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be ready to put in some work.\", \"描述\": \"A Gemini can be emotionally unavailable and difficult to pin down one minute, and loving and nurturing the next. This sounds a little mentally unstable, but it's just the nature of this sign. However, for their partner, this can be a little unnerving. You'll have to work at the relationship, surviving the times when she's distant and being available when she's ready to return.\\nRemember: this isn't all about you. While she is very hesitant to get into a relationship, she is by no means unfaithful or unloving. Half of why she is hard to pin down is because she wants to make sure that when she is, it's totally and completely worth it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Making the Relationship Last\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep her guessing.\", \"描述\": \"A Gemini girl needs to be kept on her toes. Since she's so full of surprises, she wants a partner that can be surprising, too. Tell her you're going out for dinner when really you planned a night at the planetarium. Bring home a song you wrote for her that you've been keeping from her. It's little things like that a Gemini will truly appreciate.\\nKeep her guessing with your personality, too. If you're not outdoorsy, ask her to go on a hike. If you're not huge into music, offer to go to the opera. If she thinks she can't pin you, you'll have her pinned.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Give her her space.\", \"描述\": \"There's a very independent side to Gemini. She needs to be left alone at times and given space to find her own adventure. Don't be unnerved when this happens – she's not slipping away from you, she's just doing her own thing. And there's nothing wrong with that! She'll come back, raving about all her experiences that she wants to share with you.\\nIf her independent streak bothers you, open up a forum for communication about it. She'll love talking to you, knowing how you feel, and explaining how she feels. She'll likely appreciate your concern and try to please you as much as she can.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be able to handle jealousy.\", \"描述\": \"The thing about a Gemini is that once she's finally decided that she'll commit to you openly, she can get pretty jealous. She's spent a ton of time deciding if you're worth a serious commitment, which is a little scary for her. If she feels you slipping away, she may not be able to handle it well.\\nThink of this as a declaration of love and not something that's aggravating. All it means is that she cares about you and wants to be sure you're hers.\\nDo keep in mind though, that if you purposefully make her jealous, she'll be onto you and she likely won't put up with it.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Know when she needs nurturing and when she needs adventure.\", \"描述\": \"As you get to know her, you'll probably be able to tell which side of her you're dealing with. Knowing what to expect and handling her swings properly can keep the relationship flowing healthily for a very long time. She'll feel safe in your arms this way, too.\\nSimply accepting that these two dynamics of her personality are here to stay is the biggest challenge for any partner of a Gemini. 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2,767 | How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Leo Woman: 11 Flirty Tips | 1. Make him laugh.
A Gemini's dream partner will be full of wit and humor.
Astrologer Angel Eyedealism emphasizes that Geminis value "constant amusement." Men of this sign are thought to be the comedic geniuses of the zodiac, so to impress him, bring out your best material. Leo, because you love to perform, you’ve probably got a comedy set all prepped and ready to go at a minute's notice. To attract your Gemini crush, tease him, get ironic, or whip out your best impression.
“Wow, this dinner you made us almost looks edible! You've really shown a lot of improvement."
Before you leave the house together, look outside into the pouring rain. Turn to him and say, "Hmm. Do you think we'll need an umbrella?"
Without warning, switch to a new voice during regular conversation. For instance, say, "Could you pass the popcorn?" in a British accent.
2. Play around with him.
Geminis want their relationships to be a constant source of fun.
To attract a Gemini, turn regular experiences into amusing antics. When you're together, look out for any and all opportunities to be silly or entertaining. As a fire sign, “fun” is basically your middle name. So, prove that hanging out with you is synonymous with having an absolute blast.
Grab a pencil, spoon, or even a cellphone. Sing (or lip-sync!) into it like it’s a mic. Periodically put your “mic” in front of him to let him take a turn.
Turn everything you do into a game. When on a walk together, suddenly point to a tree and shout, “Last person to get there buys ice cream! 3, 2, 1, go!”
Play games that you haven't touched since you were a kid together. Anything from Chutes and Ladders to Wii Sports will be perfect.
3. Engage in energetic conversation.
You and Gemini are the master conversationalists of the zodiac.
To the two of you, there's nothing better than a witty, charming, enthusiastic conversation, so bond over long discussions frequently. Don't stress over your topic choices, because you two could make talking about tax returns sound thrilling. Just make sure you show him enthusiasm and energy, and he'll love you for it.
Engage him with an interesting, open-ended question: “Okay so, you’ve definitely seen Inception, right? What do you think—was it a dream or not?”
Show your enthusiasm through physical cues. Hold eye contact, use expressive hand movements, and nod your head while he speaks.
4. Be the life of the party together.
Prove that you're a social butterfly, too, and it'll impress him.
You and Gemini command every room you enter with your charisma and energy, so make sure you're on his arm at every party. Impress him with your stellar jokes, karaoke appearances, and delightful personality. He'll admire your magnetism, and on top of that, he'll have a ball—which will add to his attraction to you.
When you're talking in a group, tell your best anecdote. Anything that's earned big laughs or big gasps in the past will be perfect.
Use your bold nature to bring the party to the next level. Grab the mic for karaoke, dance like nobody is watching, or toast the guest of honor.
Charm the room by asking engaging questions, complimenting people, and remembering others' personal details.
5. Teach him things.
Geminis are avid learners, so he’ll value anyone who makes him smarter.
Drop fun facts, discuss things you’ve read recently, and when neither of you knows something, search for the answer online. Brainstorm topics that you’re well-versed in and bring them up in conversation with him. He’ll feel like every time he hangs out with you, he’s getting smarter—and this will make you irresistible.
“Hey, did you know that cows have regional accents? How crazy right?”
“I read this article recently that talked about how owning a pet actually helps boost mood and lower anxiety. Isn’t that fascinating?”
“Hmm. Now that you mention it, I can’t remember the capital of Vermont. That one always trips me up. Here, let me search it.”
6. Inspire him to be bold.
A Gemini will admire you for your natural fearlessness, Leo.
With your Gemini crush, don't be afraid to make a scene. Call people out when they’re being shady, announce yourself when you arrive at the party, and wear funky, bold outfits. He’ll admire the way you do exactly what you want when you want. Encourage similar behavior in him, and he'll feel like you're helping him grow.
When the two of you are out together, dance to the music—even when no one else is. Grab his hand and see if he'll join you.
Wear trendy, bold outfits around him. When you go out, bring him an equally exciting hat or jacket and let him know you think it'd look great on him.
When someone is rude at a party, stand up to them. By defending someone else in public, you'll inspire him to do the same in the future.
7. Show him how independent you are.
Leos are the queens of self-sufficiency, and that’ll be attractive to him.
You probably have a million friends, passions, and ambitions, so every week, dedicate lots of time to those interests. Really invest in yourself; your Gemini crush will find that behavior super attractive. Make sure he’s aware that you’re constantly working on your health, spending time with friends, and going after your goals.
Spend time enjoying exercise, like long runs, swims, and bike rides.
Grab a pal and catch a quick concert, attend a cooking class, or go to a museum.
Work on your goals. Log hours towards your pilot’s license, brush up on your French through an advanced class, or tinker with your website.
8. Create a relaxed relationship dynamic.
Geminis need their freedom, so if he feels smothered, he might move on.
At the start of your relationship or flirtationship, keep things casual, light, and easy breezy. Anyone who micromanages a Gemini’s time will probably get the boot, so instead, play it cool. Leo, you crave all-out romance, but you have tons of interests beyond your crush. While giving him space, turn your focus elsewhere.
Give him time away from you. He definitely loves hanging out with you, but Geminis need variety in their schedule to feel fulfilled.
When you’re not together, don’t initiate constant texts and calls. Limit yourself to just one check-in each day.
To become irresistible to a Gemini, try to approach the relationship in the same way he does. Enjoy your time together when you’re together. When you’re not, enjoy your freedom instead!
9. Bring some variety into your relationship.
Geminis are notorious for getting bored, but you're endlessly exciting.
Your fabulous, one-woman show will enchant a restless Gemini. To keep him entertained, mix things up constantly. Show him how many different gears you have, Leo. Drag him to a poetry reading one night and a fashion show the next. Keep him guessing, and he'll be hooked.
Plan various unique dates. For instance, go pick out silly outfits for each other at a thrift store and then wear them to breakfast.
Invite him to join you in one of your many passions. Paint a portrait of him, bring him to your baking class, or show him your best piece on the piano.
10. Tone down the dramatics.
A Gemini man may struggle to handle a Leo’s theatrics.
As a Leo, you may feel tempted to get loud and a bit dramatic when expressing your emotions. Instead of bringing this energy to him, vent to a friend or journal. If you slip up and make a big deal out of something though, don't stress. Apologize and then give him space. He'll appreciate your self-awareness and positive intentions.
11. Let him take his time.
Geminis avoid their feelings, which makes them slow to commit.
Leo, you may not feel like a patient person, but you know you're understanding. While waiting for things to get serious between you two, try to show your Gemini crush some compassion. Avoid applying pressure and give him his time. You’re amazing, and sometimes, a Gemini just needs time to think.
It can be frustrating to wait around for the guy you like to commit. Discuss the issue with friends to help yourself stay positive.
Recite daily affirmations to remind yourself of how incredibly fabulous you are, even while your Gemini crush is moving slower than you'd like.
"I am stunning, I am brave, I'm exciting, and I deserve love."
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Play around with him.\\nGeminis want their relationships to be a constant source of fun.\\nTo attract a Gemini, turn regular experiences into amusing antics. When you're together, look out for any and all opportunities to be silly or entertaining. As a fire sign, “fun” is basically your middle name. So, prove that hanging out with you is synonymous with having an absolute blast.\\nGrab a pencil, spoon, or even a cellphone. Sing (or lip-sync!) into it like it’s a mic. Periodically put your “mic” in front of him to let him take a turn.\\nTurn everything you do into a game. When on a walk together, suddenly point to a tree and shout, “Last person to get there buys ice cream! 3, 2, 1, go!”\\nPlay games that you haven't touched since you were a kid together. Anything from Chutes and Ladders to Wii Sports will be perfect.\\n3. Engage in energetic conversation.\\nYou and Gemini are the master conversationalists of the zodiac.\\nTo the two of you, there's nothing better than a witty, charming, enthusiastic conversation, so bond over long discussions frequently. Don't stress over your topic choices, because you two could make talking about tax returns sound thrilling. Just make sure you show him enthusiasm and energy, and he'll love you for it.\\nEngage him with an interesting, open-ended question: “Okay so, you’ve definitely seen Inception, right? What do you think—was it a dream or not?”\\nShow your enthusiasm through physical cues. Hold eye contact, use expressive hand movements, and nod your head while he speaks.\\n4. Be the life of the party together.\\nProve that you're a social butterfly, too, and it'll impress him.\\nYou and Gemini command every room you enter with your charisma and energy, so make sure you're on his arm at every party. Impress him with your stellar jokes, karaoke appearances, and delightful personality. He'll admire your magnetism, and on top of that, he'll have a ball—which will add to his attraction to you.\\nWhen you're talking in a group, tell your best anecdote. Anything that's earned big laughs or big gasps in the past will be perfect.\\nUse your bold nature to bring the party to the next level. Grab the mic for karaoke, dance like nobody is watching, or toast the guest of honor.\\nCharm the room by asking engaging questions, complimenting people, and remembering others' personal details.\\n5. Teach him things.\\nGeminis are avid learners, so he’ll value anyone who makes him smarter.\\nDrop fun facts, discuss things you’ve read recently, and when neither of you knows something, search for the answer online. Brainstorm topics that you’re well-versed in and bring them up in conversation with him. He’ll feel like every time he hangs out with you, he’s getting smarter—and this will make you irresistible.\\n“Hey, did you know that cows have regional accents? How crazy right?”\\n“I read this article recently that talked about how owning a pet actually helps boost mood and lower anxiety. Isn’t that fascinating?”\\n“Hmm. Now that you mention it, I can’t remember the capital of Vermont. That one always trips me up. Here, let me search it.”\\n6. Inspire him to be bold.\\nA Gemini will admire you for your natural fearlessness, Leo.\\nWith your Gemini crush, don't be afraid to make a scene. Call people out when they’re being shady, announce yourself when you arrive at the party, and wear funky, bold outfits. He’ll admire the way you do exactly what you want when you want. Encourage similar behavior in him, and he'll feel like you're helping him grow.\\nWhen the two of you are out together, dance to the music—even when no one else is. Grab his hand and see if he'll join you.\\nWear trendy, bold outfits around him. When you go out, bring him an equally exciting hat or jacket and let him know you think it'd look great on him.\\nWhen someone is rude at a party, stand up to them. By defending someone else in public, you'll inspire him to do the same in the future.\\n7. Show him how independent you are.\\nLeos are the queens of self-sufficiency, and that’ll be attractive to him.\\nYou probably have a million friends, passions, and ambitions, so every week, dedicate lots of time to those interests. Really invest in yourself; your Gemini crush will find that behavior super attractive. Make sure he’s aware that you’re constantly working on your health, spending time with friends, and going after your goals.\\nSpend time enjoying exercise, like long runs, swims, and bike rides.\\nGrab a pal and catch a quick concert, attend a cooking class, or go to a museum.\\nWork on your goals. Log hours towards your pilot’s license, brush up on your French through an advanced class, or tinker with your website.\\n8. Create a relaxed relationship dynamic.\\nGeminis need their freedom, so if he feels smothered, he might move on.\\nAt the start of your relationship or flirtationship, keep things casual, light, and easy breezy. Anyone who micromanages a Gemini’s time will probably get the boot, so instead, play it cool. Leo, you crave all-out romance, but you have tons of interests beyond your crush. While giving him space, turn your focus elsewhere.\\nGive him time away from you. He definitely loves hanging out with you, but Geminis need variety in their schedule to feel fulfilled.\\nWhen you’re not together, don’t initiate constant texts and calls. Limit yourself to just one check-in each day.\\nTo become irresistible to a Gemini, try to approach the relationship in the same way he does. Enjoy your time together when you’re together. When you’re not, enjoy your freedom instead!\\n9. Bring some variety into your relationship.\\nGeminis are notorious for getting bored, but you're endlessly exciting.\\nYour fabulous, one-woman show will enchant a restless Gemini. To keep him entertained, mix things up constantly. Show him how many different gears you have, Leo. Drag him to a poetry reading one night and a fashion show the next. Keep him guessing, and he'll be hooked.\\nPlan various unique dates. For instance, go pick out silly outfits for each other at a thrift store and then wear them to breakfast.\\nInvite him to join you in one of your many passions. Paint a portrait of him, bring him to your baking class, or show him your best piece on the piano.\\n10. Tone down the dramatics.\\nA Gemini man may struggle to handle a Leo’s theatrics.\\nAs a Leo, you may feel tempted to get loud and a bit dramatic when expressing your emotions. Instead of bringing this energy to him, vent to a friend or journal. 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Discuss the issue with friends to help yourself stay positive.\\nRecite daily affirmations to remind yourself of how incredibly fabulous you are, even while your Gemini crush is moving slower than you'd like.\\n\\\"I am stunning, I am brave, I'm exciting, and I deserve love.\\\"\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"What happens when two dazzling conversationalists with endless energy and amazing vibes get together? A match made in heaven, that's what. Leo, if you're looking to make your Gemini crush swoon, you're in luck. With your radiant, irresistible charm, he doesn't stand a chance. We've pulled together all the best tips and tricks so you can use your incredible Leo energy to make him totally obsessed with you. For everything you need to know on how to attract a Gemini man as a Leo woman, read on!This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. 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By defending someone else in public, you'll inspire him to do the same in the future.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Show him how independent you are.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos are the queens of self-sufficiency, and that’ll be attractive to him.\", \"描述\": \"You probably have a million friends, passions, and ambitions, so every week, dedicate lots of time to those interests. Really invest in yourself; your Gemini crush will find that behavior super attractive. Make sure he’s aware that you’re constantly working on your health, spending time with friends, and going after your goals.\\nSpend time enjoying exercise, like long runs, swims, and bike rides.\\nGrab a pal and catch a quick concert, attend a cooking class, or go to a museum.\\nWork on your goals. Log hours towards your pilot’s license, brush up on your French through an advanced class, or tinker with your website.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Create a relaxed relationship dynamic.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Geminis need their freedom, so if he feels smothered, he might move on.\", \"描述\": \"At the start of your relationship or flirtationship, keep things casual, light, and easy breezy. Anyone who micromanages a Gemini’s time will probably get the boot, so instead, play it cool. Leo, you crave all-out romance, but you have tons of interests beyond your crush. While giving him space, turn your focus elsewhere.\\nGive him time away from you. He definitely loves hanging out with you, but Geminis need variety in their schedule to feel fulfilled.\\nWhen you’re not together, don’t initiate constant texts and calls. Limit yourself to just one check-in each day.\\nTo become irresistible to a Gemini, try to approach the relationship in the same way he does. Enjoy your time together when you’re together. When you’re not, enjoy your freedom instead!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Bring some variety into your relationship.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Geminis are notorious for getting bored, but you're endlessly exciting.\", \"描述\": \"Your fabulous, one-woman show will enchant a restless Gemini. To keep him entertained, mix things up constantly. Show him how many different gears you have, Leo. Drag him to a poetry reading one night and a fashion show the next. Keep him guessing, and he'll be hooked.\\nPlan various unique dates. For instance, go pick out silly outfits for each other at a thrift store and then wear them to breakfast.\\nInvite him to join you in one of your many passions. Paint a portrait of him, bring him to your baking class, or show him your best piece on the piano.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Tone down the dramatics.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Gemini man may struggle to handle a Leo’s theatrics.\", \"描述\": \"As a Leo, you may feel tempted to get loud and a bit dramatic when expressing your emotions. Instead of bringing this energy to him, vent to a friend or journal. If you slip up and make a big deal out of something though, don't stress. Apologize and then give him space. He'll appreciate your self-awareness and positive intentions.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Let him take his time.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Geminis avoid their feelings, which makes them slow to commit.\", \"描述\": \"Leo, you may not feel like a patient person, but you know you're understanding. While waiting for things to get serious between you two, try to show your Gemini crush some compassion. Avoid applying pressure and give him his time. 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2,768 | How to Attract a Gemini Man As a Taurus Woman | 1. Hang out in the same places he does.
A Gemini is a social butterfly who will naturally gravitate to you.
As a quiet Taurus woman, you're not typically the one to make the first move. Gemini really isn't either—but he does love to talk and meet new people. If the two of you are frequently around each other, he'll want to start a conversation with you at some point.
Check with mutual friends or look him up on social media to figure out where he spends most of his time.
Geminis are typically pretty social, so he likely has a few favorite spots where you could casually run into him.
2. Ask him open-ended questions.
Geminis love to talk so he'll gladly go on and on about anything you ask.
Boredom and routine are a Twin's worst enemies. As a Taurus, you cherish your routines and live a grounded, stable life—just don't tell him that! If you want to hook him, keep him talking—he'll be thrilled that someone wants to hear about him. You can endear yourself to him this way without even having to do much.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and thinking. He'll be right in his comfort zone if you ask him a thought-provoking question about philosophy or world affairs.
You might also bring up any topic that's recently been in the news and ask his opinion on it—he's certain to have one, and can probably argue the other side as well.
Appeal to his dual-minded nature by asking him, "Do you prefer this or that?" on topics ranging from famous artists to favorite foods.
3. Show off your feminine side.
The masculine Gemini is typically attracted to more feminine women.
As the daughter of Venus, you have the market cornered on feminine energy. You're the quintessential woman the masculine Twin can't help but be attracted to. The romantic cottagecore style is perfect for the feminine, earthy Taurus woman and will certainly light a spark in your favorite Gemini's eye.
You might try a light, floaty floral dress in a more conservative cut. Pair it with some charming ballet flats and throw on a chunky cardigan in case of a chill.
4. Listen to his tales of adventure.
Gemini guys typically enjoy sharing their experiences.
Gemini loves to play and have fun. He lives for seeing new places and learning new things—and he'll want to tell you all about it. While, as a Taurus, you don't necessarily share his adventurous spirit, you're definitely a great listener.
Contribute what you know about the places he's been and compare your knowledge to his lived experience. It's a learning opportunity for both of you!
If he ever remarks about the fact that you don't tend to go off on adventures yourself, tell him you do all of your adventuring vicariously through him—he'll be thrilled to think that you're waiting expectantly for his stories.
5. Go on a hike together.
As an Air sign, Twins have energy to burn.
Since he likes being active and you, as an Earth sign, love nature, a hike is a great compromise. Spending time outdoors also gives you some rare time alone with the typically social Gemini. He'll be drawn to you if you show him your love for the outdoors.
Bring along your smartphone and download free apps that help you identify plants and animals you might encounter on your hike. Your intellectual Gemini guy will love this because it gives him an opportunity to learn something new.
6. Encourage him to go out and explore.
A Gemini guy likes to run off on his own adventures.
As a Taurus woman, you tend to be a more introverted homebody who focuses on one person at a time. Your favorite Gemini, on the other hand, prefers to leap from one experience to the other, rarely settling in one place for too long. Assure him that you don't mind his wanderings and you'll always be waiting with open arms when he returns.
He's always making new friends, but trust him to stay true to you. He doesn't enter relationships lightly and won't stray—he just needs his freedom.
If you're a typical Taurus who likes to have her partner close by her side, this can occasionally be tough for you. Just remind yourself that he will be back and he'll have exciting new adventures to tell you about.
7. Keep your plans loose.
Geminis prefer to be spontaneous.
For a Taurus lady who prefers the stability of well-laid-out plans, this can be hard for you to handle. The best way to approach a date with your Gemini guy is not to have a plan at all—he's great at winging it and you won't have to fret when your careful itinerary falls by the wayside.
Even if he knows that you don't tend to play it fast and loose, he'll appreciate the fact that you're willing to let go a little when you're with him.
If you do need to make specific plans for something—say, a dinner reservation or concert tickets—let him know about that commitment and keep everything around it loose. That gives him the opportunity to do something spontaneous.
8. Work on a project as a team.
The Gemini man loves to work with his hands and learn new things.
The two of you shine with big projects because you each have well-defined roles. He's a doer who loves to tackle things head-on and you're strong with budgeting, planning, and other practical necessities that he typically finds too boring to worry about. Together, you're certain to accomplish whatever you set your minds to.
For example, if you've always wanted to remodel your bathroom, he's the perfect person to take that on with. He also has a great eye for style and quality—you won't overpay if you've got a Gemini reviewing your purchases.
Keep in mind that you might lose his interest on longer-term projects. If something stretches out over longer than a week, he's likely to get bored and you'll find yourself finishing on your own.
9. Be patient and understanding.
The Gemini man can be indecisive and restless.
As a Taurean woman, you have plenty of patience—and a Gemini man, unfortunately, will likely put it to the test. In a relationship, you're likely to find his flighty nature and inability to focus exhausting.
Reminding yourself why he is the way he is will help you have more patience with him. For example, he's indecisive because he wants to make sure he's completely analyzed all sides of an issue before he makes up his mind.
10. Offer to make his ideas reality.
Your Twin loves to innovate but seldom sticks with one idea for long.
He's a creative guy and is likely to come up with some pretty great ideas. The problem is that he'll quickly get bored and want to move on to something new. That's where you come in!
For example, he might mention the idea of turning his spare bedroom into a library. When you show up with plans for shelves and decor, along with a budget and schedule for completion, he'll be so glad he has you in his life.
Taurus women are known for sticking with something to the bitter end. Take his ideas and run with them—he'll be stoked with the results.
11. Provide him with support.
Your practicality and stability enable him to chase his dreams.
Yes, he likes to run off on exciting adventures and try new things all the time—this is why he needs a grounding influence in this life. As a Taurus, you're perfectly suited to provide this for him if only you can learn to let him go when he needs to.
For example, maybe he has a dream to go backpacking around Europe or Southeast Asia. For a Taurus lady, this likely sounds awful—but you can monitor his finances, store his belongings, and take care of his pet while he fulfills his dream.
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The romantic cottagecore style is perfect for the feminine, earthy Taurus woman and will certainly light a spark in your favorite Gemini's eye.\\nYou might try a light, floaty floral dress in a more conservative cut. Pair it with some charming ballet flats and throw on a chunky cardigan in case of a chill.\\n4. Listen to his tales of adventure.\\nGemini guys typically enjoy sharing their experiences.\\nGemini loves to play and have fun. He lives for seeing new places and learning new things—and he'll want to tell you all about it. While, as a Taurus, you don't necessarily share his adventurous spirit, you're definitely a great listener.\\nContribute what you know about the places he's been and compare your knowledge to his lived experience. It's a learning opportunity for both of you!\\nIf he ever remarks about the fact that you don't tend to go off on adventures yourself, tell him you do all of your adventuring vicariously through him—he'll be thrilled to think that you're waiting expectantly for his stories.\\n5. Go on a hike together.\\nAs an Air sign, Twins have energy to burn.\\nSince he likes being active and you, as an Earth sign, love nature, a hike is a great compromise. Spending time outdoors also gives you some rare time alone with the typically social Gemini. He'll be drawn to you if you show him your love for the outdoors.\\nBring along your smartphone and download free apps that help you identify plants and animals you might encounter on your hike. Your intellectual Gemini guy will love this because it gives him an opportunity to learn something new.\\n6. 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2,769 | How to Attract a Gemini Man As an Aquarius Woman | 1. Ask a question to get him talking.
Nothing makes a Gemini man happier than talking for hours.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and thinking—ask him a question and he'll go on and on. You Water-bearers are no slouch at conversations either, so this is your time to shine. He'll light up when you ask him a deep philosophical question or seek his opinion on some current controversy.
Both Gemini and Aquarius love to be intellectually engaged, so this is a great match.
Rest assured there is nothing too obscure for the Gemini man's interest. He flits about from subject to subject and knows at least a little about so many things, you're unlikely to stump him.
Don't be surprised if he passionately discusses one side of an issue, then immediately flip-flops and offers the most compelling arguments of the other side. Twins pride themselves on their ability to see things from all sides.
2. Share your great ideas.
Cerebral Geminis are attracted to brilliant concepts.
Ruled by Uranus, the "disruptor" planet, Aquarians are known for thinking outside the box. Chances are, you have all kinds of off-the-cuff ideas you can charm him with. He'll never get bored with your endless stream of innovative thoughts.
Given the famed Aquarian humanitarian streak, it's likely a lot of your ideas involve helping others. While Geminis don't have the same motivation, they'll appreciate your drive.
Don't worry if you don't have any practical plans to turn your idea into reality—he doesn't have much patience for the process anyway. He's more interested in the wild idea that would potentially turn conventional thinking upside-down.
3. Indulge your feminine side around him.
A Gemini guy tends to prefer more traditionally feminine women.
Aquarian ladies are known as the chameleons of the fashion world, changing your look effortlessly from one day to the next. Go for light, flowing fabrics in cuts that accentuate your curves.
For a date, you might opt for a longer, flowing skirt with a trim button-down or T-shirt. This combo showcases the "mix and match" style Aquarians enjoy so much.
At the same time, make sure you leave a little something to the imagination. A Twin tends to be more conservative and won't be impressed by anything that's too revealing.
4. Show off your smarts.
The typical Gemini is drawn to deep-thinking, intellectual women.
As a Water-bearer, you have the reputation for being one of the brainier signs of the zodiac. There's no better way to attract a Twin than to put your fierce intellect on full display.
Gemini is a guy you can really geek out with. He'll definitely enjoy your encyclopedic knowledge of your favorite topics.
If you have any special degrees or awards, brag about them! He'll be excited to hang out with someone as clever as you.
5. Hit the thrift shops together.
A Gemini guy will enjoy the adventure of a thrifting treasure hunt.
Aquarius women tend to have an eclectic sense of style, so it's likely you're no stranger to sifting through racks of cast-offs in search of that uncommon prize. The Twin is an enthusiastic partner in this quest—don't be surprised if he goes home with a few choice finds as well.
Geminis are often attracted to well-made luxury items, but they're practical with money and don't care for the luxury price attached. He'll feel at home thrifting for bargains.
This excursion also gives you a chance to showcase your creative side, which he'll find endlessly amazing and interesting.
Show him how great that dull maxi skirt sparkles as a tube dress, thrown together with the vintage man's belt—he'll be in awe.
6. Attend social events side by side.
The extroverted Gemini is more himself when surrounded by people.
He's the ideal social butterfly who is more alive around people. While as an Aquarius woman you can easily tolerate alone time, you also enjoy the swirl of social activities. Large-scale events give you both the opportunity to see and be seen, make new friends, and engage with diverse people.
Local parties and gatherings are an obvious choice, but you might consider a larger event, such as a fantasy or sci-fi convention.
Since you both love learning about other cultures, you might also check out unique cultural events, such as traveling to New Orleans for Mardi Gras.
7. Turn your dates into adventures.
Both of you love to explore new places and have unusual experiences.
Neither of you is really the dinner-and-a-movie type. Instead, plan on meeting up at a local café or pub and then going from there. Your Gemini guy feels trapped by a strict itinerary and you love the freedom to be spontaneous, so this is the perfect option for both of you.
Gemini will be most attracted to someone who keeps them amused.
Scavenger hunts, escape rooms, and mystery tours are also options that will keep both of you interested and excited.
Twins and Water-bearers alike are known for their love of the outdoors. Since both of you have energy to burn, a refreshing hike gives you a taste of the wilderness and a wonderful bonding opportunity.
8. Learn a new skill or hobby as a team.
Gemini guys are known for excitedly jumping into new things.
You both enjoy learning and neither of you is shy about making mistakes to gain skills and experience. Taking on something new is a challenge that will strengthen your bond with each other.
For example, you might try your hand at glass blowing or throwing pottery. Take an introductory class together and see what you can create.
Since you're both active, social people, you might also consider joining a community sports league. It gives you both the activity to play as well as socialize after your games.
9. Keep things casual for a while.
Both of you are slow to settle into a committed relationship.
Gemini guys have a reputation for only staying around until they get bored, then quietly moving on to someone else. You certainly have all the traits to keep him interested long-term, but he knows himself well enough to avoid getting your hopes up. As for you, relationships tend to start as friendships and be more mental than physical affairs—meaning romance will come later, if at all.
Intimacy is something difficult for both of you, which can make it hard to kick off a more romantic connection.
At the same time, if you're both content with a more platonic relationship you might not even see this as a problem.
10. Be patient with his ever-changing interests.
Unlike you, a Gemini guy doesn't usually stick with one thing for very long.
As an Aquarius, you tend to be loyal to your favorites. You've used the same soap since childhood, but to him, that smacks of boring monotony. His willingness to abandon things simply because they're no longer exciting and unfamiliar might annoy you. He'll be drawn to you if you show patience with this peculiar trait of his.
For example, he might proclaim a band his favorite and listen to them nonstop for a week. But hold off on buying tickets for their concert next month—he'll probably be on to someone else by then.
Just accept this as one of his personality quirks. It's not likely you'll ever truly understand it, and that's okay.
11. Travel to exotic places together.
Both of you love traveling to offbeat and out-of-the-way locations.
Ideally, you can book a flight somewhere on another continent where neither of you knows the language and have to get by on your wits. But if a far-flung excursion isn't in your budget, you can still find weird and wacky spots closer to home.
Campy roadside attractions (haven't you always wanted to see the world's largest ball of yarn?) and tourist traps will also entertain you both—especially if they give you the opportunity to chat up the locals.
Given that both of you are also attracted to unconventional lifestyles, it's just as likely that the two of you might decide to travel the country for a year in an old school bus you've turned into a mobile home.
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Share your great ideas.\\nCerebral Geminis are attracted to brilliant concepts.\\nRuled by Uranus, the \\\"disruptor\\\" planet, Aquarians are known for thinking outside the box. Chances are, you have all kinds of off-the-cuff ideas you can charm him with. He'll never get bored with your endless stream of innovative thoughts.\\nGiven the famed Aquarian humanitarian streak, it's likely a lot of your ideas involve helping others. While Geminis don't have the same motivation, they'll appreciate your drive.\\nDon't worry if you don't have any practical plans to turn your idea into reality—he doesn't have much patience for the process anyway. He's more interested in the wild idea that would potentially turn conventional thinking upside-down.\\n3. Indulge your feminine side around him.\\nA Gemini guy tends to prefer more traditionally feminine women.\\nAquarian ladies are known as the chameleons of the fashion world, changing your look effortlessly from one day to the next. Go for light, flowing fabrics in cuts that accentuate your curves.\\nFor a date, you might opt for a longer, flowing skirt with a trim button-down or T-shirt. This combo showcases the \\\"mix and match\\\" style Aquarians enjoy so much.\\nAt the same time, make sure you leave a little something to the imagination. A Twin tends to be more conservative and won't be impressed by anything that's too revealing.\\n4. Show off your smarts.\\nThe typical Gemini is drawn to deep-thinking, intellectual women.\\nAs a Water-bearer, you have the reputation for being one of the brainier signs of the zodiac. There's no better way to attract a Twin than to put your fierce intellect on full display.\\nGemini is a guy you can really geek out with. He'll definitely enjoy your encyclopedic knowledge of your favorite topics.\\nIf you have any special degrees or awards, brag about them! He'll be excited to hang out with someone as clever as you.\\n5. Hit the thrift shops together.\\nA Gemini guy will enjoy the adventure of a thrifting treasure hunt.\\nAquarius women tend to have an eclectic sense of style, so it's likely you're no stranger to sifting through racks of cast-offs in search of that uncommon prize. The Twin is an enthusiastic partner in this quest—don't be surprised if he goes home with a few choice finds as well.\\nGeminis are often attracted to well-made luxury items, but they're practical with money and don't care for the luxury price attached. He'll feel at home thrifting for bargains.\\nThis excursion also gives you a chance to showcase your creative side, which he'll find endlessly amazing and interesting.\\nShow him how great that dull maxi skirt sparkles as a tube dress, thrown together with the vintage man's belt—he'll be in awe.\\n6. Attend social events side by side.\\nThe extroverted Gemini is more himself when surrounded by people.\\nHe's the ideal social butterfly who is more alive around people. While as an Aquarius woman you can easily tolerate alone time, you also enjoy the swirl of social activities. Large-scale events give you both the opportunity to see and be seen, make new friends, and engage with diverse people.\\nLocal parties and gatherings are an obvious choice, but you might consider a larger event, such as a fantasy or sci-fi convention.\\nSince you both love learning about other cultures, you might also check out unique cultural events, such as traveling to New Orleans for Mardi Gras.\\n7. Turn your dates into adventures.\\nBoth of you love to explore new places and have unusual experiences.\\nNeither of you is really the dinner-and-a-movie type. Instead, plan on meeting up at a local café or pub and then going from there. Your Gemini guy feels trapped by a strict itinerary and you love the freedom to be spontaneous, so this is the perfect option for both of you.\\nGemini will be most attracted to someone who keeps them amused.\\nScavenger hunts, escape rooms, and mystery tours are also options that will keep both of you interested and excited.\\nTwins and Water-bearers alike are known for their love of the outdoors. Since both of you have energy to burn, a refreshing hike gives you a taste of the wilderness and a wonderful bonding opportunity.\\n8. Learn a new skill or hobby as a team.\\nGemini guys are known for excitedly jumping into new things.\\nYou both enjoy learning and neither of you is shy about making mistakes to gain skills and experience. Taking on something new is a challenge that will strengthen your bond with each other.\\nFor example, you might try your hand at glass blowing or throwing pottery. Take an introductory class together and see what you can create.\\nSince you're both active, social people, you might also consider joining a community sports league. It gives you both the activity to play as well as socialize after your games.\\n9. Keep things casual for a while.\\nBoth of you are slow to settle into a committed relationship.\\nGemini guys have a reputation for only staying around until they get bored, then quietly moving on to someone else. You certainly have all the traits to keep him interested long-term, but he knows himself well enough to avoid getting your hopes up. As for you, relationships tend to start as friendships and be more mental than physical affairs—meaning romance will come later, if at all.\\nIntimacy is something difficult for both of you, which can make it hard to kick off a more romantic connection.\\nAt the same time, if you're both content with a more platonic relationship you might not even see this as a problem.\\n10. Be patient with his ever-changing interests.\\nUnlike you, a Gemini guy doesn't usually stick with one thing for very long.\\nAs an Aquarius, you tend to be loyal to your favorites. You've used the same soap since childhood, but to him, that smacks of boring monotony. His willingness to abandon things simply because they're no longer exciting and unfamiliar might annoy you. He'll be drawn to you if you show patience with this peculiar trait of his.\\nFor example, he might proclaim a band his favorite and listen to them nonstop for a week. But hold off on buying tickets for their concert next month—he'll probably be on to someone else by then.\\nJust accept this as one of his personality quirks. It's not likely you'll ever truly understand it, and that's okay.\\n11. Travel to exotic places together.\\nBoth of you love traveling to offbeat and out-of-the-way locations.\\nIdeally, you can book a flight somewhere on another continent where neither of you knows the language and have to get by on your wits. But if a far-flung excursion isn't in your budget, you can still find weird and wacky spots closer to home.\\nCampy roadside attractions (haven't you always wanted to see the world's largest ball of yarn?) and tourist traps will also entertain you both—especially if they give you the opportunity to chat up the locals.\\nGiven that both of you are also attracted to unconventional lifestyles, it's just as likely that the two of you might decide to travel the country for a year in an old school bus you've turned into a mobile home.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you are an Aquarius woman, it's no surprise at all that you'd be interested in a Gemini man. When you look at him, you see reflected the same energy, the same social drive, that you also possess. Since you're both Air signs, you're both constantly on the go and enjoy lives filled with the buzz of social activity. Read on to learn everything you need to know to draw that gorgeous Gemini man to your side so the two of you can take on life as a team.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Ask a question to get him talking.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Nothing makes a Gemini man happier than talking for hours.\", \"描述\": \"Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and thinking—ask him a question and he'll go on and on. You Water-bearers are no slouch at conversations either, so this is your time to shine. He'll light up when you ask him a deep philosophical question or seek his opinion on some current controversy.\\nBoth Gemini and Aquarius love to be intellectually engaged, so this is a great match.\\nRest assured there is nothing too obscure for the Gemini man's interest. He flits about from subject to subject and knows at least a little about so many things, you're unlikely to stump him.\\nDon't be surprised if he passionately discusses one side of an issue, then immediately flip-flops and offers the most compelling arguments of the other side. Twins pride themselves on their ability to see things from all sides.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Share your great ideas.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cerebral Geminis are attracted to brilliant concepts.\", \"描述\": \"Ruled by Uranus, the \\\"disruptor\\\" planet, Aquarians are known for thinking outside the box. Chances are, you have all kinds of off-the-cuff ideas you can charm him with. He'll never get bored with your endless stream of innovative thoughts.\\nGiven the famed Aquarian humanitarian streak, it's likely a lot of your ideas involve helping others. While Geminis don't have the same motivation, they'll appreciate your drive.\\nDon't worry if you don't have any practical plans to turn your idea into reality—he doesn't have much patience for the process anyway. He's more interested in the wild idea that would potentially turn conventional thinking upside-down.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Indulge your feminine side around him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Gemini guy tends to prefer more traditionally feminine women.\", \"描述\": \"Aquarian ladies are known as the chameleons of the fashion world, changing your look effortlessly from one day to the next. Go for light, flowing fabrics in cuts that accentuate your curves.\\nFor a date, you might opt for a longer, flowing skirt with a trim button-down or T-shirt. This combo showcases the \\\"mix and match\\\" style Aquarians enjoy so much.\\nAt the same time, make sure you leave a little something to the imagination. A Twin tends to be more conservative and won't be impressed by anything that's too revealing.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Show off your smarts.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The typical Gemini is drawn to deep-thinking, intellectual women.\", \"描述\": \"As a Water-bearer, you have the reputation for being one of the brainier signs of the zodiac. There's no better way to attract a Twin than to put your fierce intellect on full display.\\nGemini is a guy you can really geek out with. He'll definitely enjoy your encyclopedic knowledge of your favorite topics.\\nIf you have any special degrees or awards, brag about them! 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He'll feel at home thrifting for bargains.\\nThis excursion also gives you a chance to showcase your creative side, which he'll find endlessly amazing and interesting.\\nShow him how great that dull maxi skirt sparkles as a tube dress, thrown together with the vintage man's belt—he'll be in awe.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Attend social events side by side.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The extroverted Gemini is more himself when surrounded by people.\", \"描述\": \"He's the ideal social butterfly who is more alive around people. While as an Aquarius woman you can easily tolerate alone time, you also enjoy the swirl of social activities. 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2,770 | How to Attract a Gemini Man Physically | 1. Dress impeccably.
Gemini men love trendy and cool outfits.
A person in a sharp ensemble will grab their attention from across the room. They’re addicted to novelty and you’ll keep their elusive attention if you try to change up your look day-to-day.
Gemini men will be more attracted to your confidence and unique sense of style than to the showiness of your outfit, so don’t feel pressure to wear something that makes you uncomfortable. It’s like the old saying goes, “It’s not about what you wear, but how you wear it.”
2. Make eye contact.
A strong gaze will grab a Gemini man’s interest.
He needs to feel like he’s the center of your attention, and no words or touches will make him feel that way more than a long look into his curious eyes. Plus, eye contact is just sexy!
Throw on a pair of glasses if you have them to hype up your “brainy” look. A Gem man won’t be able to resist the combination of beauty and intelligence.
3. Engage him in rapid-fire conversation.
Geminis never stop talking.
Ever. Stay up-to-date on current events, the news, gossip, and random fun facts so you always have a conversation topic up your sleeve. He wants to know a little bit about everything, so the more you can bounce around between different ideas and subjects, the better. A quick flow is more interesting to him than a deep discussion, and he’ll go wild for anyone that can keep up with his mile-a-minute mouth.
Stimulating his mind with new ideas and topics is the first step toward attracting a Gemini man. Be prepared to talk a lot on your journey to reel him in.
4. Flirt with him nonstop.
A Gem man can’t keep his focus on one person for too long.
Reeling in a Gemini man takes a lot of flirtatious determination, so get ready to lay it on thick. He thrives on attention, so engage him on social media to let him know you’re thinking about him and show that you know how popular he is. Tell him he’s interesting and fascinating outright—the more shameless the flirting, the more responsive he’ll be.
Even though your flirting is unabashed and direct, keep your personal self a little mysterious. Geminis don’t like head games, but they’re attracted to a little puzzle.
5. Give him a gentle touch on his arms.
The Gemini sign is the ruler of the arms.
That means your Gemini man’s arms are a sensitive, sensual place for him. Rest your hand on his forearm or lightly run a finger along his bicep while you flirt to stimulate his senses. Plus, what guy doesn’t like to think that his arms are sexy?
Try touching his tricep or the underside of his arm for an unexpected and sensitive sensation.
6. Play with his hands.
A Gemini man’s hands are an erogenous place for him.
A lot of Gems talk with their hands, so playing with them is almost like continuing your conversation physically. Hold or rub his hand, kiss his palm, or play with his fingers to channel his chatty energy into his body language. He’ll be extra stimulated and responsive to a hand massage.
7. Kiss and rub his neck.
Geminis respond to sensual touches around the throat and neck.
They’re the most talkative of the Zodiac signs, so this area is important and sensitive to them. Gentle strokes, playful bites, or kisses on their neck will drive them wild.
In Vedic astrology, Gemini rules the throat chakra. This chakra controls communication and emotion, so sensual touches here will make your Gem man feel closer to you.
8. Keep his attention on you with playful sexting.
Geminis are probably the best sexters in the Zodiac.
They’re hard to offend and their signature sense of humor applies to all things sexy too. Send him your raunchiest jokes and innuendos without fear because he’ll eat it up. A Gem man’s mind and body will both be aroused by flirty and offbeat messages, and he’ll appreciate having the concrete knowledge that, yes, you are into him.
Gemini men love written communication because of their planet Mercury ruler and won’t be turned off if you blow up their phone now and then.
Keep your texting and sexting light and funny. If the conversation turns too serious or emotional too soon, he’ll start putting distance between you.
9. Turn him on with the idea of sex.
Stimulate your Gem man’s mind to get to his libido.
A Gemini man’s sexuality is cerebral, so play some fun mind games and engage him in rapid-fire, flirty banter to rev up his brain. This will turn him on and up his attraction to you more than any revealing outfit or a trail of rose petals will.
Your Gem man finds it fun to exchange sexy thoughts. He’s a generous lover and will use whatever information you give him during your banter once you’re in bed.
10. Let him learn how to please you.
A Gemini man is curious about what turns you on.
Even if you’ve already got him into bed, his mind will keep searching for new ways to please you. Keep the lights on and have a mirror nearby so he can see how the two of you look together. Give him some breadcrumbs about what you want him to do, but don’t tell him outright—he’ll get a thrill out of solving the puzzle on his own.
11. Keep things spontaneous and unpredictable.
Boredom and monotony are a Gemini man’s biggest turn offs.
Geminis like spontaneity. He’s an active guy that loses focus easily, so keep him engaged with surprises like last-minute dinner plans at a restaurant he’s never been to, thrilling dates like zip lining or hiking an unknown trail, or even just a random night out at the bars when he wasn’t expecting one. When he sees how adventurous and fun you are to be around, his physical attraction to you will grow stronger.
Spontaneity will help get your Gem into bed, but you’ll need to keep the surprises coming to keep him there. Play with new toys, positions, or role playing to keep things fresh. Geminis feel shackled by routine, so be flexible with when (and even where) the two of you get intimate.
12. Be hilarious.
A great sense of humor is one of a Gemini man’s signature traits.
He loves to laugh, and witty jokes are a big turn on for him even if they’re not overtly sexual. Keep him laughing to show you’re on the same intellectual level as him and his physical attraction to you will follow. Keep laughing at his jokes too—the funnier he feels, the more stimulated he’ll be.
Take your jokes to a bold and inappropriate level to help get your Gem into bed. He’ll be seduced by your directness and fearlessness.
13. Let him have space.
A Gemini man wants to feel wanted, but not needed.
He’ll start to pull away from a potential lover the second he thinks his freedom is getting stepped on. Let him socialize freely (he is the life of the party, after all) and spend time away from you so he doesn’t feel tethered down. You’ll know he’s attracted to you when he keeps coming back.
A Gemini man is ultimately attracted to someone who can be his equal partner and maintain their own independent life. Explore your own interests, hobbies, and social groups while he spends time with his to show that you don’t need him. He’s a curious guy and will want to know all about what you’ve been up to the next time you see him.
14. Be a social butterfly.
Wow your Gemini man with your social stamina.
Gems run in 100 social circles and are always on the go, so you’ve got to keep up! They are constantly making plans and soaking up attention and gossip like their life depends on it. Join him on impromptu nights out, weekend trips, parties, and high-profile special events. Geminis are attracted to people they can call their equals, and this definitely includes matching his ability to party.
Most Geminis will love anyone that can keep up with their bustling social lives. You’ll know that your Gemini man is attracted to you specifically when he invites you to meet his friends or shows interest in joining your social life.
15. Make your moves fast.
Gemini men have incredibly short attention spans.
They’ll lose interest in you if you don’t keep them mentally engaged and wondering what you’re going to say or do next. Skip the small talk and ask him out for drinks sooner than later, or even just flat out tell him that you’re attracted to him after you’ve gotten to know him a little bit. Geminis are communicators, and they’re attracted to people who talk to them clearly and directly.
Geminis don’t respond well to partners who play hard-to-get. Mind games and reverse psychology might work for attracting men of other Zodiac signs, but a Gemini will always see right through them.
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Engage him in rapid-fire conversation.\\nGeminis never stop talking.\\nEver. Stay up-to-date on current events, the news, gossip, and random fun facts so you always have a conversation topic up your sleeve. He wants to know a little bit about everything, so the more you can bounce around between different ideas and subjects, the better. A quick flow is more interesting to him than a deep discussion, and he’ll go wild for anyone that can keep up with his mile-a-minute mouth.\\nStimulating his mind with new ideas and topics is the first step toward attracting a Gemini man. Be prepared to talk a lot on your journey to reel him in.\\n4. Flirt with him nonstop.\\nA Gem man can’t keep his focus on one person for too long.\\nReeling in a Gemini man takes a lot of flirtatious determination, so get ready to lay it on thick. He thrives on attention, so engage him on social media to let him know you’re thinking about him and show that you know how popular he is. Tell him he’s interesting and fascinating outright—the more shameless the flirting, the more responsive he’ll be.\\nEven though your flirting is unabashed and direct, keep your personal self a little mysterious. Geminis don’t like head games, but they’re attracted to a little puzzle.\\n5. Give him a gentle touch on his arms.\\nThe Gemini sign is the ruler of the arms.\\nThat means your Gemini man’s arms are a sensitive, sensual place for him. Rest your hand on his forearm or lightly run a finger along his bicep while you flirt to stimulate his senses. Plus, what guy doesn’t like to think that his arms are sexy?\\nTry touching his tricep or the underside of his arm for an unexpected and sensitive sensation.\\n6. Play with his hands.\\nA Gemini man’s hands are an erogenous place for him.\\nA lot of Gems talk with their hands, so playing with them is almost like continuing your conversation physically. Hold or rub his hand, kiss his palm, or play with his fingers to channel his chatty energy into his body language. He’ll be extra stimulated and responsive to a hand massage.\\n7. Kiss and rub his neck.\\nGeminis respond to sensual touches around the throat and neck.\\nThey’re the most talkative of the Zodiac signs, so this area is important and sensitive to them. Gentle strokes, playful bites, or kisses on their neck will drive them wild.\\nIn Vedic astrology, Gemini rules the throat chakra. This chakra controls communication and emotion, so sensual touches here will make your Gem man feel closer to you.\\n8. Keep his attention on you with playful sexting.\\nGeminis are probably the best sexters in the Zodiac.\\nThey’re hard to offend and their signature sense of humor applies to all things sexy too. Send him your raunchiest jokes and innuendos without fear because he’ll eat it up. A Gem man’s mind and body will both be aroused by flirty and offbeat messages, and he’ll appreciate having the concrete knowledge that, yes, you are into him.\\nGemini men love written communication because of their planet Mercury ruler and won’t be turned off if you blow up their phone now and then.\\nKeep your texting and sexting light and funny. If the conversation turns too serious or emotional too soon, he’ll start putting distance between you.\\n9. Turn him on with the idea of sex.\\nStimulate your Gem man’s mind to get to his libido.\\nA Gemini man’s sexuality is cerebral, so play some fun mind games and engage him in rapid-fire, flirty banter to rev up his brain. This will turn him on and up his attraction to you more than any revealing outfit or a trail of rose petals will.\\nYour Gem man finds it fun to exchange sexy thoughts. He’s a generous lover and will use whatever information you give him during your banter once you’re in bed.\\n10. Let him learn how to please you.\\nA Gemini man is curious about what turns you on.\\nEven if you’ve already got him into bed, his mind will keep searching for new ways to please you. Keep the lights on and have a mirror nearby so he can see how the two of you look together. Give him some breadcrumbs about what you want him to do, but don’t tell him outright—he’ll get a thrill out of solving the puzzle on his own.\\n11. Keep things spontaneous and unpredictable.\\nBoredom and monotony are a Gemini man’s biggest turn offs.\\nGeminis like spontaneity. He’s an active guy that loses focus easily, so keep him engaged with surprises like last-minute dinner plans at a restaurant he’s never been to, thrilling dates like zip lining or hiking an unknown trail, or even just a random night out at the bars when he wasn’t expecting one. When he sees how adventurous and fun you are to be around, his physical attraction to you will grow stronger.\\nSpontaneity will help get your Gem into bed, but you’ll need to keep the surprises coming to keep him there. Play with new toys, positions, or role playing to keep things fresh. Geminis feel shackled by routine, so be flexible with when (and even where) the two of you get intimate.\\n12. Be hilarious.\\nA great sense of humor is one of a Gemini man’s signature traits.\\nHe loves to laugh, and witty jokes are a big turn on for him even if they’re not overtly sexual. Keep him laughing to show you’re on the same intellectual level as him and his physical attraction to you will follow. Keep laughing at his jokes too—the funnier he feels, the more stimulated he’ll be.\\nTake your jokes to a bold and inappropriate level to help get your Gem into bed. He’ll be seduced by your directness and fearlessness.\\n13. Let him have space.\\nA Gemini man wants to feel wanted, but not needed.\\nHe’ll start to pull away from a potential lover the second he thinks his freedom is getting stepped on. Let him socialize freely (he is the life of the party, after all) and spend time away from you so he doesn’t feel tethered down. You’ll know he’s attracted to you when he keeps coming back.\\nA Gemini man is ultimately attracted to someone who can be his equal partner and maintain their own independent life. Explore your own interests, hobbies, and social groups while he spends time with his to show that you don’t need him. He’s a curious guy and will want to know all about what you’ve been up to the next time you see him.\\n14. Be a social butterfly.\\nWow your Gemini man with your social stamina.\\nGems run in 100 social circles and are always on the go, so you’ve got to keep up! They are constantly making plans and soaking up attention and gossip like their life depends on it. Join him on impromptu nights out, weekend trips, parties, and high-profile special events. Geminis are attracted to people they can call their equals, and this definitely includes matching his ability to party.\\nMost Geminis will love anyone that can keep up with their bustling social lives. You’ll know that your Gemini man is attracted to you specifically when he invites you to meet his friends or shows interest in joining your social life.\\n15. Make your moves fast.\\nGemini men have incredibly short attention spans.\\nThey’ll lose interest in you if you don’t keep them mentally engaged and wondering what you’re going to say or do next. Skip the small talk and ask him out for drinks sooner than later, or even just flat out tell him that you’re attracted to him after you’ve gotten to know him a little bit. Geminis are communicators, and they’re attracted to people who talk to them clearly and directly.\\nGeminis don’t respond well to partners who play hard-to-get. Mind games and reverse psychology might work for attracting men of other Zodiac signs, but a Gemini will always see right through them.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"It’s easy to fall for Gemini men. They’re chatty, witty, and curious socialites who know a little bit about everything and everyone. Attracting one is no easy feat, though—they’re equally stimulated by brains and beauty and don’t really have a type, so you’ll have to engage their sharp minds before you can pique their physical interest. Luckily, there are subtle tricks you can use to grab a Gemini man’s attention and rev up his engine. Keep reading for a list of looks, touches, and flirting tips you can use to attract your Gem to you, mentally and physically.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Dress impeccably.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gemini men love trendy and cool outfits.\", \"描述\": \"A person in a sharp ensemble will grab their attention from across the room. They’re addicted to novelty and you’ll keep their elusive attention if you try to change up your look day-to-day.\\nGemini men will be more attracted to your confidence and unique sense of style than to the showiness of your outfit, so don’t feel pressure to wear something that makes you uncomfortable. It’s like the old saying goes, “It’s not about what you wear, but how you wear it.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make eye contact.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A strong gaze will grab a Gemini man’s interest.\", \"描述\": \"He needs to feel like he’s the center of your attention, and no words or touches will make him feel that way more than a long look into his curious eyes. Plus, eye contact is just sexy!\\nThrow on a pair of glasses if you have them to hype up your “brainy” look. A Gem man won’t be able to resist the combination of beauty and intelligence.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Engage him in rapid-fire conversation.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Geminis never stop talking.\", \"描述\": \"Ever. Stay up-to-date on current events, the news, gossip, and random fun facts so you always have a conversation topic up your sleeve. He wants to know a little bit about everything, so the more you can bounce around between different ideas and subjects, the better. A quick flow is more interesting to him than a deep discussion, and he’ll go wild for anyone that can keep up with his mile-a-minute mouth.\\nStimulating his mind with new ideas and topics is the first step toward attracting a Gemini man. Be prepared to talk a lot on your journey to reel him in.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Flirt with him nonstop.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Gem man can’t keep his focus on one person for too long.\", \"描述\": \"Reeling in a Gemini man takes a lot of flirtatious determination, so get ready to lay it on thick. He thrives on attention, so engage him on social media to let him know you’re thinking about him and show that you know how popular he is. Tell him he’s interesting and fascinating outright—the more shameless the flirting, the more responsive he’ll be.\\nEven though your flirting is unabashed and direct, keep your personal self a little mysterious. Geminis don’t like head games, but they’re attracted to a little puzzle.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give him a gentle touch on his arms.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The Gemini sign is the ruler of the arms.\", \"描述\": \"That means your Gemini man’s arms are a sensitive, sensual place for him. Rest your hand on his forearm or lightly run a finger along his bicep while you flirt to stimulate his senses. Plus, what guy doesn’t like to think that his arms are sexy?\\nTry touching his tricep or the underside of his arm for an unexpected and sensitive sensation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Play with his hands.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Gemini man’s hands are an erogenous place for him.\", \"描述\": \"A lot of Gems talk with their hands, so playing with them is almost like continuing your conversation physically. Hold or rub his hand, kiss his palm, or play with his fingers to channel his chatty energy into his body language. He’ll be extra stimulated and responsive to a hand massage.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Kiss and rub his neck.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Geminis respond to sensual touches around the throat and neck.\", \"描述\": \"They’re the most talkative of the Zodiac signs, so this area is important and sensitive to them. 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2,771 | How to Attract a Girl | 1. Enhancing Your Physical Appearance
1-1. Build your confidence.
Confidence is one of those qualities that girls find attractive. Now, confidence doesn't equal arrogance, so there's a fine line that you'll need to walk. Fortunately, you can build your confidence, it's not something that you're just born with.
Fake confidence until you actually start to feel confident. You can do this by doing confident things, even if you don't feel it. Start small and work your way up. For example: if you're shy, strike up conversation with one person you don't know each day. Work your way up to striking up conversation with that cute girl you've been eying.
Use confident body postures to convey confidence and trick yourself into being confident. Stand with your legs apart and your hands on your hips. Don't cross your arms across your chest (this comes across as being not confident).
Chew gum. Weirdly, not only does chewing gum make your breath smell nice (which can be attractive to a girl), but it can actually reduce your stress. So before you're around the girl you're looking to attract, pop a stick of gum in your mouth.
1-2. Practice good hygiene.
The definition of hygiene very much depends on where in the world you are. Certain places have higher or lower standards of hygiene and you'll be more likely to attract a girl with more or less cleanliness. (For example: if you lived in rural Alaska, you would probably attract a girl with less cleanliness than Los Angeles.)
Bathe at least once a day. This is, obviously, just a guideline, but it's a good idea to clean yourself at least occasionally. While there is research that supports women finding men's sweat attractive, you don't want to overwhelm her with your sweat.
Keep your clothes laundered. Again, a little sweat and a little scent isn't a bad thing, but you want your clothes to be at least moderately clean.
1-3. Make sure your teeth are clean.
White teeth are definitely a sign of attractiveness. More than your physical features a girl is likely to be attracted to clean, white, healthy teeth, so make sure that you're brushing twice a day, at least, and flossing regularly.
White teeth are one of the first things women (or anyone) will notice, so it's important that you take good care of them.
You also want your breath to smell good, which means brushing your tongue, as well, especially at the back of your mouth.
1-4. Use your clothes to enhance.
Clothes can be an important indicator of confidence, and of attractiveness. Again, it really depends on where you are in terms of your main wardrobe (what goes over well and is necessary in rural Alaska is going to be very different from what is necessary and stylish in Los Angeles). There are a few basic things to keep in mind, however.
Make sure your jeans, or whatever trousers you're wearing, fit you. Clothes that fit can enhance your body. Baggy clothing hides your body, or makes you look sloppy, while too-tight clothing looks good on basically no one.
Buy nice shoes. While not all girls are obsessed with shoes (or clothes) a good pair of shoes can make you look put together, which is something a girl will register, whether she does it subconsciously or not.
Pick colors that work with your skin tone, eye color, and facial features. If you have a nice pair of green eyes, wear a forest green sweater that makes them pop. Red and black are very good colors to wear if you're looking to attract. Both red and black make you appear more powerful.
1-5. Don’t overwhelm with scent.
There's nothing wrong with a little scent, especially if you live somewhere that is big on colognes and body spray. But you want to make sure that you don't overwhelm the girl you're looking to attract. You may also want to consider not covering up your natural scent. Women tend to be attracted to a man's sweat.
Just make sure that you aren't overwhelming anyone with your body odor. It's a good balance that you have to strike. If you're of the type who sweats a lot, make sure that you wash frequently and change your shirts.
Cologne and body spray can add a nice little accent to your appearance as long as you don't go overboard. Spritz a little behind your ear, on your face and chin (one spritz should do it) and on your chest. You want to make sure that your cologne or body spray mingles with your natural scent and pheromones.
2. Letting Your Personality Shine
2-1. Find your passion.
People are attracted to those who know who they are, are confident about that, and who have passion about something. Passion about things (like sports, or rock climbing, cooking, or writing) can translate into passion for another person, which is an attractive quality.
Having things that you're passionate about gives you something to talk about. It's one reason why nerds are big right now, because nerds aren't afraid to be passionate about the things that they like.
Figure out what it is that you enjoy. This means giving lots of different things a try to pursuing the things that you love. Don't be afraid to screw up or not be good at something when you first start out (very few people can make a flan on the first try, for example). Being able to make mistakes without letting it upset your equilibrium is an attractive quality.
2-2. Try new things.
This will help you push the limits of your comfort zone, which in turn makes you more confident in handling the things life pushes at you. It also means that you're more likely to be able to talk to a girl you want to attract. Doing things, being game for trying things out is a quality that can attract a girl.
Take a dance or cooking class. If you want to know where girls are, they often take dance or cooking classes. A man who can dance or who can cook is a big catch among the ladies. It also shows that you don't really care what people think about you, which shows that you're confident.
You’ll meet new people and have interesting experiences to talk about. Being a good conversationalist, telling interesting stories, having a life can all attract a girl.
2-3. Cultivate the art of listening.
Listening, real listening, is a lost art. People are so busy wanting to talk about themselves, or checking their phone, that they have a tendency not to really listen. If you show that you care what other people have to say, you'll show that you're a good bet as a partner.
When someone is talking to you, make sure that you give them your full attention. Make eye contact, avoid checking your phone. If you don't feel comfortable making eye contact, try to look over one of their shoulders, or at their forehead, because it will look like you're making eye contact, without actually having to do that.
Listen to all people, even girls you don’t find attractive. This shows that you respect people and that you think all people are important and you're not just listening to someone because you want to get into her pants. Unless she's only looking for a one-night stand, a girl doesn't want to feel like you're only paying attention to her because you want to have sex with her.
2-4. Treat people well.
All people. When you're at the grocery store make sure that you thank the clerk. When you're at a restaurant, tip the waiter or waitress well. Look people in the eye and make them feel like you've seen them, that they aren't invisible to you.
This doesn’t necessarily mean be a pushover. If someone says something rude or disparaging towards you, you have every right to call them out.
Treating people well means holding the door for that little old lady, or helping carry her groceries. It means offering rides to your friends because they can't afford a car, and so on. If you get into the habit of treating people well, girls will notice that.
3. Interacting With a Girl
3-1. Approach her with respect.
Always approach a girl with the underlying realization that she is, first and foremost, a human being and thus is worthy of respect (it doesn't matter what she's wearing, how drunk she is, or how she's acting). Girls are often taught that they don't deserve respect, so you'll stand out from a lot of other guys.
Make sure that you have respect for yourself, too. This is about confidence. When you talk to or approach a girl, don't base your happiness on whether she's going to be interested in you. When you make it seem like you're desperate. Politely engage her in conversation and if she doesn't seem interested, back off.
Be respectful to other people when you're around her (this ties in with treating people well). Avoid degrading women, whether it's by telling a rape joke (just don't), calling other guys "pussies" or using words like "that bitch" to talk about your ex-girlfriend. You'll come across as disrespectful and immature.
A lot of guys mix up being confident with being arrogant and awful. They say that women only want horrible guys who treat them poorly. The thing about this type of guy is that he exudes confidence. It tends to be the confidence rather than the crappy behavior that girls are attracted to.
3-2. Ask her questions about herself.
Make it seem like you're actually interested in what she has to say. Instead of jumping right in with something about yourself, follow up with another question about what she just said. Girls, like anyone else, like to think that people are interested in their thoughts and opinions.
For example: you might ask her about her job and when she tells you she's working as a barista, ask her how she likes it, what's her favorite part about the job, what's her least favorite part.
Obviously make sure that you listen to what she says. Don't just be formulating your next question, or it'll seem like you're interrogating her without caring about the answers.
Don’t get too personal too quickly. If you've only just met the girl, don't jump right in asking about her relationship with her family, or whether she has any deep dark secrets (although asking this as a joke might be okay depending on the girl). if the two of you end up dating, there'll be time for that later.
3-3. Be playful.
You don't have to have a huge grin when you're hanging out with her, but it's a good idea to make your interactions fun. She'll remember that being around you was fun and kind of charged (flirting is good for that).
Rather than a big open smile, consider having a kind of half-smile. This is often more attractive to girls than full-on grinning.
Make her laugh. Tell funny stories. Real ones are the best ones, especially ones where you come off as human. It shows that you can laugh at yourself. For example: you might tell her about the time you tried to scare your dad when he was coming out of the gym locker room, only to scare a completely random person.
Be careful with humor, because not everyone has the same type of humor. Make sure that you're gauging your reaction. Is she laughing hard at what you're saying, or only laughing politely. Avoid harmful humor, as well, such as racist or sexist jokes.
3-4. Flirt
Flirting can be a bit hit or miss, but it's a great way to create a fun, light atmosphere. It can also get a bit charged and leave her wanting more. Make sure you go by each individual girl's reaction, because every girl is different in what she likes and dislikes.
Tease her gently. Don't be mean about what you say, but gently poke fun at her. For example: tell her that you can out-dance her on the dance. If she is a better dancer, pretend that you are, instead.
Eye contact is an extremely important part of flirting. Keep eye contact with the girl that you're interested in, across the bar, while you're in conversation. It'll build a real charge of energy between the two of you. Watch her tone if she need some space let her in.
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Again, a little sweat and a little scent isn't a bad thing, but you want your clothes to be at least moderately clean.\\n1-3. Make sure your teeth are clean.\\nWhite teeth are definitely a sign of attractiveness. More than your physical features a girl is likely to be attracted to clean, white, healthy teeth, so make sure that you're brushing twice a day, at least, and flossing regularly.\\nWhite teeth are one of the first things women (or anyone) will notice, so it's important that you take good care of them.\\nYou also want your breath to smell good, which means brushing your tongue, as well, especially at the back of your mouth.\\n1-4. Use your clothes to enhance.\\nClothes can be an important indicator of confidence, and of attractiveness. Again, it really depends on where you are in terms of your main wardrobe (what goes over well and is necessary in rural Alaska is going to be very different from what is necessary and stylish in Los Angeles). There are a few basic things to keep in mind, however.\\nMake sure your jeans, or whatever trousers you're wearing, fit you. Clothes that fit can enhance your body. Baggy clothing hides your body, or makes you look sloppy, while too-tight clothing looks good on basically no one.\\nBuy nice shoes. While not all girls are obsessed with shoes (or clothes) a good pair of shoes can make you look put together, which is something a girl will register, whether she does it subconsciously or not.\\nPick colors that work with your skin tone, eye color, and facial features. If you have a nice pair of green eyes, wear a forest green sweater that makes them pop. Red and black are very good colors to wear if you're looking to attract. Both red and black make you appear more powerful.\\n1-5. Don’t overwhelm with scent.\\nThere's nothing wrong with a little scent, especially if you live somewhere that is big on colognes and body spray. But you want to make sure that you don't overwhelm the girl you're looking to attract. You may also want to consider not covering up your natural scent. Women tend to be attracted to a man's sweat.\\nJust make sure that you aren't overwhelming anyone with your body odor. It's a good balance that you have to strike. If you're of the type who sweats a lot, make sure that you wash frequently and change your shirts.\\nCologne and body spray can add a nice little accent to your appearance as long as you don't go overboard. Spritz a little behind your ear, on your face and chin (one spritz should do it) and on your chest. You want to make sure that your cologne or body spray mingles with your natural scent and pheromones.\\n2. Letting Your Personality Shine\\n2-1. Find your passion.\\nPeople are attracted to those who know who they are, are confident about that, and who have passion about something. Passion about things (like sports, or rock climbing, cooking, or writing) can translate into passion for another person, which is an attractive quality.\\nHaving things that you're passionate about gives you something to talk about. It's one reason why nerds are big right now, because nerds aren't afraid to be passionate about the things that they like.\\nFigure out what it is that you enjoy. This means giving lots of different things a try to pursuing the things that you love. Don't be afraid to screw up or not be good at something when you first start out (very few people can make a flan on the first try, for example). Being able to make mistakes without letting it upset your equilibrium is an attractive quality.\\n2-2. Try new things.\\nThis will help you push the limits of your comfort zone, which in turn makes you more confident in handling the things life pushes at you. It also means that you're more likely to be able to talk to a girl you want to attract. Doing things, being game for trying things out is a quality that can attract a girl.\\nTake a dance or cooking class. If you want to know where girls are, they often take dance or cooking classes. A man who can dance or who can cook is a big catch among the ladies. It also shows that you don't really care what people think about you, which shows that you're confident.\\nYou’ll meet new people and have interesting experiences to talk about. Being a good conversationalist, telling interesting stories, having a life can all attract a girl.\\n2-3. Cultivate the art of listening.\\nListening, real listening, is a lost art. People are so busy wanting to talk about themselves, or checking their phone, that they have a tendency not to really listen. If you show that you care what other people have to say, you'll show that you're a good bet as a partner.\\nWhen someone is talking to you, make sure that you give them your full attention. Make eye contact, avoid checking your phone. If you don't feel comfortable making eye contact, try to look over one of their shoulders, or at their forehead, because it will look like you're making eye contact, without actually having to do that.\\nListen to all people, even girls you don’t find attractive. This shows that you respect people and that you think all people are important and you're not just listening to someone because you want to get into her pants. Unless she's only looking for a one-night stand, a girl doesn't want to feel like you're only paying attention to her because you want to have sex with her.\\n2-4. Treat people well.\\nAll people. When you're at the grocery store make sure that you thank the clerk. When you're at a restaurant, tip the waiter or waitress well. Look people in the eye and make them feel like you've seen them, that they aren't invisible to you.\\nThis doesn’t necessarily mean be a pushover. If someone says something rude or disparaging towards you, you have every right to call them out.\\nTreating people well means holding the door for that little old lady, or helping carry her groceries. It means offering rides to your friends because they can't afford a car, and so on. If you get into the habit of treating people well, girls will notice that.\\n3. Interacting With a Girl\\n3-1. Approach her with respect.\\nAlways approach a girl with the underlying realization that she is, first and foremost, a human being and thus is worthy of respect (it doesn't matter what she's wearing, how drunk she is, or how she's acting). Girls are often taught that they don't deserve respect, so you'll stand out from a lot of other guys.\\nMake sure that you have respect for yourself, too. This is about confidence. When you talk to or approach a girl, don't base your happiness on whether she's going to be interested in you. When you make it seem like you're desperate. Politely engage her in conversation and if she doesn't seem interested, back off.\\nBe respectful to other people when you're around her (this ties in with treating people well). Avoid degrading women, whether it's by telling a rape joke (just don't), calling other guys \\\"pussies\\\" or using words like \\\"that bitch\\\" to talk about your ex-girlfriend. You'll come across as disrespectful and immature.\\nA lot of guys mix up being confident with being arrogant and awful. They say that women only want horrible guys who treat them poorly. The thing about this type of guy is that he exudes confidence. It tends to be the confidence rather than the crappy behavior that girls are attracted to.\\n3-2. Ask her questions about herself.\\nMake it seem like you're actually interested in what she has to say. Instead of jumping right in with something about yourself, follow up with another question about what she just said. Girls, like anyone else, like to think that people are interested in their thoughts and opinions.\\nFor example: you might ask her about her job and when she tells you she's working as a barista, ask her how she likes it, what's her favorite part about the job, what's her least favorite part.\\nObviously make sure that you listen to what she says. Don't just be formulating your next question, or it'll seem like you're interrogating her without caring about the answers.\\nDon’t get too personal too quickly. If you've only just met the girl, don't jump right in asking about her relationship with her family, or whether she has any deep dark secrets (although asking this as a joke might be okay depending on the girl). if the two of you end up dating, there'll be time for that later.\\n3-3. Be playful.\\nYou don't have to have a huge grin when you're hanging out with her, but it's a good idea to make your interactions fun. She'll remember that being around you was fun and kind of charged (flirting is good for that).\\nRather than a big open smile, consider having a kind of half-smile. This is often more attractive to girls than full-on grinning.\\nMake her laugh. Tell funny stories. Real ones are the best ones, especially ones where you come off as human. It shows that you can laugh at yourself. For example: you might tell her about the time you tried to scare your dad when he was coming out of the gym locker room, only to scare a completely random person.\\nBe careful with humor, because not everyone has the same type of humor. Make sure that you're gauging your reaction. Is she laughing hard at what you're saying, or only laughing politely. Avoid harmful humor, as well, such as racist or sexist jokes.\\n3-4. Flirt\\nFlirting can be a bit hit or miss, but it's a great way to create a fun, light atmosphere. It can also get a bit charged and leave her wanting more. Make sure you go by each individual girl's reaction, because every girl is different in what she likes and dislikes.\\nTease her gently. Don't be mean about what you say, but gently poke fun at her. For example: tell her that you can out-dance her on the dance. If she is a better dancer, pretend that you are, instead.\\nEye contact is an extremely important part of flirting. Keep eye contact with the girl that you're interested in, across the bar, while you're in conversation. It'll build a real charge of energy between the two of you. Watch her tone if she need some space let her in.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"So there's that girl you've been crushing on, but you don't know how to get her attention? Never fear! While there's no fool-proof way to attract a girl, there are some things you can do to make it more likely that you'll claim her attention. 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Stand with your legs apart and your hands on your hips. Don't cross your arms across your chest (this comes across as being not confident).\\nChew gum. Weirdly, not only does chewing gum make your breath smell nice (which can be attractive to a girl), but it can actually reduce your stress. So before you're around the girl you're looking to attract, pop a stick of gum in your mouth.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Practice good hygiene.\", \"描述\": \"The definition of hygiene very much depends on where in the world you are. Certain places have higher or lower standards of hygiene and you'll be more likely to attract a girl with more or less cleanliness. (For example: if you lived in rural Alaska, you would probably attract a girl with less cleanliness than Los Angeles.)\\nBathe at least once a day. This is, obviously, just a guideline, but it's a good idea to clean yourself at least occasionally. While there is research that supports women finding men's sweat attractive, you don't want to overwhelm her with your sweat.\\nKeep your clothes laundered. Again, a little sweat and a little scent isn't a bad thing, but you want your clothes to be at least moderately clean.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make sure your teeth are clean.\", \"描述\": \"White teeth are definitely a sign of attractiveness. More than your physical features a girl is likely to be attracted to clean, white, healthy teeth, so make sure that you're brushing twice a day, at least, and flossing regularly.\\nWhite teeth are one of the first things women (or anyone) will notice, so it's important that you take good care of them.\\nYou also want your breath to smell good, which means brushing your tongue, as well, especially at the back of your mouth.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use your clothes to enhance.\", \"描述\": \"Clothes can be an important indicator of confidence, and of attractiveness. Again, it really depends on where you are in terms of your main wardrobe (what goes over well and is necessary in rural Alaska is going to be very different from what is necessary and stylish in Los Angeles). There are a few basic things to keep in mind, however.\\nMake sure your jeans, or whatever trousers you're wearing, fit you. Clothes that fit can enhance your body. Baggy clothing hides your body, or makes you look sloppy, while too-tight clothing looks good on basically no one.\\nBuy nice shoes. While not all girls are obsessed with shoes (or clothes) a good pair of shoes can make you look put together, which is something a girl will register, whether she does it subconsciously or not.\\nPick colors that work with your skin tone, eye color, and facial features. If you have a nice pair of green eyes, wear a forest green sweater that makes them pop. Red and black are very good colors to wear if you're looking to attract. 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2,772 | How to Attract a Girl As an Exceptionally Intelligent Guy | 1. Steps
1-1. Use your intelligence to your advantage.
Most girls like a guy who thinks on many levels and has some element of "culture" to him. If you have (or can develop) a polished vocabulary and speech style, many girls will take notice. Add some charm to the mix and they will find you quite attractive.
Don't conceal your intelligence—you want to attract girls who like smart guys, and it's not good to lie about who you are.
1-2. Focus on finding a good match, not getting every girl (or any girl).
Just as you aren't attracted to every girl, not every girl will be attracted to you, and that's okay. You're better off waiting for someone who is a good fit. If you are rejected by the girl you've got your eye on, then tell yourself it just wasn't a good match, and move on.
Just because she's not interested doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. Maybe she's already taken, too busy for romance, gay, hung up on an ex, aromantic and asexual, or just a bad fit for you.
If you're shy or very romantic, it may be extremely hard to let a girl go. It's okay to feel deeply about someone, but it's also important to respect her boundaries. Keep in mind that she is an individual with her own life and feelings, and you need to respect that—no means no, and if you don't listen, she may feel annoyed or even frightened.
1-3. Socialize with intelligent girls.
Many intelligent girls desire a partner who they can have a meaningful conversation with and will appreciate their intellect for all it is. If you're in school, talk to girls who take Advanced/AP/Honors classes. If you're working in science, engineering, or similar fields, look to your coworkers. Find women who excel.
Keep in mind that advanced classes or a career in science don't necessarily indicate intelligence, and any C student or secretary could be extremely intelligent, but can't or won't adhere to conventional standards for "smart" people.
A part of sexist thinking is that girls should pretend to be less intelligent than guys, for fear of emasculating them. Show girls that you do not follow that mindset and are perfectly okay with their full intelligence. They will appreciate your respect.
1-4. Find subjects of conversation that work for both you and your potential partner.
What does she like? What do you two have in common? If she is also intellectual, this may be easier, because your interests will most likely overlap more. If you can find topics that the two of you enjoy, then you just might be a good match.
Every girl wants to be seen and heard. Try showing genuine interest in the things she talks about — listening actively and completely focusing on her —, as it will make her feel like you care more. This kind of investment shows you are sincere and interested.
1-5. Show girls you are available and interested.
Most girls won't approach a guy reading a book in the corner or staring down at his cell phone, so don't be too preoccupied if you want someone to come. Have open body language: keep your arms uncrossed, sit up straight, and direct your feet/torso toward a girl, whether she is talking to you or sitting nearby. If you see her looking, smile and see how she responds. An inviting smile can get you a long way.
1-6. Find your flirting style.
Flirting helps you determine whether a girl is interested by offering her a chance to reciprocate and get to know you better. There are plenty of ways to flirt, and you can find your individual style, from gentlemanly to sweet. As you get to know a girl, you'll see what sort of flirting she enjoys most. Here are some examples of flirting:
Looking across the room, catching her eye, and smiling
Finding an excuse to walk over to her
Touching her arm or arranging her clothes/hair
Complimenting her
Listening to her and asking questions to get to know her
1-7. Show her that you value her.
She wants to know that you see her as important and amazing. If she's receptive to your advances, then make a habit of doing little things to show her that she matters to you.
Offer compliments
Bring her little gifts
Celebrate her accomplishments
Value her intelligence without trying to compete with her
1-8. Avoid common pitfalls.
You may have heard to treat women like rivals or to disrespect their wishes. But they're human beings, and trying to pressure or manipulate them is only going to backfire. Recognize and avoid bad ideas.
She doesn't owe you anything. Don't demand that she offer an explanation, make time for you, touch you, or otherwise do something for you if she doesn't want to. This typically makes her uncomfortable and ruins your chances. If she's uninterested, walk away.
No means no. If she tells you she's not interested, or gives you clear cues that she isn't, then stop pursuing her and give her space. (If she really likes you, she'll chase you down, and perhaps learn to be more assertive about it too.)
Many "pickup artist" techniques encourage you to adopt toxic habits, like putting her down or pressuring her after she tries to say no. This will chase away most girls and probably give you a reputation as a creep too.
Never put down her intelligence or imply that you're better than her. You'll be more skilled than her in some areas, and in other areas, her skill will exceed yours. Rather than letting insecurity get the best of her, show admiration.
1-9. Treat women well.
Girls look for partners who respect them and are good listeners. Work on being polite and warmhearted, and you will have found your natural charm. Treat women like your equals, do kind things for them, and don't be surprised if you notice some of them getting crushes on you.
Tips
If you are an autistic savant or otherwise on the autism spectrum, it may be especially helpful to read about flirting and being a good partner, because you may not know what other people are looking for.
If a girl turns you down, you might choose to politely say "May I ask why?" and see if she says something helpful. But don't push if she seems uncomfortable or doesn't want to say.
Remember that creating an authentic-based relationship in your emotional connection and how you choose to represent yourself is one of the most important parts of building a meaningful, fulfilling relationship! This includes revealing and owning your imperfections, mistakes, and letting them know when you are having a bad day. Don't focus too much on your intelligence, but rather allow yourself to build a great connection.
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Maybe she's already taken, too busy for romance, gay, hung up on an ex, aromantic and asexual, or just a bad fit for you.\\nIf you're shy or very romantic, it may be extremely hard to let a girl go. It's okay to feel deeply about someone, but it's also important to respect her boundaries. Keep in mind that she is an individual with her own life and feelings, and you need to respect that—no means no, and if you don't listen, she may feel annoyed or even frightened.\\n1-3. Socialize with intelligent girls.\\nMany intelligent girls desire a partner who they can have a meaningful conversation with and will appreciate their intellect for all it is. If you're in school, talk to girls who take Advanced/AP/Honors classes. If you're working in science, engineering, or similar fields, look to your coworkers. Find women who excel. \\nKeep in mind that advanced classes or a career in science don't necessarily indicate intelligence, and any C student or secretary could be extremely intelligent, but can't or won't adhere to conventional standards for \\\"smart\\\" people.\\nA part of sexist thinking is that girls should pretend to be less intelligent than guys, for fear of emasculating them. Show girls that you do not follow that mindset and are perfectly okay with their full intelligence. They will appreciate your respect.\\n1-4. Find subjects of conversation that work for both you and your potential partner.\\nWhat does she like? What do you two have in common? If she is also intellectual, this may be easier, because your interests will most likely overlap more. If you can find topics that the two of you enjoy, then you just might be a good match. \\nEvery girl wants to be seen and heard. Try showing genuine interest in the things she talks about — listening actively and completely focusing on her —, as it will make her feel like you care more. This kind of investment shows you are sincere and interested.\\n1-5. Show girls you are available and interested.\\nMost girls won't approach a guy reading a book in the corner or staring down at his cell phone, so don't be too preoccupied if you want someone to come. Have open body language: keep your arms uncrossed, sit up straight, and direct your feet/torso toward a girl, whether she is talking to you or sitting nearby. If you see her looking, smile and see how she responds. An inviting smile can get you a long way.\\n1-6. Find your flirting style.\\nFlirting helps you determine whether a girl is interested by offering her a chance to reciprocate and get to know you better. There are plenty of ways to flirt, and you can find your individual style, from gentlemanly to sweet. As you get to know a girl, you'll see what sort of flirting she enjoys most. Here are some examples of flirting: \\nLooking across the room, catching her eye, and smiling\\nFinding an excuse to walk over to her\\nTouching her arm or arranging her clothes/hair\\nComplimenting her\\nListening to her and asking questions to get to know her\\n1-7. Show her that you value her.\\nShe wants to know that you see her as important and amazing. If she's receptive to your advances, then make a habit of doing little things to show her that she matters to you. \\nOffer compliments\\nBring her little gifts\\nCelebrate her accomplishments\\nValue her intelligence without trying to compete with her\\n1-8. Avoid common pitfalls.\\nYou may have heard to treat women like rivals or to disrespect their wishes. But they're human beings, and trying to pressure or manipulate them is only going to backfire. Recognize and avoid bad ideas. \\n\\n She doesn't owe you anything. Don't demand that she offer an explanation, make time for you, touch you, or otherwise do something for you if she doesn't want to. This typically makes her uncomfortable and ruins your chances. If she's uninterested, walk away.\\n No means no. If she tells you she's not interested, or gives you clear cues that she isn't, then stop pursuing her and give her space. (If she really likes you, she'll chase you down, and perhaps learn to be more assertive about it too.)\\n Many \\\"pickup artist\\\" techniques encourage you to adopt toxic habits, like putting her down or pressuring her after she tries to say no. This will chase away most girls and probably give you a reputation as a creep too.\\n Never put down her intelligence or imply that you're better than her. You'll be more skilled than her in some areas, and in other areas, her skill will exceed yours. Rather than letting insecurity get the best of her, show admiration.\\n1-9. Treat women well.\\nGirls look for partners who respect them and are good listeners. Work on being polite and warmhearted, and you will have found your natural charm. Treat women like your equals, do kind things for them, and don't be surprised if you notice some of them getting crushes on you.\\nTips\\nIf you are an autistic savant or otherwise on the autism spectrum, it may be especially helpful to read about flirting and being a good partner, because you may not know what other people are looking for.\\nIf a girl turns you down, you might choose to politely say \\\"May I ask why?\\\" and see if she says something helpful. But don't push if she seems uncomfortable or doesn't want to say.\\nRemember that creating an authentic-based relationship in your emotional connection and how you choose to represent yourself is one of the most important parts of building a meaningful, fulfilling relationship! This includes revealing and owning your imperfections, mistakes, and letting them know when you are having a bad day. Don't focus too much on your intelligence, but rather allow yourself to build a great connection.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"It can be hard for an intelligent person to attract potential love interests in modern society. High intelligence is often lumped in with the \\\"nerd\\\" stereotype for better or for worse, and there are numerous other obstacles involved. However, it is entirely possible to attract a girl to you when you are an intelligent guy; the steps below will help you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Use your intelligence to your advantage.\", \"描述\": \"Most girls like a guy who thinks on many levels and has some element of \\\"culture\\\" to him. If you have (or can develop) a polished vocabulary and speech style, many girls will take notice. Add some charm to the mix and they will find you quite attractive. \\nDon't conceal your intelligence—you want to attract girls who like smart guys, and it's not good to lie about who you are.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Focus on finding a good match, not getting every girl (or any girl).\", \"描述\": \"Just as you aren't attracted to every girl, not every girl will be attracted to you, and that's okay. You're better off waiting for someone who is a good fit. If you are rejected by the girl you've got your eye on, then tell yourself it just wasn't a good match, and move on. \\nJust because she's not interested doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. Maybe she's already taken, too busy for romance, gay, hung up on an ex, aromantic and asexual, or just a bad fit for you.\\nIf you're shy or very romantic, it may be extremely hard to let a girl go. It's okay to feel deeply about someone, but it's also important to respect her boundaries. Keep in mind that she is an individual with her own life and feelings, and you need to respect that—no means no, and if you don't listen, she may feel annoyed or even frightened.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Socialize with intelligent girls.\", \"描述\": \"Many intelligent girls desire a partner who they can have a meaningful conversation with and will appreciate their intellect for all it is. If you're in school, talk to girls who take Advanced/AP/Honors classes. If you're working in science, engineering, or similar fields, look to your coworkers. Find women who excel. \\nKeep in mind that advanced classes or a career in science don't necessarily indicate intelligence, and any C student or secretary could be extremely intelligent, but can't or won't adhere to conventional standards for \\\"smart\\\" people.\\nA part of sexist thinking is that girls should pretend to be less intelligent than guys, for fear of emasculating them. Show girls that you do not follow that mindset and are perfectly okay with their full intelligence. They will appreciate your respect.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Find subjects of conversation that work for both you and your potential partner.\", \"描述\": \"What does she like? What do you two have in common? If she is also intellectual, this may be easier, because your interests will most likely overlap more. If you can find topics that the two of you enjoy, then you just might be a good match. \\nEvery girl wants to be seen and heard. Try showing genuine interest in the things she talks about — listening actively and completely focusing on her —, as it will make her feel like you care more. This kind of investment shows you are sincere and interested.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Show girls you are available and interested.\", \"描述\": \"Most girls won't approach a guy reading a book in the corner or staring down at his cell phone, so don't be too preoccupied if you want someone to come. 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2,773 | How to Attract a Girl Who Doesn't Like You Back (15+ Tips to Get Her Attention) | 1. Hang out where you'll run into each other.
If you're around more, she might be more attracted to you.
If you find natural opportunities to be near your crush, take them! For instance, if she always meets her friends outside of the gym before school, you might ask your best friend to meet you there, too. If you know she works at a local coffee shop, you might drop by once in a while for a latte.
This is known as the familiarity effect—spending time around someone can often make you feel more positive around them.
Just don't go overboard. It will seem creepy if you're always showing up wherever she goes. A good rule of thumb is to only hang out in places where you'd go even if she wasn't there, so it will seem like you're crossing paths naturally.
2. Ask her for a favor.
Giving her a chance to help you might make her like you.
When you like a girl, it can be tempting to want to do everything for her, like carrying her books or fixing her flat tire. It's totally fine to be there if she asks you for something, but she's actually more likely to be into you if you let her help you with something, instead. Benjamin Franklin famously used this trick to win people over—if it worked for him, it might just work for you!
If you're in class together, ask her if you can borrow a pencil. If you're out at a bar, ask her if she can watch your drink while you make a phone call.
3. Make her laugh.
Having a great sense of humor is always attractive.
Try sending her a meme that made you laugh, or tell her a story about something funny that happened earlier in the day. Don't be afraid to get a little goofy—if you can get her laughing, she might just start to see you as crush material.
Be willing to laugh at yourself, too! For instance, instead of getting upset because you spilled mustard on your shirt, you could say something like, "Well, I always did think this shirt needed a splash of yellow."
4. Point out things you have in common.
She'll like you more if you're similar.
People love to say "opposites attract," but actually, we're more likely to fall for someone we have a lot in common with. When you're hanging out with your crush, let her know when she says something you agree with, and chime in when she mentions a band or a movie you like. Just be authentic about it—if you pretend to like things just because she does, she'll probably be put off when the truth eventually comes out.
For instance, if she mentions that she loves baseball, you might say, "Oh, I grew up watching the Mets with my dad! Who's your favorite team?"
Talk about values you share, too—if she says something about protecting the environment or reducing her carbon footprint, you might say, "I think taking care of our planet is really important."
5. Be her friend without any expectations.
Get to know each other without any pressure to date.
There's no guarantee that this will lead to a relationship—in fact, if she thinks you're just being her friend because you want to date her, it will probably push her away. However, if you really like this girl, try to genuinely enjoy building a friendship with her. She may become more attracted to you as you become closer, but even if that never happens, you can never go wrong with having more friends in life.
It's okay if you can't be best friends with your crush. You can't help how you feel about someone, and if it's painful to get too close without dating, it might be better to keep some distance.
6. Tease her a little.
Be playful, but make sure it isn't mean-spirited.
Teasing a girl can show her that you like her, but that you're confident enough to play around a little. But you have to be careful with this—if you tease her about something that she's sensitive about, you could really hurt her feelings and push her away.
To keep things lighthearted, try teasing her about one of her strengths, but make it sound like an insult. If she's really great at math, for instance, you might say, "Hey Taylor, are you ready to fail this math test today?"
7. Don't let her know that you like her.
Play it cool when she's around.
Try to act totally natural, like you're not interested in her at all. Spend time talking to your friends, reading a book, or whatever you'd do if she wasn't there. This can seem counterintuitive—you might feel like the best thing you can do is to let her know how you feel! However, if you're too eager, it can push her away.
Acting indifferent can make her feel more curious about you, which could make her like you more!
To up your game even more, try to alternate ignoring her and showing interest in her. When you keep her guessing, she'll spend more time thinking about you, because she'll be trying to figure out how you feel!
8. Follow her on social media.
Just don't go overboard with liking her photos.
While it's fine to interact with your crush on social media, don't go through her feed and leave a like on every single post. A couple of reactions or a single comment is plenty. Also, try not to focus only on her selfies—it's better to engage with posts that show who she really is, like a snap of her soccer trophy or a photo of her snoozing pup.
If you leave a comment, try asking a question about what's going on—that will show her you're interested in learning more about her. For instance, if she posts a picture of a home-cooked meal, you might comment, "This looks awesome, did you make it yourself?"
Don't follow every single account she has, since that might seem a little overeager. Instead, follow her on the one or two platforms you use the most.
If you have a pet, show them off on your feed! Some studies show that having a furry friend could make you more attractive to women—and besides, everybody loves seeing cute animals while they're scrolling.
9. Make friends with her besties.
She might like you more if her friends like you, too.
Making an effort with a girl's friends will show her—and them—that you really care about her. And if her friends think the two of you would be a cute pair, they might even help sway her to give things a shot!
If you see her out with her friends, for instance, speak to each of them—not just the girl you like. Remember things about them, and go out of your way to be friendly. Just don't flirt with them, or your crush might get the wrong idea.
10. Carry yourself with confidence.
People who are self-assured seem more attractive.
Practice standing up straight, with your shoulders back and your chest out. This type of posture will project confidence when your crush is around—but try doing it when she isn't around, too, so it becomes second nature.
This is a cool trick because you won't just look more confident—you might actually start to feel that way, too!
11. Put effort into your appearance.
Take care of yourself so you can look your best.
While it's important to find someone who likes you for your personality, it doesn't hurt if you can look good, too. That doesn't mean you have to look like a movie star, though—just styling your hair and wearing clean, neat-fitting clothing can go a long way.
In addition, try to eat a healthy diet, make time for physical activity, and get enough sleep every night so you'll feel and look healthy and strong.
12. Get involved in interesting hobbies.
Spend your time doing things you really find fascinating.
That way, when your crush asks what you did over the weekend, you'll have something cool to talk about. And when your life seems more interesting, she might just end up more interested in being a part of it.
Don't spend time doing something you don't like just to impress a girl. But, if you find out she's really into the outdoorsy type and you've always wanted to take up hiking, this might be a good time to give it a shot.
Pay attention to how your crush reacts when you talk about things you love—if she thinks it's boring or uncool, ask yourself if the two of you would really be that compatible in the long run.
13. Be kind to others.
Do nice things for no reason.
Stand up for a kid who's getting bullied in the lunch room, or buy a sandwich for a guy sitting on the sidewalk. When you show kindness for people without expecting anything in return, it says a lot about your character. That can make you seem more attractive to your crush, but it will also just make you a better person overall—it's a win-win!
14. Spend time with your friends.
Having a crush doesn't mean you have to abandon your buddies.
You might feel like you need to spend all your time hanging around your crush, but the opposite is actually true. Being part of a group of friends can make you seem more attractive.
Try posting photos of you and your friends on social media, or hang out as a group somewhere that you think your crush will be.
If you're friends with other girls, spend time with them, too—a little competition might just make your crush more interested in you.
15. Back off if she just isn't interested.
Respect her space.
It's really important to know when you're making someone uncomfortable. No matter how much you like her, leave your crush alone if she asks you to. Other signs that she isn't enjoying your attention might include:
Frowning or rolling her eyes when you talk
Not making eye contact with you
Giving single-word answers when you ask her questions
Focusing on her phone when you're around
Pulling away when you're touching her
Crossing her arms or turning away from you
Talking about other guys or saying she has a boyfriend
16. Don't get too down if she doesn't like you.
Sometimes, people just aren't compatible.
It doesn't mean there's nothing wrong with you—it just means that wasn't the right girl for you. Take good care of yourself and keep putting yourself out there. Sooner or later, you'll find someone who appreciates you for exactly who you are.
Keep in mind that it's not her fault, either—she can't help that she's not into you, any more than you can help when you don't have feelings for someone. Don't treat her like she did anything wrong. If you can handle the situation respectfully and gracefully, you'll look really mature, and you'll feel better about the whole thing in the long run.
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It's totally fine to be there if she asks you for something, but she's actually more likely to be into you if you let her help you with something, instead. Benjamin Franklin famously used this trick to win people over—if it worked for him, it might just work for you! \\nIf you're in class together, ask her if you can borrow a pencil. If you're out at a bar, ask her if she can watch your drink while you make a phone call.\\n3. Make her laugh.\\nHaving a great sense of humor is always attractive.\\nTry sending her a meme that made you laugh, or tell her a story about something funny that happened earlier in the day. Don't be afraid to get a little goofy—if you can get her laughing, she might just start to see you as crush material.\\nBe willing to laugh at yourself, too! For instance, instead of getting upset because you spilled mustard on your shirt, you could say something like, \\\"Well, I always did think this shirt needed a splash of yellow.\\\"\\n4. Point out things you have in common.\\nShe'll like you more if you're similar.\\nPeople love to say \\\"opposites attract,\\\" but actually, we're more likely to fall for someone we have a lot in common with. When you're hanging out with your crush, let her know when she says something you agree with, and chime in when she mentions a band or a movie you like. Just be authentic about it—if you pretend to like things just because she does, she'll probably be put off when the truth eventually comes out.\\nFor instance, if she mentions that she loves baseball, you might say, \\\"Oh, I grew up watching the Mets with my dad! Who's your favorite team?\\\"\\nTalk about values you share, too—if she says something about protecting the environment or reducing her carbon footprint, you might say, \\\"I think taking care of our planet is really important.\\\"\\n5. Be her friend without any expectations.\\nGet to know each other without any pressure to date.\\nThere's no guarantee that this will lead to a relationship—in fact, if she thinks you're just being her friend because you want to date her, it will probably push her away. However, if you really like this girl, try to genuinely enjoy building a friendship with her. She may become more attracted to you as you become closer, but even if that never happens, you can never go wrong with having more friends in life.\\nIt's okay if you can't be best friends with your crush. You can't help how you feel about someone, and if it's painful to get too close without dating, it might be better to keep some distance.\\n6. Tease her a little.\\nBe playful, but make sure it isn't mean-spirited.\\nTeasing a girl can show her that you like her, but that you're confident enough to play around a little. But you have to be careful with this—if you tease her about something that she's sensitive about, you could really hurt her feelings and push her away.\\nTo keep things lighthearted, try teasing her about one of her strengths, but make it sound like an insult. If she's really great at math, for instance, you might say, \\\"Hey Taylor, are you ready to fail this math test today?\\\"\\n7. Don't let her know that you like her.\\nPlay it cool when she's around.\\nTry to act totally natural, like you're not interested in her at all. Spend time talking to your friends, reading a book, or whatever you'd do if she wasn't there. This can seem counterintuitive—you might feel like the best thing you can do is to let her know how you feel! However, if you're too eager, it can push her away.\\nActing indifferent can make her feel more curious about you, which could make her like you more!\\nTo up your game even more, try to alternate ignoring her and showing interest in her. When you keep her guessing, she'll spend more time thinking about you, because she'll be trying to figure out how you feel!\\n8. Follow her on social media.\\nJust don't go overboard with liking her photos.\\nWhile it's fine to interact with your crush on social media, don't go through her feed and leave a like on every single post. A couple of reactions or a single comment is plenty. Also, try not to focus only on her selfies—it's better to engage with posts that show who she really is, like a snap of her soccer trophy or a photo of her snoozing pup.\\nIf you leave a comment, try asking a question about what's going on—that will show her you're interested in learning more about her. For instance, if she posts a picture of a home-cooked meal, you might comment, \\\"This looks awesome, did you make it yourself?\\\"\\nDon't follow every single account she has, since that might seem a little overeager. Instead, follow her on the one or two platforms you use the most.\\nIf you have a pet, show them off on your feed! Some studies show that having a furry friend could make you more attractive to women—and besides, everybody loves seeing cute animals while they're scrolling.\\n9. Make friends with her besties.\\nShe might like you more if her friends like you, too.\\nMaking an effort with a girl's friends will show her—and them—that you really care about her. And if her friends think the two of you would be a cute pair, they might even help sway her to give things a shot!\\nIf you see her out with her friends, for instance, speak to each of them—not just the girl you like. Remember things about them, and go out of your way to be friendly. Just don't flirt with them, or your crush might get the wrong idea.\\n10. Carry yourself with confidence.\\nPeople who are self-assured seem more attractive.\\nPractice standing up straight, with your shoulders back and your chest out. This type of posture will project confidence when your crush is around—but try doing it when she isn't around, too, so it becomes second nature.\\nThis is a cool trick because you won't just look more confident—you might actually start to feel that way, too!\\n11. Put effort into your appearance.\\nTake care of yourself so you can look your best.\\nWhile it's important to find someone who likes you for your personality, it doesn't hurt if you can look good, too. That doesn't mean you have to look like a movie star, though—just styling your hair and wearing clean, neat-fitting clothing can go a long way.\\nIn addition, try to eat a healthy diet, make time for physical activity, and get enough sleep every night so you'll feel and look healthy and strong.\\n12. Get involved in interesting hobbies.\\nSpend your time doing things you really find fascinating.\\nThat way, when your crush asks what you did over the weekend, you'll have something cool to talk about. And when your life seems more interesting, she might just end up more interested in being a part of it.\\nDon't spend time doing something you don't like just to impress a girl. But, if you find out she's really into the outdoorsy type and you've always wanted to take up hiking, this might be a good time to give it a shot.\\nPay attention to how your crush reacts when you talk about things you love—if she thinks it's boring or uncool, ask yourself if the two of you would really be that compatible in the long run.\\n13. Be kind to others.\\nDo nice things for no reason.\\nStand up for a kid who's getting bullied in the lunch room, or buy a sandwich for a guy sitting on the sidewalk. When you show kindness for people without expecting anything in return, it says a lot about your character. That can make you seem more attractive to your crush, but it will also just make you a better person overall—it's a win-win!\\n14. Spend time with your friends.\\nHaving a crush doesn't mean you have to abandon your buddies.\\nYou might feel like you need to spend all your time hanging around your crush, but the opposite is actually true. Being part of a group of friends can make you seem more attractive.\\nTry posting photos of you and your friends on social media, or hang out as a group somewhere that you think your crush will be.\\nIf you're friends with other girls, spend time with them, too—a little competition might just make your crush more interested in you.\\n15. Back off if she just isn't interested.\\nRespect her space.\\nIt's really important to know when you're making someone uncomfortable. No matter how much you like her, leave your crush alone if she asks you to. 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If you can handle the situation respectfully and gracefully, you'll look really mature, and you'll feel better about the whole thing in the long run.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Unrequited crushes are the worst, right? You've got it bad for a cute girl, but she just doesn't seem to feel the same way. While you can't actually make anyone like you, there are things you can do to catch her attention. With a little luck, she might just notice what an amazing catch you are. But even if she doesn't, you can still work on being the best version of yourself—so when that special someone does come along, you'll be ready for her!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Hang out where you'll run into each other.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"If you're around more, she might be more attracted to you.\", \"描述\": \"If you find natural opportunities to be near your crush, take them! For instance, if she always meets her friends outside of the gym before school, you might ask your best friend to meet you there, too. If you know she works at a local coffee shop, you might drop by once in a while for a latte.\\nThis is known as the familiarity effect—spending time around someone can often make you feel more positive around them.\\nJust don't go overboard. It will seem creepy if you're always showing up wherever she goes. A good rule of thumb is to only hang out in places where you'd go even if she wasn't there, so it will seem like you're crossing paths naturally.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Ask her for a favor.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Giving her a chance to help you might make her like you.\", \"描述\": \"When you like a girl, it can be tempting to want to do everything for her, like carrying her books or fixing her flat tire. It's totally fine to be there if she asks you for something, but she's actually more likely to be into you if you let her help you with something, instead. Benjamin Franklin famously used this trick to win people over—if it worked for him, it might just work for you! \\nIf you're in class together, ask her if you can borrow a pencil. If you're out at a bar, ask her if she can watch your drink while you make a phone call.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make her laugh.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Having a great sense of humor is always attractive.\", \"描述\": \"Try sending her a meme that made you laugh, or tell her a story about something funny that happened earlier in the day. Don't be afraid to get a little goofy—if you can get her laughing, she might just start to see you as crush material.\\nBe willing to laugh at yourself, too! For instance, instead of getting upset because you spilled mustard on your shirt, you could say something like, \\\"Well, I always did think this shirt needed a splash of yellow.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Point out things you have in common.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"She'll like you more if you're similar.\", \"描述\": \"People love to say \\\"opposites attract,\\\" but actually, we're more likely to fall for someone we have a lot in common with. When you're hanging out with your crush, let her know when she says something you agree with, and chime in when she mentions a band or a movie you like. Just be authentic about it—if you pretend to like things just because she does, she'll probably be put off when the truth eventually comes out.\\nFor instance, if she mentions that she loves baseball, you might say, \\\"Oh, I grew up watching the Mets with my dad! Who's your favorite team?\\\"\\nTalk about values you share, too—if she says something about protecting the environment or reducing her carbon footprint, you might say, \\\"I think taking care of our planet is really important.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be her friend without any expectations.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get to know each other without any pressure to date.\", \"描述\": \"There's no guarantee that this will lead to a relationship—in fact, if she thinks you're just being her friend because you want to date her, it will probably push her away. However, if you really like this girl, try to genuinely enjoy building a friendship with her. She may become more attracted to you as you become closer, but even if that never happens, you can never go wrong with having more friends in life.\\nIt's okay if you can't be best friends with your crush. You can't help how you feel about someone, and if it's painful to get too close without dating, it might be better to keep some distance.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Tease her a little.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be playful, but make sure it isn't mean-spirited.\", \"描述\": \"Teasing a girl can show her that you like her, but that you're confident enough to play around a little. But you have to be careful with this—if you tease her about something that she's sensitive about, you could really hurt her feelings and push her away.\\nTo keep things lighthearted, try teasing her about one of her strengths, but make it sound like an insult. If she's really great at math, for instance, you might say, \\\"Hey Taylor, are you ready to fail this math test today?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Don't let her know that you like her.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Play it cool when she's around.\", \"描述\": \"Try to act totally natural, like you're not interested in her at all. Spend time talking to your friends, reading a book, or whatever you'd do if she wasn't there. This can seem counterintuitive—you might feel like the best thing you can do is to let her know how you feel! However, if you're too eager, it can push her away.\\nActing indifferent can make her feel more curious about you, which could make her like you more!\\nTo up your game even more, try to alternate ignoring her and showing interest in her. When you keep her guessing, she'll spend more time thinking about you, because she'll be trying to figure out how you feel!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Follow her on social media.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Just don't go overboard with liking her photos.\", \"描述\": \"While it's fine to interact with your crush on social media, don't go through her feed and leave a like on every single post. A couple of reactions or a single comment is plenty. Also, try not to focus only on her selfies—it's better to engage with posts that show who she really is, like a snap of her soccer trophy or a photo of her snoozing pup.\\nIf you leave a comment, try asking a question about what's going on—that will show her you're interested in learning more about her. For instance, if she posts a picture of a home-cooked meal, you might comment, \\\"This looks awesome, did you make it yourself?\\\"\\nDon't follow every single account she has, since that might seem a little overeager. Instead, follow her on the one or two platforms you use the most.\\nIf you have a pet, show them off on your feed! Some studies show that having a furry friend could make you more attractive to women—and besides, everybody loves seeing cute animals while they're scrolling.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Make friends with her besties.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"She might like you more if her friends like you, too.\", \"描述\": \"Making an effort with a girl's friends will show her—and them—that you really care about her. And if her friends think the two of you would be a cute pair, they might even help sway her to give things a shot!\\nIf you see her out with her friends, for instance, speak to each of them—not just the girl you like. Remember things about them, and go out of your way to be friendly. Just don't flirt with them, or your crush might get the wrong idea.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Carry yourself with confidence.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"People who are self-assured seem more attractive.\", \"描述\": \"Practice standing up straight, with your shoulders back and your chest out. 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2,774 | What Interests a Goth Girl? (12 Ways to Meet One and Talk to Her) | 1. Understanding Gothic Subculture
1-1. Get familiar with common trends in the goth scene.
Try to get a better understanding of the gothic community—for example, spend time in the “gothic social scene” where like-minded individuals get together. As you hang out in these settings, see if you can spot any common beliefs that you share with other gothic individuals. In general, there are three basic elements of goth culture: the social scene, the personality, and the music.
The gothic social scene offers places where goths can form a community and share ideas. These environments may include coffee shops, thrift stores, clubs, and music stores.: When you hang out at La Note, a gothic coffee parlor, you might find that you enjoy “existential philosophy,” the idea of thinking about the meaning of life.
The gothic personality is usually associated with a strong sense of individualism and an appreciation of the darker side of life, the supernatural, mysterious beauty, dark aesthetics, art, emotion, mystery, and drama.: After speaking to someone who’s part of the gothic subculture, you might find yourself really interested in divination and may even want to learn how to read tarot cards.
Gothic music is a very important part of goth culture. The goth social scene usually revolves around its haunting or dramatic music, which tends to have an eerie or surreal tone. Gothic bands usually focus on gothic themes, such as the grotesque or the mysterious.: Following a night out at Death Guild, a local gothic dance club, you remember how much you love the gothic industrial band, Nine Inch Nails.
1-2. Pay attention to what draws you to a goth girl.
If you’re thinking, “Wow, what a cute goth chick!”—reevaluate your approach. While it’s completely fine to be hypnotized by her alluring presence, try not to just attach the label “goth” to her. Instead, take in everything about her and focus on specific details that stand out. You’ll be able to compliment parts of her appearance and personality that she’s worked hard to cultivate. For example, take note of and praise her:
Style. This might include the cut, color, or kind of clothing she is wearing. Look for accessories, especially ones that are prominent. Take special note of unique articles of clothing, like fishnets, capes, studded or spiked clothing, ankhs, chokers, and more.
Makeup. Many goths appreciate the sharp contrast of black and white, so they’ll often wear light colored makeup with dark accents on the lips and eyes. Compliment special flourishes, like elaborate cat eyeliner or intriguing colored eye contacts.
Musical involvement. Strike up a conversation with her about live music or her favorite bands. You could also show your interest by asking her what she likes most about her favorite goth musicians.
1-3. Read popular goth literature.
The gothic fascination with darkness and the supernatural make vampire, fantasy, horror, and sci-fi genres popular among goths. Not only do these novels or comics give you some juicy topics to discuss with a goth girl, but they also give you more intel about what captivates the goth community. Remember not to assume that she reads these books (maybe she enjoys manga or adventure stories) and to just dive into stories that seem interesting to you.
Gothic Novels:Dracula, by Bram Stoker1984, by George OrwellFrankenstein, by Mary ShelleyThe Inferno, by Dante Alighieri
Gothic Comics and Graphic Novels:The Sandman comics, by Neil GaimanThe Crow comics, by James O'BarrJohnny the Homicidal Maniac, by Jhonen Vasquez
1-4. Familiarize yourself with goth media.
Follow influential figures who the goth community has a high opinion of. Some directors, like Tim Burton, and record labels, like Cleopatra, Projekt, and Anubis, are iconic. If you immerse yourself in their work, you’ll find a perfect way to appreciate the goth aesthetic and learn about central gothic themes. While the goth girl you like might not be a die-hard fan of all goth media, you can share your enthusiasm for anything you genuinely enjoyed.
Popular Goth Movies:The HungerThe Rocky Horror Picture ShowDraculaThe CrowEdward ScissorhandsThe Nightmare Before ChristmasBeetlejuiceHellraiserDestiny
Popular Goth Music Groups:BauhausChristian DeathThe Sisters of MercyJoy DivisionDrab Majesty
2. Communicating Your Interest
2-1. Be friendly and respectful when you approach her.
Above all, a goth girl is a person—just like everyone else, she’ll appreciate kindness and courtesy. When you approach her, it’s pretty simple: smile, maintain strong eye contact, and introduce yourself. Try a simple conversation starter, like what you appreciate about her or a common interest you pick up on:
"Hey! I'm Xavier. I just wanted to tell you how much I love all your commentary in our Film Lit class. You have a knack for figuring out what makes all the characters tick."
"I noticed that you've been reading The Sandman. I've already tore through the whole series and binged the entire show on Netflix! I'm actually planning on going to Neil Gaiman's book signing next month."
2-2. Watch her body language to see if she’s interested in talking.
Consent and courtesy are important. To make sure you’re respecting her boundaries, read her body language. Pay attention to her facial expressions, her posture, and her behavior. If she has “open” body language—like raised eyebrows, straight posture, and a big smile—she’s probably enjoying herself.
On the other hand, if she avoids eye contact, slouches, frowns, and crosses her arms, it’s a sign she’s not in the mood to talk.
If she gives you cues that it’s not the best time to chat, give her some space.
Don’t take it personally if she’s not immediately receptive. She might’ve had a bad day or takes time to warm up to people.
Wait until she engages with you to strike up a conversation again.
2-3. Ask about her interests and hobbies.
Even if her wardrobe is full of black outfits and she likes vampire flicks, she might not even identify as “goth.” In fact, she might have plenty of passions that you’d call “non-goth.” You might even have more in common than you thought. As a temperature check, ask about her favorite:
TV shows “Yeah! I love It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, too. I live for cringe comedy.”
Classes “Oh—your thesis is on Jane Austen? Which of her novels are you focusing on?”
Activities “You fence and play tennis? That’s wild. Actually…I’m a little jealous. Can you teach me some tricks?”
Places “I should definitely check out a cat cafe. My landlord won’t let me have pets, so I need to get my feline fix somewhere.”
2-4. Remember to be yourself when you're around her.
If you begin to build rapport with her and get her attention, it can be easy to get swept away. You might want to come across as more "goth" than you really are or absorb all her interests. Resist that temptation and show her the real you—she'll probably really admire your courage and enjoy all the unique facets of your personality.
For example, she might have a fascination with the macabre, while you're a med student who idealizes healing others. The two of you might have fascinating discussions in which she talks about the fleetingness of life and you celebrate all of its wonders.
2-5. Be open to trying new things to bond with her.
While you might still be figuring out the goth subculture, just relax and let her take the lead. Take the time to listen to her and discuss what she says. For example, if she gushes about how romantic isolation is in Victorian novels, respect her views. One of the best ways to show you’re interested in her is finding out what she loves.
If you agree with her take, feel free to share that— “Definitely. Solitude can help you get in better touch with yourself and tap into your inner world.”
When you have a different perspective, say it in a respectful way—"I empathize, and I can see how the heroine would embrace that. If I were in that situation, though, I think my anxiety would creep in.”
It can be tempting to mold yourself into the person she’d like. However, this can put a strain on your dynamic. Avoid presenting yourself as someone you’re not so she can get to know you on a deeper level.
As long as you’re thoughtful and engaged in your conversations, she’ll appreciate the effort you’re putting in.
2-6. Sum up what she said to show you’re a great listener.
After she’s opened up about herself and all her thoughts, try to summarize what she’s said. Check in and ask if you got it right. This simple gesture can make her feel like you’re really focused on her. When you actively listen to her, you’ll boost the emotional honesty between the two of you and deepen your connection. She might even begin to see you in a romantic light.
You’ll also avoid misunderstandings when you regularly touch base and check if you understood her correctly.
Make a non-judgmental comment like, “I wanted to make sure I caught all of that. Did you say that you prefer weather that’s always overcast because the atmosphere inspires you?”
2-7. Be fully engaged when you talk to her.
Any time she shares her worldviews, ask her follow up questions to show you care. Tease out more details—for example, ask why she thinks a certain way and if she always had a specific outlook. If she ever changes the topic, roll with it. When she wants to learn more about you, be genuine and honest. She’ll notice you put your all into your conversations and that you treat her as a special individual.
Turn your phone off and put it away while you hang out. If you give her your full focus, she’s more likely to be impressed.
Everyone wants to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are. When you show a girl that you're genuinely interested in what she loves, it makes her feel like you care.
Be spontaneous and fun-loving, too. For example, say, “Okay! We’re going to talk about the horror movies that terrified us as kids? Perfect first date material. I like it.”
3. Building Chemistry and Attraction
3-1. Practice good hygiene.
Being well groomed is important no matter who you’re pursuing. When you get ready to see her, do the basics—shower, put on deodorant, brush your teeth, floss, and dab on a nice cologne or fragrance. Pull out all the stops, too. Style your hair, pick out one of your best outfits, and make sure your clothes are wrinkle-free. When she sees you, she may just start swooning.
You don't have to try to dress like a “goth” to get her to like you. Sometimes, opposites attract, so she might be looking for someone with a different style who complements her.
3-2. Show her you’re interested in her with your body language.
When you’re close to her or sitting down to talk, turn your body to face her and lean in—this subtle strategy can build an instant spark. If she breaks the touch barrier, such as putting her hand on your arm, then return the favor. For example, playfully touch her shoulder when you tell a joke.
If you want to check if she’s flirting with you, see if she’s playing with her hair or making suggestive remarks like, “You’re winding me up!I like it, though.”
3-3. Maintain eye contact as much as possible.
If she’s so stunning that she makes you nervous, try to gaze deeply at her, anyway. When you hold eye contact with her as you speak, she might get lost in your eyes and start to think of you as more than just a friend. If you do snag her romantic interest, your habit of looking into her eyes can help her feel “seen” and satisfied in your relationship.
You might also make her melt if you smile with your eyes, which makes you look warm and inviting. A goth girl might just see you as her fairy tale hero (or dashing lover).
3-4. Focus on having a good time.
Dating is really all about chemistry, attraction, bonding, and letting loose. To plan the perfect outings, chat with each other about what you both like. While she might love museums, you may love arcades. Meet somewhere in the middle and do what each of you enjoy. You'll get a taste of each other's worlds, and if she likes what she sees, then you might just score your happy ending with your beautiful and intriguing goth maiden.
Warnings
Remember that just because a girl is goth, it doesn't make her "kinky." This is a misconception and a cliché about people who part of the goth subculture. Being goth has nothing to do with what you like in bed.
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You have a knack for figuring out what makes all the characters tick.\\\"\\n\\\"I noticed that you've been reading The Sandman. I've already tore through the whole series and binged the entire show on Netflix! I'm actually planning on going to Neil Gaiman's book signing next month.\\\"\\n2-2. Watch her body language to see if she’s interested in talking.\\nConsent and courtesy are important. To make sure you’re respecting her boundaries, read her body language. Pay attention to her facial expressions, her posture, and her behavior. If she has “open” body language—like raised eyebrows, straight posture, and a big smile—she’s probably enjoying herself.\\nOn the other hand, if she avoids eye contact, slouches, frowns, and crosses her arms, it’s a sign she’s not in the mood to talk.\\nIf she gives you cues that it’s not the best time to chat, give her some space.\\nDon’t take it personally if she’s not immediately receptive. She might’ve had a bad day or takes time to warm up to people.\\nWait until she engages with you to strike up a conversation again.\\n2-3. Ask about her interests and hobbies.\\nEven if her wardrobe is full of black outfits and she likes vampire flicks, she might not even identify as “goth.” In fact, she might have plenty of passions that you’d call “non-goth.” You might even have more in common than you thought. As a temperature check, ask about her favorite:\\n\\nTV shows “Yeah! I love It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, too. I live for cringe comedy.”\\nClasses “Oh—your thesis is on Jane Austen? Which of her novels are you focusing on?”\\nActivities “You fence and play tennis? That’s wild. Actually…I’m a little jealous. Can you teach me some tricks?”\\nPlaces “I should definitely check out a cat cafe. My landlord won’t let me have pets, so I need to get my feline fix somewhere.”\\n2-4. Remember to be yourself when you're around her.\\nIf you begin to build rapport with her and get her attention, it can be easy to get swept away. You might want to come across as more \\\"goth\\\" than you really are or absorb all her interests. Resist that temptation and show her the real you—she'll probably really admire your courage and enjoy all the unique facets of your personality.\\nFor example, she might have a fascination with the macabre, while you're a med student who idealizes healing others. The two of you might have fascinating discussions in which she talks about the fleetingness of life and you celebrate all of its wonders.\\n2-5. Be open to trying new things to bond with her.\\nWhile you might still be figuring out the goth subculture, just relax and let her take the lead. Take the time to listen to her and discuss what she says. For example, if she gushes about how romantic isolation is in Victorian novels, respect her views. One of the best ways to show you’re interested in her is finding out what she loves.\\nIf you agree with her take, feel free to share that— “Definitely. Solitude can help you get in better touch with yourself and tap into your inner world.”\\nWhen you have a different perspective, say it in a respectful way—\\\"I empathize, and I can see how the heroine would embrace that. If I were in that situation, though, I think my anxiety would creep in.”\\nIt can be tempting to mold yourself into the person she’d like. However, this can put a strain on your dynamic. Avoid presenting yourself as someone you’re not so she can get to know you on a deeper level.\\nAs long as you’re thoughtful and engaged in your conversations, she’ll appreciate the effort you’re putting in.\\n2-6. Sum up what she said to show you’re a great listener.\\nAfter she’s opened up about herself and all her thoughts, try to summarize what she’s said. Check in and ask if you got it right. This simple gesture can make her feel like you’re really focused on her. When you actively listen to her, you’ll boost the emotional honesty between the two of you and deepen your connection. She might even begin to see you in a romantic light.\\nYou’ll also avoid misunderstandings when you regularly touch base and check if you understood her correctly.\\nMake a non-judgmental comment like, “I wanted to make sure I caught all of that. Did you say that you prefer weather that’s always overcast because the atmosphere inspires you?”\\n2-7. Be fully engaged when you talk to her.\\nAny time she shares her worldviews, ask her follow up questions to show you care. Tease out more details—for example, ask why she thinks a certain way and if she always had a specific outlook. If she ever changes the topic, roll with it. When she wants to learn more about you, be genuine and honest. She’ll notice you put your all into your conversations and that you treat her as a special individual.\\nTurn your phone off and put it away while you hang out. If you give her your full focus, she’s more likely to be impressed.\\nEveryone wants to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are. When you show a girl that you're genuinely interested in what she loves, it makes her feel like you care.\\nBe spontaneous and fun-loving, too. For example, say, “Okay! We’re going to talk about the horror movies that terrified us as kids? Perfect first date material. I like it.”\\n3. Building Chemistry and Attraction\\n3-1. Practice good hygiene.\\nBeing well groomed is important no matter who you’re pursuing. When you get ready to see her, do the basics—shower, put on deodorant, brush your teeth, floss, and dab on a nice cologne or fragrance. Pull out all the stops, too. Style your hair, pick out one of your best outfits, and make sure your clothes are wrinkle-free. When she sees you, she may just start swooning.\\nYou don't have to try to dress like a “goth” to get her to like you. Sometimes, opposites attract, so she might be looking for someone with a different style who complements her.\\n3-2. Show her you’re interested in her with your body language.\\nWhen you’re close to her or sitting down to talk, turn your body to face her and lean in—this subtle strategy can build an instant spark. If she breaks the touch barrier, such as putting her hand on your arm, then return the favor. For example, playfully touch her shoulder when you tell a joke.\\nIf you want to check if she’s flirting with you, see if she’s playing with her hair or making suggestive remarks like, “You’re winding me up!I like it, though.”\\n3-3. Maintain eye contact as much as possible.\\nIf she’s so stunning that she makes you nervous, try to gaze deeply at her, anyway. When you hold eye contact with her as you speak, she might get lost in your eyes and start to think of you as more than just a friend. If you do snag her romantic interest, your habit of looking into her eyes can help her feel “seen” and satisfied in your relationship.\\nYou might also make her melt if you smile with your eyes, which makes you look warm and inviting. A goth girl might just see you as her fairy tale hero (or dashing lover).\\n3-4. Focus on having a good time.\\nDating is really all about chemistry, attraction, bonding, and letting loose. To plan the perfect outings, chat with each other about what you both like. While she might love museums, you may love arcades. Meet somewhere in the middle and do what each of you enjoy. You'll get a taste of each other's worlds, and if she likes what she sees, then you might just score your happy ending with your beautiful and intriguing goth maiden.\\nWarnings\\nRemember that just because a girl is goth, it doesn't make her \\\"kinky.\\\" This is a misconception and a cliché about people who part of the goth subculture. Being goth has nothing to do with what you like in bed.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Do you have your sights set on a certain goth girl? Maybe she slays you with the way she rocks platform boots, or she might make you blush with her cool elegance. Whether you’re part of the goth subculture or not, you’ve got a chance. As long as you approach her with respect and use the right openers, you can get her to notice you. We’ll help boost your luck in the game of attraction by demystifying gothic subculture and the ways to signal your interest to a goth girl. Follow these steps and you may walk away with a mysterious beauty on your arm.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understanding Gothic Subculture\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get familiar with common trends in the goth scene.\", \"描述\": \"Try to get a better understanding of the gothic community—for example, spend time in the “gothic social scene” where like-minded individuals get together. As you hang out in these settings, see if you can spot any common beliefs that you share with other gothic individuals. In general, there are three basic elements of goth culture: the social scene, the personality, and the music.\\n\\nThe gothic social scene offers places where goths can form a community and share ideas. These environments may include coffee shops, thrift stores, clubs, and music stores.: When you hang out at La Note, a gothic coffee parlor, you might find that you enjoy “existential philosophy,” the idea of thinking about the meaning of life.\\nThe gothic personality is usually associated with a strong sense of individualism and an appreciation of the darker side of life, the supernatural, mysterious beauty, dark aesthetics, art, emotion, mystery, and drama.: After speaking to someone who’s part of the gothic subculture, you might find yourself really interested in divination and may even want to learn how to read tarot cards.\\nGothic music is a very important part of goth culture. The goth social scene usually revolves around its haunting or dramatic music, which tends to have an eerie or surreal tone. Gothic bands usually focus on gothic themes, such as the grotesque or the mysterious.: Following a night out at Death Guild, a local gothic dance club, you remember how much you love the gothic industrial band, Nine Inch Nails.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pay attention to what draws you to a goth girl.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re thinking, “Wow, what a cute goth chick!”—reevaluate your approach. While it’s completely fine to be hypnotized by her alluring presence, try not to just attach the label “goth” to her. Instead, take in everything about her and focus on specific details that stand out. You’ll be able to compliment parts of her appearance and personality that she’s worked hard to cultivate. For example, take note of and praise her:\\n\\nStyle. This might include the cut, color, or kind of clothing she is wearing. Look for accessories, especially ones that are prominent. Take special note of unique articles of clothing, like fishnets, capes, studded or spiked clothing, ankhs, chokers, and more.\\nMakeup. Many goths appreciate the sharp contrast of black and white, so they’ll often wear light colored makeup with dark accents on the lips and eyes. Compliment special flourishes, like elaborate cat eyeliner or intriguing colored eye contacts.\\n\\nMusical involvement. Strike up a conversation with her about live music or her favorite bands. You could also show your interest by asking her what she likes most about her favorite goth musicians.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Read popular goth literature.\", \"描述\": \"The gothic fascination with darkness and the supernatural make vampire, fantasy, horror, and sci-fi genres popular among goths. Not only do these novels or comics give you some juicy topics to discuss with a goth girl, but they also give you more intel about what captivates the goth community. Remember not to assume that she reads these books (maybe she enjoys manga or adventure stories) and to just dive into stories that seem interesting to you.\\n\\nGothic Novels:Dracula, by Bram Stoker1984, by George OrwellFrankenstein, by Mary ShelleyThe Inferno, by Dante Alighieri\\nGothic Comics and Graphic Novels:The Sandman comics, by Neil GaimanThe Crow comics, by James O'BarrJohnny the Homicidal Maniac, by Jhonen Vasquez\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Familiarize yourself with goth media.\", \"描述\": \"Follow influential figures who the goth community has a high opinion of. Some directors, like Tim Burton, and record labels, like Cleopatra, Projekt, and Anubis, are iconic. If you immerse yourself in their work, you’ll find a perfect way to appreciate the goth aesthetic and learn about central gothic themes. While the goth girl you like might not be a die-hard fan of all goth media, you can share your enthusiasm for anything you genuinely enjoyed.\\n\\nPopular Goth Movies:The HungerThe Rocky Horror Picture ShowDraculaThe CrowEdward ScissorhandsThe Nightmare Before ChristmasBeetlejuiceHellraiserDestiny\\n\\nPopular Goth Music Groups:BauhausChristian DeathThe Sisters of MercyJoy DivisionDrab Majesty\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Communicating Your Interest\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be friendly and respectful when you approach her.\", \"描述\": \"Above all, a goth girl is a person—just like everyone else, she’ll appreciate kindness and courtesy. When you approach her, it’s pretty simple: smile, maintain strong eye contact, and introduce yourself. Try a simple conversation starter, like what you appreciate about her or a common interest you pick up on:\\n\\\"Hey! I'm Xavier. I just wanted to tell you how much I love all your commentary in our Film Lit class. You have a knack for figuring out what makes all the characters tick.\\\"\\n\\\"I noticed that you've been reading The Sandman. I've already tore through the whole series and binged the entire show on Netflix! I'm actually planning on going to Neil Gaiman's book signing next month.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Watch her body language to see if she’s interested in talking.\", \"描述\": \"Consent and courtesy are important. To make sure you’re respecting her boundaries, read her body language. Pay attention to her facial expressions, her posture, and her behavior. If she has “open” body language—like raised eyebrows, straight posture, and a big smile—she’s probably enjoying herself.\\nOn the other hand, if she avoids eye contact, slouches, frowns, and crosses her arms, it’s a sign she’s not in the mood to talk.\\nIf she gives you cues that it’s not the best time to chat, give her some space.\\nDon’t take it personally if she’s not immediately receptive. She might’ve had a bad day or takes time to warm up to people.\\nWait until she engages with you to strike up a conversation again.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Ask about her interests and hobbies.\", \"描述\": \"Even if her wardrobe is full of black outfits and she likes vampire flicks, she might not even identify as “goth.” In fact, she might have plenty of passions that you’d call “non-goth.” You might even have more in common than you thought. As a temperature check, ask about her favorite:\\n\\nTV shows “Yeah! I love It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia, too. I live for cringe comedy.”\\nClasses “Oh—your thesis is on Jane Austen? Which of her novels are you focusing on?”\\nActivities “You fence and play tennis? That’s wild. Actually…I’m a little jealous. Can you teach me some tricks?”\\nPlaces “I should definitely check out a cat cafe. My landlord won’t let me have pets, so I need to get my feline fix somewhere.”\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Remember to be yourself when you're around her.\", \"描述\": \"If you begin to build rapport with her and get her attention, it can be easy to get swept away. You might want to come across as more \\\"goth\\\" than you really are or absorb all her interests. Resist that temptation and show her the real you—she'll probably really admire your courage and enjoy all the unique facets of your personality.\\nFor example, she might have a fascination with the macabre, while you're a med student who idealizes healing others. The two of you might have fascinating discussions in which she talks about the fleetingness of life and you celebrate all of its wonders.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be open to trying new things to bond with her.\", \"描述\": \"While you might still be figuring out the goth subculture, just relax and let her take the lead. Take the time to listen to her and discuss what she says. For example, if she gushes about how romantic isolation is in Victorian novels, respect her views. One of the best ways to show you’re interested in her is finding out what she loves.\\nIf you agree with her take, feel free to share that— “Definitely. Solitude can help you get in better touch with yourself and tap into your inner world.”\\nWhen you have a different perspective, say it in a respectful way—\\\"I empathize, and I can see how the heroine would embrace that. If I were in that situation, though, I think my anxiety would creep in.”\\nIt can be tempting to mold yourself into the person she’d like. However, this can put a strain on your dynamic. Avoid presenting yourself as someone you’re not so she can get to know you on a deeper level.\\nAs long as you’re thoughtful and engaged in your conversations, she’ll appreciate the effort you’re putting in.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Sum up what she said to show you’re a great listener.\", \"描述\": \"After she’s opened up about herself and all her thoughts, try to summarize what she’s said. Check in and ask if you got it right. This simple gesture can make her feel like you’re really focused on her. When you actively listen to her, you’ll boost the emotional honesty between the two of you and deepen your connection. She might even begin to see you in a romantic light.\\nYou’ll also avoid misunderstandings when you regularly touch base and check if you understood her correctly.\\nMake a non-judgmental comment like, “I wanted to make sure I caught all of that. 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2,775 | How to Attract a Leo Man As a Cancer Woman | 1. Play up your femininity.
Leo is a masculine sign naturally attracted to femininity.
Here, being opposites works out great for you. As daughters of the moon, Cancers ooze feminine energy—all you have to do is showcase it with soft, flowing fabrics and delicate accessories.
For example, if you're going out to a party, you might wear a flirty sundress or a pair of leggings with a gauzy patterned top.
If you're a typical Cancer, this is your comfort zone. If you can, try to match his personal style aesthetic as well—he'll like it if the two of you look like you go together. For example, if he typically wears a black leather jacket and jeans, you might wear a motorcycle jacket over a sundress.
2. Compliment him frequently.
Lions love to be reminded of how wonderful they are.
Everybody likes compliments, but Leos need compliments. Praise him often by pointing out great things that other people might not notice about him. This is a great opportunity to put that Cancerian intuition to work—you have a sixth sense about what he's proud of. Compliment him for those things and he'll be hooked.
Here's another neat thing about the Leo-Cancer combo: You know how the moon reflects the light of the sun? Cancer is ruled by the moon and Leo by the sun, so making him glow and then basking in his radiance just comes naturally.
Make sure your compliments are genuine, though—he can smell fake flattery a mile away and he'll wonder what you're trying to butter him up for. And who could blame him?
3. Shower him with attention.
The typical Leo would be thrilled to know he is the center of your universe.
When you're with him, let everyone and everything else fade into the background. Make eye contact and listen—really listen—when he talks. Ask follow-up questions to show you've been hanging on his every word and he'll want to keep you by his side.
For example, suppose he's telling you a story about his sister. Start with a compliment: "I think it's awesome how devoted you are to your sister." Then ask a question: "When is she coming to visit next? I'd love to meet her."
Asking about something he told you later tells him you're really interested. If he mentions something about his brother's new project on Monday, for example, you might ask how it's going when you see him on Wednesday.
4. Express a happy and optimistic outlook.
The typical Leo loves living life and is enthusiastic about the future.
This doesn't mean he never faces dark periods, but he doesn't like to dwell on them when he does. No matter what happens, tell him that you're looking forward to the next opportunity. If you act like you believe there's an adventure waiting around every corner, he'll feel like he's found a soul mate.
This doesn't mean you have to act fake or pretend like bad things don't happen. If you're going through a tough time, acknowledge it, but focus on how it will make you a better and stronger person in the future.
5. Tease him playfully.
The lovable Leo enjoys teasing and being teased.
If you've ever seen a video of lion cubs playing together, you've got the right idea. Leos tend to be pretty physical and respond well to playful, childlike flirting. Channel your inner kitten and swat him on the arm when he makes a teasing remark or spontaneously challenge him to race you. "Last one there's a rotten egg!"
If you're usually a little more reserved, you might feel a little silly acting like this—but that's okay, that's kind of the point. Show him that you know how to let loose and have some fun and he'll definitely want to see you more often.
6. Show your independence and confidence.
He likes people who are as confident and self-assured as he is.
The typical Leo believes he's a valuable person, and he wants the woman on his arm to be valuable as well. Don't be shy about the fact that you have a life of your own with your own interests that fulfill you. Mention a program you started or the website you're building for your passion project and he'll definitely be interested.
Leos tend to be pretty busy—they're super-social guys—so it helps if you have a lot of different interests taking up your time. When you talk about the things you're passionate about, he'll light up.
You can also use this opportunity to show off your intelligence a little—don't worry, Leos like smart ladies. Tell him about your latest research project or an idea you have for a new story or screenplay.
7. Let him chase you.
Leos tend to lead and prefer to be the ones in pursuit.
He's likely to get bored quickly if you make the first move. This shouldn't be a problem for you, Cancer, since you tend to be a little more reserved and cautious with love anyway. Flirt a little to let him know that you're interested, then retreat into your shell. He'll adore drawing you out.
Being a little mysterious is a good way to keep him interested. He'll stay hot on your trail because he's curious and wants to know everything about you.
He loves the thrill of the chase as long as he knows he's going to win in the end. Don't ignore him or pull back so much that he thinks you're no longer interested—he might move on to someone else.
8. Set your personal boundaries early on.
Leos typically think it's hot when a woman stands up for herself.
He's assertive and strong and wants his partner to be the same. If you're the typical conflict-averse Cancer, it might be hard for you to stand your ground—you'd rather go with the flow than make waves. But rest assured your Leo guy will have nothing but respect and admiration for you if you do.
For example, if he texts you late at night and asks you to come over to his place, you might text back, "I don't think so. We don't know each other well enough for that."
The two of you do have some pretty big differences. Boundaries are important to keep these from becoming a serious issue as your relationship progresses.
9. Go for big, flashy displays of affection.
Your Leo guy will swoon if you're just a bit over-the-top.
If you enjoy working behind the scenes to make magic happen, you're in luck with a Leo as your leading man. Put in all the work and he'll adore his moment in the spotlight.
For example, why not recreate your favorite rom-com moment with him in the leading role? He'll adore that you've put so much effort into declaring your affection for him.
Make a big deal out of occasions too! Take him to a baseball game on his birthday and arrange for a happy birthday message to be displayed on the Jumbotron. Or that thing where you tell the restaurant it's his birthday and all the servers come over and sing for him? He'll love that.
Leos aren't shy about PDA, so don't be afraid to go for it!
10. Support him in everything he does.
A lion loves having a personal cheerleader who's always rooting for him.
The typical Cancer woman is nurturing and supportive, so it's natural for you to take on this rule. This is one of the things that makes you and Leo a great match.
Let him know you're in his corner by saying things like, "I know you've got this presentation in the bag!" or "You've worked so hard on that project, I know you'll nail it!"
When he hits a snag—happens to the best of us—encourage him by saying things like, "That's okay, you'll get it next time," or "I know that was tough, but the experience will be worth it."
11. Demonstrate that you're loyal and trustworthy.
He'll open up if he knows he's safe with you.
Deep down, your brave and boisterous lion is actually pretty sensitive. Surely you can understand this, Cancer, since you're one of the most sensitive signs of the zodiac. Keep things he tells you in confidence and don't gossip about other people around him.
He can be a little afraid of emotions because they make him feel vulnerable. Channel your Cancerian motherly instincts to reassure him. If he knows that you're always on his side, he'll let you into his heart.
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This is a great opportunity to put that Cancerian intuition to work—you have a sixth sense about what he's proud of. Compliment him for those things and he'll be hooked. \\nHere's another neat thing about the Leo-Cancer combo: You know how the moon reflects the light of the sun? Cancer is ruled by the moon and Leo by the sun, so making him glow and then basking in his radiance just comes naturally.\\nMake sure your compliments are genuine, though—he can smell fake flattery a mile away and he'll wonder what you're trying to butter him up for. And who could blame him?\\n3. Shower him with attention.\\nThe typical Leo would be thrilled to know he is the center of your universe.\\nWhen you're with him, let everyone and everything else fade into the background. Make eye contact and listen—really listen—when he talks. Ask follow-up questions to show you've been hanging on his every word and he'll want to keep you by his side. \\nFor example, suppose he's telling you a story about his sister. Start with a compliment: \\\"I think it's awesome how devoted you are to your sister.\\\" Then ask a question: \\\"When is she coming to visit next? I'd love to meet her.\\\"\\nAsking about something he told you later tells him you're really interested. If he mentions something about his brother's new project on Monday, for example, you might ask how it's going when you see him on Wednesday.\\n4. Express a happy and optimistic outlook.\\nThe typical Leo loves living life and is enthusiastic about the future.\\nThis doesn't mean he never faces dark periods, but he doesn't like to dwell on them when he does. No matter what happens, tell him that you're looking forward to the next opportunity. If you act like you believe there's an adventure waiting around every corner, he'll feel like he's found a soul mate. \\nThis doesn't mean you have to act fake or pretend like bad things don't happen. If you're going through a tough time, acknowledge it, but focus on how it will make you a better and stronger person in the future.\\n5. Tease him playfully.\\nThe lovable Leo enjoys teasing and being teased.\\nIf you've ever seen a video of lion cubs playing together, you've got the right idea. Leos tend to be pretty physical and respond well to playful, childlike flirting. Channel your inner kitten and swat him on the arm when he makes a teasing remark or spontaneously challenge him to race you. \\\"Last one there's a rotten egg!\\\" \\nIf you're usually a little more reserved, you might feel a little silly acting like this—but that's okay, that's kind of the point. Show him that you know how to let loose and have some fun and he'll definitely want to see you more often.\\n6. Show your independence and confidence.\\nHe likes people who are as confident and self-assured as he is.\\nThe typical Leo believes he's a valuable person, and he wants the woman on his arm to be valuable as well. Don't be shy about the fact that you have a life of your own with your own interests that fulfill you. Mention a program you started or the website you're building for your passion project and he'll definitely be interested. \\nLeos tend to be pretty busy—they're super-social guys—so it helps if you have a lot of different interests taking up your time. When you talk about the things you're passionate about, he'll light up.\\nYou can also use this opportunity to show off your intelligence a little—don't worry, Leos like smart ladies. Tell him about your latest research project or an idea you have for a new story or screenplay.\\n7. Let him chase you.\\nLeos tend to lead and prefer to be the ones in pursuit.\\nHe's likely to get bored quickly if you make the first move. This shouldn't be a problem for you, Cancer, since you tend to be a little more reserved and cautious with love anyway. Flirt a little to let him know that you're interested, then retreat into your shell. He'll adore drawing you out. \\nBeing a little mysterious is a good way to keep him interested. He'll stay hot on your trail because he's curious and wants to know everything about you.\\nHe loves the thrill of the chase as long as he knows he's going to win in the end. Don't ignore him or pull back so much that he thinks you're no longer interested—he might move on to someone else.\\n8. Set your personal boundaries early on.\\nLeos typically think it's hot when a woman stands up for herself.\\nHe's assertive and strong and wants his partner to be the same. If you're the typical conflict-averse Cancer, it might be hard for you to stand your ground—you'd rather go with the flow than make waves. But rest assured your Leo guy will have nothing but respect and admiration for you if you do. \\nFor example, if he texts you late at night and asks you to come over to his place, you might text back, \\\"I don't think so. We don't know each other well enough for that.\\\"\\nThe two of you do have some pretty big differences. Boundaries are important to keep these from becoming a serious issue as your relationship progresses.\\n9. Go for big, flashy displays of affection.\\nYour Leo guy will swoon if you're just a bit over-the-top.\\nIf you enjoy working behind the scenes to make magic happen, you're in luck with a Leo as your leading man. Put in all the work and he'll adore his moment in the spotlight.\\nFor example, why not recreate your favorite rom-com moment with him in the leading role? He'll adore that you've put so much effort into declaring your affection for him.\\nMake a big deal out of occasions too! Take him to a baseball game on his birthday and arrange for a happy birthday message to be displayed on the Jumbotron. Or that thing where you tell the restaurant it's his birthday and all the servers come over and sing for him? He'll love that.\\nLeos aren't shy about PDA, so don't be afraid to go for it!\\n10. Support him in everything he does.\\nA lion loves having a personal cheerleader who's always rooting for him.\\nThe typical Cancer woman is nurturing and supportive, so it's natural for you to take on this rule. This is one of the things that makes you and Leo a great match. \\nLet him know you're in his corner by saying things like, \\\"I know you've got this presentation in the bag!\\\" or \\\"You've worked so hard on that project, I know you'll nail it!\\\"\\nWhen he hits a snag—happens to the best of us—encourage him by saying things like, \\\"That's okay, you'll get it next time,\\\" or \\\"I know that was tough, but the experience will be worth it.\\\"\\n11. Demonstrate that you're loyal and trustworthy.\\nHe'll open up if he knows he's safe with you.\\nDeep down, your brave and boisterous lion is actually pretty sensitive. Surely you can understand this, Cancer, since you're one of the most sensitive signs of the zodiac. Keep things he tells you in confidence and don't gossip about other people around him. \\nHe can be a little afraid of emotions because they make him feel vulnerable. Channel your Cancerian motherly instincts to reassure him. If he knows that you're always on his side, he'll let you into his heart.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"It's not surprising you have your eye on that luscious Leo man—after all, it seems like everyone does. And he loves to stand in the spotlight, so what's a sweet, sensitive Cancer woman to do? Lucky for you, you've come to the right place. Here, we'll share everything you need to know to snag that Leo of your dreams.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Play up your femininity.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leo is a masculine sign naturally attracted to femininity.\", \"描述\": \"Here, being opposites works out great for you. As daughters of the moon, Cancers ooze feminine energy—all you have to do is showcase it with soft, flowing fabrics and delicate accessories.\\nFor example, if you're going out to a party, you might wear a flirty sundress or a pair of leggings with a gauzy patterned top.\\nIf you're a typical Cancer, this is your comfort zone. If you can, try to match his personal style aesthetic as well—he'll like it if the two of you look like you go together. For example, if he typically wears a black leather jacket and jeans, you might wear a motorcycle jacket over a sundress.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Compliment him frequently.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Lions love to be reminded of how wonderful they are.\", \"描述\": \"Everybody likes compliments, but Leos need compliments. Praise him often by pointing out great things that other people might not notice about him. This is a great opportunity to put that Cancerian intuition to work—you have a sixth sense about what he's proud of. Compliment him for those things and he'll be hooked. \\nHere's another neat thing about the Leo-Cancer combo: You know how the moon reflects the light of the sun? Cancer is ruled by the moon and Leo by the sun, so making him glow and then basking in his radiance just comes naturally.\\nMake sure your compliments are genuine, though—he can smell fake flattery a mile away and he'll wonder what you're trying to butter him up for. And who could blame him?\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Shower him with attention.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The typical Leo would be thrilled to know he is the center of your universe.\", \"描述\": \"When you're with him, let everyone and everything else fade into the background. Make eye contact and listen—really listen—when he talks. Ask follow-up questions to show you've been hanging on his every word and he'll want to keep you by his side. \\nFor example, suppose he's telling you a story about his sister. Start with a compliment: \\\"I think it's awesome how devoted you are to your sister.\\\" Then ask a question: \\\"When is she coming to visit next? I'd love to meet her.\\\"\\nAsking about something he told you later tells him you're really interested. If he mentions something about his brother's new project on Monday, for example, you might ask how it's going when you see him on Wednesday.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Express a happy and optimistic outlook.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The typical Leo loves living life and is enthusiastic about the future.\", \"描述\": \"This doesn't mean he never faces dark periods, but he doesn't like to dwell on them when he does. No matter what happens, tell him that you're looking forward to the next opportunity. If you act like you believe there's an adventure waiting around every corner, he'll feel like he's found a soul mate. \\nThis doesn't mean you have to act fake or pretend like bad things don't happen. If you're going through a tough time, acknowledge it, but focus on how it will make you a better and stronger person in the future.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Tease him playfully.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The lovable Leo enjoys teasing and being teased.\", \"描述\": \"If you've ever seen a video of lion cubs playing together, you've got the right idea. Leos tend to be pretty physical and respond well to playful, childlike flirting. Channel your inner kitten and swat him on the arm when he makes a teasing remark or spontaneously challenge him to race you. \\\"Last one there's a rotten egg!\\\" \\nIf you're usually a little more reserved, you might feel a little silly acting like this—but that's okay, that's kind of the point. Show him that you know how to let loose and have some fun and he'll definitely want to see you more often.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Show your independence and confidence.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"He likes people who are as confident and self-assured as he is.\", \"描述\": \"The typical Leo believes he's a valuable person, and he wants the woman on his arm to be valuable as well. Don't be shy about the fact that you have a life of your own with your own interests that fulfill you. Mention a program you started or the website you're building for your passion project and he'll definitely be interested. \\nLeos tend to be pretty busy—they're super-social guys—so it helps if you have a lot of different interests taking up your time. When you talk about the things you're passionate about, he'll light up.\\nYou can also use this opportunity to show off your intelligence a little—don't worry, Leos like smart ladies. Tell him about your latest research project or an idea you have for a new story or screenplay.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Let him chase you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos tend to lead and prefer to be the ones in pursuit.\", \"描述\": \"He's likely to get bored quickly if you make the first move. This shouldn't be a problem for you, Cancer, since you tend to be a little more reserved and cautious with love anyway. Flirt a little to let him know that you're interested, then retreat into your shell. He'll adore drawing you out. \\nBeing a little mysterious is a good way to keep him interested. He'll stay hot on your trail because he's curious and wants to know everything about you.\\nHe loves the thrill of the chase as long as he knows he's going to win in the end. 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2,776 | How to Attract a Leo Man As a Capricorn Woman | 1. Stand out from the crowd.
A Leo man is attracted to a woman a cut above the rest.
Leos are ruled by the Sun and love to be the center of attention. It's likely he's always surrounded by a sea of admirers, but he's attracted to someone who seems "too good" for that. As a Capricorn woman, you're a strong leader in your own right. Present yourself as an equal, not as someone who believes you're inferior to him.
If you find yourself in the same room as him, hold your own and let others come to you rather than flitting about. He'll see that regal confidence that he's so attracted to.
If you give off the impression that you're too good to simply bow to him, he'll definitely be interested in learning more about you.
This doesn't mean he doesn't want admiration from you, because of course he does. But he wants to truly feel that he's earned that admiration.
2. Be confident.
Your Leo loves a woman who understands her own self-worth.
A Lion knows his value and looks for a partner who believes she's valuable as well. He's not a fan of emotionally dependent women who need constant reassurance of his feelings. With you, that's the last thing he needs to worry about! He'll grow all the more attracted to you when he realizes your self-love rivals his own.
Lions tend to be more generous with love and compliments when they sense that you don't need them to prop up your self-esteem.
Expect him to shower you with praise when he realizes you don't need his approval to be happy.
3. Flaunt your independent nature.
A Lion needs his lady to proudly stand on her own two feet.
With you, that's the last thing he needs to worry about! As a Capricorn, your sign is ruled by Saturn—the planet of hard work, responsibility, and determination. You don't just have career goals, you have 5-, 10-, 15- and 20-year plans.
All you have to do is talk about your professional aspirations and he'll instantly understand how independent you are. In fact, he might even wonder how you think you have time for him!
He loves to bask in the attention of others and an independent woman gives him the space to do that.
4. Engage in stimulating conversations.
Leos are outgoing and love talking up a storm.
As a Capricorn woman, you're no slouch at conversations. Expect the two of you to dig in with some intense chats that really probe the depths of who you are as people. The more you talk, the more things you'll discover you have in common. He's an intelligent, opinionated person who isn't afraid to tell it like it is—just like you.
To get his attention, start off talking about the finer things in life. He'll be up to date on all the latest tech gadgets and loves to talk about sports cars, fabulous mansions, and celebrity lifestyles.
If the two of you disagree, don't worry. As a Fire sign, a Leo guy is passionate and enjoys a fierce debate. He won't take it personally if you have a different point of view.
5. Dress to impress.
A Leo man cares about appearances—both his and his companion's.
He's likely pretty stylish and pays attention to trends. After all, he wants people to admire him, and his appearance is one way for them to do that. In this area, he's found his match with you. As a Capricorn woman, you care just as much about your appearance as he does. You took to heart the advice to dress for the job you want and you always dress for success.
Wear clothes that flatter your figure and represent the cutting edge of taste, class, and style to really earn his respect.
It's always a good idea to throw in a gold accessory—gold is the color of his sign, and he's attracted to all that glitters.
6. Compliment him frequently.
A Lion needs to know that you admire him.
As a reserved Capricorn, you definitely don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Make an effort to tell your favorite Lion all the things you love about him. Unlike any other sign, he needs adoration—he'll be more attracted to you if you constantly feed him compliments.
Start a running commentary about what you like about him. Tell him you love the way he looks at you, the way his eyes sparkle when he's happy, even the way he lights up when you praise him.
Leo men are generous and friendly. You can tell he's into you if he constantly compliments you as well.
If you really want to hook him, show him off to your friends. He'll glow as you brag about what a wonderful guy he is.
7. Give him your undivided attention.
Your Leo guy wants to be the center of your universe.
If you focus on him exclusively his attraction toward you will grow exponentially. He'll know that you can give him what he needs in a relationship. Since Capricorn women tend to be a bit quiet—you're not the most social woman—this shouldn't be too difficult for you. Just make an effort to eliminate distractions.
When you're out with him, make it a habit to turn your phone on silent and keep it in your purse or pocket.
If you're in a social situation, you might sit so that you're facing him with your back to the crowd. That way he knows that he's the sole focus of your attention.
8. Show him physical affection.
Lions are the kings of PDA.
If he likes you, he'll touch you a lot—so be ready to reciprocate. This might be a little tough for you, Capricorn, since you're not the most flirtatious woman, but he'll be more attracted to you if you're physically open.
For example, you might rest your hand on his arm or leg as the two of you are chatting. Or put your arm around him as you lean in to say something in a crowd.
You might also make a habit of squeezing his arm or his side occasionally.
Avoid crossing your arms across your body or crossing your legs away from him, which closes you off.
9. Go shopping together.
Leos are a bit materialistic and enjoy a good shopping spree.
Both Leo and Capricorn have a similar taste for high-quality, luxurious things. It's likely you'll discover you both have some of the same favorite shops. And don't be surprised if you both reach for the same item at once!
Leos are particularly drawn to antique shops and even thrift stores where the two of you can search for unique treasures hidden among the more ordinary fare.
High-end boutiques are a special treat for both of you, but don't think you need a platinum credit card to keep up with your favorite Lion—it's the quality and appearance of something that matters to him, not the price.
10. Take time to build a connection.
Leo guys are slow to commit and will appreciate the low-key pace.
Because of your polished appearance and successful demeanor, he'll know you're definitely someone he needs in his life. But it can take him some time to find a romantic connection. As a practical Capricorn, you're not likely to fall in love at first sight either—it takes you some time to figure out if someone is worthy of your love.
Don't be surprised if you end up making the first move. It's not that he's shy, but he does take love very seriously and isn't quick to make a move.
On the other hand, it can take a lot longer to penetrate the depths of your soul. You don't express your emotions openly or freely, which might frustrate a Leo.
11. Be loyal and trustworthy.
Loyalty is an absolute requirement for a Leo guy.
You and your favorite Lion agree on this point—Capricorn women are dependable and loyal to those they love. Because you're so supportive and respectful of him, it's unlikely that he'll ever question your devotion to him.
Support and encourage him, especially if he mentions an upcoming challenge. You might say, "That project sounds tough, but you're the best manager I've seen—I know you'll nail it!"
If he's had a recent setback, let him know you're still in his corner by saying, "I know you really wanted that promotion. You probably didn't get it because you're irreplaceable in your current role—you're really the best at what you do!"
Leos are known to be a bit possessive. This can cause issues since you're not one to be possessed. If he knows you're loyal, though, he'll be less likely to act this way.
12. Share leadership to avoid conflict.
Lions are natural leaders who like to take the reins.
Since Capricorn women are also fond of taking the lead, you'll need to learn to compromise here if you want this relationship to go the distance. Capricorn is a cardinal sign, so you're more likely to kick things off. Once something's in motion, hand it over to him—Leo is a fixed sign, which makes him great at taking over something you've started.
As an Earth sign, you're best at planning and organizing. You can take the lead planning a larger project or trip, then hand off the reins to him once things get off the ground.
In some areas, it might make more sense for one of you to take control simply because you know more about it. For example, if he's an expert foodie, put him in charge of picking restaurants.
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Be confident.\\nYour Leo loves a woman who understands her own self-worth.\\nA Lion knows his value and looks for a partner who believes she's valuable as well. He's not a fan of emotionally dependent women who need constant reassurance of his feelings. With you, that's the last thing he needs to worry about! He'll grow all the more attracted to you when he realizes your self-love rivals his own.\\nLions tend to be more generous with love and compliments when they sense that you don't need them to prop up your self-esteem.\\nExpect him to shower you with praise when he realizes you don't need his approval to be happy.\\n3. Flaunt your independent nature.\\nA Lion needs his lady to proudly stand on her own two feet.\\nWith you, that's the last thing he needs to worry about! As a Capricorn, your sign is ruled by Saturn—the planet of hard work, responsibility, and determination. You don't just have career goals, you have 5-, 10-, 15- and 20-year plans.\\nAll you have to do is talk about your professional aspirations and he'll instantly understand how independent you are. In fact, he might even wonder how you think you have time for him!\\nHe loves to bask in the attention of others and an independent woman gives him the space to do that.\\n4. Engage in stimulating conversations.\\nLeos are outgoing and love talking up a storm.\\nAs a Capricorn woman, you're no slouch at conversations. Expect the two of you to dig in with some intense chats that really probe the depths of who you are as people. The more you talk, the more things you'll discover you have in common. He's an intelligent, opinionated person who isn't afraid to tell it like it is—just like you.\\nTo get his attention, start off talking about the finer things in life. He'll be up to date on all the latest tech gadgets and loves to talk about sports cars, fabulous mansions, and celebrity lifestyles.\\nIf the two of you disagree, don't worry. As a Fire sign, a Leo guy is passionate and enjoys a fierce debate. He won't take it personally if you have a different point of view.\\n5. Dress to impress.\\nA Leo man cares about appearances—both his and his companion's.\\nHe's likely pretty stylish and pays attention to trends. After all, he wants people to admire him, and his appearance is one way for them to do that. In this area, he's found his match with you. As a Capricorn woman, you care just as much about your appearance as he does. You took to heart the advice to dress for the job you want and you always dress for success.\\nWear clothes that flatter your figure and represent the cutting edge of taste, class, and style to really earn his respect.\\nIt's always a good idea to throw in a gold accessory—gold is the color of his sign, and he's attracted to all that glitters.\\n6. Compliment him frequently.\\nA Lion needs to know that you admire him.\\nAs a reserved Capricorn, you definitely don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Make an effort to tell your favorite Lion all the things you love about him. Unlike any other sign, he needs adoration—he'll be more attracted to you if you constantly feed him compliments.\\nStart a running commentary about what you like about him. Tell him you love the way he looks at you, the way his eyes sparkle when he's happy, even the way he lights up when you praise him.\\nLeo men are generous and friendly. You can tell he's into you if he constantly compliments you as well.\\nIf you really want to hook him, show him off to your friends. He'll glow as you brag about what a wonderful guy he is.\\n7. Give him your undivided attention.\\nYour Leo guy wants to be the center of your universe.\\nIf you focus on him exclusively his attraction toward you will grow exponentially. He'll know that you can give him what he needs in a relationship. Since Capricorn women tend to be a bit quiet—you're not the most social woman—this shouldn't be too difficult for you. Just make an effort to eliminate distractions.\\nWhen you're out with him, make it a habit to turn your phone on silent and keep it in your purse or pocket.\\nIf you're in a social situation, you might sit so that you're facing him with your back to the crowd. That way he knows that he's the sole focus of your attention.\\n8. Show him physical affection.\\nLions are the kings of PDA.\\nIf he likes you, he'll touch you a lot—so be ready to reciprocate. This might be a little tough for you, Capricorn, since you're not the most flirtatious woman, but he'll be more attracted to you if you're physically open.\\nFor example, you might rest your hand on his arm or leg as the two of you are chatting. Or put your arm around him as you lean in to say something in a crowd.\\nYou might also make a habit of squeezing his arm or his side occasionally.\\nAvoid crossing your arms across your body or crossing your legs away from him, which closes you off.\\n9. Go shopping together.\\nLeos are a bit materialistic and enjoy a good shopping spree.\\nBoth Leo and Capricorn have a similar taste for high-quality, luxurious things. It's likely you'll discover you both have some of the same favorite shops. And don't be surprised if you both reach for the same item at once!\\nLeos are particularly drawn to antique shops and even thrift stores where the two of you can search for unique treasures hidden among the more ordinary fare.\\nHigh-end boutiques are a special treat for both of you, but don't think you need a platinum credit card to keep up with your favorite Lion—it's the quality and appearance of something that matters to him, not the price.\\n10. Take time to build a connection.\\nLeo guys are slow to commit and will appreciate the low-key pace.\\nBecause of your polished appearance and successful demeanor, he'll know you're definitely someone he needs in his life. But it can take him some time to find a romantic connection. As a practical Capricorn, you're not likely to fall in love at first sight either—it takes you some time to figure out if someone is worthy of your love.\\nDon't be surprised if you end up making the first move. It's not that he's shy, but he does take love very seriously and isn't quick to make a move.\\nOn the other hand, it can take a lot longer to penetrate the depths of your soul. You don't express your emotions openly or freely, which might frustrate a Leo.\\n11. Be loyal and trustworthy.\\nLoyalty is an absolute requirement for a Leo guy.\\nYou and your favorite Lion agree on this point—Capricorn women are dependable and loyal to those they love. Because you're so supportive and respectful of him, it's unlikely that he'll ever question your devotion to him.\\nSupport and encourage him, especially if he mentions an upcoming challenge. You might say, \\\"That project sounds tough, but you're the best manager I've seen—I know you'll nail it!\\\"\\nIf he's had a recent setback, let him know you're still in his corner by saying, \\\"I know you really wanted that promotion. You probably didn't get it because you're irreplaceable in your current role—you're really the best at what you do!\\\"\\nLeos are known to be a bit possessive. This can cause issues since you're not one to be possessed. If he knows you're loyal, though, he'll be less likely to act this way.\\n12. Share leadership to avoid conflict.\\nLions are natural leaders who like to take the reins.\\nSince Capricorn women are also fond of taking the lead, you'll need to learn to compromise here if you want this relationship to go the distance. Capricorn is a cardinal sign, so you're more likely to kick things off. Once something's in motion, hand it over to him—Leo is a fixed sign, which makes him great at taking over something you've started.\\nAs an Earth sign, you're best at planning and organizing. You can take the lead planning a larger project or trip, then hand off the reins to him once things get off the ground.\\nIn some areas, it might make more sense for one of you to take control simply because you know more about it. For example, if he's an expert foodie, put him in charge of picking restaurants.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you're a smart, successful Capricorn woman, it's no surprise that a Leo man has caught your eye. He's regal and stylish, the life of the party while managing to also seem a bit aloof and above it all. Together, the two of you could be a powerhouse couple. Read on to find out everything you need to do to turn that Lion's gaze your way and keep his eyes on you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Stand out from the crowd.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo man is attracted to a woman a cut above the rest.\", \"描述\": \"Leos are ruled by the Sun and love to be the center of attention. It's likely he's always surrounded by a sea of admirers, but he's attracted to someone who seems \\\"too good\\\" for that. As a Capricorn woman, you're a strong leader in your own right. Present yourself as an equal, not as someone who believes you're inferior to him.\\nIf you find yourself in the same room as him, hold your own and let others come to you rather than flitting about. He'll see that regal confidence that he's so attracted to.\\nIf you give off the impression that you're too good to simply bow to him, he'll definitely be interested in learning more about you.\\nThis doesn't mean he doesn't want admiration from you, because of course he does. But he wants to truly feel that he's earned that admiration.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be confident.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Leo loves a woman who understands her own self-worth.\", \"描述\": \"A Lion knows his value and looks for a partner who believes she's valuable as well. He's not a fan of emotionally dependent women who need constant reassurance of his feelings. With you, that's the last thing he needs to worry about! He'll grow all the more attracted to you when he realizes your self-love rivals his own.\\nLions tend to be more generous with love and compliments when they sense that you don't need them to prop up your self-esteem.\\nExpect him to shower you with praise when he realizes you don't need his approval to be happy.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Flaunt your independent nature.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Lion needs his lady to proudly stand on her own two feet.\", \"描述\": \"With you, that's the last thing he needs to worry about! As a Capricorn, your sign is ruled by Saturn—the planet of hard work, responsibility, and determination. You don't just have career goals, you have 5-, 10-, 15- and 20-year plans.\\nAll you have to do is talk about your professional aspirations and he'll instantly understand how independent you are. In fact, he might even wonder how you think you have time for him!\\nHe loves to bask in the attention of others and an independent woman gives him the space to do that.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Engage in stimulating conversations.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos are outgoing and love talking up a storm.\", \"描述\": \"As a Capricorn woman, you're no slouch at conversations. Expect the two of you to dig in with some intense chats that really probe the depths of who you are as people. The more you talk, the more things you'll discover you have in common. He's an intelligent, opinionated person who isn't afraid to tell it like it is—just like you.\\nTo get his attention, start off talking about the finer things in life. He'll be up to date on all the latest tech gadgets and loves to talk about sports cars, fabulous mansions, and celebrity lifestyles.\\nIf the two of you disagree, don't worry. As a Fire sign, a Leo guy is passionate and enjoys a fierce debate. He won't take it personally if you have a different point of view.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Dress to impress.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo man cares about appearances—both his and his companion's.\", \"描述\": \"He's likely pretty stylish and pays attention to trends. After all, he wants people to admire him, and his appearance is one way for them to do that. In this area, he's found his match with you. As a Capricorn woman, you care just as much about your appearance as he does. You took to heart the advice to dress for the job you want and you always dress for success.\\nWear clothes that flatter your figure and represent the cutting edge of taste, class, and style to really earn his respect.\\nIt's always a good idea to throw in a gold accessory—gold is the color of his sign, and he's attracted to all that glitters.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Compliment him frequently.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Lion needs to know that you admire him.\", \"描述\": \"As a reserved Capricorn, you definitely don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Make an effort to tell your favorite Lion all the things you love about him. Unlike any other sign, he needs adoration—he'll be more attracted to you if you constantly feed him compliments.\\nStart a running commentary about what you like about him. Tell him you love the way he looks at you, the way his eyes sparkle when he's happy, even the way he lights up when you praise him.\\nLeo men are generous and friendly. You can tell he's into you if he constantly compliments you as well.\\nIf you really want to hook him, show him off to your friends. He'll glow as you brag about what a wonderful guy he is.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Give him your undivided attention.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Leo guy wants to be the center of your universe.\", \"描述\": \"If you focus on him exclusively his attraction toward you will grow exponentially. He'll know that you can give him what he needs in a relationship. Since Capricorn women tend to be a bit quiet—you're not the most social woman—this shouldn't be too difficult for you. Just make an effort to eliminate distractions.\\nWhen you're out with him, make it a habit to turn your phone on silent and keep it in your purse or pocket.\\nIf you're in a social situation, you might sit so that you're facing him with your back to the crowd. That way he knows that he's the sole focus of your attention.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Show him physical affection.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Lions are the kings of PDA.\", \"描述\": \"If he likes you, he'll touch you a lot—so be ready to reciprocate. This might be a little tough for you, Capricorn, since you're not the most flirtatious woman, but he'll be more attracted to you if you're physically open.\\nFor example, you might rest your hand on his arm or leg as the two of you are chatting. Or put your arm around him as you lean in to say something in a crowd.\\nYou might also make a habit of squeezing his arm or his side occasionally.\\nAvoid crossing your arms across your body or crossing your legs away from him, which closes you off.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Go shopping together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos are a bit materialistic and enjoy a good shopping spree.\", \"描述\": \"Both Leo and Capricorn have a similar taste for high-quality, luxurious things. 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2,777 | How to Attract a Leo Man As a Pisces Woman | 1. Give him sincere compliments.
Flattery is the greatest gift you can give to a Leo.
Offer compliments, awe, and adoration, and he'll be thrilled. Pisces, when it comes to making others feel totally treasured, you’re an expert! Sweet, thoughtful compliments probably pop into your head on a loop all day. To get a Leo's attention, flatter him constantly.
“Your hair looks extra soft and shiny today! You could be a hair model, seriously.”
“I love the way you light up a room. Your presence is so bright and magnetic. Has anyone ever told you that before?”
“You’ve got the most infectious attitude of anyone I’ve ever met. Being around you is always so exciting.”
2. Listen to him.
Leos need to feel heard, and you can offer the best empathetic ear.
In this way, Pisces, you’re a Leo’s dreamboat. Leos crave an audience who makes them feel understood, and your superpower is helping people feel exactly that. Make sure that when your Leo crush has something important to say, you listen closely, validate his feelings, and ask clarifying questions.
Make eye contact, nod your head when he makes a point, and offer words of encouragement: “Really? Wow, that’s crazy. Go on.”
Show him that you’re empathetic to his feelings: “It makes so much sense that you’d feel that way. That’s a completely valid reason to be upset.”
Ask him clarifying questions to show that you’re engaged: “Wait, can you go back a second? Why do you think that she said that?”
3. Show off your femininity and confidence.
A Leo will feel enchanted by Pisces’ delicate, ethereal beauty.
A Pisces' charm comes naturally, but there are always ways to play up your strong, feminine aura. With your Leo crush, project confidence through eye contact and great posture. Go for style and beauty looks thought to improve your feminine energy.
Wear soft lines, flowing skirts, and light colors.
Wear your hair down.
Go for dewy, light, and natural makeup looks.
4. Create grand romance.
Leos want serious romance—and Pisces, that’s your strong suit.
Whether it’s a date, a gesture, or a special gift, there’s no need to hold back on over-the-top romance with a Leo. You two are idealistic in love, so whenever you bring fairytale vibes into your relationship, your Leo crush will be into it.
Plan grand, romantic dates. Think moonlit picnics, slow dancing with champagne, and poetry reading by the fire.
Go big on romantic gestures. Think surprise dream vacations, matching (temporary) tattoos, and love letters galore.
Don’t shy away from a romantic gift or two. It doesn’t need to be expensive or luxurious. As long as your gift is thoughtful, your Leo crush will be over the moon.
5. Bond through creative projects.
Pisces and Leo might be the most artistic signs in the zodiac.
The two of you can connect through a love of music, paintings, literature—whatever medium suits your style. Your connection is more about how you see the world; both Pisces and Leo are always switched on creatively. To strengthen your relationship, lean into this similarity.
Talk with him about his creative work. Ask thoughtful questions like, “What inspired you to make this piece?”
Ask him to start a new creative project with you. Not only will this help you connect, but it’ll show that you think his skills are valuable.
Chat about your favorite albums, novels, or works of art. Even without formal knowledge, your artistic intuitions will make for great conversation.
6. Give him the spotlight when you're in public.
A Leo wants to be the center of their crush's attention 24/7.
Pisces, you’re a total cheerleader to the people you care about, so this should be a snap. In social settings, try turning the group’s attention to your Leo crush. Offer him a compliment or ask him to tell a story. Anytime you make him feel special and adored, he'll be thrilled—especially if you do it in public.
Find opportunities to flatter him in groups. “Oh, speaking of indie music, did you know that Joe is a great singer? He's almost done with an album, actually.”
Find ways to give him the floor in group conversation. “That reminds me of your great story about karaoke in Prague, Joe. You should definitely tell it.”
7. Charm his friends at social events.
Leos are social butterflies, and they admire people who can work a room.
Pisces, you’ve got a powerful, personal brand of charisma to offer. When you're out with your Leo crush, draw others in with your openness, empathy, and gentle conversation style. You may not want to join your Leo crush at every party and event, but when you do, lean into your natural people skills and you'll be sure to impress him.
When you’re out with a Leo, it may be tempting to mirror his super bold and talkative conversation style. But instead, you should just be yourself!
Ask others how they've been feeling. Let them vent, offer advice, and show sympathy for their problems.
When you reconnect with someone, show that you care enough to recall personal details. Ask questions about their dog, their job, or their new haircut.
8. Join him for exciting experiences.
As a fire sign, Leos are always looking for a partner in adventure.
Pisces, you probably love getting to go with the flow and follow another person's lead—so use this to your advantage with your Leo crush. Though you might not be as excited about cross-country road trips as you are reading by the fire, tag along on a Leo's adventures and you'll have him hooked on you in no time.
If he suddenly has a day trip in mind, join him. Leos make just about everything fun, and he’ll find your openness and your willingness to jump in attractive.
Show that you're excited about his idea. Make a playlist for the car, look up a restaurant on the way, and pack yummy snacks.
9. Let him take the lead in your relationship.
A Leo wants to be in the driver’s seat, and you'll probably enjoy that, Pisces.
Let him make your dinner plans, brainstorm activities for you to try together, and organize your weekends away. Relationships should be a give and take, but don't stress if it seems like he runs the show—that's the way he likes it. Just make sure that you feel comfortable with your relationship dynamic.
If you feel that his behavior went from “leading” to “controlling,” talk to him about it. As long as you’re cool-headed (and when aren’t you?), he’ll understand.
Don't wait to have the conversation. As a Pisces, you're sensitive to feeling like your personal freedom is being threatened.
Address the issue before it becomes a problem for your relationship and for you personally.
10. Let him protect you.
Leos love going to the mat for the people they care about.
If you want your Leo crush to feel completely obsessed with you, let him defend you. A Leo in love won't accept any injustices on your behalf. If you want to strengthen your bond, let him call out toxic people in your life, snap at the guy who spills your drink at the bar, and generally just look out for your best interest.
Leos may sometimes take confrontation a bit too far. Pisces are often conflict-averse, so this might make you feel uncomfortable.
If you need him to rein it in, just ask. Make it clear that you're grateful that he cares. As long as you're appreciative, he'll understand.
11. Tone down the passion during fights.
Your relationship's emotional depth could make conflict more difficult.
From deep discussions to physical intimacy, Leo and Pisces bring passion to everything in love. Talk through your issues before your spat gets serious to make sure this strength doesn't become a weakness. Take steps to discourage unnecessarily painful fights.
When things get heated, take a break from each other. Even if it's just two minutes in separate rooms, it'll help you de-escalate.
Use humor to cool things down. If tensions start to rise, make a quick joke that you know always gets your partner to laugh.
Or, use touch to defuse a fight. Walk over and give your partner a hug, a pat on the leg, or a kiss.
12. Show him how loyal you are.
Leo and Pisces want devotion from their partners.
The two of you crave a deeply committed relationship of trust, support, and honesty. When you get serious with your Leo, show him through your actions that you two are equally loyal people. You’re both so well-suited for a partnership because at the end of the day, you want the same things. In your relationship with a Leo, make sure your actions reflect that.
Stay faithful when you two go exclusive.
When he's struggling, make sure you're there for him.
When you want things to get serious, communicate that to him: “Hey, I wanted to let you know that I’m ready for a commitment. Should we talk about that?”
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Make sure that when your Leo crush has something important to say, you listen closely, validate his feelings, and ask clarifying questions.\\nMake eye contact, nod your head when he makes a point, and offer words of encouragement: “Really? Wow, that’s crazy. Go on.”\\nShow him that you’re empathetic to his feelings: “It makes so much sense that you’d feel that way. That’s a completely valid reason to be upset.”\\nAsk him clarifying questions to show that you’re engaged: “Wait, can you go back a second? Why do you think that she said that?”\\n3. Show off your femininity and confidence.\\nA Leo will feel enchanted by Pisces’ delicate, ethereal beauty.\\nA Pisces' charm comes naturally, but there are always ways to play up your strong, feminine aura. With your Leo crush, project confidence through eye contact and great posture. Go for style and beauty looks thought to improve your feminine energy.\\nWear soft lines, flowing skirts, and light colors.\\nWear your hair down.\\nGo for dewy, light, and natural makeup looks.\\n4. Create grand romance.\\nLeos want serious romance—and Pisces, that’s your strong suit.\\nWhether it’s a date, a gesture, or a special gift, there’s no need to hold back on over-the-top romance with a Leo. You two are idealistic in love, so whenever you bring fairytale vibes into your relationship, your Leo crush will be into it.\\nPlan grand, romantic dates. Think moonlit picnics, slow dancing with champagne, and poetry reading by the fire.\\nGo big on romantic gestures. Think surprise dream vacations, matching (temporary) tattoos, and love letters galore.\\nDon’t shy away from a romantic gift or two. It doesn’t need to be expensive or luxurious. As long as your gift is thoughtful, your Leo crush will be over the moon.\\n5. Bond through creative projects.\\nPisces and Leo might be the most artistic signs in the zodiac.\\nThe two of you can connect through a love of music, paintings, literature—whatever medium suits your style. Your connection is more about how you see the world; both Pisces and Leo are always switched on creatively. To strengthen your relationship, lean into this similarity.\\nTalk with him about his creative work. Ask thoughtful questions like, “What inspired you to make this piece?”\\nAsk him to start a new creative project with you. Not only will this help you connect, but it’ll show that you think his skills are valuable.\\nChat about your favorite albums, novels, or works of art. Even without formal knowledge, your artistic intuitions will make for great conversation.\\n6. Give him the spotlight when you're in public.\\nA Leo wants to be the center of their crush's attention 24/7.\\nPisces, you’re a total cheerleader to the people you care about, so this should be a snap. In social settings, try turning the group’s attention to your Leo crush. Offer him a compliment or ask him to tell a story. Anytime you make him feel special and adored, he'll be thrilled—especially if you do it in public.\\nFind opportunities to flatter him in groups. “Oh, speaking of indie music, did you know that Joe is a great singer? He's almost done with an album, actually.”\\nFind ways to give him the floor in group conversation. “That reminds me of your great story about karaoke in Prague, Joe. You should definitely tell it.”\\n7. Charm his friends at social events.\\nLeos are social butterflies, and they admire people who can work a room.\\nPisces, you’ve got a powerful, personal brand of charisma to offer. When you're out with your Leo crush, draw others in with your openness, empathy, and gentle conversation style. You may not want to join your Leo crush at every party and event, but when you do, lean into your natural people skills and you'll be sure to impress him.\\nWhen you’re out with a Leo, it may be tempting to mirror his super bold and talkative conversation style. But instead, you should just be yourself!\\nAsk others how they've been feeling. Let them vent, offer advice, and show sympathy for their problems.\\nWhen you reconnect with someone, show that you care enough to recall personal details. Ask questions about their dog, their job, or their new haircut.\\n8. Join him for exciting experiences.\\nAs a fire sign, Leos are always looking for a partner in adventure.\\nPisces, you probably love getting to go with the flow and follow another person's lead—so use this to your advantage with your Leo crush. Though you might not be as excited about cross-country road trips as you are reading by the fire, tag along on a Leo's adventures and you'll have him hooked on you in no time.\\nIf he suddenly has a day trip in mind, join him. Leos make just about everything fun, and he’ll find your openness and your willingness to jump in attractive.\\nShow that you're excited about his idea. Make a playlist for the car, look up a restaurant on the way, and pack yummy snacks.\\n9. Let him take the lead in your relationship.\\nA Leo wants to be in the driver’s seat, and you'll probably enjoy that, Pisces.\\nLet him make your dinner plans, brainstorm activities for you to try together, and organize your weekends away. Relationships should be a give and take, but don't stress if it seems like he runs the show—that's the way he likes it. Just make sure that you feel comfortable with your relationship dynamic.\\nIf you feel that his behavior went from “leading” to “controlling,” talk to him about it. As long as you’re cool-headed (and when aren’t you?), he’ll understand.\\nDon't wait to have the conversation. As a Pisces, you're sensitive to feeling like your personal freedom is being threatened.\\nAddress the issue before it becomes a problem for your relationship and for you personally.\\n10. Let him protect you.\\nLeos love going to the mat for the people they care about.\\nIf you want your Leo crush to feel completely obsessed with you, let him defend you. A Leo in love won't accept any injustices on your behalf. If you want to strengthen your bond, let him call out toxic people in your life, snap at the guy who spills your drink at the bar, and generally just look out for your best interest.\\nLeos may sometimes take confrontation a bit too far. Pisces are often conflict-averse, so this might make you feel uncomfortable.\\nIf you need him to rein it in, just ask. Make it clear that you're grateful that he cares. As long as you're appreciative, he'll understand.\\n11. Tone down the passion during fights.\\nYour relationship's emotional depth could make conflict more difficult.\\nFrom deep discussions to physical intimacy, Leo and Pisces bring passion to everything in love. Talk through your issues before your spat gets serious to make sure this strength doesn't become a weakness. Take steps to discourage unnecessarily painful fights.\\nWhen things get heated, take a break from each other. Even if it's just two minutes in separate rooms, it'll help you de-escalate.\\nUse humor to cool things down. If tensions start to rise, make a quick joke that you know always gets your partner to laugh.\\nOr, use touch to defuse a fight. Walk over and give your partner a hug, a pat on the leg, or a kiss.\\n12. Show him how loyal you are.\\nLeo and Pisces want devotion from their partners.\\nThe two of you crave a deeply committed relationship of trust, support, and honesty. When you get serious with your Leo, show him through your actions that you two are equally loyal people. You’re both so well-suited for a partnership because at the end of the day, you want the same things. In your relationship with a Leo, make sure your actions reflect that.\\nStay faithful when you two go exclusive.\\nWhen he's struggling, make sure you're there for him.\\nWhen you want things to get serious, communicate that to him: “Hey, I wanted to let you know that I’m ready for a commitment. Should we talk about that?”\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The Leo-Pisces connection is filled with grand romance, creative projects, and mutual adoration—but are they built to last? If you're looking to attract a Leo man as a Pisces woman, know that you've got all the right tools already. Your empathy, compassion, and warm personality are enchanting to a bold and fiery Leo. Plus, there are so many simple ways to make yourself even more attractive to him, and we're going to walk you through everything you need to know. For all the best tips on how to attract a Leo man as a Pisces woman, read on.This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Give him sincere compliments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Flattery is the greatest gift you can give to a Leo.\", \"描述\": \"Offer compliments, awe, and adoration, and he'll be thrilled. Pisces, when it comes to making others feel totally treasured, you’re an expert! Sweet, thoughtful compliments probably pop into your head on a loop all day. To get a Leo's attention, flatter him constantly.\\n“Your hair looks extra soft and shiny today! You could be a hair model, seriously.”\\n“I love the way you light up a room. Your presence is so bright and magnetic. Has anyone ever told you that before?”\\n“You’ve got the most infectious attitude of anyone I’ve ever met. Being around you is always so exciting.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Listen to him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos need to feel heard, and you can offer the best empathetic ear.\", \"描述\": \"In this way, Pisces, you’re a Leo’s dreamboat. Leos crave an audience who makes them feel understood, and your superpower is helping people feel exactly that. Make sure that when your Leo crush has something important to say, you listen closely, validate his feelings, and ask clarifying questions.\\nMake eye contact, nod your head when he makes a point, and offer words of encouragement: “Really? Wow, that’s crazy. Go on.”\\nShow him that you’re empathetic to his feelings: “It makes so much sense that you’d feel that way. That’s a completely valid reason to be upset.”\\nAsk him clarifying questions to show that you’re engaged: “Wait, can you go back a second? Why do you think that she said that?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Show off your femininity and confidence.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo will feel enchanted by Pisces’ delicate, ethereal beauty.\", \"描述\": \"A Pisces' charm comes naturally, but there are always ways to play up your strong, feminine aura. With your Leo crush, project confidence through eye contact and great posture. Go for style and beauty looks thought to improve your feminine energy.\\nWear soft lines, flowing skirts, and light colors.\\nWear your hair down.\\nGo for dewy, light, and natural makeup looks.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Create grand romance.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos want serious romance—and Pisces, that’s your strong suit.\", \"描述\": \"Whether it’s a date, a gesture, or a special gift, there’s no need to hold back on over-the-top romance with a Leo. You two are idealistic in love, so whenever you bring fairytale vibes into your relationship, your Leo crush will be into it.\\nPlan grand, romantic dates. Think moonlit picnics, slow dancing with champagne, and poetry reading by the fire.\\nGo big on romantic gestures. Think surprise dream vacations, matching (temporary) tattoos, and love letters galore.\\nDon’t shy away from a romantic gift or two. It doesn’t need to be expensive or luxurious. As long as your gift is thoughtful, your Leo crush will be over the moon.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Bond through creative projects.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pisces and Leo might be the most artistic signs in the zodiac.\", \"描述\": \"The two of you can connect through a love of music, paintings, literature—whatever medium suits your style. Your connection is more about how you see the world; both Pisces and Leo are always switched on creatively. To strengthen your relationship, lean into this similarity.\\nTalk with him about his creative work. Ask thoughtful questions like, “What inspired you to make this piece?”\\nAsk him to start a new creative project with you. Not only will this help you connect, but it’ll show that you think his skills are valuable.\\nChat about your favorite albums, novels, or works of art. Even without formal knowledge, your artistic intuitions will make for great conversation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Give him the spotlight when you're in public.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo wants to be the center of their crush's attention 24/7.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces, you’re a total cheerleader to the people you care about, so this should be a snap. In social settings, try turning the group’s attention to your Leo crush. Offer him a compliment or ask him to tell a story. Anytime you make him feel special and adored, he'll be thrilled—especially if you do it in public.\\nFind opportunities to flatter him in groups. “Oh, speaking of indie music, did you know that Joe is a great singer? He's almost done with an album, actually.”\\nFind ways to give him the floor in group conversation. “That reminds me of your great story about karaoke in Prague, Joe. You should definitely tell it.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Charm his friends at social events.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos are social butterflies, and they admire people who can work a room.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces, you’ve got a powerful, personal brand of charisma to offer. When you're out with your Leo crush, draw others in with your openness, empathy, and gentle conversation style. You may not want to join your Leo crush at every party and event, but when you do, lean into your natural people skills and you'll be sure to impress him.\\nWhen you’re out with a Leo, it may be tempting to mirror his super bold and talkative conversation style. But instead, you should just be yourself!\\nAsk others how they've been feeling. Let them vent, offer advice, and show sympathy for their problems.\\nWhen you reconnect with someone, show that you care enough to recall personal details. Ask questions about their dog, their job, or their new haircut.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Join him for exciting experiences.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"As a fire sign, Leos are always looking for a partner in adventure.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces, you probably love getting to go with the flow and follow another person's lead—so use this to your advantage with your Leo crush. Though you might not be as excited about cross-country road trips as you are reading by the fire, tag along on a Leo's adventures and you'll have him hooked on you in no time.\\nIf he suddenly has a day trip in mind, join him. Leos make just about everything fun, and he’ll find your openness and your willingness to jump in attractive.\\nShow that you're excited about his idea. Make a playlist for the car, look up a restaurant on the way, and pack yummy snacks.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Let him take the lead in your relationship.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo wants to be in the driver’s seat, and you'll probably enjoy that, Pisces.\", \"描述\": \"Let him make your dinner plans, brainstorm activities for you to try together, and organize your weekends away. Relationships should be a give and take, but don't stress if it seems like he runs the show—that's the way he likes it. Just make sure that you feel comfortable with your relationship dynamic.\\nIf you feel that his behavior went from “leading” to “controlling,” talk to him about it. As long as you’re cool-headed (and when aren’t you?), he’ll understand.\\nDon't wait to have the conversation. As a Pisces, you're sensitive to feeling like your personal freedom is being threatened.\\nAddress the issue before it becomes a problem for your relationship and for you personally.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Let him protect you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos love going to the mat for the people they care about.\", \"描述\": \"If you want your Leo crush to feel completely obsessed with you, let him defend you. A Leo in love won't accept any injustices on your behalf. If you want to strengthen your bond, let him call out toxic people in your life, snap at the guy who spills your drink at the bar, and generally just look out for your best interest.\\nLeos may sometimes take confrontation a bit too far. 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2,778 | How to Attract a Leo Man as a Sagittarius Woman | 1. Flaunt your independence.
Lions typically like ladies who stand on their own two feet.
Sagittarians are known as bohemian free spirits and you've definitely got your own life—just let him know that! He'll really like it if you want to spend time with him, but he'll turn cold if it seems like you need to be with him.
If you know he's going to be at a party, show up alone and float around from group to group. You'll definitely get his attention.
When you're out with him, take time to mingle with others rather than staying glued to his side. This will give him the sense that you don't need him to have a good time.
2. Show off your unique fashion sense.
A Leo will be attracted to someone who stands out from the crowd.
If you have a flair for the dramatic, you're more likely to catch that lion's eye. This might be a challenge for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who isn't much for making a statement through your clothing. But even an eye-catching accessory can be enough to turn that lion's eye your way.
For example, if you prefer jeans and a blazer for a night out, you might add a bold scarf or a flamboyant hat.
Never underestimate the power of a brightly colored blouse or dress in a sea of people wearing black and neutral colors.
Lions tend to be attracted to all that sparkles—especially gold. A chunky gold bracelet or dramatic gold necklace is sure to capture his attention.
3. Let him take the lead.
Most lions are accustomed to being in charge.
He feels most comfortable when others are following his lead. After he's noticed you, pull back—the ball's in his court now. This might be hard for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who's not content to sit back and wait for the other person to act. But if he's the typical Leo, you won't have to wait long! He'll pounce at the opportunity to show off his skills.
Sagittarius is a mutable sign, so you tend to be flexible and comfortable with change. Even if you're used to taking the reins, you can pretty easily get used to following his lead.
For example, if you're chatting while the two of you are in line at a café, you might ask him what he would recommend for you to order.
You also might ask for his advice on your work or get his input on what you should do next or how he would handle a sticky situation. Leo is a fixed sign, so he's good at keeping momentum going and helping you get through something.
4. Speak your mind and stand up for yourself.
The typical Leo guy is attracted to strength.
As a Sagittarius, you're known for being intellectual and probably have some pretty strong opinions. Don't be afraid to display that passion around a Leo—he loves to see that fire in your spirit.
Keep in mind that Leo is ruled by the Sun. He wants to be the center of your universe, lavished with praise. If you criticize him, use tact while reassuring him that he's still an amazing person.
If he crosses any of your personal boundaries, just let him know—he doesn't want to hurt or offend you and he'll like you all the more for asserting yourself.
5. Let your positivity and optimism shine through.
Leos prefer to be around people who are happy and upbeat.
A Leo guy is usually pretty optimistic because he feels like he's in control of his future. Since Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion and growth, you're confident in your optimism and always look forward to whatever the next day brings, so this won't be a problem for you.
Whenever he's around, smile confidently and show him that you're really enjoying yourself. He'll be attracted to that because he'll feel like the two of you are on the same wavelength.
Your optimism and positivity also show when you talk about the future. Let him know that no matter what happens, you're always excited to start a new day.
6. Shower him with compliments.
With a Leo man, flattery really will get you everywhere.
Leo men have the reputation for not just liking compliments, but practically needing them. He probably thinks he's awesome, but he also needs to hear it from you. Let him know that you appreciate everything that's great about him.
Try to compliment him on something that isn't obvious or that others wouldn't notice right away. That'll show him that you're really paying attention to him.
For example, you might say, "I'm impressed by how you remember a little something about everybody you talk to—the effort you put into getting to know people is pretty amazing!"
While a Leo guy certainly has a reputation for being vain, you'll impress him more if you praise him for things he does rather than how he looks. At his core, he's hard-working with a strong work ethic and appreciates people who notice that.
7. Play a little hard to get.
Lions very much enjoy the thrill of the chase.
Okay, so real lions typically prey on the weakest and slowest in a herd. But he's not a real lion, he's the storybook fantasy of a lion, the strong and powerful king of the jungle (real lions don't even live in jungles). He's not going to be interested in the women who are literally throwing themselves at his feet—he wants the one who plays it cool and barely seems to notice him at all.
You still want to give him some signals that you're interested—just don't act like you need him. Keep a little distance and he'll feel like he's met his match.
Keep him interested with a few tidbits—a compliment here, a flirt there—and then sit back and let him come after you. He'll relish the challenge.
8. Invite him to join you at a hot new restaurant.
The typical Leo guy is all about a buzz-worthy fine dining experience.
As a Sagittarius, you have a reputation for being a trendsetter, so you probably have the inside scoop on the next hotspot. Use it to your advantage to snag that luscious Leo you've got your eye on.
Even better if you can use inside connections to get a table at a place that's been booked for weeks. A Lion loves feeling like he's getting special treatment.
He also loves to see and be seen, so a popular restaurant gives him the opportunity to do just that—while also being seen with you.
9. Take him with you on an exciting adventure.
The active, fun-loving Leo is always ready to blaze new trails.
Sagittarius is one of the most adventurous signs in the zodiac and with Leo you've found a great travel companion. He's up for anything that gives him the opportunity to challenge himself, meet new people, or try new and exotic things.
Leos have a reputation for wanting the finer things in life, but you don't have to break the bank to show him some excitement. A visit to a neighboring town he's never explored is really all you need.
Did you grow up in a different place than where you live now? Offer to give him a tour of your hometown—even if he's been there before, he'll be seeing it through different eyes with you.
Cultural festivals and conventions also give you the opportunity to experience exotic new things without having to travel very far.
10. Share your feelings with him openly.
A Leo appreciates when you feel safe being vulnerable with him.
If he likes you, he wants you to feel comfortable with him. He's a protective guy, so it's important that you feel secure. When you open up about your feelings, that tells him that he makes you happy.
Deep down, Leos are pretty sensitive guys, so expect him to care for you and empathize with what you have to say, even if he doesn't completely understand.
Try to get him one-on-one before you start talking about emotional topics, though. He'll be more attentive and sensitive if he's not distracted by others and can let down his guard as well.
11. Be his biggest cheerleader.
Leo guys want their partners to support them.
Real cheerleaders continue to root their team on even if they're way down and have no chance of winning—and this is what he wants from you. This might be hard for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who isn't used to standing on the sidelines. Just rest assured that when you're pursuing your goals, he'll be there with his pompoms as well.
If he tells you about a big thing he has coming up, let him know that you're rooting for him and you know he can do it. For example, you might say, "That sounds tough but I know you've got what it takes!"
When he's celebrating an achievement, let him know how proud of him you are. You might say, "I never had any doubts! Way to go—you really are the best!"
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Flaunt your independence.\\nLions typically like ladies who stand on their own two feet.\\nSagittarians are known as bohemian free spirits and you've definitely got your own life—just let him know that! He'll really like it if you want to spend time with him, but he'll turn cold if it seems like you need to be with him.\\nIf you know he's going to be at a party, show up alone and float around from group to group. You'll definitely get his attention.\\nWhen you're out with him, take time to mingle with others rather than staying glued to his side. This will give him the sense that you don't need him to have a good time.\\n2. Show off your unique fashion sense.\\nA Leo will be attracted to someone who stands out from the crowd.\\nIf you have a flair for the dramatic, you're more likely to catch that lion's eye. This might be a challenge for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who isn't much for making a statement through your clothing. But even an eye-catching accessory can be enough to turn that lion's eye your way.\\nFor example, if you prefer jeans and a blazer for a night out, you might add a bold scarf or a flamboyant hat.\\nNever underestimate the power of a brightly colored blouse or dress in a sea of people wearing black and neutral colors.\\nLions tend to be attracted to all that sparkles—especially gold. A chunky gold bracelet or dramatic gold necklace is sure to capture his attention.\\n3. Let him take the lead.\\nMost lions are accustomed to being in charge.\\nHe feels most comfortable when others are following his lead. After he's noticed you, pull back—the ball's in his court now. This might be hard for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who's not content to sit back and wait for the other person to act. But if he's the typical Leo, you won't have to wait long! He'll pounce at the opportunity to show off his skills.\\nSagittarius is a mutable sign, so you tend to be flexible and comfortable with change. Even if you're used to taking the reins, you can pretty easily get used to following his lead.\\nFor example, if you're chatting while the two of you are in line at a café, you might ask him what he would recommend for you to order.\\nYou also might ask for his advice on your work or get his input on what you should do next or how he would handle a sticky situation. Leo is a fixed sign, so he's good at keeping momentum going and helping you get through something.\\n4. Speak your mind and stand up for yourself.\\nThe typical Leo guy is attracted to strength.\\nAs a Sagittarius, you're known for being intellectual and probably have some pretty strong opinions. Don't be afraid to display that passion around a Leo—he loves to see that fire in your spirit.\\nKeep in mind that Leo is ruled by the Sun. He wants to be the center of your universe, lavished with praise. If you criticize him, use tact while reassuring him that he's still an amazing person.\\nIf he crosses any of your personal boundaries, just let him know—he doesn't want to hurt or offend you and he'll like you all the more for asserting yourself.\\n5. Let your positivity and optimism shine through.\\nLeos prefer to be around people who are happy and upbeat.\\nA Leo guy is usually pretty optimistic because he feels like he's in control of his future. Since Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion and growth, you're confident in your optimism and always look forward to whatever the next day brings, so this won't be a problem for you.\\nWhenever he's around, smile confidently and show him that you're really enjoying yourself. He'll be attracted to that because he'll feel like the two of you are on the same wavelength.\\nYour optimism and positivity also show when you talk about the future. Let him know that no matter what happens, you're always excited to start a new day.\\n6. Shower him with compliments.\\nWith a Leo man, flattery really will get you everywhere.\\nLeo men have the reputation for not just liking compliments, but practically needing them. He probably thinks he's awesome, but he also needs to hear it from you. Let him know that you appreciate everything that's great about him.\\nTry to compliment him on something that isn't obvious or that others wouldn't notice right away. That'll show him that you're really paying attention to him.\\nFor example, you might say, \\\"I'm impressed by how you remember a little something about everybody you talk to—the effort you put into getting to know people is pretty amazing!\\\"\\nWhile a Leo guy certainly has a reputation for being vain, you'll impress him more if you praise him for things he does rather than how he looks. At his core, he's hard-working with a strong work ethic and appreciates people who notice that.\\n7. Play a little hard to get.\\nLions very much enjoy the thrill of the chase.\\nOkay, so real lions typically prey on the weakest and slowest in a herd. But he's not a real lion, he's the storybook fantasy of a lion, the strong and powerful king of the jungle (real lions don't even live in jungles). He's not going to be interested in the women who are literally throwing themselves at his feet—he wants the one who plays it cool and barely seems to notice him at all.\\nYou still want to give him some signals that you're interested—just don't act like you need him. Keep a little distance and he'll feel like he's met his match.\\nKeep him interested with a few tidbits—a compliment here, a flirt there—and then sit back and let him come after you. He'll relish the challenge.\\n8. Invite him to join you at a hot new restaurant.\\nThe typical Leo guy is all about a buzz-worthy fine dining experience.\\nAs a Sagittarius, you have a reputation for being a trendsetter, so you probably have the inside scoop on the next hotspot. Use it to your advantage to snag that luscious Leo you've got your eye on.\\nEven better if you can use inside connections to get a table at a place that's been booked for weeks. A Lion loves feeling like he's getting special treatment.\\nHe also loves to see and be seen, so a popular restaurant gives him the opportunity to do just that—while also being seen with you.\\n9. Take him with you on an exciting adventure.\\nThe active, fun-loving Leo is always ready to blaze new trails.\\nSagittarius is one of the most adventurous signs in the zodiac and with Leo you've found a great travel companion. He's up for anything that gives him the opportunity to challenge himself, meet new people, or try new and exotic things.\\nLeos have a reputation for wanting the finer things in life, but you don't have to break the bank to show him some excitement. A visit to a neighboring town he's never explored is really all you need.\\nDid you grow up in a different place than where you live now? Offer to give him a tour of your hometown—even if he's been there before, he'll be seeing it through different eyes with you.\\nCultural festivals and conventions also give you the opportunity to experience exotic new things without having to travel very far.\\n10. Share your feelings with him openly.\\nA Leo appreciates when you feel safe being vulnerable with him.\\nIf he likes you, he wants you to feel comfortable with him. He's a protective guy, so it's important that you feel secure. 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This will give him the sense that you don't need him to have a good time.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Show off your unique fashion sense.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo will be attracted to someone who stands out from the crowd.\", \"描述\": \"If you have a flair for the dramatic, you're more likely to catch that lion's eye. This might be a challenge for you if you're the typical Sagittarius who isn't much for making a statement through your clothing. But even an eye-catching accessory can be enough to turn that lion's eye your way.\\nFor example, if you prefer jeans and a blazer for a night out, you might add a bold scarf or a flamboyant hat.\\nNever underestimate the power of a brightly colored blouse or dress in a sea of people wearing black and neutral colors.\\nLions tend to be attracted to all that sparkles—especially gold. 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Even if you're used to taking the reins, you can pretty easily get used to following his lead.\\nFor example, if you're chatting while the two of you are in line at a café, you might ask him what he would recommend for you to order.\\nYou also might ask for his advice on your work or get his input on what you should do next or how he would handle a sticky situation. Leo is a fixed sign, so he's good at keeping momentum going and helping you get through something.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Speak your mind and stand up for yourself.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The typical Leo guy is attracted to strength.\", \"描述\": \"As a Sagittarius, you're known for being intellectual and probably have some pretty strong opinions. Don't be afraid to display that passion around a Leo—he loves to see that fire in your spirit.\\nKeep in mind that Leo is ruled by the Sun. He wants to be the center of your universe, lavished with praise. If you criticize him, use tact while reassuring him that he's still an amazing person.\\nIf he crosses any of your personal boundaries, just let him know—he doesn't want to hurt or offend you and he'll like you all the more for asserting yourself.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Let your positivity and optimism shine through.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos prefer to be around people who are happy and upbeat.\", \"描述\": \"A Leo guy is usually pretty optimistic because he feels like he's in control of his future. Since Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion and growth, you're confident in your optimism and always look forward to whatever the next day brings, so this won't be a problem for you.\\nWhenever he's around, smile confidently and show him that you're really enjoying yourself. He'll be attracted to that because he'll feel like the two of you are on the same wavelength.\\nYour optimism and positivity also show when you talk about the future. Let him know that no matter what happens, you're always excited to start a new day.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Shower him with compliments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"With a Leo man, flattery really will get you everywhere.\", \"描述\": \"Leo men have the reputation for not just liking compliments, but practically needing them. He probably thinks he's awesome, but he also needs to hear it from you. Let him know that you appreciate everything that's great about him.\\nTry to compliment him on something that isn't obvious or that others wouldn't notice right away. That'll show him that you're really paying attention to him.\\nFor example, you might say, \\\"I'm impressed by how you remember a little something about everybody you talk to—the effort you put into getting to know people is pretty amazing!\\\"\\nWhile a Leo guy certainly has a reputation for being vain, you'll impress him more if you praise him for things he does rather than how he looks. At his core, he's hard-working with a strong work ethic and appreciates people who notice that.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Play a little hard to get.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Lions very much enjoy the thrill of the chase.\", \"描述\": \"Okay, so real lions typically prey on the weakest and slowest in a herd. But he's not a real lion, he's the storybook fantasy of a lion, the strong and powerful king of the jungle (real lions don't even live in jungles). He's not going to be interested in the women who are literally throwing themselves at his feet—he wants the one who plays it cool and barely seems to notice him at all.\\nYou still want to give him some signals that you're interested—just don't act like you need him. Keep a little distance and he'll feel like he's met his match.\\nKeep him interested with a few tidbits—a compliment here, a flirt there—and then sit back and let him come after you. He'll relish the challenge.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Invite him to join you at a hot new restaurant.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The typical Leo guy is all about a buzz-worthy fine dining experience.\", \"描述\": \"As a Sagittarius, you have a reputation for being a trendsetter, so you probably have the inside scoop on the next hotspot. Use it to your advantage to snag that luscious Leo you've got your eye on.\\nEven better if you can use inside connections to get a table at a place that's been booked for weeks. A Lion loves feeling like he's getting special treatment.\\nHe also loves to see and be seen, so a popular restaurant gives him the opportunity to do just that—while also being seen with you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Take him with you on an exciting adventure.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The active, fun-loving Leo is always ready to blaze new trails.\", \"描述\": \"Sagittarius is one of the most adventurous signs in the zodiac and with Leo you've found a great travel companion. He's up for anything that gives him the opportunity to challenge himself, meet new people, or try new and exotic things.\\nLeos have a reputation for wanting the finer things in life, but you don't have to break the bank to show him some excitement. A visit to a neighboring town he's never explored is really all you need.\\nDid you grow up in a different place than where you live now? Offer to give him a tour of your hometown—even if he's been there before, he'll be seeing it through different eyes with you.\\nCultural festivals and conventions also give you the opportunity to experience exotic new things without having to travel very far.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Share your feelings with him openly.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo appreciates when you feel safe being vulnerable with him.\", \"描述\": \"If he likes you, he wants you to feel comfortable with him. He's a protective guy, so it's important that you feel secure. When you open up about your feelings, that tells him that he makes you happy.\\nDeep down, Leos are pretty sensitive guys, so expect him to care for you and empathize with what you have to say, even if he doesn't completely understand.\\nTry to get him one-on-one before you start talking about emotional topics, though. 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2,779 | How to Attract a Leo Man As a Virgo Woman | 1. Make him feel like the center of attention.
Your Leo is a lion, so he commands recognition.
When he walks into the room, he expects everyone to notice and you're no exception. Make eye contact and listen when he speaks. Laugh at his jokes and keep your body language open.
Keep your arms uncrossed and lean in toward him. You can get his attention by casually touching his arm or brushing against his shoulder when you talk to him.
2. Show him that you’re curious about him.
Leos love answering questions about themselves.
Both Leos and Virgos are fantastic communicators, and asking questions is a good way to get a conversation going. He'll tell you all about himself, which makes him feel a connection with you.
You might ask lighthearted questions like, "What's something surprising that no one knows about you?" or, "If you could become an expert at anything, what would it be?"
3. Reveal your vulnerable side.
Your Leo man will appreciate the chance to protect you.
It makes him feel great knowing that he can look after you and support you, so go out of your way to ask for help or let your Leo know that you're struggling. He'll love being called to your rescue!
For instance, if you've got a flat tire, call him and tell him you don't know how to change it. He'll love the chance to swoop in and take care of you.
You can also show vulnerability with your emotions. Let him know when you're nervous, worried, or sad about something—maybe you're getting over a bad breakup. Your Leo guy would love to be a shoulder to cry on.
4. Let him sweep you off your feet.
Leos want to be the charming heroes of the zodiac.
In a way, Virgo is the perfect sign to be rescued. You probably love his romantic gestures and feeling cared for. Let him know that you appreciate his sweet gestures like taking you out for a romantic dinner at a luxurious restaurant or even a simple thing like opening the door for you.
Your Leo doesn't expect romantic gestures in return—he wants your thanks and appreciation.
5. Have intelligent conversations.
Let your Leo see that you're smart and confident.
Don't shy away from talking about challenging subjects. He'll be pleased that you can hold your own or force him to rethink his views. Virgos are known for their sharp intellect, so this shouldn't be a problem for you!
6. Flatter your Leo guy.
Compliment his great qualities so he feels appreciated.
As a Virgo, you might find it hard to pay compliments, but praise is vital to a Leo. He knows that he's a catch and he wants you to be aware of that, too! Make a point of paying him genuine compliments, especially about his appearance.
For instance, say, "I don't think you know good-looking you are," or, "I think you just distracted every woman in the room."
Be aware that Leos can sense dishonesty—false flattery will get you nowhere with him.
7. Have fun with him.
Leos have a wonderful playful side, so let your hair down.
Unfortunately, Virgos are often seen as pragmatic taskmasters. This doesn't have to be true! Show him that you can be silly and lighthearted, too. He'll love being surprised by this side of you.
For example, surprise him by suggesting a karaoke night or going out to a stand-up show. Better yet, get in touch with your inner child and go to an amusement park together.
8. Spend time on your appearance.
Leos are drawn to beauty, so look fabulous.
He'll want to show you off to his friends. After all, you're a catch and he's probably been boasting about you. Luxury and fashion are also important to Leos, so make an effort to really look your best. He'll notice!
Don't worry about being overdressed when you go out with a Leo. If anything, spend more time focusing on your grooming and accessories since he'll definitely notice.
9. Be trustworthy.
Your Leo man can be fiercely loyal if he trusts you.
This means no flirting with other guys! Show him that he’s the only man for you and he’ll love you for it. Remember, he wants to feel like he's the complete center of your universe.
Talk about the future together and prioritize your relationship, so he knows that you’re committed to him.
10. Give him space.
Your guy needs a little room to be himself.
It's in his nature to be social and flirty, which can sometimes rub you the wrong way since you're more reserved. Instead of trying to tie him down, give him the freedom to spend time with friends. He'll appreciate that you trust him and aren't trying to change him.
Space in the relationship is especially important if you two need to cool down. It’s better to walk away for a bit than to say something you might regret.
11. Appreciate him for who he is.
Leos don’t like feeling criticized.
Since you're detail-oriented and like things to be done a certain way, you might be tempted to point out things that he's not doing right. Resist this urge! Your Leo doesn't like being corrected, so learn to go with the flow and just accept him as he is.
If you're struggling to overlook something that bothers you, try focusing on things you love about your Leo. You might remind yourself that he's always there for you or he's fiercely protective.
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Reveal your vulnerable side.\\nYour Leo man will appreciate the chance to protect you.\\nIt makes him feel great knowing that he can look after you and support you, so go out of your way to ask for help or let your Leo know that you're struggling. He'll love being called to your rescue!\\nFor instance, if you've got a flat tire, call him and tell him you don't know how to change it. He'll love the chance to swoop in and take care of you.\\nYou can also show vulnerability with your emotions. Let him know when you're nervous, worried, or sad about something—maybe you're getting over a bad breakup. Your Leo guy would love to be a shoulder to cry on.\\n4. Let him sweep you off your feet.\\nLeos want to be the charming heroes of the zodiac.\\nIn a way, Virgo is the perfect sign to be rescued. You probably love his romantic gestures and feeling cared for. Let him know that you appreciate his sweet gestures like taking you out for a romantic dinner at a luxurious restaurant or even a simple thing like opening the door for you.\\nYour Leo doesn't expect romantic gestures in return—he wants your thanks and appreciation.\\n5. Have intelligent conversations.\\nLet your Leo see that you're smart and confident.\\nDon't shy away from talking about challenging subjects. He'll be pleased that you can hold your own or force him to rethink his views. Virgos are known for their sharp intellect, so this shouldn't be a problem for you!\\n6. Flatter your Leo guy.\\nCompliment his great qualities so he feels appreciated.\\nAs a Virgo, you might find it hard to pay compliments, but praise is vital to a Leo. He knows that he's a catch and he wants you to be aware of that, too! Make a point of paying him genuine compliments, especially about his appearance.\\nFor instance, say, \\\"I don't think you know good-looking you are,\\\" or, \\\"I think you just distracted every woman in the room.\\\"\\nBe aware that Leos can sense dishonesty—false flattery will get you nowhere with him.\\n7. Have fun with him.\\nLeos have a wonderful playful side, so let your hair down.\\nUnfortunately, Virgos are often seen as pragmatic taskmasters. This doesn't have to be true! Show him that you can be silly and lighthearted, too. He'll love being surprised by this side of you.\\nFor example, surprise him by suggesting a karaoke night or going out to a stand-up show. Better yet, get in touch with your inner child and go to an amusement park together.\\n8. Spend time on your appearance.\\nLeos are drawn to beauty, so look fabulous.\\nHe'll want to show you off to his friends. After all, you're a catch and he's probably been boasting about you. Luxury and fashion are also important to Leos, so make an effort to really look your best. He'll notice!\\nDon't worry about being overdressed when you go out with a Leo. If anything, spend more time focusing on your grooming and accessories since he'll definitely notice.\\n9. Be trustworthy.\\nYour Leo man can be fiercely loyal if he trusts you.\\nThis means no flirting with other guys! Show him that he’s the only man for you and he’ll love you for it. Remember, he wants to feel like he's the complete center of your universe.\\nTalk about the future together and prioritize your relationship, so he knows that you’re committed to him.\\n10. Give him space.\\nYour guy needs a little room to be himself.\\nIt's in his nature to be social and flirty, which can sometimes rub you the wrong way since you're more reserved. Instead of trying to tie him down, give him the freedom to spend time with friends. 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You're probably drawn to this Leo's charisma and outgoing nature, but you may be wondering how to catch his eye, especially since you're more reserved. Fortunately, you can attract him with your intellect and precision. You'll be rewarded with a balanced relationship that suits you both.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make him feel like the center of attention.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Leo is a lion, so he commands recognition.\", \"描述\": \"When he walks into the room, he expects everyone to notice and you're no exception. Make eye contact and listen when he speaks. Laugh at his jokes and keep your body language open.\\nKeep your arms uncrossed and lean in toward him. 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2,780 | How to Attract a Leo Man as an Aries Woman: 11 Flirting Tips | 1. Shower him with compliments.
A Leo loves to be praised and adored.
He's so motivated by this that nearly everything he does revolves around his potential to be admired as a result. Aries women are known for their directness, so you won't hesitate to tell him all the things you love about him. Of course, you enjoy compliments as well, and you'll get plenty of them from your generous Lion. You can be sure that he's into you if he compliments you frequently.
Compliment his actions and behavior to really appeal to him—even better if you can mention the effect he had on others. For example, you might say, "You did such an amazing job of telling that story—everyone at dinner was hanging on your every word!"
If he brags about you to his friends and shows you off to people, that's another indication that he's totally smitten.
2. Flaunt your trendy fashion sense.
Leos tend to be flashy dressers who stay on top of the latest fashion.
Aries women are known for being the first to spot new trends and jump on them. If there's one man who will appreciate your effort to stay on the cutting edge of fashion, it's Leo. When he sees how fresh you always dress, he'll want to keep you by his side.
Go for bright, bold, and regal colors to attract a Lion. A bright orange dress with chunky gold accessories will draw him in.
On a cold day, a regal purple scarf that sets off your eyes will draw his attention to your face.
Aries women are also known for having an accessory game that's on point—that bling is sure to win you favors where Leo is concerned. Anything that sparkles will always draw his eye.
3. Give him your undivided attention.
Leo men need to have the spotlight shining on them all the time.
His ruling planet is the Sun, and like the Sun, he wants his universe to revolve around him. As a loyal and passionate Aries woman, you want to put him at the center of your world. You'll have no problem focusing on him when the two of you are together.
The easiest way to do this is to put your phone on silent when you're with him and store it out of sight—in your pocket or purse. This tells him that anyone else who wants your attention can wait and he'll love that you're completely focused on him.
4. Tell him how you feel.
A Leo will appreciate it if you're direct about your feelings.
As an Aries woman, you're naturally going to tell people how you feel about them—you're not going to hold back. You don't have to go overboard here, but your favorite Leo will definitely start looking at you differently if you tell him exactly what's on your mind.
You might say, "I know you have a ton of admirers, but I doubt any of them thinks as highly of you as I do."
If you want to appeal to his ego (and he'll love that), you might say, "I think you're the greatest man I've ever laid eyes on. Wanna go out sometime?"
As a Cardinal sign, you excel at starting things off. Leo, on the other hand, is a fixed sign, which means he's great in the middle. Tell him how you feel and he won't hesitate to pick up that ball and keep things rolling.
5. Show him that you have a life of your own.
A Lion doesn't want to feel like he's responsible for your happiness.
Hearing "you complete me" might make a Leo guy run in the opposite direction. He wants a partner who's already complete without him because she has her own interests and life goals. As a confident and independent Ram, you have no problem demonstrating that you've built a full life for yourself.
Tell him your life or career goals and he'll realize that you're not going to be looking to him for fulfillment. This will help him relax and feel more comfortable around you.
It also helps if you're a busy person, which Aries women tend to be. You don't always respond to all of his texts immediately, so he knows you're not just sitting around waiting for him.
6. Be physically affectionate with him.
A Leo guy is all about public displays of affection.
For a Lion, public life is a performance to impress others. You can be sure that if he likes you, he'll want the world to know. Aries women aren't shy, so put yourself out there—he'll be thrilled that you have no qualms about claiming him.
If the two of you are sitting somewhere together, you might casually drape your arm over his lap or squeeze his thigh.
When you're standing together, keep your arm around his back or looped through his arm.
7. Draw him out with a little verbal sparring.
Lions love opinionated women who stand their ground.
He'll be charmed within minutes if you spark a little friendly debate with him. You're both competitive and, as an Aries, you have no problem playing devil's advocate for the sake of a good debate. This might sometimes be necessary since the two of you are both Fire signs and have a lot in common.
You might bring up current events or politics to start a good passionate discussion.
If the two of you are both fans of the same film franchise or TV series, bring up a recent fandom controversy to stir things up a bit.
8. Invite him to a big party or group hangout.
A Lion loves being surrounded by people who like him.
As an energetic and extroverted Aries, you feel right at home in large groups—and so does your favorite Leo. There's no better way to attract him than to invite him out to a large gathering where there will be plenty of people he can entertain.
If the weather's nice, you might host a BBQ in your backyard or at a local park. Make sure there's plenty of food and drink as well as games so the party can last for hours.
Bring people together for a pub crawl or dance party that can last into the wee hours.
9. Play games and sports together.
Both of you love a little friendly competition.
Leo's active playfulness comes out when you're competing for a prize. For you, Aries, it might be a little more serious. Ruled by the planet Mars, you're a real warrior who will stop at nothing to win every battle. When the two of you step toe-to-toe, be ready for some excitement!
For example, you might challenge him to a game of one-on-one basketball or soccer.
Meet up at a driving range or batting cage for another fun and competitive date.
You usually like to win more than anything, but if he wins, it might not be that big of a deal. As much as you like winning, you also tend to prefer being with a guy who's stronger than you are.
10. Plan active, adventurous dates.
A Leo never shies away from an opportunity to be brave.
You're both daring adventurers with energy to burn. If you invite him to go sky-diving or cliff-jumping with you, he'll feel like you're speaking his language.
If you prefer less of an adrenaline rush, a hike through unfamiliar terrain can also be a thrilling adventure.
He's up for exploring exotic places as well. What could be more adventurous than backpacking through Southeast Asia?
11. Let him take the lead from time to time.
Your Lion will get frustrated if he's never in charge.
You both want to be in charge and this can ultimately cause you to butt heads. And since you're both competitive people, you tend to fight over the leadership role in the relationship—let the best one win. While this can work out just fine, it's also good to let him take the reins in specific areas just to keep things balanced.
As you get to know him, you'll start to see what he gravitates toward. For example, if he's very particular about food, he might prefer to choose the restaurant. Something as simple as asking him where he wants to eat can make all the difference.
Don't be afraid to bargain with him as well. You might say, "You can pick where we eat tonight, but only if I'm allowed to pick the movie. Deal?"
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Shower him with compliments.\\nA Leo loves to be praised and adored.\\nHe's so motivated by this that nearly everything he does revolves around his potential to be admired as a result. Aries women are known for their directness, so you won't hesitate to tell him all the things you love about him. Of course, you enjoy compliments as well, and you'll get plenty of them from your generous Lion. You can be sure that he's into you if he compliments you frequently.\\nCompliment his actions and behavior to really appeal to him—even better if you can mention the effect he had on others. For example, you might say, \\\"You did such an amazing job of telling that story—everyone at dinner was hanging on your every word!\\\"\\nIf he brags about you to his friends and shows you off to people, that's another indication that he's totally smitten.\\n2. Flaunt your trendy fashion sense.\\nLeos tend to be flashy dressers who stay on top of the latest fashion.\\nAries women are known for being the first to spot new trends and jump on them. If there's one man who will appreciate your effort to stay on the cutting edge of fashion, it's Leo. When he sees how fresh you always dress, he'll want to keep you by his side.\\nGo for bright, bold, and regal colors to attract a Lion. A bright orange dress with chunky gold accessories will draw him in.\\nOn a cold day, a regal purple scarf that sets off your eyes will draw his attention to your face.\\nAries women are also known for having an accessory game that's on point—that bling is sure to win you favors where Leo is concerned. Anything that sparkles will always draw his eye.\\n3. Give him your undivided attention.\\nLeo men need to have the spotlight shining on them all the time.\\nHis ruling planet is the Sun, and like the Sun, he wants his universe to revolve around him. As a loyal and passionate Aries woman, you want to put him at the center of your world. You'll have no problem focusing on him when the two of you are together.\\nThe easiest way to do this is to put your phone on silent when you're with him and store it out of sight—in your pocket or purse. This tells him that anyone else who wants your attention can wait and he'll love that you're completely focused on him.\\n4. Tell him how you feel.\\nA Leo will appreciate it if you're direct about your feelings.\\nAs an Aries woman, you're naturally going to tell people how you feel about them—you're not going to hold back. You don't have to go overboard here, but your favorite Leo will definitely start looking at you differently if you tell him exactly what's on your mind.\\nYou might say, \\\"I know you have a ton of admirers, but I doubt any of them thinks as highly of you as I do.\\\"\\nIf you want to appeal to his ego (and he'll love that), you might say, \\\"I think you're the greatest man I've ever laid eyes on. Wanna go out sometime?\\\"\\nAs a Cardinal sign, you excel at starting things off. Leo, on the other hand, is a fixed sign, which means he's great in the middle. Tell him how you feel and he won't hesitate to pick up that ball and keep things rolling.\\n5. Show him that you have a life of your own.\\nA Lion doesn't want to feel like he's responsible for your happiness.\\nHearing \\\"you complete me\\\" might make a Leo guy run in the opposite direction. He wants a partner who's already complete without him because she has her own interests and life goals. As a confident and independent Ram, you have no problem demonstrating that you've built a full life for yourself.\\nTell him your life or career goals and he'll realize that you're not going to be looking to him for fulfillment. This will help him relax and feel more comfortable around you.\\nIt also helps if you're a busy person, which Aries women tend to be. You don't always respond to all of his texts immediately, so he knows you're not just sitting around waiting for him.\\n6. Be physically affectionate with him.\\nA Leo guy is all about public displays of affection.\\nFor a Lion, public life is a performance to impress others. You can be sure that if he likes you, he'll want the world to know. Aries women aren't shy, so put yourself out there—he'll be thrilled that you have no qualms about claiming him.\\nIf the two of you are sitting somewhere together, you might casually drape your arm over his lap or squeeze his thigh.\\nWhen you're standing together, keep your arm around his back or looped through his arm.\\n7. Draw him out with a little verbal sparring.\\nLions love opinionated women who stand their ground.\\nHe'll be charmed within minutes if you spark a little friendly debate with him. You're both competitive and, as an Aries, you have no problem playing devil's advocate for the sake of a good debate. This might sometimes be necessary since the two of you are both Fire signs and have a lot in common.\\nYou might bring up current events or politics to start a good passionate discussion.\\nIf the two of you are both fans of the same film franchise or TV series, bring up a recent fandom controversy to stir things up a bit.\\n8. Invite him to a big party or group hangout.\\nA Lion loves being surrounded by people who like him.\\nAs an energetic and extroverted Aries, you feel right at home in large groups—and so does your favorite Leo. There's no better way to attract him than to invite him out to a large gathering where there will be plenty of people he can entertain.\\nIf the weather's nice, you might host a BBQ in your backyard or at a local park. Make sure there's plenty of food and drink as well as games so the party can last for hours.\\nBring people together for a pub crawl or dance party that can last into the wee hours.\\n9. Play games and sports together.\\nBoth of you love a little friendly competition.\\nLeo's active playfulness comes out when you're competing for a prize. For you, Aries, it might be a little more serious. Ruled by the planet Mars, you're a real warrior who will stop at nothing to win every battle. When the two of you step toe-to-toe, be ready for some excitement!\\nFor example, you might challenge him to a game of one-on-one basketball or soccer.\\nMeet up at a driving range or batting cage for another fun and competitive date.\\nYou usually like to win more than anything, but if he wins, it might not be that big of a deal. As much as you like winning, you also tend to prefer being with a guy who's stronger than you are.\\n10. Plan active, adventurous dates.\\nA Leo never shies away from an opportunity to be brave.\\nYou're both daring adventurers with energy to burn. If you invite him to go sky-diving or cliff-jumping with you, he'll feel like you're speaking his language.\\nIf you prefer less of an adrenaline rush, a hike through unfamiliar terrain can also be a thrilling adventure.\\nHe's up for exploring exotic places as well. What could be more adventurous than backpacking through Southeast Asia?\\n11. Let him take the lead from time to time.\\nYour Lion will get frustrated if he's never in charge.\\nYou both want to be in charge and this can ultimately cause you to butt heads. And since you're both competitive people, you tend to fight over the leadership role in the relationship—let the best one win. While this can work out just fine, it's also good to let him take the reins in specific areas just to keep things balanced.\\nAs you get to know him, you'll start to see what he gravitates toward. For example, if he's very particular about food, he might prefer to choose the restaurant. Something as simple as asking him where he wants to eat can make all the difference.\\nDon't be afraid to bargain with him as well. You might say, \\\"You can pick where we eat tonight, but only if I'm allowed to pick the movie. Deal?\\\"\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you're an Aries woman who's got your heart set on a Leo man, get ready for some fireworks! You two Fire signs have passionate energy and a raw vitality that's sure to ignite when you get together. Sure, you might butt heads from time to time—but competition for you is foreplay. Read on to learn everything you need to know to rise above the crowd and stand side-by-side with the lively Lion of your dreams.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Shower him with compliments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo loves to be praised and adored.\", \"描述\": \"He's so motivated by this that nearly everything he does revolves around his potential to be admired as a result. Aries women are known for their directness, so you won't hesitate to tell him all the things you love about him. Of course, you enjoy compliments as well, and you'll get plenty of them from your generous Lion. You can be sure that he's into you if he compliments you frequently.\\nCompliment his actions and behavior to really appeal to him—even better if you can mention the effect he had on others. For example, you might say, \\\"You did such an amazing job of telling that story—everyone at dinner was hanging on your every word!\\\"\\nIf he brags about you to his friends and shows you off to people, that's another indication that he's totally smitten.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Flaunt your trendy fashion sense.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos tend to be flashy dressers who stay on top of the latest fashion.\", \"描述\": \"Aries women are known for being the first to spot new trends and jump on them. If there's one man who will appreciate your effort to stay on the cutting edge of fashion, it's Leo. When he sees how fresh you always dress, he'll want to keep you by his side.\\nGo for bright, bold, and regal colors to attract a Lion. A bright orange dress with chunky gold accessories will draw him in.\\nOn a cold day, a regal purple scarf that sets off your eyes will draw his attention to your face.\\nAries women are also known for having an accessory game that's on point—that bling is sure to win you favors where Leo is concerned. Anything that sparkles will always draw his eye.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give him your undivided attention.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leo men need to have the spotlight shining on them all the time.\", \"描述\": \"His ruling planet is the Sun, and like the Sun, he wants his universe to revolve around him. As a loyal and passionate Aries woman, you want to put him at the center of your world. You'll have no problem focusing on him when the two of you are together.\\nThe easiest way to do this is to put your phone on silent when you're with him and store it out of sight—in your pocket or purse. This tells him that anyone else who wants your attention can wait and he'll love that you're completely focused on him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Tell him how you feel.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo will appreciate it if you're direct about your feelings.\", \"描述\": \"As an Aries woman, you're naturally going to tell people how you feel about them—you're not going to hold back. You don't have to go overboard here, but your favorite Leo will definitely start looking at you differently if you tell him exactly what's on your mind.\\nYou might say, \\\"I know you have a ton of admirers, but I doubt any of them thinks as highly of you as I do.\\\"\\nIf you want to appeal to his ego (and he'll love that), you might say, \\\"I think you're the greatest man I've ever laid eyes on. Wanna go out sometime?\\\"\\nAs a Cardinal sign, you excel at starting things off. Leo, on the other hand, is a fixed sign, which means he's great in the middle. 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2,781 | How to Attract a Leo Man Sexually | 1. Dazzle him with your confidence and charisma.
Leos are attracted to bold and charming personalities.
Play up your sociability and confidence to become extra appealing to this fire sign. Typically, a Leo man hates having his spotlight stolen. But when he finds someone that he deems equally worthy of an audience, his attraction goes through the roof. When you're at a party together, make sure everyone's eyes are on you.
Run the room. Tell jokes to the group, greet everyone at the party, kill it on the dancefloor, and just generally be a ton of fun.
Project confidence when the two of you interact. Hold your Leo crush’s gaze, maintain great posture, and use hand gestures while you speak.
2. Make him chase you.
The longer you let the tension brew, the more exciting it'll be to hook up.
A Leo man will definitely want to pursue his crush, so make sure you ruffle his curiosity, then sit back and wait for him to follow up. Let the anticipation build to drive this energetic, amorous Leo man completely wild.
First, grab his interest. Send him a flirty text, approach him at a party, or tell a friend you think he’s cute (then have that friend "let it slip" to your Leo crush).
Next, pull your attention back. Wait a few hours to respond to his texts, flirt with another party attendee, or duck out of your conversation with him early.
Now, wait for him to chase you. By playing hard to get, you’ll have him completely charmed.
3. Compliment his appearance.
Leos want to feel worshiped, flattered, and totally adored.
Leos take great pride in their appearance—so to become irresistible to him, compliment his looks. Let every positive comment that pops into your head fly, because with a Leo, you can't really go overboard. Use flattery to grab his attention or to make sex even more exciting. For inspiration, study his face and body.
“You’re ridiculously hot. I can’t believe how muscular your arms are! I'm so into it.”
“I’m so attracted to you. Your smile makes me feel completely weak in the knees.”
“I love your broad chest. Your body really turns me on.”
4. Praise him for his sexual abilities.
If a Leo knows that he’s turning you on, that’ll turn him on.
He wants to feel like he’s absolutely top-tier in bed, so assure him that that’s the case and he’ll be completely obsessed. Whenever he does something that makes you feel great, tell him. Go all out with your flattery, because a Leo man feels most sexually attracted when he's sure his partner thinks he's god-like between the sheets.
"You’re the best kisser of anyone I’ve ever been with.”
“I can’t believe how good you are at this.”
“You touch me exactly how I want to be touched. How do you know how to do that so well?”
5. Give him a back massage.
According to astrology, Leos are especially in touch with sensations on their back.
To spice up your sexual experience, use that to your benefit. Offer him a back massage to get him totally in the mood. Incorporate the massage as foreplay or aftercare. Either way, this is sure to have your Leo crush in the palm of your hand.
“Hey, here's a thought. Before we have sex, could I offer you a quick back massage? I learned this great technique from a friend last year.”
“That was so fun. I’d love to make you feel taken care of right now. What would you say if I offered you a quick back massage?”
6. Be playful in bed.
As a fire sign, a Leo loves their life to feel silly and lighthearted.
Yes, it's important to turn up the passion and focus intently on one another. But to really thrill a Leo man in bed, incorporate some frisky jokes and play-fighting as well. Get playful in bed and you'll become that much more attractive to your Leo crush.
Try a little light teasing. “What are you doing all the way on the other side of the room? Are you scared or something?”
Playfully bite his arm. Make sure this is a light bite. When he looks at you in surprise, just smile back to create a silly mood.
Include play-fighting and wrestling to spice things up during foreplay.
7. Let him take the lead.
Leos love to be in the driver's seat, especially during sex.
Let him choose the positions and call the shots. He may even want to experiment with “domination” and power play. Following another person’s lead in bed can be an extremely fun, freeing experience—so if you're interested, try it out with him.
Talk through the decision to try power play together. Discuss honestly and without judgment.
Create a safe word. Choose a word that you wouldn't normally say during sex, like "hat." During sex, if one of you says "hat," you stop immediately.
Continue to check in on how both of you are feeling during your hookup. Ongoing consent is an absolute must.
8. Show how passionate you are.
Leos love to see you excited, so bites, scratches, and kisses are great.
Men of this sign go crazy for enthusiasm and intensity in their partners because they themselves are thought to be like energetic, sultry "big cats" in bed. Make it clear that you're feeling wildly passionate with him, and he’ll naturally match that energy. Lightly pull his hair, kiss his neck, or scratch his back to raise the sexual ante.
Before he communicates his likes and dislikes, keep your touches light.
Ask him directly what he enjoys most. Should you scratch harder, bite lighter, or touch him in a certain place?
If he expresses hesitancy or an outright dislike for anything you do, stop immediately.
9. Talk dirty to him.
Leos love communication, so steamy comments will excite him.
Wait for him to initiate the dirty talk because Leo men want to be in charge. Once he's started, go for detailed and explicit comments. There's no need to stress about saying the perfect thing. As long as you're expressing your passion, he'll be thrilled. When in doubt, describe your sexual encounter in detail:
Talk about what he’s doing.
Talk about what you’re doing.
Explain what you’re feeling.
Talk through what you’d like to do.
Talk through any physical sensations in your body or signs of physical arousal you see on his body.
10. Switch things up constantly.
As a fire sign, Leos love spontaneity and variety, even in their sex lives.
This is a sign that constantly seeks new horizons—or with sex, new positions. To be completely irresistible to a Leo man, keep him on his toes and be the sexual partner that he can never quite predict. Incorporate new settings, new kinds of foreplay, new techniques, and new toys into your hookups as often as you can.
Meet up in a fancy hotel room. Drink champagne, eat delicious chocolates, and spend all day in your robes.
Dabble in new sexual experiences. Try role-play, stripteases, and temperature play.
Use sex toys to spice things up. The two of you could visit your local sex shop and pick out a vibrator that you’re both excited about.
11. Take your hookup outdoors.
Leos are wild at heart, and they’ll love having scenery to match.
When the two of you feel comfortable together, ask your Leo crush if he’d like to try hooking up in a new, exciting (outdoor!) location. Invite him on a camping trip in a beautiful, remote spot. He’ll be thrilled to be connected to the elements, and he’ll also be attracted to how open and adventurous you are.
“Hey, I was thinking…maybe we could take a camping trip up to McGregor next weekend? I feel like we’d have fun together outdoors...”
“What would you say to a camping trip around Big Sur this weekend? I could pack that outfit you love…”
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Dazzle him with your confidence and charisma.\\nLeos are attracted to bold and charming personalities.\\nPlay up your sociability and confidence to become extra appealing to this fire sign. Typically, a Leo man hates having his spotlight stolen. But when he finds someone that he deems equally worthy of an audience, his attraction goes through the roof. When you're at a party together, make sure everyone's eyes are on you.\\nRun the room. Tell jokes to the group, greet everyone at the party, kill it on the dancefloor, and just generally be a ton of fun.\\nProject confidence when the two of you interact. Hold your Leo crush’s gaze, maintain great posture, and use hand gestures while you speak.\\n2. Make him chase you.\\nThe longer you let the tension brew, the more exciting it'll be to hook up.\\nA Leo man will definitely want to pursue his crush, so make sure you ruffle his curiosity, then sit back and wait for him to follow up. Let the anticipation build to drive this energetic, amorous Leo man completely wild.\\nFirst, grab his interest. Send him a flirty text, approach him at a party, or tell a friend you think he’s cute (then have that friend \\\"let it slip\\\" to your Leo crush).\\nNext, pull your attention back. Wait a few hours to respond to his texts, flirt with another party attendee, or duck out of your conversation with him early.\\nNow, wait for him to chase you. By playing hard to get, you’ll have him completely charmed.\\n3. Compliment his appearance.\\nLeos want to feel worshiped, flattered, and totally adored.\\nLeos take great pride in their appearance—so to become irresistible to him, compliment his looks. Let every positive comment that pops into your head fly, because with a Leo, you can't really go overboard. Use flattery to grab his attention or to make sex even more exciting. For inspiration, study his face and body.\\n“You’re ridiculously hot. I can’t believe how muscular your arms are! I'm so into it.”\\n“I’m so attracted to you. Your smile makes me feel completely weak in the knees.”\\n“I love your broad chest. Your body really turns me on.”\\n4. Praise him for his sexual abilities.\\nIf a Leo knows that he’s turning you on, that’ll turn him on.\\nHe wants to feel like he’s absolutely top-tier in bed, so assure him that that’s the case and he’ll be completely obsessed. Whenever he does something that makes you feel great, tell him. Go all out with your flattery, because a Leo man feels most sexually attracted when he's sure his partner thinks he's god-like between the sheets.\\n\\\"You’re the best kisser of anyone I’ve ever been with.”\\n“I can’t believe how good you are at this.”\\n“You touch me exactly how I want to be touched. How do you know how to do that so well?”\\n5. Give him a back massage.\\nAccording to astrology, Leos are especially in touch with sensations on their back.\\nTo spice up your sexual experience, use that to your benefit. Offer him a back massage to get him totally in the mood. Incorporate the massage as foreplay or aftercare. Either way, this is sure to have your Leo crush in the palm of your hand.\\n“Hey, here's a thought. Before we have sex, could I offer you a quick back massage? I learned this great technique from a friend last year.”\\n“That was so fun. I’d love to make you feel taken care of right now. What would you say if I offered you a quick back massage?”\\n6. Be playful in bed.\\nAs a fire sign, a Leo loves their life to feel silly and lighthearted.\\nYes, it's important to turn up the passion and focus intently on one another. But to really thrill a Leo man in bed, incorporate some frisky jokes and play-fighting as well. Get playful in bed and you'll become that much more attractive to your Leo crush.\\nTry a little light teasing. “What are you doing all the way on the other side of the room? Are you scared or something?”\\nPlayfully bite his arm. Make sure this is a light bite. When he looks at you in surprise, just smile back to create a silly mood.\\nInclude play-fighting and wrestling to spice things up during foreplay.\\n7. Let him take the lead.\\nLeos love to be in the driver's seat, especially during sex.\\nLet him choose the positions and call the shots. He may even want to experiment with “domination” and power play. Following another person’s lead in bed can be an extremely fun, freeing experience—so if you're interested, try it out with him.\\nTalk through the decision to try power play together. Discuss honestly and without judgment.\\nCreate a safe word. Choose a word that you wouldn't normally say during sex, like \\\"hat.\\\" During sex, if one of you says \\\"hat,\\\" you stop immediately.\\nContinue to check in on how both of you are feeling during your hookup. Ongoing consent is an absolute must.\\n8. Show how passionate you are.\\nLeos love to see you excited, so bites, scratches, and kisses are great.\\nMen of this sign go crazy for enthusiasm and intensity in their partners because they themselves are thought to be like energetic, sultry \\\"big cats\\\" in bed. Make it clear that you're feeling wildly passionate with him, and he’ll naturally match that energy. Lightly pull his hair, kiss his neck, or scratch his back to raise the sexual ante.\\nBefore he communicates his likes and dislikes, keep your touches light.\\nAsk him directly what he enjoys most. Should you scratch harder, bite lighter, or touch him in a certain place?\\nIf he expresses hesitancy or an outright dislike for anything you do, stop immediately.\\n9. Talk dirty to him.\\nLeos love communication, so steamy comments will excite him.\\nWait for him to initiate the dirty talk because Leo men want to be in charge. Once he's started, go for detailed and explicit comments. There's no need to stress about saying the perfect thing. As long as you're expressing your passion, he'll be thrilled. When in doubt, describe your sexual encounter in detail:\\nTalk about what he’s doing.\\nTalk about what you’re doing.\\nExplain what you’re feeling.\\nTalk through what you’d like to do.\\nTalk through any physical sensations in your body or signs of physical arousal you see on his body.\\n10. Switch things up constantly.\\nAs a fire sign, Leos love spontaneity and variety, even in their sex lives.\\nThis is a sign that constantly seeks new horizons—or with sex, new positions. To be completely irresistible to a Leo man, keep him on his toes and be the sexual partner that he can never quite predict. Incorporate new settings, new kinds of foreplay, new techniques, and new toys into your hookups as often as you can.\\nMeet up in a fancy hotel room. Drink champagne, eat delicious chocolates, and spend all day in your robes.\\nDabble in new sexual experiences. Try role-play, stripteases, and temperature play.\\nUse sex toys to spice things up. The two of you could visit your local sex shop and pick out a vibrator that you’re both excited about.\\n11. Take your hookup outdoors.\\nLeos are wild at heart, and they’ll love having scenery to match.\\nWhen the two of you feel comfortable together, ask your Leo crush if he’d like to try hooking up in a new, exciting (outdoor!) location. Invite him on a camping trip in a beautiful, remote spot. He’ll be thrilled to be connected to the elements, and he’ll also be attracted to how open and adventurous you are.\\n“Hey, I was thinking…maybe we could take a camping trip up to McGregor next weekend? I feel like we’d have fun together outdoors...”\\n“What would you say to a camping trip around Big Sur this weekend? I could pack that outfit you love…”\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you've got your eye on a smokin' hot Leo man, you may be wondering what he's like between the sheets (and how you can end up there with him!). Luckily, a Leo's tastes aren't hard to understand. So don't stress. We'll offer all the pointers you need to get his pulse racing. From the moves that'll drive him wild to his secret desires in bed, read on to discover how to attract a Leo man sexually.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Dazzle him with your confidence and charisma.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos are attracted to bold and charming personalities.\", \"描述\": \"Play up your sociability and confidence to become extra appealing to this fire sign. Typically, a Leo man hates having his spotlight stolen. But when he finds someone that he deems equally worthy of an audience, his attraction goes through the roof. When you're at a party together, make sure everyone's eyes are on you.\\nRun the room. Tell jokes to the group, greet everyone at the party, kill it on the dancefloor, and just generally be a ton of fun.\\nProject confidence when the two of you interact. Hold your Leo crush’s gaze, maintain great posture, and use hand gestures while you speak.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make him chase you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The longer you let the tension brew, the more exciting it'll be to hook up.\", \"描述\": \"A Leo man will definitely want to pursue his crush, so make sure you ruffle his curiosity, then sit back and wait for him to follow up. Let the anticipation build to drive this energetic, amorous Leo man completely wild.\\nFirst, grab his interest. Send him a flirty text, approach him at a party, or tell a friend you think he’s cute (then have that friend \\\"let it slip\\\" to your Leo crush).\\nNext, pull your attention back. Wait a few hours to respond to his texts, flirt with another party attendee, or duck out of your conversation with him early.\\nNow, wait for him to chase you. By playing hard to get, you’ll have him completely charmed.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Compliment his appearance.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos want to feel worshiped, flattered, and totally adored.\", \"描述\": \"Leos take great pride in their appearance—so to become irresistible to him, compliment his looks. Let every positive comment that pops into your head fly, because with a Leo, you can't really go overboard. Use flattery to grab his attention or to make sex even more exciting. For inspiration, study his face and body.\\n“You’re ridiculously hot. I can’t believe how muscular your arms are! I'm so into it.”\\n“I’m so attracted to you. Your smile makes me feel completely weak in the knees.”\\n“I love your broad chest. Your body really turns me on.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Praise him for his sexual abilities.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"If a Leo knows that he’s turning you on, that’ll turn him on.\", \"描述\": \"He wants to feel like he’s absolutely top-tier in bed, so assure him that that’s the case and he’ll be completely obsessed. Whenever he does something that makes you feel great, tell him. Go all out with your flattery, because a Leo man feels most sexually attracted when he's sure his partner thinks he's god-like between the sheets.\\n\\\"You’re the best kisser of anyone I’ve ever been with.”\\n“I can’t believe how good you are at this.”\\n“You touch me exactly how I want to be touched. How do you know how to do that so well?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give him a back massage.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"According to astrology, Leos are especially in touch with sensations on their back.\", \"描述\": \"To spice up your sexual experience, use that to your benefit. Offer him a back massage to get him totally in the mood. Incorporate the massage as foreplay or aftercare. Either way, this is sure to have your Leo crush in the palm of your hand.\\n“Hey, here's a thought. Before we have sex, could I offer you a quick back massage? I learned this great technique from a friend last year.”\\n“That was so fun. I’d love to make you feel taken care of right now. What would you say if I offered you a quick back massage?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Be playful in bed.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"As a fire sign, a Leo loves their life to feel silly and lighthearted.\", \"描述\": \"Yes, it's important to turn up the passion and focus intently on one another. But to really thrill a Leo man in bed, incorporate some frisky jokes and play-fighting as well. Get playful in bed and you'll become that much more attractive to your Leo crush.\\nTry a little light teasing. “What are you doing all the way on the other side of the room? Are you scared or something?”\\nPlayfully bite his arm. Make sure this is a light bite. When he looks at you in surprise, just smile back to create a silly mood.\\nInclude play-fighting and wrestling to spice things up during foreplay.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Let him take the lead.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos love to be in the driver's seat, especially during sex.\", \"描述\": \"Let him choose the positions and call the shots. He may even want to experiment with “domination” and power play. Following another person’s lead in bed can be an extremely fun, freeing experience—so if you're interested, try it out with him.\\nTalk through the decision to try power play together. Discuss honestly and without judgment.\\nCreate a safe word. Choose a word that you wouldn't normally say during sex, like \\\"hat.\\\" During sex, if one of you says \\\"hat,\\\" you stop immediately.\\nContinue to check in on how both of you are feeling during your hookup. Ongoing consent is an absolute must.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Show how passionate you are.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leos love to see you excited, so bites, scratches, and kisses are great.\", \"描述\": \"Men of this sign go crazy for enthusiasm and intensity in their partners because they themselves are thought to be like energetic, sultry \\\"big cats\\\" in bed. Make it clear that you're feeling wildly passionate with him, and he’ll naturally match that energy. Lightly pull his hair, kiss his neck, or scratch his back to raise the sexual ante.\\nBefore he communicates his likes and dislikes, keep your touches light.\\nAsk him directly what he enjoys most. 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2,782 | How to Attract a Leo Virgo Cusp Man | 1. Be his friend.
Leo-Virgo cuspers prefer to start with friendship.
He values loyalty, compassion, and, most of all, friendship. Being his friend first will help him open up to you in the long run, as his Virgo side may be shy at first. The more comfortable he is around you, the likelier he is to approach you! Try asking him some of these questions to build a solid friendship:
"How would you describe your perfect day?"
"What are three interesting things about you?”
"Who comes to mind when you think of success?"
"What characteristics do you look for in a good friend?"
2. Stay organized and punctual.
This Cusp man wants someone as put together as he is.
The 6th House rules his Virgo sign, governing his value for routine and order. This practical and analytical side wins out in the end, especially when it comes to his daily life. If you're really looking to attract him, try doing something like:
Creating a color-coded schedule.
Arriving a few minutes early to meet him.
Organize your pantry by food group.
Make your bed in the morning.
3. Dress to impress.
The Virgo in him will swoon at a put-together appearance.
Respectable Virgo is looking for someone they can proudly show off, and confident Leo is eyeing whoever stands out from the crowd. You can appeal both sides of a Leo-Virgo Cusp man’s personality by dressing up for each and every occasion.
Send a pic of a new outfit asking for his opinion.
Ask him what the dress code is before going on a date or attending an event together.
Stay true to your style no matter what! Your confidence will shine if you like what you're wearing, and he's bound to notice.
4. Give him your undivided attention.
This Cusp man needs a partner who's an active listener.
He has a lot to say, and he craves any and all attention. He wants to be the center of your world, so show him you care by always listening attentively. Here are some ways you can show him you're listening:
Move away from distractions to focus on him.
Hold eye contact with him.
Ask him further questions.
Repeat what he's said to you.
5. Be open and honest with him.
Communication and connection are very important to a Leo-Virgo Cusp man.
As a Leo, he has a fixed mode, meaning he's insanely loyal. As a Virgo, he also has a mutable modality, which means he's flexible and adaptable. You can appeal to both of these modalities by being truthful with him. Being comfortable enough in his presence to open up to him is a great way to attract him.
He wants to be loyal, but he can only do that through honest communication.
Once he knows what makes you tick, he can adapt and cater to your needs.
6. Keep your eyes on him and only him.
A Leo-Virgo Cusp man is searching for a loyal partner.
The Leo inside of him may crave the drama, but the Virgo seeks security. The last thing he wants is to be played with, no matter how much juicy gossip it could create. He's a romantic at heart with a possessive nature and doesn't want to share what's his with anyone else.
Tell him first-hand that he's the only one you want.
Keep things platonic with other people on social media to show him you have no interest in anyone else.
7. Compliment him.
An expressive partner is what a Leo-Virgo man wants.
As a Leo, he has a pretty big ego; and as a Virgo, he holds high standards. With this, he's got an identity complex—being the most confident person in the room while simultaneously dealing with imposter syndrome. The best way to attract both sides of his personality is to compliment him.
Tell him he looks smashing in his new outfit.
Say his smile's contagious.
Applaud his latest work of art.
8. Give him a problem to solve.
A Leo-Virgo Cusp man's need to lead and control can work in your favor.
Leos and Virgos both want to be in charge, and putting these two signs together leads to a powerful personality. You can attract him by appealing to his need to be in control by doing something like:
Ask him to open a stubborn jar or bag of food for you.
Fill him in on a work-related issue and ask for advice.
Tell him you want to start a fundraiser but don't know where to start.
Give him a puzzle and challenge him to finish it.
Ask him to take the lead on a group project or assignment.
9. Talk to him about his creative projects.
The fire fueling his Leo side ignites a passion for all things creative.
A Leo-Virgo Cusp man enjoys the practical and the imaginative. Because of this, he has a long list of passion projects. Taking the time to ask him what he's working on is sure to impress, so try starting a conversation with:
"Do you have any hobbies?"
"I heard you're pretty creative. What are you currently working on?"
"What do you like to do in your spare time? I really like to paint."
10. Let him do his own thing.
A Leo-Virgo Cusp man marches to the beat of his own drum.
He has a strong sense of freedom and will immediately push aside anyone who tries to tell him what to do. The Sun rules his Leo side, and he's a natural-born leader because of it. Letting him make his own decisions will be an instant turn-on for him.
If he says he doesn't want to do something, try not to push it. Suggest a new activity instead.
Consider letting him make plans every now and then. He enjoys being put in charge and will appreciate anyone who allows him to take leadership.
11. Make a grand romantic gesture.
The Leo in a Leo-Virgo Cusp man will be drawn to anything over-the-top.
Leos are naturally confident and a bit egotistical, which can sometimes make them come across as narcissistic. This doesn't mean he's a bad person—he simply loves the drama! He'll do whatever he can to dramatically express his love, and returning the favor by putting him on center stage will surely capture his attention.
He'll want to brag about your grand gesture to everyone he meets, so it's better to go big or go home.
Write his name in the sky for everyone to see or arrange a flash mob to express your love.
Sing him a ballad or set up a romantic spa in your bathroom.
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If you're really looking to attract him, try doing something like:\\nCreating a color-coded schedule.\\nArriving a few minutes early to meet him.\\nOrganize your pantry by food group.\\nMake your bed in the morning.\\n3. Dress to impress.\\nThe Virgo in him will swoon at a put-together appearance.\\nRespectable Virgo is looking for someone they can proudly show off, and confident Leo is eyeing whoever stands out from the crowd. You can appeal both sides of a Leo-Virgo Cusp man’s personality by dressing up for each and every occasion.\\nSend a pic of a new outfit asking for his opinion.\\nAsk him what the dress code is before going on a date or attending an event together.\\nStay true to your style no matter what! Your confidence will shine if you like what you're wearing, and he's bound to notice.\\n4. Give him your undivided attention.\\nThis Cusp man needs a partner who's an active listener.\\nHe has a lot to say, and he craves any and all attention. He wants to be the center of your world, so show him you care by always listening attentively. Here are some ways you can show him you're listening:\\nMove away from distractions to focus on him.\\nHold eye contact with him.\\nAsk him further questions.\\nRepeat what he's said to you.\\n5. Be open and honest with him.\\nCommunication and connection are very important to a Leo-Virgo Cusp man.\\nAs a Leo, he has a fixed mode, meaning he's insanely loyal. As a Virgo, he also has a mutable modality, which means he's flexible and adaptable. You can appeal to both of these modalities by being truthful with him. Being comfortable enough in his presence to open up to him is a great way to attract him.\\nHe wants to be loyal, but he can only do that through honest communication.\\nOnce he knows what makes you tick, he can adapt and cater to your needs.\\n6. Keep your eyes on him and only him.\\nA Leo-Virgo Cusp man is searching for a loyal partner.\\nThe Leo inside of him may crave the drama, but the Virgo seeks security. The last thing he wants is to be played with, no matter how much juicy gossip it could create. He's a romantic at heart with a possessive nature and doesn't want to share what's his with anyone else.\\nTell him first-hand that he's the only one you want.\\nKeep things platonic with other people on social media to show him you have no interest in anyone else.\\n7. Compliment him.\\nAn expressive partner is what a Leo-Virgo man wants.\\nAs a Leo, he has a pretty big ego; and as a Virgo, he holds high standards. With this, he's got an identity complex—being the most confident person in the room while simultaneously dealing with imposter syndrome. The best way to attract both sides of his personality is to compliment him.\\nTell him he looks smashing in his new outfit.\\nSay his smile's contagious.\\nApplaud his latest work of art.\\n8. Give him a problem to solve.\\nA Leo-Virgo Cusp man's need to lead and control can work in your favor.\\nLeos and Virgos both want to be in charge, and putting these two signs together leads to a powerful personality. You can attract him by appealing to his need to be in control by doing something like:\\nAsk him to open a stubborn jar or bag of food for you.\\nFill him in on a work-related issue and ask for advice.\\nTell him you want to start a fundraiser but don't know where to start.\\nGive him a puzzle and challenge him to finish it.\\nAsk him to take the lead on a group project or assignment.\\n9. Talk to him about his creative projects.\\nThe fire fueling his Leo side ignites a passion for all things creative.\\nA Leo-Virgo Cusp man enjoys the practical and the imaginative. Because of this, he has a long list of passion projects. Taking the time to ask him what he's working on is sure to impress, so try starting a conversation with:\\n\\\"Do you have any hobbies?\\\"\\n\\\"I heard you're pretty creative. What are you currently working on?\\\"\\n\\\"What do you like to do in your spare time? I really like to paint.\\\"\\n10. Let him do his own thing.\\nA Leo-Virgo Cusp man marches to the beat of his own drum.\\nHe has a strong sense of freedom and will immediately push aside anyone who tries to tell him what to do. The Sun rules his Leo side, and he's a natural-born leader because of it. Letting him make his own decisions will be an instant turn-on for him.\\nIf he says he doesn't want to do something, try not to push it. Suggest a new activity instead.\\nConsider letting him make plans every now and then. He enjoys being put in charge and will appreciate anyone who allows him to take leadership.\\n11. 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In this article, we'll tell you a Leo-Virgo Cusp man's leading characteristics, what he's looking for in a partner, and how to appeal to his complex personality. Keep reading to learn how you can get this incredible man to start looking your way.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be his friend.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Leo-Virgo cuspers prefer to start with friendship.\", \"描述\": \"He values loyalty, compassion, and, most of all, friendship. Being his friend first will help him open up to you in the long run, as his Virgo side may be shy at first. The more comfortable he is around you, the likelier he is to approach you! Try asking him some of these questions to build a solid friendship:\\n\\\"How would you describe your perfect day?\\\"\\n\\\"What are three interesting things about you?”\\n\\\"Who comes to mind when you think of success?\\\"\\n\\\"What characteristics do you look for in a good friend?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Stay organized and punctual.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp man wants someone as put together as he is.\", \"描述\": \"The 6th House rules his Virgo sign, governing his value for routine and order. This practical and analytical side wins out in the end, especially when it comes to his daily life. If you're really looking to attract him, try doing something like:\\nCreating a color-coded schedule.\\nArriving a few minutes early to meet him.\\nOrganize your pantry by food group.\\nMake your bed in the morning.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Dress to impress.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The Virgo in him will swoon at a put-together appearance.\", \"描述\": \"Respectable Virgo is looking for someone they can proudly show off, and confident Leo is eyeing whoever stands out from the crowd. You can appeal both sides of a Leo-Virgo Cusp man’s personality by dressing up for each and every occasion.\\nSend a pic of a new outfit asking for his opinion.\\nAsk him what the dress code is before going on a date or attending an event together.\\nStay true to your style no matter what! Your confidence will shine if you like what you're wearing, and he's bound to notice.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Give him your undivided attention.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This Cusp man needs a partner who's an active listener.\", \"描述\": \"He has a lot to say, and he craves any and all attention. He wants to be the center of your world, so show him you care by always listening attentively. Here are some ways you can show him you're listening:\\nMove away from distractions to focus on him.\\nHold eye contact with him.\\nAsk him further questions.\\nRepeat what he's said to you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be open and honest with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Communication and connection are very important to a Leo-Virgo Cusp man.\", \"描述\": \"As a Leo, he has a fixed mode, meaning he's insanely loyal. As a Virgo, he also has a mutable modality, which means he's flexible and adaptable. You can appeal to both of these modalities by being truthful with him. 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He's a romantic at heart with a possessive nature and doesn't want to share what's his with anyone else.\\nTell him first-hand that he's the only one you want.\\nKeep things platonic with other people on social media to show him you have no interest in anyone else.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Compliment him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"An expressive partner is what a Leo-Virgo man wants.\", \"描述\": \"As a Leo, he has a pretty big ego; and as a Virgo, he holds high standards. With this, he's got an identity complex—being the most confident person in the room while simultaneously dealing with imposter syndrome. 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You can attract him by appealing to his need to be in control by doing something like:\\nAsk him to open a stubborn jar or bag of food for you.\\nFill him in on a work-related issue and ask for advice.\\nTell him you want to start a fundraiser but don't know where to start.\\nGive him a puzzle and challenge him to finish it.\\nAsk him to take the lead on a group project or assignment.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Talk to him about his creative projects.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The fire fueling his Leo side ignites a passion for all things creative.\", \"描述\": \"A Leo-Virgo Cusp man enjoys the practical and the imaginative. Because of this, he has a long list of passion projects. Taking the time to ask him what he's working on is sure to impress, so try starting a conversation with:\\n\\\"Do you have any hobbies?\\\"\\n\\\"I heard you're pretty creative. What are you currently working on?\\\"\\n\\\"What do you like to do in your spare time? I really like to paint.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Let him do his own thing.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Leo-Virgo Cusp man marches to the beat of his own drum.\", \"描述\": \"He has a strong sense of freedom and will immediately push aside anyone who tries to tell him what to do. The Sun rules his Leo side, and he's a natural-born leader because of it. Letting him make his own decisions will be an instant turn-on for him.\\nIf he says he doesn't want to do something, try not to push it. Suggest a new activity instead.\\nConsider letting him make plans every now and then. He enjoys being put in charge and will appreciate anyone who allows him to take leadership.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Make a grand romantic gesture.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The Leo in a Leo-Virgo Cusp man will be drawn to anything over-the-top.\", \"描述\": \"Leos are naturally confident and a bit egotistical, which can sometimes make them come across as narcissistic. This doesn't mean he's a bad person—he simply loves the drama! He'll do whatever he can to dramatically express his love, and returning the favor by putting him on center stage will surely capture his attention.\\nHe'll want to brag about your grand gesture to everyone he meets, so it's better to go big or go home.\\nWrite his name in the sky for everyone to see or arrange a flash mob to express your love.\\nSing him a ballad or set up a romantic spa in your bathroom.\"}]}]}}",
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2,783 | How to Attract a Leo Woman As a Cancer Man | 1. Show her that you're confident.
The self-assured Leo woman wants a man as confident as she is.
While Cancers have the reputation for being reserved and introverted—maybe even a little shy—that doesn't mean you aren't sure of yourself. When you're around her, stick to areas where you know you excel so she can see your quiet confidence in full bloom.
For example, if you're a strong soccer player, why not invite her to watch you play? She'll swoon as she watches you boldly attack the ball.
If you're a musician, woo her by learning and playing her favorite song.
2. Express your admiration for her.
A Leo woman loves to be showered with compliments.
But not just any compliment will do! Praise her for her accomplishments and who she is as a person rather than her appearance. Let her know that you can see who she is below the surface.
For example, you might say, "I'm so impressed by how you remember details about everyone's life. It shows how much you care for people."
She's proud of her work ethic, so zone in on that as well. For example, you might say, "Wow, you worked really hard on that project and it shows! Your presentation was incredible!"
3. Make her the center of your attention.
The typical Leo lady loves to be doted on.
When you're around her, show her that you only have eyes for her. This doesn't mean you have to wait on her hand and foot—simply keep your focus on her. Cancerians are known for being great listeners, so use that to your advantage when she's talking.
Let her know you're listening by making plenty of eye contact. You might even say something like, "When you talk to me, the rest of the world disappears." She'll love that because she knows you're focused on her.
The last thing you want to do is ignore her. She won't react well to that and might end up ignoring you in return. Deep down, she's sensitive and afraid of getting hurt.
4. Demonstrate your intelligence.
A smart Leo lady is looking to meet her intellectual match.
Ask her plenty of questions. Curiosity is a sign of intelligence and shows her that you're interested in learning about the things she's into. Cancer men are known to have a knack for research, so dig into her interests. When she starts talking, you'll have something meaningful to contribute to the conversation.
You might also casually mention school or work accomplishments that show your smarts. For example, if you recently won a student research award, you might tell her more about the winning project.
5. Let her come after you.
A lioness typically loves the thrill of the chase.
This shouldn't be hard for you, Cancer, since you tend to be pretty reserved and aren't usually inclined to make the first move. Flirt with her enough that she knows you're interested, then retreat. Continue to encourage her pursuit so she feels secure.
For example, if she's talking about her favorite band, you might mention that you have tickets to their show next month. If she says she wants to go, you might say something like, "I suppose I could be persuaded to take you with me."
Liking someone makes her feel vulnerable (and she doesn't like that), so a little encouragement will go a long way. For example, you might casually say something like, "I hope you know I really like spending time with you."
She might "chase" you with compliments, gifts, and flirtatious behavior.
6. Try to relax and go with the flow a little more.
A Leo woman is typically pretty spontaneous and carefree.
If you're the typical reserved Cancer, this can be a challenge for you—just let her take the lead and you'll be okay. Follow her suggestions about places to go or things to do. Mention different options and let her choose.
For example, you might mention that you're free on Friday and say, "I'd like to spend some time with you. Where would you like to go?" That puts her in the driver's seat.
Be sure to set strong boundaries early on, though, or you might end up feeling overwhelmed. For example, you might tell her that you need at least two days' notice for a change in plans—that can help her keep her spontaneity in check.
7. Treat her with respect.
Leos typically know they're something special and expect to be treated like royalty.
As a Cancer, you have a reputation for being chivalrous and gentlemanly, so this probably comes naturally to you. Even so, it's worth noting that if you want to attract—and keep—a Leo lady's attention, you need to show up on time for dates, check in on her periodically, and ask about her feelings.
Feelings are a big one for the lioness, too, because she often won't express them unless she feels really safe and secure with you.
Doing things like being on time and calling or texting when you say you will tells her that you're dependable and trustworthy. That's a huge part of her feeling safe with you.
8. Let her see your playful side.
Leo women are known for their childlike energy and enthusiasm.
Cancerian men are known for their childlike spirits as well, so chances are the two of you will vibe on this. A little light-hearted teasing and spontaneous bursts of friskiness are sure to make her smile.
For example, if you're walking to a café together, you might poke her on the arm and say, "Tag, you're it!" and then take off running. Her infectious laughter will follow you.
You might also suggest childlike excursions for a date. A trip to the zoo? She's definitely game.
9. Make dramatic displays of affection.
It might take something big for you to stand out in the crowd.
Leos are social creatures and, as outgoing as she is, you can bet there's more than one guy trying to draw her in. Lucky for you, she's not shy and won't get embarrassed when you pull out all the stops on a lavish, over-the-top declaration of your adoration of her.
For example, if you're out at a bar, you might play a special song on the jukebox and ask her to dance with you when it comes on. She'll love this even more if there's not anyone else dancing!
Unfortunately, if you're shy (as Cancers are known to be), this might be a challenge. Just own it! The effort will be all the more endearing to her if you had to step out of your comfort zone to get it done.
This is the lady you take to a baseball game and get her name up on the scoreboard screen for all to see—the kiss cam was made for a Leo.
Leos are big fans of PDA, so feel free to take things in that direction.
10. Spoil her with lavish gifts and experiences.
A lioness has regal tastes and will swoon for the finer things.
While she might very well enjoy more casual fare, her tastes typically run on the luxury end of the spectrum. This shouldn't be a problem for you, though, Cancer, since you're known for the thoughtful gifts you heap on anyone you adore.
Look to her style choices for hints on what she might like. She'll really appreciate a quality accessory that matches clothes she already owns.
Always choose quality over quantity. A Leo woman would rather have one designer handbag than three knock-offs.
If you are on a budget, go for experiences over material things—she'll relish a new adventure (and get loads of content for her social media).
11. Invite her to create something with you.
Both of you are creative and your creative urges complement each other.
As a Cancer, you probably prefer more of a supporting role, while Leos tend to crave the spotlight. Together, you might create the next masterpiece.
For example, if you're a writer, you might write a spoken word piece for her to perform.
You could also write and produce videos for her to perform in and make her the next YouTube or TikTok star.
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It shows how much you care for people.\\\"\\nShe's proud of her work ethic, so zone in on that as well. For example, you might say, \\\"Wow, you worked really hard on that project and it shows! Your presentation was incredible!\\\"\\n3. Make her the center of your attention.\\nThe typical Leo lady loves to be doted on.\\nWhen you're around her, show her that you only have eyes for her. This doesn't mean you have to wait on her hand and foot—simply keep your focus on her. Cancerians are known for being great listeners, so use that to your advantage when she's talking.\\nLet her know you're listening by making plenty of eye contact. You might even say something like, \\\"When you talk to me, the rest of the world disappears.\\\" She'll love that because she knows you're focused on her.\\nThe last thing you want to do is ignore her. She won't react well to that and might end up ignoring you in return. Deep down, she's sensitive and afraid of getting hurt.\\n4. Demonstrate your intelligence.\\nA smart Leo lady is looking to meet her intellectual match.\\nAsk her plenty of questions. Curiosity is a sign of intelligence and shows her that you're interested in learning about the things she's into. Cancer men are known to have a knack for research, so dig into her interests. When she starts talking, you'll have something meaningful to contribute to the conversation.\\nYou might also casually mention school or work accomplishments that show your smarts. For example, if you recently won a student research award, you might tell her more about the winning project.\\n5. Let her come after you.\\nA lioness typically loves the thrill of the chase.\\nThis shouldn't be hard for you, Cancer, since you tend to be pretty reserved and aren't usually inclined to make the first move. Flirt with her enough that she knows you're interested, then retreat. 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Her infectious laughter will follow you.\\nYou might also suggest childlike excursions for a date. A trip to the zoo? She's definitely game.\\n9. Make dramatic displays of affection.\\nIt might take something big for you to stand out in the crowd.\\nLeos are social creatures and, as outgoing as she is, you can bet there's more than one guy trying to draw her in. Lucky for you, she's not shy and won't get embarrassed when you pull out all the stops on a lavish, over-the-top declaration of your adoration of her.\\nFor example, if you're out at a bar, you might play a special song on the jukebox and ask her to dance with you when it comes on. She'll love this even more if there's not anyone else dancing!\\nUnfortunately, if you're shy (as Cancers are known to be), this might be a challenge. Just own it! 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2,784 | How to Attract a Leo Woman As a Scorpio Man | 1. Be a little mysterious.
Leos love a challenge when it comes to romance.
She's self-assured enough that she doesn't need you to beg for a date right off the bat! Being mysterious comes easily to you as a Scorpio, and your Leo will find you instantly intriguing. Maintain that mystery by revealing information about yourself over time and leaving something to discuss at each meeting.
You could end a text conversation with, “Gotta run! I’ve got plans with a friend. But I look forward to talking again soon! 😉”
“I’ve got a funny story about that. I think I'll have to save it for the next time we see each other in person!"
Leos don't mind a little game of chase, being too unavailable is a turn-off. Tease her without ignoring her completely to keep her interested.
2. Show off your confidence.
Confidence is a vital Leo trait and they're drawn to that quality in others.
Let your magnetic Scorpio personality shine when you talk to her, and be straightforward about your interest. Your Leo lady may need you to be more direct than you usually are around your crushes, but she will eagerly match your confidence and self-assurance. That's why Leos and Scorpios are the quintessential power couple!
Talk about your accomplishments to make yourself feel more confident—a Leo will love hearing about them.
Adjust your body language to appear confident. Keep your head high and make firm eye contact during conversations.
3. Give her lots of compliments.
A Leo needs constant admiration from their significant other.
Use your natural Scorpio charm to give her an ego boost, and compliment everything from her stunning good looks to her ambition and intelligence. Leo women love knowing how much they're appreciated and will quickly pursue a relationship with someone who sees her for exactly who she is.
"You have the best fashion sense of anyone I know. You always look amazing!"
"It's inspirational to see the obvious passion you have for your career!"
Scorpios are highly observant. Rather than silently absorbing information, turn your positive observations into compliments!
4. Be extra flirty.
Flirting comes naturally to her, and she'll indulge in it as much as possible.
As a Scorpio, you're a bold and compelling flirt yourself, so you can understand Leo's love of flirting better than other signs. She wants the attention and fun of trading flirts, so don't be afraid to come on a little strong with her. She'll respond better to a direct approach over something more subtle.
Send her a text saying, "Have I told you how hot you are today? I can't stop thinking about you!"
"I never thought I'd like someone as much as you."
If you're comfortable turning up the heat, you could say, "I had a dream about you last night. Want to hear about it?"
5. Spend time on your appearance.
As the lioness of the zodiac, Leo wants you to match her regal style.
Look good in your Leo lady's eyes by dressing well. Wear plenty of flattering, fitted clothes and add some pops of vibrant color to catch her eye. Leo ladies love to show off their partners, but only if those partners put effort into their wardrobe and grooming!
Try wearing clothes that incorporate shades of purple. Once the color of royalty, purple perfectly appeals to a Leo (the rulers of the zodiac). They also appreciate yellows and reds.
For dates or special occasions, Leo will love seeing you in a fitted suit, silk tie, and shiny shoes.
6. Have stimulating conversations.
Leos are intelligent and love deep talks with their partners.
Be ready to talk to her about anything and everything, from passions and hobbies to current events. She's intuitive can easily see the big picture of a situation, while you're analytical and skilled at spotting details. Your keen Scorpio intellect can balance out her curious Leo mind, and you'll have many great conversations together.
Ask her questions like "What are you most passionate about right now?" or "Have you seen this news story? I'd love to talk it over with you."
Your Leo will be looking to dig deep and connect with you while also fearlessly speaking her mind. You can respect each other's opinions while also disagreeing amicably.
7. Have fun with her.
Leos are very social and love to have a good time.
That doesn't mean you need to be visiting clubs every night; generally, your Leo wants to be playful and a little adventurous with the relationship. You both enjoy the finer things, so take her to a nice restaurant, out for karaoke, or to a popular art gallery. Strike a balance between planning dates yourself and letting her decide what you do.
"Hey, this new Italian place is getting a lot of good buzz. Want to check it out with me?"
"I thought we could make a weekend trip. A couple of hours away, there's a town with the best beaches around!"
If you're more of a homebody (as some Scorpios are), that's okay: Leos have a laid-back side and enjoy movie nights on the couch or private dinners at home so long as they're romantic.
8. Be vulnerable with her.
Leos crave an emotional connection with their partners.
Communication can be something that Leos and Scorpios need to work on, but once you do, you're unstoppable together. Share a secret or some of your innermost thoughts, and be understanding when she confides in you. Your Scorpio gift of being sensitive and observant means that you'll be great at forging a deep bond with your Leo lady.
"I'm usually pretty quiet about this, but I've been having issues with a family member. Can we talk about it?"
"I had some bad experiences with an ex, which sometimes makes me cautious. But I trust you, and I want to be more open about how I'm feeling."
Depending on your Leo's comfort level, you may have to put aside your desire to be mysterious and open up first. When you see your Leo doing the same, you'll know she's falling for you.
9. Talk about your goals and ambitions.
She has big dreams and wants to know that you have them, too.
Your Leo is one of the most ambitious zodiac signs, prone to seeking out partners who will encourage her as she accomplishes her goals. They like to be leaders. As a bold and creative Scorpio, you can give her the support she needs while inspiring her with your natural ambition. You'll have lots to talk about as you take on professional life together.
You could say, "I'm up for a promotion at work! Can we talk over some strategies that might help me out?"
Alternatively: "You deserve to get that promotion, babe! If you need any help preparing for the interview, I'm here to support you."
10. Let her have the spotlight.
Leo loves to be the center of attention, so give her a stage.
Scorpios may not be as social as Leos, but that doesn't make you incompatible. All you need to do is make an effort to step out of the background and into the group when you're hanging out with other people. Have your Leo take it from there—she'll be delighted with a partner who can stand by her side and let her shine.
Set your Leo up to take the lead in a conversation. "Something crazy happened on our date last week! We were so surprised, right babe?"
"Speaking of travel, [Leo] studied abroad in college. She's got some great stories!"
Unlike other signs that prefer socializing, your Leo will be fine if you want to stay quiet. She wants you to spend time with her, but she also enjoys getting all the attention.
11. Commit to her.
She needs your undivided attention to feel secure in the relationship.
Thankfully, Leos and Scorpios make a good team because they're both honest and devoted as partners. Once you both feel ready to commit to a relationship, you're all in, and this steadfast loyalty will make for a stronger connection in both the present and future.
Leos get a lot of attention because of their magnetic personalities, and Scorpios naturally act mysterious. Deep down, however, they're both looking for that special someone in life.
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Show off your confidence.\\nConfidence is a vital Leo trait and they're drawn to that quality in others.\\nLet your magnetic Scorpio personality shine when you talk to her, and be straightforward about your interest. Your Leo lady may need you to be more direct than you usually are around your crushes, but she will eagerly match your confidence and self-assurance. That's why Leos and Scorpios are the quintessential power couple!\\nTalk about your accomplishments to make yourself feel more confident—a Leo will love hearing about them.\\nAdjust your body language to appear confident. Keep your head high and make firm eye contact during conversations.\\n3. Give her lots of compliments.\\nA Leo needs constant admiration from their significant other.\\nUse your natural Scorpio charm to give her an ego boost, and compliment everything from her stunning good looks to her ambition and intelligence. Leo women love knowing how much they're appreciated and will quickly pursue a relationship with someone who sees her for exactly who she is.\\n\\\"You have the best fashion sense of anyone I know. You always look amazing!\\\"\\n\\\"It's inspirational to see the obvious passion you have for your career!\\\"\\nScorpios are highly observant. Rather than silently absorbing information, turn your positive observations into compliments!\\n4. Be extra flirty.\\nFlirting comes naturally to her, and she'll indulge in it as much as possible.\\nAs a Scorpio, you're a bold and compelling flirt yourself, so you can understand Leo's love of flirting better than other signs. She wants the attention and fun of trading flirts, so don't be afraid to come on a little strong with her. She'll respond better to a direct approach over something more subtle.\\nSend her a text saying, \\\"Have I told you how hot you are today? I can't stop thinking about you!\\\"\\n\\\"I never thought I'd like someone as much as you.\\\"\\nIf you're comfortable turning up the heat, you could say, \\\"I had a dream about you last night. Want to hear about it?\\\"\\n5. Spend time on your appearance.\\nAs the lioness of the zodiac, Leo wants you to match her regal style.\\nLook good in your Leo lady's eyes by dressing well. Wear plenty of flattering, fitted clothes and add some pops of vibrant color to catch her eye. Leo ladies love to show off their partners, but only if those partners put effort into their wardrobe and grooming!\\nTry wearing clothes that incorporate shades of purple. Once the color of royalty, purple perfectly appeals to a Leo (the rulers of the zodiac). They also appreciate yellows and reds.\\nFor dates or special occasions, Leo will love seeing you in a fitted suit, silk tie, and shiny shoes.\\n6. 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2,785 | How to Attract a Libra Man | 1. Getting His Attention
1-1. Join the crowd.
Libra is definitely an extrovert who loves to socialize and be around other people. You'll often find him in groups, standing out as the life of the party. If you want to attract him, your best bet is to cross paths with him as often as possible in his natural setting: a crowd.
1-2. Stand out.
Since most Libra males have a tendency to be friendly with a lot of people in any given crowd, you'll need to do more than just hang around him. Instead of lingering in the back of the room where no one can see, you need to make yourself the center of attention, even if only for a few moments.
1-3. Win out over the competition.
Libra is friendly—sometimes, a little too friendly. Your Libra man is probably flirty with a lot of other women without necessarily meaning anything by it. For some women, this will be a turn off, but others may not consider it to be a big deal. If you have any hope of winning your Libra man's affections, you need to belong to the latter group. Hang around long enough until the rest of his admirers lose patience with his flirtatious ways.
Keep in mind that Libras rarely have favorites. Even if you attract him quickly, he might also be attracted to several other women within his social circles. If you want his budding attraction for you to win out over the attraction he feels toward other women, you need to stick things out for as long as possible.
1-4. Be feminine and elegant, not frilly or flashy.
Aesthetics is important for him. Visually speaking, women with a notably feminine appearance are the most likely to catch the Libra man's eye and attract him on a purely physical level. Your style should be classic, clean, and refined. Avoid fashion choices that are excessively bold or those that are too cutesy.
Avoid jarring color choices, bold patterns, or temporary trends that are here today and gone tomorrow. Excessively girly fashions, like lace and bows, can also be a turn-off.
Opt for classic, clean-cut styles in a traditional color palette. Choose elegance rather than trendiness.
The theme of refinement should also extend into your make-up and accessories. Use your make-up to enhance your natural beauty and avoid caking it on or trying out dramatic looks. Any jewelry you wear should accent your look without competing for attention.
2. Getting to Know Him
2-1. Present a pleasant, balanced personality.
Within the zodiac, Libra is represented by the image of scales, and with good reason. Your Libra hunk gravitates toward balanced situations and people. When you first start talking to him, have a pleasant, mild-mannered attitude and present an overall balanced aura.
Similarly, when you invite a Libra into your own personal space—your office, your car, your apartment—make sure that he's greeted with refined, balanced style.
2-2. Let him talk about himself.
It's not that Libra is narcissistic, but as someone with an outgoing personality, he does have a definite tendency to ramble on about himself and the things that interest him. If you want to impress him, let him talk to his heart's content and follow along with the conversation sincerely.
2-3. Engage in light debate.
Most Libra men will run from direct conflict or confrontation, but at the same time, they also enjoy looking at matters from various perspectives. Bring up a topic that might be open for debate and discuss both sides with him. Just remember to keep the conversation intellectual rather than emotional.
2-4. Compliment him.
Libra men are usually rather confident and have positive opinions about themselves. A genuine, well-timed compliment or word of praise can go a long way in capturing his attention. When choosing something to compliment on, focus on a typical Libra area of interest, like his sense of taste, style, or justice.
No one trusts an obvious flatterer, not even a Libra man. While he might pardon a blatant appeal to his vanity more than some of the other signs will, a compliment that is clearly untrue or forced lacks the sort of harmony and fairness that a Libra ultimately longs for. As such, any compliments you do make should be as meaningful and truthful as possible.
2-5. Bring up an eclectic mix of conversational topics.
Be intelligent, and impress your Libra crush by talking to him about a variety of subjects. Libras like to talk, and they like to express ideas and exchange opinions on as many topics as possible. If you can keep him intellectually stimulated, he will find your personality more attractive and enjoyable to be around.
Libras naturally have somewhat of an airy personality, so they feel most inspired when they are allowed to move about from thing to thing. Fixating on any one topic can quickly make a Libra man feel bored.
3. Letting Him Get to Know You
3-1. Act honestly and justly.
Libras crave balance, and that balance extends beyond your Libra's personal life. As a general rule, Libras have a great sense of dedication to justice and fairness. If you want to seem like an attractive person in his eyes, you need to make sure that he views you as someone with a similar dedication to justice .
3-2. Ease up on the emotions.
Even though Libras love to be around people, most Libra men have a tendency to be emotionally detached. When he first starts getting to know you, avoid showing too much emotion, either positive or negative.
Try to understand why he feels uncomfortable with emotion. Feelings are messy, especially once those feelings get deep and complicated. The Libra avoids emotions mostly to maintain the sense of harmony and balance he loves so much.
Of course, if you want to be with your Libra man for a long time, you and he will eventually need to confront your emotions together. When the times comes, do so in as calm and rational a manner as possible. While you are only in the introductory stages, though, it's better to avoid heavy emotions as much as possible.
3-3. Keep the pressure off.
Related to Libra's distaste for emotions is his aversion to conflict. Even though he likes intellectual debate, emotionally-charged debate tends to be a big turn-off. Keep a calm, casual attitude when dealing with your Libra to avoid sending him running.
3-4. Give him a little mystery.
You need to be open and talkative with your Libra, but weaving in a carefully constructed thread of mystery can really catch this inquisitive sign's curiosity and make him long to know more. If you can trigger this sense of longing, you can capture his attraction more readily.
His earliest impressions of you should view you as a “mysterious beauty.” Of course, the longer you're with your Libra, the more that mystery will fade. To pack a strong punch at the start, though, try to be an elusive, nearly inaccessible goal to strive for.
3-5. Do some volunteer work.
Most Libras have a bit of an altruistic spirit, so they might be involved in volunteer work of some sort. Even if your guy does not have a charity or cause he actively takes part in, he will likely find someone who does sacrifice her time for a noble purpose exceptionally attractive.
If you are actively volunteering your time somewhere, consider asking your Libra crush along, especially if you are supporting a cause he also happens to believe in. In doing so, you'll become someone who helps him satisfy his own desires to do good works.
3-6. Vary your hobbies.
Libra has a hard time focusing on one thing and may find you less attractive if he believes you to be fixated on only one aspect of life. If you want to look like someone who has a balanced, well-rounded personality, you should try having a few different hobbies to talk to him about.
4. Closing the Deal
4-1. Appeal to his love of beauty, art, or music.
Most Libra men can really appreciate beauty and culture, so if you want to make his heart skip a beat for you, invite him to the art museum or give him a book with photographs of beautiful scenery. Showing him that you understand what he loves can be a huge plus in your favor.
When you extend an invitation, pick a place that your Libra man will probably enjoy, like an art gallery, arts and crafts fair, or museum. You can appeal to him even more by inviting him out during an active time. For instance, ask him to a special one-day-only exhibit instead of inviting him to the museum during a quiet "off" time.
4-2. Treat him to a taste of luxury.
Along with art and culture, Libra men usually have a strong appreciation for the finer things in life. When you invite him to spend time with you, choose impressive locations like trendy cafes or four-star restaurants. When you give him a gift, consider picking out something tasteful from a designer.
If you do not have the finances to back Libra's love of luxury, fear not! These men are interested in refinement, but that refinement does not necessarily need to cost you an arm and a leg. Try inviting him to a fancy restaurant for dessert only to save you the cost of a meal, or go somewhere with an elegant atmosphere but a moderate cost.
4-3. Give him space.
As social creatures, Libra men love freedom and need to feel unconfined in order to be happy. You can dote on him as much as you want when the two of you are together, but avoid smothering him or forcing your way into areas of his life he hasn't invited you to on his own.
Keep in mind that Libra is an active guy, so once he takes a liking to you, you'll probably know about it. In the meantime, work on him steadily, and avoid pushing your feelings onto him before he is ready for them.
4-4. Show him some appreciation.
Libra men love to love, and they love being loved on. Little tokens of appreciation can underscore your feelings for him while making you appear more attractive in his eyes. Try giving him a small gift or note for no reason, or offer a massage at the end of a long day or week.
Refined, tasteful gifts tend to work better than gifts packed with too much sentimentality. You might not be able to afford a designer watch or pricey cufflinks, but you could try offering him a small helping of designer candy or any beautiful yet non-designer item.
If you want a free alternative, you could try writing him a beautiful note. Again, heavy emotions are not quite the Libra's cup of tea, but a letter with a few scribbled verses can make a big impact as long as those verses focus on the beauty of things rather than the intensity of your feelings.
4-5. Keep the romance simple.
As mentioned earlier, Libra men can be emotionally detached when you first get to know them, and as such, they tend to avoid women who seem manipulative or who live for drama. When you make your move, avoid getting too serious too quickly. Keep things light, and win him over with gestures of traditional romance: candlelight dinners, moonlit walks, and so on.
Once he starts to return your attraction and affection, be prepared for him to show you what he likes in the romance department. Libra is a natural-born charmer, so when he wants to charm you, he will use a range of romantic tactics to do so. Take note, and increase his attraction to you by responding with similarly romantic gestures.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Getting His Attention\\n1-1. Join the crowd.\\nLibra is definitely an extrovert who loves to socialize and be around other people. You'll often find him in groups, standing out as the life of the party. If you want to attract him, your best bet is to cross paths with him as often as possible in his natural setting: a crowd.\\n1-2. Stand out.\\nSince most Libra males have a tendency to be friendly with a lot of people in any given crowd, you'll need to do more than just hang around him. Instead of lingering in the back of the room where no one can see, you need to make yourself the center of attention, even if only for a few moments.\\n1-3. Win out over the competition.\\nLibra is friendly—sometimes, a little too friendly. Your Libra man is probably flirty with a lot of other women without necessarily meaning anything by it. For some women, this will be a turn off, but others may not consider it to be a big deal. If you have any hope of winning your Libra man's affections, you need to belong to the latter group. Hang around long enough until the rest of his admirers lose patience with his flirtatious ways.\\nKeep in mind that Libras rarely have favorites. Even if you attract him quickly, he might also be attracted to several other women within his social circles. If you want his budding attraction for you to win out over the attraction he feels toward other women, you need to stick things out for as long as possible.\\n1-4. Be feminine and elegant, not frilly or flashy.\\nAesthetics is important for him. Visually speaking, women with a notably feminine appearance are the most likely to catch the Libra man's eye and attract him on a purely physical level. Your style should be classic, clean, and refined. Avoid fashion choices that are excessively bold or those that are too cutesy.\\nAvoid jarring color choices, bold patterns, or temporary trends that are here today and gone tomorrow. Excessively girly fashions, like lace and bows, can also be a turn-off.\\nOpt for classic, clean-cut styles in a traditional color palette. Choose elegance rather than trendiness.\\nThe theme of refinement should also extend into your make-up and accessories. Use your make-up to enhance your natural beauty and avoid caking it on or trying out dramatic looks. Any jewelry you wear should accent your look without competing for attention.\\n2. Getting to Know Him\\n2-1. Present a pleasant, balanced personality.\\nWithin the zodiac, Libra is represented by the image of scales, and with good reason. Your Libra hunk gravitates toward balanced situations and people. When you first start talking to him, have a pleasant, mild-mannered attitude and present an overall balanced aura.\\nSimilarly, when you invite a Libra into your own personal space—your office, your car, your apartment—make sure that he's greeted with refined, balanced style.\\n2-2. Let him talk about himself.\\nIt's not that Libra is narcissistic, but as someone with an outgoing personality, he does have a definite tendency to ramble on about himself and the things that interest him. If you want to impress him, let him talk to his heart's content and follow along with the conversation sincerely.\\n2-3. Engage in light debate.\\nMost Libra men will run from direct conflict or confrontation, but at the same time, they also enjoy looking at matters from various perspectives. Bring up a topic that might be open for debate and discuss both sides with him. Just remember to keep the conversation intellectual rather than emotional.\\n2-4. Compliment him.\\nLibra men are usually rather confident and have positive opinions about themselves. A genuine, well-timed compliment or word of praise can go a long way in capturing his attention. When choosing something to compliment on, focus on a typical Libra area of interest, like his sense of taste, style, or justice.\\nNo one trusts an obvious flatterer, not even a Libra man. While he might pardon a blatant appeal to his vanity more than some of the other signs will, a compliment that is clearly untrue or forced lacks the sort of harmony and fairness that a Libra ultimately longs for. As such, any compliments you do make should be as meaningful and truthful as possible.\\n2-5. Bring up an eclectic mix of conversational topics.\\nBe intelligent, and impress your Libra crush by talking to him about a variety of subjects. Libras like to talk, and they like to express ideas and exchange opinions on as many topics as possible. If you can keep him intellectually stimulated, he will find your personality more attractive and enjoyable to be around.\\nLibras naturally have somewhat of an airy personality, so they feel most inspired when they are allowed to move about from thing to thing. Fixating on any one topic can quickly make a Libra man feel bored.\\n3. Letting Him Get to Know You\\n3-1. Act honestly and justly.\\nLibras crave balance, and that balance extends beyond your Libra's personal life. As a general rule, Libras have a great sense of dedication to justice and fairness. If you want to seem like an attractive person in his eyes, you need to make sure that he views you as someone with a similar dedication to justice .\\n3-2. Ease up on the emotions.\\nEven though Libras love to be around people, most Libra men have a tendency to be emotionally detached. When he first starts getting to know you, avoid showing too much emotion, either positive or negative.\\nTry to understand why he feels uncomfortable with emotion. Feelings are messy, especially once those feelings get deep and complicated. The Libra avoids emotions mostly to maintain the sense of harmony and balance he loves so much.\\nOf course, if you want to be with your Libra man for a long time, you and he will eventually need to confront your emotions together. When the times comes, do so in as calm and rational a manner as possible. While you are only in the introductory stages, though, it's better to avoid heavy emotions as much as possible.\\n3-3. Keep the pressure off.\\nRelated to Libra's distaste for emotions is his aversion to conflict. Even though he likes intellectual debate, emotionally-charged debate tends to be a big turn-off. Keep a calm, casual attitude when dealing with your Libra to avoid sending him running.\\n3-4. Give him a little mystery.\\nYou need to be open and talkative with your Libra, but weaving in a carefully constructed thread of mystery can really catch this inquisitive sign's curiosity and make him long to know more. If you can trigger this sense of longing, you can capture his attraction more readily.\\nHis earliest impressions of you should view you as a “mysterious beauty.” Of course, the longer you're with your Libra, the more that mystery will fade. To pack a strong punch at the start, though, try to be an elusive, nearly inaccessible goal to strive for.\\n3-5. Do some volunteer work.\\nMost Libras have a bit of an altruistic spirit, so they might be involved in volunteer work of some sort. Even if your guy does not have a charity or cause he actively takes part in, he will likely find someone who does sacrifice her time for a noble purpose exceptionally attractive.\\nIf you are actively volunteering your time somewhere, consider asking your Libra crush along, especially if you are supporting a cause he also happens to believe in. In doing so, you'll become someone who helps him satisfy his own desires to do good works.\\n3-6. Vary your hobbies.\\nLibra has a hard time focusing on one thing and may find you less attractive if he believes you to be fixated on only one aspect of life. If you want to look like someone who has a balanced, well-rounded personality, you should try having a few different hobbies to talk to him about.\\n4. Closing the Deal\\n4-1. Appeal to his love of beauty, art, or music.\\nMost Libra men can really appreciate beauty and culture, so if you want to make his heart skip a beat for you, invite him to the art museum or give him a book with photographs of beautiful scenery. Showing him that you understand what he loves can be a huge plus in your favor.\\nWhen you extend an invitation, pick a place that your Libra man will probably enjoy, like an art gallery, arts and crafts fair, or museum. You can appeal to him even more by inviting him out during an active time. For instance, ask him to a special one-day-only exhibit instead of inviting him to the museum during a quiet \\\"off\\\" time.\\n4-2. Treat him to a taste of luxury.\\nAlong with art and culture, Libra men usually have a strong appreciation for the finer things in life. When you invite him to spend time with you, choose impressive locations like trendy cafes or four-star restaurants. When you give him a gift, consider picking out something tasteful from a designer.\\nIf you do not have the finances to back Libra's love of luxury, fear not! These men are interested in refinement, but that refinement does not necessarily need to cost you an arm and a leg. Try inviting him to a fancy restaurant for dessert only to save you the cost of a meal, or go somewhere with an elegant atmosphere but a moderate cost.\\n4-3. Give him space.\\nAs social creatures, Libra men love freedom and need to feel unconfined in order to be happy. You can dote on him as much as you want when the two of you are together, but avoid smothering him or forcing your way into areas of his life he hasn't invited you to on his own.\\nKeep in mind that Libra is an active guy, so once he takes a liking to you, you'll probably know about it. In the meantime, work on him steadily, and avoid pushing your feelings onto him before he is ready for them.\\n4-4. Show him some appreciation.\\nLibra men love to love, and they love being loved on. Little tokens of appreciation can underscore your feelings for him while making you appear more attractive in his eyes. Try giving him a small gift or note for no reason, or offer a massage at the end of a long day or week.\\nRefined, tasteful gifts tend to work better than gifts packed with too much sentimentality. You might not be able to afford a designer watch or pricey cufflinks, but you could try offering him a small helping of designer candy or any beautiful yet non-designer item.\\nIf you want a free alternative, you could try writing him a beautiful note. Again, heavy emotions are not quite the Libra's cup of tea, but a letter with a few scribbled verses can make a big impact as long as those verses focus on the beauty of things rather than the intensity of your feelings.\\n4-5. Keep the romance simple.\\nAs mentioned earlier, Libra men can be emotionally detached when you first get to know them, and as such, they tend to avoid women who seem manipulative or who live for drama. When you make your move, avoid getting too serious too quickly. Keep things light, and win him over with gestures of traditional romance: candlelight dinners, moonlit walks, and so on.\\nOnce he starts to return your attraction and affection, be prepared for him to show you what he likes in the romance department. Libra is a natural-born charmer, so when he wants to charm you, he will use a range of romantic tactics to do so. Take note, and increase his attraction to you by responding with similarly romantic gestures.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Libra loves to love, but you can scare off the Libra man by getting too sentimental. If you want to attract his attention and win his affections, try appealing to his desire for balance and appreciation of beauty. 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2,786 | How to Attract a Libra Man As a Cancer Woman | 1. Focus on becoming friends first.
A Libra guy is likely to be more interested if you keep things casual.
Librans tend to have some pretty idealistic notions about love and romance, but they'll enter a friendship easily. This should suit you just fine since Cancer women are known to be cautious, particularly when it comes to love.
If you come on too strong, especially at first, you're likely to scare him away. Remember that Librans value harmony and balance—a platonic relationship builds a solid foundation for a future romance.
2. Strike up a friendly conversation.
Librans are thinkers who love to talk about anything under the sun.
A chat with a Libra guy will certainly keep you on your toes, especially if he's the type to flit from topic to topic. Use your Cancerian intuition to figure out what will interest him and he'll quickly warm up to you.
For example, if you notice that he's wearing a Star Wars T-shirt, you might talk about your favorite characters in the series or ask if he's seen the most recent spin-offs. Just don't be surprised if you end up talking about space travel or the possibility of life on other planets.
3. Ask him questions about himself.
Your Libra guy really loves sharing details about his life.
Most guys love talking about themselves, but Librans take it to the next level. Encouraging him to talk about himself also gives you the opportunity to show off your stellar Cancerian listening skills.
Pay attention when he's talking and ask follow-up questions based on what he's said. He'll adore that you're really listening to him and care about what he's saying.
You'll also learn things about him that you can bring up later. For example, if he mentions that his intramural basketball team has a game on Friday, when you see him on Saturday you can ask how the game went. He'll love that you've taken an interest in his life.
4. Give him a genuine compliment.
Making a positive impression is important to a Libra guy.
He puts a lot of effort into everything he does and a compliment tells him his efforts are successful. For more impact, draw on your keen Cancerian powers of observation to point out something unique about him that most people wouldn't notice.
Make your compliment about some action on his part rather than something he has no control over—say, his taste in clothing or style rather than his looks.
Focus on something you know he's proud of to deliver a compliment that'll be sure to make him glow. For example, if he's a dedicated member of his soccer team, you might praise his ball-handling skills.
5. Mention your favorite charity or volunteer work.
Symbolized by the scales, Libra values justice and fairness.
If you're a typical Cancer, you're devoted to helping others, so you've probably got a couple of pet causes. Talking them up to your Libra interest will help him see that you're just as committed to lifting up others as he is.
For example, if you volunteer at an animal shelter, you might tell him about the compassion you feel for all the abandoned dogs and cats you care for.
Talking about social causes is always a good topic too—trust that no matter the issue, an intellectual Libra guy will have a well-thought-out opinion on it that he won't be shy about sharing.
6. Flaunt your femininity.
Your Libra crush will be drawn to your classic Cancerian femininity.
As a soft, sensitive Crab, you're fond of fluttering fabrics and classic lines that accentuate your figure. If you show up in a beautiful, flowing dress or gauzy blouse and slim pants, he won't be able to take his eyes off of you.
Libras do tend to be more attracted to a neat, orderly appearance. Even if you're just running errands, make an effort to look put together if you know you're likely to run into him—he'll definitely notice.
Libra is an air sign, so they are fond of intellectuals. But it is a Venus-based sun sign. So they want a woman who is intelligent and attractive.
7. Suggest a concert or trip to a museum.
This is the perfect opportunity to share your mutual love of beauty and creativity.
Libra guys tend to be drawn to things that make them think. As a Cancer, you're usually more interested in things that stir your emotions. Look for art that combines the powers of intellect and emotion for a truly sizzling outing.
For example, you might take in a symphony or opera, then go out for coffee afterward and discuss it together.
Visiting an art museum to take in classic works of art will always appeal to a Libra. You might even do a little research on the artists so you can share facts about their lives as you look at their works.
8. Offer to make him dinner.
Your Libra will likely be attracted to your nurturing Cancerian nature.
Deep down, a Libra guy wants to be taken care of, and no one knows how to do that better than you. Invite him over and cook his favorite comfort foods and he'll be smitten. You might even track down his favorite family recipe for a thoughtful, personal touch.
Whatever you do, don't leave the kitchen in a mess. Libra guys tend to value order and neatness, so he'll really appreciate your efforts to clean as you go and keep things tidy.
9. Pour on the romance.
The typical Libra guy is a hopeless romantic.
He won't be able to resist the pull of a picture-perfect romantic evening—whether you're laying on a blanket outside gazing at the stars or cozied up at home eating dinner by candlelight. Cancer women are known for being in touch with their emotions, so you're sure to know just how to make him melt.
Any relationship with a Libra typically starts as a friendship—the struggle is getting him to take the relationship to the next level. Take the lead and make your feelings known through an unmistakable romantic gesture.
10. Maintain your independence.
A Libra guy's ideal woman has her own life and interests.
He likes to go out and do his own thing from time to time and he doesn't like to think that you'll be bored and alone if you're not out with him. Make time regularly to spend with your friends and cultivate hobbies that keep you busy.
If you're not very social (and many Cancers aren't), that's fine—just make it clear that you're sitting at home because you want to, not because you don't have anything to do when he's not around.
Scheduling regular activities is a good way to signal that you're independent and have your own interests. If you have soccer games on Thursdays and Saturdays, pottery class on Tuesdays, and book club on Sunday afternoons, he'll know that you're living your best life.
11. Tell him the truth always.
Given that he values fairness, a Libran is committed to honesty.
This shouldn't be too difficult for you, Cancer, since you believe in honesty above all else. But if you're ever tempted to bend the truth a little to spare his feelings, remember that it will hurt him more to find out you weren't completely honest.
Remember that having a lot of freedom in a relationship requires a lot of trust—and trust requires honesty. He'll stick by your side for a long time if he knows he can rely on you.
12. Give him plenty of space.
Like Cancers, Libras need time alone to recharge.
This shouldn't be a problem for you, Cancer, since you likely understand this need all too well. It might seem surprising coming from someone who seems like such a social butterfly, but he really does need time and space to think.
Unfortunately, Cancers have a reputation for being a bit clingy. If you have this tendency, try to be aware of it and make a conscious effort to pull back occasionally and leave him alone. He'll be grateful for it and appreciate the effort you're making.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Focus on becoming friends first.\\nA Libra guy is likely to be more interested if you keep things casual.\\nLibrans tend to have some pretty idealistic notions about love and romance, but they'll enter a friendship easily. This should suit you just fine since Cancer women are known to be cautious, particularly when it comes to love.\\nIf you come on too strong, especially at first, you're likely to scare him away. Remember that Librans value harmony and balance—a platonic relationship builds a solid foundation for a future romance.\\n2. Strike up a friendly conversation.\\nLibrans are thinkers who love to talk about anything under the sun.\\nA chat with a Libra guy will certainly keep you on your toes, especially if he's the type to flit from topic to topic. Use your Cancerian intuition to figure out what will interest him and he'll quickly warm up to you.\\nFor example, if you notice that he's wearing a Star Wars T-shirt, you might talk about your favorite characters in the series or ask if he's seen the most recent spin-offs. Just don't be surprised if you end up talking about space travel or the possibility of life on other planets.\\n3. Ask him questions about himself.\\nYour Libra guy really loves sharing details about his life.\\nMost guys love talking about themselves, but Librans take it to the next level. Encouraging him to talk about himself also gives you the opportunity to show off your stellar Cancerian listening skills.\\nPay attention when he's talking and ask follow-up questions based on what he's said. He'll adore that you're really listening to him and care about what he's saying.\\nYou'll also learn things about him that you can bring up later. For example, if he mentions that his intramural basketball team has a game on Friday, when you see him on Saturday you can ask how the game went. He'll love that you've taken an interest in his life.\\n4. Give him a genuine compliment.\\nMaking a positive impression is important to a Libra guy.\\nHe puts a lot of effort into everything he does and a compliment tells him his efforts are successful. For more impact, draw on your keen Cancerian powers of observation to point out something unique about him that most people wouldn't notice.\\nMake your compliment about some action on his part rather than something he has no control over—say, his taste in clothing or style rather than his looks.\\nFocus on something you know he's proud of to deliver a compliment that'll be sure to make him glow. For example, if he's a dedicated member of his soccer team, you might praise his ball-handling skills.\\n5. Mention your favorite charity or volunteer work.\\nSymbolized by the scales, Libra values justice and fairness.\\nIf you're a typical Cancer, you're devoted to helping others, so you've probably got a couple of pet causes. Talking them up to your Libra interest will help him see that you're just as committed to lifting up others as he is.\\nFor example, if you volunteer at an animal shelter, you might tell him about the compassion you feel for all the abandoned dogs and cats you care for.\\nTalking about social causes is always a good topic too—trust that no matter the issue, an intellectual Libra guy will have a well-thought-out opinion on it that he won't be shy about sharing.\\n6. Flaunt your femininity.\\nYour Libra crush will be drawn to your classic Cancerian femininity.\\nAs a soft, sensitive Crab, you're fond of fluttering fabrics and classic lines that accentuate your figure. If you show up in a beautiful, flowing dress or gauzy blouse and slim pants, he won't be able to take his eyes off of you.\\nLibras do tend to be more attracted to a neat, orderly appearance. Even if you're just running errands, make an effort to look put together if you know you're likely to run into him—he'll definitely notice.\\nLibra is an air sign, so they are fond of intellectuals. But it is a Venus-based sun sign. So they want a woman who is intelligent and attractive.\\n7. Suggest a concert or trip to a museum.\\nThis is the perfect opportunity to share your mutual love of beauty and creativity.\\nLibra guys tend to be drawn to things that make them think. As a Cancer, you're usually more interested in things that stir your emotions. Look for art that combines the powers of intellect and emotion for a truly sizzling outing.\\nFor example, you might take in a symphony or opera, then go out for coffee afterward and discuss it together.\\nVisiting an art museum to take in classic works of art will always appeal to a Libra. You might even do a little research on the artists so you can share facts about their lives as you look at their works.\\n8. Offer to make him dinner.\\nYour Libra will likely be attracted to your nurturing Cancerian nature.\\nDeep down, a Libra guy wants to be taken care of, and no one knows how to do that better than you. Invite him over and cook his favorite comfort foods and he'll be smitten. You might even track down his favorite family recipe for a thoughtful, personal touch.\\nWhatever you do, don't leave the kitchen in a mess. Libra guys tend to value order and neatness, so he'll really appreciate your efforts to clean as you go and keep things tidy.\\n9. Pour on the romance.\\nThe typical Libra guy is a hopeless romantic.\\nHe won't be able to resist the pull of a picture-perfect romantic evening—whether you're laying on a blanket outside gazing at the stars or cozied up at home eating dinner by candlelight. Cancer women are known for being in touch with their emotions, so you're sure to know just how to make him melt.\\nAny relationship with a Libra typically starts as a friendship—the struggle is getting him to take the relationship to the next level. Take the lead and make your feelings known through an unmistakable romantic gesture.\\n10. Maintain your independence.\\nA Libra guy's ideal woman has her own life and interests.\\nHe likes to go out and do his own thing from time to time and he doesn't like to think that you'll be bored and alone if you're not out with him. Make time regularly to spend with your friends and cultivate hobbies that keep you busy.\\nIf you're not very social (and many Cancers aren't), that's fine—just make it clear that you're sitting at home because you want to, not because you don't have anything to do when he's not around.\\nScheduling regular activities is a good way to signal that you're independent and have your own interests. If you have soccer games on Thursdays and Saturdays, pottery class on Tuesdays, and book club on Sunday afternoons, he'll know that you're living your best life.\\n11. Tell him the truth always.\\nGiven that he values fairness, a Libran is committed to honesty.\\nThis shouldn't be too difficult for you, Cancer, since you believe in honesty above all else. But if you're ever tempted to bend the truth a little to spare his feelings, remember that it will hurt him more to find out you weren't completely honest.\\nRemember that having a lot of freedom in a relationship requires a lot of trust—and trust requires honesty. He'll stick by your side for a long time if he knows he can rely on you.\\n12. Give him plenty of space.\\nLike Cancers, Libras need time alone to recharge.\\nThis shouldn't be a problem for you, Cancer, since you likely understand this need all too well. It might seem surprising coming from someone who seems like such a social butterfly, but he really does need time and space to think.\\nUnfortunately, Cancers have a reputation for being a bit clingy. If you have this tendency, try to be aware of it and make a conscious effort to pull back occasionally and leave him alone. He'll be grateful for it and appreciate the effort you're making.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Are you a Cancer woman who has her eye on a Libra guy? Well, you've come to the right place! Libra is an air sign and you're a water sign, but this is definitely a situation where opposites attract—you're literally yin and yang. A Libra man is attracted to balance, and your signs usually balance each other out quite nicely. Read on to learn all the things you can do to draw that lovable Libra into your arms.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Focus on becoming friends first.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Libra guy is likely to be more interested if you keep things casual.\", \"描述\": \"Librans tend to have some pretty idealistic notions about love and romance, but they'll enter a friendship easily. This should suit you just fine since Cancer women are known to be cautious, particularly when it comes to love.\\nIf you come on too strong, especially at first, you're likely to scare him away. Remember that Librans value harmony and balance—a platonic relationship builds a solid foundation for a future romance.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Strike up a friendly conversation.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Librans are thinkers who love to talk about anything under the sun.\", \"描述\": \"A chat with a Libra guy will certainly keep you on your toes, especially if he's the type to flit from topic to topic. Use your Cancerian intuition to figure out what will interest him and he'll quickly warm up to you.\\nFor example, if you notice that he's wearing a Star Wars T-shirt, you might talk about your favorite characters in the series or ask if he's seen the most recent spin-offs. Just don't be surprised if you end up talking about space travel or the possibility of life on other planets.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Ask him questions about himself.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Libra guy really loves sharing details about his life.\", \"描述\": \"Most guys love talking about themselves, but Librans take it to the next level. Encouraging him to talk about himself also gives you the opportunity to show off your stellar Cancerian listening skills.\\nPay attention when he's talking and ask follow-up questions based on what he's said. He'll adore that you're really listening to him and care about what he's saying.\\nYou'll also learn things about him that you can bring up later. For example, if he mentions that his intramural basketball team has a game on Friday, when you see him on Saturday you can ask how the game went. He'll love that you've taken an interest in his life.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Give him a genuine compliment.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Making a positive impression is important to a Libra guy.\", \"描述\": \"He puts a lot of effort into everything he does and a compliment tells him his efforts are successful. For more impact, draw on your keen Cancerian powers of observation to point out something unique about him that most people wouldn't notice.\\nMake your compliment about some action on his part rather than something he has no control over—say, his taste in clothing or style rather than his looks.\\nFocus on something you know he's proud of to deliver a compliment that'll be sure to make him glow. For example, if he's a dedicated member of his soccer team, you might praise his ball-handling skills.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Mention your favorite charity or volunteer work.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Symbolized by the scales, Libra values justice and fairness.\", \"描述\": \"If you're a typical Cancer, you're devoted to helping others, so you've probably got a couple of pet causes. Talking them up to your Libra interest will help him see that you're just as committed to lifting up others as he is.\\nFor example, if you volunteer at an animal shelter, you might tell him about the compassion you feel for all the abandoned dogs and cats you care for.\\nTalking about social causes is always a good topic too—trust that no matter the issue, an intellectual Libra guy will have a well-thought-out opinion on it that he won't be shy about sharing.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Flaunt your femininity.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Libra crush will be drawn to your classic Cancerian femininity.\", \"描述\": \"As a soft, sensitive Crab, you're fond of fluttering fabrics and classic lines that accentuate your figure. If you show up in a beautiful, flowing dress or gauzy blouse and slim pants, he won't be able to take his eyes off of you.\\nLibras do tend to be more attracted to a neat, orderly appearance. Even if you're just running errands, make an effort to look put together if you know you're likely to run into him—he'll definitely notice.\\nLibra is an air sign, so they are fond of intellectuals. But it is a Venus-based sun sign. So they want a woman who is intelligent and attractive.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Suggest a concert or trip to a museum.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This is the perfect opportunity to share your mutual love of beauty and creativity.\", \"描述\": \"Libra guys tend to be drawn to things that make them think. As a Cancer, you're usually more interested in things that stir your emotions. Look for art that combines the powers of intellect and emotion for a truly sizzling outing.\\nFor example, you might take in a symphony or opera, then go out for coffee afterward and discuss it together.\\nVisiting an art museum to take in classic works of art will always appeal to a Libra. You might even do a little research on the artists so you can share facts about their lives as you look at their works.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Offer to make him dinner.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Libra will likely be attracted to your nurturing Cancerian nature.\", \"描述\": \"Deep down, a Libra guy wants to be taken care of, and no one knows how to do that better than you. Invite him over and cook his favorite comfort foods and he'll be smitten. You might even track down his favorite family recipe for a thoughtful, personal touch.\\nWhatever you do, don't leave the kitchen in a mess. 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Take the lead and make your feelings known through an unmistakable romantic gesture.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Maintain your independence.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Libra guy's ideal woman has her own life and interests.\", \"描述\": \"He likes to go out and do his own thing from time to time and he doesn't like to think that you'll be bored and alone if you're not out with him. Make time regularly to spend with your friends and cultivate hobbies that keep you busy.\\nIf you're not very social (and many Cancers aren't), that's fine—just make it clear that you're sitting at home because you want to, not because you don't have anything to do when he's not around.\\nScheduling regular activities is a good way to signal that you're independent and have your own interests. If you have soccer games on Thursdays and Saturdays, pottery class on Tuesdays, and book club on Sunday afternoons, he'll know that you're living your best life.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Tell him the truth always.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Given that he values fairness, a Libran is committed to honesty.\", \"描述\": \"This shouldn't be too difficult for you, Cancer, since you believe in honesty above all else. But if you're ever tempted to bend the truth a little to spare his feelings, remember that it will hurt him more to find out you weren't completely honest.\\nRemember that having a lot of freedom in a relationship requires a lot of trust—and trust requires honesty. 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2,787 | How to Attract a Libra Man As a Capricorn Woman | 1. Flirt to let him know you're interested.
Your Libra is a skilled flirt—don't be afraid to act bold or seductive!
You might find that you've got competition for his attention, so you need to make it clear that you're into him. Playfully tease him, casually touch him, or smile and hold his gaze. Keep your arms uncrossed, so you appear more approachable and open to what he's saying.
You could say, "You and I clearly need to get away from all these people. Buy you a drink?"
If you've got his number, don't hesitate to send a flirty text. For instance, say, "Tell the truth. How long have you been waiting for a text from me?"
2. Put extra effort into your appearance.
Venus rules Libra and he's drawn to beauty, so look your best.
You may want to spruce up your style or find a killer outfit that's sure to grab his attention. More than anything, wear something that makes you feel your best. You'll radiate confidence that your Libra guy won't be able to resist.
You don't have to dress like you're going to a black-tie event, but ensure that your clothes are neat and clean. You may want to accessorize with some eyecatching jewelry, too.
Libras like romantic or fashionable looks. For instance, you might wear a lace top with a neutral-colored blazer and fitted slacks or a skirt.
3. Challenge yourself to be outgoing.
Libras are charming and extroverted, so let him see that you can be outgoing, too.
Capricorns are usually introverted, or at least you keep a small circle of friends. Make a point of going out more. This might mean hitting the town or going out to parties together, or just getting more on your own so he hears you've been out.
If you're really not a fan of going out, ask a close friend to come out with you. Sometimes, hanging out in a group makes it easier to catch someone's eye.
4. Do fun, spontaneous things together.
As an air sign, Libras are carefree, so show him that you can loosen up.
As a Capricorn, you're an Earth sign which is known for being pragmatic and grounded. Show him that you have an exciting side. Challenge him to laser tag, surprise him with tickets to a funfair, or take him to the go-kart track.
Not sure what to do? Pick his brain for ideas—say, "What's something you've always wanted to do or try, but never gotten around to?"
5. Teach him something new.
Appeal to his curious nature by sharing your knowledge.
This does a few things—it shows him that you're smart and engaging, and it piques his interest. Libras love to think and learn, so teaching him something new gives you both something to discuss.
You might say something like, "I can't believe you don't know how to ice skate! We've got to do something about that."
Don't know what to teach? Offer to learn something new together. You could say, "I've always wanted to take dance lessons. Want to learn how to salsa?"
6. Have interesting conversations.
Show your Libra man that you are a great conversationalist.
You won't have too much trouble with this since you're an intelligent Capricorn. Libras love talking with someone who can hold their own in a conversation. Bonus points if you bring up thoughtful or challenging subjects!
For instance, instead of asking standard questions like "How was your day?" or "What are your favorite movies?" get the conversation started with a more interesting question like, "What was the craziest thing that happened to you today?" or, "If you could choose anywhere in the world to be right now, where would you be?"
7. Make him chase you.
Your Libra will be intrigued if you're sometimes too busy to go out.
If you say yes every time he asks you out, he might think you're too available. Turning him down occasionally will make him curious. He'll wonder what you're up to and he'll miss you when you're not around.
It's fine to say you've already got plans if he asks you out. However, don't shoot him down every time or he will move on.
For example, if he asks you out without a lot of notice, you could say, "Oh, I wish you had asked me sooner. I'm going out with girlfriends tonight. Maybe we could meet up tomorrow?"
8. Tell him about your accomplishments.
Libras are impressed by the passion and hard work that go into achievements.
Don't be afraid to talk about your successes and goals for the future. As a Capricorn, your hard work means you have a lot to be proud of. He'll love that you're accomplished and motivated to succeed.
Don't be surprised if he introduces you to his friends like this, "Guys, this is Janey. She's studying to be a clinical psychologist," or, "Let me introduce you to Alex. Alex just completed her first half-marathon over the weekend."
9. Give him lots of compliments.
Libras know that they're great, but they want to hear it from you.
Flattery goes a long way with this sign as long as you're genuine. If you share your honest opinion with him, he'll feel appreciated and valued—definitely a great start for any relationship.
For instance, you might say, "You're a great conversationalist. Do you know that? You really put people at ease," or, "You make me feel like the most special woman in the room. How do you do it?"
10. Let him know how you feel about him.
Libras love romance, so be sweet and affectionate to him.
As a Capricorn, it can be hard for you to open up to someone else. This won't fly with a Libra! You've got to get a little romantic—send him a sweet text, call to say goodnight before you go to bed, or just let him know that you've got butterflies in your stomach the next time you see him.
For instance, you might say, "I love the way you smile at me," or, "I always get goosebumps when I see you walk across the room."
It's completely fine if you're a little awkward when you open up. He'll see that you're vulnerable and he'll appreciate that you're making an effort to share your emotions.
11. Be patient with him.
A Libra man likes to take things slow until he knows you're the one.
If you try to push him into a serious relationship before he's ready, he'll probably bolt. Instead, enjoy getting to know each other and let yourself be swept away by his romantic gestures.
Remember, each of you brings different strengths to your relationship. Appreciate your Libra's desire for harmony and his compassionate nature.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Flirt to let him know you're interested.\\nYour Libra is a skilled flirt—don't be afraid to act bold or seductive!\\nYou might find that you've got competition for his attention, so you need to make it clear that you're into him. Playfully tease him, casually touch him, or smile and hold his gaze. Keep your arms uncrossed, so you appear more approachable and open to what he's saying.\\nYou could say, \\\"You and I clearly need to get away from all these people. Buy you a drink?\\\"\\nIf you've got his number, don't hesitate to send a flirty text. For instance, say, \\\"Tell the truth. How long have you been waiting for a text from me?\\\"\\n2. Put extra effort into your appearance.\\nVenus rules Libra and he's drawn to beauty, so look your best.\\nYou may want to spruce up your style or find a killer outfit that's sure to grab his attention. More than anything, wear something that makes you feel your best. You'll radiate confidence that your Libra guy won't be able to resist.\\nYou don't have to dress like you're going to a black-tie event, but ensure that your clothes are neat and clean. You may want to accessorize with some eyecatching jewelry, too.\\nLibras like romantic or fashionable looks. For instance, you might wear a lace top with a neutral-colored blazer and fitted slacks or a skirt.\\n3. Challenge yourself to be outgoing.\\nLibras are charming and extroverted, so let him see that you can be outgoing, too.\\nCapricorns are usually introverted, or at least you keep a small circle of friends. Make a point of going out more. This might mean hitting the town or going out to parties together, or just getting more on your own so he hears you've been out.\\nIf you're really not a fan of going out, ask a close friend to come out with you. Sometimes, hanging out in a group makes it easier to catch someone's eye.\\n4. Do fun, spontaneous things together.\\nAs an air sign, Libras are carefree, so show him that you can loosen up.\\nAs a Capricorn, you're an Earth sign which is known for being pragmatic and grounded. Show him that you have an exciting side. Challenge him to laser tag, surprise him with tickets to a funfair, or take him to the go-kart track.\\nNot sure what to do? Pick his brain for ideas—say, \\\"What's something you've always wanted to do or try, but never gotten around to?\\\"\\n5. Teach him something new.\\nAppeal to his curious nature by sharing your knowledge.\\nThis does a few things—it shows him that you're smart and engaging, and it piques his interest. Libras love to think and learn, so teaching him something new gives you both something to discuss.\\nYou might say something like, \\\"I can't believe you don't know how to ice skate! We've got to do something about that.\\\"\\nDon't know what to teach? Offer to learn something new together. You could say, \\\"I've always wanted to take dance lessons. Want to learn how to salsa?\\\"\\n6. Have interesting conversations.\\nShow your Libra man that you are a great conversationalist.\\nYou won't have too much trouble with this since you're an intelligent Capricorn. Libras love talking with someone who can hold their own in a conversation. Bonus points if you bring up thoughtful or challenging subjects!\\nFor instance, instead of asking standard questions like \\\"How was your day?\\\" or \\\"What are your favorite movies?\\\" get the conversation started with a more interesting question like, \\\"What was the craziest thing that happened to you today?\\\" or, \\\"If you could choose anywhere in the world to be right now, where would you be?\\\"\\n7. Make him chase you.\\nYour Libra will be intrigued if you're sometimes too busy to go out.\\nIf you say yes every time he asks you out, he might think you're too available. Turning him down occasionally will make him curious. He'll wonder what you're up to and he'll miss you when you're not around.\\nIt's fine to say you've already got plans if he asks you out. However, don't shoot him down every time or he will move on.\\nFor example, if he asks you out without a lot of notice, you could say, \\\"Oh, I wish you had asked me sooner. I'm going out with girlfriends tonight. Maybe we could meet up tomorrow?\\\"\\n8. Tell him about your accomplishments.\\nLibras are impressed by the passion and hard work that go into achievements.\\nDon't be afraid to talk about your successes and goals for the future. As a Capricorn, your hard work means you have a lot to be proud of. He'll love that you're accomplished and motivated to succeed.\\nDon't be surprised if he introduces you to his friends like this, \\\"Guys, this is Janey. She's studying to be a clinical psychologist,\\\" or, \\\"Let me introduce you to Alex. Alex just completed her first half-marathon over the weekend.\\\"\\n9. Give him lots of compliments.\\nLibras know that they're great, but they want to hear it from you.\\nFlattery goes a long way with this sign as long as you're genuine. If you share your honest opinion with him, he'll feel appreciated and valued—definitely a great start for any relationship.\\nFor instance, you might say, \\\"You're a great conversationalist. Do you know that? You really put people at ease,\\\" or, \\\"You make me feel like the most special woman in the room. How do you do it?\\\"\\n10. Let him know how you feel about him.\\nLibras love romance, so be sweet and affectionate to him.\\nAs a Capricorn, it can be hard for you to open up to someone else. This won't fly with a Libra! You've got to get a little romantic—send him a sweet text, call to say goodnight before you go to bed, or just let him know that you've got butterflies in your stomach the next time you see him.\\nFor instance, you might say, \\\"I love the way you smile at me,\\\" or, \\\"I always get goosebumps when I see you walk across the room.\\\"\\nIt's completely fine if you're a little awkward when you open up. He'll see that you're vulnerable and he'll appreciate that you're making an effort to share your emotions.\\n11. Be patient with him.\\nA Libra man likes to take things slow until he knows you're the one.\\nIf you try to push him into a serious relationship before he's ready, he'll probably bolt. Instead, enjoy getting to know each other and let yourself be swept away by his romantic gestures.\\nRemember, each of you brings different strengths to your relationship. Appreciate your Libra's desire for harmony and his compassionate nature.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A Libra guy can be so charming that you may wonder if you have a chance with him. As a practical Capricorn woman, it's no surprise you're drawn to his energy and effortless social skills. Fortunately, he's curious about your quiet, reserved nature, and you two might find that your unique personalities work really well together. Ready to make a move? Read on for a complete guide to spark his interest in you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Flirt to let him know you're interested.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Libra is a skilled flirt—don't be afraid to act bold or seductive!\", \"描述\": \"You might find that you've got competition for his attention, so you need to make it clear that you're into him. Playfully tease him, casually touch him, or smile and hold his gaze. Keep your arms uncrossed, so you appear more approachable and open to what he's saying.\\nYou could say, \\\"You and I clearly need to get away from all these people. Buy you a drink?\\\"\\nIf you've got his number, don't hesitate to send a flirty text. For instance, say, \\\"Tell the truth. How long have you been waiting for a text from me?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Put extra effort into your appearance.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Venus rules Libra and he's drawn to beauty, so look your best.\", \"描述\": \"You may want to spruce up your style or find a killer outfit that's sure to grab his attention. More than anything, wear something that makes you feel your best. You'll radiate confidence that your Libra guy won't be able to resist.\\nYou don't have to dress like you're going to a black-tie event, but ensure that your clothes are neat and clean. You may want to accessorize with some eyecatching jewelry, too.\\nLibras like romantic or fashionable looks. For instance, you might wear a lace top with a neutral-colored blazer and fitted slacks or a skirt.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Challenge yourself to be outgoing.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Libras are charming and extroverted, so let him see that you can be outgoing, too.\", \"描述\": \"Capricorns are usually introverted, or at least you keep a small circle of friends. Make a point of going out more. This might mean hitting the town or going out to parties together, or just getting more on your own so he hears you've been out.\\nIf you're really not a fan of going out, ask a close friend to come out with you. Sometimes, hanging out in a group makes it easier to catch someone's eye.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Do fun, spontaneous things together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"As an air sign, Libras are carefree, so show him that you can loosen up.\", \"描述\": \"As a Capricorn, you're an Earth sign which is known for being pragmatic and grounded. Show him that you have an exciting side. Challenge him to laser tag, surprise him with tickets to a funfair, or take him to the go-kart track.\\nNot sure what to do? Pick his brain for ideas—say, \\\"What's something you've always wanted to do or try, but never gotten around to?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Teach him something new.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Appeal to his curious nature by sharing your knowledge.\", \"描述\": \"This does a few things—it shows him that you're smart and engaging, and it piques his interest. Libras love to think and learn, so teaching him something new gives you both something to discuss.\\nYou might say something like, \\\"I can't believe you don't know how to ice skate! We've got to do something about that.\\\"\\nDon't know what to teach? Offer to learn something new together. You could say, \\\"I've always wanted to take dance lessons. Want to learn how to salsa?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Have interesting conversations.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show your Libra man that you are a great conversationalist.\", \"描述\": \"You won't have too much trouble with this since you're an intelligent Capricorn. Libras love talking with someone who can hold their own in a conversation. Bonus points if you bring up thoughtful or challenging subjects!\\nFor instance, instead of asking standard questions like \\\"How was your day?\\\" or \\\"What are your favorite movies?\\\" get the conversation started with a more interesting question like, \\\"What was the craziest thing that happened to you today?\\\" or, \\\"If you could choose anywhere in the world to be right now, where would you be?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Make him chase you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Libra will be intrigued if you're sometimes too busy to go out.\", \"描述\": \"If you say yes every time he asks you out, he might think you're too available. Turning him down occasionally will make him curious. He'll wonder what you're up to and he'll miss you when you're not around.\\nIt's fine to say you've already got plans if he asks you out. However, don't shoot him down every time or he will move on.\\nFor example, if he asks you out without a lot of notice, you could say, \\\"Oh, I wish you had asked me sooner. I'm going out with girlfriends tonight. Maybe we could meet up tomorrow?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Tell him about your accomplishments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Libras are impressed by the passion and hard work that go into achievements.\", \"描述\": \"Don't be afraid to talk about your successes and goals for the future. As a Capricorn, your hard work means you have a lot to be proud of. He'll love that you're accomplished and motivated to succeed.\\nDon't be surprised if he introduces you to his friends like this, \\\"Guys, this is Janey. She's studying to be a clinical psychologist,\\\" or, \\\"Let me introduce you to Alex. Alex just completed her first half-marathon over the weekend.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Give him lots of compliments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Libras know that they're great, but they want to hear it from you.\", \"描述\": \"Flattery goes a long way with this sign as long as you're genuine. If you share your honest opinion with him, he'll feel appreciated and valued—definitely a great start for any relationship.\\nFor instance, you might say, \\\"You're a great conversationalist. Do you know that? You really put people at ease,\\\" or, \\\"You make me feel like the most special woman in the room. How do you do it?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Let him know how you feel about him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Libras love romance, so be sweet and affectionate to him.\", \"描述\": \"As a Capricorn, it can be hard for you to open up to someone else. This won't fly with a Libra! You've got to get a little romantic—send him a sweet text, call to say goodnight before you go to bed, or just let him know that you've got butterflies in your stomach the next time you see him.\\nFor instance, you might say, \\\"I love the way you smile at me,\\\" or, \\\"I always get goosebumps when I see you walk across the room.\\\"\\nIt's completely fine if you're a little awkward when you open up. He'll see that you're vulnerable and he'll appreciate that you're making an effort to share your emotions.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Be patient with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Libra man likes to take things slow until he knows you're the one.\", \"描述\": \"If you try to push him into a serious relationship before he's ready, he'll probably bolt. Instead, enjoy getting to know each other and let yourself be swept away by his romantic gestures.\\nRemember, each of you brings different strengths to your relationship. 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2,788 | How to Attract a Libra Man As a Gemini Woman | 1. Look him in the eye.
A Libra man lives for the electric thrill of eye contact.
Anything that gives this guy a shiver of excitement is immediately attractive to him. Plus, Libra is an air sign, which means he's a super social extrovert. Making eye contact without hesitation tells him that you're outgoing and you're ready to communicate.
Gemini is also an air sign, and air signs are magnetically drawn to one another. You’ll both feel the chemistry immediately when you look at each other.
2. Be friendly and upbeat.
This sign is drawn to positive energy.
Libras are glass half-full types, so that’s the lens through which they see the world. Luckily, as a Gemini, you have plenty of optimism and good vibes to match. Positivity will absolutely radiate around the two of you whenever you’re together—you'll both feel it and everyone in the room will notice it, too.
If your Libra is happily chatting back to you and matching your upbeat energy, he’s digging you. This sign isn't great at polite small talk, so if he isn’t feeling it, he’ll act cold and distant.
3. Compliment him.
Since Libras struggle with confidence, he’ll appreciate the ego boost.
Despite his flawless style, good looks, and positive attitude, deep down your Libra is a bit insecure. This sign is represented by double sided scales, which explains his dual nature—self-assured on the outside, tense on the inside. Compliments are an easy way to boost his confidence and make him feel great.
You can compliment his looks, but Libras worry more about their skills and talents (they’re incorrigible perfectionists). Focus your compliments there for the most impact.
Wait for an opportunity to swoop in with a genuine compliment so it feels really natural. Geminis are lightning-fast thinkers, so this will be easy for you.
You might say, "I had no idea you were a pianist! The piece you just played was incredible. You have a real gift."
4. Bring up intellectual topics.
Libras love intelligent conversation and crave mental connection.
As Astrologer Angel Eyedealism emphasizes, a Libra man "wants a woman who is refined and intellectual." As a fellow air sign, you understand this better than any other zodiac sign. Chatting about all manner of interesting things comes easily to both of you, so just talk about your current fascinations and passions. He’ll jump in with his thoughts and you’ll find yourselves talking late into the night.
Libras prefer to discuss lofty topics like philosophy, art, literature, and science.
The Gemini/Libra bond is built on a mutual love of communication and mental stimulation. It's the reason why you're one of the best zodiac matches.
Libras hate gossip, so avoid that at all costs. They also dislike vulgar language and crude humor, so keep it clean.
5. Be spontaneous.
This sign gets bored with routine, so try to be flexible.
Libras love spontaneity, so it’s only a matter of time before your guy springs a random idea on you to see what you'll do. Make sure he knows that you’re down for whatever at the drop of a hat. He’ll be very attracted to your willingness to change things up whenever the mood strikes him.
Both of you tend to be indecisive, so you may need to focus on making decisions like where to go and what to do. Otherwise, you both might end up floating around aimlessly all day (of course, that can be fun, too!)
6. Hit the town with him.
Your guy is a social butterfly who lives for beauty, art, and culture.
Air signs are extremely social, so this is another area where you and your Libra are perfectly matched. Since Venus-ruled Libras are obsessed with the finer things in life, your guy prefers urban settings where he can soak up culture. Live music, art exhibits, and indie films are some of his favorite activities. You can:
Invite him to attend a foreign film festival with you
Buy tickets and take him to see his favorite band
Take him to an art gallery opening or museum exhibit
7. Hang out with his friends.
A Libra’s immediate social circle is really important to them.
Your guy probably spends a lot of time with his friend group, so be open to meeting them. When you're hanging out with his friends, just be yourself and do your best to mesh with their energy. Seeing you bonding with his besties will definitely warm a Libra’s heart.
This will be easy for a fun-loving Gemini! You’ll win them over in no time with your charm and wit.
8. Plan exciting date activities.
Libras are always looking for their next adventure.
Libras are thrill-seekers who thrive on excitement and adrenaline. If you really want to impress this guy, invite him to do something fun that'll get your hearts pounding. As a Libra, he’ll be intrigued immediately and agree without hesitation. You might:
Ask him to spend the day riding roller coasters at an amusement park
Sign the two of you up for sky-diving or bungee lessons
If he’s outdoorsy, invite him to hike a challenging trail nearby
9. Dress in stylish outfits.
Libras appreciate great style since they’re ruled by Venus.
Venus is the planet of beauty and appearances, so this sign is drawn to tasteful dressers with great style. As a Gemini, you love pairing timeless classics with bold statement pieces—this is a great style combo to get a Libra’s attention. Turning up in your best fit is a great way to get his attention.
Libras have an eye for detail, so pick eye-catching accessories like a chunky necklace, patterned scarf, or colorful shoes.
Since this guy wants someone who looks good on his arm, pay attention to his personal style and choose outfits that compliment his vibe.
10. Flaunt your confidence.
This sign is drawn to people who sparkle in the limelight.
Libra is symbolized by double-sided scales, so these folks are always seeking to balance their energy with their partner’s energy. Since deep down Libras tend to struggle with confidence, your guy will love that an extroverted Gemini can come along and supply confidence in spades.
For example, wear something eye-catching to an event. When all eyes are on you, remember to smile and stand up straight so you exude confidence.
Embrace your quirky qualities to help a Libra come out of his shell. For example, crack his friends up with your silliest celebrity impressions.
11. Be patient with him.
Libras need time before moving forward in a serious relationship.
Luckily, as a Gemini, you understand this perfectly because you’re the exact same way. You both flit around easily enough when it comes to casual relationships, but serious relationships are a different story. You both want time and space to really feel it out before you make it official.
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Positivity will absolutely radiate around the two of you whenever you’re together—you'll both feel it and everyone in the room will notice it, too.\\nIf your Libra is happily chatting back to you and matching your upbeat energy, he’s digging you. This sign isn't great at polite small talk, so if he isn’t feeling it, he’ll act cold and distant.\\n3. Compliment him.\\nSince Libras struggle with confidence, he’ll appreciate the ego boost.\\nDespite his flawless style, good looks, and positive attitude, deep down your Libra is a bit insecure. This sign is represented by double sided scales, which explains his dual nature—self-assured on the outside, tense on the inside. Compliments are an easy way to boost his confidence and make him feel great.\\nYou can compliment his looks, but Libras worry more about their skills and talents (they’re incorrigible perfectionists). Focus your compliments there for the most impact.\\nWait for an opportunity to swoop in with a genuine compliment so it feels really natural. Geminis are lightning-fast thinkers, so this will be easy for you.\\nYou might say, \\\"I had no idea you were a pianist! The piece you just played was incredible. You have a real gift.\\\"\\n4. Bring up intellectual topics.\\nLibras love intelligent conversation and crave mental connection.\\nAs Astrologer Angel Eyedealism emphasizes, a Libra man \\\"wants a woman who is refined and intellectual.\\\" As a fellow air sign, you understand this better than any other zodiac sign. Chatting about all manner of interesting things comes easily to both of you, so just talk about your current fascinations and passions. He’ll jump in with his thoughts and you’ll find yourselves talking late into the night.\\nLibras prefer to discuss lofty topics like philosophy, art, literature, and science.\\nThe Gemini/Libra bond is built on a mutual love of communication and mental stimulation. It's the reason why you're one of the best zodiac matches.\\nLibras hate gossip, so avoid that at all costs. They also dislike vulgar language and crude humor, so keep it clean.\\n5. Be spontaneous.\\nThis sign gets bored with routine, so try to be flexible.\\nLibras love spontaneity, so it’s only a matter of time before your guy springs a random idea on you to see what you'll do. Make sure he knows that you’re down for whatever at the drop of a hat. He’ll be very attracted to your willingness to change things up whenever the mood strikes him.\\nBoth of you tend to be indecisive, so you may need to focus on making decisions like where to go and what to do. Otherwise, you both might end up floating around aimlessly all day (of course, that can be fun, too!)\\n6. Hit the town with him.\\nYour guy is a social butterfly who lives for beauty, art, and culture.\\nAir signs are extremely social, so this is another area where you and your Libra are perfectly matched. Since Venus-ruled Libras are obsessed with the finer things in life, your guy prefers urban settings where he can soak up culture. Live music, art exhibits, and indie films are some of his favorite activities. You can:\\nInvite him to attend a foreign film festival with you\\nBuy tickets and take him to see his favorite band\\nTake him to an art gallery opening or museum exhibit\\n7. Hang out with his friends.\\nA Libra’s immediate social circle is really important to them.\\nYour guy probably spends a lot of time with his friend group, so be open to meeting them. When you're hanging out with his friends, just be yourself and do your best to mesh with their energy. Seeing you bonding with his besties will definitely warm a Libra’s heart.\\nThis will be easy for a fun-loving Gemini! You’ll win them over in no time with your charm and wit.\\n8. Plan exciting date activities.\\nLibras are always looking for their next adventure.\\nLibras are thrill-seekers who thrive on excitement and adrenaline. If you really want to impress this guy, invite him to do something fun that'll get your hearts pounding. As a Libra, he’ll be intrigued immediately and agree without hesitation. You might:\\nAsk him to spend the day riding roller coasters at an amusement park\\nSign the two of you up for sky-diving or bungee lessons\\nIf he’s outdoorsy, invite him to hike a challenging trail nearby\\n9. Dress in stylish outfits.\\nLibras appreciate great style since they’re ruled by Venus.\\nVenus is the planet of beauty and appearances, so this sign is drawn to tasteful dressers with great style. 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2,789 | How to Attract a Libra Man Sexually | 1. Dress to impress.
Libra men appreciate snappy dressers with style.
Libras are ruled by Venus, the planet that governs beauty and attractiveness, so appearance is important to this sign. Your guy is likely a sharp dresser and he wants someone on his arm who’s just as stylish (if not more so). You don’t have to buy expensive designer pieces to impress him, though. Focus on fashionable outfits that fit you well.
Libras adore statement accessories, so spruce up your outfit with something eye-catching like a colorful purse or bold piece of jewelry.
If it’s in your budget, treat yourself to a mani pedi or a gorgeous perfume. Libras notice all the little details.
2. Be friendly and positive.
Libras are glass half-full types and love to be around similar energy.
This sign is easy to please, so don’t force yourself to be saccharine. Just flash him a genuine smile, laugh at his jokes, and project an upbeat attitude. He’ll appreciate your sunny vibe and be drawn into your orbit in no time.
3. Give him plenty of compliments.
Libras struggle with low self-esteem so he’ll love the ego boost.
Despite their impeccable style and laid back attitudes, men born under this sign often feel insecure. Libra is represented by double sided scales, which is why your guy has a dual nature—confident on the outside, anxious on the inside. Compliments are a great way to boost his confidence.
Compliments about his looks are fine, but deep down he wants to hear positive words about his skills and talents.
You might say something like, "I am so impressed with your guitar playing skills. You have a real gift."
4. Hit the town with him and his friends.
Your guy is a social butterfly and needs a partner who can keep up.
Air signs are extremely social and their circle of friends is important to them. Your guy probably spends a lot of time with his friend group, so be open to meeting them and do your best to mesh with their energy.
Luckily, since Libras are obsessed with art and culture, he won’t be doing keg stands with his bros on the weekends. They’re more likely to be out enjoying live music, checking out art exhibits, and watching foreign films.
5. Bring up intellectual topics.
Libras crave stimulating conversation and mental connection.
If you want to get this guy into your bedroom, you’ll first have to wow him with your intelligence and quick wit. Be able to hold your own on a variety of topics and he’ll be very impressed. He prefers intellectual discussions and loves to hear people speak about their interests and passions.
You might ask him, "So what are your thoughts on space exploration? When do you think humans will finally make it to Mars?"
Libras are very turned off by gossip, so avoid this at all costs.
6. Invite him to a museum or concert.
This sign is drawn to folks who appreciate beauty, art, and culture.
Aesthetics are everything to Libras and they spend a lot of time indulging this side of their personality. Your guy will find it very attractive if you’re into the arts, too. You might invite him to do something like:
Check out a new art gallery with you.
Attend a foreign film festival.
Drop in at the local jazz club.
7. Shower him with affection.
Libra men enjoy PDA so don’t be shy.
Since Libras are very image-oriented folks, they want the world to see them being worshiped by their partner. Your guy also simply appreciates the good vibes created by touches and caresses. Heavy petting, hugging, hand-holding, and smooches are all fair game.
8. Set the mood with candles and music.
Since Libras are all about atmosphere, create a romantic vibe.
Atmosphere is very important when you’re trying to romance a Libra! Light some scented candles, put a bottle of champagne on ice, and turn the lights down low to set the stage.
Libras love little details like these that create the perfect ambiance. Since Venus is their ruling planet, Libras want to be surrounded by beauty.
9. Murmur sweet nothings into his ear.
Libras adore all forms of communication, especially when it’s romantic.
Like all air signs, communication is a big deal to Libras. They’re also hopeless romantics, so saying passionate things to him is a great way to crank up the sexual tension and get things moving toward the bedroom. You might say:
"Are you ready to leave this party? I can’t take my eyes off you and I think we need some privacy."
"You look so handsome tonight. I feel so lucky."
10. Be open about your likes and dislikes.
This sign appreciates a take-charge attitude in the bedroom.
Again, air signs are all about communication, so your Libra will love it if you ask him exactly what he likes (and doesn’t like) in bed. He'll appreciate it if you open up about your preferences, as well. You might say:
"So, do you prefer slow caresses or do you like things to heat up more quickly?"
"Giving me a massage will definitely get me in the mood..."
11. Be adventurous in the bedroom.
Libras prefer playful and sexually spontaneous lovers.
Routine is important to Libras outside the bedroom, but behind closed doors, that’s the last thing they want. Your man loves surprises and trying new things, so try to let loose and go with flow around this guy. You might say:
"Do you have any fantasies you want to share with me? I'm open to trying new things."
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Your guy probably spends a lot of time with his friend group, so be open to meeting them and do your best to mesh with their energy.\\nLuckily, since Libras are obsessed with art and culture, he won’t be doing keg stands with his bros on the weekends. They’re more likely to be out enjoying live music, checking out art exhibits, and watching foreign films.\\n5. Bring up intellectual topics.\\nLibras crave stimulating conversation and mental connection.\\nIf you want to get this guy into your bedroom, you’ll first have to wow him with your intelligence and quick wit. Be able to hold your own on a variety of topics and he’ll be very impressed. He prefers intellectual discussions and loves to hear people speak about their interests and passions.\\nYou might ask him, \\\"So what are your thoughts on space exploration? When do you think humans will finally make it to Mars?\\\"\\nLibras are very turned off by gossip, so avoid this at all costs.\\n6. 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2,790 | How to Attract a Libra Woman As a Cancer Woman | 1. Chat about your passions with her.
Talk to her about something specific and have an interesting conversation about it.
Your Libra is interested in your life, your passions, hobbies, and interests, so tell her about them. For example, if you recently read a book or an article, share your thoughts with her. An intellectual Libra will appreciate it.
2. Do something creative with her.
Libras are productive and creative, as are Cancers.
Libras are so driven by beauty, balance, and love that they often feel compelled to devote all of their energy to making things look nice. The sense of aesthetics is very important for them. The same is true for creative Cancer—Cancerians are naturally creative and imaginative, and they appreciate beautiful things. It is important to them to look good, as well as to make their home/room/desk/car look trendy and welcoming.
3. Show off your generosity.
The beauty of Libra is that it is always looking for balance and likability, and this wealthy dominion is one of the most generous.
Librans are drawn to positive things. Show her your generosity! Make a charitable donation so that they can see your generosity. If you are unable to donate, consider volunteering for a cause that is important to you. Because Libra and Cancer are two of the most generous signs, being generous to others should come naturally to a Cancerian.
Show off your generosity by helping her and others. For example, if you're both in school, you could let her know you're tutoring another student. Or, you could go out for coffee on you.
4. Practice patience with your Libra.
It may be difficult to trust the Libra woman's sincerity unless she is head over heels in love.
That's because she's enchanted by every dazzling possibility in her orbit. She is hesitant to be claimed, preferring to remain open to the best that life has to offer. However, once she has found her "other half," her attention is drawn to the relationship. She's a dependable anchor for long-term relationships, always looking for ways to improve things.
5. Be open and honest about your emotions and thoughts.
Libras are prone to pleasing others.
As a result, they value the fact that they are surrounded by people who are truthful. Simply being honest with her will help you attract a Libra woman. Even if it stings a little, Libra will appreciate your honesty. Lies will erode a Libra's trust in you and may even drive them away.
However, avoid cursing or being rude or gross around her.
6. Get your romance on.
Because Cancers are hopeless romantics and Libras are born flirtatious, it's another reason these signs are attracted to each other.
Libra is known for their easy love, but when it comes to commitment, they take their time. Libras may appear aloof at first, but once they are at ease, they are open, affectionate, and romantic. Cancers, without a doubt, are hopeless romantics. They're romantic, loyal, and sensitive to what others want as well as what their hearts' desire, which makes them a pretty good romantic pairing. With a Libra, it never hurts to bring flowers to a date with a Libra, or to plan a special surprise birthday dinner for them at that fancy restaurant they've been wanting to try.
7. Find effective ways to deal with conflict.
Cancers and Libras try to avoid conflict at all costs.
However, when conflict arises, Cancers prefer directness, whereas Libras prefer to sweep things under the rug to avoid arguing, giving them low compatibility when it comes to honesty, communication, and conflict. Provide a safe space for your Libra to express themselves honestly, and encourage them to share their feelings with you.
8. Make time for each other once you’re dating.
As much as being around people energizes a Libra, she also needs a break every now and then.
Libra will need breaks socializing, whether it's time at home with her S.O. or an afternoon spent alone—which is fine with Cancer, because she will like to socialize but will need to re-energize after a social event.
Tips
Don't engage in gossip with your Libra woman. Don't bring up someone else's life; she'll be offended.
Libras love entertaining others. Laugh at her jokes and tell her she's funny if she is.
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Show off your generosity.\\nThe beauty of Libra is that it is always looking for balance and likability, and this wealthy dominion is one of the most generous.\\nLibrans are drawn to positive things. Show her your generosity! Make a charitable donation so that they can see your generosity. If you are unable to donate, consider volunteering for a cause that is important to you. Because Libra and Cancer are two of the most generous signs, being generous to others should come naturally to a Cancerian.\\nShow off your generosity by helping her and others. For example, if you're both in school, you could let her know you're tutoring another student. Or, you could go out for coffee on you.\\n4. Practice patience with your Libra.\\nIt may be difficult to trust the Libra woman's sincerity unless she is head over heels in love.\\nThat's because she's enchanted by every dazzling possibility in her orbit. She is hesitant to be claimed, preferring to remain open to the best that life has to offer. However, once she has found her \\\"other half,\\\" her attention is drawn to the relationship. She's a dependable anchor for long-term relationships, always looking for ways to improve things.\\n5. Be open and honest about your emotions and thoughts.\\nLibras are prone to pleasing others.\\nAs a result, they value the fact that they are surrounded by people who are truthful. Simply being honest with her will help you attract a Libra woman. Even if it stings a little, Libra will appreciate your honesty. Lies will erode a Libra's trust in you and may even drive them away.\\nHowever, avoid cursing or being rude or gross around her.\\n6. Get your romance on.\\nBecause Cancers are hopeless romantics and Libras are born flirtatious, it's another reason these signs are attracted to each other.\\nLibra is known for their easy love, but when it comes to commitment, they take their time. Libras may appear aloof at first, but once they are at ease, they are open, affectionate, and romantic. Cancers, without a doubt, are hopeless romantics. They're romantic, loyal, and sensitive to what others want as well as what their hearts' desire, which makes them a pretty good romantic pairing. With a Libra, it never hurts to bring flowers to a date with a Libra, or to plan a special surprise birthday dinner for them at that fancy restaurant they've been wanting to try.\\n7. Find effective ways to deal with conflict.\\nCancers and Libras try to avoid conflict at all costs.\\nHowever, when conflict arises, Cancers prefer directness, whereas Libras prefer to sweep things under the rug to avoid arguing, giving them low compatibility when it comes to honesty, communication, and conflict. Provide a safe space for your Libra to express themselves honestly, and encourage them to share their feelings with you.\\n8. Make time for each other once you’re dating.\\nAs much as being around people energizes a Libra, she also needs a break every now and then.\\nLibra will need breaks socializing, whether it's time at home with her S.O. or an afternoon spent alone—which is fine with Cancer, because she will like to socialize but will need to re-energize after a social event.\\nTips\\nDon't engage in gossip with your Libra woman. Don't bring up someone else's life; she'll be offended.\\nLibras love entertaining others. Laugh at her jokes and tell her she's funny if she is.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"On the surface, Cancer and Libra don't appear to be a good match for a relationship. However, relationships between Cancers and Libras tend to be strong. Libra will be drawn to Cancer's calm presence and confidence, while Cancer will be drawn to Libra's sense of humor. When Cancer and Libra meet for love or any other type of relationship, the atmosphere is elegant and sensual, but also emotional. 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2,791 | How to Attract a Man's Attention | 1. Attracting His Attention from Across the Room
1-1. Double check that you don't have anything in your teeth.
Flashing a smile riddled with parsley may not be the best way to attract a man's attention, so be sure to check that you have no chunks of things in your teeth before you start flashing a man your pearly whites. Once you are done with your lunch, chew a gum to remove the obvious stains on your teeth.
1-2. Make eye contact
When you spot the man whose attention you would like to attract, begin making subtle eye contact with him. However, do not stare—unless you are really good at pulling off a seductive stare, you may come across as creepy rather than flirtatious. Instead:
Let your eyes linger on your man. Wait until he catches you looking at him, hold eye contact for a second, and then look away. If you are feeling extra adventurous, you could even flash him a smile while holding eye contact (if you can flash a one-second smile).
1-3. Use your eyebrows to send a message.
Once you have made eye contact a couple of times, the next time you lock eyes, move your eyebrows up for a half a second, before dropping them quickly and looking away. This will send the message that you have noticed him noticing you.
Doing this may cause him to think that he may have met you before. This may prompt him to come over and say hello.
1-4. Smile at him.
After you have made eye contact with your man on several occasions, feel free to give him a smile. Smiling makes you seem approachable and open, which is how you want to appear if you want him to come over and talk to you.
1-5. Cross and uncross your legs when you are sitting down.
If you have a killer pair of legs, don't be afraid to show them off. Instead, draw a man's attention by changing your seated position every couple of minutes. This movement may help to catch his eye.
Crossing and uncrossing your legs can be seen as a flirtatious action. However, don't make this movement too much, or you may look like you're anxious or something is wrong.
It's also important to make sure your legs are crossed toward the guy in question. Be slow and purposeful in your movements, and use the narrowed space as an excuse to lean your legs closer to his.
Conversely, don't keep your legs tightly crossed and tucked directly underneath your body the whole time. That's often seen as a sign of disinterest. If you don't think you cross your legs comfortably in his direction, it would be better to keep them uncrossed than to cross them away from him.
1-6. Hang out with one or two close friends.
Some men find it easier to approach a woman if she is in a small group of friends. Take advantage of this and grab yourself some wing-women then hit the town with these ladies. When your guy approaches you, your wing-women will know to talk to you, then take off.
Wing-women are your friends that know you are trying to attract a guy's attention and they will do anything in their power to make you look fantastic.
If you are in a large group of friends, try to pair off with a smaller group of friends every so often to give your man a chance to approach you confidently.
2. Keeping His Attention While Talking with Him
2-1. Be yourself.
When he comes over to talk to you, or you approach him, be confident in yourself. Don't try to pretend to be someone else; you are already amazing enough as it is. If you start out the conversation pretending to be someone else, but realize you want to see this guy again, it will be much harder to set the record straight later on, so just be yourself from the start.
Honesty is a great policy, particularly if you are planning on seeing this man again. If he asks you to introduce yourself, be straightforward but NEVER try to brag too much about yourself even though it may mean being "confident" in any kind of manner.
2-2. Show off your intelligence.
Don't be afraid to get a little witty. Intelligence is attractive to most men. Part of being yourself is not making yourself look stupid just to get a man's attention. Be confident in your intellect.
Discuss things you are interested in or know a lot about to show that you are not afraid to be smart.
Keep in mind that some guys may not be interested in intelligent women. That said, there are plenty who are, and a man's degree of interest can also vary depending on his intentions. Most men looking for long-term romance value intelligence in a woman more than men who are looking for a casual fling.
2-3. Don't be afraid to laugh.
Whether you make him laugh, or he makes you laugh, feel free to crack a smile and give in to the giggles. Laughing can be charming, and having a sense of humor will definitely catch, and keep a man's attention.
Don't force yourself to laugh at the guy's jokes just to make him feel good. However, don't be rude if you don't think he's funny—consider changing the topic instead.
If the guy you are talking to doesn't seem to like to laugh, or seems turned off by your ability to laugh easily, he may not be the guy you want to catch the attention of.
2-4. Talk about things you are passionate about.
Passion is a very attractive quality to all men. Talking about things that you are interested in can show off some great parts about yourself: your intellect, your thoughts, and your loves.
However, do not dwell on a topic where you do all the talking for too long. If you continue to talk about your horseback riding career for 45 minutes, you may begin to lose his interest, or potentially sound conceited.
2-5. Pay attention to what he is saying.
While discussing your passions and interests is very important, listening to what your man is saying is equally as important. Showing that you are interested and actually engaging in conversation with him will make him want to keep his attention on you.
Look him in the eyes when he is telling a story, and laugh at his jokes (if you think they are funny). Ask questions that show you are paying attention to what he is saying.
2-6. Establish physical contact.
While talking with your man, break the 'touch barrier' by placing your hand on his arm when you laugh, or brushing your knee against his if you are seated. Breaking this invisible barrier by establishing physical contact may help to keep his attention solely on you. Other ways to break the touch barrier include. But please, don't make it too obvious till he notices that you are doing it on purpose:
Brushing his hand with your own when you pass him something.
Brushing his arm with yours when you are walking side by side.
2-7. Use your hands to tell a story.
When you fidget or hold your hands in front of you, you can give off the vibe that you are using your hands and arms as a barrier. To eliminate this perceived barrier, set aside whatever you're holding, be it a drink, purse, or cell phone, and use your hands to animate a story you're telling.
3. Getting Yourself Ready to Attract His Attention
3-1. Develop your self-confidence.
Before you try to attract any man, be it across the room or directly in front of you, it is important that you be confident in yourself. Loving yourself and knowing how amazing you are is one of the most attractive things you can do. When you love yourself, it is more likely that others will follow suit. To practice yourself confidence:
Focus on your positive traits. These should include both physical traits and parts of your personality that you love. Focusing on the positive, rather than on the negative, can help you to feel more comfortable in your own skin.
Remind yourself of how awesome you are. Consider your accomplishments and the amazing things that you have done in your lifetime.
Consider how you can improve the things that you don't like as much about yourself. If you don't like the color of your hair, consider dyeing it. If you don't like that you become easily stressed, practice relaxation techniques. However, always bear in mind that you should be making these improvements for yourself—not to attract someone else.
3-2. Dress to impress.
Once you feel confident about yourself both inside and out, you can then begin to focus on attracting a man's attention. Begin with your outfit. You should wear something that you feel comfortable in, but that also makes you feel beautiful, or even sexy. However, don't try to catch a guy's eye by wearing a dress with a neckline that reaches down to your belly button; instead, wear an outfit that compliments your personality and—most importantly—makes you feel fabulous.
Show of your neck and shoulders if possible. Many men consider a woman's neck and shoulders to be very alluring and attractive parts of her body. Instead of wearing a dress that hardly covers your breasts try wearing a halter top dress and a loose updo to give your man a peek at your neck.
Don't forget to pick out some great shoes. Again, wearing a pair of shoes that you feel comfortable in (meaning you can walk in them) is key—if you are tottering around on sky-high heels, you may come across as looking like you've had one too many drinks.
3-3. Keep your hair and makeup in order.
Once you have selected a jaw-dropping outfit, it's time to do your makeup and hair. There is no need to pile on the makeup, but if you feel like you look great with a bunch of eyeliner and mascara making your eyes pop, then go for it! Again, do what will make you feel the most confident and sexy—when you feel confident, you will certainly catch men's attentions.
Choosing a hairstyle can be tricky. It is important to keep your face shape in mind, as well as the texture of your hair. To learn more about choosing a hairstyle, click here.
3-4. Smell fantastic.
When you smell good, a man will notice. When you smell bad, a man will also notice. Because of this, make sure to rub on some deodorant and give yourself a spritz of your favorite perfume. Using perfume can actually enhance your natural pheromones, making you more attractive to the opposite sex. Some scents that are considered to work well when catching a man's attention are:
Rose.
Sandalwood.
Jasmine.
3-5. Wear an eye-catching necklace.
Wearing a necklace that will draw his attention to your neck can help to hook a man's attention. Many men consider a woman's neck to be a feminine and captivating part of her body, so show off your elegant neckline by wearing a necklace that flatters your looks.
Tips
Perfume may help increase allurement, be careful not to overdo it or it may have the opposite effect.
When putting on perfume, put it on lightly do he will have to come closer to smell it. This could attract him if he is confident enough to get close.
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Laughing can be charming, and having a sense of humor will definitely catch, and keep a man's attention.\\nDon't force yourself to laugh at the guy's jokes just to make him feel good. However, don't be rude if you don't think he's funny—consider changing the topic instead.\\nIf the guy you are talking to doesn't seem to like to laugh, or seems turned off by your ability to laugh easily, he may not be the guy you want to catch the attention of.\\n2-4. Talk about things you are passionate about.\\nPassion is a very attractive quality to all men. Talking about things that you are interested in can show off some great parts about yourself: your intellect, your thoughts, and your loves.\\nHowever, do not dwell on a topic where you do all the talking for too long. If you continue to talk about your horseback riding career for 45 minutes, you may begin to lose his interest, or potentially sound conceited.\\n2-5. 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Keep your hair and makeup in order.\\nOnce you have selected a jaw-dropping outfit, it's time to do your makeup and hair. There is no need to pile on the makeup, but if you feel like you look great with a bunch of eyeliner and mascara making your eyes pop, then go for it! Again, do what will make you feel the most confident and sexy—when you feel confident, you will certainly catch men's attentions.\\nChoosing a hairstyle can be tricky. It is important to keep your face shape in mind, as well as the texture of your hair. To learn more about choosing a hairstyle, click here.\\n3-4. Smell fantastic.\\nWhen you smell good, a man will notice. When you smell bad, a man will also notice. Because of this, make sure to rub on some deodorant and give yourself a spritz of your favorite perfume. Using perfume can actually enhance your natural pheromones, making you more attractive to the opposite sex. 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2,792 | 11 Steps to Attract a Man Who Wants a Committed Relationship | 1. Join a more serious dating site.
Pick one that’s known for serious relationships, not hookups.
In general, the sites that have you fill out a lot of information before matching you with potential suitors are the ones that will lead you to a long-term commitment. Try sites like OkCupid, Match, and Plenty of Fish, and be sure to include that you’re looking for something serious.
Other sites like Tinder, Bumble, and Grindr are fine, but they only match you up based on age range and location. This tends to lead to more casual flings.
2. Ask friends or family to set you up with someone.
Specify that you’re looking for a long-term commitment only.
Your loved ones know you best, so they might be able to help find a guy that’s right for you. Ask around to see if your friends or family know anyone who’s single that you might be able to grab a drink with. You never know who you’ll meet through a mutual friend!
Going out with a friend of a friend is also safer than meeting up with a stranger. Since you know someone who knows them, you can be fairly certain that they are who they say they are.
3. Look for someone who fits into your lifestyle.
Someone who complements you is much more likely to commit to you.
For instance, if you’re a career-oriented person and you want to find someone with the same goals, look for a man with a steady job and a high income. That way, your lifestyles fit together instead of clashing.
If you really value family and want to be a stay at home parent, look for a man who wants to be the breadwinner in the relationship.
4. Go for an older guy.
Men aged 28 to 33 are more likely to commit.
This stage of life that they’re in is more conducive to settling down and getting married, so it’s a good age range to check out. If you find a guy who’s outside of that range, don’t worry—he might still value commitment! But, you have a much higher chance of finding a guy to settle down with if he’s in that range.
Studies also show that once men reach age 38, their commitment levels severely decrease. Again, it’s not impossible, but it is more unlikely.
5. Take things slow.
Try not to put pressure on your man so you don’t push him away.
It can feel counterintuitive, but by taking things slow and letting your relationship progress naturally, you can actually get a man to commit to you much faster. Otherwise, you run the risk of scaring him off.
For instance, you’ll want to avoid talking about marriage or kids on the first few dates.
Save the “What are we?” talk until you’ve been seeing each other for a few weeks (or even months).
You may also want to take things slow physically, too. Having sex too quickly can make your man think you’re only in it for the hookup.
6. Be positive.
An air of positivity will always keep a guy invested in you.
When you see the guy you’re dating, try to remain positive, and avoid too much complaining or negativity. Everyone’s allowed to have a bad day every now and then, but do your best to stay positive and look on the bright side of things. You’ll keep him coming back for more every time!
Let’s say your car breaks down, and now you have to bike everywhere. Instead of complaining about it, you might say, “Well, at least I get to enjoy the sunshine!”
7. Give only as much as you get.
Match the energy that he puts into the relationship.
If he only makes time to see you once a week, then that’s how often you should see him. If he only calls you every other day to check in, then you shouldn’t call him more than that. Pouring too much of yourself into a relationship can be bad for your mental health, and unfortunately, it might also push your guy away.
This is also a good way to ensure you aren’t moving too quickly. If he saves the “What are we?” conversation for a few months down the line, then try to be okay with a casual thing for now.
8. Accept gifts and favors.
Let him invest in the relationship so he feels good about it.
It sounds counterintuitive, but getting someone to like you is all about letting them do things for you. When they feel like they can take care of you, they fall for you even more, so do your best to accept his help when he offers.
Car is in the shop? Tell him about it, then accept his offer to give you a ride to work.
Not feeling well? Shoot him a text, then say thank you when he offers to bring you soup.
You can accept his offers for favors, but try not to overdo it. If you ask him for something new every week, he might feel taken advantage of.
9. Maintain your independence.
Live your life outside of him so you don’t rely on your man too much.
Men are attracted to people who can keep up with their own friends and maintain their own hobbies. It’s totally fine to dedicate a lot of your time to your relationship, but make sure you’re doing fun stuff on your own, too!
You can subtly tell him about the fun stuff you’re doing by saying things like, “Let’s hang out on Friday! I have plans with my friends on Saturday, so I want to see you before then.”
Or, tell him all about the new hobby you picked up by saying, “I’d love to show you my new rock climbing skills! I’ve been taking lessons for the past few months.”
10. Put a bit of effort into your appearance.
Yes, it’s true—people like people who look good.
When you’re trying to find a man, do your best to look and feel confident. Wear clothes that fit you well, do your hair, and put on makeup if you wear it. Don’t worry about being stylish or trendy, just focus on whatever makes you feel good. The better you feel inside, the better you’ll look outside!
In general, men are very visual creatures. You can catch someone’s attention while you’re out and about by holding your head high and being the most confident person in the room.
11. Set a commitment timeline.
Give yourself a rough estimate of how long you’ll wait for commitment.
You can share this with a guy that you’re dating, or you can keep it to yourself. The timeline is up to you, but make sure you stick to it—otherwise, you might waste your time on a guy who doesn’t want anything serious.
Your timeline can be personalized to your own needs. You might say that you want to be exclusive within 3 months, or have the “What are we?” conversation within 10 dates.
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2,793 | How to Attract a Pisces Aries Cusp Man | 1. Be chatty and open.
Pisces-Aries cuspers love enthusiastic conversations.
To appeal to the fiery Aries side of him, try to match his energy no matter what the topic is. Since the Pisces in him wants to discuss anything creative, he'll love it if you bring up interesting topics like art or philosophy.
Some cusp-ers tend to identify with one side of their personality over the other. If you're sensing he's more of a gentle dreamer type, that's his Pisces nature. Pisces is a water sign, which means he's all about emotion and empathy.
2. Speak your mind.
A Pisces-Aries cusp man is looking for an outspoken partner.
His Aries side appreciates bluntness no matter what, while the Pisces side of him wants you to be emotionally open with him. You don’t need to hold back anything around this guy—he wants to hear your unfiltered thoughts and opinions.
If he's quick to start a debate, he may be more in touch with his Aries side. Aries is a fire sign ruled by Mars, so conversations can sometimes take an aggressive turn. If that happens, it's best to change the subject before things get heated.
3. Give him compliments.
Pisces and Aries both love compliments, but for different reasons.
The Pisces side of your guy’s personality makes him a bit insecure, so an ego boost gives him some much-needed confidence. An Aries, on the other hand, needs to feel adored by his partner, and compliments provide the adoration he craves. You might say:
"You're artwork blows me away. Have you ever thought about showing your paintings in a gallery?"
"It sounds like your work project went off without a hitch! You worked so hard on it and I definitely think you'll get a promotion soon."
4. Be positive and optimistic.
Pisces-Aries cuspers tend to avoid negativity and bad vibes.
His empathetic Pisces natures makes him experience emotions deeply, so interacting with pessimists can be exhausting for him. Fiery Aries always prefers to be around positive energy, so try to look on the bright side of every situation and maintain a cheerful, upbeat vibe. For example:
If you had a rough day, you might say, "Work was so busy today and I'm exhausted. I love my job, though! Wouldn't trade it for the world."
If the waiter brings you the wrong dish, you might say, "Normally, I'd send this entrée back, but it looks really good. I'm going to give it a try!"
5. Roll with his mood swings.
The dual nature of a Pisces-Aries cusper can be a roller coaster.
Pisces is an emotional water sign whereas Aries is a brash fire sign. Trying to balance these conflicting energies can be overwhelming for him at times. Moodiness is par for the course, but he tends to pull himself out of a funk rather quickly—try to be patient with him.
If he gets suddenly gloomy, give him a hug and say, "I'm here if you need me."
If he starts getting worked up about something or seems irritated out of the blue, you might say, "I'm going to take the dog out for a walk and get some fresh air. Need anything?" Don't press him to talk about it.
Avoid calling attention to his mood swings; he dislikes being analyzed by others.
6. Be spontaneous.
A Pisces-Aries cusper is impulsive and wants you along for the ride.
Fiery Aries is always looking for adventure and his Pisces energy prompts him to chase after anything that captures his imagination. The result? Lots of impulsive ideas! Go with the flow and he’ll appreciate your adaptability.
If he wants to take a sudden detour, agree with enthusiasm.
If he wants to try a new activity out of the blue, let him know you’re game.
7. Ask him to help you with something.
He loves to give advice and come up with creative solutions.
This cusper is an amazing listener (that’s the Pisces in him) and he genuinely enjoys helping people solve problems. If you’re trying to make a decision about something in your life, ask him to weigh in with his perspective on the matter.
You might say, “I can’t decide if it’s the right time to trade in my car. It’s fully paid off, which is great, but it’s also getting old and might need significant maintenance soon. What do you think?”
8. Be on time.
Pisces-Aries cuspers are impatient and don’t like to wait around.
Being late may not seem like a big deal, but it will drive a Pisces-Aries cusp man crazy. This trait comes mostly from the Aries side of his personality. Ideally, you want to always be on time (or early) when you’re meeting up with him.
If something unexpected happens and you’re running a few minutes late, text him to let him know so he isn’t sitting around wondering what’s going on.
9. Support his dreams and goals.
His creative projects are extremely important to him.
His Pisces side encourages him to follow his dreams and his Aries side is all about action, so he’s usually tinkering away on a passion project (or three). These endeavors mean a lot to him and hearing your encouragement will fill him with confidence. You might say:
"I know work was really busy this week and you didn't get a chance to work on your new song. Since I have tons of boring errands to run today, why don't you stay in and work on music?"
"All of your short stories are so good. You should submit these to a literary magazine. You're an amazing writer and I'm positive they'll publish you."
10. Invite him on an outdoor adventure.
Pisces-Aries cuspers love to be out in nature.
Both of these signs love the great outdoors—but they love it for different reasons. What activity you invite him to do really depends on which side of his personality he identifies with the most.
If he’s more of a gentle dreamer (Pisces), invite him to go forest bathing or pack a picnic to enjoy at the park.
If he’s super energetic (Aries), suggest a challenging hike or mountain biking.
11. Try to overlook his stubbornness.
Pisces-Aries cuspers tend to have a deep stubborn streak.
It’s hard to get this guy to budge once he’s made up his mind about something. Trying to appeal to him with logic or reason is usually futile (and can even aggravate him if he identifies a lot with his Aries side).
Don't worry, he'll eventually come around. He wants to do it in his own time and on his own terms.
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Aries is a fire sign ruled by Mars, so conversations can sometimes take an aggressive turn. If that happens, it's best to change the subject before things get heated.\\n3. Give him compliments.\\nPisces and Aries both love compliments, but for different reasons.\\nThe Pisces side of your guy’s personality makes him a bit insecure, so an ego boost gives him some much-needed confidence. An Aries, on the other hand, needs to feel adored by his partner, and compliments provide the adoration he craves. You might say:\\n\\\"You're artwork blows me away. Have you ever thought about showing your paintings in a gallery?\\\"\\n\\\"It sounds like your work project went off without a hitch! You worked so hard on it and I definitely think you'll get a promotion soon.\\\"\\n4. Be positive and optimistic.\\nPisces-Aries cuspers tend to avoid negativity and bad vibes.\\nHis empathetic Pisces natures makes him experience emotions deeply, so interacting with pessimists can be exhausting for him. Fiery Aries always prefers to be around positive energy, so try to look on the bright side of every situation and maintain a cheerful, upbeat vibe. For example:\\nIf you had a rough day, you might say, \\\"Work was so busy today and I'm exhausted. I love my job, though! Wouldn't trade it for the world.\\\"\\nIf the waiter brings you the wrong dish, you might say, \\\"Normally, I'd send this entrée back, but it looks really good. I'm going to give it a try!\\\"\\n5. Roll with his mood swings.\\nThe dual nature of a Pisces-Aries cusper can be a roller coaster.\\nPisces is an emotional water sign whereas Aries is a brash fire sign. Trying to balance these conflicting energies can be overwhelming for him at times. Moodiness is par for the course, but he tends to pull himself out of a funk rather quickly—try to be patient with him.\\nIf he gets suddenly gloomy, give him a hug and say, \\\"I'm here if you need me.\\\"\\nIf he starts getting worked up about something or seems irritated out of the blue, you might say, \\\"I'm going to take the dog out for a walk and get some fresh air. Need anything?\\\" Don't press him to talk about it.\\nAvoid calling attention to his mood swings; he dislikes being analyzed by others.\\n6. Be spontaneous.\\nA Pisces-Aries cusper is impulsive and wants you along for the ride.\\nFiery Aries is always looking for adventure and his Pisces energy prompts him to chase after anything that captures his imagination. The result? Lots of impulsive ideas! Go with the flow and he’ll appreciate your adaptability.\\nIf he wants to take a sudden detour, agree with enthusiasm.\\nIf he wants to try a new activity out of the blue, let him know you’re game.\\n7. Ask him to help you with something.\\nHe loves to give advice and come up with creative solutions.\\nThis cusper is an amazing listener (that’s the Pisces in him) and he genuinely enjoys helping people solve problems. If you’re trying to make a decision about something in your life, ask him to weigh in with his perspective on the matter.\\nYou might say, “I can’t decide if it’s the right time to trade in my car. It’s fully paid off, which is great, but it’s also getting old and might need significant maintenance soon. What do you think?”\\n8. Be on time.\\nPisces-Aries cuspers are impatient and don’t like to wait around.\\nBeing late may not seem like a big deal, but it will drive a Pisces-Aries cusp man crazy. This trait comes mostly from the Aries side of his personality. Ideally, you want to always be on time (or early) when you’re meeting up with him.\\nIf something unexpected happens and you’re running a few minutes late, text him to let him know so he isn’t sitting around wondering what’s going on.\\n9. Support his dreams and goals.\\nHis creative projects are extremely important to him.\\nHis Pisces side encourages him to follow his dreams and his Aries side is all about action, so he’s usually tinkering away on a passion project (or three). These endeavors mean a lot to him and hearing your encouragement will fill him with confidence. You might say:\\n\\\"I know work was really busy this week and you didn't get a chance to work on your new song. Since I have tons of boring errands to run today, why don't you stay in and work on music?\\\"\\n\\\"All of your short stories are so good. You should submit these to a literary magazine. You're an amazing writer and I'm positive they'll publish you.\\\"\\n10. Invite him on an outdoor adventure.\\nPisces-Aries cuspers love to be out in nature.\\nBoth of these signs love the great outdoors—but they love it for different reasons. What activity you invite him to do really depends on which side of his personality he identifies with the most.\\nIf he’s more of a gentle dreamer (Pisces), invite him to go forest bathing or pack a picnic to enjoy at the park.\\nIf he’s super energetic (Aries), suggest a challenging hike or mountain biking.\\n11. Try to overlook his stubbornness.\\nPisces-Aries cuspers tend to have a deep stubborn streak.\\nIt’s hard to get this guy to budge once he’s made up his mind about something. Trying to appeal to him with logic or reason is usually futile (and can even aggravate him if he identifies a lot with his Aries side).\\nDon't worry, he'll eventually come around. He wants to do it in his own time and on his own terms.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"So, the guy you’ve got your eye on was born between March 17th and 23rd? Ruled by both Neptune and Mars, a Pisces-Aries cusper is quite an enigma. He's intuitive, gentle, impulsive, and impatient—all at the same time! We've consulted astrology experts to get the full scoop on this complex guy and we're ready to dish the details. Read on for our comprehensive guide to attracting a Pisces-Aries cusp man.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be chatty and open.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pisces-Aries cuspers love enthusiastic conversations.\", \"描述\": \"To appeal to the fiery Aries side of him, try to match his energy no matter what the topic is. Since the Pisces in him wants to discuss anything creative, he'll love it if you bring up interesting topics like art or philosophy.\\nSome cusp-ers tend to identify with one side of their personality over the other. If you're sensing he's more of a gentle dreamer type, that's his Pisces nature. 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An Aries, on the other hand, needs to feel adored by his partner, and compliments provide the adoration he craves. You might say:\\n\\\"You're artwork blows me away. Have you ever thought about showing your paintings in a gallery?\\\"\\n\\\"It sounds like your work project went off without a hitch! You worked so hard on it and I definitely think you'll get a promotion soon.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be positive and optimistic.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pisces-Aries cuspers tend to avoid negativity and bad vibes.\", \"描述\": \"His empathetic Pisces natures makes him experience emotions deeply, so interacting with pessimists can be exhausting for him. Fiery Aries always prefers to be around positive energy, so try to look on the bright side of every situation and maintain a cheerful, upbeat vibe. For example:\\nIf you had a rough day, you might say, \\\"Work was so busy today and I'm exhausted. I love my job, though! Wouldn't trade it for the world.\\\"\\nIf the waiter brings you the wrong dish, you might say, \\\"Normally, I'd send this entrée back, but it looks really good. I'm going to give it a try!\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Roll with his mood swings.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The dual nature of a Pisces-Aries cusper can be a roller coaster.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces is an emotional water sign whereas Aries is a brash fire sign. Trying to balance these conflicting energies can be overwhelming for him at times. Moodiness is par for the course, but he tends to pull himself out of a funk rather quickly—try to be patient with him.\\nIf he gets suddenly gloomy, give him a hug and say, \\\"I'm here if you need me.\\\"\\nIf he starts getting worked up about something or seems irritated out of the blue, you might say, \\\"I'm going to take the dog out for a walk and get some fresh air. 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2,794 | How to Attract a Pisces Girl | 1. Getting Her Attention
1-1. Hold your own in conversations.
When you're first getting to know her, get her attention by sparking up interesting conversations. She won't be into a guy who sits back and just smiles and nods. Bring up that interesting thing you read the other day or ask her a question about something you have in common. She'll be intrigued by your gusto and intellect.
A Pisces female is sweet, compassionate, and caring. She's not the type of girl you get with and drop! So get to know her a bit first before you make your move. She won't move too quickly, anyway. If you want it to last, you'll be friends before anything else happens.
1-2. Court her properly.
Gentle Pisces wants a storybook romance. She loves being sent love letters! She expects her man to go through the hoops our grandparents had to go through. Words and intentions should come way before any action! So get to telling her how wonderful she is and how much you'd like to take her out. She'll be weak in the knees.
Don't stop this once the relationship develops! If you courted her with cheek kisses and love letters, be sure to keep this up. Don't let it be just an act -- have it be part of you. It'll spark the relationship and keep it going.
1-3. Be polite and chivalrous.
In case it wasn't already clear, Pisces wants a man who's traditional, unassuming, and sweet. Assure her that chivalry isn't dead by embodying it yourself. Open doors for her. Foot the bill. Give her your jacket. Kiss her hand. Don't ask for too much and she'll want to give you her entire world.
Pisces is definitely a stickler for tact. She won't tolerate it if you're the guy yelling at the waiter or the one eating all the pizza but refusing to chip in. Manners are very important to her. Be polite to her and to everyone you're around -- we could all take a leaf out of her book!
1-4. Opt for unassuming romantic gestures.
Taking a balloon ride over the French countryside is not the idea of a good, romantic time to a Pisces. The grandeur of something like that just doesn't make sense to them. They want the things that are meaningful and unspoken -- not the gestures that are overstated or blunt. If it's chivalrous, you're good to go. If it seems like you have ulterior motives (what might those be?), she'll drop you like a hot potato.
Put on her favorite song while you're cooking dinner. Bring her a cup of coffee just the way she likes it when you know she's in for a long day at work. It's the small things -- the attention to detail -- that prove to her how much you care.
1-5. Be confident.
Pisces wants a man who knows who she is -- ultimately she seeks protection and support. In order to be her rock, you gotta be confident enough to do so. She needs someone who has it together and can go hand in hand with her on her journey through life.
It's also important to be yourself! If you're not genuine, she'll see through you like you're some Victoria Secret lingerie. She has a keen eye for motivation and character -- fake it in front of her and she'll detect it for sure.
2. Building a Relationship
2-1. Understand that she is a water sign.
And this water runs deep. She is emotional, intuitive, and sensitive. She often goes off her feelings instead of logic or rationale. She is compassionate and understanding, mainly because she's so empathetic. With all this emotional prowess, she's quite the nurturer.
She also flows like water -- meaning she's highly adaptable and goes with the flow. Present her with anything and she can morph to it. However, she can also have mood swings and flow to each side of the spectrum. Hopefully you can keep up!
2-2. Talk about everything.
Pisces wants to explore every inch of your mind. She wants to hear about that one time you scraped your knee in 6th grade. She wants to sit down and take in your stance on lite mayonnaise. Everything. Don't hold back! This is how she'll feel like she truly knows you.
Don't worry about her judging you -- she's far too sweet for that (and you are far too confident to be concerned!). If it's important to you, it's important to her. So while you may feel like you're talking your mouth off, don't worry. It's a means to an end!
2-3. Go for thoughtful gifts.
Random gifts (along with the big ones like mentioned earlier) aren't Pisces' cup of tea. She wants ones that you've actually put thought behind -- not something you're doing just to get in good with her. So pay attention to what she says! You'll find little opportunities everywhere.
Instead of getting her flowers, get her that book you two were just talking about. Instead of chocolates, buy her tickets to that comedian you told her you're convinced she'd die for. When she sees the reason behind it, she'll love it.
2-4. Know that sex is very serious.
When a Pisces girl takes you to bed, it means you're in. She doesn't let those who she doesn't supremely trust get her this vulnerable. She sees it as the most intense form of bonding -- one that can't really be broken. Since this is such a big deal to her, respect it. Only go this far with her if you plan on sticking around.
This isn't a thing to be taken lightly. If you're not looking for a girl who might get emotional on you, stay away from the bedroom with this one. And definitely, definitely call her back.
2-5. Let her know you are supportive of her.
Since she's looking for a rock, make it clear that that's you. When you see her growing emotional, be there for her. Comfort her. Ask her how she's feeling if she's not coming out and saying it. When she feels like you're in tune with her, she can let her guard down and open the gates.
She does not respond well to negativity. If you want to get on her good side, use encouragement and genuine compliments (not the fake kind -- those are a total turn-off) to build trust. Be her #1 fan and she'll treat you with the same undivided attention and praise.
3. Making a Good Pair
3-1. Value her compassion.
Though some see her as a people-pleaser and far too ruled by emotion, that's not always how it is. When you look at her, see how loving and caring she is. She has compassion for everything she sees, down to the smallest flower in the crack on the sidewalk. Wouldn't it be something if more people were like her?
And above all, don't use it against her. She recognizes when people take advantage of her kind, giving nature. If you're always asking for favors or making it about you, you, you, she'll be gone in a heartbeat.
3-2. Understand her sensitivity.
Stronger, more fixed may look at gentle Pisces and see someone who lacks a backbone. Yes, Pisces is sensitive. Yep, Pisces has a ton of feelings and sometimes has trouble controlling them. But this isn't necessarily a bad thing!
As a result, she's very in tune with how she feels. She can be open and honest with you because of it. You'll know exactly how she feels about you. On the other hand, you'll also have to deal with the roller coaster ride that is her life. So buckle up!
She also can hold a grudge. Watch out if you really make her angry! She won't forget it anytime soon.
3-3. Know she's a dreamer.
And if you can dream with her, even better. When you're talking about everything, include your goals and aspirations. It doesn't even have to be feasible -- it just has to be something that would make you happy, regardless of whether or not it will ever happen. She can often be found in her fantasy world and she would love a companion.
This is part of the reason she loves the arts so much -- they take her away from reality and put her in a place where she can use her imagination. So get her to the art museum and to the symphony and watch her fade away into dreamland.
3-4. Bring out her visual, nature-y side.
Pisces is naturally drawn to beauty. If you can make an otherwise routine endeavor not so routine, she'll remember it forever. Instead of dinner, go take a picnic in the park while the trees are blooming. Instead of a movie, go to Shakespeare in an outdoor amphitheater. Get her using all her senses to make her feel like she's at her best.
3-5. Go long-term.
When Pisces has decided you're worthy of her care, she will treat you like the only person she's ever known even existed. She can love fully and unabashedly, so hopefully you deserve her. She's not the flirty, fling type of girl. She's in it for the long haul!
You'll be able to tell that your Pisces is in it to win it when she starts opening up to you and depending on you. She doesn't do that with everyone! Don't hide your true feelings in return -- she's looking for someone to be totally and madly in love with. And someone that feels the same way back!
Tips
Talk about romantic things like movies or novels.[18]
X
Expert Source
Angel EyedealismAstrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.
Be genuine. Don't fake it. Even if it means it would hurt her, be open. After the initial irritation she would actually appreciate that you were truthful to her. She enjoys truth, and honestly, who doesn't, it may hurt, but do it anyway.
Always reassure her how much you love her.
Warnings
Don't come into this relationship expecting 'casual' sex. Pisces will apply emotion to everything, whether it's appropriate or not.
Don't be naive about a Pisces girl. She is EXTREMELY sensitive and intuitive.[19]
X
Expert Source
Angel EyedealismAstrologer & Performance Artist
Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.
If she senses that she can't trust you, you'll never see her again.
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When she sees the reason behind it, she'll love it.\\n2-4. Know that sex is very serious.\\nWhen a Pisces girl takes you to bed, it means you're in. She doesn't let those who she doesn't supremely trust get her this vulnerable. She sees it as the most intense form of bonding -- one that can't really be broken. Since this is such a big deal to her, respect it. Only go this far with her if you plan on sticking around.\\nThis isn't a thing to be taken lightly. If you're not looking for a girl who might get emotional on you, stay away from the bedroom with this one. And definitely, definitely call her back.\\n2-5. Let her know you are supportive of her.\\nSince she's looking for a rock, make it clear that that's you. When you see her growing emotional, be there for her. Comfort her. Ask her how she's feeling if she's not coming out and saying it. When she feels like you're in tune with her, she can let her guard down and open the gates.\\nShe does not respond well to negativity. 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She is EXTREMELY sensitive and intuitive.[19]\\nX\\nExpert Source\\n\\nAngel EyedealismAstrologer & Performance Artist\\nExpert Interview. 13 January 2022.\\n\\n If she senses that she can't trust you, you'll never see her again.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Pisces girls (those born between February 19 and March 20) can be very attractive and enticing. They can divert the attention of practically anyone, even unintentionally. Pisces girls are sensitive, sweet, nice, and, above all, highly emotional dreamers. She is blessed with the quality to make a guy feel as if he is the most wonderful person in the world. If you want to attract a Pisces girl, here's all the luck you need.This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting Her Attention\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Hold your own in conversations.\", \"描述\": \"When you're first getting to know her, get her attention by sparking up interesting conversations. She won't be into a guy who sits back and just smiles and nods. Bring up that interesting thing you read the other day or ask her a question about something you have in common. She'll be intrigued by your gusto and intellect.\\nA Pisces female is sweet, compassionate, and caring. She's not the type of girl you get with and drop! So get to know her a bit first before you make your move. She won't move too quickly, anyway. If you want it to last, you'll be friends before anything else happens.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Court her properly.\", \"描述\": \"Gentle Pisces wants a storybook romance. She loves being sent love letters! She expects her man to go through the hoops our grandparents had to go through. Words and intentions should come way before any action! So get to telling her how wonderful she is and how much you'd like to take her out. She'll be weak in the knees.\\nDon't stop this once the relationship develops! If you courted her with cheek kisses and love letters, be sure to keep this up. Don't let it be just an act -- have it be part of you. It'll spark the relationship and keep it going.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be polite and chivalrous.\", \"描述\": \"In case it wasn't already clear, Pisces wants a man who's traditional, unassuming, and sweet. Assure her that chivalry isn't dead by embodying it yourself. Open doors for her. Foot the bill. Give her your jacket. Kiss her hand. Don't ask for too much and she'll want to give you her entire world.\\nPisces is definitely a stickler for tact. She won't tolerate it if you're the guy yelling at the waiter or the one eating all the pizza but refusing to chip in. Manners are very important to her. Be polite to her and to everyone you're around -- we could all take a leaf out of her book!\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Opt for unassuming romantic gestures.\", \"描述\": \"Taking a balloon ride over the French countryside is not the idea of a good, romantic time to a Pisces. The grandeur of something like that just doesn't make sense to them. They want the things that are meaningful and unspoken -- not the gestures that are overstated or blunt. If it's chivalrous, you're good to go. If it seems like you have ulterior motives (what might those be?), she'll drop you like a hot potato.\\nPut on her favorite song while you're cooking dinner. Bring her a cup of coffee just the way she likes it when you know she's in for a long day at work. It's the small things -- the attention to detail -- that prove to her how much you care.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be confident.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces wants a man who knows who she is -- ultimately she seeks protection and support. In order to be her rock, you gotta be confident enough to do so. She needs someone who has it together and can go hand in hand with her on her journey through life.\\nIt's also important to be yourself! If you're not genuine, she'll see through you like you're some Victoria Secret lingerie. She has a keen eye for motivation and character -- fake it in front of her and she'll detect it for sure.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Building a Relationship\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understand that she is a water sign.\", \"描述\": \"And this water runs deep. She is emotional, intuitive, and sensitive. She often goes off her feelings instead of logic or rationale. She is compassionate and understanding, mainly because she's so empathetic. With all this emotional prowess, she's quite the nurturer.\\nShe also flows like water -- meaning she's highly adaptable and goes with the flow. Present her with anything and she can morph to it. However, she can also have mood swings and flow to each side of the spectrum. Hopefully you can keep up!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Talk about everything.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces wants to explore every inch of your mind. She wants to hear about that one time you scraped your knee in 6th grade. She wants to sit down and take in your stance on lite mayonnaise. Everything. Don't hold back! This is how she'll feel like she truly knows you.\\nDon't worry about her judging you -- she's far too sweet for that (and you are far too confident to be concerned!). If it's important to you, it's important to her. So while you may feel like you're talking your mouth off, don't worry. It's a means to an end!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Go for thoughtful gifts.\", \"描述\": \"Random gifts (along with the big ones like mentioned earlier) aren't Pisces' cup of tea. She wants ones that you've actually put thought behind -- not something you're doing just to get in good with her. So pay attention to what she says! You'll find little opportunities everywhere.\\nInstead of getting her flowers, get her that book you two were just talking about. Instead of chocolates, buy her tickets to that comedian you told her you're convinced she'd die for. When she sees the reason behind it, she'll love it.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Know that sex is very serious.\", \"描述\": \"When a Pisces girl takes you to bed, it means you're in. She doesn't let those who she doesn't supremely trust get her this vulnerable. She sees it as the most intense form of bonding -- one that can't really be broken. Since this is such a big deal to her, respect it. Only go this far with her if you plan on sticking around.\\nThis isn't a thing to be taken lightly. If you're not looking for a girl who might get emotional on you, stay away from the bedroom with this one. And definitely, definitely call her back.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Let her know you are supportive of her.\", \"描述\": \"Since she's looking for a rock, make it clear that that's you. When you see her growing emotional, be there for her. Comfort her. Ask her how she's feeling if she's not coming out and saying it. When she feels like you're in tune with her, she can let her guard down and open the gates.\\nShe does not respond well to negativity. If you want to get on her good side, use encouragement and genuine compliments (not the fake kind -- those are a total turn-off) to build trust. Be her #1 fan and she'll treat you with the same undivided attention and praise.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Making a Good Pair\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Value her compassion.\", \"描述\": \"Though some see her as a people-pleaser and far too ruled by emotion, that's not always how it is. When you look at her, see how loving and caring she is. She has compassion for everything she sees, down to the smallest flower in the crack on the sidewalk. Wouldn't it be something if more people were like her?\\nAnd above all, don't use it against her. She recognizes when people take advantage of her kind, giving nature. If you're always asking for favors or making it about you, you, you, she'll be gone in a heartbeat.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Understand her sensitivity.\", \"描述\": \"Stronger, more fixed may look at gentle Pisces and see someone who lacks a backbone. Yes, Pisces is sensitive. Yep, Pisces has a ton of feelings and sometimes has trouble controlling them. But this isn't necessarily a bad thing!\\nAs a result, she's very in tune with how she feels. She can be open and honest with you because of it. You'll know exactly how she feels about you. On the other hand, you'll also have to deal with the roller coaster ride that is her life. So buckle up!\\nShe also can hold a grudge. Watch out if you really make her angry! She won't forget it anytime soon.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Know she's a dreamer.\", \"描述\": \"And if you can dream with her, even better. When you're talking about everything, include your goals and aspirations. It doesn't even have to be feasible -- it just has to be something that would make you happy, regardless of whether or not it will ever happen. She can often be found in her fantasy world and she would love a companion.\\nThis is part of the reason she loves the arts so much -- they take her away from reality and put her in a place where she can use her imagination. So get her to the art museum and to the symphony and watch her fade away into dreamland.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Bring out her visual, nature-y side.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces is naturally drawn to beauty. If you can make an otherwise routine endeavor not so routine, she'll remember it forever. Instead of dinner, go take a picnic in the park while the trees are blooming. 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2,795 | How to Attract a Pisces Man As a Libra Woman: Tips for Compatibility | 1. Pay him sincere compliments often.
Pisceans love when you tell them good things about themselves.
Sure, everybody loves a compliment, but a sensitive Pisces guy tends to appreciate them more than most. Let him know you like his shirt, his new haircut, or his smile.
Compliment him on his achievements when you hear about them. For example, if he scored the winning goal at his soccer game, you might say, "Hey! Congratulations on that goal!"
Don't forget to compliment the things he says and does as well! For example, if he cracks a joke while you're standing nearby, you might laugh and say, "Wow, I never realized how funny you are!"
2. Make him a playlist of your favorite songs.
Music is usually as important to a Piscean as it is to you.
If you're a typical Libra, your music is a big deal. You're inspired by it and probably have specific playlists to fit every mood and activity. Share some of your go-to jams with him and you two can talk about how they make you feel.
Add a personal touch with "liner notes" where you tell him a little about each song or what it means to you.
3. Approach him in a soft and gentle way.
You might be tougher, but a Pisces guy typically prefers a more nurturing type.
You'll do a lot to attract a Pisces man if you have a warm, gentle, loving approach to the world. He's typically a highly sensitive soul, and appreciates a woman who shows respect for sensitivities and vulnerabilities.
For example, you might let him see you playing with an animal or small child, or talk about how you volunteer at the shelter or tutor elementary school kids.
If you're a typical Libra woman, this shouldn't be too difficult for you, since you value equality and balance and tend to stick up for the underdog.
4. Show off your creativity with a handmade gift.
Pisces men tend to have artsy souls and admire creativity.
Combine a love of the arts with an emotional and spiritual side, and you have a man who will definitely appreciate the work you put into making something just for him. Don't worry if it's not a masterpiece! If you don't have a lot of artistic skill, just keep it simple.
For example, if he writes or draws in journals, you might buy a journal for him, then decorate the cover.
5. Get his attention with a grand gesture.
Both of you tend to be types who are "in love with love."
As a Libra, you're likely no stranger to cooking up the grand gesture to snag someone's eye, and a Pisces loves to feel like he's been swept off his feet. Don't be afraid to go all out and let your feelings be known.
For example, you might engineer a scavenger hunt with little notes hidden in various places that lead him to you, sitting on a park bench. If he's an athlete, you might show up to one of his games and hold up a sign for him.
Look to rom-coms for inspiration as well! Maybe show up outside his window blasting a love song, à la Say Anything, or serenade him with a song (The Wedding Singer, Top Gun, 10 Things I Hate About You).
The Pisces man also has a tendency to be shy at first, so a grand gesture can help him open up. At the same time, he's attracted to confidence, making this a win-win for you!
6. Invite him to an art museum.
The creative Pisces man loves being surrounded by artistic achievement.
If you're a typical Libra, you love the beauty of artistic expression, so this date is a win for both of you. Walk slowly through the museum, taking time to talk about each piece together and describe how it makes you feel.
Look for moments of inspiration in pieces you see. The two of you might decide you want to take an art class together to learn a particular style or find out more about the methods used to create the works you like the most.
7. Share your secret spot with him to ignite his imagination.
A Pisces man typically enjoys any place that feels magical.
Do you have a special place you go to be alone, to journal, meditate, or gather your thoughts? Maybe you know of a special corner in your favorite park where time seems to standstill. If you show your spot to a Pisces fella you've got your eye on, he'll appreciate its mystical quality.
For example, you might take him on your favorite hike which ends at a beautiful overlook. Or follow a trail to a "secret" waterfall that most people don't know about.
The more private and secluded your spot, the better—a typical Pisces man loves places where he feels like he can commune with nature or be one with his surroundings.
8. Take an art class together to create something uniquely "you."
Use this opportunity to share inspiration and be creative together.
The typical Pisces man is an artistic, creative soul with imagination to share, so painting or crafting together is a great way to capture his heart. As a Libra, you're probably drawn to art and beauty as well, so you'll thrill to see what you two can come up with.
There are many art studios that have couple's classes where you can try painting, sculpting, or even glass blowing together, then take home your piece as a souvenir of the experience.
If you're not particularly artistic yourself and he is, level out the playing field a bit by choosing something neither of you has done before. While he might still have an edge, you'll both get to experience something new and you won't have to worry about him outshining you too much.
Remember, even if your creation doesn't turn out like either of you envisioned it, it's still special because it's yours—and on top of that, you have a fun story to share about it.
9. Let him have his "alone time."
Pisces men often need solitude to clear their heads.
Don't take it personally if your Pisces guy needs time alone—it's not that he doesn't like being with you. He just needs time to think. This shouldn't be too hard for you if you're the typical Libra lady and want time to go out and do things on your own.
For example, you might go out shopping with some friends while he sits at home alone and reads a good book. Afterward, you can get together and show him what you bought and listen while he tells you about the ideas he got from his reading.
10. Respect his privacy.
Don't expect a Pisces man to reveal everything about himself right away.
Pisces tends to be pretty secretive, but this doesn't mean he's hiding something bad from you, cheating on you, or anything like that. As much as he cares for you, it takes him a lot of time to open up.
Try not to pry into things either—let him tell you what he wants to tell you. If you ask too many questions, he'll start to think you don't trust him.
For example, if he doesn't text you all day and you ask him about it, accept his answer at face value. He's likely to get upset if you keep poking at him or try to argue that he still could've texted you. When he sees that you're willing to respect his privacy, he'll open up more.
11. Take care of the practical things he finds overwhelming.
Pisces men often avoid or put off concrete tasks.
There might be some days where you think, "What would he do without me?" Things that you probably think are important, such as organization and cleanliness, your Pisces might be content to shrug off. But at the same time, he'll appreciate all the little things you do for him so he can devote more energy to big ideas.
Your Pisces guy might have a hard time making and sticking to a schedule or planning ahead for things. Just keep in mind he can be easily overwhelmed by mundane details. If you're willing to pick up the slack for him a little, you'll both come out on top.
12. Go on a couple's spa date.
As a water sign, the Pisces guy typically enjoys a relaxing spa.
Even better, a lot of Pisces men tend to be pretty particular about their appearance. If this sounds like your fella, a relaxing couple's day at the spa will leave him swooning.
If you're the typical Libra lady, you love indulging yourself. If you have a regular spa appointment, bring your Pisces guy along—he'll love feeling like you're letting him in on your life.
13. Plan a whimsical, romantic getaway.
An idealistic fantasy vacation will take his breath away.
Go on and admit it, Libra—you're into the romantic ideal of the picture-perfect getaway. You know those social media "aesthetic" posts you love, close-ups of fingers entwined as a couple looks out at an awe-inspiring vista or the socked-feet propped up in front of a roaring fire? Your Pisces guy likely loves that imagery just as much as you do.
For example, you might book a weekend at a quiet beach resort in the off-season, so it can just be the two of you. As a water sign, your Pisces guy is going to thrill to be at the shore, but being alone with you makes the whole thing even greater.
Even better, both signs are known to be adventurers, so trying new things and making memories together will make you both happy.
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Share some of your go-to jams with him and you two can talk about how they make you feel.\\nAdd a personal touch with \\\"liner notes\\\" where you tell him a little about each song or what it means to you.\\n3. Approach him in a soft and gentle way.\\nYou might be tougher, but a Pisces guy typically prefers a more nurturing type.\\nYou'll do a lot to attract a Pisces man if you have a warm, gentle, loving approach to the world. He's typically a highly sensitive soul, and appreciates a woman who shows respect for sensitivities and vulnerabilities.\\nFor example, you might let him see you playing with an animal or small child, or talk about how you volunteer at the shelter or tutor elementary school kids.\\nIf you're a typical Libra woman, this shouldn't be too difficult for you, since you value equality and balance and tend to stick up for the underdog.\\n4. Show off your creativity with a handmade gift.\\nPisces men tend to have artsy souls and admire creativity.\\nCombine a love of the arts with an emotional and spiritual side, and you have a man who will definitely appreciate the work you put into making something just for him. Don't worry if it's not a masterpiece! If you don't have a lot of artistic skill, just keep it simple.\\nFor example, if he writes or draws in journals, you might buy a journal for him, then decorate the cover.\\n5. Get his attention with a grand gesture.\\nBoth of you tend to be types who are \\\"in love with love.\\\"\\nAs a Libra, you're likely no stranger to cooking up the grand gesture to snag someone's eye, and a Pisces loves to feel like he's been swept off his feet. Don't be afraid to go all out and let your feelings be known.\\nFor example, you might engineer a scavenger hunt with little notes hidden in various places that lead him to you, sitting on a park bench. If he's an athlete, you might show up to one of his games and hold up a sign for him.\\nLook to rom-coms for inspiration as well! Maybe show up outside his window blasting a love song, à la Say Anything, or serenade him with a song (The Wedding Singer, Top Gun, 10 Things I Hate About You).\\nThe Pisces man also has a tendency to be shy at first, so a grand gesture can help him open up. At the same time, he's attracted to confidence, making this a win-win for you!\\n6. Invite him to an art museum.\\nThe creative Pisces man loves being surrounded by artistic achievement.\\nIf you're a typical Libra, you love the beauty of artistic expression, so this date is a win for both of you. Walk slowly through the museum, taking time to talk about each piece together and describe how it makes you feel.\\nLook for moments of inspiration in pieces you see. The two of you might decide you want to take an art class together to learn a particular style or find out more about the methods used to create the works you like the most.\\n7. Share your secret spot with him to ignite his imagination.\\nA Pisces man typically enjoys any place that feels magical.\\nDo you have a special place you go to be alone, to journal, meditate, or gather your thoughts? Maybe you know of a special corner in your favorite park where time seems to standstill. If you show your spot to a Pisces fella you've got your eye on, he'll appreciate its mystical quality.\\nFor example, you might take him on your favorite hike which ends at a beautiful overlook. Or follow a trail to a \\\"secret\\\" waterfall that most people don't know about.\\nThe more private and secluded your spot, the better—a typical Pisces man loves places where he feels like he can commune with nature or be one with his surroundings.\\n8. Take an art class together to create something uniquely \\\"you.\\\"\\nUse this opportunity to share inspiration and be creative together.\\nThe typical Pisces man is an artistic, creative soul with imagination to share, so painting or crafting together is a great way to capture his heart. As a Libra, you're probably drawn to art and beauty as well, so you'll thrill to see what you two can come up with.\\nThere are many art studios that have couple's classes where you can try painting, sculpting, or even glass blowing together, then take home your piece as a souvenir of the experience.\\nIf you're not particularly artistic yourself and he is, level out the playing field a bit by choosing something neither of you has done before. While he might still have an edge, you'll both get to experience something new and you won't have to worry about him outshining you too much.\\nRemember, even if your creation doesn't turn out like either of you envisioned it, it's still special because it's yours—and on top of that, you have a fun story to share about it.\\n9. Let him have his \\\"alone time.\\\"\\nPisces men often need solitude to clear their heads.\\nDon't take it personally if your Pisces guy needs time alone—it's not that he doesn't like being with you. He just needs time to think. This shouldn't be too hard for you if you're the typical Libra lady and want time to go out and do things on your own.\\nFor example, you might go out shopping with some friends while he sits at home alone and reads a good book. Afterward, you can get together and show him what you bought and listen while he tells you about the ideas he got from his reading.\\n10. Respect his privacy.\\nDon't expect a Pisces man to reveal everything about himself right away.\\nPisces tends to be pretty secretive, but this doesn't mean he's hiding something bad from you, cheating on you, or anything like that. As much as he cares for you, it takes him a lot of time to open up.\\nTry not to pry into things either—let him tell you what he wants to tell you. If you ask too many questions, he'll start to think you don't trust him.\\nFor example, if he doesn't text you all day and you ask him about it, accept his answer at face value. He's likely to get upset if you keep poking at him or try to argue that he still could've texted you. When he sees that you're willing to respect his privacy, he'll open up more.\\n11. Take care of the practical things he finds overwhelming.\\nPisces men often avoid or put off concrete tasks.\\nThere might be some days where you think, \\\"What would he do without me?\\\" Things that you probably think are important, such as organization and cleanliness, your Pisces might be content to shrug off. But at the same time, he'll appreciate all the little things you do for him so he can devote more energy to big ideas.\\nYour Pisces guy might have a hard time making and sticking to a schedule or planning ahead for things. Just keep in mind he can be easily overwhelmed by mundane details. If you're willing to pick up the slack for him a little, you'll both come out on top.\\n12. Go on a couple's spa date.\\nAs a water sign, the Pisces guy typically enjoys a relaxing spa.\\nEven better, a lot of Pisces men tend to be pretty particular about their appearance. 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As a water sign, your Pisces guy is going to thrill to be at the shore, but being alone with you makes the whole thing even greater.\\nEven better, both signs are known to be adventurers, so trying new things and making memories together will make you both happy.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you're a Libra and you're smitten with a Pisces guy, some might say you're in luck because guys born under the fish sign often tend to fall head-over-heels pretty quickly. This imaginative, creative soul fits right into your dreams of a picture-perfect romance—no wonder Pisceans are considered the biggest romantics in the zodiac. Can you make him your dream lover? Only time will tell! 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For example, if he cracks a joke while you're standing nearby, you might laugh and say, \\\"Wow, I never realized how funny you are!\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make him a playlist of your favorite songs.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Music is usually as important to a Piscean as it is to you.\", \"描述\": \"If you're a typical Libra, your music is a big deal. You're inspired by it and probably have specific playlists to fit every mood and activity. Share some of your go-to jams with him and you two can talk about how they make you feel.\\nAdd a personal touch with \\\"liner notes\\\" where you tell him a little about each song or what it means to you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Approach him in a soft and gentle way.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"You might be tougher, but a Pisces guy typically prefers a more nurturing type.\", \"描述\": \"You'll do a lot to attract a Pisces man if you have a warm, gentle, loving approach to the world. He's typically a highly sensitive soul, and appreciates a woman who shows respect for sensitivities and vulnerabilities.\\nFor example, you might let him see you playing with an animal or small child, or talk about how you volunteer at the shelter or tutor elementary school kids.\\nIf you're a typical Libra woman, this shouldn't be too difficult for you, since you value equality and balance and tend to stick up for the underdog.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Show off your creativity with a handmade gift.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pisces men tend to have artsy souls and admire creativity.\", \"描述\": \"Combine a love of the arts with an emotional and spiritual side, and you have a man who will definitely appreciate the work you put into making something just for him. Don't worry if it's not a masterpiece! If you don't have a lot of artistic skill, just keep it simple.\\nFor example, if he writes or draws in journals, you might buy a journal for him, then decorate the cover.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Get his attention with a grand gesture.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Both of you tend to be types who are \\\"in love with love.\\\"\", \"描述\": \"As a Libra, you're likely no stranger to cooking up the grand gesture to snag someone's eye, and a Pisces loves to feel like he's been swept off his feet. Don't be afraid to go all out and let your feelings be known.\\nFor example, you might engineer a scavenger hunt with little notes hidden in various places that lead him to you, sitting on a park bench. If he's an athlete, you might show up to one of his games and hold up a sign for him.\\nLook to rom-coms for inspiration as well! Maybe show up outside his window blasting a love song, à la Say Anything, or serenade him with a song (The Wedding Singer, Top Gun, 10 Things I Hate About You).\\nThe Pisces man also has a tendency to be shy at first, so a grand gesture can help him open up. At the same time, he's attracted to confidence, making this a win-win for you!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Invite him to an art museum.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The creative Pisces man loves being surrounded by artistic achievement.\", \"描述\": \"If you're a typical Libra, you love the beauty of artistic expression, so this date is a win for both of you. Walk slowly through the museum, taking time to talk about each piece together and describe how it makes you feel.\\nLook for moments of inspiration in pieces you see. The two of you might decide you want to take an art class together to learn a particular style or find out more about the methods used to create the works you like the most.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Share your secret spot with him to ignite his imagination.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Pisces man typically enjoys any place that feels magical.\", \"描述\": \"Do you have a special place you go to be alone, to journal, meditate, or gather your thoughts? Maybe you know of a special corner in your favorite park where time seems to standstill. If you show your spot to a Pisces fella you've got your eye on, he'll appreciate its mystical quality.\\nFor example, you might take him on your favorite hike which ends at a beautiful overlook. Or follow a trail to a \\\"secret\\\" waterfall that most people don't know about.\\nThe more private and secluded your spot, the better—a typical Pisces man loves places where he feels like he can commune with nature or be one with his surroundings.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Take an art class together to create something uniquely \\\"you.\\\"\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Use this opportunity to share inspiration and be creative together.\", \"描述\": \"The typical Pisces man is an artistic, creative soul with imagination to share, so painting or crafting together is a great way to capture his heart. As a Libra, you're probably drawn to art and beauty as well, so you'll thrill to see what you two can come up with.\\nThere are many art studios that have couple's classes where you can try painting, sculpting, or even glass blowing together, then take home your piece as a souvenir of the experience.\\nIf you're not particularly artistic yourself and he is, level out the playing field a bit by choosing something neither of you has done before. While he might still have an edge, you'll both get to experience something new and you won't have to worry about him outshining you too much.\\nRemember, even if your creation doesn't turn out like either of you envisioned it, it's still special because it's yours—and on top of that, you have a fun story to share about it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Let him have his \\\"alone time.\\\"\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pisces men often need solitude to clear their heads.\", \"描述\": \"Don't take it personally if your Pisces guy needs time alone—it's not that he doesn't like being with you. He just needs time to think. This shouldn't be too hard for you if you're the typical Libra lady and want time to go out and do things on your own.\\nFor example, you might go out shopping with some friends while he sits at home alone and reads a good book. Afterward, you can get together and show him what you bought and listen while he tells you about the ideas he got from his reading.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Respect his privacy.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Don't expect a Pisces man to reveal everything about himself right away.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces tends to be pretty secretive, but this doesn't mean he's hiding something bad from you, cheating on you, or anything like that. As much as he cares for you, it takes him a lot of time to open up.\\nTry not to pry into things either—let him tell you what he wants to tell you. If you ask too many questions, he'll start to think you don't trust him.\\nFor example, if he doesn't text you all day and you ask him about it, accept his answer at face value. He's likely to get upset if you keep poking at him or try to argue that he still could've texted you. When he sees that you're willing to respect his privacy, he'll open up more.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Take care of the practical things he finds overwhelming.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pisces men often avoid or put off concrete tasks.\", \"描述\": \"There might be some days where you think, \\\"What would he do without me?\\\" Things that you probably think are important, such as organization and cleanliness, your Pisces might be content to shrug off. But at the same time, he'll appreciate all the little things you do for him so he can devote more energy to big ideas.\\nYour Pisces guy might have a hard time making and sticking to a schedule or planning ahead for things. Just keep in mind he can be easily overwhelmed by mundane details. If you're willing to pick up the slack for him a little, you'll both come out on top.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Go on a couple's spa date.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"As a water sign, the Pisces guy typically enjoys a relaxing spa.\", \"描述\": \"Even better, a lot of Pisces men tend to be pretty particular about their appearance. If this sounds like your fella, a relaxing couple's day at the spa will leave him swooning.\\nIf you're the typical Libra lady, you love indulging yourself. If you have a regular spa appointment, bring your Pisces guy along—he'll love feeling like you're letting him in on your life.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Plan a whimsical, romantic getaway.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"An idealistic fantasy vacation will take his breath away.\", \"描述\": \"Go on and admit it, Libra—you're into the romantic ideal of the picture-perfect getaway. You know those social media \\\"aesthetic\\\" posts you love, close-ups of fingers entwined as a couple looks out at an awe-inspiring vista or the socked-feet propped up in front of a roaring fire? Your Pisces guy likely loves that imagery just as much as you do.\\nFor example, you might book a weekend at a quiet beach resort in the off-season, so it can just be the two of you. As a water sign, your Pisces guy is going to thrill to be at the shore, but being alone with you makes the whole thing even greater.\\nEven better, both signs are known to be adventurers, so trying new things and making memories together will make you both happy.\"}]}]}}",
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2,796 | How to Attract a Pisces Man As a Sagittarius Woman | 1. Strike up a conversation with him.
Pisces men are typically pretty introverted and won't approach you first.
As an outgoing Sagittarius woman, you have no problem walking up to anyone and starting a conversation. The dreamy Pisces actually loves to talk, he's just not usually one to make the first move. If you approach him, he'll be interested in getting to know more about you.
Basic conversation starters work great! You might ask him about his favorite place, his favorite books or music, anything that will get him going.
He loves talking about ideas, hopes, and dreams—he's a little more abstract in his approach than you might be, but you'll find lots to talk about.
The fact that you have differences makes your conversations more lively and interesting.
2. Ask him to help you with something.
It makes a Pisces man happy to help you in some way.
As a Sagittarius woman, you get excited about learning and trying new things. Start something you know your Pisces guy is already into, then ask him to help you out. He'll be more than willing to help you out and he'll definitely want to follow up on your progress.
For example, if you know that he's a tech guy, you might ask him to give you a hand in building a website for your new blog or business. He'll be fascinated by your drive and ambition and want to stay connected to you.
3. Support his dreams and ideas.
Pisceans are dreamers with big imaginations.
If you really want to win the heart of a Pisces man, express admiration for his dreams. Others may have ridiculed his dreams in the past and he'll be over the moon for you if you show support. As a more practical Sagittarius woman, you might even help him figure out how to get his dreams off the ground.
Pisces guys are often very creative as well. If he's an artist or musician, express interest in his work! He'll definitely want to keep you close if you gush over his creations.
4. Toss on a turquoise accessory.
The Fish is attracted to turquoise, the color of the sea.
A Water sign, Pisces is also co-ruled by Neptune, which is associated with the sea. As an active Sagittarius woman, your style tends to float towards comfort over making a fashion statement. Although you're not usually one for jewelry, a turquoise bracelet or pendant will draw that Pisces guy's eye your way.
Something in a classic style will appeal to your own fashion sense as well. Choose something you can wear as a signature piece whenever you're around him.
5. Go to botanical gardens together.
Pisces guys love nature.
He has a natural green thumb but isn't necessarily the most active person. A walk through the local botanical gardens or nature center is just his cup of tea. This gives you plenty of time to talk as you walk together so you can get to know him a little bit better, and he'll love learning more about local plants and wildlife.
Sagittarius is a Fire sign, which means you're a pretty active, energetic woman. If this date feels a little too mellow for your taste, you might consider going fruit picking. Many farms offer this during the harvest season and it can be a fun date.
Pisces is also interested in music, art, and culture. Set up a date for a concert, gallery opening, or museum if that's more your style.
6. Keep your plans flexible.
A Pisces man typically prefers to go with the flow.
He's not one for being trapped in a rigid schedule. You're both mutable signs, which means you're both inherently flexible. Here, you're in your comfort zone. As a Sagittarius, you tend to be pretty impulsive, so it's not going to bother you to go out without a strict timetable.
For example, if you're going on a date, you might plan to meet him at a café or pub, then talk about places you might go from there. Something might come up that you both think is interesting.
Giving yourselves freedom lets you take advantage of experiences that you might just happen upon. You might try a walk around a neighborhood together just to see what catches your eye.
7. Use grace and tact when being critical.
Your Sagittarian bluntness can hurt the emotional Pisces.
You're known to be very direct, which the Pisces man does appreciate—but it can come at a cost. As a Water sign, he's very emotional and sensitive. Sometimes, your words can cut to the core, so take a moment to choose your words carefully and he'll love that you take his feelings into account.
This doesn't mean you have to choose between being honest and sparing his feelings—you just need to learn a little tact.
Say the two of you have just finished a garlic-heavy dinner and he goes in for a kiss. Rather than blurting out, "Your breath stinks," you might pull out some mints and say, "After that delicious dinner, I think we could both probably use a little freshening up."
8. Be open and honest.
The key phrase for Pisces is "I believe," so he needs to believe in you.
For a Pisces, no relationship is complete unless he's certain of his partner's honesty and sincerity. Since Sagittarians are known for their brutal honesty, this shouldn't be any problem for you. But you have to be careful to frame your truth in a way that shows the utmost respect and care for his feelings.
He'll be more attracted to you if he knows he can trust you to be loyal to him and forgiving of his faults.
9. Advise him on decisions.
An indecisive Pisces man needs a good sounding board.
Pisceans naturally want others to help them make decisions. As an Archer, you tend to be good at focusing on a target and finding the right pathway to achieve it. He'll love your practicality and your ability to cut through the noise to find solutions to problems.
Let him know that he can always talk to you—he'll appreciate that you're interested in helping him out and that you want to support him.
10. Take a trip to the beach.
A Pisces guy is in his element near the sea.
If you two live near the coast, a day trip to the beach might be just the thing to get that Fish hooked on you for good. As a Sagittarian, you're active and energetic, so you'll have plenty to do as well.
If the two of you have been seeing each other for a while, you might even spring for a weekend couple's getaway.
11. Keep things casual.
Pisces men generally aren't looking to be tied down.
A Piscean guy is not one to fall in love at first sight, either. Although he's deeply emotional, he tends to take love very seriously and approaches it with caution. This suits you just fine, since you Sagittarians like your freedom and independence.
Ultimately, the two of you might even decide that you would prefer to maintain an open relationship. You're generally open to non-exclusive arrangements, although you need to make sure you both trust each other before you try to go that route.
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Start something you know your Pisces guy is already into, then ask him to help you out. He'll be more than willing to help you out and he'll definitely want to follow up on your progress.\\nFor example, if you know that he's a tech guy, you might ask him to give you a hand in building a website for your new blog or business. He'll be fascinated by your drive and ambition and want to stay connected to you.\\n3. Support his dreams and ideas.\\nPisceans are dreamers with big imaginations.\\nIf you really want to win the heart of a Pisces man, express admiration for his dreams. Others may have ridiculed his dreams in the past and he'll be over the moon for you if you show support. As a more practical Sagittarius woman, you might even help him figure out how to get his dreams off the ground.\\nPisces guys are often very creative as well. If he's an artist or musician, express interest in his work! He'll definitely want to keep you close if you gush over his creations.\\n4. Toss on a turquoise accessory.\\nThe Fish is attracted to turquoise, the color of the sea.\\nA Water sign, Pisces is also co-ruled by Neptune, which is associated with the sea. As an active Sagittarius woman, your style tends to float towards comfort over making a fashion statement. Although you're not usually one for jewelry, a turquoise bracelet or pendant will draw that Pisces guy's eye your way.\\nSomething in a classic style will appeal to your own fashion sense as well. Choose something you can wear as a signature piece whenever you're around him.\\n5. Go to botanical gardens together.\\nPisces guys love nature.\\nHe has a natural green thumb but isn't necessarily the most active person. A walk through the local botanical gardens or nature center is just his cup of tea. This gives you plenty of time to talk as you walk together so you can get to know him a little bit better, and he'll love learning more about local plants and wildlife.\\nSagittarius is a Fire sign, which means you're a pretty active, energetic woman. If this date feels a little too mellow for your taste, you might consider going fruit picking. Many farms offer this during the harvest season and it can be a fun date.\\nPisces is also interested in music, art, and culture. Set up a date for a concert, gallery opening, or museum if that's more your style.\\n6. Keep your plans flexible.\\nA Pisces man typically prefers to go with the flow.\\nHe's not one for being trapped in a rigid schedule. You're both mutable signs, which means you're both inherently flexible. Here, you're in your comfort zone. As a Sagittarius, you tend to be pretty impulsive, so it's not going to bother you to go out without a strict timetable.\\nFor example, if you're going on a date, you might plan to meet him at a café or pub, then talk about places you might go from there. Something might come up that you both think is interesting.\\nGiving yourselves freedom lets you take advantage of experiences that you might just happen upon. You might try a walk around a neighborhood together just to see what catches your eye.\\n7. Use grace and tact when being critical.\\nYour Sagittarian bluntness can hurt the emotional Pisces.\\nYou're known to be very direct, which the Pisces man does appreciate—but it can come at a cost. As a Water sign, he's very emotional and sensitive. Sometimes, your words can cut to the core, so take a moment to choose your words carefully and he'll love that you take his feelings into account.\\nThis doesn't mean you have to choose between being honest and sparing his feelings—you just need to learn a little tact.\\nSay the two of you have just finished a garlic-heavy dinner and he goes in for a kiss. Rather than blurting out, \\\"Your breath stinks,\\\" you might pull out some mints and say, \\\"After that delicious dinner, I think we could both probably use a little freshening up.\\\"\\n8. Be open and honest.\\nThe key phrase for Pisces is \\\"I believe,\\\" so he needs to believe in you.\\nFor a Pisces, no relationship is complete unless he's certain of his partner's honesty and sincerity. Since Sagittarians are known for their brutal honesty, this shouldn't be any problem for you. 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2,797 | How to Attract a Pisces Man as a Scorpio Woman: 11 Flirting Tips | 1. Be kind and gentle.
Pisces men have a soft spot for tender, compassionate people.
Scorpio, you'll probably have no trouble being sweet to your amazing Pisces crush. Use your empathy and emotional insight to make him feel totally adored. Nothing is more attractive to a Pisces than a simple kind deed. So, offer him a sweet compliment or an affectionate gesture.
If a nice thought pops into your head, let him know. An off-the-cuff compliment will be especially touching: “Wow, I just realized that you have super nice eyes.”
If you two are out to lunch, offer to share your food with him. It may sound simple, but this will go over big with a Pisces man.
Throw him supportive comments when you're in a group. If he suggests a restaurant, chime in: “Oh yeah, I’ve been there! It’s really good. Good call.”
2. Share your thoughts and feelings.
For Pisces men, emotional honesty is a top priority in love.
To impress a Pisces, show him that you’re comfortable talking about your complex feelings. Scorpio, you and Pisces are both intuitive, emotional water signs—so, bond over this. Describe your feelings in depth regularly. Your Pisces crush will swoon!
First, mention a feeling you’ve been having: “I’ve been sort of unfulfilled lately. I love my friends, my job, my apartment…But I feel like something is missing.”
Then, engage your Pisces crush in the convo: “Do you ever feel that way? What makes you feel fulfilled?”
3. Show him empathy.
Pisces men need a partner who can validate their emotions.
Scorpio, this will be a piece of cake! You’re super emotionally insightful, so show your crush that you can really accept his full emotional range. Tell him that his feelings make sense and show him that you genuinely care about his emotional well-being.
Validate his feelings: “Yes, that makes so much sense. Finding out that a close friend lied to you is definitely worth feeling upset over.”
Tell him you would feel the same way: “If that happened to me, I’d be upset. If anything, you're taking it better than I would be.”
When he’s feeling hurt, explain how that affects you: “It makes me sad to hear that you’re feeling this way. I really care about you.”
4. Listen to him.
Pisces men crave a partner who makes them feel heard and understood.
Men of this sign might feel like they're constantly listening to friends in need—but never getting to talk through their own problems. Show him that with you, he’ll always have an empathetic ear. Ask him clarifying questions, look him in the eye, and make sure he knows you're happy to listen.
Ask clarifying questions to show you're engaged: “Wait, can you repeat that again? I’m confused about what you mean.”
If he seems self-conscious, encourage him to keep sharing: “I’m actually really curious about what you're saying. I love listening to you. Keep going!”
5. Discuss his dreams.
Pisces men are all about fantasy and spirituality.
Neptune rules Pisces, so he's all about intuition and imagination. In short, he's looking for someone who keeps as detailed a dream journal as he does. Describe your last night's dreams in detail or ask questions about his dreams. Make sure he sees that you're taking the conversation seriously. He'll be totally thrilled!
“I had the craziest dream last night. Wanna help me analyze it?”
“What did you dream about last night? I want the long version.”
Show him you’re taking the conversation seriously with a thoughtful question: “Wow. What do you think it meant when you were free-falling in your dream?”
6. Get creative with him.
You two are the most artistic signs—which can help you connect.
He's on the hunt for a partner who can field all of his fascinating creative thoughts, so show him that that's you, Scorpio. To bond, lean into your mutual love of the arts. Enjoy cultural events together, talk about literature, and if you can, work on creative projects together.
Take your Pisces crush on a date to the museum, a poetry reading, or a concert. Afterward, ask him tons of stimulating questions about the work.
Make sure you ask him about his creative projects: “So, how’s that cartoon strip you’ve been working on? I’d love to see it.”
When you can, mix quality time and artistic expression. Write a zine together, jam out, or style each other’s outfits for the day.
7. Lend a helping hand.
Pisces men love feeling nurtured in their romantic relationships.
Scorpio, as a fixed sign, you’re a strong, organized, and loving person—AKA, you’re great at caring for others. Show Pisces this side of you. Offer sweet acts of service, help him with his problems, and always keep his best interest in mind. Prove to Pisces that you love doting on him, and it'll go a long way.
When you know he’s had a stressful day, whip up his favorite dinner or dessert.
If he’s struggling with something, offer to help. Be his practice interview partner, exam study buddy—whatever he needs.
Offer helpful solutions to his problems. Maybe he's constantly losing things. Bring him a little dish to hold his keys by his front door.
8. Defend him when others are unkind.
As a mutable sign, your Pisces may struggle to speak up for himself.
That’s where you come in, Scorpio. Show your crush that you’ll be the first to defend him, and he’ll be over the moon. If someone acts unfairly towards him, call them out. If someone talks behind his back, stand up for him. In general, just make sure you’re always on his side. Mars is your ruling planet, so you have no trouble fighting for what's right.
If someone says something rude to Pisces, confront them: “Excuse me? That wasn’t cool at all. I know you think Nico will let that stuff slide, but I won’t.”
If you hear someone talk badly about your Pisces crush, say you won't have it: “I’m not into this conversation. Move on from the gossip, or I'm leaving."
9. Offer grand, romantic gestures.
Pisces is a lover at heart, so fairy tale romance will go over big.
Scorpio, you’re an intense, passionate partner. Use this to your advantage! Write all the love letters your heart desires. Plan gorgeous, romantic dates. Show him that with you, his love life will be totally magical.
Use creativity to express your feelings. Take his photograph, serenade him with a song, or paint his portrait to show how much you care.
Take him on beautiful dates. Sunny picnics, sailboat rides with champagne, and slow-dancing under the moonlight will be a big hit with Pisces.
Surprise him with an affectionate gesture. For his birthday, throw him a surprise party filled with his favorite foods and friends.
10. Help him escape everyday life.
Pisces are always searching for ways to break out of their routines.
Offer him a respite from his responsibilities, and you’ll become his dream girl. Scorpio, you’re as creative as it gets, so you’ll be great at this. Make quality time with you feel like a mini-vacation. Take him on short trips, get him into nature, or help him alter his routine.
Instead of spending Saturday on the couch, take him for a day trip to a small town. Explore the city and make a rule: no talking about work.
Take him to a magical, meditative spot in nature. Bring journals and spend ten minutes writing about what you see. Then, share with each other.
Help him finish up a task he’s working on, like organizing his closet. Then, spend his extra time doing a refreshing, fun activity, like a movie trip.
11. Keep things low-key.
In relationships, Pisces men have a hard time handling tension.
If you’re after him to commit to you or stop talking to someone, your Pisces crush may want to hit the road. Scorpio, you may have a little trouble with jealousy. Trust that Pisces wants to commit—but know that he needs to do that on his own time. When you’re feeling antsy, vent to friends or redirect your attention.
Call up a loved one who’s great at listening. Explain that you just need to air your stresses. Then, return to your Pisces feeling patient and refreshed.
If you’re still feeling edgy, do something active or creative. Go for a quick swim or run. Or, pick up an instrument to play.
12. Prove that you're loyal.
Pisces craves a trustworthy, reliable partner—and that’s definitely you.
You and Pisces are both big on loyalty, and that can be a great way for you two to connect. Show Pisces that when things get tough, you’ll stick around. Never lie to him and when you two go exclusive, make sure you stay faithful.
When Pisces has something serious come up, drop everything to be with him. You’ve got an amazing ear for empathy, Scorpio, so offer that to him.
Pisces will need your complete honesty. This is also a sensitive sign, so make sure that you’re gentle about it.
“Hey. I know you wanted my opinion on your sweater. You make literally everything you wear look amazing, but I feel like maybe the blue one would match a little better?”
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2,798 | How to Attract a Pisces Man Through Text | 1. Make the first move.
If you text a Pisces man first, you’ll make him feel special.
You know those guys who need to chase their crushes to stay interested? That's not Pisces. In fact, these guys can be a little shy, so send him a warm, friendly opener to kick things off between you two. Introduce yourself, use a subtle excuse to start a conversation, or invite him to hang out.
If he doesn’t have your number, introduce yourself: “Hey! Hank, right? I got your # from Nikita. You seemed really sweet. I thought I’d reach out :)”
If you have each other’s numbers but don’t text much, use a subtle conversation starter: “Leo, I just spotted your literal doppelganger on 5th! 😱”
If the two of you have been texting, ask him to spend time with you: "Heading to Lori's Cafe rn. Want to split the world's best brownie with me? 😍"
2. Compliment him.
Pisces love spending time with kindhearted people.
So, offer him a compliment or two. This'll make your Pisces crush feel amazing, and at the same time, you'll come off as a super sweet person to him. When something nice pops into your head, send it right over. Comment on his kindness or his intuitive nature, and he'll feel especially touched.
“When I saw you today, I couldn’t stop thinking about how nice your eyes are. SO green. They look like a filter. 🥰”
"You always really get it when I tell you how I feel. I love how perceptive you are."
“I saw you helping Theo with his assignment today. Classic Ezra, always lending a hand. You've got such a big heart! 😽"
3. Ask him about his feelings.
In their heart of hearts, Pisces want to feel taken care of.
Regularly check in on how he’s feeling over text. Show concern for his emotional wellbeing, and he'll feel like you're everything he's been searching for. Plus, you're proving that you're generous, loving, and emotionally intuitive—AKA, all things he admires in a crush.
If you pick up on a shift in his mood, ask him about it: “I don’t mean to press, but you didn't quite seem like yourself today. Everything okay?”
If you know he’s been feeling down, check in and offer to help: “Hey, Ali. I know it’s been a tough week. How was today? Can I bring you some ice cream?”
When he mentions something that's been bothering him, follow up with him later on: “Hey, by the way, how did that chat with your sister go? Is she alright?"
4. Be vulnerable with your feelings.
Pisces is a water sign, so they’ll want to connect with you emotionally.
Send a text that proves you’re emotionally open and intuitive. Wait for him to ask how you've been feeling or work it into conversation yourself. If you can, share complex, deep emotions and try to offer him some detail. So, instead of saying you’ve been “good,” explain that you’ve been “content, but a little restless."
If he asks about your day, take that as an opportunity to share your emotions: “I'm feeling a bit frustrated today. Hoping a warm tea turns things around. 🫖"
If he asks a specific question, offer an emotionally insightful response: "Yes, my dog is feeling better! I tried to play it cool but I was really nervous for a while."
Work some emotional vulnerability into a good morning text: "Good morning! I woke up feeling totally at peace today. How about you? 😺"
5. Prove that you have a big heart.
A Pisces will hope his crush is a natural humanitarian, just like him.
To a Pisces man, altruism is just about the most attractive quality on the planet. So, send a text that highlights your charitable nature. Mention helping a friend, offer to help him with an issue, or highlight a cause you're passionate about.
"Sorry, I won't be able to come to dinner tonight! I'm still helping Tamara move. It's a pretty big job, so I can't leave her to do it alone. 📦"
"Let me know if you need help organizing your closet. I did that recently—such a daunting task. I'd love to lend a hand. 🤗"
"I'm off to volunteer at the Humane Society! I'll send a video if the cats do anything especially cute. 🐈⬛😇"
6. Show him your creative side.
Pisces is a creative sign, so he'll hope you love the arts, too.
Ask him about his creative projects, explain your own projects to him, or discuss your favorite music, art, and books. To a Pisces, art is an important part of life. So bond with him in this area, and you’ll earn major points. Plus, he’ll love that you’re showing an interest in his interests (because he loves thoughtful people!).
“Hey, how are your vocal lessons going? Have you hit any new notes since we last spoke? 🤩”
“Have I mentioned that I started a new painting yesterday? It’s of three glass soda bottles. Getting the reflections right will be tough. 🎨”
“Okay, top three favorite bands of all time. Go! For me, it’s gotta be The Velvet Underground, Yo La Tengo, and Television. 🎼"
7. Ask him about his dreams.
Pisces are imaginative people, and he'll want to explore that with you.
Men of this sign don’t always get to enjoy conversations about the things they love, like spirituality and fantasies. Indulge that side of him, and he’ll think you’re the most exciting, special person he’s ever met. Ask him about his dreams, his fantasies, and his spiritual beliefs to connect.
“What’s the last dream you remember? Mine was of me swimming in a chocolate fountain…What do you think that means?? 😋”
“What’s your favorite thing to daydream about? Like, you’re bored in class, nothing to do…where does your mind wander off to? 😴”
“Would you say you’re a spiritual person? If so, what else do you think is out there? I’d love to hear your thoughts.”
8. Ask for his help with something.
Pisces want to feel valuable to the people they care about.
This is a generous, kindhearted sign, so to connect with a Pisces man, send a text asking for his help. When he takes care of you, he'll feel closer to you. Ask for his assistance on something he's knowledgeable about, like emotional issues, relationship conflicts, or creative projects.
“Hey, so sorry to bother you. I’m feeling sort of down. Any chance you’d want to come over, watch LOTR, and eat our weight in ice cream? 🍦”
“Could I get your help with something? My sister and I are sort of fighting, and you're so good with this stuff. I’d love your advice!”
“I’m not sure how to take my short film to the next level. I’d actually love your input. Want to stop by and watch it with me quickly? I’d be super grateful :)”
9. Send long, sweet messages.
A Pisces man wants conversation with his crush to be ultra-affectionate.
Wait until you two have discussed your feelings for each other. Then, draft long, super sentimental messages to keep your flirtationship full of passion. To a Pisces, there's nothing more romantic than a long-form love letter. So, send him the text-message equivalent!
“Lyle, I just think you’re the best. Every day that I wake up and remember I’m going to get to talk to you, it puts a smile on my face. I just think you’re so funny and sweet and smart, and I don’t want you to question how I feel about you. 💕”
"Andre, I really, really like you. You still give me butterflies even though we've been hanging out for weeks now. I love your energy, enthusiasm, and imagination. You're like sunshine in human form! 💙❤️💛"
Send him a photo of something interesting near your place and say it reminds you of him.
You can tell him that you were listening to a song that reminded you of him.
You can also use emojis here and there to make the conversation interesting.
10. Send him good morning and good night texts.
Pisces want someone who's there for the long haul.
Prove to him that you're consistent and reliable by sending daily messages. To subtly remind him that you're someone he can count on, shoot him good morning and good night texts. Plus, this'll let him know that he's on your mind at the beginning and end of each day (which he'll love!).
“Good morning, sunshine. Thinking of you! Hope you slept well. 🤠”
“Sleep tight! Don’t miss me too much in your dreams. 🥱🥱”
“Daily reminder that I’m thinkin’ of ya! Hope you’re set to have a rad day. 🤘🏽”
11. Don’t be too forward.
Pisces men won't be into explicit messages.
Though Pisces aren't traditional, they are sensitive. He'll want intimacy in your relationship to develop over time, so keep your messages PG. Avoid revealing photos, risque jokes, and crude flirtations. Instead, when you're looking to create some excitement, ask to meet in person or send something emotionally vulnerable.
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2,799 | How to Attract a Pisces Woman As a Scorpio Man | 1. Compliment her on what makes her unqiue.
Just like you, a Pisces woman wants to feel appreciated for who she is.
She likely has a lot of quirks and habits that make her unlike anyone you've ever met. This makes her a great match for you, Scorpio, as your sign often appreciates people who stand out in a crowd. To gain her affection, tell her what you find so interesting about her. She'll love knowing that you like the real her.
"I love your music taste. You always know the coolest bands!"
"You've got such a great sense of style. No one dresses like you."
"You're so beautiful. I love the way you do your eye makeup."
2. Talk about your mutual interests.
Scorpio and Pisces usually have a ton in common.
You're both intuitive water signs with an interest in life's mysteries. You probably have interests in common, whether that be folk music, fantasy novels, or horror films. A Pisces woman will love sharing passions with you, as it'll help her connect to you on a deeper level.
Find common ground by bringing up your interests and asking about hers. Once you find some shared ones, talk about why the two of you are drawn to them.
You might say, "I've always loved mythology because it attempts to explain the unexplainable. What do you like about it?"
3. Engage in philosophical and creative discussions.
Pisces and Scorpio often share unique insights about the world.
You both possess strong intuition, which makes you incredible thinkers when it comes to philosophy and art. She'll want to hear your opinion on these subjects, and she'll love being encouraged to share hers, too. If you approach these conversations with respect and sensitivity, she will be left swooning.
Visit bookstores, art galleries, and museums to stimulate conversations.
Try referencing specific authors, artists, and points in history you find particularly interesting. You might say, "My favorite painter is Monet. I love the way the impressionists interpreted the world. What about you?"
4. Be kind to her.
Show off your sensitive side to appeal to her caring nature.
A Pisces woman goes the extra mile to help her friends, family, and romantic partners. This makes the two of you highly compatible, as Scorpio is an intensely empathetic and loyal sign. Show her your generous, compassionate nature and she'll grow fond of you in no time.
Offer to help her out when she needs it. If her car breaks down, for example, offer to give her a ride to work.
Surprise her with something nice, like her favorite coffee drink or a record by a band that she likes. If you're on a tight budget, a Pisces woman will probably love a curated playlist.
Let her know how much you enjoyed spending time with her.
5. Make the first move.
A Pisces might be a little shy, so she'll be attracted to your confidence.
As a sensitive water sign, a Pisces woman may be afraid of rejection. Embrace your bold nature as a Scorpio and tell her how you feel first. She'll be attracted to your charisma and will likely be relieved you made the first move.
"Hey, I like talking to you. Would you wanna go out sometime?"
"Are you free this weekend? I'd love to get together if you're up for it."
"I really like spending time with you."
"I had such an amazing time before. I'd love to see you again!"
6. Take her on romantic dates.
Pisces women are often dreamers and hopeless romantics.
Cater to her big imagination by planning dates that feel like they're straight out of a movie. Ruled by Pluto, the planet of depth and passion, the sign of Scorpio is uniquely suited for such an imaginative, romantic sign. You can plan emotionally intimate, idyllic dates like no other, and it will make a Pisces woman fall for you fast.
You might try coffee and a romantic stroll through the park, a nice dinner followed by a film at a cool theater, or desserts and a trip to the art museum.
7. Encourage her when times get tough.
A Pisces may struggle with her self-worth, which you can relate to.
As talented as she may be, a Pisces woman might benefit from an outside source of encouragement sometimes. Scorpios are deep and critical thinkers, which means you can relate to her struggles with self-criticism. Empathize with what she's going through and remind her how incredible she is. It will mean the world to her, and she'll likely return the favor.
"I know work has been stressful, but no one on the team is as creative as you. You've got this! 😊"
"You're such an incredible artist. I'd buy your work any day. 🎨❤️"
8. Be honest 100% of the time.
A Pisces woman needs to know that she can trust you.
Both Scorpio and Pisces value honesty and trust above all else in a relationship. To establish the trust that you both desire, tell her what's on your mind and be truthful with her. She'll appreciate knowing what you're really thinking, and it'll give her the ability to be honest with you, too.
As a Scorpio, you might spend a lot of time in your own head. It might feel against your nature to voice your thoughts out loud, but try your best to tell her how you feel.
You might say, "I'm feeling kind of down after my day at work. Can I rant about it a little bit?" or "I had a really weird dream last night. Mind if I talk about it?"
9. Trust her.
Push yourself to have faith in her, even if it's tough at first.
As a Scorpio, you might struggle to let yourself rely on new people (especially in a relationship). In order to attract the Pisces woman of your dreams, though, you've got to trust that her feelings are true. If feelings of jealousy come up, wait to talk about them until you're feeling calm. A Pisces woman will respond well if you give her the benefit of the doubt and approach these conversations compassionately.
Respect her need for other friendships. If she's out with her friends, for example, avoid sending a bunch of texts to check in on her.
If she does something that upsets you, use I-statements and keep a calm, respectful demeanor. Yelling or harsh language will likely hurt a sensitive Pisces, even more than other signs.
You might try, "I completely understand that you need extra time with friends, but I'd love to spend a little more time together."
10. Give her space.
Both Scorpio and Pisces need alone time to feel content.
Pisces women give a lot to those that they love, and alone time helps them recharge. Scorpio, you can relate to this, as your sign needs solo time to make sense of your thoughts and ideas. Try to empathize with her need for space and give her some time to herself. If she sees that you understand her needs, she'll come back in a heartbeat.
She may take a few days before asking to hang out again. Try not to take it personally, and use the extra time to do your own thing. Make plans with friends, call up a family member, and devote some time to your hobbies.
11. Be yourself.
Just like you, Pisces women are very genuine.
She wants to know the real you, including your interests, feelings, and innermost desires. Scorpios possess some truly one-of-a-kind qualities, and you likely desire a similar dynamic in a relationship. If you can own who you are with confidence, she'll be super attracted to you. Plus, as the psychic of the zodiac, she'll see right through you if you pretend to be someone that you're not.
Wear the clothes that make you feel confident. She'll be super into it if you wear your favorite flannel as opposed to an uncomfortable dress shirt.
Play up your strengths and be honest about your mistakes. A Pisces wants to know the whole picture, not just what you think she'll like about you.
You might say, "I wasn't always the best student growing up, but I've always been really passionate about playing music."
12. Be faithful to her.
A Pisces woman expects the same loyalty as you do.
When a Pisces finds love, they're usually in it for the long haul. As the two of you get to know each other, talk about your expectations for the relationship and be faithful if you agree to be monogamous. Thankfully, Scorpio is a very loyal sign as well. To win over a Pisces woman, embrace your faithful nature and stay true to her.
Give her plenty of time and attention when you're on dates. Make eye contact, ask her questions, and be genuinely interested in what she has to say.
Avoid ditching her at a party to hang out with your friends or eyeing other people while you're out together. Using other people to make her jealous will likely only hurt her feelings.
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A Pisces woman will love sharing passions with you, as it'll help her connect to you on a deeper level.\\nFind common ground by bringing up your interests and asking about hers. Once you find some shared ones, talk about why the two of you are drawn to them.\\nYou might say, \\\"I've always loved mythology because it attempts to explain the unexplainable. What do you like about it?\\\"\\n3. Engage in philosophical and creative discussions.\\nPisces and Scorpio often share unique insights about the world.\\nYou both possess strong intuition, which makes you incredible thinkers when it comes to philosophy and art. She'll want to hear your opinion on these subjects, and she'll love being encouraged to share hers, too. If you approach these conversations with respect and sensitivity, she will be left swooning.\\nVisit bookstores, art galleries, and museums to stimulate conversations.\\nTry referencing specific authors, artists, and points in history you find particularly interesting. You might say, \\\"My favorite painter is Monet. I love the way the impressionists interpreted the world. What about you?\\\"\\n4. Be kind to her.\\nShow off your sensitive side to appeal to her caring nature.\\nA Pisces woman goes the extra mile to help her friends, family, and romantic partners. This makes the two of you highly compatible, as Scorpio is an intensely empathetic and loyal sign. Show her your generous, compassionate nature and she'll grow fond of you in no time.\\nOffer to help her out when she needs it. If her car breaks down, for example, offer to give her a ride to work.\\nSurprise her with something nice, like her favorite coffee drink or a record by a band that she likes. If you're on a tight budget, a Pisces woman will probably love a curated playlist.\\nLet her know how much you enjoyed spending time with her.\\n5. Make the first move.\\nA Pisces might be a little shy, so she'll be attracted to your confidence.\\nAs a sensitive water sign, a Pisces woman may be afraid of rejection. Embrace your bold nature as a Scorpio and tell her how you feel first. She'll be attracted to your charisma and will likely be relieved you made the first move.\\n\\\"Hey, I like talking to you. Would you wanna go out sometime?\\\"\\n\\\"Are you free this weekend? I'd love to get together if you're up for it.\\\"\\n\\\"I really like spending time with you.\\\"\\n\\\"I had such an amazing time before. I'd love to see you again!\\\"\\n6. Take her on romantic dates.\\nPisces women are often dreamers and hopeless romantics.\\nCater to her big imagination by planning dates that feel like they're straight out of a movie. Ruled by Pluto, the planet of depth and passion, the sign of Scorpio is uniquely suited for such an imaginative, romantic sign. You can plan emotionally intimate, idyllic dates like no other, and it will make a Pisces woman fall for you fast.\\nYou might try coffee and a romantic stroll through the park, a nice dinner followed by a film at a cool theater, or desserts and a trip to the art museum.\\n7. Encourage her when times get tough.\\nA Pisces may struggle with her self-worth, which you can relate to.\\nAs talented as she may be, a Pisces woman might benefit from an outside source of encouragement sometimes. Scorpios are deep and critical thinkers, which means you can relate to her struggles with self-criticism. Empathize with what she's going through and remind her how incredible she is. It will mean the world to her, and she'll likely return the favor.\\n\\\"I know work has been stressful, but no one on the team is as creative as you. You've got this! 😊\\\"\\n\\\"You're such an incredible artist. I'd buy your work any day. 🎨❤️\\\"\\n8. 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2,800 | How to Attract a Recently Divorced Woman | 1. Take it slow and become friends.
She’s likely going through a hard time, so don’t be pushy.
How a divorce plays out from her perspective should guide the way you go about attracting her. If she seems really down, she’s told you she’s struggling, or you get the overall vibe that she’s under a lot of stress, just be supportive and develop a friendship. Trying to build a relationship too early will make it seem like you don’t care about her feelings, and she’ll be more likely to shut you down if she isn’t ready for anything.
If she wants to vent about her divorce, let her. Even if it kind of stings a bit as you hear your crush talking about another guy/girl, it’s important to be there for her.
Divorce is pretty time consuming. If you make your move when she’s still working through the divorce, she may shut you down just purely because a relationship is impractical!
2. Be a supportive force in her life.
Divorce is hard, so make things easy for her by being there.
If she wants to spend a weekend with her kids, tell her you understand and respect that. If she needs a shoulder to cry on, be there for her. Divorce is extremely difficult, and if you want her to look at you with positive, loving eyes, you need to be as supportive as possible.
This applies to whether you’ve taken her on a date or not. Just be a productive, helpful person. She’ll appreciate it, and you’ll avoid getting the cold shoulder.
Ask her if she needs anything! Shoot her a text like, “Hey, I know you’re going through a lot and I’ve been thinking of you. Is there anything I can do?”
3. Be fun to hang out with.
She’ll be dealing with a lot of un-fun stuff, so be a joyful alternative.
If you’re going out to do something interesting, invite her. She’s probably going to be looking for something to distract her from the divorce, and being that escape is a great way to attract her. Throw out suggestions like, “Hey, want to come to a carnival this weekend with my friends?” Even if she declines, she’ll appreciate the gesture.
Be casual and low-key about it. If she declines an offer, tell her, “No worries!” and move on. If you’re too pushy, she may feel like you’re putting pressure on her.
4. Look and smell your best.
Divorced or not divorced, women want a partner who looks good.
Divorced women are less likely to look at you as a potential partner if you have a sloppier look since it can read as kind of immature. They’re going to be more interested in someone who has their stuff together, so make a good impression! It’s totally okay if you’ve got more of a laid back vibe, but just make sure you’re looking your best when it comes to your outfit, hair, and overall hygiene.
Women want a partner who smells nice. If you aren’t in the habit of wearing cologne or perfume, now is a good time to start!
You shouldn’t put on an act or dress in a dramatically different style—a divorced woman is wise enough to see through an act. Just make sure your clothes are clean, fit well, and that you aren’t hanging out with them in sweatpants and flip flops.
5. Give yourself a quick confidence boost with a mantra.
The more confident you appear, the more likely she’ll be attracted to you.
If you’re feeling a little shaky about approaching her, give your self-esteem a big boost. In the moment, try repeating a productive phrase over and over again (out loud or in your head). This will give you a quick boost of positive energy!
You could use something like, “I am good enough. I am smart enough,” or, “Nothing bad will happen. I’ve got this.”
Alternatively, you can flex in a mirror to strike a power pose and give your confidence a big temporary boost. It sounds silly, but it’s scientifically proven to work!
6. Flirt without the cheese.
Smile, compliment her outfit, and be as genuine as possible.
If you have an established relationship, you could even try “accidentally” brushing against her or holding a hug for a little longer than you normally would to see how she responds. A divorced woman is unlikely to want to waste any time with someone too immature to treat her seriously, so skip the pickup lines and cliché phrases.
Avoid overtly-sexual or romantic compliments. A recently divorced woman is going to be weary of getting into anything with a guy or gal who doesn’t have the tact to recognize that they’re probably not in the headspace for a quick fling.
7. Engage in meaningful conversations.
Nothing pumps the brakes on an attraction faster than boredom.
If you want her to be drawn to you, connect on a deeper level. Ask her about her dreams, hobbies, and beliefs. Get spiritual and philosophical if the conversation turns that way. People tend to be happier when they’re social and engaging in deep conversation, and she’ll be more attracted to you if you make her happy!
You could try throwing out a fun hypothetical to get things started. Questions like, “If you were trapped on a desert island, what five things would you bring with you?” and “If you could be reincarnated as an animal, which one would you choose?” are fun ways to get things started.
8. Be yourself and be authentic.
A divorced woman will see through any charades, so don’t play games.
Skip the pickup tricks, life hacks, and “you’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” gag. A divorced woman has loved and lost—she can spot games from a mile away. If she asks you if you like her, don’t play hard to get. If she tells you she isn’t interested in dating right now, don’t read too deeply into it—she’s saying what she means.
If you aren’t ready for a serious relationship, be clear about it up front. If you’re looking to find Ms. Right, be honest about that, too.
So long as you’re honest, sincere, and genuine, you shouldn’t raise any red flags in her book.
9. Make sure you’re serious if she has kids.
If she has children, take things extremely slow and tread lightly.
It will be unfair to her if you put yourself out there like you’re interested but you aren’t ready for anything serious and she has children. It can be damaging to bring a new partner around your children if that partner is just going to disappear in the future, so make sure you’re ready for something serious.
If you’re only interested in a fling, make it extremely clear and don’t insert yourself into her personal life.
Let her bring up her kids in the context of your relationship. If you start talking about being around her kids but she just thinks this is a casual fling, it might scare her off.
10. Ask her out directly when she seems ready.
If she seems interested and available, go for it!
At some point, she’ll likely go from mourning her marriage to feeling a newfound freedom. This is your opportunity to finally ask her out. Approach her in a low-stakes and straightforward way, and be up front about your interest in her.
You might say, “I apologize if this is too upfront, but I think you’re a wonderful person and I’d love to take you out sometime.”
For a more casual approach, you could ask, “Hey, do you want to grab a drink this weekend? Just you and me. Let’s hit the town together.”
Divorce can be a disillusioning process. If she is coming out of the marriage knowing exactly what she wants, she probably isn’t going to mind if you’re a little forward or practical about this. Even if she turns you down or says it’s “not the right time,” she won’t hold it against you and may consider it in the future.
11. Treat her like you would any other partner.
If you do get your foot in the door, don’t treat her differently.
Divorcees often feel like they’re tainted, and if she has children, she might be scared about how you’re going to react to her situation. Don’t make a big deal out of any of it. Make her feel like you don’t mind any baggage she might have by treating her like a regular person.
She’s likely going to have all kinds of complicated and confused feelings in the aftermath of her divorce, so she’ll appreciate the stability and normalcy.
If you ask her out and she goes, “I’d love to, but I have kids and I’m getting divorced, and…” just hit her back with, “Totally. I don’t mind any of that. I’d still like to take you out. If you’re too busy though, I totally get it.”
Tips
There’s nothing wrong with asking a divorcee out, but divorce is messy, expensive, and time consuming. If she just got divorced, wait at least 3 months before you make a move. It’s possible she’ll be looking to get back out there right away, but be ready to take some time here.[15]
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Always be honest. Trust is a fragile thing, and there’s no faster way to lose your momentum than dishonesty.[16]
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In terms of the emotional impact, a divorce can be more painful than the death of a family member.[17]
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It’s a seriously painful experience for most people, and it’s really important that you understand that.[18]
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Warnings
It’s totally okay to find divorcees attractive. There are definitely reasons they’d make good romantic partners (they’re experienced, they can commit, someone else thought they were cute enough to marry).[20]
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Just make sure that you’re not fetishizing it or treating her like a sexual conquest.
If you aren’t sure whether you’re ready for something serious but she is, talk to her about it before you let things get too hand. She may be down for a quick fling after a long, arduous divorce, but if you assume that’s the case and it’s not, she may be really hurt and things could get messy.[21]
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Be a supportive force in her life.\\nDivorce is hard, so make things easy for her by being there.\\nIf she wants to spend a weekend with her kids, tell her you understand and respect that. If she needs a shoulder to cry on, be there for her. Divorce is extremely difficult, and if you want her to look at you with positive, loving eyes, you need to be as supportive as possible.\\nThis applies to whether you’ve taken her on a date or not. Just be a productive, helpful person. She’ll appreciate it, and you’ll avoid getting the cold shoulder.\\nAsk her if she needs anything! Shoot her a text like, “Hey, I know you’re going through a lot and I’ve been thinking of you. Is there anything I can do?”\\n3. Be fun to hang out with.\\nShe’ll be dealing with a lot of un-fun stuff, so be a joyful alternative.\\nIf you’re going out to do something interesting, invite her. She’s probably going to be looking for something to distract her from the divorce, and being that escape is a great way to attract her. Throw out suggestions like, “Hey, want to come to a carnival this weekend with my friends?” Even if she declines, she’ll appreciate the gesture.\\nBe casual and low-key about it. If she declines an offer, tell her, “No worries!” and move on. If you’re too pushy, she may feel like you’re putting pressure on her.\\n4. Look and smell your best.\\nDivorced or not divorced, women want a partner who looks good.\\nDivorced women are less likely to look at you as a potential partner if you have a sloppier look since it can read as kind of immature. They’re going to be more interested in someone who has their stuff together, so make a good impression! It’s totally okay if you’ve got more of a laid back vibe, but just make sure you’re looking your best when it comes to your outfit, hair, and overall hygiene.\\nWomen want a partner who smells nice. If you aren’t in the habit of wearing cologne or perfume, now is a good time to start!\\nYou shouldn’t put on an act or dress in a dramatically different style—a divorced woman is wise enough to see through an act. Just make sure your clothes are clean, fit well, and that you aren’t hanging out with them in sweatpants and flip flops.\\n5. Give yourself a quick confidence boost with a mantra.\\nThe more confident you appear, the more likely she’ll be attracted to you.\\nIf you’re feeling a little shaky about approaching her, give your self-esteem a big boost. In the moment, try repeating a productive phrase over and over again (out loud or in your head). This will give you a quick boost of positive energy!\\nYou could use something like, “I am good enough. I am smart enough,” or, “Nothing bad will happen. I’ve got this.”\\nAlternatively, you can flex in a mirror to strike a power pose and give your confidence a big temporary boost. It sounds silly, but it’s scientifically proven to work!\\n6. Flirt without the cheese.\\nSmile, compliment her outfit, and be as genuine as possible.\\nIf you have an established relationship, you could even try “accidentally” brushing against her or holding a hug for a little longer than you normally would to see how she responds. A divorced woman is unlikely to want to waste any time with someone too immature to treat her seriously, so skip the pickup lines and cliché phrases.\\nAvoid overtly-sexual or romantic compliments. A recently divorced woman is going to be weary of getting into anything with a guy or gal who doesn’t have the tact to recognize that they’re probably not in the headspace for a quick fling.\\n7. Engage in meaningful conversations.\\nNothing pumps the brakes on an attraction faster than boredom.\\nIf you want her to be drawn to you, connect on a deeper level. Ask her about her dreams, hobbies, and beliefs. Get spiritual and philosophical if the conversation turns that way. People tend to be happier when they’re social and engaging in deep conversation, and she’ll be more attracted to you if you make her happy!\\nYou could try throwing out a fun hypothetical to get things started. Questions like, “If you were trapped on a desert island, what five things would you bring with you?” and “If you could be reincarnated as an animal, which one would you choose?” are fun ways to get things started.\\n8. Be yourself and be authentic.\\nA divorced woman will see through any charades, so don’t play games.\\nSkip the pickup tricks, life hacks, and “you’re the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen” gag. A divorced woman has loved and lost—she can spot games from a mile away. If she asks you if you like her, don’t play hard to get. If she tells you she isn’t interested in dating right now, don’t read too deeply into it—she’s saying what she means.\\nIf you aren’t ready for a serious relationship, be clear about it up front. If you’re looking to find Ms. Right, be honest about that, too.\\nSo long as you’re honest, sincere, and genuine, you shouldn’t raise any red flags in her book.\\n9. Make sure you’re serious if she has kids.\\nIf she has children, take things extremely slow and tread lightly.\\nIt will be unfair to her if you put yourself out there like you’re interested but you aren’t ready for anything serious and she has children. It can be damaging to bring a new partner around your children if that partner is just going to disappear in the future, so make sure you’re ready for something serious.\\nIf you’re only interested in a fling, make it extremely clear and don’t insert yourself into her personal life.\\nLet her bring up her kids in the context of your relationship. If you start talking about being around her kids but she just thinks this is a casual fling, it might scare her off.\\n10. Ask her out directly when she seems ready.\\nIf she seems interested and available, go for it!\\nAt some point, she’ll likely go from mourning her marriage to feeling a newfound freedom. This is your opportunity to finally ask her out. Approach her in a low-stakes and straightforward way, and be up front about your interest in her.\\nYou might say, “I apologize if this is too upfront, but I think you’re a wonderful person and I’d love to take you out sometime.”\\nFor a more casual approach, you could ask, “Hey, do you want to grab a drink this weekend? Just you and me. Let’s hit the town together.”\\nDivorce can be a disillusioning process. If she is coming out of the marriage knowing exactly what she wants, she probably isn’t going to mind if you’re a little forward or practical about this. Even if she turns you down or says it’s “not the right time,” she won’t hold it against you and may consider it in the future.\\n11. Treat her like you would any other partner.\\nIf you do get your foot in the door, don’t treat her differently.\\nDivorcees often feel like they’re tainted, and if she has children, she might be scared about how you’re going to react to her situation. Don’t make a big deal out of any of it. Make her feel like you don’t mind any baggage she might have by treating her like a regular person.\\nShe’s likely going to have all kinds of complicated and confused feelings in the aftermath of her divorce, so she’ll appreciate the stability and normalcy.\\nIf you ask her out and she goes, “I’d love to, but I have kids and I’m getting divorced, and…” just hit her back with, “Totally. I don’t mind any of that. I’d still like to take you out. If you’re too busy though, I totally get it.”\\nTips\\nThere’s nothing wrong with asking a divorcee out, but divorce is messy, expensive, and time consuming. If she just got divorced, wait at least 3 months before you make a move. It’s possible she’ll be looking to get back out there right away, but be ready to take some time here.[15]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nAlways be honest. Trust is a fragile thing, and there’s no faster way to lose your momentum than dishonesty.[16]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nIn terms of the emotional impact, a divorce can be more painful than the death of a family member.[17]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\\n\\n\\n It’s a seriously painful experience for most people, and it’s really important that you understand that.[18]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nWarnings\\nIt’s totally okay to find divorcees attractive. There are definitely reasons they’d make good romantic partners (they’re experienced, they can commit, someone else thought they were cute enough to marry).[20]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\\n\\n\\n Just make sure that you’re not fetishizing it or treating her like a sexual conquest.\\nIf you aren’t sure whether you’re ready for something serious but she is, talk to her about it before you let things get too hand. She may be down for a quick fling after a long, arduous divorce, but if you assume that’s the case and it’s not, she may be really hurt and things could get messy.[21]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you’ve been harboring a crush for a woman and she’s suddenly available in the wake of a divorce, you may be wondering how to catch her eye. While a lot of people are scared away by the prospect of a divorced partner, there’s actually a ton of upside here! Divorced women have been through a lot, but they’re probably going to be more responsible, well-put together, and emotionally stable than someone who has never experienced marriage. They’re also going to be down for a new adventure since they’ll be seeking out some fun after a tough experience, so your relationship will never be boring! If you’re trying to win the heart of a woman who has just ended a marriage, you’re in luck. Here are the best practices when it comes to landing the gal of your dreams in the wake of a divorce.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take it slow and become friends.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"She’s likely going through a hard time, so don’t be pushy.\", \"描述\": \"How a divorce plays out from her perspective should guide the way you go about attracting her. If she seems really down, she’s told you she’s struggling, or you get the overall vibe that she’s under a lot of stress, just be supportive and develop a friendship. Trying to build a relationship too early will make it seem like you don’t care about her feelings, and she’ll be more likely to shut you down if she isn’t ready for anything.\\nIf she wants to vent about her divorce, let her. Even if it kind of stings a bit as you hear your crush talking about another guy/girl, it’s important to be there for her.\\nDivorce is pretty time consuming. If you make your move when she’s still working through the divorce, she may shut you down just purely because a relationship is impractical!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be a supportive force in her life.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Divorce is hard, so make things easy for her by being there.\", \"描述\": \"If she wants to spend a weekend with her kids, tell her you understand and respect that. If she needs a shoulder to cry on, be there for her. Divorce is extremely difficult, and if you want her to look at you with positive, loving eyes, you need to be as supportive as possible.\\nThis applies to whether you’ve taken her on a date or not. Just be a productive, helpful person. She’ll appreciate it, and you’ll avoid getting the cold shoulder.\\nAsk her if she needs anything! Shoot her a text like, “Hey, I know you’re going through a lot and I’ve been thinking of you. Is there anything I can do?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be fun to hang out with.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"She’ll be dealing with a lot of un-fun stuff, so be a joyful alternative.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re going out to do something interesting, invite her. She’s probably going to be looking for something to distract her from the divorce, and being that escape is a great way to attract her. Throw out suggestions like, “Hey, want to come to a carnival this weekend with my friends?” Even if she declines, she’ll appreciate the gesture.\\nBe casual and low-key about it. If she declines an offer, tell her, “No worries!” and move on. If you’re too pushy, she may feel like you’re putting pressure on her.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Look and smell your best.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Divorced or not divorced, women want a partner who looks good.\", \"描述\": \"Divorced women are less likely to look at you as a potential partner if you have a sloppier look since it can read as kind of immature. They’re going to be more interested in someone who has their stuff together, so make a good impression! It’s totally okay if you’ve got more of a laid back vibe, but just make sure you’re looking your best when it comes to your outfit, hair, and overall hygiene.\\nWomen want a partner who smells nice. If you aren’t in the habit of wearing cologne or perfume, now is a good time to start!\\nYou shouldn’t put on an act or dress in a dramatically different style—a divorced woman is wise enough to see through an act. Just make sure your clothes are clean, fit well, and that you aren’t hanging out with them in sweatpants and flip flops.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give yourself a quick confidence boost with a mantra.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The more confident you appear, the more likely she’ll be attracted to you.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re feeling a little shaky about approaching her, give your self-esteem a big boost. In the moment, try repeating a productive phrase over and over again (out loud or in your head). This will give you a quick boost of positive energy!\\nYou could use something like, “I am good enough. I am smart enough,” or, “Nothing bad will happen. 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2,801 | Your Guide to the Heart of a Sunny, Adventurous Sagittarius Man | 1. Attracting Him with Your Personality
1-1. Show off your spontaneous side.
This is a sign that truly can’t be tamed—your Sagittarius crush is all about wild activities, off-the-cuff decisions, and adventure, 24/7. His greatest fear is probably falling into a rut (or, a relationship with someone who can’t ride the wave). So if you show him that you’re just as fun, curious, and bold as he is, it’ll go a long way.
Suggest something bold. Maybe you two are at a party…why not ask him to sneak off to the rooftop pool for a midnight swim?
Surprise him with an adventure. If you know him well, show up with a blindfold and take him to a special outdoor spot you know he’d love.
Go along with his zany plans. If your Sag crush wants to do something random, your enthusiasm will mean the world to him—he’s looking for a partner in crime after all!
1-2. Maintain an air of mystery to keep him on his toes.
Sagittarius is one of the most curious signs in the zodiac. If you’re an enigma that he’s constantly trying to figure out, you’ll be naturally alluring to him. So if you can, don’t give too much away off the bat. Make him work to learn more about you, and you’ll become that much more exciting to him.
Give vague responses to his questions: “Oh, you want to know my story? You’ll have to work harder than that!”
Ask more questions than you answer: “Enough about me—what about you? What’s your family like?
1-3. Tell the truth, even when it’s hard.
Sagittarius are honest to a fault, and if you break his trust, he might not be able to see past it. This fire sign craves authenticity in all of their relationships, so show him that you’re someone he can trust to tell it like it is—because he’ll love you for it. Sag men will be especially touched if you’re able to keep it real when it would be way easier to water down the truth.
Share your real opinions. If he asks you whether you believe aliens are real, he wants your genuine take (and he’ll be able to tell if you haven't given it!).
If you mess up, fess up. Even if you made a big mistake, you’ll earn points back with Sagittarius if you’re direct and apologetic.
Don’t lie to fit in. He wants someone real; if your opinions change in big groups, that’ll be a red flag in his book.
1-4. Keep things fun, light, and sunny.
Sagittarius, maybe more than any other sign, loves to find the silver lining. In his mind, life is short—so why spend time moping around? If he likes you, he’ll want you two to get to truly relish each other’s company. So that means he’ll want your dates to be filled with jokes, dancing, and big smiles.
Make him laugh. Why not get a little silly? If you show off your best impression, he’ll be obsessed with your goofy side.
Actively seek out fun. Ice cream for breakfast, dancing to street musicians, and playing dress up at thrift stores—these are all Sag favorites.
Enjoy his positivity. Sag is great, because he’ll make you feel lighter too. If he can tell that you appreciate that in him, he’ll love it.
1-5. Make him feel challenged.
This sign is energetic, dynamic, and maybe a little competitive. If you show him that you’re someone who can inspire him to think, grow, and improve, he’ll be thrilled. Start a friendly debate when you can, or look for ways that you can challenge him to reach for the stars in his own life.
If he shares an opinion, politely disagree: “I actually think that “Concorde” is the best song on the album, it’s more complex.”
When you two are out for a walk, why not challenge him to a race home? He’ll love all of the excitement you're able to create.
Force him to think big. Say he says he dreams of leaving his hometown: “You could go anywhere! Why not make it your goal to travel the world?”
1-6. Show him that you’re a traveler at heart.
This fire sign is famous for their nomadic spirit. He wants to see everything, and if he knows you want that too, it’ll make you that much more attractive to him. Show him that not only are you willing to travel, but you actually find it as meaningful and fulfilling as he does.
Suggest a spontaneous roadtrip. If you surprise him with logistics, snacks, and a great playlist, it’ll completely blow his mind.
Ask all about his past travels: “Wow, Israel. I can’t imagine how amazing that would be. What was your favorite part?"
Talk to him about your plans. “Right now, my top dream vacations are Tanzania, Argentina, Malta, New Zealand, and Japan.”
1-7. Turn up the flirtatious charm
Sagittarius guys are known for being one of the flirtiest guys in the zodiac. He’ll love batting his eyes and sweetly teasing you every now and again. Return that same energy, and you’ll make him want to chase you. If you can, try touching him in a playful way or giving him super solid, intriguing eye contact.
Send him cute, flirty texts: “I just saw your doppelganger at the mall…it got my hopes up, thought I might get to see you 😉”
If you notice an eyelash on his face, offer to get it for him.
Or, try being super straightforward about your crush on him: “Well, we all know I’m nursing a massive crush on you. My cards are on the table!”
1-8. Show him that you’re independent.
More than just about any other sign, Sag men are afraid of codependent relationships. In love, he wants to date someone who has a strong sense of self, with their own hobbies and passions. For this reason, he’s most compatible with super self-reliant people. Tell him about the things you love to do alone, and do your best not to pressure him to hang out when he's busy. You’ll have him wrapped around your finger in no time!.
What’s your passion? Maybe you’re an artist, a fitness enthusiast, or a gamer. Make sure to mention your hobby, along with your investment in it: “I feel like I have to spend a few hours at the studio every week or I’ll go nuts.”
If he needs time alone, try to respect that: “I never want your passions to fall by the wayside. You should always get to do what you love!”
2. Winning Him with Your Looks
2-1. Wear outfits that suit your specific tastes—not the latest trends.
Sagittarius likes authentic, free thinkers. So if he gets the sense that you wear whatever the fashion mags suggest, he might not be into that. He’d much rather you develop a distinct, personal style and see you stick to it.
Our advice? Don’t overthink it. If you genuinely like your top and you feel amazing in your jeans, then that means you’re already dressing exactly how he’d love for you to.
2-2. Do your best to smell great.
To appeal to Sagittarius’ specific tastes, try out scents with hints of citrus and orange blossom. Pheromones actually play a huge role in attraction (meaning, subtle hints in your personal smell attract guys without them even realizing it!). So regular showers are a great call, too.
2-3. Play up your hips and your thighs.
Sagittarius’ favorite body parts are the hips, thighs, and upper legs. So what does this mean for you? If you’re looking to catch his eye, this is a great part of your look to focus on. Try out skirts and shorts that show off your amazing legs, or wear dresses that hug your hips tight.
2-4. Draw his eyes to your amazing smile.
Sagittarius wants someone super sunny and optimistic, and what's the best way to show off your sweet side? Your smile! Play up your lips and teeth, and your crush is definitely going to notice. You might wear a bright, bold lipstick or try whitening your teeth over time.
Can't be bothered with makeup and teeth whitening? That's cool! He really just wants to feel like you're a warm person who loves his company. Simply showing him your big, bright smile on the regular will send the same message, too.
2-5. Wear outfits that make you feel ultra confident.
At the end of the day, all guys (but Sagittarius men especially) love to see you feeling great. Confidence is super attractive, so if you’re wearing something that makes you feel amazing, he’ll be head over heels. Pull out your favorite top or show off your dazzling heels—whatever makes you feel fabulous!
2-6. Wear bright purple clothes, accessories, and makeup.
Though every Sag is different, this sign's signature hue is a bright, intoxicating purple. Some astrologers believe that people's eyes are drawn to their sign's color, so following that logic, a purple fit should give you an extra edge when attracting this fire sign. So, pull out your favorite violet garment, and wear it proudly!
You could dress in neutral colors, then throw in one bright, lilac piece as an accent.
If your eyes are brown or hazel, try a purple eye shadow (because this hue complements your piercing gaze!).
3. Understanding Sagittarius Traits
3-1. He’ll be fun-loving and energetic.
With Sagittarius, expect an enthusiastic, silly lover of life. He’s always searching for a good time, and most days, he finds it with ease—whether it’s a pickup basketball game with strangers, a spontaneous dance off, or an unplanned trip to a theme park, fun tops Sagittarius’ list of priorities.
Sag’s gas tank never seems to turn off. If you’re getting close with this fire sign, you might need to up your daily caffeine intake. Though his enthusiasm is totally infectious, some days, you might find him hard to keep up with.
3-2. He’s charming.
Go into any relationship with a Sag knowing that his winning smile, hilarious banter, and quick wit make him irresistible to basically everyone. He’s also a total social butterfly, so when he arrives at the party, everyone flocks to him in seconds. Sagittarius is a true Mr. Congeniality, and this trait can make him insanely fun to be around.
Sagittarius also definitely has a bit of naturally flirty personality, so if you’re a jealous person, you might have a hard time dealing with envy while others fawn over him (especially if it seems like he’s egging it on).
3-3. He’s philosophical.
Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, which means that he naturally sees the big picture. He’s probably extremely thoughtful—this trait inspires him to think about the world at large, morality, human nature, and other huge topics. So when you’re getting to know Sag, expect challenging debates, discussions, and more!
He can’t stand it when someone feels “fake.” He craves authenticity, so he’ll hate feeling like the person across the table is putting on airs. But the truth is, being 100% real 24/7 can be hard, so this sometimes, his constant desire for having meaningful conversations can be challenging.
3-4. He’s got a nomadic spirit.
A traveler at heart, Sagittarius is always on the move. He’s the kind of person who needs new horizons, and he hates to feel tied down. If you’re looking to understand your resident Sagittarius, know that new experiences are a top priority for him—which means that traveling is his passion (and sometimes, sticking with the same routine stresses him out).
His restlessness translates to relationships, too. Sag craves freedom, and for some of these fire signs, it takes a lot to settle down. This can make romance with Sagittarius feel tricky.
3-5. He's optimistic.
Sagittarius is all about the glass half full, all the time. This sign just believes that the world is better when you try to see the bright side. This trait makes him super reassuring and exciting to be around, because he’ll naturally lift your spirits with his kindness and bright smile.
Sagittarius might try to avoid heavy, emotional conversations. He’s so committed to keeping things light and sunny, sometimes this might translate to avoidance of other important topics (which, no surprise, might frustrate partners!).
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Why not make it your goal to travel the world?”\\n1-6. Show him that you’re a traveler at heart.\\nThis fire sign is famous for their nomadic spirit. He wants to see everything, and if he knows you want that too, it’ll make you that much more attractive to him. Show him that not only are you willing to travel, but you actually find it as meaningful and fulfilling as he does.\\nSuggest a spontaneous roadtrip. If you surprise him with logistics, snacks, and a great playlist, it’ll completely blow his mind.\\nAsk all about his past travels: “Wow, Israel. I can’t imagine how amazing that would be. What was your favorite part?\\\"\\nTalk to him about your plans. “Right now, my top dream vacations are Tanzania, Argentina, Malta, New Zealand, and Japan.”\\n1-7. Turn up the flirtatious charm\\nSagittarius guys are known for being one of the flirtiest guys in the zodiac. He’ll love batting his eyes and sweetly teasing you every now and again. Return that same energy, and you’ll make him want to chase you. If you can, try touching him in a playful way or giving him super solid, intriguing eye contact.\\n\\nSend him cute, flirty texts: “I just saw your doppelganger at the mall…it got my hopes up, thought I might get to see you 😉”\\nIf you notice an eyelash on his face, offer to get it for him.\\nOr, try being super straightforward about your crush on him: “Well, we all know I’m nursing a massive crush on you. My cards are on the table!”\\n1-8. Show him that you’re independent.\\nMore than just about any other sign, Sag men are afraid of codependent relationships. In love, he wants to date someone who has a strong sense of self, with their own hobbies and passions. For this reason, he’s most compatible with super self-reliant people. Tell him about the things you love to do alone, and do your best not to pressure him to hang out when he's busy. You’ll have him wrapped around your finger in no time!.\\nWhat’s your passion? Maybe you’re an artist, a fitness enthusiast, or a gamer. Make sure to mention your hobby, along with your investment in it: “I feel like I have to spend a few hours at the studio every week or I’ll go nuts.”\\nIf he needs time alone, try to respect that: “I never want your passions to fall by the wayside. You should always get to do what you love!”\\n2. Winning Him with Your Looks\\n2-1. Wear outfits that suit your specific tastes—not the latest trends.\\nSagittarius likes authentic, free thinkers. So if he gets the sense that you wear whatever the fashion mags suggest, he might not be into that. He’d much rather you develop a distinct, personal style and see you stick to it.\\nOur advice? Don’t overthink it. If you genuinely like your top and you feel amazing in your jeans, then that means you’re already dressing exactly how he’d love for you to.\\n2-2. Do your best to smell great.\\nTo appeal to Sagittarius’ specific tastes, try out scents with hints of citrus and orange blossom. Pheromones actually play a huge role in attraction (meaning, subtle hints in your personal smell attract guys without them even realizing it!). So regular showers are a great call, too.\\n2-3. Play up your hips and your thighs.\\nSagittarius’ favorite body parts are the hips, thighs, and upper legs. So what does this mean for you? If you’re looking to catch his eye, this is a great part of your look to focus on. Try out skirts and shorts that show off your amazing legs, or wear dresses that hug your hips tight.\\n2-4. Draw his eyes to your amazing smile.\\nSagittarius wants someone super sunny and optimistic, and what's the best way to show off your sweet side? Your smile! Play up your lips and teeth, and your crush is definitely going to notice. You might wear a bright, bold lipstick or try whitening your teeth over time.\\nCan't be bothered with makeup and teeth whitening? That's cool! He really just wants to feel like you're a warm person who loves his company. Simply showing him your big, bright smile on the regular will send the same message, too.\\n2-5. Wear outfits that make you feel ultra confident.\\nAt the end of the day, all guys (but Sagittarius men especially) love to see you feeling great. Confidence is super attractive, so if you’re wearing something that makes you feel amazing, he’ll be head over heels. Pull out your favorite top or show off your dazzling heels—whatever makes you feel fabulous!\\n2-6. Wear bright purple clothes, accessories, and makeup.\\nThough every Sag is different, this sign's signature hue is a bright, intoxicating purple. Some astrologers believe that people's eyes are drawn to their sign's color, so following that logic, a purple fit should give you an extra edge when attracting this fire sign. So, pull out your favorite violet garment, and wear it proudly!\\nYou could dress in neutral colors, then throw in one bright, lilac piece as an accent.\\nIf your eyes are brown or hazel, try a purple eye shadow (because this hue complements your piercing gaze!).\\n3. Understanding Sagittarius Traits\\n3-1. He’ll be fun-loving and energetic.\\nWith Sagittarius, expect an enthusiastic, silly lover of life. He’s always searching for a good time, and most days, he finds it with ease—whether it’s a pickup basketball game with strangers, a spontaneous dance off, or an unplanned trip to a theme park, fun tops Sagittarius’ list of priorities.\\n Sag’s gas tank never seems to turn off. If you’re getting close with this fire sign, you might need to up your daily caffeine intake. Though his enthusiasm is totally infectious, some days, you might find him hard to keep up with.\\n3-2. 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So that means he’ll want your dates to be filled with jokes, dancing, and big smiles.\\nMake him laugh. Why not get a little silly? If you show off your best impression, he’ll be obsessed with your goofy side.\\nActively seek out fun. Ice cream for breakfast, dancing to street musicians, and playing dress up at thrift stores—these are all Sag favorites.\\nEnjoy his positivity. Sag is great, because he’ll make you feel lighter too. If he can tell that you appreciate that in him, he’ll love it.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Make him feel challenged.\", \"描述\": \"This sign is energetic, dynamic, and maybe a little competitive. If you show him that you’re someone who can inspire him to think, grow, and improve, he’ll be thrilled. 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2,802 | How to Attract a Sagittarius Man As an Aries Woman | 1. Play hard-to-get.
He loves the excitement of chasing you.
Be just a little unavailable at first to make your Sagittarius work for your attention. You don't have to ignore him; just hint that you're busy with friends, work, or hobbies so that he knows your time is valuable. A Sagittarius guy will pursue you eagerly if he feels like it's a challenge!
Be open with him but hold back information every so often. Say, "Hmm, maybe I'll tell you on our next date!" in response to a question.
Over text, you could sign off by writing, "Gotta go! I'm meeting some friends for a drink. I'll be free later this week, so be sure to text me, okay? 😉"
2. Have open-minded conversations.
This sign loves to talk about anything and everything.
As an Aries, you've got an intellectual spark that will excite your Sagittarius guy. Bring up interesting subjects, including philosophy, religion, and politics, and be open-minded. Sagittarius is a mutable sign, meaning he doesn't like to be rigid in his thinking: he wants to explore as many perspectives as possible.
Send him a recent story in the news. "Have you read this article yet? Let me know what you think. I always love hearing your perspective!"
Speak your mind freely with Sagittarius! You're so bright as an Aries that you get bored easily, but lively Sagittarius is one of the few signs who can keep up with you.
3. Talk about travel.
A Sagittarius wants to be worldly and dreams of seeing new horizons.
Ask him about his travel plans or any places he's been. Bring up the fun vacations you've been on, or talk about the places you'd like to visit in the future. Sagittarius is attracted to someone who shares his desire to go out and see the world!
For a good icebreaker question, you could ask, "If money weren't an issue and you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go, what would you do, and why?"
Another great question is, "What was the best vacation you've been on, and why was it so much fun?"
4. Flirt playfully and tease him.
Flirting is a fun game for bold Sagittarius.
Your direct and naturally flirtatious attitude as an Aries makes you a great partner for Sagittarius, so capture his interest with witty and suggestive comments. Flirt enthusiastically, offer him compliments and don't be afraid to get a little silly. Sagittarius guys love to laugh!
"You look amazing in that shirt! Of course, you look great every day."
"What are you thinking about right now—and why is it me? 😉"
Since he's so playful, suggest a game like 'Truth or Dare.' Then on a truth, say, "What was your first thought when you met me?" or "Why are you so cute?"
Make direct eye contact with him and hold his gaze while smiling slightly, giving him a "come hither" look.
5. Be active together.
Sagittarius men love outdoor activities and sports.
Luckily, you probably have this in common with him as an Aries lady. Invite him to do a physical activity that you both enjoy, such as jogging, hiking, or going for bike rides. Ask him about his favorite sport and try it out with him. You can bond over your love of physical fitness and use it as a way to spend more time together.
You could say, "Wanna join me on my morning run tomorrow? There's a spot on the hill with the most gorgeous sunrise!"
"Do you enjoy rock climbing? I've been dying to try out the new indoor climbing place that opened up nearby."
6. Go on spontaneous adventures.
Indulge his need to explore and try new things.
Sagittarius prefers to live in the moment, whether he's dating or single. Be his partner in crime and go along with any fun adventures that he proposes—and make your own spur-of-the-moment suggestions too. Sagittarius will take any excuse to get out of the house.
You could say, "Let's go on an adventure together. Want to try a new hike this weekend?"
Invite him out to a social event. "There's a party at the local bar tonight, and I need to cut loose! Wanna be my plus one?"
Plan a day of adventure where you two go together and visit places in your area that you've never seen before.
7. Assert your independence.
A shared love of autonomy is attractive to free-spirited Sagittarius.
That's one of the reasons you're a great match: Aries ladies also have a deep need to maintain their independence regardless of relationship status. Hang out with your friends and take time to focus on your solo hobbies. Show your Sagittarius that independence is just as important to you as it is to him.
You could also invite your Sagittarius to join group hangouts with your friends. Sagittarius guys love meeting new people—and neither of you will feel stifled because you're part of a larger gathering.
8. Flaunt your confidence.
Sagittarius are attracted to women who share their self-assuredness.
Tell him about your goals and accomplishments to give yourself a confidence boost, and don't be afraid to make the first move in asking him out. Your Sagittarius will find any display of confidence and bravery irresistible.
You could say, "I've been working really hard for a promotion at work—and this month, I'm going for it!"
When flirting, you could say, "This is me asking you out. Want to get coffee on Saturday?"
Aries signs tend to have a good deal of confidence, so you should have no problem standing out from the crowd and impressing your Sagittarius.
9. Stay upbeat.
He's naturally optimistic and likes to be around similar energy.
Look on the bright side, smile, laugh, and keep the conversation lighthearted—at least for the beginning of the relationship. Sagittarius doesn't want to deal with heavy or depressing things while you're still getting to know each other; he wants to know you'll be a source of positivity in his life.
Support his endeavors. "Good luck at work today! You're going to kill that presentation!"
You could send him a happy 'thinking of you' text. "Hey, handsome! Just letting you know you've been on my mind. 😘"
10. Be honest.
This sign shares Aries' preference for total honesty and directness.
Tell your Sagittarius how you feel about him, especially if he asks. Be truthful about anything else; honesty is the key to communication in a Sagittarius-Aries relationship. You'll be comfortable confiding in each other because you both know you're trustworthy.
It's easy for Sagittarius guys to trust but challenging to renew that trust once broken. Because Aries is just as keen on truthfulness, this likely won't be a problem for you.
11. Give him space.
Sagittarius guys love freedom and don't want a controlling partner.
Accept his need to go off and do his own thing sometimes and avoid asking him for commitment before he offers it. Your fiery Aries temper can lead to jealousy, especially since Sagittarius guys are hopeless flirts. Nonetheless, if you give him the space he needs, he'll be more comfortable committing to you.
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Sagittarius is a mutable sign, meaning he doesn't like to be rigid in his thinking: he wants to explore as many perspectives as possible.\\nSend him a recent story in the news. \\\"Have you read this article yet? Let me know what you think. I always love hearing your perspective!\\\"\\nSpeak your mind freely with Sagittarius! You're so bright as an Aries that you get bored easily, but lively Sagittarius is one of the few signs who can keep up with you.\\n3. Talk about travel.\\nA Sagittarius wants to be worldly and dreams of seeing new horizons.\\nAsk him about his travel plans or any places he's been. Bring up the fun vacations you've been on, or talk about the places you'd like to visit in the future. Sagittarius is attracted to someone who shares his desire to go out and see the world!\\nFor a good icebreaker question, you could ask, \\\"If money weren't an issue and you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go, what would you do, and why?\\\"\\nAnother great question is, \\\"What was the best vacation you've been on, and why was it so much fun?\\\"\\n4. Flirt playfully and tease him.\\nFlirting is a fun game for bold Sagittarius.\\nYour direct and naturally flirtatious attitude as an Aries makes you a great partner for Sagittarius, so capture his interest with witty and suggestive comments. Flirt enthusiastically, offer him compliments and don't be afraid to get a little silly. Sagittarius guys love to laugh!\\n\\\"You look amazing in that shirt! Of course, you look great every day.\\\"\\n\\\"What are you thinking about right now—and why is it me? 😉\\\"\\nSince he's so playful, suggest a game like 'Truth or Dare.' Then on a truth, say, \\\"What was your first thought when you met me?\\\" or \\\"Why are you so cute?\\\"\\nMake direct eye contact with him and hold his gaze while smiling slightly, giving him a \\\"come hither\\\" look.\\n5. Be active together.\\nSagittarius men love outdoor activities and sports.\\nLuckily, you probably have this in common with him as an Aries lady. Invite him to do a physical activity that you both enjoy, such as jogging, hiking, or going for bike rides. Ask him about his favorite sport and try it out with him. You can bond over your love of physical fitness and use it as a way to spend more time together.\\nYou could say, \\\"Wanna join me on my morning run tomorrow? There's a spot on the hill with the most gorgeous sunrise!\\\"\\n\\\"Do you enjoy rock climbing? I've been dying to try out the new indoor climbing place that opened up nearby.\\\"\\n6. Go on spontaneous adventures.\\nIndulge his need to explore and try new things.\\nSagittarius prefers to live in the moment, whether he's dating or single. Be his partner in crime and go along with any fun adventures that he proposes—and make your own spur-of-the-moment suggestions too. Sagittarius will take any excuse to get out of the house.\\nYou could say, \\\"Let's go on an adventure together. Want to try a new hike this weekend?\\\"\\nInvite him out to a social event. \\\"There's a party at the local bar tonight, and I need to cut loose! Wanna be my plus one?\\\"\\nPlan a day of adventure where you two go together and visit places in your area that you've never seen before.\\n7. Assert your independence.\\nA shared love of autonomy is attractive to free-spirited Sagittarius.\\nThat's one of the reasons you're a great match: Aries ladies also have a deep need to maintain their independence regardless of relationship status. Hang out with your friends and take time to focus on your solo hobbies. Show your Sagittarius that independence is just as important to you as it is to him.\\nYou could also invite your Sagittarius to join group hangouts with your friends. Sagittarius guys love meeting new people—and neither of you will feel stifled because you're part of a larger gathering.\\n8. Flaunt your confidence.\\nSagittarius are attracted to women who share their self-assuredness.\\nTell him about your goals and accomplishments to give yourself a confidence boost, and don't be afraid to make the first move in asking him out. Your Sagittarius will find any display of confidence and bravery irresistible.\\nYou could say, \\\"I've been working really hard for a promotion at work—and this month, I'm going for it!\\\"\\nWhen flirting, you could say, \\\"This is me asking you out. Want to get coffee on Saturday?\\\"\\nAries signs tend to have a good deal of confidence, so you should have no problem standing out from the crowd and impressing your Sagittarius.\\n9. Stay upbeat.\\nHe's naturally optimistic and likes to be around similar energy.\\nLook on the bright side, smile, laugh, and keep the conversation lighthearted—at least for the beginning of the relationship. Sagittarius doesn't want to deal with heavy or depressing things while you're still getting to know each other; he wants to know you'll be a source of positivity in his life.\\nSupport his endeavors. \\\"Good luck at work today! You're going to kill that presentation!\\\"\\nYou could send him a happy 'thinking of you' text. \\\"Hey, handsome! Just letting you know you've been on my mind. 😘\\\"\\n10. Be honest.\\nThis sign shares Aries' preference for total honesty and directness.\\nTell your Sagittarius how you feel about him, especially if he asks. 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A Sagittarius guy will pursue you eagerly if he feels like it's a challenge!\\nBe open with him but hold back information every so often. Say, \\\"Hmm, maybe I'll tell you on our next date!\\\" in response to a question.\\nOver text, you could sign off by writing, \\\"Gotta go! I'm meeting some friends for a drink. I'll be free later this week, so be sure to text me, okay? 😉\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Have open-minded conversations.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This sign loves to talk about anything and everything.\", \"描述\": \"As an Aries, you've got an intellectual spark that will excite your Sagittarius guy. Bring up interesting subjects, including philosophy, religion, and politics, and be open-minded. Sagittarius is a mutable sign, meaning he doesn't like to be rigid in his thinking: he wants to explore as many perspectives as possible.\\nSend him a recent story in the news. \\\"Have you read this article yet? Let me know what you think. I always love hearing your perspective!\\\"\\nSpeak your mind freely with Sagittarius! You're so bright as an Aries that you get bored easily, but lively Sagittarius is one of the few signs who can keep up with you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Talk about travel.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Sagittarius wants to be worldly and dreams of seeing new horizons.\", \"描述\": \"Ask him about his travel plans or any places he's been. Bring up the fun vacations you've been on, or talk about the places you'd like to visit in the future. 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Of course, you look great every day.\\\"\\n\\\"What are you thinking about right now—and why is it me? 😉\\\"\\nSince he's so playful, suggest a game like 'Truth or Dare.' Then on a truth, say, \\\"What was your first thought when you met me?\\\" or \\\"Why are you so cute?\\\"\\nMake direct eye contact with him and hold his gaze while smiling slightly, giving him a \\\"come hither\\\" look.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be active together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Sagittarius men love outdoor activities and sports.\", \"描述\": \"Luckily, you probably have this in common with him as an Aries lady. Invite him to do a physical activity that you both enjoy, such as jogging, hiking, or going for bike rides. Ask him about his favorite sport and try it out with him. You can bond over your love of physical fitness and use it as a way to spend more time together.\\nYou could say, \\\"Wanna join me on my morning run tomorrow? 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2,803 | How to Attract a Sagittarius Man Sexually | 1. Charm him with witty banter.
Humor and intelligence are huge turn-ons for a Sag man.
He enjoys fun, lighthearted conversation and loves to laugh. Hook him with a few good jokes and a friendly demeanor. If he likes talking to you and you can match his jokey intellect, you’ll have no problem moving things to the bedroom.
2. Be a little mysterious.
A Sag guy loves to solve puzzles thanks to his ruling planet, Jupiter.
Whether you’re telling him about your personal life or your wildest sexual fantasy, leave a few things to his imagination. He’ll love picking up the breadcrumbs and piecing together what you’re all about. Make sure to eventually let him in, though—he’ll be majorly attracted to you if he feels like he’s “solved” you. Try playful comments like:
“Maybe I’ll tell you about my wildest fantasy…later.”
“I’m always well-behaved when I go out! Or am I?”
“Oh, I’ve had my share of crazy nights. That’s a story for another time, though.”
3. Tell him you’re in the mood.
His fire sign nature wants to get busy now.
Send him a text or call him over as soon as you’re ready to get it on. If he’s free, you’ll be treated to some fun instant gratification. If he’s occupied, you’ll both be in for a treat—his intense desire will build up until he can release it in a fiery burst of passion later.
The longer you can playfully hold him off, the more worked up he’ll get. This could be a fun game since a Sagittarius man loves to chase and pursue.
If you’re texting him, don’t hesitate to send some sexy snapshots or nudes (if you’re comfortable). There’s a good chance he’ll ask to see some anyway.
4. Open up about your sexual fantasies.
Your Sagittarius man won’t hesitate to fulfill your deepest desires.
In fact, he’ll make it his mission to satisfy you better than anyone has before. Tell him every detail about what you want him to do—the dirtier, the better. He’s an ambitious guy and once you give him a goal to hit, there’s nothing he won’t do to accomplish it.
A Sag man doesn’t respond well to gushing or flowery language. Get right to the dirty details (he’ll appreciate the down-to-business attitude).
5. Be bold and tell him what you like.
A blunt Sag man needs someone to match him.
A confident sexual partner who knows exactly what they like and is down to try new things is very attractive to him. He’s not usually one for guessing games in bed either, so be clear about what you want—the payoff will be worth putting yourself out there! State things simply, like:
“I like it when you touch me there.”
“Do that again!”
“Put your hands around my waist while you do that.”
6. Model something sexy for him.
A Sagittarius guy goes wild for a sexy outfit.
Ask him if you can model the new underwear or sexy lingerie you just bought and you’ll have 100% of his attention (and his jaw open all the way to the floor). If you really want to play with him, text him about how you can’t wait to show off for him when he gets home. He’ll burst through the door like a wrecking ball to see what you’ve got.
Try a lap dance or a strip tease to really get him excited. Wear something skimpy and don’t take too long to take it off—a Sag man isn’t super patient when he’s in the mood.
Ask him to pick out new lingerie for you to wear. The question “What do you want to see me wear?” is an instant attention-grabber (and huge turn on).
7. Graze or massage his thighs.
The hips and thighs are erogenous zones for a Sagittarius man.
Run your hand along his thighs (inner or outer) to instantly grab his sexual attention. Try placing his hand on your hip or thigh too, since these are parts of you he’ll want to explore. He’ll waste no time whisking you away to the bed after this, so make sure you’re prepared for a fast turn around!
Emphasize your own thighs and hips with sexy stockings, garters, or fishnets. He’ll love the look (and the chance to take them off later).
Play with positions in bed where he can stroke or kiss your thighs and vice versa.
A daring Sag man is attracted to any kind of public touching. Take a risk and squeeze his butt or inconspicuously graze the front of his pants while you’re out
8. Tell him you want him to dominate you.
A Sagittarius man is naturally dominant in the bedroom.
He’s super attracted to anyone that likes a submissive role and is probably eager to try any bondage or S&M ideas you might have. Tell him not to hold back—he’ll jump at the invitation to let loose and explore a new dimension of your sexual relationship.
Reassure him during sex that he’s doing what you like. He’ll be highly attracted to you when he knows he can give you what you need.
If you’re exploring domination or BDSM for the first time, have a conversation beforehand about each other’s limits and boundaries so the experience is enjoyable and safe for both of you.
9. Be spontaneous and try new things.
Your Sag man needs to explore new things in and out of bed.
Show him you can be adventurous in everyday life with impromptu dates, exciting outdoor activities, or last-minute trips out of town. In bed, surprise him with new toys, positions, or sexy outfits. He seeks novelty and wants to try everything at least once!
New locations are a big attraction to him. Pull him aside at a party, pull over on the side of the highway, or drag him to a secluded outdoor space. He’ll love it.
Routine and monotony are some of his biggest turn offs. The fresher things are, the more attracted to you he’ll be.
He’ll suggest new things to you too and might feel put off or disappointed if his ideas are turned down. Communicate to find a good balance between his wants and your boundaries.
10. Leave any heavy emotions at the door.
A Sag man mostly views sex as physical and athletic.
His dream partner is someone who brings a fun, excited energy to the bedroom and doesn’t take things too seriously. Keep things light and don’t be afraid to laugh or crack a joke mid-sex. It’ll make him feel more comfortable and attracted to you.
A Sag man has a fear of commitment, and too much emotional exposure right off the bat can push him away.
11. Give your Sag man plenty of space.
Sagittarius men need freedom in and out of the bedroom.
Let your man have plenty of alone time to explore his interests, socialize, or travel. His wanderlust and sense of adventure are his most defining traits, and he’ll be attracted to anyone that understands this about him.
If a Sag man thinks you’re controlling or you want too much from him, he’ll take off. If he chooses to stick around and engage in intimacy, that’s a huge sign of interest!
Show him that you need space too by not being instantly available when he asks. He’ll be attracted to someone who has their own life to live (and will be turned on by the chase).
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Charm him with witty banter.\\nHumor and intelligence are huge turn-ons for a Sag man.\\nHe enjoys fun, lighthearted conversation and loves to laugh. Hook him with a few good jokes and a friendly demeanor. If he likes talking to you and you can match his jokey intellect, you’ll have no problem moving things to the bedroom.\\n2. Be a little mysterious.\\nA Sag guy loves to solve puzzles thanks to his ruling planet, Jupiter.\\nWhether you’re telling him about your personal life or your wildest sexual fantasy, leave a few things to his imagination. He’ll love picking up the breadcrumbs and piecing together what you’re all about. Make sure to eventually let him in, though—he’ll be majorly attracted to you if he feels like he’s “solved” you. Try playful comments like:\\n“Maybe I’ll tell you about my wildest fantasy…later.”\\n“I’m always well-behaved when I go out! Or am I?”\\n“Oh, I’ve had my share of crazy nights. That’s a story for another time, though.”\\n3. Tell him you’re in the mood.\\nHis fire sign nature wants to get busy now.\\nSend him a text or call him over as soon as you’re ready to get it on. If he’s free, you’ll be treated to some fun instant gratification. If he’s occupied, you’ll both be in for a treat—his intense desire will build up until he can release it in a fiery burst of passion later.\\nThe longer you can playfully hold him off, the more worked up he’ll get. This could be a fun game since a Sagittarius man loves to chase and pursue.\\nIf you’re texting him, don’t hesitate to send some sexy snapshots or nudes (if you’re comfortable). There’s a good chance he’ll ask to see some anyway.\\n4. Open up about your sexual fantasies.\\nYour Sagittarius man won’t hesitate to fulfill your deepest desires.\\nIn fact, he’ll make it his mission to satisfy you better than anyone has before. Tell him every detail about what you want him to do—the dirtier, the better. He’s an ambitious guy and once you give him a goal to hit, there’s nothing he won’t do to accomplish it.\\nA Sag man doesn’t respond well to gushing or flowery language. Get right to the dirty details (he’ll appreciate the down-to-business attitude).\\n5. Be bold and tell him what you like.\\nA blunt Sag man needs someone to match him.\\nA confident sexual partner who knows exactly what they like and is down to try new things is very attractive to him. He’s not usually one for guessing games in bed either, so be clear about what you want—the payoff will be worth putting yourself out there! State things simply, like:\\n“I like it when you touch me there.”\\n“Do that again!”\\n“Put your hands around my waist while you do that.”\\n6. Model something sexy for him.\\nA Sagittarius guy goes wild for a sexy outfit.\\nAsk him if you can model the new underwear or sexy lingerie you just bought and you’ll have 100% of his attention (and his jaw open all the way to the floor). If you really want to play with him, text him about how you can’t wait to show off for him when he gets home. He’ll burst through the door like a wrecking ball to see what you’ve got.\\nTry a lap dance or a strip tease to really get him excited. Wear something skimpy and don’t take too long to take it off—a Sag man isn’t super patient when he’s in the mood.\\nAsk him to pick out new lingerie for you to wear. The question “What do you want to see me wear?” is an instant attention-grabber (and huge turn on).\\n7. Graze or massage his thighs.\\nThe hips and thighs are erogenous zones for a Sagittarius man.\\nRun your hand along his thighs (inner or outer) to instantly grab his sexual attention. Try placing his hand on your hip or thigh too, since these are parts of you he’ll want to explore. He’ll waste no time whisking you away to the bed after this, so make sure you’re prepared for a fast turn around!\\nEmphasize your own thighs and hips with sexy stockings, garters, or fishnets. He’ll love the look (and the chance to take them off later).\\nPlay with positions in bed where he can stroke or kiss your thighs and vice versa.\\nA daring Sag man is attracted to any kind of public touching. Take a risk and squeeze his butt or inconspicuously graze the front of his pants while you’re out\\n8. Tell him you want him to dominate you.\\nA Sagittarius man is naturally dominant in the bedroom.\\nHe’s super attracted to anyone that likes a submissive role and is probably eager to try any bondage or S&M ideas you might have. Tell him not to hold back—he’ll jump at the invitation to let loose and explore a new dimension of your sexual relationship.\\nReassure him during sex that he’s doing what you like. He’ll be highly attracted to you when he knows he can give you what you need.\\nIf you’re exploring domination or BDSM for the first time, have a conversation beforehand about each other’s limits and boundaries so the experience is enjoyable and safe for both of you.\\n9. Be spontaneous and try new things.\\nYour Sag man needs to explore new things in and out of bed.\\nShow him you can be adventurous in everyday life with impromptu dates, exciting outdoor activities, or last-minute trips out of town. In bed, surprise him with new toys, positions, or sexy outfits. He seeks novelty and wants to try everything at least once!\\nNew locations are a big attraction to him. Pull him aside at a party, pull over on the side of the highway, or drag him to a secluded outdoor space. He’ll love it.\\nRoutine and monotony are some of his biggest turn offs. The fresher things are, the more attracted to you he’ll be.\\nHe’ll suggest new things to you too and might feel put off or disappointed if his ideas are turned down. Communicate to find a good balance between his wants and your boundaries.\\n10. Leave any heavy emotions at the door.\\nA Sag man mostly views sex as physical and athletic.\\nHis dream partner is someone who brings a fun, excited energy to the bedroom and doesn’t take things too seriously. Keep things light and don’t be afraid to laugh or crack a joke mid-sex. It’ll make him feel more comfortable and attracted to you.\\nA Sag man has a fear of commitment, and too much emotional exposure right off the bat can push him away.\\n11. Give your Sag man plenty of space.\\nSagittarius men need freedom in and out of the bedroom.\\nLet your man have plenty of alone time to explore his interests, socialize, or travel. His wanderlust and sense of adventure are his most defining traits, and he’ll be attracted to anyone that understands this about him.\\nIf a Sag man thinks you’re controlling or you want too much from him, he’ll take off. If he chooses to stick around and engage in intimacy, that’s a huge sign of interest!\\nShow him that you need space too by not being instantly available when he asks. He’ll be attracted to someone who has their own life to live (and will be turned on by the chase).\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A Sagittarius man loves adventurous, fiery, athletic sex—no wonder you want to attract him! Getting the Archer of the zodiac to pick you as his target is pretty straightforward. When you appeal to his free spirit and urge to explore new things, there’s no way he can resist you. Read on for a comprehensive list of ways to sexually attract a Sagittarius man and keep him wanting more.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Charm him with witty banter.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Humor and intelligence are huge turn-ons for a Sag man.\", \"描述\": \"He enjoys fun, lighthearted conversation and loves to laugh. Hook him with a few good jokes and a friendly demeanor. If he likes talking to you and you can match his jokey intellect, you’ll have no problem moving things to the bedroom.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be a little mysterious.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Sag guy loves to solve puzzles thanks to his ruling planet, Jupiter.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you’re telling him about your personal life or your wildest sexual fantasy, leave a few things to his imagination. He’ll love picking up the breadcrumbs and piecing together what you’re all about. Make sure to eventually let him in, though—he’ll be majorly attracted to you if he feels like he’s “solved” you. Try playful comments like:\\n“Maybe I’ll tell you about my wildest fantasy…later.”\\n“I’m always well-behaved when I go out! Or am I?”\\n“Oh, I’ve had my share of crazy nights. That’s a story for another time, though.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Tell him you’re in the mood.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"His fire sign nature wants to get busy now.\", \"描述\": \"Send him a text or call him over as soon as you’re ready to get it on. If he’s free, you’ll be treated to some fun instant gratification. If he’s occupied, you’ll both be in for a treat—his intense desire will build up until he can release it in a fiery burst of passion later.\\nThe longer you can playfully hold him off, the more worked up he’ll get. This could be a fun game since a Sagittarius man loves to chase and pursue.\\nIf you’re texting him, don’t hesitate to send some sexy snapshots or nudes (if you’re comfortable). There’s a good chance he’ll ask to see some anyway.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Open up about your sexual fantasies.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your Sagittarius man won’t hesitate to fulfill your deepest desires.\", \"描述\": \"In fact, he’ll make it his mission to satisfy you better than anyone has before. Tell him every detail about what you want him to do—the dirtier, the better. He’s an ambitious guy and once you give him a goal to hit, there’s nothing he won’t do to accomplish it.\\nA Sag man doesn’t respond well to gushing or flowery language. Get right to the dirty details (he’ll appreciate the down-to-business attitude).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be bold and tell him what you like.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A blunt Sag man needs someone to match him.\", \"描述\": \"A confident sexual partner who knows exactly what they like and is down to try new things is very attractive to him. He’s not usually one for guessing games in bed either, so be clear about what you want—the payoff will be worth putting yourself out there! State things simply, like:\\n“I like it when you touch me there.”\\n“Do that again!”\\n“Put your hands around my waist while you do that.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Model something sexy for him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Sagittarius guy goes wild for a sexy outfit.\", \"描述\": \"Ask him if you can model the new underwear or sexy lingerie you just bought and you’ll have 100% of his attention (and his jaw open all the way to the floor). If you really want to play with him, text him about how you can’t wait to show off for him when he gets home. He’ll burst through the door like a wrecking ball to see what you’ve got.\\nTry a lap dance or a strip tease to really get him excited. Wear something skimpy and don’t take too long to take it off—a Sag man isn’t super patient when he’s in the mood.\\nAsk him to pick out new lingerie for you to wear. The question “What do you want to see me wear?” is an instant attention-grabber (and huge turn on).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Graze or massage his thighs.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The hips and thighs are erogenous zones for a Sagittarius man.\", \"描述\": \"Run your hand along his thighs (inner or outer) to instantly grab his sexual attention. Try placing his hand on your hip or thigh too, since these are parts of you he’ll want to explore. He’ll waste no time whisking you away to the bed after this, so make sure you’re prepared for a fast turn around!\\nEmphasize your own thighs and hips with sexy stockings, garters, or fishnets. He’ll love the look (and the chance to take them off later).\\nPlay with positions in bed where he can stroke or kiss your thighs and vice versa.\\nA daring Sag man is attracted to any kind of public touching. Take a risk and squeeze his butt or inconspicuously graze the front of his pants while you’re out\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Tell him you want him to dominate you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Sagittarius man is naturally dominant in the bedroom.\", \"描述\": \"He’s super attracted to anyone that likes a submissive role and is probably eager to try any bondage or S&M ideas you might have. Tell him not to hold back—he’ll jump at the invitation to let loose and explore a new dimension of your sexual relationship.\\nReassure him during sex that he’s doing what you like. 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2,804 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man As a Cancer Man | 1. Be open to trying new things.
Cancers and their reluctance to try new things can easily bore Scorpios.
Scorpios can be irritated when their ideas are rejected because they want things done their way. They would prefer to be with someone who is open-minded and adventurous. Scorpios also require a partner who will agree with their wild ideas rather than try to slow them down. Simply put, a scorpion does not want to be with someone who holds them back.
Trying new things with your Scorpion extends beyond skydiving or bungee jumping; do something daring, such as kayaking with whales, scuba diving, or exotic car driving to satisfy their appetite for new experiences.
2. Dress to impress, but don't stress too much about your appearance.
Obsessing about your appearance is a turnoff for many Scorpios.
Scorpio men are more interested in your personality and character than in what you choose to wear on the first date. It is still important to look good for yourself, but don't be concerned about impressing him.
A Scorpio will be more impressed by your confidence than by your physical appearance. Concentrate on getting to know him on a personal level.
As for dressing to impress, go for deep reds, such as burgundy, crimson, and maroon, as well as black, blue, and midnight--these are the colors that Scorpio prefers. Scorpios are said to be intense, just like their favorite colors.
3. Don't share too much too soon, but do share with him.
If you want to date a Scorpio, you shouldn't reveal everything about yourself all at once.
There are some things you should keep to yourself at the start of the relationship to keep him interested in you. If you keep some aspects of your life hidden from him, he will be even more interested in what you have to offer, so provide a little bit of mystery. Scorpio men will love you even more if you prove to be a fascinating person outside of him.
If you're one of those people who talk when they're nervous–and who isn't nervous on first dates--try to keep it under control. Scorpios lose respect for anyone who tells everything, especially if you reveal your secrets too soon.
4. Be truthful with your Scorpio.
Scorpios seek stable, long-term relationships.
They have the "all or nothing" attitude. When they want someone in their life, they take it very seriously. Don't send mixed signals to your guy and play mind games with him—they can get angry and lose interest. Scorpio men want to spend their lives with someone who is trustworthy and takes a relationship seriously.
Scorpio's jealousy can be overpowering at times. However, this is simply due to their strong desire to be in control. This can also be related to a Scorpio's possessiveness.
Scorpios will never forgive or forget a partner who cheats on them. Some people have go-with-the-flow personalities and can't hold their rage for long. However, as a Scorpio, they are likely to hold on to feelings of hurt and anger.
5. Build trust with him.
Being as truthful as possible is the best way to gain a Scorpio man's trust.
Being sincere and honest with a Scorpio man can make him see you favorably. Scorpions have exceptional intuition and can easily detect deception. Cancer and Scorpio have a high level of trust, but the reason is simple: both signs are intuitive and can detect dishonesty quickly.
Scorpios, despite their exceptional intuition, do not readily trust others. It will take time and effort to build trust with a Scorpio. However, the connection between the two signs is unbreakable once trust is established.
6. Let him chase you.
Allow him to do the chasing--if he loves you, he will want to pursue you.
Scorpio men enjoy both mystery and challenge. It's best if you don't come across as overly eager and instead let his interest in you develop naturally. They dislike being pursued because it may make them appear needy and desperate.
Make sure you have a life apart from him and don't obsess over getting his attention. Scorpio men appreciate it when you show that you are both busy and interested in them.
7. Give him genuine compliments.
Scorpio men adore compliments, especially when they come from the person they are dating.
You should compliment him on his personality as well as his appearance. Make sure to give him casual compliments throughout a date with a Scorpio man. For example, if he's wearing a new outfit or has a new haircut, make a point of complimenting him on those details. A Scorpio will appreciate not only the compliment, but also the fact that you've noticed things about him and are interested in him.
8. Allow him take to take the lead.
The Scorpio man enjoys wielding his sexual power.
Avoid coming on too quickly or too strongly. Allow space for his desire to grow, heightened by sensual looks and touches. Don't be a "slow hand" lover, and don't act rashly. Even though Scorpio is a water sign (feelings), they have a strong sense of realism. They can quickly identify boasters who lack real-world experience.
Scorpio men frequently have a strong sense of their own strengths and weaknesses. It may be beneficial to be candid about your own without giving into self-pity or arrogance.
9. Keep steady with your partner once you're in a relationship.
Scorpio is a possessive sign and won't want to share their partner once they are in a relationship.
This, however, is perfectly acceptable to a devoted Cancer. Cancers develop strong attachments to their partners. They'll never want to be alone. A Cancer Scorpio relationship is strong because neither of them wants to end it.
Scorpio is a fixed sign. Instead of one-night stands, they prefer what will be ongoing. The Scorpio only reveals his true vulnerability in a bond of trust.
Tips
Maintain a casual tone and allow him to share personal details on his own time.
Keep in mind that a person's zodiac sign is not a complete indicator of their compatibility with you.
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It is still important to look good for yourself, but don't be concerned about impressing him.\\nA Scorpio will be more impressed by your confidence than by your physical appearance. Concentrate on getting to know him on a personal level.\\nAs for dressing to impress, go for deep reds, such as burgundy, crimson, and maroon, as well as black, blue, and midnight--these are the colors that Scorpio prefers. Scorpios are said to be intense, just like their favorite colors.\\n3. Don't share too much too soon, but do share with him.\\nIf you want to date a Scorpio, you shouldn't reveal everything about yourself all at once.\\nThere are some things you should keep to yourself at the start of the relationship to keep him interested in you. If you keep some aspects of your life hidden from him, he will be even more interested in what you have to offer, so provide a little bit of mystery. Scorpio men will love you even more if you prove to be a fascinating person outside of him.\\nIf you're one of those people who talk when they're nervous–and who isn't nervous on first dates--try to keep it under control. Scorpios lose respect for anyone who tells everything, especially if you reveal your secrets too soon.\\n4. Be truthful with your Scorpio.\\nScorpios seek stable, long-term relationships.\\nThey have the \\\"all or nothing\\\" attitude. When they want someone in their life, they take it very seriously. Don't send mixed signals to your guy and play mind games with him—they can get angry and lose interest. Scorpio men want to spend their lives with someone who is trustworthy and takes a relationship seriously.\\nScorpio's jealousy can be overpowering at times. However, this is simply due to their strong desire to be in control. This can also be related to a Scorpio's possessiveness.\\nScorpios will never forgive or forget a partner who cheats on them. 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It's best if you don't come across as overly eager and instead let his interest in you develop naturally. They dislike being pursued because it may make them appear needy and desperate. \\nMake sure you have a life apart from him and don't obsess over getting his attention. Scorpio men appreciate it when you show that you are both busy and interested in them.\\n7. Give him genuine compliments.\\nScorpio men adore compliments, especially when they come from the person they are dating.\\nYou should compliment him on his personality as well as his appearance. Make sure to give him casual compliments throughout a date with a Scorpio man. For example, if he's wearing a new outfit or has a new haircut, make a point of complimenting him on those details. A Scorpio will appreciate not only the compliment, but also the fact that you've noticed things about him and are interested in him.\\n8. 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2,805 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Gemini Woman: 14 Tips | 1. Show off your sparkling intellect.
Scorpio is a highly intelligent sign that loves to learn.
This is good news for a Gemini gal who knows a little bit about everything! Sprinkle facts and opinions about any topic at all into your conversation with a Scorpio guy. He’ll be fascinated by the breadth of your knowledge and curious about how your brain works.
Cliché tricks like reading or journaling in public will catch a Scorpio’s eye. He’ll be dying to know what you’re working on.
Pique his curiosity by dropping a really niche stat or fun fact, like how there was a town in Alaska that had a cat as mayor for 20 years. He’ll have to find out how you knew that.
2. Have deep or philosophical conversations.
Scorpio men aren’t ones for small talk.
He’d rather jump right into an esoteric discussion about subculture or learn about your upbringing than chat about the weather. Speak confidently about your passions and any rebellious or profound thoughts you have. His deep nature finds this kind of talk super alluring.
A Scorpio guy definitely doesn’t fall for the “playing dumb” type. Let your brain shine and articulate your thoughts and feelings clearly.
Don’t be afraid to get a little vulnerable in these chats. A Scorpio guy wants to be your emotional protector, and he’ll find a chance to fill that role attractive.
Spark some philosophical talk with intriguing questions like “Does technology make us more unhappy?” or “What is consciousness?” (or just start with your opinion and watch how curious he gets about you).
3. Embrace your individuality.
Scorpios want to know what makes you special and different.
Putting on airs or pretending to be someone else to impress him will backfire immediately. This might be a struggle for a Gemini since they easily adapt their behavior based on who they’re around. Be your truest self around a Scorpio and whatever is special about you will rise to the surface.
Quirky accessories or decorations, hilarious personal stories, and candid observations or opinions are great ways to show a Scorpio man who you are.
Bond with your Scorpio guy over anything rebellious, niche, uncommon, or subcultural you enjoy. His nonconformist nature will love it.
If a Scorpio man is unsure of who you really are, he might perceive you as fake—a big no-no for this deep, sensitive sign.
4. Flirt with sex appeal.
Let’s be real—Scorpio men love sex.
A Gemini woman naturally has the flirty wit and humor to charm him, but it’s important to look the part too. A little mystery is intriguing to him, so wear a sleek, form-fitting outfit that shows just a little skin to turn on your Scorpio guy (bonus points if your outfit is black).
Whatever you wear, wear it with confidence! Sex appeal aside, a Scorpio guy loves a woman who’s sure of herself.
5. Pull him off to the side for alone time.
A Scorpio guy is a natural loner.
He’s drawn to your social butterfly energy but will hesitate to approach you in a big group setting. Ask him to come order a drink at the bar with you or step outside at a party so the two of you can get some 1-on-1 time away from the crowd. He’ll relish the chance to have you to himself for a moment.
Encourage him to approach you by sitting alone at a café or standing off to the side at a party for a minute. He’ll be more confident when there are less people around you.
A Scorpio guy wants all your attention and might get jealous or possessive because of your expansive social circles. Show him you can balance the two to put him at ease.
6. Ask questions to get to know him.
A Scorpio man finds curiosity attractive.
Lean into your inquisitive air sign nature and try to learn more about the bad boy of the zodiac. He knows that he’s deep and rarely understood, so an effort to get to know him will mean a lot. If you can find the beauty in his dark side, he’ll be yours.
Lay off the personal questions if you sense he’s getting paranoid or suspicious of you. He’s very private and might get sensitive if you pry too far.
A quick-witted Gemini is one of the few people that can keep up with a Scorpio’s turbulent emotions. Stay curious about his feelings so he feels secure and cared for.
Try gentle questions that won’t force him to totally open up, like “If you could live anywhere, where would you live?” or “Who’s your favorite author of all time?”
7. Reveal yourself to him slowly.
A Scorpio man likes the challenge of piecing someone together.
Geminis generally enjoy talking about themselves (a lot), so resist the urge to tell him your whole life story right away. Instead, give him a few puzzle pieces—a few interesting facts or stories about you—that’ll make him curious to know more about you.
Regardless of how much you tell him, make sure it’s true and not too exaggerated. He’ll be turned off by any hint of insincerity.
8. Play it cool at first.
Suspicious Scorpio might not trust you if you seem too eager.
He’s a little paranoid and might think you’re up to something if you come across overly familiar or intrusive with him. Let him make the first move so he feels in control. It might take him a while to warm up to you, but if you catch his attention with a sharp look and a sparkling wit, it’s only a matter of time.
Patience is critical when you’re dealing with a Scorpio man. He doesn’t come to any decision lightly and will take his time to consider if it’s emotionally worth it to pursue someone.
As an effervescent air sign, his hesitation might seem strange to you at first. Remember that water signs like Scorpio are cautious folk and don’t want to risk any unnecessary ripples in their emotions.
9. Enjoy comfortable silence with him.
Scorpio men need quiet time to brood and ponder life’s meaning.
This doesn’t always gel with a Gemini, the chattiest sign in the zodiac. Try reading next to each other, or snuggling up and watching a compelling documentary (he’ll take a deep doc over a rom-com any day). He’ll love that you’re physically near him and appreciate the mental space to decompress.
When a Gemini likes someone, they’re prone to overtalking and might slip up and say inappropriate things or have Freudian slips. It’s OK to slow your roll and relax in silence.
You’re ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Look for ways to communicate with him besides just talking—body language, a piercing gaze, or the way you grab his hand can resonate with your perceptive Scorpio man as well as words.
10. Reciprocate his devoted attention.
A Scorpio man will give you 100% of his focus when you’re around.
He remembers lots of details about you, and expects the same attention and memory in return. Listen to him closely, especially when he’s talking about his emotions. If you can pick up on his feelings and secrets without him explicitly telling you, he’ll feel super validated and relaxed with you.
It’s hard for a Gemini to give their undivided attention to one person. Remember that your reward will be an incredibly sensitive and attentive partner in return.
11. Show him you’re trustworthy.
Loyalty and trust are super important to a Scorpio guy.
He’s naturally guarded and might be suspicious of your dualistic Gemini nature. Stand by him, keep his secrets, and be upfront and honest with him no matter what. A Scorpio guy can forgive many things, but he’ll never get over broken trust.
He’ll judge your trustworthiness by how you treat other people too. Avoid unnecessary gossip about others around him or he might get paranoid that you talk about him too.
Scorpio is a tense sign. He’ll relax around you if you can look him in the eye and be accountable and upfront.
12. Be 100% honest with him.
A Scorpio man is like a human lie detector.
He’s very shrewd, cautious, and will comb through everything you say for traces of dishonesty. Resist the Gemini urge to bend the truth or omit something to spare his feelings. He’d rather work through a problem than discover you were dishonest.
Scorpios are the ultimate grudge holders. Lying to him one time can damage your relationship for good.
If there’s something you can’t or don’t want to share with him, just say you’re not ready to talk about it. He’ll appreciate the honesty, and his curiosity about you will grow even more.
13. Avoid dating or flirting with other men.
A Scorpio man can easily get jealous or possessive.
If you’re involved with other men while you’re getting to know each other, his innate trust issues and need to be in control will cause him to spiral. Make sure he’s the only guy you’re seeing to prevent a huge argument (and to keep him from just walking away).
It’s a good idea to delete your dating apps too. A suspicious Scorpio might freak out if he spots Tinder on your phone screen, even if you’re not using it.
A Scorpio man in love wants to be the only man you’ll ever cherish. He’ll be deeply hurt if he feels like he’s not the only man in your life.
Scorpio is ruled by aggressive Mars and dark Pluto which, on a bad day, means he’ll destroy your relationship if he’s angry or hurt enough. It’s definitely worth it to avoid anything that might set him off.
14. Take things at his slow pace.
Scorpios are slow to trust and commit.
It can be hard for a Gemini to stick around while he mulls things over given their tendency to bounce around from suitor to suitor. Be patient and enjoy the challenge of getting to know a Scorpio man. Attempts to rush him or speed things along might end up pushing him away.
When he finally decides he’s ready to commit, you’ll be rewarded for your patience with a deep, thoughtful, and caring man that makes a wonderful partner.
Tips
A Scorpio man is ultimately looking for the right woman to settle down with for good. If you’re not sure you’re ready for a long term commitment, this man is probably not the one to target.
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Instead, give him a few puzzle pieces—a few interesting facts or stories about you—that’ll make him curious to know more about you.\\nRegardless of how much you tell him, make sure it’s true and not too exaggerated. He’ll be turned off by any hint of insincerity.\\n8. Play it cool at first.\\nSuspicious Scorpio might not trust you if you seem too eager.\\nHe’s a little paranoid and might think you’re up to something if you come across overly familiar or intrusive with him. Let him make the first move so he feels in control. It might take him a while to warm up to you, but if you catch his attention with a sharp look and a sparkling wit, it’s only a matter of time.\\nPatience is critical when you’re dealing with a Scorpio man. He doesn’t come to any decision lightly and will take his time to consider if it’s emotionally worth it to pursue someone.\\nAs an effervescent air sign, his hesitation might seem strange to you at first. 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Reciprocate his devoted attention.\\nA Scorpio man will give you 100% of his focus when you’re around.\\nHe remembers lots of details about you, and expects the same attention and memory in return. Listen to him closely, especially when he’s talking about his emotions. If you can pick up on his feelings and secrets without him explicitly telling you, he’ll feel super validated and relaxed with you.\\nIt’s hard for a Gemini to give their undivided attention to one person. Remember that your reward will be an incredibly sensitive and attentive partner in return.\\n11. Show him you’re trustworthy.\\nLoyalty and trust are super important to a Scorpio guy.\\nHe’s naturally guarded and might be suspicious of your dualistic Gemini nature. Stand by him, keep his secrets, and be upfront and honest with him no matter what. A Scorpio guy can forgive many things, but he’ll never get over broken trust.\\nHe’ll judge your trustworthiness by how you treat other people too. 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2,806 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man As a Libra Woman | 1. Make the first move to jumpstart things.
A Scorpio guy is unlikely to come over to you first.
The two of you can steal glances at each other across a crowded room for hours, but he expects you to come to him. As an outgoing Libra, you shouldn't have any problem with this—just be your fun, friendly self.
He's not shy, but he is introverted. At a party or event, he's content to sit in the background and observe everyone else.
With his "bad boy" reputation, a Scorpio can be a bit intimidating. Don't worry, though—although he is intense, deep down he's emotional and super sensitive.
2. Strike up a conversation with him.
The intelligent Scorpion is an engaging conversationalist.
Since Libra women are known for having the gift of gab, the two of you will thrive. Don't be surprised if you become so deeply entrenched in your conversation that you lose all track of time! Scorpio men can be really intense that way.
If you have any interest in the occult or paranormal phenomenon, you might bring it up—Scorpio guys tend to gravitate toward these topics.
Scorpios are also intensely curious, so don't be surprised if he asks you a lot of questions. He's just trying to get to know you!
3. Be a little mysterious.
A Scorpio likes to learn about people slowly.
Since, as a Libra, you tend to be an open book, this might be a bit of a challenge for you. Just think of it as a way to capture his interest—tell him something general about yourself, then let him tease out the details.
For example, if he asks about your favorite bands, you might list one or two rather than telling him every band you like. Let the others come up organically in conversation.
Staying calm is another way to add a little air of mystery. He'll wonder what you're thinking and feeling if you don't wear your emotions on your sleeve.
Although a little mystery at first is a good thing, be careful about keeping secrets from a Scorpio. He's slow to trust and can easily get suspicious if he feels like you're hiding something from him.
4. Challenge him to a game of poker.
Scorpio guys love games of strategy and you both enjoy taking risks.
The drama and suspense of going head-to-head in a game of Hold 'Em have the potential to heat things up for both of you. He'll love the opportunity to carry out secret plots and you'll be thrilled with the playful banter and the chance to charm him out of his chips.
Keep in mind that Scorpios can be very competitive. That's not to say that you should let him win, but don't be surprised if he's a sore loser.
5. Go on a shopping trip together.
Both of you love spoiling yourself with beautiful things.
Libra ladies tend to view shopping as a sort of bonding experience. Since you both enjoy shopping, use the opportunity to learn more about each other. Scorpios don't tend to broadcast what they like and don't like, so it also gives you some insight into his taste and what draws his eye.
Scorpio guys also tend to have a pretty keen fashion sense, so if you need to find an outfit for a special occasion, take him along as your stylist. Don't be surprised if he's better at dressing you than you are!
6. Let him take the lead in planning dates.
A Scorpio is a born leader who feels more comfortable being in control.
Libra ladies aren't typically the take-charge type, so this shouldn't be too big of a deal for you. If you put him in the driver's seat, he'll make sure you both have a great time and he'll be more relaxed.
Scorpios are pretty introverted, so don't be surprised if he plans more private dates. He'd rather cuddle on the couch and watch a movie than go out to a busy dance club.
If you're feeling more social—Libras do tend to be pretty extroverted—just let him know that you'd like to go out. He'll find a venue where he'll be comfortable and you have the chance to mingle.
7. Take on a project together to build your teamwork.
When you combine your powers you can really get things done.
As a Water sign, Scorpio tends to be more emotional. Like most Air signs, you're typically more intellectual. Together, you can see all sides of a problem and work quickly to find a solution.
For example, you might decide to build a piece of furniture or work on a jigsaw puzzle. Any kind of project that enables you both to problem-solve will make you happy.
Mystery subscription boxes or escape rooms are good ideas for dates where you'll get to solve problems and work together as a team.
A Scorpio guy usually likes to take the lead, but he's patient. With your focus on harmony and balance, you'll be sure to find the right niche working together.
8. Show your willingness to compromise.
Scorpio guys can be stubborn and intense at times.
Because you have a lot of differences, you might end up butting heads from time to time. Fortunately, Libra ladies are known for their ability to find fair solutions to problems. Focus on your desire for balance and everything will work out well.
For example, if you want to go out to a party and he wants to stay in, you might suggest that the two of you can go to the party for an hour and then come home for some alone time together.
As intense as he is, a Scorpio typically tends to avoid conflict. The problem is that he does this by pushing down his feelings, which can make an outburst seem bigger than it really is.
9. Let your relationship progress slowly.
A Scorpio guy is cautious and not likely to rush into anything.
Scorpions are also pretty slow to trust, which means he's not going to want to get serious very fast. As a Libra, you tend to be pretty cautious yourself, so this shouldn't be too hard for you to deal with. Just try to have patience if he wants to draw things out longer than you'd prefer.
Scorpio guys are really emotional, but they tend to keep their emotions close to their chest and might not let you in right away. This can be frustrating for you since Libras tend to be pretty open.
If you're gentle and don't push him, he'll come around. He just needs to know that he can feel safe with you.
10. Demonstrate your loyalty and devotion.
Both of you highly value these traits in a partner.
A Scorpio man tends to be looking for a life partner. Since the typical Libra lady is on the hunt for her soulmate, you can definitely understand this drive. All that's left is for you to prove to him how hopelessly devoted you are to him. He'll come to trust you and never want to leave your side.
Trust is extremely important if you have your eyes on a long-term romance. Scorpions tend to be pretty possessive, but he'll mellow out if he feels comfortable with you and knows he can trust you.
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He'll wonder what you're thinking and feeling if you don't wear your emotions on your sleeve.\\nAlthough a little mystery at first is a good thing, be careful about keeping secrets from a Scorpio. He's slow to trust and can easily get suspicious if he feels like you're hiding something from him.\\n4. Challenge him to a game of poker.\\nScorpio guys love games of strategy and you both enjoy taking risks.\\nThe drama and suspense of going head-to-head in a game of Hold 'Em have the potential to heat things up for both of you. He'll love the opportunity to carry out secret plots and you'll be thrilled with the playful banter and the chance to charm him out of his chips.\\nKeep in mind that Scorpios can be very competitive. That's not to say that you should let him win, but don't be surprised if he's a sore loser.\\n5. Go on a shopping trip together.\\nBoth of you love spoiling yourself with beautiful things.\\nLibra ladies tend to view shopping as a sort of bonding experience. Since you both enjoy shopping, use the opportunity to learn more about each other. Scorpios don't tend to broadcast what they like and don't like, so it also gives you some insight into his taste and what draws his eye.\\nScorpio guys also tend to have a pretty keen fashion sense, so if you need to find an outfit for a special occasion, take him along as your stylist. Don't be surprised if he's better at dressing you than you are!\\n6. Let him take the lead in planning dates.\\nA Scorpio is a born leader who feels more comfortable being in control.\\nLibra ladies aren't typically the take-charge type, so this shouldn't be too big of a deal for you. If you put him in the driver's seat, he'll make sure you both have a great time and he'll be more relaxed.\\nScorpios are pretty introverted, so don't be surprised if he plans more private dates. He'd rather cuddle on the couch and watch a movie than go out to a busy dance club.\\nIf you're feeling more social—Libras do tend to be pretty extroverted—just let him know that you'd like to go out. He'll find a venue where he'll be comfortable and you have the chance to mingle.\\n7. Take on a project together to build your teamwork.\\nWhen you combine your powers you can really get things done.\\nAs a Water sign, Scorpio tends to be more emotional. Like most Air signs, you're typically more intellectual. Together, you can see all sides of a problem and work quickly to find a solution.\\nFor example, you might decide to build a piece of furniture or work on a jigsaw puzzle. Any kind of project that enables you both to problem-solve will make you happy.\\nMystery subscription boxes or escape rooms are good ideas for dates where you'll get to solve problems and work together as a team.\\nA Scorpio guy usually likes to take the lead, but he's patient. 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2,807 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man As a Pisces Woman | 1. Let him catch you staring at him.
Both Pisces and Scorpio tend to communicate with their eyes.
This is a great way to let him know that you're interested in him, and he'll definitely get the message! Just stare at him until he looks your way. Once you've caught his eye, immediately look away. Do this 2 or 3 times in a row and he'll probably come over to talk to you.
Don't be surprised if you catch him looking your way as well—Scorpios are known to observe people they're interested in for a while before they make contact.
2. Play up your natural femininity.
A Scorpio guy will be attracted to your womanly allure.
Scorpions have a reputation for being deeply sensual, sexual guys, and nothing's going to get their motor running faster than a mysterious, sexy woman across the room. Dress in soft, flowing fabrics that show off your curves while leaving a little to the imagination and Scorpio will swoon.
As a Pisces woman, you're probably known for your creative, feminine flair. That Scorpio you've got your eye on is bound to notice you, especially if you have a knack for standing out in the crowd.
Even if you have a more laid-back style, a fluttery blouse with a pair of jeans is sure to attract the Scorpion's eye.
3. Keep an air of mystery about you.
The typical Scorpion can't help but be attracted to a puzzle.
He loves to dig into a new mystery, so even better if that mystery is you! At the same time, he'll lose interest if you seem too closed or standoffish, so balance is key here. Let him know a little about you, but maybe don't go into all the details.
For example, you might tell him that you're involved with the play the local community theater is putting on without telling him your specific role. It'll give him something to try to figure out and he'll enjoy asking you questions about it.
4. Start a deep conversation about a complex topic.
Scorpions tend to be deep thinkers and aren't much for small talk.
Instead of asking how his day's been, ask him about the meaning of life and he'll think you're someone worth getting to know. Scorpios have the reputation for being into the occult and darker things, so it's even better if you bring up something a little spooky.
Since Scorpios are intensely curious, he's likely to be interested in anything you're passionate about. Talk to him about topics that move you and he'll enjoy the energy you bring to the conversation.
5. Challenge him to a strategic board game.
Most Scorpios are highly competitive and love strategizing.
A board game also gives the two of you a chance to get to know each other while engaging in a little friendly rivalry. Just don't be surprised if he gets really into the game.
He likes to win, so it's usually best if you choose a game you're not great at. Maybe ask him what his favorite game is—chances are, he's pretty good at it, or it wouldn't be his favorite.
Whatever you do, don't play down to let him win. He'll probably be able to tell and he'll be offended by it. Yes, he likes to win, but he also wants to win fair and square.
6. Be open and honest with him.
Scorpio men often have a sixth sense for detecting dishonesty.
This might be tough for you if you're the typical Pisces who tends to hold back for fear of hurting someone's feelings. If he feels like you're not being completely open with you, he'll pull away. At the same time, he'll appreciate it if you're honest, even if he doesn't like what you have to say.
This goes for who you are and how you present yourself as well. If you're not interested in something, don't pretend you are for his sake—he won't appreciate it. Just be yourself and he'll be thrilled to get to know you.
7. Tell him your lifelong dreams.
He'll help you make those dreams a reality.
Pisces women are known to be imaginative dreamers. If that's you, you're probably used to people telling you to get your head out of the clouds. Don't worry about your Scorpio guy saying anything like that—on the contrary, he'll be thrilled to work out a plan to get your dream working for you.
For example, maybe you've always really wanted to have a private lending library and café. He'll pepper you with ideas to get started in your own home while you build toward an actual business.
8. Go on a hike with him that ends with a romantic picnic.
He'll love the quiet solitude of nature and spending time just with you.
It's not that Scorpios don't like to go out, it's just that they'd rather not be part of a big social scene. They tend to prefer quiet, more private activities. Planning such an outing gives you the opportunity to nurture your creative, romantic side.
If neither of you cares much for the outdoors, you might offer to cook him dinner followed by the latest documentary or a heady, complex drama.
9. Make him the center of your attention.
Scorpio men place a premium on loyalty so he'll love it if you focus on him.
There might be nothing a Scorpio guy likes more than when a love interest ignores everyone else in favor of him. So when you're out with him, put your phone on silent and keep any conversations with other people to a minimum.
This might be a little tough if you're out at a party or a sporting event where you know a lot of people. When friends approach, introduce him and explain that you're with him. From then on, redirect the conversation towards him or ask him questions to draw him in.
10. Show him your submissive side.
The dominant Scorpio is naturally attracted to the typically submissive Pisces.
As a Pisces, you're likely to be a giving person who loves to look after others. This service-oriented nature appeals to a Scorpio, who's typically more dominant and enjoys being catered to.
This doesn't necessarily mean that you need to go out of your way to do things for him. Simply keep his interests and comfort in mind, as you likely already do. For example, if the two of you are watching TV together and you get up, you might ask him if he wants another drink.
Doing things for him without saying anything is another way to show this side of you. For example, if you're eating dinner together at home, you might take and wash his dishes when he's done eating.
11. Give him a hand-made token of your affection.
A Scorpio is typically a big fan of anything made just for him.
Scorpions are particularly fond of anything handmade or one-of-a-kind, especially if it was made by someone they care about and who cares about them. Since Pisces women are known for their creativity and imagination, it shouldn't be too much of a challenge for you to make him something he'll treasure for years to come.
For example, if you paint, you might paint him something he could hang in his living room or bedroom.
If you're a writer, you might try writing him a love poem. Musician? Write him a song or play a cover of his favorite tune.
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Dress in soft, flowing fabrics that show off your curves while leaving a little to the imagination and Scorpio will swoon.\\nAs a Pisces woman, you're probably known for your creative, feminine flair. That Scorpio you've got your eye on is bound to notice you, especially if you have a knack for standing out in the crowd.\\nEven if you have a more laid-back style, a fluttery blouse with a pair of jeans is sure to attract the Scorpion's eye.\\n3. Keep an air of mystery about you.\\nThe typical Scorpion can't help but be attracted to a puzzle.\\nHe loves to dig into a new mystery, so even better if that mystery is you! At the same time, he'll lose interest if you seem too closed or standoffish, so balance is key here. Let him know a little about you, but maybe don't go into all the details.\\nFor example, you might tell him that you're involved with the play the local community theater is putting on without telling him your specific role. It'll give him something to try to figure out and he'll enjoy asking you questions about it.\\n4. Start a deep conversation about a complex topic.\\nScorpions tend to be deep thinkers and aren't much for small talk.\\nInstead of asking how his day's been, ask him about the meaning of life and he'll think you're someone worth getting to know. Scorpios have the reputation for being into the occult and darker things, so it's even better if you bring up something a little spooky.\\nSince Scorpios are intensely curious, he's likely to be interested in anything you're passionate about. Talk to him about topics that move you and he'll enjoy the energy you bring to the conversation.\\n5. Challenge him to a strategic board game.\\nMost Scorpios are highly competitive and love strategizing.\\nA board game also gives the two of you a chance to get to know each other while engaging in a little friendly rivalry. Just don't be surprised if he gets really into the game.\\nHe likes to win, so it's usually best if you choose a game you're not great at. Maybe ask him what his favorite game is—chances are, he's pretty good at it, or it wouldn't be his favorite.\\nWhatever you do, don't play down to let him win. He'll probably be able to tell and he'll be offended by it. Yes, he likes to win, but he also wants to win fair and square.\\n6. Be open and honest with him.\\nScorpio men often have a sixth sense for detecting dishonesty.\\nThis might be tough for you if you're the typical Pisces who tends to hold back for fear of hurting someone's feelings. If he feels like you're not being completely open with you, he'll pull away. At the same time, he'll appreciate it if you're honest, even if he doesn't like what you have to say.\\nThis goes for who you are and how you present yourself as well. If you're not interested in something, don't pretend you are for his sake—he won't appreciate it. Just be yourself and he'll be thrilled to get to know you.\\n7. Tell him your lifelong dreams.\\nHe'll help you make those dreams a reality.\\nPisces women are known to be imaginative dreamers. If that's you, you're probably used to people telling you to get your head out of the clouds. Don't worry about your Scorpio guy saying anything like that—on the contrary, he'll be thrilled to work out a plan to get your dream working for you.\\nFor example, maybe you've always really wanted to have a private lending library and café. He'll pepper you with ideas to get started in your own home while you build toward an actual business.\\n8. Go on a hike with him that ends with a romantic picnic.\\nHe'll love the quiet solitude of nature and spending time just with you.\\nIt's not that Scorpios don't like to go out, it's just that they'd rather not be part of a big social scene. They tend to prefer quiet, more private activities. Planning such an outing gives you the opportunity to nurture your creative, romantic side.\\nIf neither of you cares much for the outdoors, you might offer to cook him dinner followed by the latest documentary or a heady, complex drama.\\n9. Make him the center of your attention.\\nScorpio men place a premium on loyalty so he'll love it if you focus on him.\\nThere might be nothing a Scorpio guy likes more than when a love interest ignores everyone else in favor of him. So when you're out with him, put your phone on silent and keep any conversations with other people to a minimum.\\nThis might be a little tough if you're out at a party or a sporting event where you know a lot of people. When friends approach, introduce him and explain that you're with him. From then on, redirect the conversation towards him or ask him questions to draw him in.\\n10. Show him your submissive side.\\nThe dominant Scorpio is naturally attracted to the typically submissive Pisces.\\nAs a Pisces, you're likely to be a giving person who loves to look after others. This service-oriented nature appeals to a Scorpio, who's typically more dominant and enjoys being catered to.\\nThis doesn't necessarily mean that you need to go out of your way to do things for him. Simply keep his interests and comfort in mind, as you likely already do. For example, if the two of you are watching TV together and you get up, you might ask him if he wants another drink.\\nDoing things for him without saying anything is another way to show this side of you. For example, if you're eating dinner together at home, you might take and wash his dishes when he's done eating.\\n11. Give him a hand-made token of your affection.\\nA Scorpio is typically a big fan of anything made just for him.\\nScorpions are particularly fond of anything handmade or one-of-a-kind, especially if it was made by someone they care about and who cares about them. Since Pisces women are known for their creativity and imagination, it shouldn't be too much of a challenge for you to make him something he'll treasure for years to come.\\nFor example, if you paint, you might paint him something he could hang in his living room or bedroom.\\nIf you're a writer, you might try writing him a love poem. Musician? Write him a song or play a cover of his favorite tune.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"As far as astrological matches go, nothing gets much better than a Pisces and a Scorpio. Both of you are water signs, so you definitely understand each other on a deeper level. Are you looking for someone who just gets you? If you're a Pisces woman, start looking for a Scorpio man. Here, we've gathered a bunch of tricks you can use to draw that mysterious Scorpion to you and make him stick.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Let him catch you staring at him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Both Pisces and Scorpio tend to communicate with their eyes.\", \"描述\": \"This is a great way to let him know that you're interested in him, and he'll definitely get the message! Just stare at him until he looks your way. Once you've caught his eye, immediately look away. Do this 2 or 3 times in a row and he'll probably come over to talk to you.\\nDon't be surprised if you catch him looking your way as well—Scorpios are known to observe people they're interested in for a while before they make contact.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Play up your natural femininity.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio guy will be attracted to your womanly allure.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpions have a reputation for being deeply sensual, sexual guys, and nothing's going to get their motor running faster than a mysterious, sexy woman across the room. Dress in soft, flowing fabrics that show off your curves while leaving a little to the imagination and Scorpio will swoon.\\nAs a Pisces woman, you're probably known for your creative, feminine flair. That Scorpio you've got your eye on is bound to notice you, especially if you have a knack for standing out in the crowd.\\nEven if you have a more laid-back style, a fluttery blouse with a pair of jeans is sure to attract the Scorpion's eye.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Keep an air of mystery about you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The typical Scorpion can't help but be attracted to a puzzle.\", \"描述\": \"He loves to dig into a new mystery, so even better if that mystery is you! At the same time, he'll lose interest if you seem too closed or standoffish, so balance is key here. Let him know a little about you, but maybe don't go into all the details.\\nFor example, you might tell him that you're involved with the play the local community theater is putting on without telling him your specific role. It'll give him something to try to figure out and he'll enjoy asking you questions about it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Start a deep conversation about a complex topic.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpions tend to be deep thinkers and aren't much for small talk.\", \"描述\": \"Instead of asking how his day's been, ask him about the meaning of life and he'll think you're someone worth getting to know. Scorpios have the reputation for being into the occult and darker things, so it's even better if you bring up something a little spooky.\\nSince Scorpios are intensely curious, he's likely to be interested in anything you're passionate about. Talk to him about topics that move you and he'll enjoy the energy you bring to the conversation.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Challenge him to a strategic board game.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Most Scorpios are highly competitive and love strategizing.\", \"描述\": \"A board game also gives the two of you a chance to get to know each other while engaging in a little friendly rivalry. Just don't be surprised if he gets really into the game.\\nHe likes to win, so it's usually best if you choose a game you're not great at. Maybe ask him what his favorite game is—chances are, he's pretty good at it, or it wouldn't be his favorite.\\nWhatever you do, don't play down to let him win. He'll probably be able to tell and he'll be offended by it. Yes, he likes to win, but he also wants to win fair and square.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Be open and honest with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio men often have a sixth sense for detecting dishonesty.\", \"描述\": \"This might be tough for you if you're the typical Pisces who tends to hold back for fear of hurting someone's feelings. If he feels like you're not being completely open with you, he'll pull away. At the same time, he'll appreciate it if you're honest, even if he doesn't like what you have to say.\\nThis goes for who you are and how you present yourself as well. If you're not interested in something, don't pretend you are for his sake—he won't appreciate it. Just be yourself and he'll be thrilled to get to know you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Tell him your lifelong dreams.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"He'll help you make those dreams a reality.\", \"描述\": \"Pisces women are known to be imaginative dreamers. If that's you, you're probably used to people telling you to get your head out of the clouds. Don't worry about your Scorpio guy saying anything like that—on the contrary, he'll be thrilled to work out a plan to get your dream working for you.\\nFor example, maybe you've always really wanted to have a private lending library and café. He'll pepper you with ideas to get started in your own home while you build toward an actual business.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Go on a hike with him that ends with a romantic picnic.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"He'll love the quiet solitude of nature and spending time just with you.\", \"描述\": \"It's not that Scorpios don't like to go out, it's just that they'd rather not be part of a big social scene. They tend to prefer quiet, more private activities. 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2,808 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man As a Sagittarius Woman | 1. Wear something sexy but mysterious.
Sex appeal is crucial to luring in a Scorpio man.
He’s one of the most sexually active men in the zodiac, and having the right look will drive him wild for you. Wear something sleek and form-fitting (you can’t go wrong with the colors black or red) and show just a little bit of skin—leaving a little to his imagination is more attractive to him than baring it all.
Interesting or unique jewelry is also appealing to him. Add some accessories with an interesting backstory to your look to pique his curiosity.
Warm and spicy scents like cinnamon or vanilla smell great to him.
2. Keep your introduction short and sweet.
Scorpio men get suspicious if you’re too eager and familiar right away.
They’re shrewd and cautious, so they’ll comb through everything you say and do for hints of insincerity. Instead of the bold pickup line or witty joke you might be used to as a Sagittarius, aim for a safe and simple introduction. Try something like:
“Hi, I’m Megan. I don’t think we’ve met before, what’s your name?”
“Hey, that book you’re reading is one of my favorites! I’m Claire by the way.”
“I’ve seen you around before but never caught your name. I’m Alaya.”
3. Charm him with witty conversation.
Scorpio men are highly intelligent and love a stimulating chat.
As the greatest conversationalist in the zodiac, you’ll have no problem charming the pants off him! Share novel ideas and stories of your adventures with him—he’s a reserved fellow and will find your free spirit fascinating and foreign. Throw in a few dark jokes and you’ll have him in the palm of your hand.
A Scorpio guy doesn’t care for small talk too much. Skip the pleasantries when you see him and jump right into the most interesting parts of your day.
He loves being complimented and feeling desired, but don’t lay it on too thick. If he senses you’re trying to schmooze him, he’ll get suspicious and uncomfortable.
4. Flirt with him and only him.
Scorpio men get jealous and possessive over their romantic interests.
If you’re into a Scorpio guy, make sure you turn a blind eye toward the other men competing for your radiant Sagittarius attention. A Scorpio wants to be the only man you’ll love for the rest of your life, and he’ll walk away the instant he feels he’s not the only man in your life.
Sagittarians have the reputation of being the most non-committal of all the signs. Stand by your Scorpion while he takes his time to contemplate you and resist the urge to parley with other guys.
Delete your dating apps too! A Scorpio will get paranoid if he spots Tinder on your phone screen.
5. Pull him away for some 1-on-1 time.
A Scorpio man is the ultimate loner.
He’ll love watching you be the effortless life of the party from afar, but will hesitate to approach you if you’re always in the spotlight. Ask him if he wants to grab some air outside the bar for a second, or if he can walk you home. He’ll absolutely cherish the chance to have you to himself for a bit.
People tend to gravitate to you, and this can make a Scorpio man jealous or possessive. Look for ways to balance quality time with him and your time as the center of everyone’s attention.
6. Tell him you have a secret.
Scorpios love all things hidden and mysterious.
Drop a hint that you know something he doesn’t—it doesn’t even have to be that deep or important. Just the fact that you have the scoop and he doesn’t will bring him back to you over and over until he finds out what it is. Say teasing things like:
“Well, I’m really not supposed to tell anyone about this. Maybe later…”
“That’s for me to know and you to find out!”
“You don’t know about Alicia’s drama? Interesting…”
7. Empathize with him.
At his core, he’s a moody and sensitive guy.
Seemingly small things can upset this emotional water sign for days. As a detached fire sign, you probably won’t see why he has to be so dramatic (can’t he just get over it?). Learn to appreciate his depth—it’s what makes him a caring, protective, and profound partner.
Be patient when he’s in an off mood and give him the space he needs to react and work through things. He’ll come around after he’s brooded for a while.
8. Open up to him bit by bit.
A Scorpio guy loves a little mystery in a woman.
As an open Sagittarius, you might be tempted to tell him everything from your favorite color to the time you ruptured your spleen in 5th grade. Hold off on the full life story—he’ll be more interested in small tidbits that give him something to wonder about.
If he thinks he’s got you figured out right away, he might get disinterested in pursuing you.
Tease him with phrases like “...but that’s a story for another time” or “Maybe I’ll tell you about it…later.” He’ll be dying to know what you’re keeping hidden!
9. Show him that you’re ambitious.
A Scorpio man is a driven, goal-focused guy.
He’s invested in his career and usually likes to plan ahead. Tell him about your career ambitions, your life goals, and your favorite accomplishments to show that you’re a like-minded go-getter. He’ll see you as a valuable and inspiring partner who he can’t wait to know better.
Many Sagittarians love to live in the moment and their wanderlust can make them shirk some of their responsibilities. A Scorpio might find this unnerving at first, but the balance between work and play is what makes a Scorpio-Sagittarius couple so compelling.
10. Do something intellectual together.
A Scorpio man loves anything challenging, dark, or educational.
A crisis documentary or a psychological thriller would make a great choice for a Netflix-and-chill night (the more complicated twists and turns, the better). Strategy games like Settlers of Catan or chess also appeal to him (and to your fun competitive streak, too!).
Going to a museum, art exhibit, or a live performance would also be a great idea if you’re looking to meet up in a neutral space that’s not either of your home.
If you need a gift, look for something along the same intellectual lines—mystery novels, history books, or anything about the hidden and unknown workings of the world will thrill him.
11. Take him on an adventure.
Scorpio men need more light and fun in their life.
You’re the perfect gal to give it to them! Take him with you when you travel, go to a new nightclub, or meet new people. It’ll be a totally different world to him, and he’ll gradually learn to open up and have some fun. The more you can show him, the more attracted to you he'll be. Some adventurous date ideas might be:
Exploring a nature park or going on a hike.
Teaming up to play a recreational sport together (or against each other).
Taking him as an escort to a high-profile gala, fundraiser, or reception.
Just make sure to give him some alone time to decompress afterward. He’ll be happy to head home and unwind after an event while you head to the afterparty.
12. Show him you’re trustworthy.
Loyalty and trust are important to a Scorpio guy.
He’s naturally guarded and takes a long time to open up to new people. Stand by his side and be upfront and honest with him no matter what (as a Sagittarius, that’ll be easy!). A Scorpio guy can work through almost anything in a relationship, but a betrayal or a lie is something he’ll never get over.
Scorpio is a tense sign. He’ll relax around you if you can look him in the eye and be accountable and reliable.
Keep being an open book—he’ll learn quickly that you have little to hide from him, and he’ll find your openness refreshing (he’s used to seeing through other people’s facades).
He might find your blunt Sagittarian honesty suspicious initially, but he’ll appreciate it after he gets to know you.
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Try something like:\\n“Hi, I’m Megan. I don’t think we’ve met before, what’s your name?”\\n“Hey, that book you’re reading is one of my favorites! I’m Claire by the way.”\\n“I’ve seen you around before but never caught your name. I’m Alaya.”\\n3. Charm him with witty conversation.\\nScorpio men are highly intelligent and love a stimulating chat.\\nAs the greatest conversationalist in the zodiac, you’ll have no problem charming the pants off him! Share novel ideas and stories of your adventures with him—he’s a reserved fellow and will find your free spirit fascinating and foreign. Throw in a few dark jokes and you’ll have him in the palm of your hand.\\nA Scorpio guy doesn’t care for small talk too much. Skip the pleasantries when you see him and jump right into the most interesting parts of your day.\\nHe loves being complimented and feeling desired, but don’t lay it on too thick. If he senses you’re trying to schmooze him, he’ll get suspicious and uncomfortable.\\n4. Flirt with him and only him.\\nScorpio men get jealous and possessive over their romantic interests.\\nIf you’re into a Scorpio guy, make sure you turn a blind eye toward the other men competing for your radiant Sagittarius attention. A Scorpio wants to be the only man you’ll love for the rest of your life, and he’ll walk away the instant he feels he’s not the only man in your life.\\nSagittarians have the reputation of being the most non-committal of all the signs. Stand by your Scorpion while he takes his time to contemplate you and resist the urge to parley with other guys.\\nDelete your dating apps too! A Scorpio will get paranoid if he spots Tinder on your phone screen.\\n5. Pull him away for some 1-on-1 time.\\nA Scorpio man is the ultimate loner.\\nHe’ll love watching you be the effortless life of the party from afar, but will hesitate to approach you if you’re always in the spotlight. Ask him if he wants to grab some air outside the bar for a second, or if he can walk you home. He’ll absolutely cherish the chance to have you to himself for a bit.\\nPeople tend to gravitate to you, and this can make a Scorpio man jealous or possessive. Look for ways to balance quality time with him and your time as the center of everyone’s attention.\\n6. Tell him you have a secret.\\nScorpios love all things hidden and mysterious.\\nDrop a hint that you know something he doesn’t—it doesn’t even have to be that deep or important. Just the fact that you have the scoop and he doesn’t will bring him back to you over and over until he finds out what it is. Say teasing things like:\\n“Well, I’m really not supposed to tell anyone about this. Maybe later…”\\n“That’s for me to know and you to find out!”\\n“You don’t know about Alicia’s drama? Interesting…”\\n7. Empathize with him.\\nAt his core, he’s a moody and sensitive guy.\\nSeemingly small things can upset this emotional water sign for days. As a detached fire sign, you probably won’t see why he has to be so dramatic (can’t he just get over it?). Learn to appreciate his depth—it’s what makes him a caring, protective, and profound partner.\\nBe patient when he’s in an off mood and give him the space he needs to react and work through things. He’ll come around after he’s brooded for a while.\\n8. Open up to him bit by bit.\\nA Scorpio guy loves a little mystery in a woman.\\nAs an open Sagittarius, you might be tempted to tell him everything from your favorite color to the time you ruptured your spleen in 5th grade. Hold off on the full life story—he’ll be more interested in small tidbits that give him something to wonder about.\\nIf he thinks he’s got you figured out right away, he might get disinterested in pursuing you.\\nTease him with phrases like “...but that’s a story for another time” or “Maybe I’ll tell you about it…later.” He’ll be dying to know what you’re keeping hidden!\\n9. Show him that you’re ambitious.\\nA Scorpio man is a driven, goal-focused guy.\\nHe’s invested in his career and usually likes to plan ahead. Tell him about your career ambitions, your life goals, and your favorite accomplishments to show that you’re a like-minded go-getter. He’ll see you as a valuable and inspiring partner who he can’t wait to know better.\\nMany Sagittarians love to live in the moment and their wanderlust can make them shirk some of their responsibilities. A Scorpio might find this unnerving at first, but the balance between work and play is what makes a Scorpio-Sagittarius couple so compelling.\\n10. Do something intellectual together.\\nA Scorpio man loves anything challenging, dark, or educational.\\nA crisis documentary or a psychological thriller would make a great choice for a Netflix-and-chill night (the more complicated twists and turns, the better). Strategy games like Settlers of Catan or chess also appeal to him (and to your fun competitive streak, too!).\\nGoing to a museum, art exhibit, or a live performance would also be a great idea if you’re looking to meet up in a neutral space that’s not either of your home.\\nIf you need a gift, look for something along the same intellectual lines—mystery novels, history books, or anything about the hidden and unknown workings of the world will thrill him.\\n11. Take him on an adventure.\\nScorpio men need more light and fun in their life.\\nYou’re the perfect gal to give it to them! Take him with you when you travel, go to a new nightclub, or meet new people. It’ll be a totally different world to him, and he’ll gradually learn to open up and have some fun. The more you can show him, the more attracted to you he'll be. Some adventurous date ideas might be:\\nExploring a nature park or going on a hike.\\nTeaming up to play a recreational sport together (or against each other).\\nTaking him as an escort to a high-profile gala, fundraiser, or reception.\\nJust make sure to give him some alone time to decompress afterward. He’ll be happy to head home and unwind after an event while you head to the afterparty.\\n12. Show him you’re trustworthy.\\nLoyalty and trust are important to a Scorpio guy.\\nHe’s naturally guarded and takes a long time to open up to new people. Stand by his side and be upfront and honest with him no matter what (as a Sagittarius, that’ll be easy!). A Scorpio guy can work through almost anything in a relationship, but a betrayal or a lie is something he’ll never get over.\\nScorpio is a tense sign. He’ll relax around you if you can look him in the eye and be accountable and reliable.\\nKeep being an open book—he’ll learn quickly that you have little to hide from him, and he’ll find your openness refreshing (he’s used to seeing through other people’s facades).\\nHe might find your blunt Sagittarian honesty suspicious initially, but he’ll appreciate it after he gets to know you.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"You’re the bright, breezy Archer of the zodiac and you’ve spotted your next target: the brooding, dark, mysterious Scorpio man. There’s an element of danger there, but the risk of pursuing your neighbor in the zodiac is exactly what makes it so enticing. Attracting a Scorpion is the perfect adventure for a Sagittarius woman, and you’ve got all the flair and alluring qualities to do it! Read on for a comprehensive list of ways to win a Scorpio man’s attention and keep him by your side.This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Wear something sexy but mysterious.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Sex appeal is crucial to luring in a Scorpio man.\", \"描述\": \"He’s one of the most sexually active men in the zodiac, and having the right look will drive him wild for you. Wear something sleek and form-fitting (you can’t go wrong with the colors black or red) and show just a little bit of skin—leaving a little to his imagination is more attractive to him than baring it all.\\nInteresting or unique jewelry is also appealing to him. Add some accessories with an interesting backstory to your look to pique his curiosity.\\nWarm and spicy scents like cinnamon or vanilla smell great to him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Keep your introduction short and sweet.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio men get suspicious if you’re too eager and familiar right away.\", \"描述\": \"They’re shrewd and cautious, so they’ll comb through everything you say and do for hints of insincerity. Instead of the bold pickup line or witty joke you might be used to as a Sagittarius, aim for a safe and simple introduction. Try something like:\\n“Hi, I’m Megan. I don’t think we’ve met before, what’s your name?”\\n“Hey, that book you’re reading is one of my favorites! I’m Claire by the way.”\\n“I’ve seen you around before but never caught your name. I’m Alaya.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Charm him with witty conversation.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio men are highly intelligent and love a stimulating chat.\", \"描述\": \"As the greatest conversationalist in the zodiac, you’ll have no problem charming the pants off him! Share novel ideas and stories of your adventures with him—he’s a reserved fellow and will find your free spirit fascinating and foreign. Throw in a few dark jokes and you’ll have him in the palm of your hand.\\nA Scorpio guy doesn’t care for small talk too much. Skip the pleasantries when you see him and jump right into the most interesting parts of your day.\\nHe loves being complimented and feeling desired, but don’t lay it on too thick. 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A Scorpio will get paranoid if he spots Tinder on your phone screen.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Pull him away for some 1-on-1 time.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio man is the ultimate loner.\", \"描述\": \"He’ll love watching you be the effortless life of the party from afar, but will hesitate to approach you if you’re always in the spotlight. Ask him if he wants to grab some air outside the bar for a second, or if he can walk you home. He’ll absolutely cherish the chance to have you to himself for a bit.\\nPeople tend to gravitate to you, and this can make a Scorpio man jealous or possessive. Look for ways to balance quality time with him and your time as the center of everyone’s attention.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Tell him you have a secret.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios love all things hidden and mysterious.\", \"描述\": \"Drop a hint that you know something he doesn’t—it doesn’t even have to be that deep or important. Just the fact that you have the scoop and he doesn’t will bring him back to you over and over until he finds out what it is. Say teasing things like:\\n“Well, I’m really not supposed to tell anyone about this. Maybe later…”\\n“That’s for me to know and you to find out!”\\n“You don’t know about Alicia’s drama? Interesting…”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Empathize with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"At his core, he’s a moody and sensitive guy.\", \"描述\": \"Seemingly small things can upset this emotional water sign for days. As a detached fire sign, you probably won’t see why he has to be so dramatic (can’t he just get over it?). Learn to appreciate his depth—it’s what makes him a caring, protective, and profound partner.\\nBe patient when he’s in an off mood and give him the space he needs to react and work through things. 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2,809 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man As an Aquarius Woman: 11 Tips | 1. Hold his gaze.
To Scorpio men, top-notch flirting might as well be a staring contest.
He's all about unspoken intensity with his crush, and he's observant. So subtle (but passionate!) flirting will capture his attention. When you're at a party, throw him long glances from across the room. Look away when he looks at you—but let your eyes wander back over a few minutes later. He'll definitely notice!
Then, when he comes over to chat, turn up the intensity. Stare deeply into his eyes, like you're fascinated by everything he has to say.
For best effects, quickly look down at his mouth about once a minute.
If you're worried about your smoldering gaze, practice it in the mirror first! That way, you can feel totally confident while flirting with your favorite Scorpio man.
2. Initiate intellectual conversations.
To Scorpios, intelligent discussion is a must in relationships.
When you’re hanging out with a Scorpio man, strike up an intellectually stimulating chat by asking a thought-provoking question, stating a provocative opinion, or describing something you read recently. You two might be the brightest signs in the zodiac, so to score points with him, bond over your braininess.
“Have you ever wondered about how public transportation systems might develop in the next 100 years?”
“I feel 100% certain that aliens exist. What do you think?”
“I just finished Moby Dick. Can I tell you a bit about what I took from the book?”
3. Challenge his opinions.
Scorpios are attracted to honesty and authenticity in their partners.
To prove you're not just telling him what he wants to hear, offer a gentle rebuttal to one of his opinions. Speak in a kind tone and keep your criticism light—because Scorpio men are sensitive. To ensure you're critiquing his argument and not him, stick to the facts. You're as analytical as it gets, Aquarius, so this won't be a challenge.
“You know, I see where you’re coming from, but I actually disagree. I think the author meant to wink at the reader because you see that again in chapter four.”
“Interesting. I get that, but I still think social media connects people more than it isolates them. Video chatting is huge for long-distance friendships.”
“Can I push back just a little bit? Sports can help kids learn resilience. So providing sports at school could help in the classroom. Don’t you think?”
4. Create an air of mystery.
Scorpios are famous for loving complex, enigmatic people.
Aquarius, “aloof” is your middle name. When chatting with a Scorpio man, reveal very little about yourself to make him obsessed with learning more. Hint at information that you never actually share with him. Turn the conversation back onto him constantly and provide vague responses to his questions.
“Oh, that reminds me of…actually, never mind. Have you seen a bathroom? I’m going to go find one. Be right back!”
“I hate talking about myself. I’d much rather learn more about you! How’d you get into graphic design? Did you always know that’s what you wanted to do?"
“Yes, I did live in Berlin for a year. It was good—a little colder than I’d expected. Anyway, where have you lived in your life so far?”
5. Surprise him constantly.
To Scorpios, trying to figure out an unpredictable crush is thrilling.
If it’s difficult for him to understand what makes you tick, then he’ll be completely obsessed with you—so keep him on his toes. Make sure the very few personal details you share with him paint a shocking, complicated picture. Use your Aquarius-esque knack for spontaneity to keep him on the edge of his seat, too.
Share a fact that makes him question how well he knows you: “I almost became an acrobat before I went to grad school. You didn't know that?”
Show up at his apartment with snacks, a great playlist, and directions for a random road trip.
Invite him to join you in an unusual activity. Surprise him with your interest in a kombucha brewing course or a LARP session in the park.
6. Tone down your flirtations with other people.
Scorpios can be prone to jealousy, so he'll want all of your attention.
Even if you’re not actually seeing each other yet, flirt exclusively with your Scorpio crush at parties and gatherings. Seeing you chat up another person will make a Scorpio man less romantically interested in you, so instead of joking with, touching, and focusing on another potential crush, invest your time in him.
Some Aquarians enjoy connecting with others through super energized conversation. You may not see this as flirty behavior, but a Scorpio might.
While you’re trying to attract your Scorpio crush, play it safe by playing it cool. When you chat with someone else, stay relaxed, calm, and subdued.
7. Prove to him that you’re loyal.
Trustworthiness is the single most important quality to a Scorpio.
To show him that he can trust you, keep his secrets safe and never talk about him behind his back. If he ends up in some kind of conflict, be on his team. This sign lives for intense, all-consuming relationships, and those require trust to survive. Aquarius women are super loyal, so make that clear to him through your actions.
If someone is badgering you for info on your Scorpio crush, refuse them: “I’m not sure if he’d be okay with me sharing that, so I can’t tell you. I’m sorry!”
If someone else talks behind his back around you, defend him: “Aw, I don’t think so. He’s intense, yeah, but it’s just because he cares. I like that about him.”
If he ends up in a conflict, tell him that you’re on his side: “Hey, I just want you to know that I’ve got your back. I’m team George, 100%!”
8. Allow him to rely on you.
Scorpios desire a partner who shows up when it really counts.
Explain that if he ever needs help, you’ll be there. Then, make good on your promise. Offer him an empathetic ear when he needs to vent, help him out when he’s in a jam, and show up whenever you have plans. Aquarians have huge hearts and are dependable pals, so you shouldn’t have any issue impressing him.
When he’s down, validate his emotions to make him feel supported: “Wow, that sounds awful. Yeah, your feelings definitely make sense.”
If his car breaks down or he forgets an important document at home, swoop in and save the day.
Assume that when the two of you have plans, those plans are important to him. When you’ve made a promise to see him, show up on time.
9. Speak honestly with him.
Scorpios will immediately cut off anyone who lies to them.
Give him your genuine opinions when he asks and never lie to spare his feelings. If you make a mistake and are afraid of facing him, own up to it anyway. With a Scorpio man, lies will always be uncovered eventually—so show him he can trust you to tell the truth, even when it’s hard.
Aquarians are honest, sometimes brutally honest. When sharing an opinion he may not like, be gentle.
Instead of saying, "Yeah you're right, that coat is ugly," try, “No, I don’t necessarily love that coat. But I really like your red one!”
Be upfront with him if you make a mistake: “This is so hard to say, but I stained your favorite sweatshirt. I feel so bad, but I have to be honest with you.”
10. Show him that you’re independent.
A Scorpio likes their crush to be self-sufficient and self-possessed.
You both have a strong sense of self, so this is an area where you two really shine together. Aquarius, you might be the most independent sign in the zodiac, so lean into that. Spend time away from each other. Enjoy your hobbies, handle issues on your own, and work to achieve personal goals.
Dedicate a few nights a week to developing your skills. As an Aquarius woman, you probably have tons of fascinating, unique interests.
When your dishwasher mysteriously stops working, pull out the manual and fix it yourself. Or, let wikiHow help!
Log hours every week doing things that will bring you closer to your goals. Volunteer or write chapters for your sci-fi novel.
11. Bring on the passion in your relationship.
Scorpios crave intensity and emotional depth in all of their relationships.
To make your Scorpio man completely obsessed with you, focus on creating as much passion as possible. As an Aquarius woman, you might prefer that your relationships lean more cerebral than emotional. To meet him in the middle and totally attract him, intentionally create passionate moments in your relationship.
When an affectionate thought pops into your head, write it down. Give him your list at the end of each week. “I’m glad Yusuf is here with me. I love his laugh…”
Use your spontaneous nature to help drum up some passion. Decide suddenly to whisk him away for a weekend trip. He’ll love all the excitement!
Avoid leaving him hanging. When he mentions how much he cares about you, make a habit of returning the favor: "Thanks for saying that. I love you, too."
12. Offer him patience and understanding.
Scorpios may struggle with constant negative emotions, like anger.
Because they're so sensitive, Scorpios may lash out or get critical at times. Aquarius, use your natural levelheadedness to take this behavior in stride. Don't hold grudges, forgive him when you can, and when he apologizes, show understanding.
As an Aquarius woman, you probably already know how to set and maintain boundaries. With a Scorpio man, put even more focus on this practice.
Remember that any relationship you’re in should add to your life. Though forgiveness is an amazing thing, make sure the relationship still makes you happy, too.
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Turn the conversation back onto him constantly and provide vague responses to his questions.\\n“Oh, that reminds me of…actually, never mind. Have you seen a bathroom? I’m going to go find one. Be right back!”\\n“I hate talking about myself. I’d much rather learn more about you! How’d you get into graphic design? Did you always know that’s what you wanted to do?\\\"\\n“Yes, I did live in Berlin for a year. It was good—a little colder than I’d expected. Anyway, where have you lived in your life so far?”\\n5. Surprise him constantly.\\nTo Scorpios, trying to figure out an unpredictable crush is thrilling.\\nIf it’s difficult for him to understand what makes you tick, then he’ll be completely obsessed with you—so keep him on his toes. Make sure the very few personal details you share with him paint a shocking, complicated picture. 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Can I tell you a bit about what I took from the book?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Challenge his opinions.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios are attracted to honesty and authenticity in their partners.\", \"描述\": \"To prove you're not just telling him what he wants to hear, offer a gentle rebuttal to one of his opinions. Speak in a kind tone and keep your criticism light—because Scorpio men are sensitive. To ensure you're critiquing his argument and not him, stick to the facts. You're as analytical as it gets, Aquarius, so this won't be a challenge.\\n“You know, I see where you’re coming from, but I actually disagree. I think the author meant to wink at the reader because you see that again in chapter four.”\\n“Interesting. I get that, but I still think social media connects people more than it isolates them. Video chatting is huge for long-distance friendships.”\\n“Can I push back just a little bit? Sports can help kids learn resilience. So providing sports at school could help in the classroom. Don’t you think?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Create an air of mystery.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios are famous for loving complex, enigmatic people.\", \"描述\": \"Aquarius, “aloof” is your middle name. When chatting with a Scorpio man, reveal very little about yourself to make him obsessed with learning more. Hint at information that you never actually share with him. Turn the conversation back onto him constantly and provide vague responses to his questions.\\n“Oh, that reminds me of…actually, never mind. Have you seen a bathroom? I’m going to go find one. Be right back!”\\n“I hate talking about myself. I’d much rather learn more about you! How’d you get into graphic design? Did you always know that’s what you wanted to do?\\\"\\n“Yes, I did live in Berlin for a year. It was good—a little colder than I’d expected. Anyway, where have you lived in your life so far?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Surprise him constantly.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"To Scorpios, trying to figure out an unpredictable crush is thrilling.\", \"描述\": \"If it’s difficult for him to understand what makes you tick, then he’ll be completely obsessed with you—so keep him on his toes. Make sure the very few personal details you share with him paint a shocking, complicated picture. Use your Aquarius-esque knack for spontaneity to keep him on the edge of his seat, too.\\nShare a fact that makes him question how well he knows you: “I almost became an acrobat before I went to grad school. You didn't know that?”\\nShow up at his apartment with snacks, a great playlist, and directions for a random road trip.\\nInvite him to join you in an unusual activity. Surprise him with your interest in a kombucha brewing course or a LARP session in the park.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Tone down your flirtations with other people.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios can be prone to jealousy, so he'll want all of your attention.\", \"描述\": \"Even if you’re not actually seeing each other yet, flirt exclusively with your Scorpio crush at parties and gatherings. Seeing you chat up another person will make a Scorpio man less romantically interested in you, so instead of joking with, touching, and focusing on another potential crush, invest your time in him.\\nSome Aquarians enjoy connecting with others through super energized conversation. You may not see this as flirty behavior, but a Scorpio might.\\nWhile you’re trying to attract your Scorpio crush, play it safe by playing it cool. When you chat with someone else, stay relaxed, calm, and subdued.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Prove to him that you’re loyal.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Trustworthiness is the single most important quality to a Scorpio.\", \"描述\": \"To show him that he can trust you, keep his secrets safe and never talk about him behind his back. If he ends up in some kind of conflict, be on his team. This sign lives for intense, all-consuming relationships, and those require trust to survive. Aquarius women are super loyal, so make that clear to him through your actions.\\nIf someone is badgering you for info on your Scorpio crush, refuse them: “I’m not sure if he’d be okay with me sharing that, so I can’t tell you. I’m sorry!”\\nIf someone else talks behind his back around you, defend him: “Aw, I don’t think so. He’s intense, yeah, but it’s just because he cares. I like that about him.”\\nIf he ends up in a conflict, tell him that you’re on his side: “Hey, I just want you to know that I’ve got your back. I’m team George, 100%!”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Allow him to rely on you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios desire a partner who shows up when it really counts.\", \"描述\": \"Explain that if he ever needs help, you’ll be there. Then, make good on your promise. Offer him an empathetic ear when he needs to vent, help him out when he’s in a jam, and show up whenever you have plans. Aquarians have huge hearts and are dependable pals, so you shouldn’t have any issue impressing him.\\nWhen he’s down, validate his emotions to make him feel supported: “Wow, that sounds awful. Yeah, your feelings definitely make sense.”\\nIf his car breaks down or he forgets an important document at home, swoop in and save the day.\\nAssume that when the two of you have plans, those plans are important to him. 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2,810 | How to Attract a Scorpio Man As an Aries Woman | 1. Embrace the quirks that make you unique.
Scorpio guys are usually attracted to people who are different.
The cookie-cutter type won't turn a scorpion's head. He wants someone who has her own thing going on and is confident enough to own it. This doesn't mean faking it—he can smell that a mile away. Instead, give him a glimpse of who you really are through little things that make you so uniquely "you."
For example, maybe you have a conservative career and dress the part, but you have an eye-catching keychain that hints at your passion for the occult. Scorpios are known to be interested in the occult as well, so that's something he'll definitely notice.
A small accessory with a story behind it is also great. If he asks you about it, you have a ready-made conversation starter.
2. Give him hints that your personality has depth.
Try writing in a journal or reading a book around him.
The typical Scorpio is a bit of an onion himself—layers and layers—and he appreciates the same in another person. You'll catch his interest if it seems like you've got more going on under the surface than would appear at first glance.
Just a little something unexpected or out of the ordinary will stoke his curiosity. He'll be attracted because he'll feel like he just has to learn more about you, to find out all the different layers of your psyche.
But speaking of layers, you want to peel those back slowly. Don't tell him your whole life story on the first date—he's not likely to stick around if there's no mystery left.
3. Create opportunities for him to approach you alone.
The scorpion usually stays away if you're surrounded by friends.
This might be hard for you if you're the typical extroverted Aries who's always out with a bunch of people. But if you want to attract that Scorpio guy, make an effort to go out alone when you know you're likely to cross paths.
For example, if you always see him when you go to the local café with your friends, go by yourself at around the same time. If he's there, you'll have a greater chance of catching his eye.
Scorpio also tends to be attracted to confidence, and a woman out alone exudes confidence.
4. Skip the small talk and start a substantive discussion.
Most Scorpio men bore of small talk quickly.
Unless you're majoring in meteorology or are really passionate about climate change, talking about the weather isn't usually a great opener with a Scorpio. Instead, ask him a question about his hopes and dreams or something he's really passionate about and watch him open up and engage.
Remember that both Aries and Scorpio are ruled by Mars, the planet of passion. Stick to topics that ignite interest (yours or his)—even if you're into something he's not familiar with, he'll find your passion for the subject fascinating. Aries is a fire sign, so let him see some of that spark!
5. Listen actively when he talks about how he feels.
Emotions can be extremely important to the sensitive scorpion.
This might be a bit hard for you, Aries, since you typically want to talk about actions and results. The Scorpio guy often wants to talk about how he feels, and sometimes he just wants to vent—he's looking for empathy, not a solution.
You might get in the habit of asking him, "Are you looking for solutions or do you just want me to listen?" That helps you understand what he wants from you so he won't get upset at your reaction.
6. Cool down before you confront him about something upsetting.
Your quick, Aries temper can overwhelm an emotional Scorpio.
You're a fire sign, and you're known for a hot temper that can evaporate the still waters of your scorpion if you're not careful. Step away and take a few deep breaths to calm and ground yourself before you bring up problems.
If you do blow up on your scorpion, take ownership of your actions and your words and apologize as soon as possible. He'll forgive you—in time—if you show how much he means to you.
7. Share something you're passionate about with him.
Scorpio, like Aries, is also ruled by Mars, the planet of passion.
Your scorpion typically loves seeing you get really excited and enthralled by something. You don't have to worry about holding back with him—seeing you get really into something will make you attractive to him.
As an Aries, you're known to be eager and enthusiastic, so it shouldn't be hard for you to find something you love that you can share. It's even better if it's something he's not that familiar with, so you can teach him all about it.
Be careful if you have a tendency to jump from one thing to another. Scorpios tend to get obsessive about their interests, so if he sees you bouncing around from one thing to the next, he might think you're flaky or superficial—two traits he's not a fan of.
8. Stick to a single signature scent if you wear perfume.
Scorpios have the reputation for having a strong sense of smell.
A floral, spicy, or fruity signature scent will capture his attention and he'll notice it every time you're together. Over time, he'll come to associate it with you and it will fuel his attraction to you.
Essential oils work great for signature scents because they're often scents he'll come across throughout the course of his day. Every time he smells it, he'll be reminded of you.
9. Go on an outdoor adventure together.
Both Aries and Scorpio are known as adventurous signs.
The typical Aries is pretty active, so a hiking or camping adventure might be right up your alley. If you're not that into roughing it, you'll still have a lot of fun on a road trip going somewhere off the beaten path that the two of you can discover on your own.
For example, you might book a cabin in the woods next to a pristine lake. You can go boating or fishing during the day and cuddle up by the fire at night.
10. Challenge him to a game of strategy.
A Scorpio man typically enjoys opportunities to think strategically.
If you're a typical Aries woman, you have a competitive streak a mile wide—indulge it in a game of strategy, such as chess or checkers, that puts the two of you head-to-head. As the two of you become engaged in the game, the sparks are sure to fly.
There are plenty of other games that require strategic thinking if chess isn't your bag. Some classic 2-player games include Stratego, Scrabble, and Go. If you've got a couple of other players, you might try Risk or Catan.
11. Suggest a hard-hitting documentary to watch together.
A Scorpio man is typically attracted to deep and difficult subjects.
Scorpio guys tend to enjoy deep-dives into psychological subjects—they love analyzing things and figuring out what makes people tick. If you find something kind of out there, dealing with the paranormal or the occult, he'll probably really eat it up.
Plan on plenty of discussion afterward—your scorpion is sure to have lots of thoughts about what you just watched. If you're watching something at home, be prepared for frequent pauses so he can digest what just happened on screen.
12. Spend a night out indulging at a new fancy restaurant.
Scorpios are known to love indulging in quality food and drinks.
Going to a new restaurant can help satisfy your craving for something different, something exotic. And it gives him the opportunity to pamper his tastebuds, which he's always going to be down for. Win-win!
If, like a typical Aries, you're one for the grand romantic gesture, you might call the restaurant ahead of time and set up a special table and tasting menu for the two of you to savor.
13. Get adventurous in the bedroom.
Scorpio men are known for their passion and sexual magnetism.
One place scorpions typically aren't shy is in bed, get ready for some sparks. And don't be surprised if he breaks out the handcuffs!
Since both of your signs are ruled by Mars, it's likely the two of you will fight for dominance and really push each other's sexual limits—but your chemistry is raw, passionate, and primal.
14. Give your Scorpio guy enough quiet time to regroup.
If you're a typical extroverted Aries, you might not understand his need for alone time.
Scorpio guys tend to be more introverted and emotional. If your guy's this way, take it seriously when he says he needs some time alone. It's not you, it's him! Without enough alone time to recharge his batteries, he'll get cranky and shut down.
As an extrovert, this might be difficult for you to understand. Just think of it as the opposite of the antsy-ness you feel if you're sitting at home alone with nowhere to go.
15. Open up to him and let him get to know your true self.
A Scorpio guy won't stick around if he feels like you're putting on a front.
Above all, your scorpion needs you to be open and honest with him. If you're just saying whatever you think he wants to hear or trying to change yourself into his ideal woman so he'll fall for you, he'll figure it out eventually—and he won't like it.
The best thing you can do is open yourself up to him and let him get to know you as a person—warts and all! Don't pretend to be someone you're not. He'll have more appreciation for you if he can see that you're not putting on an act with him.
16. Give him time to open up.
The elusive scorpion tends to keep himself mysterious.
Getting to know a Scorpio man sometimes requires a little bit of patience, so don't expect him to tell you everything about him on the first date. This sensitive guy prefers to keep his vulnerabilities hidden until he's sure that he can trust you. Show him that you are trustworthy and solid, and eventually he will relax.
When he does reveal something deeper about himself, show that you understand and appreciate the trust that he's placed in you. You might say, "thank you so much for sharing that with me, it means a lot to know you trust me enough to talk about something so personal."
17. Avoid getting involved with other men.
If he's a typical Scorpio, he'll lose interest if he feels he has to compete.
A typical Scorpio gets jealous easily and isn't one to get involved with someone who's got eyes for anyone but him, so clear your dance card before you make a move. And, although this can be difficult for a typical Aries, try to keep your flirting with others to a minimum—especially when you're out with him.
This is an area where a Scorpio and an Aries can have problems, so you might find that you have to really watch yourself. Something that you see as harmless, meaningless flirting can really stoke a Scorpio's jealousy.
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Cool down before you confront him about something upsetting.\\nYour quick, Aries temper can overwhelm an emotional Scorpio.\\nYou're a fire sign, and you're known for a hot temper that can evaporate the still waters of your scorpion if you're not careful. Step away and take a few deep breaths to calm and ground yourself before you bring up problems.\\nIf you do blow up on your scorpion, take ownership of your actions and your words and apologize as soon as possible. He'll forgive you—in time—if you show how much he means to you.\\n7. Share something you're passionate about with him.\\nScorpio, like Aries, is also ruled by Mars, the planet of passion.\\nYour scorpion typically loves seeing you get really excited and enthralled by something. 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Over time, he'll come to associate it with you and it will fuel his attraction to you.\\nEssential oils work great for signature scents because they're often scents he'll come across throughout the course of his day. Every time he smells it, he'll be reminded of you.\\n9. Go on an outdoor adventure together.\\nBoth Aries and Scorpio are known as adventurous signs.\\nThe typical Aries is pretty active, so a hiking or camping adventure might be right up your alley. If you're not that into roughing it, you'll still have a lot of fun on a road trip going somewhere off the beaten path that the two of you can discover on your own.\\nFor example, you might book a cabin in the woods next to a pristine lake. You can go boating or fishing during the day and cuddle up by the fire at night.\\n10. Challenge him to a game of strategy.\\nA Scorpio man typically enjoys opportunities to think strategically.\\nIf you're a typical Aries woman, you have a competitive streak a mile wide—indulge it in a game of strategy, such as chess or checkers, that puts the two of you head-to-head. As the two of you become engaged in the game, the sparks are sure to fly.\\nThere are plenty of other games that require strategic thinking if chess isn't your bag. Some classic 2-player games include Stratego, Scrabble, and Go. If you've got a couple of other players, you might try Risk or Catan.\\n11. Suggest a hard-hitting documentary to watch together.\\nA Scorpio man is typically attracted to deep and difficult subjects.\\nScorpio guys tend to enjoy deep-dives into psychological subjects—they love analyzing things and figuring out what makes people tick. If you find something kind of out there, dealing with the paranormal or the occult, he'll probably really eat it up.\\nPlan on plenty of discussion afterward—your scorpion is sure to have lots of thoughts about what you just watched. If you're watching something at home, be prepared for frequent pauses so he can digest what just happened on screen.\\n12. Spend a night out indulging at a new fancy restaurant.\\nScorpios are known to love indulging in quality food and drinks.\\nGoing to a new restaurant can help satisfy your craving for something different, something exotic. And it gives him the opportunity to pamper his tastebuds, which he's always going to be down for. Win-win!\\nIf, like a typical Aries, you're one for the grand romantic gesture, you might call the restaurant ahead of time and set up a special table and tasting menu for the two of you to savor.\\n13. Get adventurous in the bedroom.\\nScorpio men are known for their passion and sexual magnetism.\\nOne place scorpions typically aren't shy is in bed, get ready for some sparks. And don't be surprised if he breaks out the handcuffs!\\nSince both of your signs are ruled by Mars, it's likely the two of you will fight for dominance and really push each other's sexual limits—but your chemistry is raw, passionate, and primal.\\n14. Give your Scorpio guy enough quiet time to regroup.\\nIf you're a typical extroverted Aries, you might not understand his need for alone time.\\nScorpio guys tend to be more introverted and emotional. If your guy's this way, take it seriously when he says he needs some time alone. It's not you, it's him! Without enough alone time to recharge his batteries, he'll get cranky and shut down.\\nAs an extrovert, this might be difficult for you to understand. 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Here, we've gathered some tips you can use to snag—and hold—that scorpion's attention.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Embrace the quirks that make you unique.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio guys are usually attracted to people who are different.\", \"描述\": \"The cookie-cutter type won't turn a scorpion's head. He wants someone who has her own thing going on and is confident enough to own it. This doesn't mean faking it—he can smell that a mile away. Instead, give him a glimpse of who you really are through little things that make you so uniquely \\\"you.\\\"\\nFor example, maybe you have a conservative career and dress the part, but you have an eye-catching keychain that hints at your passion for the occult. Scorpios are known to be interested in the occult as well, so that's something he'll definitely notice.\\nA small accessory with a story behind it is also great. If he asks you about it, you have a ready-made conversation starter.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Give him hints that your personality has depth.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Try writing in a journal or reading a book around him.\", \"描述\": \"The typical Scorpio is a bit of an onion himself—layers and layers—and he appreciates the same in another person. You'll catch his interest if it seems like you've got more going on under the surface than would appear at first glance.\\nJust a little something unexpected or out of the ordinary will stoke his curiosity. He'll be attracted because he'll feel like he just has to learn more about you, to find out all the different layers of your psyche.\\nBut speaking of layers, you want to peel those back slowly. Don't tell him your whole life story on the first date—he's not likely to stick around if there's no mystery left.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Create opportunities for him to approach you alone.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The scorpion usually stays away if you're surrounded by friends.\", \"描述\": \"This might be hard for you if you're the typical extroverted Aries who's always out with a bunch of people. But if you want to attract that Scorpio guy, make an effort to go out alone when you know you're likely to cross paths.\\nFor example, if you always see him when you go to the local café with your friends, go by yourself at around the same time. If he's there, you'll have a greater chance of catching his eye.\\nScorpio also tends to be attracted to confidence, and a woman out alone exudes confidence.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Skip the small talk and start a substantive discussion.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Most Scorpio men bore of small talk quickly.\", \"描述\": \"Unless you're majoring in meteorology or are really passionate about climate change, talking about the weather isn't usually a great opener with a Scorpio. Instead, ask him a question about his hopes and dreams or something he's really passionate about and watch him open up and engage.\\nRemember that both Aries and Scorpio are ruled by Mars, the planet of passion. Stick to topics that ignite interest (yours or his)—even if you're into something he's not familiar with, he'll find your passion for the subject fascinating. Aries is a fire sign, so let him see some of that spark!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Listen actively when he talks about how he feels.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Emotions can be extremely important to the sensitive scorpion.\", \"描述\": \"This might be a bit hard for you, Aries, since you typically want to talk about actions and results. The Scorpio guy often wants to talk about how he feels, and sometimes he just wants to vent—he's looking for empathy, not a solution.\\nYou might get in the habit of asking him, \\\"Are you looking for solutions or do you just want me to listen?\\\" That helps you understand what he wants from you so he won't get upset at your reaction.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Cool down before you confront him about something upsetting.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Your quick, Aries temper can overwhelm an emotional Scorpio.\", \"描述\": \"You're a fire sign, and you're known for a hot temper that can evaporate the still waters of your scorpion if you're not careful. Step away and take a few deep breaths to calm and ground yourself before you bring up problems.\\nIf you do blow up on your scorpion, take ownership of your actions and your words and apologize as soon as possible. He'll forgive you—in time—if you show how much he means to you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Share something you're passionate about with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio, like Aries, is also ruled by Mars, the planet of passion.\", \"描述\": \"Your scorpion typically loves seeing you get really excited and enthralled by something. You don't have to worry about holding back with him—seeing you get really into something will make you attractive to him.\\nAs an Aries, you're known to be eager and enthusiastic, so it shouldn't be hard for you to find something you love that you can share. It's even better if it's something he's not that familiar with, so you can teach him all about it.\\nBe careful if you have a tendency to jump from one thing to another. Scorpios tend to get obsessive about their interests, so if he sees you bouncing around from one thing to the next, he might think you're flaky or superficial—two traits he's not a fan of.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Stick to a single signature scent if you wear perfume.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios have the reputation for having a strong sense of smell.\", \"描述\": \"A floral, spicy, or fruity signature scent will capture his attention and he'll notice it every time you're together. Over time, he'll come to associate it with you and it will fuel his attraction to you.\\nEssential oils work great for signature scents because they're often scents he'll come across throughout the course of his day. Every time he smells it, he'll be reminded of you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Go on an outdoor adventure together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Both Aries and Scorpio are known as adventurous signs.\", \"描述\": \"The typical Aries is pretty active, so a hiking or camping adventure might be right up your alley. If you're not that into roughing it, you'll still have a lot of fun on a road trip going somewhere off the beaten path that the two of you can discover on your own.\\nFor example, you might book a cabin in the woods next to a pristine lake. You can go boating or fishing during the day and cuddle up by the fire at night.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Challenge him to a game of strategy.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio man typically enjoys opportunities to think strategically.\", \"描述\": \"If you're a typical Aries woman, you have a competitive streak a mile wide—indulge it in a game of strategy, such as chess or checkers, that puts the two of you head-to-head. As the two of you become engaged in the game, the sparks are sure to fly.\\nThere are plenty of other games that require strategic thinking if chess isn't your bag. Some classic 2-player games include Stratego, Scrabble, and Go. If you've got a couple of other players, you might try Risk or Catan.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Suggest a hard-hitting documentary to watch together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio man is typically attracted to deep and difficult subjects.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpio guys tend to enjoy deep-dives into psychological subjects—they love analyzing things and figuring out what makes people tick. If you find something kind of out there, dealing with the paranormal or the occult, he'll probably really eat it up.\\nPlan on plenty of discussion afterward—your scorpion is sure to have lots of thoughts about what you just watched. If you're watching something at home, be prepared for frequent pauses so he can digest what just happened on screen.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Spend a night out indulging at a new fancy restaurant.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios are known to love indulging in quality food and drinks.\", \"描述\": \"Going to a new restaurant can help satisfy your craving for something different, something exotic. And it gives him the opportunity to pamper his tastebuds, which he's always going to be down for. Win-win!\\nIf, like a typical Aries, you're one for the grand romantic gesture, you might call the restaurant ahead of time and set up a special table and tasting menu for the two of you to savor.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Get adventurous in the bedroom.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio men are known for their passion and sexual magnetism.\", \"描述\": \"One place scorpions typically aren't shy is in bed, get ready for some sparks. And don't be surprised if he breaks out the handcuffs!\\nSince both of your signs are ruled by Mars, it's likely the two of you will fight for dominance and really push each other's sexual limits—but your chemistry is raw, passionate, and primal.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Give your Scorpio guy enough quiet time to regroup.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"If you're a typical extroverted Aries, you might not understand his need for alone time.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpio guys tend to be more introverted and emotional. If your guy's this way, take it seriously when he says he needs some time alone. It's not you, it's him! Without enough alone time to recharge his batteries, he'll get cranky and shut down.\\nAs an extrovert, this might be difficult for you to understand. Just think of it as the opposite of the antsy-ness you feel if you're sitting at home alone with nowhere to go.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 15, \"标题\": \"Open up to him and let him get to know your true self.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio guy won't stick around if he feels like you're putting on a front.\", \"描述\": \"Above all, your scorpion needs you to be open and honest with him. If you're just saying whatever you think he wants to hear or trying to change yourself into his ideal woman so he'll fall for you, he'll figure it out eventually—and he won't like it.\\nThe best thing you can do is open yourself up to him and let him get to know you as a person—warts and all! Don't pretend to be someone you're not. He'll have more appreciation for you if he can see that you're not putting on an act with him.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 16, \"标题\": \"Give him time to open up.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The elusive scorpion tends to keep himself mysterious.\", \"描述\": \"Getting to know a Scorpio man sometimes requires a little bit of patience, so don't expect him to tell you everything about him on the first date. This sensitive guy prefers to keep his vulnerabilities hidden until he's sure that he can trust you. Show him that you are trustworthy and solid, and eventually he will relax.\\nWhen he does reveal something deeper about himself, show that you understand and appreciate the trust that he's placed in you. You might say, \\\"thank you so much for sharing that with me, it means a lot to know you trust me enough to talk about something so personal.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 17, \"标题\": \"Avoid getting involved with other men.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"If he's a typical Scorpio, he'll lose interest if he feels he has to compete.\", \"描述\": \"A typical Scorpio gets jealous easily and isn't one to get involved with someone who's got eyes for anyone but him, so clear your dance card before you make a move. And, although this can be difficult for a typical Aries, try to keep your flirting with others to a minimum—especially when you're out with him.\\nThis is an area where a Scorpio and an Aries can have problems, so you might find that you have to really watch yourself. Something that you see as harmless, meaningless flirting can really stoke a Scorpio's jealousy.\"}]}]}}",
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2,811 | How to Attract a Scorpio Moon Man | 1. Maintain his interest by being mysterious.
Scorpio moon men are always searching for what makes a person tick.
To Scorpio moon men, trying to finally understand their enigmatic crush will be an absolute thrill. So, surprise him constantly. Paint a complicated picture of yourself to him. While you two are still just getting to know each other, give very little personal details away.
In conversation, make sure you ask him more questions than you give him answers.
Deflect some of his questions to add an air of mystery: “Hmm…Ask me in a couple weeks. Not sure I’m ready to share that with you just yet.”
Throw in details about yourself that might surprise him: “I lived in Hong Kong for two years, then Milan, then Sydney. You didn’t know that?”
2. Teach him about a new perspective.
These men are curious and totally fascinated by others' psychology.
Offer him insight into a view he’s unfamiliar with, and he’ll think you're the most interesting person on the planet. Share an opinion, a perspective, or an experience that will capture his curiosity, and you’ll amaze any Scorpio moon man.
“When you grow up in a town of fewer than 200 people, everyone is connected. Sometimes it’s great. Other times, it's sort of suffocating.”
“This is a hot take, but I actually genuinely believe that I’d be happiest living completely off the grid, by myself. Want to hear why?”
“I worked on a cruise for five years, and let me tell you, it's not at all like what you'd expect. Want to hear more about it?"
3. Prove that you really get him.
Scorpio moons dream of feeling truly known by those close to them.
Men with this moon sign need to feel like you have a profound understanding of who they are as a person—so to make him fall for you, pay close attention. Stay curious, observant, and thoughtful when it comes to his behaviors and emotional patterns. Impress him with how intimately you know him, and he’ll be hooked.
Think critically about the emotions he shares with you: “I feel like I hear you talking about “shoulds” a lot. Do you put pretty high standards on yourself?”
Look out for patterns in his behavior: “I feel like I’ve seen you the most relaxed after you have lots of time to yourself. Do you think of yourself as an introvert?”
Remember the things he tells you, especially heavier, emotional details. By showing you understand him, you’ll make a Scorpio moon man feel seen.
4. Show him you’re emotionally sensitive.
In their heart of hearts, these men crave deep, emotional connection.
Scorpio moon men need intense, insightful, and honest conversations—so prove that you can handle those discussions, and he’ll feel super close to you. Scorpio moon men have complicated feelings hidden even deeper in their psyche than Scorpio suns. So, connect with him by offering empathy and emotional insight.
Be emotionally vulnerable with him: “I sometimes wonder if my fear of failure keeps me from doing the things I actually want to do.”
Ask him thoughtful questions: “That’s really interesting. When did that feeling first come up? Do you remember what brought it on?”
When he shares something, make sure you’re empathetic to it: “Wow, I bet that was hard to share, but those feelings make a lot of sense.”
5. Be his emotional rock.
Scorpio moon men face complicated, heavy emotions on the day to day.
To make yourself completely irresistible to a Scorpio moon man, be a safe haven for him. Be reliable, support him when he’s down, and nurture him through tougher times. Your kindness and steadiness will speak to him on a deep level, and he’ll start to crave your presence.
If you care for a Scorpio moon man, prioritize him. When he needs a shoulder to cry on, be the person who drops what they're doing and shows up.
When he’s had a challenging day, offer to boost his spirits. Bring by ice cream, take him to the movies, or write him an affectionate note.
If he gets upset in your company, do your best to take care of him. Offer him a hug, let him cry it out, and tell him that everything will be okay.
6. Gain his trust.
Men with Scorpio moons will have a deep-seated need for loyalty.
These men need to feel like they’re surrounded by a circle of trustworthy ride-or-dies, so do whatever you can to earn his trust. Keep his secrets close to the chest, stand by him during conflicts, and if anyone speaks negatively about your Scorpio moon crush, stick up for him.
If a mutual friend pesters you for info, keep your lips sealed: “I feel like Alan wouldn’t necessarily want me to share that with you…Sorry!”
If he ends up in some kind of argument, let him know that you’ve got his back: “Hey, I just want you to know that I’m on your team, Joaquin.”
If someone talks behind his back, exit the discussion: “Sorry, I can't be a part of this conversation. I actually really care about James."
7. Speak truthfully with him.
Scorpio moon men struggle to trust, so honesty will be key.
This moon sign has a profound need for authenticity and loyalty, so share your thoughts and feelings openly. Even when you have something tough to share, always choose to tell him the truth. Scorpio moon men need to know that others are being real with them, but they’re also sensitive—so be honest, but be tactful, too.
“Hey, this is is hard to say, but I have to be honest. I didn’t actually like The Sopranos. I know it’s your favorite show. I didn’t want to disappoint you!”
Steer away from honesty without sensitivity. Commenting, “I'll be embarrassed if you wear that shirt tonight,” would definitely hurt a Scorpio moon man.
Choose a gentler phrase, and he’ll appreciate your honesty: “You always look amazing, but the event is actually black-tie. I don't think that shirt will be formal enough.”
8. Turn away other interested parties.
A Scorpio moon man won’t be willing to share their crush with anyone.
For him to get to know you, he needs to feel like the two of you are entirely focused on one another—so, set your sights on him and him alone. He has a deep, intense need for loyalty, even in the beginning stages. Otherwise, worry and jealousy could end up being too much for him. To have a shot with him, focus entirely on your Scorpio moon crush.
Leave other suitors on read. If someone asks for your number or sends you a flirty text, choose not to follow up.
Stay friendly (not flirty) with others when you two attend a party. Avoid heavy touching and longing gazes—unless they're with your Scorp moon crush.
Tell him directly that you’re only interested in him: “Hey, I want you to know that I’m only interested in you. You’ve got my full attention and focus.”
9. Show him that you’re self-reliant.
Scorpio moon men will have an innate independent streak.
Deep down, these guys will always crave privacy, even from the people they care the most about. Because of this, he admires those who don't need anyone else to be happy. Go after your goals, handle problems on your own, and spend time bettering yourself. Then, make sure that he's aware of the time you're investing in yourself.
“I’m putting in extra hours this month because there’s this promotion that I think I could get. It’s a long shot, but I won’t know unless I try!”
“I’ve got this leak in my roof—how exciting, right? Anyway, I’m figuring it out, but we may need to meet at yours tonight.”
“Hey! Sorry, I actually can’t meet up tonight. I’m planning on going for a quick run then meeting with my writer’s group. How about tomorrow?”
10. Give him the space he needs.
Scorpio moons have a deep-rooted need for time spent alone.
As intensely as he’ll care for you, Scorpio moon men will crave time to reflect, recharge, and simply exist by themselves. Create a relationship dynamic that lets him maintain some independence and don't pack on the pressure, even if you miss him. Express that you want him to get what he needs in your partnership.
Before making nonstop plans together, offer him some space: “Hey, I noticed we have plans every weeknight. Want a night off to yourself?”
When you're spending time apart, hold off on texting him. When you blow up his phone, he may have a harder time with rest and recharging.
Communicate that you want him to find a balance: “I want you to get what you need and to feel good. You can always be honest if you need to be alone.”
11. Turn up the intensity in bed.
Scorpio moon men will be extremely in touch with their sexual instincts.
This makes them completely mind-blowing between the sheets. Meet him with the same passion and energy, and you’ll have him totally hooked on you. Get expressive and creative in bed, and when you feel inspired, don’t be afraid to share your wild ideas.
If you’re feeling turned on, make that clear during sex. Throw him some intense eye contact, make some noise, or tell him directly.
Throw in new moves and positions whenever you feel inspired. These men are super open to (and excited by!) fresh experiences during sex.
When you have a new idea, share it: “I was thinking, maybe we could incorporate heat play the next time we hook up? That could be fun.”
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Teach him about a new perspective.\\nThese men are curious and totally fascinated by others' psychology.\\nOffer him insight into a view he’s unfamiliar with, and he’ll think you're the most interesting person on the planet. Share an opinion, a perspective, or an experience that will capture his curiosity, and you’ll amaze any Scorpio moon man.\\n“When you grow up in a town of fewer than 200 people, everyone is connected. Sometimes it’s great. Other times, it's sort of suffocating.”\\n“This is a hot take, but I actually genuinely believe that I’d be happiest living completely off the grid, by myself. Want to hear why?”\\n“I worked on a cruise for five years, and let me tell you, it's not at all like what you'd expect. Want to hear more about it?\\\"\\n3. Prove that you really get him.\\nScorpio moons dream of feeling truly known by those close to them.\\nMen with this moon sign need to feel like you have a profound understanding of who they are as a person—so to make him fall for you, pay close attention. Stay curious, observant, and thoughtful when it comes to his behaviors and emotional patterns. Impress him with how intimately you know him, and he’ll be hooked.\\nThink critically about the emotions he shares with you: “I feel like I hear you talking about “shoulds” a lot. Do you put pretty high standards on yourself?”\\nLook out for patterns in his behavior: “I feel like I’ve seen you the most relaxed after you have lots of time to yourself. Do you think of yourself as an introvert?”\\nRemember the things he tells you, especially heavier, emotional details. By showing you understand him, you’ll make a Scorpio moon man feel seen.\\n4. Show him you’re emotionally sensitive.\\nIn their heart of hearts, these men crave deep, emotional connection.\\nScorpio moon men need intense, insightful, and honest conversations—so prove that you can handle those discussions, and he’ll feel super close to you. Scorpio moon men have complicated feelings hidden even deeper in their psyche than Scorpio suns. So, connect with him by offering empathy and emotional insight.\\nBe emotionally vulnerable with him: “I sometimes wonder if my fear of failure keeps me from doing the things I actually want to do.”\\nAsk him thoughtful questions: “That’s really interesting. When did that feeling first come up? Do you remember what brought it on?”\\nWhen he shares something, make sure you’re empathetic to it: “Wow, I bet that was hard to share, but those feelings make a lot of sense.”\\n5. Be his emotional rock.\\nScorpio moon men face complicated, heavy emotions on the day to day.\\nTo make yourself completely irresistible to a Scorpio moon man, be a safe haven for him. Be reliable, support him when he’s down, and nurture him through tougher times. Your kindness and steadiness will speak to him on a deep level, and he’ll start to crave your presence.\\nIf you care for a Scorpio moon man, prioritize him. When he needs a shoulder to cry on, be the person who drops what they're doing and shows up.\\nWhen he’s had a challenging day, offer to boost his spirits. Bring by ice cream, take him to the movies, or write him an affectionate note.\\nIf he gets upset in your company, do your best to take care of him. Offer him a hug, let him cry it out, and tell him that everything will be okay.\\n6. Gain his trust.\\nMen with Scorpio moons will have a deep-seated need for loyalty.\\nThese men need to feel like they’re surrounded by a circle of trustworthy ride-or-dies, so do whatever you can to earn his trust. Keep his secrets close to the chest, stand by him during conflicts, and if anyone speaks negatively about your Scorpio moon crush, stick up for him.\\nIf a mutual friend pesters you for info, keep your lips sealed: “I feel like Alan wouldn’t necessarily want me to share that with you…Sorry!”\\nIf he ends up in some kind of argument, let him know that you’ve got his back: “Hey, I just want you to know that I’m on your team, Joaquin.”\\nIf someone talks behind his back, exit the discussion: “Sorry, I can't be a part of this conversation. I actually really care about James.\\\"\\n7. Speak truthfully with him.\\nScorpio moon men struggle to trust, so honesty will be key.\\nThis moon sign has a profound need for authenticity and loyalty, so share your thoughts and feelings openly. Even when you have something tough to share, always choose to tell him the truth. Scorpio moon men need to know that others are being real with them, but they’re also sensitive—so be honest, but be tactful, too.\\n“Hey, this is is hard to say, but I have to be honest. I didn’t actually like The Sopranos. I know it’s your favorite show. I didn’t want to disappoint you!”\\nSteer away from honesty without sensitivity. Commenting, “I'll be embarrassed if you wear that shirt tonight,” would definitely hurt a Scorpio moon man.\\nChoose a gentler phrase, and he’ll appreciate your honesty: “You always look amazing, but the event is actually black-tie. I don't think that shirt will be formal enough.”\\n8. Turn away other interested parties.\\nA Scorpio moon man won’t be willing to share their crush with anyone.\\nFor him to get to know you, he needs to feel like the two of you are entirely focused on one another—so, set your sights on him and him alone. He has a deep, intense need for loyalty, even in the beginning stages. Otherwise, worry and jealousy could end up being too much for him. To have a shot with him, focus entirely on your Scorpio moon crush.\\nLeave other suitors on read. If someone asks for your number or sends you a flirty text, choose not to follow up.\\nStay friendly (not flirty) with others when you two attend a party. Avoid heavy touching and longing gazes—unless they're with your Scorp moon crush.\\nTell him directly that you’re only interested in him: “Hey, I want you to know that I’m only interested in you. You’ve got my full attention and focus.”\\n9. Show him that you’re self-reliant.\\nScorpio moon men will have an innate independent streak.\\nDeep down, these guys will always crave privacy, even from the people they care the most about. Because of this, he admires those who don't need anyone else to be happy. Go after your goals, handle problems on your own, and spend time bettering yourself. Then, make sure that he's aware of the time you're investing in yourself.\\n“I’m putting in extra hours this month because there’s this promotion that I think I could get. It’s a long shot, but I won’t know unless I try!”\\n“I’ve got this leak in my roof—how exciting, right? Anyway, I’m figuring it out, but we may need to meet at yours tonight.”\\n“Hey! Sorry, I actually can’t meet up tonight. I’m planning on going for a quick run then meeting with my writer’s group. How about tomorrow?”\\n10. Give him the space he needs.\\nScorpio moons have a deep-rooted need for time spent alone.\\nAs intensely as he’ll care for you, Scorpio moon men will crave time to reflect, recharge, and simply exist by themselves. Create a relationship dynamic that lets him maintain some independence and don't pack on the pressure, even if you miss him. Express that you want him to get what he needs in your partnership.\\nBefore making nonstop plans together, offer him some space: “Hey, I noticed we have plans every weeknight. Want a night off to yourself?”\\nWhen you're spending time apart, hold off on texting him. When you blow up his phone, he may have a harder time with rest and recharging.\\nCommunicate that you want him to find a balance: “I want you to get what you need and to feel good. You can always be honest if you need to be alone.”\\n11. Turn up the intensity in bed.\\nScorpio moon men will be extremely in touch with their sexual instincts.\\nThis makes them completely mind-blowing between the sheets. Meet him with the same passion and energy, and you’ll have him totally hooked on you. Get expressive and creative in bed, and when you feel inspired, don’t be afraid to share your wild ideas.\\nIf you’re feeling turned on, make that clear during sex. Throw him some intense eye contact, make some noise, or tell him directly.\\nThrow in new moves and positions whenever you feel inspired. These men are super open to (and excited by!) fresh experiences during sex.\\nWhen you have a new idea, share it: “I was thinking, maybe we could incorporate heat play the next time we hook up? That could be fun.”\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Scorpio moons are brooding, insightful, and totally intense—so if you're crushing on one of these mystery men, you've chosen well. When a man has their moon in Scorpio, it means they have a deep need for loyalty, emotional connection, and independence. Tapping into his moon's desires is the key to capturing his heart, and luckily, we've got all the intel you need. For all of the very best tips and tricks on how to attract a Scorpio moon man, read on.This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Maintain his interest by being mysterious.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moon men are always searching for what makes a person tick.\", \"描述\": \"To Scorpio moon men, trying to finally understand their enigmatic crush will be an absolute thrill. So, surprise him constantly. Paint a complicated picture of yourself to him. While you two are still just getting to know each other, give very little personal details away.\\nIn conversation, make sure you ask him more questions than you give him answers.\\nDeflect some of his questions to add an air of mystery: “Hmm…Ask me in a couple weeks. Not sure I’m ready to share that with you just yet.”\\nThrow in details about yourself that might surprise him: “I lived in Hong Kong for two years, then Milan, then Sydney. You didn’t know that?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Teach him about a new perspective.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"These men are curious and totally fascinated by others' psychology.\", \"描述\": \"Offer him insight into a view he’s unfamiliar with, and he’ll think you're the most interesting person on the planet. Share an opinion, a perspective, or an experience that will capture his curiosity, and you’ll amaze any Scorpio moon man.\\n“When you grow up in a town of fewer than 200 people, everyone is connected. Sometimes it’s great. Other times, it's sort of suffocating.”\\n“This is a hot take, but I actually genuinely believe that I’d be happiest living completely off the grid, by myself. Want to hear why?”\\n“I worked on a cruise for five years, and let me tell you, it's not at all like what you'd expect. Want to hear more about it?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Prove that you really get him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moons dream of feeling truly known by those close to them.\", \"描述\": \"Men with this moon sign need to feel like you have a profound understanding of who they are as a person—so to make him fall for you, pay close attention. Stay curious, observant, and thoughtful when it comes to his behaviors and emotional patterns. Impress him with how intimately you know him, and he’ll be hooked.\\nThink critically about the emotions he shares with you: “I feel like I hear you talking about “shoulds” a lot. Do you put pretty high standards on yourself?”\\nLook out for patterns in his behavior: “I feel like I’ve seen you the most relaxed after you have lots of time to yourself. Do you think of yourself as an introvert?”\\nRemember the things he tells you, especially heavier, emotional details. By showing you understand him, you’ll make a Scorpio moon man feel seen.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Show him you’re emotionally sensitive.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"In their heart of hearts, these men crave deep, emotional connection.\", \"描述\": \"Scorpio moon men need intense, insightful, and honest conversations—so prove that you can handle those discussions, and he’ll feel super close to you. Scorpio moon men have complicated feelings hidden even deeper in their psyche than Scorpio suns. So, connect with him by offering empathy and emotional insight.\\nBe emotionally vulnerable with him: “I sometimes wonder if my fear of failure keeps me from doing the things I actually want to do.”\\nAsk him thoughtful questions: “That’s really interesting. When did that feeling first come up? Do you remember what brought it on?”\\nWhen he shares something, make sure you’re empathetic to it: “Wow, I bet that was hard to share, but those feelings make a lot of sense.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be his emotional rock.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moon men face complicated, heavy emotions on the day to day.\", \"描述\": \"To make yourself completely irresistible to a Scorpio moon man, be a safe haven for him. Be reliable, support him when he’s down, and nurture him through tougher times. Your kindness and steadiness will speak to him on a deep level, and he’ll start to crave your presence.\\nIf you care for a Scorpio moon man, prioritize him. When he needs a shoulder to cry on, be the person who drops what they're doing and shows up.\\nWhen he’s had a challenging day, offer to boost his spirits. Bring by ice cream, take him to the movies, or write him an affectionate note.\\nIf he gets upset in your company, do your best to take care of him. Offer him a hug, let him cry it out, and tell him that everything will be okay.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Gain his trust.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Men with Scorpio moons will have a deep-seated need for loyalty.\", \"描述\": \"These men need to feel like they’re surrounded by a circle of trustworthy ride-or-dies, so do whatever you can to earn his trust. Keep his secrets close to the chest, stand by him during conflicts, and if anyone speaks negatively about your Scorpio moon crush, stick up for him.\\nIf a mutual friend pesters you for info, keep your lips sealed: “I feel like Alan wouldn’t necessarily want me to share that with you…Sorry!”\\nIf he ends up in some kind of argument, let him know that you’ve got his back: “Hey, I just want you to know that I’m on your team, Joaquin.”\\nIf someone talks behind his back, exit the discussion: “Sorry, I can't be a part of this conversation. I actually really care about James.\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Speak truthfully with him.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moon men struggle to trust, so honesty will be key.\", \"描述\": \"This moon sign has a profound need for authenticity and loyalty, so share your thoughts and feelings openly. Even when you have something tough to share, always choose to tell him the truth. Scorpio moon men need to know that others are being real with them, but they’re also sensitive—so be honest, but be tactful, too.\\n“Hey, this is is hard to say, but I have to be honest. I didn’t actually like The Sopranos. I know it’s your favorite show. I didn’t want to disappoint you!”\\nSteer away from honesty without sensitivity. Commenting, “I'll be embarrassed if you wear that shirt tonight,” would definitely hurt a Scorpio moon man.\\nChoose a gentler phrase, and he’ll appreciate your honesty: “You always look amazing, but the event is actually black-tie. I don't think that shirt will be formal enough.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Turn away other interested parties.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio moon man won’t be willing to share their crush with anyone.\", \"描述\": \"For him to get to know you, he needs to feel like the two of you are entirely focused on one another—so, set your sights on him and him alone. He has a deep, intense need for loyalty, even in the beginning stages. Otherwise, worry and jealousy could end up being too much for him. To have a shot with him, focus entirely on your Scorpio moon crush.\\nLeave other suitors on read. If someone asks for your number or sends you a flirty text, choose not to follow up.\\nStay friendly (not flirty) with others when you two attend a party. Avoid heavy touching and longing gazes—unless they're with your Scorp moon crush.\\nTell him directly that you’re only interested in him: “Hey, I want you to know that I’m only interested in you. You’ve got my full attention and focus.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Show him that you’re self-reliant.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moon men will have an innate independent streak.\", \"描述\": \"Deep down, these guys will always crave privacy, even from the people they care the most about. Because of this, he admires those who don't need anyone else to be happy. Go after your goals, handle problems on your own, and spend time bettering yourself. Then, make sure that he's aware of the time you're investing in yourself.\\n“I’m putting in extra hours this month because there’s this promotion that I think I could get. It’s a long shot, but I won’t know unless I try!”\\n“I’ve got this leak in my roof—how exciting, right? Anyway, I’m figuring it out, but we may need to meet at yours tonight.”\\n“Hey! Sorry, I actually can’t meet up tonight. I’m planning on going for a quick run then meeting with my writer’s group. How about tomorrow?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Give him the space he needs.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moons have a deep-rooted need for time spent alone.\", \"描述\": \"As intensely as he’ll care for you, Scorpio moon men will crave time to reflect, recharge, and simply exist by themselves. Create a relationship dynamic that lets him maintain some independence and don't pack on the pressure, even if you miss him. Express that you want him to get what he needs in your partnership.\\nBefore making nonstop plans together, offer him some space: “Hey, I noticed we have plans every weeknight. Want a night off to yourself?”\\nWhen you're spending time apart, hold off on texting him. When you blow up his phone, he may have a harder time with rest and recharging.\\nCommunicate that you want him to find a balance: “I want you to get what you need and to feel good. You can always be honest if you need to be alone.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Turn up the intensity in bed.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio moon men will be extremely in touch with their sexual instincts.\", \"描述\": \"This makes them completely mind-blowing between the sheets. Meet him with the same passion and energy, and you’ll have him totally hooked on you. Get expressive and creative in bed, and when you feel inspired, don’t be afraid to share your wild ideas.\\nIf you’re feeling turned on, make that clear during sex. 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2,812 | How to Attract a Scorpio Woman As an Aquarius Man | 1. Keep your flirty focus on her.
This Scorpion lady wants to be the center of your attention.
Keep things flirty, fun, and focused on her so she knows you're interested. She has a strong jealous streak and will be deeply hurt if she thinks you have eyes for any other woman, so put on your blinders while you get to know her and resist the temptation to play the field.
Blatant flirting or showing off for another woman—AKA betraying your Scoprio’s confidence—is a deal breaker for her.
Aquarians are naturally detached and helpful people, which might get mistaken as flirting by your Scorpio woman. Reassure her frequently that she's the only one you're in to.
2. Tell her about your accomplishments.
A Scorpio woman loves a determined man who uses his natural talents.
She’s ambitious, driven, and wants her partner to be as well. Fill her in on your biggest achievements, your goals at work, and anything else you’re successful at or passionate about. When she sees you both have a similar work ethic, she’ll fantasize about what you could achieve together. Highlight your accomplishments without bragging, like:
“I just got a promotion last month. It’s been fun taking on a leadership role.”
“In college, I was the NCWA wrestling champ.”
“I’m working on getting my nonprofit off the ground. We’re applying for NFP status next week!”
Scorpios are aggressive people that want to go get what they want. They’ll do whatever it takes to fulfill their desires. If you can hook her interest, that means she’ll go out of her way to be with you!
3. Try something new together.
Scorpio and Aquarius are both adventurous in their own ways.
Your fun and explorative nature combines well with her love of intrigue and mystery. Take her on a date somewhere she’s never been or plan an activity neither of you have done before. You may need to persuade her into thinking it will be worth it, but she’ll love anything where she can learn something new.
Try an unconventional first date idea like going to a flea market, taking an art or cooking class, or bouncing around a trampoline park.
She loves all things mysterious or spooky. Try a ghost tour, a niche museum, or taking a walk through a cemetery (some of them are really nice!).
A bar or restaurant with a unique or secretive atmosphere will appeal to her too. Try a speak-easy or going to a club where you need a password to get in.
4. Let her be the organizer.
Scorpios love to be in control, and they’re good at it too.
She’s decisive with her words and actions and is naturally a great leader. As a go-with-the-flow Aquarius, let her be in charge sometimes and follow her rules. Whether she’s planning a date or making a grocery list, she’ll tackle any task and make sure it’s enjoyable for both of you. Give her the option to take charge with phrases like:
“What do you think we should do this weekend?”
“You pick the movie tonight.”
“Hey, what should I wear to Jen’s party next week?”
Her love of being in charge applies to the bedroom too. If your relationship has gotten physical, try role playing and exploring different power dynamics to spice things up.
5. Reveal personal details to her slowly.
A Scorpio woman loves a puzzling, mysterious man.
If you’re too open at first, she might get bored because she feels like she figured you out too fast. Leave your full life story at home and drop personal details and stories sparingly. She’ll be super attracted to you if she thinks there’s a deep, hidden man to explore under the surface. Say things like:
“I’ll tell you about my most embarrassing moment…next time.”
“Long story short, I’m terrified of raccoons. I’ll explain later.”
“My wildest night out? That’s a story for another time.”
Don’t share much (or any) information about your past dating experiences at first. A Scorpio woman is suspicious and if you bad mouth an ex, she’ll think you’ll do the same to her too.
Scorpios sense and see people very clearly and it makes them a little quixotic. Be real and genuine about who you are, even if you’re trying to be a little mysterious.
6. Be your unconventional self.
She’ll be fascinated by your outside-the-box point of view.
Anything unconventional grabs her attention, so highlight the quirks that make you unique. Flaunt your wide variety of unusual knowledge and insight. You’re not one to walk the beaten path, and her curiosity about you will hold her attraction for a long time.
She'll be intrigued by anything uncommon you enjoy, like a really niche favorite author or a love of fostering local wildlife.
Tell her about anything rebellious you’ve done or protests you’ve gone to. She’s got a rebel streak herself and finds someone who doesn’t fit the mold attractive.
She likes control but appreciates a strong personality that can challenge her. Be confident and unintimidated to show her you have a strong sense of self.
7. Be very honest with her.
A Scorpio woman wants someone as blunt and brutally honest as her.
She’ll walk away after any whiff of a lie or betrayal, so stay open and truthful at all times. Aquarians are generally honest people but sometimes bend the truth to spare someone’s feelings. Resist that urge and be 100% honest, no matter what.
If there’s something you can’t or don’t want to tell her, just say you’re not ready to fill her in. She’ll respect your honesty and you can open up to her at your pace.
She’ll always prefer to be in the know and hash out an issue than to find out later you’ve been withholding something from her.
Scorpio is a very tense sign. She won’t relax around you until you’ve shown you’re accountable, upfront, and trustworthy.
8. Respect her feelings.
A Scorpio woman likes a man who can understand her inner needs.
She keeps things close to the chest and is attracted to someone who gets the ebb and flow of her deep emotions (and as a water sign, there is a lot of ebb and flow). Give her space to work through her feelings and try to empathize with her:
“Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?”
“I’m here for you if you need anything!”
“I’m sorry you’re going through it. Let me know when you’re up to hanging out.”
Don’t tease her or try to ease her out of a slump with humor. She’ll interpret it as uncaring or a betrayal.
Air signs are more emotionally detached than water signs. Even if you don’t understand why she’s upset or emotional, continue to support her and be patient.
9. Let her have privacy.
Scorpios are secretive and need lots of alone time to decompress.
They get uncomfortable when they feel like someone is prying into their personal lives or their time, so avoid interrogating her. If she does open up to you, never tell anyone about her innermost feelings (she’ll take your secrets to the grave and expects the same from you).
Respecting a Scorpio woman’s obsessive need for privacy and control is very attractive to her.
As an Aquarius, you need space as well. Stay somewhat aloof so she thinks about and misses you while you’re apart.
10. Take things at her slow pace.
A Scorpio woman isn’t one to jump into a relationship.
She’s suspicious about new people, and if you come on too strong or seem provocative, she’ll walk away without another thought. Leave space for her curiosity and desire to grow—grand gestures and impulsive romantic moments will only amplify her distrust.
Stay flirtatious while she susses you out. Sensual looks and touches, combined with your air sign wit, are very alluring to her.
Slowly build trust with her through gestures of devotion—listening to her, trying new things together, respecting her privacy—than cutesy or sentimental acts.
11. Let her know you’re open to a relationship.
A Scorpio woman prefers an ongoing relationship over a fling.
She has an intense all-or-nothing personality that doesn’t take half-measures. If you want to pursue a Scorpio woman, make it clear to her you’re open to a long-term relationship. You don’t have to commit on the spot, but she needs to know it’s a possibility. Tell her something like:
“I’m open to an LTR with the right person.”
“I’m looking for a woman to settle down with.”
“I’d like to find someone who gets me and who wants to stick around for a while.”
Aquarians blend love and friendships, so there may not be a clear line where one ends and the other begins. Think hard about your feelings toward your Scorpio woman before pursuing her seriously.
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When she sees you both have a similar work ethic, she’ll fantasize about what you could achieve together. Highlight your accomplishments without bragging, like:\\n“I just got a promotion last month. It’s been fun taking on a leadership role.”\\n“In college, I was the NCWA wrestling champ.”\\n“I’m working on getting my nonprofit off the ground. We’re applying for NFP status next week!”\\nScorpios are aggressive people that want to go get what they want. They’ll do whatever it takes to fulfill their desires. If you can hook her interest, that means she’ll go out of her way to be with you!\\n3. Try something new together.\\nScorpio and Aquarius are both adventurous in their own ways.\\nYour fun and explorative nature combines well with her love of intrigue and mystery. Take her on a date somewhere she’s never been or plan an activity neither of you have done before. You may need to persuade her into thinking it will be worth it, but she’ll love anything where she can learn something new.\\nTry an unconventional first date idea like going to a flea market, taking an art or cooking class, or bouncing around a trampoline park.\\nShe loves all things mysterious or spooky. Try a ghost tour, a niche museum, or taking a walk through a cemetery (some of them are really nice!).\\nA bar or restaurant with a unique or secretive atmosphere will appeal to her too. Try a speak-easy or going to a club where you need a password to get in.\\n4. Let her be the organizer.\\nScorpios love to be in control, and they’re good at it too.\\nShe’s decisive with her words and actions and is naturally a great leader. As a go-with-the-flow Aquarius, let her be in charge sometimes and follow her rules. Whether she’s planning a date or making a grocery list, she’ll tackle any task and make sure it’s enjoyable for both of you. Give her the option to take charge with phrases like:\\n“What do you think we should do this weekend?”\\n“You pick the movie tonight.”\\n“Hey, what should I wear to Jen’s party next week?”\\nHer love of being in charge applies to the bedroom too. If your relationship has gotten physical, try role playing and exploring different power dynamics to spice things up.\\n5. Reveal personal details to her slowly.\\nA Scorpio woman loves a puzzling, mysterious man.\\nIf you’re too open at first, she might get bored because she feels like she figured you out too fast. Leave your full life story at home and drop personal details and stories sparingly. She’ll be super attracted to you if she thinks there’s a deep, hidden man to explore under the surface. Say things like:\\n“I’ll tell you about my most embarrassing moment…next time.”\\n“Long story short, I’m terrified of raccoons. I’ll explain later.”\\n“My wildest night out? That’s a story for another time.”\\nDon’t share much (or any) information about your past dating experiences at first. A Scorpio woman is suspicious and if you bad mouth an ex, she’ll think you’ll do the same to her too.\\nScorpios sense and see people very clearly and it makes them a little quixotic. Be real and genuine about who you are, even if you’re trying to be a little mysterious.\\n6. Be your unconventional self.\\nShe’ll be fascinated by your outside-the-box point of view.\\nAnything unconventional grabs her attention, so highlight the quirks that make you unique. Flaunt your wide variety of unusual knowledge and insight. You’re not one to walk the beaten path, and her curiosity about you will hold her attraction for a long time.\\nShe'll be intrigued by anything uncommon you enjoy, like a really niche favorite author or a love of fostering local wildlife.\\nTell her about anything rebellious you’ve done or protests you’ve gone to. She’s got a rebel streak herself and finds someone who doesn’t fit the mold attractive.\\nShe likes control but appreciates a strong personality that can challenge her. Be confident and unintimidated to show her you have a strong sense of self.\\n7. Be very honest with her.\\nA Scorpio woman wants someone as blunt and brutally honest as her.\\nShe’ll walk away after any whiff of a lie or betrayal, so stay open and truthful at all times. Aquarians are generally honest people but sometimes bend the truth to spare someone’s feelings. Resist that urge and be 100% honest, no matter what.\\nIf there’s something you can’t or don’t want to tell her, just say you’re not ready to fill her in. She’ll respect your honesty and you can open up to her at your pace.\\nShe’ll always prefer to be in the know and hash out an issue than to find out later you’ve been withholding something from her.\\nScorpio is a very tense sign. She won’t relax around you until you’ve shown you’re accountable, upfront, and trustworthy.\\n8. Respect her feelings.\\nA Scorpio woman likes a man who can understand her inner needs.\\nShe keeps things close to the chest and is attracted to someone who gets the ebb and flow of her deep emotions (and as a water sign, there is a lot of ebb and flow). Give her space to work through her feelings and try to empathize with her:\\n“Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?”\\n“I’m here for you if you need anything!”\\n“I’m sorry you’re going through it. Let me know when you’re up to hanging out.”\\nDon’t tease her or try to ease her out of a slump with humor. She’ll interpret it as uncaring or a betrayal.\\nAir signs are more emotionally detached than water signs. Even if you don’t understand why she’s upset or emotional, continue to support her and be patient.\\n9. Let her have privacy.\\nScorpios are secretive and need lots of alone time to decompress.\\nThey get uncomfortable when they feel like someone is prying into their personal lives or their time, so avoid interrogating her. If she does open up to you, never tell anyone about her innermost feelings (she’ll take your secrets to the grave and expects the same from you).\\nRespecting a Scorpio woman’s obsessive need for privacy and control is very attractive to her.\\nAs an Aquarius, you need space as well. Stay somewhat aloof so she thinks about and misses you while you’re apart.\\n10. Take things at her slow pace.\\nA Scorpio woman isn’t one to jump into a relationship.\\nShe’s suspicious about new people, and if you come on too strong or seem provocative, she’ll walk away without another thought. Leave space for her curiosity and desire to grow—grand gestures and impulsive romantic moments will only amplify her distrust.\\nStay flirtatious while she susses you out. 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She has a strong jealous streak and will be deeply hurt if she thinks you have eyes for any other woman, so put on your blinders while you get to know her and resist the temptation to play the field.\\nBlatant flirting or showing off for another woman—AKA betraying your Scoprio’s confidence—is a deal breaker for her.\\nAquarians are naturally detached and helpful people, which might get mistaken as flirting by your Scorpio woman. Reassure her frequently that she's the only one you're in to.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Tell her about your accomplishments.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio woman loves a determined man who uses his natural talents.\", \"描述\": \"She’s ambitious, driven, and wants her partner to be as well. Fill her in on your biggest achievements, your goals at work, and anything else you’re successful at or passionate about. When she sees you both have a similar work ethic, she’ll fantasize about what you could achieve together. Highlight your accomplishments without bragging, like:\\n“I just got a promotion last month. It’s been fun taking on a leadership role.”\\n“In college, I was the NCWA wrestling champ.”\\n“I’m working on getting my nonprofit off the ground. We’re applying for NFP status next week!”\\nScorpios are aggressive people that want to go get what they want. They’ll do whatever it takes to fulfill their desires. If you can hook her interest, that means she’ll go out of her way to be with you!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Try something new together.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpio and Aquarius are both adventurous in their own ways.\", \"描述\": \"Your fun and explorative nature combines well with her love of intrigue and mystery. Take her on a date somewhere she’s never been or plan an activity neither of you have done before. You may need to persuade her into thinking it will be worth it, but she’ll love anything where she can learn something new.\\nTry an unconventional first date idea like going to a flea market, taking an art or cooking class, or bouncing around a trampoline park.\\nShe loves all things mysterious or spooky. Try a ghost tour, a niche museum, or taking a walk through a cemetery (some of them are really nice!).\\nA bar or restaurant with a unique or secretive atmosphere will appeal to her too. Try a speak-easy or going to a club where you need a password to get in.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Let her be the organizer.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios love to be in control, and they’re good at it too.\", \"描述\": \"She’s decisive with her words and actions and is naturally a great leader. As a go-with-the-flow Aquarius, let her be in charge sometimes and follow her rules. Whether she’s planning a date or making a grocery list, she’ll tackle any task and make sure it’s enjoyable for both of you. Give her the option to take charge with phrases like:\\n“What do you think we should do this weekend?”\\n“You pick the movie tonight.”\\n“Hey, what should I wear to Jen’s party next week?”\\nHer love of being in charge applies to the bedroom too. If your relationship has gotten physical, try role playing and exploring different power dynamics to spice things up.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Reveal personal details to her slowly.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio woman loves a puzzling, mysterious man.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re too open at first, she might get bored because she feels like she figured you out too fast. Leave your full life story at home and drop personal details and stories sparingly. She’ll be super attracted to you if she thinks there’s a deep, hidden man to explore under the surface. Say things like:\\n“I’ll tell you about my most embarrassing moment…next time.”\\n“Long story short, I’m terrified of raccoons. I’ll explain later.”\\n“My wildest night out? That’s a story for another time.”\\nDon’t share much (or any) information about your past dating experiences at first. A Scorpio woman is suspicious and if you bad mouth an ex, she’ll think you’ll do the same to her too.\\nScorpios sense and see people very clearly and it makes them a little quixotic. Be real and genuine about who you are, even if you’re trying to be a little mysterious.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Be your unconventional self.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"She’ll be fascinated by your outside-the-box point of view.\", \"描述\": \"Anything unconventional grabs her attention, so highlight the quirks that make you unique. Flaunt your wide variety of unusual knowledge and insight. You’re not one to walk the beaten path, and her curiosity about you will hold her attraction for a long time.\\nShe'll be intrigued by anything uncommon you enjoy, like a really niche favorite author or a love of fostering local wildlife.\\nTell her about anything rebellious you’ve done or protests you’ve gone to. She’s got a rebel streak herself and finds someone who doesn’t fit the mold attractive.\\nShe likes control but appreciates a strong personality that can challenge her. Be confident and unintimidated to show her you have a strong sense of self.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Be very honest with her.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio woman wants someone as blunt and brutally honest as her.\", \"描述\": \"She’ll walk away after any whiff of a lie or betrayal, so stay open and truthful at all times. Aquarians are generally honest people but sometimes bend the truth to spare someone’s feelings. Resist that urge and be 100% honest, no matter what.\\nIf there’s something you can’t or don’t want to tell her, just say you’re not ready to fill her in. She’ll respect your honesty and you can open up to her at your pace.\\nShe’ll always prefer to be in the know and hash out an issue than to find out later you’ve been withholding something from her.\\nScorpio is a very tense sign. She won’t relax around you until you’ve shown you’re accountable, upfront, and trustworthy.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Respect her feelings.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio woman likes a man who can understand her inner needs.\", \"描述\": \"She keeps things close to the chest and is attracted to someone who gets the ebb and flow of her deep emotions (and as a water sign, there is a lot of ebb and flow). Give her space to work through her feelings and try to empathize with her:\\n“Is there anything I can do to make you feel better?”\\n“I’m here for you if you need anything!”\\n“I’m sorry you’re going through it. Let me know when you’re up to hanging out.”\\nDon’t tease her or try to ease her out of a slump with humor. She’ll interpret it as uncaring or a betrayal.\\nAir signs are more emotionally detached than water signs. Even if you don’t understand why she’s upset or emotional, continue to support her and be patient.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Let her have privacy.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Scorpios are secretive and need lots of alone time to decompress.\", \"描述\": \"They get uncomfortable when they feel like someone is prying into their personal lives or their time, so avoid interrogating her. If she does open up to you, never tell anyone about her innermost feelings (she’ll take your secrets to the grave and expects the same from you).\\nRespecting a Scorpio woman’s obsessive need for privacy and control is very attractive to her.\\nAs an Aquarius, you need space as well. Stay somewhat aloof so she thinks about and misses you while you’re apart.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Take things at her slow pace.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio woman isn’t one to jump into a relationship.\", \"描述\": \"She’s suspicious about new people, and if you come on too strong or seem provocative, she’ll walk away without another thought. Leave space for her curiosity and desire to grow—grand gestures and impulsive romantic moments will only amplify her distrust.\\nStay flirtatious while she susses you out. Sensual looks and touches, combined with your air sign wit, are very alluring to her.\\nSlowly build trust with her through gestures of devotion—listening to her, trying new things together, respecting her privacy—than cutesy or sentimental acts.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Let her know you’re open to a relationship.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A Scorpio woman prefers an ongoing relationship over a fling.\", \"描述\": \"She has an intense all-or-nothing personality that doesn’t take half-measures. If you want to pursue a Scorpio woman, make it clear to her you’re open to a long-term relationship. You don’t have to commit on the spot, but she needs to know it’s a possibility. Tell her something like:\\n“I’m open to an LTR with the right person.”\\n“I’m looking for a woman to settle down with.”\\n“I’d like to find someone who gets me and who wants to stick around for a while.”\\nAquarians blend love and friendships, so there may not be a clear line where one ends and the other begins. Think hard about your feelings toward your Scorpio woman before pursuing her seriously.\"}]}]}}",
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