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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Did I make a mistake? How long until this stops hurting? POST: I [M/20] broke up with my gf [19] of almost two years in the middle of December. We both go to separate colleges about 3 hours apart, and have been dating since the end of our senior year in high school. We've almost always been a LDR, except over breaks where I come home and stay with my parents, who live near where she lives and goes to college. I ended it because I felt that our relationship hasn't been growing when we were apart, despite phone and Skype calls. We're very different (she a performance major, me an engineer), and I often felt like we had nothing in common to talk about. When we're together, everything was great, but apart the best our relationship was was stagnant. It's been about six weeks now, and I still think about and miss her every day. She was my first, and my first love. I want to be friends with her, but we've hardly talked since the breakup, as I think it's too painful for both of us. When I think about how it hurt her, and hard it was, I still tear up. TL;DR: . Assistant:	How long until it stops hurting to think about? Why do I regret this so much, even though I think I did the right thing?	How long until it stops hurting to think about? Why do I regret this so much, even though I think I did the right thing?	1,343
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I don't really get what the issue here is between me [24/M] and my [19/F] girlfriend. Little help? POST: So I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now. It's been great, I've seen her twice/three times a week for the whole duration. Good times. But she's moved back home with her parents after university for the summer so we're finding it hard to see each other as much, naturally. I work so can normally stay over a night or two before I head back home. All completely fair right? I have a job, I need to earn money! Anyway we've arranged a weekend at hers next weekend. I was looking forward to it, so was she but today out of the blue I get a 'I bet you won't stay 3 nights' text and when I questioned it I got told 'everything you say seems to be an excuse to leave' This all seemed totally and completely unwarranted. I hadn't said anything to ignite this and now she's a bit cold with me even though we didn't even have an argument really, just me questioning the whole thing. Seems like she wants me to stay forever just because I have loads of time away from work (I have a lengthy period from work for a month or so). It just seems a bit petty and I don't really understand it all. What's she getting at? Why does she have an attitude with me when really I have the right to be the one annoyed? Just some clarification would be great! TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend questions how long I will stay at her parents house and insinuates I always have excuses to leave which isn't true at all.	girlfriend questions how long I will stay at her parents house and insinuates I always have excuses to leave which isn't true at all.	5,671
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Update 2] I [18 M] want to ask out a girl [18 F] out on a date, general tips needed. POST: [Original]( (Clarification on this one, I didn't mean the one as the girl I wanted to marry) TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girl ignored me again, I cease conversation. Happen to run into her on campus. Should I try talking to her again?	Girl ignored me again, I cease conversation. Happen to run into her on campus. Should I try talking to her again?	470
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My cousin touches me when I'm asleep, Reddit, what should I do? POST: I'm a 25 year old female, and living with my aunt and uncle until I can get back on my feet. For now, I sleep in the living room on a cot. For the past few months I have, on several occasions, awoken in the middle of the night to my cousin either touching me or standing over my bed. The touches haven't been anywhere sexual, mostly my feet, and a couple of times my leg or stomach (still incredibly uncomfortable). It has only been in the past 2 months that I have been aware of this behavior, but previous to this there have been times when he went out of his way to "bump" into my feet under the table, or to sit close to me and touch my arm. Lately, when I have woken up to these unwanted touches, I tell him to leave me alone, and he backs off quickly, without a word. I have told my sister, who also sleeps nearby, and she tries to keep an eye out for me when she stays up late. We can't really say anything to my aunt or uncle because of our living situation, and our belief that they would take their son's side over ours, especially without proof. I find myself dreading going to sleep, and I've completely stopped talking to my cousin, opting to avoid all contact with him at all. He seems to show no remorse for his actions, especially after the first time I blatantly caught him in the act and told him for the first time to leave me alone. I can't stand this! What do I do? What's wrong with him? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My cousin touches me when I'm asleep, I can't tell my aunt and uncle because of my living situation, what do?	My cousin touches me when I'm asleep, I can't tell my aunt and uncle because of my living situation, what do?	6,377
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Need help with my ex POST: So my ex-girlfriend [17] and I [19] have been dating on in off since our Middle school years. Over the course of the past couple years we have dated about 3 times. the first two time we broke up we have already talked about and I have admitted it was my fault because I was simply too in experienced in dating to be able to hold up a good relationship; however, the last time we broke up which was the end of last November it was because she became very controlling and clingy and me still being in highschool (a senior at the time) was trying to figure out college and had a lot on my plate so I couldn't handle her as a high maintenance girlfriend right then so I suggested a break until everything had calmed down and she blew it out of proportions. I had every intent of getting back together with her in a couple weeks after I had finished all of my applications and semester exams but she wouldn't have any part of it. Well now she is visiting from out of town and she has been texting me telling me how she's missed me and missed seeing me even though she has a boy friend right now and she wants to get together and talk everything out in hopes of getting back together. I love this girl I know I do and while dating she was the most important person in my life but now I'm not sure what to do. My head is telling me she hasn't really changed and she will be the same controlling person I was with before yet I feel like we could work this out, and my heart is yelling at me to take her back. Idk what to do about it please give me some advice guys. TL;DR: . Assistant:	my ex girlfriend wants to get back together after a couple months and I have no idea if I should go back to her in fear of it being a repeat of last time	my ex girlfriend wants to get back together after a couple months and I have no idea if I should go back to her in fear of it being a repeat of last time	5,062
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: (26/f) No longer attracted to boyfriend (27/m). Keep waiting, or break it off and remain friends? POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and for the past few months I just haven't been attracted to him. It's gotten to the point where I don't even like snuggling with him most of the time and I usually feel like I'm just waiting for sex to be over when it does happen. I have a pretty high libido and don't think that's the issue since I still masturbate frequently and fantasize about other people. He is still 100% into me, it almost seems like he's even more attracted to me than ever. When we first started dating, the attraction was definitely mutual, but I'm having a hard time remembering what turned me on about him. Now he just seems more like a relative or platonic friend. The problem is, this is the best relationship I've ever been in in every other way. We get along great and have similar interests, and literally everyone who knows us can't stop talking about what a perfect couple we are. I used to love hearing that, but now I just feel kind of sick because I know there's this huge issue. I've tried to identify things that might have led to this change. Obviously moving out of the initial honeymoon phase is going to lead to a decreased level of attraction, but it shouldn't be this extreme. My boyfriend has had some mounting health issues lately - he has back problems that have gotten worse, and some sort of digestive issues. This has caused him to come off as sort of weak and mopey a lot of the time, which isn't exactly attractive. Again, I don't feel like these issues should cause such a dramatic change in my feelings. I feel like if we broke up, we would remain close friends since we get along so well. Right now, that is appealing to me since that's basically how I feel towards him. I would really prefer to fix the attraction issue though, since we work so well in a relationship otherwise. I also know it would absolutely destroy him if I ended things, since he is head over heels for me. I honestly don't know what to do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend and I are perfect for each other, but I've recently stopped feeling sexually attracted toward him in any way and don't know if I should wait and hope the attraction comes back, or end things and move forward as friends.	My boyfriend and I are perfect for each other, but I've recently stopped feeling sexually attracted toward him in any way and don't know if I should wait and hope the attraction comes back, or end things and move forward as friends.	3,231
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with my Boyfriend[22 M] of over three years, having problems with balancing boundaries and kink POST: Early on in our relationship my boyfriend and I had a porn tumblr blog together. We didn't post videos of ourselves (two or three nudes but that's it) but used it more to explore our kinks and look at others together. We are both into BDSM, pet play, but not heavy or 24/7. After moving in with family for a few months for financial reasons we dropped the blog because we didn't want any younger relatives to find it on our computer and we just haven't restarted it since. Although we had discussed the difference between doing things together and alone, and laid down cheating guidelines (look but don't touch, not even webcam sex) I recently had to let him know that replying to craigslist personals is cheating in my book. He is apologetic and willing to stop/change his habits but I'm worried. We have talked about threesomes before (he is bisexual) but now I am not sure because of the nature of his exchanges with strange women (no men replied to him, not sure if it's from lack of trying or what) I am now very paranoid that he thinks our relationship is open and/or that he will continue this in secret. He says he wouldn't have done anything physical without talking to me first but that he does find the idea of sex with a stranger or an occasional hook up arousing. He followed up by saying that he would rather explore these feelings within our relationship either through role playing or fantasizing and will not act on them. He has since shown me all the emails, deleted them and even agreed to counseling if needed (for himself for this and other issues he has been having). Is there anyway to continue being monogamous while still being into pornography and kink or does it open the door too much? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Kinky Boyfriend has permission to look but not touch, but now has been messaging women online(it's stopped now)/ Can we keep our monogamy and still be somewhat open online or is it too temping?	Kinky Boyfriend has permission to look but not touch, but now has been messaging women online(it's stopped now)/ Can we keep our monogamy and still be somewhat open online or is it too temping?	2,384
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] have a huge crush on my counselor. POST: I understand the whole transference thing and having a crush on your counselor is fairly common. But I swear to god that the feeling is mutual. I've had counselor in the past and none have been like this. I've dated many girls and I know the queues. Yea I could be way off but this isn't the main reason for my post. SO because I have it in my head that it is mutual, I keep having these fantasies of firing her as my counselor and asking her out. She is only a registered clinical counselor so there is no law that she has to wait before going on a date. I totally understand that this sounds completely outlandish and it most likely is soooo... Maybe this should be part of my counseling. I have read all over the internet that if you start developing feelings for your counselor that you should tell them. I feel extremely shy to do it. I literally honestly do want to date her, if we met under any other circumstances we probably would. So what do I do? Just tell her? Fire her and ask her on a date? Just ignore these feelings entirely (don't like this one because it's hindering). Mainly it would be nice to hear from someone who went through something similar? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I want to date my counselor. I have a crush on her and I swweeaar the feeling is mutual. Should I tell her in session about my feelings, or should I just ignore them?	I want to date my counselor. I have a crush on her and I swweeaar the feeling is mutual. Should I tell her in session about my feelings, or should I just ignore them?	1,311
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I can't enjoy music anymore because of an obsessive tendancy. What can I do? POST: Ok basically this started with a pair of malfunctioning headphones and has now escalated into something which is affecting my day to day life. So one day my headphones broke, one ear went and so I had to buy a new pair. This ended up happening more than once, so i started becoming cautious and regularly checking. Eventually it happened again, with the bass going in one side. This is when the checking started becoming obsessive, I really started to try and hear any slight differences in the sound in either ear to check if any new problems were developing. It got to the point where I couldn't tell anymore and any slight differences bothered me. Eventually I got over the obsessive checking but it left me with a really unpleasant side effect: I can no longer actively enjoy music. When I try to listen to music on an mp3 player I end up just listening to the differences between headphones and not to the actual music itself and I can't stop myself doing it, kind of like when you pick out a particular rhythm in a song and you can't help but only notice that rhythm. This doesn't seem like a big deal apart from the fact music is a driving force in my life and I hoped to get into a career in music journalism after finishing university. You might say "just stop listening to music on your mp3 player" which I would do, but now the whole mess has tainted my enjoyment of music in other formats... simply because any music reminds me that I have this problem. This is causing me to become depressed and I just want to enjoy music again. I'm going to seek advice from a professional and hopefully get congnitive therapy but I wanted to know if anyone else has advice or has suffered similar problems and can give their two cents worth. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Obsessively focusing on the sound of both headphones and i can't stop myself, what can I do to stop this habit?	Obsessively focusing on the sound of both headphones and i can't stop myself, what can I do to stop this habit?	5,097
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29 F] unfriended my ex-bf [30 M] of 5 months, We're getting along well lately, should I "friend" him? POST: Things in our relationship were going well. And we had one fight and it ended. We didn't talk for 3 weeks. And then I decided to unfriend him. I didn't want to keep seeing his posts on fb. Ever since i unfriended him, he's been talk/texting me more often. And we've been friendly. We aren't dating and we aren't getting back together. I feel kind of immature to even ask this, but now that we are on speaking terms I want to add him again, but I feel that he'll see it as kind of childish that I am unfriending then re-friending him. Should I friend him? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I've been getting along well with my ex lately, should I add him on fb again? or will it seem silly/childish?	I've been getting along well with my ex lately, should I add him on fb again? or will it seem silly/childish?	5,819
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] with my ?? [25 F] weeks, - she's moving faster than the Starship Enterprise. POST: Ok so after breaking up with my partner of 4 years last month, my friends/family encouraged me to get out there, meet folk, be merry. I did this, at the suggestion of one of my friends I joined a dating site. I met someone who despite living far away said she often visited my area for work. We had a good time chatting but honestly I just got this real strong friend vibe from it. We casually flirted, she was really graphic on what she wanted to do, and like an awkward idiot I just kind of nodded and said "wow great." We talk everyday and she'd been hinting towards the idea that we were dating (we've never met in person). I don't know why but I was like ok and I went with it. I didn't see a harm in it. Unknown to me, she meant that we were an item, a couple if you will. I thought it meant we were two people seeing if we wanted more. I could handle that. Now she's telling me about how her sister has seen me on Facebook, her family and friends know about me, and like I haven't told anyone bar one guy about her and even that was "Well she's nice but there's no spark." The problem is, and I'm not proud of admitting this, I worry that if I say I just want to be friends I will actually lose the friendship. She is great to talk to, and we have a lot of good conversations but there's just not that spark on my end, she just feels like one of the guys to me. If I'm brutally honest, she's really helping me forget about my ex and while there's nothing romantic there I really could see us being great friends. What on earth do I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Idiotic man failed to spot warning signs and fell into relationship he did not wish to be in, now trying to careful exit the bear trap lined ditch he has fallen into.	Idiotic man failed to spot warning signs and fell into relationship he did not wish to be in, now trying to careful exit the bear trap lined ditch he has fallen into.	1,133
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24f] with bf [26m] of 8 months, uncomfortable with him going to a strip club (see more info inside) POST: Hi Reddit, Well the title says it all: I am uncomfortable with my man going to a strip club. While I have no issues with him watching porn, it makes me uncomfortable at the thought of him going to a strip club. I have gone to a SC a few times, and each time I was danced upon and so were the men in my group. This makes me uncomfortable. My bf is going for a bachelor party, and he hasn't seen this friend for a couple years. I told him that I was uncomfortable with him going but that I was not going to stop him if he wanted to go. The party is this Friday. To complicate things further (in my mind), is the fact that we have been having an issue in the bedroom lately. Mainly, my libido is higher than his, and he has turned down sex twice in the last two weeks. We have sex a decent amount, but he initiates less and less and it makes me feel unattractive. Last night I initiated sex, and when I went down on him he went completely "dead fish" on me. When I asked him what was wrong he said he was "hoping to get into it, but that he wasn't into it yet." This was after I had been rubbing and teasing him for almost 15 minutes and been sucking him off for a couple of minutes. We have talked about our difference in sex drives a couple of times, and he swears to me that he is "insanely attracted" to me and that he just "doesn't want sex all the time." (He has had two LTR, and in both sex dwindled to about once a month by the end of it.) So, I guess I am just trying to reconcile him wanting to go to a strip club and see other naked women when he doesn't want to pay attention to the one he has at home. It's bothering me a lot. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend is going to a strip club at the same time our sex life is dwindling. I feel unattractive due to the changes in our sex life.	My boyfriend is going to a strip club at the same time our sex life is dwindling. I feel unattractive due to the changes in our sex life.	3,823
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [24/F] wanted to break up with me [23/F] - did I wrong her? POST: We've dated for about a month and a half. She wanted a serious relationship. To preface the situation - she told me about a time when she was having exams, and she vomited. Her parents or boyfriend at the time would take care of her. I came down with a bad fever and was coughing blood. I took a week off school and work. She took time off studying to spend half a day taking care of me. Two days later, she has her final exam. While I'm at home recovering, she calls me to let me know that she feels extremely ill and threw up in the middle of her exam. I tell her that she should call 911 immediately as I won't be able to come to her and she does that, and is hospitalized for the day. I do not visit her, as I feel quite sick and fear that I may have passed something to her. The next day, she goes home to recover, but is still feeling quite down. I go to visit my parents to pick up some mail. I ask if she needs anything at this time, and she declines, telling me that she doesn't need me to help her now. A week later, she tells me that she wants to break up over the situation. Her friend had to take care of her in the hospital, and he asked where her boyfriend (me) was. She also pointed out that I was feeling good enough to visit my parents. I was still coughing blood and had a fever at that point, and wasn't thinking very clearly. I had feared that I may have passed something to my girlfriend and that visiting her in the hospital could be bad for both of us. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend takes care of me while I'm very sick, then vomits during final exam 2 days later. I didn't visit her in the hospital, and she wanted a breakup after that. Am I negligent in this situation?	Girlfriend takes care of me while I'm very sick, then vomits during final exam 2 days later. I didn't visit her in the hospital, and she wanted a breakup after that. Am I negligent in this situation?	330
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] have lied to my girlfriend [19 F] of two years about going to the gentlemens club once POST: I went to a Genteens club with a few friends during university. I never told my girlfriend of two years I went. She had to find out from someone else. I know what I did is wrong and horrible. I don't deserve her. She has begun to loose my trust. I love her and I made a terrible mistake. She loves me we want to spend the rest of our lives together even though we are barely 19. I have done nothing else. I just want to know if there's anyway things can change. If I can do something to make her trust me again. I just want a place to vent or if anyone has similar stories. Love is a hard thing. TL;DR: . Assistant:	went to a Gentlemens club, girlfriend found out from someone else. Any advice on trust or anything at all really.	went to a Gentlemens club, girlfriend found out from someone else. Any advice on trust or anything at all really.	1,004
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Relationship Problems? POST: Ok, so i am a 20 year old guy, currently dating a 20 year old girl. We both go to the same college, live in the same town, etc. We started dating in February, and its been really nice. But, that's kind of the problem right now. There's no excitement, which I know is just the 'honeymoon period being over', or however you'd like to phrase that. Don't worry, there's more. We've never talked about anything serious (politics, religion, the future...), just because it's never really come up. It's been nice and relaxed, but I want more and I'm not sure if she does. I know I need to talk to her about that, but how do I bring it up? The impetus for all of these feelings is.... another girl. Who I like and think about a lot. She's 21, also goes to this college, and is the same major as I am. I probably started getting attracted to her because I helped her through breaking up with this guy who was kind of a tool. And now I've determined this - Given the magical ability to alter reality, I'd rather be dating the second girl than the girl I currently am dating. I don't know if she likes me, but I think so. I'm just feeling weird about all this because, well... its a weird situation. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Currently dating Girl #1, have a crush on Girl #2. Girl #1 likes me, I think Girl #2 does too. Thoughts?	Currently dating Girl #1, have a crush on Girl #2. Girl #1 likes me, I think Girl #2 does too. Thoughts?	5,750
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (18M) want to ask out a girl (18F) whom I haven't had contact with in 4 years POST: So I had this huge crush on this girl during my years in middle-school (Gr. 6-Gr.8) and I'm certain she felt the same, but we were both too nervous to do anything about it. When high-school started we both went to different schools and never had any contact since. I tried to forget about her, but I couldn't and it has caused me to not want to ask any other girl out. After meeting an old friend from middle-school, who went to the same high-school as she did, I came to learn that she attends a university near mine. This friend has rekindled a flame, but I have no clue how to ask her out, let alone approach her. How do I go about doing so? Is it even possible? I should also mention I have her as a friend on FB and the fact that she's also single. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I want to ask a girl, whom I haven't had contact with since Gr. 8, out on a date. Advice?	I want to ask a girl, whom I haven't had contact with since Gr. 8, out on a date. Advice?	2,379
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Tips on leaving a life behind (25f) POST: I moved to the west coast chasing the American dream and fell madly in love with a boy shortly thereafter. I was pretty sure he was "the one" and I ended up moving where he lived, a few hours away where I knew nobody but him. Several years later we're still together, still happy. We share a house with some great friends and have several pets. I guess I'm doing pretty well at the American dream bit. In the last year, though, I've realized that it just feels like I'm living another person's life, like I'm on a neverending vacation. I'm thousands of miles away from everyone I know and love and it just feels wrong, like I'm living a lie. I'm still happy with my boyfriend but have known for the last year or so that it's not going to last forever -- we have incompatible life goals and more than anything, I miss being alone. I know I need to get out of here but I don't know how. I wish there was some way to explain to my boyfriend that it's just my time to go but I know no matter how I word it he is going to be devastated and angry. I've broken enough hearts and ruined enough lives ... I don't want to do that to another person but I can't keep dragging this out forever. Is there any way I can avoid destroying him? **The final question and TL;DR: . Assistant:	I think as soon as I give the news I'm leaving, all hell is going to break loose for a few months. I'm looking for tips on limiting the damage.	I think as soon as I give the news I'm leaving, all hell is going to break loose for a few months. I'm looking for tips on limiting the damage.	1,596
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the biggest lie you've ever told? POST: It occurred to me just now that when I was smaller I used to lie a lot. I told some serious whoppers in my time. The week before my ex and I split, I spent some time at a hotel room with this guy I knew, anyway we hung out and..you know. Had sex. Suffice to say my neck was covered in huge Hickeys that were EXTREMELY visible, and had turned into a dark red discolouration by the morning. So when I got home and saw my partner I looked her straight in the eye and said 'oh god, I got bit by a spider last night when I was walking to the shops!'. I felt so incredibly guilty and horrible for it. But she somehow believed me. We broke up shortly afterwards because I couldn't stand the fact I was cheating on her, and because we were all kinds of wrong for each other. But that is another story. So reddit. What's the biggest lie you've ever told. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Cheated on my girlfriend with a man, got covered in Hickeys. Pretended it was a spider bite.	Cheated on my girlfriend with a man, got covered in Hickeys. Pretended it was a spider bite.	881
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my boyfriend [32 M] of 6 months, we hardly ever have sex and it's killing my self-esteem. Need some perspective. POST: I'm in a fairly new relationship with a great man. He's not perfect but neither am I and for the most part I think that things are going very well. We laugh a lot together and I definitely miss him when we're apart. In a short time he's become an important part of my life that I don't want to lose. All that being said... the last 2 months or so we have only had sex probably 4 or 5 times. I know that for a lot of people who have been together a long time that wouldn't be unusual but for a relatively young couple who have only been together 6 months I feel like we should be doing it much more often. I am always the one who initiates and he often will huff and act like it's a chore but give in to make me happy. Last night it had been 2 weeks and we were finally about to be intimate again but he wasn't able to stay aroused. I was mortified but tried not to make a big deal about it because I didn't want him to be embarrassed either. At this point I'm really starting to think that he's just not sexually attracted to me. He's a British expat (I live in Texas) and doesn't know many people here so I'm thinking more and more that he's with me just so that he's not alone on the weekend and that he may not have sexual or romantic feelings about me at all. I can feel myself becoming more self conscious and withdrawing from him but I don't know how to stop it. If I try to speak to him about it he just rolls his eyes and tells me that I'm over analyzing everything. I know enough about men to logically understand that this may not be about me at all but might be about stress or something else that he's dealing with on his own but I can't help that every time he rejects me it feels like a slap in the face. A sexless relationship isn't something that I'm willing to consider long term so I want to nip this in the bud before that's what we're left with. Any advice is appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend rarely wants to have sex and I take it personally every time he rejects me. Now I'm wondering if he's attracted to me at all.	Boyfriend rarely wants to have sex and I take it personally every time he rejects me. Now I'm wondering if he's attracted to me at all.	1,012
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: NSV - two of them! Yoga and sexy boots - all in the same day :) POST: I've been wanting to post one of these for so long since it's been a while since I could say I've had a significant SV. Yesterday I went to a yoga class for the first time in about 3 years and it was great. I felt strong and honestly I didn't feel like I looked that bad either. Not great, but not bad. I wasn't hating myself during the class so that's at least something. Then by the evening I felt like crap about myself again. The negative thinking started in and I was telling myself that going to yoga didn't really matter because it wasn't a very hard class and that there was really no point in my trying to look better because I was always going to be fat and ugly. In spite of all the bad things I was telling myself last night I decided to go to another yoga class again this morning. This time it was a hard class. I struggled through some of the more difficult poses but I still did it and while I certainly wasn't the best in the class, I wasn't struggling the most either. Then after the class, because I was feeling pretty good about myself, I decided to go shopping. While at the store I tried on a pair of knee high leather boots. AND THEY FIT! This may not sound like a big deal but in the past when I wanted to buy a pair of tall boots, I couldn't find any that were wide enough in the calf for me. Believe it or not, this was the first time since just after high school when I was skinny and underweight that I've been able to put on a pair of boots like that. Unfortunately I couldn't buy them because they were too expensive but who cares, the point is that my fat legs were not the reason I couldn't have them. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I ignored all the bad things I've been thinking about myself and worked out anyway and I guess my legs are not as fucking huge as I thought.	I ignored all the bad things I've been thinking about myself and worked out anyway and I guess my legs are not as fucking huge as I thought.	5,467
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (M21) need advice on how to get my girl(/woman)friend (F35) to understand that I don't hide things from her, I just communicate differently. POST: As the title says I'm 21yo male in a 9 month relationship with a 35yo female. She has been very upset recently with me recently (to the point of saying she no longer wants to be in a relationship) because I was on the phone with her and texting another person at the same time. Her rationale is not that I was talking to the person whilst texting her (even though I think that is a big issue to her) but that I should have told her that I was texting the person instead of finding out from the person the next day. She has always said that she hates hearing things about me from other people. I.e. when someone has told her something about me that I have told them that she did not know. I've always told her that I don't hide things from her: I'm just the kind of person who isn't very talkative and doesn't always volunteer information and tends to mention something if the topic comes up in a conversation,however if I am asked something I will readily and willingly answer. I have however tried to be more open with her. I don't want to lose her. How do I phrase a good apology for not informing her about something I knew she would have wanted to know but absentmindedly didn't mention? How do I explain my communication style in a manner that will get her to understand? p.s. I have schizoid personality disorder (SPD), I think that is a contributory factor to how I communicate. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I dont volunteer info as much as my gf would like. How do I apologise and make her see that I mean nothing by it?	I dont volunteer info as much as my gf would like. How do I apologise and make her see that I mean nothing by it?	3,376
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What were some of the most interesting things you've seen on a camera SD card that you've found? POST: So this story starts during a cleaning expedition of my college dorm room. When moving the dresser I discovered an all black SD card or a reasonable size (no longer in my possession. I cannot remember the exact number). Being the Curious George that I am I decided to delve into the contents. One of the things that stood out the most and I can still recall to this day is a "striptease" (no nudity involved) video a girl did where she pranced around and proceeded to take off TWELVE layers of shirts before getting tired although it seemed as if she had more. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Found SD card while cleaning. Had a video of a girl dancing as she took off 12 shirts. What about you?	Found SD card while cleaning. Had a video of a girl dancing as she took off 12 shirts. What about you?	5,222
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my SO [18F] I just don't know what she wants... POST: The thing is that I been dating this girl for almost two months, but she has a boyfriend... When we first started talking she used to tell me about how shity this guy was with her, for example, he never took her out for dinner, never visited her, he prefered going out with his friends to drink, and almost never sends messages to her. The thing is that she tells me that she loves me and wants to be with me, but she doesn't break up with this guy... I made her confess to me that she still likes the guy a little, and that's hard for her to let him go. Then, that's not it... she got into this political party, in which young people like her go a participate with the candidate. Therefore, the coordinador from the party asked her to be his secretary, he's 25 years old. Since she got into it, she became different... she's cold and I been trying to let her go and become cold and when she sees that am about to leave her for sure, she start becoming sweet again... So there are two problems her boyfriend, and this new 25 year old guy that wants to get with her. One could think, dude what the fuck are you doing there? But she helps and is friend with my brother, who's got a mental disease that makes him process as a 10 year old at his 18 years old, in school. There hasn't been a girl good enough to actually help my bro out, because many lose their patience... She good with him and makes him happy... she's leaving her boyfriend, according to her,next week so we can be together, but I'm still thinking about it because of the other guy... I suppose she's way too confused about her feelings... but whatever it is I want it to be over... I don't know if she really loves me or I'm just a game... TL;DR: . Assistant:	She's got a boyfriend, and someone else is after her and she is falling little by little... but I feel like she's playing with my feelings even though she sometimes it seems like she actually loves me.	She's got a boyfriend, and someone else is after her and she is falling little by little... but I feel like she's playing with my feelings even though she sometimes it seems like she actually loves me.	4,617
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend(24f) and I (28m) have been dating 3 minths and go out a lot after work and she gets hit on a lot at bars. I think her personality/behavior sends the wrong message to men. POST: Me(M28) and my girlfriend(F24) have been dating 2 months, we work together and will go to local bars after work. We work a job where we interact with many people from town. When we go out guys are constantly coming up to her and talking to her(which i have zero problem with) but tye problem i have is she comes off as almost flirty and will hug people as they come up to say goodbye to us. To me it gives off the vibe that she is flirting with them. One guy actually came to our work and gave her his phone number. Now im no bitch i say something to these men when it bothers me. My question is, would it be wrong to tell her being friendly and hugging men goodbye gives off a vibe that she is available or interested? Is it wrong that i ask her to tone it down a bit with that kind of thing. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend comes off as flirty to men and hugs them goodbye when we go to bars. Was wondering if im wrong to be upsetm	girlfriend comes off as flirty to men and hugs them goodbye when we go to bars. Was wondering if im wrong to be upsetm	3,098
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What does it mean when a guy [24M] says "I don't know about all of that" to my friend[23F] POST: I'm asking this on the behalf of my friend. She was dating a guy for about a month and she broke it off because she was unsure and she kept going back and forth on her decision. And then he didn't want to deal with it anymore so they stopped talking. He dated another girl fort three months whom he ended up breaking up with. During which my friend texted him and asked to be friends, he told her he liked another girl and doesn't think it's a good idea because he wasn't ready for it. Then after they broke up, she texted him and asked to be friends. He said "Maybe we could be friends, I'm not sure how close she'll be. She said "I'll text you in about a week to hang out if you're up for it. He said "Yea I don't know about all that yet" Now my friend wants to invite him out to meet up with her and her friends when they go out for her birthday. Should she? For the record, I don't think she should. Also she wants me to ask, is this getting to desperate? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Friend is hung up on an ex she was back and forth with. The last time she asked him to hang out he said "I don't know about that." Now she wants to try again, should she?	Friend is hung up on an ex she was back and forth with. The last time she asked him to hang out he said "I don't know about that." Now she wants to try again, should she?	5,265
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Several of my friends at university are on track to have jobs at graduation or go to high level professional schools. What's your excuse, 99% people in college? POST: One is going to UNC pharm school, another will attend Hopkins medical school, one has a job in his field (statistics) practically in the bag after graduating. Yesterday, my friend got offered a job in I-banking and will make 6 figures out of college. I want to know, why is it that most of you cannot realize that if you are good at what you do, or show yourself to be in the upper echelon of students, you can get a great job and be wildly successful. Did any of you ever stop to think about how if you stopped complaining, took some classes that teach useful analytical skills (calculus, finance, organic chemistry e.g.) and did well in them, and made friends with professors and people at employer conventions at your school, you would have a great chance of being successful and having everything you want? It seems like the self esteem generation is finally getting the message, "Most of you are losers out of your own fault, and losers have never been successful," and they are in denial for the most part. I do realize there are extenuating circumstances (no college, although national merit scholars are offered boatloads of money, especially if they are low SES), but for the most part college students all seem to be victims of their own mediocrity. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Most college grads who can't get jobs have no foresight or are just plain mediocre with no skills of any value.	Most college grads who can't get jobs have no foresight or are just plain mediocre with no skills of any value.	1,992
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by squirting on my keyboard. POST: I'm going to start off by saying that this actually happened a few weeks ago, but I never thought to post it in here. I have a friend that lives in another country to me and let's just say that we aren't exactly shy with each other. Now, with that said, we do have Skype sex (if that's what you call it). This guy knows how to get me off and how to finish me by telling me to do the right things. I knew that I could squirt before I met this person, but damn, I never knew how much. To be as blunt as possible, he told me what fingers to use that could get me to squirt more. So there I was, lying on my bed with my laptop in front of me whilst I was at it, and once I began squirting I seriously could not control the direction of it. At the time I didn't care. It was fucking good. It was afterwards that I noticed my fuck up. My laptop screen and whole keyboard was literally soaked. It looked like I spilt a cup of water over it. Instantly I knew it was broken. I cleaned it up so fast but keys began typing letters without being clicked and my screen was going crazy. When I did type, the wrong symbols would appear in relation to what keys I pressed. My friend told me to leave it to dry and it might work but found it hilarious overall. Next time I turned it on, a super loud beeping noise came out of my speakers during the start up screen. Still does this every so often as well. Week after, I did it again on my phone screen (you would have thought I learnt my lesson) and now my charging port/sometimes my volume is fucked. I'm still suffering to this day. Currently saving for a new computer because my laptop is a piece of shit and enjoys typing crap all the time. TL;DR: . Assistant:	A rather talented friend made me squirt more than usual, resulting in a drenched cumputer that has it's own brain.	A rather talented friend made me squirt more than usual, resulting in a drenched cumputer that has it's own brain.	4,913
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by smiling at a cute girl in the elevator POST: I was walking into the elevator in my apartment building on the 7th floor, as I enter I see a cute girl so I smile as I walk in (as I smile when I see any cute girl) I turn to the right to press the lobby button and as I look to the right (my blind spot) I see her big ass buff boyfriend shit gets awkward as he stares me down, still I decide to stand next to her and between him because after all, it is an elevator how much space do you have. He then moves to go hold his girls hand and then looks at me like i'm crazy (LOL) I don't know if he thought I was hitting on his girl or something but that wasn't even the case (but she was cute) we're all just standing there as we descend 7 awkward floors before we get out and part ways. The most awkward part of this all is I see this guy while i'm doing my laundry, he lives one floor above me so I often see him in the elevator when he does so now every time I see him he'll probably remember me as the guy who tried to hit on his girl. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I smiled at a cutie while her boyfriend was next to me in an elevator. He lives one floor above me.	I smiled at a cutie while her boyfriend was next to me in an elevator. He lives one floor above me.	4,124
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend has had a lot of family members passing away lately and I don't know how to comfort her anymore. POST: In the past 5 months she has been to three funerals. She's only 18 and eventhough she's a really strong person, it's too much for her to handle. We keep a long distance relationship so I can't go to her and comfort her in person, only via MSN for now. Just 30 minutes ago her grandmother passed, she doesn't know what to do with herself and she guilts herself for what happened. She got 20.000 DKK (danish currency) as a christmas present from her grandmother in the mail minutes after she had found out her grandmother passed. She guilts herself with the fact that when she visited her grandma yesterday, she said "Good night, I will see you tomorrow" but never did. I'm running out of words to tell her, Reddit; help me please. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Long distance relationship girlfriend has had a lot of family members taken away from her, don't know what to tell her anymore that will make her feel better.	Long distance relationship girlfriend has had a lot of family members taken away from her, don't know what to tell her anymore that will make her feel better.	4,668
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I think I just overheard a plot for a murder or something like it and am unsure what to do. POST: I was going to the bathroom and my shower has one of those vents that opens up to outside. In my apartment building, the vent leads to the back porch where I step out now and then for a smoke, and I have about an 8 inch wide by 5 inch tall window I can look out of and hear things pretty clearly. While going to the bathroom, I could overhear a scruffy voice, maybe a guy in his late 40's or so, talking to 2 younger kids about his time in jail. I was pretty much intrigued at this point, so I decided to start eavesdropping on the conversation. He explains to them what it's like in jail and talks about how they have to wear red jumpsuits and things like that. Conversation progresses and most of it is hard to hear, but I start picking up on things that weird me out. Like saying, "How would we split up the 40mil?" "You might lose your father, but I lost my mother so I can sympathize." Talking about "taking care of" something. Before they left, one of the younger people disappeared for a few seconds, there was silence, and then when he returned I could hear what sounded like guns cocking and taking out the clips and putting them back in, and the older guy said, "Careful with that." They left, and I sat in the bathroom just kind of shaken and unsure what I had just overheard. I just moved to this neighborhood and the people in my building are kind of strange and I'm not sure if I'm in the best location. Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I can't imagine anything "innocent" about what they were discussing. TL;DR: . Assistant:	People talking outside on the porch about "taking care of" something, talks of dividing large amounts of money, talks of prison, and what sounded like guns cocking. Not sure what to do.	People talking outside on the porch about "taking care of" something, talks of dividing large amounts of money, talks of prison, and what sounded like guns cocking. Not sure what to do.	2,930
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Family using painful nickname and i want them to stop. [25F] [24F] [28F] POST: My Uncle passed away last week. I loved him like a father and he helped pay for my college. He called me 'Ladybug' as a nickname and always has. Since he has passed, I just don't want to be known by that. My sister [28F] [24F]and cousin have been calling me this because it reminds them of him. We got into an argument over it. I told them I don't want to be called Ladybug, it's something special I shared with my Uncle. I want to be known as Ellie, like they have called me for [25 years]. I am not really willing to compromise on this. At this point I kind of want to take a break from them. I am mourning and they keep reminding me of him in painful ways. Any idea how to handle this? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My uncle called me a special nickname, now my sister and cousin are using it. It bothers me and I want them to stop.	My uncle called me a special nickname, now my sister and cousin are using it. It bothers me and I want them to stop.	789
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by stabbing myself in the head. POST: I have had a certain routine after taking a shower for a couple of months, it will probably have to change... After I dry myself off and put my clothes on, I put the towel on my right shoulder. Then, I take a cotton swab and stick that into my left ear. Now, I go to the garage (it's inside of our house) to hang my towel (the towels always stay there until they are washed) and use it to dry my hair off on the way. When I'm done with that, I go upstairs and clean/dry my ears on the way up. Now to the FU. Yesterday, while drying my hair off on the way to the garage, I was in a hurry and apparently wasn't careful enough, because I hit the cotton swab either with the towel or with my hand and slammed it into my ear. You can maybe imagine the pain I had during that moment, I would say it was in the top 5 of pains that I have ever experienced. Obviously, I thought that I had just destroyed my eardrum and checked for blood. It seemed like there was none, so I was pretty relieved. I continued my way (with ear pain, of course), hoping, that nothing bad had happened and everything would be fine. During the evening, I noticed, that I was't able to hear very well on my left ear but still went to bed hopeful. Today, in school, I felt something in my ear, scratched it and found out it was dried blood. Also, the ear pain didn't disappear but instead was joined by a headache. Now I don't know if I should still be hopeful or not... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Slammed a cotton swab into my ear, the result was blood, a hearing loss and a whole lot of pain.	Slammed a cotton swab into my ear, the result was blood, a hearing loss and a whole lot of pain.	3,870
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [22/f] Boyfriend [21/m] is going through Ramadan again and his dad is going nuts. POST: So since mid-July my boyfriend and his dad have been doing the annual Ramadan, as my SO is half Muslim. He does it out of practice since his dad has made him do it since he hit puberty, and naturally it progressed into just being a thing he does every summer. Anyways, if you don't know what Ramadan is, look up some specifics on it but a brief description is that Muslims cannot eat from dawn to dusk for a month long period, as well as other rules such as no touching/intimacy with loved ones, ingesting water, taking medications, etc. Without food or drink, during the blazing hot summer, you'd think someone would get a little moody. Truth. My boyfriend's dad is going nuts. He normally is every other 11 months of the year, but currently, it's some sort of ongoing insecurities with my boyfriend also stepping up in his adulthood by getting his licence, a career and paying bills, all in sequence. I don't know if that has something to do with it but I believe it does, as he is the eldest (by over 10 years) and his dad has some cultural expectations for him, as well as threats of throwing him out of the house, not doing enough for his mom, and so forth. To say in the least, it's very hard to witness and hear about. So I'm writing this asking any other Redditors if you have every had a SO with a personal choice or a parents' influence to do Ramadan, and how you (as a non-participator) felt/dealt with it? Also, how can I stop feeling distaste towards his dad, as I see this packing on more and more emotional weight on my SO? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend and his dad are Muslim and are currently in Ramadan, which inhibits a lot, and seems to be making his dad go bonkers on my boyfriend. How can I cope with seeing him suffer.	Boyfriend and his dad are Muslim and are currently in Ramadan, which inhibits a lot, and seems to be making his dad go bonkers on my boyfriend. How can I cope with seeing him suffer.	4,844
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend(19) is considering having a guy as a roommate. I(19) am concerned she'll be tempted to cheat on me. How should I approach this? POST: My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years. We started dating senior year of high school and since then have had a colorful relationship. We're now at the same university but living in separate apartments. She has one roommate who a close friend but she's looking for a second. Today she told me she found one, however it would be a guy. This makes me extremely uncomfortable because she has left me for someone else once before and I feel given the opportunity she may do it again. I've told her politely that I was uncomfortable with the situation but she doesn't seem to care. How should I approach this if she goes through with it? Anyone have some advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	2 year girlfriend(19) looking for a second roommate and is considering a guy. I asked her to reconsider but she may still let him move in. Any advice?	2 year girlfriend(19) looking for a second roommate and is considering a guy. I asked her to reconsider but she may still let him move in. Any advice?	4,772
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by telling the teacher who I like. POST: So this story happened back in 6th grade. One day in class we were doing an activity where we get an M&M and we have to say something depending on what my color of my M&M corresponds to. Welp with my luck I got a red M&M which says who I like. Being the savage 6th grader I am I told who I like instead of saying something stupid. The class really didn't care that much tbh. Fast forward to lunch, I sit at the lunch table next to my crush's table. I was walking to throw away my trash when suddenly my teacher up and said to my crush LITTLETOT WANTS TO GO OUT WITH YOU FOR THE DANCE(it was the day before the dance) suddenly every one in the cafeteria started getting up and screaming. My crush was shaking her head, and basically said no.The whole cafeteria saw me get rejected. That was embarrassing me for the whole school year. To make it worse she rides my bus everyday and lives in the same neighborhood. Lesson learned is that never tell the teacher who you like. TL;DR: . Assistant:	told my teacher who I like, my teacher asked her out for me in front of the whole cafeteria, and got	told my teacher who I like, my teacher asked her out for me in front of the whole cafeteria, and got	5,690
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Waiting is the hardest part. POST: Dear Reddit,I am kinda confused on what to do here so I am seeking your advice. (this is a long one by the way) There is a girl who I like very much and still have deep feelings for. We had been dating for a year and four days when we broke up/went on a break as I needed to figure somethings out with myself and needed to take a breather from the relationship. We remained close friends (Still are to best of my knowledge)and on three seperate occasions had sex while not technically being together. Fast forward to the current time, I have recently (A week ago) told this girl that I am ready to be in a relationship with her again and still care very deeply for her. Her reply was that "I am currently in a relationship"and then soon added but he leaves for Hong Kong in two weeks for 9 months. I then enquired if it was possible that we could be together at somepoint in the future.She replied that"Anything is possible and you never know what the future holds" Now that being said I still love her very much and am currently waiting for the guy she is seeing to leave the country.I feel that after this happens I will be in a better situation as her friend to win her back. Now a little about this girl,she can't really deal with seperation and as Hong Kong has a 12 hour time difference and her re-bound is going to be busy with work and developing a social network out there and well won't have that much time for her as a whole. I am hoping that due to this she won't be able to handle being in a relationship with this guy and perhaps comes back to me. I know it is a lot to hope for but at the moment I am biding my time awaiting for this guy to leave. Well Reddit I ask you what would you do in my situation,would you wait as you said you would and waitfor the re-bound guy to leave, before talking to her again and take it as friends (Like I am currently doing) or would you do something else. Thanks. TL;DR: . Assistant:	broke up , still like girl , re-bound guy leaving for Hong Kong (for over 9 months) still friends with the girl hoping to get her back...what should I do?	broke up , still like girl , re-bound guy leaving for Hong Kong (for over 9 months) still friends with the girl hoping to get her back...what should I do?	1,027
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Me [22 M] met a [20 F] and we connected over both having lost a parent suddenly in high school POST: Has anyone ever used common grief as a way to initially connect with someone? Some people connect and meet through mutual groups, mutual interests, but has anyone met or connected initially through grief? I was on a plane for a college club trip and sat next to this cute girl. At first we didn't have much to talk about but then it came up that she had lost her dad. I almost started crying for a second because I was shocked. I lost my dad too. It turns out our experiences were similar, both lost our dads suddenly and a year apart in age. Both about 6 years ago. We talked about all the similarities and all that. How it impacted our siblings, and our moms too. The ways we dealt with it. It was nice to talk to someone with a similar experience. So basically, I was wondering if anyone had any similar experience in connecting with someone through grief. If so do you have any tips in general? Or tips on transitioning from a grief conversation to something lighter and more "flirty or flirtatious"? Thank you! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Met a girl. We both connected over having lost a parent in early high school. I am interested in her romantically. Tips? How to transition conversation from grief to "flirty"?	Met a girl. We both connected over having lost a parent in early high school. I am interested in her romantically. Tips? How to transition conversation from grief to "flirty"?	3,361
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [f/28] silly for wanting 3 words from my older man [40]? POST: I've been with my older boyfriend for 9 months and everything is going great - he's kind, trustworthy, considerate, we get on with each other's parents and friends. Best relationship I've ever had. We haven't argued once and there's never any drama. Only thing bugging me is he hasn't said 'I love you' yet. I really need to hear it. Is that silly/too soon/expecting too much/normal?? I know that I love him, but I don't want to say it first. There are a few reasons, mainly that I want to know he means it and isn't just saying it back. (I made the first move and we joke about this - but in all seriousness I wish it was the other way around and want him to make this move first!) Another reason it concerns me is that he has said those words to other people a lot sooner than 9 months. He was married for over 10 years and has a child with his ex. After their marriage ended but before we met, he had a very short but intense relationship with another woman. They only dated a few months but I have seen correspondence between them stating they love each other. Our relationship seems so perfect so why hasn't he said it to me when he did to her? :( TL;DR: . Assistant:	9 months and boyfriend hasn't said 'I love you', even though everything seems perfect. He said it to an ex a lot sooner!	9 months and boyfriend hasn't said 'I love you', even though everything seems perfect. He said it to an ex a lot sooner!	2,374
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need your help Reddit. I'm getting screwed by American Family Insurance. POST: I need your help Reddit. I was recently in a car accident where the other driver was at fault. They turned through a stopped lane of traffic turning into a parking lot and hit me in the second lane. Their insurance agency accepted fault for the accident. They arranged for me to get a rental car and are paying for the auto body repair at the shop my dealer recommended. Now here is where I ran into a problem. I have limited liability insurance on my car because I worked like a boss and saved my money up and paid for it out right so I would not go into debt. I took the risk of not covering the cost of damage to my car for when I am at fault because I have a clean record of driving and am willing to replace my car with a Junker if I wreck it. The amount I have saved not covering my car is enough to buy a replacement car. Anyways, when I picked up the rental car that the at fault insurance company (American Family) paid for, I had to sign for the coverage that the rental company (Enterprise) offers, and is $13 a day, since I do not have full coverage. Makes since. I contacted the at fault insurance company (American Family) and explained this to them and explained that this expense is a result of the accident that their client caused and that they should take responsibility. They flat out said they understand why they should pay for it but they do not have to. My car will not be out of the shop for another 2 weeks and I will end up getting stuck with a $300 and something bill for the insurance. I am a student and just paid for classes and have to pick up books this week and can not afford this. Please tell me if I have any options. The logic of how they can get away with out paying for this escapes me. By the way, my insurance company pays for rental insurance when their client is at fault. TL;DR: . Assistant:	American Family Insurance is screwing me with a $300 bill for rental insurance that was needed due to their client hitting my car.	American Family Insurance is screwing me with a $300 bill for rental insurance that was needed due to their client hitting my car.	1,183
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [16 m] and my girlfriend [16 f] have been having issues.. Then she does this.. I need help. POST: First of all, I'm fairly new to this subreddit so I apologize if this post doesn't look like a normal one. Also, I know some might think say that I shouldn't be in a serious relationship at 16, but hear me out. So me and my girlfriend have been dating for 10 months, and completely love eachother. But, lately we have been fighting ALOT. I think jealousy is a major cause in our problems. We fight over stupid little things, and way too often. Last week, we discussed our issues and both came to the conclusion that we weren't happy, and should possibly take a break. Ok, thats fine. Next, is where I need help. Before we dated, she had been dating a guy for awhile and she claims that she had in fact been in love with him. Fast forward back to now, he just became single again, and they (my SO and him) have began talking again. They had never really talked while he had a girlfriend (No, I know she was not secretly talking to him). She tells me that she (very recently) had talked to him about our relationship problems, and basically getting comfort from him, but she still claims that she has no feelings for him, past being a friend. He knows that I absolutely hate him, yet he told my gf "I dont want to interfere with your relationship with OP". She even told him that I need to get over the fact that they (Ex and my girlfriend) are friends. I really dont know what to do. I love this girl like no other, but I really dont think I could handle the jealousy of them being friends. Sorry for this being so long. TL;DR: . Assistant:	OP goes on a "break" with SO. SO begins talking to an ex of hers. OP can't handle SO being friends with said ex.	OP goes on a "break" with SO. SO begins talking to an ex of hers. OP can't handle SO being friends with said ex.	1,139