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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the worst fitness/nutrition advice you've ever been given? POST: I think the worst fitness advice I've ever heard came when I started trying to lose weight and get in shape. Every nutritionist says that the key to losing weight is to have fewer calories in than calories out, which is a perfectly logical notion. I didn't start hardcore calorie counting, but I did check the nutrition information when it was available. I was running late for work one morning, so I picked up a chicken sandwich and a single-serving bag of kettle chips at a gas station on my way in. As I was eating lunch, I noticed that the chips, despite being less than 1/3 the weight of the sandwich, had more calories, and the fat calories were almost triple that of the sandwich. Upon mentioning how annoying this was in passing on Facebook, a girl I know said, verbatim: "Who cares anyway. (sic) The key to weight loss truly lies in increasing movement and heart rate. Do you see how much body builders or athletes eat???? How many calories a day they have?? Its insane!" I facepalmed so hard I think I cured my carpal tunnel. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I got told that it didn't matter how much I eat, as long as I exercise, because professional athletes and body builders eat tons and are still fit.	I got told that it didn't matter how much I eat, as long as I exercise, because professional athletes and body builders eat tons and are still fit.	2,845
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Right person, wrong time? POST: I'm in a right person, wrong time situation right now and it's a very hard, sad thing to sort out. We have been dating for a year and a half and at the end of the summer I'm moving away to the UK to attend a prestigious law school for three years and my boyfriend has three years left of his degree in Canada. He's the first person I've ever loved and we get along so well. I consider him my best friend, we talk everyday, and we're just easily compatible. Our relationship isn't perfect and neither is he but nobody is and I could see myself being with him and being happy for a long time. However, studying law and studying abroad has always been a dream of mine and I've worked really hard to get this so it's an opportunity I can't pass up. It doesn't change the fact that I have to end this amazing relationship with a guy I love. I hate the thought of him being with another girl but I know it'll happen and I'm terrified of losing contact with him and becoming strangers. I wonder how long it'll take for me and for him to move on. Do you think if we were to meet again at the right place and right time in our lives we could be together again? TL;DR: . Assistant:	in love with my boyfriend of one and a half years but I'm moving across the world for my dream education opportunity and we have to break up. Right person, but wrong time in my life.	in love with my boyfriend of one and a half years but I'm moving across the world for my dream education opportunity and we have to break up. Right person, but wrong time in my life.	518
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] girlfriend and I [22 M] still haven't had sex after 7months of dating and still no "I love you" POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7months and I've never fallen for someone like this before and she tells me that is the case with her as well. However, I am not able to tell if the fact that she is still not ready to have sex as a red flag or not. She is a virgin and is waiting for the right person, it isn't for religious reasons. But it worries me that after this much time she still doesn't believe that I am "the right person". We still hook up and do other things and after talking about sex a couple times I basically just said I wouldn't ever bring it up and let her decide when she is ready. I don't want to pressure her but I don't know what to do. In addition, neither one of us has said those big 3 words yet after that much time. I am certain that I feel that way towards her, I have completely fallen for her, but I don't know how I feel about expressing that before we are completely intimate. I also have reservations about being the first to say it because I have always been the one to initiate conversations about our relationship and intimacy. It would mean so much more to me if I heard her say it first rather than the "yeah, me too" that I am so used to hearing. Should all of this be a red flag that maybe things aren't going to go anywhere? Should I let her find someone else that maybe she would feel more comfortable with? I'm not sure what to do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF and I still haven't had sex or said I love you after 7months. I'm not sure if this should be a red flag.	GF and I still haven't had sex or said I love you after 7months. I'm not sure if this should be a red flag.	6,049
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need your opinion! POST: So I was with my best friend the other day (I'm a guy) and we were talking about random things. Then for some reason, she literally told me that she thought she was a whore because she had multiple fuck friends. Obviously I was a bit shocked because I didn't think she thought of herself like that, but after maybe 2 seconds of disbelief, I told her that she wasn't. She 18 and.. well she has done some pretty outrageous stuff : to this day she has slept with 16 guys, 2-3 girls, she did two threesome and that's about it. Because of that she thinks she's a whore... I told her she wasn't, that she was just having fun and that it was totally fine but obviously it didn't really work, she still thought of herself badly. I'm a bit confused because I never EVER thought she was a whore, slut, skank or whatever. In my head, I believe that if I had has much success with girls, has she has success with guys, I would probably be dying from HIV because I would've slept with every girl I could and because I would've slept with so many girls I would probably be a hero among my friends. So why are people judging her because she likes to have sex? Why is it bad for her to have fun sexually speaking but not for me? Why is a girl who likes sex has much has the average guy being labelled as a whore? Am I the only one who thinks like that? Am I the only one who thinks society is fuck up to think this way? So tell me reddit, what do you think about that? Feel free to speak your mind freely even if you're saying that she's really a "slut" I just want to get a general idea on what you guys think. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Friend (girl) who's 18 slept with 16 guys up until now, thinks she's a whore. What do you think?	Friend (girl) who's 18 slept with 16 guys up until now, thinks she's a whore. What do you think?	1,009
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend's [24m] friend [24f] is getting married - I [23f] am not invited. How do I handle this without overreacting? POST: I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have been living together for the past 3 years. We live a couple of hours away from our hometown, as we both moved to the city for job opportunities/university. At the start of the year my boyfriend's good friend, let's call her Emily, got engaged. We were so happy for her and both attended her engagement party (with a present I picked out). While I am not especially close with Emily I have met her many times, I was at her 21st, have been to her and her fiance's house and we have always gotten along well. Yesterday my bf received a call from Emily and she told him that I would not be invited to the wedding, as the guest list was getting too large and expensive, as well as the fact she doesn't see me often. While I understand that weddings are expensive and guest lists must be a huge pain, I also feel incredibly insulted that she has decided to cut me out. I know that other plus ones have definitely been invited, and while I know that I don't see Emily very often the reason for that is my bf doesn't see her very often, as we live 2 hours away. My bf is very non-confrontational, and while he is also upset that I cannot go I do not believe he would even think to not attend the wedding, even though he will know very few people there. But I feel like after 5 years, our relationship warrants a plus one to a wedding, and to not invite me is insulting and dismissive of our very serious relationship. I am really hurt by this, as I thought we were also friends by association, or at least friendly. Is it an overreaction/too controlling to ask him to consider not attending? How do I manage the hurt feelings? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend of 5 years has a friend getting married - she has specifically not invited me. How should I handle the situation?	Boyfriend of 5 years has a friend getting married - she has specifically not invited me. How should I handle the situation?	2,799
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22/M] confused about sudden break up with girlfriend [22/F] (X-post) POST: I'll attempt and keep this short... Been with my gf for 6 years, lived with her (200 odd miles away from our hometown) for 3. She attends university and I work a crappy job to pay the bills. Past week or so she's not been feeling good so I didn't expect much affection. Yesterday morning I texted her from work after dreaming she dumped me, realised something was up. She said she loved me and she wants to find a solution as she feels unsure about us. I stupidly forced her to admit we were breaking up. Got let off work, met her at uni briefly, seemed very upset but final. Went home, my friends came over, she brought a friend when she finished uni a few hours later for a group chat (bad idea). She wants to sort out issues with our apartment instantly so we can move on. I'm astonished this has come out of nowhere but she says she's been feeling a bit unsure for a little while. Says she never told me because she didn't know how to talk to anyone about this. Didn't even tell any of her friends. She says she's still not sure what the problem is. Our friends left the room and we had a goodbye, she held me tight, cried a lot, and then kissed me three times (everyone I've told has been amazed at that part). She left to stay with her friend. I spent the night alone in our apartment. I took a walk this morning and bought her a rose. She's coming back here for a few hours this afternoon so we can talk. So basically, from talking with my parents and friends, I believe I've been lax on doing stuff she wants to do (taking walks, eating out etc) but she wouldn't tell me, instead we've just been going to the movies/watching GoT/playing Xbox together though she seemed happy with that. She said she thought she might be stressed with her university stuff and wine tasting so I think that has amplified her worries. I'm not even sure what I want to ask. I just can't get my head around this weird situation. I hope you can help me. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend breaks up with me with no warning, doesn't even seem sure, wants us to sort out moving out instantly.	girlfriend breaks up with me with no warning, doesn't even seem sure, wants us to sort out moving out instantly.	4,029
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [M 21] dont know how to convey to a girl that I like her and want more than a friendship. POST: Basically my issue is that I'm terrible at telling someone I'm interested in them in ways more than a friend. I'm not sure what it is or why it happens per say, but I just cannot break that barrier. I'm great at forming long lasting friendships but they form due to my interest in the girl as more than friends. As stupid as it sounds, I quite literally get "stuck" in the "friendzone" as a result of my own inability to act on my feelings and tell the other party I am interested in more ways than just friendship. Lately I've been wondering if this is just something I personally deal with or if its common. Any help/advice/tips/changes I can make to myself/my perception would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	suck at telling someone I love them, probably cause too afraid/dont want to ruin the friendship. need help fixing this.	suck at telling someone I love them, probably cause too afraid/dont want to ruin the friendship. need help fixing this.	877
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need new friends. I have no idea how to make new ones, please help. POST: I have friends and they are not bad but they are not people I feel connected to on a deeper level of beliefs and aspirations. I want friends who are competent in the way they communicate and carry themselves but still have a sense of madness and eccentricity that leads them to pursue unusual ideas and practices. I don't care what it is, just that they have a passion and taste for exploring and experimenting with life. Needless to say, my current friends aren't like this. I hang out with them less than I had been lately, but that doesn't mean I'm progressing toward the person I want to be or the lifestyle I want to have. I know I need new friends, new minds to learn from and bounce ideas off of in order to do this. I am pretty introverted and don't know where to look or how to connect even if I was in the right place. I'm talking about friendship on a strong intelligent and experimental foundation, not just another bro to bro out with. Anybody got experience or suggestions, I'd really appreciate it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I need new friends, old ones not satisfying. Like to make acquaintance on a intelligent and experimental level. I want to enter into a circle of some really interesting people.	I need new friends, old ones not satisfying. Like to make acquaintance on a intelligent and experimental level. I want to enter into a circle of some really interesting people.	2,555
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF[21F] told me she doesn't know why but she feels like a spark is missing after 1.5 yrs. POST: I'm a [22m] Background: my girlfriend's mom is just finishing chemo for breast cancer, she just spent 3 months living at home for the summer to be with her family. Her dad was laid off, last week she turned 21. She lost ~40 lbs since dating me, I have always found her stunning and beautiful, but I think some of the new attention is surprising her. She was never fat, but now she is very fit. Her previous boyfriend got over committed to fast and started talking about future and marriage and she couldn't handle it. In the last 3 months we saw each other around 5 times but always for a short period last weekend we spent 3 days straight together day and night and it must have been too much for her. Months ago we started to talk about our future and it was what she wanted. now we have been dating 1 year 5 months and this is the longest relationship she's ever had. She also says everything Is perfect she feels crazy because we work really well but she feels like "a spark"is missing. She just left with her single best friend to go to concert tonight and for the next few days will be gone living with her mom again. I think the wave of guys hitting on her at bar ECT when her and her pretty friend may make her question us. But I think she might also be really stressed and worried of commitment. I call her pretty, beautiful or sexy constantly like many times a day, almost every time it crosses my mind maybe it doesn't mean much from me now idk. We are still working on things and trying to be more open but we both admit this has been the best relationship in either of our lives, she said she just wants to live in the now and have fun with me again. I took her on a "first" date bought her flowers and held doors ECT things have been going good but idk for how long... TL;DR: . Assistant:	we seemed fine and suddenly I dont know how to feel, she says it feels we lost our spark, we feel more like friends than dating. I think it might be due to her stress with family stuff and worry about commitment.	we seemed fine and suddenly I dont know how to feel, she says it feels we lost our spark, we feel more like friends than dating. I think it might be due to her stress with family stuff and worry about commitment.	5,643
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [26/m] Not sure how to address girl's [24/f] drug use. POST: * TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dating a girl that does drugs more frequently than she led on to. She wants to make our relationship more serious, but this could be a deal breaker. Just not sure how to bring it up because this can be a sensitive topic.	Dating a girl that does drugs more frequently than she led on to. She wants to make our relationship more serious, but this could be a deal breaker. Just not sure how to bring it up because this can be a sensitive topic.	2,615
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [24/F] just found out my LDR boyfriend of 3 years [23/M] has slept with multiple women in the past 6 months. Stuck with him in his country until my flight, help POST: Hi Reddit, I'm a long time lurker of this subreddit, never thought I'd be posting something like this here but I know you are all so helpful and I feel I've no one else to turn to right now. I've been in a long distance relationship with my bf for almost 4 years. Ups and downs, as in all relationships, and 8 months ago I found out he cheated on me (kissed an old friend of his). This devastated me, but I took him back as I believe mistakes happen, and people deserve second chances - he swore it was only a drunken kiss. The past month has been incredible, but today (I am in his country the past 2 weeks) I read an old message on his phone from last November saying, 'fucked another girl last night mate, shit that's 3 now'. Obviously confronted him, massive screaming on my part, and he admits he slept with 4 people between September and December last year. Finally get out of him, that the first was the friend he kissed. Obviously, I'm not stupid enough to ever forgive/take back his disgusting cheating ass. But because we're long distance, I'm stuck in his country until next Saturday, I can't get a flight home earlier as these were booked months in advance for price. I've booked a hotel in his town for tomorrow night so I can leave immediately but stuck in his for tonight (it's midnight here), and can't afford hotels for another week. Please Reddit, what the hell do I do from here.. Stuck in a foreign country by myself and distraught. No idea how to continue on from here? Any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Found out LDR bf cheated multiple times last year, ended things but stuck in his country where I know no one for another 11 nights	Found out LDR bf cheated multiple times last year, ended things but stuck in his country where I know no one for another 11 nights	1,499
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Parents/College Students of Reddit: How did you deal with your/your parents' empty nest syndrome? POST: I am leaving for college in about three weeks, and my mom is already freaking out quite a bit. In fact, she has been getting progressively more upset ever since I graduated from high school in June. I feel awful because I know that she's upset, but it's really starting to drive me up a wall. Some background: * I am my mother's only child. After breaking up with my father, she eventually got married to my stepdad. They have decided not to have any more kids, though she does have two small dogs to nurture. * As my mom has pointed out, I have been in her life longer than she's been without me. (My mom got pregnant at 17, and I'm currently 18.) * My stepdad has a strange need to update me every time that my mom cries or gets upset about my leaving, and the guilt is really getting to me. * Both my mom and my stepdad seem to have some jealousy over the amount of time that I spend with my boyfriend, which I find to be unreasonable because I'm usually out with him when they are at work or in the evenings, when they are tired and reading or sleeping. The guilt over this is also starting to get to me. * I suspect that all of this is complicated by the fact that my college is about a 14-hour drive from my home. TL;DR: . Assistant:	What are the best ways to deal with a parent who is experiencing empty nest anxiety? As a parent, what would make letting go easier on you?	What are the best ways to deal with a parent who is experiencing empty nest anxiety? As a parent, what would make letting go easier on you?	1,408
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [16F] lost my virginity to my boyfriend [16M] and the two times we had sex he made it all about me and did not let me do anything to him. How do I ask him to POST: Hi so I have never used Reddit before. I have read the guide for submitting so I will hopefully be good. This is probably a really simple solution I am just having trouble seeing it. My boyfriend had a girlfriend before me and he has some experience from that relationship. I have never been in a relationship before now and I have only had sex twice. My boyfriend is really outgoing, loud, popular at school and I am the exact opposite. I am to too shy. Which I am it's a major flaw I have I am always really timid to ask people for things. I have always been and I don't know why. Even if I know the person super well I am always to shy to ask something of them. I lost my virginity to him several days ago and we had sex again last night. He made it a very enjoyable experience but he made it all literally about me. He did not really let me do anything to him and he focused on me the entire time. I know this is probably a simple solution but I can't see it, how do I ask him to let me do some things to him? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and he keeps making sex all about me. How can I ask him to let me do some things to him	I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and he keeps making sex all about me. How can I ask him to let me do some things to him	4,873
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my Close friend [21 F] mad at me, i dont get it POST: Okay first of all English is not my mother tongue, sorry for the errors in the text. We have this group at the Gym, 4 people incl. me. Friday it was my friends birthday (close friend). She was going to have dinner with the other 2 and then meet up with me for going out. She called me at 8pm to meet up 9pm at the park. I was at the park 8:50pm, at 9:30pm she called hey im sorry we are running late, so i asked how much time do you need, she said will be 15 more. at 10:15 i went home because i was tired of waiting while they are having a nice dinner. At 10:40 she called again, asking where i was i said im home, laying bed. She said just come now we are at the meeting point. I said no because i was pissed of by this. But it is my Birthday you should come! I still said no. Then the other one came on the line dude just come its not her fault. And i was like no, i have waited for almost 90 mins im home now and about to sleep. Next day she ignored me all day, and i was like lets celebrate your birthday another day because i was just pissed at this point but still had the intention to celebrate her birthday. But nothing from her... So yesterday i said, i dont want to be the annoying friend but please talk back? which she then replies with, Funny how you call yourself a friend after what you have done... So clearly she is pissed but i think i made the right decision...Did i do it right or is she overreacting? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Shes pissed at me that i left the meeting point after 90 mins because they didnt showed up. Did i do the right thing?	Shes pissed at me that i left the meeting point after 90 mins because they didnt showed up. Did i do the right thing?	171
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20F] with my ___ [20 M] 1 year 8 months, broke up three months ago, I can't get over it. POST: I asked my now ex-boyfriend for a break while he was backpacking for a month after having been abroad for two months. I felt neglected and powerless. The relationship seemed entirely one-sided. I needed time to think if he was what I really wanted. We didn't talk for six weeks. When we finally talked, he was not interested in addressing the core issue. He implied that he didn't love me as much as I loved him. I can't seem to get over how much that hurt. I keep waking up, three months later, forgetting that we've broken up. Then I realize and get emotional. I know that he is what I want. I've known it for a while, I told him and he wanted nothing to do with me. I just feel like a terrible person for everything that happened. I hate myself. I just want him to be happy but I can't seem to move on. I really need help. I have a previous issue with self-mutilation (but I haven't cut in four years). Any advice for moving on with my life? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Broke up with boyfriend because I felt neglected, now I regret it and he doesn't love me. I can't get over it. I need help.	Broke up with boyfriend because I felt neglected, now I regret it and he doesn't love me. I can't get over it. I need help.	982
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Uninsured and deep into hospital bill debt at only 20. Don't know how to tackle the debt. Also, I might have been scammed. POST: Hi, here is some background info on me. Due to my weight I have gone to the ER for the first time at 19 due to chest pain, and twitching(thought I was dying). The doctors said it was from stress, and that I need to learn how to not be so stressed out. Gave them my insurance info, turns out my insurance was obsolete, mom never informed me, so they billed me about $900. Ever since I have made an effort to try and pay off the debt, even getting a second job, and haggling to a lower monthly premium. Since then however I lost both of my jobs and was unable to pay it. Strangely, they just stopped taking the $75 from my bank account every month. In fact, this has caused me to believe that I might have been scammed because... I called the debt collector Grace, she never picks up * They don't send me letters anymore about the debt * Every time I call she seems to be away* Once I called and they said she "switched directories or w/e" * They don't send me letters anymore about the debt I have also been sent another bill from the hospital. I was in a car accident and was hit from behind by a truck. Somehow I lived, but my spine has never been the same. I am nervous about paying this bill because of my experience from the last. I don't even think I can pay it off due to my other debts that piled up from me losing my jobs. I make $7.50 an hour, how can I pay off this money while affording to eat...?? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Might have been scammed when trying to repay bills, have more bills to pay and not making enough to pay them off, what to do?	Might have been scammed when trying to repay bills, have more bills to pay and not making enough to pay them off, what to do?	2,423
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I was given an out today....I don't know what to do... POST: So my boyfriend of about 2 years is dying from cancer, it's in his lungs, his stomach, intestines, probably his prostate ect. It's literally eating him alive. I knew he was sick when we got together, and we've had a couple of great years, but he had some more scans today because he's been in alot of pain lately. He got bad news, it's overtaken most of one lung and about a quarter of another.... I knew this day was coming, I just didn't think it would be here so quickly... and tonight at dinner he looks at me and says I'd understand if you got up and left me, but do it soon if you're going to, so I can go do things if I want to. I should point out at this point that we're both brutally honest people, and he's a bit older then me, thus has move savings to go and travel. Part of me wants to stay because I do love him and I want to be around for him, but at the same time, I know if I'm here he won't go do things he wants to because I don't get alot of vacation time, and he does, but he won't go anywhere without me... and I'm totally okay with him going without me with his friends, I've said this so many times and he still just shrugs it off... Part of me wants to go... and I feel guilty about it, really guilty about it, because I don't think he'd eat if I wasnt here to bother him into eating dinner...I'm afraid he'd die faster without me, which is both a gift and a curse... I'm so conflicted, and a little hurt that he'd actually say something like that. I helped him recover from a cancer surgery... I don't understand men... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend of 2 years is dying, said he'd understand if I left him, but that I need to do it soon, I feel conflicted...	Boyfriend of 2 years is dying, said he'd understand if I left him, but that I need to do it soon, I feel conflicted...	2,797
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My cousin [45M] just sent me [22F] an apology/thank you letter and I don't know how to respond POST: A couple of years ago, my uncle (by marriage prior to my birth) was diagnosed with cancer for the second time. It was a very final situation, with everyone preparing themselves for when he passed away. I was going to university nearby and when I went to visit with some vegetarian food for my aunt, they asked me to move in to help out. They paid me, I wasn't entirely a paragon of charity in all this, but when I agreed, it was to maintain a small farm and do all the cooking and cleaning and some of the care to let my aunt focus on her husband while still keeping her job. A few months in, my cousin moved back too to spend time with his father. This was really hard for him on a few levels - he was close with his dad, he moved away from all his friends, he was in a wheelchair in a rural environment, so found it difficult to leave the house further than the deck out front. And he took it out on his step-mother and I upon occasion, generally acting like a snarly teenager despite being twice my age. I didn't take it too personally, just mentally labelled him a bit of a dick and kept on keeping on. Once my uncle passed away, I stuck around to help out with the funeral and so forth, and then left to go travelling. It's been two years since that six month period in which my cousin and I lived together, and I just received a hand written letter from him. It apologises for his treatment of me and talks about how great I was, and how envious he was of both my attitude and my ability to concretely help. It references several specific events that he has clearly been lingering over that I... Just haven't, honestly. I basically forgot about it a few weeks later, and have been way too busy to linger on. What's the protocol here? Am I supposed to write a letter back, acknowledging that his behaviour was unpleasant but understandable and that I forgive him for it? It's clearly been weighing upon him much more than the other way around. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My cousin just sent me a heart felt apology letter for something I honestly don't care much about. How do I respond without dismissing that?	My cousin just sent me a heart felt apology letter for something I honestly don't care much about. How do I respond without dismissing that?	2,143
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: She(22f) confuses me so much, I(22m) don't understand what she wants. POST: Me and this girl have been friends for a little bit. I felt like there has been an attraction between us so I asked her if she thought so. She said she thinks there is something between us but she doesn't want to pressure it. I asked her if her if she wanted to see where it could go, no pressure. Then she said she's doesn't know and wants to stay friends. I'm okay with that. Now we hung out again, and she says things that seem like she wants something. Like she's implying that she wants me. For example, We were talking and i mentioned that im slighty younger then her(by 9 months) and she says, " I dont know if this is going to work out between us, i dont go for younger guys" in a flirty way. What does she mean? I dont get it. Should i make my move next time? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I told a girl i was liked to her, she said she wants to be friends but now shes saying suggestive things like she wants something more.	I told a girl i was liked to her, she said she wants to be friends but now shes saying suggestive things like she wants something more.	613
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 F] stopped dating [28 M] after about a month, felt horrible anxiety with him but cannot figure out why POST: I was dating a wonderful man for about a month, but had been talking with him more as friends for a couple months prior to that. He has so many qualities I want in a partner and I felt a good, fundamental connection with him. I found him cute and enjoyed being physical very much although I never really felt a 'head over heels' feeling for him. He completely accepted me and liked me very much. He is the first person I have dated in years and the first person in a very long time that I felt had great long term potential. Very soon after we began dating I got horrible anxiety and would think about breaking up with him constantly. I would get tightness in my chest and would think over and over that we just had to break up, although I was not certain why. It intensified as we started sleeping over with each other and then having sex. We eventually ended things after one of my anxiety episodes since we were both feeling horrible about how I would get anxious with him. I usually feel anxious in my relationships but it has never been to this extent. I'm terrified of always having that feeling of 'this isn't right' in the back of my mind with someone. I'm so sad things did not work with him. I can't figure out where these feelings came from. I'm wondering if anyone else has had these types of feelings and if you have gotten past them, and if so, how. I am already in therapy and trying to up my self care routine (meditation, exercise, yoga). I am not that young and would like to figure this out so I can be in a healthy relationship some day. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Felt horrible anxiety while dating someone wonderful and don't know why. Want to know if anyone else has had these feelings and what they are.	Felt horrible anxiety while dating someone wonderful and don't know why. Want to know if anyone else has had these feelings and what they are.	3,417
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what area of your life have you romanticized? POST: This question was brought on by an old mix CD that I've been listening to recently that me ex-girlfriend burned for me a long time ago. First of all, I'm assuming (hoping?) that I'm not the only one who does this. But I think we all do have areas of our lives that we romanticize and feel very nostalgic about, where we only remember the good parts. So, what part of your past do you look at through rose-tinted lenses? For me, it was 2005. In the beginning of that year, I had this one group of friends that I hung out with mostly. When drama started to ensue within the group, I started talking to this girl that I had a class with, but really didn't know that well. We kept on talking, and I started shifting from that old group of friends to a different group (which obviously included this girl). We started dating about a month and a half after we started talking. I think the rush of hanging out with this girl, and these new people just seemed so foreign, but also fresh to me, that it was strangely exhilarating. She also was into a bit of the same music, but also a lot of different stuff than what I listened to at the time (a lot of stuff I wouldn't really even appreciate until long after). She also made me appreciate a lot of other things around me that I'd never really thought to appreciate before. I know it all seems very Manic Pixie Dream Girl-ish, but I'm pretty sure that's just because how it seems to me looking back on it now after romanticizing it. We were together for three and a half years, and while I loved her all that time, I think I've looked at that first year, and that version of her, in a very golden perspective. Whenever I listen to certain movies I watched, or music I listened to because of her, it always brings back the rush of memories, and my nostalgic view of the time. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I look back at the first year of my relationship with my first girlfriend super nostalgicly. What part of your life do you do that to?	I look back at the first year of my relationship with my first girlfriend super nostalgicly. What part of your life do you do that to?	2,671
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I hadn't spoken to my dad (Who lives down the street) in about a week. Text him to find out what he is up to, and my Step Mom lets me know he moved to New York (We're in Utah) without telling me...What's the most insane thing someone in your family has done reddit? POST: So a little backstory, my Grandma lives in New York, and my Grandpa died. She has 3 sons who live out there with her, but they are kind of jerks and not helping out as much as they can. So my dad has loosely tossed around the idea of moving to New York... However he has a job, home, wife, car...you know everything here. Well I texted my Step Mom (I said Dad but he doesn't really text) to find out what he and her were up to. Usually see them every week at least...and she lets me know he moved to New York and left everything behind including HER! (She has a pretty legit job she can't just up and leave on.) On the one hand I am glad what he is doing helping his mom out. But on the other hand, I feel like it's just a little batshit crazy he didn't bother to tell me he was moving away, and left so suddenly. I'm kind of sad now because I won't be able to fly and see my Dad until at least next year... My Step Mom won't be able to move out there for at least a year as well with the obligations they have here (taking care of the home they rent out, job, etc.) But it is nice to see my dad do something spontaneous like this, he is not one to just up and really do something...especially if its completely change his life. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dad decided within the course of one week to just leave everything, and move to New York. Didn't tell own son.	Dad decided within the course of one week to just leave everything, and move to New York. Didn't tell own son.	5,604
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Best friend's wife is taking advantage of him, ruining his life, and I'm afraid to get involved. Help. POST: My closest friend has been married for a year and a half now to a woman who completely walks all over him and doesn't bring a single good thing to the table. She has gotten worse and worse over the last year, and currently makes him do all the household work (cleaning, cooking, fixing things, snow removal, dishes, laundry, etc). I just found out last night that she is now quitting her job with no prospects for a new one. He works full time, somewhat manual labor, in a high stress position. The job she left was at a bookstore, and she quit because it was too hard and she "didn't like it". She also has a new (gas guzzling) car that they make payments on, while he drives an old beater because they cannot afford anything more. She is constantly telling him he can't buy things like a certain grocery item he wants because it's "too expensive", while she goes and buys designer clothing at the mall often. The worst part is that she is a massive "feminist" (read: hypocrite) and feels as if she is entitled to an easy life and should be taken care of. She also treats him like shit on a daily basis and is not afraid to order him around and berate him, even right in front of me. The final straws for me have been his recent need to start taking anti-depression meds, and her deciding to quit her job. He is absolutely blind to how bad the situation is (or possibly in denial), and anytime I mention something about it, he gets very defensive and sticks up for everything she does. We spend a ton of time together and have been friends for 15 years, but I'm afraid he will completely close off to me if I sit him down and tell him everything I see and explain how badly he is being treated. I really do not want to lose his friendship, as it means the world to me, but I feel so horrible letting her treat him like this without trying to change the situation. Reddit, what do you think I should do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Best friend is completely taken advantage of and having his life ruined by his selfish wife, and I'm afraid he'll side with her and I'll lose his friendship if I try to confront him to help the situation.	Best friend is completely taken advantage of and having his life ruined by his selfish wife, and I'm afraid he'll side with her and I'll lose his friendship if I try to confront him to help the situation.	3,343
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Stickers are still awesome! Right? POST: Hey, all. Long time lurker here (and I'll probably go back to it for months to come until I'm done here / get enough help). Also, I love stickers. Like shirts, I believe stickers are a great way to express one-self. So... I've been looking into stickers for my laptop to put on to show people what kind of person I am. The thing is, I have enough as is already, but I have this one big spot open for a specific sticker I can't seem to find. The specific sticker I'm talking about is more like something I want to say to the people who look at my sticker(s). I basically want a sticker that says, "I encourage you to interact with me". While I am not home or with friends, I WILL wear headphones (even if my mp3 player is dead or not. Its comforting for me to wear them. Like a pair of socks) 95% of the time. I find that discourages most people to even converse with me. I'm also a silent type until someone sparks a conversation (in which I will not shut up till we have to. I'm very open minded). TL;DR: . Assistant:	I was wondering if there's such a sticker out there or a website where you can make custom stickers with text or maybe certain graphical images.	I was wondering if there's such a sticker out there or a website where you can make custom stickers with text or maybe certain graphical images.	4,253
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My girlfriend referred to me as "my friend" in front her friend...did I overreact? POST: I helped my girlfriend out today picking up discarded books at public libraries for her project. She needed my truck to load up all the books. We fill my truck and drive into the city to drop them off at school. I also had class at 6. We get stuck on traffic, eventually we get there around 6:40. I'm late as fuck, so she calls her friend down from the dorms and she was like "hey I was wondering if you could bring down a bin so I can load up all the books because my friend has to go to class" as soon as she said this I was like "WTF!?" but didn't say anything and I was like "get out of the car and lock the door" and she immediately knew she fucked up and she was like "what's wrong!?" but I didn't have time to argue so I just went to class. During class she sends me a text saying "hey sorry I wasn't thinking. We got invited to go out so I hope you didn't make any plans." At this point I was like FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUCK YOU!! After 3 years of brig together she calls me her friend. It came out so natural. Almost as if shes referred to me as her friend so many times whenever she speaks to them about me, I'm just her friend. I don't know if she hides me or something or doesn't want anyone on her class to know she has a boyfriend. She's in college. After class I made plans to grab a beer with a friend and she was waiting for me after class, I walked right past her and I told her me and my friend were getting bears. She stood there all sad. Now I feel kinda bad because I feel like I overreacted. What would you do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend for 3 years referred to me as her friend on the phone with some dude from her class and I lost my shit. Now I feel like an asshole cause I may overreacted a little	girlfriend for 3 years referred to me as her friend on the phone with some dude from her class and I lost my shit. Now I feel like an asshole cause I may overreacted a little	2,618
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I think my family is being stalked POST: I'll try to make this as short as possible. For the last few months about 330-4 in the morning my wife and I have heard a car drive by. It has an after market muffler so it's very loud and can be heard in our room (which is on the opposite side of the street.) In September she had our baby so that is when I would occasionally hear it while feeding the baby in the middle of the night. I had just assumed whoever this was, was going to work, but the other night my wife was feeding the baby and saw the guy stop at our driveway, pull in and then turn around and leave. Obviously it was the same car because of the muffler. So last night my wife wakes up at 3 and goes into the living room to see if she can see if they do it again. Just as she was about to say screw it and come back to bed she hears the the car, and sure as shit it pulls in our driveway, and leaves. At this point my wife wakes me up quite frantic. So I have her call public safety and see what we should do. They had a detective call her back and they said they would patrol the neighborhood tonight and see if it happens again. Now we do not know if this happens every night or what, but it's kinda creeping me out. We have an alarm and I sleep with a .9 mm under my bed, but we have two children and this is fucked up to say the least. So tonight we are going to wake up at 3 and go into the living room and see if they come back and if they police get his ass. We live in the back of a quiet subdivision, hell I leave my keys in my truck, and nothing has ever been stolen, so for this area where we live it's quite odd. I also cannot think of any good reason this person would be turning around in our driveway. So anyways that's my story. Figured Reddit would be the perfect place to share my story. I will post what happens tomorrow. My question is what in the fuck is this guy doing? Your thoughts are welcome and anticipated. Thanks for reading. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Some person keeps turning around in our driveway at 330-4 in the morning. Called the police and they are going to try and catch him tonight. Will post tomorrow if anything happens.	Some person keeps turning around in our driveway at 330-4 in the morning. Called the police and they are going to try and catch him tonight. Will post tomorrow if anything happens.	1,223
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (27f) with my mother (53f) and her abusive partner (55m). They have reconciled and want us to accept it. Advice please! POST: Last Christmas, my family found out that my mom's partner had been physically abusing her for years. We found out when she called the cops on him after he viciously attacked her and my brother (22m) and fled to my aunt's. It was quite traumatic for all of us, as we had accepted this man as family. Since then, they have reconciled. None of us wants anything to do with the man or to offer any endorsement of this reconciliation. She is pressuring us to invite him to family events and wants to host a big "family" Easter. Our relationship has pretty much disintegrated in the last year (particularly as he attacked my brother again since then). So my question...do I suck it up and attend events being aloof but polite to make my mom happy and not do further damage to our relationship? Or is acceptable to continue avoiding the situation? (Bonus points if you have advice on whether I need to extend a wedding invitation to him). TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mom's partner abuses her and attacked my brother. Do I need to have anything to do with him now that they've reconciled?	Mom's partner abuses her and attacked my brother. Do I need to have anything to do with him now that they've reconciled?	1,774
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] really like her [19F] but both of us are afraid of commitment. POST: Hi, so here's the situation: I (19M) just started studying abroad and I met this girl (19F)... We seemed to get along together very well, though we're both somewhat socially awkward around other people. We started cuddling and kissing three weeks ago. (We're both still virgins so we agreed not to have sex in the near future and I'm really glad we did. It takes a lot of pressure off.) The problem is that we'll go on Christmas break for 6 weeks in two weeks time and there's no chance we're going to see each other during that period. What are we going to do? Neither of us is experienced when it comes to relationships and we are still in a "wait and see" mode because both of us are afraid of commitment and we only have been knowing each other for two months. She said she's not really comfortable with this situation - cuddling but not "really" being with someone. She always asks "What do you want?" and I never know how to respond. I think I want to be in a proper relationship with her. But I'm not entirely convinced. It might be too early. I might enjoy "just" the cuddling. I might not be ready for a relationship (though I don't know if I'll ever be.) So what should we do in the next two weeks? Should I tell her I want a relationship? Or should we wait and see what happens when we see each other again after christmas? Any advice is muchly appreciated :) I'll be back in ~6 hours and I'll reply to every comment. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Unsure what I should do with the girl I've been cuddling with. Cristmas Break coming up and we won't see each other.	Unsure what I should do with the girl I've been cuddling with. Cristmas Break coming up and we won't see each other.	4,112
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [21M] girlfriend [20F] has me confused beyond belief and I don't have a clue how to fix it POST: I have been dating my girlfriend for approximately 3 years, since our junior year in high school. We're now in our sophomore year of college, and are at the end of our ropes. We both love each other and don't want to spend our futures with anyone else, but she goes to school states away while I work and go to school at home. The past few months something has been off, and we have been trying to work on it. The problem really can't be anything other than the distance, as everything is fine when we're together, but when she goes back away she gets this really odd attitude. She's very transparent and I know for a fact she's not cheating on me and the problem isn't the other guys and seeing room to grow, she has told me this repeatedly. It's strictly the distance when we're apart. The other day she called me and said she was somewhere in between wanting to go on a break till she's home in May and ending it completely because the distance was just too much. She was in tears mostly because neither of us can realistically see a future with anyone else and both our families love the two of us, respectively. I woke up today feeling more empty and lost than I knew was possible, and I don't know where to go without her. I need to know how to fix the problem because I have given this relationship my absolute all and to think that there's anything else I could do is ridiculous. I don't have a clue what to do but I know we both want this to work out, it's like we both know we found the perfect person, just at a shitty time. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend thinks the distance is too much and we both found the right person at the wrong time. How to not let her become the one who got away.	Girlfriend thinks the distance is too much and we both found the right person at the wrong time. How to not let her become the one who got away.	260
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: My friend's asshole housemate. POST: Background: my friend/co-worker, Nate, started renting a room in his friend's house a few weeks ago. Nate is an awesome guy; he is funny, responsible, reliable and I always look forward to a shift with him. Nate's friend Liz asked him to move into her house (which she had just bought) and told him he would be the only person living there besides her. They agreed that his room needed painting so he bought a deep shade of red and got started covering up the ugly yellow old paint. Over the next couple weeks things went downhill. Liz had another friend, and then her boyfriend Mark move in. Despite not being on the mortgage and not paying rent Mark started to 'take over' as Nate put it. Mark would eat Nate's food, move his things, complained about Nate having 2 cars in the driveway (something Liz had previously said would be fine) etc. It all came to a head two nights ago when Nate got home late from work (as an EMT) and accidentally woke Mark up closing his car door. Mark confronted Nate, got in his face, screamed at him "YOU DON'T WANT TO MAKE ME MAD BRO!" while Nate backed off confused, trying to de-escalate the situation. Mark went back to bed and Nate sat in his room fuming. Nate resolved to move out the next day (no lease or security, so no problem) so I, along with a few other friends went over and got all his stuff packed up. While there I noticed that his room was about 90% painted; all the roller work was done but it wasn't painted all the way to the ceiling or to the trim. On our last sweep through to check that everything was out Nate grabbed the last gallon of paint that remained and loaded it in the truck. Liz and Mark have no idea what color of paint Nate bought, and therefore have no way to precisely match the same shade. The red is also so dark and vivid it's going to be a bitch to cover over! TL;DR: . Assistant:	My friend's roommate was such a dick my friend moved out, but he left them with a time-consuming problem.	My friend's roommate was such a dick my friend moved out, but he left them with a time-consuming problem.	1,722
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I live in Montreal Quebec. I have been accused of rape at my college about 9 years ago. I got expelled with no appeal and have not gotten over it since. How do I get justice? POST: After the success of this post: I have built enough courage to ask Reddit for some advice. About 9 years ago a young girl was confused and thought it would be therapeutic to tell our college that I assaulted and raped her. There was a shooting in our school a few month back and I guess they just expelled me with no trial or appeal. I wasn't the best student (I had aspergers and was going through a lot) and really going through a lot. I shouldn't have been in school but the whole thing through my life even deeper. After years I re approached the school (about 2 years ago) and brought a mountain of evidence to clear my name. They kicked me out of the school and refused to speak to me or give me my appeal. During this time I approached the accuser and she openly admitted to going through some stuff and lying to them. I have this confession as a recording. I feel I have enough proof/evidence to sue either the women or the school but I am too 'weak' and 'battle worn' to really do anything about it. I often ask my friends to help me call a lawyer but no one has come through. Maybe Reddit can? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I was accused of rape and expelled with out a trial at my college. I have hard proof that she lied and no idea how to do anything about it.	I was accused of rape and expelled with out a trial at my college. I have hard proof that she lied and no idea how to do anything about it.	5,855
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My [24M] girlfriend [20F] has depression and refuses to get a job. POST: So I am stuck and dont know what to do. Im not asking for a solution im just asking for your opinion. I have been seeing this girl for about 6 months now and it started out well. She was unemployed and actively seeking employment and living a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise. She is a nice girl and my freinds like her and get along with her well. She had a previous relationship that ended badly and she got abused by her partner. She is on heavy medication to treat her depression and sometimes will cry for hours for absolutly no reason. I do my best to comfort her but it is hard for me to understand how it feels as i have never really felt bad depression. I have been helping her look for work but now she doesn't even try. She has done self harm in the past and has bad scarring up her left arm. She has also stopped exercising and gained weight but she is still the kind person she was when i first met her. I have talked to her about work and exersise and she gets upset when i mention her weight and just says she is still looking when i ask about work. She texts me at least 40 - 50 times everyday when im at work because she is bored. She says things like "promise you wont leave me" and "i dont know what i would do without you" things like that a lot. I have tried talking to her parents aswell but they baby her too much and wont push her to do anything which i think may be the cause of the problem. If she is away from me for more than 2 days she gets upset and depressed. It is starting to affect my personal and work life but i am honestly scared she will harm herself or go off her meds if i break up with her. To be honest i dont want to break up beacause i like her a lot. I only want to help her but how can i do this if she wont help herself? TL;DR: . Assistant:	my girlfreind has depression and wont get a job or exersise and has a past with self harm. I like her and dont want to leave her but she is starting to drag me down with her.	my girlfreind has depression and wont get a job or exersise and has a past with self harm. I like her and dont want to leave her but she is starting to drag me down with her.	415
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My friend [22F] has totally changed and is acting very bizarre. [22F] POST: I have been friends with this girl for about 5 years. Best friends all of high school. We went to different colleges so we did not remain as close, but would still spend time together over christmas and summer break, text each other, etc. One day, she deleted me off Facebook randomly. After we had hung out about 2 weeks prior and everything had been totally fine. When I asked, she said I wasn't a good friend, that she didn't want to be friends, and that "I know what I did". I continued to contact her over the next few months or so, hoping she would cool down. I tried everything. I was so upset. It escalated into her personally insulting me and even threatening me. After countless attempts over the course of 6 months or so I finally gave up. She totally changed personalities. She was always a girly-girl that was into fashion. She shaved off her hair, got very dark and negative tattoos, dropped out of school, etc. I was very worried about her. Her sister told me her parents were also going through a divorce that was affecting her. I wanted to be there for her but she would not talk to me, no matter what I said. What could I do? This was all about a year ago. She recently contacted me saying things like, its been too long! Lets hang out soon! I am very confused. I know she went through a tough time, but the things she said to me were very, very personal and insulting. The last time we had spoken she threatened to kick my ass for no reason. She was my best friend and completely cut me out of her life and I'm still very hurt by it. Should I give her another chance? What do I say to her? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My best friend cut me out of her life about a year ago, in a very aggressive and hurtful manner. Now she is contacting me again.	My best friend cut me out of her life about a year ago, in a very aggressive and hurtful manner. Now she is contacting me again.	6,304
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need your advice. POST: I have been a resident assistant at my college for a full year now. I have enjoyed it, but this semester things have changed. Housing has a bunch of new people and they are all trying to change things. They have also begun piling a lot of work on us and it's starting to effect my school work. In short, my heart's just not in it and I needed out. On top of that, I can't afford to be an RA anymore because I need a job that makes money. The 200 a semester they pay me just isn't cutting it. I decided to step down and told my boss a couple weeks ago. Living on campus is very expensive, and there is an apartment complex a mile from campus that is cheaper. I, along with 3 other RA's that quit as well all decided to move in together. We've done all the paperwork, and I'm set to move in this Friday. I wrote an e-mail to our assistant director of housing right after I quit informing him that due to financial hardship, I need to get out of my housing contract. As an RA, we are forced to sign housing contracts because they allow us to live on campus for free. i finally received an e-mail back from him today saying that because he saw that I receive X amount of financial aid, plus I'm eligible for a loan, he has no choice but to deny me the cancellation of my contract. He said the best he can do is change my status to off campus but obligated. This means I will have to pay 1920 to have a room on campus, even though I don't physically live there. I don't know what to do. I had to quit being an RA because I couldn't afford it, and now they want me to pay them 2000 dollars. Does anyone have advice for what I could do to get out of paying it? Or at least any alternative suggestions? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Quit RA job because I'm broke, need out of housing contract on campus, only way is to pay 2000 dollars. Can they do that?	Quit RA job because I'm broke, need out of housing contract on campus, only way is to pay 2000 dollars. Can they do that?	6,100
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Got bitten by a dog today (pics inside). Advice for filing charges and/or prevention? POST: My [vizsla] and I were out for a 7am run, and near the end I saw an aggressive pair of Rottweilers crossing their electrical barrier behind us in my peripheral vision. So I picked up speed. It didn't work, and they chased us, snarling, and tackled my dog to the ground. I yelled "no!" at them while my dog was yelping, but they were frenzied, and even at my most furious I am not that intimidating. I managed to pull my dog to his feet by his leash while yelling at the dogs, and we backed away, but as soon as I turned around the more aggressive dog charged and grabbed my calf. I screamed again and kicked it and kept backing away and yelling "no!" until they stopped advancing. Then we were over the hill and sprinting home. I have 8 puncture wounds on my calf, some of which were bleeding out fatty tissue since they went through the skin. Sick. I had them treated at an ER, so my leg will be fine. Photos- [side of leg] and [back of leg]( I called the sheriff's office, and a deputy came out and maced the dogs--which didn't have their electric collars on, were still running loose, and ran at him when he entered their yard. He gave me the option of pressing charges, and I am trying to decide whether I'm over-reacting by going forward with it. The deputy did say he had a report of the dogs biting an elderly man's ankle in 2009, so I am leaning toward yes.... Anyway, advice? I'm at home taking care of my mom post-surgery, so it's not my usual route, but I kept on the opposite side of the street and didn't make eye contact. Maybe I can start carrying pepper spray. TL;DR: . Assistant:	got bitten while running with dog, gory photos for your pleasure, how to successfully fend off dogs in future, whether to press charges?	got bitten while running with dog, gory photos for your pleasure, how to successfully fend off dogs in future, whether to press charges?	5,366
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 22M with my 22 F girlfriend, 6m, she has a friend who wants something serious, but she doesn't want to POST: We've been dating for a couple of months. I like her SO much and she tells me the same. Flashback - She has a friend, who doesn't live in my country, who wants something with her, but she doesn't want to. In fact, he already told her his feeling for her, but she only sees him as a friend (This happened when she was with her ex, last year) He told her when she were single, they should hook up. She told him she wasn't interested. They kept talking, she met me, we start dating. Somehow he knows about it, he reclaims her that he asked her to hook up when she were single. Flashforward - He came to the country to try again with her, even when she told him she wasn't interested. Now, she just told me she was having "mixed feelings about her situation and our situation, but not about her feelings for me, because she is sure she loves me so much". And she needs to talk to me. I'm scared of losing her, and I like her SO much. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Friend of GF wants something with her, she doesn't want to. Now she has mixed feelings for her situation but not for her feelings for me.	Friend of GF wants something with her, she doesn't want to. Now she has mixed feelings for her situation but not for her feelings for me.	1,773
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with my [25F] GF. Don't think I did anything wrong but I still feel guilty. POST: I'm currently in a 2.5 year long relationship with the love of my life and I couldn't be happier. I went out for drinks with my brother last night and the night basically consisted of me drinking and watching him hit on women with no success which I found hilarious. Throughout the night we had this super nice waitress hooking us up with free food which was awesome. At last call, as we stumbled out of the bar, my brother said we had forgot to tip her so he gave me a 20 and I ran back inside, gave her the tip, and said "You're super cute, have a great night!" and ran back outside to get a cab. That's it. No flirting happened over the course of the night, no touching, no numbers were recieved but I still feel really guilty, I guess for saying that she was cute! I feel like a big idiot for blowing this up in my head. TL;DR: . Assistant:	In relationship, told waitress she was cute while giving her a tip and now I feel like a dick, should I really feel that guilty?	In relationship, told waitress she was cute while giving her a tip and now I feel like a dick, should I really feel that guilty?	2,427
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (31m) roommate's (31m) guest never leaves my apartment. Going on 2 weeks now and I'm annoyed POST: Hey everyone. My roommate and I are coming to the end of 2 years of living together. Long story short, I will not continue to live with him beyond 2 years. We used to work together and I thought he had his act together. Little did I know it was all a front. He hardly leaves the apartment besides to go to work, never buys household goods, barely cleans up after himself, and definitely doesn't do his fair share of things around the apt. He's generally a nice guy but he's completely oblivious and can be really inconsiderate. For example we used to smoke (weed) together from time to time. I am for the most part cool with it. Then it started turning into 12 hour smoke sessions where he would sit in his room all day smoking. I eventually asked him to stop smoking inside, but slowly he started to again. Finally one night, I had had enough and I called him out and he's taken to smoking outside. So here's what happened. At the beginning of the month he told me a friend of his needed a place to stay for a few days. I obliged under the agreement that she wouldn't be in the apt all day (I'm working from home and interviewing, speaking on the phone with privileged information, financials, etc.) Here we are almost two weeks later. She's been here almost every day. The one day she wasn't here, he had his FWB staying the night. I'm incredibly annoyed at this point. I texted him yesterday (as I knew I wouldn't be home when he was.) Yet he never replied. I texted him again this AM and still crickets. My friends say I'm more upset than I should be, but I think my anger is justified. It makes more work for me (constantly emptying the dishwasher, trash I only take out, lack of any kind of alone time in MY own apartment.) I'm not sure what to do at this point. I know I have to confront him but I feel like such a nag with these situations he puts me in. Any type of advice for confronting this would be really appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Roommates houseguest has overstayed her welcome. Tried to ask roommate how much longer she'd be staying and he's avoiding answering me. Need advice with how to proceed.	Roommates houseguest has overstayed her welcome. Tried to ask roommate how much longer she'd be staying and he's avoiding answering me. Need advice with how to proceed.	2,508
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 26/F (ME!) greatly struggling to get over ex (25/M) even after lots of time and a new relationship POST: I am not sure if I am looking for advice or just some reassurance here, but here goes. Two years ago, I was in a relationship that I was very happy with--it did have its issues, as all relationships do, don't get me wrong--and saw lasting pretty much forever. Marriage, children, the whole shebang. It was a long distance relationship and on one fateful Tuesday night, completely out of the blue, he broke up with me via Facebook (we rarely ever communicated that way) and then literally never spoke to me again until just recently, again via a Facebook message. I had come to accept that I would likely never hear from him again after many unanswered attempts to contact him, and was proud of myself for responding with just a short "thank you and hope you are well" message rather than delving in to all of the emotions I felt upon receiving it. I have been patient with myself because I know that the circumstances warranted a longer "recovery" period before being ready to move on, but there is still rarely a day that goes by that I don't think of him or his family. Sometimes I feel truly overwhelmed with sadness and/or anxiety when I think of him, especially if it crosses my mind that he may be getting married or having children with someone else. It is all I can do to not look him up on Facebook--the only way I'd know now to contact him--and send him some pathetic message about still being in love with him. I am an independent person, I have started a career, traveled, dated other people, and still I feel this way. Is there anyone else out there who understands this or has suggestions about how to cope? I feel so alone in it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My life is continuing after a breakup two years ago but I still often feel overwhelmed with sadness and anxiety. Looking for support.	My life is continuing after a breakup two years ago but I still often feel overwhelmed with sadness and anxiety. Looking for support.	1,173
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [16M] try to get back together with my ex [16F]? POST: First time posting here, sorry if I screwed something up. About a year ago my girlfriend of roughly 6 months broke up with me. It wasn't the perfect relationship. We both made mistakes, but I really loved her. A few weeks before the breakup she started being very distant and quiet. I tried talking to her, but she just never wanted to say anything to me. She just shut down whenever I tried to talk to her. The breakup was nothing noteworthy. She just walked up to me one day, said she was done with it, and left. It really broke me down and I spent a very long time moping. The following months were summer vacation, so we didn't have much contact and I just went around being sad. The first few months of school were really tough for me because we have many mutual friends and classes so we saw each other a lot. The only contact we had were occasional glances and uncomfortable conversations between classes. Then she started dating one of my close friends. Seeing her move on really hurt, but I knew I couldn't get mad about it. I tried to find love in someone else, but there was nobody that made me feel like she did. Their relationship ended after about two months. In recent months, we've been having longer conversations and I'm much more comfortable with her now. One thing I have noticed is that she talks to me more if we're alone, not really if there are many people around. I'm getting mixed signals from her. My friends have encouraged me to ask her out again, one of which is the guy she dated after breaking up with me. We are both different people and I've learned a lot, so I know I can be better to her than before. I still care about her, and I feel like a part of her still cares about me. One of my worries if I do this is that she'll just shut down again one day. Once that happens it's like she puts up a wall that is impossible to break down. I am overly analytical and I've been running through this in my mind for months with no results. I need help making a decision. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. I still care about her, but I don't know if she does. Should I ask her out again?	My girlfriend broke up with me a year ago. I still care about her, but I don't know if she does. Should I ask her out again?	1,087