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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [M26] and my girlfriend [F31] are constantly over-analysing our new relationship [3 weeks]. POST: So my girlfriend and I were both Forever-Alone types until we met. Neither of us have had a major relationship since high school, and as a result we're both out of practice and super-paranoid about everything. And since we're both massive geeks, we're constantly looking for information and validation on what we're doing. Whenever we do anything, we over-analyse our actions way too much, instead of just doing it. The day after our first kiss, we spent half an hour talking nervously about how we kiss, if we like it, if the other person didn't like it, etc. By the end both of us felt embarassed and apologised for asking so many questions. Whether it's physical stuff like hugging or kissing, or other stuff like where to go on dates, when to see each-other and the like we're always having meta-conversations about what we're doing. Besides the meta stuff, our relationship is pretty awesome (we're both incredibly attracted to one another, physically & mentally). TL;DR: . Assistant:	Me & GF are out of practice and overly nitpicky about our relationship. Is this just a natural part of a new relationship, or is there some way we can minimise it?	Me & GF are out of practice and overly nitpicky about our relationship. Is this just a natural part of a new relationship, or is there some way we can minimise it?	5,783
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I (25/F) get over somebody (27/M) I wasn't even dating? POST: So I have a casual relationship with M/23 since November. We haven't really had the exclusive talk yet and I know he wants to get more serious. Anyway, I met this other guy through a game. We started hanging out a lot since January. I'd stay over at his house and we'd have a lot of sex. But we were only friends, maybe a little more than friends but not dating. I was even thinking of breaking it off with M/23 for this guy. Anyway, last week M/27 broke it off with me. His life is getting hectic and he needs to get it under control. He's gotten more responsibility at his job, his life is going out of control, etc. I'm devastated. The guy used to say we were going to take trips together, hinted that he would eventually ask me to move in with him, the whole shebang. I was starting to envision a life with him. Now even when I hang out with M/23, I'm still unhappy and all I can think about is M/27. We're still trying to remain friends and everything but it's really hard to talk to him. He won't budge on his decision (I got weak and asked if there was anything I could do to change his mind). How do I get over him? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Not dating, more than friends breaks it off with me after I thought we were going to get more serious. How do I get over him?	Not dating, more than friends breaks it off with me after I thought we were going to get more serious. How do I get over him?	942
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm 17/m in a 2 year relationship (17/f). I think I'm too clingy - She says I'm not but acts like I am. POST: So 2 years ago my friend (girl) introduced me to a girl - we hit it off, and find each other to be very attractive. We've both had rough pasts, though hers a bit more so than mine. Anyways, at first we got along so well, we were flirty with each other, and talked as much as we could. We never wanted time apart. However recently (last few months) we constantly argue. The arguments start because "I don't know how to leave her alone." And this is true - I don't want to just stop talking to her. I'm a very lonely person without her. These arguments happen fairly often, and have gotten worse. I know she's not uninterested in me, she still wants to be physically with me as much as possible - It's just when we aren't with each other and all we can do is text or be on the phone. I being a sensitive guy have brought up the fact to her that I feel like I'm too needy, or too clingy, partly because for some reason I want her to just tell me I am. She never has. When I do bring this up she says that I'm not. We respect each other, and we love each other - we don't want to lose each other by any means. I can tell that she still wants to be with me. She's never been unfaithful. I just want to fix myself. How do I just give her time to herself and not feel so.. depressed and lonely? I've tried so many things like Drawing ( I'm a decent artist) video games, youtube videos, walks, ect. but nothing seems to get the fact that she doesn't want to talk to me out of my mind. Please help. Any advice would be so greatly appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Have Girlfriend, wants space, I am clingy, we argue about it, cant get fact that she doesnt want to talk to me out of my mind, have no life.	Have Girlfriend, wants space, I am clingy, we argue about it, cant get fact that she doesnt want to talk to me out of my mind, have no life.	3,424
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21f) am a broke college student and my boyfriend's (22m) birthday is a little over a month away. No idea what to do for him! POST: My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years and lived together for the past 6 months. Things have been great and I wouldn't change a thing. This year for my birthday he went all out, he got me some clothes and a video game and took me out to dinner. I know he had to have spent a fair amount of money on me. Well, now it's his birthday coming up and it's the end of the year. All my financial aide that I had been living off of went to rent and food and I have 2 dollars in my bank account. He recently got a job since he is not a student and has been providing for us for the past month, but before that I payed for everything. I'm not quite in a position where I can get a job because of school and sports or make any money, we live in a secluded area with not many options for extra income like donating plasma. I guess I'm looking for options of what I can do for him to make his birthday special and memorable with basically no money. I don't want him to think I don't care about him, I'm just not in a position to spend money on him right now. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have absolutely no money and my boyfriend's birthday is coming up. What are some ideas of ways I can make his day special without spending money!?	I have absolutely no money and my boyfriend's birthday is coming up. What are some ideas of ways I can make his day special without spending money!?	3,472
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I get upset when my boyfriend talks to girls he's hooked up with in the past, and I'm not sure what to do. POST: Little background story, kind of just throwing this all out there. 20f, 21m, dated in high school, broke up, he went away to college. At college he hooked up with a few different girls, which is cool, we were broken up and we both thought it was for good. Turns out it wasn't, started talking again, went to visit him multiple times, realize we want to be together again, he flunked out of college and moved back home. That was about two years ago and I still find myself hating him for hooking up with a bunch of girls. I know I should be able to trust him and get over it but what gets me is that he said he thought the idea of meaningless sex was the most disgusting thing. He also refused to tell me their names when I asked, and lied about it to me multiple times, I had to find out through a friend and confront him about it multiple times to even get him to admit to the actual number. Now, I love this man to death and I don't see myself breaking up with him, we've been through a lot yada yada yada.. Basically, he still contacts girls he's slept with and girls he's flirted with in the past sometimes, little conversations, nothing too intellectual or deep, but it kills me inside. Do I have a right to be upset? I know I can't prevent him from talking to whoever he wants to talk to, especially people he considers to be "friends,"and I'm 90 percent sure he wouldn't cheat on me, but it still hurts my feelings that he feels the need to talk to these people. I've talked to him about it before, should I bring it up again? Should I just ignore it and get over it? Should I declare him a hopeless case and split ways? This isn't the only problem in our relationship but I suppose I try to see things as a work in progress.. I'm just a little lost right now. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend talks to girls he's slept with, makes me upset, spoken about things like this to him before, what should I do?	Boyfriend talks to girls he's slept with, makes me upset, spoken about things like this to him before, what should I do?	175
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (22 F) have no idea how to read this guy (23 M) who I started talking to recently. Help! POST: Long-time lurker here. Okay, so I'm 22 (F) and just started talking to this guy who is 23. While I'm not particularly interested in him, I'm rather confused about his behaviors. Most days, he texts me so much that I turn off my phone from irritation and other days he sends me one or two texts. We've been talking for about three weeks and I have no idea how to react to him. The day after I met him, he told me about his hometown and suggested I go visit it to see some local parade and basically told me his life story, insecurities and dreams for his future. I told him next to nothing about myself, but I didn't lead on that he was creeping me out a little. Lately, I haven't been really responding because I've been busy, so he's stopped texting me as much (thank god). Well, today, out of nowhere, he tells me this elaborate (a little unbelievable) story about how he met some awesome girl and got her number. Does this mean he's lost interest and I can tell him that I'm not interested too without seeming cruel or is he trying to make me jealous? I've never had someone do this to me before. FYI, I'm not sure if he knows I'm wary of him. TL;DR: . Assistant:	This guy is confusing as hell and I want to know he is (hopefully) interested in some other girl or if I have to be the villain and tell him that I don't feel the same way.	This guy is confusing as hell and I want to know he is (hopefully) interested in some other girl or if I have to be the villain and tell him that I don't feel the same way.	4,083
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My MIL (57/F) is terrified of animals and refuses to come over anymore to me and my SO's home and thinks I (27/F) got the animals to keep her away. POST: I have never had problems with my MIL, she's always been GREAT, like really! Never been a problem, never fought, ect. This was until a year ago. My MIL is terrified of all animals, I have always knew this. If she sees a stray cat a mile away from her she will panic. She has a few other family members who are the same way too. I say they all need therapy! I grew up in a household where we always had pets, I love animals. I cannot imagine a home without animals. Soon after me and my long term SO moved in together, we rescued 2 stray black cats. They are as nice as could be and are NOT asshole cats and are not aggressive (They do not hiss or swipe at people). I didn't even think this was a problem until we told my MIL, she freaked out. She claims that I got these cats to keep her away now. Even if I say I will lock them in a room so they can't get out (which I disagree with, I shouldn't have to do this to my cats, but I will comprise for her), she still won't come over. She even has said things like "And of course you got BLACK cats!", I didn't know she was superstitious? Weird. This is becoming such a strain. I refuse to get rid of my animals for her. She thinks I am being selfish because I know of her phobia and I still got cats anyways (honestly when we got the cats we didn't even THINK of my SO's Mom......like why does it have anything to do with her?). I suggested she get therapy for her fears and she got offended and says "I am not the problem, animals are the problem, they are dirty and belong outside, not in peoples homes". Am I in the wrong here? TL;DR: . Assistant:	MIL is terrified of animals, when we rescued 2 stays she took it as a personal attack and thinks I did it so she can't visit anymore.	MIL is terrified of animals, when we rescued 2 stays she took it as a personal attack and thinks I did it so she can't visit anymore.	887
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My brother has been stealing from me POST: Hi everyone. I was looking to get some advice on my situation and hopefully you guys can give me some ideas. Anyway, here goes. My fourteen year old brother has been stealing from myself and my other family members for the past year. A month or so ago, he pretended that someone robbed our house, and stole all of the cash I had in my wallet, as well as an expensive ring my boyfriend gave me. Now you're probably wondering how I know it's him. For starters, this incident happened precisely after my father and I left the house that morning. True, a robber could have been watching us, but the timing was just odd. Second, nothing of his was stolen. He had plenty of things that a thief would have taken since his room is right next to mine, but only I (and my parents) were missing anything. Third, his "girlfriend" came over today and she was wearing my ring. The same exact ring. There's no way in hell he could have afforded it because he's a kid, and her parents are not the type of people who would spend that money on her. My parents know the truth, and they also believe that he was the one who stole from us that day. But it never ended there, he continues to steal anything we leave laying around the house, including my mother's debit card, which my mom was smart enough to cancel before he could make charges. When I try to talk to her about this and about how she should be doing something, she pretty much just says "well, what do you want me to do about it?" I've purchased a lock for my door and don't leave my room without locking it up, so hopefully this will solve the temporary problem. But long term, what do I do? Deal with it until I move out, confront him, etc. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Brother steals from me and other family members. Aside from locking my bedroom, what do I do? Should I confront him if I know he's doing it?	Brother steals from me and other family members. Aside from locking my bedroom, what do I do? Should I confront him if I know he's doing it?	2,971
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/travel TITLE: How do I start getting used to the idea of solo travel? POST: I'm a (female, American) college student who hasn't had any experience doing solo travel and I want to start figuring out where to start. I live in the northeastern US so while there are a ton of options for weekend trips around here (NYC, Montreal, Boston, and Niagara Falls jump to mind) I'm not sure where to start. I don't have a ton of money right now (hooray college!) and I have school and work during the week so I'm limited with budget stuff and scheduling right now, but that's okay because I'm honestly too scared to just go somewhere really far away for a week or whatever right now. I have traveled before (been to Europe a couple of times and spent time in China last winter as well as been to various places in the US and eastern Canada) but I was always with family or a big group so I never had to do any of the planning. I also have diabetes which makes travel a little difficult because I have to plan in advance so that I can take enough medical supplies with me (so I'm not trying to get into any sort of nomadic lifestyle). Does anyone have any tips on where I should begin? Articles to read? Websites to check out? Personal stories to share? TL;DR: . Assistant:	How did you start getting into solo travel? How do you plan it? Do you have any advice for a sheltered American college student?	How did you start getting into solo travel? How do you plan it? Do you have any advice for a sheltered American college student?	3,527
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIP & TIFU by for seeing my great grandmother's death POST: Just a little background for you guys, my great grandma was 103 when this happened 3 years ago. 3 years ago today, April 1st was also on a Sunday, and at that time I attended a youth church group regularly. Now for the story. My best friend and I had been planning on hanging out all week after church. However, because it was April fools day, and me being the devious fool I am, decided to prank him. I texted him that morning saying that we couldn't hang out because my great grandmother had died, completely forgetting that his dad was preaching that day. When I get to church I'm instantly surrounded by pretty much everyone there offering their condolences, which I decide to go along with in an attempt to really get my friend. Well about halfway through the sermon the pastor calls me up on stage to talk about what happened and stuff like that. Well at this point I was sick of the joke so I walk up on stage, grab the mic and say "I really don't know what to say other than... APRIL FOOLS" expecting a big laugh. It took about 2 seconds for people to digest that the entire thing had been a joke and another 3 for the pastor to come up and rush me off the stage under the accusing eyes of all my fellow churchgoers. But the story doesn't end here. After church we went to my friends house and were hanging out and having a good time. At around 4 my parents called their home phone and said they needed to talk to me. Unknown to me at that time, my great grandma had been pretty sick and wasn't expected to live much longer. Well I get on the phone with my parents and they tell me that she passed away earlier that day. My response was "nice try with the April fools joke, but I already used it" then hang up the phone. My parents then drove over, picked me up and took me home and explained that it wasn't a joke, and she was actually dead. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Tried pranking my best friend in church, end up getting accused by the entire church. End up predicting my great grandmother's death later that day.	Tried pranking my best friend in church, end up getting accused by the entire church. End up predicting my great grandmother's death later that day.	3,074
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: Dream of Doggie Death POST: I am really jet lagged being day two in Budapest traveling from California. I woke up about 2am CET shaken and crying from a really disturbing dream. My childhood dog, Tammy, golden retriever/dacshund mix, lived until 15yrs old and was put down about 2 years ago. The dream's memorable part was Tammy having a small neck injury, I was taking care of her and cleaning a wound around her neck. Eventually it was like her whole neck had a cut all the way around and I desperately held her head on her body trying to prevent her bleeding out. I had this feeling of absolute dread that my dog was going to die, bleeding out in my arms. I was screaming for help, I couldn't move her as it would expedite her death. She looked at me so dependent, longing, trusting, and fearful of her own mortality. Blood pooled on the ground, and I knew she didn't have long. I woke up crying and confused, and I'm balling as I write this. I got a new wonderful amazing papijack dog in April. I usually travel with my dog, domestically, but can't internationally due to quarantine laws. I have my boyfriend looking after him and he sends me pictures of their walks and gives me updates. He is taking great care of him and I'll see my boy in about a week when I return. I'm probably just grieving my old dog and probably preparing for the inevitable loss with new dog. He is only 2 years old, so we have a lot of time to look forward to. It is just so sad to outlive your doggie and dreams are too real sometimes. I've had other dreams about BBQing the new dog, performing surgery to save him, ultimately butchering him, and putting him on the BBQ. By the time I realize what I've done it is too late, and I'm sad/appalled I murdered my beloved dog... Dreams are weird, I do love BBQ steaks though. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dreamed gory death of my first childhood dog. Traveling right now and not with new beloved dog right now, missing him. Dreams are crazy.	Dreamed gory death of my first childhood dog. Traveling right now and not with new beloved dog right now, missing him. Dreams are crazy.	4,333
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF [19F] of ~14 months broke up with me [22M] about a month ago. Having trouble getting her out of my head. POST: I'm having a tough time getting through our breakup. I think that it gets hardest when I think about her or reminisce about our time together. The problem is that everything seems to remind me of her. Almost anything I do or see brings back some memory of her. I'll see some food and remember that was a food she liked, and just like that, she's back in my head. Sometimes it'll be some memory that comes up out of the blue. I'll be doing nothing and I'll remember the time we went out on a date somewhere or some other time we spent together. Is there a way to stop this, or is it just something that will go away with time. I know that I can't just wipe her from my memory, she'll always be there, but is there a way to make it happen less, or hurt less? I know I could get over her much easier if I was able to get her out of my head. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF who broke up with me keeps coming back into my thoughts, how do I remain sane/stop thinking of her.	GF who broke up with me keeps coming back into my thoughts, how do I remain sane/stop thinking of her.	4,638
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, broke my friends mac, what do I do? More info inside ... POST: Ok I'm shitting a huge one. Two days ago I took my pal a cup of tea, as he was working on our kitchen table. The mug was wet, slipped from my hand, hit the table and splashed tea on his MacBook. Immediately I grabbed the laptop, turned the thing upside down (moisture away from electronics) and did a force power off. Then we cleaned up, he wiped off the mac, and said it would probably be fine - not to worry. He then powers the mac back on. Mac works. A few hours later he goes to plug in to the charger, and realises the battery won't charge. The power lead keeps the mac on and powered but won't charge the battery. So now I'm really bricking it. He books into the 'genius' bar to get the thing looked at. Repair estimate - £570 (GBP.) Can't get it fixed elsewhere as this will void warranty. I am a student and have less than that in the bank to pay for rent etc, have a part time job which pays the bills. Do I lump up all the money? Does he have to take some responsibility ? He has no insurance. Any advice would be great, cause I'm not going to sleep until I have this sorted. TL;DR: . Assistant:	got tea on mates MacBook, do I have to pay the whole repair (he has no insurance) and I feel really bad. Please help. :(	got tea on mates MacBook, do I have to pay the whole repair (he has no insurance) and I feel really bad. Please help. :(	1,263
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [26/F] with my ex[24 M] of three years, broke up with me because I make him happy. Now he wants to go date other girls for one last time before possible settling down. Emphasis on possibly. POST: My ex and I have been together for three years and he's broken up with me because he says I'm perfect for him and he's not ready to settle down. He says I make him happier than anyone ever has and probably anyone ever will. He just feels like he is too young to settle down. Is he stupid for letting go a relationship with someone that makes him incredibly happy? Or should I respect his decision? Is this bullshit? We've broken up in the past a couple times because of his desire to stray sexually, so I'm completely confused. He's matured a lot since then and seems more invested in the relationship (until, obviously, he wasnt). He either is bullshitting me, or is making a huge mistake he's going to regret. He's claiming it's just a break he needs. But should I be okay with that? I'm so confused. He seems very certain and confident that he gets to have one last break to go play and party before finally settling down with someone who makes him the happiest he's ever been. Do I let him go and make him realize what he's losing, or should I be mature and allow him the time to grow up? It still stands I dont know if he's bullshitting or not. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend says I make him really happy and I'm perfect, so he broke up with me. He wants time to play and party one last time before settling down.	My boyfriend says I make him really happy and I'm perfect, so he broke up with me. He wants time to play and party one last time before settling down.	5,549
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend doesn't seem to take my trust issues seriously? Advice please. POST: Hey Reddit. This is my friend's throwaway, first time posting on reddit so let's see how this goes. I am a 20 year old girl, dating a 23 year old guy. We've been together for almost 9 months. I love him. He loves me. I have been cheated on in the past, have been lied to, don't have a very positive male figure in my life. My boyfriend knows all this. We have had problems with him looking at other girls infront of me, but nothing that we have not dealt with. We spend a lot of time together, and I love being with him. Lately, my insecurities have been getting the best of me. I am an attractive girl but I have allowed my boyfriend's wandering eyes to make me feel horrible about myself. I am constantly worried he will leave me for another girl. We have been fighting to no end recently, about everything. I expressed my fears and worries and we got through it. However last night he made a joke about wanting to go see his doctor to get a check up on his private part (he was specific to include that detail.) His doctor is a fairly attractive young woman. I was very upset about this, I don't understand what is funny about telling your girlfriend you would like another girl touching you. I got really upset, and he apologized for his joke. This does not make me feel better. I love him a lot, and I know he loves me. But I really just don't know what to do. Do you guys have any advice on what to do? I feel even more insecure in his satisfaction now... I just want to feel loved, appreciated, wanted, and respected. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend (23m) doesn't seem to take my (20f) trust issues seriously. Makes jokes about other girls touching him. etc. Need advice!	Boyfriend (23m) doesn't seem to take my (20f) trust issues seriously. Makes jokes about other girls touching him. etc. Need advice!	6,285
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm (20f) living in a de facto relationship with my partner (20f). Are we always expected to split payments 50/50? POST: I've been living with my girlfriend for almost a year, we've been together for 2.5 years and have usually just split every cost down the middle, which I've been very happy with so far. However, she's decided not to go to college and work long hours instead. I'm in college, working full time hours when I can and doing a course on the weekends and doing unpaid work sometimes. She also gets money from her family every week as well as from her job and has her own business. Some friends have said that seeing as we're living together, we should be pooling our income. What are your thoughts? I can give you more info if you need. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend and I are living together and she gets paid for more of the week, but not through lack of effort on my part. Should we still be splitting payments (bills, rent, groceries) 50\50?	girlfriend and I are living together and she gets paid for more of the week, but not through lack of effort on my part. Should we still be splitting payments (bills, rent, groceries) 50\50?	6,254
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (M17) constantly talks about how attractive other girls are, and really messes up my (F17) self esteem. POST: We've been dating for fourteen months. My boyfriend has always been very honest with me about everything, which is one of the things I first loved about him. If I asked him a question, he'd give an honest answer, no matter what. My problem with this started about six months ago, when he told me that he liked another girl for the first month of our relationship, and the only reason they aren't dating is because she turned him down twice. It broke my heart. But he's started being honest about things that I really don't want to know the answer to, or question I haven't asked, such as telling me how hot another girl is, or how she has an awesome chest or ass, or along the same lines. Like, I get it. They're all very attractive. He'll always send me links from porn that he finds really attractive. But the problem lies in the fact that I have absolutely terrible self image, and with good reason. I have little to no curves, and a bit of extra chub on my stomach. I'm not fat by any means, but definitely not skinny. And every single girl he likes, or thinks is attractive, has a massive chest with a huge butt and is perfectly skinny. Think Victoria Secret model. And if they aren't curvy, they're short and cute and skinny and blonde, which is the exact opposite from me. The real kicker came yesterday, when he decided it would be a good idea to tell me he's in love with a fictional character. I freaked out, probably a bit more than I should, but I'm just so tired of it. Once we started fighting over this, he started trying to eat his words, saying that he just meant that she's "fun to play with". He had been talking about how she's so cute and perfect and attractive with awesome cleavage for ten minutes before, which is just suppose to traslate into "fun to play with". I don't know what to do. I love him so much, and I'm tired of feeling like I'm a second choice behind all these other girls. What can I do? I'm can't feel so worthless for much longer. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend is very clearly attracted to girls who look nothing like me, and is now in love with a girl from a video game.	Boyfriend is very clearly attracted to girls who look nothing like me, and is now in love with a girl from a video game.	925
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What should I do? POST: I'm 22 my boyfriend is 20, we've been together for ten months. We've known each other for years. I'm in love with him, he doesn't love me back, which I told him was fine, I'm loving without expectation. I told him I want him to fall in love with me on his own time when he feels like it's right. I've been patient, I've been "in love" with him for a few months now. I'm not quite sure if I should just calm my shit down and wait more, but I have grown anxious. He doesn't have to full blown, head over heels in love with me, I just want to know if the fact has crossed his mind yet. I want to know if he's considered falling in love with me. He says he wants to focus on school and not want to be distracted by thinking about, I personally don't see how it would change anything we'd be the same couple with stronger feelings... but I think it's his defense mechanism. It's not like I'm asking for a ring on my finger, I still have my entire life ahead of me, I also want to finish school before anything too serious. We're pretty much past the "having fun" mark, I mean i honestly didn't even think we'd last this long, falling in love just kind of happened. We're good together, I just don't want to be the only trying in the relationship, basically I'm asking how I should go about asking him if he's even thought about the chance of love yet? But in a way that won't freak him out because it's not that big of a deal, i'm just growing anxious. Or should I chill for a bit and see how things play out? And i feel awkward posting this....not going to lie. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I don't know where we are at in this relationship, but I don't want to freak him out by asking.	I don't know where we are at in this relationship, but I don't want to freak him out by asking.	2,997
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Boyfriend[23/M] group-hanging out with party girl [23/F]... Reasonable to be bothered or not? [5 year relationship] POST: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Everything is 90% good. He hangs out with his 4 male friends on a regular basis to play a game that I don't like playing, so I never come. At times, those males bring their girlfriends or just female friends along, and it's always been fine with me. Now, however, a girl [23/f] "Trisha" is interested in becoming a regular part of their hangouts. The hangouts would be 4 guys (including my boyfriend) and now her. I barely know her, but from what I've seen of her on Facebook, she (based on the pictures): 1. drinks a lot and flaunts it 2. has stripped to her bra and underwear before with my boyfriend's friends 3. grabs her boobs (through clothes) and holds them up for camera at a party environment 4. stands on table while doing similar obnoxious behavior Soo... I don't think my boyfriend would cheat on me, but it makes me uncomfortable to imagine her becoming a regular part of their group. I also feel like it's almost disrespectful for him to be around someone like that on a regular basis. I've told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he (he has had more social interaction with her than I have, but still pretty limited) says that those pictures are just pictures and don't represent who she really is. And that she is "just one of the guys" and not to worry about it. But here I am, worrying and writing about it on Reddit. Is it unreasonable for me to be bothered by this girl becoming a regular part of their hangouts? And how wrong would it be for me to request that my boyfriend does not hang out with her, or significantly limits it, rather than having regular hangouts with her involved? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend[23/M] group-hanging out with party girl [23/F]. Not sure what is a reasonable reaction here.... Him and I have been in a relationship for 5 years.	Boyfriend[23/M] group-hanging out with party girl [23/F]. Not sure what is a reasonable reaction here.... Him and I have been in a relationship for 5 years.	1,589
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28/F] GF is "overwhelmed". I'm a [24/M]. Please help me figure this out. POST: Ok, here goes. Went on a backpacking trip with my GF and her family, been looking forward to it, took time off work to do it. I just got back from a 3 week work trip and a couple days later we go on this backpacking trip. Things go pretty shitty, it rains on us/hailstorms, her friend's dog shits in our tent, just overall no buenos. We get back, silent car ride home, her family stays and I go to my aunt/uncles so they have more room. She tells me that night that we need to talk. I go over today and she tells me that she's unhappy, feels overwhelmed, she says she doesn't know how to tell me whats on her mind and that she might not have been ready for a relationship. This is almost a year into the relationship, she's never brought any issues up to me (which was a big red flag I guess), and now all the sudden out of the blue things aren't working out, but she can't explain it to me clearly. What should I do? She seems like she has given up but still is open to talking. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF of almost a year tells me after a backpacking trip with her family that she feels overwhelmed, she's "broken", and can't think of how to tell me what's wrong.	GF of almost a year tells me after a backpacking trip with her family that she feels overwhelmed, she's "broken", and can't think of how to tell me what's wrong.	6,306
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm an 18M about to meet an 18F crush at a summer camp. Advice? POST: I'm headed off to a summer camp next week, where I'll most likely meet a girl I now have a big crush on. I met her last year and got her phone numer, so we talked a little but I stopped texting because I'm dumb and figured she probably wasn't interested, lived over an hour away, and was most likely headed to a different school for college. Now the camp is about to start again and I just found out we are actually headed to the same college! I'm super excited to see her again, but I'm afraid there will be awkwardness between us because we stopped talking (again, i'm really stupid) and also because i'm naturally quiet around people i'm not familiar with. So, my question is; What can I do to make sure my interest in her is clearly communicated considering my past encounters with her? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm meeting a crush I haven't talked to in almost a year at a summer camp, how can I keep this from being awkward?	I'm meeting a crush I haven't talked to in almost a year at a summer camp, how can I keep this from being awkward?	3,312
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17F] with my [18M] 'friends-with-benefits'; I need to move on with my life. How do I do it? POST: Hi. So a bit of background, I've known this guy since childhood and we've always been close friends. We dated on and off in high school, but nothing too serious. We've always had this weird sexual tension that I'm pretty sure is the only reason why I still think about him. Recently, we will both be graduating, and he has expressed to me all he wants to do is leave this town and experience all the wonderful things college will have to offer (note, we're going to the same college). That's great and all, except for the fact that I was wanting something serious, and this is where my problem comes in. Of course, being friends with similar interests, we hang out on the weekends, and being friends with awkward sexual tension, sometimes we end up making out on the couch or whatever. Classic, stupid horny teenager shit. He's always extremely friendly and kind during these weekends, but then turns right around and rarely talks to me in public or avoids me at school. After these weekends, I always end up feeling awful and even worse off emotionally than before. I leave feeling used and stupid, although I know I'm not helping the situation because I go to his house and make it very easy for him to interact with me. He's a touchy guy, and sometimes he takes the liberty to caress my arms or back of my legs when we might be standing in a crowd of people (nothing sexual, just talks the opportunity to touch my body). For some reason, I've been tied to this guy for a long time, and his opinion has always been very important to me (even to the point where I was restricting calories because I thought he would find me more attractive. No worries, I am recovering from my eating disorder, but I need to cut ties with someone who is obviously harmful to my mental health). I want to stop feeling so stupid for pretending this guy cares about me; what can I do to distance myself from him when we attend the same school system and move the fuck on with my life? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Guy only sees me as a friends-with-benefits, I need ways to distance myself from him and solutions for moving on with my life before college.	Guy only sees me as a friends-with-benefits, I need ways to distance myself from him and solutions for moving on with my life before college.	5,099
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27M] wife [25F] keeps coming with me on my business trips but won't do anything with me that involves my coworkers. POST: My company allows us to bring our spouse as long as we pay for their food and transportation. She has come with me on 5 of my trips over the past 2 years (I travel a lot). She only attends if I am going somewhere that she is interested in exploring. Well it has becoming frustrating because we only work normal hours until 5pm and after that my coworkers and bosses all get together to do something every night. They always tell me to invite her but she always declines. Not once has she accepted an invitation and she has never formally met any of them because of it. I still go with them by myself and she doesn't care and just goes off and entertains herself somewhere. But I'm just starting to feel embarrassed. It feels like I have this mystery wife that comes with me on trips and hides the whole time or something. She doesn't purposely hide from anyone, she just kinda does her own thing and hasn't ended up in a situation where she has had to meet a coworker somehow. I've talked to her about this and she says that she just loves traveling and she only comes so she can have her own solo vacation with the bonus of having me still close by. She said that the idea of having dinner or going bowling with 50+ of my coworkers makes her feel out of place so she would rather not have to because it will make her very uncomfortable. Her not attending makes me uncomfortable. No one has said anything besides "Where's the wife?" but it just makes me feel like it is giving them the wrong impression. She said that next time she will go and do something with everyone if she has to but made it very clear that she is uncomfortable with it. I don't know what to do. If I don't make her go then I will be uncomfortable but making her go will make her uncomfortable. Also, not many people do bring their spouses. 3 out of the 5 times she was the only spouse that attended. Should I just let this one go? Is this just me over thinking it? Like I said, no one has actually said anything to me about it I just feel like they are thinking it is really strange. TL;DR: . Assistant:	wife only wants to go solo on business trips and won't join my coworkers because it makes her uncomfortable. Her not joining makes me uncomfortable so what should we do?	wife only wants to go solo on business trips and won't join my coworkers because it makes her uncomfortable. Her not joining makes me uncomfortable so what should we do?	6,476
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can anyone help with with an apartment/subleasing issue? POST: I live in an apartment with 3 other girls, 1 of whom wants to move out in April, because she is graduating early. Our lease ends August 31 so she wants to find a sublet to take over her rent for the months that she isn't here, so that she doesn't have to pay while she isn't living here. She has put up some ads, and the only replies she has gotten back are by people that the other 2 girls and I do not really approve of. She is getting frustrated, because we said no to the 2 people she has found, and she is also pressuring us to choose the people we would rather not live with by making us feel guilty. She told us today that she tried to buy her way out of the lease. Didn't work. Can anyone tell me if there is a way she could completely screw us over (meaning she leaves and doesn't pay and we end up having to pay her rent)? All four of our names are on the lease. She cannot sublet to anyone without our knowledge because she requires our signatures to do so. She basically threatened us today by stating some random thing about small claims court which was fairly unclear to me, so I just want to have my bases covered with possible crap she could pull. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Roommate wants to sublet, can't find a subleaser, is there any way she could screw the other roommates and me over?	Roommate wants to sublet, can't find a subleaser, is there any way she could screw the other roommates and me over?	4,258
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [28 M] confused if I should ask this [26 F] out on a date, ladies - would you say yes? POST: I'm a very confident man, I'm a CEO in my career. I met this "woman of my dreams" recently and she's literally every thing I have been looking for in a partner, I even think she has the perfect qualities to be an amazing mother. I am so serious about her and committed to delivering her the best rest of her life. We have hung out as friends over a month now, and she has gotten time to really know the "inner me" and she's sincerely said that she likes being with me and that I'm a really nice and amazing guy and she's lucky to know me. However, in this instance, I'm intimidated to ask her out on a date. She's younger than me, I'm shorter than her, and I'm also not the out-of-GQmagazine-type-of-attractive-male...plus, she's caucasian and I'm a white-washed asian. I can't help but worry she will instantly reject me without even looking deeper simply based of this fact that we might outwardly "look like a bad match". I can't help but be concerned that she will not even be proud to take me home to her parents even if it worked out between me and her. What would you ladies say if you were asked out by a shorter guy who isn't as attractive (appearance, but hot body)? Would you even go out on 1 date and give it an honest chance to work? For me personally, I'm completely confident and secure about being in a relationship with her and building a life with her. I just have this other side of me that's been really bothering me and confusing me so just here to find out more. :) TL;DR: . Assistant:	Are there any ladies out there that will go out on a date with a guy shorter than yourself and less attractive than other guys, while giving it an honest sincere chance to work?	Are there any ladies out there that will go out on a date with a guy shorter than yourself and less attractive than other guys, while giving it an honest sincere chance to work?	379
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: So I went to a party Wednesday. I was the only straight, single guy there and the only straight, single girl there turned me down. Reddit, when have you too had the sweet spot of odds and still got nowhere? POST: I'll elaborate slightly on my story. I'm at university (college for US users) and live next door to students at a rival university. It's Halloween evening and my 'wonderful' housemates pull the same shit they always do. Go out without me. I pop into my kitchen and see next door having an awesome party. Socially awesome penguin goes round next door, ringing doorbell and knocking door. Note that we haven't had much to do with these guys yet. Said hi once or twice, but not much else. Socially awkward penguin quickly realises no one will answer the door as they assume it's trick or treaters. Nip back round my house and in the back garden of next door is a guy from next door out smoking. A quick conversation with a housemate that lives there later and I'm making my way back round with a few beers. Sit down and quickly realise this is mostly members of said rival universities LGBT society. Fine. A parties a party. Have a laugh, drink a bit. Trawl back home at stupid-o-clock. I find one of the girls there is the only straight girl there (no bi girls, either). Everyone is playing drinking games / chatting etc, I get roped in to a twisted version of truth or dare. I get a dare of kiss the person to my right. Which was said girl. So I do. She gets the "what is your magic number" later on. Turns out she "lost count at about 40". (magic number = how many people have you slept with). Skipping on to later on in the eve, I'm dancing the night away with everyone and enjoying myself, she gets back in from the garden and gives me the "like you've got a chance look". Everyone else leaves much later on. I'm the last to leave the party, skulking home again to my bed alone. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Went to neighbors party, got off with the only straight, single girl that had shagged 40+ guys. Still got rejected.	Went to neighbors party, got off with the only straight, single girl that had shagged 40+ guys. Still got rejected.	2,049
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by eating Taco Bell and feeling the aftereffects POST: Back when I was about 13, I was absolutely insane for Taco Bell. We decided to eat there after a long day of soccer and I ordered my grand 3 hard tacos combo and ate up. Later that night, the tacos thought it would be a fine-ass idea to retaliate and make me feel worse than Billy Ray Cyrus felt about the progression of his shit daughter Miley. Trying to ignore the wrenching stomach pains, I went to bed and expected to wake up fine in the morning. I woke up at about 3AM, stomach pains pounding in my interior. Well, knowing things couldn't be good, I expected to puke. Being the lazy-ass thirteen year old I was, I thought "fuck-it, Ill hold it in and go back to bed.". Well, what a great idea that I pulled out of my ass. Minutes later, puke gushed out of my mouth like Niagara Falls, hitting the left side of my bed and forming a nice pile. Still being the lazy-ass thirteen year old I was, I dismissed the idea of cleaning it up right now and thought "Hell, I need some sleep, I'll just do it in the morning." So I went back to a peaceful slumber. The next morning, I awoke with a disgusting stench and finally comprehended what had gone on the night before. I looked to where the puke should have been, but there was only an orange stain and a bit of chunky leftovers there. Fuck you, Taco Bell. I immediately look down and see puke all over my blankets, clothing, and even bare skin. Being the movement-filled sleeper I am, I must have rolled around in the pile of puke during my sleep and successfully got it all over my bed sheets and body. Feeling defeated, I shamefully took a long ass shower that morning and washed my bed sheets. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Ate Taco Bell, puked at 3AM in my bed, was too lazy to clean it up and woke up covered in puke from rolling around in it.	Ate Taco Bell, puked at 3AM in my bed, was too lazy to clean it up and woke up covered in puke from rolling around in it.	812
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Unsure of how to proceed or what to expect and it's making me crazy. A little outside perspective would be much appreciated. POST: So I [21/m] have went on 3 dates with a girl [25/f]. They have all went well and I have a massive crush on this girl. The last date (12/23) we spent cuddling on my couch and making out, and I told her I was looking for something serious and asked about her ex (they had still been talking when we first met) she said they were still friendly but she knew that would have to end if she started seeing someone. The night ended well and we agreed to hang out again. We texted a couple times while away for Christmas and things seemed okay. I asked we yesterday when we could see eachother again and she said tonight would be good, awesome right? I texted her this afternoon to ask her of she was okay with going to a new museum exhibit with me and she responded with "my friend from out of town is visiting and we haven't seen each other in years so I don't think I can hang out" I know the excuse is legit Ecauae she mentioned this a few days ago, but why would she agree to hang out tonight?? I told her its cool and to let me know when she is free again. So what do I do? Wait for her to text? Text her in a few days if I don't hear from her? I really like this girl and don't want her to slip away, but I also don't want to be "that guy" messaging her all the time and continually being shot down. the whole situation has me pretty bummed out. TL;DR: . Assistant:	me and new girl have been hitting it off. She flaked on plans today. Am I reading too much into this? How do I proceed?	me and new girl have been hitting it off. She flaked on plans today. Am I reading too much into this? How do I proceed?	5,074
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[16M] fathers[38M] computer is filled with gay porn and his browser history shows he's been talking to guys online. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. POST: He's still married to my mom btw, and has three kids. My computer died so I went on his computer, it was open and and a folder filled with videos of guys fucking was open. I was really shocked obviously and couldn't believe my eyes. I opened his browser and saw that he had some M4M chat sites open and after some digging I actually found some conversation he had saved, some even with the other guy on camera doing stuff so not just chatting. Thankfully my dad didn't go on camera. It was like a fucking car crash, I couldn't look away. After like 20 minutes of this I left everything like it was and got the hell out of there. I just am completely stumped, this is something that shouldn't happen to a son. I have nothing against gay people by the way. My dad is just a normal dad, works construction and quite the macho stereotype. Maybe he's overcompensating now that I think about it. I feel like I'm going to just ignore this and do my best to look my father in the eye next time I see him. I feel guilty about mom though, she doesn't deserve this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Found gay porn and evidence my dad has been kind of cheating on my mom with other men, don't know what to do with the information.	Found gay porn and evidence my dad has been kind of cheating on my mom with other men, don't know what to do with the information.	2,361
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Fiancé's [21M] mum constantly asks me [25F] for money. Not sure if I should let him know. Together 17 months. POST: When my fiancé and I were just boyfriend and girlfriend, he told me how his mother kept asking him for money on one particular occasion. I felt really bad about it so I spoke to her and offered her some money because she said she would be homeless without the money. I did this behind my then-boyfriend's back, which I know was wrong but I really didn't feel good knowing his mum could end up homeless. This happened a couple of times. Then-boyfriend found out about it and got really mad at me and her but everything's fine now. Since then she keeps reaching out to me for more money. It's gotten to the point where I feel like she only talks to me when she wants money. I find it really hard to deal with this because when she says she needs the money for food, that really makes me very sympathetic. I do not want to go behind my fiancé's back and give her money but I'm worried if I tell him she's been asking that he will get mad at her, and she will get mad at me for telling him. I also am a bit strapped for cash at the moment given that we are saving up for rent, bills, and food because when I move to be with him I won't be able to get a job for a while so I'm just saving every penny I can. It pains me to say no, and I also do not want this to continue for the rest of our lives. Should I just tell my fiancé and risk him being mad at his mother and then have his mother being mad at me too? I really hate confrontation and I'm not sure what the right thing to do in this situation is. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Fiancé's mother keeps asking me for money. Not sure whether to tell him or not. Risk him being mad at her, and her being mad at me for telling him.	Fiancé's mother keeps asking me for money. Not sure whether to tell him or not. Risk him being mad at her, and her being mad at me for telling him.	176
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Another Update. My husband [36] walked out on me [33] on Monday after 13 years and I don't know what to do. POST: Here was my last update, 10 days ago, the links to the other posts are in there: This is just another brief update. My husband yesterday asked me to start divorce proceedings using his adultery as the reason. He says I can have the house and full custody if the children because he's moving to Belgium to be with his online girlfriend. To be clear, in Northern Ireland to get a divorce a married couple has to be living apart for two years (it hasn't even been three months) before a divorce can occur with consent from both people. Without consent the separation has to be five years. The exceptions to this are unreasonable behaviour or adultery-there are others but I've not sure what they are. So he can't start divorce proceedings, but I can. I'm completely amazed by this, he's throwing away his entire life for this woman he met online only 4 months ago, and has spent less than a week with in person, and that in London. He's never been to her country, her home, or met her child, yet he''s abandoning his own children to go raise someone else's. Not to mention he doesn't speak the language. At this stage it feels like my husband has been replaced by a pod person, he so little resembles the man I married. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My husband wants me to file for divorce on the grounds of his adultery and for me to have our home and full custody of our children so he can go live with his online girlfriend.	My husband wants me to file for divorce on the grounds of his adultery and for me to have our home and full custody of our children so he can go live with his online girlfriend.	3,629
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is there really a "Button" area on a humans body that will, upon impact, cause unconsciousness? POST: My Father, a few UFC/Boxing announcers and myself call the area on the face under the eye "The Button", because in most fights when that area is struck really hard, it's immediate jelly-legs as they hit the canvas unconscious... ..now is that actually, as we call it, a "Button" area that causes them to lose consciousness? Or is it just because the guy got punched in the face? Also, we've all seen it in the movies where the Martial Arts Master sneaks up from behind and gives the enemy a chop to the side of the neck ("JUDO CHOP!"), causing their enemy to black-out. I've seen and been in enough fights to know that simply taking a hit to the side of the neck isn't going to do anything but hurt and maybe activate a pressure-point and just hurt more...but is there a certain area there on the neck (or anywhere, for that matter) that can be hit or pinched that will cause instant unconsciousness (without the unconsciousness coming from the force of the hit, but rather the placement)? Just curious. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Is there an area in the body that can be struck or manipulated that will cause instant unconsciousness (again, not from the force of the hit but from the area)??	Is there an area in the body that can be struck or manipulated that will cause instant unconsciousness (again, not from the force of the hit but from the area)??	4,841
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Both of my(24f) parents (late 50s) are broke and declining fast. I do not want to help them. Looking for insight from anyone who has experienced something similar.. What will happen? (x-post relationship_advice) POST: Long story short, my parents screwed up big time in life and now that I am in control of myself financially and otherwise, I do not want them to drag me down (they succeeded in doing this for the first 20 years of my life). Both of them have serious medical issues (COPD, Hep C, etc.) and DO NOT take care of themselves at all. They are separated and do not live together. My mom barely makes it paycheck to paycheck and is being hounded by debt collectors. She asks me for money on a monthly basis and I am learning to stand my ground and not help her. My dad is on disability and works randomly but as far as I know does not have any savings to speak of. When they get to a point where they can no longer take care of themselves, I do not want to help them. Specifically not financially. I am looking for people with any similar experience, What will happen? What can I expect? I do not want them to end up homeless, but I really need to stand my ground. TL;DR: . Assistant:	What will happen to my broke parents when they can no longer take care of themselves and I refuse to help them?	What will happen to my broke parents when they can no longer take care of themselves and I refuse to help them?	1,620
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I'm (18m) having trouble asking out my best friend (18f) POST: I feel that this is going to be a long post. To start we're both in our senior year of high school and have known each other since sophomore year. When we first met I really didn't notice her that much and didn't talk to her until another friend introduced us to each other. After that we really hit it off well and I just thought we could be really cool friends. Fast forward to next year and we have the same class again so we hang out constantly and try to partner up because we're both awkward around other people. (Side note we both are also on the swim team at our school so we naturally hang out a lot) People immediately notice and assume we're going out but we both fervently deny it as we're just friends. I was considering asking her out at this point, but was crushed when I found out she had just started going out with another guy before I could even ask. They break up at the end of the year because he was an asshole to her. Fast forward to this school year and I finally get her number so we're chatting pretty regularly and not relying on school to talk anymore. I'm finally getting my confidence up to ask her to homecoming just as friends so she wouldn't feel awkward when she tells me her friend introduced her to a football player from another school. They never date but he decides to take her to homecoming so I never even go just saying I hung out with friends that night. Except that my best friends date never showed up, and that she was forced to tag along with a friends group. At this point I'm getting frustrated and want to protect her from more bad relationships but I don't want to ask her out and ruin our friendship should it not work out. I only recently asked her to prom as friend after mustering my confidence and want to be able to try to ask her out then. I've never been in a relationship before because I hate the awkwardness that it causes but I really like her. Is there anyway I could tell her how I feel without ruining our friendship? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Trying to ask out best friend but don't want to ruin our friendship should it not work out. What should I do?	Trying to ask out best friend but don't want to ruin our friendship should it not work out. What should I do?	455
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If you had a mr. Meeseeks, from the show Rick and Morty, what would you tell it to do? POST: For those who don't know in the show, in an episode of Rick and Morty the family is given a box with a button. when you press the button a blue man with a high voice named mr. Meeseeks appears and will do whatever you tell him to do and then disappears once its done. they can press the button for multiple meeseeks but each can only do one thing. they are not gods and are more or less limited to human abilities. but here is the catch they cannot die until their given task is completed. Existence for a meeseeks is pain, and therefor a meeseeks will stop at nothing in pursuit of its given goal so it can finally die. TL;DR: . Assistant:	mr. meeksees is a guy who will do whatever you tell him and then he will disappear. he isn't a god and cant preform magic. but he will never rest until your request is fulfilled.	mr. meeksees is a guy who will do whatever you tell him and then he will disappear. he isn't a god and cant preform magic. but he will never rest until your request is fulfilled.	1,318
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend (25M) wants to move out of our apartment but stay with me (24F) POST: So my BF (25M) and I (24F) have been together for three years and we have been living together for about two years. Everything has been great, the relationship is fine. It's been convenient that we've lived together because his car had broken down and we have been fortunate enough to get by using only my car. He's able to walk to school and use my car to get to/from work. Now the opportunity for him to get a car has presented itself and he is considering moving back into his parent house to save money. He wants to stay together, but doesn't want the financial responsibility f living in an apartment. I'm devastated for multiple reasons. One being that he'd move out and I love having him around to come home to. And two, because although he doesn't pay much rent/utilities he does help out and the money he gives me every month definitely helps me get by. In my eyes it seems selfish to move out when I know he'll just be over all the time anyway like he was before he moved in. Except now he won't be "living" with me so won't have the financial burden. He says he wants to live with me but has to look out for his best interest. But what about mine? The biggest reason I'm still in this damn state is because I love my bf and want to stay until he done school so we could start our lives elsewhere. I've sacrificed a lot for him, and now I feel like he's just looking out for what's convenient for him. Barring the financial stuff it really hurts my feelings he'd want to move out in the first place. I feel like him moving out is like backtracking in a relationship. And I wonder if it will suffer because of it. I need help reddit. I am in a world of confused emotions and I dot know what to feel TL;DR: . Assistant:	my boyfriend wants to move out for financial reasons, but wants to stay together. I might suffer financially if he does.	my boyfriend wants to move out for financial reasons, but wants to stay together. I might suffer financially if he does.	1,542
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] with my girlfriend [28 F] 2 weeks, she opened up about past sexual expieriences, I cannot seem to handle it. POST: Ok, so, everything is going good, we really seem to bond and we like each other very much. I know her for a long time and it's been two weeks going out and doing stuff, we are sexually active and both enjoy it. Lately we talked about past stuff and she told me that with another guy they were into swinging and 2guys-1girl stuff, she told me that the other guy proposed it and she accepted, but from what I understood it happened on multiple occasions. I told her that I'm ok with her having done stuff but that is where I draw the line and that I will never be able to do that, she told me that although it was an ok expierience, she doesnt want to do anything like that again, that it was not her idea and that Im everything she's ever wanted, she wants me e.t.c. I was shocked and told her so and also told her that although I also have done such weird stuff, I could never do it with her because, well I can't. I am really in love right now, I think she could be the one for me, but when we are not together images come to my head and haunt me. I really need your help TL;DR: . Assistant:	Gf has had some extreme (for me) sexual expieriences, I cannot get over it, what do?	Gf has had some extreme (for me) sexual expieriences, I cannot get over it, what do?	1,615
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20/F) found nude pics of my boyfriend's (21/M) ex-girlfriend on his computer which were sent during our relationship. Should I bring it up? POST: x-post from r/askreddit. I was using my SO's laptop watching some videos and such and happened upon some naked pictures of an ex. They were the kind of pictures you take with Photo Booth on a mac, so it had the date listed as the file name, and it was during a time when we were still dating. I just closed it out and didn't mention anything and stayed on the computer as if nothing happened. The thing is, I wasn't immediately upset or hurt by it. I was kind of just shocked and had one of those "...oh.." feelings. I don't know if I'm so shocked that I'm just feeling numb to the fact that my SO basically cheated on me, or actually physically could have because we have a long distance relationship and said ex lives in the same city as him. Granted, the date on the picture was almost 2 years ago, but we've been dating for 3 years. I was also constantly reassured by him, probably from 5 or 6 months into our relationship, that they weren't speaking anymore, and by the time we went to college (they went to different colleges in the same town, I go to college about 2 hours away) that they had no contact whatsoever. So, should I shrug this off because it was a long time ago, or should I bring it up because it was still during our relationship and I want to know what was going on? Right now I have no doubt that we are currently completely committed to each other, and it wouldn't even cross my mind that any sort of unfaithful behavior would be taking place right now. I'm just confused, maybe very slightly hurt, and curious about what actually happened during that time. If they had sex then my feelings would instantly turn into anger, but right now I'm just unsure. Do I bring this up, or let it slide? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend of 3 years has nude pictures on his computer of his ex-girlfriend which were obtained 1 year into our relationship.	My boyfriend of 3 years has nude pictures on his computer of his ex-girlfriend which were obtained 1 year into our relationship.	2,789
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Fear of my son's mother attempting to change custody due to my relationship status. TN POST: So I've just been awarded overnight visitation with my 6 year old son after his mother kept him away from me for two and a half years. We mediated earlier this year and we (my son and I) met twice a week for a couple hours a day to reestablish our relationship. To him it was like no time had passed, he grabbed my hand thay first day and said come on dad let's go play. I'm currently engaged to a woman that I was with before my son's mother decided to stop letting me see him. I'm afraid that now that he is staying overnight with me and I live with my fiancée, the she is gonna attempt to take me back to court to take away what I just managed to get back. Can she do this? Would I lose my visitation again? TL;DR: . Assistant:	just got visitation back with my son, wondering if mother can change the visitation order since I live with my fiancée.	just got visitation back with my son, wondering if mother can change the visitation order since I live with my fiancée.	3,532
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] really depressed, can't get ex off my mind, can't seem to want to move on. POST: My ex dumped me about a month and a half ago. I have been with three women in the past three weeks but it really does not feel the same at all. I talked to my ex on the phone about a week ago, just telling her that her new boyfriend is a piece of shit and that he's brainwashing her into not talking to me, etc. It might sound crazy but the only reason I was with those other women was because I thought it would win back this ex that I was seeing a lot for 2 months. Should I write my ex a love letter telling her how I feel? Should I call her once a day? Or should I just move on and try to find another girl like her? I do not want her to be the one that got away, and cannot seem to move on no matter how hard I try. She was basically my polar opposite, but I suppose that's why we were so attracted to each other. Does true love just fade away? Why hasn't she even attempted to contact me this past month and a half when that's all I've been trying to do is to get a hold of her. Life seems so meaningless without her and I really don't know how to deal anymore. There are tons of suitable partners around me but I don't feel the same way about them to any degree. I'm really just looking for any kind of advice. I love her, she loves me, but she can't seem to get over the fact that I asked if she was being unfaithful a couple of times. When the fight occurred I was 2 weeks behind on all of my school work and in the middle of a project, so I was stressed as hell in the first place, and then she being REALLY SARCASTIC which I struggle with regardless. These two things coupled together make me unbelievably furious, and I completely over-reacted. Not to mention how little sleep I was getting while I was with her. Should I be afraid to just show up to her house and give her the love letter I've been working on? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I really miss my ex and can't seem to get her off my mind. Should I wait for her to break the no contact (because I already have), or should I just go to her house and see her in person?	I really miss my ex and can't seem to get her off my mind. Should I wait for her to break the no contact (because I already have), or should I just go to her house and see her in person?	471