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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [27M] have been the lover of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder [26F]. Recently recognized all her symptoms of BPD so I need advice, possibly from those who have been in a similar situations. POST: For the last year, I have been in a very sexual relationship with this girl in whom I now see the symptoms of BPD. She's got a boyfriend and while I'm relatively open with my relationships, she gets extremely jealous. There were a couple of times where she tried to blame me for some problem that I really couldn't see myself at fault for. And then possibly as a revenge measure for me not giving a crap, she goes rebounding with some other guy (not even her bf). However after that in her calm episode, she regretted doing that on an impulse and even accepted that she might have BPD after we had a talk. So now here's my problem. I'm a student of human behavior and after observing her behavioral patterns, researched a lot on BPD and Histrionic Personality Disorder. There were a few AMAs on Reddit as well and majority say to get out of there and cut all contact. Most of the guys there seemed to have been in serious relationships with the women in those instances. I'm in it for the amazing sex but people say that the manipulation will start setting in. I've already noticed that I've been investing more time with her over the last few months. She's agreed to treatment so should I bother being a support figure for her since she's got a bf anyway? Or continue with the sexytimes til things get crazier? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Fucking a girl with Borderline Personality Disorder (recognized this only 2 weeks back) for a year. Continue til things get crazy or leave immediately?	Fucking a girl with Borderline Personality Disorder (recognized this only 2 weeks back) for a year. Continue til things get crazy or leave immediately?	793
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Him (M43), me (F40), crossdressing, fetish, no reciprocity. Duration 16 years. POST: Tonight I came home a bit early and found my husband in a tiny skirt. Apparently he bought it just last weekend as a lark when I was traveling for work. But now he says it might be that he wants to wear women's clothing every day at home. This is all a bit sudden for me. He has always had a pantyhose fetish. He wants to include pantyhose in sex; otherwise he has trouble staying focused. I'll wear them, but what he really likes is him wearing them. I'm okay with this but not EVERY time we have sex. Unfortunately, he mostly seems to be interested when we include the hose. He insists on me accepting him as he is and his fetish. Which is as it should be, but for him accepting it means he doesn't have to try sex any other way. He does not go down on me because he doesn't like it. We have no spontaneous sex because for him it's a big production with the hose and the dressing up and the setup. For two years I've asked him to indulge my super vanilla fantasy of having sex in the shower, but no - he says sex and water don't go together and that he's just uncomfortable. Basically, we do it his way (in bed in the evening, lights on, curtains drawn, with the hose) or not at all. I've always been attracted to him though because he is a big masculine guy and that is my type. I like strong masculine men. But now he wants to be feminine. Every day. At home. I have no idea how I'm going to be sexually attracted to that version of him. And he says I am cruel and unaccepting if I can't. I also cannot help but think that this is something that has been going on for a long while and he's been hiding it from me. It's hard to believe he got his first item of clothing just a few days before I caught him wearing it. And now I wonder what else he's hiding. Am I a horrible wife for having trouble with all this? TL;DR: . Assistant:	husband has a fetish, now also wants to crossdress, is not giving in bed and is calling me cruel and unaccepting when I say I might have trouble being turned on by the new him. Am I?	husband has a fetish, now also wants to crossdress, is not giving in bed and is calling me cruel and unaccepting when I say I might have trouble being turned on by the new him. Am I?	1,432
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: what moment in your life did you realize that everything you thought you knew about someone or something was a lie? POST: me and my best friend had known these 2 girls for a while, by the names of Stacie and Lauren. they were nothing more than friends, they just liked to come hang out with us when we went out at night sometimes. I believed they were great people. If you had asked me about them 2 nights ago, I wouldve had nothing but good things to say about them. Well, me and my friend went and picked them up one night. I knew they had been in the hospital the day before and had some medications they had to take, which was fine. But Stacie started acting weird, and i noticed she was taking ALOT of medication. But i didnt say anything. then she got really quiet and accidently spilled her purse. and about 20 or 30 different pill bottles fell out. everything from Oxycodone to methamphetamine was in these bottles. only half were marked in actual labels, the rest in sharpie. then I notice my best friend get real quiet, and pulled into a church parking lot and got out and walked away. I went to chase him down and he told me to go back and tell Stacie and Lauren that he didnt wasnt to hear a single word out of them on the way back home. so we went back to the car and drove them home and we left. come the next day, me and my cousin go and pick Stacie and Lauren up, because my friend was so pissed he didnt want to see Stacie, and I wanted to see what the fuck was up with the pills and shit. my cousin thought he didnt know Stacie, but as soon as she walked out to the car, he sped off after taking one look at her and said if i ever hung out with her again, he beat the hell out of me. Apparently, Stacie gave what my cousins friend thought was some tylenol for a headache, and it turned out to be some unidentified drug that almost killed him. TL;DR: . Assistant:	after months of hanging out with what I thought were very good friends, I realized I was hanging out with an attempted murderer and substance abuser.	after months of hanging out with what I thought were very good friends, I realized I was hanging out with an attempted murderer and substance abuser.	6,430
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: I feel pretty tired/fatigued a lot of the time, what do I do? POST: I'm also unhappy with the decisions I've made, and my observational skills are very low. Today, when doing something as simple as playing cards, I messed up like trice and felt bad for it. I don't really enjoy anything anymore in a "good way", as in it makes me happy. Used to love playing games and making movies, but all that passion is gone. If you've read my (one and only) previous topic, I'm into this girl, right? Well, yesterday, I was kind of starting to move on from that whole thing. But today the most f-ed up thing happened; when me and my friends were going to eat and were passing the entrance, guess who walks in? She then sat down and ate with her friends, while I was anxious inside all of that time... ;( And we met one last time when she passed by and we were playing cards, after my several paranoid stares for her; one of her friends jokingly asked "if they could play with us". Now I feel awful again, because not once did she in any way try to acknowledge my existence. It was so bizzare too, I was absolutely unprepared, and BAM! I've contemplated how valuable my life truly is. I don't want to come off as some nihilist emo, but I don't know. I don't want my family to suspect that I'm depressed, even if my father is inclined to think so, and even explicitly asked it. I feel like I've let so many people down to the degree that I can't count, made failed impressions and come off as awkward, and feel deeply disturbed whenever I hear about everything happening in this sickening world, as well as witnessing it IRL. I don't want to look this supposed depression up though, maybe it's just a minor one and note severe? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have mental problems, a bad social life and failed relations. Can I be responsible and fix this or should I do something different?	I have mental problems, a bad social life and failed relations. Can I be responsible and fix this or should I do something different?	5,122
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my GF[20F] When would you stay with crazy? POST: I'll try to keep it somewhat brief. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. Once we were dating for awhile I realized she wasn't the most stable person... at all. She had very bad depression, anxiety, and migraines. She also gets jealous easily, has trust issues, and is slightly overweight. It took me a long time and a lot of effort to get her to go to her doctor to start taking meds. I tried to get her to see a therapist as well, but she only ended up going a few times and then gave up. When we were in college together still, her depression/anxiety was so bad that she gave up on going to classes and flunked out. She doesn't have her license, she currently works a minimum wage job and it's been 1-2 years since she's been in college. She was supposed to go last spring but that didn't work out, and she's supposed to go an upcoming semester but I'm not sure if she'll follow through. Her family is also pretty crazy which doesn't help the whole situation. --- I see many people give the advice of leaving someone who seems depressed or has anxiety because "they're crazy." I don't really see these people as crazy unless it's a serious case and they're doing extremely immature, insane things. To me, it seems a little rude to just assume they're crazy and tell people to run away. For whatever reason I decided to stay and help her instead of running away. She's definitely improved a lot, but still has some issues. I guess I cared about her enough to spend a lot of my time and energy to stay and help. My question to you is: When would you stay with "crazy"? What would make you stay, what would make you leave? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Everyone seems to say "seems crazy leave" in a lot of the posts I read. When would you stay?	Everyone seems to say "seems crazy leave" in a lot of the posts I read. When would you stay?	776
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [32F] and my partner [35M] of seven years, are starting to fell the pressure to get married. POST: We've been together for almost seven years and we never felt the need to get married, we've bought a house together, a car, made financial decisions together and so on. We feel like a married couple, but our families and friends keep asking when we're going to get married, why we don't want to get married, want to know if we're having problems and things like that. We think marriage is really a huge thing, especially here (Italy), where getting a divorce takes at least 3 years and quite some money spending, besides that we wouldn't have problems getting married, but we talked about it and what came out of it was: if we never thought about it, there must be a reason. I'm scared we're going to rush trough it just because "it's the right thing to do" and it'll damage our relationship. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Me and my partner feel the pressure to get married, I'm scared we are going to rush it to please others and it'll damage our relationship.	Me and my partner feel the pressure to get married, I'm scared we are going to rush it to please others and it'll damage our relationship.	4,164
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (22M), just got out of a 2 year relationship where I lived with her (20f) for pretty much the entire time, went on a few dates, don't know how to feel anymore? POST: She left about a month and a half ago then I went away on orders with the army. Ever since I've gotten home to the empty house though everything feels completely empty. I got used to living with her, then the boys when I was with the army, and now it's like nothing. I only got one local friend left cause the rest moved away and so it kinda just piled up on me. So anyway, I went on a date today, and I've gone on a few others but I feel nothing towards these girls, almost like I'm numb. I'm not sure if I'm just emotionally overwhelmed or if this is normal? I feel completely lost lol and I'm not too sure where to turn or if this is normal and I just need to power through it? TL;DR: . Assistant:	got out of a 2 yr live in relationship and I feel completely lost. Gone on a few dates but felt absolutely nothing. Is this feeling normal?	got out of a 2 yr live in relationship and I feel completely lost. Gone on a few dates but felt absolutely nothing. Is this feeling normal?	1,075
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what is your biggest "Oh shit, I'm F&#^$%" Story? POST: I'll start. A few weeks ago, me and the fam were putting up lights on the house for the holidays. While on the roof, I was leaning over one of the highest parts of my house and trying to hang a line of lights on some trimming. Because of how the roof was designed and what not, I had to lean out quite a bit, and not being afraid of heights I was being way to careless in the whole process. As I leaned over, I sort of started to slide of head first, and at the last second was able to grab on to the ledge and work my way back up. It would have been a good 30 or so ft fall head first. First thing that went through my mind as it happened was, "Oh shit, I'm fucked." TL;DR: . Assistant:	Basically almost fell 30 ft off my roof head first while trying to put up Christmas lights, and barely managed to catch myself.	Basically almost fell 30 ft off my roof head first while trying to put up Christmas lights, and barely managed to catch myself.	1,371
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Yet to have a pain free run, advice please? POST: Right, so I have never been a very active person until I recently started excersicing and watching what I eat to lose some weight. It's through that that I found running, and realised how enjoyable it is and how it is something I would love to do. So I set about starting c25k, progress wise, I'm on W5D1. However I'm yet to have a pain free run. I've got Tibial Torsion, which means my feet turn out basically, my right foot considerbly more than the left. I also believe I have Plantar Fasciitis at the moment, as well as calf tightness. I over pronate and I am flat footed. Apart from that my feet are fine!!! I've tried different shoes, Insoles, and supports, taping, excersises etc etc and find the best thing for me so far has been barefoot running, and I'm considering buying some vibram five fingers shoes? I tried out running in sufring/water shoes and still got the pain. So far only running in my socks has been painless enough to run for a considerable amount of time and begin to enjoy it! I'm due to see a physiotherapist in the next month (NHS are very very slow) but for now I just wondered if anyone had been through any of the problems I've described, and what helped them? Also whether anyone has any of above problems and wears five fingers, or minimalist running shoes? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have tibial torsion, plantar fascittis, over pronation, calf tightness, and flat feet. Advice on one or more?	I have tibial torsion, plantar fascittis, over pronation, calf tightness, and flat feet. Advice on one or more?	4,553
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Notice of tax deficiency, post divorce POST: Hello fellow PF redditors, I received a notice of tax deficiency from 2012 in the amount of $2,074. That year my ex-wife and I each had one 1099 to our names that were not properly filed. The notice includes the 1099 amounts and corresponding social security #s. We divorced in 2014 and our divorce decree states "each party shall be solely and separately responsible for paying any and all debts heretofore contracted or incurred by either in their own name." So, it appears that we are each individually responsible for these debts, and now I need to get the IRS to break this down and pursue her separately from me. I will appreciate any advice on how to get a hold of the IRS so this can be broken down and they can pursue each of us individually. I always feared that an issue like this would arise and force my ex and I to reconnect, and I do not want that. Thank you! TL;DR: . Assistant:	IRS says my ex wife and I owe back taxes, I want to know how I can get the IRS to break this down and treat us as separate individuals.	IRS says my ex wife and I owe back taxes, I want to know how I can get the IRS to break this down and treat us as separate individuals.	3,596
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: It's getting serious with me [30 M] and her [23 F], but I don't know what to do about it. POST: A quick summary about me [30M] - over a year ago I ended a long term relationship that I was in that was very unhealthy. There was a lot of manipulation, and even though I was glad to be out of the relationship, it took me about a year to recover from it. I have rebuilt my confidence and now I have an ecosystem of happiness again. I couldn't be happier with life. Fast forward to a few months ago I met a beautiful girl [23F] and we instantly hit it off. The only problem was - she lives in another state, but has family here and was in town visiting. Regardless, we exchanged numbers. About a month later, she visited her family again and we hung out a couple of times. It was fantastic and I really started to like her. She came over again about a month later on another visit and we spent a couple more days hanging out, and I am beginning to fall for her. I like her a lot and we get along in an almost unreal capacity. All should be good, right? Well, lately I have been having a hard time accepting the long distance portion of it. I only see her for a couple of times a month and when I am not with her, I miss her a lot. She has expressed interest in moving to my state, but I can't help believe it's solely for me and I don't want her to do that. Not only that, but I am just starting to become happy and independent again and I fear getting back into a relationship this quickly might undermine that. A part of me wants to live my own life and be free and pursue a relationship much farther in the past. She has expressed that she is serious about me and wants to become an item. With these two things in mind, I want to be honest with her and let her know how I feel. I just don't want to hurt her and I think if we continue moving forward, it might just make things worse. At the same time, I really like her and still want her. I am confused and don't know what to do! How should I go about figuring out what to do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Possible long distance relationship, she wants to move to be with me, I am having second thoughts. I want my freedom, but I still like her.	Possible long distance relationship, she wants to move to be with me, I am having second thoughts. I want my freedom, but I still like her.	5,389
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (29/f) am so sick of being jealous/obsessing over my bf's (32/m) ex-wife. POST: Please, help me get out of my head. I am tired of this irrational thinking. Boyfriend of 1 year has an ex-wife (divorced about 2 years now), with whom he shares a 2 year old son. They officially broke up during the pregnancy and have since had a pretty functional and cool co-parenting relationship. And then here I am. Happy with boyfriend. He sees his son about twice a week, on days when I'm not around. I haven't met him yet, mostly just because of schedule conflicts and we wanted to wait a while. Looking forward to it, eventually. But my god. I CANNOT stop thinking about how he shared a home with this woman. I feel jealous that they have a child together -- it's such an intimate and special thing to share! I even got drunk one night and found one of her old abandoned photobucket accounts which included pictures of them when they used to be together. I've asked him about their relationship, he said he wasn't happy for a long time. He rushed into the marriage, unsure. And when things were on the outs, they found out she was pregnant. They divorced and are trying to raise this kid as best they can. So why the fuck do I care??? Seriously. I am so sick of this. EVERYONE has a past. I have had a serious live-in relationship of my own. Inside I am so mad that he wasn't more cautious about having a kid with someone he knew he wouldn't be with. I'll never be his first wife, I'll never give birth to his first child. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm always feeling jealous/obsessed with the ex-wife. Can't stop thinking about her. Really wish I could just let it go.	I'm always feeling jealous/obsessed with the ex-wife. Can't stop thinking about her. Really wish I could just let it go.	4,947
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by causing a post office to have a rotten potato POST: I few days ago, I saw on the internet that apparently there are a bunch of weird things that can be sent through the USPS. My grandma is kind of an odd little duck, so I decided to try and mail a potato to her. I decided to take one of the smaller, baby potatoes that is light enough to meet the weight limit for a single stamp but big enough to fit the stamp and a small message. So I get the potato, attach the stamp and the messages "Betcha didn't know you could mail a potato! -ziegzag" & "P.S. plz don't eat this potato" (also the thing is covered in tape to make them stick). I dropped it off at my local post office and wait for the results. Five days later, my grandma comes over for dinner and starts to tell my mom about how the post office called and said they're holding a small package that they couldn't deliver, blah blah blah. My grandma proceeds to tell that she drove all over her neighborhood chasing her mailman, only for him to say that there is a small package rotting at the post office & that he can deliver it if she wants it. She didn't know I had mailed her a potato and was utterly confused, until my mom told her that I mailed her a potato. Flash forward to about 15 minutes ago and my grandma says "Out of all people I wasn't expecting ziegzag to send me a potato!", I replied "Well who else would send you a potato?". Sorry SPB post office. TL;DR: . Assistant:	mailed a potato to my grandma, caused a mild wild goose chase, and the local post office now has a rotting potato.	mailed a potato to my grandma, caused a mild wild goose chase, and the local post office now has a rotting potato.	4,479
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it possible to fight to pay the bills? POST: If I wanted to become a professional fighter to pay the bills and work my way through college, where would be the easiest place to start? Here's my plight: I'm working my way into a rough spot on money, living as a college student holding down a fulltime-ish job to pay my car note and rent and other stuff. I'm about to move on to a full-blown university which costs 4x as much as my current community college. I'm going to have to take a ton of loans out and I'm a little scared of being $60K in debt by the time I get my B.A. or B.S., whichever route I end up going. I've reached a fun point in my quest to get into shape. I no longer get sore, even if I work out for hours, and I can run several miles comfortably. I quit smoking and started kicking my own ass this way daily and it's showing really satisfying results. I know I'm not built to be a professional-grade fighter yet, but I think it could potentially be in the cards if I can find the right place to get started. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Anybody know much about the world of professional fighting? Any discipline works, as long as I can eventually turn it into a pay day.	Anybody know much about the world of professional fighting? Any discipline works, as long as I can eventually turn it into a pay day.	3,916
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26F] was disowned 5 yrs ago by my Father [60F], now things on the mend. How do I introduce my GF of 7 years? POST: Control freak father. I had to lie for many years regarding my sexuality because he did believe me and thought I was brainwashed. Fast forward 5 yrs later. I have been with the same woman for 7 years, who he barely met once prior to the disowning thing. Now our relationship is on the mend because I think he has grown and changed his opinions, but Im not sure how he will respond to meeting her. I really want to figure this out before the holidays because I dont want to go visit with my family without my GF. Also, my allegiance is to her family because they accepted me with open arms at every holiday over the last few years. So I definitely need to have plenty of time for them on the holidays. Another complicating factor. My mother lies to my father constantly to "protect him." She has met my GF many times and even gone out to dinner with us, but my dad has no idea. She would have to pretend she had never met my GF before, which is just awkward for everyone. My whole family walks on eggshells around him and is so afraid of pissing him off or of him making a scene, so we won't make any progress unless I force it. Ugh. Any advice would be much appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Should I ask him/explain the importance of him meeting her or just pop over for a surprise or casual meeting at a party?	Should I ask him/explain the importance of him meeting her or just pop over for a surprise or casual meeting at a party?	4,545
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [21/M] intentionally does or says things to make me [20/F] mad, then laughs at my reaction. What to do? POST: I have been in this relationship for almost two years. It hasn't been perfect and I believe it's been on a downhill slope for a while. My boyfriend has recently started a new behavior with me where he will intentionally do or say something that he thinks will annoy me or make me mad, and if he gets a reaction out of me, he laughs. For example, he will invite me out to dinner with his friends, then he won't text me when the time comes for dinner. When I text him asking when dinner will be, he'll say, "whoops I forgot, we're actually eating now." Then ten minutes later will say, "Just kidding, we're leaving in an hour." Sometimes, if I excuse myself to return a text when he's around, he sticks his hand onto my screen and moves it around to mess up my text. If I try to pull my phone away, he says, "I've always wanted to do that: mess up your text just to annoy you." The last time I tried to have a conversation with him about where our relationship was headed, he just sat down and started laughing, saying that the conversation was "funny" to him. When I asked him why he felt that way, all he could say was "this is just a funny situation. It's just hilarious. It's just so funny." Without any further explanation. I'm not one to feed the troll, but it is beginning to get really annoying. I don't know how to handle this situation other than to just ignore it when it happens, but it is honestly beginning to get really hurtful. Sometimes it feels like I am dealing with a child. Any input on what to do/why he may be acting this way would be appreciated. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend does things just to get a rise out of me; refuses to talk about the situation and dismisses my feelings with laughter.	Boyfriend does things just to get a rise out of me; refuses to talk about the situation and dismisses my feelings with laughter.	3,126
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23F] girlfriend got a booty call a couple of weeks ago and doesn't think it's a big deal. POST: I had a conversation with my girlfriend last night about her friend Adam. She worked with him when she was 17 and they slept together once then she left town for about 4 years travelling and studying. According to her they kept in touch on Facebook and texting and her last boyfriend hated this. About 18 months ago she moved back home to study a masters and her and Adam hooked up a few times. She says she told him after the last time she didn't want to sleep with him again. They went for lunch and coffee a few times around the time her and I got together but every time he tried to persuade her to come back to his place and have sex. In the 9 months we've been together they've not been in contact until a couple of weeks ago when he text her at 4am on a Saturday clearly hoping for a shag. I trust my girlfriend 100% and I know she'd never cheat on me. The issue is she still thinks Adam is her friend. She says he really took care of her when she was younger and they worked together and I think he's fixed her car a few times but he crosses a line when he texts my girlfriend for sex. They may have been friends previously but whatever that was their relationship now is deeply unhealthy. She says it's fine because she'll never sleep with him again but this is not how friends should treat each other and he's not only being incredibly disrespectful to her but also to me. Would I be in my rights to tell her she needs to cut him out of her life altogether? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My girlfriend got a 4am text from a previous hookup. She thinks it's ok because they used to be friends.	My girlfriend got a 4am text from a previous hookup. She thinks it's ok because they used to be friends.	5,949
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [California Renter] HELP! Just moved but the house is full of cockroaches. My biggest fear. POST: So my fiancee and I just moved into an older house in California. We relocated for a job and put down most of our savings on our deposit and first months rent (our deposit was huuuuuge). But upon moving in, we realized the house was not adequately clean or ready for move in and within a few days we realized there is bad roach infestation throughout the entire house and garage. We have notified the landlord of the problem in writing and said we will begin by deducting extermination traps from further rent if it not dealt with immediately and go from there. But we have not heard back. However upon talking to some friends in pest control, we could easily be looking at $350-500 in traps to make a reasonable dent in the population. And even then, it may still require professional assistance and cleaning. I literally have a deep phobia of roaches. Its actually my only and greatest fear. I haven't been able to sleep at all and want to cry because they are everywhere. My skin is crawling always because we keep finding them. I'm afraid to be alone in my house and want to leave so badly. I don't think I'm cut out for the extermination work (pulling out cabinets, drawers, pantries, garage, etc. and cleaning carcasses, eggs everywhere). Even though, I want to break the lease and leave the house as uninhabitable immediately there is a severe lack of housing availability in our city and it is next to impossible to acquire another place, especially with our current landlord holding all of our deposit/savings. Please help! What do I do? I am considering living in my car or a hotel (if I can get it reimbursed) but am just at a loss of what to do. My goals are to not be living here with the roaches and to have the problem dealt with as timely as possible. TL;DR: . Assistant:	California renter spends all money on move in/deposit. House uninhabitable by roaches. Has massive phobia of roaches. What to do?	California renter spends all money on move in/deposit. House uninhabitable by roaches. Has massive phobia of roaches. What to do?	6,008
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [infidelity] me [26] them [25] military and fraud POST: Me [26] recently found out someone in the military cheated on their wife with another married service member in 2014. His wife left him shortly after. Their divorce was finalized last week may 2016. I've learned he had still received the dependent pay and the basic housing allowance for having a dependent and he did not report their physical separation to his command. I feel he has committed a lot of wrongs and some illegal wrongs. That's fraud. There is proof in their divorce decree when they legally separated 7/20/2014. Can I report this fraud? Whom do I contact to report it to? I find it distasteful a service member behaved in this manner but committing money fraud? And he's even said to me he could get into trouble for still receiving these benefits. What should I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	service member committed adultery and didn't report separation properly and has received dependent benefits. Who do I report this to? What should I do?	service member committed adultery and didn't report separation properly and has received dependent benefits. Who do I report this to? What should I do?	6,236
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: How to deal with her random mood changes? POST: Hello, I was wondering if I could get some advice for my current situation. A friend(27f) and I(21m) have been hanging out for about 5 or 6 months now, we see each other at least 3 times a week and in the beginning of February we became FWBs. I would describe our relationship as "pretty much" dating, we do almost everything together cooking, lunches, shopping etc. We've even held hands in public and share goodnight kisses. My dilemma is that she has short bursts from being affectionate to being utterly emotionless. It drives me insane, my insecurity always leads to questioning myself to see if I did anything wrong. I don't know how to process these situations, she was very brief on the phone today and hasn't responded to any of my texts (which she always does). Granted she is out with her friends right now. I think we may spend too much time together and thats why she gets into these mood swings, but I would like her to just tell me instead of acting this way. She has been tired the past couple of days, so I've been relying on that to be another possibility behind all of this. I'm just really worried, her friendship means the world to me and I definitely dont want to lose that. Does this happen with anyone else? I'm sorry if this seems petty or dumb, I just need multiple opinions, I really dont have any women I can talk to about this. I've been beating myself up, I need to get out of my head. I had to post this using my phone so I'm sorry for all the grammar mistakes. Thank you very much. TL;DR: . Assistant:	She goes from affectionate to emotionless in an instant, how do I deal with it? Is it common with others?	She goes from affectionate to emotionless in an instant, how do I deal with it? Is it common with others?	1,227
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's the most ridiculous misunderstanding you caused? POST: More of a literal misunderstanding: My dad needed me to borrow a drill from my neighbors. I was good friends with one of the kids, "Herpsworth Derpsdriguez", that lived there. His family was very Dominican and most of them hardly speak English. So I rang the doorbell hoping Herpsworth would answer. Instead it was his mother. She looked at me and I said to her "I'm from next door Ms. Derpsdriguez, I'm wondering if you had a drill I could borrow." She looked at me flabbergasted with horror and I stood there confused. After about a minute of staring and attempting to hold my fake smile, she finally exclaimed "... DRUGS?" and shut the door in my face. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Knocked on non-english speaking neighbor's door to borrow a drill, slammed door in my face thinking I wanted drugs	Knocked on non-english speaking neighbor's door to borrow a drill, slammed door in my face thinking I wanted drugs	1,220
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (28m) am clueless about coming up with a nice wedding day speech for my sister (26f) due to lack of personal stories. POST: Situation: My sister, 26, is getting married the end of this year. I have no clue what to say for my speech during the reception dinner. Background: I am very happy for her and everyone is on board with the guy. Families have met each other, and they've been together almost a decade. It's not like I do not know the guy, I know him in a sense that I know what he's like, I've hung out with him. For the last 6 years, we've lived separately. Me in North America, she back in Asia where we were born and raised. It made it difficult for me to be close to her, or get to know her boyfriend to a greater extent. We were close growing up, puberty to teenage years. We were so comfortable with each other taking selfies and other playful stuff. Then at some point, for some reason, we kinda strayed. No bad bloods no ill feelings, but we weren't as close as we were before. Chalk it up to growing up and having different priorities and interests?Again, the last 6 years (we've seen each other a few times during this period) didn't help. Assessment: It makes it difficult for me to come up with an honest, touching brotherly speech when the day of the wedding comes. We were never the type to hang out with each other's friends when we got a little older. Recommendation (what I think): Part of the speech will include memories of us as kids, part of it will also admitting that the last 6 years of not being around each other didn't give us the best opportunity (maybe come off as humorous?) I feel ridiculous because all weddings I've been to it seems like siblings have the beat stories of the bride/groom and their partners. Help me out? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Older brother (me) has no clue how to come up with a sweet and thoughtful speech for his sister's wedding because he doesn't have a lot of stories to tell.	Older brother (me) has no clue how to come up with a sweet and thoughtful speech for his sister's wedding because he doesn't have a lot of stories to tell.	462
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How screwed over is my mom getting? POST: She makes the time clocks for a company that sells time clock hardware and employee tracking software. This company posts over $1m in profits a year. She's been there for about 11 years. Without her there (takes time off for sick or short vacation), their production line slows down. She feels like taking time off only hurts her because she has to make up for it when she gets back. Here's the part that royally pisses me off.. She only makes about $11.50/hr. She lives somewhere with a low cost of living, but she's been with this company for so long and they know she does a good job. She feels really dedicated to the job, so much that she doesn't enjoy her vacations because of what she knows she's coming back to. And she's just happy to have a job in this economy, so she doesn't want to risk losing what she has. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Anyone else working in production (non-union), that could tell me how much the average wage is that my mom should be expecting after 10 years of service?	Anyone else working in production (non-union), that could tell me how much the average wage is that my mom should be expecting after 10 years of service?	935
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21M) snooped on gfs (21F) Facebook and don't know how to feel. POST: Alright so this could be a bit long. Gf and I have been dating for around 11 months, everything seems great. I know her FB pass because she told me a few months ago out of random. So I decide to check it out for the hell of it and I look at the messages. 2 most recent ones are from past exes, both times she initiated conversation. Even though the messages weren't about anything exclusive, One guy is a douche and the other got her pregnant and wasn't man enough to step up and take care of the kid so she got an abortion... either way, shes been talking to these guys and got both their numbers. Yet I haven't hardly heard from her all day. I feel sad and somewhat betrayed, what should I do here? I planned on asking to marry this girl in the next few months... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Did the dumb thing in snooping on gf because haven't heard from her in hours. I have no clue how to bring this up to her.... I feel betrayed.	Did the dumb thing in snooping on gf because haven't heard from her in hours. I have no clue how to bring this up to her.... I feel betrayed.	3,199
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My computer is fucked but I don't know what to do. POST: Hello reddit. I have an old Acer laptop I use daily and recently it stopped working. I followed the instructions to refresh it but that didn't fix anything. I don't really want to take it to shop because I was really into 4chan a while ago and downloaded a lot of porn and Nazi imagery. (Not an actual Nazi in fact I'm half black) I dont want the repair guys to see that stuff as hate speech is illegal where I live and all the tech guys are Indian. I'm also only 17 so my dad might find out too. I want my files and computer back, but I'm not sure that's going to be possible. TL;DR: . Assistant:	computer is broken and it has a bunch of porn and Nazi stuff that I really want back but I also don't want the repairman or my dad to see it.	computer is broken and it has a bunch of porn and Nazi stuff that I really want back but I also don't want the repairman or my dad to see it.	1,303
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 M] with my best friend [18 F], both gone off to uni and have started to have feelings for each other. POST: Me and a really good friend have both gone to uni and we have both realised how much we actually liked the other. Now it's too complicated to organise anything since we live 4 1/2 hours away by train with a cost of around £100. We have always had this 'thing' between us, but I never thought it was anything more than that until we parted - now it's too late. I could really use some advice on what I could do to get over her or meet her, I just don't know what to do. She says we should start seeing other people rather than waiting for 3-4 years, but the thought of her being with someone else kills me and I, for sure, can't see myself with a different person. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Me and my best friend had several 'flings' in college and now we're in uni and separated by a whole country, I want to be with her.	Me and my best friend had several 'flings' in college and now we're in uni and separated by a whole country, I want to be with her.	2,664
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (19m) want more from a FWB relationship with her (19f) POST: So, we met in August at the start of college. We were friends, best friends, then I told her I liked her. She wasn't into it, stayed friends. Then this year she told me she liked me, but then we talked about it and she is still not entirely over her ex from home. We hooked up once, then she said it was a mistake, we stopped for a while. Then over Easter we hooked up pretty much for 3 days straight. Since then we've been up and down over it. I want to go out with her, she doesn't want to go out with me (or anyone else, because she doesn't like the commitment). I asked about the future, she said 'maybe', but she likes how it is now apparently. So, I really like her and want to go out with her, but don't think we should do the whole long distance relationship thing over Summer. She still isn't completely over her ex from home, so she may end up having sex with him, which doesn't bother me too much, I told her she should do whatever she thinks she needs to, in order to help her decide about us. So my hopes right now are that she comes back next year and wants to go out, but for now we're friends with benefits, but it's pretty clear it's something more to me and she said that nothing would have happened if the person were anyone but myself, so you can take that however you see it. I'm not sure if we should keep going the way we're going or stop now. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I want to go out with this girl, she isn't sure (about anything). Should I continue FWB while waiting for her to decide whether she's sure?	I want to go out with this girl, she isn't sure (about anything). Should I continue FWB while waiting for her to decide whether she's sure?	2,361
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (36f) just got separated and my sister (34f) now wants to move in with me. I don't want her to. POST: I went through a sad separation from my husband, and now my son and I rent a 2 bedroom condo. I've only been here 5 months and I'm still learning to adjust to everything. It is the first time I've ever lived "on my own" (my son is only 7). Recently, my sister has decided she is unhappy and wants to leave her marriage (no kids). She has no money of her own. She wants to leave their house and she has asked if I'll be there for her and let her stay here "for a little while". I have no idea what to do. She truly has nowhere else to go. But I don't want a roomie here. I just don't. Plus she has no money of her own (even together they never had much), and I don't have enough to support anyone else. She didn't ask me to, but we both know she doesn't have money. She seems to think if she moves out he will just agree to put their house up for sale and everything will be fine. I doubt that. There will be lawyers involved, it could take months and months. In the meantime, she is going to be living in my space. I don't think this is fair to my son either. I just have no idea what to say to her. I feel horrible. It feels like I'm letting her down if I tell her that I truthfully am not ok with having anyone living with me. I just went through a separation....I'm trying to heal. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I just got separated and got my own place. My sister suddenly has decided she wants to end her marriage and live with me "for a little while". I think if she moves in she'll be her for good.	I just got separated and got my own place. My sister suddenly has decided she wants to end her marriage and live with me "for a little while". I think if she moves in she'll be her for good.	5,546
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 21M, wondering when is too long to wait to date after a series of bad relationships? POST: So I've been through a series of bad relationships in the past few years, including getting engaged to my gf of four years before she cheated on me and dumped me. After that, I dated a girl that really cared about me, but I didn't feel the same way, and ended up hurting her by breaking up with her. (I can share more if anyone wants, or finds it relevant) Basically, I have a girl that I'm interested in, and I'm afraid to ask her out, knowing all the baggage I have. I'm a caring person, I guess, and I want to ask her out, but I don't want to hurt her with all my baggage and hangups. I know the obvious answer is "go for it," but I guess I care a lot and just don't want to hurt her. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Is there any way to know when it is time to move on after bad relationships, or any signs that I'm ready/not ready?	Is there any way to know when it is time to move on after bad relationships, or any signs that I'm ready/not ready?	588
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [29 M] uncomfortable with dating [29 F] who has active facebook, how about you? POST: I just started going out with this girl, we both just met each other too. I am a private guy, I like intimacy and privacy. However I just noticed this girl has a very active facebook, and it's making me very uncomfortable when I'm otherwise very secure of myself and confident around her when we're out together. She has like 1k+ friends (compared to my sub-200 count, I hate fb.), and any posts she makes (boring/trivial to awesome news/photos) gets like 30 - 50 "Likes" , and they're all from dudes. I really like this girl and I guess I am starting to assume "why I like her"... what do you guys think? Should I continue pursuing? I'm posting and asking 'cause I wanna get a sense what 'is normal'... and I'm struggling if I should just ignore it and own the fact that the other thousand dudes can like her but I'm the one going home with her, or if I should quit it now since I'm looking for a serious long-term relationship and not a playdate. Also, it's a 3-5 year "interval" between any single date I actually secure, I'm used to getting rejected. So now I'm actually super stoked and treasuring the fact that I have someone that is interested in spending time with me, which is making it even harder to decide what to do... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girl I just started dating has tons of dudes "Liking" her activity on facebook and is making me very uncomfortable, can't decide if I should quit now or ignore?	Girl I just started dating has tons of dudes "Liking" her activity on facebook and is making me very uncomfortable, can't decide if I should quit now or ignore?	2,019
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[22M] with my ___ [21F] 1 year, what does this sentence really mean? POST: "I want to be free of constant relationships to be able to make friends and know what I want" to me: we are ldr during the summer and all last semester and she has lots of time on her hands. so her wanting to make friends by not being in a relationship is crap. She has nothing stopping her from making friends with anyone expect herself. So, this reads to me as "I want to be single so I can flirt/hook up with a lot of people and do whatever i want with no consequences. she said its not that and it is just that she wants to make friends.. Except that makes no sense to me. Here is the reddit thread that she made. I honestly stumbled across it cause she was talking about a diff thread that the same account commented on. I thought the style of writing was familiar so i clicked it and yea... it reads 1,3,2 TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF thinking of breaking up to let herself make more friends even though she has more than enough opportunity to. I think its her bad excuse to hook up and mess around with ppl and not have to worry.	GF thinking of breaking up to let herself make more friends even though she has more than enough opportunity to. I think its her bad excuse to hook up and mess around with ppl and not have to worry.	1,906
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm a 20 year old girl and I have PTSD and it's interfering with my partner [21 M] POST: I have severe depression, Post traumatic stress disorder and severe anxiety due to being physically abused by my sisters for so many years and in high school I was forced into a sexual relationship with a boy for 6 years. I was also locked in my room on many occasions by my mum until i screamed and passed out. *** My relationship with my partner (whom I've been with for over 5 years now) was very rough at first but all is good, I've become more patient and so has he. We understand each other and we love each other but I have one problem, I have no sex drive and I'm finding it hard to accept his touch even if it just a small pat. I want to with my heart and soul but my body reacts differently. I've seen my doctor and its a side effect of my medication (anti-depressants and anti-anxiety) but there must be a way around it. I'm all open to suggestions and questions. TL;DR: . Assistant:	[20 F] Girl with emotional problems and traumatic past can't be touched and can't have sex even though I want to with my [21 M] Partner of 5 years	[20 F] Girl with emotional problems and traumatic past can't be touched and can't have sex even though I want to with my [21 M] Partner of 5 years	1,019
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] am conflicted on dating a girl I like [16F]. POST: I've been friends with a girl for the last four months or so. Throughout those months, we hung out a few times, have gone on a couple of dates, and kissed once. That being said, we have never had more than the label of "friends", and with the exception of last-night I haven't hung-out with her for 3 months. I invited her to a New Years Eve party, which she eagerly accepted. We ended up talking through the entire night, and ended it with a kiss. We parted ways after midnight because my group had plans to head off to the bar. Where I live, 16 is the age of consent. Morally, I'm conflicted on what to do. I feel terrible for leading this girl on for the last few months, and I'm well-aware of the fact that she has feelings for me. I think she's an awesome person. Attractive, funny, intelligent, and mature. I'm just incredibly hung up on the age difference. When I graduate college as a nurse, she'll just be graduating high-school (she is currently in grade 11). While I feel we're compatible, I think we may be at different stages in life. How can I gently gauge the situation without leading her on? I'm debating on inviting her out with some friends and I tomorrow night (they all love her) and seeing how it goes, but I really don't want to give her false hope because I'm simply not sure yet. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I like a 16 year old, but I'm unsure if I want to pursue a relationship due to the age difference. While I like her, I feel we may be at different stages of life. What do?	I like a 16 year old, but I'm unsure if I want to pursue a relationship due to the age difference. While I like her, I feel we may be at different stages of life. What do?	5,482
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My roommate is a royal douche bag POST: Im tired of his bullshit, hes loud at all hours he complains like a little bitch he is the very definition of douche bag in a twig like body, he thinks hes better than everyone else and best of all according to him nothing is his fault and he is perfect in every way shape and form. Even better still he claims to be religious with super christian morals and shit, which hes not. I've sat idlely by and have somehow prevented myself from saying or doing anything, but today was the last straw. I dont want to physically harm him, or seek revenge, i just want him to get whats coming to him. Any suggestions on what i should do are welcomed. More info upon request. Thanks TL;DR: . Assistant:	I hate my roommate and i want to get him back anyway i can for all the shit he's put me through.	I hate my roommate and i want to get him back anyway i can for all the shit he's put me through.	3,343
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: First relationship , is it over ? POST: So this is my first "relationship" we aren't labeling it but we go out on dates and do all that jazz .I met this girl a lil over a month ago, we had a rough moment about 2 weeks ago but after that things were great, for my birthday she got me presents(thoughtful and expensive) and we had a wonderful time , we've already had sex, our last date was this past Friday and it was also our 1 month , we had a good time and all felt great, she couldn't do anything Saturday because she had plans and I told her I had a weird feeling I wouldn't see her again. Like a really strong a gut feeling. She said we'd hang on Sunday after she's off from work. That's Saturday she went to a concert with a coworker (it's a guy) and after that concert her responses to my text seem stale and less emotional , we never hung out on Sunday and she never said anything about it , and this past Monday she hung out with someone (I think it was the same guy) and went to a local area where people usually go to make out , I know all sings are pointing to it but should I just move on? I want to talk to her and see if something I did upset her but she made it clear on our last date that she likes me and is attracted to me. I asked her if she'd wanna go out this weekend but she "has plans" so my final question I guess is , what should I do? Thank you 🙏 TL;DR: . Assistant:	I think my s/o is seeing someone else but has given no sign of unhappiness with me , what do?	I think my s/o is seeing someone else but has given no sign of unhappiness with me , what do?	1,190
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Benefits from Self-Identification for stuttering POST: My employer recently sent out a volunteer "Self-Identification" survey and I have not previously identified as someone with disabilities. I read the survey and realized I don't need any special accommodations to do my job (at least currently) and further don't receive any current accommodation. Is there any benefit to identifying in my position now, even though I don't require any accommodations currently? In addition, are there any disadvantages to identifying, ie can it be held against me, or what privacy rights do I have if I identify, but then say I don't require any accommodations to do my job? My current job has some client facing work, but to ever "advance" in my career, I can't really say no to these assignments, even if I move away from this kind of work later. A little bit of background; In my past years I was a very bad stutter, but with proper therapy I've worked past it. I was in therapy for all my childhood (until 18 basically). it doesn't heavily impact my life as I've learned proper coping mechanisms to help cope with working, and life. I still must sometimes stop, and reword what I am attempting to say. It ends up making some of the sentences I say a little awkward because of the word choice. TL;DR: . Assistant:	What are the advantages/disadvantages do I get from self-identifying even if I don't require any current accomdations?	What are the advantages/disadvantages do I get from self-identifying even if I don't require any current accomdations?	5,408
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22F] is kind of worried after break up with my unstable ex[29M] for only getting my bike back. POST: Sorry of my grammar error and title is unclear, but I need you guys help soon as possible. After break up for 2 years relationship with my ex of having heavy arguments and suddenly attempting sexual abuse to me (atleast he stops that he realize I was not into it). I left his house (later break up with him) and got everything what I can, except my bike.. It sounds ridiculous, but I really do miss my bike since i'm poor to get another one. So for whole long emailing trying to make it appointment. First it was original for meeting up at the station where all people are around (because of my safety reason). But today, he cannot do it suddenly because of his emotional and it would be more meeting up outside at his house for leaving my bike. And finally he said he'll go somewhere else. So I made the time and then later to get the bike. But he mention the location where I usually go there with my bike to travel all the way back to home. Atleast I have my back up plan just in any case of my safety reason (because both my mother and me felt he'll go making a drama in his forcing seeing me), but the question is.. He's regaining his emotional after break up, but I still felt he's unstable now and certainly hope not that he'll do something stupid. The question is, is there any danger of emotionally unstable people information list that I should know about it? He has a history from his mother side of psychological problems. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Very rare feeling if he has plans to make a drama scene with me for only getting my bike back. Just a question if any danger of emotionally unstable will be happen.	Very rare feeling if he has plans to make a drama scene with me for only getting my bike back. Just a question if any danger of emotionally unstable will be happen.	836
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My (23f) bf(23m) of 2 years lied to me in the beginning POST: I recently discovered my boyfriend lied to me at the beginning of the relationship. He claimed there was never anything between him and this friend of his. I overheard her say something halfway into the relationship, over the phone. Something you don't say to a friend. I don't think he cheated though. I was snooping on his computer, something he would possibly break up with me over. I found that he had said he met this "awesome girl" around the time he met her. This has left me upset and I feel betrayed. It was a post he made on here over two years ago, before I met him. But still. He lied to me. He knows that this is an issue because my ex cheated with a girl he liked before he met me. I don't know how to ask him about it. We are about to move and I refuse to move if he won't admit that he lied ____ TL;DR: . Assistant:	he lied about a friend he used to like claiming there was never anything between them. I just figured out that it was a lie. How do I bring it up?	he lied about a friend he used to like claiming there was never anything between them. I just figured out that it was a lie. How do I bring it up?	4,129
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: M 35, married for 7 years. My wife is having all sorts of male friendships and getting further and further from a joint social life with me. I'm cool with her having her own life but when should I start feeling sleighted? POST: I trust her. But we spend zero time together anymore. She spends more time at a bar with dudes I don't even know, coming home late, and keeping me up all night. At best when we spend time together, she sits on the couch texting friends. Last night we had a fight and she left at midnight until 2 am to go drinking when the kids have to get up at 7 am for soccer. I would love to have a life like that but don't have time to meet anyone because all I do I work, so my social life is her...and she wants no part of it. I just go to work to pay for the family, then get ignored by her. It's really really depressing. TL;DR: . Assistant:	guess if I was included in the social circle it wouldn't faze me at all but she doesnt want me a part of it...idk...	guess if I was included in the social circle it wouldn't faze me at all but she doesnt want me a part of it...idk...	2,031
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, maybe you can help me get these for my classroom? POST: I teach theatre design at a performing arts magnet school in Tampa, FL. I took over the program last year after it had been on a downward spiral for several years and I'm rapidly turning it around. The problem is that we, of course, get little to no funding for the basic things that we need for our program/classroom. I have a Donor's Choose account, and currently have two open projects that need funding for the upcoming school year: This one is for new drafting mats for the drafting desks in my room. Since the program hadn't been maintained in years, all of the old mats were drawn all over and cut to shreds. I want to teach drafting as a part of my advanced class this year, but without these it's impossible. This project isn't as vital but it's still important. It's model building supplies so that my students can learn how to build scale models of the theatre and their scenic designs. The other thing that I really need help with is computers - I really want to get 12-15 computers (ideally iMacs, but high end PCs would work too) but I am having a nearly impossible time getting them from the school. Does anyone have any leads on some kind of grants or any ideas as to how I can get new or used machines for my students to learn CAD on? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Theatre design teacher looking for some funding help to get his new classroom functional after years of non-use and no support.	Theatre design teacher looking for some funding help to get his new classroom functional after years of non-use and no support.	1,124