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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Wife wants to start doing drugs again. POST: Been married 12 years, have a 13 year old daughter. We're both 30. My wife has major depression. She takes an SSRI and a mood stableizer (Abilify) but they don't seem to be working. She a former drug abuser, pot and that synthetic pot stuff. I don't normally thinks it's too bad a thing to get high, but she does it all day every day, and to a point that she's completely blitzed out of her mind. For two years she did that and I couldn't take it anymore, we seperated for about 4 months, and then she finally realized what an idiot she'd been. She apoligized profusely for how horrible she'd been to us, (it was very bad.) She's been drug free for almost 3 months, and she's been so awesome in that time. A great wife and a great mother. Just like old times. But now, I guess a wave of bad depression is hitting her and she says that she either needs to start doing drugs again, or cutting, or she'll kill herself. She has appointments to go to therapy, one on Friday and another next week, but she says she needs something now. I told her I wouldn't go through that again and that I'd get a divorce if she started using again. She said "Well, if you divorce me, then you divorce me." So I said I call the police if I found it in our house, and since she's on probation, then she would go to jail for it. So she hasn't done it yet, but I know she will. She's very pissed off at me, she's sleeping on the couch because I'm keeping her from being happy. There's no way I'd actually call the police though, they'd prolly beat me and take me to jail. Am I being to harsh, should I just let her get high all she wants? She's done so much shit that I should have left her years ago, but I had so much hope that she'd finally realized what she needed to do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Wife wants to start smoking pot again to deal with her major depression. I will divorce her if she does because she's an addict and she's horrible when she's using. Wat do?	Wife wants to start smoking pot again to deal with her major depression. I will divorce her if she does because she's an addict and she's horrible when she's using. Wat do?	2,240
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [16/m] I can't decide whether or not I should break up with my partner [16/f] POST: I've been debating on the topic on if I should end my relationship. I'm not sure if what I feel for (let's call her Kelly) Kelly is genuine love, yet I have a strong feeling that it really is. Perhaps it's just because I'm going through high school and this is just the result of raging developing testosterone, but I digress. The kicker is that Kelly is near-depressed and mainly relies on me for emotional and moral support because of her abusive family and she can be self-abusive if she reaches a certain point of sadness (Note: when we broke up before it was because of her abusive father getting mad at her and out of emotion she broke up with me since I didn't come to offend her. In retrospect, she felt guilty about it and decided to re-start our relationship. She said she became a shut-in and didn't eat for two days, looking back that seemed somewhat ridiculous.) I feel like she also expects too much of a person like me with no type of job and her unneeded materialistic ideals are malicious to both my psyche and my bank account (I have no job). More and more, we are having arguments and fights starting for no apparent reason; just earlier today she got angry at me since I decided to hang out with my friends instead of her (but I was going to see her in a few days anyways). I also feel like that she'll become terminally depressed since she tends to be over-dramatic about things and do dangerous things to herself... I care for her, but her security, well-being, and health may be in danger if I end our relationship. Please respond, Reddit. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I don't know if i want to break up with my girlfriend but I worry for her future and her well-being if I do decide to cut it off, yet I've been feeling more miserable with her lately.	I don't know if i want to break up with my girlfriend but I worry for her future and her well-being if I do decide to cut it off, yet I've been feeling more miserable with her lately.	425
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What is my next step? POST: So I have worked for everyone's favorite Supercenters for two years. In my first year, I was charged with a partner-family member assault and arrested at my place of residence. I spent 14 hours in jail, missing a night of work because my place of employment doesn't accept collect calls. After I was released, I immediately went to work to speak to my store manager and explain what happened. He then suspended me for five months and five days, which happened to. E the duration of my trial. Fi five months, I was unemployed and unable to collect unemoyment. Fast forward to January 2012. A coworker of mine was arrested at work for the same crime. He spent 2 days in jail without being able to call in, and came back to work with no suspension. Now the difference between us is I'm a 20 year old white American. He is a 23 year old black American. I am infuriated that this kind if discrimination has taken place. The entire management team knows about his charge and I'm pretty sure I have a racial discrimination case on my hands, but I don't know where to proceed. So lawyers of reddit, or legal students, what is my next step towards takin action, or am I even able to take action? TL;DR: . Assistant:	me, 20 yoa white male arrested, suspended from work. 23 yoa black male coworker arrested for same crime, no suspension. Fucked up much?	me, 20 yoa white male arrested, suspended from work. 23 yoa black male coworker arrested for same crime, no suspension. Fucked up much?	5,033
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 y/o M] am having trouble with my co-workers bad mouthing me. Any advice? POST: I am currently on an internship in my home town, and have two other interns that work with me. They live together and have grown close, while I live at home. One of them really likes to talk about how bad of worker I am. I do not conciser myself a bad worker, just very conscious in what I do, and it slows me down some. I get the job done. I wouldn't really care what he said if I wasn't in my home town, but this is where my friends and family live. Everyone from my high school is coming home from college and we are all meeting at the bar. No doubt the other interns will be there. I have worked hard to keep a good reputation, but I know that this intern will bad mouth me to my friends at the bar when I'm not around. I don't know what to do. Being a good worker is one of the best traits that someone can have since I live in the Midwest. Please help me. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Live at home on internship. Intern talks badly about me. Friends and acquaintances are coming home this weekend, and I know that the other interns will talk a lot of shit. Please help	Live at home on internship. Intern talks badly about me. Friends and acquaintances are coming home this weekend, and I know that the other interns will talk a lot of shit. Please help	3,129
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How do you break the awkwardness with someone? POST: There's this guy in my class who I've taken interest in over time but it seems like things are just getting more and more awkward. He sits across from me in class but we don't talk. During our lecture, I can see that he stares a lot. Im assuming at me since theres only guys around where i sit so i dont think hes staring at them. I get nervous when I'm being stared at so I pretend I don't notice. At first, when he would walk by me in lab, he would look me right in the eyes. Now, he passes by really close but he looks down. At first, my instinctive reaction was to ignore him and act indifferent because I'm so shy so he would stare more and act more confident. I started to show more interest because I think I made a previous crush hate me because I would act indifferent towards him. So I dont stare during the lecture but I glance at him more often during our lab. When he looks at me, I quickly look down. Also, he's around where I am a lot of the time. He passes by through where I am, even if the other way is simpler. And he puts his things like his binder ( in which he wrote his schedule on) closer to my side of the table. He's not a shy guy. I hear him talk to his lab partner and he talks alot. He's quite interesting. I'd like to talk to him but I don't know what to say. I have no excuse to talk to him. In the class, everyone pretty much talks to each other but I just can't talk to this guy. So it seems like I have entered that vicious cycle once again, where no one talks, we just glance at each other and sulk in our awkwardness and nothing happens. How do I break out of that when it feels so awkward? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I am interested in a guy and I'm so shy so I don't talk to him. We just glance at eachother and things get more and more awkward by the day.	I am interested in a guy and I'm so shy so I don't talk to him. We just glance at eachother and things get more and more awkward by the day.	5,917
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Reddit: How do I stop thinking my guy doesn't love me because he looks at porn and has sexy conversations with other men (hell probably other women too)? Feeling Brainwashed. POST: My brain needs unwashing. I know men look at porn and so do women. I know we all masturbate. I know different things get us all off. I know he loves me very much, but I'm afraid he is going to keep things from me if I tell him I'm over the threesomes and some of the other stuff. I don't want him to seek out sexy conversations with other men. Supposedly, he just wants pics of dicks, but if that's true, there are plenty on the internet. I know that this is one of those times I should just talk to him about it, but most of us have turned to reddit for a little advice or insight into our issues. Any thoughts would be appreciated. If mods feel like this would be better directed to another subreddit please, let me know. Thanks. Ages:27 Me:F Him:M 3.5 years together TL;DR: . Assistant:	I need to believe my guy still loves me when he looks at porn and wants to have sexy talk with other men/women.	I need to believe my guy still loves me when he looks at porn and wants to have sexy talk with other men/women.	4,387
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Just out of a 4 year relationship - now have a new girl, but having troubles down below POST: Age: 23, Male. So I just got out of a 4 year relationship two months ago (I have a 2 year old daughter with that girl). She cheated on me, thats how it ended. Anyways, I've been dating this girl for the past month who my best friend hooked me up with. We're really hitting it off, shes everything I could ask for and she genuinely has feels for me as I do to her. The other night, its the first time we got into sex, and I don't know what is wrong with me. I'm extremely horny and all that, but for some reason, I had a lot of trouble getting 'it up'. I don't know if it was because I was nervous, because she's new to me, or what but it just hit me so strange because shes gorgeous and it felt right, but I just could not get it up right away. I kinda had to foreplay for a long while before I finally could, but I do not want this to happen next time :/ is there any tips you guys can offer or insights into the problem? Sorry if this is not the right sub-reddit, I'm not familier with them all. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Got out of a 4 year relationship, got a new girl now, finding trouble getting it up now and don't want to embarrass myself or make her feel like I'm not attracted to her. :/	Got out of a 4 year relationship, got a new girl now, finding trouble getting it up now and don't want to embarrass myself or make her feel like I'm not attracted to her. :/	2,008
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I think I have a heart problem but my parents refuse to believe me. What should I do? POST: I have had a serious anxiety issue since I was 13 and it's been on and off since then. Currently, for the past year, it's been "on" and my anxiety has been at it's worst. Due to my anxiety, I can't drive a car, I left my job, I can't really go outside of my town or anywhere I am absolutely comfortable with, and I have picked up a major drinking problem. Since May of 2011, I have been drinking just about every single night and at minimum that means 6 drinks. Most of the time, it's around 10-12 drinks. Over the past week, my alcoholism has gotten really horrible and I am drinking the minute I wake up until right when I go to sleep. It helps ease my anxiety a lot. It also might be worth noting that I smoke cigarettes (maybe like 4-5 a day) and I live a very sedentary lifestyle. I eat very healthy, though. I also think I have an issue with my heart or something around there. I have these weird moments where it feels like I missed a breath or something and I freak out for a second. It almost feels like I can't breathe but after a few really short breaths, I can breathe normally again. I have told my parents about this and they are saying it's anxiety. I also asked my doctor about the breathing thing a few months ago and she said that breathing in weird patterns is a pretty normal characteristic of people with anxiety. My problem is that my parents won't let me use our medical insurance or pay for me to go to the hospital/doctor to get it checked out. What should I do about this? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I have an anxiety disorder and I am an alcoholic. I think something may be wrong with my heart. Parents won't allow me to go to the doctor.	I have an anxiety disorder and I am an alcoholic. I think something may be wrong with my heart. Parents won't allow me to go to the doctor.	531
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How can I get to know a stranger? POST: Hello /r/dating_advice. I have been struggling about something lately and I am already out of ideas, and before giving up I wanted to ask you if maybe you could help me. Please forgive my English. So... There's this guy in my German class I like and never talked to. I know it sounds like I was a five year old, but I swear... I'm not the kind of girl who's obsessed with a different person each month. In fact, I am getting scared because I haven't had a crush since almost a year... I guess this is normal, but as a 20 year old it confuses me. The nearest I have been to have a crush is this guy... who I don't even know. But this is not the topic I wanted to talk about. Most of all I don't want you to judge me for this. I just can't help it, and believe me: I tried. It's not only about how he looks, I have told my friends a thousand times that he's not even my type. I guess I am just curious because I like his attitude. It's hard to explain, to be honest. We have never talked, we have no friends in common (yep, already checked fb), and we don't even study the same career (I think German is one of his optional subjects). What do I do to get to know him without being a creep? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I like a guy from my German class I have never talked to and I need some advice because I haven't handled this situation before.	I like a guy from my German class I have never talked to and I need some advice because I haven't handled this situation before.	4,586
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my wife [27 F] duration 10 years, Need help to make our 10th Valentines day perfect POST: My wife and I met 10 years ago in college. Since then I've joined the army and been away a lot more than we expected, we've got a kid who is a low functioning autistic, we've had lots of struggles and managed to somehow stay together without killing each other. One problem though is I've never been home for valentines day. I've always been away for work or dealing with some crisis or another (dodged the bullet this year, not leaving until the day after valentines day.) I'm the only one out of both of us who has a job and with a disabled kid life can get expensive, but I'd like to try to plan the perfect valentines day for the two of us. Problem is I'm not very creative and on a pretty tight budget. The only thing I know is I want to leave her some notes around the house leading up to V day and then I plan on taking her out for a Sushi dinner. That's all I've got so far. Any ideas from anyone? Help? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm useless at valentines day but it's our 10th year together and our first year that I'll actually be home. I'm not creative! Help!	I'm useless at valentines day but it's our 10th year together and our first year that I'll actually be home. I'm not creative! Help!	6,436
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] being falsely accused of cheating on my [19 F] girlfriend of 3 months, she seems to believe it and I don't know how to convey the fact it's completely incorrect POST: Been with my girlfriend for 3 months now, and we're having some problems. To start off, I'm a guy who pretty much exclusively only has female friends, and my girlfriend knows this, and previously seemed okay with it. Recently one of her friends saw me on a night out with a group of girls, and told my girlfriend that I 'was all over' one of them. This wasn't true, the girl who told her already dislikes me and constantly gives me dirty looks etc. The girls I was out with were my 3 best friends, and I have absolutely no romantic attraction to any of them, plus they're all in relationships and I've been friends with them for most of my life so you can see why this irritated me. Immediately my girlfriends attitude towards me seemed to change, she is already quite an insecure person so I immediately tried to reassure her, I told her I only wanted to be with her and noone else and after a few weeks everything seemed okay between us, and I thought I'd sorted it out. A few nights ago, however, she told me there's been more rumours of my infidelity. We had a long phone call argument where I essentially told her (or tried to) that I never cheated, never will and I wanted to stay with her. She asked me whether I wanted to end it and I obviously said no. Some further background is that my last two girlfriends have cheated on me, so you can see how annoying it is to me to feel like I'm in the wrong without doing anything. I just don't know how to get through to her that she needs to trust me and believe that I'm not a cheat, never have been and never will be. Any advice would be great. TL;DR: . Assistant:	girlfriend thinks I've cheated on her due to rumours, I haven't and it's caused friction in our relationship that I don't know how to get past because I don't know how to tell her that it never happened	girlfriend thinks I've cheated on her due to rumours, I haven't and it's caused friction in our relationship that I don't know how to get past because I don't know how to tell her that it never happened	1,506
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I am now the proud owner of a cute little bluenose pitbull puppy. But reddit, I am looking to you for some guidance... POST: I got him yesterday, he is adorable and I am very happy with him! It is very important to me that I train him correctly and make sure he develops to his full potential. So I am trying to figure out my plan of action for training. However I am getting tons of mixed information on how I should train him. I work a 9-5 mon-fri and my girlfriend is showing up at the house to spend about 30 minutes with him at lunch. She also has days off during the week and works weekends so he will have occasional days off from being stuck at home alone. Last night I bought a baby gate and used it to block him into a large downstairs tiled bathroom. That is where he is now. So now my questions First Lets assume money doesn't matter and only this little guys comfort and development does! Now that I am at work a few people told me I should crate train him, I was thinking that might be pretty crappy to be locked into a cage all day, but they say it is actually most humane for the dog.. won't he pee and such all over himself? Should I just get a huge kennel that even I could fit in comfortably? Or get a small one and upgrade it as he grows? I also have a large open tile area that has a door which I could put a indoor doggy gate and doggy door so he could freely go outback and inside.. I was a little worried about security, but figured I could start with a small doggy door and then upgrade it to larger ones as he grows, at that point no one will want to try to come in anyways :) When I put him to sleep last night I put his food and water in the bathroom, I think this is why he pooped and peed so much, I also left the food and water there before I went to work, should I leave him without food and water throughout the night/day and that might get him more sanitary conditions? I have more questions, but for now tell me what to do reddit. I will listen. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I am a new puppy owner, first one, done my research, getting mixed information, feel free to give me two cents on anything about raising a 9 week old puppy.	I am a new puppy owner, first one, done my research, getting mixed information, feel free to give me two cents on anything about raising a 9 week old puppy.	4,138
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: [M19]Need Advice on Showing Interest in Person I Rarely See POST: I am a student at college, and there is this girl in orchestra who I think fairly obviously has a crush on me. She seems like she would really be my type, so I am interested in trying to see where things go. The problem is I have only talked to her a few times, I don't have any way to contact her other than our university email addresses, and we sit far apart enough that I would really have to go awkwardly out of my way to talk to her in orchestra. I want to talk with her, but I also want it to be in a way that doesn't make a complete ass out of myself if I am misreading the situation (I'm not exactly a social butterfly). The only thing I could come up with was emailing, with no prior contact with her, something like "hey, can you help me out with this one part in the music," but I thought that might be a little too transparent. Any other suggestions/comments? Also this is a throwaway account because reasons. Sorry for any spelling errors, I'm typing on mobile. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I would like to show a girl I think likes me that I potentially like her but I have no plausible reason to talk with her, and I haven't spoken with her very often previously.	I would like to show a girl I think likes me that I potentially like her but I have no plausible reason to talk with her, and I haven't spoken with her very often previously.	1,955
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [M/19] Is it bad to never have been in a relationship at 19? POST: A little about myself: I am currently at 250 lbs. Yes I am fat, but I am currently exercising and dropping pounds like the stock market. I am currently going to college and it is only my second semester, with about 2 or more years to go. My situation is recently I have felt depressed because I am alone, but my problem is I have never gone and looked for anything nor was i interested in looking. The feeling is just now hitting me that I don't want to do this anymore by myself, I don't have too many friends anymore as most went off to drown themselves in student loans at some big name college. I have only had one good friend along the way, and these last few years have been VERY HARD but he helped me through. Now... its not enough for me, I need a GF and was just wondering when I get where I want to be with myself, is it awkward that I have never been with anyone? TL;DR: . Assistant:	is it awkward to be my age and not have been in a romantic relationship? I will be happy with myself before I get into one.	is it awkward to be my age and not have been in a romantic relationship? I will be happy with myself before I get into one.	4,277
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my ___ [25 F] Broke a Promise During a Break Up. POST: I broke a promise to my girlfriend during our break up, it was a confusing time and we got in a lot of fights, I basically told my dad about an event in her past due to frustration and venting (we weren't communicating at all during the time). I didn't understand my girlfriend at the time and I needed answers. And we got back together . My dad is a former pastor and current minister, and he's former military with secrets in his head for days. He's also a personality genius and the guy I tell everything to, he's essentially like a diary. So he will never tell a soul what I told him. And he accepts her. My question is this, I love this girl, I want to make her my wife, by far the most amazing woman I have ever met. We discuss marriage every single day and kids. Do I tell her that my dad knows about her past? Or do I just move forward in the relationship, and let her live in an ignorant bliss, because I don't think she wants to know these details. I'm 100% sure my dad won't tell a soul, we are that close, but I want to know if this is a healthy secret to keep. I don't want her to be burdened by the fact that my dad knows this stuff about her. I've spoken with a lot of people about this issue, and most people conclude that this is one I need to take to the grave, that knowing won't do her any good. Thanks guys! I love this girl, and I want to make it work no matter what. Even if I have to carry this burden for the rest of my life. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Told my dad about my girlfriend's past during our break up due to venting, frustration and confusion. Want to know if I should even burden her with this information.	Told my dad about my girlfriend's past during our break up due to venting, frustration and confusion. Want to know if I should even burden her with this information.	2,983
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Interested in my ex's good friend POST: I dated a girl who we'll call Jane for 8 months and was very in love with her. To make a long story short, over the summer we broke up and I was devastated but, as is part of life, I had to move on. So I started talking to other people and the one person in specific I started talking to was her friend - let's call her Nicole. So Nicole and I got to talking a lot and rather quickly I became really interested in her. So one day, I invited her over to my house thinking that we would just hang out as friends because that's all I really thought of it but things started getting pretty flirty. I brought attention to a vodka bottle I had in the cabinet twice not for the purpose of convincing her to drink some with me but just pointing it out. The second time she suggest we have some so we did. We both got a bit tipsy and nearly kissed but instead both decided that on account of Jane that would not be a good idea for either of us because I admittedly still had feelings for Jane. Despite this decision, I continued flirting with Nicole and she continued flirting with me. We started hanging out a lot and cuddling and doing essentially anything but actually kissing. Again, to make a long story short, over the past few months we've hung out a lot and flirted a lot and cuddled but we keep getting stopped by something. Despite knowing that this thing is Jane I decided to ask Nicole today. So we went for a walk and talked and she said that if it were not for Jane she would definitely be interested in me but that she can't do that to Jane. I want to have something more than a friendship with Nicole but because of my relationship with Jane which, to restate, she ended Nicole doesn't see that happening. I basically want to know if there is anything I could do to convince Nicole otherwise. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I am interested in my ex-girlfriends good friend and she has said she would be interested in me were it not for my ex. Looking for advice on how to proceed.	I am interested in my ex-girlfriends good friend and she has said she would be interested in me were it not for my ex. Looking for advice on how to proceed.	680
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26M) am having a really hard time moving on POST: My girlfriend dumped me 3 months ago. We had only been together for like 6 months, but she was actually my first serious relationship. We were best friends, and I became very emotionally invested. When she ended things, it seemed out of the blue for me. I still don't really know what happened, she just told me that she felt like we were "incompatible." At the advice of every single one of my friends, I did the best I could to ignore her and separate myself from her. I found that I could only do this for so long (2-3 weeks max) before one of us caved and started talking to the other. A few days ago she made a vague comment that I (apparently wrongly) interpreted to mean that she still has feelings for me. We were talking a lot in the days since, and things felt just like old times. However, I talked to her and found out that she is definitely not interested, so I feel like I'm back at square one. I have no idea why it's so difficult for me to move on. I find myself thinking about pointless things like how much she cares about me, how much she ever cared about me, how happy she is without me, etc. I feel like I'm just torturing myself but I don't know how to stop. She also told me that she finds it hurtful / emotionally difficult when I stop talking to her. I just feel like as long as I still want a relationship with her and she still doesn't, we're just on uneven footing and it's just hurting me more. I find myself totally unable to just cut her out, and since I keep trying and failing, it's just hurting us both. I don't really have any idea what to do, I think my friends are all sick of hearing me mope about it. I can't seem to snap out of it and it's really taking a toll. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I can't seem to move on from my first relationship, and I can't seem to cut her out of my life either. Any help or tips/advice would be appreciated, thanks.	I can't seem to move on from my first relationship, and I can't seem to cut her out of my life either. Any help or tips/advice would be appreciated, thanks.	3,486
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Have not found a definitive answer to this: if both partners have had herpes (HSV-1) orally, what's the situation? POST: Frankly, I haven't been able to find any definitive answer on this and so I was hoping maybe reddit would be able to help and perhaps help out others with the same question. My girlfriend and I both had cold sores when we were children, so we both have the HSV-1 strain of herpes. So far, we've used condoms and dental dams during oral sex due to the risk of transmitting HSV-1 to each others' genitals, but I'm wondering if this precaution is necessary. Since we both have had exposure to the HSV-1 strain and therefore both should have antibodies for it, would it even be possible to cause problems on the genital area if we were to engage in oral sex unprotected? Answers I've been able to find have ranged from "it's a non-issue if you both have the same strain of herpes" to "always use protection since you can cause problems". So, what's the real answer? TL;DR: . Assistant:	my girlfriend and I both have herpes (HSV-1) due to cold sores - can we engage in unprotected oral sex without causing problems?	my girlfriend and I both have herpes (HSV-1) due to cold sores - can we engage in unprotected oral sex without causing problems?	5,781
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So, my new Girlfriend is 2 months pregnant. I'm lost and confused! POST: Hey Reddit! I'm really lost and confused here. Me (M) and She both early 20s. I've been dating this girl for about 4 weeks, 'speaking to' for about 8. Today she tells me that she is Pregnant, from a fling, considered an abortion, but decided that's not for her, and she will become a parent by the end of the year. (She discussed this with me shortly after she found out herself). I don't know how to handle it, or how I'm supposed to fit into this life of hers. Obviously it means massive massive life changes in a few months time, and a massive shift in priorities either which way. But at the moment I'm so confused at to what this means for me too. Last we spoke, I needed time to think, but I need a bit of advice from others external to the situation who can see things 'fresh'. My thought process at the moment looks like this? * I'm not sure if I want kids * How do I date someone who is Pregnant / New Mother (especially when the child is someone elses) * How would I handle this if this was my own baby? * What does she need from me in terms of support? * Would it be unreasonable to 'break up' and 'cut my losses' as it were? Et Cetera, et cetera... So, I'm struggling with the whole "thinking" part. I know at some point we need to sit down and talk together, that is a given. But as it stands now I don't know how to organise my thoughts in a sensible and coherent manner. Any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My new partner is pregnant, and has been for the duration of the time we have dated. I'm not sure what to think. Advice welcome!	My new partner is pregnant, and has been for the duration of the time we have dated. I'm not sure what to think. Advice welcome!	1,622
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: New York (Not NYC) - Tenant is underage drinking, smoking on non-smoking property, refuses to talk to me about a compromise. Can I terminate the lease and get them to move out? POST: I'm a landlord in a non-NYC NY state. I have a 1 year lease agreement with a tenant who I recently found out is violating the clauses in the lease by underage drinking, having underage friends over to drink, smoking heavily on a property described as non-smoking, and having noise until unreasonable times in the morning (talking till 5 am with friends). They also have friends over regularly, often staying overnight or for days without my permission. I can't handle cigarette smoke at all and I moved in ~1 week ago and its really bad. They have paid on time so far, but it's only been a month. I have tried to contact my tenant about a compromise, such as a mutual agreement to end the lease early and help them find another place to live or giving the security deposit back. The tenant has been avoiding me, refusing to answer my texts, refusing to answer the door when I knock, and in general refuses to work with me. Do I have any standing to terminate the lease and tell them to get out? If I contact a lawyer, is there a chance the lawyer can help me through this process of removing them from my property? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Tenant with 1 year lease smoking on non-smoking property (its in their lease) and underage drinking. Can I terminate the lease and start an eviction process?	Tenant with 1 year lease smoking on non-smoking property (its in their lease) and underage drinking. Can I terminate the lease and start an eviction process?	6,291
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I just found out my flatmate has herpes, after living with him for 5 months. Am I being ridiculous? POST: I wouldn't have minded except he should have told me upfront. He might be symptomless but that doesn't mean he won't infect me. He's also been extremely blasé about sharing glasses and cutlery - insisted when we're out to eat chinese that we share all the food, increasing saliva contamination chances etc. Never mentioned it even when we shared a straw because he wanted to try my drink. He tells me he's never infected anyone else, even people he's slept with. I don't think that's the point. He put me at risk unecessarily! Am I being ridiculous? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Flatmate has no problem sharing saliva, but neglects to mention the possibility of permanent viral infection for 5 months. It bothers me he didnt tell me sooner, am I being ridiculous about wishin I was told sooner?	Flatmate has no problem sharing saliva, but neglects to mention the possibility of permanent viral infection for 5 months. It bothers me he didnt tell me sooner, am I being ridiculous about wishin I was told sooner?	1,910
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [34F] with my husband [32M] of 8 yrs are doing well, but I'm crushing hard on someone else POST: I've been with my husband for 8 years. He's wonderful and I love him very much. But as these things go, I've developed a huge crush on a mutual friend of ours [32M]. This friend and I have a lot in common and he weirdly even looks a bit like my husband. It hasn't gone far. When I see him, my stomach is full of butterflies. When we all go out together, there's a lot of laughing anyways but I can't help myself with flirty looks and sex eyes and oh god. I know how I sound. The other night I had an intense sex dream involving a threesome with him and my husband and it's practically changed my personality. I have a great but intense career, we have 2 kids, I like fairly subdued hobbies but now all of the above is interjected with memories of this sex dream that practically make me cream myself right there. It led to me confessing to my friend over text that he's my "married lady crush" and he responded instantly with "back at you babe." Of course now I am consumed. My husband and I have talked about opening our relationship in the past. At one point, very intensely. He was into it then, but I worried he was only doing it because it was my idea and so I didn't want to do anything that we might regret. We were in a more intense place then though too. I know this is a question for poly folks, but I don't want to be limited to only "go poly" answers. I know my crush and his partner are in an open relationship and our friend group is fairly open and lefty and free love kind of folks. Should I confess this to my husband? Should I bring up opening the relationship again? I'm not sure I could actually go through with getting it on with someone who isn't my partner, I'm from a really traditional background, but oh my god, the urges. I know it's fine to crush and not do anything, but it's at the boiling point. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Typical boring/bored married mom can't keep her focus due to sexxing up a friend in her imagination all day. Repressed sexuality and a potentially put off husband prevent any moving forward. Please help.	Typical boring/bored married mom can't keep her focus due to sexxing up a friend in her imagination all day. Repressed sexuality and a potentially put off husband prevent any moving forward. Please help.	3,053
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What's your most disgusting cockroach story? Ill start. POST: Well to start one morning I woke up like any other morning, and went downstairs to make some breakfeast. I decided I would toast a navel and butter it, so I take out the toasted and put in my navel and turn up the heat a little. After about two minutes it pops up and I take out one piece and start to butter it. But in the middle of buttering the first babel a roach comes jumping out of the toasted flying at me, he then lands on the counter and starts his retreat. I run and grab my shoe by the front door and after many back and forths I finally hit him hes dead. So turns out this roach syltayed in the toasted the hole time and nearlly roasted to death, and no I didn't eat the bagel I threw it out and had to have cereal :/ we also threw out the toasted and got a new one. I haven't seen a roach since that maybe I sent a precedence for the other ones. So what's your most disgusting roach story? TL;DR: . Assistant:	found roach in toasted while toasting bagel, after long epic battle I won and killed him. Ended up throwing out toasted and bagel. Haven't seen a roach since the incident.	found roach in toasted while toasting bagel, after long epic battle I won and killed him. Ended up throwing out toasted and bagel. Haven't seen a roach since the incident.	1,723
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21 M, UK] fell in love with someone [27 M/F, US] who I've known for 2 months and have never met. How crazy am I? POST: We met online, on a random group video hangout thing, and were both flirting with each other. Our first video hangout lasted about 6 hours, and have easily clocked way over 50 hours since then. Other than that we spend an insane amount of time texting and are always sending snaps to each other. We're both fairly intense people and have already fallen madly in love with each other. We both work full time but I have more flexibility when it comes to taking time off so I'm going to visit for a couple of weeks in a few months. We both realise how quickly we've fallen for the other, and have expressed an interest in pursuing something serious if the trip goes well. Neither of us wishes to be exclusive or anything at the moment, neither of us has sacrificed hobbies, trips, social life or anything to spend time with each other, we mostly just sacrifice sleep to video chat and spend every free moment messaging each other. And yet it seems completely insane that I am considering moving country for someone that I've not only never met, but have only just met recently. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Known for very short time, never met, considering moving country to live with her. 6 year age gap. How insane am I?	Known for very short time, never met, considering moving country to live with her. 6 year age gap. How insane am I?	6,018
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20M] with my GF [19F] 6 months gets upset when I'm mad at her for legitimate reasons making me regret bringing it up. POST: This is probably boring compared to most posts but I hope I can still get some insight. --- My GF is great and we talk about everything but whenever she does something that bugs me or hurts me emotionally (which is rare) I'm faced with an annoying dilemma. If i point it out to her she gets upset and I can't stay cross with her long enough to deal with the issue. If I ignore it then she doesn't know shes bothered me and it continues. Whats a simple way of rectifying this? I get genuinely hurt by things she does or neglects doing but it almost gets brushed away when she gets upset. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF hurts me emotionally and I tell her why, she gets upset, I can't continue being cross with her so the issue goes unsorted.	GF hurts me emotionally and I tell her why, she gets upset, I can't continue being cross with her so the issue goes unsorted.	5,629
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 M] with my fiancée [27 F] 3 years, she proposed to me over a year ago and has been pressuring me to "counter propose" ever since. POST: Our relationship has been great the past 3 years. We rarely fight and we have a lot of fun together. Backstory: over a year ago I ended up helping her with a medical issue and took her to the hospital to be treated for dehydration. Carrying her in my arms, the whole nine yards. She felt extreme gratitude afterwards and decided to throw tradition out the window by buying a pair of wedding rings and proposed to me, taping the whole thing using her laptop and recited a speech for me. She liked it, so she put a ring on it. We've been pumped about getting married ever since then, and have been waiting for her to be done with graduate school before we officially drop the money to tie the knot. The problem is that in my mind, and from what we've been telling everyone, we are officially engaged and that she proposed to me. She's been wanting me ever since to do a counter-proposal, where I basically propose back, and have a whole long written confession of my love for her. Now, I obviously have no problem in doing so, but she said she feels like until I do so our engagement is "fake" (her words). I feel like it's a bit messed up to have that sentiment. Maybe I'm being paranoid, but I think that whatever proposal I come up with is just going to fall flat of her expectations, considering the magic of the surprise will not be there. Not to mention, it kind of kills the mood if she is literally asking me to propose to her. Am I being an asshole? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Fiancée proposed to me, wants me to propose back but has been pestering me. I feel like the engagement is already set, and being asked to propose kills the mood. Am I wrong?	Fiancée proposed to me, wants me to propose back but has been pestering me. I feel like the engagement is already set, and being asked to propose kills the mood. Am I wrong?	388
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do you talk about yourself without feeling egotistical at a job interview? POST: I can't do it. They ask "So tell me about yourself?" and I buckle. In my head I'm thinking: "I don't want to sound conceited", so the words that come out of me aren't very flattering, even though I'm qualified for the jobs I'm applying to and interviews I'm getting. I understand they want to know more about who they might potentially hire and it's a fair question, but I think this is the main reason I haven't got a job yet after 3 interviews: I find it extremely difficult to sell myself. Even though I think I've analyzed the problem, I still need help with the solution. HALP. TL;DR: . Assistant:	How do I tell my brain it's OK to tell people that I just met for the first time good things about myself without feeling like a douche?	How do I tell my brain it's OK to tell people that I just met for the first time good things about myself without feeling like a douche?	3,012
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: White 'murican ignorance: Getting a job while illegal? POST: The wife of my co-worker just quit due to our job having pretty arbitrarily enforced rules (it can be maddening), and I recommended to her husband another place that she would likely enjoy more where a friend of mine works. His english is good not great and I speak practically none of his native tongue, so our communication took some effort, but here's what I got. He asked me to pick him up and drive him to this place (ive never been) so he can fill out an application (he wants to work with his wife so he'd get the job first and then she would join maybe?) and then he told me that he was illegal, had social security and green card (showed them to me even) but said they were expired, and implied that his wife was less legal than that. So, it seems weird that he wants me to take him there; was there a communication failure that he thinks I have some power at this place to get him past the hiring check or that I know it well? If so, how do I clarify that I only heard about the job and that they might still be hiring. Or is he maybe hoping that I'll use my id to get his wife hired (i won't). So strangers, may I please have some information on how i can help a relative stranger with information and not a ride in my car?...meta... TL;DR: . Assistant:	What's getting a job like for those with expired green cards? Do you need a citizen to 'vouch' for you? What if you don't have anything, is it just either hope nobody checks or steal an identity?	What's getting a job like for those with expired green cards? Do you need a citizen to 'vouch' for you? What if you don't have anything, is it just either hope nobody checks or steal an identity?	5,323
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Redditor crush, advice? POST: About a month ago, I think, I started crushing on this redditor. He's a nice guy, likes the same things as I, and doesn't seem unattractive, though I don't think pictures are good indicators of attractiveness. He doesn't have a girlfriend- almost makes me wonder what's wrong with him, if an awesome guy such as himself doesn't have a girlfriend! Haha. Problems are as follows. Least importantly of these is that I wouldn't want to burden him with whatever emotional baggage I haven't taken care of myself. He might not like me anyways, I'm lazy and such. More important things: age/2 + 7 puts me a few years short of the rule of thumb for acceptable age; I'm over 5 years younger than him. I wouldn't be surprised in the least if he found it a bit unsettling. I consider myself quite mature for my age, but I'm sure any immature person would say the same. He also lives on another continent, and I think that'd be the most impossible part. Could such a relationship be sustained? I wouldn't want to force him to ignore possibilities around him. Some suggestions I've gotten from friends have been not planning and PMing him, striking up a conversation and see what happens. Perhaps she's right, and it shouldn't be taken so seriously. Another friend has told me to become friends and, hm, hope he falls for me, I think it was. Do I become friends with him and hope he falls for me, or hope my crush fades, or either/both? Do I just message/PM him and start talking, and see what happens? Do I tell him flat-out? Do I tell him, and say nothing will come of it and such, but that I just wanted to tell him what a great guy he is, and not to despair terribly about getting a girlfriend? Asking yourselves how you'd want it to go if it were you would answer my question best, perhaps. I'd like to see people's different ideas on this. Or if they all have the same idea, haha. Also, is it impolite to watch people's user pages for new comments? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Female has a cross-continent crush on male redditor a few years too old for her, following the rule of thumb. Advice pl0x.	Female has a cross-continent crush on male redditor a few years too old for her, following the rule of thumb. Advice pl0x.	4,012
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22f] Boyfriend [22M] doesn't always tell me where he's at or where he's headed. Am I right in being slightly bothered? Or am I too clingy? POST: Just some info: We've been together for 8 months now, and we don't live together. So I realise that my boyfriend doesn't always tell me where he's at, even though I usually do. Especially because we mostly text back and forth during the day. For example, if I'm heading out for drinks or dinner with friends, in between conversations, I'll just let him know. However, when he's out with friends, sometimes he doesn't say anything, unless I ask "So what're you doing?". Like yesterday, he was still replying me at 3am. He usually goes to bed at the latest 1, so I asked him why he's up so late. He tells me he's at a friend's place and they're having a couple of drinks. I was a bit bothered, but not sure why, and not even sure if I was right in feeling annoyed. Maybe it bothers me because in my past 2 relationships my exes always told me where they were at, not in a overly obsessive way, but just out of courtesy like, oh I am hanging with so-and-so etc. **Anyway, so, I just wanted to ask, do you usually tell your SOs where you're headed to or where you're at, without them asking? Am I wrong in feeling bothered? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend doesn't really provide information on where he's at unless I ask, is it wrong I feel slightly bothered?	Boyfriend doesn't really provide information on where he's at unless I ask, is it wrong I feel slightly bothered?	4,952
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: ideas for gift to cheer a stranger up POST: I work at a call center at had a older lady call in who was very distraught. She had called in multiple times that night and no one was willing to listen to her. I talked to her and found out she had just got medical news that she did not have much longer to live. She was very scared and said she didn't have anyone to talk to and felt very alone. It broke my heart and by the end of the call I was in tears myself. I know I broke the companies rules but I wrote down her address because I wanted to send her something anonymously to maybe cheer her up a little. I wouldn't know what to write in a card since I can't say who I am. I don't have a ton of money to spend but want to send her something. Wondering if anyone has any ideas of what I can send her? I can be a one time thing or some little things to send every once in a while. TL;DR: . Assistant:	What should I send a stranger anonymously who is lonely and found out she is dying to help cheer her up a litte?	What should I send a stranger anonymously who is lonely and found out she is dying to help cheer her up a litte?	5,252
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My online friend is in love with me and I don't know what to do. POST: I don't use this account much but basically, I'm a kid with alot of anxiety and the things you'd expect of a teen.. I like to seek online friends to play games with and just talk to, you know? Some of my best friends are online, that's just the way I like to know people, and one of my best friends is a girl my age who we will call Kaley. Kaley and I have known each other for 4 years, when we met we were still just little kids playing Minecraft.. but lately we've been talking more and things got weird. We've video chatted occasionally and the past few weeks she's been calling me cute and stuff and just laughing it off after (nobody had ever really complimented me before so it caught me off guard). She then proceeded to get more and more flirty and our conversations evolved from just banter to some more emotional and heavy conversations about our lives and I think my reaction to these things led her to believe I liked her too.. then yesterday she texted me one thing and hasn't been online since: "I'm in love with you" Now here's the thing.. It'ds not like I dont find her attractive, I really do and if I knew her in real life I would've been ecstatic, but we're high school students who live on different sides of the country (Texas, New Jersey), and even though I do kind of like this girl back, a real relationship just isn't possible right now, and I don't know if it's possible to go back to being friends now. I don't know how coherent this post is, I've always been really bad at putting my thoughts into words. TL;DR: . Assistant:	A girl I know says she loves me but it wouldn't work and I just want to be friends, what do I say?	A girl I know says she loves me but it wouldn't work and I just want to be friends, what do I say?	3,978
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Awkward situation leaving me confused as to how to react POST: A friend of mine, someone I have known for the past six years is getting married in August. Through a mutual friend, I discovered that he had received in the mail a save the date card sometime around Christmas and an invitation earlier this month. Now, not being invited would be one thing and I wouldn't care about it, but there is something leaving scratching my head. The mutual friend only met this other friend through me. In fact, he was surprised he was invited at all and said something to me about it since he isn't really close to the groom and has only met the bride once. I on the other hand, in addition to knowing the groom longer and better, also got this guy his job. Last summer we went to baseball games together, we get together all the time and do all this stuff, so I don't think their is a strain on our relationship. However, I haven't gotten an invitation to his wedding. He has mentioned it before that he is getting married, has told me it was in August. The question I have now is: do I say something? There is nothing to indicate I wouldn't be invited and I would think I would be. It is as if someone forgot to send me an invitation. Or do I just let it go? I am confused about how to handle this in a way that is not tacky. If I am not invited, that is perfectly fine, but I don't want him to think that maybe I didn't return an RSVP or blew it off or something. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Friend is getting married, a third mutual friend who doesn't know the groom as well as I do got invited and I have not been. Do I say something or just let it go?	Friend is getting married, a third mutual friend who doesn't know the groom as well as I do got invited and I have not been. Do I say something or just let it go?	5,087
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [33M] think my girlfriend [33M] of 2 months may be a bit controlling/codependent. POST: Hello, I've been dating this girl whom I've really enjoyed spending time with. We were supposed to hang out on Sunday and I wasn't feeling good so took a nap. When I was napping, she left a message and I called her right when I woke up and said sorry for missing her call and asked if she would still like to hang out (there was still plenty of time). She told me she didn't want to hang out and that she was mad. She said she feels like I just get to her whenever I want. I assured her that wasn't the case, and again, offered to make it up to her. I didn't engage in an argument because that isn't my style, and I just listened. I told her that if she changes her mind and wants to spend time together to let me know. Well, I haven't heard from her or seen her in 3 days. And this is one example. She recently wanted me to change what her name said on my phone. I find that I'm apologizing a lot for things which are just part of being me. She seems to want to "correct" a lot of my behavior. I buy her flowers, give her cupcakes and take her out to dinner. I listen to her when she's having a bad day and try to make her day brighter. I speak kindly to her, make her laugh, give her orgasms, etc. etc. I feel like I'm doing the best I can. So right now I'm having a hard time calling her because I feel like she is just doing this to get my attention, which isn't really fair, or mature. I have responsibilities in my life to tend to and I don't think I should have to play cat and mouse. Any thoughts? What would you do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Haven't seen/heard from girlfriend in 3 days. Sometimes I feel like she wants to change me/call the shots.	Haven't seen/heard from girlfriend in 3 days. Sometimes I feel like she wants to change me/call the shots.	5,712
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [Relationships] Should I [16/M] split up with my girl friend [16/F] of 3 months? POST: So this relationship is pretty new (3 months), but we've kissed and we used to see each other fairly often while school was going on. However her parents are extremely strict and we have to meet behind their back. So our carefree Summer where I thought we could spend a lot of oltime together has instead become prison for her where she is only let out of the house to go to summer classes and ACT prep. We won't be able to see each other till school starts again and it's killing us. We've talked about it before and we both still have feelings for each other and want to stay together, but at the same time we can't see each other and it's tearing both of us apart emotionally. What should we do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My gf and I can't see each other over summer at all but we still have feelings for each other, what should we do?	My gf and I can't see each other over summer at all but we still have feelings for each other, what should we do?	182
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Is it ever OK to try and go out with a girl even if she has a boyfriend. POST: To be more specific, she is 19 and I am 20. This girl works at the place that I work where several of my friends work as well. Her boyfriend also works there and has been in the relationship for over a year, and therefor makes this situation allot more context sensitive. I can tell the girl is generally interested in me, (could just be friendly but we get can get chatting a lot, telling jokes, smiling, exc.). She is also friends with my friends and is how we met, basically (via as well work). In my gut, I would really wish things could work between us, but in reality I see it as an impossible. She is one of those people you don't meet everyday, a unique and charismatic person. The other glaring issue is even if she did end up going out with me, the drama it may cause could easily not be worth it for me or her. It may just be better to write a poem or short story about it and leave it at that. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Met a girl at my work, she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend who also works there, is in the same group of friends as me.	Met a girl at my work, she has been in a relationship with her boyfriend who also works there, is in the same group of friends as me.	877
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18 M] have a crush on [18 F], don't want to scare her off. POST: We are both seniors in high school, and in the same friend group. However, we have never been close friends. She asked me to the last formal dance, and it was a ton of fun, but I'm not sure if she has any feelings for me. She is super innocent, despite being absurdly pretty has never kissed a guy, so it's hard to tell if she's interested in that sort of thing at all. I'm considering asking her on a proper date to make my intentions clear, but I'm worried it would kind of freak her out. I'm especially worried because I really enjoy being a part of that friend group, and don't want to make things awkward or uncomfortable for either of us. Should I maybe try to hang out with her more in a group setting to get a better feel for it? I just don't want to miss my window of opportunity since I think we both had such a good time at the last dance. Help TL;DR: . Assistant:	Like a super innocent friend, not sure if she feels the same way or knows how I feel. Don't want to scare her off.	Like a super innocent friend, not sure if she feels the same way or knows how I feel. Don't want to scare her off.	2,476
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Mind your surroundings... POST: Was doing my weekly shopping at a local grocery store picking up single persons food items. I've got 15-20 items but the lady in front of me has half a basket but is price-checking 2-3 items, couponing, writing a check and basically going the Olympic distance on being the longest checkout time ever. Finally a manger opens up another lane just to serve me and the people behind me its taking that long. I didn't have any particular place to be but it was the principle of it. sigh I leave the store and do another errand before stopping at another store on the way home for fruits and veggies (freshest and best in town. Everyone shops there). Low and behold, slowest-checkout-lady-ever is wrapping up her shopping and heading to the checkout line. As I only had a few items, I beat her to the line by a few steps. The cashier rings me up and I have an outdated, canceled CC in my wallet. (I was lazy and forgot to remove it) I attempt to pay with it and take my sweet-ass time wondering why it won't work. "But there's money in my account! I swear!" I easily take 5-7 minutes of this ladies time (much to her annoyance) as I finally switch cards and it works perfectly. In her cart was icecream... I felt soft served melted vengeance was mine that day. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Lady at grocery store checkout takes a ridiculously long time at store#1 only to have me do the same thing to her at store#2.	Lady at grocery store checkout takes a ridiculously long time at store#1 only to have me do the same thing to her at store#2.	4,177
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My boyfriend [19/m] told me [17/f] to lose weight. Am I right to be upset? POST: Background: I am 5'3" and I weigh 119.05lb which is a normal weight; I workout at least 3 times a week and I eat very little. I have been told that I should eat around 1800, because I exercise. I eat less than 800 calories a day, and usually, I eat less than 500 calories. I'm slim, but curvy, and I could do with a little toning up. However, my boyfriend likes skinny to really skinny girls (like Ariana Grande and some VS models), and it hurts knowing I could never be like that skinny (my bf knows it's not natural for me to be that skinny). I hate my body and I think I could be suffering from an eating disorder (my bf knows this). Incident: So I told my bf that I calculated how many calories I need, how much I weight and how much I need to eat to lose more weight. So, he told me to eat 1400, so in about 2/3 months I could get down to 110lbs, and knowing the type of girls he likes, I know he was holding back and he would have said more. He knows I struggle with my body image and my eating, so the fact that he told me to lose more, hurts me. To make things worse, my bf is slightly chubby, never exercises and eats whatever he wants; I never tell him that he should stop eating and lose weight. He also once told me with more exercise and eating less, I could get a thigh gap (he loves thigh gaps). This is even after I said I couldn't because I have naturally thick thighs. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I weight 119.05lb at 5'3 (I'm healthy and definitely not fat). My bf told me to eat less and get down to 110lbs.	I weight 119.05lb at 5'3 (I'm healthy and definitely not fat). My bf told me to eat less and get down to 110lbs.	4,903
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors: Have you been hit on by a manager that's different sexual orientation that knew you were not the same preference? Good or bad outcomes that came from it? POST: While in HS I worked at a theme park over several summers. I went back one more year in college and a former supervisor had been promoted to a very high up position. I was living close to his house and he asked if I wanted to hang out sometime. I didn't think anything of it. I knew he and his wife had divorced and figured he wanted to have an excuse to go to the bar. We had a few drinks and went back to his place for a couple more drinks as the bar closed. He switched from beer to some heavily poured mixed drinks at a fast pace. He began to talk about his life and got into some DEEP shit, and got emotional. I just kept listening trying not to be a douche, thinking maybe I am helping. Then he started saying "I haven't felt so close to anyone like this before". I said "that's understandable, you are talking about some heavy stuff". He kept going saying " I feel like I want to hug you. Maybe hold you if you want to sit over here". I told him I was comfortable where I was. He kept going and I politely got up to leave and he changed his tune quickly. He tried to give me a hug at the door but I switch it to a handshake. I felt bad but not much I could do. He was ten years older, two levels higher than my boss, and most importantly I am straight. A couple of weeks later I did something at work that would have been cause for immediate termination (one of those bureaucratic safety things where no one could have been hurt but it's just a rule). He was in charge that day and he changed the violation to a lesser offense that allowed me to keep my job. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boss' boss' boss' (male) hit on me (straight male) and I turned him down during his emotional moment. He saved my job a couple weeks later.	My boss' boss' boss' (male) hit on me (straight male) and I turned him down during his emotional moment. He saved my job a couple weeks later.	377