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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my fiance [27 F] 2 years, Mom's birthday is on the same day as my fiance's POST: So my mom's birthday is the same day as my fiance's, which is a disastrous coincidence. What's worse is that my mom's 50th birthday is on the same day as my fiance's golden birthday. Now I'm in an impossible scenario. My fiance wants nothing more than to go out to eat with me, come home and sit on the couch and watch a movie, eat cake or ice cream or something, and of course open her nice thoughtful card and gift that I got her. My mom wants everyone (me, my fiance, brother, sister-in law) to get together for her birthday and do something "special," which really means bending over backwards and worshiping her all day while we do something stupid. The problem is I can't reconcile the two. My fiance doesn't want to spend her birthday hanging out with my annoying family, which is perfectly understandable, but my mom will probably freak out if I say that I can't do anything the day of her birthday. Last year I messed this up, I tried to celebrate my mom's birthday the day of her birthday and my fiance's birthday the day before, and it was apparently "not special" and what not. It seems that if you don't celebrate it on the right day then you might as well not be celebrating it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mom and fiance have the same birthday, either way I lose and everyone is mad at me. Are there any possible solutions to this dilemma?	Mom and fiance have the same birthday, either way I lose and everyone is mad at me. Are there any possible solutions to this dilemma?	2,078
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25M] with my girlfriend [25F] of 1 year. Expensive gifts. POST: About her: 25 years, female, have a child. About me: 25 years, male, good salary, I'm fine with child and we have more than friendly relationships with him. About us: 1 year together, not engaged or living together as of now, but things getting pretty serious out here and I know she feels the same way. For the entire year everytime I suggest to help her with financial problems she refused it. She always tell me not buy anything expensive to her, and I didnt, because I'm really afraid that she might think that I'm trying to "buy" her or she will feel obligated to me in some way. I hear from her A LOT that she really want to go to a trip to Turkey with her kid (Doc's also told her that it'll be good for her son because of recent allergy). She were saving money for about half a year. We purchased the tickets (she payed her first 20% of the price), but some problems poped up and she had to spend rest of this money. She was really devastated and want to drop the idea. So, I've decided, what the hell, It's 8th of March this weekends. I really want to go with her and her kid and I can pay for damn tickets. And this leads me to couple of questions. 1. Trip cost 1k EUR for her and her kid. It's more than okay for me and she knows it. But will she accept this kind of gift from me? 2. Since she still have all the documents I can't really buy like new tickets. This leaves me with only option and it's to gift cash money for her. But I'm having troubles imagining how can I wrap it up so it wouldn't look like a piece of envelope? Thank you. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF refusing any kind of financial help. Dreaming about trip to Turkey that will also helps her kid. Want to buy tickets for her, afraid that she'll refuses.	GF refusing any kind of financial help. Dreaming about trip to Turkey that will also helps her kid. Want to buy tickets for her, afraid that she'll refuses.	6,014
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [M26] how to express feelings to a friend? POST: Hey Reddit, Ive got a questions about the best way to express feelings to a good friend of mine. Basically my friend [F26] is recently single, Ive known her for four years and realized I had feelings for her about 6 months ago. I haven't expressed much interest as she has been with someone and I wanted to respect that. Now that shes single I would like to at least let her know that I have some feelings for her (I missed my chance before she began dating her latest BF). I may loose her as a friend but if I dont tell her I feel that Ill regret it. I'm not a shy person, and I'm not socially awkward, I just have trouble letting my feelings known (its caused some regret in the past). So my question is this, for those that have been in this situation before how do you recommend doing it? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Any recommendations on me [M26] letting my single friend [F26] of four years know I have some feelings for her?	Any recommendations on me [M26] letting my single friend [F26] of four years know I have some feelings for her?	1,014
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: My roommates suck am I being an jerk by doing this? POST: I've tried everything with my roommates in order to get them to do their share of cleaning/etc. I even went out of my way to design a chore calendar, that was completely fair. This worked for like two weeks and then they just stopped doing it. I just can't take it anymore, I'm not passive agressive and I always confront them. Enough is enough though, right now I pay half the rent, I have a studio and a bedroom railroad style. The 3 of us share a 4bedroom duplex. I pay 1200, they pay 650 and 550 respectively. This morning I woke up to dishes all over the sink, used trays for cooking on the stove, a wad of hair on the side of the bathtub, no toilet paper, stains on the counter top, empties on the kitchen table and downstairs, packages that have been delivered but never opened, stacks of magazine that haven't been recycled the list could go on. I just kind of was like I can't do this anymore, I've tried but it's just not working, so I called them and told them we need to have a roommate meeting because I'm just tired of carrying the apartment on my shoulders. I am going to suggest that there rents go up to 750 and 650 because of the amount of crap I have to deal with and if they don't agree I will suggest they move out because I won't have a problem finding people to fill their rooms. Is this fair? They are good people but they are just completely disrespectful of the space. What is the best way to approach this situation? I just never really had to deal with this before. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My roommates do all the roommate bullshit, pay close to nothing for their rooms considering the space, so I intend to raise their rents or get them to move out.	My roommates do all the roommate bullshit, pay close to nothing for their rooms considering the space, so I intend to raise their rents or get them to move out.	1,897
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [25F] boyfriend [28M] doesn't like birthdays. POST: My boyfriend of a year doesn't like birthdays, especially birthday parties. He loves parties but doesn't like them when he is the center of attention. He doesn't like photos where he's the center of attention. When we first started dating, he refused to even tell me when his birthday was until I finally prodded it out of him. I come from a background where birthdays were the one time in my life where I got what I wanted. I had a party, got to eat the food I liked, and even got presents that I actually wanted. It was such a rarity that I always get excited on my birthday. My boyfriend loves contributing to my birthday, and has contributed to cooking me the food and cake that I like and attending my parties with me. He even showers me with gifts. His birthday is a bit away. Last year I made him this ice cream cake that he wanted and got him a small present that he opened in private. I also had his friends over while they were unaware it was his birthday to have a small dinner get-together, and he seemed content with that. Eventually, however, they discovered it was his birthday when his mom posted on facebook so it became a birthday party and he got really uncomfortable. I don't want to steamroll him into having a birthday, but I'm also worried that by not acknowledging it at all I'm not showing my appreciation for him. He's the best boyfriend I have ever had, so I don't want to fuck it up. What should I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Boyfriend doesn't like his birthday because he hates being the center of attention, but he always shows a huge appreciation for me on my birthday. Should I ignore his birthday entirely or do something else?	Boyfriend doesn't like his birthday because he hates being the center of attention, but he always shows a huge appreciation for me on my birthday. Should I ignore his birthday entirely or do something else?	285
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I want a dog [22/f], he doesn't [22/m]. I consider this a dealbreaker. Is that wrong? POST: This is actually a huge issue for me. I have been with my SO for around 2 years now. We met in college and have similar goals - both don't want children, both have careers in an office setting, both have similar personalities. But, he doesn't want a dog. I have been begging for a dog for almost a year now. My old dog passed away around that time. It broke my heart and i missed having a pup best friend to take care of and hang out with. Having a dog was very important to me. He always brushed it off, like, "oh, we're young, a dog is the last thing we need right now!" or something like that. He would always say, "some day!" But recently, hes admitted to me he doesn't want a dog. He doesn't want to live with one, or take care of one. He said if i were to get a dog it won't be while we're living together. When i expressed that that's an issue for me, he said something along the lines of, "You're going to break up with me for a dog we don't even have?" He thought he was being funny and didn't get that i was hurt and upset. Sometimes i think, "Wow, he doesn't love me enough to just appease my need for a dog that won't even be his?" But then i think that could be put back on me too: "Wow, she doesn't love him enough to give up a dog? She loves dogs more than she loves him?" Please help me with this. I have tried a million times to persuade him to get a dog (we have plenty of time/space) but it's not what he wants. Having a dog is very very important to me, but i can't imagine breaking up with the man i thought i would marry because of it... TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend doesn't want a dog, and i do - very, very much. I can't imagine leaving the love of my life for a dog, but honestly, that's how important to me this is. Please help.	My boyfriend doesn't want a dog, and i do - very, very much. I can't imagine leaving the love of my life for a dog, but honestly, that's how important to me this is. Please help.	3,363
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 24[F] still madly in love with ex, but content with new bf.. not sure what to do POST: I'll keep this short and sweet. My ex of 3 years and I split up a while ago, and during the time apart I've never not thought about him or not missed him, even after I moved on and entered a new relationship. I'm happy with my current boyfriend, but a large part of me wants to get back with my ex (he very much wants us to have another chance, but not immediately; he wants us to keep focusing on improving ourselves and get back together when the time is 'right'). I'm not sure if I should 'give up' on that relationship and move on. I'm not sure if I even can. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I still love my ex, despite having a new relationship that makes me as happy. Can't stop thinking about wanting to be with my ex.	I still love my ex, despite having a new relationship that makes me as happy. Can't stop thinking about wanting to be with my ex.	3,705
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Was I[27M] wrong to dump [23F] because we don't see eye to eye? Having second thoughts POST: Two months ago I matched with a girl that was, in all honesty, out of my league. We went on a couple dates and clicked well but she seemed really goal/ career focused. She's in med school, I'm a resident, and our entire second date devolved into me giving her med advice. I didn't mind but I also don't want to be with someone who is looking for a mentor, not a boyfriend. After a couple dates, we have sex. It's awkward. She starts talking a lot when she feels awkward and it messed with the flow of everything. She's also inexperienced and I could tell she didn't really know what she was doing. After sex, she tells me she's only looking for something casual. I'm at a point in my life where I want to date someone with the potential of marriage. After that date, we parted ways and didn't talk much. She reached out a couple times but I wasn't sure if I wanted to see her again. She texted me saying her relationship goals had changed after a while of no contact between us, but at the time it felt like too little too late. It's been a month since that date, and I ran into her in the hospital (where we both work). I've been wondering if I should reach out. I know she's probably still be interested (Added me on snapchat a week ago). Seeing her in person reminded me of how pretty and funny she is. She was being kind and flirty without really mentioning the fact that I'd stopped talking to her. Do I reach out? Or will it just be awkward again? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dumped a girl who seemed too unsure of what she wanted, but seeing her again recently brought back some old feelings. Should I reach back out?	Dumped a girl who seemed too unsure of what she wanted, but seeing her again recently brought back some old feelings. Should I reach back out?	5,660
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 F] best friend [M24] just told me he loves me. He's in the Military and that scares the fuck out of me. POST: I met Dalton at school last year and we quickly became best friends. I hang out with him at least once a week, we talk every day and I love him as a person. We've each had our own relationships during our friendship but now for the first time ever, we are both single at the same time. Two weeks ago, he told me that he loves me, that he's loved me since we met and that he's only been dating other people because I was never available and he wanted to respect that I had a boyfriend. If Im being perfectly honest, I have always found myself attracted to him and it made me happy to hear him say that. I absolutely would want to pursue something with him. That being said, I just got out of a two year long relationship. Im still mourning the loss of that love and am no where near ready to start something with Dalton. I told him as much and he said he understood and would be there for me when I was ready. When I am ready to start something though, I have a pretty big concern: Dalton is in the Military. He's seen combat. During our friendship he's told me a lot about war, and a lot about the kinds of things that he's done. He's talked about his PTSD and the kinds of things he still does while asleep (for example, he sleep walks and apparently has managed to open his gun safe, get his gun, open his ammunitions safe, and load his weapon, all without waking up). He's also told me that if there is another war, he will absolutely do whatever he can to go back and fight again. Honestly Im scared shitless about all of this. Its not a deal breaker for me, but I have no idea how to prepare myself for what this kind of relationship might be like. I dunno. I guess Im hoping for people who have been in this situation before to share their stories... maybe give me advice on how to be supportive and helpful and how to keep myself safe. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Id like to start a relationship with someone in the Military. This is uncharted territory for me and Im hoping for advice from those who have been there.	Id like to start a relationship with someone in the Military. This is uncharted territory for me and Im hoping for advice from those who have been there.	2,057
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 F] with my dating person [24 M] of ~5 months, wondering how to / if I can even ask him to delete nude vid I sent him POST: Started dating one of my closest guy friends (known him since I was 5 years old) on in May this year. We hit it off great and generally we are happy together. He asked me for exclusivity, and I gave it. He hasn't directly asked me to be his girlfriend though, so I assume that we're just dating, exclusively. I'm not the type to post a lot of pics of myself anywhere. It's a personal thing that I dislike doing. But he often asks for them. I usually just decline and tell him that if he wants to see me, I'll hang out with him in person/online (Skype and stuff). Then one day I got curious and made a < 30 second vid of me naked (just me showing off my body and playing with my tits/ass). I sent it to him and he really liked it. Mind you, I hesitated for several hours before sending that video. After a few days though, I began to realize why I never did those things in the past. I regret sending him it and *I just want to have him delete the video for good, right away!* I don't know how to do this. I don't even know if it's fair for me to. I just regret it so much (and needless to say, I will never do anything like this ever again). TL;DR: . Assistant:	I want him to erase all existence of a nude vid I sent him. How can I do this without causing any friction between us? CAN I even do this?	I want him to erase all existence of a nude vid I sent him. How can I do this without causing any friction between us? CAN I even do this?	696
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What do you think of mini-retirements? Career damaging or not? POST: I realize the traditional advice is to continue to build up a nest egg, retire, and then leisure through life into the death. But if you have the means to take a few months (maybe even years?), is it that crazy to take some time off while you're young and healthy? I probably have the funds (outside of retirement) to last several years without any income and much more if I'm doing some small side projects. This is without touching retirement. And this is without cutting down my current lifestyle. What would you guys do in this situation? Perhaps I'm just a spoiled 'millennial' but it seems like there should be much more to life than a 9-5ish job taking most of my energy away each week. On the other hand, health insurance may be an issue? And what about getting blackballed out of the workforce (software industry, of course). TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm kind of a spoiled shit and could blow some of my savings to take an extended vacation. Is this a terrible idea I will regret?	I'm kind of a spoiled shit and could blow some of my savings to take an extended vacation. Is this a terrible idea I will regret?	4,706
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: baby daddy wants to take mother to court so she won't be allowed to move away with her daughter.. any advice?? POST: My Girlfriend has a 3 year old daughter with her ex fiance, I am in the Marine Corps and have been dating her since before I joined, her and I have been talking about getting married lately but with my career that will mean she will be moving around a little bit (possibly a lot). at the moment, her ex fiance and her have no "official" custody arrangements for the child (other then both names being on the birth certificate). my girlfriend has a good job and works from home so she is always with her daughter, the dad takes the daughter every other night and every other weekend. long story short, he doesn't like the idea of her moving out of state with their daughter, he is threatening to take her to court and request that she is not allowed to move out of a certain distance with her daughter, so that he can still be around her. when she and I get married we were planning on her moving to california where my duty station is (she lives in Florida now)... BASICALLY, is she screwed? can he really force her to stay put with his daughter for the next 15 years, regardless of if she gets married or any other factors, according to her, even if this happens HE would still be free to move anywhere he wants with the daughter, whats up with that??... I don't know too much more info, nor do I know anything about custody, I just feel like she is being trapped, and I want to know if anyone has experience with this, or can give advice, or ANY help TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girls baby daddy threatening to take mother to court so she won't be allowed to move away with her daughter for the next 15 years. any advice??	Girls baby daddy threatening to take mother to court so she won't be allowed to move away with her daughter for the next 15 years. any advice??	3,081
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Men of Reddit: At what age did your parents allow you to decide how you wanted your hair? POST: Background info: I have a stepson who will be 10 in a few days. He wants to grow his hair out. His dad & I have no problem with that, and whenever needed, we trim it around his ears a bit. My stepson's mother, on the other hand, thinks he looks "stupid" (and has used this word at him). In April or May, she got her boyfriend to shave his head against his will. At school the next day, kids made fun of him. My BF shaved his head that night so as not to make his son feel so bad about himself. My BF got a call from his ex's BF last night (she was apparently CRYING because her son was refusing to allow them to shave his head) saying that their son was being difficult and wouldn't let them shave his head. After a VERY long and frustrating conversation, it was decided that they would attempt to trim it. He's ten years old, he should be allowed to choose how he wants to have his hair. I feel terrible for him. TL;DR: . Assistant:	10 year old isn't allowed to choose his own hairstyle because his mother is a cunt. BF & I don't care how he has his hair.	10 year old isn't allowed to choose his own hairstyle because his mother is a cunt. BF & I don't care how he has his hair.	2,501
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: M(21) met this girl (23 or 24) and we're doing dinner with her friends as our first time heading out to hang out... Good or bad? POST: So I, m 21, met this girl(23,24) the other day while out shopping, and got her number, we started texting a lot, and decided to hang out... We said that we would try and do coffee, but due to her schedule, she could not last weekend as she was planning on going home, and is not going to be back late into Sunday night. We got into talking about what we might do, and I offered dinner, but she always gets dinner with her girlfriends. She then invited me, and I'm uncertain as to what this means... Is it a good sign, or bad? I said yes, because if nothing else it shows confidence, and I'm not afraid to meet new people. I just don't know what to read into this... Anyone have any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Met a girl, we've been texting, going to dinner with her friends as the first time we'll hang out, does it mean anything bad/good?	Met a girl, we've been texting, going to dinner with her friends as the first time we'll hang out, does it mean anything bad/good?	6,495
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey reddit, I need some advice. POST: My grandma passed away on monday and I want to make people aware without straight up telling them. I originally wasn't supposed to tell anyone because my brother is on a trip to Germany for college and we didn't want him to find out. After some long thought and some advice from a priest who had been a good friend of my dad for a long time we decided to call my brother yesterday and tell him what happened. The only reason I wasn't supposed to tell anyone was because if possibly someone were to write something on facebook about it, it would have been really bad for him to find out that way. Now that he already knows, I want people to be aware because I have already had a few jack-asses from school say stuff to me about not being at practice or missing a sport banquet and I am really upset because my grandma was EXTREMELY close with me and my brother. Personally I find it annoying when people post things on facebook like "RIP grandma you will be missed" because I feel like if someone really wants to say something to a late family member then they should pray (or because I know how you guys get pissed about religion) just talk to them. I am not the kind of person who likes to draw attention to myself and i know none of you on here know me so I felt like this would be a better option. But I want to let people know about my grandma without making myself seem like an attention whore. Just something subtle because i really don't feel like making someone feel like shit after they have said something bad about me then I tell them I just lost my 88 year old grandmother from a failed kidney who i didn't even get to say goodbye to. **bold TL;DR: . Assistant:	My grandma passed away and I want a way to make people aware of it without drawing a lot of attention to myself. Thanks Reddit	My grandma passed away and I want a way to make people aware of it without drawing a lot of attention to myself. Thanks Reddit	3,604
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18F] and friend [27M] started to kind of date. I'm scared that he's taking advantage of me... POST: Hello, I'm a 18 y/o student and I met this guy who is my sisters colleague a few weeks ago. He's a doctor and expressed an interest in me a few months ago when he saw a picture of me and my sister. She never told me because she thinks he's a "man-whore" and wanted to protect me. I don't see a problem whit a young, good looking and successful man sleeping with some women and not wanting to commit to a serious relationship. Whatever floats your boat, right? My sister met with some of her friends from the hospital (she's a nurse) in a cafe and he appeared out of nowhere. He started to flirt whit me and wanted to go somewhere after we were done eating to which my sister insisted to come along. I thought he wanted to seduce my her by being nice to her little sister. I was wrong. He flirted with me, touched my hand, asked me questions and after we were done cruising around in his car he wanted to have my number. My sister reluctantly agreed and let me give it to him. We have been texting non stop ever since. We went out a couple of times and he's been incredibly nice to me. We went to his apartment once and made out etc. we didn't have sex but we kind of plan to this week. But I'm afraid that he's just using me and won't even look at me once we had sex. Though I found out that he asked for advice from a mutual fried of his and my sisters about how to approach me and if she thought that the age gap was weird and so on. What go you guys think? Should I wait until I'm really sure or just let him go? Note: English is not my first language and I'm on my mobile so excuse any mistakes. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I [18F] met a doctor [27M]. Known to be sleeping around with various girls, scared that he just wants sex and nothing more...	I [18F] met a doctor [27M]. Known to be sleeping around with various girls, scared that he just wants sex and nothing more...	2,952
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Wife (F25) and I started a company together & she is upset because I listed on my website & resume that "I founded" it. She wants me to fix it. Am I in completely the wrong? POST: Her argument is that since we both started it we are both technically co-founders. To be a founder means that there was only one individual in the beginning. I feel like she really encouraged me to start it, but that I did most of the work in the beginning getting it going & she more so took on the role of getting people involved. She said she feels like me putting up that I founded the company completely takes away her role in it and she's very hurt. Is she overreacting? I didn't see it that way, but am I wrong to have done that? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Wife is upset with me for stating that I founded a company that we both had a part in, I'm not sure if she's over reacting or if this is an actual error on my part.	Wife is upset with me for stating that I founded a company that we both had a part in, I'm not sure if she's over reacting or if this is an actual error on my part.	1,847
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25 M] dating [25 F] of about 2 months , receiving mixed messages, need an outside perspective. POST: We've known, very little, each other for a few years (only once or twice a year group meet-ups though.) We hooked up 2 months ago and kept in touch and went on some dates while exchanging plenty of texts/sexts. At the time of the hook-up, she had just taken on a new (2nd) job that demands a lot of her time in the evenings/weekends while working normal hours in the weekday. Which is all fine and we talked about it being slightly difficult meeting up but she said wanted to date, sharing suggestive texts during the busy weeks to keep things interesting. The weekend before last, we had organised a day to see each other several days in advance, but half an hour before, she has to cancel due to a work request she couldn't turn down. (interviewing musicians and music scene). Which is all true, and I can understand since this is what she's always wanted to do this as a career, and suggests meeting during the weekday where she has a full free day to spend more time with me (we only ever had hour long dates as both our schedules conflicted which have gone well as she has stated that). It comes to the day before but I get no response from her about the date and I just carry on my usual day to day stuff. Three days later I get a text saying sorry for no contact, that she has been very busy and all over the place, and, can we put the dating aspect on hold an be friends. (I have yet to respond as im not sure what to say, I can understand taking it slow but am I being led on a string or being easily let down??) Just to note, she had been in a long relationship that finished a year ago that was not socially fulfilling/boring and with her new found freedom wanted to get out and enjoy life, which is now non-stop and she seems a lot more energetic but also demands a lot, which of course I admire her for as we both have similar life goals that we're going for and she has just gotten into a new path in her career that she is aiming for. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Wants to date, is interested, flirty but keeps pushing me back and now, wants to be friends due to her demanding hectic schedule.	Wants to date, is interested, flirty but keeps pushing me back and now, wants to be friends due to her demanding hectic schedule.	4,927
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (28/f) want to be friends with someone (30ish/m) at work POST: So there's a guy at my work that I've talked to occasionally. He seems really cool and he just moved here from another state. I've had a hard time making friends with other people at work since most in my department are a lot older and have kids and families. I'm also considering a move to another department eventually and I'd like to have some allies at work for when that happens. How to I make friends with him without it seeming like in interested in more than that? TL;DR: . Assistant:	trying to make friends with specific people at work, not sure how to approach it without seeming creepy. Guy also has a girlfriend.	trying to make friends with specific people at work, not sure how to approach it without seeming creepy. Guy also has a girlfriend.	3,969
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (F39) mum (F67) is very mean to me and my husband (M37) about our career choices. POST: My mother has always been a mixed bag. She's borderline mean a lot but I don't want to cut her out... When i was 18 I decided instead of going to law school like my mum wanted me to I went to study to become a teacher. ( I now am a teacher) ever since then she constantly berates me that I "can do better" and that I'm going to be poor (even though I have a masters degree-meaning I get paid more then most teachers) she also says "I'm wasting my life" and that she "raised me to be successful, not babysit kids" she also is mean to my husband who is a teacher-librarian at a elementary school ( I teach high school) she says " I could have married a more successful man if I wanted to" it makes me so so fucking sad. I've considered cutting off contact with her but my son loves her ( and she's very good and nice and awesome) with my son. Just not me and my husband.. I don't know what to do... TL;DR: . Assistant:	my mum is mean to me and my husband but super nice to my son. I have no clue what to do.	my mum is mean to me and my husband but super nice to my son. I have no clue what to do.	1,079
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Still in love with ex boyfriend. POST: I'm a 19-year old female, who dated an 18-year old guy for about 6 months. We broke up a 2 months ago, because he said "he didn't feel comfortable around me, in the same way as when he's with his friends". Also, he said when you're in a relationsship, you're supposed to be best friends, which we weren't. He also mentioned, that he didn't feel he could support me the way a boyfriend should be able to. We agreed to still be friends, and I admitted, that I still loved him, and he said he loved me too. A week after, he texted me telling me, that he had been to a psychologist, and he had a depression. We've met up a few times since, but never talked about feelings. But lately, he's hardly ever contacted me, it's just me, who starts the conversation over text or skype, and it's only me, who takes the initiative to meet up. I know, he's not at his very best, and that's probably why he hardly ever contacts me. But recently I've become unsure, if I should continue contacting him. Do you think it's worth it? Should I talk about how I feel? Or should wait until he feels better? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My ex has a depression, I'm still in love with him, but I'm unsure of his feelings. Therefore, I'm totally blank on what to do. :-(	My ex has a depression, I'm still in love with him, but I'm unsure of his feelings. Therefore, I'm totally blank on what to do. :-(	3,251
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How do I get our neighbors to stop making their dogs poop in our yard. POST: First post :) I am in college and live in a house literally bordering university property. Next door to us is a stand-alone apartment building with about 8 units inside (unaffiliated with the school). Recently, a middle-aged (white trash) couple moved in with their 3 dogs. Their apartment building has a small yard about the size of ours, however they always walk their dog over to our yard for them to poop, and then they leave it there. Most of the time I see it through the window, and just as I get up enough courage to go confront them, they're gone. Today, I came home while they were in the yard, gave her a ಠ_ಠ and asked her politely "if you're going to let them go here, please at least pick it up" to which she said "okay" and yanked them all on their leashes back to their building. 3 hours later, they're back at it, and not picking it up. What can I do? I thought about some sort of pet repellant, but I figured that I don't want to hurt the dogs or make their owners even more abusive to them for not pooping, but they seem to not care that it's property. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Neighbors are having their dogs poop in our yard and not clean it up, how do I get back at them?	Neighbors are having their dogs poop in our yard and not clean it up, how do I get back at them?	3,970
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of two years have been fighting about holiday arrangements. POST: Whenever it comes to seeing each other's family for the holidays, things have always gone smoothly. Most of my family lives out of town. His family lives out of town as well. Somehow, we always arrange to see each other's family during the holidays. This year, he is living 400 miles away from me due to graduate school. His family lives between the city he is living in and the city I live in. About a month ago, my boyfriend got a dog. Because of this, he has decided that he cannot visit my family with me because he cannot bring the dog with him (my family is allergic,) and doesn't want to have anyone but his mother watch the dog while we visit my family. She has only committed to watching the dog one night because if the dog has issues being away from my SO, she doesn't want to deal with it. Because of the ridiculous amount of driving it would be to take the dog to his family's place then to visit my family then pick the dog back up (not knowing how long he would actually be able to visit my family in case the dog does't do well without him and his mother says no bueno,) he's decided that for neither Thanksgiving or Christmas he will be able to visit my family. His mother already made plans for Thanksgiving for him to be there Thanksgiving day and their traditions of Christmas Eve are set in stone. I feel like there is no compromise. I understand that the dog is his responsibility, however, I feel as though the dog's importance has taken lead over my feelings of importance I have for us spending time with MY family (I ALWAYS make time to see his family whenever applicable.) We hardly get to see my family--maybe twice a year when they visit the city I live in and he is in town. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Why do I feel like the dog has taken importance over me? I am upset that the dog interferes with him seeing my family.	Why do I feel like the dog has taken importance over me? I am upset that the dog interferes with him seeing my family.	3,001
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my one night stand [28M] It's been four years and I can't stop thinking about him POST: I'm a normal, friendly person with solid social skills, but I'm also a late bloomer sexually. I had sex for the first time four years ago with "Ben", a guy I was friendly with and had a crush on. We hooked up and it was great, but then he immediately started ignoring me and we never really spoke again. It was really irritating at the time but I wasn't heartbroken by any stretch of the imagination. Flash forward four years. I haven't had any sexual or romantic relationships since Ben. Then about eight months ago, Ben randomly liked my new profile picture. Ever since then I've been thinking about him a lot and I'm really not sure why. I haven't messaged him or even looked at his profile, but I have this little fantasy where I run into him in my new town and he asks me to meet him for dinner. I'm posting here because I'm super confused about why I'm so fixated on the idea of this guy who treated me pretty disrespectfully, and who I never really had any emotional attachment to. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Four years ago I hooked up with an acquaintance, never heard from him again, and suddenly I'm obsessing over him.	Four years ago I hooked up with an acquaintance, never heard from him again, and suddenly I'm obsessing over him.	2,346
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20M] with my girlfriend [21F] of a few months, thinks I have an STD after learning of my past sexual history POST: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months, and we know each other's past history pretty well. I, a few years back, dated a very promiscuous girl, and my girlfriend knows this. Me and my girlfriend have only had sex a few times, and one of those times was without a condom. She was a virgin and is very inexperienced and does not understand a lot about sex. The other day it somehow came up in conversation that I slept with my ex one year ago, and my girlfriend accused me of having an STD, and I really do not like how she brings up my past history like that. She says she is going to get an STD test because she thinks that my ex picked one up and gave it to me based on her promiscuity. I am going to get an STD test too just to prove to her I do not have one, but I was pretty offended she accused me of having one after I told her that I had slept with my ex a year ago. She is very upset and offended that I am offended at her. Am I wrong to be offended by that? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend and I have had sex, she finds out I had sex with someone a year ago and now thinks I have an STD	Girlfriend and I have had sex, she finds out I had sex with someone a year ago and now thinks I have an STD	5,868
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: If a guy you've been hanging out with googles you, does it mean he's into you? POST: I (late20sF) have a friend (late20sM) that I've known casually for many years but have only hung out with a handful of times because we both have moved around a lot. Nothing explicitly romantic has ever happened between us, but we have a really good connection and sometimes I've wondered if we would have dated if the timing had worked out better. We now live about a half hour apart and recently we hung out for the first time in several months. I have a personal webpage that tracks analytics so I can see who visits my page and where they're located. Late that night, I got an alert that someone had just searched for me on google and had visited a few of the pages on my personal webpage. Based on the location I know it was him. Is this a strong sign he is interested in me? Or is it somewhat common for people to google random friends of theirs? TL;DR: . Assistant:	casual friend googles me at night after hanging out earlier in the day. does it mean he's into me?	casual friend googles me at night after hanging out earlier in the day. does it mean he's into me?	3,207
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU 'cause I got high. POST: So I get home from work yesterday at around 3pm when my buddy calls me up and tells me to swing over to his place to check out his new IPA home brew that was finishing up. I get over to his pad and we take some samples and its pretty good stuff. Afterwards he tells me that he also had made some serious brownies (the best kind). Now the problem here is that I was starving and my stomach was empty, so not only was the IPA hitting my instantly, but an hour or so later I start taking a magic carpet ride through the universe of mind, body, and spirit. I occasionally dabble, but I was at an honest [9] and at one point was going through this: So anyway. The day is a complete blur and I find myself waking up at 6:00am to get ready for work. I stroll in about an hour later, feeling fine, when I see my boss who gives me a super confused look. He comes over to me and asks me if I'm feeling alright. "Yeah, I guess I do, why?" I ask. "Because you left me a message last night saying you wouldn't be able to make it in today." After some really hard thinking, an awkward pause that lasted what felt like several hours, and me babbling about something complete irrelevant, he just nods and walks away. I just got off the phone with my buddy and he said that I had called in to work after I realized I had to bike home 6 blocks and didn't think I would be able to make it back home in time for work tomorrow... TL;DR: . Assistant:	I got so high the day before I forgot I had called in to work. Thought 6 blocks was 60 miles and it would take days to get home.	I got so high the day before I forgot I had called in to work. Thought 6 blocks was 60 miles and it would take days to get home.	6,232
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Hey Reddit, can my Supervisor stop me from applying to another department? POST: I work for a major retail store in Maryland, I'm currently working in a sales position that I thought I would enjoy, but after finding out the commission was not the same structure I was told, horrible hours, and coworkers who will barely even talk to me I decided to look at other opportunities. The store has a Loss Prevention position open and I attempted to apply for it. I've been talking to the other guys in LP and they think I would be a good fit. However I was told by the HR rep that my current supervisor won't let me because "it would be too difficult to hire someone new." Are the allowed to do that? I haven't been able to find anything in the employee handbook and the national HR help line is closed till Monday. I also haven't gone to the store manager yet as I don't want to cause ripples in the pond so to speak. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My supervisor is stopping me was applying to another department in the same store because it would be too difficult to find a replacement.	My supervisor is stopping me was applying to another department in the same store because it would be too difficult to find a replacement.	603
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [34/F] considering contacting the woman my husband [34/M] is cheating with. Is this a good or bad idea? Has anyone else in this situation ever contacted the OW/OM? If so how did it go? POST: I made a [previous post] about my situation but tonight I found out my husband's "friend" is also making a new start so basically they're both leaving their spouses for each other. I decided I'd like to talk to her and not only get some answers but also let her know a few things like how my husband was treated for an STD (I'm clean so I didn't give it to him). For all I know she gave it to him but in case he didn't I think she should know. I'd also like to let her know about the texts he sent me awhile back saying he loved me and wanted to reconcile (Obviously these were lies or he changed his mind) because it goes to show his shady character. She has a kid and as angry as I am, I don't want her kid to get attached to them in the event that she discovers he's truly an asshole and breaks it off with him. I won't lie though, a little part of me wants to send it as a way of telling her I know what's going on but none of the letter is angry, harassment, blame, etc. It's pretty calm and sort of non-judgemental. So /r/relationship, does this seem like a good or bad idea? Do you have any advice for me on how I should handle this situation? I'm going crazy not having any closure. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Want to contact the OW in the politest way possible but not sure if this is a batshit thing to do.	Want to contact the OW in the politest way possible but not sure if this is a batshit thing to do.	2,827
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by giving a vending machine a $20 bill POST: This happened last night. My girlfriend and I are staying overnight at a hotel to go to Hershey Park in the morning. Both of us needed water because god knows why the air was so dry. So I got out of bed and told her I was gonna go look around for one of the vending machines to get water. I forgot I didn't have any single bills left and thought I'd be okay using my credit card. Here's where the fuck up started. I got to the vending machine (which was right around the corner from my room) and noticed there wasn't the conventional "$1.00 and $5.00 bills accepted" so I thought it'd be okay to use a $20 bill instead of my credit card I'd get dollar coins back, right? After I got my drink, I was tired so I had to look reaaaaal close to see that there were quarters coming out instead. Got $18.50 worth of quarters back from a vending machine. Instant regret. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Used $20 on a vending machine thinking I was gonna get dollar coins, got $18.50 worth of quarters instead.	Used $20 on a vending machine thinking I was gonna get dollar coins, got $18.50 worth of quarters instead.	3,920
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my wife [28 F] of 2.5 years, sex life is dying... POST: My wife and I may or may not have been meant to be. Perhaps we'll never know. We dated for 2 years in college and shortly after graduating, found out we had a bun in the oven. Pregnancy was rough on both of us, and she had some depression issues during and after. We got married about 6 months before our son was born. And that was when our sex life died. Fast forward 2 years, I still have the same libido I had in college. If there's an opportunity to get some, I take it (only with the wife). My wife on the other hand is either too busy, too tired, or just doesn't feel like it. And when she does feel like it, its never for me, it just what is good for her, with no concession for my wants and preferences. It's sex, so I don't turn it down. I take good care of myself as she does, I'm not ugly and neither is she, and I've been faithful since we started dating. I've recently given up on the whole surprise flowers, spontaneous dates, small gifts, etc. as they very rarely produce anything other than a "thank you". What can I do to better our sex life, both in frequency and variety? TL;DR: . Assistant:	How can a loyal, good-lookin horndog get his wife to spice it up a bit without being put in the doghouse?	How can a loyal, good-lookin horndog get his wife to spice it up a bit without being put in the doghouse?	4,080
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [17 M] with my Ex-GF [18 F] of 6 months, she says she wants to be with me and build with me, proceeds to ignore me. POST: Okay, to start we were together for a short while last year and during that time it was great I really liked her and felt it was reciprocated. During that time though I found out she was talking to other guys behind my back who were attempting to sway her away from me. Eventually we broke up but remained somewhat close to the point where she would still come to be with her problems. (which was a lot) I cared about her a lot and I still do, recently she started at college and suddenly tells me that she wants to build with me and be with me for my success. Although, I don't really believe her. Since the day I've met her she's blown me off I can't count how many times, takes an unnatural amount of time to text back, and ultimately ignores me to the point where I feel she doesn't care. But the few times she does respond to me it's something that really makes it seem like she does care about me. Her actions towards me just leave me confused and feeling left out, I feel like I'm being lead on but I don't know. I try to discuss it with her but she's generally distant and avoids it. Just not sure what to do from here, just drop her completely or keep trying? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Ex that I care for a lot tells me she wants to build with me and be with me, proceeds to ignore me and leave me feeling down. Drop her or not?	Ex that I care for a lot tells me she wants to build with me and be with me, proceeds to ignore me and leave me feeling down. Drop her or not?	4,551
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: How I fight hunger cravings. POST: Aside from the standard stuff I've seen around here, like drinking water or filling up on really dense/low calorie food, I've realized a method that works for me to avoid feeling hunger pangs. I noticed that during the week, when I'm watching TV or browsing reddit, I tend to get hungrier more often. I just want to eat when I know I shouldn't. But on the weekends I eat less than I usually do and don't seem to get hungry. I still browse the internet and watch TV probably a similar amount, but it's when I have free time and when I also do something else: play videogames. Something about focusing or getting entirely absorbed in a good game somehow gets me through a whole day, almost forgetting to eat. I've experienced the same thing when reading or writing something, anything that gets me to focus all of my attention on it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	buy and play/read/enjoy good game/book/hobby (mine was Bioshock), forget you're hungry.	buy and play/read/enjoy good game/book/hobby (mine was Bioshock), forget you're hungry.	1,763
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I need some advice, I can't choose whether to pursue a solution to my problem, or give up on it. POST: (Warning: This is not a life threatening problem, if you don't want to listen to a issue that is anything less than a personal emergency, this post isn't for you. Thanks.) Some background information: Over the past 4 months or so, I developed what I thought was a pretty close friendship with a girl whom I had known for the majority of my life, but had never really taken time to speak with until this year. In that time I discovered that she was an absolutely awesome person; very smart, and very funny and just enjoyable to be around. Up until just a few weeks ago we would talk for 3-4 hours a day on Skype, and I enjoyed all of it. Now onto the problem: In the time I spoke to her, she mentioned Prom on several occasions, asking questions like "Do you know what day Prom is", also mentioning the occasion when other girls post dress pictures to Facebook, making it a semi-frequent topic for short amounts of conversation. Now I, lacking minor social skills, came to the conclusion that these were some kind of hints, and decided to man-up and ask her. After a relatively simple outing, on the way back home I decided that I would ask, and she proceeded to turn me down. In all honesty, getting turned down is not a huge deal, it is what follows that bothers me. Since that day, she has not spoken to me at all, it has been 3 weeks now. She wouldn't return any of my texts (all three that I sent over those weeks), removed me from Facebook, and then removed me from her Skype contacts. She avoids communicating with me in person, and appears to avoid me now. There is nothing that I would want more than to continue on as we were just several weeks ago, but she appears to want none of it. I think I may have overstepped my boundaries in asking her to Prom, but being completely put out in the cold like this seems ridiculous, and frustrates me to no end. My question is whether I should attempt to repair what I thought was a excellent friendship, or should I just try to let her go? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Asked a close friend to Prom, I was turned down, now she won't speak to me; should I try to fix what is broken, or just let her go?	Asked a close friend to Prom, I was turned down, now she won't speak to me; should I try to fix what is broken, or just let her go?	5,284
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Outside perspective with a friend. POST: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My (30f) friend (25f) of three years is toxic and I need help figuring out a way to end things. She has a history of contemplating sucide.	My (30f) friend (25f) of three years is toxic and I need help figuring out a way to end things. She has a history of contemplating sucide.	1,806
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] in a 4y relationship with [35/f] with husband and 2 kids POST: It's almost 4 years now, we met when I was 19 and SO 30. We were close friends for a year, I got to know her kids(she's an amazing parent) also got to know her husband. He is verbally abusive, also had her caged at home for like first 5 years of marriage. He's extremely catholic and conservative and she will divorce him regardless of me being with her or not, but she needs to have a stable job before doing so. I absolutely love her company, never had anyone with whom I felt so comfortable around, we share hobbies, I mean, we read same books, game together, sometimes work together. We spend 2-3 evenings a week together. However, I'm really afraid, that jumping in this relationship after divorce will destroy everything and leave her in a situation worse than now. It's all going great now, she recently got a decent full time job, kids love me but still, I am absolutely terrified of potential consequences of the duties overwhelming me, mid-life crisis of chasing girls, starting to see the age difference, etc - I have huge doubts. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm a 23yo lover/partner of a wonderful 35yo that has a husband and 2 kids trying to divorce, and I don't know what to do.	I'm a 23yo lover/partner of a wonderful 35yo that has a husband and 2 kids trying to divorce, and I don't know what to do.	2,559
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Pets TITLE: Need some advice on a possible adoption.. (x-post /r/dogs) POST: Hey there! In about a month my parents and I might be taking in one of our neighbors dogs (A German Shepherd). As long as I've known them they've kept him confined to a cage (inside) 24/7, besides taking him for walks. They say they do this because he's very territorial and marks everything. I don't know if they're telling the truth, but what's the best way to end this habit if he continues it in his new home? Also, we have 4 cats. My mom and I love them dearly, and my mom is worried that they'll run away if we bring the dog in. Any help would be appreciated, thanks in advance! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Possibly taking in a dog that is territorial and marks everything in the house, is there a way to prevent this? Also, my mom is worried that our cats will run away.	Possibly taking in a dog that is territorial and marks everything in the house, is there a way to prevent this? Also, my mom is worried that our cats will run away.	6,257
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by getting the mail POST: I should start out by first mentioning that I'm living in an apartment complex and have never gotten packages delivered here before so I don't know how the whole system works for packages. So I was expecting two packages to be delivered, one box with shoes and another box with a phone case for my new phone. I get a text message saying one of my packages were delivered, cool yay! So I open the door and don't see anything on the porch so i go to our mailbox which isn't really large enough for the boxes and get the mail. When I'm getting the mail I see two sets of keys and both have tags saying that they keys are property of post office and if found return by dropping into a mailbox. So my first thought is "Oh, the mailman must have accidentally left these in my box and is probably looking for them! Better drop it into the mailbox slot below" (there's an outgoing mailbox below my box). But before I do that, my curiosity gets the best of me and I try sticking the keys into these larger boxes below mine and the key fits! I don't turn it though because I don't want to be caught tampering with other people's mail and I sated my curiosity for where the keys went already. I mindlessly drop both keys into the outgoing mail box slot and then 2 seconds later it hits me... those keys were for me to open those larger PACKAGE SIZED boxes so I could retrieve my packages... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Mailman left me keys to retrieve my packages, I thought he forgot them in my mailbox and returned them without taking my packages	Mailman left me keys to retrieve my packages, I thought he forgot them in my mailbox and returned them without taking my packages	1,782
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My boyfriend of three years [21M] constantly calls me [21F] a whore POST: Update: I DUMPED HIM. Thanks for all the advice guys! It was hard but I can live.. Hey guys.. I've been with my boyfriend for three years (I'm a female and we're both 21) he lost his virginity to me but I wasn't a virgin when I met him.. The first two years were wonderful and we always felt like we're soulmates.. Thing is he thinks I'm a whore because I hooked up with a guy he hates a year before I met him. He says his opinion of me will never change and he will punish me for it forever :( he makes jokes about this and calls me a slut/whore almost everyday whether jokingly or serious .. It really hurts cause I thought I meant more to him but I guess I was wrong.. Anyway this makes me feel so shitty about myself that I just wanna stay in bed and feel so inferior to all the other women who are virgins. I hate it cause its like none of the things we did matter, and all he'll ever think of me is a whore.. It sucks thinking that he will respect another girl and not me simply because of a mistake which I regret deeply.. I know I can't change this cause it happened five years ago.. What can I do? I really love my boyfriend and we want to move in together soon but this is slightly annoying and he won't stop.. Am I overreacting? Should I suck it up and go with it? Talking to him is useless cause we had conversations about this tons of times and he still says I'm a slut.. Any tips? :( TL;DR: . Assistant:	I had sex with a guy a year before I met my current boyfriend and my bf says he thinks I'm a whore and his opinion won't change..	I had sex with a guy a year before I met my current boyfriend and my bf says he thinks I'm a whore and his opinion won't change..	3,873
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Should I cut deeply into my savings and pay off my student loan or keep paying in increments? POST: I have ~11K in savings and a remaining balance of ~3K in student loans with a seemingly steep interest rate. Even though I am 'paid ahead' until July of 2016, I am still incurring interest hits with each payment (generally pay $100/month towards the loan and about 87 goes towards principal and the remaining is interest). Should I go ahead and pay off my remaining balance of 3K now, leaving me with 8K in savings? Things to consider: I just moved across the country for grad school. I am currently unemployed and seeking work. I can (and probably will have to) take another loan out for grad school in the next two months. So I wouldn't be flat broke if any major expenses came up. The only main concerns I have to worry about (aside from standard bills and insurance) are rent of ~625/mo, a dog who is now 7, and a 1999 car which seems to be surviving ok right now, but who knows. TL;DR: . Assistant:	would it be better for me to completely pay off this one loan before taking out another, even though paying off this one will cut into my savings a good bit?	would it be better for me to completely pay off this one loan before taking out another, even though paying off this one will cut into my savings a good bit?	691