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Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [19/m] I am in my freshman year of college with my girlfriend [18/f]. I am having an easier time adjusting and it's putting a strain on our relationship. POST: I'll try to make this as brief as I can. My girlfriend and I started dating during our junior year in high school and we ended up going to the same university. When we first moved in, we were both a bit overwhelmed, and it was really helpful to the both of us that we had each other during the transition. Since I have always adjusted pretty easily to new situations, I started to become pretty comfortable around week 3. I have gotten know a ton of people, I've made new friends and I've been doing very well in all my classes. She, on the other hand, has been having a tougher time. She feels like she hasn't made any friends, is really struggling in her classes, and she's feeling pretty lost. I've been doing everything I can to be there for her, and spend all the time with her that I can, but it seems like we're on two different wavelengths. One of the main reasons we're running into trouble is that since I'm meeting a ton of people and having a great time, she's worried that she's holding me back from everything. The thing is, I want to meet new friends and everything, but I wanna do it with her. I always try to get her to hang out with my friends, but she never seems happy. When I ask her why, she always says "they're your friends, you all know each other." It's beginning to feel like I have to choose between her and my friends, and I don't want that. I love being with her, but it seems like lately, I'm all she has. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Sorry for the long post! ( TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm making new friends, girlfriend isn't, and it's feeling more and more like I'm having to sacrifice having a transformative college experience for her to be happy.)	I'm making new friends, girlfriend isn't, and it's feeling more and more like I'm having to sacrifice having a transformative college experience for her to be happy.)	173
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Long distance relationship of 4 months [19m] with [16m] says I'm not dominant enough POST: We met online playing video games and we kept talking and one thing just led to the next and we started skyping everyday. He (the 16 year old) was originally the one to say "I love you" and started talking seriously about the relationship and meeting up together and living together potentially in the future when he finished high school. Things were going really great I was really happy and finally looking forward to the future, he made a lot of hints of us living together like far off in the future and I thought we had this really great thing going, we talked on cam everyday and played games and watched TV shows and movies together. Then 2 days ago he tells me that I'm a pushover, I take time to think about it and realize he's kind of right, we never really fought I've always been frightened of him leaving me so I never really disagree with him and I don't really make decisions I always say "I don't care" or "you decide." I just don't really know how to express myself, I'm fairly apathetic to most things. Then yesterday he tells me that he thinks our relationship might not last if I continue to be so unpassionate, unmotivated and not the "dominant guy he'd like." He said that anything can happen and he still wants to be with me now but he might not forever even if I did change because "everything is up to chance." I feel like he already broke up with me, I cried a bit and threw up. Before this relationship I always thought myself as fairly dominant around my friends but I've always been a quiet introvert in large groups of people but I still have an aggressive side. Also I'm not a stereotypical gay guy either, like if you knew me you wouldn't have any idea that I was, he on the other hand is more effeminate and he has a fairly big ego and a rather large personality. I'm really afraid of losing him I just don't know what to do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm a pushover and my boyfriend said he thinks I should be more dominant and I don't know how and am afraid he'll leave me anyways	I'm a pushover and my boyfriend said he thinks I should be more dominant and I don't know how and am afraid he'll leave me anyways	5,198
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Confused virgin, initiating everything with girlfriend, feeling bad afterwards. POST: Okay....so me and this girl, we've been dating for two months now. She's a virgin, and I'm a virgin. Hell, she's so innocent, it's not even funny. But, we've recently started to get a lot more physical. From about the second week, we've been sleeping together. As in, we would cuddle and then sleep in the same bed. We might make out a little bit, but it was mostly the cuddling and the sleeping. Then, I started with the dry-humping, and she reciprocated, and clothes started coming off. Only above the waist, however. I quickly learned how to properly take off a bra. And then, just within this last week, we moved to third base. It started with me rubbing outside of the shorts she wore to bed, and then I asked if she minded me moving inside the shorts, and she said no, so I did. And she's given me a handjob before too. Mostly, though, I feel like it's been me. And I want it, in the moment. And she wants it--she never hasn't wanted it. But, afterwards, I always feel like shit. I wouldn't say I regret it, but I feel like a bad person. I feel bad for initiating it, and for almost pushing the boundaries. I guess, what I'm asking here more than anything, is that should this be happening? Is this one of those things that should just feel right from the moment you're doing it? Like, when you're doing it and when you're not? As bad as this sounds, could it be a sign that she's not really "the one" and that, knowing that, I should break up with her? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I've initiated all of the physical stuff with my girlfriend, because I feel it in the moment, but don't afterwards. Is this something that I should break up with her over?	I've initiated all of the physical stuff with my girlfriend, because I feel it in the moment, but don't afterwards. Is this something that I should break up with her over?	76
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: If being gay is not a "choice" how can this be proved? POST: I have been on reddit for a while but just thought of this now (probably helps that I am high), but from my findings most gay people are atheist. Atheist hold science up on a pedestal and believe the findings to be true and use it to answer most of the questions they may have regarding our Earth. But answer me this: Most gay people will state that being gay is not a "choice", but rather they are born that way. Why not have science prove this. If science can explain how the universe came into existence and that it was not just magical spawning of floating rocks by a big dude in the sky who looks like santa clause in a toga why can't it explain why men are attracted to men and women are attracted to women? Unlike diseases and virus' with very small occurances that may be hard to explain or there is no explaination, with being a homosexual there is more than just a handful of cases out there. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Can science finally prove that being gay is not a "choice", but rather an actually deformity within the brain of said homosexual person.	Can science finally prove that being gay is not a "choice", but rather an actually deformity within the brain of said homosexual person.	1,646
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with my bf [21M] for 1.5 year, having troubles and are ldr over christmas break, need some insight. POST: First of, excuse my bad language as english is not my original language. So I recently found out that my bf have had a secret flirtation with his ex over the last three months. He has been lying about it, and I am feeling really hurt. I no longer trust him. I really do love him, and want to forgive him and move passed it. At first he was really apologetic, and wanted to do anything to make it up to me again. I go to school where he lives, but my family is in another city. So I had to leave for christmas break only two days after I found out. With all of my trust issues and me feeling hurt this has taken a toll on our relationship. He now feels exhausted, and don't want to work on making it better. Instead he made me feel guilty for beeing hurt and making a big deal out of it. And now im alone trying to fix things, that he broke, and i feel really alone. Before I left for the holidays he promised we would call each other every day. And we have done so once in the five days i have been home. I asked him tonight if he wanted to talk to me for a bit, I even gave him a call. But he just turned me down. And said he dont feel like talking. I don't know what to do. I am sad, lonely, and feeling worthless. It's like he don't even care about me or my feelings anymore. I am afraid to say anything, but i want to talk to him about all of this. But I don't know how, or what to say. I am afraid he'll get more distant if I do. I really don't want to break up with this guy. So please reddit, I only need some insight and help in understanding all of this. TL;DR: . Assistant:	boyfriend been flirting with his ex and lying about it. wanted to make it better at first, but has grown distant after me leaving town for the holidays.	boyfriend been flirting with his ex and lying about it. wanted to make it better at first, but has grown distant after me leaving town for the holidays.	3,267
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Question about the timing of a past Backdoor Roth IRA conversion POST: First, my apologies if this has been answered before. I couldn't find any reference to this here on Reddit nor on Google. So back in 2009 I had just heard about backdoor Roth IRA conversions, which would help me because I had an AGI north of $150k. I opened a new Traditional IRA Account with Vanguard and made 3 non-deductible contributions to it between April 14 2009 and January 2 2010 (covering CY 2008 ($3k), 2009 ($5k) and 2010 ($5k)). Around January 2010 I did a backdoor conversion from my Vanguard Traditional IRA to a brand new Vanguard Roth IRA. The total was around $13700. Around May 2010 I rolled around $50k from a 401k I had with a previous employer to my Vanguard Traditional IRA. When I did my taxes for 2010, my accountant said I would be subject to the pro-rating since I had "mixed" pre-tax and post-tax money in my Traditional IRA. Even though the balance of my Vanguard Traditional IRA was 0 between January and May of 2010, he said because the account had contained both pre-tax and post-tax money in the same calendar year, the IRS considers the money "mixed". I took his word for it at the time, but after reading tons of articles on backdoor Roth IRAs, I've started to wonder if he was correct. Does anyone have any information on if this is true or not? I tried reading the instructions for form 8606 and it makes my head hurt. Any clarification or links to where the IRS addresses this would be most helpful. Thanks! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Was my past Roth IRA Conversion subject to taxes if I rolled a 401k to a Traditional IRA AFTER I had performed the Roth IRA Conversion earlier in the year?	Was my past Roth IRA Conversion subject to taxes if I rolled a 401k to a Traditional IRA AFTER I had performed the Roth IRA Conversion earlier in the year?	4,934
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] trying to understand if second chances exist? POST: Assume you truly liked someone but something happened that kinda turned you off to them. Nothing ridiculously bad such as abuse or being cheated on, but something along of the lines of not being emotionally available to someone and/or briefly losing that connection/spark you had with them. Basically something that causes you to question if they actually like you or not. Like you have doubts as to whether or not the other person likes you when originally you thought they really liked you. Would you take them back and give them a second chance? I think this happened to me - a girl doesn't know if I actually like her. I know the typical advice for me is to move on, but in my past, I've had this happen before in which the vibe changes and actually coming on strong and apologizing ends up working. (In fact for some reason it seems to happen a lot to me - I've had to apologize twice in my past and got second chances). The only issue is having her believe that you are being genuine...and that's hard. And that's something I can't do unless I see her in person but obviously her being closed prevents us from meeting in person (unless its a chance encounter). But in the past, I've written a letter and e-mail and it worked, so maybe there is a way to not do it in person... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Would you take someone back if suddenly the vibe changed for the worst? As if suddenly you don't know if they like you are not, and have huge doubts about how genuine the other guy is.	Would you take someone back if suddenly the vibe changed for the worst? As if suddenly you don't know if they like you are not, and have huge doubts about how genuine the other guy is.	4,371
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: SO (f21) of a year wants to slow it down, I (m21) don't know what to do. POST: Long wall of text ahead. Sorry. So I've been dating my girlfriend for the past year and over the last few months we've been getting into little fights (almost every week) which get solved immediately after and we make up. But then last week we had a huge fight and I told her we were over. However, once the anger calmed down, she apologized and I accepted and we moved on. However, over the past month I had been feeling a little unwanted physically because every time I touched her affectionately she wouldn't respond as much or would even maybe move soon after. So, if I put my hand around her in bed she would move or change positions soon after. And sex had gone down to once a day to almost once 3 days. I let her know my concerns last night and today she told me she feels "weird" about having sex with me so often. Now I know she's had a lot going on in her family (hospital admittance of a member, 6 weeks ago) but I thought that effect was temporary. However today she told me that she's just been feeling physically withdrawn (in general, not just me) for the past two and a half months. She asked me to work with her and take it slow and let he initiate and give her space, to which I've obliged. I wanted to know how I can act or what I can say that would help us return to where we were. Because we used to be amazing, we clicked like anything physically and emotionally and I just want that back. And I am willing to put my 100% for that because this girl means the world to me. She feels the same way and told me that she would want nothing more. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Gf of a year has been feeling physically withdrawn for 2 months and wants to slow it down. What should I do?	Gf of a year has been feeling physically withdrawn for 2 months and wants to slow it down. What should I do?	1,203
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [22M] moving in July and she [23F] doesn't seem like she wants to keep dating. POST: I'm in the military, so I don't really have a say in the move. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months, although we've known each other almost a year. For most of our relationship it's been really good, all rainbows and butterflies. But over the past month, especially the past week, it's gotten a lot more confusing. As we've gotten more serious this move has become a much bigger deal. I see three options, none of which is perfect. 1. She moves with me. It's to Oklahoma though, so not exactly the kind of place she wants to go. Furthermore, getting a job would be really hard for her and she's afraid she would lose her friends and be unable to make new ones. As much as I like this idea I can't be so selfish to demand it, especially when we've only been dating such a short time. 2. We try long distance. I would be about 8 hours away so it wouldn't be impossible to see each other, but still too long for every weekend. She has expressed the opinion that long distance relationships don't work, but that she'd try. I would be ok with this except for how pessimistic she seems about them. 3. We break up in July and go our separate ways. I don't know why I list this as an option. This would suck, especially if we decided it now. This past weekend it seems like she's just given up hope on the relationship. Looking for jobs there hasn't gone well and she's expressed a lot of doubts both with going and staying behind. I haven't exactly been a pillar of strength though because there is so much beyond my control and the prospect of losing her is terrifying to me. As of last night she won't say she loves me and seems increasingly distant. It's my guess that she's scared of opening up too much and then getting hurt, so she's closing herself off in preparation for what she thinks is inevitable. Fuck...this sucks. I love her and I want to make it work, I just don't know how anymore... TL;DR: . Assistant:	Moving away in about 6 months, girlfriend seems to think it's hopeless and is backing away. I want to make it work.	Moving away in about 6 months, girlfriend seems to think it's hopeless and is backing away. I want to make it work.	6,204
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: I need some advice!! POST: I wanna start off with a back story. I've been overweight for as long as I can remember... I really first noticed it when I was about 9-10 years old at that point I tried to become more active but shortly lost it when my dad got a new job. Around that same time I had also expressed to my mom that I felt food was the only friend I had and was the only friend that could move with us. Fast forward to when I was a freshman in HS I became increasingly more active because I didn't have a bus to take me to school and back. At this point my mom decided to put the family on weight watchers and we got a gym membership. I went from being 230 lbs to being 175! I felt awesome but still had a bit more to go! I kept most of that weight off for a year until my mom stopped trying anymore and started making and buying crap foods. I'm now 22 years, 5'11", and a whopping 250 lbs. I'm done with it! I want to lose the weight! I envision myself about 100 lbs smaller! My biggest road blocks at this point, my husband doesn't need to lose weight, healthy food is expensive, and I have a slipped vertebra and bulging disc in my lower back.. exercising too much causes excruciating pain. Basically I need advice. What should I do, how should I do it, is there anything that's helped jumpstart your weight lose endeavours? I know I just need to do it, but how? How can I just do something when it feels like all odds are stacked against me...? TL;DR: . Assistant:	been overweight most my life, gained back all weight lost and then some, healthy food costs to much, have medical problems, need help!	been overweight most my life, gained back all weight lost and then some, healthy food costs to much, have medical problems, need help!	524
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How can I keep my parents' cigarette smoke off of me on my way to a college scholarship day, where I will be interviewed? POST: This Saturday (Feb. 8) my parents and I will be driving to the college that I will be attending this fall, which is about an hour and a half drive from home, give or take. My parents have been smokers for my whole life, so I am pretty desensitized to the smell, but many instructors and just random bystanders have commented about the scent on my person. This will not make a good impression on the committee (at least I think it is a committee. either way, it will be noticeable). I tried to ask very nicely if at least my mom would consider not smoking, but she kind of laughed at me and made a bunch of rude, sarcastic comments about how it's not really that noticeable, and my character should be enough to win over the interviewers. 1. My personality is not the best, and I'm not too great at interviews and 2. If the competition is tough, I am pretty sure that it WILL go down to the first impression that is given, and the smell of cigarettes is NOT going to give a good impression, even if I apologized and that my parents were smokers. Some suggestions that I have been given by instructors/counselors include: chewing cinnamon gum, packing my clothes and covering my hair until I get there (which I'm not too keen on, because I don't know where I would really change or anything like that), and putting cooking vanilla in the car? I'm not too sure about that one. Will any of these work? Other suggestions are very welcome. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My parents won't NOT smoke in the car on the way there, how can I keep the smell off of me so that I won't make a bad impression in my interviews?	My parents won't NOT smoke in the car on the way there, how can I keep the smell off of me so that I won't make a bad impression in my interviews?	705
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, my Dad has invested shit loads of time and money in Dubli and I think it is a crock of shit. Is it? POST: Reddit, I have had people proposition me with all sorts of crap in my life and it was dam easy to see right through it. I have had a small proportion of friends over the last couple of years wanting me to join in on these "massive business prospects" where I can make "huge amounts of money with hard work and a little bit of my own cash" For example, the most recent one was a friend who was on the cuff of getting involved in [ACN New Zealand] I humoured him, went to the presentation night at his house, sat down and was not blinded by the douche who tried to convince me I was not prepared to make big $$$$$$. So this guy pulls out a bit of paper that looks like a pyramid sturcture laying down on its side. I call bullshit, wait for them to leave, sit down with my friend and tell him I will support him whatever he wants to do in life but this is one of those things that I will not stand behind. Now, my Dad, who is cannot accept a word of constuctive feedback, has invested in [Dubli] (He is located in New Zealand - Dubli is relatively new) pouring thousands upon thousands into promoting a company that doesn't seem to give anything back. I called total bullshit after doing some research and getting past the forums littered with Dubli promoters (incluiding many threads on reddit) I have only got so far in my search and I need hard evidence that helps me conclude if this is bullshit or not. Excuse the formatting, punctuation and grammar. I am typing this out in a super small Google Chrome window while I sit at work. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My father has invested thousands of dollars in Dubli and I want him to stop. Is Dubli a crock of shit and if so how do I show him the light and get my father to stop?	My father has invested thousands of dollars in Dubli and I want him to stop. Is Dubli a crock of shit and if so how do I show him the light and get my father to stop?	510
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Update: 33m, am I in love or obsessed? POST: Here's my original post from a couple of weeks ago: So things haven't changed. I'm still in a relationship for now, but somethings have come up. We had a talk last week where I admitted to her that all I think about with her is sex. How whenever we get home all I want to do is have sex with her and then just do nothing else. She asked me if I could be there for her emotionally, and I froze up. I wanted to tell her no and tell her that I don't think we're going to work, but I didn't really plan on how I would say it, so I just said I would try to be there for her emotionally. Since I don't really have any other place to stay yet, I chickened out... Well, this past Saturday we ended up going to see 'Don Jon', and there were things in the movie that I realized I was doing (if you haven't seen it, I'll try not to spoil it for you). The main thing I brought from it was that I don't "lose" myself in sex with her, but all I want to do is have sex with her. This is selfishness on my part, but I know that with her all I want to do is the physical act. I also realized that I would only go out with her on dates because I could count on us having sex when we we got home. This isn't healthy, and I know it. So, now I'm at a point that I need to sit down with her and tell her my feelings, but in a way that is respectful. I know she's going to be upset, mainly since our last breakup was so messy (mainly my fault), but I know it has to be done. Guess I'm not too worried about her kicking me out other than fact that at the moment I would be homeless, but I can get past that issue somehow. Guess I'm just needing some tips and advice on how to do this as respectful as possible. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Realized I'm only back with my gf for sex and not out of true love, but want to end it in a dignified manner were we could at least still be friends.	Realized I'm only back with my gf for sex and not out of true love, but want to end it in a dignified manner were we could at least still be friends.	4,009
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, please help me help others. POST: Hey reddit, I'm having a bit of a quarter-life crisis, and I figure some people could probably give some advice that would be helpful. Here's the situation for me: I'm 22, living in WA, one quarter away from finishing my AA, and wanting to transfer to the local university here so I can be a teacher. Problem is, my grades are very terrible. I did poorly in high school and just barely graduated (by failing a class, no less), and while my grades at the community college have improved, they're by no means good (around ~2.6). I've been rejected from the university about three times now, and I've lost faith in myself to keep going. I've done my practicum at a high school and had my talent/eagerness complimented on, but I'm worried that I'll never get to be a teacher, and I honestly don't know what to do now. I want to work with high schoolers and I love doing it, but I'm not sure if that'll happen if I don't get my act together. That aside, I'm also a fucking mess myself. I'm not going to measure my amount of self-worth by whether or not I have a girlfriend, or if I've got a car, but I'm a person that lacks motivation in life (although my interests make me motivated). I'm not a total slob, but I could definitely improve myself by working out and other healthy things too. So reddit, what the fuck do I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	want to be teacher but shitty grades and low confidence stop me from trying to apply for the fourth time to local U. also a bit of a slob and mess in life.	want to be teacher but shitty grades and low confidence stop me from trying to apply for the fourth time to local U. also a bit of a slob and mess in life.	4,203
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with [25 M] 4-5 months, wasn't ready for a relationship...now he is? POST: We have been dating for 4/5 months (we are exclusive since 1 month) right off the bat said he was looking for a relationship etc. I was on the same page. Than he started a new job a month later to pay for school (he didn't want to be on a loan for school) I said I understood as I was in the same boat (working hard this summer to pay for school, we are mid twenties.) Anyways we've grown closer and Ive mad no mention of a relationship before. However I find myself really liking this guy and I am ready and open for a relationship. I told him this and He said he's priority was working lots and saving for school we should just take it slow/have fun. So I said (calmly) that if he didn't want the same thing I completely respect that but I hope he can respect my decision to move on so we can both find someone who wants the same things that we both want. I wished luck and left the apartment. His mouth was hanging open and I just left. He started blowing up my phone saying that he really liked me and didn't want to lose me, work was number one on his mind but he wanted to make it work with me and can't lose me and he just had a bad day at work and was stressed (I didn't know this) I haven't responded all this just happened last night. Im pissed off that he only wanted me when he thought he was going to lose me. How do I respond? I feel angry for some reason.. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Said I was ready for a relationship, he said he wasn't. I said good bye and he came running back....wtf	Said I was ready for a relationship, he said he wasn't. I said good bye and he came running back....wtf	1,053
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19 F] crush [19 M] of over a year often repeats the same stories/opinions/jokes to me - bad sign? POST: I've had a crush on this guy for a long time, but we're kind of in the same circle of friends and I've found it hard to push it beyond hanging out as just buddies. Whenever we're all out together we both end up gravitating towards each other and walking side by side or spending most of the evening just talking together. I've noticed others in the group have noticed this and given some 'looks' to each other. For whatever reason neither of us have made a move, and I'm beginning to doubt he's interested as much as I am based on one thing; he often repeats himself to me, as if he's forgotten the previous time(s) that he's said these things. It sounds stupid but I keep a diary and end up writing down of a lot of the things we talk about as I enjoy spending time with him and don't want to forget some of the cute little things we end up joking about, even if it turns into nothing. So I think I'd find it very hard to repeat stories or opinions about things to him without realising, as I have really vivid memories of what was said. An example of him doing this is when we walked past a movie poster and he told me about how a friend of his got confused about the plot as he'd mixed it up with another movie. It was a funny story and we talked about it for a while. The next week we were hanging out and same movie was mentioned again, and he starts telling me this story again like I've never heard it. This kind of thing has happened even up to four times! He doesn't smoke pot (I don't think). Is this a sign of him not being as into me as I am him? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Crush forgets that he's told me things and repeats himself a lot, leading me to think he's not as invested in me as I am him.	Crush forgets that he's told me things and repeats himself a lot, leading me to think he's not as invested in me as I am him.	5,255
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (21F) don't want my insecurities and anxieties to come between my boyfriend (20M) of 4 months and I. POST: Different account from my main because my boyfriend is a reddit lurker. I have many insecurities about myself, and I'm afraid that this may come between my boyfriend and I. Being overly self-conscious is something that I have struggled with for years. He knows about this, and tries to reassure me, but at times I let my insecurities get the better of me and I lash out. He tells me that he likes me the way that I am, but I'm very self conscious about my appearance. He's naturally very thin, and I weigh about 35 more pounds than he does, so this makes me feel pretty self-conscious around him. I have talked to him about my insecurities before, and he said that if he has seen any downsides, or anything that I should feel insecure about, that he has decided that these things don't matter. So is this a good thing, or might this mean that he is trying to look past a "downside" to dating me that may become a breaking point for him later on? I have a habit of worrying about little things, so I can have a difficult time differentiating between something that may actually be worrisome, or just me worrying too much. How can I come to terms with my insecurities and be more accepting of myself so that I may keep it from becoming a problem? I don't want my self-consciousness to come between us. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I get anxious and insecure about myself, and I don't want it to become a big issue between my boyfriend and I.	I get anxious and insecure about myself, and I don't want it to become a big issue between my boyfriend and I.	4,313
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21M] need some help meeting some new people after my breakup from [22M]. POST: I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out. I've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever. Now that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	been single for 4 months in junior year of college. Need help finding new friends and maybe a new boyfriend down the road.	been single for 4 months in junior year of college. Need help finding new friends and maybe a new boyfriend down the road.	4,253
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I think I payed my credit card with someone else's bank account help! POST: So earlier this month I opened a CFNA credit card with STS to pay for a repair I had done on my car. I went ahead to pay off the debt once I got the money. Online payment for CFNA requires the bank account and routing numbers. For days after I submitted the payment I was wondering why my account balance wasn't changing. When I went to check my CFNA account I found that the payment did go through but it was not from my account. I had messed up the account number and it appears I may have taken money from someone else. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I went to pay my credit card with my money. I mistyped the last 4 digits of the number and apparently the number I put in was a valid account that isn't mine.	I went to pay my credit card with my money. I mistyped the last 4 digits of the number and apparently the number I put in was a valid account that isn't mine.	2,210
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (26f) and my bf (29m) have been in a rocky relationship for quite some time. Having a hard time loving him POST: I apologize for any bad grammar, I am at work and doing this my phone. Here I go, We have been in a relationship for 5 years, we've had our ups and downs. For the past year, we have pretty much fight almost daily. It's about the same shit, and he always starts it. I just want peace. It's really hard to deal with it considering we live together. We have no kids, and we're not engaged. I couldn't no longer stand his constant drama, so I shut myself off emotionally. Recently, he's realised what he's been doing for awhile. We go to couples therapy and trying to work things out. I am afraid that this isn't salvageable. But I gave him an x amount of months to fix it, with me trying to make it work. I Judy don't want to be hurt again. It it's worth it? I need to know what you think reddit. Thank you TL;DR: . Assistant:	I don't know if I can save my 5 year relationship. I still love him but I've been hurt for a long time	I don't know if I can save my 5 year relationship. I still love him but I've been hurt for a long time	1,746
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: It's time to move out. How to confront my parents? POST: Dear reddit, let me explain the situation. I'm living together with my parents & my brother. We're living in a relativly tiny village. Since almost 2-3 years we all can feel that the communal life lost it's sparkle. Our interests spread apart (which is ok & somehow inevitable), the motivation to take an interest in another is low too. Last year I finished my school education. After that I started a voluntary service for 1 year, which will end in a few months. Therefore I need to start (actually already started) to look out for an apprenticeship/study. My parents are making suggestions where I could start and it's always something where I could keep living at home cause it's not far away. But that's not something I want... I want to live alone. I want to move out and start my own life. I just don't feel comfortable anymore at home. My parents know I would like to go somewhere else, they know it's my dream to finally start my own life, they know it but I'm sure they refuse to believe it cause they always come with silly excuses when I'm starting to talk about that topic. My mom always ignores all my intentions to make things clear. She doesn't take it really seriously. My dad once told me that's because she doesn't want to let me go, but hey I can't be her little boy forever. How can I explain them that I'm serious and not just dreaming? Does someone of you had a similiar situation? Of course I love my parents and I know they love me but it's time to move out, it would be the best for me and they would benefit as well. Sorry for some inaccuracies, feel free to ask anything. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Unhealthy familiy atmosphere -> I want to move out for a job/ start own life. -> Parents not amused. -> What to do?	Unhealthy familiy atmosphere -> I want to move out for a job/ start own life. -> Parents not amused. -> What to do?	2,935
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] planing on comming clean with girl [21F] POST: Hi Reddit, Before we start I would like to say that please don't judge my actions seeing how I know I am the world`s biggest douche and should probably be shot for just doing something like this. It all started last week when partying with my mates, as the night got older my head got more out of bounds, and I managed to hook up with another girl. The problem is now, that I have no intention of hiding this as she deserves to know the full truth and I am aware of that I need to take the consequences of being an a**hole. I need to find a way of letting her know in the best way possible for her, as she moved to the city I live in and has no one except me to talk to except her family over the phone and suffers from major depression. I am basically all she has and I have major concerns for her own health after telling her. I want to call her parents and warn them whats about to go down and maybe have them travel down here so she can have someone to lean on when its going down, but don't know if its as good of an idea as it is in my head. Anyone got any advice on how to proceed the best way? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Major asshole fucks up on a night of drinking, cheats on girlfriend, afraid of telling her cause of her major depression and not having anyone around, please help me brainstorm this.	Major asshole fucks up on a night of drinking, cheats on girlfriend, afraid of telling her cause of her major depression and not having anyone around, please help me brainstorm this.	5,370
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [29m] give my gf [26f] mixed signals POST: It seems I've gotten myself in a pickle somehow and I'm not sure how to proceed. I've dating my gf for a couple months now. We developed a fantastic connection unlike anything I've ever experienced before. Everything seemed to fit together so nicely. There have been a few bumps but we've survived. Last night something strange happened (from my perspective). We and one of her friends were in an apartment. I went to the fridge to get some beer. This fridge is really dirty. The power often goes out in India so there is some fungus in fridge. I make a joking comment and say: > As a single man, I have seen my fair share of disgusting fridges, but this one takes the cake. This deeply upset her because she heard it as "I am currently single" where I was using an infinitive to refer to my past experiences. Now she is extremely uncertain about me and my feeling towards her. She said she thinks I think subconciously I'm still single. Which is all extremely curious to me. Naturally I'm quite confused by the situation. I understand why she interpreted the sentence in that way, the temporality is implicit, not explicit. I don't fault her for that, not is it important. The communication failed and so be it. She explained some other things to me (which I can't understand either). I'm doing my best to be patient, kind, and understanding. At the end of the day she feels this way because of my actions (regardless if I had that intention). Right now I feel like she does not trust me at all. If I had heard those same words I wouldn't have given it a second thought. She had the opposite reaction which to me tells the only difference is the frame of mind. Like if this is enough to push her over the edge then she's probably very close to the edge. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I gain insight into her perspective? I'm not really sure what to do differently. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF & I have communication problems which is making the relationship unstable and preventing her from trusting me. Not sure what do to differently or how to proceed.	GF & I have communication problems which is making the relationship unstable and preventing her from trusting me. Not sure what do to differently or how to proceed.	6,034
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Am I [17] wrong to be upset with my girlfriend's [17] lack of a drive to communicate with me? POST: Let me lay down the details here: we've been dating for three months. Nothing big, I know, but there's been some kinks thus far, and as the title suggests, the big one is the fact she has no drive to text or call first. I've always got to be the one who talks first, or ropes her into a conversation. Usually not an issue, because I'm a relatively charismatic kind of guy, and we typically have an hour or so of conversation daily. For me, the kicker is that she just got back from a two week cruise without net or phone service, and has been in Texas for two days, completely able to say hello or tell me how it went. She hasn't. She's not said anything to me, and I've only found out that she was able to by her circle of friends texting her when I went to the theater with them. A'ight, I get it, I look a bit clingy, but I'm upset that she didn't even talk to me. We've gone half a month without saying anything to each other, and it sucks that she's zipped her mouth shut when she's got the chance to talk. So that's my case. Am I in the right to feel a bit hurt? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend got back from a 2 week cruise. Has chose not to say anything to me for 2 days. I'm a whiny bitch.	Girlfriend got back from a 2 week cruise. Has chose not to say anything to me for 2 days. I'm a whiny bitch.	2,481
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [17 M] love her [16 F], but I'm not happy anymore. POST: Hello everyone. Please don't make our young age change how you view this post. Me and my girlfriend are together for 9 months now, I love her, I truly do, and I know for sure she loves me as well. This relationship started really well, had its ups and downs, but everything was going nicely, we even traveled together for three weeks. But when we got back from our trip, I found myself feeling very stressed out, and just not happy with this relationship like I used to be. She is very needy, and I end up never texting her as much as she expects, even though I try my best (I'm not very talkative). I feel like if I'm by myself at my room doing anything other than talking to her, she will feel bad and insecure. She already told me she needs my constant attention, and it seems like an attention I will never be able to give her. We pretty much only see each other on weekends, and we don't see each other as frequently as we used to. It is very stressing and difficult to try to balance my girlfriend and my friends, I feel like I will have to end up disappointing someone. We have been discussing/fighting a lot recently, this has been the case for the past three days. On Tuesday we were talking and she suddenly complained about how I haven't asked about her day recently, which makes her feel like I'm not interested in her. Yesterday she was very stressed out about tests and such, and she ended up getting mad at me for that I guess. Today was the worst. Last week she said that "next weekend (this weekend) I'm all hers". With this, she meant that we were going be together for the whole weekend, I didn't understand it like that. I made plans with my friends for Friday, and today, one day before the weekend, she asks me why I didn't plan anything for tomorrow. She is now REALLY mad at me for not going out with her tomorrow. Am I that wrong for making plans with my friends for tomorrow? I love her so much, I am very afraid of losing her, but this relationship doesn't make me happy anymore, I am very stressed out. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend is very needy, I feel like I can't give her the attention she needs, relationship is not making me happy anymore, everything stresses me out so much... I love her and don't want to lose her, though.	Girlfriend is very needy, I feel like I can't give her the attention she needs, relationship is not making me happy anymore, everything stresses me out so much... I love her and don't want to lose her, though.	3,811
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I know AT&T is the devil, but can they legally do this to me? POST: I've had a plan with At&t for over 6 years now with a standard sony w580i. Being in college, theres a lot of times where I need to jot down a not on the go and having a device with a calendar and that ability is ideal for me. Now just 2 months ago I had the opportunity to upgrade to an Iphone 3GS from a friend for a pretty good price. I've been using all of the features on it and am pretty stoked with its usefullness, but today I got a text saying AT&T has signed me up for a data plan without my consent or any contract. I called them irate and have since been told I will be getting a call back from a manager with the details. I feel this is literally stealing from me. They went into my bank account and took the money without me even knowing. The supervisor I spoke with on the phones reasoning was, "well if you have a smartphone you need to pay for a data plan." But I NEVER use it for anything other than music, a calendar, calls, and note taker. That's like me buying a lawnmower and them saying if I replace the engine, I have to come to them and pay for doing it. What should I do? I have the name of the supervisor I spoke to and his manager, as well as a summary of our whole conversation. TL;DR: . Assistant:	AT&T stole money from me for a data plan without my consent or a written contract. They are also satan.	AT&T stole money from me for a data plan without my consent or a written contract. They are also satan.	3,529
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU By being a good host POST: So earlier this weekend i reunited with my best friend who I hadn't seen for three years. He is staying over at my place and we decide to go out to the bars and in the process I invite a bunch of people including the girl I am interested in. At the first two bars my friends keep telling me about how they were going to wing man for me and it all worked out great up until the third bar. We are touching and dancing and things are going great till I feel the need to step outside for some air. By the time I come back the two friends who were wing manning for me, were wing manning each other. A few friends and the girl i like decide to come back home to my place and have some drinks and chill. As a gesture I lay out a bed roll for my friends to lean on and this is where it all goes down hill. Keep in mind that i sleep on a Japanese style floor mattress. A mix of tired and drunk kicks in to where I am just drained from the amount of social interaction to the point where I'm barely in the conversations at all. I can't say anything without being completely shut down by everyone in the room. Including jokes about my virginity and about any rebuttal I make to dispute the fact. I remain quiet for the rest of the night leading to right now. The girl I like and my friend are spooning on the bedroll I laid out for them while I am stuck in a 50 degree room with no pillow, mattress, or blanket. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Tried to be a nice guy and get with a girl I'm interested in. Instead ended up bedless with my friend spooning with said girl on what I sleep on every night.	Tried to be a nice guy and get with a girl I'm interested in. Instead ended up bedless with my friend spooning with said girl on what I sleep on every night.	4,196
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Friend put me down as a personal reference for a car loan. What should I do? POST: Someone I hang out with but that I don't know very well put me down as a personal reference for a car loan, and the dealership (a national chain known for financing people with bad credit) called and left me a voicemail to call them back. I have never had to put down a personal reference for a car loan, and I don't know why they are calling me. What type of information are they looking for? (I am definitely NOT cosigning or anything like that; this was out of the blue.) For the record, I don't know this friend very well. He tells a lot of tall tales about his family and claims to own a luxury car and a house "back home" in another city but seems to be just barely scraping by here. He also recently started his own business, but I have no idea how well it may or may not be doing financially. So I guess if I called the car dealership back, I wouldn't have anything good to say about his financial situation. To me, it seems like he has no money, but I don't want to tank his chance at getting a car. Should I call back and lie, call back and tell the truth, or just not call back at all? TL;DR: . Assistant:	What info is involved in personal references for car loans? Should I give a reference for someone I don't know very well?	What info is involved in personal references for car loans? Should I give a reference for someone I don't know very well?	995
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Boyfriend is clingy. However, he has said twice he doesn't want a "relationship" anymore. I'm so confused. POST: Me, 18F. Him, 18M. Dating for 18 months, on and off. This is my first relationship, it's not his first but by far his longest. "I want to be with you, but I don't want a relationship." My boyfriend has said this to me twice. It's heartbreaking. He loves me and doesn't want to lose me, but can't "handle the stress of relationship." We broke up for three months last year because he wanted a stress-free summer. He insists he was miserable, however, and we got back together in September. Now we're getting ready for college and he's started saying this. And I'm not sure how to interpret it, because when I asked what he meant, he clammed up. Reddit, I need your help. I leave for college this week, he comes up the next. (Same college.) I half wonder if we'd be happier single, but when I mentioned this he begged me not to break up with him and began crying. I already know he won't let me end it without more crying, begging, and drama. Part of the reason he doesn't want to break up is he doesn't want to see me happy with another guy. He already said he wouldn't dump me, even if he wanted to, unless it was mutual because he doesn't want to be remembered as "that guy." TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend doesn't want a relationship, but doesn't want to lose me either. But he will not dump me because he doesn't want to be "that guy." I'm not sure where to turn.	My boyfriend doesn't want a relationship, but doesn't want to lose me either. But he will not dump me because he doesn't want to be "that guy." I'm not sure where to turn.	2,542
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: More of a favor than a question... POST: My house was broken into a couple months ago (check my previous posts for proof) and one of the items that was stolen was the portal of power for my sons Skylanders game. We have the game still along with all of the action figures....just no portal. Apparently you cannot purchase the portal by itself anywhere. I have checked at Best Buy, Gamestop, internet, etc. and nobody has one. We don't want to purchase the full set again for stuff that we already have. You can't resell it because then you still have the issue of whoever buys it doesnt have the portal. Everyone keeps saying go to Ebay. Ebay has some but nobody can confirm that they are in working order or want to charge an arm and a leg for one. I don't mind paying for one, but I would like a fair price. I'm just curious if any of you guys might have one laying around that you don't use any more and would sell for a reasonable price? Any takers? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Sons portal of power for Skylanders was stolen and I'm trying to see if anyone has one they would like to sell.	Sons portal of power for Skylanders was stolen and I'm trying to see if anyone has one they would like to sell.	2,071
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by underestimating the power of the jalapeno POST: Being a broke ass high school graduate waiting tables, I'm always down for some extra cash. My friends bet me $20 that I wouldn't eat a jalapeno, which I'd never done. I'd only had the weak-ass canned ones that didn't do shit. Anyway, I went for it. I learned two horrible, horrible lessons. 1) I am allergic to fresh jalapenos. 2) Sneezing a whole sneeze-ful of jalapeno-infused fluid sucks. Especially when you have a brand new, still healing septum piercing and a recently fucked up nostril [for those who haven't seen my first post, i tried to pierce my own nose and tore my nose open] Anyway, my entire nose is on fire and I'm itchy all over. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Jalapenos are a force not to be fucked with. And sneezing + nose piercings are not my thing.	Jalapenos are a force not to be fucked with. And sneezing + nose piercings are not my thing.	4,851
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: My girlfriend [20/f] found my journal (which I didn't keep password protected) and found a list I [19/m] was keeping of the times when she got angry or upset at me. Now she's really upset. POST: Title says it all. I had a note on evernote and if she would get upset at me, I would make a brief note of it. I didn't do it every time, and hadn't added anything to it very recently. She knew I had stuff about her on evernote, because she has tried to open the app before and I told her it's my journal. But I was getting ready to go out with her for the night and she opened it up and read the entry about her getting upset. Now, she is super pissed at me. Some background, I am leaving the country for univeristy in a few days, and she is going to study abroad. We are breaking up once I leave. She was open to a LDR, but given some of the kinks in our relationship (the #1 of them her getting super upset at me over everything) I decided to move on. Now, I feel like what I did was probably pretty wrong, but I also feel like she invaded my privacy. I need help. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF saw a journal entry I was keeping about her, relating to whenever she got upset at me. Now she's pissed.	GF saw a journal entry I was keeping about her, relating to whenever she got upset at me. Now she's pissed.	4,703
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (19M) drunkenly messed around with my friend (19M) and regret it. Should I tell my girlfriend (19F) POST: Last night I went over to my best friend's place and we were drinking and I eventually got fairly drunk and my gay friend was being a bit suggestive. In my less than ideal state of mind decided well here's my chance to try doing stuff with a guy. There was nothing intimate about it at all and he just did oral on me for a few minutes before I tried doing it on him. I stopped after 2 minutes because I kinda realized what I had done. Immediately I recognized it had been a terrible idea because I have a girlfriend. All I saw it as, was a chance to experiment with a guy in case I don't get the chance in the future if my girlfriend and I who have been together for nearly 3 years now was to be a forever kind of thing. Though now I am seriously regretting it and he has said that he wouldn't ever tell anyone about it. I don't know if I should tell my girlfriend or not because it was just a one off thing that I don't have any interest in doing again. I don't think she would take it well at all even though it meant absolutely nothing to me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks TL;DR: . Assistant:	got drunk with gay friend and 5 minutes of oral happened, I regret it and don't know what to do about my girlfriend.	got drunk with gay friend and 5 minutes of oral happened, I regret it and don't know what to do about my girlfriend.	3,877
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I am (19) female who is worried about her (M19) boyfriend moving away to university POST: We have known each other for the past 8 years and he has wanted us to be together for that period of time and now together mentions how I'm the only girl he wants- We have only now been going out for 2 months and I will be attending second year at university in September and he will be attending first year however his university is 4 hours away I am now starting to worry about long distance, we are starting to get closer and I can have the opportunity to transfer to his university but I don't know what to do TL;DR: . Assistant:	should I transfer to his university? I still have not spoken to him about how I feel with us going to be apart	should I transfer to his university? I still have not spoken to him about how I feel with us going to be apart	6,111
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: (south carolina) multiple garnishments, can't afford to keep going like this POST: About six months ago I received a writ of garnishment for student loan debt (~$7000) for 15% of my disposable income. Not too bad on its own, but soon after the first writ, I received a second one from a hospital bill I was never served papers for, the garnishment being for a whopping 35% of my disposable income. The student loans are in the process of being rehabilitated and i know there's no way to get around it other than repaying. The medical bills are only for about $3000, but I cannot live on $250 every two weeks. It's definitely worth noting that I didn't contest either writ, because I didn't know how to go about doing so. What are my options here? I cannot afford to hire a lawyer and I wouldn't know how to present this to be honest. TL;DR: . Assistant:	is there any way to reduce garnishment from medical bills or stop garnishment with agreement to repay? Do I just need to call around or is there a website that I can look for someone to contact directly?	is there any way to reduce garnishment from medical bills or stop garnishment with agreement to repay? Do I just need to call around or is there a website that I can look for someone to contact directly?	5,536
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Need help with my kitten! POST: back story: We found him outside in december with none of his litter mates or his mother around. He was about one month old so we took him in(or so my fiance says; I didn't meet him right away so not sure.) The issue: I am 27 weeks pregnant and am not sure if we will be able to keep him due to his biting. We love him and he's very attached to us(greets us when we come home, sleeps next to us, cries for us when we leave.) I know he is just trying to play but he gets very rough and has made us both bleed numerous times. How do I break him of this habit?? We really don't want to get rid of him but I can't have him getting that rough with our infant when it comes in october. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Kitten gets very rough while playing and we are about to have a baby. How do we break him of his roughness??	Kitten gets very rough while playing and we are about to have a baby. How do we break him of his roughness??	5,036
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18 F] can't understand my [19M] boyfriend's sociableness ,what should i do ? POST: First of all,i'm sorry if i misspell words or something as English is not my language but i really hope you will understand what i'm trying to say So,i'm with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he is a very friendly and sociable kind and i'm very unsociable,i have no friends and i don't want,anything more than 2 people around me feels overwhelming as hell:/ And he is the total opposite.He can't live without friends,he likes people around him etc Anyway the problem is now he wants some time only with his friends (he usually takes me with him..) and i know it's allright to let him go out with them sometimes ,but i just't can't understand this.I'm not jelous , it just makes me sad to know that he does things without me,it makes me nervous and unimportant.And i know this is not normal but i just can't cope with this feelings:/ I didn't say anything to him about this as i know it's not his fault and he has nothing to do What should i do to get over this?I don't want to ruin this realtionship becuase of this thing,but also i hate feeling this way...please i need some help TL;DR: . Assistant:	I'm anti-social ,my boyfriend is very sociable and i can't keep up with him,this makes me nervous and sad,i need advices pelase	I'm anti-social ,my boyfriend is very sociable and i can't keep up with him,this makes me nervous and sad,i need advices pelase	4,031
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend[19F] Won't have sex with me[18M] POST: Hey /r/relationships, I think I'm gonna lose my mind. It's been around two years with my girlfriend whom I met in highschool and she refuses to have sex with me. I mean oral sex, feeling up, anything. She does a moderate sex drive and I can turn her on, but she refuses to do anything other than make out. I honestly love her, but it's making me lose my mind and made me do things I regret(Exchanging pictures). I just don't know what to do, her position seems to be final and I just can't see myself without her. I tried to think about the thought without her and I just couldn't see it; I'm worried that she would find someone else and then end up having sex with them(I know im pathetic). Her reasoning for not having sex is due to her religion; she comes from very religious parents, but her siblings are the exact opposite of her. The furthest we've ever gone is me rubbing the outside of her underwear and her giving me a hand job for a minute, then later crying about it to me because she felt "guilty". Reddit I dont know what to do. I really dont. I can't see myself without this girl, but she's so prude and it's stressing me out and making me insane. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Christian girlfriend of two years refuses to have sex, love her and can't see myself without her, but can't stand not having sex.	Christian girlfriend of two years refuses to have sex, love her and can't see myself without her, but can't stand not having sex.	3,043
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: 20 Y.O. College student who will be making a decent amount of money this summer. Can you give me some advice to invest it well? POST: Hi /r/personalfinance. Sorry for the wall of text but I think it is important you know the situation. Money Coming In Over the summer I will be working as an aerospace engineer intern for an amazing company. I'll be making $18/hr at 40 hrs a week, plus overtime at $27/hr. At the beginning of the summer I will also get a $2,000 moving bonus. Expenses Over the summer the only expenses I will have will be gas, insurance, and money to spend on myself (. My mom happens to live in the town were I will work, so rent and all bills will be free (including groceries). I will probably spend around $35 on gas per week (for 11 weeks) and insurance will be a one time payment of $400. My goal is to put money in some account, fund or what ever it will be to use when I graduate in (2017) as a down payment for a new car. By my calculations (45 hrs/week + bonus) I'll make around $11,000 this summer. I think I want to put $5K to $7k towards this fund. What's the best way to invest to have the highest return? TL;DR: . Assistant:	wanting to invest $5K to $7K for 2-3 years and have highest return. Whats the best way to invest it?	wanting to invest $5K to $7K for 2-3 years and have highest return. Whats the best way to invest it?	5,514
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 F] with [20s? M] won't leave me alone when I eat lunch. POST: So I'm a bit of an introvert, my classes really tire me out so lunch time is sacred to me for just eating alone and reading in the library cafe. It really is the highlight of my day between school and my night shift at work. This guy, who I'll name after the hat he wears "Fedora" will not take the hint to leave me the fuck alone. He has approached me multiple times to talk about himself and basically try and ask me to hang out later. I've tried to be nice to him and tell him that I have a busy schedule so I don't have time for friends. He insists that I'm just being mean to him, I'm just rejecting him because I have a boyfriend, I must need to company because I'm eating alone.. etc etc. He usually diverts the conversation back to talking about himself again. I'm not trying to be mean but I think he might be different in some way because he cannot grasp the clear signs that I am uncomfortable talking to him and all my hints that I am busy and need this conversation to end. I don't know what else to do. He keeps alluding to me being mean by me wanting to eat my lunch in peace. TL;DR: . Assistant:	This guy won't stop talking to me on my lunch break and I need advice of how to tell him to beat it, kick rocks etc in a nice way if possible.	This guy won't stop talking to me on my lunch break and I need advice of how to tell him to beat it, kick rocks etc in a nice way if possible.	2,800