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Overly sensitive down there?
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Er...there aren't any magic shortcuts really. It's excessively sensitive like that in your teens.You just have to gradually get it used to being directly touched. Are you able to pull it open all the way yet? Leaving the skin open and giving it some air exposure, like after a shower before you get dressed, helps also.
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As you get older and expose your head more it will reduce the sensitivity. Every boy goes through that.
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Same :/
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Ive never had a wet dream but i dont dream normally, is it still possible to have wet dreams?
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Not everyone gets a wet dreams! Some people never have one. Especially when you masturbate frequently there is a good chance you'll never be able to get a wet dream.
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You don't need to dream. It's your bodies way of meeting a need. You could simply be highly physically aroused.
If you have a wet dream, lucky you, if you don't, then your body may not need it.
If you regularly masturbate before you fall asleep, you may not get one.
Are you wanting a wet dream?
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Some guys have wet dreams and some guys don't. Yes it is still possible for you to have one.
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If your body feels like it needs to get rid of some semen, it will try to find a way to do so, which is why most people will usually get a wet dream if they haven’t masturbated in a while
So in theory, yeah it can be possible, but its important to understand not everyone has experience it
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Is it normal to masturbate to same gender as a teen?
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Sexuality is fluid my guy... Liking what was basically a male body doesn't mean you're gay anymore than a lesbian using a dildo to get off makes her "straight".
You liked what you saw, I wouldn't read into it too much.
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Perfectly normal. If it turns you on don't be ashamed. Just embrace it, and enjoy.
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That's totally normal. Just that won't make you gay or straight either. You identify with whatever you feel comfortable right now. It's your lable you choose it.
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I think it's usual for anyone to be turned on to sexual themes. Especially during puberty, hormones make you trigger easily
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Signs gone?
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Sexual desire isn’t the only sign of puberty. Do you have any noticeable physical changes? Hair? Penis growth?
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Is it normal to gets lots of erections?
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Erections are very normal during puberty, and so is having them frequently.
You can't stop them from happening, because they'll still come and go without even thinking or seeing anything that's arousing.
Some guys have success in making them go away faster by thinking about something else, doing something that redirects the bloodflow (flexing different muscles, for example), urinating (if possible), or flexing-holding-relaxing the muscles that make the erection harder so as to "tire out" the erection.
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of course it is just look at every over post or have some common sense🤦♂️. google helps aswell
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It's normal. You just gotta get used to them for the next few years.
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Yeh it’s normal, I manage to hide mine by zipping up my coat and putting my hands in the pockets
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M15 problem with wet dreams?
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You can't really stop either process, nor can you have active control.
Masturbating & ejaculating before sleeping can sometimes help you to not have wet dreams, but that isn't guaranteed to work.
Your dreams, erections, and leaking semen isn't voluntary, so you should never feel guilty, even though it may feel awkward or embarrassing. This is very normal for a lot of boys during puberty, and even some young men going into their early 20s.
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Every night?
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When I was around your age, I had one or two wet dreams just about every night. Rare occasions three a night.
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Should what you dream about in a wet dream be of any concern or is yit just the brain being the brain?
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Nothing to be concerned about! In a wet dream you usually just think of something or someone you find very attractive. Its totally normal and no reason for concerns.
If you don't like wet dreams and want to avoid them, its a good idea to masturbate regularly. That way you probably won't have many wet dreams anymore
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Just dreams, your mind is unwinding. Alot of times it can be influenced by what you've seen, done, or thought about. Nothing to worry about
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Dreams can unlock many subconscious thoughts or feeling you experienced during the day. Sometimes it is your brain trying to decipher something, or trying to come to terms with a situation. In most cases its nothing to be concerned with and perfectly normal.
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It's just a dream, I barely remember the dreams when I wake up
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How to shave body hair?
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razor, trimmer, electric shaver. cheapest ones are like one dollar
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In the shower lather up with soap and use a razor. Easy peasy!
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Is this puberty?
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This does seem like just puberty to me
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Sounds like it definitely might be.
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Yah it must be puberty
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(13) i had a sexual dream but i didn’t have a wet dream, is this fine?
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Yep, that’s fine
Being turned on in a dream doesn’t mean you HAVE to be aroused irl nor ejaculate as a result
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It is perfectly normal to have sexual dreams.
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it's normal for that to happen
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Generally sexual dreams and wet dreams arent really connected.
Wet dreams mostly occur outside of sexual dreams and as in your case sexual dreams can also occur without a wet dream.
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(13F) Why does it hurt to masturbate?
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I'm assuming your talking about penetration. At your age, it's too early to try it yet. Your vagina is still growing, give it time.
As for pleasure, the source of it is not vagina but clitoris. Stimulation of clitoris head is how you get orgasm.
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try to focus much more on everything outside. It's fine if you want to explore more, and because i assume you're not very experienced not everything will feel good, or just unfomfortable. That part is ok, but it shouldn't hurt. But for now, you can just skip that. Try what feels good, even when it's just slightly touching, until you got a feel for it.
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It can, but it shouldn’t if you’re being gentle enough. Most women masturbate through clitoral stimulation. Few get the same amount of pleasure from penetration. You’re really young, so I wouldn’t try anything like that anyway until you are grown and have gotten used to things like tampons.
It’s normal to feel grossed out by your body sometimes. It’s part of experimenting and learning your boundaries. It seems like your problem is more with fingering yourself than it is with masturbation as a whole. I hope this helps because I felt super awkward writing it lol.
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Low testosterone?
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No they don't and I think there are many other options that are more likely. Hormones out of balance are uncommon.
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Obesity does cause hormone issues as well as heart, lung, joints. Little by little and stay focused. It is much harder as an adult. There is plenty of time to correct it.
I would also check your hormones medically and thyroid. Young people have a fast metabolism and you want to make sure yours is working right.
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I doubt u got low testosterone
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should i be concerned
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I think it's better to see a doctor.. this 2 balls ar the only you will have for your entire life..take care of them
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It's possible that it can go away, because some do correct themselves, but you'd need a urologist's opinion on how severe it is, after being examined.
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Cant stop masturbating
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Yes , don't masturbate or start doing things to distract yourself like reading or exercising
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whenever you think of masturbating, try distracting yourself by doing other things you like. drawing, listening to music, reading a book... anything
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It looks like you posted about the same thing before, and it was deleted. Do you think this one won't be too?
https://www.reddit.com/r/Puberty/comments/105s8h4/masturbating_constantly/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
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Check your stress levels. Orgasm is a built in stress relief. So your brain can tell your body to get aroused to elevate stress
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Are you supposed to take a shower everyday? Isnt it bad for the skin and your hair?
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i shower every 2-3 days
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I shower everyday, given I live in a tropical country where it’s humid as hell. During winter or cold months I can go about every other day. But if I have to go out I definitely would shower, even if I don’t smell.
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U shud shower everyday I think but u don’t have to wash ur hair everyday
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Yeah you should shower every day or else you’ll smell. It doesn’t have to be long, but you should At least wash your pits and your junk
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Safe way to shave certain spot?
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Beard trimmer with a short guard. Just don't go too fast.
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Essentially yeah. The taint is a tricky area to get to
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You might consider chemical hair removers like "Nair"...there are others. These dissolve the hair, leaving the hair shaft blunt, rather than sharp, like the razors or trimmers. There's less irritation than from a sharp hair shaft. Just be sure to follow the directions since the chemicals can cause skin irritation. Once you develop your own technique, the hair will be gone like it was never there and won't need a touch-up for days. Good luck:-)
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The perineum (aka The Taint) can be very tricky.
Best to use clippers with a guard. Hair trimmers can work, but an actual body groomer will work better.
You want to first stand with your feet far apart, and go into a partial sitting position, while pulling the scrotum out & up against your body, so you can get behind it. Run the clippers down the middle, from front to back. Your but cheeks & crack should stop it from going to far to the anus (butthole).
Then, you'll want to put your leg up on something, and run the clippers from the thigh to the taint on the leg you have up. Then repeat the same with the other leg up.
That's all you should need to do.
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Im circumcised, so what am I missing by not having an uncircumcised one?
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It is sort of like a cover that is a skin sleeve. So thrusting or with a hand it moves back so there is more give. There are some nerves in it and it keeps the head protected so nerves don't dry or wear out rubbing against clothes. If you are fine with what you have, that is okay.
The tons of questions on here about smell and tightness are the 1 in 4 guys on average that didn't retract it when they were kids. Most are fine by 18 and cleaning is just a retract and rinse. Reddit makes it seem more of a common problem than it actually is. Most boys never have an issue with it to the point of seeing a doctor.
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I am uncircumcised and the head is really sensitive almost so much it hurts but in a good way, if your uncut you probably couldn't rub the head without pain instead we move the skin up and down over it. Also you never need to worry about how to clean under the skin, I guess
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half of the nerves (the physical ones)
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The best part honestly!!
The male equivalent of the clitoris, gliding action, natural lube, the ridged band (naturally evolved for her pleasure) look up the functions of the foreskin.
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Is masturbation addicting?
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It can be addicting, but so can a lot of stuff.
Many teens worry about being addicted to masturbation because they feel the urge to do it so often.
Masturbating is not a problem as long as you don't skip school or stop seeing friends (or things like that) just so you can stay home and masturbate. Also make sure you stop if masturbating hurts.
That's all. It's rare to get addicted to it.
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I finger myself twice a day and I'm 13 so idk if I am sddicted
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It depends. Is everything good addicting? If you can stop eating cookies and go do something "important" you'll be fine. 😀
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It can be, but it's like everything really. Just don't go overboard. It's like eating a nice cake, you shouldn't eat 6 of them in one go because then cake won't be as fun! I (16f) masturbate once a day in average, but sometimes I'll spend a weekend doing it a bunch of times and I think of that as like having a day where I gorge on snacks 😂
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how to keep my stuff clean
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You have to retract it and use your fingers. I can see within arms reach without contacts or glasses. Maybe not as bad but you should be able to feel the folds. It's okay if you miss stuff. With a finger, get the water in the skin folds and under the ridge. You can also retract and cup some water and swish it around. I remember it hurting but the sensitivity gets easier but you have to use you hand.
If you get out of the shower and there is still stuff, take a wet finger and with the sink bowl, clean it out.
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Pull your foreskin back as far as you can while showering. You might consider using a washcloth at the end of your penis to more completely remove smegma.
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Just pull the skin back and wash it with water , it might be sensitive but you got to clean your junk and over time it will get less sensitive
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Why is circumcision so common?
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Uncut is de way
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You are the lucky one for your parents leaving you intact because, you can have this conversation.
Should you get circumcized? Only you can answer that. It's an adult decision which means In order to make the decision for yourself you need informed consent.
Assuming there are no medical issues, first you should research the anatomy of the foreskin and how they impact sex and your senses.
Research what glide is. Frenulum, rigged band.
Then research common foreskin problems. Phimosis, frenulum berve.
Research where most of the nerve endings are on your penis.
Research the difference between inner and outer foreskin and what they do for your penis.
Research the claims of STDs and other health benefits of circumcisions.
Research and watch the procedure so you know what is being done.
Research the recovery time, the potential complications.
Research the difference of high/low and loose/tight circumcision.
This is a life altering irreversible change to your sex organ and such a decision should me er be taken lightly.
Then assuming at the end of the day you decide you want it, go for it. If your under 18 you will need your parents to agree to it.
After you turn 18 there will be no locker room so make sure it's what you want.
If you get crap from people at school tell them "circumcision became popular as a way to stop boys from masturbating by making sex less pleasurable, I get to have full pleasure".
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Circumcision has a very long & misleading history in the US.
Basically, overzealous religous prudes thought that circumcision would keep boys from masturbating & being "sinful". So it was encouraged to have it done.
Then, Kellogg, the cereal guy who invented corn flakes, advertised that circumcision & eating his cereal would make boys not masturbate, and people believed him.
After popularizing genital mutilation, scientists & doctors found that circumcision eliminated the need for parents to teach boys proper hygiene. Making extra money by charging parents & insurance companies for the generally unnecessary procedure.
Later, they found they could make even more money by selling the severed flesh to each other, without compensating the donor & parents they frauded.
So, because it's a multimillion dollar industry, it became common in the US.
>Should I get circumcised or is it too late?
No, you shouldn't; unless it becomes medically necessary, with no alternative. Non-medical circumcision is considered a cosmetic & body modification surgery; so it's likely not covered by many insurances.
>Is it safe for me to get circumcised at my age or no.
When you're older & done with puberty, it's safer to have done, because your penis is fully developed & you can get drugs for pain management.
When it's done to babies, or children, the doctors don't know how much penis to remove, & there's a risk of hemorrhaging. Without knowing how much the penis will grow, circumcision can cause both physical & cosmetic complications.
>Would it have any bad effects on me if I did?
First off, it would be extremely painful. It would remove thousands of nerve endings, muscle fibers, connective tissues, and glands; not just skin. Then, you'd have discomfort from everything rubbing on the glans, until you become used to it, or lose feeling there.
It could require the use of lubrication for masturbation and sex.
It could cause cosmetic side effects, like a hairy shaft, callousing of the glans, unsightly scarring, discoloration, skin bridges, penoscrotal webbing, & holes in the skin from stitches.
You wouldn't be able to masturbate for at least 2 weeks, up to a month & a half. Erections could be painful, causing bleeding and bruising, & pop the stitches, until your fully healed.
Lastly, you would never get back the feeling or function you originally had. Ever.
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It was thought to be more hygienic but nowadays it's not nessisary. Be happy you have it. Most guys later on would rather be uncut
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When should I start shaving down there?
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You never have to shave if you don't want to. It's all your choice at the end of the day since it's your body. I always recommend trimming over shaving, as shaving comes with a slough of annoyances like real bad itching, in grown hairs, razor burn and all that can make it end up looking like you've got pimples or something from how red it looks
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No specific time, whenever you feel like it.
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And what makes you think you actually have to trim or shave? Nothing wrong with being natural as well! But yep it’s up to you and you alone if you want to do some manscaping.
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whenever and whatever u want m8
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Is it normal that during a physical I got an erection
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Yes. Pretty much anything can get you hard, so getting naked with someone around is pretty much a dead cert
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I never had a physical yet but I would be worried about the same thing tbh
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It wouldn’t have mattered if a dude gave it
In puberty you can pretty much guarantee a boner whenever you’re naked and someone’s touching you 👀
I’d say you’re have been really confused with yourself if you’d gotten a boner in front of a guy (assuming you’re str8)
Hormones are just too high right now for your body to care about something as mediocre as gender 😂
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Yes
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How to share a room with my bro ?
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I don't think any of that is really a problem tbh, aside from having your gf over if you're used to having sex and stuff in your room, just gotta find a different spot to do it. As for sleeping nude and all that with your brother in the room now, just talk to him about it, he's more than old enough to be able to handle that kinda chat. Chances are he probably did all that as well in his old room like you did. He probably is just as bummed about losing those privacy freedoms as well. Just work a deal with him or come to an agreement that's what done/seen in your guys room just stays between you bros. Y'all are going to want to jerkoff and all that stuff no matter what, might as well just get it out the way the first couple nights and just get used to each other. Might be different if you were a lot different in age but 2 years is really nothing, only difference is probably just a bit if height and more body hair lol. I think you've got an opportunity for a closer bond here, you'll look back later talking about how you guys had to share a room at the peak of your puberty runs lol
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As someone who shared a room with his brother, I can assure you most of the concerns are going to work out naturally. Yes, you're going to see each other changing, so in underwear and nude. That's just what happens when you share space. Simply being nude isn't, and doesn't need to be, a big deal if you don't make it one. Going commando is fine and I doubt will be a problem (my brother went through a commando stage); everyone has different feelings about the kind of underwear they like, even none at all. Sleeping naked is fairly common and again, doesn't need to be a big deal.
You both are teens; I'm sure both of you masturbate. If you aren't comfortable doing that openly infront of each other then do it when you have the room to yourself, late at night when the other is asleep, or in the bathroom.
The biggest point of concern is probably having your girlfriend over. You two can come to an agreement of staying out of the room if a partner comes over (because he's likely to start dating at some point too). Keep visits to reasonable time frames; having a girlfriend over when he has to go to bed would be inconsiderate. Don't take up an entire Saturday. That sort of thing.
I do suggest you and him sit down and have a conversation about this. You are both going to have to deal with the new situation. You can discuss it, lay out expectations, a framework that will work for both of you. It doesn't need to consider every possibility or contingency, just lay out how the ground work you both can live with. Telling him straight out that you don't usually wear underwear and prefer to sleep without PJs can be better than letting it happen and him being surprised.
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Maybe just try doing it while he's asleep? It's probably gonna be an issue for him too so it might be better to just discuss it and work something out
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Talk about it asap. I shared a room with my brother, 2 years older. We saw each other naked every day and didn't care. We both slept in underwear but I knew if he woke up nude he had jacked off while I was asleep. I'd see his cum stained underwear by his bed. Again I didn't care. He never brought girlfriends to our home so that wasn't an issue. But talk to him it will help build stronger communication between you.
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should i be shaving down there?
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There is no "should". You do what you want to do. If you do end up removing your hair I strongly recommend trimming rather than shaving.
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So I kinda shaved once and I was very happy with it, I just did above my junk and my balls.
Don't shave your balls, I was dumb and it it itched like hell.
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Try it. If you like it, cool. I started shaving as soon as I started growing hair there. It itched at first but got used to it quickly. Also, don't shave against the grain directly above your junk... Easier to get ingrown hairs and those suck. Take your time, use a mirror and wait till your balls are super saggy... Makes shaving them easier as opposed to them being all bunched up. Also being circumcised has no bearing on manscaping.
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😅 Well that's totally optional. It seems to be sort of a trend these days, for either gender. When I was your age you could always tell the swim team guys in the pe locker/shower room...they were the only ones who shaved smooth. At least trimming it down might be advised if you really feel like it's getting unruly!
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During puberty, is it natural for your body/genital area to get aroused at things you yourself are not aroused at?
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Absolutely! It's going to happen a lot.
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During puberty, it is common for people to experience changes in their bodies and their sexual desires. These changes can be confusing and may sometimes feel out of your control. It is normal for people to feel aroused by things that they are not necessarily attracted to or interested in.
Hormonal changes that occur during puberty can cause the body to become more sensitive to sexual stimuli, leading to physical arousal even in the absence of emotional or psychological arousal. This is a normal part of the physiological changes that occur during puberty and does not necessarily reflect your true sexual desires or preferences.
It is important to remember that everyone experiences puberty differently and that there is no one "normal" way for your body to respond to sexual stimuli. It is also important to practice safe sex and to be aware of your own boundaries and consent when it comes to sexual activity. If you have any concerns about your sexual development or behavior, it can be helpful to speak with a healthcare professional or a trusted adult for support and guidance.
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Yes totally normal
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Especially during puberty, bit even later on, males are very visually stimulated
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Too much Masturbation?
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Omfg… Is it a rule that someone has to ask this exact same question every couple hours on this sub?
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Nope, a few times a week isn't too much. Even a few times a day isn't too much. As long as you're feeling good and still living the rest of your life and doing everything you should be doing/need to do - and you feel good - there's nothing to worry about. Have fun!
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Not necessarily. If you're doing it out of boredom alot then it could cause issues later on
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If it's not stopping u from doing anything then no
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am i cut or uncut?
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Only really your parents know or you can ask your doctor if you feel comfortable. Some guys are naturally short or they are cut loose. For obvious reasons, I can't provide much beyond this.
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Is there any skin covering your penis head when its soft?
The best way to know for sure is probably by opening 1 tab in your browser with pictures of circumcised penises, and another one with uncircumcised penises. That way you can just compare yours and see which tab looks more like it!
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Sounds like your cut tbh if u can't cover the head when your hard.
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Your cut
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Is it normal to feel like I can’t fall asleep without masturbating?
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😅 I guess a quick trip to the bathroom will have to suffice!
Many guys consider rubbing one out to be a good sleep aid.
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We’ve all been in this situation lol if you’re like any other teen, you will find away lol
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If you've trained your mind that that's how you fall asleep then you've normalized it.
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sumtimes i need to do it to sleep
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14 (M) is it normal for me to masturbate almost everyday?
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Daily ye like 2 times a day is normal. Girls to thst too
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Yup, it definitely is! I can assure you almost everyone your age masturbates daily, and sometimes multiple times per day. Definitely no harm in doing that.
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Daily is average and twice most days is pretty common
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Yeah its normal
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Certainly is, and healthy too
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Should you put deodorant in pubic area ?
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If you are a guy, maybe use it on your thighs, but not your dong. If you are a girl DO NOT use deodorant down there!!!
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A powder is a much much better option. Deodorants can contain chemicals that girls or guys don’t want that close to reproductive organs for long periods of time. Aluminum can be quite harmful as well as some of the anti perspiration ingredients as well
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Baby powder for sure. Avoid any astringents
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Definitely no deodorant down there. That's just why you have to shower regularly and make sure you change your underwear often
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Is it normal to develop an attraction to the same sex?
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All signs point to bisexual, assuming you like girls too.
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You could be bi or could be hormones. During puberty you start to sexually develop. This includes learning about who and what you like and who attracts you.
You'll start to learn about your attractions. They could fade or grow stronger. Don't worry too much about labels right now. Keep an open mind.
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Maybe one or all of the above. Most likely bi! 😀
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Yes. It’s normal
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is sleeping without underwear bad?
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Nothing wrong with that. I sleep naked, always have, nothing bad about it at all.
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Sleeping without is actually healthy, let's everything air out.
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Can bisexuality be a phase?
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Yes, bisexuality can be phasic or intermittent, especially during puberty.
But, it's also completely possible to be Sexually Bi, and only Heteroromantic (only able to have relationships with opposite gender); and to still identify as Bi.
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It can be a phase especially during puberty as you start to learn what and who you're attracted to.
Bi is having some type of attraction to both males and females. It doesn't have to be equal.
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Fluidity in sexual orientation is common during puberty...more common than a lot of people will admit. I wouldn't label yourself at this point!
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I wouldn't worry about labels right now but you could be hetero-romantic bisexual. I would say during puberty it can be a tad harder to tell I would just live ur life and see were stuff takes you
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Hey 16 male question about puberty?
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Yeah thats perfectly normal I think. Bodies are all different
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I can be normal. Especially skinny or thin guys with a small midriff-waist can appear curvy, but actually be typical in terms of skeletal development for a pubescent male.
Of course, your genetics can predispose you to have wide hips & a more rectangular or squared torso shape, instead of a triangular one. Which is fine, & normal too.
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Milk or a disease???
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Unless you’re around 7 months pregnant that ain’t no milk. You need to tell your parents because this doesn’t sound normal from what I know.
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Discharge from the nipples when not pregnant can typically be an indication of either infection, illness, or a disorder.
It can be something as simple as a blocked duct or gland, a bacterial infection, or a hormone irregularity.
I would advise that you see a doctor sooner than later, so they can better determine the type of discharge, and evaluate the breast & your daily routines to rule the really bad stuff out.
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There shouldn't be anything leaking from your nipples. Go to the doctor, something is wrong.
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Hormones are running your veins .. and they can have this effect. See a doctor If you need
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Is it strange if I've never had a wet dream?
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Not strange at all. Plenty of guys don't have them.
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If you’re ejaculating frequently, you are releasing semen before your body senses it needs to. Masturbating regularly helps you avoid wet dreams. That’s a good thing, because cleaning up semen from your pyjamas, pubic hair and sheets is no fun. Besides, it’s way more enjoyable to experience your orgasm and ejaculation when you do it yourself. Waking up with an erection has nothing to do with being sexually aroused. Boys and men typically have a series of 4-5 erections throughout the night of which they are totally unaware. Your morning erection is simply the last one of those.
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The others have got it right but most boys don't have one. It's perfectly normal if you do or you don't
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Not strange at all! Many guys never even get a wet dream in their lives. There is no way to really predict it. However if you masturbate frequently there is a much lower chance of getting a wet dream.
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Can masturbating too much make problems if your a girl?
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. Are you getting everything else in your life taken care of?
But as long as you are not physically injuring yourself and you are not skipping meals to do it you should be fine
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Gender doesn't matter here. Masturbation only becomes a problem if it interferes with your daily activities. Other than that, you can do it as much as you like, there's no such thing as too many orgasms.
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Nope never. It’s ok
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No
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i think you usually know when its too much like your spendign to much time in your room or putting of other things idk if that is what you meant
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(18F) When do i know puberty is over?
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How do I know what I like?
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The best way to find out is to just experiment a bit! If you watch porn when you masturbate, I recommend trying a different type/genre every time you do it. That way you can see a lot of things and decide which ones you enjoy the most.
Also, especially during puberty it's super common that your fantasies change a lot. So don't be surprised when you love something one day but don't enjoy it the next. That's not weird at all.
Does this all make sense?
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It happens
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Puberty is typically a time that people learn who and what they like as they develop sexually. It's common for people to be confused when all of a sudden their attractions start to change. It's all normal.
And it's normal to be curious about other guys and how they look or how they compare to you.
To me the more defining characteristic is are you sexually or romantically attracted to guys? Do you imagine doing sexual things with guys? Do you imagine doing romantic things with guys? Do you feel exciting when thinking about guys? Can you see yourself kissing a guy? Do you think about guys when you jerk off?
And do you feel the same way when you think of girls?
I think these characteristics or desires are a better indicators of whether you're straight,, gay, or bi than porn. Porn is entertainment and can be visually and auditorily arousing.
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Why do people care so much about the size of their thing
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Some guys just like to pretend they’re really manly when they talk about huge penises when odds are they don’t have one. Somehow the notion is that bigger is better. That’s a great big fallacy. Normal is nice.
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Also why the hell does everyone lie about their size?? Like honestly who gives a shit
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It definitely is something that guys stress way too much about. First of all there's this mistaken idea that the bigger you are, the better it will feel to a girl. Not necessarily the case at all...! Girls talk a good game. But in reality when it's time to get busy, a majority of girls are going to be pretty intimidated if you pull out some weapon of mass destruction.
Second is...there's a misconception about what a regular size johnson is, because porn is just too easily accessible these days. Most porn actors are, well, freakishly large. When we were teens and sneaking looks at some kid's old man's stash of mags and vhs, we knew that. But these days there's no shortage of guys who think they're way smaller than average or something, and they're not.
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It doesn’t matter. More guys care about size then girls. As long as yours works and is near average you are fine
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Girls Masturbating?
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Thank you to all the guys sending me the DM support! I'm not being sarcastic I actually appreciate it.
But I am kind of interested in a girl or better adult women saying something..
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yeah i do it a couple times a day too, ur not alone ahaha 😅
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Yes I know girls who do it even more like 4-5 times it's fine as long as it's not stoping u living ur life, fap til u drop!
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Pretty sure this is an allowed topic, but do you think 14 is too young to lose your virginity?
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Couldn't hurt. Just be safe and sensible about it
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Any answer here is going to be based off opinion.
There's no way anyone can prove that it is/isn't right for either of you. Especially since we don't know either of you, the relationship, &/or the circumstances.
However, should you both choose to consent to having sex, be sure you know how to use protection & birth control; and have resources to contact, in case of pregnancy or infection(s). If you have no protection &/or resources, you aren't prepared for the worst.
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Well....? The teen in me wants to "high five" you if you have the opportunity. My adult side thinks you're a bit young. Everybody's situation is different though....so without knowing you both or the specific situation it's hard to say. The age people are "ready" is different for everybody...especially for full on penetrative sex.
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14 is early, but it depends on how you both feel, how good you are at listening to each other and how good impulse control the two of you have.
Masturbation is easy. You can feel what feels good (and do more of that) or bad (and stop doing that).
The tricky part of sex is that you do it with someone else and you're probably both nervous so it's easy to make mistakes. It makes listening to the other person very important.
Also with all hormones going on when you do something sexual, it's easy to want to "keep going" when you're close. Continuing to masturbate at a bad time can lead to embarrassment if someone sees you, which is awkward but not too bad.
If your sexual partner all of a sudden wants to immediately stop (even if you're \_really\_ close to coming) it's super important that you listen and stop even if it feels extremely frustrating, because otherwise you can permanently scar them mentally.
So the three biggest reasons youngsters should wait are:
1. You don't want an unwanted pregnancy. Make sure you use protection and have enough control over your impulses to stop having sex if the condom breaks or something.
2. It may be hard to know what you're comfortable with or not comfortable with, and you may feel pressured to do things you don't wanna do. This happens to boys too. It's important that you feel safe saying 'no' to something you don't want to do or feel unsure about.
3. Like I mentioned above, listening to your partner and controlling your impulses can be hard, especially when horny. If you can do that, things are more safe.
If you can do all above, then maybe you're ready for sex.
\_Ideally\_ you should listen to your partner not only when they say yes or no, but also when they seem unsure. If you think your partner says yes even though they aren't sure, it's ok to take a break to discuss things, or avoid doing whatever for the time being and maybe try it some other time when you've had time to figure out how you both really feel about it.
Also having sex doesn't have to mean penetration, there's a lot of other fun stuff you can do.
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showering after ejaculating?
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I just wash my penis in the sink after the deed is done, along with my hands. And i find that to be very convenient.
Edit: i am 6'4 so i am kinda tall enough to just lean my penis into the sink. if you are shorter or the sink is higher you might need something to stand on top of.
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Some people like the smell
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I imagine it depends On how much semen you ejaculate and where it lands. If you’re able to ejaculate into tissue and throw that into the toilet, you’re fine. Just be sure to use a wash cloth to wipe clean your penis and especially under the foreskin if you have one. It might be helpful to wash the whole shaft of your penis and pubic hair to be sure to get those drops you either oozed or shot on your belly. Nothing wrong with showering, of course, but you may have to take one several times a night.
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As long as you’re showering frequently, it doesn’t matter.
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Is it weird I don’t wear underwear ?
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Depends on who you ask. I'd say yes because underwear are there for a reason which is hygiene.
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It's a personal preference. If I don't wear any though it tends to distract me quite a bit
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You have no support without underpants. Not a good idea at all!
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It's not weird. Lots of people go commando.
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It's not weird, just uncommon for many people.
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How do I tell my cousin about puberty?
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Firstly, thank you for taking up this part of parenting if nobody else will. Secondly, this is not one conversation. This is not one talk. Puberty, bodies, sex, babies, STIs, everything that comes with adulthood have to just be topics of conversation that are okay for the two of you to have. If he comes to you with a question about Minecraft and also a question about ejaculation you should answer them both in the same way. Everybody has a body and almost everybody goes through puberty. They're really not that big deals.
You could spend some time brushing up on your knowledge too. If you're like most 17-year-olds you haven't really received stellar sex ed yourself. There are sites like scarletteen That can give you a lot of information. Or, swing by a learning site like udemy or any of the others and take a free online course about sex ed. Hell, take it together with him.
The important part is that none of these topics are taboo or strange damn. They're just parts of life.
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To everyone who has replied I just want to say a big thank you, you guys have helped me out a ton. Im going to create a list of topics I'm going to talk to him abt and I'll post it here I a couple days for your thoughts!
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I would avoid visuals. By middle school which I think is like 12 or 13 years old most boys sort of feel something. It is very light at that age like small hard ons and pubic hair but nothing much. You should explain how the body changes and what to expect. Explain that it is a marathon that lasts past age 18. Be casual and allow him to ask questions.
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how comfortable are you with others seeing you naked?
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depends on who it is
strangers - depending on context. not random strangers but in like a pool if you have to shower or something then sure but i’d rather not
friends - maybe ? probably wouldn’t hang out with them nude tho. best friends could see idrc it’s nothing i’d want them looking at for a large amount of time. friends i’m not super close with then like no not really
family - eh not really i’ll avoid it but i’m not gonna have a breakdown over it
i wouldn’t say i’m comfortable with my body though. in fact i really really hate it. but i realize that other people probably don’t care as much as i do lol
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I always feel insecure on the size.
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Very comfortable, I dont really mind who sees me naked at all, I'm also a nudist so maybe that helps
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I love being naked
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Am I pregnant
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Not a very smart thing to do. Aren’t y’all supposed to be social distancing anyways?
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I’ve been in a similar situation(not preggo tho) Well, did he cum earlier in the day and not pee at any point after? Because if that’s the case then there’s a chance. Pre cum itself doesn’t contain sperm, but it pushes out any sperm that are in the urethra. Ovulation does increase your chances of getting pregnant, but the apps aren’t always 100% accurate at telling you when you are ovulating, so there’s that. Plan B is very effective and since you took it so early I think you should be okay (not pregnant). Plan B works by releasing hormones to prevent pregnancy, and I don’t think youd be pregnant after 19 hours, so again you should be okay, but if your period is at all late, there are pregnancy tests that will give you a very accurate result the first day your period is late. Walgreens sells them in packs of three for about $20. Good luck, and keep the condom on next time. I recommend getting Trojan condoms that are lubricated bc it might feel better for u and the guy. Feel free to DM me if you got any questions
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If you were ovulating on that day or within the next few days there is something like a 20% chance your egg was fertilized. BUT the fact that it was pre-seminal fluid (precum) and not semen because he didn't ejaculate inside you lowers that.
Also, if you took plan B within 24 hours of having sex (which you did) that makes it really unlikely you are pregnant. It's 95% effective within 24 hours.
So you have a pretty low chance of having your egg fertilized, and even if you did you have a 95% chance of having prevented implantation.
I would go get a test to help you stop worrying, but know that your chances are low.
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I think if you're already at the point of ovulating it's 99% sure that you're pregnant. Everybody makes mistakes - they're big and small mistakes but I think you made a pretty big one here. Don't feel too terrible about yourself although you should be regretting on your decision and be more cautious going forward.
Try to take a pregnancy test or reach out to other teen parents before discussing with your own parents. Talk to your friends maybe? Or talk to the dude that got you has sex with.
On the topic of self-introducing miscarriage, I highly advise you to throw that plan out the window. You can result in serious medical injury or worse.
DM/PM me if you need some more support. I'll try to help to the best of my abilities. You're not alone!
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Is it possible to fantasize about sex with guys when I masturbate but not be gay?
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I mean if you nut while fantasizing about having sex with a dude your most likely gay
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I feel like you’re bi
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You are definitely not straight, but I dunno, you can be bicurious.
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Can you think about a man and desire a sexual/romantic relationship? If so, you might want to look a little deeper because that means you're likely attracted to men (and women, if you already are.)
But if you can't, it very well could be just fantasy. Sexual fantasies aren't indicative of what we actually want to happen to us - rather, not always (they certainly can be)
Don't listen to people who say you're automatically gay if you fantasize about men. You have to figure out if YOU'RE actually attracted to them.
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Can we stop the lies
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There are three universal rules in the universe. Everyone eventually dies. There are always taxes. All teenage boys lie about penis size and sexual history.
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Well guess what, I have a 37 inch cock but it's not the kind you're talking about here
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I'm not lying, personally I only asked once about it cause I wanted to know if I starter puberty early and if it grow any more, but now I don't really care and have stopped obsessing as I learned nobody cares
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Do men prefer it if you shave your pubes, arms and legs? 17F
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It depends, there are certain people who prefer if their partners shave, or there are others who don't care and even like if their partners don't shave.
Your partner and you would have to talk about it.
Now beauty is subjective, everyone is attractive to someone, you just need to find the person who likes you for who you are.
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everyone is different, so some guys like them shaved, some guys like them hairy, it depends on you if you want to shave them or nah.
btw a lot of people doesn't have confidence in themselves and think they're unattractive, yet they eventually find a partner that loves them and is attracted to them;)
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As the others have said you would have to ask for your partner's opinion on hair as some men prefer women to have have while other prefer it to be trimmed or even completely clean shaven.
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A lot of people, especially women, have the negative feelings you describe about their appearance. Girls are taught that their bodies are supposed to be attraction objects for other people and are taught that they have to conform to impossible standards. These are lies. When you notice yourself thinking that, don't believe it. Find a therapist to talk to about your feelings.
Different guys have different preferences in a partner. These days, removing body and pubic hair is very popular, and a lot of men probably do prefer bodies with more hair removed, but some men will prefer women with more hair on their bodies, and some won't care much.
It's like asking if people prefer men with lots of visible muscles. Some do, others prefer skinnier guys, others prefer beefier guys, others don't have a strong preference. Most could be attracted to guys with different bodies. Bodies with hair removed are like Chris Evans: stereotypically attractive right now, but not necessarily what everyone is hoping for.
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Is it normal to feel horny
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Masturbation is normal and healthy, just do it hygienically and in private. At 13, you might still not ejaculate (cum), but it will get rid of the horny feeling for some hours. Try not to use porn, use your imagination. If you’re circumcised you may need something like hand lotion for lube. Don’t use soap, shower gel or shampoo. Be gentle, enjoy it and take your time!
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Don’t worry it’s normal. As a 16 year old boy, I would know. I am one horny mofo.
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very very normal
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Horny way too often?
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are you bored/ free these days?you get horny if you’re not working, get busy and you’ll the see the difference. join an online class or pick a hobby. i hope this helps
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I’m feeling it too man I think it’s a combination of hormones and quarantine is what did it.
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Just jerk off more, learn to enjoy the feelings and not to look at the visuals which destroy your power to imagine. At 14-15, even 3x per day is not unusual!
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I know that exercise can help with hormones balance. You could try that on top of what you are doing.
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Is it normal to have multiple crushes or is that a hormone thing?
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I read is it normal to have mutiple crushes or is that a hormone monster?
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Yeah it’s normal.
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Lucky to have multiple, I can’t even find one
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Is it normal to feel like you haven't eaten for weeks every single time you're hungry?
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Maybe eat a more consistent meal, or Maybe a bigger one, if you get what I mean
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I’m starting to feel more and more hungry idk why I’m 14 btw
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I eat all.the.time. my only advise is to eat full meals. I eat a lot of snacks and they only work for a small time
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what's your diet like? eating more carbs and protein will fill you up for longer. drinking a lot of water can help too
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Can you be sexually attracted to someone without having an emotional connection to them?
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This entire concept is what keeps the hooker industry alive! It's totally normal and it's OK if you feel that way
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Yeh mate that's how porn works innit
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I think that’s how/why most people take care of themselves... ✌️
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yes that's like totally normal and common, just think of porn, tinder, etc.
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Is it ok to be attracted to a guy but not be turned in by dicks?
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Bro, almost all types of attraction are fine, if you like boys but not dick, if you like women but not clits, and plus you’ll probably grow into it
The only types of attraction that arnt hood are
‘MAPs’ And people who fuck animals
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More romantic attraction compared to sexual attraction
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You might be biromantic heterosexual! This means that you're attracted to both guys and girls but aren't interested in having sex with guys. Pretty much every romantic or sexual feeling is ok (unless they don't involve animals) :)
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At your age sexuality isn't defined and even later in life people switch around. The fact you don't think in penises doesn't mean anything. I assume you aren't sexually active yet.
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Can we stop talking about masturbation all the time?
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we're planning this! thank you :)
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Please cut the fucking ” Uhh No i am 9 years old and i am sooo short will i grow?!? :(((
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It needs someone willing to put the time into that, are you? If so contact a mod. If not you need to be thankful for a free advice service!
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I agree with this post. It makes me feel insecure. Oh well, you should contact the mods to do something about this.
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Do you get an urge to masturbate
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I used to get urges when I was 10 or 11 but they're waayy stronger now that I'm 15 and I masturbate more.
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It happens to everyone at different times, but 13 is around the average, however it’s normal to not tell those urges until you are older or around 14.
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I got the urge suddenly when I was 13. It may be at a different year for you.
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Started at like 11, urges started 12-13
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Is it normal for girls to watch porn and masturbate?
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It is fun and gives you an opportunity to find stuff you like
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do it, it takes away stress and the orgasm is well orgasmic
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Do it, irs fun
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It is a great way to relax after having an orgasm
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Girls watch porn (especially male porn) and masturbate too. So yeah it is common.
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Is it normal to have sexual thoughts about friends?
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Its not uncommon for people to fantasize about friends. Just dont tell them and make it awkward.
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Perfectly normal, don't worry.
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Nah 100% normal lol as long as you are not a creep about it. I've thought about people I don't even have any sexual attraction remotely for before while wanking off just cause the horny mind wanders lol
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I'm sure its normal. But don't tell them outright like one of my friends in 9th grade when he confessed that he had some "thoughts" about this girl in our grade.
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So being horny all the time is normal right?
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Get used to it ...I've been horny for years and it won't get better anytime soon.i jerk off almost everyday and feel sexually frustrated a lot
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Unfortunately when you're in puberty you can be horny a lot and by a lot i mean all the time. It's just how it is. You can use masturbation as a way to deal with it although theres others ways of dealing with it such as exercising, avoiding triggers (porn) and keeping yourself busy//ignoring the urge.
If it helps, your libido (sex drive, horniness) will reduce as you get older and you'll learn to deal with the urges. Dont let yourself become by the primal urges
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Oh yea it sucks!!
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I ‘member. Yeah it is normal. Everything could set me off, besides the obvious. Car sounds. Smells. A song on the radio.
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Are we immune to our own smell?
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There's something called going "nose blind" where you get used to a smell that's constant. Your brain basically filters it out so you don't notice it but people who aren't used to it do notice it.
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learn to do your own laundry and change your clothes daily. keep some live plants in your room and make sure they get plenty of sunlight. that sunlight is a disinfectant that will keep the air in your room cleaner. make sure your room has good ventilation. a small quiet fan is a good idea. change your sheets and pillow cases weekly. avoid shampoos etc that have strong scents like axe. you want to be subtracting odor by washing often enough, not adding more odors to mask the ones you have. that said, a dash of vanilla extract behind your ear doesn't hurt. it subliminally reminds people of cookies. do as i say, not as i do - i have poor hygeine and worse social skills. if my clothes smell, i don't notice. but if i put the unwashed clothes someplace for a week, like in a locker, then when i pull them out i do notice the smell, because my nose has reset itself.
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Yes, for example me, after gym, i come home, i go into my room, it's a small room, eat, drink there, i qdont like opening winqdows so the smell stays there, cuz im also sweaty it makes me stink anqd the room even more, anqd when my parents enter they are like u smell like shit but im like i smell ok, you shoulqd shave your armpit hair, after i qdiqd that, the smell i generateqd was less, my dad has a sensitive nose he told me I was less smelly than before.
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Shortest answer....yes, you stink! No, you don't know how bad you smell. Recommended, take a couple of showers a day,especially after doing anything physical. Change you clothes often, especially underwear and socks.
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insanely horny?
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It's normal trust me
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It’s quite common for hormonal spikes, don’t worry about it. Masturbating will probably relieve the horniness, at least for a while.
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My gf is 14 and she doesnt want me to jack until marriage *cringe* she doesnt even know what it is like for a boy. If she were a boy she wouldve jacked too. So yeah jack all u want but only 1 time a day. Even 2-1 times a day is good. Just not 3+ that could lead to some issues.
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yes.... its normal and sadly part of puberty for some
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How to avoid porn addiction
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Its fine every now and then. As long as you can still do it off your imagination, its fine. Not every man is hung or ejaculates like that. Men and women have uniqunesses and sex can be a emotional and requires communication. As long as you know porn is a real as professional wrestling, a couple times a week is fine.
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You can watch porn once in a while, but learn to build up your imagination. I use my imagination and read fanfics instead of watching it
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Sorry, your only option is to just not watch it. Porn is like a drug, it’s not really able to be taken in moderation. I’d suggest you quit now because porn can cause bad things such like erectile dysfunction
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Lol just stop
Edit: No need to thank me
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How to stop being horny
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There really is no way. Being very horny is normal in early/mid puberty. It lessens somewhat as you get a bit older
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Man said, “ I don’t wanna be horny anymore, I wanna be happy😔”
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Cold showers can cool you down, But you can’t stop being horny completely, It’s just the way it is
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Keep your mind busy, do something fun, what are your hobbies? when is the last time you did them dude? go concentrate on your hobbies and when the horniness kicks in do something, get on a game, put a movie on, go outside and piddle, anything to occupy your mind and you can also go to this group it helps lots r/NoFapTeens all of those will help you out dude and you can always shoot me a message anytime!
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Is it weird to get horny when hearing people talk about sex?
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That's completely normal.
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That happens to loads of people don’t worry
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very normal trust me, i’ve done the same. sometimes i go to r/sex to get information and accidentally end up horny
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We're all in puberty ,we get horny at everything , doesn't matter if it's something wrong ,weird or normal
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<M13> circumcision?
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Don’t!
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There are probably tons of parts of your religion that your family doesn't follow. Do you pray 5 times a day? Do you keep halal? Do you ever shake hands with a woman who isn't your mom?
I am guessing your family is already picking and choosing the parts of your faith that fit in your lives. Everyone does. So there is no reason you have to choose having the end of your penis cut off as one of the parts that fits your life.
You can refuse. The Qur’an (2:256) sets out a general rule on the absence of compulsion in religion: ‘let there be no compulsion in religion’. Verse 2:256 makes it clear that no one is compelled to adopt Islam as his or her religion. Nobody can make you be a Muslim, and nobody can tell you HOW to be a Muslim. That's 100% between you and god.
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How to make my parents stop forcing me to spend time with my friends?
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Then find friends that like coding or like doing whatever u like doing, like I did majority of my friends are chads then I went too subreddits like r/hacking or r/gaming I found some really dope people and I think u can too on r/coding or r/CodingContests just make sure people know ur age and be safe about DONT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFO, ADRESS, REALNAME, ETC.
Also just explain too her how u feel if she's really pissed if she's a reasonably good parent she'll listen
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Find a way to fit these two things, don't stop going out with your friends. You'll regret later in life. They want you to have basic communication skills, which you don't get from coding. Go out with your friends and learn coding in the evening
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If you’re looking into coding cheats do what I do and use Cs:GO. You learn c++ which is a very powerful language and you can learn memory manipulation too.
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Explain to her that this is the age where people have many different interests and like to spend their time as they please since time is not eternal and you can’t get it back. Like the other commenter said, try and find some friends with more common interests. There’s a good chance your friends aren’t boring, they just enjoy different things.
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Am I circumcised?
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When you are erect, you will see a scar if you have been cut. It'll be a change in the color and the texture if the skin. You might even see a ring around the shaft where the scar is. Also, if you have been cut, you will probably not have a frenulum left.
It's pretty common for cut guys to have a bit of coverage left over, especially in early puberty. It's also fairly common for intact guys to have short foreskins that don't cover the glans when they are soft.
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Well first of all there's no need to ask a doctor about this if you don't have any problems. And it could be that you are partly cut, or that your foreskin just covers the half of your dick. It's probably the second one and there's no need to worry about it some guys have it and it's not a bed thing.
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Kind of hard to tell tbh...
What is your ethnicity?
Where were you born?
There are guys with completely intact foreskins that look like your describing. And circumcisions where not much is taken off...also like yours. There were a couple of guys in my pe class with circumcisions like that.
A prominent scar may be visible if you were....depending on the method used.
It sounds really awkward but asking your physician shouldn't be. Its just another body part to them. No different than asking them to check your knee or something!
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Why I need circumcision?
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Tell her no
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Adding more to what I previously wrote
1. The collective mentality of society dictating how your penis should look is disturbing
2. Israel has a great medical field but I would question it on this topic. There is no medical reason to get it done other than religious.
3. It hurts as an adult and you will not be able to jerk off for so many months. It is surgery.
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Seems like you don't want it. **Tell her you don't want to get circumsized.** If you are unsure right now you can always do it later but it can't be reverted! Keep your foreskin, I highly suggest it.
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Any boy born to a Jewish mother is considered to be a Jew, whether or not he is circumcised. Circumcision does not make you a Jew. You are a Jew because your mother is a Jew.
Circumcision is very harmful. I think that at age 13, you have a right to refuse.
The Jewish ritual of circumcision is based on what is called the Abrahamic Covenant, but that has been debunked.
[https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Abrahamic\_covenant](https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Abrahamic_covenant)
I believe that if you lose your foreskin then you will regret it for the rest of your life. Read about the foreskin and what it does:
[https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Foreskin](https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Foreskin)
You should know that some Jews are not getting their infant boys circumcised.
[https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Brit\_Shalom](https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Brit_Shalom)
If you get circumcised, then you will need to use lubrication when you masturbate.
[https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Masturbation](https://en.intactiwiki.org/index.php/Masturbation)
JUST SAY NO!
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How to have wet dream
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It’s not as glamorous as it sounds...
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I had wet dreams about 8 or 10 times in my early or mid teens, which was decades ago. I remember the content of a few of the dreams vividly and I remember the wetness and stickiness vividly too. The dreams were very interesting in retrospect. They always involved a sense of tension or anxiety and didn't seem erotic or orgasmic at the time. My first thought on waking from the dream was always "OMG I'm peeing myself and I can't stop." Then the wetness on my skin quickly started feeling cold. It was a mess. I don't remember an orgasm-like feeling or a pleasant feeling at all. And it happens just when you're deeply asleep enjoying a nifty dream. You have to get out of bed, clean up, and find something dry to wear. And decide what to do with the cummy clothes (it always seemed to spread around and get on everything). I know a few times I just stayed in bed and went back to sleep in the cum. I did try to have wet dreams again as an adult but never did have one. I'm happy not having them.
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You will regret asking when it happens, trust me
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Don't touch your dong for a long time, it might take at least 3 weeks
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I don’t even have a dream most of the time. I just wake up in a pile of cum. Not that exciting to be honest. However I guess if you actually have a dream I guess it’s okay
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How to tell if circumcised?
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If you look at your penis, can you see the tip of it without anything covering it
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Well it turns out this gave me negative karma. Weird.
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Easy.
When you are flaccid (not hard) is penis head fully or partially exposed? If yes then you are circumcised. If you have skin covering glans completely then you are intact (not circumcised).
Graphic in link (drawing not a pic) https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/-/media/nch/family-resources/helping-hands/images/hhi279_photo1.ashx?h=302&w=400&la=en&hash=A76BC256A0BD47E3FAE29710930B59D5
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If you are circumcised, then you will have a circumcision scar.
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Why does my brain have terrible memory and its so slow and stupid?
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e55v1l
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Same here
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I would bet that you are not slow, or stupid. I can tell you that \*feeling\* like you are slow and stupid is very common in puberty.
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Have you had any changes in mood?
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How much sleep are you getting?
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You might have a learning disability. Consider seeing a psychologist for testing.
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What is wrong with porn??
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I'm assuming you're somewhat young.
It can spiral to some crazy stuff real quick even if you're careful.
Either way it can mess you up later in life.
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Porn warps young people’s idea of what a sexual relationship is like. It warps young men’s idea of what women are like and what sex is like. Good studies have shown that young men who watch porn are:
\- More likely to have negative opinions about women
\- Less likely to be able to satisfy their female partners in bed
\- More likely to be accused of sexual assault for something they claim was consensual and normal
\- More likely to be aggressive or violent during sex
\- More likely to have problems achieving an orgasm during sex
There is also \*some\* evidence that porn usage also changes, permanently, the way the brain develops. This isn’t 100% proven, but it’s something a lot of researchers suspect. The claim is that young people who watch porn end up with:
\- Less “gray matter” in the brain, which can cause everything to seem boring or less interesting in life because it makes the reward system of the brain much weaker. This might even be linked with depression.
Finally, there is porn dependency. I should point out there many people use the term “porn addiction” but that that is a specific term in medicine and porn is \*not\* addictive. Most researchers no longer use that term because it’s not technically true. “Addiction” means that there is some chemical in your body that your body \*needs\*. You can be “addicted” to crack, or nicotine, or even caffeine. What porn can cause is a “dependency”, which is where you feel like you have to do something to feel normal. Young people who watch a lot of porn report that:
\- They can no longer get as excited by normal sex
\- They need to seek out more and more extreme forms of porn to stay excited
\- They need to see porn often or they feel agitated
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The best way I can put it is it’s addicting. Watching whatever your into and orgasming is really addicting. Well sometimes people who get too addicted use it to escape from reality.
I don’t watch pornography anymore for personal reasons. However sometimes I have urges that I try to avoid.
I like to remind myself that hardly any successful men whether that’s actors or just straight up million/billionaires most likely don’t use porn.
That’s my own analogy but some people may see porn different.
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Whats wrong with being tied up?
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Just curious, what are female wet dreams like?
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Same as guys I think, we don't feel it, just wake up with wet panties, thighs or bed lol
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Wow did not expect people to become Judge Judy, I thought this was a safe place to ask questions
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I didn't know they got them...
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I don’t know because I don’t have them.
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locker rooms?
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I would get naked in the shower room. In the locker, probably for like 10 seconds when I'm changing clothes. (I haven't been to a gym/pool locker room in about 2 years, I got naked then, and I still would now)
If they don't get naked, what do they do?
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It was taboo in my teen years but as I've gotten older, I've cared less on who sees it in a locker room. On the high school swim team, it was an unwritten towel rule and I think it helped with not having to compare. As long as there aren't any stares or comments, it's okay. I also do not like the guy in his 60s trying to have a full conversation while nude either. It's up to you and the local customs.
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[13f] Is it normal to be extremely horny all the time? Even after masturbating?
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I've had the same problem. I'll get off, not feel horny anymore, then I'll feel the need to masturbate again in the next 30 minutes. I don't think anything is wrong with you, you're just going through puberty. I'm a boy tho, so idk much about how girls feel, lol.
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Hey, it happens. Nothing wrong with you. Like the other person, if there's time I can rub out 6 to 8 a day easily.
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yes lmao
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Is being circumcised bad?
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Just because something bad happened to you doesn't make you bad. Sure, you will have some negative side effects, but you will be ok. And some day if you have kids you can make sure to protect them from having it happen to them.
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Nah man I’m uncut it’s natrual.
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I've never had any issues or lack of sensitivity due to it. You're alright my dude.
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You're...*pretty* sure you're circumcised..(?)
I guess you've never seen a guy who's the opposite of you...?
If you're not circumcised you'll have a sleeve of skin that when you're old enough moves up and down and covers and uncovers the head of your penis. If you've been circumcised the head is exposed all the time.
Er....is being circumcised bad? That seems to depend on who you talk to. It's really not necessary to do, and you lose some sensitivity in the johnson. A lot of guys feel a real sense of resentment that a permanent body mod was done to them without their permission. Some people will have you believe your sex life is ruined or something though...which in the vast majority of cases isn't true. Most guys who are circumcised report a satisfactory sex life....
All that being said...I'm not circumcised and if we had a baby boy it's highly unlikely we'd get that done. Whether or not to be circumcised is really the sort of decision a guy should make for himself!
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Is that normal that after I masturbate. I can still be hard and horny??
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I think it’s normal, sometimes that happens to me and I just go for round 2
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Well everyone is different but what I think what you're referring to is refractory period.
"The refractory period is the span of time after having an orgasm during which a person is not sexually responsive. The refractory period can have both mental and physiological effects. During the refractory period, a person might lose interest in sex, or they might not be able to have sex."
So it would seem you have a short refractory period
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It’s amazing and you can start second round... sometime I do it too)
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Am I eating enough?
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Some people emotional eat while others struggle to eat when sad. At this age, you need to eat three balanced meals a day.
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Are these moods normal?
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Mood swings are a normal part of puberty, and they will go away as you get older. Until then, have you heard about "Mindfulness Activities"? They can help with some of the bigger swings.
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Yes
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Puberty can cause people to hate you
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Try to find someone you can talk about your feelings safely with, as well as find a way to let out your emotions. Maybe ask your parents to take you to one of those rooms where you destroy stuff in. I used to smash rocks and stuff to get my aggression out at your age.
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Why have I been getting erections every 30 minutes to an 1 hour?
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That was pretty much how often it happened in 8th grade for me. It is just spikes in hormones and will become less frequent as you get older when they only occasionally show up. They are not all sexual in nature. Do your best to hide them and train your mind to not think about it. Masturbation doesn't do a whole lot if it is only going to show age in an hour. By 16, it might be a couple times a day and by 18, you can control it. It is just one of those things boys have to deal with and learn how to hide.
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Masterbate to calm that son of a Bïtch down, that’s what I do
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It happens to me too bro, dont worry, nothing serious
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It happens to all of us it’s just hormones nothing is wrong.
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Is “experimenting” normal for 13/14 year old girls?
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That's totally normal especially for that age.
Just always make sure no one is hurt and everyone says yes!
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I believe it is not only normal but integral to your healthy sexual development
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If everyone is giving informed concent and doing it safely, there's nothing wrong with it. Just make sure boundries are set and respected, nobody should pressure anybody into anything.
And privacy is highly important! **Absolutely NO PICTURES, NO VIDEO of any kind!** Even if they say it's only going to be on their phone, even if they say they will not share it, their phone can still be accessed without their consent or knowledge, it can still be hacked. And make absolutely sure the place used for it is private and secure and no outside people have access to it.
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Well it's fairly common to explore themselves with a friend in the same room. And some research studies estimate about a third experiment with each other. I wasn't sure which you meant?
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Insanely horny all the time?
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you need to get a job. horny is directly proportional to boredom. The more free time you’ll have, more you’ll feel that way. i suggest getting a hobby, sports maybe and adding more classes. pick a hobby, learn something new. get a job, save some shit
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I'm the same tbh
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Just try to find new hobbies and activities to keep your mind entertained honestly. Being trapped inside all the time and getting bored doesn't help it out either. Doing some physical activity like going out for runs and at home exercising can help burn off some energy and let your body naturally rest as well.
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Find something to keep you distracted I probably masturbate the most when I'm bored.
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How normal is it in your school to use a urinal?
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Perspective from "back in the day"....
Went to school on the east coast US.
Most of us used the urinal. It was considered kind of...unguylike...not to.
I used them even though I didn't like them. Our elementary school had those long basin ones. I tried to hit the boys' room during off times.
Back in elementary and middle school if you snuck off to a stall just to pee there were always a few smartasses who would climb up and look over or look under to see what you were hiding!
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i've always used urinals in schools and public bathrooms, is this not something everyone does?
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There was only one handicapped stall with a door on it in high school. The rest were too much out in the open with half walls. The urinals had no dividers.
Unwritten rules: Buffer rule, look straightahead or forward and down, no side eye, no talking. Go, wash hands and get out. No issues at all because everyone was miserable in there. Virginia
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From a UK school here. Nobody uses the urinal apart from the younger years or if you’re ridiculously desperate and can’t wait for a stall. The urinals are absolutely disgusting and privacy is no existent. A dickhead you probably don’t even know could come from behind and push you into the urinal. So I guess peeing in the urinal leaves guys feeling vulnerable and exposed. That’s one of the main reason near to nobody in my school uses the urinals. Plus it’s all boys school so just imagine the state of the toilets.
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Brazil, everyone uses urinals. Everyone. People think peeing on stalls is gay for some reason.
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Is it wrong I do sexual stuff with a girl at 14?
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My friend was about to turn 15 when he lost his virginity to a girl he was only dating for a week, things can go fast. I don't think it's very abnormal.
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My cousin lost his vCard when he was 13 so I don’t see what’s so bad about only getting that intimate
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Im 11 and i was bragging to my mates about when teachers shirt was SOOO tight and you could see her tits
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Use the pill and condom together if you really don’t want her to pregnant. And no it’s not abnormal, both of you are in puberty and your hormones are flying everywhere. Being horny is expected
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No, did some of the same things at 14. Your ok.
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Is watching porn once a day an addiction?
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no. according to my research, it just means youre a horny motherfucker.
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If you can't become or stay aroused without the aid of porn, that's a problem and you're addicted.
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I don't think so. We're both horny guys 😉 I do watch it once, most times.
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Not necessarily, but how many hours a day?
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That’s very normal, a lot of people get post-nut clarity.
It’s basically your brain’s way of returning you to normal i guess
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Hormone crash ..and the swirl of feelings and emotions that go with it.
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That's basically reality hitting you. It happens to almost everyone who masturbates.
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Yes yes yes idk why but I get the same thing
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(13m) is it normal that I’ve never had a crush on anyone?
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No rush with crushes
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Yeah I’ve never really been interested in a girl before, so it’s fine
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Do all dudes feet stink? Why don't they make deodorant for feet you roll on before you put socks on?
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Nah my feet literally never smell
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Do it with deodorant than never know it might work
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My feet don't ever smell... dunno why but they just don't.
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After I run mine do, I have found some shoes that breath pretty good that helps. But change socks and don’t wear shoes with bare feet if you do.
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Is it normal to want to be away from family? M15
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I would say this is mostly normal. You’re becoming independent and wanting your own time. My parents don’t really allow that, so I get my me-time after they go to bed. I’m usually up until 2 or so on my computer.
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Yeah that’s normal. However, if you’re away from them too much or all the time, that’s bad. Especially for your mental health.
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i do the exact same thing don’t worry i just like being alone sometimes
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I feel exactly the same and I think it is quite normal for people of our age.
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Is my sexual taste ever gonna change?
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Yeah probably
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Yes your tastes will change as you get older. The older you get, and the more life experiences you obtain you will naturally find new things that interest you and will certainly find things that you're into today having little to no appeal to you later on in life.
It's all quite normal.
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it can change. maybe try something new?
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What do u mean by disgusting characteristics
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Is it normal for my emotions to be the way they are(13M)
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You should definitely talk to someone. If you really feel almost no happy thoughts its better to just get it checked out because it can spiral and get worse later down the line. But talking to a professional will give you some closure and is very helpful :)
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It’s part of puberty, some even have anger and disgust! Everything’s uncertain, you don’t know what’s coming next, you knock things over, miskick a ball cos you’re not sure where your arm and legs end. Endless negativity! Thank your gods for the zero emotion times. Occasionally someone will say something nice and there’ll be positive sparks. Talk to friends, even parents, about it. You don’t need help beyond that I would guess.
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I recommend some meditation as well as talking with someone
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This happens to me too, I think it's just black-out after a rough thing that happened to you.
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How often will i get wet dreams?
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There is no set time on when you will get wet dreams, they will happen at random. There is not much you can do to make them happen or to stop them
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Not masturbating will produce wet dreams.
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They are random. Some people never get a single one like me.
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Depends on how often you masturbate. I don't do that quite often, since I have mobility issues and can't really clean up quickly, so to me they are pretty random, but if you do masturbate you can possibly not have them at all, I think.
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Is it a bad idea to ask my friends if they wanna have sex?
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A lot of guys will disappoint at 13 to be completely honest. I know when I was 13 I didnt have the... ahem... size... to please someone in bed. Just a fair warning
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It might be a bad idea most boys that age not able to keep mouth closed about having sex, not sure about girls. Then yes you know to use a rubber but those fail too. Then on how your life is might be called bad things . Or get something that will mess up rest of ur life .
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there is no hurry to experience things, just enjoy your teen years and have sex when you are around 20. if you feel so h\*rny, then masturbate, visualise on what turns you on and masturbate. enjoy a happy and risk free teen years !
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btw , im a 13 year old guy
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I'm not gonna lie I have the same problem and I'm the same age as you. I don't know if I should say something.
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I wouldn’t most guys are gonna be self conscious about there size because penile growth usually starts around 13 to 14 and is usually full size by 16 to 18 but if there a very early bloomer it could already be full size by 13 I would wait till your a little older but you do you and do it with someone you trust
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Is it ok to flirt / ask out a girl who is a grade above you but around the same age?
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yea it is. i would consider over two year age cap inapproprite, but a few months is nothing
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of course it might be weird if she looks way older but it's not illegal or anything, she just might prefer older guys tho at this time
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If you flirt and she flirts back, you’re good to go!
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Yes, I dont see anything bad with it xd but she might see you as too young (even tho ur the same age as her) it happens the same with me xd
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Could I be bisexual?
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Well yes it kinda sounds like it. But I'd recommend just making experiences.
Try kissing girls and boys, imagine being in a relationship with a boy, maybe mastubate with a boy, just try to find out everything that's possible to figure it out :3 this helped me figuring out that I'm gay.
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What's your age?
You....*could* be gay or bi? But in your teens mixed random feelings like that are more common than many people will admit to. Once your hormones aren't all over the place any more you'll have a clearer picture!
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Oh wow same thing. It could be just hormones and who knows you might be a bit curious like me. All I can say it’s your choice and don’t just slap a label on. Figure yourself out and when the time is right start thinking about it and put a label on. No pressure of course.
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Welcome to puberty - where random people and things will excite you and attract you. Don't read too much into it. There are guys who go through puberty 100% only attracted to one type of person or one situation and once puberty finishes their sexuality totally changes.
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Why am I sad?
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It is likley a hormonal thing if there is no reason.
Try to get outside if you can and do things you like. If it's a serious concern or you is causing you to think very negative thoughts I would please ask you to consult someone you trust or a doctor who can help.
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It sure can be. Mood swings and erratic moods are a big part of puberty.
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Everyone feels a bit off sometimes and your hormones being all messed up doesn't really help, the best thing you can do is talk to people you feel like you can trust like close mates or your family, or even a teacher you like or your doctor. Don't let your head tell you that nobody cares or wants to hear it. If it goes on for a while or you start to not really take interest in anything or feel like nothing's worthwhile it's really important you talk to someone.
i mean oof haha
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I’m usually a happy person, but I get sad every now and then for a few days. It’s hormones, and it sucks.
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It’s probably nothing weird. Had some coins to spend so free silver!
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Other men/boys am I the only one that feels bare and unprotected after shaving the pubes?
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I...guess that's a thing now? When I was in school the only guys doing that were the guys on the swim team...they shaved *everything*...
Always sounded too much like work to me!
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Shaving is a helish experience
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Don’t shave, trim to about 1/2 inch. No grow back itching or trap hairs. You’re a big boy now!
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I shaved once and never will again. It has to upsides and it is just itchy all the time.
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I started getting pubes at 10 and I have never shaved :')
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About watching porn
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It’s good to find some balance for sure with how much you watch. You’ve sort of trained yourself to only be able to cum with the stimulation of watching porn. But this can be corrected so it’s not just porn that turns you on. Give yourself a couple of days without watching porn or masturbating and you’ll likely be ready to try masturbation with just your fantasy alone. Being able to balance it out a bit more so it’s not porn alone that works for you will put you in a good place when it comes time to being sexually active with another person 🙂
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Well...you've already started to see the negative effects. Not being able to become or stay aroused...or achieve climax without porn? At 14...? Er...that's a problem.
Porn is just too easily accessible these days. When I was a kid it was sort of a forbidden special occasion when some guy's parents would go out, and we'd have access to his old man's stash of mags and vhs tapes.
These days, grab your phone and slip into the bathroom and....
Not too good...
"Too far gone?" Nah...just avoid porn as much as possible going forward...and cut down masturbating. Your ability to become aroused will increase. You don't want to get into a real sexual situation with a real partner and...say you need to watch porn to get things going? Big time turnoff for a partner....!
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Just stop watching for awhile, then after you being able to get horny, hard, and cum with no porn you can go back to a balanced use of porn, although not watching any is ideal(however very hard and no one does this)
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Thanks for all the help everyone
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