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How to Be a Cinephile
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1. Educating Yourself in Film
1-1. Set a goal to watch 100 great films in a year.
One way to develop an appreciation for cinema is to watch a lot of different ones. For example, IMDB has compiled a list of moves that all cinephiles should watch. Set up a weekly schedule to make sure you watch this many movies the next 12 months.
For example, you could make a goal of watching two films per week.
You could follow the IMBD list, or compile your own list. The goal is to become familiar with many different kinds of movies.
1-2. Pick up movies you wouldn’t usually watch.
Make sure that when making your list of movies, you select ones you wouldn’t normally watch. This is similar to when you are in school and must read books that you would never have picked out. It is an important part of being a well-rounded cinephile.
For example, if you tend to watch only romantic comedies that everyone knows about, watch some foreign films that few have heard of.
Be sure to include films from the past as well as the present. Learning how film has changed over the years also makes you well-rounded.
For example, the job of a film critic is not to like or dislike a film, but to analyze how well it is executed based on a set of standards. View a film with an eye for criticism rather than personal taste.
1-3. Watch important historic films.
Just as art majors must study the history of art in order to understand modern art, cinephiles should study film history to gain a well-rounded perspective on modern film. Watching the silent film The Great Train Robbery can help you appreciate how much film has changed.
You should also watch great historic films like Casablanca, Citizen Kane, or Psycho.
Take film classes in college or community centers to learn what others view as important historical film.
1-4. Understand film eras.
There are important eras of film just as there are important eras in history. Understanding film eras can help you understand the social context of each film, deepening your appreciation. For example, the silent film era is important for its differences in sound and cinematography from modern film.
It is common to study films by decade, such as 1950s films and 1960s movies.
1-5. Learn about genres.
It is also essential to grasp the concept of film genres. Just as there are genres of great literature, there are genres of film. You might study action films, adventure movies, and so on.
Other genres include comedy, crime, horror, science fiction, and westerns.
1-6. Go to film festivals.
Film festivals occur all over the world and offer a wide assortment of movies. You can watch the films in theaters during the festival and discuss them afterward with fellow critics and cinephiles. This is a way to increase your knowledge base in just a few days.
The Sedona International Film Festival occurs in Sedona, Arizona, and the famous Sundance Film Festival occurs in cities all over the world.
2. Gathering What You Need
2-1. Find movies to watch.
Although in the era of instant video streaming it may be easy to find movies to watch, this doesn’t mean that all movies are worth your time. For example, there are about 3.8 million titles on IMDB (including films, TV shows, etc.). Ask friends for their recommendations and look up cinephile lists online.
2-2. Have a good computer and TV.
You want a good screen with good sound, whether it’s on a TV or a computer. Since most movies you are likely going to watch will be streaming online, it is important to have a computer or device that is able to play streaming videos without a lot of buffering. You can test your device’s video capability by streaming a YouTube video.
Most computers need an Intel or other PC-based processor and software like Silverlight or the Flash plug in.
Make sure you have a reliable internet connection in combination with a good player.
2-3. Buy a DVD player.
Even though virtually every film ever made is available online for instant streaming, that doesn’t mean you have access to it. Having a DVD player on hand is important for increasing your availability because you never know where you might have to obtain a movie from.
You may want to purchase a DVD player as an individual device that can be hooked up to a TV or computer monitor. Portable DVD players are also available.
Most laptops and desktops have built-in DVD players.
Some older movies may only be available on VHS, so having a VHS player may also be useful. Because this technology is outdated, VHS players are harder to find. You may want to look online or at thrift stores and garage sales, even in classifieds like craigslist.
2-4. Pay for an online movie service.
There are many online movie services that require a monthly fee for unlimited streaming movies. Every service has their limits, which is why you might consider subscribing to more than one.
Hulu offers a wide variety of films and TV shows, although it is only available in the U.S.
Amazon is a similar service and is available in the U.S., U.K., and Germany.
Netflix is one of the most popular streaming programs, but its global reach is also limited.
2-5. Get a library card
Many libraries have a DVD collection (or VHS collection). If you don’t already have one, get a library card. You can search for what movies are available on most library websites, then go in person to pick it up.
2-6. Rent movies locally.
You can also rent movies for a small fee in local movie shops, although stores like this have become rarer as instant streaming becomes more popular. Redbox, a red kiosk available at many convenience stores in the U.S., is often a reliable alternative, but they tend to hold mostly new releases.
3. Learning to Love Film
3-1. Discover that cinephiles love film.
Breaking down the word into its parts (“cine” and “phile”), you can see that a cinephile is more than just someone who likes movies. A cinephile is passionate about film. They generally choose to study movies whether they like them or not in order to develop a real appreciation for this industry.
Greek has four different words for love, and “phileo” is love that is centered around companionship and pleasure derived from friends or objects (or hobbies).
Although "phileo" is part of the word "cinephile," this does not mean cinephiles love all movies. Rather, they have a passion to understand films in general so they can better critique and discuss them.
3-2. Realize that a cinephile isn’t a snob.
When many people hear the term “cinephile,” they immediately picture a pretentious or snobby individual who bores everyone with their opinions and extensive knowledge. However, a cinephile is not a snob. Snobs define themselves by what they don’t like, whereas cinephiles by what they do like.
For example, a cinephile is open to discussing all films, and does not demean others for having different opinions.
3-3. Understand that movies help you communicate.
Not only do movies help you become well-rounded and appreciate what you see, they give you subjects of conversation. On one hand, you have a wealth of experience to draw from in order to start quick conversations with anyone. On the other, you are able to connect easily with other cinephiles.
This holds true whether you like a film or not.
3-4. Appreciate what you like even more.
Watching films that you would not usually pick out helps you appreciate what you already like even more. Films are often full of references to other films. If you have seen a lot of movies, you will pick up on these references and appreciate them more.
For instance, in the 2003 movie Finding Nemo, there is a scene that mimics swarming birds from Alfred Hitchcock’s 1963 The Birds.
4. Learning How to Analyze Movies
4-1. Analyze movies on your own.
In most school courses, you are taught how to analyze—texts, numbers, artwork, etc. This is precisely what you need to do to become a cinephile: watch movies and analyze how they approach different themes and techniques. Once you get used to it, you can become good at quickly analyzing films.
Analyzing movies can be very in-depth, just like writing essays analyzing literature can be.
Figure out the theme of the film and break it down.
Figure out how the film is related to reality, looking not at the discrepancies between them but how fiction and reality interact.
You may find it useful to watch a movie several times, taking notes on different aspects as you go, in order to become familiar with how to analyze movies.
4-2. Learn about cinematography.
There are several different aspects of film that you can study. There are actually college courses or entire degrees that focus on these aspects. One important one is cinematography, or the skill of how a movie is filmed. It can include all visual areas of a movie such as camera angles and how close the camera gets to a subject.
Cinematography also includes lighting, color, or anything that you see on the screen.
To study cinematography, it might be useful to check out a book at the library or read blogs about it to learn key terms. These can help you know what to look for when you watch a movie.
4-3. Find out about directing styles.
A director is kind of like a book editor. They take the story and direct the actors and settings to match what they like. You can often tell who directed a movie if you are familiar with their directing style. Study directing styles by watching as many movies as you can find by the same director. Pick out the similarities among the films.
For example, director Tim Burton is well known for his bright colors and odd main characters.
Sometimes directors will hire the same actors over and over. Many of Tim Burton's films feature Johnny Depp and Helena Bonham Carter.
4-4. Read up on animation techniques.
Just because a film is animated rather than live action doesn't mean it should not be studied. You can still explore cinematography, directing styles, and elements of acting with animated movies. You should also learn about 2D, 3D, claymation, stop motion, and cel animation techniques.
You may also find similar themes or images among animation projects by the same director, such as the appearance of the characters or settings.
4-5. Study acting styles.
You will also benefit from the study of acting styles to help you on your journey to becoming a cinephile. There are many acting methods used today, and some of them are called by the name of the actors who started them, such as Stanislavski's system or Strasberg's style. If you study these techniques, you may be able to identify them in actors in different movies. This gives you a deeper appreciation for the art of movie-making.
Tips
Avoid becoming a movie snob by keeping in mind that movies are your passion and your goal is to spread that passion, not dominate others with your knowledge. Watch the body language of people you are discussing movies with and keep tabs on their level of interest.
Warnings
Be careful to read summaries or watch trailers beforehand in case you are sensitive to particular kinds of content. For example, not everyone likes horror movies. If you know you don’t like the way horror movies play out, make sure you don't turn one on by accident.
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Have a good computer and TV.\\nYou want a good screen with good sound, whether it’s on a TV or a computer. Since most movies you are likely going to watch will be streaming online, it is important to have a computer or device that is able to play streaming videos without a lot of buffering. You can test your device’s video capability by streaming a YouTube video. \\nMost computers need an Intel or other PC-based processor and software like Silverlight or the Flash plug in.\\nMake sure you have a reliable internet connection in combination with a good player.\\n2-3. Buy a DVD player.\\nEven though virtually every film ever made is available online for instant streaming, that doesn’t mean you have access to it. Having a DVD player on hand is important for increasing your availability because you never know where you might have to obtain a movie from.\\nYou may want to purchase a DVD player as an individual device that can be hooked up to a TV or computer monitor. Portable DVD players are also available.\\nMost laptops and desktops have built-in DVD players.\\nSome older movies may only be available on VHS, so having a VHS player may also be useful. Because this technology is outdated, VHS players are harder to find. You may want to look online or at thrift stores and garage sales, even in classifieds like craigslist.\\n2-4. Pay for an online movie service.\\nThere are many online movie services that require a monthly fee for unlimited streaming movies. Every service has their limits, which is why you might consider subscribing to more than one.\\nHulu offers a wide variety of films and TV shows, although it is only available in the U.S.\\nAmazon is a similar service and is available in the U.S., U.K., and Germany.\\nNetflix is one of the most popular streaming programs, but its global reach is also limited.\\n2-5. Get a library card\\nMany libraries have a DVD collection (or VHS collection). If you don’t already have one, get a library card. You can search for what movies are available on most library websites, then go in person to pick it up.\\n2-6. Rent movies locally.\\nYou can also rent movies for a small fee in local movie shops, although stores like this have become rarer as instant streaming becomes more popular. Redbox, a red kiosk available at many convenience stores in the U.S., is often a reliable alternative, but they tend to hold mostly new releases.\\n3. Learning to Love Film\\n3-1. Discover that cinephiles love film.\\nBreaking down the word into its parts (“cine” and “phile”), you can see that a cinephile is more than just someone who likes movies. A cinephile is passionate about film. 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Understand that movies help you communicate.\\nNot only do movies help you become well-rounded and appreciate what you see, they give you subjects of conversation. On one hand, you have a wealth of experience to draw from in order to start quick conversations with anyone. On the other, you are able to connect easily with other cinephiles. \\nThis holds true whether you like a film or not.\\n3-4. Appreciate what you like even more.\\nWatching films that you would not usually pick out helps you appreciate what you already like even more. Films are often full of references to other films. If you have seen a lot of movies, you will pick up on these references and appreciate them more.\\nFor instance, in the 2003 movie Finding Nemo, there is a scene that mimics swarming birds from Alfred Hitchcock’s 1963 The Birds.\\n4. Learning How to Analyze Movies\\n4-1. 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One important one is cinematography, or the skill of how a movie is filmed. It can include all visual areas of a movie such as camera angles and how close the camera gets to a subject.\\nCinematography also includes lighting, color, or anything that you see on the screen.\\nTo study cinematography, it might be useful to check out a book at the library or read blogs about it to learn key terms. These can help you know what to look for when you watch a movie.\\n4-3. Find out about directing styles.\\nA director is kind of like a book editor. They take the story and direct the actors and settings to match what they like. You can often tell who directed a movie if you are familiar with their directing style. Study directing styles by watching as many movies as you can find by the same director. Pick out the similarities among the films.\\nFor example, director Tim Burton is well known for his bright colors and odd main characters.\\nSometimes directors will hire the same actors over and over. Many of Tim Burton's films feature Johnny Depp and Helena Bonham Carter.\\n4-4. Read up on animation techniques.\\nJust because a film is animated rather than live action doesn't mean it should not be studied. You can still explore cinematography, directing styles, and elements of acting with animated movies. You should also learn about 2D, 3D, claymation, stop motion, and cel animation techniques.\\nYou may also find similar themes or images among animation projects by the same director, such as the appearance of the characters or settings.\\n4-5. Study acting styles.\\nYou will also benefit from the study of acting styles to help you on your journey to becoming a cinephile. There are many acting methods used today, and some of them are called by the name of the actors who started them, such as Stanislavski's system or Strasberg's style. If you study these techniques, you may be able to identify them in actors in different movies. This gives you a deeper appreciation for the art of movie-making.\\nTips\\nAvoid becoming a movie snob by keeping in mind that movies are your passion and your goal is to spread that passion, not dominate others with your knowledge. Watch the body language of people you are discussing movies with and keep tabs on their level of interest.\\nWarnings\\nBe careful to read summaries or watch trailers beforehand in case you are sensitive to particular kinds of content. For example, not everyone likes horror movies. If you know you don’t like the way horror movies play out, make sure you don't turn one on by accident.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you’re already a big fan of watching movies, you may be wondering what it takes to become a cinephile. A cinephile is someone who is passionate about movies and knows a lot about them. A cinephile should be an educated film consumer with the tool kit to distinguish average films from outstanding ones. Look at becoming a cinephile as a form of education, and you’ll be well on your way to becoming an objective and accurate movie critic.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Educating Yourself in Film\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Set a goal to watch 100 great films in a year.\", \"描述\": \"One way to develop an appreciation for cinema is to watch a lot of different ones. For example, IMDB has compiled a list of moves that all cinephiles should watch. Set up a weekly schedule to make sure you watch this many movies the next 12 months.\\nFor example, you could make a goal of watching two films per week.\\nYou could follow the IMBD list, or compile your own list. The goal is to become familiar with many different kinds of movies.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pick up movies you wouldn’t usually watch.\", \"描述\": \"Make sure that when making your list of movies, you select ones you wouldn’t normally watch. This is similar to when you are in school and must read books that you would never have picked out. It is an important part of being a well-rounded cinephile.\\nFor example, if you tend to watch only romantic comedies that everyone knows about, watch some foreign films that few have heard of.\\nBe sure to include films from the past as well as the present. Learning how film has changed over the years also makes you well-rounded.\\nFor example, the job of a film critic is not to like or dislike a film, but to analyze how well it is executed based on a set of standards. View a film with an eye for criticism rather than personal taste.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Watch important historic films.\", \"描述\": \"Just as art majors must study the history of art in order to understand modern art, cinephiles should study film history to gain a well-rounded perspective on modern film. Watching the silent film The Great Train Robbery can help you appreciate how much film has changed.\\nYou should also watch great historic films like Casablanca, Citizen Kane, or Psycho.\\nTake film classes in college or community centers to learn what others view as important historical film.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Understand film eras.\", \"描述\": \"There are important eras of film just as there are important eras in history. Understanding film eras can help you understand the social context of each film, deepening your appreciation. For example, the silent film era is important for its differences in sound and cinematography from modern film.\\nIt is common to study films by decade, such as 1950s films and 1960s movies.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Learn about genres.\", \"描述\": \"It is also essential to grasp the concept of film genres. Just as there are genres of great literature, there are genres of film. You might study action films, adventure movies, and so on.\\nOther genres include comedy, crime, horror, science fiction, and westerns.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Go to film festivals.\", \"描述\": \"Film festivals occur all over the world and offer a wide assortment of movies. You can watch the films in theaters during the festival and discuss them afterward with fellow critics and cinephiles. This is a way to increase your knowledge base in just a few days. \\nThe Sedona International Film Festival occurs in Sedona, Arizona, and the famous Sundance Film Festival occurs in cities all over the world.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Gathering What You Need\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Find movies to watch.\", \"描述\": \"Although in the era of instant video streaming it may be easy to find movies to watch, this doesn’t mean that all movies are worth your time. For example, there are about 3.8 million titles on IMDB (including films, TV shows, etc.). Ask friends for their recommendations and look up cinephile lists online.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Have a good computer and TV.\", \"描述\": \"You want a good screen with good sound, whether it’s on a TV or a computer. Since most movies you are likely going to watch will be streaming online, it is important to have a computer or device that is able to play streaming videos without a lot of buffering. You can test your device’s video capability by streaming a YouTube video. \\nMost computers need an Intel or other PC-based processor and software like Silverlight or the Flash plug in.\\nMake sure you have a reliable internet connection in combination with a good player.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Buy a DVD player.\", \"描述\": \"Even though virtually every film ever made is available online for instant streaming, that doesn’t mean you have access to it. Having a DVD player on hand is important for increasing your availability because you never know where you might have to obtain a movie from.\\nYou may want to purchase a DVD player as an individual device that can be hooked up to a TV or computer monitor. Portable DVD players are also available.\\nMost laptops and desktops have built-in DVD players.\\nSome older movies may only be available on VHS, so having a VHS player may also be useful. Because this technology is outdated, VHS players are harder to find. You may want to look online or at thrift stores and garage sales, even in classifieds like craigslist.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Pay for an online movie service.\", \"描述\": \"There are many online movie services that require a monthly fee for unlimited streaming movies. Every service has their limits, which is why you might consider subscribing to more than one.\\nHulu offers a wide variety of films and TV shows, although it is only available in the U.S.\\nAmazon is a similar service and is available in the U.S., U.K., and Germany.\\nNetflix is one of the most popular streaming programs, but its global reach is also limited.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Get a library card\", \"描述\": \"Many libraries have a DVD collection (or VHS collection). If you don’t already have one, get a library card. You can search for what movies are available on most library websites, then go in person to pick it up.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Rent movies locally.\", \"描述\": \"You can also rent movies for a small fee in local movie shops, although stores like this have become rarer as instant streaming becomes more popular. Redbox, a red kiosk available at many convenience stores in the U.S., is often a reliable alternative, but they tend to hold mostly new releases.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learning to Love Film\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Discover that cinephiles love film.\", \"描述\": \"Breaking down the word into its parts (“cine” and “phile”), you can see that a cinephile is more than just someone who likes movies. A cinephile is passionate about film. They generally choose to study movies whether they like them or not in order to develop a real appreciation for this industry.\\nGreek has four different words for love, and “phileo” is love that is centered around companionship and pleasure derived from friends or objects (or hobbies).\\nAlthough \\\"phileo\\\" is part of the word \\\"cinephile,\\\" this does not mean cinephiles love all movies. Rather, they have a passion to understand films in general so they can better critique and discuss them.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Realize that a cinephile isn’t a snob.\", \"描述\": \"When many people hear the term “cinephile,” they immediately picture a pretentious or snobby individual who bores everyone with their opinions and extensive knowledge. However, a cinephile is not a snob. Snobs define themselves by what they don’t like, whereas cinephiles by what they do like.\\nFor example, a cinephile is open to discussing all films, and does not demean others for having different opinions.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Understand that movies help you communicate.\", \"描述\": \"Not only do movies help you become well-rounded and appreciate what you see, they give you subjects of conversation. On one hand, you have a wealth of experience to draw from in order to start quick conversations with anyone. On the other, you are able to connect easily with other cinephiles. \\nThis holds true whether you like a film or not.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Appreciate what you like even more.\", \"描述\": \"Watching films that you would not usually pick out helps you appreciate what you already like even more. Films are often full of references to other films. If you have seen a lot of movies, you will pick up on these references and appreciate them more.\\nFor instance, in the 2003 movie Finding Nemo, there is a scene that mimics swarming birds from Alfred Hitchcock’s 1963 The Birds.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Learning How to Analyze Movies\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Analyze movies on your own.\", \"描述\": \"In most school courses, you are taught how to analyze—texts, numbers, artwork, etc. This is precisely what you need to do to become a cinephile: watch movies and analyze how they approach different themes and techniques. Once you get used to it, you can become good at quickly analyzing films.\\nAnalyzing movies can be very in-depth, just like writing essays analyzing literature can be.\\nFigure out the theme of the film and break it down.\\nFigure out how the film is related to reality, looking not at the discrepancies between them but how fiction and reality interact.\\nYou may find it useful to watch a movie several times, taking notes on different aspects as you go, in order to become familiar with how to analyze movies.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn about cinematography.\", \"描述\": \"There are several different aspects of film that you can study. There are actually college courses or entire degrees that focus on these aspects. One important one is cinematography, or the skill of how a movie is filmed. It can include all visual areas of a movie such as camera angles and how close the camera gets to a subject.\\nCinematography also includes lighting, color, or anything that you see on the screen.\\nTo study cinematography, it might be useful to check out a book at the library or read blogs about it to learn key terms. These can help you know what to look for when you watch a movie.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Find out about directing styles.\", \"描述\": \"A director is kind of like a book editor. They take the story and direct the actors and settings to match what they like. You can often tell who directed a movie if you are familiar with their directing style. Study directing styles by watching as many movies as you can find by the same director. Pick out the similarities among the films.\\nFor example, director Tim Burton is well known for his bright colors and odd main characters.\\nSometimes directors will hire the same actors over and over. 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If you study these techniques, you may be able to identify them in actors in different movies. This gives you a deeper appreciation for the art of movie-making.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Avoid becoming a movie snob by keeping in mind that movies are your passion and your goal is to spread that passion, not dominate others with your knowledge. Watch the body language of people you are discussing movies with and keep tabs on their level of interest.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Be careful to read summaries or watch trailers beforehand in case you are sensitive to particular kinds of content. For example, not everyone likes horror movies. If you know you don’t like the way horror movies play out, make sure you don't turn one on by accident.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Behavior
1-1. Show self-confidence through body language.
Classy guys are like the magnet in the room: everyone is drawn to them. This isn’t because they show off or go out of their way to draw attention to themselves. Rather, it's simply because of their self-confidence. Even if you feel shy, appearing confident will actually make you feel more self-assured over time. Try things like:
Looking people in the eye when you talk to them.
Shaking hands when you meet people.
Standing in a “power pose” (legs slightly apart, hands on hips, arms bent out slightly at the elbows).
1-2. Be considerate of others.
This is the key to being classy, and without this, you will easily be mistaken for a snob. Be particularly attentive to the needs of the elderly and remember that nobody is beneath your notice. Always be polite. Classy guys do not say anything hurtful or offensive to other people.
If you have to confront someone or put them in their place, speak the truth as you see it, but in moderate language and without recourse to shouting. It is important to find the right time and place for such confrontations.
If you want to be a classy guy, then you should treat waiters, strangers, friends of friends, or neighbors with the same level of respect you would give to your close friends.
1-3. Compliment people around you.
Look for ways to make others feel good about themselves, and they'll start to admire you for paying attention. It's easy to do this by dishing out compliments. Just keep them genuine!
Try giving simple compliments to people you know, like “Hey Karl, that jacket looks great on you!”
You can also practice by saying nice things to strangers, like "What a cute dog you have!"
Make sure not to give compliments that might be misconstrued as creepy or focus too much on physical features. For instance, instead of saying something like "That dress really brings out your figure," try saying something like "You look so elegant today!"
1-4. Remember things that are important to other people.
Make notes about birthdays, special things you know they like, and so on. People will consider you classy if you show attentiveness. Everyone loves to be appreciated!
Make sure to congratulate people on their birthday and other important dates.
Surprise people by remembering their likes: “Pam, I know you love chocolate eclairs, so I brought some in for the office this morning.”
Ask people about things that are important to them: "Isaiah, you ran the 5k this weekend, right? How did it go?"
1-5. Give others a chance to talk.
Classy guys will be charismatic, but not dominate conversations. Give others a chance to speak, and ask them questions to show that you care about what they say (“So you’re into action movies? Which ones are your favorites?”).
As you listen to others talk, nod and use facial expressions to show you're listening.
1-6. Start conversations in a classy way.
Whether you're meeting someone for the first time, or starting up a conversation with someone you already know, take things slow. A classy guy will start by asking how the person is doing, then move on to natural topics of conversation.
For instance, if you're at a wedding, start by asking the person next to you if they're enjoying themselves.
Ask questions, like "So is this your first time in the area?" to show you are interested in the person.
If the conversation progresses, try to find mutual interests. For instance, you could talk about an acquaintance you have in common, or about favorite movies, travel, school, etc.
Avoid asking for someone's phone number or contact info right away. Wait until you've talked a bit, to make sure the person is interested.
1-7. Treat dates like royalty.
If you’re taking someone out, make them feel special. Go out of your way to show you appreciate them, and let them know that you are someone they can respect and rely on. It’s not hard to do this! Good-old fashioned guidelines still apply:
Call your dates, rather than just texting them.
Be on time for dates. If there’s something causing you to run late, let them know.
Don’t just meet up with your date and say “So what do you want to do?” Make a plan for the date.
Don’t push your date into doing anything they don’t want to do.
1-8. Be devoted to your significant other.
If you're in a long-term relationship, there are ways to show your classiness there as well. Focus on making your partner feel special and loved.
Make time to listen to your significant other. Ask them how their day was, for starters.
Always remember big dates like birthdays and anniversaries. Try to do something special for them.
Go for the little everyday gestures that mean a lot: write love notes, pick up their favorite dinner, surprise them with tickets to their favorite concert, etc.
2. Etiquette
2-1. Remember your basic manners.
A classy guy is expected to be polite and well-behaved. If you remember to say “Please” and “Thank you,” you’ll be off to a great start. Aside from that, show consideration everyday by doing things like:
Saying "excuse me" if you bump into someone.
Letting others go first when you're waiting in lines, at elevators, etc.
Not being overly loud when in public.
Taking your hat off when you go indoors.
Putting your phone down when you're in line to order something.
Showing up on time.
Not boasting or complaining about very personal issues on social media.
2-2. Practice a little courtesy.
Looking out for others is another sign of a classy guy. Showing a little attentiveness to everyone -- regardless of their gender, age, race, etc. -- just beams class. Try things like:
Holding doors for people.
Offering to push elevator buttons, grab things from high shelves, etc.
Giving up your seat on a bus or train for someone who looks like they need it.
2-3. Use table manners
For formal events and locations, there are elaborate rules about how to eat and behave at the table. Unless you’re going to one of these, you don’t have to obsess about the rules. Still, a few basic manners apply practically everywhere, like:
Take your hat off when at the table.
Wait for everyone to be seated and served before you start to eat.
Don’t talk while chewing.
Don’t lick your fingers.
Avoid reaching over others plates to grab things.
Put your phone away at the table.
2-4. Stick to clean humor.
Being classy does not mean you have to be stiff. Let your sense of humor show, and don't be afraid to laugh with other people. However, don't laugh at or tell crude, sexist, or offensive jokes.
3. Appearance
3-1. Wear clean, neat clothes.
You don’t have to walk around in a three-piece suit everyday. Still, if your clothes are dirty or wrinkled, your look will tell the world “I don’t care about my appearance.”
Go for quality over quantity. It’s better to have fewer clothes that fit right, look nice, and will last than to have a closet full of cheap clothes that will wear out fast.
You can often find designer clothes at affordable prices by looking at outlets and factory stores.
Shop online to get even better deals and sales.
You don't have to completely re-do your wardrobe, but make sure anything you wear is clean and wrinkle-free.
3-2. Dress to impress.
There’s nothing wrong with wearing a t-shirt and jeans when you’re hanging around the house. Out in public, however, a classy guy is expected to wear something slightly more upscale. If you aren’t sure what to go for, stick to white and blue button-down shirts or polos and well-fitting slacks or khakis.
You can even take everyday clothes and class them up. For instance, if you have a graphic tee you love to wear with jeans, throw on a simple blazer over it.
Get a decent pair of semi-casual shoes to wear rather than sneakers or sandals.
3-3. Get a well-fitting suit for formal occasions.
If you’re going to an event that is at all formal, you can’t go wrong with a suit. Buying a suit off the rack is just fine, as long as it fits well. Take it to an alteration shop if you need to make any adjustments.
Stick to gray or dark blue suits for most occasions. Black suits are usually for very formal or solemn occasions. Brightly-colored suits should be avoided.
Wear simple ties with your suit. Avoid obnoxious colors or prints.
3-4. Accessorize to complete your look.
Things like a nice watch, a scarf, or a hat (something other than a baseball cap) will instantly signal your classiness. You don’t have to go overboard on these, either. With watches, for instance, just get a nice looking one with a metal or leather band. It does not need to be diamond-encrusted or solid platinum!
Have fun with accessories, since they're a way to show your personal style while still looking classy. For instance, you could throw on a belt with a distinctive buckle, or wear fun socks to add a little flair.
Try to dress appropriately for the occasion. For instance, don't wear sneakers to a formal event.
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Classy guys do not say anything hurtful or offensive to other people.\\nIf you have to confront someone or put them in their place, speak the truth as you see it, but in moderate language and without recourse to shouting. It is important to find the right time and place for such confrontations.\\nIf you want to be a classy guy, then you should treat waiters, strangers, friends of friends, or neighbors with the same level of respect you would give to your close friends.\\n1-3. Compliment people around you.\\nLook for ways to make others feel good about themselves, and they'll start to admire you for paying attention. It's easy to do this by dishing out compliments. Just keep them genuine!\\nTry giving simple compliments to people you know, like “Hey Karl, that jacket looks great on you!”\\nYou can also practice by saying nice things to strangers, like \\\"What a cute dog you have!\\\"\\nMake sure not to give compliments that might be misconstrued as creepy or focus too much on physical features. For instance, instead of saying something like \\\"That dress really brings out your figure,\\\" try saying something like \\\"You look so elegant today!\\\"\\n1-4. Remember things that are important to other people.\\nMake notes about birthdays, special things you know they like, and so on. People will consider you classy if you show attentiveness. Everyone loves to be appreciated!\\nMake sure to congratulate people on their birthday and other important dates.\\nSurprise people by remembering their likes: “Pam, I know you love chocolate eclairs, so I brought some in for the office this morning.”\\nAsk people about things that are important to them: \\\"Isaiah, you ran the 5k this weekend, right? How did it go?\\\"\\n1-5. Give others a chance to talk.\\nClassy guys will be charismatic, but not dominate conversations. Give others a chance to speak, and ask them questions to show that you care about what they say (“So you’re into action movies? Which ones are your favorites?”).\\nAs you listen to others talk, nod and use facial expressions to show you're listening.\\n1-6. Start conversations in a classy way.\\nWhether you're meeting someone for the first time, or starting up a conversation with someone you already know, take things slow. 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Good-old fashioned guidelines still apply:\\nCall your dates, rather than just texting them.\\nBe on time for dates. If there’s something causing you to run late, let them know.\\nDon’t just meet up with your date and say “So what do you want to do?” Make a plan for the date.\\nDon’t push your date into doing anything they don’t want to do.\\n1-8. Be devoted to your significant other.\\nIf you're in a long-term relationship, there are ways to show your classiness there as well. Focus on making your partner feel special and loved.\\nMake time to listen to your significant other. Ask them how their day was, for starters.\\nAlways remember big dates like birthdays and anniversaries. Try to do something special for them.\\nGo for the little everyday gestures that mean a lot: write love notes, pick up their favorite dinner, surprise them with tickets to their favorite concert, etc.\\n2. Etiquette\\n2-1. Remember your basic manners.\\nA classy guy is expected to be polite and well-behaved. If you remember to say “Please” and “Thank you,” you’ll be off to a great start. Aside from that, show consideration everyday by doing things like:\\nSaying \\\"excuse me\\\" if you bump into someone.\\nLetting others go first when you're waiting in lines, at elevators, etc.\\nNot being overly loud when in public.\\nTaking your hat off when you go indoors.\\nPutting your phone down when you're in line to order something.\\nShowing up on time.\\nNot boasting or complaining about very personal issues on social media.\\n2-2. Practice a little courtesy.\\nLooking out for others is another sign of a classy guy. Showing a little attentiveness to everyone -- regardless of their gender, age, race, etc. -- just beams class. Try things like:\\nHolding doors for people.\\nOffering to push elevator buttons, grab things from high shelves, etc.\\nGiving up your seat on a bus or train for someone who looks like they need it.\\n2-3. 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It’s better to have fewer clothes that fit right, look nice, and will last than to have a closet full of cheap clothes that will wear out fast.\\nYou can often find designer clothes at affordable prices by looking at outlets and factory stores.\\nShop online to get even better deals and sales.\\nYou don't have to completely re-do your wardrobe, but make sure anything you wear is clean and wrinkle-free.\\n3-2. Dress to impress.\\nThere’s nothing wrong with wearing a t-shirt and jeans when you’re hanging around the house. Out in public, however, a classy guy is expected to wear something slightly more upscale. If you aren’t sure what to go for, stick to white and blue button-down shirts or polos and well-fitting slacks or khakis.\\nYou can even take everyday clothes and class them up. For instance, if you have a graphic tee you love to wear with jeans, throw on a simple blazer over it.\\nGet a decent pair of semi-casual shoes to wear rather than sneakers or sandals.\\n3-3. Get a well-fitting suit for formal occasions.\\nIf you’re going to an event that is at all formal, you can’t go wrong with a suit. Buying a suit off the rack is just fine, as long as it fits well. Take it to an alteration shop if you need to make any adjustments.\\nStick to gray or dark blue suits for most occasions. Black suits are usually for very formal or solemn occasions. Brightly-colored suits should be avoided.\\nWear simple ties with your suit. Avoid obnoxious colors or prints.\\n3-4. Accessorize to complete your look.\\nThings like a nice watch, a scarf, or a hat (something other than a baseball cap) will instantly signal your classiness. You don’t have to go overboard on these, either. With watches, for instance, just get a nice looking one with a metal or leather band. It does not need to be diamond-encrusted or solid platinum!\\nHave fun with accessories, since they're a way to show your personal style while still looking classy. For instance, you could throw on a belt with a distinctive buckle, or wear fun socks to add a little flair.\\nTry to dress appropriately for the occasion. For instance, don't wear sneakers to a formal event.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you're on a mission to become more sophisticated, it will mean paying more attention to your looks, attitude, and behavior. A classy guy is one who is polite, charming, neat, clean, and cares for others. Pick your wardrobe carefully, brush up on your manners, and treat others with respect. Do this, and you'll become the envy of others.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Behavior\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show self-confidence through body language.\", \"描述\": \"Classy guys are like the magnet in the room: everyone is drawn to them. This isn’t because they show off or go out of their way to draw attention to themselves. Rather, it's simply because of their self-confidence. 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For instance, instead of saying something like \\\"That dress really brings out your figure,\\\" try saying something like \\\"You look so elegant today!\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Remember things that are important to other people.\", \"描述\": \"Make notes about birthdays, special things you know they like, and so on. People will consider you classy if you show attentiveness. Everyone loves to be appreciated!\\nMake sure to congratulate people on their birthday and other important dates.\\nSurprise people by remembering their likes: “Pam, I know you love chocolate eclairs, so I brought some in for the office this morning.”\\nAsk people about things that are important to them: \\\"Isaiah, you ran the 5k this weekend, right? How did it go?\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give others a chance to talk.\", \"描述\": \"Classy guys will be charismatic, but not dominate conversations. Give others a chance to speak, and ask them questions to show that you care about what they say (“So you’re into action movies? Which ones are your favorites?”).\\nAs you listen to others talk, nod and use facial expressions to show you're listening.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Start conversations in a classy way.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you're meeting someone for the first time, or starting up a conversation with someone you already know, take things slow. A classy guy will start by asking how the person is doing, then move on to natural topics of conversation.\\nFor instance, if you're at a wedding, start by asking the person next to you if they're enjoying themselves.\\nAsk questions, like \\\"So is this your first time in the area?\\\" to show you are interested in the person.\\nIf the conversation progresses, try to find mutual interests. For instance, you could talk about an acquaintance you have in common, or about favorite movies, travel, school, etc.\\nAvoid asking for someone's phone number or contact info right away. Wait until you've talked a bit, to make sure the person is interested.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Treat dates like royalty.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re taking someone out, make them feel special. Go out of your way to show you appreciate them, and let them know that you are someone they can respect and rely on. It’s not hard to do this! Good-old fashioned guidelines still apply:\\nCall your dates, rather than just texting them.\\nBe on time for dates. If there’s something causing you to run late, let them know.\\nDon’t just meet up with your date and say “So what do you want to do?” Make a plan for the date.\\nDon’t push your date into doing anything they don’t want to do.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Be devoted to your significant other.\", \"描述\": \"If you're in a long-term relationship, there are ways to show your classiness there as well. Focus on making your partner feel special and loved.\\nMake time to listen to your significant other. Ask them how their day was, for starters.\\nAlways remember big dates like birthdays and anniversaries. Try to do something special for them.\\nGo for the little everyday gestures that mean a lot: write love notes, pick up their favorite dinner, surprise them with tickets to their favorite concert, etc.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Etiquette\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Remember your basic manners.\", \"描述\": \"A classy guy is expected to be polite and well-behaved. 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1. Appearance
1-1. Improve your posture
Having good posture is an important part of being classy. Make sure to keep your back straight, whether you're sitting down or standing up, and to avoid slouching at all costs. Slouching is a sign of laziness and bad manners, so make sure you keep your spine straight and your head up as much as you can. When sitting, don't cross one leg on the other. Instead, cross them at the feet and not behind the chair.
Try doing this when you're by yourself, too, so you get used to doing it in front of others.
1-2. Maintain good hygiene
This means showering every day, and always wearing clean clothes, without stains. If you're doing something where you'll get dirty, change right after. If you're in a situation where you'll get sweaty (e.g. a dance), bring an extra shirt just in case.
1-3. Be well-groomed.
Brush your hair several times a day, if need be, and be prepared to put your hair up again if bits are falling out. Don't brush your hair in public, though, because it could be seen as undignified; wait until you're alone in the bathroom to do it.
1-4. Wear classy makeup (optional).
If makeup is your thing, then you should apply it appropriately. For day-wear, natural-looking makeup is the best. Little or no makeup is better than smudged makeup. Remember that too strong or poorly applied makeup has a tendency to look cheap.
1-5. Dress elegantly and modestly
The key word here is to dress with dignity. This does not have to cost very much. Keep your clothes in good repair. Anything ripped, or revealing could potentially be seen as inappropriate although this depends on the event or the look you are going for. It is more important that the clothes fit you well, are wrinkle-free, appropriate for the occasion, and cover all the essential bits.
This means not wearing anything too short (short skirts or shorts), too translucent, or anything that exposes your belly.
If you really wish to wear something a little revealing (deep neck, bare shoulders, or a high cut on the skirt), reveal one thing only. For example, an evening top with a low neck should be accompanied with a long skirt/trousers and have proper sleeves that cover the shoulders.
Remember that, when in doubt, it's better to be a little bit overdressed than a little bit underdressed. If you're in doubt about what to wear to an occasion, it's better to look a little nicer than the other guests than to look like you didn't put as much time into your looks as the others.
2. Behaviors
2-1. Always use refined language.
Don't swear or use crude expressions. Profanity is one of the least lady-like traits.
If you feel that your conversation becomes very dull without the use of profanity, remember that this is just temporary. As you substitute in non-profane expressions (of which there is a virtually limitless supply), you will find your language becoming more specific, more expressive, and more interesting.
2-2. Be an articulate speaker.
If you want to sound classy, then you have to speak clearly, avoid mumbling or talking too loudly, and be grammatically correct. A classy lady speaks with confidence and talks clearly enough for others to understand her. Avoid saying "um," or "like" every two seconds, because that will make you look unrefined.
For example, say "Hi Jade, did you finish your homework for Science?" instead of saying "Sup Bro, did yo' finish the homework cuz I didn't!", the latter being grammatically incorrect.
Read regularly to improve your vocabulary and range of expression.
2-3. Be considerate of others.
This is the key to being classy, and without this, you will easily be mistaken for a snob. Be particularly attentive to the needs of the elderly and remember that nobody is beneath your notice. Always be polite. Classy ladies do not say anything hurtful or offensive to other people.
If you have to confront someone or put them in their place, speak the truth as you see it, but in moderate language and without recourse to shouting. It is important to find the right time and place for such confrontations.
If you want to be a classy lady, then you should treat waiters, strangers, friends of friends, or neighbors with the same level of respect you would give to your close friends.
2-4. Make people comfortable.
Classy ladies are social and at ease with others. The key to doing this lies in making the people you meet feel at ease and accepted. If this is not easy for you, work on improving your social skills, and on being charismatic.
Improving your conversational skills is a great way of putting people at ease, and making an impression as a well-bred and well-informed lady.
2-5. Perfect your etiquette.
A good start is to always be polite and to say thank you once too often rather than too little. A firm grasp on etiquette is also helpful if you get nervous in social situations, because you'll always know how you're supposed to act.
Learn dinner etiquette, party etiquette, workplace etiquette, and dating etiquette to become more ladylike.
Remember that it is really poor etiquette to comment on or make a fuss about other people's lack of etiquette or manners. Unless the situation really warrants it (their behavior may cause harm to themselves or others, or is on the way far side of moral and acceptable behaviour), graciously overlook their gaffes and shortcomings.
Try to keep your hands out of your pockets while chatting with new people. Also, put lotion on your hands after you wash them so they won't be dry or rough.
2-6. Avoid gossiping about others.
Malicious gossip or speaking badly of people behind their back is not very lady-like. Though you may be angry at someone or feel wronged, gossiping about it to a third party will not solve your problems. If you want to be a classy lady, then you have to restrain yourself and avoid saying anything negative about other people unless you want to cause trouble for yourself.
Keep your Facebook posts classy, too. Stick to the positive instead of ranting about "some people" who have done you wrong.
2-7. Stand up for yourself with dignity.
Being classy and polite does not in any way mean being a pushover or voicing opinions that are not your own. If you deem that your opinions may be too forceful or may be hurtful to those present, do not lie, but change the topic to something else. If someone asks an impertinent question, do not feel obliged to answer - make a joke, or endeavor to turn the question around.
When you do stand up for yourself, state your case without resorting to name-calling or getting overly emotional.
3. Personality
3-1. Be well-read.
Read novels to find role-models for etiquette and good manners. Jane Austen is exceptional in her shrewd portrayal of good and bad manners and morals, and a must-read for anyone wishing to be a classy lady. Reading classic novels also has the benefit or making you a well-informed lady, and there is nothing classy about ignorance.
Being well-read will also make you able to make more sophisticated conversation.
3-2. Find classy friends.
If you're really determined to be classy, then you have to seek out classy company. If your friends are bringing down your level of classiness or not supporting your new mindset, then you may want to seek out other people who help you become your true classy lady self. These people should be confident, self-assured, and maybe a little bit older and more mature so you can learn from them.
Your friends should lift you up, not bring you down, so you should hang out with people who make you want to be better than you actually are.
3-3. Be a conscientious citizen.
Part of being classy means being a good, conscientious citizen. What the heck does this mean? A number of things. Don't leave your shopping cart hanging out in the parking lot after you've put your groceries in your trunk; return it to the cart aisle. Let pedestrians cross in front of you when you're driving. Hold the door for the elderly, even if you're in a rush.
If you've dropped something in the supermarket, clean it up or tell an employee what happened. Don't just walk away from your mess.
3-4. Drop the habits of an unclassy lady.
If you're really committed to being classy, then you have to get rid of a few things that may be making you look less classy than you really are. Here are some good things to avoid:
Loudly smacking your gum
Loudly chewing your food
Burping in public
Getting too drunk in public
Giving people the finger
Cursing
Rolling your eyes
Farting in public
Picking your nose
Kissing in public
3-5. Accept responsibility for your own actions
Being able to own what you've done in your life is the height of class. It's not classy to play the victim, blame all your problems on someone else, or to say, "I would have been able to do thing X if only Y hadn't..." Stop whining or making excuses and understand that life is what you make of it and that you have the power to be as classy as you want and to have a life as good as you want it to be.
It's not classy to complain about all of the things you don't have. It's classy to admit that you have a lot of work to do to become the person you really want to be.
Tips
Reading and/or watching period novels and dramas can be a great inspiration. However, remember that today things are no longer as stiff and formal as they once were.
If you're in school, get good grades.
Keep your face clear and your hair shiny.
Warnings
Don't be a snob or act like younger people, or people in the service industries, are inferior. You should always be nice and friendly to everyone.
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Don't brush your hair in public, though, because it could be seen as undignified; wait until you're alone in the bathroom to do it.\\n1-4. Wear classy makeup (optional).\\nIf makeup is your thing, then you should apply it appropriately. For day-wear, natural-looking makeup is the best. Little or no makeup is better than smudged makeup. Remember that too strong or poorly applied makeup has a tendency to look cheap.\\n1-5. Dress elegantly and modestly\\nThe key word here is to dress with dignity. This does not have to cost very much. Keep your clothes in good repair. Anything ripped, or revealing could potentially be seen as inappropriate although this depends on the event or the look you are going for. 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If this is not easy for you, work on improving your social skills, and on being charismatic.\\nImproving your conversational skills is a great way of putting people at ease, and making an impression as a well-bred and well-informed lady.\\n2-5. Perfect your etiquette.\\nA good start is to always be polite and to say thank you once too often rather than too little. A firm grasp on etiquette is also helpful if you get nervous in social situations, because you'll always know how you're supposed to act.\\nLearn dinner etiquette, party etiquette, workplace etiquette, and dating etiquette to become more ladylike.\\nRemember that it is really poor etiquette to comment on or make a fuss about other people's lack of etiquette or manners. 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Stand up for yourself with dignity.\\nBeing classy and polite does not in any way mean being a pushover or voicing opinions that are not your own. If you deem that your opinions may be too forceful or may be hurtful to those present, do not lie, but change the topic to something else. If someone asks an impertinent question, do not feel obliged to answer - make a joke, or endeavor to turn the question around.\\nWhen you do stand up for yourself, state your case without resorting to name-calling or getting overly emotional.\\n3. Personality\\n3-1. Be well-read.\\nRead novels to find role-models for etiquette and good manners. Jane Austen is exceptional in her shrewd portrayal of good and bad manners and morals, and a must-read for anyone wishing to be a classy lady. Reading classic novels also has the benefit or making you a well-informed lady, and there is nothing classy about ignorance.\\nBeing well-read will also make you able to make more sophisticated conversation.\\n3-2. Find classy friends.\\nIf you're really determined to be classy, then you have to seek out classy company. If your friends are bringing down your level of classiness or not supporting your new mindset, then you may want to seek out other people who help you become your true classy lady self. These people should be confident, self-assured, and maybe a little bit older and more mature so you can learn from them.\\nYour friends should lift you up, not bring you down, so you should hang out with people who make you want to be better than you actually are.\\n3-3. Be a conscientious citizen.\\nPart of being classy means being a good, conscientious citizen. What the heck does this mean? A number of things. Don't leave your shopping cart hanging out in the parking lot after you've put your groceries in your trunk; return it to the cart aisle. Let pedestrians cross in front of you when you're driving. 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How to Be a Clean Muslim
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1. Steps
1-1. Understand the importance of cleanliness in Islam.
As the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated, "cleanliness is half of faith".
This was before microbes were discovered and bathing was forbidden/discouraged in Europe.
1-2. Groom yourself
Growing a beard and trimming the mustache, as well as removing pubic and armpit hair, is sunnah. Shaving them is part of the sunnah too, but trimming them is fine.
1-3. Maintain your hygiene.
It is sunnah to use the miswak to clean your teeth. Performing wudu and ghusl are also key Muslim rituals, with wudu usually being made five times a day to keep oneself pure so that they may worship Allah.
You should cut your nails once a week, preferably on Fridays.
Not shaving your pubic or armpit hair or not cutting your nails is permissible after 15 days; however, it is disliked after 40 days.
1-4. Follow proper toilet etiquette.
There are many rules regarding the toilet in Islam. For example, you should not relieve yourself near flowing water; you should remain silent while on the toilet; you should not face or turn your back towards the Qibla; and you should enter the bathroom with the left leg and leave with the right.
Before entering the toilet, say Allahumma innee aAAoothu bika minal-khubthi wal-khaba-ith (meaning "O Allah. I seek refuge in You from the male or female evil and Jinns")
After leaving the toilet, say "Ghufranak" (meaning "I ask You (Allah) for forgiveness." — meaning for any sins performed while your body used the energy of food and drink, the remains thereof later converted to waste excreted.)
For cleanliness, it is best to perform one of the following (ranked in the order of importance): wash with water (and optionally, soap after defecating), then tissue or stones.One should wipe thrice.
1-5. Keep the environment clean
Cleanliness does not only mean keeping yourself clean, but also making sure your surroundings are clean. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Removing harmful things from the road is an act of charity", and he also warned, "Beware of the three acts that cause you to be cursed: relieving yourselves in shaded places (that people utilize), in a walkway or in a watering place."
For example, picking up litter from the street is one way you can keep the environment clean.
Sort your waste properly. Recycle recyclables and make use of either your city's composting system (if it has one), or compost yourself if you can.
1-6. Keep your body fit and healthy
This doesn't relate to hygiene, but rather staying fit and healthy. Don't harm your body by feeding yourself junk. The Prophet said, "A human being has not filled any vessel worse than [his] stomach. A few bites are sufficient to support his back. If it is inevitable (i.e. eating a lot because he likes eating), then a third for food, a third for drink, and third for his breath."
Using medicine is also encouraged, as it is narrated that the Prophet said, "Make use of medical treatment, for Allah has not made a disease without appointing a remedy for it, with the exception of one disease, namely old age." We should make sure that we keep ourselves healthy and that we do not destroy our insides by having poor lifestyles.
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For example, you should not relieve yourself near flowing water; you should remain silent while on the toilet; you should not face or turn your back towards the Qibla; and you should enter the bathroom with the left leg and leave with the right.\\nBefore entering the toilet, say Allahumma innee aAAoothu bika minal-khubthi wal-khaba-ith (meaning \\\"O Allah. I seek refuge in You from the male or female evil and Jinns\\\")\\nAfter leaving the toilet, say \\\"Ghufranak\\\" (meaning \\\"I ask You (Allah) for forgiveness.\\\" — meaning for any sins performed while your body used the energy of food and drink, the remains thereof later converted to waste excreted.)\\nFor cleanliness, it is best to perform one of the following (ranked in the order of importance): wash with water (and optionally, soap after defecating), then tissue or stones.One should wipe thrice.\\n1-5. Keep the environment clean\\nCleanliness does not only mean keeping yourself clean, but also making sure your surroundings are clean. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, \\\"Removing harmful things from the road is an act of charity\\\", and he also warned, \\\"Beware of the three acts that cause you to be cursed: relieving yourselves in shaded places (that people utilize), in a walkway or in a watering place.\\\"\\nFor example, picking up litter from the street is one way you can keep the environment clean.\\nSort your waste properly. Recycle recyclables and make use of either your city's composting system (if it has one), or compost yourself if you can.\\n1-6. Keep your body fit and healthy\\nThis doesn't relate to hygiene, but rather staying fit and healthy. Don't harm your body by feeding yourself junk. The Prophet said, \\\"A human being has not filled any vessel worse than [his] stomach. A few bites are sufficient to support his back. If it is inevitable (i.e. eating a lot because he likes eating), then a third for food, a third for drink, and third for his breath.\\\"\\nUsing medicine is also encouraged, as it is narrated that the Prophet said, \\\"Make use of medical treatment, for Allah has not made a disease without appointing a remedy for it, with the exception of one disease, namely old age.\\\" We should make sure that we keep ourselves healthy and that we do not destroy our insides by having poor lifestyles.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Islam has many rules pertaining to cleanliness and emphasizes the importance of being clean. In the Qur'an, it says \\\"Allah loves those who make themselves clean and pure\\\". This article will teach you how to be a clean Muslim.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understand the importance of cleanliness in Islam.\", \"描述\": \"As the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated, \\\"cleanliness is half of faith\\\".\\nThis was before microbes were discovered and bathing was forbidden/discouraged in Europe.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Groom yourself\", \"描述\": \"Growing a beard and trimming the mustache, as well as removing pubic and armpit hair, is sunnah. Shaving them is part of the sunnah too, but trimming them is fine.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Maintain your hygiene.\", \"描述\": \"It is sunnah to use the miswak to clean your teeth. Performing wudu and ghusl are also key Muslim rituals, with wudu usually being made five times a day to keep oneself pure so that they may worship Allah.\\nYou should cut your nails once a week, preferably on Fridays.\\nNot shaving your pubic or armpit hair or not cutting your nails is permissible after 15 days; however, it is disliked after 40 days.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Follow proper toilet etiquette.\", \"描述\": \"There are many rules regarding the toilet in Islam. For example, you should not relieve yourself near flowing water; you should remain silent while on the toilet; you should not face or turn your back towards the Qibla; and you should enter the bathroom with the left leg and leave with the right.\\nBefore entering the toilet, say Allahumma innee aAAoothu bika minal-khubthi wal-khaba-ith (meaning \\\"O Allah. I seek refuge in You from the male or female evil and Jinns\\\")\\nAfter leaving the toilet, say \\\"Ghufranak\\\" (meaning \\\"I ask You (Allah) for forgiveness.\\\" — meaning for any sins performed while your body used the energy of food and drink, the remains thereof later converted to waste excreted.)\\nFor cleanliness, it is best to perform one of the following (ranked in the order of importance): wash with water (and optionally, soap after defecating), then tissue or stones.One should wipe thrice.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Keep the environment clean\", \"描述\": \"Cleanliness does not only mean keeping yourself clean, but also making sure your surroundings are clean. 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If it is inevitable (i.e. eating a lot because he likes eating), then a third for food, a third for drink, and third for his breath.\\\"\\nUsing medicine is also encouraged, as it is narrated that the Prophet said, \\\"Make use of medical treatment, for Allah has not made a disease without appointing a remedy for it, with the exception of one disease, namely old age.\\\" We should make sure that we keep ourselves healthy and that we do not destroy our insides by having poor lifestyles.\"}]}]}}",
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How to Be a Clean Person
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1. The Power of Washing
1-1. Wash your body daily.
Take a shower or a bath every day. Showering or bathing every day keeps you clean, removes dirt and allows you to use fragrant cleaning soaps or gels to add a freshness to your skin. Unscented soaps and cleansers are fine too. You are not a dirty person if you have no smell.
Clean all parts of your body with soap and a loofah, sponge, fennel or washcloth. Don't forget the parts of your body likely to harbour bacteria, such as armpits. Nobody wants to be around a stinky person and you may be judged as being generally dirty in mind, body and habit if you don't look after your personal hygiene.
1-2. Wash your face every day.
To present a clean persona, you need to wash your face not once, but two times a day. Morning and night are good times.
Wash makeup off your face at the end of the day.
1-3. Wash your hands as often as required.
Your hands, on average, touch over 2,000 things a day, which makes them very dirty. So, wash your hands before you eat, before you prepare food, after touching anything not clean, and whenever they are dirty. Washing your hands also helps gets the dirt out of your nails and off your hands, if you have lots of dirt on your hands than when you touch your face you may get your face dirty or get acne.
1-4. Brush your teeth
Brush to remove bacteria from your teeth and to avoid bad breath.
Brush for around three minutes at a time.
Use mouthwash and toothpaste to get rid of the plaque on your teeth. Use dental floss when required.
Visit a dentist every 6 months and get your teeth checked. If your dentist advises you see a dental hygienist, do so. He or she may also say you don't need to go as often as every six months.
1-5. Wash your hair
1-6. Wash your hair as many times a week as required.
Clean hair is easy to manage and doesn't look greasy. You can try washing it every other day if that works for you.Washing your hair upside down is great for your scalp and it brings all the oils in your hair together. Don't put in too much mousse or hairspray, because these products might damage your hair. In addition, if you use a blow dryer, straighter or curler, be sure to use heat protection products.
2. Personal Hygiene
2-1. Wash your clothes
Be sure your clothes are always clean and they always smell good. Also have clean, neat footwear too.
2-2. Shave
Shave, wax or use tweezers to remove hair if you think being hairless is clean. Neat facial or body hair is not unclean.
2-3. Cut your nails
Scrub the dirt out from underneath nails after doing activities that are dirty, such as cleaning, gardening or being out and about all day.
3. Internal Cleansing
3-1. Eat healthily.
Eating fruits and vegetables is a good way to stay clean within. Eat clean, be happy. This means having plenty of clean eating practices, such as clean eating recipes, raw food cuisine, salads and lean meats. Look online for "clean eating" recipes. Eat food in as close to its original state as possible that is not heavily processed. Keep your digestive system in good health, from your esophagus to your rectum.
3-2. Reduce your vice intakes.
For example, don't smoke and minimize your alcoholic intake. Avoid drugs and if you are too reliant on over-the-counter drugs, learn some other ways to counteract the pain or problems you are using them for.
3-3. Have healthy thinking habits.
Chase the negativity away with sensible thoughts, and acknowledge bad feelings but reply to them with self-compassion and positive thinking.
4. Everyday Cleanliness
4-1. Avoid being dirty!
Don't leave public spaces less clean than when you arrived. Don't litter, eat meals and snacks without making a mess, clean up after yourself and never, ever do anything dirty in a public bathroom.
4-2. Be organized
Being clean is nothing without being organized. A clean house means for clean thinking, not feeling cluttered mentally as well as physically.
4-3. Fold your clothes or hang them up on a hanger.
Never ever just throw your clothes anywhere, because it makes you look dirty and unclean when you wear them.
4-4. Keep your house clean and tidy.
Wash the floors and vacuum them regularly. Sweep up crumbs and dirt daily. Do a spring cleaning every now and then to get rid of major amounts of dirt in the house.
Develop a cleaning calendar to remind you when the house needs specific cleans. Living in a clean environment will help you to feel better.
4-5. Have good manners and avoid dirty habits.
The cleanest person can appear dirty if they pick their nose, make lewd comments, break wind a lot, burp, or do anything else commonly perceived as dirty.
Tips
Put Vaseline on your feet and put on socks for about an hour then take them off and you will have smooth soft feet, if you have crusty and dry feet.
Drink lots of water because water is a good aid to help your body do its own cleansing chores internally.
Wash your hands with soap and water before and after eating, when you come back home and after going to the toilet.
Warnings
Some germs are essential for building up your immunity. There is no need to go overboard. Remember that the more obsessed you are about killing germs with chemicals, the higher the potential for getting allergies or other disease through exposure to too many chemicals.
Avoid becoming an obsessive hand washer, that is unhealthy.
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Wash your hands as often as required.\\nYour hands, on average, touch over 2,000 things a day, which makes them very dirty. So, wash your hands before you eat, before you prepare food, after touching anything not clean, and whenever they are dirty. Washing your hands also helps gets the dirt out of your nails and off your hands, if you have lots of dirt on your hands than when you touch your face you may get your face dirty or get acne.\\n1-4. Brush your teeth\\nBrush to remove bacteria from your teeth and to avoid bad breath.\\nBrush for around three minutes at a time.\\nUse mouthwash and toothpaste to get rid of the plaque on your teeth. Use dental floss when required.\\nVisit a dentist every 6 months and get your teeth checked. If your dentist advises you see a dental hygienist, do so. He or she may also say you don't need to go as often as every six months.\\n1-5. Wash your hair\\n\\n1-6. Wash your hair as many times a week as required.\\nClean hair is easy to manage and doesn't look greasy. You can try washing it every other day if that works for you.Washing your hair upside down is great for your scalp and it brings all the oils in your hair together. Don't put in too much mousse or hairspray, because these products might damage your hair. In addition, if you use a blow dryer, straighter or curler, be sure to use heat protection products.\\n2. Personal Hygiene\\n2-1. Wash your clothes\\nBe sure your clothes are always clean and they always smell good. Also have clean, neat footwear too.\\n2-2. Shave\\nShave, wax or use tweezers to remove hair if you think being hairless is clean. Neat facial or body hair is not unclean.\\n2-3. Cut your nails\\nScrub the dirt out from underneath nails after doing activities that are dirty, such as cleaning, gardening or being out and about all day.\\n3. Internal Cleansing\\n3-1. Eat healthily.\\nEating fruits and vegetables is a good way to stay clean within. Eat clean, be happy. This means having plenty of clean eating practices, such as clean eating recipes, raw food cuisine, salads and lean meats. Look online for \\\"clean eating\\\" recipes. Eat food in as close to its original state as possible that is not heavily processed. Keep your digestive system in good health, from your esophagus to your rectum.\\n3-2. Reduce your vice intakes.\\nFor example, don't smoke and minimize your alcoholic intake. Avoid drugs and if you are too reliant on over-the-counter drugs, learn some other ways to counteract the pain or problems you are using them for.\\n3-3. Have healthy thinking habits.\\nChase the negativity away with sensible thoughts, and acknowledge bad feelings but reply to them with self-compassion and positive thinking.\\n4. Everyday Cleanliness\\n4-1. Avoid being dirty!\\nDon't leave public spaces less clean than when you arrived. Don't litter, eat meals and snacks without making a mess, clean up after yourself and never, ever do anything dirty in a public bathroom.\\n4-2. Be organized\\nBeing clean is nothing without being organized. A clean house means for clean thinking, not feeling cluttered mentally as well as physically.\\n4-3. Fold your clothes or hang them up on a hanger.\\nNever ever just throw your clothes anywhere, because it makes you look dirty and unclean when you wear them.\\n4-4. Keep your house clean and tidy.\\nWash the floors and vacuum them regularly. Sweep up crumbs and dirt daily. Do a spring cleaning every now and then to get rid of major amounts of dirt in the house.\\nDevelop a cleaning calendar to remind you when the house needs specific cleans. Living in a clean environment will help you to feel better.\\n4-5. Have good manners and avoid dirty habits.\\nThe cleanest person can appear dirty if they pick their nose, make lewd comments, break wind a lot, burp, or do anything else commonly perceived as dirty.\\nTips\\nPut Vaseline on your feet and put on socks for about an hour then take them off and you will have smooth soft feet, if you have crusty and dry feet.\\nDrink lots of water because water is a good aid to help your body do its own cleansing chores internally.\\nWash your hands with soap and water before and after eating, when you come back home and after going to the toilet.\\nWarnings\\nSome germs are essential for building up your immunity. There is no need to go overboard. Remember that the more obsessed you are about killing germs with chemicals, the higher the potential for getting allergies or other disease through exposure to too many chemicals.\\nAvoid becoming an obsessive hand washer, that is unhealthy.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A clean person appears diligent, pleasant and inoffensive to others. Cleanliness has come to be associated with godliness, because it suggests health, self-care and respect for others who come into contact with you. Being a clean person can enhance your life.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"The Power of Washing\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Wash your body daily.\", \"描述\": \"Take a shower or a bath every day. Showering or bathing every day keeps you clean, removes dirt and allows you to use fragrant cleaning soaps or gels to add a freshness to your skin. Unscented soaps and cleansers are fine too. 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You can try washing it every other day if that works for you.Washing your hair upside down is great for your scalp and it brings all the oils in your hair together. Don't put in too much mousse or hairspray, because these products might damage your hair. In addition, if you use a blow dryer, straighter or curler, be sure to use heat protection products.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Personal Hygiene\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Wash your clothes\", \"描述\": \"Be sure your clothes are always clean and they always smell good. Also have clean, neat footwear too.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Shave\", \"描述\": \"Shave, wax or use tweezers to remove hair if you think being hairless is clean. 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How to Be a Clown
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1. Getting Your Act Together
1-1. Get your props.
The materials you use depend on what kind of clown you want to be. However, there are some general props that are used by many clowns, such as balls for juggling, balloons for making balloon animals, magic trick props if you're doing tricks, and any other silly props you can think of. You can start off with the traditional tools and become more original as you discover who your inner clown really is.
Get your music together if it's part of your act.
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Part of your act may include putting face paint on children.
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If ventriloquism is part of your act, then get yourself a dummy.
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1-2. Get a clown costume.
You can buy authentic clown costumes from clown suppliers, but they can be a bit pricey, so you can start off with some colorful clothes, Halloween clown costumes, a colorful set of pajamas, or any funny-looking items you can find in a Goodwill or a thrift store. The expensive items can come later, once you are more established, so don't worry about those for now.
You'll need a clown costume along with a pair of big, floppy shoes. These shoes can actually be the most expensive part of a clown costume, so try starting off with size 22 Converse or other overly big shoes that you stuff with paper towels at first.
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1-3. Put your makeup on.
Contrary to popular belief, not all clowns wear face paint. Clowning is a style of comedy, not a style of makeup. Most clowns use greasepaint for their faces, since this kind doesn't wash off as easily as water-based paint or Halloween paint. If you do put on makeup, there are a variety of makeup styles you can try:
Whiteface clown paint. This is the traditional face paint that you may think of when you want to look like a clown.
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Auguste clown paint. This type of clown wears makeup that is a bit more flesh-toned.
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Tramp or hobo clown paint. This face paint is a bit darker and sooty looking, because this type of clown is down on his luck.
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Character clown paint. What kind of clown do you want to be? Mad scientist? Keystone cop clown? Your character will determine the color and style of makeup you use.
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1-4. Decide whether you want a sidekick.
Most clowns work for themselves, but some of them are part of a duo, a trio, or even an entertainment company. If you want a sidekick, or if you want to be a sidekick, then see if you can find a clown friend to buddy up with.
If you do, think about performance partner and what your relationships are to the audience. Thinking about status may be a good start.
1-5. Plan your show.
Get an idea for major comedy points you want to include, and work out the lead-up and other parts of the comedy. Thinking about problems that need addressing can be a good start e.g a hat that won't stay on your head , or a music stand that keeps falling over. A twist at the end may help, as can thinking about the rule of three (e.g mistake, mistake, success) in an unexpected way. It's almost like a play. If you're so minded, script your act before rehearsal! Here are some things clowns often include in their shows:
Making balloon animals
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Miming
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Juggling
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Storytelling
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Ventriloquism
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Jokes
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1-6. Add magic to your repertoire (optional).
If you want to be more of a magician-clown, then you'll need to work on learning some easy magic tricks and work your way up to being a magician all-star. Check out the variety of Magic articles on wikiHow, or take a course in magician training, if you're really serious about this aspect of the job.
Just remember that if you want to be a magician clown, you'll need more props, such as a top hat, wand, flashy handkerchief, and so on, and it could get costly.
1-7. Work on your Slapstick skills.
If you want to use slapstick - practice - there is almost nothing less funny than slapstick done badly. The best comedy will try to emulate some real life, such as talking about bosses, home life, and other things people can connect with. try to include jokes about things the likely audience will understand and appreciate!
1-8. Avoid clown clichés.
There is nothing a clown has to do. Unless you have a twist on the obvious, you should try to avoid the most obvious clowning tricks if you want to be successful. Here are some moves that you should generally stay away from:
Slipping on banana skins
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Falling over
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Chasing your sidekick around
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Getting soaked in buckets of water
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1-9. Rehearse your act.
Once you have your act together, you've scripted it and acquired the necessary tools, start practising. An ability to time the jokes just right, and the ability to make a smooth recovery if something goes wrong, is essential. First, try your act on your own and tape yourself to see how you can improve. Then, work your moves on a trusted friend. Open it up to your family or small group of children and see how you do.
2. Finding Work
2-1. Decide what kind of clown you want to be.
Before you can go off and try to find work, you need to figure out what type of clowning is best for your personality. This can determine how you alter your routine and what kind of clients you will work with. For example, you will do different tricks depending on whether you're working with hospital patients, children, or adults. You can do multiple kinds of clowning, of course, but you should always keep your audience in mind before you perform. Here are some places where you can work:
Children's parties
Adult parties
Children's hospitals
Circuses
2-2. Go to clown school.
Clown school used to be more popular, such as the Barnum and Bailey's clown school that was a big hit until the mid-90s, but you can still find some classes to take if you want to improve as a clown. Barnum and Baileys, for example, still offers a one-year clown school if you make the cut, though it does not have a permanent location.
2-3. Go to clown conferences and camps.
If you don't have time for clown school or if there aren't any clown schools in your area, you can still go to clown conventions to learn some tricks and moves from the great masters. The Clowns of America International web site, for example, advertises a clown camp in Orlando in 2014. Going to conventions is a great way to meet other clowns and to improve your skills.
2-4. Learn the tricks of the trade from other clowns.
The CAI website also offers information about Clown Alleys, or places where you can find and learn from groups of other clowns. You can contact these clowns and ask if they wouldn't mind having a student. The best way to learn, really, is to find a clown mentor that is right for you. Remember that, just because a clown is great doesn't mean that he or she is interested in the same kind of clowning that tickles your fancy.
2-5. Advertise like a professional.
If you want to make this a business, try to get some advertisements up around your local area. Contact your local newspaper and local venues to see if you can pay to put up posters and adverts. To really make it as a clown, you'll have to understand marketing and advertising techniques, especially on a local basis, to improve your chances of booking gigs and actually making a profit.
2-6. Start small.
Work a children's birthday party. See if a hospital needs a clown to fill a shift. Clown around at one of your friend's parties. Even working for a small audience will help you get your feet wet and to know what people do and do not like. This will also give you the experience to learn what to do for larger audiences, and to gain the confidence you need to truly succeed as a clown.
This is how you will begin to build a following. Even if you've only impressed the friend of a friend, that person may be able to get you your next gig.
3. Succeeding in Your Career
3-1. Consider joining a clown group or a union.
These groups or unions will give you more support, knowledge, and credibility and they are a great thing to add to your CV. If you know local clowns, ask them about alleys in your area, which can help you gain skills and network. On the national and international level, check out some of these prestigious organizations:
Clowns of America International
World Clown Association
Clowns Canada
Clowns International
3-2. Continue to improve your skills.
Hopefully by now you have put together an act, started on the ladder to stardom, and (if you're really committed) have made some cash as well. With show business, the sky really is the limit! Keep working on juggling, acting, telling stories, doing magic tricks, or whatever it is that makes your show special.
Don't get complacent. There is always room for improvement.
3-3. Continue to improve your engagement with the audience.
If you want to be the best clown ever, then you have to be able to know what your audience wants and how to give it to them. Here are some things you will have to work on to succeed in your career:
Understanding of audience expectation of your performance's quality and authenticity
Ability to speak in public without fear
Ability to make children feel comfortable
Performing in a way that ensures the safety of your audience
3-4. Consider auditioning for a circus.
If you want to be a circus clown, then you have to build up years of experience first. But if this is the route you want to take, then you have to apply to be a clown in the circus just as you would in any other job application; you'll need to include your résumé, videos of your tricks, and to audition for the role if you are asked to do so.
Auditioning for a circus, such as Cirque du Soleil or Barnum and Bailey's, is considered the big leagues of clowndom. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't work out right away.
If you're curious about what you need to apply to be a circus clown, check out some applications online.
If you're in the UK, then Chipperfields Circus will be the most elite place to try; in Germany, you can try Continental Circus Berlin.
Tips
Get into the spirit of being a clown! Be humorous, witty and above-all, kind and friendly.
If possible, try to get the audience to interact. Having a member of the audience playing a part in the comedy makes it easier for the crowd to relate to you.
Be over-dramatic! Be dramatic and pretend to be deeply hurt by petty insults, enormously delighted by silly jokes and awfully shocked when you fall over!
Warnings
Do not do any dangerous stunts such as going on a very high rope with an umbrella unless you are a trained stuntman
Know when to stop! Sometimes a child may be frightened or someone may be upset. Then, it's time to drop the act and try to help out like a normal human being. Remember to differentiate between the act and real life.
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Decide whether you want a sidekick.\\nMost clowns work for themselves, but some of them are part of a duo, a trio, or even an entertainment company. If you want a sidekick, or if you want to be a sidekick, then see if you can find a clown friend to buddy up with.\\nIf you do, think about performance partner and what your relationships are to the audience. Thinking about status may be a good start.\\n1-5. Plan your show.\\nGet an idea for major comedy points you want to include, and work out the lead-up and other parts of the comedy. Thinking about problems that need addressing can be a good start e.g a hat that won't stay on your head , or a music stand that keeps falling over. A twist at the end may help, as can thinking about the rule of three (e.g mistake, mistake, success) in an unexpected way. It's almost like a play. If you're so minded, script your act before rehearsal! 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Add magic to your repertoire (optional).\\nIf you want to be more of a magician-clown, then you'll need to work on learning some easy magic tricks and work your way up to being a magician all-star. Check out the variety of Magic articles on wikiHow, or take a course in magician training, if you're really serious about this aspect of the job.\\nJust remember that if you want to be a magician clown, you'll need more props, such as a top hat, wand, flashy handkerchief, and so on, and it could get costly.\\n1-7. Work on your Slapstick skills.\\nIf you want to use slapstick - practice - there is almost nothing less funny than slapstick done badly. The best comedy will try to emulate some real life, such as talking about bosses, home life, and other things people can connect with. try to include jokes about things the likely audience will understand and appreciate!\\n1-8. Avoid clown clichés.\\nThere is nothing a clown has to do. Unless you have a twist on the obvious, you should try to avoid the most obvious clowning tricks if you want to be successful. Here are some moves that you should generally stay away from:\\nSlipping on banana skins\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/86\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/86\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nFalling over\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/9\\\\/9e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/9\\\\/9e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nChasing your sidekick around\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/8e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/8e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nGetting soaked in buckets of water\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/89\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/89\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\n1-9. Rehearse your act.\\nOnce you have your act together, you've scripted it and acquired the necessary tools, start practising. An ability to time the jokes just right, and the ability to make a smooth recovery if something goes wrong, is essential. First, try your act on your own and tape yourself to see how you can improve. Then, work your moves on a trusted friend. Open it up to your family or small group of children and see how you do.\\n2. Finding Work\\n2-1. Decide what kind of clown you want to be.\\nBefore you can go off and try to find work, you need to figure out what type of clowning is best for your personality. This can determine how you alter your routine and what kind of clients you will work with. For example, you will do different tricks depending on whether you're working with hospital patients, children, or adults. You can do multiple kinds of clowning, of course, but you should always keep your audience in mind before you perform. Here are some places where you can work:\\nChildren's parties\\nAdult parties\\nChildren's hospitals\\nCircuses\\n2-2. Go to clown school.\\nClown school used to be more popular, such as the Barnum and Bailey's clown school that was a big hit until the mid-90s, but you can still find some classes to take if you want to improve as a clown. Barnum and Baileys, for example, still offers a one-year clown school if you make the cut, though it does not have a permanent location.\\n2-3. Go to clown conferences and camps.\\nIf you don't have time for clown school or if there aren't any clown schools in your area, you can still go to clown conventions to learn some tricks and moves from the great masters. The Clowns of America International web site, for example, advertises a clown camp in Orlando in 2014. Going to conventions is a great way to meet other clowns and to improve your skills.\\n2-4. Learn the tricks of the trade from other clowns.\\nThe CAI website also offers information about Clown Alleys, or places where you can find and learn from groups of other clowns. You can contact these clowns and ask if they wouldn't mind having a student. The best way to learn, really, is to find a clown mentor that is right for you. Remember that, just because a clown is great doesn't mean that he or she is interested in the same kind of clowning that tickles your fancy.\\n2-5. Advertise like a professional.\\nIf you want to make this a business, try to get some advertisements up around your local area. Contact your local newspaper and local venues to see if you can pay to put up posters and adverts. To really make it as a clown, you'll have to understand marketing and advertising techniques, especially on a local basis, to improve your chances of booking gigs and actually making a profit.\\n2-6. Start small.\\nWork a children's birthday party. See if a hospital needs a clown to fill a shift. Clown around at one of your friend's parties. Even working for a small audience will help you get your feet wet and to know what people do and do not like. This will also give you the experience to learn what to do for larger audiences, and to gain the confidence you need to truly succeed as a clown.\\nThis is how you will begin to build a following. Even if you've only impressed the friend of a friend, that person may be able to get you your next gig.\\n3. Succeeding in Your Career\\n3-1. Consider joining a clown group or a union.\\nThese groups or unions will give you more support, knowledge, and credibility and they are a great thing to add to your CV. If you know local clowns, ask them about alleys in your area, which can help you gain skills and network. On the national and international level, check out some of these prestigious organizations:\\nClowns of America International\\nWorld Clown Association\\nClowns Canada\\nClowns International\\n3-2. Continue to improve your skills.\\nHopefully by now you have put together an act, started on the ladder to stardom, and (if you're really committed) have made some cash as well. With show business, the sky really is the limit! Keep working on juggling, acting, telling stories, doing magic tricks, or whatever it is that makes your show special.\\nDon't get complacent. There is always room for improvement.\\n3-3. Continue to improve your engagement with the audience.\\nIf you want to be the best clown ever, then you have to be able to know what your audience wants and how to give it to them. Here are some things you will have to work on to succeed in your career:\\nUnderstanding of audience expectation of your performance's quality and authenticity\\nAbility to speak in public without fear\\nAbility to make children feel comfortable\\nPerforming in a way that ensures the safety of your audience\\n3-4. Consider auditioning for a circus.\\nIf you want to be a circus clown, then you have to build up years of experience first. But if this is the route you want to take, then you have to apply to be a clown in the circus just as you would in any other job application; you'll need to include your résumé, videos of your tricks, and to audition for the role if you are asked to do so.\\nAuditioning for a circus, such as Cirque du Soleil or Barnum and Bailey's, is considered the big leagues of clowndom. Don't get discouraged if it doesn't work out right away.\\nIf you're curious about what you need to apply to be a circus clown, check out some applications online.\\nIf you're in the UK, then Chipperfields Circus will be the most elite place to try; in Germany, you can try Continental Circus Berlin.\\nTips\\nGet into the spirit of being a clown! Be humorous, witty and above-all, kind and friendly.\\nIf possible, try to get the audience to interact. Having a member of the audience playing a part in the comedy makes it easier for the crowd to relate to you.\\nBe over-dramatic! Be dramatic and pretend to be deeply hurt by petty insults, enormously delighted by silly jokes and awfully shocked when you fall over!\\nWarnings\\nDo not do any dangerous stunts such as going on a very high rope with an umbrella unless you are a trained stuntman\\nKnow when to stop! Sometimes a child may be frightened or someone may be upset. 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If you want a sidekick, or if you want to be a sidekick, then see if you can find a clown friend to buddy up with.\\nIf you do, think about performance partner and what your relationships are to the audience. Thinking about status may be a good start.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Plan your show.\", \"描述\": \"Get an idea for major comedy points you want to include, and work out the lead-up and other parts of the comedy. Thinking about problems that need addressing can be a good start e.g a hat that won't stay on your head , or a music stand that keeps falling over. A twist at the end may help, as can thinking about the rule of three (e.g mistake, mistake, success) in an unexpected way. It's almost like a play. If you're so minded, script your act before rehearsal! 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tricks and work your way up to being a magician all-star. Check out the variety of Magic articles on wikiHow, or take a course in magician training, if you're really serious about this aspect of the job.\\nJust remember that if you want to be a magician clown, you'll need more props, such as a top hat, wand, flashy handkerchief, and so on, and it could get costly.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Work on your Slapstick skills.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to use slapstick - practice - there is almost nothing less funny than slapstick done badly. The best comedy will try to emulate some real life, such as talking about bosses, home life, and other things people can connect with. try to include jokes about things the likely audience will understand and appreciate!\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Avoid clown clichés.\", \"描述\": \"There is nothing a clown has to do. Unless you have a twist on the obvious, you should try to avoid the most obvious clowning tricks if you want to be successful. Here are some moves that you should generally stay away from:\\nSlipping on banana skins\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/86\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/86\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nFalling over\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/9\\\\/9e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/9\\\\/9e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nChasing your sidekick around\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/8e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/8e\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nGetting soaked in buckets of water\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/89\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/89\\\\/Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\\/aid473779-v4-728px-Be-a-Clown-Step-8Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Rehearse your act.\", \"描述\": \"Once you have your act together, you've scripted it and acquired the necessary tools, start practising. An ability to time the jokes just right, and the ability to make a smooth recovery if something goes wrong, is essential. First, try your act on your own and tape yourself to see how you can improve. Then, work your moves on a trusted friend. Open it up to your family or small group of children and see how you do.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Finding Work\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Decide what kind of clown you want to be.\", \"描述\": \"Before you can go off and try to find work, you need to figure out what type of clowning is best for your personality. This can determine how you alter your routine and what kind of clients you will work with. For example, you will do different tricks depending on whether you're working with hospital patients, children, or adults. You can do multiple kinds of clowning, of course, but you should always keep your audience in mind before you perform. Here are some places where you can work:\\nChildren's parties\\nAdult parties\\nChildren's hospitals\\nCircuses\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Go to clown school.\", \"描述\": \"Clown school used to be more popular, such as the Barnum and Bailey's clown school that was a big hit until the mid-90s, but you can still find some classes to take if you want to improve as a clown. Barnum and Baileys, for example, still offers a one-year clown school if you make the cut, though it does not have a permanent location.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Go to clown conferences and camps.\", \"描述\": \"If you don't have time for clown school or if there aren't any clown schools in your area, you can still go to clown conventions to learn some tricks and moves from the great masters. The Clowns of America International web site, for example, advertises a clown camp in Orlando in 2014. 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To really make it as a clown, you'll have to understand marketing and advertising techniques, especially on a local basis, to improve your chances of booking gigs and actually making a profit.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Start small.\", \"描述\": \"Work a children's birthday party. See if a hospital needs a clown to fill a shift. Clown around at one of your friend's parties. Even working for a small audience will help you get your feet wet and to know what people do and do not like. This will also give you the experience to learn what to do for larger audiences, and to gain the confidence you need to truly succeed as a clown.\\nThis is how you will begin to build a following. 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Keep working on juggling, acting, telling stories, doing magic tricks, or whatever it is that makes your show special.\\nDon't get complacent. There is always room for improvement.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Continue to improve your engagement with the audience.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to be the best clown ever, then you have to be able to know what your audience wants and how to give it to them. Here are some things you will have to work on to succeed in your career:\\nUnderstanding of audience expectation of your performance's quality and authenticity\\nAbility to speak in public without fear\\nAbility to make children feel comfortable\\nPerforming in a way that ensures the safety of your audience\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Consider auditioning for a circus.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to be a circus clown, then you have to build up years of experience first. 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1. Do improv to help your comedic timing.
Improv training develops your humor in a fast-paced environment.
Look online or at comedy clubs in your area to see if they offer improv courses. Sign up for a class and work with the other students in the class to do funny scenes together. Eventually, you can incorporate some of the random humor of improv into your comedy routine, or just use the skills you develop to help you be more nimble with your humor based on the situation.
If you can’t find any improv classes in your area, you may be able to take improv clinics online.
Improv can also help you get better at listening and working with peers.
2. Study the joke styles of other comedians.
Use the stuff you like as inspiration, not as something to copy.
Pick out a wide range of comedians, from all-time legends to unheralded locals, and listen carefully to their routines. Pay attention to what they’re telling jokes about and how they present them. For example, do they tell lots of traditional one-liners, or do they use more of a storytelling style? Or do they have some other unique comedy style?
If you want to try one-liner jokes, listen to comedians like Mitch Hedberg, Demetri Martin, or Steven Wright. If you want to tell jokes that are more like a story, try listening to Mike Birbiglia, Aziz Ansari, Brian Regan, or John Mulaney.
Get inspired by their joke-telling styles—but never copy their actual jokes!
3. Observe the stage presence of other comics as well.
Focus on how they manage the stage as they deliver jokes.
While checking out the joke-telling styles of other comedians, also be sure to notice details like their tone of voice and the speed of their delivery. Look at how they move around the stage, make eye contact, and interact with the crowd. Do they take charge of the stage and the crowd, or do they seem to let the crowd dictate their style?Remember that your goal is to get ideas and inspiration, not to try to copy someone else’s unique style. Richard Pryor might be your favorite comedian of all time, for instance, but that doesn’t mean you should try to be Richard Pryor. Instead, take cues from his style that you can mesh with your own unique comedic voice and stage presence.
4. Play up your funny side.
Work on making people laugh in everyday situations.
First and foremost, a comedian needs to make their audience laugh! Practice exaggerating things and changing the tone of your voice while you speak so you sound funnier. Watch comedy movies and read humorous books so you can develop a sense of what you think is funny. Try goofing around with friends or telling them jokes to see if you can make them crack up.
Here’s an added bonus: getting in touch with your funny side can have health benefits! Having a good sense of humor can help you deal with feelings of tension, sadness, and frustration.
5. Get comfortable in front of crowds.
Take steps to manage anxiety so you can focus on being funny.
Comedians make a name for themselves by performing in front of all kinds of crowds, so you need to feel comfortable getting up on any stage at any time. Before stepping on stage, close your eyes, relax your muscles, and take a few deep breaths to calm yourself. It also helps to pick out a few “friendly faces”—people in the audience who naturally put you at ease—to look towards when you’re feeling nervous.
Don’t discount another key way to reduce anxiety: prepare and practice a lot so you know your material backward and forwards.
While some comedians use their apparent (or even real) discomfort onstage as part of their persona, it’s typically much easier to get people to laugh when you look and act at ease on stage.
6. Learn to deal with failure.
It’s just reality—jokes will fall flat, you’ll bomb on stage, and so on.
Doing comedy is a blast when everyone’s laughing, but you also have to accept that failure and rejection are commonplace when you’re a comedian. Even the funniest, most successful, and most famous comedians have many tales of bad jokes, awful sets, and canceled gigs. Like them, instead of seeing each setback as a sign that you should give up, view it as an opportunity to learn and improve so you can be better the next time around.
For example, say you tell a joke that you’re sure is a winner and yet it gets zero laughs during your set. Instead of tossing the joke aside, think about ways you can rework it. Sometimes just a little bit of rephrasing or adjustment in your delivery can make a big difference.
So how do you know when you’ve experienced so much failure and rejection that it really is a sign that you aren’t cut out for comedy? That’s all up to you. As long as you still feel the drive to keep at it, you should keep at it!
7. Craft a comedy persona that suits you.
Be yourself on stage, but make it an exaggerated version of yourself.
While some comedians create stage characters that are nothing like them in real life, most elevate certain qualities of their true selves to ramp up the humor. Start developing your stage persona by brainstorming words that you would use to describe yourself, such as shy, angry, or energetic. Take those qualities and try to incorporate them into your jokes and style.
For example, if you tend to get easily agitated, you might ramp this up and be an “angry” comic in the vein of Lewis Black.
Or, if you’re naturally energetic and excitable, you might channel this into your stage presence and delivery style like Eddie Murphy in his younger days.
8. Brainstorm joke ideas constantly.
Keep a notepad or digital device handy to jot down joke ideas.
Joke topics are endless—the key part is putting your own personal and funny spin on them. Keep a running list of things you find funny—mundane everyday items, relationships, workplace drudgery, political shenanigans, and so on. Use your list of joke topics to develop new bits and refine your existing stuff.
If you want to do topical humor, watch the news to stay up to date with current events.
Don’t consider anything “off-limits” at this point. Once you move from brainstorming joke topics to creating structured jokes, you may decide that some of the material doesn’t suit your comedy persona or goals.
9. Add your own life experiences to your joke ideas.
Personalizing your joke ideas helps you shape them into great jokes.
Turning funny ideas into funny jokes is essential work for a comedian—but that doesn't mean it's easy work! Expect to go through lots of trial and error until you craft the best possible joke (or series of jokes) out of one of your joke topic ideas. To help yourself out, try personalizing the topic—use your own life experiences related to the topic to help build out the details of the joke.
For example, if your topic is about going on a date, you might write down one of your own awkward dating experiences in the style of a joke.
10. Build each joke to its punchline.
You don’t have to use a rigid structure, but your jokes do need a payoff.
In a classic joke structure, 2 or 3 setup sentences might lead to a 1 or 2 sentence punchline, all in 250 words or less. This kind of “setup, punchline, laugh, repeat” format (think of Rodney Dangerfield with his famous “no respect” persona) may not suit your comedy style, but make sure your jokes build up to a laugh-inducing zinger. The punchline needs to make sense, so the audience doesn’t get confused, but also be surprising enough that the audience can’t guess what you’re going to say.
Write multiple punchlines for each joke, then decide which one works best.
One-liners have the set-up and punchline in rapid succession, but they can be more difficult to write. For example, take this famous one-liner from Mitch Hedberg: “I like rice. Rice is great when you're hungry and you want 2,000 of something.”
Sometimes you might find it easier to write the punchline before figuring out the setup.
11. Connect several jokes into a bit.
Set up a killer joke with smaller jokes that lead up to it.
The setup for each bit (a series of related jokes) includes the introduction to the topic you’re riffing on and a few shorter jokes. Introduce the topic in just enough detail so the audience can easily follow along, but don’t give too much backstory or the setup will feel long-winded. Pull together 2 or 3 jokes that tie into the topic and naturally lead into the strongest joke in the bit. Assemble 5 to 10 bits and you’ll have yourself a solid 5-minute standup comedy set!
For example, if your topic is about online dating, this might be your setup: “I downloaded a dating app to give it a try and I didn’t get a single match for 2 months.” From there, you might tell a joke about making a profile, followed by one about getting your first match, and finish off with one about going on a date with your match.
12. Create a 5-minute set to start out.
This is the standard length for a standup set at most clubs.
To create your 5-minute set, put together 2 or 3 of your high-quality bits (each with 3 or 4 jokes) into a “chunk,” then assemble 2 or 3 chunks to fill out your 5 minutes. End the set with the joke you think will get the biggest laugh from your audience. Outline the set on a piece of paper so you can memorize the order.
For example, your first chunk might start with a bit about your frustrations with online dating, move on to a bit about how it was easier to date before cell phones, and finish with a bit on how you ended up in your current relationship. Your subsequent bits might continue on related themes or transition into different territory.
If you’re having difficulty creating smooth transitions between your bits and/or chunks, try throwing in a few unrelated one-liners as transition markers.
Over time, assemble multiple 5-minute sets that you can put together if you get a 10, 30, or even 60-minute time slot.
13. Practice in front of friends and family.
Take note of their reactions and ask for honest feedback.
Before you get on stage in front of an audience, ask your close friends and family to listen to your set. As you perform your jokes, watch how they react to the punchlines and see how often they laugh. When you finish the set, ask them to be honest about how they felt about your jokes. Write down their feedback and use it to help you edit your jokes so they're funnier.
If your jokes don’t land while you’re practicing, try revising your word choice to see if your jokes flow better.
If you don’t feel comfortable performing in front of a group of people right away, record yourself as you perform your set in front of a mirror. That way, you can watch the video to see your mannerisms and delivery.
14. Perform at open mic nights.
Do your set, evaluate the response, tweak things, and try again!
Find comedy clubs in your area that offer open mic nights and sign up for spots at multiple venues if possible. In addition to perfecting your set, focus on your delivery style. Don’t rush through your material. Take brief pauses so people have time to laugh. When you’re finished, thank the audience and say your name so people remember you better.
Record your performances so you can look back at your sets to see how they went. You may also be able to upload clips from your set to share with others.
Keep telling jokes even if your set isn’t going as well as you'd like. You’ll learn as much from the nights you bomb as from the nights you nail it!
Find a comedy club that has a good crowd and that you enjoy performing at to set as a “home base” to try new material. You may need to try multiple clubs before finding one you like.
15. Network with other comedians.
Share ideas, info on gigs, and feedback on your sets.
Other comedians may know about new clubs where you can perform your material. They’re also a great source of honest feedback! Each night you’re doing a set, talk to the other comedians about their sets and what jokes you really enjoyed. Ask them how they felt about your set and what worked for them.
If you’re performing before a headliner or a comedian with more notoriety than you, ask them about their “home base” clubs and what the submission process is like. They may be able to put in a good word for you if they think you’d be able to perform well there.
Don’t arrive just before your set and leave right after—watch, listen, learn, and share with the other comedians.
16. Increase your social media presence.
Clubs are no longer the only place to get noticed as a comic.
These days, many comedians build their reputations at least in part on social media sites like Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. Create accounts for yourself and post funny bits or videos throughout the week so you can build a following. If you have gigs coming up, post the dates and times so your online fans can come watch you in person.
Reply to other comedians and verified accounts so their followers can see your posts as well.
Tips
Always maintain professional relationships with club owners and other comedians so you don’t lose any opportunities to perform.
Have twice the number of jokes you think you need for a set just in case you accidentally rush through them.
Warnings
Never plagiarize or steal material from another comedian, or else you won’t get booked to perform.
Don’t interact with people that try to heckle or interrupt you during your set.
There will be many times when audiences don’t laugh or think that you’re funny. Know that each performance will be different and don’t dwell on nights that don’t go as expected.
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For example, do they tell lots of traditional one-liners, or do they use more of a storytelling style? Or do they have some other unique comedy style?\\nIf you want to try one-liner jokes, listen to comedians like Mitch Hedberg, Demetri Martin, or Steven Wright. If you want to tell jokes that are more like a story, try listening to Mike Birbiglia, Aziz Ansari, Brian Regan, or John Mulaney.\\nGet inspired by their joke-telling styles—but never copy their actual jokes!\\n3. Observe the stage presence of other comics as well.\\nFocus on how they manage the stage as they deliver jokes.\\nWhile checking out the joke-telling styles of other comedians, also be sure to notice details like their tone of voice and the speed of their delivery. Look at how they move around the stage, make eye contact, and interact with the crowd. Do they take charge of the stage and the crowd, or do they seem to let the crowd dictate their style?Remember that your goal is to get ideas and inspiration, not to try to copy someone else’s unique style. Richard Pryor might be your favorite comedian of all time, for instance, but that doesn’t mean you should try to be Richard Pryor. Instead, take cues from his style that you can mesh with your own unique comedic voice and stage presence.\\n4. Play up your funny side.\\nWork on making people laugh in everyday situations.\\nFirst and foremost, a comedian needs to make their audience laugh! Practice exaggerating things and changing the tone of your voice while you speak so you sound funnier. Watch comedy movies and read humorous books so you can develop a sense of what you think is funny. Try goofing around with friends or telling them jokes to see if you can make them crack up.\\nHere’s an added bonus: getting in touch with your funny side can have health benefits! Having a good sense of humor can help you deal with feelings of tension, sadness, and frustration.\\n5. Get comfortable in front of crowds.\\nTake steps to manage anxiety so you can focus on being funny.\\nComedians make a name for themselves by performing in front of all kinds of crowds, so you need to feel comfortable getting up on any stage at any time. Before stepping on stage, close your eyes, relax your muscles, and take a few deep breaths to calm yourself. It also helps to pick out a few “friendly faces”—people in the audience who naturally put you at ease—to look towards when you’re feeling nervous.\\nDon’t discount another key way to reduce anxiety: prepare and practice a lot so you know your material backward and forwards.\\nWhile some comedians use their apparent (or even real) discomfort onstage as part of their persona, it’s typically much easier to get people to laugh when you look and act at ease on stage.\\n6. Learn to deal with failure.\\nIt’s just reality—jokes will fall flat, you’ll bomb on stage, and so on.\\nDoing comedy is a blast when everyone’s laughing, but you also have to accept that failure and rejection are commonplace when you’re a comedian. Even the funniest, most successful, and most famous comedians have many tales of bad jokes, awful sets, and canceled gigs. Like them, instead of seeing each setback as a sign that you should give up, view it as an opportunity to learn and improve so you can be better the next time around.\\nFor example, say you tell a joke that you’re sure is a winner and yet it gets zero laughs during your set. Instead of tossing the joke aside, think about ways you can rework it. Sometimes just a little bit of rephrasing or adjustment in your delivery can make a big difference.\\nSo how do you know when you’ve experienced so much failure and rejection that it really is a sign that you aren’t cut out for comedy? That’s all up to you. As long as you still feel the drive to keep at it, you should keep at it!\\n7. Craft a comedy persona that suits you.\\nBe yourself on stage, but make it an exaggerated version of yourself.\\nWhile some comedians create stage characters that are nothing like them in real life, most elevate certain qualities of their true selves to ramp up the humor. Start developing your stage persona by brainstorming words that you would use to describe yourself, such as shy, angry, or energetic. Take those qualities and try to incorporate them into your jokes and style.\\nFor example, if you tend to get easily agitated, you might ramp this up and be an “angry” comic in the vein of Lewis Black.\\nOr, if you’re naturally energetic and excitable, you might channel this into your stage presence and delivery style like Eddie Murphy in his younger days.\\n8. Brainstorm joke ideas constantly.\\nKeep a notepad or digital device handy to jot down joke ideas.\\nJoke topics are endless—the key part is putting your own personal and funny spin on them. Keep a running list of things you find funny—mundane everyday items, relationships, workplace drudgery, political shenanigans, and so on. Use your list of joke topics to develop new bits and refine your existing stuff.\\nIf you want to do topical humor, watch the news to stay up to date with current events.\\nDon’t consider anything “off-limits” at this point. Once you move from brainstorming joke topics to creating structured jokes, you may decide that some of the material doesn’t suit your comedy persona or goals.\\n9. Add your own life experiences to your joke ideas.\\nPersonalizing your joke ideas helps you shape them into great jokes.\\nTurning funny ideas into funny jokes is essential work for a comedian—but that doesn't mean it's easy work! Expect to go through lots of trial and error until you craft the best possible joke (or series of jokes) out of one of your joke topic ideas. To help yourself out, try personalizing the topic—use your own life experiences related to the topic to help build out the details of the joke.\\nFor example, if your topic is about going on a date, you might write down one of your own awkward dating experiences in the style of a joke.\\n10. Build each joke to its punchline.\\nYou don’t have to use a rigid structure, but your jokes do need a payoff.\\nIn a classic joke structure, 2 or 3 setup sentences might lead to a 1 or 2 sentence punchline, all in 250 words or less. This kind of “setup, punchline, laugh, repeat” format (think of Rodney Dangerfield with his famous “no respect” persona) may not suit your comedy style, but make sure your jokes build up to a laugh-inducing zinger. The punchline needs to make sense, so the audience doesn’t get confused, but also be surprising enough that the audience can’t guess what you’re going to say.\\nWrite multiple punchlines for each joke, then decide which one works best.\\nOne-liners have the set-up and punchline in rapid succession, but they can be more difficult to write. For example, take this famous one-liner from Mitch Hedberg: “I like rice. Rice is great when you're hungry and you want 2,000 of something.”\\nSometimes you might find it easier to write the punchline before figuring out the setup.\\n11. Connect several jokes into a bit.\\nSet up a killer joke with smaller jokes that lead up to it.\\nThe setup for each bit (a series of related jokes) includes the introduction to the topic you’re riffing on and a few shorter jokes. Introduce the topic in just enough detail so the audience can easily follow along, but don’t give too much backstory or the setup will feel long-winded. Pull together 2 or 3 jokes that tie into the topic and naturally lead into the strongest joke in the bit. Assemble 5 to 10 bits and you’ll have yourself a solid 5-minute standup comedy set!\\nFor example, if your topic is about online dating, this might be your setup: “I downloaded a dating app to give it a try and I didn’t get a single match for 2 months.” From there, you might tell a joke about making a profile, followed by one about getting your first match, and finish off with one about going on a date with your match.\\n12. Create a 5-minute set to start out.\\nThis is the standard length for a standup set at most clubs.\\nTo create your 5-minute set, put together 2 or 3 of your high-quality bits (each with 3 or 4 jokes) into a “chunk,” then assemble 2 or 3 chunks to fill out your 5 minutes. End the set with the joke you think will get the biggest laugh from your audience. Outline the set on a piece of paper so you can memorize the order.\\nFor example, your first chunk might start with a bit about your frustrations with online dating, move on to a bit about how it was easier to date before cell phones, and finish with a bit on how you ended up in your current relationship. Your subsequent bits might continue on related themes or transition into different territory.\\nIf you’re having difficulty creating smooth transitions between your bits and/or chunks, try throwing in a few unrelated one-liners as transition markers.\\nOver time, assemble multiple 5-minute sets that you can put together if you get a 10, 30, or even 60-minute time slot.\\n13. Practice in front of friends and family.\\nTake note of their reactions and ask for honest feedback.\\nBefore you get on stage in front of an audience, ask your close friends and family to listen to your set. As you perform your jokes, watch how they react to the punchlines and see how often they laugh. When you finish the set, ask them to be honest about how they felt about your jokes. Write down their feedback and use it to help you edit your jokes so they're funnier.\\nIf your jokes don’t land while you’re practicing, try revising your word choice to see if your jokes flow better.\\nIf you don’t feel comfortable performing in front of a group of people right away, record yourself as you perform your set in front of a mirror. That way, you can watch the video to see your mannerisms and delivery.\\n14. Perform at open mic nights.\\nDo your set, evaluate the response, tweak things, and try again!\\nFind comedy clubs in your area that offer open mic nights and sign up for spots at multiple venues if possible. In addition to perfecting your set, focus on your delivery style. Don’t rush through your material. Take brief pauses so people have time to laugh. When you’re finished, thank the audience and say your name so people remember you better.\\nRecord your performances so you can look back at your sets to see how they went. You may also be able to upload clips from your set to share with others.\\nKeep telling jokes even if your set isn’t going as well as you'd like. You’ll learn as much from the nights you bomb as from the nights you nail it!\\nFind a comedy club that has a good crowd and that you enjoy performing at to set as a “home base” to try new material. You may need to try multiple clubs before finding one you like.\\n15. Network with other comedians.\\nShare ideas, info on gigs, and feedback on your sets.\\nOther comedians may know about new clubs where you can perform your material. They’re also a great source of honest feedback! Each night you’re doing a set, talk to the other comedians about their sets and what jokes you really enjoyed. Ask them how they felt about your set and what worked for them.\\nIf you’re performing before a headliner or a comedian with more notoriety than you, ask them about their “home base” clubs and what the submission process is like. They may be able to put in a good word for you if they think you’d be able to perform well there.\\nDon’t arrive just before your set and leave right after—watch, listen, learn, and share with the other comedians.\\n16. Increase your social media presence.\\nClubs are no longer the only place to get noticed as a comic.\\nThese days, many comedians build their reputations at least in part on social media sites like Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. Create accounts for yourself and post funny bits or videos throughout the week so you can build a following. If you have gigs coming up, post the dates and times so your online fans can come watch you in person.\\nReply to other comedians and verified accounts so their followers can see your posts as well.\\nTips\\nAlways maintain professional relationships with club owners and other comedians so you don’t lose any opportunities to perform.\\nHave twice the number of jokes you think you need for a set just in case you accidentally rush through them.\\nWarnings\\nNever plagiarize or steal material from another comedian, or else you won’t get booked to perform.\\nDon’t interact with people that try to heckle or interrupt you during your set.\\nThere will be many times when audiences don’t laugh or think that you’re funny. Know that each performance will be different and don’t dwell on nights that don’t go as expected.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Anyone can try their hand at doing comedy, but being a comedian takes perseverance, hard work, and—let’s not forget—a consistent ability to make people laugh. This article lists helpful advice on becoming a comedian, starting with tips on developing your comedic style and stage persona, moving on to pointers on coming up with great jokes, and finishing with guidance on getting comedy gigs. With a little luck and lots of laughs, you may be able to turn telling jokes into a career!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Do improv to help your comedic timing.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Improv training develops your humor in a fast-paced environment.\", \"描述\": \"Look online or at comedy clubs in your area to see if they offer improv courses. Sign up for a class and work with the other students in the class to do funny scenes together. Eventually, you can incorporate some of the random humor of improv into your comedy routine, or just use the skills you develop to help you be more nimble with your humor based on the situation.\\nIf you can’t find any improv classes in your area, you may be able to take improv clinics online.\\nImprov can also help you get better at listening and working with peers.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Study the joke styles of other comedians.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Use the stuff you like as inspiration, not as something to copy.\", \"描述\": \"Pick out a wide range of comedians, from all-time legends to unheralded locals, and listen carefully to their routines. Pay attention to what they’re telling jokes about and how they present them. For example, do they tell lots of traditional one-liners, or do they use more of a storytelling style? Or do they have some other unique comedy style?\\nIf you want to try one-liner jokes, listen to comedians like Mitch Hedberg, Demetri Martin, or Steven Wright. If you want to tell jokes that are more like a story, try listening to Mike Birbiglia, Aziz Ansari, Brian Regan, or John Mulaney.\\nGet inspired by their joke-telling styles—but never copy their actual jokes!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Observe the stage presence of other comics as well.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Focus on how they manage the stage as they deliver jokes.\", \"描述\": \"While checking out the joke-telling styles of other comedians, also be sure to notice details like their tone of voice and the speed of their delivery. Look at how they move around the stage, make eye contact, and interact with the crowd. Do they take charge of the stage and the crowd, or do they seem to let the crowd dictate their style?Remember that your goal is to get ideas and inspiration, not to try to copy someone else’s unique style. Richard Pryor might be your favorite comedian of all time, for instance, but that doesn’t mean you should try to be Richard Pryor. Instead, take cues from his style that you can mesh with your own unique comedic voice and stage presence.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Play up your funny side.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Work on making people laugh in everyday situations.\", \"描述\": \"First and foremost, a comedian needs to make their audience laugh! Practice exaggerating things and changing the tone of your voice while you speak so you sound funnier. Watch comedy movies and read humorous books so you can develop a sense of what you think is funny. Try goofing around with friends or telling them jokes to see if you can make them crack up.\\nHere’s an added bonus: getting in touch with your funny side can have health benefits! Having a good sense of humor can help you deal with feelings of tension, sadness, and frustration.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Get comfortable in front of crowds.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take steps to manage anxiety so you can focus on being funny.\", \"描述\": \"Comedians make a name for themselves by performing in front of all kinds of crowds, so you need to feel comfortable getting up on any stage at any time. Before stepping on stage, close your eyes, relax your muscles, and take a few deep breaths to calm yourself. It also helps to pick out a few “friendly faces”—people in the audience who naturally put you at ease—to look towards when you’re feeling nervous.\\nDon’t discount another key way to reduce anxiety: prepare and practice a lot so you know your material backward and forwards.\\nWhile some comedians use their apparent (or even real) discomfort onstage as part of their persona, it’s typically much easier to get people to laugh when you look and act at ease on stage.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Learn to deal with failure.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"It’s just reality—jokes will fall flat, you’ll bomb on stage, and so on.\", \"描述\": \"Doing comedy is a blast when everyone’s laughing, but you also have to accept that failure and rejection are commonplace when you’re a comedian. Even the funniest, most successful, and most famous comedians have many tales of bad jokes, awful sets, and canceled gigs. Like them, instead of seeing each setback as a sign that you should give up, view it as an opportunity to learn and improve so you can be better the next time around.\\nFor example, say you tell a joke that you’re sure is a winner and yet it gets zero laughs during your set. Instead of tossing the joke aside, think about ways you can rework it. Sometimes just a little bit of rephrasing or adjustment in your delivery can make a big difference.\\nSo how do you know when you’ve experienced so much failure and rejection that it really is a sign that you aren’t cut out for comedy? That’s all up to you. As long as you still feel the drive to keep at it, you should keep at it!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Craft a comedy persona that suits you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be yourself on stage, but make it an exaggerated version of yourself.\", \"描述\": \"While some comedians create stage characters that are nothing like them in real life, most elevate certain qualities of their true selves to ramp up the humor. Start developing your stage persona by brainstorming words that you would use to describe yourself, such as shy, angry, or energetic. Take those qualities and try to incorporate them into your jokes and style.\\nFor example, if you tend to get easily agitated, you might ramp this up and be an “angry” comic in the vein of Lewis Black.\\nOr, if you’re naturally energetic and excitable, you might channel this into your stage presence and delivery style like Eddie Murphy in his younger days.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Brainstorm joke ideas constantly.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep a notepad or digital device handy to jot down joke ideas.\", \"描述\": \"Joke topics are endless—the key part is putting your own personal and funny spin on them. Keep a running list of things you find funny—mundane everyday items, relationships, workplace drudgery, political shenanigans, and so on. Use your list of joke topics to develop new bits and refine your existing stuff.\\nIf you want to do topical humor, watch the news to stay up to date with current events.\\nDon’t consider anything “off-limits” at this point. Once you move from brainstorming joke topics to creating structured jokes, you may decide that some of the material doesn’t suit your comedy persona or goals.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Add your own life experiences to your joke ideas.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Personalizing your joke ideas helps you shape them into great jokes.\", \"描述\": \"Turning funny ideas into funny jokes is essential work for a comedian—but that doesn't mean it's easy work! Expect to go through lots of trial and error until you craft the best possible joke (or series of jokes) out of one of your joke topic ideas. To help yourself out, try personalizing the topic—use your own life experiences related to the topic to help build out the details of the joke.\\nFor example, if your topic is about going on a date, you might write down one of your own awkward dating experiences in the style of a joke.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Build each joke to its punchline.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"You don’t have to use a rigid structure, but your jokes do need a payoff.\", \"描述\": \"In a classic joke structure, 2 or 3 setup sentences might lead to a 1 or 2 sentence punchline, all in 250 words or less. This kind of “setup, punchline, laugh, repeat” format (think of Rodney Dangerfield with his famous “no respect” persona) may not suit your comedy style, but make sure your jokes build up to a laugh-inducing zinger. The punchline needs to make sense, so the audience doesn’t get confused, but also be surprising enough that the audience can’t guess what you’re going to say.\\nWrite multiple punchlines for each joke, then decide which one works best.\\nOne-liners have the set-up and punchline in rapid succession, but they can be more difficult to write. For example, take this famous one-liner from Mitch Hedberg: “I like rice. Rice is great when you're hungry and you want 2,000 of something.”\\nSometimes you might find it easier to write the punchline before figuring out the setup.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Connect several jokes into a bit.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Set up a killer joke with smaller jokes that lead up to it.\", \"描述\": \"The setup for each bit (a series of related jokes) includes the introduction to the topic you’re riffing on and a few shorter jokes. Introduce the topic in just enough detail so the audience can easily follow along, but don’t give too much backstory or the setup will feel long-winded. Pull together 2 or 3 jokes that tie into the topic and naturally lead into the strongest joke in the bit. Assemble 5 to 10 bits and you’ll have yourself a solid 5-minute standup comedy set!\\nFor example, if your topic is about online dating, this might be your setup: “I downloaded a dating app to give it a try and I didn’t get a single match for 2 months.” From there, you might tell a joke about making a profile, followed by one about getting your first match, and finish off with one about going on a date with your match.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Create a 5-minute set to start out.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This is the standard length for a standup set at most clubs.\", \"描述\": \"To create your 5-minute set, put together 2 or 3 of your high-quality bits (each with 3 or 4 jokes) into a “chunk,” then assemble 2 or 3 chunks to fill out your 5 minutes. End the set with the joke you think will get the biggest laugh from your audience. Outline the set on a piece of paper so you can memorize the order.\\nFor example, your first chunk might start with a bit about your frustrations with online dating, move on to a bit about how it was easier to date before cell phones, and finish with a bit on how you ended up in your current relationship. Your subsequent bits might continue on related themes or transition into different territory.\\nIf you’re having difficulty creating smooth transitions between your bits and/or chunks, try throwing in a few unrelated one-liners as transition markers.\\nOver time, assemble multiple 5-minute sets that you can put together if you get a 10, 30, or even 60-minute time slot.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Practice in front of friends and family.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take note of their reactions and ask for honest feedback.\", \"描述\": \"Before you get on stage in front of an audience, ask your close friends and family to listen to your set. As you perform your jokes, watch how they react to the punchlines and see how often they laugh. When you finish the set, ask them to be honest about how they felt about your jokes. Write down their feedback and use it to help you edit your jokes so they're funnier.\\nIf your jokes don’t land while you’re practicing, try revising your word choice to see if your jokes flow better.\\nIf you don’t feel comfortable performing in front of a group of people right away, record yourself as you perform your set in front of a mirror. That way, you can watch the video to see your mannerisms and delivery.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Perform at open mic nights.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Do your set, evaluate the response, tweak things, and try again!\", \"描述\": \"Find comedy clubs in your area that offer open mic nights and sign up for spots at multiple venues if possible. In addition to perfecting your set, focus on your delivery style. Don’t rush through your material. Take brief pauses so people have time to laugh. When you’re finished, thank the audience and say your name so people remember you better.\\nRecord your performances so you can look back at your sets to see how they went. You may also be able to upload clips from your set to share with others.\\nKeep telling jokes even if your set isn’t going as well as you'd like. You’ll learn as much from the nights you bomb as from the nights you nail it!\\nFind a comedy club that has a good crowd and that you enjoy performing at to set as a “home base” to try new material. You may need to try multiple clubs before finding one you like.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 15, \"标题\": \"Network with other comedians.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Share ideas, info on gigs, and feedback on your sets.\", \"描述\": \"Other comedians may know about new clubs where you can perform your material. They’re also a great source of honest feedback! Each night you’re doing a set, talk to the other comedians about their sets and what jokes you really enjoyed. Ask them how they felt about your set and what worked for them.\\nIf you’re performing before a headliner or a comedian with more notoriety than you, ask them about their “home base” clubs and what the submission process is like. They may be able to put in a good word for you if they think you’d be able to perform well there.\\nDon’t arrive just before your set and leave right after—watch, listen, learn, and share with the other comedians.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 16, \"标题\": \"Increase your social media presence.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Clubs are no longer the only place to get noticed as a comic.\", \"描述\": \"These days, many comedians build their reputations at least in part on social media sites like Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok. Create accounts for yourself and post funny bits or videos throughout the week so you can build a following. 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1. Learning What Communism is All About
1-1. Understand the plight of the proletariat.
The proletariat is a member of the working class; people who provide work to an employer in exchange for wages, but do not have any ownership of the company they work for or the "means of production," meaning the land, tools, factories, office buildings, raw materials, etc. that make their work possible. Most members of the proletariat have little control or say over their own labor, and do not share in the profits of their employer.
Because the proletariat has no control over their labor and are dependent on wages to survive, they are easily exploited by their employers.
The oppressors of the proletariat are called the "bourgeoisie" in Marxist terms, the wealthy capitalists who own the corporations, factories, and land, and consequently, most of the world's wealth.
The modern concept of the 99% is very similar to Karl Marx's concept of the proletariat, and the 1% is analogous to the bourgeoisie.
A key tenet of communism is that the proletariat should strive to gain control over the means of production, and own and manage it collectively.
1-2. Contemplate how private property creates social injustice.
Private ownership over the means of production is what gives the bourgeoisie the power to exploit the proletariat (working class). Marx argued that if the ownership of the means of production were seized and handed over to the proletariat to own communally and equally, workers would fare better, exploitation would cease and the social classes that arise from the unfair distribution of property would disappear leading to a one proletariat class society.
Some modern companies are partially or completely employee-owned, in that they give their employees stock, but these are relatively few.
1-3. Consider communist critiques of capitalism.
Marx believed that it was capitalism, itself, along with the market economy, and the unbridled quest for profit that brought about the current state of injustice and inequality. Marx felt that the remedy for this was the total abolition of capitalism through a proletarian revolution.
Numerous communist revolutions have taken place in Europe, Asia, and Latin America, although few truly communist states remain to this day.
Most modern communist parties now focus on the reform of capitalist societies, rather than on revolution.
1-4. Become familiar with the core texts of Marxist communism.
If you identify yourself as a communist, people will presume you are familiar with these texts and expect you to be able to discuss them knowledgeably.
Begin with Frederick Engels' The Principles of Communism, a pamphlet he wrote in 1847 outlining the key tenets of Marxist communism.
Move on to the Communist Manifesto, published by Karl Marx and Frederick Engels in 1848.
Read Marx' 3-volume Das Kapital when you are up for a real challenge.
1-5. Read some secondary literature on Communism that explains the context and evolution of the movement.
Some good introductory texts include: Communism: A Very Short Introduction by Leslie Holmes, and The Theory and Practice of Communism: An Introduction by R. N. Carew Hunt
1-6. Add some later communist works to your reading list.
Ideal choices include Vladimir Lenin's The State and Revolution and Leon Trotsky's In Defense of Marxism.
1-7. Remember that Communism is strongly opposed to the acquisition of private property, and needless consumption.
One of the most communist things you can do is to rely on the public library and second-hand bookshops to accomplish your research goals
2. Getting Involved in Communist Politics
2-1. Read current communist and communist-sympathizing websites and publications.
Some good examples include People's Word, libcom, and The People's Daily Morning Star.
2-2. Join and participate in local communist organizations.
Do some research and look for an active communist party or activist group in your area.
In the United States, you can join the Communist Party USA.
If no communist groups exist locally, consider forming your own.
2-3. Participate in groups and causes that are based on or are compatible with, communist ideals.
Support labor unions, and remember that a good communist would never cross a picket line!
Participate in the Occupy movement.
2-4. Keep in mind that even peaceful demonstrations can lead to legal consequences.
Learn the laws in your area and be prepared to be chastised and possibly even arrested for participation in political demonstrations.
3. Applying Communist Principles to Your Daily Life
3-1. Reduce your exposure to Capitalist propaganda by avoiding commercial television and radio.
Marketing is ubiquitous in modern society and most of us think little of it, but it is also a powerfully manipulative tool of the Capitalist machine.
Avoid advertisement-heavy websites and use pop-ups and ad-blockers to reduce your exposure to unwanted advertisements online.
3-2. Choose where you spend your money wisely, for money is the lifeblood of Capitalism.
Giving money to exploitative companies only increases their power over the working classes.
Research the various corporations that produce the food, medicine, clothing, and other items that you use. Avoid doing business with corporations that are known to exploit labor.
Buy goods directly from the person who manufactures them and avoid the corporate middleman whenever possible.
Look for labor-friendly companies to do business with. Shop at the union, or better yet, employee-owned stores. Avoid using multinational companies such as Starbucks and amazon.com; which have a reputation for tax avoidance.
3-3. Join a co-operative society.
For a small annual fee, you can take part-ownership of your food distribution source. Most co-ops also offer opportunities for members to share their labor, as well.
3-4. Minimize your consumption of consumer goods.
Avoid purchasing disposable products of any kind. (cutlery, plates, cups, napkins, barbecues, sanitary products, razors, gloves, nappies, and chopsticks are all perfect examples)
Avoid the unnecessary acquisition of personal property. Before making a purchase, analyze whether or not you really need it, and consider how long you will be able to use the item. If possible, go in on large purchases (for instance, a lawnmower) with one or more other people, and share the item that you buy amongst the co-owners.
Learn to sew and repair things. Mend and reuse old items before purchasing new ones.
Buy as much as possible from second-hand stores.
Eschew the latest technological trends and gadgets. Only buy what you really need. iPhone 10? Forget it!
Learn to garden and begin to grow your own produce, if space permits, or if a neighborhood allotment is available.
3-5. Consider forgoing car ownership.
Cars are a particularly wasteful and expensive form of personal property that with a few adjustments, can be made unnecessary for most people.
Use mass transit whenever possible.
Take advantage of car-sharing programs in your area.
Consider buying an older, used car that is in good working condition, rather than a new vehicle if you have to buy a car. Unlike brand new cars, used cars are much cheaper and don't contribute to feeding capitalism as much as buying a new one from a dealership does, because a new one is not being produced.
3-6. Hand your business to your employees and make it a syndicalist union if you are an employer.
3-7. Advance the cause of labor if you are an employee.
Participate in labor unions and employee organizations, and advocate for your fellow workers. If labor is not organized in your place of business, do your part to make this happen.
3-8. Speak to others about your beliefs and share practical ways that others can adopt and practice communist ideals.
Keep in mind that many people, particularly members of older generations, may become immediately hostile to the term "communism" or "communist," as they equate it with Cold War politics and propaganda. Do not take it personally, and do not antagonize people needlessly. Teaching by example will win more converts than aggressive confrontations and debates.
Tips
The Marxists Internet Archive is a great resource on communism and has an excellent student section.[16]
X
Research source
Warnings
Being too open with strangers about your beliefs might be dangerous.
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Most members of the proletariat have little control or say over their own labor, and do not share in the profits of their employer.\\nBecause the proletariat has no control over their labor and are dependent on wages to survive, they are easily exploited by their employers.\\nThe oppressors of the proletariat are called the \\\"bourgeoisie\\\" in Marxist terms, the wealthy capitalists who own the corporations, factories, and land, and consequently, most of the world's wealth.\\nThe modern concept of the 99% is very similar to Karl Marx's concept of the proletariat, and the 1% is analogous to the bourgeoisie.\\nA key tenet of communism is that the proletariat should strive to gain control over the means of production, and own and manage it collectively.\\n1-2. Contemplate how private property creates social injustice.\\nPrivate ownership over the means of production is what gives the bourgeoisie the power to exploit the proletariat (working class). Marx argued that if the ownership of the means of production were seized and handed over to the proletariat to own communally and equally, workers would fare better, exploitation would cease and the social classes that arise from the unfair distribution of property would disappear leading to a one proletariat class society.\\nSome modern companies are partially or completely employee-owned, in that they give their employees stock, but these are relatively few.\\n1-3. Consider communist critiques of capitalism.\\nMarx believed that it was capitalism, itself, along with the market economy, and the unbridled quest for profit that brought about the current state of injustice and inequality. Marx felt that the remedy for this was the total abolition of capitalism through a proletarian revolution.\\nNumerous communist revolutions have taken place in Europe, Asia, and Latin America, although few truly communist states remain to this day.\\nMost modern communist parties now focus on the reform of capitalist societies, rather than on revolution.\\n1-4. Become familiar with the core texts of Marxist communism.\\nIf you identify yourself as a communist, people will presume you are familiar with these texts and expect you to be able to discuss them knowledgeably.\\nBegin with Frederick Engels' The Principles of Communism, a pamphlet he wrote in 1847 outlining the key tenets of Marxist communism. \\nMove on to the Communist Manifesto, published by Karl Marx and Frederick Engels in 1848. \\nRead Marx' 3-volume Das Kapital when you are up for a real challenge.\\n1-5. Read some secondary literature on Communism that explains the context and evolution of the movement.\\nSome good introductory texts include: Communism: A Very Short Introduction by Leslie Holmes, and The Theory and Practice of Communism: An Introduction by R. N. Carew Hunt\\n1-6. Add some later communist works to your reading list.\\nIdeal choices include Vladimir Lenin's The State and Revolution and Leon Trotsky's In Defense of Marxism.\\n1-7. Remember that Communism is strongly opposed to the acquisition of private property, and needless consumption.\\nOne of the most communist things you can do is to rely on the public library and second-hand bookshops to accomplish your research goals\\n2. Getting Involved in Communist Politics\\n2-1. Read current communist and communist-sympathizing websites and publications.\\nSome good examples include People's Word, libcom, and The People's Daily Morning Star.\\n2-2. Join and participate in local communist organizations.\\nDo some research and look for an active communist party or activist group in your area.\\nIn the United States, you can join the Communist Party USA. \\nIf no communist groups exist locally, consider forming your own.\\n2-3. Participate in groups and causes that are based on or are compatible with, communist ideals.\\nSupport labor unions, and remember that a good communist would never cross a picket line!\\nParticipate in the Occupy movement.\\n2-4. Keep in mind that even peaceful demonstrations can lead to legal consequences.\\nLearn the laws in your area and be prepared to be chastised and possibly even arrested for participation in political demonstrations.\\n3. Applying Communist Principles to Your Daily Life\\n3-1. Reduce your exposure to Capitalist propaganda by avoiding commercial television and radio.\\nMarketing is ubiquitous in modern society and most of us think little of it, but it is also a powerfully manipulative tool of the Capitalist machine.\\nAvoid advertisement-heavy websites and use pop-ups and ad-blockers to reduce your exposure to unwanted advertisements online.\\n3-2. Choose where you spend your money wisely, for money is the lifeblood of Capitalism.\\nGiving money to exploitative companies only increases their power over the working classes.\\nResearch the various corporations that produce the food, medicine, clothing, and other items that you use. Avoid doing business with corporations that are known to exploit labor.\\nBuy goods directly from the person who manufactures them and avoid the corporate middleman whenever possible.\\nLook for labor-friendly companies to do business with. Shop at the union, or better yet, employee-owned stores. Avoid using multinational companies such as Starbucks and amazon.com; which have a reputation for tax avoidance.\\n3-3. Join a co-operative society.\\nFor a small annual fee, you can take part-ownership of your food distribution source. Most co-ops also offer opportunities for members to share their labor, as well.\\n3-4. Minimize your consumption of consumer goods.\\nAvoid purchasing disposable products of any kind. (cutlery, plates, cups, napkins, barbecues, sanitary products, razors, gloves, nappies, and chopsticks are all perfect examples)\\nAvoid the unnecessary acquisition of personal property. Before making a purchase, analyze whether or not you really need it, and consider how long you will be able to use the item. If possible, go in on large purchases (for instance, a lawnmower) with one or more other people, and share the item that you buy amongst the co-owners.\\nLearn to sew and repair things. Mend and reuse old items before purchasing new ones.\\nBuy as much as possible from second-hand stores.\\nEschew the latest technological trends and gadgets. Only buy what you really need. iPhone 10? Forget it!\\nLearn to garden and begin to grow your own produce, if space permits, or if a neighborhood allotment is available.\\n3-5. Consider forgoing car ownership.\\nCars are a particularly wasteful and expensive form of personal property that with a few adjustments, can be made unnecessary for most people.\\nUse mass transit whenever possible.\\nTake advantage of car-sharing programs in your area.\\nConsider buying an older, used car that is in good working condition, rather than a new vehicle if you have to buy a car. Unlike brand new cars, used cars are much cheaper and don't contribute to feeding capitalism as much as buying a new one from a dealership does, because a new one is not being produced.\\n3-6. Hand your business to your employees and make it a syndicalist union if you are an employer.\\n\\n3-7. Advance the cause of labor if you are an employee.\\nParticipate in labor unions and employee organizations, and advocate for your fellow workers. If labor is not organized in your place of business, do your part to make this happen.\\n3-8. Speak to others about your beliefs and share practical ways that others can adopt and practice communist ideals.\\nKeep in mind that many people, particularly members of older generations, may become immediately hostile to the term \\\"communism\\\" or \\\"communist,\\\" as they equate it with Cold War politics and propaganda. Do not take it personally, and do not antagonize people needlessly. Teaching by example will win more converts than aggressive confrontations and debates.\\nTips\\nThe Marxists Internet Archive is a great resource on communism and has an excellent student section.[16]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nWarnings\\nBeing too open with strangers about your beliefs might be dangerous.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"While it is unlikely that you live in one of the few remaining countries with a communist government, you can still embrace the ideology of communism in your everyday life and participate in political and activist organizations that support communist principles and beliefs. This article will give you practical tips on how to live as a communist in the twenty-first century.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learning What Communism is All About\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understand the plight of the proletariat.\", \"描述\": \"The proletariat is a member of the working class; people who provide work to an employer in exchange for wages, but do not have any ownership of the company they work for or the \\\"means of production,\\\" meaning the land, tools, factories, office buildings, raw materials, etc. that make their work possible. Most members of the proletariat have little control or say over their own labor, and do not share in the profits of their employer.\\nBecause the proletariat has no control over their labor and are dependent on wages to survive, they are easily exploited by their employers.\\nThe oppressors of the proletariat are called the \\\"bourgeoisie\\\" in Marxist terms, the wealthy capitalists who own the corporations, factories, and land, and consequently, most of the world's wealth.\\nThe modern concept of the 99% is very similar to Karl Marx's concept of the proletariat, and the 1% is analogous to the bourgeoisie.\\nA key tenet of communism is that the proletariat should strive to gain control over the means of production, and own and manage it collectively.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Contemplate how private property creates social injustice.\", \"描述\": \"Private ownership over the means of production is what gives the bourgeoisie the power to exploit the proletariat (working class). Marx argued that if the ownership of the means of production were seized and handed over to the proletariat to own communally and equally, workers would fare better, exploitation would cease and the social classes that arise from the unfair distribution of property would disappear leading to a one proletariat class society.\\nSome modern companies are partially or completely employee-owned, in that they give their employees stock, but these are relatively few.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Consider communist critiques of capitalism.\", \"描述\": \"Marx believed that it was capitalism, itself, along with the market economy, and the unbridled quest for profit that brought about the current state of injustice and inequality. Marx felt that the remedy for this was the total abolition of capitalism through a proletarian revolution.\\nNumerous communist revolutions have taken place in Europe, Asia, and Latin America, although few truly communist states remain to this day.\\nMost modern communist parties now focus on the reform of capitalist societies, rather than on revolution.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Become familiar with the core texts of Marxist communism.\", \"描述\": \"If you identify yourself as a communist, people will presume you are familiar with these texts and expect you to be able to discuss them knowledgeably.\\nBegin with Frederick Engels' The Principles of Communism, a pamphlet he wrote in 1847 outlining the key tenets of Marxist communism. \\nMove on to the Communist Manifesto, published by Karl Marx and Frederick Engels in 1848. \\nRead Marx' 3-volume Das Kapital when you are up for a real challenge.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Read some secondary literature on Communism that explains the context and evolution of the movement.\", \"描述\": \"Some good introductory texts include: Communism: A Very Short Introduction by Leslie Holmes, and The Theory and Practice of Communism: An Introduction by R. N. Carew Hunt\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Add some later communist works to your reading list.\", \"描述\": \"Ideal choices include Vladimir Lenin's The State and Revolution and Leon Trotsky's In Defense of Marxism.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Remember that Communism is strongly opposed to the acquisition of private property, and needless consumption.\", \"描述\": \"One of the most communist things you can do is to rely on the public library and second-hand bookshops to accomplish your research goals\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Getting Involved in Communist Politics\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Read current communist and communist-sympathizing websites and publications.\", \"描述\": \"Some good examples include People's Word, libcom, and The People's Daily Morning Star.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Join and participate in local communist organizations.\", \"描述\": \"Do some research and look for an active communist party or activist group in your area.\\nIn the United States, you can join the Communist Party USA. \\nIf no communist groups exist locally, consider forming your own.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Participate in groups and causes that are based on or are compatible with, communist ideals.\", \"描述\": \"Support labor unions, and remember that a good communist would never cross a picket line!\\nParticipate in the Occupy movement.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Keep in mind that even peaceful demonstrations can lead to legal consequences.\", \"描述\": \"Learn the laws in your area and be prepared to be chastised and possibly even arrested for participation in political demonstrations.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Applying Communist Principles to Your Daily Life\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Reduce your exposure to Capitalist propaganda by avoiding commercial television and radio.\", \"描述\": \"Marketing is ubiquitous in modern society and most of us think little of it, but it is also a powerfully manipulative tool of the Capitalist machine.\\nAvoid advertisement-heavy websites and use pop-ups and ad-blockers to reduce your exposure to unwanted advertisements online.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose where you spend your money wisely, for money is the lifeblood of Capitalism.\", \"描述\": \"Giving money to exploitative companies only increases their power over the working classes.\\nResearch the various corporations that produce the food, medicine, clothing, and other items that you use. Avoid doing business with corporations that are known to exploit labor.\\nBuy goods directly from the person who manufactures them and avoid the corporate middleman whenever possible.\\nLook for labor-friendly companies to do business with. Shop at the union, or better yet, employee-owned stores. Avoid using multinational companies such as Starbucks and amazon.com; which have a reputation for tax avoidance.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Join a co-operative society.\", \"描述\": \"For a small annual fee, you can take part-ownership of your food distribution source. Most co-ops also offer opportunities for members to share their labor, as well.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Minimize your consumption of consumer goods.\", \"描述\": \"Avoid purchasing disposable products of any kind. (cutlery, plates, cups, napkins, barbecues, sanitary products, razors, gloves, nappies, and chopsticks are all perfect examples)\\nAvoid the unnecessary acquisition of personal property. Before making a purchase, analyze whether or not you really need it, and consider how long you will be able to use the item. If possible, go in on large purchases (for instance, a lawnmower) with one or more other people, and share the item that you buy amongst the co-owners.\\nLearn to sew and repair things. Mend and reuse old items before purchasing new ones.\\nBuy as much as possible from second-hand stores.\\nEschew the latest technological trends and gadgets. Only buy what you really need. iPhone 10? Forget it!\\nLearn to garden and begin to grow your own produce, if space permits, or if a neighborhood allotment is available.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Consider forgoing car ownership.\", \"描述\": \"Cars are a particularly wasteful and expensive form of personal property that with a few adjustments, can be made unnecessary for most people.\\nUse mass transit whenever possible.\\nTake advantage of car-sharing programs in your area.\\nConsider buying an older, used car that is in good working condition, rather than a new vehicle if you have to buy a car. Unlike brand new cars, used cars are much cheaper and don't contribute to feeding capitalism as much as buying a new one from a dealership does, because a new one is not being produced.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Hand your business to your employees and make it a syndicalist union if you are an employer.\", \"描述\": \"\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Advance the cause of labor if you are an employee.\", \"描述\": \"Participate in labor unions and employee organizations, and advocate for your fellow workers. If labor is not organized in your place of business, do your part to make this happen.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Speak to others about your beliefs and share practical ways that others can adopt and practice communist ideals.\", \"描述\": \"Keep in mind that many people, particularly members of older generations, may become immediately hostile to the term \\\"communism\\\" or \\\"communist,\\\" as they equate it with Cold War politics and propaganda. Do not take it personally, and do not antagonize people needlessly. Teaching by example will win more converts than aggressive confrontations and debates.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"The Marxists Internet Archive is a great resource on communism and has an excellent student section.[16]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Being too open with strangers about your beliefs might be dangerous.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Gathering Information
1-1. Understand what a community organizer is.
Before you commit to being a community organizer, you should understand what the job entails. You will have to identify issues in your community, think of solutions, and gather enough support to enact them. This will sometimes mean challenging the existing authority by public protesting or rallying. You shouldn't be afraid to speak to a crowd, go door to door, make cold calls, and do whatever it takes to get attention for your cause.
1-2. Educate yourself politically.
To change the government, you should understand how it works. Become familiar with the election process, how laws are passed, and who your local politicians are. Familiarize yourself with local and national laws. This will all become important when you start campaigning for change.
1-3. Learn about political or social issues in your community.
These can range from simple, like needing a stop sign on a corner, to serious, like an unjust law. Whatever the case, you should learn all you can about the issue before taking action. There are a few ways you can do this.
Watch the local news. These networks will often cover local issues and give you ideas on how to take action.
Read local newspapers. Look especially at the editorial or opinion sections. Local citizens will often write in complaining of problems in the community.
Talk to people. This is a crucial skill for a community organizer. Ask neighbors if they're unhappy with something in the community and listen carefully to their answers.
1-4. Investigate if there are similar groups in your area.
Once you've identified an issue and educated yourself on it, you should see if anyone else has already taken action. Usually an internet search will uncover groups in your area. You can also check local meeting places like libraries and government buildings for flyers.
If you find a group taking the same actions as you, you may want to join it instead of starting your own. However, if you think this group has different goals or methods than you, you can go ahead and start your own. You may still wish to approach this already established group and present your ideas and see if they will support you.
1-5. Try volunteering first.
If you're still unsure if community organizing is for you, try volunteering with a similar group. This will show you what the job is like. By volunteering you can also make important contacts that will become important when you form your own group.
2. Forming a Group
2-1. Organize a small meeting.
Through investigating an issue, you've probably come across a few people who share your thoughts. These can be friends, family, or people you know from school or the community. Say you'd like to meet and discuss a problem you've noticed in the community. Even if it's only a few people, this initial meeting is very important to develop a plan for your group.
2-2. Discuss the issue.
Now that you've identified an issue and investigated it, you have to figure out how you'll remedy it. With this first meeting, you should brainstorm with your group about what action you will take.
Talk about the issue that brought everyone there. Ask specifically what concerns them and why they feel this is an important issue.
When you're all clear on what the issue is, brainstorm what you hope to do to fix it. Figuring out clear goals for this group will help you develop a plan of action. For example, if your goal is to elect a new member to your local legislature, most of your work will revolve around raising awareness and support for that candidate.
Let everyone propose solutions. It is important that you allow everyone a chance to speak. Community organizing is based on group participation. Even though you are the group's founder and leader, you are responsible for listening to all your members equally.
Discuss the methods you are willing to use in achieving your goals. Are you only planning on writing letters and talking to the media, or will you use direct action like protests? See if everyone in the group is on board with the methods you plan on using. Some won't be comfortable marching in rallies and protesting. If not, that's okay- there's still plenty of behind the scenes work they can do to help.
2-3. Name your group.
Ideally your group's name will be easy enough to say and remember while also giving a clue of what the group's goals are.
If you plan on using an acronym, research if there are other prominent groups using that acronym. If so, consider changing your name. You run the risk of all your potential members being unable to find your group when searching the internet.
2-4. Agree on a mission statement.
At the first meeting, work out a plan of action with your attendees. The mission statement is crucial for defining what your group is all about. Keep the following in mind while writing your mission statement:
Start with the group name. This will ensure all readers know whose mission statement this is.
State the group's purpose. What problem do you hope to fix or what service do you hope to provide?
State your goals. What is the group's overall plan, and what methods do you intend to use?
Make your statement specific enough to display the group's intentions, but broad enough so that you don't have to keep changing it. For example, if your group wants a stop sign by a school, say that your purpose is to promote neighborhood safety.
Keep it short. A few sentences will do just fine. You want to get straight to the point so potential members will understand exactly what you're about and if they want to join.
Once you settle on a mission statement, be sure to print it on any flyers and other media the group produces.
As an example, look at this mission statement from a top nonprofit: Greenpeace is the leading independent campaigning organization that uses peaceful protest and creative communication to expose global environmental problems and to promote solutions that are essential to a green and peaceful future.
2-5. Decide how the group will be run.
Is the group a democracy? Will there be an election? How will decisions be made? Will each member have a specific task? Do your best to figure all these questions out early, ideally at the first meeting. This way, the group can focus on solving the original issue without being troubled with organizational questions.
2-6. Hold regular meetings.
Once you've established your group, you should continue meeting regularly. Otherwise, your group may simply melt away before you even get started.
3. Raising Awareness and Building Your Group
3-1. Hang flyers.
Most local libraries, government buildings, and businesses have bulletin boards where you can advertise your group and cause. Put together an eye-catching flyer that displays your group's name and the issue you represent. Also make sure you include your group's contact information and details on when and where you meet so you can attract new members.
3-2. Use social media.
Spreading awareness is very easy with social media. Make a page for your group and update it regularly. Have your members advertise the group on their personal pages. This method can increase your support far beyond your immediate community.
It is very important to keep your social media pages active. If people see that your pages haven't been updated in months, they will likely assume the group is inactive.
3-3. Organize door to door campaigns.
Community organizing means interacting with the neighborhood, and face to face conversations are crucial for building support.
Make each one of your members responsible for a given area. Make this an area that can be covered in a day, not more than a few blocks.
Make sure you've printed flyers or a newsletter that they can distribute. Include the group's mission statement and a brief description of your group's goals and vision.
Your door to door people should ideally be your most enthusiastic members who are well-versed on the issues. Not everyone is comfortable knocking on doors and interacting with strangers. You want to make sure the neighbors you meet come away with a positive view of your group and cause.
3-4. Advertise in the newspaper.
Submit an editorial to your local paper. State the issue and that you have formed a group to fix the problem.
Some newspapers won't let you advertise your group in an editorial. If that's the case, you can still make a good argument for your cause by laying out a plan of action.
3-5. Use the media.
The media is a very powerful force, so it will serve you well to use it to your advantage.
Contact local media stations and see if they are willing to cover your group or give an interview.
Designate a spokesperson. While all members of the group are potential media liaisons, important press interactions should be handled by specific members. Ideally they will be well-spoken, charismatic, and know the issues inside and out. This will provide the best possible public face for your group.
If a local news station or newspaper runs a story about your group, make note of who the reporter was. They can be an important contact who is willing to give you more coverage.
3-6. Set up booths at local events.
Many towns have fairs and other events that attract a lot of people. Make sure these booths are stocked with flyers and staffed by charismatic members who are able to talk about the issue with strangers.
3-7. Keep track of all your members.
It is crucial that you have all your members in an organized file with all their contact information. Check in with members regularly to keep them involved. If you lose track of members, your group will gradually fall apart.
4. Taking Action
4-1. Contact local politicians.
Now that you've built support for your cause, you have leverage to present your issue to local politicians. State your problem clearly and how you expect it to be solved. If they can't help you, have them give you the information of someone else who can.
4-2. Organize letter-writing campaigns.
Have all your members contact the politician you need to work with. This flood of correspondence should help get their attention.
If politicians remain unresponsive, use letter-writing campaigns to contact the media instead. If there is a lot of buzz about a particular issue, the media is more likely to cover it.
4-3. Organize a rally.
When your group has grown large enough, a public rally will demonstrate the support behind your cause.
Before scheduling, make sure all or most of your members can come. You don't want to publicize a rally and have a small crowd. This event is supposed to demonstrate your support.
Advertise the rally. After you know all your members will come, reach out to the community. Invite anyone interested in your cause to come show their support.
Make up posters, banners, T-shirts- anything to get attention for your group. This will both get your message across and show group solidarity.
Most areas require a permit for a rally. Make sure this is all taken care of before your event to avoid any trouble with law enforcement.
Contact the local media and see if they will cover the event. If a particular reporter or station has covered your group before, contact them first.
Have your spokespeople ready to talk to any spectators. This can be a great opportunity to get new members.
Keep everything peaceful. You want this rally to demonstrate that your group is a positive force in the community. A rowdy-looking group will probably not gain you any support from locals.
4-4. Distribute a petition.
Have all your members go around and collect signatures. When you've gathered enough support, present this petition to your local government.
4-5. Cooperate with other community groups.
There are probably other organizations that can add to your base of support. Meet with their leaders and see if they will support your cause. Organize joint rallies and events to increase your support.
4-6. Support candidates who speak for your cause.
If the current government won't support your cause, it will probably become necessary to vote in a new one. If you cannot find a candidate who supports you, consider running yourself or nominating someone from your group.
4-7. Analyze your failures.
It is very likely you will experience setbacks in community organizing. The important part is not getting discouraged, but learning from these setbacks. When you understand where you went wrong, you can fix the problem and succeed the next time.
Tips
Celebrate your successes. While it is easy to always focus on problems, this can lead to frustration. Find reasons to celebrate to keep your group's spirits up.[7]
X
Research source
To be a community organizer, work within your own community. Your presence in another community, telling them what they need, will likely not be a welcome one.
Remember to always listen to the people you represent. Don't forget that you are doing this job for the good of the community.
Warnings
You may come in contact with law enforcement, especially while rallying or protesting. It is best to cooperate and abide by local laws.
This job will likely involve confrontation. While you should always avoid violence, you should be prepared to stand firm when facing opposition.
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You can also check local meeting places like libraries and government buildings for flyers.\\nIf you find a group taking the same actions as you, you may want to join it instead of starting your own. However, if you think this group has different goals or methods than you, you can go ahead and start your own. You may still wish to approach this already established group and present your ideas and see if they will support you.\\n1-5. Try volunteering first.\\nIf you're still unsure if community organizing is for you, try volunteering with a similar group. This will show you what the job is like. By volunteering you can also make important contacts that will become important when you form your own group.\\n2. Forming a Group\\n2-1. Organize a small meeting.\\nThrough investigating an issue, you've probably come across a few people who share your thoughts. These can be friends, family, or people you know from school or the community. 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Community organizing is based on group participation. Even though you are the group's founder and leader, you are responsible for listening to all your members equally.\\nDiscuss the methods you are willing to use in achieving your goals. Are you only planning on writing letters and talking to the media, or will you use direct action like protests? See if everyone in the group is on board with the methods you plan on using. Some won't be comfortable marching in rallies and protesting. If not, that's okay- there's still plenty of behind the scenes work they can do to help.\\n2-3. Name your group.\\nIdeally your group's name will be easy enough to say and remember while also giving a clue of what the group's goals are.\\nIf you plan on using an acronym, research if there are other prominent groups using that acronym. If so, consider changing your name. You run the risk of all your potential members being unable to find your group when searching the internet.\\n2-4. Agree on a mission statement.\\nAt the first meeting, work out a plan of action with your attendees. The mission statement is crucial for defining what your group is all about. Keep the following in mind while writing your mission statement:\\nStart with the group name. This will ensure all readers know whose mission statement this is.\\nState the group's purpose. What problem do you hope to fix or what service do you hope to provide?\\nState your goals. What is the group's overall plan, and what methods do you intend to use?\\nMake your statement specific enough to display the group's intentions, but broad enough so that you don't have to keep changing it. For example, if your group wants a stop sign by a school, say that your purpose is to promote neighborhood safety.\\nKeep it short. A few sentences will do just fine. You want to get straight to the point so potential members will understand exactly what you're about and if they want to join.\\nOnce you settle on a mission statement, be sure to print it on any flyers and other media the group produces.\\nAs an example, look at this mission statement from a top nonprofit: Greenpeace is the leading independent campaigning organization that uses peaceful protest and creative communication to expose global environmental problems and to promote solutions that are essential to a green and peaceful future.\\n2-5. Decide how the group will be run.\\nIs the group a democracy? Will there be an election? How will decisions be made? Will each member have a specific task? Do your best to figure all these questions out early, ideally at the first meeting. This way, the group can focus on solving the original issue without being troubled with organizational questions.\\n2-6. Hold regular meetings.\\nOnce you've established your group, you should continue meeting regularly. Otherwise, your group may simply melt away before you even get started.\\n3. Raising Awareness and Building Your Group\\n3-1. Hang flyers.\\nMost local libraries, government buildings, and businesses have bulletin boards where you can advertise your group and cause. Put together an eye-catching flyer that displays your group's name and the issue you represent. Also make sure you include your group's contact information and details on when and where you meet so you can attract new members.\\n3-2. Use social media.\\nSpreading awareness is very easy with social media. Make a page for your group and update it regularly. Have your members advertise the group on their personal pages. This method can increase your support far beyond your immediate community. \\nIt is very important to keep your social media pages active. If people see that your pages haven't been updated in months, they will likely assume the group is inactive.\\n3-3. Organize door to door campaigns.\\nCommunity organizing means interacting with the neighborhood, and face to face conversations are crucial for building support.\\nMake each one of your members responsible for a given area. Make this an area that can be covered in a day, not more than a few blocks.\\nMake sure you've printed flyers or a newsletter that they can distribute. Include the group's mission statement and a brief description of your group's goals and vision.\\nYour door to door people should ideally be your most enthusiastic members who are well-versed on the issues. Not everyone is comfortable knocking on doors and interacting with strangers. You want to make sure the neighbors you meet come away with a positive view of your group and cause.\\n3-4. Advertise in the newspaper.\\nSubmit an editorial to your local paper. 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Set up booths at local events.\\nMany towns have fairs and other events that attract a lot of people. Make sure these booths are stocked with flyers and staffed by charismatic members who are able to talk about the issue with strangers.\\n3-7. Keep track of all your members.\\nIt is crucial that you have all your members in an organized file with all their contact information. Check in with members regularly to keep them involved. If you lose track of members, your group will gradually fall apart.\\n4. Taking Action\\n4-1. Contact local politicians.\\nNow that you've built support for your cause, you have leverage to present your issue to local politicians. State your problem clearly and how you expect it to be solved. If they can't help you, have them give you the information of someone else who can.\\n4-2. Organize letter-writing campaigns.\\nHave all your members contact the politician you need to work with. This flood of correspondence should help get their attention. \\nIf politicians remain unresponsive, use letter-writing campaigns to contact the media instead. If there is a lot of buzz about a particular issue, the media is more likely to cover it.\\n4-3. Organize a rally.\\nWhen your group has grown large enough, a public rally will demonstrate the support behind your cause.\\nBefore scheduling, make sure all or most of your members can come. You don't want to publicize a rally and have a small crowd. This event is supposed to demonstrate your support.\\nAdvertise the rally. After you know all your members will come, reach out to the community. Invite anyone interested in your cause to come show their support.\\nMake up posters, banners, T-shirts- anything to get attention for your group. This will both get your message across and show group solidarity.\\nMost areas require a permit for a rally. Make sure this is all taken care of before your event to avoid any trouble with law enforcement.\\nContact the local media and see if they will cover the event. If a particular reporter or station has covered your group before, contact them first.\\nHave your spokespeople ready to talk to any spectators. This can be a great opportunity to get new members.\\nKeep everything peaceful. You want this rally to demonstrate that your group is a positive force in the community. A rowdy-looking group will probably not gain you any support from locals.\\n4-4. Distribute a petition.\\nHave all your members go around and collect signatures. When you've gathered enough support, present this petition to your local government.\\n4-5. Cooperate with other community groups.\\nThere are probably other organizations that can add to your base of support. Meet with their leaders and see if they will support your cause. Organize joint rallies and events to increase your support.\\n4-6. Support candidates who speak for your cause.\\nIf the current government won't support your cause, it will probably become necessary to vote in a new one. If you cannot find a candidate who supports you, consider running yourself or nominating someone from your group.\\n4-7. Analyze your failures.\\nIt is very likely you will experience setbacks in community organizing. The important part is not getting discouraged, but learning from these setbacks. When you understand where you went wrong, you can fix the problem and succeed the next time.\\nTips\\nCelebrate your successes. While it is easy to always focus on problems, this can lead to frustration. Find reasons to celebrate to keep your group's spirits up.[7]\\nX\\nResearch source\\nTo be a community organizer, work within your own community. Your presence in another community, telling them what they need, will likely not be a welcome one.\\nRemember to always listen to the people you represent. Don't forget that you are doing this job for the good of the community.\\nWarnings\\nYou may come in contact with law enforcement, especially while rallying or protesting. It is best to cooperate and abide by local laws.\\nThis job will likely involve confrontation. While you should always avoid violence, you should be prepared to stand firm when facing opposition.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Community organizing can be a challenging, yet incredibly rewarding career. You will have the opportunity to positively affect your community and the people in it. If you think community organizing is for you, learn how to get started and make a difference.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gathering Information\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understand what a community organizer is.\", \"描述\": \"Before you commit to being a community organizer, you should understand what the job entails. You will have to identify issues in your community, think of solutions, and gather enough support to enact them. This will sometimes mean challenging the existing authority by public protesting or rallying. You shouldn't be afraid to speak to a crowd, go door to door, make cold calls, and do whatever it takes to get attention for your cause.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Educate yourself politically.\", \"描述\": \"To change the government, you should understand how it works. Become familiar with the election process, how laws are passed, and who your local politicians are. Familiarize yourself with local and national laws. This will all become important when you start campaigning for change.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn about political or social issues in your community.\", \"描述\": \"These can range from simple, like needing a stop sign on a corner, to serious, like an unjust law. Whatever the case, you should learn all you can about the issue before taking action. There are a few ways you can do this.\\nWatch the local news. These networks will often cover local issues and give you ideas on how to take action.\\nRead local newspapers. Look especially at the editorial or opinion sections. Local citizens will often write in complaining of problems in the community.\\nTalk to people. This is a crucial skill for a community organizer. Ask neighbors if they're unhappy with something in the community and listen carefully to their answers.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Investigate if there are similar groups in your area.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've identified an issue and educated yourself on it, you should see if anyone else has already taken action. Usually an internet search will uncover groups in your area. You can also check local meeting places like libraries and government buildings for flyers.\\nIf you find a group taking the same actions as you, you may want to join it instead of starting your own. However, if you think this group has different goals or methods than you, you can go ahead and start your own. You may still wish to approach this already established group and present your ideas and see if they will support you.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Try volunteering first.\", \"描述\": \"If you're still unsure if community organizing is for you, try volunteering with a similar group. This will show you what the job is like. By volunteering you can also make important contacts that will become important when you form your own group.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Forming a Group\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Organize a small meeting.\", \"描述\": \"Through investigating an issue, you've probably come across a few people who share your thoughts. These can be friends, family, or people you know from school or the community. Say you'd like to meet and discuss a problem you've noticed in the community. Even if it's only a few people, this initial meeting is very important to develop a plan for your group.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Discuss the issue.\", \"描述\": \"Now that you've identified an issue and investigated it, you have to figure out how you'll remedy it. With this first meeting, you should brainstorm with your group about what action you will take.\\nTalk about the issue that brought everyone there. Ask specifically what concerns them and why they feel this is an important issue.\\nWhen you're all clear on what the issue is, brainstorm what you hope to do to fix it. Figuring out clear goals for this group will help you develop a plan of action. For example, if your goal is to elect a new member to your local legislature, most of your work will revolve around raising awareness and support for that candidate.\\nLet everyone propose solutions. It is important that you allow everyone a chance to speak. Community organizing is based on group participation. Even though you are the group's founder and leader, you are responsible for listening to all your members equally.\\nDiscuss the methods you are willing to use in achieving your goals. Are you only planning on writing letters and talking to the media, or will you use direct action like protests? See if everyone in the group is on board with the methods you plan on using. Some won't be comfortable marching in rallies and protesting. If not, that's okay- there's still plenty of behind the scenes work they can do to help.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Name your group.\", \"描述\": \"Ideally your group's name will be easy enough to say and remember while also giving a clue of what the group's goals are.\\nIf you plan on using an acronym, research if there are other prominent groups using that acronym. If so, consider changing your name. You run the risk of all your potential members being unable to find your group when searching the internet.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Agree on a mission statement.\", \"描述\": \"At the first meeting, work out a plan of action with your attendees. The mission statement is crucial for defining what your group is all about. Keep the following in mind while writing your mission statement:\\nStart with the group name. This will ensure all readers know whose mission statement this is.\\nState the group's purpose. What problem do you hope to fix or what service do you hope to provide?\\nState your goals. What is the group's overall plan, and what methods do you intend to use?\\nMake your statement specific enough to display the group's intentions, but broad enough so that you don't have to keep changing it. For example, if your group wants a stop sign by a school, say that your purpose is to promote neighborhood safety.\\nKeep it short. A few sentences will do just fine. You want to get straight to the point so potential members will understand exactly what you're about and if they want to join.\\nOnce you settle on a mission statement, be sure to print it on any flyers and other media the group produces.\\nAs an example, look at this mission statement from a top nonprofit: Greenpeace is the leading independent campaigning organization that uses peaceful protest and creative communication to expose global environmental problems and to promote solutions that are essential to a green and peaceful future.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Decide how the group will be run.\", \"描述\": \"Is the group a democracy? Will there be an election? How will decisions be made? Will each member have a specific task? Do your best to figure all these questions out early, ideally at the first meeting. This way, the group can focus on solving the original issue without being troubled with organizational questions.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Hold regular meetings.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've established your group, you should continue meeting regularly. Otherwise, your group may simply melt away before you even get started.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Raising Awareness and Building Your Group\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Hang flyers.\", \"描述\": \"Most local libraries, government buildings, and businesses have bulletin boards where you can advertise your group and cause. Put together an eye-catching flyer that displays your group's name and the issue you represent. Also make sure you include your group's contact information and details on when and where you meet so you can attract new members.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Use social media.\", \"描述\": \"Spreading awareness is very easy with social media. Make a page for your group and update it regularly. Have your members advertise the group on their personal pages. This method can increase your support far beyond your immediate community. \\nIt is very important to keep your social media pages active. If people see that your pages haven't been updated in months, they will likely assume the group is inactive.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Organize door to door campaigns.\", \"描述\": \"Community organizing means interacting with the neighborhood, and face to face conversations are crucial for building support.\\nMake each one of your members responsible for a given area. Make this an area that can be covered in a day, not more than a few blocks.\\nMake sure you've printed flyers or a newsletter that they can distribute. Include the group's mission statement and a brief description of your group's goals and vision.\\nYour door to door people should ideally be your most enthusiastic members who are well-versed on the issues. Not everyone is comfortable knocking on doors and interacting with strangers. You want to make sure the neighbors you meet come away with a positive view of your group and cause.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Advertise in the newspaper.\", \"描述\": \"Submit an editorial to your local paper. State the issue and that you have formed a group to fix the problem. \\nSome newspapers won't let you advertise your group in an editorial. If that's the case, you can still make a good argument for your cause by laying out a plan of action.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Use the media.\", \"描述\": \"The media is a very powerful force, so it will serve you well to use it to your advantage.\\nContact local media stations and see if they are willing to cover your group or give an interview.\\nDesignate a spokesperson. While all members of the group are potential media liaisons, important press interactions should be handled by specific members. Ideally they will be well-spoken, charismatic, and know the issues inside and out. This will provide the best possible public face for your group.\\nIf a local news station or newspaper runs a story about your group, make note of who the reporter was. They can be an important contact who is willing to give you more coverage.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Set up booths at local events.\", \"描述\": \"Many towns have fairs and other events that attract a lot of people. Make sure these booths are stocked with flyers and staffed by charismatic members who are able to talk about the issue with strangers.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Keep track of all your members.\", \"描述\": \"It is crucial that you have all your members in an organized file with all their contact information. Check in with members regularly to keep them involved. If you lose track of members, your group will gradually fall apart.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Taking Action\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Contact local politicians.\", \"描述\": \"Now that you've built support for your cause, you have leverage to present your issue to local politicians. State your problem clearly and how you expect it to be solved. If they can't help you, have them give you the information of someone else who can.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Organize letter-writing campaigns.\", \"描述\": \"Have all your members contact the politician you need to work with. This flood of correspondence should help get their attention. \\nIf politicians remain unresponsive, use letter-writing campaigns to contact the media instead. 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If a particular reporter or station has covered your group before, contact them first.\\nHave your spokespeople ready to talk to any spectators. This can be a great opportunity to get new members.\\nKeep everything peaceful. You want this rally to demonstrate that your group is a positive force in the community. A rowdy-looking group will probably not gain you any support from locals.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Distribute a petition.\", \"描述\": \"Have all your members go around and collect signatures. When you've gathered enough support, present this petition to your local government.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Cooperate with other community groups.\", \"描述\": \"There are probably other organizations that can add to your base of support. Meet with their leaders and see if they will support your cause. 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How to Be a Computer Geek
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1. Steps
1-1. Learn what hardware is.
Hardware is the physical stuff that makes up the computer and the media that is used to connect computers to other computers.
1-2. Learn what software is.
Software is the stuff that makes the computer work and it includes the applications, protocols, and the operating system.
1-3. Learn the specs (technical specifications) of your computer.
There are some programs one can use in order to learn the specific specs a computer has, if you do not know off-hand. E.g. CPU-Z.
1-4. Learn to use your computer's command line
Learning to use your computer's command line (MS DOS Prompt/Command Prompt in Windows, Terminal or Konsole in Linux) is essential to at least boosting your efficiency on your computer. In Windows, the DOS prompt isn't especially useful, but it's a good idea to know how to use it. However, in Linux or UNIX, Mac or BSD, or other Unix-like operating systems, it is important to be able to use the command line so that you can work more efficiently via bash scripts.
1-5. Learn to type without looking at the keyboard.
This isn't especially important, but this will definitely boost your efficiency at the computer, and make yourself look more sensible.
1-6. Ask
If someone does something on a computer that you would like to know, ask them about it.
1-7. Learn a programming language
This is one of the most important things to do. Don't confuse certain types of languages with others. Interpreted languages like BASIC aren't very good for true computer programming, but if all you want to do is write a simple computer game, it's fine. HTML or CSS are for web pages, and it's a good idea to know them, but they won't be especially useful for really programming your computer. It is recommended that you learn the scripting language of your prompt (e.g. Bash) as that will bring power and simplicity for a novice programmer and admin. However, you may learn any language you like.
1-8. Start learning basic repair procedures.
This can help you out a lot if your or someone else's computer breaks down, which will also increase your reputation as a computer geek. You may learn the advanced methods, but that may require lessons from an actual computer geek.
1-9. Work with others with their computer problems.
By interacting with other PC users, you may find that they know things that you don't and vice versa. However, as a computer geek wannabe, you'll want to know more about computer than your friends, at any given time.
1-10. Help others
Not only will you build a name for yourself, but it is good practice and can help you learn about situations and problems you have not encountered before.
1-11. Learn how to install and upgrade drivers for various hardware types
This will come in handy when you re-install your Operating System.
1-12. Learn to recognize malware.
Malware includes such nasty stuff as computer viruses and spyware. Checking for Malware should be conducted before running the daily antivirus/antispyware scans.
1-13. Use a restrictive firewall.
A good firewall is one that would cause normal people to cry because they don't understand how to use it. Of course, should know how to use it!
1-14. Use an Open Source Operating System.
Most computer geeks will use an open OS such as *BSD or Linux, because it is (usually) free and allows them to do geeky stuff such as programming, running servers and using a command line interface (CLI).
1-15. Use Shortcuts
It is important to know shortcuts as it shaves off valuable seconds of your precious time.
1-16. Know the inner workings of the Internet, and how to use them
1-17. Remember to keep things simple.
Skip overwhelming or overly-complicated ideas. Instead, focus on learning the knowledge and skills you may need to accomplish a big idea in the future.
1-18. Expand your knowledge
Computer geeks aren't too smart to learn something new about computers. True computer geeks are always learning, and when they don't understand, always asking for help. Collect knowledge. Put things together. Read articles on Wikipedia, join computer forums for your programming language or just regular forums, and ask questions. If you have trouble learning, write things down and quiz yourself. Whatever your methods, be sure to be continuously learning more about computers.
1-19. Learn particular types of math.
This is very important to geeks. One bit of data is a binary digit - a one or a zero. Eight bits make a byte. Learn how many bytes are in a kilobyte (KB), megabyte (MB), gigabyte (GB) and so on. While most people think that there are 1024 megabytes in a gigabyte, there actually aren't. There are exactly 1000 megabytes in a gigabyte. The things that most people are speaking about are gigabytes and megabytes.
Do some research on the topic of data storage. Once you have that down, get comfortable with binary. From there, learn to use octal and hexadecimal, and how to convert from one base to another. When you understand why programmers always get Christmas and Halloween mixed up, you're well on your way to becoming a true geek.
Tips
If you use Windows, Mac, or GNU/Linux, obtain anti-virus and spyware software to keep your computer infection-free. Be sure you are wary of what anti-virus and spyware programs you download, however, as many turn out to be more malicious than the problems they are supposed to prevent.
When fixing software, keep a USB with you, containing at least 5 different antivirus and antispyware products and an open OS.
Always have a better sort of cooling system when overclocking computers. When overclocking really high, liquid cooling is recommended.
Warnings
Don't misunderstand the meaning of a computer geek. A computer geek is not a person who talks with chat room language (using codes like ROFL, 1337, etc.), uses nothing but the command line to write "fake virus" batch files (or writes real harmful computer viruses), but rather a person with a genuine interest and passion for computer technology who wants to learn everything they can. If you want to learn about computers and contribute and use them in constructive ways, and will accept new knowledge, you are a true computer geek.
Trying to fix computer problems (specifically hardware problems) may void the said hardware's warranty.
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However, in Linux or UNIX, Mac or BSD, or other Unix-like operating systems, it is important to be able to use the command line so that you can work more efficiently via bash scripts.\\n1-5. Learn to type without looking at the keyboard.\\nThis isn't especially important, but this will definitely boost your efficiency at the computer, and make yourself look more sensible.\\n1-6. Ask\\nIf someone does something on a computer that you would like to know, ask them about it.\\n1-7. Learn a programming language\\nThis is one of the most important things to do. Don't confuse certain types of languages with others. Interpreted languages like BASIC aren't very good for true computer programming, but if all you want to do is write a simple computer game, it's fine. HTML or CSS are for web pages, and it's a good idea to know them, but they won't be especially useful for really programming your computer. It is recommended that you learn the scripting language of your prompt (e.g. Bash) as that will bring power and simplicity for a novice programmer and admin. However, you may learn any language you like.\\n1-8. Start learning basic repair procedures.\\nThis can help you out a lot if your or someone else's computer breaks down, which will also increase your reputation as a computer geek. You may learn the advanced methods, but that may require lessons from an actual computer geek.\\n1-9. Work with others with their computer problems.\\nBy interacting with other PC users, you may find that they know things that you don't and vice versa. However, as a computer geek wannabe, you'll want to know more about computer than your friends, at any given time.\\n1-10. Help others\\nNot only will you build a name for yourself, but it is good practice and can help you learn about situations and problems you have not encountered before.\\n1-11. Learn how to install and upgrade drivers for various hardware types\\nThis will come in handy when you re-install your Operating System.\\n1-12. Learn to recognize malware.\\nMalware includes such nasty stuff as computer viruses and spyware. Checking for Malware should be conducted before running the daily antivirus/antispyware scans.\\n1-13. Use a restrictive firewall.\\nA good firewall is one that would cause normal people to cry because they don't understand how to use it. Of course, should know how to use it!\\n1-14. Use an Open Source Operating System.\\nMost computer geeks will use an open OS such as *BSD or Linux, because it is (usually) free and allows them to do geeky stuff such as programming, running servers and using a command line interface (CLI).\\n1-15. Use Shortcuts\\nIt is important to know shortcuts as it shaves off valuable seconds of your precious time.\\n1-16. Know the inner workings of the Internet, and how to use them\\n\\n1-17. Remember to keep things simple.\\nSkip overwhelming or overly-complicated ideas. Instead, focus on learning the knowledge and skills you may need to accomplish a big idea in the future.\\n1-18. Expand your knowledge\\nComputer geeks aren't too smart to learn something new about computers. True computer geeks are always learning, and when they don't understand, always asking for help. Collect knowledge. Put things together. Read articles on Wikipedia, join computer forums for your programming language or just regular forums, and ask questions. If you have trouble learning, write things down and quiz yourself. Whatever your methods, be sure to be continuously learning more about computers.\\n1-19. Learn particular types of math.\\nThis is very important to geeks. One bit of data is a binary digit - a one or a zero. Eight bits make a byte. Learn how many bytes are in a kilobyte (KB), megabyte (MB), gigabyte (GB) and so on. While most people think that there are 1024 megabytes in a gigabyte, there actually aren't. There are exactly 1000 megabytes in a gigabyte. The things that most people are speaking about are gigabytes and megabytes.\\nDo some research on the topic of data storage. Once you have that down, get comfortable with binary. From there, learn to use octal and hexadecimal, and how to convert from one base to another. When you understand why programmers always get Christmas and Halloween mixed up, you're well on your way to becoming a true geek.\\nTips\\nIf you use Windows, Mac, or GNU/Linux, obtain anti-virus and spyware software to keep your computer infection-free. Be sure you are wary of what anti-virus and spyware programs you download, however, as many turn out to be more malicious than the problems they are supposed to prevent.\\nWhen fixing software, keep a USB with you, containing at least 5 different antivirus and antispyware products and an open OS.\\nAlways have a better sort of cooling system when overclocking computers. When overclocking really high, liquid cooling is recommended.\\nWarnings\\nDon't misunderstand the meaning of a computer geek. A computer geek is not a person who talks with chat room language (using codes like ROFL, 1337, etc.), uses nothing but the command line to write \\\"fake virus\\\" batch files (or writes real harmful computer viruses), but rather a person with a genuine interest and passion for computer technology who wants to learn everything they can. If you want to learn about computers and contribute and use them in constructive ways, and will accept new knowledge, you are a true computer geek.\\nTrying to fix computer problems (specifically hardware problems) may void the said hardware's warranty.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Little known to most, there are many benefits to being a computer geek. In our high-tech society, being a computer guru can be one of the most high paying jobs available and computer geeks are in high demand, especially for network administrator jobs. By tapping into your inner geek, you can develop a most useful skill that will be sure to pay off later in life.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn what hardware is.\", \"描述\": \"Hardware is the physical stuff that makes up the computer and the media that is used to connect computers to other computers.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn what software is.\", \"描述\": \"Software is the stuff that makes the computer work and it includes the applications, protocols, and the operating system.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn the specs (technical specifications) of your computer.\", \"描述\": \"There are some programs one can use in order to learn the specific specs a computer has, if you do not know off-hand. E.g. 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However, in Linux or UNIX, Mac or BSD, or other Unix-like operating systems, it is important to be able to use the command line so that you can work more efficiently via bash scripts.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Learn to type without looking at the keyboard.\", \"描述\": \"This isn't especially important, but this will definitely boost your efficiency at the computer, and make yourself look more sensible.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Ask\", \"描述\": \"If someone does something on a computer that you would like to know, ask them about it.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Learn a programming language\", \"描述\": \"This is one of the most important things to do. Don't confuse certain types of languages with others. Interpreted languages like BASIC aren't very good for true computer programming, but if all you want to do is write a simple computer game, it's fine. HTML or CSS are for web pages, and it's a good idea to know them, but they won't be especially useful for really programming your computer. It is recommended that you learn the scripting language of your prompt (e.g. Bash) as that will bring power and simplicity for a novice programmer and admin. However, you may learn any language you like.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Start learning basic repair procedures.\", \"描述\": \"This can help you out a lot if your or someone else's computer breaks down, which will also increase your reputation as a computer geek. You may learn the advanced methods, but that may require lessons from an actual computer geek.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Work with others with their computer problems.\", \"描述\": \"By interacting with other PC users, you may find that they know things that you don't and vice versa. However, as a computer geek wannabe, you'll want to know more about computer than your friends, at any given time.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Help others\", \"描述\": \"Not only will you build a name for yourself, but it is good practice and can help you learn about situations and problems you have not encountered before.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Learn how to install and upgrade drivers for various hardware types\", \"描述\": \"This will come in handy when you re-install your Operating System.\"}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Learn to recognize malware.\", \"描述\": \"Malware includes such nasty stuff as computer viruses and spyware. Checking for Malware should be conducted before running the daily antivirus/antispyware scans.\"}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Use a restrictive firewall.\", \"描述\": \"A good firewall is one that would cause normal people to cry because they don't understand how to use it. Of course, should know how to use it!\"}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Use an Open Source Operating System.\", \"描述\": \"Most computer geeks will use an open OS such as *BSD or Linux, because it is (usually) free and allows them to do geeky stuff such as programming, running servers and using a command line interface (CLI).\"}, {\"编号\": 15, \"标题\": \"Use Shortcuts\", \"描述\": \"It is important to know shortcuts as it shaves off valuable seconds of your precious time.\"}, {\"编号\": 16, \"标题\": \"Know the inner workings of the Internet, and how to use them\", \"描述\": \"\"}, {\"编号\": 17, \"标题\": \"Remember to keep things simple.\", \"描述\": \"Skip overwhelming or overly-complicated ideas. Instead, focus on learning the knowledge and skills you may need to accomplish a big idea in the future.\"}, {\"编号\": 18, \"标题\": \"Expand your knowledge\", \"描述\": \"Computer geeks aren't too smart to learn something new about computers. True computer geeks are always learning, and when they don't understand, always asking for help. Collect knowledge. Put things together. Read articles on Wikipedia, join computer forums for your programming language or just regular forums, and ask questions. If you have trouble learning, write things down and quiz yourself. Whatever your methods, be sure to be continuously learning more about computers.\"}, {\"编号\": 19, \"标题\": \"Learn particular types of math.\", \"描述\": \"This is very important to geeks. One bit of data is a binary digit - a one or a zero. Eight bits make a byte. Learn how many bytes are in a kilobyte (KB), megabyte (MB), gigabyte (GB) and so on. While most people think that there are 1024 megabytes in a gigabyte, there actually aren't. There are exactly 1000 megabytes in a gigabyte. The things that most people are speaking about are gigabytes and megabytes.\\nDo some research on the topic of data storage. Once you have that down, get comfortable with binary. From there, learn to use octal and hexadecimal, and how to convert from one base to another. When you understand why programmers always get Christmas and Halloween mixed up, you're well on your way to becoming a true geek.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"If you use Windows, Mac, or GNU/Linux, obtain anti-virus and spyware software to keep your computer infection-free. Be sure you are wary of what anti-virus and spyware programs you download, however, as many turn out to be more malicious than the problems they are supposed to prevent.\\n\", \"When fixing software, keep a USB with you, containing at least 5 different antivirus and antispyware products and an open OS.\\n\", \"Always have a better sort of cooling system when overclocking computers. When overclocking really high, liquid cooling is recommended.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Don't misunderstand the meaning of a computer geek. A computer geek is not a person who talks with chat room language (using codes like ROFL, 1337, etc.), uses nothing but the command line to write \\\"fake virus\\\" batch files (or writes real harmful computer viruses), but rather a person with a genuine interest and passion for computer technology who wants to learn everything they can. If you want to learn about computers and contribute and use them in constructive ways, and will accept new knowledge, you are a true computer geek.\\n\", \"Trying to fix computer problems (specifically hardware problems) may void the said hardware's warranty.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Learning Hardware Basics
1-1. Find (and read) a book for a beginner.
Even if you are not brand new to using a computer, getting a book for beginners is a great way to fill the gaps in your knowledge. Ask your librarian to show you books for beginning computer users, search your favorite bookseller's website for “computers for beginners,” or try one of these:
Any computer-related book in the “For Dummies” series, such as PCs for Dummies or Macs for Dummies.
How Computers Work by Ron White
Upgrading and Repairing PCs by Scott Mueller
1-2. Learn the names of the hardware in your computer.
To become a computer genius, you will need to understand how the different parts of a computer work with one another.
Everything inside of your computer is connected to the motherboard, including the CPU, which acts as the computer’s “brain.”
RAM stores data that’s currently in use. Become familiar with how it works with and connects to the motherboard.
Peripheral cards add functions to the computer. Learn about sound, networking, and video cards.
Storage and disk drives are places to store data. Research hard drives, CD/DVD-ROM drives, and removable media like USB flash drives and SD cards.
1-3. Go to a computer store and try out the latest technology.
Each computer’s hardware specs should be visible on a label or sign near the unit. Notice the different amounts of RAM, different CPU brands and speeds, and different screen resolutions.
Try opening the same program on different computers and notice differences in speed.
Ask a salesperson which computers they recommend for various tasks. For example, “Which of these units is good for gaming?” or “Which would you recommend to someone who just needs to write papers for college?” Then, observe the difference in specs between the different computers.
1-4. Watch YouTube videos of people opening their computers.
Watch other computer geniuses install RAM or replace dead hard drives to get a sense of what these tasks entail. Listen carefully as the person describes what they are doing.
1-5. Open your computer and locate each hardware component.
If you’re feeling confident, look inside your own computer to see how the different hardware components connect to one another.
If you feel apprehensive, ask someone who knows more about computers to walk you through the process.
Never open a computer unless the machine is on a sturdy surface and you are properly grounded.
2. Using Different Operating Systems and Software
2-1. Learn the differences between different operating systems.
There are pros and cons to using Windows, Mac OS X, Linux, Chrome OS, etc. Visit each operating system’s website to familiarize yourself with its features. Then, search the web for blogs that cater specifically to users of those operating systems. Reading user blogs is a great way to discover how people use their computers.
Windows is pre-installed on most PCs and is used by businesses as both servers and workstations. Windows is also popular with home users and gamers who love tinkering with hardware.
Mac OSX is known to be sleek and aesthetically pleasing. Made popular by artists, Mac OSX almost always runs on Apple hardware (although it can be installed on modern desktops) and has a familiar design that is gaining in popularity.
Linux is a free (usually) flavor of “Unix” used by more advanced computer users. It’s highly customizable, secure, can be used on basically any type of hardware to perform any type of function.
Chrome OS is a simple operating system found on Google Chromebooks. It’s geared toward people who are more interested in using the web (and web applications) than anything else.
2-2. Use every opportunity to play with operating systems other than the one you use.
To be a well-rounded computer genius, you should have experience using all operating systems and a wide variety of software.
You can find Windows PCs at public libraries. Most college campuses have both PCs and Macs available for student use. Alternatively, you can ask a friend or a relative if you can try using their computer.
Try doing the same sort of task (like browsing the web) on a Windows, Linux, or Mac computer and notice the differences.
2-3. Explore the operating system you use on your own computer.
Both Macs and Windows have built-in System panels that provide details about the computer. Try to explore a new area of the Control Panel (Windows) or System Preferences (Mac) every day. Just poking around and clicking to view the different options will add necessary information to your budding genius brain.
To open the Control Panel in Windows, press ⊞ Win+S to launch the search, then type control panel. Click “Control Panel” in the search results, then browse through the various panels.
To view System Preferences on your Mac: Click the Apple menu at the top-left corner of the screen, then click “System Preferences.”
2-4. Install new software.
If it’s your first time, start with something easy, like a new web browser. If you’re at a more advanced level, try installing Linux. Linux is a free operating system popular with the geeks (your team!) that can be installed on lots of different hardware configurations.
Because Linux is so popular with people who love computers, there’s an entire community of Linux users active on chats and forums. Learning Linux is bound to make you new friends, perhaps even a mentor.
3. Gaining Advanced Skills
3-1. Study programming languages such as Java, SQL, Ruby on Rails, or PHP.
Once you have nailed the basics, venture into advanced territory. Knowing how to code separates the computer geniuses from casual users. Research what different programming languages do and select one to study.
Get a book on the language. Starting with a beginner’s book will build a great foundation for your advanced study.
Look into classes that provide hands-on coding experience. You will have to pay for some of the more prestigious courses available through coding academies, but you’ll find the occasional free class through Coursera and Khan Academy.
3-2. Set up a network.
Getting one computer on the Internet is simple, but what about configuring an entire network of computers? Challenge yourself to learn different ways to connect computers to the Internet, share files across systems, and set up firewalls.
3-3. Learn about (and protect yourself from) threats to your computers, code, and networks.
Knowing how to set things up is a great start, but protecting your handiwork from security threats is a whole new world. Research things like Denial of Service attacks, code vulnerabilities, database hacks, and worm viruses to prepare yourself for what’s possible.
3-4. Network with other computer enthusiasts.
Having a community of computer geniuses (or those who are still in the aspirational stage) will allow you to ask and answer questions, as well as learn about new technology that might interest you.
Research local meetup groups in your area.
Discover chatrooms and forums full of computer users that are accessible 24/7.
3-5. Commit to a lifetime of learning.
Becoming a computer genius will not happen overnight. It takes hard work, dedication, sharp problem-solving skills, and a genuine passion for information.
Technology is always evolving, so you will need to stay current. The information you know now may be obsolete next year. Read computer magazines, follow popular computing blogs, and stay familiar with the latest in software technology.
Upgrade to the newest operating systems when they are released.
Join beta-testing groups for various operating systems and apps so you can be among the first to get hands-on experience.
4. Becoming an Expert Troubleshooter
4-1. Define the problem.
When it comes down to it, the way you will be able to show off your genius computer skills is by solving problems. Troubleshooting is one of the most important skills to have in the IT industry.When you’re experiencing a computer issue, start by figuring out what exactly is going on.
Defining the problem as “The mouse doesn’t work” is too broad—narrow it down to the precise behavior or error message, such as “When I connect the mouse to the USB port, I see a message that says “This IRQ is assigned to the keyboard.”
4-2. Sharpen your Google skills.
One of the most important skills a genius-in-the-making must learn is how to find information. There’s an art to getting accurate information about computer problems with Google.
Use quotes (“) around exact words and phrases (“this IRQ is assigned to the keyboard” instead of irq assigned to keyboard) to make sure your results match what you are looking for.
Using Google to search a single site. If you’re looking for information about wireless networking and prefer your results be from Microsoft.com, type mouse problems site:microsoft.com instead of mouse problems microsoft.
Filter results by date (often relevant, as computers are always changing) by clicking “Search Tools” at the top of the search results, then change “Any time” to a different time range.
4-3. Read the search results thoroughly, and not just the first page.
While the manufacturer’s product pages may be among the first search results, some of the best troubleshooting information will come from user forums.
It will not take you long to figure out which sites return good search results and which should be avoided. If your search for information brings you to a page that seemingly has little to do with what you searched, that source will not be useful to you.
4-4. Join forums to gain insight into problems experienced by users like you.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions—but before you do, try using the forum’s “search” feature to reduce the possibility of duplicating an already-resolved thread.
Many online forums will not allow you to search their content until you register for an account.
4-5. Fix your friends’ and family’s computers.
Now that you’ve been practicing your troubleshooting skills, find opportunities to get hands-on experience. Ask people you know if they are having trouble with their computers, and then offer to fix them. Use your new skills to find other people online who’ve experienced similar issues and try implementing suggested fixes.
4-6. Set up a test computer.
Computer geniuses learn how to troubleshoot by breaking things. Rather than messing with the computer you use every day, get yourself a test computer (or even better—a test lab with several types of computers) so you can really get your hands dirty.
5. Upgrading Your Computer (By Yourself)
5-1. Run system updates.
Make sure you are using the latest and greatest version of your operating system by checking for system updates.
Updating operating system software may cause older applications to break. Frustrating! However, finding fixes for such issues is great for improving your troubleshooting skills!
5-2. Think about what you might be able to add to your computer to make it better.
Ask yourself some questions: What frustrates me about my computer? What can I not do with my computer that others can do with theirs? Once you have some answers, you should be able to determine what kind of hardware or software would improve your experience.
5-3. Browse forums for your specific type of computer to see what sorts of upgrades others are doing.
Even if you decide not to do any upgrades, you’ll still learn a lot about the different possible configurations for your computer.
6. Learning Everything You Can about One Computer Topic
6-1. Pick something about computers that interests you.
Is it web design? Great-looking video? Programming in Python? Becoming an expert on a single topic is an excellent way to assert yourself as a computer genius.
6-2. Read articles about your topic online.
Use your new Google search wizardry to find up-to-date articles about the topic that interests you. You should also:
Find (and follow) blogs that are dedicated to that topic.
Join forums for users who share your interest in that topic.
6-3. Watch YouTube instructional videos about your topic.
Interested in learning how to set up Wordpress? Fixing broken motherboard components? You will find plenty of instructional videos for just about anything on YouTube.
6-4. Look into classes that focus on your topic.
If you’re enrolled in college, check to see if classes on that subject are offered. Don’t forget community colleges—they provide a wide variety of courses at a cheaper rate than a university.
If you would rather learn from home, there are plenty of online courses available in a wide variety of topics.
Some courses are even available for free on sites like Khan Academy and Coursera. You may even find a course on Youtube.
Tips
Bookmark websites with great information so you can find them again easily in the future.
Set goals, like creating a web page or writing a small, useful program. Don’t give up until you’ve met your goals.
Seek out volunteer opportunities that will help you get hands-on experience. Look into computer recycling programs, setting up classroom workstations, even volunteering at your local library.
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Study programming languages such as Java, SQL, Ruby on Rails, or PHP.\\nOnce you have nailed the basics, venture into advanced territory. Knowing how to code separates the computer geniuses from casual users. Research what different programming languages do and select one to study.\\nGet a book on the language. Starting with a beginner’s book will build a great foundation for your advanced study.\\nLook into classes that provide hands-on coding experience. You will have to pay for some of the more prestigious courses available through coding academies, but you’ll find the occasional free class through Coursera and Khan Academy.\\n3-2. Set up a network.\\nGetting one computer on the Internet is simple, but what about configuring an entire network of computers? Challenge yourself to learn different ways to connect computers to the Internet, share files across systems, and set up firewalls.\\n3-3. Learn about (and protect yourself from) threats to your computers, code, and networks.\\nKnowing how to set things up is a great start, but protecting your handiwork from security threats is a whole new world. Research things like Denial of Service attacks, code vulnerabilities, database hacks, and worm viruses to prepare yourself for what’s possible.\\n3-4. Network with other computer enthusiasts.\\nHaving a community of computer geniuses (or those who are still in the aspirational stage) will allow you to ask and answer questions, as well as learn about new technology that might interest you.\\nResearch local meetup groups in your area.\\nDiscover chatrooms and forums full of computer users that are accessible 24/7.\\n3-5. Commit to a lifetime of learning.\\nBecoming a computer genius will not happen overnight. It takes hard work, dedication, sharp problem-solving skills, and a genuine passion for information.\\nTechnology is always evolving, so you will need to stay current. The information you know now may be obsolete next year. Read computer magazines, follow popular computing blogs, and stay familiar with the latest in software technology.\\nUpgrade to the newest operating systems when they are released.\\nJoin beta-testing groups for various operating systems and apps so you can be among the first to get hands-on experience.\\n4. Becoming an Expert Troubleshooter\\n4-1. Define the problem.\\nWhen it comes down to it, the way you will be able to show off your genius computer skills is by solving problems. Troubleshooting is one of the most important skills to have in the IT industry.When you’re experiencing a computer issue, start by figuring out what exactly is going on.\\nDefining the problem as “The mouse doesn’t work” is too broad—narrow it down to the precise behavior or error message, such as “When I connect the mouse to the USB port, I see a message that says “This IRQ is assigned to the keyboard.”\\n4-2. Sharpen your Google skills.\\nOne of the most important skills a genius-in-the-making must learn is how to find information. There’s an art to getting accurate information about computer problems with Google.\\nUse quotes (“) around exact words and phrases (“this IRQ is assigned to the keyboard” instead of irq assigned to keyboard) to make sure your results match what you are looking for.\\nUsing Google to search a single site. If you’re looking for information about wireless networking and prefer your results be from Microsoft.com, type mouse problems site:microsoft.com instead of mouse problems microsoft.\\nFilter results by date (often relevant, as computers are always changing) by clicking “Search Tools” at the top of the search results, then change “Any time” to a different time range.\\n4-3. Read the search results thoroughly, and not just the first page.\\nWhile the manufacturer’s product pages may be among the first search results, some of the best troubleshooting information will come from user forums.\\nIt will not take you long to figure out which sites return good search results and which should be avoided. If your search for information brings you to a page that seemingly has little to do with what you searched, that source will not be useful to you.\\n4-4. Join forums to gain insight into problems experienced by users like you.\\nDon’t be afraid to ask questions—but before you do, try using the forum’s “search” feature to reduce the possibility of duplicating an already-resolved thread.\\nMany online forums will not allow you to search their content until you register for an account.\\n4-5. Fix your friends’ and family’s computers.\\nNow that you’ve been practicing your troubleshooting skills, find opportunities to get hands-on experience. Ask people you know if they are having trouble with their computers, and then offer to fix them. Use your new skills to find other people online who’ve experienced similar issues and try implementing suggested fixes.\\n4-6. Set up a test computer.\\nComputer geniuses learn how to troubleshoot by breaking things. Rather than messing with the computer you use every day, get yourself a test computer (or even better—a test lab with several types of computers) so you can really get your hands dirty.\\n5. Upgrading Your Computer (By Yourself)\\n5-1. Run system updates.\\nMake sure you are using the latest and greatest version of your operating system by checking for system updates.\\nUpdating operating system software may cause older applications to break. Frustrating! However, finding fixes for such issues is great for improving your troubleshooting skills!\\n5-2. Think about what you might be able to add to your computer to make it better.\\nAsk yourself some questions: What frustrates me about my computer? What can I not do with my computer that others can do with theirs? Once you have some answers, you should be able to determine what kind of hardware or software would improve your experience.\\n5-3. Browse forums for your specific type of computer to see what sorts of upgrades others are doing.\\nEven if you decide not to do any upgrades, you’ll still learn a lot about the different possible configurations for your computer.\\n6. Learning Everything You Can about One Computer Topic\\n6-1. Pick something about computers that interests you.\\nIs it web design? Great-looking video? Programming in Python? Becoming an expert on a single topic is an excellent way to assert yourself as a computer genius.\\n6-2. Read articles about your topic online.\\nUse your new Google search wizardry to find up-to-date articles about the topic that interests you. You should also:\\nFind (and follow) blogs that are dedicated to that topic.\\nJoin forums for users who share your interest in that topic.\\n6-3. Watch YouTube instructional videos about your topic.\\nInterested in learning how to set up Wordpress? Fixing broken motherboard components? You will find plenty of instructional videos for just about anything on YouTube.\\n6-4. Look into classes that focus on your topic.\\nIf you’re enrolled in college, check to see if classes on that subject are offered. Don’t forget community colleges—they provide a wide variety of courses at a cheaper rate than a university.\\nIf you would rather learn from home, there are plenty of online courses available in a wide variety of topics.\\nSome courses are even available for free on sites like Khan Academy and Coursera. You may even find a course on Youtube.\\nTips\\nBookmark websites with great information so you can find them again easily in the future.\\nSet goals, like creating a web page or writing a small, useful program. Don’t give up until you’ve met your goals.\\nSeek out volunteer opportunities that will help you get hands-on experience. Look into computer recycling programs, setting up classroom workstations, even volunteering at your local library.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you are passionate about learning new things, fascinated by computers, and enjoy problem-solving, you can become a computer genius. And don’t worry if you can’t pursue a computer science degree. 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Ask your librarian to show you books for beginning computer users, search your favorite bookseller's website for “computers for beginners,” or try one of these:\\nAny computer-related book in the “For Dummies” series, such as PCs for Dummies or Macs for Dummies.\\nHow Computers Work by Ron White\\nUpgrading and Repairing PCs by Scott Mueller\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn the names of the hardware in your computer.\", \"描述\": \"To become a computer genius, you will need to understand how the different parts of a computer work with one another.\\nEverything inside of your computer is connected to the motherboard, including the CPU, which acts as the computer’s “brain.”\\nRAM stores data that’s currently in use. Become familiar with how it works with and connects to the motherboard.\\nPeripheral cards add functions to the computer. Learn about sound, networking, and video cards.\\nStorage and disk drives are places to store data. Research hard drives, CD/DVD-ROM drives, and removable media like USB flash drives and SD cards.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Go to a computer store and try out the latest technology.\", \"描述\": \"Each computer’s hardware specs should be visible on a label or sign near the unit. Notice the different amounts of RAM, different CPU brands and speeds, and different screen resolutions.\\nTry opening the same program on different computers and notice differences in speed.\\nAsk a salesperson which computers they recommend for various tasks. For example, “Which of these units is good for gaming?” or “Which would you recommend to someone who just needs to write papers for college?” Then, observe the difference in specs between the different computers.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Watch YouTube videos of people opening their computers.\", \"描述\": \"Watch other computer geniuses install RAM or replace dead hard drives to get a sense of what these tasks entail. Listen carefully as the person describes what they are doing.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Open your computer and locate each hardware component.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re feeling confident, look inside your own computer to see how the different hardware components connect to one another.\\nIf you feel apprehensive, ask someone who knows more about computers to walk you through the process.\\nNever open a computer unless the machine is on a sturdy surface and you are properly grounded.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Using Different Operating Systems and Software\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn the differences between different operating systems.\", \"描述\": \"There are pros and cons to using Windows, Mac OS X, Linux, Chrome OS, etc. Visit each operating system’s website to familiarize yourself with its features. Then, search the web for blogs that cater specifically to users of those operating systems. Reading user blogs is a great way to discover how people use their computers.\\nWindows is pre-installed on most PCs and is used by businesses as both servers and workstations. Windows is also popular with home users and gamers who love tinkering with hardware.\\nMac OSX is known to be sleek and aesthetically pleasing. Made popular by artists, Mac OSX almost always runs on Apple hardware (although it can be installed on modern desktops) and has a familiar design that is gaining in popularity.\\nLinux is a free (usually) flavor of “Unix” used by more advanced computer users. It’s highly customizable, secure, can be used on basically any type of hardware to perform any type of function.\\nChrome OS is a simple operating system found on Google Chromebooks. It’s geared toward people who are more interested in using the web (and web applications) than anything else.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Use every opportunity to play with operating systems other than the one you use.\", \"描述\": \"To be a well-rounded computer genius, you should have experience using all operating systems and a wide variety of software.\\nYou can find Windows PCs at public libraries. Most college campuses have both PCs and Macs available for student use. Alternatively, you can ask a friend or a relative if you can try using their computer.\\nTry doing the same sort of task (like browsing the web) on a Windows, Linux, or Mac computer and notice the differences.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Explore the operating system you use on your own computer.\", \"描述\": \"Both Macs and Windows have built-in System panels that provide details about the computer. Try to explore a new area of the Control Panel (Windows) or System Preferences (Mac) every day. Just poking around and clicking to view the different options will add necessary information to your budding genius brain.\\n\\nTo open the Control Panel in Windows, press ⊞ Win+S to launch the search, then type control panel. Click “Control Panel” in the search results, then browse through the various panels.\\nTo view System Preferences on your Mac: Click the Apple menu at the top-left corner of the screen, then click “System Preferences.”\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Install new software.\", \"描述\": \"If it’s your first time, start with something easy, like a new web browser. If you’re at a more advanced level, try installing Linux. Linux is a free operating system popular with the geeks (your team!) that can be installed on lots of different hardware configurations.\\nBecause Linux is so popular with people who love computers, there’s an entire community of Linux users active on chats and forums. Learning Linux is bound to make you new friends, perhaps even a mentor.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Gaining Advanced Skills\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Study programming languages such as Java, SQL, Ruby on Rails, or PHP.\", \"描述\": \"Once you have nailed the basics, venture into advanced territory. Knowing how to code separates the computer geniuses from casual users. Research what different programming languages do and select one to study.\\nGet a book on the language. Starting with a beginner’s book will build a great foundation for your advanced study.\\nLook into classes that provide hands-on coding experience. You will have to pay for some of the more prestigious courses available through coding academies, but you’ll find the occasional free class through Coursera and Khan Academy.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Set up a network.\", \"描述\": \"Getting one computer on the Internet is simple, but what about configuring an entire network of computers? Challenge yourself to learn different ways to connect computers to the Internet, share files across systems, and set up firewalls.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn about (and protect yourself from) threats to your computers, code, and networks.\", \"描述\": \"Knowing how to set things up is a great start, but protecting your handiwork from security threats is a whole new world. Research things like Denial of Service attacks, code vulnerabilities, database hacks, and worm viruses to prepare yourself for what’s possible.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Network with other computer enthusiasts.\", \"描述\": \"Having a community of computer geniuses (or those who are still in the aspirational stage) will allow you to ask and answer questions, as well as learn about new technology that might interest you.\\nResearch local meetup groups in your area.\\nDiscover chatrooms and forums full of computer users that are accessible 24/7.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Commit to a lifetime of learning.\", \"描述\": \"Becoming a computer genius will not happen overnight. It takes hard work, dedication, sharp problem-solving skills, and a genuine passion for information.\\nTechnology is always evolving, so you will need to stay current. The information you know now may be obsolete next year. Read computer magazines, follow popular computing blogs, and stay familiar with the latest in software technology.\\nUpgrade to the newest operating systems when they are released.\\nJoin beta-testing groups for various operating systems and apps so you can be among the first to get hands-on experience.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Becoming an Expert Troubleshooter\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Define the problem.\", \"描述\": \"When it comes down to it, the way you will be able to show off your genius computer skills is by solving problems. Troubleshooting is one of the most important skills to have in the IT industry.When you’re experiencing a computer issue, start by figuring out what exactly is going on.\\nDefining the problem as “The mouse doesn’t work” is too broad—narrow it down to the precise behavior or error message, such as “When I connect the mouse to the USB port, I see a message that says “This IRQ is assigned to the keyboard.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Sharpen your Google skills.\", \"描述\": \"One of the most important skills a genius-in-the-making must learn is how to find information. There’s an art to getting accurate information about computer problems with Google.\\nUse quotes (“) around exact words and phrases (“this IRQ is assigned to the keyboard” instead of irq assigned to keyboard) to make sure your results match what you are looking for.\\nUsing Google to search a single site. If you’re looking for information about wireless networking and prefer your results be from Microsoft.com, type mouse problems site:microsoft.com instead of mouse problems microsoft.\\nFilter results by date (often relevant, as computers are always changing) by clicking “Search Tools” at the top of the search results, then change “Any time” to a different time range.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Read the search results thoroughly, and not just the first page.\", \"描述\": \"While the manufacturer’s product pages may be among the first search results, some of the best troubleshooting information will come from user forums.\\nIt will not take you long to figure out which sites return good search results and which should be avoided. If your search for information brings you to a page that seemingly has little to do with what you searched, that source will not be useful to you.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Join forums to gain insight into problems experienced by users like you.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t be afraid to ask questions—but before you do, try using the forum’s “search” feature to reduce the possibility of duplicating an already-resolved thread.\\nMany online forums will not allow you to search their content until you register for an account.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Fix your friends’ and family’s computers.\", \"描述\": \"Now that you’ve been practicing your troubleshooting skills, find opportunities to get hands-on experience. Ask people you know if they are having trouble with their computers, and then offer to fix them. Use your new skills to find other people online who’ve experienced similar issues and try implementing suggested fixes.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Set up a test computer.\", \"描述\": \"Computer geniuses learn how to troubleshoot by breaking things. Rather than messing with the computer you use every day, get yourself a test computer (or even better—a test lab with several types of computers) so you can really get your hands dirty.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Upgrading Your Computer (By Yourself)\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Run system updates.\", \"描述\": \"Make sure you are using the latest and greatest version of your operating system by checking for system updates.\\nUpdating operating system software may cause older applications to break. Frustrating! However, finding fixes for such issues is great for improving your troubleshooting skills!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Think about what you might be able to add to your computer to make it better.\", \"描述\": \"Ask yourself some questions: What frustrates me about my computer? What can I not do with my computer that others can do with theirs? Once you have some answers, you should be able to determine what kind of hardware or software would improve your experience.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Browse forums for your specific type of computer to see what sorts of upgrades others are doing.\", \"描述\": \"Even if you decide not to do any upgrades, you’ll still learn a lot about the different possible configurations for your computer.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Learning Everything You Can about One Computer Topic\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pick something about computers that interests you.\", \"描述\": \"Is it web design? Great-looking video? Programming in Python? Becoming an expert on a single topic is an excellent way to assert yourself as a computer genius.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Read articles about your topic online.\", \"描述\": \"Use your new Google search wizardry to find up-to-date articles about the topic that interests you. You should also:\\nFind (and follow) blogs that are dedicated to that topic.\\nJoin forums for users who share your interest in that topic.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Watch YouTube instructional videos about your topic.\", \"描述\": \"Interested in learning how to set up Wordpress? Fixing broken motherboard components? You will find plenty of instructional videos for just about anything on YouTube.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Look into classes that focus on your topic.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re enrolled in college, check to see if classes on that subject are offered. Don’t forget community colleges—they provide a wide variety of courses at a cheaper rate than a university.\\nIf you would rather learn from home, there are plenty of online courses available in a wide variety of topics.\\nSome courses are even available for free on sites like Khan Academy and Coursera. You may even find a course on Youtube.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Bookmark websites with great information so you can find them again easily in the future.\\n\", \"Set goals, like creating a web page or writing a small, useful program. Don’t give up until you’ve met your goals.\\n\", \"Seek out volunteer opportunities that will help you get hands-on experience. Look into computer recycling programs, setting up classroom workstations, even volunteering at your local library.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Loving the Skin You're In
1-1. Smile at yourself in the mirror often.
There are loads of studies that show that smiling can be a great way to feel more positive and happier about yourself and your life. Smiling in front of a mirror can really help towards building the self-confidence you desire.
Each morning before you go out into the world, take the time to do the mirror technique. Stand in front of the mirror with a straight posture and your shoulders pulled back. Take a deep breath. Smile at yourself. Notice characteristics about yourself that you admire. Do you love your eyes? You new lipstick color? Your trendy hairstyle?
Be prepared. There are always gonna be people who put you down because of you skin color. Remember, what they make fun of most of the time is just stereotypes. Don't be ashamed of who you are. You're a fun, unique person. Don't let ANYONE tell you otherwise.
1-2. Recite a personal mantra.
Mantras are statements that we repeat in our heads over and over again throughout the day. If the statement playing on a loop in your head is negative, you will feel bad about yourself or lack confidence in your abilities. Positive statements empower you to become the person you long to be.
You can say your mantra in front of the mirror or you can actively think the phrase as you meditate or go through your morning activities like making your bed and brushing your teeth. Restating the positive will eventually allow it to manifest in your life. You can also use your mantra in times of great stress or when you are doubting yourself.
Examples of mantras can be quotes or lyrics from songs that reflect your core beliefs, or they can be simple declarations such as "I am enough." or “I am not who I’m going to be. I am always becoming."
1-3. Make a list of your positive traits.
If you lack self-confidence, you need to take a moment and think about your strengths. Sit down and create a list. This reminds you of all the things you have to be proud of and can slowly make you more confident over time. Sometimes, we focus so much on what we are not that we overlook what we are.
These traits can be physical, academic, or work-related. For instance, you could make a list of the following attributes: I have beautiful, radiant skin. I am a hard worker. My legs are strong and healthy. I am intelligent. I am a wonderful friend. I am a prayer warrior. I am creative. My body is gorgeous.
Reflect on your positive attributes and you will feel better equipped to go out into the world as the beautiful, capable person that you are.
Keep this list handy for when you are feeling down or not so great about yourself. Hang it on your vanity to look over as you get ready, on your refrigerator, or keep a small list in your wallet for easy access around the clock.
1-4. Get a grasp on your culture.
Research has shown that blacks often progress through several stages in a racial identity model in which you first view whites as being better and yourself as being inferior until the last stage where you internalize your culture and reap a great deal of self-esteem and confidence. Getting a thorough understanding of your historical and cultural background can help you to assimilate your feelings about race into a positive self-identity.
You can read books and listen to inspirational speakers that explain all aspects of your culture. You can also talk to elders in your family and community who share your racial background to glean their perspectives.
Become aware of the inherent strengths of your racial group. Despite racism and historical oppression, black communities have many significant values such as emphasizing the importance of togetherness and community, focusing on bettering oneself and getting an education, leaning on family in times of need, and having a strong sense of religion or spirituality.
Gaining knowledge about yourself and your racial group can allow you to see all the reasons you have to be self-confident and full of pride about your race.
1-5. Find your voice.
If you are lacking confidence, you may not feel comfortable speaking up for yourself or expressing your thoughts or opinions. Every woman must learn to develop her own unique way of expressing herself. Practice being assertive, and not aggressive.
Asserting yourself means speaking your mind while still respecting others. Ways to assert yourself might include preparing your words before you speak, using "I" statements, refraining from blaming the other person, and not holding grudges in communication.
2. Uncovering Your Best Self
2-1. Embrace your unique style and personality.
Do you feel that you are often put into a box because of your skin color or racial background? You don't have to be. You can be whoever you want. Like what you like. Country music. Poetry. Hunting and fishing. Fashion. TV or books.
Feel free to explore likes and dislikes. It's not disloyal to change your favorite food, musician, movie, animal or whatever else by the hour if you want! Learn about the things that interest you. Discover your own culture and that of others. Stop learning if you think it's getting boring. Knowing what you like and engaging others in your interests will make you feel more confident.
Remember that it is OK to be who you are. It is in your power to become whatever you wish or to stay just the way you are. It's your choice!
2-2. Nurture your body, mind, and spirit.
Another simple way to build confidence is by taking care of your temple. When you know that you are caring for yourself you feel better about the you that is being put on display for the world.
Knowing that your body looks the best it can look allows you to carry yourself with pride and respect. Of course, not everyone can look like a personal trainer. Exercise regularly but also accept that all human bodies are uniquely different. Learn to love yours whether it is skinny, curvy, or heavier. Here are six ways physical activity can make you more confident.
It's nice to treat yourself every now and then but you should also make sure you are fueling your body with the adequate vitamins and nutrients it needs for optimal functioning. Maintain a balanced diet of lean meats, whole grains, and plenty of fruits and veggies. Also, drink 8 glasses or more of water each day for radiant skin.
If you're stumbling through the day on too little sleep your mental health and self-perception could be at risk. Regular sleep of approximately 7 to 9 hours will improve your self-esteem and overall health.
Getting in touch with your spiritual side can do wonders for your confidence. If you are a spiritual person, then highlighting that part of yourself will improve your self-esteem and help you to connect with others. Remember, that you were born to serve a unique purpose.
2-3. Practice good hygiene.
Having knowledge that you look and smell your best is a major confidence booster! When you put in extra time on your appearance, you are able to lift your chin a bit higher. You can look and feel confident no matter if you are wearing a t-shirt and sweats or your best dress. All you have to do is maintain good health and keep yourself clean and well-groomed.
Shower every day or every other day (depending upon your skin's dryness), use deodorant, brush your teeth twice a day, floss your teeth before bedtime, and wash your face two times a day. And, remember, don't go to sleep without removing your make up. It's not great for your skin. Care for your skin by moisturizing and using sunscreen.
Give yourself a fantastic scent; make it your trademark. Don't feel that a perfume you like is not for you just because the person promoting it has different-colored skin than you. Wear whatever scent you like, or, don't wear one at all. You can also use natural oils, creams and powders. It's a fantastic confidence booster when someone says, "You smell good"...and you aren't wearing any perfume or scented products.
2-4. Develop a beauty routine based on your natural skin and hair type.
Black girls can boast a range of skin colors from beige to deep mocha. Plus, within those skin types is a wide variety of complexions and skin types. Hair types are just as variable. Learn your unique type and perform daily or weekly regimens to keep your skin and hair healthy and luminous.
Learn how to Take Care of Black Girls' Hair. Whether it's relaxed, natural, braided, or weaved, just make sure it's clean and healthy. African-American hair types are very versatile: it can be worn straight, curly, kinky, loose, braided, locked or just about any other style you can think of. Embrace this fact and your natural beauty! There are numerous online resources to help you learn how to care for your hair.
The color of your skin won't usually determine your beauty regimen. Instead, base your rituals on the type of skin you have, which can be oily, dry, sensitive, acne-scarred, wrinkly, or rosacea. Regardless of your skin type, most beauty routines should include gentle cleansing, sunscreen, moisturizing, and makeup products (optional) that align with your skin needs.
Visit a beauty counter at a drug store or department store to learn what products are best for your skin type. The salesperson there should be able to help you. If you have a special concern such as keloid skin or acne scarring which is common in African American women, see a dermatologist for professional guidance.
Tips
Remember that if you're not healthy on the inside (mentally and physically), you will not feel healthy on the outside. Take care of your body, mind, and soul!
Know that you are still growing and your body is changing. We all grow into ourselves and our looks, too! As long as you take care of yourself with good exercise, eating, and hygiene habits, you can look great in whatever skin you're in.
Know that you deserve to be treated well. Take care of yourself and other people will realize that you deserve to be respected and treated well.
Warnings
Be "good enough" for yourself first. If people deserve to be in your life, they will appreciate you for how you want to be.
People will criticize you. Remember to ask yourself whether the change would make you happy or grow as a person. If you don't think you'd be happy, maybe you shouldn't try to change for others.
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Recite a personal mantra.\\nMantras are statements that we repeat in our heads over and over again throughout the day. If the statement playing on a loop in your head is negative, you will feel bad about yourself or lack confidence in your abilities. Positive statements empower you to become the person you long to be.\\nYou can say your mantra in front of the mirror or you can actively think the phrase as you meditate or go through your morning activities like making your bed and brushing your teeth. Restating the positive will eventually allow it to manifest in your life. You can also use your mantra in times of great stress or when you are doubting yourself.\\nExamples of mantras can be quotes or lyrics from songs that reflect your core beliefs, or they can be simple declarations such as \\\"I am enough.\\\" or “I am not who I’m going to be. I am always becoming.\\\"\\n1-3. Make a list of your positive traits.\\nIf you lack self-confidence, you need to take a moment and think about your strengths. Sit down and create a list. This reminds you of all the things you have to be proud of and can slowly make you more confident over time. Sometimes, we focus so much on what we are not that we overlook what we are.\\nThese traits can be physical, academic, or work-related. For instance, you could make a list of the following attributes: I have beautiful, radiant skin. I am a hard worker. My legs are strong and healthy. I am intelligent. I am a wonderful friend. I am a prayer warrior. I am creative. My body is gorgeous.\\nReflect on your positive attributes and you will feel better equipped to go out into the world as the beautiful, capable person that you are.\\nKeep this list handy for when you are feeling down or not so great about yourself. Hang it on your vanity to look over as you get ready, on your refrigerator, or keep a small list in your wallet for easy access around the clock.\\n1-4. Get a grasp on your culture.\\nResearch has shown that blacks often progress through several stages in a racial identity model in which you first view whites as being better and yourself as being inferior until the last stage where you internalize your culture and reap a great deal of self-esteem and confidence. Getting a thorough understanding of your historical and cultural background can help you to assimilate your feelings about race into a positive self-identity.\\nYou can read books and listen to inspirational speakers that explain all aspects of your culture. You can also talk to elders in your family and community who share your racial background to glean their perspectives.\\nBecome aware of the inherent strengths of your racial group. Despite racism and historical oppression, black communities have many significant values such as emphasizing the importance of togetherness and community, focusing on bettering oneself and getting an education, leaning on family in times of need, and having a strong sense of religion or spirituality.\\nGaining knowledge about yourself and your racial group can allow you to see all the reasons you have to be self-confident and full of pride about your race.\\n1-5. Find your voice.\\nIf you are lacking confidence, you may not feel comfortable speaking up for yourself or expressing your thoughts or opinions. Every woman must learn to develop her own unique way of expressing herself. Practice being assertive, and not aggressive.\\nAsserting yourself means speaking your mind while still respecting others. Ways to assert yourself might include preparing your words before you speak, using \\\"I\\\" statements, refraining from blaming the other person, and not holding grudges in communication.\\n2. Uncovering Your Best Self\\n2-1. Embrace your unique style and personality.\\nDo you feel that you are often put into a box because of your skin color or racial background? You don't have to be. You can be whoever you want. Like what you like. Country music. Poetry. Hunting and fishing. Fashion. TV or books.\\nFeel free to explore likes and dislikes. It's not disloyal to change your favorite food, musician, movie, animal or whatever else by the hour if you want! Learn about the things that interest you. Discover your own culture and that of others. Stop learning if you think it's getting boring. Knowing what you like and engaging others in your interests will make you feel more confident.\\nRemember that it is OK to be who you are. It is in your power to become whatever you wish or to stay just the way you are. It's your choice!\\n2-2. Nurture your body, mind, and spirit.\\nAnother simple way to build confidence is by taking care of your temple. When you know that you are caring for yourself you feel better about the you that is being put on display for the world.\\nKnowing that your body looks the best it can look allows you to carry yourself with pride and respect. Of course, not everyone can look like a personal trainer. Exercise regularly but also accept that all human bodies are uniquely different. Learn to love yours whether it is skinny, curvy, or heavier. Here are six ways physical activity can make you more confident.\\nIt's nice to treat yourself every now and then but you should also make sure you are fueling your body with the adequate vitamins and nutrients it needs for optimal functioning. Maintain a balanced diet of lean meats, whole grains, and plenty of fruits and veggies. Also, drink 8 glasses or more of water each day for radiant skin.\\nIf you're stumbling through the day on too little sleep your mental health and self-perception could be at risk. Regular sleep of approximately 7 to 9 hours will improve your self-esteem and overall health.\\nGetting in touch with your spiritual side can do wonders for your confidence. If you are a spiritual person, then highlighting that part of yourself will improve your self-esteem and help you to connect with others. Remember, that you were born to serve a unique purpose.\\n2-3. Practice good hygiene.\\nHaving knowledge that you look and smell your best is a major confidence booster! When you put in extra time on your appearance, you are able to lift your chin a bit higher. You can look and feel confident no matter if you are wearing a t-shirt and sweats or your best dress. All you have to do is maintain good health and keep yourself clean and well-groomed.\\nShower every day or every other day (depending upon your skin's dryness), use deodorant, brush your teeth twice a day, floss your teeth before bedtime, and wash your face two times a day. And, remember, don't go to sleep without removing your make up. It's not great for your skin. Care for your skin by moisturizing and using sunscreen.\\nGive yourself a fantastic scent; make it your trademark. Don't feel that a perfume you like is not for you just because the person promoting it has different-colored skin than you. Wear whatever scent you like, or, don't wear one at all. You can also use natural oils, creams and powders. It's a fantastic confidence booster when someone says, \\\"You smell good\\\"...and you aren't wearing any perfume or scented products.\\n2-4. Develop a beauty routine based on your natural skin and hair type.\\nBlack girls can boast a range of skin colors from beige to deep mocha. Plus, within those skin types is a wide variety of complexions and skin types. Hair types are just as variable. Learn your unique type and perform daily or weekly regimens to keep your skin and hair healthy and luminous.\\nLearn how to Take Care of Black Girls' Hair. Whether it's relaxed, natural, braided, or weaved, just make sure it's clean and healthy. African-American hair types are very versatile: it can be worn straight, curly, kinky, loose, braided, locked or just about any other style you can think of. Embrace this fact and your natural beauty! There are numerous online resources to help you learn how to care for your hair.\\nThe color of your skin won't usually determine your beauty regimen. Instead, base your rituals on the type of skin you have, which can be oily, dry, sensitive, acne-scarred, wrinkly, or rosacea. Regardless of your skin type, most beauty routines should include gentle cleansing, sunscreen, moisturizing, and makeup products (optional) that align with your skin needs. \\nVisit a beauty counter at a drug store or department store to learn what products are best for your skin type. The salesperson there should be able to help you. If you have a special concern such as keloid skin or acne scarring which is common in African American women, see a dermatologist for professional guidance.\\nTips\\nRemember that if you're not healthy on the inside (mentally and physically), you will not feel healthy on the outside. Take care of your body, mind, and soul!\\nKnow that you are still growing and your body is changing. We all grow into ourselves and our looks, too! As long as you take care of yourself with good exercise, eating, and hygiene habits, you can look great in whatever skin you're in.\\nKnow that you deserve to be treated well. Take care of yourself and other people will realize that you deserve to be respected and treated well.\\nWarnings\\nBe \\\"good enough\\\" for yourself first. If people deserve to be in your life, they will appreciate you for how you want to be.\\nPeople will criticize you. Remember to ask yourself whether the change would make you happy or grow as a person. If you don't think you'd be happy, maybe you shouldn't try to change for others.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Not feeling confident is one of the most common issues for women all over the world. Sadly, because black females belong to a minority group, they often perceive themselves as not being as good as other girls. This inferiority might be based in their socially influenced perception of race, social status, age, height, weight, or perceived level of attractiveness. Furthermore, black girls may experience racism, sexism, and be marginalized. Black girls deserve to feel true confidence and uplift the positive characteristics of their appearances and racial/cultural backgrounds. Learning to love the skin you're in is the first step towards having lasting confidence as a black girl.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Loving the Skin You're In\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Smile at yourself in the mirror often.\", \"描述\": \"There are loads of studies that show that smiling can be a great way to feel more positive and happier about yourself and your life. Smiling in front of a mirror can really help towards building the self-confidence you desire.\\nEach morning before you go out into the world, take the time to do the mirror technique. Stand in front of the mirror with a straight posture and your shoulders pulled back. Take a deep breath. Smile at yourself. Notice characteristics about yourself that you admire. Do you love your eyes? You new lipstick color? Your trendy hairstyle?\\nBe prepared. There are always gonna be people who put you down because of you skin color. Remember, what they make fun of most of the time is just stereotypes. Don't be ashamed of who you are. You're a fun, unique person. Don't let ANYONE tell you otherwise.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Recite a personal mantra.\", \"描述\": \"Mantras are statements that we repeat in our heads over and over again throughout the day. If the statement playing on a loop in your head is negative, you will feel bad about yourself or lack confidence in your abilities. Positive statements empower you to become the person you long to be.\\nYou can say your mantra in front of the mirror or you can actively think the phrase as you meditate or go through your morning activities like making your bed and brushing your teeth. Restating the positive will eventually allow it to manifest in your life. You can also use your mantra in times of great stress or when you are doubting yourself.\\nExamples of mantras can be quotes or lyrics from songs that reflect your core beliefs, or they can be simple declarations such as \\\"I am enough.\\\" or “I am not who I’m going to be. I am always becoming.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make a list of your positive traits.\", \"描述\": \"If you lack self-confidence, you need to take a moment and think about your strengths. Sit down and create a list. This reminds you of all the things you have to be proud of and can slowly make you more confident over time. Sometimes, we focus so much on what we are not that we overlook what we are.\\nThese traits can be physical, academic, or work-related. For instance, you could make a list of the following attributes: I have beautiful, radiant skin. I am a hard worker. My legs are strong and healthy. I am intelligent. I am a wonderful friend. I am a prayer warrior. I am creative. My body is gorgeous.\\nReflect on your positive attributes and you will feel better equipped to go out into the world as the beautiful, capable person that you are.\\nKeep this list handy for when you are feeling down or not so great about yourself. Hang it on your vanity to look over as you get ready, on your refrigerator, or keep a small list in your wallet for easy access around the clock.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Get a grasp on your culture.\", \"描述\": \"Research has shown that blacks often progress through several stages in a racial identity model in which you first view whites as being better and yourself as being inferior until the last stage where you internalize your culture and reap a great deal of self-esteem and confidence. Getting a thorough understanding of your historical and cultural background can help you to assimilate your feelings about race into a positive self-identity.\\nYou can read books and listen to inspirational speakers that explain all aspects of your culture. You can also talk to elders in your family and community who share your racial background to glean their perspectives.\\nBecome aware of the inherent strengths of your racial group. Despite racism and historical oppression, black communities have many significant values such as emphasizing the importance of togetherness and community, focusing on bettering oneself and getting an education, leaning on family in times of need, and having a strong sense of religion or spirituality.\\nGaining knowledge about yourself and your racial group can allow you to see all the reasons you have to be self-confident and full of pride about your race.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Find your voice.\", \"描述\": \"If you are lacking confidence, you may not feel comfortable speaking up for yourself or expressing your thoughts or opinions. Every woman must learn to develop her own unique way of expressing herself. Practice being assertive, and not aggressive.\\nAsserting yourself means speaking your mind while still respecting others. Ways to assert yourself might include preparing your words before you speak, using \\\"I\\\" statements, refraining from blaming the other person, and not holding grudges in communication.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Uncovering Your Best Self\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Embrace your unique style and personality.\", \"描述\": \"Do you feel that you are often put into a box because of your skin color or racial background? You don't have to be. You can be whoever you want. Like what you like. Country music. Poetry. Hunting and fishing. Fashion. TV or books.\\nFeel free to explore likes and dislikes. It's not disloyal to change your favorite food, musician, movie, animal or whatever else by the hour if you want! Learn about the things that interest you. Discover your own culture and that of others. Stop learning if you think it's getting boring. Knowing what you like and engaging others in your interests will make you feel more confident.\\nRemember that it is OK to be who you are. It is in your power to become whatever you wish or to stay just the way you are. It's your choice!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Nurture your body, mind, and spirit.\", \"描述\": \"Another simple way to build confidence is by taking care of your temple. When you know that you are caring for yourself you feel better about the you that is being put on display for the world.\\nKnowing that your body looks the best it can look allows you to carry yourself with pride and respect. Of course, not everyone can look like a personal trainer. Exercise regularly but also accept that all human bodies are uniquely different. Learn to love yours whether it is skinny, curvy, or heavier. Here are six ways physical activity can make you more confident.\\nIt's nice to treat yourself every now and then but you should also make sure you are fueling your body with the adequate vitamins and nutrients it needs for optimal functioning. Maintain a balanced diet of lean meats, whole grains, and plenty of fruits and veggies. Also, drink 8 glasses or more of water each day for radiant skin.\\nIf you're stumbling through the day on too little sleep your mental health and self-perception could be at risk. Regular sleep of approximately 7 to 9 hours will improve your self-esteem and overall health.\\nGetting in touch with your spiritual side can do wonders for your confidence. If you are a spiritual person, then highlighting that part of yourself will improve your self-esteem and help you to connect with others. Remember, that you were born to serve a unique purpose.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Practice good hygiene.\", \"描述\": \"Having knowledge that you look and smell your best is a major confidence booster! When you put in extra time on your appearance, you are able to lift your chin a bit higher. You can look and feel confident no matter if you are wearing a t-shirt and sweats or your best dress. All you have to do is maintain good health and keep yourself clean and well-groomed.\\nShower every day or every other day (depending upon your skin's dryness), use deodorant, brush your teeth twice a day, floss your teeth before bedtime, and wash your face two times a day. And, remember, don't go to sleep without removing your make up. It's not great for your skin. Care for your skin by moisturizing and using sunscreen.\\nGive yourself a fantastic scent; make it your trademark. Don't feel that a perfume you like is not for you just because the person promoting it has different-colored skin than you. Wear whatever scent you like, or, don't wear one at all. You can also use natural oils, creams and powders. It's a fantastic confidence booster when someone says, \\\"You smell good\\\"...and you aren't wearing any perfume or scented products.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Develop a beauty routine based on your natural skin and hair type.\", \"描述\": \"Black girls can boast a range of skin colors from beige to deep mocha. Plus, within those skin types is a wide variety of complexions and skin types. Hair types are just as variable. Learn your unique type and perform daily or weekly regimens to keep your skin and hair healthy and luminous.\\nLearn how to Take Care of Black Girls' Hair. Whether it's relaxed, natural, braided, or weaved, just make sure it's clean and healthy. African-American hair types are very versatile: it can be worn straight, curly, kinky, loose, braided, locked or just about any other style you can think of. Embrace this fact and your natural beauty! 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1. Steps
1-1. Think of a good idea or subject to make a speech or presentation on.
If you are just making an informal speech or presentation with no subject restrictions, it would be helpful to choose a topic that you yourself are interested in. This way, it would be less difficult for you to talk about the subject, as opposed to something that you know very little about. Of course, it would also be better if the subject that you choose is engaging enough to a wide variety of people to begin with, so that it wouldn't be very hard to capture their interest.
1-2. Choose your audience.
For the first few times that you are practicing being a good speaker, you might want to choose like-minded people who are likely to have the same orientation as you have regarding the subject of your talk. This could be a group of colleagues, acquaintances, members of your community, or other social groups that you deem appropriate. As you gain more experience and confidence, you would be able to gather knowledge and techniques on how to capture and engage even an audience who is just hearing about the subject of your talk for the first time.
1-3. Research on your idea or topic.
With any talk that you are giving, it is important that you know your subject. The general assumption of your audience is that you, as the subject matter expert, know about the topic more than they do, and that you are there to share knowledge and information that they do not know about yet. There is nothing more embarrassing than a speaker who does not do his homework, and who comes to a talk unprepared and with little knowledge about the topic. Be prepared to answer any questions that might come up relating to your presentation. If you research and prepare adequately, that in itself will already boost your confidence level and lessen any apprehensions that you might have with giving the talk.
1-4. Rehearse and prepare several versions of your presentation.
Depending on the reception and response of your audience -- which you will not know until the minute that you start your talk -- you might want to rehearse different versions beforehand to tailor to your audience's needs: one shorter, one more detailed, one for interested people, one for an audience who seem to be losing interest. This will ensure that you keep the audience engaged.
When you practice, try reciting your speech in front of a mirror so you feel a little more comfortable.
You can also record yourself speaking out loud. Then, you can watch the replay, critique your performance, and practice with those improvements in mind.
1-5. Always make a paper copy of your slides or handout.
This is so you can have a hard copy of something to refer to during your talk, and so you can distribute copies to your audience as well, if you wish. Even if you have a beautiful, stylized, and well-rehearsed PowerPoint presentation, you never know what you will find when you get to your speaking place. A very distracted IT guy who cannot get the presentation to display on screen right away, perhaps? It is always important to have a contingency plan in cases like these, so that you are not at their mercy. Encountering these situations and not having a back-up plan will not make you feel confident.
1-6. Find ways to connect with your audience.
Keep a pleasant, cheerful disposition all throughout the talk. Maintain eye contact with the audience members. Make simple hand gestures. These actions will also allow you to relax better, since by establishing a connection, you will be able to see your audience as humans -- just like you are -- who want you to do well in your talk, and not as high-and-mighty beings who would take a lot for you to impress.
1-7. Engage the audience.
Remember they are there because you have already done something right: perhaps, you wrote an intriguing outline of the talk, or you have interesting credentials or a fascinating biography, which has persuaded them enough to come to your talk. Either way, you definitely have something they are interested in since they took the time to come and hear you speak. Engage them by interjecting humor in your talk, and by inserting personal anecdotes. Doing these will keep the talk from being too rigid and formal, and will definitely keep your audience more interested. If you sense that the audience is already losing interest, shorten your talk and go with Q&A for the rest of the time. People are always more engaged when there is more dialogue between the speaker and themselves.
1-8. If an audience member asks you a question that you don't know the answer to, don't panic.
Take a moment to jot down the question with utmost consideration, ask for the name and contact details (including the e-mail address) of the person who asked, and tell them that you will send them that information no later than two business days. Of course, make sure that you follow-through with your commitment, even if you find the question "silly" or "stupid".
1-9. Show your audience how much you admire their intelligence, and how much you respect their opinions.
No matter how difficult the audience can get, or even if there are some who might not agree with what you are saying, never become irritated with them. Remember that you are the speaker, so you need to maintain authority and keep yourself in check. Remain polite, calm, and courteous at all costs. If you address them properly and in a dignified manner, the difficult people who cause you troubles will end up standing out like a sore thumb in their rudeness, while you will look kind, patient and magnanimous. You will have plenty of time to indulge in those feelings and commiserate with your friends about it as soon as the talk is over, not before.
1-10. Always tell the audience, in the end, that they were a great audience.
Thank them for their time. Each person in the audience likes to think it was him or her who made you say that. It makes their day.
1-11. Do not forget to smile.
This is an important thing to remember, no matter how stressed you are during the time of your talk. People are inherently attracted by a smiling face, and will already create wonders for how your talk would go.
1-12. Don't speak too quickly.
Even if you think you are speaking too slow, most likely, it is the perfect pace to go. If you do stumble with your words or mess up, just laugh it off and don't stress over it to much. You may have made a mistake, but you likely noticed it more than your audience. Remember that mistakes are an integral part of the learning process, and will help hone you to become a better speaker in time.
Tips
Be sincere at all times. Even if you don't know something, be sincere and admit it. It will work much better than stumbling over a "non-answer" answer.
Use humor whenever you can, but keep it under control and make it classy. Don't overdo it. It will look terribly unprofessional.
Research your talk but do not forget your own take on the subject. Perhaps a story or two from your personal experience? It will make you look more human and genuine, as opposed to using just plain facts.
Warnings
Do not forget to be kind to your audience. It will carry you a long way. In general, people coming for a presentation tend to be supportive and helpful. They don't wake up thinking: "I will embarrass my speaker today." If that happens, often inadvertently, it is up to you to stay in control handling the situation with great poise and dignity.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Steps\\n1-1. Think of a good idea or subject to make a speech or presentation on.\\nIf you are just making an informal speech or presentation with no subject restrictions, it would be helpful to choose a topic that you yourself are interested in. This way, it would be less difficult for you to talk about the subject, as opposed to something that you know very little about. Of course, it would also be better if the subject that you choose is engaging enough to a wide variety of people to begin with, so that it wouldn't be very hard to capture their interest.\\n1-2. Choose your audience.\\nFor the first few times that you are practicing being a good speaker, you might want to choose like-minded people who are likely to have the same orientation as you have regarding the subject of your talk. This could be a group of colleagues, acquaintances, members of your community, or other social groups that you deem appropriate. As you gain more experience and confidence, you would be able to gather knowledge and techniques on how to capture and engage even an audience who is just hearing about the subject of your talk for the first time.\\n1-3. Research on your idea or topic.\\nWith any talk that you are giving, it is important that you know your subject. The general assumption of your audience is that you, as the subject matter expert, know about the topic more than they do, and that you are there to share knowledge and information that they do not know about yet. There is nothing more embarrassing than a speaker who does not do his homework, and who comes to a talk unprepared and with little knowledge about the topic. Be prepared to answer any questions that might come up relating to your presentation. If you research and prepare adequately, that in itself will already boost your confidence level and lessen any apprehensions that you might have with giving the talk.\\n1-4. Rehearse and prepare several versions of your presentation.\\nDepending on the reception and response of your audience -- which you will not know until the minute that you start your talk -- you might want to rehearse different versions beforehand to tailor to your audience's needs: one shorter, one more detailed, one for interested people, one for an audience who seem to be losing interest. This will ensure that you keep the audience engaged.\\nWhen you practice, try reciting your speech in front of a mirror so you feel a little more comfortable.\\nYou can also record yourself speaking out loud. Then, you can watch the replay, critique your performance, and practice with those improvements in mind.\\n1-5. Always make a paper copy of your slides or handout.\\nThis is so you can have a hard copy of something to refer to during your talk, and so you can distribute copies to your audience as well, if you wish. Even if you have a beautiful, stylized, and well-rehearsed PowerPoint presentation, you never know what you will find when you get to your speaking place. A very distracted IT guy who cannot get the presentation to display on screen right away, perhaps? It is always important to have a contingency plan in cases like these, so that you are not at their mercy. Encountering these situations and not having a back-up plan will not make you feel confident.\\n1-6. Find ways to connect with your audience.\\nKeep a pleasant, cheerful disposition all throughout the talk. Maintain eye contact with the audience members. Make simple hand gestures. These actions will also allow you to relax better, since by establishing a connection, you will be able to see your audience as humans -- just like you are -- who want you to do well in your talk, and not as high-and-mighty beings who would take a lot for you to impress.\\n1-7. Engage the audience.\\nRemember they are there because you have already done something right: perhaps, you wrote an intriguing outline of the talk, or you have interesting credentials or a fascinating biography, which has persuaded them enough to come to your talk. Either way, you definitely have something they are interested in since they took the time to come and hear you speak. Engage them by interjecting humor in your talk, and by inserting personal anecdotes. Doing these will keep the talk from being too rigid and formal, and will definitely keep your audience more interested. If you sense that the audience is already losing interest, shorten your talk and go with Q&A for the rest of the time. People are always more engaged when there is more dialogue between the speaker and themselves.\\n1-8. If an audience member asks you a question that you don't know the answer to, don't panic.\\nTake a moment to jot down the question with utmost consideration, ask for the name and contact details (including the e-mail address) of the person who asked, and tell them that you will send them that information no later than two business days. Of course, make sure that you follow-through with your commitment, even if you find the question \\\"silly\\\" or \\\"stupid\\\".\\n1-9. Show your audience how much you admire their intelligence, and how much you respect their opinions.\\nNo matter how difficult the audience can get, or even if there are some who might not agree with what you are saying, never become irritated with them. Remember that you are the speaker, so you need to maintain authority and keep yourself in check. Remain polite, calm, and courteous at all costs. If you address them properly and in a dignified manner, the difficult people who cause you troubles will end up standing out like a sore thumb in their rudeness, while you will look kind, patient and magnanimous. You will have plenty of time to indulge in those feelings and commiserate with your friends about it as soon as the talk is over, not before.\\n1-10. Always tell the audience, in the end, that they were a great audience.\\nThank them for their time. Each person in the audience likes to think it was him or her who made you say that. It makes their day.\\n1-11. Do not forget to smile.\\nThis is an important thing to remember, no matter how stressed you are during the time of your talk. People are inherently attracted by a smiling face, and will already create wonders for how your talk would go.\\n1-12. Don't speak too quickly.\\nEven if you think you are speaking too slow, most likely, it is the perfect pace to go. If you do stumble with your words or mess up, just laugh it off and don't stress over it to much. You may have made a mistake, but you likely noticed it more than your audience. Remember that mistakes are an integral part of the learning process, and will help hone you to become a better speaker in time.\\nTips\\nBe sincere at all times. Even if you don't know something, be sincere and admit it. It will work much better than stumbling over a \\\"non-answer\\\" answer.\\nUse humor whenever you can, but keep it under control and make it classy. Don't overdo it. It will look terribly unprofessional.\\nResearch your talk but do not forget your own take on the subject. Perhaps a story or two from your personal experience? It will make you look more human and genuine, as opposed to using just plain facts.\\nWarnings\\nDo not forget to be kind to your audience. It will carry you a long way. In general, people coming for a presentation tend to be supportive and helpful. They don't wake up thinking: \\\"I will embarrass my speaker today.\\\" If that happens, often inadvertently, it is up to you to stay in control handling the situation with great poise and dignity.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A confident speaker is someone who, first and foremost, feels confident in his own mind and heart about his ability to deliver a good speech or presentation. Being confident is not something anyone can give you nor you can buy from somewhere. Confidence is built, step-by-step, from our previous successful experiences, and can be boosted and improved as time passes. How do you build and improve it? By never wasting any chance to practice. If you mess up or make mistakes during your initial attempts, learn from these mistakes and move on. Remember, even the most renown speaker has started as a beginner. So, practice! Practice by yourself in front of a mirror or your own video camera at first. Soon enough, you can practice in front of a small, trusted audience. You can even practice in front of your pet, in the absence of a trusted human audience. Anyone can become a good speaker provided he agrees to work on it. This article provides a few pointers on how to achieve this goal.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Think of a good idea or subject to make a speech or presentation on.\", \"描述\": \"If you are just making an informal speech or presentation with no subject restrictions, it would be helpful to choose a topic that you yourself are interested in. This way, it would be less difficult for you to talk about the subject, as opposed to something that you know very little about. Of course, it would also be better if the subject that you choose is engaging enough to a wide variety of people to begin with, so that it wouldn't be very hard to capture their interest.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose your audience.\", \"描述\": \"For the first few times that you are practicing being a good speaker, you might want to choose like-minded people who are likely to have the same orientation as you have regarding the subject of your talk. This could be a group of colleagues, acquaintances, members of your community, or other social groups that you deem appropriate. As you gain more experience and confidence, you would be able to gather knowledge and techniques on how to capture and engage even an audience who is just hearing about the subject of your talk for the first time.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Research on your idea or topic.\", \"描述\": \"With any talk that you are giving, it is important that you know your subject. The general assumption of your audience is that you, as the subject matter expert, know about the topic more than they do, and that you are there to share knowledge and information that they do not know about yet. There is nothing more embarrassing than a speaker who does not do his homework, and who comes to a talk unprepared and with little knowledge about the topic. Be prepared to answer any questions that might come up relating to your presentation. If you research and prepare adequately, that in itself will already boost your confidence level and lessen any apprehensions that you might have with giving the talk.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Rehearse and prepare several versions of your presentation.\", \"描述\": \"Depending on the reception and response of your audience -- which you will not know until the minute that you start your talk -- you might want to rehearse different versions beforehand to tailor to your audience's needs: one shorter, one more detailed, one for interested people, one for an audience who seem to be losing interest. This will ensure that you keep the audience engaged.\\nWhen you practice, try reciting your speech in front of a mirror so you feel a little more comfortable.\\nYou can also record yourself speaking out loud. Then, you can watch the replay, critique your performance, and practice with those improvements in mind.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Always make a paper copy of your slides or handout.\", \"描述\": \"This is so you can have a hard copy of something to refer to during your talk, and so you can distribute copies to your audience as well, if you wish. Even if you have a beautiful, stylized, and well-rehearsed PowerPoint presentation, you never know what you will find when you get to your speaking place. A very distracted IT guy who cannot get the presentation to display on screen right away, perhaps? It is always important to have a contingency plan in cases like these, so that you are not at their mercy. Encountering these situations and not having a back-up plan will not make you feel confident.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Find ways to connect with your audience.\", \"描述\": \"Keep a pleasant, cheerful disposition all throughout the talk. Maintain eye contact with the audience members. Make simple hand gestures. These actions will also allow you to relax better, since by establishing a connection, you will be able to see your audience as humans -- just like you are -- who want you to do well in your talk, and not as high-and-mighty beings who would take a lot for you to impress.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Engage the audience.\", \"描述\": \"Remember they are there because you have already done something right: perhaps, you wrote an intriguing outline of the talk, or you have interesting credentials or a fascinating biography, which has persuaded them enough to come to your talk. Either way, you definitely have something they are interested in since they took the time to come and hear you speak. Engage them by interjecting humor in your talk, and by inserting personal anecdotes. Doing these will keep the talk from being too rigid and formal, and will definitely keep your audience more interested. 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1. Take some risks.
As scary as it may be, each shot you take will you more confident.
Taking a chance you normally wouldn’t take can make you stronger, which will make you more assured of yourself. However, understand that there are positive risks and negative risks. Do the things that lead you forward toward your goals.
2. Set realistic, attainable goals.
Having some concrete objectives will help you focus on what you want.
It’s hard to gain confidence in an area if you don’t know why you’re trying to improve. Identify what you want and then break that goal down into smaller steps. Take it one step at a time and think positive!
3. Exude confidence in your body language.
If you look and act confident, you’ll feel so much stronger.
Ever hear the phrase “fake it till you make it?” Even if you’re a bundle of nerves inside, just act like you’re the bee’s knees. Practice good posture at all times (sitting, standing, walking), especially when you're walking alone. Dress your best, make eye contact, and smile.
4. Take care of yourself.
Grooming and hygiene play a big role in how confident you feel.
Wash your hair often enough for your hair type and bathe regularly. Don't get too obsessed with how you look. One of the important things about being confident is being comfortable with yourself and your body.
If you feel the need to, carry simple things with you like a small hairbrush, lip gloss/chap stick, and a small bottle of body spray.
Remember, make sure you always have pads/tampons in your bag at all times and change pads regularly to prevent accidents.
5. Keep your room clean.
A tidy space goes a long way towards making you feel great.
A clean room means that you can find what you need when you need it, so you aren't stressed out because you lost something. You will also feel better when your friends come over if you can show them a clean room. Nobody wants to see your underwear on the floor!
6. Upgrade your wardrobe.
Get some clothes that represent you for who you are.
Buy what you like to wear and what makes you happy. Don't wear anything just because a certain crowd is. If you like the normal jeans and t-shirt look then, it's totally you. As long as you're comfortable, you'll become confident. Follow your own standards.
Be mindful of wearing clothes that are the wrong size, since they can be unflattering.
7. Personalize your look.
Being unique will help you feel secure in who you are.
If you like wearing jewelry, go for it! If you don't like wearing jewelry, that's your personal taste and no one should tell you otherwise. Your hairstyle, hair color, shoes, purse and other accessories are other ways you can personalize your look. Like jewelry, these things are not for everyone and you shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it.
8. Forget the haters.
Ignore what other people say or think about you.
So long as you’re genuine and true to yourself, you’ve got nothing to worry about. Never be scared to do the right thing, and don’t let people bring you down with their criticisms or gossip.
9. Do your schoolwork.
If you feel good about your academics, you’ll be super confident.
Study, do all your schoolwork, and do your very best every time. Study for tests, do homework and all assigned reading. Answer questions in class and ask questions relating to the topic. Don't be afraid if you still don't understand what you're learning, talk to your fellow classmates or talk to your teacher. You can't pass your classes if you don't ask questions.
Being smart is not weird. People who think there’s something wrong with doing well in school are deeply mistaken.
10. Pursue your passions.
Find something that brings you joy and pour your energy into that.
Develop your talents. If you're good at dancing, take up a class and polish your skills; if you're good at sports, take lessons and join a team. So long as you have something you care about, you’ll always have something to improve upon. This can do wonders for your confidence!
11. Get active at school.
Join some clubs or try out for a team.
Either you’ll improve your confidence by flexing your awesome social skills, or you’ll become more confident by getting over your shyness. Being a part of something can boost your confidence level, help you develop your social skills, and help you make some friends.
12. Participate in your hobbies.
Having a few things that help you relax and have fun is essential.
If you love music, go ahead and don't be afraid to whip out your IPod or CD player (If the time is important of course) Read books or write poetry if you love it. Paint, draw, swim, or watch Anime if it's your personal thing. Everybody has different hobbies and there's nothing wrong with expressing it.
Remember: It's all about what makes you happy, not doing it because someone else wants you to. Find things you're passionate about and don't be afraid to try something new.
13. Get rid of toxic friends.
Let go of friends who do not respect you or like you for you.
If you feel your friends have less respect for you, talk to them. Let them know how you feel, tell them how you expect to be treated, and offer solutions. If someone makes you feel bad or not good enough, they are not your friend and you should dump them immediately.
Make friends with the people you like, not the ones you think you should be friends with.
14. Stand up for yourself.
Don’t let people mistreat or talk down to you.
Understand that it is not healthy to let your peers or students walk all over you, this is big problem if you're shy or the type of person who really likes to please people. Don't be afraid to say "no" if the situation calls for it. Example situations would be if a friend asked you to help them cheat or copy off of your homework.
15. Be kind and approachable.
Stay nice to everyone you come across, and smile.
Put your best foot forward when you’re meeting new people and introducing yourself. Embrace differences in others and celebrate diversity.
Socialize with your parents and make conversation with adults, but remember to be polite.
16. Take romance at your own pace.
If you aren’t ready to date, don’t force it.
Understand that it feels terrible to feel pressured into having a relationship or going and dating if you're not ready. As a teenager, you're growing up, but you also have to respect your own boundaries and limits. When the time comes, you'll know and you'll be much happier that you waited until you were ready.
17. Don’t let peer pressure get to you.
Brush off people who push you to do drugs, get drunk, or have sex.
These are one of the biggest problems as a teenager. Drugs are not a good thing in the first place and it is preferable that you don't do it at all. It can do serious damage and ruin your good reputation. Don't go out and get drunk. First off as a teenager, you're underage. Second, getting drunk can be dangerous, you can do things you'll regret.
18. Accept yourself.
Be yourself
Don't give into high school stereotypes like being a prep, emo, or punk rocker. Your own style is what you make it. If someone calls you a poser, brush it off. Think positive! Don't feel pressured to look exactly like a model or celebrity. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you think you're beautiful, then you are beautiful!
Don’t let insults get to you. If someone calls you a mean name, shrug it off. However, if someone compliments you, take it in. Think about it.
19. Practice self-empowerment.
Encourage and be kind to yourself.
Practice looking at yourself in the mirror and saying, "I love you!" or, "Look at me...I look beautiful today."...you could grab a chair and sit in front of the mirror, and state all the good things about you, the things that make you a beautiful girl just the way you are. Don't compare yourself to a movie star.
20. Ask for help when you need it.
There’s nothing wrong with reaching out for support.
Ask your parents, a teacher you trust, someone at a church or a school guidance counselor for help. If you don't take care of yourself, your emotional health, you could make bad decisions that you'll regret later. Tell someone if you're scared or upset and that you want help to make yourself feel better.
Tips
Try making friends that make you feel good about yourself, instead of being around people that make you feel lonelier than you truly are.
Get busy. Try to challenge yourself all the time. Don't expect to be perfect or not make mistakes. Make your own decisions about school.
Make sure you're getting enough sleep. Most girls need at least 8 hours or more. Take a nap on the weekend if you are exhausted.
Warnings
Say no if something doesn't feel right or dangerous. Stay away from self destructive people who get into drugs, vandalism or gangs.
Avoid acting arrogant to hide your insecurities. Most people don't like it and can see through it.
You have the right to end any hateful conversations. Just walk away.
Being confident means not caving into peer pressure. You make up your own mind about things.
If you're having serious problems with a close friend, don't start a fight. Calm down and use your words. Talk it out and respect their feelings. Treat them with dignity. Tell them you expect them to be always honest with you.
Do not overdo it if you’re not liked by some people. Keep a sense of humor about yourself.
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One of the important things about being confident is being comfortable with yourself and your body.\\nIf you feel the need to, carry simple things with you like a small hairbrush, lip gloss/chap stick, and a small bottle of body spray.\\nRemember, make sure you always have pads/tampons in your bag at all times and change pads regularly to prevent accidents.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Keep your room clean.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A tidy space goes a long way towards making you feel great.\", \"描述\": \"A clean room means that you can find what you need when you need it, so you aren't stressed out because you lost something. You will also feel better when your friends come over if you can show them a clean room. Nobody wants to see your underwear on the floor!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Upgrade your wardrobe.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get some clothes that represent you for who you are.\", \"描述\": \"Buy what you like to wear and what makes you happy. Don't wear anything just because a certain crowd is. If you like the normal jeans and t-shirt look then, it's totally you. As long as you're comfortable, you'll become confident. Follow your own standards.\\nBe mindful of wearing clothes that are the wrong size, since they can be unflattering.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Personalize your look.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Being unique will help you feel secure in who you are.\", \"描述\": \"If you like wearing jewelry, go for it! If you don't like wearing jewelry, that's your personal taste and no one should tell you otherwise. Your hairstyle, hair color, shoes, purse and other accessories are other ways you can personalize your look. Like jewelry, these things are not for everyone and you shouldn't do it if you don't feel comfortable with it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Forget the haters.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Ignore what other people say or think about you.\", \"描述\": \"So long as you’re genuine and true to yourself, you’ve got nothing to worry about. Never be scared to do the right thing, and don’t let people bring you down with their criticisms or gossip.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Do your schoolwork.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"If you feel good about your academics, you’ll be super confident.\", \"描述\": \"Study, do all your schoolwork, and do your very best every time. Study for tests, do homework and all assigned reading. Answer questions in class and ask questions relating to the topic. Don't be afraid if you still don't understand what you're learning, talk to your fellow classmates or talk to your teacher. 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Find things you're passionate about and don't be afraid to try something new.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Get rid of toxic friends.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Let go of friends who do not respect you or like you for you.\", \"描述\": \"If you feel your friends have less respect for you, talk to them. Let them know how you feel, tell them how you expect to be treated, and offer solutions. If someone makes you feel bad or not good enough, they are not your friend and you should dump them immediately.\\nMake friends with the people you like, not the ones you think you should be friends with.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Stand up for yourself.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Don’t let people mistreat or talk down to you.\", \"描述\": \"Understand that it is not healthy to let your peers or students walk all over you, this is big problem if you're shy or the type of person who really likes to please people. Don't be afraid to say \\\"no\\\" if the situation calls for it. Example situations would be if a friend asked you to help them cheat or copy off of your homework.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 15, \"标题\": \"Be kind and approachable.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Stay nice to everyone you come across, and smile.\", \"描述\": \"Put your best foot forward when you’re meeting new people and introducing yourself. Embrace differences in others and celebrate diversity.\\nSocialize with your parents and make conversation with adults, but remember to be polite.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 16, \"标题\": \"Take romance at your own pace.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"If you aren’t ready to date, don’t force it.\", \"描述\": \"Understand that it feels terrible to feel pressured into having a relationship or going and dating if you're not ready. As a teenager, you're growing up, but you also have to respect your own boundaries and limits. When the time comes, you'll know and you'll be much happier that you waited until you were ready.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 17, \"标题\": \"Don’t let peer pressure get to you.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Brush off people who push you to do drugs, get drunk, or have sex.\", \"描述\": \"These are one of the biggest problems as a teenager. Drugs are not a good thing in the first place and it is preferable that you don't do it at all. It can do serious damage and ruin your good reputation. Don't go out and get drunk. First off as a teenager, you're underage. Second, getting drunk can be dangerous, you can do things you'll regret.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 18, \"标题\": \"Accept yourself.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be yourself\", \"描述\": \"Don't give into high school stereotypes like being a prep, emo, or punk rocker. Your own style is what you make it. If someone calls you a poser, brush it off. Think positive! Don't feel pressured to look exactly like a model or celebrity. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you think you're beautiful, then you are beautiful!\\nDon’t let insults get to you. If someone calls you a mean name, shrug it off. However, if someone compliments you, take it in. Think about it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 19, \"标题\": \"Practice self-empowerment.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Encourage and be kind to yourself.\", \"描述\": \"Practice looking at yourself in the mirror and saying, \\\"I love you!\\\" or, \\\"Look at me...I look beautiful today.\\\"...you could grab a chair and sit in front of the mirror, and state all the good things about you, the things that make you a beautiful girl just the way you are. Don't compare yourself to a movie star.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 20, \"标题\": \"Ask for help when you need it.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"There’s nothing wrong with reaching out for support.\", \"描述\": \"Ask your parents, a teacher you trust, someone at a church or a school guidance counselor for help. If you don't take care of yourself, your emotional health, you could make bad decisions that you'll regret later. Tell someone if you're scared or upset and that you want help to make yourself feel better.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Try making friends that make you feel good about yourself, instead of being around people that make you feel lonelier than you truly are.\\n\", \"Get busy. Try to challenge yourself all the time. Don't expect to be perfect or not make mistakes. Make your own decisions about school.\\n\", \"Make sure you're getting enough sleep. Most girls need at least 8 hours or more. Take a nap on the weekend if you are exhausted.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Say no if something doesn't feel right or dangerous. Stay away from self destructive people who get into drugs, vandalism or gangs.\\n\", \"Avoid acting arrogant to hide your insecurities. Most people don't like it and can see through it.\\n\", \"You have the right to end any hateful conversations. 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1. Steps
1-1. Accept that all people, no matter what, are capable of perfection and are teachable as well as improvable.
Confucianism is similar to western Humanism. You should therefore not have a pessimistic view of people, but should always be optimistic. It also means you must never chastise people for their mistakes or their ignorance, but rather show them the way and guide, not force.
1-2. Do not chastise people for their mistakes.
You should not worry about making mistakes, for mistakes help us by showing us what not to do. Confucius said, "Be not ashamed of mistakes and thus make them crimes."
1-3. Dedicate yourself to attaining perfection and freedom from ignorance.
Like enlightenment in Buddhism, Confucius teaches how man can become a Chun-Tzu or the perfect gentlemen. That man will follow and cultivate virtue and moral perfection, they are best described as six commandments or rules of life, similar to the eightfold path or the ten commandments. However, different sects have varying numbers of commandments, usually 5,6,7,8. Most Confucian teachings have these basic precepts or tenets (all Confucians must follow these precepts):
Li - Ritual propriety and etiquette
Hsiao - Love within the family, love of parents and love of children
Yi - Righteousness
Xin - Honesty and trustworthiness
Jen or Ren - Benevolence, humaneness towards others (this is the highest Confucian virtue)
Chung - Loyalty to the state.
1-4. Be polite.
Li is better referred to as politeness and social etiquette rather than religious ritual. Confucius tried to revive past etiquette. People must therefore act consistent, being polite at all times with no deviation or lowering of standards for the sake of fitting in or out of laxity. Confucianism does have some rituals, though people can be both Confucian and of another religion like Buddhism or Taoism, they usually follow the other religion's rituals.
1-5. Love your family (Hsiao).
Every Confucian should love their parents and their parents should love them, unconditionally, no matter what happens. There are five bonds of Hsiao which every Confucian must follow:
Ruler to Ruled
Father to Son
Husband to Wife
Elder Brother to Younger Brother
Friend to Friend.
1-6. Practice righteousness (Yi).
Righteousness should be practiced by every Confucian, it is the moral disposition to do good, people should always do what is right, which is why bravery and wisdom are often associated with Yi as it takes a wise man to know good from evil and a brave man to carry it out despite fear of death, imprisonment or humiliation.
1-7. Be honest
All people should be honest and trustworthy, however Confucian Xin goes further, primarily it is integrity, one should be someone who is respectable. Xin is a major feature of the Chun-Tzu and the ruler should also have Xin, if he has Xin you must be loyal to him as part of Chung and Hsiao, though Confucius allows Citizens to overthrow rulers without Xin. Confucians are never allowed to lie, though there is a grey area when it come to white lies, so Xin and Jen to conflict in some respects.
1-8. Be benevolent and humane towards others (Jen, pronounced Ren).
This is the highest Confucian virtue and forms the golden rule of Confucius, 'do for others what you would like to be done to you'. This is not the same as treat others as you would wish to be treated, though similar. If you want your neighbour to cut your grass are you willing to cut his grass for him? Jen is closely associated with the precepts of Li and Yi.
1-9. Be loyal to the state (Chung).
The citizen should be humble, productive and obedient, the ruler should therefore be humane, just and kind to his people, though still maintaining order (similar to Plato's Philosopher kings in The Republic). Confucius allowed Citizens to overthrow rulers who were incompetent or evil, this could be considered the first avocation of a form of democracy. Therefore you have a duty to be loyal and the ruler a duty to be just.
1-10. Embrace meritocracy.
Meritocracy is the principle that the best, most hardworking and able people should be rewarded and the worst, laziest and least able should be overlooked.
1-11. Embrace learning.
Confucius once said, "Ignorance is the night of the mind, but a night without moon or stars." Ignorance is the greatest evil there is, so knowledge and wisdom are often placed among the six virtues above. Confucius also said, "Ignorance is the night of the mind, but a night without moon and star." Broker no superstition and search for truth, there are parallels with Socrates here.
1-12. (Optional) Follow ancestral worship, by writing names upon a wall or something of the sort at which you pray and offer homage and respect to.
Paper money and incense are burnt on special holidays.
1-13. (Optional) Worship Tien (also known as Heaven).
Tien is roughly the equivalent to Western notion of Providence.
1-14. Embrace other religions.
Do not be afraid to be both Buddhist, Taoist or Christian and a Confucian at the same time. Confucianism is a way of life and can easily accompany other religious beliefs. Confucianism goes well with Buddhism and sometimes Taoism. In fact, it is quite difficult for Buddhist and Confucian numbers to be calculated due to the large amount of overlap between the two.
Tips
Read the Analects of Confucius daily. Read one saying and remember it, repeat it, learn it, practice it.
Read the other thirteen classics.
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How to Be a Conservative Girl
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1. Clothing
1-1. Opt for clothing that covers your body from the shoulders to the knees.
When you’re dressing conservatively, it’s important not to show too much skin, especially your shoulders, cleavage, midriff, and upper legs. If the weather is hot, opt for loose, flowy clothing to help keep you cool, rather than skimpy clothing that will leave you exposed.
Short sleeves are usually fine when you’re dressing conservatively, but if you’re in doubt whether that’s appropriate, opt for an elbow-length or long-sleeved shirt to be on the safe side.
In some places, skirts that stop just above the knee are considered conservative. However, in some cultures, showing your knees or even your ankles would still be considered revealing.
1-2. Add layers if you need a little more coverage.
If you’re concerned that your favorite clothes show too much skin, mix-and-match them with layering pieces to help you cover up. Layers are also good if your clothing is sheer or transparent.
For instance, you can wear a cami underneath a V-neck shirt to ensure you don’t show too much cleavage, and a long tank top is a great option if you think your shirt might ride up and expose your midriff.
You can also layer a lightweight shirt, blouse, or scarf over a pretty spaghetti-strap dress to cover your shoulders and chest.
1-3. Avoid wearing clothes that fit very tightly.
Sometimes, you can show too much of your figure even when you’re completely covered up. If you want to dress conservatively, avoid styles that fit tightly around your bust, waist, or hips. However, you don’t necessarily have to wear shapeless, baggy clothes, either. Instead, stick to styles that skim lightly over your figure. Not only will this be more comfortable and modest, but it tends to be a more flattering look, as well.
If you’re wearing leggings, yoga pants, or another style of pants that fit snugly to your body, opt for a long tunic or a blouse that covers your crotch and rear.
1-4. Wear mostly neutrals with a few pops of colors.
Dressing conservatively typically means gravitating toward tasteful neutral shades like black, white, beige, tan, blue, gray, and ivory. However, if you love bright colors, you don't have to stop wearing them! Just wear one brightly-colored piece at a time, and keep the rest of your outfit toned down.
For instance, if you’re going to work, you might wear a grey blazer, slacks, and shoes, with a magenta blouse. On the other hand, you might opt for a white blouse and add color with a statement necklace, instead.
1-5. Keep your accessories minimal.
If you want to look conservative, don’t pile on all of your accessories at once. Instead, stick to 2 or 3 pretty pieces when you’re getting dressed, like a string of pearls, a simple ring, and a nice watch.
It’s okay to use bold jewelry to add pizazz to your outfit, but stick to one statement piece at a time. If you’re wearing a chunky, colorful necklace, for instance, you might skip wearing earrings, or just wear a pair of subtle studs.
1-6. Stick to practical footwear.
For the most part, it’s prudent to avoid stiletto heels or flashy footwear that’s hard to walk in. Instead, opt for tasteful flats or low pumps, although ankle and knee-high boots can look conservative depending on how the rest of your outfit is styled.
For instance, knee-high boots would be the perfect way to complete a fall outfit if you were wearing a knee-length skirt, dark tights or leggings, and a sweater.
1-7. Wear your hair well-groomed in a classic style.
There’s no one perfect haircut that will make you look conservative, but avoid getting a severe cut, like a close-cropped style or a style that’s shaved on one side. However, styles like a sleek, straight bob, loose waves, a low bun, and long curls can all be well-suited for a conservative girl, as long as you keep your hair clean and neatly styled each day.
If you color your hair, opt for natural-looking shades, including highlights, rather than bold colors like green, pink, or purple.
1-8. Opt for light, tasteful makeup if you wear any.
You won’t look very conservative if you wear a full glam look in the daytime. Instead, stick to a simple routine, such as concealer, tinted moisturizer, mascara, blush, and lip gloss.
It’s okay to wear a little more makeup for special occasions. For instance, you might add eyeshadow, eyeliner, and lipstick to your normal makeup routine if you’re going on a date or attending a wedding.
1-9. Cover up any tattoos if you have them.
Visible tattoos don’t look very conservative, so if you already have them, try to cover them with makeup or your clothing. If you don’t have any tattoos, or if the ones you have are easily covered, avoid getting anything new that would be hard to cover up, like tattoos on your hands, face, forearms, or chest.
For the most part, visible piercings wouldn't be considered conservative. However, a small, tasteful nose ring might be an exception, depending on your personal style.
2. Lifestyle
2-1. Go to bed early
If you want to live a conservative lifestyle, it won’t do to stay up all night partying (or watching cat videos). In order to be at your most productive during the day, go to bed at a reasonable hour, and try to stick to the same bedtime each night. Then, wake at the same time every morning, even the weekends.
Keeping a regular routine will help you sleep better at night.
2-2. Eat a healthy diet
You can apply conservative living to everything, even to the way you eat, so try to avoid making a habit of binging on indulgent treats. About half of what you eat should be nutritious fruits and vegetables like leafy greens, avocados, apples, and legumes. Another quarter should be lean proteins like chicken, turkey, tofu, and fish, and the final quarter should be whole grains, like wheat bread, quinoa, and brown rice.
Preparing your meals at home is a great way to have more control over the foods that you eat.
2-3. Avoid drinking alcohol excessively, if at all.
Drinking too much alcohol can be bad for your health, but it can also lead to reckless behavior and a lapse in judgment. If you want to maintain a conservative lifestyle, it’s important to avoid this loss of control. If you do want to enjoy any alcoholic beverages, do so in moderation.
For instance, if you have a glass of wine with dinner, ask for a glass of water after you finish it. If you’d still like another glass when you finish the water, then it’s fine.
2-4. Take dating slowly.
To be conservative in your romantic life, take your time before committing to a relationship with another person. Make sure that you only date someone because you really like them and can imagine yourself being with them in the long term. Also, avoid rushing into a physical relationship with anyone to avoid the appearance of being promiscuous.
If you’re already in a relationship, take some time to evaluate whether the two of you have the same long-term goals and values.
2-5. Consume thoughtful media that promotes family values.
These days, it can be hard to avoid depictions of sex and violence in TV and movies, and social media can be full of a steady stream of content that’s opposed to a conservative lifestyle. Try to tailor what you’re watching and consuming so you’re only taking in wholesome entertainment, as much as possible. .
For instance, you might unfollow anyone on your friend list who regularly posts memes that you find offensive.
You might also avoid watching movies that are rated R, especially if they got that rating because they’re bloody, have foul language, or are filled with nudity.
2-6. Be prudent with your finances.
Being financially conservative is smart for everyone, but it can be hard to do. Make a budget and stick to it. Each time you get a paycheck, pay your bills before you make any purchases, so you’ll know exactly what you have left over. Then, set aside a little of what’s left in a savings account so you’ll be prepared in case of an unforeseen emergency.
Also, try to get in the habit of limiting any unnecessary purchases.
3. Political Choices
3-1. Understand that you don't have to support every conservative cause.
You can consider yourself politically conservative without necessarily agreeing with everything that would be considered conservative. There’s no one right way to be a conservative, so take some time to learn about different issues, and evaluate your beliefs to determine which ones you support, as well as which ones you don’t.
For instance, social conservatives typically believe that abortion should be restricted or banned, and that gay marriage should not be legal. However, you can be politically conservative—which means you believe in things like less government interference and a free market economy—without necessarily being a social conservative.
3-2. Champion causes that promote individual liberty.
Political conservatives believe that your individual freedoms are the most important thing that needs to be protected. That means you would oppose any laws that allow the government or other people to infringe on your freedom.
For instance, most political conservatives oppose strict gun control laws that might impede the 2nd Amendment right to bear arms.
3-3. Support initiatives that limit the government's role.
One of the most universal beliefs among conservatives is that a smaller government is more efficient and effective. This might mean limiting laws that regulate environmental policies, for instance, or supporting privatized healthcare.
3-4. Study and support the free market system.
If you’re an economic conservative, you believe that a free market promotes competition. You likely also believe that such competition leads to a healthier economy, with more jobs overall, as well as a higher standard of living for society as a whole.
This would also involve being against social programs that inhibit a free market, like universal healthcare.
3-5. Emphasize personal responsibility over social support or government regulation.
In addition to having individual liberty, as a conservative, you will also likely believe that each person should be responsible for their own actions. This might mean holding people accountable for things they’ve done wrong, but it also might mean being opposed to certain social programs.
For instance, you might support the death penalty for certain crimes, but you might be against programs that allow people to stay on welfare for long periods of time.
You might also oppose amnesty for immigrants who came into the country illegally, even if you support immigration reform that would allow people an easier path to become citizens of your country.
3-6. Place a high priority on traditional values.
Typically, conservatives see themselves as being responsible for holding up traditional morals and conventions. For instance, you might be opposed to abortion or gay marriage, or you might support legislation limiting the kind of content that can be shown on websites that cater to young children.
You might also oppose any interpretations of the Constitution that you don’t feel accurately represent the Founding Fathers’ original intent.
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Layers are also good if your clothing is sheer or transparent.\\nFor instance, you can wear a cami underneath a V-neck shirt to ensure you don’t show too much cleavage, and a long tank top is a great option if you think your shirt might ride up and expose your midriff.\\nYou can also layer a lightweight shirt, blouse, or scarf over a pretty spaghetti-strap dress to cover your shoulders and chest.\\n1-3. Avoid wearing clothes that fit very tightly.\\nSometimes, you can show too much of your figure even when you’re completely covered up. If you want to dress conservatively, avoid styles that fit tightly around your bust, waist, or hips. However, you don’t necessarily have to wear shapeless, baggy clothes, either. Instead, stick to styles that skim lightly over your figure. Not only will this be more comfortable and modest, but it tends to be a more flattering look, as well.\\nIf you’re wearing leggings, yoga pants, or another style of pants that fit snugly to your body, opt for a long tunic or a blouse that covers your crotch and rear.\\n1-4. Wear mostly neutrals with a few pops of colors.\\nDressing conservatively typically means gravitating toward tasteful neutral shades like black, white, beige, tan, blue, gray, and ivory. However, if you love bright colors, you don't have to stop wearing them! Just wear one brightly-colored piece at a time, and keep the rest of your outfit toned down.\\nFor instance, if you’re going to work, you might wear a grey blazer, slacks, and shoes, with a magenta blouse. On the other hand, you might opt for a white blouse and add color with a statement necklace, instead.\\n1-5. Keep your accessories minimal.\\nIf you want to look conservative, don’t pile on all of your accessories at once. Instead, stick to 2 or 3 pretty pieces when you’re getting dressed, like a string of pearls, a simple ring, and a nice watch.\\nIt’s okay to use bold jewelry to add pizazz to your outfit, but stick to one statement piece at a time. If you’re wearing a chunky, colorful necklace, for instance, you might skip wearing earrings, or just wear a pair of subtle studs.\\n1-6. Stick to practical footwear.\\nFor the most part, it’s prudent to avoid stiletto heels or flashy footwear that’s hard to walk in. Instead, opt for tasteful flats or low pumps, although ankle and knee-high boots can look conservative depending on how the rest of your outfit is styled. \\nFor instance, knee-high boots would be the perfect way to complete a fall outfit if you were wearing a knee-length skirt, dark tights or leggings, and a sweater.\\n1-7. Wear your hair well-groomed in a classic style.\\nThere’s no one perfect haircut that will make you look conservative, but avoid getting a severe cut, like a close-cropped style or a style that’s shaved on one side. However, styles like a sleek, straight bob, loose waves, a low bun, and long curls can all be well-suited for a conservative girl, as long as you keep your hair clean and neatly styled each day.\\nIf you color your hair, opt for natural-looking shades, including highlights, rather than bold colors like green, pink, or purple.\\n1-8. Opt for light, tasteful makeup if you wear any.\\nYou won’t look very conservative if you wear a full glam look in the daytime. Instead, stick to a simple routine, such as concealer, tinted moisturizer, mascara, blush, and lip gloss.\\nIt’s okay to wear a little more makeup for special occasions. For instance, you might add eyeshadow, eyeliner, and lipstick to your normal makeup routine if you’re going on a date or attending a wedding.\\n1-9. Cover up any tattoos if you have them.\\nVisible tattoos don’t look very conservative, so if you already have them, try to cover them with makeup or your clothing. If you don’t have any tattoos, or if the ones you have are easily covered, avoid getting anything new that would be hard to cover up, like tattoos on your hands, face, forearms, or chest.\\nFor the most part, visible piercings wouldn't be considered conservative. However, a small, tasteful nose ring might be an exception, depending on your personal style.\\n2. Lifestyle\\n2-1. Go to bed early\\nIf you want to live a conservative lifestyle, it won’t do to stay up all night partying (or watching cat videos). In order to be at your most productive during the day, go to bed at a reasonable hour, and try to stick to the same bedtime each night. Then, wake at the same time every morning, even the weekends.\\nKeeping a regular routine will help you sleep better at night.\\n2-2. Eat a healthy diet\\nYou can apply conservative living to everything, even to the way you eat, so try to avoid making a habit of binging on indulgent treats. About half of what you eat should be nutritious fruits and vegetables like leafy greens, avocados, apples, and legumes. Another quarter should be lean proteins like chicken, turkey, tofu, and fish, and the final quarter should be whole grains, like wheat bread, quinoa, and brown rice.\\nPreparing your meals at home is a great way to have more control over the foods that you eat.\\n2-3. Avoid drinking alcohol excessively, if at all.\\nDrinking too much alcohol can be bad for your health, but it can also lead to reckless behavior and a lapse in judgment. If you want to maintain a conservative lifestyle, it’s important to avoid this loss of control. If you do want to enjoy any alcoholic beverages, do so in moderation.\\nFor instance, if you have a glass of wine with dinner, ask for a glass of water after you finish it. If you’d still like another glass when you finish the water, then it’s fine.\\n2-4. Take dating slowly.\\nTo be conservative in your romantic life, take your time before committing to a relationship with another person. Make sure that you only date someone because you really like them and can imagine yourself being with them in the long term. Also, avoid rushing into a physical relationship with anyone to avoid the appearance of being promiscuous.\\nIf you’re already in a relationship, take some time to evaluate whether the two of you have the same long-term goals and values.\\n2-5. Consume thoughtful media that promotes family values.\\nThese days, it can be hard to avoid depictions of sex and violence in TV and movies, and social media can be full of a steady stream of content that’s opposed to a conservative lifestyle. Try to tailor what you’re watching and consuming so you’re only taking in wholesome entertainment, as much as possible. .\\nFor instance, you might unfollow anyone on your friend list who regularly posts memes that you find offensive.\\nYou might also avoid watching movies that are rated R, especially if they got that rating because they’re bloody, have foul language, or are filled with nudity.\\n2-6. Be prudent with your finances.\\nBeing financially conservative is smart for everyone, but it can be hard to do. Make a budget and stick to it. Each time you get a paycheck, pay your bills before you make any purchases, so you’ll know exactly what you have left over. Then, set aside a little of what’s left in a savings account so you’ll be prepared in case of an unforeseen emergency.\\nAlso, try to get in the habit of limiting any unnecessary purchases.\\n3. Political Choices\\n3-1. Understand that you don't have to support every conservative cause.\\nYou can consider yourself politically conservative without necessarily agreeing with everything that would be considered conservative. There’s no one right way to be a conservative, so take some time to learn about different issues, and evaluate your beliefs to determine which ones you support, as well as which ones you don’t.\\nFor instance, social conservatives typically believe that abortion should be restricted or banned, and that gay marriage should not be legal. However, you can be politically conservative—which means you believe in things like less government interference and a free market economy—without necessarily being a social conservative.\\n3-2. Champion causes that promote individual liberty.\\nPolitical conservatives believe that your individual freedoms are the most important thing that needs to be protected. That means you would oppose any laws that allow the government or other people to infringe on your freedom.\\nFor instance, most political conservatives oppose strict gun control laws that might impede the 2nd Amendment right to bear arms.\\n3-3. Support initiatives that limit the government's role.\\nOne of the most universal beliefs among conservatives is that a smaller government is more efficient and effective. This might mean limiting laws that regulate environmental policies, for instance, or supporting privatized healthcare.\\n3-4. Study and support the free market system.\\nIf you’re an economic conservative, you believe that a free market promotes competition. You likely also believe that such competition leads to a healthier economy, with more jobs overall, as well as a higher standard of living for society as a whole.\\nThis would also involve being against social programs that inhibit a free market, like universal healthcare.\\n3-5. Emphasize personal responsibility over social support or government regulation.\\nIn addition to having individual liberty, as a conservative, you will also likely believe that each person should be responsible for their own actions. This might mean holding people accountable for things they’ve done wrong, but it also might mean being opposed to certain social programs.\\nFor instance, you might support the death penalty for certain crimes, but you might be against programs that allow people to stay on welfare for long periods of time.\\nYou might also oppose amnesty for immigrants who came into the country illegally, even if you support immigration reform that would allow people an easier path to become citizens of your country.\\n3-6. Place a high priority on traditional values.\\nTypically, conservatives see themselves as being responsible for holding up traditional morals and conventions. For instance, you might be opposed to abortion or gay marriage, or you might support legislation limiting the kind of content that can be shown on websites that cater to young children.\\nYou might also oppose any interpretations of the Constitution that you don’t feel accurately represent the Founding Fathers’ original intent.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Although the term ‘conservative’ is often applied to a person’s political leanings, there are actually a number of different ways you can be a conservative girl. For instance, you might choose to dress conservatively even if you lean to the left politically—especially if you’re traveling to a place where you’ll be expected to dress modestly. Similarly, you might choose to live a conservative lifestyle, even if you dress radically. 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Another quarter should be lean proteins like chicken, turkey, tofu, and fish, and the final quarter should be whole grains, like wheat bread, quinoa, and brown rice.\\nPreparing your meals at home is a great way to have more control over the foods that you eat.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Avoid drinking alcohol excessively, if at all.\", \"描述\": \"Drinking too much alcohol can be bad for your health, but it can also lead to reckless behavior and a lapse in judgment. If you want to maintain a conservative lifestyle, it’s important to avoid this loss of control. If you do want to enjoy any alcoholic beverages, do so in moderation.\\nFor instance, if you have a glass of wine with dinner, ask for a glass of water after you finish it. If you’d still like another glass when you finish the water, then it’s fine.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Take dating slowly.\", \"描述\": \"To be conservative in your romantic life, take your time before committing to a relationship with another person. 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Come on Down! (and Be a Contestant on The Price is Right)
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1. Getting a Ticket
1-1. Visit the TPIR website to request a free show ticket.
Ordering a ticket online is free and easy. Simply head to https://priceisright.com/ and click on the “Get Tickets” tab at the top right of the page. This will take you to the ticketing/contestant application page.
For ADA accessible ticket info, call 1-800-579-5788 or email [email protected].
For group tickets and other (non-accessibility) questions, call TPIR customer service at 1-800-852-8909.
1-2. Confirm that you meet the eligibility requirements.
TPIR tickets are open to nearly everyone, but there are a few restrictions listed at the beginning of the online ticket application. To qualify for tickets, you :
Be under 18 years old (barring special episodes with younger contestants).
Have been a contestant (not just an audience member) on TPIR in the past 10 years.
Have been a contestant on more than 4 other TV game shows in the past 10 years.
Be a contestant on any other TV game show that will air in the next year.
Be a candidate for public office for at least 1 year after the application date.
Be (or be an immediate relative of) an employee of CBS, TPIR’s production companies, or TPIR’s product sponsors.
Be unvaccinated against COVID-19 (as of the 2022-23 season).
1-3. Provide personal and personality info on the application.
As expected, you’ll have to provide some basic info, like your name, age, address, email, phone number, and dates when you’ll be in the Los Angeles area. Additionally, you’ll need to upload a photo and answer some personality questions like “What is something about yourself that no one would ever know by looking at you?” Think of this as the beginning of your interview to get called on down as a contestant!
When answering the question “Describe your personality,” for example, come up with a response that will appeal to the producers who choose contestants. Words like “bubbly,” “fun-loving,” “enthusiastic,” and “positive” are better choices than “shy” or “quiet.” Think of the personality traits that come to mind when you see contestants on the show.
While you should be 100% honest with your personal info, feel free to embellish your personality answers a bit—be truthful, but with the most fun version of the truth!
1-4. Finish the application and make your ticket request.
Eventually, after several screens of forms, check boxes, and questions, you’ll be able to submit your request for a ticket on the date you choose. When approved, print out the ticket to bring with you on the day of the show taping you’ve selected.
If you’re given a “Priority Ticket,” you’re guaranteed entry on the chosen date. If you get a “Line Voucher,” you can wait in the first-come, first-served line on the day of taping (and aren’t guaranteed entry).
2. Heading to the Studio
2-1. Wear light, neutral clothing on the day of the taping.
Clothes with bright, bold colors or highly-patterned designs tend not to look as good on camera, so stick with muted colors to improve your chances of being selected as a contestant. Also, avoid wearing clothes with snarky or profane slogans—stick with fun, family-friendly options.
You’re also prohibited from wearing clothes with visible corporate logos, and may not be allowed in the studio with a company-branded shirt on.
Lots of audience members wear slogan shirts, so feel free to come up with something fun and positive yourself. If you love Drew Carey, let him know!
2-2. Pack your photo ID but leave your smart watch behind.
You’ll need a valid photo ID (that matches your ticket) to get into the studio, so make sure you have it with you before heading out on show day. Since smart watches and phones can be used to cheat, either leave them behind or be prepared to check them in with security. Other banned items include:
Drugs or alcohol
Weapons of any kind
Backpacks
Lists of prices
Costumes (except for special events)
Overly suggestive or revealing clothing
2-3. Arrive at the studio 2+ hours before the doors open.
Head to the Bob Barker Studio at Television City, 7800 Beverly Boulevard, Los Angeles, located at the intersection of Beverly Blvd. and Fairfax Ave. To ensure the venue is filled, TPIR (like all game shows) overbooks its audience, meaning not everyone with a “Line Voucher” ticket gets in. Getting there early greatly improves your chances of success!
You’re supposed to be guaranteed entry if you have a “Priority Ticket,” but don’t risk it by showing up at the last minute. Play it safe and come at least 1-2 hours early.
There’s paid parking available on the street or in a nearby garage.
Make sure to plan for the possibility of congested traffic so that you can get to the studio as early as possible.
3. Acing Your Contestant Audition
3-1. Smile and make friendly conversation while you wait in line.
As you stand in the queue to get into the studio, production assistants will circulate through the line, asking questions, possibly handing out forms or surveys, and generally just observing people. From this point onward, assume that someone with the power to choose you as a contestant is always watching. Be positive, show off your funnyside, and aim to be super enthusiastic—in other words, the kind of person they want to “come on down!”
Get to know the people around you in line and have fun, positive interactions with them. Treat them like fellow TPIR super-fans, not competitors. Remember that, even when they’re not interacting with you directly, the producers are watching for signs of your true personality traits.
3-2. Answer questions clearly when a producer interviews you.
The producers interview everyone in line once the studio lot doors open. You'll be asked your name, where you're from, and your occupation. Think of it as a super-fun “job interview” and answer the questions sincerely and eagerly, with a touch of humor. Your answers play a big role in the producers’ initial determination of who will appear on the show.
Enunciate your words and speak up. Those in line around you will likely be talking or even cheering. Make sure the producer can hear every word you say.
Don’t ramble. If you ramble on when asked a simple question, the producers are likely to think you’d do that on-air when Drew Carey asked you a question.
3-3. Match the energy of the producer with your answer.
Unless you’re first in line, watch the producer’s body language and listen for their tone as they interview other contestants. Try to match their excitement and enthusiasm without exceeding it. The producers are looking for just the right amount of energy, so mimic them.
For example, if the producer speaks at a certain volume, match it. If they move their hands while talking, don’t be afraid to move yours.
If, for whatever reason, the producer isn’t showing any energy, don’t try to match them. Instead, answer as if you did receive a contestant slot, and Drew Carey was asking you a question on set. Keep past contestants in mind.
3-4. Don’t go overboard with your confidence or emotions.
Even if you’re super-confident about your chances of being selected or winning, don’t appear too calculating or arrogant. Being authentic is key. Also, sharing a sob story with the producers is highly unlikely to move them. If they think you may break down in tears on stage, you’ll probably lose your shot.
The producers are prohibited from accepting even a business card, so don’t give them anything that could be perceived as a bribe.
4. Enjoying the Show
4-1. Cheer loudly and passionately when the show opens.
After your interview, you’ll be led into the studio audience, after which the show will soon start. Everyone will start cheering. Join in! The producers watch audience reactions as the show begins and make their final contestant decisions based on crowd participation.
Some participants initially selected during the interview portion get cut at the last minute because they don’t cheer with any genuine enthusiasm. Whatever you do before the taping starts, make sure you show that you’re happy to be there!
4-2. Maintain your enthusiasm throughout the taping.
There are over 300 people in the studio per show, and only 9 of them are chosen to “come on down.” But if you’ve suitably impressed the producers, cheered appropriately, and have a bit of good fortune smiling upon you, you'll be called down as a contestant. Congratulations! Now go win that new car or trip to Aruba!
4-3. Try again another time if you don’t get chosen.
Even if you don't get selected, just enjoy the show! It'll be a great experience for you no matter what. And the “10 year rule” only counts if you’re chosen as a contestant, so you’re free to try again as many times as you like.
While you can request tickets as often as you like, showing up to repeated tapings, or radically changing your appearance or personality for each attempt, will hurt your chances of ever being selected.
Tips
Play The Price is Right board game or online to practice being a contestant before the taping. You don’t want to get selected as a contestant on the actual show and draw a complete blank between the Showcase and the Showcase Showdown, do you?
You'll be waiting around a lot (at least some of the time without your phone), so bring a book or something else to entertain yourself.
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To qualify for tickets, you :\\nBe under 18 years old (barring special episodes with younger contestants).\\nHave been a contestant (not just an audience member) on TPIR in the past 10 years.\\nHave been a contestant on more than 4 other TV game shows in the past 10 years.\\nBe a contestant on any other TV game show that will air in the next year.\\nBe a candidate for public office for at least 1 year after the application date.\\nBe (or be an immediate relative of) an employee of CBS, TPIR’s production companies, or TPIR’s product sponsors.\\nBe unvaccinated against COVID-19 (as of the 2022-23 season).\\n1-3. Provide personal and personality info on the application.\\nAs expected, you’ll have to provide some basic info, like your name, age, address, email, phone number, and dates when you’ll be in the Los Angeles area. Additionally, you’ll need to upload a photo and answer some personality questions like “What is something about yourself that no one would ever know by looking at you?” Think of this as the beginning of your interview to get called on down as a contestant!\\nWhen answering the question “Describe your personality,” for example, come up with a response that will appeal to the producers who choose contestants. Words like “bubbly,” “fun-loving,” “enthusiastic,” and “positive” are better choices than “shy” or “quiet.” Think of the personality traits that come to mind when you see contestants on the show.\\nWhile you should be 100% honest with your personal info, feel free to embellish your personality answers a bit—be truthful, but with the most fun version of the truth!\\n1-4. Finish the application and make your ticket request.\\nEventually, after several screens of forms, check boxes, and questions, you’ll be able to submit your request for a ticket on the date you choose. When approved, print out the ticket to bring with you on the day of the show taping you’ve selected.\\n If you’re given a “Priority Ticket,” you’re guaranteed entry on the chosen date. If you get a “Line Voucher,” you can wait in the first-come, first-served line on the day of taping (and aren’t guaranteed entry).\\n2. Heading to the Studio\\n2-1. Wear light, neutral clothing on the day of the taping.\\nClothes with bright, bold colors or highly-patterned designs tend not to look as good on camera, so stick with muted colors to improve your chances of being selected as a contestant. Also, avoid wearing clothes with snarky or profane slogans—stick with fun, family-friendly options.\\nYou’re also prohibited from wearing clothes with visible corporate logos, and may not be allowed in the studio with a company-branded shirt on.\\nLots of audience members wear slogan shirts, so feel free to come up with something fun and positive yourself. If you love Drew Carey, let him know!\\n2-2. Pack your photo ID but leave your smart watch behind.\\nYou’ll need a valid photo ID (that matches your ticket) to get into the studio, so make sure you have it with you before heading out on show day. Since smart watches and phones can be used to cheat, either leave them behind or be prepared to check them in with security. Other banned items include:\\nDrugs or alcohol\\nWeapons of any kind\\nBackpacks\\nLists of prices\\nCostumes (except for special events)\\nOverly suggestive or revealing clothing\\n2-3. Arrive at the studio 2+ hours before the doors open.\\nHead to the Bob Barker Studio at Television City, 7800 Beverly Boulevard, Los Angeles, located at the intersection of Beverly Blvd. and Fairfax Ave. To ensure the venue is filled, TPIR (like all game shows) overbooks its audience, meaning not everyone with a “Line Voucher” ticket gets in. Getting there early greatly improves your chances of success!\\nYou’re supposed to be guaranteed entry if you have a “Priority Ticket,” but don’t risk it by showing up at the last minute. Play it safe and come at least 1-2 hours early.\\nThere’s paid parking available on the street or in a nearby garage.\\nMake sure to plan for the possibility of congested traffic so that you can get to the studio as early as possible.\\n3. Acing Your Contestant Audition\\n3-1. Smile and make friendly conversation while you wait in line.\\nAs you stand in the queue to get into the studio, production assistants will circulate through the line, asking questions, possibly handing out forms or surveys, and generally just observing people. From this point onward, assume that someone with the power to choose you as a contestant is always watching. Be positive, show off your funnyside, and aim to be super enthusiastic—in other words, the kind of person they want to “come on down!”\\nGet to know the people around you in line and have fun, positive interactions with them. Treat them like fellow TPIR super-fans, not competitors. Remember that, even when they’re not interacting with you directly, the producers are watching for signs of your true personality traits.\\n3-2. Answer questions clearly when a producer interviews you.\\nThe producers interview everyone in line once the studio lot doors open. You'll be asked your name, where you're from, and your occupation. Think of it as a super-fun “job interview” and answer the questions sincerely and eagerly, with a touch of humor. Your answers play a big role in the producers’ initial determination of who will appear on the show.\\n\\nEnunciate your words and speak up. Those in line around you will likely be talking or even cheering. Make sure the producer can hear every word you say.\\nDon’t ramble. If you ramble on when asked a simple question, the producers are likely to think you’d do that on-air when Drew Carey asked you a question.\\n3-3. Match the energy of the producer with your answer.\\nUnless you’re first in line, watch the producer’s body language and listen for their tone as they interview other contestants. Try to match their excitement and enthusiasm without exceeding it. The producers are looking for just the right amount of energy, so mimic them.\\nFor example, if the producer speaks at a certain volume, match it. If they move their hands while talking, don’t be afraid to move yours.\\nIf, for whatever reason, the producer isn’t showing any energy, don’t try to match them. Instead, answer as if you did receive a contestant slot, and Drew Carey was asking you a question on set. Keep past contestants in mind.\\n3-4. Don’t go overboard with your confidence or emotions.\\nEven if you’re super-confident about your chances of being selected or winning, don’t appear too calculating or arrogant. Being authentic is key. Also, sharing a sob story with the producers is highly unlikely to move them. If they think you may break down in tears on stage, you’ll probably lose your shot.\\nThe producers are prohibited from accepting even a business card, so don’t give them anything that could be perceived as a bribe.\\n4. Enjoying the Show\\n4-1. Cheer loudly and passionately when the show opens.\\nAfter your interview, you’ll be led into the studio audience, after which the show will soon start. Everyone will start cheering. Join in! The producers watch audience reactions as the show begins and make their final contestant decisions based on crowd participation.\\nSome participants initially selected during the interview portion get cut at the last minute because they don’t cheer with any genuine enthusiasm. Whatever you do before the taping starts, make sure you show that you’re happy to be there!\\n4-2. Maintain your enthusiasm throughout the taping.\\nThere are over 300 people in the studio per show, and only 9 of them are chosen to “come on down.” But if you’ve suitably impressed the producers, cheered appropriately, and have a bit of good fortune smiling upon you, you'll be called down as a contestant. Congratulations! Now go win that new car or trip to Aruba!\\n4-3. Try again another time if you don’t get chosen.\\nEven if you don't get selected, just enjoy the show! It'll be a great experience for you no matter what. And the “10 year rule” only counts if you’re chosen as a contestant, so you’re free to try again as many times as you like.\\nWhile you can request tickets as often as you like, showing up to repeated tapings, or radically changing your appearance or personality for each attempt, will hurt your chances of ever being selected.\\nTips\\nPlay The Price is Right board game or online to practice being a contestant before the taping. You don’t want to get selected as a contestant on the actual show and draw a complete blank between the Showcase and the Showcase Showdown, do you?\\nYou'll be waiting around a lot (at least some of the time without your phone), so bring a book or something else to entertain yourself.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"So you want to be on The Price is Right? While many people believe that TPIR contestants are chosen from the audience at random, the show’s producers individually select each and every contestant. With the right mix of careful planning and genuine enthusiasm, you can greatly improve your odds of success. Keep reading for the info you need on getting tickets, heading to the studio, and wowing the producers so you can “come on down” for a chance to win some great prizes!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting a Ticket\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Visit the TPIR website to request a free show ticket.\", \"描述\": \"Ordering a ticket online is free and easy. Simply head to https://priceisright.com/ and click on the “Get Tickets” tab at the top right of the page. This will take you to the ticketing/contestant application page.\\nFor ADA accessible ticket info, call 1-800-579-5788 or email [email protected].\\nFor group tickets and other (non-accessibility) questions, call TPIR customer service at 1-800-852-8909.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Confirm that you meet the eligibility requirements.\", \"描述\": \"TPIR tickets are open to nearly everyone, but there are a few restrictions listed at the beginning of the online ticket application. To qualify for tickets, you :\\nBe under 18 years old (barring special episodes with younger contestants).\\nHave been a contestant (not just an audience member) on TPIR in the past 10 years.\\nHave been a contestant on more than 4 other TV game shows in the past 10 years.\\nBe a contestant on any other TV game show that will air in the next year.\\nBe a candidate for public office for at least 1 year after the application date.\\nBe (or be an immediate relative of) an employee of CBS, TPIR’s production companies, or TPIR’s product sponsors.\\nBe unvaccinated against COVID-19 (as of the 2022-23 season).\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Provide personal and personality info on the application.\", \"描述\": \"As expected, you’ll have to provide some basic info, like your name, age, address, email, phone number, and dates when you’ll be in the Los Angeles area. Additionally, you’ll need to upload a photo and answer some personality questions like “What is something about yourself that no one would ever know by looking at you?” Think of this as the beginning of your interview to get called on down as a contestant!\\nWhen answering the question “Describe your personality,” for example, come up with a response that will appeal to the producers who choose contestants. Words like “bubbly,” “fun-loving,” “enthusiastic,” and “positive” are better choices than “shy” or “quiet.” Think of the personality traits that come to mind when you see contestants on the show.\\nWhile you should be 100% honest with your personal info, feel free to embellish your personality answers a bit—be truthful, but with the most fun version of the truth!\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Finish the application and make your ticket request.\", \"描述\": \"Eventually, after several screens of forms, check boxes, and questions, you’ll be able to submit your request for a ticket on the date you choose. When approved, print out the ticket to bring with you on the day of the show taping you’ve selected.\\n If you’re given a “Priority Ticket,” you’re guaranteed entry on the chosen date. If you get a “Line Voucher,” you can wait in the first-come, first-served line on the day of taping (and aren’t guaranteed entry).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Heading to the Studio\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Wear light, neutral clothing on the day of the taping.\", \"描述\": \"Clothes with bright, bold colors or highly-patterned designs tend not to look as good on camera, so stick with muted colors to improve your chances of being selected as a contestant. Also, avoid wearing clothes with snarky or profane slogans—stick with fun, family-friendly options.\\nYou’re also prohibited from wearing clothes with visible corporate logos, and may not be allowed in the studio with a company-branded shirt on.\\nLots of audience members wear slogan shirts, so feel free to come up with something fun and positive yourself. If you love Drew Carey, let him know!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pack your photo ID but leave your smart watch behind.\", \"描述\": \"You’ll need a valid photo ID (that matches your ticket) to get into the studio, so make sure you have it with you before heading out on show day. Since smart watches and phones can be used to cheat, either leave them behind or be prepared to check them in with security. Other banned items include:\\nDrugs or alcohol\\nWeapons of any kind\\nBackpacks\\nLists of prices\\nCostumes (except for special events)\\nOverly suggestive or revealing clothing\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Arrive at the studio 2+ hours before the doors open.\", \"描述\": \"Head to the Bob Barker Studio at Television City, 7800 Beverly Boulevard, Los Angeles, located at the intersection of Beverly Blvd. and Fairfax Ave. To ensure the venue is filled, TPIR (like all game shows) overbooks its audience, meaning not everyone with a “Line Voucher” ticket gets in. Getting there early greatly improves your chances of success!\\nYou’re supposed to be guaranteed entry if you have a “Priority Ticket,” but don’t risk it by showing up at the last minute. Play it safe and come at least 1-2 hours early.\\nThere’s paid parking available on the street or in a nearby garage.\\nMake sure to plan for the possibility of congested traffic so that you can get to the studio as early as possible.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Acing Your Contestant Audition\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Smile and make friendly conversation while you wait in line.\", \"描述\": \"As you stand in the queue to get into the studio, production assistants will circulate through the line, asking questions, possibly handing out forms or surveys, and generally just observing people. From this point onward, assume that someone with the power to choose you as a contestant is always watching. Be positive, show off your funnyside, and aim to be super enthusiastic—in other words, the kind of person they want to “come on down!”\\nGet to know the people around you in line and have fun, positive interactions with them. Treat them like fellow TPIR super-fans, not competitors. Remember that, even when they’re not interacting with you directly, the producers are watching for signs of your true personality traits.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Answer questions clearly when a producer interviews you.\", \"描述\": \"The producers interview everyone in line once the studio lot doors open. You'll be asked your name, where you're from, and your occupation. Think of it as a super-fun “job interview” and answer the questions sincerely and eagerly, with a touch of humor. Your answers play a big role in the producers’ initial determination of who will appear on the show.\\n\\nEnunciate your words and speak up. Those in line around you will likely be talking or even cheering. 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How to Be a Contestant on Wheel of Fortune
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1. Getting the Audition
1-1. Read the eligibility rules.
If you are unsure if you're eligible, go ahead and apply anyway -- you can ask specific questions later if the show contacts you about being a contestant.
If you have appeared on any version of Wheel of Fortune in the past, you are not eligible to reappear. Also, if you have appeared on a game/dating/relationship or reality show in the last year or three of these shows in the last decade, you also are ineligible. In addition, you will be turned down if you work for or are related to anyone who works for Sony Pictures Entertainment Inc., the game show prize suppliers, or any TV station that broadcasts the show.
1-2. Apply online.
Visit the Wheel of Fortune site. In the blue navigation bar located under the header photo, hover over "CONTESTANTS." A pink drop-down menu will appear with several options. Click on "Be A Contestant."
The first question will appear, asking you about your age group. Click on either "Adult," "College Student," or "Teen."
Fill out the registration form completely and accurately.
1-3. Submit a video.
As an alternative to the form, Wheel of Fortune has started a "Face of the Fan" contest where prospective applicants send in a 60-second video to score an audition. This way, any person in any city can have a chance.
Visit their website for more information. Because a million people audition each year and only 600 or so are chosen, it is strongly encouraged that if you don't have video equipment to stick to sending in the application form.
1-4. Find the Wheelmobile.
It's 39 feet (11.9 m) long, 13 feet (4.0 m) high and bright yellow. It rolls through cities, down highways and into America's heartland. Thousands of fans fill out applications and gather in front of the stage with a traveling version of the famous Wheel and Puzzle board. Applications are drawn at random throughout the event, calling individuals on stage in groups of five to participate in a brief interview, play a version of the Wheel of Fortune speed-up round and win special show-themed prizes.
The most promising candidates are invited back to participate in final auditions for the show, usually held at a later date in the Wheelmobile host city.
If you want to be notified when the Wheelmobile comes to your area, you can fill out a form online to be notified. However, they do say that they may not be able to contact everyone.
1-5. Have the persona.
They're looking for players who clearly can have fun, are calm in front of the camera, and are good winners and losers. They want you to be decisive and logical in calling out letters and in strategy.
Energetic contestants with a sense of humor generally do the best. Of course, keeping a positive attitude is helpful, too. It's about having a good time, whether you win or lose.
1-6. Rock the audition.
The auditions are often held in hotel ballrooms. The contestant coordinators bring about 70 wannabe contestants together and create a sort of mini version of "Wheel of Fortune," complete with puzzles and a miniature wheel. All the participants take turns standing, calling out letters, and solving puzzles.
Then they take a 5 minute written test, consisting of 16 puzzles (where you have to fill in the missing letters). Afterward, they grade the tests and hand outdoor prizes. Then the coordinators tell some of the people to go home, while other people are allowed to stay and play more mock "Wheel" games (as the coordinators size them up). It all takes about two hours.
Unfortunately, even if you do make it past the first round, you still won't know the verdict when you finally do head home. You'll have to wait indefinitely to be contacted -- if you've been selected, that is. Whether you're chosen or not depends both on your test scores and on their impression of what kind of contestant you'd make.
2. Prepare for the Show
2-1. Watch Wheel of Fortune.
The best way to prepare to compete on the show is to be familiar with the show itself. If you are selected to be on the show, you'll want to be 100% familiar with the structure of the game, the rules, etc. Practice for your own turn by guessing along with the contestants and seeing if you can win.
In addition to watching the show, do puzzles like you were asked to do at the audition. Keep your brain fresh to stay mentally prepared.
2-2. Play the games on the website.
The Wheel of Fortune website offers several online games you can play to practice and hone your skills. You want to be ready if you get picked to be on the show, so try to practice a little every day.
There are also a number of Wheel of Fortune games available for virtually any console. You can literally have Wheel of Fortune going 24/7.
2-3. Be patient.
Contestants have 18 months to make an appearance on the show. Sometimes you'll be on in a few weeks or months, sometimes it will take over a year. They try to get a good geographic cross-section of contestants represented each week.
2-4. If you don't hear back, ask for tickets to watch the show.
They're free! If you're in the LA area, spruce up your vacation with a trip to see Pat and Vanna. It's inside Sony Entertainment studios, formerly home to the historic MGM studios.
You can write in, go online, or call. And remember: never pay for tickets. Some people try to sell them, but it's a scam. Real Wheel of Fortune tickets are always free.
Tips
Once you've filled out the form, it can take days, months, or even years before you get on the show. Be patient!
It can help your chances if you register for a specialty show, such as one for military members or engaged couples. What sets you apart? Look for a specific episode theme that fits your lifestyle. The registration form will list a few of these for upcoming events, such as family week or sweethearts' week.
It's recommended to attend a Wheelmobile event. Click here for more details.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Getting the Audition\\n1-1. Read the eligibility rules.\\nIf you are unsure if you're eligible, go ahead and apply anyway -- you can ask specific questions later if the show contacts you about being a contestant.\\nIf you have appeared on any version of Wheel of Fortune in the past, you are not eligible to reappear. Also, if you have appeared on a game/dating/relationship or reality show in the last year or three of these shows in the last decade, you also are ineligible. In addition, you will be turned down if you work for or are related to anyone who works for Sony Pictures Entertainment Inc., the game show prize suppliers, or any TV station that broadcasts the show.\\n1-2. Apply online.\\nVisit the Wheel of Fortune site. In the blue navigation bar located under the header photo, hover over \\\"CONTESTANTS.\\\" A pink drop-down menu will appear with several options. Click on \\\"Be A Contestant.\\\"\\nThe first question will appear, asking you about your age group. Click on either \\\"Adult,\\\" \\\"College Student,\\\" or \\\"Teen.\\\"\\nFill out the registration form completely and accurately.\\n1-3. Submit a video.\\nAs an alternative to the form, Wheel of Fortune has started a \\\"Face of the Fan\\\" contest where prospective applicants send in a 60-second video to score an audition. This way, any person in any city can have a chance.\\nVisit their website for more information. Because a million people audition each year and only 600 or so are chosen, it is strongly encouraged that if you don't have video equipment to stick to sending in the application form.\\n1-4. Find the Wheelmobile.\\nIt's 39 feet (11.9 m) long, 13 feet (4.0 m) high and bright yellow. It rolls through cities, down highways and into America's heartland. Thousands of fans fill out applications and gather in front of the stage with a traveling version of the famous Wheel and Puzzle board. Applications are drawn at random throughout the event, calling individuals on stage in groups of five to participate in a brief interview, play a version of the Wheel of Fortune speed-up round and win special show-themed prizes.\\nThe most promising candidates are invited back to participate in final auditions for the show, usually held at a later date in the Wheelmobile host city.\\nIf you want to be notified when the Wheelmobile comes to your area, you can fill out a form online to be notified. However, they do say that they may not be able to contact everyone.\\n1-5. Have the persona.\\nThey're looking for players who clearly can have fun, are calm in front of the camera, and are good winners and losers. They want you to be decisive and logical in calling out letters and in strategy.\\nEnergetic contestants with a sense of humor generally do the best. Of course, keeping a positive attitude is helpful, too. It's about having a good time, whether you win or lose.\\n1-6. Rock the audition.\\nThe auditions are often held in hotel ballrooms. The contestant coordinators bring about 70 wannabe contestants together and create a sort of mini version of \\\"Wheel of Fortune,\\\" complete with puzzles and a miniature wheel. All the participants take turns standing, calling out letters, and solving puzzles.\\nThen they take a 5 minute written test, consisting of 16 puzzles (where you have to fill in the missing letters). Afterward, they grade the tests and hand outdoor prizes. Then the coordinators tell some of the people to go home, while other people are allowed to stay and play more mock \\\"Wheel\\\" games (as the coordinators size them up). It all takes about two hours.\\nUnfortunately, even if you do make it past the first round, you still won't know the verdict when you finally do head home. You'll have to wait indefinitely to be contacted -- if you've been selected, that is. Whether you're chosen or not depends both on your test scores and on their impression of what kind of contestant you'd make.\\n2. Prepare for the Show\\n2-1. Watch Wheel of Fortune.\\nThe best way to prepare to compete on the show is to be familiar with the show itself. If you are selected to be on the show, you'll want to be 100% familiar with the structure of the game, the rules, etc. Practice for your own turn by guessing along with the contestants and seeing if you can win.\\nIn addition to watching the show, do puzzles like you were asked to do at the audition. Keep your brain fresh to stay mentally prepared.\\n2-2. Play the games on the website.\\nThe Wheel of Fortune website offers several online games you can play to practice and hone your skills. You want to be ready if you get picked to be on the show, so try to practice a little every day.\\nThere are also a number of Wheel of Fortune games available for virtually any console. You can literally have Wheel of Fortune going 24/7.\\n2-3. Be patient.\\nContestants have 18 months to make an appearance on the show. Sometimes you'll be on in a few weeks or months, sometimes it will take over a year. They try to get a good geographic cross-section of contestants represented each week.\\n2-4. If you don't hear back, ask for tickets to watch the show.\\nThey're free! If you're in the LA area, spruce up your vacation with a trip to see Pat and Vanna. It's inside Sony Entertainment studios, formerly home to the historic MGM studios.\\nYou can write in, go online, or call. And remember: never pay for tickets. Some people try to sell them, but it's a scam. Real Wheel of Fortune tickets are always free.\\nTips\\nOnce you've filled out the form, it can take days, months, or even years before you get on the show. Be patient!\\nIt can help your chances if you register for a specialty show, such as one for military members or engaged couples. What sets you apart? Look for a specific episode theme that fits your lifestyle. The registration form will list a few of these for upcoming events, such as family week or sweethearts' week.\\nIt's recommended to attend a Wheelmobile event. Click here for more details.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Wheel of Fortune is a fun, classic game show that quizzes your knowledge, tests your luck and can win you a significant sum of money. If you want to spin the wheel, you'll need to apply and prepare to be on the show. Put on your running shoes -- you might have to go catch the Wheelmobile!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting the Audition\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Read the eligibility rules.\", \"描述\": \"If you are unsure if you're eligible, go ahead and apply anyway -- you can ask specific questions later if the show contacts you about being a contestant.\\nIf you have appeared on any version of Wheel of Fortune in the past, you are not eligible to reappear. Also, if you have appeared on a game/dating/relationship or reality show in the last year or three of these shows in the last decade, you also are ineligible. In addition, you will be turned down if you work for or are related to anyone who works for Sony Pictures Entertainment Inc., the game show prize suppliers, or any TV station that broadcasts the show.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Apply online.\", \"描述\": \"Visit the Wheel of Fortune site. In the blue navigation bar located under the header photo, hover over \\\"CONTESTANTS.\\\" A pink drop-down menu will appear with several options. Click on \\\"Be A Contestant.\\\"\\nThe first question will appear, asking you about your age group. Click on either \\\"Adult,\\\" \\\"College Student,\\\" or \\\"Teen.\\\"\\nFill out the registration form completely and accurately.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Submit a video.\", \"描述\": \"As an alternative to the form, Wheel of Fortune has started a \\\"Face of the Fan\\\" contest where prospective applicants send in a 60-second video to score an audition. This way, any person in any city can have a chance.\\nVisit their website for more information. Because a million people audition each year and only 600 or so are chosen, it is strongly encouraged that if you don't have video equipment to stick to sending in the application form.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Find the Wheelmobile.\", \"描述\": \"It's 39 feet (11.9 m) long, 13 feet (4.0 m) high and bright yellow. It rolls through cities, down highways and into America's heartland. Thousands of fans fill out applications and gather in front of the stage with a traveling version of the famous Wheel and Puzzle board. Applications are drawn at random throughout the event, calling individuals on stage in groups of five to participate in a brief interview, play a version of the Wheel of Fortune speed-up round and win special show-themed prizes.\\nThe most promising candidates are invited back to participate in final auditions for the show, usually held at a later date in the Wheelmobile host city.\\nIf you want to be notified when the Wheelmobile comes to your area, you can fill out a form online to be notified. However, they do say that they may not be able to contact everyone.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Have the persona.\", \"描述\": \"They're looking for players who clearly can have fun, are calm in front of the camera, and are good winners and losers. They want you to be decisive and logical in calling out letters and in strategy.\\nEnergetic contestants with a sense of humor generally do the best. Of course, keeping a positive attitude is helpful, too. 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1. Pre-Audition
1-1. Watch the show.
The best and most important thing you can do to prepare for the show is by watching it. Watch it every day, and record it if you can't watch it live. Know how the game is played. Know the format and what the lifelines are and how they work. Watching the show every day will also give you a feel for what kinds of questions are asked on the show. While the show covers a broad range of subjects, it's a good idea to keep up on current events and popular culture, since the show often asks questions on those subjects. You may also want to study movie trivia, since the show holds weeks dedicated to movies at least once a year.
1-2. Meet the eligibility requirements.
You must be at 18 years of age, a resident of the United States, not be related to anyone who works for a company affiliated with the show, not running for political office, and have not been a contestant on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire in the past.
1-3. Go to the official Who Wants to Be a Millionaire website and at the top of the page, click on "Auditions."
On the page, click on the link of which audition you want to do. There are three available - a Las Vegas audition, a specialty week audition, and a video audition.
1-4. Follow the instructions provided to fill out your audition form, if doing a Las Vegas or specialty week audition.
For a Las Vegas audition, you'll have to print out the form and fill it in, while for specialty week auditions, you'll have to fill out the form online. For video auditions, you'll have to make a video and submit it to YouTube, which you'll have to include in the online form.
1-5. After your application is reviewed, you'll receive an e-mail with the date, time, and location of your audition.
1-6. Plan your trip
If you live far away, book a plane ride to Las Vegas in advance, and choose an affordable hotel that's near the studio. Your trip may require an overnight stay, so pack clothing and other materials that you'll want a few days before the trip.
2. Audition
2-1. On the day of your audition, wake up early.
Take a shower and brush your teeth; good hygiene is essential here. Wear khakis or dress pants, a solid color button-down shirt, and dress shoes. You want to dress to impress. Arrive at the studio a few hours before the audition starts and wait for the doors to open.
2-2. Fill out the contestant application form.
In addition to standard information such as your name and address, you'll also be asked questions such as what your hobbies are and what you'll do with $1,000,000.
2-3. Take the contestant exam.
The contestant exam has 30 multiple-choice questions to answer in 10 minutes. You bubble in your answers on Scantron sheets. Be sure that when you fill out the Scantron sheet that you put in the contestant number you'll be given before the exam starts. Answer all of the questions (or at least, as many as you can in the 10 minutes) and wait until time is called. Depending on when the audition is, you may also be able to take the exam for a movie week.
2-4. Hand in your exam sheet, and wait for the exams to be graded.
During this time, it's a good idea to talk to the people around you so you aren't just sitting there waiting.
2-5. Once the exams are graded, the numbers of the people who passed will be announced.
If you don't hear your number, that means you didn't pass and that you'll have to do another audition if you want to be on the show. If you passed, on the other hand, you can stay and move on to the next part of the audition.
2-6. You'll have a 3-5 minute interview with a show producer.
They'll take a head shot of you, look over your application form, and talk to you briefly (around 3-5 minutes). You'll be asked questions about yourself, along with the answers you gave to the questions on the application form. For the interview, you want to be interesting and funny, along with being comfortable. If you do well enough, you'll be taken to another room where you'll have an on-camera interview with another show producer.
3. Post-Audition
3-1. Wait patiently
The possibility of being chosen for the show is an exciting prospect, but you don't want it to take over your life. Just move on with your life and do what you normally do.
3-2. Whether you make it into the contestant pool or not, you'll be notified by a postcard in the mail.
If you don't make it in, you'll be told so and thanked for auditioning for the show. If you do make it, on the other hand, you'll be told so and that you'll receive a phone call from the show.
3-3. At some point, you'll receive a phone call from the show where you'll be asked to confirm the information you gave on your application, and told when you'll be taping.
Keep this information in mind and don't forget it. You can call them back at any time if you have any questions.
3-4. Plan for another trip, this time around to Las Vegas where the show tapes.
If you live far away, book a plane ride to Las Vegas in advance, and choose an affordable hotel that's near the studio. Your trip may require an overnight stay, so pack clothing and other materials that you'll want a few days before the trip.
4. The Show
4-1. On the day of your taping, arrive at the studio at the time you were told to arrive at.
Make sure that you take a shower and brush your teeth, and that you put on your best dress clothes.
4-2. Wait for your name to be called for the taping of your episode.
It can be anywhere from the start of the taping session to the last episode of the day. You'll be waiting in a room with the other contestants for that taping session. You may end up waiting for hours, so be patient. During this time, you'll want to talk with the other contestants and make friends with them.
4-3. Once your name is called, you'll get your makeup done, and be led to the studio for the taping of your episode.
Good luck and no matter what happens, be sure to have fun! It's just a game, after all. You may be on for more than one episode, and if that happens, go back to your hotel and follow the above three steps again before the taping of the rest of your episode.
Tips
Don't be nervous. Stay calm, because the calmer and more focused you are, the better you'll do on both the audition and the show.
Smile! The producers are more likely to pick people who are happy and want to be there.
Be sure to use the bathroom before the audition and before you tape your episode. Before taping your episode, if you want to go to the bathroom, you'll be escorted there.
Warnings
Don't fake your enthusiasm. The producers will be able to see right through this.
Don't audition if you've already appeared on a game show in the same year. You're only allowed to appear on one game show in a given year.
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Go to the official Who Wants to Be a Millionaire website and at the top of the page, click on \\\"Auditions.\\\"\\nOn the page, click on the link of which audition you want to do. There are three available - a Las Vegas audition, a specialty week audition, and a video audition.\\n1-4. Follow the instructions provided to fill out your audition form, if doing a Las Vegas or specialty week audition.\\nFor a Las Vegas audition, you'll have to print out the form and fill it in, while for specialty week auditions, you'll have to fill out the form online. For video auditions, you'll have to make a video and submit it to YouTube, which you'll have to include in the online form.\\n1-5. After your application is reviewed, you'll receive an e-mail with the date, time, and location of your audition.\\n\\n1-6. Plan your trip\\nIf you live far away, book a plane ride to Las Vegas in advance, and choose an affordable hotel that's near the studio. Your trip may require an overnight stay, so pack clothing and other materials that you'll want a few days before the trip.\\n2. Audition\\n2-1. On the day of your audition, wake up early.\\nTake a shower and brush your teeth; good hygiene is essential here. Wear khakis or dress pants, a solid color button-down shirt, and dress shoes. You want to dress to impress. Arrive at the studio a few hours before the audition starts and wait for the doors to open.\\n2-2. Fill out the contestant application form.\\nIn addition to standard information such as your name and address, you'll also be asked questions such as what your hobbies are and what you'll do with $1,000,000.\\n2-3. Take the contestant exam.\\nThe contestant exam has 30 multiple-choice questions to answer in 10 minutes. You bubble in your answers on Scantron sheets. Be sure that when you fill out the Scantron sheet that you put in the contestant number you'll be given before the exam starts. Answer all of the questions (or at least, as many as you can in the 10 minutes) and wait until time is called. Depending on when the audition is, you may also be able to take the exam for a movie week.\\n2-4. Hand in your exam sheet, and wait for the exams to be graded.\\nDuring this time, it's a good idea to talk to the people around you so you aren't just sitting there waiting.\\n2-5. Once the exams are graded, the numbers of the people who passed will be announced.\\nIf you don't hear your number, that means you didn't pass and that you'll have to do another audition if you want to be on the show. If you passed, on the other hand, you can stay and move on to the next part of the audition.\\n2-6. You'll have a 3-5 minute interview with a show producer.\\nThey'll take a head shot of you, look over your application form, and talk to you briefly (around 3-5 minutes). You'll be asked questions about yourself, along with the answers you gave to the questions on the application form. For the interview, you want to be interesting and funny, along with being comfortable. If you do well enough, you'll be taken to another room where you'll have an on-camera interview with another show producer.\\n3. Post-Audition\\n3-1. Wait patiently\\nThe possibility of being chosen for the show is an exciting prospect, but you don't want it to take over your life. Just move on with your life and do what you normally do.\\n3-2. Whether you make it into the contestant pool or not, you'll be notified by a postcard in the mail.\\nIf you don't make it in, you'll be told so and thanked for auditioning for the show. If you do make it, on the other hand, you'll be told so and that you'll receive a phone call from the show.\\n3-3. At some point, you'll receive a phone call from the show where you'll be asked to confirm the information you gave on your application, and told when you'll be taping.\\nKeep this information in mind and don't forget it. You can call them back at any time if you have any questions.\\n3-4. Plan for another trip, this time around to Las Vegas where the show tapes.\\nIf you live far away, book a plane ride to Las Vegas in advance, and choose an affordable hotel that's near the studio. Your trip may require an overnight stay, so pack clothing and other materials that you'll want a few days before the trip.\\n4. The Show\\n4-1. On the day of your taping, arrive at the studio at the time you were told to arrive at.\\nMake sure that you take a shower and brush your teeth, and that you put on your best dress clothes.\\n4-2. Wait for your name to be called for the taping of your episode.\\nIt can be anywhere from the start of the taping session to the last episode of the day. You'll be waiting in a room with the other contestants for that taping session. You may end up waiting for hours, so be patient. During this time, you'll want to talk with the other contestants and make friends with them.\\n4-3. Once your name is called, you'll get your makeup done, and be led to the studio for the taping of your episode.\\nGood luck and no matter what happens, be sure to have fun! It's just a game, after all. You may be on for more than one episode, and if that happens, go back to your hotel and follow the above three steps again before the taping of the rest of your episode.\\nTips\\nDon't be nervous. Stay calm, because the calmer and more focused you are, the better you'll do on both the audition and the show.\\nSmile! The producers are more likely to pick people who are happy and want to be there.\\nBe sure to use the bathroom before the audition and before you tape your episode. Before taping your episode, if you want to go to the bathroom, you'll be escorted there.\\nWarnings\\nDon't fake your enthusiasm. The producers will be able to see right through this.\\nDon't audition if you've already appeared on a game show in the same year. You're only allowed to appear on one game show in a given year.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Who Wants to Be a Millionaire is a popular syndicated TV game show where you can win up to $1,000,000 by answering 14 multiple-choice questions correctly. Do you often find yourself shouting out answers at the TV? Do you dislike people who get seemingly easy questions wrong? Well, why not audition for the show? It's very difficult to get on the show, but with this guide, it won't seem as intimidating.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pre-Audition\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Watch the show.\", \"描述\": \"The best and most important thing you can do to prepare for the show is by watching it. Watch it every day, and record it if you can't watch it live. Know how the game is played. Know the format and what the lifelines are and how they work. Watching the show every day will also give you a feel for what kinds of questions are asked on the show. 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How to Be a Cool Aunt or Uncle Without Alienating Your Niece or Nephew's Parents
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1. Considering Boundaries
1-1. Communicate with your sibling about your relationship with their children.
As a parent, they may expect you to fulfill a similar role of protective guidance for their kids. While it's important to be a guardian for your niece or nephew, you need to let their parents know you are cultivating a different dynamic then the parent-child connection. Be honest with what kind of relationship you would like to develop with their children, and what specific responsibilities and roles you want to fulfill in their lives.
1-2. Talk to your brother or sister about their rules before taking their children out.
Before you regularly spend time with your niece or nephew, know what guidelines their parents set so you can make a habit out of following them. There are a few key questions you should ask their parents beforehand.
What is their bedtime?
Do they have any dietary restrictions or health problems you should be aware of?
Are there any bad behaviors you should look out for when caring for them?
1-3. Understand their values even if you may not agree with them.
Some parents may be religious when you aren't, or vice-versa. Regardless of whether their values seem difficult to understand, as long as those values regard the health and safety of the children you should always follow them.
1-4. Don’t be afraid to push a little when you feel your sibling is being unfair.
Some parents can be overbearing, set up arbitrary rules, or punish their children unnecessarily. If you feel they're being too strict on their children, gently ask them whether their parenting guidelines are necessary and in the best interest of your niece or nephew.
2. Treating Kids Like Individuals
2-1. Don’t talk down to them.
Whether your nieces or nephews are children or teenagers, young people are far more perceptive than we give them credit for. Try picking adult topics for conversation - obviously avoiding drinking stories but don't assume their minds are controlled by social media and video games.
For example, let them interject if they have an opinion on a political candidate.
If they ask questions that seem too deep for their age, still try and find a way to explain them. A child may ask, "why do leaves fall to the ground?" You could respond, "heavy stuff pulls other stuff towards it. The Earth is really heavy, so its weight pulls stuff to the ground."
2-2. Treat them like they’re on your level.
When you're discussing something, take their opinions seriously and listen to them like you would an adult. If other adults start talking over them, make sure to give your niece or nephew the space to voice their opinion, ultimately proving you value them as equals.
2-3. Be age appropriate.
Find a balance between speaking about adult topics and recognizing their parent's boundaries. If they're particularly young avoid controversial topics such as a religion, politics, and violent news events. Remember, even if you're talking about their favorite television show you can still have a mature conversation.
3. Making Time for Your Niece or Nephew
3-1. Teach them lifelong skills that will stick with them for years to come.
Whether its fishing, woodworking, or playing the guitar, impart some unique skills that will benefit your niece or nephews. The activity serves the dual purpose of spending quality time with them in an educational context, always a favorite of their parents.
3-2. Give them experiences over gifts.
While the cool aunt or uncle always seems to defined by their extravagant gift-giving, choosing active experiences shows you have a desire to spend real time with them. Taking them hiking, embarking on a cross-country road trip, or even going for a picnic creates a memory that's sure to make a more meaningful impression than a disposable present.
3-3. Be there when they're in the spotlight.
Youth is full of a myriad of events such as softball games, middle school concerts, and dance recitals that may seem mundane but represent a huge milestone in your niece or nephew's life. Being there for the little stuff makes them and their parents know that you want to be an active part of their lives instead of a passing figure at holidays.
4. Buying the Right Gifts
4-1. Don't be afraid to buy something ridiculous.
While goofy gifts aren't the cornerstone of being the cool aunt or uncle, they certainly help. Buying your niece or nephew oddball presents help to give you personality and show you have a relatable sense of humor.
4-2. Think of their interests.
Even when buying something offbeat, try to make sure it ties back to their interests in some fashion. For example, if they're into fishing a talking wall-mounted bass could be a good fit, or if they're into comedy shows try getting them a collection of an old sketch show you enjoyed when you were younger.
4-3. Keep it wholesome.
Always keep your gifts, no matter how ridiculous, within the confines of their parent's values. Getting a gift that's too obscene or vulgar could easily confuse your niece and nephew while causing their parents to question your judgement - possibly restricting future opportunities to hang out with them.
Know their parent's morals so you can know which gifts are appropriate. Are their parents strict on movie and television ratings or subversive material? Then maybe you should avoid getting the Ren and Stimpy box set and go for some classic Mickey Mouse cartoons.
Try getting gifts that inspire hobbies, like a book of magic tricks, a crystal growing kit, or a do-it-yourself volcano.
Even better, make gifts with your niece or nephew. You can easily create interesting shapes out of clay, or make homemade slime, or craft a collage art project they can hang on their wall as a constant reminder of the fun they had with their aunt or uncle.
Tips
Don't get defensive if the parents talk to you or bring something up about when you had their child. Not everyone is perfect and it's important that the parents feel comfortable to speak up when they feel they need to.
Be responsible. If you're planning an outing and you know your niece or nephew has to be back at a certain time, make sure you will be able to work around their schedule - not yours.
Remember that you are a guardian first and friend second. While it's good to be laid-back and friendly with your niece or nephew, know that your first duty is look after their immediate safety and health, even if that means using discipline and authority.
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Don’t talk down to them.\\nWhether your nieces or nephews are children or teenagers, young people are far more perceptive than we give them credit for. Try picking adult topics for conversation - obviously avoiding drinking stories but don't assume their minds are controlled by social media and video games.\\nFor example, let them interject if they have an opinion on a political candidate.\\nIf they ask questions that seem too deep for their age, still try and find a way to explain them. A child may ask, \\\"why do leaves fall to the ground?\\\" You could respond, \\\"heavy stuff pulls other stuff towards it. The Earth is really heavy, so its weight pulls stuff to the ground.\\\"\\n2-2. Treat them like they’re on your level.\\nWhen you're discussing something, take their opinions seriously and listen to them like you would an adult. If other adults start talking over them, make sure to give your niece or nephew the space to voice their opinion, ultimately proving you value them as equals.\\n2-3. Be age appropriate.\\nFind a balance between speaking about adult topics and recognizing their parent's boundaries. If they're particularly young avoid controversial topics such as a religion, politics, and violent news events. Remember, even if you're talking about their favorite television show you can still have a mature conversation.\\n3. Making Time for Your Niece or Nephew\\n3-1. Teach them lifelong skills that will stick with them for years to come.\\nWhether its fishing, woodworking, or playing the guitar, impart some unique skills that will benefit your niece or nephews. The activity serves the dual purpose of spending quality time with them in an educational context, always a favorite of their parents.\\n3-2. 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How to Be a Cool Girl in Fifth Grade
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1. Steps
1-1. Be genuine.
Treat others with kindness and be as friendly as possible, but stay "real". Don't act like someone else just to fit in. Be comfortable and proud of who you truly are!
1-2. Wear creative clothes.
Be the trend setter. Wear casual clothes that look cute, including brand-name clothes. Buy clothes from stores that are considered popular in your school, wear stylish items, but stay on dress code if your school has one.
Make sure you wear matching clothes and don't try mixing crazy colors. If you think the colors match, go ahead! Make all your outfits cute and comfy. Your day will be better if your clothes are comfortable. It's always important to figure out which styles work for your age.
If you cannot afford to buy a bunch of new clothes before school starts, getting a couple of new T-shirts or accessories can bring life back into older clothes. Plus it can give them a whole new look.
Whenever you go to a store, you're probably going to find only the pieces that are in style at the moment, since they rotate the clothing seasonally.
If you want to find style inspiration, find influencers, blogs and TV shows with characters you'd like to dress more.
If you wear a uniform to school, you can even play with it a bit. Try adding cute necklaces or earrings to your look! Neck scarfs are also fun additions to any style!
1-3. Join activities.
Play sports, take up a hobby, or join a club you like. This will get you involved in things outside of school and at home. You have to care about school, but you also have to allow yourself to have some fun, participating in extracurricular or hobbies, too. Do a sport that involves your interests, like swimming, gymnastics or soccer.
1-4. Have good hygiene.
Nobody likes dirty hair, smelly armpits, or stinky feet.
Take showers or bathe at home regularly. Shower with gel soap or just any ordinary bar soap (showers at school are good too!) Try brushing your teeth twice a day. Nobody likes yellow teeth or bad breath.
Use quality deodorant, if necessary.
Always carry a tissue in your pocket, or somewhere nearby. You definitely do not want to be in a situation where you have a runny nose and don't have anything to stop it except your fingers.
1-5. React calmly in embarrassing situations.
Imagine this: You're walking out with your lunch and then, oops, drop your napkin, then you pick it up when, oops, dropped your fork. When you get to the milk accounts you slip on a wet floor, and pizza gets all over your shirt. Do not ever get up, throw away the pizza, and rush to the bathroom. Just laugh about it. It will make all embarrassing things go away. Always look like your life is perfect just the way it is. Don't laugh too much, however, or people will think you are weird.
1-6. Do not be a follower, or else you will be looking up to someone for the rest of your life!
If you find someone cool, and you have something in common, try talking to them.
Never depend on other popular girls.
Don't hang out in cliques. Usually cliques make others feel bad, and then nobody will like you.
1-7. Don't take sides.
If some girls are in an emotional fight, stay out of it. If you take sides, you may end up getting into trouble.
Do not tattle. Tattling just shows you are a little baby who tells on people! Cool girls do not tattle. If there really is a situation where you need to tell an adult that something is wrong, do so. There is a difference between tattling and doing the right thing by reporting something.
Don't try to downgrade other people, or you will appear mean.
1-8. Host hangouts and parties.
Always be a great hostess. Popcorn, movies, Truth or Dare, and dancing are some of the things you can do, have, or watch at a sleep over. Don't throw too many parties, and don't send out invites if only two people can make it. It'll make you look socially inept.
Try finding a great game you can play, and be the center of attention! Not a desperate center, but a cool relaxed center.
1-9. Act sophisticated
Do not be too wild or crazy. Be a little sophisticated and mature. If you're wild and crazy all the time, it gets really annoying and nobody will like you. Be too serious, and people will think you're boring and nobody will come to anything you host. Come from somewhere in the middle.
1-10. Use a little technology to help you come off as cool.
Have a cool phone case and make sure to have a passcode so nobody can see your personal stuff, like text messages.
Have a variety of cool music, including whoever is most popular at your school (also have more than one singer). Have a lot of songs!
Add everyone you know and have cool apps that people use (Instagram, Snapchat, etc.). Also have an app where you can send people stuff (like online cards or something). In addition have a cute, sophisticated up-to-date picture of yourself. Do not reveal too much or try to look older than you are in these photos, as there are creeps online who search for that. You can be cool without attention-seeking through makeup or revealing clothes. Also, only add friends. Don't make your password obvious like your name, last name, or best friend's name.
If someone sends you a mean email, IM, or text, just brush it off. Even if it bothers you, tell them that you don't care and block them from contacting you online.
1-11. Make genuine friendships.
Having lots of high-class friends is not a necessity for being cool.
Try not be friends with the mean girls. Don't be mean back to them either. In the end, they'll be the ones in trouble.
1-12. Be confident.
Girls like to have a best friend who is sure of herself. If you're insulted, just reply with a snarky comeback, or an amused look, and walk away. If you're mad at that person, even though you had a good dis, have a party. That'll cheer you up and if you're really feeling up to it, have sleepovers and cool activities once every week.
If your feeling down, don’t let it break your day. Brush it off and keep moving.
Tips
Never let someone down when they're depending on you. Stay true to your word and go through with your promises.
Carry something in your backpack to clean up stained clothes, such as hand sanitizer or baby wipes. Stained clothes could be embarrassing.
Always stay up-to-date with everything going on in the social world in your school.
Warnings
Remember, just because you're popular doesn't mean everyone will like you.
Make sure to not be mean. Being mean won't help you get more friends, it will just help you lose more friends, so be careful.
If people keep unintentionally insulting you about something because you keep shrugging it off and they don't realize what they're doing, tell them to stop.
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Plus it can give them a whole new look.\\nWhenever you go to a store, you're probably going to find only the pieces that are in style at the moment, since they rotate the clothing seasonally.\\nIf you want to find style inspiration, find influencers, blogs and TV shows with characters you'd like to dress more.\\nIf you wear a uniform to school, you can even play with it a bit. Try adding cute necklaces or earrings to your look! Neck scarfs are also fun additions to any style!\\n1-3. Join activities.\\nPlay sports, take up a hobby, or join a club you like. This will get you involved in things outside of school and at home. You have to care about school, but you also have to allow yourself to have some fun, participating in extracurricular or hobbies, too. Do a sport that involves your interests, like swimming, gymnastics or soccer.\\n1-4. Have good hygiene.\\nNobody likes dirty hair, smelly armpits, or stinky feet.\\nTake showers or bathe at home regularly. Shower with gel soap or just any ordinary bar soap (showers at school are good too!) Try brushing your teeth twice a day. Nobody likes yellow teeth or bad breath.\\nUse quality deodorant, if necessary.\\nAlways carry a tissue in your pocket, or somewhere nearby. You definitely do not want to be in a situation where you have a runny nose and don't have anything to stop it except your fingers.\\n1-5. React calmly in embarrassing situations.\\nImagine this: You're walking out with your lunch and then, oops, drop your napkin, then you pick it up when, oops, dropped your fork. When you get to the milk accounts you slip on a wet floor, and pizza gets all over your shirt. Do not ever get up, throw away the pizza, and rush to the bathroom. Just laugh about it. It will make all embarrassing things go away. Always look like your life is perfect just the way it is. Don't laugh too much, however, or people will think you are weird.\\n1-6. Do not be a follower, or else you will be looking up to someone for the rest of your life!\\nIf you find someone cool, and you have something in common, try talking to them. \\nNever depend on other popular girls.\\nDon't hang out in cliques. Usually cliques make others feel bad, and then nobody will like you.\\n1-7. Don't take sides.\\nIf some girls are in an emotional fight, stay out of it. If you take sides, you may end up getting into trouble.\\nDo not tattle. Tattling just shows you are a little baby who tells on people! Cool girls do not tattle. If there really is a situation where you need to tell an adult that something is wrong, do so. There is a difference between tattling and doing the right thing by reporting something.\\nDon't try to downgrade other people, or you will appear mean.\\n1-8. Host hangouts and parties.\\nAlways be a great hostess. Popcorn, movies, Truth or Dare, and dancing are some of the things you can do, have, or watch at a sleep over. Don't throw too many parties, and don't send out invites if only two people can make it. It'll make you look socially inept.\\nTry finding a great game you can play, and be the center of attention! Not a desperate center, but a cool relaxed center.\\n1-9. Act sophisticated\\nDo not be too wild or crazy. Be a little sophisticated and mature. If you're wild and crazy all the time, it gets really annoying and nobody will like you. Be too serious, and people will think you're boring and nobody will come to anything you host. Come from somewhere in the middle.\\n1-10. Use a little technology to help you come off as cool.\\nHave a cool phone case and make sure to have a passcode so nobody can see your personal stuff, like text messages.\\nHave a variety of cool music, including whoever is most popular at your school (also have more than one singer). Have a lot of songs!\\nAdd everyone you know and have cool apps that people use (Instagram, Snapchat, etc.). Also have an app where you can send people stuff (like online cards or something). In addition have a cute, sophisticated up-to-date picture of yourself. Do not reveal too much or try to look older than you are in these photos, as there are creeps online who search for that. You can be cool without attention-seeking through makeup or revealing clothes. Also, only add friends. Don't make your password obvious like your name, last name, or best friend's name.\\nIf someone sends you a mean email, IM, or text, just brush it off. Even if it bothers you, tell them that you don't care and block them from contacting you online.\\n1-11. Make genuine friendships.\\nHaving lots of high-class friends is not a necessity for being cool.\\nTry not be friends with the mean girls. Don't be mean back to them either. In the end, they'll be the ones in trouble.\\n1-12. Be confident.\\nGirls like to have a best friend who is sure of herself. If you're insulted, just reply with a snarky comeback, or an amused look, and walk away. If you're mad at that person, even though you had a good dis, have a party. That'll cheer you up and if you're really feeling up to it, have sleepovers and cool activities once every week.\\nIf your feeling down, don’t let it break your day. Brush it off and keep moving.\\nTips\\nNever let someone down when they're depending on you. Stay true to your word and go through with your promises.\\nCarry something in your backpack to clean up stained clothes, such as hand sanitizer or baby wipes. Stained clothes could be embarrassing.\\nAlways stay up-to-date with everything going on in the social world in your school.\\nWarnings\\nRemember, just because you're popular doesn't mean everyone will like you.\\nMake sure to not be mean. Being mean won't help you get more friends, it will just help you lose more friends, so be careful.\\nIf people keep unintentionally insulting you about something because you keep shrugging it off and they don't realize what they're doing, tell them to stop.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Ever feel like you are being ignored? How about being treated differently? Do you feel like you making a change may help yourself feel better, or perhaps, more cool?\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be genuine.\", \"描述\": \"Treat others with kindness and be as friendly as possible, but stay \\\"real\\\". Don't act like someone else just to fit in. Be comfortable and proud of who you truly are!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wear creative clothes.\", \"描述\": \"Be the trend setter. Wear casual clothes that look cute, including brand-name clothes. Buy clothes from stores that are considered popular in your school, wear stylish items, but stay on dress code if your school has one.\\nMake sure you wear matching clothes and don't try mixing crazy colors. If you think the colors match, go ahead! Make all your outfits cute and comfy. Your day will be better if your clothes are comfortable. It's always important to figure out which styles work for your age.\\nIf you cannot afford to buy a bunch of new clothes before school starts, getting a couple of new T-shirts or accessories can bring life back into older clothes. Plus it can give them a whole new look.\\nWhenever you go to a store, you're probably going to find only the pieces that are in style at the moment, since they rotate the clothing seasonally.\\nIf you want to find style inspiration, find influencers, blogs and TV shows with characters you'd like to dress more.\\nIf you wear a uniform to school, you can even play with it a bit. Try adding cute necklaces or earrings to your look! Neck scarfs are also fun additions to any style!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Join activities.\", \"描述\": \"Play sports, take up a hobby, or join a club you like. This will get you involved in things outside of school and at home. You have to care about school, but you also have to allow yourself to have some fun, participating in extracurricular or hobbies, too. Do a sport that involves your interests, like swimming, gymnastics or soccer.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Have good hygiene.\", \"描述\": \"Nobody likes dirty hair, smelly armpits, or stinky feet.\\nTake showers or bathe at home regularly. Shower with gel soap or just any ordinary bar soap (showers at school are good too!) Try brushing your teeth twice a day. Nobody likes yellow teeth or bad breath.\\nUse quality deodorant, if necessary.\\nAlways carry a tissue in your pocket, or somewhere nearby. You definitely do not want to be in a situation where you have a runny nose and don't have anything to stop it except your fingers.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"React calmly in embarrassing situations.\", \"描述\": \"Imagine this: You're walking out with your lunch and then, oops, drop your napkin, then you pick it up when, oops, dropped your fork. When you get to the milk accounts you slip on a wet floor, and pizza gets all over your shirt. Do not ever get up, throw away the pizza, and rush to the bathroom. Just laugh about it. It will make all embarrassing things go away. Always look like your life is perfect just the way it is. Don't laugh too much, however, or people will think you are weird.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Do not be a follower, or else you will be looking up to someone for the rest of your life!\", \"描述\": \"If you find someone cool, and you have something in common, try talking to them. \\nNever depend on other popular girls.\\nDon't hang out in cliques. Usually cliques make others feel bad, and then nobody will like you.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Don't take sides.\", \"描述\": \"If some girls are in an emotional fight, stay out of it. If you take sides, you may end up getting into trouble.\\nDo not tattle. Tattling just shows you are a little baby who tells on people! Cool girls do not tattle. If there really is a situation where you need to tell an adult that something is wrong, do so. There is a difference between tattling and doing the right thing by reporting something.\\nDon't try to downgrade other people, or you will appear mean.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Host hangouts and parties.\", \"描述\": \"Always be a great hostess. Popcorn, movies, Truth or Dare, and dancing are some of the things you can do, have, or watch at a sleep over. Don't throw too many parties, and don't send out invites if only two people can make it. It'll make you look socially inept.\\nTry finding a great game you can play, and be the center of attention! Not a desperate center, but a cool relaxed center.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Act sophisticated\", \"描述\": \"Do not be too wild or crazy. Be a little sophisticated and mature. If you're wild and crazy all the time, it gets really annoying and nobody will like you. Be too serious, and people will think you're boring and nobody will come to anything you host. Come from somewhere in the middle.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Use a little technology to help you come off as cool.\", \"描述\": \"Have a cool phone case and make sure to have a passcode so nobody can see your personal stuff, like text messages.\\nHave a variety of cool music, including whoever is most popular at your school (also have more than one singer). Have a lot of songs!\\nAdd everyone you know and have cool apps that people use (Instagram, Snapchat, etc.). Also have an app where you can send people stuff (like online cards or something). In addition have a cute, sophisticated up-to-date picture of yourself. Do not reveal too much or try to look older than you are in these photos, as there are creeps online who search for that. You can be cool without attention-seeking through makeup or revealing clothes. Also, only add friends. Don't make your password obvious like your name, last name, or best friend's name.\\nIf someone sends you a mean email, IM, or text, just brush it off. Even if it bothers you, tell them that you don't care and block them from contacting you online.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Make genuine friendships.\", \"描述\": \"Having lots of high-class friends is not a necessity for being cool.\\nTry not be friends with the mean girls. Don't be mean back to them either. In the end, they'll be the ones in trouble.\"}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Be confident.\", \"描述\": \"Girls like to have a best friend who is sure of herself. If you're insulted, just reply with a snarky comeback, or an amused look, and walk away. If you're mad at that person, even though you had a good dis, have a party. That'll cheer you up and if you're really feeling up to it, have sleepovers and cool activities once every week.\\nIf your feeling down, don’t let it break your day. Brush it off and keep moving.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Never let someone down when they're depending on you. Stay true to your word and go through with your promises.\\n\", \"Carry something in your backpack to clean up stained clothes, such as hand sanitizer or baby wipes. Stained clothes could be embarrassing.\\n\", \"Always stay up-to-date with everything going on in the social world in your school.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Remember, just because you're popular doesn't mean everyone will like you.\\n\", \"Make sure to not be mean. Being mean won't help you get more friends, it will just help you lose more friends, so be careful.\\n\", \"If people keep unintentionally insulting you about something because you keep shrugging it off and they don't realize what they're doing, tell them to stop.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Steps
1-1. Shower
Shower daily and use a nice smelling body wash if you like. Be sure to wash your hair with shampoo and conditioner for your hair type every other day. If your hair is always dry and dull, use a deep conditioner once a week and give a leave-in detangler a try, if your hair is really knotty.
1-2. Use deodorant.
Find a nice scent you like, such as vanilla or strawberry, and use it every day. Deodorant is important so you don't smell like sweat. Some good brands are Dove, Degree, and Lady Speed Stick.
1-3. Moisturize
A healthy skin can lift your mood and appearance a lot. Dry and rough skin can make you look unpleasant. Moisturize your skin after bath with a product that is made for your skin type. E.g., Use an almond based or gel based moisturiser if your skin needs conditioning and moisture. Don't use such products if your skin is oily or if you have pimples.
1-4. Shave.
Shave your legs and armpits, and if you have dark hair, possibly your forearms. If you're comfortable, shave your bikini line, but it's not a necessity. Don't start shaving anywhere because someone else thinks you should. Lots of 12-year-old girls do not have unsightly body hair. Many girls can be cool, stylish, and beautiful without shaving. Only shave if you would like to be groomed to that extend.
1-5. Wear nice clothes.
Wear clothes that sets you free and not those that keeps you worried about being tight or skimpy. Try out various sizes and items and go with whatever feels comfortable and beautiful. Make sure they fit properly- nothing too low cut or ill-fitting. Your pants should fit snugly, if they don't, wear a belt. Nothing is less attractive than yanking at your pants or rolling them up.
Try to wear various fabrics like cotton, denim, elasticated fabric etc.
Try different neck lines and sleeve lengths per your style.
Give various colours a try till you know which colour combination works well for you. Don't try to dress like someone else. It may not do your style and looks any justice.
1-6. Wash your face.
Wash it with a nice face wash (not an acne wash unless you have acne) wash twice a day, then use toner, face lotion, and any acne treatments or special creams you wish. Do not skip this step!
1-7. Don't wear too much makeup.
There is no need for heavy foundations, blushes, or eyeshadows. If you really think you need it, some BB cream or concealer, some lip balm / gloss, and a touch of mascara will do it. You also might consider plucking your eyebrow or curling your eyelashes. Don't put on any make-up just because this article says you should. Only wear makeup if you want to; avoid doing it just because of peer pressure or to fit in and "look cool".
1-8. Eat healthy and go to bed on time.
Go to bed early enough that you can get up on time in the morning without feeling too tired.
1-9. Be nice
Be polite and courteous to everyone, showing respect for other people. This is equally applicable to your enemies or the people no one seems to talk to. Have close friends you genuinely like and feel comfortable around and be close with them: entrust them with your secrets and invite them to sleepovers and parties.
1-10. Don't feel like you have to have a boyfriend.
Although lots of girls this age may like someone, it's not really "dating". It is just a crush. Some may normally hold hands and maybe go see a movie. In extreme cases, they might kiss but don't let this pressure you! Try to smile and listen to your boyfriends. They may become good friends if you look beyond all the romcom movies.
1-11. Be nice to your parents and siblings.
After all, they love you!
Tips
If you have oily hair or skin, try showering in the morning instead of at night, and be sure to change your pillowcase at least once a week.
Shower every day but you don't need wash your hair every time you shower.
If you have Facebook, Twitter, and the like, be responsible with it.
Warnings
Never ditch your old friends because they "aren't cool enough." Encourage them if you see they can improve in an area.
Never skip breakfast.
If you curl your eyelashes, do so before putting on mascara.
Always test new skin products to make sure you aren't allergic to them.
Be careful not to over pluck your eyebrows.
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Shave.\\nShave your legs and armpits, and if you have dark hair, possibly your forearms. If you're comfortable, shave your bikini line, but it's not a necessity. Don't start shaving anywhere because someone else thinks you should. Lots of 12-year-old girls do not have unsightly body hair. Many girls can be cool, stylish, and beautiful without shaving. Only shave if you would like to be groomed to that extend.\\n1-5. Wear nice clothes.\\nWear clothes that sets you free and not those that keeps you worried about being tight or skimpy. Try out various sizes and items and go with whatever feels comfortable and beautiful. Make sure they fit properly- nothing too low cut or ill-fitting. Your pants should fit snugly, if they don't, wear a belt. 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Only wear makeup if you want to; avoid doing it just because of peer pressure or to fit in and \\\"look cool\\\".\\n1-8. Eat healthy and go to bed on time.\\nGo to bed early enough that you can get up on time in the morning without feeling too tired.\\n1-9. Be nice\\nBe polite and courteous to everyone, showing respect for other people. This is equally applicable to your enemies or the people no one seems to talk to. Have close friends you genuinely like and feel comfortable around and be close with them: entrust them with your secrets and invite them to sleepovers and parties.\\n1-10. Don't feel like you have to have a boyfriend.\\nAlthough lots of girls this age may like someone, it's not really \\\"dating\\\". It is just a crush. Some may normally hold hands and maybe go see a movie. In extreme cases, they might kiss but don't let this pressure you! Try to smile and listen to your boyfriends. They may become good friends if you look beyond all the romcom movies.\\n1-11. Be nice to your parents and siblings.\\nAfter all, they love you!\\nTips\\nIf you have oily hair or skin, try showering in the morning instead of at night, and be sure to change your pillowcase at least once a week.\\nShower every day but you don't need wash your hair every time you shower.\\nIf you have Facebook, Twitter, and the like, be responsible with it.\\nWarnings\\nNever ditch your old friends because they \\\"aren't cool enough.\\\" Encourage them if you see they can improve in an area.\\nNever skip breakfast.\\nIf you curl your eyelashes, do so before putting on mascara.\\nAlways test new skin products to make sure you aren't allergic to them.\\nBe careful not to over pluck your eyebrows.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Cool people are more likely to get popular, especially in school. Ever wanted to be the coolest, prettiest girl in your sixth or seventh-grade class? 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1. Involving Yourself in Your Child’s Life
1-1. Let your children know that they can talk to you about anything.
When they do start to open up to you about deeper things going on in their lives, remember to listen lovingly and without judgement. At the same time, don’t expect them to tell you everything. Respect their space, privacy, and independence and trust that you can have a strong relationship without knowing every aspect of their lives.
Express your willingness to listen by saying something like “David, I want you to know that I love you unconditionally and am always here to support and listen to any problems you might be having. Even if you know I won’t like what you’re saying, I want you to know I’m here to listen without judgement.”
1-2. Learn to listen.
Whether it’s a conversation about school, relationships, politics, or the weather, talking with your children is an important part of being a cool mom. Talking to your children is not always easy, particularly at the difficult ages, such as during the teen years. However, making an effort to communicate and listen to your children’s thoughts, feelings, and opinions will have a last impact on your relationship with him or her and your status as a cool mom.
Ask your children questions. For example “What was the best part about school today?” or “How did it make you feel when Jan didn’t invite your other friends to her birthday party?” or “Does it make you upset when your boyfriend is late to pick you up for a date?” are ways to get a conversation started. Once the conversation is started, you might get more insight into your children’s feelings and opinions than you thought possible.
1-3. Give your full attention.
Particularly if your children approach you with an important or sensitive issue, they deserve all of your attention. For example, it is really important that in our technological age, you put your phone down when talking to your children Show them that they are your first priority.
Turn off the radio or the television. It is difficult to give someone your full attention if there are other distractions around you.
Don’t interrupt. Even if it’s difficult, try to hear your children out and attempt not to lecture. If your children feel like they are in for a lecture every time she talks to you, she will be less willing to do so.
Show you care through your body language. Turn toward your child so you can properly engage with him in conversation. Make eye contact, and keep your facial expressions as neutral as possible.
Accept that you may not always like what you hear. Inevitably, your children will do, say, or believe things that you disagree with. However, it is important to keep an open ear, and as much as possible, an open mind.
1-4. Speak honestly.
Just as it is important to listen to your children, part of being a cool mom is being honest with your children in return. This will help you to gain their their trust and respect.
Let your children know you make mistakes. Don’t be afraid to admit to your children if you’ve messed up, and don’t be afraid to apologize for it. Showing that you’re human too will help your children feel that they can relate to you in a more realistic way.
Talk to your children about your own life experiences. For example, you might want to tell them about a time that you got caught in a lie by your own mother, or got in trouble at school. Explain to them the triumphs and tribulations that you faced on your journey to adulthood. They will appreciate the feeling that you can relate to them.
1-5. Be affectionate.
A tender touch from mom can go a long way if your child has had a bad day at school or a fight with a friend. All humans crave a physical touch, so a warm embrace (or however else you choose to show affection) or a kiss can strengthen your relationship with you child. Don’t underestimate the primal power of a physical touch.
Affection is also a good way to show that you are proud of your children. Cool moms aren’t afraid to tell their children they are proud of them, and they aren’t afraid to show it either.
If you aren’t the physically affectionate type, express your feelings for your children verbally. A simple “I love you” or “You’re fantastic kids” will boost your children’s confidence and strengthen your bond.
1-6. Show affection at appropriate times.
When your children are in front of their friends or peers, it is probably not the best time to be overly affectionate. However, when you are alone at home, it is a great time to show affection to your children. Make sure you choose to show or tell your children you love them at times that they won’t find embarrassing. In particular, avoid getting overly affectionate in public.
1-7. Show an interest in your children’s activities.
Get to know their friends, learn the rules of the sports they play, find out what they think is the coolest part of the hobbies they enjoy. Ask your children questions about the things they like to do and why. Even if you don’t actively engage in these activities with your children, make an attempt to understand them.
Attend their choral concerts, sporting events, school plays, piano recitals, etc. Nothing makes a cooler mom than one that is in the audience supporting their children. Make being present a priority, and if you can, become involved. For example, bring orange slices for your child’s soccer team for them to eat during a half-time break.
Ask them to show you how to do one of their favorite hobbies, and give it a try. This will make your children feel like you are truly interested in their lives. Alternatively, involve your children in your hobbies. Research shows that engaging your child in your hobbies will bring you and your child together.
1-8. Allow your children to have their own interests and ambitions, even if you don’t find them particularly interesting.
Never try to corral your children into doing particular activities if they are interested in other things.
When your children find activities and hobbies they are interested in, be engaged without being overwhelming. Become involved with their hobbies and interests, but allow them to explore and develop their passions on their own in a way that lets them grow and develop alongside their peers. Show an appropriate level of enthusiasm- this may mean always being in attendance at your child’s soccer games, but not bringing you own megaphone to cheer him on.
2. Connecting with Your Children
2-1. Join (or attempt!
) social media. Learning to use the latest social media that is probably utilized by your children can be a great way to show that you’re up to date with the latest technology. In addition to making you a cool mom, it also provides you with a subtle way to keep an eye on your children’s friends and activities.
Become “friends” with you children on social media, but don’t suffocate them. While having a Facebook profile may make you a cool mom, posting on your children’s page constantly or commenting on their activities in an overly protective way will likely take you out of cool mom territory and make your children regret your online presence. Limit your Facebook interactions (and Instagram, Twitter, etc.) to “likes” and maybe a rare comment.
Draw boundaries. It’s unwise to post overly personal statements or sentiments on your children’s social media. Never scold your children about their social media use on their social media page; instead, use it as an opportunity to have an open, honest, and productive conversation with your child. Keep some distance on social media.
2-2. Make your own holiday.
Designate a special day (it can be once a month, once a season, or once a year) and make it a day that you dedicate to spending one-on-one time with one of your children. Pick a separate day for each child to allow some important parent-child bonding to take place. Whether you do the same activity each time or try new things, you and your child will both value the time you spend together. Here are some suggestions for how to spend the day:
Have a girls’ glamour day: go shopping, get a massage, have your nails done, have a fancy lunch out, and drink champagne (or go out for “mocktails” or milkshakes if your child is not of legal drinking age).
Try a class. Whether it’s a yoga class at the gym, a cooking class at a local restaurant, or a pottery class at an art studio, try an organized activity to make new memories.
Go to a special event. Do your children have a favorite sports team or favorite band? If you can, take them to a live event; if not, plan a special “date” to watch the game or show on TV.
2-3. Meet your children’s friends.
Meeting the people with whom your children spends the majority of their time is an important part of being a parent and can solidify your role as cool mom. While being a cool mom doesn’t mean that you need to let them engage in activities that you may not be comfortable with, this does mean that you must make an effort to accept their friends for who they are.
Accept that some of your children’s friends will start to feel like your own children, while others will never do more than mutter “hello.” The most important thing is to make your children feel like they can be friends with anyone.
2-4. Keep an open door.
Encourage your children to bring their friends over to your house. More importantly, make your home a place where they can feel comfortable and a place where they want to spend time.
Be present, but not overbearing. It’s a great idea to stop in to the room your children and his friends are hanging out in and say hello, but don’t overstay your welcome. Keep an eye on the activities going on, but don’t hover.
3. Finding a Balance
3-1. Be the mom, not the best friend.
Remember that at the end of the day, whether you’re considered cool or not, you are their mom, and the only one they have. Don’t try to fill the role of older sister or best friend if it means neglecting your role as mom.
Don’t be afraid to say no. Sometimes, as a mother, you will be forced to make the unpopular decision. While this is a demonstration of your love for your children, it is unlikely that they will see it that way. This is when you must play your primary role- mom but make sure to give them a treat if they do as they're told.
Be there whenever and wherever they need you. Your mom may be the only person who won’t get mad at a 1am phone call “just to talk” if you’ve had a particularly bad day. Be that person for your children and be prepared to offer guidance, wisdom, and a listening ear at all hours of the day.
Keep some distance. Allow your children to have their own experiences, make their own choices, and live their own life. Watch them grow up into the people you helped them to become.
3-2. Be fair and consistent.
Make rules and stick to them. Ensure that any punishment fits the crime. While disciplining your children may not make you a cool mom at the time, you are teaching a lesson and instilling values that will inevitably make you a cool mom as your children grow up and realizes that everything you do is out of love but again, they may not want to talk to you for a ong time after becuase of what you have said so still be kind and if they ask for just a couple more minutes, then let them.
3-3. Spoil them (once in awhile).
Whether it’s raising their allowance, treating them to a meal at a favorite restaurant, or taking them to an amusement park or cinema, giving your kids a treat will make you the coolest mom around.
Don’t use these treats as a bribe. Instead, use them as a reward or as a “just because you’re you” present. This will encourage your children’s positive behavior and make them feel special.
3-4. Respect your child’s privacy.
Your children will keep secrets, and this is an important part of growing up. Being overly nosy or snooping in your children’s personal belongings is a surefire way to create tension in your relationship. Unless you believe you have a real reason to worry about something your children may be doing, respect their personal space and allow them to have secrets.
If you feel your children may be engaged in something that is potentially harmful to themselves or to someone around them, it is important to talk to them and address the issue as soon as possible. This doesn’t give you permission to snoop, but in extenuating circumstances, you may need to breach your children’s privacy if you feel they are threatened in any way.
3-5. Set boundaries and stick to them.
Your children need boundaries, and will respect you for setting them. Remember that your children need you as a parent first and foremost, and as a friend after.
3-6. Appreciate your children for who they are.
The most special thing about your children is that they will grow into totally unique people who have their own dreams, desires, ambitions, and emotions. The easiest and best way to be a cool mom is to simply love your children and guide them as they grow.
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Talking to your children is not always easy, particularly at the difficult ages, such as during the teen years. However, making an effort to communicate and listen to your children’s thoughts, feelings, and opinions will have a last impact on your relationship with him or her and your status as a cool mom.\\nAsk your children questions. For example “What was the best part about school today?” or “How did it make you feel when Jan didn’t invite your other friends to her birthday party?” or “Does it make you upset when your boyfriend is late to pick you up for a date?” are ways to get a conversation started. Once the conversation is started, you might get more insight into your children’s feelings and opinions than you thought possible.\\n1-3. Give your full attention.\\nParticularly if your children approach you with an important or sensitive issue, they deserve all of your attention. For example, it is really important that in our technological age, you put your phone down when talking to your children Show them that they are your first priority.\\nTurn off the radio or the television. It is difficult to give someone your full attention if there are other distractions around you.\\nDon’t interrupt. Even if it’s difficult, try to hear your children out and attempt not to lecture. If your children feel like they are in for a lecture every time she talks to you, she will be less willing to do so.\\nShow you care through your body language. Turn toward your child so you can properly engage with him in conversation. Make eye contact, and keep your facial expressions as neutral as possible.\\nAccept that you may not always like what you hear. Inevitably, your children will do, say, or believe things that you disagree with. However, it is important to keep an open ear, and as much as possible, an open mind.\\n1-4. Speak honestly.\\nJust as it is important to listen to your children, part of being a cool mom is being honest with your children in return. This will help you to gain their their trust and respect.\\nLet your children know you make mistakes. Don’t be afraid to admit to your children if you’ve messed up, and don’t be afraid to apologize for it. Showing that you’re human too will help your children feel that they can relate to you in a more realistic way.\\nTalk to your children about your own life experiences. For example, you might want to tell them about a time that you got caught in a lie by your own mother, or got in trouble at school. Explain to them the triumphs and tribulations that you faced on your journey to adulthood. They will appreciate the feeling that you can relate to them.\\n1-5. Be affectionate.\\nA tender touch from mom can go a long way if your child has had a bad day at school or a fight with a friend. All humans crave a physical touch, so a warm embrace (or however else you choose to show affection) or a kiss can strengthen your relationship with you child. Don’t underestimate the primal power of a physical touch.\\nAffection is also a good way to show that you are proud of your children. Cool moms aren’t afraid to tell their children they are proud of them, and they aren’t afraid to show it either.\\nIf you aren’t the physically affectionate type, express your feelings for your children verbally. A simple “I love you” or “You’re fantastic kids” will boost your children’s confidence and strengthen your bond.\\n1-6. Show affection at appropriate times.\\nWhen your children are in front of their friends or peers, it is probably not the best time to be overly affectionate. However, when you are alone at home, it is a great time to show affection to your children. Make sure you choose to show or tell your children you love them at times that they won’t find embarrassing. In particular, avoid getting overly affectionate in public.\\n1-7. Show an interest in your children’s activities.\\nGet to know their friends, learn the rules of the sports they play, find out what they think is the coolest part of the hobbies they enjoy. Ask your children questions about the things they like to do and why. Even if you don’t actively engage in these activities with your children, make an attempt to understand them.\\nAttend their choral concerts, sporting events, school plays, piano recitals, etc. Nothing makes a cooler mom than one that is in the audience supporting their children. Make being present a priority, and if you can, become involved. For example, bring orange slices for your child’s soccer team for them to eat during a half-time break.\\nAsk them to show you how to do one of their favorite hobbies, and give it a try. This will make your children feel like you are truly interested in their lives. Alternatively, involve your children in your hobbies. Research shows that engaging your child in your hobbies will bring you and your child together.\\n1-8. Allow your children to have their own interests and ambitions, even if you don’t find them particularly interesting.\\nNever try to corral your children into doing particular activities if they are interested in other things.\\nWhen your children find activities and hobbies they are interested in, be engaged without being overwhelming. Become involved with their hobbies and interests, but allow them to explore and develop their passions on their own in a way that lets them grow and develop alongside their peers. Show an appropriate level of enthusiasm- this may mean always being in attendance at your child’s soccer games, but not bringing you own megaphone to cheer him on.\\n2. Connecting with Your Children\\n2-1. Join (or attempt!\\n) social media. Learning to use the latest social media that is probably utilized by your children can be a great way to show that you’re up to date with the latest technology. In addition to making you a cool mom, it also provides you with a subtle way to keep an eye on your children’s friends and activities.\\nBecome “friends” with you children on social media, but don’t suffocate them. While having a Facebook profile may make you a cool mom, posting on your children’s page constantly or commenting on their activities in an overly protective way will likely take you out of cool mom territory and make your children regret your online presence. Limit your Facebook interactions (and Instagram, Twitter, etc.) to “likes” and maybe a rare comment.\\nDraw boundaries. It’s unwise to post overly personal statements or sentiments on your children’s social media. Never scold your children about their social media use on their social media page; instead, use it as an opportunity to have an open, honest, and productive conversation with your child. Keep some distance on social media.\\n2-2. Make your own holiday.\\nDesignate a special day (it can be once a month, once a season, or once a year) and make it a day that you dedicate to spending one-on-one time with one of your children. Pick a separate day for each child to allow some important parent-child bonding to take place. Whether you do the same activity each time or try new things, you and your child will both value the time you spend together. Here are some suggestions for how to spend the day:\\nHave a girls’ glamour day: go shopping, get a massage, have your nails done, have a fancy lunch out, and drink champagne (or go out for “mocktails” or milkshakes if your child is not of legal drinking age).\\nTry a class. Whether it’s a yoga class at the gym, a cooking class at a local restaurant, or a pottery class at an art studio, try an organized activity to make new memories.\\nGo to a special event. Do your children have a favorite sports team or favorite band? If you can, take them to a live event; if not, plan a special “date” to watch the game or show on TV.\\n2-3. Meet your children’s friends.\\nMeeting the people with whom your children spends the majority of their time is an important part of being a parent and can solidify your role as cool mom. While being a cool mom doesn’t mean that you need to let them engage in activities that you may not be comfortable with, this does mean that you must make an effort to accept their friends for who they are.\\nAccept that some of your children’s friends will start to feel like your own children, while others will never do more than mutter “hello.” The most important thing is to make your children feel like they can be friends with anyone.\\n2-4. Keep an open door.\\nEncourage your children to bring their friends over to your house. More importantly, make your home a place where they can feel comfortable and a place where they want to spend time.\\nBe present, but not overbearing. It’s a great idea to stop in to the room your children and his friends are hanging out in and say hello, but don’t overstay your welcome. Keep an eye on the activities going on, but don’t hover.\\n3. Finding a Balance\\n3-1. Be the mom, not the best friend.\\nRemember that at the end of the day, whether you’re considered cool or not, you are their mom, and the only one they have. Don’t try to fill the role of older sister or best friend if it means neglecting your role as mom.\\nDon’t be afraid to say no. Sometimes, as a mother, you will be forced to make the unpopular decision. While this is a demonstration of your love for your children, it is unlikely that they will see it that way. This is when you must play your primary role- mom but make sure to give them a treat if they do as they're told.\\nBe there whenever and wherever they need you. Your mom may be the only person who won’t get mad at a 1am phone call “just to talk” if you’ve had a particularly bad day. Be that person for your children and be prepared to offer guidance, wisdom, and a listening ear at all hours of the day.\\nKeep some distance. Allow your children to have their own experiences, make their own choices, and live their own life. Watch them grow up into the people you helped them to become.\\n3-2. Be fair and consistent.\\nMake rules and stick to them. Ensure that any punishment fits the crime. While disciplining your children may not make you a cool mom at the time, you are teaching a lesson and instilling values that will inevitably make you a cool mom as your children grow up and realizes that everything you do is out of love but again, they may not want to talk to you for a ong time after becuase of what you have said so still be kind and if they ask for just a couple more minutes, then let them.\\n3-3. Spoil them (once in awhile).\\nWhether it’s raising their allowance, treating them to a meal at a favorite restaurant, or taking them to an amusement park or cinema, giving your kids a treat will make you the coolest mom around.\\nDon’t use these treats as a bribe. Instead, use them as a reward or as a “just because you’re you” present. This will encourage your children’s positive behavior and make them feel special.\\n3-4. Respect your child’s privacy.\\nYour children will keep secrets, and this is an important part of growing up. Being overly nosy or snooping in your children’s personal belongings is a surefire way to create tension in your relationship. Unless you believe you have a real reason to worry about something your children may be doing, respect their personal space and allow them to have secrets.\\nIf you feel your children may be engaged in something that is potentially harmful to themselves or to someone around them, it is important to talk to them and address the issue as soon as possible. This doesn’t give you permission to snoop, but in extenuating circumstances, you may need to breach your children’s privacy if you feel they are threatened in any way.\\n3-5. Set boundaries and stick to them.\\nYour children need boundaries, and will respect you for setting them. Remember that your children need you as a parent first and foremost, and as a friend after.\\n3-6. Appreciate your children for who they are.\\nThe most special thing about your children is that they will grow into totally unique people who have their own dreams, desires, ambitions, and emotions. The easiest and best way to be a cool mom is to simply love your children and guide them as they grow.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a cool mom can mean many things, but it is most commonly associated with a mom who is both a parental figure and a friend. A cool mom sets boundaries, but also allows her children to be themselves. Most importantly, a cool mom attempts to connect with her kids while loving, appreciating, and respecting them for who they are.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Involving Yourself in Your Child’s Life\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Let your children know that they can talk to you about anything.\", \"描述\": \"When they do start to open up to you about deeper things going on in their lives, remember to listen lovingly and without judgement. At the same time, don’t expect them to tell you everything. Respect their space, privacy, and independence and trust that you can have a strong relationship without knowing every aspect of their lives.\\nExpress your willingness to listen by saying something like “David, I want you to know that I love you unconditionally and am always here to support and listen to any problems you might be having. Even if you know I won’t like what you’re saying, I want you to know I’m here to listen without judgement.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn to listen.\", \"描述\": \"Whether it’s a conversation about school, relationships, politics, or the weather, talking with your children is an important part of being a cool mom. Talking to your children is not always easy, particularly at the difficult ages, such as during the teen years. However, making an effort to communicate and listen to your children’s thoughts, feelings, and opinions will have a last impact on your relationship with him or her and your status as a cool mom.\\nAsk your children questions. For example “What was the best part about school today?” or “How did it make you feel when Jan didn’t invite your other friends to her birthday party?” or “Does it make you upset when your boyfriend is late to pick you up for a date?” are ways to get a conversation started. Once the conversation is started, you might get more insight into your children’s feelings and opinions than you thought possible.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give your full attention.\", \"描述\": \"Particularly if your children approach you with an important or sensitive issue, they deserve all of your attention. 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Never scold your children about their social media use on their social media page; instead, use it as an opportunity to have an open, honest, and productive conversation with your child. Keep some distance on social media.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make your own holiday.\", \"描述\": \"Designate a special day (it can be once a month, once a season, or once a year) and make it a day that you dedicate to spending one-on-one time with one of your children. Pick a separate day for each child to allow some important parent-child bonding to take place. Whether you do the same activity each time or try new things, you and your child will both value the time you spend together. Here are some suggestions for how to spend the day:\\nHave a girls’ glamour day: go shopping, get a massage, have your nails done, have a fancy lunch out, and drink champagne (or go out for “mocktails” or milkshakes if your child is not of legal drinking age).\\nTry a class. Whether it’s a yoga class at the gym, a cooking class at a local restaurant, or a pottery class at an art studio, try an organized activity to make new memories.\\nGo to a special event. Do your children have a favorite sports team or favorite band? If you can, take them to a live event; if not, plan a special “date” to watch the game or show on TV.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Meet your children’s friends.\", \"描述\": \"Meeting the people with whom your children spends the majority of their time is an important part of being a parent and can solidify your role as cool mom. While being a cool mom doesn’t mean that you need to let them engage in activities that you may not be comfortable with, this does mean that you must make an effort to accept their friends for who they are.\\nAccept that some of your children’s friends will start to feel like your own children, while others will never do more than mutter “hello.” The most important thing is to make your children feel like they can be friends with anyone.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Keep an open door.\", \"描述\": \"Encourage your children to bring their friends over to your house. More importantly, make your home a place where they can feel comfortable and a place where they want to spend time.\\nBe present, but not overbearing. It’s a great idea to stop in to the room your children and his friends are hanging out in and say hello, but don’t overstay your welcome. 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1. Building Self-Confidence
1-1. Make a list of all of your strengths to find what you excel at.
Think about what activities you enjoy, what subjects you do best at in school, and what people have complimented you on. Writing down things that you're good at will help you feel more comfortable in your own skin, and make you look that way to the rest of the world, too. If you have trouble thinking of things, ask a friend or family member to help you come up with things that you might not have thought to list.
For example, if you always earn As in your math classes, then math is one of your strengths! If you love to do gymnastics, then this is one of your strengths! Add anything you do well or feel like you are good at to the list.
Personality traits can also be strengths, so make sure to add these, too. For example, you might include in your list that you are a kind person, that you have a lot of common sense, or that you are a loyal friend.
Make sure to list everything, even if you think something might not be cool. It is important to identify everything you are good at.
1-2. Get in-tune with your emotions to feel more comfortable.
The better you understand yourself, the more confident you'll feel around other people. If you are not in tune with your emotions, work on this skill. If you start to feel uncomfortable and you are not sure why, take a minute to figure out where the feelings are coming from.
For example, if you are feeling uncomfortable on the first day of school, take a few deep breaths and consider what's making you nervous. You might feel anxious because you don’t know what to expect from your new teachers. But don't worry! Once you remember that everyone probably feels the same way, you can start to relax again.
1-3. Be kind to yourself if you tend to be self-critical.
Strive to love yourself the way that you love your best friend. Show yourself plenty of kindness, compassion, and understanding every day and avoid putting yourself down. If you can work on having a positive view of yourself, you'll be able to confidently show your best side to the world.
Start each day by giving yourself a compliment on something you tend to be self-critical about. Try saying something like, “I have beautiful hair and my skin looks amazing!” Or, you could compliment yourself on a personality trait, such as, “I have a great sense of humor!”
Make time for yourself to do the things you enjoy. For example, if you like to read, make sure to set aside at least 15 minutes to read each day.
Forgive yourself when you make mistakes. When you make a mistake, try saying something like, “I forgive myself for that mistake. I am doing the best that I can do, and that is awesome!”
1-4. Push yourself to try new things if you are stuck in a rut.
Part of being cool is being adventurous and trying new things. Look for new activities that interest you, and push yourself to try them even if you're scared! Some things you might try include:
Joining a sports team or a special interest club. You could join your school’s basketball team or look into your school’s audio visual club.
Exploring new music. Ask people for recommendations and check out new release playlists on Spotify to discover new music, but make sure to listen to music that you like. Don't just listen to music other people think is cool.
Asking someone new to hang out. Invite the girl who sits next to you in math class to go for a walk. Or, ask the guy whose locker is across from yours to sit with you at lunch.
2. Having a Cool Attitude
2-1. Listen carefully
Good listening skills are essential in forming close friendships. It helps people to feel heard and understood when they talk with you, and they'll naturally want to spend time around you if you listen well!
It helps to put away your phone when you talk to someone. This will make it much easier to focus on what they are saying.
Be truly present and curious in a conversation with anyone. Make sure to really listen to what they are saying instead of planning what you want to say next.
Remember to set aside judgment. Listen to the person without thinking about whether you like or agree with what they are saying. Just focus on understanding them.
Avoid interrupting them. Let the person completely finish speaking before you speak. However, you can acknowledge what the speaker is saying with neutral statements, such as, “uh huh,” “yes,” and “I see.”
2-2. Share your experiences when they are relevant to the conversation.
Talking about cool experiences you have had is a great way to communicate with other people. Pay attention to moments in the conversation when it might be appropriate to bring up something cool that happened to you. Then, share your experience!
Be careful not to brag when you share. For example, if someone is talking about how their family bought a speedboat, don’t mention that your family has 2 speedboats. Instead, you might say something like, “That’s awesome! I love going out on my family’s boat!”
2-3. Assert yourself
Having unique opinions and being able to stand up for yourself will help make your peers respect you. Instead of going along with what other people say, speak your mind. If someone asks you to do something that you are not comfortable doing, say “no,” and if you feel like someone is taking advantage of you, talk to them about it.
Practice being assertive by saying “no” to something simple, such as a friend asking to borrow your favorite pair of shoes when you will need them, or your mom trying to get you to have a second helping of pancakes when you have already said you are full.
Express your needs, like by saying, “I need my red heels for the party this weekend.” And remind yourself that being assertive is healthy.
Keep in mind that some people may express hurt feelings when you tell them “no.” It is still important for you to assert yourself. If someone gets upset with you for asserting yourself, try saying something like, “I am sorry you feel that way. I am only asserting myself and my needs.”
Take a deep breath if you find it hard to assert yourself. Imagine that you're standing up for your best friend or a family member instead of yourself to help you feel more confident.
2-4. Surround yourself with positive people.
Choose people who make you feel happy. Avoid people who criticize you, put you down, or make you feel anxious. Instead, choose to spend your time with people who encourage you, compliment you, and make you feel comfortable; these are the people who will think you're cool.
For example, if you have a friend who often criticizes your looks and makes you feel self-conscious, you might want to spend less time with them. Instead, seek out people who compliment you and make you feel good about yourself.
2-5. Be kind without expecting anything in return.
People who are truly cool will make the people around them feel good. Offer genuine compliments to your classmates on their accomplishments, appearance, or personality. Offer to help when you see someone in need of assistance, such as if a new student can't find her class.
Show kindness by offering to help a fellow classmate who is struggling with a math problem.
Volunteer at your local homeless shelter or soup kitchen to practice being kind towards strangers.
3. Looking Cool
3-1. Take care of your personal hygiene
Part of what makes you cool is looking and feeling like your best self. Every day, make sure to shower or take a bath, wash your hair and face, brush your teeth, and wear deodorant. Looking and smelling clean is an easy way to build your confidence and make you seem cooler to other people.
Remember to always put on a set of clean clothes after you shower.
Take an extra shower or bath whenever you get sweaty, such as on a hot day or from exercising.
3-2. Eat healthy
Taking care of your body with healthy food and regular physical activity is a great way to look cool. Eat lots of fruits and vegetables, along with lean protein, whole grains, and low-fat dairy products. You can do any type of physical activity you enjoy, such as walking, dancing, or playing a sport.
If you think you need to lose or gain weight to get healthy, talk with your doctor. You should also speak with your doctor if you start to become preoccupied with your weight or diet. This may be a sign of an eating disorder.
Aim for 150 minutes of physical activity per week to keep yourself healthy.
3-3. Choose clothing and accessories that make you feel good.
Look out for new fashion trends or pick your old favorite t-shirt to wear to school. Just be sure that you feel comfortable! Don't be afraid to have your own sense of style. The key to rocking any outfit is confidence. If you want to stay up to date on the latest trends, check out a copy of your favorite fashion magazine or look at an online fashion blog.
Always remember to follow your school's dress code. If you wear uniforms to school, try wearing a vintage scrunchie, or put on a cute bracelet to add a personal flair to your look.
3-4. Try wearing makeup if it appeals to you.
Makeup is not a requirement to look cool, but there are lots of cool things you can do with makeup if you like wearing it. Watch makeup tutorials on Youtube, and then experiment with different looks to see what you like best.
For example, you could try a cat eye look with eyeliner, do a smoky eye look for something dramatic, or opt for a natural makeup look.
Keep in mind that whether or not you wear makeup is a personal choice. Don’t feel pressured to wear makeup if you don’t want to!
3-5. Experiment with your hair.
Getting a new haircut and/or coloring your hair can change your whole look! If you have been rocking the same hairstyle for a while and you love your hair the way it is, there’s nothing wrong with that. However, if you have always wondered what you’d look like with a pixie cut, bangs, or a different hair color, visit a hair stylist and try something new!
Keep in mind that you can always go shorter, but you can’t put hair back on after it has been cut. If you want to be cautious, don’t go more than a few inches shorter than your current cut.
If you will be dyeing your hair at home, pick to a hair color that is only 1 to 2 shades darker or lighter than your current color. See a hair stylist if you want a more dramatic color change.
3-6. Stand tall and keep your head up.
Standing or sitting in a slumped over position can make you seem like you lack confidence, and it can also have a negative effect on your mood. On the other hand, practicing good posture can help you to look and feel more confident, which is cool!
Try to imagine a string going from the top of your head all the way down your spine is pulling you upwards. Any time you feel like you are slumping, imagine the string is taut. This should help you to maintain better posture.
3-7. Smile
People like to be acknowledged with eye contact and a smile. Acknowledging other people can help them to feel more connected. You may also make some new friends in the process!
Try smiling and making eye contact with students you pass in the hallway. If someone smiles and makes eye contact back, say “hello!” or “good morning!” to greet them. This small connection will help to make your day and their day a little brighter.
Tips
Remember that being cool is different for everyone! What seems cool to you might not seem cool to someone else, and that’s okay.
Look for friends who accept you the way that you are. You don't need to look or act like everyone else to be cool, but it helps to find people who support the real you!
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If you want to be cautious, don’t go more than a few inches shorter than your current cut.\\nIf you will be dyeing your hair at home, pick to a hair color that is only 1 to 2 shades darker or lighter than your current color. See a hair stylist if you want a more dramatic color change.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Stand tall and keep your head up.\", \"描述\": \"Standing or sitting in a slumped over position can make you seem like you lack confidence, and it can also have a negative effect on your mood. On the other hand, practicing good posture can help you to look and feel more confident, which is cool!\\nTry to imagine a string going from the top of your head all the way down your spine is pulling you upwards. Any time you feel like you are slumping, imagine the string is taut. This should help you to maintain better posture.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Smile\", \"描述\": \"People like to be acknowledged with eye contact and a smile. Acknowledging other people can help them to feel more connected. You may also make some new friends in the process!\\nTry smiling and making eye contact with students you pass in the hallway. If someone smiles and makes eye contact back, say “hello!” or “good morning!” to greet them. This small connection will help to make your day and their day a little brighter.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Remember that being cool is different for everyone! What seems cool to you might not seem cool to someone else, and that’s okay.\\n\", \"Look for friends who accept you the way that you are. You don't need to look or act like everyone else to be cool, but it helps to find people who support the real you!\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Self-Acceptance
1-1. Create a list of your personal strengths to remind yourself you’re awesome.
Find a comfy and quiet spot, grab a notebook and pen, and write a list of all the great things you’ve already accomplished in your life. You might write down awards you’ve gotten, friendships you’ve made, or grades you got that made you feel smart. Use the list as a reminder that you’ve already done a lot of amazing things in your life and that YOU are already an awesome person.
If you have a hard time making your list all at once, make the commitment to add one item to the list every day (maybe every morning when you wake up or every evening before you go to bed).
Continue to update the list after it’s created. Every time you think of something new, add it to the list!
These accomplishments could be improving your grades in a specific subject, completing all your homework on time, babysitting your siblings, auditioning for the school play even if you don’t get the part, getting a gig for your band, or eating something healthy for lunch.
1-2. Make note of the obstacles you’ve already overcome.
These obstacles could be as simple as getting a passing grade on a math test when you thought you might fail it. These obstacles could also be as complex as surviving your parents’ divorce or managing your mental health issues. It’s important to remember what you’ve already managed to do in life and celebrate those overcome obstacles.
You’ve probably overcome a lot of little things that you rarely think about. All of those things are part of who you are today and should be celebrated.
Keep your list updated as you encounter new obstacles in your life.
1-3. Practice selflessness to benefit other people.
This can include things as simple as washing the dishes without being asked, keeping your room tidy, or offering to make dinner one night. When you do nice things for others, it will make you feel better, too.
You can also formalize this generosity by volunteering for a nonprofit or charitable organization.
1-4. Treat yourself with kindness and engage in self-care activities.
Self-care or self-compassion is giving priority to yourself instead of others, but it isn’t being selfish. When you’re overworked or too tired, you might need to give yourself a break by doing something relaxing and enjoyable, whatever that means to you.
Being a teenager isn’t easy. You can’t be expected to run at full speed indefinitely without experiencing burnout. Admitting you need a break to recharge helps you to understand your limitations.
You could try sitting quietly to read your favourite book, taking your dog for a walk, riding your bike, playing your favourite video games, sleeping in on the weekend, or going to watch sports with your dad.
2. Self-Confidence
2-1. Act confident even if you don’t feel 100% confident.
Self-confidence includes both feelings and actions. Sometimes you may not feel 100% confident, but that doesn’t mean you can’t act 100% confident. The more you practice acting confident, the more confident you start to feel on a regular basis.
People are not born with a specific attitude, it’s developed over time. Like any other kind of attitude, self-confidence can be taught and improved over time.
2-2. Take pride in your appearance to demonstrate your self-confidence.
Taking care of yourself and thinking about your personal hygiene and appearance will help you gain confidence. This includes the day-to-day stuff like having a shower, brushing your hair, wearing clean clothes, and putting on deodorant.
Caring about your appearance doesn’t mean you’re thinking about what other people will think of the way you look, it means caring about and respecting yourself.
2-3. Wear clothes that make you feel good.
You don’t need a brand new pair of shoes or the trendiest jeans to be cool; all you need to wear is something that makes you feel like yourself. Have fun experimenting with new styles until you find outfits that you like.
If you’re looking to change up your wardrobe for cheap, check out your local thrift stores.
2-4. Avoid falling into the trap of peer pressure.
It can be easy to do something your friends or classmates are doing just because it seems cool; however, going along with the crowd even when you know it’s wrong isn’t very cool at all. If you want to stay true to yourself, keep your own values in mind and stay away from situations that make you feel uncomfortable.
Peer pressure doesn’t have to be anything big—it can be as simple as your friends pressuring you to hang out when you know you need to study. Stick to your values and have the confidence to say no, even when it’s tough.
Standing up to peer pressure can be hard, and you might not be able to do it every time. That’s okay! If you do succumb to peer pressure, just treat it as a lesson learned for next time.
2-5. Create regular challenges for yourself that are realistic.
Nothing will make you feel more confident than successfully completing something challenging. The challenge doesn’t have to be huge, but it should be realistic for you and your current situation. For example, you could challenge yourself to increase your mark by one grade level in science, or you could challenge yourself to learn to play a specific piece of music.
It is also important to remember that the journey you take to tackle your challenge is just as important as the outcome. If you aren’t successful with your challenge, focus on the things you did accomplish and/or learn in the process.
You could try increasing your grades in a specific subject, finishing a homework assignment early, reaching the next level in your favourite video game, trying out for a sports team, auditioning for a play, or applying for a part-time job.
2-6. Participate in a sport or exercise regularly to boost your confidence.
Exercise, in general, produces chemicals in your body that make you feel good. The sport doesn’t have to be through school or even a team sport. For example, you could take swimming lessons or martial arts classes. Select a sport or exercise that you’re excited about and that you find interesting.
Becoming involved in sports outside of school also allows you to meet more people with whom you could become friends.
3. Friendships
3-1. Make friends by doing activities that you love.
If you want to find friends who have the same interests as you, look for clubs or groups in your school that you’re interested in. When you go to these club meetings, you can meet like-minded people who have at least one similar interest as you. As you get to know them, you can decide if you’d like to become friends or not.
If your school doesn’t have any clubs that you’re interested in, consider starting one yourself by talking to your principal or counselor.
3-2. Be yourself to let your true personality shine.
Making friends with people can be tough, and it might seem easier to change your personality to fit in. However, this can get tiring after a long time, and you probably won’t make any meaningful friendships this way. When you start getting to know someone, stay true to your interests and your hobbies so they get to know the real you.
When you’re true to yourself, you can encourage other people to be true to themselves, too. You might find out that you have similar interests!
3-3. Hang out with people because you like them, not because they’re “cool.”
If you’re choosing your friends based on their social status alone, chances are you aren’t friends for the right reasons. Try to stick with friendships that are made based on your mutual interests or hobbies instead of looking for people who are popular. You’ll make more lasting friendships this way, and you’ll probably have more fun!
On the other hand, you shouldn’t look down on people who are “popular” in your school. If they’re popular for the right reasons (being kind, personable, or charming) they’re probably a fun friend to have!
3-4. Perceive yourself and the things you like in a positive light.
Being popular or cool isn’t about what others think of you, it’s about how you perceive yourself. If you are comfortable with who you are, what you look like, who you hang out with, and what activities you like to do, you will be happy.
You don’t have to be accepted by everyone around you—you only need to feel accepted by the people you care about.
3-5. Treat others like you would want to be treated.
If you don’t want to be yelled at, sworn at, bullied, or pushed around, chances are no one else wants to be treated like that either. Treat everyone you meet with respect. This means to always be polite, listen to what other people are saying (don’t interrupt), don’t make excuses when you make a mistake, and don’t hold a grudge.
Treating others with respect also means to think before you speak. Don’t assume that the sarcastic comment in your head will not be offensive when said out loud.
4. Online Image
4-1. Make posts that are true to your personality.
If you do have a social media presence, don’t feel pressured to post about things you aren’t interested in. Instead, use your social media to document your fun activities, hobbies, and friendships so you can look back on them later.
Think about your social media as an extension of yourself.
If you aren’t on social media, that’s fine too! There are no rules saying that you need a Twitter or Instagram page to be cool.
4-2. Avoid making posts that could paint you in a negative light.
The phrase “the internet is forever” is still true, and even when you delete something, it never really goes away. Before you make a post, try to think about how it will affect your future. If you think you could be seen in a bad light, don’t post it.
Photos of underage drinking, derogatory language, or provocative photos may not be the best content for your social media.
Before you post something, ask yourself if it’s something your parents would post online. If your parents wouldn’t post it, don’t post it.
4-3. Use the internet for positive reasons only.
The internet can be amazing, depressing, helpful, annoying, useful, and upsetting. Limit yourself to using the internet for positive reasons only and avoid using the internet for activities that will only end up hurting you or other people.
The internet can be used for positive reasons such as: research for school, comparing colleges you’re interested in, connecting with friends, looking up interesting craft project ideas, finding instructions on how to use something, and participating in an online community that helps you work through something.
The internet can also be used for very negative reasons, such as: comparing yourself to other people, bullying or intimidating other people, getting revenge on someone, reducing your ability to communicate offline, and connecting with people who want to hurt or harm you.
4-4. Log off if you’re getting overwhelmed.
Social media can be a lot to handle sometimes, especially when you and your friends use it 24/7. If you feel yourself getting bummed out or obsessed with your online presence, take a little break and do something else. You can take a hike, do some exercise, or hang out with your friends IRL instead of scrolling through your social media pages.
Most smartphones have a feature to track your screen time total throughout the day. If you find yourself using your phone for more than you’d like, try setting a goal to log off once a day and go outside or read a book.
Tips
Being “cool” is different for everyone, and you never have to conform to someone else’s standards.
Warnings
If you find yourself succumbing to peer pressure or being bullied, talk to a trusted adult.
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If you want to stay true to yourself, keep your own values in mind and stay away from situations that make you feel uncomfortable.\\nPeer pressure doesn’t have to be anything big—it can be as simple as your friends pressuring you to hang out when you know you need to study. Stick to your values and have the confidence to say no, even when it’s tough.\\nStanding up to peer pressure can be hard, and you might not be able to do it every time. That’s okay! If you do succumb to peer pressure, just treat it as a lesson learned for next time.\\n2-5. Create regular challenges for yourself that are realistic.\\nNothing will make you feel more confident than successfully completing something challenging. The challenge doesn’t have to be huge, but it should be realistic for you and your current situation. For example, you could challenge yourself to increase your mark by one grade level in science, or you could challenge yourself to learn to play a specific piece of music.\\nIt is also important to remember that the journey you take to tackle your challenge is just as important as the outcome. If you aren’t successful with your challenge, focus on the things you did accomplish and/or learn in the process.\\nYou could try increasing your grades in a specific subject, finishing a homework assignment early, reaching the next level in your favourite video game, trying out for a sports team, auditioning for a play, or applying for a part-time job.\\n2-6. Participate in a sport or exercise regularly to boost your confidence.\\nExercise, in general, produces chemicals in your body that make you feel good. The sport doesn’t have to be through school or even a team sport. For example, you could take swimming lessons or martial arts classes. 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If you think you could be seen in a bad light, don’t post it.\\nPhotos of underage drinking, derogatory language, or provocative photos may not be the best content for your social media.\\nBefore you post something, ask yourself if it’s something your parents would post online. If your parents wouldn’t post it, don’t post it.\\n4-3. Use the internet for positive reasons only.\\nThe internet can be amazing, depressing, helpful, annoying, useful, and upsetting. 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If you do succumb to peer pressure, just treat it as a lesson learned for next time.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Create regular challenges for yourself that are realistic.\", \"描述\": \"Nothing will make you feel more confident than successfully completing something challenging. The challenge doesn’t have to be huge, but it should be realistic for you and your current situation. For example, you could challenge yourself to increase your mark by one grade level in science, or you could challenge yourself to learn to play a specific piece of music.\\nIt is also important to remember that the journey you take to tackle your challenge is just as important as the outcome. If you aren’t successful with your challenge, focus on the things you did accomplish and/or learn in the process.\\nYou could try increasing your grades in a specific subject, finishing a homework assignment early, reaching the next level in your favourite video game, trying out for a sports team, auditioning for a play, or applying for a part-time job.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Participate in a sport or exercise regularly to boost your confidence.\", \"描述\": \"Exercise, in general, produces chemicals in your body that make you feel good. The sport doesn’t have to be through school or even a team sport. For example, you could take swimming lessons or martial arts classes. Select a sport or exercise that you’re excited about and that you find interesting.\\nBecoming involved in sports outside of school also allows you to meet more people with whom you could become friends.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Friendships\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make friends by doing activities that you love.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to find friends who have the same interests as you, look for clubs or groups in your school that you’re interested in. When you go to these club meetings, you can meet like-minded people who have at least one similar interest as you. As you get to know them, you can decide if you’d like to become friends or not.\\nIf your school doesn’t have any clubs that you’re interested in, consider starting one yourself by talking to your principal or counselor.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be yourself to let your true personality shine.\", \"描述\": \"Making friends with people can be tough, and it might seem easier to change your personality to fit in. However, this can get tiring after a long time, and you probably won’t make any meaningful friendships this way. When you start getting to know someone, stay true to your interests and your hobbies so they get to know the real you.\\nWhen you’re true to yourself, you can encourage other people to be true to themselves, too. You might find out that you have similar interests!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Hang out with people because you like them, not because they’re “cool.”\", \"描述\": \"If you’re choosing your friends based on their social status alone, chances are you aren’t friends for the right reasons. Try to stick with friendships that are made based on your mutual interests or hobbies instead of looking for people who are popular. You’ll make more lasting friendships this way, and you’ll probably have more fun!\\nOn the other hand, you shouldn’t look down on people who are “popular” in your school. If they’re popular for the right reasons (being kind, personable, or charming) they’re probably a fun friend to have!\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Perceive yourself and the things you like in a positive light.\", \"描述\": \"Being popular or cool isn’t about what others think of you, it’s about how you perceive yourself. If you are comfortable with who you are, what you look like, who you hang out with, and what activities you like to do, you will be happy.\\nYou don’t have to be accepted by everyone around you—you only need to feel accepted by the people you care about.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Treat others like you would want to be treated.\", \"描述\": \"If you don’t want to be yelled at, sworn at, bullied, or pushed around, chances are no one else wants to be treated like that either. Treat everyone you meet with respect. This means to always be polite, listen to what other people are saying (don’t interrupt), don’t make excuses when you make a mistake, and don’t hold a grudge.\\nTreating others with respect also means to think before you speak. Don’t assume that the sarcastic comment in your head will not be offensive when said out loud.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Online Image\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make posts that are true to your personality.\", \"描述\": \"If you do have a social media presence, don’t feel pressured to post about things you aren’t interested in. Instead, use your social media to document your fun activities, hobbies, and friendships so you can look back on them later.\\nThink about your social media as an extension of yourself.\\nIf you aren’t on social media, that’s fine too! There are no rules saying that you need a Twitter or Instagram page to be cool.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Avoid making posts that could paint you in a negative light.\", \"描述\": \"The phrase “the internet is forever” is still true, and even when you delete something, it never really goes away. Before you make a post, try to think about how it will affect your future. If you think you could be seen in a bad light, don’t post it.\\nPhotos of underage drinking, derogatory language, or provocative photos may not be the best content for your social media.\\nBefore you post something, ask yourself if it’s something your parents would post online. If your parents wouldn’t post it, don’t post it.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Use the internet for positive reasons only.\", \"描述\": \"The internet can be amazing, depressing, helpful, annoying, useful, and upsetting. Limit yourself to using the internet for positive reasons only and avoid using the internet for activities that will only end up hurting you or other people.\\nThe internet can be used for positive reasons such as: research for school, comparing colleges you’re interested in, connecting with friends, looking up interesting craft project ideas, finding instructions on how to use something, and participating in an online community that helps you work through something.\\nThe internet can also be used for very negative reasons, such as: comparing yourself to other people, bullying or intimidating other people, getting revenge on someone, reducing your ability to communicate offline, and connecting with people who want to hurt or harm you.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Log off if you’re getting overwhelmed.\", \"描述\": \"Social media can be a lot to handle sometimes, especially when you and your friends use it 24/7. If you feel yourself getting bummed out or obsessed with your online presence, take a little break and do something else. You can take a hike, do some exercise, or hang out with your friends IRL instead of scrolling through your social media pages.\\nMost smartphones have a feature to track your screen time total throughout the day. If you find yourself using your phone for more than you’d like, try setting a goal to log off once a day and go outside or read a book.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Being “cool” is different for everyone, and you never have to conform to someone else’s standards.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"If you find yourself succumbing to peer pressure or being bullied, talk to a trusted adult.\\n\"]}]}}",
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How to Be a Cool and Fun Person
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1. Steps
1-1. Like yourself for who you are.
Don't complain about yourself, like saying that you are too fat or too stupid or anything like that. It will make others think the same thing.
1-2. Have a nice hairstyle.
There's no need to go crazy with colours or anything, but a stylish hairstyle is a good touch, like bangs, spikes, etc.
1-3. Dress nicely.
You don't have to go overboard. If you are a girl, maybe have a couple of bracelets, a nice watch, or a locket. Try styling your hair differently often. For boys, you could have a golden chain, a silver piercing or a single black bracelet, but nothing too girly.
1-4. Have good shoes.
It might seem unimportant, but shoes really show someone's personality. Converse, Vans, K-Swiss, Adidas, and Nike are all really popular shoes.
1-5. Have good hygiene.
This is the most important. Shower daily and use deodorant. There is no need for you to smell good, just do not smell at all; But a faint hint of perfume would be nice. Wash your face and try to have clear skin, but don't freak out over a few pimples.
1-6. Be social.
Join extra-curricular activities to meet new people, and hang out with everyone. Don't just stick with a couple of friends. Treat everyone like your friend.
1-7. Do not back stab.
It will most likely get you into trouble and give you a bad reputation.
1-8. Compliment
It doesn't have to be extreme, say maybe, "nice hair" or, "I love your shoes!" or, "You have a great taste in ___."
1-9. Have your own personality.
If you are different, show it. If you like lots of Punk and Metal, for example, instead of the latest pop hits, it doesn't matter! Everyone is different. Respect that.
1-10. Respect people's beliefs and cultures.
Do not bully or make fun of anyone.
Tips
Have a sense of humor.
Be carefree and easy-going.
Remember that "shoes really show someone's personality," so be sure to pick shoes the reflect the right sorts of personality, such as those listed above. Other shoes can denote deviant personality types, and everyone hates people with those sorts of personality.
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How to Be a Cop in Grand Theft Auto (GTA) Vice City
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1. Dress Like a Cop
1-1. Complete the “Cop Land” mission first.
1-2. Go to the police station in Washington Beach.
1-3. Enter the police station.
1-4. Enter the room on the left of the hallway.
You’ll see a clothing icon near a baton.
1-5. Run through the clothing icon to change to a cop uniform.
2. Work Like a Cop
2-1. Find either a police car or a SWAT van and get into one.
2-2. Start the “Vigilante” mission.
A message on the screen will tell you which button to press to begin.
2-3. Chase a target.
A marker will appear on your mini-map showing the location of your target. Chase down the target within the time limit.
If successful, you’ll be rewarded with money and another target will appear on the map.
There are 12 Vigilante missions. You’ll fail if you don’t catch the target within the time limit or spend more than a minute outside of a police vehicle.
Tips
You can enter a military-restricted area without getting shot at if you’re wearing the cop uniform.
Wear the cop uniform before starting the Vigilante mission to make your character look more like a cop.
If you shoot anyone inside police stations, your wanted level will immediately go up.
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How to Be a Corporate Lawyer
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1. Getting Qualified
1-1. Understand what a corporate lawyer does.
Corporate lawyers serve only one client - the corporation they work for. As a corporate lawyer, you will be called upon to handle a variety of legal tasks including corporate taxes, mergers and acquisitions, corporate structure issues, employment law, and government reporting. Corporate lawyers will generally need to be knowledgeable in a wide range of legal fields and will need to be able to handle a large number of issues. Some corporations will hire multiple lawyers and each will be a specialist in one or two areas of corporate law.
1-2. Get an undergraduate degree.
Becoming a lawyer is a long process involving many years of study and training. Before you go to law school you will need to complete an undergraduate degree. There is no fixed subject you are required to study, but you should consider the kinds of skills that lawyers need to possess when choosing your course.
You will need excellent writing and comprehension skills.
You will need to be able to critically analyze an issue and clearly articulate your position with adequate supporting evidence.
You will need to be able to read, research and process large amounts of information.
Some courses to consider include history, economics, political science, philosophy and English.
1-3. Gain some experience while you study.
It’s a good idea to think about your time studying as an opportunity to gain some useful experience as well as qualifications. Think about the chances to develop your skills in practice working in student government, debating societies, or writing for the student newspaper.
Look for internship possibilities with local law firms.
Consider a part-time job at a local firm to help support you while you study, most law schools already offer this opportunity during the summer, as this will give you the experience of working in law.
A part-time job or internship can also enable you to develop some contacts in the industry.
1-4. Take the law school admission test.
Before you near the end of your undergraduate studies you need to be already thinking about the next step. In most instances you will need to take the Law School Admission Test (LSAT) well before you plan to actually go to law school. At the beginning of your final year of undergraduate studies, look for LSAT dates and locations local to you.
The LSAT is a standardized test, which is administered four times a year at designated sites across the world.
It is half-day test which is an integral part of the law school admissions process in the US and Canada.
The test is designed to help admissions decisions by evaluating reading and verbal reasoning skills, which are particularly important for law school.
1-5. Go to law school.
Once you have passed the LSAT you can go and apply for law school. This can be a long and arduous process, so it’s important that you have some patience and are committed to your career choice. Apply to study for a Juris Doctor (JD) degree at American Bar Association approved law schools.
The law school application process is very competitive, so don’t only apply for your first choice.
In most instances you will be required to apply through the Law School Admission Council’s online portal.
You can create an account there and manage all the necessary documents and information easily.
1-6. Take the most relevant courses.
In order to prepare of your specialism in corporation law, you should take plenty of classes on business and taxation law as part of your JD. It’s helpful to tailor your studies to those areas most relevant for a future career in corporate law at an early stage.
As well as business and taxation courses, look for contract law, finance and corporate governance law.
Make contact with the teachers of those elements which most interest you, and ask them about focussing your studies for a career in corporate law.
1-7. Pass the bar exam.
Once you have successfully completed your JD at law school, you still have to pass to pass your local bar exam before you earn a licence to practice law. The requirements vary from state-to-state, so contact your local bar association.
In California it is a three-day test, which consists of six essay questions, two performance tests, and the Multistate Bar Exam.
This is a 200-question multiple-choice test on law, constitutional law, criminal law, contracts, evidence, torts and real property.
Be aware that if intend to practice in numerous states, you may have to complete the exam more than once.
2. Developing Your Career and Specialism
2-1. Talk with other professionals in your field.
After many years of study, training and testing, you are finally ready to begin practicing law. Finding a job can be difficult in the extremely competitive world of law, so it’s important to develop contacts and present yourself in the best way possible. Talk to anybody who you interned for, or know through your college professors, to get some insight and recommendations.
2-2. Take a specialist course in corporate law.
Once you have gained some experience and are ready to progress on the path to becoming a successful corporate lawyer, you should consider extending your education. There are more advanced qualifications that go beyond the basic requirements to practice law, but are very helpful in developing your specialism. If you have a position at a firm, they may support you to study for this extra qualification.
The Masters of Laws (LLM) degree is a qualification that you can complete after you have your JD.
It is an advanced law qualification that is recognised globally, and enables you to focus in more on specific areas on law.
It is generally a one year, full-time academic course.
A corporation law LLM course will generally include work on corporate and securities law, contracts and commercial law, and other areas.
2-3. Consider joining professional networks.
As you are developing these skills and qualifications, you should also be trying to develop your professional profile. Having a combination of good contacts, and good qualifications will give you the best chance to secure a career in corporate law. For example, you can apply to become a member of the American Bar Association’s business law group.
Here you will get access to news, information, and professional events and networks.
You will have opportunities to meet fellow professionals and be involved in debates and discussions about the law.
3. Securing a Career
3-1. Interview on campus while in school.
Law schools will often bring employers in to interview their students for open positions. Ask the career services office at your law school about these opportunities. You will usually start interviewing during your second year of law school for summer internships and summer associate jobs. To prepare, ask career services about the employers coming in. Do some initial research on the employers and put together an application package. Often, your application package will include your resume, a cover letter, references, and your transcripts. One you have put together your application package, make sure you submit it to the employers on time. If you are chosen for an interview, the employer will usually set up a time to meet with you on campus.
3-2. Conduct informational interviews.
Informational interviews provide a unique opportunity to talk with experienced lawyers in the corporate arena. During an informational interview, you will have a conversation with an attorney about their career experiences and about any advice they may have for you. To set up and complete an informational interview:
Research people to talk with. Call corporations and ask to speak with their legal department. Email people in your network and ask if they have any contacts you may be able to utilize.
Prepare to make contact. When you have found people to call or email, prepare a short overview of yourself and your reasons for calling. Explain that you are not looking for a job interview and that you are simply looking to discuss the corporate law field. Let the person know how you got their information and ask if they have time to meet.
Go to the informational interview. When the time comes to conduct your informational interview, dress as if it were a job interview and arrive early. Be ready to conduct the interview and have a series of questions ready to go.
You may want to ask about how they got their start in the corporate field, how they moved their way up, and how they would recommend you go about looking for a position.
Follow up. When your informational interview is over, be sure you follow up with the person you spoke with. Thank them for their time and let them know you are appreciative. Stay in contact with these people and give them updates every once and a while.
3-3. Apply for jobs you find online.
The internet is a great resource for finding jobs. However, unlike some of the other methods, the jobs you find online are often going to be incredibly competitive because of the volume of responses these employers receive. While you should apply for jobs online, do not stop trying other methods as well.
In order to apply for jobs online, look at employer websites and more general job sites. When you find an open position, submit an application in the form and manner requested. Some employers want a resume and cover letter. Other employers may want you to answer questionnaires about your experience and expertise. Be sure you read each job posting carefully so you know exactly what needs to be submitted.
3-4. Rent office space.
If you are having trouble finding a job, offer to rent office space from someone doing work you would like to get into. When you do this, ask if they would be willing to pass you work when they become busy or when they have tasks they do not want to complete. You need to be willing to do any type of work, even if it is administrative menial. Over time, the person you are renting space from may choose to hire you or may give you a good reference for another job. This is a great way to get your foot in the door.
3-5. Offer your services for free.
In a lot of circumstances, corporate lawyers will be happy to offer you work and experience, but they will not be willing or able to pay you for it. While this may be frustrating, offering your services for free can be a great way to gain experience and to build your professional network.
If you find yourself not getting a lot of work offers, go back and offer your services for free. However, be sure you are giving yourself enough time to apply for paid positions as well.
Tips
Many businesses actively recruit legal staff at law schools, and positions are often detailed in law school journals, etc.
Warnings
Carefully consider the credentials of both your undergraduate institution and your law school.
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Apply to study for a Juris Doctor (JD) degree at American Bar Association approved law schools.\\nThe law school application process is very competitive, so don’t only apply for your first choice.\\nIn most instances you will be required to apply through the Law School Admission Council’s online portal.\\nYou can create an account there and manage all the necessary documents and information easily.\\n1-6. Take the most relevant courses.\\nIn order to prepare of your specialism in corporation law, you should take plenty of classes on business and taxation law as part of your JD. It’s helpful to tailor your studies to those areas most relevant for a future career in corporate law at an early stage.\\nAs well as business and taxation courses, look for contract law, finance and corporate governance law.\\nMake contact with the teachers of those elements which most interest you, and ask them about focussing your studies for a career in corporate law.\\n1-7. 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1. Getting a Country Sound
1-1. Learn to sing.
You can’t be a country singer without being good at singing. Even if you consider yourself or have been told you are a good singer it is important to make sure you have the base singing skills necessary to be a singer. Find your singing range and practice singing regularly.
If you have a lot of improvement that needs to be done or you just want to get your voice the best it can be, you might want to consider taking singing lessons. You can also use websites and phone apps to learn to sing.
1-2. Sing along to country singers.
In order to mimic the sound and learn the country style, practice by singing along to country artists you like who are in your vocal range.
Women may want to listen to Tammy Wynette, Dolly Parton, Miranda Lambert, Martina McBride, Carrie Underwood, Allison Krauss, Kelsea Ballerini, Loretta Lynn, Patsy Cline and Kellie Pickler.
Men may want to listen to Hank Williams, Tim McGraw, George Strait, Waylon Jennings, Kenny Chesney, Keith Urban, George Jones, Rodney Atkins, and Toby Keith.
1-3. Learn the country twang.
Country singers have a specific sound to their voice. Whether you have the country twang naturally or not it is possible to learn to sing with a country style to your voice.
First try to put the country twang in your speaking voice. Mimic the country twang of singers, actors, and characters into your speaking.
Start singing with the twang by over exaggerating the sound of it. This will get the sound familiar on your voice. Once you have the feel of it down, tone it down.
1-4. Learn to play the guitar.
This will help create your country sound and make song writing easier. If you really cannot learn you can have someone play while you sing and be a duo, but knowing how to play guitar is a major part of country singing.
The most important chords to learn for country music are G, C, D, and A. Country music is usually a combination of these chords.
2. Writing Songs
2-1. Decide if you want to write songs or be a cover artist.
There are plenty of country singers who cover other artist’s songs. Start by learning how to sing other country singers songs before you decide if you want to write your own music.
Put your own spin on a song to make it your own. For instance, you might break a phrase into a beginning, middle, and end, then decide which of those you might add your own riff or melody to. That way, the song is still recognizable, but it will be unique, as well.
2-2. Decide your style of country.
There are various types of country music. There is traditional country western music that is simple and about real life issues. Bluegrass is similar to country western, except it is entirely acoustic. It uses acoustic instruments such as the upright bass fiddle, acoustic guitars, banjos, and fiddles. There is also a newer genre of country music called pop-country. Which is pop music with a country feel.
2-3. Think of a topic to write about.
You can write about whatever you want, but country music does tend to follow some of the same basic topics. Country music is stories set to music. There is usually a plot and characters just like a story except it rhymes and has a melody.
Common topics for country songs are broken hearts, betrayal, Jesus, the Devil, Mama, feeling blue, the South (Alabama, Tennessee, Louisiana, etc.), death, love, cowboys, and words of wisdom.
2-4. Write the lyrics.
Once you have decided the subject to write about you can write the lyrics to your country song. There are plenty of sad country songs but the feel good songs are usually the hits. Country music is very literal so keep the lyrics simple. They should tell a story about what is happening around you or about what you know.
Unlike pop, the chorus is the most important part of country music. Use a lot of adjectives in your lyrics to describe something. Don’t use swear words. Some genres use or even encourage using swear words, but not country music.
2-5. Write the melody.
People are going to remember the melody of your song before they remember the lyrics. You can build your song around the melody but don’t let the melody control your lyrics. The melody is a very important part of a country song. Without a melody you can’t feel the song and nobody will care about your song.
Country songs have very simple melodies, harmonies, and chord progressions. The basic chord progressions to write your melody to is typically G, C, D or G, D, A, or a combination of those chords. There is typically no need for any fancy chord progressions.
2-6. Record your song.
There are many ways you can record your song depending on your resources and budget. You could work with a technical savvy friend, book time with a professional studio engineer, or just record your song at home using a microphone and computer software. Whatever way you choose to record your song, having a copy of an audio recording will open up many doors.
If you're planning to release your music commercially, it's best to record it in a professional studio. Professional recording can be a little costly, but you can make the most of it by rehearsing your song on your own. That way, you're not wasting valuable studio time trying to get the right notes.
You can also record many of the parts of the song on your own at home, like the background vocals, guitar, and bass. Then, you can just work on the lead vocals and drums in the studio—those are the parts that need to be recorded with a really good microphone.
2-7. Copyright your music.
You music is copyrighted from the moment it is created, but if someone steals your music it is not protected in a lawsuit unless you register it. As soon as you have a final version written and recorded you can register it online at the U.S. Copyright Office for a small fee. Once you do this the song is yours. No one can use the original material without your permission. If you don’t do this someone can steal the lyrics or melody and make a new recording of it. They won’t need your permission or have to pay you any royalties.
3. Getting Discovered
3-1. Join a Performing Rights Organization.
Examples of PROs are ASCAP, SESAC, and BMI. They will collect any royalties and distribute them to you in an organized fashion. If your song is ever played on TV, iTunes, YouTube, or Spotify, you are entitled to royalty. Some PROs are free and others have a fee.
3-2. Pitch your music.
This will take a while but today’s technology makes this faster than ever. You can send your demos and mixtapes out to try to get noticed.
Send your demos to journalists, promoters, or management. Include your name, phone number, email address, and website on every CD that you send out. This way whoever listens to your CD will be able to contact you if they like it, whether they have your packaging or not. Keep your packaging simple. A simple note about who you are and any gigs you have will be good enough.
Look through the album sleeves of country artists you like to find labels and managers to send your demos to. There are websites available such as Showcase, The Unsigned Guide and CMU Directory to help find the name and address of people to send your demos to.
3-3. Perform your music.
Many singers get discovered when they perform their music live. Start with your friends, family, and those you feel most comfortable with. Then perform your music in the small venues: open mics, talent shows, and café’s.
Use who you know to get gigs. Even asking your friends to perform at birthday parties is a step in the right direction.
Use the gigs you get to find more. If you make a good impression, promoters or someone in the audience might ask you to perform somewhere else.
Ask small local venues or event organizer if you can perform at their venue or event. Try going to them in person or call over the phone instead of sending an email.
3-4. Create a fanbase.
In order to stand out you need a fanbase. You will need to work hard to get fans to notice your work but having fans will open up many doors.
Publish your songs online. Once you have a clear recording of your song and you have copyrighted it, publish it. It is easy for anyone to publish their song online. Put your music on YouTube or Soundcloud so other people can see your work.
Use social media to create fans. Use Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and other social media sites to get people to find you. Be active on social media and reach out to fans. Promote your music on your social media.
Have an image. Be yourself but have something about you that makes you known. This can be wearing a certain outfit, having a certain hairstyle, or acting a certain way. Taylor Swift became famous for her blonde curls and Lady Gaga for her ostentatious outfits. These images helped them become well known.
Tips
Make sure you have the foundation of good singing before you try to become a country singer.
Be yourself and let your music come from your heart.
Practice your singing and songwriting until you get it perfect.
Warnings
Try not to strain your voice.
Becoming a singer is very competitive.
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Once you have the feel of it down, tone it down.\\n1-4. Learn to play the guitar.\\nThis will help create your country sound and make song writing easier. If you really cannot learn you can have someone play while you sing and be a duo, but knowing how to play guitar is a major part of country singing.\\nThe most important chords to learn for country music are G, C, D, and A. Country music is usually a combination of these chords.\\n2. Writing Songs\\n2-1. Decide if you want to write songs or be a cover artist.\\nThere are plenty of country singers who cover other artist’s songs. Start by learning how to sing other country singers songs before you decide if you want to write your own music.\\nPut your own spin on a song to make it your own. For instance, you might break a phrase into a beginning, middle, and end, then decide which of those you might add your own riff or melody to. That way, the song is still recognizable, but it will be unique, as well.\\n2-2. Decide your style of country.\\nThere are various types of country music. There is traditional country western music that is simple and about real life issues. Bluegrass is similar to country western, except it is entirely acoustic. It uses acoustic instruments such as the upright bass fiddle, acoustic guitars, banjos, and fiddles. There is also a newer genre of country music called pop-country. Which is pop music with a country feel.\\n2-3. Think of a topic to write about.\\nYou can write about whatever you want, but country music does tend to follow some of the same basic topics. Country music is stories set to music. There is usually a plot and characters just like a story except it rhymes and has a melody.\\nCommon topics for country songs are broken hearts, betrayal, Jesus, the Devil, Mama, feeling blue, the South (Alabama, Tennessee, Louisiana, etc.), death, love, cowboys, and words of wisdom.\\n2-4. Write the lyrics.\\nOnce you have decided the subject to write about you can write the lyrics to your country song. There are plenty of sad country songs but the feel good songs are usually the hits. Country music is very literal so keep the lyrics simple. They should tell a story about what is happening around you or about what you know.\\nUnlike pop, the chorus is the most important part of country music. Use a lot of adjectives in your lyrics to describe something. Don’t use swear words. Some genres use or even encourage using swear words, but not country music.\\n2-5. Write the melody.\\nPeople are going to remember the melody of your song before they remember the lyrics. You can build your song around the melody but don’t let the melody control your lyrics. The melody is a very important part of a country song. Without a melody you can’t feel the song and nobody will care about your song. \\nCountry songs have very simple melodies, harmonies, and chord progressions. The basic chord progressions to write your melody to is typically G, C, D or G, D, A, or a combination of those chords. There is typically no need for any fancy chord progressions.\\n2-6. Record your song.\\nThere are many ways you can record your song depending on your resources and budget. You could work with a technical savvy friend, book time with a professional studio engineer, or just record your song at home using a microphone and computer software. Whatever way you choose to record your song, having a copy of an audio recording will open up many doors. \\nIf you're planning to release your music commercially, it's best to record it in a professional studio. Professional recording can be a little costly, but you can make the most of it by rehearsing your song on your own. That way, you're not wasting valuable studio time trying to get the right notes.\\nYou can also record many of the parts of the song on your own at home, like the background vocals, guitar, and bass. Then, you can just work on the lead vocals and drums in the studio—those are the parts that need to be recorded with a really good microphone.\\n2-7. Copyright your music.\\nYou music is copyrighted from the moment it is created, but if someone steals your music it is not protected in a lawsuit unless you register it. As soon as you have a final version written and recorded you can register it online at the U.S. Copyright Office for a small fee. Once you do this the song is yours. No one can use the original material without your permission. If you don’t do this someone can steal the lyrics or melody and make a new recording of it. They won’t need your permission or have to pay you any royalties.\\n3. Getting Discovered\\n3-1. Join a Performing Rights Organization.\\nExamples of PROs are ASCAP, SESAC, and BMI. They will collect any royalties and distribute them to you in an organized fashion. If your song is ever played on TV, iTunes, YouTube, or Spotify, you are entitled to royalty. Some PROs are free and others have a fee.\\n3-2. Pitch your music.\\nThis will take a while but today’s technology makes this faster than ever. You can send your demos and mixtapes out to try to get noticed.\\nSend your demos to journalists, promoters, or management. Include your name, phone number, email address, and website on every CD that you send out. This way whoever listens to your CD will be able to contact you if they like it, whether they have your packaging or not. Keep your packaging simple. A simple note about who you are and any gigs you have will be good enough. \\nLook through the album sleeves of country artists you like to find labels and managers to send your demos to. There are websites available such as Showcase, The Unsigned Guide and CMU Directory to help find the name and address of people to send your demos to.\\n3-3. Perform your music.\\nMany singers get discovered when they perform their music live. Start with your friends, family, and those you feel most comfortable with. Then perform your music in the small venues: open mics, talent shows, and café’s.\\nUse who you know to get gigs. Even asking your friends to perform at birthday parties is a step in the right direction.\\nUse the gigs you get to find more. If you make a good impression, promoters or someone in the audience might ask you to perform somewhere else.\\nAsk small local venues or event organizer if you can perform at their venue or event. Try going to them in person or call over the phone instead of sending an email.\\n3-4. Create a fanbase.\\nIn order to stand out you need a fanbase. You will need to work hard to get fans to notice your work but having fans will open up many doors.\\nPublish your songs online. Once you have a clear recording of your song and you have copyrighted it, publish it. It is easy for anyone to publish their song online. Put your music on YouTube or Soundcloud so other people can see your work.\\nUse social media to create fans. Use Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and other social media sites to get people to find you. Be active on social media and reach out to fans. Promote your music on your social media. \\nHave an image. Be yourself but have something about you that makes you known. This can be wearing a certain outfit, having a certain hairstyle, or acting a certain way. Taylor Swift became famous for her blonde curls and Lady Gaga for her ostentatious outfits. These images helped them become well known.\\nTips\\nMake sure you have the foundation of good singing before you try to become a country singer.\\nBe yourself and let your music come from your heart.\\nPractice your singing and songwriting until you get it perfect.\\nWarnings\\nTry not to strain your voice.\\nBecoming a singer is very competitive.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Country music is a genre about the experiences and stories of people’s lives. It uses familiar topics and simple melodies. With hard work you can become a country singer. If you perfect your singing and songwriting you may just get noticed and become the next Carrie Underwood.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting a Country Sound\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn to sing.\", \"描述\": \"You can’t be a country singer without being good at singing. Even if you consider yourself or have been told you are a good singer it is important to make sure you have the base singing skills necessary to be a singer. 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Whether you have the country twang naturally or not it is possible to learn to sing with a country style to your voice.\\nFirst try to put the country twang in your speaking voice. Mimic the country twang of singers, actors, and characters into your speaking.\\nStart singing with the twang by over exaggerating the sound of it. This will get the sound familiar on your voice. Once you have the feel of it down, tone it down.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Learn to play the guitar.\", \"描述\": \"This will help create your country sound and make song writing easier. If you really cannot learn you can have someone play while you sing and be a duo, but knowing how to play guitar is a major part of country singing.\\nThe most important chords to learn for country music are G, C, D, and A. Country music is usually a combination of these chords.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Writing Songs\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Decide if you want to write songs or be a cover artist.\", \"描述\": \"There are plenty of country singers who cover other artist’s songs. Start by learning how to sing other country singers songs before you decide if you want to write your own music.\\nPut your own spin on a song to make it your own. For instance, you might break a phrase into a beginning, middle, and end, then decide which of those you might add your own riff or melody to. That way, the song is still recognizable, but it will be unique, as well.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Decide your style of country.\", \"描述\": \"There are various types of country music. There is traditional country western music that is simple and about real life issues. Bluegrass is similar to country western, except it is entirely acoustic. It uses acoustic instruments such as the upright bass fiddle, acoustic guitars, banjos, and fiddles. There is also a newer genre of country music called pop-country. Which is pop music with a country feel.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Think of a topic to write about.\", \"描述\": \"You can write about whatever you want, but country music does tend to follow some of the same basic topics. Country music is stories set to music. There is usually a plot and characters just like a story except it rhymes and has a melody.\\nCommon topics for country songs are broken hearts, betrayal, Jesus, the Devil, Mama, feeling blue, the South (Alabama, Tennessee, Louisiana, etc.), death, love, cowboys, and words of wisdom.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Write the lyrics.\", \"描述\": \"Once you have decided the subject to write about you can write the lyrics to your country song. There are plenty of sad country songs but the feel good songs are usually the hits. Country music is very literal so keep the lyrics simple. They should tell a story about what is happening around you or about what you know.\\nUnlike pop, the chorus is the most important part of country music. Use a lot of adjectives in your lyrics to describe something. Don’t use swear words. Some genres use or even encourage using swear words, but not country music.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Write the melody.\", \"描述\": \"People are going to remember the melody of your song before they remember the lyrics. You can build your song around the melody but don’t let the melody control your lyrics. The melody is a very important part of a country song. Without a melody you can’t feel the song and nobody will care about your song. \\nCountry songs have very simple melodies, harmonies, and chord progressions. The basic chord progressions to write your melody to is typically G, C, D or G, D, A, or a combination of those chords. 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1. Being a Rancher
1-1. Learn about the career.
Before you decide to become a rancher, spend some time learning a bit about the career. A career in ranching can make you feel like something of a modern day cowboy. If you love the outdoors and animals, it could be a great career path for you.
A rancher's job is to look over land and animals on a large farm property. Ranchers can own their own farm and can also work for other farm owners. The life of a rancher can be exciting due to its unplanned nature. Every day presents unique challenges and opportunities depending on season, animal temperament, weather, and other factors.
As a rancher, you'll spend a lot of time outdoors. You may have to travel a lot as well, but will see a lot of beautiful countryside across the United States. If you love traveling and the outdoors, this could be a great career for you.
Salary can be tricky when it comes to a rancher. Your annual salary will fluctuate based on the current market and how much a given farm makes in a year. A bad season can mean financial setbacks. Traditional benefits, like healthcare, are not usually offered for ranchers. These are factors to consider before committing yourself to the life. In recent years, the outlook for rancher as a career has been getting worse. Keep in mind you may make less money the more time you spend working on a ranch.
1-2. Work on your skill set.
To be a rancher, you'll need analytical skills, critical thinking skills, interpersonal skills, and mechanical skills. Start working on these early on.
Analytical skills are useful for managing a farm and ranch. Taking on leadership positions and college courses in marketing and management can help. You'll also need critical thinking skills as you'll have to make decisions regarding livestock. Seeking out management positions, even for unrelated fields, can help hone your critical thinking skills as problem solving is a key component to management.
Interpersonal skills are important. Seek out experience in customer service and other jobs where you have to work with people. Take a summer job at a call center, for example. Networking with other ranchers and making deals with farmers is a key component of ranching, so interpersonal communication is key.
Mechanical skills are also vital. Work on a local farm and ask for the opportunity to learn how equipment works. Take an internship or apprenticeship with a local mechanic.
1-3. Start off in high school.
Many people who go on to become ranchers are born into the life. Oftentimes, their parents or grandparents worked on farms. If this is not the case for you, you can still become a rancher but should seek out experience working on farms and with animals early on in high school.
Stock up on science related classes in high school. While there's no specific educational path to become a rancher, having knowledge of animal biology can certainly help your chances of success. You should also take food and consumer studies courses to learn about agriculture, food production, and other aspects of farming.
Start gaining experience working with animals. Volunteer on a local farm. Join 4H. Take horseback riding lessons. Anything that builds relevant, hands-on experience with farm work can help you build your resume for a career as a rancher.
1-4. Get a relevant education.
As stated, there is no specific career path for becoming a rancher. However, if you're serious about the career some secondary education can help. Some of the following degree paths might prove relevant for a career as a rancher:
A four-year degree in food studies, agriculture, biology, or other fields related to farming and farm studies can help.
An associate's degree or apprenticeship might also be a good option if you don't want to dedicate four years to school. Depending on your location, you may be able to enroll in a program that specifically focuses on ranching and farm work. Ask around at local farms or talk to your school counselor about your plans.
Many land-grant or state universities offer beginning farming programs. They're not a full 4-year degree but provide you with a relevant certification.
1-5. Look for early work experience through linking programs.
If you're just starting out, look into working for retiring farmers. As many farmers are retiring in the coming decade, a lot of ranchers start out through linking programs. These are programs that connect new ranchers with retiring farmers.
The US government has some beginning farming and ranching programs you could look into. This would be a great place to start gaining experience.
Linking programs are listed on the Center for Rural Affairs website. This can help you find linking programs in your area and match you with ranchers who share your ethics.
Even if you do not end up staying in the program long term, doing some work for various linking programs can help build your resume and allow you to gain valuable experience.
1-6. Engage in good farming practices.
Once you're an established rancher, work on practicing good farming. Always stay up to day with the latest and most innovative techniques and talk to other ranchers about how you can improve.
Be a steward of the resources around you. Make sure you take care of land you work on and engage in in environmentally friendly farming techniques.
If you're working with a herd of livestock, use preventative health plans. Vaccinate calves against contagious diseases and watch for the signs of seasonal colds and flus. Quarantine animals showing early signs of sickness.
Make sure all the livestock in a herd get enough food. Some animals may to slow or weak and get cut off from a food source. Always monitor animals to make sure they're at the proper weight.
Buy quality but inexpensive materials. Network with other farmers to keep track of where to get the best hay, riding supplies, and other ranching materials for a low cost without sacrificing quality.
2. Working Rodeos
2-1. Start off early.
Most people who work in rodeos were born into their field. Their parents were affiliated with the rodeo and they learned the trade from there. Even if you were not born into a rodeo family, it's important to be involved in rodeo culture from an early age.
Attend rodeos and see if you can volunteer. Just working as a farmhand can help as you'll get a sense of the scene.
2-2. Learn some basic skills.
Try to learn some basic skills. Learning how to rope, ride a horse, and other skills are important if you want to become a rodeo cowboy. Taking horseback riding lessons can help you develop a basic riding skill set.
Learn from someone who has a lot of experience with horses if you don't know a lot about them yourself. You'll also want to read some books and really study horse care and horse behavior.
2-3. Get in shape.
Being a rodeo cowboy is a physically demanding job. You'll need strength, stamina, and agility to successfully work in a rodeo. Build up your muscles and endurance as you move towards your career goal.
Join a gym and make use of weight training equipment, like weight machines and elliptical machines. Talk to a trainer at the gym to get your current fitness level evaluated. If you start out pushing yourself too hard, you could end up with an injury that could compromise your career.
Try to work on endurance as well. Take up running, jogging, biking, or other activities where you have to be physically active for a long time.
2-4. Gain experience with horseback riding.
As a rodeo cowboy, you'll need to have experience riding a horse. You need to have a certain mastery over horseback riding so work on taking lessons.
If possible, start at a young age. Take horseback riding lessons at a local farm or ranch.
Practice all aspects of riding: jumping, barrel racing, western, english, side saddle. As a rodeo rancher a lot of your job is to entertain so you'll need to have a diverse skill set on hand.
A good horse is also important. Many rodeo cowboys say having a good horse under them makes or breaks a career. Pay attention to how you bond with each horse your ride and how well that horse responds to your signals.
2-5. Consider a professional training program.
While not as common as other training and apprenticeship programs, there are some rodeo training programs throughout the country. If you're really dedicated to a career in rodeo work considering enrolling in a training program. You can find lists of programs online or ask the cowboys at a local rodeo if they engaged in any professional training.
2-6. Build your repertoire.
Once you feel skilled enough to hit the rodeo, begin to build your repertoire. Begin to book gigs at a variety of rodeos so you'll have a performance listing to give out as your move forward in your career.
You might have to start small. Sign up for low stakes events and competitions at local rodeos. If you're successful and begin winning competitions, you'll begin moving up in the ranks.
Practice. Daily practice and hard work is what will ultimately determine your success as a rodeo cowboy. You'll need to focus on using much of your spare time improving before you're established.
Look into 4H rodeos. Many 4H's host low stake rodeo events. This would be a great opportunity to start off and gain some experience.
2-7. Join an organization.
There are a variety of professional rodeo organizations you could join to improve your chance of finding regular work. Organizations like the Southern Rodeo Association, the Professional Rodeo Cowboys Association, the American Professional Rodeo Association, and more are excellent organizations to join. Membership requirements and fees vary from place to place. Browse the websites of organizations you're interested in for more information.
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Your annual salary will fluctuate based on the current market and how much a given farm makes in a year. A bad season can mean financial setbacks. Traditional benefits, like healthcare, are not usually offered for ranchers. These are factors to consider before committing yourself to the life. In recent years, the outlook for rancher as a career has been getting worse. Keep in mind you may make less money the more time you spend working on a ranch.\\n1-2. Work on your skill set.\\nTo be a rancher, you'll need analytical skills, critical thinking skills, interpersonal skills, and mechanical skills. Start working on these early on.\\nAnalytical skills are useful for managing a farm and ranch. Taking on leadership positions and college courses in marketing and management can help. You'll also need critical thinking skills as you'll have to make decisions regarding livestock. Seeking out management positions, even for unrelated fields, can help hone your critical thinking skills as problem solving is a key component to management.\\nInterpersonal skills are important. Seek out experience in customer service and other jobs where you have to work with people. Take a summer job at a call center, for example. Networking with other ranchers and making deals with farmers is a key component of ranching, so interpersonal communication is key.\\nMechanical skills are also vital. Work on a local farm and ask for the opportunity to learn how equipment works. Take an internship or apprenticeship with a local mechanic.\\n1-3. Start off in high school.\\nMany people who go on to become ranchers are born into the life. Oftentimes, their parents or grandparents worked on farms. If this is not the case for you, you can still become a rancher but should seek out experience working on farms and with animals early on in high school.\\nStock up on science related classes in high school. While there's no specific educational path to become a rancher, having knowledge of animal biology can certainly help your chances of success. You should also take food and consumer studies courses to learn about agriculture, food production, and other aspects of farming.\\nStart gaining experience working with animals. Volunteer on a local farm. Join 4H. Take horseback riding lessons. Anything that builds relevant, hands-on experience with farm work can help you build your resume for a career as a rancher.\\n1-4. Get a relevant education.\\nAs stated, there is no specific career path for becoming a rancher. However, if you're serious about the career some secondary education can help. Some of the following degree paths might prove relevant for a career as a rancher:\\nA four-year degree in food studies, agriculture, biology, or other fields related to farming and farm studies can help.\\nAn associate's degree or apprenticeship might also be a good option if you don't want to dedicate four years to school. Depending on your location, you may be able to enroll in a program that specifically focuses on ranching and farm work. Ask around at local farms or talk to your school counselor about your plans.\\nMany land-grant or state universities offer beginning farming programs. They're not a full 4-year degree but provide you with a relevant certification.\\n1-5. Look for early work experience through linking programs.\\nIf you're just starting out, look into working for retiring farmers. As many farmers are retiring in the coming decade, a lot of ranchers start out through linking programs. These are programs that connect new ranchers with retiring farmers.\\nThe US government has some beginning farming and ranching programs you could look into. This would be a great place to start gaining experience.\\nLinking programs are listed on the Center for Rural Affairs website. This can help you find linking programs in your area and match you with ranchers who share your ethics.\\nEven if you do not end up staying in the program long term, doing some work for various linking programs can help build your resume and allow you to gain valuable experience.\\n1-6. Engage in good farming practices.\\nOnce you're an established rancher, work on practicing good farming. Always stay up to day with the latest and most innovative techniques and talk to other ranchers about how you can improve.\\nBe a steward of the resources around you. Make sure you take care of land you work on and engage in in environmentally friendly farming techniques.\\nIf you're working with a herd of livestock, use preventative health plans. Vaccinate calves against contagious diseases and watch for the signs of seasonal colds and flus. Quarantine animals showing early signs of sickness.\\nMake sure all the livestock in a herd get enough food. Some animals may to slow or weak and get cut off from a food source. Always monitor animals to make sure they're at the proper weight.\\nBuy quality but inexpensive materials. Network with other farmers to keep track of where to get the best hay, riding supplies, and other ranching materials for a low cost without sacrificing quality.\\n2. Working Rodeos\\n2-1. Start off early.\\nMost people who work in rodeos were born into their field. Their parents were affiliated with the rodeo and they learned the trade from there. Even if you were not born into a rodeo family, it's important to be involved in rodeo culture from an early age.\\nAttend rodeos and see if you can volunteer. Just working as a farmhand can help as you'll get a sense of the scene.\\n2-2. Learn some basic skills.\\nTry to learn some basic skills. Learning how to rope, ride a horse, and other skills are important if you want to become a rodeo cowboy. Taking horseback riding lessons can help you develop a basic riding skill set.\\nLearn from someone who has a lot of experience with horses if you don't know a lot about them yourself. You'll also want to read some books and really study horse care and horse behavior.\\n2-3. Get in shape.\\nBeing a rodeo cowboy is a physically demanding job. You'll need strength, stamina, and agility to successfully work in a rodeo. Build up your muscles and endurance as you move towards your career goal.\\nJoin a gym and make use of weight training equipment, like weight machines and elliptical machines. Talk to a trainer at the gym to get your current fitness level evaluated. If you start out pushing yourself too hard, you could end up with an injury that could compromise your career.\\nTry to work on endurance as well. Take up running, jogging, biking, or other activities where you have to be physically active for a long time.\\n2-4. Gain experience with horseback riding.\\nAs a rodeo cowboy, you'll need to have experience riding a horse. You need to have a certain mastery over horseback riding so work on taking lessons.\\nIf possible, start at a young age. Take horseback riding lessons at a local farm or ranch.\\nPractice all aspects of riding: jumping, barrel racing, western, english, side saddle. As a rodeo rancher a lot of your job is to entertain so you'll need to have a diverse skill set on hand.\\nA good horse is also important. Many rodeo cowboys say having a good horse under them makes or breaks a career. Pay attention to how you bond with each horse your ride and how well that horse responds to your signals.\\n2-5. Consider a professional training program.\\nWhile not as common as other training and apprenticeship programs, there are some rodeo training programs throughout the country. If you're really dedicated to a career in rodeo work considering enrolling in a training program. You can find lists of programs online or ask the cowboys at a local rodeo if they engaged in any professional training.\\n2-6. Build your repertoire.\\nOnce you feel skilled enough to hit the rodeo, begin to build your repertoire. Begin to book gigs at a variety of rodeos so you'll have a performance listing to give out as your move forward in your career.\\nYou might have to start small. Sign up for low stakes events and competitions at local rodeos. If you're successful and begin winning competitions, you'll begin moving up in the ranks.\\nPractice. Daily practice and hard work is what will ultimately determine your success as a rodeo cowboy. You'll need to focus on using much of your spare time improving before you're established.\\nLook into 4H rodeos. Many 4H's host low stake rodeo events. This would be a great opportunity to start off and gain some experience.\\n2-7. Join an organization.\\nThere are a variety of professional rodeo organizations you could join to improve your chance of finding regular work. Organizations like the Southern Rodeo Association, the Professional Rodeo Cowboys Association, the American Professional Rodeo Association, and more are excellent organizations to join. Membership requirements and fees vary from place to place. Browse the websites of organizations you're interested in for more information.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Many people romanticize the idea of becoming a cowboy. However, the reality is modern cowboys, like ranchers and those who work on rodeos, have a physically and emotionally demanding job. If you love the outdoors and working with animals, a career as a cowboy could be right for you. Just keep in mind that it takes a lot of time and dedication.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Being a Rancher\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn about the career.\", \"描述\": \"Before you decide to become a rancher, spend some time learning a bit about the career. A career in ranching can make you feel like something of a modern day cowboy. If you love the outdoors and animals, it could be a great career path for you.\\nA rancher's job is to look over land and animals on a large farm property. Ranchers can own their own farm and can also work for other farm owners. The life of a rancher can be exciting due to its unplanned nature. Every day presents unique challenges and opportunities depending on season, animal temperament, weather, and other factors.\\nAs a rancher, you'll spend a lot of time outdoors. You may have to travel a lot as well, but will see a lot of beautiful countryside across the United States. If you love traveling and the outdoors, this could be a great career for you.\\nSalary can be tricky when it comes to a rancher. Your annual salary will fluctuate based on the current market and how much a given farm makes in a year. A bad season can mean financial setbacks. Traditional benefits, like healthcare, are not usually offered for ranchers. These are factors to consider before committing yourself to the life. In recent years, the outlook for rancher as a career has been getting worse. Keep in mind you may make less money the more time you spend working on a ranch.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Work on your skill set.\", \"描述\": \"To be a rancher, you'll need analytical skills, critical thinking skills, interpersonal skills, and mechanical skills. Start working on these early on.\\nAnalytical skills are useful for managing a farm and ranch. Taking on leadership positions and college courses in marketing and management can help. You'll also need critical thinking skills as you'll have to make decisions regarding livestock. Seeking out management positions, even for unrelated fields, can help hone your critical thinking skills as problem solving is a key component to management.\\nInterpersonal skills are important. Seek out experience in customer service and other jobs where you have to work with people. Take a summer job at a call center, for example. Networking with other ranchers and making deals with farmers is a key component of ranching, so interpersonal communication is key.\\nMechanical skills are also vital. Work on a local farm and ask for the opportunity to learn how equipment works. Take an internship or apprenticeship with a local mechanic.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Start off in high school.\", \"描述\": \"Many people who go on to become ranchers are born into the life. Oftentimes, their parents or grandparents worked on farms. If this is not the case for you, you can still become a rancher but should seek out experience working on farms and with animals early on in high school.\\nStock up on science related classes in high school. While there's no specific educational path to become a rancher, having knowledge of animal biology can certainly help your chances of success. You should also take food and consumer studies courses to learn about agriculture, food production, and other aspects of farming.\\nStart gaining experience working with animals. Volunteer on a local farm. Join 4H. Take horseback riding lessons. Anything that builds relevant, hands-on experience with farm work can help you build your resume for a career as a rancher.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Get a relevant education.\", \"描述\": \"As stated, there is no specific career path for becoming a rancher. However, if you're serious about the career some secondary education can help. Some of the following degree paths might prove relevant for a career as a rancher:\\nA four-year degree in food studies, agriculture, biology, or other fields related to farming and farm studies can help.\\nAn associate's degree or apprenticeship might also be a good option if you don't want to dedicate four years to school. Depending on your location, you may be able to enroll in a program that specifically focuses on ranching and farm work. Ask around at local farms or talk to your school counselor about your plans.\\nMany land-grant or state universities offer beginning farming programs. They're not a full 4-year degree but provide you with a relevant certification.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Look for early work experience through linking programs.\", \"描述\": \"If you're just starting out, look into working for retiring farmers. As many farmers are retiring in the coming decade, a lot of ranchers start out through linking programs. These are programs that connect new ranchers with retiring farmers.\\nThe US government has some beginning farming and ranching programs you could look into. This would be a great place to start gaining experience.\\nLinking programs are listed on the Center for Rural Affairs website. This can help you find linking programs in your area and match you with ranchers who share your ethics.\\nEven if you do not end up staying in the program long term, doing some work for various linking programs can help build your resume and allow you to gain valuable experience.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Engage in good farming practices.\", \"描述\": \"Once you're an established rancher, work on practicing good farming. Always stay up to day with the latest and most innovative techniques and talk to other ranchers about how you can improve.\\nBe a steward of the resources around you. Make sure you take care of land you work on and engage in in environmentally friendly farming techniques.\\nIf you're working with a herd of livestock, use preventative health plans. Vaccinate calves against contagious diseases and watch for the signs of seasonal colds and flus. Quarantine animals showing early signs of sickness.\\nMake sure all the livestock in a herd get enough food. Some animals may to slow or weak and get cut off from a food source. Always monitor animals to make sure they're at the proper weight.\\nBuy quality but inexpensive materials. Network with other farmers to keep track of where to get the best hay, riding supplies, and other ranching materials for a low cost without sacrificing quality.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Working Rodeos\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Start off early.\", \"描述\": \"Most people who work in rodeos were born into their field. Their parents were affiliated with the rodeo and they learned the trade from there. Even if you were not born into a rodeo family, it's important to be involved in rodeo culture from an early age.\\nAttend rodeos and see if you can volunteer. Just working as a farmhand can help as you'll get a sense of the scene.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn some basic skills.\", \"描述\": \"Try to learn some basic skills. 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1. Adopting the Culture
1-1. Learn cowgirl history.
Knowing the origins of the cowgirl is essential to becoming a modern cowgirl.
Cowboys and cowgirls originated in Texas.
Although cowgirl history is not documented as well as cowboy history, we know that cowgirls existed during the Golden Age of the cowboy (1866-1886).
While the men were either at war or driving thousands of cattle up north, cowgirls worked on the ranches, riding horses and caring for livestock.
The modern cowgirl may also herd cattle and work on a ranch or farm, but cowgirl life today also involves riding in rodeos.
1-2. Find out if this is the right choice for you.
Becoming a cowgirl requires a great deal of hard physical work and commitment, and therefore isn't for everyone.
You should be willing to learn how to do physical things like riding a horse and roping cattle.
If you don't like working with animals, being outside, or getting dirty, you might want to rethink becoming a cowgirl.
1-3. Visit a cattle ranch.
Learning how to work with cows is a traditional part of being a cowgirl, hence the title “cowgirl.”
Look online for a local farm or ranch that allows visitors, and see what it's like to work in there for a day. You can also volunteer at a farm or ranch to learn the basics.
Many cattle ranches also offer tours that teach you about living and working with cattle.
You can learn a lot about cattle: how to feed cattle, how to herd cattle, how to wean cattle, even how to butcher cattle.
2. Dressing Like a Cowgirl
2-1. Know that it's not just about looking good.
Cowgirls do hard, physical work, and their clothing needs to be functional, not just stylish.
Many of the stylistic elements associated with being a cowboy or cowgirl actually have a practical origin.
Because cowgirls work with large animals, they will often be covered in dirt, blood, spit, and snot. It may sound gross, but it is a reality of the lifestyle.
There is a lot of stylish, practical cowgirl clothing available online or at Western clothing stores.
2-2. Get the cowgirl basics.
There are some items of clothing that every cowgirl needs in her wardrobe both for work and for play.
Denim jeans - they are comfortable, durable, wash easily, and protect your legs from getting cut or chafed. Boot cut jeans are best when you're wearing cowgirl boots.
Long-sleeved shirts - they can be worn all year long. In the summer, cowgirls will wear breathable, long-sleeved shirts to protect their arms while they're out in the hot sun all day. In the winter, a thicker long-sleeved shirt helps keep the cowgirl warm.
Boots - these are essential to a cowgirl's wardrobe. They were created to easily and comfortably fit into stirrups, protect the wearer from scratches and snake bites, and provide traction when leading horses or cattle, but are now made to be more stylish as well.
Hats - they will protect a cowgirl's face from getting burned, and also protect her eyes from the sun.
Dresses and skirts - they can be in any style, but good, clean denim is always in style for a cowgirl. Part of the fun of cowgirl fashion is wearing pretty dresses and cute denim skirts out to a concert, steak dinner, or the rodeo.
Nice boots - they should be more decorative and a maybe a little less functional than your work boots, because you'll be wearing them out to dinner or parties.
2-3. Dress for the situation.
Like anyone else, cowgirls don't dress the exact same way for every occasion. Knowing what is appropriate to wear in different situations is important when it comes to cowgirl fashion.
A cowgirl isn't going to wear a fancy dress out horseback riding or cattle-roping, just as she wouldn't wear dirty jeans and muddy boots out to a nice dinner. Gauge what attire is appropriate for the situation.
Variety is important. Buy plenty of jeans and shirts for everyday wear, but also have dresses, nice shirts, dress pants, nice jeans, and fancy shoes in your closet for nicer occasions.
Make practicality your first concern with everyday dress, and style your second concern.
3. Acting Like a Cowgirl
3-1. Learn to ride a horse.
A horse is the cowgirl's closest companion, so an important step in acting like a cowgirl is learning to horseback ride.
Taking horse-riding lessons from a professional is the safest bet for beginners.
Many cities offer a variety of horseback riding classes suited for every age and experience level.
Know which type of riding lessons you want to take. Some different styles of riding are Western, Endurance, Saddle seat, and Racing.Western style is the most appropriate for a working cowgirl.
3-2. Learn to rope cattle.
After you've mastered Western style horseback riding, you can learn how to rope cattle while riding.
Cowgirls spend time on the ranch maneuvering cattle. Using a lasso to rope cattle and wrangle them is sometimes necessary.
Often, professional horseback riding coaches will also train you how to ride and lasso.
3-3. Learn to barrel race.
Modern cowgirls often participate and compete in rodeos, and barrel racing is the most popular event for women.
Barrel racing can actually be a money-maker for an experienced cowgirl. Some cowgirls even compete in rodeos for millions of dollars.
Cowgirls may also compete in cattle-related events like calf and steer roping.
Rodeo competitions are for cowgirls at very high skill levels only, so if you're just starting out as a cowgirl, don't think about entering a competition.
3-4. Have fun with it.
Being a cowgirl is about hard work, but it is also about having fun.
Remember that horses are also pets, and you can have fun riding and caring for them. They offer companionship and love, just like any other pet, and can become your new furry best friend.
Going to rodeos, taking lessons, and meeting girls with similar interests are all great parts about being a cowgirl. Making new friends and having fun doing what you love is a cowgirl necessity.
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Find out if this is the right choice for you.\\nBecoming a cowgirl requires a great deal of hard physical work and commitment, and therefore isn't for everyone.\\nYou should be willing to learn how to do physical things like riding a horse and roping cattle.\\nIf you don't like working with animals, being outside, or getting dirty, you might want to rethink becoming a cowgirl.\\n1-3. Visit a cattle ranch.\\nLearning how to work with cows is a traditional part of being a cowgirl, hence the title “cowgirl.”\\nLook online for a local farm or ranch that allows visitors, and see what it's like to work in there for a day. You can also volunteer at a farm or ranch to learn the basics.\\nMany cattle ranches also offer tours that teach you about living and working with cattle.\\nYou can learn a lot about cattle: how to feed cattle, how to herd cattle, how to wean cattle, even how to butcher cattle.\\n2. Dressing Like a Cowgirl\\n2-1. Know that it's not just about looking good.\\nCowgirls do hard, physical work, and their clothing needs to be functional, not just stylish.\\nMany of the stylistic elements associated with being a cowboy or cowgirl actually have a practical origin.\\nBecause cowgirls work with large animals, they will often be covered in dirt, blood, spit, and snot. It may sound gross, but it is a reality of the lifestyle.\\nThere is a lot of stylish, practical cowgirl clothing available online or at Western clothing stores.\\n2-2. Get the cowgirl basics.\\nThere are some items of clothing that every cowgirl needs in her wardrobe both for work and for play.\\nDenim jeans - they are comfortable, durable, wash easily, and protect your legs from getting cut or chafed. Boot cut jeans are best when you're wearing cowgirl boots.\\nLong-sleeved shirts - they can be worn all year long. In the summer, cowgirls will wear breathable, long-sleeved shirts to protect their arms while they're out in the hot sun all day. In the winter, a thicker long-sleeved shirt helps keep the cowgirl warm.\\nBoots - these are essential to a cowgirl's wardrobe. They were created to easily and comfortably fit into stirrups, protect the wearer from scratches and snake bites, and provide traction when leading horses or cattle, but are now made to be more stylish as well.\\nHats - they will protect a cowgirl's face from getting burned, and also protect her eyes from the sun.\\nDresses and skirts - they can be in any style, but good, clean denim is always in style for a cowgirl. Part of the fun of cowgirl fashion is wearing pretty dresses and cute denim skirts out to a concert, steak dinner, or the rodeo.\\nNice boots - they should be more decorative and a maybe a little less functional than your work boots, because you'll be wearing them out to dinner or parties.\\n2-3. Dress for the situation.\\nLike anyone else, cowgirls don't dress the exact same way for every occasion. Knowing what is appropriate to wear in different situations is important when it comes to cowgirl fashion.\\nA cowgirl isn't going to wear a fancy dress out horseback riding or cattle-roping, just as she wouldn't wear dirty jeans and muddy boots out to a nice dinner. Gauge what attire is appropriate for the situation.\\nVariety is important. Buy plenty of jeans and shirts for everyday wear, but also have dresses, nice shirts, dress pants, nice jeans, and fancy shoes in your closet for nicer occasions.\\nMake practicality your first concern with everyday dress, and style your second concern.\\n3. Acting Like a Cowgirl\\n3-1. Learn to ride a horse.\\nA horse is the cowgirl's closest companion, so an important step in acting like a cowgirl is learning to horseback ride.\\nTaking horse-riding lessons from a professional is the safest bet for beginners.\\nMany cities offer a variety of horseback riding classes suited for every age and experience level.\\nKnow which type of riding lessons you want to take. Some different styles of riding are Western, Endurance, Saddle seat, and Racing.Western style is the most appropriate for a working cowgirl.\\n3-2. Learn to rope cattle.\\nAfter you've mastered Western style horseback riding, you can learn how to rope cattle while riding.\\nCowgirls spend time on the ranch maneuvering cattle. Using a lasso to rope cattle and wrangle them is sometimes necessary.\\nOften, professional horseback riding coaches will also train you how to ride and lasso.\\n3-3. Learn to barrel race.\\nModern cowgirls often participate and compete in rodeos, and barrel racing is the most popular event for women.\\nBarrel racing can actually be a money-maker for an experienced cowgirl. Some cowgirls even compete in rodeos for millions of dollars.\\nCowgirls may also compete in cattle-related events like calf and steer roping.\\nRodeo competitions are for cowgirls at very high skill levels only, so if you're just starting out as a cowgirl, don't think about entering a competition.\\n3-4. Have fun with it.\\nBeing a cowgirl is about hard work, but it is also about having fun.\\nRemember that horses are also pets, and you can have fun riding and caring for them. They offer companionship and love, just like any other pet, and can become your new furry best friend.\\nGoing to rodeos, taking lessons, and meeting girls with similar interests are all great parts about being a cowgirl. Making new friends and having fun doing what you love is a cowgirl necessity.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A cowgirl was traditionally a girl or woman who herded cattle and worked on a ranch, but being a cowgirl today is so much more. Being a cowgirl is about knowing your cowgirl roots, dressing like a cowgirl, and acting like a cowgirl. Following these steps will get you on the path to earning your cowgirl credibility.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Adopting the Culture\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn cowgirl history.\", \"描述\": \"Knowing the origins of the cowgirl is essential to becoming a modern cowgirl.\\nCowboys and cowgirls originated in Texas.\\nAlthough cowgirl history is not documented as well as cowboy history, we know that cowgirls existed during the Golden Age of the cowboy (1866-1886).\\nWhile the men were either at war or driving thousands of cattle up north, cowgirls worked on the ranches, riding horses and caring for livestock.\\nThe modern cowgirl may also herd cattle and work on a ranch or farm, but cowgirl life today also involves riding in rodeos.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Find out if this is the right choice for you.\", \"描述\": \"Becoming a cowgirl requires a great deal of hard physical work and commitment, and therefore isn't for everyone.\\nYou should be willing to learn how to do physical things like riding a horse and roping cattle.\\nIf you don't like working with animals, being outside, or getting dirty, you might want to rethink becoming a cowgirl.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Visit a cattle ranch.\", \"描述\": \"Learning how to work with cows is a traditional part of being a cowgirl, hence the title “cowgirl.”\\nLook online for a local farm or ranch that allows visitors, and see what it's like to work in there for a day. You can also volunteer at a farm or ranch to learn the basics.\\nMany cattle ranches also offer tours that teach you about living and working with cattle.\\nYou can learn a lot about cattle: how to feed cattle, how to herd cattle, how to wean cattle, even how to butcher cattle.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Dressing Like a Cowgirl\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Know that it's not just about looking good.\", \"描述\": \"Cowgirls do hard, physical work, and their clothing needs to be functional, not just stylish.\\nMany of the stylistic elements associated with being a cowboy or cowgirl actually have a practical origin.\\nBecause cowgirls work with large animals, they will often be covered in dirt, blood, spit, and snot. It may sound gross, but it is a reality of the lifestyle.\\nThere is a lot of stylish, practical cowgirl clothing available online or at Western clothing stores.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Get the cowgirl basics.\", \"描述\": \"There are some items of clothing that every cowgirl needs in her wardrobe both for work and for play.\\nDenim jeans - they are comfortable, durable, wash easily, and protect your legs from getting cut or chafed. Boot cut jeans are best when you're wearing cowgirl boots.\\nLong-sleeved shirts - they can be worn all year long. In the summer, cowgirls will wear breathable, long-sleeved shirts to protect their arms while they're out in the hot sun all day. In the winter, a thicker long-sleeved shirt helps keep the cowgirl warm.\\nBoots - these are essential to a cowgirl's wardrobe. They were created to easily and comfortably fit into stirrups, protect the wearer from scratches and snake bites, and provide traction when leading horses or cattle, but are now made to be more stylish as well.\\nHats - they will protect a cowgirl's face from getting burned, and also protect her eyes from the sun.\\nDresses and skirts - they can be in any style, but good, clean denim is always in style for a cowgirl. Part of the fun of cowgirl fashion is wearing pretty dresses and cute denim skirts out to a concert, steak dinner, or the rodeo.\\nNice boots - they should be more decorative and a maybe a little less functional than your work boots, because you'll be wearing them out to dinner or parties.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Dress for the situation.\", \"描述\": \"Like anyone else, cowgirls don't dress the exact same way for every occasion. Knowing what is appropriate to wear in different situations is important when it comes to cowgirl fashion.\\nA cowgirl isn't going to wear a fancy dress out horseback riding or cattle-roping, just as she wouldn't wear dirty jeans and muddy boots out to a nice dinner. Gauge what attire is appropriate for the situation.\\nVariety is important. Buy plenty of jeans and shirts for everyday wear, but also have dresses, nice shirts, dress pants, nice jeans, and fancy shoes in your closet for nicer occasions.\\nMake practicality your first concern with everyday dress, and style your second concern.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Acting Like a Cowgirl\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn to ride a horse.\", \"描述\": \"A horse is the cowgirl's closest companion, so an important step in acting like a cowgirl is learning to horseback ride.\\nTaking horse-riding lessons from a professional is the safest bet for beginners.\\nMany cities offer a variety of horseback riding classes suited for every age and experience level.\\nKnow which type of riding lessons you want to take. 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How to Be a Creative Thinker
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1. Feeding Your Brain
1-1. Read extensively.
Part of being creative is knowing enough about the world to understand how things work. Also, the more you know, the more perspective you'll incorporate into your own, and you'll be able to connect ideas that you might not have been able to do before. Reading is one of the best ways to expand your knowledge base and to broaden your perspective.
Enjoy variety. Read on a lot of different things. This way, when it comes time to put your knowledge and creativity to the test, you’ll be able to apply your knowledge cross-field and cross-discipline.
Read imaginatively. Don’t just focus on scholarly monographs or instructional materials. Spend time reading fantasy, science fiction, or some sort of genre that will help expand your horizons about what is possible.
Read about things you don’t know anything about.
Make reading a habit. Avoid falling into the trap of forcing yourself to read one book a week or one book a month. Instead, find books and other reading materials that you enjoy and put them everywhere. Use spare moments and downtime to explore these worlds of knowledge.
1-2. Collaborate with others, especially if you work well with someone.
Sometimes just talking through a problem or brainstorming with another person will help you move an idea along that has been stagnant in your brain for a little bit. In this event, find someone who understands the sort of problem or issue you’re trying to work through, they might have a different perspective that will allow you to solve the problem in a creative way.
1-3. Talk to people.
Use any occasion to broaden your perspective by engaging new and different people. Interesting and different people are all around us. There is no telling how they will influence your creative instinct. Use opportunities like:
Parties.
Business meetings.
Community events.
1-4. Avoid activities that don’t challenge you or just reinforce what you already know or already think.
A lot of people develop routines and commit large amounts of time to the same activities that they’ve always engaged in. These activities don’t really challenge you to think creatively and oftentimes won’t help you grow as a person. Think about minimizing the time you spend on the following:
Watching television, specifically programs you watch all the time.
Playing games or sports you’ve already mastered. If you’re a master chess or checkers player, and beat the computer or your friends every time, chances are that those games aren’t helping you grow. Consider different games or sports.
Socializing with people who bore you or engaging in social activities that restrict your creative impulses.
1-5. Visit places that spur your own creativity.
Sometimes we need stimuli that will feed our own creative impulses. There are a number of ways to get such stimuli, and they’ll likely be fun, interesting, and engaging. Consider:
Art galleries, art fairs, or festivals. You’ll see many things you don’t normally come into contact with, and that might get you thinking about something new.
Attend concerts, symphonies, or music festivals.
Watch a play, an opera, go visit a museum.
Attend a public lecture, talk, or a presentation.
1-6. Spend some time in nature.
Whether a walk on the beach or a ride down the nearest tree-lined boulevard, the power and beauty of nature can help anyone step back and look at the big picture. When in a positive state of mind, you might be able to see connections that you did not before.
2. Training Your Brain
2-1. Embrace your failures.
Failure is a necessary part of the creative and learning experience. Embrace it as such, and commit yourself to learning from your failures and your mistakes. This way, you'll grow to see every failure as an opportunity for improvement and innovation rather than an obstacle or a limit on your success.
Creativity isn't something that you are born with or without. It's a skill that can be developed and a muscle that needs to be flexed. Thus, failures are just part of the growing and strengthening process.
2-2. Make a mind map that will help you visualize your thoughts.
Sometimes we get ideas that seem to vanish before we’ve committed them to paper. Many thoughts are seemingly random and disconnected. Try drawing a mind map on a piece of paper. Now, because you can see your ideas, you might be able to understand them and their relationships better.
List your seemingly random ideas.
Pick some of your most intriguing ideas, and write them on various places on a sheet of paper. Place them according to how you think they are connected.
Draw lines connecting ideas.
Draw spur lines of important ideas and connect them to lesser ideas.
2-3. Reserve some time alone so that you can think about stuff.
Taking a little time to contemplate the world or to reflect on things will help expand your horizons. Spending time alone will also enable you to consider problems you’ve been trying to work through and find new solutions that you might not have thought about before.
2-4. Dedicate yourself to having an open mind.
Having an open mind will enable you to think about problems that you might not have thought about before. You’ll also be able to engage ides and ways of doing things that you were previously hesitant about.
Part of this is accepting the position that there are often many ways to solve a problem or achieve a goal.
Accept that there are many ways to view the world. Then you can see that there are many ways to be creative and solve problems.
Understand that you don’t know everything, and every activity is a learning experience.
Consider unpopular or even “weird” ways of viewing things or solving problems. These unconventional ideas or views might just give you a creative spark.
2-5. Work with your hands and/or your head to create new things.
Actual creating is the best practice to train your brain for creativity. There are a number of things you can do to train your brain in this way:
Drawing. If you enjoy drawing, draw. It does not really matter if you think you're good at it.
Writing. If you enjoy writing, write. Actual writing (fiction or non-fiction) is the best way to hone and develop your thoughts and your creative impulse.
Build. If you enjoy building things, whether it be abstract art or basic carpentry, you should build. This will stimulate your creative juices, and you might wind up building something really cool!
If you have any inkling of creativity, whether that's arranging your bedroom, cooking, or calligraphy, practice that too!
2-6. Re-conceptualize problems.
Try to get outside of your comfort zone and the “box” you typically function within. Think about a problem you are trying to solve in different ways. Embrace different perspectives, and maybe try to view the problem as an opportunity. For example:
If your goal is to build a fence, think about the purpose of building a fence. Then focus on what you hope to achieve by building a fence. If you’re trying to keep deer from eating your prize flowers, maybe consider other options like spraying your flowers with organic soap to deter the deer.
If you’re trying to solve the problem of fuel efficiency in car, perhaps think about it as a transportation problem instead. Instead of just trying to build a more fuel efficiency engine, you can scale down the size of a car or even identify alternate modes of transportation for people.
Don’t fear starting all over if you think a line of inquiry or something you’ve been working on has failed you. Just start over and re-conceptualize.
2-7. Differentiate between creativity and productivity.
Remember, being productive and creative are different. You just need to judge for yourself when you need to be creative and when you need to achieve productivity, or both.
Someone can be highly productive while not being creative at all.
Creativity entails finding new ways to solve problems and making or creating things that are unique.
Productivity entails producing something, but can often be done in a non-creative and workman-like way.
3. Finding a Creative Time and Space
3-1. Give yourself time to think.
You can do this both before you start working and during your work. Dedicated “think-time” can only help you, especially if you’re having trouble finding creative solutions to long-standing problems.
Spend a little time thinking before you start work.
Take breaks throughout to think about what you’re doing.
Whenever you meet an unexpected challenge, take a break to think about that challenge. Maybe you’ll consider a solution you hadn’t thought of before.
It's fine if you don't even know what you're going to do during this carved out creative time. The important thing is to let yourself be, and to let the inspiration come when it will.
3-2. Work at the best time for you.
Studies have shown that people’s optimal times for cognitive capacity vary. Figure out when you think best and try to work and be creative at that time. Other studies have shown that some people are most creative at times when they are least productive in a conventional sense. Experiment and try to find out when you’re most creative and inventive. This is different for every person.
3-3. Construct a work environment that fosters creativity.
Oftentimes the most structured and orderly environments don’t promote creativity. Try to create an environment that fosters your own personal creativity.
Put up images or posters that demonstrate the creative impulse.
Create a non-orthodox working area, like putting a couch in your office.
Move around while you work. Some people like to stand while they work at their desk. Others walk slowly on a treadmill while they read, write, or think.
3-4. Devote time to being creative, but don’t try to “plan” creative time.
While sometimes new and innovative ideas might come to you when you’re occupied with something else, you should probably devote a little time to brainstorming and to working ideas out.
Spend half an hour before bed thinking about things, if this works for you.
Take a little time from your lunch to think about problems.
Whenever you feel like your creative “juices” are flowing, stop whatever you’re doing (if you can), and work through those ideas.
3-5. Avoid structure and routine all the time.
While structure and routine are very helpful and can promote productivity, they might also stifle creativity if they dominate your existence. Instead, reserve structure and routine for when you must absolutely be productive, and allow yourself to be less structured at other times in order to nurture your own creativity.
3-6. Enjoy limitations when it comes to creating.
Limitations, in terms of time and physical supplies, can help spur creative solutions to problems. When it comes to problem solving or creating, enjoy the fact that you are limited by time and/or materials. Think about other ways to achieve your goal that might save time or supplies.
Jeff Bezos said, "I think frugality drives innovation, just like other constraints do. One of the only ways to get out of a tight box is to invent your way out."
Rules, constraints, and limitations force you to think creatively. So next time you’re blaming your manager or client for thinking too small, you should thank them.
Tips
Don’t be afraid of failure. Some of the people most famous for creativity have failed many times. Failure is part of the creative process, and will provide you with insight when going forward.
Do something that you cannot.
Don’t quit. Keep working. Remember, Winner never quit and quitter never win. A creative solution could be right around the corner!
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Instead of just trying to build a more fuel efficiency engine, you can scale down the size of a car or even identify alternate modes of transportation for people.\\nDon’t fear starting all over if you think a line of inquiry or something you’ve been working on has failed you. Just start over and re-conceptualize.\\n2-7. Differentiate between creativity and productivity.\\nRemember, being productive and creative are different. You just need to judge for yourself when you need to be creative and when you need to achieve productivity, or both.\\nSomeone can be highly productive while not being creative at all.\\nCreativity entails finding new ways to solve problems and making or creating things that are unique.\\nProductivity entails producing something, but can often be done in a non-creative and workman-like way.\\n3. Finding a Creative Time and Space\\n3-1. Give yourself time to think.\\nYou can do this both before you start working and during your work. 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Devote time to being creative, but don’t try to “plan” creative time.\\nWhile sometimes new and innovative ideas might come to you when you’re occupied with something else, you should probably devote a little time to brainstorming and to working ideas out.\\nSpend half an hour before bed thinking about things, if this works for you.\\nTake a little time from your lunch to think about problems.\\nWhenever you feel like your creative “juices” are flowing, stop whatever you’re doing (if you can), and work through those ideas.\\n3-5. Avoid structure and routine all the time.\\nWhile structure and routine are very helpful and can promote productivity, they might also stifle creativity if they dominate your existence. Instead, reserve structure and routine for when you must absolutely be productive, and allow yourself to be less structured at other times in order to nurture your own creativity.\\n3-6. Enjoy limitations when it comes to creating.\\nLimitations, in terms of time and physical supplies, can help spur creative solutions to problems. When it comes to problem solving or creating, enjoy the fact that you are limited by time and/or materials. Think about other ways to achieve your goal that might save time or supplies.\\nJeff Bezos said, \\\"I think frugality drives innovation, just like other constraints do. One of the only ways to get out of a tight box is to invent your way out.\\\"\\nRules, constraints, and limitations force you to think creatively. So next time you’re blaming your manager or client for thinking too small, you should thank them.\\nTips\\nDon’t be afraid of failure. Some of the people most famous for creativity have failed many times. Failure is part of the creative process, and will provide you with insight when going forward.\\nDo something that you cannot.\\nDon’t quit. Keep working. Remember, Winner never quit and quitter never win. A creative solution could be right around the corner!\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being creative is one of the most important elements of solving problems and innovating. Yet sometimes we have problems being creative. A lack of creativity can be frustrating and can sometimes limit your ability to excel in your career or personal life. But don’t worry, with a little work and a few helpful tactics, you can nurture your creativity and find new approaches to innovating and solving problems.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Feeding Your Brain\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Read extensively.\", \"描述\": \"Part of being creative is knowing enough about the world to understand how things work. Also, the more you know, the more perspective you'll incorporate into your own, and you'll be able to connect ideas that you might not have been able to do before. Reading is one of the best ways to expand your knowledge base and to broaden your perspective.\\nEnjoy variety. Read on a lot of different things. This way, when it comes time to put your knowledge and creativity to the test, you’ll be able to apply your knowledge cross-field and cross-discipline.\\nRead imaginatively. Don’t just focus on scholarly monographs or instructional materials. Spend time reading fantasy, science fiction, or some sort of genre that will help expand your horizons about what is possible.\\nRead about things you don’t know anything about.\\nMake reading a habit. Avoid falling into the trap of forcing yourself to read one book a week or one book a month. Instead, find books and other reading materials that you enjoy and put them everywhere. Use spare moments and downtime to explore these worlds of knowledge.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Collaborate with others, especially if you work well with someone.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes just talking through a problem or brainstorming with another person will help you move an idea along that has been stagnant in your brain for a little bit. In this event, find someone who understands the sort of problem or issue you’re trying to work through, they might have a different perspective that will allow you to solve the problem in a creative way.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Talk to people.\", \"描述\": \"Use any occasion to broaden your perspective by engaging new and different people. Interesting and different people are all around us. There is no telling how they will influence your creative instinct. Use opportunities like:\\nParties.\\nBusiness meetings.\\nCommunity events.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Avoid activities that don’t challenge you or just reinforce what you already know or already think.\", \"描述\": \"A lot of people develop routines and commit large amounts of time to the same activities that they’ve always engaged in. These activities don’t really challenge you to think creatively and oftentimes won’t help you grow as a person. Think about minimizing the time you spend on the following:\\nWatching television, specifically programs you watch all the time.\\nPlaying games or sports you’ve already mastered. If you’re a master chess or checkers player, and beat the computer or your friends every time, chances are that those games aren’t helping you grow. Consider different games or sports.\\nSocializing with people who bore you or engaging in social activities that restrict your creative impulses.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Visit places that spur your own creativity.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes we need stimuli that will feed our own creative impulses. There are a number of ways to get such stimuli, and they’ll likely be fun, interesting, and engaging. Consider:\\nArt galleries, art fairs, or festivals. You’ll see many things you don’t normally come into contact with, and that might get you thinking about something new.\\nAttend concerts, symphonies, or music festivals.\\nWatch a play, an opera, go visit a museum.\\nAttend a public lecture, talk, or a presentation.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Spend some time in nature.\", \"描述\": \"Whether a walk on the beach or a ride down the nearest tree-lined boulevard, the power and beauty of nature can help anyone step back and look at the big picture. 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Try drawing a mind map on a piece of paper. Now, because you can see your ideas, you might be able to understand them and their relationships better.\\nList your seemingly random ideas.\\nPick some of your most intriguing ideas, and write them on various places on a sheet of paper. Place them according to how you think they are connected.\\nDraw lines connecting ideas.\\nDraw spur lines of important ideas and connect them to lesser ideas.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Reserve some time alone so that you can think about stuff.\", \"描述\": \"Taking a little time to contemplate the world or to reflect on things will help expand your horizons. Spending time alone will also enable you to consider problems you’ve been trying to work through and find new solutions that you might not have thought about before.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Dedicate yourself to having an open mind.\", \"描述\": \"Having an open mind will enable you to think about problems that you might not have thought about before. You’ll also be able to engage ides and ways of doing things that you were previously hesitant about.\\nPart of this is accepting the position that there are often many ways to solve a problem or achieve a goal.\\nAccept that there are many ways to view the world. Then you can see that there are many ways to be creative and solve problems.\\nUnderstand that you don’t know everything, and every activity is a learning experience.\\nConsider unpopular or even “weird” ways of viewing things or solving problems. These unconventional ideas or views might just give you a creative spark.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Work with your hands and/or your head to create new things.\", \"描述\": \"Actual creating is the best practice to train your brain for creativity. There are a number of things you can do to train your brain in this way:\\nDrawing. If you enjoy drawing, draw. It does not really matter if you think you're good at it.\\nWriting. If you enjoy writing, write. Actual writing (fiction or non-fiction) is the best way to hone and develop your thoughts and your creative impulse.\\nBuild. If you enjoy building things, whether it be abstract art or basic carpentry, you should build. This will stimulate your creative juices, and you might wind up building something really cool!\\nIf you have any inkling of creativity, whether that's arranging your bedroom, cooking, or calligraphy, practice that too!\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Re-conceptualize problems.\", \"描述\": \"Try to get outside of your comfort zone and the “box” you typically function within. Think about a problem you are trying to solve in different ways. Embrace different perspectives, and maybe try to view the problem as an opportunity. For example:\\nIf your goal is to build a fence, think about the purpose of building a fence. Then focus on what you hope to achieve by building a fence. If you’re trying to keep deer from eating your prize flowers, maybe consider other options like spraying your flowers with organic soap to deter the deer.\\nIf you’re trying to solve the problem of fuel efficiency in car, perhaps think about it as a transportation problem instead. Instead of just trying to build a more fuel efficiency engine, you can scale down the size of a car or even identify alternate modes of transportation for people.\\nDon’t fear starting all over if you think a line of inquiry or something you’ve been working on has failed you. Just start over and re-conceptualize.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Differentiate between creativity and productivity.\", \"描述\": \"Remember, being productive and creative are different. You just need to judge for yourself when you need to be creative and when you need to achieve productivity, or both.\\nSomeone can be highly productive while not being creative at all.\\nCreativity entails finding new ways to solve problems and making or creating things that are unique.\\nProductivity entails producing something, but can often be done in a non-creative and workman-like way.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Finding a Creative Time and Space\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Give yourself time to think.\", \"描述\": \"You can do this both before you start working and during your work. Dedicated “think-time” can only help you, especially if you’re having trouble finding creative solutions to long-standing problems.\\nSpend a little time thinking before you start work.\\nTake breaks throughout to think about what you’re doing.\\nWhenever you meet an unexpected challenge, take a break to think about that challenge. Maybe you’ll consider a solution you hadn’t thought of before.\\nIt's fine if you don't even know what you're going to do during this carved out creative time. The important thing is to let yourself be, and to let the inspiration come when it will.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Work at the best time for you.\", \"描述\": \"Studies have shown that people’s optimal times for cognitive capacity vary. Figure out when you think best and try to work and be creative at that time. Other studies have shown that some people are most creative at times when they are least productive in a conventional sense. Experiment and try to find out when you’re most creative and inventive. This is different for every person.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Construct a work environment that fosters creativity.\", \"描述\": \"Oftentimes the most structured and orderly environments don’t promote creativity. Try to create an environment that fosters your own personal creativity.\\nPut up images or posters that demonstrate the creative impulse.\\nCreate a non-orthodox working area, like putting a couch in your office.\\nMove around while you work. Some people like to stand while they work at their desk. Others walk slowly on a treadmill while they read, write, or think.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Devote time to being creative, but don’t try to “plan” creative time.\", \"描述\": \"While sometimes new and innovative ideas might come to you when you’re occupied with something else, you should probably devote a little time to brainstorming and to working ideas out.\\nSpend half an hour before bed thinking about things, if this works for you.\\nTake a little time from your lunch to think about problems.\\nWhenever you feel like your creative “juices” are flowing, stop whatever you’re doing (if you can), and work through those ideas.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Avoid structure and routine all the time.\", \"描述\": \"While structure and routine are very helpful and can promote productivity, they might also stifle creativity if they dominate your existence. Instead, reserve structure and routine for when you must absolutely be productive, and allow yourself to be less structured at other times in order to nurture your own creativity.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Enjoy limitations when it comes to creating.\", \"描述\": \"Limitations, in terms of time and physical supplies, can help spur creative solutions to problems. When it comes to problem solving or creating, enjoy the fact that you are limited by time and/or materials. Think about other ways to achieve your goal that might save time or supplies.\\nJeff Bezos said, \\\"I think frugality drives innovation, just like other constraints do. One of the only ways to get out of a tight box is to invent your way out.\\\"\\nRules, constraints, and limitations force you to think creatively. So next time you’re blaming your manager or client for thinking too small, you should thank them.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Don’t be afraid of failure. Some of the people most famous for creativity have failed many times. Failure is part of the creative process, and will provide you with insight when going forward.\\n\", \"Do something that you cannot.\\n\", \"Don’t quit. Keep working. Remember, Winner never quit and quitter never win. A creative solution could be right around the corner!\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Defining the Problem
1-1. Write the problem down.
Getting the problem down in concrete language helps to clarify and simplify your issue. This can make it seems more manageable and move you forward on dealing with the problem head-on. Additionally, simplification of the language you use can serve to reduce reactions such as being overwhelmed by the complexity of an issue.
One example of a possible problem is that you procrastinate (wait until the last minute) on important tasks. Write down what your specific issue is that you need resolved.
Define the problem in the simplest terms possible. If procrastination is the issue, simply write down procrastination instead of, “I always wait until the last minute to complete projects and this is stressful.”
1-2. Make sure the problem needs fixing.
Have you ever heard the saying, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it?” This mantra also applies to identifying problems. Sometimes we can be quick to judge and identify problems when there aren’t any.
For example, if you think procrastination is the issue, are there also ways that it is not a problem? Is it possible that it does not create stress and helps you focus on getting your work done (some people need the pressure to work)? Is it possible that others may not like that you procrastinate, but it doesn’t hurt anyone and doesn’t seem to affect you getting your work done? Thus, if the problem does not seem to have identifiable consequences, it might not be a top priority problem, or may not be a problem at all. In other words, perhaps you think you procrastinate but you don't.
1-3. Create a pros and cons list for solving your problem.
Identifying the pros and cons of solving a problem can help you identify whether the problem is worth fixing, or if it is a high priority issue. A cost-benefit analysis involves identifying the positives of solving the problem, as well as the negatives of not solving the problem.
Write down what will happen if the problem is not resolved. In the example of procrastination, the consequences might be that others may continue to comment on your procrastination, you may have difficulty prioritizing tasks, you may have increases in stress, and your work quality may suffer if you don't give yourself enough time to complete a project.
Write down and recognize the benefits of solving the problem. For example, the benefits of solving procrastination might be: less stress at the last minute, quality of work will increase due to more time, will have more time to complete work, and bosses and coworkers will be less concerned about the procrastination. If you identify that there are many benefits to solving the problem, then it is probably worth solving and may be a high priority issue.
1-4. Identify all of the components of the issue.
Learn to be comprehensive. Identify the components of the problem in their entirety. Include the people involved, the content, and the context.
Write down everything you know about the problem and all of the components that you think contribute to the problem. Pertaining to procrastination, this list might look like: distractions such as television/internet, avoidance of tasks that take a long time, scheduling problems (not enough time), and low frustration tolerance. These issues could be associated with organizational skills.
Try creating a problem tree with your main issue on the trunk of the tree, and the associated components on the branches of the tree. This way can you visualize what your problem looks like and how the other issues contribute to the main problem.
1-5. Focus on one problem at a time.
In defining your issue, make sure it is specific. Sometimes one problem can have many components, so it is important to focus on a specific and detailed problem before attempting to solve the big picture issue.
For example, procrastination could be a small part of the bigger problem that your work quality is suffering and your boss wants you to make fewer mistakes. Instead of trying to combat the issue of work quality (which could be very complex), you would identify all of the components that contribute to the issue and work on each component separately as its own issue.
One way to understand this is to make a graphic representation or “problem/solution tree” of the bigger issue versus the smaller issues. You would place the bigger issue in the center (organizational issues with affect work quality), and the components of the issue would branch out from the center. Components contributing to the bigger issue might be things like: getting enough sleep, paying close attention, managing time, and procrastination. Notice that procrastination is just one component of the big picture issue of work quality and/or organizational issues.
1-6. Write down your goals.
In order to begin to solve a problem you need to understand what final result you want. Ask yourself, “What do I want to accomplish by solving this issue?”
Make your goals specific, realistic, and time-limited. In other words, give yourself a specific amount of time that you need to accomplish the goal or solve the problem. Some goals may take 1 week while others will take 6 months.
For example, if your goal is solved your issue of procrastination, this might be a very long-term goal since some habits can be deeply ingrained and difficult to break. However, you can make the goal smaller, more realistic, and time-limited by saying, “I want to get at least 1 project done 1 day before it is due in the next 2 weeks.” This goal is specific (1 project done ahead of time), realistic (1 project instead of every project), and time-limited (in the next two weeks).
2. Researching and Imagining Solutions
2-1. Recognize ways you have solved similar issues.
Chances are, you’ve encountered a similar problem in the past. Identify times in the past that you have dealt with your issue or a similar issue. What did you do? Did it work? What else might have helped?
Write all of these thoughts down on paper or on the computer.
2-2. Find ways others have solved the problem.
If you haven’t had this problem in the past, it will be helpful to identify how others have solved the issue. How did they go about finding a solution? Was their solution straightforward and simple or did it involve multiple aspects and components?
Observe and ask questions. Watch the way others perform. Ask others how they have solved similar problems.
2-3. Identify possible options.
Once you have researched possible options or solutions to the issue, you can begin to bring these ideas together, organize, and evaluate them.
Compile a list of all possible solutions. Write down every way to solve the problem you can think of. In the example of procrastination, your list might involve: keeping a strict schedule, prioritizing tasks, writing daily reminders of important tasks, making realistic evaluations of time needed to complete projects, getting help when needed, and beginning a task at least one day earlier than needed. These are organizational and time management skills that can be learned. There will most likely be many ways to work toward solving the issue. You may also identify other behaviors that reduce the likelihood of procrastination such as: getting adequate sleep, exercising to cope with stress, and eating a healthy diet (to increase and maintain overall health).
2-4. Think about the problem abstractly.
Thinking of the problem or question in a different way can open new paths in your brain. Your mind can have a new starting point to track in your memory or make connections within your brain. Try to think more broadly or abstractly about the issue. For example, if the issue is procrastination, another way you can think about it that perhaps you need stress in order to get things done. In this line of thinking, you will need to solve the problem of needing stress to perform instead of the procrastination itself.
Consider philosophical, religious, cultural, and components of your issue.
2-5. Approach the situation from a different angle.
Think of potential solutions as if you were a child discovering the world for the first time.
Try doing free writing or brainstorming in order to generate new ideas. Simply write down everything you think of in regards to possible solutions to the issue. Analyze your list and consider some of the options that you may not normally consider or that you think won’t work.
Consider alternative views that you normally wouldn’t. Entertain outlandish suggestions from others and at least consider them as options. For example, if procrastination is a constant struggle, perhaps making someone else do your work for you might solve your issue. This may sound silly, but even the most outlandish ideas can have a grain of truth in them. For this idea, perhaps asking for help on difficult tasks is not something you considered because getting assistance seems impractical. However, getting help can be very helpful indeed.
Do not set limits. Look at the absurd. The answer may go against convention.
Take risks. Open-mindedness can be associated with taking appropriate risks, and learning from your mistakes.
2-6. Imagine that the problem is solved.
This is a useful technique called the “miracle question,” which is an intervention used in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Imagining the effects of the solution can help individuals think about the possibility of achieving a solution.
Imagine that a miracle occurred during the night and you woke up in the morning and this problem has magically disappeared. How would it feel? What would it look like?
Work backwards from the solution and imagine what might have needed to happen in order for your problem to go away.
3. Evaluating Solutions
3-1. Create a cost-benefit analysis to decide on solutions.
Once you’ve identified all possible solutions you can create a pros and cons list about each idea. Write down each solution and identify the Pros and Cons of using it as part of your solution. If it has more positives than negatives it might be a helpful resource.
Try finding a cost-benefit chart online and fill it in.
3-2. Rate each solution.
Based on your pros and cons list, rate each solution from 1-10, 1 being least helpful and 10 being the most helpful. The most helpful solutions will produce the biggest effect on reducing the problem. For example, a very helpful solution to procrastination might be keeping a strict schedule, while getting more sleep at night will have less of an overall effect on the issue. Thus, the most helpful solutions will directly affect or target the problem.
Once you have developed your ratings, write them down from 1-10 on paper or the computer. This way you can refer back to it once you have implemented your choice solution. If your first solution does not work, you can revisit the list and try your second solution and so on. You can also apply several solutions at once (instead of one at a time).
3-3. Ask for input.
Social support and guidance is an integral component of problem-solving. However, research implies that we may tend to underestimate how much other people are willing to assist us. It is important to not let your own fear of not being helped prevent you from asking for assistance when you really need it. If you cannot decide on a solution, or you are simply unfamiliar with the territory, it might be helpful to get input from others that have solved a similar issue.
Talk to a friend who shares the issue or has solved the issue in the past.
If the problem is work-related, discuss it with a co-worker whom you trust if they have experience dealing with your problem.
If the problem is personal, have a conversation with a family member or partner who knows you particularly well.
Get professional help from someone who is an expert in solving the problem you have.
4. Exercising Your Brain to Enhance Problem-Solving Abilities
4-1. Gain new experiences.
Exercising your brain through new experiences can help you to increase your creative thinking and problem solving abilities. With learning and experience comes creativity.
Learn something new. Watch movies, read or look at pieces of art in genres or styles that would normally be of no interest. Read more about them.
Try learning how to play an instrument. Studies suggest that playing an instrument can help children achieve success academically. Perhaps learning to play an instrument helps exercise parts of your brain that control important functioning including: attention, coordination, and creativity.
4-2. Play games.
Some research suggests that playing games such as Super Mario can increase brain plasticity. This result has implications for increasing memory, performance, and overall cognitive functioning. Games that use skills such as planning, mathematics, logic, and reflexes can be especially helpful in exercising your brain power.
Some types of brain games to try include: logic puzzles, crosswords, trivia, word finds, and Sudoku.
Try Lumosity, the brain-training application for your phone.
Try Gamesforyourbrain.com or Fitbrains.com.
4-3. Read and learn new vocabulary.
Reading has been implicated in a wide variety of cognitive functions. A higher vocabulary has also been linked to more success and higher socioeconomic status.
Look at dictionary.com and find the "Word of the Day." Use the word several times during the day.
Simply reading more often will increase your vocabulary.
4-4. Use your non-dominant hand.
Perform tasks with your left hand that you would normally do with your right (or vice versa if you are left handed). This can form new neural pathways and may diversify your reasoning capacity, as well as increase your creativity and open-mindedness.
Try simple tasks first like brushing your hair and using your phone before you try other activities.
5. Cultivating Creativity to Increase Problem-Solving Skills
5-1. Expand your horizons.
Creativity is defined as a combination of imagination, knowledge, and evaluation. Improving your creativity can help you increase your problem-solving abilities overall.
In order to engage your creative side more, try new activities such as: drawing, painting, dancing, cooking, playing music, writing in a journal, writing stories, or designing/creating anything else you can think of!
5-2. Try free association.
Also known as brain-storming, free association writing can be helpful to generate new ideas or ways of solving problems.
Write down the first things that come to mind when you think of the word creativity. Now, do the same with the word problem-solving.
Write down what your problem is and any words that immediately come to mind that are associate with your problem including feelings, behaviors, and ideas. A brain-storm for procrastination might look like: anger, frustration, busy, tasks, distraction, avoidance, boss, disappointment, worry, late, distressed, and overwhelmed.
Now brain-storm solutions to the problem (what might be involved and how it would feel). For procrastination this might look like: reduce distraction, quiet place, clean desk, tight schedule, calm, happy, relaxed, confident, understanding, no stress, free, peace, cleanliness, relationships, timely, and organized.
5-3. Draw solutions.
Graphic representations have been indicated in developing creative problem solving skills in children. Using art is one creative way to think about problems and solutions differently.
Try doing an art therapy exercise. Take a piece of paper and put a line down the middle. One the left side draw your problem. For example, if procrastination is the issue you might draw a picture of yourself at a desk with loads of papers and assignments on your desk, while you are in the picture texting on your phone. Once you have drawn the problem, draw on the other side of the paper a representation of what the solution might look like. For example, this might be a picture of you with your desk clean, phone away, working quietly at your desk.
5-4. Put it out of your mind.
If you are stressed out about a decision or problem, it can block you from being productive, thinking clearly, and reaching a conclusion or solution. If this is the case, it might be helpful to take a break. Oftentimes we can refresh and re-open our mind simply by relaxing and doing something unrelated to the problem.
Try distracting yourself with a pleasurable activity such as reading and then come back to the problem when you feel refreshed.
5-5. Sleep on it.
Research suggests that your brain continues to process and problem-solve during sleep. Your dreams may even try to help you solve your problem.
Pay attention to the dreams you have following a problem and identify any possible solutions that your subconscious mind came up with.
Tips
Be patient. Patterns of thought take time to change.
Spur your interest with a reward.
Learn from your mistakes.
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Sometimes we can be quick to judge and identify problems when there aren’t any.\\nFor example, if you think procrastination is the issue, are there also ways that it is not a problem? Is it possible that it does not create stress and helps you focus on getting your work done (some people need the pressure to work)? Is it possible that others may not like that you procrastinate, but it doesn’t hurt anyone and doesn’t seem to affect you getting your work done? Thus, if the problem does not seem to have identifiable consequences, it might not be a top priority problem, or may not be a problem at all. In other words, perhaps you think you procrastinate but you don't.\\n1-3. Create a pros and cons list for solving your problem.\\nIdentifying the pros and cons of solving a problem can help you identify whether the problem is worth fixing, or if it is a high priority issue. 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Identify all of the components of the issue.\\nLearn to be comprehensive. Identify the components of the problem in their entirety. Include the people involved, the content, and the context.\\nWrite down everything you know about the problem and all of the components that you think contribute to the problem. Pertaining to procrastination, this list might look like: distractions such as television/internet, avoidance of tasks that take a long time, scheduling problems (not enough time), and low frustration tolerance. These issues could be associated with organizational skills.\\nTry creating a problem tree with your main issue on the trunk of the tree, and the associated components on the branches of the tree. This way can you visualize what your problem looks like and how the other issues contribute to the main problem.\\n1-5. Focus on one problem at a time.\\nIn defining your issue, make sure it is specific. 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Notice that procrastination is just one component of the big picture issue of work quality and/or organizational issues.\\n1-6. Write down your goals.\\nIn order to begin to solve a problem you need to understand what final result you want. Ask yourself, “What do I want to accomplish by solving this issue?”\\nMake your goals specific, realistic, and time-limited. In other words, give yourself a specific amount of time that you need to accomplish the goal or solve the problem. Some goals may take 1 week while others will take 6 months.\\nFor example, if your goal is solved your issue of procrastination, this might be a very long-term goal since some habits can be deeply ingrained and difficult to break. However, you can make the goal smaller, more realistic, and time-limited by saying, “I want to get at least 1 project done 1 day before it is due in the next 2 weeks.” This goal is specific (1 project done ahead of time), realistic (1 project instead of every project), and time-limited (in the next two weeks).\\n2. Researching and Imagining Solutions\\n2-1. Recognize ways you have solved similar issues.\\nChances are, you’ve encountered a similar problem in the past. Identify times in the past that you have dealt with your issue or a similar issue. What did you do? Did it work? What else might have helped?\\nWrite all of these thoughts down on paper or on the computer.\\n2-2. Find ways others have solved the problem.\\nIf you haven’t had this problem in the past, it will be helpful to identify how others have solved the issue. How did they go about finding a solution? Was their solution straightforward and simple or did it involve multiple aspects and components?\\nObserve and ask questions. Watch the way others perform. Ask others how they have solved similar problems.\\n2-3. Identify possible options.\\nOnce you have researched possible options or solutions to the issue, you can begin to bring these ideas together, organize, and evaluate them.\\nCompile a list of all possible solutions. Write down every way to solve the problem you can think of. In the example of procrastination, your list might involve: keeping a strict schedule, prioritizing tasks, writing daily reminders of important tasks, making realistic evaluations of time needed to complete projects, getting help when needed, and beginning a task at least one day earlier than needed. These are organizational and time management skills that can be learned. There will most likely be many ways to work toward solving the issue. You may also identify other behaviors that reduce the likelihood of procrastination such as: getting adequate sleep, exercising to cope with stress, and eating a healthy diet (to increase and maintain overall health).\\n2-4. Think about the problem abstractly.\\nThinking of the problem or question in a different way can open new paths in your brain. Your mind can have a new starting point to track in your memory or make connections within your brain. Try to think more broadly or abstractly about the issue. For example, if the issue is procrastination, another way you can think about it that perhaps you need stress in order to get things done. In this line of thinking, you will need to solve the problem of needing stress to perform instead of the procrastination itself.\\nConsider philosophical, religious, cultural, and components of your issue.\\n2-5. Approach the situation from a different angle.\\nThink of potential solutions as if you were a child discovering the world for the first time.\\nTry doing free writing or brainstorming in order to generate new ideas. Simply write down everything you think of in regards to possible solutions to the issue. Analyze your list and consider some of the options that you may not normally consider or that you think won’t work.\\nConsider alternative views that you normally wouldn’t. Entertain outlandish suggestions from others and at least consider them as options. For example, if procrastination is a constant struggle, perhaps making someone else do your work for you might solve your issue. This may sound silly, but even the most outlandish ideas can have a grain of truth in them. For this idea, perhaps asking for help on difficult tasks is not something you considered because getting assistance seems impractical. However, getting help can be very helpful indeed.\\nDo not set limits. Look at the absurd. The answer may go against convention.\\nTake risks. Open-mindedness can be associated with taking appropriate risks, and learning from your mistakes.\\n2-6. Imagine that the problem is solved.\\nThis is a useful technique called the “miracle question,” which is an intervention used in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Imagining the effects of the solution can help individuals think about the possibility of achieving a solution.\\nImagine that a miracle occurred during the night and you woke up in the morning and this problem has magically disappeared. How would it feel? What would it look like?\\nWork backwards from the solution and imagine what might have needed to happen in order for your problem to go away.\\n3. Evaluating Solutions\\n3-1. Create a cost-benefit analysis to decide on solutions.\\nOnce you’ve identified all possible solutions you can create a pros and cons list about each idea. Write down each solution and identify the Pros and Cons of using it as part of your solution. If it has more positives than negatives it might be a helpful resource.\\nTry finding a cost-benefit chart online and fill it in.\\n3-2. Rate each solution.\\nBased on your pros and cons list, rate each solution from 1-10, 1 being least helpful and 10 being the most helpful. The most helpful solutions will produce the biggest effect on reducing the problem. For example, a very helpful solution to procrastination might be keeping a strict schedule, while getting more sleep at night will have less of an overall effect on the issue. Thus, the most helpful solutions will directly affect or target the problem.\\nOnce you have developed your ratings, write them down from 1-10 on paper or the computer. This way you can refer back to it once you have implemented your choice solution. If your first solution does not work, you can revisit the list and try your second solution and so on. You can also apply several solutions at once (instead of one at a time).\\n3-3. Ask for input.\\nSocial support and guidance is an integral component of problem-solving. However, research implies that we may tend to underestimate how much other people are willing to assist us. It is important to not let your own fear of not being helped prevent you from asking for assistance when you really need it. If you cannot decide on a solution, or you are simply unfamiliar with the territory, it might be helpful to get input from others that have solved a similar issue.\\nTalk to a friend who shares the issue or has solved the issue in the past.\\nIf the problem is work-related, discuss it with a co-worker whom you trust if they have experience dealing with your problem.\\nIf the problem is personal, have a conversation with a family member or partner who knows you particularly well.\\nGet professional help from someone who is an expert in solving the problem you have.\\n4. Exercising Your Brain to Enhance Problem-Solving Abilities\\n4-1. Gain new experiences.\\nExercising your brain through new experiences can help you to increase your creative thinking and problem solving abilities. With learning and experience comes creativity.\\nLearn something new. Watch movies, read or look at pieces of art in genres or styles that would normally be of no interest. Read more about them.\\nTry learning how to play an instrument. Studies suggest that playing an instrument can help children achieve success academically. Perhaps learning to play an instrument helps exercise parts of your brain that control important functioning including: attention, coordination, and creativity.\\n4-2. Play games.\\nSome research suggests that playing games such as Super Mario can increase brain plasticity. This result has implications for increasing memory, performance, and overall cognitive functioning. Games that use skills such as planning, mathematics, logic, and reflexes can be especially helpful in exercising your brain power.\\nSome types of brain games to try include: logic puzzles, crosswords, trivia, word finds, and Sudoku.\\nTry Lumosity, the brain-training application for your phone.\\nTry Gamesforyourbrain.com or Fitbrains.com.\\n4-3. Read and learn new vocabulary.\\nReading has been implicated in a wide variety of cognitive functions. A higher vocabulary has also been linked to more success and higher socioeconomic status.\\nLook at dictionary.com and find the \\\"Word of the Day.\\\" Use the word several times during the day.\\nSimply reading more often will increase your vocabulary.\\n4-4. Use your non-dominant hand.\\nPerform tasks with your left hand that you would normally do with your right (or vice versa if you are left handed). This can form new neural pathways and may diversify your reasoning capacity, as well as increase your creativity and open-mindedness.\\nTry simple tasks first like brushing your hair and using your phone before you try other activities.\\n5. Cultivating Creativity to Increase Problem-Solving Skills\\n5-1. Expand your horizons.\\nCreativity is defined as a combination of imagination, knowledge, and evaluation. Improving your creativity can help you increase your problem-solving abilities overall.\\nIn order to engage your creative side more, try new activities such as: drawing, painting, dancing, cooking, playing music, writing in a journal, writing stories, or designing/creating anything else you can think of!\\n5-2. Try free association.\\nAlso known as brain-storming, free association writing can be helpful to generate new ideas or ways of solving problems.\\nWrite down the first things that come to mind when you think of the word creativity. Now, do the same with the word problem-solving.\\nWrite down what your problem is and any words that immediately come to mind that are associate with your problem including feelings, behaviors, and ideas. A brain-storm for procrastination might look like: anger, frustration, busy, tasks, distraction, avoidance, boss, disappointment, worry, late, distressed, and overwhelmed.\\nNow brain-storm solutions to the problem (what might be involved and how it would feel). For procrastination this might look like: reduce distraction, quiet place, clean desk, tight schedule, calm, happy, relaxed, confident, understanding, no stress, free, peace, cleanliness, relationships, timely, and organized.\\n5-3. Draw solutions.\\nGraphic representations have been indicated in developing creative problem solving skills in children. Using art is one creative way to think about problems and solutions differently.\\nTry doing an art therapy exercise. Take a piece of paper and put a line down the middle. One the left side draw your problem. For example, if procrastination is the issue you might draw a picture of yourself at a desk with loads of papers and assignments on your desk, while you are in the picture texting on your phone. Once you have drawn the problem, draw on the other side of the paper a representation of what the solution might look like. For example, this might be a picture of you with your desk clean, phone away, working quietly at your desk.\\n5-4. Put it out of your mind.\\nIf you are stressed out about a decision or problem, it can block you from being productive, thinking clearly, and reaching a conclusion or solution. If this is the case, it might be helpful to take a break. Oftentimes we can refresh and re-open our mind simply by relaxing and doing something unrelated to the problem.\\nTry distracting yourself with a pleasurable activity such as reading and then come back to the problem when you feel refreshed.\\n5-5. Sleep on it.\\nResearch suggests that your brain continues to process and problem-solve during sleep. Your dreams may even try to help you solve your problem.\\nPay attention to the dreams you have following a problem and identify any possible solutions that your subconscious mind came up with.\\nTips\\nBe patient. Patterns of thought take time to change.\\nSpur your interest with a reward.\\nLearn from your mistakes.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Sick of coming up with the same old tired solutions to your problems? Want to re-wire your brain to be more creative and clever? With a few easy-to-follow mental tips, you'll be engaging all of your creative neurons in no time. Being more creative in your thinking involves using creative problem-solving skills, thinking outside of the box, and exercising your brain.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Defining the Problem\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Write the problem down.\", \"描述\": \"Getting the problem down in concrete language helps to clarify and simplify your issue. This can make it seems more manageable and move you forward on dealing with the problem head-on. Additionally, simplification of the language you use can serve to reduce reactions such as being overwhelmed by the complexity of an issue.\\nOne example of a possible problem is that you procrastinate (wait until the last minute) on important tasks. Write down what your specific issue is that you need resolved.\\nDefine the problem in the simplest terms possible. If procrastination is the issue, simply write down procrastination instead of, “I always wait until the last minute to complete projects and this is stressful.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make sure the problem needs fixing.\", \"描述\": \"Have you ever heard the saying, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it?” This mantra also applies to identifying problems. Sometimes we can be quick to judge and identify problems when there aren’t any.\\nFor example, if you think procrastination is the issue, are there also ways that it is not a problem? Is it possible that it does not create stress and helps you focus on getting your work done (some people need the pressure to work)? Is it possible that others may not like that you procrastinate, but it doesn’t hurt anyone and doesn’t seem to affect you getting your work done? Thus, if the problem does not seem to have identifiable consequences, it might not be a top priority problem, or may not be a problem at all. In other words, perhaps you think you procrastinate but you don't.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Create a pros and cons list for solving your problem.\", \"描述\": \"Identifying the pros and cons of solving a problem can help you identify whether the problem is worth fixing, or if it is a high priority issue. A cost-benefit analysis involves identifying the positives of solving the problem, as well as the negatives of not solving the problem.\\nWrite down what will happen if the problem is not resolved. In the example of procrastination, the consequences might be that others may continue to comment on your procrastination, you may have difficulty prioritizing tasks, you may have increases in stress, and your work quality may suffer if you don't give yourself enough time to complete a project.\\nWrite down and recognize the benefits of solving the problem. For example, the benefits of solving procrastination might be: less stress at the last minute, quality of work will increase due to more time, will have more time to complete work, and bosses and coworkers will be less concerned about the procrastination. If you identify that there are many benefits to solving the problem, then it is probably worth solving and may be a high priority issue.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Identify all of the components of the issue.\", \"描述\": \"Learn to be comprehensive. Identify the components of the problem in their entirety. Include the people involved, the content, and the context.\\nWrite down everything you know about the problem and all of the components that you think contribute to the problem. Pertaining to procrastination, this list might look like: distractions such as television/internet, avoidance of tasks that take a long time, scheduling problems (not enough time), and low frustration tolerance. These issues could be associated with organizational skills.\\nTry creating a problem tree with your main issue on the trunk of the tree, and the associated components on the branches of the tree. This way can you visualize what your problem looks like and how the other issues contribute to the main problem.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Focus on one problem at a time.\", \"描述\": \"In defining your issue, make sure it is specific. Sometimes one problem can have many components, so it is important to focus on a specific and detailed problem before attempting to solve the big picture issue.\\nFor example, procrastination could be a small part of the bigger problem that your work quality is suffering and your boss wants you to make fewer mistakes. Instead of trying to combat the issue of work quality (which could be very complex), you would identify all of the components that contribute to the issue and work on each component separately as its own issue.\\nOne way to understand this is to make a graphic representation or “problem/solution tree” of the bigger issue versus the smaller issues. You would place the bigger issue in the center (organizational issues with affect work quality), and the components of the issue would branch out from the center. Components contributing to the bigger issue might be things like: getting enough sleep, paying close attention, managing time, and procrastination. Notice that procrastination is just one component of the big picture issue of work quality and/or organizational issues.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Write down your goals.\", \"描述\": \"In order to begin to solve a problem you need to understand what final result you want. Ask yourself, “What do I want to accomplish by solving this issue?”\\nMake your goals specific, realistic, and time-limited. In other words, give yourself a specific amount of time that you need to accomplish the goal or solve the problem. Some goals may take 1 week while others will take 6 months.\\nFor example, if your goal is solved your issue of procrastination, this might be a very long-term goal since some habits can be deeply ingrained and difficult to break. However, you can make the goal smaller, more realistic, and time-limited by saying, “I want to get at least 1 project done 1 day before it is due in the next 2 weeks.” This goal is specific (1 project done ahead of time), realistic (1 project instead of every project), and time-limited (in the next two weeks).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Researching and Imagining Solutions\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Recognize ways you have solved similar issues.\", \"描述\": \"Chances are, you’ve encountered a similar problem in the past. Identify times in the past that you have dealt with your issue or a similar issue. What did you do? Did it work? What else might have helped?\\nWrite all of these thoughts down on paper or on the computer.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Find ways others have solved the problem.\", \"描述\": \"If you haven’t had this problem in the past, it will be helpful to identify how others have solved the issue. How did they go about finding a solution? Was their solution straightforward and simple or did it involve multiple aspects and components?\\nObserve and ask questions. Watch the way others perform. Ask others how they have solved similar problems.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Identify possible options.\", \"描述\": \"Once you have researched possible options or solutions to the issue, you can begin to bring these ideas together, organize, and evaluate them.\\nCompile a list of all possible solutions. Write down every way to solve the problem you can think of. In the example of procrastination, your list might involve: keeping a strict schedule, prioritizing tasks, writing daily reminders of important tasks, making realistic evaluations of time needed to complete projects, getting help when needed, and beginning a task at least one day earlier than needed. These are organizational and time management skills that can be learned. There will most likely be many ways to work toward solving the issue. You may also identify other behaviors that reduce the likelihood of procrastination such as: getting adequate sleep, exercising to cope with stress, and eating a healthy diet (to increase and maintain overall health).\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Think about the problem abstractly.\", \"描述\": \"Thinking of the problem or question in a different way can open new paths in your brain. Your mind can have a new starting point to track in your memory or make connections within your brain. Try to think more broadly or abstractly about the issue. For example, if the issue is procrastination, another way you can think about it that perhaps you need stress in order to get things done. In this line of thinking, you will need to solve the problem of needing stress to perform instead of the procrastination itself.\\nConsider philosophical, religious, cultural, and components of your issue.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Approach the situation from a different angle.\", \"描述\": \"Think of potential solutions as if you were a child discovering the world for the first time.\\nTry doing free writing or brainstorming in order to generate new ideas. Simply write down everything you think of in regards to possible solutions to the issue. Analyze your list and consider some of the options that you may not normally consider or that you think won’t work.\\nConsider alternative views that you normally wouldn’t. Entertain outlandish suggestions from others and at least consider them as options. For example, if procrastination is a constant struggle, perhaps making someone else do your work for you might solve your issue. This may sound silly, but even the most outlandish ideas can have a grain of truth in them. For this idea, perhaps asking for help on difficult tasks is not something you considered because getting assistance seems impractical. However, getting help can be very helpful indeed.\\nDo not set limits. Look at the absurd. The answer may go against convention.\\nTake risks. Open-mindedness can be associated with taking appropriate risks, and learning from your mistakes.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Imagine that the problem is solved.\", \"描述\": \"This is a useful technique called the “miracle question,” which is an intervention used in Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT). Imagining the effects of the solution can help individuals think about the possibility of achieving a solution.\\nImagine that a miracle occurred during the night and you woke up in the morning and this problem has magically disappeared. How would it feel? What would it look like?\\nWork backwards from the solution and imagine what might have needed to happen in order for your problem to go away.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Evaluating Solutions\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Create a cost-benefit analysis to decide on solutions.\", \"描述\": \"Once you’ve identified all possible solutions you can create a pros and cons list about each idea. Write down each solution and identify the Pros and Cons of using it as part of your solution. If it has more positives than negatives it might be a helpful resource.\\nTry finding a cost-benefit chart online and fill it in.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Rate each solution.\", \"描述\": \"Based on your pros and cons list, rate each solution from 1-10, 1 being least helpful and 10 being the most helpful. The most helpful solutions will produce the biggest effect on reducing the problem. For example, a very helpful solution to procrastination might be keeping a strict schedule, while getting more sleep at night will have less of an overall effect on the issue. Thus, the most helpful solutions will directly affect or target the problem.\\nOnce you have developed your ratings, write them down from 1-10 on paper or the computer. This way you can refer back to it once you have implemented your choice solution. If your first solution does not work, you can revisit the list and try your second solution and so on. You can also apply several solutions at once (instead of one at a time).\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Ask for input.\", \"描述\": \"Social support and guidance is an integral component of problem-solving. However, research implies that we may tend to underestimate how much other people are willing to assist us. It is important to not let your own fear of not being helped prevent you from asking for assistance when you really need it. If you cannot decide on a solution, or you are simply unfamiliar with the territory, it might be helpful to get input from others that have solved a similar issue.\\nTalk to a friend who shares the issue or has solved the issue in the past.\\nIf the problem is work-related, discuss it with a co-worker whom you trust if they have experience dealing with your problem.\\nIf the problem is personal, have a conversation with a family member or partner who knows you particularly well.\\nGet professional help from someone who is an expert in solving the problem you have.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Exercising Your Brain to Enhance Problem-Solving Abilities\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gain new experiences.\", \"描述\": \"Exercising your brain through new experiences can help you to increase your creative thinking and problem solving abilities. With learning and experience comes creativity.\\nLearn something new. Watch movies, read or look at pieces of art in genres or styles that would normally be of no interest. Read more about them.\\nTry learning how to play an instrument. Studies suggest that playing an instrument can help children achieve success academically. Perhaps learning to play an instrument helps exercise parts of your brain that control important functioning including: attention, coordination, and creativity.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Play games.\", \"描述\": \"Some research suggests that playing games such as Super Mario can increase brain plasticity. This result has implications for increasing memory, performance, and overall cognitive functioning. Games that use skills such as planning, mathematics, logic, and reflexes can be especially helpful in exercising your brain power.\\nSome types of brain games to try include: logic puzzles, crosswords, trivia, word finds, and Sudoku.\\nTry Lumosity, the brain-training application for your phone.\\nTry Gamesforyourbrain.com or Fitbrains.com.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Read and learn new vocabulary.\", \"描述\": \"Reading has been implicated in a wide variety of cognitive functions. A higher vocabulary has also been linked to more success and higher socioeconomic status.\\nLook at dictionary.com and find the \\\"Word of the Day.\\\" Use the word several times during the day.\\nSimply reading more often will increase your vocabulary.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use your non-dominant hand.\", \"描述\": \"Perform tasks with your left hand that you would normally do with your right (or vice versa if you are left handed). This can form new neural pathways and may diversify your reasoning capacity, as well as increase your creativity and open-mindedness.\\nTry simple tasks first like brushing your hair and using your phone before you try other activities.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Cultivating Creativity to Increase Problem-Solving Skills\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Expand your horizons.\", \"描述\": \"Creativity is defined as a combination of imagination, knowledge, and evaluation. Improving your creativity can help you increase your problem-solving abilities overall.\\nIn order to engage your creative side more, try new activities such as: drawing, painting, dancing, cooking, playing music, writing in a journal, writing stories, or designing/creating anything else you can think of!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Try free association.\", \"描述\": \"Also known as brain-storming, free association writing can be helpful to generate new ideas or ways of solving problems.\\nWrite down the first things that come to mind when you think of the word creativity. Now, do the same with the word problem-solving.\\nWrite down what your problem is and any words that immediately come to mind that are associate with your problem including feelings, behaviors, and ideas. A brain-storm for procrastination might look like: anger, frustration, busy, tasks, distraction, avoidance, boss, disappointment, worry, late, distressed, and overwhelmed.\\nNow brain-storm solutions to the problem (what might be involved and how it would feel). For procrastination this might look like: reduce distraction, quiet place, clean desk, tight schedule, calm, happy, relaxed, confident, understanding, no stress, free, peace, cleanliness, relationships, timely, and organized.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Draw solutions.\", \"描述\": \"Graphic representations have been indicated in developing creative problem solving skills in children. Using art is one creative way to think about problems and solutions differently.\\nTry doing an art therapy exercise. Take a piece of paper and put a line down the middle. One the left side draw your problem. For example, if procrastination is the issue you might draw a picture of yourself at a desk with loads of papers and assignments on your desk, while you are in the picture texting on your phone. Once you have drawn the problem, draw on the other side of the paper a representation of what the solution might look like. For example, this might be a picture of you with your desk clean, phone away, working quietly at your desk.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Put it out of your mind.\", \"描述\": \"If you are stressed out about a decision or problem, it can block you from being productive, thinking clearly, and reaching a conclusion or solution. If this is the case, it might be helpful to take a break. Oftentimes we can refresh and re-open our mind simply by relaxing and doing something unrelated to the problem.\\nTry distracting yourself with a pleasurable activity such as reading and then come back to the problem when you feel refreshed.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Sleep on it.\", \"描述\": \"Research suggests that your brain continues to process and problem-solve during sleep. Your dreams may even try to help you solve your problem.\\nPay attention to the dreams you have following a problem and identify any possible solutions that your subconscious mind came up with.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Be patient. Patterns of thought take time to change.\\n\", \"Spur your interest with a reward.\\n\", \"Learn from your mistakes.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Becoming a Writer
1-1. Read extensively.
The best writers are avid readers. When you read a book, you should split your attention between the actual events in the book and the way the author composed that piece of literature.
Reading helps you develop a firm grasp on how stories are structured.
By reading, you're also studying how published authors use language in creative and inspiring ways.
Reading may also give you new ideas for your own writing, or illustrate to you how a skilled writer handles a certain subject.
Read in the genre you write in.
1-2. Think about pursuing writing in college.
While you don't need to study writing in college to become a writer, taking 1 or more writing courses can certainly help. Studying writing allows you to receive instruction and feedback on your work and may open you up to new authors and genres that you hadn't explored before.
Find out whether a given school offers creative writing as a major, minor, or an area of study within the English major. There isn't necessarily one right or wrong approach; it's more a question of what you would prefer to study. You might also look into a creative writing club, or start a club if there isn’t one already.
Check course catalogs to see what types of writing classes have been offered over the past few semesters.
Look into the genres offered by a given program. Some only focus on poetry and fiction, while others include creative nonfiction, drama, and/or screenwriting.
Find out what types of literary opportunities are available at the school itself and the community it's in.
Many schools host literary readings, guest authors, and may even offer students a chance to work at a literary journal.
1-3. Consider getting an MFA degree.
A master of fine arts (MFA) degree isn't necessary to practice writing. However, an MFA program will build on the fundamentals you learned during the course of your undergraduate studies and help you connect with other writers who are just as dedicated as you.
Websites like Poets & Writers offer comprehensive MFA program databases that let you compare the genres offered, location of the program, and core faculty.
Being in a master's program helps you build a sense of community. You'll meet and study closely with a small group of likeminded individuals, and you may end up becoming lifelong friends/colleagues.
Going through an MFA gives you the time to practice your writing and to receive extensive feedback over the course of the program. This will be invaluable if you plan on writing beyond graduate school.
Some programs are very expensive. However, many programs offer scholarships, grants, and opportunities to teach.
As you look into graduate programs, ask a program representative from each school about what types of funding they offer and what opportunities (teaching, working at a literary journal, etc.) are available.
1-4. Take a continuing education class.
There are many writing classes available, both online and in-person. You can find classes and writing workshops for beginners, intermediate writers, and advanced writers through your local community college/university, your local bookstore, or even online.
Decide whether you're more comfortable taking a class online or in an actual classroom.
Look into who is teaching your class. For most writing classes, you should be taught by a published author who has experience in that genre.
You can find massive open online courses (or MOOCs) through many colleges/universities around the world. Many of these courses are free or very cheap to join, since you won't receive any college credit or diploma for the coursework.
1-5. Make writing a lifelong pursuit.
Whether you formally study writing in college/graduate school or pursue it on your own, it's important to have dedication and work ethic. How you approach writing can determine whether it will remain a lifelong pursuit or something you never seem to pick back up.
Make and stick to a schedule. Even if you can only find time for an hour a day, set aside that time and use it to write every single day.
Network with other writers. If you graduated from a writing program, this will be easy; if not, you can meet other writers through social network options like Meetup, or through local writing groups (which you can find online).
Keep reading authors you like and exploring new authors you're not familiar with.
Push yourself out of your comfort zone. Try writing in other genres, or experimenting with hybrid genre work.
2. Mastering a Genre
2-1. Choose a genre or just focus on the story.
There are some talented authors who specialize in 2 or more genres, but most authors stick with one genre of writing and work to perfect it. There's no right or wrong answer, and no genre is more published than the others, so go with what you love the most. If you are unsure about what genre you want to write in, then focus on the stories you want to tell and let the genre develop on its own.
Think about which genre you like the best. Do you tend to lean towards poetry, works of fiction, or nonfiction essays/memoirs?
There are many sub-genres you can work within, such as comedy, drama, and so forth. However, first you'll need to choose a primary genre.
One factor that may help you choose a genre is to consider who your target audience is. If you want to write stories for children or adolescents, for example, you might choose young adult literature.
Sometimes the idea you have for your story may determine the best genre for your piece of writing.
Remember that it’s okay to combine genres, such as romance and science-fiction, or horror and historical fiction.
Ultimately, you'll have to go with the genre you're most comfortable writing in. Try out multiple genres, read some noteworthy publications from various genres, and decide which one you would enjoy writing the most.
2-2. Learn the ins and outs of your genre.
Once you've chosen a genre, you should strive to become an expert in that genre. Read as much as you can by published authors working in your genre of choice, and take a look at some craft books that discuss the finer elements of writing within a certain genre.
Search online for the most popular works of the genre you're considering. For example, if you're thinking of writing poetry, you might use Google or Bing to search for famous/influential works of poetry.
Read as much as you can by as many authors as you can. Many writers believe that you have to be an extensive reader and know the genre well before you can attempt to master that genre.
Try reading craft books on your genre of choice. You can search online, in a bookstore, or at your local library for books on writing poetry, fiction, or nonfiction.
2-3. Make time to write and stay on schedule.
Writing takes a lot of practice. It doesn't come easy, but it does get more familiar the more that you practice it. Set aside some time every day, every other day, or every week to work on your craft without interruption or distraction. Remember that you won't pick it up overnight, so be patient with yourself and keep working until it all comes together.
Some writers set a minimum word count or page count for themselves. Others simply set aside the time to write and work at their own pace.
There is no right or wrong way to practice writing. The important thing is that you set aside time for writing and put your pen to the paper (or your hands on the keyboard).
3. Finding Inspiration
3-1. Keep a journal.
Journals are a writer's best friend. If you're out at a coffee shop, in a bar, or riding public transportation, you will witness all kinds of fascinating displays of humanity. By watching other people in their day-to-day interactions, you can generate plenty of ideas for characters. You might also have a sudden and brilliant realization, in which case you'll want to write it down right away so you don't forget it.
Write down observations you make, people/places/things you see and hear, and the thoughts that occur to you every day.
You can fill your journal with ideas as they come to you, or simply use it as a place to gather your thoughts when you're outside the house.
When you keep a detailed journal, it's much easier to jump into writing during your designated writing time. You'll have ideas, snippets of conversation you've overheard, or thoughts that struck you, and you may be able to turn those items into stories or poems.
3-2. Compile a research file.
Researching people, places, and things that interest you can be very productive for writers. You may generate ideas, or simply have researched information at your fingertips if you decide to write about that subject.
A research file allows you to compile bits of historical texts, literary texts, and newspaper columns in one place.
Research is valuable for genres outside of nonfiction. You may use a research file to develop a piece of historical fiction with accurate details, or even in poetry as a sort of "word bank" to draw unusual phrasings from.
3-3. Try using writing prompts.
Writing prompts are a great way to get your writing wheels turning. Prompts can help you break through writer's block, generate ideas, or just stay in practice with your writing.
You can buy books of writing prompts or rent one from your local library.
There are many, many writing prompts available online for free. Search for "writing prompts," or check Writer's Digest's writing prompts page at http://www.writersdigest.com/prompts.
You can also create your own writing prompts with specific rules. For example, you might give yourself a prompt that requires you to write a 12 line poem that includes the words “grit,” “right,” and “drastic.”
4. Writing Your First Work
4-1. Develop the necessary narrative components.
Every piece of writing, no matter what genre you choose, will need certain elements. Fiction will require elements that may not be required or essential in nonfiction and vice versa, but as a general rule, a good piece of narrative writing should have enough components to engage a reader in a logical and interesting reading experience.
Every piece of narrative writing (fiction and nonfiction) needs a strong central premise. This is not necessarily the plot of your story/essay, but rather, what that plot means (for example, that power corrupts people or that adversity makes you stronger).
Narrative writing also needs dynamic characters. These should be realistic, imperfect characters who change with time and experience (just like real people).
To keep your narrative from spiraling out of control, it's best to work within a confined space. It can be a temporal, physical, or situational space, but the writing should make clear to the reader why each character is involved in the story and its setting as the work unfolds.
Every piece of narrative needs a protagonist (usually the main character). It's essential that readers identify with him/her, or at least find the character interesting and engaging enough to keep reading.
A good piece of writing should have an interesting antagonist whom the protagonist struggles against. It's important that this character (who is not necessarily a villain) is well-developed, because liking the protagonist may not be enough of a reason for readers to want him/her to defeat the antagonist.
The antagonist doesn't necessarily have to be a person. An antagonist can be the main character (struggling against himself, his memory, his desires, etc.), God/gods/goddesses, nature, or more abstract concepts like time.
There has to be change in the main character(s)' situation. Someone who starts out aggressive should become more understanding/calm, a drunk should find (at least) moments of sobriety by the end, and so forth.
Conflict is essential in any narrative piece of writing. Conflict is often person against person (usually the protagonist against an antagonist), but it can also be a person against him/herself, or even a person against his or her situation.
4-2. Work on the elements of a poem.
If you're writing poetry instead of prose, the rules of narrative won't apply to you so much. Instead, you'll want to focus on what makes a poem succeed as a piece of writing.
Make sure the poem has a lyrical quality that is pleasing to hear. Common sound devices include alliteration (repeating initial sounds in a line of verse), assonance (repeating vowel sounds), and meter (patterns of stressed/unstressed syllables).
Strong poems often incite an emotional response. This was historically done with irony (having the unexpected happen, often without a character's knowledge) and other elements of tragedy, but today a poem can elicit any type of emotion.
Imagery is one of the most important components of a poem. Your descriptions, symbolism, and metaphors/similes (comparisons) should evoke a clear and unique visual picture in the reader's mind.
Make sure your poem is clear and concise. Clarity and concision in poetry means saying as much as possible in as few words as possible.
Any time you describe something familiar, strive to describe or depict it in an utterly unfamiliar way.
4-3. Write the first line
The first line of a story, poem, essay, or book needs to be engaging and interesting. It should deliver enough of the tension or theme of the rest of the work that a reader will want to continue reading through to the end. There are many ways to start a piece of writing, but some of the most common include opening with:
an aphorism
a concise fact that relates (either directly or indirectly) to the events about to unfold in your piece of writing
a deceptively complex statement/observation
a striking image that will be further developed throughout the poem, story, or essay
4-4. Outline your work.
Once you've got a good idea of your premise and you've decided where/when/how to begin your piece of writing, you'll need to outline your work. Some writers avoid outlining, while others find it invaluable to the writing process. The goal is to sketch out the who, what, when, where, why, and how of your story/essay/poem.
Try writing out how you envision your piece of writing unfolding from beginning to end.
Knowing how a piece of writing begins and ends (as well as its premise) can make writing the body of your work much easier and more well-developed.
Think about specific details. It's better to have too much information about a character, scene, or series of events and omit those details than to have a bare-bones story that isn't complete. It is much easier to delete information than it is to add more.
Get to know your characters. Whether you're writing nonfiction (and interviewing them) or fiction (and making up the details), you should know as much as possible about each character before you begin to write about him or her.
4-5. Develop a working draft.
Your working draft should expand on your outline and fill in all the details. This doesn't necessarily have to be a publishable manuscript - in fact, for many writers, a working draft is just one of many drafts that involve rewriting, rearranging, and reworking the characters, story arc, and series of events. However, your working draft should be as fleshed out and as close to being "complete" as possible.
A functional draft should have a clear protagonist, situation, opponent, conflict, and resolution of conflict.
Your scenes should be well developed, and the imagery should be evocative and unique.
There should be nothing left unanswered in your draft, and all loose ends should be tied up. Everything should be resolved, and if something is deliberately left unresolved, it should be clear and explicit for the reader to understand why.
There should be no gaps in the plot. Each scene should transition smoothly into the next, the dialogue should follow a logical order of conversation, and all bits of vital information should be clear and present in your draft.
4-6. Revise and edit your writing.
Once you've finished your working draft, you might think that it's all finished. However, during the editing and revision stages, your writing will need to be fine-tuned, and it may need to be totally broken down and built back up from scratch. During editing, you'll look for errors in grammar, syntax, structure, tone, voice, and of course spelling. The revision process should be much more thorough. You may need to rewrite some sections of your work and leave out parts that you really liked for the sake of greater clarity and stronger content.
Try setting aside your writing for a few days, a couple weeks, or even a month.
It's best to approach your work with fresh eyes so that you'll catch any obvious gaps that might have been missed. It's possible that you mentally filled in those gaps without realizing it when the story was actively fresh in your mind.
Consider having a friend or trusted colleague read through your work. Ask for honest, direct feedback: what isn't working, what was confusing, whether anything was left unresolved, etc.
Read through your draft and ask yourself if the current phrasing is how you wanted to express the emotions, images, and premise.
Think about whether a reader will understand what you're saying and walk away with the same premise you had when you wrote it.
Smooth out any missing or rough transitions. You may need to rearrange certain sections of your story/essay/poem, or cut them out altogether.
5. Sharing Your Work
5-1. Show your writing to friends.
Once your writing is well-polished and ready to be shared, you should begin by showing it to your closest friends and/or family members. Start out with a small group so that you limit how many people read your story. That way if you need to make any changes, you can do so without other people knowing the details that might cause rifts in your friendships/family/relationship.
It's a good idea to show your work to your friends/relatives before publishing it - especially if they are mentioned in your writing in any way.
If you reveal damaging truths about your friends/relatives or portray them in an unflattering manner, consider changing the characters' names so that no one is offended.
Remind your friends/family that the story/essay/poem is about your perspective (or an entirely fictional perspective), not an absolute.
If your friends/relatives ask you to leave something out of your writing that is about them, you should.
5-2. Attend literary events and open mic nights.
Reading your work aloud to an audience that wants to hear it is a great way to get feedback on your work and put your writing out there for others to enjoy. You can find literary events and open mic nights near you by searching online or looking through the events section in your local newspaper.
It's important to attend other writers' literary readings/events, in addition to performing at your own events.
Going to literary events to hear other writers read their work can help you build a stronger community or even network with likeminded individuals.
Virtually every town has some type of literary events on a regular basis.
You don't need to move to New York City just to be part of a writing community. You can find out about local readings online or ask someone at an independent book store in your town about upcoming events and opportunities.
5-3. Join a writing club.
Whether you're in school, are a recent graduate, or never attended school, you may benefit from joining a writing club. Writing clubs help you meet other writers in your area, spend time talking about writing each week, and get feedback on your work.
You can find writing clubs near you by searching online, or by reading posters at your local bookstore.
There are also many writing clubs available through social media outlets like Meetup.
5-4. Consider getting an agent.
If you've written a book-length manuscript, you may be thinking about ways to get it published. You can always self-publish your book, but if you're interested in reaching a larger publisher, you may need an agent.
An agent can help you with editing your manuscript, negotiating contract agreements, explaining the terms of a contract, and selling/promoting your work.
Compile a list of authors you admire who write in a similar style and genre as you, and search online to find out who those authors' literary agents are.
Send a query letter to each agent you're considering. Each agent will have different requirements for queries (including how long of an excerpt to send from your manuscript), so read their websites and familiarize yourself with what each agent wants.
Keep your query letters brief - no more than 1 page. Make sure your letter is well-written and free of any typos.
The first paragraph of your letter should let the agent know why you've chosen him/her to reach out to. Mention any authors you admire that that agent has represented, and let the agent know you share similar tastes.
The second paragraph should include a three or four sentence summary of your book (without too much detail).
The third paragraph should include a short biography of yourself, including any relevant information about your work (which literary journals have published your work, for example).
If the agent's website requests an excerpt, send one with your query letter. If not, wait for a response.
5-5. Find a publishing market that's right for you.
Finding the right market for your writing can help you get your writing out to a larger audience, earn publication credits to your name, and may even help you get a book deal. That's because many agents and publishers read through literary journals and other publications to find writers who shows potential and promise.
Know your audience. If you're writing sexually-explicit science fiction, for example, you may need to work within a more specialized market.
There is a market for any type of writing. It just takes some searching to find literary journals and other publications that are the right fit for your style, content, and general premise.
You can find literary publications online by searching for "fiction literary journals," "nonfiction literary journals," or "poetry literary journals."
You may also find copies of literary journals at a small, independent book store. This can help you become familiar with the type of writing typically published by those journals to see if your work would be a good fit.
When you go to a journal's website, they should have a section with writing guidelines, and may even post excerpts from published pieces. This can also help you determine if your work fits with their aesthetic.
If you're ever in doubt, try sending a query letter. This is a professional letter/email sent to the editor(s) in which you pitch your piece of writing, summarize it or quote a small section of it, and ask the editor if she thinks it might be a good fit for that journal.
You can also try sending out your work and seeing what the response is. There's no harm in trying, but be aware that some literary journals do charge a small reading fee for submissions that you send them.
5-6. Send out your work for publication.
Once you've found a journal that you think would be a good fit for your work, it's time to send your work out. Every journal has different specifications for manuscripts, so it's important to read the journal's submission guidelines and follow them precisely if you want to make a good impression.
Make sure your word count falls within the desired word count.
Check whether you should include any identifying information (like your name or the piece's title) on the actual manuscript, or just in the cover letter.
Some journals prefer numbered pages, while others don't care either way. They may also request that physical copies be stapled or unstapled, so make sure you're sending an acceptable manuscript.
If you're sending your story/essay/poem by mail, make sure you include a self-addressed, stamped envelope so they can send you a reply. You should also make sure you don't send in your only copy of a manuscript, as many journals recycle or discard them after reading.
Write a strong, courteous cover letter. Include your contact information, the title and genre of your submission, a short biography of yourself, and a brief writeup of why you're interested in that journal and what makes your submission a good fit.
Note that some journals take six or more months to respond, while others respond within days. Some accept simultaneous submissions (submissions sent to more than one journal at the same time), while others strictly prohibit the practice.
Don't be discouraged. Take rejection and feedback with a thick skin and keep submitting your work, no matter what anyone else tells you.
Tips
Stay on a consistent schedule with your writing. Remember that it won't come overnight and will take a lot of work and patience.
Always research a country/place/culture before writing about it. If at all possible, try to entirely avoid writing about other cultures with which you don't have a firsthand experience.
Avoid plot clichés and writing to suit a fad. Write what you find interesting, and tell the stories you want to tell.
Warnings
Never steal from another writer. It will eventually be found out, and it could have serious repercussions (including a lawsuit).
Avoid poor grammar and spelling. This can reflect badly on your writing, so polish it up before you show it to others or send it to publishers.
Tread lightly when writing about people you're still close with. Consider changing names or details to remove any certainty that a person you know is being written about.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Becoming a Writer\\n1-1. Read extensively.\\nThe best writers are avid readers. When you read a book, you should split your attention between the actual events in the book and the way the author composed that piece of literature.\\nReading helps you develop a firm grasp on how stories are structured.\\nBy reading, you're also studying how published authors use language in creative and inspiring ways.\\nReading may also give you new ideas for your own writing, or illustrate to you how a skilled writer handles a certain subject.\\nRead in the genre you write in.\\n1-2. Think about pursuing writing in college.\\nWhile you don't need to study writing in college to become a writer, taking 1 or more writing courses can certainly help. Studying writing allows you to receive instruction and feedback on your work and may open you up to new authors and genres that you hadn't explored before.\\nFind out whether a given school offers creative writing as a major, minor, or an area of study within the English major. There isn't necessarily one right or wrong approach; it's more a question of what you would prefer to study. You might also look into a creative writing club, or start a club if there isn’t one already.\\nCheck course catalogs to see what types of writing classes have been offered over the past few semesters.\\nLook into the genres offered by a given program. Some only focus on poetry and fiction, while others include creative nonfiction, drama, and/or screenwriting.\\nFind out what types of literary opportunities are available at the school itself and the community it's in.\\nMany schools host literary readings, guest authors, and may even offer students a chance to work at a literary journal.\\n1-3. Consider getting an MFA degree.\\nA master of fine arts (MFA) degree isn't necessary to practice writing. However, an MFA program will build on the fundamentals you learned during the course of your undergraduate studies and help you connect with other writers who are just as dedicated as you.\\nWebsites like Poets & Writers offer comprehensive MFA program databases that let you compare the genres offered, location of the program, and core faculty.\\nBeing in a master's program helps you build a sense of community. You'll meet and study closely with a small group of likeminded individuals, and you may end up becoming lifelong friends/colleagues.\\nGoing through an MFA gives you the time to practice your writing and to receive extensive feedback over the course of the program. This will be invaluable if you plan on writing beyond graduate school.\\nSome programs are very expensive. However, many programs offer scholarships, grants, and opportunities to teach.\\nAs you look into graduate programs, ask a program representative from each school about what types of funding they offer and what opportunities (teaching, working at a literary journal, etc.) are available.\\n1-4. Take a continuing education class.\\nThere are many writing classes available, both online and in-person. You can find classes and writing workshops for beginners, intermediate writers, and advanced writers through your local community college/university, your local bookstore, or even online.\\nDecide whether you're more comfortable taking a class online or in an actual classroom.\\nLook into who is teaching your class. For most writing classes, you should be taught by a published author who has experience in that genre.\\nYou can find massive open online courses (or MOOCs) through many colleges/universities around the world. Many of these courses are free or very cheap to join, since you won't receive any college credit or diploma for the coursework.\\n1-5. Make writing a lifelong pursuit.\\nWhether you formally study writing in college/graduate school or pursue it on your own, it's important to have dedication and work ethic. How you approach writing can determine whether it will remain a lifelong pursuit or something you never seem to pick back up.\\nMake and stick to a schedule. Even if you can only find time for an hour a day, set aside that time and use it to write every single day.\\nNetwork with other writers. If you graduated from a writing program, this will be easy; if not, you can meet other writers through social network options like Meetup, or through local writing groups (which you can find online).\\nKeep reading authors you like and exploring new authors you're not familiar with.\\nPush yourself out of your comfort zone. Try writing in other genres, or experimenting with hybrid genre work.\\n2. Mastering a Genre\\n2-1. Choose a genre or just focus on the story.\\nThere are some talented authors who specialize in 2 or more genres, but most authors stick with one genre of writing and work to perfect it. There's no right or wrong answer, and no genre is more published than the others, so go with what you love the most. If you are unsure about what genre you want to write in, then focus on the stories you want to tell and let the genre develop on its own. \\nThink about which genre you like the best. Do you tend to lean towards poetry, works of fiction, or nonfiction essays/memoirs?\\nThere are many sub-genres you can work within, such as comedy, drama, and so forth. However, first you'll need to choose a primary genre.\\nOne factor that may help you choose a genre is to consider who your target audience is. If you want to write stories for children or adolescents, for example, you might choose young adult literature.\\nSometimes the idea you have for your story may determine the best genre for your piece of writing.\\nRemember that it’s okay to combine genres, such as romance and science-fiction, or horror and historical fiction.\\nUltimately, you'll have to go with the genre you're most comfortable writing in. Try out multiple genres, read some noteworthy publications from various genres, and decide which one you would enjoy writing the most.\\n2-2. Learn the ins and outs of your genre.\\nOnce you've chosen a genre, you should strive to become an expert in that genre. Read as much as you can by published authors working in your genre of choice, and take a look at some craft books that discuss the finer elements of writing within a certain genre.\\nSearch online for the most popular works of the genre you're considering. For example, if you're thinking of writing poetry, you might use Google or Bing to search for famous/influential works of poetry.\\nRead as much as you can by as many authors as you can. Many writers believe that you have to be an extensive reader and know the genre well before you can attempt to master that genre.\\nTry reading craft books on your genre of choice. You can search online, in a bookstore, or at your local library for books on writing poetry, fiction, or nonfiction.\\n2-3. Make time to write and stay on schedule.\\nWriting takes a lot of practice. It doesn't come easy, but it does get more familiar the more that you practice it. Set aside some time every day, every other day, or every week to work on your craft without interruption or distraction. Remember that you won't pick it up overnight, so be patient with yourself and keep working until it all comes together.\\nSome writers set a minimum word count or page count for themselves. Others simply set aside the time to write and work at their own pace.\\nThere is no right or wrong way to practice writing. The important thing is that you set aside time for writing and put your pen to the paper (or your hands on the keyboard).\\n3. Finding Inspiration\\n3-1. Keep a journal.\\nJournals are a writer's best friend. If you're out at a coffee shop, in a bar, or riding public transportation, you will witness all kinds of fascinating displays of humanity. By watching other people in their day-to-day interactions, you can generate plenty of ideas for characters. You might also have a sudden and brilliant realization, in which case you'll want to write it down right away so you don't forget it.\\nWrite down observations you make, people/places/things you see and hear, and the thoughts that occur to you every day.\\nYou can fill your journal with ideas as they come to you, or simply use it as a place to gather your thoughts when you're outside the house.\\nWhen you keep a detailed journal, it's much easier to jump into writing during your designated writing time. You'll have ideas, snippets of conversation you've overheard, or thoughts that struck you, and you may be able to turn those items into stories or poems.\\n3-2. Compile a research file.\\nResearching people, places, and things that interest you can be very productive for writers. You may generate ideas, or simply have researched information at your fingertips if you decide to write about that subject.\\nA research file allows you to compile bits of historical texts, literary texts, and newspaper columns in one place.\\nResearch is valuable for genres outside of nonfiction. You may use a research file to develop a piece of historical fiction with accurate details, or even in poetry as a sort of \\\"word bank\\\" to draw unusual phrasings from.\\n3-3. Try using writing prompts.\\nWriting prompts are a great way to get your writing wheels turning. Prompts can help you break through writer's block, generate ideas, or just stay in practice with your writing.\\nYou can buy books of writing prompts or rent one from your local library.\\nThere are many, many writing prompts available online for free. Search for \\\"writing prompts,\\\" or check Writer's Digest's writing prompts page at http://www.writersdigest.com/prompts.\\nYou can also create your own writing prompts with specific rules. For example, you might give yourself a prompt that requires you to write a 12 line poem that includes the words “grit,” “right,” and “drastic.”\\n4. Writing Your First Work\\n4-1. Develop the necessary narrative components.\\nEvery piece of writing, no matter what genre you choose, will need certain elements. Fiction will require elements that may not be required or essential in nonfiction and vice versa, but as a general rule, a good piece of narrative writing should have enough components to engage a reader in a logical and interesting reading experience. \\nEvery piece of narrative writing (fiction and nonfiction) needs a strong central premise. This is not necessarily the plot of your story/essay, but rather, what that plot means (for example, that power corrupts people or that adversity makes you stronger).\\nNarrative writing also needs dynamic characters. These should be realistic, imperfect characters who change with time and experience (just like real people).\\nTo keep your narrative from spiraling out of control, it's best to work within a confined space. It can be a temporal, physical, or situational space, but the writing should make clear to the reader why each character is involved in the story and its setting as the work unfolds.\\nEvery piece of narrative needs a protagonist (usually the main character). It's essential that readers identify with him/her, or at least find the character interesting and engaging enough to keep reading.\\nA good piece of writing should have an interesting antagonist whom the protagonist struggles against. It's important that this character (who is not necessarily a villain) is well-developed, because liking the protagonist may not be enough of a reason for readers to want him/her to defeat the antagonist.\\nThe antagonist doesn't necessarily have to be a person. An antagonist can be the main character (struggling against himself, his memory, his desires, etc.), God/gods/goddesses, nature, or more abstract concepts like time.\\nThere has to be change in the main character(s)' situation. Someone who starts out aggressive should become more understanding/calm, a drunk should find (at least) moments of sobriety by the end, and so forth.\\nConflict is essential in any narrative piece of writing. Conflict is often person against person (usually the protagonist against an antagonist), but it can also be a person against him/herself, or even a person against his or her situation.\\n4-2. Work on the elements of a poem.\\nIf you're writing poetry instead of prose, the rules of narrative won't apply to you so much. Instead, you'll want to focus on what makes a poem succeed as a piece of writing.\\nMake sure the poem has a lyrical quality that is pleasing to hear. Common sound devices include alliteration (repeating initial sounds in a line of verse), assonance (repeating vowel sounds), and meter (patterns of stressed/unstressed syllables).\\nStrong poems often incite an emotional response. This was historically done with irony (having the unexpected happen, often without a character's knowledge) and other elements of tragedy, but today a poem can elicit any type of emotion.\\nImagery is one of the most important components of a poem. Your descriptions, symbolism, and metaphors/similes (comparisons) should evoke a clear and unique visual picture in the reader's mind.\\nMake sure your poem is clear and concise. Clarity and concision in poetry means saying as much as possible in as few words as possible.\\nAny time you describe something familiar, strive to describe or depict it in an utterly unfamiliar way.\\n4-3. Write the first line\\nThe first line of a story, poem, essay, or book needs to be engaging and interesting. It should deliver enough of the tension or theme of the rest of the work that a reader will want to continue reading through to the end. There are many ways to start a piece of writing, but some of the most common include opening with:\\nan aphorism\\na concise fact that relates (either directly or indirectly) to the events about to unfold in your piece of writing\\na deceptively complex statement/observation\\na striking image that will be further developed throughout the poem, story, or essay\\n4-4. Outline your work.\\nOnce you've got a good idea of your premise and you've decided where/when/how to begin your piece of writing, you'll need to outline your work. Some writers avoid outlining, while others find it invaluable to the writing process. The goal is to sketch out the who, what, when, where, why, and how of your story/essay/poem.\\nTry writing out how you envision your piece of writing unfolding from beginning to end.\\nKnowing how a piece of writing begins and ends (as well as its premise) can make writing the body of your work much easier and more well-developed.\\nThink about specific details. It's better to have too much information about a character, scene, or series of events and omit those details than to have a bare-bones story that isn't complete. It is much easier to delete information than it is to add more.\\nGet to know your characters. Whether you're writing nonfiction (and interviewing them) or fiction (and making up the details), you should know as much as possible about each character before you begin to write about him or her.\\n4-5. Develop a working draft.\\nYour working draft should expand on your outline and fill in all the details. This doesn't necessarily have to be a publishable manuscript - in fact, for many writers, a working draft is just one of many drafts that involve rewriting, rearranging, and reworking the characters, story arc, and series of events. However, your working draft should be as fleshed out and as close to being \\\"complete\\\" as possible.\\nA functional draft should have a clear protagonist, situation, opponent, conflict, and resolution of conflict.\\nYour scenes should be well developed, and the imagery should be evocative and unique.\\nThere should be nothing left unanswered in your draft, and all loose ends should be tied up. Everything should be resolved, and if something is deliberately left unresolved, it should be clear and explicit for the reader to understand why.\\nThere should be no gaps in the plot. Each scene should transition smoothly into the next, the dialogue should follow a logical order of conversation, and all bits of vital information should be clear and present in your draft.\\n4-6. Revise and edit your writing.\\nOnce you've finished your working draft, you might think that it's all finished. However, during the editing and revision stages, your writing will need to be fine-tuned, and it may need to be totally broken down and built back up from scratch. During editing, you'll look for errors in grammar, syntax, structure, tone, voice, and of course spelling. The revision process should be much more thorough. You may need to rewrite some sections of your work and leave out parts that you really liked for the sake of greater clarity and stronger content.\\nTry setting aside your writing for a few days, a couple weeks, or even a month.\\nIt's best to approach your work with fresh eyes so that you'll catch any obvious gaps that might have been missed. It's possible that you mentally filled in those gaps without realizing it when the story was actively fresh in your mind.\\nConsider having a friend or trusted colleague read through your work. Ask for honest, direct feedback: what isn't working, what was confusing, whether anything was left unresolved, etc.\\nRead through your draft and ask yourself if the current phrasing is how you wanted to express the emotions, images, and premise.\\nThink about whether a reader will understand what you're saying and walk away with the same premise you had when you wrote it.\\nSmooth out any missing or rough transitions. You may need to rearrange certain sections of your story/essay/poem, or cut them out altogether.\\n5. Sharing Your Work\\n5-1. Show your writing to friends.\\nOnce your writing is well-polished and ready to be shared, you should begin by showing it to your closest friends and/or family members. Start out with a small group so that you limit how many people read your story. That way if you need to make any changes, you can do so without other people knowing the details that might cause rifts in your friendships/family/relationship.\\nIt's a good idea to show your work to your friends/relatives before publishing it - especially if they are mentioned in your writing in any way.\\nIf you reveal damaging truths about your friends/relatives or portray them in an unflattering manner, consider changing the characters' names so that no one is offended.\\nRemind your friends/family that the story/essay/poem is about your perspective (or an entirely fictional perspective), not an absolute.\\nIf your friends/relatives ask you to leave something out of your writing that is about them, you should.\\n5-2. Attend literary events and open mic nights.\\nReading your work aloud to an audience that wants to hear it is a great way to get feedback on your work and put your writing out there for others to enjoy. You can find literary events and open mic nights near you by searching online or looking through the events section in your local newspaper.\\nIt's important to attend other writers' literary readings/events, in addition to performing at your own events.\\nGoing to literary events to hear other writers read their work can help you build a stronger community or even network with likeminded individuals.\\nVirtually every town has some type of literary events on a regular basis.\\nYou don't need to move to New York City just to be part of a writing community. You can find out about local readings online or ask someone at an independent book store in your town about upcoming events and opportunities.\\n5-3. Join a writing club.\\nWhether you're in school, are a recent graduate, or never attended school, you may benefit from joining a writing club. Writing clubs help you meet other writers in your area, spend time talking about writing each week, and get feedback on your work.\\nYou can find writing clubs near you by searching online, or by reading posters at your local bookstore.\\nThere are also many writing clubs available through social media outlets like Meetup.\\n5-4. Consider getting an agent.\\nIf you've written a book-length manuscript, you may be thinking about ways to get it published. You can always self-publish your book, but if you're interested in reaching a larger publisher, you may need an agent.\\nAn agent can help you with editing your manuscript, negotiating contract agreements, explaining the terms of a contract, and selling/promoting your work.\\nCompile a list of authors you admire who write in a similar style and genre as you, and search online to find out who those authors' literary agents are.\\nSend a query letter to each agent you're considering. Each agent will have different requirements for queries (including how long of an excerpt to send from your manuscript), so read their websites and familiarize yourself with what each agent wants.\\nKeep your query letters brief - no more than 1 page. Make sure your letter is well-written and free of any typos.\\nThe first paragraph of your letter should let the agent know why you've chosen him/her to reach out to. Mention any authors you admire that that agent has represented, and let the agent know you share similar tastes.\\nThe second paragraph should include a three or four sentence summary of your book (without too much detail).\\nThe third paragraph should include a short biography of yourself, including any relevant information about your work (which literary journals have published your work, for example).\\nIf the agent's website requests an excerpt, send one with your query letter. If not, wait for a response.\\n5-5. Find a publishing market that's right for you.\\nFinding the right market for your writing can help you get your writing out to a larger audience, earn publication credits to your name, and may even help you get a book deal. That's because many agents and publishers read through literary journals and other publications to find writers who shows potential and promise.\\nKnow your audience. If you're writing sexually-explicit science fiction, for example, you may need to work within a more specialized market.\\nThere is a market for any type of writing. It just takes some searching to find literary journals and other publications that are the right fit for your style, content, and general premise.\\nYou can find literary publications online by searching for \\\"fiction literary journals,\\\" \\\"nonfiction literary journals,\\\" or \\\"poetry literary journals.\\\"\\nYou may also find copies of literary journals at a small, independent book store. This can help you become familiar with the type of writing typically published by those journals to see if your work would be a good fit.\\nWhen you go to a journal's website, they should have a section with writing guidelines, and may even post excerpts from published pieces. This can also help you determine if your work fits with their aesthetic.\\nIf you're ever in doubt, try sending a query letter. This is a professional letter/email sent to the editor(s) in which you pitch your piece of writing, summarize it or quote a small section of it, and ask the editor if she thinks it might be a good fit for that journal.\\nYou can also try sending out your work and seeing what the response is. There's no harm in trying, but be aware that some literary journals do charge a small reading fee for submissions that you send them.\\n5-6. Send out your work for publication.\\nOnce you've found a journal that you think would be a good fit for your work, it's time to send your work out. Every journal has different specifications for manuscripts, so it's important to read the journal's submission guidelines and follow them precisely if you want to make a good impression.\\nMake sure your word count falls within the desired word count.\\nCheck whether you should include any identifying information (like your name or the piece's title) on the actual manuscript, or just in the cover letter.\\nSome journals prefer numbered pages, while others don't care either way. They may also request that physical copies be stapled or unstapled, so make sure you're sending an acceptable manuscript.\\nIf you're sending your story/essay/poem by mail, make sure you include a self-addressed, stamped envelope so they can send you a reply. You should also make sure you don't send in your only copy of a manuscript, as many journals recycle or discard them after reading.\\nWrite a strong, courteous cover letter. Include your contact information, the title and genre of your submission, a short biography of yourself, and a brief writeup of why you're interested in that journal and what makes your submission a good fit.\\nNote that some journals take six or more months to respond, while others respond within days. Some accept simultaneous submissions (submissions sent to more than one journal at the same time), while others strictly prohibit the practice.\\nDon't be discouraged. Take rejection and feedback with a thick skin and keep submitting your work, no matter what anyone else tells you.\\nTips\\nStay on a consistent schedule with your writing. Remember that it won't come overnight and will take a lot of work and patience.\\nAlways research a country/place/culture before writing about it. If at all possible, try to entirely avoid writing about other cultures with which you don't have a firsthand experience.\\nAvoid plot clichés and writing to suit a fad. Write what you find interesting, and tell the stories you want to tell.\\nWarnings\\nNever steal from another writer. It will eventually be found out, and it could have serious repercussions (including a lawsuit).\\nAvoid poor grammar and spelling. This can reflect badly on your writing, so polish it up before you show it to others or send it to publishers.\\nTread lightly when writing about people you're still close with. Consider changing names or details to remove any certainty that a person you know is being written about.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Writing creatively is an enjoyable and rewarding pursuit that can be a hobby, a field of study, and even a career. Anyone can be a creative writer. All it takes is a little creativity, some strong ideas, a command of your written language, and an understanding of how literature is typically structured. By reading extensively and practicing your craft, you can become a talented and well-versed writer in your chosen field.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Becoming a Writer\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Read extensively.\", \"描述\": \"The best writers are avid readers. When you read a book, you should split your attention between the actual events in the book and the way the author composed that piece of literature.\\nReading helps you develop a firm grasp on how stories are structured.\\nBy reading, you're also studying how published authors use language in creative and inspiring ways.\\nReading may also give you new ideas for your own writing, or illustrate to you how a skilled writer handles a certain subject.\\nRead in the genre you write in.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Think about pursuing writing in college.\", \"描述\": \"While you don't need to study writing in college to become a writer, taking 1 or more writing courses can certainly help. Studying writing allows you to receive instruction and feedback on your work and may open you up to new authors and genres that you hadn't explored before.\\nFind out whether a given school offers creative writing as a major, minor, or an area of study within the English major. There isn't necessarily one right or wrong approach; it's more a question of what you would prefer to study. You might also look into a creative writing club, or start a club if there isn’t one already.\\nCheck course catalogs to see what types of writing classes have been offered over the past few semesters.\\nLook into the genres offered by a given program. Some only focus on poetry and fiction, while others include creative nonfiction, drama, and/or screenwriting.\\nFind out what types of literary opportunities are available at the school itself and the community it's in.\\nMany schools host literary readings, guest authors, and may even offer students a chance to work at a literary journal.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Consider getting an MFA degree.\", \"描述\": \"A master of fine arts (MFA) degree isn't necessary to practice writing. However, an MFA program will build on the fundamentals you learned during the course of your undergraduate studies and help you connect with other writers who are just as dedicated as you.\\nWebsites like Poets & Writers offer comprehensive MFA program databases that let you compare the genres offered, location of the program, and core faculty.\\nBeing in a master's program helps you build a sense of community. You'll meet and study closely with a small group of likeminded individuals, and you may end up becoming lifelong friends/colleagues.\\nGoing through an MFA gives you the time to practice your writing and to receive extensive feedback over the course of the program. This will be invaluable if you plan on writing beyond graduate school.\\nSome programs are very expensive. However, many programs offer scholarships, grants, and opportunities to teach.\\nAs you look into graduate programs, ask a program representative from each school about what types of funding they offer and what opportunities (teaching, working at a literary journal, etc.) are available.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Take a continuing education class.\", \"描述\": \"There are many writing classes available, both online and in-person. You can find classes and writing workshops for beginners, intermediate writers, and advanced writers through your local community college/university, your local bookstore, or even online.\\nDecide whether you're more comfortable taking a class online or in an actual classroom.\\nLook into who is teaching your class. For most writing classes, you should be taught by a published author who has experience in that genre.\\nYou can find massive open online courses (or MOOCs) through many colleges/universities around the world. Many of these courses are free or very cheap to join, since you won't receive any college credit or diploma for the coursework.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Make writing a lifelong pursuit.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you formally study writing in college/graduate school or pursue it on your own, it's important to have dedication and work ethic. How you approach writing can determine whether it will remain a lifelong pursuit or something you never seem to pick back up.\\nMake and stick to a schedule. Even if you can only find time for an hour a day, set aside that time and use it to write every single day.\\nNetwork with other writers. If you graduated from a writing program, this will be easy; if not, you can meet other writers through social network options like Meetup, or through local writing groups (which you can find online).\\nKeep reading authors you like and exploring new authors you're not familiar with.\\nPush yourself out of your comfort zone. Try writing in other genres, or experimenting with hybrid genre work.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Mastering a Genre\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose a genre or just focus on the story.\", \"描述\": \"There are some talented authors who specialize in 2 or more genres, but most authors stick with one genre of writing and work to perfect it. There's no right or wrong answer, and no genre is more published than the others, so go with what you love the most. If you are unsure about what genre you want to write in, then focus on the stories you want to tell and let the genre develop on its own. \\nThink about which genre you like the best. Do you tend to lean towards poetry, works of fiction, or nonfiction essays/memoirs?\\nThere are many sub-genres you can work within, such as comedy, drama, and so forth. However, first you'll need to choose a primary genre.\\nOne factor that may help you choose a genre is to consider who your target audience is. If you want to write stories for children or adolescents, for example, you might choose young adult literature.\\nSometimes the idea you have for your story may determine the best genre for your piece of writing.\\nRemember that it’s okay to combine genres, such as romance and science-fiction, or horror and historical fiction.\\nUltimately, you'll have to go with the genre you're most comfortable writing in. Try out multiple genres, read some noteworthy publications from various genres, and decide which one you would enjoy writing the most.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn the ins and outs of your genre.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've chosen a genre, you should strive to become an expert in that genre. Read as much as you can by published authors working in your genre of choice, and take a look at some craft books that discuss the finer elements of writing within a certain genre.\\nSearch online for the most popular works of the genre you're considering. For example, if you're thinking of writing poetry, you might use Google or Bing to search for famous/influential works of poetry.\\nRead as much as you can by as many authors as you can. Many writers believe that you have to be an extensive reader and know the genre well before you can attempt to master that genre.\\nTry reading craft books on your genre of choice. You can search online, in a bookstore, or at your local library for books on writing poetry, fiction, or nonfiction.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make time to write and stay on schedule.\", \"描述\": \"Writing takes a lot of practice. It doesn't come easy, but it does get more familiar the more that you practice it. Set aside some time every day, every other day, or every week to work on your craft without interruption or distraction. Remember that you won't pick it up overnight, so be patient with yourself and keep working until it all comes together.\\nSome writers set a minimum word count or page count for themselves. Others simply set aside the time to write and work at their own pace.\\nThere is no right or wrong way to practice writing. The important thing is that you set aside time for writing and put your pen to the paper (or your hands on the keyboard).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Finding Inspiration\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep a journal.\", \"描述\": \"Journals are a writer's best friend. If you're out at a coffee shop, in a bar, or riding public transportation, you will witness all kinds of fascinating displays of humanity. By watching other people in their day-to-day interactions, you can generate plenty of ideas for characters. You might also have a sudden and brilliant realization, in which case you'll want to write it down right away so you don't forget it.\\nWrite down observations you make, people/places/things you see and hear, and the thoughts that occur to you every day.\\nYou can fill your journal with ideas as they come to you, or simply use it as a place to gather your thoughts when you're outside the house.\\nWhen you keep a detailed journal, it's much easier to jump into writing during your designated writing time. You'll have ideas, snippets of conversation you've overheard, or thoughts that struck you, and you may be able to turn those items into stories or poems.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Compile a research file.\", \"描述\": \"Researching people, places, and things that interest you can be very productive for writers. You may generate ideas, or simply have researched information at your fingertips if you decide to write about that subject.\\nA research file allows you to compile bits of historical texts, literary texts, and newspaper columns in one place.\\nResearch is valuable for genres outside of nonfiction. You may use a research file to develop a piece of historical fiction with accurate details, or even in poetry as a sort of \\\"word bank\\\" to draw unusual phrasings from.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Try using writing prompts.\", \"描述\": \"Writing prompts are a great way to get your writing wheels turning. Prompts can help you break through writer's block, generate ideas, or just stay in practice with your writing.\\nYou can buy books of writing prompts or rent one from your local library.\\nThere are many, many writing prompts available online for free. Search for \\\"writing prompts,\\\" or check Writer's Digest's writing prompts page at http://www.writersdigest.com/prompts.\\nYou can also create your own writing prompts with specific rules. For example, you might give yourself a prompt that requires you to write a 12 line poem that includes the words “grit,” “right,” and “drastic.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Writing Your First Work\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Develop the necessary narrative components.\", \"描述\": \"Every piece of writing, no matter what genre you choose, will need certain elements. Fiction will require elements that may not be required or essential in nonfiction and vice versa, but as a general rule, a good piece of narrative writing should have enough components to engage a reader in a logical and interesting reading experience. \\nEvery piece of narrative writing (fiction and nonfiction) needs a strong central premise. This is not necessarily the plot of your story/essay, but rather, what that plot means (for example, that power corrupts people or that adversity makes you stronger).\\nNarrative writing also needs dynamic characters. These should be realistic, imperfect characters who change with time and experience (just like real people).\\nTo keep your narrative from spiraling out of control, it's best to work within a confined space. It can be a temporal, physical, or situational space, but the writing should make clear to the reader why each character is involved in the story and its setting as the work unfolds.\\nEvery piece of narrative needs a protagonist (usually the main character). It's essential that readers identify with him/her, or at least find the character interesting and engaging enough to keep reading.\\nA good piece of writing should have an interesting antagonist whom the protagonist struggles against. It's important that this character (who is not necessarily a villain) is well-developed, because liking the protagonist may not be enough of a reason for readers to want him/her to defeat the antagonist.\\nThe antagonist doesn't necessarily have to be a person. An antagonist can be the main character (struggling against himself, his memory, his desires, etc.), God/gods/goddesses, nature, or more abstract concepts like time.\\nThere has to be change in the main character(s)' situation. Someone who starts out aggressive should become more understanding/calm, a drunk should find (at least) moments of sobriety by the end, and so forth.\\nConflict is essential in any narrative piece of writing. Conflict is often person against person (usually the protagonist against an antagonist), but it can also be a person against him/herself, or even a person against his or her situation.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Work on the elements of a poem.\", \"描述\": \"If you're writing poetry instead of prose, the rules of narrative won't apply to you so much. Instead, you'll want to focus on what makes a poem succeed as a piece of writing.\\nMake sure the poem has a lyrical quality that is pleasing to hear. Common sound devices include alliteration (repeating initial sounds in a line of verse), assonance (repeating vowel sounds), and meter (patterns of stressed/unstressed syllables).\\nStrong poems often incite an emotional response. This was historically done with irony (having the unexpected happen, often without a character's knowledge) and other elements of tragedy, but today a poem can elicit any type of emotion.\\nImagery is one of the most important components of a poem. Your descriptions, symbolism, and metaphors/similes (comparisons) should evoke a clear and unique visual picture in the reader's mind.\\nMake sure your poem is clear and concise. Clarity and concision in poetry means saying as much as possible in as few words as possible.\\nAny time you describe something familiar, strive to describe or depict it in an utterly unfamiliar way.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Write the first line\", \"描述\": \"The first line of a story, poem, essay, or book needs to be engaging and interesting. It should deliver enough of the tension or theme of the rest of the work that a reader will want to continue reading through to the end. There are many ways to start a piece of writing, but some of the most common include opening with:\\nan aphorism\\na concise fact that relates (either directly or indirectly) to the events about to unfold in your piece of writing\\na deceptively complex statement/observation\\na striking image that will be further developed throughout the poem, story, or essay\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Outline your work.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've got a good idea of your premise and you've decided where/when/how to begin your piece of writing, you'll need to outline your work. Some writers avoid outlining, while others find it invaluable to the writing process. The goal is to sketch out the who, what, when, where, why, and how of your story/essay/poem.\\nTry writing out how you envision your piece of writing unfolding from beginning to end.\\nKnowing how a piece of writing begins and ends (as well as its premise) can make writing the body of your work much easier and more well-developed.\\nThink about specific details. It's better to have too much information about a character, scene, or series of events and omit those details than to have a bare-bones story that isn't complete. It is much easier to delete information than it is to add more.\\nGet to know your characters. Whether you're writing nonfiction (and interviewing them) or fiction (and making up the details), you should know as much as possible about each character before you begin to write about him or her.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Develop a working draft.\", \"描述\": \"Your working draft should expand on your outline and fill in all the details. This doesn't necessarily have to be a publishable manuscript - in fact, for many writers, a working draft is just one of many drafts that involve rewriting, rearranging, and reworking the characters, story arc, and series of events. However, your working draft should be as fleshed out and as close to being \\\"complete\\\" as possible.\\nA functional draft should have a clear protagonist, situation, opponent, conflict, and resolution of conflict.\\nYour scenes should be well developed, and the imagery should be evocative and unique.\\nThere should be nothing left unanswered in your draft, and all loose ends should be tied up. Everything should be resolved, and if something is deliberately left unresolved, it should be clear and explicit for the reader to understand why.\\nThere should be no gaps in the plot. Each scene should transition smoothly into the next, the dialogue should follow a logical order of conversation, and all bits of vital information should be clear and present in your draft.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Revise and edit your writing.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've finished your working draft, you might think that it's all finished. However, during the editing and revision stages, your writing will need to be fine-tuned, and it may need to be totally broken down and built back up from scratch. During editing, you'll look for errors in grammar, syntax, structure, tone, voice, and of course spelling. The revision process should be much more thorough. You may need to rewrite some sections of your work and leave out parts that you really liked for the sake of greater clarity and stronger content.\\nTry setting aside your writing for a few days, a couple weeks, or even a month.\\nIt's best to approach your work with fresh eyes so that you'll catch any obvious gaps that might have been missed. It's possible that you mentally filled in those gaps without realizing it when the story was actively fresh in your mind.\\nConsider having a friend or trusted colleague read through your work. Ask for honest, direct feedback: what isn't working, what was confusing, whether anything was left unresolved, etc.\\nRead through your draft and ask yourself if the current phrasing is how you wanted to express the emotions, images, and premise.\\nThink about whether a reader will understand what you're saying and walk away with the same premise you had when you wrote it.\\nSmooth out any missing or rough transitions. You may need to rearrange certain sections of your story/essay/poem, or cut them out altogether.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Sharing Your Work\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show your writing to friends.\", \"描述\": \"Once your writing is well-polished and ready to be shared, you should begin by showing it to your closest friends and/or family members. Start out with a small group so that you limit how many people read your story. That way if you need to make any changes, you can do so without other people knowing the details that might cause rifts in your friendships/family/relationship.\\nIt's a good idea to show your work to your friends/relatives before publishing it - especially if they are mentioned in your writing in any way.\\nIf you reveal damaging truths about your friends/relatives or portray them in an unflattering manner, consider changing the characters' names so that no one is offended.\\nRemind your friends/family that the story/essay/poem is about your perspective (or an entirely fictional perspective), not an absolute.\\nIf your friends/relatives ask you to leave something out of your writing that is about them, you should.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Attend literary events and open mic nights.\", \"描述\": \"Reading your work aloud to an audience that wants to hear it is a great way to get feedback on your work and put your writing out there for others to enjoy. You can find literary events and open mic nights near you by searching online or looking through the events section in your local newspaper.\\nIt's important to attend other writers' literary readings/events, in addition to performing at your own events.\\nGoing to literary events to hear other writers read their work can help you build a stronger community or even network with likeminded individuals.\\nVirtually every town has some type of literary events on a regular basis.\\nYou don't need to move to New York City just to be part of a writing community. You can find out about local readings online or ask someone at an independent book store in your town about upcoming events and opportunities.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Join a writing club.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you're in school, are a recent graduate, or never attended school, you may benefit from joining a writing club. Writing clubs help you meet other writers in your area, spend time talking about writing each week, and get feedback on your work.\\nYou can find writing clubs near you by searching online, or by reading posters at your local bookstore.\\nThere are also many writing clubs available through social media outlets like Meetup.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Consider getting an agent.\", \"描述\": \"If you've written a book-length manuscript, you may be thinking about ways to get it published. You can always self-publish your book, but if you're interested in reaching a larger publisher, you may need an agent.\\nAn agent can help you with editing your manuscript, negotiating contract agreements, explaining the terms of a contract, and selling/promoting your work.\\nCompile a list of authors you admire who write in a similar style and genre as you, and search online to find out who those authors' literary agents are.\\nSend a query letter to each agent you're considering. Each agent will have different requirements for queries (including how long of an excerpt to send from your manuscript), so read their websites and familiarize yourself with what each agent wants.\\nKeep your query letters brief - no more than 1 page. Make sure your letter is well-written and free of any typos.\\nThe first paragraph of your letter should let the agent know why you've chosen him/her to reach out to. Mention any authors you admire that that agent has represented, and let the agent know you share similar tastes.\\nThe second paragraph should include a three or four sentence summary of your book (without too much detail).\\nThe third paragraph should include a short biography of yourself, including any relevant information about your work (which literary journals have published your work, for example).\\nIf the agent's website requests an excerpt, send one with your query letter. If not, wait for a response.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Find a publishing market that's right for you.\", \"描述\": \"Finding the right market for your writing can help you get your writing out to a larger audience, earn publication credits to your name, and may even help you get a book deal. That's because many agents and publishers read through literary journals and other publications to find writers who shows potential and promise.\\nKnow your audience. If you're writing sexually-explicit science fiction, for example, you may need to work within a more specialized market.\\nThere is a market for any type of writing. It just takes some searching to find literary journals and other publications that are the right fit for your style, content, and general premise.\\nYou can find literary publications online by searching for \\\"fiction literary journals,\\\" \\\"nonfiction literary journals,\\\" or \\\"poetry literary journals.\\\"\\nYou may also find copies of literary journals at a small, independent book store. This can help you become familiar with the type of writing typically published by those journals to see if your work would be a good fit.\\nWhen you go to a journal's website, they should have a section with writing guidelines, and may even post excerpts from published pieces. This can also help you determine if your work fits with their aesthetic.\\nIf you're ever in doubt, try sending a query letter. This is a professional letter/email sent to the editor(s) in which you pitch your piece of writing, summarize it or quote a small section of it, and ask the editor if she thinks it might be a good fit for that journal.\\nYou can also try sending out your work and seeing what the response is. There's no harm in trying, but be aware that some literary journals do charge a small reading fee for submissions that you send them.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Send out your work for publication.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've found a journal that you think would be a good fit for your work, it's time to send your work out. 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1. Value being truthful.
Make a choice
The truth is that sometimes the lies are kinder to the mind and heart. It's easier to find comfort in the falsehood and fantasies human beings have made for themselves. You have to make the choice between truth and comfort. They aren't always separate, or mutually exclusive, but they often are.
You must be willing to endure the heartache and the mental distress for the sake of what is true. If you can't accept that, you will never be able to truly think critically. You will always be biased based upon what you would rather believe to be true.
2. Examine your own beliefs.
Anyone can be critical of the things other people believe.
You can point and laugh and consider them silly for the things they believe to be true. Meanwhile, you may hold onto something even more ridiculous and laughable, but you cannot see it.
Make a list of the things that you hold to be true. Things that really mean something to you. Your personal philosophies and religious beliefs, the things you think about yourself, your biases about people and art and culture. This takes a long time, but it isn't meant to be done all at once. It's something you do everyday. When a thought occurs to you, ask yourself 'Is this true or is this just something I'm hanging on to?'
Wisdom comes from understanding other people, but enlightenment comes from understanding yourself. Start with and be most focused on yourself. You're the only person that you can control. It's most important that you are a critical thinker, not that you run everyone else's beliefs through a series of tests.
3. Don't make false assumptions.
Abandon assumption.
There is no coincidence that we find ourselves often apologizing in the form of 'Well, I assumed you meant...' An assumption is where you sacrifice your senses and mental faculties for the sake of a guess. Why assume when you can deduce? Why believe when you can know? Stop assuming. The fact is, you get no credit for a guess even if you're right. Don't assume that the car next to you will yield, watch carefully and react accordingly. Don't assume that you're well and healthy, go to the doctor and find out.
Assumption is what leads us to our most convincing, yet most incorrect beliefs. Ask yourself 'Why do I believe this to be true? Is it founded?' If not, abandon it. You might end up being right, but having evidence for your beliefs is more important than making correct guesses.
4. Use logic and reasoning.
There are a thousand books on logic.
Go find one and read it. Learn about what is logically valid and what isn't. For instance, populace bias. The number of people that believe in something does not correlate to its truth. Lies and fantasies are seductive and easier to adopt than hard truths. The greatest scientific discoveries in history have been rallied against and disbelieved passionately at one time or another. Don't assume that what is popular is what's true. Reason it out. Does it really make sense? Is there evidence?
5. Use different perspectives.
Have a broad basis of knowledge.
While not everyone needs to learn the ins and outs of quantum physics, it's important to remain well-informed. That which you are blind to can be used against you. Someone can convince you, perhaps, that the Latin sentence vini vidi vici means 'Buy Paul's snake oil'. That is, unless you know that it actually means 'I came, I saw, I conquered' or bother to look it up. Know your stuff.
Especially science and history. The energy healers would try to sell you on their ability to regulate your levels of vital energy, or chi. Despite the fact that no scientific research has ever proven such energy to exist. Unless you know that, you might end up parting with a couple of hundred dollars for a stranger to wave his hands over you for twenty minutes. Unless you know the scientific method, you can't identify pseudo-science.
6. Don't use too much jargon.
Recognize Jargon.
It's literally everywhere. Advertising, medical research, natural 'cures', spirituality, self-help books, car salesmen, lawyers, banking institutions, and insurance companies. What does 'all natural' mean and how different is it from the alternative? Five dollars? What is 'energy' and has it been identified in scientific research? What are auras and past lives and are there possibly other ways a 'psychic' could know so much about you?
You've got to be watchful. Most of the time, we glaze over these terms as though they actually mean something. It isn't until we are enlightened about the subject that we can spot it all. Well, don't wait to be scammed or made a fool of, recognize jargon for what it is. A bunch of empty words used to spruce up something you wouldn't otherwise fall for.
7. Ask questions.
Ask as many as you want.
If someone becomes nervous or something starts to fall apart because you're asking too many questions, that's a big red flag. Truthful, helpful and informative people want to be asked questions. Deceitful con-artists do not.
8. Know the difference between impossible and improbable.
A truly critical thinker isn't even limited by the laws of logic.
You may not adopt a belief without evidence, but a critical thinker also doesn't hold a strong disbelief in the absence of it. There are trillions of things that we can know, but there are likely just as many things that we can't. A critical thinker is hesitant to judge anything to be impossible. Implausible or improbable, yes. Impossible is much harder to prove.
Tips
Take things one step at a time. The things that we latch on to, despite how false they are, become a part of the floorboards beneath our feet. They support who we are. If we remove them all at once with haste, we end up falling through this foundation and become lost. Replace these floorboards with solid reasoning and new beliefs, based on evidence, so that you will have a place to stand.
Some truths are extremely difficult to deal with, such as truths about rape and molestation or deaths you have yet to accept. For these truths, it is suggested that you seek the help of others. A therapist if you can afford one, good friends if you have them, or a support group of some sort which can be found all over the internet and in your local area. The truth doesn't have to be tackled alone.
Use the Socratic Method of Questioning to get to the root of your beliefs. A critical thinker, above all else, knows that they know nothing but that they know nothing at all.
Warnings
Remember that people latch onto the fantasies you may have liberated yourself from. Think about the false beliefs we hang on to being an infected thumb. Now, imagine that someone comes along and tries to cut that thumb off all at once. Wouldn't you do everything you could to defend yourself? Wouldn't you fight and yell and plead with them that there is nothing wrong with your thumb? So, too, will the people you hope to inform. Tread lightly and ease people into the truths you discover. Be gentle. Let them diagnose the problem themselves, they will never believe your arguments. No matter how many times you tell them and how convincing you are.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Value being truthful.\\nMake a choice\\nThe truth is that sometimes the lies are kinder to the mind and heart. It's easier to find comfort in the falsehood and fantasies human beings have made for themselves. You have to make the choice between truth and comfort. They aren't always separate, or mutually exclusive, but they often are.\\nYou must be willing to endure the heartache and the mental distress for the sake of what is true. If you can't accept that, you will never be able to truly think critically. You will always be biased based upon what you would rather believe to be true.\\n2. Examine your own beliefs.\\nAnyone can be critical of the things other people believe.\\nYou can point and laugh and consider them silly for the things they believe to be true. Meanwhile, you may hold onto something even more ridiculous and laughable, but you cannot see it.\\nMake a list of the things that you hold to be true. Things that really mean something to you. Your personal philosophies and religious beliefs, the things you think about yourself, your biases about people and art and culture. This takes a long time, but it isn't meant to be done all at once. It's something you do everyday. When a thought occurs to you, ask yourself 'Is this true or is this just something I'm hanging on to?'\\nWisdom comes from understanding other people, but enlightenment comes from understanding yourself. Start with and be most focused on yourself. You're the only person that you can control. It's most important that you are a critical thinker, not that you run everyone else's beliefs through a series of tests.\\n3. Don't make false assumptions.\\nAbandon assumption.\\nThere is no coincidence that we find ourselves often apologizing in the form of 'Well, I assumed you meant...' An assumption is where you sacrifice your senses and mental faculties for the sake of a guess. Why assume when you can deduce? Why believe when you can know? Stop assuming. The fact is, you get no credit for a guess even if you're right. Don't assume that the car next to you will yield, watch carefully and react accordingly. Don't assume that you're well and healthy, go to the doctor and find out.\\nAssumption is what leads us to our most convincing, yet most incorrect beliefs. Ask yourself 'Why do I believe this to be true? Is it founded?' If not, abandon it. You might end up being right, but having evidence for your beliefs is more important than making correct guesses.\\n4. Use logic and reasoning.\\nThere are a thousand books on logic.\\nGo find one and read it. Learn about what is logically valid and what isn't. For instance, populace bias. The number of people that believe in something does not correlate to its truth. Lies and fantasies are seductive and easier to adopt than hard truths. The greatest scientific discoveries in history have been rallied against and disbelieved passionately at one time or another. Don't assume that what is popular is what's true. Reason it out. Does it really make sense? Is there evidence?\\n5. Use different perspectives.\\nHave a broad basis of knowledge.\\nWhile not everyone needs to learn the ins and outs of quantum physics, it's important to remain well-informed. That which you are blind to can be used against you. Someone can convince you, perhaps, that the Latin sentence vini vidi vici means 'Buy Paul's snake oil'. That is, unless you know that it actually means 'I came, I saw, I conquered' or bother to look it up. Know your stuff.\\nEspecially science and history. The energy healers would try to sell you on their ability to regulate your levels of vital energy, or chi. Despite the fact that no scientific research has ever proven such energy to exist. Unless you know that, you might end up parting with a couple of hundred dollars for a stranger to wave his hands over you for twenty minutes. Unless you know the scientific method, you can't identify pseudo-science.\\n6. Don't use too much jargon.\\nRecognize Jargon.\\nIt's literally everywhere. Advertising, medical research, natural 'cures', spirituality, self-help books, car salesmen, lawyers, banking institutions, and insurance companies. What does 'all natural' mean and how different is it from the alternative? Five dollars? What is 'energy' and has it been identified in scientific research? What are auras and past lives and are there possibly other ways a 'psychic' could know so much about you?\\nYou've got to be watchful. Most of the time, we glaze over these terms as though they actually mean something. It isn't until we are enlightened about the subject that we can spot it all. Well, don't wait to be scammed or made a fool of, recognize jargon for what it is. A bunch of empty words used to spruce up something you wouldn't otherwise fall for.\\n7. Ask questions.\\nAsk as many as you want.\\nIf someone becomes nervous or something starts to fall apart because you're asking too many questions, that's a big red flag. Truthful, helpful and informative people want to be asked questions. Deceitful con-artists do not.\\n8. Know the difference between impossible and improbable.\\nA truly critical thinker isn't even limited by the laws of logic.\\nYou may not adopt a belief without evidence, but a critical thinker also doesn't hold a strong disbelief in the absence of it. There are trillions of things that we can know, but there are likely just as many things that we can't. A critical thinker is hesitant to judge anything to be impossible. Implausible or improbable, yes. Impossible is much harder to prove.\\nTips\\nTake things one step at a time. The things that we latch on to, despite how false they are, become a part of the floorboards beneath our feet. They support who we are. If we remove them all at once with haste, we end up falling through this foundation and become lost. Replace these floorboards with solid reasoning and new beliefs, based on evidence, so that you will have a place to stand.\\nSome truths are extremely difficult to deal with, such as truths about rape and molestation or deaths you have yet to accept. For these truths, it is suggested that you seek the help of others. A therapist if you can afford one, good friends if you have them, or a support group of some sort which can be found all over the internet and in your local area. The truth doesn't have to be tackled alone.\\nUse the Socratic Method of Questioning to get to the root of your beliefs. A critical thinker, above all else, knows that they know nothing but that they know nothing at all.\\nWarnings\\nRemember that people latch onto the fantasies you may have liberated yourself from. Think about the false beliefs we hang on to being an infected thumb. Now, imagine that someone comes along and tries to cut that thumb off all at once. Wouldn't you do everything you could to defend yourself? Wouldn't you fight and yell and plead with them that there is nothing wrong with your thumb? So, too, will the people you hope to inform. Tread lightly and ease people into the truths you discover. Be gentle. Let them diagnose the problem themselves, they will never believe your arguments. No matter how many times you tell them and how convincing you are.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Sometimes it can be hard to navigate this world of ours. It's so easy to be led down the wrong paths by the charlatan map-makers of human society. Merely trusting in this system ensures that you will be misled and scammed and made a fool. Without critical thinking ability, there is nothing standing between you and the lies. However, with critical thinking ability, there is nothing standing between you and the truth.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Value being truthful.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make a choice\", \"描述\": \"The truth is that sometimes the lies are kinder to the mind and heart. It's easier to find comfort in the falsehood and fantasies human beings have made for themselves. You have to make the choice between truth and comfort. They aren't always separate, or mutually exclusive, but they often are.\\nYou must be willing to endure the heartache and the mental distress for the sake of what is true. If you can't accept that, you will never be able to truly think critically. You will always be biased based upon what you would rather believe to be true.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Examine your own beliefs.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Anyone can be critical of the things other people believe.\", \"描述\": \"You can point and laugh and consider them silly for the things they believe to be true. Meanwhile, you may hold onto something even more ridiculous and laughable, but you cannot see it.\\nMake a list of the things that you hold to be true. Things that really mean something to you. Your personal philosophies and religious beliefs, the things you think about yourself, your biases about people and art and culture. This takes a long time, but it isn't meant to be done all at once. It's something you do everyday. When a thought occurs to you, ask yourself 'Is this true or is this just something I'm hanging on to?'\\nWisdom comes from understanding other people, but enlightenment comes from understanding yourself. Start with and be most focused on yourself. You're the only person that you can control. It's most important that you are a critical thinker, not that you run everyone else's beliefs through a series of tests.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Don't make false assumptions.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Abandon assumption.\", \"描述\": \"There is no coincidence that we find ourselves often apologizing in the form of 'Well, I assumed you meant...' An assumption is where you sacrifice your senses and mental faculties for the sake of a guess. Why assume when you can deduce? Why believe when you can know? Stop assuming. The fact is, you get no credit for a guess even if you're right. Don't assume that the car next to you will yield, watch carefully and react accordingly. Don't assume that you're well and healthy, go to the doctor and find out.\\nAssumption is what leads us to our most convincing, yet most incorrect beliefs. Ask yourself 'Why do I believe this to be true? Is it founded?' If not, abandon it. You might end up being right, but having evidence for your beliefs is more important than making correct guesses.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use logic and reasoning.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"There are a thousand books on logic.\", \"描述\": \"Go find one and read it. Learn about what is logically valid and what isn't. For instance, populace bias. The number of people that believe in something does not correlate to its truth. Lies and fantasies are seductive and easier to adopt than hard truths. The greatest scientific discoveries in history have been rallied against and disbelieved passionately at one time or another. Don't assume that what is popular is what's true. Reason it out. Does it really make sense? Is there evidence?\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Use different perspectives.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Have a broad basis of knowledge.\", \"描述\": \"While not everyone needs to learn the ins and outs of quantum physics, it's important to remain well-informed. That which you are blind to can be used against you. Someone can convince you, perhaps, that the Latin sentence vini vidi vici means 'Buy Paul's snake oil'. That is, unless you know that it actually means 'I came, I saw, I conquered' or bother to look it up. Know your stuff.\\nEspecially science and history. The energy healers would try to sell you on their ability to regulate your levels of vital energy, or chi. Despite the fact that no scientific research has ever proven such energy to exist. Unless you know that, you might end up parting with a couple of hundred dollars for a stranger to wave his hands over you for twenty minutes. Unless you know the scientific method, you can't identify pseudo-science.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Don't use too much jargon.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Recognize Jargon.\", \"描述\": \"It's literally everywhere. Advertising, medical research, natural 'cures', spirituality, self-help books, car salesmen, lawyers, banking institutions, and insurance companies. What does 'all natural' mean and how different is it from the alternative? Five dollars? What is 'energy' and has it been identified in scientific research? What are auras and past lives and are there possibly other ways a 'psychic' could know so much about you?\\nYou've got to be watchful. Most of the time, we glaze over these terms as though they actually mean something. It isn't until we are enlightened about the subject that we can spot it all. Well, don't wait to be scammed or made a fool of, recognize jargon for what it is. A bunch of empty words used to spruce up something you wouldn't otherwise fall for.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Ask questions.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Ask as many as you want.\", \"描述\": \"If someone becomes nervous or something starts to fall apart because you're asking too many questions, that's a big red flag. Truthful, helpful and informative people want to be asked questions. Deceitful con-artists do not.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Know the difference between impossible and improbable.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A truly critical thinker isn't even limited by the laws of logic.\", \"描述\": \"You may not adopt a belief without evidence, but a critical thinker also doesn't hold a strong disbelief in the absence of it. There are trillions of things that we can know, but there are likely just as many things that we can't. A critical thinker is hesitant to judge anything to be impossible. Implausible or improbable, yes. Impossible is much harder to prove.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Take things one step at a time. The things that we latch on to, despite how false they are, become a part of the floorboards beneath our feet. They support who we are. If we remove them all at once with haste, we end up falling through this foundation and become lost. Replace these floorboards with solid reasoning and new beliefs, based on evidence, so that you will have a place to stand.\\n\", \"Some truths are extremely difficult to deal with, such as truths about rape and molestation or deaths you have yet to accept. For these truths, it is suggested that you seek the help of others. A therapist if you can afford one, good friends if you have them, or a support group of some sort which can be found all over the internet and in your local area. The truth doesn't have to be tackled alone.\\n\", \"Use the Socratic Method of Questioning to get to the root of your beliefs. A critical thinker, above all else, knows that they know nothing but that they know nothing at all.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Remember that people latch onto the fantasies you may have liberated yourself from. Think about the false beliefs we hang on to being an infected thumb. Now, imagine that someone comes along and tries to cut that thumb off all at once. Wouldn't you do everything you could to defend yourself? Wouldn't you fight and yell and plead with them that there is nothing wrong with your thumb? So, too, will the people you hope to inform. Tread lightly and ease people into the truths you discover. Be gentle. Let them diagnose the problem themselves, they will never believe your arguments. No matter how many times you tell them and how convincing you are.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Acquiring the Skills of a Customer Service Agent
1-1. Graduate from high school.
Customer service agents are required to have a high school diploma or a GED.
1-2. Learn how to communicate effectively.
Customer service agents are required to communicate regularly with the people a company does business with. You will need to speak clearly and professionally on the phone, in person and through email.
1-3. Gain experience with customers.
While most customer service agents receive training on the job, knowing how to work with customers will help prepare you for work as a customer service agent.
Work in a retail position. This will help you learn how to meet the needs of customers, process sales and returns and deal with complaints and problems.
Get a job in a service industry. Working as a waiter or a landscaper will be good practice in how to listen to customers and give them what they want.
1-4. Learn to feel comfortable with sales.
Not all customer service agents are required to sell products and services, but it might be part of your job.
Talk to people and identify their needs. This will help you recommend specific products and services. Identifying needs and matching them to purchases will help you become a customer service agent.
1-5. Learn the components of conflict resolution.
A customer service agent will need to be a problem solver. Know how to collect information and resolve the customer's problem while staying within a company's standards and procedures.
Practice treating everyone with a friendly, calm and respectful demeanor. Part of your job will be to talk with people who are angry, irrational and rude. You will need to remain professional and diplomatic and know how to handle irate customers.
2. Getting a Job as a Customer Service Agent
2-1. Put together a resume that reflects your experience.
It should include any positions you have had that required you to deal with customers, answer phones and answer questions.
Show the potential employer how good of a communicator you are by providing examples or metrics of how you have helped bring money in for the company, saved the company time or money, or made a difference in sales figures directly. This will make you a much more attractive candidate who stands out against the rest.
2-2. Respond to job listings you find online and in your local newspaper.
Sites that include companies hiring for customer service positions include CareerBuilder, Monster, SimplyHired and Indeed.
2-3. Sign up with a staffing agency.
You can find temporary or permanent customer service jobs with staffing agencies. There might be smaller localized staffing agencies in your area as well.
2-4. Learn how to network.
Get to know professional people by attending job fairs, training sessions and community events. You might meet people who know of job opportunities.
2-5. Work with placement or career offices at your school.
If you are a recent high school graduate, you might be able to get some guidance when it comes to job hunting. Community colleges often place their students with companies who are hiring as well.
2-6. Look for a customer service position working from home.
Many companies are reducing their overhead costs and allowing their customer service agents to do their jobs from home.
Ensure you have the necessary equipment. You will need a computer with an Internet connection and a landline phone.
Seek opportunities for virtual customer service jobs with companies such as hotel chains, home or online shopping networks, healthcare agencies and other corporations.
Check general career search agents such as Monster.com and Indeed, and look for specialized sites that promote work at home positions and include customer service agent jobs.
Tips
Expect shift work, depending on the type of company you are working for. Many customer service agents are required to work evenings and weekends.
Think about your salary requirements. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the median salary for a customer service agent in 2010 was $30,460 per year or $14.64 per hour.
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Learn to feel comfortable with sales.\\nNot all customer service agents are required to sell products and services, but it might be part of your job.\\nTalk to people and identify their needs. This will help you recommend specific products and services. Identifying needs and matching them to purchases will help you become a customer service agent.\\n1-5. Learn the components of conflict resolution.\\nA customer service agent will need to be a problem solver. Know how to collect information and resolve the customer's problem while staying within a company's standards and procedures.\\nPractice treating everyone with a friendly, calm and respectful demeanor. Part of your job will be to talk with people who are angry, irrational and rude. You will need to remain professional and diplomatic and know how to handle irate customers.\\n2. Getting a Job as a Customer Service Agent\\n2-1. Put together a resume that reflects your experience.\\nIt should include any positions you have had that required you to deal with customers, answer phones and answer questions.\\nShow the potential employer how good of a communicator you are by providing examples or metrics of how you have helped bring money in for the company, saved the company time or money, or made a difference in sales figures directly. This will make you a much more attractive candidate who stands out against the rest.\\n2-2. Respond to job listings you find online and in your local newspaper.\\nSites that include companies hiring for customer service positions include CareerBuilder, Monster, SimplyHired and Indeed.\\n2-3. Sign up with a staffing agency.\\nYou can find temporary or permanent customer service jobs with staffing agencies. There might be smaller localized staffing agencies in your area as well.\\n2-4. Learn how to network.\\nGet to know professional people by attending job fairs, training sessions and community events. You might meet people who know of job opportunities.\\n2-5. Work with placement or career offices at your school.\\nIf you are a recent high school graduate, you might be able to get some guidance when it comes to job hunting. Community colleges often place their students with companies who are hiring as well.\\n2-6. Look for a customer service position working from home.\\nMany companies are reducing their overhead costs and allowing their customer service agents to do their jobs from home.\\nEnsure you have the necessary equipment. You will need a computer with an Internet connection and a landline phone.\\nSeek opportunities for virtual customer service jobs with companies such as hotel chains, home or online shopping networks, healthcare agencies and other corporations.\\nCheck general career search agents such as Monster.com and Indeed, and look for specialized sites that promote work at home positions and include customer service agent jobs.\\nTips\\nExpect shift work, depending on the type of company you are working for. Many customer service agents are required to work evenings and weekends.\\nThink about your salary requirements. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the median salary for a customer service agent in 2010 was $30,460 per year or $14.64 per hour.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Customer service agents talk to customers on behalf of companies and businesses. They often answer questions, resolve problems, process sales and provide information. Some customer service agents work in designated call centers, where they can field phone calls and respond to emails, and others work for specific companies such as banks, airlines and insurance agencies. Be a customer service agent by acquiring the necessary skills for the job and finding a position that is a good match for your talents and career goals.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Acquiring the Skills of a Customer Service Agent\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Graduate from high school.\", \"描述\": \"Customer service agents are required to have a high school diploma or a GED.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn how to communicate effectively.\", \"描述\": \"Customer service agents are required to communicate regularly with the people a company does business with. You will need to speak clearly and professionally on the phone, in person and through email.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Gain experience with customers.\", \"描述\": \"While most customer service agents receive training on the job, knowing how to work with customers will help prepare you for work as a customer service agent.\\nWork in a retail position. This will help you learn how to meet the needs of customers, process sales and returns and deal with complaints and problems.\\nGet a job in a service industry. Working as a waiter or a landscaper will be good practice in how to listen to customers and give them what they want.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Learn to feel comfortable with sales.\", \"描述\": \"Not all customer service agents are required to sell products and services, but it might be part of your job.\\nTalk to people and identify their needs. This will help you recommend specific products and services. Identifying needs and matching them to purchases will help you become a customer service agent.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Learn the components of conflict resolution.\", \"描述\": \"A customer service agent will need to be a problem solver. Know how to collect information and resolve the customer's problem while staying within a company's standards and procedures.\\nPractice treating everyone with a friendly, calm and respectful demeanor. Part of your job will be to talk with people who are angry, irrational and rude. You will need to remain professional and diplomatic and know how to handle irate customers.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Getting a Job as a Customer Service Agent\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Put together a resume that reflects your experience.\", \"描述\": \"It should include any positions you have had that required you to deal with customers, answer phones and answer questions.\\nShow the potential employer how good of a communicator you are by providing examples or metrics of how you have helped bring money in for the company, saved the company time or money, or made a difference in sales figures directly. This will make you a much more attractive candidate who stands out against the rest.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Respond to job listings you find online and in your local newspaper.\", \"描述\": \"Sites that include companies hiring for customer service positions include CareerBuilder, Monster, SimplyHired and Indeed.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Sign up with a staffing agency.\", \"描述\": \"You can find temporary or permanent customer service jobs with staffing agencies. There might be smaller localized staffing agencies in your area as well.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Learn how to network.\", \"描述\": \"Get to know professional people by attending job fairs, training sessions and community events. You might meet people who know of job opportunities.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Work with placement or career offices at your school.\", \"描述\": \"If you are a recent high school graduate, you might be able to get some guidance when it comes to job hunting. Community colleges often place their students with companies who are hiring as well.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Look for a customer service position working from home.\", \"描述\": \"Many companies are reducing their overhead costs and allowing their customer service agents to do their jobs from home.\\nEnsure you have the necessary equipment. You will need a computer with an Internet connection and a landline phone.\\nSeek opportunities for virtual customer service jobs with companies such as hotel chains, home or online shopping networks, healthcare agencies and other corporations.\\nCheck general career search agents such as Monster.com and Indeed, and look for specialized sites that promote work at home positions and include customer service agent jobs.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Expect shift work, depending on the type of company you are working for. Many customer service agents are required to work evenings and weekends.\\n\", \"Think about your salary requirements. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the median salary for a customer service agent in 2010 was $30,460 per year or $14.64 per hour.\\n\"]}]}}",
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How to Be a Cute Girl
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1. Looking Like a Cute Girl
1-1. Choose a cute hair style.
One way to be a cute girl is to look cute, and you can do this by wearing the right clothes, accessories, and hairstyles. Hairstyles that will make you look cute include:
Pigtails
Braids
Long and messy ponytails
Bangs
Ringlets
Side ponytails
1-2. Wear clothes with cute elements.
Elements that can make clothes cute include colors, designs and patterns, and fabrics. Once you have the right materials and designs, you can put together entire cute outfits.
When it comes to picking colors, choose clothes in soft or pastel colors over bright and vibrant ones
Cute patterns include polka dots, florals, animal prints, and soft plaids
Opt for soft and flowy materials, such as cotton, chiffon, and lace
Clothes with ribbons, bows, and big buttons are also cute
1-3. Put together cute outfits.
Once you’ve got cute clothing styles picked out, you can put together cute outfits. The key here is wearing clothes that are youthful and fun without being too revealing. Good choices for cute clothes and outfits include:
Oversized shirts and sweaters paired with leggings or skinny pants
Dresses and pleated skirts with patterned leggings or knee-high socks
Strapless or spaghetti-strap dresses
1-4. Pair your wardrobe with cute accessories.
There are tons of cute accessories that you can use to make any outfit cute, and this includes jewelry, hair accessories, shoes, and more!
Cute accessories for your hair include bows, headbands, clips, and ribbons
Even hats can be cute, including oversized beanies, knit toques, and hats with pompoms
Good shoes for a cute outfit include Mary Janes, ballet slippers, and Oxfords
When it comes to jewelry, opt for funky pieces like charm bracelets and necklaces and earrings with animals or shapes
2. Acting Sweet and Friendly
2-1. Act innocent and sweet.
A major part of being cute is acting innocent, because cuteness is something associated with things that are childlike, harmless, and sweet. There are lots of ways you can act innocent and sweet, including:
Don’t swear or tell dirty jokes
Chew gum and blowing bubbles
Play with your hair
Be silly
2-2. Be approachable.
To be cute, one of the most important things you can do is be personable and fun. Being angry, frustrated, or defensive isn't cute, so work on being kind and friendly.
Say hello to people you know when you see them, and introduce yourself to new people when you meet.
Ask people about themselves, and listen to their answers. For instance, when you run into an acquaintance, you can say, “Hi! I haven't seen you in a while. How have you been?”
Be generous with compliments. For instance, if you love a friend’s new haircut, say, “Your hair looks incredible! It really brings out your eyes.”
Don’t cross your arms when you're in a crowd, because this can make you look defensive and unapproachable.
2-3. Smile often with your eyes and mouth.
One of the easiest ways you can be friendly and cute is to smile a lot when you're around other people. Most people know how to smile with their mouths, but you can also smile with your eyes and your whole face:
Start by thinking about something that makes you happy. When you have that happy feeling, narrow your eyes slightly without moving the other muscles of your face.
Smile ever so slightly with your mouth by turning up the corners of your mouth. This combination of expressions will give the impression that you are cheery, friendly, and easy to talk to.
2-4. Be sociable.
This means spending time with other people and being fun to be around. You can be sociable by going to parties and get-togethers when you're invited, organizing and hosting your own social events, talking to people when you're out, and keeping up old friendships and making new ones.
You don’t have to attend every social event you're invited to, but try to make an appearance at as many as you can manage without cutting into family time, work, school, and other obligations.
If you haven't talked to your friends in a while, call or text them to keep in touch and ask how they’ve been.
Make an effort to make friends with new people too. You can do this by inviting them out with you, getting to know them, and finding common interests.
When you chat with other people, try to be really mindful and present in your conversations.
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The key here is wearing clothes that are youthful and fun without being too revealing. Good choices for cute clothes and outfits include:\\nOversized shirts and sweaters paired with leggings or skinny pants\\nDresses and pleated skirts with patterned leggings or knee-high socks\\nStrapless or spaghetti-strap dresses\\n1-4. Pair your wardrobe with cute accessories.\\nThere are tons of cute accessories that you can use to make any outfit cute, and this includes jewelry, hair accessories, shoes, and more!\\nCute accessories for your hair include bows, headbands, clips, and ribbons\\nEven hats can be cute, including oversized beanies, knit toques, and hats with pompoms\\nGood shoes for a cute outfit include Mary Janes, ballet slippers, and Oxfords\\nWhen it comes to jewelry, opt for funky pieces like charm bracelets and necklaces and earrings with animals or shapes\\n2. Acting Sweet and Friendly\\n2-1. Act innocent and sweet.\\nA major part of being cute is acting innocent, because cuteness is something associated with things that are childlike, harmless, and sweet. There are lots of ways you can act innocent and sweet, including:\\nDon’t swear or tell dirty jokes\\nChew gum and blowing bubbles\\nPlay with your hair\\nBe silly\\n2-2. Be approachable.\\nTo be cute, one of the most important things you can do is be personable and fun. Being angry, frustrated, or defensive isn't cute, so work on being kind and friendly.\\nSay hello to people you know when you see them, and introduce yourself to new people when you meet.\\nAsk people about themselves, and listen to their answers. For instance, when you run into an acquaintance, you can say, “Hi! I haven't seen you in a while. How have you been?”\\nBe generous with compliments. For instance, if you love a friend’s new haircut, say, “Your hair looks incredible! It really brings out your eyes.”\\nDon’t cross your arms when you're in a crowd, because this can make you look defensive and unapproachable.\\n2-3. Smile often with your eyes and mouth.\\nOne of the easiest ways you can be friendly and cute is to smile a lot when you're around other people. Most people know how to smile with their mouths, but you can also smile with your eyes and your whole face:\\nStart by thinking about something that makes you happy. When you have that happy feeling, narrow your eyes slightly without moving the other muscles of your face.\\nSmile ever so slightly with your mouth by turning up the corners of your mouth. This combination of expressions will give the impression that you are cheery, friendly, and easy to talk to.\\n2-4. Be sociable.\\nThis means spending time with other people and being fun to be around. You can be sociable by going to parties and get-togethers when you're invited, organizing and hosting your own social events, talking to people when you're out, and keeping up old friendships and making new ones.\\nYou don’t have to attend every social event you're invited to, but try to make an appearance at as many as you can manage without cutting into family time, work, school, and other obligations.\\nIf you haven't talked to your friends in a while, call or text them to keep in touch and ask how they’ve been.\\nMake an effort to make friends with new people too. You can do this by inviting them out with you, getting to know them, and finding common interests.\\nWhen you chat with other people, try to be really mindful and present in your conversations.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a cute girl isn't just about what you look like, it’s also about how you dress, how you act, and how you treat other people. You can be cute by being open and friendly with people, by being interested and curious in new things, and by dressing and behaving in certain ways. But even if you want to try to be cuter, it’s still important that you be yourself, because people should like you for who you really are.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Looking Like a Cute Girl\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose a cute hair style.\", \"描述\": \"One way to be a cute girl is to look cute, and you can do this by wearing the right clothes, accessories, and hairstyles. Hairstyles that will make you look cute include:\\nPigtails\\nBraids\\nLong and messy ponytails\\nBangs\\nRinglets\\nSide ponytails\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wear clothes with cute elements.\", \"描述\": \"Elements that can make clothes cute include colors, designs and patterns, and fabrics. Once you have the right materials and designs, you can put together entire cute outfits.\\nWhen it comes to picking colors, choose clothes in soft or pastel colors over bright and vibrant ones\\nCute patterns include polka dots, florals, animal prints, and soft plaids\\nOpt for soft and flowy materials, such as cotton, chiffon, and lace\\nClothes with ribbons, bows, and big buttons are also cute\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Put together cute outfits.\", \"描述\": \"Once you’ve got cute clothing styles picked out, you can put together cute outfits. The key here is wearing clothes that are youthful and fun without being too revealing. Good choices for cute clothes and outfits include:\\nOversized shirts and sweaters paired with leggings or skinny pants\\nDresses and pleated skirts with patterned leggings or knee-high socks\\nStrapless or spaghetti-strap dresses\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Pair your wardrobe with cute accessories.\", \"描述\": \"There are tons of cute accessories that you can use to make any outfit cute, and this includes jewelry, hair accessories, shoes, and more!\\nCute accessories for your hair include bows, headbands, clips, and ribbons\\nEven hats can be cute, including oversized beanies, knit toques, and hats with pompoms\\nGood shoes for a cute outfit include Mary Janes, ballet slippers, and Oxfords\\nWhen it comes to jewelry, opt for funky pieces like charm bracelets and necklaces and earrings with animals or shapes\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Acting Sweet and Friendly\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Act innocent and sweet.\", \"描述\": \"A major part of being cute is acting innocent, because cuteness is something associated with things that are childlike, harmless, and sweet. There are lots of ways you can act innocent and sweet, including:\\nDon’t swear or tell dirty jokes\\nChew gum and blowing bubbles\\nPlay with your hair\\nBe silly\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be approachable.\", \"描述\": \"To be cute, one of the most important things you can do is be personable and fun. Being angry, frustrated, or defensive isn't cute, so work on being kind and friendly.\\nSay hello to people you know when you see them, and introduce yourself to new people when you meet.\\nAsk people about themselves, and listen to their answers. For instance, when you run into an acquaintance, you can say, “Hi! I haven't seen you in a while. How have you been?”\\nBe generous with compliments. For instance, if you love a friend’s new haircut, say, “Your hair looks incredible! It really brings out your eyes.”\\nDon’t cross your arms when you're in a crowd, because this can make you look defensive and unapproachable.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Smile often with your eyes and mouth.\", \"描述\": \"One of the easiest ways you can be friendly and cute is to smile a lot when you're around other people. Most people know how to smile with their mouths, but you can also smile with your eyes and your whole face:\\nStart by thinking about something that makes you happy. When you have that happy feeling, narrow your eyes slightly without moving the other muscles of your face.\\nSmile ever so slightly with your mouth by turning up the corners of your mouth. This combination of expressions will give the impression that you are cheery, friendly, and easy to talk to.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be sociable.\", \"描述\": \"This means spending time with other people and being fun to be around. 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How to Be a Cute Girl in Middle School
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1. Looking Cute
1-1. Maintain good personal hygiene
To look fresh and clean, make sure you shower and wash your hair regularly. Brush your teeth before school each morning, and wash your face with a facial soap of your choice.
Wear deodorant to keep you smelling fresh, especially if you’ll be participating in gym class or an after-school sport.
Aiming to wash your hair every other day is a good way to keep your hair clean and healthy.
Look for a facial cleanser that's gentle on your skin and won't clog pores.
1-2. Choose a cute hairstyle.
Your hair is an important part of your look, and if you spend a few extra minutes choosing a cute hairstyle, it will take your look to the next level. Try braiding your hair, putting it into a ponytail, or creating a messy bun.
Braided pigtails are a popular cute hairstyle, and so is a braided ponytail.
Pull your hair into a side ponytail with a headband.
If you have long hair, use a clip to pull a section of hair to the side.
Shorter hair looks great with waves or curls in it.
1-3. Pick out clothing in pastels or prints.
Pastels in colors such as pink, blue, and purple look cute, and prints like polka dots, animal print, or stripes create a cool outfit. Choose tops, bottoms, and dresses that you’re comfortable in and that you think look good on you. Just make sure you stick to your school’s dress-code.
If you love wearing dresses, try finding some with lace on them for a cute look.
A pair of jeans looks great with a flowy pastel-colored top.
You could wear printed shorts, like a pair with stripes or flowers on them, with a solid colored shirt that matches.
A colorful skirt would also look cute with a form-fitting shirt.
1-4. Put effort into your outerwear and shoes.
For your outerwear, try wearing jean jackets, soft sweaters, or jackets with a design on them. Choose shoes that are practical for school, such as sneakers, boots, or sandals.
If you already have a jean jacket, you can decorate it yourself.
Sweaters in light blues, pinks, grays, and other pastel colors look cute.
There are lots of printed sneakers that you can find in shoe stores or online, and comfortable flats are another great shoe option.
1-5. Wear minimal makeup, if desired.
If your parents and the school rules allow you to wear makeup to school, it can be a great way to boost your confidence or cover up any imperfections. Just make sure that you’re using makeup to enhance the cute features you already have, not make you look like an entirely different person.
A light foundation or concealer, mascara, and lip gloss are good beauty supplies to use.
Choose makeup that's right for your skin tone.
Remember to wash or wipe the face skin and to apply a moisturizer before applying any makeup.
When applying makeup, work with thin layers and blend it well.
1-6. Accessorize your outfits.
Accessories will make your outfit look put-together and complete. If you love jewelry, try to wear 1-2 pieces of jewelry with each outfit. Colorful scarves can be a great accessory for colder months, and headbands always look cute.
Try wearing a pair of your favorite earrings with a colorful or sparkly bracelet.
Wearing different rings on your fingers is a great way to complement your outfit.
A unique necklace looks great with a dress or V-neck shirt.
If you wear glasses, consider picking out frames with a cute design or color to them.
1-7. Invest in cute school supplies.
Accessories don’t just have to be for your outfit — accessorize with your school supplies as well! Buy a cute backpack, use personalized pencils, or decorate your own notebooks. Make your school supplies show off how cute you are.
Decorate things like your binders and notebooks by using duct tape, stickers, or collage.
Turn new or old supplies like mirrors, pencil cases, and backpacks into cute accessories by getting crafty.
1-8. Personalize your school uniform
If you're required to wear a uniform to school, there are lots of ways to look cute without relying on different outfits. Use accessorizing to your advantage and see if you can add any personal tweaks to your uniform.
Use jewelry, scarves, and shoes to make your outfit more unique.
Get your uniform tailored so that it fits you perfectly.
If allowed, wear unique belts or sweaters over your uniform to personalize your outfit.
2. Having a Cute Personality
2-1. Have a positive attitude
Thinking positive thoughts will make your inner and outer personality shine. If you’re feeling sad or are having negative thoughts, try replacing them with positive ones. How you feel on the inside reflects on the outside, so stay positive to show everyone the cute, happy side of you.
For example, if you’re worried about a big test that’s coming up, focus your energy on studying lots and telling yourself that you’re going to do great.
Use positive thinking to improve your mood, not to pretend to be happy. If there's a bigger issue going on in your life, like you're feeling depressed or are dealing with bullying, reach out to a parent or other adult that you trust for help and when its fixed, you'll feel better.
2-2. Radiate confidence
To be confident, you need to believe in yourself. There may be things that make you nervous, but think of all the things you’re great at and focus on those when you need a little confidence boost.
You can show confidence by standing with a straight back, smiling, and openly engaging with others.
For example, if you're getting ready to give a presentation to the class and are feeling nervous, remember that you know a lot about your topic or are really good at answering people's questions to give yourself some confidence.
2-3. Ignore any gossip or bad vibes.
Gossip is a natural part of middle school, but you don’t need to let it affect how you think of yourself or others. If someone is gossiping about you, shake it off and keep being a positive, caring, and confident person.
Being cute also means not taking part in gossip about others. If you hear friends talking about someone, try to think of how that person feels and see things from their perspective.
If you don't join in the gossip, this doesn't mean that you won't fit in with the group. People aren't likely to get mad at you for trying to be nice to others.
2-4. Stick to your studies
Being a cute girl doesn’t just mean socializing and smiling — you need to stay smart as well. Do your best in school and stay up-to-date with your homework. Putting in effort to get good grades is super important, and you’ll feel better and more confident.
2-5. Stay true to yourself.
If you’re spending all of your time trying your hardest to be cute, you’re not focusing on your true self. There’s no perfect way to be cute, so find ways to enhance your personal cuteness and always be yourself.
For example, you don’t need to wear dresses just because you’ve been told they’re cute. If you love wearing pants, wear pants! There are tons of ways to turn pants into a cute outfit.
3. Interacting with Others
3-1. Smile as often as possible.
A smile will automatically transform your face, making you look happier and friendlier. Try to smile at everyone, whether you know them personally or not. Smile at people as you pass them in the hall, while you’re eating at lunch, and when you answer questions from your teacher in class.
Smiling will automatically help improve your mood and make you feel happier, too!
3-2. Be polite
No matter who you’re talking to — friends, teachers, or other peers who you don’t know — use your best manners and show respect. This can be as simple as making eye contact with people when they’re talking to you or saying please and thank you.
Greet people with a smile when speaking to them.
Being polite also means avoiding language that hurts others and actively listening when someone is talking to you.
Be polite and show respect to your teachers by showing up on time for class and not talking to other students when a teacher is talking.
3-3. Make yourself approachable.
You want to make people feel comfortable walking up and talking to you, especially if they’re not already your friend. Smile and greet people who you talk to, making sure that you’re engaged and paying attention to what they’re saying.
Use friendly body language, such as having your body facing the person you’re talking to and giving them your full attention by putting your phone away.
3-4. Socialize with others.
It's important to create strong friendships and bonds with other people through socializing. This can be simply chatting with someone about their weekend in the hallway, or talking to a group during lunch.
After-school activities are a great way to get to know other people and to show others your unique and cute personality.
You don't have to constantly be chatting with people — it's more important to form meaningful relationships.
3-5. Be a friend to everyone.
Cute girls don’t just hang out with their best friends. Being kind to everyone not only makes people like you, but it makes you feel good as well. While it's great to say hello to people in the hall, simply smiling and being yourself when people approach you is great too.
If one of your classmates is struggling in a subject, offer to help them learn the material by starting a study group.
You could even have a goal of getting to know 1 new person each week.
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Try braiding your hair, putting it into a ponytail, or creating a messy bun.\\nBraided pigtails are a popular cute hairstyle, and so is a braided ponytail.\\nPull your hair into a side ponytail with a headband.\\nIf you have long hair, use a clip to pull a section of hair to the side.\\nShorter hair looks great with waves or curls in it.\\n1-3. Pick out clothing in pastels or prints.\\nPastels in colors such as pink, blue, and purple look cute, and prints like polka dots, animal print, or stripes create a cool outfit. Choose tops, bottoms, and dresses that you’re comfortable in and that you think look good on you. Just make sure you stick to your school’s dress-code.\\nIf you love wearing dresses, try finding some with lace on them for a cute look.\\nA pair of jeans looks great with a flowy pastel-colored top.\\nYou could wear printed shorts, like a pair with stripes or flowers on them, with a solid colored shirt that matches.\\nA colorful skirt would also look cute with a form-fitting shirt.\\n1-4. Put effort into your outerwear and shoes.\\nFor your outerwear, try wearing jean jackets, soft sweaters, or jackets with a design on them. Choose shoes that are practical for school, such as sneakers, boots, or sandals.\\nIf you already have a jean jacket, you can decorate it yourself.\\nSweaters in light blues, pinks, grays, and other pastel colors look cute.\\nThere are lots of printed sneakers that you can find in shoe stores or online, and comfortable flats are another great shoe option.\\n1-5. Wear minimal makeup, if desired.\\nIf your parents and the school rules allow you to wear makeup to school, it can be a great way to boost your confidence or cover up any imperfections. Just make sure that you’re using makeup to enhance the cute features you already have, not make you look like an entirely different person.\\nA light foundation or concealer, mascara, and lip gloss are good beauty supplies to use.\\nChoose makeup that's right for your skin tone.\\nRemember to wash or wipe the face skin and to apply a moisturizer before applying any makeup.\\nWhen applying makeup, work with thin layers and blend it well.\\n1-6. Accessorize your outfits.\\nAccessories will make your outfit look put-together and complete. If you love jewelry, try to wear 1-2 pieces of jewelry with each outfit. Colorful scarves can be a great accessory for colder months, and headbands always look cute.\\nTry wearing a pair of your favorite earrings with a colorful or sparkly bracelet.\\nWearing different rings on your fingers is a great way to complement your outfit.\\nA unique necklace looks great with a dress or V-neck shirt.\\nIf you wear glasses, consider picking out frames with a cute design or color to them.\\n1-7. Invest in cute school supplies.\\nAccessories don’t just have to be for your outfit — accessorize with your school supplies as well! Buy a cute backpack, use personalized pencils, or decorate your own notebooks. Make your school supplies show off how cute you are.\\n\\nDecorate things like your binders and notebooks by using duct tape, stickers, or collage.\\nTurn new or old supplies like mirrors, pencil cases, and backpacks into cute accessories by getting crafty.\\n1-8. Personalize your school uniform\\nIf you're required to wear a uniform to school, there are lots of ways to look cute without relying on different outfits. Use accessorizing to your advantage and see if you can add any personal tweaks to your uniform.\\nUse jewelry, scarves, and shoes to make your outfit more unique.\\nGet your uniform tailored so that it fits you perfectly.\\nIf allowed, wear unique belts or sweaters over your uniform to personalize your outfit.\\n2. Having a Cute Personality\\n2-1. Have a positive attitude\\nThinking positive thoughts will make your inner and outer personality shine. If you’re feeling sad or are having negative thoughts, try replacing them with positive ones. How you feel on the inside reflects on the outside, so stay positive to show everyone the cute, happy side of you.\\nFor example, if you’re worried about a big test that’s coming up, focus your energy on studying lots and telling yourself that you’re going to do great.\\nUse positive thinking to improve your mood, not to pretend to be happy. If there's a bigger issue going on in your life, like you're feeling depressed or are dealing with bullying, reach out to a parent or other adult that you trust for help and when its fixed, you'll feel better.\\n2-2. Radiate confidence\\nTo be confident, you need to believe in yourself. There may be things that make you nervous, but think of all the things you’re great at and focus on those when you need a little confidence boost.\\nYou can show confidence by standing with a straight back, smiling, and openly engaging with others.\\nFor example, if you're getting ready to give a presentation to the class and are feeling nervous, remember that you know a lot about your topic or are really good at answering people's questions to give yourself some confidence.\\n2-3. Ignore any gossip or bad vibes.\\nGossip is a natural part of middle school, but you don’t need to let it affect how you think of yourself or others. If someone is gossiping about you, shake it off and keep being a positive, caring, and confident person.\\nBeing cute also means not taking part in gossip about others. If you hear friends talking about someone, try to think of how that person feels and see things from their perspective.\\nIf you don't join in the gossip, this doesn't mean that you won't fit in with the group. People aren't likely to get mad at you for trying to be nice to others.\\n2-4. Stick to your studies\\nBeing a cute girl doesn’t just mean socializing and smiling — you need to stay smart as well. Do your best in school and stay up-to-date with your homework. Putting in effort to get good grades is super important, and you’ll feel better and more confident.\\n2-5. Stay true to yourself.\\nIf you’re spending all of your time trying your hardest to be cute, you’re not focusing on your true self. There’s no perfect way to be cute, so find ways to enhance your personal cuteness and always be yourself.\\nFor example, you don’t need to wear dresses just because you’ve been told they’re cute. If you love wearing pants, wear pants! There are tons of ways to turn pants into a cute outfit.\\n3. Interacting with Others\\n3-1. Smile as often as possible.\\nA smile will automatically transform your face, making you look happier and friendlier. Try to smile at everyone, whether you know them personally or not. Smile at people as you pass them in the hall, while you’re eating at lunch, and when you answer questions from your teacher in class.\\nSmiling will automatically help improve your mood and make you feel happier, too!\\n3-2. Be polite\\nNo matter who you’re talking to — friends, teachers, or other peers who you don’t know — use your best manners and show respect. This can be as simple as making eye contact with people when they’re talking to you or saying please and thank you.\\nGreet people with a smile when speaking to them.\\nBeing polite also means avoiding language that hurts others and actively listening when someone is talking to you.\\nBe polite and show respect to your teachers by showing up on time for class and not talking to other students when a teacher is talking.\\n3-3. Make yourself approachable.\\nYou want to make people feel comfortable walking up and talking to you, especially if they’re not already your friend. Smile and greet people who you talk to, making sure that you’re engaged and paying attention to what they’re saying.\\nUse friendly body language, such as having your body facing the person you’re talking to and giving them your full attention by putting your phone away.\\n3-4. Socialize with others.\\nIt's important to create strong friendships and bonds with other people through socializing. This can be simply chatting with someone about their weekend in the hallway, or talking to a group during lunch.\\nAfter-school activities are a great way to get to know other people and to show others your unique and cute personality.\\nYou don't have to constantly be chatting with people — it's more important to form meaningful relationships.\\n3-5. Be a friend to everyone.\\nCute girls don’t just hang out with their best friends. Being kind to everyone not only makes people like you, but it makes you feel good as well. While it's great to say hello to people in the hall, simply smiling and being yourself when people approach you is great too.\\nIf one of your classmates is struggling in a subject, offer to help them learn the material by starting a study group.\\nYou could even have a goal of getting to know 1 new person each week.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"When you're in middle school, it's natural for you to want to put your best foot forward. To be cute, it's important to have good personal hygiene, be nice to others, and embrace your own personal style. There are also ways to enhance your cuteness — you can smile lots, put together cute outfits, and stay away from gossip.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Looking Cute\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Maintain good personal hygiene\", \"描述\": \"To look fresh and clean, make sure you shower and wash your hair regularly. Brush your teeth before school each morning, and wash your face with a facial soap of your choice.\\nWear deodorant to keep you smelling fresh, especially if you’ll be participating in gym class or an after-school sport.\\nAiming to wash your hair every other day is a good way to keep your hair clean and healthy.\\nLook for a facial cleanser that's gentle on your skin and won't clog pores.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose a cute hairstyle.\", \"描述\": \"Your hair is an important part of your look, and if you spend a few extra minutes choosing a cute hairstyle, it will take your look to the next level. Try braiding your hair, putting it into a ponytail, or creating a messy bun.\\nBraided pigtails are a popular cute hairstyle, and so is a braided ponytail.\\nPull your hair into a side ponytail with a headband.\\nIf you have long hair, use a clip to pull a section of hair to the side.\\nShorter hair looks great with waves or curls in it.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Pick out clothing in pastels or prints.\", \"描述\": \"Pastels in colors such as pink, blue, and purple look cute, and prints like polka dots, animal print, or stripes create a cool outfit. Choose tops, bottoms, and dresses that you’re comfortable in and that you think look good on you. Just make sure you stick to your school’s dress-code.\\nIf you love wearing dresses, try finding some with lace on them for a cute look.\\nA pair of jeans looks great with a flowy pastel-colored top.\\nYou could wear printed shorts, like a pair with stripes or flowers on them, with a solid colored shirt that matches.\\nA colorful skirt would also look cute with a form-fitting shirt.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Put effort into your outerwear and shoes.\", \"描述\": \"For your outerwear, try wearing jean jackets, soft sweaters, or jackets with a design on them. Choose shoes that are practical for school, such as sneakers, boots, or sandals.\\nIf you already have a jean jacket, you can decorate it yourself.\\nSweaters in light blues, pinks, grays, and other pastel colors look cute.\\nThere are lots of printed sneakers that you can find in shoe stores or online, and comfortable flats are another great shoe option.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Wear minimal makeup, if desired.\", \"描述\": \"If your parents and the school rules allow you to wear makeup to school, it can be a great way to boost your confidence or cover up any imperfections. Just make sure that you’re using makeup to enhance the cute features you already have, not make you look like an entirely different person.\\nA light foundation or concealer, mascara, and lip gloss are good beauty supplies to use.\\nChoose makeup that's right for your skin tone.\\nRemember to wash or wipe the face skin and to apply a moisturizer before applying any makeup.\\nWhen applying makeup, work with thin layers and blend it well.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Accessorize your outfits.\", \"描述\": \"Accessories will make your outfit look put-together and complete. If you love jewelry, try to wear 1-2 pieces of jewelry with each outfit. Colorful scarves can be a great accessory for colder months, and headbands always look cute.\\nTry wearing a pair of your favorite earrings with a colorful or sparkly bracelet.\\nWearing different rings on your fingers is a great way to complement your outfit.\\nA unique necklace looks great with a dress or V-neck shirt.\\nIf you wear glasses, consider picking out frames with a cute design or color to them.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Invest in cute school supplies.\", \"描述\": \"Accessories don’t just have to be for your outfit — accessorize with your school supplies as well! Buy a cute backpack, use personalized pencils, or decorate your own notebooks. Make your school supplies show off how cute you are.\\n\\nDecorate things like your binders and notebooks by using duct tape, stickers, or collage.\\nTurn new or old supplies like mirrors, pencil cases, and backpacks into cute accessories by getting crafty.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Personalize your school uniform\", \"描述\": \"If you're required to wear a uniform to school, there are lots of ways to look cute without relying on different outfits. Use accessorizing to your advantage and see if you can add any personal tweaks to your uniform.\\nUse jewelry, scarves, and shoes to make your outfit more unique.\\nGet your uniform tailored so that it fits you perfectly.\\nIf allowed, wear unique belts or sweaters over your uniform to personalize your outfit.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Having a Cute Personality\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Have a positive attitude\", \"描述\": \"Thinking positive thoughts will make your inner and outer personality shine. If you’re feeling sad or are having negative thoughts, try replacing them with positive ones. How you feel on the inside reflects on the outside, so stay positive to show everyone the cute, happy side of you.\\nFor example, if you’re worried about a big test that’s coming up, focus your energy on studying lots and telling yourself that you’re going to do great.\\nUse positive thinking to improve your mood, not to pretend to be happy. If there's a bigger issue going on in your life, like you're feeling depressed or are dealing with bullying, reach out to a parent or other adult that you trust for help and when its fixed, you'll feel better.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Radiate confidence\", \"描述\": \"To be confident, you need to believe in yourself. There may be things that make you nervous, but think of all the things you’re great at and focus on those when you need a little confidence boost.\\nYou can show confidence by standing with a straight back, smiling, and openly engaging with others.\\nFor example, if you're getting ready to give a presentation to the class and are feeling nervous, remember that you know a lot about your topic or are really good at answering people's questions to give yourself some confidence.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Ignore any gossip or bad vibes.\", \"描述\": \"Gossip is a natural part of middle school, but you don’t need to let it affect how you think of yourself or others. If someone is gossiping about you, shake it off and keep being a positive, caring, and confident person.\\nBeing cute also means not taking part in gossip about others. If you hear friends talking about someone, try to think of how that person feels and see things from their perspective.\\nIf you don't join in the gossip, this doesn't mean that you won't fit in with the group. People aren't likely to get mad at you for trying to be nice to others.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stick to your studies\", \"描述\": \"Being a cute girl doesn’t just mean socializing and smiling — you need to stay smart as well. Do your best in school and stay up-to-date with your homework. Putting in effort to get good grades is super important, and you’ll feel better and more confident.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Stay true to yourself.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re spending all of your time trying your hardest to be cute, you’re not focusing on your true self. There’s no perfect way to be cute, so find ways to enhance your personal cuteness and always be yourself.\\nFor example, you don’t need to wear dresses just because you’ve been told they’re cute. If you love wearing pants, wear pants! There are tons of ways to turn pants into a cute outfit.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Interacting with Others\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Smile as often as possible.\", \"描述\": \"A smile will automatically transform your face, making you look happier and friendlier. Try to smile at everyone, whether you know them personally or not. Smile at people as you pass them in the hall, while you’re eating at lunch, and when you answer questions from your teacher in class.\\nSmiling will automatically help improve your mood and make you feel happier, too!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be polite\", \"描述\": \"No matter who you’re talking to — friends, teachers, or other peers who you don’t know — use your best manners and show respect. This can be as simple as making eye contact with people when they’re talking to you or saying please and thank you.\\nGreet people with a smile when speaking to them.\\nBeing polite also means avoiding language that hurts others and actively listening when someone is talking to you.\\nBe polite and show respect to your teachers by showing up on time for class and not talking to other students when a teacher is talking.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make yourself approachable.\", \"描述\": \"You want to make people feel comfortable walking up and talking to you, especially if they’re not already your friend. Smile and greet people who you talk to, making sure that you’re engaged and paying attention to what they’re saying.\\nUse friendly body language, such as having your body facing the person you’re talking to and giving them your full attention by putting your phone away.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Socialize with others.\", \"描述\": \"It's important to create strong friendships and bonds with other people through socializing. This can be simply chatting with someone about their weekend in the hallway, or talking to a group during lunch.\\nAfter-school activities are a great way to get to know other people and to show others your unique and cute personality.\\nYou don't have to constantly be chatting with people — it's more important to form meaningful relationships.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be a friend to everyone.\", \"描述\": \"Cute girls don’t just hang out with their best friends. Being kind to everyone not only makes people like you, but it makes you feel good as well. While it's great to say hello to people in the hall, simply smiling and being yourself when people approach you is great too.\\nIf one of your classmates is struggling in a subject, offer to help them learn the material by starting a study group.\\nYou could even have a goal of getting to know 1 new person each week.\"}]}]}}",
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1. Changing the Way You Look
1-1. Take a shower regularly.
Use soap and a washcloth to clean your entire body. Do this in the morning, that way you are smelling good right as you walk out the door. You especially want to wash sweaty areas, like your armpits, behind your knees, and between your legs.
1-2. Wash your hair thoroughly.
While you are in the shower, use shampoo and conditioner. Check the labels to make sure that alcohol is not a component of your hair care product; this will dry your hair out. Run your hands through your hair with the shampoo and conditioner for at least a minute or two. You want to make sure you get rid of any dandruff and debris from the previous day.
1-3. Use facial and skin creams.
To be cute, you want to get rid of most, if not all, your acne. There are many products available, but stay away from ones containing alcohol (will dry your skin and cause more irritation). Applying a daily facial moisturizer will also help your face look smooth and silky. Rub the cream on your face with a pad or your hands. Make sure that your pad/hands are slightly dampened first, as well as your face. Use small circular strokes to apply.
1-4. Shave in the morning or at night.
First apply a shaving cream or lotion to your face. Then take a razor, and take off those pesky hairs. You can create interesting mustaches, or just shave it all off. The benefit of shaving at night is that you won't have to show off any razor cuts you accidentally made. However, shaving in the morning alleviates a five o'clock shadow.
1-5. Apply an antiperspirant or deodorant at least once a day.
This is for your own personal hygiene, as well as a way to smell good in front of other people. Take a stick of deodorant and rub it underneath your armpits once in the morning. This will prevent sweat stains from occurring throughout the day and make you smell good. Always carry a stick in your car or backpack in case you forget in the morning.
1-6. Spray on a body spray or cologne.
An added fragrance can entice the girls (or boys), as well as make people notice you. Spray on a minor amount to "pulse points." These are around the neckline, wrists, and the back of knees. The heat from these "pulse points" will spread the scent of the spray throughout the day. Overdoing the spray will detract more people than it will attract.
1-7. Keep your nails trim and tidy.
This might seem minor, but it is incredibly important. Use nail clippers and trim your fingernails and toenails down until you can barely see the wide edge. Use a nail filer and smooth the edges. You will not only look like you care about your appearance, but when you touch others it will feel smooth and comfortable.
1-8. Create a new and interesting hairstyle.
Use a hair gel or styling cream and spike your hair. You can also get creams/gels that specialize in more classic looks (Don Draper hairdo) or bedhead looks. Take a dime sized amount and run it through your hair. Then, using your hands and a comb, straighten your hair how you would like. If you need more gel/cream, keep adding dime sized amounts. You can also get your hair combed, cut, and styled professionally.
1-9. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day.
Yellow, or stained teeth are not attractive. Make sure to brush in a circular motion, dislodging plaque and scum from the previous hours' meals. Always floss to get the incredibly hard-to-find debris lodged in your teeth. Take a piece of floss about 6 inches long, and wrap the two ends around a finger from each hand. Also make sure to schedule dentist appointments every six months to get your teeth cleaned professionally.
1-10. Try on some new clothes.
Always remember to change your wardrobe up every 6 months to a year. The same clothes get stale fast, and the colors tend to fade. Tank-tops are popular in the summer, as are flip-flops. In the winter, tight fitted jeans are in style, along with a pair of boat shoes or Converse. Clothing is up to the individual, however, you can always get advice from a friend, partner, or a clothing professional whom works at the store.
1-11. Buy some new shades.
Aviator or rectangular sunglasses are whats currently in style. Buy a pair to wear when you are riding in your car. Keep them inside the glove compartment so you don't forget them. Or you can wear them inside, which looks even more daring and cool.
2. Altering the Way You Act
2-1. Stand up straight.
Keep a good posture and don't slouch. Look approachable by keeping your arms by your side. Avoid crossing your arms over your chest, this is a sign that you don't want people around you. When you walk you should also remain upright, with your back straight. This shows people that you care about your demeanor, and are confident.
2-2. Remember to smile a lot.
Looking serious and cold is a major turn off. However, wide grins are usually left for only your friends, as it can look goofy if you aim it at a girl. However, if you know a person likes you, a goofy grin can be the perfect type of smile. Closed mouth smiles are adorable, and/or you can grin softly too. A consistent smile shows people that you are a positive person, and upbeat about life.
2-3. Laugh, and make others laugh.
People who laugh are seen as more positive cheerful. Grab a joke book, and learn some funny pick-up lines. Saying sarcastic comments (that aren't derogatory) can make you seem witty and cunning. If someone else tells a funny joke, feel free to laugh at it and let loose.
2-4. Flip and fiddle with your hair.
Some of the cutest things guys can do is to casually flip their hair with their hand, or shake it in the breeze. Seeing those locks flow back, and revealing your bright, smiling face. Sometimes even the smallest things work, like twirling a few curls of your hair with your fingers as you are studying. Comb through your hair occasionally, or run your hand through it, trying to straighten it out. It shows that you are both cute, and care about the way you look to other people.
2-5. Be an intelligent person.
Some of the cutest guys are those who care about grades and class. You don't have to be top of the class, but keep your grades up to grade level. Even if you are not interested in "book smarts," show an interest in learning, and participating in new experiences. A passion, like loving Star Trek, or world affairs, shows other people that you take interests and follow through with them.
2-6. Remain vigilant of other peoples' feelings.
Show your sensitive side and caress a person who is having a bad day. Don't be the bully in class, who is overly obnoxious. It is much more cute to show that you care about other people, and that you are willing to go out of your way to help someone. Strike up a conversation with that nerdy kid in the back of the class. If you're sad or scared show it with your face and body language. Be willing to share with others about your day, and whether it is going good or bad.
2-7. Stretch your arms out.
Either pull them behind your head, or lower them down to your waist. This is a great way to show off your muscles, and your tan line. Don't go overboard, as girls don't like a showboat. Get up out of your seat, and stretch your back. You can also crack your knuckles.
2-8. Lick your lips.
This is a very cute thing to do. The saliva adds a shine to your lips which makes them glimmer. Always keep some chapstick around to keep your lips moist, and not cracked. Not only is it cute, but it shows that you care about your appearance to other people. Moist lips will want to be kissed, more than dry, chapped lips.
3. Talking to the Person of Your Dreams
3-1. Don't fake being overly confident.
The person you have a crush on will likely love a guy that is solemn, and a little nervous. After all, you want a great person, and they should be able to tell that you really care if they accept, and that you don't feel entitled when asking them out. While cowering in the back of a room is overdoing it, a little redness in the cheeks is always adorable.
3-2. Look your person in the eyes.
You want to show off those big blues or browns as much as possible. Try to avoid blinking at a rapid pace, so girls can get a good look at them. Push your hair to the side so it doesn't cover your eyes up. Never approach someone while still wearing sunglasses. If you have them on, take them off slowly, and reveal your cute eyes.
3-3. Buy them little gifts.
You don't have to buy a large, expensive present. However, little items, like their favorite chocolate bar, or one rose, can go a long way. Leave them where you know they will find them, with a small, handwritten note attached. You can also buy markers which are safe to write on windshields. Write on her back windshield "Will you go to prom with me?" or "Will you go out with me?" or simply "I love you!" Showing them they are always on your mind ups the cute factor tremendously.
3-4. Gently touch them, or rub their back.
If you guys are getting closer, you can rest your hand on their leg, or hold their hand. Little moments like this show intimacy, as well as a commitment to show them you love them in public. If they are having a bad day, rub their back gently.How to Touch a Girl
3-5. Go all out at parties.
While being shy is extremely cute, so is making a fool of yourself. Tripping and falling down can be funny, and somewhat embarrassing. Doing silly things like dancing on a table while you are intoxicated shows you are willing to be spontaneous and do things you wouldn't normally do.
3-6. Sing out loud.
Singing is the way to a person's heart. You can sing a song perfectly, and win them over. Or you can purposely sing bad, which is really cute indeed. If you are in a car with them, and they are singing their song, join in. Sing really loudly, and get into it. You can even dance along a little bit, showing them you are willing to open up.
3-7. Go dancing with your favorite person.
Get out on the dance floor and light it up. Most guys these days simply "grind," which gets the job done, but isn't that cute. Feel free to dance badly. Flail your arms, kick your legs, or simply move side to side. Grab her arms and swing them back and forth. Hold their hand up high, and let them twirl around. The possibilities are nearly endless. The added benefit of this step is that the worse you are at dancing, the cuter you are.
Tips
Remember to maintain good hygiene. This involves more than just putting on deodorant.
Don't dwell on embarrassments.
Some people think swearing is okay, kept at a minimum. Others, however, will be instantly put off by such language.
Warnings
Be ready for rejection. Even if you are the cutest guy in the world, some people might not want to go out on a date.
Try to avoid getting too intoxicated, and doing something dangerous. It is better to remain solemn when you are drunk, than to blackout and never even get to talk to the person of your dreams.
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Applying a daily facial moisturizer will also help your face look smooth and silky. Rub the cream on your face with a pad or your hands. Make sure that your pad/hands are slightly dampened first, as well as your face. Use small circular strokes to apply.\\n1-4. Shave in the morning or at night.\\nFirst apply a shaving cream or lotion to your face. Then take a razor, and take off those pesky hairs. You can create interesting mustaches, or just shave it all off. The benefit of shaving at night is that you won't have to show off any razor cuts you accidentally made. However, shaving in the morning alleviates a five o'clock shadow.\\n1-5. Apply an antiperspirant or deodorant at least once a day.\\nThis is for your own personal hygiene, as well as a way to smell good in front of other people. Take a stick of deodorant and rub it underneath your armpits once in the morning. This will prevent sweat stains from occurring throughout the day and make you smell good. Always carry a stick in your car or backpack in case you forget in the morning.\\n1-6. Spray on a body spray or cologne.\\nAn added fragrance can entice the girls (or boys), as well as make people notice you. Spray on a minor amount to \\\"pulse points.\\\" These are around the neckline, wrists, and the back of knees. The heat from these \\\"pulse points\\\" will spread the scent of the spray throughout the day. Overdoing the spray will detract more people than it will attract.\\n1-7. Keep your nails trim and tidy.\\nThis might seem minor, but it is incredibly important. Use nail clippers and trim your fingernails and toenails down until you can barely see the wide edge. Use a nail filer and smooth the edges. You will not only look like you care about your appearance, but when you touch others it will feel smooth and comfortable.\\n1-8. Create a new and interesting hairstyle.\\nUse a hair gel or styling cream and spike your hair. You can also get creams/gels that specialize in more classic looks (Don Draper hairdo) or bedhead looks. Take a dime sized amount and run it through your hair. Then, using your hands and a comb, straighten your hair how you would like. If you need more gel/cream, keep adding dime sized amounts. You can also get your hair combed, cut, and styled professionally.\\n1-9. Brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day.\\nYellow, or stained teeth are not attractive. Make sure to brush in a circular motion, dislodging plaque and scum from the previous hours' meals. Always floss to get the incredibly hard-to-find debris lodged in your teeth. Take a piece of floss about 6 inches long, and wrap the two ends around a finger from each hand. Also make sure to schedule dentist appointments every six months to get your teeth cleaned professionally.\\n1-10. Try on some new clothes.\\nAlways remember to change your wardrobe up every 6 months to a year. The same clothes get stale fast, and the colors tend to fade. Tank-tops are popular in the summer, as are flip-flops. In the winter, tight fitted jeans are in style, along with a pair of boat shoes or Converse. Clothing is up to the individual, however, you can always get advice from a friend, partner, or a clothing professional whom works at the store.\\n1-11. Buy some new shades.\\nAviator or rectangular sunglasses are whats currently in style. Buy a pair to wear when you are riding in your car. Keep them inside the glove compartment so you don't forget them. Or you can wear them inside, which looks even more daring and cool.\\n2. Altering the Way You Act\\n2-1. Stand up straight.\\nKeep a good posture and don't slouch. Look approachable by keeping your arms by your side. Avoid crossing your arms over your chest, this is a sign that you don't want people around you. When you walk you should also remain upright, with your back straight. This shows people that you care about your demeanor, and are confident.\\n2-2. Remember to smile a lot.\\nLooking serious and cold is a major turn off. However, wide grins are usually left for only your friends, as it can look goofy if you aim it at a girl. However, if you know a person likes you, a goofy grin can be the perfect type of smile. Closed mouth smiles are adorable, and/or you can grin softly too. A consistent smile shows people that you are a positive person, and upbeat about life.\\n2-3. Laugh, and make others laugh.\\nPeople who laugh are seen as more positive cheerful. Grab a joke book, and learn some funny pick-up lines. Saying sarcastic comments (that aren't derogatory) can make you seem witty and cunning. If someone else tells a funny joke, feel free to laugh at it and let loose.\\n2-4. Flip and fiddle with your hair.\\nSome of the cutest things guys can do is to casually flip their hair with their hand, or shake it in the breeze. Seeing those locks flow back, and revealing your bright, smiling face. Sometimes even the smallest things work, like twirling a few curls of your hair with your fingers as you are studying. Comb through your hair occasionally, or run your hand through it, trying to straighten it out. It shows that you are both cute, and care about the way you look to other people.\\n2-5. Be an intelligent person.\\nSome of the cutest guys are those who care about grades and class. You don't have to be top of the class, but keep your grades up to grade level. Even if you are not interested in \\\"book smarts,\\\" show an interest in learning, and participating in new experiences. A passion, like loving Star Trek, or world affairs, shows other people that you take interests and follow through with them.\\n2-6. Remain vigilant of other peoples' feelings.\\nShow your sensitive side and caress a person who is having a bad day. Don't be the bully in class, who is overly obnoxious. It is much more cute to show that you care about other people, and that you are willing to go out of your way to help someone. Strike up a conversation with that nerdy kid in the back of the class. If you're sad or scared show it with your face and body language. Be willing to share with others about your day, and whether it is going good or bad.\\n2-7. Stretch your arms out.\\nEither pull them behind your head, or lower them down to your waist. This is a great way to show off your muscles, and your tan line. Don't go overboard, as girls don't like a showboat. Get up out of your seat, and stretch your back. You can also crack your knuckles.\\n2-8. Lick your lips.\\nThis is a very cute thing to do. The saliva adds a shine to your lips which makes them glimmer. Always keep some chapstick around to keep your lips moist, and not cracked. Not only is it cute, but it shows that you care about your appearance to other people. Moist lips will want to be kissed, more than dry, chapped lips.\\n3. Talking to the Person of Your Dreams\\n3-1. Don't fake being overly confident.\\nThe person you have a crush on will likely love a guy that is solemn, and a little nervous. After all, you want a great person, and they should be able to tell that you really care if they accept, and that you don't feel entitled when asking them out. While cowering in the back of a room is overdoing it, a little redness in the cheeks is always adorable.\\n3-2. Look your person in the eyes.\\nYou want to show off those big blues or browns as much as possible. Try to avoid blinking at a rapid pace, so girls can get a good look at them. Push your hair to the side so it doesn't cover your eyes up. Never approach someone while still wearing sunglasses. If you have them on, take them off slowly, and reveal your cute eyes.\\n3-3. Buy them little gifts.\\nYou don't have to buy a large, expensive present. However, little items, like their favorite chocolate bar, or one rose, can go a long way. Leave them where you know they will find them, with a small, handwritten note attached. You can also buy markers which are safe to write on windshields. Write on her back windshield \\\"Will you go to prom with me?\\\" or \\\"Will you go out with me?\\\" or simply \\\"I love you!\\\" Showing them they are always on your mind ups the cute factor tremendously.\\n3-4. Gently touch them, or rub their back.\\nIf you guys are getting closer, you can rest your hand on their leg, or hold their hand. Little moments like this show intimacy, as well as a commitment to show them you love them in public. If they are having a bad day, rub their back gently.How to Touch a Girl\\n3-5. Go all out at parties.\\nWhile being shy is extremely cute, so is making a fool of yourself. Tripping and falling down can be funny, and somewhat embarrassing. Doing silly things like dancing on a table while you are intoxicated shows you are willing to be spontaneous and do things you wouldn't normally do.\\n3-6. Sing out loud.\\nSinging is the way to a person's heart. You can sing a song perfectly, and win them over. Or you can purposely sing bad, which is really cute indeed. If you are in a car with them, and they are singing their song, join in. Sing really loudly, and get into it. You can even dance along a little bit, showing them you are willing to open up.\\n3-7. Go dancing with your favorite person.\\nGet out on the dance floor and light it up. Most guys these days simply \\\"grind,\\\" which gets the job done, but isn't that cute. Feel free to dance badly. Flail your arms, kick your legs, or simply move side to side. Grab her arms and swing them back and forth. Hold their hand up high, and let them twirl around. The possibilities are nearly endless. The added benefit of this step is that the worse you are at dancing, the cuter you are.\\nTips\\nRemember to maintain good hygiene. This involves more than just putting on deodorant.\\nDon't dwell on embarrassments.\\nSome people think swearing is okay, kept at a minimum. Others, however, will be instantly put off by such language.\\nWarnings\\nBe ready for rejection. Even if you are the cutest guy in the world, some people might not want to go out on a date.\\nTry to avoid getting too intoxicated, and doing something dangerous. It is better to remain solemn when you are drunk, than to blackout and never even get to talk to the person of your dreams.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The best way to attract people is to be the cutest guy in the room. Even if you are not the most physically attractive person, people can be attracted to a number of different qualities. How you dress, how you conduct yourself, and how you go about dating can make all the difference in the world. Even the smallest things, like fiddling with your hair, or trimming your nails, can attract the best looking people.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Changing the Way You Look\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take a shower regularly.\", \"描述\": \"Use soap and a washcloth to clean your entire body. Do this in the morning, that way you are smelling good right as you walk out the door. You especially want to wash sweaty areas, like your armpits, behind your knees, and between your legs.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wash your hair thoroughly.\", \"描述\": \"While you are in the shower, use shampoo and conditioner. Check the labels to make sure that alcohol is not a component of your hair care product; this will dry your hair out. Run your hands through your hair with the shampoo and conditioner for at least a minute or two. You want to make sure you get rid of any dandruff and debris from the previous day.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Use facial and skin creams.\", \"描述\": \"To be cute, you want to get rid of most, if not all, your acne. There are many products available, but stay away from ones containing alcohol (will dry your skin and cause more irritation). Applying a daily facial moisturizer will also help your face look smooth and silky. Rub the cream on your face with a pad or your hands. Make sure that your pad/hands are slightly dampened first, as well as your face. Use small circular strokes to apply.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Shave in the morning or at night.\", \"描述\": \"First apply a shaving cream or lotion to your face. Then take a razor, and take off those pesky hairs. You can create interesting mustaches, or just shave it all off. The benefit of shaving at night is that you won't have to show off any razor cuts you accidentally made. However, shaving in the morning alleviates a five o'clock shadow.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Apply an antiperspirant or deodorant at least once a day.\", \"描述\": \"This is for your own personal hygiene, as well as a way to smell good in front of other people. Take a stick of deodorant and rub it underneath your armpits once in the morning. This will prevent sweat stains from occurring throughout the day and make you smell good. Always carry a stick in your car or backpack in case you forget in the morning.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Spray on a body spray or cologne.\", \"描述\": \"An added fragrance can entice the girls (or boys), as well as make people notice you. Spray on a minor amount to \\\"pulse points.\\\" These are around the neckline, wrists, and the back of knees. The heat from these \\\"pulse points\\\" will spread the scent of the spray throughout the day. Overdoing the spray will detract more people than it will attract.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Keep your nails trim and tidy.\", \"描述\": \"This might seem minor, but it is incredibly important. Use nail clippers and trim your fingernails and toenails down until you can barely see the wide edge. Use a nail filer and smooth the edges. You will not only look like you care about your appearance, but when you touch others it will feel smooth and comfortable.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Create a new and interesting hairstyle.\", \"描述\": \"Use a hair gel or styling cream and spike your hair. You can also get creams/gels that specialize in more classic looks (Don Draper hairdo) or bedhead looks. Take a dime sized amount and run it through your hair. Then, using your hands and a comb, straighten your hair how you would like. If you need more gel/cream, keep adding dime sized amounts. You can also get your hair combed, cut, and styled professionally.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Brush and floss your teeth at least twice a day.\", \"描述\": \"Yellow, or stained teeth are not attractive. Make sure to brush in a circular motion, dislodging plaque and scum from the previous hours' meals. Always floss to get the incredibly hard-to-find debris lodged in your teeth. Take a piece of floss about 6 inches long, and wrap the two ends around a finger from each hand. Also make sure to schedule dentist appointments every six months to get your teeth cleaned professionally.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Try on some new clothes.\", \"描述\": \"Always remember to change your wardrobe up every 6 months to a year. The same clothes get stale fast, and the colors tend to fade. Tank-tops are popular in the summer, as are flip-flops. In the winter, tight fitted jeans are in style, along with a pair of boat shoes or Converse. Clothing is up to the individual, however, you can always get advice from a friend, partner, or a clothing professional whom works at the store.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Buy some new shades.\", \"描述\": \"Aviator or rectangular sunglasses are whats currently in style. Buy a pair to wear when you are riding in your car. Keep them inside the glove compartment so you don't forget them. Or you can wear them inside, which looks even more daring and cool.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Altering the Way You Act\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Stand up straight.\", \"描述\": \"Keep a good posture and don't slouch. Look approachable by keeping your arms by your side. Avoid crossing your arms over your chest, this is a sign that you don't want people around you. When you walk you should also remain upright, with your back straight. This shows people that you care about your demeanor, and are confident.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Remember to smile a lot.\", \"描述\": \"Looking serious and cold is a major turn off. However, wide grins are usually left for only your friends, as it can look goofy if you aim it at a girl. However, if you know a person likes you, a goofy grin can be the perfect type of smile. Closed mouth smiles are adorable, and/or you can grin softly too. A consistent smile shows people that you are a positive person, and upbeat about life.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Laugh, and make others laugh.\", \"描述\": \"People who laugh are seen as more positive cheerful. Grab a joke book, and learn some funny pick-up lines. Saying sarcastic comments (that aren't derogatory) can make you seem witty and cunning. If someone else tells a funny joke, feel free to laugh at it and let loose.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Flip and fiddle with your hair.\", \"描述\": \"Some of the cutest things guys can do is to casually flip their hair with their hand, or shake it in the breeze. Seeing those locks flow back, and revealing your bright, smiling face. Sometimes even the smallest things work, like twirling a few curls of your hair with your fingers as you are studying. Comb through your hair occasionally, or run your hand through it, trying to straighten it out. It shows that you are both cute, and care about the way you look to other people.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be an intelligent person.\", \"描述\": \"Some of the cutest guys are those who care about grades and class. You don't have to be top of the class, but keep your grades up to grade level. Even if you are not interested in \\\"book smarts,\\\" show an interest in learning, and participating in new experiences. A passion, like loving Star Trek, or world affairs, shows other people that you take interests and follow through with them.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Remain vigilant of other peoples' feelings.\", \"描述\": \"Show your sensitive side and caress a person who is having a bad day. Don't be the bully in class, who is overly obnoxious. It is much more cute to show that you care about other people, and that you are willing to go out of your way to help someone. Strike up a conversation with that nerdy kid in the back of the class. If you're sad or scared show it with your face and body language. Be willing to share with others about your day, and whether it is going good or bad.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Stretch your arms out.\", \"描述\": \"Either pull them behind your head, or lower them down to your waist. This is a great way to show off your muscles, and your tan line. Don't go overboard, as girls don't like a showboat. Get up out of your seat, and stretch your back. You can also crack your knuckles.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Lick your lips.\", \"描述\": \"This is a very cute thing to do. The saliva adds a shine to your lips which makes them glimmer. Always keep some chapstick around to keep your lips moist, and not cracked. Not only is it cute, but it shows that you care about your appearance to other people. Moist lips will want to be kissed, more than dry, chapped lips.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Talking to the Person of Your Dreams\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Don't fake being overly confident.\", \"描述\": \"The person you have a crush on will likely love a guy that is solemn, and a little nervous. After all, you want a great person, and they should be able to tell that you really care if they accept, and that you don't feel entitled when asking them out. While cowering in the back of a room is overdoing it, a little redness in the cheeks is always adorable.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Look your person in the eyes.\", \"描述\": \"You want to show off those big blues or browns as much as possible. Try to avoid blinking at a rapid pace, so girls can get a good look at them. Push your hair to the side so it doesn't cover your eyes up. Never approach someone while still wearing sunglasses. If you have them on, take them off slowly, and reveal your cute eyes.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Buy them little gifts.\", \"描述\": \"You don't have to buy a large, expensive present. However, little items, like their favorite chocolate bar, or one rose, can go a long way. Leave them where you know they will find them, with a small, handwritten note attached. You can also buy markers which are safe to write on windshields. Write on her back windshield \\\"Will you go to prom with me?\\\" or \\\"Will you go out with me?\\\" or simply \\\"I love you!\\\" Showing them they are always on your mind ups the cute factor tremendously.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Gently touch them, or rub their back.\", \"描述\": \"If you guys are getting closer, you can rest your hand on their leg, or hold their hand. Little moments like this show intimacy, as well as a commitment to show them you love them in public. If they are having a bad day, rub their back gently.How to Touch a Girl\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Go all out at parties.\", \"描述\": \"While being shy is extremely cute, so is making a fool of yourself. Tripping and falling down can be funny, and somewhat embarrassing. Doing silly things like dancing on a table while you are intoxicated shows you are willing to be spontaneous and do things you wouldn't normally do.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Sing out loud.\", \"描述\": \"Singing is the way to a person's heart. You can sing a song perfectly, and win them over. Or you can purposely sing bad, which is really cute indeed. If you are in a car with them, and they are singing their song, join in. Sing really loudly, and get into it. You can even dance along a little bit, showing them you are willing to open up.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Go dancing with your favorite person.\", \"描述\": \"Get out on the dance floor and light it up. Most guys these days simply \\\"grind,\\\" which gets the job done, but isn't that cute. Feel free to dance badly. Flail your arms, kick your legs, or simply move side to side. Grab her arms and swing them back and forth. Hold their hand up high, and let them twirl around. The possibilities are nearly endless. The added benefit of this step is that the worse you are at dancing, the cuter you are.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Remember to maintain good hygiene. 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How to Be a Cute and Smart Middle School Girl
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1. Making Friends
1-1. Be confident.
Talk with anybody and everybody, and yes, even do so with the adults. Speak clearly, and don't forget that the way you talk can make your reputation ("slow", "talkative", "fast", etc.).
1-2. Look confident.
Show off your bright smile, and walk with your back straight and your chin up (but don't try too hard, you'll look stiff). Give off an essence of confident, by looking and acting the part. Don't be afraid to wear something that's your style or is different (just don't push it).
1-3. Be enthusiastic.
Talk cheerfully, and be creative with your projects and assignments. Try out for the team if everybody thinks you're good enough, and run for school president if you're likable and ready for the job. Give fantastic speeches, and color code your subjects and notes. Be very bubbly and artistic.
Don't be hyper or excited all the time. Enthusiastic means being happy and ready when you need to be. This will create a bad reputation, and it just makes you seem immature.
1-4. Talk with everybody.
Just chat up somebody who's not busy, introduce yourself to the kids sitting around you, sit down with anyone at lunch, and strike up a conversation with a new person at the end of the day. This is a good start - now about five or six people (at least) know you!
1-5. Make sure people know your name.
Imagine how embarrassing it would be for them to have to claim they don't know you in front of a huge crowd? Say your name at the beginning of class, and embellish your binders and notebooks with it (just once for every item, though!) Tell them a bit about yourself, so they'll think about you (that makes the name stick). Ask them about their lives, too - it's caring.
1-6. Be memorable.
This is how your name will stay with people. Ask about them, and be understanding and kind. Tell them some interesting things about you, and compliment them on their clothing or personality if you mean it. Then, tell them goodbye and that you'll This is the mother of memorable keywords, and this cannot be stressed this enough, say it! When you say that, they'll keep you in mind. They'll know you'll be in touch.
2. Staying Social
2-1. Make it your goal to talk to at least five new people a day (but don't forget the people you first spoke with!
) This helps everybody know you, because they'll introduce you to their friends, and it snowballs into a big jumble of friends (which is great!).
2-2. Improve your relationships.
Speak with everybody you've met when you see them (only when they're unoccupied), and help them out (i.e. help carry their history project). When you think you have an established friendship, friend them on Facebook or get their Skype. Offering to put their number in your cell phone is great too. This is also perfect to let people know you're in the loop!
2-3. Post, like, and comment a lot on facebook.
Just don't overdo the statuses, or seem like a stalker. If you don't have a Facebook account , ask for one! If your parents have Facebook promise to friend mom/dad/both. Listen to their posting/commenting rules.
2-4. Ignore gossip.
If somebody says something rude about you, just say, "Whatever, if you think so," without care and then walk away. You'll become less of a target. Also, the number one rule is to never spread gossip! It's lying, and you'll lose lots of friends. Just stick to being the kind kid you are.
3. Being Smart
3-1. Read the books, do your homework.
Follow along in class! If you struggle with remembering things, take notes on flash cards, index cards, or in your notebook. This will help later on when you have homework and projects. If you have to remember terms and equations, write them down!
3-2. If you're having trouble in a subject, study!
If studying isn't helping you, ask for help from your teacher, an intelligent classmate, or get a tutor. Being behind in classes can send a lot of insults and names your way, which, in large amounts, can be hard to shrug off.
3-3. Be creative!
Have to color? Make it vibrant and unique. Got a project? Put in lots or colors and add little features. A book report? Cut out and paste newspaper letters for the title and vocabulary words.
3-4. Color!
Fill in your notes with bright pens and highlighters. Have designed or colored notebooks and binders. Write with eccentric pens and pencils. Also, color code by the subject/class (this includes book covers!)
4. Looking Great
4-1. Be hygienic.
Wash your face twice a day, and brush your teeth at least twice a day (don't forget floss and mouthwash!). Shower daily and every other day. Shave in spring and summer when you'll be wearing short sleeves and shorts if you think having less hair makes you cute and smart, not everyone does. Use a little bit of perfume/body spray on your neck and wrists.
4-2. Do your hair differently.
One day, braid back your bangs, and the next day, curl the front of your hair. Use cute bobby pins, hair clips, and headbands (elastic and plastic). Wear a sweatband under your hair in gym. Tie your hair back sometimes, too, and accessorize.
4-3. Dress nicely.
Get fluorescent colors, floral patterns, polka dots, stripes, and pastels. Wear these items if you, or, just get them..
Get tops at Forever 21, Kohl's, Target, JCPenney, Urban Outfitters, American Eagle, and Aeropostale or similar stores where you live. Forever 21 is fantastic for cute sweaters and dresses.
Get jeans at Aero, Forever 21, Kohl's, and JCPenney or similar stores where you live. Aero has a huge selection of skinny jeans.
Get shoes at Payless, Van, and American Eagle. If these shops don't trade in malls or high streets near you, look up on line what the sell and try to buy similar looking shoes. Get shoes like flats, slip-ons, Toms, Sperrys, Vans, and American Eagle. Keds are also very stylish, and Bobs can be, too.
Tips
Accessorize! Get jewelry at Forever 21 and Charlotte Russe. H&M and Brandy Melville are also very cute. Always wear a little extra something. If you don't want to get jewelry, you can try wearing the kinds of jewelry that you see on popular and fashionable people you know or see.
Get Skype! It's great to video chat and IM with.
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This will create a bad reputation, and it just makes you seem immature.\\n1-4. Talk with everybody.\\nJust chat up somebody who's not busy, introduce yourself to the kids sitting around you, sit down with anyone at lunch, and strike up a conversation with a new person at the end of the day. This is a good start - now about five or six people (at least) know you!\\n1-5. Make sure people know your name.\\nImagine how embarrassing it would be for them to have to claim they don't know you in front of a huge crowd? Say your name at the beginning of class, and embellish your binders and notebooks with it (just once for every item, though!) Tell them a bit about yourself, so they'll think about you (that makes the name stick). Ask them about their lives, too - it's caring.\\n1-6. Be memorable.\\nThis is how your name will stay with people. Ask about them, and be understanding and kind. Tell them some interesting things about you, and compliment them on their clothing or personality if you mean it. Then, tell them goodbye and that you'll This is the mother of memorable keywords, and this cannot be stressed this enough, say it! When you say that, they'll keep you in mind. They'll know you'll be in touch.\\n2. Staying Social\\n2-1. Make it your goal to talk to at least five new people a day (but don't forget the people you first spoke with!\\n) This helps everybody know you, because they'll introduce you to their friends, and it snowballs into a big jumble of friends (which is great!).\\n2-2. Improve your relationships.\\nSpeak with everybody you've met when you see them (only when they're unoccupied), and help them out (i.e. help carry their history project). When you think you have an established friendship, friend them on Facebook or get their Skype. Offering to put their number in your cell phone is great too. This is also perfect to let people know you're in the loop!\\n2-3. Post, like, and comment a lot on facebook.\\nJust don't overdo the statuses, or seem like a stalker. If you don't have a Facebook account , ask for one! If your parents have Facebook promise to friend mom/dad/both. Listen to their posting/commenting rules.\\n2-4. Ignore gossip.\\nIf somebody says something rude about you, just say, \\\"Whatever, if you think so,\\\" without care and then walk away. You'll become less of a target. Also, the number one rule is to never spread gossip! It's lying, and you'll lose lots of friends. Just stick to being the kind kid you are.\\n3. Being Smart\\n3-1. Read the books, do your homework.\\nFollow along in class! If you struggle with remembering things, take notes on flash cards, index cards, or in your notebook. This will help later on when you have homework and projects. If you have to remember terms and equations, write them down!\\n3-2. If you're having trouble in a subject, study!\\nIf studying isn't helping you, ask for help from your teacher, an intelligent classmate, or get a tutor. Being behind in classes can send a lot of insults and names your way, which, in large amounts, can be hard to shrug off.\\n3-3. Be creative!\\nHave to color? Make it vibrant and unique. Got a project? Put in lots or colors and add little features. A book report? Cut out and paste newspaper letters for the title and vocabulary words.\\n3-4. Color!\\nFill in your notes with bright pens and highlighters. Have designed or colored notebooks and binders. Write with eccentric pens and pencils. Also, color code by the subject/class (this includes book covers!)\\n4. Looking Great\\n4-1. Be hygienic.\\nWash your face twice a day, and brush your teeth at least twice a day (don't forget floss and mouthwash!). Shower daily and every other day. Shave in spring and summer when you'll be wearing short sleeves and shorts if you think having less hair makes you cute and smart, not everyone does. Use a little bit of perfume/body spray on your neck and wrists.\\n4-2. Do your hair differently.\\nOne day, braid back your bangs, and the next day, curl the front of your hair. Use cute bobby pins, hair clips, and headbands (elastic and plastic). Wear a sweatband under your hair in gym. Tie your hair back sometimes, too, and accessorize.\\n4-3. Dress nicely.\\nGet fluorescent colors, floral patterns, polka dots, stripes, and pastels. Wear these items if you, or, just get them..\\nGet tops at Forever 21, Kohl's, Target, JCPenney, Urban Outfitters, American Eagle, and Aeropostale or similar stores where you live. Forever 21 is fantastic for cute sweaters and dresses.\\nGet jeans at Aero, Forever 21, Kohl's, and JCPenney or similar stores where you live. Aero has a huge selection of skinny jeans.\\nGet shoes at Payless, Van, and American Eagle. If these shops don't trade in malls or high streets near you, look up on line what the sell and try to buy similar looking shoes. Get shoes like flats, slip-ons, Toms, Sperrys, Vans, and American Eagle. Keds are also very stylish, and Bobs can be, too.\\nTips\\nAccessorize! Get jewelry at Forever 21 and Charlotte Russe. H&M and Brandy Melville are also very cute. Always wear a little extra something. If you don't want to get jewelry, you can try wearing the kinds of jewelry that you see on popular and fashionable people you know or see.\\nGet Skype! It's great to video chat and IM with.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Have you ever wanted to be a role model for somebody? A group of people? Your class or grade? The entire school?! If so, follow these tips to be the cutest and most intelligent girl in your middle school!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Making Friends\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be confident.\", \"描述\": \"Talk with anybody and everybody, and yes, even do so with the adults. Speak clearly, and don't forget that the way you talk can make your reputation (\\\"slow\\\", \\\"talkative\\\", \\\"fast\\\", etc.).\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Look confident.\", \"描述\": \"Show off your bright smile, and walk with your back straight and your chin up (but don't try too hard, you'll look stiff). Give off an essence of confident, by looking and acting the part. Don't be afraid to wear something that's your style or is different (just don't push it).\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be enthusiastic.\", \"描述\": \"Talk cheerfully, and be creative with your projects and assignments. Try out for the team if everybody thinks you're good enough, and run for school president if you're likable and ready for the job. Give fantastic speeches, and color code your subjects and notes. Be very bubbly and artistic.\\nDon't be hyper or excited all the time. Enthusiastic means being happy and ready when you need to be. This will create a bad reputation, and it just makes you seem immature.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Talk with everybody.\", \"描述\": \"Just chat up somebody who's not busy, introduce yourself to the kids sitting around you, sit down with anyone at lunch, and strike up a conversation with a new person at the end of the day. This is a good start - now about five or six people (at least) know you!\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Make sure people know your name.\", \"描述\": \"Imagine how embarrassing it would be for them to have to claim they don't know you in front of a huge crowd? Say your name at the beginning of class, and embellish your binders and notebooks with it (just once for every item, though!) Tell them a bit about yourself, so they'll think about you (that makes the name stick). Ask them about their lives, too - it's caring.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Be memorable.\", \"描述\": \"This is how your name will stay with people. Ask about them, and be understanding and kind. Tell them some interesting things about you, and compliment them on their clothing or personality if you mean it. Then, tell them goodbye and that you'll This is the mother of memorable keywords, and this cannot be stressed this enough, say it! When you say that, they'll keep you in mind. They'll know you'll be in touch.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Staying Social\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make it your goal to talk to at least five new people a day (but don't forget the people you first spoke with!\", \"描述\": \") This helps everybody know you, because they'll introduce you to their friends, and it snowballs into a big jumble of friends (which is great!).\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Improve your relationships.\", \"描述\": \"Speak with everybody you've met when you see them (only when they're unoccupied), and help them out (i.e. help carry their history project). When you think you have an established friendship, friend them on Facebook or get their Skype. Offering to put their number in your cell phone is great too. This is also perfect to let people know you're in the loop!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Post, like, and comment a lot on facebook.\", \"描述\": \"Just don't overdo the statuses, or seem like a stalker. If you don't have a Facebook account , ask for one! If your parents have Facebook promise to friend mom/dad/both. Listen to their posting/commenting rules.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Ignore gossip.\", \"描述\": \"If somebody says something rude about you, just say, \\\"Whatever, if you think so,\\\" without care and then walk away. You'll become less of a target. Also, the number one rule is to never spread gossip! It's lying, and you'll lose lots of friends. Just stick to being the kind kid you are.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Being Smart\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Read the books, do your homework.\", \"描述\": \"Follow along in class! If you struggle with remembering things, take notes on flash cards, index cards, or in your notebook. This will help later on when you have homework and projects. If you have to remember terms and equations, write them down!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"If you're having trouble in a subject, study!\", \"描述\": \"If studying isn't helping you, ask for help from your teacher, an intelligent classmate, or get a tutor. Being behind in classes can send a lot of insults and names your way, which, in large amounts, can be hard to shrug off.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be creative!\", \"描述\": \"Have to color? Make it vibrant and unique. Got a project? Put in lots or colors and add little features. A book report? Cut out and paste newspaper letters for the title and vocabulary words.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Color!\", \"描述\": \"Fill in your notes with bright pens and highlighters. Have designed or colored notebooks and binders. Write with eccentric pens and pencils. Also, color code by the subject/class (this includes book covers!)\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Looking Great\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be hygienic.\", \"描述\": \"Wash your face twice a day, and brush your teeth at least twice a day (don't forget floss and mouthwash!). Shower daily and every other day. Shave in spring and summer when you'll be wearing short sleeves and shorts if you think having less hair makes you cute and smart, not everyone does. Use a little bit of perfume/body spray on your neck and wrists.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Do your hair differently.\", \"描述\": \"One day, braid back your bangs, and the next day, curl the front of your hair. Use cute bobby pins, hair clips, and headbands (elastic and plastic). Wear a sweatband under your hair in gym. Tie your hair back sometimes, too, and accessorize.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Dress nicely.\", \"描述\": \"Get fluorescent colors, floral patterns, polka dots, stripes, and pastels. Wear these items if you, or, just get them..\\nGet tops at Forever 21, Kohl's, Target, JCPenney, Urban Outfitters, American Eagle, and Aeropostale or similar stores where you live. Forever 21 is fantastic for cute sweaters and dresses.\\nGet jeans at Aero, Forever 21, Kohl's, and JCPenney or similar stores where you live. Aero has a huge selection of skinny jeans.\\nGet shoes at Payless, Van, and American Eagle. If these shops don't trade in malls or high streets near you, look up on line what the sell and try to buy similar looking shoes. Get shoes like flats, slip-ons, Toms, Sperrys, Vans, and American Eagle. Keds are also very stylish, and Bobs can be, too.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Accessorize! Get jewelry at Forever 21 and Charlotte Russe. H&M and Brandy Melville are also very cute. Always wear a little extra something. If you don't want to get jewelry, you can try wearing the kinds of jewelry that you see on popular and fashionable people you know or see.\\n\", \"Get Skype! 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1. Adopting Cynicism
1-1. Focus on your frustrations.
The guy who asked to borrow your phone, then ran off with it. The girlfriend who accepted your shower of gifts while cheating on you. The uncle who tricked your ailing grandmother and stole your inheritance. The politician that, despite yourself, you almost began to trust, brought down in scandal. We’ve all been duped, tricked, used, played, and disappointed in life. It’s how you respond that can make you a cynic.
Optimists toss aside such disappointments as aberrations. Realists accept them as an unavoidable part of life. Cynics cling to them as proof that people should be assumed to act selfishly.
A cynic need not espouse a “fatalistic pessimism,” a view that people have to be selfish cheats and liars. He or she just relies on the evidence that people are that way.
1-2. Expect more of the same.
Regardless of the actual origins of “Murphy’s Law,” the notion that “anything that can go wrong, will go wrong” sounds like the work of a true cynic.
By holding onto their past frustrations as the proof of true human motives and behavior, cynics come to assume more of the same until proven otherwise (if even then).
While on the subject of famous adages, a cynic would certainly also subscribe to the saying “fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” People have proven themselves selfish and duplicitous so often that, in the cynic’s mind, it is only prudent to assume more of the same.
1-3. Doubt everyone’s motives.
Cynicism began long ago as a philosophical quest for true virtue, and today’s cynic still need not believe that every human being must inexorably be a lying, cheating thief who cares only about himself. It’s just sensible to start with that assumption.
If you want to train yourself to be a cynic, you need to practice looking for the selfish motives that can (and in the cynic’s mind, most likely do) hide behind any seemingly selfless act.
It’s rather simple for us to presume that a politician says she cares about the poor only so she can get their votes, then sells out their interests to the rich and powerful.
However, you may need to practice thinking — perhaps by brainstorming — about ways that superficially selfless acts like running an animal shelter or collecting funds for charity can be far from it. Over time, you’ll begin to presume people doing such things are attention-mongers seeking a reality TV show or are running an elaborate money-laundering scheme, and be unsurprised whenever your presumptions happen to prove true.
1-4. Speak your mind.
After all, what’s the point of seeing the hypocrisy and deceitfulness in life if you don’t tell anyone about it? Deep down, cynics want the world to be a better place, they just don’t know what they can do beyond pointing out its endless flaws.
If, as they say, the first step toward a solution is identifying the problem, then cynics can rest assured that they play a valuable role by pointing out bad behavior when they see it. It will just have to be up to someone else to provide the remainder of the steps.
Many a comedian, talk-show host, and author has made a living by expressing his/her inner cynic.
Stock phrases for a cynic can include: “Yeah, right”; “Oh, c’mon”; “Get real”; and even a simple “Ha!” Other cynic’s tools include a good scoffing sound, eye roll, shoulder shrug, smirk, and waving-off motion.
If you are concerned that your cynicism is too hurtful to others or makes you seem like a jerk, try to think of calmer, more reasoned ways to make your point. People still probably won't like what you have to say, but they may respond better to a reasoned argument against their hope that the next President can make things better, as opposed to your trademark scoff and dismissal.
1-5. See the humor.
Dark humor is a central element of the cynic’s worldview. Without it, the world would just be too depressing. Comedians and TV personalities play cynicism for laughs, and so can you.
Cynics have been known for their biting humor from the start. It is said that the famed Greek Cynic Diogenes, enjoying a pleasant day in his ragged, penniless glory, when asked what he wanted by the all-powerful conqueror Alexander the Great, replied something along the lines of: “For you to stop blocking my sun.”
In modern times, your cynical humor might go something like: "Well, at least the political gridlock in Washington keeps them from raising our taxes or starting another war." Honestly, many of the greatest comics are at least partial cynics, so perhaps you should look to them for comedy tips.
When you see the world as the cynic does, your options are probably laughing or crying. Most will enjoy life more by choosing the former.
1-6. Know you’re in good company.
The concept of cynicism has surely been around as long as our species, whether you believe it was Eve doubting God’s motives for keeping those apples off-limits, or an early human ancestor figuring that his friend’s walking on two legs was just a ploy to seem taller.
Cynicism in the ancient Greek world was a philosophical perspective championed by individuals such as Diogenes (c. 412 BC - c. 323 BC). Cynics shunned materialism, superficiality, and shame as signs of man’s self-centeredness and instead focused on finding true virtue through living simply and speaking simple truths, whether people wanted to hear them or not.
Modern cynics claim people ranging from Friedrich Nietzsche to David Letterman as members of the club. You don’t have to live like dogs or treat others like dogs (the Greek root of the word “cynic”) anymore to be a cynic, just expect, observe, and express the superficiality and pretense that surrounds you.
2. Weighing Pros and Cons
2-1. Reduce your experience of disappointment.
While cynicism is in many ways born out of disappointment, it can also be a way to avoid the experience of it. Essentially, if you always presume the worst, it is very difficult to be disappointed.
Few experiences can be more crushing than having a hero exposed as a charlatan, or having someone you seemingly know and trust be revealed as a huckster. By removing expectations that someone is acting honorably or honestly, the chance of disappointment is also removed.
This is akin to the notion of avoiding heartbreak by never allowing oneself to fall in love, and can be equally questioned as a worthwhile way to go through life.
2-2. Live as someone who questions everything.
As many a TV drama can attest, a cynic can make a fine detective or investigator. By presuming ulterior motives and hunting for hypocrisies, a cynic is unlikely to live an “unexamined life.”
Cynics have been known to question everything from religious belief to, in Diogenes’ case, the need to carry around a drinking cup when two cupped hands can do the job just fine. Only by constant questioning, a cynic would say, can one approach essential truths, or at very least determine the best of several bad alternatives.
Living without beliefs to cling to, however, can feel like being adrift at sea without a life raft.
2-3. Be willing to lose the potential bliss of optimism / ignorance.
Some cynics think of themselves as “sorely-disappointed” idealists with a “fatal love of virtue.” Replacing hope with doubt may provide a clearer picture of the world as is, but the loss of those “rose colored glasses” can make looking around much more difficult.
From Diogenes’ days of living in a barrel to the present time, no one said being a cynic made life easier. The truth hurts.
2-4. Risk denigrating others with disapproval.
Speaking of the truth hurting, not everyone is prepared to hear a cynic’s criticisms, nor are all cynics capable of or even concerned with sharing these views without causing hurt.
While a cynic gets to enjoy exposing a fraud, putting a poseur in his place, and mocking the superficial blowhard, the price can be many awkward confrontations and probably some broken relationships.
The life of a cynic can be a lonely one, with friendships often limited to others of the same inclination. Your little group might not be invited to a lot of parties.
2-5. Decide if cynicism helps or harms.
Some will say cynics do far more harm than good by destroying the ability to trust and harping on the negative; others say they help make the world better by exposing just how difficult it is to make progress and yet how urgent it is to do so somehow.
Cynics don’t tend to make in-demand commencement speakers, but that doesn’t mean that their message isn’t at least as valuable as the “you can do it!” optimist.
Studies have shown that cynics tend to have worse psychological and physical health, relationships, and even socioeconomic status. So always be aware that your cynicism likely comes at a personal cost.
Cynics might want to see themselves as selfless people in a selfish world, giving up some measure of happiness in order to shine the light on all our flaws. Whether you believe that to be true probably depends upon how cynical you already are.
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Expect more of the same.\\nRegardless of the actual origins of “Murphy’s Law,” the notion that “anything that can go wrong, will go wrong” sounds like the work of a true cynic.\\nBy holding onto their past frustrations as the proof of true human motives and behavior, cynics come to assume more of the same until proven otherwise (if even then).\\nWhile on the subject of famous adages, a cynic would certainly also subscribe to the saying “fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” People have proven themselves selfish and duplicitous so often that, in the cynic’s mind, it is only prudent to assume more of the same.\\n1-3. Doubt everyone’s motives.\\nCynicism began long ago as a philosophical quest for true virtue, and today’s cynic still need not believe that every human being must inexorably be a lying, cheating thief who cares only about himself. It’s just sensible to start with that assumption.\\nIf you want to train yourself to be a cynic, you need to practice looking for the selfish motives that can (and in the cynic’s mind, most likely do) hide behind any seemingly selfless act.\\nIt’s rather simple for us to presume that a politician says she cares about the poor only so she can get their votes, then sells out their interests to the rich and powerful.\\nHowever, you may need to practice thinking — perhaps by brainstorming — about ways that superficially selfless acts like running an animal shelter or collecting funds for charity can be far from it. Over time, you’ll begin to presume people doing such things are attention-mongers seeking a reality TV show or are running an elaborate money-laundering scheme, and be unsurprised whenever your presumptions happen to prove true.\\n1-4. Speak your mind.\\nAfter all, what’s the point of seeing the hypocrisy and deceitfulness in life if you don’t tell anyone about it? Deep down, cynics want the world to be a better place, they just don’t know what they can do beyond pointing out its endless flaws.\\nIf, as they say, the first step toward a solution is identifying the problem, then cynics can rest assured that they play a valuable role by pointing out bad behavior when they see it. It will just have to be up to someone else to provide the remainder of the steps.\\nMany a comedian, talk-show host, and author has made a living by expressing his/her inner cynic.\\nStock phrases for a cynic can include: “Yeah, right”; “Oh, c’mon”; “Get real”; and even a simple “Ha!” Other cynic’s tools include a good scoffing sound, eye roll, shoulder shrug, smirk, and waving-off motion.\\nIf you are concerned that your cynicism is too hurtful to others or makes you seem like a jerk, try to think of calmer, more reasoned ways to make your point. 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It is said that the famed Greek Cynic Diogenes, enjoying a pleasant day in his ragged, penniless glory, when asked what he wanted by the all-powerful conqueror Alexander the Great, replied something along the lines of: “For you to stop blocking my sun.”\\nIn modern times, your cynical humor might go something like: \\\"Well, at least the political gridlock in Washington keeps them from raising our taxes or starting another war.\\\" Honestly, many of the greatest comics are at least partial cynics, so perhaps you should look to them for comedy tips.\\nWhen you see the world as the cynic does, your options are probably laughing or crying. Most will enjoy life more by choosing the former.\\n1-6. Know you’re in good company.\\nThe concept of cynicism has surely been around as long as our species, whether you believe it was Eve doubting God’s motives for keeping those apples off-limits, or an early human ancestor figuring that his friend’s walking on two legs was just a ploy to seem taller.\\nCynicism in the ancient Greek world was a philosophical perspective championed by individuals such as Diogenes (c. 412 BC - c. 323 BC). Cynics shunned materialism, superficiality, and shame as signs of man’s self-centeredness and instead focused on finding true virtue through living simply and speaking simple truths, whether people wanted to hear them or not.\\nModern cynics claim people ranging from Friedrich Nietzsche to David Letterman as members of the club. You don’t have to live like dogs or treat others like dogs (the Greek root of the word “cynic”) anymore to be a cynic, just expect, observe, and express the superficiality and pretense that surrounds you.\\n2. 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By presuming ulterior motives and hunting for hypocrisies, a cynic is unlikely to live an “unexamined life.”\\nCynics have been known to question everything from religious belief to, in Diogenes’ case, the need to carry around a drinking cup when two cupped hands can do the job just fine. Only by constant questioning, a cynic would say, can one approach essential truths, or at very least determine the best of several bad alternatives.\\nLiving without beliefs to cling to, however, can feel like being adrift at sea without a life raft.\\n2-3. Be willing to lose the potential bliss of optimism / ignorance.\\nSome cynics think of themselves as “sorely-disappointed” idealists with a “fatal love of virtue.” Replacing hope with doubt may provide a clearer picture of the world as is, but the loss of those “rose colored glasses” can make looking around much more difficult.\\nFrom Diogenes’ days of living in a barrel to the present time, no one said being a cynic made life easier. The truth hurts.\\n2-4. Risk denigrating others with disapproval.\\nSpeaking of the truth hurting, not everyone is prepared to hear a cynic’s criticisms, nor are all cynics capable of or even concerned with sharing these views without causing hurt.\\nWhile a cynic gets to enjoy exposing a fraud, putting a poseur in his place, and mocking the superficial blowhard, the price can be many awkward confrontations and probably some broken relationships.\\nThe life of a cynic can be a lonely one, with friendships often limited to others of the same inclination. Your little group might not be invited to a lot of parties.\\n2-5. Decide if cynicism helps or harms.\\nSome will say cynics do far more harm than good by destroying the ability to trust and harping on the negative; others say they help make the world better by exposing just how difficult it is to make progress and yet how urgent it is to do so somehow.\\nCynics don’t tend to make in-demand commencement speakers, but that doesn’t mean that their message isn’t at least as valuable as the “you can do it!” optimist.\\nStudies have shown that cynics tend to have worse psychological and physical health, relationships, and even socioeconomic status. So always be aware that your cynicism likely comes at a personal cost.\\nCynics might want to see themselves as selfless people in a selfish world, giving up some measure of happiness in order to shine the light on all our flaws. Whether you believe that to be true probably depends upon how cynical you already are.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Some people are born cynics, with a natural inclination to shun sunny optimism and reject the notion of the selfless act. The term cynicism, however, emerged from an ancient Greek philosophy and, even in its modern form, can be learned. Cynics help highlight life's hypocrisies, though sometimes at the cost of friends and fun. If you can hold onto past frustrations as a model for future expectations, doubt the sincerity of others (and tell them about it), and embrace the dark humor that goes along with seeing the world without “rose colored glasses,” then you too might just become a cynic. You may find, however, that for your own health and happiness, a little cynicism goes a long way.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Adopting Cynicism\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Focus on your frustrations.\", \"描述\": \"The guy who asked to borrow your phone, then ran off with it. 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He or she just relies on the evidence that people are that way.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Expect more of the same.\", \"描述\": \"Regardless of the actual origins of “Murphy’s Law,” the notion that “anything that can go wrong, will go wrong” sounds like the work of a true cynic.\\nBy holding onto their past frustrations as the proof of true human motives and behavior, cynics come to assume more of the same until proven otherwise (if even then).\\nWhile on the subject of famous adages, a cynic would certainly also subscribe to the saying “fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.” People have proven themselves selfish and duplicitous so often that, in the cynic’s mind, it is only prudent to assume more of the same.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Doubt everyone’s motives.\", \"描述\": \"Cynicism began long ago as a philosophical quest for true virtue, and today’s cynic still need not believe that every human being must inexorably be a lying, cheating thief who cares only about himself. It’s just sensible to start with that assumption.\\nIf you want to train yourself to be a cynic, you need to practice looking for the selfish motives that can (and in the cynic’s mind, most likely do) hide behind any seemingly selfless act.\\nIt’s rather simple for us to presume that a politician says she cares about the poor only so she can get their votes, then sells out their interests to the rich and powerful.\\nHowever, you may need to practice thinking — perhaps by brainstorming — about ways that superficially selfless acts like running an animal shelter or collecting funds for charity can be far from it. Over time, you’ll begin to presume people doing such things are attention-mongers seeking a reality TV show or are running an elaborate money-laundering scheme, and be unsurprised whenever your presumptions happen to prove true.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Speak your mind.\", \"描述\": \"After all, what’s the point of seeing the hypocrisy and deceitfulness in life if you don’t tell anyone about it? Deep down, cynics want the world to be a better place, they just don’t know what they can do beyond pointing out its endless flaws.\\nIf, as they say, the first step toward a solution is identifying the problem, then cynics can rest assured that they play a valuable role by pointing out bad behavior when they see it. It will just have to be up to someone else to provide the remainder of the steps.\\nMany a comedian, talk-show host, and author has made a living by expressing his/her inner cynic.\\nStock phrases for a cynic can include: “Yeah, right”; “Oh, c’mon”; “Get real”; and even a simple “Ha!” Other cynic’s tools include a good scoffing sound, eye roll, shoulder shrug, smirk, and waving-off motion.\\nIf you are concerned that your cynicism is too hurtful to others or makes you seem like a jerk, try to think of calmer, more reasoned ways to make your point. People still probably won't like what you have to say, but they may respond better to a reasoned argument against their hope that the next President can make things better, as opposed to your trademark scoff and dismissal.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"See the humor.\", \"描述\": \"Dark humor is a central element of the cynic’s worldview. Without it, the world would just be too depressing. Comedians and TV personalities play cynicism for laughs, and so can you.\\nCynics have been known for their biting humor from the start. It is said that the famed Greek Cynic Diogenes, enjoying a pleasant day in his ragged, penniless glory, when asked what he wanted by the all-powerful conqueror Alexander the Great, replied something along the lines of: “For you to stop blocking my sun.”\\nIn modern times, your cynical humor might go something like: \\\"Well, at least the political gridlock in Washington keeps them from raising our taxes or starting another war.\\\" Honestly, many of the greatest comics are at least partial cynics, so perhaps you should look to them for comedy tips.\\nWhen you see the world as the cynic does, your options are probably laughing or crying. Most will enjoy life more by choosing the former.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Know you’re in good company.\", \"描述\": \"The concept of cynicism has surely been around as long as our species, whether you believe it was Eve doubting God’s motives for keeping those apples off-limits, or an early human ancestor figuring that his friend’s walking on two legs was just a ploy to seem taller.\\nCynicism in the ancient Greek world was a philosophical perspective championed by individuals such as Diogenes (c. 412 BC - c. 323 BC). Cynics shunned materialism, superficiality, and shame as signs of man’s self-centeredness and instead focused on finding true virtue through living simply and speaking simple truths, whether people wanted to hear them or not.\\nModern cynics claim people ranging from Friedrich Nietzsche to David Letterman as members of the club. 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Your little group might not be invited to a lot of parties.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Decide if cynicism helps or harms.\", \"描述\": \"Some will say cynics do far more harm than good by destroying the ability to trust and harping on the negative; others say they help make the world better by exposing just how difficult it is to make progress and yet how urgent it is to do so somehow.\\nCynics don’t tend to make in-demand commencement speakers, but that doesn’t mean that their message isn’t at least as valuable as the “you can do it!” optimist.\\nStudies have shown that cynics tend to have worse psychological and physical health, relationships, and even socioeconomic status. So always be aware that your cynicism likely comes at a personal cost.\\nCynics might want to see themselves as selfless people in a selfish world, giving up some measure of happiness in order to shine the light on all our flaws. 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1. Gathering Equipment
1-1. Start with the basics
Being a DJ requires you to do a lot more than just play songs. Learning to structure a set, mix on the fly, and get a crowd moving all starts with your deck. Later on, you can invest in bigger speakers, a monitor, a MIDI controller, an audio interface, mics, and various plug-ins, depending on your ambitions for playing out, but a bare-bones basic DJ setup needs to include the following:
Two turntables or two CD players (or more, optionally)
2-channel mixer
Headphones
Speakers
Mixing software (optional)
1-2. Decide to go analog or digital.
Traditional DJ set-ups revolve around direct-drive turntables for playing vinyl records, but it's increasingly common to use CD-style and straight-digital set-ups for playing DJ sets as well. Both have their advantages and disadvantages, but are perfectly effective for playing gigs and becoming a DJ.
Analog set-ups will allow you to DJ in the most traditional way, learning the skills the way they were pioneered: scratching a stylus against vinyl. This will require you to collect a sizable collection of vinyl records to play, which can be somewhat expensive.
Digital set-ups allow you to be extremely mobile, and the learning curve will be much smaller when you're working with a digital set-up. Learning to beat-match and transition, for example, will be much easier with a BPM counter and a software system.
1-3. Consider a mixing software package.
Serato Scratch or Traktor are great programs that can read any format of music and select songs through a computer program interface. Pioneer and Numark also offer various products you may want to eventually look into.
These programs will enable you to access a library of MP3s on your hard drive to compliment your vinyl and CD selections. More often than not, these programs provide live looping and scratching capability, delays and reverberations, real-time control and video and karaoke options.
Ableton is a program that allows you to connect mixing controllers via USB cable and operates more like the classic DJ in your head does. It's good for beginners and the budget-conscious.
1-4. Be economical.
Don't invest in top-dollar equipment right away. Most of your money should be spent on turntables and a mixer. Forget the other stuff for now. And spend wisely -- buy your decks used and your mixer new.
If you're serious about being a DJ, odds are you're aware of a few in your area. Hit them up for advice or for a tutorial on their system! If they're half as passionate as you are, they'll love to give you a minute of their time, explaining their ways.
1-5. Don't forget your home studio.
Most DJs record demos, playlists and original music at home. Make sure the equipment you bring to the club compliments the equipment you use at home. For example, if you're a hip-hop DJ, you'll probably want to invest in a scratch/battle mixer at home to simulate a competition environment.
This will be especially useful if you ever plan on producing. We'll get to the value of that in a bit, but know that it should be an avenue of your career later on down the line.
1-6. Know what you need for gigs.
If you plan to play for a venue that already has a DJ setup, you might only need a laptop with music mixing software. If you plan to play in private venues, you'll probably need to provide your own equipment. Scope out what you need and what you don't for your particular job.
Some music mixing software may be hard to learn. You can find great tutorials online for most types. Otherwise, DJ schools can teach you about the cutting-edge stuff out there -- but know that you can do it yourself.
1-7. Build a big collection of music.
You know what else you need? Music. And you don't want a crazy, third-rate mp3 download versions of those songs either. To be a legit DJ, you'll at least eventually have to pay for the music you get. For now, work with what you have, but know that it will be an expense later on in the game. You need to be a music expert. Hit up your friends and consult the charts, YouTube channels of record companies and websites catering especially to DJs such as Beatport. Here's a list of genres to explore:
House
Trance
Techno
Electro
Glitch
Dark Alternative
Progressive
Breakbeat
Hardstyle
Hardcore
Downtempo
Jungle
Drum and Bass
Dubstep
Hip-Hop
2. Working the Music
2-1. Learn the BPM of the songs you play.
The beats per minute (BPM) of a song will determine how smoothly or easily you can mix it with another song. You can calculate BPM by counting the beats yourself using a stopwatch, but that's pretty tedious. Some mixers will have a BPM counter on the board, while most DJ software will calculate the BPM of a track for you, although this may not be completely accurate 100% of the time, so it's good to have some sense of the BPMs yourself.
You can use a pitch warp to match the beats, though it's best to choose two songs that are only a few BPM off. However, use it on the song that doesn't have vocals yet. Speeding it up or slowing it down changes the key and messes with everything.
2-2. Learn the intros and outros.
Most dance songs will have an intro in which the music is going but the vocals are not at the beginning of the song and a corresponding outro at the end. Mixing usually means blending one song's intro with the outro of another. Knowing when an outro starts and an intro begins is critical to live beat mixing.
Cue up the second song. Have your second song ready to go as your first one is winding down. Use one hand on the turntable or CD player's pitch to adjust speed (if your BPMs don't match) and put the other on the crossfader, so that the first song's volume decreases as the second song's volume increases.
2-3. Learn how to scratch
The decks can be used to find your place in a song when they're queued up or they can be use as pseudo-records to get your scratch on. There are baby scratches and scribble scratches and drags and scratches that work at different pitch levels. Get 'em all down before you head out there!
Certain songs and certain places in certain songs are prime for scratching, while others are terrible for it. Knowing when to scratch is like comedic timing: you'll know it when it's right and when it's just wrong.
2-4. Keep it simple at first.
When you're starting out, make mixing easier by sticking to two songs that are within 3 BPMs of each other. You should also use two songs that are in the same key. Your software should be able to tell you this. When you nail that down, start experimenting with looping and then move on to your toggle function and adding effects.
Also be sure to experiment with the different methods on your mixer. For most effects, there's more than one way to do them. You'll find what you prefer (generally one method is a very do-it-yourself way and the other is more automated).
2-5. Transition between the songs smoothly.
One of the most important parts of DJing is transitioning between songs, matching beats so that the beat remains constant, letting people continue dancing, uninterrupted. Using conventional DJ hardware, this involves listen to the second song's intro in your headphones, moving the pitch slider until the songs play at the same speed, and cueing the song simultaneously with the preceding song. Learning to do this smoothly is one of the essential skills of DJing.
You also need to adjust the volume levels of the songs. The song you are mixing out of will be playing at full volume, so you need to adjust the second up slowly, listening closely to the tune to bring it up subtly.
Never mix vocals over vocals. It's important to avoid creating awkward noise, which means you need to be super-familiar with the songs intros and outros.
Digitally, it's possible to use beat-matching software to do this automatically, provided that the songs are within a few BPM of one another. It's still good to learn how to do it analog, since this is a fundamental skill.
3. Learning the Craft
3-1. Think long-term.
What's going to start off as an expensive hobby can turn into a career in some time. This is not a small feat you are about to embark upon. To be a DJ is to devote years to working magic on others' music. You may be able to start in an hour, but you won't get truly good for a long, long time.
This is also not a Wednesday afternoon hobby. If you want to develop any level of skill, you'll need to work at it. Counting to 4 may be an integral part of DJing, but reading crowds and knowing what music surprisingly goes great with what music is a skill that has to be honed.
3-2. Decide whether you want to be a crowd-pleaser or a music specialist.
Certain gigs will require that you make a few compromises. A college bar may want to hear Katy Perry when you're just trying to forget Last Friday Night. Being a specialist may give you more cred with the DJs, but it may make your gigs fewer and far between.
Crowd pleasing means playing songs that would, most likely, hit the taste of the biggest number of people in any given crowd. This style of DJing is best suited to private events, such as weddings or small parties.
A music specialist sticks to a particular genre of music, regardless of what the crowd demands. Usually, these DJs play nightclubs who have specific genre standards or they have an established following based on a certain type of music.
3-3. Observe.
Find a DJ whose style you admire and observe him or her as much as possible. Pay attention to how songs are constructed and how the crowd is managed. After you've watched them a few times, approach the DJ after the show and ask for a few tips. Most DJs will be happy to help guide you if they know you're serious.
Gain inspiration from the DJs that hit it big. Sometimes it can help to look up to professionals such as Headhunterz, Tiesto, Avicii, Knife Party, Sebastian Ingrosso, Deadmau5, and Skrillex.
3-4. Be a multi-genre DJ.
You can still be a specialist if you have multiple genres under your belt -- you're just a specialist with logic. Most DJs are great at one genre of music -- being great at more than one sets you up to be the cream of the crop.
This also offers you more opportunities for future gigs. Instead of only having one or two clubs in the area that'll have you, you can do those, a few other clubs, and the occasional wedding or hoppin' bar mitzvah.
For each genre you do, you'll have to know the classics, the deep cuts (the B sides that should've been A sides), and the current stuff. Having a healthy mix in your repertoire will keep the party going.
3-5. Keep up with current music trends.
In order to be viable in today's fast-paced world, you'll need to be on top of all the charts and where it seems like the trends are going. You have to be on top of today and leaning toward tomorrow.
You should be constantly writing yourself notes, finding out what that song you just heard was, and keeping a list of ideas for later when you're sitting down and doing your thing. Always keep your phone or a pen handy because inspiration calls when it pleases. And so does your best friend when he wants you to hear this new track he's working on.
4. Developing a Following
4-1. Get recurring hours.
Just like a pilot needs to build up flight time to get cred, you'll need to build up play time. The best way to do this in a serious fashion is to get recurring hours through an established company -- not just those one-off gigs.
Find companies that supply DJs to weddings and the like. You won't be freelancing, but you'll be getting your foot in the door.
Sign up to work at a local college or community radio station.
Some venues need between-band DJs. Let that be you!
4-2. Know the crowd you'll be dealing with.
Having an idea of who your crowd is before the event begins is critical to successful DJing. If you're playing a wedding, for instance, be prepared to play more slow songs than usual and try to get a grasp on the bride's musical tastes beforehand. If you're playing a nightclub, get familiar with what the club owner prefers and what his or her regulars like. The regulars keep the club afloat and, by extension, pay your fee; learn how to keep them happy.
Be careful with requests. If you're playing a nightclub that caters to a hip-hop crowd and you have a tourist or someone unfamiliar with the scene requesting a song that doesn't fit with the genre, consider carefully before you play it. Remember, your aim is to keep the core of the audience happy and coming back.
If at all possible, visit the venue beforehand. Getting a feel for the regular crowd before you go can help take the pressure off a new gig.
4-3. Market yourself.
You should be making press kits, handing out business cards, emailing constantly, and always, always expanding your network. This is not a 9-5 job, no, it's a 24/7 job.
Keep a busy schedule. As you're gaining a fan base, play as many shows as necessary to get your name out there. Book yourself on a tight schedule at first to keep your interest alive and your creativity fresh. Basically at the beginning: take whatever gigs you can.
4-4. Develop an Internet presence.
If you don't have the time or money to build your own website, start an account for your DJing career on Twitter or Facebook. Promote your shows, and make time to connect with your fans and personally respond to their messages. The more you're a real person to these people, the better.
Make playlists. Build playlists on iTunes or Spotify and share them with your fans. This allows them to sample your musical tastes, and lets you introduce people to new music you want to incorporate into your shows. This won't defeat the purpose of them coming to see you, it'll simply whet their appetites.
4-5. Find your own gigs.
Depending on how you want to advance your career, you could start playing small, private events for a low fee, or take a slow, weeknight shift at a club or bar. Ask a friend who's hosting a party if you can DJ. Be aware that if you're inexperienced, you won't make much money at first and you'll probably have to keep a second job. But you'd do this for free if you had to, right?
When you first start off, people may book you on the stipulation that you bring X number of people. This means nothing. You are not the promoter and you are not your friends. However...sometimes you gotta take what you can get. Know that these guys are only the ones you're working with now; avoid them in the future.
4-6. Become a producer.
The next step up from being a DJ is producing your own music. You can still work with others' tunes, but you're mashing it all up, remixing it, re-editing it and making it better. DJ Earworm got YouTube famous doing just that. You can rake in the cash a lot faster when you start producing your own stuff.
And once that happens, you can hit up record labels. Even if you don't end up being a top-billing artist, you can work with other artists and behind the scenes doing what you love.
5. Making It Your Career
5-1. Build your charisma.
As a DJ, you are responsible for entertaining a large group of people all by yourself. The music you play is important, but you also need to pay attention to how you act on stage. Don't just stand there hunched over your decks. That's boring. Try to be someone who attracts attention in a good way. Also, learn when to step back and let the group dynamic take over.
5-2. Always read the crowd.
Use the music to manage the event, driving it forward. Divide different styles of songs into different sections. Play slower, quieter songs at the beginning of the party. Slowly slip into a jazzier groove, and pull out the heavier songs at the end. Above all, read the crowd and notice what they're responding to.
Don't play mostly fast songs at a wedding. This will take away from the romantic atmosphere.
Don't play mostly slow songs at a gathering of kids. They will get bored fast.
5-3. Be professional.
Show up to your events on-time and fully prepared. Give each gig your best effort. Have fun with the crowd, but keep your interactions professional and respectful, since you never know who's watching.
Straight up, the DJ world is full of scumbags. You want to be that good apple that isn't a part of the bunch. If you're not professional, there are a zillion other guys and gals out there chomping at the bit to take your spot.
5-4. Handle the BS with care.
Working in clubs and the like isn't always a pretty picture. Remember that 95% of the time the majority of the people listening to your music will either be some level of drunk, high, or both. They may give you a hard time on occasion. This has got to go in your ear and out the other.
In addition to rowdy or unappreciative crowds, you'll be dealing with shady promoters and technical disasters. Use your savvy people skills to navigate through these issues and let them make you all the better for it.
5-5. Have fun.
Imagine going to a show (or maybe you already have been witness to this) and seeing a DJ that's busy pushing buttons like he'd rather be hauling rocks. It's terrible. Watching a DJ that doesn't even like their own music is practically worse than a three-piece polka band with earplugs. So make it clear that you're enjoying yourself and the crowd will follow suit.
You're totally allowed to go a bit crazy. The more you feel it, the more your inclinations will be spot on. The more spot on you are, the more the crowd wants you back.
5-6. Live the dream of working for yourself.
After all that hard work of taking crap gigs and working with a crap company and modifying on less-than-stellar equipment, it's time to up the ante. When the money is coming in at more than a trickle, upgrade your equipment. The industry standard is the Technics 1200, but you can even upgrade from there. You're looking at a few thousand dollars in the long-run, but you'll make it back and then some.
Start figuring out your rates. How much are you worth? You don't want to be a DJ diva about it, but you don't want to sell yourself short. Account for distance traveled, if you're bringing your own equipment, and the general realities of the gig (some are quite clearly better than others). And don't forget: are they feeding you?
Tips
Develop your own sound. Create unique mixes and become a master of a particular genre. Explore different tools and sounds and incorporate them into your mixes.
Enjoy yourself have fun have a starter song which is really upbeat.
Have a friend in the crowd help you set the volume. You want it to be loud enough for people to hear the beat, but not so loud that they can't hear their partners talk.
Warnings
Stack your DJ equipment high so partygoers don't spill anything on it.
Never put another DJ down. The DJ community is tight. If you get a negative reputation, you'll regret it.
Don't make a habit of doing free or cheap gigs. You don't want to be typecast as a "cheap DJ." Clients should be hiring you because you are good, not because you are cheap.
The most important thing is to choose the appropriate gigs in the first place. This will lead to a happier crowd and a happier DJ!
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You can find great tutorials online for most types. Otherwise, DJ schools can teach you about the cutting-edge stuff out there -- but know that you can do it yourself.\\n1-7. Build a big collection of music.\\nYou know what else you need? Music. And you don't want a crazy, third-rate mp3 download versions of those songs either. To be a legit DJ, you'll at least eventually have to pay for the music you get. For now, work with what you have, but know that it will be an expense later on in the game. You need to be a music expert. Hit up your friends and consult the charts, YouTube channels of record companies and websites catering especially to DJs such as Beatport. Here's a list of genres to explore:\\nHouse\\nTrance\\nTechno\\nElectro\\nGlitch\\nDark Alternative\\nProgressive\\nBreakbeat\\nHardstyle\\nHardcore\\nDowntempo\\nJungle\\nDrum and Bass\\nDubstep\\nHip-Hop\\n2. Working the Music\\n2-1. Learn the BPM of the songs you play.\\nThe beats per minute (BPM) of a song will determine how smoothly or easily you can mix it with another song. You can calculate BPM by counting the beats yourself using a stopwatch, but that's pretty tedious. Some mixers will have a BPM counter on the board, while most DJ software will calculate the BPM of a track for you, although this may not be completely accurate 100% of the time, so it's good to have some sense of the BPMs yourself.\\nYou can use a pitch warp to match the beats, though it's best to choose two songs that are only a few BPM off. However, use it on the song that doesn't have vocals yet. Speeding it up or slowing it down changes the key and messes with everything.\\n2-2. Learn the intros and outros.\\nMost dance songs will have an intro in which the music is going but the vocals are not at the beginning of the song and a corresponding outro at the end. Mixing usually means blending one song's intro with the outro of another. 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Keep it simple at first.\\nWhen you're starting out, make mixing easier by sticking to two songs that are within 3 BPMs of each other. You should also use two songs that are in the same key. Your software should be able to tell you this. When you nail that down, start experimenting with looping and then move on to your toggle function and adding effects.\\nAlso be sure to experiment with the different methods on your mixer. For most effects, there's more than one way to do them. You'll find what you prefer (generally one method is a very do-it-yourself way and the other is more automated).\\n2-5. Transition between the songs smoothly.\\nOne of the most important parts of DJing is transitioning between songs, matching beats so that the beat remains constant, letting people continue dancing, uninterrupted. 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Think long-term.\\nWhat's going to start off as an expensive hobby can turn into a career in some time. This is not a small feat you are about to embark upon. To be a DJ is to devote years to working magic on others' music. You may be able to start in an hour, but you won't get truly good for a long, long time.\\nThis is also not a Wednesday afternoon hobby. If you want to develop any level of skill, you'll need to work at it. Counting to 4 may be an integral part of DJing, but reading crowds and knowing what music surprisingly goes great with what music is a skill that has to be honed.\\n3-2. Decide whether you want to be a crowd-pleaser or a music specialist.\\nCertain gigs will require that you make a few compromises. A college bar may want to hear Katy Perry when you're just trying to forget Last Friday Night. 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Keep up with current music trends.\\nIn order to be viable in today's fast-paced world, you'll need to be on top of all the charts and where it seems like the trends are going. You have to be on top of today and leaning toward tomorrow.\\nYou should be constantly writing yourself notes, finding out what that song you just heard was, and keeping a list of ideas for later when you're sitting down and doing your thing. Always keep your phone or a pen handy because inspiration calls when it pleases. And so does your best friend when he wants you to hear this new track he's working on.\\n4. Developing a Following\\n4-1. Get recurring hours.\\nJust like a pilot needs to build up flight time to get cred, you'll need to build up play time. The best way to do this in a serious fashion is to get recurring hours through an established company -- not just those one-off gigs.\\nFind companies that supply DJs to weddings and the like. You won't be freelancing, but you'll be getting your foot in the door.\\nSign up to work at a local college or community radio station.\\nSome venues need between-band DJs. Let that be you!\\n4-2. Know the crowd you'll be dealing with.\\nHaving an idea of who your crowd is before the event begins is critical to successful DJing. If you're playing a wedding, for instance, be prepared to play more slow songs than usual and try to get a grasp on the bride's musical tastes beforehand. If you're playing a nightclub, get familiar with what the club owner prefers and what his or her regulars like. The regulars keep the club afloat and, by extension, pay your fee; learn how to keep them happy.\\nBe careful with requests. If you're playing a nightclub that caters to a hip-hop crowd and you have a tourist or someone unfamiliar with the scene requesting a song that doesn't fit with the genre, consider carefully before you play it. Remember, your aim is to keep the core of the audience happy and coming back.\\nIf at all possible, visit the venue beforehand. Getting a feel for the regular crowd before you go can help take the pressure off a new gig.\\n4-3. Market yourself.\\nYou should be making press kits, handing out business cards, emailing constantly, and always, always expanding your network. This is not a 9-5 job, no, it's a 24/7 job.\\nKeep a busy schedule. As you're gaining a fan base, play as many shows as necessary to get your name out there. Book yourself on a tight schedule at first to keep your interest alive and your creativity fresh. Basically at the beginning: take whatever gigs you can.\\n4-4. Develop an Internet presence.\\nIf you don't have the time or money to build your own website, start an account for your DJing career on Twitter or Facebook. Promote your shows, and make time to connect with your fans and personally respond to their messages. The more you're a real person to these people, the better.\\nMake playlists. Build playlists on iTunes or Spotify and share them with your fans. This allows them to sample your musical tastes, and lets you introduce people to new music you want to incorporate into your shows. This won't defeat the purpose of them coming to see you, it'll simply whet their appetites.\\n4-5. Find your own gigs.\\nDepending on how you want to advance your career, you could start playing small, private events for a low fee, or take a slow, weeknight shift at a club or bar. Ask a friend who's hosting a party if you can DJ. Be aware that if you're inexperienced, you won't make much money at first and you'll probably have to keep a second job. But you'd do this for free if you had to, right?\\nWhen you first start off, people may book you on the stipulation that you bring X number of people. This means nothing. You are not the promoter and you are not your friends. However...sometimes you gotta take what you can get. Know that these guys are only the ones you're working with now; avoid them in the future.\\n4-6. Become a producer.\\nThe next step up from being a DJ is producing your own music. You can still work with others' tunes, but you're mashing it all up, remixing it, re-editing it and making it better. DJ Earworm got YouTube famous doing just that. You can rake in the cash a lot faster when you start producing your own stuff.\\nAnd once that happens, you can hit up record labels. Even if you don't end up being a top-billing artist, you can work with other artists and behind the scenes doing what you love.\\n5. Making It Your Career\\n5-1. Build your charisma.\\nAs a DJ, you are responsible for entertaining a large group of people all by yourself. The music you play is important, but you also need to pay attention to how you act on stage. Don't just stand there hunched over your decks. That's boring. Try to be someone who attracts attention in a good way. Also, learn when to step back and let the group dynamic take over.\\n5-2. Always read the crowd.\\nUse the music to manage the event, driving it forward. Divide different styles of songs into different sections. Play slower, quieter songs at the beginning of the party. Slowly slip into a jazzier groove, and pull out the heavier songs at the end. Above all, read the crowd and notice what they're responding to.\\nDon't play mostly fast songs at a wedding. This will take away from the romantic atmosphere.\\nDon't play mostly slow songs at a gathering of kids. They will get bored fast.\\n5-3. Be professional.\\nShow up to your events on-time and fully prepared. Give each gig your best effort. Have fun with the crowd, but keep your interactions professional and respectful, since you never know who's watching.\\nStraight up, the DJ world is full of scumbags. You want to be that good apple that isn't a part of the bunch. If you're not professional, there are a zillion other guys and gals out there chomping at the bit to take your spot.\\n5-4. Handle the BS with care.\\nWorking in clubs and the like isn't always a pretty picture. Remember that 95% of the time the majority of the people listening to your music will either be some level of drunk, high, or both. They may give you a hard time on occasion. This has got to go in your ear and out the other.\\nIn addition to rowdy or unappreciative crowds, you'll be dealing with shady promoters and technical disasters. Use your savvy people skills to navigate through these issues and let them make you all the better for it.\\n5-5. Have fun.\\nImagine going to a show (or maybe you already have been witness to this) and seeing a DJ that's busy pushing buttons like he'd rather be hauling rocks. It's terrible. Watching a DJ that doesn't even like their own music is practically worse than a three-piece polka band with earplugs. So make it clear that you're enjoying yourself and the crowd will follow suit.\\nYou're totally allowed to go a bit crazy. The more you feel it, the more your inclinations will be spot on. The more spot on you are, the more the crowd wants you back.\\n5-6. Live the dream of working for yourself.\\nAfter all that hard work of taking crap gigs and working with a crap company and modifying on less-than-stellar equipment, it's time to up the ante. When the money is coming in at more than a trickle, upgrade your equipment. The industry standard is the Technics 1200, but you can even upgrade from there. You're looking at a few thousand dollars in the long-run, but you'll make it back and then some.\\nStart figuring out your rates. How much are you worth? You don't want to be a DJ diva about it, but you don't want to sell yourself short. Account for distance traveled, if you're bringing your own equipment, and the general realities of the gig (some are quite clearly better than others). And don't forget: are they feeding you?\\nTips\\nDevelop your own sound. Create unique mixes and become a master of a particular genre. Explore different tools and sounds and incorporate them into your mixes.\\nEnjoy yourself have fun have a starter song which is really upbeat.\\nHave a friend in the crowd help you set the volume. You want it to be loud enough for people to hear the beat, but not so loud that they can't hear their partners talk.\\nWarnings\\nStack your DJ equipment high so partygoers don't spill anything on it.\\nNever put another DJ down. The DJ community is tight. If you get a negative reputation, you'll regret it.\\nDon't make a habit of doing free or cheap gigs. You don't want to be typecast as a \\\"cheap DJ.\\\" Clients should be hiring you because you are good, not because you are cheap.\\nThe most important thing is to choose the appropriate gigs in the first place. This will lead to a happier crowd and a happier DJ!\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Back in the day, the idea of putting your hands on a vinyl record was practically sacrilegious. But early DJs like Kool Herc, Grandmaster Flash, and Grand Wizard Theodore pioneered the techniques we now take for granted and got party crowds moving with their artistry. Break beats, scratching, looping, and punch phrasing are the skills of the DJ, and you can learn to get started if you want to participate in disc-jockey culture. Learn what equipment and basic skills you'll need to develop, as well as how to build your fanbase and experience into a potential career.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gathering Equipment\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Start with the basics\", \"描述\": \"Being a DJ requires you to do a lot more than just play songs. Learning to structure a set, mix on the fly, and get a crowd moving all starts with your deck. Later on, you can invest in bigger speakers, a monitor, a MIDI controller, an audio interface, mics, and various plug-ins, depending on your ambitions for playing out, but a bare-bones basic DJ setup needs to include the following:\\nTwo turntables or two CD players (or more, optionally)\\n2-channel mixer\\nHeadphones\\nSpeakers\\nMixing software (optional)\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Decide to go analog or digital.\", \"描述\": \"Traditional DJ set-ups revolve around direct-drive turntables for playing vinyl records, but it's increasingly common to use CD-style and straight-digital set-ups for playing DJ sets as well. Both have their advantages and disadvantages, but are perfectly effective for playing gigs and becoming a DJ.\\nAnalog set-ups will allow you to DJ in the most traditional way, learning the skills the way they were pioneered: scratching a stylus against vinyl. This will require you to collect a sizable collection of vinyl records to play, which can be somewhat expensive.\\nDigital set-ups allow you to be extremely mobile, and the learning curve will be much smaller when you're working with a digital set-up. Learning to beat-match and transition, for example, will be much easier with a BPM counter and a software system.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Consider a mixing software package.\", \"描述\": \"Serato Scratch or Traktor are great programs that can read any format of music and select songs through a computer program interface. Pioneer and Numark also offer various products you may want to eventually look into.\\nThese programs will enable you to access a library of MP3s on your hard drive to compliment your vinyl and CD selections. More often than not, these programs provide live looping and scratching capability, delays and reverberations, real-time control and video and karaoke options.\\nAbleton is a program that allows you to connect mixing controllers via USB cable and operates more like the classic DJ in your head does. It's good for beginners and the budget-conscious.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be economical.\", \"描述\": \"Don't invest in top-dollar equipment right away. Most of your money should be spent on turntables and a mixer. Forget the other stuff for now. And spend wisely -- buy your decks used and your mixer new.\\nIf you're serious about being a DJ, odds are you're aware of a few in your area. Hit them up for advice or for a tutorial on their system! If they're half as passionate as you are, they'll love to give you a minute of their time, explaining their ways.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Don't forget your home studio.\", \"描述\": \"Most DJs record demos, playlists and original music at home. Make sure the equipment you bring to the club compliments the equipment you use at home. For example, if you're a hip-hop DJ, you'll probably want to invest in a scratch/battle mixer at home to simulate a competition environment.\\nThis will be especially useful if you ever plan on producing. We'll get to the value of that in a bit, but know that it should be an avenue of your career later on down the line.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Know what you need for gigs.\", \"描述\": \"If you plan to play for a venue that already has a DJ setup, you might only need a laptop with music mixing software. If you plan to play in private venues, you'll probably need to provide your own equipment. Scope out what you need and what you don't for your particular job.\\nSome music mixing software may be hard to learn. You can find great tutorials online for most types. Otherwise, DJ schools can teach you about the cutting-edge stuff out there -- but know that you can do it yourself.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Build a big collection of music.\", \"描述\": \"You know what else you need? Music. And you don't want a crazy, third-rate mp3 download versions of those songs either. To be a legit DJ, you'll at least eventually have to pay for the music you get. For now, work with what you have, but know that it will be an expense later on in the game. You need to be a music expert. Hit up your friends and consult the charts, YouTube channels of record companies and websites catering especially to DJs such as Beatport. Here's a list of genres to explore:\\nHouse\\nTrance\\nTechno\\nElectro\\nGlitch\\nDark Alternative\\nProgressive\\nBreakbeat\\nHardstyle\\nHardcore\\nDowntempo\\nJungle\\nDrum and Bass\\nDubstep\\nHip-Hop\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Working the Music\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn the BPM of the songs you play.\", \"描述\": \"The beats per minute (BPM) of a song will determine how smoothly or easily you can mix it with another song. You can calculate BPM by counting the beats yourself using a stopwatch, but that's pretty tedious. Some mixers will have a BPM counter on the board, while most DJ software will calculate the BPM of a track for you, although this may not be completely accurate 100% of the time, so it's good to have some sense of the BPMs yourself.\\nYou can use a pitch warp to match the beats, though it's best to choose two songs that are only a few BPM off. However, use it on the song that doesn't have vocals yet. Speeding it up or slowing it down changes the key and messes with everything.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn the intros and outros.\", \"描述\": \"Most dance songs will have an intro in which the music is going but the vocals are not at the beginning of the song and a corresponding outro at the end. Mixing usually means blending one song's intro with the outro of another. Knowing when an outro starts and an intro begins is critical to live beat mixing.\\nCue up the second song. Have your second song ready to go as your first one is winding down. Use one hand on the turntable or CD player's pitch to adjust speed (if your BPMs don't match) and put the other on the crossfader, so that the first song's volume decreases as the second song's volume increases.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn how to scratch\", \"描述\": \"The decks can be used to find your place in a song when they're queued up or they can be use as pseudo-records to get your scratch on. There are baby scratches and scribble scratches and drags and scratches that work at different pitch levels. Get 'em all down before you head out there!\\nCertain songs and certain places in certain songs are prime for scratching, while others are terrible for it. Knowing when to scratch is like comedic timing: you'll know it when it's right and when it's just wrong.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Keep it simple at first.\", \"描述\": \"When you're starting out, make mixing easier by sticking to two songs that are within 3 BPMs of each other. You should also use two songs that are in the same key. Your software should be able to tell you this. When you nail that down, start experimenting with looping and then move on to your toggle function and adding effects.\\nAlso be sure to experiment with the different methods on your mixer. For most effects, there's more than one way to do them. You'll find what you prefer (generally one method is a very do-it-yourself way and the other is more automated).\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Transition between the songs smoothly.\", \"描述\": \"One of the most important parts of DJing is transitioning between songs, matching beats so that the beat remains constant, letting people continue dancing, uninterrupted. Using conventional DJ hardware, this involves listen to the second song's intro in your headphones, moving the pitch slider until the songs play at the same speed, and cueing the song simultaneously with the preceding song. Learning to do this smoothly is one of the essential skills of DJing.\\nYou also need to adjust the volume levels of the songs. The song you are mixing out of will be playing at full volume, so you need to adjust the second up slowly, listening closely to the tune to bring it up subtly.\\nNever mix vocals over vocals. It's important to avoid creating awkward noise, which means you need to be super-familiar with the songs intros and outros.\\nDigitally, it's possible to use beat-matching software to do this automatically, provided that the songs are within a few BPM of one another. It's still good to learn how to do it analog, since this is a fundamental skill.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learning the Craft\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Think long-term.\", \"描述\": \"What's going to start off as an expensive hobby can turn into a career in some time. This is not a small feat you are about to embark upon. To be a DJ is to devote years to working magic on others' music. You may be able to start in an hour, but you won't get truly good for a long, long time.\\nThis is also not a Wednesday afternoon hobby. If you want to develop any level of skill, you'll need to work at it. Counting to 4 may be an integral part of DJing, but reading crowds and knowing what music surprisingly goes great with what music is a skill that has to be honed.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Decide whether you want to be a crowd-pleaser or a music specialist.\", \"描述\": \"Certain gigs will require that you make a few compromises. A college bar may want to hear Katy Perry when you're just trying to forget Last Friday Night. Being a specialist may give you more cred with the DJs, but it may make your gigs fewer and far between.\\nCrowd pleasing means playing songs that would, most likely, hit the taste of the biggest number of people in any given crowd. This style of DJing is best suited to private events, such as weddings or small parties.\\nA music specialist sticks to a particular genre of music, regardless of what the crowd demands. Usually, these DJs play nightclubs who have specific genre standards or they have an established following based on a certain type of music.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Observe.\", \"描述\": \"Find a DJ whose style you admire and observe him or her as much as possible. Pay attention to how songs are constructed and how the crowd is managed. After you've watched them a few times, approach the DJ after the show and ask for a few tips. Most DJs will be happy to help guide you if they know you're serious.\\nGain inspiration from the DJs that hit it big. Sometimes it can help to look up to professionals such as Headhunterz, Tiesto, Avicii, Knife Party, Sebastian Ingrosso, Deadmau5, and Skrillex.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be a multi-genre DJ.\", \"描述\": \"You can still be a specialist if you have multiple genres under your belt -- you're just a specialist with logic. Most DJs are great at one genre of music -- being great at more than one sets you up to be the cream of the crop.\\nThis also offers you more opportunities for future gigs. Instead of only having one or two clubs in the area that'll have you, you can do those, a few other clubs, and the occasional wedding or hoppin' bar mitzvah.\\nFor each genre you do, you'll have to know the classics, the deep cuts (the B sides that should've been A sides), and the current stuff. Having a healthy mix in your repertoire will keep the party going.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Keep up with current music trends.\", \"描述\": \"In order to be viable in today's fast-paced world, you'll need to be on top of all the charts and where it seems like the trends are going. You have to be on top of today and leaning toward tomorrow.\\nYou should be constantly writing yourself notes, finding out what that song you just heard was, and keeping a list of ideas for later when you're sitting down and doing your thing. Always keep your phone or a pen handy because inspiration calls when it pleases. And so does your best friend when he wants you to hear this new track he's working on.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Developing a Following\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get recurring hours.\", \"描述\": \"Just like a pilot needs to build up flight time to get cred, you'll need to build up play time. The best way to do this in a serious fashion is to get recurring hours through an established company -- not just those one-off gigs.\\nFind companies that supply DJs to weddings and the like. You won't be freelancing, but you'll be getting your foot in the door.\\nSign up to work at a local college or community radio station.\\nSome venues need between-band DJs. Let that be you!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Know the crowd you'll be dealing with.\", \"描述\": \"Having an idea of who your crowd is before the event begins is critical to successful DJing. If you're playing a wedding, for instance, be prepared to play more slow songs than usual and try to get a grasp on the bride's musical tastes beforehand. If you're playing a nightclub, get familiar with what the club owner prefers and what his or her regulars like. The regulars keep the club afloat and, by extension, pay your fee; learn how to keep them happy.\\nBe careful with requests. If you're playing a nightclub that caters to a hip-hop crowd and you have a tourist or someone unfamiliar with the scene requesting a song that doesn't fit with the genre, consider carefully before you play it. Remember, your aim is to keep the core of the audience happy and coming back.\\nIf at all possible, visit the venue beforehand. Getting a feel for the regular crowd before you go can help take the pressure off a new gig.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Market yourself.\", \"描述\": \"You should be making press kits, handing out business cards, emailing constantly, and always, always expanding your network. This is not a 9-5 job, no, it's a 24/7 job.\\nKeep a busy schedule. As you're gaining a fan base, play as many shows as necessary to get your name out there. Book yourself on a tight schedule at first to keep your interest alive and your creativity fresh. Basically at the beginning: take whatever gigs you can.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Develop an Internet presence.\", \"描述\": \"If you don't have the time or money to build your own website, start an account for your DJing career on Twitter or Facebook. Promote your shows, and make time to connect with your fans and personally respond to their messages. The more you're a real person to these people, the better.\\nMake playlists. Build playlists on iTunes or Spotify and share them with your fans. This allows them to sample your musical tastes, and lets you introduce people to new music you want to incorporate into your shows. This won't defeat the purpose of them coming to see you, it'll simply whet their appetites.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Find your own gigs.\", \"描述\": \"Depending on how you want to advance your career, you could start playing small, private events for a low fee, or take a slow, weeknight shift at a club or bar. Ask a friend who's hosting a party if you can DJ. Be aware that if you're inexperienced, you won't make much money at first and you'll probably have to keep a second job. But you'd do this for free if you had to, right?\\nWhen you first start off, people may book you on the stipulation that you bring X number of people. This means nothing. You are not the promoter and you are not your friends. However...sometimes you gotta take what you can get. Know that these guys are only the ones you're working with now; avoid them in the future.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Become a producer.\", \"描述\": \"The next step up from being a DJ is producing your own music. You can still work with others' tunes, but you're mashing it all up, remixing it, re-editing it and making it better. DJ Earworm got YouTube famous doing just that. You can rake in the cash a lot faster when you start producing your own stuff.\\nAnd once that happens, you can hit up record labels. Even if you don't end up being a top-billing artist, you can work with other artists and behind the scenes doing what you love.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Making It Your Career\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Build your charisma.\", \"描述\": \"As a DJ, you are responsible for entertaining a large group of people all by yourself. The music you play is important, but you also need to pay attention to how you act on stage. Don't just stand there hunched over your decks. That's boring. Try to be someone who attracts attention in a good way. Also, learn when to step back and let the group dynamic take over.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Always read the crowd.\", \"描述\": \"Use the music to manage the event, driving it forward. Divide different styles of songs into different sections. Play slower, quieter songs at the beginning of the party. Slowly slip into a jazzier groove, and pull out the heavier songs at the end. Above all, read the crowd and notice what they're responding to.\\nDon't play mostly fast songs at a wedding. This will take away from the romantic atmosphere.\\nDon't play mostly slow songs at a gathering of kids. They will get bored fast.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be professional.\", \"描述\": \"Show up to your events on-time and fully prepared. Give each gig your best effort. Have fun with the crowd, but keep your interactions professional and respectful, since you never know who's watching.\\nStraight up, the DJ world is full of scumbags. You want to be that good apple that isn't a part of the bunch. If you're not professional, there are a zillion other guys and gals out there chomping at the bit to take your spot.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Handle the BS with care.\", \"描述\": \"Working in clubs and the like isn't always a pretty picture. Remember that 95% of the time the majority of the people listening to your music will either be some level of drunk, high, or both. They may give you a hard time on occasion. This has got to go in your ear and out the other.\\nIn addition to rowdy or unappreciative crowds, you'll be dealing with shady promoters and technical disasters. Use your savvy people skills to navigate through these issues and let them make you all the better for it.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Have fun.\", \"描述\": \"Imagine going to a show (or maybe you already have been witness to this) and seeing a DJ that's busy pushing buttons like he'd rather be hauling rocks. It's terrible. Watching a DJ that doesn't even like their own music is practically worse than a three-piece polka band with earplugs. So make it clear that you're enjoying yourself and the crowd will follow suit.\\nYou're totally allowed to go a bit crazy. The more you feel it, the more your inclinations will be spot on. The more spot on you are, the more the crowd wants you back.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Live the dream of working for yourself.\", \"描述\": \"After all that hard work of taking crap gigs and working with a crap company and modifying on less-than-stellar equipment, it's time to up the ante. When the money is coming in at more than a trickle, upgrade your equipment. The industry standard is the Technics 1200, but you can even upgrade from there. You're looking at a few thousand dollars in the long-run, but you'll make it back and then some.\\nStart figuring out your rates. How much are you worth? You don't want to be a DJ diva about it, but you don't want to sell yourself short. Account for distance traveled, if you're bringing your own equipment, and the general realities of the gig (some are quite clearly better than others). And don't forget: are they feeding you?\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Develop your own sound. Create unique mixes and become a master of a particular genre. Explore different tools and sounds and incorporate them into your mixes.\\n\", \"Enjoy yourself have fun have a starter song which is really upbeat.\\n\", \"Have a friend in the crowd help you set the volume. You want it to be loud enough for people to hear the beat, but not so loud that they can't hear their partners talk.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Stack your DJ equipment high so partygoers don't spill anything on it.\\n\", \"Never put another DJ down. The DJ community is tight. If you get a negative reputation, you'll regret it.\\n\", \"Don't make a habit of doing free or cheap gigs. You don't want to be typecast as a \\\"cheap DJ.\\\" Clients should be hiring you because you are good, not because you are cheap.\\n\", \"The most important thing is to choose the appropriate gigs in the first place. This will lead to a happier crowd and a happier DJ!\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Steps
1-1. Make sure that this is what you really want to do.
It takes a lot of passion and dedication to dance, whether you dance just as a hobby, or if you want to someday be a professional. If you do want to do it for a living, you may have to cut out other sports and after school activities to put in the necessary hours of practice. Remember that dance in itself is a sport and it takes a lot of endurance to dance every day.
1-2. Decide what kind of dancing you would enjoy doing.
Whether it be ballet, tap, jazz, swing, lyrical, contemporary, acro, hip hop, break-dance, pointe, modern, or belly dancing - anything you want - just be sure to choose one that suits your style.
1-3. Seek guidance.
Watch music videos and watch people's moves, buy dancing lessons on a video, read dancing instructions in books and on the internet, watch YouTube tutorials, find a tutor, get tips from friends/professionals, etc. Dancing is hard, but with hard, dedicated work, you will excel in many ways.
1-4. Experiment.
Stand in front of a full-length mirror, turn up the tunes, and move your body! Or you could use a rented out dance studio. Practice different moves on different parts of the body. Be sure that each move transitions nicely into the next. Also make sure you're stretched and do not have cold muscles. Cold muscles can lead to pulling muscles.
1-5. Find a dance school.
Dance schools can range from a local youth centre to a more intense independent school. If you are planning on dancing throughout high school and college into professional dance you will want to pick a more intense school. Talk to other dancers in your area as well as the teachers of each school to pick the best one for you.
1-6. Sign up for as many dance classes as possible.
Remember that it is important to have a base in ballet as well as to branch out into other classes. You do not have to take every class offered, and you can always sign up for more classes. Talk to your dance teacher and ask her to recommend classes and to evaluate your level. The more you practice, the better you will get. If you cannot afford to sign up for lessons, you can always find some nice DVDs at Target or other stores that will teach you good dance technique. However, if you plan to become a professional dancer, it is necessary to take lessons from a reputable school.
1-7. Stretch
It is very important in the world of dance, the more you stretch, the more you will improve your flexibility. You will stretch every day in class, but you may want to add stretching when you wake up or before you go to sleep to improve flexibility, but make sure you are warm enough so you don't hurt yourself. If you have the space, you may want to put a barre somewhere in your home, preferably in a room with wood floors. Even if you do not have the perfect flooring, you will be able to stretch more if you have one.
1-8. Practice.
Now that you have your dancing style, lessons, and have chosen the moves that look best on your body, you need to put that knowledge into action! The best way to do this is freestyle dancing in the privacy in your bedroom, and then when you're at an average dancing level, attend school dances to enjoy yourself!
1-9. Be healthy both mentally and physically.
Dance is a very demanding sport. It is essential to eat a healthy, balanced diet and keep hydrated. If you feel that you are overdoing it, talk to your dance teacher and ask if it is possible to drop a class.
1-10. Sign up for a dancing competition.
Now that you have learned and put your new skills in front of your peers, it's time to step it up a notch! Whether you come first or last, you'll always be a winner for putting in the time and effort to accomplish your dreams!
1-11. Balance your schedule.
You can dance for up to four hours a day, but remember to schedule your time. Make sure you are able to do your homework every night. Schedule in friend time for those close to you who do not take dance classes with you. Dance can take over your life, but remember that you need to be a rounded person. If you are not planning to become a professional, and just dance for fun, it is not necessary to put as much time into dance.
1-12. Speak up!
If you don't understand a dance, ask for help, you're not going to learn it by standing in the corner watching! Always talk to your dance teachers if you are having a problem and they will help sorts things out.
1-13. Know that it is going to be hard.
Learn to distinguish between "good" and "bad" pain. Dancing isn't an easy thing to do, but it doesn't have to be painful all the time. It's supposed to be fun! If it gets to the point where you're not having fun at all, stop. It's not worth it if you're not enjoying yourself, or if you wish you were pursuing something else.
1-14. Never just dance the steps.
Get into the song, and put feeling into it. If it's an upbeat or happy dance, smile, make big, sharp movements, and smile! If it's a sad or emotional dance, make each move slower and use your facial expression to guide your body. That makes every performance a lot better.
1-15. Keep your confidence.
Know that you can do it for sure! Imagine yourself as a brilliant dancer!
1-16. Be passionate.
The best dancers in the world are not only great dancers because they are good at dancing. They are so passionate that they decided to work hard, dedicate themselves, and go through much pain so they could be the best dancer they could be. If you know this is what you want to do, put all your heart into it.
1-17. Finally, and most importantly, never let go of your dreams.
If you have always wanted to dance hip hop, but you're the least cool person you know, go for it. For all you know, it could change your life!
Tips
Listen to your favorite song, so that when you hear it, you will dance and get your groove on.
The dance class is not mandatory. You can become a great dancer without any professional lessons!
Dance with your own style. Don't copy another dancer's, use their style to build your own. Be unique.
Warnings
Do not work too much, which might leave a negative effect on your health. It is better to enhance the time to exercise, slowly and gradually.
If you have a tight schedule, you may get behind in other things like school, or other daytime activities. Keep that in mind before signing up for classes.
Being a dancer, and the pressure of everything can typically cause problems in the short and long term. Some examples are blisters, sore feet, broken/sprained bones, eating disorders etc. Never give up!
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Talk to other dancers in your area as well as the teachers of each school to pick the best one for you.\\n1-6. Sign up for as many dance classes as possible.\\nRemember that it is important to have a base in ballet as well as to branch out into other classes. You do not have to take every class offered, and you can always sign up for more classes. Talk to your dance teacher and ask her to recommend classes and to evaluate your level. The more you practice, the better you will get. If you cannot afford to sign up for lessons, you can always find some nice DVDs at Target or other stores that will teach you good dance technique. However, if you plan to become a professional dancer, it is necessary to take lessons from a reputable school.\\n1-7. Stretch\\nIt is very important in the world of dance, the more you stretch, the more you will improve your flexibility. You will stretch every day in class, but you may want to add stretching when you wake up or before you go to sleep to improve flexibility, but make sure you are warm enough so you don't hurt yourself. If you have the space, you may want to put a barre somewhere in your home, preferably in a room with wood floors. Even if you do not have the perfect flooring, you will be able to stretch more if you have one.\\n1-8. Practice.\\nNow that you have your dancing style, lessons, and have chosen the moves that look best on your body, you need to put that knowledge into action! The best way to do this is freestyle dancing in the privacy in your bedroom, and then when you're at an average dancing level, attend school dances to enjoy yourself!\\n1-9. Be healthy both mentally and physically.\\nDance is a very demanding sport. It is essential to eat a healthy, balanced diet and keep hydrated. If you feel that you are overdoing it, talk to your dance teacher and ask if it is possible to drop a class.\\n1-10. Sign up for a dancing competition.\\nNow that you have learned and put your new skills in front of your peers, it's time to step it up a notch! Whether you come first or last, you'll always be a winner for putting in the time and effort to accomplish your dreams!\\n1-11. Balance your schedule.\\nYou can dance for up to four hours a day, but remember to schedule your time. Make sure you are able to do your homework every night. Schedule in friend time for those close to you who do not take dance classes with you. Dance can take over your life, but remember that you need to be a rounded person. If you are not planning to become a professional, and just dance for fun, it is not necessary to put as much time into dance.\\n1-12. Speak up!\\nIf you don't understand a dance, ask for help, you're not going to learn it by standing in the corner watching! 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Be passionate.\\nThe best dancers in the world are not only great dancers because they are good at dancing. They are so passionate that they decided to work hard, dedicate themselves, and go through much pain so they could be the best dancer they could be. If you know this is what you want to do, put all your heart into it.\\n1-17. Finally, and most importantly, never let go of your dreams.\\nIf you have always wanted to dance hip hop, but you're the least cool person you know, go for it. For all you know, it could change your life!\\nTips\\nListen to your favorite song, so that when you hear it, you will dance and get your groove on.\\nThe dance class is not mandatory. You can become a great dancer without any professional lessons!\\nDance with your own style. Don't copy another dancer's, use their style to build your own. Be unique.\\nWarnings\\nDo not work too much, which might leave a negative effect on your health. 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1. Earning a Data Science Degree
1-1. Take classes in math and computer science while in high school.
Data science requires an extensive background in statistics, algebra, calculus, and computer science. It’s a good idea to start learning these skills as early as possible.
Make sure that you get at least a basic education in Python, R, and SQL, since they are the basic programming languages you’ll be using for the rest of your career.
Python is a no-frills programming language that allows data scientists to focus on their research questions rather than code syntax.
R is a programmable environment that is used to store complex data-analysis in command-line script.
SQL (Structured Query Language) allows researchers to manipulate and query data in related databases.
1-2. Attend a university with reputable programs related to data science.
Search online on Google or on college ranking sites like U.S. News for universities with top-rated programs in fields related to data science. There are universities with degrees in data science, but you can also enter the field with a degree in computer science, statistics, mathematics, economics, or operation research.
You should also consider asking your guidance counselor for advice, contacting departments to which you’re considering applying, and corresponding with data scientists themselves.
Earning an undergraduate degree in data science or a related field will most likely require 4 years to complete.
During your time as an undergraduate, you should focus in particular on taking statistics, business, and computer science courses.
1-3. Go to graduate school if you want to qualify for supervisory positions.
Many data scientists enter the field after completing a master’s or Ph.D, particularly those interested in supervisory positions. In the spring of your junior year, ask your college advisor about which data science programs would be the best fit for you and what you can do to get into them.
Graduate school can be expensive and time consuming, but it does add structure and can help with networking.
1-4. Start searching for jobs in data science.
After graduation, you can search online for data science positions and attend networking events like data science conferences and seminars. Over the course of your time in undergrad and grad school, your professors and advisors will have helped you to develop a portfolio of the work you’ve completed during your studies. Have that portfolio ready for interviews and meet-and-greets.
You can use your data science degree in a wide variety of fields like technology, pharmaceuticals, government, retail, and gaming so cast a wide net in your job search.
2. Taking Massive Online Open Courses from Home
2-1. Find reputable MOOC programs in data science.
Massive online open courses are university-level courses taught online by experts in the field. Search online for available MOOC programs that host courses in the skills necessary for you to become a data scientist. The large majority will be free, but some may charge fees. Make sure to read reviews of each program to ensure their quality.
2-2. Take classes in basic data science skills.
The first MOOCs you’ll want to take will be in basic programming languages like Python, R, and SQL. As you progress, you can move on to advanced courses in those programming languages until you have them down pat.
Once you’ve mastered Python, R, and SQL, you should consider taking courses in other programming languages with more specific uses to round out your skill set.
2-3. Sign up for courses in math and machine learning.
Once you’ve established a foundation in Python, R, and SQL, you should take some MOOCs in statistics, calculus, algebra, economics, and machine learning (programming that allows computers to “learn” through statistical language).
Data scientists often have need of public speaking skills and business savvy. Consider taking some MOOCs in those fields as well.
2-4. Put together a portfolio of your work.
If you choose to take MOOCs rather than attend a traditional university, there may be more pressure on you to prove your skills. Have a thorough portfolio of your work in the field ready to show off what you can do.
The work in your portfolio should be made up of work from your MOOCs, from any freelance jobs you may have completed, and your personal website if you have one.
Feature personal, in-depth projects you’ve done in your portfolio, not minor datasets.
The work you feature in your portfolio should be publicly available. Do your work on sites like Kaggle and Github.
Accompany your work with an online presence on a blogging platform and social media.
2-5. Start your career in data science.
Search for a job online and attend networking events. Make sure to bring your portfolio with you to show new people you meet in the field. Keep an eye out for listings in fields like the tech sector, the government, marketing, consulting, and healthcare. Each has a use for someone with a background in data science.
If you took a MOOC program in data science, it will provide you with documentation certifying your completion of its courses. Include this documentation in your resume.
3. Participating in a Bootcamp
3-1. Learn basic data science skills before bootcamp.
Data science bootcamps are intensive, short-term, in-person certification programs, so you’ll want to be as prepared as possible so that you can effectively use your time there. Having at least an intermediate knowledge of programming languages, math, and computer science will help you get a leg up once you’ve started your data science bootcamp.
Consider either taking a few massive online open courses in those areas or studying on your own time.
If you do study on your own time, make sure to set concrete, achievable goals to track your progress and keep you from getting discouraged.
3-2. Read reviews of data science bootcamps online.
Search on Google and data science forums for reviews of the data science bootcamps available. You can also consider contacting data scientists in the field to find out their opinions on the best bootcamps out there.
3-3. Pick the bootcamp that most closely matches your needs.
Data science bootcamps last an average of 10 to 11 weeks, but some of the more prestigious ones can last a full 6 months. The more prestigious bootcamps also cost more. Make sure to find a bootcamp that balances your scheduling and financial needs.
There may be bootcamps in your area, but there is a good chance you will need to travel to a larger city to attend one. This makes scheduling and finances particularly important.
3-4. Attend your bootcamp.
During your bootcamp, you’ll have the opportunity to receive direct instruction in data science, produce work for your portfolio, and network with other established and emerging data sciences. You’re going to have to study hard and work harder, but don’t get bogged down in it. Make sure that you’re also using your time to get a sense of the field, who’s in it, and your place in it.
3-5. Construct a portfolio.
Your bootcamp and any MOOCs you’ve taken will give you some work to start off your portfolio, but you should also feature any freelance work you’ve done and personal, in-depth projects from public sites like Kaggle and Github. Accompany your portfolio with a well-established online presence on a blogging platform and on social media.
Ask your instructors at your bootcamp for help putting together your portfolio.
3-6. Network with other data scientists and apply for jobs.
Search online for jobs in fields like technology, healthcare, the government, retail, and gaming. Attend conferences and meet-and-greets to network with other people in the field. Bring your portfolio along to show off your skills.
Your MOOC courses and bootcamp will most likely provide you with documents certifying your completion of them. Include those documents in your resume.
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Attend a university with reputable programs related to data science.\\nSearch online on Google or on college ranking sites like U.S. News for universities with top-rated programs in fields related to data science. There are universities with degrees in data science, but you can also enter the field with a degree in computer science, statistics, mathematics, economics, or operation research.\\nYou should also consider asking your guidance counselor for advice, contacting departments to which you’re considering applying, and corresponding with data scientists themselves.\\nEarning an undergraduate degree in data science or a related field will most likely require 4 years to complete.\\nDuring your time as an undergraduate, you should focus in particular on taking statistics, business, and computer science courses.\\n1-3. Go to graduate school if you want to qualify for supervisory positions.\\nMany data scientists enter the field after completing a master’s or Ph.D, particularly those interested in supervisory positions. In the spring of your junior year, ask your college advisor about which data science programs would be the best fit for you and what you can do to get into them.\\nGraduate school can be expensive and time consuming, but it does add structure and can help with networking.\\n1-4. Start searching for jobs in data science.\\nAfter graduation, you can search online for data science positions and attend networking events like data science conferences and seminars. Over the course of your time in undergrad and grad school, your professors and advisors will have helped you to develop a portfolio of the work you’ve completed during your studies. Have that portfolio ready for interviews and meet-and-greets.\\nYou can use your data science degree in a wide variety of fields like technology, pharmaceuticals, government, retail, and gaming so cast a wide net in your job search.\\n2. Taking Massive Online Open Courses from Home\\n2-1. Find reputable MOOC programs in data science.\\nMassive online open courses are university-level courses taught online by experts in the field. Search online for available MOOC programs that host courses in the skills necessary for you to become a data scientist. The large majority will be free, but some may charge fees. Make sure to read reviews of each program to ensure their quality.\\n2-2. Take classes in basic data science skills.\\nThe first MOOCs you’ll want to take will be in basic programming languages like Python, R, and SQL. As you progress, you can move on to advanced courses in those programming languages until you have them down pat.\\nOnce you’ve mastered Python, R, and SQL, you should consider taking courses in other programming languages with more specific uses to round out your skill set.\\n2-3. Sign up for courses in math and machine learning.\\nOnce you’ve established a foundation in Python, R, and SQL, you should take some MOOCs in statistics, calculus, algebra, economics, and machine learning (programming that allows computers to “learn” through statistical language).\\nData scientists often have need of public speaking skills and business savvy. Consider taking some MOOCs in those fields as well.\\n2-4. Put together a portfolio of your work.\\nIf you choose to take MOOCs rather than attend a traditional university, there may be more pressure on you to prove your skills. Have a thorough portfolio of your work in the field ready to show off what you can do.\\nThe work in your portfolio should be made up of work from your MOOCs, from any freelance jobs you may have completed, and your personal website if you have one.\\nFeature personal, in-depth projects you’ve done in your portfolio, not minor datasets.\\nThe work you feature in your portfolio should be publicly available. Do your work on sites like Kaggle and Github.\\nAccompany your work with an online presence on a blogging platform and social media.\\n2-5. Start your career in data science.\\nSearch for a job online and attend networking events. Make sure to bring your portfolio with you to show new people you meet in the field. Keep an eye out for listings in fields like the tech sector, the government, marketing, consulting, and healthcare. Each has a use for someone with a background in data science. \\nIf you took a MOOC program in data science, it will provide you with documentation certifying your completion of its courses. Include this documentation in your resume.\\n3. Participating in a Bootcamp\\n3-1. Learn basic data science skills before bootcamp.\\nData science bootcamps are intensive, short-term, in-person certification programs, so you’ll want to be as prepared as possible so that you can effectively use your time there. Having at least an intermediate knowledge of programming languages, math, and computer science will help you get a leg up once you’ve started your data science bootcamp.\\nConsider either taking a few massive online open courses in those areas or studying on your own time.\\nIf you do study on your own time, make sure to set concrete, achievable goals to track your progress and keep you from getting discouraged.\\n3-2. Read reviews of data science bootcamps online.\\nSearch on Google and data science forums for reviews of the data science bootcamps available. You can also consider contacting data scientists in the field to find out their opinions on the best bootcamps out there.\\n3-3. Pick the bootcamp that most closely matches your needs.\\nData science bootcamps last an average of 10 to 11 weeks, but some of the more prestigious ones can last a full 6 months. The more prestigious bootcamps also cost more. Make sure to find a bootcamp that balances your scheduling and financial needs.\\nThere may be bootcamps in your area, but there is a good chance you will need to travel to a larger city to attend one. This makes scheduling and finances particularly important.\\n3-4. Attend your bootcamp.\\nDuring your bootcamp, you’ll have the opportunity to receive direct instruction in data science, produce work for your portfolio, and network with other established and emerging data sciences. You’re going to have to study hard and work harder, but don’t get bogged down in it. Make sure that you’re also using your time to get a sense of the field, who’s in it, and your place in it.\\n3-5. Construct a portfolio.\\nYour bootcamp and any MOOCs you’ve taken will give you some work to start off your portfolio, but you should also feature any freelance work you’ve done and personal, in-depth projects from public sites like Kaggle and Github. Accompany your portfolio with a well-established online presence on a blogging platform and on social media.\\nAsk your instructors at your bootcamp for help putting together your portfolio.\\n3-6. Network with other data scientists and apply for jobs.\\nSearch online for jobs in fields like technology, healthcare, the government, retail, and gaming. Attend conferences and meet-and-greets to network with other people in the field. Bring your portfolio along to show off your skills. \\nYour MOOC courses and bootcamp will most likely provide you with documents certifying your completion of them. Include those documents in your resume.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Data science (which combines scientific and technological skills to interpret massive quantities of data) is consistently ranked as one of the most desirable career fields of the 21st century. To enter this field, you can either earn a degree in data science at a university or take massive online open courses (MOOCs) for free at home or enter an intensive data science bootcamp. Before you know it, you can be a professional data scientist too!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Earning a Data Science Degree\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take classes in math and computer science while in high school.\", \"描述\": \"Data science requires an extensive background in statistics, algebra, calculus, and computer science. It’s a good idea to start learning these skills as early as possible.\\nMake sure that you get at least a basic education in Python, R, and SQL, since they are the basic programming languages you’ll be using for the rest of your career.\\nPython is a no-frills programming language that allows data scientists to focus on their research questions rather than code syntax.\\nR is a programmable environment that is used to store complex data-analysis in command-line script.\\nSQL (Structured Query Language) allows researchers to manipulate and query data in related databases.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Attend a university with reputable programs related to data science.\", \"描述\": \"Search online on Google or on college ranking sites like U.S. News for universities with top-rated programs in fields related to data science. There are universities with degrees in data science, but you can also enter the field with a degree in computer science, statistics, mathematics, economics, or operation research.\\nYou should also consider asking your guidance counselor for advice, contacting departments to which you’re considering applying, and corresponding with data scientists themselves.\\nEarning an undergraduate degree in data science or a related field will most likely require 4 years to complete.\\nDuring your time as an undergraduate, you should focus in particular on taking statistics, business, and computer science courses.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Go to graduate school if you want to qualify for supervisory positions.\", \"描述\": \"Many data scientists enter the field after completing a master’s or Ph.D, particularly those interested in supervisory positions. In the spring of your junior year, ask your college advisor about which data science programs would be the best fit for you and what you can do to get into them.\\nGraduate school can be expensive and time consuming, but it does add structure and can help with networking.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Start searching for jobs in data science.\", \"描述\": \"After graduation, you can search online for data science positions and attend networking events like data science conferences and seminars. Over the course of your time in undergrad and grad school, your professors and advisors will have helped you to develop a portfolio of the work you’ve completed during your studies. Have that portfolio ready for interviews and meet-and-greets.\\nYou can use your data science degree in a wide variety of fields like technology, pharmaceuticals, government, retail, and gaming so cast a wide net in your job search.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Taking Massive Online Open Courses from Home\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Find reputable MOOC programs in data science.\", \"描述\": \"Massive online open courses are university-level courses taught online by experts in the field. Search online for available MOOC programs that host courses in the skills necessary for you to become a data scientist. The large majority will be free, but some may charge fees. Make sure to read reviews of each program to ensure their quality.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Take classes in basic data science skills.\", \"描述\": \"The first MOOCs you’ll want to take will be in basic programming languages like Python, R, and SQL. As you progress, you can move on to advanced courses in those programming languages until you have them down pat.\\nOnce you’ve mastered Python, R, and SQL, you should consider taking courses in other programming languages with more specific uses to round out your skill set.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Sign up for courses in math and machine learning.\", \"描述\": \"Once you’ve established a foundation in Python, R, and SQL, you should take some MOOCs in statistics, calculus, algebra, economics, and machine learning (programming that allows computers to “learn” through statistical language).\\nData scientists often have need of public speaking skills and business savvy. Consider taking some MOOCs in those fields as well.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Put together a portfolio of your work.\", \"描述\": \"If you choose to take MOOCs rather than attend a traditional university, there may be more pressure on you to prove your skills. Have a thorough portfolio of your work in the field ready to show off what you can do.\\nThe work in your portfolio should be made up of work from your MOOCs, from any freelance jobs you may have completed, and your personal website if you have one.\\nFeature personal, in-depth projects you’ve done in your portfolio, not minor datasets.\\nThe work you feature in your portfolio should be publicly available. Do your work on sites like Kaggle and Github.\\nAccompany your work with an online presence on a blogging platform and social media.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Start your career in data science.\", \"描述\": \"Search for a job online and attend networking events. Make sure to bring your portfolio with you to show new people you meet in the field. Keep an eye out for listings in fields like the tech sector, the government, marketing, consulting, and healthcare. Each has a use for someone with a background in data science. \\nIf you took a MOOC program in data science, it will provide you with documentation certifying your completion of its courses. Include this documentation in your resume.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Participating in a Bootcamp\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn basic data science skills before bootcamp.\", \"描述\": \"Data science bootcamps are intensive, short-term, in-person certification programs, so you’ll want to be as prepared as possible so that you can effectively use your time there. Having at least an intermediate knowledge of programming languages, math, and computer science will help you get a leg up once you’ve started your data science bootcamp.\\nConsider either taking a few massive online open courses in those areas or studying on your own time.\\nIf you do study on your own time, make sure to set concrete, achievable goals to track your progress and keep you from getting discouraged.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Read reviews of data science bootcamps online.\", \"描述\": \"Search on Google and data science forums for reviews of the data science bootcamps available. You can also consider contacting data scientists in the field to find out their opinions on the best bootcamps out there.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Pick the bootcamp that most closely matches your needs.\", \"描述\": \"Data science bootcamps last an average of 10 to 11 weeks, but some of the more prestigious ones can last a full 6 months. The more prestigious bootcamps also cost more. Make sure to find a bootcamp that balances your scheduling and financial needs.\\nThere may be bootcamps in your area, but there is a good chance you will need to travel to a larger city to attend one. This makes scheduling and finances particularly important.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Attend your bootcamp.\", \"描述\": \"During your bootcamp, you’ll have the opportunity to receive direct instruction in data science, produce work for your portfolio, and network with other established and emerging data sciences. You’re going to have to study hard and work harder, but don’t get bogged down in it. Make sure that you’re also using your time to get a sense of the field, who’s in it, and your place in it.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Construct a portfolio.\", \"描述\": \"Your bootcamp and any MOOCs you’ve taken will give you some work to start off your portfolio, but you should also feature any freelance work you’ve done and personal, in-depth projects from public sites like Kaggle and Github. Accompany your portfolio with a well-established online presence on a blogging platform and on social media.\\nAsk your instructors at your bootcamp for help putting together your portfolio.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Network with other data scientists and apply for jobs.\", \"描述\": \"Search online for jobs in fields like technology, healthcare, the government, retail, and gaming. Attend conferences and meet-and-greets to network with other people in the field. Bring your portfolio along to show off your skills. \\nYour MOOC courses and bootcamp will most likely provide you with documents certifying your completion of them. Include those documents in your resume.\"}]}]}}",
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Detective Career Path: Basic Requirements, Experience & Skills
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1. Meeting Basic Requirements
1-1. Meet the eligibility requirements.
You'll need to wait until you're at least the minimum age. Most likely, you'll need a high school diploma, if not a college degree. The basic expectations typically include things like:
Be a citizen of the country you reside in. For some agencies, you must also reside in the geographic area you want to serve in.
Be above a minimum age, such as 18, 21, or 25.
Have a clean criminal record.
Hold a high school diploma or college degree.
1-2. Be in good physical and mental health.
Being a detective is hard, often stressful work, and it can be taxing on your body and mind. To handle the job well, police agencies expect detectives to have:
Excellent eyesight
Good overall health
No major physical or mental issues
1-3. Keep your behavior squeaky clean and upstanding.
Detectives engage in high-level work, and are expected to have outstanding personal standards. As representatives of the law, they should be upstanding citizens. For instance:
Detectives are expected to not use any illegal substances.
Many agencies do not allow detectives to have offensive tattoos, or any tattoos on their face.
Disciplinary actions on your record may make it difficult or impossible to become a detective.
1-4. Gain some experience as a police officer.
Police academy teaches you about procedures, investigations, the use of force, and relationships with your community. This theoretical foundation ultimately helps prepare you for detective work, but the practical experience of actually serving as an officer is also very educational. After you've proven yourself as an officer, you may be a more attractive candidate for detective positions.
Some agencies allow you to enter the force directly as a detective, without prior policing experience. However, you may be required to have a college degree in a relevant area, such as criminal justice.
1-5. Pass your detective examinations.
Even if you are entering detective work with several years of policing experience, you will be asked to pass a series of exams when applying for the new job. Each police agency has its own set of examinations, and it will provide you with an exam schedule. These exams can be extensive, and take several days, if not longer. They include:
A written test of your law-enforcement knowledge
A test of physical skill and stamina
A full background check
A psychological evaluation
2. Gaining Experience
2-1. Serve your probationary period.
Typically, in your first several months to a year or more as a detective you will be mentored and monitored closely to help you transition into the new line of work. You may start out working relatively simple criminal cases, before moving on to ones involving violent, serious, or complex crimes.
2-2. Master the day-to-day duties of a detective.
Unlike their depictions on television, detectives spend most of their time researching cases and writing reports. They do also work cases on the ground and appear in court at times. Common duties include:
Collecting evidence
Interviewing witnesses
Observing suspects, locations, and events
Obtaining warrants
Writing official reports to support or close cases
Testifying in court
2-3. Practice mindfulness.
A detective needs to be highly observant and aware to do their job well. The ability to focus and to multi-task is key to solving many cases. If you find focusing difficult, you could try mindfulness exercises to help you discover how to “live in the now.”
2-4. Wait for advancement opportunities.
As you gain experience in working a variety of cases, opportunities for promotion may come your way. For example, you may be eligible for promotion to senior detective after a certain number of years of service. Do the best job you can, and let your superiors know that you are interested in advancement opportunities.
3. Developing Your Skills
3-1. Develop your communication skills.
Detective work, like other positions in law enforcement, is mostly about working with other people. Since cases can often involve serious and sometimes dangerous situations, it is important to know how to communicate clearly and calmly with others, and how to listen carefully. Knowing how to de-escalate situations by talking to others is also beneficial to detectives.
Consider taking classes in interpersonal communication to further your skills in this area.
You can also ask your superiors to host a workshop where experts can come and talk to detectives about how to communicate well.
3-2. Further your education to increase advancement opportunities.
Consider earning an advanced degree, such as a master's in criminal justice, sociology, forensic science, or a similar area. Some programs are available online. Look for shorter-term educational opportunities, such as seminars or continuing education classes in these same areas. Advanced education may also may you eligible for pay increases.
3-3. Develop specialized knowledge.
Have specific skills, like knowing a foreign language or familiarity with cyber security, is a bonus as far as law enforcement agencies are concerned. If you already have skills like these, let your superiors know so that you can earn any associated pay increases or advancement opportunities.
If you don't have any specialized skills, consider taking classes to give you an edge.
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As representatives of the law, they should be upstanding citizens. For instance:\\nDetectives are expected to not use any illegal substances.\\nMany agencies do not allow detectives to have offensive tattoos, or any tattoos on their face.\\nDisciplinary actions on your record may make it difficult or impossible to become a detective.\\n1-4. Gain some experience as a police officer.\\nPolice academy teaches you about procedures, investigations, the use of force, and relationships with your community. This theoretical foundation ultimately helps prepare you for detective work, but the practical experience of actually serving as an officer is also very educational. After you've proven yourself as an officer, you may be a more attractive candidate for detective positions.\\nSome agencies allow you to enter the force directly as a detective, without prior policing experience. However, you may be required to have a college degree in a relevant area, such as criminal justice.\\n1-5. Pass your detective examinations.\\nEven if you are entering detective work with several years of policing experience, you will be asked to pass a series of exams when applying for the new job. Each police agency has its own set of examinations, and it will provide you with an exam schedule. These exams can be extensive, and take several days, if not longer. They include:\\nA written test of your law-enforcement knowledge\\nA test of physical skill and stamina\\nA full background check\\nA psychological evaluation\\n2. Gaining Experience\\n2-1. Serve your probationary period.\\nTypically, in your first several months to a year or more as a detective you will be mentored and monitored closely to help you transition into the new line of work. You may start out working relatively simple criminal cases, before moving on to ones involving violent, serious, or complex crimes.\\n2-2. Master the day-to-day duties of a detective.\\nUnlike their depictions on television, detectives spend most of their time researching cases and writing reports. They do also work cases on the ground and appear in court at times. Common duties include: \\nCollecting evidence\\nInterviewing witnesses\\nObserving suspects, locations, and events\\nObtaining warrants\\nWriting official reports to support or close cases\\nTestifying in court\\n2-3. Practice mindfulness.\\nA detective needs to be highly observant and aware to do their job well. The ability to focus and to multi-task is key to solving many cases. If you find focusing difficult, you could try mindfulness exercises to help you discover how to “live in the now.”\\n2-4. Wait for advancement opportunities.\\nAs you gain experience in working a variety of cases, opportunities for promotion may come your way. For example, you may be eligible for promotion to senior detective after a certain number of years of service. Do the best job you can, and let your superiors know that you are interested in advancement opportunities.\\n3. Developing Your Skills\\n3-1. Develop your communication skills.\\nDetective work, like other positions in law enforcement, is mostly about working with other people. Since cases can often involve serious and sometimes dangerous situations, it is important to know how to communicate clearly and calmly with others, and how to listen carefully. Knowing how to de-escalate situations by talking to others is also beneficial to detectives. \\nConsider taking classes in interpersonal communication to further your skills in this area.\\nYou can also ask your superiors to host a workshop where experts can come and talk to detectives about how to communicate well.\\n3-2. Further your education to increase advancement opportunities.\\nConsider earning an advanced degree, such as a master's in criminal justice, sociology, forensic science, or a similar area. Some programs are available online. Look for shorter-term educational opportunities, such as seminars or continuing education classes in these same areas. Advanced education may also may you eligible for pay increases.\\n3-3. Develop specialized knowledge.\\nHave specific skills, like knowing a foreign language or familiarity with cyber security, is a bonus as far as law enforcement agencies are concerned. If you already have skills like these, let your superiors know so that you can earn any associated pay increases or advancement opportunities.\\nIf you don't have any specialized skills, consider taking classes to give you an edge.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Are you passionate about seeking justice and making a difference in your community? If so, detective work could be a good choice for you. To get started in this career, you'll need a degree, or significant policing experience (in some cases, both). We're here to walk you through everything you need to know about this rewarding career path, so you can decide if it's is a good fit for you.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Meeting Basic Requirements\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Meet the eligibility requirements.\", \"描述\": \"You'll need to wait until you're at least the minimum age. Most likely, you'll need a high school diploma, if not a college degree. The basic expectations typically include things like:\\nBe a citizen of the country you reside in. For some agencies, you must also reside in the geographic area you want to serve in.\\nBe above a minimum age, such as 18, 21, or 25.\\nHave a clean criminal record.\\nHold a high school diploma or college degree.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be in good physical and mental health.\", \"描述\": \"Being a detective is hard, often stressful work, and it can be taxing on your body and mind. 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They include:\\nA written test of your law-enforcement knowledge\\nA test of physical skill and stamina\\nA full background check\\nA psychological evaluation\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Gaining Experience\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Serve your probationary period.\", \"描述\": \"Typically, in your first several months to a year or more as a detective you will be mentored and monitored closely to help you transition into the new line of work. You may start out working relatively simple criminal cases, before moving on to ones involving violent, serious, or complex crimes.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Master the day-to-day duties of a detective.\", \"描述\": \"Unlike their depictions on television, detectives spend most of their time researching cases and writing reports. They do also work cases on the ground and appear in court at times. 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How to Be a Directioner
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1. Steps
1-1. Find out about One Direction's history.
If you have just heard of One Direction, find out about the band's past. A fan knows a little of the band's history, but a Directioner knows all. It's important to know some basic facts, as well as some little known facts too! Here are ten interesting facts about One Direction and the members:
Louis Tomlinson is the oldest member of the band, being born on December 24th, 1991. Zayn Malik is the 2nd oldest and his birthday is on January 12, 1993. Liam Payne is the 3rd and his birthday is on August 29th, 1993. Niall Horan was born on September 13th, 1993. Harry Styles is the youngest member of One Direction, and February 1st, 1994 is his birthday.
Harry Edward Styles, Liam James Payne, Niall James Horan, Zayn Javadd Malik and Louis William Tomlinson are their full names.
Louis and Zayn are Capricorns, Harry is an Aquarius, Niall and Liam are Virgos.
One Direction was created in 8:22 p.m., on July 23rd, 2010 via The X-Factor. Harry, Niall, Zayn, Louis and Liam auditioned for the show in 2010 as single artists. Unfortunately, they got eliminated during boot camp, but Simon Cowell still kept them in the show as a group. They came to finish in 3rd place on the show.
Liam Payne auditioned before for the X-Factor in 2008, when he was 14. Simon Cowell told him to re-audition two years later. Liam also has one kidney, so he doesn't drink alcohol. However, on August 7th, 2012, Liam tweeted that an ultrasound gave positive results on his kidney that wasn't functioning properly and it's fixed.
As of March 25th 2015, Zayn left the band, but his reasons are understandable and hopefully you'll support him despite this. He has, however, started a solo career in 2016, best known for his debut single "Pillowtalk".
As of 2019, Louis isn't dating anyone, Niall isn't dating anyone after his fallout with Hailee Steinfeld, Harry isn't dating anyone, and Liam is currently single after recently breaking up with Cheryl Cole.
Louis has a son named Freddie Reign Tomlinson, born January 21, 2016. Freddie's mother is a LA-based stylist named Briana Jungwirth. Liam also has a son with Cheryl Cole, whose name is Bear. He was born on the 22nd of March 2017.
The members auditioned as solo artists for The X-Factor with these songs: Niall Horan- So Sick, Liam Payne- Cry Me a River, Louis Tomlinson- Hey There Delilah, Zayn Malik- Let Me Love You, Harry Styles- Isn't She Lovely.
All the band members have sisters, except for Niall, who has an older brother named Greg. Harry also has a stepbrother named Mike.
In just five years,One Direction has received five BRIT Awards—winning their first with "What Makes You Beautiful" for Best British Single at the 2012 BRIT Awards, three NME awards, two Kids' Choice Awards, and four MTV Video Music Awards, among other awards. One Direction won all nineteen awards they were nominated for at the Teen Choice Awards. One Direction also won two American Music Awards out of their two nominations for Favorite Pop/Rock Album and Favorite Pop/Rock Band/Duo/Group, respectively.
There are many more facts about One Direction, and these are just a few. Look them up on Google if you're interested in becoming a true Directioner. There's a facts video included in the bottom for more facts. There are also links listed below with more facts.
It's important to know facts, catch phrases that the boys said, quotes, and songs about the boys. There's a links and quotes section below to help you
1-2. Get to know the members.
Niall, Zayn, Liam, Harry and Louis are more than just talented singers. They are five down to earth boys with great personalities. A true Directioner knows all of the boys like they know their best friend.
As a Directioner, it's okay to have a favorite member(s) of the band, Directionaters are so called "fans" who support one direction. Directioners appreciate all members of One Direction
1-3. Buy One Direction music to support the band.
Buying their music will support One Direction and lead them all the way to the top of the charts. Buy their albums "Up All Night, Take Me Home, Midnight Memories, Four, and Made In The A.M" from anywhere you can also buy Zayn's album "Mind Of Mine", Harry's self titled album, and Niall's album "Flicker". Download their songs. Do whatever it takes to lead them to the top, and you'll be a Directioner. Please do not download pirated copies off of the internet. True Directioners wouldn't do that as it affects the boy's careers. Here's a list of their songs from their albums.
A.M. [Made In The A.M.]
Act My Age [FOUR]
Another World
Back For You [Take Me Home]
Best Song Ever [Midnight Memories]
Better Than Words [Midnight Memories]
Change My Mind [Take Me Home]
Change Your Ticket [FOUR]
Clouds [FOUR]
C'mon C'mon [Take Me Home]
Diana [Midnight Memories]
Don't Forget Where You Belong [Midnight Memories]
Drag Me Down [Made In The A.M.]
End of the Day [Made In The A.M.]
Everything About You [Up All Night]
Fireproof [FOUR]
Fool's Gold [FOUR]
Girl Almighty [FOUR]
Gotta Be You [Up All Night]
Happily [Midnight Memories]
Heart Attack [Take Me Home]
Hey Angel [Made In The A.M.]
History [Made In The A.M.]
Home [Made In The A.M.]
Illusion [FOUR]
Infinity [Made In The A.M.]
Irresistible [Take Me Home]
I Should Have Kissed You [Up All Night]
I Want [Up All Night]
I Want to Write You a Song [Made In The A.M.]
If I Could Fly [Made In The A.M.]
I Wish [Up All Night]
I Would [Take Me Home]
Kiss You [Take Me Home]
Last First Kiss [Take Me Home]
Little Black Dress [Midnight Memories]
Little Things [Take Me Home]
Little White Lies [Midnight Memories]
Live While We're Young [Take Me Home]
Long Way Down [Made In The A.M.]
Love You Goodbye [Made In The A.M.]
Loved You First [Take Me Home]
Magic [Take Me Home]
Midnight Memories [Midnight Memories]
Moments [Up All Night]
More Than This [Up All Night]
Never Enough [Made In The A.M.]
Night Changes [FOUR]
No Control [FOUR]
Nobody Compares [Take Me Home]
Olivia [Made In The A.M.]
Once In A Lifetime [FOUR]
One Thing [Up All Night]
One Way Or Another (Teenage Kicks)
Over Again [Take Me Home]
Perfect [Made In The A.M.]
Ready to Run [FOUR]
Right Now [Midnight Memories]
Rock Me [Take Me Home]
She's Not Afraid [Take Me Home]
Something Great [Midnight Memories]
Spaces [FOUR]
Stand Up [Up All Night]
Steal My Girl [FOUR]
Stockholm Syndrome [FOUR]
Story of My Life [Midnight Memories]
Strong [Midnight Memories]
Summer Love [Take Me Home]
Taken [Up All Night]
Tell Me A Lie [Up All Night]
Temporary Fix [Made In The A.M.]
Through The Dark [Midnight Memories]
Truly, Madly, Deeply [Take Me Home]
Up All Night [Up All Night]
Walking in the Wind [Made In The A.M.]
What a Feeling [Made In The A.M.]
What Makes You Beautiful [Up All Night]
Where Do Broken Hearts Go? [FOUR]
Wolves [Made In The A.M.]
You & I [Midnight Memories]
18 [FOUR]
Zayn's solo album (Mind Of Mine): Pillowtalk
1-4. Know that "What Makes You Beautiful" isn't One Direction's only song.
Many people claim that they are "Directioners" but they only know What Makes You Beautiful. A true Directioner knows all One Direction songs. A list of song was mentioned in the step above.
1-5. Use YouTube to watch One Direction music videos.
Watch their music videos. It will give them views, thus making them more known worldwide. One Direction has 17 made music videos so far. Other One Direction related videos are available on YouTube also.
Best Song Ever
Drag Me Down
Gotta Be You
History
Little Things
Live While We're Young
Midnight Memories
Night Changes
One Thing
Perfect
Story Of My Life
What Makes You Beautiful
You & I
Steal My Girl
One Way Or Another(Teenage Kicks)
Kiss You
1-6. Connect with One Direction.
As a Directioner, it's important to connect with your favorite band. That way you'll know when they're going on tour, releasing a new album, or even coming to a city near you!
Like One Direction on Facebook! They only have one official Facebook account and that's listed below. Any other pages claiming to be One Direction is fake. However, there are fan pages on Facebook, and if you like them, they could update you with information.
Follow One Direction, Zayn, Niall, Liam, Harry, Louis, and people associated with them on Twitter. Official Twitters are listed below in the Links section
Subscribe to One Direction's official Vevo account on YouTube for videos related to One Direction.
Visit the official One Direction website (listed below in the links section) for updates.
Purchase teen magazines such as J-14, Popstar, Bop, etc. They feature interviews, but beware, not all information will be true.
Create and follow fan accounts on social media.
1-7. Purchase One Direction merchandise.
If you have a little extra money, show your dedication to the band by purchasing their merchandise. If you are a little low on cash, this step can be skipped.
One Direction's first studio album "Up All Night" is available for purchase at most music and department stores. The band also wrote a book called "One Direction: Dare to Dream: Life as One Direction". DVDs of their incredible journey are also available.
Buy magazines, posters, and pictures of the boys.
Purchase One Direction apparels such as t-shirts, hoodies, hats and more. They're available on the official One Direction store and Delia's. Wear them to show you support One Direction.
Purchase One Direction school supplies available at Target.
Purchase other One Direction merchandise such as mugs, key chains, etc from the One Direction store.
1-8. Follow your dreams.
It's every Directioner's dream to meet One Direction. Every Directioner deserved to meet the boys since they're extremely dedicated. Here's a list on how you could meet them.
One Direction has upcoming tours(not). Find out if the band is visiting your area (or a nearby area). Remember, tickets sell out fast, so know ahead of time when tickets go on sale.
If the band isn't coming to a nearby area, tweet about it. Who knows, maybe they'll notice a trend on Twitter and add concerts near your area!
Try to visit them at Meet and Greets or signing. Search online ahead of time for meet and greets near you and see how you can obtain a wristband.
Do not show up at any of the members house. There's a huge difference between a creepy stalker and a Directioner.
Don't give up! You never know, you might run into one of the member(s) at a movie theater or park. Unfortunately, it's true that not all Directioners won't get to meet One Direction, but it's important to keep believing!
1-9. Don't hate.
Don't hate on any members and people associated with One Direction. You can hate but keep it to yourself and put it somewhere the boys or their girlfriends/ other people can't see as it will affect them and make the sad (fake fans).
1-10. Know the official One Direction links.
. The official Twitter accounts of One Direction are listed here.
One Direction
Niall Horan
Zayn Malik
Louis Tomlinson
Liam Payne
Harry Styles
. The only official Facebook page is One Direction Music. However, there are other Facebook pages that will give you information on One Direction, but it is administrated by fans.
One Direction website
YouTube Channel.
Tips
Watch their movie, "This Is Us". You will learn everything you need to know about them if you watch it.
Accept their weirdness.
Watch videos on Youtube about One Direction.
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Harry Styles is the youngest member of One Direction, and February 1st, 1994 is his birthday.\\nHarry Edward Styles, Liam James Payne, Niall James Horan, Zayn Javadd Malik and Louis William Tomlinson are their full names.\\nLouis and Zayn are Capricorns, Harry is an Aquarius, Niall and Liam are Virgos.\\nOne Direction was created in 8:22 p.m., on July 23rd, 2010 via The X-Factor. Harry, Niall, Zayn, Louis and Liam auditioned for the show in 2010 as single artists. Unfortunately, they got eliminated during boot camp, but Simon Cowell still kept them in the show as a group. They came to finish in 3rd place on the show.\\nLiam Payne auditioned before for the X-Factor in 2008, when he was 14. Simon Cowell told him to re-audition two years later. Liam also has one kidney, so he doesn't drink alcohol. However, on August 7th, 2012, Liam tweeted that an ultrasound gave positive results on his kidney that wasn't functioning properly and it's fixed.\\nAs of March 25th 2015, Zayn left the band, but his reasons are understandable and hopefully you'll support him despite this. He has, however, started a solo career in 2016, best known for his debut single \\\"Pillowtalk\\\".\\nAs of 2019, Louis isn't dating anyone, Niall isn't dating anyone after his fallout with Hailee Steinfeld, Harry isn't dating anyone, and Liam is currently single after recently breaking up with Cheryl Cole.\\nLouis has a son named Freddie Reign Tomlinson, born January 21, 2016. Freddie's mother is a LA-based stylist named Briana Jungwirth. Liam also has a son with Cheryl Cole, whose name is Bear. He was born on the 22nd of March 2017.\\nThe members auditioned as solo artists for The X-Factor with these songs: Niall Horan- So Sick, Liam Payne- Cry Me a River, Louis Tomlinson- Hey There Delilah, Zayn Malik- Let Me Love You, Harry Styles- Isn't She Lovely.\\nAll the band members have sisters, except for Niall, who has an older brother named Greg. Harry also has a stepbrother named Mike.\\nIn just five years,One Direction has received five BRIT Awards—winning their first with \\\"What Makes You Beautiful\\\" for Best British Single at the 2012 BRIT Awards, three NME awards, two Kids' Choice Awards, and four MTV Video Music Awards, among other awards. One Direction won all nineteen awards they were nominated for at the Teen Choice Awards. One Direction also won two American Music Awards out of their two nominations for Favorite Pop/Rock Album and Favorite Pop/Rock Band/Duo/Group, respectively.\\nThere are many more facts about One Direction, and these are just a few. Look them up on Google if you're interested in becoming a true Directioner. There's a facts video included in the bottom for more facts. There are also links listed below with more facts.\\nIt's important to know facts, catch phrases that the boys said, quotes, and songs about the boys. There's a links and quotes section below to help you\\n1-2. Get to know the members.\\nNiall, Zayn, Liam, Harry and Louis are more than just talented singers. They are five down to earth boys with great personalities. A true Directioner knows all of the boys like they know their best friend.\\nAs a Directioner, it's okay to have a favorite member(s) of the band, Directionaters are so called \\\"fans\\\" who support one direction. Directioners appreciate all members of One Direction\\n1-3. Buy One Direction music to support the band.\\nBuying their music will support One Direction and lead them all the way to the top of the charts. Buy their albums \\\"Up All Night, Take Me Home, Midnight Memories, Four, and Made In The A.M\\\" from anywhere you can also buy Zayn's album \\\"Mind Of Mine\\\", Harry's self titled album, and Niall's album \\\"Flicker\\\". Download their songs. Do whatever it takes to lead them to the top, and you'll be a Directioner. Please do not download pirated copies off of the internet. True Directioners wouldn't do that as it affects the boy's careers. Here's a list of their songs from their albums. \\nA.M. [Made In The A.M.]\\nAct My Age [FOUR]\\nAnother World\\nBack For You [Take Me Home]\\nBest Song Ever [Midnight Memories]\\nBetter Than Words [Midnight Memories]\\nChange My Mind [Take Me Home]\\nChange Your Ticket [FOUR]\\nClouds [FOUR]\\nC'mon C'mon [Take Me Home]\\nDiana [Midnight Memories]\\nDon't Forget Where You Belong [Midnight Memories]\\nDrag Me Down [Made In The A.M.]\\nEnd of the Day [Made In The A.M.]\\nEverything About You [Up All Night]\\nFireproof [FOUR]\\nFool's Gold [FOUR]\\nGirl Almighty [FOUR]\\nGotta Be You [Up All Night]\\nHappily [Midnight Memories]\\nHeart Attack [Take Me Home]\\nHey Angel [Made In The A.M.]\\nHistory [Made In The A.M.]\\nHome [Made In The A.M.]\\nIllusion [FOUR]\\nInfinity [Made In The A.M.]\\nIrresistible [Take Me Home]\\nI Should Have Kissed You [Up All Night]\\nI Want [Up All Night]\\nI Want to Write You a Song [Made In The A.M.]\\nIf I Could Fly [Made In The A.M.]\\nI Wish [Up All Night]\\nI Would [Take Me Home]\\nKiss You [Take Me Home]\\nLast First Kiss [Take Me Home]\\nLittle Black Dress [Midnight Memories]\\nLittle Things [Take Me Home]\\nLittle White Lies [Midnight Memories]\\nLive While We're Young [Take Me Home]\\nLong Way Down [Made In The A.M.]\\nLove You Goodbye [Made In The A.M.]\\nLoved You First [Take Me Home]\\nMagic [Take Me Home]\\nMidnight Memories [Midnight Memories]\\nMoments [Up All Night]\\nMore Than This [Up All Night]\\nNever Enough [Made In The A.M.]\\nNight Changes [FOUR]\\nNo Control [FOUR]\\nNobody Compares [Take Me Home]\\nOlivia [Made In The A.M.]\\nOnce In A Lifetime [FOUR]\\nOne Thing [Up All Night]\\nOne Way Or Another (Teenage Kicks)\\nOver Again [Take Me Home]\\nPerfect [Made In The A.M.]\\nReady to Run [FOUR]\\nRight Now [Midnight Memories]\\nRock Me [Take Me Home]\\nShe's Not Afraid [Take Me Home]\\nSomething Great [Midnight Memories]\\nSpaces [FOUR]\\nStand Up [Up All Night]\\nSteal My Girl [FOUR]\\nStockholm Syndrome [FOUR]\\nStory of My Life [Midnight Memories]\\nStrong [Midnight Memories]\\nSummer Love [Take Me Home]\\nTaken [Up All Night]\\nTell Me A Lie [Up All Night]\\nTemporary Fix [Made In The A.M.]\\nThrough The Dark [Midnight Memories]\\nTruly, Madly, Deeply [Take Me Home]\\nUp All Night [Up All Night]\\nWalking in the Wind [Made In The A.M.]\\nWhat a Feeling [Made In The A.M.]\\nWhat Makes You Beautiful [Up All Night]\\nWhere Do Broken Hearts Go? [FOUR]\\nWolves [Made In The A.M.]\\nYou & I [Midnight Memories]\\n18 [FOUR]\\nZayn's solo album (Mind Of Mine): Pillowtalk\\n1-4. Know that \\\"What Makes You Beautiful\\\" isn't One Direction's only song.\\nMany people claim that they are \\\"Directioners\\\" but they only know What Makes You Beautiful. A true Directioner knows all One Direction songs. A list of song was mentioned in the step above.\\n1-5. Use YouTube to watch One Direction music videos.\\nWatch their music videos. It will give them views, thus making them more known worldwide. One Direction has 17 made music videos so far. Other One Direction related videos are available on YouTube also.\\nBest Song Ever\\nDrag Me Down\\nGotta Be You\\nHistory\\nLittle Things\\nLive While We're Young\\nMidnight Memories\\nNight Changes\\nOne Thing\\nPerfect\\nStory Of My Life\\nWhat Makes You Beautiful\\nYou & I\\nSteal My Girl\\nOne Way Or Another(Teenage Kicks)\\nKiss You\\n1-6. Connect with One Direction.\\nAs a Directioner, it's important to connect with your favorite band. That way you'll know when they're going on tour, releasing a new album, or even coming to a city near you!\\nLike One Direction on Facebook! They only have one official Facebook account and that's listed below. Any other pages claiming to be One Direction is fake. However, there are fan pages on Facebook, and if you like them, they could update you with information.\\nFollow One Direction, Zayn, Niall, Liam, Harry, Louis, and people associated with them on Twitter. Official Twitters are listed below in the Links section\\nSubscribe to One Direction's official Vevo account on YouTube for videos related to One Direction.\\nVisit the official One Direction website (listed below in the links section) for updates.\\nPurchase teen magazines such as J-14, Popstar, Bop, etc. They feature interviews, but beware, not all information will be true.\\nCreate and follow fan accounts on social media.\\n1-7. Purchase One Direction merchandise.\\nIf you have a little extra money, show your dedication to the band by purchasing their merchandise. If you are a little low on cash, this step can be skipped.\\nOne Direction's first studio album \\\"Up All Night\\\" is available for purchase at most music and department stores. The band also wrote a book called \\\"One Direction: Dare to Dream: Life as One Direction\\\". DVDs of their incredible journey are also available.\\nBuy magazines, posters, and pictures of the boys.\\nPurchase One Direction apparels such as t-shirts, hoodies, hats and more. They're available on the official One Direction store and Delia's. Wear them to show you support One Direction.\\nPurchase One Direction school supplies available at Target.\\nPurchase other One Direction merchandise such as mugs, key chains, etc from the One Direction store.\\n1-8. Follow your dreams.\\nIt's every Directioner's dream to meet One Direction. Every Directioner deserved to meet the boys since they're extremely dedicated. Here's a list on how you could meet them.\\nOne Direction has upcoming tours(not). Find out if the band is visiting your area (or a nearby area). Remember, tickets sell out fast, so know ahead of time when tickets go on sale.\\nIf the band isn't coming to a nearby area, tweet about it. Who knows, maybe they'll notice a trend on Twitter and add concerts near your area!\\nTry to visit them at Meet and Greets or signing. Search online ahead of time for meet and greets near you and see how you can obtain a wristband.\\nDo not show up at any of the members house. There's a huge difference between a creepy stalker and a Directioner.\\nDon't give up! You never know, you might run into one of the member(s) at a movie theater or park. Unfortunately, it's true that not all Directioners won't get to meet One Direction, but it's important to keep believing!\\n1-9. Don't hate.\\nDon't hate on any members and people associated with One Direction. You can hate but keep it to yourself and put it somewhere the boys or their girlfriends/ other people can't see as it will affect them and make the sad (fake fans).\\n1-10. Know the official One Direction links.\\n. The official Twitter accounts of One Direction are listed here.\\nOne Direction\\nNiall Horan\\nZayn Malik\\nLouis Tomlinson\\nLiam Payne\\nHarry Styles\\n\\n. The only official Facebook page is One Direction Music. However, there are other Facebook pages that will give you information on One Direction, but it is administrated by fans.\\nOne Direction website \\nYouTube Channel.\\nTips\\nWatch their movie, \\\"This Is Us\\\". You will learn everything you need to know about them if you watch it.\\nAccept their weirdness.\\nWatch videos on Youtube about One Direction.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A Directioner is a super fan of the British/Irish boy band called \\\"One Direction\\\". Directioners are dedicated to the band's five members: Niall Horan, Louis Tomlinson, Zayn Malik, Liam Payne, Harry Styles, and people associated with them. If you happen to like these boys and enjoy their music, you are definitely classified as a fan. If you want to take a step further and become a Directioner, this is the right article for you. This article will transform you into a Directioner with 10 helpful steps. It will also feature facts about One Direction and guide you on how to become a dedicated super fan, featuring some useful tips and tricks.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Find out about One Direction's history.\", \"描述\": \"If you have just heard of One Direction, find out about the band's past. A fan knows a little of the band's history, but a Directioner knows all. It's important to know some basic facts, as well as some little known facts too! Here are ten interesting facts about One Direction and the members:\\nLouis Tomlinson is the oldest member of the band, being born on December 24th, 1991. Zayn Malik is the 2nd oldest and his birthday is on January 12, 1993. Liam Payne is the 3rd and his birthday is on August 29th, 1993. Niall Horan was born on September 13th, 1993. Harry Styles is the youngest member of One Direction, and February 1st, 1994 is his birthday.\\nHarry Edward Styles, Liam James Payne, Niall James Horan, Zayn Javadd Malik and Louis William Tomlinson are their full names.\\nLouis and Zayn are Capricorns, Harry is an Aquarius, Niall and Liam are Virgos.\\nOne Direction was created in 8:22 p.m., on July 23rd, 2010 via The X-Factor. Harry, Niall, Zayn, Louis and Liam auditioned for the show in 2010 as single artists. Unfortunately, they got eliminated during boot camp, but Simon Cowell still kept them in the show as a group. They came to finish in 3rd place on the show.\\nLiam Payne auditioned before for the X-Factor in 2008, when he was 14. Simon Cowell told him to re-audition two years later. Liam also has one kidney, so he doesn't drink alcohol. However, on August 7th, 2012, Liam tweeted that an ultrasound gave positive results on his kidney that wasn't functioning properly and it's fixed.\\nAs of March 25th 2015, Zayn left the band, but his reasons are understandable and hopefully you'll support him despite this. He has, however, started a solo career in 2016, best known for his debut single \\\"Pillowtalk\\\".\\nAs of 2019, Louis isn't dating anyone, Niall isn't dating anyone after his fallout with Hailee Steinfeld, Harry isn't dating anyone, and Liam is currently single after recently breaking up with Cheryl Cole.\\nLouis has a son named Freddie Reign Tomlinson, born January 21, 2016. Freddie's mother is a LA-based stylist named Briana Jungwirth. Liam also has a son with Cheryl Cole, whose name is Bear. He was born on the 22nd of March 2017.\\nThe members auditioned as solo artists for The X-Factor with these songs: Niall Horan- So Sick, Liam Payne- Cry Me a River, Louis Tomlinson- Hey There Delilah, Zayn Malik- Let Me Love You, Harry Styles- Isn't She Lovely.\\nAll the band members have sisters, except for Niall, who has an older brother named Greg. Harry also has a stepbrother named Mike.\\nIn just five years,One Direction has received five BRIT Awards—winning their first with \\\"What Makes You Beautiful\\\" for Best British Single at the 2012 BRIT Awards, three NME awards, two Kids' Choice Awards, and four MTV Video Music Awards, among other awards. One Direction won all nineteen awards they were nominated for at the Teen Choice Awards. One Direction also won two American Music Awards out of their two nominations for Favorite Pop/Rock Album and Favorite Pop/Rock Band/Duo/Group, respectively.\\nThere are many more facts about One Direction, and these are just a few. Look them up on Google if you're interested in becoming a true Directioner. There's a facts video included in the bottom for more facts. There are also links listed below with more facts.\\nIt's important to know facts, catch phrases that the boys said, quotes, and songs about the boys. There's a links and quotes section below to help you\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Get to know the members.\", \"描述\": \"Niall, Zayn, Liam, Harry and Louis are more than just talented singers. They are five down to earth boys with great personalities. A true Directioner knows all of the boys like they know their best friend.\\nAs a Directioner, it's okay to have a favorite member(s) of the band, Directionaters are so called \\\"fans\\\" who support one direction. Directioners appreciate all members of One Direction\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Buy One Direction music to support the band.\", \"描述\": \"Buying their music will support One Direction and lead them all the way to the top of the charts. Buy their albums \\\"Up All Night, Take Me Home, Midnight Memories, Four, and Made In The A.M\\\" from anywhere you can also buy Zayn's album \\\"Mind Of Mine\\\", Harry's self titled album, and Niall's album \\\"Flicker\\\". Download their songs. Do whatever it takes to lead them to the top, and you'll be a Directioner. Please do not download pirated copies off of the internet. True Directioners wouldn't do that as it affects the boy's careers. Here's a list of their songs from their albums. \\nA.M. [Made In The A.M.]\\nAct My Age [FOUR]\\nAnother World\\nBack For You [Take Me Home]\\nBest Song Ever [Midnight Memories]\\nBetter Than Words [Midnight Memories]\\nChange My Mind [Take Me Home]\\nChange Your Ticket [FOUR]\\nClouds [FOUR]\\nC'mon C'mon [Take Me Home]\\nDiana [Midnight Memories]\\nDon't Forget Where You Belong [Midnight Memories]\\nDrag Me Down [Made In The A.M.]\\nEnd of the Day [Made In The A.M.]\\nEverything About You [Up All Night]\\nFireproof [FOUR]\\nFool's Gold [FOUR]\\nGirl Almighty [FOUR]\\nGotta Be You [Up All Night]\\nHappily [Midnight Memories]\\nHeart Attack [Take Me Home]\\nHey Angel [Made In The A.M.]\\nHistory [Made In The A.M.]\\nHome [Made In The A.M.]\\nIllusion [FOUR]\\nInfinity [Made In The A.M.]\\nIrresistible [Take Me Home]\\nI Should Have Kissed You [Up All Night]\\nI Want [Up All Night]\\nI Want to Write You a Song [Made In The A.M.]\\nIf I Could Fly [Made In The A.M.]\\nI Wish [Up All Night]\\nI Would [Take Me Home]\\nKiss You [Take Me Home]\\nLast First Kiss [Take Me Home]\\nLittle Black Dress [Midnight Memories]\\nLittle Things [Take Me Home]\\nLittle White Lies [Midnight Memories]\\nLive While We're Young [Take Me Home]\\nLong Way Down [Made In The A.M.]\\nLove You Goodbye [Made In The A.M.]\\nLoved You First [Take Me Home]\\nMagic [Take Me Home]\\nMidnight Memories [Midnight Memories]\\nMoments [Up All Night]\\nMore Than This [Up All Night]\\nNever Enough [Made In The A.M.]\\nNight Changes [FOUR]\\nNo Control [FOUR]\\nNobody Compares [Take Me Home]\\nOlivia [Made In The A.M.]\\nOnce In A Lifetime [FOUR]\\nOne Thing [Up All Night]\\nOne Way Or Another (Teenage Kicks)\\nOver Again [Take Me Home]\\nPerfect [Made In The A.M.]\\nReady to Run [FOUR]\\nRight Now [Midnight Memories]\\nRock Me [Take Me Home]\\nShe's Not Afraid [Take Me Home]\\nSomething Great [Midnight Memories]\\nSpaces [FOUR]\\nStand Up [Up All Night]\\nSteal My Girl [FOUR]\\nStockholm Syndrome [FOUR]\\nStory of My Life [Midnight Memories]\\nStrong [Midnight Memories]\\nSummer Love [Take Me Home]\\nTaken [Up All Night]\\nTell Me A Lie [Up All Night]\\nTemporary Fix [Made In The A.M.]\\nThrough The Dark [Midnight Memories]\\nTruly, Madly, Deeply [Take Me Home]\\nUp All Night [Up All Night]\\nWalking in the Wind [Made In The A.M.]\\nWhat a Feeling [Made In The A.M.]\\nWhat Makes You Beautiful [Up All Night]\\nWhere Do Broken Hearts Go? [FOUR]\\nWolves [Made In The A.M.]\\nYou & I [Midnight Memories]\\n18 [FOUR]\\nZayn's solo album (Mind Of Mine): Pillowtalk\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Know that \\\"What Makes You Beautiful\\\" isn't One Direction's only song.\", \"描述\": \"Many people claim that they are \\\"Directioners\\\" but they only know What Makes You Beautiful. A true Directioner knows all One Direction songs. A list of song was mentioned in the step above.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Use YouTube to watch One Direction music videos.\", \"描述\": \"Watch their music videos. It will give them views, thus making them more known worldwide. One Direction has 17 made music videos so far. Other One Direction related videos are available on YouTube also.\\nBest Song Ever\\nDrag Me Down\\nGotta Be You\\nHistory\\nLittle Things\\nLive While We're Young\\nMidnight Memories\\nNight Changes\\nOne Thing\\nPerfect\\nStory Of My Life\\nWhat Makes You Beautiful\\nYou & I\\nSteal My Girl\\nOne Way Or Another(Teenage Kicks)\\nKiss You\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Connect with One Direction.\", \"描述\": \"As a Directioner, it's important to connect with your favorite band. That way you'll know when they're going on tour, releasing a new album, or even coming to a city near you!\\nLike One Direction on Facebook! They only have one official Facebook account and that's listed below. Any other pages claiming to be One Direction is fake. However, there are fan pages on Facebook, and if you like them, they could update you with information.\\nFollow One Direction, Zayn, Niall, Liam, Harry, Louis, and people associated with them on Twitter. Official Twitters are listed below in the Links section\\nSubscribe to One Direction's official Vevo account on YouTube for videos related to One Direction.\\nVisit the official One Direction website (listed below in the links section) for updates.\\nPurchase teen magazines such as J-14, Popstar, Bop, etc. They feature interviews, but beware, not all information will be true.\\nCreate and follow fan accounts on social media.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Purchase One Direction merchandise.\", \"描述\": \"If you have a little extra money, show your dedication to the band by purchasing their merchandise. If you are a little low on cash, this step can be skipped.\\nOne Direction's first studio album \\\"Up All Night\\\" is available for purchase at most music and department stores. The band also wrote a book called \\\"One Direction: Dare to Dream: Life as One Direction\\\". DVDs of their incredible journey are also available.\\nBuy magazines, posters, and pictures of the boys.\\nPurchase One Direction apparels such as t-shirts, hoodies, hats and more. They're available on the official One Direction store and Delia's. Wear them to show you support One Direction.\\nPurchase One Direction school supplies available at Target.\\nPurchase other One Direction merchandise such as mugs, key chains, etc from the One Direction store.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Follow your dreams.\", \"描述\": \"It's every Directioner's dream to meet One Direction. Every Directioner deserved to meet the boys since they're extremely dedicated. Here's a list on how you could meet them.\\nOne Direction has upcoming tours(not). Find out if the band is visiting your area (or a nearby area). Remember, tickets sell out fast, so know ahead of time when tickets go on sale.\\nIf the band isn't coming to a nearby area, tweet about it. Who knows, maybe they'll notice a trend on Twitter and add concerts near your area!\\nTry to visit them at Meet and Greets or signing. Search online ahead of time for meet and greets near you and see how you can obtain a wristband.\\nDo not show up at any of the members house. There's a huge difference between a creepy stalker and a Directioner.\\nDon't give up! You never know, you might run into one of the member(s) at a movie theater or park. Unfortunately, it's true that not all Directioners won't get to meet One Direction, but it's important to keep believing!\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Don't hate.\", \"描述\": \"Don't hate on any members and people associated with One Direction. You can hate but keep it to yourself and put it somewhere the boys or their girlfriends/ other people can't see as it will affect them and make the sad (fake fans).\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Know the official One Direction links.\", \"描述\": \". The official Twitter accounts of One Direction are listed here.\\nOne Direction\\nNiall Horan\\nZayn Malik\\nLouis Tomlinson\\nLiam Payne\\nHarry Styles\\n\\n. The only official Facebook page is One Direction Music. However, there are other Facebook pages that will give you information on One Direction, but it is administrated by fans.\\nOne Direction website \\nYouTube Channel.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Watch their movie, \\\"This Is Us\\\". You will learn everything you need to know about them if you watch it.\\n\", \"Accept their weirdness.\\n\", \"Watch videos on Youtube about One Direction.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Meeting the Requirements
1-1. Learn the basic requirements.
If you're interested in becoming a Disney princess, there are a variety of basic requirements. Some of these requirements are based on unchangeable qualities, such as your height and age. If you want to pursue work as a Disney princess, make sure you meet the basic qualifications.
Disney princesses need to be between 5'4 and 5'7. This is to make sure princesses resemble the characters on screen.
You have to be at least 18 years old to be a Disney princess. The oldest princesses can be varied. Most Disney princesses are between 18 and 23. However, princesses who have worked successfully for Disney in the past may be between the ages of 24 and 26. It is rare to find a Disney princess older than 27.
In terms of size, Disney princesses can not be higher than a dress size 10.
1-2. Gain acting and performing experience.
Disney has no specific requirements regarding past work when it comes to hiring princesses. However, acting and performing will be a large part of your job. Having experience in these fields can help you audition successfully.
In high school or during college, join a theater group. You might also want to take classes like drama in order to learn the craft of acting and performing. If you're not currently in school, see if there are any acting classes available in your area.
Look for performance experience. Audition for school plays or community theater. See if you can find a job that requires that you perform. For example, you could work at a restaurant, like Medieval Times, where you have to play a character as part of your job.
Learn a bit about improv. Take an improv class at your local theater or art center. Join an improv group to get hands-on experience. As you'll be answering questions in-character while working at Disney, you'll need to learn basic improvisation.
1-3. Consider a college degree.
Disney has no specific degree requirements for princesses. However, a college degree in something like theater could bolster your chances of career success.
The one downside of gaining a college degree is Disney's age requirement. Most people graduate college around the age of 22. Remember, most Disney princesses are between 18 and 23.
However, there is one upside to a college degree. Disney offers a college program where you spend a semester working at a Disney theme park. You'll get invaluable behind-the-scenes experience and have the opportunity to meet cast members. This may lead to work with the Disney corporation later on, providing you an in for a princess role.
1-4. Stay in physical shape.
As Disney princesses cannot be higher than a size 10, work on maintaining a healthy weight. Toned muscles may give you an edge as well. The audition process is largely non-verbal, so your physical presence makes a big difference.
The Department of Health and Human Services recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of strenuous aerobic activity a week to stay fit. Moderate aerobics include things like brisk walking or light biking. Strenuous aerobics would be things like running or jogging. It's also recommended you incorporate strength training twice a week. If you're trying to lose weight, you may need to be exercising more each day. Talk to a doctor about how to lose weight as he or she will be able to give you advice that takes your current weight and medical history into account.
It's best to pick activities that you enjoy. If you loathe running, for example, don't plan on getting fit with a daily jog. Instead, try something you enjoy like swimming or biking.
Strength training can come in the form of classic weightlifting. However, activities like Pilates and yoga help you build your core muscles simply by using your body as weight.
Eating a healthy diet can also help you get fit. Aim for a diet that includes a variety of fresh fruits and vegetables. You should also eat whole wheats and healthy, lean proteins like those found in poultry and fish.
1-5. Familiarize yourself with different Disney princesses.
You do not get to choose which character you play as a Disney princess. For example, if you love Belle and know every detail about her, you may end up being asked to play Merida instead. Therefore, try to have some familiarity with all the Disney princesses before beginning the audition process.
There are 13 Disney characters officially recognized as princesses by the Disney franchise. They are Jasmine, Ariel, Rapunzel, Tiana, Belle, Merida, Cinderella, Pocahontas, Aurora (Sleeping Beauty), Mulan, Elsa, Anna, and Snow White.
Disney does provide an extensive training process for those chosen to be princesses. It involves extensive viewing and analyzing of the films to help you better match the character's mannerisms and voice. Therefore, you do not need to memorize everything about each princess as Disney does not expect you to be an expert going in. It's still a good idea to watch all the Disney princess films prior to your audition. This will show your commitment to the Disney franchise.
2. Auditioning for the Role
2-1. Get headshots.
Headshots are an important tool when auditioning to become a Disney princess. Quality photos printed on standard, letter-sized paper are ideal. Make sure your photos accurately represent your current appearance.
Choose the right outfit for headshots. Go for a solid color instead of something brightly patterned, as flashy patterns can be too distracting on camera. Plain white, however, might produce a glaring effect. A V-neck is usually flattering. Keep the outfit somewhat professional but also fun. A tank-top or sleeveless shirt can be a nice touch. Avoid jewelry, as this can also be distracting.
Do your make-up how you usually wear it for an average. Take some extra time and apply carefully. Do not apply make-up heavily, as clumped mascara or smeared lipstick will show up in a headshot. Shiny eye shadow or lipstick can cause camera glare so it should be avoided.
Avoid cutting or dyeing your hair before a shoot. Wear it as you usually do. Drink a lot of water in the days leading up to your headshot to help you skin look hydrated and healthy.
You can pay to have professional headshots taken. This can be expensive, however, and there's no guarantee you'll like how the photos turn out. Consider asking a friend with a nice camera to help you take some flattering photos of yourself. Go to a local print shop to make copies.
2-2. Prepare a resume.
A resume highlighting your acting and performing experience can be helpful. Disney recommends keeping your resume to one page. They also mention a lack of experience is okay. Much of your training and learning will come after you've been hired.
An actor's resume is slightly different from a standard resume. As with a regular resume, list any basic contact information like your name, phone number, and address.
You should also list any special performing skills you have. For example, if you have professional vocal training, this is something to include.
You should list any performances you've been in, and include the time, location, and the roll you played.
Some actresses list their measurements, height, and weight on a resume. As Disney does have specific size requirements, this could be helpful information to include.
Bring a copy of your resume with you to your audition. Keep it in a folder so it stays in good condition.
2-3. Sign up for an audition.
You can find a list of auditions on the Disney auditions website. Look for auditions for "Female Disneyland Character Look-a-likes" in areas near you. When you click on the link, it will outline the requirements for that role. As long as you meet these requirements, you can sign up to audition online.
2-4. Prepare for your audition.
Disney princesses do not speak during auditions. You will imitate a Disney character and use gestures to communicate. The selection process is based on coordination, attitude, and movement.
Work on your smile. Disney princesses have to smile frequently on the job so spend some time practicing a smile before a mirror.
It can help to record yourself moving and then study your form. You can compare your movements to a scene of the princess you're portraying.
You do not need to come in costume. Disney recommends you wear comfortable clothing to the auditions as you'll be asked to complete a specific set of movements. Choose clothes you can easily move in when planning your auditions wardrobe.
Get a good night's sleep the night before your audition so you're energetic in the morning.
2-5. Attend your audition.
When you get to the audition, there will always be a cast member present to help you check in. They will take down your name, your time of arrival, and you'll give them your headshots and resume.
Time is very important to the Disney corporation. You should aim to arrive at least 15 minutes before your scheduled audition time.
The audition room can be somewhat intimidating but try to stay calm when entering. A Disney director will introduce him or herself. Then, you'll be given a few instructions and asked to perform.
All Disney auditions are closed. You cannot bring family members or friends into the audition room with you.
3. Continuing Your Career
3-1. Attend training.
If you're chosen to be a Disney princess, you'll attend a five-day training process. You will be assigned a character and analyze any films involving that character. By the end of training, you should be able to successfully mimic the mannerisms, voice, and other aspects of your character.
3-2. Follow Disney protocol.
Disney has a variety of protocol princesses are expected to follow. Breaking any rules could result in your position being terminated.
You are not allowed to talk about the character you play for Disney. You cannot post anything about your character on social media. This is a very strict rule so make sure you follow it properly.
When you're playing a Disney princess, you cannot reference anything outside the Disney universe. You cannot, for example, talk about a TV show on Cartoon Network while portraying Mulan.
3-3. Understand the extent of your obligation.
If you're chosen to be a Disney princess, it's at least a yearlong commitment. While the job may seem fun, it can get frustrating at times. In some roles, you're working outside all day and must learn to tolerate both very hot and very cold temperatures while still in costume. Make sure you're committed to staying a Disney princess for at least a year before signing any contract.
3-4. Be prepared to improvise.
As a Disney princess, you'll have to be in character all day. On occasion, you may have to answer questions from fans. Make sure you are able to think of an answer off-the-cuff. For example, if you're playing Ariel a child might ask you where Flounder is. Be prepared to respond with something like, "Flounder is hanging out with Sebastian in the ocean today."
3-5. Prepare for uncomfortable situations.
Many former Disney princesses have admitted older men at the Disney park often hit on them. Men may ask you when you get off work, pass you phone numbers, or otherwise behave inappropriately. Inform your supervisor if anyone gets out of hand.
Tips
Many YouTube users upload videos detailing their time working as a Disney princess. These can be a great resource to learn more specifics about the audition process and day-to-day life working at Disney.
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Gain acting and performing experience.\\nDisney has no specific requirements regarding past work when it comes to hiring princesses. However, acting and performing will be a large part of your job. Having experience in these fields can help you audition successfully.\\nIn high school or during college, join a theater group. You might also want to take classes like drama in order to learn the craft of acting and performing. If you're not currently in school, see if there are any acting classes available in your area.\\nLook for performance experience. Audition for school plays or community theater. See if you can find a job that requires that you perform. For example, you could work at a restaurant, like Medieval Times, where you have to play a character as part of your job.\\nLearn a bit about improv. Take an improv class at your local theater or art center. Join an improv group to get hands-on experience. 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Go for a solid color instead of something brightly patterned, as flashy patterns can be too distracting on camera. Plain white, however, might produce a glaring effect. A V-neck is usually flattering. Keep the outfit somewhat professional but also fun. A tank-top or sleeveless shirt can be a nice touch. Avoid jewelry, as this can also be distracting.\\nDo your make-up how you usually wear it for an average. Take some extra time and apply carefully. Do not apply make-up heavily, as clumped mascara or smeared lipstick will show up in a headshot. Shiny eye shadow or lipstick can cause camera glare so it should be avoided.\\nAvoid cutting or dyeing your hair before a shoot. Wear it as you usually do. Drink a lot of water in the days leading up to your headshot to help you skin look hydrated and healthy.\\nYou can pay to have professional headshots taken. This can be expensive, however, and there's no guarantee you'll like how the photos turn out. Consider asking a friend with a nice camera to help you take some flattering photos of yourself. Go to a local print shop to make copies.\\n2-2. Prepare a resume.\\nA resume highlighting your acting and performing experience can be helpful. Disney recommends keeping your resume to one page. They also mention a lack of experience is okay. Much of your training and learning will come after you've been hired.\\nAn actor's resume is slightly different from a standard resume. As with a regular resume, list any basic contact information like your name, phone number, and address.\\nYou should also list any special performing skills you have. For example, if you have professional vocal training, this is something to include.\\nYou should list any performances you've been in, and include the time, location, and the roll you played.\\nSome actresses list their measurements, height, and weight on a resume. 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You cannot, for example, talk about a TV show on Cartoon Network while portraying Mulan.\\n3-3. Understand the extent of your obligation.\\nIf you're chosen to be a Disney princess, it's at least a yearlong commitment. While the job may seem fun, it can get frustrating at times. In some roles, you're working outside all day and must learn to tolerate both very hot and very cold temperatures while still in costume. Make sure you're committed to staying a Disney princess for at least a year before signing any contract.\\n3-4. Be prepared to improvise.\\nAs a Disney princess, you'll have to be in character all day. On occasion, you may have to answer questions from fans. Make sure you are able to think of an answer off-the-cuff. For example, if you're playing Ariel a child might ask you where Flounder is. Be prepared to respond with something like, \\\"Flounder is hanging out with Sebastian in the ocean today.\\\"\\n3-5. Prepare for uncomfortable situations.\\nMany former Disney princesses have admitted older men at the Disney park often hit on them. Men may ask you when you get off work, pass you phone numbers, or otherwise behave inappropriately. Inform your supervisor if anyone gets out of hand.\\nTips\\nMany YouTube users upload videos detailing their time working as a Disney princess. These can be a great resource to learn more specifics about the audition process and day-to-day life working at Disney.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Disney hires performers to play various Disney princesses at their theme parks across the world. The job can be fun and rewarding for a hardened Disney fan. However, it's a competitive field with strict requirements. Spend some time learning about the job of a Disney princess before pursuing the career. 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This may lead to work with the Disney corporation later on, providing you an in for a princess role.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stay in physical shape.\", \"描述\": \"As Disney princesses cannot be higher than a size 10, work on maintaining a healthy weight. Toned muscles may give you an edge as well. The audition process is largely non-verbal, so your physical presence makes a big difference.\\nThe Department of Health and Human Services recommends at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity or 75 minutes of strenuous aerobic activity a week to stay fit. Moderate aerobics include things like brisk walking or light biking. Strenuous aerobics would be things like running or jogging. It's also recommended you incorporate strength training twice a week. If you're trying to lose weight, you may need to be exercising more each day. 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For example, if you love Belle and know every detail about her, you may end up being asked to play Merida instead. Therefore, try to have some familiarity with all the Disney princesses before beginning the audition process.\\nThere are 13 Disney characters officially recognized as princesses by the Disney franchise. They are Jasmine, Ariel, Rapunzel, Tiana, Belle, Merida, Cinderella, Pocahontas, Aurora (Sleeping Beauty), Mulan, Elsa, Anna, and Snow White.\\nDisney does provide an extensive training process for those chosen to be princesses. It involves extensive viewing and analyzing of the films to help you better match the character's mannerisms and voice. Therefore, you do not need to memorize everything about each princess as Disney does not expect you to be an expert going in. It's still a good idea to watch all the Disney princess films prior to your audition. This will show your commitment to the Disney franchise.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Auditioning for the Role\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get headshots.\", \"描述\": \"Headshots are an important tool when auditioning to become a Disney princess. Quality photos printed on standard, letter-sized paper are ideal. Make sure your photos accurately represent your current appearance.\\nChoose the right outfit for headshots. Go for a solid color instead of something brightly patterned, as flashy patterns can be too distracting on camera. Plain white, however, might produce a glaring effect. A V-neck is usually flattering. Keep the outfit somewhat professional but also fun. A tank-top or sleeveless shirt can be a nice touch. Avoid jewelry, as this can also be distracting.\\nDo your make-up how you usually wear it for an average. Take some extra time and apply carefully. Do not apply make-up heavily, as clumped mascara or smeared lipstick will show up in a headshot. 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As with a regular resume, list any basic contact information like your name, phone number, and address.\\nYou should also list any special performing skills you have. For example, if you have professional vocal training, this is something to include.\\nYou should list any performances you've been in, and include the time, location, and the roll you played.\\nSome actresses list their measurements, height, and weight on a resume. As Disney does have specific size requirements, this could be helpful information to include.\\nBring a copy of your resume with you to your audition. Keep it in a folder so it stays in good condition.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Sign up for an audition.\", \"描述\": \"You can find a list of auditions on the Disney auditions website. Look for auditions for \\\"Female Disneyland Character Look-a-likes\\\" in areas near you. When you click on the link, it will outline the requirements for that role. As long as you meet these requirements, you can sign up to audition online.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Prepare for your audition.\", \"描述\": \"Disney princesses do not speak during auditions. You will imitate a Disney character and use gestures to communicate. The selection process is based on coordination, attitude, and movement.\\nWork on your smile. Disney princesses have to smile frequently on the job so spend some time practicing a smile before a mirror.\\nIt can help to record yourself moving and then study your form. You can compare your movements to a scene of the princess you're portraying.\\nYou do not need to come in costume. Disney recommends you wear comfortable clothing to the auditions as you'll be asked to complete a specific set of movements. 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1. Consent and Safety
1-1. Get your partner’s consent prior to engaging in sexual activity.
A dominatrix—sometimes called a domme—takes the leadership role in a sensual or sexual relationship, and her partner (the sub or submissive) agrees to comply with all wishes and orders. But that doesn't mean you don't need your sub's consent! Because BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism) centers around sexual control, it’s imperative that you and your partner share mutually informed consent prior to and during any sexual activity.
A person who is intoxicated or unconscious cannot consent. It's also really hard to know how much your body can handle when you're intoxicated. For this and many other reasons, you should never do BDSM play when you're under the influence.
1-2. Set boundaries before playing the dominatrix.
Prior to engaging in BDSM, talk to your partner about what’s off-limits, and what could be off-limits, depending on a number of factors, including pain, pressure, and psychological discomfort. Using a “want/will/won’t” list can be helpful in determining how you and your sub’s desires align. A “want/will/won’t” list basically lists what you want, what you will do if asked, and what you won’t do.
Creating a “contract” can be a fun way to list wants, wills, and won’ts. Though they aren’t legally enforceable, they can create a fantasy with the sub, while setting limits and boundaries within the fantasy itself.
Make sure to also discuss what you want to do after a domme session (if anything in particular). Your partner may need you to hold them or reassure them. Listen to what they need from you, and plan for it.
1-3. Observe your sub's body language throughout the session to ensure consent.
Avoid relying solely on your partner’s words: be sure to watch their body language as well. While it’s common in BDSM for the sub to play the role of “victim,” you can usually tell the difference between BDSM play and a withdrawal of consent, especially if they’re gagged.
Look in their eyes, and check to see if their body stiffens, or if they turn away. This is a sign they might not be enjoying the play. If any of this will be part of your play, establish this beforehand.
1-4. Determine a safe word/gesture and a caution word/gesture.
To ensure consent throughout the play, determine both a safe word and a safe gesture, as well as a caution word and a caution gesture. The caution word/gesture will indicate that they’re not sure or something might be wrong, whereas the safe word/gesture would indicate a definite withdrawal of consent.
Examples of safe words and caution words are “stop” and “slow,” or “red” and “yellow.”
The gesture will depend on a number of things, including what body parts they can move, and whether you can see their face, among other things. However, simple gestures include stomping, blinking, and nodding or shaking one’s head.
It's always important to have a safe word if you're doing anything that involves restricting movement or putting pressure on the airway.
1-5. Keep safety shears at arm’s reach during your session.
Sometimes ropes become knotted or move to more dangerous places during play. This is why it is essential to have safety shears on hand if you are using rope play. Even if you never end up using them, they should help your partner relax and be in the moment, rather than worrying about possible asphyxiation.
1-6. Have water on hand while playing the dominatrix.
As with any strenuous exercise, staying hydrated is important. This is especially important if you or the sub is wearing heavy clothing or accessories (like leather). Water can also become part of the play, as you can tease your partner with the water before relinquishing the control of the water.
1-7. Take a class to familiarize yourself with the intricacies of being a dominatrix.
Because so many BDSM toys have the potential to do actual harm, taking a class on rope safety or being a dominatrix can help you stay safe in the dungeon. Check to see if your local sex shop offers a course—just make sure it’s sex-positive and emphasizes safety and consent.
2. Manipulating Bodily Sensations
2-1. Choose an impact toy.
An impact toy is used to hit the body, usually the buttocks, in BDSM play. Impact toys can include whips, canes, and paddles. The type of toy you use will depend on your partner’s comfort level—you might opt for a traditional Indiana Jones-style whip or soft paddles.
2-2. Consider using a tickling implement.
While people may not immediately consider tickling to be aligned with BDSM play, a tickler can be used similarly to a paddle, but it imparts ticklish discomfort rather than direct pain. It can also be used to tease your partner when you slide it across erogenous zones like the neck or nipples.
2-3. Use pinchers or nipple clamps.
Pinchers can be used to impart pain or pressure on the skin. Typically they’re used on the nipples. If you’re beginners, only use pinchers or clamps in 10-minute increments, as they cut off circulation to the nipple.
2-4. Try anal plugs and dildos.
Plugs and dildos are great for all kinds of sexual play, but can be especially fun in BDSM play. When buying a dildo or plug make sure they are non-toxic, and that you have lube that is safe to use with them. You can use water-based lube with all toys and condoms. Oil based lubes are no good if you’re using condoms or if you're using any latex, rubber or PVC toys. Silicone lube can’t be used with silicone toys.
Vibrating dildos or plugs can really spice things up.
3. Using Bondage
3-1. Choose a rope that is comfortable and at least 5 mm (0.20 in) thick.
While the type of rope you choose is largely up to you and your partner, avoid using rope that’s under 5 mm (0.20 in): rope that’s too thin can lead to circulation issues, bruising, nerve damage, and just general discomfort. As for what’s comfortable, this will be up to you and your partner: if you want a softer touch, try a silk rope; for something rougher, a jute rope might do the trick. Cotton, hemp, and nylon are the most common materials people opt for.
Approach an employee at your local sex shop about rope options: they’ll likely be able to guide you to the right type of rope based on your needs.
3-2. Play safely with rope.
Rope can be a dangerous tool in BDSM, as it can, if used improperly, cause nerve damage, asphyxiation, or even death. Be sure to play it safe when using a rope in your dominatrix sessions.
When someone is bound, never leave them by themselves.
Avoid tying your sub into positions that make breathing difficult, and never press the rope against the front of your partner’s throat.
Make sure the ropes are comfortable and allow for circulation. Keep at least a finger’s width of room between the rope and your partner’s skin.
3-3. Add cuffs to the play.
There are cuffs for the wrists, legs, and even genitalia. They are a quicker way of restraining your partner than rope and can be safer depending on the type. They come in a lot of varieties, from soft velcro to locking metal handcuffs. Again, check with your partner to determine what type to use.
3-4. Choose a gag that fits your partner.
There are a few different types of gags out there, so talk to your partner about the best fit for them. A ball gag can create an intense sense of vulnerability as it can impede breathing somewhat and stretches the jaw in a way the body isn’t used to. A bit gag is friendlier on the jaw and breathing.
With any gag you choose, remember to establish a safe gesture or signal, so your partner can let you know if they feel unsafe or uncomfortable at any point.
Don’t keep the gag on for longer than 20 minutes, especially if your partner is new to gag play.
3-5. Use a leash.
A leash can be fun for the sense of control it offers to the dominatrix and the sense of being controlled it gives to the sub. In order to use a leash safely, don’t pull on it sharply. Make sure the collar is fitted properly, leaving 2 fingers’ width of room between the collar and the skin.
4. Setting the Tone
4-1. Choose a theme prior to play.
Whether you’re imagining the 18th-century aristocratic sex dungeons of the Marquis de Sade or a futuristic sex lair, a theme can enliven the fantasy. While you may not want to change your entire bedroom for the theme, you can have props that help create the sense of fantasy you’re envisioning.
4-2. Wear clothing that shapes your dominatrix identity.
This can include leather or brocade, a mask, a cloak, or really anything that adds a sense of power or mystery to your play. It all depends on your fantasy and your identity as a dom.
You can work your outfit into your theme for the room or fantasy—for instance, if you’re going with an 18th-century theme, you might adopt an 18th-century vampire look.
4-3. Choose clothing for your sub before your session.
Dictating what your sub will wear can be part of the dominatrix play, or you can decide together what your sub will wear during play. This can include hoods, straight jackets, and even chastity belts. Just make sure your sub is comfortable with the clothing and accessories before embarking on dominatrix play.
Consider adding a blindfold to your sub’s wardrobe. A blindfold is a great way of keeping your partner in suspense. You can choose a soft silk blindfold or a leather one depending on your style and the theme.
4-4. Add furniture to your dungeon to use during play.
Sex furniture or particularly BDSM furniture can add an element of intrigue to your power plays as a dominatrix. From sex swings to cages, there are all kinds of furniture for you to use in your dungeon or bedroom. You can use the furniture to tweak or enhance your theme.
Popular props include cages, dentist chairs, and morgue tables. If you don’t have certain props, you can always pretend.
4-5. Choose music
Whether Bach’s eerie Toccata in D Minor or something from Mozart, the Rock Opera suits your fancy, you can add a layer of sensuality, power, or creepiness through the use of music. Avoid music that distracts, though, and make sure it’s quiet enough that you can still hear your partner over it.
5. Playing the Dominatrix
5-1. During play, tell your partner when they can and cannot speak.
Whether your partner is using a gag or not, forbidding them to speak while you're playing the role of domme can be an effective way to evoke pleasure for both of you. You’re the dominatrix: exert your power!
5-2. Tell your sub what to say during play.
When you tell them what to say, you can do it in character (if you're acting out a fantasy), or even use words you've previously discussed. Either way, the control can be helpful in building intensity. For instance, you can say, "Tell me I'm your queen" or "Tell me exactly what you want."
5-3. Tell your partner what to do during your session.
Commanding your partner is traditional in a domme/sub relationship, and it can definitely add to the power dynamic. Just make sure you're not asking them to do something you know they wouldn't be comfortable with or that appeared on their “won’t” list.
If they use the safe word, stop the action or withdraw your request. That doesn't mean all play has to stop, just that you need to change tactics. Try offering up an alternative to your partner instead. You can say, "If you don't want to kiss me on my lips, will you offer up a kiss on the cheek as an alternative?"
5-4. Assign fantasy roles for you both prior to play.
Roleplay can be a creative and fun way to increase the tension of a scene. As the domme, you might play a role that has some authority, such as queen, while your sub plays one of your subjects. Other popular dynamics include boss and assistant, doctor and patient, or cop and civilian.
If you’ve picked a particular theme for your session, consider choosing roles to match: for instance, if you’ve picked an 18th-century vampire theme, you might be the vampire, and your sub might be the hapless victim who wandered into your castle….
5-5. Implement “punishments” as part of the play.
Sometimes, dominatrixes will institute punishments for infractions on the part of the sub. Punishments are ways of sexually humiliating your sub, and they may be mutually enjoyable, or painful or unpleasant to your sub, though you both must agree on punishments before play. For instance, you could use any of the impact toys as a way to punish your sub, or you can implement silence or an apology.
Discuss punishments with your sub thoroughly before a session, especially if you're new to BDSM. Make sure both you and your sub consent to all punishments before implementing them during play.
Tips
Get to know people who already enjoy this type of lifestyle. Even a dominatrix needs a mentor. Ask someone you are comfortable with to help you navigate the scene and adopt the safest, healthiest practices.
Always do some research and take extra precautions when doing anything potentially dangerous such as suspension, bondage, or gagging. One wrong move and your partner can wind up with some awful injuries!
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Set boundaries before playing the dominatrix.\\nPrior to engaging in BDSM, talk to your partner about what’s off-limits, and what could be off-limits, depending on a number of factors, including pain, pressure, and psychological discomfort. Using a “want/will/won’t” list can be helpful in determining how you and your sub’s desires align. A “want/will/won’t” list basically lists what you want, what you will do if asked, and what you won’t do.\\nCreating a “contract” can be a fun way to list wants, wills, and won’ts. Though they aren’t legally enforceable, they can create a fantasy with the sub, while setting limits and boundaries within the fantasy itself.\\nMake sure to also discuss what you want to do after a domme session (if anything in particular). Your partner may need you to hold them or reassure them. Listen to what they need from you, and plan for it.\\n1-3. 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Even if you never end up using them, they should help your partner relax and be in the moment, rather than worrying about possible asphyxiation.\\n1-6. Have water on hand while playing the dominatrix.\\nAs with any strenuous exercise, staying hydrated is important. This is especially important if you or the sub is wearing heavy clothing or accessories (like leather). Water can also become part of the play, as you can tease your partner with the water before relinquishing the control of the water.\\n1-7. Take a class to familiarize yourself with the intricacies of being a dominatrix.\\nBecause so many BDSM toys have the potential to do actual harm, taking a class on rope safety or being a dominatrix can help you stay safe in the dungeon. Check to see if your local sex shop offers a course—just make sure it’s sex-positive and emphasizes safety and consent.\\n2. Manipulating Bodily Sensations\\n2-1. 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Try anal plugs and dildos.\\nPlugs and dildos are great for all kinds of sexual play, but can be especially fun in BDSM play. When buying a dildo or plug make sure they are non-toxic, and that you have lube that is safe to use with them. You can use water-based lube with all toys and condoms. Oil based lubes are no good if you’re using condoms or if you're using any latex, rubber or PVC toys. Silicone lube can’t be used with silicone toys.\\nVibrating dildos or plugs can really spice things up.\\n3. Using Bondage\\n3-1. Choose a rope that is comfortable and at least 5 mm (0.20 in) thick.\\nWhile the type of rope you choose is largely up to you and your partner, avoid using rope that’s under 5 mm (0.20 in): rope that’s too thin can lead to circulation issues, bruising, nerve damage, and just general discomfort. As for what’s comfortable, this will be up to you and your partner: if you want a softer touch, try a silk rope; for something rougher, a jute rope might do the trick. 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They come in a lot of varieties, from soft velcro to locking metal handcuffs. Again, check with your partner to determine what type to use.\\n3-4. Choose a gag that fits your partner.\\nThere are a few different types of gags out there, so talk to your partner about the best fit for them. A ball gag can create an intense sense of vulnerability as it can impede breathing somewhat and stretches the jaw in a way the body isn’t used to. A bit gag is friendlier on the jaw and breathing.\\nWith any gag you choose, remember to establish a safe gesture or signal, so your partner can let you know if they feel unsafe or uncomfortable at any point.\\nDon’t keep the gag on for longer than 20 minutes, especially if your partner is new to gag play.\\n3-5. Use a leash.\\nA leash can be fun for the sense of control it offers to the dominatrix and the sense of being controlled it gives to the sub. In order to use a leash safely, don’t pull on it sharply. Make sure the collar is fitted properly, leaving 2 fingers’ width of room between the collar and the skin.\\n4. Setting the Tone\\n4-1. Choose a theme prior to play.\\nWhether you’re imagining the 18th-century aristocratic sex dungeons of the Marquis de Sade or a futuristic sex lair, a theme can enliven the fantasy. While you may not want to change your entire bedroom for the theme, you can have props that help create the sense of fantasy you’re envisioning.\\n4-2. Wear clothing that shapes your dominatrix identity.\\nThis can include leather or brocade, a mask, a cloak, or really anything that adds a sense of power or mystery to your play. It all depends on your fantasy and your identity as a dom.\\nYou can work your outfit into your theme for the room or fantasy—for instance, if you’re going with an 18th-century theme, you might adopt an 18th-century vampire look.\\n4-3. Choose clothing for your sub before your session.\\nDictating what your sub will wear can be part of the dominatrix play, or you can decide together what your sub will wear during play. This can include hoods, straight jackets, and even chastity belts. Just make sure your sub is comfortable with the clothing and accessories before embarking on dominatrix play.\\nConsider adding a blindfold to your sub’s wardrobe. A blindfold is a great way of keeping your partner in suspense. You can choose a soft silk blindfold or a leather one depending on your style and the theme.\\n4-4. Add furniture to your dungeon to use during play.\\nSex furniture or particularly BDSM furniture can add an element of intrigue to your power plays as a dominatrix. From sex swings to cages, there are all kinds of furniture for you to use in your dungeon or bedroom. You can use the furniture to tweak or enhance your theme.\\nPopular props include cages, dentist chairs, and morgue tables. If you don’t have certain props, you can always pretend.\\n4-5. Choose music\\nWhether Bach’s eerie Toccata in D Minor or something from Mozart, the Rock Opera suits your fancy, you can add a layer of sensuality, power, or creepiness through the use of music. Avoid music that distracts, though, and make sure it’s quiet enough that you can still hear your partner over it.\\n5. Playing the Dominatrix\\n5-1. During play, tell your partner when they can and cannot speak.\\nWhether your partner is using a gag or not, forbidding them to speak while you're playing the role of domme can be an effective way to evoke pleasure for both of you. You’re the dominatrix: exert your power!\\n5-2. Tell your sub what to say during play.\\nWhen you tell them what to say, you can do it in character (if you're acting out a fantasy), or even use words you've previously discussed. Either way, the control can be helpful in building intensity. For instance, you can say, \\\"Tell me I'm your queen\\\" or \\\"Tell me exactly what you want.\\\"\\n5-3. Tell your partner what to do during your session.\\nCommanding your partner is traditional in a domme/sub relationship, and it can definitely add to the power dynamic. Just make sure you're not asking them to do something you know they wouldn't be comfortable with or that appeared on their “won’t” list.\\nIf they use the safe word, stop the action or withdraw your request. That doesn't mean all play has to stop, just that you need to change tactics. Try offering up an alternative to your partner instead. You can say, \\\"If you don't want to kiss me on my lips, will you offer up a kiss on the cheek as an alternative?\\\"\\n5-4. Assign fantasy roles for you both prior to play.\\nRoleplay can be a creative and fun way to increase the tension of a scene. As the domme, you might play a role that has some authority, such as queen, while your sub plays one of your subjects. Other popular dynamics include boss and assistant, doctor and patient, or cop and civilian.\\nIf you’ve picked a particular theme for your session, consider choosing roles to match: for instance, if you’ve picked an 18th-century vampire theme, you might be the vampire, and your sub might be the hapless victim who wandered into your castle….\\n5-5. Implement “punishments” as part of the play.\\nSometimes, dominatrixes will institute punishments for infractions on the part of the sub. Punishments are ways of sexually humiliating your sub, and they may be mutually enjoyable, or painful or unpleasant to your sub, though you both must agree on punishments before play. For instance, you could use any of the impact toys as a way to punish your sub, or you can implement silence or an apology.\\nDiscuss punishments with your sub thoroughly before a session, especially if you're new to BDSM. Make sure both you and your sub consent to all punishments before implementing them during play.\\nTips\\nGet to know people who already enjoy this type of lifestyle. Even a dominatrix needs a mentor. Ask someone you are comfortable with to help you navigate the scene and adopt the safest, healthiest practices.\\nAlways do some research and take extra precautions when doing anything potentially dangerous such as suspension, bondage, or gagging. One wrong move and your partner can wind up with some awful injuries!\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Break out the whips and gags! Being a dominatrix involves taking sexual control and trying new things, while still respecting your partner and ensuring you have their consent at all times. If this sounds appealing to you or your partner, you're in luck. We’ve consulted the experts for advice on how to become a dominatrix, from understanding safety and consent to playing the domme role. Ready to dive in to the BDSM world? Read on!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Consent and Safety\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get your partner’s consent prior to engaging in sexual activity.\", \"描述\": \"A dominatrix—sometimes called a domme—takes the leadership role in a sensual or sexual relationship, and her partner (the sub or submissive) agrees to comply with all wishes and orders. But that doesn't mean you don't need your sub's consent! Because BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism) centers around sexual control, it’s imperative that you and your partner share mutually informed consent prior to and during any sexual activity.\\nA person who is intoxicated or unconscious cannot consent. It's also really hard to know how much your body can handle when you're intoxicated. For this and many other reasons, you should never do BDSM play when you're under the influence.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Set boundaries before playing the dominatrix.\", \"描述\": \"Prior to engaging in BDSM, talk to your partner about what’s off-limits, and what could be off-limits, depending on a number of factors, including pain, pressure, and psychological discomfort. Using a “want/will/won’t” list can be helpful in determining how you and your sub’s desires align. A “want/will/won’t” list basically lists what you want, what you will do if asked, and what you won’t do.\\nCreating a “contract” can be a fun way to list wants, wills, and won’ts. Though they aren’t legally enforceable, they can create a fantasy with the sub, while setting limits and boundaries within the fantasy itself.\\nMake sure to also discuss what you want to do after a domme session (if anything in particular). Your partner may need you to hold them or reassure them. Listen to what they need from you, and plan for it.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Observe your sub's body language throughout the session to ensure consent.\", \"描述\": \"Avoid relying solely on your partner’s words: be sure to watch their body language as well. While it’s common in BDSM for the sub to play the role of “victim,” you can usually tell the difference between BDSM play and a withdrawal of consent, especially if they’re gagged.\\nLook in their eyes, and check to see if their body stiffens, or if they turn away. This is a sign they might not be enjoying the play. If any of this will be part of your play, establish this beforehand.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Determine a safe word/gesture and a caution word/gesture.\", \"描述\": \"To ensure consent throughout the play, determine both a safe word and a safe gesture, as well as a caution word and a caution gesture. The caution word/gesture will indicate that they’re not sure or something might be wrong, whereas the safe word/gesture would indicate a definite withdrawal of consent.\\nExamples of safe words and caution words are “stop” and “slow,” or “red” and “yellow.”\\nThe gesture will depend on a number of things, including what body parts they can move, and whether you can see their face, among other things. However, simple gestures include stomping, blinking, and nodding or shaking one’s head.\\nIt's always important to have a safe word if you're doing anything that involves restricting movement or putting pressure on the airway.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Keep safety shears at arm’s reach during your session.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes ropes become knotted or move to more dangerous places during play. This is why it is essential to have safety shears on hand if you are using rope play. Even if you never end up using them, they should help your partner relax and be in the moment, rather than worrying about possible asphyxiation.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Have water on hand while playing the dominatrix.\", \"描述\": \"As with any strenuous exercise, staying hydrated is important. This is especially important if you or the sub is wearing heavy clothing or accessories (like leather). Water can also become part of the play, as you can tease your partner with the water before relinquishing the control of the water.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Take a class to familiarize yourself with the intricacies of being a dominatrix.\", \"描述\": \"Because so many BDSM toys have the potential to do actual harm, taking a class on rope safety or being a dominatrix can help you stay safe in the dungeon. Check to see if your local sex shop offers a course—just make sure it’s sex-positive and emphasizes safety and consent.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Manipulating Bodily Sensations\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose an impact toy.\", \"描述\": \"An impact toy is used to hit the body, usually the buttocks, in BDSM play. Impact toys can include whips, canes, and paddles. The type of toy you use will depend on your partner’s comfort level—you might opt for a traditional Indiana Jones-style whip or soft paddles.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Consider using a tickling implement.\", \"描述\": \"While people may not immediately consider tickling to be aligned with BDSM play, a tickler can be used similarly to a paddle, but it imparts ticklish discomfort rather than direct pain. It can also be used to tease your partner when you slide it across erogenous zones like the neck or nipples.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Use pinchers or nipple clamps.\", \"描述\": \"Pinchers can be used to impart pain or pressure on the skin. Typically they’re used on the nipples. If you’re beginners, only use pinchers or clamps in 10-minute increments, as they cut off circulation to the nipple.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Try anal plugs and dildos.\", \"描述\": \"Plugs and dildos are great for all kinds of sexual play, but can be especially fun in BDSM play. When buying a dildo or plug make sure they are non-toxic, and that you have lube that is safe to use with them. You can use water-based lube with all toys and condoms. Oil based lubes are no good if you’re using condoms or if you're using any latex, rubber or PVC toys. Silicone lube can’t be used with silicone toys.\\nVibrating dildos or plugs can really spice things up.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Using Bondage\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose a rope that is comfortable and at least 5 mm (0.20 in) thick.\", \"描述\": \"While the type of rope you choose is largely up to you and your partner, avoid using rope that’s under 5 mm (0.20 in): rope that’s too thin can lead to circulation issues, bruising, nerve damage, and just general discomfort. As for what’s comfortable, this will be up to you and your partner: if you want a softer touch, try a silk rope; for something rougher, a jute rope might do the trick. Cotton, hemp, and nylon are the most common materials people opt for.\\nApproach an employee at your local sex shop about rope options: they’ll likely be able to guide you to the right type of rope based on your needs.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Play safely with rope.\", \"描述\": \"Rope can be a dangerous tool in BDSM, as it can, if used improperly, cause nerve damage, asphyxiation, or even death. Be sure to play it safe when using a rope in your dominatrix sessions.\\nWhen someone is bound, never leave them by themselves.\\nAvoid tying your sub into positions that make breathing difficult, and never press the rope against the front of your partner’s throat.\\nMake sure the ropes are comfortable and allow for circulation. Keep at least a finger’s width of room between the rope and your partner’s skin.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Add cuffs to the play.\", \"描述\": \"There are cuffs for the wrists, legs, and even genitalia. They are a quicker way of restraining your partner than rope and can be safer depending on the type. They come in a lot of varieties, from soft velcro to locking metal handcuffs. Again, check with your partner to determine what type to use.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Choose a gag that fits your partner.\", \"描述\": \"There are a few different types of gags out there, so talk to your partner about the best fit for them. A ball gag can create an intense sense of vulnerability as it can impede breathing somewhat and stretches the jaw in a way the body isn’t used to. A bit gag is friendlier on the jaw and breathing.\\nWith any gag you choose, remember to establish a safe gesture or signal, so your partner can let you know if they feel unsafe or uncomfortable at any point.\\nDon’t keep the gag on for longer than 20 minutes, especially if your partner is new to gag play.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Use a leash.\", \"描述\": \"A leash can be fun for the sense of control it offers to the dominatrix and the sense of being controlled it gives to the sub. In order to use a leash safely, don’t pull on it sharply. Make sure the collar is fitted properly, leaving 2 fingers’ width of room between the collar and the skin.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Setting the Tone\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose a theme prior to play.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you’re imagining the 18th-century aristocratic sex dungeons of the Marquis de Sade or a futuristic sex lair, a theme can enliven the fantasy. While you may not want to change your entire bedroom for the theme, you can have props that help create the sense of fantasy you’re envisioning.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wear clothing that shapes your dominatrix identity.\", \"描述\": \"This can include leather or brocade, a mask, a cloak, or really anything that adds a sense of power or mystery to your play. It all depends on your fantasy and your identity as a dom.\\nYou can work your outfit into your theme for the room or fantasy—for instance, if you’re going with an 18th-century theme, you might adopt an 18th-century vampire look.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Choose clothing for your sub before your session.\", \"描述\": \"Dictating what your sub will wear can be part of the dominatrix play, or you can decide together what your sub will wear during play. This can include hoods, straight jackets, and even chastity belts. Just make sure your sub is comfortable with the clothing and accessories before embarking on dominatrix play.\\nConsider adding a blindfold to your sub’s wardrobe. A blindfold is a great way of keeping your partner in suspense. You can choose a soft silk blindfold or a leather one depending on your style and the theme.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Add furniture to your dungeon to use during play.\", \"描述\": \"Sex furniture or particularly BDSM furniture can add an element of intrigue to your power plays as a dominatrix. From sex swings to cages, there are all kinds of furniture for you to use in your dungeon or bedroom. You can use the furniture to tweak or enhance your theme.\\nPopular props include cages, dentist chairs, and morgue tables. If you don’t have certain props, you can always pretend.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Choose music\", \"描述\": \"Whether Bach’s eerie Toccata in D Minor or something from Mozart, the Rock Opera suits your fancy, you can add a layer of sensuality, power, or creepiness through the use of music. Avoid music that distracts, though, and make sure it’s quiet enough that you can still hear your partner over it.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Playing the Dominatrix\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"During play, tell your partner when they can and cannot speak.\", \"描述\": \"Whether your partner is using a gag or not, forbidding them to speak while you're playing the role of domme can be an effective way to evoke pleasure for both of you. You’re the dominatrix: exert your power!\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Tell your sub what to say during play.\", \"描述\": \"When you tell them what to say, you can do it in character (if you're acting out a fantasy), or even use words you've previously discussed. Either way, the control can be helpful in building intensity. For instance, you can say, \\\"Tell me I'm your queen\\\" or \\\"Tell me exactly what you want.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Tell your partner what to do during your session.\", \"描述\": \"Commanding your partner is traditional in a domme/sub relationship, and it can definitely add to the power dynamic. Just make sure you're not asking them to do something you know they wouldn't be comfortable with or that appeared on their “won’t” list.\\nIf they use the safe word, stop the action or withdraw your request. That doesn't mean all play has to stop, just that you need to change tactics. Try offering up an alternative to your partner instead. You can say, \\\"If you don't want to kiss me on my lips, will you offer up a kiss on the cheek as an alternative?\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Assign fantasy roles for you both prior to play.\", \"描述\": \"Roleplay can be a creative and fun way to increase the tension of a scene. As the domme, you might play a role that has some authority, such as queen, while your sub plays one of your subjects. Other popular dynamics include boss and assistant, doctor and patient, or cop and civilian.\\nIf you’ve picked a particular theme for your session, consider choosing roles to match: for instance, if you’ve picked an 18th-century vampire theme, you might be the vampire, and your sub might be the hapless victim who wandered into your castle….\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Implement “punishments” as part of the play.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes, dominatrixes will institute punishments for infractions on the part of the sub. Punishments are ways of sexually humiliating your sub, and they may be mutually enjoyable, or painful or unpleasant to your sub, though you both must agree on punishments before play. For instance, you could use any of the impact toys as a way to punish your sub, or you can implement silence or an apology.\\nDiscuss punishments with your sub thoroughly before a session, especially if you're new to BDSM. Make sure both you and your sub consent to all punishments before implementing them during play.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Get to know people who already enjoy this type of lifestyle. Even a dominatrix needs a mentor. Ask someone you are comfortable with to help you navigate the scene and adopt the safest, healthiest practices.\\n\", \"Always do some research and take extra precautions when doing anything potentially dangerous such as suspension, bondage, or gagging. One wrong move and your partner can wind up with some awful injuries!\\n\"]}]}}",
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How to Become a Drag Queen: A Beginner's Guide
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1. Getting the Look
1-1. Choose what you are (and aren't) going to shave.
When it comes to the look of a drag queen, there's no right or wrong way to do it. Some men shave their entire bodies, some men just shave their faces and their chests, and others don't shave at all. The latter is referred to as "bear" or "skag" drag. What is your persona like?
If you've got a lot of hair and you do want to shave it, trim it with safety scissors first. Then shave – just after a shower is best.
You could also go for a full body wax. You'll walk out with a hairless body and a newfound appreciation for what women go through.
1-2. Choose whether you'll go big or small.
Hip pads add curves, but thin is in. Ultimately, it's up to you. Waist cinchers also come in handy – especially if you're a little heavy in the middle. Again, this is a matter of personality. Is she larger and larger than life? Or is she petite and demure?
Take a look at your body type. How broad is your chest? How narrow are your hips? Are they vastly different or about the same? If you don't have an automatic response, you may find it useful to just try on a few dresses with and without padding in place. Then you can see which side of the spectrum you prefer.
1-3. Tuck in down below.
Just tuck everything between your legs. Women's panties are snug and smooth enough to hold it all in place, though you could also get a gaff (very similar to women's panties). Support garments like Spanx or pantyhose work great too. If you do get a gaff, lie down with the gaff pulled up to your thighs. Tuck each testicle and up into your abdominal cavity. Tuck your penis between your legs and pull up the gaff.
1-4. Get a good bra.
For sizing, measure around your chest a few inches below your nipples. For the cup size, bigger is not better – B or C looks more natural. Anything will fill those cups, but chicken cutlets or silicone breast enhancers will look and feel real. As for cleavage, it's an illusion, created with pecs and tape. Start by holding in your pecs with one hand. Take a strip of medical tape, and apply it like a sash, running from your underarm to your chest cavity.
1-5. Wear some wild makeup.
No drag queen is complete without her face on, and most "faces" are made up of wild shades of make-up (and false eyelashes) that can be seen from 50 rows back. It's not easy, either. Some queens report not being happy with their ability to do their own make-up for a whole year. So start doing your own now; you'll appreciate the practice.
It can be tempting to have someone else do it for you, but you don't want to have to depend on anyone else being at the reigns of your performance. And if you can do it yourself, you can mold your mask as your persona evolves.
Not sure where to start? There are tons of tutorials for doing drag makeup online. It's also a good idea to talk to friends and confidants that have expertise in this area. They could do it for you once to create a template and you could work off that from there.
1-6. Create your new persona's wardrobe.
Is your other half a dynamic diva? Is she the girl next door or is she fiery and fierce? Would she wear long, elegant dresses or mini-skirts and tube tops? Along with the makeup, this is where drag starts getting expensive. Start by just assembling one or two outfits. As you develop your act, you can assemble more.
Use skirts and dresses to hide what you need to hide. They're comfortable and feminine, too.
Choose tops with wider shoulders, longer sleeves, and lowered waistlines for longer torsos.
Wear high heels. Nothing makes your legs sexier than a pair of high heels, but they're hard to find in big sizes at generic stores. Cross dressing websites come in really handy here (and can for clothes as well).
1-7. Buy a nice wig.
Odds are you won't be able to grow a healthy head of long, wavy, luxurious hair in the next few weeks, so a wig is your best bet. And when it comes to wigs, unlike some other things, quality is reflected in the price. Is she a blonde, a brunette, or a redhead? Curly or straight?
And take good care of it, too. Wigs get surprisingly unkempt very easily. When you purchase yours (ideally you'll purchase it in person so you can try it on then and there), ask about care. How can you lengthen the life of your wig? The expert you're dealing with will give you tips on brushing and storage.
2. Refining Your Persona
2-1. Choose a name and act for your drag persona.
Once you've got everything you need to look like a drag queen, you have to have the personality and the act to back it up. Choose your name carefully and make sure it fits who you are – something more refined like Latrice Royale, or something edgy, like Detox? Is she a diva, a dancer, the rule breaker? How does she interact with others, fans or not? Is she sweet and sultry or spicy and bossy?
Many queens choose a last name, and most usually borrow that of their "drag mother," the drag queen their style is most heavily influenced by, however, you don't need to do this.
Once you have her personality determined, choose a song she'll "sing" and "dance" to (you'll just have to mime the words and you can get away with moving on stage). Memorize the lyrics like your birthday – the last thing you want is to be stuck in front of a mic like a deer in headlights.
In the beginning, just worry about having two or three songs under your belt. You can do these over and over at different venues. As you get known, you'll want to increase your repertoire.
2-2. Choose what kind of queen you want to be.
A lot of people have this conception of a drag queen as some ultimate diva, big-breasted and snarky, with an attitude pointier than her six-inch heels. This isn't always the case. In fact, not being this can make your act more interesting. Here is some inspiration:
The beauty queen type, like Shangela, is someone you'd never know was a man.
Dena Cass is the dancer. When you see her on stage, you know her type.
Detox is a fashionista. One look at her outfits and it becomes clear.
Nina West is a good example of the unique type. There are some queens that go to the beat of their own drum, and it works.
2-3. Let her look evolve.
As you develop your character, you'll notice that her and her "mask" evolve over time. The things you used to do won't seem applicable anymore, and that also goes for her hair, make-up, and clothes. When something doesn't feel right anymore, it's because she's a part of you and she's outgrown it. That's a completely normal, good feeling. It means you're refining her into who she should be.
2-4. Support other queens and the community, no matter what.
For many, doing drag isn't just about doing drag. It's about being home. Not only are you at home in your persona, but you're at home with your fellow queens and fans. After you walk off the stage, your job isn't done. They cheered you on, now you cheer them on. The camaraderie is what keeps many going, and instead of feeling competitive, most drag environments are about giving off an aura of love and acceptance.
The people willing to do drag and be in this environment are looking for you to be family, not looking for your faults. Many people, though by no means all, are going through some transition or some inner conflict, and it's this type of environment that makes them feel good. Be a part of it, and you'll fall in love with drag even more.
2-5. Ignore the adversity.
Let's face it: being a drag queen is no easy task. If your gay life can be even more difficult and if you're not, you can expect questions about your personal life till the cows come home. There will be people who "don't get it," who think you want to be a woman, and who judge you. They serve no place in your life. Brush it off, because you are fabulous.
Let good thoughts be your sword and your shield. The community you're in will help you develop your positivity. When you're surrounded by others who help you feel good and make you your best, it's hard not to think positively. When the adversity comes, you can band together, making each of you individually stronger.
2-6. Embrace and accept yourself for who you are.
No matter who you are, no matter what you look like, no matter your home life or your career skills, you can be accepted into the drag community. The only requirement is that you let yourself shine as bright as you can shine. Are you ready to take the leap?
You don't even have to be a man to be a drag queen. With a larger-than-life personality and a nice set of false eyelashes, you can take on the world, no matter who you are (or what you have down there). But it certainly helps to be larger than life.
3. Getting Paid
3-1. Audition at local clubs and for events.
Where in your area has drag showcases? When you find out, go to them. Check out how they work. Make small talk with the girls and the owner or the hostess. How can you audition? The more you become a part of this community, in drag or not, the easier it'll be to get a spot on stage.
This is no theatre audition. When you do show them your stuff, be decked out to the 9's – full hair and makeup and in your best costume. Hopefully you'll nab a weekly spot in their show.
Be willing to start working for next to nothing, or even free. When your career is just budding, the money won't be rolling in. Some venues simply offer experience as pay, others drink, and the higher end might roll in $50-$100. So don't quit your day job just yet until you're the one naming prices.
Charity events are a huge part of most drag queens' career experiences. It's a great way to get your name out there and to show your support. However, charity events generally don't pay. You're not doing this for money, you're doing this to be a part of a community.
3-2. Invest in supplies and accessories to further your career.
Drag is not cheap. In addition to a lifestyle, it is a very expensive hobby. You'll be spending hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars on make-up, wigs, clothes, and shoes. You've got to look good! In this industry, you'll need to spend money to look good and you've got to look good to make money.
Very few drag queens make it professionally. The vast majority do it in their spare time as their after 9-5 passion.
3-3. Develop a wider, more expansive repertoire as your experience grows.
Just like a comedian can only get so many shows out of his material before he has to come up with a new sketch, a drag queen can only perform "Hit Me Baby One More Time" before she has to work on a new act. When you feel ready for a new challenge, go for it. What other songs would your persona take on? Would she do them straight or would she play up the comedy? Does she work the crowd and use audience participation? What makes her song unique?
And with this comes new costumes and new make-up. If you're on a tight budget, see what pieces from your previous outfit you can work into a new one, maybe with new accessories and shoes.
Tips
Remember that there are many types of drag queens, like Sharon Needles on RuPaul's Drag Race and Dame Edna Everage (Barry Humphries), or drag kings such as Lady Gaga dressed up as Jo Calderone.
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As for cleavage, it's an illusion, created with pecs and tape. Start by holding in your pecs with one hand. Take a strip of medical tape, and apply it like a sash, running from your underarm to your chest cavity.\\n1-5. Wear some wild makeup.\\nNo drag queen is complete without her face on, and most \\\"faces\\\" are made up of wild shades of make-up (and false eyelashes) that can be seen from 50 rows back. It's not easy, either. Some queens report not being happy with their ability to do their own make-up for a whole year. So start doing your own now; you'll appreciate the practice.\\nIt can be tempting to have someone else do it for you, but you don't want to have to depend on anyone else being at the reigns of your performance. And if you can do it yourself, you can mold your mask as your persona evolves.\\nNot sure where to start? There are tons of tutorials for doing drag makeup online. It's also a good idea to talk to friends and confidants that have expertise in this area. They could do it for you once to create a template and you could work off that from there.\\n1-6. Create your new persona's wardrobe.\\nIs your other half a dynamic diva? Is she the girl next door or is she fiery and fierce? Would she wear long, elegant dresses or mini-skirts and tube tops? Along with the makeup, this is where drag starts getting expensive. Start by just assembling one or two outfits. As you develop your act, you can assemble more.\\nUse skirts and dresses to hide what you need to hide. They're comfortable and feminine, too.\\nChoose tops with wider shoulders, longer sleeves, and lowered waistlines for longer torsos.\\nWear high heels. Nothing makes your legs sexier than a pair of high heels, but they're hard to find in big sizes at generic stores. Cross dressing websites come in really handy here (and can for clothes as well).\\n1-7. Buy a nice wig.\\nOdds are you won't be able to grow a healthy head of long, wavy, luxurious hair in the next few weeks, so a wig is your best bet. And when it comes to wigs, unlike some other things, quality is reflected in the price. Is she a blonde, a brunette, or a redhead? Curly or straight?\\nAnd take good care of it, too. Wigs get surprisingly unkempt very easily. When you purchase yours (ideally you'll purchase it in person so you can try it on then and there), ask about care. How can you lengthen the life of your wig? The expert you're dealing with will give you tips on brushing and storage.\\n2. Refining Your Persona\\n2-1. Choose a name and act for your drag persona.\\nOnce you've got everything you need to look like a drag queen, you have to have the personality and the act to back it up. Choose your name carefully and make sure it fits who you are – something more refined like Latrice Royale, or something edgy, like Detox? Is she a diva, a dancer, the rule breaker? How does she interact with others, fans or not? Is she sweet and sultry or spicy and bossy?\\nMany queens choose a last name, and most usually borrow that of their \\\"drag mother,\\\" the drag queen their style is most heavily influenced by, however, you don't need to do this.\\nOnce you have her personality determined, choose a song she'll \\\"sing\\\" and \\\"dance\\\" to (you'll just have to mime the words and you can get away with moving on stage). Memorize the lyrics like your birthday – the last thing you want is to be stuck in front of a mic like a deer in headlights.\\nIn the beginning, just worry about having two or three songs under your belt. You can do these over and over at different venues. As you get known, you'll want to increase your repertoire.\\n2-2. Choose what kind of queen you want to be.\\nA lot of people have this conception of a drag queen as some ultimate diva, big-breasted and snarky, with an attitude pointier than her six-inch heels. This isn't always the case. In fact, not being this can make your act more interesting. Here is some inspiration:\\nThe beauty queen type, like Shangela, is someone you'd never know was a man.\\nDena Cass is the dancer. When you see her on stage, you know her type.\\nDetox is a fashionista. One look at her outfits and it becomes clear.\\nNina West is a good example of the unique type. There are some queens that go to the beat of their own drum, and it works.\\n2-3. Let her look evolve.\\nAs you develop your character, you'll notice that her and her \\\"mask\\\" evolve over time. The things you used to do won't seem applicable anymore, and that also goes for her hair, make-up, and clothes. When something doesn't feel right anymore, it's because she's a part of you and she's outgrown it. That's a completely normal, good feeling. It means you're refining her into who she should be.\\n2-4. Support other queens and the community, no matter what.\\nFor many, doing drag isn't just about doing drag. It's about being home. Not only are you at home in your persona, but you're at home with your fellow queens and fans. After you walk off the stage, your job isn't done. They cheered you on, now you cheer them on. The camaraderie is what keeps many going, and instead of feeling competitive, most drag environments are about giving off an aura of love and acceptance.\\nThe people willing to do drag and be in this environment are looking for you to be family, not looking for your faults. Many people, though by no means all, are going through some transition or some inner conflict, and it's this type of environment that makes them feel good. Be a part of it, and you'll fall in love with drag even more.\\n2-5. Ignore the adversity.\\nLet's face it: being a drag queen is no easy task. If your gay life can be even more difficult and if you're not, you can expect questions about your personal life till the cows come home. There will be people who \\\"don't get it,\\\" who think you want to be a woman, and who judge you. They serve no place in your life. Brush it off, because you are fabulous.\\nLet good thoughts be your sword and your shield. The community you're in will help you develop your positivity. When you're surrounded by others who help you feel good and make you your best, it's hard not to think positively. When the adversity comes, you can band together, making each of you individually stronger.\\n2-6. Embrace and accept yourself for who you are.\\nNo matter who you are, no matter what you look like, no matter your home life or your career skills, you can be accepted into the drag community. The only requirement is that you let yourself shine as bright as you can shine. Are you ready to take the leap?\\nYou don't even have to be a man to be a drag queen. With a larger-than-life personality and a nice set of false eyelashes, you can take on the world, no matter who you are (or what you have down there). But it certainly helps to be larger than life.\\n3. Getting Paid\\n3-1. Audition at local clubs and for events.\\nWhere in your area has drag showcases? When you find out, go to them. Check out how they work. Make small talk with the girls and the owner or the hostess. How can you audition? The more you become a part of this community, in drag or not, the easier it'll be to get a spot on stage.\\nThis is no theatre audition. When you do show them your stuff, be decked out to the 9's – full hair and makeup and in your best costume. Hopefully you'll nab a weekly spot in their show.\\nBe willing to start working for next to nothing, or even free. When your career is just budding, the money won't be rolling in. Some venues simply offer experience as pay, others drink, and the higher end might roll in $50-$100. So don't quit your day job just yet until you're the one naming prices.\\nCharity events are a huge part of most drag queens' career experiences. It's a great way to get your name out there and to show your support. However, charity events generally don't pay. You're not doing this for money, you're doing this to be a part of a community.\\n3-2. Invest in supplies and accessories to further your career.\\nDrag is not cheap. In addition to a lifestyle, it is a very expensive hobby. You'll be spending hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars on make-up, wigs, clothes, and shoes. You've got to look good! In this industry, you'll need to spend money to look good and you've got to look good to make money.\\nVery few drag queens make it professionally. The vast majority do it in their spare time as their after 9-5 passion.\\n3-3. Develop a wider, more expansive repertoire as your experience grows.\\nJust like a comedian can only get so many shows out of his material before he has to come up with a new sketch, a drag queen can only perform \\\"Hit Me Baby One More Time\\\" before she has to work on a new act. When you feel ready for a new challenge, go for it. What other songs would your persona take on? Would she do them straight or would she play up the comedy? Does she work the crowd and use audience participation? What makes her song unique?\\nAnd with this comes new costumes and new make-up. If you're on a tight budget, see what pieces from your previous outfit you can work into a new one, maybe with new accessories and shoes.\\nTips\\nRemember that there are many types of drag queens, like Sharon Needles on RuPaul's Drag Race and Dame Edna Everage (Barry Humphries), or drag kings such as Lady Gaga dressed up as Jo Calderone.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Whether you masquerade at midnight as a woman in your wife's clothes, you have a secret, burning desire to sing Cher's \\\"If I Could Turn Back Time\\\" on stage, or you want to really strut your stuff around town as a full-time woman, you'll need to transform your masculine figure into a beautiful, feminine diva. Once you get the look, you can start developing your persona, get integrated into your local drag community, and maybe even start getting paid.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting the Look\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose what you are (and aren't) going to shave.\", \"描述\": \"When it comes to the look of a drag queen, there's no right or wrong way to do it. Some men shave their entire bodies, some men just shave their faces and their chests, and others don't shave at all. The latter is referred to as \\\"bear\\\" or \\\"skag\\\" drag. What is your persona like?\\nIf you've got a lot of hair and you do want to shave it, trim it with safety scissors first. Then shave – just after a shower is best.\\nYou could also go for a full body wax. You'll walk out with a hairless body and a newfound appreciation for what women go through.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose whether you'll go big or small.\", \"描述\": \"Hip pads add curves, but thin is in. Ultimately, it's up to you. Waist cinchers also come in handy – especially if you're a little heavy in the middle. Again, this is a matter of personality. Is she larger and larger than life? Or is she petite and demure?\\nTake a look at your body type. How broad is your chest? How narrow are your hips? Are they vastly different or about the same? If you don't have an automatic response, you may find it useful to just try on a few dresses with and without padding in place. Then you can see which side of the spectrum you prefer.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Tuck in down below.\", \"描述\": \"Just tuck everything between your legs. Women's panties are snug and smooth enough to hold it all in place, though you could also get a gaff (very similar to women's panties). Support garments like Spanx or pantyhose work great too. If you do get a gaff, lie down with the gaff pulled up to your thighs. Tuck each testicle and up into your abdominal cavity. Tuck your penis between your legs and pull up the gaff.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Get a good bra.\", \"描述\": \"For sizing, measure around your chest a few inches below your nipples. For the cup size, bigger is not better – B or C looks more natural. Anything will fill those cups, but chicken cutlets or silicone breast enhancers will look and feel real. As for cleavage, it's an illusion, created with pecs and tape. Start by holding in your pecs with one hand. Take a strip of medical tape, and apply it like a sash, running from your underarm to your chest cavity.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Wear some wild makeup.\", \"描述\": \"No drag queen is complete without her face on, and most \\\"faces\\\" are made up of wild shades of make-up (and false eyelashes) that can be seen from 50 rows back. It's not easy, either. Some queens report not being happy with their ability to do their own make-up for a whole year. So start doing your own now; you'll appreciate the practice.\\nIt can be tempting to have someone else do it for you, but you don't want to have to depend on anyone else being at the reigns of your performance. And if you can do it yourself, you can mold your mask as your persona evolves.\\nNot sure where to start? There are tons of tutorials for doing drag makeup online. It's also a good idea to talk to friends and confidants that have expertise in this area. They could do it for you once to create a template and you could work off that from there.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Create your new persona's wardrobe.\", \"描述\": \"Is your other half a dynamic diva? Is she the girl next door or is she fiery and fierce? Would she wear long, elegant dresses or mini-skirts and tube tops? Along with the makeup, this is where drag starts getting expensive. Start by just assembling one or two outfits. As you develop your act, you can assemble more.\\nUse skirts and dresses to hide what you need to hide. They're comfortable and feminine, too.\\nChoose tops with wider shoulders, longer sleeves, and lowered waistlines for longer torsos.\\nWear high heels. Nothing makes your legs sexier than a pair of high heels, but they're hard to find in big sizes at generic stores. Cross dressing websites come in really handy here (and can for clothes as well).\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Buy a nice wig.\", \"描述\": \"Odds are you won't be able to grow a healthy head of long, wavy, luxurious hair in the next few weeks, so a wig is your best bet. And when it comes to wigs, unlike some other things, quality is reflected in the price. Is she a blonde, a brunette, or a redhead? Curly or straight?\\nAnd take good care of it, too. Wigs get surprisingly unkempt very easily. When you purchase yours (ideally you'll purchase it in person so you can try it on then and there), ask about care. How can you lengthen the life of your wig? The expert you're dealing with will give you tips on brushing and storage.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Refining Your Persona\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose a name and act for your drag persona.\", \"描述\": \"Once you've got everything you need to look like a drag queen, you have to have the personality and the act to back it up. Choose your name carefully and make sure it fits who you are – something more refined like Latrice Royale, or something edgy, like Detox? Is she a diva, a dancer, the rule breaker? How does she interact with others, fans or not? Is she sweet and sultry or spicy and bossy?\\nMany queens choose a last name, and most usually borrow that of their \\\"drag mother,\\\" the drag queen their style is most heavily influenced by, however, you don't need to do this.\\nOnce you have her personality determined, choose a song she'll \\\"sing\\\" and \\\"dance\\\" to (you'll just have to mime the words and you can get away with moving on stage). Memorize the lyrics like your birthday – the last thing you want is to be stuck in front of a mic like a deer in headlights.\\nIn the beginning, just worry about having two or three songs under your belt. You can do these over and over at different venues. As you get known, you'll want to increase your repertoire.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose what kind of queen you want to be.\", \"描述\": \"A lot of people have this conception of a drag queen as some ultimate diva, big-breasted and snarky, with an attitude pointier than her six-inch heels. This isn't always the case. In fact, not being this can make your act more interesting. Here is some inspiration:\\nThe beauty queen type, like Shangela, is someone you'd never know was a man.\\nDena Cass is the dancer. When you see her on stage, you know her type.\\nDetox is a fashionista. One look at her outfits and it becomes clear.\\nNina West is a good example of the unique type. There are some queens that go to the beat of their own drum, and it works.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Let her look evolve.\", \"描述\": \"As you develop your character, you'll notice that her and her \\\"mask\\\" evolve over time. The things you used to do won't seem applicable anymore, and that also goes for her hair, make-up, and clothes. When something doesn't feel right anymore, it's because she's a part of you and she's outgrown it. That's a completely normal, good feeling. It means you're refining her into who she should be.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Support other queens and the community, no matter what.\", \"描述\": \"For many, doing drag isn't just about doing drag. It's about being home. Not only are you at home in your persona, but you're at home with your fellow queens and fans. After you walk off the stage, your job isn't done. They cheered you on, now you cheer them on. The camaraderie is what keeps many going, and instead of feeling competitive, most drag environments are about giving off an aura of love and acceptance.\\nThe people willing to do drag and be in this environment are looking for you to be family, not looking for your faults. Many people, though by no means all, are going through some transition or some inner conflict, and it's this type of environment that makes them feel good. 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1. Steps
1-1. Learn to march and march near perfectly.
You will be out in front of the band or corps marching solo, all eyes will be on you on you, so you must exemplify your group's marching style. Posture and form are key. Your technique will set the example for the whole group.
Pay particular attention to being able to march backwards confidently if you will face the group to conduct in parades. Work on maintaining a full stride, and trust that the ground is not going anywhere. If you will march backwards to conduct, also practice turning to march forwards for your salute. Remember to figure in about four steps before your flourish for your turn.
Do not advertise your errors. If you do make a mistake during a performance, recover as quickly as possible and proceed as though nothing had happened. Maintaining your poise and confidence will go a long way toward lessening the impact of a mishap.
1-2. Play your instrument well.
Pay special attention to dynamics and timing, since these are the elements you will be called upon to interpret and set for the group. It is essential that you know how to follow a conductor before you can be one. You don't necessarily have to be first-chair of your section. Unless a solo is required for your drum major audition, you don't need to worry about how well you perform on your instrument. Focus only on reading, explaining, and conducting the score clearly.
1-3. Learn to conduct
Two- and four- beat patterns are essential and cover most marches, but if you will have to conduct the Star Spangled Banner, you will need to be comfortable conducting in three. Depending on the complexity of your show, other meters may be necessary. Ask your band or corps director or a previous drum major for instruction. You can practice conducting to a recording of your band's music or other recorded music.
Unlike conducting an orchestra, conducting as a drum major is generally done with a flat or slightly-curved hand, fingers together. You may even wish to try taping your middle, ring, and pinky fingers together loosely with white surgical tape or black electrical tape to match your gloves (you'll need your index finger for pointing). Whatever conducting style you use, remember that it will need to have a clean appearance and be visible from a distance.
Once you have mastered the basic patterns for different meters, work on giving dynamics and cues. Bigger, more emphatic gestures indicate louder, heavier playing.
Only subdivide when the band needs a cue for each eighth note. Otherwise, subdivision of the beat can confuse the band as to where the count is.
Work on stops and starts, both by yourself and with the group. Give a pick-up or lead-in beat, followed by a downbeat to start. Give a cut gesture to stop. When working with the group, ensure that they interpret your gestures correctly and that attacks and releases are clean.
Before beginning each new song or stepping off, get the tempo in your mind by mentally singing the song.
Ask the director for guidance on appropriate waits between songs in a field show. Make sure that color guards, drill teams, and others have time to reset and change equipment if they need to.
Be expressive. You will cue your group to get louder or softer, faster or slower, more legato or more staccato. Let that come through in your gestures.
Conduct all sections, not just your own. If you have spent the past 3 years playing trombone, you may tend to zero in on the low brass parts, facing them more often, giving them more cues. Practice listening and conducting to the entire group as a whole. (This includes the percussion and color guard or drill team. They are important parts of your group, too.)
When you first get the position as drum major, stick with conducting styles that your band is used to seeing. A sudden change from the previous drum major may make it difficult to follow. Once your band gets a hang of the show, you can begin to add in individual styles and cues that make your conducting unique.
1-4. Learn your show by heart.
Just as with memorizing the music to play your part, you must know when the music will start and stop, when to cue for entrances, cuts and dynamics, when any measures change meter, and so on. Get a recording of your song or show and practice to that. Learn to read a score, too.
1-5. Learn how to salute.
The style varies between Scottish/British and American groups. Make sure you get yours right. Whatever your salute, practice it in front of a mirror or reflective glass window or door. Aim for crisp, clean, and confident motions. Get so you can feel when your wrists are straight and your positioning and angles are correct.
If your salute will be accompanied by a flourish, rehearse it and create a routine that you can do easily and consistently. A simple flourish done cleanly is better than a fancy flourish that is fumbled or dropped.
Don't forget the hand that's not saluting. Whatever its position (holding a baton or mace, straight by your side, or bent) make sure that is deliberate and firm, not dangling absently. The hand, too, should be firmly and precisely positioned.
Watch your drill team, color guard, and even cheerleaders for presents and flourishes you can incorporate. All these groups have visual elements that you can use for inspiration, and restyle into something that is your own.
Take into account your distance from the audience and the judges. Perform larger, more visible elements when at a distance and smaller, more detailed elements when close up.
Don't make your salute too long or too short. Also, don't perform it too fast or too slow. Make sure your motions can easily be seen, but don't seem lazy or unenthusiastic by going too slow.
1-6. Learn to manipulate a baton or mace, if you will use one.
Again, the key is practice, and the style varies. The most important part is timekeeping. When keeping time, make sure that the angle of the baton or mace stays consistent throughout the range of motion.
If you will use a baton or mace, practice in your uniform before you perform. This goes double for any uniform involving a kilt, cape, or other feature that could interfere with your motions. Knocking off your hat or mooning the judges will not impress anybody.
1-7. Learn to teach marching basics.
Attend a beginning band camp if you don't remember how to explain basics for your group. Try to remember how it felt to you to learn marching, and lead your new members through practice patiently.
1-8. Learn drill notation if your group performs field shows.
Drum majors are often called upon to help teach the drill. Practice a standard stride if you need it to measure positions.
1-9. Project your voice
Shout from the diaphragm.
Find a pitch that is comfortable for you. If you change the pitch of your voice to give commands, it should be to lower it somewhat.
Remember that the rhythm of the command gives the group the cadence for executing the command. Give commands at a moderate, consistent tempo. Step off at a tempo that leads into the music.
If you're having trouble with shouting from the diaphragm, put your hand on your stomach and breathe in. If it is expanding, you're breathing correctly. You should be able to take a large, full breath. When you shout, you should feel your abdomen tightening as it pushes the air out.
Don't cut each word off early, and don't drag each word out too long. You'll know when you do this, and so will the band.
1-10. Learn whistle commands and practice them with your group.
Especially in parades, the group may be too spread out or the crowd may be too noisy for vocal commands to carry adequately. In these cases, you'll need to start the group with your whistle.
Whistle commands work on rhythm. Practice these rhythms.
Whistle commands should be fortissimo. Use plenty of air and support from the diaphragm.
Whistle commands should be crisp. Articulate and tongue as though you were playing a wind instrument. Stop the air just as abruptly.
Lanyards and rubber whistle covers are available in a variety of common pageantry colors. The former will keep your whistle from falling; the latter will make it more comfortable to bite down a bit.
Invest in a proper whistle. They are not that expensive, and a good one will carry much more loudly and cleanly than a poor one.
Never spit out your whistle or let it drop to your chest. Rather, make a deliberate and controlled gesture of lifting your whistle with your hand and setting it down. Do the reverse to place the whistle back in your mouth.
Close the door or go somewhere far from others. Plug your ears, and actually practice.
Your whistle is also an excellent tool for regaining attention and order should a rehearsal get out of hand.
Practice with the group. The group also needs to know how to respond to whistle commands.
Practice any hand or baton gestures that go with whistle commands.
1-11. Be exacting about your uniform.
Besides looking your best, you set the standard for your group.
Make sure that you know and can explain the correct arrangement of hats, epaulets, citation cords, cummerbunds, and any other pieces of your uniform.
Corral loose hair under your hat and spray, braid, or trim it as necessary.
Keep shoes, gloves, and gauntlets polished and all uniform parts clean. Dry clean your uniform at regular intervals. Wash your gloves with bleach and replace them if necessary.
The drum major may shed his or her hat during a field show. If you choose to do this, make sure the hair underneath it is trim and tidy. Do not set it where it will fall off a podium or get marched over.
1-12. Learn to mount and dismount your podium with decorum, if you will be performing on one.
Practice in your uniform, especially it has elements you're not used to wearing, such as a cape.
Use a step stool or ladder if you need to.
Make sure anybody who erects your podium for you knows how to do so securely.
Practice marking time without drifting around on your podium.
1-13. Learn the "shake and take".
If you will be accepting awards on behalf of your group, do it properly. When your group is announced, approach the presenter(s). March in step with your entourage, if you have one. Perform a short salute, flourish or present (awards ceremonies are long and tedious enough as it is), then leave formation. Shake the presenter's hand with your right hand while accepting the award with your left. Pause and pose for photos if anyone is taking them. Then, return to your entourage and return to your station, placing the award on the ground beside you.
1-14. Be the best leader you can for your group.
Lead by example, then by instruction. The drum major is also a leader. Demonstrate your dedication to the group and to the performance. Show up early and stay late. Help set things up and take things down before and after rehearsals.
Respect the chain of command. While it's perfectly all right to bring a problem or concern to the attention of the director or other staff, try to resolve any major disagreements privately and discreetly. You undermine your authority and that of your director, otherwise.
Likewise, listen to your group members and any section leaders or assistant drum majors. If somebody approaches you with a problem, do your best to address it. Be responsive to peoples' needs and accommodate what you can. If something is beyond your control, explain to the group what you know about the situation and ask their assistance and forbearance, as appropriate.
If there are band members that are not giving you respect for whatever reason, keep your temper and do not give them a personal reason to not like you. Many upperclassmen may not want to listen to a drum major that is younger than them, or there may be unresolved differences between you and that person outside of band practice. Remember that you have some dominance over them, but you must also remain calm and in control. If you need to, calmly remind them that a band must work together to be successful, and they are preventing that from happening by not listening and not being respectful towards you. If needed, get help from your band director, and they can take action in a much more efficient way.
Provide constructive criticism. Try whenever possible to direct comments at the whole group rather than at individuals: "Everybody, chins up and watch your horn angles." Favor positive statements ("lift your chest") over negative ones ("don't slouch"). If you must single somebody out, do so discreetly and don't make a big deal out of it. Make comments as detached and neutral as possible. Then, give people an opportunity to practice and learn.
Be generous with compliments. Compliments are often more powerful than criticism. If somebody is doing something well, or has improved, say so. It's okay to single somebody out for the good news, or tell the whole group. It will help everybody be more confident and it will encourage people to try harder. It will also improve morale.
Avoid marginalizing anyone or playing favorites. It's fine, even healthy, to have friends in the group, but when you are acting in the capacity of drum major, hold them to the same standards as everyone else.
Make an effort to learn the names of everybody in your group. Trust and respect work best when they go both ways.
Explaining things clearly. Go step-by-step, literally if need be. If you are getting blank looks or a lot of questions, try again. Be specific and give demonstrations.
Notice or recall what you like and dislike about directors and drum majors you have worked with. Analyze their styles. What was effective? What wasn't? What was fun? What was miserable? Your priorities should be first to do your job and second to please people. While you can't possibly please everyone, your group will be easiest to lead and it will perform its best if the people in it are generally satisfied and confident about your performance.
Be a part of your group as much as possible. There will be times when you do act independently as part of your duties, but make an effort to do what they do. Rehearse and perform when they do. Eat when and what they eat, and if you are traveling, sleep where they sleep. Most importantly, don't carry on as though you are above them or apart from them.
Take control when necessary. Keep your temper, but act for the good of the group, and don't be overly concerned about being everybody's friend.
1-15. Learn the rules for any competitions you will attend.
Practice timing and have somebody time you if necessary.
For field shows, there is typically a given amount of time to set up. Listen to the announcer for the cue to salute (typically "Drum Major, is the band/corps ready?"). Salute, then begin the show promptly.
For parades and parade competitions, aim to salute while passing the judges' stand. Practice starting any flourishes or embellishments so that the salute itself happens right in front of the judges. A good rule of thumb, if none is given, is to salute for a given number of paces (perhaps eight to twelve) preceding and following the center of the judges' stand.
If you have the opportunity before a performance, scout the parade route or venue in advance. Pass on any relevant warnings (obstructions, terrain, etc.) to your group.
1-16. Get feedback.
Ask your director or others to critique your performance.
Read judging sheets and listen to judging tapes if they are available, both for you and for your group. They will tell you what needs improvement. Pay particular attention to any comment you get repeatedly.
There will be times when you should take judges' comments with a grain of salt. Parades, especially, may be judged by volunteers or local VIPs who know as much about marching bands as they do about horses, floats, and classic cars, which is to say very little. All judging is somewhat qualitative, and most of it is rushed. Don't take it too personally; do work to improve whatever you can.
1-17. Before you graduate, age out, or otherwise move on, train your successor and give him or her an opportunity to practice.
Let him or her lead a late-season parade or two, or conduct a segment of a field show when the group is facing backfield. Pass on what you have learned.
Tips
Always put the needs of the band first.
Look out for your group. It is best to ignore most hecklers (such as those who stand on the sidelines shouting "play something!"), but you may have to deal with anybody who interferes more directly. If somebody enters the formation or otherwise accosts your group, ask them to leave. Get help from band staff or event security if you need it.
Practice as you wish to perform.
Warnings
If you are one of the top musicians in the band and a less-experienced player gets picked over you, don't fret. A lot of band directors keep their better players on the field because they prefer them playing.
If you are a sophomore, juniors and seniors (or really anyone in the band that is older than you) may be less-willing to listen and respect you based on the age difference. Give respect to get respect; do not punish them until they conform; that has the opposite desired effect. Show them that you are mature enough to be standing up there and giving commands, and be friendly. If they are making rude remarks, gestures, or anything related to that, tell your band director. They will always have more power over their students, and they will be able to help in making sure that all your band members will listen and respect your authority.
If you are going through a director change, encourage the band to embrace any new ideas or customs the new director may have, and be ready to conform to them without question. It will make it much easier for your peers to cooperate with a new director who may be doing things differently if they see you cooperating.
If you live in a neighborhood, be conscious of your neighbors when you are practicing commands outside. If they ask you to stop or go back inside, do that. If you don't have a place to practice at home, ask your band director or previous drum major about how you can practice without disturbing anyone.
Make sure you have ample space to practice baton and mace maneuvers. Practice outdoors and away from others. Do not practice spinning with anything sharp or heavy.
Remind your group never to march in step over bridges, stairs or other similar structures. The load of many people stepping together can exceed what the structure was designed to bear.
Don't get cocky. So you're a drum major. Don't just show off; do your job.
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Play your instrument well.\\nPay special attention to dynamics and timing, since these are the elements you will be called upon to interpret and set for the group. It is essential that you know how to follow a conductor before you can be one. You don't necessarily have to be first-chair of your section. Unless a solo is required for your drum major audition, you don't need to worry about how well you perform on your instrument. Focus only on reading, explaining, and conducting the score clearly.\\n1-3. Learn to conduct\\nTwo- and four- beat patterns are essential and cover most marches, but if you will have to conduct the Star Spangled Banner, you will need to be comfortable conducting in three. Depending on the complexity of your show, other meters may be necessary. Ask your band or corps director or a previous drum major for instruction. You can practice conducting to a recording of your band's music or other recorded music.\\nUnlike conducting an orchestra, conducting as a drum major is generally done with a flat or slightly-curved hand, fingers together. You may even wish to try taping your middle, ring, and pinky fingers together loosely with white surgical tape or black electrical tape to match your gloves (you'll need your index finger for pointing). Whatever conducting style you use, remember that it will need to have a clean appearance and be visible from a distance.\\nOnce you have mastered the basic patterns for different meters, work on giving dynamics and cues. Bigger, more emphatic gestures indicate louder, heavier playing.\\nOnly subdivide when the band needs a cue for each eighth note. Otherwise, subdivision of the beat can confuse the band as to where the count is.\\nWork on stops and starts, both by yourself and with the group. Give a pick-up or lead-in beat, followed by a downbeat to start. Give a cut gesture to stop. When working with the group, ensure that they interpret your gestures correctly and that attacks and releases are clean.\\nBefore beginning each new song or stepping off, get the tempo in your mind by mentally singing the song.\\nAsk the director for guidance on appropriate waits between songs in a field show. Make sure that color guards, drill teams, and others have time to reset and change equipment if they need to.\\nBe expressive. You will cue your group to get louder or softer, faster or slower, more legato or more staccato. Let that come through in your gestures.\\nConduct all sections, not just your own. If you have spent the past 3 years playing trombone, you may tend to zero in on the low brass parts, facing them more often, giving them more cues. Practice listening and conducting to the entire group as a whole. (This includes the percussion and color guard or drill team. They are important parts of your group, too.)\\nWhen you first get the position as drum major, stick with conducting styles that your band is used to seeing. A sudden change from the previous drum major may make it difficult to follow. Once your band gets a hang of the show, you can begin to add in individual styles and cues that make your conducting unique.\\n1-4. Learn your show by heart.\\nJust as with memorizing the music to play your part, you must know when the music will start and stop, when to cue for entrances, cuts and dynamics, when any measures change meter, and so on. Get a recording of your song or show and practice to that. Learn to read a score, too.\\n1-5. Learn how to salute.\\nThe style varies between Scottish/British and American groups. Make sure you get yours right. Whatever your salute, practice it in front of a mirror or reflective glass window or door. Aim for crisp, clean, and confident motions. Get so you can feel when your wrists are straight and your positioning and angles are correct.\\nIf your salute will be accompanied by a flourish, rehearse it and create a routine that you can do easily and consistently. A simple flourish done cleanly is better than a fancy flourish that is fumbled or dropped.\\nDon't forget the hand that's not saluting. Whatever its position (holding a baton or mace, straight by your side, or bent) make sure that is deliberate and firm, not dangling absently. The hand, too, should be firmly and precisely positioned.\\nWatch your drill team, color guard, and even cheerleaders for presents and flourishes you can incorporate. All these groups have visual elements that you can use for inspiration, and restyle into something that is your own.\\nTake into account your distance from the audience and the judges. Perform larger, more visible elements when at a distance and smaller, more detailed elements when close up.\\nDon't make your salute too long or too short. Also, don't perform it too fast or too slow. Make sure your motions can easily be seen, but don't seem lazy or unenthusiastic by going too slow.\\n1-6. Learn to manipulate a baton or mace, if you will use one.\\nAgain, the key is practice, and the style varies. The most important part is timekeeping. When keeping time, make sure that the angle of the baton or mace stays consistent throughout the range of motion.\\nIf you will use a baton or mace, practice in your uniform before you perform. This goes double for any uniform involving a kilt, cape, or other feature that could interfere with your motions. Knocking off your hat or mooning the judges will not impress anybody.\\n1-7. Learn to teach marching basics.\\nAttend a beginning band camp if you don't remember how to explain basics for your group. Try to remember how it felt to you to learn marching, and lead your new members through practice patiently.\\n1-8. Learn drill notation if your group performs field shows.\\nDrum majors are often called upon to help teach the drill. Practice a standard stride if you need it to measure positions.\\n1-9. Project your voice\\nShout from the diaphragm.\\nFind a pitch that is comfortable for you. If you change the pitch of your voice to give commands, it should be to lower it somewhat.\\nRemember that the rhythm of the command gives the group the cadence for executing the command. Give commands at a moderate, consistent tempo. Step off at a tempo that leads into the music.\\nIf you're having trouble with shouting from the diaphragm, put your hand on your stomach and breathe in. If it is expanding, you're breathing correctly. You should be able to take a large, full breath. When you shout, you should feel your abdomen tightening as it pushes the air out.\\nDon't cut each word off early, and don't drag each word out too long. You'll know when you do this, and so will the band.\\n1-10. Learn whistle commands and practice them with your group.\\nEspecially in parades, the group may be too spread out or the crowd may be too noisy for vocal commands to carry adequately. In these cases, you'll need to start the group with your whistle.\\nWhistle commands work on rhythm. Practice these rhythms.\\nWhistle commands should be fortissimo. Use plenty of air and support from the diaphragm.\\nWhistle commands should be crisp. Articulate and tongue as though you were playing a wind instrument. Stop the air just as abruptly.\\nLanyards and rubber whistle covers are available in a variety of common pageantry colors. The former will keep your whistle from falling; the latter will make it more comfortable to bite down a bit.\\nInvest in a proper whistle. They are not that expensive, and a good one will carry much more loudly and cleanly than a poor one.\\nNever spit out your whistle or let it drop to your chest. Rather, make a deliberate and controlled gesture of lifting your whistle with your hand and setting it down. Do the reverse to place the whistle back in your mouth.\\nClose the door or go somewhere far from others. Plug your ears, and actually practice.\\nYour whistle is also an excellent tool for regaining attention and order should a rehearsal get out of hand.\\nPractice with the group. The group also needs to know how to respond to whistle commands.\\nPractice any hand or baton gestures that go with whistle commands.\\n1-11. Be exacting about your uniform.\\nBesides looking your best, you set the standard for your group.\\nMake sure that you know and can explain the correct arrangement of hats, epaulets, citation cords, cummerbunds, and any other pieces of your uniform.\\nCorral loose hair under your hat and spray, braid, or trim it as necessary.\\nKeep shoes, gloves, and gauntlets polished and all uniform parts clean. Dry clean your uniform at regular intervals. Wash your gloves with bleach and replace them if necessary.\\nThe drum major may shed his or her hat during a field show. If you choose to do this, make sure the hair underneath it is trim and tidy. Do not set it where it will fall off a podium or get marched over.\\n1-12. Learn to mount and dismount your podium with decorum, if you will be performing on one.\\nPractice in your uniform, especially it has elements you're not used to wearing, such as a cape.\\nUse a step stool or ladder if you need to.\\nMake sure anybody who erects your podium for you knows how to do so securely.\\nPractice marking time without drifting around on your podium.\\n1-13. Learn the \\\"shake and take\\\".\\nIf you will be accepting awards on behalf of your group, do it properly. When your group is announced, approach the presenter(s). March in step with your entourage, if you have one. Perform a short salute, flourish or present (awards ceremonies are long and tedious enough as it is), then leave formation. Shake the presenter's hand with your right hand while accepting the award with your left. Pause and pose for photos if anyone is taking them. Then, return to your entourage and return to your station, placing the award on the ground beside you.\\n1-14. Be the best leader you can for your group.\\nLead by example, then by instruction. The drum major is also a leader. Demonstrate your dedication to the group and to the performance. Show up early and stay late. Help set things up and take things down before and after rehearsals.\\nRespect the chain of command. While it's perfectly all right to bring a problem or concern to the attention of the director or other staff, try to resolve any major disagreements privately and discreetly. You undermine your authority and that of your director, otherwise.\\nLikewise, listen to your group members and any section leaders or assistant drum majors. If somebody approaches you with a problem, do your best to address it. Be responsive to peoples' needs and accommodate what you can. If something is beyond your control, explain to the group what you know about the situation and ask their assistance and forbearance, as appropriate.\\nIf there are band members that are not giving you respect for whatever reason, keep your temper and do not give them a personal reason to not like you. Many upperclassmen may not want to listen to a drum major that is younger than them, or there may be unresolved differences between you and that person outside of band practice. Remember that you have some dominance over them, but you must also remain calm and in control. If you need to, calmly remind them that a band must work together to be successful, and they are preventing that from happening by not listening and not being respectful towards you. If needed, get help from your band director, and they can take action in a much more efficient way.\\nProvide constructive criticism. Try whenever possible to direct comments at the whole group rather than at individuals: \\\"Everybody, chins up and watch your horn angles.\\\" Favor positive statements (\\\"lift your chest\\\") over negative ones (\\\"don't slouch\\\"). If you must single somebody out, do so discreetly and don't make a big deal out of it. Make comments as detached and neutral as possible. Then, give people an opportunity to practice and learn.\\nBe generous with compliments. Compliments are often more powerful than criticism. If somebody is doing something well, or has improved, say so. It's okay to single somebody out for the good news, or tell the whole group. It will help everybody be more confident and it will encourage people to try harder. It will also improve morale.\\nAvoid marginalizing anyone or playing favorites. It's fine, even healthy, to have friends in the group, but when you are acting in the capacity of drum major, hold them to the same standards as everyone else.\\nMake an effort to learn the names of everybody in your group. Trust and respect work best when they go both ways.\\nExplaining things clearly. Go step-by-step, literally if need be. If you are getting blank looks or a lot of questions, try again. Be specific and give demonstrations.\\nNotice or recall what you like and dislike about directors and drum majors you have worked with. Analyze their styles. What was effective? What wasn't? What was fun? What was miserable? Your priorities should be first to do your job and second to please people. While you can't possibly please everyone, your group will be easiest to lead and it will perform its best if the people in it are generally satisfied and confident about your performance.\\nBe a part of your group as much as possible. There will be times when you do act independently as part of your duties, but make an effort to do what they do. Rehearse and perform when they do. Eat when and what they eat, and if you are traveling, sleep where they sleep. Most importantly, don't carry on as though you are above them or apart from them.\\nTake control when necessary. Keep your temper, but act for the good of the group, and don't be overly concerned about being everybody's friend.\\n1-15. Learn the rules for any competitions you will attend.\\nPractice timing and have somebody time you if necessary.\\nFor field shows, there is typically a given amount of time to set up. Listen to the announcer for the cue to salute (typically \\\"Drum Major, is the band/corps ready?\\\"). Salute, then begin the show promptly.\\nFor parades and parade competitions, aim to salute while passing the judges' stand. Practice starting any flourishes or embellishments so that the salute itself happens right in front of the judges. A good rule of thumb, if none is given, is to salute for a given number of paces (perhaps eight to twelve) preceding and following the center of the judges' stand.\\nIf you have the opportunity before a performance, scout the parade route or venue in advance. Pass on any relevant warnings (obstructions, terrain, etc.) to your group.\\n1-16. Get feedback.\\nAsk your director or others to critique your performance.\\nRead judging sheets and listen to judging tapes if they are available, both for you and for your group. They will tell you what needs improvement. Pay particular attention to any comment you get repeatedly.\\nThere will be times when you should take judges' comments with a grain of salt. Parades, especially, may be judged by volunteers or local VIPs who know as much about marching bands as they do about horses, floats, and classic cars, which is to say very little. All judging is somewhat qualitative, and most of it is rushed. Don't take it too personally; do work to improve whatever you can.\\n1-17. Before you graduate, age out, or otherwise move on, train your successor and give him or her an opportunity to practice.\\nLet him or her lead a late-season parade or two, or conduct a segment of a field show when the group is facing backfield. Pass on what you have learned.\\nTips\\nAlways put the needs of the band first.\\nLook out for your group. It is best to ignore most hecklers (such as those who stand on the sidelines shouting \\\"play something!\\\"), but you may have to deal with anybody who interferes more directly. If somebody enters the formation or otherwise accosts your group, ask them to leave. Get help from band staff or event security if you need it.\\nPractice as you wish to perform.\\nWarnings\\nIf you are one of the top musicians in the band and a less-experienced player gets picked over you, don't fret. A lot of band directors keep their better players on the field because they prefer them playing.\\nIf you are a sophomore, juniors and seniors (or really anyone in the band that is older than you) may be less-willing to listen and respect you based on the age difference. Give respect to get respect; do not punish them until they conform; that has the opposite desired effect. Show them that you are mature enough to be standing up there and giving commands, and be friendly. If they are making rude remarks, gestures, or anything related to that, tell your band director. They will always have more power over their students, and they will be able to help in making sure that all your band members will listen and respect your authority.\\nIf you are going through a director change, encourage the band to embrace any new ideas or customs the new director may have, and be ready to conform to them without question. It will make it much easier for your peers to cooperate with a new director who may be doing things differently if they see you cooperating.\\nIf you live in a neighborhood, be conscious of your neighbors when you are practicing commands outside. If they ask you to stop or go back inside, do that. If you don't have a place to practice at home, ask your band director or previous drum major about how you can practice without disturbing anyone.\\nMake sure you have ample space to practice baton and mace maneuvers. Practice outdoors and away from others. Do not practice spinning with anything sharp or heavy.\\nRemind your group never to march in step over bridges, stairs or other similar structures. The load of many people stepping together can exceed what the structure was designed to bear.\\nDon't get cocky. So you're a drum major. Don't just show off; do your job.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a drum major is much more than bellowing a few commands. It is also teaching and leading, conducting, and making important decisions. A good drum major can inspire a group to perform its best.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn to march and march near perfectly.\", \"描述\": \"You will be out in front of the band or corps marching solo, all eyes will be on you on you, so you must exemplify your group's marching style. Posture and form are key. Your technique will set the example for the whole group.\\n\\nPay particular attention to being able to march backwards confidently if you will face the group to conduct in parades. Work on maintaining a full stride, and trust that the ground is not going anywhere. If you will march backwards to conduct, also practice turning to march forwards for your salute. Remember to figure in about four steps before your flourish for your turn.\\nDo not advertise your errors. If you do make a mistake during a performance, recover as quickly as possible and proceed as though nothing had happened. Maintaining your poise and confidence will go a long way toward lessening the impact of a mishap.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Play your instrument well.\", \"描述\": \"Pay special attention to dynamics and timing, since these are the elements you will be called upon to interpret and set for the group. It is essential that you know how to follow a conductor before you can be one. You don't necessarily have to be first-chair of your section. Unless a solo is required for your drum major audition, you don't need to worry about how well you perform on your instrument. Focus only on reading, explaining, and conducting the score clearly.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn to conduct\", \"描述\": \"Two- and four- beat patterns are essential and cover most marches, but if you will have to conduct the Star Spangled Banner, you will need to be comfortable conducting in three. Depending on the complexity of your show, other meters may be necessary. Ask your band or corps director or a previous drum major for instruction. You can practice conducting to a recording of your band's music or other recorded music.\\nUnlike conducting an orchestra, conducting as a drum major is generally done with a flat or slightly-curved hand, fingers together. You may even wish to try taping your middle, ring, and pinky fingers together loosely with white surgical tape or black electrical tape to match your gloves (you'll need your index finger for pointing). Whatever conducting style you use, remember that it will need to have a clean appearance and be visible from a distance.\\nOnce you have mastered the basic patterns for different meters, work on giving dynamics and cues. Bigger, more emphatic gestures indicate louder, heavier playing.\\nOnly subdivide when the band needs a cue for each eighth note. Otherwise, subdivision of the beat can confuse the band as to where the count is.\\nWork on stops and starts, both by yourself and with the group. Give a pick-up or lead-in beat, followed by a downbeat to start. Give a cut gesture to stop. When working with the group, ensure that they interpret your gestures correctly and that attacks and releases are clean.\\nBefore beginning each new song or stepping off, get the tempo in your mind by mentally singing the song.\\nAsk the director for guidance on appropriate waits between songs in a field show. Make sure that color guards, drill teams, and others have time to reset and change equipment if they need to.\\nBe expressive. You will cue your group to get louder or softer, faster or slower, more legato or more staccato. Let that come through in your gestures.\\nConduct all sections, not just your own. If you have spent the past 3 years playing trombone, you may tend to zero in on the low brass parts, facing them more often, giving them more cues. Practice listening and conducting to the entire group as a whole. (This includes the percussion and color guard or drill team. They are important parts of your group, too.)\\nWhen you first get the position as drum major, stick with conducting styles that your band is used to seeing. A sudden change from the previous drum major may make it difficult to follow. Once your band gets a hang of the show, you can begin to add in individual styles and cues that make your conducting unique.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Learn your show by heart.\", \"描述\": \"Just as with memorizing the music to play your part, you must know when the music will start and stop, when to cue for entrances, cuts and dynamics, when any measures change meter, and so on. Get a recording of your song or show and practice to that. Learn to read a score, too.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Learn how to salute.\", \"描述\": \"The style varies between Scottish/British and American groups. Make sure you get yours right. Whatever your salute, practice it in front of a mirror or reflective glass window or door. Aim for crisp, clean, and confident motions. Get so you can feel when your wrists are straight and your positioning and angles are correct.\\nIf your salute will be accompanied by a flourish, rehearse it and create a routine that you can do easily and consistently. A simple flourish done cleanly is better than a fancy flourish that is fumbled or dropped.\\nDon't forget the hand that's not saluting. Whatever its position (holding a baton or mace, straight by your side, or bent) make sure that is deliberate and firm, not dangling absently. The hand, too, should be firmly and precisely positioned.\\nWatch your drill team, color guard, and even cheerleaders for presents and flourishes you can incorporate. All these groups have visual elements that you can use for inspiration, and restyle into something that is your own.\\nTake into account your distance from the audience and the judges. Perform larger, more visible elements when at a distance and smaller, more detailed elements when close up.\\nDon't make your salute too long or too short. Also, don't perform it too fast or too slow. Make sure your motions can easily be seen, but don't seem lazy or unenthusiastic by going too slow.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Learn to manipulate a baton or mace, if you will use one.\", \"描述\": \"Again, the key is practice, and the style varies. The most important part is timekeeping. When keeping time, make sure that the angle of the baton or mace stays consistent throughout the range of motion.\\nIf you will use a baton or mace, practice in your uniform before you perform. This goes double for any uniform involving a kilt, cape, or other feature that could interfere with your motions. Knocking off your hat or mooning the judges will not impress anybody.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Learn to teach marching basics.\", \"描述\": \"Attend a beginning band camp if you don't remember how to explain basics for your group. Try to remember how it felt to you to learn marching, and lead your new members through practice patiently.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Learn drill notation if your group performs field shows.\", \"描述\": \"Drum majors are often called upon to help teach the drill. Practice a standard stride if you need it to measure positions.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Project your voice\", \"描述\": \"Shout from the diaphragm.\\nFind a pitch that is comfortable for you. If you change the pitch of your voice to give commands, it should be to lower it somewhat.\\nRemember that the rhythm of the command gives the group the cadence for executing the command. Give commands at a moderate, consistent tempo. Step off at a tempo that leads into the music.\\nIf you're having trouble with shouting from the diaphragm, put your hand on your stomach and breathe in. If it is expanding, you're breathing correctly. You should be able to take a large, full breath. When you shout, you should feel your abdomen tightening as it pushes the air out.\\nDon't cut each word off early, and don't drag each word out too long. You'll know when you do this, and so will the band.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Learn whistle commands and practice them with your group.\", \"描述\": \"Especially in parades, the group may be too spread out or the crowd may be too noisy for vocal commands to carry adequately. In these cases, you'll need to start the group with your whistle.\\nWhistle commands work on rhythm. Practice these rhythms.\\nWhistle commands should be fortissimo. Use plenty of air and support from the diaphragm.\\nWhistle commands should be crisp. Articulate and tongue as though you were playing a wind instrument. Stop the air just as abruptly.\\nLanyards and rubber whistle covers are available in a variety of common pageantry colors. The former will keep your whistle from falling; the latter will make it more comfortable to bite down a bit.\\nInvest in a proper whistle. They are not that expensive, and a good one will carry much more loudly and cleanly than a poor one.\\nNever spit out your whistle or let it drop to your chest. Rather, make a deliberate and controlled gesture of lifting your whistle with your hand and setting it down. Do the reverse to place the whistle back in your mouth.\\nClose the door or go somewhere far from others. Plug your ears, and actually practice.\\nYour whistle is also an excellent tool for regaining attention and order should a rehearsal get out of hand.\\nPractice with the group. The group also needs to know how to respond to whistle commands.\\nPractice any hand or baton gestures that go with whistle commands.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Be exacting about your uniform.\", \"描述\": \"Besides looking your best, you set the standard for your group.\\nMake sure that you know and can explain the correct arrangement of hats, epaulets, citation cords, cummerbunds, and any other pieces of your uniform.\\nCorral loose hair under your hat and spray, braid, or trim it as necessary.\\nKeep shoes, gloves, and gauntlets polished and all uniform parts clean. Dry clean your uniform at regular intervals. Wash your gloves with bleach and replace them if necessary.\\nThe drum major may shed his or her hat during a field show. If you choose to do this, make sure the hair underneath it is trim and tidy. Do not set it where it will fall off a podium or get marched over.\"}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Learn to mount and dismount your podium with decorum, if you will be performing on one.\", \"描述\": \"Practice in your uniform, especially it has elements you're not used to wearing, such as a cape.\\nUse a step stool or ladder if you need to.\\nMake sure anybody who erects your podium for you knows how to do so securely.\\nPractice marking time without drifting around on your podium.\"}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Learn the \\\"shake and take\\\".\", \"描述\": \"If you will be accepting awards on behalf of your group, do it properly. When your group is announced, approach the presenter(s). March in step with your entourage, if you have one. Perform a short salute, flourish or present (awards ceremonies are long and tedious enough as it is), then leave formation. Shake the presenter's hand with your right hand while accepting the award with your left. Pause and pose for photos if anyone is taking them. Then, return to your entourage and return to your station, placing the award on the ground beside you.\"}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Be the best leader you can for your group.\", \"描述\": \"Lead by example, then by instruction. The drum major is also a leader. Demonstrate your dedication to the group and to the performance. Show up early and stay late. Help set things up and take things down before and after rehearsals.\\nRespect the chain of command. While it's perfectly all right to bring a problem or concern to the attention of the director or other staff, try to resolve any major disagreements privately and discreetly. You undermine your authority and that of your director, otherwise.\\nLikewise, listen to your group members and any section leaders or assistant drum majors. If somebody approaches you with a problem, do your best to address it. Be responsive to peoples' needs and accommodate what you can. If something is beyond your control, explain to the group what you know about the situation and ask their assistance and forbearance, as appropriate.\\nIf there are band members that are not giving you respect for whatever reason, keep your temper and do not give them a personal reason to not like you. Many upperclassmen may not want to listen to a drum major that is younger than them, or there may be unresolved differences between you and that person outside of band practice. Remember that you have some dominance over them, but you must also remain calm and in control. If you need to, calmly remind them that a band must work together to be successful, and they are preventing that from happening by not listening and not being respectful towards you. If needed, get help from your band director, and they can take action in a much more efficient way.\\nProvide constructive criticism. Try whenever possible to direct comments at the whole group rather than at individuals: \\\"Everybody, chins up and watch your horn angles.\\\" Favor positive statements (\\\"lift your chest\\\") over negative ones (\\\"don't slouch\\\"). If you must single somebody out, do so discreetly and don't make a big deal out of it. Make comments as detached and neutral as possible. Then, give people an opportunity to practice and learn.\\nBe generous with compliments. Compliments are often more powerful than criticism. If somebody is doing something well, or has improved, say so. It's okay to single somebody out for the good news, or tell the whole group. It will help everybody be more confident and it will encourage people to try harder. It will also improve morale.\\nAvoid marginalizing anyone or playing favorites. It's fine, even healthy, to have friends in the group, but when you are acting in the capacity of drum major, hold them to the same standards as everyone else.\\nMake an effort to learn the names of everybody in your group. Trust and respect work best when they go both ways.\\nExplaining things clearly. Go step-by-step, literally if need be. If you are getting blank looks or a lot of questions, try again. Be specific and give demonstrations.\\nNotice or recall what you like and dislike about directors and drum majors you have worked with. Analyze their styles. What was effective? What wasn't? What was fun? What was miserable? Your priorities should be first to do your job and second to please people. While you can't possibly please everyone, your group will be easiest to lead and it will perform its best if the people in it are generally satisfied and confident about your performance.\\nBe a part of your group as much as possible. There will be times when you do act independently as part of your duties, but make an effort to do what they do. Rehearse and perform when they do. Eat when and what they eat, and if you are traveling, sleep where they sleep. Most importantly, don't carry on as though you are above them or apart from them.\\nTake control when necessary. Keep your temper, but act for the good of the group, and don't be overly concerned about being everybody's friend.\"}, {\"编号\": 15, \"标题\": \"Learn the rules for any competitions you will attend.\", \"描述\": \"Practice timing and have somebody time you if necessary.\\nFor field shows, there is typically a given amount of time to set up. Listen to the announcer for the cue to salute (typically \\\"Drum Major, is the band/corps ready?\\\"). Salute, then begin the show promptly.\\nFor parades and parade competitions, aim to salute while passing the judges' stand. Practice starting any flourishes or embellishments so that the salute itself happens right in front of the judges. A good rule of thumb, if none is given, is to salute for a given number of paces (perhaps eight to twelve) preceding and following the center of the judges' stand.\\nIf you have the opportunity before a performance, scout the parade route or venue in advance. Pass on any relevant warnings (obstructions, terrain, etc.) to your group.\"}, {\"编号\": 16, \"标题\": \"Get feedback.\", \"描述\": \"Ask your director or others to critique your performance.\\nRead judging sheets and listen to judging tapes if they are available, both for you and for your group. They will tell you what needs improvement. Pay particular attention to any comment you get repeatedly.\\nThere will be times when you should take judges' comments with a grain of salt. Parades, especially, may be judged by volunteers or local VIPs who know as much about marching bands as they do about horses, floats, and classic cars, which is to say very little. All judging is somewhat qualitative, and most of it is rushed. Don't take it too personally; do work to improve whatever you can.\"}, {\"编号\": 17, \"标题\": \"Before you graduate, age out, or otherwise move on, train your successor and give him or her an opportunity to practice.\", \"描述\": \"Let him or her lead a late-season parade or two, or conduct a segment of a field show when the group is facing backfield. Pass on what you have learned.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Always put the needs of the band first.\\n\", \"Look out for your group. It is best to ignore most hecklers (such as those who stand on the sidelines shouting \\\"play something!\\\"), but you may have to deal with anybody who interferes more directly. If somebody enters the formation or otherwise accosts your group, ask them to leave. 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They will always have more power over their students, and they will be able to help in making sure that all your band members will listen and respect your authority.\\n\", \"If you are going through a director change, encourage the band to embrace any new ideas or customs the new director may have, and be ready to conform to them without question. It will make it much easier for your peers to cooperate with a new director who may be doing things differently if they see you cooperating.\\n\", \"If you live in a neighborhood, be conscious of your neighbors when you are practicing commands outside. If they ask you to stop or go back inside, do that. If you don't have a place to practice at home, ask your band director or previous drum major about how you can practice without disturbing anyone.\\n\", \"Make sure you have ample space to practice baton and mace maneuvers. Practice outdoors and away from others. 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1. Steps
1-1. Understand what a DM does.
The descriptions you may have heard of a Dungeon Master probably range from "the one who does all the work" to "You are god here". Those descriptions are usually exaggerations from people who are either ignorant of what a DM really is or the extreme interpretation of a half-truth.
As a DM, you control everything and everyone that is not a Player Character (PC for short). That means everyone or anything the players may come across or interact with is controlled by you. However, the goal of any RPG should be a fun time for ‘’’everyone’’’ involved. "Everyone" cannot be stressed enough. Your responses to the players, the situations you present, the challenges you create, the stories you build together, all of it should be balanced so as to provide an enjoyable experience for you and your players. What you are not is against the PCs. If your goal is to destroy the player characters any chance you get, then you are doing it wrong. Rather, you should strive to be fair and create an enjoyable experience. This means that if the characters are having a hard time, nerf the monsters but don’t change how they would behave.
1-2. Know the rules.
To be a fair DM, you are expected to have a strong grasp of the rules of the game. It may be helpful to think of yourself as an impartial judge in this respect. Just as a judge cannot do his/her job without knowing the law, a DM cannot run the game without knowing the rules of the game. To aid in this, most RPGs provide basic entry books known as "Core" rulebooks. Anything considered Core is what you need to have, at very least, a passing familiarity with.
In D&D, the Core Books are the Player's Handbook, the Dungeon Master Guide and the Monster Manual. The rest should not be considered necessary for running a game.
You describe the surroundings, manage the plot, and administer all of the elements of the game, including determining the outcome of battles between players and dungeon dwellers. If your players encounter a creature, choose a plan of battle, it may be up to you to roll the dice to decide the outcome, and although the rules apply specific guidelines, you may use your own judgment to work that outcome in the best way to maintain the flow and continuity of the game. It's a daunting task, but it will become easier with time, patience, and practice.
1-3. Prepare properly.
For some DMs, the thrill of writing their own adventures and stories to present to their players is the reason for doing it. Others like the fact that they control everything. And then there are those who do it simply because they don’t think anyone else will do a good enough job. Regardless of why you do it, how you get ready is what breaks or makes the game. The ways you can prepare could fill its own wiki, but here are the basics for first time DMs. Remember that everyone will be comfortable with different ways and it is best to only use what works for you. Don't try to force something that doesn't feel right. Again, the end result should always be a fun game for everyone. If it feeIs like work, don't hesitate to lower your work pace.
1-4. Materials & Tools.
As the Dungeon Master, you should probably have the materials required to run the game. Things like the core rulebooks of the current edition, keep those rulebooks close by and within arm's reach so that you have a quick and easy reference to the rules. Here are the tools that many experienced DMs suggest you have within arm's reach to ensure you keep the game flowing-
Notebook: keeping a notebook nearby is incredibly handy because you can use it to scratch notes like if a player has a cool moment and you want to award them something special, or if something else happens that you want to jot down and keep in your memory.
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1-5. Your job is to entertain.
Maybe you rather wanted to slack off, but if the roleplay group is best suited to play on a particular day, then you should play that day.
If you have no time in between games, consider running modules. They will be presented for characters between a certain levels, with challenges scaled to fit. This is the easiest and fastest way to run a game, as most of everything is done for you. The only thing you have to do is read the adventure. It is suggested that you re-read a few pages ahead of where you stopped at every session right before the next session, to refresh your memory for the game at hand.
If you have a few hours to devote between games, running modules is still a strong option. However, you may want to re-write parts of the module to fit the game or particular story line(s) you're running with the PCs. Changing descriptions of locations or replacing treasure found in the module with items better suited for your players are good and easy places to start. As you progress in skill, you may start lifting whole encounters from one module and writing it into another. Not only does this allow you to essentially pick out the best parts of an otherwise so-so module, but players who may have read or run through the module before will be in for a surprise!
Writing your own adventures is a possibility, though for new DMs it is still recommended that you run a module first, so you're only focusing on one concept at a time (learning the rules). In time you will be more inclined to change things and write new scenarios yourself. Pulling encounters from published works and tying them together would be a good start. They can then slowly be replaced with your own works. What you ultimately want to achieve is that your campaign is like a movie you would be interested in watching which invokes a sense of mystery.
Many dungeon masters spend a long time reading the rulebooks over and over again. This is actually a form of procrastination. If you don't have anyone to play with – don't spend time planning scenarios. Keep your ideas in the back of your mind and instead learn to generally become a good storyteller. The only way to become a valuable game master is to gain practical experience and learn from each mistake as it brings you closer to perfection.
1-6. Take notes.
During and immediately after the game session, be sure to jot down a few notes about what the players did, what your NPCs did, how your other NPCs and bad guys will respond to new events, the names of NPCs you may have made up on the fly, and any other details you may find important.
1-7. Be willing to make mistakes.
Sometimes things will not go as you plan. Whether it is a mistake on how a rule works, or confusion of how a spell would affect an NPC, or your carefully written adventure is thrown aside by players that think a random NPC you had nothing written for is FAR more interesting than your save-the-maiden quest, problems will occur. Frequently. The best tool any DM has in their toolkit is the ability AND willingness to adjust to the circumstances.
If the problem is a rule disagreement, don't let that derail your game. Spend no more than two minutes looking up anything, unless the character in question may die from the result. Calmly explain your ruling on how it will work, resolve to look it up after the game or between sessions and move on. Nothing kills a game faster than bickering for 15 minutes between two people while the rest of the group is bored. Keeping the game going is better than killing the game while trying to get every detail right every time.
If the problem is that the players did something that you didn't plan for, anticipate, or want them to do... be willing to say "Yes"... or at the very least don't say "No". Some DMs can make things up on the fly - do so if you can. If you're not comfortable with that, ask for a short break (people can go to the bathroom, eat, whatever) while you write up some ideas and make a short outline plan for this new and exciting direction they are going.
Don't excuse yourself if the players catch you with having broken Dungeons & Dragons-rules. If they point out that your wizard wears chain mail, agree, be mysterious about it.
There is no tragedy in retconning if you forgot an important aspect.
1-8. Follow the Golden Rule of DMing:
The players will always do something you never thought of and could never have anticipated in a million years. No matter how many solutions or tangents you plan for, it is likely they will go in the one you did not. It is best that you accept this reality now, otherwise you're setting yourself up for pretty frequent frustration when it happens... over, and over, and over... Don't be discouraged by this though! This detail keeps the game exciting and surprising for you, which can be very enjoyable.
The players can be their own worst enemies. Their dreadful imagination can give you inspiration about your scenario and how it unfolds.
If the players roll a lucky dice and kill off what you intended to be the main villain, let him go. Being fair also means denying yourself.
If you really don’t want the players to go in a certain direction there are ways of changing it. You can make certain areas contagious which also yields an opportunity for roleplaying. A realm can be controlled by a dark lord. Or areas you don't want them to visit can be excluded from the maps you create. You can also have some of the players' gear stolen. This will very likely make them follow where you want them to go.
1-9. Be involved, creative and reasonably realistic.
Not only will this make the game more decisive, it will make it more fun. No one wants to be playing when the dungeon master is saying "ummm...well...you know… you just...found a cave, yeah. And in the cave...is...ummm...an imp. Ummm...what do you do?" Instead, say "You enter the cave and its dampness overcomes your senses.” You hear a *Imitate the sound of how you imagine an imp in the distance would sound like*. If the player hesitates make the imp attack. If the cave is empty, don’t outright state it. Instead say “You see nothing.”
You will want to become such a good game master that the players are not munchkins but actually want to roleplay. The more you prepare, the easier it will be to give the players this confidence.
Remember that until you say it exists, no one knows what is on that piece of paper behind your screen. Whether you read it directly or change details as you go along, unless you tell the players that they will think it was meant to be that way all along. Use this to your advantage.
Consider who you are playing with. If you are given the opportunity to play with others you should seize it. Also, despite your most careful preparations things will rarely go as planned. Since you are dealing with people, expect there to be conversation outside of the Role-Playing world, and accommodate accordingly. If the game is not going to the preconceived plan you have created, try to incorporate your original ideas in new ways to the current player predicament.
Proper|y involve the players. Never fulfill their wishes directly. Their characters should be designed according to the rule book. They should be given goals which you can intertwine with the story you designed. Keep in mind who the player characters are. For examples, have your non-friendly NPCs address the player with the highest charisma.
The point of going on an adventure is to see and experience new things. Be creative with your descriptions and scenarios to give every location and interaction its own flavor. Don't just drone on about the surroundings; change your voice to show you actually care. Taking on accents of various NPCs also adds a bit of flavor to your dungeon.
Include a world map. You may want to have figures and grid maps to make the combat easy to follow. You may even have pre-designed dungeon halls. If you are terrible at drawing there are ways to improve your fine motor skills.
Don't let your creativity run amok, however. You would like to create a consistency within your game world. While you may be pretending to be in a fantasy world where magic is common, its pervasiveness should be consistent. Keeping your work within this guideline can mean the difference between an engaging fantasy story and a parody where everything seems hokey and dumb.
There are expansion books designed for creating scenarios taking place in another franchise such as The Lord of The Rings. If your scenario takes place in such a well-known franchise, don’t include the main characters from there. Instead make up your own. If someone lectures you about the universe, point out that it's your interpretation of it that matters.
Tips
Make a name vault starting after your first game. Over time, you'll find yourself in need of names, so start keeping track of interesting ones you think of or come across.
When you're just starting out, play with friends; a relaxed and familiar group of people will help everyone learn the game much more easily, especially when you can joke around.
Description is really important in D&D. Unlike a movie or TV show, the players are actually just watching you. The better your descriptions, the more vivid it will be for your players, and the better your game will be. (Ex. a foul stench flows forth from the cavern entrance. Water trickles down around the outside of its mouth, spilling into two tiny streams along the rock floor. It seems there is a grooved channel in the rock.)
Warnings
Alignment can be a sticky situation from time to time. Remember, evil isn't stupid, it's just evil. As the DM, it's your job to be all three sides: the good, the bad, and the scenery.
Know when the amount of information you give the players is too much, not enough, or just right. Keep your answers to questions concise, and don't give away too much information.
Don't let your players dictate how things "should" be from novels or published stories. Otherwise, the one person who has read the thirty novels based in that world can try to manipulate you with knowledge only he has. In the end, the DM is the final word on what does and does not exist. However, a balance is best - work with them to incorporate some of those details so long as it does not give anyone an unreasonable advantage.
Some people really do want to learn how to play D&D, some may just be interested in what you're up to, and some will be downright mean about their opinions. As the DM, be sure to show respect to all three types of people. Doing so for the first group might net you some new gamers (to go with your new DM-ness), for the second group it might get people who eventually might want to learn how to play, and for the third it might dispel a myth. At the very least, it will show your players how to behave in those situations (as some players get overzealous from time to time).
Some people might think parts of your dungeons story are silly (monsters hatched from pumpkin farms next door, all NPCs are alien invaders) but that's their problem not yours. It is your story after all.
While you may want to make your dungeon challenging, don't make it impossible. What's the point of doing it if it's going to be too difficult for the PC (Player's Character)?
D&D can be addicting. Allow yourself to rest mentally and physically from the game; maybe even a fifteen-minute minute break every three hours of game play would be sufficient for most DMs. Don't exhaust yourself or your players (this just puts everyone in bad moods, and the game becomes less enjoyable).
Don't let yourself get bullied by other players. What you say is as good as divine law in your dungeon.
Beware of rulers, lawyers and metagamers, and don't play their game just to punish them. Come up with interesting in-game ways to deal with their characters instead.
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Your job is to entertain.\\nMaybe you rather wanted to slack off, but if the roleplay group is best suited to play on a particular day, then you should play that day.\\nIf you have no time in between games, consider running modules. They will be presented for characters between a certain levels, with challenges scaled to fit. This is the easiest and fastest way to run a game, as most of everything is done for you. The only thing you have to do is read the adventure. It is suggested that you re-read a few pages ahead of where you stopped at every session right before the next session, to refresh your memory for the game at hand.\\nIf you have a few hours to devote between games, running modules is still a strong option. However, you may want to re-write parts of the module to fit the game or particular story line(s) you're running with the PCs. Changing descriptions of locations or replacing treasure found in the module with items better suited for your players are good and easy places to start. As you progress in skill, you may start lifting whole encounters from one module and writing it into another. Not only does this allow you to essentially pick out the best parts of an otherwise so-so module, but players who may have read or run through the module before will be in for a surprise!\\nWriting your own adventures is a possibility, though for new DMs it is still recommended that you run a module first, so you're only focusing on one concept at a time (learning the rules). In time you will be more inclined to change things and write new scenarios yourself. Pulling encounters from published works and tying them together would be a good start. They can then slowly be replaced with your own works. What you ultimately want to achieve is that your campaign is like a movie you would be interested in watching which invokes a sense of mystery.\\nMany dungeon masters spend a long time reading the rulebooks over and over again. This is actually a form of procrastination. If you don't have anyone to play with – don't spend time planning scenarios. Keep your ideas in the back of your mind and instead learn to generally become a good storyteller. The only way to become a valuable game master is to gain practical experience and learn from each mistake as it brings you closer to perfection.\\n1-6. Take notes.\\nDuring and immediately after the game session, be sure to jot down a few notes about what the players did, what your NPCs did, how your other NPCs and bad guys will respond to new events, the names of NPCs you may have made up on the fly, and any other details you may find important.\\n1-7. Be willing to make mistakes.\\nSometimes things will not go as you plan. Whether it is a mistake on how a rule works, or confusion of how a spell would affect an NPC, or your carefully written adventure is thrown aside by players that think a random NPC you had nothing written for is FAR more interesting than your save-the-maiden quest, problems will occur. Frequently. The best tool any DM has in their toolkit is the ability AND willingness to adjust to the circumstances.\\nIf the problem is a rule disagreement, don't let that derail your game. Spend no more than two minutes looking up anything, unless the character in question may die from the result. Calmly explain your ruling on how it will work, resolve to look it up after the game or between sessions and move on. Nothing kills a game faster than bickering for 15 minutes between two people while the rest of the group is bored. Keeping the game going is better than killing the game while trying to get every detail right every time.\\nIf the problem is that the players did something that you didn't plan for, anticipate, or want them to do... be willing to say \\\"Yes\\\"... or at the very least don't say \\\"No\\\". Some DMs can make things up on the fly - do so if you can. If you're not comfortable with that, ask for a short break (people can go to the bathroom, eat, whatever) while you write up some ideas and make a short outline plan for this new and exciting direction they are going.\\nDon't excuse yourself if the players catch you with having broken Dungeons & Dragons-rules. If they point out that your wizard wears chain mail, agree, be mysterious about it.\\nThere is no tragedy in retconning if you forgot an important aspect.\\n1-8. Follow the Golden Rule of DMing:\\nThe players will always do something you never thought of and could never have anticipated in a million years. No matter how many solutions or tangents you plan for, it is likely they will go in the one you did not. It is best that you accept this reality now, otherwise you're setting yourself up for pretty frequent frustration when it happens... over, and over, and over... Don't be discouraged by this though! This detail keeps the game exciting and surprising for you, which can be very enjoyable.\\nThe players can be their own worst enemies. Their dreadful imagination can give you inspiration about your scenario and how it unfolds.\\nIf the players roll a lucky dice and kill off what you intended to be the main villain, let him go. Being fair also means denying yourself.\\nIf you really don’t want the players to go in a certain direction there are ways of changing it. You can make certain areas contagious which also yields an opportunity for roleplaying. A realm can be controlled by a dark lord. Or areas you don't want them to visit can be excluded from the maps you create. You can also have some of the players' gear stolen. This will very likely make them follow where you want them to go.\\n1-9. Be involved, creative and reasonably realistic.\\nNot only will this make the game more decisive, it will make it more fun. No one wants to be playing when the dungeon master is saying \\\"ummm...well...you know… you just...found a cave, yeah. And in the cave...is...ummm...an imp. Ummm...what do you do?\\\" Instead, say \\\"You enter the cave and its dampness overcomes your senses.” You hear a *Imitate the sound of how you imagine an imp in the distance would sound like*. If the player hesitates make the imp attack. If the cave is empty, don’t outright state it. Instead say “You see nothing.” \\nYou will want to become such a good game master that the players are not munchkins but actually want to roleplay. The more you prepare, the easier it will be to give the players this confidence.\\nRemember that until you say it exists, no one knows what is on that piece of paper behind your screen. Whether you read it directly or change details as you go along, unless you tell the players that they will think it was meant to be that way all along. Use this to your advantage.\\nConsider who you are playing with. If you are given the opportunity to play with others you should seize it. Also, despite your most careful preparations things will rarely go as planned. Since you are dealing with people, expect there to be conversation outside of the Role-Playing world, and accommodate accordingly. If the game is not going to the preconceived plan you have created, try to incorporate your original ideas in new ways to the current player predicament.\\nProper|y involve the players. Never fulfill their wishes directly. Their characters should be designed according to the rule book. They should be given goals which you can intertwine with the story you designed. Keep in mind who the player characters are. For examples, have your non-friendly NPCs address the player with the highest charisma.\\nThe point of going on an adventure is to see and experience new things. Be creative with your descriptions and scenarios to give every location and interaction its own flavor. Don't just drone on about the surroundings; change your voice to show you actually care. Taking on accents of various NPCs also adds a bit of flavor to your dungeon.\\nInclude a world map. You may want to have figures and grid maps to make the combat easy to follow. You may even have pre-designed dungeon halls. If you are terrible at drawing there are ways to improve your fine motor skills.\\nDon't let your creativity run amok, however. You would like to create a consistency within your game world. While you may be pretending to be in a fantasy world where magic is common, its pervasiveness should be consistent. Keeping your work within this guideline can mean the difference between an engaging fantasy story and a parody where everything seems hokey and dumb.\\nThere are expansion books designed for creating scenarios taking place in another franchise such as The Lord of The Rings. If your scenario takes place in such a well-known franchise, don’t include the main characters from there. Instead make up your own. If someone lectures you about the universe, point out that it's your interpretation of it that matters.\\nTips\\nMake a name vault starting after your first game. Over time, you'll find yourself in need of names, so start keeping track of interesting ones you think of or come across.\\nWhen you're just starting out, play with friends; a relaxed and familiar group of people will help everyone learn the game much more easily, especially when you can joke around.\\nDescription is really important in D&D. Unlike a movie or TV show, the players are actually just watching you. The better your descriptions, the more vivid it will be for your players, and the better your game will be. (Ex. a foul stench flows forth from the cavern entrance. Water trickles down around the outside of its mouth, spilling into two tiny streams along the rock floor. It seems there is a grooved channel in the rock.)\\nWarnings\\nAlignment can be a sticky situation from time to time. Remember, evil isn't stupid, it's just evil. As the DM, it's your job to be all three sides: the good, the bad, and the scenery.\\nKnow when the amount of information you give the players is too much, not enough, or just right. Keep your answers to questions concise, and don't give away too much information.\\nDon't let your players dictate how things \\\"should\\\" be from novels or published stories. Otherwise, the one person who has read the thirty novels based in that world can try to manipulate you with knowledge only he has. In the end, the DM is the final word on what does and does not exist. However, a balance is best - work with them to incorporate some of those details so long as it does not give anyone an unreasonable advantage.\\nSome people really do want to learn how to play D&D, some may just be interested in what you're up to, and some will be downright mean about their opinions. As the DM, be sure to show respect to all three types of people. Doing so for the first group might net you some new gamers (to go with your new DM-ness), for the second group it might get people who eventually might want to learn how to play, and for the third it might dispel a myth. At the very least, it will show your players how to behave in those situations (as some players get overzealous from time to time).\\nSome people might think parts of your dungeons story are silly (monsters hatched from pumpkin farms next door, all NPCs are alien invaders) but that's their problem not yours. It is your story after all.\\nWhile you may want to make your dungeon challenging, don't make it impossible. What's the point of doing it if it's going to be too difficult for the PC (Player's Character)?\\nD&D can be addicting. Allow yourself to rest mentally and physically from the game; maybe even a fifteen-minute minute break every three hours of game play would be sufficient for most DMs. Don't exhaust yourself or your players (this just puts everyone in bad moods, and the game becomes less enjoyable).\\nDon't let yourself get bullied by other players. What you say is as good as divine law in your dungeon.\\nBeware of rulers, lawyers and metagamers, and don't play their game just to punish them. Come up with interesting in-game ways to deal with their characters instead.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The term Dungeon Master (DM for short) was coined by Dungeons & Dragons© in the early 70s, but has now become a catch-all term for anyone who runs a role-playing game (RPG). Technically, the title DM applies to Dungeons and Dragons, whereas GM (Game Master) refers to the \\\"DM\\\" of an RPG other than Dungeons and Dragons. Being a Dungeon Master sounds easy; you control everything and just tell people what they can and can't do, right? Actually, that couldn't be further from the truth. You are charged with both creating the details and challenges of the adventure while maintaining a realistic continuity of events in your scenario. You must also have a good knowledge and understanding of the rules of the game. While a fair DM can make an enjoyable experience for everyone, a poor one can ruin any game. The following information is biased toward D&D, though it is more or less general enough to be applied to any RPG.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understand what a DM does.\", \"描述\": \"The descriptions you may have heard of a Dungeon Master probably range from \\\"the one who does all the work\\\" to \\\"You are god here\\\". Those descriptions are usually exaggerations from people who are either ignorant of what a DM really is or the extreme interpretation of a half-truth.\\nAs a DM, you control everything and everyone that is not a Player Character (PC for short). That means everyone or anything the players may come across or interact with is controlled by you. However, the goal of any RPG should be a fun time for ‘’’everyone’’’ involved. \\\"Everyone\\\" cannot be stressed enough. Your responses to the players, the situations you present, the challenges you create, the stories you build together, all of it should be balanced so as to provide an enjoyable experience for you and your players. What you are not is against the PCs. If your goal is to destroy the player characters any chance you get, then you are doing it wrong. Rather, you should strive to be fair and create an enjoyable experience. This means that if the characters are having a hard time, nerf the monsters but don’t change how they would behave.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Know the rules.\", \"描述\": \"To be a fair DM, you are expected to have a strong grasp of the rules of the game. It may be helpful to think of yourself as an impartial judge in this respect. Just as a judge cannot do his/her job without knowing the law, a DM cannot run the game without knowing the rules of the game. To aid in this, most RPGs provide basic entry books known as \\\"Core\\\" rulebooks. Anything considered Core is what you need to have, at very least, a passing familiarity with. \\nIn D&D, the Core Books are the Player's Handbook, the Dungeon Master Guide and the Monster Manual. The rest should not be considered necessary for running a game.\\nYou describe the surroundings, manage the plot, and administer all of the elements of the game, including determining the outcome of battles between players and dungeon dwellers. If your players encounter a creature, choose a plan of battle, it may be up to you to roll the dice to decide the outcome, and although the rules apply specific guidelines, you may use your own judgment to work that outcome in the best way to maintain the flow and continuity of the game. It's a daunting task, but it will become easier with time, patience, and practice.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Prepare properly.\", \"描述\": \"For some DMs, the thrill of writing their own adventures and stories to present to their players is the reason for doing it. Others like the fact that they control everything. And then there are those who do it simply because they don’t think anyone else will do a good enough job. Regardless of why you do it, how you get ready is what breaks or makes the game. The ways you can prepare could fill its own wiki, but here are the basics for first time DMs. Remember that everyone will be comfortable with different ways and it is best to only use what works for you. Don't try to force something that doesn't feel right. Again, the end result should always be a fun game for everyone. If it feeIs like work, don't hesitate to lower your work pace.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Materials & Tools.\", \"描述\": \"As the Dungeon Master, you should probably have the materials required to run the game. Things like the core rulebooks of the current edition, keep those rulebooks close by and within arm's reach so that you have a quick and easy reference to the rules. Here are the tools that many experienced DMs suggest you have within arm's reach to ensure you keep the game flowing-\\nNotebook: keeping a notebook nearby is incredibly handy because you can use it to scratch notes like if a player has a cool moment and you want to award them something special, or if something else happens that you want to jot down and keep in your memory.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/a\\\\/a2\\\\/Be-a-Dungeon-Master-Step-3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Dungeon-Master-Step-3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/a\\\\/a2\\\\/Be-a-Dungeon-Master-Step-3.jpg\\\\/aid134586-v4-728px-Be-a-Dungeon-Master-Step-3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Your job is to entertain.\", \"描述\": \"Maybe you rather wanted to slack off, but if the roleplay group is best suited to play on a particular day, then you should play that day.\\nIf you have no time in between games, consider running modules. They will be presented for characters between a certain levels, with challenges scaled to fit. This is the easiest and fastest way to run a game, as most of everything is done for you. The only thing you have to do is read the adventure. It is suggested that you re-read a few pages ahead of where you stopped at every session right before the next session, to refresh your memory for the game at hand.\\nIf you have a few hours to devote between games, running modules is still a strong option. However, you may want to re-write parts of the module to fit the game or particular story line(s) you're running with the PCs. Changing descriptions of locations or replacing treasure found in the module with items better suited for your players are good and easy places to start. As you progress in skill, you may start lifting whole encounters from one module and writing it into another. Not only does this allow you to essentially pick out the best parts of an otherwise so-so module, but players who may have read or run through the module before will be in for a surprise!\\nWriting your own adventures is a possibility, though for new DMs it is still recommended that you run a module first, so you're only focusing on one concept at a time (learning the rules). In time you will be more inclined to change things and write new scenarios yourself. Pulling encounters from published works and tying them together would be a good start. They can then slowly be replaced with your own works. What you ultimately want to achieve is that your campaign is like a movie you would be interested in watching which invokes a sense of mystery.\\nMany dungeon masters spend a long time reading the rulebooks over and over again. This is actually a form of procrastination. If you don't have anyone to play with – don't spend time planning scenarios. Keep your ideas in the back of your mind and instead learn to generally become a good storyteller. The only way to become a valuable game master is to gain practical experience and learn from each mistake as it brings you closer to perfection.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Take notes.\", \"描述\": \"During and immediately after the game session, be sure to jot down a few notes about what the players did, what your NPCs did, how your other NPCs and bad guys will respond to new events, the names of NPCs you may have made up on the fly, and any other details you may find important.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Be willing to make mistakes.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes things will not go as you plan. Whether it is a mistake on how a rule works, or confusion of how a spell would affect an NPC, or your carefully written adventure is thrown aside by players that think a random NPC you had nothing written for is FAR more interesting than your save-the-maiden quest, problems will occur. Frequently. The best tool any DM has in their toolkit is the ability AND willingness to adjust to the circumstances.\\nIf the problem is a rule disagreement, don't let that derail your game. Spend no more than two minutes looking up anything, unless the character in question may die from the result. Calmly explain your ruling on how it will work, resolve to look it up after the game or between sessions and move on. Nothing kills a game faster than bickering for 15 minutes between two people while the rest of the group is bored. Keeping the game going is better than killing the game while trying to get every detail right every time.\\nIf the problem is that the players did something that you didn't plan for, anticipate, or want them to do... be willing to say \\\"Yes\\\"... or at the very least don't say \\\"No\\\". Some DMs can make things up on the fly - do so if you can. If you're not comfortable with that, ask for a short break (people can go to the bathroom, eat, whatever) while you write up some ideas and make a short outline plan for this new and exciting direction they are going.\\nDon't excuse yourself if the players catch you with having broken Dungeons & Dragons-rules. If they point out that your wizard wears chain mail, agree, be mysterious about it.\\nThere is no tragedy in retconning if you forgot an important aspect.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Follow the Golden Rule of DMing:\", \"描述\": \"The players will always do something you never thought of and could never have anticipated in a million years. No matter how many solutions or tangents you plan for, it is likely they will go in the one you did not. It is best that you accept this reality now, otherwise you're setting yourself up for pretty frequent frustration when it happens... over, and over, and over... Don't be discouraged by this though! This detail keeps the game exciting and surprising for you, which can be very enjoyable.\\nThe players can be their own worst enemies. Their dreadful imagination can give you inspiration about your scenario and how it unfolds.\\nIf the players roll a lucky dice and kill off what you intended to be the main villain, let him go. Being fair also means denying yourself.\\nIf you really don’t want the players to go in a certain direction there are ways of changing it. You can make certain areas contagious which also yields an opportunity for roleplaying. A realm can be controlled by a dark lord. Or areas you don't want them to visit can be excluded from the maps you create. You can also have some of the players' gear stolen. This will very likely make them follow where you want them to go.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Be involved, creative and reasonably realistic.\", \"描述\": \"Not only will this make the game more decisive, it will make it more fun. No one wants to be playing when the dungeon master is saying \\\"ummm...well...you know… you just...found a cave, yeah. And in the cave...is...ummm...an imp. Ummm...what do you do?\\\" Instead, say \\\"You enter the cave and its dampness overcomes your senses.” You hear a *Imitate the sound of how you imagine an imp in the distance would sound like*. If the player hesitates make the imp attack. If the cave is empty, don’t outright state it. Instead say “You see nothing.” \\nYou will want to become such a good game master that the players are not munchkins but actually want to roleplay. The more you prepare, the easier it will be to give the players this confidence.\\nRemember that until you say it exists, no one knows what is on that piece of paper behind your screen. Whether you read it directly or change details as you go along, unless you tell the players that they will think it was meant to be that way all along. Use this to your advantage.\\nConsider who you are playing with. If you are given the opportunity to play with others you should seize it. Also, despite your most careful preparations things will rarely go as planned. Since you are dealing with people, expect there to be conversation outside of the Role-Playing world, and accommodate accordingly. If the game is not going to the preconceived plan you have created, try to incorporate your original ideas in new ways to the current player predicament.\\nProper|y involve the players. Never fulfill their wishes directly. Their characters should be designed according to the rule book. They should be given goals which you can intertwine with the story you designed. Keep in mind who the player characters are. For examples, have your non-friendly NPCs address the player with the highest charisma.\\nThe point of going on an adventure is to see and experience new things. Be creative with your descriptions and scenarios to give every location and interaction its own flavor. Don't just drone on about the surroundings; change your voice to show you actually care. Taking on accents of various NPCs also adds a bit of flavor to your dungeon.\\nInclude a world map. You may want to have figures and grid maps to make the combat easy to follow. You may even have pre-designed dungeon halls. If you are terrible at drawing there are ways to improve your fine motor skills.\\nDon't let your creativity run amok, however. You would like to create a consistency within your game world. While you may be pretending to be in a fantasy world where magic is common, its pervasiveness should be consistent. Keeping your work within this guideline can mean the difference between an engaging fantasy story and a parody where everything seems hokey and dumb.\\nThere are expansion books designed for creating scenarios taking place in another franchise such as The Lord of The Rings. If your scenario takes place in such a well-known franchise, don’t include the main characters from there. Instead make up your own. If someone lectures you about the universe, point out that it's your interpretation of it that matters.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Make a name vault starting after your first game. Over time, you'll find yourself in need of names, so start keeping track of interesting ones you think of or come across.\\n\", \"When you're just starting out, play with friends; a relaxed and familiar group of people will help everyone learn the game much more easily, especially when you can joke around.\\n\", \"Description is really important in D&D. Unlike a movie or TV show, the players are actually just watching you. The better your descriptions, the more vivid it will be for your players, and the better your game will be. (Ex. a foul stench flows forth from the cavern entrance. Water trickles down around the outside of its mouth, spilling into two tiny streams along the rock floor. It seems there is a grooved channel in the rock.)\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Alignment can be a sticky situation from time to time. Remember, evil isn't stupid, it's just evil. As the DM, it's your job to be all three sides: the good, the bad, and the scenery.\\n\", \"Know when the amount of information you give the players is too much, not enough, or just right. Keep your answers to questions concise, and don't give away too much information.\\n\", \"Don't let your players dictate how things \\\"should\\\" be from novels or published stories. Otherwise, the one person who has read the thirty novels based in that world can try to manipulate you with knowledge only he has. In the end, the DM is the final word on what does and does not exist. However, a balance is best - work with them to incorporate some of those details so long as it does not give anyone an unreasonable advantage.\\n\", \"Some people really do want to learn how to play D&D, some may just be interested in what you're up to, and some will be downright mean about their opinions. As the DM, be sure to show respect to all three types of people. Doing so for the first group might net you some new gamers (to go with your new DM-ness), for the second group it might get people who eventually might want to learn how to play, and for the third it might dispel a myth. At the very least, it will show your players how to behave in those situations (as some players get overzealous from time to time).\\n\", \"Some people might think parts of your dungeons story are silly (monsters hatched from pumpkin farms next door, all NPCs are alien invaders) but that's their problem not yours. It is your story after all.\\n\", \"While you may want to make your dungeon challenging, don't make it impossible. What's the point of doing it if it's going to be too difficult for the PC (Player's Character)?\\n\", \"D&D can be addicting. Allow yourself to rest mentally and physically from the game; maybe even a fifteen-minute minute break every three hours of game play would be sufficient for most DMs. Don't exhaust yourself or your players (this just puts everyone in bad moods, and the game becomes less enjoyable).\\n\", \"Don't let yourself get bullied by other players. What you say is as good as divine law in your dungeon.\\n\", \"Beware of rulers, lawyers and metagamers, and don't play their game just to punish them. Come up with interesting in-game ways to deal with their characters instead.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Steps
1-1. Keep yourself clean.
It is always important to keep yourself nice and fresh and have good hygiene. Take a shower every day while using a sweet-smelling body wash. After exiting the shower, top yourself off with some lotion so that your skin can stay soft.
1-2. Get fantastic hair.
Hair is one thing that everyone looks at; wear it naturally, however you wish to, but make sure it looks as if you walked out of the salon. Wash your hair everyday or every other day. If you have African/curly hair, wash once a week or whatever works for you. Find out what works best for your hair. If you need to, use products that add shine, volume, and most of all can stay. Always comb and brush your hair.
Work with your natural hair texture. For example, if you have waves or curls, invest in a curl-defining mousse or cream to keep them pretty and to prevent frizz. Or if your hair is naturally straight, use a straightener in the morning and a shine spray to keep it from becoming limp and lifeless.
1-3. Dress in flattering and gorgeous clothes.
You should always wear clothes that fit you. Not too big, not too small, not too long, and not too short. If you have a slim figure, wear jeans or even if you have a curvy figure wear long skirts. And always make sure that your clothes are clean.
1-4. Try going for silver or gold jewelry.
Try rings, necklaces, bracelets, (etc.) to bring the best out in you. But don't try to put on too much or it will look tacky.
1-5. Shine your skin.
The first thing people look at is your face, which means you should have great skin. Buy a body lotion for your arms and hands. Wash your face with a mild wash, tone it, and moisturize it. If you have acne try seeing a doctor if the results do not show within 3 months. Don't forget to drink at least 8 glasses of water (64oz.) a day to help your skin glow and to get rid of toxins. Exfoliate at least twice a week.
1-6. Keep your nails pretty.
Make sure that they are healthy. If not, people will be turned off easily. If you want to hide it then get them done at a salon. A nice French manicure or whatever helps you find your inner diva.
1-7. Stay healthy.
Last but not least, you want to keep your insides as well as your outsides clean. Eat lots of fruits and veggies. Drink water very often too. And work out 3-5 times a week for 30-90 minutes. This is very important and the golden rule to looking great.
1-8. Use makeup if you're allowed to wear some.
Don't be afraid to get bold with it! Go to the store and buy makeup items (such as mascara, foundation, lip liner, eyeliner, blush, etc.) that you are willing to wear. Each day, wear your makeup differently. For example, one day go for a natural look with lip gloss, and the next day some sparkly eyeshadow. Whatever you decide to do, keep it looking gorgeous.
1-9. Get a good night's worth of sleep.
7-10 hours is best. Lack of sleep will cause dark circles, laziness, weight gain and an look for you.
1-10. Wear lip gloss.
A true Diva always looks her best and this can be accomplished with a single item. Lip gloss instantly makes your whole face look wide awake and makes you look good without needing a lot of makeup. Carry lip gloss and apply it frequently during the day to maintain your great Diva style.
1-11. Show off your talents.
If you can sing, sign up for a talent show. If you can model, start taking some pics. Great at dancing? YouTube, here you come! All divas have a wondrous talent worth showing.
1-12. Bring your inner diva out of you.
You gotta strut your stuff, learn to stand up for yourself and never let any haters bring you down.
1-13. Have manners.
All divas are worth thinking about. Beyoncé, Jennifer Lopez, Mariah Carey, and Jessica Simpson have manners. You know, "please", "thank you", "no thank you", "yes please", "ma'am", "sir". Stay classy in what you say.
1-14. Become a sassy version of yourself.
You have to take some pride and show your personality. But remember to be polite to others. Don't talk back to your teacher or parents. If you have sass, when you walk down the hall at school or someplace public, everyone should be looking at you.
1-15. Be proud of your type!
Look up Angelina Jolie, Mariah Carey, Beyoncé, Denise Richards, Jennifer Lopez, Paris Hilton, Jessica Simpson, Christina Aguilera, and Ariana Grande. These divas are all talented, confident, gorgeous and beautiful, but they all look totally different from one another. They don't have the same faces, bodies, skin, hair, or style. But they have no problem with it! So, do what you can to make yourself happier about yourself and your hidden talents. In the end, people will notice you for the gifts you bring to the world.
Tips
Be your natural self!
Don't be afraid to strut your stuff!
Walk tall and confident- Nothing to beat the attitude.
Warnings
You will have people being jealous of you at some point, but that's okay- Remember, be confident & not cocky!
Don't put on too much makeup.
Be yourself and don't become a wannabe.
Show your true self.
Don't be fake.
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Don't forget to drink at least 8 glasses of water (64oz.) a day to help your skin glow and to get rid of toxins. Exfoliate at least twice a week.\\n1-6. Keep your nails pretty.\\nMake sure that they are healthy. If not, people will be turned off easily. If you want to hide it then get them done at a salon. A nice French manicure or whatever helps you find your inner diva.\\n1-7. Stay healthy.\\nLast but not least, you want to keep your insides as well as your outsides clean. Eat lots of fruits and veggies. Drink water very often too. And work out 3-5 times a week for 30-90 minutes. This is very important and the golden rule to looking great.\\n1-8. Use makeup if you're allowed to wear some.\\nDon't be afraid to get bold with it! Go to the store and buy makeup items (such as mascara, foundation, lip liner, eyeliner, blush, etc.) that you are willing to wear. Each day, wear your makeup differently. For example, one day go for a natural look with lip gloss, and the next day some sparkly eyeshadow. Whatever you decide to do, keep it looking gorgeous.\\n1-9. Get a good night's worth of sleep.\\n7-10 hours is best. Lack of sleep will cause dark circles, laziness, weight gain and an look for you.\\n1-10. Wear lip gloss.\\nA true Diva always looks her best and this can be accomplished with a single item. Lip gloss instantly makes your whole face look wide awake and makes you look good without needing a lot of makeup. Carry lip gloss and apply it frequently during the day to maintain your great Diva style.\\n1-11. Show off your talents.\\nIf you can sing, sign up for a talent show. If you can model, start taking some pics. Great at dancing? YouTube, here you come! All divas have a wondrous talent worth showing.\\n1-12. Bring your inner diva out of you.\\nYou gotta strut your stuff, learn to stand up for yourself and never let any haters bring you down.\\n1-13. 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1. Engaging Your Faith Community
1-1. Go to church regularly.
Worshiping as a community is important in all Christian denominations. Attend worship service weekly and, depending on your denomination, on holy days of obligation, such as Christmas, Easter, and Ash Wednesday.
Christians typically attend weekly worship services on Saturdays or Sundays. For groups including Anglicans, Catholics, and Orthodox Christians, worship centers around Holy Communion. Through this ritual, Christians remember the Last Supper and Christ's sacrifice for humanity.
In other denominations, such as Baptists and Quakers, community worship is less structured and centers on Bible readings, sermons, and music.
1-2. Receive the sacraments according to your denomination's traditions.
Sacraments are rites of passage that help you confirm your faith and share it with your community. Most Christian traditions recognize at least 2 sacraments: Baptism and Holy Communion. Baptism often occurs soon after birth; First Communion in many denominations happens around age 7.
While nearly all Christians celebrate these core sacraments, some traditions recognize several additional rites of passage. Catholicism, for instance, recognizes the additional sacraments of Confession (also called Penance or Reconciliation), Confirmation, Marriage, Holy Orders, and Anointing of the Sick.
While you receive some sacraments, such as Baptism and Confirmation, only once, others are celebrated regularly. For instance, after your First Communion, you receive Holy Communion every time you go to church.
1-3. Seize learning opportunities, such as Bible study and Sunday school.
If a Scripture passage or church teaching is confusing, never be afraid to seek clarity. Needing to learn more and asking questions doesn't mean you're unfaithful. Rather, it shows you want to deepen your faith, and it can help you gain knowledge and wisdom.
You can also ask your priest or minister questions about your faith. For instance, if you want to know more about a passage in the Gospel or sermon, ask about it after the service. If you find teachings on Holy Communion confusing, ask about your tradition's beliefs and why different denominations hold unique views.
1-4. Volunteer
Your church can likely connect you with a range of service opportunities, such as at a soup kitchen, shelter, or nursing home. Community service can help you put Christ's teachings into practice.
In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus calls for Christians to feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked, shelter the homeless, visit the sick, visit the imprisoned, and bury the dead.
1-5. Attend spiritual retreats to deepen your relationship with God.
Churches typically offer retreats every now and then for members of the community to pray, reflect, and learn more about their faith. Retreats often involve trips to spiritual sites and activities such as meditation, singing, journaling, arts and crafts, and group discussions.
Christian schools, youth groups, and other organizations also host retreats. Ask your priest or minister or another leader at your church about upcoming retreats and how to participate.
2. Deepening Your Faith through Private Worship
2-1. Pray
Calm your mind, focus your thoughts, and open your heart up to God. When you're happy, say a prayer to express your gratitude to God. When you're sad, angry, or scared, pray for strength and guidance.
To get into a prayerful state of mind, it's helpful to read a Bible passage or recite prayers such as the Lord's Prayer or Hail Mary.
Then, talk to God using your own words, like this: “Lord, I'm at a crossroad and need help making a decision. Please give me guidance and grant me the strength to follow your plan.”
2-2. Read and contemplate daily Bible passages.
Try to find time each day to carefully read a few verses from the Bible. Read the passage slowly and imagine the setting as vividly as you can. Concentrate on the verses' meaning and how you can apply the message to your daily life.
If your church offers a Bible study group, sign up for it to read and discuss passages with your community and faith leaders.
2-3. Write daily and weekly entries in a reflection journal.
Each day, jot down things you did right and what you could have done better. Then, on Sunday, reflect on the past week's entries. Try to think of a spiritual goal for the upcoming week based on your past entries.
For instance, if you were mean to someone last week, offering them a sincere apology could be your goal for the upcoming week.
Examining your conscience on a regular basis and setting spiritual goals can help you live according to Christ's teachings. It's a bit like developing other healthy habits, like physical exercise. If you exercise every day, it becomes part of your routine and you get in better shape over time.
2-4. Look for signs of God's presence in art and nature.
Spiritual music, visual art, and literature can offer powerful, emotional experiences of God. A painting, for instance, could help you reflect on a story from the Bible. Nature's beauty, from the Grand Canyon to a lush forest, can also fill your heart with praise for the miracle of creation.
When you feel like your faith is being challenged, the beauty of art and nature can help remind you that God has created an incredible world and has a plan for you.
3. Staying Committed to Your Faith
3-1. Ask God for the strength to resist temptation.
Everyone experiences temptation throughout their lives. When you feel tempted to do the wrong thing, pray for strength and try to find something to distract yourself. If someone is peer pressuring you to do something that isn't right, have confidence in yourself, remember your values, and ask them to stop.
Try asking yourself, “What would Jesus do?” if you're feeling conflicted.
Saying the Serenity Prayer can also help you push through moments of temptation: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
3-2. Confess your sins or seek your minister's counsel.
No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. In some denominations, such as Catholicism, the sacrament of Confession is an important part of overcoming your shortcomings. If you feel like you've turned away from God, confess your sins to your priest and ask God for forgiveness.
If your denomination doesn't practice the sacrament of Confession, pray to God for forgiveness on your own and ask your priest or minister for advice about spiritual healing.
3-3. Embrace doubt as an opportunity to strengthen your faith.
Don't feel ashamed if you have questions about your spirituality. Even the most faithful followers of Christ experience doubt. Try sharing your feelings with friends and relatives, and ask faith leaders at your church for advice.
Keep in mind God's plan is beyond comprehension, Christian faith involves embracing mysteries that can't be understood through reason alone.
3-4. Respond to suffering and evil by helping others.
In addition to general doubts about spirituality, the problem of evil is a specific challenge all Christians face. You may feel your faith tested when, for instance, a natural disaster occurs or something terrible happens to a good person. Remember that this is an imperfect world and suffering, as difficult as it is, is part of life.
For Christians, suffering has an important purpose. Suffering connects us to others and helps us become better people. If you've suffered in the past, you're more able to help someone else who is suffering now.
Suppose, for example, your friend is upset because they were teased at school. If you had to deal with a bully in the past, you're in a better position to help your friend overcome the situation.
Tips
All Christians follow the teachings of Jesus, but different Christian denominations have slightly different beliefs and practices. Talk to your priest, minister, or other leaders at your church about your denomination's beliefs and style of worship.
Remember that faith is part of your personal relationship with God. Growing in faith doesn't mean flaunting how much you pray or go to church. In the Gospel of Matthew, Christ teaches that it's better to worship God quietly and with humility instead of boasting.
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Rather, it shows you want to deepen your faith, and it can help you gain knowledge and wisdom.\\nYou can also ask your priest or minister questions about your faith. For instance, if you want to know more about a passage in the Gospel or sermon, ask about it after the service. If you find teachings on Holy Communion confusing, ask about your tradition's beliefs and why different denominations hold unique views.\\n1-4. Volunteer\\nYour church can likely connect you with a range of service opportunities, such as at a soup kitchen, shelter, or nursing home. Community service can help you put Christ's teachings into practice.\\nIn the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus calls for Christians to feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked, shelter the homeless, visit the sick, visit the imprisoned, and bury the dead.\\n1-5. Attend spiritual retreats to deepen your relationship with God.\\nChurches typically offer retreats every now and then for members of the community to pray, reflect, and learn more about their faith. Retreats often involve trips to spiritual sites and activities such as meditation, singing, journaling, arts and crafts, and group discussions.\\nChristian schools, youth groups, and other organizations also host retreats. Ask your priest or minister or another leader at your church about upcoming retreats and how to participate.\\n2. Deepening Your Faith through Private Worship\\n2-1. Pray\\nCalm your mind, focus your thoughts, and open your heart up to God. When you're happy, say a prayer to express your gratitude to God. When you're sad, angry, or scared, pray for strength and guidance.\\nTo get into a prayerful state of mind, it's helpful to read a Bible passage or recite prayers such as the Lord's Prayer or Hail Mary.\\nThen, talk to God using your own words, like this: “Lord, I'm at a crossroad and need help making a decision. Please give me guidance and grant me the strength to follow your plan.”\\n2-2. Read and contemplate daily Bible passages.\\nTry to find time each day to carefully read a few verses from the Bible. Read the passage slowly and imagine the setting as vividly as you can. Concentrate on the verses' meaning and how you can apply the message to your daily life.\\nIf your church offers a Bible study group, sign up for it to read and discuss passages with your community and faith leaders.\\n2-3. Write daily and weekly entries in a reflection journal.\\nEach day, jot down things you did right and what you could have done better. Then, on Sunday, reflect on the past week's entries. Try to think of a spiritual goal for the upcoming week based on your past entries.\\nFor instance, if you were mean to someone last week, offering them a sincere apology could be your goal for the upcoming week.\\nExamining your conscience on a regular basis and setting spiritual goals can help you live according to Christ's teachings. It's a bit like developing other healthy habits, like physical exercise. If you exercise every day, it becomes part of your routine and you get in better shape over time.\\n2-4. Look for signs of God's presence in art and nature.\\nSpiritual music, visual art, and literature can offer powerful, emotional experiences of God. A painting, for instance, could help you reflect on a story from the Bible. 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If someone is peer pressuring you to do something that isn't right, have confidence in yourself, remember your values, and ask them to stop.\\nTry asking yourself, “What would Jesus do?” if you're feeling conflicted.\\nSaying the Serenity Prayer can also help you push through moments of temptation: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”\\n3-2. Confess your sins or seek your minister's counsel.\\nNo one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. In some denominations, such as Catholicism, the sacrament of Confession is an important part of overcoming your shortcomings. If you feel like you've turned away from God, confess your sins to your priest and ask God for forgiveness.\\nIf your denomination doesn't practice the sacrament of Confession, pray to God for forgiveness on your own and ask your priest or minister for advice about spiritual healing.\\n3-3. Embrace doubt as an opportunity to strengthen your faith.\\nDon't feel ashamed if you have questions about your spirituality. Even the most faithful followers of Christ experience doubt. Try sharing your feelings with friends and relatives, and ask faith leaders at your church for advice.\\nKeep in mind God's plan is beyond comprehension, Christian faith involves embracing mysteries that can't be understood through reason alone.\\n3-4. Respond to suffering and evil by helping others.\\nIn addition to general doubts about spirituality, the problem of evil is a specific challenge all Christians face. You may feel your faith tested when, for instance, a natural disaster occurs or something terrible happens to a good person. Remember that this is an imperfect world and suffering, as difficult as it is, is part of life.\\nFor Christians, suffering has an important purpose. Suffering connects us to others and helps us become better people. 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Catholicism, for instance, recognizes the additional sacraments of Confession (also called Penance or Reconciliation), Confirmation, Marriage, Holy Orders, and Anointing of the Sick.\\nWhile you receive some sacraments, such as Baptism and Confirmation, only once, others are celebrated regularly. For instance, after your First Communion, you receive Holy Communion every time you go to church.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Seize learning opportunities, such as Bible study and Sunday school.\", \"描述\": \"If a Scripture passage or church teaching is confusing, never be afraid to seek clarity. Needing to learn more and asking questions doesn't mean you're unfaithful. Rather, it shows you want to deepen your faith, and it can help you gain knowledge and wisdom.\\nYou can also ask your priest or minister questions about your faith. For instance, if you want to know more about a passage in the Gospel or sermon, ask about it after the service. 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Retreats often involve trips to spiritual sites and activities such as meditation, singing, journaling, arts and crafts, and group discussions.\\nChristian schools, youth groups, and other organizations also host retreats. Ask your priest or minister or another leader at your church about upcoming retreats and how to participate.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Deepening Your Faith through Private Worship\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Pray\", \"描述\": \"Calm your mind, focus your thoughts, and open your heart up to God. When you're happy, say a prayer to express your gratitude to God. When you're sad, angry, or scared, pray for strength and guidance.\\nTo get into a prayerful state of mind, it's helpful to read a Bible passage or recite prayers such as the Lord's Prayer or Hail Mary.\\nThen, talk to God using your own words, like this: “Lord, I'm at a crossroad and need help making a decision. Please give me guidance and grant me the strength to follow your plan.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Read and contemplate daily Bible passages.\", \"描述\": \"Try to find time each day to carefully read a few verses from the Bible. Read the passage slowly and imagine the setting as vividly as you can. Concentrate on the verses' meaning and how you can apply the message to your daily life.\\nIf your church offers a Bible study group, sign up for it to read and discuss passages with your community and faith leaders.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Write daily and weekly entries in a reflection journal.\", \"描述\": \"Each day, jot down things you did right and what you could have done better. Then, on Sunday, reflect on the past week's entries. Try to think of a spiritual goal for the upcoming week based on your past entries.\\nFor instance, if you were mean to someone last week, offering them a sincere apology could be your goal for the upcoming week.\\nExamining your conscience on a regular basis and setting spiritual goals can help you live according to Christ's teachings. It's a bit like developing other healthy habits, like physical exercise. If you exercise every day, it becomes part of your routine and you get in better shape over time.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Look for signs of God's presence in art and nature.\", \"描述\": \"Spiritual music, visual art, and literature can offer powerful, emotional experiences of God. A painting, for instance, could help you reflect on a story from the Bible. Nature's beauty, from the Grand Canyon to a lush forest, can also fill your heart with praise for the miracle of creation.\\nWhen you feel like your faith is being challenged, the beauty of art and nature can help remind you that God has created an incredible world and has a plan for you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Staying Committed to Your Faith\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Ask God for the strength to resist temptation.\", \"描述\": \"Everyone experiences temptation throughout their lives. When you feel tempted to do the wrong thing, pray for strength and try to find something to distract yourself. If someone is peer pressuring you to do something that isn't right, have confidence in yourself, remember your values, and ask them to stop.\\nTry asking yourself, “What would Jesus do?” if you're feeling conflicted.\\nSaying the Serenity Prayer can also help you push through moments of temptation: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Confess your sins or seek your minister's counsel.\", \"描述\": \"No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. In some denominations, such as Catholicism, the sacrament of Confession is an important part of overcoming your shortcomings. If you feel like you've turned away from God, confess your sins to your priest and ask God for forgiveness.\\nIf your denomination doesn't practice the sacrament of Confession, pray to God for forgiveness on your own and ask your priest or minister for advice about spiritual healing.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Embrace doubt as an opportunity to strengthen your faith.\", \"描述\": \"Don't feel ashamed if you have questions about your spirituality. Even the most faithful followers of Christ experience doubt. Try sharing your feelings with friends and relatives, and ask faith leaders at your church for advice.\\nKeep in mind God's plan is beyond comprehension, Christian faith involves embracing mysteries that can't be understood through reason alone.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Respond to suffering and evil by helping others.\", \"描述\": \"In addition to general doubts about spirituality, the problem of evil is a specific challenge all Christians face. 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1. Learning the Art of Acting
1-1. Sign up for acting classes or join a local acting studio.
Search online for classes offered by your community center or find an acting studios in your area. If you have no background in acting, this is a great way to meet other actors and actresses and learn the basics. Call the studio to see when the next class cycle starts and determine if it’s in your budget.
A good studio will show you the basics first. Any studio or teacher who boasts, or worse, promises, they can make you a “star.” should be avoided.
It may take years to develop and hone your acting skills, so don’t get discouraged if you aren’t a natural. Consider becoming an actress and focusing less on being famous.
1-2. Take drama in high school or secondary school.
If your secondary education option offers it, drama is a good way to begin acting early on. Acting requires you to understand complex scripts, memorize hundreds of lines, and have the ability to perform in front of an audience. Taking drama in high school, for example, will give you an introduction into many of these key acting areas. Make sure to audition or register, depending on what’s required.
Famous Actresses can be stars of stage or screen. Voice only work is common too such as radio or movie voiceover rolls.
Taking drama in school can improve interpersonal skills, as well as, mental, physical, and emotional development.
1-3. Determine if you prefer stage, film or TV acting.
Stage and screen acting are in very different environments. Stage acting is a performance in front of a live audience. You'll be given time to rehearse and learn lines more so than on film or in a television show. You’ll learn stage acting in high school drama, but some of these skills also translate to the screen.
Other differences include the ability to vocalize. Acting for television and film, utilizes microphones that are able to pick up minute sounds, while you need to resonate vocally on stage.
Costume changes often have to occur much quicker with stage acting.
1-4. Major in acting in college or another tertiary education option such as an acting school.
When looking for colleges or universities to attend, consider selecting an acting school. Some of the best schools for drama and the performing arts include The Juilliard School, Yale School of Drama, Carnegie Mellon University, and the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts.
Many of the top drama schools require an audition in order to be admitted.
Try building a strong portfolio and take all the roles you can get while you're in high school to increase your odds of getting into a performing arts college.
The competition for admission is often very fierce and includes filing a lot of paperwork.
1-5. Take opportunities to perform.
Don’t shy away from a role if a producer or director thinks you’re a fit for it. If your high-school drama teacher wants you to be the lead role in the play, take the opportunity. In order to build your skills and develop your talent, you need to actively perform in front of an audience.
You may have to perform in unpaid roles until you’re paid as a professional actress.
Try to take roles that challenge you and will give you a greater diversity of skill.
1-6. Keep physically fit and active.
Roles may require you to be in physically good shape to execute certain maneuvers or fit a certain image for production. Stage acting also takes physical prowess and endurance in order to continue vocalizing lines and doing actions on stage. By maintaining good physical health, you'll prevent casting directors from dismissing you because of the shape you're in.
You obviously don't have to be a size 0, but you need to stay healthy and be able of adapt your appearance.
Getting sick may also halt production if you've been cast in a critical role. Make sure to take vitamins and maintain a healthy and balanced diet.
Make sure to get enough sleep.
1-7. Learn new skills, like singing and dancing, to broaden your talent.
While it’s not necessary to learn how to dance, sing, or play an instrument in order to act, these skills will make broaden your range and make you more appealing to casting directors. See if you can take an extra class at a community center or get a special tutor to teach you these skills. Horse riding, archery, gymnastics, diving, martial arts, conjuring, juggling and circus skills are all performance skills that may increase your ability to become a famous actress.
Anna Kendrick, Kristen Bell, and Emmy Rossum can sing, dance and act.
If you want to become a famous musical star, then singing and dancing are usually a necessary talents to have.
1-8. Practice frequently to hone your skills.
A great way to see your own progress is by taping yourself everyday to see how your acting skills are developing. Once you’re done with your scene each day, go over the tape and write notes on things that you can do to improve. Practice audition scripts at home, and get friends who act to help you.
Choose scripts in a genre that you find specifically challenging like comedy, romance, or drama, and practice them to hone your versatility.
You can also do voice or movement specific exercises to improve specific aspects of your acting ability.
2. Getting Auditions
2-1. Get a headshot taken by a photographer.
A good headshot is critical to getting roles. Casting directors may see your headshot and call you in for auditions. Look online for photographers that specialize in headshots in your area and give them a call to schedule an appointment. Headshots exist to inform the casting director of your look, age, and who you are.
Professional level headshots can be expensive, but a high-end headshot will help you stand out from the crowd.
Be as natural as you can in your headshot—you want to look like the best version of yourself.
2-2. Hire an agent.
A good agent will have existing network connections in the industry and be able to get you auditions for roles that you wouldn't be able to get yourself. Set up meetings with management agencies and talk to different people in the industry to get referrals. Agents help you prepare for auditions and can impart useful knowledge about a career in acting to you. They may also help negotiate pay in some circumstances as well.
Many agents charge you 10% of your earnings. Be wary of any agent who charges more than 15-20%, as well as any agency that promises to make you famous in exchange for a flat fee.
Focus on applying with agencies that specialize in actors with a similar brand to yours. For instance, if you have a more intense look and you're hoping to break into horror films, look at agencies who've successfully helped other horror stars make it big.
Make sure to thoroughly look through any contract with an attorney or similar qualified professional before signing any agreements or contracts.
2-3. Surround yourself with other people in the acting industry.
Networking in the acting industry is critically important and it can help you land roles if you know the right people. Make sure to keep in touch with directors and other actors and actresses and you may be the first in mind for a specific role.
Remember to be pleasant and be easy to work with and talk with. If you get a bad reputation, it may make it harder for you to get auditions.
Many actors will continue to work with the same people through their career.
Never turn down the opportunity to attend a meeting to talk about a potential role or a new project someone is working on.
Try looking for opportunities to work on-set, like production assistant jobs. That could help you make connections that may lead to extra roles or even larger parts.
2-4. Remain persistent, even when you are rejected.
You won’t get all of the roles you audition for, but it doesn’t mean you should throw in the towel. Continue to hone your craft and network in the industry, and you’ll eventually you’ll be able to become a famous actress.
Matt Le Blanc struggled to land a role for years before he ended up on the hit show “Friends” in 1994.
If you keep getting rejected for the same roles, try to switch up the types of roles you’re auditioning for.
2-5. Attend agent workshops.
Agent workshops or showcases are opportunities for actors to showcase their skills in front of casting directors or producers. Actors attend these workshops and do read scripts to potentially land roles in the future.
Make sure that when you attend one of these workshops you’re dressed well and you’ve prepared a monologue.
2-6. Look for open casting calls in your area.
There are sometimes open opportunities for actors to land a role in a movie or play depending on where you live. Most open casting calls require the actor have a head shot, and a resume of past performance.
Check casting websites like Backstage, Actor's Access, Casting Networks, Project Casting, Casting Call Hub, Explore Talent, and Mandy to find casting calls and even opportunities to submit auditions online.
Starting as an extra will give you insight into film production and performance.
Don’t turn down opportunities to do commercials. Dakota Fanning, Farrah Fawcett, and Jodie Foster all starred in commercials before hitting the big screen.
3. Staying Relevant and Popular
3-1. Hone your craft by practicing.
Even after you’ve hit the big screen, it’s important that you improve over the duration of your career. That means learning from other actors, practicing your roles, and understanding screenwriting and characterization.
Method actresses completely embody the role, taking on the personality and life of the character they are playing. This makes the performance more organic.
As time changes, acting methods also change. Make sure to stay up on the latest trends and take advice from successful actors an actresses in the industry, even if they’re younger than you.
3-2. Be selective when choosing roles and pick good scripts.
An easy way for an actress to fade into obscurity is to select poor roles. Don’t rely on your agent to choose things for you and read every script before accepting a role. Refuse roles that may hurt your career in the future. Additionally, don’t take similar roles on in succession or else you may be typecast.
Be realistic with your acting range, and choose roles that you can be capable in.
Don’t take roles that make you feel uncomfortable or require nudity, foul language or what you consider to be an immoral message if you don’t want to.
3-3. Understand your fan base.
Once you have built a following, consider what it is that thrills your fans, what they like about you. Doing something vastly out of character could hurt your career, and make your fans turn on you. Staying to a succinct brand will retain many of your fans.
Even though humans don’t have one dimensional personalities, as a famous actress you will be a role model to girls and women across the globe.
3-4. Stay active and keep looking for new roles.
Because of how fast news and information is spread, it’s important that you stay in the forefront of people’s minds. Taking a couple of years off may mean people forget about you in that duration of time. Stay active and keep working. This may mean putting off relationships, having a family or developing a relationship.
Some actors create bonds with producers or directors and go on to make numerous movies with the same people.
3-5. Move to an acting focused city.
Moving to a city that has more auditioning opportunities available will mean that you’ll have more chances to find work. Keep in mind that this also means that the competition will be tougher in these areas. The best cities for acting include Los Angeles California, Baton Rouge Louisiana, Albuquerque New Mexico, Auckland, Mumbai etc. Research carefully if you are going to invest in relocating.
Being around other actresses will also allow you to network in the industry and learn new things.
In many acting centric cities the cost of living is higher than average.
3-6. Network through social media and YouTube.
Social media has allowed a greater connection between actresses and fans, and is a must if you want to stay relevant today. Make sure to maintain a succinct social media and work with your manager or agent to develop a good strategy. Digital video has also made it easier to come out with custom content, and delivering this to your fans for free will help grow your your fanbase and career.
Posting ignorant or negative things on social media can destroy your career. Make sure to work with your manager on what to say and not to say.
Don’t get in fights on social media because it will lower your brand.
Run videos that you post by your team to make sure that they will be liked by your fans.
Tips
Believe in yourself.
Be confident when you are auditioning for a role and when you're in front of casting directors or producers.
Prepare to be rejected many times for many different roles.
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Acting requires you to understand complex scripts, memorize hundreds of lines, and have the ability to perform in front of an audience. Taking drama in high school, for example, will give you an introduction into many of these key acting areas. Make sure to audition or register, depending on what’s required.\\nFamous Actresses can be stars of stage or screen. Voice only work is common too such as radio or movie voiceover rolls.\\nTaking drama in school can improve interpersonal skills, as well as, mental, physical, and emotional development.\\n1-3. Determine if you prefer stage, film or TV acting.\\nStage and screen acting are in very different environments. Stage acting is a performance in front of a live audience. You'll be given time to rehearse and learn lines more so than on film or in a television show. You’ll learn stage acting in high school drama, but some of these skills also translate to the screen.\\nOther differences include the ability to vocalize. Acting for television and film, utilizes microphones that are able to pick up minute sounds, while you need to resonate vocally on stage.\\nCostume changes often have to occur much quicker with stage acting.\\n1-4. Major in acting in college or another tertiary education option such as an acting school.\\nWhen looking for colleges or universities to attend, consider selecting an acting school. Some of the best schools for drama and the performing arts include The Juilliard School, Yale School of Drama, Carnegie Mellon University, and the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts.\\nMany of the top drama schools require an audition in order to be admitted.\\nTry building a strong portfolio and take all the roles you can get while you're in high school to increase your odds of getting into a performing arts college.\\nThe competition for admission is often very fierce and includes filing a lot of paperwork.\\n1-5. Take opportunities to perform.\\nDon’t shy away from a role if a producer or director thinks you’re a fit for it. If your high-school drama teacher wants you to be the lead role in the play, take the opportunity. In order to build your skills and develop your talent, you need to actively perform in front of an audience.\\nYou may have to perform in unpaid roles until you’re paid as a professional actress.\\nTry to take roles that challenge you and will give you a greater diversity of skill.\\n1-6. Keep physically fit and active.\\nRoles may require you to be in physically good shape to execute certain maneuvers or fit a certain image for production. Stage acting also takes physical prowess and endurance in order to continue vocalizing lines and doing actions on stage. By maintaining good physical health, you'll prevent casting directors from dismissing you because of the shape you're in.\\nYou obviously don't have to be a size 0, but you need to stay healthy and be able of adapt your appearance.\\nGetting sick may also halt production if you've been cast in a critical role. Make sure to take vitamins and maintain a healthy and balanced diet.\\nMake sure to get enough sleep.\\n1-7. Learn new skills, like singing and dancing, to broaden your talent.\\nWhile it’s not necessary to learn how to dance, sing, or play an instrument in order to act, these skills will make broaden your range and make you more appealing to casting directors. See if you can take an extra class at a community center or get a special tutor to teach you these skills. Horse riding, archery, gymnastics, diving, martial arts, conjuring, juggling and circus skills are all performance skills that may increase your ability to become a famous actress.\\nAnna Kendrick, Kristen Bell, and Emmy Rossum can sing, dance and act.\\nIf you want to become a famous musical star, then singing and dancing are usually a necessary talents to have.\\n1-8. Practice frequently to hone your skills.\\nA great way to see your own progress is by taping yourself everyday to see how your acting skills are developing. Once you’re done with your scene each day, go over the tape and write notes on things that you can do to improve. Practice audition scripts at home, and get friends who act to help you.\\nChoose scripts in a genre that you find specifically challenging like comedy, romance, or drama, and practice them to hone your versatility.\\nYou can also do voice or movement specific exercises to improve specific aspects of your acting ability.\\n2. Getting Auditions\\n2-1. Get a headshot taken by a photographer.\\nA good headshot is critical to getting roles. Casting directors may see your headshot and call you in for auditions. Look online for photographers that specialize in headshots in your area and give them a call to schedule an appointment. Headshots exist to inform the casting director of your look, age, and who you are.\\nProfessional level headshots can be expensive, but a high-end headshot will help you stand out from the crowd.\\nBe as natural as you can in your headshot—you want to look like the best version of yourself.\\n2-2. Hire an agent.\\nA good agent will have existing network connections in the industry and be able to get you auditions for roles that you wouldn't be able to get yourself. Set up meetings with management agencies and talk to different people in the industry to get referrals. Agents help you prepare for auditions and can impart useful knowledge about a career in acting to you. They may also help negotiate pay in some circumstances as well.\\nMany agents charge you 10% of your earnings. Be wary of any agent who charges more than 15-20%, as well as any agency that promises to make you famous in exchange for a flat fee.\\nFocus on applying with agencies that specialize in actors with a similar brand to yours. For instance, if you have a more intense look and you're hoping to break into horror films, look at agencies who've successfully helped other horror stars make it big.\\nMake sure to thoroughly look through any contract with an attorney or similar qualified professional before signing any agreements or contracts.\\n2-3. Surround yourself with other people in the acting industry.\\nNetworking in the acting industry is critically important and it can help you land roles if you know the right people. Make sure to keep in touch with directors and other actors and actresses and you may be the first in mind for a specific role.\\nRemember to be pleasant and be easy to work with and talk with. If you get a bad reputation, it may make it harder for you to get auditions.\\nMany actors will continue to work with the same people through their career.\\nNever turn down the opportunity to attend a meeting to talk about a potential role or a new project someone is working on.\\nTry looking for opportunities to work on-set, like production assistant jobs. That could help you make connections that may lead to extra roles or even larger parts.\\n2-4. Remain persistent, even when you are rejected.\\nYou won’t get all of the roles you audition for, but it doesn’t mean you should throw in the towel. Continue to hone your craft and network in the industry, and you’ll eventually you’ll be able to become a famous actress.\\nMatt Le Blanc struggled to land a role for years before he ended up on the hit show “Friends” in 1994.\\nIf you keep getting rejected for the same roles, try to switch up the types of roles you’re auditioning for.\\n2-5. Attend agent workshops.\\nAgent workshops or showcases are opportunities for actors to showcase their skills in front of casting directors or producers. Actors attend these workshops and do read scripts to potentially land roles in the future.\\nMake sure that when you attend one of these workshops you’re dressed well and you’ve prepared a monologue.\\n2-6. Look for open casting calls in your area.\\nThere are sometimes open opportunities for actors to land a role in a movie or play depending on where you live. Most open casting calls require the actor have a head shot, and a resume of past performance.\\nCheck casting websites like Backstage, Actor's Access, Casting Networks, Project Casting, Casting Call Hub, Explore Talent, and Mandy to find casting calls and even opportunities to submit auditions online.\\nStarting as an extra will give you insight into film production and performance.\\nDon’t turn down opportunities to do commercials. Dakota Fanning, Farrah Fawcett, and Jodie Foster all starred in commercials before hitting the big screen.\\n3. Staying Relevant and Popular\\n3-1. Hone your craft by practicing.\\nEven after you’ve hit the big screen, it’s important that you improve over the duration of your career. That means learning from other actors, practicing your roles, and understanding screenwriting and characterization.\\nMethod actresses completely embody the role, taking on the personality and life of the character they are playing. This makes the performance more organic.\\nAs time changes, acting methods also change. Make sure to stay up on the latest trends and take advice from successful actors an actresses in the industry, even if they’re younger than you.\\n3-2. Be selective when choosing roles and pick good scripts.\\nAn easy way for an actress to fade into obscurity is to select poor roles. Don’t rely on your agent to choose things for you and read every script before accepting a role. Refuse roles that may hurt your career in the future. Additionally, don’t take similar roles on in succession or else you may be typecast.\\nBe realistic with your acting range, and choose roles that you can be capable in.\\nDon’t take roles that make you feel uncomfortable or require nudity, foul language or what you consider to be an immoral message if you don’t want to.\\n3-3. Understand your fan base.\\nOnce you have built a following, consider what it is that thrills your fans, what they like about you. Doing something vastly out of character could hurt your career, and make your fans turn on you. Staying to a succinct brand will retain many of your fans.\\nEven though humans don’t have one dimensional personalities, as a famous actress you will be a role model to girls and women across the globe.\\n3-4. Stay active and keep looking for new roles.\\nBecause of how fast news and information is spread, it’s important that you stay in the forefront of people’s minds. Taking a couple of years off may mean people forget about you in that duration of time. Stay active and keep working. This may mean putting off relationships, having a family or developing a relationship.\\nSome actors create bonds with producers or directors and go on to make numerous movies with the same people.\\n3-5. Move to an acting focused city.\\nMoving to a city that has more auditioning opportunities available will mean that you’ll have more chances to find work. Keep in mind that this also means that the competition will be tougher in these areas. The best cities for acting include Los Angeles California, Baton Rouge Louisiana, Albuquerque New Mexico, Auckland, Mumbai etc. Research carefully if you are going to invest in relocating.\\nBeing around other actresses will also allow you to network in the industry and learn new things.\\nIn many acting centric cities the cost of living is higher than average.\\n3-6. Network through social media and YouTube.\\nSocial media has allowed a greater connection between actresses and fans, and is a must if you want to stay relevant today. Make sure to maintain a succinct social media and work with your manager or agent to develop a good strategy. Digital video has also made it easier to come out with custom content, and delivering this to your fans for free will help grow your your fanbase and career.\\nPosting ignorant or negative things on social media can destroy your career. Make sure to work with your manager on what to say and not to say.\\nDon’t get in fights on social media because it will lower your brand.\\nRun videos that you post by your team to make sure that they will be liked by your fans.\\nTips\\nBelieve in yourself.\\nBe confident when you are auditioning for a role and when you're in front of casting directors or producers.\\nPrepare to be rejected many times for many different roles.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Becoming a famous actress is a dream for many, but only a few are able to actually accomplish stardom. Becoming a famous actress means being up against immense competition, and is one of the most competitive industries that exists. Making yourself known to the masses and maintaining a successful acting career is hard work and takes dedication, passion, and a little luck. However, If you have the right strategy and follow through, fame is obtainable.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learning the Art of Acting\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Sign up for acting classes or join a local acting studio.\", \"描述\": \"Search online for classes offered by your community center or find an acting studios in your area. If you have no background in acting, this is a great way to meet other actors and actresses and learn the basics. Call the studio to see when the next class cycle starts and determine if it’s in your budget.\\nA good studio will show you the basics first. Any studio or teacher who boasts, or worse, promises, they can make you a “star.” should be avoided.\\nIt may take years to develop and hone your acting skills, so don’t get discouraged if you aren’t a natural. Consider becoming an actress and focusing less on being famous.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Take drama in high school or secondary school.\", \"描述\": \"If your secondary education option offers it, drama is a good way to begin acting early on. Acting requires you to understand complex scripts, memorize hundreds of lines, and have the ability to perform in front of an audience. Taking drama in high school, for example, will give you an introduction into many of these key acting areas. Make sure to audition or register, depending on what’s required.\\nFamous Actresses can be stars of stage or screen. Voice only work is common too such as radio or movie voiceover rolls.\\nTaking drama in school can improve interpersonal skills, as well as, mental, physical, and emotional development.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Determine if you prefer stage, film or TV acting.\", \"描述\": \"Stage and screen acting are in very different environments. Stage acting is a performance in front of a live audience. You'll be given time to rehearse and learn lines more so than on film or in a television show. You’ll learn stage acting in high school drama, but some of these skills also translate to the screen.\\nOther differences include the ability to vocalize. Acting for television and film, utilizes microphones that are able to pick up minute sounds, while you need to resonate vocally on stage.\\nCostume changes often have to occur much quicker with stage acting.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Major in acting in college or another tertiary education option such as an acting school.\", \"描述\": \"When looking for colleges or universities to attend, consider selecting an acting school. Some of the best schools for drama and the performing arts include The Juilliard School, Yale School of Drama, Carnegie Mellon University, and the London Academy of Music and Dramatic Arts.\\nMany of the top drama schools require an audition in order to be admitted.\\nTry building a strong portfolio and take all the roles you can get while you're in high school to increase your odds of getting into a performing arts college.\\nThe competition for admission is often very fierce and includes filing a lot of paperwork.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Take opportunities to perform.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t shy away from a role if a producer or director thinks you’re a fit for it. If your high-school drama teacher wants you to be the lead role in the play, take the opportunity. In order to build your skills and develop your talent, you need to actively perform in front of an audience.\\nYou may have to perform in unpaid roles until you’re paid as a professional actress.\\nTry to take roles that challenge you and will give you a greater diversity of skill.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Keep physically fit and active.\", \"描述\": \"Roles may require you to be in physically good shape to execute certain maneuvers or fit a certain image for production. Stage acting also takes physical prowess and endurance in order to continue vocalizing lines and doing actions on stage. By maintaining good physical health, you'll prevent casting directors from dismissing you because of the shape you're in.\\nYou obviously don't have to be a size 0, but you need to stay healthy and be able of adapt your appearance.\\nGetting sick may also halt production if you've been cast in a critical role. Make sure to take vitamins and maintain a healthy and balanced diet.\\nMake sure to get enough sleep.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Learn new skills, like singing and dancing, to broaden your talent.\", \"描述\": \"While it’s not necessary to learn how to dance, sing, or play an instrument in order to act, these skills will make broaden your range and make you more appealing to casting directors. See if you can take an extra class at a community center or get a special tutor to teach you these skills. Horse riding, archery, gymnastics, diving, martial arts, conjuring, juggling and circus skills are all performance skills that may increase your ability to become a famous actress.\\nAnna Kendrick, Kristen Bell, and Emmy Rossum can sing, dance and act.\\nIf you want to become a famous musical star, then singing and dancing are usually a necessary talents to have.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Practice frequently to hone your skills.\", \"描述\": \"A great way to see your own progress is by taping yourself everyday to see how your acting skills are developing. Once you’re done with your scene each day, go over the tape and write notes on things that you can do to improve. Practice audition scripts at home, and get friends who act to help you.\\nChoose scripts in a genre that you find specifically challenging like comedy, romance, or drama, and practice them to hone your versatility.\\nYou can also do voice or movement specific exercises to improve specific aspects of your acting ability.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Getting Auditions\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get a headshot taken by a photographer.\", \"描述\": \"A good headshot is critical to getting roles. Casting directors may see your headshot and call you in for auditions. Look online for photographers that specialize in headshots in your area and give them a call to schedule an appointment. Headshots exist to inform the casting director of your look, age, and who you are.\\nProfessional level headshots can be expensive, but a high-end headshot will help you stand out from the crowd.\\nBe as natural as you can in your headshot—you want to look like the best version of yourself.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Hire an agent.\", \"描述\": \"A good agent will have existing network connections in the industry and be able to get you auditions for roles that you wouldn't be able to get yourself. Set up meetings with management agencies and talk to different people in the industry to get referrals. Agents help you prepare for auditions and can impart useful knowledge about a career in acting to you. They may also help negotiate pay in some circumstances as well.\\nMany agents charge you 10% of your earnings. Be wary of any agent who charges more than 15-20%, as well as any agency that promises to make you famous in exchange for a flat fee.\\nFocus on applying with agencies that specialize in actors with a similar brand to yours. For instance, if you have a more intense look and you're hoping to break into horror films, look at agencies who've successfully helped other horror stars make it big.\\nMake sure to thoroughly look through any contract with an attorney or similar qualified professional before signing any agreements or contracts.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Surround yourself with other people in the acting industry.\", \"描述\": \"Networking in the acting industry is critically important and it can help you land roles if you know the right people. Make sure to keep in touch with directors and other actors and actresses and you may be the first in mind for a specific role.\\nRemember to be pleasant and be easy to work with and talk with. If you get a bad reputation, it may make it harder for you to get auditions.\\nMany actors will continue to work with the same people through their career.\\nNever turn down the opportunity to attend a meeting to talk about a potential role or a new project someone is working on.\\nTry looking for opportunities to work on-set, like production assistant jobs. That could help you make connections that may lead to extra roles or even larger parts.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Remain persistent, even when you are rejected.\", \"描述\": \"You won’t get all of the roles you audition for, but it doesn’t mean you should throw in the towel. Continue to hone your craft and network in the industry, and you’ll eventually you’ll be able to become a famous actress.\\nMatt Le Blanc struggled to land a role for years before he ended up on the hit show “Friends” in 1994.\\nIf you keep getting rejected for the same roles, try to switch up the types of roles you’re auditioning for.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Attend agent workshops.\", \"描述\": \"Agent workshops or showcases are opportunities for actors to showcase their skills in front of casting directors or producers. Actors attend these workshops and do read scripts to potentially land roles in the future.\\nMake sure that when you attend one of these workshops you’re dressed well and you’ve prepared a monologue.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Look for open casting calls in your area.\", \"描述\": \"There are sometimes open opportunities for actors to land a role in a movie or play depending on where you live. Most open casting calls require the actor have a head shot, and a resume of past performance.\\nCheck casting websites like Backstage, Actor's Access, Casting Networks, Project Casting, Casting Call Hub, Explore Talent, and Mandy to find casting calls and even opportunities to submit auditions online.\\nStarting as an extra will give you insight into film production and performance.\\nDon’t turn down opportunities to do commercials. Dakota Fanning, Farrah Fawcett, and Jodie Foster all starred in commercials before hitting the big screen.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Staying Relevant and Popular\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Hone your craft by practicing.\", \"描述\": \"Even after you’ve hit the big screen, it’s important that you improve over the duration of your career. That means learning from other actors, practicing your roles, and understanding screenwriting and characterization.\\nMethod actresses completely embody the role, taking on the personality and life of the character they are playing. This makes the performance more organic.\\nAs time changes, acting methods also change. Make sure to stay up on the latest trends and take advice from successful actors an actresses in the industry, even if they’re younger than you.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be selective when choosing roles and pick good scripts.\", \"描述\": \"An easy way for an actress to fade into obscurity is to select poor roles. Don’t rely on your agent to choose things for you and read every script before accepting a role. Refuse roles that may hurt your career in the future. Additionally, don’t take similar roles on in succession or else you may be typecast.\\nBe realistic with your acting range, and choose roles that you can be capable in.\\nDon’t take roles that make you feel uncomfortable or require nudity, foul language or what you consider to be an immoral message if you don’t want to.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Understand your fan base.\", \"描述\": \"Once you have built a following, consider what it is that thrills your fans, what they like about you. Doing something vastly out of character could hurt your career, and make your fans turn on you. Staying to a succinct brand will retain many of your fans.\\nEven though humans don’t have one dimensional personalities, as a famous actress you will be a role model to girls and women across the globe.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stay active and keep looking for new roles.\", \"描述\": \"Because of how fast news and information is spread, it’s important that you stay in the forefront of people’s minds. Taking a couple of years off may mean people forget about you in that duration of time. Stay active and keep working. This may mean putting off relationships, having a family or developing a relationship.\\nSome actors create bonds with producers or directors and go on to make numerous movies with the same people.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Move to an acting focused city.\", \"描述\": \"Moving to a city that has more auditioning opportunities available will mean that you’ll have more chances to find work. Keep in mind that this also means that the competition will be tougher in these areas. The best cities for acting include Los Angeles California, Baton Rouge Louisiana, Albuquerque New Mexico, Auckland, Mumbai etc. Research carefully if you are going to invest in relocating.\\nBeing around other actresses will also allow you to network in the industry and learn new things.\\nIn many acting centric cities the cost of living is higher than average.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Network through social media and YouTube.\", \"描述\": \"Social media has allowed a greater connection between actresses and fans, and is a must if you want to stay relevant today. Make sure to maintain a succinct social media and work with your manager or agent to develop a good strategy. Digital video has also made it easier to come out with custom content, and delivering this to your fans for free will help grow your your fanbase and career.\\nPosting ignorant or negative things on social media can destroy your career. Make sure to work with your manager on what to say and not to say.\\nDon’t get in fights on social media because it will lower your brand.\\nRun videos that you post by your team to make sure that they will be liked by your fans.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Believe in yourself.\\n\", \"Be confident when you are auditioning for a role and when you're in front of casting directors or producers.\\n\", \"Prepare to be rejected many times for many different roles.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Mastering Rap
1-1. Study the rhyming styles of legendary hip hop artists.
Rap has evolved over the decades in not only the type of content that rappers talk about in their lyrics, but the way lyrics are strung together and delivered. Study the delivery of greats like Tupac Shakur, Notorious BIG, Nas, Grandmaster Flash, Rakim, Jay-Z, Eminem and the Wu-Tang Clan to get an understanding of different rhyming styles.
You can also get inspired by what's currently popular with artists like Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, and Nicki Minaj.
Delivery is almost as important as the lyrics themselves. Take note on how some rappers delivery is faster, slower, smoother, or harsher than others.
Study the wordplay and context of songs. Look for double meanings and puns so you can incorporate these things into your lyrics.
Remain original, but draw from the skills of artists that came before you. You don't have to sound the same, but you must understand why and how they made music.
1-2. Master the various rhyming schemes that exist.
Different rhyming schemes are available to rappers, from AABB to AXXA. These rhyming styles dictate which words rhyme in your lyrics. Study them and develop your rhyming versatility.
Most verses in rap songs are "16 bars" or 4 sets of 4 lines of lyrics in a song.
Start with simple rhyming schemes like ABAB and build up to include more complex rhymes.
An example of an ABAB rhyme is "That cat, over there, in the hat, on the bear." The last word in the first and third lines rhyme as well as the last word in the second and fourth line.
Some rhymes are known as half-rhymes if they have similar sounding ending consonant sounds but do not fully rhyme. An example would be "bald" and "held."
1-3. Build up your rhyming ability but keep it catchy.
Some artists get so complex and into their art that they forget that it must also appeal to the general audience. As you build up your lyrical skills, make sure to keep the listener in mind and don't get too fancy or else you may lose fans.
Taking risks are a part of being a popular artist, but sometimes you can lose fans if they don't like the direction you're going in.
Just because a song is catchy does not mean that it has to lack substance.
1-4. Have the ability to deliver a good hook.
The hook is the part of the song that is often repeated and is the portion of the track that's usually most remembered by fans. For other genres of music, this is typically referred to as the chorus. Having a good hook in a song is incredibly important if you want it to be popular. The hook should be catchy, memorable, and should embody the song.
A popular hook from the past is Chamillionaire's "Ridin Dirty." "They see me rollin', they hatin', Patrollin' and tryna catch me ridin' dirty. Tryna catch me ridin' dirty."
If you aren't a singer or aren't good with hooks, consider collaborating with an R&B singer who would be better equipped.
Think of something that helps support the verses in your songs.
1-5. Never stop practicing to stay sharp on your wordplay.
Regardless of how popular or famous you get, it's important to stay on the top of your game. Rapping is a skill that requires discipline and practice so make sure to regularly practice to work out your rapping abilities.
Take every opportunity to show other people your songs and get feedback.
Practice in front of the mirror, while you're in the car, or taking a walk.
2. Creating Music
2-1. Write original songs that illicit an emotional response.
While copying popular or iconic music may get you a small amount of success, it will never make you as popular as the artist that you're trying to be. It's important to draw from personal circumstances, events, and emotions from your life and the lives of people around you.
If you've been through tough times it is likely people have shared similar experiences. Being open and genuine will affect people more than copying a lifestyle you've never lived.
Try to mix up your catalog of music. Don't always rap about the same thing and make sure your songs don't all share the same mood. Showing a range of emotion will allow you to connect to more fans.
2-2. Collaborate with producers to create full songs.
Unless you plan on mixing and creating your own beats, you'll most likely have to meet a producer that's already good at it. Try to get producers that have created successful songs in the past, and meet with them so that they can cater their beats to your unique style and voice.
Talk to other rappers to find local producers that would be willing to collaborate.
Send local recording studios a demo of your music if you're still unable to find a producer in your personal network.
If you can't find a producer, consider learning how to create your own beats or use royalty free music.
2-3. Record music in a studio.
A music studio will be able to refine, mix, and remaster the music that you make. In addition, they will have the hardware and equipment, like mixers and mics, to make sure that the best quality music is produced. Call a local studio and ask for rates and schedule a time to record.
Make sure to have a game plan before going into the studio. Studios usually charge an hourly fee, so wasting time is not smart.
Some musicians record in their bedroom, but it requires skill and knowledge on how to mix sound. You will also likely need expensive equipment like a powerful laptop and a good microphone in order to create high-quality music.
2-4. Upload your songs and create videos on YouTube and Soundcloud.
You can only become famous if your music is popular, which means people need to be able to listen to it. Before you get signed to a label or release a record, exposure online can be an early springboard towards success. Partnering up with a video producer to create a music video can also help get your music out there.
Artists like Soulja Boy and Macklemore got their start on YouTube.
2-5. Develop your own style.
Being a top rapper means that you can be innovative, genuine, and likable over the long run. Developing your own unique style and sound is critical to standing out from the crowd. Take the unique aspects from your personality and integrate that into your music, and never stray away from what makes you different and unique.
Artists like J. Cole and Kendrick Lamar are different than most of the rap mainstream due to their lyrical content and production, but were able to pick up multiple Grammy nominations.
3. Networking
3-1. Play local shows or open for bigger artists.
When you're first starting off, you're probably not going to be headlining your own show. It's important to get performing experience before you being to play in front of a large audience. Hang around local venues and get to know the staff there. Ask the talent manager or booking agent there if you can open for other hip hop acts.
Talk to other local artists. If you become their friend, they may want you to open for their shows.
3-2. Hire a manager to take on booking responsibilities.
If you're not able to book any shows, then a manager may help in directing your career. They can use their pre-existing relationships with venue owners and people in the industry in order to get your foot in the door.
Managers typically take 15% -20% of the income that you generate.
Before you hire a manager, make sure that you've exhausted your own personal networking connections to land gigs.
3-3. Keep good relationships with people in the music industry.
Getting into personal arguments with other people in the music industry will most likely come back to hurt you. Don't do anything that violates your own personal set of ethics, but try to maintain good relationships by remaining respectful and not spreading rumors or holding grudges against those that you work with.
3-4. Have a strong social media presence.
Social media has given the ability for artists and rappers to directly communicate with their fans and has completely revolutionized the rapper and fan relationship. Staying active and relevant on social media will allow you to hype new tracks and promote your music, as well as stay in touch with the people listening to your songs.
Try to stay away from arguments or starting "beef" with other musicians unless it advances your career.
Be careful about what you post because it could ruin your career.
3-5. Merchandise your brand.
Branching out and merchandising your brand will give you another revenue stream and will increase your exposure to the general public. Many of the most famous rappers have merchandised in some way over the span of their careers.
Popular rap driven clothing brands include Drake's OVO apparel, Kanye West’s "Yeezus" and "Life of Pablo" merchandise, and Yung Lean's SBE Gear.
Dr. Dre owns Beats Music and Beats which increased his net worth to $800 million.
Merchandising will get people who don't like rap aware of your brand.
3-6. Stay relevant and do research on new music.
Musical evolution is critical, especially in the case of hip-hop and rap. As you age, it becomes harder for you to stay relevant, so you must be up on the latest trends in the rap industry. Integrate what's popular into your music and make it your own.
Don't be judgmental of younger rappers if you don't get why they are popular. Instead, try to see the perspective of the fans and figure out the aspects that make it sell.
Do not get stuck in your ways when you're rapping. Rap has evolved and will continue to evolve with or without you.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Mastering Rap\\n1-1. Study the rhyming styles of legendary hip hop artists.\\nRap has evolved over the decades in not only the type of content that rappers talk about in their lyrics, but the way lyrics are strung together and delivered. Study the delivery of greats like Tupac Shakur, Notorious BIG, Nas, Grandmaster Flash, Rakim, Jay-Z, Eminem and the Wu-Tang Clan to get an understanding of different rhyming styles.\\nYou can also get inspired by what's currently popular with artists like Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, and Nicki Minaj.\\nDelivery is almost as important as the lyrics themselves. Take note on how some rappers delivery is faster, slower, smoother, or harsher than others.\\nStudy the wordplay and context of songs. Look for double meanings and puns so you can incorporate these things into your lyrics.\\nRemain original, but draw from the skills of artists that came before you. You don't have to sound the same, but you must understand why and how they made music.\\n1-2. Master the various rhyming schemes that exist.\\nDifferent rhyming schemes are available to rappers, from AABB to AXXA. These rhyming styles dictate which words rhyme in your lyrics. Study them and develop your rhyming versatility.\\nMost verses in rap songs are \\\"16 bars\\\" or 4 sets of 4 lines of lyrics in a song.\\nStart with simple rhyming schemes like ABAB and build up to include more complex rhymes.\\nAn example of an ABAB rhyme is \\\"That cat, over there, in the hat, on the bear.\\\" The last word in the first and third lines rhyme as well as the last word in the second and fourth line.\\nSome rhymes are known as half-rhymes if they have similar sounding ending consonant sounds but do not fully rhyme. An example would be \\\"bald\\\" and \\\"held.\\\"\\n1-3. Build up your rhyming ability but keep it catchy.\\nSome artists get so complex and into their art that they forget that it must also appeal to the general audience. As you build up your lyrical skills, make sure to keep the listener in mind and don't get too fancy or else you may lose fans.\\nTaking risks are a part of being a popular artist, but sometimes you can lose fans if they don't like the direction you're going in.\\nJust because a song is catchy does not mean that it has to lack substance.\\n1-4. Have the ability to deliver a good hook.\\nThe hook is the part of the song that is often repeated and is the portion of the track that's usually most remembered by fans. For other genres of music, this is typically referred to as the chorus. Having a good hook in a song is incredibly important if you want it to be popular. The hook should be catchy, memorable, and should embody the song.\\nA popular hook from the past is Chamillionaire's \\\"Ridin Dirty.\\\" \\\"They see me rollin', they hatin', Patrollin' and tryna catch me ridin' dirty. Tryna catch me ridin' dirty.\\\"\\nIf you aren't a singer or aren't good with hooks, consider collaborating with an R&B singer who would be better equipped.\\nThink of something that helps support the verses in your songs.\\n1-5. Never stop practicing to stay sharp on your wordplay.\\nRegardless of how popular or famous you get, it's important to stay on the top of your game. Rapping is a skill that requires discipline and practice so make sure to regularly practice to work out your rapping abilities.\\nTake every opportunity to show other people your songs and get feedback.\\nPractice in front of the mirror, while you're in the car, or taking a walk.\\n2. Creating Music\\n2-1. Write original songs that illicit an emotional response.\\nWhile copying popular or iconic music may get you a small amount of success, it will never make you as popular as the artist that you're trying to be. It's important to draw from personal circumstances, events, and emotions from your life and the lives of people around you.\\nIf you've been through tough times it is likely people have shared similar experiences. Being open and genuine will affect people more than copying a lifestyle you've never lived.\\nTry to mix up your catalog of music. Don't always rap about the same thing and make sure your songs don't all share the same mood. Showing a range of emotion will allow you to connect to more fans.\\n2-2. Collaborate with producers to create full songs.\\nUnless you plan on mixing and creating your own beats, you'll most likely have to meet a producer that's already good at it. Try to get producers that have created successful songs in the past, and meet with them so that they can cater their beats to your unique style and voice.\\nTalk to other rappers to find local producers that would be willing to collaborate.\\nSend local recording studios a demo of your music if you're still unable to find a producer in your personal network.\\nIf you can't find a producer, consider learning how to create your own beats or use royalty free music.\\n2-3. Record music in a studio.\\nA music studio will be able to refine, mix, and remaster the music that you make. In addition, they will have the hardware and equipment, like mixers and mics, to make sure that the best quality music is produced. Call a local studio and ask for rates and schedule a time to record.\\nMake sure to have a game plan before going into the studio. Studios usually charge an hourly fee, so wasting time is not smart.\\nSome musicians record in their bedroom, but it requires skill and knowledge on how to mix sound. You will also likely need expensive equipment like a powerful laptop and a good microphone in order to create high-quality music.\\n2-4. Upload your songs and create videos on YouTube and Soundcloud.\\nYou can only become famous if your music is popular, which means people need to be able to listen to it. Before you get signed to a label or release a record, exposure online can be an early springboard towards success. Partnering up with a video producer to create a music video can also help get your music out there.\\nArtists like Soulja Boy and Macklemore got their start on YouTube.\\n2-5. Develop your own style.\\nBeing a top rapper means that you can be innovative, genuine, and likable over the long run. Developing your own unique style and sound is critical to standing out from the crowd. Take the unique aspects from your personality and integrate that into your music, and never stray away from what makes you different and unique.\\nArtists like J. Cole and Kendrick Lamar are different than most of the rap mainstream due to their lyrical content and production, but were able to pick up multiple Grammy nominations.\\n3. Networking\\n3-1. Play local shows or open for bigger artists.\\nWhen you're first starting off, you're probably not going to be headlining your own show. It's important to get performing experience before you being to play in front of a large audience. Hang around local venues and get to know the staff there. Ask the talent manager or booking agent there if you can open for other hip hop acts.\\nTalk to other local artists. If you become their friend, they may want you to open for their shows.\\n3-2. Hire a manager to take on booking responsibilities.\\nIf you're not able to book any shows, then a manager may help in directing your career. They can use their pre-existing relationships with venue owners and people in the industry in order to get your foot in the door.\\nManagers typically take 15% -20% of the income that you generate.\\nBefore you hire a manager, make sure that you've exhausted your own personal networking connections to land gigs.\\n3-3. Keep good relationships with people in the music industry.\\nGetting into personal arguments with other people in the music industry will most likely come back to hurt you. Don't do anything that violates your own personal set of ethics, but try to maintain good relationships by remaining respectful and not spreading rumors or holding grudges against those that you work with.\\n3-4. Have a strong social media presence.\\nSocial media has given the ability for artists and rappers to directly communicate with their fans and has completely revolutionized the rapper and fan relationship. Staying active and relevant on social media will allow you to hype new tracks and promote your music, as well as stay in touch with the people listening to your songs.\\nTry to stay away from arguments or starting \\\"beef\\\" with other musicians unless it advances your career.\\nBe careful about what you post because it could ruin your career.\\n3-5. Merchandise your brand.\\nBranching out and merchandising your brand will give you another revenue stream and will increase your exposure to the general public. Many of the most famous rappers have merchandised in some way over the span of their careers.\\nPopular rap driven clothing brands include Drake's OVO apparel, Kanye West’s \\\"Yeezus\\\" and \\\"Life of Pablo\\\" merchandise, and Yung Lean's SBE Gear.\\nDr. Dre owns Beats Music and Beats which increased his net worth to $800 million.\\nMerchandising will get people who don't like rap aware of your brand.\\n3-6. Stay relevant and do research on new music.\\nMusical evolution is critical, especially in the case of hip-hop and rap. As you age, it becomes harder for you to stay relevant, so you must be up on the latest trends in the rap industry. Integrate what's popular into your music and make it your own.\\nDon't be judgmental of younger rappers if you don't get why they are popular. Instead, try to see the perspective of the fans and figure out the aspects that make it sell.\\nDo not get stuck in your ways when you're rapping. Rap has evolved and will continue to evolve with or without you.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Rap originated in 1970s New York as a combination of funk, soul, and disco. Since then, it has gone through several transformations and have made some artists wealthy and famous. Becoming a famous rapper is easier said than done, with thousands of young and talented artists hoping to make it big. While there's no guarantee you can become a famous rapper by following a set of guidelines, there are things that you can do to grow your career and refine your skills to increase your chances of being known for your music.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Mastering Rap\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Study the rhyming styles of legendary hip hop artists.\", \"描述\": \"Rap has evolved over the decades in not only the type of content that rappers talk about in their lyrics, but the way lyrics are strung together and delivered. Study the delivery of greats like Tupac Shakur, Notorious BIG, Nas, Grandmaster Flash, Rakim, Jay-Z, Eminem and the Wu-Tang Clan to get an understanding of different rhyming styles.\\nYou can also get inspired by what's currently popular with artists like Kendrick Lamar, J. Cole, and Nicki Minaj.\\nDelivery is almost as important as the lyrics themselves. Take note on how some rappers delivery is faster, slower, smoother, or harsher than others.\\nStudy the wordplay and context of songs. Look for double meanings and puns so you can incorporate these things into your lyrics.\\nRemain original, but draw from the skills of artists that came before you. You don't have to sound the same, but you must understand why and how they made music.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Master the various rhyming schemes that exist.\", \"描述\": \"Different rhyming schemes are available to rappers, from AABB to AXXA. These rhyming styles dictate which words rhyme in your lyrics. Study them and develop your rhyming versatility.\\nMost verses in rap songs are \\\"16 bars\\\" or 4 sets of 4 lines of lyrics in a song.\\nStart with simple rhyming schemes like ABAB and build up to include more complex rhymes.\\nAn example of an ABAB rhyme is \\\"That cat, over there, in the hat, on the bear.\\\" The last word in the first and third lines rhyme as well as the last word in the second and fourth line.\\nSome rhymes are known as half-rhymes if they have similar sounding ending consonant sounds but do not fully rhyme. An example would be \\\"bald\\\" and \\\"held.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Build up your rhyming ability but keep it catchy.\", \"描述\": \"Some artists get so complex and into their art that they forget that it must also appeal to the general audience. As you build up your lyrical skills, make sure to keep the listener in mind and don't get too fancy or else you may lose fans.\\nTaking risks are a part of being a popular artist, but sometimes you can lose fans if they don't like the direction you're going in.\\nJust because a song is catchy does not mean that it has to lack substance.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Have the ability to deliver a good hook.\", \"描述\": \"The hook is the part of the song that is often repeated and is the portion of the track that's usually most remembered by fans. For other genres of music, this is typically referred to as the chorus. Having a good hook in a song is incredibly important if you want it to be popular. The hook should be catchy, memorable, and should embody the song.\\nA popular hook from the past is Chamillionaire's \\\"Ridin Dirty.\\\" \\\"They see me rollin', they hatin', Patrollin' and tryna catch me ridin' dirty. Tryna catch me ridin' dirty.\\\"\\nIf you aren't a singer or aren't good with hooks, consider collaborating with an R&B singer who would be better equipped.\\nThink of something that helps support the verses in your songs.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Never stop practicing to stay sharp on your wordplay.\", \"描述\": \"Regardless of how popular or famous you get, it's important to stay on the top of your game. Rapping is a skill that requires discipline and practice so make sure to regularly practice to work out your rapping abilities.\\nTake every opportunity to show other people your songs and get feedback.\\nPractice in front of the mirror, while you're in the car, or taking a walk.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Creating Music\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Write original songs that illicit an emotional response.\", \"描述\": \"While copying popular or iconic music may get you a small amount of success, it will never make you as popular as the artist that you're trying to be. It's important to draw from personal circumstances, events, and emotions from your life and the lives of people around you.\\nIf you've been through tough times it is likely people have shared similar experiences. Being open and genuine will affect people more than copying a lifestyle you've never lived.\\nTry to mix up your catalog of music. Don't always rap about the same thing and make sure your songs don't all share the same mood. Showing a range of emotion will allow you to connect to more fans.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Collaborate with producers to create full songs.\", \"描述\": \"Unless you plan on mixing and creating your own beats, you'll most likely have to meet a producer that's already good at it. Try to get producers that have created successful songs in the past, and meet with them so that they can cater their beats to your unique style and voice.\\nTalk to other rappers to find local producers that would be willing to collaborate.\\nSend local recording studios a demo of your music if you're still unable to find a producer in your personal network.\\nIf you can't find a producer, consider learning how to create your own beats or use royalty free music.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Record music in a studio.\", \"描述\": \"A music studio will be able to refine, mix, and remaster the music that you make. In addition, they will have the hardware and equipment, like mixers and mics, to make sure that the best quality music is produced. Call a local studio and ask for rates and schedule a time to record.\\nMake sure to have a game plan before going into the studio. Studios usually charge an hourly fee, so wasting time is not smart.\\nSome musicians record in their bedroom, but it requires skill and knowledge on how to mix sound. You will also likely need expensive equipment like a powerful laptop and a good microphone in order to create high-quality music.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Upload your songs and create videos on YouTube and Soundcloud.\", \"描述\": \"You can only become famous if your music is popular, which means people need to be able to listen to it. Before you get signed to a label or release a record, exposure online can be an early springboard towards success. Partnering up with a video producer to create a music video can also help get your music out there.\\nArtists like Soulja Boy and Macklemore got their start on YouTube.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Develop your own style.\", \"描述\": \"Being a top rapper means that you can be innovative, genuine, and likable over the long run. Developing your own unique style and sound is critical to standing out from the crowd. Take the unique aspects from your personality and integrate that into your music, and never stray away from what makes you different and unique.\\nArtists like J. Cole and Kendrick Lamar are different than most of the rap mainstream due to their lyrical content and production, but were able to pick up multiple Grammy nominations.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Networking\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Play local shows or open for bigger artists.\", \"描述\": \"When you're first starting off, you're probably not going to be headlining your own show. It's important to get performing experience before you being to play in front of a large audience. Hang around local venues and get to know the staff there. Ask the talent manager or booking agent there if you can open for other hip hop acts.\\nTalk to other local artists. If you become their friend, they may want you to open for their shows.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Hire a manager to take on booking responsibilities.\", \"描述\": \"If you're not able to book any shows, then a manager may help in directing your career. They can use their pre-existing relationships with venue owners and people in the industry in order to get your foot in the door.\\nManagers typically take 15% -20% of the income that you generate.\\nBefore you hire a manager, make sure that you've exhausted your own personal networking connections to land gigs.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Keep good relationships with people in the music industry.\", \"描述\": \"Getting into personal arguments with other people in the music industry will most likely come back to hurt you. Don't do anything that violates your own personal set of ethics, but try to maintain good relationships by remaining respectful and not spreading rumors or holding grudges against those that you work with.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Have a strong social media presence.\", \"描述\": \"Social media has given the ability for artists and rappers to directly communicate with their fans and has completely revolutionized the rapper and fan relationship. Staying active and relevant on social media will allow you to hype new tracks and promote your music, as well as stay in touch with the people listening to your songs.\\nTry to stay away from arguments or starting \\\"beef\\\" with other musicians unless it advances your career.\\nBe careful about what you post because it could ruin your career.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Merchandise your brand.\", \"描述\": \"Branching out and merchandising your brand will give you another revenue stream and will increase your exposure to the general public. 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1. Enjoying Disney Movies
1-1. Watch Disney movies.
Disney has created 60 feature films currently, as of 2022. Watching the films will make you a fan of Disney, as you will be very knowledgeable in this topic. You can see how Disney films have evolved over the years and decades.
Films Disney has made in the 1990s include:
The Rescuers Down Under (1990)
Beauty and the Beast (1991)
Aladdin (1992)
The Lion King (1994)
Pocahontas (1995)
The Hunchback of Notre Dame (1996)
Hercules (1997)
Mulan (1998)
Tarzan (1999)
Fantasia 2000 (1999)
Films Disney made in the 2000s include:
Dinosaur (2000)
The Emperor's New Groove (2001)
Atlantis: The Lost Empire (2001)
Lilo & Stitch (2002)
Treasure Planet (2002)
Brother Bear (2003)
Home on the Range (2004)
Chicken Little (2005)
Meet the Robinsons (2007)
Bolt (2008)
The Princess and the Frog (2009)
2010s Disney movies include:
Tangled (2010)
Winnie the Pooh (2011)
Wreck-It Ralph (2012)
Frozen (2013)
Big Hero 6 (2014)
Zootopia (2016)
Moana (2016)
Ralph Breaks the Internet (2018)
Frozen 2 (2019)
Raya and the Last Dragon (2021)
Encanto (2021)
1-2. Watch old Disney films.
Disney has a long history and watching old Disney films will make you an expert in the topic. It can also give you a taste of what old, vintage films looked like. The first films (not Disney) were silent, black and white films! They had no sound and no color! Although all Disney films had sound, the style and ways of animation differed by the advanced techniques Disney uses now! They now use digital animation instead of hand drawing characters.
1930s and 1940s Disney films include:
Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs (1937, 1st Disney film ever)
Pinocchio (1940)
Fantasia (1940)
Dumbo (1941)
Bambi (1942)
Saludos Amigos (1943)
The Three Caballeros (1945)
Make Mine Music (1946)
Fun and Fancy Free (1947)
Melody Time (1948)
The Adventure of Ichabod and Mr. Toad (1949)
1950s Disney films include:
Cinderella (1950)
Alice in Wonderland (1951)
Peter Pan (1953)
Lady and the Tramp (1955)
Sleeping Beauty (1959)
1960s and 1970s Disney films include:
One Hundred and One Dalmatians (1961)
The Sword in the Stone (1963)
The Jungle Book (1967)
The Aristocats (1970)
Robin Hood (1973)
The Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh (1977)
The Rescuers (1977)
1980s Disney films include:
The Fox and the Hound (1981)
The Black Cauldron (1985)
The Great Mouse Detective (1986)
Oliver & Company (1988)
1-3. Watch Disney Pixar films.
Disney Pixar has made 25 films. Watching Disney Pixar films will make you an expert in Pixar films.
Disney Pixar films made in the 1990s include:
Toy Story (1995)
A Bug's Life (1998)
Toy Story 2 (1999)
Pixar movies made in the 2000s include:
Monsters, Inc. (2001)
Finding Nemo (2003)
The Incredibles (2004)
Cars (2006)
Ratatouille (2007)
WALL-E (2008)
Up (2009)
Pixar films made in the 2010s include:
Toy Story 3 (2010)
Cars 2 (2011)
Brave (2012)
Monsters University (2013)
Inside Out (2015)
The Good Dinosaur (2015)
Finding Dory (2016)
Cars 3 (2017)
Coco (2017)
Incredibles 2 (2018)
Toy Story 4 (2019)
Pixar films made in the 2020s include:
Onward (2020)
Soul (2020)
Luca (2021)
Turning Red (2022)
2. Going to Disney-Related Places and Parks
2-1. Travel to Disneyland
In Disneyland, you will meet many beloved and new Disney characters. It is in Anaheim, California.
Go on Google Maps or another map website to see how far it is. You can drive by car (a road trip) or take a plane there.
2-2. Go to Walt Disney World
Walt Disney World is similar to Disneyland, except that it's situated in Orlando, Florida.
As of 2022, face masks/coverings are optional in the parks. Because of COVID, some areas of the park are temporarily unavailable.
Go on Google Maps or another map website to see how far it is. You can drive by car (a road trip) or take a plane there.
As of 2022, face masks/coverings are optional in the parks. Because of COVID, some areas of the park are temporarily unavailable.
2-3. Meet the Disney characters at Disneyland or Walt Disney World.
There are many places where you can meet Disney characters.
You can go to the Disney parade (temporarily unavailable as of 2022) to see all of the Disney characters.
At Walt Disney World, you can see Mickey and Tiana separately at Town Square Theater and Princess Fairytale Hall.
At Disneyland, you can see Minnie at the Plaza Inn (Breakfast in the Park), Mickey in the Storytellers Cafe, located in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa (Mickey's Tale of Adventure Breakfast Buffet), various Disney Princesses in Napa Rose, located in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa (Disney Princess Breakfast Adventures), and Goofy in Goofy's Kitchen (Goofy's Kitchen)
3. Getting Disney Merch
3-1. Buy Disney-related merchandise.
You can get the official merch at the Disney store.
You can either shop online or go to your nearest Disney store.
Some Disney stores are located in Disneyland and Walt Disney World. You can buy items such as bags, Disney character plushies, caps, and clothing in the Disney store.
They also sell toys like Disney Princess dolls from the Disney Animator's collection.
Toys from the Disney store aren't cheap - as they're from Disney directly, they will cost anywhere from $20-$140.
3-2. Buy Disney-related items.
Go to your nearest mall or shop to buy Disney movie/character -related items. You can also buy Disney items online.
Online stores can sell a wider variety of Disney items, ranging from clothing and accessories to toys, games, and figurines.
They might be cheaper than items bought at the real Disney store.
4. Knowing More Facts About Disney
4-1. Research about the creator of Disney.
The creator of Disney was Walt Disney. Get to know more about him to understand why he created the Disney company, his ambitions, and his life. Use trustworthy sources such as History.com, Britannica, and the Disney websites to get accurate and reliable information.
He was born on December 5, 1901, in Chicago, Illinois.
He created the Disney company with his elder brother, Roy O. Disney in 1923.
He was also the voice for Mickey Mouse in the 1940s.
4-2. Know some myths about Walt Disney himself.
The creator of Disney has some strange myths that people believe. These myths include:
No, his body was actually cremated a few days after he died in 1966 due to lung cancer.
No, another more unknown person, Ub Iwerks did.
Anti-semitic people include Adolf Hitler and maybe Edward VIII. But there is no evidence that Walt Disney hated Jewish people.
The Disney logo was actually invented many years after Disney died in 1966. Many people volunteered to sign his name. It might look similar, but it actually isn't his handwriting.
4-3. Know some myths people believe about the Disney parks.
Some facts about the Disney parks are untrue and fake. Some people get this information from gossip or from unreliable news sources. Some myths people believe in include:
No, the castle is all in one piece.
Even before COVID, Walt Disney World has a few hours in which it is closed. The Disney characters, waiters, ride managers, etc. cannot do their tasks 24/7!
No, no one has been able to stay in Cinderella's castle.
Nope. He wasn't born in the 2000s, 1990s, 80s, 70s, or even 30s. He was born 121 years ago - on December 5th, 1901. He died a long time ago too - he died on December 15, 1966. There is no way he could've lived such a long time (121 years - the only person in the world that lived that long was Jeanne Calment, who died at age 122!)
Actually, the managers of the Disney parks tell the Disney characters (people in Disney costumes) to stay in just one specific area of the park.
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You can see how Disney films have evolved over the years and decades.\\nFilms Disney has made in the 1990s include:\\nThe Rescuers Down Under (1990)\\nBeauty and the Beast (1991)\\nAladdin (1992)\\nThe Lion King (1994)\\nPocahontas (1995)\\nThe Hunchback of Notre Dame (1996)\\nHercules (1997)\\nMulan (1998)\\nTarzan (1999)\\nFantasia 2000 (1999)\\n\\nFilms Disney made in the 2000s include:\\nDinosaur (2000)\\nThe Emperor's New Groove (2001)\\nAtlantis: The Lost Empire (2001)\\nLilo & Stitch (2002)\\nTreasure Planet (2002)\\nBrother Bear (2003)\\nHome on the Range (2004)\\nChicken Little (2005)\\nMeet the Robinsons (2007)\\nBolt (2008)\\nThe Princess and the Frog (2009)\\n\\n2010s Disney movies include:\\nTangled (2010)\\nWinnie the Pooh (2011)\\nWreck-It Ralph (2012)\\nFrozen (2013)\\nBig Hero 6 (2014)\\nZootopia (2016)\\nMoana (2016)\\nRalph Breaks the Internet (2018)\\nFrozen 2 (2019)\\nRaya and the Last Dragon (2021)\\nEncanto (2021)\\n1-2. Watch old Disney films.\\nDisney has a long history and watching old Disney films will make you an expert in the topic. It can also give you a taste of what old, vintage films looked like. The first films (not Disney) were silent, black and white films! They had no sound and no color! Although all Disney films had sound, the style and ways of animation differed by the advanced techniques Disney uses now! They now use digital animation instead of hand drawing characters.\\n1930s and 1940s Disney films include:\\nSnow White and the Seven Dwarfs (1937, 1st Disney film ever)\\nPinocchio (1940)\\nFantasia (1940)\\nDumbo (1941)\\nBambi (1942)\\nSaludos Amigos (1943)\\nThe Three Caballeros (1945)\\nMake Mine Music (1946)\\nFun and Fancy Free (1947)\\nMelody Time (1948)\\nThe Adventure of Ichabod and Mr. Toad (1949)\\n\\n1950s Disney films include:\\nCinderella (1950)\\nAlice in Wonderland (1951)\\nPeter Pan (1953)\\nLady and the Tramp (1955)\\nSleeping Beauty (1959)\\n\\n1960s and 1970s Disney films include:\\nOne Hundred and One Dalmatians (1961)\\nThe Sword in the Stone (1963)\\nThe Jungle Book (1967)\\nThe Aristocats (1970)\\nRobin Hood (1973)\\nThe Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh (1977)\\nThe Rescuers (1977)\\n\\n1980s Disney films include:\\nThe Fox and the Hound (1981)\\nThe Black Cauldron (1985)\\nThe Great Mouse Detective (1986)\\nOliver & Company (1988)\\n1-3. Watch Disney Pixar films.\\nDisney Pixar has made 25 films. Watching Disney Pixar films will make you an expert in Pixar films.\\nDisney Pixar films made in the 1990s include:\\nToy Story (1995)\\nA Bug's Life (1998)\\nToy Story 2 (1999)\\n\\nPixar movies made in the 2000s include:\\nMonsters, Inc. (2001)\\nFinding Nemo (2003)\\nThe Incredibles (2004)\\nCars (2006)\\nRatatouille (2007)\\nWALL-E (2008)\\nUp (2009)\\n\\nPixar films made in the 2010s include:\\nToy Story 3 (2010)\\nCars 2 (2011)\\nBrave (2012)\\nMonsters University (2013)\\nInside Out (2015)\\nThe Good Dinosaur (2015)\\nFinding Dory (2016)\\nCars 3 (2017)\\nCoco (2017)\\nIncredibles 2 (2018)\\nToy Story 4 (2019)\\n\\nPixar films made in the 2020s include:\\nOnward (2020)\\nSoul (2020)\\nLuca (2021)\\nTurning Red (2022)\\n2. Going to Disney-Related Places and Parks\\n2-1. Travel to Disneyland\\nIn Disneyland, you will meet many beloved and new Disney characters. It is in Anaheim, California.\\nGo on Google Maps or another map website to see how far it is. You can drive by car (a road trip) or take a plane there.\\n2-2. Go to Walt Disney World\\nWalt Disney World is similar to Disneyland, except that it's situated in Orlando, Florida.\\nAs of 2022, face masks/coverings are optional in the parks. Because of COVID, some areas of the park are temporarily unavailable.\\nGo on Google Maps or another map website to see how far it is. You can drive by car (a road trip) or take a plane there.\\nAs of 2022, face masks/coverings are optional in the parks. Because of COVID, some areas of the park are temporarily unavailable.\\n2-3. Meet the Disney characters at Disneyland or Walt Disney World.\\nThere are many places where you can meet Disney characters.\\nYou can go to the Disney parade (temporarily unavailable as of 2022) to see all of the Disney characters.\\nAt Walt Disney World, you can see Mickey and Tiana separately at Town Square Theater and Princess Fairytale Hall. \\nAt Disneyland, you can see Minnie at the Plaza Inn (Breakfast in the Park), Mickey in the Storytellers Cafe, located in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa (Mickey's Tale of Adventure Breakfast Buffet), various Disney Princesses in Napa Rose, located in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa (Disney Princess Breakfast Adventures), and Goofy in Goofy's Kitchen (Goofy's Kitchen)\\n3. Getting Disney Merch\\n3-1. Buy Disney-related merchandise.\\nYou can get the official merch at the Disney store.\\nYou can either shop online or go to your nearest Disney store.\\nSome Disney stores are located in Disneyland and Walt Disney World. You can buy items such as bags, Disney character plushies, caps, and clothing in the Disney store.\\nThey also sell toys like Disney Princess dolls from the Disney Animator's collection.\\nToys from the Disney store aren't cheap - as they're from Disney directly, they will cost anywhere from $20-$140.\\n3-2. Buy Disney-related items.\\nGo to your nearest mall or shop to buy Disney movie/character -related items. You can also buy Disney items online.\\nOnline stores can sell a wider variety of Disney items, ranging from clothing and accessories to toys, games, and figurines.\\nThey might be cheaper than items bought at the real Disney store.\\n4. Knowing More Facts About Disney\\n4-1. Research about the creator of Disney.\\nThe creator of Disney was Walt Disney. Get to know more about him to understand why he created the Disney company, his ambitions, and his life. Use trustworthy sources such as History.com, Britannica, and the Disney websites to get accurate and reliable information.\\nHe was born on December 5, 1901, in Chicago, Illinois. \\nHe created the Disney company with his elder brother, Roy O. Disney in 1923.\\nHe was also the voice for Mickey Mouse in the 1940s.\\n4-2. Know some myths about Walt Disney himself.\\nThe creator of Disney has some strange myths that people believe. These myths include: \\n No, his body was actually cremated a few days after he died in 1966 due to lung cancer.\\n No, another more unknown person, Ub Iwerks did.\\n Anti-semitic people include Adolf Hitler and maybe Edward VIII. But there is no evidence that Walt Disney hated Jewish people.\\n The Disney logo was actually invented many years after Disney died in 1966. Many people volunteered to sign his name. It might look similar, but it actually isn't his handwriting.\\n4-3. Know some myths people believe about the Disney parks.\\nSome facts about the Disney parks are untrue and fake. Some people get this information from gossip or from unreliable news sources. Some myths people believe in include:\\n\\n No, the castle is all in one piece.\\n Even before COVID, Walt Disney World has a few hours in which it is closed. The Disney characters, waiters, ride managers, etc. cannot do their tasks 24/7!\\n No, no one has been able to stay in Cinderella's castle.\\n Nope. He wasn't born in the 2000s, 1990s, 80s, 70s, or even 30s. He was born 121 years ago - on December 5th, 1901. He died a long time ago too - he died on December 15, 1966. There is no way he could've lived such a long time (121 years - the only person in the world that lived that long was Jeanne Calment, who died at age 122!)\\n Actually, the managers of the Disney parks tell the Disney characters (people in Disney costumes) to stay in just one specific area of the park.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Disney is a company that produces animated movies and shorts. It was created by Walt Disney in 1923. Being a Disney fan is a simple task, and this article will show you how to do that!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Enjoying Disney Movies\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Watch Disney movies.\", \"描述\": \"Disney has created 60 feature films currently, as of 2022. Watching the films will make you a fan of Disney, as you will be very knowledgeable in this topic. You can see how Disney films have evolved over the years and decades.\\nFilms Disney has made in the 1990s include:\\nThe Rescuers Down Under (1990)\\nBeauty and the Beast (1991)\\nAladdin (1992)\\nThe Lion King (1994)\\nPocahontas (1995)\\nThe Hunchback of Notre Dame (1996)\\nHercules (1997)\\nMulan (1998)\\nTarzan (1999)\\nFantasia 2000 (1999)\\n\\nFilms Disney made in the 2000s include:\\nDinosaur (2000)\\nThe Emperor's New Groove (2001)\\nAtlantis: The Lost Empire (2001)\\nLilo & Stitch (2002)\\nTreasure Planet (2002)\\nBrother Bear (2003)\\nHome on the Range (2004)\\nChicken Little (2005)\\nMeet the Robinsons (2007)\\nBolt (2008)\\nThe Princess and the Frog (2009)\\n\\n2010s Disney movies include:\\nTangled (2010)\\nWinnie the Pooh (2011)\\nWreck-It Ralph (2012)\\nFrozen (2013)\\nBig Hero 6 (2014)\\nZootopia (2016)\\nMoana (2016)\\nRalph Breaks the Internet (2018)\\nFrozen 2 (2019)\\nRaya and the Last Dragon (2021)\\nEncanto (2021)\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Watch old Disney films.\", \"描述\": \"Disney has a long history and watching old Disney films will make you an expert in the topic. It can also give you a taste of what old, vintage films looked like. The first films (not Disney) were silent, black and white films! They had no sound and no color! Although all Disney films had sound, the style and ways of animation differed by the advanced techniques Disney uses now! They now use digital animation instead of hand drawing characters.\\n1930s and 1940s Disney films include:\\nSnow White and the Seven Dwarfs (1937, 1st Disney film ever)\\nPinocchio (1940)\\nFantasia (1940)\\nDumbo (1941)\\nBambi (1942)\\nSaludos Amigos (1943)\\nThe Three Caballeros (1945)\\nMake Mine Music (1946)\\nFun and Fancy Free (1947)\\nMelody Time (1948)\\nThe Adventure of Ichabod and Mr. Toad (1949)\\n\\n1950s Disney films include:\\nCinderella (1950)\\nAlice in Wonderland (1951)\\nPeter Pan (1953)\\nLady and the Tramp (1955)\\nSleeping Beauty (1959)\\n\\n1960s and 1970s Disney films include:\\nOne Hundred and One Dalmatians (1961)\\nThe Sword in the Stone (1963)\\nThe Jungle Book (1967)\\nThe Aristocats (1970)\\nRobin Hood (1973)\\nThe Many Adventures of Winnie the Pooh (1977)\\nThe Rescuers (1977)\\n\\n1980s Disney films include:\\nThe Fox and the Hound (1981)\\nThe Black Cauldron (1985)\\nThe Great Mouse Detective (1986)\\nOliver & Company (1988)\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Watch Disney Pixar films.\", \"描述\": \"Disney Pixar has made 25 films. Watching Disney Pixar films will make you an expert in Pixar films.\\nDisney Pixar films made in the 1990s include:\\nToy Story (1995)\\nA Bug's Life (1998)\\nToy Story 2 (1999)\\n\\nPixar movies made in the 2000s include:\\nMonsters, Inc. (2001)\\nFinding Nemo (2003)\\nThe Incredibles (2004)\\nCars (2006)\\nRatatouille (2007)\\nWALL-E (2008)\\nUp (2009)\\n\\nPixar films made in the 2010s include:\\nToy Story 3 (2010)\\nCars 2 (2011)\\nBrave (2012)\\nMonsters University (2013)\\nInside Out (2015)\\nThe Good Dinosaur (2015)\\nFinding Dory (2016)\\nCars 3 (2017)\\nCoco (2017)\\nIncredibles 2 (2018)\\nToy Story 4 (2019)\\n\\nPixar films made in the 2020s include:\\nOnward (2020)\\nSoul (2020)\\nLuca (2021)\\nTurning Red (2022)\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Going to Disney-Related Places and Parks\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Travel to Disneyland\", \"描述\": \"In Disneyland, you will meet many beloved and new Disney characters. It is in Anaheim, California.\\nGo on Google Maps or another map website to see how far it is. You can drive by car (a road trip) or take a plane there.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Go to Walt Disney World\", \"描述\": \"Walt Disney World is similar to Disneyland, except that it's situated in Orlando, Florida.\\nAs of 2022, face masks/coverings are optional in the parks. Because of COVID, some areas of the park are temporarily unavailable.\\nGo on Google Maps or another map website to see how far it is. You can drive by car (a road trip) or take a plane there.\\nAs of 2022, face masks/coverings are optional in the parks. Because of COVID, some areas of the park are temporarily unavailable.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Meet the Disney characters at Disneyland or Walt Disney World.\", \"描述\": \"There are many places where you can meet Disney characters.\\nYou can go to the Disney parade (temporarily unavailable as of 2022) to see all of the Disney characters.\\nAt Walt Disney World, you can see Mickey and Tiana separately at Town Square Theater and Princess Fairytale Hall. \\nAt Disneyland, you can see Minnie at the Plaza Inn (Breakfast in the Park), Mickey in the Storytellers Cafe, located in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa (Mickey's Tale of Adventure Breakfast Buffet), various Disney Princesses in Napa Rose, located in Disney's Grand Californian Hotel and Spa (Disney Princess Breakfast Adventures), and Goofy in Goofy's Kitchen (Goofy's Kitchen)\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Getting Disney Merch\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Buy Disney-related merchandise.\", \"描述\": \"You can get the official merch at the Disney store.\\nYou can either shop online or go to your nearest Disney store.\\nSome Disney stores are located in Disneyland and Walt Disney World. You can buy items such as bags, Disney character plushies, caps, and clothing in the Disney store.\\nThey also sell toys like Disney Princess dolls from the Disney Animator's collection.\\nToys from the Disney store aren't cheap - as they're from Disney directly, they will cost anywhere from $20-$140.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Buy Disney-related items.\", \"描述\": \"Go to your nearest mall or shop to buy Disney movie/character -related items. You can also buy Disney items online.\\nOnline stores can sell a wider variety of Disney items, ranging from clothing and accessories to toys, games, and figurines.\\nThey might be cheaper than items bought at the real Disney store.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Knowing More Facts About Disney\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Research about the creator of Disney.\", \"描述\": \"The creator of Disney was Walt Disney. Get to know more about him to understand why he created the Disney company, his ambitions, and his life. Use trustworthy sources such as History.com, Britannica, and the Disney websites to get accurate and reliable information.\\nHe was born on December 5, 1901, in Chicago, Illinois. \\nHe created the Disney company with his elder brother, Roy O. Disney in 1923.\\nHe was also the voice for Mickey Mouse in the 1940s.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Know some myths about Walt Disney himself.\", \"描述\": \"The creator of Disney has some strange myths that people believe. These myths include: \\n No, his body was actually cremated a few days after he died in 1966 due to lung cancer.\\n No, another more unknown person, Ub Iwerks did.\\n Anti-semitic people include Adolf Hitler and maybe Edward VIII. But there is no evidence that Walt Disney hated Jewish people.\\n The Disney logo was actually invented many years after Disney died in 1966. Many people volunteered to sign his name. It might look similar, but it actually isn't his handwriting.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Know some myths people believe about the Disney parks.\", \"描述\": \"Some facts about the Disney parks are untrue and fake. Some people get this information from gossip or from unreliable news sources. Some myths people believe in include:\\n\\n No, the castle is all in one piece.\\n Even before COVID, Walt Disney World has a few hours in which it is closed. The Disney characters, waiters, ride managers, etc. cannot do their tasks 24/7!\\n No, no one has been able to stay in Cinderella's castle.\\n Nope. He wasn't born in the 2000s, 1990s, 80s, 70s, or even 30s. He was born 121 years ago - on December 5th, 1901. He died a long time ago too - he died on December 15, 1966. 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1. Examining Your Personality
1-1. Consider why you want to be a farmer.
Farming is hard work, and requires a lot of knowledge and upfront investment. You have to be part entrepreneur, part small business owner, part scientist, and part manual laborer. Even if you do everything right, farming is unpredictable: natural disasters such as floods or drought can wipe out crops, pests can decimate your harvest, and the price of crops can vary dramatically.
Farming often requires a far greater time investment even than a full-time 9-to-5 job. Unless you want only a very tiny farm or large garden as a hobby, farming will have to become your life.
1-2. Think about your priorities.
Ask yourself some questions about what you want your life to look like. What goals do you have for yourself? Are they concrete, such as a certain annual income or time with your family? Are they more abstract, such as a certain quality of life or a feeling of satisfaction?
Consider what you are willing to sacrifice and what you are not. What do you need to achieve your goals, and what are you willing to do to achieve them?
1-3. Decide whether your personality is a good fit for farming.
Farming can offer you a life of independence and connection to your land, but it is also a huge responsibility. Knowing how you’re likely to respond to situations that may arise will help you decide if farming is right for you.
Are you comfortable being solely responsible for a large operation? The success of many small farms hinges entirely on their owner(s). As a farmer, you’re in charge of all the day-to-day operations as well as long-term planning. You will have to make many decisions where the fate of your farm may hang in the balance.
Are you able to accept uncertainty and variability in your life? A farmer’s life is full of uncertainty, and the possibility for failure is high. Even good years may see you operating at a break-even level and no more. Due to the hardships of farming, the number of farmers in America is expected to decline by 19% between 2012 and 2022.
Are you a creative problem-solver? Farming throws many problems your way, and having the imagination to think of creative solutions will be vital to your farm.
Are you a patient person? Farming has a very steep learning curve and you will undoubtedly make many mistakes when you first start out. It can also take a long time, even years, until your farm is fully successful, so you will need to be able to work toward long-term prospects.
1-4. List your strengths and weaknesses.
Be honest with yourself here. What are you good at? What are your weak spots?
Are you good at accounting and bookkeeping? In order to keep your farm operating, you must be able to calculate risk margins, record sales and purchases, and track profits.
Are you capable of heavy labor? Farming can be backbreaking manual labor, even with modern equipment like tractors. You will need to be fairly fit and in good health to be a farmer.
Do you have enough money to invest in farming? Starting a small farm requires a lot of initial capital. You have to buy materials and equipment. You also have to buy land, or face unfavorable land lease relationships where you have little control over your farm.
Are you a fast learner? You will need to absorb a lot of information and keep up to date on many trends and techniques if you’re to succeed in farming.
Do you have significant health problems? Health insurance can be quite expensive if you’re self-employed. If you have chronic health problems or require many expensive prescription medicines, farming may not offer you enough reliability in your health care.
1-5. Decide whether the economic hardships of small farming are acceptable to you.
Small-scale farming is a notoriously poor-earning business, and 91% of all small farms require outside income (either through other employment or through government and foundation grants) to stay afloat. If things like saving for retirement or sending your children to college are goals of yours, farming may not be for you.
The median farm income was -$1,453 in 2012. That means the average small farm in America lost almost $1500 a year.
2. Learning Whether Farming Is For You
2-1. Visit farming resource websites.
In order to make the decision about whether to become a farmer, you’ll want to collect as much information as possible about what the process requires,
Farm Aid is a nonprofit organization that provides information and resources about farming. They have a resource center devoted entirely to beginning farms.
The National Young Farmers Coalition provides information and resources geared specifically for beginning farmers.
The Beginning Farmer and Rancher Development Program, a branch of the USDA, has a project called Start2Farm that offers a vast amount of information on beginning a farm, finding funding, and locating services.
2-2. Reach out to your local cooperative extension.
If you live near a college or university, you probably have access to their cooperative extension office. These offices are there to serve the needs of local small business owners and agricultural producers. They provide many resources on farming and agriculture, and often offer classes and seminars too.
2-3. Talk to farmers.
Nothing beats talking with real-life farmers about their lives and experiences. If you have a local farmers’ market, get to know the farmers who sell their goods there. Ask them about what they love about their work, and what they hate.
If you have farms in your area, call or email them to see if you can meet with them. While farmers are usually very busy, they are also usually very passionate about their work, and they will probably be happy to talk to you.
You can also visit online message boards to ask questions and learn from farmers. It’s definitely preferable to talk with people in person, though.
2-4. Volunteer on a farm.
If you are serious about becoming a farmer, volunteering on a farm is a good way to learn if the lifestyle is really for you before you have to make a major financial investment. Organizations such as World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms link organic farms with volunteer opportunities (for a small fee), and many local farms also offer volunteer programs.
2-5. Look around for farms that ask for “interns” or “apprentices” in your area.
Many of these programs will offer you room and board as well as a small stipend in exchange for your labor. Experts recommend that you spend three to four years “apprenticing” if you’re really serious about starting your own farm.
3. Beginning As a Farmer
3-1. Determine what crops to grow.
It can be overwhelming to think about what types of crops your farm will grow, but there are ways to narrow this decision down. The majority of agricultural crops grown in the United States are grain crops, such as corn, soybeans, and wheat. If you live in an area with a demand for it, organic vegetable production can also be a good choice, as it is one of the fastest-growing sectors in American farming. There are many resources that can help you decide what crops are best for you and your area.
The New England Small Farm Institute provides a wealth of links to help you conduct research on crop planning.
The National Agriculture Library is also a good place to start for information on regional crops.
Contacting your state or province department of agriculture will help you determine specific information for crop planning in your area.
3-2. Find land to farm.
Most beginning farmers cannot afford to buy their own land, at least at first. In addition, 80% of America's farmland is controlled by owners who are not farmers. Most expert sources recommend that beginning farmers "start soft," by managing someone else's farm, leasing farmland (from private owners or from land trusts), or take over an existing (and hopefully, profitable) farm from someone else.
Word of mouth is still one of the most powerful sources for information about finding farmland. Cultivate your network of farming connections and do your research.
Sources such as the "Farm Link Program Directory", "Farm On", and the "Farmland Information Center" may help you find farms to take over or farms that need managers.
3-3. Be honest about your potential locations.
You may need to relocate in order to find affordable, plentiful farmland. You may fantasize about a farm in the Hudson Valley or the Bay Area, but keep in mind that such areas are also highly desirable to others and thus nearly prohibitively expensive. Look for farmland in an area that is populated enough to buy your products, but not so heavily populated that farmland is out of your price range.
Modern Farmer recommends areas such as Lincoln, Nebraska; Des Moines, Iowa; Boise, Idaho; Mobile, Alabama; and Grand Junction, Colorado as potential locations. They are close to populated areas, but not so prestigious that you won't be able to afford land.
3-4. Secure financing for your farm.
There are many loan and grant programs available for beginning farmers, including federally backed loans from the USDA. Many of these vary by your state, so do research by beginning at an online resource such as FarmAid or Start2Farm.
The "Farm Service Agency Beginning Farmer Loan Program", National Council of State Agricultural Finance Programs, Farm Credit Services of America, and the American Farmland Trust are all good places to begin your funding search.
3-5. Limit your initial development.
One way to control your initial startup costs and limit your risk of failure is to start small and develop your farm gradually. You don't need a bunch of fancy, expensive equipment to begin farming. Your principal focuses should be your soil and your product.
3-6. Grow what you know.
While experimentation is great, when you're first starting out, start by cultivating what you have experience with. If you apprenticed on a berry farm, grow berries. If you trained on a pig farm, raise pigs. You can diversify later if you choose, but beginning with some expertise and experience in your area will be invaluable as you get your farm up and running.
3-7. Promote your products.
Your network of personal and community connections will be your single biggest way to promote your farm products, but fortunately, you can also take advantage of other marketing options too. Place coupons in the local paper, create "pick-your-own" events, even cold-call restaurants in your area to see if they want to purchase your locally grown goods.
Market yourself heavily on Facebook and Twitter. Post pictures of your beautiful farm and gorgeous crops on Flickr and Instagram. Create an inspirational Pinterest board. While these social media tactics may not seem related to tilling the earth with your hands, they are very useful ways to get your farm into the public consciousness. As an added bonus, they're almost always free!
3-8. Join a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) society.
These are usually organizations that connect people living in the area who want to buy locally grown produce with the farmers who produce it. Most often, people will buy "boxes" at a subscription rate, and you will deliver whatever fresh produce you're growing at that time. In addition to providing sales, this can be an excellent way to spread word-of-mouth about your farm.
3-9. Consider farm tourism.
While this route may seem like "selling out" to you, many city dwellers are eager to learn more about farming and get their hands (just a little bit) dirty. Consider promoting farm tours and gardening classes. You could even advertise as a wedding venue. Maximizing every revenue stream you can think of will help you stay afloat even if your crops don't do well one year.
Wedding budgets are usually great news for farmers, as plenty of brides and wedding planners are willing to spend big to have their wedding in a picturesque rural locale. Prices for simply using your farm as the wedding venue can run into the thousands of dollars, which could be a significant chunk of your annual income.
4. Thinking Like a Farmer
4-1. Continue to learn every day.
Knowing how to grow crops and raise livestock is only the first step. Even once you’ve learned the basics, continue to do research on new techniques and opportunities, and always try to learn from other farmers. Don’t get complacent about your farming.
Rely on those who have the experience and real-life knowledge of farming and raising/growing livestock/crops to get the information and knowledge you need.
You will also have to learn from your mistakes and learn from the mistakes of others. There's a saying that is common among airplane and fighter pilots that is easily applicable to farmers: "Learn from the mistakes of others, because you won't live long enough to make them all yourself."
4-2. Engage with your community.
A strong connection to your community is crucial for running a successful farm. Developing a good relationship with your community means you’re also developing a support network.
You can't market your product or sell your livestock or crops if you can't or don't know how to communicate, network or talk with other people in your community. Make friends, acquaintances and business partners with the various people involved in agriculture, be they farm equipment mechanics, local butchers, local sale barn personnel, potential buyers, other local farmers, or various other tradesmen and -women.
4-3. Appreciate what you have.
Most farmers are not rich, and they don’t have lots of money to spend on various "toys" and luxuries that others may be accustomed to. However, farming offers you the opportunity to think creatively and resourcefully, to be your own boss, and to feel proud when you’ve put in a long, hard day of work. Many farmers say that they love the sense of independence they get from farming and couldn’t imagine another life.
Don’t believe that you have to have all the latest equipment to be a farmer. Thinking they have to spend money on a bunch of unnecessary stuff is an often mistake for brand-new farmers. Ask established, experienced farmers for advice.
Don't be afraid, though, to expand your assets to improve your farm. There's a fine line between working with what you have and having to spend money to get what you need (not simply want) for your farm.
4-4. Expect to be a jack or jenny of all trades.
You will find you have to be a welder, a mechanic, an electrician, a chemist, a plumber, a construction builder, an accountant, a veterinarian, an entrepreneur, a marketer, and even an economist. Make sure you know which hats to put on given the situations that require them.
If you don’t have all of these skills, find someone who will teach you! This is where your community engagement will come in handy.
4-5. Respect your farm.
As a farmer, your success depends not only on your own hard work and skills but also on the land, the animals, and the forces of nature that you interact with. Love your farm for what it is, and don’t try to turn it into something it isn’t. Cultivating a deep appreciation for the whole ecosystem of your farm will give you a far deeper understanding of it.
Where you live will dictate what kind of severe weather to expect and whether or not you can raise certain livestock with success or failure.
Respect your farm’s equipment too. Farm machines aren’t toys, and you shouldn’t treat them as such. Understand that they are powerful machines that could easily maim or kill if not handled correctly, and follow safety procedures at all times.
4-6. Love and be proud of what you do.
As a farmer you are growing food for other people who cannot grow food for themselves due to time, living spaces, or life choices. You, unlike many other people, get to experience rural life at its fullest: the highs, the lows, and the hard work that goes along with it. In America, only 2% of the population are actively farming. In Canada, a mere 5% of the population follow under this category. As such, be proud of the fact that you are a part of the minority that get to provide food for others.
Tips
Qualities such as hard work, responsibility, creativity, flexibility, intuitiveness, and an ability to learn are all desirable qualities to have in a farmer.
Never be afraid to ask for help. Nobody begins life knowing everything there is to know about farming -- not even people born on a farm. It is much better to ask for advice than make the wrong decision and fail.
Warnings
Becoming (and staying) a farmer is a major life decision that can have ramifications for the rest of your life. Take your time, do your research, and think hard before you make the decision to be a farmer.
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Ask them about what they love about their work, and what they hate.\\nIf you have farms in your area, call or email them to see if you can meet with them. While farmers are usually very busy, they are also usually very passionate about their work, and they will probably be happy to talk to you.\\nYou can also visit online message boards to ask questions and learn from farmers. It’s definitely preferable to talk with people in person, though.\\n2-4. Volunteer on a farm.\\nIf you are serious about becoming a farmer, volunteering on a farm is a good way to learn if the lifestyle is really for you before you have to make a major financial investment. Organizations such as World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms link organic farms with volunteer opportunities (for a small fee), and many local farms also offer volunteer programs.\\n2-5. Look around for farms that ask for “interns” or “apprentices” in your area.\\nMany of these programs will offer you room and board as well as a small stipend in exchange for your labor. Experts recommend that you spend three to four years “apprenticing” if you’re really serious about starting your own farm.\\n3. Beginning As a Farmer\\n3-1. Determine what crops to grow.\\nIt can be overwhelming to think about what types of crops your farm will grow, but there are ways to narrow this decision down. The majority of agricultural crops grown in the United States are grain crops, such as corn, soybeans, and wheat. If you live in an area with a demand for it, organic vegetable production can also be a good choice, as it is one of the fastest-growing sectors in American farming. There are many resources that can help you decide what crops are best for you and your area.\\nThe New England Small Farm Institute provides a wealth of links to help you conduct research on crop planning.\\nThe National Agriculture Library is also a good place to start for information on regional crops.\\nContacting your state or province department of agriculture will help you determine specific information for crop planning in your area.\\n3-2. Find land to farm.\\nMost beginning farmers cannot afford to buy their own land, at least at first. In addition, 80% of America's farmland is controlled by owners who are not farmers. Most expert sources recommend that beginning farmers \\\"start soft,\\\" by managing someone else's farm, leasing farmland (from private owners or from land trusts), or take over an existing (and hopefully, profitable) farm from someone else.\\nWord of mouth is still one of the most powerful sources for information about finding farmland. Cultivate your network of farming connections and do your research.\\nSources such as the \\\"Farm Link Program Directory\\\", \\\"Farm On\\\", and the \\\"Farmland Information Center\\\" may help you find farms to take over or farms that need managers.\\n3-3. Be honest about your potential locations.\\nYou may need to relocate in order to find affordable, plentiful farmland. You may fantasize about a farm in the Hudson Valley or the Bay Area, but keep in mind that such areas are also highly desirable to others and thus nearly prohibitively expensive. Look for farmland in an area that is populated enough to buy your products, but not so heavily populated that farmland is out of your price range.\\nModern Farmer recommends areas such as Lincoln, Nebraska; Des Moines, Iowa; Boise, Idaho; Mobile, Alabama; and Grand Junction, Colorado as potential locations. They are close to populated areas, but not so prestigious that you won't be able to afford land.\\n3-4. Secure financing for your farm.\\nThere are many loan and grant programs available for beginning farmers, including federally backed loans from the USDA. Many of these vary by your state, so do research by beginning at an online resource such as FarmAid or Start2Farm.\\nThe \\\"Farm Service Agency Beginning Farmer Loan Program\\\", National Council of State Agricultural Finance Programs, Farm Credit Services of America, and the American Farmland Trust are all good places to begin your funding search.\\n3-5. Limit your initial development.\\nOne way to control your initial startup costs and limit your risk of failure is to start small and develop your farm gradually. You don't need a bunch of fancy, expensive equipment to begin farming. Your principal focuses should be your soil and your product.\\n3-6. Grow what you know.\\nWhile experimentation is great, when you're first starting out, start by cultivating what you have experience with. If you apprenticed on a berry farm, grow berries. If you trained on a pig farm, raise pigs. You can diversify later if you choose, but beginning with some expertise and experience in your area will be invaluable as you get your farm up and running.\\n3-7. Promote your products.\\nYour network of personal and community connections will be your single biggest way to promote your farm products, but fortunately, you can also take advantage of other marketing options too. Place coupons in the local paper, create \\\"pick-your-own\\\" events, even cold-call restaurants in your area to see if they want to purchase your locally grown goods.\\nMarket yourself heavily on Facebook and Twitter. Post pictures of your beautiful farm and gorgeous crops on Flickr and Instagram. Create an inspirational Pinterest board. While these social media tactics may not seem related to tilling the earth with your hands, they are very useful ways to get your farm into the public consciousness. As an added bonus, they're almost always free!\\n3-8. Join a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) society.\\nThese are usually organizations that connect people living in the area who want to buy locally grown produce with the farmers who produce it. Most often, people will buy \\\"boxes\\\" at a subscription rate, and you will deliver whatever fresh produce you're growing at that time. In addition to providing sales, this can be an excellent way to spread word-of-mouth about your farm.\\n3-9. Consider farm tourism.\\nWhile this route may seem like \\\"selling out\\\" to you, many city dwellers are eager to learn more about farming and get their hands (just a little bit) dirty. Consider promoting farm tours and gardening classes. You could even advertise as a wedding venue. Maximizing every revenue stream you can think of will help you stay afloat even if your crops don't do well one year.\\nWedding budgets are usually great news for farmers, as plenty of brides and wedding planners are willing to spend big to have their wedding in a picturesque rural locale. Prices for simply using your farm as the wedding venue can run into the thousands of dollars, which could be a significant chunk of your annual income.\\n4. Thinking Like a Farmer\\n4-1. Continue to learn every day.\\nKnowing how to grow crops and raise livestock is only the first step. Even once you’ve learned the basics, continue to do research on new techniques and opportunities, and always try to learn from other farmers. Don’t get complacent about your farming.\\nRely on those who have the experience and real-life knowledge of farming and raising/growing livestock/crops to get the information and knowledge you need.\\nYou will also have to learn from your mistakes and learn from the mistakes of others. There's a saying that is common among airplane and fighter pilots that is easily applicable to farmers: \\\"Learn from the mistakes of others, because you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.\\\"\\n4-2. Engage with your community.\\nA strong connection to your community is crucial for running a successful farm. Developing a good relationship with your community means you’re also developing a support network.\\nYou can't market your product or sell your livestock or crops if you can't or don't know how to communicate, network or talk with other people in your community. Make friends, acquaintances and business partners with the various people involved in agriculture, be they farm equipment mechanics, local butchers, local sale barn personnel, potential buyers, other local farmers, or various other tradesmen and -women.\\n4-3. Appreciate what you have.\\nMost farmers are not rich, and they don’t have lots of money to spend on various \\\"toys\\\" and luxuries that others may be accustomed to. However, farming offers you the opportunity to think creatively and resourcefully, to be your own boss, and to feel proud when you’ve put in a long, hard day of work. Many farmers say that they love the sense of independence they get from farming and couldn’t imagine another life.\\nDon’t believe that you have to have all the latest equipment to be a farmer. Thinking they have to spend money on a bunch of unnecessary stuff is an often mistake for brand-new farmers. Ask established, experienced farmers for advice.\\nDon't be afraid, though, to expand your assets to improve your farm. There's a fine line between working with what you have and having to spend money to get what you need (not simply want) for your farm.\\n4-4. Expect to be a jack or jenny of all trades.\\nYou will find you have to be a welder, a mechanic, an electrician, a chemist, a plumber, a construction builder, an accountant, a veterinarian, an entrepreneur, a marketer, and even an economist. Make sure you know which hats to put on given the situations that require them.\\nIf you don’t have all of these skills, find someone who will teach you! This is where your community engagement will come in handy.\\n4-5. Respect your farm.\\nAs a farmer, your success depends not only on your own hard work and skills but also on the land, the animals, and the forces of nature that you interact with. Love your farm for what it is, and don’t try to turn it into something it isn’t. Cultivating a deep appreciation for the whole ecosystem of your farm will give you a far deeper understanding of it.\\nWhere you live will dictate what kind of severe weather to expect and whether or not you can raise certain livestock with success or failure.\\nRespect your farm’s equipment too. Farm machines aren’t toys, and you shouldn’t treat them as such. Understand that they are powerful machines that could easily maim or kill if not handled correctly, and follow safety procedures at all times.\\n4-6. Love and be proud of what you do.\\nAs a farmer you are growing food for other people who cannot grow food for themselves due to time, living spaces, or life choices. You, unlike many other people, get to experience rural life at its fullest: the highs, the lows, and the hard work that goes along with it. In America, only 2% of the population are actively farming. In Canada, a mere 5% of the population follow under this category. As such, be proud of the fact that you are a part of the minority that get to provide food for others.\\nTips\\nQualities such as hard work, responsibility, creativity, flexibility, intuitiveness, and an ability to learn are all desirable qualities to have in a farmer.\\nNever be afraid to ask for help. Nobody begins life knowing everything there is to know about farming -- not even people born on a farm. It is much better to ask for advice than make the wrong decision and fail.\\nWarnings\\nBecoming (and staying) a farmer is a major life decision that can have ramifications for the rest of your life. Take your time, do your research, and think hard before you make the decision to be a farmer.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The dream of living off the land, tilling the ground and growing your own crops, and connecting with nature is one that many people share. Particularly if you didn’t grow up on a farm, it can be easy to romanticize the farmer’s life, imagining it as a meditative, relaxed life far away from the frantic pace of “city life.” But this isn’t a genuine picture of farming, and not everyone is cut out to be a farmer. Some farmers would argue there’s a big difference between someone who knows how to farm and a farmer, so consider your personality, your goals, and your strengths when deciding whether or not to be a farmer.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Examining Your Personality\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Consider why you want to be a farmer.\", \"描述\": \"Farming is hard work, and requires a lot of knowledge and upfront investment. You have to be part entrepreneur, part small business owner, part scientist, and part manual laborer. Even if you do everything right, farming is unpredictable: natural disasters such as floods or drought can wipe out crops, pests can decimate your harvest, and the price of crops can vary dramatically.\\nFarming often requires a far greater time investment even than a full-time 9-to-5 job. Unless you want only a very tiny farm or large garden as a hobby, farming will have to become your life.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Think about your priorities.\", \"描述\": \"Ask yourself some questions about what you want your life to look like. What goals do you have for yourself? Are they concrete, such as a certain annual income or time with your family? Are they more abstract, such as a certain quality of life or a feeling of satisfaction?\\nConsider what you are willing to sacrifice and what you are not. What do you need to achieve your goals, and what are you willing to do to achieve them?\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Decide whether your personality is a good fit for farming.\", \"描述\": \"Farming can offer you a life of independence and connection to your land, but it is also a huge responsibility. Knowing how you’re likely to respond to situations that may arise will help you decide if farming is right for you.\\nAre you comfortable being solely responsible for a large operation? The success of many small farms hinges entirely on their owner(s). As a farmer, you’re in charge of all the day-to-day operations as well as long-term planning. You will have to make many decisions where the fate of your farm may hang in the balance.\\nAre you able to accept uncertainty and variability in your life? A farmer’s life is full of uncertainty, and the possibility for failure is high. Even good years may see you operating at a break-even level and no more. Due to the hardships of farming, the number of farmers in America is expected to decline by 19% between 2012 and 2022.\\nAre you a creative problem-solver? Farming throws many problems your way, and having the imagination to think of creative solutions will be vital to your farm.\\nAre you a patient person? Farming has a very steep learning curve and you will undoubtedly make many mistakes when you first start out. It can also take a long time, even years, until your farm is fully successful, so you will need to be able to work toward long-term prospects.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"List your strengths and weaknesses.\", \"描述\": \"Be honest with yourself here. What are you good at? What are your weak spots?\\nAre you good at accounting and bookkeeping? In order to keep your farm operating, you must be able to calculate risk margins, record sales and purchases, and track profits.\\nAre you capable of heavy labor? Farming can be backbreaking manual labor, even with modern equipment like tractors. You will need to be fairly fit and in good health to be a farmer.\\nDo you have enough money to invest in farming? Starting a small farm requires a lot of initial capital. You have to buy materials and equipment. You also have to buy land, or face unfavorable land lease relationships where you have little control over your farm.\\nAre you a fast learner? You will need to absorb a lot of information and keep up to date on many trends and techniques if you’re to succeed in farming.\\nDo you have significant health problems? Health insurance can be quite expensive if you’re self-employed. If you have chronic health problems or require many expensive prescription medicines, farming may not offer you enough reliability in your health care.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Decide whether the economic hardships of small farming are acceptable to you.\", \"描述\": \"Small-scale farming is a notoriously poor-earning business, and 91% of all small farms require outside income (either through other employment or through government and foundation grants) to stay afloat. If things like saving for retirement or sending your children to college are goals of yours, farming may not be for you.\\nThe median farm income was -$1,453 in 2012. That means the average small farm in America lost almost $1500 a year.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learning Whether Farming Is For You\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Visit farming resource websites.\", \"描述\": \"In order to make the decision about whether to become a farmer, you’ll want to collect as much information as possible about what the process requires,\\nFarm Aid is a nonprofit organization that provides information and resources about farming. They have a resource center devoted entirely to beginning farms.\\nThe National Young Farmers Coalition provides information and resources geared specifically for beginning farmers.\\nThe Beginning Farmer and Rancher Development Program, a branch of the USDA, has a project called Start2Farm that offers a vast amount of information on beginning a farm, finding funding, and locating services.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Reach out to your local cooperative extension.\", \"描述\": \"If you live near a college or university, you probably have access to their cooperative extension office. These offices are there to serve the needs of local small business owners and agricultural producers. They provide many resources on farming and agriculture, and often offer classes and seminars too.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Talk to farmers.\", \"描述\": \"Nothing beats talking with real-life farmers about their lives and experiences. If you have a local farmers’ market, get to know the farmers who sell their goods there. Ask them about what they love about their work, and what they hate.\\nIf you have farms in your area, call or email them to see if you can meet with them. While farmers are usually very busy, they are also usually very passionate about their work, and they will probably be happy to talk to you.\\nYou can also visit online message boards to ask questions and learn from farmers. It’s definitely preferable to talk with people in person, though.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Volunteer on a farm.\", \"描述\": \"If you are serious about becoming a farmer, volunteering on a farm is a good way to learn if the lifestyle is really for you before you have to make a major financial investment. Organizations such as World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms link organic farms with volunteer opportunities (for a small fee), and many local farms also offer volunteer programs.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Look around for farms that ask for “interns” or “apprentices” in your area.\", \"描述\": \"Many of these programs will offer you room and board as well as a small stipend in exchange for your labor. Experts recommend that you spend three to four years “apprenticing” if you’re really serious about starting your own farm.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Beginning As a Farmer\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Determine what crops to grow.\", \"描述\": \"It can be overwhelming to think about what types of crops your farm will grow, but there are ways to narrow this decision down. The majority of agricultural crops grown in the United States are grain crops, such as corn, soybeans, and wheat. If you live in an area with a demand for it, organic vegetable production can also be a good choice, as it is one of the fastest-growing sectors in American farming. There are many resources that can help you decide what crops are best for you and your area.\\nThe New England Small Farm Institute provides a wealth of links to help you conduct research on crop planning.\\nThe National Agriculture Library is also a good place to start for information on regional crops.\\nContacting your state or province department of agriculture will help you determine specific information for crop planning in your area.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Find land to farm.\", \"描述\": \"Most beginning farmers cannot afford to buy their own land, at least at first. In addition, 80% of America's farmland is controlled by owners who are not farmers. Most expert sources recommend that beginning farmers \\\"start soft,\\\" by managing someone else's farm, leasing farmland (from private owners or from land trusts), or take over an existing (and hopefully, profitable) farm from someone else.\\nWord of mouth is still one of the most powerful sources for information about finding farmland. Cultivate your network of farming connections and do your research.\\nSources such as the \\\"Farm Link Program Directory\\\", \\\"Farm On\\\", and the \\\"Farmland Information Center\\\" may help you find farms to take over or farms that need managers.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be honest about your potential locations.\", \"描述\": \"You may need to relocate in order to find affordable, plentiful farmland. You may fantasize about a farm in the Hudson Valley or the Bay Area, but keep in mind that such areas are also highly desirable to others and thus nearly prohibitively expensive. Look for farmland in an area that is populated enough to buy your products, but not so heavily populated that farmland is out of your price range.\\nModern Farmer recommends areas such as Lincoln, Nebraska; Des Moines, Iowa; Boise, Idaho; Mobile, Alabama; and Grand Junction, Colorado as potential locations. They are close to populated areas, but not so prestigious that you won't be able to afford land.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Secure financing for your farm.\", \"描述\": \"There are many loan and grant programs available for beginning farmers, including federally backed loans from the USDA. Many of these vary by your state, so do research by beginning at an online resource such as FarmAid or Start2Farm.\\nThe \\\"Farm Service Agency Beginning Farmer Loan Program\\\", National Council of State Agricultural Finance Programs, Farm Credit Services of America, and the American Farmland Trust are all good places to begin your funding search.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Limit your initial development.\", \"描述\": \"One way to control your initial startup costs and limit your risk of failure is to start small and develop your farm gradually. You don't need a bunch of fancy, expensive equipment to begin farming. Your principal focuses should be your soil and your product.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Grow what you know.\", \"描述\": \"While experimentation is great, when you're first starting out, start by cultivating what you have experience with. If you apprenticed on a berry farm, grow berries. If you trained on a pig farm, raise pigs. You can diversify later if you choose, but beginning with some expertise and experience in your area will be invaluable as you get your farm up and running.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Promote your products.\", \"描述\": \"Your network of personal and community connections will be your single biggest way to promote your farm products, but fortunately, you can also take advantage of other marketing options too. Place coupons in the local paper, create \\\"pick-your-own\\\" events, even cold-call restaurants in your area to see if they want to purchase your locally grown goods.\\nMarket yourself heavily on Facebook and Twitter. Post pictures of your beautiful farm and gorgeous crops on Flickr and Instagram. Create an inspirational Pinterest board. While these social media tactics may not seem related to tilling the earth with your hands, they are very useful ways to get your farm into the public consciousness. As an added bonus, they're almost always free!\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Join a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) society.\", \"描述\": \"These are usually organizations that connect people living in the area who want to buy locally grown produce with the farmers who produce it. Most often, people will buy \\\"boxes\\\" at a subscription rate, and you will deliver whatever fresh produce you're growing at that time. In addition to providing sales, this can be an excellent way to spread word-of-mouth about your farm.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Consider farm tourism.\", \"描述\": \"While this route may seem like \\\"selling out\\\" to you, many city dwellers are eager to learn more about farming and get their hands (just a little bit) dirty. Consider promoting farm tours and gardening classes. You could even advertise as a wedding venue. Maximizing every revenue stream you can think of will help you stay afloat even if your crops don't do well one year.\\nWedding budgets are usually great news for farmers, as plenty of brides and wedding planners are willing to spend big to have their wedding in a picturesque rural locale. Prices for simply using your farm as the wedding venue can run into the thousands of dollars, which could be a significant chunk of your annual income.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Thinking Like a Farmer\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Continue to learn every day.\", \"描述\": \"Knowing how to grow crops and raise livestock is only the first step. Even once you’ve learned the basics, continue to do research on new techniques and opportunities, and always try to learn from other farmers. Don’t get complacent about your farming.\\nRely on those who have the experience and real-life knowledge of farming and raising/growing livestock/crops to get the information and knowledge you need.\\nYou will also have to learn from your mistakes and learn from the mistakes of others. There's a saying that is common among airplane and fighter pilots that is easily applicable to farmers: \\\"Learn from the mistakes of others, because you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Engage with your community.\", \"描述\": \"A strong connection to your community is crucial for running a successful farm. Developing a good relationship with your community means you’re also developing a support network.\\nYou can't market your product or sell your livestock or crops if you can't or don't know how to communicate, network or talk with other people in your community. Make friends, acquaintances and business partners with the various people involved in agriculture, be they farm equipment mechanics, local butchers, local sale barn personnel, potential buyers, other local farmers, or various other tradesmen and -women.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Appreciate what you have.\", \"描述\": \"Most farmers are not rich, and they don’t have lots of money to spend on various \\\"toys\\\" and luxuries that others may be accustomed to. However, farming offers you the opportunity to think creatively and resourcefully, to be your own boss, and to feel proud when you’ve put in a long, hard day of work. Many farmers say that they love the sense of independence they get from farming and couldn’t imagine another life.\\nDon’t believe that you have to have all the latest equipment to be a farmer. Thinking they have to spend money on a bunch of unnecessary stuff is an often mistake for brand-new farmers. 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1. What is a farrier?
A farrier specializes in caring for a horse’s hooves.
Farriers forge horseshoes from iron and fit and change horseshoes. Therefore, a farrier’s work is a combination of caring for horses and blacksmithing. As a farrier, you need to:
Have a genuine interest in caring for horses and excellent horsemanship skills.
Have knowledge of horse anatomy and veterinary care and advise horse owners if there is a problem that requires veterinary attention.
Travel to your clients' homes or businesses to change horseshoes, clean and trim hooves, and provide therapeutic shoes for lame horses.
Be able to accommodate your clients’ schedules and work weekends, odd hours, and in bad weather.
Have excellent communication skills and business sense.
Learn how to forge horseshoes, weld, and fabricate.
Be able to work a physically demanding job that requires daily standing, stooping, kneeling, bending, and lifting.
Have a valid driver’s license and a reliable vehicle to visit your clients and bring your tools along with you.
Live in an area with a large population of horses.
2. Training to Be a Farrier
2-1. Shadow a farrier to make sure this is the path you want to take.
Shadowing a farrier can give you an excellent idea of what the work entails. Find a farrier in your area and ask to go along with them for a day to see what the work is like. Try to find an experienced farrier so that you can ask questions, such as:
What is the most challenging part of your job?
How many clients do you visit each week?
What is a typical day like for you?
2-2. Apply to an accredited farrier or horseshoeing school.
It is important to find a school that is accredited so that your coursework will be acknowledged by any professional organizations that you wish to join. Attending a farrier school can also speed up your path to becoming a professional farrier. Some schools offer programs that you can complete in a few months rather than a few years.
You might also want to consider programs that pair business courses with the farrier coursework in order to increase your chances of running a successful business when you graduate.
Find a list of farrier schools in the U.S. at https://professionalfarriers.com/farrier_schools.php.
2-3. Complete the coursework to the best of your ability.
Coursework for farriers is often completed alongside practical experiences, such as forge work and horseshoeing. Course work for farriers often includes things like:
Horse anatomy
Veterinary care
Shoeing horses
Making tools
Welding
2-4. Complete an apprenticeship.
An apprenticeship provides hands-on job experience under the supervision of an experienced farrier. Depending on the requirements of your training program, you may complete an apprenticeship alongside your coursework, in place of coursework, or after completing your coursework.
A four-year apprenticeship with an Accredited Training Farrier (ATF) is required to work as a farrier in the United Kingdom. During the apprenticeship, you are required to complete coursework and take exams.
If you choose not to attend a farrier school, you could potentially become a farrier in the United States after completing an apprenticeship with an experienced farrier.
2-5. Get certified.
Certification is required to work as a farrier in the United Kingdom, but it is not required in the United States. However, it’s recommended to get a farrier certification even if your country doesn’t require it. Getting certified not only sets you apart from your competitors, but also ensures that you have all the skills necessary to run a successful business.
In the United States, the American Farriers Association offers 3 levels of certification: Certified Farrier (AFA CF), Certified Tradesman Farrier (AFA CTF), and Certified Journeyman Farrier (AFA CJF).
2-6. Join professional farrier associations.
Professional associations can help you network in your industry as well as continue your education as a farrier. Check out the American Farrier’s Association, International Association of Professional Farriers, Guild of Professional Farriers, American Association of Professional Farriers, Inc., American Association of Equine Practitioners, and Equine Science Society, as well as local associations.
3. How much do farriers make?
In the United States, the average annual salary for a farrier is $53,275.
The pay varies by state, as well as by country. If you are trained, certified, and provide excellent service, you can make more than the average farrier.
Farriers are typically self-employed and run their own farrier businesses.
4. Starting Your Own Farrier Business
4-1. Create a business plan.
Use your business plan to map out your vision for your future. Include information about your business structure, the market for your business, start-up costs, and operational details.
If you need financing to start your business, a business plan is essential.
4-2. Register your business.
If you plan to do business under a special name rather than using your own name, register your business for state and federal tax purposes. For example, if you plan to do business under the name “Friendly Farrier Service,” then visit your local clerk’s office to register this name.
License your business if necessary. Depending on your state’s laws, you may need to obtain a license for your business as well.
4-3. Get health, disability, and liability insurance.
Being a farrier can be dangerous because you are working closely with horses as well as doing other dangerous tasks, like forging and welding. Before you start working, ensure that you are well covered in the event of an accident.
Health insurance is extremely important for farriers. Don’t opt for the bare minimum insurance options if you can help it. It is likely that you will need to use your insurance at some point, so paying a bit more every month is better than having to pay a lot more out of pocket if you get seriously injured.
Disability insurance will provide you with some security in case you are injured and cannot work for a while.
Liability insurance provides some protection for you in case one of your customers is injured or if their property (including the horse) is damaged by you or as a result of your work.
4-4. Build your client base.
When you’re first starting out, look for clients at horse shows, hand out business cards, and ask other farriers if there are clients they can’t accommodate that they could refer to you. In most cases, you’ll gain clients by word of mouth, so it’s important to build a good reputation as a farrier by providing excellent service to your new and existing clients.
You may want to work as an assistant to an experienced farrier until you have enough clients of your own to support a business.
Do your best to maintain good relationships with your clients, such as by showing up on time for your appointments and listening to your clients’ needs.
Build relationships with local equine veterinarians so you can refer clients to each other.
4-5. Continue to gain knowledge of your trade.
Continuing education is essential for your success as a farrier. Don’t end your education with a basic certification! Keep learning about your trade and gain as many certifications as you can.
Stay up to date on new developments within your trade. Subscribe to industry publications.
Attend clinics, conferences, horse shows, and other equine events.
Take advanced courses and challenge yourself to apply for advanced certifications as well.
Warnings
Never try to perform the work of a farrier without proper training! You could seriously injure yourself or the horse. Go through training and seek the guidance of an experienced farrier before attempting to clean, change, or remove horseshoes.
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1. Steps
1-1. Do you really want to be a fashion designer?
Or are you just wasting your time, when you could be practicing your other hobby? Be sure, before choosing something as a career. After all, it's a matter of a lifetime. You don't want to spend your whole lifetime doing what you opted ten years back.
1-2. Give a boost to your imagination, come up with your own designs and draw it out on a paper!
1-3. Make a fashion portfolio.
Keep it with you all the time, take it everywhere. Label all the colors. If you have any idea, sketch it there and then!
1-4. Encourage Your own style.
Don't let someone's harsh comment drag you backwards. Style is all about creating your own. Even if someone tells you, it's odd, tell them that style is what you create yourself, sometimes it may seem odd to someone, while someone will find it cute. so don't be discouraged by someone's harsh comment.
1-5. Choose good fabric that suits the design.
Have a good fashion and style sense.
1-6. Now, give a good design of your dress to a tailor.
Ask him to make a dress like drawn in that design. Don't worry it will not cost you a fortune!
1-7. While your clothes are being sewn try learn a little sewing yourself!
1-8. Always keep a cute box in which you can keep cute buttons, needles, etc.
that you'll need to sew, so that you won't need to go hunting for useful things, and you find it immediately!
1-9. Learn about fashion!
read magazines, spend your time with videos, your fashion portfolio, if you have free time enhance your imagination, boost yourself and gain experience about fashion.
1-10. Learn how to re-cycle fabric.
Turn your old shirts to bikinis. or your long-sleeved T-shirts into skirts or your jeans into denim skirts. Or your skirt into beautiful artificial flowers.
1-11. Make advertisements and advertise your clothes.
Try to see how people find your clothes.
1-12. Have passion for your work!
Give time to your work. Give it your life and death.
1-13. How about creating your own dresses and offering it to prom girls, or wearing out some outfits to school, eh?
Tips
Try to take inspiration from anything around you, may it be a design on your laptop or the glimmer of sunlight, or the shimmer of water, or the shine of stars, everything is an inspiration!
Warnings
Never, ever copy someone else's style.
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Make advertisements and advertise your clothes.\\nTry to see how people find your clothes.\\n1-12. Have passion for your work!\\nGive time to your work. Give it your life and death.\\n1-13. How about creating your own dresses and offering it to prom girls, or wearing out some outfits to school, eh?\\n\\nTips\\nTry to take inspiration from anything around you, may it be a design on your laptop or the glimmer of sunlight, or the shimmer of water, or the shine of stars, everything is an inspiration!\\nWarnings\\nNever, ever copy someone else's style.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Is being a glamour girl your forever dream? Did you want to be a fashion designer, but the truth that you can't sew has put a full stop to your whole dream? But it really isn't that important, is it?\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Do you really want to be a fashion designer?\", \"描述\": \"Or are you just wasting your time, when you could be practicing your other hobby? 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How to Be a Fashion Expert
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1. Learning More About Fashion
1-1. Learn about the history of fashion.
There is no point not knowing why your clothes look like what they do and how fashion changed throughout time. Coco Chanel changed how women dress, so it's worth renting the Lifetime movie about her.
1-2. Learn 'fashion lingo'.
This is worth researching, as after all, you want to know what you're talking about. Don't go overboard using words no one's ever heard of. Find a fashion vocabulary online, or from another expert. Make sure you're using the words right though.
1-3. Read fashion magazines.
Vogue should be your bible. Read Teen Vogue if appropriate or the Vogue published in your country. Read English or American Vogue if you there isn't a specific edition where you look live.
2. Keeping Up with Trends
2-1. Keep up on some of the cutest and latest trends.
If you're not keeping up on at least some trends, to fellow fashion experts you'll seem, well, clueless. Read Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, and Elle to hear what's in. It's important to know which trends work and which don't though; for example, skinny jeans might flatter you whereas harem pants are just plain ugly. It is important to be a trendsetter, but Anna Wintour's words are worth respecting.
2-2. Check out fashion weeks around the world online and in the news.
This way, you'll know what's going to be in style next season, as well as this season.
2-3. Get yourself a reputation as a trendsetter.
Shop at the local designer stores; even if you're not that rich, there must be something in there you afford (example: a pair of gloves, sunglasses). Be a devoted client to these boutiques and you will get noticed for your style.
2-4. Check out current, popular celebrities' Instagram pics.
These will show you what's in fashion right now and the individual quirks of the celebrities.
2-5. Check out the mall at least once or twice each two weeks.
Look at online stores too.
2-6. Follow fashion trends in music videos, art and literature.
3. Developing Your Own Style
3-1. Search through your own closet first.
In order to be a fashion expert, you must know who you are and what your style is. Take a good look inside of your own closet. You may have outfits that can be totally revamped and look the pinnacle of fashionable. A good tailor would be key in this situation to have things refitted for the new style you are trying to achieve. What you are looking for could be right under your nose!
3-2. Create your own fashion journal.
Cut out clothes or styles that you like and paste them into your fashion journal. Write down a couple of your favorite outfits and say how you feel in them. Draw outfits on people, for different body sizes and shapes. What suits people.
3-3. Invest in classics.
It's important to splurge on basics, because if you're going to wear something all the time, it better be high-quality and fit well. A cashmere cardigan, trench coat, string of pearls, pant suit, and little black dress will take you from season to season year to year. You could always find something very similar to it for less money, but it might tear or be itchy and uncomfortable.
3-4. Create a totally cool outfit that looks and feels great.
Use matching colors and patterns. When you buy your clothes make sure they fit. You don't want them too tight or too baggy. Also make sure they feel good. Don't buy them if they make you itchy or very uncomfortable. Make sure that you feel confident in the clothes. If all the requirements are good then buy it!
3-5. Wear an outfit totally different then anybody else would.
Mix match patterns and colors or maybe try leggings and a long shirt. Whatever it is make sure people would want to follow that trend. But don't make them.
3-6. Add accessories.
From beads to earrings or rings to bracelets. You can add color and spunk to any outfit with accessories. Make sure that they match and they don't feel uncomfortable.
Tips
Some fun fashion magazines include: Lucky, InStyle, Glamour, Allure, Vogue, etc.
Try to find an inspiring setting that will influence some trends or outfit ideas.
Make sure the clothes you buy/ have fit and feel comfortable. You don't want to walk around and be uncomfortable all day. If your clothes do not fit, look for a different size in the store. To avoid these problems simply try them on in a dressing room.
Warnings
Being yourself may require defensive and witty responses at times.
Avoid explaining where you got your clothing and how much it costs.
Never throw out fashion ideas, creations, etc.
Don't be too full of yourself.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Learning More About Fashion\\n1-1. Learn about the history of fashion.\\nThere is no point not knowing why your clothes look like what they do and how fashion changed throughout time. Coco Chanel changed how women dress, so it's worth renting the Lifetime movie about her.\\n1-2. Learn 'fashion lingo'.\\nThis is worth researching, as after all, you want to know what you're talking about. Don't go overboard using words no one's ever heard of. Find a fashion vocabulary online, or from another expert. Make sure you're using the words right though.\\n1-3. Read fashion magazines.\\nVogue should be your bible. Read Teen Vogue if appropriate or the Vogue published in your country. Read English or American Vogue if you there isn't a specific edition where you look live.\\n2. Keeping Up with Trends\\n2-1. Keep up on some of the cutest and latest trends.\\nIf you're not keeping up on at least some trends, to fellow fashion experts you'll seem, well, clueless. Read Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, and Elle to hear what's in. It's important to know which trends work and which don't though; for example, skinny jeans might flatter you whereas harem pants are just plain ugly. It is important to be a trendsetter, but Anna Wintour's words are worth respecting.\\n2-2. Check out fashion weeks around the world online and in the news.\\nThis way, you'll know what's going to be in style next season, as well as this season.\\n2-3. Get yourself a reputation as a trendsetter.\\nShop at the local designer stores; even if you're not that rich, there must be something in there you afford (example: a pair of gloves, sunglasses). Be a devoted client to these boutiques and you will get noticed for your style.\\n2-4. Check out current, popular celebrities' Instagram pics.\\nThese will show you what's in fashion right now and the individual quirks of the celebrities.\\n2-5. Check out the mall at least once or twice each two weeks.\\nLook at online stores too.\\n2-6. Follow fashion trends in music videos, art and literature.\\n\\n3. Developing Your Own Style\\n3-1. Search through your own closet first.\\nIn order to be a fashion expert, you must know who you are and what your style is. Take a good look inside of your own closet. You may have outfits that can be totally revamped and look the pinnacle of fashionable. A good tailor would be key in this situation to have things refitted for the new style you are trying to achieve. What you are looking for could be right under your nose!\\n3-2. Create your own fashion journal.\\nCut out clothes or styles that you like and paste them into your fashion journal. Write down a couple of your favorite outfits and say how you feel in them. Draw outfits on people, for different body sizes and shapes. What suits people.\\n3-3. Invest in classics.\\nIt's important to splurge on basics, because if you're going to wear something all the time, it better be high-quality and fit well. A cashmere cardigan, trench coat, string of pearls, pant suit, and little black dress will take you from season to season year to year. You could always find something very similar to it for less money, but it might tear or be itchy and uncomfortable.\\n3-4. Create a totally cool outfit that looks and feels great.\\nUse matching colors and patterns. When you buy your clothes make sure they fit. You don't want them too tight or too baggy. Also make sure they feel good. Don't buy them if they make you itchy or very uncomfortable. Make sure that you feel confident in the clothes. If all the requirements are good then buy it!\\n3-5. Wear an outfit totally different then anybody else would.\\nMix match patterns and colors or maybe try leggings and a long shirt. Whatever it is make sure people would want to follow that trend. But don't make them.\\n3-6. Add accessories.\\nFrom beads to earrings or rings to bracelets. You can add color and spunk to any outfit with accessories. Make sure that they match and they don't feel uncomfortable.\\nTips\\nSome fun fashion magazines include: Lucky, InStyle, Glamour, Allure, Vogue, etc.\\nTry to find an inspiring setting that will influence some trends or outfit ideas.\\nMake sure the clothes you buy/ have fit and feel comfortable. You don't want to walk around and be uncomfortable all day. If your clothes do not fit, look for a different size in the store. To avoid these problems simply try them on in a dressing room.\\nWarnings\\nBeing yourself may require defensive and witty responses at times.\\nAvoid explaining where you got your clothing and how much it costs.\\nNever throw out fashion ideas, creations, etc.\\nDon't be too full of yourself.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a a fashion expert requires dedication and time. Becoming a fashion expert can be helpful for your fashion-oriented career, be it in writing, modeling, clothes making or running a business.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learning More About Fashion\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn about the history of fashion.\", \"描述\": \"There is no point not knowing why your clothes look like what they do and how fashion changed throughout time. Coco Chanel changed how women dress, so it's worth renting the Lifetime movie about her.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn 'fashion lingo'.\", \"描述\": \"This is worth researching, as after all, you want to know what you're talking about. Don't go overboard using words no one's ever heard of. Find a fashion vocabulary online, or from another expert. Make sure you're using the words right though.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Read fashion magazines.\", \"描述\": \"Vogue should be your bible. Read Teen Vogue if appropriate or the Vogue published in your country. 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How to Be a Fashion Icon
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1. Doing Your Research
1-1. Learn what being a fashion icon means.
Of course, being a fashion icon means setting future trends. It also means being timeless in your style. Being a fashion icon, however, extends beyond style. Icons want to shape and influence culture. So along with understanding fashion, stay up-to-date on current events, research history, and develop a personal philosophy.
Essentially, your life should be more about fashion to truly be an icon. Be interested in things like philosophy, trends outside of fashion, and current events.
1-2. Write down a list of words you want to describe your look.
Take some time to consider what look and “vibe” you want to portray. Then, write down a list of words that correspond with what type of style you’d like to achieve. Some words could be “cute,” “contemporary,” or “eccentric.” The words could also have nothing to do with looks.
For example, you could write down words like “space,” “architecture,” or “painting.”
1-3. Look up fashion icons.
You need to be unique to be a fashion icon, but it’s also important to be knowledgeable about past and current fashion icons. Research a wide array of fashion icons. You can do this by googling “fashion icons” and by looking through books on fashion history at the library. You don’t have to like the icon’s style to appreciate their contribution to fashion.
A few traditional fashion icons are Mick Jagger, Marilyn Monroe, Diana Ross, and Marlon Brando.
A few other, more artistic fashion icons are David Bowie, Elton John, and Lady Gaga.
1-4. Choose your inspirations.
Once you’ve done research on fashion icons, choose a few icons to draw inspiration from. Even fashion icons drew their inspiration from someone or somewhere. You can be inspired by an icon, but still be unique. If the icon is from the past, read about them and look at pictures. If the fashion icon is current, stay up-to-date on their style.
You can stay up-to-date on their style by reading fashion magazines and following their social media.
1-5. Research fashion history.
Beyond knowing about fashion icons, you should also learn about fashion history. That includes fashion from centuries ago, the past few decades, and today—even though today is not technically history yet. You can check out books about fashion from the library, take a class at a college, or simply research it online.
You can also watch documentaries and go to fashion history museums.
You should draw inspiration from fashion history as well.
1-6. Stay up-to-date on fashion trends.
Buy magazines like Elle, Vogue, and Harper's Bazaar. Look at the pictures and read the articles. Mark the pages of what styles you like and create a scrapbook out of the magazines for future use. As you stay up-to-date on the trends try to predict what trends will happen in the future.
Choose a few key looks that will suit your lifestyle and body type, and implement them into your current wardrobe.
2. Developing Your Style
2-1. Experiment with your style.
Unless you’ve already developed your own unique style, you should start and then continue to experiment with your style. First, try something you wouldn’t normally wear, like a color that you usually don’t like. Then, step up the experimentation. For example, you could wear a mechanic’s uniform and match it with accessories for a day.
Your experiments may ultimately be a failure, but it is necessary to fail, even fail many times, on the path to becoming an icon.
2-2. Put your list of words into action.
Go back to the list of words you wrote down that you wanted to describe your look. For example, the words may have been something like “futuristic” or “renaissance.” Now, look for clothing and accessories that would fall into the category of “futuristic,” “renaissance,” or whatever your words may have been. The clothing doesn’t have to be stereotypical of the words. It is all up to your interpretation.
2-3. Take risks.
Fashion risks are very important when it comes to being a style icon. You can’t be an influencer if you stay comfortable. Taking risks helps you grow, stay creative, and ultimately, they get you noticed. A couple fashion risks you could try are wearing all bright orange or turning pajamas into outwear. In the end, the fashion risk should stem from your own creativity.
Fashion risks will never be something that is currently trendy.
2-4. Learn to make clothing.
This isn’t necessary, but it will help if you want to be truly unique when it comes to fashion. Making your own clothing will ensure that no one else in the world wears the same thing as you. Start designing your own clothes by drawing them or using a computer program. Then, learn how to sew your creations.
If you get good at it, you could start making clothing for other people and even create your own clothing line.
2-5. Shop at a wide variety of stores.
You shouldn’t shop at just one place when developing your personal style. If you do, then you are essentially a model for a designer. Instead, shop at a wide variety of stores. Shop at thrift stores, high-end stores, and even department stores. Mix your fashion so the inspiration becomes untraceable.
2-6. Choose a signature accessory.
Many fashion icons have a recognizable accessory that makes them easily identifiable. For example, Jackie Kennedy Onassis could be identified by her signature gloves. Think about something that would pair well with your personal style. You could choose big sunglasses, a bow, or a unique ring.
You could also choose to have quirky socks as your signature accessory.
2-7. Pick a unique hairstyle.
It’s not necessary, but many fashion icons have a signature hairstyle that they’ve stuck with throughout the years. Betsey Johnson, Anna Wintour, Susy Menkes are a few examples. Your signature hair could be bright pink, shaved off, or very long.
3. Working towards Success
3-1. Develop a presence on social media.
Having a strong social media presence is almost necessary when it comes to being a fashion influencer in today’s society. Become active on social media platforms like Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and Snapchat. Post your daily outfits and even create a fashion blog to give advice to others.
Make sure to post at least once a day.
Follow a lot of people at first to try to get yourself noticed.
3-2. Get to know other people in the industry.
It is important to develop relationships with other people that are influential in the fashion industry. Reach out to fashion bloggers on social media and attend fashion events in attempt to get to know these people. Make sure to compliment other stylish people, and they will start noticing what you wear.
You should also cultivate friendships with people that may be successful in the future.
3-3. Further your education.
Your education should never end if you want to be an icon. Always try to stay hungry for more information about fashion. If possible, get a degree in fashion or at least attend a few fashion classes. If that isn’t possible, continue researching fashion and learning from influential people.
Learn about fashion forecasting so that you can be ahead of the game.
Try to get an internship or study under a designer to learn more and cultivate relationships.
3-4. Stick with your style.
Once you’ve developed a style you love, stick with it. A common denominator amongst fashion icons is that they didn’t stray from their personal style. They may have slightly altered it through the years, but they always stayed recognizable.
3-5. Be confident.
You will experience hardship over time, but it is important to stay confident. People are more likely to notice you if you appear confident. Plus, confidence will boost your determination, and to be a fashion icon, you need determination.
3-6. Stay persistent.
Along with confidence, you need to be persistent and patient. You shouldn’t be annoying and overbearing, but you should never give up. Don’t give up even if you experience multiple failures over many years. Believe that you will achieve success in the end. Never be afraid to put yourself out there. Fashion icons didn’t become icons overnight.
Tips
Keep a journal of all the clothes and accessories you wear daily.
Make your own fashion and it will always be yours!
Warnings
Don't be too cocky, confident, or obnoxious. To be a fashion icon, you have to set good examples.
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Some words could be “cute,” “contemporary,” or “eccentric.” The words could also have nothing to do with looks.\\nFor example, you could write down words like “space,” “architecture,” or “painting.”\\n1-3. Look up fashion icons.\\nYou need to be unique to be a fashion icon, but it’s also important to be knowledgeable about past and current fashion icons. Research a wide array of fashion icons. You can do this by googling “fashion icons” and by looking through books on fashion history at the library. You don’t have to like the icon’s style to appreciate their contribution to fashion.\\nA few traditional fashion icons are Mick Jagger, Marilyn Monroe, Diana Ross, and Marlon Brando.\\nA few other, more artistic fashion icons are David Bowie, Elton John, and Lady Gaga.\\n1-4. Choose your inspirations.\\nOnce you’ve done research on fashion icons, choose a few icons to draw inspiration from. Even fashion icons drew their inspiration from someone or somewhere. You can be inspired by an icon, but still be unique. If the icon is from the past, read about them and look at pictures. If the fashion icon is current, stay up-to-date on their style.\\nYou can stay up-to-date on their style by reading fashion magazines and following their social media.\\n1-5. Research fashion history.\\nBeyond knowing about fashion icons, you should also learn about fashion history. That includes fashion from centuries ago, the past few decades, and today—even though today is not technically history yet. You can check out books about fashion from the library, take a class at a college, or simply research it online.\\nYou can also watch documentaries and go to fashion history museums.\\nYou should draw inspiration from fashion history as well.\\n1-6. Stay up-to-date on fashion trends.\\nBuy magazines like Elle, Vogue, and Harper's Bazaar. Look at the pictures and read the articles. Mark the pages of what styles you like and create a scrapbook out of the magazines for future use. As you stay up-to-date on the trends try to predict what trends will happen in the future.\\nChoose a few key looks that will suit your lifestyle and body type, and implement them into your current wardrobe.\\n2. Developing Your Style\\n2-1. Experiment with your style.\\nUnless you’ve already developed your own unique style, you should start and then continue to experiment with your style. First, try something you wouldn’t normally wear, like a color that you usually don’t like. Then, step up the experimentation. For example, you could wear a mechanic’s uniform and match it with accessories for a day.\\nYour experiments may ultimately be a failure, but it is necessary to fail, even fail many times, on the path to becoming an icon.\\n2-2. Put your list of words into action.\\nGo back to the list of words you wrote down that you wanted to describe your look. For example, the words may have been something like “futuristic” or “renaissance.” Now, look for clothing and accessories that would fall into the category of “futuristic,” “renaissance,” or whatever your words may have been. The clothing doesn’t have to be stereotypical of the words. It is all up to your interpretation.\\n2-3. Take risks.\\nFashion risks are very important when it comes to being a style icon. You can’t be an influencer if you stay comfortable. Taking risks helps you grow, stay creative, and ultimately, they get you noticed. A couple fashion risks you could try are wearing all bright orange or turning pajamas into outwear. In the end, the fashion risk should stem from your own creativity.\\nFashion risks will never be something that is currently trendy.\\n2-4. Learn to make clothing.\\nThis isn’t necessary, but it will help if you want to be truly unique when it comes to fashion. Making your own clothing will ensure that no one else in the world wears the same thing as you. Start designing your own clothes by drawing them or using a computer program. Then, learn how to sew your creations.\\nIf you get good at it, you could start making clothing for other people and even create your own clothing line.\\n2-5. Shop at a wide variety of stores.\\nYou shouldn’t shop at just one place when developing your personal style. If you do, then you are essentially a model for a designer. Instead, shop at a wide variety of stores. Shop at thrift stores, high-end stores, and even department stores. Mix your fashion so the inspiration becomes untraceable.\\n2-6. Choose a signature accessory.\\nMany fashion icons have a recognizable accessory that makes them easily identifiable. For example, Jackie Kennedy Onassis could be identified by her signature gloves. Think about something that would pair well with your personal style. You could choose big sunglasses, a bow, or a unique ring.\\nYou could also choose to have quirky socks as your signature accessory.\\n2-7. Pick a unique hairstyle.\\nIt’s not necessary, but many fashion icons have a signature hairstyle that they’ve stuck with throughout the years. Betsey Johnson, Anna Wintour, Susy Menkes are a few examples. Your signature hair could be bright pink, shaved off, or very long.\\n3. Working towards Success\\n3-1. Develop a presence on social media.\\nHaving a strong social media presence is almost necessary when it comes to being a fashion influencer in today’s society. Become active on social media platforms like Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and Snapchat. Post your daily outfits and even create a fashion blog to give advice to others.\\nMake sure to post at least once a day.\\nFollow a lot of people at first to try to get yourself noticed.\\n3-2. Get to know other people in the industry.\\nIt is important to develop relationships with other people that are influential in the fashion industry. Reach out to fashion bloggers on social media and attend fashion events in attempt to get to know these people. Make sure to compliment other stylish people, and they will start noticing what you wear.\\nYou should also cultivate friendships with people that may be successful in the future.\\n3-3. Further your education.\\nYour education should never end if you want to be an icon. Always try to stay hungry for more information about fashion. If possible, get a degree in fashion or at least attend a few fashion classes. If that isn’t possible, continue researching fashion and learning from influential people.\\nLearn about fashion forecasting so that you can be ahead of the game.\\nTry to get an internship or study under a designer to learn more and cultivate relationships.\\n3-4. Stick with your style.\\nOnce you’ve developed a style you love, stick with it. A common denominator amongst fashion icons is that they didn’t stray from their personal style. They may have slightly altered it through the years, but they always stayed recognizable.\\n3-5. Be confident.\\nYou will experience hardship over time, but it is important to stay confident. People are more likely to notice you if you appear confident. Plus, confidence will boost your determination, and to be a fashion icon, you need determination.\\n3-6. Stay persistent.\\nAlong with confidence, you need to be persistent and patient. You shouldn’t be annoying and overbearing, but you should never give up. Don’t give up even if you experience multiple failures over many years. Believe that you will achieve success in the end. Never be afraid to put yourself out there. 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Look at the pictures and read the articles. Mark the pages of what styles you like and create a scrapbook out of the magazines for future use. As you stay up-to-date on the trends try to predict what trends will happen in the future.\\nChoose a few key looks that will suit your lifestyle and body type, and implement them into your current wardrobe.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Developing Your Style\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Experiment with your style.\", \"描述\": \"Unless you’ve already developed your own unique style, you should start and then continue to experiment with your style. First, try something you wouldn’t normally wear, like a color that you usually don’t like. Then, step up the experimentation. For example, you could wear a mechanic’s uniform and match it with accessories for a day.\\nYour experiments may ultimately be a failure, but it is necessary to fail, even fail many times, on the path to becoming an icon.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Put your list of words into action.\", \"描述\": \"Go back to the list of words you wrote down that you wanted to describe your look. For example, the words may have been something like “futuristic” or “renaissance.” Now, look for clothing and accessories that would fall into the category of “futuristic,” “renaissance,” or whatever your words may have been. The clothing doesn’t have to be stereotypical of the words. It is all up to your interpretation.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Take risks.\", \"描述\": \"Fashion risks are very important when it comes to being a style icon. You can’t be an influencer if you stay comfortable. Taking risks helps you grow, stay creative, and ultimately, they get you noticed. A couple fashion risks you could try are wearing all bright orange or turning pajamas into outwear. In the end, the fashion risk should stem from your own creativity.\\nFashion risks will never be something that is currently trendy.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Learn to make clothing.\", \"描述\": \"This isn’t necessary, but it will help if you want to be truly unique when it comes to fashion. Making your own clothing will ensure that no one else in the world wears the same thing as you. Start designing your own clothes by drawing them or using a computer program. Then, learn how to sew your creations.\\nIf you get good at it, you could start making clothing for other people and even create your own clothing line.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Shop at a wide variety of stores.\", \"描述\": \"You shouldn’t shop at just one place when developing your personal style. If you do, then you are essentially a model for a designer. Instead, shop at a wide variety of stores. Shop at thrift stores, high-end stores, and even department stores. Mix your fashion so the inspiration becomes untraceable.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Choose a signature accessory.\", \"描述\": \"Many fashion icons have a recognizable accessory that makes them easily identifiable. For example, Jackie Kennedy Onassis could be identified by her signature gloves. Think about something that would pair well with your personal style. You could choose big sunglasses, a bow, or a unique ring.\\nYou could also choose to have quirky socks as your signature accessory.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Pick a unique hairstyle.\", \"描述\": \"It’s not necessary, but many fashion icons have a signature hairstyle that they’ve stuck with throughout the years. Betsey Johnson, Anna Wintour, Susy Menkes are a few examples. Your signature hair could be bright pink, shaved off, or very long.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Working towards Success\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Develop a presence on social media.\", \"描述\": \"Having a strong social media presence is almost necessary when it comes to being a fashion influencer in today’s society. Become active on social media platforms like Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and Snapchat. Post your daily outfits and even create a fashion blog to give advice to others.\\nMake sure to post at least once a day.\\nFollow a lot of people at first to try to get yourself noticed.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Get to know other people in the industry.\", \"描述\": \"It is important to develop relationships with other people that are influential in the fashion industry. Reach out to fashion bloggers on social media and attend fashion events in attempt to get to know these people. Make sure to compliment other stylish people, and they will start noticing what you wear.\\nYou should also cultivate friendships with people that may be successful in the future.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Further your education.\", \"描述\": \"Your education should never end if you want to be an icon. Always try to stay hungry for more information about fashion. If possible, get a degree in fashion or at least attend a few fashion classes. If that isn’t possible, continue researching fashion and learning from influential people.\\nLearn about fashion forecasting so that you can be ahead of the game.\\nTry to get an internship or study under a designer to learn more and cultivate relationships.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stick with your style.\", \"描述\": \"Once you’ve developed a style you love, stick with it. A common denominator amongst fashion icons is that they didn’t stray from their personal style. 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1. Developing Your Style
1-1. Devote time to being fashionable.
Developing your personal style takes a certain amount of enthusiasm and passion. Finding a style that you like can really help you when getting started.
A great way to start, especially if you don’t know much about men’s fashion, is to read blogs and magazines that are devoted to style, and take tips you like from them.
Look at celebrities that you like for style cues. Pick a celebrity you like who has a similar body type as you and see what clothes you already own that look similar.
A great way to start is to also simply search “men’s style tips” and see what is currently trending. Then take a look at your current wardrobe and see if you can emulate popular styles.
1-2. Take stock of your current style.
Compare your style to the current trends and see how you can incorporate any of your clothes into a fashionable look.
Look at what’s currently in style in terms of colors, patterns, and fit. For example, clothes that offer a slimmer cut and a more tailored fit might be what’s popular.
Perhaps you have a lot of clothes that have patterns that are out of style. Compare what’s popular to what you have and separate outdated items from popular items.
While taking stock, you may find that you have some older clothes that have come back into style that you can take out of retirement.
1-3. Don’t change who you are just for the sake of being fashionable or trying to fit in with what’s popular.
Changing to a certain look or style just because it’s "the cool thing to do" doesn't mean it’s right for you. More than anything else, be yourself.
Part of being fashionable means feeling comfortable in not only your skin but your clothes. If you have a favorite shirt or sweatshirt, you don’t have to get rid of it just to be fashionable.
Keep clothes that make you feel comfortable for now. You may find that when building outfits you can use some of them.
1-4. Read websites and publications devoted to male fashion.
These include GQ, Esquire, Fashion Beans, or Reddit’s Male Fashion Advice. You can find places and forums where people will share style tips and wardrobe ideas.
Don’t buy into everything you read. People sometimes get very adamant that there is a right and wrong way to be fashionable. While there are trends in fashion, it is largely subjective.
These resources are also a great way to find looks and clothing items that may fit better into your budget. You may see a jacket or pair of jeans that you really like, but are too expensive. You can use these resources to find similar items at a better price.
Make a mood board filled with outfit and style inspiration so you can brainstorm different looks.
1-5. Look for brands and stores that appeal to you.
When you find a brand or store that has a lot of clothes you really like and that fit you really well, you can easily upgrade your style and feel confident.
How clothes fit you play a big role in looking fashionable. Just because you love a particular item doesn’t mean it will always fit you correctly, depending on your body type.
Depending on your height, weight, and overall body type, certain clothes will fit you better than others.
If you’re a bigger guy, avoid horizontal stripes and opt for vertical ones. Vertical stripes will draw the eyes downward and make you look slimmer.
If you’re a slimmer guy, you can wear clothes that are tighter-fitting and will accentuate a tight waist.
In general, being a fashionable teenage boy means wearing clothes that create visual tricks which will make your body look as evenly proportioned as possible. Some people like tighter-fitting clothing while others go for a more relaxed fit, but for the most part, you should avoid overly baggy clothes. A more tailored fit will make a huge difference.
2. Crafting Your Wardrobe
2-1. Update your wardrobe for current trends.
Being fashionable requires a bit of creative improvisation. Experiment with new looks and disregard anything that you don't feel comfortable with.
Updating your wardrobe can seem like a daunting task and can easily get expensive, which can be difficult especially if you’re still growing and don’t have a lot of extra money, but you can do a lot with a little.
Separate your clothes into two categories: clothes you like and wear, and clothes you don’t wear. Clean out your wardrobe by donating or selling the clothes you don’t wear.
Then take a look at your “keep” pile. Note which clothes are fashionable and which ones aren’t. This will help you start to build a base for your updated wardrobe.
2-2. Organize a shopping trip.
Ask a parent, older sibling, girlfriend, or any fashionable friend to go shopping with you. They might be able to offer advice and pick out some great clothes for you.
Your siblings or your friends will be able to give you advice on what works or doesn’t work for you and can help you pick out something that you might not on your own.
Create a list of clothing items that you need as staples. For example, you may want to get one pair of jeans you can wear for almost any occasion, a pair of chinos, a casual button-down shirt, a dress shirt, and a sweater.
2-3. Give away any clothes that you don't wear.
Often times we hang onto clothes that don't fit or we hardly ever wear. Gather up these clothes and donate them to a charitable organization or sell them to a resale shop. Be prepared that your parents may be reluctant to throw out clothes that still fit you.
If your parents are reluctant to let you get rid of the clothes you already have, you can try selling them to earn your own money for new clothes. Just make sure that you are upfront with your parents.
Being a teenager can make it hard to find the right fit since you may grow several inches in just a few months. Check out consignment stores for cheaper clothes, or shops like H&M and asos, which offer plenty of trendy items at lower prices.
Shopping at stores that offer lower prices can also help you to convince your parents to update your wardrobe.
2-4. Mix and match clothes
It doesn’t take a lot to create several different looks. Think about the occasion that you’re dressing for and pick out items that look appropriate.
If you’re going to school, you may want to wear clothes that you’ll feel comfortable in all day.
You can also create several fashionable looks with a few staple items like a dark pair of jeans. You can wear jeans with sneakers and a sweater to school, add a blazer or light jacket and change into boots if you’re going somewhere after school. You’ll create a whole new look in a few minutes by adding or changing just a few items.
Mix and match items based on your mood. Maybe you’re in less of a classy mood and more in a street-style mood. Pair your sneakers with jeans or joggers, a plain t-shirt, and a light jacket.
3. Cleaning Up Your Look
3-1. Accent your wardrobe with accessories.
Small accents to your wardrobe will go a long way in enhancing your style. Consider wearing an accessory that can be your signature like a scarf, hat, bracelet, etc.
Remember that being fashionable is subjective, and you should feel comfortable with the number of accessories you wear.
Look for accessories that you might already have that are sentimental to you like a necklace.
Own your style. Maybe you like to wear bracelets, necklaces, and even earrings. Don’t let others’ opinions make you feel awkward for choosing to wear what you wear, because you’ve put in the effort to show off your own style.
Use accessories to tie in a color palate or create some pop. One item that people often overlook is socks. Colorful and patterned socks can add some extra style to your look.
3-2. Wear a watch.
Being a fashionable guy means looking put together and mature no matter how old you are. One item that really does this is the watch.
Even though we may have phones that tell time, a watch is an invaluable accessory and can tie a whole look together.
Wearing a watch shows that you’re punctual and reliable and adds a level of maturity to your look.
You also don’t have to spend a lot on a nice watch. Get a watch with a nylon band that can easily be switched for another one to match the rest of your outfit.
A watch is also a great gift to ask for. And you can tell your parents or whoever may be giving you exactly which one you want.
3-3. Wear a belt that fits your outfit
Besides holding your pants up, belts serve as a way to tie your whole outfit together, and a belt that doesn’t fit right will stand out.
Belts are a great way to connect your shoes to the rest of your outfit. Wearing a brown belt that’s the same color as your shoes will make you look more put-together and fashionable.
While sometimes it looks good to wear black and brown together, it can be tricky to pull off. Avoid wearing a brown belt on black pants or jeans as it usually looks mismatched.
Get a belt that’s the right size for you. Nothing undoes an outfit like having a belt that’s way too big.
3-4. Wear the right shoes.
The right shoes complete an outfit, so don't become dependent on a single pair. While one pair of shoes can be paired with several looks, some just aren’t right for every occasion. You don't want to wear skater shoes at a formal event.
It’s always easier to wear nicer shoes with a casual outfit than it is to wear sneakers with a dressier one. For example, you can pair loafers or wingtips with jeans and a button-down or sweater and look good. And while it’s not impossible, it’s a lot harder to wear sneakers with a suit.
Just because you’re a teenager doesn’t mean that you can’t wear dressier shoes either. Loafers, oxfords, wingtips, and nice boots can go a long way when looking fashionable.
If you don’t have the budget to own a bunch of shoes, you can get a lot of mileage out of a few staples. Consider nice sneakers, a pair of boots, and a pair of dressier shoes to start out.
3-5. Groom yourself.
Clothes that fit well and that look good will only get you so far. Part of being a fashionable male means taking care of your body.
Whether you like your hair long, buzzed, or somewhere in the middle, consider adding some product so that it looks styled and not like you just rolled out of bed. And be sure to wash it on a regular basis.
Be honest with yourself about facial hair. Some teenagers can grow a full beard by 16, while other teens (and even adults) can’t. If you can grow facial hair make sure that it’s trimmed nicely and not like you were raised in the wilderness. If you can’t grow facial hair well, or it’s patchy, then shave it. A clean-shaven face always looks better than patches of peach fuzz.
Keep your nails clean. Dirty or long nails are never attractive and can make you look like you don’t care about your appearance.
Tips
As you develop your style and become more passionate about fashion, you’ll probably be pickier about what you like. Tell people who are giving you gifts that you want a gift card to a favorite store so you don’t receive something you won’t wear.
Eventually, you'll probably come across someone who admires your clothing, copycats aren't uncommon. Take this as a high compliment.
Being fashionable can get you popularity, admiration, and attraction from other people, but remember not to judge people on clothes alone.
Warnings
Don’t just throw out all your old clothes before talking to your parents. If you want a new look, calmly and politely discuss with them your reasons for updating your style. Your parents are more likely to help you when you behave in a mature matter.
Don’t judge other people’s clothing choices. Some people may not share your interest in fashion.
Don't think being fashionable commands certain respect or puts you above others. And if someone asks about your look or a brand you’re wearing, be polite and share your knowledge.
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Tired of wearing the same old clothes that you’ve had for years? As you get older you may find yourself more interested in men’s fashion and have the desire to be a fashionable guy. Developing your own style takes some time and work, but by understanding your body type and current trends, you can easily upgrade your style and be a fashionable young man.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Developing Your Style\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Devote time to being fashionable.\", \"描述\": \"Developing your personal style takes a certain amount of enthusiasm and passion. Finding a style that you like can really help you when getting started.\\nA great way to start, especially if you don’t know much about men’s fashion, is to read blogs and magazines that are devoted to style, and take tips you like from them.\\nLook at celebrities that you like for style cues. 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Compare what’s popular to what you have and separate outdated items from popular items.\\nWhile taking stock, you may find that you have some older clothes that have come back into style that you can take out of retirement.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Don’t change who you are just for the sake of being fashionable or trying to fit in with what’s popular.\", \"描述\": \"Changing to a certain look or style just because it’s \\\"the cool thing to do\\\" doesn't mean it’s right for you. More than anything else, be yourself.\\nPart of being fashionable means feeling comfortable in not only your skin but your clothes. If you have a favorite shirt or sweatshirt, you don’t have to get rid of it just to be fashionable.\\nKeep clothes that make you feel comfortable for now. You may find that when building outfits you can use some of them.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Read websites and publications devoted to male fashion.\", \"描述\": \"These include GQ, Esquire, Fashion Beans, or Reddit’s Male Fashion Advice. You can find places and forums where people will share style tips and wardrobe ideas.\\nDon’t buy into everything you read. People sometimes get very adamant that there is a right and wrong way to be fashionable. While there are trends in fashion, it is largely subjective.\\nThese resources are also a great way to find looks and clothing items that may fit better into your budget. You may see a jacket or pair of jeans that you really like, but are too expensive. You can use these resources to find similar items at a better price.\\nMake a mood board filled with outfit and style inspiration so you can brainstorm different looks.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Look for brands and stores that appeal to you.\", \"描述\": \"When you find a brand or store that has a lot of clothes you really like and that fit you really well, you can easily upgrade your style and feel confident.\\nHow clothes fit you play a big role in looking fashionable. Just because you love a particular item doesn’t mean it will always fit you correctly, depending on your body type.\\nDepending on your height, weight, and overall body type, certain clothes will fit you better than others.\\nIf you’re a bigger guy, avoid horizontal stripes and opt for vertical ones. Vertical stripes will draw the eyes downward and make you look slimmer.\\nIf you’re a slimmer guy, you can wear clothes that are tighter-fitting and will accentuate a tight waist.\\nIn general, being a fashionable teenage boy means wearing clothes that create visual tricks which will make your body look as evenly proportioned as possible. Some people like tighter-fitting clothing while others go for a more relaxed fit, but for the most part, you should avoid overly baggy clothes. A more tailored fit will make a huge difference.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Crafting Your Wardrobe\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Update your wardrobe for current trends.\", \"描述\": \"Being fashionable requires a bit of creative improvisation. Experiment with new looks and disregard anything that you don't feel comfortable with.\\nUpdating your wardrobe can seem like a daunting task and can easily get expensive, which can be difficult especially if you’re still growing and don’t have a lot of extra money, but you can do a lot with a little.\\nSeparate your clothes into two categories: clothes you like and wear, and clothes you don’t wear. Clean out your wardrobe by donating or selling the clothes you don’t wear.\\nThen take a look at your “keep” pile. Note which clothes are fashionable and which ones aren’t. This will help you start to build a base for your updated wardrobe.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Organize a shopping trip.\", \"描述\": \"Ask a parent, older sibling, girlfriend, or any fashionable friend to go shopping with you. They might be able to offer advice and pick out some great clothes for you.\\nYour siblings or your friends will be able to give you advice on what works or doesn’t work for you and can help you pick out something that you might not on your own.\\nCreate a list of clothing items that you need as staples. For example, you may want to get one pair of jeans you can wear for almost any occasion, a pair of chinos, a casual button-down shirt, a dress shirt, and a sweater.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give away any clothes that you don't wear.\", \"描述\": \"Often times we hang onto clothes that don't fit or we hardly ever wear. Gather up these clothes and donate them to a charitable organization or sell them to a resale shop. Be prepared that your parents may be reluctant to throw out clothes that still fit you.\\nIf your parents are reluctant to let you get rid of the clothes you already have, you can try selling them to earn your own money for new clothes. Just make sure that you are upfront with your parents.\\nBeing a teenager can make it hard to find the right fit since you may grow several inches in just a few months. Check out consignment stores for cheaper clothes, or shops like H&M and asos, which offer plenty of trendy items at lower prices.\\nShopping at stores that offer lower prices can also help you to convince your parents to update your wardrobe.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Mix and match clothes\", \"描述\": \"It doesn’t take a lot to create several different looks. Think about the occasion that you’re dressing for and pick out items that look appropriate.\\nIf you’re going to school, you may want to wear clothes that you’ll feel comfortable in all day.\\nYou can also create several fashionable looks with a few staple items like a dark pair of jeans. You can wear jeans with sneakers and a sweater to school, add a blazer or light jacket and change into boots if you’re going somewhere after school. You’ll create a whole new look in a few minutes by adding or changing just a few items.\\nMix and match items based on your mood. Maybe you’re in less of a classy mood and more in a street-style mood. Pair your sneakers with jeans or joggers, a plain t-shirt, and a light jacket.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Cleaning Up Your Look\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Accent your wardrobe with accessories.\", \"描述\": \"Small accents to your wardrobe will go a long way in enhancing your style. Consider wearing an accessory that can be your signature like a scarf, hat, bracelet, etc.\\nRemember that being fashionable is subjective, and you should feel comfortable with the number of accessories you wear.\\nLook for accessories that you might already have that are sentimental to you like a necklace.\\nOwn your style. Maybe you like to wear bracelets, necklaces, and even earrings. Don’t let others’ opinions make you feel awkward for choosing to wear what you wear, because you’ve put in the effort to show off your own style.\\nUse accessories to tie in a color palate or create some pop. One item that people often overlook is socks. Colorful and patterned socks can add some extra style to your look.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wear a watch.\", \"描述\": \"Being a fashionable guy means looking put together and mature no matter how old you are. One item that really does this is the watch.\\nEven though we may have phones that tell time, a watch is an invaluable accessory and can tie a whole look together.\\nWearing a watch shows that you’re punctual and reliable and adds a level of maturity to your look.\\nYou also don’t have to spend a lot on a nice watch. Get a watch with a nylon band that can easily be switched for another one to match the rest of your outfit.\\nA watch is also a great gift to ask for. And you can tell your parents or whoever may be giving you exactly which one you want.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Wear a belt that fits your outfit\", \"描述\": \"Besides holding your pants up, belts serve as a way to tie your whole outfit together, and a belt that doesn’t fit right will stand out.\\nBelts are a great way to connect your shoes to the rest of your outfit. Wearing a brown belt that’s the same color as your shoes will make you look more put-together and fashionable.\\nWhile sometimes it looks good to wear black and brown together, it can be tricky to pull off. Avoid wearing a brown belt on black pants or jeans as it usually looks mismatched.\\nGet a belt that’s the right size for you. Nothing undoes an outfit like having a belt that’s way too big.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Wear the right shoes.\", \"描述\": \"The right shoes complete an outfit, so don't become dependent on a single pair. While one pair of shoes can be paired with several looks, some just aren’t right for every occasion. You don't want to wear skater shoes at a formal event.\\nIt’s always easier to wear nicer shoes with a casual outfit than it is to wear sneakers with a dressier one. For example, you can pair loafers or wingtips with jeans and a button-down or sweater and look good. And while it’s not impossible, it’s a lot harder to wear sneakers with a suit.\\nJust because you’re a teenager doesn’t mean that you can’t wear dressier shoes either. Loafers, oxfords, wingtips, and nice boots can go a long way when looking fashionable.\\nIf you don’t have the budget to own a bunch of shoes, you can get a lot of mileage out of a few staples. Consider nice sneakers, a pair of boots, and a pair of dressier shoes to start out.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Groom yourself.\", \"描述\": \"Clothes that fit well and that look good will only get you so far. Part of being a fashionable male means taking care of your body.\\nWhether you like your hair long, buzzed, or somewhere in the middle, consider adding some product so that it looks styled and not like you just rolled out of bed. And be sure to wash it on a regular basis.\\nBe honest with yourself about facial hair. Some teenagers can grow a full beard by 16, while other teens (and even adults) can’t. If you can grow facial hair make sure that it’s trimmed nicely and not like you were raised in the wilderness. If you can’t grow facial hair well, or it’s patchy, then shave it. A clean-shaven face always looks better than patches of peach fuzz.\\nKeep your nails clean. Dirty or long nails are never attractive and can make you look like you don’t care about your appearance.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"As you develop your style and become more passionate about fashion, you’ll probably be pickier about what you like. Tell people who are giving you gifts that you want a gift card to a favorite store so you don’t receive something you won’t wear.\\n\", \"Eventually, you'll probably come across someone who admires your clothing, copycats aren't uncommon. Take this as a high compliment.\\n\", \"Being fashionable can get you popularity, admiration, and attraction from other people, but remember not to judge people on clothes alone.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Don’t just throw out all your old clothes before talking to your parents. If you want a new look, calmly and politely discuss with them your reasons for updating your style. Your parents are more likely to help you when you behave in a mature matter.\\n\", \"Don’t judge other people’s clothing choices. Some people may not share your interest in fashion.\\n\", \"Don't think being fashionable commands certain respect or puts you above others. And if someone asks about your look or a brand you’re wearing, be polite and share your knowledge.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Staying Current
1-1. Look for fashion inspiration everywhere.
Fashion is all around us, and by reading, watching and learning new things about the world and fashion, you will be inspired and in time become a fashionista. Start looking at the world as your canvas and create, whether it be by styling different clothing garments together, or sketching ideas of clothing garments you'd like to recreate or find in a store.
For instance, if you live in a big city, you might spend time in some of the trendier neighborhoods.
You can be inspired just by watching people walking on the streets!
Think about fashion as an art form. Fashionistas may be equally influenced by Gucci as by music, fine art, or poetry.
1-2. Stay up on the trends in the industry.
Watch what celebs and designers are wearing, and try to recreate those looks into your daily outfits as a fashionista. Try not to copy the looks exactly, but try to put your spin on things.
Knowing what’s coming can help you buy trendy clothes before stores realize they can charge you twice as much as those clothes are worth.
Look for things you've never seen before and wouldn't necessarily buy at first–they might be the next big thing.
1-3. Do your fashion research on social media.
On your personal Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram pages, follow as many style and fashion icons as possible. This way, you can get instant fashion updates at your fingertips. Search popular fashion hashtags and regularly go digging for new and surprising style inspirations online.
Pinterest and Wanelo are great fashion-forward social networking pages that can help connect you with the fashion world.
Start a profile and start saving things you like until you begin to develop a style you like that is all your own.
Check out the "recommended" clothes that are near the things you save.
In Wanelo, you can go to the "Magic" section which provides things they think you'll like based on your recent saves.
1-4. Buy fashion magazines.
Fashion magazines are one of the classic touchstones of being a fashionable person. Particularly look out for magazines like Vogue or Marie Claire where the photography of the adverts can be as informative as the articles themselves. Magazines can give you some basic information about the fashion world.
Carefully examine the details on photos. What is in now and what is not?
Pay attention to the way people style the clothing to inspire your own styling choices.
Can't afford to subscribe to that many fashion magazines? Read them at the bookstore, or head to the library and check out their subscription.
2. Building Your Wardrobe
2-1. Buck trends.
If you want to be a fashionista, you don't have to like what everyone is wearing. By the time you figure out what's trendy and start dressing like other people, it'll be old hat. You don't have to look like the trend-setters out there, and you shouldn't want to. Aim to have your own style.
2-2. Get some solid essentials.
Don’t just go out and buy a bunch of really cool pieces that match with one thing in your closet. You will soon feel that you are running out of clothes when truthfully you just bought a ton of statement pieces like a cool floral skirt with no plain tops to match it with.
Get things like camisoles, plain sweaters and cardigans, a plain skirt, and a few neutral-colored dresses, so you'll have as many options as possible to match.
If you aren't quite ready for wild colors, just go with black and neutrals to make sure you'll have choices.
2-3. Get plenty of shoe options.
The right pair of shoes can make or break a fashionable outfit. Even a simple pair of form-fitting jeans with a cute top can look suddenly spiced up with a surprising pair of pumps. Shoes should be cute and comfortable, and you should have a variety of them to spice up your different looks.
Boots elongate the leg and make you look super toned.
Boots also work almost all year long. They're classic and won’t go out of style.
A cute but casual pair of flats is important for any wardrobe. That does not mean running sneakers.
Invest in a great pair of heels that will last a long time. Then you can get other ones you just like for some special occasions.
2-4. Shop smart.
Fashion's a great hobby, as long as you can afford it. If you're on a budget, it's important to set a particular amount out of your funds that you're allowed to spend on money per month and stay strictly in that limit. You don't have to sacrifice style for cash, though, and you can learn to find quality items for cheap.
Price items at different stores and always go back and compare. Don't go just to one fashion store and settle for what you find.
Try to stay within your budget. You can splurge once in a while on a real statement piece, but there's a difference between fashionista and shopaholic.
2-5. Learn how to accessorize properly.
Jewelry, cute hats, earrings, necklaces, and bracelets are helpful in allowing you to create different looks from the same items in your wardrobe. Find what looks right for you and look at the outfit as a whole in the mirror with it so you don't over accessorize by mistake.
Invest in affordable scarves, jewelry, and shoes to accessorize your outfits.
They make a big difference in any simple outfit, and you can get away with having a wide variety of cheap items that accent your other pieces.
2-6. Learn how to sew and make your own garments
When you truly develop your own style, sometimes you'll picture such an ideal outfit and you go on a mad hunt for it. And you won't find it. Instead of being disappointed, learn how to make it yourself! You can learn to mend your favorite items and keep them looking fresh and new, as well as how to make up new items as you go along, just for the cost of materials. This can be a real cost-saver, and a great way to make statements.
2-7. Purge your wardrobe regularly.
Every couple of months, it's important to get rid of clothes you won't wear anymore. Give old clothes to charity, or have "Naked Lady" parties, in which you get together with a bunch of your fashionable friends and trade items you don't want anymore.
You can save interesting T-shirts or old out-of-style jeans if you think you can combine them to get a unique look.
Still, it's usually easier to clean out your closet and focus on working with what you really like.
3. Getting Dressed
3-1. Learn to mix and match the clothes you already have.
A lot of people assume you need the latest trends to be fashionable, but this doesn't necessarily have to be true. If you mix a plain white t-shirt with denim jeans one day and a black pencil skirt another, you've got two outfits right there made with a minimum of items.
Practice organizing your clothes into different looks when you've got free-time.
3-2. Find out what looks good on you and what doesn't.
Something might be fashionable in general, but it's not right for you and your body type. That's ok. It's important to figure out not only what's stylish and what's "in," but what's going to look good on you.
Spend some quality mirror time trying on different things together and experimenting to see what looks right on you!
Buy clothes which fit your body shape best and accent your best features.
3-3. Wear what makes you feel confident.
To be a fashionista you need to be confident. The number one rule in fashion is to wear what you want to wear, so always wear what you want and choose items that will help you feel comfortable and radiant.
Hold your head up high and improve your posture to get noticed.
Don't wear something just because it's "fashionable," or because someone recommended it.
Fashion changes. If you used to love wearing blazers a year ago, but now you want to try leather jackets, go for it.
Life is short and a fashionista should always wears what she wants.
3-4. Don't over-do it.
Although runway fashion can be very over-the-top and glamorous, sometimes less is more. You don't need to wear a fancy dress to school to be a fashionista. Just be yourself and find clothing that you feel represent you, and make you feel beautiful and confident.
Separate runway fashion from everyday fashion. The designers of those elaborate garments are mostly wearing normal everyday clothes, just like you!
3-5. Have a positive attitude.
Fashionistas need to mimic the beauty your fashions exudes on the outside by being beautiful on the inside. Being a fashionista means nothing if your attitude is not positive. Be happy, and enjoy life. Fashion is wonderful, but brand names and style aren't everything. Learn to be you and love you, and soon your inner fashionista will shine.
Tips
Pay attention to accessories. It's amazing how important is it. Sometimes you can get perfect look wearing classic white or black T-shirt with jeans if you have appropriate accessories.
Always make sure you have fashion checks before you leave your house. If you see someone wearing jeans and a white tee-shirt like you, that's not really unique.
Your make up also must be appropriate.
Warnings
Don't wear something that doesn't look good to you. Don't wear branded clothes that makes you look gross. Find balance between modern and good-looking-to-you.
Don't buy cheap clothes. Quality is very important.
You also don't have to buy extremely expensive things unless you are a millionaire.
Don't mix a lot of colours. You don't want someone to have a headache because of you.
Don't wear your friend's clothes. Make your own collection.
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Try not to copy the looks exactly, but try to put your spin on things.\\nKnowing what’s coming can help you buy trendy clothes before stores realize they can charge you twice as much as those clothes are worth.\\nLook for things you've never seen before and wouldn't necessarily buy at first–they might be the next big thing.\\n1-3. Do your fashion research on social media.\\nOn your personal Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram pages, follow as many style and fashion icons as possible. This way, you can get instant fashion updates at your fingertips. Search popular fashion hashtags and regularly go digging for new and surprising style inspirations online.\\nPinterest and Wanelo are great fashion-forward social networking pages that can help connect you with the fashion world.\\nStart a profile and start saving things you like until you begin to develop a style you like that is all your own.\\nCheck out the \\\"recommended\\\" clothes that are near the things you save.\\nIn Wanelo, you can go to the \\\"Magic\\\" section which provides things they think you'll like based on your recent saves.\\n1-4. Buy fashion magazines.\\nFashion magazines are one of the classic touchstones of being a fashionable person. Particularly look out for magazines like Vogue or Marie Claire where the photography of the adverts can be as informative as the articles themselves. Magazines can give you some basic information about the fashion world.\\nCarefully examine the details on photos. 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Fashionistas may be equally influenced by Gucci as by music, fine art, or poetry.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Stay up on the trends in the industry.\", \"描述\": \"Watch what celebs and designers are wearing, and try to recreate those looks into your daily outfits as a fashionista. Try not to copy the looks exactly, but try to put your spin on things.\\nKnowing what’s coming can help you buy trendy clothes before stores realize they can charge you twice as much as those clothes are worth.\\nLook for things you've never seen before and wouldn't necessarily buy at first–they might be the next big thing.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Do your fashion research on social media.\", \"描述\": \"On your personal Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram pages, follow as many style and fashion icons as possible. This way, you can get instant fashion updates at your fingertips. Search popular fashion hashtags and regularly go digging for new and surprising style inspirations online.\\nPinterest and Wanelo are great fashion-forward social networking pages that can help connect you with the fashion world.\\nStart a profile and start saving things you like until you begin to develop a style you like that is all your own.\\nCheck out the \\\"recommended\\\" clothes that are near the things you save.\\nIn Wanelo, you can go to the \\\"Magic\\\" section which provides things they think you'll like based on your recent saves.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Buy fashion magazines.\", \"描述\": \"Fashion magazines are one of the classic touchstones of being a fashionable person. Particularly look out for magazines like Vogue or Marie Claire where the photography of the adverts can be as informative as the articles themselves. Magazines can give you some basic information about the fashion world.\\nCarefully examine the details on photos. What is in now and what is not?\\nPay attention to the way people style the clothing to inspire your own styling choices.\\nCan't afford to subscribe to that many fashion magazines? Read them at the bookstore, or head to the library and check out their subscription.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Building Your Wardrobe\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Buck trends.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to be a fashionista, you don't have to like what everyone is wearing. By the time you figure out what's trendy and start dressing like other people, it'll be old hat. You don't have to look like the trend-setters out there, and you shouldn't want to. Aim to have your own style.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Get some solid essentials.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t just go out and buy a bunch of really cool pieces that match with one thing in your closet. You will soon feel that you are running out of clothes when truthfully you just bought a ton of statement pieces like a cool floral skirt with no plain tops to match it with.\\nGet things like camisoles, plain sweaters and cardigans, a plain skirt, and a few neutral-colored dresses, so you'll have as many options as possible to match.\\nIf you aren't quite ready for wild colors, just go with black and neutrals to make sure you'll have choices.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Get plenty of shoe options.\", \"描述\": \"The right pair of shoes can make or break a fashionable outfit. Even a simple pair of form-fitting jeans with a cute top can look suddenly spiced up with a surprising pair of pumps. Shoes should be cute and comfortable, and you should have a variety of them to spice up your different looks.\\nBoots elongate the leg and make you look super toned.\\nBoots also work almost all year long. They're classic and won’t go out of style.\\nA cute but casual pair of flats is important for any wardrobe. That does not mean running sneakers.\\nInvest in a great pair of heels that will last a long time. Then you can get other ones you just like for some special occasions.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Shop smart.\", \"描述\": \"Fashion's a great hobby, as long as you can afford it. If you're on a budget, it's important to set a particular amount out of your funds that you're allowed to spend on money per month and stay strictly in that limit. You don't have to sacrifice style for cash, though, and you can learn to find quality items for cheap.\\nPrice items at different stores and always go back and compare. Don't go just to one fashion store and settle for what you find.\\nTry to stay within your budget. You can splurge once in a while on a real statement piece, but there's a difference between fashionista and shopaholic.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Learn how to accessorize properly.\", \"描述\": \"Jewelry, cute hats, earrings, necklaces, and bracelets are helpful in allowing you to create different looks from the same items in your wardrobe. Find what looks right for you and look at the outfit as a whole in the mirror with it so you don't over accessorize by mistake.\\nInvest in affordable scarves, jewelry, and shoes to accessorize your outfits.\\nThey make a big difference in any simple outfit, and you can get away with having a wide variety of cheap items that accent your other pieces.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Learn how to sew and make your own garments\", \"描述\": \"When you truly develop your own style, sometimes you'll picture such an ideal outfit and you go on a mad hunt for it. And you won't find it. Instead of being disappointed, learn how to make it yourself! You can learn to mend your favorite items and keep them looking fresh and new, as well as how to make up new items as you go along, just for the cost of materials. This can be a real cost-saver, and a great way to make statements.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Purge your wardrobe regularly.\", \"描述\": \"Every couple of months, it's important to get rid of clothes you won't wear anymore. Give old clothes to charity, or have \\\"Naked Lady\\\" parties, in which you get together with a bunch of your fashionable friends and trade items you don't want anymore.\\nYou can save interesting T-shirts or old out-of-style jeans if you think you can combine them to get a unique look.\\nStill, it's usually easier to clean out your closet and focus on working with what you really like.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Getting Dressed\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn to mix and match the clothes you already have.\", \"描述\": \"A lot of people assume you need the latest trends to be fashionable, but this doesn't necessarily have to be true. If you mix a plain white t-shirt with denim jeans one day and a black pencil skirt another, you've got two outfits right there made with a minimum of items.\\nPractice organizing your clothes into different looks when you've got free-time.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Find out what looks good on you and what doesn't.\", \"描述\": \"Something might be fashionable in general, but it's not right for you and your body type. That's ok. It's important to figure out not only what's stylish and what's \\\"in,\\\" but what's going to look good on you.\\nSpend some quality mirror time trying on different things together and experimenting to see what looks right on you!\\nBuy clothes which fit your body shape best and accent your best features.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Wear what makes you feel confident.\", \"描述\": \"To be a fashionista you need to be confident. The number one rule in fashion is to wear what you want to wear, so always wear what you want and choose items that will help you feel comfortable and radiant.\\nHold your head up high and improve your posture to get noticed.\\nDon't wear something just because it's \\\"fashionable,\\\" or because someone recommended it.\\nFashion changes. If you used to love wearing blazers a year ago, but now you want to try leather jackets, go for it.\\nLife is short and a fashionista should always wears what she wants.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Don't over-do it.\", \"描述\": \"Although runway fashion can be very over-the-top and glamorous, sometimes less is more. You don't need to wear a fancy dress to school to be a fashionista. Just be yourself and find clothing that you feel represent you, and make you feel beautiful and confident.\\nSeparate runway fashion from everyday fashion. 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1. Making a Workout Plan
1-1. Join a gym to get access to equipment.
Bodybuilding requires you to do lots of intense weight lifting with dumbbells and barbells, which almost all gyms and fitness centers will have. Look online to find a gym that’s close to you and that fits your needs. Be sure to add the monthly membership fee to your budget.
If you really love bodybuilding, you may eventually want to create a home gym. This will require space, time, and money, so start with a gym membership.
1-2. Make a daily schedule for your workouts.
Dedicate yourself to your goal! Set aside an hour or two on training days for workouts. Plan to train five to six days every week.
To build this time into your schedule, wake up one hour earlier than you have in the past. Be sure you don’t sacrifice a healthy sleep schedule of at least eight hours per night, however.
You can also break up the workout into two to three sessions that you fit in over the course of your day.
1-3. Vary your exercises to target different muscle groups.
Once you’ve got exercises that hit every muscle group in the body under your belt, mix them up for maximum effect. Instead of running through all the exercises you know in every workout, create plans that use exercises strategically. For example, you can:
Pair two opposing muscle groups together by doing what’s called “supersetting.” Work out the biceps during one set, then the triceps during your “rest” before the next set of bicep exercises.
Hit muscles groups once every 2-3 days.
Break up your upper-body training days with either rest days or workouts for your lower body.
1-4. Figure out your starting weights for each exercise.
Start with very small weights, and go up a few pounds (or kilos) until you’ve found the weight that lets you complete (but work hard for!) 8-12 repetitions, or “reps.” Don’t worry about how big or small the number is when you’re starting out.
These reps should be tough, especially by the end, but you shouldn’t be straining or hurting yourself. Any weight that causes you to lose your form (such as slumping your shoulders) is also too heavy.
1-5. Do 8-12 reps of each exercise to build muscle.
Make sure you’re doing enough reps of each exercise to make it effective. Generally, a good workout includes 3-4 sets of at least 8-12 reps in each set for every exercise. If you just lift a weight one time, you won’t get very much out of your gym membership!
Rest for about 45 seconds to 2 minutes between sets.
If you’re working with really heavy weights, you can bring the reps down to five per set. You can also increase your set to fifteen reps per set if you’re using lower weights.
You can also increase your number of sets to four or even five.
1-6. Do warm-up sets to avoid injury.
Build up to your target weight with a few lighter sets. This will warm up your muscles. You don’t want to jump right into the thick of your workout, as this could lead to strain or injury.
For example, do one set of 10-15 reps with a very low weight. Next, do a set of 8 reps that’s about 50-60% of the weight you’re training at. Next, do 5 reps at 70-75%, then 3 reps at 80-85%. End with 1 rep at 90-95%.
You may also want to do a brief cardio warm up, such as a 10-minute brisk walk or jog on the treadmill.
1-7. Use a mirror or a spotter to check your form.
Be sure you keep proper posture any time you’re weightlifting. Your shoulders should be back and together, and your back should be straight. Don’t continue lifting if you feel your shoulders start to slump over the weight, or if your back is twisting.
It’s also important to breathe when you lift weights. Breathe out when you lift the weight, and breathe in when you put it back down.
2. Mastering Fundamental Exercies
2-1. Learn basic exercises to build a plan.
A good exercise plan should have 7-10 exercises. Start with the fundamentals. Once you’ve mastered these basic moves, you’ll be able to make your workout harder by increasing the weight and changing up your routine.
2-2. Do squats
Place your feet shoulder-width apart with your toes pointed out a little bit. Use a barbell and keep it positioned behind your head, with the weight on your upper back rather than your neck. Keep your hands on the bar, slightly wider than shoulder-width apart. Keeping your back straight, bend your knees until your thighs are parallel with the ground, making sure your knees are above your foot or ankle. Then, stand back up.
Squats are especially good for your quadriceps, hamstrings, glutes, and calf muscles.
Start out with just the barbell and no weights. Practice your form before adding any weights, as this exercise can really injure your back if you do it incorrectly.
2-3. Do deadlifts
Place your feet shoulder-width apart. Start with a slight bend in your knees and hinge forward from the hips. Bend your knees as much as you need in order to reach the bar. Slowly straighten your legs, keeping a slight bend at the knee. Flex the back of your thigh and buttocks until your bar is at hip level. Keep your back straight while you slowly lower the bar back towards the floor. Repeat.
Make sure your abdominal muscles are strong and engaged throughout the lift!
This exercise should also be started with just a barbell and no weight.
2-4. Add lunges
Place one foot about a shoulder-width distance forward. Keep a light dumbbell in each hand. Lower your body until your forward leg is bent at about a 90 degree angle. Stand up straight again, and repeat. Be sure to do both legs.
2-5. Try push ups
Put yourself in plank position by lowering your body parallel to the ground, keeping your weight on your hands. Bend your arms until your elbows make a 90 degree angle, then lift yourself up again. Keep your core engaged and your back very straight.
You can also do bench presses to work these muscles. For bench presses, you’ll need to use a bench and a weight lifting rack at the gym. Be sure not to try this without a spotter!
2-6. Do inverted rows for a horizontal pull exercise.
Use a suspension trainer or bar at the gym that allows you to pull your body weight up toward the machine. Once you’ve gripped the bar or handles, walk your feet forward so your body is inclined. Then pull yourself through your arms, bending your elbows. This exercise works your biceps, as well as muscles in your back and abdomen.
2-7. Do chin ups
Use a sturdy pull-up bar at home or the gym. Place your hands shoulder-width apart on the bar, facing away from you for pull ups and toward you for chin ups. Dangle from the bar to start. Lift yourself up so that your chin raises above the bar. Lower yourself down again until your arms are straight.
These also work your biceps, back, and core, but “vertical pulls” hit slightly different muscles than horizontal pulls. Be sure to do both types!
You may only be able to do one or two of these when you start out. Work up slowly to sets of 5-7, and then 10-12.
2-8. Do overhead presses for your shoulders and upper back.
Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart. Start by lifting two light dumbbells above your head. Your back should be very straight, and you shouldn’t bend over in any way. Once your form is good, you can graduate to lifting a barbell overhead.
3. Pushing Yourself for Pride or Competitions
3-1. Keep testing your weight limits to increase your lifts.
At the end of every month, test yourself to see where your new optimal weight is for training. Use the same rules as when you started out, increasing the amount you’re lifting until you’ve found the weight that allows you complete (but work hard for) 8-12 reps.
Some workout plans ask you to do a percentage of your “1RM” for several reps. “1RM” refers to “one repetition maximum,” or the maximum amount of weight you can lift for just one rep. This can be a dangerous number to test for, especially for beginners. For safety, go online to find calculators that give you your approximate 1RM based on the weight and reps you’re using in your current workout.
3-2. Do low reps for heavy lifts to build strength.
Sets with lower reps and higher weights build muscle strength and bulk. Plan for sets of between 5-10 reps, depending on how heavy your weight is.
3-3. Do high reps for lighter lifts to build endurance.
Even though you’re focusing on bodybuilding, it’s important to add sets for endurance to your workout plan. Aim for sets of between 12-15 reps when you’re working on endurance.
Spend an equal amount of time doing strength and endurance training by doing these workouts on alternating days. This will make your overall bodybuilding training more effective.
3-4. Take rest days to let your muscles recover.
Rest days are just as important as exercise days. Your muscles need to heal in order to continue building up and getting stronger. An optimal workout plan has at least 1-2 rest days.
3-5. Work out with a partner to push yourself.
Finding a workout buddy will help you keep track of your goals and stick to them. It’ll be much easier to keep yourself motivated if you have a friend cheering for you and struggling alongside you. You two can also spot each other and check for safety.
3-6. Enter a competition to test your skills.
Decide whether you want to compete in “bikini,” “figure,” “physique,” or “bodybuilding” events. Go online to see if there are local competitions, or if you’ll need to drive to the nearest city. Once you’ve picked your spot, enter by using an online form and paying any entrance fees.
Bikini competitions look for the traditional female shape.
Figure emphasizes muscle definition and symmetry, although these events still aim for a “soft” look.
Physique judges on muscle size and development.
Bodybuilding is all about being heavily muscled.
Research your show options to find out about their standards and requirements for posing, costumes, and judging.
3-7. Prepare for the competition by getting serious.
Keep track of what you eat, and make sure you’re getting enough protein. You’ll also need to keep your workouts consistent and high in their intensity. Buy a competition suit, and don’t forget to practice posing.
Eliminate all junk food and simple carbohydrates from your diet three months before the competition.
Make your workout more intense by keeping the weights and reps pretty consistent, but decreasing your rest periods in between sets. Be sure to superset exercises together.
4. Eating to Build Muscle
4-1. Get enough protein to support muscle growth.
The most important element of a diet aimed at building muscle is protein. Aim for a daily intake of about 1.3 to 1.8 grams (0.046 to 0.063 oz) of protein for every 1 kilogram (2.2 lb) you weigh. Get this protein from lean meats such as chicken and fish, or vegetables like peas, hemp, or spinach.
4-2. Consume protein no more than 24 hours after workouts.
In order to make your protein consumption effective, eat it soon after you work out. This will allow the protein to target and build up the muscles you’ve just worked out.
4-3. Get enough calories to keep your energy high.
Don’t undereat! You’re working out and sweating, which means you need lots of nutrition. The average woman should get about 2,000 calories per day. If you want to cut that number down, keep track of signs that you’re not eating enough, such as:
Fatigue.
Low motivation for workouts.
Extreme soreness after workouts.
Increased moodiness and/or depression.
4-4. Eat whole grains for carbohydrates.
Not all carbs are bad! Carbohydrates are actually a key source for the production of insulin and glycogen, both critical to your health. Get carbs from healthy sources such as whole-grain rice and pasta and quinoa.
Carbohydrates should make up between 45% and 65% of your total daily calories. So if your average daily calorie intake is 2,000, between 900 and 1,300 should be from carbohydrates.
This roughly translates into between 225 and 325 grams (7.9 and 11.5 oz) of carbohydrates a day.
Ad just this number as necessary by listening to your body, energy levels, and body building goals.
4-5. Don’t skip healthy fats.
Fats that come from unprocessed foods are critical to your overall nutrition, and they should make about 30% of your daily diet. Eat eggs, nuts, and avocados to add these essential fats to your meals.
4-6. Consider adding a powder protein supplement.
Many bodybuilders take a daily powder supplement of whey protein. Taking this supplement in moderate, recommended amounts can aid weight loss while also promoting the building of lean muscle.
Be sure to follow the instructions for dosage. If you take very high doses of whey protein, you could experience nausea, stomach pains or cramps, headaches, and fatigue.
Protein supplements aren’t necessary for bodybuilding, and they can’t replace natural sources of protein.
Tips
Be sure you’re getting enough sleep. You can’t have a healthy, fit body without at least eight hours of regular sleep each night.
Warnings
Don’t push yourself past your limits. Any time you start to feel pain when lifting, stop immediately.
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Do high reps for lighter lifts to build endurance.\\nEven though you’re focusing on bodybuilding, it’s important to add sets for endurance to your workout plan. Aim for sets of between 12-15 reps when you’re working on endurance.\\nSpend an equal amount of time doing strength and endurance training by doing these workouts on alternating days. This will make your overall bodybuilding training more effective.\\n3-4. Take rest days to let your muscles recover.\\nRest days are just as important as exercise days. Your muscles need to heal in order to continue building up and getting stronger. An optimal workout plan has at least 1-2 rest days.\\n3-5. Work out with a partner to push yourself.\\nFinding a workout buddy will help you keep track of your goals and stick to them. It’ll be much easier to keep yourself motivated if you have a friend cheering for you and struggling alongside you. You two can also spot each other and check for safety.\\n3-6. Enter a competition to test your skills.\\nDecide whether you want to compete in “bikini,” “figure,” “physique,” or “bodybuilding” events. Go online to see if there are local competitions, or if you’ll need to drive to the nearest city. Once you’ve picked your spot, enter by using an online form and paying any entrance fees.\\nBikini competitions look for the traditional female shape.\\nFigure emphasizes muscle definition and symmetry, although these events still aim for a “soft” look.\\nPhysique judges on muscle size and development.\\nBodybuilding is all about being heavily muscled.\\nResearch your show options to find out about their standards and requirements for posing, costumes, and judging.\\n3-7. Prepare for the competition by getting serious.\\nKeep track of what you eat, and make sure you’re getting enough protein. You’ll also need to keep your workouts consistent and high in their intensity. Buy a competition suit, and don’t forget to practice posing.\\nEliminate all junk food and simple carbohydrates from your diet three months before the competition.\\nMake your workout more intense by keeping the weights and reps pretty consistent, but decreasing your rest periods in between sets. Be sure to superset exercises together.\\n4. Eating to Build Muscle\\n4-1. Get enough protein to support muscle growth.\\nThe most important element of a diet aimed at building muscle is protein. Aim for a daily intake of about 1.3 to 1.8 grams (0.046 to 0.063 oz) of protein for every 1 kilogram (2.2 lb) you weigh. Get this protein from lean meats such as chicken and fish, or vegetables like peas, hemp, or spinach.\\n4-2. Consume protein no more than 24 hours after workouts.\\nIn order to make your protein consumption effective, eat it soon after you work out. This will allow the protein to target and build up the muscles you’ve just worked out.\\n4-3. Get enough calories to keep your energy high.\\nDon’t undereat! You’re working out and sweating, which means you need lots of nutrition. The average woman should get about 2,000 calories per day. If you want to cut that number down, keep track of signs that you’re not eating enough, such as:\\nFatigue.\\nLow motivation for workouts.\\nExtreme soreness after workouts.\\nIncreased moodiness and/or depression.\\n4-4. Eat whole grains for carbohydrates.\\nNot all carbs are bad! Carbohydrates are actually a key source for the production of insulin and glycogen, both critical to your health. Get carbs from healthy sources such as whole-grain rice and pasta and quinoa.\\nCarbohydrates should make up between 45% and 65% of your total daily calories. So if your average daily calorie intake is 2,000, between 900 and 1,300 should be from carbohydrates.\\nThis roughly translates into between 225 and 325 grams (7.9 and 11.5 oz) of carbohydrates a day.\\nAd just this number as necessary by listening to your body, energy levels, and body building goals.\\n4-5. Don’t skip healthy fats.\\nFats that come from unprocessed foods are critical to your overall nutrition, and they should make about 30% of your daily diet. Eat eggs, nuts, and avocados to add these essential fats to your meals.\\n4-6. Consider adding a powder protein supplement.\\nMany bodybuilders take a daily powder supplement of whey protein. Taking this supplement in moderate, recommended amounts can aid weight loss while also promoting the building of lean muscle.\\nBe sure to follow the instructions for dosage. If you take very high doses of whey protein, you could experience nausea, stomach pains or cramps, headaches, and fatigue.\\nProtein supplements aren’t necessary for bodybuilding, and they can’t replace natural sources of protein.\\nTips\\nBe sure you’re getting enough sleep. You can’t have a healthy, fit body without at least eight hours of regular sleep each night.\\nWarnings\\nDon’t push yourself past your limits. Any time you start to feel pain when lifting, stop immediately.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Female bodybuilding is a popular way for women to build muscle and confidence. You can lift weights and gain muscle for fun or for competitions. No matter what you plan to do with your bodybuilding, it’s important to start by learning the fundamentals. You can then take your workouts to the next level and adjust your diet to become the ultimate female bodybuilder!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Making a Workout Plan\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Join a gym to get access to equipment.\", \"描述\": \"Bodybuilding requires you to do lots of intense weight lifting with dumbbells and barbells, which almost all gyms and fitness centers will have. Look online to find a gym that’s close to you and that fits your needs. Be sure to add the monthly membership fee to your budget.\\nIf you really love bodybuilding, you may eventually want to create a home gym. This will require space, time, and money, so start with a gym membership.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make a daily schedule for your workouts.\", \"描述\": \"Dedicate yourself to your goal! Set aside an hour or two on training days for workouts. Plan to train five to six days every week.\\nTo build this time into your schedule, wake up one hour earlier than you have in the past. Be sure you don’t sacrifice a healthy sleep schedule of at least eight hours per night, however.\\nYou can also break up the workout into two to three sessions that you fit in over the course of your day.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Vary your exercises to target different muscle groups.\", \"描述\": \"Once you’ve got exercises that hit every muscle group in the body under your belt, mix them up for maximum effect. Instead of running through all the exercises you know in every workout, create plans that use exercises strategically. For example, you can:\\nPair two opposing muscle groups together by doing what’s called “supersetting.” Work out the biceps during one set, then the triceps during your “rest” before the next set of bicep exercises.\\nHit muscles groups once every 2-3 days.\\nBreak up your upper-body training days with either rest days or workouts for your lower body.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Figure out your starting weights for each exercise.\", \"描述\": \"Start with very small weights, and go up a few pounds (or kilos) until you’ve found the weight that lets you complete (but work hard for!) 8-12 repetitions, or “reps.” Don’t worry about how big or small the number is when you’re starting out.\\nThese reps should be tough, especially by the end, but you shouldn’t be straining or hurting yourself. Any weight that causes you to lose your form (such as slumping your shoulders) is also too heavy.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Do 8-12 reps of each exercise to build muscle.\", \"描述\": \"Make sure you’re doing enough reps of each exercise to make it effective. Generally, a good workout includes 3-4 sets of at least 8-12 reps in each set for every exercise. If you just lift a weight one time, you won’t get very much out of your gym membership!\\nRest for about 45 seconds to 2 minutes between sets.\\nIf you’re working with really heavy weights, you can bring the reps down to five per set. You can also increase your set to fifteen reps per set if you’re using lower weights.\\nYou can also increase your number of sets to four or even five.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Do warm-up sets to avoid injury.\", \"描述\": \"Build up to your target weight with a few lighter sets. This will warm up your muscles. You don’t want to jump right into the thick of your workout, as this could lead to strain or injury.\\nFor example, do one set of 10-15 reps with a very low weight. Next, do a set of 8 reps that’s about 50-60% of the weight you’re training at. Next, do 5 reps at 70-75%, then 3 reps at 80-85%. End with 1 rep at 90-95%.\\nYou may also want to do a brief cardio warm up, such as a 10-minute brisk walk or jog on the treadmill.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Use a mirror or a spotter to check your form.\", \"描述\": \"Be sure you keep proper posture any time you’re weightlifting. Your shoulders should be back and together, and your back should be straight. Don’t continue lifting if you feel your shoulders start to slump over the weight, or if your back is twisting.\\nIt’s also important to breathe when you lift weights. Breathe out when you lift the weight, and breathe in when you put it back down.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Mastering Fundamental Exercies\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn basic exercises to build a plan.\", \"描述\": \"A good exercise plan should have 7-10 exercises. Start with the fundamentals. Once you’ve mastered these basic moves, you’ll be able to make your workout harder by increasing the weight and changing up your routine.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Do squats\", \"描述\": \"Place your feet shoulder-width apart with your toes pointed out a little bit. Use a barbell and keep it positioned behind your head, with the weight on your upper back rather than your neck. Keep your hands on the bar, slightly wider than shoulder-width apart. Keeping your back straight, bend your knees until your thighs are parallel with the ground, making sure your knees are above your foot or ankle. Then, stand back up.\\nSquats are especially good for your quadriceps, hamstrings, glutes, and calf muscles.\\nStart out with just the barbell and no weights. Practice your form before adding any weights, as this exercise can really injure your back if you do it incorrectly.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Do deadlifts\", \"描述\": \"Place your feet shoulder-width apart. Start with a slight bend in your knees and hinge forward from the hips. Bend your knees as much as you need in order to reach the bar. Slowly straighten your legs, keeping a slight bend at the knee. Flex the back of your thigh and buttocks until your bar is at hip level. Keep your back straight while you slowly lower the bar back towards the floor. Repeat.\\nMake sure your abdominal muscles are strong and engaged throughout the lift!\\nThis exercise should also be started with just a barbell and no weight.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Add lunges\", \"描述\": \"Place one foot about a shoulder-width distance forward. Keep a light dumbbell in each hand. Lower your body until your forward leg is bent at about a 90 degree angle. Stand up straight again, and repeat. Be sure to do both legs.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Try push ups\", \"描述\": \"Put yourself in plank position by lowering your body parallel to the ground, keeping your weight on your hands. Bend your arms until your elbows make a 90 degree angle, then lift yourself up again. Keep your core engaged and your back very straight.\\nYou can also do bench presses to work these muscles. For bench presses, you’ll need to use a bench and a weight lifting rack at the gym. Be sure not to try this without a spotter!\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Do inverted rows for a horizontal pull exercise.\", \"描述\": \"Use a suspension trainer or bar at the gym that allows you to pull your body weight up toward the machine. Once you’ve gripped the bar or handles, walk your feet forward so your body is inclined. Then pull yourself through your arms, bending your elbows. This exercise works your biceps, as well as muscles in your back and abdomen.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Do chin ups\", \"描述\": \"Use a sturdy pull-up bar at home or the gym. Place your hands shoulder-width apart on the bar, facing away from you for pull ups and toward you for chin ups. Dangle from the bar to start. Lift yourself up so that your chin raises above the bar. Lower yourself down again until your arms are straight.\\nThese also work your biceps, back, and core, but “vertical pulls” hit slightly different muscles than horizontal pulls. Be sure to do both types!\\nYou may only be able to do one or two of these when you start out. Work up slowly to sets of 5-7, and then 10-12.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Do overhead presses for your shoulders and upper back.\", \"描述\": \"Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart. Start by lifting two light dumbbells above your head. Your back should be very straight, and you shouldn’t bend over in any way. Once your form is good, you can graduate to lifting a barbell overhead.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Pushing Yourself for Pride or Competitions\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep testing your weight limits to increase your lifts.\", \"描述\": \"At the end of every month, test yourself to see where your new optimal weight is for training. Use the same rules as when you started out, increasing the amount you’re lifting until you’ve found the weight that allows you complete (but work hard for) 8-12 reps.\\nSome workout plans ask you to do a percentage of your “1RM” for several reps. “1RM” refers to “one repetition maximum,” or the maximum amount of weight you can lift for just one rep. This can be a dangerous number to test for, especially for beginners. For safety, go online to find calculators that give you your approximate 1RM based on the weight and reps you’re using in your current workout.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Do low reps for heavy lifts to build strength.\", \"描述\": \"Sets with lower reps and higher weights build muscle strength and bulk. Plan for sets of between 5-10 reps, depending on how heavy your weight is.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Do high reps for lighter lifts to build endurance.\", \"描述\": \"Even though you’re focusing on bodybuilding, it’s important to add sets for endurance to your workout plan. Aim for sets of between 12-15 reps when you’re working on endurance.\\nSpend an equal amount of time doing strength and endurance training by doing these workouts on alternating days. This will make your overall bodybuilding training more effective.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Take rest days to let your muscles recover.\", \"描述\": \"Rest days are just as important as exercise days. Your muscles need to heal in order to continue building up and getting stronger. An optimal workout plan has at least 1-2 rest days.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Work out with a partner to push yourself.\", \"描述\": \"Finding a workout buddy will help you keep track of your goals and stick to them. It’ll be much easier to keep yourself motivated if you have a friend cheering for you and struggling alongside you. You two can also spot each other and check for safety.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Enter a competition to test your skills.\", \"描述\": \"Decide whether you want to compete in “bikini,” “figure,” “physique,” or “bodybuilding” events. Go online to see if there are local competitions, or if you’ll need to drive to the nearest city. Once you’ve picked your spot, enter by using an online form and paying any entrance fees.\\nBikini competitions look for the traditional female shape.\\nFigure emphasizes muscle definition and symmetry, although these events still aim for a “soft” look.\\nPhysique judges on muscle size and development.\\nBodybuilding is all about being heavily muscled.\\nResearch your show options to find out about their standards and requirements for posing, costumes, and judging.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Prepare for the competition by getting serious.\", \"描述\": \"Keep track of what you eat, and make sure you’re getting enough protein. You’ll also need to keep your workouts consistent and high in their intensity. Buy a competition suit, and don’t forget to practice posing.\\nEliminate all junk food and simple carbohydrates from your diet three months before the competition.\\nMake your workout more intense by keeping the weights and reps pretty consistent, but decreasing your rest periods in between sets. Be sure to superset exercises together.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Eating to Build Muscle\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get enough protein to support muscle growth.\", \"描述\": \"The most important element of a diet aimed at building muscle is protein. Aim for a daily intake of about 1.3 to 1.8 grams (0.046 to 0.063 oz) of protein for every 1 kilogram (2.2 lb) you weigh. Get this protein from lean meats such as chicken and fish, or vegetables like peas, hemp, or spinach.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Consume protein no more than 24 hours after workouts.\", \"描述\": \"In order to make your protein consumption effective, eat it soon after you work out. This will allow the protein to target and build up the muscles you’ve just worked out.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Get enough calories to keep your energy high.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t undereat! You’re working out and sweating, which means you need lots of nutrition. The average woman should get about 2,000 calories per day. If you want to cut that number down, keep track of signs that you’re not eating enough, such as:\\nFatigue.\\nLow motivation for workouts.\\nExtreme soreness after workouts.\\nIncreased moodiness and/or depression.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Eat whole grains for carbohydrates.\", \"描述\": \"Not all carbs are bad! Carbohydrates are actually a key source for the production of insulin and glycogen, both critical to your health. Get carbs from healthy sources such as whole-grain rice and pasta and quinoa.\\nCarbohydrates should make up between 45% and 65% of your total daily calories. 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1. Appearing More Feminine
1-1. Keep facial hair trimmed down and manage body hair.
One of the easiest steps you can take to appear more feminine is to remove your facial hair. Use a razor and shaving cream to get rid of your facial hair, and shave regularly to fend off the 5 o’clock shadow. If you want to take it a step further, shave your legs, arms, and chest to get rid of your body hair.
Electric razors tend to leave a little stubble behind. Use a standard razor and shaving cream to get a cleaner shave.
Get a shower gel to shave in the shower if you want to moisturize your skin after shaving.
Women and feminine people are generally expected to have less body and facial hair, but keeping it is perfectly fine!
1-2. Moisturize and practice regular skincare techniques to maintain blemish-free skin.
Find a skincare routine that works for your skin type and budget. Wash your face daily with a high-quality face wash. Use eye cream to brighten the skin around your eyes. Use lotion every day to keep your skin healthy, happy, and smooth.
Wear sunscreen and a hat if you’re going to be spending a lot of time in the sun. The sun’s rays will damage your skin, making you appear more masculine.
1-3. Wear tighter-fitting clothing that complements your body shape.
Men tend to wear baggier clothing than women do, so updating your wardrobe to include some tighter clothing is a simple step you can take to appear more feminine. When lounging around, try some short shorts and a tight tank top or T-shirt. For formal events, try tighter slacks that ride a little higher on your waist and a form-fitting suit jacket.
Trade in your standard-cut jeans for some slim-fit or skinny jeans. Pack the XXL T-shirts up, and get some flattering tank tops and V-cut shirts that are a little more form-fitting.
If you’re on the bigger side, avoid going so tight that your clothing hugs your body. Pick clothing items that make you appear slimmer and have more folds or textures on them.
You don’t have to wear women’s clothing to be a feminine guy, but you can if you’d like! Try wearing skirts, dresses, or flowy blouses if you want to try out some women’s clothing.
Feminine clothing style is all about fit and color. You don’t have to wear anything tight if that’s not your vibe, but try balancing out your outfits a little more carefully to choose coherent looks.
1-4. Grow your hair out and style it in a way that works for you.
Women tend to have longer hair than men, so growing your hair out will help you appear more feminine. Wait 6-12 months for your hair to grow out and style it. Brush it regularly and experiment with flat irons and curling irons to find a hair style that works for you. A ponytail is a simple choice, but you can really do it however you want. Let it hang loose in a simple straight cut, braid it, or tie it up however you’d like!
Hats can be your best-friend when your hair is in that in-between state where it’s longer than short hair but not quite luscious enough to work with longer styles.
1-5. Wear makeup to accentuate your feminine features.
Women are often expected to wear makeup, but it can also be a great way to express your femininity. Get a high-quality foundation that matches your skin tone and get a concealer to cover blemishes, pimples, and discoloration. Use blush to brighten your cheeks a little and make your face softer. Use eye shadow to make your eyes pop and give you the classic feminine look.
If you’re uncomfortable with wearing makeup, skip it! Your brand of femininity doesn’t need to match everyone else’s picture of what femininity is.
2. Behaving More Femininely
2-1. Speak with an upward inflection and raise your pitch when speaking.
To sound more feminine, raise your voice half an octave to make it comfortably lighter. When having everyday conversations, speak with a slight, upward inflection to make your voice sound softer. While it might feel kind of awkward at first, you’ll get used to speaking differently after a week or two!
2-2. Cross your legs when you’re sitting down and sit up straight.
Body language is a big element of gender expression. Men tend to sit with their legs spread out, taking up a lot of space in the process. To seem more typically feminine, cross your legs over one another when you’re sitting down. When you’re standing, keep your legs closer together.
Bring your elbows in when you’re standing so that they stay on your sides. Women tend to stand like this more frequently than men.
Slouching tends to be a masculine move. Sit up and stand up straight to keep your frame straight and appear more woman-like.
2-3. Be more polite to come off as soft and gentle.
Generally speaking, women tend to be more polite than men, which is because they are expected to be this way. Say “please” and “thank you” whenever you can, and use softer language to express complaints or concerns. For example, instead of saying, “I don’t know what you want from me,” say “I’m sorry, I don’t think I understand what you’d like me to do.” Managing your tone will give the overall impression that you’re more feminine.
This is where the stereotype that women are passive-aggressive comes from. They aren’t passive-aggressive, they just tend to state complaints politely!
2-4. Trust your intuition and listen to your instincts.
To get in touch with your personal vision of femininity, you need to recognize that ego, social norms, and logic are going to get in the way. Leave your reservations aside and start to trust your natural instincts. Be confident that your own emotional truths are worth exploring and engage with them to develop a better sense of what it actually means to be emotionally intuitive.
As you learn to ignore your ego, you’ll notice that it’s easier to calibrate how you feel about yourself without shading your self-image with society’s expectations for you.
Being sensitive just means that you accurately identify your feelings and respond accordingly. This is commonly seen as a feminine trait because men are stereotypically seen as more logical and prone to ignore the way they feel.
2-5. Accept who you are and embrace it with confidence!
Unfortunately, people can be judgmental. If you find people critiquing you or trying to put you down, ignore them. They’re just projecting their own insecurities on to you. Own who you are be proud of it. With enough confidence, you can make any look, style, or behavior your own!
Stand up for yourself and tell your friends if they’re ever being cruel. They may simply not recognize that they’re behaving in a way that’s upsetting you.
Tips
If you’re known for drinking beer, wearing baggy jeans, and rocking a giant beard, you may throw people off if you show up to the next party like you’re a completely different person. Ease into it if you want to comfortably explore your feminine side without disrupting your social life.
Warnings
Be careful about violating the dress code at work. Depending on where you live, it may be legal for your employer to reprimand you for wearing heels, makeup, or having a certain hair style. It’s unfortunate, but it’s a reality in some states and countries.
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Use eye cream to brighten the skin around your eyes. Use lotion every day to keep your skin healthy, happy, and smooth.\\nWear sunscreen and a hat if you’re going to be spending a lot of time in the sun. The sun’s rays will damage your skin, making you appear more masculine.\\n1-3. Wear tighter-fitting clothing that complements your body shape.\\nMen tend to wear baggier clothing than women do, so updating your wardrobe to include some tighter clothing is a simple step you can take to appear more feminine. When lounging around, try some short shorts and a tight tank top or T-shirt. For formal events, try tighter slacks that ride a little higher on your waist and a form-fitting suit jacket.\\nTrade in your standard-cut jeans for some slim-fit or skinny jeans. Pack the XXL T-shirts up, and get some flattering tank tops and V-cut shirts that are a little more form-fitting.\\nIf you’re on the bigger side, avoid going so tight that your clothing hugs your body. Pick clothing items that make you appear slimmer and have more folds or textures on them.\\nYou don’t have to wear women’s clothing to be a feminine guy, but you can if you’d like! Try wearing skirts, dresses, or flowy blouses if you want to try out some women’s clothing.\\nFeminine clothing style is all about fit and color. You don’t have to wear anything tight if that’s not your vibe, but try balancing out your outfits a little more carefully to choose coherent looks.\\n1-4. Grow your hair out and style it in a way that works for you.\\nWomen tend to have longer hair than men, so growing your hair out will help you appear more feminine. Wait 6-12 months for your hair to grow out and style it. Brush it regularly and experiment with flat irons and curling irons to find a hair style that works for you. A ponytail is a simple choice, but you can really do it however you want. Let it hang loose in a simple straight cut, braid it, or tie it up however you’d like!\\nHats can be your best-friend when your hair is in that in-between state where it’s longer than short hair but not quite luscious enough to work with longer styles.\\n1-5. Wear makeup to accentuate your feminine features.\\nWomen are often expected to wear makeup, but it can also be a great way to express your femininity. Get a high-quality foundation that matches your skin tone and get a concealer to cover blemishes, pimples, and discoloration. Use blush to brighten your cheeks a little and make your face softer. Use eye shadow to make your eyes pop and give you the classic feminine look.\\nIf you’re uncomfortable with wearing makeup, skip it! Your brand of femininity doesn’t need to match everyone else’s picture of what femininity is.\\n2. Behaving More Femininely\\n2-1. Speak with an upward inflection and raise your pitch when speaking.\\nTo sound more feminine, raise your voice half an octave to make it comfortably lighter. When having everyday conversations, speak with a slight, upward inflection to make your voice sound softer. While it might feel kind of awkward at first, you’ll get used to speaking differently after a week or two!\\n2-2. Cross your legs when you’re sitting down and sit up straight.\\nBody language is a big element of gender expression. Men tend to sit with their legs spread out, taking up a lot of space in the process. To seem more typically feminine, cross your legs over one another when you’re sitting down. When you’re standing, keep your legs closer together.\\nBring your elbows in when you’re standing so that they stay on your sides. Women tend to stand like this more frequently than men.\\nSlouching tends to be a masculine move. Sit up and stand up straight to keep your frame straight and appear more woman-like.\\n2-3. Be more polite to come off as soft and gentle.\\nGenerally speaking, women tend to be more polite than men, which is because they are expected to be this way. Say “please” and “thank you” whenever you can, and use softer language to express complaints or concerns. For example, instead of saying, “I don’t know what you want from me,” say “I’m sorry, I don’t think I understand what you’d like me to do.” Managing your tone will give the overall impression that you’re more feminine.\\nThis is where the stereotype that women are passive-aggressive comes from. They aren’t passive-aggressive, they just tend to state complaints politely!\\n2-4. Trust your intuition and listen to your instincts.\\nTo get in touch with your personal vision of femininity, you need to recognize that ego, social norms, and logic are going to get in the way. Leave your reservations aside and start to trust your natural instincts. Be confident that your own emotional truths are worth exploring and engage with them to develop a better sense of what it actually means to be emotionally intuitive.\\nAs you learn to ignore your ego, you’ll notice that it’s easier to calibrate how you feel about yourself without shading your self-image with society’s expectations for you.\\nBeing sensitive just means that you accurately identify your feelings and respond accordingly. This is commonly seen as a feminine trait because men are stereotypically seen as more logical and prone to ignore the way they feel.\\n2-5. Accept who you are and embrace it with confidence!\\nUnfortunately, people can be judgmental. If you find people critiquing you or trying to put you down, ignore them. They’re just projecting their own insecurities on to you. Own who you are be proud of it. With enough confidence, you can make any look, style, or behavior your own!\\nStand up for yourself and tell your friends if they’re ever being cruel. They may simply not recognize that they’re behaving in a way that’s upsetting you.\\nTips\\nIf you’re known for drinking beer, wearing baggy jeans, and rocking a giant beard, you may throw people off if you show up to the next party like you’re a completely different person. Ease into it if you want to comfortably explore your feminine side without disrupting your social life.\\nWarnings\\nBe careful about violating the dress code at work. Depending on where you live, it may be legal for your employer to reprimand you for wearing heels, makeup, or having a certain hair style. It’s unfortunate, but it’s a reality in some states and countries.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Femininity is cultural and often created socially. This leads to certain assumptions regarding what appears to be feminine or masculine. How you become more feminine depends largely on your self-definition and feelings about gender expression. Being a feminine guy might mean making changes to your appearance or your behaviors to fit more into society's definitions of femininity. To appear more feminine, take good care of your skin, update your wardrobe to include some tighter-fitting clothing, and shave your facial hair off. To act more feminine, cross your legs when you’re sitting, speak with a higher-pitched voice, and be polite. Most importantly, be confident and embrace who you are!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Appearing More Feminine\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep facial hair trimmed down and manage body hair.\", \"描述\": \"One of the easiest steps you can take to appear more feminine is to remove your facial hair. Use a razor and shaving cream to get rid of your facial hair, and shave regularly to fend off the 5 o’clock shadow. If you want to take it a step further, shave your legs, arms, and chest to get rid of your body hair.\\nElectric razors tend to leave a little stubble behind. 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Try wearing skirts, dresses, or flowy blouses if you want to try out some women’s clothing.\\nFeminine clothing style is all about fit and color. You don’t have to wear anything tight if that’s not your vibe, but try balancing out your outfits a little more carefully to choose coherent looks.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Grow your hair out and style it in a way that works for you.\", \"描述\": \"Women tend to have longer hair than men, so growing your hair out will help you appear more feminine. Wait 6-12 months for your hair to grow out and style it. Brush it regularly and experiment with flat irons and curling irons to find a hair style that works for you. A ponytail is a simple choice, but you can really do it however you want. Let it hang loose in a simple straight cut, braid it, or tie it up however you’d like!\\nHats can be your best-friend when your hair is in that in-between state where it’s longer than short hair but not quite luscious enough to work with longer styles.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Wear makeup to accentuate your feminine features.\", \"描述\": \"Women are often expected to wear makeup, but it can also be a great way to express your femininity. Get a high-quality foundation that matches your skin tone and get a concealer to cover blemishes, pimples, and discoloration. Use blush to brighten your cheeks a little and make your face softer. Use eye shadow to make your eyes pop and give you the classic feminine look.\\nIf you’re uncomfortable with wearing makeup, skip it! 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1. Incorporating Feminism into Daily Life
1-1. Love yourself, no matter your gender.
It may sound cheesy, but loving yourself and practicing self-care empowers you. When you love yourself, you are essentially saying “my humanity matters.”
With this is loving your body, even (especially!) if it does not fit the media’s stereotype of perfection. Feminists often fight the misconception that an attractive female has one particular set of traits.
This does not mean that you can’t spend time making yourself look pretty. You can wear makeup or high heels and be a feminist, but you don’t have to!
1-2. Share equal responsibilities in your relationship.
It can be common for members of heterosexual relationships and marriages to slip into traditional gender roles. If you want to stay home with your children while your husband works, that’s fine! You can still be a feminist! However, you and your partner should make mindful decisions about household responsibilities.
If you do most of the cooking, perhaps your partner should clean up the kitchen after dinner. If your partner does laundry on the weekends, you can contribute in other ways, like by vacuuming. As long as you’re making decisions about responsibilities based on choice and personal preference, and not on gender stereotypes, you’ll be incorporating feminism into your lifestyle.
1-3. Raise your children to believe in gender equality.
There are many ways to raise children to be feminists. A good start is encouraging them to embrace their individual interests and passions, regardless of their gender. You can also teach them to question gender assumptions (such as why girls’ items are invariably pink and purple, but boys’ items are never pink). Help them make life goals that do not hinge upon their gender.
It is also important to emphasize both the mother’s and the father’s role as a parent. This will minimize the assumption that mothers parent while fathers work.
1-4. Maintain positive equality in the workplace.
Ideal workplaces would all be blind to gender, ethnicity, sexual orientation, and certain other life choices. In reality, this is not always the case. Maintain professionalism in the work place and always perform your best; if you feel that you are being discriminated against, (ie: paid less for similar work or passed over for a promotion) due to your gender. Do not be afraid to speak out about the inequity.
If you have a managerial position, ensure fairness and equity in hiring, pay, and promotion policies.
1-5. Empower women.
There is an unfortunate modern tendency for women to judge and belittle the choices of other women, (particularly on social media). To be a feminist, support and empower other women instead of judging them. Realize that women who make decisions that differ from your own have likely put as much thought into those decisions as you have.
2. Promoting Global Gender Equality
2-1. Recognize systemic inequalities.
An important part of being an informed feminist is cultivating an awareness of systemic prejudices against women around the world. You cannot stop every individual from having a particular opinion about women, but you can expose systemic inequalities.
You can support organizations that provide suppressed women in other cultures education and opportunities.
You can notice trends such as the discrepancy between the percentage of politicians or world leaders who are female, versus the female population of the world.
Realize that in systems that discriminate against women in the areas of education or employment, women’s economic lives become dependent on others in power, which takes power from them.
2-2. Fight against gender discrimination.
Go to rallies that promote women’s equality. Join organizations that fight for the equality of women in your area as well as other countries. Speaking out about inequality is an important step towards achieving equality. You can find resources for feminist activism http://feminist.com/activism/ here.
2-3. Vote for pro-women political leaders.
One way that you can be a feminist and support feminist causes is to vote with women’s rights in mind. Voting for politicians who advocate for women in the workplace and women’s healthcare rights can put your feminist beliefs into action.
Additionally, you may want to find out if a candidate (male or female) has women working on his or her campaign staff. Advocating for women’s employment rights is less meaningful if a candidate doesn’t actually employ women.
2-4. Support the rights of women and men.
Part of being a feminist is supporting the rights of everyone to do what they want in their lives and careers, even if it means breaking traditional gender stereotypes. That means believing that a mom or a dad can choose to stay at home to raise young children. It means believing that a man or a woman can become a CEO of a company or a politician or president.
3. Learning about Feminism
3-1. Understand feminism.
A feminist believes that men and women should have equal opportunities and may spend time sharing and cultivating those beliefs. Feminism is not about rejecting female sexuality or upholding women as superior to men; it’s about challenging preconceptions about gender roles. It’s about making observations and asking questions like, “why are pilots usually male, while flight attendants are usually female?”
3-2. Explore common misconceptions about feminism.
There are many misconceptions about feminism.Some people hear the word “feminist” and imagine a woman who wears her hair short, hates men, and acts aggressively all the time.However, a feminist can also be a stay-at-home-mom raising 4 kids and spending her days cooking and cleaning. A feminist can also be a man.
Feminists do not have to remain unmarried, hate men, or be lesbians.
Feminists do not have to dress or act a certain way.
3-3. Study the history of the feminist movement.
To really understand feminism, you may want to brush up on the different waves of the feminist movement.Learn about the most influential women leaders of women’s the suffrage movement. Learn about women’s equality issues such as equal pay for equal work, tax benefits for childcare, and maternity leave policies.
Tips
Consider that both men and women have grown up in the same gendered society and have patience with those who do not yet understand why feminism is so important. People will be more open to discussing feminism if you treat them fairly and respectfully.
Don't ignore the fact that men and women are biologically different, but don't make the mistake of confusing physical differences with culturally enforced ones.
Read Betty Friedan's 'The Feminine Mystique'. This is one of the most important books in feminist culture, since it started the "second-wave" of feminism.
Warnings
Feminism is not about hating men, hating other women for choices they make on their own, rejecting transgender people as either "not real women" or "traitors", or generally doing something that isn't in the name of true equality. These kinds of mindsets will not only make you look immature, but will also put feminism in a bad light. Feminism is the idealistic perspective that every individual has a right to equality.
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1. Reading Up on Feminist Issues
1-1. Understand the two major definitions of feminism.
Feminism has several possible definitions, depending on which school of thought you reference. However, the two main definitions of feminism are:
Feminism is a movement by women for women. This means that feminists are women who are working to better the lives of other women. There can be different types of feminism that represent different female groups in society, from African American women to trans women, but the basis of the movement is for and by women. Men can act as allies to women and work with women to demonstrate their support of the movement but they are not a dominant force in the movement.
Feminism is a movement about gender justice. This means that feminism works against the system of oppression we live in, which affects women as well as other non-binary individuals (or individuals who are not straight men). In this approach to feminism, people of all genders can be feminists as long as they are willing to work to dismantle the system of oppression that we currently live in.
1-2. Be aware of the role of patriarchy in our society.
A big part of being a feminist is understanding that as individuals we live in a patriarchal society. This means that society is based on a system of customs and rules that are created by heterosexual men for heterosexual men. As a result of the patriarchal system, individuals who are not heterosexual men (including women) are discriminated against or are not given fair treatment.
Recognizing that we exist in a patriarchal society will allow you to better understand the need for feminism and for movements to work against the existing patriarchy. Just because feminism works against the effects of patriarchy does not mean feminists hate all men. Instead, men can be seen as allies to women in the fight against patriarchy. The support of men in the feminist movement will ultimately benefit people of all genders.
1-3. Read feminist blogs and websites.
Educate yourself on a daily basis by integrating feminist blogs and websites into your internet reading routine. Rather than click on the standard news and opinion sites, seek out websites and blogs that address current news and issues from a feminist perspective. You can also learn through watching videos on the subject. This will allow you to access the perspective of feminists and support them by reading what they have to say.
There are several well known feminist blogs and websites online that are updated regularly. Many of these blogs are written by women for women, but are of course, accessible for men, too.
1-4. Subscribe to feminist publications.
You can also throw financial support behind feminist issues by subscribing to feminist publications. Many of these publications have low subscription fees and appeal to a wide readership, with articles on pop culture and political issues from a feminist perspective.
Look for feminist magazines, such as Bitch Magazine or BUST Magazine, at your local bookstore, magazine stand, or at your local library. You can also subscribe to these magazines online.
2. Having Supportive Discussions with Feminists
2-1. Acknowledge your male privilege.
Male privilege is the result of the patriarchal system we live in, where men are given more power and privilege than women. This means that as a man, you likely will earn higher wages than women, have a lower risk of sexual assault and sexual violence, and have access to financial and social support that is not extended to women. Because you benefit from male privilege as a man, it is important that you acknowledge this privilege in your discussions with feminists.
This concept is also known as “checking your privilege”, where you recognize and acknowledge your male privilege before you respond to a woman who is speaking to you or to women that are in a shared space with you. This will allow you to keep in mind where you are coming from in relation to feminism and to be a positive ally to women.
2-2. Practice active listening when a woman explains her perspective.
As a male feminist, it is important that you focus on actively listening to women when they speak. This will show you are aware that women are the leaders in the feminist movement and that you are a supporting player in the movement. Though you may be used to asserting yourself in discussions with others, it is essential that you actively listen to women in discussions on feminism.
For example, perhaps you are in a conversation with a woman who identifies as a feminist. She may make a comment about the need for safe spaces for women to meet, talk, and hang out without heterosexual men around. You may feel that segregated spaces for women will feel exclusive to others. Rather than attack her point of view, ask her thoughtful questions about her comment and demonstrate you are actively listening to her.
This means making eye contact with her, nodding your head as she speaks, and responding in an active way. For example, you may say, “What I am hearing you say is that safe spaces for women are important in our patriarchal society.” If she responds yes to your response, you can then present your argument. However, always check your privilege and acknowledge that you are viewing the situation from a male perspective. This will keep the discussion proactive and honest.
It is also important in these discussions to recognize that you do not need to be right or win the argument against a female feminist. Instead, the idea is to foster discussion and communication between men and women in a safe, open way. Your male privilege does not mean you are automatically correct or have the right idea, and it is important that you recognize this during your discussions with women.
2-3. Do not “mansplain” a feminist concept to a woman.
“Mansplaining” is when a man explains a topic, such feminism, to a woman when she likely already knows and understands the topic. Mansplaining is often done by male politicians when they discuss women’s reproductive rights. But it can also occur in common conversation, where a male speaker “mansplains” a feminist concept to a woman or to a group of women in the room. Avoid doing this, as it indicates you are not supporting the feminist movement and are instead trying to assert your male privilege in front of women. Remember to respect all women as equals and contributors.
You can avoid “mansplaining” by focusing on active listening to other women. Ask, “What do you think of this topic?” or state, “As a man, I am not qualified to talk about this but I look forward to hearing what you have to say.”
2-4. Avoid making sexist jokes or sexist references.
Though sexist jokes or references may seem harmless to you, to women, sexist jokes only reinforce the gap between male privilege and women’s rights. Commenting on a woman’s physical appearance, such as calling a woman “hot” or sexualizing a woman, is offensive and disrespectful to women.
Avoid making sexist jokes around your other guy friends, as this also indicates that it is okay to sexualize women and see them as sexual objects. Doing this works against feminism and the equality of the sexes.
2-5. Continue to educate yourself through discussions with other feminists.
Being a feminist as a man is not like gaining entry into an exclusive club. Instead, it requires constant work and acknowledgment of your male privilege. Focus on educating yourself by talking to women who identify as feminists and to other men who are trying to support women as allies.
3. Displaying Feminist Behavior in Your Relationships with Women
3-1. Support your female partner’s decisions about her body.
If you are sexually active with your female partner, you may have discussions around birth control and preventing pregnancy. Avoid making decisions for your partner about how she can manage her reproductive system. Support her if she decides to go on birth control or another birth control method.
This also extends to abortions and terminating a pregnancy. If you and your partner have an unplanned pregnancy, you can have a discussion with her about the options. But if she decides to have an abortion, as a feminist, it is important that you support her decision. Likewise, if she decides that she wants to have the child, that is her decision and you cannot tell her otherwise. Ultimately, it is her body and she has the right to decide how her body is used.
3-2. Avoid reinforcing gender stereotypes in your relationship.
It can be easy to fall into gender stereotypes, especially in heterosexual relationships. But the gendered notion of women in the kitchen, cooking and cleaning, and men in the workplace, bringing home the bacon, are outdated and based on gender bias. As the man in the relationship, be willing to do 50% of the housework, whether this is cleaning, cooking, or gardening. Try to split the housework between the two of you so there is not an imbalance in your relationship.
If you and your partner both work, support your partner when she pursues a big account or client at work. Encourage her to take on a leadership role in her job and in other areas of her life. This shows that you are not threatened by her ambition and determination, and that you do not buy into the stereotypical notion that only men can be leaders and achieve professional success.
You should also take responsibility for roles in your relationship that may not be typically perceived as “male”. This could be doing 50% of the emotional work in the relationship, such as talking about your feelings, your thoughts, and your needs. This could also be actively listening to your partner and responding to her needs.
3-3. Discuss expectations around sex with your female sexual partner.
Sex is another area where stereotypical gender roles can come into effect, leading to an imbalance in your sexual relationship with your partner. Talk to your female sexual partner about what she enjoys in bed and how you can please her. Respond to her needs in the same ways she responds to yours. Avoid being the dominant one or the aggressor in the relationship. Instead, focus on maintaining a balance between you and your partner. This will create a sexual relationship that is based on mutual respect and mutual enjoyment.
3-4. Support feminist ideas when you are around young women.
If you are close to your female siblings or have a daughter or a young niece, teach them about the value of feminism. This could mean talking about feminist ideas with them on a regular basis or passing along feminist reading material. Rather than “mansplain” feminism to your female peers, focus on discussing the importance of feminism with them and reinforcing the need for feminism in our society.
3-5. Display passion and engagement in women’s rights.
Put your feminism into action by marching in solidarity with women’s right on International Women’s Day, or by taking part in rallies for missing and murdered women in your city or area. You can also passionately engage in feminist issues online by joining forums and feminist groups.
Once you join women’s rights groups, it is important that you participate in the conversation using active listening and take a supporting role. Check your privilege and get involved in an open and engaged way.
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In this approach to feminism, people of all genders can be feminists as long as they are willing to work to dismantle the system of oppression that we currently live in.\\n1-2. Be aware of the role of patriarchy in our society.\\nA big part of being a feminist is understanding that as individuals we live in a patriarchal society. This means that society is based on a system of customs and rules that are created by heterosexual men for heterosexual men. As a result of the patriarchal system, individuals who are not heterosexual men (including women) are discriminated against or are not given fair treatment.\\nRecognizing that we exist in a patriarchal society will allow you to better understand the need for feminism and for movements to work against the existing patriarchy. Just because feminism works against the effects of patriarchy does not mean feminists hate all men. Instead, men can be seen as allies to women in the fight against patriarchy. The support of men in the feminist movement will ultimately benefit people of all genders.\\n1-3. Read feminist blogs and websites.\\nEducate yourself on a daily basis by integrating feminist blogs and websites into your internet reading routine. Rather than click on the standard news and opinion sites, seek out websites and blogs that address current news and issues from a feminist perspective. You can also learn through watching videos on the subject. This will allow you to access the perspective of feminists and support them by reading what they have to say.\\nThere are several well known feminist blogs and websites online that are updated regularly. Many of these blogs are written by women for women, but are of course, accessible for men, too.\\n1-4. Subscribe to feminist publications.\\nYou can also throw financial support behind feminist issues by subscribing to feminist publications. Many of these publications have low subscription fees and appeal to a wide readership, with articles on pop culture and political issues from a feminist perspective.\\nLook for feminist magazines, such as Bitch Magazine or BUST Magazine, at your local bookstore, magazine stand, or at your local library. You can also subscribe to these magazines online.\\n2. Having Supportive Discussions with Feminists\\n2-1. Acknowledge your male privilege.\\nMale privilege is the result of the patriarchal system we live in, where men are given more power and privilege than women. This means that as a man, you likely will earn higher wages than women, have a lower risk of sexual assault and sexual violence, and have access to financial and social support that is not extended to women. Because you benefit from male privilege as a man, it is important that you acknowledge this privilege in your discussions with feminists.\\nThis concept is also known as “checking your privilege”, where you recognize and acknowledge your male privilege before you respond to a woman who is speaking to you or to women that are in a shared space with you. This will allow you to keep in mind where you are coming from in relation to feminism and to be a positive ally to women.\\n2-2. Practice active listening when a woman explains her perspective.\\nAs a male feminist, it is important that you focus on actively listening to women when they speak. This will show you are aware that women are the leaders in the feminist movement and that you are a supporting player in the movement. Though you may be used to asserting yourself in discussions with others, it is essential that you actively listen to women in discussions on feminism.\\nFor example, perhaps you are in a conversation with a woman who identifies as a feminist. She may make a comment about the need for safe spaces for women to meet, talk, and hang out without heterosexual men around. You may feel that segregated spaces for women will feel exclusive to others. Rather than attack her point of view, ask her thoughtful questions about her comment and demonstrate you are actively listening to her.\\nThis means making eye contact with her, nodding your head as she speaks, and responding in an active way. For example, you may say, “What I am hearing you say is that safe spaces for women are important in our patriarchal society.” If she responds yes to your response, you can then present your argument. However, always check your privilege and acknowledge that you are viewing the situation from a male perspective. This will keep the discussion proactive and honest.\\nIt is also important in these discussions to recognize that you do not need to be right or win the argument against a female feminist. Instead, the idea is to foster discussion and communication between men and women in a safe, open way. Your male privilege does not mean you are automatically correct or have the right idea, and it is important that you recognize this during your discussions with women.\\n2-3. Do not “mansplain” a feminist concept to a woman.\\n“Mansplaining” is when a man explains a topic, such feminism, to a woman when she likely already knows and understands the topic. Mansplaining is often done by male politicians when they discuss women’s reproductive rights. But it can also occur in common conversation, where a male speaker “mansplains” a feminist concept to a woman or to a group of women in the room. Avoid doing this, as it indicates you are not supporting the feminist movement and are instead trying to assert your male privilege in front of women. Remember to respect all women as equals and contributors.\\nYou can avoid “mansplaining” by focusing on active listening to other women. Ask, “What do you think of this topic?” or state, “As a man, I am not qualified to talk about this but I look forward to hearing what you have to say.”\\n2-4. Avoid making sexist jokes or sexist references.\\nThough sexist jokes or references may seem harmless to you, to women, sexist jokes only reinforce the gap between male privilege and women’s rights. Commenting on a woman’s physical appearance, such as calling a woman “hot” or sexualizing a woman, is offensive and disrespectful to women.\\nAvoid making sexist jokes around your other guy friends, as this also indicates that it is okay to sexualize women and see them as sexual objects. Doing this works against feminism and the equality of the sexes.\\n2-5. Continue to educate yourself through discussions with other feminists.\\nBeing a feminist as a man is not like gaining entry into an exclusive club. Instead, it requires constant work and acknowledgment of your male privilege. Focus on educating yourself by talking to women who identify as feminists and to other men who are trying to support women as allies.\\n3. Displaying Feminist Behavior in Your Relationships with Women\\n3-1. Support your female partner’s decisions about her body.\\nIf you are sexually active with your female partner, you may have discussions around birth control and preventing pregnancy. Avoid making decisions for your partner about how she can manage her reproductive system. Support her if she decides to go on birth control or another birth control method.\\nThis also extends to abortions and terminating a pregnancy. If you and your partner have an unplanned pregnancy, you can have a discussion with her about the options. But if she decides to have an abortion, as a feminist, it is important that you support her decision. Likewise, if she decides that she wants to have the child, that is her decision and you cannot tell her otherwise. Ultimately, it is her body and she has the right to decide how her body is used.\\n3-2. Avoid reinforcing gender stereotypes in your relationship.\\nIt can be easy to fall into gender stereotypes, especially in heterosexual relationships. But the gendered notion of women in the kitchen, cooking and cleaning, and men in the workplace, bringing home the bacon, are outdated and based on gender bias. As the man in the relationship, be willing to do 50% of the housework, whether this is cleaning, cooking, or gardening. Try to split the housework between the two of you so there is not an imbalance in your relationship.\\nIf you and your partner both work, support your partner when she pursues a big account or client at work. Encourage her to take on a leadership role in her job and in other areas of her life. This shows that you are not threatened by her ambition and determination, and that you do not buy into the stereotypical notion that only men can be leaders and achieve professional success.\\nYou should also take responsibility for roles in your relationship that may not be typically perceived as “male”. This could be doing 50% of the emotional work in the relationship, such as talking about your feelings, your thoughts, and your needs. This could also be actively listening to your partner and responding to her needs.\\n3-3. Discuss expectations around sex with your female sexual partner.\\nSex is another area where stereotypical gender roles can come into effect, leading to an imbalance in your sexual relationship with your partner. Talk to your female sexual partner about what she enjoys in bed and how you can please her. Respond to her needs in the same ways she responds to yours. Avoid being the dominant one or the aggressor in the relationship. Instead, focus on maintaining a balance between you and your partner. This will create a sexual relationship that is based on mutual respect and mutual enjoyment.\\n3-4. Support feminist ideas when you are around young women.\\nIf you are close to your female siblings or have a daughter or a young niece, teach them about the value of feminism. This could mean talking about feminist ideas with them on a regular basis or passing along feminist reading material. Rather than “mansplain” feminism to your female peers, focus on discussing the importance of feminism with them and reinforcing the need for feminism in our society.\\n3-5. Display passion and engagement in women’s rights.\\nPut your feminism into action by marching in solidarity with women’s right on International Women’s Day, or by taking part in rallies for missing and murdered women in your city or area. You can also passionately engage in feminist issues online by joining forums and feminist groups.\\nOnce you join women’s rights groups, it is important that you participate in the conversation using active listening and take a supporting role. Check your privilege and get involved in an open and engaged way.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The feminist movement focuses on the need for action to achieve equality of the sexes and other gender identities. While it originally set out to advocate for women’s rights in the workplace, it has now become a beacon advocating for the rights of all individuals. Feminism is the idealistic perspective that every individual has a right to equality. If you are a heterosexual man, you may find it difficult to support the women around you and your female romantic partners. As feminism continues to evolve and become more mainstream, many men are identifying as feminists and are taking the necessary steps to act as allies for women in their day-to-day lives.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Reading Up on Feminist Issues\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Understand the two major definitions of feminism.\", \"描述\": \"Feminism has several possible definitions, depending on which school of thought you reference. However, the two main definitions of feminism are:\\nFeminism is a movement by women for women. This means that feminists are women who are working to better the lives of other women. 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Rather than click on the standard news and opinion sites, seek out websites and blogs that address current news and issues from a feminist perspective. You can also learn through watching videos on the subject. This will allow you to access the perspective of feminists and support them by reading what they have to say.\\nThere are several well known feminist blogs and websites online that are updated regularly. Many of these blogs are written by women for women, but are of course, accessible for men, too.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Subscribe to feminist publications.\", \"描述\": \"You can also throw financial support behind feminist issues by subscribing to feminist publications. Many of these publications have low subscription fees and appeal to a wide readership, with articles on pop culture and political issues from a feminist perspective.\\nLook for feminist magazines, such as Bitch Magazine or BUST Magazine, at your local bookstore, magazine stand, or at your local library. 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Rather than attack her point of view, ask her thoughtful questions about her comment and demonstrate you are actively listening to her.\\nThis means making eye contact with her, nodding your head as she speaks, and responding in an active way. For example, you may say, “What I am hearing you say is that safe spaces for women are important in our patriarchal society.” If she responds yes to your response, you can then present your argument. However, always check your privilege and acknowledge that you are viewing the situation from a male perspective. This will keep the discussion proactive and honest.\\nIt is also important in these discussions to recognize that you do not need to be right or win the argument against a female feminist. Instead, the idea is to foster discussion and communication between men and women in a safe, open way. 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Become the Femme Fatale: 18 Exciting Ways to Be Absolutely Irresistible
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1. What’s the meaning of “femme fatale”?
A “femme fatale” is a woman who’s glamorous and powerful.
Technically, “femme fatale” is French for “fatal (or dangerous) woman.” Really, she’s just “dangerous” because she’s unstoppably seductive. In movies, you can find all sorts of femmes fatales, from old Hollywood starlets to today’s celebrities. In books, she might be an undercover spy or just a seductress that wants to toy with people. Wherever you find her, the femme fatale is the ultra-attractive woman whose mysterious beauty is her secret weapon.
You could say that a femme fatale has a certain “je ne sais quoi”—that’s just another fun French phrase that roughly translates to “I don’t know what it is (about her)!”
Here's a clue: most are so drawn to the femme fatale because she has a quiet confidence and is always elegant. When she slinks into the room, she’s impeccably dressed and looks sure of herself.
Classic femmes fatales include actresses in noir films, like Ava Gardner. In comics, Black Widow and Catwoman qualify as femmes fatales. A great example of a modern femme fatale is Angelina Jolie in Mr. and Mrs. Smith or any current Bond woman.
2. Femme Fatale Personality Traits
2-1. Always put yourself first.
Ultimately, a femme fatale is ruthlessly ambitious. She doesn’t step over people with her killer stilettos, though. To channel her independence and driven attitude, set goals and achieve them. Above all, focus on yourself and what thrills you. When you get to the top without needing anyone, you’ll leave everyone breathless.
For example, if someone you're dating wants to have a spontaneous dinner out, but you'd prefer to pull an all-nighter to work on a project that will impress your colleagues, say, "I really can't—duty calls. Marketing, you know? How about this weekend?"
Remember, it's not selfish to make yourself your number one priority. If anything, loving yourself makes you an empowering icon to look up to.
2-2. Be independent.
To be a true femme fatale, rely on yourself and only yourself. While it’s fun to fantasize about a lover or see if your friends will call you up, focus on being happy on your own. Develop your own passions and carve out plenty of time for personal growth and self-improvement. Once you discover you’re all you need, people will notice the way you glow with self-assurance.
You can form meaningful relationships with people, but you remember—even if you’re dating the lover of your dreams, it’s best if you act like you don't need them.
Let your SOs know your philosophy about enjoying lovers but not depending on them with a remark like, "I really appreciate and value your company. It's a great bonus to have you in my life."
2-3. Be confident about the power you have.
Before you head out to take over the world, say some affirmations. For instance, tell yourself, “I am an incredible woman, and anyone who meets me is lucky!” Believe in yourself and the way you can work a room—you’ll rack up a ton of fans and have them all wrapped around your finger.
If you notice that everyone is looking at you, don't doubt yourself. Congratulate yourself. You've single-handedly managed to steal the show just by walking in.
When you see someone you want to befriend or win over, give yourself an inner pep talk like, "Of course they'll fall for me and all I have to offer. Everyone does! I just have to be myself."
2-4. Act “expensive” so everyone treats you like a star.
Carry yourself like royalty or a celebrity. Hold your head up high, practice good posture, and walk gracefully. When you socialize with others, act mildly amused so it seems like you aren’t worried about being popular—you’re just there to have a good time.
Ask for your "signature drink" with conviction because you know what you want and expect it. For example, instead of waiting for a bartender's attention, announce, "I'll have a Dark and Stormy—thank you."
Play hard to get and give everyone the sense that your schedule is booked because you're so sought after. Casually make a remark like, "Well, this has been fun, and maybe we'll run into each other again."
Unavailability can be really sexy. For example, if a man reaches out and asks to catch up, but you want to get him to chase you, tell him, "I'm all booked up. Check in with me next week."
2-5. Carry yourself with poise and grace.
Treat yourself and the people around you with respect. Practice common courtesy, like asking for someone’s name. Show that you’re dignified and prove that manners matter to you. For instance, thank a hostess for inviting you to a party. Remain composed and put together the entire time you’re out. Everyone will see you as the epitome of a real lady and idolize you.
Show that you're kind to other women. When you express interest in them instead of upstaging or ignoring them, you'll demonstrate the strength of your character. For example, say, "It's nice to see you again, Susan. How is your graduate program going? It sounds fascinating!"
Avoid consuming too much alcohol while you're out—just one drink should be enough if you want to enjoy yourself a bit.
2-6. Dazzle with your smarts.
Being beautiful with brains only adds to your sex appeal. Don’t ever be afraid to show off your brains or to let people see that they’re dealing with an interesting, intelligent woman who isn’t afraid to say what’s on her mind. Be proud of how hard you work, how much you read, and how well you do in school. Your intelligence will be yet another trait that makes admirers flock to you.
Don’t be afraid to challenge people. State your ideas and back them up with evidence. You’re smart enough to do it. Start off with a remark like, "Interesting perspective. I have to disagree, however. Here's what I've noticed..."
Be a sparkling conversationalist. Femmes fatales have charming personalities that are endlessly fascinating. To be the woman everyone talks about, discuss what you've learned with lots of enthusiasm.
For instance, bring up a subject you've been immersed in—"I've recently gotten into a bit of Egyptology, and there's just been a new discovery about how the pyramids have been built..."
2-7. Keep things fun with your marvelous sense of humor.
You don’t need to be dark and serious all the time if you want to be a femme fatale. Instead, laugh at yourself, show off your razor-sharp wit, and keep the conversation going with great banter. Play around and prove how clever you are so everyone craves your presence.
Some of the greatest femmes fatales are known for their funny and incisive comments, such as Ingrid Bergman’s words, "Happiness is good health and a naughty memory."
If someone makes a little joke to you like, "Sorry! When I get carried away, I splash two-dollar words all over the place," laugh and be ready with your own stellar quip: "A two-dollar word?! Don't undersell yourself. That's worth at least ten."
2-8. Keep things interesting with a dash of unpredictability.
To become the woman everyone talks about, make your personality stand out. For example, if you’re usually quiet and composed, spice everything up by respectfully debating about a subject you’re passionate about. Reveal different sides of yourself and people will beg to learn more.
If you've always been flirtatious, show off your more serious nature. You might wish to discuss important matters like politics or psychology.
Have you held your cards close to your chest? Suddenly, be a little more vulnerable and soft. Put your hand on someone's shoulder and show them some empathy.
2-9. Show up in unusual places.
You don’t need to go anywhere that doesn’t make you feel safe, but you try to spend time in more unique and less expected places. This is the best way to meet more interesting people, after all. Visit an obscure, artsy coffee shop, a clandestine nightclub or speakeasy, or even an eccentric antique shop. Don’t make it obvious when you enter or exit a new place, and work on slinking in and out of rooms.
Pick places with dim lighting to help maintain your dark, mysterious image.
You can find a place you like, but mix up your haunts so you don't become a regular and you do keep people guessing. For example, skip your morning coffee for a brunch two cities away.
2-10. Stay silent about your next move.
A femme fatale has her eye on the prize, but she doesn't tell anyone that. Perhaps you want to make someone fall in love with you or just seduce them. Then again, your agenda might not be romance at all. Maybe you're gunning to get a promotion or publish a book. Keep any and all details under wraps and dazzle the world later.
3. Femme Fatale Aesthetic
3-1. Go for old Hollywood glamour to become a classic femme fatale.
If you want to look like a legendary femme fatale from the silver screen, add dark, sexy, and retro pieces to your wardrobe. Pick clothes that are well-cut and draw subtle attention to your curves in a tasteful way. Opt for darker colors such as black, maroon, or emerald green.
Try out sumptuous evening wear, like silk cocktail dresses. Also make sure to have the perfect red dress for your complexion.
If you prefer jeans over dresses, grab a great pair of leather pants. For vintage sophistication, wear a pair of high-waisted jeans.
Experiment with fun and chic accessories—wear bedazzled fishnet tights or slip into a fur coat.
Pair your look with high heels, but make sure you know how to walk in them to pull it off.
3-2. Slide into any outfit you adore for a "twist" on the femme fatale look.
Maybe you love to go people-watching in a cafe while wearing a sweater, jeans, and a secretive smile. Or, perhaps your poison is donning a floral maxi-dress and jeweled sandals as you sweet-talk an attractive stranger. As long as you see yourself as a goddess, you’ll be worshiped as a style icon.
Ultimately, a femme fatale wears whatever makes her feel fabulous. When she's pleased with her ensemble, she walks around with unmistakable confidence.
3-3. Look sexy, but leave something to the imagination.
Femmes fatales are famous for how enticing and seductive they are, but they're also masterful at teasing people just enough. Feel free to show off a bit of your legs, wear low-cut tops, or display your gorgeous back, but make sure just to show a little skin.
Femmes fatales don’t need to wear extra risqué clothes because the way they carry themselves do that work for them. Having a naturally sexy, mysterious, and seductive personality is what draws people in.
In the words of the great Bette Davis, “I often think that a slightly exposed shoulder emerging from a long satin nightgown packs more sex than two naked bodies in bed.”
If you’re wearing a more revealing top, then wear a more conservative skirt with it, and vice versa.
3-4. Wear an intoxicating signature scent.
For an easy way to enchant whoever you have your eye on, dab on a fragrance they won’t ever forget. You might want to come across as feminine, refreshing, and just a little spicy, so consider a perfume with vanilla, citrus, and cinnamon notes. Whenever you’re around—or even when you leave—people will be smitten by how delicious you are.
As inspiration, think of your "femme fatale" alter ego. Does she prefer to come across as sweet and charming, or is she richly seductive?
3-5. Choose a hairstyle that makes you feel like a seductress.
For example, style your hair with an extreme side part and Veronica Lake-esque waves. Or, wear it in a dramatically short style like Jean Harlow. For inspiration, study pictures of your favorite actresses on the red carpet or choose a film noir icon to find that perfect coiff to "wow" everyone with.
Try not to reveal your entire face. Let your curls or waves fall over the side of your face to keep some of your features shrouded and mysterious.
Try an A-line cut for a bold and enticing look.
If you want to model yourself off of a vintage femme fatale, stick to true, bold hair colors, like platinum blonde, dark brown, black, or auburn.
3-6. Rock the femme fatale's red lipstick.
To truly bewitch others as a femme fatale, you have to know how to wear red lipstick. Luckily, it's simple—just apply the best lipstick that fits your skin tone, consider using some lip liner to emphasize your look, and check your lips with a compact every few hours to see if you need to reapply it.
Since red lipstick is the signature part of the classic femme fatale look, you can keep the rest of your makeup minimal if you prefer that.
To maintain your sense of mystery, remember to reapply your lipstick in the restroom, where other people can't see you.
3-7. Enhance your exquisite features with alluring makeup.
Wear foundation that complements your skin tone, give yourself a bit of blush, and work on that smoky-eyed look. Just put some dark eyeshadow, such as a brown or a gray, on your eyelids, use eyeliner to trace the top of your eyelids, and wear a dark mascara on your top lashes to emphasize those long lashes. For an added effect, make cat eyes, which make you look even more seductive.
Avoid wearing glittery or shimmery makeup if you want to be a femme fatale. That may look too young and playful if you're going for a mature and mysterious persona.
You can also play around with false eyelashes, or "falsies," for an added touch.
3-8. Accessorize like a femme fatale.
Try to add an elegant and upscale touch to your ensemble. Find one or two signature items that everyone will associate you with so you can rock the most seductive, mysterious look out there. Here are some gorgeous add-ons that you can try to complete your wardrobe as a fashionable femme fatale:
1940s sunglasses
Black satin gloves
Fascinators
Fur collars
Clutch purses
Classic diamond or pearl earrings
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When she slinks into the room, she’s impeccably dressed and looks sure of herself.\\nClassic femmes fatales include actresses in noir films, like Ava Gardner. In comics, Black Widow and Catwoman qualify as femmes fatales. A great example of a modern femme fatale is Angelina Jolie in Mr. and Mrs. Smith or any current Bond woman.\\n2. Femme Fatale Personality Traits\\n2-1. Always put yourself first.\\nUltimately, a femme fatale is ruthlessly ambitious. She doesn’t step over people with her killer stilettos, though. To channel her independence and driven attitude, set goals and achieve them. Above all, focus on yourself and what thrills you. When you get to the top without needing anyone, you’ll leave everyone breathless.\\nFor example, if someone you're dating wants to have a spontaneous dinner out, but you'd prefer to pull an all-nighter to work on a project that will impress your colleagues, say, \\\"I really can't—duty calls. Marketing, you know? How about this weekend?\\\"\\nRemember, it's not selfish to make yourself your number one priority. If anything, loving yourself makes you an empowering icon to look up to.\\n2-2. Be independent.\\nTo be a true femme fatale, rely on yourself and only yourself. While it’s fun to fantasize about a lover or see if your friends will call you up, focus on being happy on your own. Develop your own passions and carve out plenty of time for personal growth and self-improvement. Once you discover you’re all you need, people will notice the way you glow with self-assurance.\\nYou can form meaningful relationships with people, but you remember—even if you’re dating the lover of your dreams, it’s best if you act like you don't need them.\\nLet your SOs know your philosophy about enjoying lovers but not depending on them with a remark like, \\\"I really appreciate and value your company. It's a great bonus to have you in my life.\\\"\\n2-3. Be confident about the power you have.\\nBefore you head out to take over the world, say some affirmations. For instance, tell yourself, “I am an incredible woman, and anyone who meets me is lucky!” Believe in yourself and the way you can work a room—you’ll rack up a ton of fans and have them all wrapped around your finger.\\nIf you notice that everyone is looking at you, don't doubt yourself. Congratulate yourself. You've single-handedly managed to steal the show just by walking in.\\nWhen you see someone you want to befriend or win over, give yourself an inner pep talk like, \\\"Of course they'll fall for me and all I have to offer. Everyone does! I just have to be myself.\\\"\\n2-4. Act “expensive” so everyone treats you like a star.\\nCarry yourself like royalty or a celebrity. Hold your head up high, practice good posture, and walk gracefully. When you socialize with others, act mildly amused so it seems like you aren’t worried about being popular—you’re just there to have a good time.\\nAsk for your \\\"signature drink\\\" with conviction because you know what you want and expect it. For example, instead of waiting for a bartender's attention, announce, \\\"I'll have a Dark and Stormy—thank you.\\\"\\n\\nPlay hard to get and give everyone the sense that your schedule is booked because you're so sought after. Casually make a remark like, \\\"Well, this has been fun, and maybe we'll run into each other again.\\\"\\nUnavailability can be really sexy. For example, if a man reaches out and asks to catch up, but you want to get him to chase you, tell him, \\\"I'm all booked up. Check in with me next week.\\\"\\n2-5. Carry yourself with poise and grace.\\nTreat yourself and the people around you with respect. Practice common courtesy, like asking for someone’s name. Show that you’re dignified and prove that manners matter to you. For instance, thank a hostess for inviting you to a party. Remain composed and put together the entire time you’re out. Everyone will see you as the epitome of a real lady and idolize you.\\nShow that you're kind to other women. When you express interest in them instead of upstaging or ignoring them, you'll demonstrate the strength of your character. For example, say, \\\"It's nice to see you again, Susan. How is your graduate program going? It sounds fascinating!\\\"\\nAvoid consuming too much alcohol while you're out—just one drink should be enough if you want to enjoy yourself a bit.\\n2-6. Dazzle with your smarts.\\nBeing beautiful with brains only adds to your sex appeal. Don’t ever be afraid to show off your brains or to let people see that they’re dealing with an interesting, intelligent woman who isn’t afraid to say what’s on her mind. Be proud of how hard you work, how much you read, and how well you do in school. Your intelligence will be yet another trait that makes admirers flock to you.\\nDon’t be afraid to challenge people. State your ideas and back them up with evidence. You’re smart enough to do it. Start off with a remark like, \\\"Interesting perspective. I have to disagree, however. Here's what I've noticed...\\\"\\nBe a sparkling conversationalist. Femmes fatales have charming personalities that are endlessly fascinating. To be the woman everyone talks about, discuss what you've learned with lots of enthusiasm.\\nFor instance, bring up a subject you've been immersed in—\\\"I've recently gotten into a bit of Egyptology, and there's just been a new discovery about how the pyramids have been built...\\\"\\n2-7. Keep things fun with your marvelous sense of humor.\\nYou don’t need to be dark and serious all the time if you want to be a femme fatale. Instead, laugh at yourself, show off your razor-sharp wit, and keep the conversation going with great banter. Play around and prove how clever you are so everyone craves your presence.\\nSome of the greatest femmes fatales are known for their funny and incisive comments, such as Ingrid Bergman’s words, \\\"Happiness is good health and a naughty memory.\\\"\\nIf someone makes a little joke to you like, \\\"Sorry! When I get carried away, I splash two-dollar words all over the place,\\\" laugh and be ready with your own stellar quip: \\\"A two-dollar word?! Don't undersell yourself. That's worth at least ten.\\\"\\n2-8. Keep things interesting with a dash of unpredictability.\\nTo become the woman everyone talks about, make your personality stand out. For example, if you’re usually quiet and composed, spice everything up by respectfully debating about a subject you’re passionate about. Reveal different sides of yourself and people will beg to learn more.\\nIf you've always been flirtatious, show off your more serious nature. You might wish to discuss important matters like politics or psychology.\\nHave you held your cards close to your chest? Suddenly, be a little more vulnerable and soft. Put your hand on someone's shoulder and show them some empathy.\\n2-9. Show up in unusual places.\\nYou don’t need to go anywhere that doesn’t make you feel safe, but you try to spend time in more unique and less expected places. This is the best way to meet more interesting people, after all. Visit an obscure, artsy coffee shop, a clandestine nightclub or speakeasy, or even an eccentric antique shop. Don’t make it obvious when you enter or exit a new place, and work on slinking in and out of rooms.\\nPick places with dim lighting to help maintain your dark, mysterious image.\\nYou can find a place you like, but mix up your haunts so you don't become a regular and you do keep people guessing. For example, skip your morning coffee for a brunch two cities away.\\n2-10. Stay silent about your next move.\\nA femme fatale has her eye on the prize, but she doesn't tell anyone that. Perhaps you want to make someone fall in love with you or just seduce them. Then again, your agenda might not be romance at all. Maybe you're gunning to get a promotion or publish a book. Keep any and all details under wraps and dazzle the world later.\\n3. Femme Fatale Aesthetic\\n3-1. Go for old Hollywood glamour to become a classic femme fatale.\\nIf you want to look like a legendary femme fatale from the silver screen, add dark, sexy, and retro pieces to your wardrobe. Pick clothes that are well-cut and draw subtle attention to your curves in a tasteful way. Opt for darker colors such as black, maroon, or emerald green.\\nTry out sumptuous evening wear, like silk cocktail dresses. Also make sure to have the perfect red dress for your complexion.\\nIf you prefer jeans over dresses, grab a great pair of leather pants. For vintage sophistication, wear a pair of high-waisted jeans.\\nExperiment with fun and chic accessories—wear bedazzled fishnet tights or slip into a fur coat.\\nPair your look with high heels, but make sure you know how to walk in them to pull it off.\\n3-2. Slide into any outfit you adore for a \\\"twist\\\" on the femme fatale look.\\nMaybe you love to go people-watching in a cafe while wearing a sweater, jeans, and a secretive smile. Or, perhaps your poison is donning a floral maxi-dress and jeweled sandals as you sweet-talk an attractive stranger. As long as you see yourself as a goddess, you’ll be worshiped as a style icon.\\nUltimately, a femme fatale wears whatever makes her feel fabulous. When she's pleased with her ensemble, she walks around with unmistakable confidence.\\n3-3. Look sexy, but leave something to the imagination.\\nFemmes fatales are famous for how enticing and seductive they are, but they're also masterful at teasing people just enough. Feel free to show off a bit of your legs, wear low-cut tops, or display your gorgeous back, but make sure just to show a little skin.\\nFemmes fatales don’t need to wear extra risqué clothes because the way they carry themselves do that work for them. Having a naturally sexy, mysterious, and seductive personality is what draws people in.\\nIn the words of the great Bette Davis, “I often think that a slightly exposed shoulder emerging from a long satin nightgown packs more sex than two naked bodies in bed.”\\nIf you’re wearing a more revealing top, then wear a more conservative skirt with it, and vice versa.\\n3-4. Wear an intoxicating signature scent.\\nFor an easy way to enchant whoever you have your eye on, dab on a fragrance they won’t ever forget. You might want to come across as feminine, refreshing, and just a little spicy, so consider a perfume with vanilla, citrus, and cinnamon notes. Whenever you’re around—or even when you leave—people will be smitten by how delicious you are.\\nAs inspiration, think of your \\\"femme fatale\\\" alter ego. Does she prefer to come across as sweet and charming, or is she richly seductive?\\n3-5. Choose a hairstyle that makes you feel like a seductress.\\nFor example, style your hair with an extreme side part and Veronica Lake-esque waves. Or, wear it in a dramatically short style like Jean Harlow. For inspiration, study pictures of your favorite actresses on the red carpet or choose a film noir icon to find that perfect coiff to \\\"wow\\\" everyone with.\\nTry not to reveal your entire face. Let your curls or waves fall over the side of your face to keep some of your features shrouded and mysterious.\\nTry an A-line cut for a bold and enticing look.\\nIf you want to model yourself off of a vintage femme fatale, stick to true, bold hair colors, like platinum blonde, dark brown, black, or auburn.\\n3-6. Rock the femme fatale's red lipstick.\\nTo truly bewitch others as a femme fatale, you have to know how to wear red lipstick. Luckily, it's simple—just apply the best lipstick that fits your skin tone, consider using some lip liner to emphasize your look, and check your lips with a compact every few hours to see if you need to reapply it.\\nSince red lipstick is the signature part of the classic femme fatale look, you can keep the rest of your makeup minimal if you prefer that.\\nTo maintain your sense of mystery, remember to reapply your lipstick in the restroom, where other people can't see you.\\n3-7. Enhance your exquisite features with alluring makeup.\\nWear foundation that complements your skin tone, give yourself a bit of blush, and work on that smoky-eyed look. Just put some dark eyeshadow, such as a brown or a gray, on your eyelids, use eyeliner to trace the top of your eyelids, and wear a dark mascara on your top lashes to emphasize those long lashes. For an added effect, make cat eyes, which make you look even more seductive.\\nAvoid wearing glittery or shimmery makeup if you want to be a femme fatale. That may look too young and playful if you're going for a mature and mysterious persona.\\nYou can also play around with false eyelashes, or \\\"falsies,\\\" for an added touch.\\n3-8. Accessorize like a femme fatale.\\nTry to add an elegant and upscale touch to your ensemble. Find one or two signature items that everyone will associate you with so you can rock the most seductive, mysterious look out there. Here are some gorgeous add-ons that you can try to complete your wardrobe as a fashionable femme fatale:\\n1940s sunglasses\\nBlack satin gloves\\nFascinators\\nFur collars\\nClutch purses\\nClassic diamond or pearl earrings\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Ah, the femme fatale—to paraphrase Mildred Piece, “the kind of woman every soul in the room wants!” The Hollywood noir legend from the 1940s has a point: it’s just too tempting to chase after a femme fatale. But what if you want to become her? If you do, that's completely understandable. After all, she's smart, confident, seductive, and above all, powerful. If you’re dying to possess all of her mysterious beauty, we’ll tell you exactly how to be dangerously sexy just like her. So, get ready to play, darling. 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Wherever you find her, the femme fatale is the ultra-attractive woman whose mysterious beauty is her secret weapon.\\nYou could say that a femme fatale has a certain “je ne sais quoi”—that’s just another fun French phrase that roughly translates to “I don’t know what it is (about her)!”\\nHere's a clue: most are so drawn to the femme fatale because she has a quiet confidence and is always elegant. When she slinks into the room, she’s impeccably dressed and looks sure of herself.\\nClassic femmes fatales include actresses in noir films, like Ava Gardner. In comics, Black Widow and Catwoman qualify as femmes fatales. A great example of a modern femme fatale is Angelina Jolie in Mr. and Mrs. Smith or any current Bond woman.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Femme Fatale Personality Traits\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Always put yourself first.\", \"描述\": \"Ultimately, a femme fatale is ruthlessly ambitious. She doesn’t step over people with her killer stilettos, though. 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You've single-handedly managed to steal the show just by walking in.\\nWhen you see someone you want to befriend or win over, give yourself an inner pep talk like, \\\"Of course they'll fall for me and all I have to offer. Everyone does! I just have to be myself.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Act “expensive” so everyone treats you like a star.\", \"描述\": \"Carry yourself like royalty or a celebrity. Hold your head up high, practice good posture, and walk gracefully. When you socialize with others, act mildly amused so it seems like you aren’t worried about being popular—you’re just there to have a good time.\\nAsk for your \\\"signature drink\\\" with conviction because you know what you want and expect it. For example, instead of waiting for a bartender's attention, announce, \\\"I'll have a Dark and Stormy—thank you.\\\"\\n\\nPlay hard to get and give everyone the sense that your schedule is booked because you're so sought after. Casually make a remark like, \\\"Well, this has been fun, and maybe we'll run into each other again.\\\"\\nUnavailability can be really sexy. For example, if a man reaches out and asks to catch up, but you want to get him to chase you, tell him, \\\"I'm all booked up. Check in with me next week.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Carry yourself with poise and grace.\", \"描述\": \"Treat yourself and the people around you with respect. Practice common courtesy, like asking for someone’s name. Show that you’re dignified and prove that manners matter to you. For instance, thank a hostess for inviting you to a party. Remain composed and put together the entire time you’re out. Everyone will see you as the epitome of a real lady and idolize you.\\nShow that you're kind to other women. When you express interest in them instead of upstaging or ignoring them, you'll demonstrate the strength of your character. For example, say, \\\"It's nice to see you again, Susan. How is your graduate program going? It sounds fascinating!\\\"\\nAvoid consuming too much alcohol while you're out—just one drink should be enough if you want to enjoy yourself a bit.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Dazzle with your smarts.\", \"描述\": \"Being beautiful with brains only adds to your sex appeal. Don’t ever be afraid to show off your brains or to let people see that they’re dealing with an interesting, intelligent woman who isn’t afraid to say what’s on her mind. Be proud of how hard you work, how much you read, and how well you do in school. Your intelligence will be yet another trait that makes admirers flock to you.\\nDon’t be afraid to challenge people. State your ideas and back them up with evidence. You’re smart enough to do it. Start off with a remark like, \\\"Interesting perspective. I have to disagree, however. Here's what I've noticed...\\\"\\nBe a sparkling conversationalist. Femmes fatales have charming personalities that are endlessly fascinating. To be the woman everyone talks about, discuss what you've learned with lots of enthusiasm.\\nFor instance, bring up a subject you've been immersed in—\\\"I've recently gotten into a bit of Egyptology, and there's just been a new discovery about how the pyramids have been built...\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Keep things fun with your marvelous sense of humor.\", \"描述\": \"You don’t need to be dark and serious all the time if you want to be a femme fatale. Instead, laugh at yourself, show off your razor-sharp wit, and keep the conversation going with great banter. Play around and prove how clever you are so everyone craves your presence.\\nSome of the greatest femmes fatales are known for their funny and incisive comments, such as Ingrid Bergman’s words, \\\"Happiness is good health and a naughty memory.\\\"\\nIf someone makes a little joke to you like, \\\"Sorry! When I get carried away, I splash two-dollar words all over the place,\\\" laugh and be ready with your own stellar quip: \\\"A two-dollar word?! Don't undersell yourself. That's worth at least ten.\\\"\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Keep things interesting with a dash of unpredictability.\", \"描述\": \"To become the woman everyone talks about, make your personality stand out. For example, if you’re usually quiet and composed, spice everything up by respectfully debating about a subject you’re passionate about. Reveal different sides of yourself and people will beg to learn more.\\nIf you've always been flirtatious, show off your more serious nature. You might wish to discuss important matters like politics or psychology.\\nHave you held your cards close to your chest? Suddenly, be a little more vulnerable and soft. Put your hand on someone's shoulder and show them some empathy.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Show up in unusual places.\", \"描述\": \"You don’t need to go anywhere that doesn’t make you feel safe, but you try to spend time in more unique and less expected places. This is the best way to meet more interesting people, after all. Visit an obscure, artsy coffee shop, a clandestine nightclub or speakeasy, or even an eccentric antique shop. Don’t make it obvious when you enter or exit a new place, and work on slinking in and out of rooms.\\nPick places with dim lighting to help maintain your dark, mysterious image.\\nYou can find a place you like, but mix up your haunts so you don't become a regular and you do keep people guessing. For example, skip your morning coffee for a brunch two cities away.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Stay silent about your next move.\", \"描述\": \"A femme fatale has her eye on the prize, but she doesn't tell anyone that. Perhaps you want to make someone fall in love with you or just seduce them. Then again, your agenda might not be romance at all. Maybe you're gunning to get a promotion or publish a book. Keep any and all details under wraps and dazzle the world later.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Femme Fatale Aesthetic\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Go for old Hollywood glamour to become a classic femme fatale.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to look like a legendary femme fatale from the silver screen, add dark, sexy, and retro pieces to your wardrobe. Pick clothes that are well-cut and draw subtle attention to your curves in a tasteful way. Opt for darker colors such as black, maroon, or emerald green.\\nTry out sumptuous evening wear, like silk cocktail dresses. Also make sure to have the perfect red dress for your complexion.\\nIf you prefer jeans over dresses, grab a great pair of leather pants. For vintage sophistication, wear a pair of high-waisted jeans.\\nExperiment with fun and chic accessories—wear bedazzled fishnet tights or slip into a fur coat.\\nPair your look with high heels, but make sure you know how to walk in them to pull it off.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Slide into any outfit you adore for a \\\"twist\\\" on the femme fatale look.\", \"描述\": \"Maybe you love to go people-watching in a cafe while wearing a sweater, jeans, and a secretive smile. Or, perhaps your poison is donning a floral maxi-dress and jeweled sandals as you sweet-talk an attractive stranger. As long as you see yourself as a goddess, you’ll be worshiped as a style icon.\\nUltimately, a femme fatale wears whatever makes her feel fabulous. When she's pleased with her ensemble, she walks around with unmistakable confidence.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Look sexy, but leave something to the imagination.\", \"描述\": \"Femmes fatales are famous for how enticing and seductive they are, but they're also masterful at teasing people just enough. Feel free to show off a bit of your legs, wear low-cut tops, or display your gorgeous back, but make sure just to show a little skin.\\nFemmes fatales don’t need to wear extra risqué clothes because the way they carry themselves do that work for them. Having a naturally sexy, mysterious, and seductive personality is what draws people in.\\nIn the words of the great Bette Davis, “I often think that a slightly exposed shoulder emerging from a long satin nightgown packs more sex than two naked bodies in bed.”\\nIf you’re wearing a more revealing top, then wear a more conservative skirt with it, and vice versa.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Wear an intoxicating signature scent.\", \"描述\": \"For an easy way to enchant whoever you have your eye on, dab on a fragrance they won’t ever forget. You might want to come across as feminine, refreshing, and just a little spicy, so consider a perfume with vanilla, citrus, and cinnamon notes. Whenever you’re around—or even when you leave—people will be smitten by how delicious you are.\\nAs inspiration, think of your \\\"femme fatale\\\" alter ego. Does she prefer to come across as sweet and charming, or is she richly seductive?\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Choose a hairstyle that makes you feel like a seductress.\", \"描述\": \"For example, style your hair with an extreme side part and Veronica Lake-esque waves. Or, wear it in a dramatically short style like Jean Harlow. For inspiration, study pictures of your favorite actresses on the red carpet or choose a film noir icon to find that perfect coiff to \\\"wow\\\" everyone with.\\nTry not to reveal your entire face. Let your curls or waves fall over the side of your face to keep some of your features shrouded and mysterious.\\nTry an A-line cut for a bold and enticing look.\\nIf you want to model yourself off of a vintage femme fatale, stick to true, bold hair colors, like platinum blonde, dark brown, black, or auburn.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Rock the femme fatale's red lipstick.\", \"描述\": \"To truly bewitch others as a femme fatale, you have to know how to wear red lipstick. Luckily, it's simple—just apply the best lipstick that fits your skin tone, consider using some lip liner to emphasize your look, and check your lips with a compact every few hours to see if you need to reapply it.\\nSince red lipstick is the signature part of the classic femme fatale look, you can keep the rest of your makeup minimal if you prefer that.\\nTo maintain your sense of mystery, remember to reapply your lipstick in the restroom, where other people can't see you.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Enhance your exquisite features with alluring makeup.\", \"描述\": \"Wear foundation that complements your skin tone, give yourself a bit of blush, and work on that smoky-eyed look. Just put some dark eyeshadow, such as a brown or a gray, on your eyelids, use eyeliner to trace the top of your eyelids, and wear a dark mascara on your top lashes to emphasize those long lashes. For an added effect, make cat eyes, which make you look even more seductive.\\nAvoid wearing glittery or shimmery makeup if you want to be a femme fatale. That may look too young and playful if you're going for a mature and mysterious persona.\\nYou can also play around with false eyelashes, or \\\"falsies,\\\" for an added touch.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Accessorize like a femme fatale.\", \"描述\": \"Try to add an elegant and upscale touch to your ensemble. Find one or two signature items that everyone will associate you with so you can rock the most seductive, mysterious look out there. Here are some gorgeous add-ons that you can try to complete your wardrobe as a fashionable femme fatale:\\n1940s sunglasses\\nBlack satin gloves\\nFascinators\\nFur collars\\nClutch purses\\nClassic diamond or pearl earrings\"}]}]}}",
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1. Landing Parts in Movies
1-1. Get work as an extra.
Extras are the background actors in movies, so they don’t usually have speaking parts. However, it’s sometimes a paying gig and it can get you exposure, and there are famous actors out there who were discovered while working as extras.
To find work as an extra, check publications, casting calls, newspapers, and the internet to see if there are any nearby movies being filmed that require help.
1-2. Look for films shooting in your area.
If you live in a smaller town rather than a major movie production hub, there's always a chance that your city will be chosen as the filming location for a big movie. Otherwise, look for art houses, colleges, and other production studios nearby that might require actors from time to time, and audition any time there's an opportunity.
To find out about possible roles, check local and community papers, bulletins, theaters, and colleges.
If a large production does happen to be filming in your city, contact the casting company to ask about auditions for parts or extras.
1-3. Audition for everything you can.
Auditions are tough and nerve-racking, but unless you're a big-name actor, it’s usually the only way you'll get a part. Like everything, auditions take practice, and the more you do, the easier it will be to make a good impression when you're auditioning for bigger roles.
Audition for any role you can, no matter how small the part or how low-budget the film. It doesn’t matter if you don’t want the part—audition practice is invaluable, and the role could end up being a good opportunity.
When you go for the audition be prepared by knowing your lines, scenes, the basic storyline, and the character you're playing.
1-4. Get yourself an agent.
Having an agent isn't strictly necessary to land roles, but an agent’s sole job is to help you find work, and this can facilitate you finding your first few gigs.
Check online to see if there are agents in your area taking on new clients. Just be careful about the agency you join. Agents make money when they find gigs for clients, so don’t accept help from someone who wants a membership fee.
1-5. Accept any role you're offered.
When you're first getting started in the acting industry and haven't yet made any sort of name for yourself, you need all the exposure you can get. This means taking on any acting job you can get, no matter how silly, low-budget, or unsuccessful the movie is.
The more auditions you do the more roles you'll get, and the more parts you have, the more likely it is that you'll get noticed and be given more opportunities as an actor.
2. Learning the Craft
2-1. Take acting lessons.
Acting is an art and a craft that requires lots of skill and technique, and classes are a great place to learn the basics. There are also acting camps that you can go to in some cities, and these will dedicate even more time to teaching you how to be an actor. Acting classes are also beneficial for children who want to get into film acting, because they look good on a resume and are a good place to network. In class, you'll learn things like how to:
Be confident and overcome shyness and stage fright
Project your voice and have a good stage presence
See things from different perspectives so you can bring characters to life
2-2. Participate in local theater.
Like with any job, actors need to have a resume that highlights their acting experience and capabilities. You can gain this experience from drama clubs, community theater, school productions, dinner theaters, and even church productions.
Many of these sources put on multiple plays every year, so check back often to see if they are auditioning for roles. Even if there's nothing available in terms of acting roles, you can always get involved by joining the crew.
You can also get experience and get comfortable on the stage by taking part in improvisation nights, talent shows, and open mic nights in your city.
2-3. Hone the skills of a film actor.
There are a number of ways that acting for film is different from theater and other kinds of acting. To become a successful film actor, you need to learn and practice the different skills that are unique to the craft.
Whereas some actors get stage fright, others freeze up in front of the camera. Getting comfortable working in front of the camera will take some time, but just remember that the producer, director, and fellow actors are your live audience. Try to focus on them instead of the camera.
With film acting, there's a delicate balance between making sure the camera captures your body language and facial expressions while also acting naturally and as though the camera weren't there.
Your interactions and dialogues with other actors also need to be as natural as possible. Practice this by rehearsing various roles, characters, and dialogues with friends and colleagues in your time off.
Because most film making means taking multiple cuts for each scene, you also have to be patient and have the stamina to consistently deliver excellent performances, even when you're re-shooting the same scene for the twentieth time.
2-4. Find a mentor.
There's nobody better than an experienced actor to help set you on the right path, because this person has already experienced exactly what you're going through. Ask around at your community theater or drama club to see if there are any established actors who might take you under their wing.
Mentors can give you pointers, introduce you to others in the industry, teach you tricks of the trade, give advice about where to find roles, and help you hone your craft.
3. Getting Into the Business
3-1. Enroll in a bachelor of fine arts program for acting.
When you major in acting, drama, or theater at college or university, you'll get a performance-based education that teaches you about the history, techniques, and theories of different acting types. Post-secondary education in acting can help you get a job because it:
Gives you hours of rehearsal and performance time
Teaches you how to make characters your own
Teaches you how to research to make roles authentic
Shows your dedication and patience
Can help you find connections in the business
Can make you a better actor
3-2. Find a non-acting job in the industry.
It’s not always possible to jump into the entertainment industry and get a job as an actor right away. Many of the famous actors out there today got their start by working in the industry and on-set doing things other than acting.
Apply for jobs doing stunts, on the crew, or as a prop person.
Look for full-time jobs, internships, mentorship programs, and apprenticeships in the entertainment industry.
You can also look for administrative and assistant positions at production companies.
3-3. Make friends in the business.
Sometimes your connections in the industry can be just as important as any talent that you have, so the more people you know, the easier it will be to get an acting job. Ways to meet people include:
Through work
At parties and social events
At auditions, on sets, and in acting classes
Through social media
3-4. Consider moving to a major production center.
The two main film centers in North America are Los Angeles and New York, and thousands of films are shot in these cities every year. Thanks to the number of films being produced in these cities, you'll have a much better chance of getting an acting job here than in a small town where films are never made.
Other cities in the U.S. where lots of movies are filmed include New Orleans, Albuquerque, Pittsburgh, Austin, Atlanta, and Boston.
Canadian cities that are popular filming and production locations include Toronto, Vancouver, and Montreal.
A few international movie cities are Paris, Prague, Madrid, London, Barcelona, and Sydney. India and Nigeria are also huge producers of movies, and plenty of films are shot on location in Morocco.
3-5. Get headshots.
Because acting is such a physical and appearance-based profession, it’s important for actors to have headshots available when they're trying to get a casting call or make new connections.
Headshots are eight-by-10-inch photographs of the head and bust. You should spend the money to have them done by a professional photographer, and you should be well-dressed, kempt, and look professional when you have them done.
Once you have your headshots, always staple one to your resume and give it to the casting director any time you audition for a part.
Tips
If you're a child trying to break into film acting, your best bet is to start by getting a manager or agent. They are specialists in the industry, and can help you find the right gigs. Roles that require child actors are usually looking for a very specific age range, and your agent will know exactly what roles are perfect for you.
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Otherwise, look for art houses, colleges, and other production studios nearby that might require actors from time to time, and audition any time there's an opportunity.\\nTo find out about possible roles, check local and community papers, bulletins, theaters, and colleges.\\nIf a large production does happen to be filming in your city, contact the casting company to ask about auditions for parts or extras.\\n1-3. Audition for everything you can.\\nAuditions are tough and nerve-racking, but unless you're a big-name actor, it’s usually the only way you'll get a part. Like everything, auditions take practice, and the more you do, the easier it will be to make a good impression when you're auditioning for bigger roles.\\nAudition for any role you can, no matter how small the part or how low-budget the film. It doesn’t matter if you don’t want the part—audition practice is invaluable, and the role could end up being a good opportunity.\\nWhen you go for the audition be prepared by knowing your lines, scenes, the basic storyline, and the character you're playing.\\n1-4. Get yourself an agent.\\nHaving an agent isn't strictly necessary to land roles, but an agent’s sole job is to help you find work, and this can facilitate you finding your first few gigs.\\nCheck online to see if there are agents in your area taking on new clients. Just be careful about the agency you join. Agents make money when they find gigs for clients, so don’t accept help from someone who wants a membership fee.\\n1-5. Accept any role you're offered.\\nWhen you're first getting started in the acting industry and haven't yet made any sort of name for yourself, you need all the exposure you can get. This means taking on any acting job you can get, no matter how silly, low-budget, or unsuccessful the movie is.\\nThe more auditions you do the more roles you'll get, and the more parts you have, the more likely it is that you'll get noticed and be given more opportunities as an actor.\\n2. Learning the Craft\\n2-1. Take acting lessons.\\nActing is an art and a craft that requires lots of skill and technique, and classes are a great place to learn the basics. There are also acting camps that you can go to in some cities, and these will dedicate even more time to teaching you how to be an actor. Acting classes are also beneficial for children who want to get into film acting, because they look good on a resume and are a good place to network. In class, you'll learn things like how to:\\nBe confident and overcome shyness and stage fright\\nProject your voice and have a good stage presence\\nSee things from different perspectives so you can bring characters to life\\n2-2. Participate in local theater.\\nLike with any job, actors need to have a resume that highlights their acting experience and capabilities. You can gain this experience from drama clubs, community theater, school productions, dinner theaters, and even church productions.\\nMany of these sources put on multiple plays every year, so check back often to see if they are auditioning for roles. Even if there's nothing available in terms of acting roles, you can always get involved by joining the crew.\\nYou can also get experience and get comfortable on the stage by taking part in improvisation nights, talent shows, and open mic nights in your city.\\n2-3. Hone the skills of a film actor.\\nThere are a number of ways that acting for film is different from theater and other kinds of acting. To become a successful film actor, you need to learn and practice the different skills that are unique to the craft.\\nWhereas some actors get stage fright, others freeze up in front of the camera. Getting comfortable working in front of the camera will take some time, but just remember that the producer, director, and fellow actors are your live audience. Try to focus on them instead of the camera.\\nWith film acting, there's a delicate balance between making sure the camera captures your body language and facial expressions while also acting naturally and as though the camera weren't there.\\nYour interactions and dialogues with other actors also need to be as natural as possible. Practice this by rehearsing various roles, characters, and dialogues with friends and colleagues in your time off.\\nBecause most film making means taking multiple cuts for each scene, you also have to be patient and have the stamina to consistently deliver excellent performances, even when you're re-shooting the same scene for the twentieth time.\\n2-4. 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This means taking on any acting job you can get, no matter how silly, low-budget, or unsuccessful the movie is.\\nThe more auditions you do the more roles you'll get, and the more parts you have, the more likely it is that you'll get noticed and be given more opportunities as an actor.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learning the Craft\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take acting lessons.\", \"描述\": \"Acting is an art and a craft that requires lots of skill and technique, and classes are a great place to learn the basics. There are also acting camps that you can go to in some cities, and these will dedicate even more time to teaching you how to be an actor. Acting classes are also beneficial for children who want to get into film acting, because they look good on a resume and are a good place to network. 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Even if there's nothing available in terms of acting roles, you can always get involved by joining the crew.\\nYou can also get experience and get comfortable on the stage by taking part in improvisation nights, talent shows, and open mic nights in your city.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Hone the skills of a film actor.\", \"描述\": \"There are a number of ways that acting for film is different from theater and other kinds of acting. To become a successful film actor, you need to learn and practice the different skills that are unique to the craft.\\nWhereas some actors get stage fright, others freeze up in front of the camera. Getting comfortable working in front of the camera will take some time, but just remember that the producer, director, and fellow actors are your live audience. Try to focus on them instead of the camera.\\nWith film acting, there's a delicate balance between making sure the camera captures your body language and facial expressions while also acting naturally and as though the camera weren't there.\\nYour interactions and dialogues with other actors also need to be as natural as possible. Practice this by rehearsing various roles, characters, and dialogues with friends and colleagues in your time off.\\nBecause most film making means taking multiple cuts for each scene, you also have to be patient and have the stamina to consistently deliver excellent performances, even when you're re-shooting the same scene for the twentieth time.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Find a mentor.\", \"描述\": \"There's nobody better than an experienced actor to help set you on the right path, because this person has already experienced exactly what you're going through. Ask around at your community theater or drama club to see if there are any established actors who might take you under their wing.\\nMentors can give you pointers, introduce you to others in the industry, teach you tricks of the trade, give advice about where to find roles, and help you hone your craft.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Getting Into the Business\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Enroll in a bachelor of fine arts program for acting.\", \"描述\": \"When you major in acting, drama, or theater at college or university, you'll get a performance-based education that teaches you about the history, techniques, and theories of different acting types. Post-secondary education in acting can help you get a job because it:\\nGives you hours of rehearsal and performance time\\nTeaches you how to make characters your own\\nTeaches you how to research to make roles authentic\\nShows your dedication and patience\\nCan help you find connections in the business\\nCan make you a better actor\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Find a non-acting job in the industry.\", \"描述\": \"It’s not always possible to jump into the entertainment industry and get a job as an actor right away. Many of the famous actors out there today got their start by working in the industry and on-set doing things other than acting.\\nApply for jobs doing stunts, on the crew, or as a prop person.\\nLook for full-time jobs, internships, mentorship programs, and apprenticeships in the entertainment industry.\\nYou can also look for administrative and assistant positions at production companies.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make friends in the business.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes your connections in the industry can be just as important as any talent that you have, so the more people you know, the easier it will be to get an acting job. Ways to meet people include:\\nThrough work\\nAt parties and social events\\nAt auditions, on sets, and in acting classes\\nThrough social media\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Consider moving to a major production center.\", \"描述\": \"The two main film centers in North America are Los Angeles and New York, and thousands of films are shot in these cities every year. Thanks to the number of films being produced in these cities, you'll have a much better chance of getting an acting job here than in a small town where films are never made.\\nOther cities in the U.S. where lots of movies are filmed include New Orleans, Albuquerque, Pittsburgh, Austin, Atlanta, and Boston.\\nCanadian cities that are popular filming and production locations include Toronto, Vancouver, and Montreal.\\nA few international movie cities are Paris, Prague, Madrid, London, Barcelona, and Sydney. India and Nigeria are also huge producers of movies, and plenty of films are shot on location in Morocco.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Get headshots.\", \"描述\": \"Because acting is such a physical and appearance-based profession, it’s important for actors to have headshots available when they're trying to get a casting call or make new connections.\\nHeadshots are eight-by-10-inch photographs of the head and bust. You should spend the money to have them done by a professional photographer, and you should be well-dressed, kempt, and look professional when you have them done.\\nOnce you have your headshots, always staple one to your resume and give it to the casting director any time you audition for a part.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"If you're a child trying to break into film acting, your best bet is to start by getting a manager or agent. They are specialists in the industry, and can help you find the right gigs. Roles that require child actors are usually looking for a very specific age range, and your agent will know exactly what roles are perfect for you.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Learning about Film
1-1. Cultivate a passion for film criticism.
It’s hard to make it as a big-time film critic. Many critics work hard for years before earning any money at all. Moreover, many critics write film reviews as a hobby, simply because they love film. Film criticism takes a lot of time and effort, and a steady income is not guaranteed, so passion is key.
A passion for film criticism will show through in your work.
1-2. Watch a variety of quality films.
If you want to critique films, you need to know what makes a quality film. Look for critically acclaimed films across all the different genres, and watch them. Consider classic films, indie films, foreign films, short films, animated films, comedies, and dramas.
Be sure to watch as many “classic films” as you can--film critics often reference these. Search “classic films” online to find a number of lists.
Purchasing a subscription to a streaming service like Netflix is a great way to get access to a wide variety of films.
1-3. Read the work of other film critics.
Reading the work of established film critics will help you gain a better understanding of film critic writing and film as an art form. Find a few critics who you really like, and follow their work.
Form your own opinions about a given film, then read a critic’s review to see how your opinions compare with theirs.
Take note of your favorite critics’ writing style and tone, and examine how they present their ideas. How do humor and context factor in to the critique?
1-4. Make some films of your own.
A good understanding of filmmaking and video editing is important to being a good film critic. Making a few short films of your own, whether they are 5 minutes long or an hour long, can help inform your interpretation of others’ films.
2. Gaining Experience
2-1. Study journalism.
The majority of film critics are journalists who end up specializing in film writing. If you are in college, consider majoring or minoring in journalism. Otherwise, you can take a journalism class at your local community college or online.
You don’t need to study journalism to become a film critic, but it’s helpful if you want to make a career out of film criticism.
2-2. Take some film classes.
Try taking some film classes at your school, online, or at your local community college. Majoring or minoring in film can be helpful if you are looking to be a professional film critic.
2-3. Start a film blog.
The two major routes to becoming a film critic are through the field of journalism, and through film blogging. Film critics often start film critique blogs for pleasure. A blog can be a stepping stone to a career in film criticism. Your blog will allow you to practice your writing skills and create a portfolio of your work.
Don’t be shy when it comes to expressing your opinion on your blog. Your content should be high quality, but also honest and genuine.
2-4. Publish your commentary.
If film criticism is a hobby, you might be happy publishing your work on your film blog alone. However, if you are trying to become a professional film critic, you should send your work to newspapers, magazines, and online publications to try your hand at getting published.
While jobs with print media are becoming more scarce, digital media offers a wide range of new opportunities.
Getting published is difficult, so don’t give up! It may take years of practice, so keep blogging, reading the work of other film critics, and studying film.
2-5. Apply for jobs as a film critic.
After you have built up a portfolio with your blog and maybe even gotten a few pieces published, you can start applying for jobs as a film critic. You might be interested in freelance work, in which a business or individual hires you for a particular project. You can also apply for jobs at movie review websites and other digital and print publications.
There are many freelance job sites online. Take some time to look at the listings to see if a project interests you.
This will probably be a side job, at least initially. Many positions are part time, and likely won’t pay enough to be your only source of income.
3. Thinking Like a Film Critic
3-1. Learn about the different forms of criticism.
There are different forms of film criticism. The most common form is the review, which acts as a recommendation or warning for people who haven’t yet seen the film. These are a few hundred words and focus on evaluating the film--saying whether it is excellent, good, mediocre, or poor.
An academic article is more formal than a review, and much longer. It is less focused on opinion, and assumes the reader has seen the film.
A critical essay is less formal and more opinionated than an academic article, but more formal than a review.
Don’t feel pressured to choose a particular form of criticism and stick to it. Many film critics write in all three forms, or blend different forms!
3-2. Analyze the film.
A film critic should not merely describe the plot, scenes, music, and style of the film they are studying, but also be able to analyze these elements. To analyze a film, think about how different elements work together and the effect they produce.
For example, you might observe that a director uses a lot of dark colors in his film. Through analysis, you might conclude that this use of color mirrors the dark emotions of the main character.
Critical essays and academic articles focus on description and analysis, while reviews usually do not.
3-3. Interpret the film.
A critic should be able to interpret a film, or determine its meaning. Think about the claims a film is making. What message is the director trying to convey? Different critics may have different interpretations of the same film.
A film critic might interpret the film Snow White as a commentary on the pitfalls of vanity.
Critical essays and academic articles offer interpretations, whereas reviews sometimes do, but often don't.
3-4. Evaluate the film.
Evaluation is the most important aspect of a movie review. When you evaluate a film, you make a judgment about its quality. Is it an excellent film, a mediocre film, or a bad film? Base your evaluation on your understanding of film as an art form.
A critic might offer the evaluation that Snow White is one of the best animated films of its time.
Reviews focus heavily on evaluation, while critical essays and academic articles place less emphasis on evaluation.
3-5. Distinguish between preferences and critical judgement.
You may like a film, but as a critic, recognize that it is not a high quality film. In the same way, you may not enjoy a film, but acknowledge it is well made. When writing as a critic, it’s important to make judgments about film quality rather than relying on your own tastes.
You should base your judgments on general criteria for excellence. These include originality, good acting, technical skill, an engaging plot, and emotional intensity. Reading the work of other critics and watching high quality films will give you a better idea of what makes an excellent film.
It’s fine to let your tastes show through in movie reviews--many critics do. Celebrity critics are often famous for displaying their preferences. Just make sure you are looking at the film with a critical eye, too.
4. Writing Like a Film Critic
4-1. Learn how to write well.
Writing is at the heart of film criticism, because writing is how a film critic conveys their ideas. Make sure you have a sound understanding of organization, grammar, and style. Reading great works of literature, as well as the works of your favorite film critics, is an important step in learning to write well.
Formal training in writing is not necessary, but it can help. Many employers, particularly those in mainstream media, look for film critics with a background in journalism or communication. Consider taking writing classes at your school, university, or local community college.
4-2. Develop a guiding philosophy.
Every film critic should offer a unique perspective on cinema that guides their work. This perspective should extend beyond individual films, and instead focus on how film as a whole relates to art, society, or politics.
Some critics believe that film can offer guiding wisdom to help people live better lives. Others believe that every film element has a significant symbolic value. To develop your own guiding philosophy, think about what film means to you as an art form and how it relates to life.
4-3. Be honest.
Be honest in your critiques of films. Don’t bash a film just for dramatic effect. At the same time, don’t be afraid to speak out against a film that other critics have praised.
4-4. Use simple language.
People read film critiques for the ideas and opinions they contain, not for artistic writing style. While your pieces should be well written, avoid using flowery language or technical jargon, which can detract from clarity.
4-5. Critique yourself.
While you’ll be constantly offering critiques of others’ work, you should always remain critical of your own. Try to find the weaknesses in your arguments, and address them. A finished critical piece should be the product of multiple drafts.
Tips
Get involved in a film club online or in your neighborhood, community college, or workplace. If you can't find one, start your own!
Warnings
Making a career out of film criticism is challenging. Be prepared to dedicate a lot of time to your craft, work hard, and make sacrifices.
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Search “classic films” online to find a number of lists.\\nPurchasing a subscription to a streaming service like Netflix is a great way to get access to a wide variety of films.\\n1-3. Read the work of other film critics.\\nReading the work of established film critics will help you gain a better understanding of film critic writing and film as an art form. Find a few critics who you really like, and follow their work.\\nForm your own opinions about a given film, then read a critic’s review to see how your opinions compare with theirs.\\nTake note of your favorite critics’ writing style and tone, and examine how they present their ideas. How do humor and context factor in to the critique?\\n1-4. Make some films of your own.\\nA good understanding of filmmaking and video editing is important to being a good film critic. Making a few short films of your own, whether they are 5 minutes long or an hour long, can help inform your interpretation of others’ films.\\n2. Gaining Experience\\n2-1. Study journalism.\\nThe majority of film critics are journalists who end up specializing in film writing. If you are in college, consider majoring or minoring in journalism. Otherwise, you can take a journalism class at your local community college or online.\\nYou don’t need to study journalism to become a film critic, but it’s helpful if you want to make a career out of film criticism.\\n2-2. Take some film classes.\\nTry taking some film classes at your school, online, or at your local community college. Majoring or minoring in film can be helpful if you are looking to be a professional film critic.\\n2-3. Start a film blog.\\nThe two major routes to becoming a film critic are through the field of journalism, and through film blogging. Film critics often start film critique blogs for pleasure. A blog can be a stepping stone to a career in film criticism. Your blog will allow you to practice your writing skills and create a portfolio of your work.\\nDon’t be shy when it comes to expressing your opinion on your blog. Your content should be high quality, but also honest and genuine.\\n2-4. Publish your commentary.\\nIf film criticism is a hobby, you might be happy publishing your work on your film blog alone. However, if you are trying to become a professional film critic, you should send your work to newspapers, magazines, and online publications to try your hand at getting published.\\nWhile jobs with print media are becoming more scarce, digital media offers a wide range of new opportunities.\\nGetting published is difficult, so don’t give up! It may take years of practice, so keep blogging, reading the work of other film critics, and studying film.\\n2-5. Apply for jobs as a film critic.\\nAfter you have built up a portfolio with your blog and maybe even gotten a few pieces published, you can start applying for jobs as a film critic. You might be interested in freelance work, in which a business or individual hires you for a particular project. You can also apply for jobs at movie review websites and other digital and print publications.\\nThere are many freelance job sites online. Take some time to look at the listings to see if a project interests you.\\nThis will probably be a side job, at least initially. Many positions are part time, and likely won’t pay enough to be your only source of income.\\n3. Thinking Like a Film Critic\\n3-1. Learn about the different forms of criticism.\\nThere are different forms of film criticism. The most common form is the review, which acts as a recommendation or warning for people who haven’t yet seen the film. These are a few hundred words and focus on evaluating the film--saying whether it is excellent, good, mediocre, or poor.\\nAn academic article is more formal than a review, and much longer. It is less focused on opinion, and assumes the reader has seen the film.\\nA critical essay is less formal and more opinionated than an academic article, but more formal than a review.\\nDon’t feel pressured to choose a particular form of criticism and stick to it. Many film critics write in all three forms, or blend different forms!\\n3-2. Analyze the film.\\nA film critic should not merely describe the plot, scenes, music, and style of the film they are studying, but also be able to analyze these elements. To analyze a film, think about how different elements work together and the effect they produce.\\nFor example, you might observe that a director uses a lot of dark colors in his film. Through analysis, you might conclude that this use of color mirrors the dark emotions of the main character.\\nCritical essays and academic articles focus on description and analysis, while reviews usually do not.\\n3-3. Interpret the film.\\nA critic should be able to interpret a film, or determine its meaning. Think about the claims a film is making. What message is the director trying to convey? Different critics may have different interpretations of the same film.\\nA film critic might interpret the film Snow White as a commentary on the pitfalls of vanity.\\nCritical essays and academic articles offer interpretations, whereas reviews sometimes do, but often don't.\\n3-4. Evaluate the film.\\nEvaluation is the most important aspect of a movie review. When you evaluate a film, you make a judgment about its quality. Is it an excellent film, a mediocre film, or a bad film? Base your evaluation on your understanding of film as an art form.\\nA critic might offer the evaluation that Snow White is one of the best animated films of its time.\\nReviews focus heavily on evaluation, while critical essays and academic articles place less emphasis on evaluation.\\n3-5. Distinguish between preferences and critical judgement.\\nYou may like a film, but as a critic, recognize that it is not a high quality film. In the same way, you may not enjoy a film, but acknowledge it is well made. When writing as a critic, it’s important to make judgments about film quality rather than relying on your own tastes.\\nYou should base your judgments on general criteria for excellence. These include originality, good acting, technical skill, an engaging plot, and emotional intensity. Reading the work of other critics and watching high quality films will give you a better idea of what makes an excellent film.\\nIt’s fine to let your tastes show through in movie reviews--many critics do. Celebrity critics are often famous for displaying their preferences. Just make sure you are looking at the film with a critical eye, too.\\n4. Writing Like a Film Critic\\n4-1. Learn how to write well.\\nWriting is at the heart of film criticism, because writing is how a film critic conveys their ideas. Make sure you have a sound understanding of organization, grammar, and style. Reading great works of literature, as well as the works of your favorite film critics, is an important step in learning to write well.\\nFormal training in writing is not necessary, but it can help. Many employers, particularly those in mainstream media, look for film critics with a background in journalism or communication. Consider taking writing classes at your school, university, or local community college.\\n4-2. Develop a guiding philosophy.\\nEvery film critic should offer a unique perspective on cinema that guides their work. This perspective should extend beyond individual films, and instead focus on how film as a whole relates to art, society, or politics.\\nSome critics believe that film can offer guiding wisdom to help people live better lives. Others believe that every film element has a significant symbolic value. To develop your own guiding philosophy, think about what film means to you as an art form and how it relates to life.\\n4-3. Be honest.\\nBe honest in your critiques of films. Don’t bash a film just for dramatic effect. At the same time, don’t be afraid to speak out against a film that other critics have praised.\\n4-4. Use simple language.\\nPeople read film critiques for the ideas and opinions they contain, not for artistic writing style. While your pieces should be well written, avoid using flowery language or technical jargon, which can detract from clarity.\\n4-5. Critique yourself.\\nWhile you’ll be constantly offering critiques of others’ work, you should always remain critical of your own. Try to find the weaknesses in your arguments, and address them. A finished critical piece should be the product of multiple drafts.\\nTips\\nGet involved in a film club online or in your neighborhood, community college, or workplace. If you can't find one, start your own!\\nWarnings\\nMaking a career out of film criticism is challenging. Be prepared to dedicate a lot of time to your craft, work hard, and make sacrifices.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Film critics study movies, provide insightful commentary, and let us know whether a movie is a success or a flop. Whether you want to be a professional or hobbyist film critic, you must first possess a passion for film. Watching as many films as you can and reading the work of other critics is key for your development as a film critic. As with any craft, practice is crucial. Practice writing film criticisms as often as you can. Continue to sharpen your writing skills, because these are central to the film critic’s job. 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Different critics may have different interpretations of the same film.\\nA film critic might interpret the film Snow White as a commentary on the pitfalls of vanity.\\nCritical essays and academic articles offer interpretations, whereas reviews sometimes do, but often don't.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Evaluate the film.\", \"描述\": \"Evaluation is the most important aspect of a movie review. When you evaluate a film, you make a judgment about its quality. Is it an excellent film, a mediocre film, or a bad film? Base your evaluation on your understanding of film as an art form.\\nA critic might offer the evaluation that Snow White is one of the best animated films of its time.\\nReviews focus heavily on evaluation, while critical essays and academic articles place less emphasis on evaluation.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Distinguish between preferences and critical judgement.\", \"描述\": \"You may like a film, but as a critic, recognize that it is not a high quality film. In the same way, you may not enjoy a film, but acknowledge it is well made. When writing as a critic, it’s important to make judgments about film quality rather than relying on your own tastes.\\nYou should base your judgments on general criteria for excellence. These include originality, good acting, technical skill, an engaging plot, and emotional intensity. Reading the work of other critics and watching high quality films will give you a better idea of what makes an excellent film.\\nIt’s fine to let your tastes show through in movie reviews--many critics do. Celebrity critics are often famous for displaying their preferences. Just make sure you are looking at the film with a critical eye, too.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Writing Like a Film Critic\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn how to write well.\", \"描述\": \"Writing is at the heart of film criticism, because writing is how a film critic conveys their ideas. Make sure you have a sound understanding of organization, grammar, and style. Reading great works of literature, as well as the works of your favorite film critics, is an important step in learning to write well.\\nFormal training in writing is not necessary, but it can help. Many employers, particularly those in mainstream media, look for film critics with a background in journalism or communication. Consider taking writing classes at your school, university, or local community college.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Develop a guiding philosophy.\", \"描述\": \"Every film critic should offer a unique perspective on cinema that guides their work. This perspective should extend beyond individual films, and instead focus on how film as a whole relates to art, society, or politics.\\nSome critics believe that film can offer guiding wisdom to help people live better lives. Others believe that every film element has a significant symbolic value. 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1. Starting Your Career
1-1. Watch films critically.
You have probably seen lots of films if you are interested in becoming a film director, but you can start to use your film viewing experiences as a way to learn about film making. Watch as many films as you can and pay attention to the details.
Try to count at least 15 mistakes in each film you watch. Look for acting errors, editing errors, storyline continuity errors, etc.
Develop your awareness of storytelling as you watch films. Try watching movies with the sound off and pay attention to how the story unfolds through images as well. Or, you can also listen to the dialogue, soundtrack, and other sounds in a film to see how the story unfolds through what characters say.
1-2. Start making short films
To become a director, it is important to get started right away and use any means necessary to make your own films. Get a camera if you don't already have one. Although a quality camera will help you to produce better quality films, start with any camera you can find.
Write your own screenplay or work with a friend who writes.
Get a group of friends together on the weekend and shoot scenes for a short film. Over time, you can edit the scenes together using a program like Adobe Premier.
Making short films will force you to start learning the technical aspects of directing. You'll need to know how to edit, write, and do everything else, too. Making your own short films will give you a chance to wear multiple hats and develop different skill sets.
1-3. Learn how to act
The best way to learn to direct actors is by getting experience acting, whether this is by acting in your own films or being part of a drama group. Learning more about acting and doing some acting yourself will give you a greater appreciation for the actors that you are working with and it may make it easier to communicate with them.
Try to learn the lingo of actors. For example, you can learn about different acting strategies or techniques, such as classical acting and method acting.
1-4. Read other people’s scripts.
While you will probably start out writing your own scripts, you may need to work with other people’s scripts later on. Reading scripts that other people have written is a good way to practice bringing someone else’s story to life. When you read other people’s scripts, try to think about the details of how you would shoot each scene.
For example, if two people are having an argument in a scene, how would you position them? What camera angles would you use? What kind of lighting would you use? What sounds would be in the background?
1-5. Consider going to film school
Though it's totally not required, film school is great for three things: forced experience, access to crews, and networking. Plenty have made it who did not go to film school, but plenty more have made it who have. You'll have access to internships, workshops, and, most importantly, names, names, names. If you have a project, you can get a crew handed to you and you can network by helping others out, too.
Although highly competitive, NYU, USC, University of California at Los Angeles, AFI (Los Angeles), and California Institute of the Arts are some of the top schools. Several well-known directors have attended these schools, such as Spike Lee, Martin Scorsese, Oliver Stone, Ron Howard, George Lucas, John Singleton, Amy Heckerling, David Lynch, Terrence Malick, Francis Ford Coppola, and John Lasseter.
1-6. Work as part of a production crew.
Becoming a film director doesn't happen overnight. Most directors started out working as runners, camera operators, or performing other roles as part of a production crew. No job is too small. Whether it's filing paperwork, making sure the actors have their bagels, or watching over the camera equipment at night, it's a step in the right direction.
If you're in film school, look into internships. If you're not, check your local Craigslist, get in the know with the creative types in your area, and offer to be of service. If you're amicable and trustworthy, people will want to work with you again. And the gigs will get bigger and better each time.
A production company is more likely to give a chance to someone with five years of production assistant experience over some kid fresh out of film school. Try to find a production assistant job or another entry level production crew job and do your best.
1-7. Start networking
Long story short, you won't become a director without a reel. That is the most important thing to have. That being said, this is definitely an industry where it's a lot easier to show said reel if you have an in. To get an in, you need to start networking right away. The more people you know, the more opportunities you will have.
Attend industry events, such as mixers, conventions, parties, premiers, etc. Introduce yourself to people and try to develop good relationships with the people you meet. Offer to help out on future projects or invite others to work with you.
2. Making the Cut
2-1. Find other gigs to get by.
On your path to become a film director, you will need to develop your resume with other types of directing jobs, like directing music videos, TV shows, and commercials. The paychecks you receive for these jobs won't be in the millions, but these jobs will help to fill out your resume with directing experience.
Some of these gigs will pay well and you may even enjoy the work, so don’t turn down a directing job just because it is for a commercial and not a feature length film.
2-2. Make more advanced short films.
Making short films with friends you have made in the industry is the quickest way to bulk up your reel. Work with the friends you've made, and with others who are also trying to break into the industry. Sometimes the budget will come out of your own pocket, sometimes it won't, but it's a necessary step on the ladder to success.
2-3. Enter your shorts into film festivals
If you have a film you're particularly proud of, then you can enter it into a film festival. The great part about it is that you can enter a film festival anywhere. There are probably some film festivals in your state or region that you can participate in.
Sundance receives 12,000 submissions per year, so it is competitive. You may want to start smaller and work your way up. Just make sure you meet the deadline and formatting requirements!
Quentin Tarantino's "Reservoir Dogs" was discovered at Sundance Film Festival and Steven Spielberg stumbled upon a then unheard of film called "Paranormal Activity" at a film festival.
2-4. Assemble your reel.
Your reel, or portfolio, is what you'll be submitting to any project that's looking for a director, so it is important to make sure that it is impressive. Models submit their modeling portfolios, actors submit their headshots and resumes, and directors submit their reels. Your reel should include information about your education, professional experience, and films. Here's what you'll need:
Information on your educational experience
An accompanying resume showing your experience to date
Your contact information
Clips that also show your skills in editing, writing, animation and cinematography
A list of film festivals participated in and awards won
Miscellaneous experience -- music videos, commercials, animated shorts, TV shows, etc.
Stills and storyboards showing your process
2-5. Work on your people skills
Even after you become a director, you're not necessarily on the top of the totem pole. You'll have to work with lots of different people and sometimes people will clash with each other or with you. As the director, keeping everyone happy will often be your responsibility. Start working on your people skills early on so that you will be well-equipped to handle different problems and personalities later on.
Keep in mind that you may have to deal with some really frustrating situations. Imagine that your producer calls you and tells you he doesn't like the scene you filmed at 5 AM in the middle of Nowhere, Kansas to get the exact perfect shot at the golden hour. The actress changed a few of her lines to give her character more depth and the money's gone. You'll spend the entire night reworking the script to make room for something that can be filmed tomorrow at the studio.
3. Hitting the Big Time
3-1. Get an agent.
Once you have a decent reel, an agent may want to represent you. An agent can negotiate your contracts for you and help you to decide what is and what is not in your best interest. However, you should never pay money up front to acquire an agent. An agent should only charge you if you make money as a result of his or her efforts.
A large part of an agent’s job will be to negotiate your "gross points." This is a fancy term for however much money the movie makes, you get X percent of it. When a movie makes $100, it's not that big of a deal. But imagine if your next movie rakes in $1 billion! Those gross points matter and they matter big time.
3-2. Try not to get discouraged by a lack of recognition.
Get ready to take none of the credit and all of the blame. When a movie does well, it's rare that the director gets seen as the reason why. But when a movie does poorly, it's always that the director gets blamed. If it's a flop, you'll be hard-pressed to get another parallel gig anytime soon. Even if a movie that you direct is successful, you may not get as much recognition as the actors in your film.
Maybe not for you, but for the average Joe on the street, directors aren't seen as the amazing film visionaries they are. It's the actors that make the movie. So when it comes to the public, you'll go unappreciated. And when it comes to your crew, it's no different. If your movie is bad, your producers will blame you. If the actor is upset about how their hair looks, they'll blame you. It's a cycle you'll, best case scenario, grow to tolerate.
3-3. Become a part of the union.
After you have had a few directing jobs, you can become a part of the Director's Guild of America (DAG) (provided you're US based, of course). By becoming a member of DAG, you're guaranteed a $160,000 salary for 10 weeks.
In most cases, you must be hired by a signatory company to be eligible. Or you make it big out of nowhere. The initial fee is a few thousand dollars and you pay minimal dues beyond that. It's completely worth it, especially if the projects are not constant.
3-4. Enjoy your awesome job.
After you achieve your goal, make sure that you enjoy and appreciate your job. It will be stressful sometimes, but it should also be quite satisfying. You will always be doing something different depending on the stage of the film that you are working on.
In pre-production, you're translating the script into a movie. Something visual. You're figuring out all the logistics, the casting, and the real nuts and bolts of it all. This is arguably the most important.
In production, you'll be doing what everyone pictures directors do. You'll let the actors know what you see for them and how you want the scene to play out. However, you'll also be on a massive time crunch to paint a masterpiece. It will be chaotic, but also thrilling.
In post-production, you'll sit down with editing team and piece it all together. Make sure that you develop good relationships with your editors to ensure that you are on the same page. In post-production, you'll also figure out the music and all the other finer points to draw it all together.
Tips
Be very visual with your directing and spend as much time as needed on your short films, and only when you are truly ready, try to make your full-length.
Try something simple for your first movie.
Build relationships with Cinematographers, Producers, Production Managers and Production Designers. Without them you are nothing.
Warnings
Be nice to everyone. The film industry is smaller than you think and people talk.
This is a very difficult to achieve career and may take you well into your mid-thirties, if ever, to achieve it. Keep on pursuing your dream though, and if you want it badly enough, you'll make it.
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Consider going to film school\\nThough it's totally not required, film school is great for three things: forced experience, access to crews, and networking. Plenty have made it who did not go to film school, but plenty more have made it who have. You'll have access to internships, workshops, and, most importantly, names, names, names. If you have a project, you can get a crew handed to you and you can network by helping others out, too.\\nAlthough highly competitive, NYU, USC, University of California at Los Angeles, AFI (Los Angeles), and California Institute of the Arts are some of the top schools. Several well-known directors have attended these schools, such as Spike Lee, Martin Scorsese, Oliver Stone, Ron Howard, George Lucas, John Singleton, Amy Heckerling, David Lynch, Terrence Malick, Francis Ford Coppola, and John Lasseter.\\n1-6. Work as part of a production crew.\\nBecoming a film director doesn't happen overnight. 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That being said, this is definitely an industry where it's a lot easier to show said reel if you have an in. To get an in, you need to start networking right away. The more people you know, the more opportunities you will have.\\nAttend industry events, such as mixers, conventions, parties, premiers, etc. Introduce yourself to people and try to develop good relationships with the people you meet. Offer to help out on future projects or invite others to work with you.\\n2. Making the Cut\\n2-1. Find other gigs to get by.\\nOn your path to become a film director, you will need to develop your resume with other types of directing jobs, like directing music videos, TV shows, and commercials. The paychecks you receive for these jobs won't be in the millions, but these jobs will help to fill out your resume with directing experience.\\nSome of these gigs will pay well and you may even enjoy the work, so don’t turn down a directing job just because it is for a commercial and not a feature length film.\\n2-2. Make more advanced short films.\\nMaking short films with friends you have made in the industry is the quickest way to bulk up your reel. Work with the friends you've made, and with others who are also trying to break into the industry. Sometimes the budget will come out of your own pocket, sometimes it won't, but it's a necessary step on the ladder to success.\\n2-3. Enter your shorts into film festivals\\nIf you have a film you're particularly proud of, then you can enter it into a film festival. The great part about it is that you can enter a film festival anywhere. There are probably some film festivals in your state or region that you can participate in.\\nSundance receives 12,000 submissions per year, so it is competitive. You may want to start smaller and work your way up. Just make sure you meet the deadline and formatting requirements!\\nQuentin Tarantino's \\\"Reservoir Dogs\\\" was discovered at Sundance Film Festival and Steven Spielberg stumbled upon a then unheard of film called \\\"Paranormal Activity\\\" at a film festival.\\n2-4. Assemble your reel.\\nYour reel, or portfolio, is what you'll be submitting to any project that's looking for a director, so it is important to make sure that it is impressive. Models submit their modeling portfolios, actors submit their headshots and resumes, and directors submit their reels. Your reel should include information about your education, professional experience, and films. 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Imagine that your producer calls you and tells you he doesn't like the scene you filmed at 5 AM in the middle of Nowhere, Kansas to get the exact perfect shot at the golden hour. The actress changed a few of her lines to give her character more depth and the money's gone. You'll spend the entire night reworking the script to make room for something that can be filmed tomorrow at the studio.\\n3. Hitting the Big Time\\n3-1. Get an agent.\\nOnce you have a decent reel, an agent may want to represent you. An agent can negotiate your contracts for you and help you to decide what is and what is not in your best interest. However, you should never pay money up front to acquire an agent. An agent should only charge you if you make money as a result of his or her efforts.\\nA large part of an agent’s job will be to negotiate your \\\"gross points.\\\" This is a fancy term for however much money the movie makes, you get X percent of it. When a movie makes $100, it's not that big of a deal. 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It's a cycle you'll, best case scenario, grow to tolerate.\\n3-3. Become a part of the union.\\nAfter you have had a few directing jobs, you can become a part of the Director's Guild of America (DAG) (provided you're US based, of course). By becoming a member of DAG, you're guaranteed a $160,000 salary for 10 weeks.\\nIn most cases, you must be hired by a signatory company to be eligible. Or you make it big out of nowhere. The initial fee is a few thousand dollars and you pay minimal dues beyond that. It's completely worth it, especially if the projects are not constant.\\n3-4. Enjoy your awesome job.\\nAfter you achieve your goal, make sure that you enjoy and appreciate your job. It will be stressful sometimes, but it should also be quite satisfying. You will always be doing something different depending on the stage of the film that you are working on.\\nIn pre-production, you're translating the script into a movie. Something visual. You're figuring out all the logistics, the casting, and the real nuts and bolts of it all. This is arguably the most important.\\nIn production, you'll be doing what everyone pictures directors do. You'll let the actors know what you see for them and how you want the scene to play out. However, you'll also be on a massive time crunch to paint a masterpiece. It will be chaotic, but also thrilling.\\nIn post-production, you'll sit down with editing team and piece it all together. Make sure that you develop good relationships with your editors to ensure that you are on the same page. In post-production, you'll also figure out the music and all the other finer points to draw it all together.\\nTips\\nBe very visual with your directing and spend as much time as needed on your short films, and only when you are truly ready, try to make your full-length.\\nTry something simple for your first movie.\\nBuild relationships with Cinematographers, Producers, Production Managers and Production Designers. Without them you are nothing.\\nWarnings\\nBe nice to everyone. The film industry is smaller than you think and people talk.\\nThis is a very difficult to achieve career and may take you well into your mid-thirties, if ever, to achieve it. Keep on pursuing your dream though, and if you want it badly enough, you'll make it.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Becoming a film director is a dream job for many people. If you're ready and willing to put in the time, have creative vision and an impressive ability to make something out of nothing, then becoming a film director might be the perfect job for you. Just keep in mind that film directing jobs are highly competitive and it may take years or even decades to accomplish your goal. However, if this is your dream, then you should go for it!\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Starting Your Career\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Watch films critically.\", \"描述\": \"You have probably seen lots of films if you are interested in becoming a film director, but you can start to use your film viewing experiences as a way to learn about film making. Watch as many films as you can and pay attention to the details.\\nTry to count at least 15 mistakes in each film you watch. Look for acting errors, editing errors, storyline continuity errors, etc.\\nDevelop your awareness of storytelling as you watch films. 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When you read other people’s scripts, try to think about the details of how you would shoot each scene.\\nFor example, if two people are having an argument in a scene, how would you position them? What camera angles would you use? What kind of lighting would you use? What sounds would be in the background?\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Consider going to film school\", \"描述\": \"Though it's totally not required, film school is great for three things: forced experience, access to crews, and networking. Plenty have made it who did not go to film school, but plenty more have made it who have. You'll have access to internships, workshops, and, most importantly, names, names, names. If you have a project, you can get a crew handed to you and you can network by helping others out, too.\\nAlthough highly competitive, NYU, USC, University of California at Los Angeles, AFI (Los Angeles), and California Institute of the Arts are some of the top schools. Several well-known directors have attended these schools, such as Spike Lee, Martin Scorsese, Oliver Stone, Ron Howard, George Lucas, John Singleton, Amy Heckerling, David Lynch, Terrence Malick, Francis Ford Coppola, and John Lasseter.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Work as part of a production crew.\", \"描述\": \"Becoming a film director doesn't happen overnight. Most directors started out working as runners, camera operators, or performing other roles as part of a production crew. No job is too small. Whether it's filing paperwork, making sure the actors have their bagels, or watching over the camera equipment at night, it's a step in the right direction.\\nIf you're in film school, look into internships. If you're not, check your local Craigslist, get in the know with the creative types in your area, and offer to be of service. If you're amicable and trustworthy, people will want to work with you again. And the gigs will get bigger and better each time.\\nA production company is more likely to give a chance to someone with five years of production assistant experience over some kid fresh out of film school. Try to find a production assistant job or another entry level production crew job and do your best.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Start networking\", \"描述\": \"Long story short, you won't become a director without a reel. That is the most important thing to have. That being said, this is definitely an industry where it's a lot easier to show said reel if you have an in. To get an in, you need to start networking right away. The more people you know, the more opportunities you will have.\\nAttend industry events, such as mixers, conventions, parties, premiers, etc. Introduce yourself to people and try to develop good relationships with the people you meet. Offer to help out on future projects or invite others to work with you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Making the Cut\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Find other gigs to get by.\", \"描述\": \"On your path to become a film director, you will need to develop your resume with other types of directing jobs, like directing music videos, TV shows, and commercials. The paychecks you receive for these jobs won't be in the millions, but these jobs will help to fill out your resume with directing experience.\\nSome of these gigs will pay well and you may even enjoy the work, so don’t turn down a directing job just because it is for a commercial and not a feature length film.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make more advanced short films.\", \"描述\": \"Making short films with friends you have made in the industry is the quickest way to bulk up your reel. Work with the friends you've made, and with others who are also trying to break into the industry. Sometimes the budget will come out of your own pocket, sometimes it won't, but it's a necessary step on the ladder to success.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Enter your shorts into film festivals\", \"描述\": \"If you have a film you're particularly proud of, then you can enter it into a film festival. The great part about it is that you can enter a film festival anywhere. There are probably some film festivals in your state or region that you can participate in.\\nSundance receives 12,000 submissions per year, so it is competitive. You may want to start smaller and work your way up. Just make sure you meet the deadline and formatting requirements!\\nQuentin Tarantino's \\\"Reservoir Dogs\\\" was discovered at Sundance Film Festival and Steven Spielberg stumbled upon a then unheard of film called \\\"Paranormal Activity\\\" at a film festival.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Assemble your reel.\", \"描述\": \"Your reel, or portfolio, is what you'll be submitting to any project that's looking for a director, so it is important to make sure that it is impressive. Models submit their modeling portfolios, actors submit their headshots and resumes, and directors submit their reels. Your reel should include information about your education, professional experience, and films. Here's what you'll need:\\nInformation on your educational experience\\nAn accompanying resume showing your experience to date\\nYour contact information\\nClips that also show your skills in editing, writing, animation and cinematography\\nA list of film festivals participated in and awards won\\nMiscellaneous experience -- music videos, commercials, animated shorts, TV shows, etc.\\nStills and storyboards showing your process\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Work on your people skills\", \"描述\": \"Even after you become a director, you're not necessarily on the top of the totem pole. You'll have to work with lots of different people and sometimes people will clash with each other or with you. As the director, keeping everyone happy will often be your responsibility. Start working on your people skills early on so that you will be well-equipped to handle different problems and personalities later on.\\nKeep in mind that you may have to deal with some really frustrating situations. Imagine that your producer calls you and tells you he doesn't like the scene you filmed at 5 AM in the middle of Nowhere, Kansas to get the exact perfect shot at the golden hour. The actress changed a few of her lines to give her character more depth and the money's gone. You'll spend the entire night reworking the script to make room for something that can be filmed tomorrow at the studio.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Hitting the Big Time\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get an agent.\", \"描述\": \"Once you have a decent reel, an agent may want to represent you. An agent can negotiate your contracts for you and help you to decide what is and what is not in your best interest. However, you should never pay money up front to acquire an agent. An agent should only charge you if you make money as a result of his or her efforts.\\nA large part of an agent’s job will be to negotiate your \\\"gross points.\\\" This is a fancy term for however much money the movie makes, you get X percent of it. When a movie makes $100, it's not that big of a deal. But imagine if your next movie rakes in $1 billion! Those gross points matter and they matter big time.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Try not to get discouraged by a lack of recognition.\", \"描述\": \"Get ready to take none of the credit and all of the blame. When a movie does well, it's rare that the director gets seen as the reason why. But when a movie does poorly, it's always that the director gets blamed. If it's a flop, you'll be hard-pressed to get another parallel gig anytime soon. Even if a movie that you direct is successful, you may not get as much recognition as the actors in your film.\\nMaybe not for you, but for the average Joe on the street, directors aren't seen as the amazing film visionaries they are. It's the actors that make the movie. So when it comes to the public, you'll go unappreciated. And when it comes to your crew, it's no different. If your movie is bad, your producers will blame you. If the actor is upset about how their hair looks, they'll blame you. It's a cycle you'll, best case scenario, grow to tolerate.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Become a part of the union.\", \"描述\": \"After you have had a few directing jobs, you can become a part of the Director's Guild of America (DAG) (provided you're US based, of course). By becoming a member of DAG, you're guaranteed a $160,000 salary for 10 weeks.\\nIn most cases, you must be hired by a signatory company to be eligible. Or you make it big out of nowhere. The initial fee is a few thousand dollars and you pay minimal dues beyond that. It's completely worth it, especially if the projects are not constant.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Enjoy your awesome job.\", \"描述\": \"After you achieve your goal, make sure that you enjoy and appreciate your job. It will be stressful sometimes, but it should also be quite satisfying. You will always be doing something different depending on the stage of the film that you are working on.\\nIn pre-production, you're translating the script into a movie. Something visual. You're figuring out all the logistics, the casting, and the real nuts and bolts of it all. This is arguably the most important.\\nIn production, you'll be doing what everyone pictures directors do. You'll let the actors know what you see for them and how you want the scene to play out. However, you'll also be on a massive time crunch to paint a masterpiece. It will be chaotic, but also thrilling.\\nIn post-production, you'll sit down with editing team and piece it all together. Make sure that you develop good relationships with your editors to ensure that you are on the same page. In post-production, you'll also figure out the music and all the other finer points to draw it all together.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Be very visual with your directing and spend as much time as needed on your short films, and only when you are truly ready, try to make your full-length.\\n\", \"Try something simple for your first movie.\\n\", \"Build relationships with Cinematographers, Producers, Production Managers and Production Designers. Without them you are nothing.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Be nice to everyone. The film industry is smaller than you think and people talk.\\n\", \"This is a very difficult to achieve career and may take you well into your mid-thirties, if ever, to achieve it. Keep on pursuing your dream though, and if you want it badly enough, you'll make it.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Getting the Right Education
1-1. Take a film class or enroll in film school.
Not only will you learn a lot about the craft, but you will also make connections with others that are interested in making movies. You may even be able to find work on a film crew through your classmates or professors.
Many community colleges offer courses in film that you could sign up for if you aren’t ready to enroll in film school.
1-2. Study writing, theatre, art, or another related field.
People on film crews sometimes have varied backgrounds, such as in writing, theatre, or art. Consider taking classes in these subjects to broaden your knowledge and prepare you for becoming a filmmaker.
1-3. Research films.
You should watch a variety of movies to get ideas and tips for your own film. Choose movies from different genres and different eras. Pay attention to details such as:
What do you like about a film?
What makes a movie believable?
What makes a strong character?
How are props used successfully?
How does the location impact or enhance the film?
1-4. Find out what’s going on in the industry.
It is important to keep your knowledge current regarding the market. Find out news and trends about the film industry so that you know what you’re up against.
1-5. Network.
Meeting other people in the industry can help you out tremendously. Follow leaders in the filmmaking biz on social media, and attend filmmaking and movie events as often as you can.
1-6. Find a mentor.
Speak to someone who has experience with filmmaking. Ask them what tips or tricks they have for you. Ask to tag along when they shoot one of their own movies so you can see firsthand what works and what doesn’t.
You may be able to find a mentor in film school. Ask a classmate who has experience or one of your professors to mentor you. Alternatively, once you gain experience on a film crew, you may be able to find a mentor through your work.
2. Gaining Filmmaking Experience
2-1. Join a film crew.
In order to gain experience in the industry, you should work on a film crew. Search online for job openings near you, and ask your classmates and professors if they know of any crews seeking help.
2-2. Sign up as an assistant producer to learn how a production works.
The producer can help choose other members for the film crew as well as cast the roles for the movie. This person manages the production from start to finish. They are the group leader and the one who develops the project. You will likely need education as well as experience to qualify for a producer role, but as a beginner you can likely be a production assistant.
2-3. Assist the director if you want to be at the center of film production.
The director is responsible for overseeing the the shooting and assembly of the film. They work closely with all the other members of the team to ensure everyone is on track.
2-4. Join the script-writing team if you want to tell a story.
This team writes the script for the film. They must make sure that the content is interesting and follows a logical sequence. They write dialogue for the actors as well as ensure the transitions from one scene to the next make sense.
2-5. Work the camera if you are interested in cinematography.
A camera person films the movie. They should have prior experience using a video camera, and be able to film from different angles. Some films require multiple camera people to shoot the film from various angles.
2-6. Become a gaffer if you have electrical experience.
The gaffer is in charge of lighting for the movie. They are also the head electrician and are in charge of ensuring there is adequate power on the set and that all cables and cords are properly placed.
Crews often also have boom operators to man the microphones, so if you are interested in ensuring the sound for the film is top-notch, become a boom operator.
2-7. Try your hand at acting if you want to be on screen.
Actors star in the film, so you should have acting experience for this job. It is important that actors are able to become the person they are portraying, no matter how different the character is from the actor's personality.
2-8. Join the technical production team to affect the appearance of the film.
Technical producers work hard after the filming is completed. They are in charge of choosing which shots to use, editing the film for content, as well as adding special effects and music when necessary.
3. Branching Out Into Your Own Films
3-1. Get the proper equipment.
At the very least, you will need a camera. Don’t worry about purchasing one that is top of the line, but instead choose something of good quality at an affordable price. You’ll have plenty of time to upgrade in the future.
If your camera doesn’t have a good microphone, you may also want to purchase boom mics so that the actors’ voices come through loud and clear.
3-2. Come up with an idea for a short film.
Choose an idea for your first film based on something you are both passionate and knowledgeable about. Get inspiration from the real world, even if your film will be sci-fi or fantasy. The audience should still be able to relate to the issues and connect to the characters.
Focus on content. What’s in your film is more important than the equipment you shoot your film with. Remember to keep your focus on the content of the film and create a story that other people want to see and can identify with.
3-3. Choose your film crew.
Making a film takes an entire crew to keep things running smoothly. Select people to fill the roles that you cannot, such as producer, director, scriptwriter, camera operator, gaffer, boom operator, costume coordinator, art director, technical producer, and actors.
If you’ve taken film classes, see if any of your classmates are interested in joining your film crew. You can also post notices at school or online to find people willing to become part of the crew.
Don't be afraid to ask your crew for help. You're not expected to know how to do everything, and your crew is there to support you and help you execute your vision.
3-4. Start shooting.
Pick a nice day when your crew can arrive at the set location. Spend time working with your actors to ensure they deliver their lines correctly and show appropriate emotion.Take your time; your film will be stronger if you aren’t rushing. You may need to film a scene several times to get it right.
3-5. Edit your film.
Go through each scene to find the best shots. Add music and sound effects to the film. Pay close attention to the details to ensure the film is the best it can be. Make sure transitions are seamless and that there are no errors in your film, such as an actor drinking lemonade for part of one scene and Kool-Aid for another part of the same scene.
3-6. Have fun.
This is the most important step because if you do not have fun, it will come across in your film. Laugh at your bloopers, and take breaks if you need them. Remember why you are filming in the first place: you love making movies. Do it for the fun, not the fame.
3-7. Market your film.
Distribute your film in every way you can. Post it online, to your social media accounts, YouTube, and Vimeo. You should also try to show your film to people in person. Sign up for screening contests or set up a showing of your film in your hometown.
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Pay attention to details such as:\\nWhat do you like about a film?\\nWhat makes a movie believable?\\nWhat makes a strong character?\\nHow are props used successfully?\\nHow does the location impact or enhance the film?\\n1-4. Find out what’s going on in the industry.\\nIt is important to keep your knowledge current regarding the market. Find out news and trends about the film industry so that you know what you’re up against.\\n1-5. Network.\\nMeeting other people in the industry can help you out tremendously. Follow leaders in the filmmaking biz on social media, and attend filmmaking and movie events as often as you can.\\n1-6. Find a mentor.\\nSpeak to someone who has experience with filmmaking. Ask them what tips or tricks they have for you. Ask to tag along when they shoot one of their own movies so you can see firsthand what works and what doesn’t.\\nYou may be able to find a mentor in film school. Ask a classmate who has experience or one of your professors to mentor you. Alternatively, once you gain experience on a film crew, you may be able to find a mentor through your work.\\n2. Gaining Filmmaking Experience\\n2-1. Join a film crew.\\nIn order to gain experience in the industry, you should work on a film crew. Search online for job openings near you, and ask your classmates and professors if they know of any crews seeking help.\\n2-2. Sign up as an assistant producer to learn how a production works.\\nThe producer can help choose other members for the film crew as well as cast the roles for the movie. This person manages the production from start to finish. They are the group leader and the one who develops the project. You will likely need education as well as experience to qualify for a producer role, but as a beginner you can likely be a production assistant.\\n2-3. Assist the director if you want to be at the center of film production.\\nThe director is responsible for overseeing the the shooting and assembly of the film. They work closely with all the other members of the team to ensure everyone is on track.\\n2-4. Join the script-writing team if you want to tell a story.\\nThis team writes the script for the film. They must make sure that the content is interesting and follows a logical sequence. They write dialogue for the actors as well as ensure the transitions from one scene to the next make sense.\\n2-5. Work the camera if you are interested in cinematography.\\nA camera person films the movie. They should have prior experience using a video camera, and be able to film from different angles. Some films require multiple camera people to shoot the film from various angles.\\n2-6. Become a gaffer if you have electrical experience.\\nThe gaffer is in charge of lighting for the movie. They are also the head electrician and are in charge of ensuring there is adequate power on the set and that all cables and cords are properly placed.\\nCrews often also have boom operators to man the microphones, so if you are interested in ensuring the sound for the film is top-notch, become a boom operator.\\n2-7. Try your hand at acting if you want to be on screen.\\nActors star in the film, so you should have acting experience for this job. It is important that actors are able to become the person they are portraying, no matter how different the character is from the actor's personality.\\n2-8. Join the technical production team to affect the appearance of the film.\\nTechnical producers work hard after the filming is completed. They are in charge of choosing which shots to use, editing the film for content, as well as adding special effects and music when necessary.\\n3. Branching Out Into Your Own Films\\n3-1. Get the proper equipment.\\nAt the very least, you will need a camera. Don’t worry about purchasing one that is top of the line, but instead choose something of good quality at an affordable price. You’ll have plenty of time to upgrade in the future. \\nIf your camera doesn’t have a good microphone, you may also want to purchase boom mics so that the actors’ voices come through loud and clear.\\n3-2. Come up with an idea for a short film.\\nChoose an idea for your first film based on something you are both passionate and knowledgeable about. Get inspiration from the real world, even if your film will be sci-fi or fantasy. The audience should still be able to relate to the issues and connect to the characters. \\nFocus on content. What’s in your film is more important than the equipment you shoot your film with. Remember to keep your focus on the content of the film and create a story that other people want to see and can identify with.\\n3-3. 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Edit your film.\\nGo through each scene to find the best shots. Add music and sound effects to the film. Pay close attention to the details to ensure the film is the best it can be. Make sure transitions are seamless and that there are no errors in your film, such as an actor drinking lemonade for part of one scene and Kool-Aid for another part of the same scene.\\n3-6. Have fun.\\nThis is the most important step because if you do not have fun, it will come across in your film. Laugh at your bloopers, and take breaks if you need them. Remember why you are filming in the first place: you love making movies. Do it for the fun, not the fame.\\n3-7. Market your film.\\nDistribute your film in every way you can. Post it online, to your social media accounts, YouTube, and Vimeo. You should also try to show your film to people in person. Sign up for screening contests or set up a showing of your film in your hometown.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you've ever seen an incredible film and thought \\\"I want to be a part of making something like that someday,\\\" you're in the right place. Filmmaking is a creative industry with a ton of career opportunities—from cinematography to directing to screenwriting to creating sound effects. No matter what aspect of filmmaking you're interested in, we can walk you through what it takes to become a filmmaker. Read on to learn how you get started in the film industry.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting the Right Education\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Take a film class or enroll in film school.\", \"描述\": \"Not only will you learn a lot about the craft, but you will also make connections with others that are interested in making movies. You may even be able to find work on a film crew through your classmates or professors.\\nMany community colleges offer courses in film that you could sign up for if you aren’t ready to enroll in film school.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Study writing, theatre, art, or another related field.\", \"描述\": \"People on film crews sometimes have varied backgrounds, such as in writing, theatre, or art. Consider taking classes in these subjects to broaden your knowledge and prepare you for becoming a filmmaker.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Research films.\", \"描述\": \"You should watch a variety of movies to get ideas and tips for your own film. Choose movies from different genres and different eras. 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Select people to fill the roles that you cannot, such as producer, director, scriptwriter, camera operator, gaffer, boom operator, costume coordinator, art director, technical producer, and actors. \\nIf you’ve taken film classes, see if any of your classmates are interested in joining your film crew. You can also post notices at school or online to find people willing to become part of the crew.\\nDon't be afraid to ask your crew for help. You're not expected to know how to do everything, and your crew is there to support you and help you execute your vision.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Start shooting.\", \"描述\": \"Pick a nice day when your crew can arrive at the set location. Spend time working with your actors to ensure they deliver their lines correctly and show appropriate emotion.Take your time; your film will be stronger if you aren’t rushing. 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1. Demanding the Test of Fire
1-1. Gain access to the monastery.
To gain access to the monastery you must bring a tribute of 1000 gold pieces and a sheep. You can buy a sheep from Onar's farm. Talk to the novice Pedro outside the monastery once you have the tribute. You will now be considered a Novice in the monastery.
In the expansion pack, Night of The Raven, you have the option to do an easier task to get into the monastery. You must go to the Water Mage ,Vatras, who will then tell you to see the Fire magician Daron. After completing a task for Daron, he will tell you to enter the monastery.
1-2. Serve the community.
In order to know about the Test of Fire, you must serve the community. Each of the masters will give you a task, which you must fulfill to their satisfaction. In all, there are 4 masters who will give you tasks.
Master Gorax gives you two tasks to complete.
The paladin Sergio also gives you a task.
1-3. Demand access to the library.
After completing the tasks set out by fire magicians, you must talk to Parlan. He will assess your progress and award you with the key to the library.
1-4. Read all the books in the library.
Specifically, you must read the farthest unoccupied book to the right. This book contains information on the Test of Fire, and upon reading it, a new diary entry is created for you.
1-5. Demand the Test of Fire.
After reading about the Test of Fire, you must talk to Parlan, who will suggest that you talk to Pyrokar, the highest fire magician to be given the test.
1-6. Talk to Pyrokar.
After a short conversation with Pyrokar, he will inform you that each of the three High Fire Magicians will give you their part of the test, which you must pass in order to become a fire magician. Talk to each of the fire magicians to receive their test. The tests will not tell you exactly what to do, but will give you hints or riddles instead.
2. Passing the Test of Fire
2-1. Obtain the Sacred Hammer.
In order to pass Serpentes' test, you must defeat a magic golem, which can only be done with the sacred hammer. The sacred hammer is in the lower part of the monastery and is guarded by Garwig, a novice who never sleeps. Purchase a sleep spell from Gorax, and use it on Garwig. While Garwig is under the spell, grab the sacred hammer and head outside.
2-2. Head out of the monastery, towards Orlan's tavern.
From Orlan's tavern, you have to take the path between the one that leads to the monastery and the one that leads to Onar's farm. If you are on the correct path, you will see a few of your fellow novices and a camp made by Dragomir.
2-3. Defeat the Golem.
Keep following the path till you come across a small winding hill with goblins on it. Defeat the goblins and continue on forwards. After a short distance, you will see a barren patch of land overshadowed by trees. The magic golem resides here. Equip the sacred hammer before approaching the golem. A single hit with the hammer will destroy the golem. Beware,
2-4. Keep following the path.
Follow the path till you find a big lake surrounded by hillocks. Upon finding the lake, turn right at the fork in the path. The path leads you to a small rock cove covered in thick shrubbery. The shrubbery hides a cave. Enter the cave and take the rightmost path.
2-5. Defeat Agon.
If you take the correct path, you should see two statues and rays of blue light emanating from the ground. Agon, a fellow novice reaches the treasure before you can. Unfortunately, however you react to his victory, he attacks you. Defeat Agon and open the chest that lies nearby and obtain its contents. The chest contains a blank runestone. You will need this for the final part of the test, which is to create a Fire Arrow rune.
2-6. Return to the monastery.
Upon returning, go to the library and talk to master Hyglas. Hyglas will agree to teach you the formula to create the Fire Arrow rune, if you gather all the ingredients for it.
2-7. Create the Fire Arrow rune.
Go to Gorax and buy one Sulfur and one Fire Arrow spell scroll. After you have these on hand, talk to Hyglas who will teach you the formula. After learning the formula go to the Rune table, and create a Fire Arrow rune. You cannot use it yet.
2-8. Talk to Pyrokar again.
After completing the tests, go to each of the High Fire Magicians and talk to them. Once you have talked to all the three High Fire Magicians, talk to Pyrokar again, who will swear you to an oath and give you the Fire Magician's robe.
2-9. Congratulations, you are now a Fire Magician!
You can now use the previously created Fire Arrow rune, and any subsequent runes that you may create or obtain.
Tips
The High Fire Magician Talamon, has no part in the Test of Fire.
Beware of wolves and monsters while taking your sheep to the monastery. They will attack the sheep and kill it.
It is advised to bring a powerful weapon (Eg: Master Sword) before attempting this test.
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Demand access to the library.\\nAfter completing the tasks set out by fire magicians, you must talk to Parlan. He will assess your progress and award you with the key to the library.\\n1-4. Read all the books in the library.\\nSpecifically, you must read the farthest unoccupied book to the right. This book contains information on the Test of Fire, and upon reading it, a new diary entry is created for you.\\n1-5. Demand the Test of Fire.\\nAfter reading about the Test of Fire, you must talk to Parlan, who will suggest that you talk to Pyrokar, the highest fire magician to be given the test.\\n1-6. Talk to Pyrokar.\\nAfter a short conversation with Pyrokar, he will inform you that each of the three High Fire Magicians will give you their part of the test, which you must pass in order to become a fire magician. Talk to each of the fire magicians to receive their test. The tests will not tell you exactly what to do, but will give you hints or riddles instead.\\n2. Passing the Test of Fire\\n2-1. Obtain the Sacred Hammer.\\nIn order to pass Serpentes' test, you must defeat a magic golem, which can only be done with the sacred hammer. The sacred hammer is in the lower part of the monastery and is guarded by Garwig, a novice who never sleeps. Purchase a sleep spell from Gorax, and use it on Garwig. While Garwig is under the spell, grab the sacred hammer and head outside.\\n2-2. Head out of the monastery, towards Orlan's tavern.\\nFrom Orlan's tavern, you have to take the path between the one that leads to the monastery and the one that leads to Onar's farm. If you are on the correct path, you will see a few of your fellow novices and a camp made by Dragomir.\\n2-3. Defeat the Golem.\\nKeep following the path till you come across a small winding hill with goblins on it. Defeat the goblins and continue on forwards. After a short distance, you will see a barren patch of land overshadowed by trees. The magic golem resides here. Equip the sacred hammer before approaching the golem. A single hit with the hammer will destroy the golem. Beware,\\n2-4. Keep following the path.\\nFollow the path till you find a big lake surrounded by hillocks. Upon finding the lake, turn right at the fork in the path. The path leads you to a small rock cove covered in thick shrubbery. The shrubbery hides a cave. Enter the cave and take the rightmost path.\\n2-5. Defeat Agon.\\nIf you take the correct path, you should see two statues and rays of blue light emanating from the ground. Agon, a fellow novice reaches the treasure before you can. Unfortunately, however you react to his victory, he attacks you. Defeat Agon and open the chest that lies nearby and obtain its contents. The chest contains a blank runestone. You will need this for the final part of the test, which is to create a Fire Arrow rune.\\n2-6. Return to the monastery.\\nUpon returning, go to the library and talk to master Hyglas. 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How to Be a Foot Model
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1. Getting Foot Modeling Jobs
1-1. Practice using your feet to articulate emotion.
Many of the most sought after foot models have more than just beautiful feet. They know how to use their feet to evoke emotion during a photo or video shoot to help sell a product.
Your feet may have to look like they’ve just been tickled, or your curled toes might need to convey excitement.
Practice striking poses with your feet in the mirror and quickly changing between different foot positions. On the set of a photo shoot, you want to be able to immediately follow the instructions you’re given about how your feet should look.
1-2. Create a portfolio of your feet.
This will help you to find modeling jobs and have pictures on hand when you need them. Have a professional photographer take pictures of your your feet. You can keep this portfolio organized online in a website or even on instagram. Include an “About Me” page or a list of your work history in modeling.
Make sure to have pictures from different angles and in various styles of lighting.
Don't be afraid to show your feet off, wear more foot revealing shoes and even post a closeup picture of your feet on your instagram.
You can also include short videos in your portfolio to show potential brands how your feet move. This is especially important if you want to do commercials or other types of video advertisements.
1-3. Sign with modeling agencies in your area.
Modeling agencies work with models, and book their jobs. In turn, the agent gets a commission percentage from the model.
You can sign with multiple modeling agencies to book more jobs, when you are first beginning.
Sometimes, there are specific agencies for body part models, like foot models.
When you are just beginning to build your career, don’t sign an exclusive contract with any agency.
Always have a lawyer read any contracts that you do sign before you sign them.
1-4. Consider moving to a city with a large advertisement market.
If you truly want to pursue foot modeling as a fulltime career, you want to live somewhere that there is a demand for this niche type of modeling. Most of these places are larger U.S. cities.
New York City and Los Angeles are the largest markets in the United States.
For example, Parts Models, located in New York, is one of the largest body parts modeling agencies in the country.
1-5. Accept other types of modeling jobs.
When you’re beginning your modeling career, you may want to diversify the types of modeling positions you seek out to get consistent work. Foot modeling is a niche type of work, and it may be hard at first to find steady work in just this area.
Look into modeling clothes or becoming a clothing fit model for a brand.
If you do want to model in more than one area, make sure your portfolio includes a variety of types of photos of you.
2. Determining if You Have the Feet of a Foot Model
2-1. Examine your foot shape.
Before you put in the effort to become a foot model, you want to make sure that you have the natural foot structure for the job. Most foot models have similarly proportioned feet.
You need to have slender, but not overly narrow, feet with thin toes that are proportionate to each other.
Most foot models have high arches, which gives their feet a nice curve when photographed.
2-2. Think about your other assets.
To find consistent work, foot models have to take care of more than just their beautiful feet. Besides looking at your foot structures, you want to make sure you have the other features of a typical foot model.
To be a foot model, you need clear skin with no varicose veins, scars, or discoloration.
In addition to lovely feet, you need to have toned legs and slender ankles. Many shoe designers that hire foot models are concerned not only with how the feet look in the shoes but also with how the shoes make the legs look.
2-3. Determine what type of foot model you want to be.
In all sectors of modeling, you can be either a fashion model or a fit model. A fit model works directly with designers to make sure that shoes fit to size and look good. Fashion models work on advertisements and photo spreads with companies and designers.
Foot models can help to advertise things like shoes, ankle bracelets or toe rings, foot care products, nail polishes, or socks.
Often, the feet of a foot model are photoshopped into existing adds on other models bodies.
3. Caring for Your Feet
3-1. Exfoliate your feet.
In order to maintain silky smooth feet, you’ll need to regularly slough off any dead skin or callous. This should be a regular part of your skincare routine.
Use a sugar scrub to exfoliate all over your feet. You can buy a scrub or make your own with sugar and a variety of household ingredients like oil or honey.
Once you have exfoliated all over your feet, use a pumice stone to gently exfoliate any problem areas further.
You should exfoliate approximately once a week.
3-2. Moisturize your feet.
Once you’ve exfoliated any dead skin on your feet, you want to moisturize to keep your skin supple and smooth. Moisturizing regularly will help you maintain photo-ready feet.
Your feet can handle a heavy moisturizing cream daily.
If you have extra dry feet, you can apply a moisturizing cream at night, and then sleep in socks for more of a moisture treatment.
3-3. Exercise your feet.
Not only do foot models need to have beautiful feet, they also need to have articulate and strong feet, like dancers. Certain exercises can strengthen your feet.
Rub your feet or have them massaged regularly to keep their circulation good.
Flex, point, and bend your feet. You can use something like a stretchy Thera-Band to help you work out your feet.
3-4. Wear comfortable and protective shoes.
As a foot model, your feet are your source of income. In your every day life, you want to do everything you can to keep them free of strain or marks.
When you can, wear comfortable flats.
If you do want to wear a dressier shoe, it’s best to wear something with a wedge or platform. You want your weight to be evenly distributed. Open-toed shoes that don’t pinch are best.
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Include an “About Me” page or a list of your work history in modeling.\\nMake sure to have pictures from different angles and in various styles of lighting.\\nDon't be afraid to show your feet off, wear more foot revealing shoes and even post a closeup picture of your feet on your instagram.\\nYou can also include short videos in your portfolio to show potential brands how your feet move. This is especially important if you want to do commercials or other types of video advertisements.\\n1-3. Sign with modeling agencies in your area.\\nModeling agencies work with models, and book their jobs. In turn, the agent gets a commission percentage from the model.\\nYou can sign with multiple modeling agencies to book more jobs, when you are first beginning.\\nSometimes, there are specific agencies for body part models, like foot models.\\nWhen you are just beginning to build your career, don’t sign an exclusive contract with any agency.\\nAlways have a lawyer read any contracts that you do sign before you sign them.\\n1-4. Consider moving to a city with a large advertisement market.\\nIf you truly want to pursue foot modeling as a fulltime career, you want to live somewhere that there is a demand for this niche type of modeling. Most of these places are larger U.S. cities.\\nNew York City and Los Angeles are the largest markets in the United States.\\nFor example, Parts Models, located in New York, is one of the largest body parts modeling agencies in the country.\\n1-5. Accept other types of modeling jobs.\\nWhen you’re beginning your modeling career, you may want to diversify the types of modeling positions you seek out to get consistent work. Foot modeling is a niche type of work, and it may be hard at first to find steady work in just this area.\\nLook into modeling clothes or becoming a clothing fit model for a brand.\\nIf you do want to model in more than one area, make sure your portfolio includes a variety of types of photos of you.\\n2. Determining if You Have the Feet of a Foot Model\\n2-1. Examine your foot shape.\\nBefore you put in the effort to become a foot model, you want to make sure that you have the natural foot structure for the job. Most foot models have similarly proportioned feet.\\nYou need to have slender, but not overly narrow, feet with thin toes that are proportionate to each other.\\nMost foot models have high arches, which gives their feet a nice curve when photographed.\\n2-2. Think about your other assets.\\nTo find consistent work, foot models have to take care of more than just their beautiful feet. Besides looking at your foot structures, you want to make sure you have the other features of a typical foot model.\\nTo be a foot model, you need clear skin with no varicose veins, scars, or discoloration.\\nIn addition to lovely feet, you need to have toned legs and slender ankles. Many shoe designers that hire foot models are concerned not only with how the feet look in the shoes but also with how the shoes make the legs look.\\n2-3. Determine what type of foot model you want to be.\\nIn all sectors of modeling, you can be either a fashion model or a fit model. A fit model works directly with designers to make sure that shoes fit to size and look good. Fashion models work on advertisements and photo spreads with companies and designers.\\nFoot models can help to advertise things like shoes, ankle bracelets or toe rings, foot care products, nail polishes, or socks.\\nOften, the feet of a foot model are photoshopped into existing adds on other models bodies.\\n3. Caring for Your Feet\\n3-1. Exfoliate your feet.\\nIn order to maintain silky smooth feet, you’ll need to regularly slough off any dead skin or callous. This should be a regular part of your skincare routine.\\nUse a sugar scrub to exfoliate all over your feet. You can buy a scrub or make your own with sugar and a variety of household ingredients like oil or honey.\\nOnce you have exfoliated all over your feet, use a pumice stone to gently exfoliate any problem areas further.\\nYou should exfoliate approximately once a week.\\n3-2. Moisturize your feet.\\nOnce you’ve exfoliated any dead skin on your feet, you want to moisturize to keep your skin supple and smooth. Moisturizing regularly will help you maintain photo-ready feet.\\nYour feet can handle a heavy moisturizing cream daily.\\nIf you have extra dry feet, you can apply a moisturizing cream at night, and then sleep in socks for more of a moisture treatment.\\n3-3. Exercise your feet.\\nNot only do foot models need to have beautiful feet, they also need to have articulate and strong feet, like dancers. Certain exercises can strengthen your feet.\\nRub your feet or have them massaged regularly to keep their circulation good.\\nFlex, point, and bend your feet. You can use something like a stretchy Thera-Band to help you work out your feet.\\n3-4. Wear comfortable and protective shoes.\\nAs a foot model, your feet are your source of income. In your every day life, you want to do everything you can to keep them free of strain or marks.\\nWhen you can, wear comfortable flats.\\nIf you do want to wear a dressier shoe, it’s best to wear something with a wedge or platform. You want your weight to be evenly distributed. Open-toed shoes that don’t pinch are best.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Foot modeling, a type of parts modeling, an important part of fashion modeling. Many large designer shoe companies require foot models for their advertisements. If you have lovely feet, you might be able to make extra money or even an entire career as a foot model.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Getting Foot Modeling Jobs\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Practice using your feet to articulate emotion.\", \"描述\": \"Many of the most sought after foot models have more than just beautiful feet. They know how to use their feet to evoke emotion during a photo or video shoot to help sell a product.\\nYour feet may have to look like they’ve just been tickled, or your curled toes might need to convey excitement.\\nPractice striking poses with your feet in the mirror and quickly changing between different foot positions. On the set of a photo shoot, you want to be able to immediately follow the instructions you’re given about how your feet should look.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Create a portfolio of your feet.\", \"描述\": \"This will help you to find modeling jobs and have pictures on hand when you need them. Have a professional photographer take pictures of your your feet. You can keep this portfolio organized online in a website or even on instagram. Include an “About Me” page or a list of your work history in modeling.\\nMake sure to have pictures from different angles and in various styles of lighting.\\nDon't be afraid to show your feet off, wear more foot revealing shoes and even post a closeup picture of your feet on your instagram.\\nYou can also include short videos in your portfolio to show potential brands how your feet move. This is especially important if you want to do commercials or other types of video advertisements.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Sign with modeling agencies in your area.\", \"描述\": \"Modeling agencies work with models, and book their jobs. In turn, the agent gets a commission percentage from the model.\\nYou can sign with multiple modeling agencies to book more jobs, when you are first beginning.\\nSometimes, there are specific agencies for body part models, like foot models.\\nWhen you are just beginning to build your career, don’t sign an exclusive contract with any agency.\\nAlways have a lawyer read any contracts that you do sign before you sign them.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Consider moving to a city with a large advertisement market.\", \"描述\": \"If you truly want to pursue foot modeling as a fulltime career, you want to live somewhere that there is a demand for this niche type of modeling. Most of these places are larger U.S. cities.\\nNew York City and Los Angeles are the largest markets in the United States.\\nFor example, Parts Models, located in New York, is one of the largest body parts modeling agencies in the country.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Accept other types of modeling jobs.\", \"描述\": \"When you’re beginning your modeling career, you may want to diversify the types of modeling positions you seek out to get consistent work. Foot modeling is a niche type of work, and it may be hard at first to find steady work in just this area.\\nLook into modeling clothes or becoming a clothing fit model for a brand.\\nIf you do want to model in more than one area, make sure your portfolio includes a variety of types of photos of you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Determining if You Have the Feet of a Foot Model\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Examine your foot shape.\", \"描述\": \"Before you put in the effort to become a foot model, you want to make sure that you have the natural foot structure for the job. Most foot models have similarly proportioned feet.\\nYou need to have slender, but not overly narrow, feet with thin toes that are proportionate to each other.\\nMost foot models have high arches, which gives their feet a nice curve when photographed.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Think about your other assets.\", \"描述\": \"To find consistent work, foot models have to take care of more than just their beautiful feet. Besides looking at your foot structures, you want to make sure you have the other features of a typical foot model.\\nTo be a foot model, you need clear skin with no varicose veins, scars, or discoloration.\\nIn addition to lovely feet, you need to have toned legs and slender ankles. Many shoe designers that hire foot models are concerned not only with how the feet look in the shoes but also with how the shoes make the legs look.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Determine what type of foot model you want to be.\", \"描述\": \"In all sectors of modeling, you can be either a fashion model or a fit model. A fit model works directly with designers to make sure that shoes fit to size and look good. Fashion models work on advertisements and photo spreads with companies and designers.\\nFoot models can help to advertise things like shoes, ankle bracelets or toe rings, foot care products, nail polishes, or socks.\\nOften, the feet of a foot model are photoshopped into existing adds on other models bodies.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Caring for Your Feet\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Exfoliate your feet.\", \"描述\": \"In order to maintain silky smooth feet, you’ll need to regularly slough off any dead skin or callous. This should be a regular part of your skincare routine.\\nUse a sugar scrub to exfoliate all over your feet. You can buy a scrub or make your own with sugar and a variety of household ingredients like oil or honey.\\nOnce you have exfoliated all over your feet, use a pumice stone to gently exfoliate any problem areas further.\\nYou should exfoliate approximately once a week.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Moisturize your feet.\", \"描述\": \"Once you’ve exfoliated any dead skin on your feet, you want to moisturize to keep your skin supple and smooth. Moisturizing regularly will help you maintain photo-ready feet.\\nYour feet can handle a heavy moisturizing cream daily.\\nIf you have extra dry feet, you can apply a moisturizing cream at night, and then sleep in socks for more of a moisture treatment.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Exercise your feet.\", \"描述\": \"Not only do foot models need to have beautiful feet, they also need to have articulate and strong feet, like dancers. Certain exercises can strengthen your feet.\\nRub your feet or have them massaged regularly to keep their circulation good.\\nFlex, point, and bend your feet. You can use something like a stretchy Thera-Band to help you work out your feet.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Wear comfortable and protective shoes.\", \"描述\": \"As a foot model, your feet are your source of income. In your every day life, you want to do everything you can to keep them free of strain or marks.\\nWhen you can, wear comfortable flats.\\nIf you do want to wear a dressier shoe, it’s best to wear something with a wedge or platform. You want your weight to be evenly distributed. Open-toed shoes that don’t pinch are best.\"}]}]}}",
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1. Participating at the Game
1-1. Go to his games.
Get a copy of his game schedule and put them all into your personal calendar. Plan to attend all of the games you can, but don't sweat it if you miss a few. Choose the games that are far away to skip. Conference games and playoff games are especially important.
Let him know ahead of time if you will be at his game or if you can’t make it. It will be terrible for him if he thinks you are coming and then you don’t.
Show up early and wish him luck, but don’t talk to him for too long. He’ll appreciate the support, but he also needs to get focused for the game.
1-2. Watch the game while you are there.
Showing up is important, but you must be present too. Even if you start to get bored, do your best to watch the whole game. If he looks up and sees you staring at your phone or talking the whole time, he won’t feel supported.
Sit with his family, if you know them, so you won’t get distracted and stop paying attention. Keeping your phone put away also helps keep you focused.
If you have a hard time staying interested, listen to the announcer while you watch. They describe the main points of action, which helps you know what is important.
Another way to stay interested is to pay attention to specific things, like how long the quarterback holds the ball, who makes the most tackles, or how long each play lasts.
1-3. Cheer him on at the games.
Start by wearing a jersey with his number on it. If you can’t get a spare jersey, paint his number on a shirt that’s the team colors. Make a big sign with his name on it and hold it up when he is on the field. Cheer his name and number at the games.
Ask the equipment managers if you can borrow an old jersey with his number on it. Most schools have old jerseys that players don’t wear anymore, so you should be able to get one.
It’s usually best to avoid yelling things like “Way to go, honey,” as this might embarrass him.
Yell things like, "Knock 'em down, 88!" or "Let's go, Hector!"
2. Supporting Him as a Player
2-1. Learn his practice schedule and accept it.
Plan things around his busy schedule, rather than being upset that he’s busy. He is going to be practicing for a few hours every day, so make sure you don't plan anything important during those times. Use his practice time to get things done for yourself.
If you feel that you're not getting enough time with your boyfriend, ask him if you can watch his practice sessions. You won’t be able to talk to him, but you’ll see him at least. It will also help you learn the game better.
Also keep in mind that high school and college football seasons are only about four months long, so you’ll see him more after that. Pro teams play for a few months longer.
2-2. Get to know the other players on his team.
Learn the names and positions of the starters, or the guys he plays with most, such as offense or defense. Take the chance to meet the other players if you are able to. These are his friends, so it’s important for you to know them.
Meet and get to know his coaches, too. They have a lot of influence on him and he may stay connected to them after he is done playing.
Players often hang out together before and after games, or at other times. Ask your player if you can join them. Listen to the players talk about the sport and show you support it.
Congratulate your player and their teammates on wins and encourage them for the future. Show the team that you support them playing.
2-3. Respect his passion for the sport even if you don’t understand it.
Football is important to your boyfriend, so you need to respect it. Make sure you don’t call it dumb or make him feel bad for playing the game. It’s important to him and he is important to you, so show him respect no matter what.
Athletes take pride in their sport, so they don't like to hear it disrespected. If you talk badly about football, it will make him mad and push him away.
3. Learning the Game
3-1. Grasp the difference between offense and defense.
Offense is the team who has the ball and is currently trying to score. Defense is the team that is trying to stop the offense from scoring. Ask your boyfriend which side of the ball he usually plays on so you can watch for him when he’s on the field.
Both teams have linemen who block or try to stop the ball from moving forward.
The offense has a quarterback who handles the ball the most and running backs and receivers who try to move the ball forward.
The defense has linebackers who watch where the ball is moving and try to stop the player with the ball.
3-2. Pay attention to the scoring system.
The overall goal of football is to get the most points. This is done by crossing the goal line or kicking a field goal. Take note that a touchdown is worth six points and is the main objective. A field goal is like a backup score and is worth three points.
After a touchdown is scored, the offense can kick the ball through the goalposts for one point. Their other option is to run or pass to cross the goal line again for two points.
The defense can only score if they push the offense all the way back to their own goal line. This is called a safety, and it earns the defense two points.
3-3. Master the concept of the four downs.
When you understand what it takes to score, learn about how the offense moves down the field. Notice that the offense gets four downs to score or cover at least ten yards. Remember the importance of gaining a first down and what it means when the offense is on their fourth down.
The offense must move the ball at least ten yards to gain a first down. The poles you see the referees holding mark off ten yards, so the pole ahead of the team is the one they have to pass.
When a team is on their fourth down, it means they have to either get past the first down marker or they will turn the ball over to the other team.
If the offense doesn’t think they can get past the marker on their fourth down, they kick the ball down the field so the other team starts farther from the goal line.
3-4. Read up on some of the most common penalties.
Start by noticing that a penalty is when one team breaks the rules. Watch for the referee to throw a yellow flag. Check out a list of the most common penalties and what they mean so you’ll know when the referee calls them.
If the offense commits a penalty, they have to move their starting line back. If the defense commits a penalty, the offense gets to move the starting line forward.
If you want to get really into the game, there are dozens of penalties to learn about. To keep it simple, just remember what a penalty is and that one team gains or loses yards.
4. Dealing with Drawbacks
4-1. Be flexible when you have conflicting schedules.
You won’t always have the same schedule as your football player, so you have to work on being okay with this. Call or text on days when you can’t see each other. Always communicate and try not to fight too much about schedule conflicts.
Try to decide on one or two specific times during the week when you are both free that you can spend quality time together. Protect those times, and don’t let anything else get in the way.
If you have something that takes up a lot of your time, look for gaps in your schedules when you are both free. If you don’t have much going on, work around your player’s schedule as much as you can.
4-2. Make the most of the time you spend together.
Let your player know that alone time with them is important. Tell them you are glad they play football, but you also want time with them that’s not about football. Do things together that you both enjoy. Talk about the sport some, but have some times that you don’t talk about it.
Don’t spend the time telling them how you miss them and wish they were less busy with the sport. Be happy that you have time to spend together.
4-3. Find positive ways to spend your time when you aren’t together.
Sometimes you won’t see each other often. Take time to do something that builds you up emotionally that you don’t always have time for. Fill your time with good things rather than simply being sad that you aren’t together.
Times that you can’t spend with your player are especially great for doing something you wouldn’t do with them. If they aren’t into music, practice your guitar. If they’re always too tired to hike, go to a state park.
This is all about finding fulfillment for yourself outside of your relationship. It’s great that you have them, and you should be happy for it, but it’s important to be happy by yourself, as well.
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If he looks up and sees you staring at your phone or talking the whole time, he won’t feel supported.\\nSit with his family, if you know them, so you won’t get distracted and stop paying attention. Keeping your phone put away also helps keep you focused.\\nIf you have a hard time staying interested, listen to the announcer while you watch. They describe the main points of action, which helps you know what is important.\\nAnother way to stay interested is to pay attention to specific things, like how long the quarterback holds the ball, who makes the most tackles, or how long each play lasts.\\n1-3. Cheer him on at the games.\\nStart by wearing a jersey with his number on it. If you can’t get a spare jersey, paint his number on a shirt that’s the team colors. Make a big sign with his name on it and hold it up when he is on the field. Cheer his name and number at the games.\\nAsk the equipment managers if you can borrow an old jersey with his number on it. Most schools have old jerseys that players don’t wear anymore, so you should be able to get one.\\nIt’s usually best to avoid yelling things like “Way to go, honey,” as this might embarrass him.\\nYell things like, \\\"Knock 'em down, 88!\\\" or \\\"Let's go, Hector!\\\"\\n2. Supporting Him as a Player\\n2-1. Learn his practice schedule and accept it.\\nPlan things around his busy schedule, rather than being upset that he’s busy. He is going to be practicing for a few hours every day, so make sure you don't plan anything important during those times. Use his practice time to get things done for yourself.\\nIf you feel that you're not getting enough time with your boyfriend, ask him if you can watch his practice sessions. You won’t be able to talk to him, but you’ll see him at least. It will also help you learn the game better.\\nAlso keep in mind that high school and college football seasons are only about four months long, so you’ll see him more after that. 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This is done by crossing the goal line or kicking a field goal. Take note that a touchdown is worth six points and is the main objective. A field goal is like a backup score and is worth three points.\\nAfter a touchdown is scored, the offense can kick the ball through the goalposts for one point. Their other option is to run or pass to cross the goal line again for two points.\\nThe defense can only score if they push the offense all the way back to their own goal line. This is called a safety, and it earns the defense two points.\\n3-3. Master the concept of the four downs.\\nWhen you understand what it takes to score, learn about how the offense moves down the field. Notice that the offense gets four downs to score or cover at least ten yards. Remember the importance of gaining a first down and what it means when the offense is on their fourth down.\\nThe offense must move the ball at least ten yards to gain a first down. 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Ask your boyfriend which side of the ball he usually plays on so you can watch for him when he’s on the field.\\nBoth teams have linemen who block or try to stop the ball from moving forward.\\nThe offense has a quarterback who handles the ball the most and running backs and receivers who try to move the ball forward.\\nThe defense has linebackers who watch where the ball is moving and try to stop the player with the ball.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pay attention to the scoring system.\", \"描述\": \"The overall goal of football is to get the most points. This is done by crossing the goal line or kicking a field goal. Take note that a touchdown is worth six points and is the main objective. A field goal is like a backup score and is worth three points.\\nAfter a touchdown is scored, the offense can kick the ball through the goalposts for one point. 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The poles you see the referees holding mark off ten yards, so the pole ahead of the team is the one they have to pass.\\nWhen a team is on their fourth down, it means they have to either get past the first down marker or they will turn the ball over to the other team.\\nIf the offense doesn’t think they can get past the marker on their fourth down, they kick the ball down the field so the other team starts farther from the goal line.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Read up on some of the most common penalties.\", \"描述\": \"Start by noticing that a penalty is when one team breaks the rules. Watch for the referee to throw a yellow flag. Check out a list of the most common penalties and what they mean so you’ll know when the referee calls them.\\nIf the offense commits a penalty, they have to move their starting line back. 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Fill your time with good things rather than simply being sad that you aren’t together.\\nTimes that you can’t spend with your player are especially great for doing something you wouldn’t do with them. If they aren’t into music, practice your guitar. If they’re always too tired to hike, go to a state park.\\nThis is all about finding fulfillment for yourself outside of your relationship. It’s great that you have them, and you should be happy for it, but it’s important to be happy by yourself, as well.\"}]}]}}",
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How to Be a Free Spirited Person
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1. Getting in the Free Spirited Mindset
1-1. Decide if you want to be a free spirit.
Before beginning a more free-spirited life, ask yourself a few important questions, including:
Is it important for you to always be on a set schedule, or on time for events? Free-spirited individuals are likely to have more flexible schedules.
Do you like to plan ahead or be spontaneous? A major aspect of being free spirited is learning to “go with the flow”: accepting things as they come, rather than deciding everything ahead of time.
How organized are you? A free-spirited lifestyle will probably mean a less organized life and/or living space. In its place, however, comes the opportunity for excitement and spontaneity.
How practical and grounded are you? A free spirit can be just as successful as anyone else, but cultivates imagination, daydreaming, and idealism along the way.
1-2. Be prepared to be unique.
A free spirit is a non-conformist, who isn’t afraid to think for his or herself, and who follows his or her passions. This can be liberating, but it also takes courage.
Think of the books, ideas, people, etc. that you find fascinating or inspiring. You don’t have to think or do things exactly like these models, but think of them as ways for encouraging you to find your own path.
1-3. Get in touch with your creative side.
A free spirit isn’t afraid to be original and imaginative. This doesn’t mean that every free spirit has to be a great artist or inventor, just that he or she is able to be expressive, whether through clothing, decorating, speaking, cooking, or any other activity.
2. Being Spontaneous
2-1. Give yourself time to be spontaneous.
Strange as it may sound, you may need to give yourself time to be spontaneous. This is especially true if you have a busy life or are just learning how to be a free-spirited person.
If you are having difficulty being spontaneous at first, schedule a few minutes per day, or per week, in which you have nothing planned. Do whatever comes to mind, or nothing at all.
Stop to chat with strangers, friends, or coworkers, even if you feel busy. You will enjoy the company, and taking a detour in your day.
Be wary of time traps. Some activities, like endlessly surfing television channels you don’t really want to watch, or getting lost in a smartphone, can eat up lots of time that could be spent being spontaneous.
Don’t plan every day. Sometimes we want to do this so that we aren’t bored. But if you leave time open, you can discover new things. Try leaving an unplanned weekend, for starters, and use the time to get out of the house and do something you’ve never done before.
2-2. Open your mind to spontaneity.
A spontaneous and free spirit will look at the world with a child’s eyes, thinking about how much one doesn’t know, exploring whatever seems interesting, and always asking “why?” and “how?” Give yourself the chance to open up and try new things before making judgments about them.
2-3. Take advantage of opportunities to be spontaneous.
There are many ways to learn and experience new things. A free spirit will seek out these opportunities:
Travel to a place you’ve never been before.
Try a new type of cuisine.
Get up and dance, right now, whether or not there’s any music.
Do a routine activity in a different way. Take a different way home for instance, or have your morning coffee on a walk rather than sitting at your breakfast table or in your car.
Offer free hugs.
Strike up a conversation with a stranger when you’re standing in line at a store—you never know what you might learn, or who you might meet.
Take up a new hobby or try to learn a new skill, and don’t be afraid of failing, or of what others will think.
3. Learning to Let Things Go
3-1. Let it go.
A free spirit is not tied to many things beyond his or her ideals, and people he or she cares about. Part of being a free spirited person is learning to let some things go in life before they hold you back or weigh you down.
As a free spirit, you can certainly still worry about and fight for things that matter. If something seems to be holding you back rather than helping you achieve your dreams, however, it might be time to let it go.
3-2. Consider downsizing your home or moving.
A home that is larger or more complex than you need, filled with more material things than you need, costs too much, or is in a location you don’t want to be in can keep you from being a free spirit. You could move into a different or smaller home that is more manageable for your free-spirited lifestyle, such as a tiny house.
3-3. Be less materialistic.
No one can get through life without some material things. However, too many things can weigh you down if you are trying to be a free spirit. Try these techniques:
Buying fewer things will decrease clutter and simplify your life. This will also free up finances for things that might matter more to you, such as traveling or spending time with friends.
Buy less, but of better things. Having quality things but fewer things overall can help you be less materialistic. Higher-quality clothes, for instance, will last longer than lower-quality ones, and you will need to have fewer of them.
Keep in mind that reducing is good for the environment. Consuming less means less production, less waste, less pollutants, etc.
3-4. Decide what to get rid of.
Decluttering your life is one of the first steps you can take toward becoming a more free spirited person. When choosing how to simplify things, consider the following:
Think about how often you use particular items. Many experts suggest that if you are trying to declutter, if you haven’t used an item in six months, you should consider getting rid of it.
Irreplaceable items of great sentimental value might be an exception. However, remember that memories are more important than things, and you might not need to keep everything. Photographs, for instance, can be scanned for safekeeping without taking up space, and then discarded.
Consider donating items you no longer need to a thrift store, community center, religious organization, or other worthwhile cause. That way, others in need can benefit from the items you can live without.
4. Learning to Be Positive
4-1. Try some breathing exercises.
Getting plenty of oxygen contributes to physical energy and mental alertness. This can give you an overall boost of positivity. Try one of these breathing exercises periodically:
Sit up straight. Put one hand on your belly and the other on your chest. Inhale deeply through your nose. You should feel the hand on your belly raise, but the hand on your chest should not move. Breathe out slowly, with your mouth barely open. Use your hand on your belly to push air out, if you want. Repeat this exercise ten times.
Quickly inhale and exhale through your nose (about three breaths a second), keeping your mouth closed. Then breathe normally. Repeat this process for fifteen seconds or more.
4-2. Practice mindfulness.
Mindfulness is a practice that helps people become more aware of their thoughts and feelings, and of how they relate to the world around them in the present moment. It is like a particular type of meditation that will leave you feeling more self-aware and positive. Since living in the present is key to being a free spirit, this technique can be very helpful.
Sit in a comfortable position, whether in a chair, cross-legged, or kneeling.
Begin to pay attention to your breathing. Your mind will eventually wander. When you catch your mind wandering, bring your attention back to your own breathing.
Don’t stop to dwell on or judge your thoughts.
Continue this process for a short time, such as five minutes if you are trying it for the first time. Repeat this practice frequently, at least once a day. As you begin to practice mindfulness mediation regularly, you can gradually increase the length of the sessions, if you desire.
Many people engage in mindfulness through prayer or meditation as part of a spiritual practice. A free spirit can absolutely willfully participate in these practices.
4-3. Try yoga.
Often characterized as mainly a physical exercise, yoga is very much part of a spiritual practice that can boost your mind as well. Practicing yoga regularly can contribute to a positive outlook. You can begin learning yoga with just some simple exercises.
4-4. Let go of mental hang-ups.
Everyone has things in life that can weigh them down, from having to deal with ignorant people to worrying about physical flaws. In developing a positive outlook on life, a free-spirited person will also learn to overcome as many of these hang-ups as possible.
Remember that flaws, including physical imperfections, are part of what makes each person unique. Be proud of what makes you unique, and don’t constantly worry about being the same as others.
Practice compassion. This includes being as forgiving to yourself as you would be to others. If you are able to accept others for who they are, extend the same compassion to yourself.
Practice tolerance. By being tolerant of other people, you will free your mind and emotions. Be ready to accept differences in other people, and always ask yourself how you would feel or think if you were in their place.
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Be prepared to be unique.\\nA free spirit is a non-conformist, who isn’t afraid to think for his or herself, and who follows his or her passions. This can be liberating, but it also takes courage.\\nThink of the books, ideas, people, etc. that you find fascinating or inspiring. You don’t have to think or do things exactly like these models, but think of them as ways for encouraging you to find your own path.\\n1-3. Get in touch with your creative side.\\nA free spirit isn’t afraid to be original and imaginative. This doesn’t mean that every free spirit has to be a great artist or inventor, just that he or she is able to be expressive, whether through clothing, decorating, speaking, cooking, or any other activity.\\n2. Being Spontaneous\\n2-1. Give yourself time to be spontaneous.\\nStrange as it may sound, you may need to give yourself time to be spontaneous. 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Open your mind to spontaneity.\\nA spontaneous and free spirit will look at the world with a child’s eyes, thinking about how much one doesn’t know, exploring whatever seems interesting, and always asking “why?” and “how?” Give yourself the chance to open up and try new things before making judgments about them.\\n2-3. Take advantage of opportunities to be spontaneous.\\nThere are many ways to learn and experience new things. A free spirit will seek out these opportunities:\\nTravel to a place you’ve never been before.\\nTry a new type of cuisine.\\nGet up and dance, right now, whether or not there’s any music.\\nDo a routine activity in a different way. Take a different way home for instance, or have your morning coffee on a walk rather than sitting at your breakfast table or in your car.\\nOffer free hugs.\\nStrike up a conversation with a stranger when you’re standing in line at a store—you never know what you might learn, or who you might meet.\\nTake up a new hobby or try to learn a new skill, and don’t be afraid of failing, or of what others will think.\\n3. Learning to Let Things Go\\n3-1. Let it go.\\nA free spirit is not tied to many things beyond his or her ideals, and people he or she cares about. Part of being a free spirited person is learning to let some things go in life before they hold you back or weigh you down.\\nAs a free spirit, you can certainly still worry about and fight for things that matter. If something seems to be holding you back rather than helping you achieve your dreams, however, it might be time to let it go.\\n3-2. Consider downsizing your home or moving.\\nA home that is larger or more complex than you need, filled with more material things than you need, costs too much, or is in a location you don’t want to be in can keep you from being a free spirit. You could move into a different or smaller home that is more manageable for your free-spirited lifestyle, such as a tiny house.\\n3-3. Be less materialistic.\\nNo one can get through life without some material things. However, too many things can weigh you down if you are trying to be a free spirit. Try these techniques:\\nBuying fewer things will decrease clutter and simplify your life. This will also free up finances for things that might matter more to you, such as traveling or spending time with friends.\\nBuy less, but of better things. Having quality things but fewer things overall can help you be less materialistic. 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Photographs, for instance, can be scanned for safekeeping without taking up space, and then discarded.\\nConsider donating items you no longer need to a thrift store, community center, religious organization, or other worthwhile cause. That way, others in need can benefit from the items you can live without.\\n4. Learning to Be Positive\\n4-1. Try some breathing exercises.\\nGetting plenty of oxygen contributes to physical energy and mental alertness. This can give you an overall boost of positivity. Try one of these breathing exercises periodically:\\nSit up straight. Put one hand on your belly and the other on your chest. Inhale deeply through your nose. You should feel the hand on your belly raise, but the hand on your chest should not move. Breathe out slowly, with your mouth barely open. Use your hand on your belly to push air out, if you want. Repeat this exercise ten times.\\nQuickly inhale and exhale through your nose (about three breaths a second), keeping your mouth closed. Then breathe normally. Repeat this process for fifteen seconds or more.\\n4-2. Practice mindfulness.\\nMindfulness is a practice that helps people become more aware of their thoughts and feelings, and of how they relate to the world around them in the present moment. It is like a particular type of meditation that will leave you feeling more self-aware and positive. Since living in the present is key to being a free spirit, this technique can be very helpful.\\nSit in a comfortable position, whether in a chair, cross-legged, or kneeling.\\nBegin to pay attention to your breathing. Your mind will eventually wander. When you catch your mind wandering, bring your attention back to your own breathing.\\nDon’t stop to dwell on or judge your thoughts.\\nContinue this process for a short time, such as five minutes if you are trying it for the first time. Repeat this practice frequently, at least once a day. 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1. Developing Fun Qualities
1-1. Be confident.
Have a healthy sense of self or good self-esteem. Before you even begin trying to become a fun person, you have to believe you can be a fun person. Nothing is wrong with believing in yourself, and it's looked up to but never looked down on. Most confident people have insecurities.
There are many ways to build confidence or self-esteem. Try making lists of your strengths and accomplishments. People often focus on their downfalls rather than successes. Remind yourself why people should think you’re fun.
Identify and discount any negative ideas you have about yourself. If you think of yourself negatively, others will follow suit.
It is important to recognize where your weaknesses are and try to fix them.
Don’t be overconfident. Few things are less appealing than egotistic individuals. Don’t be a snob either. People don’t like others who cannot be humble.
1-2. Be willing to open up.
If you guard yourself or put up walls, no one will get to know you. If they cannot learn more about you, they won’t think you’re fun. Learn to open up.
Be relatable. People want to hang out with others that have similar aspirations and fears. Tell people what yours are. Talk about your life goals, family, other friends, love of puppies, or whatever else makes you tick. Everyone shares basic goals or concerns. Chances are, if you try, you'll find common ground with just about anyone.
1-3. Be spontaneous.
Don't be afraid to take chances. Think about the fun people you know. They take chances on a regular basis, both socially as well as in their life.
This is hard at first and takes practice. But the more you do it the sooner it will just become a part of you. Don't think too much, regardless of what anyone tells you. Don't overanalyze things and don't spend a ton of time wondering what could go wrong, what someone else in your position would say, or how you should react to what they're going to say next.
1-4. Be open-minded.
Be open to new experiences and different opinions. Try new things. They can be spontaneous or planned out ahead of time. If a friend wants to see a band play a concert, but you don't like the band, try going anyway. Be open to experiences even if they don’t fit your specific tastes. You can always find ways to have fun.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. You can still have fun with people even if you don’t agree with their politics or religion. Find things you have in common and emphasize them in conversation. If you know your friend has controversial opinions on a subject, avoid it.
2. Being a Fun Person to Talk to
2-1. Show interest.
The most important thing to remember about having a conversation is that it goes both ways. Listen and show compassion to others. If people think they can talk to you about anything, they’ll invite you to hang out more often. Don’t monopolize the conversation. If you ignore people or always talk about yourself, they won’t invite you anymore.
Ask questions. This is a good way to keep a conversation going. It also shows the other person, that you are trying to understand their story or problem.
Offer advice if needed or wanted. Some people just want someone to listen to them. They need to get a load off of their chest. Be the person that listens. Give advice based on personal experience.
2-2. Be positive.
Focus on the positive aspects of your life, what you are looking forward to, or what you want to do. We all know that misery loves company, but if you are miserable all the time, others won’t want to hang out with you.
If you catch yourself saying something negative, try to counter your comment with two positive comments.
Try to cheer up the people around you. It will show them that you are compassionate and will generally leave them with the impression that you are a good, fun person.
Being positive is a goal as much as it’s an instruction here. Trying to be positive can have an effect on your own mood and quality of life. If you’ve had a terrible day, you can talk about it with people around you, but don’t dwell. Be positive that things will improve. Being positive helps to reduce stress, depression, and even blood pressure.
2-3. Have positive body language.
Your body needs to match your persona. You can pretend to be cool, say interesting things, and be confident, but if you body screams the opposite, people won’t want to hang out with you.
Open your stance up. Don’t close yourself off by crossing your arms or hunching over. You want your body to tell people that you welcome their approach.
Lean forward. Psychologists explain that leaning forward during a conversation indicates interest. People will think you are more fun to hang out with if you show interest in what they have to say. Lean slightly forward over a table when a friend is talking to you.
Make eye contact. This is another sure-fire way to tell someone you’re listening to them.
With all of these body language principles, don’t overdo them. Opening up your body to ridiculous lengths (like walking around with your arms and legs spread out as far as they can go), leaning too far forward, and refusing to break eye contact, can be incredibly off-putting.
2-4. Crack jokes.
Be confident in your humor. Embrace bad jokes and good ones. If a joke doesn’t get any laughs, just move on with the conversation. Don’t make it awkward.
Don’t be afraid to tell a corny joke or make a silly pun. Insert impressions when it fits the conversation. Do your best (or worst) impression of someone you all know, whether it’s a teacher or a coworker. Make comical references to popular movies or television shows.
Don’t be afraid of playing the fool, if you are comfortable with it. Dance like a complete fool, pretending like you think you’re the best dancer ever. Wear a ridiculous outfit, or a graphic tee with a silly message.
2-5. Smile and laugh.
Even if you don't feel like smiling, putting on a grin radiates approachability, positivity, and friendliness. But looking the part of a fun person is half the battle, and it's not even really much of a battle because once you get the hang of it, smiling just becomes a reflex, and an attractive one at that.
Of course, don't overdo it and be annoying. You don’t want to make people uncomfortable.
3. Having Fun Interests
3-1. Learn how to “hang out”.
Hanging out can mean different things to different people. Some people like to just sit around casually, watch TV, play games, or just talk. For others, hanging out can mean doing interesting activities outside the home. Figure out what your friends or prospective friends consider hanging out to be and then tailor your interests to that crowd.
3-2. Tap into popular culture.
At least, be aware of all areas of popular culture. Once you have a solid base, you’ll be able to keep up with and contribute to a variety of conversations.
Be wary of criticizing popular culture too much. Read the room. You don’t want to be the only one that consistently bashes popular culture topics. Have an opinion, but just make sure that you don’t offend or turn anyone off.
3-3. Develop a variety of interests.
If you have appealing interests or skills, then others will flock to you if they have similar interests. Figure out what interests you naturally, then accentuate those aspects of your personality. Try not to limit your options. What one person considers cool, another person will consider weird.
Don’t be afraid to learn to do something physical. Learn to juggle, do gymnastics, play a sport, or dance. You can invite people to do these things with you after you’ve developed the skill. They’ll admire you for it. And you’ll have something to talk about.
Learn something new that excites you. You’ve found wikiHow so this should be easy to do. Learn a language, how to make Italian food from scratch, what it takes to do improv comedy, how to write fiction, or how to identify birds based on their songs. It doesn’t matter as long as it excites you. People like learning new things and if you know a lot about something, you can share your excitement for the subject with them.
3-4. Explore a new part of your city or neighborhood.
Just like with skills or knowledge, some people like to get out and try new things. Search for new opportunities in a new part of your town you haven’t seen before and invite your friends to join you, seeing it all as a new adventure. There are a number of great online sources, like TripAdvisor or Eventbrite, that can educate you on your area or events happening near you.
Know about your area. Know about new restaurants or public events. Everybody has to eat, so if you know of a great restaurant, you can suggest it. Everybody likes listening to music. Find outdoor concerts in your area and suggest them too.
Don’t be afraid to think outside the box. Look for different events like slam poetry, roller derby, museum or gallery showings, cooking classes, or yoga in the park. Participate in eclectic events. It will show just how open-minded and spontaneous you are.
Tips
Treat people the way you want to be treated. Show interest in them and they’ll show interest in you.
Make sure you are having fun. Because if you are, then the people around you will too!
Be honest and fulfill your promises. Being trustworthy matters to people and if they know you're reliable, they'll relax a lot more around you.
Warnings
Don’t change yourself in hopes that others will like you. Continue being true to yourself.
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Be willing to open up.\\nIf you guard yourself or put up walls, no one will get to know you. If they cannot learn more about you, they won’t think you’re fun. Learn to open up.\\nBe relatable. People want to hang out with others that have similar aspirations and fears. Tell people what yours are. Talk about your life goals, family, other friends, love of puppies, or whatever else makes you tick. Everyone shares basic goals or concerns. Chances are, if you try, you'll find common ground with just about anyone.\\n1-3. Be spontaneous.\\nDon't be afraid to take chances. Think about the fun people you know. They take chances on a regular basis, both socially as well as in their life.\\nThis is hard at first and takes practice. But the more you do it the sooner it will just become a part of you. Don't think too much, regardless of what anyone tells you. Don't overanalyze things and don't spend a ton of time wondering what could go wrong, what someone else in your position would say, or how you should react to what they're going to say next.\\n1-4. Be open-minded.\\nBe open to new experiences and different opinions. Try new things. They can be spontaneous or planned out ahead of time. If a friend wants to see a band play a concert, but you don't like the band, try going anyway. Be open to experiences even if they don’t fit your specific tastes. You can always find ways to have fun.\\nEveryone is entitled to their opinion. You can still have fun with people even if you don’t agree with their politics or religion. Find things you have in common and emphasize them in conversation. If you know your friend has controversial opinions on a subject, avoid it.\\n2. Being a Fun Person to Talk to\\n2-1. Show interest.\\nThe most important thing to remember about having a conversation is that it goes both ways. Listen and show compassion to others. If people think they can talk to you about anything, they’ll invite you to hang out more often. Don’t monopolize the conversation. If you ignore people or always talk about yourself, they won’t invite you anymore.\\nAsk questions. This is a good way to keep a conversation going. It also shows the other person, that you are trying to understand their story or problem.\\nOffer advice if needed or wanted. Some people just want someone to listen to them. They need to get a load off of their chest. Be the person that listens. Give advice based on personal experience.\\n2-2. Be positive.\\nFocus on the positive aspects of your life, what you are looking forward to, or what you want to do. We all know that misery loves company, but if you are miserable all the time, others won’t want to hang out with you.\\nIf you catch yourself saying something negative, try to counter your comment with two positive comments.\\nTry to cheer up the people around you. It will show them that you are compassionate and will generally leave them with the impression that you are a good, fun person.\\nBeing positive is a goal as much as it’s an instruction here. Trying to be positive can have an effect on your own mood and quality of life. If you’ve had a terrible day, you can talk about it with people around you, but don’t dwell. Be positive that things will improve. Being positive helps to reduce stress, depression, and even blood pressure.\\n2-3. Have positive body language.\\nYour body needs to match your persona. You can pretend to be cool, say interesting things, and be confident, but if you body screams the opposite, people won’t want to hang out with you.\\nOpen your stance up. Don’t close yourself off by crossing your arms or hunching over. You want your body to tell people that you welcome their approach.\\nLean forward. Psychologists explain that leaning forward during a conversation indicates interest. People will think you are more fun to hang out with if you show interest in what they have to say. Lean slightly forward over a table when a friend is talking to you.\\nMake eye contact. This is another sure-fire way to tell someone you’re listening to them.\\nWith all of these body language principles, don’t overdo them. Opening up your body to ridiculous lengths (like walking around with your arms and legs spread out as far as they can go), leaning too far forward, and refusing to break eye contact, can be incredibly off-putting.\\n2-4. Crack jokes.\\nBe confident in your humor. Embrace bad jokes and good ones. If a joke doesn’t get any laughs, just move on with the conversation. Don’t make it awkward.\\nDon’t be afraid to tell a corny joke or make a silly pun. Insert impressions when it fits the conversation. Do your best (or worst) impression of someone you all know, whether it’s a teacher or a coworker. Make comical references to popular movies or television shows.\\nDon’t be afraid of playing the fool, if you are comfortable with it. Dance like a complete fool, pretending like you think you’re the best dancer ever. Wear a ridiculous outfit, or a graphic tee with a silly message.\\n2-5. Smile and laugh.\\nEven if you don't feel like smiling, putting on a grin radiates approachability, positivity, and friendliness. But looking the part of a fun person is half the battle, and it's not even really much of a battle because once you get the hang of it, smiling just becomes a reflex, and an attractive one at that.\\nOf course, don't overdo it and be annoying. You don’t want to make people uncomfortable.\\n3. Having Fun Interests\\n3-1. Learn how to “hang out”.\\nHanging out can mean different things to different people. Some people like to just sit around casually, watch TV, play games, or just talk. For others, hanging out can mean doing interesting activities outside the home. 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You can invite people to do these things with you after you’ve developed the skill. They’ll admire you for it. And you’ll have something to talk about.\\nLearn something new that excites you. You’ve found wikiHow so this should be easy to do. Learn a language, how to make Italian food from scratch, what it takes to do improv comedy, how to write fiction, or how to identify birds based on their songs. It doesn’t matter as long as it excites you. People like learning new things and if you know a lot about something, you can share your excitement for the subject with them.\\n3-4. Explore a new part of your city or neighborhood.\\nJust like with skills or knowledge, some people like to get out and try new things. Search for new opportunities in a new part of your town you haven’t seen before and invite your friends to join you, seeing it all as a new adventure. There are a number of great online sources, like TripAdvisor or Eventbrite, that can educate you on your area or events happening near you.\\nKnow about your area. Know about new restaurants or public events. Everybody has to eat, so if you know of a great restaurant, you can suggest it. Everybody likes listening to music. Find outdoor concerts in your area and suggest them too.\\nDon’t be afraid to think outside the box. Look for different events like slam poetry, roller derby, museum or gallery showings, cooking classes, or yoga in the park. Participate in eclectic events. It will show just how open-minded and spontaneous you are.\\nTips\\nTreat people the way you want to be treated. Show interest in them and they’ll show interest in you.\\nMake sure you are having fun. Because if you are, then the people around you will too!\\nBe honest and fulfill your promises. 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1. Joining the Furry Community
1-1. Make the choice to become part of the furry community.
In order to become a furry, you don’t have to pass an entry test or get permission from anyone else. The decision to become a furry is completely up to you! Whether you’ve been interested in furry-related things for a while or you’re totally new to the community, feel free to proclaim yourself a furry whenever and however you’d like.
If you want to create your own furry-related characters, meet other like minded people, and/or visit furry conventions, you’ll probably love being a part of the furry community! But it’s also totally okay to be a part of the community without calling yourself a furry.
If you don't have a strong interest in anthropomorphic animals but you still want to join the community, the people within it will likely welcome you with open arms.
People aren’t automatically furries if they happen to like anthropomorphic animals; they get to choose for themselves.
1-2. Participate in online furry groups and discussion boards.
Since the furry fandom is a global one, most furry activity happens on the internet. Try the mobile app Furry Amino or websites like SoFurry and Fur Affinity. Create an account and start commenting, posting, and connecting with other users. Or, hop into the furry community on Reddit – r/furry is a very active subreddit and it’s easy to get involved in discussions there. You can easily find other furries via Tumblr and deviantART, too.
Look for furry Discord servers, Skype groups, and Telegram groups for instant messaging.
Search through furry pages and tags on regular social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube. You’ll quickly find your community there!
1-3. Make and share furry fan art and other creative work.
Explore your furry fanship or fursona through any hobby or creative project you’d like. Try writing fanfiction, creating music, making video animations, vlogging, illustrating fan art, or performing in your furry persona. Then share your creations on sites like Tumblr, deviantART, FurAffinity, and YouTube.
There's a place for every interest in the furry fandom – artists, musicians, authors, dancers, comedians, actors, and many others celebrate their love of anthropomorphism through creative expression.
Don’t be afraid to share your work! Other furries will be very welcoming and supportive of however you combine your furry identity with your other interests.
Consider taking your creative work to in-person events, too. If you like music, you may be able to DJ at a furry convention.
1-4. Take on requests, trades, or commissions to share your creative work.
These are great ways to help other furries get to know you and your work. Open for requests if you want other furries to ask you for free artwork. Open for trades if you’re open to swapping 1 free artwork for another. If you want to sell your work, open for commissions. Set up an info page outlining your terms, prices, and policies so others know what to expect. Specify the type and style of work you’d like to create, then spread the word across the online furry community.
Other furries might send you an image or written description of their fursona for you to draw, or they might give you a premise for a story to write.
Once you develop your skills and reputation, you can potentially make a good income by selling your work within the furry community.
If you accept a commission, you’re obliged to complete it. By accepting payment and not finishing a project, you can get into legal trouble.
1-5. Attend a furry convention to meet other furries in person.
Connecting online can be great, but there’s nothing quite like meeting other furries in real life and seeing some of the media creators that you admire. If you can, attend Anthrocon, the largest furry convention that’s based in Pittsburgh, PA. Or look for a local furry convention online. While you’re there, check out the artwork, tails, accessories, badges, fursuits, and other furry merchandise. Don’t miss the fursuit parade! Even if you don't have a suit, you can still have a blast watching all the incredible fursuits march by.
Many furries opt to meet up at conventions since they’re safe, public spaces and you’ll be free to fully express yourself and your fursona. If you’re going to be at the same event as your online furry friends, set up a time to meet up during the event!
Special events differ from convention to convention but you might be able to catch a great concert, fursuit dance competition, or discussion panel featuring your favorite animator.
Watch videos of furry convention events online if you’re curious to see what they’re all about.
1-6. Get involved in a local furry group.
Many communities around the world have their own furry groups. Run a search for "Furries in [your area]" to find individuals or meetup groups nearby. Check out the Globe feature on the Furry Amino app to find furries based in your area. Once you find local furries, start up a chat and coordinate a way to get together. When you meet up, have fun! Try out some roleplaying games, act out your fursonas, create fan art together, and take photos in your fursuits, if you have them.
Remember to be careful when meeting up with people you met online. Always use common sense, and meet in a public place rather than a secluded, private space. Let a trusted friend know when and where you’re going, too, just in case.
1-7. Socialize with other furries to form new friendships.
There are quite a few subgroups within the furry community that cater to various interests, from gaming communities to literature clubs, so you should have no trouble finding other furries who share the same interests as you. Once you’re a furry, focus on meeting new people, both online and in person. Start commenting on other furries’ posts and reply to the furries who comment on yours. Eventually, start a chat and get to know them even better. Pretty soon, you’ll start forming long-lasting friendships.
Putting yourself out there might sound like a daunting task, especially if you’re shy or introverted. But remember that furries can often be some of the easiest and nicest people to talk to.
The more active you are in the community, the more friends you’ll make, and the more fun you’ll have.
1-8. Be welcoming and non-judgmental around other furries.
You’ll find a lot of creativity in the furry community, so rather than judging and critiquing what other people are doing, be accepting and supportive of what and who you encounter. Speak to other furries with kindness and respect to keep up the positive and inclusive furry environment.
The furry community is a place where all kinds of people can really fit in – especially those who don’t often feel like they fit in
1-9. Forget your negative misconceptions about furries.
There are a lot of myths and rumors about the furry community circulating through the media that you’ll need to debunk – for yourself and for others in your life. Most importantly, know that you don’t have to own or wear a fursuit in order to be a furry. You can participate no matter what you wear. Additionally, know that only a small percentage of furries focus on the erotic aspect of the fandom; you don’t have to do anything like this in order to participate in the community.
As with many other dress-oriented fandoms, like cosplayers and sports fans, most furries simply enjoy expressing themselves, performing in a costume, and connecting with other fans on a social level.
The majority of furries don’t actually believe they’re animals. Some might wish for animal traits or enjoy exploring them, but most furries are just expressing their fanship of anthropomorphic animals.
While it’s not what defines the furry fandom, be aware that you’ll probably encounter some erotic fan art and other content of a sexual nature. If you’re not comfortable with that, try updating your search settings on different sites and web browsers. Sticking with PG-rated furry content only is entirely acceptable!
2. Crafting a Fursona
2-1. Choose an animal species to base your fursona on.
Fursonas are characters or avatars that furries use when socializing with other members of the furry community. Many furries start with canines, felines, and dragons when choosing their fursona’s physical characteristics. But the possibilities are endless; you’re free to choose any species you desire, create a hybrid, or develop a completely made-up creature.
For example, you might start with the huge ears and cute face of a fennec fox and give its body bird-like legs and wings.
Do some research into animal photographs or illustrations to see how each animal’s anatomy works. Then adapt it so your fursona can stand up on 2 legs.
Feel free to create more than 1 fursona if you’d like.
2-2. Pick out colors and markings to make your fursona unique.
There are no rules when it comes to designing your fursona’s appearance. Feel free to use naturalistic colors and realistic markings, or go for bright hues and unusual patterns if you prefer. Try to have an unusual or uncommon pattern. Sometimes certain patterns are overused or taken easily, but some are too complicated. If you wish to buy a fursuit and make a very colorful fursona with many designs, it might be more expensive and the quality will go down. Consider incorporating spots, stripes, splotchy markings, facial details, scales, feathers, and other patterns and textures into your design.
Refer to animal photos as inspiration for markings and coloration patterns if you want a more realistic effect.
If you’re not sure where to start, check out other furries’ fursonas online. Just make sure you aren’t totally copying another person’s fursona.
2-3. Assign your fursona a personality and a name.
Have fun when creating your fursona’s personality. It doesn’t have to be anything like your own personality, but it can reflect your ideal personality or 1 specific side of you if you’d like. For instance, your fursona might represent your wild and outgoing side if you tend to be a shy person. Create a list of personality traits as well as likes and dislikes and other fun facts about your fursona’s identity. Give them a unique name, too.
The level of similarity between you and your fursona is entirely a matter of personal preference. Try using your fursona to show off your idealized self or explore an alter ego. Don’t be afraid to modify your fursona over time until it’s just right.
If you like writing, try writing out your fursona’s backstory or creating a narrative about them.
Be prepared to introduce your fursona’s personality to other furries.
2-4. Illustrate your fursona if you want to create your own artwork.
If you enjoy graphic design or drawing, transfer all of your ideas onto the page or the screen. Use pencils and coloring tools or a digital design program to sketch out the general shape and physical characteristics of your fursona. Then add in the colorings, markings, and other details. Give them an expressive face that shows off something about their personality.
For example, if your fursona is bright and peppy, give them a wide-eyed appearance.
Try to sketch out as many details as you can imagine even if you don’t plan to buy a full-body fursuit.
Feel free to add your fursona’s name and a list of traits and qualities in your illustration, too.
Look up "free [animal] base" or "free [animal] line art" on deviantART or FurAffinity for some templates to get you started if you’re basing your fursona on a widely-used animal species.
If you’ve used a free template, remember to credit the artist who created it when you share or post the image.
Even if you don’t like drawing and would prefer to commission artwork, try making a rough sketch so you can more easily convey your ideas to the artist.
2-5. Commission an artist to illustrate your fursona for you if you prefer.
Search through online furry communities to find artists who are willing to create artwork and illustrations for other furries. Send them a message or place an order on their site. Share as much information about your fursona as possible, and provide sketches or reference images whenever possible. Tell them what you love about their past other work so they know what style you’re looking for. Be prepared to pay the artist for their work, too.
Make sure you agree on all of the specifications of the project, including the deadline, revision process, file type, pose and background, usage considerations, and fee before they start creating the artwork.
Don’t ask for an illustration for free; artists deserve compensation for their time and energy.
2-6. Share your fursona with other furries and furry merch makers.
Whether you draw your own fursona or commission an illustration, set the image as your profile picture on furry websites, so other furries get a sense of what your fursona identity is like. Consider getting it printed on t-shirts, badges, and pins, too, or get it made into a plushie. If you want to get a fursuit made, make sure that your fursona has at least a 3-view reference sheet either drawn by you, colored on a base, or commissioned by a reference sheet artist.
A 3-view reference sheet should show a front, back, and side profile view of your fursona.
If you like creating artwork, have fun exploring different ways to use your fursona. You could share illustrations of your fursona hanging out with your friends’ fursonas or make a comic strip to show what your fursona gets up to.
3. Getting a Fursuit
3-1. Save up at least $1,000 US if you want to buy a fursuit.
Despite fursuiters being the minority, fursuits are a huge part of the fandom. They’re fun to wear and can be just as entertaining to onlookers and non-furries. Fursuits are a big investment and a luxury item, so you’ll need to save upwards of $1,000 US – or at least $2,000 if you’re in the market for a full-body suit. If you want to buy one, research how you’d get it made and then make a savings plan so you will have enough money to cover the costs.
Fursuits are completely optional. You don’t need one at all to be a furry, and the furry community won't look down on you if you don't have a fursuit.
It’s best to wait until both you and your fursona have stopped growing and changing. You wouldn’t want to grow out of such an expensive costume! In the meantime, save your pennies.
3-2. Choose between getting a partial, plantigrade, or digitigrade fursuit.
Choose a partial suit if you want just a head, hands, feet, and a tail. Wear these pieces with clothes to make it look like your fursona is the one wearing the outfit. Opt for a plantigrade fursuit if you want something that covers your whole body and shows off all of the markings and physical characteristics of your fursona. Consider a digitigrade fursuit if you want to take the full-body suit a step further. These suits have animallike feet and extra padding on the legs to make them appear more like an animal’s back legs.
If you overheat easily, try a partial suit rather than a full-coverage suit.
When done well, plantigrade and digitigrade suits can really make the character really come to life, but partial suits can be just as fun to wear and see.
Consider trying on another furry's fursuit, as long as it’s clean, before you invest in your own.
3-3. Commission a fursuit maker.
There are hundreds of fursuit makers to choose from, each with their own style. Search around on the Makers Database on Tumblr and read reviews on FursuitReview until you have a shortlist of makers you might like to work with. Make sure the maker is open for commissions, then follow their instructions on their website to commission them. The process differs, but you'll usually have to submit your fursona reference sheet and other details through a form on their website.
Fursuit makers may only be available to work on a handful of projects each year. Don’t be upset if a maker doesn’t accept your proposal. Find a few other makers in case your first choice isn’t possible.
You can have more than 1 maker create different parts of your fursuit, if you’d like.
The turnaround time for a fursuit can be a few months, so don't expect your fursuit to be shipped to you within a few days of ordering it.
Carefully review the makers’ rates and terms of service. Many fursuit makers don’t accept people under the age of 18, and most require a 30% down payment upfront.
3-4. Practice performing and acting in your fursuit.
To be a great fursuiter, you’ll need to put a lot of time and energy into making your fursonas come to life. Remember that you’ll be performing the whole time you’re in your fursuit. Watch videos and attend panels to learn the basics of how to act in a fursuit. Try your best to maintain a character that matches your fursuit. Does your fursuit have a grumpy expression? Stomping around and looking comically irritable could really help your act. Are your fursuit eyes huge and cute? Act like a puppy or kitten and use more cutesy movements.
Try not to just stand around in your fursuit. Make your performance exciting and engaging.
Kids are always excited to see a cute animal, so always be child-friendly and nice to the youngsters!
Make sure you have a handler who can stay by your side when you’re fursuiting. Ask them to help you watch out for rowdy kids, see that you don’t overheat, and communicate with other people as needed. They’ll be your eyes and ears, since your senses will be obscured while you’re in your fursuit.
Tips
Wash your suit as soon as possible after every single fursuiting session, and deep-clean your fursuit once in a while. Refer to online tutorials and check with your fursuit maker for more specific laundering instructions.
Call in advance to ask for permission if you want to wear your fursuit in a privately owned place.
Take your paws OFF while eating/drinking! It helps protect your suit (you won't get any spillages), and it saves money!
Warnings
Fursuits can get extremely hot, so wear yours with caution. Stay hydrated, take breaks with your head off every 15 to 30 minutes to cool down, communicate with your handler, and don’t overdo it.
Be aware of the mask laws in your area so you don’t get in trouble while fursuiting. Always take your fursuit head off if an authority figure, such as a police officer or a security guard, approaches you.
Be careful when interacting with the media. Some journalists are out to paint furries as sexual deviants or inhuman. Check out Uncle Kage's “Furries and the Media” panel for tips on dealing with the media.[22]
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But it’s also totally okay to be a part of the community without calling yourself a furry.\\nIf you don't have a strong interest in anthropomorphic animals but you still want to join the community, the people within it will likely welcome you with open arms.\\nPeople aren’t automatically furries if they happen to like anthropomorphic animals; they get to choose for themselves.\\n1-2. Participate in online furry groups and discussion boards.\\nSince the furry fandom is a global one, most furry activity happens on the internet. Try the mobile app Furry Amino or websites like SoFurry and Fur Affinity. Create an account and start commenting, posting, and connecting with other users. Or, hop into the furry community on Reddit – r/furry is a very active subreddit and it’s easy to get involved in discussions there. You can easily find other furries via Tumblr and deviantART, too.\\nLook for furry Discord servers, Skype groups, and Telegram groups for instant messaging.\\nSearch through furry pages and tags on regular social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube. You’ll quickly find your community there!\\n1-3. Make and share furry fan art and other creative work.\\nExplore your furry fanship or fursona through any hobby or creative project you’d like. Try writing fanfiction, creating music, making video animations, vlogging, illustrating fan art, or performing in your furry persona. Then share your creations on sites like Tumblr, deviantART, FurAffinity, and YouTube. \\nThere's a place for every interest in the furry fandom – artists, musicians, authors, dancers, comedians, actors, and many others celebrate their love of anthropomorphism through creative expression.\\nDon’t be afraid to share your work! Other furries will be very welcoming and supportive of however you combine your furry identity with your other interests.\\nConsider taking your creative work to in-person events, too. If you like music, you may be able to DJ at a furry convention.\\n1-4. Take on requests, trades, or commissions to share your creative work.\\nThese are great ways to help other furries get to know you and your work. Open for requests if you want other furries to ask you for free artwork. Open for trades if you’re open to swapping 1 free artwork for another. If you want to sell your work, open for commissions. Set up an info page outlining your terms, prices, and policies so others know what to expect. Specify the type and style of work you’d like to create, then spread the word across the online furry community.\\nOther furries might send you an image or written description of their fursona for you to draw, or they might give you a premise for a story to write.\\nOnce you develop your skills and reputation, you can potentially make a good income by selling your work within the furry community.\\nIf you accept a commission, you’re obliged to complete it. By accepting payment and not finishing a project, you can get into legal trouble.\\n1-5. Attend a furry convention to meet other furries in person.\\nConnecting online can be great, but there’s nothing quite like meeting other furries in real life and seeing some of the media creators that you admire. If you can, attend Anthrocon, the largest furry convention that’s based in Pittsburgh, PA. Or look for a local furry convention online. While you’re there, check out the artwork, tails, accessories, badges, fursuits, and other furry merchandise. Don’t miss the fursuit parade! Even if you don't have a suit, you can still have a blast watching all the incredible fursuits march by. \\nMany furries opt to meet up at conventions since they’re safe, public spaces and you’ll be free to fully express yourself and your fursona. If you’re going to be at the same event as your online furry friends, set up a time to meet up during the event!\\nSpecial events differ from convention to convention but you might be able to catch a great concert, fursuit dance competition, or discussion panel featuring your favorite animator.\\nWatch videos of furry convention events online if you’re curious to see what they’re all about.\\n1-6. Get involved in a local furry group.\\nMany communities around the world have their own furry groups. Run a search for \\\"Furries in [your area]\\\" to find individuals or meetup groups nearby. Check out the Globe feature on the Furry Amino app to find furries based in your area. Once you find local furries, start up a chat and coordinate a way to get together. When you meet up, have fun! Try out some roleplaying games, act out your fursonas, create fan art together, and take photos in your fursuits, if you have them.\\nRemember to be careful when meeting up with people you met online. Always use common sense, and meet in a public place rather than a secluded, private space. Let a trusted friend know when and where you’re going, too, just in case.\\n1-7. Socialize with other furries to form new friendships.\\nThere are quite a few subgroups within the furry community that cater to various interests, from gaming communities to literature clubs, so you should have no trouble finding other furries who share the same interests as you. Once you’re a furry, focus on meeting new people, both online and in person. Start commenting on other furries’ posts and reply to the furries who comment on yours. Eventually, start a chat and get to know them even better. Pretty soon, you’ll start forming long-lasting friendships.\\nPutting yourself out there might sound like a daunting task, especially if you’re shy or introverted. But remember that furries can often be some of the easiest and nicest people to talk to.\\nThe more active you are in the community, the more friends you’ll make, and the more fun you’ll have.\\n1-8. Be welcoming and non-judgmental around other furries.\\nYou’ll find a lot of creativity in the furry community, so rather than judging and critiquing what other people are doing, be accepting and supportive of what and who you encounter. Speak to other furries with kindness and respect to keep up the positive and inclusive furry environment.\\nThe furry community is a place where all kinds of people can really fit in – especially those who don’t often feel like they fit in\\n1-9. Forget your negative misconceptions about furries.\\nThere are a lot of myths and rumors about the furry community circulating through the media that you’ll need to debunk – for yourself and for others in your life. Most importantly, know that you don’t have to own or wear a fursuit in order to be a furry. You can participate no matter what you wear. Additionally, know that only a small percentage of furries focus on the erotic aspect of the fandom; you don’t have to do anything like this in order to participate in the community. \\nAs with many other dress-oriented fandoms, like cosplayers and sports fans, most furries simply enjoy expressing themselves, performing in a costume, and connecting with other fans on a social level.\\nThe majority of furries don’t actually believe they’re animals. Some might wish for animal traits or enjoy exploring them, but most furries are just expressing their fanship of anthropomorphic animals.\\nWhile it’s not what defines the furry fandom, be aware that you’ll probably encounter some erotic fan art and other content of a sexual nature. If you’re not comfortable with that, try updating your search settings on different sites and web browsers. Sticking with PG-rated furry content only is entirely acceptable!\\n2. Crafting a Fursona\\n2-1. Choose an animal species to base your fursona on.\\nFursonas are characters or avatars that furries use when socializing with other members of the furry community. Many furries start with canines, felines, and dragons when choosing their fursona’s physical characteristics. But the possibilities are endless; you’re free to choose any species you desire, create a hybrid, or develop a completely made-up creature.\\nFor example, you might start with the huge ears and cute face of a fennec fox and give its body bird-like legs and wings.\\nDo some research into animal photographs or illustrations to see how each animal’s anatomy works. Then adapt it so your fursona can stand up on 2 legs.\\nFeel free to create more than 1 fursona if you’d like.\\n2-2. Pick out colors and markings to make your fursona unique.\\nThere are no rules when it comes to designing your fursona’s appearance. Feel free to use naturalistic colors and realistic markings, or go for bright hues and unusual patterns if you prefer. Try to have an unusual or uncommon pattern. Sometimes certain patterns are overused or taken easily, but some are too complicated. If you wish to buy a fursuit and make a very colorful fursona with many designs, it might be more expensive and the quality will go down. Consider incorporating spots, stripes, splotchy markings, facial details, scales, feathers, and other patterns and textures into your design. \\nRefer to animal photos as inspiration for markings and coloration patterns if you want a more realistic effect.\\nIf you’re not sure where to start, check out other furries’ fursonas online. Just make sure you aren’t totally copying another person’s fursona.\\n2-3. Assign your fursona a personality and a name.\\nHave fun when creating your fursona’s personality. It doesn’t have to be anything like your own personality, but it can reflect your ideal personality or 1 specific side of you if you’d like. For instance, your fursona might represent your wild and outgoing side if you tend to be a shy person. Create a list of personality traits as well as likes and dislikes and other fun facts about your fursona’s identity. Give them a unique name, too.\\nThe level of similarity between you and your fursona is entirely a matter of personal preference. Try using your fursona to show off your idealized self or explore an alter ego. Don’t be afraid to modify your fursona over time until it’s just right.\\nIf you like writing, try writing out your fursona’s backstory or creating a narrative about them.\\nBe prepared to introduce your fursona’s personality to other furries.\\n2-4. Illustrate your fursona if you want to create your own artwork.\\nIf you enjoy graphic design or drawing, transfer all of your ideas onto the page or the screen. Use pencils and coloring tools or a digital design program to sketch out the general shape and physical characteristics of your fursona. Then add in the colorings, markings, and other details. 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Commission an artist to illustrate your fursona for you if you prefer.\\nSearch through online furry communities to find artists who are willing to create artwork and illustrations for other furries. Send them a message or place an order on their site. Share as much information about your fursona as possible, and provide sketches or reference images whenever possible. Tell them what you love about their past other work so they know what style you’re looking for. Be prepared to pay the artist for their work, too.\\nMake sure you agree on all of the specifications of the project, including the deadline, revision process, file type, pose and background, usage considerations, and fee before they start creating the artwork.\\nDon’t ask for an illustration for free; artists deserve compensation for their time and energy.\\n2-6. Share your fursona with other furries and furry merch makers.\\nWhether you draw your own fursona or commission an illustration, set the image as your profile picture on furry websites, so other furries get a sense of what your fursona identity is like. Consider getting it printed on t-shirts, badges, and pins, too, or get it made into a plushie. If you want to get a fursuit made, make sure that your fursona has at least a 3-view reference sheet either drawn by you, colored on a base, or commissioned by a reference sheet artist.\\nA 3-view reference sheet should show a front, back, and side profile view of your fursona.\\nIf you like creating artwork, have fun exploring different ways to use your fursona. You could share illustrations of your fursona hanging out with your friends’ fursonas or make a comic strip to show what your fursona gets up to.\\n3. Getting a Fursuit\\n3-1. Save up at least $1,000 US if you want to buy a fursuit.\\nDespite fursuiters being the minority, fursuits are a huge part of the fandom. They’re fun to wear and can be just as entertaining to onlookers and non-furries. Fursuits are a big investment and a luxury item, so you’ll need to save upwards of $1,000 US – or at least $2,000 if you’re in the market for a full-body suit. If you want to buy one, research how you’d get it made and then make a savings plan so you will have enough money to cover the costs.\\nFursuits are completely optional. You don’t need one at all to be a furry, and the furry community won't look down on you if you don't have a fursuit.\\nIt’s best to wait until both you and your fursona have stopped growing and changing. You wouldn’t want to grow out of such an expensive costume! In the meantime, save your pennies.\\n3-2. Choose between getting a partial, plantigrade, or digitigrade fursuit.\\nChoose a partial suit if you want just a head, hands, feet, and a tail. Wear these pieces with clothes to make it look like your fursona is the one wearing the outfit. Opt for a plantigrade fursuit if you want something that covers your whole body and shows off all of the markings and physical characteristics of your fursona. Consider a digitigrade fursuit if you want to take the full-body suit a step further. These suits have animallike feet and extra padding on the legs to make them appear more like an animal’s back legs. \\nIf you overheat easily, try a partial suit rather than a full-coverage suit.\\nWhen done well, plantigrade and digitigrade suits can really make the character really come to life, but partial suits can be just as fun to wear and see.\\nConsider trying on another furry's fursuit, as long as it’s clean, before you invest in your own.\\n3-3. Commission a fursuit maker.\\nThere are hundreds of fursuit makers to choose from, each with their own style. Search around on the Makers Database on Tumblr and read reviews on FursuitReview until you have a shortlist of makers you might like to work with. Make sure the maker is open for commissions, then follow their instructions on their website to commission them. The process differs, but you'll usually have to submit your fursona reference sheet and other details through a form on their website.\\nFursuit makers may only be available to work on a handful of projects each year. Don’t be upset if a maker doesn’t accept your proposal. Find a few other makers in case your first choice isn’t possible.\\nYou can have more than 1 maker create different parts of your fursuit, if you’d like.\\nThe turnaround time for a fursuit can be a few months, so don't expect your fursuit to be shipped to you within a few days of ordering it.\\nCarefully review the makers’ rates and terms of service. Many fursuit makers don’t accept people under the age of 18, and most require a 30% down payment upfront.\\n3-4. Practice performing and acting in your fursuit.\\nTo be a great fursuiter, you’ll need to put a lot of time and energy into making your fursonas come to life. Remember that you’ll be performing the whole time you’re in your fursuit. Watch videos and attend panels to learn the basics of how to act in a fursuit. Try your best to maintain a character that matches your fursuit. Does your fursuit have a grumpy expression? Stomping around and looking comically irritable could really help your act. Are your fursuit eyes huge and cute? Act like a puppy or kitten and use more cutesy movements.\\nTry not to just stand around in your fursuit. Make your performance exciting and engaging.\\nKids are always excited to see a cute animal, so always be child-friendly and nice to the youngsters!\\nMake sure you have a handler who can stay by your side when you’re fursuiting. Ask them to help you watch out for rowdy kids, see that you don’t overheat, and communicate with other people as needed. They’ll be your eyes and ears, since your senses will be obscured while you’re in your fursuit.\\nTips\\nWash your suit as soon as possible after every single fursuiting session, and deep-clean your fursuit once in a while. Refer to online tutorials and check with your fursuit maker for more specific laundering instructions.\\nCall in advance to ask for permission if you want to wear your fursuit in a privately owned place.\\nTake your paws OFF while eating/drinking! It helps protect your suit (you won't get any spillages), and it saves money!\\nWarnings\\nFursuits can get extremely hot, so wear yours with caution. Stay hydrated, take breaks with your head off every 15 to 30 minutes to cool down, communicate with your handler, and don’t overdo it.\\nBe aware of the mask laws in your area so you don’t get in trouble while fursuiting. Always take your fursuit head off if an authority figure, such as a police officer or a security guard, approaches you.\\nBe careful when interacting with the media. Some journalists are out to paint furries as sexual deviants or inhuman. Check out Uncle Kage's “Furries and the Media” panel for tips on dealing with the media.[22]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"The furry fandom is a large, inclusive community-nya based on a love of anthropomorphic animals. These are animals that talk, walk on 2 legs, and behave like both animals and humans. If you want to celebrate your fanship and express yourself creatively as a furry, welcome aboard! Once you develop a fursona, start interacting with other furries online and in real life, through conventions and local meetup groups. Explore your creative interests and see how they tie into the furry community, whether it means creating fan art or fursuiting. Remember, you don’t need an expensive fursuit to be a furry. 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You can easily find other furries via Tumblr and deviantART, too.\\nLook for furry Discord servers, Skype groups, and Telegram groups for instant messaging.\\nSearch through furry pages and tags on regular social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube. You’ll quickly find your community there!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make and share furry fan art and other creative work.\", \"描述\": \"Explore your furry fanship or fursona through any hobby or creative project you’d like. Try writing fanfiction, creating music, making video animations, vlogging, illustrating fan art, or performing in your furry persona. Then share your creations on sites like Tumblr, deviantART, FurAffinity, and YouTube. \\nThere's a place for every interest in the furry fandom – artists, musicians, authors, dancers, comedians, actors, and many others celebrate their love of anthropomorphism through creative expression.\\nDon’t be afraid to share your work! Other furries will be very welcoming and supportive of however you combine your furry identity with your other interests.\\nConsider taking your creative work to in-person events, too. If you like music, you may be able to DJ at a furry convention.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Take on requests, trades, or commissions to share your creative work.\", \"描述\": \"These are great ways to help other furries get to know you and your work. Open for requests if you want other furries to ask you for free artwork. Open for trades if you’re open to swapping 1 free artwork for another. If you want to sell your work, open for commissions. Set up an info page outlining your terms, prices, and policies so others know what to expect. Specify the type and style of work you’d like to create, then spread the word across the online furry community.\\nOther furries might send you an image or written description of their fursona for you to draw, or they might give you a premise for a story to write.\\nOnce you develop your skills and reputation, you can potentially make a good income by selling your work within the furry community.\\nIf you accept a commission, you’re obliged to complete it. By accepting payment and not finishing a project, you can get into legal trouble.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Attend a furry convention to meet other furries in person.\", \"描述\": \"Connecting online can be great, but there’s nothing quite like meeting other furries in real life and seeing some of the media creators that you admire. If you can, attend Anthrocon, the largest furry convention that’s based in Pittsburgh, PA. Or look for a local furry convention online. While you’re there, check out the artwork, tails, accessories, badges, fursuits, and other furry merchandise. Don’t miss the fursuit parade! Even if you don't have a suit, you can still have a blast watching all the incredible fursuits march by. \\nMany furries opt to meet up at conventions since they’re safe, public spaces and you’ll be free to fully express yourself and your fursona. If you’re going to be at the same event as your online furry friends, set up a time to meet up during the event!\\nSpecial events differ from convention to convention but you might be able to catch a great concert, fursuit dance competition, or discussion panel featuring your favorite animator.\\nWatch videos of furry convention events online if you’re curious to see what they’re all about.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Get involved in a local furry group.\", \"描述\": \"Many communities around the world have their own furry groups. Run a search for \\\"Furries in [your area]\\\" to find individuals or meetup groups nearby. Check out the Globe feature on the Furry Amino app to find furries based in your area. Once you find local furries, start up a chat and coordinate a way to get together. When you meet up, have fun! Try out some roleplaying games, act out your fursonas, create fan art together, and take photos in your fursuits, if you have them.\\nRemember to be careful when meeting up with people you met online. Always use common sense, and meet in a public place rather than a secluded, private space. Let a trusted friend know when and where you’re going, too, just in case.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Socialize with other furries to form new friendships.\", \"描述\": \"There are quite a few subgroups within the furry community that cater to various interests, from gaming communities to literature clubs, so you should have no trouble finding other furries who share the same interests as you. Once you’re a furry, focus on meeting new people, both online and in person. Start commenting on other furries’ posts and reply to the furries who comment on yours. Eventually, start a chat and get to know them even better. Pretty soon, you’ll start forming long-lasting friendships.\\nPutting yourself out there might sound like a daunting task, especially if you’re shy or introverted. But remember that furries can often be some of the easiest and nicest people to talk to.\\nThe more active you are in the community, the more friends you’ll make, and the more fun you’ll have.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Be welcoming and non-judgmental around other furries.\", \"描述\": \"You’ll find a lot of creativity in the furry community, so rather than judging and critiquing what other people are doing, be accepting and supportive of what and who you encounter. Speak to other furries with kindness and respect to keep up the positive and inclusive furry environment.\\nThe furry community is a place where all kinds of people can really fit in – especially those who don’t often feel like they fit in\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Forget your negative misconceptions about furries.\", \"描述\": \"There are a lot of myths and rumors about the furry community circulating through the media that you’ll need to debunk – for yourself and for others in your life. Most importantly, know that you don’t have to own or wear a fursuit in order to be a furry. You can participate no matter what you wear. Additionally, know that only a small percentage of furries focus on the erotic aspect of the fandom; you don’t have to do anything like this in order to participate in the community. \\nAs with many other dress-oriented fandoms, like cosplayers and sports fans, most furries simply enjoy expressing themselves, performing in a costume, and connecting with other fans on a social level.\\nThe majority of furries don’t actually believe they’re animals. Some might wish for animal traits or enjoy exploring them, but most furries are just expressing their fanship of anthropomorphic animals.\\nWhile it’s not what defines the furry fandom, be aware that you’ll probably encounter some erotic fan art and other content of a sexual nature. If you’re not comfortable with that, try updating your search settings on different sites and web browsers. Sticking with PG-rated furry content only is entirely acceptable!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Crafting a Fursona\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose an animal species to base your fursona on.\", \"描述\": \"Fursonas are characters or avatars that furries use when socializing with other members of the furry community. Many furries start with canines, felines, and dragons when choosing their fursona’s physical characteristics. But the possibilities are endless; you’re free to choose any species you desire, create a hybrid, or develop a completely made-up creature.\\nFor example, you might start with the huge ears and cute face of a fennec fox and give its body bird-like legs and wings.\\nDo some research into animal photographs or illustrations to see how each animal’s anatomy works. Then adapt it so your fursona can stand up on 2 legs.\\nFeel free to create more than 1 fursona if you’d like.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pick out colors and markings to make your fursona unique.\", \"描述\": \"There are no rules when it comes to designing your fursona’s appearance. Feel free to use naturalistic colors and realistic markings, or go for bright hues and unusual patterns if you prefer. Try to have an unusual or uncommon pattern. Sometimes certain patterns are overused or taken easily, but some are too complicated. If you wish to buy a fursuit and make a very colorful fursona with many designs, it might be more expensive and the quality will go down. Consider incorporating spots, stripes, splotchy markings, facial details, scales, feathers, and other patterns and textures into your design. \\nRefer to animal photos as inspiration for markings and coloration patterns if you want a more realistic effect.\\nIf you’re not sure where to start, check out other furries’ fursonas online. Just make sure you aren’t totally copying another person’s fursona.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Assign your fursona a personality and a name.\", \"描述\": \"Have fun when creating your fursona’s personality. It doesn’t have to be anything like your own personality, but it can reflect your ideal personality or 1 specific side of you if you’d like. For instance, your fursona might represent your wild and outgoing side if you tend to be a shy person. Create a list of personality traits as well as likes and dislikes and other fun facts about your fursona’s identity. Give them a unique name, too.\\nThe level of similarity between you and your fursona is entirely a matter of personal preference. Try using your fursona to show off your idealized self or explore an alter ego. Don’t be afraid to modify your fursona over time until it’s just right.\\nIf you like writing, try writing out your fursona’s backstory or creating a narrative about them.\\nBe prepared to introduce your fursona’s personality to other furries.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Illustrate your fursona if you want to create your own artwork.\", \"描述\": \"If you enjoy graphic design or drawing, transfer all of your ideas onto the page or the screen. Use pencils and coloring tools or a digital design program to sketch out the general shape and physical characteristics of your fursona. Then add in the colorings, markings, and other details. Give them an expressive face that shows off something about their personality. \\nFor example, if your fursona is bright and peppy, give them a wide-eyed appearance.\\nTry to sketch out as many details as you can imagine even if you don’t plan to buy a full-body fursuit.\\nFeel free to add your fursona’s name and a list of traits and qualities in your illustration, too.\\nLook up \\\"free [animal] base\\\" or \\\"free [animal] line art\\\" on deviantART or FurAffinity for some templates to get you started if you’re basing your fursona on a widely-used animal species.\\nIf you’ve used a free template, remember to credit the artist who created it when you share or post the image.\\nEven if you don’t like drawing and would prefer to commission artwork, try making a rough sketch so you can more easily convey your ideas to the artist.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Commission an artist to illustrate your fursona for you if you prefer.\", \"描述\": \"Search through online furry communities to find artists who are willing to create artwork and illustrations for other furries. Send them a message or place an order on their site. Share as much information about your fursona as possible, and provide sketches or reference images whenever possible. Tell them what you love about their past other work so they know what style you’re looking for. Be prepared to pay the artist for their work, too.\\nMake sure you agree on all of the specifications of the project, including the deadline, revision process, file type, pose and background, usage considerations, and fee before they start creating the artwork.\\nDon’t ask for an illustration for free; artists deserve compensation for their time and energy.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Share your fursona with other furries and furry merch makers.\", \"描述\": \"Whether you draw your own fursona or commission an illustration, set the image as your profile picture on furry websites, so other furries get a sense of what your fursona identity is like. Consider getting it printed on t-shirts, badges, and pins, too, or get it made into a plushie. If you want to get a fursuit made, make sure that your fursona has at least a 3-view reference sheet either drawn by you, colored on a base, or commissioned by a reference sheet artist.\\nA 3-view reference sheet should show a front, back, and side profile view of your fursona.\\nIf you like creating artwork, have fun exploring different ways to use your fursona. You could share illustrations of your fursona hanging out with your friends’ fursonas or make a comic strip to show what your fursona gets up to.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Getting a Fursuit\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Save up at least $1,000 US if you want to buy a fursuit.\", \"描述\": \"Despite fursuiters being the minority, fursuits are a huge part of the fandom. They’re fun to wear and can be just as entertaining to onlookers and non-furries. Fursuits are a big investment and a luxury item, so you’ll need to save upwards of $1,000 US – or at least $2,000 if you’re in the market for a full-body suit. If you want to buy one, research how you’d get it made and then make a savings plan so you will have enough money to cover the costs.\\nFursuits are completely optional. You don’t need one at all to be a furry, and the furry community won't look down on you if you don't have a fursuit.\\nIt’s best to wait until both you and your fursona have stopped growing and changing. You wouldn’t want to grow out of such an expensive costume! In the meantime, save your pennies.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Choose between getting a partial, plantigrade, or digitigrade fursuit.\", \"描述\": \"Choose a partial suit if you want just a head, hands, feet, and a tail. Wear these pieces with clothes to make it look like your fursona is the one wearing the outfit. Opt for a plantigrade fursuit if you want something that covers your whole body and shows off all of the markings and physical characteristics of your fursona. Consider a digitigrade fursuit if you want to take the full-body suit a step further. These suits have animallike feet and extra padding on the legs to make them appear more like an animal’s back legs. \\nIf you overheat easily, try a partial suit rather than a full-coverage suit.\\nWhen done well, plantigrade and digitigrade suits can really make the character really come to life, but partial suits can be just as fun to wear and see.\\nConsider trying on another furry's fursuit, as long as it’s clean, before you invest in your own.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Commission a fursuit maker.\", \"描述\": \"There are hundreds of fursuit makers to choose from, each with their own style. Search around on the Makers Database on Tumblr and read reviews on FursuitReview until you have a shortlist of makers you might like to work with. Make sure the maker is open for commissions, then follow their instructions on their website to commission them. The process differs, but you'll usually have to submit your fursona reference sheet and other details through a form on their website.\\nFursuit makers may only be available to work on a handful of projects each year. Don’t be upset if a maker doesn’t accept your proposal. Find a few other makers in case your first choice isn’t possible.\\nYou can have more than 1 maker create different parts of your fursuit, if you’d like.\\nThe turnaround time for a fursuit can be a few months, so don't expect your fursuit to be shipped to you within a few days of ordering it.\\nCarefully review the makers’ rates and terms of service. Many fursuit makers don’t accept people under the age of 18, and most require a 30% down payment upfront.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Practice performing and acting in your fursuit.\", \"描述\": \"To be a great fursuiter, you’ll need to put a lot of time and energy into making your fursonas come to life. Remember that you’ll be performing the whole time you’re in your fursuit. Watch videos and attend panels to learn the basics of how to act in a fursuit. Try your best to maintain a character that matches your fursuit. Does your fursuit have a grumpy expression? Stomping around and looking comically irritable could really help your act. Are your fursuit eyes huge and cute? Act like a puppy or kitten and use more cutesy movements.\\nTry not to just stand around in your fursuit. Make your performance exciting and engaging.\\nKids are always excited to see a cute animal, so always be child-friendly and nice to the youngsters!\\nMake sure you have a handler who can stay by your side when you’re fursuiting. Ask them to help you watch out for rowdy kids, see that you don’t overheat, and communicate with other people as needed. They’ll be your eyes and ears, since your senses will be obscured while you’re in your fursuit.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Wash your suit as soon as possible after every single fursuiting session, and deep-clean your fursuit once in a while. Refer to online tutorials and check with your fursuit maker for more specific laundering instructions.\\n\", \"Call in advance to ask for permission if you want to wear your fursuit in a privately owned place.\\n\", \"Take your paws OFF while eating/drinking! It helps protect your suit (you won't get any spillages), and it saves money!\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Fursuits can get extremely hot, so wear yours with caution. Stay hydrated, take breaks with your head off every 15 to 30 minutes to cool down, communicate with your handler, and don’t overdo it.\\n\", \"Be aware of the mask laws in your area so you don’t get in trouble while fursuiting. Always take your fursuit head off if an authority figure, such as a police officer or a security guard, approaches you.\\n\", \"Be careful when interacting with the media. Some journalists are out to paint furries as sexual deviants or inhuman. Check out Uncle Kage's “Furries and the Media” panel for tips on dealing with the media.[22]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Steps
1-1. Set your mind that being a game master is a REAL job.
First, you need to know that a game master is an actual job. As fun as it sounds, becoming a GM is a full-time desk job. Not everyone can instantly become a GM just because they've played the game for months on ends. Becoming a GM is not simply all about playing games.
1-2. Meet the basic requirements.
You need to know if you meet the basic requirements:
Since it’s an office work, you need to be at least 18 years old before you can apply or be hired by Blizzard Entertainment.
Because you’d be dealing with online players, you need to have excellent customer services skills. Some of the job requirements require you to have a degree or, at least, a certification, but having the knowledge about the game’s concept, rules, and mechanics is much more important.
World of Warcraft is open to international players, so having the ability to speak a second language can prove to be very helpful, especially if the job description requires it.
Note that requirements for a GM post vary depending on what the company needs, so make sure to read the job description first before you apply.
1-3. Create your résumé.
Write a resumé that highlights your skills, knowledge, and interest with the game. If you have any previous customer service experience, then you include it too.
The application form should be written in English, but if the job requires the use of another language apart from English, then it would be great to create resumés in both languages.
1-4. Go to Blizzard’s career site.
Head to Blizzard Entertainment’s website’s career section (http://sea.blizzard.com/en-sg/company/careers/). When a new game master position is available, Blizzard will post it here together with the job description and all the requirements needed.
Once you see a GM job posting, click on “Apply Online” to send in your résumé.
1-5. Wait for Blizzard to contact you.
If you’re shortlisted for the position, Blizzard will contact you to ask more about you and probably setup a scheduled interview.
If you pass all the assessment, you can now become a full-time WoW game master.
Tips
Even though the job is related to video games, the application process is still corporate, and you should still send a complete, professional résumé.
Salary details shall be discussed during your interview and is completely in Blizzards’ discretion.
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Some of the job requirements require you to have a degree or, at least, a certification, but having the knowledge about the game’s concept, rules, and mechanics is much more important.\\nWorld of Warcraft is open to international players, so having the ability to speak a second language can prove to be very helpful, especially if the job description requires it.\\nNote that requirements for a GM post vary depending on what the company needs, so make sure to read the job description first before you apply.\\n1-3. Create your résumé.\\nWrite a resumé that highlights your skills, knowledge, and interest with the game. If you have any previous customer service experience, then you include it too.\\nThe application form should be written in English, but if the job requires the use of another language apart from English, then it would be great to create resumés in both languages.\\n1-4. Go to Blizzard’s career site.\\nHead to Blizzard Entertainment’s website’s career section (http://sea.blizzard.com/en-sg/company/careers/). When a new game master position is available, Blizzard will post it here together with the job description and all the requirements needed.\\nOnce you see a GM job posting, click on “Apply Online” to send in your résumé.\\n1-5. Wait for Blizzard to contact you.\\nIf you’re shortlisted for the position, Blizzard will contact you to ask more about you and probably setup a scheduled interview.\\nIf you pass all the assessment, you can now become a full-time WoW game master.\\nTips\\nEven though the job is related to video games, the application process is still corporate, and you should still send a complete, professional résumé.\\nSalary details shall be discussed during your interview and is completely in Blizzards’ discretion.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A GM, or a game master, is someone who officiates or acts as a guide inside games that enforces the rules and regulations, making sure that everything is running smoothly. GMs are found on multiplayer games, mostly on role-playing games like World of Warcraft. Not everyone can become a game master, but if you ever considered becoming one for the World of Warcraft game, then the steps below may help you to become one.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Set your mind that being a game master is a REAL job.\", \"描述\": \"First, you need to know that a game master is an actual job. As fun as it sounds, becoming a GM is a full-time desk job. Not everyone can instantly become a GM just because they've played the game for months on ends. Becoming a GM is not simply all about playing games.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Meet the basic requirements.\", \"描述\": \"You need to know if you meet the basic requirements:\\nSince it’s an office work, you need to be at least 18 years old before you can apply or be hired by Blizzard Entertainment.\\nBecause you’d be dealing with online players, you need to have excellent customer services skills. Some of the job requirements require you to have a degree or, at least, a certification, but having the knowledge about the game’s concept, rules, and mechanics is much more important.\\nWorld of Warcraft is open to international players, so having the ability to speak a second language can prove to be very helpful, especially if the job description requires it.\\nNote that requirements for a GM post vary depending on what the company needs, so make sure to read the job description first before you apply.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Create your résumé.\", \"描述\": \"Write a resumé that highlights your skills, knowledge, and interest with the game. If you have any previous customer service experience, then you include it too.\\nThe application form should be written in English, but if the job requires the use of another language apart from English, then it would be great to create resumés in both languages.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Go to Blizzard’s career site.\", \"描述\": \"Head to Blizzard Entertainment’s website’s career section (http://sea.blizzard.com/en-sg/company/careers/). When a new game master position is available, Blizzard will post it here together with the job description and all the requirements needed.\\nOnce you see a GM job posting, click on “Apply Online” to send in your résumé.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Wait for Blizzard to contact you.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re shortlisted for the position, Blizzard will contact you to ask more about you and probably setup a scheduled interview.\\nIf you pass all the assessment, you can now become a full-time WoW game master.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Even though the job is related to video games, the application process is still corporate, and you should still send a complete, professional résumé.\\n\", \"Salary details shall be discussed during your interview and is completely in Blizzards’ discretion.\\n\"]}]}}",
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How to Be a Geek
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1. Finding Geeky Interests
1-1. Find what you are truly interested in.
There are some typical geeky interests, but you can be interested in anything and still be considered a geek. You may already have something you're interested in—like baseball, model airplanes, or the Harry Potter series. If not, explore some things that might interest you. Take your time to explore until you find something you really love.
1-2. Play video games.
You may have trouble thinking of potential interests, and that's okay. You can explore some popular geeky interests—like video games. Minecraft, Portal, and Halo are popular with geeks. Play the game or games often until you get really good at it. Then, learn everything about the game that you can.
You could also play tabletop or card games, like Dungeons and Dragons and Magic: The Gathering.
1-3. Read a lot of books and comics.
It doesn't matter what—just read what interests you. And don't be ashamed of what you read. You could read very literary books—like books by Jane Austen. Or, you can read genre fiction—like horror and science fiction. DC and Marvel comics are popular among geeks if books aren't your thing.
Don't be afraid to carry a book with you everywhere you go.
1-4. Get interested in science and technology.
A large part of the rise of geeks was due to technology. If you love robots and computers, dive into that interest! If you prefer physics or chemistry, take that interest beyond the classroom. This is an interest that could also be beneficial for your future.
Learn website and mobile development. You could learn to make your own websites and mobile apps.
Research and learn how to build robots. Look for a robotics club in your area.
It's okay if you weren't that great in science at school. Invest in your interest, and you will learn a lot over time.
1-5. Collect a certain item.
This is a hobby that is pretty simple to do, but depending on what you're interested in, it could be costly. If you think vintage photographs are awesome, take a weekly trip to your local thrift shop. If coffee mugs with #1 Dad are cool to you, begin collecting those. You can collect anything you think is awesome. Try to learn about what you collect as you accumulate more items.
Consider your budget before choosing an item to collect.
2. Thinking like a Geek
2-1. Be passionate about your interests.
One of the most important parts of being a geek is being very passionate about what you are interested in. As a geek, spend a lot of time learning and practicing your interest. Proudly devour your interests and learn about every little detail. It shouldn't feel like work to you.
2-2. Look for groups of people who share your interest.
For almost any interest you can think of, there will likely be a group of people who share that interest. Look for a group in your area dedicated to your passion. You can do a quick online search, ask a local college or library, or ask around on social media. If you can't find a local group, look for an online group you could participate in.
Invite other people. If you have friends that share your interests, ask if they'd like to form a club with you.
2-3. Stay up-to-date on your passion.
Your passion may be something that constantly evolves and grows—like a computer game or robotics. Follow news related to your passion. If there isn't news specifically related to your passion, do a quick online search. For example, you could type in “recent developments in mobile engineering.”
You can also stay up-to-date on your passion by attending conventions and conferences related to it.
2-4. Be loyal to your interests.
Geeks are committed to the things they love. Their interest is not just a hobby; it is a part of who they are. Because of this, geeks try to be the first ones to know about new updates or items. Keep up on the news about your interest, invest in memorabilia (if applicable), and show off your interest whenever possible.
2-5. Don't give up on your passion.
Your interest may go through a period where it is disliked by the majority, or it is undergoing some problems. Geeks do not give up on their passion. They stay loyal to it all the way to the end—even when everyone else abandons it.
2-6. Prioritize your passion.
Geeks will often let their passion consume them. Your passion shouldn't have a negative effect on your life, but it's okay if it is a priority over certain things—like parties and other social gatherings. Instead of a party, spend time working on a geeky project related to your interest. Or, invite friends over to play a tabletop game if that's your passion. This way, you are investing in your passion, but also staying social.
Make sure you balance time spent on your passion with time spent with your family and on your job.
3. Dressing like a Geek
3-1. Buy T-shirts that display your interests.
Depending on your interest, there is probably a “fandom” out there somewhere for it. This means that there will be all sorts of clothes, memorabilia, and accessories. Look for a T-shirt that shows off your interest. Invest in a few of those T-shirts if you can and proudly wear them.
Search eBay or thrift shops if your interest isn't very popular anymore.
3-2. Wear accessories that show off your passion.
Don't just stop at the T-shirts. If possible, invest in other accessories that display your interest. You could wear hats, belts, shoes, or pins. Pick and choose whatever appeals to you. Don't be nervous about overdoing it.
3-3. Dress like geek icons.
You don't have to show off your interest to dress like a geek. Instead, you can dress like a geek icon. For example, you could show off your interest in science by dressing like Albert Einstein. All you would have to do is put on a crewneck sweater, wide-legged pants, and loafers. It's easy and subtle.
If you like Steve Jobs, wear a black turtleneck.
If Mark Zuckerberg is your favorite geek, dress in a casual style. Wear a hoodie, shorts, and flip flops.
3-4. Dress up like your favorite character.
You can take your passion all the way by dressing up like your favorite character. The best place to do this is in a cosplay group or at a convention. Look up your favorite character and analyze how they dress/look. Try to recreate this look by purchasing or making your own costume.
3-5. Wear geeky accessories.
Finish up your geeky outfit by choosing a few accessories. One of the most iconic geek accessories are black rimmed glasses. Wear them if you need glasses or choose glasses without a prescription if you don't. If you want to stick to a geek stereotype, wear suspenders with your pants. To top it off, you could attach some geeky pins to your suspenders.
For example, find a pin or button displaying your favorite superhero.
Tips
Reach out to other people in online forums or in person that have the same geeky interests as you.
Try not to stick to stereotypes, as no geeks dress like that and you could be seen as a poser.
Warnings
Some people will make fun of you for being a geek. Shrug it off. It is more important to be true to yourself.
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Look for a group in your area dedicated to your passion. You can do a quick online search, ask a local college or library, or ask around on social media. If you can't find a local group, look for an online group you could participate in.\\nInvite other people. If you have friends that share your interests, ask if they'd like to form a club with you.\\n2-3. Stay up-to-date on your passion.\\nYour passion may be something that constantly evolves and grows—like a computer game or robotics. Follow news related to your passion. If there isn't news specifically related to your passion, do a quick online search. For example, you could type in “recent developments in mobile engineering.”\\nYou can also stay up-to-date on your passion by attending conventions and conferences related to it.\\n2-4. Be loyal to your interests.\\nGeeks are committed to the things they love. Their interest is not just a hobby; it is a part of who they are. Because of this, geeks try to be the first ones to know about new updates or items. Keep up on the news about your interest, invest in memorabilia (if applicable), and show off your interest whenever possible.\\n2-5. Don't give up on your passion.\\nYour interest may go through a period where it is disliked by the majority, or it is undergoing some problems. Geeks do not give up on their passion. They stay loyal to it all the way to the end—even when everyone else abandons it.\\n2-6. Prioritize your passion.\\nGeeks will often let their passion consume them. Your passion shouldn't have a negative effect on your life, but it's okay if it is a priority over certain things—like parties and other social gatherings. Instead of a party, spend time working on a geeky project related to your interest. Or, invite friends over to play a tabletop game if that's your passion. This way, you are investing in your passion, but also staying social.\\nMake sure you balance time spent on your passion with time spent with your family and on your job.\\n3. Dressing like a Geek\\n3-1. Buy T-shirts that display your interests.\\nDepending on your interest, there is probably a “fandom” out there somewhere for it. This means that there will be all sorts of clothes, memorabilia, and accessories. Look for a T-shirt that shows off your interest. Invest in a few of those T-shirts if you can and proudly wear them.\\nSearch eBay or thrift shops if your interest isn't very popular anymore.\\n3-2. Wear accessories that show off your passion.\\nDon't just stop at the T-shirts. If possible, invest in other accessories that display your interest. You could wear hats, belts, shoes, or pins. Pick and choose whatever appeals to you. Don't be nervous about overdoing it.\\n3-3. Dress like geek icons.\\nYou don't have to show off your interest to dress like a geek. 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How to Be a Genius Nerd
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1. Clothes
Choose your everyday clothes.
Being a nerd isn't limited to wearing braces, suspenders, or glasses. You can wear anything you please, but demure clothing is preferable. If you do want to appear nerdy, conservative clothing, glasses, messenger bags, and neutral colors are generally accepted. It is also preferable to have natural beauty, as it can signify confidence and an interest in matters more important than your appearance.
2. Reading
2-1. Do not read trending magazines or books.
Read magazines of your choice. Take an interest in mathematics, science, computers, poetry, or classic novels. Constantly expand your knowledge. You should read magazines like Knowledge by BBC, The Smithsonian and Popular science.
2-2. Have at least one complete set of encyclopedias.
Put it in a place where everybody can see it. If you want it to really be convincing, make a whole bunch of the pages dog-eared so that it looks well-worn.
Your books do not have to be all nonfiction, as some fictional works greatly increase vocabulary. All books are welcome, the key is to have a large interest in them and become knowledgeable.
2-3. Read ahead in every literature book.
Get some novels.
2-4. Carry a book bag.
How high you put your bag depends on the school you're in and even the country. If low hanging bags are fashion, put it up as high as possible. It also has some health benefit and that is your spinal cord is not getting much weight.
3. Media
3-1. Try not to watch reality TV or popular shows.
Try educational television if necessary, good examples would be "PBS Create", the Science Channel, the Discovery Channel, Discovery Science or the History channel.
3-2. Watch news channels such as BBC and CNN.
3-3. Keep your room slightly messy.
There should be crinkled-up papers with writings, designs and technical drawing on them and books. There should not be items like toys and video gaming systems. For suggestions, see step two as well.
4. Establish ‘nerdy’ habits
4-1. Learn how to write fast and neat.
Practice writing neatly in both cursive and print. This will help to make fewer errors and get better grades. Remember, you're graded on your grammar and punctuation!
4-2. Increase your vocabulary and use it!
Try not to be verbose, substitute some words (threw, building, bored) for those less commonly used (lunged, edifice, ennui). Make sure there's someone around to appreciate your vocabulary, otherwise those around you may become annoyed.
4-3. Ponder everything.
If at any point you're not pondering, you need to try harder. Question yourself first and the world around you. Don't be afraid to ask others for their answer. Be ready to accept it and even adopt it if it's better than yours.
5. Becoming a real nerd
5-1. Learn your proper "nerdy" habits in class.
If a challenging problem is asked by the teacher, rivet your eyes on the calculator, while clutching the device as close to you as you can manage, and press the keys non-stop. If in English class you are called to write an essay, always tap the edge of your writing utensil on your head. Having these idiosyncrasies may help you.
5-2. Join the nerd industry!
Nerds can often make a lot of money by tutoring.
5-3. Study at night to get into advanced classes.
Try very hard to excel in academics.
Tips
To be a nerd, you have to be very observant, as to catch faulty logic and other things similar to that.
When walking, carry around books. A nerd is always prepared with books to read, and if you have too many, use a backpack.
Do not care what everybody thinks, be individualistic.
Warnings
Don't be a know-it-all. If you have to point out a mistake or a faulty logic, do it politely and discretely. If you are constantly correcting others, other people may think that you are trying too hard and you are snobbish and rude.
Not everyone in your life will relish your nerdiness. Some may even taunt, boo, or try to convince you that no, you have it wrong — nerds are not considered "cool" by most. Whatever you do, do not listen to them.
Please do not change because of bullying. Get help if a kid is teasing you because of one of your traits.
If being a nerd is not you, don't force yourself to become one. There is nothing worse than a person who is not their true self.
Don't become so consumed with your obsession that you lose sight of reality.
If you constantly mock others who are less clever than you, they could get their friends to harass you, or do it themselves.
If you want to be a computer nerd, don't use Internet Explorer. It is too mainstream, true nerds resent that. Good web browsers are Firefox, Safari and Google Chrome. Never refer to either web browser by their full name, IE FF and GC are the popular acronyms for the three.
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If you want it to really be convincing, make a whole bunch of the pages dog-eared so that it looks well-worn.\\nYour books do not have to be all nonfiction, as some fictional works greatly increase vocabulary. All books are welcome, the key is to have a large interest in them and become knowledgeable.\\n2-3. Read ahead in every literature book.\\nGet some novels.\\n2-4. Carry a book bag.\\nHow high you put your bag depends on the school you're in and even the country. If low hanging bags are fashion, put it up as high as possible. It also has some health benefit and that is your spinal cord is not getting much weight.\\n3. Media\\n3-1. Try not to watch reality TV or popular shows.\\nTry educational television if necessary, good examples would be \\\"PBS Create\\\", the Science Channel, the Discovery Channel, Discovery Science or the History channel.\\n3-2. Watch news channels such as BBC and CNN.\\n\\n3-3. Keep your room slightly messy.\\nThere should be crinkled-up papers with writings, designs and technical drawing on them and books. There should not be items like toys and video gaming systems. For suggestions, see step two as well.\\n4. Establish ‘nerdy’ habits\\n4-1. Learn how to write fast and neat.\\nPractice writing neatly in both cursive and print. This will help to make fewer errors and get better grades. Remember, you're graded on your grammar and punctuation!\\n4-2. Increase your vocabulary and use it!\\nTry not to be verbose, substitute some words (threw, building, bored) for those less commonly used (lunged, edifice, ennui). Make sure there's someone around to appreciate your vocabulary, otherwise those around you may become annoyed.\\n4-3. Ponder everything.\\nIf at any point you're not pondering, you need to try harder. Question yourself first and the world around you. Don't be afraid to ask others for their answer. Be ready to accept it and even adopt it if it's better than yours.\\n5. Becoming a real nerd\\n5-1. Learn your proper \\\"nerdy\\\" habits in class.\\nIf a challenging problem is asked by the teacher, rivet your eyes on the calculator, while clutching the device as close to you as you can manage, and press the keys non-stop. If in English class you are called to write an essay, always tap the edge of your writing utensil on your head. Having these idiosyncrasies may help you.\\n5-2. Join the nerd industry!\\nNerds can often make a lot of money by tutoring.\\n5-3. Study at night to get into advanced classes.\\nTry very hard to excel in academics.\\nTips\\nTo be a nerd, you have to be very observant, as to catch faulty logic and other things similar to that.\\nWhen walking, carry around books. A nerd is always prepared with books to read, and if you have too many, use a backpack.\\nDo not care what everybody thinks, be individualistic.\\nWarnings\\nDon't be a know-it-all. If you have to point out a mistake or a faulty logic, do it politely and discretely. If you are constantly correcting others, other people may think that you are trying too hard and you are snobbish and rude.\\nNot everyone in your life will relish your nerdiness. Some may even taunt, boo, or try to convince you that no, you have it wrong — nerds are not considered \\\"cool\\\" by most. Whatever you do, do not listen to them.\\nPlease do not change because of bullying. Get help if a kid is teasing you because of one of your traits.\\nIf being a nerd is not you, don't force yourself to become one. There is nothing worse than a person who is not their true self.\\nDon't become so consumed with your obsession that you lose sight of reality.\\nIf you constantly mock others who are less clever than you, they could get their friends to harass you, or do it themselves.\\nIf you want to be a computer nerd, don't use Internet Explorer. It is too mainstream, true nerds resent that. Good web browsers are Firefox, Safari and Google Chrome. Never refer to either web browser by their full name, IE FF and GC are the popular acronyms for the three.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"This article explains how to become a nerd and act like a genius - the classic type. Read this to be the top in class.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Clothes\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Choose your everyday clothes.\", \"描述\": \"Being a nerd isn't limited to wearing braces, suspenders, or glasses. You can wear anything you please, but demure clothing is preferable. If you do want to appear nerdy, conservative clothing, glasses, messenger bags, and neutral colors are generally accepted. It is also preferable to have natural beauty, as it can signify confidence and an interest in matters more important than your appearance.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Reading\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Do not read trending magazines or books.\", \"描述\": \"Read magazines of your choice. 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1. Exercising Restraint
1-1. Know your strength and exercise caution.
If you aren't careful, you may unwittingly hurt another person without intending to do so. Be especially cautious when interacting with fragile individuals--such as children, sick people, or very old people.
Always err on the side of caution. Treat fragile people as though they might actually break. You do not need to be overprotective--just thoughtful.
If you are picking up a small child, don't throw her in the air or swing her around. Hold her gently, with both of your arms, and be careful not to drop her. Be playful, but not careless.
If you are trying to a get a child or other dependent to come with you, don't pull their arm or push them. Pulling a child's arm can bruise skin, dislocate a shoulder, and earn the mistrust of the child. Sternly but gently tell him or her to come.
1-2. Do not touch people who don't want to be touched.
Physical intimacy is an important part of being human, but you should not violate anyone's personal space. Be respectful.
This can include playful touching. Acts like tickling, poking, or holding can seriously bother a person if they aren't in the mood.
Respect consent. If someone asks you to stop: If you don't respect peoples' space, then they will distrust you.
If you absolutely must touch someone who doesn't want to be touched (say, your child is throwing a tantrum, but you need to change his diaper): be as soothing and careful as possible. Do what you need to do, and then give the person their space.
1-3. Do not confuse gentleness with weakness.
The strongest people are those who can interact with others--touch others, speak with others, love others--in a patient and caring way. Being gentle is being able to hold someone without crushing them.
Think of a hug. Try to hug someone close enough that they feel your warmth, but not so close that they cannot breathe. Always be aware of how tightly you are squeezing.
Walk softly, but with power behind every step. You do not need to use all of your strength all of the time in order to prove that you possess it. There is strength in self-control.
1-4. Be patient.
If you get into a disagreement with someone--or if you want someone to do something, but they aren't cooperating--be patient. Explain your reasoning and try to work out a compromise.
Fighting--verbally or physically--will only inflame the situation. If you want to build a lasting peace, you must work to understand both sides of the argument. Do not be the first to react.
Do not try to force anyone to do something against their will. Respect their position. Practice the art of compromise.
1-5. Don't lash out.
When you get angry, count to ten. If you are still angry, keep counting. You may act rashly and violently when you let yourself become swept up in the flood of anger--but you can learn to control these impulses.
Give yourself time to cool down. You may find that are overreacting to a situation. There is almost always a solution that does not involve verbal or physical violence.
1-6. Take deep breaths.
If you become angry, try to center yourself and calm yourself down before you do something rash. Breathe in through your nose, deeply, for as long as you can. Breathe out, slowly.
Close your eyes and focus on your breaths. Take the time to slow down your heart rate and balance yourself. Let the initial burst of anger fade into the background. Clear your mind.
Consider counting your breaths--like meditation. As you inhale, count slowly: 1... 2... 3... 4. As you exhale, count out the same increment of time. This will keep you focused upon the act of breathing.
Consider taking up meditation. This is a great way to center your thoughts, practice mindfulness, and control your emotions. Search for tutorials online, and consider attending a guided meditation session. You can also use free apps like Insight Meditation, Calm, or Headspace for unguided or guided meditations.
1-7. Walk away.
If you can't calm yourself down and focus your energy, then you may need to walk away from the situation. Take a few moments alone to reflect upon why you are so upset.
Excuse yourself simply and gracefully. Ask whoever is making you angry, "Can we discuss this later?" or "I need to think about this. Can I get back to you on that?"
Consider going somewhere that you can be alone. If you have a favorite spot--a shady tree, a beautiful vista, a dark and quiet room--go there. Surround yourself with calm.
Consider finding a wise, balanced person to whom you can vent. Find a friend, or call someone, and tell them what's making you so upset. Your friend may be able to calm you down and give you perspective on the situation.
1-8. Practice "constructive confrontation".
Therapist Mark Gorkin, LICSW, author of Practice Safe Stress: Healing and Laughing in the Face of Stress, Burnout & Depression, offers a five-step method for "constructive confrontation":
1) Use an "I" statement, question, or observation: "I'm concerned," "I'm confused," or "I'm frustrated" are good ways to begin your exchange.
2) Describe the problem specifically. Avoid judgmental accusations such as "You never get your work in on time." Instead, be specific: "I've asked you three times this week for the status of the systems report and I haven't received the report or any response. What's going on here?"
3) Explain why you're upset. Talk about effects and expectations. For example: "Because I didn't receive the report on time, I wasn't able to present it at the meeting and we had to postpone making a decision." That's the effect. The expectation: "We really need the data. I want to meet tomorrow morning at 9 to discuss where you are with the project."
4) Acknowledge the other person and ask for input. Let the other person know you have some understanding of what he's going through. For example: "I know you're working on several important projects. Tell me what's on your plate. Then we'll need to set priorities and upgrade the importance of this project."
Listen and let go. Once you've engaged in the first four steps, you can be more objective and can let go of any existing anger, hurt feelings, or questionable assumptions.
2. Being Thoughtful
2-1. Think before you act.
If you are quick to anger, you may do something in the heat of the moment that you'll regret later on. Consider the consequences of what you are about to do. Don't react; respond.
Try to grab hold of your anger and examine it. Ask yourself what exactly is making you so angry. Ask yourself if you are overreacting.
Think through the consequences of your actions. If you react violently in this situation, will you burn any bridges? Will it negatively impact your relationships? Will you run the risk of being arrested, suspended, or otherwise punished for your actions.
2-2. Make a conscious effort not to hurt anyone.
It's easy to be rough with other people if you don't consider how your actions might make them feel. Be careful.
If you find yourself hurting people without intending to do so, try to understand what it was that hurt them so. Is this person sensitive to a particular word or label? Did I grab their arm too hard without thinking?
Consider treating others as if they are especially fragile, at least at first. Be as considerate as you can be without walking on eggshells.
2-3. Empathize.
Try to understand why someone is acting the way they're acting: try to figure out how they feel and what they are thinking. You may find it much harder to be angry once you understand where someone's coming from.
If you can't understand why someone is acting a certain way, just ask them. Tell them what you don't understand, and listen carefully to their response. They may be just as confused about what you are thinking.
Empathy is a two-way street. Try to be open about what you are thinking. Work to build a mutual understanding.
2-4. Accept the things that you cannot change.
Practice letting go. You may find that many of the things that stress you out are things over which you have absolutely no control.
Consider each source of stress. Can you fix it with force? Can you change it with kindness? Do you understand why it bothers you?
Let go of the things that make you angry--whether this is a toxic relationship, an awful job, or a grudge from the past. Commit to yourself that you will focus on the present and not on the past.
Practice letting go, for example, when you are interrupted in the middle of speaking. Take a deep breath. Do not let yourself lose your head over something that you will forget about in a week.
2-5. Change what you can.
You can change your own behavior, as well as how you react to things. For example, you can choose not to do things that trigger negative feelings in others. Additionally, you can work to overcome your own triggers.
Anger is useful for understanding your feelings about something. If you feel angry, look for the reason why. For example, if your job makes you angry, then it may be time for you to apply for a new position.
2-6. Take time to de-stress.
It's easy to become swept up in the day-to-day demands of work, school, relationships and family. Give yourself time to simply be yourself.
Get outside. Find a quiet space. Go for a walk or take a swim. Go to the movies. Get a massage or get your nails done. Do anything that allows you to forget your troubles for a while.
Consider leaving your phone behind. You may find it easier to leave the troubles of day-to-day life behind if you are not being constantly bombarded with texts, calls, and emails. Be present.
Reducing stress is fantastic for your health. If you're always stressed and often angry, you may be at risk for high blood pressure. Practice de-stressing, and you may live a longer, healthier life.
Avoid foods that make you feel more agitated or easily stressed. For example, caffeine can make you feel restless and antsy. Similarly, you may find that certain other foods stimulate you.
3. Rebuilding Trust
3-1. Try hard to be more gentle.
Actions speak louder than words. If you want to show the people in your life that you've turned over a new leaf, you will need to prove it by being especially careful.
Be patient. It takes time to build trust. Practice being as gentle as you want to be, and continually evaluate your actions. Am I being gentle? Am I being kind?
Do not expect anyone to forgive you. If people do forgive you for past violence, do not expect them to forget. You cannot change the past, but you can shape the future.
3-2. Tell your loved ones.
If you are trying to overcome your violent impulses and become a more gentle person, consider sharing this with the people in your life that have been hurt by your anger. Ask them to tell you when you step out of line.
In order to do this, you must be prepared to take constructive criticism. It may be a challenge to stay calm when someone asks you to curb your anger--few things are more infuriating than the phrase, "Calm down!" Bear in mind that your loved ones are only trying to help you help yourself.
3-3. Consider hiring an anger management coach.
Search for therapists and psychologists in your area that specialize in helping people deal with their anger. It can't hurt to try just one session.
Run a web search for "anger management coach" or "anger management classes". You can take these courses over the Internet. If you want to meet with someone face-to-face, search for "anger management coach" along with your city (e.g. "anger management coach san -francisco").
Enter with an open mind. No one can help you change unless you are prepared to help yourself. Work with the people in your life, not against them.
Research your anger management coach before you make a final decision. If you can find reviews online, read them. Try to get in touch with someone who has been to see this particular coach.
3-4. Join a support group.
Your support group can help you make positive changes in your life. You'll be able to share what you're going through and learn from others in your meeting. Look for a group that is run by a mental health professional, who can ensure that the group maintains a therapeutic environment.
Look for groups that meet in your area by checking online or with your local mental health clinics.
3-5. Embrace your emotions.
If you are acting in a rash, violent way, you are letting your negative emotions overwhelm you. Embrace your positive emotions and let them guide you through trying times.
It's okay to be vulnerable, and it's okay to cry. You can be strong and also keep in touch with your feelings.
Don't be afraid to vent. Find someone to talk to about your problems. You may find that an outlet of support makes it much easier to cope with your stress.
3-6. Stick to it.
Be gentle and be self-aware. If you get angry and do something rash, you may undo all of the work that you've done.
Continually evaluate whether your actions are gentle or violent. Do not let yourself forget the person that you used to be.
Eventually, with time and care, you can change your image: you can become a genuinely gentle person in the eyes of yourself and others. Practice leads to habit. Start today.
Warnings
Never resort to violence unless you are facing a genuine emergency. The consequences of your actions may not be worth the immediate gratification.
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Try to hug someone close enough that they feel your warmth, but not so close that they cannot breathe. Always be aware of how tightly you are squeezing.\\nWalk softly, but with power behind every step. You do not need to use all of your strength all of the time in order to prove that you possess it. There is strength in self-control.\\n1-4. Be patient.\\nIf you get into a disagreement with someone--or if you want someone to do something, but they aren't cooperating--be patient. Explain your reasoning and try to work out a compromise.\\nFighting--verbally or physically--will only inflame the situation. If you want to build a lasting peace, you must work to understand both sides of the argument. Do not be the first to react.\\nDo not try to force anyone to do something against their will. Respect their position. Practice the art of compromise.\\n1-5. Don't lash out.\\nWhen you get angry, count to ten. If you are still angry, keep counting. You may act rashly and violently when you let yourself become swept up in the flood of anger--but you can learn to control these impulses.\\nGive yourself time to cool down. You may find that are overreacting to a situation. There is almost always a solution that does not involve verbal or physical violence.\\n1-6. Take deep breaths.\\nIf you become angry, try to center yourself and calm yourself down before you do something rash. Breathe in through your nose, deeply, for as long as you can. Breathe out, slowly.\\nClose your eyes and focus on your breaths. Take the time to slow down your heart rate and balance yourself. Let the initial burst of anger fade into the background. Clear your mind.\\nConsider counting your breaths--like meditation. As you inhale, count slowly: 1... 2... 3... 4. As you exhale, count out the same increment of time. This will keep you focused upon the act of breathing.\\nConsider taking up meditation. 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Your friend may be able to calm you down and give you perspective on the situation.\\n1-8. Practice \\\"constructive confrontation\\\".\\nTherapist Mark Gorkin, LICSW, author of Practice Safe Stress: Healing and Laughing in the Face of Stress, Burnout & Depression, offers a five-step method for \\\"constructive confrontation\\\":\\n1) Use an \\\"I\\\" statement, question, or observation: \\\"I'm concerned,\\\" \\\"I'm confused,\\\" or \\\"I'm frustrated\\\" are good ways to begin your exchange.\\n2) Describe the problem specifically. Avoid judgmental accusations such as \\\"You never get your work in on time.\\\" Instead, be specific: \\\"I've asked you three times this week for the status of the systems report and I haven't received the report or any response. What's going on here?\\\"\\n3) Explain why you're upset. Talk about effects and expectations. 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Consider the consequences of what you are about to do. Don't react; respond.\\nTry to grab hold of your anger and examine it. Ask yourself what exactly is making you so angry. Ask yourself if you are overreacting.\\nThink through the consequences of your actions. If you react violently in this situation, will you burn any bridges? Will it negatively impact your relationships? Will you run the risk of being arrested, suspended, or otherwise punished for your actions.\\n2-2. Make a conscious effort not to hurt anyone.\\nIt's easy to be rough with other people if you don't consider how your actions might make them feel. Be careful.\\nIf you find yourself hurting people without intending to do so, try to understand what it was that hurt them so. Is this person sensitive to a particular word or label? Did I grab their arm too hard without thinking?\\nConsider treating others as if they are especially fragile, at least at first. Be as considerate as you can be without walking on eggshells.\\n2-3. Empathize.\\nTry to understand why someone is acting the way they're acting: try to figure out how they feel and what they are thinking. You may find it much harder to be angry once you understand where someone's coming from.\\nIf you can't understand why someone is acting a certain way, just ask them. Tell them what you don't understand, and listen carefully to their response. They may be just as confused about what you are thinking.\\nEmpathy is a two-way street. Try to be open about what you are thinking. Work to build a mutual understanding.\\n2-4. Accept the things that you cannot change.\\nPractice letting go. You may find that many of the things that stress you out are things over which you have absolutely no control.\\nConsider each source of stress. Can you fix it with force? Can you change it with kindness? 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Take time to de-stress.\\nIt's easy to become swept up in the day-to-day demands of work, school, relationships and family. Give yourself time to simply be yourself.\\nGet outside. Find a quiet space. Go for a walk or take a swim. Go to the movies. Get a massage or get your nails done. Do anything that allows you to forget your troubles for a while.\\nConsider leaving your phone behind. You may find it easier to leave the troubles of day-to-day life behind if you are not being constantly bombarded with texts, calls, and emails. Be present.\\nReducing stress is fantastic for your health. If you're always stressed and often angry, you may be at risk for high blood pressure. Practice de-stressing, and you may live a longer, healthier life.\\nAvoid foods that make you feel more agitated or easily stressed. For example, caffeine can make you feel restless and antsy. Similarly, you may find that certain other foods stimulate you.\\n3. Rebuilding Trust\\n3-1. Try hard to be more gentle.\\nActions speak louder than words. If you want to show the people in your life that you've turned over a new leaf, you will need to prove it by being especially careful.\\nBe patient. It takes time to build trust. Practice being as gentle as you want to be, and continually evaluate your actions. Am I being gentle? Am I being kind?\\nDo not expect anyone to forgive you. If people do forgive you for past violence, do not expect them to forget. You cannot change the past, but you can shape the future.\\n3-2. Tell your loved ones.\\nIf you are trying to overcome your violent impulses and become a more gentle person, consider sharing this with the people in your life that have been hurt by your anger. Ask them to tell you when you step out of line.\\nIn order to do this, you must be prepared to take constructive criticism. It may be a challenge to stay calm when someone asks you to curb your anger--few things are more infuriating than the phrase, \\\"Calm down!\\\" Bear in mind that your loved ones are only trying to help you help yourself.\\n3-3. Consider hiring an anger management coach.\\nSearch for therapists and psychologists in your area that specialize in helping people deal with their anger. It can't hurt to try just one session.\\nRun a web search for \\\"anger management coach\\\" or \\\"anger management classes\\\". You can take these courses over the Internet. If you want to meet with someone face-to-face, search for \\\"anger management coach\\\" along with your city (e.g. \\\"anger management coach san -francisco\\\").\\nEnter with an open mind. No one can help you change unless you are prepared to help yourself. Work with the people in your life, not against them.\\nResearch your anger management coach before you make a final decision. If you can find reviews online, read them. Try to get in touch with someone who has been to see this particular coach.\\n3-4. Join a support group.\\nYour support group can help you make positive changes in your life. You'll be able to share what you're going through and learn from others in your meeting. Look for a group that is run by a mental health professional, who can ensure that the group maintains a therapeutic environment.\\nLook for groups that meet in your area by checking online or with your local mental health clinics.\\n3-5. Embrace your emotions.\\nIf you are acting in a rash, violent way, you are letting your negative emotions overwhelm you. Embrace your positive emotions and let them guide you through trying times.\\nIt's okay to be vulnerable, and it's okay to cry. You can be strong and also keep in touch with your feelings.\\nDon't be afraid to vent. Find someone to talk to about your problems. You may find that an outlet of support makes it much easier to cope with your stress.\\n3-6. Stick to it.\\nBe gentle and be self-aware. If you get angry and do something rash, you may undo all of the work that you've done.\\nContinually evaluate whether your actions are gentle or violent. Do not let yourself forget the person that you used to be.\\nEventually, with time and care, you can change your image: you can become a genuinely gentle person in the eyes of yourself and others. Practice leads to habit. Start today.\\nWarnings\\nNever resort to violence unless you are facing a genuine emergency. The consequences of your actions may not be worth the immediate gratification.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"In the heat of the moment, it is easy to accidentally hurt someone. In order to be a gentle person, you must be careful and thoughtful. You must learn to channel your strength and control your impulses. Think before you act, rein in your anger, and always consider the consequences.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Exercising Restraint\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Know your strength and exercise caution.\", \"描述\": \"If you aren't careful, you may unwittingly hurt another person without intending to do so. Be especially cautious when interacting with fragile individuals--such as children, sick people, or very old people.\\nAlways err on the side of caution. Treat fragile people as though they might actually break. You do not need to be overprotective--just thoughtful.\\nIf you are picking up a small child, don't throw her in the air or swing her around. Hold her gently, with both of your arms, and be careful not to drop her. Be playful, but not careless.\\nIf you are trying to a get a child or other dependent to come with you, don't pull their arm or push them. Pulling a child's arm can bruise skin, dislocate a shoulder, and earn the mistrust of the child. Sternly but gently tell him or her to come.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Do not touch people who don't want to be touched.\", \"描述\": \"Physical intimacy is an important part of being human, but you should not violate anyone's personal space. Be respectful.\\nThis can include playful touching. Acts like tickling, poking, or holding can seriously bother a person if they aren't in the mood.\\nRespect consent. If someone asks you to stop: If you don't respect peoples' space, then they will distrust you.\\nIf you absolutely must touch someone who doesn't want to be touched (say, your child is throwing a tantrum, but you need to change his diaper): be as soothing and careful as possible. Do what you need to do, and then give the person their space.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Do not confuse gentleness with weakness.\", \"描述\": \"The strongest people are those who can interact with others--touch others, speak with others, love others--in a patient and caring way. Being gentle is being able to hold someone without crushing them.\\nThink of a hug. Try to hug someone close enough that they feel your warmth, but not so close that they cannot breathe. Always be aware of how tightly you are squeezing.\\nWalk softly, but with power behind every step. You do not need to use all of your strength all of the time in order to prove that you possess it. There is strength in self-control.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be patient.\", \"描述\": \"If you get into a disagreement with someone--or if you want someone to do something, but they aren't cooperating--be patient. Explain your reasoning and try to work out a compromise.\\nFighting--verbally or physically--will only inflame the situation. If you want to build a lasting peace, you must work to understand both sides of the argument. Do not be the first to react.\\nDo not try to force anyone to do something against their will. Respect their position. Practice the art of compromise.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Don't lash out.\", \"描述\": \"When you get angry, count to ten. If you are still angry, keep counting. You may act rashly and violently when you let yourself become swept up in the flood of anger--but you can learn to control these impulses.\\nGive yourself time to cool down. You may find that are overreacting to a situation. There is almost always a solution that does not involve verbal or physical violence.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Take deep breaths.\", \"描述\": \"If you become angry, try to center yourself and calm yourself down before you do something rash. Breathe in through your nose, deeply, for as long as you can. Breathe out, slowly.\\nClose your eyes and focus on your breaths. Take the time to slow down your heart rate and balance yourself. Let the initial burst of anger fade into the background. Clear your mind.\\nConsider counting your breaths--like meditation. As you inhale, count slowly: 1... 2... 3... 4. As you exhale, count out the same increment of time. This will keep you focused upon the act of breathing.\\nConsider taking up meditation. This is a great way to center your thoughts, practice mindfulness, and control your emotions. Search for tutorials online, and consider attending a guided meditation session. You can also use free apps like Insight Meditation, Calm, or Headspace for unguided or guided meditations.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Walk away.\", \"描述\": \"If you can't calm yourself down and focus your energy, then you may need to walk away from the situation. Take a few moments alone to reflect upon why you are so upset.\\nExcuse yourself simply and gracefully. Ask whoever is making you angry, \\\"Can we discuss this later?\\\" or \\\"I need to think about this. Can I get back to you on that?\\\"\\nConsider going somewhere that you can be alone. If you have a favorite spot--a shady tree, a beautiful vista, a dark and quiet room--go there. Surround yourself with calm.\\nConsider finding a wise, balanced person to whom you can vent. Find a friend, or call someone, and tell them what's making you so upset. Your friend may be able to calm you down and give you perspective on the situation.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Practice \\\"constructive confrontation\\\".\", \"描述\": \"Therapist Mark Gorkin, LICSW, author of Practice Safe Stress: Healing and Laughing in the Face of Stress, Burnout & Depression, offers a five-step method for \\\"constructive confrontation\\\":\\n1) Use an \\\"I\\\" statement, question, or observation: \\\"I'm concerned,\\\" \\\"I'm confused,\\\" or \\\"I'm frustrated\\\" are good ways to begin your exchange.\\n2) Describe the problem specifically. Avoid judgmental accusations such as \\\"You never get your work in on time.\\\" Instead, be specific: \\\"I've asked you three times this week for the status of the systems report and I haven't received the report or any response. What's going on here?\\\"\\n3) Explain why you're upset. Talk about effects and expectations. For example: \\\"Because I didn't receive the report on time, I wasn't able to present it at the meeting and we had to postpone making a decision.\\\" That's the effect. The expectation: \\\"We really need the data. I want to meet tomorrow morning at 9 to discuss where you are with the project.\\\"\\n4) Acknowledge the other person and ask for input. Let the other person know you have some understanding of what he's going through. For example: \\\"I know you're working on several important projects. Tell me what's on your plate. Then we'll need to set priorities and upgrade the importance of this project.\\\"\\nListen and let go. Once you've engaged in the first four steps, you can be more objective and can let go of any existing anger, hurt feelings, or questionable assumptions.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Being Thoughtful\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Think before you act.\", \"描述\": \"If you are quick to anger, you may do something in the heat of the moment that you'll regret later on. Consider the consequences of what you are about to do. Don't react; respond.\\nTry to grab hold of your anger and examine it. Ask yourself what exactly is making you so angry. Ask yourself if you are overreacting.\\nThink through the consequences of your actions. If you react violently in this situation, will you burn any bridges? Will it negatively impact your relationships? Will you run the risk of being arrested, suspended, or otherwise punished for your actions.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make a conscious effort not to hurt anyone.\", \"描述\": \"It's easy to be rough with other people if you don't consider how your actions might make them feel. Be careful.\\nIf you find yourself hurting people without intending to do so, try to understand what it was that hurt them so. Is this person sensitive to a particular word or label? Did I grab their arm too hard without thinking?\\nConsider treating others as if they are especially fragile, at least at first. Be as considerate as you can be without walking on eggshells.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Empathize.\", \"描述\": \"Try to understand why someone is acting the way they're acting: try to figure out how they feel and what they are thinking. You may find it much harder to be angry once you understand where someone's coming from.\\nIf you can't understand why someone is acting a certain way, just ask them. Tell them what you don't understand, and listen carefully to their response. They may be just as confused about what you are thinking.\\nEmpathy is a two-way street. Try to be open about what you are thinking. Work to build a mutual understanding.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Accept the things that you cannot change.\", \"描述\": \"Practice letting go. You may find that many of the things that stress you out are things over which you have absolutely no control.\\nConsider each source of stress. Can you fix it with force? Can you change it with kindness? Do you understand why it bothers you?\\nLet go of the things that make you angry--whether this is a toxic relationship, an awful job, or a grudge from the past. Commit to yourself that you will focus on the present and not on the past.\\nPractice letting go, for example, when you are interrupted in the middle of speaking. Take a deep breath. Do not let yourself lose your head over something that you will forget about in a week.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Change what you can.\", \"描述\": \"You can change your own behavior, as well as how you react to things. For example, you can choose not to do things that trigger negative feelings in others. Additionally, you can work to overcome your own triggers.\\nAnger is useful for understanding your feelings about something. If you feel angry, look for the reason why. For example, if your job makes you angry, then it may be time for you to apply for a new position.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Take time to de-stress.\", \"描述\": \"It's easy to become swept up in the day-to-day demands of work, school, relationships and family. Give yourself time to simply be yourself.\\nGet outside. Find a quiet space. Go for a walk or take a swim. Go to the movies. Get a massage or get your nails done. Do anything that allows you to forget your troubles for a while.\\nConsider leaving your phone behind. You may find it easier to leave the troubles of day-to-day life behind if you are not being constantly bombarded with texts, calls, and emails. Be present.\\nReducing stress is fantastic for your health. If you're always stressed and often angry, you may be at risk for high blood pressure. Practice de-stressing, and you may live a longer, healthier life.\\nAvoid foods that make you feel more agitated or easily stressed. For example, caffeine can make you feel restless and antsy. Similarly, you may find that certain other foods stimulate you.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Rebuilding Trust\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Try hard to be more gentle.\", \"描述\": \"Actions speak louder than words. If you want to show the people in your life that you've turned over a new leaf, you will need to prove it by being especially careful.\\nBe patient. It takes time to build trust. Practice being as gentle as you want to be, and continually evaluate your actions. Am I being gentle? Am I being kind?\\nDo not expect anyone to forgive you. If people do forgive you for past violence, do not expect them to forget. You cannot change the past, but you can shape the future.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Tell your loved ones.\", \"描述\": \"If you are trying to overcome your violent impulses and become a more gentle person, consider sharing this with the people in your life that have been hurt by your anger. Ask them to tell you when you step out of line.\\nIn order to do this, you must be prepared to take constructive criticism. It may be a challenge to stay calm when someone asks you to curb your anger--few things are more infuriating than the phrase, \\\"Calm down!\\\" Bear in mind that your loved ones are only trying to help you help yourself.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Consider hiring an anger management coach.\", \"描述\": \"Search for therapists and psychologists in your area that specialize in helping people deal with their anger. It can't hurt to try just one session.\\nRun a web search for \\\"anger management coach\\\" or \\\"anger management classes\\\". You can take these courses over the Internet. If you want to meet with someone face-to-face, search for \\\"anger management coach\\\" along with your city (e.g. \\\"anger management coach san -francisco\\\").\\nEnter with an open mind. No one can help you change unless you are prepared to help yourself. Work with the people in your life, not against them.\\nResearch your anger management coach before you make a final decision. If you can find reviews online, read them. Try to get in touch with someone who has been to see this particular coach.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Join a support group.\", \"描述\": \"Your support group can help you make positive changes in your life. You'll be able to share what you're going through and learn from others in your meeting. Look for a group that is run by a mental health professional, who can ensure that the group maintains a therapeutic environment.\\nLook for groups that meet in your area by checking online or with your local mental health clinics.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Embrace your emotions.\", \"描述\": \"If you are acting in a rash, violent way, you are letting your negative emotions overwhelm you. Embrace your positive emotions and let them guide you through trying times.\\nIt's okay to be vulnerable, and it's okay to cry. You can be strong and also keep in touch with your feelings.\\nDon't be afraid to vent. Find someone to talk to about your problems. You may find that an outlet of support makes it much easier to cope with your stress.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Stick to it.\", \"描述\": \"Be gentle and be self-aware. If you get angry and do something rash, you may undo all of the work that you've done.\\nContinually evaluate whether your actions are gentle or violent. Do not let yourself forget the person that you used to be.\\nEventually, with time and care, you can change your image: you can become a genuinely gentle person in the eyes of yourself and others. Practice leads to habit. Start today.\"}], \"注意事项\": [\"Never resort to violence unless you are facing a genuine emergency. The consequences of your actions may not be worth the immediate gratification.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Being Presentable
1-1. Maintain proper hygiene.
A gentleman looks and smells pleasant when out in public. It is one thing to sweat while working out, but not while out and about. Take regular care of your body and that you look polished and clean before you step out.
Make sure to bathe regularly.
When applying deodorant or cologne, be sparing. An overpowering odor--even of cologne or body spray--is not pleasant, and can be offensive.
Use of hair product is fine, but be careful of hair gel. This product can be sticky and get rock hard after a while, making your hair look stiff. You can also inadvertently come off as "greasy".
If you don’t smell clean and fresh, then it doesn’t really matter how charming you are or how your clothes look. It’s important to get the hygiene down so people don’t get distracted by an unpleasant odor or appearance.
Wash your hands after you use the bathroom. A gentleman cares for himself and others by preventing spread of disease. Also, other men in the washroom will notice if you bypass the sinks.
1-2. Wear flattering clothes.
Wear clothes that fit your body well, eliminate flashy clothing and avoid fashion "faux pas" (e.g. baseball hats cocked slightly to the side). A simpler wardrobe will keep the emphasis on you, not your clothes, which will change your appearance. Keep it simple, and you’ll look elegant and gentlemanly.
Stick to subdued blacks, grays, blues and browns. A gentleman can actually wear any color in moderation, ( Can also wear jacket and jeans.) but the classic colors for men are not bright.
Choose classic clothing for men. Examples include suits, oxford-style shirts, khaki pants, Jacket, Jeans.
Wear athletic clothes only for workouts or athletics. A gentleman will not wear his suit while hiking through the Alps, or practicing for his black belt, or playing tennis. But he will avoid wearing his tennis clothes unless he is going to, from, or playing tennis.
What is considered "flashy" will vary from culture to culture, and situation. A white linen suit and pink shirt may be fashionable on a tropical island, but be regarded as quite flashy at a corporate board meeting in England.
It’s very important to wear pants that fit you. Make sure to hold your pants up with a nice simple belt to show that you’ve really put a lot of thought into your look.
The next time you need a suit, make sure you get measured for one instead of picking one out yourself. A true gentleman makes an effort with his appearance and goes the extra mile to wear well-fitting clothes. Wearing a suit that actually fits you instead of one that is one, two or even three sizes too big, will also help show that you put a lot of thought into your look.
Always make sure your shoes are clean. Some people say that shoes are the first thing a lady notices when talking to a man. A quick (but effective) brush can make a world of difference. Most importantly, clean shoes show that take into consideration the people who will have to look at them once you leave your home.
It’s also important to wear the right clothes for the occasion. Try to stick to appropriate dress codes, whether wearing business casual clothes for work, or to wear formal wear for a wedding. And keep in mind that it’s better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed.
1-3. Groom yourself well.
To be a true gentleman, you have to make sure your hair is regularly combed and that you either make a point of shaving your facial hair or that you maintain a nice, solid beard. Avoid the stubble and go for a nice clean shave every morning, or you will look sloppy. Keep a comb handy so you can run it through your hair (in private) if your hair gets windswept or loses volume after a long day.
Even having clean nails makes a difference. Clean under your fingernails and trim them every day or two to make sure your hands have a neat appearance.
Trim any protruding nose hairs to maintain a groomed look.
1-4. Have a firm handshake.
A true gentleman knows how to give a true handshake. Whether you’re meeting your future boss, your girlfriend’s dad, or your sister’s boyfriend, you should make sure to look the person in the eye, grip his or her hand firmly, and show that you mean business. Don’t grip too hard to show off, but give a firm grip to show that you care enough to make an impression. This shows that you’re a gentleman who takes the time to acknowledge new people.
If a new person that you don’t know walks into the room and you’re being introduced, give him or her the courtesy to stand before giving him or her a handshake.
1-5. Avoid any offensive actions in public.
If you’re in public, then you should avoid farting, belching, speaking too loudly, being overly demanding, grabbing your crotch, or getting too drunk. A gentleman is always in control of himself, body and mind. If you do lose control, however, it’s important to apologize instead of acting like nothing happened.
Remember that a true gentleman is a person who can go out in public without making a scene or embarrassing himself.
Self-awareness is a key part of being a gentleman. Always consider how others may perceive you, and be aware of how your actions may be considered offensive.
2. Being Polite
2-1. Help the people around you.
Always be aware of how you can help people. Wait an extra few seconds to hold the door for the person behind you. Offer to help people get their grocery bags to the car. You don't have to go overboard and risk hurting yourself (e.g. if you've got a precarious grip on something heavy, don't open the door for someone) but respect is paramount. True gentlemen don’t only focus on the women they like and ignore everyone else; being a gentleman is a way of approaching the world and all of the people in it, not just the ones you’d like to date.
Be on the lookout for people who could use some help but who may not want to ask for it. The man carrying a tray of coffee would love it if you opened the door for him, but he may not ask.
2-2. Make polite conversation.
Be prepared to ask questions or make statements of courtesy, like "How was your day", "May I help you?", "Let me get that for you", or "I'll take care of that". Learn to speak slowly and carefully and to take the time to really talk to people in a polite fashion, no matter how rushed you may be. Whether you’re talking to your neighbor or the cute girl in your physics class, make an effort to smile, to be friendly, and to make interesting small talk about how your day is going. A gentleman doesn’t cut right to the chase, but takes his time getting to know people.
Being able to make conversation is a sign of class and maturity, which are two important aspects of being a gentleman.
Maintaining eye contact and smiling are great ways to be polite during a conversation.
2-3. Avoid cursing at all costs.
Don't swear. Don't be vulgar. If it's too difficult to stop cursing all together, tone it down a lot. It’s just not gentlemanly to curse. If you do curse, you should apologize and try to keep the behavior from happening in the future. If you’re in a situation where you tend to curse more often, such as watching sports or driving in traffic, take extra care to watch yourself so you still come off as a perfect gentleman.
Along with cursing, you should avoid any lewd or vulgar comments in general. And remember that what’s funny to you and your buddies behind closed doors may not always be appropriate for a girl you’re courting.
2-4. Don't talk about yourself too much.
You can tell people enough to let them know a little bit about you, at first, but you should wait to really reveal every last thing about yourself. In addition to making you a much more desirable conversationalist, it will make you seem more mysterious to not share too much, which many women find attractive. Get a basic idea of what's going on in music, sports, and politics so you can sound intelligent when you make conversation. Be sure about subjects you state are important to you by making the effort to stay up-to-date on them.
Instead, focus on asking people questions about their interests, hobbies, and plans. Let them know that you’re more interested in them than yourself.
2-5. Avoid bringing up controversial or uncomfortable topics.
Learn to avoid politics until you know someone better, and learn how to be neutral if someone else brings it up. A simple shrug will do wonders. A gentleman doesn't make other people uncomfortable. Be focused more on being agreeable and making people feel comfortable than in proving that you’re right and that the other person’s opinions are worthless. You don’t need to show someone up to impress women; what’s far more impressive, in fact, will be your ability to get along with people.
Always remember to know your audience. What might be funny to your buddies from college might not fly with your mother-in-law. Be sensitive to the needs and interests to others.
2-6. Treat everyone with respect.
Being a gentleman doesn’t just mean being polite and courteous to women; it means being respectful to other men, to the elderly, and even to children. A true gentleman shouldn’t be able to turn his charm on and off, and he should be kind and respectful to absolutely everyone who deserves it. Respect a person’s space by not standing too close when you talk to him or her. Respect a person’s privacy by not peering over his or her shoulder or asking too many personal questions. The key is to make people feel comfortable and good about themselves, not like they’re being mistreated.
Say hello to people when you walk by them, ask how they’re doing, and know when they want to be left alone.
Avoid speaking too loudly or making too much of a racket in public or even in your home, out of respect for your neighbors. It’s not respectful to act like you’re the only person on the planet.
Make sure to chew your food with your mouth closed, with respect to your dinner partners.
2-7. Avoid physical altercations.
There may be some situations that justifies physical confrontation, but it should be in self-defense or the defense of others. However, those situations should be rare indeed.
Remember: a "gentle-man" literally means not being a person who resorts to physical violence as a solution.
It is wiser to walk away from a situation, or call the police when appropriate.
Self-defense techniques (such as martial arts) always stress using physicality as an absolute last resort.
3. Being Courteous to Women
3-1. Treat women with respect.
The worst thing you can do to a woman is look her up and down like she’s a piece of meat. Women are human beings with their own thoughts, hopes, and goals, and you should never ogle them and treat them like they’re only there to serve as a feast for your eyes. When you meet a new woman, ask her name and get to know her for real, instead of just staring at her like you’re undressing her with your mind.
Gentlemen understand that women are to be treated with respect. They don’t talk to them with cheesy pick-up lines and prefer some tasteful, lighthearted flirting instead.
3-2. Be respectful in your actions.
Open car or building doors, pull out chairs. Each woman is different, and you should see which gentlemanly gestures she’s comfortable with. For example, it may be gentlemanly to give a woman your coat if she’s cold, but if she tells you that she's fine, don't insist.
3-3. Walk on the side closer to the traffic when you’re walking down a street with a woman.
This is an old-fashioned gentlemanly action that is done so that you “protect” the woman from the street as you’re walking. You can take it or leave it, but you should be aware of it. See how the woman reacts when you try it and use that to determine whether she finds the gesture sweet or dated.
3-4. Avoid discussing topics that are probably not of interest to her.
If you bring up a subject and she doesn't seem interested, move on to something else.
3-5. Don’t talk down to women.
It's okay to tease them, but being cruel is not the way to go. Teasing does not mean calling them vulgar words, however. No matter how joking your tone is, it hurts a woman when a so-called "gentleman" calls them a dirty word. Also, don’t ever, ever act like you know more than a woman about something just because you’re a man because you think that you can really “teach” her something.
One sign of a fake gentleman is a man who is nice to a woman who starts talking down to her the second he realizes she doesn’t view him romantically. To be a true gentleman, you should accept the idea that not every woman in the world will fall for you and still treat them with kindness, no matter what they want or don’t want.
Never use the flirting technique known as "negging". This involves the use of low-grade insults or backhanded compliments; a tactic originating in the culture of Pick-Up-Artists. It operates on the philosophy of deflating women's egos so as to avoid pedestalling them, thus making the man appear more blase and less desperate to supplicate to women. This is a very cynical mentality and no intelligent, mature, or classy women will find this acceptable. You will be regarded as a thug, pimp, hustler, or "player" rather than a gentleman.
3-6. Be respectful to women as you part ways in the evenings.
Offer to walk her to her door (or car) if at all possible. If your girl has to park far away from her dorm or home, always offer to drive her to and from your destination. At the same time, you don’t want to overstep your bounds by making a girl feel like she can’t go out by herself.
It goes without saying that, if a girl has come over your place, you should not just stay on the couch and say “see ya” as she leaves. Make the effort to at least walk her to the door or to her car, whatever the case may be.
3-7. Use caution around old traditions.
It can be tricky to know exactly which courteous traditions to follow and which ones to forgo. What is appropriate in the place and era of "Downton Abbey" may or may not be right today in your circumstances. In general, just be sensitive to a lady's modern independent sensibility, and if she looks uncomfortable with your actions, back off a little. Here are some other traditions that were formerly seen as gentlemanly, which are beginning to lose steam:
Reaching for a check at a restaurant.
Helping her with her coat.
Standing when a woman enters the room.
Offering a woman your seat.
4. Being a Gentleman to Your Girlfriend
4-1. Be selfless.
Remember to keep doing nice things for your girlfriend when you're around her. If she's carrying something, pick it up when she puts it down and always kindly let her know you want to help by saying "oh, let me get that for you", whatever the object is. Remember, being selfish is not attractive. If you are watching television with your girl and you know she likes a particular show or sporting event, leave it there. She will appreciate that little bit of selflessness more than you know.
That said, you don’t want to make the girl feel helpless, or like you should do everything for her, either. Take note — if she seems annoyed when you try to carry things for her or help her out, then you may want to back off and give her help when she really needs it, not just symbolically.
4-2. Give her unexpected gifts.
It can be nice to show up with a card or a flower, and not just for holidays. Expensive and showy doesn't matter; it's the effort. In fact, a rose, a little love note left on her pillow, the gift of a book she’s been wanting to read, or a heartfelt kiss will keep any girl happy for days. These little gifts will make her see that she’s on your mind even when she’s not around and that you’ve taken the effort to get her something.
Though candy and flowers are nice, personalized gifts are even nicer. Two tickets to a play she’s been wanting to see, a souvenir with her name on it from a place you had to visit without her, or a poster that made you think of her, really show that you’re thinking about her, not just some romanticized version of what any girl could be.
4-3. Give her lots of affection.
If you really like your girlfriend, let her know it through loving touches. If you’re in public, hold her hand or put your arm around her shoulder, or give her a peck on the cheek when you want to. When you’re alone, you can be a bit more intimate, by kissing her on the neck, or caressing her back or thighs, as long as these advances are wanted. To be a real gentleman, you should move slowly, and wait until the girl is ready before you try anything beyond kissing.
True gentlemen are proud to be seen with their girlfriends and give them lots of affection, even if their friends are around. Don’t stop holding your girlfriend’s hand when your buddies are around; that said, it’s not very gentlemanly to try to make out with your girlfriend in public, either.
4-4. Stand up for your girl.
Don't go around punching everyone who looks at her sideways, but if anyone is giving her looks or unwanted advances, intervene. Put your arm around her shoulder and move yourselves away, or go to her and speak up for her. The physical contact reassures her and lets the aggressor know that he's got to deal with both of you. It’s not gentlemanly to let other men make advances toward your girl or to make lewd comments about her.
You should not threaten to beat the guy up or call him names. Instead, take the high road and find a classy way to tell him to back off.
4-5. Don’t say anything negative about her to your friends.
If you really want to be a true gentleman, then you should never say anything negative about the girl you’re dating to your friends. You may think it’s cool to complain about your girlfriend or to act like you’re really not into her, but this is incredibly lame and disrespectful behavior that will get back to your girlfriend and make you look pathetic. The only time you talk about your girlfriend to your friends is to praise her or to genuinely ask for their advice in a given situation.
The key to being a gentleman is to have respect for all people. There’s nothing more disrespectful than airing you and your girlfriend’s dirty laundry just to get some laughs.
4-6. Don’t reveal too much about her to your friends, either.
Another thing you should avoid if you want to be a gentleman is to tell your friends about your latest sexual progress with the girl you’re dating. It’s just not gentlemanly to talk about finally having sex with the girl you’re dating, what she’s like in bed, or even what kind of a kisser she is. This kind of thing is meant to stay between the two of you, and telling your friends what happened — or didn’t happen — between the sheets is about the worst thing you can do to a girl.
Whether you’re dating the girl or just have gone on a few dates with her, you should really keep your bedroom habits to yourself. If she finds out, she’ll be furious, and you’ll have a reputation of kissing-and-telling.
4-7. Don’t make her do anything she’s not comfortable with.
A true gentleman recognizes a woman’s limits and respects them. If the girl you’re dating or seeing isn’t ready to sleep with you — or does not want to come even close before marriage or a serious commitment — then you should respect this decision instead of putting pressure on her to do more. Having sex or getting more intimate may not seem like a big deal to you, but every woman has her own limits and her own ideas of what she wants to do with her body. Don’t ever make her do more than she wants to do, and don’t ever, ever make her feel bad for sticking to her guns.
A true gentleman lets the woman make the calls of how far she wants to go and never makes her feel guilty or bad for not doing what he wants. He takes the time to listen to a woman and has the patience to wait for the one who is worth it.
Tips
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Tami ClaytorEtiquette Coach
Expert Interview. 20 May 2021.
Basic hygiene and a clean appearance is important, but a gentleman should not be obsessed with his looks.
Don't be selfish to others. Try to do random acts of kindness.
Warnings
When you disagree on an issue, but decide to yield, drop it and don't bring it up again.
Gentlemen have dignity and honor by their sides, yet they are humble and thoughtful. You're not better than anyone else just because you're doing this. Don't think it, don't act like it.
A gentleman can recognize it when he loses a fight. Know the difference between standing up for yourself and being a fool.
While being helpful is nice, don't be overbearing.
Never use drugs or drink alcohol to excess. They will impair your judgement, and a true gentleman is in control of himself at all times.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Being Presentable\\n1-1. Maintain proper hygiene.\\nA gentleman looks and smells pleasant when out in public. It is one thing to sweat while working out, but not while out and about. Take regular care of your body and that you look polished and clean before you step out.\\nMake sure to bathe regularly.\\nWhen applying deodorant or cologne, be sparing. An overpowering odor--even of cologne or body spray--is not pleasant, and can be offensive.\\nUse of hair product is fine, but be careful of hair gel. This product can be sticky and get rock hard after a while, making your hair look stiff. You can also inadvertently come off as \\\"greasy\\\". \\nIf you don’t smell clean and fresh, then it doesn’t really matter how charming you are or how your clothes look. It’s important to get the hygiene down so people don’t get distracted by an unpleasant odor or appearance.\\nWash your hands after you use the bathroom. A gentleman cares for himself and others by preventing spread of disease. Also, other men in the washroom will notice if you bypass the sinks.\\n1-2. Wear flattering clothes.\\nWear clothes that fit your body well, eliminate flashy clothing and avoid fashion \\\"faux pas\\\" (e.g. baseball hats cocked slightly to the side). A simpler wardrobe will keep the emphasis on you, not your clothes, which will change your appearance. Keep it simple, and you’ll look elegant and gentlemanly.\\nStick to subdued blacks, grays, blues and browns. A gentleman can actually wear any color in moderation, ( Can also wear jacket and jeans.) but the classic colors for men are not bright.\\nChoose classic clothing for men. Examples include suits, oxford-style shirts, khaki pants, Jacket, Jeans.\\nWear athletic clothes only for workouts or athletics. A gentleman will not wear his suit while hiking through the Alps, or practicing for his black belt, or playing tennis. But he will avoid wearing his tennis clothes unless he is going to, from, or playing tennis.\\nWhat is considered \\\"flashy\\\" will vary from culture to culture, and situation. A white linen suit and pink shirt may be fashionable on a tropical island, but be regarded as quite flashy at a corporate board meeting in England.\\nIt’s very important to wear pants that fit you. Make sure to hold your pants up with a nice simple belt to show that you’ve really put a lot of thought into your look.\\nThe next time you need a suit, make sure you get measured for one instead of picking one out yourself. A true gentleman makes an effort with his appearance and goes the extra mile to wear well-fitting clothes. Wearing a suit that actually fits you instead of one that is one, two or even three sizes too big, will also help show that you put a lot of thought into your look.\\nAlways make sure your shoes are clean. Some people say that shoes are the first thing a lady notices when talking to a man. A quick (but effective) brush can make a world of difference. Most importantly, clean shoes show that take into consideration the people who will have to look at them once you leave your home.\\nIt’s also important to wear the right clothes for the occasion. Try to stick to appropriate dress codes, whether wearing business casual clothes for work, or to wear formal wear for a wedding. And keep in mind that it’s better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed.\\n1-3. Groom yourself well.\\nTo be a true gentleman, you have to make sure your hair is regularly combed and that you either make a point of shaving your facial hair or that you maintain a nice, solid beard. Avoid the stubble and go for a nice clean shave every morning, or you will look sloppy. Keep a comb handy so you can run it through your hair (in private) if your hair gets windswept or loses volume after a long day.\\nEven having clean nails makes a difference. Clean under your fingernails and trim them every day or two to make sure your hands have a neat appearance.\\nTrim any protruding nose hairs to maintain a groomed look.\\n1-4. Have a firm handshake.\\nA true gentleman knows how to give a true handshake. Whether you’re meeting your future boss, your girlfriend’s dad, or your sister’s boyfriend, you should make sure to look the person in the eye, grip his or her hand firmly, and show that you mean business. Don’t grip too hard to show off, but give a firm grip to show that you care enough to make an impression. This shows that you’re a gentleman who takes the time to acknowledge new people.\\nIf a new person that you don’t know walks into the room and you’re being introduced, give him or her the courtesy to stand before giving him or her a handshake.\\n1-5. Avoid any offensive actions in public.\\nIf you’re in public, then you should avoid farting, belching, speaking too loudly, being overly demanding, grabbing your crotch, or getting too drunk. A gentleman is always in control of himself, body and mind. If you do lose control, however, it’s important to apologize instead of acting like nothing happened.\\nRemember that a true gentleman is a person who can go out in public without making a scene or embarrassing himself.\\nSelf-awareness is a key part of being a gentleman. Always consider how others may perceive you, and be aware of how your actions may be considered offensive.\\n2. Being Polite\\n2-1. Help the people around you.\\nAlways be aware of how you can help people. Wait an extra few seconds to hold the door for the person behind you. Offer to help people get their grocery bags to the car. You don't have to go overboard and risk hurting yourself (e.g. if you've got a precarious grip on something heavy, don't open the door for someone) but respect is paramount. True gentlemen don’t only focus on the women they like and ignore everyone else; being a gentleman is a way of approaching the world and all of the people in it, not just the ones you’d like to date.\\nBe on the lookout for people who could use some help but who may not want to ask for it. The man carrying a tray of coffee would love it if you opened the door for him, but he may not ask.\\n2-2. Make polite conversation.\\nBe prepared to ask questions or make statements of courtesy, like \\\"How was your day\\\", \\\"May I help you?\\\", \\\"Let me get that for you\\\", or \\\"I'll take care of that\\\". Learn to speak slowly and carefully and to take the time to really talk to people in a polite fashion, no matter how rushed you may be. Whether you’re talking to your neighbor or the cute girl in your physics class, make an effort to smile, to be friendly, and to make interesting small talk about how your day is going. A gentleman doesn’t cut right to the chase, but takes his time getting to know people.\\nBeing able to make conversation is a sign of class and maturity, which are two important aspects of being a gentleman.\\nMaintaining eye contact and smiling are great ways to be polite during a conversation.\\n2-3. Avoid cursing at all costs.\\nDon't swear. Don't be vulgar. If it's too difficult to stop cursing all together, tone it down a lot. It’s just not gentlemanly to curse. If you do curse, you should apologize and try to keep the behavior from happening in the future. If you’re in a situation where you tend to curse more often, such as watching sports or driving in traffic, take extra care to watch yourself so you still come off as a perfect gentleman.\\nAlong with cursing, you should avoid any lewd or vulgar comments in general. And remember that what’s funny to you and your buddies behind closed doors may not always be appropriate for a girl you’re courting.\\n2-4. Don't talk about yourself too much.\\nYou can tell people enough to let them know a little bit about you, at first, but you should wait to really reveal every last thing about yourself. In addition to making you a much more desirable conversationalist, it will make you seem more mysterious to not share too much, which many women find attractive. Get a basic idea of what's going on in music, sports, and politics so you can sound intelligent when you make conversation. Be sure about subjects you state are important to you by making the effort to stay up-to-date on them.\\nInstead, focus on asking people questions about their interests, hobbies, and plans. Let them know that you’re more interested in them than yourself.\\n2-5. Avoid bringing up controversial or uncomfortable topics.\\nLearn to avoid politics until you know someone better, and learn how to be neutral if someone else brings it up. A simple shrug will do wonders. A gentleman doesn't make other people uncomfortable. Be focused more on being agreeable and making people feel comfortable than in proving that you’re right and that the other person’s opinions are worthless. You don’t need to show someone up to impress women; what’s far more impressive, in fact, will be your ability to get along with people.\\nAlways remember to know your audience. What might be funny to your buddies from college might not fly with your mother-in-law. Be sensitive to the needs and interests to others.\\n2-6. Treat everyone with respect.\\nBeing a gentleman doesn’t just mean being polite and courteous to women; it means being respectful to other men, to the elderly, and even to children. A true gentleman shouldn’t be able to turn his charm on and off, and he should be kind and respectful to absolutely everyone who deserves it. Respect a person’s space by not standing too close when you talk to him or her. Respect a person’s privacy by not peering over his or her shoulder or asking too many personal questions. The key is to make people feel comfortable and good about themselves, not like they’re being mistreated.\\nSay hello to people when you walk by them, ask how they’re doing, and know when they want to be left alone.\\nAvoid speaking too loudly or making too much of a racket in public or even in your home, out of respect for your neighbors. It’s not respectful to act like you’re the only person on the planet.\\nMake sure to chew your food with your mouth closed, with respect to your dinner partners.\\n2-7. Avoid physical altercations.\\nThere may be some situations that justifies physical confrontation, but it should be in self-defense or the defense of others. However, those situations should be rare indeed.\\nRemember: a \\\"gentle-man\\\" literally means not being a person who resorts to physical violence as a solution.\\nIt is wiser to walk away from a situation, or call the police when appropriate.\\nSelf-defense techniques (such as martial arts) always stress using physicality as an absolute last resort.\\n3. Being Courteous to Women\\n3-1. Treat women with respect.\\nThe worst thing you can do to a woman is look her up and down like she’s a piece of meat. Women are human beings with their own thoughts, hopes, and goals, and you should never ogle them and treat them like they’re only there to serve as a feast for your eyes. When you meet a new woman, ask her name and get to know her for real, instead of just staring at her like you’re undressing her with your mind.\\nGentlemen understand that women are to be treated with respect. They don’t talk to them with cheesy pick-up lines and prefer some tasteful, lighthearted flirting instead.\\n3-2. Be respectful in your actions.\\nOpen car or building doors, pull out chairs. Each woman is different, and you should see which gentlemanly gestures she’s comfortable with. For example, it may be gentlemanly to give a woman your coat if she’s cold, but if she tells you that she's fine, don't insist.\\n3-3. Walk on the side closer to the traffic when you’re walking down a street with a woman.\\nThis is an old-fashioned gentlemanly action that is done so that you “protect” the woman from the street as you’re walking. You can take it or leave it, but you should be aware of it. See how the woman reacts when you try it and use that to determine whether she finds the gesture sweet or dated.\\n3-4. Avoid discussing topics that are probably not of interest to her.\\nIf you bring up a subject and she doesn't seem interested, move on to something else.\\n3-5. Don’t talk down to women.\\nIt's okay to tease them, but being cruel is not the way to go. Teasing does not mean calling them vulgar words, however. No matter how joking your tone is, it hurts a woman when a so-called \\\"gentleman\\\" calls them a dirty word. Also, don’t ever, ever act like you know more than a woman about something just because you’re a man because you think that you can really “teach” her something.\\nOne sign of a fake gentleman is a man who is nice to a woman who starts talking down to her the second he realizes she doesn’t view him romantically. To be a true gentleman, you should accept the idea that not every woman in the world will fall for you and still treat them with kindness, no matter what they want or don’t want.\\nNever use the flirting technique known as \\\"negging\\\". This involves the use of low-grade insults or backhanded compliments; a tactic originating in the culture of Pick-Up-Artists. It operates on the philosophy of deflating women's egos so as to avoid pedestalling them, thus making the man appear more blase and less desperate to supplicate to women. This is a very cynical mentality and no intelligent, mature, or classy women will find this acceptable. You will be regarded as a thug, pimp, hustler, or \\\"player\\\" rather than a gentleman.\\n3-6. Be respectful to women as you part ways in the evenings.\\nOffer to walk her to her door (or car) if at all possible. If your girl has to park far away from her dorm or home, always offer to drive her to and from your destination. At the same time, you don’t want to overstep your bounds by making a girl feel like she can’t go out by herself.\\nIt goes without saying that, if a girl has come over your place, you should not just stay on the couch and say “see ya” as she leaves. Make the effort to at least walk her to the door or to her car, whatever the case may be.\\n3-7. Use caution around old traditions.\\nIt can be tricky to know exactly which courteous traditions to follow and which ones to forgo. What is appropriate in the place and era of \\\"Downton Abbey\\\" may or may not be right today in your circumstances. In general, just be sensitive to a lady's modern independent sensibility, and if she looks uncomfortable with your actions, back off a little. Here are some other traditions that were formerly seen as gentlemanly, which are beginning to lose steam:\\nReaching for a check at a restaurant.\\nHelping her with her coat.\\nStanding when a woman enters the room.\\nOffering a woman your seat.\\n4. Being a Gentleman to Your Girlfriend\\n4-1. Be selfless.\\nRemember to keep doing nice things for your girlfriend when you're around her. If she's carrying something, pick it up when she puts it down and always kindly let her know you want to help by saying \\\"oh, let me get that for you\\\", whatever the object is. Remember, being selfish is not attractive. If you are watching television with your girl and you know she likes a particular show or sporting event, leave it there. She will appreciate that little bit of selflessness more than you know.\\nThat said, you don’t want to make the girl feel helpless, or like you should do everything for her, either. Take note — if she seems annoyed when you try to carry things for her or help her out, then you may want to back off and give her help when she really needs it, not just symbolically.\\n4-2. Give her unexpected gifts.\\nIt can be nice to show up with a card or a flower, and not just for holidays. Expensive and showy doesn't matter; it's the effort. In fact, a rose, a little love note left on her pillow, the gift of a book she’s been wanting to read, or a heartfelt kiss will keep any girl happy for days. These little gifts will make her see that she’s on your mind even when she’s not around and that you’ve taken the effort to get her something.\\nThough candy and flowers are nice, personalized gifts are even nicer. Two tickets to a play she’s been wanting to see, a souvenir with her name on it from a place you had to visit without her, or a poster that made you think of her, really show that you’re thinking about her, not just some romanticized version of what any girl could be.\\n4-3. Give her lots of affection.\\nIf you really like your girlfriend, let her know it through loving touches. If you’re in public, hold her hand or put your arm around her shoulder, or give her a peck on the cheek when you want to. When you’re alone, you can be a bit more intimate, by kissing her on the neck, or caressing her back or thighs, as long as these advances are wanted. To be a real gentleman, you should move slowly, and wait until the girl is ready before you try anything beyond kissing.\\nTrue gentlemen are proud to be seen with their girlfriends and give them lots of affection, even if their friends are around. Don’t stop holding your girlfriend’s hand when your buddies are around; that said, it’s not very gentlemanly to try to make out with your girlfriend in public, either.\\n4-4. Stand up for your girl.\\nDon't go around punching everyone who looks at her sideways, but if anyone is giving her looks or unwanted advances, intervene. Put your arm around her shoulder and move yourselves away, or go to her and speak up for her. The physical contact reassures her and lets the aggressor know that he's got to deal with both of you. It’s not gentlemanly to let other men make advances toward your girl or to make lewd comments about her.\\nYou should not threaten to beat the guy up or call him names. Instead, take the high road and find a classy way to tell him to back off.\\n4-5. Don’t say anything negative about her to your friends.\\nIf you really want to be a true gentleman, then you should never say anything negative about the girl you’re dating to your friends. You may think it’s cool to complain about your girlfriend or to act like you’re really not into her, but this is incredibly lame and disrespectful behavior that will get back to your girlfriend and make you look pathetic. The only time you talk about your girlfriend to your friends is to praise her or to genuinely ask for their advice in a given situation.\\nThe key to being a gentleman is to have respect for all people. There’s nothing more disrespectful than airing you and your girlfriend’s dirty laundry just to get some laughs.\\n4-6. Don’t reveal too much about her to your friends, either.\\nAnother thing you should avoid if you want to be a gentleman is to tell your friends about your latest sexual progress with the girl you’re dating. It’s just not gentlemanly to talk about finally having sex with the girl you’re dating, what she’s like in bed, or even what kind of a kisser she is. This kind of thing is meant to stay between the two of you, and telling your friends what happened — or didn’t happen — between the sheets is about the worst thing you can do to a girl.\\nWhether you’re dating the girl or just have gone on a few dates with her, you should really keep your bedroom habits to yourself. If she finds out, she’ll be furious, and you’ll have a reputation of kissing-and-telling.\\n4-7. Don’t make her do anything she’s not comfortable with.\\nA true gentleman recognizes a woman’s limits and respects them. If the girl you’re dating or seeing isn’t ready to sleep with you — or does not want to come even close before marriage or a serious commitment — then you should respect this decision instead of putting pressure on her to do more. Having sex or getting more intimate may not seem like a big deal to you, but every woman has her own limits and her own ideas of what she wants to do with her body. Don’t ever make her do more than she wants to do, and don’t ever, ever make her feel bad for sticking to her guns.\\nA true gentleman lets the woman make the calls of how far she wants to go and never makes her feel guilty or bad for not doing what he wants. He takes the time to listen to a woman and has the patience to wait for the one who is worth it.\\nTips\\nTake your hat off in a building.[8]\\nX\\nExpert Source\\n\\nTami ClaytorEtiquette Coach\\nExpert Interview. 20 May 2021.\\nBasic hygiene and a clean appearance is important, but a gentleman should not be obsessed with his looks.\\nDon't be selfish to others. Try to do random acts of kindness.\\nWarnings\\nWhen you disagree on an issue, but decide to yield, drop it and don't bring it up again.\\nGentlemen have dignity and honor by their sides, yet they are humble and thoughtful. You're not better than anyone else just because you're doing this. Don't think it, don't act like it.\\nA gentleman can recognize it when he loses a fight. Know the difference between standing up for yourself and being a fool.\\nWhile being helpful is nice, don't be overbearing.\\nNever use drugs or drink alcohol to excess. They will impair your judgement, and a true gentleman is in control of himself at all times.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"A true gentleman is respectful to everyone in his orbit, from women he'd like to date to elderly people who need help with their groceries. He takes impeccable care of his appearance, is polite to everyone who deserves it, and is kind to women regardless of whether or not he thinks he has a chance with them. To be a true gentleman, you need to be self-aware, mature, and courteous. Although it may seem that chivalry is dead, you can make a difference by making the effort to bring more respect and care into the world.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Being Presentable\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Maintain proper hygiene.\", \"描述\": \"A gentleman looks and smells pleasant when out in public. It is one thing to sweat while working out, but not while out and about. Take regular care of your body and that you look polished and clean before you step out.\\nMake sure to bathe regularly.\\nWhen applying deodorant or cologne, be sparing. An overpowering odor--even of cologne or body spray--is not pleasant, and can be offensive.\\nUse of hair product is fine, but be careful of hair gel. This product can be sticky and get rock hard after a while, making your hair look stiff. You can also inadvertently come off as \\\"greasy\\\". \\nIf you don’t smell clean and fresh, then it doesn’t really matter how charming you are or how your clothes look. It’s important to get the hygiene down so people don’t get distracted by an unpleasant odor or appearance.\\nWash your hands after you use the bathroom. A gentleman cares for himself and others by preventing spread of disease. Also, other men in the washroom will notice if you bypass the sinks.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Wear flattering clothes.\", \"描述\": \"Wear clothes that fit your body well, eliminate flashy clothing and avoid fashion \\\"faux pas\\\" (e.g. baseball hats cocked slightly to the side). A simpler wardrobe will keep the emphasis on you, not your clothes, which will change your appearance. Keep it simple, and you’ll look elegant and gentlemanly.\\nStick to subdued blacks, grays, blues and browns. A gentleman can actually wear any color in moderation, ( Can also wear jacket and jeans.) but the classic colors for men are not bright.\\nChoose classic clothing for men. Examples include suits, oxford-style shirts, khaki pants, Jacket, Jeans.\\nWear athletic clothes only for workouts or athletics. A gentleman will not wear his suit while hiking through the Alps, or practicing for his black belt, or playing tennis. But he will avoid wearing his tennis clothes unless he is going to, from, or playing tennis.\\nWhat is considered \\\"flashy\\\" will vary from culture to culture, and situation. A white linen suit and pink shirt may be fashionable on a tropical island, but be regarded as quite flashy at a corporate board meeting in England.\\nIt’s very important to wear pants that fit you. Make sure to hold your pants up with a nice simple belt to show that you’ve really put a lot of thought into your look.\\nThe next time you need a suit, make sure you get measured for one instead of picking one out yourself. A true gentleman makes an effort with his appearance and goes the extra mile to wear well-fitting clothes. Wearing a suit that actually fits you instead of one that is one, two or even three sizes too big, will also help show that you put a lot of thought into your look.\\nAlways make sure your shoes are clean. Some people say that shoes are the first thing a lady notices when talking to a man. A quick (but effective) brush can make a world of difference. Most importantly, clean shoes show that take into consideration the people who will have to look at them once you leave your home.\\nIt’s also important to wear the right clothes for the occasion. Try to stick to appropriate dress codes, whether wearing business casual clothes for work, or to wear formal wear for a wedding. And keep in mind that it’s better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Groom yourself well.\", \"描述\": \"To be a true gentleman, you have to make sure your hair is regularly combed and that you either make a point of shaving your facial hair or that you maintain a nice, solid beard. Avoid the stubble and go for a nice clean shave every morning, or you will look sloppy. Keep a comb handy so you can run it through your hair (in private) if your hair gets windswept or loses volume after a long day.\\nEven having clean nails makes a difference. Clean under your fingernails and trim them every day or two to make sure your hands have a neat appearance.\\nTrim any protruding nose hairs to maintain a groomed look.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Have a firm handshake.\", \"描述\": \"A true gentleman knows how to give a true handshake. Whether you’re meeting your future boss, your girlfriend’s dad, or your sister’s boyfriend, you should make sure to look the person in the eye, grip his or her hand firmly, and show that you mean business. Don’t grip too hard to show off, but give a firm grip to show that you care enough to make an impression. This shows that you’re a gentleman who takes the time to acknowledge new people.\\nIf a new person that you don’t know walks into the room and you’re being introduced, give him or her the courtesy to stand before giving him or her a handshake.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Avoid any offensive actions in public.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re in public, then you should avoid farting, belching, speaking too loudly, being overly demanding, grabbing your crotch, or getting too drunk. A gentleman is always in control of himself, body and mind. If you do lose control, however, it’s important to apologize instead of acting like nothing happened.\\nRemember that a true gentleman is a person who can go out in public without making a scene or embarrassing himself.\\nSelf-awareness is a key part of being a gentleman. Always consider how others may perceive you, and be aware of how your actions may be considered offensive.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Being Polite\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Help the people around you.\", \"描述\": \"Always be aware of how you can help people. Wait an extra few seconds to hold the door for the person behind you. Offer to help people get their grocery bags to the car. You don't have to go overboard and risk hurting yourself (e.g. if you've got a precarious grip on something heavy, don't open the door for someone) but respect is paramount. True gentlemen don’t only focus on the women they like and ignore everyone else; being a gentleman is a way of approaching the world and all of the people in it, not just the ones you’d like to date.\\nBe on the lookout for people who could use some help but who may not want to ask for it. The man carrying a tray of coffee would love it if you opened the door for him, but he may not ask.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Make polite conversation.\", \"描述\": \"Be prepared to ask questions or make statements of courtesy, like \\\"How was your day\\\", \\\"May I help you?\\\", \\\"Let me get that for you\\\", or \\\"I'll take care of that\\\". Learn to speak slowly and carefully and to take the time to really talk to people in a polite fashion, no matter how rushed you may be. Whether you’re talking to your neighbor or the cute girl in your physics class, make an effort to smile, to be friendly, and to make interesting small talk about how your day is going. A gentleman doesn’t cut right to the chase, but takes his time getting to know people.\\nBeing able to make conversation is a sign of class and maturity, which are two important aspects of being a gentleman.\\nMaintaining eye contact and smiling are great ways to be polite during a conversation.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Avoid cursing at all costs.\", \"描述\": \"Don't swear. Don't be vulgar. If it's too difficult to stop cursing all together, tone it down a lot. It’s just not gentlemanly to curse. If you do curse, you should apologize and try to keep the behavior from happening in the future. If you’re in a situation where you tend to curse more often, such as watching sports or driving in traffic, take extra care to watch yourself so you still come off as a perfect gentleman.\\nAlong with cursing, you should avoid any lewd or vulgar comments in general. And remember that what’s funny to you and your buddies behind closed doors may not always be appropriate for a girl you’re courting.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Don't talk about yourself too much.\", \"描述\": \"You can tell people enough to let them know a little bit about you, at first, but you should wait to really reveal every last thing about yourself. In addition to making you a much more desirable conversationalist, it will make you seem more mysterious to not share too much, which many women find attractive. Get a basic idea of what's going on in music, sports, and politics so you can sound intelligent when you make conversation. Be sure about subjects you state are important to you by making the effort to stay up-to-date on them.\\nInstead, focus on asking people questions about their interests, hobbies, and plans. Let them know that you’re more interested in them than yourself.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Avoid bringing up controversial or uncomfortable topics.\", \"描述\": \"Learn to avoid politics until you know someone better, and learn how to be neutral if someone else brings it up. A simple shrug will do wonders. A gentleman doesn't make other people uncomfortable. Be focused more on being agreeable and making people feel comfortable than in proving that you’re right and that the other person’s opinions are worthless. You don’t need to show someone up to impress women; what’s far more impressive, in fact, will be your ability to get along with people.\\nAlways remember to know your audience. What might be funny to your buddies from college might not fly with your mother-in-law. Be sensitive to the needs and interests to others.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Treat everyone with respect.\", \"描述\": \"Being a gentleman doesn’t just mean being polite and courteous to women; it means being respectful to other men, to the elderly, and even to children. A true gentleman shouldn’t be able to turn his charm on and off, and he should be kind and respectful to absolutely everyone who deserves it. Respect a person’s space by not standing too close when you talk to him or her. Respect a person’s privacy by not peering over his or her shoulder or asking too many personal questions. The key is to make people feel comfortable and good about themselves, not like they’re being mistreated.\\nSay hello to people when you walk by them, ask how they’re doing, and know when they want to be left alone.\\nAvoid speaking too loudly or making too much of a racket in public or even in your home, out of respect for your neighbors. It’s not respectful to act like you’re the only person on the planet.\\nMake sure to chew your food with your mouth closed, with respect to your dinner partners.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Avoid physical altercations.\", \"描述\": \"There may be some situations that justifies physical confrontation, but it should be in self-defense or the defense of others. However, those situations should be rare indeed.\\nRemember: a \\\"gentle-man\\\" literally means not being a person who resorts to physical violence as a solution.\\nIt is wiser to walk away from a situation, or call the police when appropriate.\\nSelf-defense techniques (such as martial arts) always stress using physicality as an absolute last resort.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Being Courteous to Women\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Treat women with respect.\", \"描述\": \"The worst thing you can do to a woman is look her up and down like she’s a piece of meat. Women are human beings with their own thoughts, hopes, and goals, and you should never ogle them and treat them like they’re only there to serve as a feast for your eyes. When you meet a new woman, ask her name and get to know her for real, instead of just staring at her like you’re undressing her with your mind.\\nGentlemen understand that women are to be treated with respect. They don’t talk to them with cheesy pick-up lines and prefer some tasteful, lighthearted flirting instead.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be respectful in your actions.\", \"描述\": \"Open car or building doors, pull out chairs. Each woman is different, and you should see which gentlemanly gestures she’s comfortable with. For example, it may be gentlemanly to give a woman your coat if she’s cold, but if she tells you that she's fine, don't insist.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Walk on the side closer to the traffic when you’re walking down a street with a woman.\", \"描述\": \"This is an old-fashioned gentlemanly action that is done so that you “protect” the woman from the street as you’re walking. You can take it or leave it, but you should be aware of it. See how the woman reacts when you try it and use that to determine whether she finds the gesture sweet or dated.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Avoid discussing topics that are probably not of interest to her.\", \"描述\": \"If you bring up a subject and she doesn't seem interested, move on to something else.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Don’t talk down to women.\", \"描述\": \"It's okay to tease them, but being cruel is not the way to go. Teasing does not mean calling them vulgar words, however. No matter how joking your tone is, it hurts a woman when a so-called \\\"gentleman\\\" calls them a dirty word. Also, don’t ever, ever act like you know more than a woman about something just because you’re a man because you think that you can really “teach” her something.\\nOne sign of a fake gentleman is a man who is nice to a woman who starts talking down to her the second he realizes she doesn’t view him romantically. To be a true gentleman, you should accept the idea that not every woman in the world will fall for you and still treat them with kindness, no matter what they want or don’t want.\\nNever use the flirting technique known as \\\"negging\\\". This involves the use of low-grade insults or backhanded compliments; a tactic originating in the culture of Pick-Up-Artists. It operates on the philosophy of deflating women's egos so as to avoid pedestalling them, thus making the man appear more blase and less desperate to supplicate to women. This is a very cynical mentality and no intelligent, mature, or classy women will find this acceptable. You will be regarded as a thug, pimp, hustler, or \\\"player\\\" rather than a gentleman.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Be respectful to women as you part ways in the evenings.\", \"描述\": \"Offer to walk her to her door (or car) if at all possible. If your girl has to park far away from her dorm or home, always offer to drive her to and from your destination. At the same time, you don’t want to overstep your bounds by making a girl feel like she can’t go out by herself.\\nIt goes without saying that, if a girl has come over your place, you should not just stay on the couch and say “see ya” as she leaves. Make the effort to at least walk her to the door or to her car, whatever the case may be.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Use caution around old traditions.\", \"描述\": \"It can be tricky to know exactly which courteous traditions to follow and which ones to forgo. What is appropriate in the place and era of \\\"Downton Abbey\\\" may or may not be right today in your circumstances. In general, just be sensitive to a lady's modern independent sensibility, and if she looks uncomfortable with your actions, back off a little. Here are some other traditions that were formerly seen as gentlemanly, which are beginning to lose steam:\\nReaching for a check at a restaurant.\\nHelping her with her coat.\\nStanding when a woman enters the room.\\nOffering a woman your seat.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Being a Gentleman to Your Girlfriend\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be selfless.\", \"描述\": \"Remember to keep doing nice things for your girlfriend when you're around her. If she's carrying something, pick it up when she puts it down and always kindly let her know you want to help by saying \\\"oh, let me get that for you\\\", whatever the object is. Remember, being selfish is not attractive. If you are watching television with your girl and you know she likes a particular show or sporting event, leave it there. She will appreciate that little bit of selflessness more than you know.\\nThat said, you don’t want to make the girl feel helpless, or like you should do everything for her, either. Take note — if she seems annoyed when you try to carry things for her or help her out, then you may want to back off and give her help when she really needs it, not just symbolically.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Give her unexpected gifts.\", \"描述\": \"It can be nice to show up with a card or a flower, and not just for holidays. Expensive and showy doesn't matter; it's the effort. In fact, a rose, a little love note left on her pillow, the gift of a book she’s been wanting to read, or a heartfelt kiss will keep any girl happy for days. These little gifts will make her see that she’s on your mind even when she’s not around and that you’ve taken the effort to get her something.\\nThough candy and flowers are nice, personalized gifts are even nicer. Two tickets to a play she’s been wanting to see, a souvenir with her name on it from a place you had to visit without her, or a poster that made you think of her, really show that you’re thinking about her, not just some romanticized version of what any girl could be.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give her lots of affection.\", \"描述\": \"If you really like your girlfriend, let her know it through loving touches. If you’re in public, hold her hand or put your arm around her shoulder, or give her a peck on the cheek when you want to. When you’re alone, you can be a bit more intimate, by kissing her on the neck, or caressing her back or thighs, as long as these advances are wanted. To be a real gentleman, you should move slowly, and wait until the girl is ready before you try anything beyond kissing.\\nTrue gentlemen are proud to be seen with their girlfriends and give them lots of affection, even if their friends are around. Don’t stop holding your girlfriend’s hand when your buddies are around; that said, it’s not very gentlemanly to try to make out with your girlfriend in public, either.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Stand up for your girl.\", \"描述\": \"Don't go around punching everyone who looks at her sideways, but if anyone is giving her looks or unwanted advances, intervene. Put your arm around her shoulder and move yourselves away, or go to her and speak up for her. The physical contact reassures her and lets the aggressor know that he's got to deal with both of you. It’s not gentlemanly to let other men make advances toward your girl or to make lewd comments about her.\\nYou should not threaten to beat the guy up or call him names. 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There’s nothing more disrespectful than airing you and your girlfriend’s dirty laundry just to get some laughs.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Don’t reveal too much about her to your friends, either.\", \"描述\": \"Another thing you should avoid if you want to be a gentleman is to tell your friends about your latest sexual progress with the girl you’re dating. It’s just not gentlemanly to talk about finally having sex with the girl you’re dating, what she’s like in bed, or even what kind of a kisser she is. This kind of thing is meant to stay between the two of you, and telling your friends what happened — or didn’t happen — between the sheets is about the worst thing you can do to a girl.\\nWhether you’re dating the girl or just have gone on a few dates with her, you should really keep your bedroom habits to yourself. If she finds out, she’ll be furious, and you’ll have a reputation of kissing-and-telling.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Don’t make her do anything she’s not comfortable with.\", \"描述\": \"A true gentleman recognizes a woman’s limits and respects them. If the girl you’re dating or seeing isn’t ready to sleep with you — or does not want to come even close before marriage or a serious commitment — then you should respect this decision instead of putting pressure on her to do more. Having sex or getting more intimate may not seem like a big deal to you, but every woman has her own limits and her own ideas of what she wants to do with her body. Don’t ever make her do more than she wants to do, and don’t ever, ever make her feel bad for sticking to her guns.\\nA true gentleman lets the woman make the calls of how far she wants to go and never makes her feel guilty or bad for not doing what he wants. 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How to Be a Gentleman Towards Girls
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1. Make eye contact.
Show her that you care about what she has to say.
Let’s say you’re chatting with someone, but they’re constantly glancing around and checking their phone. You’d feel like they didn’t care about what you had to say, right? The same logic applies when you’re talking with a girl (or anyone, for that matter!). Eye contact shows that you’re paying close attention and that you care about what she’s talking about.
As a good rule of thumb, make eye contact 4-5 seconds at a time for about 70% of your conversation. That way, it won’t seem like you’re staring at her.
2. Speak politely and respectfully to talk like a gentleman.
Cursing won’t help you make a good impression on her.
Keep your day-to-day vocab as clean as possible, even if she tends to cuss a lot. Good manners are also really important—“please” and “thank you” mean a lot more than you may think!
3. Strike up a conversation with questions instead of pick-up lines.
Authentic questions are a great way to greet a woman like a gentleman.
One-liners like “How much did it hurt when you fell from heaven?” will only earn you an eye-roll, not a genuine conversation. Instead, focus on getting to know her with genuine, creative questions. You could ask:
“Would you rather live in the mountains or on the beach?”
“What’s your absolute favorite place in the whole world?”
“If you could instantly master something, what would it be?”
4. Offer a genuine compliment.
Gentlemen appreciate what’s beneath the surface.
Superficial comments feel… well, superficial. Complimenting a girl on her hair or outfit is nice, but it might come off the wrong way. Instead, say something that isn’t related to her looks, like:
“You did such a great job with that presentation.”
“You have such a nice laugh.”
“You’re such a kind person.”
5. Listen to what she says.
Active listening skills really set a gentleman apart from other guys.
Repeat what she says in your own words, so you know that you’re on the same page. If she’s having a pretty rough day, say something validating to show that you understand, rather than giving unsolicited advice. Ask some questions, too, to prove that you’re really paying attention. You might say:
“If I understand you right, you’re worried about Friday’s math exam because you have soccer practice all week.”
“Wow, it’s super frustrating that your friend would say that to you.”
“When you say ‘your friend from history class,’ do you mean Jamie?”
6. Give her plenty of opportunities to talk.
This proves that you value her opinions and thoughts.
Always let her finish what she has to say and don’t interrupt her, even if you have something great to add. Nobody enjoys talking to someone who doesn’t let them get a word in.
Waiting your turn to speak also helps you look a lot more trusting and reliable.
7. Mention details from an old conversation.
Referencing a previous convo shows that you care about her.
Does her pet bulldog have an upcoming trip to the vet, or is she cramming for a bio test on Thursday? Remembering the little things about her life shows how caring and considerate you are, and that you really listen to what she has to say. You might ask:
“How did Buddy’s vet appointment go the other day?”
“Did you survive that test? When do you get your scores back?”
“I remember you mentioning that you liked the Red Sox, so I figured you’d find this article interesting.”
8. Be humble.
Humility is a far more attractive quality than arrogance.
No one wants to spend time around someone who’s always tooting their own horn. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of your achievements and accomplishments, but try to talk with her about them in a down-to-earth way.
Instead of bragging about a goal you scored during a hockey game, credit the victory to the entire team.
Instead of showing off the grade you got on a group project, compliment your team members who also contributed.
9. Respond with an open mind.
Real gentlemen don’t always have to be right.
Try to look at things from her perspective, and see if you can find some common ground. At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Even if you don’t agree with her, you might say:
“Wow, I never thought of it like that!”
“That’s a really good point.”
“I can definitely see where you’re coming from.”
10. Steer clear of hot topics.
You don’t want to accidentally offend her during your conversation.
Don’t bring up politics, religion, or any other potentially controversial topics. Instead, chat about fun, light-hearted topics that definitely won’t ruffle any feathers. You might talk about:
Her favorite vacation spots
Whether Coke or Pepsi is the superior soda
Her favorite sports teams
The tastiest ice cream flavor
11. Return her calls and texts in a timely manner.
It’s not very polite to keep her waiting.
This doesn’t mean that you have to get back to her within 10 seconds, but it’s not a good idea to wait hours or days to hit the “call” or “send” button. Prompt replies not only show that you’re interested, but that you also value her time.
12. Keep your texts clean and polite.
Crude messages and pictures definitely won’t make a good impression.
Stick to light-hearted jokes and funny memes as you break the ice. Dirty jokes—or worse, dirty pictures—won’t paint you in a very positive light. Sending clean texts is a great way to show how much you respect her.
13. Arrive on schedule.
Punctuality shows that you value her time.
No girl wants to wait for 15, 20, or even 30 minutes for a guy to show up for something. Always do your best to be on time, or even early, if you can. If you do end up running rate, be sure to shoot her a text and let her know what’s going on.
14. Look your best.
A shower, a comb, and a sharp outfit can make a big difference.
Don’t worry—being a gentleman doesn’t mean breaking the bank on designer clothes and cologne! A simple, clean-cut outfit is more than enough to help you make a good impression, and it’ll definitely distinguish you from other guys who don’t put as much thought and care into how they look.
Go the extra mile by swishing some mouthwash before heading out for the day.
15. Focus on her throughout the date.
No woman wants to play second fiddle to your calls and texts.
Keep your phone on vibrate or silent when you spend time with her. Leave any calls, texts, and other notifications alone until your date is over. Constantly texting or using your phone during your get-together will only paint you in a negative light.
16. Make sure she gets home safely after a date.
A quick text really shows how much you care.
As you part ways, estimate how long it’ll take her to make it back home after her date. Then, shoot her a quick “Make it home okay?” or “Hope you made it home safe!” text after that amount of time has passed.
You can also ask her to text you when she gets home.
17. Walk her to the door if you take her home.
This date night gesture shows that you really care about her.
Chances are, you and her won’t run into any trouble when you head up to her front door. Still, sticking around shows that you care about her safety and wellbeing, which really means a lot.
18. Hold the door for her.
Chivalry is a great way to flirt like a gentleman.
Maybe you’re both walking into school at the same time, or you happen to be heading into the same coffee shop. Whatever the case, holding the door open for her helps you make a great impression, and shows that you don’t mind putting other people’s needs above your own.
19. Offer her your coat or jacket.
Make a good impression when the weather gets chilly.
Stuck outside waiting for the bus? Offer her your hoodie, jacket, or whatever extra layer you’re wearing at the time—just make sure it’s clean first! Fewer things are more gentlemanly than literally offering her the shirt off your back.
You don’t have to turn your gesture into a pick-up line or anything. Just say something like, “Wow, it sure is a cold one. Wanna borrow my jacket?”
20. Pull out her chair before she sits down.
This chivalrous move makes a big impact on a date.
If you’re heading to a restaurant or even just a cafe, pull out her chair before she starts to sit down. She’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness and willingness to put other people first.
21. Offer to carry her heavy things.
This simple act carries a lot of weight.
Maybe you spot a girl struggling with her bag, or you see someone juggling a lot of textbooks and notebooks. Jump to her aid and see if you can take an item or 2 off her hands.
Remember: being a true gentleman isn’t just about helping a lady in need—it’s about being kind, generous, and thoughtful to anyone who needs help, regardless of their age or gender.
22. Stand closer to the curb when you walk outside.
This makes you a physical shield between her and the street.
Sure, you’re probably not going to run into any crazy drivers while you’re walking down the sidewalk together, but it’s the thought that counts. If nothing else, this gesture shows that you value her safety over your own—it doesn’t get much more gentlemanly than that!
Tips
Try proving to her that you’re reliable. If you promise to cover her shift at work, show up on time and ready to go. If you offer to help her study for a test, meet up with her exactly when you say you will. Gentlemen are many things, but they definitely aren’t wishy-washy!
Warnings
There’s a big difference between being a gentleman and a simp. Too many compliments, too much praise, and too much availability can give the wrong impression. For instance, if a girl asks you for a favor, don’t feel like you have to drop whatever you’re doing to immediately help her out; instead, put your own needs and priorities first.
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Leave any calls, texts, and other notifications alone until your date is over. Constantly texting or using your phone during your get-together will only paint you in a negative light.\\n16. Make sure she gets home safely after a date.\\nA quick text really shows how much you care.\\nAs you part ways, estimate how long it’ll take her to make it back home after her date. Then, shoot her a quick “Make it home okay?” or “Hope you made it home safe!” text after that amount of time has passed.\\nYou can also ask her to text you when she gets home.\\n17. Walk her to the door if you take her home.\\nThis date night gesture shows that you really care about her.\\nChances are, you and her won’t run into any trouble when you head up to her front door. Still, sticking around shows that you care about her safety and wellbeing, which really means a lot.\\n18. Hold the door for her.\\nChivalry is a great way to flirt like a gentleman.\\nMaybe you’re both walking into school at the same time, or you happen to be heading into the same coffee shop. Whatever the case, holding the door open for her helps you make a great impression, and shows that you don’t mind putting other people’s needs above your own.\\n19. Offer her your coat or jacket.\\nMake a good impression when the weather gets chilly.\\nStuck outside waiting for the bus? Offer her your hoodie, jacket, or whatever extra layer you’re wearing at the time—just make sure it’s clean first! Fewer things are more gentlemanly than literally offering her the shirt off your back.\\nYou don’t have to turn your gesture into a pick-up line or anything. Just say something like, “Wow, it sure is a cold one. Wanna borrow my jacket?”\\n20. Pull out her chair before she sits down.\\nThis chivalrous move makes a big impact on a date.\\nIf you’re heading to a restaurant or even just a cafe, pull out her chair before she starts to sit down. She’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness and willingness to put other people first.\\n21. Offer to carry her heavy things.\\nThis simple act carries a lot of weight.\\nMaybe you spot a girl struggling with her bag, or you see someone juggling a lot of textbooks and notebooks. Jump to her aid and see if you can take an item or 2 off her hands.\\nRemember: being a true gentleman isn’t just about helping a lady in need—it’s about being kind, generous, and thoughtful to anyone who needs help, regardless of their age or gender.\\n22. Stand closer to the curb when you walk outside.\\nThis makes you a physical shield between her and the street.\\nSure, you’re probably not going to run into any crazy drivers while you’re walking down the sidewalk together, but it’s the thought that counts. If nothing else, this gesture shows that you value her safety over your own—it doesn’t get much more gentlemanly than that!\\nTips\\nTry proving to her that you’re reliable. If you promise to cover her shift at work, show up on time and ready to go. If you offer to help her study for a test, meet up with her exactly when you say you will. Gentlemen are many things, but they definitely aren’t wishy-washy!\\nWarnings\\nThere’s a big difference between being a gentleman and a simp. Too many compliments, too much praise, and too much availability can give the wrong impression. For instance, if a girl asks you for a favor, don’t feel like you have to drop whatever you’re doing to immediately help her out; instead, put your own needs and priorities first.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Is there a certain girl you’d like to win over, or are you just hoping to have better luck with the ladies? In any case, learning how to be a gentleman is a great first step. You’ve come to the right place—we’ve put together plenty of day-to-day tricks and conversational tips to help you out. Keep reading to learn how a gentleman treats a woman, as well as how to be a gentleman to your girlfriend.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make eye contact.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show her that you care about what she has to say.\", \"描述\": \"Let’s say you’re chatting with someone, but they’re constantly glancing around and checking their phone. You’d feel like they didn’t care about what you had to say, right? The same logic applies when you’re talking with a girl (or anyone, for that matter!). Eye contact shows that you’re paying close attention and that you care about what she’s talking about.\\nAs a good rule of thumb, make eye contact 4-5 seconds at a time for about 70% of your conversation. That way, it won’t seem like you’re staring at her.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Speak politely and respectfully to talk like a gentleman.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Cursing won’t help you make a good impression on her.\", \"描述\": \"Keep your day-to-day vocab as clean as possible, even if she tends to cuss a lot. Good manners are also really important—“please” and “thank you” mean a lot more than you may think!\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Strike up a conversation with questions instead of pick-up lines.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Authentic questions are a great way to greet a woman like a gentleman.\", \"描述\": \"One-liners like “How much did it hurt when you fell from heaven?” will only earn you an eye-roll, not a genuine conversation. Instead, focus on getting to know her with genuine, creative questions. You could ask:\\n“Would you rather live in the mountains or on the beach?”\\n“What’s your absolute favorite place in the whole world?”\\n“If you could instantly master something, what would it be?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Offer a genuine compliment.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gentlemen appreciate what’s beneath the surface.\", \"描述\": \"Superficial comments feel… well, superficial. Complimenting a girl on her hair or outfit is nice, but it might come off the wrong way. Instead, say something that isn’t related to her looks, like:\\n“You did such a great job with that presentation.”\\n“You have such a nice laugh.”\\n“You’re such a kind person.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Listen to what she says.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Active listening skills really set a gentleman apart from other guys.\", \"描述\": \"Repeat what she says in your own words, so you know that you’re on the same page. If she’s having a pretty rough day, say something validating to show that you understand, rather than giving unsolicited advice. Ask some questions, too, to prove that you’re really paying attention. You might say:\\n“If I understand you right, you’re worried about Friday’s math exam because you have soccer practice all week.”\\n“Wow, it’s super frustrating that your friend would say that to you.”\\n“When you say ‘your friend from history class,’ do you mean Jamie?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Give her plenty of opportunities to talk.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This proves that you value her opinions and thoughts.\", \"描述\": \"Always let her finish what she has to say and don’t interrupt her, even if you have something great to add. Nobody enjoys talking to someone who doesn’t let them get a word in.\\nWaiting your turn to speak also helps you look a lot more trusting and reliable.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Mention details from an old conversation.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Referencing a previous convo shows that you care about her.\", \"描述\": \"Does her pet bulldog have an upcoming trip to the vet, or is she cramming for a bio test on Thursday? Remembering the little things about her life shows how caring and considerate you are, and that you really listen to what she has to say. You might ask:\\n“How did Buddy’s vet appointment go the other day?”\\n“Did you survive that test? When do you get your scores back?”\\n“I remember you mentioning that you liked the Red Sox, so I figured you’d find this article interesting.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Be humble.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Humility is a far more attractive quality than arrogance.\", \"描述\": \"No one wants to spend time around someone who’s always tooting their own horn. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of your achievements and accomplishments, but try to talk with her about them in a down-to-earth way.\\nInstead of bragging about a goal you scored during a hockey game, credit the victory to the entire team.\\nInstead of showing off the grade you got on a group project, compliment your team members who also contributed.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Respond with an open mind.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Real gentlemen don’t always have to be right.\", \"描述\": \"Try to look at things from her perspective, and see if you can find some common ground. At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Even if you don’t agree with her, you might say:\\n“Wow, I never thought of it like that!”\\n“That’s a really good point.”\\n“I can definitely see where you’re coming from.”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Steer clear of hot topics.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"You don’t want to accidentally offend her during your conversation.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t bring up politics, religion, or any other potentially controversial topics. Instead, chat about fun, light-hearted topics that definitely won’t ruffle any feathers. You might talk about:\\nHer favorite vacation spots\\nWhether Coke or Pepsi is the superior soda\\nHer favorite sports teams\\nThe tastiest ice cream flavor\"}]}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Return her calls and texts in a timely manner.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"It’s not very polite to keep her waiting.\", \"描述\": \"This doesn’t mean that you have to get back to her within 10 seconds, but it’s not a good idea to wait hours or days to hit the “call” or “send” button. Prompt replies not only show that you’re interested, but that you also value her time.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Keep your texts clean and polite.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Crude messages and pictures definitely won’t make a good impression.\", \"描述\": \"Stick to light-hearted jokes and funny memes as you break the ice. Dirty jokes—or worse, dirty pictures—won’t paint you in a very positive light. Sending clean texts is a great way to show how much you respect her.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Arrive on schedule.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Punctuality shows that you value her time.\", \"描述\": \"No girl wants to wait for 15, 20, or even 30 minutes for a guy to show up for something. Always do your best to be on time, or even early, if you can. If you do end up running rate, be sure to shoot her a text and let her know what’s going on.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 14, \"标题\": \"Look your best.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A shower, a comb, and a sharp outfit can make a big difference.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t worry—being a gentleman doesn’t mean breaking the bank on designer clothes and cologne! A simple, clean-cut outfit is more than enough to help you make a good impression, and it’ll definitely distinguish you from other guys who don’t put as much thought and care into how they look.\\nGo the extra mile by swishing some mouthwash before heading out for the day.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 15, \"标题\": \"Focus on her throughout the date.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"No woman wants to play second fiddle to your calls and texts.\", \"描述\": \"Keep your phone on vibrate or silent when you spend time with her. Leave any calls, texts, and other notifications alone until your date is over. Constantly texting or using your phone during your get-together will only paint you in a negative light.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 16, \"标题\": \"Make sure she gets home safely after a date.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"A quick text really shows how much you care.\", \"描述\": \"As you part ways, estimate how long it’ll take her to make it back home after her date. Then, shoot her a quick “Make it home okay?” or “Hope you made it home safe!” text after that amount of time has passed.\\nYou can also ask her to text you when she gets home.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 17, \"标题\": \"Walk her to the door if you take her home.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This date night gesture shows that you really care about her.\", \"描述\": \"Chances are, you and her won’t run into any trouble when you head up to her front door. Still, sticking around shows that you care about her safety and wellbeing, which really means a lot.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 18, \"标题\": \"Hold the door for her.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Chivalry is a great way to flirt like a gentleman.\", \"描述\": \"Maybe you’re both walking into school at the same time, or you happen to be heading into the same coffee shop. Whatever the case, holding the door open for her helps you make a great impression, and shows that you don’t mind putting other people’s needs above your own.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 19, \"标题\": \"Offer her your coat or jacket.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Make a good impression when the weather gets chilly.\", \"描述\": \"Stuck outside waiting for the bus? Offer her your hoodie, jacket, or whatever extra layer you’re wearing at the time—just make sure it’s clean first! Fewer things are more gentlemanly than literally offering her the shirt off your back.\\nYou don’t have to turn your gesture into a pick-up line or anything. Just say something like, “Wow, it sure is a cold one. Wanna borrow my jacket?”\"}]}, {\"编号\": 20, \"标题\": \"Pull out her chair before she sits down.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This chivalrous move makes a big impact on a date.\", \"描述\": \"If you’re heading to a restaurant or even just a cafe, pull out her chair before she starts to sit down. She’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness and willingness to put other people first.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 21, \"标题\": \"Offer to carry her heavy things.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This simple act carries a lot of weight.\", \"描述\": \"Maybe you spot a girl struggling with her bag, or you see someone juggling a lot of textbooks and notebooks. Jump to her aid and see if you can take an item or 2 off her hands.\\nRemember: being a true gentleman isn’t just about helping a lady in need—it’s about being kind, generous, and thoughtful to anyone who needs help, regardless of their age or gender.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 22, \"标题\": \"Stand closer to the curb when you walk outside.\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"This makes you a physical shield between her and the street.\", \"描述\": \"Sure, you’re probably not going to run into any crazy drivers while you’re walking down the sidewalk together, but it’s the thought that counts. If nothing else, this gesture shows that you value her safety over your own—it doesn’t get much more gentlemanly than that!\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Try proving to her that you’re reliable. If you promise to cover her shift at work, show up on time and ready to go. If you offer to help her study for a test, meet up with her exactly when you say you will. Gentlemen are many things, but they definitely aren’t wishy-washy!\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"There’s a big difference between being a gentleman and a simp. Too many compliments, too much praise, and too much availability can give the wrong impression. For instance, if a girl asks you for a favor, don’t feel like you have to drop whatever you’re doing to immediately help her out; instead, put your own needs and priorities first.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Taking Care of Yourself
1-1. Think about your appearance.
How do you come across to people? If the signal you're sending out is messy and unkempt, it's time to sharpen up a little. Follow a basic and sensible hygiene regime to keep your hair tidy, teeth brushed and face in good condition. Take good care of yourself.
Try a body mist for a nice fragrant touch.
1-2. Decide whether or not you wish to wear makeup.
If you don't want to, that's fine. If you do choose to wear makeup, don't wear a lot. Instead, go for this simple look that is nice and wholesome to behold. The simple look involves:
Apply brown mascara to your top lashes.
Apply concealer to any blemishes or red spots and blend well.
Apply a thin line of liquid eyeliner along the edge of your eyelids. Go for a light, peach blush and blend in a little on your cheekbones.
Do a top colored eyeshadow on your eyelids. You don't need to go any bolder.
1-3. Wear nice and neat clothing.
Don't copy other peoples' styles, and don't wear what the other people are wearing. Instead, focus on what you feel comfortable and look good in, all at once. You own unique style is what matters the most.
Don't be afraid to wear fun clothes.
2. Being a Friendly, Happy and Interesting girl
2-1. Smile with feeling often and aim to be pleasant.
People will like to be around you if you're smiling and appear to have a positive attitude. Spread positive vibes. Everyone wants to hang around a girl with a positive attitude, even the guys.
2-2. Be friendly to every person.
This includes people you're not that keen to spend time around––you can still be civil toward them. Respect everyone's dignity. This proves to people that you don't judge them or consider them to be beneath you.
2-3. Be nice.
There is a difference in not being mean and being nice. If you are not being mean, then you aren't saying anything that hurts someones feelings. If you are being nice, then you are not only not hurting their feelings, but you are also complimenting them.
People don't like the mean girls. They wish they would stop and might even be scared. Don't be that girl.
Be nice to everyone. Sometimes people think that being nice means only to certain people. To be nice, you need to be nice to everyone, not just the popular people.
2-4. Be sociable.
Go out there, have fun, meet new people and be happy. Just try not to be too clingy or attached to your friends, and go out every single weekend. Also, try not to stick to one group; make friends from various groups.
Have parties of your own and invite everyone you know.
Hang out with kids in other grades. This means people in younger and older grades.
2-5. Be easy to talk to.
Talk to everyone. Be friendly and easy to approach.
Do your best to listen actively to what the other person is saying! Show you're truly listening through your body language.
Ask follow-up questions to show you're listening and interested in what the other has to say.
2-6. Compliment often and sincerely.
Tell people how good they look in something or how nice they look today. That will make them that much happier!
2-7. Be mature.
If you feel hyper, calm yourself by doing something relaxing. If you make it a habit, it will come naturally.
2-8. Do well in school.
Try to balance grades and parties as best as you can. Even though nobody's perfect, try to find that right balance. Don't be that girl who's out partying on a night before a quiz. Be prepared for class, and give your grades effort. Everyone loves a smart and witty girl.
2-9. Play sports.
Exercise every day, whether it's running on the treadmill or softball practice. You always have to be fit and healthy, and guys will find that attractive.
Tips
Be funny. Everyone loves a sweet funny girl.
In order to stay happy as much as possible, enjoy the little things in life, and stay close with your family!
Be humorous and funny.
Warnings
Don't be so goofy to the point where it comes out as annoying and strange.
Don't insult anyone.
Don't be in a clique. People in cliques often gossip and gossiping makes people sad. That is being mean. Also if you are in a clique, you won't meet new people. If you meet new people, that means more people will admire you.
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Wear nice and neat clothing.\\nDon't copy other peoples' styles, and don't wear what the other people are wearing. Instead, focus on what you feel comfortable and look good in, all at once. You own unique style is what matters the most.\\nDon't be afraid to wear fun clothes.\\n2. Being a Friendly, Happy and Interesting girl\\n2-1. Smile with feeling often and aim to be pleasant.\\nPeople will like to be around you if you're smiling and appear to have a positive attitude. Spread positive vibes. Everyone wants to hang around a girl with a positive attitude, even the guys.\\n2-2. Be friendly to every person.\\nThis includes people you're not that keen to spend time around––you can still be civil toward them. Respect everyone's dignity. This proves to people that you don't judge them or consider them to be beneath you.\\n2-3. Be nice.\\nThere is a difference in not being mean and being nice. If you are not being mean, then you aren't saying anything that hurts someones feelings. If you are being nice, then you are not only not hurting their feelings, but you are also complimenting them.\\nPeople don't like the mean girls. They wish they would stop and might even be scared. Don't be that girl.\\nBe nice to everyone. Sometimes people think that being nice means only to certain people. To be nice, you need to be nice to everyone, not just the popular people.\\n2-4. Be sociable.\\nGo out there, have fun, meet new people and be happy. Just try not to be too clingy or attached to your friends, and go out every single weekend. Also, try not to stick to one group; make friends from various groups.\\nHave parties of your own and invite everyone you know.\\nHang out with kids in other grades. This means people in younger and older grades.\\n2-5. Be easy to talk to.\\nTalk to everyone. Be friendly and easy to approach.\\nDo your best to listen actively to what the other person is saying! Show you're truly listening through your body language.\\nAsk follow-up questions to show you're listening and interested in what the other has to say.\\n2-6. Compliment often and sincerely.\\nTell people how good they look in something or how nice they look today. That will make them that much happier!\\n2-7. Be mature.\\nIf you feel hyper, calm yourself by doing something relaxing. If you make it a habit, it will come naturally.\\n2-8. Do well in school.\\nTry to balance grades and parties as best as you can. Even though nobody's perfect, try to find that right balance. Don't be that girl who's out partying on a night before a quiz. Be prepared for class, and give your grades effort. Everyone loves a smart and witty girl.\\n2-9. Play sports.\\nExercise every day, whether it's running on the treadmill or softball practice. You always have to be fit and healthy, and guys will find that attractive.\\nTips\\nBe funny. Everyone loves a sweet funny girl.\\nIn order to stay happy as much as possible, enjoy the little things in life, and stay close with your family!\\nBe humorous and funny.\\nWarnings\\nDon't be so goofy to the point where it comes out as annoying and strange.\\nDon't insult anyone.\\nDon't be in a clique. People in cliques often gossip and gossiping makes people sad. That is being mean. Also if you are in a clique, you won't meet new people. If you meet new people, that means more people will admire you.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"It's not about being \\\"popular\\\". It's about being that girl that everyone wants to hang out with. To be the kind of girl every person would love spend time with and have a chat to, there are some basics you can implement to increase your chances of this happening.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Taking Care of Yourself\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Think about your appearance.\", \"描述\": \"How do you come across to people? If the signal you're sending out is messy and unkempt, it's time to sharpen up a little. Follow a basic and sensible hygiene regime to keep your hair tidy, teeth brushed and face in good condition. Take good care of yourself.\\nTry a body mist for a nice fragrant touch.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Decide whether or not you wish to wear makeup.\", \"描述\": \"If you don't want to, that's fine. If you do choose to wear makeup, don't wear a lot. Instead, go for this simple look that is nice and wholesome to behold. The simple look involves:\\nApply brown mascara to your top lashes.\\nApply concealer to any blemishes or red spots and blend well.\\nApply a thin line of liquid eyeliner along the edge of your eyelids. Go for a light, peach blush and blend in a little on your cheekbones.\\nDo a top colored eyeshadow on your eyelids. You don't need to go any bolder.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Wear nice and neat clothing.\", \"描述\": \"Don't copy other peoples' styles, and don't wear what the other people are wearing. Instead, focus on what you feel comfortable and look good in, all at once. You own unique style is what matters the most.\\nDon't be afraid to wear fun clothes.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Being a Friendly, Happy and Interesting girl\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Smile with feeling often and aim to be pleasant.\", \"描述\": \"People will like to be around you if you're smiling and appear to have a positive attitude. Spread positive vibes. Everyone wants to hang around a girl with a positive attitude, even the guys.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Be friendly to every person.\", \"描述\": \"This includes people you're not that keen to spend time around––you can still be civil toward them. Respect everyone's dignity. This proves to people that you don't judge them or consider them to be beneath you.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be nice.\", \"描述\": \"There is a difference in not being mean and being nice. If you are not being mean, then you aren't saying anything that hurts someones feelings. If you are being nice, then you are not only not hurting their feelings, but you are also complimenting them.\\nPeople don't like the mean girls. They wish they would stop and might even be scared. Don't be that girl.\\nBe nice to everyone. Sometimes people think that being nice means only to certain people. To be nice, you need to be nice to everyone, not just the popular people.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be sociable.\", \"描述\": \"Go out there, have fun, meet new people and be happy. Just try not to be too clingy or attached to your friends, and go out every single weekend. Also, try not to stick to one group; make friends from various groups.\\nHave parties of your own and invite everyone you know.\\nHang out with kids in other grades. This means people in younger and older grades.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be easy to talk to.\", \"描述\": \"Talk to everyone. Be friendly and easy to approach.\\nDo your best to listen actively to what the other person is saying! Show you're truly listening through your body language.\\nAsk follow-up questions to show you're listening and interested in what the other has to say.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Compliment often and sincerely.\", \"描述\": \"Tell people how good they look in something or how nice they look today. That will make them that much happier!\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Be mature.\", \"描述\": \"If you feel hyper, calm yourself by doing something relaxing. If you make it a habit, it will come naturally.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Do well in school.\", \"描述\": \"Try to balance grades and parties as best as you can. Even though nobody's perfect, try to find that right balance. Don't be that girl who's out partying on a night before a quiz. Be prepared for class, and give your grades effort. Everyone loves a smart and witty girl.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Play sports.\", \"描述\": \"Exercise every day, whether it's running on the treadmill or softball practice. You always have to be fit and healthy, and guys will find that attractive.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Be funny. Everyone loves a sweet funny girl.\\n\", \"In order to stay happy as much as possible, enjoy the little things in life, and stay close with your family!\\n\", \"Be humorous and funny.\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"Don't be so goofy to the point where it comes out as annoying and strange.\\n\", \"Don't insult anyone.\\n\", \"Don't be in a clique. People in cliques often gossip and gossiping makes people sad. That is being mean. Also if you are in a clique, you won't meet new people. If you meet new people, that means more people will admire you.\\n\"]}]}}",
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How to Be a Girly Girl
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1. Taking Care of Your Appearance
1-1. Bathe every day.
Girly-girls have excellent hygiene! Be sure you shower every day and clean yourself thoroughly with soap and water. If you want to be extra girly, try buying scented shampoo, conditioner, and body wash.
1-2. Use moisturizer or lotion on your skin.
Having soft skin is a big part of being feminine. You should use a moisturizer or lotion on your face and body every day, even if you have oily skin--moisturizer will stop your skin from producing its own oils. You can use any kind, but check the label first to see if it’s the best kind for your skin type.
If you have acne, you can still be a girly girl! Try drinking lots of water and using benzoyl peroxide on your breakouts. If you can’t get rid of them, it’s okay--lots of people have acne.
1-3. Keep your nails manicured.
You don’t have to put on a new shade of nail polish every day, but your nails should be clean and manicured all the time. Clip and file your nails so they are even, clean under them daily, and check every day for nail polish chips.
If you like changing your nail polish colors, try matching them to your outfit.
If you don’t want to put on new nail polish all the time, try wearing a clear coat. It looks just as neat and girly, but you don’t have to worry about it as much.
1-4. Brush and style your hair every day.
Keep your hair brushed and styled every single day. Make sure your hair doesn’t have any knots or tangles, and that its neat and clean. Develop a signature hairstyle that works for you, and keep your hair neatly styled every day.
Depending on your hair type, you may need to wash it every day. If you hair seems oily and flat by the end of each day, you should wash it daily.
Your hairstyle doesn’t need to be elaborate. Your signature style could be as simple as parting it to the side and wearing a barrette! You can also try braids, ponytails, and simple buns.
If you aren’t sure how to do your hair, ask a friend for advice or visit a salon.
1-5. Wear deodorant and perfume.
Smelling nice is an essential part of being a girly-girl! Be sure you use deodorant every single day. You can also wear perfume--many feminine women have a signature scent they wear every day. If you don’t wear much perfume, try a light floral or fruit scent first.
Don’t use deodorant or perfume as a substitute for bathing. People can tell.
Use as little perfume as possible, and only use it on pulse points like your wrists and neck. Your perfume should be a subtle fragrance that people only notice when they’re next to you, not a strong smell that hangs in the air around you.
1-6. Keep your teeth clean.
Girly girls keep their teeth as clean as possible. Brush and floss every day, and be sure to use mouthwash or mints to keep your breath smelling fresh. Carry floss with you, and use it after every meal or snack.
It’s okay if your teeth are crooked or if you wear braces. Just make sure they’re clean!
1-7. Wear light makeup.
Try wearing a little bit of makeup to get a girly girl look. Light makeup will make you look more feminine, and it’s much easier to learn to apply than a full face of makeup. Keep practicing until your makeup looks natural and is easy for you to apply.
Try using just lip gloss and mascara to start.
Keep eyeshadows and blushes in light, neutral colors like light pink or beige.
If you want to wear foundation, go to a makeup counter first to be sure it matches your skin tone.
Wearing heavier makeup is okay too! Just make sure you’ve practiced your look first.
2. Dressing like a Girly Girl
2-1. Keep your clothes clean and pressed.
Girly girls never go out in dirty, wrinkled clothes. Keep your clothes washed and don’t wear anything with stains, even if it’s been washed. Iron your clothes before you wear them.
Be careful to read the instructions on your clothing labels. Some clothes can’t be ironed or can only be ironed on a low setting.
If you don’t want to iron, try hanging clothes up immediately after you dry them, or letting them run in a dryer on the permanent press cycle.
If something has a stain that won’t come out, don’t throw it away! Save it for wearing around the house or while doing work that might damage your regular clothes.
2-2. Buy clothes that fit properly.
Don’t buy clothes that are too tight or too baggy. None of your clothes should be so tight that they pinch you, show your underwear, or are hard to put on and take off. They also shouldn’t hang loosely off you or need to be adjusted as you go about your day. Try on your favorite clothes to make sure they fit you properly, and if they don’t, stop wearing them.
2-3. Buy feminine clothes.
You don’t have to wear pink party dresses every day to be a girly girl, but it helps to wear something feminine every time you go out. Dresses and skirts are always an easy choice, but you can also wear tailored pants, capris, shorts, and jumpsuits. Instead of wearing T-shirts, try wearing blouses and button-up shirts.
Pinks, purples, and pastels are considered classic girly colors, but if you don’t like them, any color can be feminine if it’s got the right style and fits you well.
You don’t have to follow trends or wear what everyone else is wearing, as long as you’re dressed neatly and femininely.
Anything can be feminine, but wearing florals and prints are usually a good idea if your intention is to dress more girly.
2-4. Wear feminine shoes.
Avoid wearing sneakers and flip-flops if you want to look girly. Heels and wedges are a great way to look feminine, but if you don’t want to wear heels, try a pair of ballet flats, as they are also pretty feminine. Be sure your shoes are clean and don’t have any tears or scuffs!
If you want to wear heels but don’t know how to walk in them, try stepping with your heel down first, then your toe. Practice lots before you go out in public!
2-5. Carry a purse.
Girly girls need to carry lots of things with them! If you don’t carry a purse, start now. It doesn’t have to be an expensive designer bag. You can pick any purse you want in any color or style, as long as it’s in good shape and can hold all your things.
Try getting a purse in a neutral color like black or tan--it will match more of your outfits!
3. Creating a Girly Space
3-1. Choose soft, bright colors to decorate with.
Your bedroom, locker, school desk, or any other personal space can showcase your girly side. Choose a bright, soft color like pink, light purple, baby blue, or yellow to decorate with. You can get furniture, paint your walls, or just get fun accessories like decorative ribbons, posters, and stickers to make your space girly.
3-2. Keep your things organized neatly.
Girly girls don’t carry around stacks of loose paper instead of notebooks or leave old food sitting around their rooms. Start practicing cleaning up after yourself every day and putting everything back where you found it. Keep your school things organized and labeled.
This is a great opportunity to buy more girly organizing accessories too--things like binders, boxes, and cases are a great way to show off your feminine side.
3-3. Get a vanity or mirrors.
You’ll need a space to check your makeup, practice new hairstyles, and make sure your outfits fit you perfectly. Get a big mirror for your room and smaller ones for your locker and purse. You can even get a whole vanity furniture set if you’re able to!
3-4. Show your creative side.
Girly girls aren’t afraid to be creative. Decorate your personal space with cute drawings, notes to your friends, and crafts. Buy some paint pens in bright colors and draw decorations on your pictures and posters, or learn a craft like scrapbooking or sewing that you can use to decorate your area.
4. Acting like a Girly Girl
4-1. Walk and sit gracefully.
Girly girls don’t run everywhere or flop across their seats. Practice walking and sitting gracefully. When you walk, walk carefully and confidently, with small steps and your head held up. When you sit down, sit with your back straight and your arms by your side or in your lap. You don’t have to cross your legs or your ankles, but it can add a feminine touch.
4-2. Be friendly and polite towards everyone.
Be nice to everyone you meet. Look them in the eye, introduce yourself if you don’t know them, and address them by name. Ask how they’re doing, and if you are able to help someone with anything, offer to do it!
This doesn’t mean that you should let people treat you badly--if you have to tell someone to stop or to leave you alone, do so clearly and firmly.
Avoid swearing or using explicit words. They’re impolite, and it’s hard to be girly when you use them.
4-3. Show an interest in romance.
Girly girls are interested in romance, but that doesn’t mean you need to start dating or do anything you aren’t comfortable with. Try reading romantic books, watching romances on TV, and talking to your friends about crushes.
Some girls like to read bridal magazines even if they aren’t planning to get married. It’s a fun way to show your romantic side and keep up with fashion!
4-4. Keep up with trends.
You don’t have to follow every trend, but most girly girls have an idea of what’s popular even if they don’t actually participate in it. You should have an idea of what’s cool to wear, listen to, and watch, if only so you’ll have something to talk about with your friends.
4-5. Hang out with other girls.
It’s okay to have guy friends, but you should make sure you have a core group of girls that you hang out with and talk about girly things with. If you don’t have any close girlfriends, start by complimenting one of your classmates on her clothes or makeup. It’s a great way to start a friendship!
4-6. Practice good table manners.
Eating neatly and having good table manners is a big part of acting like a lady. When you eat, don’t chew with your mouth open, lean on your elbow, or gobble your food. Practice taking small bites, keeping your hands in your lap when not eating, and chewing and swallowing neatly and unobtrusively.
4-7. Work hard in school.
It’s not true that you have to act dumb to be a girly girl. Girly girls are high achievers who care about their education. Pay attention in class, study hard, and try your best in all your subjects.
Warnings
If you aren’t already girly, don’t try to change overnight! Take small steps towards changing your looks and attitude.
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It’s a great way to start a friendship!\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Practice good table manners.\", \"描述\": \"Eating neatly and having good table manners is a big part of acting like a lady. When you eat, don’t chew with your mouth open, lean on your elbow, or gobble your food. Practice taking small bites, keeping your hands in your lap when not eating, and chewing and swallowing neatly and unobtrusively.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Work hard in school.\", \"描述\": \"It’s not true that you have to act dumb to be a girly girl. Girly girls are high achievers who care about their education. Pay attention in class, study hard, and try your best in all your subjects.\"}], \"注意事项\": [\"If you aren’t already girly, don’t try to change overnight! Take small steps towards changing your looks and attitude.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Steps
1-1. Wash your face with warm water in the morning before going to school to look fresh, especially if you are not a morning person!
Apply moisturizer to keep your skin from getting dry because you really don't want dry skin! Also, try using skin care products such as ProActive, Clean and Clear or anything that works for your skin. You can also make or buy a face mask; this is optional if you have the time.
1-2. Wear different hairstyles every day to look cute and girly.
Wear sophisticated and stylish hairstyles. Comb your hair with a comb or a hairbrush.
If you have hair straighteners, curlers, or hair dryers, use them to style your hair.
If you want to have shiny hair, wash it with cold water after shampooing. This will make your hair look polished and clean.
Add some finishing touches or hair accessories. Wear barrettes, bows, flower crowns, or headbands. These can help you to look cute and stylish.
If you have short hair, you can do lots of different hairstyles and haircuts that fit you. Make sure haircuts are flattering to your face, and if you wish, use some small hair accessories.
1-3. Wear a bit of makeup.
Makeup is the epitome of being girly. Try watching some YouTube videos to learn some new techniques for applying makeup.
Always wear lip balm to prevent your lips from chapping, and then add some lip gloss to add that glossy and shiny look to your lips. If you want to have some colour on your lips and you love shiny lips, try some tinted/coloured lip gloss. Don't overdo it though.
You can also wear a bit of eyeshadow. Some natural colors for school are light brown, gold, dark gold and brown.
1-4. Wear cute shoes.
Make sure you're comfortable in them, but make sure they're also cute as well.
Boots are great. This doesn't mean rain boots, just boots such as ankle-high boots and knee-high boots. Boots look great with a nice skirt.
Wear ballet flats to look elegant in school. If you want to look elegant while making a bold fashion statement at the same time, try wearing a pair of slippers. Again, they match well with a skirt.
Avoid high heels. They hurt your feet and cause knee problems. Kitten heels or shoes with a slight heel are fine though.
You can be creative by making your own pair of shoes.
1-5. Wear good-looking, put-together outfits if your school doesn't require you to wear uniforms.
It doesn't have to be extravagant - simple outfits can do wonders!
Try to assemble a wardrobe that will make you happy, really reflects who you are as a person and answers to your lifestyle.
Wear skirts rather than jeans. You will look - and feel - much more girly, especially if all your friends are in jeans. You can match this with a cute jacket or sweater on top. Keep the hemlines in mind, since skirts that are too short or too tight can feel uncomfortable when you sit down.
Casual dresses with a bold belt (studded belt, neon belt etc.) can look really awesome if you put the look together properly.
There are certain stores that cater to the "girly girl" image. Try checking out those stores and seeing what you can find. Be careful, though - they can be expensive!
Do not hesitate to ask for help when putting together your wardrobe. Oftentimes, an objective opinion can really help you create something that's authentic to you and gets you excited every morning to get dressed!
1-6. If you're in a school that requires a uniform, jazz up your uniform.
Depending on how strict your school is, you may be able to get away with some alterations to the uniform. However, make sure you don't do anything that would get you in trouble for messing with the uniform!
Wear a cute, girly scarf or put a jacket or a sweater on top.
Don't make your uniforms look dull and baggy, make it look as lively as possible.
If your school won't let you alter your uniform, just act more girly in general. By doing this, people will see the more girly you! Be polite and kind to others, always listen and get rid of any nasty vocabulary you might have been using.
Don't overdo it. People won't like you if you start acting like a snob.
1-7. Accessorize.
This doesn't have to be limited to what you wear - try decorating your bag or school supplies, too!
Wear jewelry. Colorful earrings are a must, as well as cute bracelets or necklaces. However, don't go overboard; you don't want to jingle when you walk!
If your bag looks boring, decorate it. Put cute badges and key-chains on it or sew different fabric swatches on your bag to add a creative and artsy yet girly flair.
If you have school supplies that belong to you, such as a binder or a notebook, don't be afraid to decorate it! Glue photos to it, put stickers on it, or do whatever you want. However, if you have something that belongs to the school, such as a textbook, don't decorate that. You don't want to get fined for vandalism.
1-8. Dazzle up your nails.
French manicures are good because they are sophisticated and simple. You can also go bold with your nails by adding some colorful nail art to your nails or by using a bright or sparkly nail colour.
If you go to a strict school, you may not be allowed to wear nail polish or nail decorations. However, a clear polish won't be noticed and will make your nails look shinier.
1-9. Walk gracefully and don't get in trouble very often.
Don't shake your hips too much; many people find that strange or annoying. Don't skip or run around the school. After all, girly girls are also cute, and how is getting in trouble cute, sweet, and innocent?
1-10. Don't be mean and snobby.
Don't act like you're suddenly famous and rich. Be kind. Meet new friends, and just have fun!
Tips
You don't really have to wear any makeup, but some mascara, blush, or lip gloss can look really cute.
Experiment with awesome hairstyles. Be careful with things such as hot curling irons or hair straighteners, though. They can damage your hair if they're used too often!
Try to see what other girls do. If they do something that can improve yourself then go ahead do it. Don't copy them exactly, though. Remember, being girly is ALL about being yourself! It's not bad to take ideas so long as you give them your own unique twist.
Warnings
If you're trying to be a girly girl to be accepted by a group, think about why you're doing it. Are you doing it for approval, because you want a different scene, or because you want to be popular and liked? Keep in mind that if you're not already somewhat girly, suddenly becoming all-out girly will cause people to think you're faking it.
People might think you are trying to be fake. Be careful. This change could affect your personality, too. Try to be as much like you as possible.
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How to Be a Glamorous 1940s Femme Fatale
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1. Steps
1-1. Look for screen inspiration before you start becoming a femme fatale.
Screen beauties are an ideal starting point to find the style and appearance that you'll be wanting to copy. To start off your inspiration, check out the following movie starlets:
Rita Hayworth (Gilda)
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Ava Gardner (The Killers)
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Elizabeth Taylor (Cleopatra)
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Vivien Leigh (Gone with the Wind)
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Hedy Lamarr (Samson and Delilah).
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1-2. Prepare your hair.
A 1940s femme fatale has either long, side-parted waves (think Rita Hayworth and Veronica Lake), or shorter pin curls (think Elizabeth Taylor and Ava Gardner). No highlights, and no eccentric rainbow dyes. A femme fatale's hair color is always solid black, deep dark brown, auburn, brown, or platinum blonde.
Keep your hair shiny and luxurious. Tame any frizzy hair, split-ends, dye damage, and so on. A femme fatale sees the hair stylist regularly.
1-3. Prepare your makeup.
Femme fatale makeup is glamorous and vampy.Perfect, usually matted, powdered (not caked on) skin, with red or maroon lipstick.
Match your nail polish with your lips.
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Faux eyelashes are divine if you want drama or if your eyelashes are short.
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You should also consider shaping your eyebrows.
Top it of with black mascara. For the "cat's eye" effect, use black liquid liner. Before you put the cat eye liner, put on an understated eyeshadow color that is slightly lighter than your skin tone. Then, rest your elbows on a flat surface and carefully line your eyes, not too thick, and be steady. It takes practice at first, but the results are worth it! When you have reached near the end, do a little curve, a small sweep for the full effect.
Leave the under-eyes free of anything. Shades of white eyeshadows are an exception. No colorful,tropical or trendy eyeshadow.
1-4. Find the right shoes.
Femme fatales don't wear casual flat shoes or runners. A femme fatale is always dressed to the nines. Her shoes are always high: marabou mules, stilettos and platforms (not the 70s ones or the stripper ones), and look for some embellishments like feathers (marabou or ostrich), texture, animal print or rhinestones.
1-5. Get the right denier for stockings.
When it comes to hosiery, a femme fatale is always in fine, black mesh fishnets and/or seamed stockings. Avoid leggings, pantyhose, or opaque tights.
1-6. Prepare your wardrobe.
Understand and study the beautiful women of the 1940s, as well as some of the women from the 1950s and earlier eras such as the 1920s and 1930s who are known for being femme fatales. Note how they used to dress: it's all about the old Hollywood glamour and sexiness with a dark side. The femme fatale wardrobe often has an evening edge, even during the daytime. Femme fatales rarely wear denim. Here are some examples of femme fatale wardrobe:
1-7. As a glamorous 1940s femme fatale, own at least one full-length gown.
It can be strapless, backless, halter in satin or art deco designs-whatever flatters and makes you feel sexy and evokes the Golden years of Hollywood.
To cover up: fur coats (a must), fur wraps, fur stoles, fur shrugs, and/or feather shrugs. The fur should be either mink, sable, fox, chinchilla or ermine. Use faux fur if you object. Vintage fur coats are easily found in thrift stores and auctions at a very reasonable cost.
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A femme fatale usually wears elegant, long opera gloves. They can be satin, silk, lace and/or velvet. Shorter gloves gloves are also acceptable in the daytime.
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When it comes to lingerie, it's all about the black,silk and lace. The wasp waist completes the femme fatale look. Invest in a girdle and/or corset if needed.Femme fatale clothes need base garments. Corsets are a very good option; wear one as a foundation garment or as part of your outer wear. Avoid "basic" and boring cotton underwear. Remember a femme fatale is always seductive and sexy in a dark way. Lace bras, merry widows, bustiers and garters are some examples.
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1-8. Wear sunglasses.
When out in the daytime, a femme fatale always wears dark sunglasses possible.It can be retro cat-eyes or big Jackie-O ones; whichever suits your face shape best as long as no one sees your eyes.
1-9. Finish your look with a hat.
Something with structure and flatters your face shape, preferably decorated with a veil, jewels, furs or feathers. A good example is a veiled pillbox hat.
1-10. Most femmes fatales smoked in the past, when it was still considered sexy.
You don't have to smoke to be a femme fatale—in fact, modern day etiquette dictates that you should not. If you do, however, use a cigarette holder.
1-11. Wear sultry,alluring perfume.
Make it your signature scent—you want to be remembered.
1-12. Select your jewelery.
Go for diamonds, diamonds, diamonds! Make sure they are big enough to be seen far away.
1-13. Cultivate a sultry, Lauren Bacall-esque voice.
(Listen to her voice here) This is the cherry on top to becoming a femme fatale. Lower your voice and do some voice exercises.
Avoid making your voice sound too masculine and low that you are no longer audible.
Tips
Stand tall with your shoulders back. Good posture is essential for a femme fatale.
Color test your clothes and lipstick color. The right colors will make a big difference.
Classic femme fatales to get inspired by: Rita Hayworth, Lana Turner, Barbara Stanwyck, Hedy Lamarr...
Warnings
When looking like a femme fatale, make it effortless: don't make it look like you're trying too hard!
Looking like a femme fatale does not always mean chain smoking or leading men into dangerous situations!
Know the difference between sexy in a dark and mysterious way and sexy in a promiscuous way. Femme fatales are the former.
Men will be intimidated by you!
Learn the art of seduction, like staring deeply into men's eyes or dangling your marabou mules on the tip of your foot.
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To start off your inspiration, check out the following movie starlets:\\nRita Hayworth (Gilda)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/3\\\\/30\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/3\\\\/30\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nAva Gardner (The Killers)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/88\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/88\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nElizabeth Taylor (Cleopatra)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/c\\\\/c4\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/c\\\\/c4\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nVivien Leigh (Gone with the Wind)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/84\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/84\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nHedy Lamarr (Samson and Delilah).\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/e6\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/e6\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\n1-2. Prepare your hair.\\nA 1940s femme fatale has either long, side-parted waves (think Rita Hayworth and Veronica Lake), or shorter pin curls (think Elizabeth Taylor and Ava Gardner). No highlights, and no eccentric rainbow dyes. A femme fatale's hair color is always solid black, deep dark brown, auburn, brown, or platinum blonde.\\nKeep your hair shiny and luxurious. Tame any frizzy hair, split-ends, dye damage, and so on. A femme fatale sees the hair stylist regularly.\\n1-3. Prepare your makeup.\\nFemme fatale makeup is glamorous and vampy.Perfect, usually matted, powdered (not caked on) skin, with red or maroon lipstick.\\nMatch your nail polish with your lips.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/4\\\\/46\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/4\\\\/46\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nFaux eyelashes are divine if you want drama or if your eyelashes are short.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/0\\\\/0d\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/0\\\\/0d\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nYou should also consider shaping your eyebrows.\\nTop it of with black mascara. For the \\\"cat's eye\\\" effect, use black liquid liner. Before you put the cat eye liner, put on an understated eyeshadow color that is slightly lighter than your skin tone. Then, rest your elbows on a flat surface and carefully line your eyes, not too thick, and be steady. It takes practice at first, but the results are worth it! When you have reached near the end, do a little curve, a small sweep for the full effect.\\nLeave the under-eyes free of anything. Shades of white eyeshadows are an exception. No colorful,tropical or trendy eyeshadow.\\n1-4. Find the right shoes.\\nFemme fatales don't wear casual flat shoes or runners. A femme fatale is always dressed to the nines. Her shoes are always high: marabou mules, stilettos and platforms (not the 70s ones or the stripper ones), and look for some embellishments like feathers (marabou or ostrich), texture, animal print or rhinestones.\\n1-5. Get the right denier for stockings.\\nWhen it comes to hosiery, a femme fatale is always in fine, black mesh fishnets and/or seamed stockings. Avoid leggings, pantyhose, or opaque tights.\\n1-6. Prepare your wardrobe.\\nUnderstand and study the beautiful women of the 1940s, as well as some of the women from the 1950s and earlier eras such as the 1920s and 1930s who are known for being femme fatales. Note how they used to dress: it's all about the old Hollywood glamour and sexiness with a dark side. The femme fatale wardrobe often has an evening edge, even during the daytime. Femme fatales rarely wear denim. Here are some examples of femme fatale wardrobe:\\n1-7. As a glamorous 1940s femme fatale, own at least one full-length gown.\\nIt can be strapless, backless, halter in satin or art deco designs-whatever flatters and makes you feel sexy and evokes the Golden years of Hollywood.\\nTo cover up: fur coats (a must), fur wraps, fur stoles, fur shrugs, and/or feather shrugs. The fur should be either mink, sable, fox, chinchilla or ermine. Use faux fur if you object. Vintage fur coats are easily found in thrift stores and auctions at a very reasonable cost.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/0\\\\/07\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/0\\\\/07\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nA femme fatale usually wears elegant, long opera gloves. They can be satin, silk, lace and/or velvet. Shorter gloves gloves are also acceptable in the daytime.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/2\\\\/2f\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/2\\\\/2f\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nWhen it comes to lingerie, it's all about the black,silk and lace. The wasp waist completes the femme fatale look. Invest in a girdle and/or corset if needed.Femme fatale clothes need base garments. Corsets are a very good option; wear one as a foundation garment or as part of your outer wear. Avoid \\\"basic\\\" and boring cotton underwear. Remember a femme fatale is always seductive and sexy in a dark way. Lace bras, merry widows, bustiers and garters are some examples. \\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/ef\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/ef\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\n1-8. Wear sunglasses.\\nWhen out in the daytime, a femme fatale always wears dark sunglasses possible.It can be retro cat-eyes or big Jackie-O ones; whichever suits your face shape best as long as no one sees your eyes.\\n1-9. Finish your look with a hat.\\nSomething with structure and flatters your face shape, preferably decorated with a veil, jewels, furs or feathers. A good example is a veiled pillbox hat.\\n1-10. Most femmes fatales smoked in the past, when it was still considered sexy.\\nYou don't have to smoke to be a femme fatale—in fact, modern day etiquette dictates that you should not. If you do, however, use a cigarette holder.\\n1-11. Wear sultry,alluring perfume.\\nMake it your signature scent—you want to be remembered.\\n1-12. Select your jewelery.\\nGo for diamonds, diamonds, diamonds! Make sure they are big enough to be seen far away.\\n1-13. Cultivate a sultry, Lauren Bacall-esque voice.\\n(Listen to her voice here) This is the cherry on top to becoming a femme fatale. Lower your voice and do some voice exercises.\\nAvoid making your voice sound too masculine and low that you are no longer audible.\\nTips\\nStand tall with your shoulders back. Good posture is essential for a femme fatale.\\nColor test your clothes and lipstick color. The right colors will make a big difference.\\nClassic femme fatales to get inspired by: Rita Hayworth, Lana Turner, Barbara Stanwyck, Hedy Lamarr...\\nWarnings\\nWhen looking like a femme fatale, make it effortless: don't make it look like you're trying too hard!\\nLooking like a femme fatale does not always mean chain smoking or leading men into dangerous situations!\\nKnow the difference between sexy in a dark and mysterious way and sexy in a promiscuous way. Femme fatales are the former.\\nMen will be intimidated by you!\\nLearn the art of seduction, like staring deeply into men's eyes or dangling your marabou mules on the tip of your foot.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Have you always wanted to be the type of woman who is sultry, exotic, vampy, and just ultra glamorous? Women like Ava Gardner, Sophia Loren and Elizabeth Taylor epitomize this type of beauty. Every woman has the potential to appear this way if she wishes. You just need a little guidance and some research, all efforts that are well worth it if you're looking to achieve a sultry, sophisticated, old Hollywood glamour. Here are some suggestions to help with your femme fatale makeover.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Look for screen inspiration before you start becoming a femme fatale.\", \"描述\": \"Screen beauties are an ideal starting point to find the style and appearance that you'll be wanting to copy. To start off your inspiration, check out the following movie starlets:\\nRita Hayworth (Gilda)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/3\\\\/30\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/3\\\\/30\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nAva Gardner (The Killers)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/88\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/88\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nElizabeth Taylor (Cleopatra)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/c\\\\/c4\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/c\\\\/c4\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nVivien Leigh (Gone with the Wind)\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/84\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/8\\\\/84\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet4.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nHedy Lamarr (Samson and Delilah).\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/e6\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/e6\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-1Bullet5.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Prepare your hair.\", \"描述\": \"A 1940s femme fatale has either long, side-parted waves (think Rita Hayworth and Veronica Lake), or shorter pin curls (think Elizabeth Taylor and Ava Gardner). No highlights, and no eccentric rainbow dyes. A femme fatale's hair color is always solid black, deep dark brown, auburn, brown, or platinum blonde.\\nKeep your hair shiny and luxurious. Tame any frizzy hair, split-ends, dye damage, and so on. A femme fatale sees the hair stylist regularly.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Prepare your makeup.\", \"描述\": \"Femme fatale makeup is glamorous and vampy.Perfect, usually matted, powdered (not caked on) skin, with red or maroon lipstick.\\nMatch your nail polish with your lips.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/4\\\\/46\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/4\\\\/46\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet1.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nFaux eyelashes are divine if you want drama or if your eyelashes are short.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/0\\\\/0d\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/0\\\\/0d\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-3Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nYou should also consider shaping your eyebrows.\\nTop it of with black mascara. For the \\\"cat's eye\\\" effect, use black liquid liner. Before you put the cat eye liner, put on an understated eyeshadow color that is slightly lighter than your skin tone. Then, rest your elbows on a flat surface and carefully line your eyes, not too thick, and be steady. It takes practice at first, but the results are worth it! When you have reached near the end, do a little curve, a small sweep for the full effect.\\nLeave the under-eyes free of anything. Shades of white eyeshadows are an exception. No colorful,tropical or trendy eyeshadow.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Find the right shoes.\", \"描述\": \"Femme fatales don't wear casual flat shoes or runners. A femme fatale is always dressed to the nines. Her shoes are always high: marabou mules, stilettos and platforms (not the 70s ones or the stripper ones), and look for some embellishments like feathers (marabou or ostrich), texture, animal print or rhinestones.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Get the right denier for stockings.\", \"描述\": \"When it comes to hosiery, a femme fatale is always in fine, black mesh fishnets and/or seamed stockings. Avoid leggings, pantyhose, or opaque tights.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Prepare your wardrobe.\", \"描述\": \"Understand and study the beautiful women of the 1940s, as well as some of the women from the 1950s and earlier eras such as the 1920s and 1930s who are known for being femme fatales. Note how they used to dress: it's all about the old Hollywood glamour and sexiness with a dark side. The femme fatale wardrobe often has an evening edge, even during the daytime. Femme fatales rarely wear denim. Here are some examples of femme fatale wardrobe:\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"As a glamorous 1940s femme fatale, own at least one full-length gown.\", \"描述\": \"It can be strapless, backless, halter in satin or art deco designs-whatever flatters and makes you feel sexy and evokes the Golden years of Hollywood.\\nTo cover up: fur coats (a must), fur wraps, fur stoles, fur shrugs, and/or feather shrugs. The fur should be either mink, sable, fox, chinchilla or ermine. Use faux fur if you object. 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They can be satin, silk, lace and/or velvet. Shorter gloves gloves are also acceptable in the daytime.\\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/2\\\\/2f\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/2\\\\/2f\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet2.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\nWhen it comes to lingerie, it's all about the black,silk and lace. The wasp waist completes the femme fatale look. Invest in a girdle and/or corset if needed.Femme fatale clothes need base garments. Corsets are a very good option; wear one as a foundation garment or as part of your outer wear. Avoid \\\"basic\\\" and boring cotton underwear. Remember a femme fatale is always seductive and sexy in a dark way. Lace bras, merry widows, bustiers and garters are some examples. \\n\\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/ef\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\\/v4-460px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/e\\\\/ef\\\\/Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\\/aid964617-v4-728px-Be-a-Glamorous-1940s-Femme-Fatale-Step-6Bullet3.jpg\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":345,\\\"bigWidth\\\":728,\\\"bigHeight\\\":546,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>License: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/3.0\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Wear sunglasses.\", \"描述\": \"When out in the daytime, a femme fatale always wears dark sunglasses possible.It can be retro cat-eyes or big Jackie-O ones; whichever suits your face shape best as long as no one sees your eyes.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Finish your look with a hat.\", \"描述\": \"Something with structure and flatters your face shape, preferably decorated with a veil, jewels, furs or feathers. A good example is a veiled pillbox hat.\"}, {\"编号\": 10, \"标题\": \"Most femmes fatales smoked in the past, when it was still considered sexy.\", \"描述\": \"You don't have to smoke to be a femme fatale—in fact, modern day etiquette dictates that you should not. If you do, however, use a cigarette holder.\"}, {\"编号\": 11, \"标题\": \"Wear sultry,alluring perfume.\", \"描述\": \"Make it your signature scent—you want to be remembered.\"}, {\"编号\": 12, \"标题\": \"Select your jewelery.\", \"描述\": \"Go for diamonds, diamonds, diamonds! Make sure they are big enough to be seen far away.\"}, {\"编号\": 13, \"标题\": \"Cultivate a sultry, Lauren Bacall-esque voice.\", \"描述\": \"(Listen to her voice here) This is the cherry on top to becoming a femme fatale. Lower your voice and do some voice exercises.\\nAvoid making your voice sound too masculine and low that you are no longer audible.\"}], \"小提示\": [\"Stand tall with your shoulders back. Good posture is essential for a femme fatale.\\n\", \"Color test your clothes and lipstick color. The right colors will make a big difference.\\n\", \"Classic femme fatales to get inspired by: Rita Hayworth, Lana Turner, Barbara Stanwyck, Hedy Lamarr...\\n\"], \"注意事项\": [\"When looking like a femme fatale, make it effortless: don't make it look like you're trying too hard!\\n\", \"Looking like a femme fatale does not always mean chain smoking or leading men into dangerous situations!\\n\", \"Know the difference between sexy in a dark and mysterious way and sexy in a promiscuous way. Femme fatales are the former.\\n\", \"Men will be intimidated by you!\\n\", \"Learn the art of seduction, like staring deeply into men's eyes or dangling your marabou mules on the tip of your foot.\\n\"]}]}}",
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1. Assessing the Golfer's Needs
1-1. Prepare the golf bag.
There are certain items that your golfer will need for every round, and it's your responsibility to make sure the bag is properly stocked. If your golfer doesn't have everything required, it could adversely affect the game.
Check your golfer's bag for the appropriate golf clubs, new golf balls, extra gloves, towels, a yardage finder, a yardage book, bug spray, sunscreen, an umbrella, and a medical kit. You might also want to include a rain suit for both of you if the weather is questionable.
1-2. Anticipate your golfer's needs.
The best caddies know what a golfer requires. Keep the golfer hydrated, as cool or dry as possible, and know which club is necessary for the next hole. Be able to distinguish each club and be ready to offer a couple of different solutions for each of the golfer's obstacles throughout the game.
Be sure to carry a towel at all times, since it will be your responsibility to clean the golfer's clubs and balls during a game.
1-3. Learn everything you can about golf.
The more knowledgeable you are about the game, the more of an asset you will be to your golfer. Watch golf, read about golf, play golf, and breathe golf. Visit various courses and talk to other caddies about their experiences.
You can use networking experiences as a resource for learning more about golf and becoming an overall better caddy.
Ask caddies questions such as: "How comfortable are you with that club?" Offer suggestions, but get to know your golfer's communication preferences. Some golfers will want your advice often while others prefer to make their own calls and have very specific preferences.
2. Being a Support System
2-1. Be assertive.
Caddies need a certain amount of confidence in their knowledge of the game. It's acceptable to stop a golfer from swinging if you disagree with a club choice or if you sense the wind about to change. A golfer will be more at ease if he or she knows they can rely on their caddy.
Never speak during a golfer's swing. Offer advice before they are teeing up and say something along the lines of, "I think this club would be very effective here" or "Stay wary of this sudden breeze." Some golfers will prefer that you stay out of the way and let them play, but others will love your words of encouragement.
2-2. Remain positive.
Golf is a game that requires intense concentration and a positive attitude on the part of the player. If your golfer is experiencing a few bad holes, it's your job to boost morale, help the golfer stay focused, and offer words of encouragement when they are most needed. If a golfer blames you for a poor game, you must remain calm and collected.
If your golfer hits above par, say: "Your next hole will be better. Just stay focused. You've got this." Even if you need to critique your golfer or offer advice, try to stroke their ego so they can become more confident in their strokes!
2-3. Give pep talks.
When a golfer is hitting over par, they may become frustrated. In order to ease their tension and keep them focused on their game, offer them words of encouragement and motivation. Learn how to communicate with your golfer in the most effective way; each golfer responds differently to advice. Never talk during their backswing.
3. Mastering the Course
3-1. Get to the course early.
If you are one of the first caddies to show up to the course, you are far more likely to get the chance to caddy for a golfer hitting the course early in the morning. Promptness indicates to the golfer that you are professional and prepared. You never know who could be getting ready to tee off, so never miss out on such an opportunity.
3-2. Learn the yardages of the course.
A caddy needs to know the yardages of the holes, referring to the yardage book when necessary in order to help the golfer choose the right club for each hole.
Knowing the yardages isn't always enough, and the caddy has to take the distances into account with weather conditions, course conditions and lie.
3-3. Join the Professional Caddies Association (PCA).
If you are serious about your role as a caddy, this program can help you become professionally trained and certified. You will be able to learn your local course along with other major and nearby courses. There are also special benefits that come with such an exclusive membership, such as the potential to meet and work with exciting professional golfers at the top of their game
3-4. Stay alert to changing weather patterns.
The wind and the elements can affect the golfer's game, so be ready to provide any information that is relevant. Play in various weather situations yourself to get a better idea of how this can affect one's swing.
Warnings
Expect extreme weather when you work as a caddy. This is an all outdoor job and played in temperatures. If you can handle carrying a golf bag for 18 holes in those conditions, you're a good candidate for a caddying job.
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Be able to distinguish each club and be ready to offer a couple of different solutions for each of the golfer's obstacles throughout the game.\\nBe sure to carry a towel at all times, since it will be your responsibility to clean the golfer's clubs and balls during a game.\\n1-3. Learn everything you can about golf.\\nThe more knowledgeable you are about the game, the more of an asset you will be to your golfer. Watch golf, read about golf, play golf, and breathe golf. Visit various courses and talk to other caddies about their experiences.\\nYou can use networking experiences as a resource for learning more about golf and becoming an overall better caddy.\\nAsk caddies questions such as: \\\"How comfortable are you with that club?\\\" Offer suggestions, but get to know your golfer's communication preferences. Some golfers will want your advice often while others prefer to make their own calls and have very specific preferences.\\n2. Being a Support System\\n2-1. Be assertive.\\nCaddies need a certain amount of confidence in their knowledge of the game. It's acceptable to stop a golfer from swinging if you disagree with a club choice or if you sense the wind about to change. A golfer will be more at ease if he or she knows they can rely on their caddy.\\nNever speak during a golfer's swing. Offer advice before they are teeing up and say something along the lines of, \\\"I think this club would be very effective here\\\" or \\\"Stay wary of this sudden breeze.\\\" Some golfers will prefer that you stay out of the way and let them play, but others will love your words of encouragement.\\n2-2. Remain positive.\\nGolf is a game that requires intense concentration and a positive attitude on the part of the player. If your golfer is experiencing a few bad holes, it's your job to boost morale, help the golfer stay focused, and offer words of encouragement when they are most needed. If a golfer blames you for a poor game, you must remain calm and collected.\\nIf your golfer hits above par, say: \\\"Your next hole will be better. Just stay focused. You've got this.\\\" Even if you need to critique your golfer or offer advice, try to stroke their ego so they can become more confident in their strokes!\\n2-3. Give pep talks.\\nWhen a golfer is hitting over par, they may become frustrated. In order to ease their tension and keep them focused on their game, offer them words of encouragement and motivation. Learn how to communicate with your golfer in the most effective way; each golfer responds differently to advice. Never talk during their backswing.\\n3. Mastering the Course\\n3-1. Get to the course early.\\nIf you are one of the first caddies to show up to the course, you are far more likely to get the chance to caddy for a golfer hitting the course early in the morning. Promptness indicates to the golfer that you are professional and prepared. You never know who could be getting ready to tee off, so never miss out on such an opportunity.\\n3-2. Learn the yardages of the course.\\nA caddy needs to know the yardages of the holes, referring to the yardage book when necessary in order to help the golfer choose the right club for each hole.\\nKnowing the yardages isn't always enough, and the caddy has to take the distances into account with weather conditions, course conditions and lie.\\n3-3. Join the Professional Caddies Association (PCA).\\nIf you are serious about your role as a caddy, this program can help you become professionally trained and certified. You will be able to learn your local course along with other major and nearby courses. There are also special benefits that come with such an exclusive membership, such as the potential to meet and work with exciting professional golfers at the top of their game\\n3-4. Stay alert to changing weather patterns.\\nThe wind and the elements can affect the golfer's game, so be ready to provide any information that is relevant. Play in various weather situations yourself to get a better idea of how this can affect one's swing.\\nWarnings\\nExpect extreme weather when you work as a caddy. This is an all outdoor job and played in temperatures. If you can handle carrying a golf bag for 18 holes in those conditions, you're a good candidate for a caddying job.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a caddy is more than carrying a bag around a golf course for 18 holes. Serving a golfer well in this capacity requires a solid relationship between the golfer and the caddy and an understanding of the game of golf. The golfer should be assured that the caddy is prepared, knows the game well, and offers sound advice. These traits only come from a caddy who is passionate about the game and ready to offer support at any level, on any course.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Assessing the Golfer's Needs\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Prepare the golf bag.\", \"描述\": \"There are certain items that your golfer will need for every round, and it's your responsibility to make sure the bag is properly stocked. If your golfer doesn't have everything required, it could adversely affect the game.\\nCheck your golfer's bag for the appropriate golf clubs, new golf balls, extra gloves, towels, a yardage finder, a yardage book, bug spray, sunscreen, an umbrella, and a medical kit. You might also want to include a rain suit for both of you if the weather is questionable.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Anticipate your golfer's needs.\", \"描述\": \"The best caddies know what a golfer requires. Keep the golfer hydrated, as cool or dry as possible, and know which club is necessary for the next hole. Be able to distinguish each club and be ready to offer a couple of different solutions for each of the golfer's obstacles throughout the game.\\nBe sure to carry a towel at all times, since it will be your responsibility to clean the golfer's clubs and balls during a game.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn everything you can about golf.\", \"描述\": \"The more knowledgeable you are about the game, the more of an asset you will be to your golfer. Watch golf, read about golf, play golf, and breathe golf. Visit various courses and talk to other caddies about their experiences.\\nYou can use networking experiences as a resource for learning more about golf and becoming an overall better caddy.\\nAsk caddies questions such as: \\\"How comfortable are you with that club?\\\" Offer suggestions, but get to know your golfer's communication preferences. Some golfers will want your advice often while others prefer to make their own calls and have very specific preferences.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Being a Support System\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be assertive.\", \"描述\": \"Caddies need a certain amount of confidence in their knowledge of the game. It's acceptable to stop a golfer from swinging if you disagree with a club choice or if you sense the wind about to change. A golfer will be more at ease if he or she knows they can rely on their caddy.\\nNever speak during a golfer's swing. Offer advice before they are teeing up and say something along the lines of, \\\"I think this club would be very effective here\\\" or \\\"Stay wary of this sudden breeze.\\\" Some golfers will prefer that you stay out of the way and let them play, but others will love your words of encouragement.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Remain positive.\", \"描述\": \"Golf is a game that requires intense concentration and a positive attitude on the part of the player. If your golfer is experiencing a few bad holes, it's your job to boost morale, help the golfer stay focused, and offer words of encouragement when they are most needed. If a golfer blames you for a poor game, you must remain calm and collected.\\nIf your golfer hits above par, say: \\\"Your next hole will be better. Just stay focused. You've got this.\\\" Even if you need to critique your golfer or offer advice, try to stroke their ego so they can become more confident in their strokes!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Give pep talks.\", \"描述\": \"When a golfer is hitting over par, they may become frustrated. In order to ease their tension and keep them focused on their game, offer them words of encouragement and motivation. Learn how to communicate with your golfer in the most effective way; each golfer responds differently to advice. Never talk during their backswing.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Mastering the Course\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Get to the course early.\", \"描述\": \"If you are one of the first caddies to show up to the course, you are far more likely to get the chance to caddy for a golfer hitting the course early in the morning. Promptness indicates to the golfer that you are professional and prepared. 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1. Preparing For the Role
1-1. Read the entire script 2-3 times.
You need to know the entire play/movies or episode well, not just your character. Actors exist to drive forward the larger theme and plot of a movie, play or TV show. If you don't understand the larger themes and ideas of the script, then your performance will seem out of place. When reading the script, ask yourself what the main theme of the work is. How does your character fit into the story?
Once you've got a grasp on the full story, turn to your parts and read them an extra 1-2 times. Now, focus on your character's role and lines.
1-2. Ask and answer several key questions about your character.
To really get into your character, you need to dive past what is on the page and start thinking about what makes your character tick. All of this might not make it to the screen/stage, but these little facts will help you fully portray the character and can lead to important discoveries about how you'll play the role. When coming up with "answers," trust your gut, or ask the director or writer for help.
Who am I?
Where am I from?
Why am I here?
1-3. Know your character's defining desire.
All characters, in almost all stories, want something. This is the basis of plot. The desire can be to save the world, to get a date, or simply to grab a bite to eat. But you need to know this desire, and why your character has it, in order to accurately portray them. All of your character's actions will stem in some way from this desire. It is what drives and fuels them.
A character's desires can change, and you need to note when this happens. It is almost always a major scene or moment to portray.
As an exercise, try and pick out the desires of your favorite characters/actors. In There Will Be Blood, for example, the main character is completely driven by the need to find more oil. Every action, look, and emotion springs from this unending, passionate greed, and you can see it on Daniel Day-Lewis's face each scene.
1-4. Practice your lines until they become second nature.
You shouldn't ever have to stop and think about what you're about to say. You should be more concerned with how you're saying it. The only way to get to this point is to practice your lines over and over again, doing your best to recite them without consulting the script. Get a friend to play the rest of the parts so that you can realistically bounce the conversation back and forth.
Experiment with the lines as you read. Try them multiple ways, with different inflections or emphasis, and see how it affects your character.
Recording yourself and watching it later can help you see small mistakes, or hear new ways to deliver the lines.
Focus on getting the lines down first before worrying about perfecting the lines. You want to be able to recite the words now, then make them perfect later.
1-5. Talk to the director about their vision for the character.
If you've already got the role, sit down with the director to see if there is any specific direction they want to go with things. Briefly let them know your ideas about the character and how you see them contributing to the themes in the project, then listen to their ideas as well. Remember that you are there to serve the project as a whole, not just yourself. You need to be able to take constructive criticism and ideas gracefully.
If you don't have the role yet, and are going to an audition, pick a direction for the character and stick with it. Don't try and give people what they want to hear. Instead, read the notes and prepare the lines in the way that feels natural to you.
1-6. Put yourself in the shoes of your character.
You can not adequately represent a character unless you can get inside their head. Even though your words are scripted out, your actions and blocking aren't always written in stone. In addition, knowing your character well will help you improvise should someone forget their lines. Preparing for a role is the process of getting into your character's head, embodying them the best you can.
Method acting is when an actor refuses to break character on set. In between takes, they stay in the role, trying to fully inhabit the character so that they are always perfect when playing the role on camera.
Find the parts of the role that ring true for you. Have you felt the sorts of emotions your character is going through? Do you know a little bit about the struggle? Find ways to channel your emotions into your character's lines for the best results.
2. Playing Believable Characters
2-1. Commit to your roles.
It is not your job, as an actor, to rewrite the script so that you are "more likeable," nor is it your job to judge the writing or character and play a version of yourself instead. It is your job to portray a character that could believably inhabit the world of the movie, play, or TV show. Just like the writer, director, camera person, etc, you need to work as part of a larger, consistent group to make a great show.
Don't be embarrassed by something your character is doing, because it is ultimately just acting. If you hold back on a gross, violent, sexual, or emotionally difficult scene you only end up alienating the audience and coming across as "unrealistic."
All the best actors commit fully to their roles. Ever wonder why Tom Cruise is still an action star? It's because he never winks, jokes, or sleepwalks his way through the script. He always has high-energy and full commitment, even in bizarre or comical situations.
Committing to a role means doing whatever it takes to portray your character realistically, not doing what makes you, the actor, look the best.
Even if what your character is saying and doing doesn't make sense for what you personally would do, use your imagination until their emotions and behavior seem absolutely truthful for who that character is in their own lives.
2-2. Learn to react.
While not everyone agrees that acting is reacting, it is still an important thing to consider when you're learning about acting. This means that you have to work on your responsiveness to any given acting situation. Really focus in on the other actor's lines, listening to them intently like you would any other person's conversation in "real life." You want to respond honestly, in the voice of your character, even if you are not the main attraction of the scene.
Nothing believable between two actors ever happens unless they're both present and truly working off of each other. A hallmark of a good actor is the ability to be on stage or in front of a camera but not be distracted by the audience, camera, or crew.
Keep yourself in the moment. Don't try to start thinking ahead to the next scene, or agonizing about whether you said your lines appropriately in the previous scene.
For a humorous example, watch Charlie Day in the show It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. Even when he is not speaking, his eyebrows, eyes, and fingers are darting around. He fully commits to his character's wild, unpredictable energy.
2-3. Think about a consistent posture.
It's important to remember that something as small as posture can make a big difference. Not only does it make you look more confident, it helps you further inhabit the life of the character. If your character is weak or meager, hunch your shoulders and sink away from the others. If they are heroic, stand tall with your chest and head held high.
2-4. Use your pace and volume to dictate the energy of a scene.
When reciting lines it's tempting to blaze through them as fast as you can. But this is a surefire way to lose the nuance of your role. Instead, let your pacing and volume mimic your character's internal state.
Nervous or scared characters often talk quickly, rushing the words out.
Angry characters will raise their voice, and may slow down their speech (to make a point) or speed it up (when overflowing with anger).
Happy/excited characters tend to speak with an even volume, or raise volume as the speech goes on. They talk quickly.
A variety of pacing and volume, depending on the scene, is a great way to show characters changing or reacting to certain events.
2-5. Play with the emphasis in your lines.
Think about the subtext of every line, and emphasize accordingly. Emphasis the lined is stressed. Think of it as the most important word or phrase of the sentence. It may not sound important, but emphasis can have a huge role in anything you say. "I you" has a different connotation than "I love " for example.
This is another place where famous actors can help you practice. Research an old script online for a movie you haven't seen, then pick a character and try out a couple of line readings. When you watch the movie, compare how the actor chose to deliver the lines. There is no wrong answer here, but this can help you notice the subtleties of emphasis.
2-6. Respect the script.
Unless given permission to do so, or briefly improvising a word or two, stick to the script as much as possible. You may not be sure if there is a call-back to another line or scene, or if a director likes the exact line reading for some reason. When in doubt, always obey the script. Someone will tell you if they want you to improvise or deviate into something different.
2-7. Keep your blocking consistent.
Blocking is where you move and stand in a scene. Once you've decided on blocking with the director, don't change it. Work on hitting the exact same blocking each take, rehearsal, or scene. This allows continuity, and helps the rest of the cast and crew plan their own jobs.
This is especially crucial for filmed projects, as identical blocking allows an editor to cut between different takes without the audience noticing.
2-8. Ignore the camera or audience.
Noticing, reacting to, or acknowledging the audience is the quickest way to fall out of character. In most cases, characters do not know that they are in a play or movie, and you shouldn't either. This comes with practice, but a good way to get ready is to simply get in front of a camera. When you notice it, or feel like you're being watched, don't react to the feeling.
Many experienced casts and crews won't make eye contact with you while acting, knowing that is is a natural human tendency to make eye contact back. Try and help your fellow actors by doing the same while they work and you're taking a break.
Be aware of things that you do when you're nervous. Avoid playing with your hair, hiding your hands in your sleeves, or shuffling your feet. Instead, deal with your nerves by taking a deep breath and drinking some water.
3. Honing your Craft
3-1. Research human behavior through conversations and books.
To play a diverse array of people, you need to know a diverse array of people. When you meet people, do your best to be quiet and listen. Ask them about their lives and stories, note how they talk and any slang they use, and let yourself be a sponge. Reading helps you see these concepts at work. Moreover, reading actually activates the same part of your brain as acting does.
You should also do specific research for your part. If it is based on a specific person or time period, find out as much as you can. These little facts will work their way into your performance, even if only unconsciously.
You act from who and what you are—your humanity, your soul, your experiences. You'll be a more interesting actor the older you get, because you'll have more from your own life to draw from.
3-2. Watch and rewatch actors you admire.
When you're watching someone act, let the scene simply wash over you the first time, watching like you would watch any other movie. Then replay the scene, paying specific attention to each actor separately. What do they do when they aren't talking? How do they deliver their lines? What is their body positioning and posture like? What movements do they use to sell their lines?
Would you read the same lines differently? If so, how?
Classic plays, like Shakespeare, are a great way to see the artistry of acting. YouTube, for example, 5 different actors delivering the same monologue from Hamlet. How do they all differ? What artistic choices is each actor making to make the character unique?
3-3. Go to acting classes.
These classes often end in a production or performance, and are a great way to practice acting in a low-pressure environment. Take note not only of the teacher, but the other students. What can you learn from them? How would you improve their line readings, and would you make any different character choices? Make friends with your fellow actors, and talk to them from time to ask them for advice or tips on your performance.
You never know when a fellow actor will make it big, and could potentially help you get a role. Be kind and friendly to everyone in class-- it will pay dividends later.
3-4. Take improv classes.
Improvisation is the art of acting in the present, letting your character take over the action and react accordingly. Improv skills will help your characters seem natural, like they are reacting to the events on the screen in real time and not reading off a page. There are many improvisation classes in urban and semi-urban areas, and many acting classes feature a small amount of improv training.
Improv games, like acting out suggestions from friends, acting with weird props, or acting short scenes with a friend, are great ways to practice acting anywhere.
3-5. Practice "cold readings" to ace your auditions.
A cold read is when you're handed a script and asked to act it out on the spot. Sometimes you get 1-2 minutes to look it over, and sometimes you need to just launch into it. While this is scary, it is also very easy to practice. Buy a book of monologues, grab passages from a book, or even pick up a dramatic newspaper story and read it out loud. You can also read it once, silently, then take 20-30 seconds to choose a direction for the piece before beginning.
This is also a good warm-up exercise, helping you prepare your mind and body for acting.
Tips
Express yourself. With acting, you have to act with your whole body, not just your voice. Hand gestures and body movements are good, but don't overdo them.
Try imagining the script and emotions as real life. Relate it to your life or someone else's.
Recite your lines to yourself in a mirror. See how you look and your hand gestures and then make changes to better fit the scene and the character.
Warnings
People may criticize you and try to bring you down when starting out, But it is easy to critique someone -- it is a lot harder to put yourself out there as an actor. Keep practicing to shut the haters up.
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All of this might not make it to the screen/stage, but these little facts will help you fully portray the character and can lead to important discoveries about how you'll play the role. When coming up with \\\"answers,\\\" trust your gut, or ask the director or writer for help.\\nWho am I?\\nWhere am I from?\\nWhy am I here?\\n1-3. Know your character's defining desire.\\nAll characters, in almost all stories, want something. This is the basis of plot. The desire can be to save the world, to get a date, or simply to grab a bite to eat. But you need to know this desire, and why your character has it, in order to accurately portray them. All of your character's actions will stem in some way from this desire. It is what drives and fuels them.\\nA character's desires can change, and you need to note when this happens. It is almost always a major scene or moment to portray.\\nAs an exercise, try and pick out the desires of your favorite characters/actors. In There Will Be Blood, for example, the main character is completely driven by the need to find more oil. Every action, look, and emotion springs from this unending, passionate greed, and you can see it on Daniel Day-Lewis's face each scene.\\n1-4. Practice your lines until they become second nature.\\nYou shouldn't ever have to stop and think about what you're about to say. You should be more concerned with how you're saying it. The only way to get to this point is to practice your lines over and over again, doing your best to recite them without consulting the script. Get a friend to play the rest of the parts so that you can realistically bounce the conversation back and forth.\\nExperiment with the lines as you read. Try them multiple ways, with different inflections or emphasis, and see how it affects your character.\\nRecording yourself and watching it later can help you see small mistakes, or hear new ways to deliver the lines.\\nFocus on getting the lines down first before worrying about perfecting the lines. You want to be able to recite the words now, then make them perfect later.\\n1-5. Talk to the director about their vision for the character.\\nIf you've already got the role, sit down with the director to see if there is any specific direction they want to go with things. Briefly let them know your ideas about the character and how you see them contributing to the themes in the project, then listen to their ideas as well. Remember that you are there to serve the project as a whole, not just yourself. You need to be able to take constructive criticism and ideas gracefully.\\nIf you don't have the role yet, and are going to an audition, pick a direction for the character and stick with it. Don't try and give people what they want to hear. Instead, read the notes and prepare the lines in the way that feels natural to you.\\n1-6. Put yourself in the shoes of your character.\\nYou can not adequately represent a character unless you can get inside their head. Even though your words are scripted out, your actions and blocking aren't always written in stone. In addition, knowing your character well will help you improvise should someone forget their lines. Preparing for a role is the process of getting into your character's head, embodying them the best you can.\\nMethod acting is when an actor refuses to break character on set. In between takes, they stay in the role, trying to fully inhabit the character so that they are always perfect when playing the role on camera.\\nFind the parts of the role that ring true for you. Have you felt the sorts of emotions your character is going through? Do you know a little bit about the struggle? Find ways to channel your emotions into your character's lines for the best results.\\n2. Playing Believable Characters\\n2-1. Commit to your roles.\\nIt is not your job, as an actor, to rewrite the script so that you are \\\"more likeable,\\\" nor is it your job to judge the writing or character and play a version of yourself instead. It is your job to portray a character that could believably inhabit the world of the movie, play, or TV show. Just like the writer, director, camera person, etc, you need to work as part of a larger, consistent group to make a great show.\\nDon't be embarrassed by something your character is doing, because it is ultimately just acting. If you hold back on a gross, violent, sexual, or emotionally difficult scene you only end up alienating the audience and coming across as \\\"unrealistic.\\\"\\nAll the best actors commit fully to their roles. Ever wonder why Tom Cruise is still an action star? It's because he never winks, jokes, or sleepwalks his way through the script. He always has high-energy and full commitment, even in bizarre or comical situations.\\nCommitting to a role means doing whatever it takes to portray your character realistically, not doing what makes you, the actor, look the best.\\nEven if what your character is saying and doing doesn't make sense for what you personally would do, use your imagination until their emotions and behavior seem absolutely truthful for who that character is in their own lives.\\n2-2. Learn to react.\\nWhile not everyone agrees that acting is reacting, it is still an important thing to consider when you're learning about acting. This means that you have to work on your responsiveness to any given acting situation. Really focus in on the other actor's lines, listening to them intently like you would any other person's conversation in \\\"real life.\\\" You want to respond honestly, in the voice of your character, even if you are not the main attraction of the scene.\\nNothing believable between two actors ever happens unless they're both present and truly working off of each other. A hallmark of a good actor is the ability to be on stage or in front of a camera but not be distracted by the audience, camera, or crew.\\nKeep yourself in the moment. Don't try to start thinking ahead to the next scene, or agonizing about whether you said your lines appropriately in the previous scene.\\nFor a humorous example, watch Charlie Day in the show It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. Even when he is not speaking, his eyebrows, eyes, and fingers are darting around. He fully commits to his character's wild, unpredictable energy.\\n2-3. Think about a consistent posture.\\nIt's important to remember that something as small as posture can make a big difference. Not only does it make you look more confident, it helps you further inhabit the life of the character. If your character is weak or meager, hunch your shoulders and sink away from the others. If they are heroic, stand tall with your chest and head held high.\\n2-4. Use your pace and volume to dictate the energy of a scene.\\nWhen reciting lines it's tempting to blaze through them as fast as you can. But this is a surefire way to lose the nuance of your role. Instead, let your pacing and volume mimic your character's internal state.\\nNervous or scared characters often talk quickly, rushing the words out.\\nAngry characters will raise their voice, and may slow down their speech (to make a point) or speed it up (when overflowing with anger).\\nHappy/excited characters tend to speak with an even volume, or raise volume as the speech goes on. They talk quickly.\\nA variety of pacing and volume, depending on the scene, is a great way to show characters changing or reacting to certain events.\\n2-5. Play with the emphasis in your lines.\\nThink about the subtext of every line, and emphasize accordingly. Emphasis the lined is stressed. Think of it as the most important word or phrase of the sentence. It may not sound important, but emphasis can have a huge role in anything you say. \\\"I you\\\" has a different connotation than \\\"I love \\\" for example.\\nThis is another place where famous actors can help you practice. Research an old script online for a movie you haven't seen, then pick a character and try out a couple of line readings. When you watch the movie, compare how the actor chose to deliver the lines. There is no wrong answer here, but this can help you notice the subtleties of emphasis.\\n2-6. Respect the script.\\nUnless given permission to do so, or briefly improvising a word or two, stick to the script as much as possible. You may not be sure if there is a call-back to another line or scene, or if a director likes the exact line reading for some reason. When in doubt, always obey the script. Someone will tell you if they want you to improvise or deviate into something different.\\n2-7. Keep your blocking consistent.\\nBlocking is where you move and stand in a scene. Once you've decided on blocking with the director, don't change it. Work on hitting the exact same blocking each take, rehearsal, or scene. This allows continuity, and helps the rest of the cast and crew plan their own jobs.\\nThis is especially crucial for filmed projects, as identical blocking allows an editor to cut between different takes without the audience noticing.\\n2-8. Ignore the camera or audience.\\nNoticing, reacting to, or acknowledging the audience is the quickest way to fall out of character. In most cases, characters do not know that they are in a play or movie, and you shouldn't either. This comes with practice, but a good way to get ready is to simply get in front of a camera. When you notice it, or feel like you're being watched, don't react to the feeling.\\nMany experienced casts and crews won't make eye contact with you while acting, knowing that is is a natural human tendency to make eye contact back. Try and help your fellow actors by doing the same while they work and you're taking a break.\\nBe aware of things that you do when you're nervous. Avoid playing with your hair, hiding your hands in your sleeves, or shuffling your feet. Instead, deal with your nerves by taking a deep breath and drinking some water.\\n3. Honing your Craft\\n3-1. Research human behavior through conversations and books.\\nTo play a diverse array of people, you need to know a diverse array of people. When you meet people, do your best to be quiet and listen. Ask them about their lives and stories, note how they talk and any slang they use, and let yourself be a sponge. Reading helps you see these concepts at work. Moreover, reading actually activates the same part of your brain as acting does.\\nYou should also do specific research for your part. If it is based on a specific person or time period, find out as much as you can. These little facts will work their way into your performance, even if only unconsciously.\\nYou act from who and what you are—your humanity, your soul, your experiences. You'll be a more interesting actor the older you get, because you'll have more from your own life to draw from.\\n3-2. Watch and rewatch actors you admire.\\nWhen you're watching someone act, let the scene simply wash over you the first time, watching like you would watch any other movie. Then replay the scene, paying specific attention to each actor separately. What do they do when they aren't talking? How do they deliver their lines? What is their body positioning and posture like? What movements do they use to sell their lines?\\nWould you read the same lines differently? If so, how?\\nClassic plays, like Shakespeare, are a great way to see the artistry of acting. YouTube, for example, 5 different actors delivering the same monologue from Hamlet. How do they all differ? What artistic choices is each actor making to make the character unique?\\n3-3. Go to acting classes.\\nThese classes often end in a production or performance, and are a great way to practice acting in a low-pressure environment. Take note not only of the teacher, but the other students. What can you learn from them? How would you improve their line readings, and would you make any different character choices? Make friends with your fellow actors, and talk to them from time to ask them for advice or tips on your performance.\\nYou never know when a fellow actor will make it big, and could potentially help you get a role. Be kind and friendly to everyone in class-- it will pay dividends later.\\n3-4. Take improv classes.\\nImprovisation is the art of acting in the present, letting your character take over the action and react accordingly. Improv skills will help your characters seem natural, like they are reacting to the events on the screen in real time and not reading off a page. There are many improvisation classes in urban and semi-urban areas, and many acting classes feature a small amount of improv training.\\nImprov games, like acting out suggestions from friends, acting with weird props, or acting short scenes with a friend, are great ways to practice acting anywhere.\\n3-5. Practice \\\"cold readings\\\" to ace your auditions.\\nA cold read is when you're handed a script and asked to act it out on the spot. Sometimes you get 1-2 minutes to look it over, and sometimes you need to just launch into it. While this is scary, it is also very easy to practice. Buy a book of monologues, grab passages from a book, or even pick up a dramatic newspaper story and read it out loud. You can also read it once, silently, then take 20-30 seconds to choose a direction for the piece before beginning.\\nThis is also a good warm-up exercise, helping you prepare your mind and body for acting.\\nTips\\nExpress yourself. With acting, you have to act with your whole body, not just your voice. Hand gestures and body movements are good, but don't overdo them.\\nTry imagining the script and emotions as real life. Relate it to your life or someone else's.\\nRecite your lines to yourself in a mirror. See how you look and your hand gestures and then make changes to better fit the scene and the character.\\nWarnings\\nPeople may criticize you and try to bring you down when starting out, But it is easy to critique someone -- it is a lot harder to put yourself out there as an actor. Keep practicing to shut the haters up.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"There is always someone who can step on stage and steal the whole show. They are such a good actor/actress that they pull you into their world and leave you on the edge of your seat. Keep reading to find out how to not just an actor or actress, but a great actor/actress and show strong emotions that will captivate your audience.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Preparing For the Role\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Read the entire script 2-3 times.\", \"描述\": \"You need to know the entire play/movies or episode well, not just your character. Actors exist to drive forward the larger theme and plot of a movie, play or TV show. If you don't understand the larger themes and ideas of the script, then your performance will seem out of place. When reading the script, ask yourself what the main theme of the work is. How does your character fit into the story?\\nOnce you've got a grasp on the full story, turn to your parts and read them an extra 1-2 times. Now, focus on your character's role and lines.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Ask and answer several key questions about your character.\", \"描述\": \"To really get into your character, you need to dive past what is on the page and start thinking about what makes your character tick. All of this might not make it to the screen/stage, but these little facts will help you fully portray the character and can lead to important discoveries about how you'll play the role. When coming up with \\\"answers,\\\" trust your gut, or ask the director or writer for help.\\nWho am I?\\nWhere am I from?\\nWhy am I here?\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Know your character's defining desire.\", \"描述\": \"All characters, in almost all stories, want something. This is the basis of plot. The desire can be to save the world, to get a date, or simply to grab a bite to eat. But you need to know this desire, and why your character has it, in order to accurately portray them. All of your character's actions will stem in some way from this desire. It is what drives and fuels them.\\nA character's desires can change, and you need to note when this happens. It is almost always a major scene or moment to portray.\\nAs an exercise, try and pick out the desires of your favorite characters/actors. In There Will Be Blood, for example, the main character is completely driven by the need to find more oil. Every action, look, and emotion springs from this unending, passionate greed, and you can see it on Daniel Day-Lewis's face each scene.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Practice your lines until they become second nature.\", \"描述\": \"You shouldn't ever have to stop and think about what you're about to say. You should be more concerned with how you're saying it. The only way to get to this point is to practice your lines over and over again, doing your best to recite them without consulting the script. Get a friend to play the rest of the parts so that you can realistically bounce the conversation back and forth.\\nExperiment with the lines as you read. Try them multiple ways, with different inflections or emphasis, and see how it affects your character.\\nRecording yourself and watching it later can help you see small mistakes, or hear new ways to deliver the lines.\\nFocus on getting the lines down first before worrying about perfecting the lines. You want to be able to recite the words now, then make them perfect later.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Talk to the director about their vision for the character.\", \"描述\": \"If you've already got the role, sit down with the director to see if there is any specific direction they want to go with things. Briefly let them know your ideas about the character and how you see them contributing to the themes in the project, then listen to their ideas as well. Remember that you are there to serve the project as a whole, not just yourself. You need to be able to take constructive criticism and ideas gracefully.\\nIf you don't have the role yet, and are going to an audition, pick a direction for the character and stick with it. Don't try and give people what they want to hear. Instead, read the notes and prepare the lines in the way that feels natural to you.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Put yourself in the shoes of your character.\", \"描述\": \"You can not adequately represent a character unless you can get inside their head. Even though your words are scripted out, your actions and blocking aren't always written in stone. In addition, knowing your character well will help you improvise should someone forget their lines. Preparing for a role is the process of getting into your character's head, embodying them the best you can.\\nMethod acting is when an actor refuses to break character on set. In between takes, they stay in the role, trying to fully inhabit the character so that they are always perfect when playing the role on camera.\\nFind the parts of the role that ring true for you. Have you felt the sorts of emotions your character is going through? Do you know a little bit about the struggle? Find ways to channel your emotions into your character's lines for the best results.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Playing Believable Characters\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Commit to your roles.\", \"描述\": \"It is not your job, as an actor, to rewrite the script so that you are \\\"more likeable,\\\" nor is it your job to judge the writing or character and play a version of yourself instead. It is your job to portray a character that could believably inhabit the world of the movie, play, or TV show. Just like the writer, director, camera person, etc, you need to work as part of a larger, consistent group to make a great show.\\nDon't be embarrassed by something your character is doing, because it is ultimately just acting. If you hold back on a gross, violent, sexual, or emotionally difficult scene you only end up alienating the audience and coming across as \\\"unrealistic.\\\"\\nAll the best actors commit fully to their roles. Ever wonder why Tom Cruise is still an action star? It's because he never winks, jokes, or sleepwalks his way through the script. He always has high-energy and full commitment, even in bizarre or comical situations.\\nCommitting to a role means doing whatever it takes to portray your character realistically, not doing what makes you, the actor, look the best.\\nEven if what your character is saying and doing doesn't make sense for what you personally would do, use your imagination until their emotions and behavior seem absolutely truthful for who that character is in their own lives.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn to react.\", \"描述\": \"While not everyone agrees that acting is reacting, it is still an important thing to consider when you're learning about acting. This means that you have to work on your responsiveness to any given acting situation. Really focus in on the other actor's lines, listening to them intently like you would any other person's conversation in \\\"real life.\\\" You want to respond honestly, in the voice of your character, even if you are not the main attraction of the scene.\\nNothing believable between two actors ever happens unless they're both present and truly working off of each other. A hallmark of a good actor is the ability to be on stage or in front of a camera but not be distracted by the audience, camera, or crew.\\nKeep yourself in the moment. Don't try to start thinking ahead to the next scene, or agonizing about whether you said your lines appropriately in the previous scene.\\nFor a humorous example, watch Charlie Day in the show It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia. Even when he is not speaking, his eyebrows, eyes, and fingers are darting around. He fully commits to his character's wild, unpredictable energy.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Think about a consistent posture.\", \"描述\": \"It's important to remember that something as small as posture can make a big difference. Not only does it make you look more confident, it helps you further inhabit the life of the character. If your character is weak or meager, hunch your shoulders and sink away from the others. If they are heroic, stand tall with your chest and head held high.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Use your pace and volume to dictate the energy of a scene.\", \"描述\": \"When reciting lines it's tempting to blaze through them as fast as you can. But this is a surefire way to lose the nuance of your role. Instead, let your pacing and volume mimic your character's internal state.\\nNervous or scared characters often talk quickly, rushing the words out.\\nAngry characters will raise their voice, and may slow down their speech (to make a point) or speed it up (when overflowing with anger).\\nHappy/excited characters tend to speak with an even volume, or raise volume as the speech goes on. They talk quickly.\\nA variety of pacing and volume, depending on the scene, is a great way to show characters changing or reacting to certain events.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Play with the emphasis in your lines.\", \"描述\": \"Think about the subtext of every line, and emphasize accordingly. Emphasis the lined is stressed. Think of it as the most important word or phrase of the sentence. It may not sound important, but emphasis can have a huge role in anything you say. \\\"I you\\\" has a different connotation than \\\"I love \\\" for example.\\nThis is another place where famous actors can help you practice. Research an old script online for a movie you haven't seen, then pick a character and try out a couple of line readings. When you watch the movie, compare how the actor chose to deliver the lines. There is no wrong answer here, but this can help you notice the subtleties of emphasis.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Respect the script.\", \"描述\": \"Unless given permission to do so, or briefly improvising a word or two, stick to the script as much as possible. You may not be sure if there is a call-back to another line or scene, or if a director likes the exact line reading for some reason. When in doubt, always obey the script. 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What Does It Mean to Be a Good American? 13 Ways to Be a Model American
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1. Understand what makes a "good" American.
Americans are equally committed to diversity and unity.
Americans fill both sides of the aisle; they’re different races, genders, sexual identities, and religions. So what do all “good” Americans have in common? They support their neighbors, they’re generous in spirit and in attitude, they’re tolerant of different opinions, and they work hard to continue improving a country they love.
The American Constitution says we should aim, “To form a more perfect Union.” Meaning, we should work to improve every individual’s life within the American collective.
2. Take pride in America's freedom of speech.
Unlike some other countries, America protects free speech.
To honor your country, exercise your own free speech, and protect your neighbor’s rights when you have the opportunity. Under the first constitutional amendment, the government can’t limit religion, press, assembly, and petitions that fall under “free speech.”
To exercise your freedom of speech, you don’t have to hit any age or citizenship requirement. If you’re on US soil, you’re in the clear.
To you, freedom of speech may be praying on public school grounds—no one can keep you from expressing your beliefs (as long as they aren’t disruptive).
Or, your neighbor may chose to protest an American law that they find unjust. If others disapprove, vocally support their freedom of speech.
3. Value your American identity.
Americans value being part of a collective.
To be a good American, buy into a common identity. Your country is made up of totally different individuals, but at the end of the day, you share common goals and characteristics. You’re all committed to creating a safe, prosperous place to live for all American people. You’re dedicated to free speech, including voting rights, for all.
American plurality also means that as the country’s collective identity changes, the laws that support and define it should change in fitting ways.
4. Stay true to red, white, and blue.
Be a loyal American.
Balance love for your country with a tolerance for dissent—meaning, while you uphold and celebrate American values, remember that accepting your neighbor’s differing opinions is an important American ideal, too. If you’re new to the country, pledge your loyalty and fidelity as a part of your citizenship oath.
If you’re a dual citizen, continue loving your original nationality, but prioritize your American identity.
Do your best to respect your country even while you're protesting for change—for example, don’t burn the flag to make a point.
Support US teams abroad. Sports, for instance, symbolize country pride. Cheer on Team USA’s athletes in the Olympics to show your love.
5. Keep your country beautiful.
Make it your mission to preserve American arts and nature.
How can you show love for your country? Protect and support its natural beauty—both its physical landscape and its rich culture. Volunteer your time and money to keep America green and gorgeous.
Clean up local beaches and highways; plant trees and dedicate time to environmental restoration practices.
Support your local arts by attending theaters, shows, and plays. Donate to orgs that keep arts in schools, too.
Do your best not to damage the American landscape. Never litter (especially in natural parks), and recycle when you're able.
6. Abide by American laws.
Respect laws that keep us safe (and help change laws when necessary).
In any civilized community, order is important—in America, police officers keep order. Do your best to abide by local and federal laws, carry your license with you, and listen to officers when you interact.
At the same time, no criminal justice system is perfect, and it’s important to use your voice to improve the American system when that’s needed.
Times change and a country’s needs will, too—the only way to guarantee an imperfect justice system is to refuse to let it grow, adjust, and improve.
If you feel like the American policing system needs work, use your freedom of speech to organize, petition, and protest until change occurs.
7. Be polite.
On the whole, Americans are friendly, personable, and neighborly.
Greet a stranger on the street, and it’s very likely that they’ll respond in a kind, enthusiastic way. Have small talk with acquaintances, smile in your greetings, and use phrases that show good manners (like “Please,” “Thank you,” and “I’m sorry”).
Try asking questions that show people you have an interest in their life: “How has your dog been? I remember he’d been sick recently.”
Shake hands with new acquaintances and look them in the eyes while you speak to each other.
Hold the door and elevator for others when they approach you. This is a simple way to show that you’re looking out for them.
8. Prioritize tolerance.
Even if you disagree, understand that other opinions are worth protecting.
Being tolerant is an American virtue—to do this, try looking for common ground and seek to understand others' takes, not just disprove them. Ask questions and listen carefully. If you feel hurt by another's opinion, remember that understanding creates room for them to form new thoughts, feelings, and beliefs—hostility usually does the opposite.
When someone says something you disagree with, try to understand: “Okay, interesting. Why do you think it is that you feel that way?”
When you disagree, dismantle arguments, don’t insult others personally. “Hmm…I disagree with your take, because studies show the opposite…”
“Tolerance” can help create a strong foundation. With a strong foundation, Americans can create a safer, happier, more moral country going forward.
9. Practice compassion and charity.
Love your neighbors and the less fortunate to honor your country.
Being a great American means recognizing that we’re all in this together; so in a way, your neighbor’s struggles are yours, too. Give money to the less fortunate, perform random generous acts, and most of all, try to understand people who have less than you—instead of judging them.
Donate your time and resources to organizations. Research local and national charities, carve out time to commit, and work to improve the lives of others.
Bring cookies to your struggling neighbor, bring lunch to a homeless person on your street, or buy holiday gifts for a family in need in your community.
Do research to understand why hunger and homelessness occur in your community. This will make you a more compassionate and better American overall!
10. Stay optimistic.
Americans believe in a brighter future.
Their energy and confidence can be an amazing tool; this helps Americans to build better communities, work harder for others, and dream of a new and exciting future. To honor your country, keep thinking of ways you improve your community and even when things seem hopeless, refuse to give up.
For instance, if your local football team is having a losing season, continue cheering them on! Plan ways to support them more during their next season, too.
If you’re an environmentalist, you may feel that negatives are everywhere. Don’t let this stop you—continue searching for positive, fresh ways to fight the good fight.
11. Focus on your health.
Americans value physical and mental fitness.
So, honor your country by treating your body right. Focus on getting all of the nutrients you need, work out in ways you enjoy, and make time to decompress from your busy schedule. After all, your body and emotions are linked, so you can’t ignore mental and emotional health when you’re looking to get fit!
Try exercises that get you into nature (which is another natural stress reliever). Canoe, jog, hike, row, swim, or bike around your community.
If you’re looking to eat healthier but have trouble with healthy diets, try smoothies. Knock out your daily fruit and veg intake in one, blended drink.
Pay attention to what makes you feel good. Spend time with friends, get creative, or even book time with a therapist if it helps you relax.
12. Study American history.
By understanding your country's history, you'll know better how to honor it.
When was America founded, and how did it come to be? What about indigenous Americans—what do you know of their history on their land? To be a good American, study the lives that built your country. Learn about conflicts, themes, and turning points that shaped America over centuries. Try these tips to learn more:
Enroll in a course at your local community college on US History to get the basics down.
Study facets of US history that interest you. Read classic American fiction, nonfiction, and online sources, like the American History Museum.
Stay on top of current events by reading the newspaper and listening to podcasts. The New York Times’ podcast (The Daily) is a great place to start.
13. Read up on the American government.
Pay special attention to the political institutions that serve you.
Voting, the government’s branches (executive, judicial, and legislative), the constitution and its amendments are all key topics. While you're studying, try to understand these important themes, too:
The American government aims to divide governing powers across different branches, so that no one branch becomes too powerful.
This relates to the separation of powers—every branch has the power to police or “check” every other branch.
Federal government is the central system that enforces laws across the country—then, some laws are set at a state level.
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Under the first constitutional amendment, the government can’t limit religion, press, assembly, and petitions that fall under “free speech.”\\nTo exercise your freedom of speech, you don’t have to hit any age or citizenship requirement. If you’re on US soil, you’re in the clear.\\nTo you, freedom of speech may be praying on public school grounds—no one can keep you from expressing your beliefs (as long as they aren’t disruptive).\\nOr, your neighbor may chose to protest an American law that they find unjust. If others disapprove, vocally support their freedom of speech.\\n3. Value your American identity.\\nAmericans value being part of a collective.\\nTo be a good American, buy into a common identity. Your country is made up of totally different individuals, but at the end of the day, you share common goals and characteristics. You’re all committed to creating a safe, prosperous place to live for all American people. You’re dedicated to free speech, including voting rights, for all.\\nAmerican plurality also means that as the country’s collective identity changes, the laws that support and define it should change in fitting ways.\\n4. Stay true to red, white, and blue.\\nBe a loyal American.\\nBalance love for your country with a tolerance for dissent—meaning, while you uphold and celebrate American values, remember that accepting your neighbor’s differing opinions is an important American ideal, too. If you’re new to the country, pledge your loyalty and fidelity as a part of your citizenship oath.\\nIf you’re a dual citizen, continue loving your original nationality, but prioritize your American identity.\\nDo your best to respect your country even while you're protesting for change—for example, don’t burn the flag to make a point.\\nSupport US teams abroad. Sports, for instance, symbolize country pride. Cheer on Team USA’s athletes in the Olympics to show your love.\\n5. Keep your country beautiful.\\nMake it your mission to preserve American arts and nature.\\nHow can you show love for your country? Protect and support its natural beauty—both its physical landscape and its rich culture. Volunteer your time and money to keep America green and gorgeous.\\nClean up local beaches and highways; plant trees and dedicate time to environmental restoration practices.\\nSupport your local arts by attending theaters, shows, and plays. Donate to orgs that keep arts in schools, too.\\nDo your best not to damage the American landscape. Never litter (especially in natural parks), and recycle when you're able.\\n6. Abide by American laws.\\nRespect laws that keep us safe (and help change laws when necessary).\\nIn any civilized community, order is important—in America, police officers keep order. Do your best to abide by local and federal laws, carry your license with you, and listen to officers when you interact.\\nAt the same time, no criminal justice system is perfect, and it’s important to use your voice to improve the American system when that’s needed.\\nTimes change and a country’s needs will, too—the only way to guarantee an imperfect justice system is to refuse to let it grow, adjust, and improve.\\nIf you feel like the American policing system needs work, use your freedom of speech to organize, petition, and protest until change occurs.\\n7. Be polite.\\nOn the whole, Americans are friendly, personable, and neighborly.\\nGreet a stranger on the street, and it’s very likely that they’ll respond in a kind, enthusiastic way. Have small talk with acquaintances, smile in your greetings, and use phrases that show good manners (like “Please,” “Thank you,” and “I’m sorry”). \\nTry asking questions that show people you have an interest in their life: “How has your dog been? I remember he’d been sick recently.”\\nShake hands with new acquaintances and look them in the eyes while you speak to each other.\\nHold the door and elevator for others when they approach you. This is a simple way to show that you’re looking out for them.\\n8. Prioritize tolerance.\\nEven if you disagree, understand that other opinions are worth protecting.\\nBeing tolerant is an American virtue—to do this, try looking for common ground and seek to understand others' takes, not just disprove them. Ask questions and listen carefully. If you feel hurt by another's opinion, remember that understanding creates room for them to form new thoughts, feelings, and beliefs—hostility usually does the opposite.\\nWhen someone says something you disagree with, try to understand: “Okay, interesting. Why do you think it is that you feel that way?”\\nWhen you disagree, dismantle arguments, don’t insult others personally. “Hmm…I disagree with your take, because studies show the opposite…”\\n“Tolerance” can help create a strong foundation. With a strong foundation, Americans can create a safer, happier, more moral country going forward.\\n9. Practice compassion and charity.\\nLove your neighbors and the less fortunate to honor your country.\\nBeing a great American means recognizing that we’re all in this together; so in a way, your neighbor’s struggles are yours, too. Give money to the less fortunate, perform random generous acts, and most of all, try to understand people who have less than you—instead of judging them.\\nDonate your time and resources to organizations. Research local and national charities, carve out time to commit, and work to improve the lives of others.\\nBring cookies to your struggling neighbor, bring lunch to a homeless person on your street, or buy holiday gifts for a family in need in your community.\\nDo research to understand why hunger and homelessness occur in your community. This will make you a more compassionate and better American overall!\\n10. Stay optimistic.\\nAmericans believe in a brighter future.\\nTheir energy and confidence can be an amazing tool; this helps Americans to build better communities, work harder for others, and dream of a new and exciting future. To honor your country, keep thinking of ways you improve your community and even when things seem hopeless, refuse to give up.\\nFor instance, if your local football team is having a losing season, continue cheering them on! Plan ways to support them more during their next season, too.\\nIf you’re an environmentalist, you may feel that negatives are everywhere. Don’t let this stop you—continue searching for positive, fresh ways to fight the good fight.\\n11. Focus on your health.\\nAmericans value physical and mental fitness.\\nSo, honor your country by treating your body right. Focus on getting all of the nutrients you need, work out in ways you enjoy, and make time to decompress from your busy schedule. After all, your body and emotions are linked, so you can’t ignore mental and emotional health when you’re looking to get fit!\\nTry exercises that get you into nature (which is another natural stress reliever). Canoe, jog, hike, row, swim, or bike around your community.\\nIf you’re looking to eat healthier but have trouble with healthy diets, try smoothies. Knock out your daily fruit and veg intake in one, blended drink.\\nPay attention to what makes you feel good. Spend time with friends, get creative, or even book time with a therapist if it helps you relax.\\n12. Study American history.\\nBy understanding your country's history, you'll know better how to honor it.\\nWhen was America founded, and how did it come to be? What about indigenous Americans—what do you know of their history on their land? To be a good American, study the lives that built your country. Learn about conflicts, themes, and turning points that shaped America over centuries. Try these tips to learn more:\\n\\nEnroll in a course at your local community college on US History to get the basics down.\\nStudy facets of US history that interest you. Read classic American fiction, nonfiction, and online sources, like the American History Museum.\\nStay on top of current events by reading the newspaper and listening to podcasts. The New York Times’ podcast (The Daily) is a great place to start.\\n13. 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1. Steps
1-1. Be friendly
You don't necessarily need to know them, but a simple hello or greeting goes a long way. Creating friendly relationships also makes it easier to interact in the future if anyone has questions or concerns.
1-2. Acknowledge neighbors who smile at you or greet you.
You don't have to stop and chat, but a little smile and wave don't cost you anything. Remember the nasty thoughts that crossed your mind about people you've said hi to who ignored you? You don't want anyone thinking of you that way.
Don't be creepy or annoying. While being friendly is important, it's equally important to allow your neighbors the level of privacy they desire. Don't just knock on people's doors and expect them to invite you in. Read your neighbors' body language. Does it look like they're in a hurry? Have they actually told you that they are in a rush? Then stop talking and let them go!
Get to know the property management and employees. Be sure to keep a contact list in case you need a maintenance fix or for emergency purposes. Put all requests for work in writing.
Participate in your apartment's events, discussion board or tenant portal. One of the potential benefits of apartment living is that neighbors look after one another. Introducing yourself is the first step toward getting the most out of your community.
1-3. Be soft-spoken when entering and exiting.
It may be normal to walk from the parking lot to your front door and vice versa, but you'll need to consider how loud a person is. Avoid stomping on stairwells, especially when leaving before sunrise or coming back late at night. Try not to walk around apartment with wood floors in your shoes (put them on just prior to leaving your apartment and remove upon entering your apartment) not all tenants work a "9-5" job and may be trying to sleep during "regular" daylight hours. Keep the noise at whisper-level in hallways. Loud laughter and conversations while people are relaxing or sleeping are a nuisance. Close doors behind you gently. Apartment doors create a lot of noise. Don't let them slam shut.
1-4. Be considerate of the noise level inside the apartment.
This is one of the most common complaints reported to managers. More noise etiquette is needed if you live above another person. Soft footwear makes less noise than heavy duty items such as boots or high heels. It's not necessary to thump your heels around the kitchen in the middle of the night. If a neighbor requests for you to keep the noise level down, take it to heart. Rugs and rug pads are a must if you have hard flooring.
Try to vacuum or use exercise machines on the weekends or when you know people are at work. Noise and vibrations goes through floorboards and can be louder than you think.
Practice "quiet time" rules with children. Allow them to jump and run around during the day, but instruct them that they need to stop doing so when the sun goes down. Instead of having them create havoc indoors, spend quality time outside, such as in a small community playground. If you don't have carpet, have plenty of rugs down on the floor to muffle the noise of children.
Don't allow children to run or play in the hallways.
Turn the volume down on electronics, such as radios and televisions. For wall-to-wall neighbors, you may want to move devices away from those specific walls. If you're hard of hearing or if you like to listen to media at a high volume, invest in headphones.
1-5. Have on-site laundry etiquette.
It's advisable to time each machine and avoid leaving clothe unattended for any period. A typical washer operates for about 30 minutes on average, while a dryer can take between 45 and 60 minutes.
Never stop another person's laundry mid-wash or mid-dry to use a machine.
Never insert another person's wet clothes into a dryer. Every person has their own specific way of drying clothes, whether it's air drying or using a particular machine dial/setting. And then there are the delicates that shouldn't be placed in the dryer at all!
If no washers and dryers are available and another person's clothes have been sitting in an otherwise usable machine, you may remove them. It is considerate to wait at least 10 minutes if you can. Lay their clothes on a clean plastic bag, on a counter or on a folding table - never on the floor.
Always clean out lint screens and wipe up any spills. Who wants to clean up after another person that did a load before you?
1-6. Know the rules for different kinds of apartment parking.
Respect all parking space borders by parking within the lines not on them) and don't double park.
1-7. In assigned lots, parking stalls are included in contracts.
It is never okay to assume that you can use an empty space. Not even for just a few minutes. If your neighbor returns and finds your car in their space, you can probably forget your chances of having a civil relationship with them.
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If you see them in the parking lot with groceries, ask them if they need help carrying them inside the building or hold any doors open. If you see their mail piling up or you don't notice their lights on at night for some time, knock on their door and see if they're doing okay.
If you see a neighbor struggling to take their trash cans in or out, you can approach them and ask if you can help in some way.
Or if you observe them driving in a way that may not be safe and if you know their family, you can tell them that you observed something which can be unsafe for them.
There is a network of various organizations in every community that provides free medicines and other facilities. You can donate money to them or work as a volunteer.
1-9. Ask any questions regarding smoking with the property management.
Even if it's allowed inside the apartment, make sure that the area is completely ventilated with the windows and vents open. If smoke isn't venting well, install a box fan in your window backwards to suck the smoke out. Properly discard cigarette butts in your own trash; do not fling them out the window. You need to obey rules with a non-smoking apartment, so light up on the sidewalk.
1-10. Choose small pets
Be aware of what - if any - house pets are permitted. If your building allows cats and dogs, choose small ones. Cats and small dogs don't usually make a lot of noise while walking on floors and they are less likely to threaten other neighbors. Always keep any four-legged animal on a leash while walking outside of your apartment and bring a plastic bag with you at all times. Inform your neighbors about a new pet if you're uncertain about their feelings.
1-11. Have apartment dumpster etiquette.
Always break down and fold up boxes and other compact items.
Make sure your trash bag is secured closed and that it isn't leaking. Double bag if necessary. Be sure to wrap sharp edged items carefully and multiple times in newspaper or paper shopping bags. Leaky bags leave behind odors and stains that are likely to offend your neighbors and management won't have any trouble following the trail of the stain that probably ends at your door. In that case, you may be charged for clean up costs or even for carpet replacement.
Do not overfill bins or attempt to squeeze a too large bag down a trash chute. If your bag expands even a little as it falls, it could get stuck and create a back up.
1-12. Only invite guests over who can respect your apartment buildings house rules.
Most contracts forbid guests or any person not under the lease to be left alone in the apartment. Reckless behavior or any disputes between the guest(s) and another tenant may become the leaseholder's responsibility.
If holding a party, let those neighbors likely to be inconvenienced know about the occasion. If you think the neighbors will enjoy themselves too, consider inviting them.
Avoid having loud get-togethers on weeknights.
Most importantly, be tolerant. Whether you forgot about a load of laundry in the dryer or accidentally started a fire, we've all behaved inconsiderately at some point. Your neighbors are no different. They aren't perfect either.
Tips
Live the golden rule. Treat others as you'd like to be treated. Put yourself in their shoes about noise levels, parking in one's stall after a hard day at work, and other lifestyles. These aren't your family members, friends, nor roommates - just ordinary people, some whom would like to live in peace and quiet.
If you live in a condo or are permitted to have construction work done in your apartment, be considerate of the noise level. As a courtesy, notify your immediate neighbors in advance of when the work is going to be performed, and always try to schedule it no earlier than mid-morning and no later than dinnertime. This is especially important when the construction work involves audible nuisances like drilling, hammering, etc.
Be aware that someone with a limp or someone overweight may still creak floors and stairs or seem to stomp with every step even if they're barefoot or wearing soft house slippers and moving as quietly as possible. If you complain about repeated stomping, talk about it. Once they've done everything they can, just accept it - disabled people can't always comply with this. Anyone using a cane indoors is going to make that noise whether they want to or not. You can't expect them not to leave early for work, use the bathroom at night, fix a snack or not come in late from long working hours. Some noise complaints are negotiable, others aren't. If you see a cane, it may not ever be negotiable.
Warnings
Etiquette adviser Kate Spade recommends that you choose your battles with neighbors wisely because continued sparring between neighbors is a lose-lose situation.[11]
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Loud laughter and conversations while people are relaxing or sleeping are a nuisance. Close doors behind you gently. Apartment doors create a lot of noise. Don't let them slam shut.\\n1-4. Be considerate of the noise level inside the apartment.\\nThis is one of the most common complaints reported to managers. More noise etiquette is needed if you live above another person. Soft footwear makes less noise than heavy duty items such as boots or high heels. It's not necessary to thump your heels around the kitchen in the middle of the night. If a neighbor requests for you to keep the noise level down, take it to heart. Rugs and rug pads are a must if you have hard flooring.\\nTry to vacuum or use exercise machines on the weekends or when you know people are at work. Noise and vibrations goes through floorboards and can be louder than you think.\\nPractice \\\"quiet time\\\" rules with children. Allow them to jump and run around during the day, but instruct them that they need to stop doing so when the sun goes down. Instead of having them create havoc indoors, spend quality time outside, such as in a small community playground. If you don't have carpet, have plenty of rugs down on the floor to muffle the noise of children.\\nDon't allow children to run or play in the hallways.\\nTurn the volume down on electronics, such as radios and televisions. For wall-to-wall neighbors, you may want to move devices away from those specific walls. If you're hard of hearing or if you like to listen to media at a high volume, invest in headphones.\\n1-5. Have on-site laundry etiquette.\\nIt's advisable to time each machine and avoid leaving clothe unattended for any period. A typical washer operates for about 30 minutes on average, while a dryer can take between 45 and 60 minutes.\\nNever stop another person's laundry mid-wash or mid-dry to use a machine.\\nNever insert another person's wet clothes into a dryer. Every person has their own specific way of drying clothes, whether it's air drying or using a particular machine dial/setting. And then there are the delicates that shouldn't be placed in the dryer at all!\\nIf no washers and dryers are available and another person's clothes have been sitting in an otherwise usable machine, you may remove them. It is considerate to wait at least 10 minutes if you can. Lay their clothes on a clean plastic bag, on a counter or on a folding table - never on the floor.\\nAlways clean out lint screens and wipe up any spills. Who wants to clean up after another person that did a load before you?\\n1-6. Know the rules for different kinds of apartment parking.\\nRespect all parking space borders by parking within the lines not on them) and don't double park.\\n1-7. In assigned lots, parking stalls are included in contracts.\\nIt is never okay to assume that you can use an empty space. Not even for just a few minutes. If your neighbor returns and finds your car in their space, you can probably forget your chances of having a civil relationship with them.\\n1-8. \\n{\\\"smallUrl\\\":\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/www.wikihow.com\\\\/images\\\\/c\\\\/c1\\\\/Olderneigh2.png\\\",\\\"bigUrl\\\":\\\"\\\\/images\\\\/thumb\\\\/c\\\\/c1\\\\/Olderneigh2.png\\\\/393px-Olderneigh2.png\\\",\\\"smallWidth\\\":460,\\\"smallHeight\\\":342,\\\"bigWidth\\\":393,\\\"bigHeight\\\":292,\\\"licensing\\\":\\\"<div class=\\\\\\\"mw-parser-output\\\\\\\"><p>Image from: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"http:\\\\/\\\\/www.videojug.com\\\\/film\\\\/how-to-look-out-for-an-older-neighbour\\\\\\\">Source<\\\\/a><br>\\\\nLicense: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/2.5\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a>\\\\n<\\\\/p><p><br \\\\/>\\\\nLicense: <a target=\\\\\\\"_blank\\\\\\\" rel=\\\\\\\"nofollow noreferrer noopener\\\\\\\" class=\\\\\\\"external text\\\\\\\" href=\\\\\\\"https:\\\\/\\\\/creativecommons.org\\\\/licenses\\\\/by-nc-sa\\\\/2.5\\\\/\\\\\\\">Creative Commons<\\\\/a><br>\\\\n<\\\\/p><\\\\/div>\\\"}\\n If you see them in the parking lot with groceries, ask them if they need help carrying them inside the building or hold any doors open. If you see their mail piling up or you don't notice their lights on at night for some time, knock on their door and see if they're doing okay.\\nIf you see a neighbor struggling to take their trash cans in or out, you can approach them and ask if you can help in some way.\\nOr if you observe them driving in a way that may not be safe and if you know their family, you can tell them that you observed something which can be unsafe for them.\\nThere is a network of various organizations in every community that provides free medicines and other facilities. You can donate money to them or work as a volunteer.\\n1-9. Ask any questions regarding smoking with the property management.\\nEven if it's allowed inside the apartment, make sure that the area is completely ventilated with the windows and vents open. If smoke isn't venting well, install a box fan in your window backwards to suck the smoke out. Properly discard cigarette butts in your own trash; do not fling them out the window. You need to obey rules with a non-smoking apartment, so light up on the sidewalk.\\n1-10. Choose small pets\\nBe aware of what - if any - house pets are permitted. If your building allows cats and dogs, choose small ones. Cats and small dogs don't usually make a lot of noise while walking on floors and they are less likely to threaten other neighbors. Always keep any four-legged animal on a leash while walking outside of your apartment and bring a plastic bag with you at all times. Inform your neighbors about a new pet if you're uncertain about their feelings.\\n1-11. Have apartment dumpster etiquette.\\nAlways break down and fold up boxes and other compact items.\\nMake sure your trash bag is secured closed and that it isn't leaking. Double bag if necessary. Be sure to wrap sharp edged items carefully and multiple times in newspaper or paper shopping bags. Leaky bags leave behind odors and stains that are likely to offend your neighbors and management won't have any trouble following the trail of the stain that probably ends at your door. In that case, you may be charged for clean up costs or even for carpet replacement.\\nDo not overfill bins or attempt to squeeze a too large bag down a trash chute. If your bag expands even a little as it falls, it could get stuck and create a back up.\\n1-12. Only invite guests over who can respect your apartment buildings house rules.\\nMost contracts forbid guests or any person not under the lease to be left alone in the apartment. Reckless behavior or any disputes between the guest(s) and another tenant may become the leaseholder's responsibility.\\nIf holding a party, let those neighbors likely to be inconvenienced know about the occasion. If you think the neighbors will enjoy themselves too, consider inviting them.\\nAvoid having loud get-togethers on weeknights.\\nMost importantly, be tolerant. Whether you forgot about a load of laundry in the dryer or accidentally started a fire, we've all behaved inconsiderately at some point. Your neighbors are no different. They aren't perfect either.\\nTips\\nLive the golden rule. Treat others as you'd like to be treated. Put yourself in their shoes about noise levels, parking in one's stall after a hard day at work, and other lifestyles. These aren't your family members, friends, nor roommates - just ordinary people, some whom would like to live in peace and quiet.\\nIf you live in a condo or are permitted to have construction work done in your apartment, be considerate of the noise level. As a courtesy, notify your immediate neighbors in advance of when the work is going to be performed, and always try to schedule it no earlier than mid-morning and no later than dinnertime. This is especially important when the construction work involves audible nuisances like drilling, hammering, etc.\\nBe aware that someone with a limp or someone overweight may still creak floors and stairs or seem to stomp with every step even if they're barefoot or wearing soft house slippers and moving as quietly as possible. If you complain about repeated stomping, talk about it. Once they've done everything they can, just accept it - disabled people can't always comply with this. Anyone using a cane indoors is going to make that noise whether they want to or not. You can't expect them not to leave early for work, use the bathroom at night, fix a snack or not come in late from long working hours. Some noise complaints are negotiable, others aren't. If you see a cane, it may not ever be negotiable.\\nWarnings\\nEtiquette adviser Kate Spade recommends that you choose your battles with neighbors wisely because continued sparring between neighbors is a lose-lose situation.[11]\\nX\\nResearch source\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Residing in an apartment may liberate you from the headaches of owning a house, but everything comes with responsibilities. An apartment lifestyle can be complicated when it comes to etiquette issues. A little courtesy can certainly make apartment life much easier. This article offers a few helpful tips on maintaining a courteous relationship with your fellow apartment neighbors, so that you can live in harmony - or at least something close to it.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Steps\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be friendly\", \"描述\": \"You don't necessarily need to know them, but a simple hello or greeting goes a long way. Creating friendly relationships also makes it easier to interact in the future if anyone has questions or concerns.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Acknowledge neighbors who smile at you or greet you.\", \"描述\": \"You don't have to stop and chat, but a little smile and wave don't cost you anything. Remember the nasty thoughts that crossed your mind about people you've said hi to who ignored you? You don't want anyone thinking of you that way.\\nDon't be creepy or annoying. While being friendly is important, it's equally important to allow your neighbors the level of privacy they desire. Don't just knock on people's doors and expect them to invite you in. Read your neighbors' body language. Does it look like they're in a hurry? Have they actually told you that they are in a rush? Then stop talking and let them go!\\nGet to know the property management and employees. Be sure to keep a contact list in case you need a maintenance fix or for emergency purposes. Put all requests for work in writing.\\nParticipate in your apartment's events, discussion board or tenant portal. One of the potential benefits of apartment living is that neighbors look after one another. Introducing yourself is the first step toward getting the most out of your community.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Be soft-spoken when entering and exiting.\", \"描述\": \"It may be normal to walk from the parking lot to your front door and vice versa, but you'll need to consider how loud a person is. Avoid stomping on stairwells, especially when leaving before sunrise or coming back late at night. Try not to walk around apartment with wood floors in your shoes (put them on just prior to leaving your apartment and remove upon entering your apartment) not all tenants work a \\\"9-5\\\" job and may be trying to sleep during \\\"regular\\\" daylight hours. Keep the noise at whisper-level in hallways. Loud laughter and conversations while people are relaxing or sleeping are a nuisance. 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If you see their mail piling up or you don't notice their lights on at night for some time, knock on their door and see if they're doing okay.\\nIf you see a neighbor struggling to take their trash cans in or out, you can approach them and ask if you can help in some way.\\nOr if you observe them driving in a way that may not be safe and if you know their family, you can tell them that you observed something which can be unsafe for them.\\nThere is a network of various organizations in every community that provides free medicines and other facilities. You can donate money to them or work as a volunteer.\"}, {\"编号\": 9, \"标题\": \"Ask any questions regarding smoking with the property management.\", \"描述\": \"Even if it's allowed inside the apartment, make sure that the area is completely ventilated with the windows and vents open. If smoke isn't venting well, install a box fan in your window backwards to suck the smoke out. 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1. Improving Technical Skills
1-1. Break down your chosen art form into the essential components or skills.
Saying, "I want to be a masterful painter," is a noble goal, but it is so broad it is hard to know where to start. Successful practice in any art form requires mastery of the smaller skills, almost all of which can be practiced independently of each other:
must master drawing and sketching, color blending, shading, brush techniques, and composition.
need to draw, shade, color, and compose, and may want to learn the basics of digital illustration and animation.
Often learn a wide variety of techniques and materials, from ceramic to metalworking, and must be able to sketch and draft ideas on paper. Advanced study in your material and tools of choice, including more scientific research, is highly recommended.
Need to be fluent across the set, from lighting, audio, camera operation, and editing. Skill drawing (for storyboards) and animating are a big plus.
1-2. Practice your art every single day, making it a daily habit.
Humans improve much faster through daily effort, and even 10 minutes a day can be better than 2 hours once a week. Find a way to make art part of your everyday routine, prioritizing it highly on your schedule. If you can't find time to make art every day, being a good artist will be exponentially harder.
Give yourself a cue each day to make things easier -- first thing in the morning, after dinner, before you exercise, etc. Coupling habits together makes them much easier to stick to.
Reward yourself slightly after each session -- maybe you don't eat dessert until done, or go for a run once the page is finished. Tie a good feeling to your daily art practice.
Missing days is okay -- it happens. Instead of beating yourself up or punishing yourself with more work the next day, just get back on track. Art should be fun, not punishment!
1-3. Take an honest appraisal of your artistic weakness, to practice with mindfulness.
Not all practice sessions are equally beneficial. Every artist has areas and skills that they aren't very good at, and the best artists run to these areas in practice. Remember, this isn't always about making a publishable piece. Once you give yourself the freedom to practice things you're bad at, you'll notice yourself making much faster improvements in all areas of your art.
Mindful practice is about finding mistakes and fixing them in order to improve. If you don't let yourself make mistakes, how could you ever improve.
There is a difference between "practice" and "performance." Once you realize that your sketchbooks and studies are there to help you get better, not to share with others, you can use them practice making your next "real" piece of art even better.
1-4. Take on smaller projects, or "studies" to help you ramp up to your big projects.
A study is simply a test run of some aspect of your piece. For example, a sculptor doing a full length human body likely wouldn't launch into the replica without knowing her materials, style, and logistical concerns beforehand. To prepare, she might start studies in the following areas. Note that, though sculpture is the example, all good artists test before beginning:
Hands are complex organs with many moving joints and bones. Practicing a few hands and figuring out how they will be held, is best done before adding them to the final sculpture
How is the sculpture going to stand up without falling? What base is being used, and how is the sculpture attached?
If it is a melancholic or sad sculpture, how do you plan to capture that sadness? Smaller sculptures and sketching facial expressions will help figure it out. You could also try to replicate similar pieces or emotions.
1-5. When in doubt, practice realism, even if it isn't your artistic form of choice.
Say you love to make impressionist, brightly-colored portraits in the style of Vincent Van Gogh, or abstract, cubist paintings like Picasso. While neither of them look like anything you could ever see in real life, both men are masters of realistic portraiture. You need to know the rules before you can break them, and the ability to perfectly replicate what you see in front of you is the best technical exercise you can perform. Try out:
Sketching or drawing still landscapes
Capturing the human body realistically, both still and in motion.
Replicating your favorite paintings or works of art, teaching yourself the techniques of the masters.
2. Developing a Unique Style
2-1. Trust your gut when choosing projects.
If an idea captures your and won't let go you've got to pursue it. Great artists don't worry if it will sell, if it fits current artistic trends, or will take a long time to make. Great artists jump into their passions with open arms, trusting themselves to make it work. If you want a unique, refreshing artistic voice, then you need to trust your voice.
It can be hard to embark on a project that feels weird, new, and experimental. But remember -- if you can't get passionate about the project, how can you expect your audience to feel passionately about it?
2-2. Experiment in a wide variety of styles and disciplines.
There is a reason burgeoning painters spend time sculpting, and vice versa. All forms of art are intrinsically linked, and they share similar vocabulary and skills (color, shading, composition, etc.). By pushing yourself to approach art differently, you open yourself up to a wealth of new influences, techniques, and styles.
Push yourself to get out of your comfort zone -- this is often where you make the biggest breakthroughs and personal discoveries.
This includes other forms of art, such as writing and music. Creative expression, whether with a paintbrush or a piccolo, is about getting your ideas out of your head and into the audiences. The medium you use to do that doesn't matter.
2-3. Draw influence from your entire life, not just your artistic pursuits.
Great artists are often great readers, using books and literature to push themselves to new ideas and philosophies. They are unashamed of their past, no matter what it is, and are confident using it for motivation and inspiration. Furthermore, great artists rarely say "no." They keep their minds open to everything, becoming a sponge of influences that come together to make something incredibly unique, and incredibly you.
2-4. Show your work to others for thoughts and feedback.
For most artists, art is a form of communication. You create art because you want to share it with other people. Otherwise, you could just leave the ideas in your head. Exactly how you want to show your work and to who is your choice. You could try to get your work shown in galleries and put up for sale. You could try getting published. You might be more comfortable putting your work online and possibly selling prints of it. Or maybe you would rather just frame some of your best work and hang it up in your home for your family and friends to enjoy.
Ask for honest critiques, and try to accept them with grace. You will never catch everything, and your audience's opinion will help find areas to improve in.
Ask people what they think about the art, and what it might mean. Does it match up with your own thoughts and ideas?
Did you accomplish your goals with the piece? Could you better communicate them your goals, or are you happy with ambiguity and differing opinions?
2-5. Accept constructive criticism.
Constructive criticism is designed to help you improve your artwork, either the piece you're working on now or your future works. A person giving constructive criticism will usually point out both the flaws and the strengths in your piece and make suggestions on how you could fix the flaws. While it isn't always fun to hear, criticism is something you're going to have to deal with as an artist. Learn to identify when a criticism of your work is valid and use that information to focus on correcting your mistakes.
3. Becoming a Professional Artist
3-1. Put together an online portfolio to showcase your work and talent.
Every artist needs a portfolio -- the place where potential buyers or clients can see your work. Luckily, the internet is making it easy as website design spaces like Wix.com, SquareSpace, and Wordpress all have templates designed for artists portfolios. All you have to do is customize the name, color, and bio, then import images or videos of your art.
Purchase a custom domain name if you are looking for professional clients. A site like www.MyPortfolio.wordpress.com looks much less professional than www.MyPortfolio.com.
When done, attach this portfolio to all your social media accounts to make it easy to find.
Consider printing (or drawing/designing, for memorable flair) some business cards to get the word around.
3-2. Host shows to get your work out there.
Contact small galleries near you to see if you can put some work up. Look into that restaurant or coffee shop that puts work on the walls. And, if all else fails, throw your own art show. All you need is a space to hang everything, some refreshments, and friends willing to come and support you.
Try to host shows with multiple artists when possible. That way, everyone brings their own friend groups so each artist can meet new fans.
You never know if you can display your work unless you ask. Don't be intimidated -- they absolute worst thing that happens is the word, "no."
Consider hosting "open studio" session once a month, where friends and curious spectators can watch you work and talk about your process.
3-3. Take classes to grow skill and make contacts.
Few, if any, artists are so skilled that they can't benefit from some kind of formal instruction. Art classes can help you get past problems with your work that you haven't been able to solve on your own, identify areas in which you could improve, or just give you some direction and a regular time to devote to working on art. There are courses available for all skill levels at colleges, community centers, local arts centers, and numerous other places.
Your teacher and fellow students are essential contacts as you build your career. They can point to new opportunities, team up with you for shows, and support your work in the difficult early years when you're still unknown.
Never discount a connection or friend. In the word-of-mouth driven art scene, a wide, strong social network is king.
3-4. Devote time every day to self-promotion and social media.
It isn't always a ton of fun, but it is absolutely essential if you intend to be a professional. No one wants to champion your art but you. And, in its own way, this is a good thing-- you no longer have to hope the "right" person shows up in your gallery. Instead, hard work online can get your work into many corners of the internet, and even make some money.
If you make smaller, sellable art pieces, consider a shop on Etsy or eBay.
Instagram, Tumblr, and Pinterest, with their large pictures and big art networks, are great places to share and see work.
Pick 1-2 social media accounts to run and stick with those. Trying to work on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, etc. all at once is impossible to do well without spending all day on the internet.
3-5. Get involved in your local art scene.
Artists need to stick together, and many of the greats have come from collectives and groups. It is no mistake that many famous artists knew each other before striking it big, and some of the greatest moments in art (Paris in the 40s, NY in the 80s) come from shared creative communities. So go to local shows, enroll in classes, and collaborate with other artists. A rising tide carries all boats, so get out there and make some waves!
If you're struggling to find a community, look online. There are tons of forums, sites, and communities (like the famous DeviantArt) that allow you to showcase work.
Pay attention to your contemporaries, supporting their own shows and work. When you are first starting out, your best network will be artists in the same situation.
3-6. Provide yourself a lifestyle that allows you to make daily art.
If you don't make art a daily priority, then it's going to be really hard to be a good artist. That is just the reality of practice-- all the talent in the world doesn't help if you don't sit down and make art. Honestly, this may require some sacrifices in terms of work hours, salary, and living situation. But if you want to be a professional artist, none of this should matter. You get to make art every single day!
Always remember, especially in the early years of practice, that all of your favorite artists went through the same process.
Tips
Don't compare yourself to other artists too much. If seeing another artist's work inspires you to work harder or try something different with your own art, that's fine. But don't obsess over the idea that you'll never be as good as this other artist. There is always going to be someone better, more prolific, or more successful than you, no matter how good you get. Instead, track your own progress. Compare what you're doing now to what you did years ago and see how much you've improved.
The stereotype is that artists sit around and wait for inspiration to strike them, and then rush off to produce their next masterpiece. Few artists work that way and those who create art for a living can't afford to. You are much better off getting into a routine of working on your art than hoping that inspiration will fall into your lap. If you are suddenly struck by a great idea, you can always make more time to work on it or take note of it and work on it later.
Try something different occasionally. Experimentation can be a great way to break out of a rut or discover a new direction for your art. Your tastes may change over time and the subjects and materials you loved when you first started may not be as inspiring to you now.
Warnings
Don't try to work in a style or with a subject matter just because you think it's what people will like and want to buy. Hopefully, you're considering a career in the arts because it's something you enjoy doing, not to please other people.
Never present someone else's work as your own. It's theft, it's dishonest, and it will ruin your reputation.
You shouldn't compare yourself to professional artists, since they have been doing art way longer than you have. Don't compare, but find inspiration.
Think carefully about whether you want to be a professional artist. Many creative fields have far more talented people looking for work than they do jobs to offer them. It can be very difficult getting started in the professional art world.
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Skill drawing (for storyboards) and animating are a big plus.\\n1-2. Practice your art every single day, making it a daily habit.\\nHumans improve much faster through daily effort, and even 10 minutes a day can be better than 2 hours once a week. Find a way to make art part of your everyday routine, prioritizing it highly on your schedule. If you can't find time to make art every day, being a good artist will be exponentially harder.\\nGive yourself a cue each day to make things easier -- first thing in the morning, after dinner, before you exercise, etc. Coupling habits together makes them much easier to stick to.\\nReward yourself slightly after each session -- maybe you don't eat dessert until done, or go for a run once the page is finished. Tie a good feeling to your daily art practice.\\nMissing days is okay -- it happens. Instead of beating yourself up or punishing yourself with more work the next day, just get back on track. Art should be fun, not punishment!\\n1-3. Take an honest appraisal of your artistic weakness, to practice with mindfulness.\\nNot all practice sessions are equally beneficial. Every artist has areas and skills that they aren't very good at, and the best artists run to these areas in practice. Remember, this isn't always about making a publishable piece. Once you give yourself the freedom to practice things you're bad at, you'll notice yourself making much faster improvements in all areas of your art.\\nMindful practice is about finding mistakes and fixing them in order to improve. If you don't let yourself make mistakes, how could you ever improve.\\nThere is a difference between \\\"practice\\\" and \\\"performance.\\\" Once you realize that your sketchbooks and studies are there to help you get better, not to share with others, you can use them practice making your next \\\"real\\\" piece of art even better.\\n1-4. Take on smaller projects, or \\\"studies\\\" to help you ramp up to your big projects.\\nA study is simply a test run of some aspect of your piece. For example, a sculptor doing a full length human body likely wouldn't launch into the replica without knowing her materials, style, and logistical concerns beforehand. To prepare, she might start studies in the following areas. Note that, though sculpture is the example, all good artists test before beginning:\\n\\n Hands are complex organs with many moving joints and bones. Practicing a few hands and figuring out how they will be held, is best done before adding them to the final sculpture\\n How is the sculpture going to stand up without falling? What base is being used, and how is the sculpture attached?\\n If it is a melancholic or sad sculpture, how do you plan to capture that sadness? Smaller sculptures and sketching facial expressions will help figure it out. You could also try to replicate similar pieces or emotions.\\n1-5. When in doubt, practice realism, even if it isn't your artistic form of choice.\\nSay you love to make impressionist, brightly-colored portraits in the style of Vincent Van Gogh, or abstract, cubist paintings like Picasso. While neither of them look like anything you could ever see in real life, both men are masters of realistic portraiture. You need to know the rules before you can break them, and the ability to perfectly replicate what you see in front of you is the best technical exercise you can perform. Try out:\\nSketching or drawing still landscapes\\nCapturing the human body realistically, both still and in motion.\\nReplicating your favorite paintings or works of art, teaching yourself the techniques of the masters.\\n2. Developing a Unique Style\\n2-1. Trust your gut when choosing projects.\\nIf an idea captures your and won't let go you've got to pursue it. Great artists don't worry if it will sell, if it fits current artistic trends, or will take a long time to make. Great artists jump into their passions with open arms, trusting themselves to make it work. If you want a unique, refreshing artistic voice, then you need to trust your voice.\\nIt can be hard to embark on a project that feels weird, new, and experimental. But remember -- if you can't get passionate about the project, how can you expect your audience to feel passionately about it?\\n2-2. Experiment in a wide variety of styles and disciplines.\\nThere is a reason burgeoning painters spend time sculpting, and vice versa. All forms of art are intrinsically linked, and they share similar vocabulary and skills (color, shading, composition, etc.). By pushing yourself to approach art differently, you open yourself up to a wealth of new influences, techniques, and styles.\\nPush yourself to get out of your comfort zone -- this is often where you make the biggest breakthroughs and personal discoveries.\\nThis includes other forms of art, such as writing and music. Creative expression, whether with a paintbrush or a piccolo, is about getting your ideas out of your head and into the audiences. The medium you use to do that doesn't matter.\\n2-3. Draw influence from your entire life, not just your artistic pursuits.\\nGreat artists are often great readers, using books and literature to push themselves to new ideas and philosophies. They are unashamed of their past, no matter what it is, and are confident using it for motivation and inspiration. Furthermore, great artists rarely say \\\"no.\\\" They keep their minds open to everything, becoming a sponge of influences that come together to make something incredibly unique, and incredibly you.\\n2-4. Show your work to others for thoughts and feedback.\\nFor most artists, art is a form of communication. You create art because you want to share it with other people. Otherwise, you could just leave the ideas in your head. Exactly how you want to show your work and to who is your choice. You could try to get your work shown in galleries and put up for sale. You could try getting published. You might be more comfortable putting your work online and possibly selling prints of it. Or maybe you would rather just frame some of your best work and hang it up in your home for your family and friends to enjoy.\\nAsk for honest critiques, and try to accept them with grace. You will never catch everything, and your audience's opinion will help find areas to improve in.\\nAsk people what they think about the art, and what it might mean. Does it match up with your own thoughts and ideas?\\nDid you accomplish your goals with the piece? Could you better communicate them your goals, or are you happy with ambiguity and differing opinions?\\n2-5. Accept constructive criticism.\\nConstructive criticism is designed to help you improve your artwork, either the piece you're working on now or your future works. A person giving constructive criticism will usually point out both the flaws and the strengths in your piece and make suggestions on how you could fix the flaws. While it isn't always fun to hear, criticism is something you're going to have to deal with as an artist. Learn to identify when a criticism of your work is valid and use that information to focus on correcting your mistakes.\\n3. Becoming a Professional Artist\\n3-1. Put together an online portfolio to showcase your work and talent.\\nEvery artist needs a portfolio -- the place where potential buyers or clients can see your work. Luckily, the internet is making it easy as website design spaces like Wix.com, SquareSpace, and Wordpress all have templates designed for artists portfolios. All you have to do is customize the name, color, and bio, then import images or videos of your art.\\nPurchase a custom domain name if you are looking for professional clients. A site like www.MyPortfolio.wordpress.com looks much less professional than www.MyPortfolio.com.\\nWhen done, attach this portfolio to all your social media accounts to make it easy to find.\\nConsider printing (or drawing/designing, for memorable flair) some business cards to get the word around.\\n3-2. Host shows to get your work out there.\\nContact small galleries near you to see if you can put some work up. Look into that restaurant or coffee shop that puts work on the walls. And, if all else fails, throw your own art show. All you need is a space to hang everything, some refreshments, and friends willing to come and support you.\\nTry to host shows with multiple artists when possible. That way, everyone brings their own friend groups so each artist can meet new fans.\\nYou never know if you can display your work unless you ask. Don't be intimidated -- they absolute worst thing that happens is the word, \\\"no.\\\"\\nConsider hosting \\\"open studio\\\" session once a month, where friends and curious spectators can watch you work and talk about your process.\\n3-3. Take classes to grow skill and make contacts.\\nFew, if any, artists are so skilled that they can't benefit from some kind of formal instruction. Art classes can help you get past problems with your work that you haven't been able to solve on your own, identify areas in which you could improve, or just give you some direction and a regular time to devote to working on art. There are courses available for all skill levels at colleges, community centers, local arts centers, and numerous other places.\\nYour teacher and fellow students are essential contacts as you build your career. They can point to new opportunities, team up with you for shows, and support your work in the difficult early years when you're still unknown.\\nNever discount a connection or friend. In the word-of-mouth driven art scene, a wide, strong social network is king.\\n3-4. Devote time every day to self-promotion and social media.\\nIt isn't always a ton of fun, but it is absolutely essential if you intend to be a professional. No one wants to champion your art but you. And, in its own way, this is a good thing-- you no longer have to hope the \\\"right\\\" person shows up in your gallery. Instead, hard work online can get your work into many corners of the internet, and even make some money.\\nIf you make smaller, sellable art pieces, consider a shop on Etsy or eBay.\\nInstagram, Tumblr, and Pinterest, with their large pictures and big art networks, are great places to share and see work.\\nPick 1-2 social media accounts to run and stick with those. Trying to work on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, etc. all at once is impossible to do well without spending all day on the internet.\\n3-5. Get involved in your local art scene.\\nArtists need to stick together, and many of the greats have come from collectives and groups. It is no mistake that many famous artists knew each other before striking it big, and some of the greatest moments in art (Paris in the 40s, NY in the 80s) come from shared creative communities. So go to local shows, enroll in classes, and collaborate with other artists. A rising tide carries all boats, so get out there and make some waves!\\nIf you're struggling to find a community, look online. There are tons of forums, sites, and communities (like the famous DeviantArt) that allow you to showcase work.\\nPay attention to your contemporaries, supporting their own shows and work. When you are first starting out, your best network will be artists in the same situation.\\n3-6. Provide yourself a lifestyle that allows you to make daily art.\\nIf you don't make art a daily priority, then it's going to be really hard to be a good artist. That is just the reality of practice-- all the talent in the world doesn't help if you don't sit down and make art. Honestly, this may require some sacrifices in terms of work hours, salary, and living situation. But if you want to be a professional artist, none of this should matter. You get to make art every single day!\\nAlways remember, especially in the early years of practice, that all of your favorite artists went through the same process.\\nTips\\nDon't compare yourself to other artists too much. If seeing another artist's work inspires you to work harder or try something different with your own art, that's fine. But don't obsess over the idea that you'll never be as good as this other artist. There is always going to be someone better, more prolific, or more successful than you, no matter how good you get. Instead, track your own progress. Compare what you're doing now to what you did years ago and see how much you've improved.\\nThe stereotype is that artists sit around and wait for inspiration to strike them, and then rush off to produce their next masterpiece. Few artists work that way and those who create art for a living can't afford to. You are much better off getting into a routine of working on your art than hoping that inspiration will fall into your lap. If you are suddenly struck by a great idea, you can always make more time to work on it or take note of it and work on it later.\\nTry something different occasionally. Experimentation can be a great way to break out of a rut or discover a new direction for your art. Your tastes may change over time and the subjects and materials you loved when you first started may not be as inspiring to you now.\\nWarnings\\nDon't try to work in a style or with a subject matter just because you think it's what people will like and want to buy. Hopefully, you're considering a career in the arts because it's something you enjoy doing, not to please other people.\\nNever present someone else's work as your own. It's theft, it's dishonest, and it will ruin your reputation.\\nYou shouldn't compare yourself to professional artists, since they have been doing art way longer than you have. Don't compare, but find inspiration.\\nThink carefully about whether you want to be a professional artist. Many creative fields have far more talented people looking for work than they do jobs to offer them. It can be very difficult getting started in the professional art world.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Truly becoming a good artist takes more than just raw skill and talent. Hard work and developing an individual style are at the heart of being a good artist, but the good news is that anyone can work hard. Simply dedicating yourself to your art, and taking time to do that every single day, is the best step you can take to becoming a good artist.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Improving Technical Skills\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Break down your chosen art form into the essential components or skills.\", \"描述\": \"Saying, \\\"I want to be a masterful painter,\\\" is a noble goal, but it is so broad it is hard to know where to start. Successful practice in any art form requires mastery of the smaller skills, almost all of which can be practiced independently of each other:\\n\\n must master drawing and sketching, color blending, shading, brush techniques, and composition.\\n need to draw, shade, color, and compose, and may want to learn the basics of digital illustration and animation.\\n Often learn a wide variety of techniques and materials, from ceramic to metalworking, and must be able to sketch and draft ideas on paper. Advanced study in your material and tools of choice, including more scientific research, is highly recommended.\\n Need to be fluent across the set, from lighting, audio, camera operation, and editing. Skill drawing (for storyboards) and animating are a big plus.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Practice your art every single day, making it a daily habit.\", \"描述\": \"Humans improve much faster through daily effort, and even 10 minutes a day can be better than 2 hours once a week. Find a way to make art part of your everyday routine, prioritizing it highly on your schedule. If you can't find time to make art every day, being a good artist will be exponentially harder.\\nGive yourself a cue each day to make things easier -- first thing in the morning, after dinner, before you exercise, etc. Coupling habits together makes them much easier to stick to.\\nReward yourself slightly after each session -- maybe you don't eat dessert until done, or go for a run once the page is finished. Tie a good feeling to your daily art practice.\\nMissing days is okay -- it happens. Instead of beating yourself up or punishing yourself with more work the next day, just get back on track. Art should be fun, not punishment!\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Take an honest appraisal of your artistic weakness, to practice with mindfulness.\", \"描述\": \"Not all practice sessions are equally beneficial. Every artist has areas and skills that they aren't very good at, and the best artists run to these areas in practice. Remember, this isn't always about making a publishable piece. Once you give yourself the freedom to practice things you're bad at, you'll notice yourself making much faster improvements in all areas of your art.\\nMindful practice is about finding mistakes and fixing them in order to improve. If you don't let yourself make mistakes, how could you ever improve.\\nThere is a difference between \\\"practice\\\" and \\\"performance.\\\" Once you realize that your sketchbooks and studies are there to help you get better, not to share with others, you can use them practice making your next \\\"real\\\" piece of art even better.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Take on smaller projects, or \\\"studies\\\" to help you ramp up to your big projects.\", \"描述\": \"A study is simply a test run of some aspect of your piece. For example, a sculptor doing a full length human body likely wouldn't launch into the replica without knowing her materials, style, and logistical concerns beforehand. To prepare, she might start studies in the following areas. Note that, though sculpture is the example, all good artists test before beginning:\\n\\n Hands are complex organs with many moving joints and bones. Practicing a few hands and figuring out how they will be held, is best done before adding them to the final sculpture\\n How is the sculpture going to stand up without falling? What base is being used, and how is the sculpture attached?\\n If it is a melancholic or sad sculpture, how do you plan to capture that sadness? Smaller sculptures and sketching facial expressions will help figure it out. You could also try to replicate similar pieces or emotions.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"When in doubt, practice realism, even if it isn't your artistic form of choice.\", \"描述\": \"Say you love to make impressionist, brightly-colored portraits in the style of Vincent Van Gogh, or abstract, cubist paintings like Picasso. While neither of them look like anything you could ever see in real life, both men are masters of realistic portraiture. You need to know the rules before you can break them, and the ability to perfectly replicate what you see in front of you is the best technical exercise you can perform. Try out:\\nSketching or drawing still landscapes\\nCapturing the human body realistically, both still and in motion.\\nReplicating your favorite paintings or works of art, teaching yourself the techniques of the masters.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Developing a Unique Style\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Trust your gut when choosing projects.\", \"描述\": \"If an idea captures your and won't let go you've got to pursue it. Great artists don't worry if it will sell, if it fits current artistic trends, or will take a long time to make. Great artists jump into their passions with open arms, trusting themselves to make it work. If you want a unique, refreshing artistic voice, then you need to trust your voice.\\nIt can be hard to embark on a project that feels weird, new, and experimental. But remember -- if you can't get passionate about the project, how can you expect your audience to feel passionately about it?\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Experiment in a wide variety of styles and disciplines.\", \"描述\": \"There is a reason burgeoning painters spend time sculpting, and vice versa. All forms of art are intrinsically linked, and they share similar vocabulary and skills (color, shading, composition, etc.). By pushing yourself to approach art differently, you open yourself up to a wealth of new influences, techniques, and styles.\\nPush yourself to get out of your comfort zone -- this is often where you make the biggest breakthroughs and personal discoveries.\\nThis includes other forms of art, such as writing and music. Creative expression, whether with a paintbrush or a piccolo, is about getting your ideas out of your head and into the audiences. The medium you use to do that doesn't matter.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Draw influence from your entire life, not just your artistic pursuits.\", \"描述\": \"Great artists are often great readers, using books and literature to push themselves to new ideas and philosophies. They are unashamed of their past, no matter what it is, and are confident using it for motivation and inspiration. Furthermore, great artists rarely say \\\"no.\\\" They keep their minds open to everything, becoming a sponge of influences that come together to make something incredibly unique, and incredibly you.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Show your work to others for thoughts and feedback.\", \"描述\": \"For most artists, art is a form of communication. You create art because you want to share it with other people. Otherwise, you could just leave the ideas in your head. Exactly how you want to show your work and to who is your choice. You could try to get your work shown in galleries and put up for sale. You could try getting published. You might be more comfortable putting your work online and possibly selling prints of it. Or maybe you would rather just frame some of your best work and hang it up in your home for your family and friends to enjoy.\\nAsk for honest critiques, and try to accept them with grace. You will never catch everything, and your audience's opinion will help find areas to improve in.\\nAsk people what they think about the art, and what it might mean. Does it match up with your own thoughts and ideas?\\nDid you accomplish your goals with the piece? Could you better communicate them your goals, or are you happy with ambiguity and differing opinions?\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Accept constructive criticism.\", \"描述\": \"Constructive criticism is designed to help you improve your artwork, either the piece you're working on now or your future works. A person giving constructive criticism will usually point out both the flaws and the strengths in your piece and make suggestions on how you could fix the flaws. While it isn't always fun to hear, criticism is something you're going to have to deal with as an artist. Learn to identify when a criticism of your work is valid and use that information to focus on correcting your mistakes.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Becoming a Professional Artist\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Put together an online portfolio to showcase your work and talent.\", \"描述\": \"Every artist needs a portfolio -- the place where potential buyers or clients can see your work. Luckily, the internet is making it easy as website design spaces like Wix.com, SquareSpace, and Wordpress all have templates designed for artists portfolios. All you have to do is customize the name, color, and bio, then import images or videos of your art.\\nPurchase a custom domain name if you are looking for professional clients. A site like www.MyPortfolio.wordpress.com looks much less professional than www.MyPortfolio.com.\\nWhen done, attach this portfolio to all your social media accounts to make it easy to find.\\nConsider printing (or drawing/designing, for memorable flair) some business cards to get the word around.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Host shows to get your work out there.\", \"描述\": \"Contact small galleries near you to see if you can put some work up. Look into that restaurant or coffee shop that puts work on the walls. And, if all else fails, throw your own art show. All you need is a space to hang everything, some refreshments, and friends willing to come and support you.\\nTry to host shows with multiple artists when possible. That way, everyone brings their own friend groups so each artist can meet new fans.\\nYou never know if you can display your work unless you ask. Don't be intimidated -- they absolute worst thing that happens is the word, \\\"no.\\\"\\nConsider hosting \\\"open studio\\\" session once a month, where friends and curious spectators can watch you work and talk about your process.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Take classes to grow skill and make contacts.\", \"描述\": \"Few, if any, artists are so skilled that they can't benefit from some kind of formal instruction. Art classes can help you get past problems with your work that you haven't been able to solve on your own, identify areas in which you could improve, or just give you some direction and a regular time to devote to working on art. There are courses available for all skill levels at colleges, community centers, local arts centers, and numerous other places.\\nYour teacher and fellow students are essential contacts as you build your career. They can point to new opportunities, team up with you for shows, and support your work in the difficult early years when you're still unknown.\\nNever discount a connection or friend. In the word-of-mouth driven art scene, a wide, strong social network is king.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Devote time every day to self-promotion and social media.\", \"描述\": \"It isn't always a ton of fun, but it is absolutely essential if you intend to be a professional. No one wants to champion your art but you. And, in its own way, this is a good thing-- you no longer have to hope the \\\"right\\\" person shows up in your gallery. Instead, hard work online can get your work into many corners of the internet, and even make some money.\\nIf you make smaller, sellable art pieces, consider a shop on Etsy or eBay.\\nInstagram, Tumblr, and Pinterest, with their large pictures and big art networks, are great places to share and see work.\\nPick 1-2 social media accounts to run and stick with those. 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1. Practicing to be Great
1-1. Work with a coach.
You probably know your body and physical skills fairly well, but it is always good to have an outside perspective. Coaches can help you set reachable goals, stay focused on achieving them, and find ways to help you improve if you fall short. There are a variety of coaches that can work with conditioning, technique, and any other aspect of your athleticism and skill level.
Another great advantage of coaches is their work on planning your exercises and drills. With a coach, you only need to be concerned with showing up to your session on time, while your coach will have the equipment and schedule ready for you to work on.
1-2. Create an individual program.
In order to improve your athleticism, you should focus on improving your particular weaknesses. Practicing with the team is important, but you’ll also want to make sure you set aside time to improve your skills. Mixing up your routine is also a good way to improve your overall performance and decrease the risk of injury. Talk to your coach or trainer about ways to work on your specific weaknesses and develop all facets of your game.
1-3. Show up on time.
When you are practicing, whether by yourself or with a team, your coach or trainer has a time set aside to work with you. Maximize your time by making sure you are there when it is time to begin. That usually means that if your practice starts at a certain time, say 9:00 am, you should be dressed and ready to go then, not just arriving.
1-4. Keep focused when you practice.
It can be easy to let your mind wander when you are doing drills and exercises. It is important, though, that you stay focused on what you are doing.
1-5. Cool down after exercising.
Once you have finished a workout or practice session, take some time to give your body a physical cooldown period. Some low-intensity movements and stretches are good to help restore your muscles and process metabolic waste. It’s also a good way to relax mentally after an intense practice or game.
2. Getting in Mental Shape
2-1. Find a sport you are passionate about.
If you want to become a great athlete, the best thing you can do is to find something that really matters to you. This can be a sport that you enjoy playing and practicing, like soccer or basketball, something that will help you get through the tougher days. Plus, if you enjoy what you are doing, you’ll be less stressed, which helps you recover better from practices and injuries.
2-2. Make your sport a priority.
If being a good athlete is important to you, then improving needs to take up a lot of your time. You may not be talented or skilled enough to be a professional, but by making sure that you regularly have time blocked out for practicing and playing, you will be able to show regular improvement.
2-3. Keep a positive attitude.
Being an athlete is an opportunity to compete against others and be successful in something. Focus on the great things you can do, which will allow you to pursue excellence, not perfection.
2-4. Set goals.
When you start a practice or workout regimen, give yourself something to work towards. Great athletes are able to set goals for both the short and long term that are realistic and achievable. Part of improving as an athlete is your ability not only to set goals, but regularly achieve them.
Setting performance goals. These are goals for achieving specific milestones while playing. They can involve scoring a certain number of points, or reaching another statistical marker, like reducing the time it takes you do run a certain distance. These goals should be easily tracked so you can see how close you are to achieving them.
Setting habit goals. These are goals meant to change the way you play, focusing on your process rather than results. These can be things like making sure your head is up while making a pass, or going to bed at a certain time.
2-5. Envision success.
Preparing your mind for what you want and what it will be like when you get it is an important part of being a successful athlete. Elite athletes spend time visualizing their success before it happens. This can help them calm down before a competition, thinking about how good it will feel to accomplish their goals, rather than being nervous about not being able to achieve them.
One way to help is to identify and focus on successes you’ve already had. Think about your greatest accomplishments, and how it felt to achieve them. This will help prevent you from dwelling on mistakes and errors, as that is a sure way to repeat them.
2-6. Be humble.
Great athletes don’t just take care of their bodies and develop their skills. They also respect the others involved in their sport, including their opponents. A good athlete will be able to control his or her emotions, not getting too angry when things go wrong. Not only will this help in dealing with coaches and supporters, but also in overcoming difficult opponents, or other things that can hurt an athlete’s self-confidence.
3. Taking Care of Your Body
3-1. Stay hydrated.
Whatever level of work you are doing, it is important that you get the right amount of water before, during, and after your physical activity. If you aren’t properly hydrated, your body can’t perform properly, and you’ll feel fatigue, cramps, and dizziness, if not something worse like heat exhaustion or heat stroke.
The American Council on Exercise has recommendations for drinking water before, during, and after your exercise. Drink 17 to 20 fluid ounces (500 to 590 mL) of water 2 to 3 hours before you start, then 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) 20 to 30 minutes before or during warm-up. While exercising, drink 7 to 10 fluid ounces (210 to 300 mL) every 10 to 20 minutes. After finishing, make sure to drink 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) no more than 30 minutes later.
If the weather is particularly hot, or the workout especially intense, feel free to increase the amount of water slightly.
When working out, sports drinks can be helpful to maintaining hydration and energy. Look for drinks that are high in carbohydrates and electrolytes, as these will help you maintain your energy.
3-2. Get proper nutrition.
Eating right will help give you the nutrients necessary to grow muscle and maintain your energy throughout practice or a game. A good athlete will also be able to vary his or her diet before and after exercising to derive the best benefits from food. The specifics of your diet will change depending on the kind of sport you play and how much training you do, so don’t be afraid to consult with a coach, nutritionist, or doctor to get the best diet for you.
Before you work out, you need to consume foods that will help give you the energy to get through. These can be simple meals with lean proteins like chicken, vegetables, and whole-grain rice. If you need something quick, look for easily digestible carbohydrates, such as half a banana or a carb-heavy energy bar.
After exercising, your goal should be recovery. You want more foods with protein and carbohydrates to help restore your energy. Foods like milk, which contain both, are particularly good. You can also consume things like trail mix with nuts or yogurt and granola to help the recovery process.
3-3. Get enough sleep.
Sleep can play a major role in consistent and strong athletic performance. Sleeping helps to regenerate your energy and strength after exercising, which lets you be at your best the next day for the next practice or game. Regular sleep will also keep your stress levels lower. This will help helping you remain calm and focused during competition.
8 hours of sleep is generally ideal, but you can always give yourself a little more or less depending on your personal needs and habits.
If you’re going through a period of increased training, or a tough stretch in your schedule, don’t be afraid to add a little more sleep to your routine. An extra nap during the day can give you a little extra boost of energy as you go along.
Tips
While you will want to focus on training to improve your performance at your chosen sport, don’t be afraid to consider cross-training, that is doing workouts that aren’t related to your sport. This can allow you to work other muscle groups to keep you in better overall shape, or strengthen muscles that you don’t use as much during practice.
Warnings
While many sports celebrate athletes who can “play through pain,” don’t neglect or ignore injuries. Sometimes you are hurt, and need to rest and recover. Continuing to practice or play could open you up to more serious injuries.
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Mixing up your routine is also a good way to improve your overall performance and decrease the risk of injury. Talk to your coach or trainer about ways to work on your specific weaknesses and develop all facets of your game.\\n1-3. Show up on time.\\nWhen you are practicing, whether by yourself or with a team, your coach or trainer has a time set aside to work with you. Maximize your time by making sure you are there when it is time to begin. That usually means that if your practice starts at a certain time, say 9:00 am, you should be dressed and ready to go then, not just arriving.\\n1-4. Keep focused when you practice.\\nIt can be easy to let your mind wander when you are doing drills and exercises. It is important, though, that you stay focused on what you are doing.\\n1-5. Cool down after exercising.\\nOnce you have finished a workout or practice session, take some time to give your body a physical cooldown period. Some low-intensity movements and stretches are good to help restore your muscles and process metabolic waste. It’s also a good way to relax mentally after an intense practice or game.\\n2. Getting in Mental Shape\\n2-1. Find a sport you are passionate about.\\nIf you want to become a great athlete, the best thing you can do is to find something that really matters to you. This can be a sport that you enjoy playing and practicing, like soccer or basketball, something that will help you get through the tougher days. Plus, if you enjoy what you are doing, you’ll be less stressed, which helps you recover better from practices and injuries.\\n2-2. Make your sport a priority.\\nIf being a good athlete is important to you, then improving needs to take up a lot of your time. You may not be talented or skilled enough to be a professional, but by making sure that you regularly have time blocked out for practicing and playing, you will be able to show regular improvement.\\n2-3. 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These can be things like making sure your head is up while making a pass, or going to bed at a certain time.\\n2-5. Envision success.\\nPreparing your mind for what you want and what it will be like when you get it is an important part of being a successful athlete. Elite athletes spend time visualizing their success before it happens. This can help them calm down before a competition, thinking about how good it will feel to accomplish their goals, rather than being nervous about not being able to achieve them.\\nOne way to help is to identify and focus on successes you’ve already had. Think about your greatest accomplishments, and how it felt to achieve them. This will help prevent you from dwelling on mistakes and errors, as that is a sure way to repeat them.\\n2-6. Be humble.\\nGreat athletes don’t just take care of their bodies and develop their skills. They also respect the others involved in their sport, including their opponents. A good athlete will be able to control his or her emotions, not getting too angry when things go wrong. Not only will this help in dealing with coaches and supporters, but also in overcoming difficult opponents, or other things that can hurt an athlete’s self-confidence.\\n3. Taking Care of Your Body\\n3-1. Stay hydrated.\\nWhatever level of work you are doing, it is important that you get the right amount of water before, during, and after your physical activity. If you aren’t properly hydrated, your body can’t perform properly, and you’ll feel fatigue, cramps, and dizziness, if not something worse like heat exhaustion or heat stroke.\\nThe American Council on Exercise has recommendations for drinking water before, during, and after your exercise. Drink 17 to 20 fluid ounces (500 to 590 mL) of water 2 to 3 hours before you start, then 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) 20 to 30 minutes before or during warm-up. While exercising, drink 7 to 10 fluid ounces (210 to 300 mL) every 10 to 20 minutes. After finishing, make sure to drink 8 fluid ounces (240 mL) no more than 30 minutes later.\\nIf the weather is particularly hot, or the workout especially intense, feel free to increase the amount of water slightly.\\nWhen working out, sports drinks can be helpful to maintaining hydration and energy. Look for drinks that are high in carbohydrates and electrolytes, as these will help you maintain your energy.\\n3-2. Get proper nutrition.\\nEating right will help give you the nutrients necessary to grow muscle and maintain your energy throughout practice or a game. A good athlete will also be able to vary his or her diet before and after exercising to derive the best benefits from food. The specifics of your diet will change depending on the kind of sport you play and how much training you do, so don’t be afraid to consult with a coach, nutritionist, or doctor to get the best diet for you.\\nBefore you work out, you need to consume foods that will help give you the energy to get through. These can be simple meals with lean proteins like chicken, vegetables, and whole-grain rice. If you need something quick, look for easily digestible carbohydrates, such as half a banana or a carb-heavy energy bar.\\nAfter exercising, your goal should be recovery. You want more foods with protein and carbohydrates to help restore your energy. Foods like milk, which contain both, are particularly good. You can also consume things like trail mix with nuts or yogurt and granola to help the recovery process.\\n3-3. Get enough sleep.\\nSleep can play a major role in consistent and strong athletic performance. Sleeping helps to regenerate your energy and strength after exercising, which lets you be at your best the next day for the next practice or game. Regular sleep will also keep your stress levels lower. This will help helping you remain calm and focused during competition.\\n8 hours of sleep is generally ideal, but you can always give yourself a little more or less depending on your personal needs and habits.\\nIf you’re going through a period of increased training, or a tough stretch in your schedule, don’t be afraid to add a little more sleep to your routine. An extra nap during the day can give you a little extra boost of energy as you go along.\\nTips\\nWhile you will want to focus on training to improve your performance at your chosen sport, don’t be afraid to consider cross-training, that is doing workouts that aren’t related to your sport. This can allow you to work other muscle groups to keep you in better overall shape, or strengthen muscles that you don’t use as much during practice.\\nWarnings\\nWhile many sports celebrate athletes who can “play through pain,” don’t neglect or ignore injuries. Sometimes you are hurt, and need to rest and recover. Continuing to practice or play could open you up to more serious injuries.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a good athlete is about much more than just being great at a sport. There is a mental angle as well, as you prepare your mind and attitude for being the best you can be at your sport. 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1. Learning How to Care for Children
1-1. Gain babysitting experience.
If you want to be an au pair, parents have to be able to trust you with the well-being of their children. You can achieve this by ensuring that you have plenty of experience with babysitting or caring for children of various ages. Try caring for family members, neighbors' children, or get a job at a local daycare center. The more experience you have with children, the more comfortable parents will be with you.
Once you have made up your mind to babysit, spread the word. Let family members and neighbors know, post an ad on community boards at the library or pediatrician's office, or try online sites like Care.com.
As you gain experience, try to add more qualifications to your resume such as CPR or first aid training. Also, try to add more responsibilities like picking children up from school or tutoring.
1-2. Learn how to engage children.
Being an au pair goes beyond supervising children; you must also learn how to connect to the children by keeping them entertained. Use your creativity to find activities that allow you to interact with the children in a playful and fun manner.
Determine the age of the child or children in order to ensure the activities will be entertaining and engaging.
Come up with creative games, activities, or craft projects. For example, instead of turning on the television try sidewalk chalk games, creating a toddler drawing box, or taking a trip to the park.
You can even try setting up playdates with other au pairs and children to keep your kids entertained while having a social group for yourself. Your coordinator can assist in locating other au pairs in your area.
1-3. Learn how to effectively discipline children.
Children are not perfect; they will misbehave, test limits, and sometimes push you to your limits. The important thing to remember is to respond to their misbehavior as an adult—and not as their parent. Avoid yelling, arguing, or inflicting any type of physical punishment. Always keep in mind that you are an adult, and they are a child.
Remember that parents set the rules and expectations for children. Make sure you fully understand the host parents' rules and follow them closely to avoid confusion.
Always communicate your expectations with children and reiterate your expectations after misbehavior.
Try modeling good behavior so children can imitate and follow your lead.
Communicate incidents to parents. Remember you are the “eyes and ears” for the parents. Be sure to share your concerns with parents. Not only will they discuss expectations with the children but they can also give you tips about how to handle behavioral problems.
1-4. Get first-aid training.
Being prepared to face the worst is a skill that all au pairs need. CPR and first aid courses will teach you the skills needed to treat cuts and wounds, assist with victims of choking or drowning, and treat sudden onsets of illness. Determine the level of training needed and contact a training center in your area for more information.
Courses include 30-minute “citizen” CPR courses, full first aid courses, or full on CPR and AED (Automated External Defibrillator) courses. Determine your need before signing up for a class.
Classes are offered both online and in-person and can range from 30 minutes to 3 hours.
Visit sites like the American Red Cross, the American Heart Association and the National Safety Council for information about how to register for a class.
1-5. Be sensitive to the children.
Always be loving to the children whether you are working or not. Being lovable will bring out happiness in the children and allow them to bond with you easier.
Be involved in their lives by taking an interest in their interests. Show them how important they are to you.
Tell them that you care for them. Though it sound obvious, don't be afraid to tell them how important they are in your life and to show it through physical contact like hugs.
Really listen to them. Make eye contact and engage them in conversation in order to make them feel important and cared for.
Remember that parents always come first to children. While building your relationship with the children, try not to compete with parents for their time and attention.
2. Learning How to Manage a Home
2-1. Learn how to clean thoroughly.
Although not compulsory, you will almost definitely be expected to help with housework in your new home. Make sure you're fine with doing laundry, making beds, washing dishes, vacuuming and dusting, and cleaning bathrooms.
Prepare for your cleaning duties by making sure your current dwelling is kept tidy. Become familiar with cleaning devices such as dishwashers, vacuums, and washers and dryers.
Some au pairs are only responsible for light housework that involves the children such as doing their laundry, keeping their rooms tidy, or picking up their toys.
2-2. Prepare kid-friendly meals.
While most au pairs aren't required to prepare full course meals, they are usually asked to cook small meals and snacks for children. Be sure that you are capable of packing school lunches, preparing snacks, and cleaning up after mealtime.
Always be aware of cultural differences in the types of foods consumed as well as the time of day meals are eaten.
Try searching for and practicing kid friendly recipes that suit the tastes of the children. You can also make an activity of it by involving the children in the cooking process.
2-3. Take driving lessons.
Some au pairs are required to chauffeur children to and from various destinations. For example, some are required to take children to school, to sports practice, to doctor's appointments, or to daily outings. Learning to drive (specifically in the state where you'll be residing) is a crucial step in becoming a good au pair.
You can learn to drive through online driving schools that allow you to take courses online at your own pace. Most require both classroom and behind the wheel training.
You can also go to DMV.org to check out the requirements needed for each state in the U.S., and to find additional resources for driver's education programs.
2-4. Learn to run errands.
Some au pairs are responsible for running errands that pertain to the children and the household. Common tasks include grocery shopping, dropping off or picking up dry cleaning, or driving the children around. Be prepared to assist your family with various chores and always keep a helpful attitude.
Remember to never say “that's not my job” to your host parents. If you feel like your host parents are asking you to do more than what is outlined in your contract, contact your coordinator.
3. Being Professional
3-1. Show respect.
Always be polite and mindful of both your family and their property. Say “please” and “thank you,” listen to their directives, and be considerate of their time and feelings. Be sure to keep their property clean including the car, your room, and shared space.
It's also important to be aware of cultural differences and to learn to respect them. For example, words like “stupid” or “hate” have a strong emotional appeal in the United States and you should avoid using them in a professional setting.
3-2. Be punctual.
Always be on time (better yet early) to any event. Whether it is arriving to work, picking up the children, arriving at appointments, or putting kids to bed, deadlines should be strictly adhered to. Failing to do so can cause a loss of trust from the host parents.
Keep a planner and know your schedule ahead of time so you know exactly what time you have to leave one spot in order to arrive at your next destination on time.
Instead of leaving “on time,” always leave early so you have some wiggle room for the unexpected.
3-3. Be well-organized.
Parents often request the services of au pairs because their family life is hectic. The job of an au pair is to make the host parents' lives easier by being on top of various events and appointments. Be sure to use a planner such as a cellphone or appointment book to keep track of all appointment dates and times.
Remember to keep appointments in only one place to avoid scheduling conflicts.
Always take additional notes such as why an appointment was canceled so you always remember even weeks later.
3-4. Have strong communication skills.
Know how to communicate with both the children and the host parents. Always feel comfortable with sharing thoughts and concerns in a non-threatening or vulgar manner.
If you feel it may be a difficult conversation, think about what you will say before you say it. It may be helpful to write it out or make notes ahead of time.
Communication is a two-way street so don't forget to listen. Try to hear what your family is saying and take it into consideration before acting.
Contact your coordinator if you need tips on how to communicate with your host family.
3-5. Be mindful of your behavior during your personal time.
Au pairs typically work anywhere from 30-45 hours a week with the remaining time being personal or "free" time. Time off is usually structured as one off day a week, one additional off day a month, and free time on certain holidays. During your free time, remember that you are a guest within the home, and a representation of the family in public. Always be on your best behavior.
Some au pairs can get coerced into working even on their off days. If you ever feel as if your off time is not being respected, talk to your host family or contact your coordinator for assistance.
Tips
Remain open-minded and adventurous. Try to embrace different aspects of the culture such as music, food, and art.
Don't be afraid to share your culture with your host family. One of the many reasons people choose au pairs over traditional child care is to teach their children about different cultures.
Always remember to bond with your host parents too. If they invite you to dinner or a social event, take them up on the offer. It's a good chance for you to get to know them and vice versa.
Warnings
Respect cultural differences by abiding by the golden rule: treat others how you would want to be treated.
Contact your coordinator for assistance if you ever feel that your host family is asking you to complete tasks that are not within your contract.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Learning How to Care for Children\\n1-1. Gain babysitting experience.\\nIf you want to be an au pair, parents have to be able to trust you with the well-being of their children. You can achieve this by ensuring that you have plenty of experience with babysitting or caring for children of various ages. Try caring for family members, neighbors' children, or get a job at a local daycare center. The more experience you have with children, the more comfortable parents will be with you.\\nOnce you have made up your mind to babysit, spread the word. Let family members and neighbors know, post an ad on community boards at the library or pediatrician's office, or try online sites like Care.com.\\nAs you gain experience, try to add more qualifications to your resume such as CPR or first aid training. Also, try to add more responsibilities like picking children up from school or tutoring.\\n1-2. Learn how to engage children.\\nBeing an au pair goes beyond supervising children; you must also learn how to connect to the children by keeping them entertained. Use your creativity to find activities that allow you to interact with the children in a playful and fun manner.\\nDetermine the age of the child or children in order to ensure the activities will be entertaining and engaging.\\nCome up with creative games, activities, or craft projects. For example, instead of turning on the television try sidewalk chalk games, creating a toddler drawing box, or taking a trip to the park.\\nYou can even try setting up playdates with other au pairs and children to keep your kids entertained while having a social group for yourself. Your coordinator can assist in locating other au pairs in your area.\\n1-3. Learn how to effectively discipline children.\\nChildren are not perfect; they will misbehave, test limits, and sometimes push you to your limits. The important thing to remember is to respond to their misbehavior as an adult—and not as their parent. Avoid yelling, arguing, or inflicting any type of physical punishment. Always keep in mind that you are an adult, and they are a child.\\nRemember that parents set the rules and expectations for children. Make sure you fully understand the host parents' rules and follow them closely to avoid confusion.\\nAlways communicate your expectations with children and reiterate your expectations after misbehavior.\\nTry modeling good behavior so children can imitate and follow your lead.\\nCommunicate incidents to parents. Remember you are the “eyes and ears” for the parents. Be sure to share your concerns with parents. Not only will they discuss expectations with the children but they can also give you tips about how to handle behavioral problems.\\n1-4. Get first-aid training.\\nBeing prepared to face the worst is a skill that all au pairs need. CPR and first aid courses will teach you the skills needed to treat cuts and wounds, assist with victims of choking or drowning, and treat sudden onsets of illness. Determine the level of training needed and contact a training center in your area for more information.\\nCourses include 30-minute “citizen” CPR courses, full first aid courses, or full on CPR and AED (Automated External Defibrillator) courses. Determine your need before signing up for a class.\\nClasses are offered both online and in-person and can range from 30 minutes to 3 hours.\\nVisit sites like the American Red Cross, the American Heart Association and the National Safety Council for information about how to register for a class.\\n1-5. Be sensitive to the children.\\nAlways be loving to the children whether you are working or not. Being lovable will bring out happiness in the children and allow them to bond with you easier.\\nBe involved in their lives by taking an interest in their interests. Show them how important they are to you.\\nTell them that you care for them. Though it sound obvious, don't be afraid to tell them how important they are in your life and to show it through physical contact like hugs.\\nReally listen to them. Make eye contact and engage them in conversation in order to make them feel important and cared for.\\nRemember that parents always come first to children. While building your relationship with the children, try not to compete with parents for their time and attention.\\n2. Learning How to Manage a Home\\n2-1. Learn how to clean thoroughly.\\nAlthough not compulsory, you will almost definitely be expected to help with housework in your new home. Make sure you're fine with doing laundry, making beds, washing dishes, vacuuming and dusting, and cleaning bathrooms.\\nPrepare for your cleaning duties by making sure your current dwelling is kept tidy. Become familiar with cleaning devices such as dishwashers, vacuums, and washers and dryers.\\nSome au pairs are only responsible for light housework that involves the children such as doing their laundry, keeping their rooms tidy, or picking up their toys.\\n2-2. Prepare kid-friendly meals.\\nWhile most au pairs aren't required to prepare full course meals, they are usually asked to cook small meals and snacks for children. Be sure that you are capable of packing school lunches, preparing snacks, and cleaning up after mealtime.\\nAlways be aware of cultural differences in the types of foods consumed as well as the time of day meals are eaten.\\nTry searching for and practicing kid friendly recipes that suit the tastes of the children. You can also make an activity of it by involving the children in the cooking process.\\n2-3. Take driving lessons.\\nSome au pairs are required to chauffeur children to and from various destinations. For example, some are required to take children to school, to sports practice, to doctor's appointments, or to daily outings. Learning to drive (specifically in the state where you'll be residing) is a crucial step in becoming a good au pair.\\nYou can learn to drive through online driving schools that allow you to take courses online at your own pace. Most require both classroom and behind the wheel training.\\nYou can also go to DMV.org to check out the requirements needed for each state in the U.S., and to find additional resources for driver's education programs.\\n2-4. Learn to run errands.\\nSome au pairs are responsible for running errands that pertain to the children and the household. Common tasks include grocery shopping, dropping off or picking up dry cleaning, or driving the children around. Be prepared to assist your family with various chores and always keep a helpful attitude.\\nRemember to never say “that's not my job” to your host parents. If you feel like your host parents are asking you to do more than what is outlined in your contract, contact your coordinator.\\n3. Being Professional\\n3-1. Show respect.\\nAlways be polite and mindful of both your family and their property. Say “please” and “thank you,” listen to their directives, and be considerate of their time and feelings. Be sure to keep their property clean including the car, your room, and shared space.\\nIt's also important to be aware of cultural differences and to learn to respect them. For example, words like “stupid” or “hate” have a strong emotional appeal in the United States and you should avoid using them in a professional setting.\\n3-2. Be punctual.\\nAlways be on time (better yet early) to any event. Whether it is arriving to work, picking up the children, arriving at appointments, or putting kids to bed, deadlines should be strictly adhered to. Failing to do so can cause a loss of trust from the host parents.\\nKeep a planner and know your schedule ahead of time so you know exactly what time you have to leave one spot in order to arrive at your next destination on time.\\nInstead of leaving “on time,” always leave early so you have some wiggle room for the unexpected.\\n3-3. Be well-organized.\\nParents often request the services of au pairs because their family life is hectic. The job of an au pair is to make the host parents' lives easier by being on top of various events and appointments. Be sure to use a planner such as a cellphone or appointment book to keep track of all appointment dates and times.\\nRemember to keep appointments in only one place to avoid scheduling conflicts.\\nAlways take additional notes such as why an appointment was canceled so you always remember even weeks later.\\n3-4. Have strong communication skills.\\nKnow how to communicate with both the children and the host parents. Always feel comfortable with sharing thoughts and concerns in a non-threatening or vulgar manner.\\nIf you feel it may be a difficult conversation, think about what you will say before you say it. It may be helpful to write it out or make notes ahead of time.\\nCommunication is a two-way street so don't forget to listen. Try to hear what your family is saying and take it into consideration before acting.\\nContact your coordinator if you need tips on how to communicate with your host family.\\n3-5. Be mindful of your behavior during your personal time.\\nAu pairs typically work anywhere from 30-45 hours a week with the remaining time being personal or \\\"free\\\" time. Time off is usually structured as one off day a week, one additional off day a month, and free time on certain holidays. During your free time, remember that you are a guest within the home, and a representation of the family in public. Always be on your best behavior.\\nSome au pairs can get coerced into working even on their off days. If you ever feel as if your off time is not being respected, talk to your host family or contact your coordinator for assistance.\\nTips\\nRemain open-minded and adventurous. Try to embrace different aspects of the culture such as music, food, and art.\\nDon't be afraid to share your culture with your host family. One of the many reasons people choose au pairs over traditional child care is to teach their children about different cultures.\\nAlways remember to bond with your host parents too. If they invite you to dinner or a social event, take them up on the offer. It's a good chance for you to get to know them and vice versa.\\nWarnings\\nRespect cultural differences by abiding by the golden rule: treat others how you would want to be treated.\\nContact your coordinator for assistance if you ever feel that your host family is asking you to complete tasks that are not within your contract.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"An au pair is a young adult from a foreign country who travels to the United States (or other foreign countries) to assist a family with childcare and more. An au pair works about 45 hours a week in exchange for the opportunity to live abroad with a family for a year. While the majority of an au pair's responsibility involves caring for children, they can also be responsible for a variety of tasks pertaining to family life.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learning How to Care for Children\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Gain babysitting experience.\", \"描述\": \"If you want to be an au pair, parents have to be able to trust you with the well-being of their children. You can achieve this by ensuring that you have plenty of experience with babysitting or caring for children of various ages. Try caring for family members, neighbors' children, or get a job at a local daycare center. The more experience you have with children, the more comfortable parents will be with you.\\nOnce you have made up your mind to babysit, spread the word. Let family members and neighbors know, post an ad on community boards at the library or pediatrician's office, or try online sites like Care.com.\\nAs you gain experience, try to add more qualifications to your resume such as CPR or first aid training. Also, try to add more responsibilities like picking children up from school or tutoring.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn how to engage children.\", \"描述\": \"Being an au pair goes beyond supervising children; you must also learn how to connect to the children by keeping them entertained. Use your creativity to find activities that allow you to interact with the children in a playful and fun manner.\\nDetermine the age of the child or children in order to ensure the activities will be entertaining and engaging.\\nCome up with creative games, activities, or craft projects. For example, instead of turning on the television try sidewalk chalk games, creating a toddler drawing box, or taking a trip to the park.\\nYou can even try setting up playdates with other au pairs and children to keep your kids entertained while having a social group for yourself. Your coordinator can assist in locating other au pairs in your area.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Learn how to effectively discipline children.\", \"描述\": \"Children are not perfect; they will misbehave, test limits, and sometimes push you to your limits. The important thing to remember is to respond to their misbehavior as an adult—and not as their parent. Avoid yelling, arguing, or inflicting any type of physical punishment. Always keep in mind that you are an adult, and they are a child.\\nRemember that parents set the rules and expectations for children. Make sure you fully understand the host parents' rules and follow them closely to avoid confusion.\\nAlways communicate your expectations with children and reiterate your expectations after misbehavior.\\nTry modeling good behavior so children can imitate and follow your lead.\\nCommunicate incidents to parents. Remember you are the “eyes and ears” for the parents. Be sure to share your concerns with parents. Not only will they discuss expectations with the children but they can also give you tips about how to handle behavioral problems.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Get first-aid training.\", \"描述\": \"Being prepared to face the worst is a skill that all au pairs need. CPR and first aid courses will teach you the skills needed to treat cuts and wounds, assist with victims of choking or drowning, and treat sudden onsets of illness. Determine the level of training needed and contact a training center in your area for more information.\\nCourses include 30-minute “citizen” CPR courses, full first aid courses, or full on CPR and AED (Automated External Defibrillator) courses. Determine your need before signing up for a class.\\nClasses are offered both online and in-person and can range from 30 minutes to 3 hours.\\nVisit sites like the American Red Cross, the American Heart Association and the National Safety Council for information about how to register for a class.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Be sensitive to the children.\", \"描述\": \"Always be loving to the children whether you are working or not. Being lovable will bring out happiness in the children and allow them to bond with you easier.\\nBe involved in their lives by taking an interest in their interests. Show them how important they are to you.\\nTell them that you care for them. Though it sound obvious, don't be afraid to tell them how important they are in your life and to show it through physical contact like hugs.\\nReally listen to them. Make eye contact and engage them in conversation in order to make them feel important and cared for.\\nRemember that parents always come first to children. While building your relationship with the children, try not to compete with parents for their time and attention.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learning How to Manage a Home\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Learn how to clean thoroughly.\", \"描述\": \"Although not compulsory, you will almost definitely be expected to help with housework in your new home. Make sure you're fine with doing laundry, making beds, washing dishes, vacuuming and dusting, and cleaning bathrooms.\\nPrepare for your cleaning duties by making sure your current dwelling is kept tidy. 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1. Offensive Play Tips
1-1. Improve your ball handling skills.
Some experts believe the ability to handle the ball well is the most important skill in the game. You shouldn’t have to think too hard about dribbling the ball if you practice a lot. A good way to improve this skill is through dribbling drills.
Practice with circle dribbles. In this drill, you use one hand to dribble the ball in circles around your right foot. Then switch to the other hand and leg. Practice dribbling between cones or chairs.
Try doing figure 8 dribbles, in which you dribble the ball in and out of your legs, using a figure 8 motion. Bounce the ball from one hand to the other. Practice your dribbling with both hands so you can more easily change directions on the floor.
Dribble suicide drills condition you while improving drilling ability. Start at the baseline. Dribble in a sprint to the closest free throw line and back. Then dribble to midcourt line and back. Then dribble to the farthest away free throw line and back. Finally, dribble all the way to the other side of the court and then back.
Start at one end of the court. Dribble the entire length of the court and make a layup or a jump shot. Get your own rebound, and do the same thing, moving to the other end of the court. Do this three times as fast as you can.
1-2. Improve your passing ability.
Passing is a skill that basketball players must master. There are two basic ways to pass. One is a chest pass in which you throw the ball to your teammate without it bouncing. The second is a bounce pass, in which you bounce the ball once when throwing it to your teammate. This is the hardest pass for a defender to intercept.
Players working on passing abilities might want to play a pickup game that uses no dribbling at all so they can focus more on passing. Practice passing with two hands. This will give you more control over the ball.
Put your weight into the pass by stepping into it. This will improve ball speed and control. Aim for your teammates’ hands when passing to them. Pass to a specific team member rather than throwing the ball in the direction of their voice.
Your thumbs should point down at the end of a pass, and you should follow through. Otherwise, the ball will be harder to catch because it won’t have the right back spin.
You don’t have to pass a ball with great speed. Don’t forget the easy pass. If you get too tricky, you might provoke more turnovers.
Don’t jump when passing. If you do this, you can’t land with the ball so it’s harder. Move toward the ball when it’s being passed to you. That makes it harder for a defender to intercept it. Try to catch it with two hands.
Once you learn the basic passes, try to learn more advanced passes, like the overhead pass and the outlet pass.
1-3. Improve your shooting.
The shooters get a lot of the glory, and they are obviously critical to the game. But you don’t want to be in a situation where people are blocking your shots or you miss a lot of them. That will land you on the bench.
Use your fingertips. This helps you maintain proper control of the ball when shooting.
Bend your legs and stay small when you begin the shot. Then, spring up, and end tall, with your body straightened and hands up in the air. When players start shooting while standing straight, they can lower their shooting percentage. The legs are critical in shooting. In fact, you should play the entire game with your knees mostly bent.
Go for the higher percentage shots. Don’t always try to shoot the tricky shots. Figure out which shots are difficult for you to make, and focus on the easier shots. This will make you seem like a better shooter overnight.
Point the elbow toward the middle of the rim, and keep it in, as well as your middle finger when you follow through. Finish your shot as if you are dipping your hand into the rim. Proper follow through also means that your fingers should hang down, not be together or pointed.
Fully extend your arm at the end of your shot, with your elbow snapping back. And keep your elbow at the level above your eyes when you release the ball.
1-4. Condition your body.
Athleticism makes the difference between a good skill set, and an unstoppable skillset. Speed, quickness, verticality, strength, and stamina can turn any skill deadly just by simply giving you the advantage over an opponent physically. You need to perform practice drills that condition your body in a way that is designed for basketball offensive play, not just exercises like you might do for fun. Coaches look for players who want to work hard to achieve good conditioning, like who has an explosive first step or who can jump 2 feet (0.61 m) in the air.
Use a pre-planned workout. There are many basketball conditioning plans that will help you get in shape and improve your stamina. Even 45 minutes three times a week can make a big difference.
Some conditioning workouts suggest exercises like skipping rope, sprinting from the free-throw line to the net and slapping the net with the hands, shooting for one minute from different spots on the court, and performing defensive slide moves.
2. Defensive Play Tips
2-1. Keep your feet moving.
A good defender must be quick on the feet and constantly on the move. If you stand still too long on the court, you won’t be good at this position.
Mentally envision that you’ve stepped in paint. Ask yourself, how many of your footprints will you see on the court? You want to “paint the floor” by moving a lot and being everywhere. Increase your activity on defense, and you will be more effective.
Try for every single ball.
Don’t keep your eye on the ball – keep your eye on the other player. Otherwise you could be tricked by ball fakes. Maintain eye contact with the player you are guarding. Keep the player away from the baseline and force him or her to the front of the rim.
2-2. Stay low.
Good defenders bend their knees. They spend most of the game moving and crouched low. They should also keep their head lower than the head of the person they are guarding.
Keep feet wide apart and legs bent when on defense. Constantly move your feet. It will be easier for an offensive player to get past you if your legs are together or your feet crossed.
Keep your nose lower than the nose of the person you are guarding. This way you can react quickly to motion made by your opponent.
Standing upright can make a defender lose balance. Your feet should be shoulder length apart, with your knees bent slightly.
2-3. Put your hand on the ball.
If you are careful, you can use this technique to be a better defender without fouling the player you are guarding.
If the opponent is holding the ball in shooting position, put your hand on the ball. This will make it harder for them to shoot the ball.
If your opponent has the ball below their midsection, put your hand on top of the ball. This will make it harder for them to shoot.
2-4. Become a better rebounder.
Remember no matter how good you are, you are only one player out of five. Rebounding the ball can determine the outcome of games. Your team can't score if it doesn't have possession.
Move to the inside position, so you have a better chance at the ball.
Don’t stand straight. If you squat down, you will have more power in your jump and a better chance at the ball. When you jump for the ball, keep both hands as outstretched as you can.
2-5. Improve your defensive conditioning.
Defenders need to do a lot of running and must stay low to properly guard another player. Defensive endurance training will improve play.
Doing a wall sit is a good way to improve your defensive conditioning. All you need to do is find a wall and sit down, as if you were sitting in a chair (but without one). Stand with your back to the wall. Slide down the wall until your knees are in a 90-degree angle with the floor. Hold the position for about 60 seconds when starting out.
Try jumping rope with two legs and go as fast as you can. Time and count your jumps so you can track progress. It sounds simple, but jumping rope is a great way to improve your conditioning for basketball. That’s because it improves endurance but also agility.
Try agility drills. Start on the baseline, right side. Sprint to the top right corner of the free throw line, shuffle to the left corner, backpedal to the baseline and shuffle to where you started. Then, move to the right corner and do the same thing. Boys should be able to do this in 10-14 seconds and girls in 11-15 seconds.
2-6. Try lower body strength training.
Lifting weights will improve your body’s overall strength, which is good on defense when you need to get rebounds or block shots. You want to vary exercises, though.
Do squats. Take a dumbbell, keep feet flat on the ground and go as low as you can, keeping your thighs parallel to the ground.
Try lunges and step ups. Using a barbell or dumbbell, keep your leading foot flat on the ground and your torso erect. Step up on a box and then down again or lunge forward with each leg.
2-7. Try upper body strength exercises.
These exercises are divided into pushes and pulls. You can use bands to help you by putting a foot or knee into a band when doing things like chin-ups or pull-ups if they are hard for you in the beginning.
Use a barbell or dumbbell to do bench presses or shoulder presses. To bench press, lie on a weight bench with your feet on the floor. Unlock the bar and lift it with straight arms. Lower it to mid-chest, and then press it upward, locking your elbows. Don’t move your butt off the bench. Try to do this in sets of five reps.
Use a barbell or dumbbell to perform bicep curls. When doing a bicep curl, you want to stand straight with a dumbbell in each hand. Keep your elbows in close to your body. Make sure your palms face forward. Then curl the dumbbell until the biceps fully contract and dumbbells stop at the shoulder. Now, lower the dumbbells to the starting position, and repeat. .
3. Basketball IQ Improvement
3-1. Master the rules.
Sometimes younger basketball players forget the game’s rules. If you don’t know the rules by heart, you will cause problems for your team. A good way to master the rules is by joining a club team when you’re young or in the summer in between seasons.
If the team on offense has the ball behind the mid-court line, it has 5 seconds to move the ball over the mid-court line or it loses the ball. Knowing a rule like this helps you prevent turnovers.
The offensive team can’t bring the ball back over the mid-court line once it gets the ball over the mid-court line, or it loses the ball. These are the kinds of rules that smart basketball players know.
3-2. Study the game.
You need to understand everything you can about your position and about court strategy. You are going to get more playing time if you are a strategic player in addition to one with strong technical skills.
You can find many training videos on YouTube.
Study your past games and those of the competition. What worked? What went wrong? After a game, sit down with your coach. Together, try to come up with one area that you need to improve. Then, work on that area in practice.
Find a mentor. You can ask a basketball coach or find a good basketball player who'd be willing to teach you.
Different coaches have different philosophies and systems. Figure out yours so you can adapt to it. Maybe they don’t want point guards to get more than three turnovers in a game. Whatever their own personal rules are, it’s helpful if you learn them.
Watch professional and other high-level games to see how the best play the game. Use what you learn in your own game.
3-3. Understand your role.
Don’t focus solely on scoring. One mistake young players make is they put all the emphasis on scoring. Focus on how you can add value to your team. Maybe you are a great passer, for example.
If you’re not good at being a three-point shooter, don’t try it much. You should give up the ball to the teammate who’s better at that role.
Maybe you are a great catch-and-shoot player. Then focus on that. If you are a center, you want to spend your time practicing rebounding and post drills, not dribbling. So figuring out your role also helps you pick the right training exercises.
3-4. Be mentally tough.
Basketball is a mental game, not just a physical one. Some experts say the mental aspects of the game are 70% of it. Coaches look for players with mental toughness.
Provide 100 percent effort. Basketball is a game of dedication and persistence. Don’t be afraid to be criticized, either. It’s how you will learn.
Coaches want players who are passionate, determined, who want to get better and who will work hard to do so, and who have the will to prepare to win, not just the will to win.
Be aggressive. Coaches look for players who are aggressive and focused on the court and off it. They want someone who will dive on the floor if there is a loose ball and is constantly applying pressure to other players when acting as a defender.
3-5. Be a team player.
Good sportsmanship is one of the most important aspects of basketball. You can only get so far in a sport on your own. You'll need to be humble and ready to listen to your coach and teammates if you want to improve. Being a team player also means winning with grace, losing respectfully, and putting in the effort it takes to be the strongest player you can be.
Great players elevate their teammates’ play when they are on the court.
To be a good team player, pass more often, run for an open space to help that teammate being surrounded by the opposite team, help block, help with rebounds, etc. People will like you and will return you the favor!
Tips
You add value by being able to set up your teammates for baskets, rebounding, and playing defense. These other three things will make you a truly elite basketball player. However, you need to be skilled at scoring before you even look at these other things.
Offense wins games; defense wins championships.
Hard work is the key to becoming a good basketball player. Having the right mentality and being positive on the court will help also.
Warnings
Don't focus on dunking. Focus on getting your vertical higher for game situations. That's where it is truly needed. If you do that, dunking will come on its own.
Make sure you use a spotter when doing strength training exercises like squats or barbell lunges. The squatter will help you if you start to lose your balance or have a hard time performing the exercise.
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Then dribble to the farthest away free throw line and back. Finally, dribble all the way to the other side of the court and then back.\\nStart at one end of the court. Dribble the entire length of the court and make a layup or a jump shot. Get your own rebound, and do the same thing, moving to the other end of the court. Do this three times as fast as you can.\\n1-2. Improve your passing ability.\\nPassing is a skill that basketball players must master. There are two basic ways to pass. One is a chest pass in which you throw the ball to your teammate without it bouncing. The second is a bounce pass, in which you bounce the ball once when throwing it to your teammate. This is the hardest pass for a defender to intercept.\\nPlayers working on passing abilities might want to play a pickup game that uses no dribbling at all so they can focus more on passing. Practice passing with two hands. This will give you more control over the ball.\\nPut your weight into the pass by stepping into it. This will improve ball speed and control. Aim for your teammates’ hands when passing to them. Pass to a specific team member rather than throwing the ball in the direction of their voice.\\nYour thumbs should point down at the end of a pass, and you should follow through. Otherwise, the ball will be harder to catch because it won’t have the right back spin.\\nYou don’t have to pass a ball with great speed. Don’t forget the easy pass. If you get too tricky, you might provoke more turnovers.\\nDon’t jump when passing. If you do this, you can’t land with the ball so it’s harder. Move toward the ball when it’s being passed to you. That makes it harder for a defender to intercept it. Try to catch it with two hands.\\nOnce you learn the basic passes, try to learn more advanced passes, like the overhead pass and the outlet pass.\\n1-3. Improve your shooting.\\nThe shooters get a lot of the glory, and they are obviously critical to the game. But you don’t want to be in a situation where people are blocking your shots or you miss a lot of them. That will land you on the bench.\\nUse your fingertips. This helps you maintain proper control of the ball when shooting.\\nBend your legs and stay small when you begin the shot. Then, spring up, and end tall, with your body straightened and hands up in the air. When players start shooting while standing straight, they can lower their shooting percentage. The legs are critical in shooting. In fact, you should play the entire game with your knees mostly bent. \\nGo for the higher percentage shots. Don’t always try to shoot the tricky shots. Figure out which shots are difficult for you to make, and focus on the easier shots. This will make you seem like a better shooter overnight.\\nPoint the elbow toward the middle of the rim, and keep it in, as well as your middle finger when you follow through. Finish your shot as if you are dipping your hand into the rim. Proper follow through also means that your fingers should hang down, not be together or pointed.\\nFully extend your arm at the end of your shot, with your elbow snapping back. And keep your elbow at the level above your eyes when you release the ball.\\n1-4. Condition your body.\\nAthleticism makes the difference between a good skill set, and an unstoppable skillset. Speed, quickness, verticality, strength, and stamina can turn any skill deadly just by simply giving you the advantage over an opponent physically. You need to perform practice drills that condition your body in a way that is designed for basketball offensive play, not just exercises like you might do for fun. Coaches look for players who want to work hard to achieve good conditioning, like who has an explosive first step or who can jump 2 feet (0.61 m) in the air. \\nUse a pre-planned workout. There are many basketball conditioning plans that will help you get in shape and improve your stamina. Even 45 minutes three times a week can make a big difference. \\nSome conditioning workouts suggest exercises like skipping rope, sprinting from the free-throw line to the net and slapping the net with the hands, shooting for one minute from different spots on the court, and performing defensive slide moves.\\n2. Defensive Play Tips\\n2-1. Keep your feet moving.\\nA good defender must be quick on the feet and constantly on the move. If you stand still too long on the court, you won’t be good at this position.\\nMentally envision that you’ve stepped in paint. Ask yourself, how many of your footprints will you see on the court? You want to “paint the floor” by moving a lot and being everywhere. Increase your activity on defense, and you will be more effective.\\nTry for every single ball. \\nDon’t keep your eye on the ball – keep your eye on the other player. Otherwise you could be tricked by ball fakes. Maintain eye contact with the player you are guarding. Keep the player away from the baseline and force him or her to the front of the rim.\\n2-2. Stay low.\\nGood defenders bend their knees. They spend most of the game moving and crouched low. They should also keep their head lower than the head of the person they are guarding. \\nKeep feet wide apart and legs bent when on defense. Constantly move your feet. It will be easier for an offensive player to get past you if your legs are together or your feet crossed.\\nKeep your nose lower than the nose of the person you are guarding. This way you can react quickly to motion made by your opponent. \\nStanding upright can make a defender lose balance. Your feet should be shoulder length apart, with your knees bent slightly.\\n2-3. Put your hand on the ball.\\nIf you are careful, you can use this technique to be a better defender without fouling the player you are guarding.\\nIf the opponent is holding the ball in shooting position, put your hand on the ball. This will make it harder for them to shoot the ball.\\nIf your opponent has the ball below their midsection, put your hand on top of the ball. This will make it harder for them to shoot.\\n2-4. Become a better rebounder.\\nRemember no matter how good you are, you are only one player out of five. Rebounding the ball can determine the outcome of games. Your team can't score if it doesn't have possession.\\nMove to the inside position, so you have a better chance at the ball.\\nDon’t stand straight. If you squat down, you will have more power in your jump and a better chance at the ball. When you jump for the ball, keep both hands as outstretched as you can.\\n2-5. Improve your defensive conditioning.\\nDefenders need to do a lot of running and must stay low to properly guard another player. Defensive endurance training will improve play.\\nDoing a wall sit is a good way to improve your defensive conditioning. All you need to do is find a wall and sit down, as if you were sitting in a chair (but without one). Stand with your back to the wall. Slide down the wall until your knees are in a 90-degree angle with the floor. Hold the position for about 60 seconds when starting out.\\nTry jumping rope with two legs and go as fast as you can. Time and count your jumps so you can track progress. It sounds simple, but jumping rope is a great way to improve your conditioning for basketball. That’s because it improves endurance but also agility.\\nTry agility drills. Start on the baseline, right side. Sprint to the top right corner of the free throw line, shuffle to the left corner, backpedal to the baseline and shuffle to where you started. Then, move to the right corner and do the same thing. Boys should be able to do this in 10-14 seconds and girls in 11-15 seconds.\\n2-6. Try lower body strength training.\\nLifting weights will improve your body’s overall strength, which is good on defense when you need to get rebounds or block shots. You want to vary exercises, though.\\nDo squats. Take a dumbbell, keep feet flat on the ground and go as low as you can, keeping your thighs parallel to the ground.\\nTry lunges and step ups. Using a barbell or dumbbell, keep your leading foot flat on the ground and your torso erect. Step up on a box and then down again or lunge forward with each leg.\\n2-7. Try upper body strength exercises.\\nThese exercises are divided into pushes and pulls. You can use bands to help you by putting a foot or knee into a band when doing things like chin-ups or pull-ups if they are hard for you in the beginning.\\nUse a barbell or dumbbell to do bench presses or shoulder presses. To bench press, lie on a weight bench with your feet on the floor. Unlock the bar and lift it with straight arms. Lower it to mid-chest, and then press it upward, locking your elbows. Don’t move your butt off the bench. Try to do this in sets of five reps. \\nUse a barbell or dumbbell to perform bicep curls. When doing a bicep curl, you want to stand straight with a dumbbell in each hand. Keep your elbows in close to your body. Make sure your palms face forward. Then curl the dumbbell until the biceps fully contract and dumbbells stop at the shoulder. Now, lower the dumbbells to the starting position, and repeat. .\\n3. Basketball IQ Improvement\\n3-1. Master the rules.\\nSometimes younger basketball players forget the game’s rules. If you don’t know the rules by heart, you will cause problems for your team. A good way to master the rules is by joining a club team when you’re young or in the summer in between seasons.\\nIf the team on offense has the ball behind the mid-court line, it has 5 seconds to move the ball over the mid-court line or it loses the ball. Knowing a rule like this helps you prevent turnovers.\\nThe offensive team can’t bring the ball back over the mid-court line once it gets the ball over the mid-court line, or it loses the ball. These are the kinds of rules that smart basketball players know.\\n3-2. Study the game.\\nYou need to understand everything you can about your position and about court strategy. You are going to get more playing time if you are a strategic player in addition to one with strong technical skills.\\nYou can find many training videos on YouTube.\\nStudy your past games and those of the competition. What worked? What went wrong? After a game, sit down with your coach. Together, try to come up with one area that you need to improve. Then, work on that area in practice.\\nFind a mentor. You can ask a basketball coach or find a good basketball player who'd be willing to teach you.\\nDifferent coaches have different philosophies and systems. Figure out yours so you can adapt to it. Maybe they don’t want point guards to get more than three turnovers in a game. Whatever their own personal rules are, it’s helpful if you learn them. \\nWatch professional and other high-level games to see how the best play the game. Use what you learn in your own game.\\n3-3. Understand your role.\\nDon’t focus solely on scoring. One mistake young players make is they put all the emphasis on scoring. Focus on how you can add value to your team. Maybe you are a great passer, for example.\\nIf you’re not good at being a three-point shooter, don’t try it much. You should give up the ball to the teammate who’s better at that role.\\nMaybe you are a great catch-and-shoot player. Then focus on that. If you are a center, you want to spend your time practicing rebounding and post drills, not dribbling. So figuring out your role also helps you pick the right training exercises.\\n3-4. Be mentally tough.\\nBasketball is a mental game, not just a physical one. Some experts say the mental aspects of the game are 70% of it. Coaches look for players with mental toughness. \\nProvide 100 percent effort. Basketball is a game of dedication and persistence. Don’t be afraid to be criticized, either. It’s how you will learn. \\nCoaches want players who are passionate, determined, who want to get better and who will work hard to do so, and who have the will to prepare to win, not just the will to win.\\nBe aggressive. Coaches look for players who are aggressive and focused on the court and off it. They want someone who will dive on the floor if there is a loose ball and is constantly applying pressure to other players when acting as a defender.\\n3-5. Be a team player.\\nGood sportsmanship is one of the most important aspects of basketball. You can only get so far in a sport on your own. You'll need to be humble and ready to listen to your coach and teammates if you want to improve. Being a team player also means winning with grace, losing respectfully, and putting in the effort it takes to be the strongest player you can be.\\nGreat players elevate their teammates’ play when they are on the court.\\nTo be a good team player, pass more often, run for an open space to help that teammate being surrounded by the opposite team, help block, help with rebounds, etc. People will like you and will return you the favor!\\nTips\\nYou add value by being able to set up your teammates for baskets, rebounding, and playing defense. These other three things will make you a truly elite basketball player. However, you need to be skilled at scoring before you even look at these other things.\\nOffense wins games; defense wins championships.\\nHard work is the key to becoming a good basketball player. Having the right mentality and being positive on the court will help also.\\nWarnings\\nDon't focus on dunking. Focus on getting your vertical higher for game situations. That's where it is truly needed. If you do that, dunking will come on its own.\\nMake sure you use a spotter when doing strength training exercises like squats or barbell lunges. The squatter will help you if you start to lose your balance or have a hard time performing the exercise.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Playing basketball requires natural skill, but you can become a good basketball player if you properly condition your body, practice with the right drills, and master the mental aspects of the game. Good basketball players put in the effort and training that it takes to get better on the court, and they have the personality traits that coaches appreciate.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Offensive Play Tips\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Improve your ball handling skills.\", \"描述\": \"Some experts believe the ability to handle the ball well is the most important skill in the game. You shouldn’t have to think too hard about dribbling the ball if you practice a lot. A good way to improve this skill is through dribbling drills.\\nPractice with circle dribbles. In this drill, you use one hand to dribble the ball in circles around your right foot. Then switch to the other hand and leg. Practice dribbling between cones or chairs.\\nTry doing figure 8 dribbles, in which you dribble the ball in and out of your legs, using a figure 8 motion. Bounce the ball from one hand to the other. Practice your dribbling with both hands so you can more easily change directions on the floor.\\nDribble suicide drills condition you while improving drilling ability. Start at the baseline. Dribble in a sprint to the closest free throw line and back. Then dribble to midcourt line and back. Then dribble to the farthest away free throw line and back. Finally, dribble all the way to the other side of the court and then back.\\nStart at one end of the court. Dribble the entire length of the court and make a layup or a jump shot. Get your own rebound, and do the same thing, moving to the other end of the court. Do this three times as fast as you can.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Improve your passing ability.\", \"描述\": \"Passing is a skill that basketball players must master. There are two basic ways to pass. One is a chest pass in which you throw the ball to your teammate without it bouncing. The second is a bounce pass, in which you bounce the ball once when throwing it to your teammate. This is the hardest pass for a defender to intercept.\\nPlayers working on passing abilities might want to play a pickup game that uses no dribbling at all so they can focus more on passing. Practice passing with two hands. This will give you more control over the ball.\\nPut your weight into the pass by stepping into it. This will improve ball speed and control. Aim for your teammates’ hands when passing to them. Pass to a specific team member rather than throwing the ball in the direction of their voice.\\nYour thumbs should point down at the end of a pass, and you should follow through. Otherwise, the ball will be harder to catch because it won’t have the right back spin.\\nYou don’t have to pass a ball with great speed. Don’t forget the easy pass. If you get too tricky, you might provoke more turnovers.\\nDon’t jump when passing. If you do this, you can’t land with the ball so it’s harder. Move toward the ball when it’s being passed to you. That makes it harder for a defender to intercept it. Try to catch it with two hands.\\nOnce you learn the basic passes, try to learn more advanced passes, like the overhead pass and the outlet pass.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Improve your shooting.\", \"描述\": \"The shooters get a lot of the glory, and they are obviously critical to the game. But you don’t want to be in a situation where people are blocking your shots or you miss a lot of them. That will land you on the bench.\\nUse your fingertips. This helps you maintain proper control of the ball when shooting.\\nBend your legs and stay small when you begin the shot. Then, spring up, and end tall, with your body straightened and hands up in the air. When players start shooting while standing straight, they can lower their shooting percentage. The legs are critical in shooting. In fact, you should play the entire game with your knees mostly bent. \\nGo for the higher percentage shots. Don’t always try to shoot the tricky shots. Figure out which shots are difficult for you to make, and focus on the easier shots. This will make you seem like a better shooter overnight.\\nPoint the elbow toward the middle of the rim, and keep it in, as well as your middle finger when you follow through. Finish your shot as if you are dipping your hand into the rim. Proper follow through also means that your fingers should hang down, not be together or pointed.\\nFully extend your arm at the end of your shot, with your elbow snapping back. And keep your elbow at the level above your eyes when you release the ball.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Condition your body.\", \"描述\": \"Athleticism makes the difference between a good skill set, and an unstoppable skillset. Speed, quickness, verticality, strength, and stamina can turn any skill deadly just by simply giving you the advantage over an opponent physically. You need to perform practice drills that condition your body in a way that is designed for basketball offensive play, not just exercises like you might do for fun. Coaches look for players who want to work hard to achieve good conditioning, like who has an explosive first step or who can jump 2 feet (0.61 m) in the air. \\nUse a pre-planned workout. There are many basketball conditioning plans that will help you get in shape and improve your stamina. Even 45 minutes three times a week can make a big difference. \\nSome conditioning workouts suggest exercises like skipping rope, sprinting from the free-throw line to the net and slapping the net with the hands, shooting for one minute from different spots on the court, and performing defensive slide moves.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Defensive Play Tips\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Keep your feet moving.\", \"描述\": \"A good defender must be quick on the feet and constantly on the move. If you stand still too long on the court, you won’t be good at this position.\\nMentally envision that you’ve stepped in paint. Ask yourself, how many of your footprints will you see on the court? You want to “paint the floor” by moving a lot and being everywhere. Increase your activity on defense, and you will be more effective.\\nTry for every single ball. \\nDon’t keep your eye on the ball – keep your eye on the other player. Otherwise you could be tricked by ball fakes. Maintain eye contact with the player you are guarding. Keep the player away from the baseline and force him or her to the front of the rim.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Stay low.\", \"描述\": \"Good defenders bend their knees. They spend most of the game moving and crouched low. They should also keep their head lower than the head of the person they are guarding. \\nKeep feet wide apart and legs bent when on defense. Constantly move your feet. It will be easier for an offensive player to get past you if your legs are together or your feet crossed.\\nKeep your nose lower than the nose of the person you are guarding. This way you can react quickly to motion made by your opponent. \\nStanding upright can make a defender lose balance. Your feet should be shoulder length apart, with your knees bent slightly.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Put your hand on the ball.\", \"描述\": \"If you are careful, you can use this technique to be a better defender without fouling the player you are guarding.\\nIf the opponent is holding the ball in shooting position, put your hand on the ball. This will make it harder for them to shoot the ball.\\nIf your opponent has the ball below their midsection, put your hand on top of the ball. This will make it harder for them to shoot.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Become a better rebounder.\", \"描述\": \"Remember no matter how good you are, you are only one player out of five. Rebounding the ball can determine the outcome of games. Your team can't score if it doesn't have possession.\\nMove to the inside position, so you have a better chance at the ball.\\nDon’t stand straight. If you squat down, you will have more power in your jump and a better chance at the ball. When you jump for the ball, keep both hands as outstretched as you can.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Improve your defensive conditioning.\", \"描述\": \"Defenders need to do a lot of running and must stay low to properly guard another player. Defensive endurance training will improve play.\\nDoing a wall sit is a good way to improve your defensive conditioning. All you need to do is find a wall and sit down, as if you were sitting in a chair (but without one). Stand with your back to the wall. Slide down the wall until your knees are in a 90-degree angle with the floor. Hold the position for about 60 seconds when starting out.\\nTry jumping rope with two legs and go as fast as you can. Time and count your jumps so you can track progress. It sounds simple, but jumping rope is a great way to improve your conditioning for basketball. That’s because it improves endurance but also agility.\\nTry agility drills. Start on the baseline, right side. Sprint to the top right corner of the free throw line, shuffle to the left corner, backpedal to the baseline and shuffle to where you started. Then, move to the right corner and do the same thing. Boys should be able to do this in 10-14 seconds and girls in 11-15 seconds.\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Try lower body strength training.\", \"描述\": \"Lifting weights will improve your body’s overall strength, which is good on defense when you need to get rebounds or block shots. You want to vary exercises, though.\\nDo squats. Take a dumbbell, keep feet flat on the ground and go as low as you can, keeping your thighs parallel to the ground.\\nTry lunges and step ups. Using a barbell or dumbbell, keep your leading foot flat on the ground and your torso erect. Step up on a box and then down again or lunge forward with each leg.\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Try upper body strength exercises.\", \"描述\": \"These exercises are divided into pushes and pulls. You can use bands to help you by putting a foot or knee into a band when doing things like chin-ups or pull-ups if they are hard for you in the beginning.\\nUse a barbell or dumbbell to do bench presses or shoulder presses. To bench press, lie on a weight bench with your feet on the floor. Unlock the bar and lift it with straight arms. Lower it to mid-chest, and then press it upward, locking your elbows. Don’t move your butt off the bench. Try to do this in sets of five reps. \\nUse a barbell or dumbbell to perform bicep curls. When doing a bicep curl, you want to stand straight with a dumbbell in each hand. Keep your elbows in close to your body. Make sure your palms face forward. Then curl the dumbbell until the biceps fully contract and dumbbells stop at the shoulder. Now, lower the dumbbells to the starting position, and repeat. .\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Basketball IQ Improvement\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Master the rules.\", \"描述\": \"Sometimes younger basketball players forget the game’s rules. If you don’t know the rules by heart, you will cause problems for your team. A good way to master the rules is by joining a club team when you’re young or in the summer in between seasons.\\nIf the team on offense has the ball behind the mid-court line, it has 5 seconds to move the ball over the mid-court line or it loses the ball. Knowing a rule like this helps you prevent turnovers.\\nThe offensive team can’t bring the ball back over the mid-court line once it gets the ball over the mid-court line, or it loses the ball. These are the kinds of rules that smart basketball players know.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Study the game.\", \"描述\": \"You need to understand everything you can about your position and about court strategy. You are going to get more playing time if you are a strategic player in addition to one with strong technical skills.\\nYou can find many training videos on YouTube.\\nStudy your past games and those of the competition. What worked? What went wrong? After a game, sit down with your coach. Together, try to come up with one area that you need to improve. Then, work on that area in practice.\\nFind a mentor. You can ask a basketball coach or find a good basketball player who'd be willing to teach you.\\nDifferent coaches have different philosophies and systems. Figure out yours so you can adapt to it. Maybe they don’t want point guards to get more than three turnovers in a game. Whatever their own personal rules are, it’s helpful if you learn them. \\nWatch professional and other high-level games to see how the best play the game. Use what you learn in your own game.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Understand your role.\", \"描述\": \"Don’t focus solely on scoring. One mistake young players make is they put all the emphasis on scoring. Focus on how you can add value to your team. Maybe you are a great passer, for example.\\nIf you’re not good at being a three-point shooter, don’t try it much. You should give up the ball to the teammate who’s better at that role.\\nMaybe you are a great catch-and-shoot player. Then focus on that. If you are a center, you want to spend your time practicing rebounding and post drills, not dribbling. So figuring out your role also helps you pick the right training exercises.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Be mentally tough.\", \"描述\": \"Basketball is a mental game, not just a physical one. Some experts say the mental aspects of the game are 70% of it. Coaches look for players with mental toughness. \\nProvide 100 percent effort. Basketball is a game of dedication and persistence. Don’t be afraid to be criticized, either. 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1. Holding the Bat and Standing Properly
1-1. Stand sideways to the bowler with your feet a shoulder-width apart.
Stand sideways in front of the wickets with your knees slightly bent and your head turned towards the bowler. Bend at your hips but keep your back straight. Your non-dominant elbow should be pointing in the direction of the bowler as you hold the bat.
Don't let your shoulders drop. Keep them as straight as you can as you're batting.
Stay on the balls of your feet while you're hitting.
Your eyes and shoulders should be level. Keep your eyes on the ball at all times.
1-2. Hold the bat tight with both hands.
Your non-dominant, or lead hand, should be over the end of the bat's grip holding it tightly. Your dominant hand should be below it with a loose 2-finger and thumb grip. Both hands should be close together and the paddle should feel comfortable in your hands.
Your knuckles on your non-dominant hand should be facing the bowler and your backhand or dominant hand's knuckles should be facing the catcher.
1-3. Make a line in the turf where the middle wicket is.
Making a line in the turf in the position of the middle wicket is known as making a guard and will give you some awareness to where the wickets are positioned as you're batting. Put the tip of your bat in the turf and make a line so that it runs parallel with the middle wicket.
If you are practicing inside, you can use a piece of tape to make your guard line.
2. Hitting the Ball
2-1. Tap the bat on the guard line.
Tapping the bat on the ground will give the bowler the sign that you're ready to hit. Don't tap the ground excessively hard and keep your bat as straight as possible so that you maintain good form.
2-2. Step forward with your lead foot and bring the bat back.
Swing the bat back so that it comes up to your back shoulder and is pointed straight in the air. As you wind up, keep the bat as straight as possible. As you step forward, turn your lead foot so that your toes are facing the bowler.
As you bring the bat back, your forearm should line up with your shoulder.
Keep in mind that if the ball is bouncing high, then you will need to step backwards instead. Only step forward if the ball is low.
2-3. Keep your eye on the ball.
Try to follow the ball as it bounces towards you. If you can follow the pitch from when it leaves the bowler's hand, you'll know where you have to position the bat for a hit. As the ball comes towards you, decide which kind of hit you want to make with the bat.
If you think the ball will bounce in the sweet spot, you can wind up to drive the ball far.
If the ball is short, prepare to make a defensive shot.
2-4. Swing the bat downward to hit the ball after it bounces.
Step forward with your lead leg, and swing the bat downward so that your lead elbow points towards the bowler. This is the most traditional shot in cricket and is known as a straight drive.
Follow through with your shot to make the ball go as far as possible.
2-5. Swing the bat to the side if the pitch is short.
If the ball bounces early, or what is known as short, you should step back with your back foot to prepare for a high defensive swing. Swing the bat out to the side, as you would with a baseball bat instead of swinging it directly down.
This is commonly known as a pull shot and will cause the ball to go off to the side.
2-6. Make contact with the ball if the bowler is aiming for the wickets.
If the ball comes in low and fast, the bowler is most likely trying to hit a wicket and get you out. Your main goal is to make contact with the ball for a defensive hit. Use the same swing as you did for a straight drive, but concentrate on just making contact with the ball, rather than driving it far.
The goal is to hit the ball and prevent it from hitting the wickets, not to hit the ball hard so that you can score runs.
3. Refining Your Batting Skills
3-1. Follow through with your swing.
A good follow-through is critical, especially if you want to hit the ball far. Follow through the entire swing, even if you miss the ball. This will get you into the habit of always following through on your swings.
If you don't follow through you could miss the ball or pop it up in the air for an easy out.
3-2. Stay calm while you bat.
Nervous energy can throw you off your game and cause you to make mistakes. Practice regulating your breathing and visualize the trajectory of the ball as it leaves the bowler's hands.
Try to block out any excited or nervous energy from the crowd and team members by concentrating on the ball.
3-3. Swing the cricket bat in the mirror to perfect your swing.
Before you practice with a ball, you should try to perfect your swing in front of a mirror, which is also known as shadow cricket. Seeing yourself will let you know what adjustments you need to make to improve your stance and swing.
Make adjustments to your stance when you notice that you're doing it incorrectly.
3-4. Practice batting by yourself with a tennis ball.
Throw a tennis ball down on the ground and hit it after it bounces. This will emulate a full pitch, or a pitch that lands right in front of you, and will help you practice swinging if you don't have anyone to practice with.
Keep your dominant hand on the bat if you are practicing alone.
Doing this drill will help improve your bottom hand grip.
3-5. Drill with your team as much as possible.
The best way to get better at being a batsman is active practice with your team. Make every effort to attend practice. Drill game scenarios and hitting as much as possible so that you're prepared when game time comes.
Take your coach's advice and listen to any input that team members have on your hitting.
Tips
Whenever playing or practicing cricket with a hard ball, you should have gloves, shin pads, thigh guards, abdominal guard, and a helmet with a facemask. If you are playing with a soft ball, you will only need gloves and a bat.
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Both hands should be close together and the paddle should feel comfortable in your hands.\\nYour knuckles on your non-dominant hand should be facing the bowler and your backhand or dominant hand's knuckles should be facing the catcher.\\n1-3. Make a line in the turf where the middle wicket is.\\nMaking a line in the turf in the position of the middle wicket is known as making a guard and will give you some awareness to where the wickets are positioned as you're batting. Put the tip of your bat in the turf and make a line so that it runs parallel with the middle wicket.\\nIf you are practicing inside, you can use a piece of tape to make your guard line.\\n2. Hitting the Ball\\n2-1. Tap the bat on the guard line.\\nTapping the bat on the ground will give the bowler the sign that you're ready to hit. Don't tap the ground excessively hard and keep your bat as straight as possible so that you maintain good form.\\n2-2. Step forward with your lead foot and bring the bat back.\\nSwing the bat back so that it comes up to your back shoulder and is pointed straight in the air. As you wind up, keep the bat as straight as possible. As you step forward, turn your lead foot so that your toes are facing the bowler.\\nAs you bring the bat back, your forearm should line up with your shoulder.\\nKeep in mind that if the ball is bouncing high, then you will need to step backwards instead. Only step forward if the ball is low.\\n2-3. Keep your eye on the ball.\\nTry to follow the ball as it bounces towards you. If you can follow the pitch from when it leaves the bowler's hand, you'll know where you have to position the bat for a hit. As the ball comes towards you, decide which kind of hit you want to make with the bat.\\nIf you think the ball will bounce in the sweet spot, you can wind up to drive the ball far.\\nIf the ball is short, prepare to make a defensive shot.\\n2-4. Swing the bat downward to hit the ball after it bounces.\\nStep forward with your lead leg, and swing the bat downward so that your lead elbow points towards the bowler. This is the most traditional shot in cricket and is known as a straight drive.\\nFollow through with your shot to make the ball go as far as possible.\\n2-5. Swing the bat to the side if the pitch is short.\\nIf the ball bounces early, or what is known as short, you should step back with your back foot to prepare for a high defensive swing. Swing the bat out to the side, as you would with a baseball bat instead of swinging it directly down.\\nThis is commonly known as a pull shot and will cause the ball to go off to the side.\\n2-6. Make contact with the ball if the bowler is aiming for the wickets.\\nIf the ball comes in low and fast, the bowler is most likely trying to hit a wicket and get you out. Your main goal is to make contact with the ball for a defensive hit. Use the same swing as you did for a straight drive, but concentrate on just making contact with the ball, rather than driving it far.\\nThe goal is to hit the ball and prevent it from hitting the wickets, not to hit the ball hard so that you can score runs.\\n3. Refining Your Batting Skills\\n3-1. Follow through with your swing.\\nA good follow-through is critical, especially if you want to hit the ball far. Follow through the entire swing, even if you miss the ball. This will get you into the habit of always following through on your swings.\\nIf you don't follow through you could miss the ball or pop it up in the air for an easy out.\\n3-2. Stay calm while you bat.\\nNervous energy can throw you off your game and cause you to make mistakes. Practice regulating your breathing and visualize the trajectory of the ball as it leaves the bowler's hands.\\nTry to block out any excited or nervous energy from the crowd and team members by concentrating on the ball.\\n3-3. Swing the cricket bat in the mirror to perfect your swing.\\nBefore you practice with a ball, you should try to perfect your swing in front of a mirror, which is also known as shadow cricket. Seeing yourself will let you know what adjustments you need to make to improve your stance and swing.\\nMake adjustments to your stance when you notice that you're doing it incorrectly.\\n3-4. Practice batting by yourself with a tennis ball.\\nThrow a tennis ball down on the ground and hit it after it bounces. This will emulate a full pitch, or a pitch that lands right in front of you, and will help you practice swinging if you don't have anyone to practice with.\\nKeep your dominant hand on the bat if you are practicing alone.\\nDoing this drill will help improve your bottom hand grip.\\n3-5. Drill with your team as much as possible.\\nThe best way to get better at being a batsman is active practice with your team. Make every effort to attend practice. Drill game scenarios and hitting as much as possible so that you're prepared when game time comes.\\nTake your coach's advice and listen to any input that team members have on your hitting.\\nTips\\nWhenever playing or practicing cricket with a hard ball, you should have gloves, shin pads, thigh guards, abdominal guard, and a helmet with a facemask. If you are playing with a soft ball, you will only need gloves and a bat.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"If you want to consistently hit balls in cricket, you have to know the right technique when you're up at bat. Once you master your batting stance and grip, you can start refining your hitting technique by determining how the ball will bounce and what kind of hit you should use. 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Your dominant hand should be below it with a loose 2-finger and thumb grip. Both hands should be close together and the paddle should feel comfortable in your hands.\\nYour knuckles on your non-dominant hand should be facing the bowler and your backhand or dominant hand's knuckles should be facing the catcher.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make a line in the turf where the middle wicket is.\", \"描述\": \"Making a line in the turf in the position of the middle wicket is known as making a guard and will give you some awareness to where the wickets are positioned as you're batting. Put the tip of your bat in the turf and make a line so that it runs parallel with the middle wicket.\\nIf you are practicing inside, you can use a piece of tape to make your guard line.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Hitting the Ball\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Tap the bat on the guard line.\", \"描述\": \"Tapping the bat on the ground will give the bowler the sign that you're ready to hit. 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1. Supporting Your Sibling
1-1. Be a good listener
Perhaps the easiest and most direct way of being a good big brother or big sister is taking the time to ask your sibling how their day went and listening to what they have to say. Try to pull your sibling aside once a day and have a brief conversation with them especially if they are an adolescent or in their early teen years. Often, younger siblings want to be acknowledged and listened to by those they look up to.
Practice active listening in your conversations with your sibling, whether it's a brief check in talk with them or a heart to heart. Treat the conversation as a learning opportunity, where you get to know your sibling better and have a meaningful discussion.
Focus your attention fully on your sibling and let them speak without interruption. Acknowledge what they told you and respond thoughtfully and without judgement. This will keep the conversation open and encourage them to confide in you more often.
1-2. Resolve conflicts in a mature and honest way.
Though siblings tend to squabble and have small fights, you should make an effort to avoid having big, dramatic arguments with your sibling. This may mean being the bigger person and letting your sibling have the victory for a trivial fight. You should also try to offer your sibling a compromise, where you get a little bit of what you want and they get a little bit of what they want. This will help them to feel supported and respected by you, but it will also help them learn that they cannot always get their way.
If you're unable to resolve a conflict on your own, ask an authority figure for guidance, such as an older friend, an older family member, or parent. This will show your sibling that you're not afraid to ask for help when you need it.
1-3. Comfort your sibling when they confronts a challenge or fails.
Your sibling will likely experience a range of trials and tribulations, and they may confront a difficult challenge of some kind or even fail in their attempt to do something great. Rather than shame your sibling for their failure or make them feel bad about messing up, you should comfort them and support them.
Comfort your sibling by telling them to keep their head high and be proud, even if they didn't get what they wanted or if they failed. Remind them that they"ll have other opportunities to do better.
Another way to comfort your sibling it to distract them from their failure by taking them out to their favorite restaurant or to their favorite hang out spot. Sometimes, distraction can help to cheer someone up and make them dwell less on their failure.
1-4. Respect your sibling's boundaries and their autonomy.
Teaching your sibling about boundaries and autonomy, or their ability to be their own person separate of others, can show them how to respect others and themself. You should respect your sibling's body autonomy by not tickling them, picking at them, or touching their body without their consent. You should also respect their mental boundaries by not trying to enforce your opinions or ideas on them, and by not trying to control their thoughts.
Don't force them to grow up too fast or do adult things when they are still a kid or a teenager. Let them experience life as a young person, even if it means making mistakes or dealing with conflict. Be there as a support for them as they try to figure it out on their own.
If they want to do adult things with you, like go for dinner together, you can certainly do this. But don't try to force them into doing adult things if they doesn't seem interested or engaged in them.
1-5. Give your sibling advice based on your own personal experience.
You can also support your sibling by offering them advice when they ask for it. Avoid giving advice when they do not ask you for it as this can feel pushy or forceful. Only give advice when your sibling asks for it and only after you have listened to what they has to say. Rather than give your sibling general or vague advice, you should consider your own personal experiences and how you managed to resolve or deal with a certain issue. This will show that you have empathy for your sibling and want to support them in an honest way.
For example, if your sibling admits that they're struggling with balancing their academics and extracurricular activities, you may tell them how you created a weekly schedule and blocked off time for each thing you had to do each day.
If your sibling asks you for romantic advice, and if you have experience in this area, encourage them to talk about their feelings and the situation. Offer advice on how to have a healthy, responsible romantic relationship with someone.
2. Doing Kind Things for Your Sibling
2-1. Help with homework and other responsibilities.
One of the kinder things you can do for your sibling is offer to help them with their homework and their other school work. If they have an oral presentation coming up, offer to listen to their presentation. If they are struggling with their math assignment, sit down with them and help them work through the assignment. Focus on practical ways to help your sibling succeed by offering your knowledge of particular subject or simply a helping hand so a project gets done on time.
You can also offer to help them complete their chores around the house or split them with them if they are working on a tight deadline for school.
2-2. Attend your sibling's events or shows.
Maybe your sibling has a performance coming up or a big sporting event. Make an effort to be in the audience and cheer them on from the stands. Attending their special events will be a nice thing you can do for them as a way to show your support as their big brother or big sister.
2-3. Stand up for them in awkward situations.
As the older brother or older sister, you should watch out for younger sibling and stand up for them if they get into any awkward or sticky situations. This may be confronting the school bully if they start to pick on your sibling or mediating a fight between your sibling and your parents. Try to stay on your sibling's side and work with them to resolve any problems or issues with others. Having your sibling's back will show them that you are willing to be there for them and support them.
2-4. Encourage your sibling to pursue their interests and goals.
A good big brother or sister will act as their sibling's champion and encourage their sibling to be the best they can be. Take notice of your sibling's abilities and talents, and then actively work to help them develop and improve them.
For example, if your sibling shows an interest in painting, encourage them to take art classes or to set up a painting studio at home.
Alternatively, if your sibling wants to go to an Ivy League school, help them achieve this goal by helping them with college applications and drafting a personal statement.
3. Being a Good Role Model for Your Sibling
3-1. Do well in school and at home.
Be a good role model for your sibling by doing well in your studies and following through on your commitments at home. Your sibling will likely take notice if you are diligent about doing well in school and are also able to keep up with your responsibilities at home, such as sports practice or household chores. Working hard on your own needs and responsibilities will allow you to also be a good mentor to your sibling, as you will have enough of a grip on your own life to support your sibling.
Don't be afraid to fail in front of your sibling. Your sibling may respect you more if you show them you are human. It will also make you seem more relatable and honest.
3-2. Maintain a healthy social life.
Another way you can be a good role model for your sibling is to try to maintain an active and healthy social life. Being able to connect with a group of friends can set a good example for your sibling and show them how to be social around others.
If your sibling is struggling to make friends and connect with others, ask them to hang out with your friends for a night. This will help them feel included and allow them to learn how to be social by following your example.
3-3. Demonstrate respect for your parents and your elders.
Be respectful when your parents speak to you and be polite when you are around other elders, such as your teachers or your friends' parents. Maintaining a good relationship with the elders in your life, from your parents to your teachers to your mentors, will help you develop into a good role model. It will also demonstrate the importance of respect for your elders to your sibling.
3-4. Apologize and acknowledge when you are wrong.
A good role model is willing to admit when they are wrong and make a sincere apology for their mistake. If you make a mistake, you should be ready to apologize and acknowledge your misstep. Do this in front of your sibling to show them the value of an apology and the importance of being humble and honest, even when you are wrong. This will allow your sibling to understand that it is okay to make mistakes and that it is essential to acknowledge them so you can move past them.
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"回答明细": "{\"回答\": \"1. Supporting Your Sibling\\n1-1. Be a good listener\\nPerhaps the easiest and most direct way of being a good big brother or big sister is taking the time to ask your sibling how their day went and listening to what they have to say. Try to pull your sibling aside once a day and have a brief conversation with them especially if they are an adolescent or in their early teen years. Often, younger siblings want to be acknowledged and listened to by those they look up to.\\n\\nPractice active listening in your conversations with your sibling, whether it's a brief check in talk with them or a heart to heart. Treat the conversation as a learning opportunity, where you get to know your sibling better and have a meaningful discussion.\\nFocus your attention fully on your sibling and let them speak without interruption. Acknowledge what they told you and respond thoughtfully and without judgement. This will keep the conversation open and encourage them to confide in you more often.\\n1-2. Resolve conflicts in a mature and honest way.\\nThough siblings tend to squabble and have small fights, you should make an effort to avoid having big, dramatic arguments with your sibling. This may mean being the bigger person and letting your sibling have the victory for a trivial fight. You should also try to offer your sibling a compromise, where you get a little bit of what you want and they get a little bit of what they want. This will help them to feel supported and respected by you, but it will also help them learn that they cannot always get their way.\\nIf you're unable to resolve a conflict on your own, ask an authority figure for guidance, such as an older friend, an older family member, or parent. This will show your sibling that you're not afraid to ask for help when you need it.\\n1-3. Comfort your sibling when they confronts a challenge or fails.\\nYour sibling will likely experience a range of trials and tribulations, and they may confront a difficult challenge of some kind or even fail in their attempt to do something great. Rather than shame your sibling for their failure or make them feel bad about messing up, you should comfort them and support them. \\nComfort your sibling by telling them to keep their head high and be proud, even if they didn't get what they wanted or if they failed. Remind them that they\\\"ll have other opportunities to do better.\\nAnother way to comfort your sibling it to distract them from their failure by taking them out to their favorite restaurant or to their favorite hang out spot. Sometimes, distraction can help to cheer someone up and make them dwell less on their failure.\\n1-4. Respect your sibling's boundaries and their autonomy.\\nTeaching your sibling about boundaries and autonomy, or their ability to be their own person separate of others, can show them how to respect others and themself. You should respect your sibling's body autonomy by not tickling them, picking at them, or touching their body without their consent. You should also respect their mental boundaries by not trying to enforce your opinions or ideas on them, and by not trying to control their thoughts.\\nDon't force them to grow up too fast or do adult things when they are still a kid or a teenager. Let them experience life as a young person, even if it means making mistakes or dealing with conflict. Be there as a support for them as they try to figure it out on their own.\\nIf they want to do adult things with you, like go for dinner together, you can certainly do this. But don't try to force them into doing adult things if they doesn't seem interested or engaged in them.\\n1-5. Give your sibling advice based on your own personal experience.\\nYou can also support your sibling by offering them advice when they ask for it. Avoid giving advice when they do not ask you for it as this can feel pushy or forceful. Only give advice when your sibling asks for it and only after you have listened to what they has to say. Rather than give your sibling general or vague advice, you should consider your own personal experiences and how you managed to resolve or deal with a certain issue. This will show that you have empathy for your sibling and want to support them in an honest way.\\nFor example, if your sibling admits that they're struggling with balancing their academics and extracurricular activities, you may tell them how you created a weekly schedule and blocked off time for each thing you had to do each day.\\nIf your sibling asks you for romantic advice, and if you have experience in this area, encourage them to talk about their feelings and the situation. Offer advice on how to have a healthy, responsible romantic relationship with someone.\\n2. Doing Kind Things for Your Sibling\\n2-1. Help with homework and other responsibilities.\\nOne of the kinder things you can do for your sibling is offer to help them with their homework and their other school work. If they have an oral presentation coming up, offer to listen to their presentation. If they are struggling with their math assignment, sit down with them and help them work through the assignment. Focus on practical ways to help your sibling succeed by offering your knowledge of particular subject or simply a helping hand so a project gets done on time.\\nYou can also offer to help them complete their chores around the house or split them with them if they are working on a tight deadline for school.\\n2-2. Attend your sibling's events or shows.\\nMaybe your sibling has a performance coming up or a big sporting event. Make an effort to be in the audience and cheer them on from the stands. Attending their special events will be a nice thing you can do for them as a way to show your support as their big brother or big sister.\\n2-3. Stand up for them in awkward situations.\\nAs the older brother or older sister, you should watch out for younger sibling and stand up for them if they get into any awkward or sticky situations. This may be confronting the school bully if they start to pick on your sibling or mediating a fight between your sibling and your parents. Try to stay on your sibling's side and work with them to resolve any problems or issues with others. Having your sibling's back will show them that you are willing to be there for them and support them.\\n2-4. Encourage your sibling to pursue their interests and goals.\\nA good big brother or sister will act as their sibling's champion and encourage their sibling to be the best they can be. Take notice of your sibling's abilities and talents, and then actively work to help them develop and improve them.\\nFor example, if your sibling shows an interest in painting, encourage them to take art classes or to set up a painting studio at home.\\nAlternatively, if your sibling wants to go to an Ivy League school, help them achieve this goal by helping them with college applications and drafting a personal statement.\\n3. Being a Good Role Model for Your Sibling\\n3-1. Do well in school and at home.\\nBe a good role model for your sibling by doing well in your studies and following through on your commitments at home. Your sibling will likely take notice if you are diligent about doing well in school and are also able to keep up with your responsibilities at home, such as sports practice or household chores. Working hard on your own needs and responsibilities will allow you to also be a good mentor to your sibling, as you will have enough of a grip on your own life to support your sibling.\\nDon't be afraid to fail in front of your sibling. Your sibling may respect you more if you show them you are human. It will also make you seem more relatable and honest.\\n3-2. Maintain a healthy social life.\\nAnother way you can be a good role model for your sibling is to try to maintain an active and healthy social life. Being able to connect with a group of friends can set a good example for your sibling and show them how to be social around others.\\nIf your sibling is struggling to make friends and connect with others, ask them to hang out with your friends for a night. This will help them feel included and allow them to learn how to be social by following your example.\\n3-3. Demonstrate respect for your parents and your elders.\\nBe respectful when your parents speak to you and be polite when you are around other elders, such as your teachers or your friends' parents. Maintaining a good relationship with the elders in your life, from your parents to your teachers to your mentors, will help you develop into a good role model. It will also demonstrate the importance of respect for your elders to your sibling.\\n3-4. Apologize and acknowledge when you are wrong.\\nA good role model is willing to admit when they are wrong and make a sincere apology for their mistake. If you make a mistake, you should be ready to apologize and acknowledge your misstep. Do this in front of your sibling to show them the value of an apology and the importance of being humble and honest, even when you are wrong. This will allow your sibling to understand that it is okay to make mistakes and that it is essential to acknowledge them so you can move past them.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a good big brother or sister can make a big difference to your sibling. Though parents can act as good role models, the relationship between siblings is also a key aspect of developing into a responsible and successful person in the world. You can be a good big brother or sister to your sibling by supporting your sibling, doing kind things for them, and setting a good example for them to look up to and follow.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Supporting Your Sibling\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Be a good listener\", \"描述\": \"Perhaps the easiest and most direct way of being a good big brother or big sister is taking the time to ask your sibling how their day went and listening to what they have to say. 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Rather than shame your sibling for their failure or make them feel bad about messing up, you should comfort them and support them. \\nComfort your sibling by telling them to keep their head high and be proud, even if they didn't get what they wanted or if they failed. Remind them that they\\\"ll have other opportunities to do better.\\nAnother way to comfort your sibling it to distract them from their failure by taking them out to their favorite restaurant or to their favorite hang out spot. Sometimes, distraction can help to cheer someone up and make them dwell less on their failure.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Respect your sibling's boundaries and their autonomy.\", \"描述\": \"Teaching your sibling about boundaries and autonomy, or their ability to be their own person separate of others, can show them how to respect others and themself. You should respect your sibling's body autonomy by not tickling them, picking at them, or touching their body without their consent. You should also respect their mental boundaries by not trying to enforce your opinions or ideas on them, and by not trying to control their thoughts.\\nDon't force them to grow up too fast or do adult things when they are still a kid or a teenager. Let them experience life as a young person, even if it means making mistakes or dealing with conflict. Be there as a support for them as they try to figure it out on their own.\\nIf they want to do adult things with you, like go for dinner together, you can certainly do this. But don't try to force them into doing adult things if they doesn't seem interested or engaged in them.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Give your sibling advice based on your own personal experience.\", \"描述\": \"You can also support your sibling by offering them advice when they ask for it. Avoid giving advice when they do not ask you for it as this can feel pushy or forceful. Only give advice when your sibling asks for it and only after you have listened to what they has to say. Rather than give your sibling general or vague advice, you should consider your own personal experiences and how you managed to resolve or deal with a certain issue. This will show that you have empathy for your sibling and want to support them in an honest way.\\nFor example, if your sibling admits that they're struggling with balancing their academics and extracurricular activities, you may tell them how you created a weekly schedule and blocked off time for each thing you had to do each day.\\nIf your sibling asks you for romantic advice, and if you have experience in this area, encourage them to talk about their feelings and the situation. 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1. Building Your Relationship
1-1. Support them at important events.
A big part of being a good sister is making time for your sibling and showing them that they’re important to you. If your sibling has an upcoming test or job interview, encourage them! Or perhaps they will be receiving an award soon; be sure to show up for the ceremony if you’re able.
Give them a card or gift to show your pride in them.
Say “Good luck today on your test” or “Congratulations on getting inducted into the honor society. I’m so proud of you.”
1-2. Share meals together.
Every so often, get together to have dinner or lunch together. You can make it a random, spur-of-the-moment sort of thing, or you can make it a weekly/monthly tradition. Use this time to talk to one another and avoid using your phone.
If you can Drive and they can’t, take them out for burgers or ice cream.
If you are too young to drive, or if you don't want to, make some sandwiches together and have a picnic at the park.
1-3. Go do fun activities together.
Have fun with your siblings! Go see the new action movie that you’ve both been dying to see. Or maybe you have to go prom shopping soon - consider taking them with you.
Have a beach day, go out for a run, or go bowling.
Have an arts and crafts day. You can try a new project together, or you can teach your sibling how to do something you excel at.
1-4. Share secrets with them.
If your siblings are trustworthy, share secrets with them. This will help them feel more comfortable coming to you with their own secrets. Be mindful of their age and only tell them things that are appropriate based on that.
For instance, if they are over age 13, it’s probably okay to tell them about your first kiss.
Keep your siblings’ secrets too, as long as it doesn’t concern their safety or put them in danger. In that case, talk them through why they shouldn’t keep it a secret, and go with them to tell a parent, guardian, or other trusted adult.
1-5. Talk through any issues.
Even if you are the perfect big sister, issues are bound to arise. When they do, listen to your siblings' concerns and respect your differences. Even if they are annoying you, stay calm by taking deep breaths.
You might say “It bothered me the other day when you took my shirt without asking. I don’t mind letting you borrow things, but you need to ask me first, okay?”
1-6. Keep in contact at least once per week if you don’t live together.
Make sure to stay in touch with your siblings if you don’t live in the same home. Call them when you can, send texts throughout the week, and check in on them on important dates.
You can even have a group text where all of you can communicate together and share memes or stories about your day.
2. Setting a Good Example
2-1. Listen to your parents.
Showing respect to your parents is very important. Sometimes, your siblings will look at your attitude when determining their own. Honor all your parents’ rules, don’t talk back to them, and always show them respect.
Show respect to people beyond your parents, too. Respect teachers, elders, and other authority figures.
Keep your room clean, come home before curfew, and follow all other rules.
Encourage your siblings to do the same, and tell them why it’s important. You could say, for example, “I know it’s annoying when Mom tells us to clean our rooms all the time, but it’s always great when it’s neat and organized. And she’s so happy when we do it!”
2-2. Model responsible behavior.
If you are underage, abstain from drinking alcohol and doing drugs. Keep your social media image clean and avoid posting things that would embarrass your family.
Keep your language clean. Don't swear or gossip about other people in front of your siblings. Set a good example for them.
2-3. Help around the house.
Show your siblings the importance of contributing at home. Clean up your room, but also clean the common areas. Do the dishes, take out the trash, and cook if you can.
Encourage them to do their chores, as well.
If they are very young, consider turning your chores into a fun game. For example, play some upbeat music while cleaning.
2-4. Apologize
Even the best big sister messes up sometimes! When you do, apologize immediately. Be sincere and honest in your approach and take steps to avoid making that mistake again.
Say something like “I’m sorry for teasing you about your dress, little sis. I shouldn’t have said those things. In the future, I won’t make fun of your clothes anymore.”
2-5. Stick up for your siblings.
If you see your siblings being teased or bullied, intervene. Never let anyone talk down to them or harm them. Protect them from harm so that they will know you have their back.
If you see them being bullied, say “Leave him alone! Pick on someone your own size!”
Go get help from an authority figure if the situation becomes physical, but don’t leave your sibling alone. Call for help instead.
You may need to stick up for them with your parents, too. For example, if you think your parents are being too harsh on your sibling, you could say, “I know Joey shouldn’t have stayed out past curfew, but I know it was an honest mistake and he wasn’t getting into trouble. Maybe you could take it a little easier on him now that he’s apologized.”
2-6. Speak with kindness.
Your words have a lot of power. One insult can stick to them longer than ten compliments. Even when you need to correct them, do so kindly. Speak kindly to others, as well and avoid yelling or cursing.
For instance, if you catch them doing something wrong say “I noticed that you had a pack of cigarettes in your bag. You know Mom and Dad don’t want you doing that. I’m not going to tell on you, but I’m really worried about your health. If I find out you’ve been smoking again, I’m going to have to tell Mom and Dad. Do you wanna talk about this?”
2-7. Work hard at school
Show your siblings the value of hard work and dedication. Use your time doing things that are productive like reading, studying, and working. Pay attention in class and do your homework to get good grades. Go to work on time each day and work hard while there to reap the benefits.
Set a good example through your own actions. You can encourage your siblings to do these things, but avoid forcing them.
2-8. Be honest.
Even when it’s tough, always tell the truth. If your siblings see you lying to your parents, they will think lying is cool. Be a good example to them by being a truthful person.
Keep in mind that the truth can be hurtful sometimes. For example, if someone is wearing an ugly dress, don't encourage your sibling to say, "That dress is ugly!"
Giving constructive criticism is okay if someone asks for it. If someone asks how their ugly dress looks on them, encourage your sibling to say, "I don't think brown is your color. What about a blue dress to match your eyes?"
3. Doing Kind Things for Your Siblings
3-1. Boost their self-esteem.
Help your siblings love themselves and feel confident. Do this by complimenting them when they've earned it. Focus on their positive qualities instead of their mistakes.
You might say “Aaron, you play the violin so well. I can tell you’ve been practicing.”
3-2. Encourage them when they have doubts.
Even the most confident of siblings sometimes struggle with some insecurities. If your siblings are feeling down in the dumps or are worried about something, encourage them! Let them know that they can do anything they set their mind to and try to ease their fears.
For instance, if they are worried about a test, say “Jess, I’ve seen you studying for weeks for that test. You got this! I’ll quiz you tonight if you want.”
3-3. Help them when they need you.
When your sibling needs you, be there for them. Helping can range from small things like getting something for them from the top shelf to helping them find a part-time job if they need extra cash.
Never hold it over their head that you did something nice for them. This makes the nice act selfish because it becomes about you rather than them.
3-4. Get or make them thoughtful gifts.
When it's a holiday or your sibling's birthday, don't just get them something boring that could be for anyone; get them a gift that is perfect for them. Get them something that reminds you of a great time you had together in the past or things that you both enjoy doing. This will show them how much you care.
For instance, you might buy them a sweater or CD that you know they’d like.
You can also make them a piece of artwork, like a painting, or you can clean their room for them as a gift.
3-5. Do nice things for them when they least expect it.
Show them that you care by surprising them with something nice, especially when they’re stressed or need a little extra help.
For example, if they have a hard test coming up and a lot of chores to do, help them do their chores to free up some time to study.
If they have a fancy event coming up, let them borrow some of your clothes.
3-6. Share with your siblings.
You and your siblings should share whatever you can, whether it's a favorite computer game or family heirlooms. Be generous with each other, because if you can't be generous with your siblings then who will you be generous with?
Tips
Remember, they will mimic what you do, so don't be a bad influence!
Make them laugh.
Treat your siblings’ friends with respect.
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Use this time to talk to one another and avoid using your phone.\\nIf you can Drive and they can’t, take them out for burgers or ice cream.\\nIf you are too young to drive, or if you don't want to, make some sandwiches together and have a picnic at the park.\\n1-3. Go do fun activities together.\\nHave fun with your siblings! Go see the new action movie that you’ve both been dying to see. Or maybe you have to go prom shopping soon - consider taking them with you.\\nHave a beach day, go out for a run, or go bowling.\\nHave an arts and crafts day. You can try a new project together, or you can teach your sibling how to do something you excel at.\\n1-4. Share secrets with them.\\nIf your siblings are trustworthy, share secrets with them. This will help them feel more comfortable coming to you with their own secrets. 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In the future, I won’t make fun of your clothes anymore.”\\n2-5. Stick up for your siblings.\\nIf you see your siblings being teased or bullied, intervene. Never let anyone talk down to them or harm them. Protect them from harm so that they will know you have their back.\\nIf you see them being bullied, say “Leave him alone! Pick on someone your own size!”\\nGo get help from an authority figure if the situation becomes physical, but don’t leave your sibling alone. Call for help instead.\\nYou may need to stick up for them with your parents, too. For example, if you think your parents are being too harsh on your sibling, you could say, “I know Joey shouldn’t have stayed out past curfew, but I know it was an honest mistake and he wasn’t getting into trouble. Maybe you could take it a little easier on him now that he’s apologized.”\\n2-6. Speak with kindness.\\nYour words have a lot of power. One insult can stick to them longer than ten compliments. 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If your siblings see you lying to your parents, they will think lying is cool. Be a good example to them by being a truthful person.\\nKeep in mind that the truth can be hurtful sometimes. For example, if someone is wearing an ugly dress, don't encourage your sibling to say, \\\"That dress is ugly!\\\"\\nGiving constructive criticism is okay if someone asks for it. If someone asks how their ugly dress looks on them, encourage your sibling to say, \\\"I don't think brown is your color. What about a blue dress to match your eyes?\\\"\\n3. Doing Kind Things for Your Siblings\\n3-1. Boost their self-esteem.\\nHelp your siblings love themselves and feel confident. Do this by complimenting them when they've earned it. Focus on their positive qualities instead of their mistakes.\\nYou might say “Aaron, you play the violin so well. I can tell you’ve been practicing.”\\n3-2. Encourage them when they have doubts.\\nEven the most confident of siblings sometimes struggle with some insecurities. If your siblings are feeling down in the dumps or are worried about something, encourage them! Let them know that they can do anything they set their mind to and try to ease their fears.\\nFor instance, if they are worried about a test, say “Jess, I’ve seen you studying for weeks for that test. You got this! I’ll quiz you tonight if you want.”\\n3-3. Help them when they need you.\\nWhen your sibling needs you, be there for them. Helping can range from small things like getting something for them from the top shelf to helping them find a part-time job if they need extra cash.\\nNever hold it over their head that you did something nice for them. This makes the nice act selfish because it becomes about you rather than them.\\n3-4. Get or make them thoughtful gifts.\\nWhen it's a holiday or your sibling's birthday, don't just get them something boring that could be for anyone; get them a gift that is perfect for them. Get them something that reminds you of a great time you had together in the past or things that you both enjoy doing. This will show them how much you care.\\nFor instance, you might buy them a sweater or CD that you know they’d like.\\nYou can also make them a piece of artwork, like a painting, or you can clean their room for them as a gift.\\n3-5. Do nice things for them when they least expect it.\\nShow them that you care by surprising them with something nice, especially when they’re stressed or need a little extra help.\\nFor example, if they have a hard test coming up and a lot of chores to do, help them do their chores to free up some time to study.\\nIf they have a fancy event coming up, let them borrow some of your clothes.\\n3-6. Share with your siblings.\\nYou and your siblings should share whatever you can, whether it's a favorite computer game or family heirlooms. Be generous with each other, because if you can't be generous with your siblings then who will you be generous with?\\nTips\\nRemember, they will mimic what you do, so don't be a bad influence!\\nMake them laugh.\\nTreat your siblings’ friends with respect.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"Being a big sister is fun, but it is also a great responsibility. Even when you don’t realize it, your younger siblings are looking to you for guidance. You might even find that they mimic your behavior. Though it might be a lot of pressure, you can use your role to have a positive impact on your siblings’ lives. Be a good big sister to them by building a strong bond, being a positive role model, and being kind to them.This article is based on an interview with our licensed clinical psychologist, registered dietitian, and fitness expert, Supatra Tovar, owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Check out the full interview here.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Building Your Relationship\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Support them at important events.\", \"描述\": \"A big part of being a good sister is making time for your sibling and showing them that they’re important to you. If your sibling has an upcoming test or job interview, encourage them! Or perhaps they will be receiving an award soon; be sure to show up for the ceremony if you’re able.\\nGive them a card or gift to show your pride in them.\\nSay “Good luck today on your test” or “Congratulations on getting inducted into the honor society. I’m so proud of you.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Share meals together.\", \"描述\": \"Every so often, get together to have dinner or lunch together. You can make it a random, spur-of-the-moment sort of thing, or you can make it a weekly/monthly tradition. Use this time to talk to one another and avoid using your phone.\\nIf you can Drive and they can’t, take them out for burgers or ice cream.\\nIf you are too young to drive, or if you don't want to, make some sandwiches together and have a picnic at the park.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Go do fun activities together.\", \"描述\": \"Have fun with your siblings! Go see the new action movie that you’ve both been dying to see. Or maybe you have to go prom shopping soon - consider taking them with you.\\nHave a beach day, go out for a run, or go bowling.\\nHave an arts and crafts day. You can try a new project together, or you can teach your sibling how to do something you excel at.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Share secrets with them.\", \"描述\": \"If your siblings are trustworthy, share secrets with them. This will help them feel more comfortable coming to you with their own secrets. Be mindful of their age and only tell them things that are appropriate based on that.\\nFor instance, if they are over age 13, it’s probably okay to tell them about your first kiss.\\nKeep your siblings’ secrets too, as long as it doesn’t concern their safety or put them in danger. In that case, talk them through why they shouldn’t keep it a secret, and go with them to tell a parent, guardian, or other trusted adult.\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Talk through any issues.\", \"描述\": \"Even if you are the perfect big sister, issues are bound to arise. When they do, listen to your siblings' concerns and respect your differences. Even if they are annoying you, stay calm by taking deep breaths.\\nYou might say “It bothered me the other day when you took my shirt without asking. I don’t mind letting you borrow things, but you need to ask me first, okay?”\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Keep in contact at least once per week if you don’t live together.\", \"描述\": \"Make sure to stay in touch with your siblings if you don’t live in the same home. Call them when you can, send texts throughout the week, and check in on them on important dates.\\nYou can even have a group text where all of you can communicate together and share memes or stories about your day.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Setting a Good Example\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Listen to your parents.\", \"描述\": \"Showing respect to your parents is very important. Sometimes, your siblings will look at your attitude when determining their own. Honor all your parents’ rules, don’t talk back to them, and always show them respect.\\nShow respect to people beyond your parents, too. Respect teachers, elders, and other authority figures.\\nKeep your room clean, come home before curfew, and follow all other rules.\\nEncourage your siblings to do the same, and tell them why it’s important. You could say, for example, “I know it’s annoying when Mom tells us to clean our rooms all the time, but it’s always great when it’s neat and organized. And she’s so happy when we do it!”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Model responsible behavior.\", \"描述\": \"If you are underage, abstain from drinking alcohol and doing drugs. Keep your social media image clean and avoid posting things that would embarrass your family.\\nKeep your language clean. Don't swear or gossip about other people in front of your siblings. Set a good example for them.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Help around the house.\", \"描述\": \"Show your siblings the importance of contributing at home. Clean up your room, but also clean the common areas. Do the dishes, take out the trash, and cook if you can.\\nEncourage them to do their chores, as well.\\nIf they are very young, consider turning your chores into a fun game. For example, play some upbeat music while cleaning.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Apologize\", \"描述\": \"Even the best big sister messes up sometimes! When you do, apologize immediately. Be sincere and honest in your approach and take steps to avoid making that mistake again.\\nSay something like “I’m sorry for teasing you about your dress, little sis. I shouldn’t have said those things. In the future, I won’t make fun of your clothes anymore.”\"}, {\"编号\": 5, \"标题\": \"Stick up for your siblings.\", \"描述\": \"If you see your siblings being teased or bullied, intervene. Never let anyone talk down to them or harm them. Protect them from harm so that they will know you have their back.\\nIf you see them being bullied, say “Leave him alone! Pick on someone your own size!”\\nGo get help from an authority figure if the situation becomes physical, but don’t leave your sibling alone. Call for help instead.\\nYou may need to stick up for them with your parents, too. For example, if you think your parents are being too harsh on your sibling, you could say, “I know Joey shouldn’t have stayed out past curfew, but I know it was an honest mistake and he wasn’t getting into trouble. Maybe you could take it a little easier on him now that he’s apologized.”\"}, {\"编号\": 6, \"标题\": \"Speak with kindness.\", \"描述\": \"Your words have a lot of power. One insult can stick to them longer than ten compliments. Even when you need to correct them, do so kindly. Speak kindly to others, as well and avoid yelling or cursing.\\nFor instance, if you catch them doing something wrong say “I noticed that you had a pack of cigarettes in your bag. You know Mom and Dad don’t want you doing that. I’m not going to tell on you, but I’m really worried about your health. If I find out you’ve been smoking again, I’m going to have to tell Mom and Dad. Do you wanna talk about this?”\"}, {\"编号\": 7, \"标题\": \"Work hard at school\", \"描述\": \"Show your siblings the value of hard work and dedication. Use your time doing things that are productive like reading, studying, and working. Pay attention in class and do your homework to get good grades. Go to work on time each day and work hard while there to reap the benefits.\\nSet a good example through your own actions. You can encourage your siblings to do these things, but avoid forcing them.\"}, {\"编号\": 8, \"标题\": \"Be honest.\", \"描述\": \"Even when it’s tough, always tell the truth. If your siblings see you lying to your parents, they will think lying is cool. Be a good example to them by being a truthful person.\\nKeep in mind that the truth can be hurtful sometimes. For example, if someone is wearing an ugly dress, don't encourage your sibling to say, \\\"That dress is ugly!\\\"\\nGiving constructive criticism is okay if someone asks for it. If someone asks how their ugly dress looks on them, encourage your sibling to say, \\\"I don't think brown is your color. What about a blue dress to match your eyes?\\\"\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Doing Kind Things for Your Siblings\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Boost their self-esteem.\", \"描述\": \"Help your siblings love themselves and feel confident. Do this by complimenting them when they've earned it. Focus on their positive qualities instead of their mistakes.\\nYou might say “Aaron, you play the violin so well. I can tell you’ve been practicing.”\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Encourage them when they have doubts.\", \"描述\": \"Even the most confident of siblings sometimes struggle with some insecurities. If your siblings are feeling down in the dumps or are worried about something, encourage them! Let them know that they can do anything they set their mind to and try to ease their fears.\\nFor instance, if they are worried about a test, say “Jess, I’ve seen you studying for weeks for that test. You got this! I’ll quiz you tonight if you want.”\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Help them when they need you.\", \"描述\": \"When your sibling needs you, be there for them. Helping can range from small things like getting something for them from the top shelf to helping them find a part-time job if they need extra cash.\\nNever hold it over their head that you did something nice for them. This makes the nice act selfish because it becomes about you rather than them.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Get or make them thoughtful gifts.\", \"描述\": \"When it's a holiday or your sibling's birthday, don't just get them something boring that could be for anyone; get them a gift that is perfect for them. 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1. Starting a Blog
1-1. Start a blog.
If you don't own a blog yet, you need to find the right platform for you. There are so many blogging platforms out in the market to choose from such as WordPress, Blogger, Tumblr, and Medium, Weebly etc. Try one out; if you are not satisfied with its offered features, then you can move to another, there are countless options some are free and some paid.
1-2. Pick a topic that you are passionate about.
Even if you don't have a passion, writing about your daily life can make for a good read, depending how you word it. If you are going to blog about what you did today, make it interesting. People are looking for a funny story or your opinion on a debatable subject. They may not be as willing to read how you changed a lightbulb today. Using photos can help enhance the reading experience and engage readers more.
1-3. Read a lot.
This simply means you need to go through other bloggers' posts, which helps to improve your writing skills and exposes you to new ways of writing. You must always be a student and ready to learn. You can read about topics of your interest.
2. Making Your Blog Easy to Find
2-1. Design your blog.
If you are blogging about fashion, travel or food, then you can choose interesting or attractive themes related to this, which helps to attract readers. Try to make a simple, stylish and professional design.
2-2. Learn about search engine optimization (SEO).
The very basics of this is knowing which keywords to focus on. These are what people are searching for in the search engines, and how they might find your blog. Some of these keywords get a lot more searches than others get, so it's in your best interest to eventually choose the ones that do get searched for often. Keep in mind that these are often more competitive than ones that are searched for less -- but you might get lucky.
2-3. Focus your efforts on these keywords for now.
Choose a big one that will take longer to reach, as well as three to four additional terms you're going to try to rank for. These should all be similar! Then, you're going to include these keywords in each blog post you make in various combinations. Always focus your posts on one term, and include the others only if they make sense. As you focus on these similar keywords the search engines will start to rank you more highly because your blog is tightly focused and relevant to what you're targeting.
2-4. Do what you can to get relevant links that point to your homepage and your individual posts.
A lot of ranking decisions are based on how many backlinks you have coming into your website. You can get these links by writing articles to submit to directories, writing guest blog posts on other high traffic blogs, using social networking sites, using social bookmarking sites, and buying links (be very careful with this tactic).
3. Providing Brilliant, Accessible Content
3-1. Show consistent, relevant postings over time.
Google seems to favor domains that have had some time to age and that are going to be a good bet for their visitors. Remember -- Google's (and other engines') goal is to provide the best experience possible for the people who search with them. If your blog is going to be a good match for your search terms it will be easier for you to rank and stay there.
3-2. Stay on topic.
If you are blogging about music, then don't make a post about twilight or something. If you don't stay on topic it will change what visitors think of your blog.
Remember that quality is better than quantity, so take your time crafting the perfect posts for your page.
3-3. Make your posts unique.
Make your posts something you can't get on other blogs. Try to change your format. Also try to organize your post. The better your post is organized the better the post will seem. The better your posts seem the better your blog will seem.
Make sure that you're always posting amazing content. The better your content and the more interesting your blog, the more people will link to it. There is nothing better than getting free links just because people liked what you have to say! Keep your mind on the SEO side of things, but also remember that you are ultimately catering to the needs of the people in your niche. If they like you, the search engines will like you.
4. Promoting Your Blog
4-1. Promote your blog.
When you start only you will know about the blog. Only start promoting your blog after you get about 15 posts or so. If you promote it before people will think your blog isn't good enough. Don't spam your link. There are plenty of ways to promote your blog.
Use different social media platforms.
Add tags to your post. That will make your posts show up in search engines like google.
Add a link to your site on a forum signature. It will be better if the forum and your blog are the same topic. Make sure you post on the forum though.
Exchange links with others sites. Make a blog roll.
4-2. Take a break once in a while.
Don't take a break every other week though.
5. Interacting with Your Readers
5-1. Be a responsive blogger.
When readers leave comments, it means they're interested in interacting with you and getting your feedback. If you ignore them, there is a risk that they'll feel unappreciated and will stop reading your work
5-2. When readers leave their comment on your blog post, then it’s your prime duty to be responsive and get interact with them.
This may show the interest of your reader on your post and also helps in building a healthy relationship with other bloggers. Always give a reply to your reader's comment, so, that they cannot feel ignored from your side..
5-3. Consider encouraging interaction from readers.
There are many ways to do this, such as surveys, polls, quizzes and even competitions.
Warnings
Be discerning about how you interact. This isn't the place to be feeding the trolls. If someone is nasty, pushing for a fight, or defamatory, do not interact with them. You might consider reporting them to your site host if relevant, or the police if they're threatening. Take defamatory comments seriously; see a legal adviser for assistance.
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Read a lot.\\nThis simply means you need to go through other bloggers' posts, which helps to improve your writing skills and exposes you to new ways of writing. You must always be a student and ready to learn. You can read about topics of your interest.\\n2. Making Your Blog Easy to Find\\n2-1. Design your blog.\\nIf you are blogging about fashion, travel or food, then you can choose interesting or attractive themes related to this, which helps to attract readers. Try to make a simple, stylish and professional design.\\n2-2. Learn about search engine optimization (SEO).\\nThe very basics of this is knowing which keywords to focus on. These are what people are searching for in the search engines, and how they might find your blog. Some of these keywords get a lot more searches than others get, so it's in your best interest to eventually choose the ones that do get searched for often. Keep in mind that these are often more competitive than ones that are searched for less -- but you might get lucky.\\n2-3. Focus your efforts on these keywords for now.\\nChoose a big one that will take longer to reach, as well as three to four additional terms you're going to try to rank for. These should all be similar! Then, you're going to include these keywords in each blog post you make in various combinations. Always focus your posts on one term, and include the others only if they make sense. As you focus on these similar keywords the search engines will start to rank you more highly because your blog is tightly focused and relevant to what you're targeting.\\n2-4. Do what you can to get relevant links that point to your homepage and your individual posts.\\nA lot of ranking decisions are based on how many backlinks you have coming into your website. You can get these links by writing articles to submit to directories, writing guest blog posts on other high traffic blogs, using social networking sites, using social bookmarking sites, and buying links (be very careful with this tactic).\\n3. Providing Brilliant, Accessible Content\\n3-1. Show consistent, relevant postings over time.\\nGoogle seems to favor domains that have had some time to age and that are going to be a good bet for their visitors. Remember -- Google's (and other engines') goal is to provide the best experience possible for the people who search with them. If your blog is going to be a good match for your search terms it will be easier for you to rank and stay there.\\n3-2. Stay on topic.\\nIf you are blogging about music, then don't make a post about twilight or something. If you don't stay on topic it will change what visitors think of your blog.\\nRemember that quality is better than quantity, so take your time crafting the perfect posts for your page.\\n3-3. Make your posts unique.\\nMake your posts something you can't get on other blogs. Try to change your format. Also try to organize your post. The better your post is organized the better the post will seem. The better your posts seem the better your blog will seem.\\nMake sure that you're always posting amazing content. The better your content and the more interesting your blog, the more people will link to it. There is nothing better than getting free links just because people liked what you have to say! Keep your mind on the SEO side of things, but also remember that you are ultimately catering to the needs of the people in your niche. If they like you, the search engines will like you.\\n4. Promoting Your Blog\\n4-1. Promote your blog.\\nWhen you start only you will know about the blog. Only start promoting your blog after you get about 15 posts or so. If you promote it before people will think your blog isn't good enough. Don't spam your link. There are plenty of ways to promote your blog.\\nUse different social media platforms.\\nAdd tags to your post. That will make your posts show up in search engines like google.\\nAdd a link to your site on a forum signature. It will be better if the forum and your blog are the same topic. Make sure you post on the forum though.\\nExchange links with others sites. Make a blog roll.\\n4-2. Take a break once in a while.\\nDon't take a break every other week though.\\n5. Interacting with Your Readers\\n5-1. Be a responsive blogger.\\nWhen readers leave comments, it means they're interested in interacting with you and getting your feedback. If you ignore them, there is a risk that they'll feel unappreciated and will stop reading your work\\n5-2. When readers leave their comment on your blog post, then it’s your prime duty to be responsive and get interact with them.\\nThis may show the interest of your reader on your post and also helps in building a healthy relationship with other bloggers. Always give a reply to your reader's comment, so, that they cannot feel ignored from your side..\\n5-3. Consider encouraging interaction from readers.\\nThere are many ways to do this, such as surveys, polls, quizzes and even competitions.\\nWarnings\\nBe discerning about how you interact. This isn't the place to be feeding the trolls. If someone is nasty, pushing for a fight, or defamatory, do not interact with them. You might consider reporting them to your site host if relevant, or the police if they're threatening. Take defamatory comments seriously; see a legal adviser for assistance.\\n\", \"简要回答\": \"It's a lot of fun to blog, but it can get old fast if no one is visiting! Getting your blog to the top of the search engines for your main key phrases should be your goal to make this traffic happen. Keep in mind that it will take time, but it's very possible.\", \"结构\": {\"方法\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Starting a Blog\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Start a blog.\", \"描述\": \"If you don't own a blog yet, you need to find the right platform for you. There are so many blogging platforms out in the market to choose from such as WordPress, Blogger, Tumblr, and Medium, Weebly etc. Try one out; if you are not satisfied with its offered features, then you can move to another, there are countless options some are free and some paid.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Pick a topic that you are passionate about.\", \"描述\": \"Even if you don't have a passion, writing about your daily life can make for a good read, depending how you word it. If you are going to blog about what you did today, make it interesting. People are looking for a funny story or your opinion on a debatable subject. They may not be as willing to read how you changed a lightbulb today. Using photos can help enhance the reading experience and engage readers more.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Read a lot.\", \"描述\": \"This simply means you need to go through other bloggers' posts, which helps to improve your writing skills and exposes you to new ways of writing. You must always be a student and ready to learn. You can read about topics of your interest.\"}]}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Making Your Blog Easy to Find\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Design your blog.\", \"描述\": \"If you are blogging about fashion, travel or food, then you can choose interesting or attractive themes related to this, which helps to attract readers. Try to make a simple, stylish and professional design.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Learn about search engine optimization (SEO).\", \"描述\": \"The very basics of this is knowing which keywords to focus on. These are what people are searching for in the search engines, and how they might find your blog. Some of these keywords get a lot more searches than others get, so it's in your best interest to eventually choose the ones that do get searched for often. Keep in mind that these are often more competitive than ones that are searched for less -- but you might get lucky.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Focus your efforts on these keywords for now.\", \"描述\": \"Choose a big one that will take longer to reach, as well as three to four additional terms you're going to try to rank for. These should all be similar! Then, you're going to include these keywords in each blog post you make in various combinations. Always focus your posts on one term, and include the others only if they make sense. As you focus on these similar keywords the search engines will start to rank you more highly because your blog is tightly focused and relevant to what you're targeting.\"}, {\"编号\": 4, \"标题\": \"Do what you can to get relevant links that point to your homepage and your individual posts.\", \"描述\": \"A lot of ranking decisions are based on how many backlinks you have coming into your website. You can get these links by writing articles to submit to directories, writing guest blog posts on other high traffic blogs, using social networking sites, using social bookmarking sites, and buying links (be very careful with this tactic).\"}]}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Providing Brilliant, Accessible Content\", \"步骤\": [{\"编号\": 1, \"标题\": \"Show consistent, relevant postings over time.\", \"描述\": \"Google seems to favor domains that have had some time to age and that are going to be a good bet for their visitors. Remember -- Google's (and other engines') goal is to provide the best experience possible for the people who search with them. If your blog is going to be a good match for your search terms it will be easier for you to rank and stay there.\"}, {\"编号\": 2, \"标题\": \"Stay on topic.\", \"描述\": \"If you are blogging about music, then don't make a post about twilight or something. If you don't stay on topic it will change what visitors think of your blog.\\nRemember that quality is better than quantity, so take your time crafting the perfect posts for your page.\"}, {\"编号\": 3, \"标题\": \"Make your posts unique.\", \"描述\": \"Make your posts something you can't get on other blogs. Try to change your format. Also try to organize your post. The better your post is organized the better the post will seem. The better your posts seem the better your blog will seem.\\nMake sure that you're always posting amazing content. 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