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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we been dating for a few months, and I just found out he has been lying to me. When we started dating I had asked if he was smoking tobacco(Y), Drugs and he told me no, he reenforced he couldn't if he wanted due to him being a gov worker. A month ago I started smelling pot, he kept telling me maybe it was me, maybe it was the coffee we were making. Keep reinforcing it was my mind, or maybe his friend. Last night I come to find, after helping him look for a document at his house, synthetic weed. \nWhen confronted he said he just recently bought it for us to try, knowing I have sever asthma, calling BS he confessed yet again that he started 7yrs ago for \"sleep\". He was angry that I was \"digging\" after he told me it was ok.\nI did out of anger throw it out, he was angry over that.\nWhat should I do? I really like this guy, but this is just a slam,\nAdvice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This will be long and reddit ate my other post. SO\n\nBackstory: I haven't dated at all. Like ever. I'm overweight and a racial minority in the Southern US; so it's been hard for me to connect to ladies where I live. Been on the road to better myself and I'm getting there; including the self confidence and whatnot.\n\nCurren Situation: So a friend of mine borrowed my phone to text some girl (A) that I don't know. She texts me back wondering who it was so I explain the situation. Here's where it gets interesting. My friend and this girl have some crazy history stretching back more than a year. I'm wingman-ing hard for him; trying to help him smooth things out with her as best as a total stranger can. \n\nIt actually works! I help facilitate communication and they're starting to work things out! (yay) So I jokingly tell \"A\" (that I've only known for a couple days) that she can pay me back by setting me up with any one of her hot, single friends. She thinks another girl (B) might be a good match and I ask her to set me up. She agrees and tells me she'll do what she can.\n\nSo I keep joking back and forth and yesterday (about week after the initial text) I finally go up to meet \"A\". Some beers, some friends and a good time was had by all. I remind her to bring that hot lady friend \"B\" next time.\n\nSHE COMES THROUGH!\n\nSo. I know little about \"B\". Me, A, B, and another person are all going to a hockey game this Saturday. I've asked \"A\" about \"B\", and whether or not she thinks \"B\" and myself will click. \"A\" thinks we will.\n\nMy plan is to just have fun at the game; get \"B\"s number and set up something more 1 on 1 if we survive the initial encounter; but is there something else I could be doing to increase my chances?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Rather self-explanatory post, but just to elaborate a little further...\n\nHas anyone, after working for a period of time, decided for whatever reasons to head back into academia to pursue a PhD in Computer Sc, with no intention to join the world of academia but intend to head back into the industry? If so, what were the reasons. Also, how did it turn out? Was there anything that you regretted? Did it work out?\n\nThe reason I'm asking for advice is because currently I'm employed full-time, and know how fortunate I am to have a job in these hard times. However, being from a foreign country and working in the UK, they are making it difficult for one to extend one's working visa because I do not possess a Masters/PhD and only a Bachelor's. \n\nIt's just a little frustrating because I have been here almost half a decade now, but I have been sitting on a visa that has no count towards residency and soon, I will have to apply for a visa with even more restrictions. \n\nI'm thus considering boosting up my paper qualifications, so as to prevent myself from being in such a situation ever again. I believe the stipend from grad school actually pays almost as much as I am earning now (in terms of spending power, not direct currency conversion), but of course, given if I spent 5 years working as opposed to studying, there might be opportunities for raises/promotions.\n\nObviously, plunging into a PhD solely for that reason is bound to get looks of disapproval. I am, of course, interested in expanding my knowledge and having an opportunity to have time for myself. I have had research experience (published a paper, presented at conferences) so I'm aware of the challenges research presents.\n\nAny advice from people who have gone through similar situations? Would love to hear from you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, I can't have a conversation with the girl I have immense feelings for because I'm afraid of rejection. I also have no idea what to talk about with her. I think to myself \"She probably won't care at all about whatever I say so why bother trying?\" \n\nI had a scenario today where it was me and her all alone pretty much cleaning up a mess and we didn't say a word to each other other than to pass the soap or whatever. It was awkward for me and I feel as if I should have made conversation but I don't know what to talk about at all. \n\nI will be seeing her tomorrow also so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My GF flew off at me the other week.\n\nI asked her if she was texting another guy and me asking this question almost made her breakup with me.\n\nThe reason I thought she might be is that she has suspicious phone activity. She uses it a lot when I'm not in the same room and quickly stops what she's doing when I come in, she recently started putting it on total silent when she comes home and she leaves her phone screen side down. This has only been happening past couple of months. Put this with the fact she has never acknowledged my existence in a public sense in anyway in 2 years and I felt a bit sus.\n\nWhen I asked her if something fishy is going on she exploded and said I don't trust her etc etc went to stay at a friends house, and pretty much implied we were breaking up.\n\nNow I feel if I have a problem with something or if I am a bit suspicious I cannot ask about it or she will instantly dump me.\n\nIs it fair? I feel like I should be able to talk about what's bothering me. Am I too insecure with asking about her phone habits?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened a few years ago ago. I'm 19 now, I was 17 then and I was at a charity walk for the blind, because my mom's boyfriend's mother has macular degeneration.\n\nAnyway, I was walking, and I was playing with a white cane because I'm a juvenile. i was swinging it around recklessly while walking through a sort-of-dense crowd, when I felt it hit something and I felt a thud (we were walking on the docks of a beach, so I could feel it) a poor kid, could not have been more than 7 or 8 years old, was on the ground and had broken his glasses. I felt bad, and I quickly ran over, but I slipped on the wet dock and I could not stop myself from sliding into him, with my shoes meeting his face. His mother, whose hand he was holding, was yelling at me and I deserved it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This isn't really looking for advice, more just venting because it's been an annoying few days. So I am in college, 22, regular guy as far as I can tell. I've had a couple long term relationships before but lately it just seems like I've been hitting a serious bump in my dating.\n\nStart of fall semester my gf left me for another guy. Then a few months later after I started dating again had 1 girl give me the \"I don't wanna date\" lie then get a new bf, had 2 girls ghost on me and had another just say no. \n\nStart of this year I figured I'd try and turn over a new leaf, had 2 girls I thought were interested. Went on a couple dates with 1, she seemed very interested then randomly she just stopped talking to me. The other also seemed interested, got her number and she just never replied. Truth be told after all of this I am just really sick of dating and trying, since it usually leads to me feeling like crap.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "24,M / 23,F\n\nIn two of my previous relationships, I was the jealous type and have greatly learned my lesson from being that way. I am currently in a 2 year relationship in which my girlfriend and I live together. I love her, but because of things I've experienced, I am no longer the jealous type. I won't let myself behave like that again. She gets upset with me because I don't get jealous. Don't get me wrong, if a guy were to touch her I'd knock him out. But she tells me that it makes her feel like I don't take pride in her or value her because I don't get jealous that another guy might think she's attractive or something. Am I downplaying jealousy too much? I don't feel that there is anything healthy about jealousy in a relationship, but it seems she does.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well. I will start off by saying that I told my SO that I thought I was bi-sexual today, and he seemed to treat it as water off a duck's back. I was thoroughly surprised since he is a little jealous sometimes when it comes to other men, but I guess he could just call it \"hot\" if he really isn't taking me seriously.\n\nAnyways, that's not the point, I was always a little curious, but never acted upon the fantasies I had. I always would think of women giving me oral, or I always thought that breasts were so nice, and kind of got turned on by them.\n\nHere is where things get a little complicated. I do believe I am bi-sexual, but never got the chance to act on it. Once when I was in high school me and one of my closest friends got drunkenly dared to kiss each other, and we did. What would she think if I came out as bi? And my best friend is gay, we never did anything, but would this complicate the relationship? I'm pretty scared to tell people- should I?\n\nAlso, some parts of my family aren't that accepting of non-heterosexual relationships, so if I came out, should I just keep it to my close circle of friends?\n\nHow would I go about it?\n\nI don't know what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This isnt a bad fuck up since i had time to stop off at McDonalds for breakfast. But still a good fu. Last night I stayed up later than normal. 3 hours later than normal. Skip 6 hours my alarm went off, I hit dismiss. 45 minutes later my 2nd and final alarm went off, I do my usual routine of got to the bathroom, take a whizz, do my teeth. Now I go back to my room and pick out some clean underwear and a towel. I lay on my bed, switch on the morning news and drift back to sleep.. Now where the fuck up begins. The usual time i have to set off to work is 8:15 am and the latest time I can set off without being late for work is 8:25. I wake up and check the time. See the time is half past the hour. I didn't check which hour. But it was half past. I panic, call the taxi company and ask for an urgent taxi. Usually when I'm late there is a 15 minute delay. Today is not the case. The taxi is waiting outside my house in 5 minutes. I think this is a little odd given the morning rush but just forget about it in the panic of wanting to get to work on time. Whilst in the taxi I check my phone. Then it hit me. I'm an hour early. The time was 7:30. That's when it hit me. I'd fucked up. I was at work a whole hour early.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OK so I've never been good with money, it makes my toes curl to think I'm 26 years old and have earned circa £120,000 in my life and have literally nothing to show for it except a string of nasty hangovers and some cool stories. \n\nI recently got back from doing some charity work abroad and have landed a pretty well paid job. £20,000 basic salary with uncapped commission. To put things into perspective I have cleared £1975 commission this month and have already matched that for next month (commission is paid a month lying on).\n\nI do quite a lot of travelling and would love to see SE Asia, Australia and end up with my brother and his unborn son in NZ (if only for a few months) before I \"settle down\" and try to find a serious ladyfriend. \n\nIt's worth noting that I am in the UK and ideally want to be setting off in no longer than 18 months, am currently living with parents and have recently joined a gym, which I intend to take seriously (so I'm not as enticed to go out partying). All in all, without \"fun\" money I could put my outgoings at around £500 P/M. \n\nCould any of you please advise me what the best thing to do with the rest of my salary will be for such a short period of time? I am literally terrible when it comes to this, but at 26 I think it's high time I start to learn the ropes of personal finance.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a Soon To Be 18 Year Old male and I have always have had a urge to know \"everything\"... well, recently I've been wondering what it'd be like to live as a/be a girl. Now, I'm not homosexual in anyway, but my brain just hasn't let up on this simple fact of my urge to learn the \"mysteries\" of a man. Now, onto my question, Do any one of yall reading know if/how a man can grow breasts (I'm not looking for anything too big, just something to give me an idea). I don't want to do anything costly, I.E Implants, and I don't want to do anything to noticeable/permanent.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been together a little over 2 years now. We've been in a long distance relationship for the entirety of those 2 years, since our universities are rather far away. Monthly visits, summers together. Most communication is through text, and IM; we rarely skype.\n\nThe time we spend together is great, I have no problems with this, but this last semester has simply been a train wreck of issues, arguments and petty insults. I've tried to break up with her twice already and I couldn't go through with it. The break ups happened because she started acting really detached and rarely speaking to me, and she wouldn't leave me alone about a girl I liked before I met her. At the time I hadn't spoken to the aforementioned girl for length of our relationship (we can refer to her as May). The crying and the promises she made made me hope for a better future, and it was good for a little while.\n\nShe has been insecure before, but I always reassured her at every move. Recently, I haven't been reassuring her and I don't want to. I've grown tired of having to help her through so many of her issues; I mean i've been reassuring her constantly for just under 2 years. \n\nIt shames me to say this but, I have been looking at over women in her presence; she's caught me before. I've talked to May without telling my gf. Sparks have flown. \n\nI still have feelings for my gf, although they have severely diminished. I really don't like the idea of hurting her. She's a really sweet and sensitive girl.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months. We were hanging out at her place and she went out to pick the pizza I bought. My girlfriend doesn't feel ready to have sex yet so I thought I would quickly jerk of while she was gone to save me feeling frustrated later on in the evening when we normally watch movies and makeout. \n\nMy girlfriends lives in the granny flat bit below her parents house so we have a ton of privacy. I was happily jacking of to my girlfriends underwear thinking she had locked the door on her way out. Turns out she didn't and her mother walked in (without knocking) and caught me right in the middle of everything. She screamed and my girlfriends dad ran down to see what was going on. \n\nIt would have been comical if it wasn't so fucking awful. I was trying to explain myself and her father was yelling at me. Long story short I ended up running because I thought her dad was going to kill me. \n\nI got a text a few hours ago from my girlfriend saying she didn't think we should be together anymore.\n\nI am beyond devastated. I love my girlfriend and don't want it to end like this. At the same time this is all so fucking embarrassing I don't think I will ever be able to face her family again.\n\nI also left my bag and my laptop at her house and I really need to get it back asap. My bag has a bit of weed in it and I am concerned her parents might find it. I don't know how to ask to get my bag back while still being sensitive. I was thinking maybe I should apologise to her parents? Like writing a letter saying how sorry I am for being so disrespectful or something?\n\nIs there any way to resolve this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tuesday night, I was unable to fall asleep..at all. I've had a lot of 2 hour nights, but this is the first time I didn't fall asleep at all in 10 years. I was awake from the 4 day weekend I had (being able to sleep late) and then when it was 2:00 AM and I wasn't asleep still I started getting anxious which prevented me from falling asleep.\n\nI was exhausted last night, went to bed at 9:45 PM and still couldn't fall asleep. I was so nervous about not being able to fall asleep again (as neurotic as that sounds) that it didn't happen. Once 11:00 PM hit, I took Nyquil and it did nothing (in the past it has knocked me out when i had colds).\n\nI'm approaching the end of the work day today and somehow managed to get by even though I'm very cranky and overly emotional about everything. I'm concerned about not being able to fall asleep again. I know the \"cure\" is to just relax and not worry about it and my body will do the rest, but I don't think it's that easy. I'm looking for advice on what I can do to help me fall asleep tonight. Anything would be appreciated..I'm getting desperate. No \"get drunk\" recommendations since I will only feel worse in the morning. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my girlfriend for over three years now. I love her because she's amazing. She's Indonesian, but speaks perfect English. She's beautiful, she has a very bright personality, she has a bachelor's degree in chemical engineering, she cooks me dinner, she loves me to death and we have great sex.\n\nLong term (marriage) looks like a green light. She's smart with money, she's financially secure, she loves kids (she wants to be a housewife). My family likes her, I've never met her family.\n\nBut come this fall she's going to be working her first job in Ohio and I'm going to attend graduate school in Minnesota to get my PhD in Physics (for the next ~5.7 years). I will be unimaginably busy (if I want to pass) so I won't be able to talk to her every night. We will be much less involved in each other's daily lives.\n\nOn top of this I've only ever dated 2 women in my life; I've been single only for ~2 months of the last 6.5 years! I feel like I'm ready to be single and this would be a natural time to split but I wonder if I'll never meet a girl like her again.\nIt's very hard for me to make this decision. Any thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm appalled by the lack of knowledge that people in consumer electronics and services have. I remember selling TVs over 10 years ago and one time I was explaining to a customer the difference between AV cables and why he wanted component video for the 1080i flat glass hdtv I was trying to sell him since it was the best picture at the time.\n\nI had another customer interrupt us and correct me that s-video was the best. I explained the difference between the two and he still argued that s-video was better than component video for an hdtv and he should know, he works for Time Warner and was trained on this. This went on for 10 minutes. I wanted to beat my head against a wall.\n\nFast forward a decade to today, and my downstairs neighbor just told me that \"a Time Warner guy fixed his hook up.\" I asked what he meant cus I already set up his whole home theater myself. He said the technician replaced his hdmi cables with component video cables because \"hdmi is garbage and component video is the best.\" face palm It's so messed up now, it'll take me forever to fix it all.\n\nHow is this possible? How are these \"industry experts\" so uneducated? It's not even like they're just uneducated on brand new technology. We're talking stuff that's been around for years now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically a few nights ago I sent a text to a girl friend of mine (been together for 3 months, not exclusive, somewhat platonic but not completely un-physical), but wasn't there to respond afterwards and that drove her MAD. We are really close, but because of this one stupid little thing, she has started to ignore me completely :\|\n\nI imagined that I'd feel a lot worse, to be honest... because part of me knows that she will start to miss me... but part of me is also wondering, damn, what if it's really over just like that??? Also, the fact that she has gotten so crazy over something so small makes me feel like she just isn't so great, after all (bullet dodged?)...\n\nI just want to know if anyone has experience with this. I'm trying to contact her as infrequently as possible, but try at least once a day with a \"hello\" to see if she's responsive. Should I just stop trying and wait? Should I tell her something instead of just checking if she's there?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for six years now. \n\n He's told me about his past relationships and it never really bothered me. I met the woman he dated before he met me really early in our relationship, and the truth is that she's smart and funny and I get why he dated her. I know that he had a life before me, and that part doesn't really bother me. \n\nBut we were in his hometown last week and we ran into this other girl that he \"dated.\" She's one of those girls who is trying too hard and comes off kind of desperate/sad/pathetic. She kind of made a play for him, which he obviously rejected. But when I asked him about it later, he said that she had a crush on him when they were in high school/college, and that she used to give him the occasional blowjob and whatnot when he was home from college. He said he slept with her once as well.\n\nThe actual fact that she slept with him doesn't bother me as much as the fact that he slept with her despite knowing he didn't really feel romantically toward her. He was kind of surprised by my reaction.\n\nI flat out told him it was kind of a douche move and he was like she knew it wasn't serious and I was young/stupid and that was before I met you and you are the center of my universe and blah blah blah. \n\nAnd he says she knows it wasn't serious. He's not the kind of person who would pull a bait-and-switch, but the way he described it made me feel like he had sent the \"this is not serious\" message loud and clear but that in the back of his mind he knew it hadn't been received. In his defense, this was 10-15 years ago.\n\nI'm not angry at him or anything, but I'm wondering if I'm right to feel like that was kind of shitty on his part or whether I'm totally misguided.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I posted [this] about security deposit a few days ago.\n\nToday, my old landlord got back to me and said that renting a dumpster and moving things is considered a damage. Is that true?\n\nAlso, when a landlord sends the list of deductions to the tenant, those are projected costs, correct? Because I know the landlord has already rented the dumpster and spent the money to move items out. It was my understanding that they get quotes for all repairs and damages, then have the work done after the security deposit is all settled. Am I incorrect?\n\nBefore we moved out, but after they had given us 30 days to move out, they came and charged us $150 for lawn maintenance. That's something they had never done in 2 years living there. When I called to dispute it, they said, \"We'll just take it out of your security deposit.\" Is that legal?\n\nLastly, if this goes to a small claims court case, what are some typical fees that I as the tenant would be responsible for?\n\nThanks so much, /r/legaladvice. I really like this sub.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this is a bit of a odd question, and a bit of a moral one as well.\n\nA local company named ARC is in the Nashville area. They are similar to goodwill in the respect that they will pick up your clothes for a tax break.\n\nThe branch of the group here prints off yellow bags with their number here on the bag to call and schedule pick ups of the bags. (They employ mentally handicap members of society to do most of the labor of the company.)\n\nThey have put instead of their number on the bags, my cellphone number. In a slight defense to them it is only one digit off. However I'm receiving over 30+ calls a day from angry individuals wondering when \"their shit is gonna be picked up.\" \n\nAfter speaking with the district manager who thought I was lying and making the entire thing up until she went and found the bag with the wrong number on it she offered to take my phone number and =>> HAVE ME PURCHASE A NEW ONE FROM MY PHONE COMPANY <<=\n\nThis did not set well with me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway since he knows my username.\n\nSo my friend (let's call him Jake) left for college a few months ago. Jake has been my best friend for the last couple of years, and I took it pretty hard when he had to leave. He promised to visit every so often, and we still texted/ facebook messaged quite often. We cared a lot about each other; we helped each other with our problems and he was just a lot of fun to be around. \n\nHowever, maybe two or three months after he left, Jake got a girlfriend. \n\nShe seemed really awesome and since this was his first girlfriend, Jake was over the moon. He told me everything about her. And I honestly could not have been happier for him. \n\nIt started getting a little frustrating when Jake would visit, as he would be texting his girlfriend the entire time.\n\nNot even exaggerating. I would be talking to him, and he would just nod his head and stare at his phone. \n\nI didn't want to bug him about it; I knew that he was happy about having a girlfriend and they seemed really good together. But slowly, the facebook conversations stopped. He didn't visit anymore. And every single time I tried to talk to Jake, he was with his girlfriend. \n\nThe last conversation I had with him, I asked if he didn't like talking to me anymore, or if he was tired of me. He said no, but we haven't talked since. \n\nI did see him one more time after that over Christmas break at a game night a bunch of my friends were at, but he brought his girlfriend with him and he didn't even look at me. \n\nSince the majority of my friends have left for college, I've been incredibly lonely. Losing my best friend has just made everything worse, and I can't think about him without getting super upset. As far as I know, it wasn't anything I did that made him stop talking to me, but I can't help but feel that it's my fault. How do I get my best friend back?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit, I am currently around 500 miles away from my S/O and plan to stay at this university for the rest of my degree (3-4 years left depending on my decision). I am in a long distance relationship that only became long distance this fall. We have been dating for 2.5 months.\n\nWe've had a complication before and that was me, dancing with a girl at a party and she turned around and kissed me (I didn't stop her). I told her the next day and we broke up for sometime. I still think about this phone call and how she reacted and it fucking rips me apart. I knew it had to be done, and it was like a brick was lifted off my chest but the fact that I put someone I care about like that into an emotional state like that just ruins me. \n\nI love this girl and I have imagined spending the rest of my life with her but I feel like I am missing out on the experience of being single since I've been in a relationship for basically all of my young adult life. I just want to have no worries and to be able to focus on me (Sometimes I struggle with happiness and didn't do very well last term) and go out and have fun but I'm also scared ill regret breaking up with her or crush her.\n\nI don't want her to feel pain or cry or resent me, this girl has been a huge part of the person I am today and I love her to death. I know if I did it I'd have to call her since texting is considered rude and un-thoughtful but I don't know if I'm ready to hear her heart break over the phone or if I even want to go through with this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not an educator but my friend is having a really hard time at her job right now and I was wondering if anyone could help.\n\nThe Issue:\n\nShe works for a charter school in California where the principal has gone off the deep end. At first it started casually with cuts and a few firings (understandable at the time because of budget cuts). It steadily got worse however as he slowly stripped the teachers of any rights/protections they once had. Now he's threatening to fire them at any time if they refuse to work late/take personal days/attempt talks with the teachers union/show signs of disagreeing with the principal's leadership, etc.\n\nThis guy has continually canceled meetings by any form of teacher-staffed governing boards that would normally provide the teachers with a voice. Now he just dictates policy for the school with no regard or input from the teachers. He has threatened to let anyone go if they show even the slightest dissatisfaction with his decisions.\n\nKeep in mind this was a very good school before this guy came in. It's not like it was a failing school in need of some tough love. As far as scholastic achievement goes, not much has changed since this guy was hired on (which is why I suspect he still has a job despite complaints to district).\n\nIs there anything my friend can do to oust this guy or at least protect her job?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so, we met online, and we dated (because we live in the same city). We are together for 7 months, but he isn't my boyfriend. It's kinda weird for me, he is really good and polite and smart, but not romantic at all. We have a lot in common and it's really calming to be in his presence , but there is no passion from his side. He doesn't want sex, he doesn't want me to meet his parents (even though he knows mine).\n\n It's really weird, because he doesn't hide me, I hang out with his friends, but he doesn't want to post anything with me anywhere. I really like him a lot, but it seems like he doesn't want anything serious with me, not even a relationship. \n\nSometimes I have the urge to just tell him that, and every time I start, he says he doesn't want to go fast. But it's been 7 months. Then I end up crying at home and I want to dump him because he's a coward, but I can't because I think I'm in love...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not sure if this is the right subreddit, but I'll shove it here anyway.\n\nI graduated high school last year, and pretty much immediately fell out of touch with most of the people I'd hung out with there. I made some half-hearted attempts at making friends when Uni started up in March this year, and since then, but I just don't have any idea how to go about it. I'm kind of thinking I've missed the bus now, since everyone seems to have friends and I have no idea how to inject myself into an existing group of friends. There's a couple of people that I was in a group with on O-week, who I talk to occasionally, but I don't know how to make the next step there, either.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were dating for 8 months when last month she started to get withdrawn and more insecure with us. It seems she'd get upset with me at the drop of a hat. \n\nThree weeks ago we had the talk. She said it'd be best for us to go on a break for now and she's not ready for any sort of relationship. Initially I fought back, because I love her. I said we could work on it, etc. Was not having it, said she just wasn't ready. \n\nSince then we still talk every day but significantly less. Today she let it slip that she's been having a very bad episode of depression in an unrelated context to our relationship. \n\nBasically, I'm asking if I should pursue her still. IE remind her I'm not going to abandon her because of depression, how much I care for her, etc etc. I feel conflicted. On one hand, she told me wasn't ready and I really want to respect her boundaries for obvious reasons. On the other hand, since it is depression I'm not sure if she knows what she really wants and if stepping away would be best. \n\nI'm thinking if she really wanted nothing more to do with me, we wouldn't talk as much as we do, even at the limited rate it is. I've given her opportunities for a NC break. \"If you think it's best to stop talking and go our separate ways, you just need to say\" etc stuff like that. \n\nP.S. I'm feeling a bit insecure today about it, a \"friend\" of mine brought up that it could just be an excuse to sleep around since she said \"break\" and that must translate to promiscuity. I'm 90% positive that's not the case. \n\nCan someone weigh in?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to sum this up best that I can. I am a 22 year old career focused female who just found out tonight that I am pregnant to my 22 year old boyfriend. We have a very tumultuous relationship and he does not want a child anytime soon. This was a complete accident. I was on the pill. I had an abortion when I became pregnant with his child 12 months ago whilst I was also on contraceptive. I do not think I can go through that again and want to keep the child but not want to upset him or ruin his life by doing so. I need some advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this girl and I have a little history together, nothing serious, we knew each other for a little while. Went to a high school dance and we danced the whole night together and kind of hit it off (We never kissed though). Then we kind of lost touch with each other. I don't believe I have done anything to anger her or anything, but I find out today that she has blocked me from accessing her facebook feed and posting to her wall. I kind of like her and would like to talk to her again but am really confused by the fact that she has tried to block me. What should I say to her as I still want to be her friend (at least) and talk to her. \n\nWhat's Reddit's advice on the matter? What should I say since if I message her, she will know, that I know, that she tried to blocked me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This just happened. I don't write very well, so please excuse my grammar. \n\nWe'll start off with my morning. I wake up late for work. Had to be at work for 0730, woke up at 0710. I work for an ambulance service as an EMT and I am currently in paramedic school doing clinicals every other day I'm not working a 24 hour shifts on the boo boo bus. So I'm rushing around trying to get my uniform together when I fell a dart brewing. Ok seems innocent enough. No. It was a bubble of doom. I knew instantly as it was coming out that it was too late and I had just destroyed a nice fresh pair of boxers. So the boxers get thrown away and now I'm wasting even more time sitting on the toilet. My bowels are doing back flips and now I'm even more late for work. So I finish as fast I could then frantically find a new pair boxers and finish getting my shit together and get out the door for a 20 min drive to work. \n\nWhen I get to work I remembered I keep a bottle of pepto bismol in my box. Thinking it would help settle my stomachs and colon I decide to take some. Well that was possibly the worst idea I could of had st the time. Someone had decided to play a joke on me and put hot sauce in my medicine. Instant burning all the way down. My stomach is now doing front flips and back flips and side flips and any other flip you could possible image. Now I need to vomit. Made it in time to the bathroom luckily. That pepto was the only thing I had in my stomach and it felt like I was spewing hell fire. Now I like some spice here and there but this was hot hot. Not a flavor hot. So now I feel even worse and I just started my 24 hour shift. Yay.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The PHOB - A little acronym I made up. Most offices have one...the \"Power Hungry Office Bitch\". This is the woman (or man...I've only seen women do this though...) who holds a generally pointless job (think HR) and tries to accumulate as much political office power as possible. I imagine it's so that she can feel special and important. \n\nThe Setup: I work as an phone clerk for a law office. My job is to sit in my cubicle, call potential clients, and try to schedule them to come in for an appointment. The boss, R, is a generally laid-back, cool kind of guy. The PHOB would constantly scrutinize my every move, even though I am NOT under her management purview. She scans applications and writes payroll, that's about it. I always bring my laptop to fill the dull stints where no hits are happening on the dialer. (I usually just Reddit or watch YouTube) Naturally, I pause what I'm doing to speak to any clients on the dialer that pop up. I'm getting occasional clients booked, so I'm doing my job just fine, yet the PHOB kept \"tattling\" to R, the boss, that I was wasting company time and playing games. Naturally, R checks the dialer reports and sees that I'm his top performing agent, but only after hassling me over her rumors. Long story short, the PHOB did everything she could to bureaucratically hassle me in every way possible.\n\nThe Vengeance - I go through my days as best I can. I look for other jobs in the meantime. Finally, I land an interview, and then a job. On my resignation letter, I put a few helpful hints about how the firm could be made more efficient. I ended up with about two paragraphs on how the PHOB's job could essentially be replaced by Quickbooks for a fraction of the cost. R, who is not tech savvy, was astounded at this revelation and ended up canning her and following my advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So late 2014 I was kind enough to provide a house to a friends gf who was struggling to find a place to live. I thought it was great because I'd get to see them both a lot more. I own the house and was looking for a roommate/tenant anyway\n\nShe moved in and sure enough they were around all the time etc, we all got along really well. Over the year she started spending more and more time at his parents house because they cooked for her, did her laundry etc. It annoyed me because I didn't like living by myself, but I never made an issue of it and moved on. Learned to live with it. \n\nIt got to a point where she'd only come back to pick up clothes say hello and leave again. I'd go weeks without seeing her. When she announced that she and her bf were moving in with another mate of ours I was thrilled. So I started making plans for a new housemate, I got a great person and it was full steam ahead.\n\nShe then told me her plans fell through, and I said well the plans I made in reaction to yours are still going ahead, so I'll need you to commit to your departure date as specified by you (6 weeks away) she exploded at me saying it was disrespectful to make plans after her plans were only proposed and not concrete (she never told me that) I explained that I was sticking to my plans for my own personal reasons and that I was sick of living by myself and didn't expect her to live there more and I was getting someone else in with the hope of having company. \n\nNo contact for two days and she sent me this moody passive aggressive message saying she'll have to move in to her bf's parents house and she'll be out in 2 weeks. So I told the next roommate that we could bring the timeline up, she was happy. We are now very rapidly approaching the 2 week deadline and nothing of hers has left the house yet.\n\nAm I being too harsh?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all, and thanks in advance. So, I have been an athlete my whole life, started competitive soccer and other sports when I was 5 (27 now), and have always considered myself physically fit. About 4 years ago, I moved to Hawaii and basically became a beach potato with almost no consistent physical activity for the first time in my life. A year and a half ago, I had a baby with my fiance, moved back to the Mainland, and decided I needed to get my life on track for the benefit of my child (now children). So I quit smoking tobacco and signed up for a half marathon. I was doing my best to follow a training program I found on Garmin Connect, but about 8 weeks into the training I started pushing too hard, running too many miles too fast, a classic rookie maneuver, I know, but it felt so good to build strength in my body and I began to rely on the peaceful solace I found running alone, away from the chaos of raising now 2 small children. Anyway, after a nice long run, a hot shower and a nap, I squatted slightly to pick up my son, and I felt a pop in my 2nd toe on my left foot. It swelled immediately, and was painful to walk on, let alone run, for (the past) 6-7 weeks, and although MUCH improved this past 2 weeks, I still feel it occasionally. I did some research and I think it may be either Metatarsalgia or Capsulitis, the symptoms match both somewhat. So my questions are these: would it be stupid to try and run again before the symptoms completely dissipate? and when I do start running again, what mileage is safe? Should I start with a c25k (really don't want to be re-injured)? I was running 5-6 miles 4 days a week, with a long run about 8 miles, again, from not running in years in about an 8-10 week span.\nThanks for the help, and all the inspiration and motivation! (longtime lurker here)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened yesterday, after a 6 long day marathon of studying for three finals that are right after each other, I was ready to begin my winter break. I called up my uncle to pick me up and two hours later he finally showed. He asked me to drive since I know my way around my campus more so I did. Little did I know, 12 cans of Monster, 4 hours of sleep and the adrenaline pumping through my veins because of the excitement of winter break would impair my driving skills. As I pulled out of the parking space, I drove directly into a cement pillar causing $3000 worth of damage to the front of my car. I didn't even get out of fucking parking garage. I had to use my shoe strings to keep the bumper from falling off and hitting the front wheel. On the bright side, I got high marks this quarter.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I feel silly even writing this - I dated my ex nearly two years ago for a while before I moved away. We kept in contact, sexted and met up again last year. It didn't turn into anything more as we were both living in different places, and I was dealing with taking care of my sick mother. He entered into a relationship with someone else following that, which ended in January. Since then, he has again has been in contact with me, texting often, asking if I had moved back in town, and wanting to meet up again when I'm coming to town in a few weeks. We've been really friendly with each other. The thing is, I know he is hooking up with other girls right now, and it makes me really sad. \n\nI don't want to meet up with him and get hurt, but the thought of never seeing him again is really hard. I can't seem to shake him and I don't know why. I guess we never really fell out of contact so its been hard for me to get over it. I don't why I keep hanging on. He seems able to enjoy time with other girls obviously, but I can't date - just the thought of being with someone else makes me really sad. I try to move on but my heart isn't in it. When I find out through mutual friends of him hooking up with someone, I go to a really low place. I beat myself up, I tell myself I'm not good enough/pretty enough/whatever enough to him, I really hurt myself. \n\nSince last year, I've lost about 10 lbs just from going through depression and anxiety. I've gotten a really great new job, and things start to look up for me, then I focus back on him and I'm really sad again. I don't want to obsess over him, but I do. I feel I've come off so pathetic still talking to him and carrying this on - I've thought of meeting up with him again but just really don't want to get hurt. Feel like I come off so foolish. Why can't I shake these feelings? How can I stop feeling so unreasonabl hurt over him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short, I moved in with my girlfriend back in July. Since then, my girlfriend has slowly been limiting my contact with certain friends (mainly girls). Some of these people are just acquaintances, but a few of them are incredibly close friends. \n\nRecently I tried to get in contact with one of my female friends, let's call her June. June's brother is in a rehab program, and I wanted to see how he was doing. While trying to get up with her, I discovered that June had been blocked on my facebook account. Not only that, but her number had been deleted from my phone.\n\nA little more investigating showed that not only was June removed from everything, but about a dozen other people (that I know of) were completely gone from my cell phone and all social media. \n\nFrankly I was overcome with rage at the fact that she would try to be so controlling. I think this might be the last straw, and I'm seriously considering ending the relationship. I don't want to do anything drastic just because I'm angry, though. I'd like to keep a cool head.\n\nWhat do you think I should do in this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically one of my friends, seems to be going nowhere with her life, and she has no ambition also. The two of us are seniors, but she hasn't done anything with her life to transition into being a young adult. She didn't take the SAT's not even for in regards for applying to college, but the community college system in my area, it accepts if you get a certain score you can skip english 101 and even get into the scholar program at the community college. She hasn't even looked at what classes she wants to take or save up any kind of funds to pay for it, since her parents won't. Also, she has no prospect or interest getting a job, she hasn't put her self out there in any respect, I almost got her to apply to where I work, but she didn't actually send in the application because her boyfriend said, \"to not conform.\" Okay, her boyfriend is actually a nice guy, I was friends with him before they started dating, it's just that he's a sophomore with pretty bad ADD, who can't really relate to having to be a senior in high school, getting ready to grow up. When my friend started dating this guy last year, she pushed all her friends away and literally her and her boyfriend only hang out with each other. Half of the time this friend doesn't even show up to school, which could prevent her from graduating on time.\n\nHer parents won't disipline her because her own mother lived with her mom (along with her mom's sister) until my friend was 8 years old. My friend's 23 year old sister continues to live with her parents, without having to pay for rent, food or any living expenses, except gas. They're very laisse faire when it comes to raising her, which would be fine if she actually acted like a young adult, but now it feels like she has the maturity of a 14 year old girl for various reasons which are a whole different topic.\n\nWhen I try and suggest she go to trade school or beauty school, she gets insulted because trade school too pedestrian for her, even though her GPA and work ethic is absolute shit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm sure this topic/question has come up a lot on askreddit, but honestly I don't have the patience to look through and find a previous one right now. I am on the verge of being inconsolable and I just want some advice from impartial people asap.\n\nWe've been together for six months. But we have been good friends for another six months before that. We met through a mutual friend but we live an hour and a half from each other, and when we went to school we were four hours apart. Most of our relationship has been based on distance, but we learned to accept it.\n\nTonight on the phone she said she just doesn't feel the same way as she did before about us. She thinks we're two different people now and thinks there is no returning to what we were. I am just extremely saddened. All I can think about is how great things were between us, and even more, all the things we talked about doing and experiencing together in the future but now never can.\n\nI know it's a pretty vague question, but where do I go from here? Yeah yeah, hit the gym, get a hobby, ect. But that's not what I am looking for now. It will be helpful down the line, but not right now at 12:30 a.m. Can anyone offer true, sincere advice, or share an anecdote about their break-up experience and how they recovered? I'm typing this only a couple hours after the break up, so I'm still really upset.\n\nOh, also, she wants to meet in person sometime next week to \"finalize\" our breakup. She said she felt bad doing it over the phone. I don't know if I want to see her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background info: He and I have been dating for a little over 6 months. Basically fell head over heels, and moved in quickly together. We had plans to move to a new city in August where I will be starting my first year in law school. We have an apartment reserved and everything is taken care of. I have never had any suspicions and he treats me better than anyone I've ever been with. He makes me feel beautiful and worthy of companionship. \n\nA couple of weeks ago he was sent out of state on a short 5 day business trip. He works for a retail company and was helping to set up a new store. \n\nSince his return, he's just been a little off. I felt horrible (and still do) but I did something shitty and went through his phone. \n\nFound out he had responded to a man looking for man casual encounters ad on craigslist. His email sounded very comfortable, as he knew the acronyms and typical format. He sent it the day he got out of town. The man responded 3 days later, to which my boyfriend offered to host. There is no other communication that I could find.\n\nWhen I confronted him, he said that he has no idea why he even responded to the ad. He said he didn't want to actually meet up, but had the urge to talk to someone online only. He claims that what I have read is the only communication he had and that he has never physically cheated on me. He also said that this is the only instance where he was interested in talking to a man sexually. \n\nI have no idea what to do. I love and care about him deeply and I have never connected so easily with anyone. I do not know what to believe and whether what he is saying is bullshit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 6 months now and everything always goes fine between us. We made it a point to always be honest with each other no matter what, and I have always been faithful to that.\n\nI found out from a mutual friend of ours that a guy she knows has a very big thing for her and has been into her for a while now. I was unaware. This mutual friend also told me that this guy bought my girlfriend gifts, and she told me her mother bought them for her. The reason he buys her gifts is because she's not telling him that she's in a relationship with me, so he's been trying to woo her over. Quite frankly, I was hurt she was keeping our relationship a secret, especially to guys who like her.\n\nShe lied to me about the gifts and refused to tell me about all this because she wanted to avoid a conversation about it. Was I right or wrong to be upset about this whole ordeal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with this guy for 2 years. Yesterday, he told me that before we go any further in the relationship, I should know that he is very manipulative. I haven't even thought of him like that before. So obviously, the first thing I did was go on Google to see if anyone else has been in my situation before. I couldn't find anything similar, but I found a lot of articles on how to see if your partner is a manipulator. Most of the things on the manipulator check list aren't in our relationship. However, I spotted 2 that is very obvious: I am almost always wrong in any argument we have and he points out things about myself that I should improve. However, I have never really felt any emotional distress in the time period I was with him. One thing I notice however is that he puts a lot of emphasis on how he looks (grooming, clothing) and yet very little emphasis on appearances of things like car or house. Basically, I am just really confused. I don't understand why he told that he is manipulative and yet, I can't find convincing signs that he is. Maybe he doesn't understand what manipulative means ? Maybe it's some next level manipulation ? Maybe I am just too blind to see it ? He often tells me that I am too naive and that I shouldn't trust people so easily, him included. He is lawyer, I don't know if that helps with anything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I dated this guy for about five months, we mutually decided that we didn't have much in common so we ended it. We didn't talk for two months and then we ran into each other at a party and hooked up about three months ago. Over the past three months we've been taking it casually. Mostly just hookups but also a lot of dinners, movies and concerts. I've been kinda falling for him. I've been learning new things about him, things I somehow didn't know the first time we dated.\n\nA few hours ago though, I watched his snapchat story and it was a picture of him kissing this cute guy on the cheek with the caption \"best date of my life\".\nI just feel empty. I didn't realize how much I liked him until I saw him with another guy. I feel so worthless. I want to cry but I can't for some reason.\nThis whole time he was over me and I thought I was too but I don't think I ever dealt with it. And now all I can think about is what might have been and how much time I've wasted on a guy who seemingly doesn't care about me.\n\nThis keeps happening to me. I keep falling for guys who keep me at arms length. I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know why I'm submitting this. I guess I'm looking for advice or experience.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To give some background my girlfriend has been working 38 hour weeks and she wasn't used to them before. Tonight I found out that she forgot a little dinner date and she forgot to ask off on our anniversary so she is going to work that whole day. The reason she is working so much is that she's taking a semester off from school and getting into the school's nursing program in the Spring.\n\nI understand she works a lot but I also work and go to school. I try to make time to take care of her needs and go the extra mile. I think of things we could do, places we could go, gifts I could get her and typical relationship stuff. \n\nI feel almost like the more emotionally aware of the two of us and feel like I'm not that important to her. She says I am and I can tell rifts between us affect her but she doesn't handle her reactions like me. I get that.\n\nI want her to want to go out of the way to do things for me. We have a very healthy and great day to day relationship most times. We talk things through and try to work out all the small kinks before they get bigger.\n\nThe thing is though, that I feel unless I do something or push for something it doesn't happen. \n\nI had to basically mediate and tie our relationship together with the way we argue, the way we communicate, and even sex. \n\nI don't really get suggestions from her on these things but she replies when I reach out. \n\nThe thing is though that I don't want to have to reach out all the time to get a response pinged back. I would like her to reach out to me as well. \n\nThis might not make sense, and honestly it's kind of a ramble, but does anyone understand or have experience with these things?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so this happened two days ago, on saturday afternoon. To set the scene, I go to a pretty large school in the south and the weekends pretty consist of drinking a lot and socializing. I got to the house where a few of my bros live at around 4 and to kill the time we decided to through a movie on and chill until it was time to start drinking and go out. HBO recently started carrying Bulletproof Monk so we throw that on. Turns out its fucking awful. I end up falling asleep on the end of his bed laying ~~horizontally~~ like a dog.\n\n Falling asleep was the beginning of my fuck up. I briefly remember a nightmare of being chased by some hellacious creature, I turn back to look at it while running, but cannot find it. I look forward. BANG I hit something.\n\n So I come to stumbling up the stairs of my bud's house with a massive headache, not knowing what the fuck has happened to me. I rub my head (much to my chagrin it feels like its been beaten worse Denver in the super bowl last year) and find my hand covered in blood. I basically fall into the living room where all my friends are drinking and ask what the hell is going on and what happened. I simply can't talk and am concussed as fuck. I walk into the bathroom to find a major gash at the top of my head and blood all down my face. The next thirty minutes is comprised of me being in complete shock, not knowing where I am, and wondering what happened to me. I finally gather myself and start cutting up with my friends. This is when the guy who's room I fell asleep in walks through the front door holding a golf club... Not pointing fingers, but seriously, i'm suspicious now. \n\nTIFU by falling asleep on a bed doggy style, having my best friend hit me in the head with his golf club and being majorly concussed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Two years ago, my friend Trish went to a foreign country to study abroad. There, she met a guy, Frank, and they hit it off. \nNow, she's back in the foreign country for a year-long research program and is seeing the guy again. \n\nI think he's bad news.\n\nLast week my boyfriend sent Trish messages on facebook asking how she's enjoying the foreign country. He also asked her for help editing a short paper, since she's good at it (and he's not). She happily helped him, and everything was fine. \n\nExcept, that it wasn't. Two days later, Trish has deleted her facebook account and created a new one. She won't add any males as friends. \n\nMy boyfriend asked another mutual friend what was up, and the answer came back that Trish's boyfriend saw the facebook messages and became angry--so she deleted the account and made a new one with only girls as friends. \n\nMy boyfriend sent Frank a message explaining that they're only friends--and have been for a long time. He basically said \"chill out. Learn to trust her, but since you don't, you obviously have her fb messages and can read through them to see that I'm telling the truth.\" \nFrank replied saying that he was Trish's boyfriend, and that she shouldn't talk to any guy except him. \n\nHow can I explain this to her? The only way I can contact her is through the new facebook account--which I'm sure Frank monitors. I know Trish lives with Frank and his family in the foreign country--and I don't know that she has enough to move out. Beyond that, she seems happy with him. \n\nI just feel that it's extremely creepy and weird that Frank won't let her talk to her male friends back home.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend has been looking to get a dog for sometime now. She has always had huskies, and was ready to get another, as her last dog had passed away a year ago. \n\nAfter careful talking and collaboration with her, we decided that as a \"Christmas gift\" I would pay for her puppy. I am normally against the puppy for Christmas thing, but she wanted a puppy, the time of year just worked out like that. \n\nI have 3 dogs myself, all rescues, I wasn't overly familiar with the process of buying a dog. But I know enough to know that I did in fact end up supporting a puppy mill. \n\nThis pup is a husky, he cost me $350, which is insanely cheap for a husky puppy (Sign #1). The \"breeder\" wouldn't let me on the property to see the dogs (Sign #2). The breeder also had no organization, no contracts, no vet records, no health certificate, nothing. I know I shouldn't have gotten the dog from him. I supported a puppy mill. This poor pup is stained with pee and feces. \n\nSo why did I do it? I was so caught up in getting my friend a husky, which again she knew about, that I looked past my better judgement. \n\nNot to mention, upon meeting this guy to pick up the puppy, I was alone. I had gone to meet him before with my boyfriend and he said he was fine because we were meeting in a public place and he didn't seem weird last time. This time I went alone, he didn't speak much and kept staring at me. After I paid for the dog and took him he told me to give him a hug, being scared I did. Stupid, I know- but I didn't want him to get angry, he seemed a little off. I didn't know what he would do. Nothing happened, but I feel so stupid for putting myself in that situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a normal, friendly person with solid social skills, but I'm also a late bloomer sexually. I had sex for the first time four years ago with \"Ben\", a guy I was friendly with and had a crush on. We hooked up and it was great, but then he immediately started ignoring me and we never really spoke again. It was really irritating at the time but I wasn't heartbroken by any stretch of the imagination. \n\nFlash forward four years. I haven't had any sexual or romantic relationships since Ben. Then about eight months ago, Ben randomly liked my new profile picture. Ever since then I've been thinking about him a lot and I'm really not sure why. I haven't messaged him or even looked at his profile, but I have this little fantasy where I run into him in my new town and he asks me to meet him for dinner. \n\nI'm posting here because I'm super confused about why I'm so fixated on the idea of this guy who treated me pretty disrespectfully, and who I never really had any emotional attachment to.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My Laptop was stolen over the previous few days out of the back of my car and I am wondering if there is any way I can track this guy down.\n\nI have iGoogle set as my homepage and if he is stupid enough to get online and use any of my browsers he will arrive at iGoogle. If there is a gadget that can be used to track IPs and times when they were accessed that would be exceptional. \n\nI have already checked the link at the bottom of Gmail that lists the last activity on my account and it has turned up nothing unusual yet. I'll continue to monitor that link for anything suspicious, however I am a bit scared here.\n\nI use xMarks to save my bookmarks and passwords and have already changed my pin and password for that, however I am just wondering if there is any way to track this guy down. Only days ago I found out about logmein and installed it on my desktop and was putting off installing it on my laptop until the weekend--a little too late :-\\\n\nReddit, I need your help on this. I'm a computer science major at MTU and would really like you guys to shine through. The laptop has my only copy of an Android application that I have been working on for the past semester as I wasn't keeping it on our CVS server. I need this laptop back and have filed a police report already.\n\nAs a reward I give you this video and will give upvote karma to those who deserve it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend who I have been dating for 2 months had lost her father 5 months ago and overall very shortly before I had met her online. All in all she has not taking been taking it well as one can imagine and it's been a struggle on all fronts. The tragedy took place on the 6th of the month, 3 months prior to meeting her so it really was so fresh. IN addition to having a lot of trouble with it all and every 6th of the month is extremely difficult on her. \n\nYesterday was the 6th and after a super long and busy day I got caught up in my own plans and life. We didn't talk much that day and I had obviously forgotten the date so at the end of the day I received a nasty drunk text message from my girlfriend telling me how badly I fucked up. Sadly when she drinks she gets emotionally abusive and despite me apologizing the conversation got super heated and after a bunch of \"fuck yous\" thrown my way it was clear things were not going well. \n\nWe've had a rocky two months and this isn't the first time her alcohol tendencies tend to be taken out on me. I definitely fucked up but what happened last night was totally uncalled for and now...both of us don't know where this is all leading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm out of a 3-year relationship with the love of my life. We have been on and off more times than I can count. It just doesn't work. We love each other fiercely. But apparently that doesn't mean we can be together. In all of my Disney, Nicolas Sparks, doe-eyed optimism, even I have come to accept we will never work together. \n\nHe has moved across the country, which I'm grateful for. It means we can stop self destructing by seeing each other every time we're feeling weak. We agreed to no contact because it's just going to be excruciating for one or both of us to attempt a friendship and then eventually find out the other is moving on with someone else.\n\nHe was my best friend. I miss him so much. He loves football. I hate it. I want to talk to him about the superbowl and how I was forced to watch it with my coworkers. I want to tell him about my insane cat that he couldn't stand, and how he's become crazier somehow. I want to tell him about how I cried during a sad puppy commercial but not a child-abuse commercial because he knows my heart is made to love animals, and I don't have that same soft spot for people. I ache for him every fucking day. It's only been a week. What the fuck am I supposed to do? I feel like I'm dying.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "so I don't know where to start.this is on mobile so pardon any spelling errors.\n\nBackground: me and tom have been dating for a little over a year.i come from a traditional family where dating is usually frowned upon within the culture. Me and Tom have been friends for 4 years but I finally gave in and went on a date because frankly I liked him a lot. This December tom will have to move across country because he has gotten an amazing job after his graduation. I'm stuck here because I will be continuing my grad school on this state(got accepted in my dream school!!) so the issue is we don't know what to do\n\nWhen talking about our future I suddenly began to feel panicked. I mean when I think about Tom I can see an amazing,loving future in which I will be genuinely happy. Yet,one part of me is freaking out.how do I know this is love?ive never been in a relationship before so I've never experienced anything in comparison! Will a LDR ruin us? The busy schedules will make it difficult for us to talk in addition to the little to no in person interaction.what if we become resentful of each other?what if he would rather want someone else?what if he doesn't actually love me?how can I be sure he is \"the one\"?i believe he is but...\n\nMy idea of love is very warped. I have this funny paradigm of love(I can explain further if you'd like) .my ideas of love were adopted from an early age where my only examples came from the movies. The sheltered part of me is ignoring my happiness and kind of freakin out because there's no way to be sure he's the main love interest of my life like in the movies", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was about 2 years ago but its a pretty large fuck up. So that day I had a friend stay over at mine and the morning after we went for some breakfast. Theres a bunch of chinese food stalls near where I live and I recommended them for some noodles. He says \" yeah sure as long as its halal\" ( since he was muslim and infact a strongly devoted one too) . I wasn't thinking and assured him that the food was 100% safe for him to eat. \n\nNext thing were eating the noodles and some pork.He's munching away at the pork with no knowledge that it is actually pig meat. He keeps saying that the food here is amazing and the meat is really really good etc etc. I'm not thinking at the time and only till about a day later I realize that I had pretty much fed him pork. Fuck.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've posted this already in askmen, but here we go:\n\nI've been thinking over a situation I had with my gf and trying to figure out, as the title suggests, if I was being reasonable or overreacting. \n\nThe scenario: We are dates for a somewhat big deal type event at my frat (dressed up and whatnot), we both get buzzed while drinking--> she randomly disappears while we're doing an activity together and I wait for her--> I wait for the better part of 30 min --> I search around everywhere to find her, eventually find her in an empty hallway fixing the collar/clothes of another guy really intimately--> the guy and I have a history and he is a massive d-bag--> I play it cool and tell her I was looking for her, she's still drunk/the d-bag looks caught and like he knew exactly what he was doing, backs off accordingly--> my gf and I go to a private room and I tell her how annoyed I was that I had no idea where she was, that she didn't tell me text or otherwise where she was for 1/2 an hour, only for me to find her being intimate and touching a guy who I dislike a lot--> She starts crying--> after some more crying and her storming off for a bit, we eventually reconcile enough to enjoy the rest of the night.\nNow. Looking back on that night, she says that I overreacted and shouldn't have gotten upset/annoyed and that I partially ruined the night. I think that I shouldn't have had to look for my gf/date forever and then find her with another guy. What do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I ran into this woman in my apartment building twice in one day last week, did the usual smile, 'have a nice day' routine. I see her again on Friday when we're both on the way home, she recognizes me and talks to me. I actually didn't recognize her with sunglasses on, felt a little rude. We have a fun chat for the 10-15 minute walk home. When we got to the building, we ran into someone else and they joined our conversation. I didn't get a chance to get her phone number.\n\nToday, I see a package with her name (it's fairly unique, so 99% sure it's her) by the mailboxes where the UPS and FedEx guys leave them, it has her apartment number, obviously.\n\nMy question is, would it be creepy/weird to leave her a note on or under her door that I liked talking to her, wish I got to exchange numbers, would love to talk more, etc...? or should I just wait for next time we run into each other?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met her at school earlier in the year and we have been dating for 3 months now and have been exclusive for 1 month. Things seem to be going great and there is no rush to take things to the next level. I recently realized, however, that I am always the one who sets up a day to hang out or to go on a date. I think only once she kind of mentioned the fact. Usually any day I pick she agrees to and when she is unable to show we always meet up the day after. Another thing is that I moved to her town 10 months ago and she grew up there so while I am working and travelling a bit, I don't have many friends here so I have more flexibility with my weeks, where as she has her whole life here and is always busy. I guess I just needed to write this out to come to a conclusion that I am not being needy and that things are just going pretty slow because we are both busy, but anyways, some advice could be of use.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We are both in college, but we went to different colleges and agreed that we will work things out for the long run. However after a month into our semester she called me and broke up with me out of nowhere because she didn't see us lasting forever. The first month was surreal, I didn't know what to do so I just ignored it. The second month I started drinking a lot especially by myself and my grades suffered a lot. \n\nOur winter break started and we live in the same hometown. So I wanted to hang out with her to see if I can change her mind, but wanted to wait till she had time to hang out with her friends and family as she usually leaves for a week for Christmas. \n\nI then got a text saying that she met someone a month ago and that they're dating. I'm heartbroken when she said this, worst of all is that I asked her if she can say that she doesn't love me anymore so I can start moving on but she said she has feelings for me and that she doesn't love the new guy (only a month into the relationship so I guess that makes sense). \n\nI want her to still be with me, I want her to give me a chance, I don't know what I should do. If I should give up on her then how do I move on? I've had insomnia the past couple of days and lack of appetite since she has told me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "You can look back on my other posts for the rest of the story. Long story short, she broke up with me (19M) out of no where. I guess she wanted other things; not sure. Since then, she's gained a whole bunch of weight and seems to have developed anxiety and insecurity issues. I used the breakup as motivation and I am closing in on 40 pounds weight loss (started at 220 beginning of summer, now at 186). I also have talked to other girls and I'm talking to a girl that I really like right now. She is prettier, more animated, and we have a lot more in common. I am totally winning right now, but I'm still feeling lingering effects from the last relationship and it's getting annoying. Anyone have good advice on how to kick these negative feelings once and for all? I think I need a good, physical relationship with someone, if you know what I mean. Its tough being 19 and going without that for months at a time. What do you guys think? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My fiancee, whom I've been with for just over three years, and I have had a number of fights recently, but I've chalked them up to growing pains, and the fact that she's from an emotionally abusive household. However, I feel that she's been cruel to me now, and I'm not sure if I should try to move past it or if it should be a dealbreaker.\n\nI had a cat, and my fiancee didn't like her. Whatever - some people don't like cats (my mother was terrified of them and would go out of her way to avoid them...something about her having seen an uncle get mauled by one when she was a child...)\n\nThe kitty died the day before yesterday, and it's left me very distraught. Not only did I love the cat, but I inherited her from my aunt, who passed away just over four years ago. I'm so sad about it. I told my fiancee about it yesterday morning, and she said she was sorry about it.\n\nI didn't talk to the fiancee all day yesterday, but when we did talk in the evening, she was in a bad mood and just said that she didn't see why I'd get so worked up over a cat. I told her I thought she was being uncaring, and she said, essentially, \"I don't need this,\" and hung up. We talked again, and she told me she thought I was telling her how to feel when I told her that she should try to be a nice, supportive person regardless of how she felt about the cat, or if she understood it or not.\n\nNow I haven't talked to her since then.\n\nWhat should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This FU happened on a college trip to London a couple years back. I went on a week college trip to London during winter break to see what our sister school in London looked like. Truthfully I went because I was 18 and wanted to party in a foreign area. \nIt was our last day in London and we were at Heathrow airport waiting to get on our flight back to the states. About 20 of us who went on the trip were all lined up to use those machines where you scan your passport to get your ticket. I was in the front of the group and a few of my friends were directly behind me in line. \nI go up to the machine and am figuring out how it works. Out of the corner of my eye I see the person next to me leave his machine so naturally I think my friend, who was behind me, is going to use the empty machine. After I get my passport I look over to the machine next to me and on the screen under \"name\" it says Tariq followed by a very unpronounceable last name. Me being oblivious and thinking my friend Shane was the one using the machine, I start pointing and laughing yelling out \"Dude, look at your name! The machine fucked up your name!\" After about 20 seconds of laughing and pointing I realize that no one is responding. I then slowly turn my head and see a middle eastern grown man staring through my soul. I immediately grab my ticket and run back to my group of friends without saying a word due to pure embarrassment. My friends, who had witnessed the entire thing going on, were literally on the floor of the airport laughing. One of my friends even went over to the man to explain to him the situation. \nFast forward an hour later: I'm sitting in my seat on the plane and lone behold, Tariq walks down the aisle. We make eye contact and he comfortably takes his seat across the aisle from me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Years ago I had a job in the video game industry that pushed my thoughts and kept me active. However the past year I've been working for [Confidential due to NDA] but it's within the video game industry just more of a translation to a Lead Coach in Technical Support. It's in no way creative and extremely boring. This is where my problem is though.\n\nLike many, I excel in many areas but I am no master of one. As a video game producer, this is good because you have to know everything about well... everything. For instance, in design I can tell what is good design and what is bad, along with constructive criticism as to why but having me design it from scratch it just isn't my thing. I'm more of the 'ideas guy' you could say. I've written a few story lines and designs for a video game, though they can be books, short stories, novels, graphic novels, the premise is there for anything. Is there a way I can do something with this and have a creative outlet? Is there someone out there on Reddit who wants to be a professional writer but needs the ideas to begin with? I can tell you the plot points, character backgrounds, scenarios, situations, you name it I'm just not going to kid myself that I can make it magical and pop out on paper someone would want to read it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "With a decent income tax coming in the next few weeks I've decided to take care of 2 derogatory marks on my credit report from 2 debts that have gone into collections, one for a good 3-4 years at least and the other being from about a year ago, maybe 2 years ago. I am receiving 1500$ in my tax return and would like to handle my 2 outstanding debts of collectively $1000 ($700 & $300 each debt with a different agency.) I've yet to contact the debt agencies as it has been a few years since I've seen any letters and I've never received any phone calls, I've gathered the phone numbers and mailing addresses of both companies but I'm not sure how I should proceed. Its my understanding that I can maybe get a debt settlement on both of these accounts for a much MUCH lower cost than the price of the debt and would like to pursue a pay for delete option and AM willing to pay the debt in full but if I can negotiate the price down a little that would be extremely beneficial. My question is should I contact the companies via phone and request something in writing (Debt verification?) and then reply solely via snail mail? or could I do everything over the phone and have a negotiated payment made and have documentation mailed/emailed to me afterwards to keep for my records? I've read a lot of stories on here of people calling and negotiating payment over the phone as low as 20% of the debt total and not having it come back and bite them in the ass but I guess I'd just like a little clarification or advice on whats the best route to take. Thank's for reading my wall of text up there ^\nreally appreciate it :D", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "From the beginning.\n\nI caught my sister cheating on her boyfriend. I was up in my room playing on the computer when I heard the TV from downstairs. It was louder than usual so I opened my door, and creeped towards the stairs. I then began to hear some heavy breathing under the noise of the TV so I walked on the balls of my feet and peeked around the corner of the stairway and lo and behold, my sister is riding this 5 foot 6, fat, Filipino man (not that there is anything wrong being Filipino), who was a friend she had just recently met. I had to restrain every fiber of my being from charging down those stairs and tearing that man apart, it was honestly very tough Reddit. But I restrained myself and walked back to my room to mope.\n\nI did not confront her immediately afterward. \n\nIt wasn't until the guy had knocked on the door about a few days later (her boyfriend just left for a trip out of state for a week) that I could not allow it to continue. I took my sister upstairs, told her I knew and tried to press it into her mind that her boyfriend loves her very much. He treats her great and even the house we are currently living in with him, he had bought so he could start a family with her.\n\nShe said she wouldn't do it again but also after our conversation had left to hangout with him.\n\nNow I know this sounds naive because it could be possible she is still cheating on him but she gave me her word that she would not. I just don't know what I should do because I do have major guilt. This guy has essentially taken care of me, he has allowed me to live with him for the past year for free and has even fed me (I have been having trouble getting a job).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work part time in a hotel laundry room, and had a altercation with a member of the housekeeping staff on my shift today.\n\nPart of my job is to go up the each floor of the hotel and grab bags of dirty laundry and bring them down to the laundry room. Today, i was busy and didnt go to grab the last bags until 3. I am off shift at 4, so that still gave me plenty of time.\n\nBefore i could go upstairs, a member of the housekeeping team noticed the bags were still there and became very upset. She burst into the laundry room and began yelling at me about the issue.\n\nI was shocked at her behavior, but calmly stated that i was on my way to get the bags and had not forgotten. She kept yelling, becoming increasingly aggressive.\n\nI asked her politely to stop, and mentioned that in the future a polite conversation is all it takes if she has an issue with me.\n\nHer response to this was to call me a racist ( she is Chinese), and accuse me of not listening to my housekeeper co-workers because they are Asian.\n\nI told her that the conversation was over if she was going to accuse me of racism. I will not be speaking to her without a manager present from now on.\n\nI immediately sent a message to my direct supervisor who was off today, and plan on visiting the hotel tomorrow to speak to the general manager.\n\nI really need this job, I am a student. Otherwise, i cant see myself working somewhere where I am going to be verbally harassed and called a racist.\n\nReddit, any tips? I would like some outsider opinions because I am still feeling shaken up by this incident.\n\nHonestly, I have never seen an adult behave this way and I am not sure how to address it.\n\nI would also like to note that there was another person working in laundry with me that day, who was not yelled at despite the fact that we share responsibilities. He is willing to give a witness statement for me about the incident.\n\nThanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Aside from this, we don't really have any other problems.\n\nHe works 8 hours a day in a factory and also is a dancer at weekend nights. Besides, he goes to university (Product design. I study there too) and whatever little amount of free times he (we) get is spent studying or working on our designs.\nWe attend school at night and three times a week he also trains so seeing each other during weekdays is out of the question.\n\nWe also live with our respective parents, which limits even further the quality of our time together. We end up seeing each other maybe once every two weeks, and due to our family circumstances, get to have sex maybe once every three weeks.\n\nThis has come up several times already, and I don't want him to give up what he does because of me, because I know he will regret it later on. I don't work currently and even so, I have little free time as well, but I can make do and arrange my schedule to see him.\n\nYesterday he told me there was this cultural festival in our town, and he and his friends were scheduled to dance there. I am not invited to go with him. Said we could meet an hour before the festival for coffee, and I'd have to travel 1.5 hr each way to see him for an hour. I said I wasn't up for that since I have to study today, and that it made me sad that we could only see each other when he had a couple hours leftover from all his activities. \n\nSo here's the thing, I understand that the \"I don't have time\" situation is real, but it still makes me sad. He says he feels it as well and is tired of never being free, but that \"it will pass\". I know it won't pass unless he gives something up, but I don't want to be the reason he does.\n\nI am asking you here, reddit, not to tell me to break up with him, that option is already being considered. I just need advice on how to word this to him and work it out without directly and simply breaking up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, reddit. I've been stuck on this for some time now, and all of my friends can only seem to come up with \"wow...that sucks\". (understandably) But, maybe there's someone here with some life experience that can be relatable.\n\nMyself (female) and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 years. He's 29, I'm 23. We've had a pretty hefty share of hardships, but we've fought through and we're a stronger couple than ever. He is in every way my perfect complement, and vice versa. He treats me with respect, is always honest with me, and more supportive and patient than anyone I've ever met. We work so well together.\n\nThe problems come in with our plans for the future. I am going into my last semester of college. He's been out for a few years, and is going to be going to grad school next spring for a master's in video game design. I think it's awesome, and I think he'll be amazing at it, but I know that will require a lot of moving for at least the first 5-10 year chunk of his career. This doesn't fit too well with my dream, which is to open up my own photography studio and be a small business owner. Picking up and moving every 2 years doesn't really suit that.\n\nThe bigger issue is this: He has absolutely zero interest in having children. None whatsoever. I have never even considered NOT having children until he came along. I keep trying to tell myself that I can manage without them, that I can find work/volunteer work with children, and still find fulfillment there. But...I really don't know if that's true.\n\nMy response to this would probably just be to wait it out, enjoy my time with him, and see where our lives take us. However, his grad school endeavors have put us on a timetable. The school he's attending is on the other side of the country. So, effectively, I have a year, and then it's game point: Commit, and move away from everything I know to be with him in a future I am profoundly uncertain of, or abandon this man that so thoroughly completes me and start all over again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, my gf and I have been together for almost 3 years. They have not been perfect but who's relationship is? I have had an incredible time and I love her very much though. We broke up about 2 months ago, and have since been still seeing each other and hooking up occasionally, during which, I have been taking the time to really do fun and nice things with her which we didn't do much of before in our relationship like going out on dates etc. Things were going great up until the other day, when out of the blue she said she wants to stop. She says she doesn't see our relationship going anywhere and wants to just be single. Of course, my head goes crazy thinking she's found someone new, has a crush on someone, or is possibly hooking up with my ex-best friend (which is a long shot, even for me to believe but it's still there in my head) I am having a terrible time dealing with this, as my life has been spiraling downward over the past 2 months. We broke up, I lost my living arrangements, lost my friends, and just last weekend lost my job. And now I'm gonna lose her too. I'm so lonely and scared. I'm in a new place with no one to comfort me and be with me and I don't wanna lose her. It's not just the sex either, I don't wanna lose hanging out with her, having fun and experiencing life together. I can't say she's marriage material for me, but I still love what we're doing. I don't know what to do. Part of my head says she's right it may not work out, but the other part of me is screaming to do anything to keep her in my life. Please reddit, any advice or help would mean the world to me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "i am a senior in high school and I have been dating a junior for almost 2 months now. she is the first person I have ever dated for real and she was also my first kiss. But recently she told me that she doesn't know if she still wants to be In a relationship. I made the mistake of asking her to be official only after 3 dates and we haven't even been able to see eachother since. \n\nWe talked on the phone about our relationship toget and she told me that she still liked me but that she doesn't think she wants a relationship right now Because she has things going on in her life that she didn't want to tell me about. I still really care for this girl but I'm unsure of what she wants. We didn't official break up but she did say she didn't want a relationship but we can still talk. She told me she wouldn't be talking to other guys so I told her I wouldn't be talking to other girls. I'm unsure of if she wants us to go back to normal before we became \"official\" like back to just talking and going on dates or if she really wants me to leave her alone for a while. I don't want her to lead me on to wait for something that will never happen. I'm not sure what to do because I still care for this girl and I don't want to lose her. \n\nAlso I already bought her a box of chocolates and a card for Valentine's Day...should I still give it to her?\n\nIf I left something out or if this story didn't really make any since please let me know. I'm new to making posts on reddit", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 31 and not experienced dating, she is 37 and much more experienced than I. My past attempts at dating have been squashed by my own in securities, but with her, I have not struggled much with the same problems. In the first two weeks I did but I was able to work through the feelings and get past them. I genuinely feel I'm falling in love with her but I have only felt a small bit of the exciting dopamine fueled romantic feelings that I had in the past failed attempts. She struggles with bipolar disorder, and we had a long discussion the other night when she was feeling particularly low.and one point she confessed that she did not feel romantically towards me either, and was not sure she ever would. There was no hint that this meant she wanted to change our relationship in any way, but I have been thinking a lot about the conversation. Things I know: I feel safe when with her, and she feels the same, we love each others company, and while we don't get to see each other all the time I have never doubted her care for me, but I alsonknow that this is not what I had initially expected when asking her to date.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone,\n\nI've had a really tough week and feeling at an all-time low and just need some support/advice. I am over working and studying long hours and haven't been sleeping well. My whole body is aching from sitting all day and all I have been doing in binge eating. I want to lose weight, but it's this vicious cycle I can't seem to get out of. I have tried so hard to work out and eat healthy this week, but from a lack of sleep, and stress l I seem to be failing. I find myself snacking on kitkat/biscuits/other sweets people bring at work non-stop. It's like I can't control myself. I don't remember being like this. I feel good for the few minutes I'm eating and then I feel guilty for it and promise myself I won't do it again. 10 minutes later I find myself in the kitchen thinking \"fuck it I feel awful, I deserve it.\" I feel so shitty and alone.\n\nI was talking to my boyfriend about it this morning, but he has the opposite problem. He is very very skinny and forgets to eat/not hungry and is trying to gain weight. He complains about not getting enough sleep and being sore when I sleep MUCH less than him and work out more. He is not encouraging with my workouts and doesn't even do what I do, and I'm an out of shape girl that smokes. When I told him about the binge eating he didn't say anything other than \"Have a good day at work.\" I was livid. I am so angry with him.\nSorry about the rant – really need some support PLEASE PLEAS PLEASE, have no one to talk to about this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently shopped around and went to a dealership to see what kind of financing I could get for a vehicle on their lot that I really liked and thought I could get a good deal out of. I requested a $10,000 loan.\n\nThe way my credit was at the time, I had 100% on time payments with a 12 month credit history of payments, I also had a new line from Best Buy credit that has been going two months now. Prior to this loan request, I had a 678 score. \n\nShortly after talking with the dealer and running my credit, I decide that I'm not financially set enough to be buying a car. To add insult to injury, I find out over the next couple weeks that they contacted 18 various banks and credit unions for financing...all denying my loan. I would read each letter stating the reasons for denial and seeing my score drop... 658...647...630...625...and now finally 615 where I'm at the end of the inquiries. During this time, I managed to miss ONE payment from Best Buy which resulted in a single interest charge and double payment that I caught up on the next month. I am current on the payment of that now. \n\nI also applied for a credit card and I believe I was approved (since it was through my current bank) and I should be receiving one next week.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The situation is: my husband and I sleep in a queen-sized bed. We have two cats, the boy cat (\"B\") and the girl cat (\"Peanut\"). Peanut is overweight and stressed out because the two cats do not get along; we just recently figured out a reduced feeding schedule that works for her, so now she's hungry a lot of time too. She's never been a snuggly cat. B recently became an excellent bed-sleeping-cat, and I'm starting to think Peanut feels even more neglected. I really want to make sleeping a bonding time. She occasionally tries to sleep on the bed with us, but...\n\nSince Peanut is more shy, she likes to wait until we are quite settled on the bed before she jumps up (about 40 minutes). She picks a spot, lays down - and then goes into a vigorous and lengthy grooming routine. I swear she uses the bedsprings to propel her to hard-to-reach areas. My gut says this lasts about 10 minutes. \n\nBeing woken up 40 minutes after I go to bed and kept awake for another 10 is not an option for me. (This part is not Peanut's fault, but I am a light sleeper, and when I am woken up at the beginning of my sleep cycle, I can be extremely irritable.) Right now I try to let her jump up and get settled, but nudge her off the bed when/if the grooming starts. However, Peanut is also a bit touchy, and will sometimes squawk and swipe her claws at me when I interrupt her, at which point we are both furious and miserable. \n\nI've had some success in training cats in the past - I know consistency is key, but I can't figure out what plan to follow.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not too familiar with in-depth copyright laws so I get nervous when I see a strike or cease and desist on Youtube and such.\n\nRight now, I'm making a free choose-your-own-adventure game and I'm not a music composer. I find it super hard to ask someone to compose a whole soundtrack for me for free. So I managed to find a few sites that offer free music, but sometimes it's not enough. I really like a couple of Youtube users' covers on popular songs, both of English and Japanese language, but I'm aware that cease-and-desist or maybe lawsuit could occur from the companies that hold the rights to the original songs.\n\nFor example, I like [this] to be one of the endings' theme song and would like to ask the cover artist's permission, but I'm afraid of having to take down the entire game because the company holding copyright will order a cease-and-desist. I mean I could find substitution for those songs targeted as infringement, but it would be less than what I envisioned.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For me, it would be when I would walk into my room, about three or four steps in, and something would catch my foot and cut it pretty good. I would look at the spot where I got cut, but I couldn't see anything. This has been an on-going problem for about six or so months. Almost everyday, I would get some kind of scratch or cut on the bottom of my feet. \n\nToday, I got cut again, so I decided to take another look at what it could possibly fucking be. I found it! It looked like a staple of some sort, I assumed from laying the carpet down when my house was built. No. It was not a staple. It was a fucking needle. A two inch needle. In my carpet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my boyfriend (19/M) and I (18/F) have been dating for about 2 or 3 months now but I have a gut feeling that something isn't right. Sometimes when we're laying down in bed or driving in the car and he gets a text he'll turn his phone screen to make sure that I can't see it. When he sets his phone down the screen is always facing down and if I pick up his phone even to just move it he freaks out. We had one really bad fight and he left me crying outside, since then we've talked and everything seems to be okay but he still hides his phone and now will take hours to text back and often tries to cancel hanging out. Am I over thinking it or could he be up to something?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've (25/F) been with my partner (32/M) for maybe five years now. We've been engaged for ~2 years and have a one year old child together. We recently bought a house together.\n\nAfter our child was born (so 4 years into the relationship) my partner \"opened up\" to me about his \"kinks\" - he wants to wear women's clothing, be dominated etc. Okay, not my thing but I'll work with it. Now a year later he's started telling me that he wants to cross dress, like in public. He says that he has felt like this for a long long time but was \"too scared\" to tell me.\n\nI don't know exactly how I feel about the cross-dressing thing. I don't know if this is going to \"progress\" any further. I don't think there's anything wrong with cross-dressing per se but I'm not attracted to women, I don't want to be judged for his choices (our families/friends WOULD judge) etc.\n\nI am absolutely FURIOUS that he waited until we had a child, bought a house... He waited until I was financially dependent on him to bring this up. I feel like it has the potential to change the nature of our relationship and I really don't like that he allowed our relationship to progress so far while lying (even if by omission) about this to me. I sort of feel like he waited until I was \"trapped\" to bring this up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend [19M] and I [18F] have been having serious talks about moving in together recently, starting our futures together, etc. But one thing is keeping me from wanting to pursue this relationship any further. \n\nOver the weekend I discovered that he has an Instagram account where he follows over 30 regular looking, younger girls with pictures of them on beach trips, posing with friends, and just average pictures of their lives. When I asked him if he knew any of these girls in real life or anything, my boyfriend said no, he uses them as material to masturbate to. \n\nThis is incredibly weird to me, and I've told him before that I'm uncomfortable with him looking at these images of other women instead of me. He argued that these girls are \"sluts\" and are posting these pictures because they want guys online to look at them. I disagree. These are younger girls who are just posting a beach picture here and there. They are not \"sluts\" by any means I don't think. \n\nMy boyfriend said he would delete the Instagram account since it made me so uncomfortable and I began crying when he made the above argument. Is it even worth it making him delete the account? I've been so creeped out ever since discovering it and am rethinking everything.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated a young woman for 5 years. We lived together. Our breakup was not dramatic, just a necessary and sad consequence of personal issues on both or parts. \n\nI don't pretend to be 100% over the last 5 years, but I am comfortable with the fact that it's over, and that I would like to move on and begin to explore my other options.\n\nHowever, my ex and I went to high school together. I went through all of college without ever dating. I have never done what constitutes the normal dating process, and am at a total loss for how to proceed. Apps for casual meet ups like Tinder primarily produce awkward conversations with people who end up being robots. I'm not unattractive, but I'm not in shape either. I'm reasonably well-off, employed, and all those other things that you think of on a basic, superficial check list.\n\nBut disregarding all that, I have no idea how to begin. I'm in a new city with no close friends, and I would love the opportunity just to connect with young women my age. It's strange– I've never had any anxiety or difficulty around conversation with women before, and I don't now, either, but it is definitely kind of paralyzing not knowing how to start.\n\nI know this isn't a super unusual story, but if you try and google how to start dating in your 20s just about everything is either about being a woman or about how to act like a total ass. I'm trying to avoid both of those. \n\nAnyone have any advice? Pointers? Tips?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met a girl on OKCupid. We met up, clicked, and have been out around 10 times together now. We both live at our respective homes, me as I pay off my student loans, whereas she is a commuter at her university. \n\nWe've expressed multiple times how it would be great to actually finish a date and spend the night together but sadly it just hasn't happened yet. We are exclusively seeing one another and I'm very happy. \n\nI am in a situation I've never been in before, as she is a very independent girl and I'm used to ones that are more communicative and open with what they are feeling and doing. I have a hard time trying to figure out what is going on in her mind. Because of this, I'm not sure if I'm being too distant or too clingy when I message her or see her. \n\nCan anyone else who has been in this situation before, shed some light on what they did to put themselves at ease while seeing someone independent? I like this girl a lot but don't want to scare her off by encroaching on her \"me\" time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday I hit up a former high school classmate (now 22). We talked for about an hour about how our lives changed since then, what are we doing now for a living, etc. \n\nIt was a pretty funny conversation, and I thought it went well. We say each other goodbye, and she says she'd like to keep in touch. I feel the same and say that's fine with me.\n\nBefore this we never actually had a real conversation, so I felt this went pretty well and I sincerely looked forward to knowing her better.\n\nOk, so here's the deal now:\n\nToday, there's a post of hers on my FB feed that says something like this (in an image):\n\n\"I hate you, but I won't exclude you because I enjoy seeing you being ridiculous on the Internet. You freak\" \nfollowed by a comment from another of our former classmates \"you're going at it strong today!\"\n\nSo now, it's one of 2 things:\n\nI hugely misinterpreted everything that she said in our conversation, and she was blowing me off from the get-go\n\nor\n\nThat post isn't meant for me (pretty unlikely).\n\nI don't even know this girl that well, and she admitted that she didn't know much about me either. \n\nIs it possible for a person to hate you before she even gets to know you? \nI'm pretty sure you can't do that without outside interference. (i.e. her friends talking shit about me, they're all former classmates of ours) \nAnd this doesn't fit her personality at all, she used to be really nice to everyone.\n\nThis is a bit of a blow to be honest. I feel I should never talk to her again, I don't want to intrude where I'm not wanted, but I'm available to read any thoughts on this...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a freelancer and being one in my country, I basically cannot take up loans under my name because I can't provide proof I have a stable income even though my salary is higher than the average in my field. I wanted to buy a car for my parents to help them with their small business. So I asked my aunt to put the car loan under her name. She agreed and I got the car last year.\n\nThen I was eating dinner last night when I received a text from my aunt asking me: \n\n>wifiproblem001, why are you not sharing your wifi anymore? We're paying for it promptly but why are you so selfish when I did you a favor of using my name and credentials so that you can buy a car?\n \n\nI have two internet connection at home from different provider so that I can have a backup just in case my main connection fails. My work heavily relies on the internet so I cannot really afford to lose internet connection. I am sharing the backup connection with my aunt as I rarely use it. We both agreed before that we'll split the cost but the last payment that my aunt gave me was last January and they dont really pay on time. Sometimes they skip months or whenever they feel like paying(these were even before I asked her for the car loan). So I told her that the last payment they had was last January and I thought they don't want to use the wifi anymore because I kept on asking her daughter and she kept on saying she don't know and they're not paying anymore. \n\nNow what I am afraid to happen is that my aunt will ask the bank to cancel the loan and have the car repossessed. I can totally see her doing that because she's quite bitchy(a lot of people hate her). All the money that I already paid in advance to the bank + the downpayment I initially paid will all go to waste. What should I do??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Anyone have any tips for not being jealous over a person's past? \n\nI know it's irrational, as I have a past that's arguably much harder to think about.\n\nMy problem is thinking about my girlfriend having been with men. I've only ever been with women and worry she'll feel like there's something missing with me, or that it's an experience she can never quite have with me. \n\nIt's complicated by her having hooked up with a guy from her past after coming out and dating a girl. She says it was a mistake and terrible and it was long before we were together, but it still sometimes bothers me to think of. \n\nShe does not like men, says her past experience means nothing and she never even thinks about it, and I know that, but my anxiety sometimes gets the better of me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've known this girl, I myself am 20 and she is 19, for quite some time now and we became friends very quickly. I've only recently begun to develop feelings for her, but it's been quite obvious to me for some time that she has had and now shares those feelings. I've really been trying to hide my feelings though because she; however, is in what her family, friends, and I call a terrible relationship. \n\nShe no longer has any guy friends left because they were all scared off by this guy and she's trying her hardest to keep the fact that she's been talking to and hanging out with me on the regular a secret because she's afraid that he'll harass me or try and hurt me. \n\nHer sister and I are also starting to get concerned that the relationship might become physically abusive. I would like to specify that at this point it is only to the, best of my and her families knowledge, a verbally argumentative relationship, but she's told me it's been getting worse recently. And they have been dating for 6 months.\n\nI've never really been one to ask for advice, but I don't know if I should continue being passive and deal with the problems as they come or if I should just put myself out there? I'm just afraid if I do that I'll risk pushing her away and losing someone I consider to be my best friend. \n\nThat's my conflict, I just want to know what you think and if I should do anything at all, I know this is a rather small bit of information to go on so any advice at all would be helpful.\n\nThanks", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend, Sally, is engaged to Brian (names changed). Sally is a wonderful friend, and I'm friends with Brian, as well. The three of us hang out together a lot. \n\nI'll make this part short and to the point. I was recently told by my psychiatrist that I have PTSD. I am having flashbacks of childhood trauma and abuse- I'm not sure if it occurred, and it's very traumatic. Sally has been fantastic throughout all of this. She's listened to me, told me I'm not crazy, etc. \n\nLast night I found out that Sally has told Brian about what I've told her. I'm... Really hurt. This is very private and sensitive, and I didn't expect her to go and tell Brian. At the same time, I get telling your fiancé everything, not keeping secrets, etc. But. This was my secret. My story. Even beyond my hurt, I'm embarrassed that she told him. This is very hard for me to process, and I've gone through many moments of feeling like \"am I crazy?\" \n\nDo I have a right to be upset? Should I confront Sally?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, I need some advice from you.\nAbout three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So since mid-July my boyfriend and his dad have been doing the annual Ramadan, as my SO is half Muslim. He does it out of practice since his dad has made him do it since he hit puberty, and naturally it progressed into just being a thing he does every summer. Anyways, if you don't know what Ramadan is, look up some specifics on it but a brief description is that Muslims cannot eat from dawn to dusk for a month long period, as well as other rules such as no touching/intimacy with loved ones, ingesting water, taking medications, etc. \n\nWithout food or drink, during the blazing hot summer, you'd think someone would get a little moody. Truth. My boyfriend's dad is going nuts. He normally is every other 11 months of the year, but currently, it's some sort of ongoing insecurities with my boyfriend also stepping up in his adulthood by getting his licence, a career and paying bills, all in sequence. I don't know if that has something to do with it but I believe it does, as he is the eldest (by over 10 years) and his dad has some cultural expectations for him, as well as threats of throwing him out of the house, not doing enough for his mom, and so forth. To say in the least, it's very hard to witness and hear about. \n\nSo I'm writing this asking any other Redditors if you have every had a SO with a personal choice or a parents' influence to do Ramadan, and how you (as a non-participator) felt/dealt with it? \n\nAlso, how can I stop feeling distaste towards his dad, as I see this packing on more and more emotional weight on my SO?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I love them dearly and our family is very close despite the distance, but because of my headspace (ADHD and past history with PTSD and anxiety) several months later, I don't feel connected like I used to because I haven't seen them for such a long time and my memories have drastically faded since it's been half a year now. \n\nI used to reach out a lot, but now I don't feel the need to reach out at all. Is it okay if I don't make the initiative with them anymore now that several months have passed by since I last saw them? I'll probably see them again in less than a year. I don't want it to seem like I'm upset at them or anything, I just feel like my 'needs' have changed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been dating for a bit over 3 months and her b-day is coming up. I'd like to do something special for her. It's been a huge struggle to figure out what to buy/make for her as a present because she literally doesn't want ANYTHING. She is a very charitable person and is always looking into volunteering and donating. At first I was thinking of donating to a charity/organization of her choice, but I decided that I actually want to do something instead (or maybe along with donating). I have access to a 3D printer that my buddy owns so I was thinking of making something using that. However there are a couple of problems which is why I am making my plea to you redditors!\n\n1) I have no artistic capabilities and can not graphically design anything. Thus it must be something that already exists (for example things from thingiverse.com) (Or if one of you amazing redditors can make me something that would be beyond amazing!)\n\n2) I want it to be thoughtful and a tiny bit cheesy, but something that tailors to her charitable, nice, intelligent traits.\n\n3) I have about 20 days to make and paint whatever object I decide upon.\n\nHere are a few ideas I saw on thingiverse.com that caught my eye:\n[Heart and Key](\n\n[Nice Bracelet](\n\n[Twisty Bracelet](\n\nI looked around for a good subreddit for this and I feel like this is somewhat of a thought-provoking question, hence why I posted it here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A sweet sweet secretary at my work knows I'm gay so she always tries to go out of her way to make me feel welcomed. As a result, she convinced herself that I REALLY wanted to watch the movie \"Mamma Mia\" because I'd love it SO MUCH (...because I'm gay).\n\nNow, I don't normally watch movies, let alone movies without explosions or decapitations. The back of the movie made it sound even more boring (Random chick getting married goes on a zany adventure to find her real father - with madcap muscial results!) I have no intention of sitting 90+ minutes through a fucking musical, so I am appealing to the good folks at reddit to help me to trick her into thinking I watched it. \n\nWhat are some scenes I can reference to make it seem like I watched it, or things I can say (thinking along the lines of \"Wow...Meryl Streep really had a tour de force performance!\" or \"Collin Firth is such a cad...and such a dreamboat!\") to make it seem like I gave two shits about it. I know I can read reviews online, but I need specific scenes or themes that will work in a small talk like conversation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Short and simple one here, folks. All names, both canine and human, are fake. My fiance (26M) and I are likely adopting a dog who is currently named \"Pearl.\" We're both really into Roman mythology, and would like to rename the dog \"Minerva.\" \n\nIt just so happens that I have a coworker named Minerva. We're not on the same team, nor are we friends, so I really don't talk to her that much, although we are Facebook friends. Given that it's a small office, I do see her often, and I'm kind of worried that it might be awkward when it gets back to her that we named our dog \"after her.\" She'll definitely see our posts on Facebook.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short, my girlfriend is the eldest in her family. Mama Bear through and through. Three younger siblings, Kay (21F), Jay(19M), and Bee(17F). Recently, she came into the knowledge that Bee had been seen in bed with Kay's boyfriend(21M) while Kay was at work.\n\nLong story long, Brother comes down to visit recently and walks into the family home where Kay, the boyfriend, and Bee still live. He's looking around and walks past Bee's open door where he sees two people clearly having sex under the blankets. Figures Bee has a guy over and goes into the kitchen for a while looking for others in the house. Turns out there are only two people in the whole house. No other cars.\nHe then realizes that it was Bee and Kay's boyfriend in the bed together. He confronts Bee saying what she's doing is messed up. She says she has no idea what he's even talking about. \nHe lets it go because there is family trip planned and all the siblings are going north to visit family together. And pulling all this drama out right before the trip would be a seriously terrible idea. So he tells their Dad about it after the trip is over. And my girlfriend's dad tells her about it. She immediately calls Jay to verify and get details. \n\nDetails are verified. This is bad. \n\nShe wants to tell Kay or find a way to get them to break up. I don't want Kay to be with someone who cheats on her but I know that if my girlfriend tells her then the relationship between all the siblings is going to suffer greatly.\n\nBut the boyfriend lives in that house with both sisters. This could have happened a bunch of times or just the once. There is no real proof and everything is circumstantial.\n\nSo neither of us know what to do now. Any advice?\n\nDisclaimer: In my state, 17 is the legal age of consent, so there is no laws being broken.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my husband for 13 years, married for 8 of those years and he have 4 children together. We've had lots of rough times over the years over a bunch of things but more so over him trying to hook up with women behind my back (6 incidence that I know of). Over the years my self esteem took a nose dive until last year when he left me. He was gone for 5 months and during that time I found myself. I'm not gorgeous and a bit over weight (5 feet, 140lbs) but I know I'm not hideous and can hold my own. Fast forward to last week, my husband looked at me and said \"you wouldn't be able to find anyone else if we weren't together\", I couldn't believe it! I stood my ground and said \"oh yes, I could!!\" He then accused me of trying to find someone else behind his back, which I didn't! I just know I can! He then looked like he had tears in his eyes and shut me out completely, he hasn't talked to me since then. What's his problem?! He's acts as if I NEED him!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bf(36) is still good friends with his ex who he dated for 3 years about 7 years ago. She cheated on him, so they broke up. She lives in another state so I have never met her. They talk on the phone fairly often, I think at least monthly. \n\nWhen we moved in together 6 months ago I asked him not talk to her on the phone while I was at home with him because it made me feel bad (ignored), but that I still wanted them to be friends if that's what they wanted. \n\nRecently I discovered she was living in our city again and that my bf had seen her twice without telling me. It made me feel betrayed and I didn't understand it. \n\nMy instinct is to find out more about this girl so I can understand their past and present relationship better and feel more comfortable about it. Should I ask for more info about her or will knowing make it worse?\n\nI saw a message from her a few months ago that said xoxo and while it didn't bother me then, it now makes me wonder what kind of communication they have and what the relationship is about. Should I ask about it and the text specifically even though I didn't mention it when it happened? \n\nHow can we communicate about this without me sounding jealous?\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Stats: F/50/5'7\" SW: 234 lb / CW: 207 lb / GW: 159 lb (for now)\n\nHello, loseit! I have enjoyed lurking here, it has been very helpful and informative, so I thought I would ask this question of MFP (or other calorie track app) users.\n\nI have been using MyNetDiary for logging, which I like very much on the whole – easy to use, good database, etc. The only thing I dislike is that it seems to hate eggs! Their suggested macros skew towards low-fat, high-ish carb, lean protein only intake, which is basically fine with me because it's how I pretty much prefer to eat anyway.\n\nHowever, I have adjusted my diet to bump up the protein a little more, at the expense of sacrificing some carb calories. Not low-carb by any means - just lower than they suggest- because by experimenting I have found this tweak increases my level of satiety substantially. Yay!\n\nMyNetDiary tolerates this well enough (i.e., no warning flags in my \"Analysis\")…unless, Ed forbid, I include as little as a single large egg in my day. Then I get yellow flags about my sat fat and cholesterol intake. And if I want to see it really go apeshit, all I have to do is happen to also have red meat (rarely) and/or a few grams of light butter (occasionally) on the same day. Then it goes all DANGER WILL ROBINSON! Grrrr.\n\nI eat at most 1 large egg in a day, and I'm not going to drop eggs from my diet, I just find it irritating AF to see these warning flags, as if I am chunking gobs of lard into my food or something. X/\n\nDoes MFP / other apps \"behave\" the same way? TIA for your replies!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Bf and I [both 26yo] been together over a year and half now. I don't like the fact that he still keeps in touch with his ex's family [mainly her parents and her brothers & sister].\nHe knows how strongly I feel about this and how much it bothers me, yet he still keeps in touch with them. I believe when you break up with someone, it should be a clean, no contact whatsoever break, and that includes family too. I'm not in contact with any of my exes or their family, out of respect for my significant other, but I don't get why my bf doesn't understand this, and he knows that it bothers me.\nWhat to do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had difficulty with distance running due to strong knee pain. My endurance is great, I can cycle for very long distances, but I can't run because my knees give out around 8 to 10 mies.\nI went to the Orthopedist who did a full series of x-rays and pronounced my knees in excellent condition. Then he had me do a bunch of balance exercises and told me that balance and \"hip stability\" was my issue. He prescribed PT, but my insurance is kinda crappy and 3x's/week PT will run me around $300/month. That's a bit steep.\nSo, has anyone else had knee issues due to balance and hip stability? What did you do? Are there balancing exercises I can do at home and not spend a ton of money on PT?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yes, I know this may be the wrong place to post, and that there's one specifically designed for teenagers. But hang on a second. This is a series of messages we've been sending back and forth.\n\nMe: Hey, next weekend, would you like to go out with me? Or if you're not free, the weekend after? :)\n\nHer, the day after: I'm so sorry I just saw this now but yes I'd love to! I should be free x :))\n\nMe: Alright, sounds great :) x how about [location] on Saturday?\n\nHer: Sounds like an awesome plan:)\n\nMe: Okay, cool. Can I pick you up at yours? And at what time?\n\nno response\n\nMe, a day later: So are you still up for [location] on Saturday?\n\nHer: Of course I'm still up for it <3\n\nMe: I'd like to pick you up at yours, if that's alright -- what time should I pick you up? X\n\nno response\n\nNow, at this point, I realised that I might have been a bit forward, asking to go to hers on the first date (the idea being I'd get her flowers). Fair enough.\n\nMe, two days later: Hey, if you still want to go -- how about meeting at [different location] instead of at yours? x\n\nNo response\n\nMe, on the morning we were supposed to go out: Oh, okay. Nevermind :/\n\nNow, the last couple of messages weren't read at all by her, so it could be that she just wasn't available. But hang on a minute, she's been posting quite a bit on social media during the time, so what's that all about?\n\nAlso, this is completely different to what's been going on previously, where we would be talking regularly and often. So this is quite decisively against her normal behaviours. What's going on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my fiance for 3 and a half years now. She is bi-polar and I have ADD and depression. We both go to therapy, and we both (admittedly) have good days and bad days with respect to our emotional states.\n\nRecently she's noticed that she isn't very nice to me. In fact she can be pretty darn scary. Scary to the point that it affects the communication in our relationship. I find myself unable to express opinions without fear of her lashing out because of what I said. She's aware of this and expressed a desire to be nicer to me. She said that she doesn't like to be mean to me and that I don't deserve it, but she doesn't know how. She said that she's afraid it will ultimately ruin our relationship and asked for my help. \n\nI have no clue how to help her be nicer to me. Any ideas or experience with this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/relationships! I'm new here but desperately need your help, so we'll start with the first thing.\n\nWell, my girlfriend (Alana) and I (Ryan) are both 21 years old, and we've been dating for 2 years and 3 months!\n\nAnyway, this past Sunday, she's experienced her first family death, being her Uncle who has passed away from Lung Cancer. Now I've had relatives pass away before but the latest one was 5 years ago, and I wasn't that close with them. However, her family is super close, so it's impacting everyone so much.\n\nNow, I have never helped a partner get through the death of a relative, so I'm not sure how I should act/behave or what I should say...Do I treat this like anyone else?\n\nSecondly, there is the matter with her father. Her mom and dad have been divorced all her life, and she grew up with her mom seeing her dad occasionally. They weren't exactly close until about 4 years ago, but now they are severing their relationship and I have NO idea how to deal with this.\n\nI've never dealt with something like this...I have no idea where to start or what to say. Her dad and I got along quite well but I'm obviously going to support her with every decision she makes, unless it's absolutely ludicrous.\n\nSo there you have it, and any help is greatly appreciated! If I've submitted this to the wrong subreddit I do apologise and you can kindly point me in the correct direction.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here is the link to the [Original Post] \n\nJust a recap we have been married for 8 months. I'm a 22F and my husband is a 24M.\n\nThank you everyone for your advice when it came to my husband. I sat him down and told him that I supported him 100% but that I was working full time and needed him to work at finding a job on his own. I told him that I was here to answer any questions about applications he might have. He seemed to really take it to heart. He has really been knocking the applications out and has applied to 15+ places in the last few days. \n\nHe's been realizing that even if it's just part time it is something to put on his resume to show that he's working. He's looking at it in the perspective of, get a job now and look for something better. That way he still has an income to contribute and can work on finding something with more hours/better pay. \n\nHis depression is getting better now, too. I think me working 40 hours a week was eating at him and now that he's really trying harder to find a job, he seems happier. I know he's still struggling a bit with everything. I'm not expecting 100% improvement in a matter of days. I know it will take awhile for him to get back to his normal self. I have high hopes for him. Thanks for your advice /r/relationships!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Jack and I have been together for about 18 months. Throwaway as he uses reddit. \n\nWe both have an interest in cars, and Jack has a really nice sports car. He has never let me drive it, which I've always been sort of ok with because I know it's his baby, although I have asked if I can drive it.\n\n I recently found out that he has let his coworker (28f) drive it on a couple of occasions. As far as I know she has no particular interest in cars and I can't think of any reason she would need to drive it as I know she has her own car. She is a very attractive, outgoing person and I'm worried what it means that Jack let her drive his car. \n\nI asked him about it, and all he said is that she asked if she could drive it, so he let her. He thinks I'm overreacting and I don't really know where to go from here.", "role": "user" } ]

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