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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Classic situation, friends for a LONG time (for 13 years, we are both 18). Boy goes to senior prom with girl, asks girl out, rejected, dejected, good night. Only the next day do I realize how seriously bad I feel.\n\nShe has 2 proms. Mine which was yesterday and her other friend's (let's call him Pat). I sweet talk her, I mean seriously. I tell her how much she means to me, how I feel, and how I want the whole \"more than friends shebang.\" Cheesy, you betcha. She stepped back from us slow dancing as I said this and from her face I could just tell it was going to be a \"let him down easy\" moment. We are now just as good friends as before but I now know she is crazy about Pat.\n\nTHE TWIST: I'm part of a group of friends who is seeing her off next week for their prom. I shouldn't be so selfish. She is my friend and I value that so much and she is happy with this guy who is actually nice. I feel like such shit though. I know I should just move on; she just does not see me as anything more than a good friend. But I can't do it. I'm such a hopeless romantic, really. I do not want to \"give up\" on a relationship. I'm crazy about her guys. How can I hang around with her and Pat to stay close to her, but not feel like crap everytime I do? Any other advice is also greatly appreciated. Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just accepted my first \"big\" job offer with a solid salary ($45k), full health benefits, and all the good stuff. This job is going to take me to a new state, to a small college town. The houses are affordable (I'm looking at the $50k-120k range) and I have no debt, with about $10,000 in savings and an old but operable and paid off car. I've been pre-qualified for up to ~$150k for a home loan. It'll probably have to be an FHA loan because I don't have much for a down payment. \n\nIn my head, buying a small house seems like a great idea. I would be investing my money into property instead of \"giving it away\" to another landlord like the past 5 years. But all my family members seem to think it's a bad idea. \"It's a lot of work,\" or \"maybe you won't like the town you're moving to\" is their advice. \n\nAm I overlooking some big issues? What should I consider in making the decision to buy a home early in my life? Would it be better to invest my new income stream into something else? Other than the savings, I have about $200 worth of mediocre stocks. No other investments.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was assessed with minor depressive disorder a few months back. I work out, do yoga, sleep well ect. I'm perfectly OK right now, but if any of you guys are familiar or have experienced depression how long/diffulcat it can be to feel like \"you\" again.\n\n Anyways I'm absolutely terrified of starting a relationship because if things even go remotely bad I fall apart. I'm really sensitive to the idea no longer being \"liked\" by the person I care about. \n\n I have repetitive cycle I always slip into; It basically goes like this. \n\nHappy, Healthy & Confident (me right now)> find a girl I really like > date girl for 2- 4 weeks > things go bad > 7month - 2 year(max) long depressive episode > Happy Again > repeat.\n\nI've honestly experienced this cycle for the last 10 years of my life, I've dated about 5 girls. Then I'm a bit of wreck afterwards. It's something that I think about a lot, whether or not I will ever be able to have any sort of lasting relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It was a normal night, I'd just gone to bed and was about to take my glasses off. I set them on the nightstand, but it was wet and sticky. I remembered that we went to McDonalds previously and had left a cup with some coke left in it. It was leaking. It was just pop so I drank it as fast as I could and put my glasses back on the night stand after wiping it up. It tasted slightly weird as I was drinking it, but I was drinking really fast so I didn't fully notice, but when I pulled my lips off the straw, the most intense taste of windex filled up my mouth and I started gagging. I went into my girlfriends room which was right beside it, she was sleeping but I thought drinking windex or whatever cleaning chemicals she put in there was cause enough to wake her, and asked her if she put anything into the McDonalds cup. She said \"no\", surprisingly. I said \"That's weird, because it tastes like chemicals\" to which she probably fell back asleep and didn't respond. I went back to bed and thought about what it could be and fell asleep shortly after, not coming to any real conclusions. I wake up this morning and am about ready to go to work when girlfriend walks in my section of the basement. She lays down beside me and we start talking. She started by saying she's been up since early and that she had some time to think about stuff and that she remembers me asking about the McDonalds cup. Apparently she was so tired when I woke her up that she gives those asleep responses that people give when they're not fully awake and seem to be responding without being conscious when she said \"No\". She said she put two Lysol Wipes in the McDonalds cup. Gross. But the problem is that I remember her talking about having to clean up some cat shit from the basement where we sleep.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background first. We have been dating since school and have been together over 10 years and have discussed marriage for a while now. We also did a lot of mock proposals with plastic rings and random objects for fun. We chose a ring together last month so I was expecting him to ask soon. \n\nToday, after we had sex and had our clothes back on he shows me the certificate which I eagerly take a look at in the bed. Then he took the box out and showed me the ring. I said \"cool is that it?\", he then goes down on one knee while I'm still laying on the bed and awkwardly asks in a joking manner \"will you marry me\". I said yes stick my hand out and he puts the ring on. After ogling the ring for a bit I was a bit confused and asked if he was serious, which he said he was. Being a bit disappointed I just let it soak for a bit and then suggested he re-do it tomorrow (at a regular place we go) and basically am telling him how to do it, because I don't want to explain our \"real\" proposal to family and friends. \n\n(P.s. We don't live together) \n\nInitially I was quite happy, but now I'm at home trying to sleep, but I can't help having negative thoughts. Such as how little effort and thought he placed into it and how easy it would of been to have done more research into it (he does far more research for his hobbies). Am I right to think he hadn't given it much thought cause he knows the answer will be yes? I can't help thinking I deserve better. \n\nSorry for my ramblings, I just kind of wanted to know if what I'm feeling is right or if I'm just over thinking things. I'm afraid this will taint what's supposed to be a happy memory.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex broke up with me because she lost feelings. She tells me that it was a good relationship and she wishes she didn't lose feelings but she had to do what was right and not stick around just for my sake, which I understand and am thankful she didn't. \n\nMy Ex and I still talk almost every day, and recently I sent her a snaphat of one of 'our songs' with a funny caption. She texted me almost immediately saying that she is upset and misses me heaps, but she still has no feelings so we won't be able to date again.\n\nMy question is, how to I start those feelings up again? I miss her too and wish we didn't break up so I want to try and get her to catch feelings again but I don't know how to go about it especially when it seems like she is rejecting the idea of trying?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I was with my hetero life-mate looking at some used cars from craigslist. We went to look at one that was in a slightly shady part of town and everything was going great. However, I guess he accidentally left the driver's side window of his car cracked open just far enough for someone to slip their arm in and unlock the door. When our meetup/test drive was finished he couldn't find his Nexus anywhere. We frantically searched all of his stuff and we asked the lady if she had seen his Droid but no such luck. She even let us check the car we came to see and we TORE IT APART looking for the damn thing. We immediately went to Verizon and did everything necessary to report it stolen. This was all just yesterday BTW. Today, he has a brand spankin' new Nexus (gotta hand it to Verizon for being johnny on the spot) and he's re-downloading his apps at counting his losses for his amazon purchases.\n\nCompletely out of left field, the lady showing us the car just called to tell me that she found it in the trunk... sigh... I told my buddy and he agreed that if I paid the balance for his new one I could just keep his old one. Problem is: I'm pretty smart phone illiterate and was planning to get a new one after I got a car and re-saved up the money for it (rockin' a pre-pay tank of a Nokia like a hipster). So is there any way I can set it up so I can have and use his old one? Keep in mind that we did report it stolen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need to leave my partner of 4.5 years, but I don't know where to go.\n\nLong story short... we are just two different people and want two different things out of life. We get along well enough as friends, but we have very little romantic, and no sexual (he was abusive) attraction between us. All we do is either ignore each other, or bicker over petty crap. A few days ago, he tried to grab a knife out of my hands because he didn't want me to make dinner for him. It is beyond toxic.\n\nUnfortunately I am financially dependent on him, 100%. I cannot survive on my own. I have no education, no job, nothing to my name. I suffer from chronic depression and anxiety, and could not handle the stress of a full time job. It makes things very difficult.\n\nMy family is loving and supportive, but they barely have a sofa for me to sleep on. They are going through their own financial hardships, and I cannot burden them. I also have pets that need safe accommodation.\n\nWhere the hell do I go? I feel so trapped. My relationship is so destructive, and I know it needs to end, before I spiral even further down. But where do I go? Who do I turn to? I cannot even fathom starting to get my own **** together when I'm living with someone who, in part, put me in this situation. He is NOT supportive or uplifting at all, and if you've ever lived with depression, you know how much harder that makes everything. And it could take YEARS before I'm in a position to financially support myself.\n\nI can't get out...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We just moved to a big row house in a city. We both share the second floor and there are three more people living upstairs and downstairs as well. I do have my own room...Unfortunately everyone is really busy and people are rarely home. \n\nI've tried fun stuff for him...leaving notes, buying him some big purchases (i know, i know), having dinner ready, other surprises.Some sexy surprises too... a lot of the times he'd rather play computer games than have sex with me ( I know, I know... reddit gf/wife syndrome)but even more that that he's just too tired to talk or have sex even. \n\nHe used to be so romantic and cute. Obviously the honeymoon phase is over, but I feel he's not even trying. I've even expressed we could have an open relationship (just none of that junk would happen in the house)... and I've told him how I feel. He says he understands, tells me he loves me, but tit's a lot of talk and no action. He used to make me feel loved and spacial... I don't want to go though the motions. Is the chase over? Having just signed a year's lease makes is so much more complicated:-/", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met my girlfriend in September and we started dating in October. Things have been amazing this far and I can't see them going south in the next few months. I'm graduating next December, so I'll be here for a few extra months after she leaves. \n\nI've been in a couple long-term relationships of over a year and I've never felt this strongly about anyone before. We've both gotten emotional lately when the subject of breaking up in May has come up. She's going into a pretty competitive industry and likely won't stay in the immediate area where we attend University. I don't plan on staying around here after I graduate, either. \n\nShe's kind of randomly brought up long-distance relationship videos when we hang out but then she says that she wouldn't be able to do it (which is understandable). On the other hand, for me, long-distance would suck, but at this point I'm willing to do literally anything to keep this relationship, which scares me a little when I consider we've only known each other a few months. \n\nI guess I'm just looking for some advice, any advice for my situation. I'll do anything to stay with her. At the same time, I have to let her do her own thing and refrain from holding her back. There's still a significant amount of time and I need to figure this out. I'm so conflicted and I know that she is, too.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys. I am using this post for personal reference but I also want to open it up to everyone as it is a current theme for Americans travelling in Europe and is great information for the people who need it. I suspect this information will only come from insiders who know and have experienced the true problem of chip & pin requirements that Europe is converting their ATMs to.\n\nWith that said, please post a reply in the following manner:\nCountries: Still Works [atm names] / Requires Chip & Pin [atm names]\n\nI will be travelling to London, Paris, Brussels, Amsterdam, Berlin and Munich so if anyone has input on those cities please respond as I'm leaving in two weeks :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me[24F] and this guy [30M] met on tinder and have been hanging out, hooking up, talking on the phone all that great stuff for about 6 months now. We've really connected with each other but he's still dating other girls and I'm not. We are not in a relationship but, have invested time and energy on each other to make things progress. \n\nAnyways, here's where it got complicated... he made a snarkly comment about girls he met on tinder and sex, which I ended up getting offended about because I assumed it applied to me aswell. I told him it came off rude.. and then he suddenly lashes out on me. We get into a heated conversation say mean stuff to each other.. things escalate.. and then I decide to profusely apologize and call him to fix things... but ofcourse he totally ignores all my attempts of communication.. so the ball's in his court but i can't concentrate on anything..\n\nHe was extremely upset and now has made it clear that he doesn't care or want to talk to me. I really like this guy and we had a great connection, I would hate it if this ended in such bad terms.. Is it even worth chasing this man if he won't respond to my communication? Do you think there's a chance of us fixing our relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Been together 3 years, living together for 1.5 years. I'm Persian, he's white. My family will invite me (and him by extension) to family events such as birthdays, Shabbat, etc. My boyfriend (let's call him Z) has been treated disrespectfully by them in the past. Examples include them speaking in Farsi in front of him, turning away when Z was going to shake their hand, etc. Z feels that it is a cultural issue that will resolve itself if we give it time. I want to take action but don't know what action to take. We could not attend any events in silent protest but it's not guaranteed that anyone will ask why we continuously don't attend (my family seems to not care a lot about what I have to say). We could attend most events so that the issue eventually resolves itself but I don't want Z to feel uncomfortable while at the events. So... What's the best option here? Speak up, do nothing, something else entirely? So far we have been attending some events but not all.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think this would be better in /r/relationships, but the mod told me to post this here.\n\nI'm 24m and she's 23. We were together for 3 years. We did plan to get married. I hadn't proposed, but I was having a custom ring made to propose. Good thing this came out early and saved me $10K on the ring and howevermuch on the wedding, I guess.\n\nTwo weeks ago she went out drinking with friends on a Friday night and ended up sleeping with some guy she met at the bar. She told me about it once she saw me and I dumped her on the spot. \n\nFortunately my name was the only one on the lease and I could afford rent by myself, so she moved out immediately.\nObviously I was - and still am - taking the breakup hard, but I knew it was for the best. Then, the next thing I know all my friends and family are mad at me. She went around telling everyone that the guy she slept with raped her, and they decided I'm a bad person for dumping her for getting raped.\n\nI can't talk sense into any of them. We ran in the same social circles pretty much and she was really close to my family, so I'm getting pissed on by everyone. What am I supposed to do? Is just letting it blow over best?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm not sure if this is the best subreddit for my question, but I figure it's worth a shot!\n\nI have been in relationships with multiple women since I was 16 pretty much constantly. The longest I've lasted without any sort of commitment has been literally a week before I've managed to rope myself into something new.\n\nI have just broken up with my most recent girlfriend [19/F] after recognising that I think what I need most in my life for myself at this point is to be 'okay' with being 'alone' for quite sometime.\nI don't think I'm a terribly dependant person (aside from emotionally) as I have certainly made a solid path for myself. More I feel this is a fear that I've avoided and simply never faced.\n\nI have never let myself fully 'get over' someone and let myself go through any sort of heartbreak. I literally dive into the next thing.\n\nI'm very scared at the moment of being alone - despite trying to be rational that I'm a young man with plenty of life to see. I guess it's more fear of the unfamiliar and unknown.\n\nSo reddit, how do I teach myself to be okay with 'being alone\"?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my girlfriend dated for 4 months and we're in our last year of high school. We were forced to break up because of her low grades. The counselor kept bugging her even though she's always had low grades. The counselor told her mom that she had a bf and her mom got mad. She told her to break up with me.\n\nNow her parents have her on check and so does the counselor. The counselor has people watching her to make sure she doesn't have a bf. We're still friends but I can only talk to her in 1 class and I can only message her. \n\nWe want to get back together but we don't know what to do. I told her that I'd ask her out again later on but she said the she couldn't promise if we would get back together or not. The only good thing is that she still likes me and not someone one else but that could change. Should I wait until we graduate or until she has better grades?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'll try to make this short and sweet but no promises. a few months back I (17f) went to a musical and saw a guy from around the various activities. Remembering him, I looked him up on facebook and friended him only to find out that we're pretty much the same person, same likes, same activities, and a mutual friend. I thought that was pretty cool and didn't give it another thought for a while. A few weeks ago at a speech tournament the mutual formally introduced me to him, and I honestly don't even know what happened. I could barely form a sentence , my face flushed, it was almost scary. I decided that I really wanted to go for it.\n\nLater on I got home and contacted him through facebook, and we talked about some stuff we did for school and whatnot. I ended up inviting him to a local play and the conversation ended. About a week later, while being upset about trying to find a prom date, I suddenly got up the courage to ask him out, so I did... As easily predicted he said no, that he was flattered and kudos to me for having the balls but we don't know each other whatsoever. Anyway I still think that maybe I can do something because I'm weird like that, but I was wondering the ladies' input on this kind of thing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright guys, so here's the deal. I am nineteen years old, and I've learned a lot this past year about things I need to learn in order to become a healthy, happy adult.\n\nOne of these things is coming to terms with the fact that my relationship with my family, especially my mother, has been emotionally abusive.\n\nThis lifelong relationship has basically fucked me up, and I have an incredibly hard time putting my trust in people. Hard to be vulnerable to anyone when you've been hurt so many times by your primary caregiver, y'know?\n\nBut I want to change. I want to change so that I can be happy.\n\nI am INCREDIBLY lucky to have a boyfriend who is kind and loving and endlessly patient, and his unconditional love has made me try very hard to be the same kind of person to him. Seriously, I feel like I won the lotto. God is real, my boyfriend is proof.\n\nRight now we are in a long distance relationship while he is off at college. I still live at home. My plan is to get my associate's degree, get a job, and get the heck out of here. \n\nI dream about a life where I am surrounded by loving and accepting people who I can count on and cry to. I'm so tired of holding things inside. I want people to cuddle with.\n\nI WANT healthy friendships. But truthfully speaking, I am very, very scared. I don't know who to trust- I don't know how to gauge if a person is trustworthy or not. I don't want to get hurt anymore.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well... this happened last night, late, and I'm still not sure what to do. Last night I was browsing photobucket and I came upon a picture of a man and a woman. I clicked the photo and immediately didn't know what to do. Apparently I stumbled upon a mass collection of photos from an affair. So what do I do? Well, I enjoy a mystery, so I try to figure it out. What I discovered was more sinister than I had imagined...\n\nThe 'man' is a coach at a high school where the 'woman' is (was because graduated in the spring apparently) a student. To boot, I found out through some searching that he is married to a middle school teacher in the same area and they might have a daughter. His photobucket account was created with the name of the student's father and contains plenty of incriminating pictures and texts ranging far back before she had graduated. Now... I didn't know what to do... I figured HEY, maybe his wife would like to know. So I found her name, sent her a message containing links to an imgur album with photos from the affair and a direct link to his photobucket. I also emailed her school email I found on the site. She hasn't yet responded. \n\nNOW. If this were just an affair I think I have done my part. BUT... because this occurred between a student and a teacher... there's obviously more at stake here.\n\nSO. Reddit, I need your help. WHAT DO I DO. Email the Principal? I'd rather stay anonymous.\n\nAlso, I do have proof, but I'm not sure how to go about that so if a mod wants to message me that'd be cool. I have some edited pictures but I don't want to post anything that leaks a minor's 'photos'.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little over a month ago I had a pending ~$700 charge on my visa from a cell phone company I do not use. Talked to my CC company and they said nothing they can do until it either posts or goes away. A week later, the charge finally disappears --- I decided to cancel the account anyway just in case. No harm done.\n\nFlash forward to today - received a voicemail from a computer company I've never purchased anything from asking if I would like to reorder my attempted order from April (which evidently did not go through because of a 'credit card issue'). Clearly another charge that isn't mine which probably came right as I canceled my original card, or there abouts. \n\nBut they left a reference number for the order in the voicemail so I figured I would follow up. I wound up getting all the info off of the account -- it included my name, home billing address, phone number and my (now canceled) credit card info. It also included a shipping address (which is presumably the home address of the fraudster) on the other side of the US.\n\nSo now I have this info but I have no idea what I can/should do with it. My bank doesn't seem to be that interested because no charge was ever made on my account (though they said even if one was it probably wouldn't change anything) and I live in a huge city far, far away from where the person possibly lives so I doubt getting in touch with my local PD would matter or if they would even care (and like I said, not even sure a crime was committed -- though someone clearly intended to at least try).\n\nAny thoughts? I have no interest in \"tracking the person down\" or anything like that though would like to try to make sure they can't keep getting away with this. Or is it a lost cause and just be happy it didn't cause me more hassle than canceling my account?\n\nThoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi PF! Looking into replacing the used PoS car I purchased to get me threw college now that I have a stable job. I have a strong budget/savings plan and I'm currently paying double my minimum payment on my student loans to to pay that off in ~5 years. I'm wondering what affect that debt might have on my ability to get a good interest rate on a car loan.\n\nSome deets...\nI had $16.5k in student loans when I graduated in May 2014. As of Oct 2015, I have about $14.2k left. \n\nLooking to put $10k down ($8k cash and $2k trade in) on a car between $17k-$19k. So I'd finance between $7k and $9k.\n\nI run monthly balances on two credit cards between $300-$500 but pay them off each month. I've never carried a balance in the four years I've had a credit card. I have a Very Good credit score but little history in my credit.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi!\n\nI've had the same teacher for 3 years.\n\nDuring this time I've had a lot of family and emotional issues. My dad left and I developed a severe anxiety disorder.\n\nMy teacher, Ms. Smith, has been incredibly helpful during all of it. She's been very accommodating and let me push back tests right after my dad left.\n\nShe and I have talked a bit about it, but not very much. I've eaten lunch in her room everyday other day all 3 years with friends.\n\nI've cried in front of her a few times and she checks up on me when I seem off.\n\nShe's been a huge help and I don't think without her I would've been nearly as successful. She was always super kind and her class was the distraction I needed.\n\nI wanted to write her a letter to give to her on the last day to express my gratitude. It's about a page and a half long and it just talks about how she helped me out each year. I told her that she was a comfort and an amazing influence. I didn't really go into details about the personal issues besides what she knew. (Family fell apart and anxiety disorder)\n\nI'm just wondering if this is appropriate to give to her? Would she appreciate it? Is it too personal? Is it a good way to express my gratitude? Any input from teachers would be really nice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm on mobile and new to Reddit so if anyone could show me how to add flair/direct me to a more appropriate subreddit that would be very appreciated. \n\nI've always had low self-esteem. I'm 5 feet tall and slightly chubby, but still within what is considered a \"healthy\" weight. I've suffered from acne for most of my life and while it's calmed down a bit now, I still have scars and occasional breakouts. I even posted to r/amiugly and... the results were less than satisfying. I also have anxiety and some minor depression which makes everything 10x worse. However, I'm blessed enough to have a loving and understanding boyfriend who prefers my body type and makes me feel beautiful.\n\nMy friend is tall, thin, and pretty. She's always been loved by just about everyone she meets, while I've always been shy and quiet and generally forgotten about (seriously, if you asked anyone in my high school, no one knew who I was and everyone knew her). She's perfect model material, so much that she was scouted (during a shift at McDonald's, no less! I hate how the uniform makes me look, but she's model material even at work). Ever since she got scouted, I've felt worse about myself. I always knew I wasn't as pretty as her, but now it was confirmed. I'm the ugly friend. \n\nI've since been... avoiding her. I feel horrible about it, but I can't bear to look at her. The fact that she had this opportunity handed to her on a silver platter because she won the genetic lottery makes me incredibly angry and jealous and sad. The fact that I'll never be beautiful and recognized as such makes me feel worse. The fact that I'm being so petty over this... you get the picture. I don't know what to do about any of it. I can't bring myself to talk to her about it. I'd love any sort of advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I said something stupid that I cannot take back, during an argument, and my boyfriend wants to break up. He told me that he feels like he cannot trust me anymore because of what I said. (He thinks I might cheat on him in the future and he doesn't want to have to go through that.)\n\nI don't want the relationship to end like that - I want to work things out. While he was firm on his decision at the beginning, he decided that maybe he could give it a week to think things through, as perhaps he's just too upset now, but no promises. If he thinks we can work it out by the end of the week, he intends to come down to see me. (We live 2 hours away from each other.)\n\nWhat should I do that might help fix things? What's the best way to work things out? He's a very logical person, if that means anything.\n\nNote: I know that it is my fault and that I have issues that I have to deal with in therapy. I take full responsibility for what has happened, so please don't berate me. I just want to know how to fix this relationship in the best way possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've known this girl for a couple years (about 4) and day by day i realize she's everything I want in a girl. But I don't know what to do about it because I've never had a girlfriend before and never really been intimate with someone. \n\nWe went to elementary together but didn't really talk much. Afterwards she moved and to another country and came back when we started 9th grade. \n\nwe went to the same school through 9th - 12th grade. I liked her back then too but didn't realize it until now how much she means to me. \n\nWhen we still were in school we didn't really talk over the phone much because we hung out at school and some times in the weekend. The problem is that none of us texts a whole lot so communication is kinda weak now and I don't know how to tell her that i like her without risking our \"friendship\". Although it should be noted that she's a very kind and understanding person so I don't know what her reaction will be.\n\nShe's the kindest person in the world, she's funny and caring and is the only person who manages to make me genuinely happy without having to fake it.\n\nSorry if this sounded like a rant but I have so much going through my head while now knowing if she even cares about me.\n\nThanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Four things before I start: 1. I'll be using faux names, me as Jack, her as Kit. 2. It was short, but wonderfully amazing. 3. I am a junior, her a freshman. 4. She is bisexual\nSo, me and Kit met at band camp, and quickly became friends, mostly because we both play clarinet. Apparently, she really liked me from the start. I liked her as well. Jump ahead about a month, and you find me and Kit at an after-game party. She soon asks \"Hey Jack? Would you like to be my boyfriend?\". And I reply \"who wouldn't, Kit?\". Soon, we are cuddling on a nearby bench.\n\nJump ahead about 2 weeks, and you'll find Kit slowly unzipping my pants(we are both needy on the sexual side). Soon enough, I get a good sucking. And a little later, she gets a good show of my finger tricks. Again, jump ahead a week or so, and you join us in an adventure:\n\"Hey, Jack?\"\n\"Yeah?\"\n\"Where's the quietest place we can go?\"\n\"Follow me, my lovely Kit\"\nI lead her to the guest bedroom. She hops on the bed, and tells me to undo my pants. I do so, and then she follows. As I lean her back, I mention how sexy she is. It gets sweaty in that room for a few moments.\n\nSkip ahead, again, 2 weeks, and you'll find me sucking her breasts. Again(for the laat time), skip ahead a few weeks, and you'll find us hardly talking to each other.\n\nI'm gonna need help to get over this, guys.\nWe are friends, as in we still contact each other, and, plot twist, she would like to go to prom with me", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl online, we planned a date but by talking with her I saw some traits I'm not really sure I like.\n\nBasically what she's saying is that she get bored of things (and people) pretty soon and that she needs to be constantly kept wanting me.\n\nQuoting her: \"if you want me to like you, you have to constantly maintain my attention. I get tired of thing easily\"\n\nHaven't met her yet, but doesn't sound good.\n\nI'm not really sure how to handle this sort of situation/girl. \n\nI am what I am and I'm not going to try to be a different guy every night just to entertain her.\n\nAdvices ?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I'm 17 and kind of in a state of hormonal enragement. As a consequence, sex is always, at least, at the back of my mind. And it gets worse when I talk to a specific girl. I've already told her how I feel about her, but I'm not sure if I'm attracted to her because I enjoy being in her company, because of her personality and sense of humor, or if I'm attracted because of me being 17 and constantly thinking about sex. And if it's the latter, is it still fair for me to chase her? I'm just really confused on the subject. I'm not a prude, I just... don't know what to do, and that's not something that happens to me a lot. I'm open to any suggestions.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I ended up cheating on my girlfriend during a business trip and she found out. She understandably broke up with me as she was completely trusting of me going on this trip with a female co-worker who was always flirty with me. I messed up bad and beyond repair.\n\nI know the trust is gone and we're not going to get back together, but I want to apologize to her for my shitty actions. I wanted your opinion, is it sensible to apologize or would it just dig up bad memories?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yesterday, I was accelerating on the on-ramp, reaching the speed of the flow of traffic (~70 mph, ~110 kph). I look in my mirror to make sure I'm clear to merge, and sure enough there's an 18 wheeler in the lane and isn't moving over. I start blowing my horn, but he doesn't even acknowledge me. At this point, I realize the on-ramp is ending and I have about 500 feet until it ends. I slam on the brakes to reach 50 mph (~80 kph), merge lanes as the on-ram is ending. I gain some space between the truck and myself, then move to the left lane and pass him. I look in the rear-view mirror and see the vehicle thats in front of the tractor trailer is going about 5 mph (~8 kph) below the speed limit. The tractor trailer moves into my lane, at which point I slow down to the speed of the vehicle the 18 wheeler was trying to pass. Once I slow down, the tractor trailer turned his blinker to move back into the right lane; I then sped up and the 18 wheeler turned off his blinker. Once it went off, I slowed back down and then the 18 wheeler turned his blinker back on. This went on for a couple of miles, until my exit came up. In retrospect, this definitely wasn't the safest thing to do but road rage got the best of me. And damn, did it feel good.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've had way too much time on my hands lately, and have been in a weird state of mind in general. I've been using the internet since the 90's, but I'm in no way saying that I'm some kind of veteran-hipster of interweb depravity. I would consider myself a general user. \n\nOn reddit and other social networking sites, there is a lot of hate and conflict- I think this is because people are terrified. We are terrified of being so close to the inner thoughts of an infinite number of minds. We have been abruptly thrust into a new age of total mental nakedness, living without privacy, and the anonymity factor just adds to the chaos and panic. It's scary, exhilarating and a huge leap in our society as a planet.\n\nWhat I want to get off my chest is this: I love it. I love the hive mind, the good and the bad shit, the trolls, the psycho tumblr users, the wanna-be porn stars, the karma whores and every anonymous rambler. I love you because you are me, and we are all proving we're human as fuck on a daily basis. Lurking around here these past few months has helped me through a lot. Thank you for entertaining me, and teaching me about the human condition from the comfort of my living room.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "background : I have been dating Sarah for almost 4 years now, since the start of university. We have had some conflicts in the past, but I still have feelings for her.\n\nI met someone(Rose) this past month. Someone who makes me feel happy like I haven't in a long time. I had begun to think that I was alone in how different I was from other people, but the scariest thing happened to first time we actually talked - EVERYTHING that she said just resonated wholeheartedly with me. It was like the world had created a copy of myself, a perfect match for me to find happiness. She makes me want to be social if only to spend time with her, which is a huge thing for me since I am so introverted.\n\nBut do I deserve it? I have been nothing but an asshole to Sarah lately, even though she has done everything to try to make things better or even accept my terrible faults. Do I deserve happiness when it would come at the cost of extreme sadness for her? I know that the answer that is yes, but I just don't know how I can do that to her. She has been with me through everything that I have went through, and made huge sacrifices to make it work between us... We have a real connection and even though it is strained sometimes, there are still some real feelings there,,, aren't there? Fuck I don't even know. I feel like my head is jumbled up and nothing I can do can clear my mind.\n\nI feel like I am at a crossroads and my next decision will impact who I am as a person and what I end up like. On one hand I could pursue happiness with Rose at the cost of Sarah's sadness, with no guarantees that me and Rose would work out anyways; or I can accept my lot in life and live a life that might be good, but never great...\n\nI don't know how next week is going to go... I am going to see Sarah for the first time in a month, and I don't know how I can look at her and not feel terrible for this emotional cheating that I have and still am committing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been married for three years.\n\nWe moved back to his home town shortly after getting married. One of the downsides to moving to his home town is that we are insanely far from my family, but our job prospects were better there, so we went. He has a very large family of Uncles, Aunts, and cousins galore. All very nice people, no real issues there.\n\nThe problem is that they have a yearly Christmas party and I have very bad anxiety issues. The past three years I've sucked it up and gone any ways, ending our visit with very bad panic attacks and my poor husband has had to cart me away back home (not that he complained).\n\nWe tried to compromise last year a little bit with going for two hours, but I really felt like I was ruining the party for my husband, who really only sees his family this one time a year, regardless of how close we are.\n\nThis year, I said that I'll just stay home and he can go as long as he wants. He's reluctantly agreed but is worried about what to say to his family about my absence. He doesn't like to lie, so he doesn't want to say that I'm home sick, but he also doesn't want to have to explain my anxiety, because thus far his family hasn't put that together yet and they would likely (this is just a guess) say that I should be going any ways to get over it. He doesn't want to argue with them the entire night about the benefits of treatments for anxiety disorders.\n\nSo my question is, what should my husband tell them when they ask where I am?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've heard that phrase 2 or 3 times and I've had enough. Sometimes I feel like she wants ME to end the relationship for whatever reason. After a small argument we had, it went something like this.\n\nHer: \"Why are we still dating if I make you feel angry/sad?\"\n\nMe: \"Because I love you? Are you telling me that you want this to end?\"\n\nHer: \"No\" \n\nMe: \"So why did you bring that up?\"\n\nHer: \"I love you so much and it's not like I want to solve this by breaking up, but I don't want to hurt you\"\n\nShe's very sweet and she always tells me how \"happy\" she is with me, our sex life is great (she lost her virginity with me), we always have a great time when we are together, etc... Most of our problems are caused by lack of communication or misunderstandings.\n\nLately I've had a \"feeling\" that shes hiding something from me, she's \"acting\" normal, but I just have that strange feeling that something is not \"right\", for example, a few days ago she went out with her sister (that's what she told me, honestly I'm not sure) to do some errands, she was SO reserved when she was explaining me what she was doing, where she was and why she didn't replied to my messages... Some stuff seemed a little bit \"suspicious\".\n\nWhen she goes out with her sister (or her mom) she always messages me \"We are almost home\", but that day she wrote \"I'm almost home\", implying she was alone. Maybe I'm just f****** crazy. We live like 3 hours away so we only see each other like once per week.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier tonight, my older brother was drunk. He was visiting my university for a conference he was on and I was hanging out with him. Because he's unfamiliar with the area, I was walking him somewhere to get some food. On the way there, he's starting random fights. No one is saying anything to him and minding their own business. As I'm trying to calm him down he starts shoving me and smacking me in the face. He starts yelling at everyone in the vicinity and threatens everyone. He then continues to shove me so I punch him and defend myself. At the advice of the bystanders, I just walked away. I was sure that he was going to continue to try to fight me. He later calls me and tells me on the way back to the hotel he was staying at he was jumped three times and goes on to blame me for it and argues that I wasn't there to help protect him. I can honestly say that I don't regret any of the actions I took but that doesn't mean I was right in the way I handled things. Were there any other options I could have taken?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yeah, nothing really new, this is just venting, but really, how does anyone do this? I've been through a fair amount in my life, but I've never felt more lonely and sick to my stomach. Everything reminds me of her. I live in a large city and it's just depressing seeing and doing all the things I enjoy because we had done all those things together. It hurts too because we basically broke up for stupid reasons that in a year or so probably would have resolved themselves (or not, who knows). We did start to fight frequently and are both stressed out. I miss her so much though. I acted pretty poorly towards the end of the relationship and basically drove her away. I've apologized profusely but I guess it was just too late. \n\nThe worst part of this is thinking about what she is doing right now, who she is with, if she is as miserable as I am. I know I can now pursue other people but I just don't want to. I hate being alone, but I can't seem to put in the effort with other people. Not to mention my parents are visiting in a couple of weeks and they have only met her a handful times (I live a ways from home). So now I have to break it to them that they won't be seeing her, ugh.\n\nI do work a lot, go to the gym nearly every day, but I did that shit before. I almost feel like I'm getting to old for this and my life will never be the same because I won't be able to forget all the good times we had. Things have just lost their meaning. It's so depressing. \n\nAnyone else feel this way? I know people have, but would like to hear any similar stories. Basically looking for some kind of comfort.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a European student living in another European country's capital to attend university. My girlfriend is an American expat who has been living here for about 3 years. We've been dating for two years and have been living together for about 6 months.\n\nAbout three months ago, I met another girl, also a foreign student. I was instantly physically attracted to her, but didn't think much of it, things like this happen all the time. However, after getting to know her better over a period of two weeks I fell in love hard. I could tell she had similar feelings for me, but I kept her at a distance because I didn't want to betray my girlfriend's trust. I have considered leaving my girlfriend to pursue a relationship with the other girl but have decided against it. I love my girlfriend very much, she has inspired me to make a lot of positive changes in my life over the time we've been together and I am happy and proud to be with her. Also a relationship with her is far more likely to bring me happiness in the future. The other girl is the kind of girl I used to go for in the past and a relationship with her would most likely only end in heartbreak.\n\nOn a night out with some of my friends I ran into the ''other girl'' and a group of her friends. Long story short, I came very close to spending the night with her but instead ended up destroying any chance of us being together, like I had decided before. I'm still not entirely sure whether I did it because I wanted to or because I felt like I had to.\n\nAbout a full month has passed since then, but I can't get the other girl out of my mind. I think about her constantly, even when I'm with my girlfriend. I feel guilty about it and I feel it's still effecting my relationship. I don't want to be with her (the other girl) anymore, whenever I do speak to her or hear about her, it confirms I've made the right decision to end whatever we had. I've made my decision and want to move on with my life but for some reason I can't.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live away from home. My mom calls me tonight and tells me this story:\n\nSo he came over for a sleep over. Took a massive dump in the bathroom, saw the water wasn't going down and instead of using the plunger, went back to sleep. Next day he and my mom tried to plunge the sucker but it would not budge. She had to leave to go to the gym and in the meantime he used our central vacuum (not a cheap toy) to suck up the shitty water before it overflowed.\n\nFilled a fair amount of the tank, which is in the garage. Didn't tell a soul. 3 weeks of crazy heat wave weather later, mom goes into the garage and smells death. She thinks \"Hey, I also havent emptied this tank in months, I should check it\". This woman, with a terrible spine, proceeds to lift what she thought was a light tank, and is stuck with 40lbs of liquid. The smell hits her. She somehow manages to unhook it and spends 2 hrs cleaning the fucker. Thank goodness she works in the healthcare industry and knows how to deal with this hazard.\n\nI asked her if she's going to call the kid's parents or talk to the kid. She doesn't want my brother to be mocked as a taddler (highschool is plai ol' retarded and he is relatively popular) so she simply is banning the kid from the house.\n\nI can't just sit here and let this happen without any responsibility on the kid! My dad is gone for a year long tour in Africa so it's not like he can step in and scare the kid straight.\n\nReddit, ideas?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm moving away in a weeks time and she just came over and dropped that on me. I had my suspicions that something was going on, but to find out that she was going out with someone else so soon has reopened all of the wounds.\n\nI believe that she went on a date with him the night that she ended it with me, and I'm hurt that she has brought it up now that I'm about to move to a different part of the country. I have no plans to ever get back together again, but I don't know whether I should consider letting this go.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some information, I was applying to a job and they requested I send in a cover letter, resume, and recent photograph. However this is not a modelling or entertainment company. It's a marketing intern position. \n\nI just sent my letter and resume and felt that if they were really interested, they will contact me. \n\nThey did contact me, but not for an interview but for a photo.\n\nI checked labour laws and it states unless its a modelling or entertainment position, they cannot ask for a photo.\n\nHow do I politely decline sending a photo. I want the job still but I don't want to come off as rude. I was thinking of writing \"how about I come in for an interview instead?\" But would that be rude for me to impose that on him? And if he says something like \"we need a photo before extending an interview\" can I just outright tell him that question is inappropriate by labour law standards or should I say \"not applicable\" ?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and boyfriend (Lets call him R) have been together almost 2 years and I am seriously planning on moving in with him when I turn 18. \nBUT, I was raised in a Christian home and dont want my Christian mom to feel like a failure with me moving in (and of course breaking the marital sex rule) being not very Christian-like. It hurt my mom when both my older sisters moved out at 18, but they were different situations. They both disliked my mom because of spoiled and entitled personalities even though my mom did everything they could to give them a good life. So my mom feels like a failure with both kids hating them when they moved out and one of them heavily getting into drugs right before she moved out. I have a theory that she views me and my younger brother by two years as the good, successful kids, since we were from her current husband and not her asshole ex-husband. And we didn't get pregnant at 18 or get into drugs.\nI have no hard feelings towards both of my parents, I just want to become independent and live with R. Thats where I'd feel happiest and if this didn't go through then I'd feel resent towards my parents for holding me back. \nFor backstory, R wants to be a psychologist and is getting his Associates degree in accounting so while going to school for psychology will earn good money as an accountant. He's mature, logical and understandable. I don't think there's any risk in that area. He's a freshman in community college now, hes not a bum.\nHis mom I've talked to this about and she made a goo point saying \"If you keep trying to make them happy instead of myself happy then I'll never be truly happy.\n*I also haven't told my parents about my plans and they think I'm staying at home through college.\nBut this is a huge decision and I want as many opinions as possible. I've asked teachers, my two cleaned up older siblings and R's mom. But you can never have too many second opinions on a serious and life changing decision.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's the story. I'm a 22 year old girl with a 23 year old guy. I've been dating this guy for over a year. He's on vacation right now and I haven't seen him for a week. I decided to play with myself while looking at his pictures but then I went to his profile and saw new tagged pics with him being cozy with another girl. The pictures were taken like 3 weeks ago. They were pictures of him having his arm around the girl and like just him having his head lean against the girl's head. They seemed like a typical couple's pictures you know? Like, he's promised me it's nothing but just seeing him be with another girl, and it was more than one picture, made me feel so jealous. Like you would think he was dating her if you went to his FB profile and just went through his pictures. I've asked a few of my friends and they all said the same thing: it seemed sketchy and definitely seemed like he was seeing this girl rather than me. so reddit, my question is, how would you go about with this? Would you let it slide or would you ask him to take the pictures down?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her \n\nShe basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza?\n\n Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Met a nice guy online and we went out. \n\nFirst date was great, we stayed for 4 hours and hit it off really well. \n\nHe texted me after saying he had a great time. I texted him later that week asking if he wanted to hang out again and he quickly responded yes. \n\nWent out a second time and it was rockier. He was pretty moody but had just come off an extremely long work shift and texted me afrr apologizing. In all honesty if that's him \"moody\" it's still nicer than 90% of guys I know and I still had fun. \n\nHe has not kissed me EITHER time. I've made it fairly obvious that I'm into him by asking him to hang out etc and nada. \n\nHe's extremely extroverted but seems pretty shy when it comes to other things so I'm not sure if he's just projecting being confident and is actually shy or not. \n\nAlso when he does respond he sends paragraph long texts and asks me questions but eventually stops responding.\n\nI actually really like this guy but I'm worries I'm bugging him. Any tips? \n\nI ALWAYS have to start the convo. I know he is extremely busy (moving somewhere new and new job) but I mean it takes 30 seconds to text or call someone... \n\nDo you think I'm bugging him? Or should I ask him to hang again? \n\nI don't want to play games and wait for him to text me as a test as that feels wrong but that's what all my friends say to do... It just feels sneaky and weird to me. \n\nAlso even when I've asked him to text me the next day when we've been making plans he just texts me back in that convo. Never iniates anything.\n\nI paid for our last date even though he offered and I said we could split because the server looked horrified at the idea of splitting the bill and he only had a card on him. Said he would take me\nOut again to make up for it. Not sure if he said that to just be nice or not?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've posted before about what was going on at the end of my previous relationship, and how I ended it because he'd cheated on me in the past, had been acting extremely suspiciously and then when we broke up and I was still in the house, slept with someone in our bed, which I overheard.\n\nI can't help but feel extremely guilty, despite the fact he's done all that to me. He's contacted me a bit since I left, saying he's ruined his life, he can't believe what he did and would take it all back if he could. What made me particularly sad was when he said he'd imagined us growing old together. It's really sad to think that that could have happened but because of some mistakes he made, which I just couldn't deal with, that will never happen. There was a lot of other stuff he did, like making me feel really bad about myself (making fun of my appearance, things like that). He was also violent a couple of times.\n\nSo yeah, I know it sounds really stupid that I'd feel any guilt after all that, but I do feel really sad for him. He's not had an easy life and is dealing with some health stuff which is quite difficult (I think he has some mental health issues which weren't being addressed, too). I sometimes have thoughts that I didn't give it enough of a chance, but I did take him back after the initial cheating and nothing really changed, plus I could have been in actual danger had I stayed.\n\nSo yeah, no question here really but I could just do with a bit of reassurance/people chipping in on their own thoughts and experiences right now. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I was brought up extremely sheltered by my parents. Basically, all household responsibilities/duties were handled by them, and the only thing I was expected to do was study. Now that I'm moving out, I have no clue how to function on my own. So basically, I'm looking for a handbook for life, all the way from applying for auto insurance to managing bank accounts, paying bills and filing taxes. I have learned some of these things, but what would be great is a consolidated list of what I need to know/be able to do to function on my own. Any and all advice would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically after 11 months of an amazing relationship, my now ex boyfriend, has decided he isn't old enough for anything serious, and I was fine with that. We agreed to be friends and we would see if we could pick it up again in a few months, kind of like a break. \n\nWe've both been having stressful times at work so I thought he may just need to clear his head a bit. We'd been talking like we normally would, not much had changed besides the romance and we were both missing each other. But last Monday he was out with his friends and I got a text message that said \"I'm sorry I have to be honest, there's someone else.\" Obviously I was pretty distraught that he'd get over it all so quickly, I wondered why I wasn't good enough and I've thought about it all so much. \n\nAfter completely breaking up with me I've found out he is now with his ex girlfriend who has recently had a baby, I'm struggling to add it all up really. I'm hurt that he couldn't be with me but he feels he can handle the responsibility of a new born child. What makes it even stranger is the fact he told me numerous times that he dislikes this girl a fair bit. \n\nI'm not sure how to feel about the whole thing if I'm honest. I still have extremely strong feelings for him and I don't know if this is all a mistake on his part. I've been on a date to try forget about it but it didn't feel right, I don't know if I should wait for him to explain it all properly before I move on. \n\nside note: I'm not sure if it's worth mentioning but he saved me from an abusive relationship and I feel like I owe him a lot for that, he made me trust someone again and I'm worried it'll damage me letting go of him.\n\nI'm sorry if this seem all over the place, I'm just not with it at all, I just need someone to hear me out right now", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met someone (unfortunately online) who seems really cool. Someone who makes me laugh and someone I really look forward to talking to. We started Skyping each other. Unfortunately, she lives about 3 hours inland from me, which requires a decent amount of planning to hang out. She has expressed interest in hanging out, but whenever I bring up plans she gets iffy. Just the other night though I laid everything out that we could do one afternoon x, x, and x and that we would have a lot of fun. Also that I am not coming to hook up with her.\n\nShe just kept saying that she feels weird about meeting me as opposed to other guys closer by (who she admittedly has not had a great track record with). Mentioned that she feels dirty meeting all these guys (she has had 8 other dates, but hasn't really skyped or befriended them as much as she has me) -- like a whore. I asked her if she wasn't comfortable with me (which is ok) but she said I was fine and that she just feels like she isn't as fun of a person to hang out with in person. \n\nAfter insisting that we would have fun and that I can go home any time, she changed her mind and said we could give it a try. So we set up a day and I was going to call her the day before just to make sure she was still completely ok. I don't know what gives though or what to say when she gets pessimistic about that. She specifically said \"I want to hang out with you but I just don't know\" Maybe she is nervous about what would happen?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for the long post. I'm really hurting right now and could use some advice or wise words.\n\nTo give a brief background, my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 9 months. He's a physician in an intense fellowship program and generally very stressed/tired/busy, I'm currently in school, and stay pretty busy with an internship and working. We spend almost everyday together, support each other, have a lot of fun and both refer to the other as our best friend (that we enjoy touching inappropriately.) \n\nFor the first couple months we were very happy together. The issues didn't start until I brought up the dreaded question, \"So what are we?\". Then began a bit of a struggle. I always wanted more from the relationship and was greeted by hesitancy, by 3 months I asked for exclusivity and he eventually agreed but only because I was going to leave if he didn't (I wanted something serious.) by 6-7 months I said I love you, he didn't say it back. This is totally fine, painful, but fine. I said I'd be patient with him until he is ready. He still hasn't said it back, but now at 9 months he said that he feels like he is falling in love, but isn't in love yet. This progress has given me hope, but not being on the same page has made me feel a bit insecure about our relationship. \nHe has mentioned that he doesn't want to fall in love unless he knows that we will have a serious future together, so he doesn't get hurt like he did in his 2 prior relationships. :( \n\nWe have been fighting a lot recently because: I still haven't met his family (they live 5 minutes from him), he doesn't want to share our relationship on Facebook (not the biggest deal!), he isn't in love with me, we don't really talk about the future, and the quality of time spent together isn't the best due to the nature of his work and how stressed and tired he is all of the time. After expressing my concerns about these things, he said he doesn't want to lose me and will try to open up to me. The fighting is really getting to us both.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've(f) been with my bf for a year and a half. We're both 18 and we started college. I stayed in the city while he moved upstate for college. When we were on our last date before he moved away I broke down crying on his shoulder for about half an hour. He said he didn't want me to be sad, he wanted me to have fun and meet new people. He also said he never wanted to see me cry like that unless it was at our wedding. He tried calming me down and I stopped crying after a while and I went home.\n\n But I broke down in the train ride home. I never told him that. And last night I wore his sweater and I broke down crying again. I'm crying right now writing this post. It's only been about two weeks since school started and I'm miserable. I want him next to me but I'm not sure what to do. I don't just want to tell him this because he can't change much about the situation.\n\n He wants to go to school and pursue his dreams as do I. I don't want to distract him with this or make him feel guilty for leaving. Neither of us want to be away from each other. I'm trying to stay happy for him but it's not working. Any advice would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a single mom. I get no child support and my job only pays me once a month, so as you can imagine it gets pretty tight towards the end of the month. I am in the process of paying off credit cards and building savings (thanks to lurking on this sub). Aside from my monthly bills, I contribute to a 529 plan for my daughter, term life insurance, and a retirement fund. I budget for my expenses very carefully and usually only leave myself a little bit of wiggle room for incidentals and a little for entertainment.\n\nI had a couple of expenses that went through the other day that just so happened to leave me with exactly a $0 balance in my checking account. I knew I didn't have anything else that should be hitting my bank until I get paid on the 1st so I figured I'd just let it ride and transfer money in should the need arise. \n\nI had to write a check today for an unexpected expense and immediately went online to transfer money in to cover it, but my bank had closed my checking account!! I was completely surprised! They wouldn't let me do a transfer and claimed that I would have to go into a branch and make a cash deposit and told me that even then it could take 3 business days to open the account back up.\n\nIs this common practice? I'm worried, of course, that the check is going to be returned. I'm really upset and really just not sure what to do now. I was with this bank (Nevada State Bank) when they were bought out a few years ago and I stuck with them through the transition and all of its inconveniences. I'm thinking maybe its time to move to another bank that will suit my needs and situation better. What do you think PF? Can you recommend another bank? Obligatory apology for the wall of text. :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In January my wife and I moved into a town home so we could be closer to school/work. Since we have moved in we have received three \"friendly\" reminders from the leasing office regarding: number of parking spaces used, our animal not being on a leash, and a noise complaint. \n\nWe are alloted two spaces for our vehicles plus one for a guest. Since we have moved in we have only had guests twice and both times they all came in the same vehicle. Add that to the fact that my wife and I work completely different shifts and the only time both our cars occupy our spots are from around 11pm-7am, otherwise one car is there at a time. \n\nSecond, we received another reminder stating our dog was spotted off the leash and had defecated on another tenants patio. This never happened. Our dog uses training pads and the only time she is outside is on our closed in patio with us watching her. \n\nThe noise complaint we got was on Super Bowl Sunday when we were out of town. \n\nI have had one interaction with our next door neighbor since we moved in and it was just a hello and goodbye. I have no idea why she would want to do this. When we see her we always wave. I've talked to the leasing office twice about it but they don't seem to believe me. I don't know what talking to her would accomplish or if it would just make things worse. What I do know about her is that she never leaves her home and never turns any lights on. She also makes a habit of looking out her front or patio door every time I enter or leave my home.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my roommate had his girlfriend over last night and he asked me if it would be okay for me to spend the night with my parents (20 minutes away from campus) so I said sure you guys have a good night. I made my bed and tidied my room as I always do. When I returned today, my bed wasn't made and it smelled like a girl, so naturally I suspect they had sex on my bed, or at the very least, someone was on it. What's the nicest way I can ask him about that? I don't want to just accuse him, but I also don't want to just sit around and take it if something DID happen.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi there Just moved from NY to SF with my wife and we are going to start out on our first place together since we stopped being broke-2nd-hand-ikea-furniture users. Starting out so on a budget and honestly, have no idea how to think of interior design so looking for help.\nThis intends to be a long term project, one where i post pictures of before and after, compile a list of stores and design ideas!\nDescription: live in SF victorian apartment (well, plan on, once we find it! still in a sublet), not terribly large\nSo, first task: what are the core pieces of furniture in each room? For instance, in the bedroom, i am guessing its the bed that would decide the color and kind of accessories like chest of drawers? And in the living room, i suppose i should get a couch before anything else?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure if there really is anything I can do but I feel so bad because .... well here is the story and you'll know why I feel extremely bad.\n\nMy grandfather calls me this morning and the fist thing he asks me is \"thecakey, where are you?\" I, confused about the question, I honestly answered him and told him that I was at work. I hear my grandmother in the background nagging him to hand the phone over. He does but as he is handing the phone over he tells her that they got scammed big time. My grandmother asked me the same thing and I am completely lost as to what was happening and to hear the word scammed I can only think the worst. She asked me if I was able to get out of the Arizona jail okay and get back home safely. I, of course, was blown away at these questions. I assured her that I was never and probably never ever will be. Mind you my grandparents are both retired and in their late 80s and I'm sure I too if I was in their shoes that I would fall victim to the story they shared with me.\n\nApparently, they received a phone call from Nevada 3 days ago telling them that I was put away for a DUI and vehicular manslaughter. Also, they tricked them by putting \"me\" on the phone to tell them that I was on my way home from a funeral for a close friend and I had a glass of wine, which explains the DUI, and a pregnant lady hit me and the accident caused the fetus to die. I requested that they wire me money to cover my bail and cover all the Arizona court fees and \"I made them promise me to not tell anyone because I didn't want anyone to know. 3 days in a row \"I\" asked for more and more money until my grandfather finally called to ask me what was going on.\n\nI feel bad because my identity was used to scam them out of money. If they accidentally signed up for those douche bag magazine scammers then I would feel bad but not as bad as I do with this situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "REDDITORS WITH CHILDREN: Your opinion is much appreciated!\n\nTo preface this: I'm not trying to offend anyone or call buying gifts for an infant unintelligent or anything along those lines.\n\nI worked at a toy store for a few years in a rather rich neighborhood, and Christmas was always ridiculous. Parents would come into the store in a frenzy, seemingly grabbing everything on the shelves, and sometimes spending upwards of $2,000. As they were waiting for us to ring them up and wrap their gifts (free gift wrapping service - so frustrating), we would often hear that this was their child's \"first Christmas,\" meaning that the child was less than one year old.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me preface this by stating that I have nothing at all against fat people. It's a body shape like any other and should be respected as such.\n\nThat being said, both my girlfriend and I would prefer to stay in shape. About a year ago we agreed that if one of us were to even start putting on weight, the other would let them know. Well, over the past few months she has been getting a little heavier. Nothing crazy or off-putting by any means (I'm attracted to her regardless) but I can't help but think about when we made that promise. \n\nWe're very close and communicate well but she can get rather emotional sometimes so hurting her is the last thing I want to do. She mentioned to me that her mom had just recently commented on her weight and she (my SO) seemed pretty offended. \n\nFor background and to preemptively answer some comments that may pop up: We don't live very close to each other and have relatively busy schedules so asking her to join me at the gym would be difficult. She's active through other activities but her diet isn't great.\n\nShould I say something? If I did, how would I bring it up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back in February my girlfriend and I signed up for a Comcast internet only package at her apartment. The apt was already wired for service, they mailed their \"Self-Install Kit\", I hooked everything up, called them, and boom internet. I was expecting a bill after March, since February would be pro-rated and added to March. Well here it is June and we have yet to see a bill.\n\nI've logged into the online customer account and upon viewing the billing page it still says something like \"You will receive your first bill shortly.\" No automatic payments are setup, it clearly states paper bill, and the address is correct. We've even received promotional offers to the address!\n\nWhat obligations am I under here? Is my account \"late\" if they have never billed me? For now I'm just riding it out as long as possible and keeping screenshots of the billing page in case they try to say they sent bills.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've probably all done things in our lives that we thought were wrong, and clearly just the belief that it was wrong wasn't enough to stop us.\n\nPresumably the desire to act outweighed the desire to do the right thing. But how far could that go?\n\nSuppose you had the opportunity to do something that (for the purposes of argument) we can all agree is properly wrong, like torturing a dog or a cat. Suppose you knew that if you did this, no one would find out, so there are no possible repercussions for you.\n\nOrdinarily the thought of doing this would be awful, but suppose your brain changed slightly, in such a way that gave you great pleasure and joy from torturing animals.\n\nPerhaps some of us think it's wrong to continue smoking, but the desire to have a cigarette can be so strong that it overrides our moral code. We bargain with ourselves and say \"Well, maybe just this once.\"\n\nPerhaps some of us believed that pre-martial sex (before you finish your karate training) or masturbation was wrong, but the desire to do it was so great that it defeated our commitment to be moral. We convince ourselves and say \"Well, maybe it's not so bad.\"\n\nSo what if you were changed so that you received intense pleasure from torturing animals? Even though you believe that it's wrong, would your strong desire for pleasure force your hand? There seem to be so many other times in our lives where exactly that happens.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [M40] have a very beautiful and sexy wife [33] and have been married 8 years. We have two young children of 1 and 5. About two years ago i found out that my wife was having an 'emotional affair' with someone who she worked with. This lasted about six months and he even left his wife, at least partially for her. She denies that anything physical happened, but they went on coffee dates etc.. and there were clearly inappropriate moments and probably text messages. She refuses to go into detail saying she doesnt want to hurt me. \n\nI cant change what happened and actually dont think I really want to know the extent. She said she is sorry for what happened but doesnt take full responsibility and partially blames what happened on my long work hours and work stress which she says affected our relationship. We had a very rough patch but she eventually ended contact and they no longer work together. We had our second child after that, but things have never been the same. \n\nWe hardly ever have sex (about once every 4 to 5 months) because she says that she doesnt have any libido and has also suffers with very bad dyspareunia. She is pretty affectionate but she resists any physical advances from my side and says that she needs more time. She has been seeing a gynecologict for over a year but things are not better. \n\nI am at my wits end. We used to have great sex, about twice a week at least. I cant help but think that there is more going on. We have tried therapy but things are not better. I have considered hiring a PI to follow her and find out if something else is up. I have directly asked her if there is somebody else or if she has contact with the 'other man' who is now divorced. She denies anything and this has led to huge fights. I am desperate to have my wife back!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Keep in mind, that i only found reddit about two weeks ago (the eternal war thing brought me, and i've been trapped here ever since). Up until two days ago i was raging to myself about having to sift through all these damn cats and \"karma machines\" on the front page, thinking to myself \"what's the deal with all the cats? You gotta be some kinda nut to post a picture of a cat.\"\n\n...and now here i am with this post... \n\ni'm browsing the front page, see a post with a picture about a cat eating through the bag to get at the food, and immediately my brain goes: \"Hey, we've got a picture of our wife's cat doing something like that, we should post it!\"\n\nBased on the sheer volume of /r/aww posts, i have rationalised that this kind of behaviour is more habit forming than smoking or crack or heroine. i don't even like cats: the little bastard my wife had, used to piss in my shoes. Ever put your foot into cold cat piss first thing in the morning, half awake cause you slept in, and already late for work? No sir, i don't like 'em.\n\n\"Best we don't play with fire, kid.\" i tells my brain, and i put the idea aside, and go about my business.\n\nThat was yesterday. \n\nToday i am apparently STILL thinking about this damn picture, and i gotta ask, is this how you got hooked? \n\nWhat kind of warning signs should i look for in myself and others, that they may be at risk of doing /r/aww, or may have already developed a problem with /r/aww?\n\nWhat kind of supports and treatments are available for those addicted to /r/aww? Is there a twelve step program?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We met through his band. I added him on facebook because of his band. As is with certain genres, he added me. I tagged him in a post asking for advice, and he called me that same night. We had a pretty in-depth conversation. \n\nThe craziest thing is we share so much. He has a depth I have never seen before in anyone else. Which is perfect because I have a depth. We can talk about the deepest shit, and it's totally normal. We share religion. We share music interests. He still dreams. The man still dreams. I have never met someone I have shared so much with. For someone of his age, he is still so young. He has a hunger for life that I just love. He is always going somewhere, and that is usually the beach. \n\nThe best thing is he has no kids. No offense, but it would be awkward if he did. Let's face it, I would only be ten years older or so than his kids. But he doesn't. \n\nThe bottom line is that despite this difference, we resonate. Our spirits are the same. We are the same person. I want so bad to be with him. I can imagine life with him. He knows I like him. And he hasn't run screaming. In fact, he is speaking to me a bit more since he found it. So I'm taking that as a good sign.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I lived with my mother and my brother and idk why but Vince Neil, the lead singer of Motley Crue lived across the street from us. He was a pretty cool neighbor. Wasn't home much been when he was he was a pretty laid back guy who you always heard music coming from his house. \n\nWell, my mother once day comes into the house crying with Vince following behind her. She ushers my brother and I out the door and across the street to Vince's house where he presents my brother and I with the shittiest looking guitar and bass. They looked like some kiddy inspired instruments that The Wiggles would play.(My brother and I are musicians) He hands my brother the guitar and me the bass and says with a shit eating grin \"Welcome home kids.\" \n\nMy brother and I look at each other like WTF. Well we rush over to our mother who says that we aren't her children anymore and tells us to \"go back home.\" So we go back to Vince's and ask him wtf is going on. He tells us that he bought us from our mother for $6000 a person. I take my bass and hold it up in front of him saying \"Dude, these instruments are shit. We're gonna go back to our mom's and get our old ones. They're way fucking better than these.\" He just shrugged and said \"Sure. That's fine, son. I love you.\" I put my hand on his shoulder and said \"Vince, I love you too. But not as a father, more like that neighbor who's really awesome and let's you use his swimming pool a lot.\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here are the facts. \n-Our relationship is about to become a long distance relationship next year. My SO will have to leave for about 2~3 years(this is not definite, might be longer) to a place around five to six different time zones away. \n\n-A LDR is not a deal breaker for either of us. BUT, if I'm going to be in a LDR in my mid 20s (and thus alone for 95% of the time because we'll only be able to see each other maybe once for a few days every three months-and that's when we're lucky), I need the other person to be somebody incredibly special, someone I want in my life for a very long time. \n\n-I want my SO in my life. \n\n-I don't know if this is possible because of our different religions.\n (I have no religion, he is a devout Christian)\n\n-I believe differences in beliefs can have a less impact in short-term relationships but have to be talked about in long term relationships. \n\nSo I'm thinking we need to have a 'where will/can this relationship go' talk before we commit ourselves in a LDR. Lay down our expectations, set out the rules, talk about our futures, and if it shows absolutely no hope of working out, then break it off for the sake of each other. \n\nI'm not conflicted on whether I should talk to him but when to. He will leave in three months. Should I have the talk now and get over it, or should I enjoy the time we have together now and leave the conversation until a few weeks before he leaves?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: I have a 120 pound Bernese Mountain Dog that is a great big baby. He greets with perfect manners, and he thinks that little dogs are just about the greatest thing in the world. He LOVES them, and he learned very quickly that if he wants to hang out with them he has to stay perfectly still so that he doesn't step on one. So when we're at the dog park around new dogs, his approach is typically to stand perfectly still and wait for dogs to come to him. He never demonstrates any aggressive posturing. \n \nYet without fail, dogs always hate my dog. They approach him to greet, then end up getting scared and snapping at him. I can only guess that they're intimidated by his size, because he does not move at all. I know he's also fairly oblivious to the body language of other dogs, so when at the park I always keep him leashed so that I can pull him away the second I suspect another snapper. But every time a dog snaps at him, he gets this utterly heartbroken expression and acts dejected for the next half hour. \n \nI'd really like my dog to be able to play with the other dogs off leash, but I don't know how to facilitate that happening. He's not doing anything other than failing to run away; it's the other dogs that approach him, then attack him while he does absolutely nothing. \n \nDoes anyone have any suggestions? Should I just give up dog parks? Is my poor boy doomed never to have any little dog friends? Is there something I can do to help him learn when to walk away? Thanks in advance for any advice!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, first of all, sorry for my english ...\n\nso i'm dating this girl that i really, really love, but we are living in different countries and can only see each other on vacations and like 1-2 week ends each month, wich is hard but wont last more than a year since i plan on moving in nearer.\n\nBut there was this last week end when i came to her house for the first time (She usually went to mine) and met her family, everything went smooth and all but now she is super sad because she misses me a lot apparently, and she got intrusive thoughts like she'd preffered i didn't came that week end.\n\n I don't think i'm losing her but i want her to be happy again. And all my listenings and advice don't seem to help a lot, even if it used to solve everything until now... \nWhat else can i do to show her ?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I feel that this is going to be a long post. To start we're both in our senior year of high school and have known each other since sophomore year. When we first met I really didn't notice her that much and didn't talk to her until another friend introduced us to each other. After that we really hit it off well and I just thought we could be really cool friends.\nFast forward to next year and we have the same class again so we hang out constantly and try to partner up because we're both awkward around other people. (Side note we both are also on the swim team at our school so we naturally hang out a lot) People immediately notice and assume we're going out but we both fervently deny it as we're just friends. I was considering asking her out at this point, but was crushed when I found out she had just started going out with another guy before I could even ask. They break up at the end of the year because he was an asshole to her. \n\nFast forward to this school year and I finally get her number so we're chatting pretty regularly and not relying on school to talk anymore. I'm finally getting my confidence up to ask her to homecoming just as friends so she wouldn't feel awkward when she tells me her friend introduced her to a football player from another school. They never date but he decides to take her to homecoming so I never even go just saying I hung out with friends that night. Except that my best friends date never showed up, and that she was forced to tag along with a friends group. At this point I'm getting frustrated and want to protect her from more bad relationships but I don't want to ask her out and ruin our friendship should it not work out. I only recently asked her to prom as friend after mustering my confidence and want to be able to try to ask her out then. I've never been in a relationship before because I hate the awkwardness that it causes but I really like her. Is there anyway I could tell her how I feel without ruining our friendship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 9 months. We are in our early 20's and have just recently started using the big \"L\" word. \n\nSo this past weekend I went out with some friends and ended up getting blackout drunk. I literally do not remember the night except for a few bits and pieces. My one friend, for some reason, kept trying to hook me up with one of her boyfriend's friends, even though she knows I have a boyfriend and that I was not at all interested. Anyways, as it turns out, later in the night when I am past gone, the guy decides to take me home with him. One of the things I do remember is him asking me to \"get out of here\" and saying no. But my next memory is of standing outside of a cab in an area I didn't recognize. The following memory I have is him unwrapping a condom and then after that the memory of getting dressed. That's all I know.\n\nI am beyond distraught and have been a crying mess for the past few days. The first thing I did though, was head to the clinic to get an STI test. The nurse told me it was too early to test but because I came so quickly they could give me pills to cure Gonorrhea and Chlamydia \"just in case\". The guy has also emailed me over facebook and I have confirmed that we did have sex and that a condom was used. \n\nMy question for you, Reddit, is how/should I tell my boyfriend about this? I love him so much and I feel so used and dirty about this. People keep telling me it's sexual assault but I can't help feeling responsible for it. I should know my limits when I drink. Please help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So she's been blogging about girly stuff for a while now but she has refused to tell me the site and such, so I decided to let it go. a month or two later, I came across her pinterest account, in her \"about me\" section, there it was, her blog. So the next day I told her I found her blog and she totally flipped out on me. Saying things like me being creepy and stalking her. I explain to her that I am in no way judging her about what she blogs about and she understands this. But she is still pissed about the fact that \"I stalked her\" (which I didn't, I stumbled across her account because she keeps telling me how interesting pinterest was). She's now ignoring me and stuff\n\nSo what should I do? Should I apologize to her to save our friendship (We are actually pretty close friends)? Or should I let time take its course?\n\nI'm pretty sure I am somehow making things seem more complicated than it is on this post, but I am truly stumped and I am completely clueless to the minds of females.\n\nI do cherish this relationship greatly (was even considering moving it to the next level). But sometimes she just acts up to the tiniest things that I don't understand. Reddit halp?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "22M, Girlfriend is 21F. We've been together for a year and a half. Her best friend is gay. At first I was uncomfortable with him since I don't know that many gay people, but the more I hung out with him (only a few times) the more comfortable I've been with him. We have complete trust in each other. Girlfriend actually went out with him when they were in high school together, then he cheated on her and then that's when he came out of the closet. They've remained best friends and like to go to gay clubs together. I feel this problem would be less of an issue if I went with them, but I work really late 5 days a week, (til 3am on weekends).\n\nMy only problem with him is how much he likes to drink which I feel like has an influence on her. I've brought that up to her but she says she will only keep drinking when she wants to. When she would instagram pictures of them together hanging at the club or wherever it made me feel uneasy. I felt it was unhealthy to feel that way and getting addicted to seeing what she would post so I stopped going on instagram completely. \n\nThe reason why I get jealous is because I feel like she has more fun when it's just him and her vs me and her since he makes her laugh so much. Does anyone have any advice for learning to accept the idea that it's okay that maybe she does have fun with him more, since he is her best friend and all.. \n\nRe-reading what I wrote here, makes me feel like this whole thing is silly, but I still would like to hear what others have to say. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all! So I always had this mindset even growing up in puberty and stuff that I wanted a partner that didn't have a history of hook ups or one night stands. I never cared at all the number of partners a person had inside of relationships (Unless it was like a huge number of relationships for my age, then that would be a concern in itself.) but the hook up thing never seemed to fit right with me. I personally always seen sex as something intimate and exclusive, but I always made sure to be supportive to my friends and anyone else and how they wanted to share their bodies! I know people can have a one night stand and still have intimate sex with someone they care about. But I guess I just want someone who values sex for a relationship, like me. \n\nSince I'm supportive of other people i'm not dating, and don't care about partner count inside relationships am I still being prude for wanting this? I guess the reason for doubting myself so much is because as a gay male a lot of the community is hook up culture, and I feel prude for even having the desire of wanting someone with these values. But on the other hand some people only want to date Catholics, or save sex till marriage, so it almost doesn't seem unreasonable what I would like.\n\nUltimately do you think its reasonable to look for this in a partner?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my gf (let's call her Amy) and I have been dating for over 3 years. We've gone through a lot of things together, good and bad. She was my first kiss, first gf, and I lost my virginity to her. We have had many talks about the future and getting married to each other. \n\nWe regularly hang out with the same group of friends in and out of school. It consists of roughly 10 people. Around 3 of them are guys. The thing is we are all very close and hang out pretty much all the time. I've been getting very close to one of the girls in the group (let's call her Nancy). I was friends with her before I started dating Amy. Recently, I've gotten very close to Nancy. I've told her many things that I wouldn't even tell Amy. Some people have accused us up of \"flirting\" and have told Amy, who easily gets upset. Now, I'm a friendly person to begin with. I'm fine with making contact with all of my friends and I mess around with all of them, so I don't think of it as flirting. \n\nThis has put me under a lot of pressure recently though. Since our group is mainly girls, I talk to girls pretty much everyday. But I feel like I have to act differently due to my gf. I feel like I can't laugh as much or talk as much, so Amy won't get jealous. \n\nNancy trusts me and I trust her. We're pretty much best friends. But I think I might be developing a crush on her. \n\nI've started to care for Amy a little less, but I'm pretty sure I still love her. Breaking up with her would also be very awkward because we hang around the same group of people and our class is very small (97). Thank you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A while ago I had a brief thing with a girl at my university about whom I was head over heels. She called it off giving the usual bullshit about how she didn't want a relationship having recently come out of a three year one, \"it's me not you\", \"I would in different circumstances\"... I was devestated and refused to give it up. \n\nI trust very few people with details about my love life but this friend of mine Jack is one of them. I thought he didn't keep many secrets from me but he mentioned a couple of times about this girl that he was seeing in college. He wouldn't tell me who it was, instead saying that first I had to tell him the name of the girl I slept with that nobody knows about (I don't like telling people about that kind of thing).\n\nLast night I asked another close mate of ours who the girl was and he told me it was this girl I had been so into. Of course Jack can see whoever he wants but I am so angry that he at least didn't have the respect for me to tell me that it was happening. He actively tried to keep it a secret from me whilst everyone else knew. I would follow the rules and state the duration but I have no idea. I was left still trying to chase this girl and embarrassing myself in front of everyone.\n\nI was in such a bad way last night that the police had to come and put me under watch so that I didn't attempt to harm myself or kill myself.\n\nIs my anger justified? Is this just life and I have to move on? I don't feel like I can ever get along with him again, let alone trust him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The problem is: \n\nHe has trust issues. He says he trusts me, but that he doesn't trust the guys around me. And although he trusts I won't cheat on him, his qualm is that I like any type of attention I can get from guys. I'm around more people more than he is because I'm still in college and yes, I do get attention from college aged guys at work, school, social media etc. \n\nHe's particularly jealous of a co worker in his 20s who happens to be really fit and my math buddy whom I study with sometimes. Last week, when I studied with my math buddy he kept asking me several questions about our hang out and I became annoyed to the point at which I told him that if he didn't trust me he was going to ruin the relationship. \n\nI also told him I had looked up articles and was starting to wonder if this was a red flag trait of a toxic relationship. He then told me he wanted to trust me and he wanted to work on his trust issues and to be supportive of him. I did reassure him and say I wouldn't trade him for any of these guys because he is special to me. He does however, admit he has these trust issues and is willing to work on it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we are both in a club at my university and so hopefully I'll be seeing a lot of her as time goes on. The delema I am facing is how to take things from just being friends to a more romantic/dating relationship. I haven't talked to her a lot but that's mostly due to my shy nature (I get more comfortable with people as time goes on). I'm almost 19 and I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 15, and even then it wasn't anything serious (was a lame month kind of thing). How do I approach getting a girlfriend since I haven't really done it and I have no idea where to go from here.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and his ex had a very contentious divorce and it took them 10 years after the divorce to get to the point where they were being polite and reasonable with each other. \n\nMy stepdaughter lives with her Mom in a different state and visits us multiple times a year, per the visitation agreement. My husband and his daughter don't have the best relationship but they do love each other and get along well, or so I thought. \n\nWe were planning on driving down to stepdaughter's city and attending her graduation, so she'd have her father, step mom and half siblings cheering her on in addition to her Mom and stepdad. DH has been asking her about graduation details many times so we could plan our trip, but she kept avoiding him. Though she didn't say anything, eventually he got the message that she didn't want him there. I have been encouraging DH that we should still go and attend since the ceremony doesn't require tickets. \n\nThe graduation is in 4 days and DH got invited by his ex to attend. I think that's a big gesture from her part because she is usually pretty rude to DH. While it was nice of her to invite him, she made it clear that I or our kids (stepdaughter's half siblings) are not welcome. DH tried reaching out to his daughter to ask what she wanted and she's simply avoiding him. \n\nDH has decided he's not going to go to the graduation. I worry that he's going to regret this. I am pushing him to go by himself, attend the event, take pictures and fly back. While I am pretty upset that I am not wanted there, I think it's more important that DH not miss this milestone. \n\nAm I wrong in trying to convince him to do this? How big a loss will it be if he skips this graduation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I come from a small, dysfunctional family. I know every family is dysfunctional in their own ways, but perhaps a little more than most. Anyway, I really only have about 5 relatives. My parents (divorced), and my aunt and uncle and their 2 kids. And my grandpa. \n\nWe're all pretty close and I spend my holidays with them. I live a state away at this point but try and keep in contact. My younger cousin and I are the same age and I consider her like a sister (I'm an only child). We grew up together, spent countless summers together, and even had similar friend groups as we grew older. I try to text her and call her but she rarely responds. Last time I saw her was in December 2014 and it was really fun. We always have a good time together and have good talks but when we're not together she disappears.\n\nI called my aunt last week because there were some pretty big family problems I wanted to talk with her about but no one answered. She called me back tonight and we talked. She dropped the news on speakerphone that my guy cousin was having a baby. In January. It's October, so they've known for quite some time and chose to not tell me. \n\nI acted excited for him and asked a lot of questions, but part of me was so hurt and faking my excitement. I don't understand why they didn't tell me months ago. This is a huge thing to happen in my family (first grandkid) and I just feel left out. I'm pretty removed from my immediate family (have a bad relationship with my mom), so it sucks feeling like the only family I have doesn't care.\n\nI obviously didn't want to make this announcement about me, so I didn't say anything but I'm having a hard time processing it. I've felt distant from them for some time, but I don't understand why the change and how I should proceed moving forward. I don't want to be bitter about it, but I don't want to put in effort if they don't seem to care.\n\nJust mainly venting because I'm sad.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive got a 1998 chrysler sebring jxi. i know these cars have been known to have electrical issues, and unfortunately, i am one of those lucky ones to be dealing with one. When I crank my car (which cranks fine), my dash shows me idling at 4000RPM, my gas gauge fluctuates, and my radio goes in and out. ive taken the car to a few mechanics and theyve tested the battery and alternator. everything is working with those. apparently it is some issue with the engine computer or the bcm (body control module). \n\nthis is the question. should i just take this car to the chrysler dealership or should i find another mechanic. i dont really trust mechanics because ive been ripped off before, but i hear dealerships are just as bad usually.\nBefore i take the car in in the morning, can you let me know what possible issues the car might have? and how much you think it would be to fix? do you think it will be an expensive fix?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I always considered myself pretty average when it comes to assignment (you know like 5 page long essays) I really never had any motivation, but I can tell you for sure, and this holds true even at university: It takes me 1h per page, search / planning included. \n\nIf I have a 5 page essay, it will take me 5 to 7h (depending if I take breaks)\n\nToday, I did 3 assignments of 4 pages in 14hours, two of which I had to research sources. \n\nI really don't mean to brag and this kind of \"ability?\" always made my work feel worthless, as I feel like I'm putting no effort in it.\n\nWhen speaking to classmates, they planned 3 days for 1 of the assignment, now I do proclaim the same thing to my family, but truth is the 3 days would be spent playing video games and what not, and the actual work will pretty much always be done day before due.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I know this is mostly for romantic relationships, but I am hoping to get some help.\n\nI have been living with \"Jen\" all semester. At first things were great, but then she got messy and clingy and whiney. She leaves half eaten pudding cups around and her dirty clothes are everywhere. She's single and bitter about it while I'm in a happy LTR (We never hang out in our room while she's there and she has never seen us do more than a quick kiss.). When I try to leave to get alone time or to see my boyfriend she complains and practically begs me to take her along, even if I have tried to make it clear that it's a date. She cannot stand to be alone--ever. She's only taking 7 units and just got a job last week, so basically she just sits in our room playing iPod games always.\n\nI NEED alone time, I love my boyfriend and like to spend time with him alone sometimes, and I'm really struggling to feel compassion for her. I know she's under a lot of financial stress, so I don't want to dump on her by giving her a list of everything I hate about her. But she's the kind of person that if I told her I need to be just roommates--not best friends--she'd fly off the handle. And our friends are the same people, so she's not just a random person. She thinks everything is peachy and we're living together for the rest of college (I have made NO promises to that affect, she assumes.). \n\nJen is a difficult person that holds grudges. I am happy to be her friend, but as long as she is my roommate I need my alone time and guilt-free boyfriend time without feeling like I am personally causing her loneliness. She's taken to bashing me to our friends about how, as her roommate, I ought not leave her alone this much. How can I talk to her without causing her to freak out, stress even more, and hate me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A bit of background: I (f) am in a long term relationship with some I love more than I ever thought I could. I've recently had to change up my friend groups as well for various reasons. Anyway, I went to the pub with a few new friends last night and we all got very drunk and had a good time. We went back to a friends house where I ended up falling asleep. The problem: I went to bed alone (he has a spare bedroom which he let me use because I lived half an hour away from him) but in the middle of the night I woke up being in between two of my male friends. We were fully clothed so I just assumed they would rather share a bed than just sleep on the floor, which didn't bother me, but the friend behind me was touching me in very private places (he didn't go under clothing though). I could hear him whispering things to himself and it was very obvious he was horny. I felt very uncomfortable about this and panicked so I pretended that I was still sleeping. This probably lasted for about an hour and even if I moved to try and get him off of me he would just pull me back.\nWhat I'm asking now is, what do I do? I didn't confront him about it this morning and I also haven't told my partner. I also feel like if i say anything i am going to cause a rift in the friend group which i really don't want to do. I'm confused and quite stressed by what's happened so any advice would be appreciated", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background Info: I've been with my boyfriend for 5+ years. We met in college and were best friends for two years before we decided we wanted to kiss. Since then, we've had the most amazing relationship. We've tackled long distance summers, interracial challenges, and finally landing jobs post grad. We have been living together for the past year -- everything about our relationship is perfect. We are both crazy in love and looking forward to a long future together.\n\nBUT. I messed up. Like 3 years ago...\n\nWe graduated college. I moved to NYC to start a new job right away. He traveled to volunteer for a few months, then lived at home while looking for a job in NYC. We were long distance for about 13 months (seeing each other 1-2x a month). We handled the distance really well. I became really good friends with my new female co workers and we would hit the town from time to time. On one evening, I got a little more tipsy than usual and when out at a club, ended up dancing with some random guy. My boyfriend is ok with my dancing with other guys at clubs as long as things don't cross a \"flirty party girl\" line. Well, on this one occasion it did. I ended up drunk dance floor making out with this guy. This lasted all of 10 seconds until I realized what was happening and quickly ran away to find my friends. The night went on as usual...and I've never told a soul.\n\nI realize I could keep this secret forever, but I've always wondered if I should say something -- even though this was like 2 years ago. This occurrence was totally out of character for me and nothing even close to this has ever happened before or since. As we move towards getting married and serious proposal talks, is this something I can just let slide. Or do you guys think its a good idea to just get it out of the way and move forward with a clean slate?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the title is pretty much the whole story we set up a date and the day before I wake up to this:\n\nHer: Hey I'm so sorry but is it possible to postpone coffee tomorrow until another time. One of the girls last night cut her hand open and i have to cover her shifts.\n\nMe: Yeah sure no problem\n\nHer: I am super sorry\n\nMe: hahah all good some other time then :)\n\nHer: Definitely\n\nMe: Do you work full time?\n\nHer: Well i will be for the next few weeks. Not normally though\n\nIt sounds like a pretty legitimate excuse to me but the last comment has me thinking this is her way of pretending to be busy. I just wanted to see what you guys thought she seems like a nice girl but i'll be honest I can't be stuffed talking to her for the next few weeks trying to get a date in.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years (August 30th!), in the most loving and amazing relationship I think anyone could ask for. We value the same things, make each other laugh until we cry (or fart), love each other's families, share interests, and respect one another's personal time and space. I can see myself with this man in 60 years, two old farts having a laugh at our grandchildren's expense. He is my guy, and I am his gal. That's really all there is to it. Also, the sex is AMAZEBALLS.\n\nI know he wants to marry me, but I feel like he's waiting until the \"right time\". Waiting until we are a little more financially stable, until blah blah blah. I think within a year or two we will be financially ready to move into a larger place and get a dog and do all that \"pre-kids\" marriage stuff. A nice long engagement, and we're all set.\n\nI want to propose. Personally, I think he'd get a kick out of it. He comes from a long line of feminists. I don't think he'd say \"no\", and really my biggest fear is that I'd steal his thunder. I have something truly spectacular in mind, but would like Reddit's take on it before I do something crazy.\n\nWhat do you think, guys? Should I go for it, or wait to see if he possibly pops the question first?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is in another country for a couple of weeks with her university. While she was there, another student told her that he liked her. She explained she had a boyfriend, me, and that she wasn't interested. \n\nA few days later a group of them went to the club and apparently he was getting quite close with touchy etc. Nothing happened that night but the next day she messaged him laying down the ground rules reminding him that she had a boyfriend and wasn't interested. \n\nFast forward to yesterday. The group went out for dinner and were drinking. They were all squished together at the table and she says she didn't notice the closeness because she was tipsy when he then leaned in a kissed her on the mouth. She then got up and said that that wasn't okay and left.\n\nMy girlfriend has been very straight and honest (From what she's told me) but we're fighting. It is a bit hard over messenger. I know she didn't do it on purpose but I'm still very hurt. I've been cheated on before, and while this isn't quite in the same category it's bringing back all those old emotions. \n\nMy question is am I over reacting or am I within my rights?\n\nI've tried to provide context and best I can. Please ask if you need any more clarification. Thank you in advance", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello TIFU, please let me point out I'm bad at formatting, in a rush, and tired so please be kind. Now let's get started\n\nToday I was waiting with my gf after school at her bus stop so we started to play (not in a sexual way you pervs). Here's the scene, I'm a reasonably well built guy and my SO is very short and very skinny. I'm holding her with my arm and I poke her nose, then she pokes my noise, then I poke her nose, then I we start saying random phrases like \"meep\" or \"boop\" or \"oy\". Suddenly our principal comes up and says:\n\n\"Keep that up and you'll come to my office for a nice loooong chat\".\n\nNow he's known as being quite a jokester so I just laugh a bit. After about 15 seconds he hasn't broken his cold unforgiving stare with a smile that's becoming creepy. I get a slightly confused look on my face and look to my gf for backup and of course she's looking elsewhere. I ask him:\n\n\"Wait, sir I'm confused, what's happening exactly?\"\n\nHe get's very close and says:\n\n\"You better let her go or else you're coming with me.\" No smile, murder in his voice.\nAt this point I imagine a mass effect choice menu with these options: point out we're dating, let my go of my gf and nod my head and say okay, pretend I only speak Russian, become a ninja and spin kick him in the throat. I froze up and just muttered 'okay' and let my go of my gf. Then he says 'better' and just walks away. After he left we just sort awkwardly laughed it off and we're joking about it right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi! I hope I'm allowed to post this here, if else I'll move it to relationships.\n\nMy body type is ectomorphs, which is useful for long distant running and such. I used to weight 58.5KG, at a height of 183 CM. I've always wanted to try and gain a bit more kilos, but failed many times. I want to be able to take off my shirt at the beach, I want to be able to play soccer without flying away and all the other activities.\n\nTired of the skinny guy problems I decided to change by hitting the GYM and eating more. But now that change is finally starting to come to realization, my parents are slowly discouraging me to continue and are advising me to stop. I went from 58.5KG to 64.6KG in a few months, and I'm very proud of my result. But my parents believe that my weight should stay at 64.6KG, and not increase to around 75KG (my goal).\n\nThey believe that my knees and ankles won't be able to hold it out, and when I get old I won't be able to walk properly anymore. Another believe is that ''Lifting is damaging your body because you're an ectomorph'', which frustates me... because there are plenty of other ectomorphs out there and are doing fine, right? Another reasoning they told me is that, even though I work hard now it wont matter because when I turn older I wont have control of my body and I will suddenly get fat or skinny and thus making exercising now useless.\n\nAre my parents right, is excising really damaging my body and will I regret doing it in the future? Or are they still used to seeing the skinny skeleton me, and they don't like change, which is what I tend to believe more but I'm doubting myself.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm on my phone so sorry for any potential formating issues. \n\nI've been into a girl on my MA course for some time now. However, although my friends point out that she is into me and flirting, I never seem to notice it, and simply pass it off as her being friendly. \n\nEvery couple of weeks we go to a new restraunt together, and we have no problem filling our time together with laughs and conversation, but I'm concerned that they are just viewed as a friendship thing. Very little touching, for example, goes on. \n\nTonight we met up with some friends at another person's house to hang out. At the end of the night, as it was pouring down with rain, she said I could stay at hers. I've done this before and it's been pretty innocent. Although I was planning to, I realise I couldn't afford a ticket (she did say I could pay her back) back home so I said no. I'm worried she might take this as an out right rejection for any potential relationship. Did I fuck up by turning down the offer? \n\nShe is going home for a week tomorrow, and when she gets back, I've agreed to pick her up and we're going to a local city together. Does anyone have any tips on how to make this... Explicitly a date?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf and I started dating about a year ago. We met in a foreign city where we both were as ex-pats temporarily. After about 5 months I came back to the US, she returned after 8. We were strong long distance, but once we were both back it wasn't the same. We were hours apart but we would travel to each other on weekends.\n\nThe problem was we no longer had anything in common, we didn't have any mutual friends, and she started picking fights about innocuous things.\n\nIt came to a head a few days ago so we took a break for a few days. When we talked last night we both admitted it was over. We talked about how good things once were, how happy we were that we met each other, and how it was sad to see it end. There was no talk of a possibility of a future.\n\nThen she sent me a message telling me how much she missed me, how she wanted to see me etc etc. I called her and she started by telling me how sad she was to lose me, but now she knew how much I meant. She went on for about an hour saying she knew we were something special. When I offered to meet up with her, she said \"No, I don't want to get back together. I need to find myself. Let's call each other in a month.\"\n\nI told her I can't put my feelings on hold and maybe we shouldn't do that. She said nonchalantly \"Ok.\"...And that was it. Why would she call to build up the possibility of a relationship just to cut it down?\n\nIt's NC from here on out. I'm hurting.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit. TMI below if you're queasy.\n\nStarted bleeding heavily two days ago, though I still had ten days left in my birth control. My periods have never been heavy, even off birth control, and I threw up several times and nearly passed out. It wasn't a LOT of blood, it was just thick, heavy, and I was cramping unbelievably. There were a few points where it was a heavy clot or the like passing through.\n\nAfter going to the women's clinic and doing some tests and answering a lot of questions, they told me it's likely I had a miscarriage. I have to have an ultrasound to make sure I don't have a uterine cyst but because my pain was more cramp-like they said it was more likely the miscarriage.\n\nI'm ok in regards to my own mental health. I already see a psychiatrist and the clinic is referring me to a counsellor who specializes in these scenarios as a follow-up. \n\nHowever the problem is my SO. I want to tell him. I told him about how badly I was bleeding but I did not tell him that I went to the clinic. He is under the assumption we will go together this week. Because I am anemic I decided I didn't want to wait (he works full time even on the weekends but gets two weekdays off in lieu) and endanger my health.\n\nNeither of us knew I was pregnant and we had been carrying on as usual. I'm afraid he will get mad or think I was lying to him about having my period. We have sex on my period but last time it was so light that he didn't notice at all. \n\nIs there... a proper way to go about this? What should I say? We have been dating way over a year now, and he mentioned he doesn't want kids until we're married and financially set, so I know he won't be upset that we lost the chance, but I just think it's a messed up ordeal and I have to explain why I don't want to go to the clinic again this week.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm 20 very shy because of my past but I am working on over coming that. I get along with everyone even though it takes me a while but I have never had close friends that I would hang out with and stuff. \n\nThe last 4 or 5 years I have traveled all over Australia for work so when I met some one I would only know them for 2 maybe 3 months then never talk to them again. I don't drink or party so that cuts a huge amount of people out but there must be more people like me but where and how?\n\nExtra note, my old Girl Friend deleted my FB account because I had all her friends added and I could never be bothered making a new one.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was yesterday. I got on the Metro rail in downtown LA headed towards north Hollywood. I found a seat in the back. Soon after the train left the station a commotion began near the middle of the train car. A little old man in a suit was standing and yelling (in what I think was Farsi) at a middle aged guy who looked like a pimp who was sitting down. He was wearing a lot of gold & sunglasses & a flashy shirt. Imagine the old man from 'Up' yelling at Samuel L. Jackson. The pitch of the conflict was starting to rise and I sprung into action. I immediately stood and walked directly to where the confrontation was taking place (I'm a big guy). As I walked through the train car, I noticed a kid had begun filming the men on his phone. When I got there, I stood across the train car from the two men and just stared past them and did nothing. They both saw me approach and expected me to do something. I did nothing, but my presence was known. The old man was seething and muttering under his breath. The pimp looking guy was smiling. After a moment, I looked the old man in the eye, and then the pimp guy. The argument stopped and we all stayed there in silence as people came on and off the train, until the last stop. It was kind of awkward and I wished one of them would move. At the last stop I moved across the train to make sure they got off before I did. In my head I was a train Marshall. The old man said one more thing to the guy as he exited and then they walked to opposite sides of the station. Fight averted. This is in TIFU because that would have been a great video and I stopped it from happening.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this summer I spent 5 weeks in a traveling classroom with 23 amazing people. I met this one girl on the trip and we spent all 5 weeks always hanging out. We kissed in our second week in Berlin, but never really went from their. It was mostly looking into each other eyes and making jokes with each other. \n I didn't tell her how much I liked her until the last day in which we spent the closest together after she told me she liked me just as much, which I was shocked by. We ended up drinking and getting drunk and fighting and she was telling me I wouldn't want to date her because she can never love, which I have heard before. \n\nI am usually anti-social wanting alone time, but every time I went to go for a walk alone, I asked her to come with and she did. We spent 2 1/2 hours walking back from the Eiffel tower, to getting lost in a small town in Italy. Every minute was amazing. Now we are back, we go to the same school but she lives 8 hours away, I don't know what I can do to make sure stays with me. She is amazing, and I just love talking to her but I don't know if she enjoys me just as much. We spent almost everyday next to each other. From sitting on a train for 5 hours, to getting stuck in a train station and falling asleep on each other for 4 hours. \n\nThe other problem I run into is her ex. While we were in Europe, she was talking to him and stuff and I think she still likes him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I do bar promotions and I was working one night when I ran into a friend of my ex-boyfriend. He asked me to hang out with him after my shift. We talked, we danced, we drank, and we kissed at the end of the night. Given he said \"it feels wrong,\" but he still kept his hands around me. We exchanged numbers. He texted me two weeks later and we got together with my (not mutual) friends. This time he kept his hands to himself. We talked a lot and the flow of the night felt good. We hung out and talked some more. We've been friends for over a month now. While I was with my ex-boyfriend, we never communicated. Pretty sure I only saw him once or twice. Today, I worked another promotion and he came to see me . He came alone, ordered a drink, and waited for my shift to be over. We took one of the bottles and laid around in the woods. I really like him by now. Im obsessed with when we're hanging out next. I brought up a talk about my feelings. He said I'm a really nice gal, but I'm also the ex-girlfriend of one of his really good friends and that he doesn't want to cause problems and if roles were revered, he wouldn't want his friend with his ex-girlfriend. Which is a totally fair response. I didn't know what to really say. So I just dropped the topic. Did I misread signs? He seemed into me. Or maybe I was too hopeful? Is all hope lost?\n\nBackground: ex-boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. It was a good relationship, but not the best. He cheated on me 3 times. All about a year apart. Ofcourse his friend wouldn't know that. He even girlfriended the last side chick according to facebook. So I'm sure he wouldn't even care.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am a 23 year old who graduated from college in 2010 with no clue about what I wanted to do with my life and have yet to apply for a single job. After spending the last year burdened by family duties and slipping into a deep depression, I am in desperate need for an adventure. I am tired of sitting at home wallowing in depression and letting my family suck what little energy I have left in me. So I'm bustin outta this joint.\n\nI've decided to start in my hometown in California and attempt to hitchhike/CouchSurf/wwoof my way down to South America. I am not making any definite plans and I am open to going just about anywhere while loosely attempting to head south. I hope to CouchSurf as much as possible, but part of the adventure for me is to have the freedom and flexibility of no plans so that may be difficult since I will not have a schedule.\n\nMy original plan was to fly to somewhere in Central America and start from there, but I just can't afford the flight. Which brings up another issue: I am leaving with only hundreds of dollars to my name. My plan is to try to find a little work along the way to keep me going when I can't find a free ride, food or place to stay. Any tips on how to do something like that is appreciated. I would also really love to do some volunteer work along the way.\n\nI have never done anything like this so any tips are appreciated. And yes, I do know that it is a crazy idea but I will go mad if I spend another year at home in this useless fog. I plan to read as much as I can on the topic before I go and hopefully I will also find useful advice from Reddit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened literally, not figuratively, 15 minutes ago.\n\nI'm chatting to this guy on OkCupid for the past couple of weeks! He's handsome, smart, uses proper grammar, and is witty. We talked the first round of OkCupid but I logged off when I started dating a now ex-boyfriend.\n\nHe gives me his number, so of course I text him. No reply. Two days pass. No reply. Now I'm getting pissed. What the frick is wrong with this man?! I go on OkCupid and basically write \"Deuces\" to him. \n\nHe gives me his number again...AND I FUCKING ADDED AN EXTRA NUMBER. I NEVER TEXTED HIM AND SENT A FREAK OUT TEXT OVER NOTHING.\n\nShit, shit. Time to play damage control. But it's too late.\n\nHe's pissed, insults my race, says I'm crazy. Wishes me luck. Lesson learned.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To preface this, I'm 23 and haven't had a girlfriend. I've been on a few dates here and there, but just haven't connected with anyone yet.\n\nSo today we went to a large sports bar and grill to eat and watch the Denver game, and I'm with a good friend, his family, and my entire family. I'm trying to tell my mother about my job, and she just can't understand me. I try speaking slower so she can read my lips, but that isn't working either.\n\nFinally, I just raise my voice and say \"I'm gay\" as a joke.\n\nMy mother grins and shouts, \"I knew it!\" My dad starts laughing and says \"glad you finally got that out of your system son; we've been waiting for you to come out!\" Everyone starts laughing and congratulating me because of my parents' response while I'm furiously looking for a shovel to dig myself out of this hole I've just created. \n\nMy friend's dad elbows him and laughs, saying \"I guess that's why he spends so much time with you eh boy?\" \n\nMy friend starts to say, \"I know you're joking dad, but since Trompson admitted it, I guess I'll just come out and say-\"\n\nAt this point I had just stood up and practically shouted \"It was a joke!\" A few seconds of really awkward silence followed and my mother looked hurt. I explained \"I know you guys would be supportive and everything, but really; I'm not gay.\" More awkward silence followed. I stammered out \"I...I got to go\" and ran for the bathroom. There's no window in here and now I'm trapped. And the Broncos are losing.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been doing tons of job searching lately with the rest of my graduating peers and I am noticing we all have the same issue. We research job sites until we are just strung out on stress. Some sites are truly better than others are, but for the most part, they lack the one thing we are all looking for a direct connection to hope.\n\nI want to start a website just for people to post their background education/training/other, their current job, their job search process sites/interviews/etc, how they feel they got their job, and etc. Distill down the actual details of what a candidate similar to the one who posted their experience can expect to fair. There is just too much voodoo job-hunting out there. People can post if the entry-level position they applied to really wanted 5 years of experience or if they walked in fresh faced and were told not to worry. I want a site for average people seeking employment to come and find out the truth. My wife even says that further down the road we could integrate connections where you can offer to mentor a certain number of similarly people to yourself and help them enter into jobs at your company or others that may be of the same industry.\n\nThere is just too much BS out there and people are getting sick of it. I want to make a job site by the people and for the people.\n\nIs there a site like this? In addition, if I just small budget it and build it in wordpress or phpbb will people come? How should I lay it out?\n\nI really want to help people because I do not like the suffering going on right now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this didn't happen today but thought it was about time to share on this sub and I got bored at work so here we go.\n\nSo back in either 3rd or 4th grade I had got a present from my mom who was a fanatic of the Lord of The Rings series and knew I was getting into it as well and that I liked video games. So she bought the LOTR two towers game for Xbox and we played it all day and it was great. The FU happened the next day when I was in class and talking about my time in the two towers and how I was unstoppable, saying things like \"I killed hundreds of bad guys\" and got the secret level that allowed me to climb one of the towers killing people as I went on fought on the top. Well unfortunately one of my classmates had overheard the conversation and started crying and then went to the teacher. Then I got sent down to the office and had to wait for my mom to have a chat with the principle. Apparently the student thought I was talking about the September 11th attacks and that I was crazy saying that I killed a bunch of people. When I explained to the principle what the Two Towers was a game about the Lord of The Rings movie that I had played a lot with my mom yesterday.He seemed confused but my mom was much better explaining then a 10 year old but apparently the student who I offended had been affected by the September 11th attacks in some way. I apologized to the student and explained my FU but I never really got back onto talking terms ever with them and it was kind of weird in class for me for the next week or so.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I moved into my apartment back in May. Things have constantly gone wrong since day one. Now usually when something goes wrong they take a couple days to come fix which isn't a big deal as long as its not something serious. Shortly after moving in we noticed mouse crap in the cabinets. Then we stated seeing them. We told maintenance and they came by and put traps down. We caught a good 3 or 4 mice. Then we started catching 1 every couple of weeks and seeing/hearing them every couple of days. The apartment management just kept on sending us traps. Now the mice seem to have had babies because we see mice multiple times a day and they are getting into all of my food. management seems to think that providing us traps is all they have to do and its our problem. This is a serious problem that traps won't fix. We need an exterminator but they clearly don't want to pay for one to come. But this is a health risk in my opinion. Is there any sort of legal action I can take? Or at least threaten to take to get them to act?", "role": "user" } ]

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