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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my dream is do stand up comedy, improv comedy, writing and/or sketch comedy full time. I have done improv for 11-12 years now and I have been featured in some pretty mainstream comedy videos online, I have done my own sketch show, and I have done my fair share of networking. I think I am ready to take my \"leap of faith\" and I feel like time is only working against me... \n\nMy problem is I have been raised to do one thing my whole life. I have learned that there is a \"right\" way to do everything and I have, for the most part, played by the rules. I went to high school, then college, then got a career and here I am. Financially I am fine. I am a 26 year old single man that owns his own house and car. I mean like anyone I have/had my problems but for the most part I have a good, logical head on my shoulders. (WHICH IS WHY THIS IS SO HARD!) :)\n\nAnother issue is my two brothers rent rooms from me and they are for lack of better words... dead beats. My mom cannot afford to house them and I do love the idiots. I have no idea how they would react if I essentially evicted them to just pursue something they would never understand and where I could potentially lose everything. \n\nSo, I have a few questions for you reddit... \n\nDo I leave it all behind? Has anyone here ever done it or something similar? Can anyone lend help, advice, a job in the industry? haha. I could really use any and all CONSTRUCTIVE advice/criticism on the matter because frankly I am not really close to anyone anymore that I can have these kind of conversations with. \n\nIf anyone wants more details about my mundane and lonely existence please don't hesitate to ask! :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear reddit, \nListen, I know. I'm like 30 and new at dating. Yeah, its kinda awkward. But that's not my fuck up. I mean, the whole situation, like my whole life is kinda fucked up a little bit...but listen heres what happened today. \n\nI try to tell my girlfriend I know when she lies. Total bluff. I'm smitten, I'll believe anything she says. But she calls me out. She wants me to tell her one lie. She meant one time she's lied, but I'm hilarious. So I decide to lie to her. \n\n\"Your eyes are blue.\" Haha, total lie. She'll prolly giggle. At least smile. I got her good. Heh.\n\nNope. Her eyes are blue. I'm a dumbass. After the awkward reveal, and it becomes the kind of situation where there is no way out and after my initial denial, it is obvious. I did not know her eye color.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A girl that I've known for a few years and I began hooking up recently. I'm extremely attracted to her; we have tons in common and just generally get on great and have become very close. However, the kissing is just..awkward. \n\nWe both have different styles and both want to seem to lead. We acknowledged it and tried to work on it. I kissed her my way and she tried to follow suit but we just weren't synching up and couldn't get into a rhythm. She got paranoid then and wouldn't kiss me the way she usually goes about it.\n\nShe's pretty much conceded that it's a deal breaker and that we just don't have sexual chemistry. I'm not so sure. Yes, it was awkward but I wanted to work on it and hopefully we'd eventually get there, and I was still turned on during it.\n\nEverything else is perfect apart from this one thing. I really thought I might have something with this girl. It's something that's never ever happened either of us before.. kissing just comes naturally right? Or at least you usually adjust to what's happening. Maybe we put too much pressure on fixing it?\n\nJust wondering what peoples thoughts are on this? Are people sometimes just meant to be very good friends? Is it a sign of no sexual chemistry?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit, long time stalker, first time poster.\nI've been with my boyfriend Luke for 3 & 1/2 years, and for the most part we have a fantastic relationship, he's very considerate of me and lets me have my own space if I need it. \nMy main problem is our sex life. We have sex on average five times a week, which I know is great, and I do enjoy sex with him - but he has never once in our whole relationship made me orgasm. Not once. \n\nI'm basically looking for your advice on how to broach this topic with him. See, I have faked it with him (and I know I shouldn't have), because I do feel like he's trying hard, just nothing ever works. I feel like this has basically been me lying to him for three years, because while I enjoy the sex we have it's not amazing for me ever. I feel like maybe if we try some new things (not too sure what but I'll figure that out later) or see a sex therapist it might change thigs for me?\n\nI know this might be the wrong subreddit for this issue but I really wanted to get some advice on how to bring this up with him, or if I should at all? I really just need some help on how to do this without hurting his feelings, because he's a great person and I don't want him to feel bad at all. Any help is gratefully accepted!!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am in a long distance relationship with my fiancée. I really like concerts, and go often. I went to a concert on Friday night, and meet an adorable couple at the show. We really hit it off with them. I liked him a lot, he was really cool, and she was really sweet/precious. We ended up staying out till 5 am and had a blast.\n\nI normally text her when I am home, but apparently I passed out without properly hitting the button. (The message was all typed out and everything.) When I woke up at 9, I apologized for not texting her, because I know she wants me to be safe.\n\nLast night, she basically said I was stupid and unsafe for doing what I did. I didn't know them, and I was not being smart. I told her that I really trusted them, and that they were harmless. She said she didn't care.\n\nI have traveled the world. I have been to over 20 countries and backpacked with strangers for weeks, in the mountains. This makes me nervous that she thinks this was so dangerous, as this seems like such a small thing to me.\n\nAm I thinking about this wrongly?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My previous roommate has owed me a sum of $500.00 since November 14th of 2012. I thought he was a good friend so let me explain a little. We made a verbal agreement that he would not pay his half the final month of rent since he was moving out early, and in return, I would keep his half of the security deposit. Fair enough. I have known him for a few years so whatever; right? Well, since then the move out inspection, the security deposit return we had in our minds the wrong amount. We were expecting to get in return around $800 after usual wear and tear (seeing $800 is what we thought we paid for it) but turns out, the documentation team for our apartment complex only shows us paying $299 for security deposit. Doesn't make sense but I have no paperwork to back up my side so what can I do. I send messages to my previous roommate explaining he still owes me money for his final month of rent as well as the final half of utilities for that month. He acknowledges the fact he owes me money. His father gets involved and has a phone conversation where we make verbal agreement they will submit payment to me by the end of January; 31st at the latest. I have communicated multiple times via facebook chat, gmail messages, and phone calls with them but am getting no response. What can I really do to rectify this situation?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So it's Rockville weekend here in JacksonVille, Florida and me and some friends(more accurately my brothers friends) travelled all the way from Pennsylvania to see our favorite bands. Took lots of pictures, wonderful weather, sights, and having a blast. So now here's where my fuck up begins. It was 90° Fahrenheit today. We were at hatebreed's set getting the hell down to it. Now I'm a 6\"1in 160lb male. 20yrs old. I consider myself what some know as skinny fat. And ya see I'm one of those guys who displaces fat in not so masculine areas...aka my lower body/man booty. So after we do our best to tear it up in a hatebreed moshpit, we sit down to rest and to my shame and horror I have a huge sweat puddle on the ass of my shorts. I panick and realize I NEED to fix this so I tell my big bro I don't feel good and am going to the porta potty. I half run there praying no-one looks at my sweaty, fat rear. Cue me in the hot stall desperately trying to soak the sweat in cardboard toilet paper for like 15 minutes, my confidence all the while quickly sinking. I've given up and realize I should just take my retarded, fat, sweaty ass back to the hotel where my \"friends\" will probably have more fun without me. It was a mistake me even coming.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I stupidly decided to go through my girlfriend's messages because she has been going through tough times and has become more and more distant. But she has been on her phone almost constantly. So my damn curiosity got the best of me and boom I'm in her messages. \n\nI find an alternative recount of a night with friends a few weekends ago when I went out of town. She had told me that she hung out with an group of her older friends from earlier times that included an ex-boyfriend. Shr had said a fun night of board games and drinking went too far and before she knew it, she was on a bed with guys trying to get with her (verbally, I guess) but that a good mutual friend of hers who was not as drunk, protected her. \n\nThat apparently didn't happen, I read in a conversation with a friend that she had actually had sex with her ex and was drunk but was kissing back etc. \n\nNow I just feel so hurt. I have set up my entire life around her and have put her first over my friends, family and career. Now I just feel so betrayed. I want to get back at her by sleeping with someone else because a major issue in our relationship is that my girlfriend was concerned that I choose her instead of having a normal bachelor period. I always responded that I only wanted her amd have been faithful through a decent amount of opportunities to stray.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Every time I try to give a chance at communicating, he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or he will just make it out to be like I \"just want to argue\" as if it's a hobby of mine. I believe that some arguments are necessary and there's nothing wrong with having them. It's not like I start yelling and get violent or anything crazy...He considers a calm, assertive discussion as \"irrational arguing\" and immediately goes into avoidance and victim mode and starts ignoring me. I don't know what to do with him anymore. I'm just trying to make some effort here, but he doesn't seem to look at it that way. :( He makes me out to feel like just some sadistic, argumentative person when I'm just trying to figure things out and work through them.\n\nA little background on us: He is diagnosed as severe ADHD. I am diagnosed with anxiety and OCD. I know, that doesn't help the situation at all, but it's our quirks that bring us together (after all, isn't that what brings us all together?). :P", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time making any kind of post like this so sorry in advance for rambling. I'm also probably posting in the wrong sub for this so if there's anywhere else I can post this that'd be great.\n\nI've been depressed for a few months now, but my parents bought me the plane ticket to and from Atlanta, Georgia and the Walker Stalker Con last week. Figured as I might as well go since they were paying for it, even though I didn't have a lot of interest for The Walking Dead, which the convention is for.\n\nWe got there, and on the first day waiting in line. Met her, and we eventually made plans to get food. We did so and and had a good time. We've still been texting since then, but I'm so depressed that I'm not 100% sure if I like, as with anything lately. At this point I don't know if I want to pursue a full blown long distance relationship or what.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi r/relationships.\n\nIf this is the wrong subreddit please point me in the right direction. I don't know what to do anymore.\n\nAllan* and I broke up 6 months ago, shortly before he was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. We were together 2 years, living together and had a cat. I know everything that happened isn't his fault, but how do you move past it??\n\nA few months ago I asked him to get back together, he was so drunk he didn't remember the next morning, and I think at that moment something in me broke again. I tried for so long to make things work, and felt like that was the last straw. After a month of NC, I ask to visit him (was in the same city) and he wants to get back together, but he wouldn't even tell me how he was feeling! I tried to have a conversation about my fears, but it went nowhere. I've gotten to a point where I can't deal with my emotions so I just push them away and now basically I feel hollow inside.\n\nHow am I supposed to decide something like this when he won't even talk to me?? I feel like i've never had a connection so strong with someone, and honestly I don't know if I ever will again. It's been 6 months and I feel the same about him, but I can't put myself through it unless I knew it was going to be different.\n\nIf I should just walk away, how am I supposed to deal with losing who I thought was the love of my life?? How will I ever feel like that about someone else??\n\nAny words of advice would be deeply appreciated, I feel so lost. Sorry if it's jumbled, I can't even process my own thoughts.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We dated for three years and we broke up three and a half years ago, and i've always had feelings for her still. We broke up as she was going through a rough time with her family, and we were fighting a lot, but I think we still loved each other deeply.\n\nWe met one night after she sent me a message telling me she missed me, and I replied say that I did too. When we met up, for some reason, she told me she wasn't ready to get back into a relationship which obviously upset me a lot.\n\nI remember telling her that she needs to commit, because eventually I would move on and land up loving someone else or even getting married.\n\nEventually I did meet someone else, who I have been dating now for 2.5 years. She is perfect in every way, literally ticks every box of something I am looking for in another person, but I just can't stop missing my ex, I never have.\n\nI know it's unfair of me to stay with someone if I had feelings for someone else, but honestly speaking I feel I would die alone if I had to go about it that way, I don't think i'll ever not miss my ex and want to be with her.\n\nIt sucks, because I always thought we would work things out, and now that door is shut. I am heartbroken.\n\nMy advice is if you can't stop thinking about someone, pursue them until it's too late.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start. Like other redditors, I grew up as a nerd. From 3rd grade on, I was the class nerd. And it sucked. Even in the smarter classes, I was the nerd, just because I liked to learn. \n\nFast forward to my freshman year of high school. I was this awkward kid on a student government retreat with other students from all grades. I am social, but I used to come off kind of nerdy, and incredibly annoying. Anyway, I met this one senior, and I realized I was actually similar to this guy in a lot of ways; he was clearly smart, but at the same time he was funny, confident, and altogether a cool guy. He had it together, something I just didn't know.\n\nI ended up basically adoring him for the next 2 years, trying to be like him in any way I could. I've mostly grown out of that, but I've retained some good traits that I didn't have before. Now I'm comfortable approaching people my age who I don't really know, and I'm a lot less annoying to be around. If I hadn't met this guy, I don't know where I would be or if I would even have close friends.\n\nI know the guy is a redditor, too, so if you see this, thanks for everything.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 7 months now, and it has been a blast since the very first day. We basically went from rather good friends to an amazing couple without any awkwardness or friendzone-y (?) problems. Because of this, we are both pretty much convinced that we have found \"the one\".\n\nHowever, I recently learned that she is rather envious of my past girlfriends, my last ex in particular. As far as I can tell, her main concern is that I have been intimate in the same ways with them as I have been with her. She can't quite seem to grasp the idea that with her, everything is very much different. Sexual acts are much more meaningful, if that makes any sense, than they were before. \n\nAdditionally, she has a hard time processing the idea that I, at some point, loved and cared for them too in the same way as I care for her now. I tend to be a little \"overly-attached\" at times, so I can't really object to this statement. It is not entirely impossible that I care for her the way I do simply because it's in my nature.\n\nHowever, I am positive that I have never been in love with anyone as I have been with my current girlfriend, and wouldn't want it all to end because of this. I have consoled her the best I could, but I'd rather keep it from you redditors. This way, it might be easier to come up with an objective advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been having our issues for a while, and while we usually do not have full fights over them, we do tend to get prickly with each other whenever things are unaddressed. Admittedly, we are both not great communicators. \n\nAfter our last real fight, he told me that we needed to go to counselling or we needed to break up. I agreed to try counselling. He has a specific group in mind he wants to go to, so I said to set up the sessions and we would go. This was over 3 weeks ago.\n\nSince then he's brushed off setting anything up, I can't set it up since I don't know the name of the only place he's willing to go to, and we're starting to bicker again. It's now at the point that if I mention something is wrong, or that I would have appreciated if X,Y, or Z had been done, I am accused of trying to start another fight. \n\nI'm at my wit's end here, am I being unfair for pressing him to do the thing he threatened to end our relationship over if it wasn't done?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I posted previously about my breakup and how I wasn't okay with it. It's been a week and I still can't find a way to be okay with it. I feel so empty and actually physically hurt. I am devastated to have lost someone so important to me.\n\nI have such a hard time eating and sleeping...and sometimes, it is all I can do to hold the tears in. None of these things are great when you have a full time job that requires you to be presentable and on top of things. I just feel so broken all the time. I feel like this was such a mistake and I didn't want this and I still don't. I've been through a breakup before (after 5 years!) but my outlook last time was much better. I was not anywhere near as sick over it. \n\nThis time, the guy was everything I wanted and we wanted the same things. I spoke to him once after and the things he expressed to me did not put to rest any of my feelings of unease and discomfort with this decision..although I am sure he is fine now, he has his big goals in sight now. But, I personally can't make it make sense in my head or heart that this is right...", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a \"friend\" who has always mistreated me. He constantly pointed out my flaws, mocked me when others complimented me, and just generally has not provided a supportive friendship. I have always tolerated his actions, mostly because I feel as though this was his socially awkward way of developing some sort of friendship with me. He supposedly has been like this with many other people, but only to me in our current friends circle.\n\nI, on the hand, think I have put a lot of effort in being nice back to him despite everything. I have tolerated his unnecessarily mean comments (though I now and then mention that I think he is mean to me), hoping that our friendship would develop into a better one over time. There are some times now and then when he and I get along very well, but it returns to the usual in the couple days.\n\nI thought that our friendship was improving a lot, however recently he acted in a way that I found very insulting. I felt as though he had not respected me as a person and, to an extent, used me. To be honest, I am now unsure of whether he ever valued me as a friend like I thought of him. \n\nThis friendship has a taken a lot out of me over a long time, and now I am uncertain whether I should just give up and kick him out of my life or try to mend it and keep going. I am pretty sure he knows that I have been acting differently (trying to stay away from him), but I also know that he would never take action to see if I was ok. It would have to be me who goes and pours out my heart to him, and hope that he had actually cared for me as friend like I did. \n\nWhat should I do? Is a person like this worth it? I had always hoped that we would become good friends, but if it's a relationship like this, I just end up feeling pathetic. \n\nWould appreciate any advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Many of my fellow scientists, including myself, have come up with a postulate. This theory states that the hotness of a girl is inversely proportional to her major. We are a varied group of chemistry, physics, and math majors and have not been impressed by the quality of our fellow female classmates. There seems to be a lack luster performance when it comes to looking good in class. The ones that do tend to be a part of the upper echelon are found in our lower level classes, and are not majoring in a true science, i.e. math, physics, chemistry, and biology.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My friend (female), who is a 17 year old and not a virgin, and I, a 17 year old male who is a virgin decided to be friends with benefits. But my female friend is not good looking and doesn't have a very good body. But I wasn't too sure of what to do. I indirectly then asked my friends by creating scenarios with some different girls of 'would you rather' to get their opinions, and they said they would, but when i asked them about the girl I was going to be friends with benefits with they hesitated and/or said no. It is worth noting that I think I can do better. But I don't see any options becoming available anytime soon. However, if I be friends with benefits with the girl, no one will find out. I am currently in high school and will be graduating in May of 2016. I also REALLY dont want to go to college as a virgin so I will be ready (both physically and mentally) to anything (sexually) thrown at me.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 23(m) in a weird relationship with a girl I work with (21). Just kinda feels like a rushed relationship. I'm a little on the meaty side, and she's petite. Now, I have nothing against smaller girls at all, but honestly, I feel like she's too small for me. We tried having some 'alone time' and it felt like I was learning how to tie my shoes again basically. Everything just wasn't the right proportion for me, and honestly, I didn't know how to handle her... am I weird for feeling lost? We haven't really been together that long (**about 3-5 weeks**), and I'm kinda feeling like maybe backing out of the relationship... not just because of the physical stuff, but there's been some issues with her family that makes having a relationship a little hard to maintain on a normal level... any advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. \n\nWe proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. \n\nJust a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said \"I love you\" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to.\n\nI understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so here's the situation.I went to this fancy dress party last friday with a friend and some girlfriends(platonic) and met the girl[also 17] in question , shes friends with my buddy.So we talked a bit there , she payed quite a bit of attention to me throughout the event and asked me for my facebook username which i gave her.So she added me on facebook , needless to say i accepted , we talked quite a lot firstly just about general stuff but i had a hunch she liked me.So yesterday night she asks me if i have anything going on relationship wise and i said that i'm not in a relationship but have someone on my mind and she actually asked who she knew her and offered to talk to her(i'm pretty sure that's weird or is that just me) i kindly declined.And today(monday) while chatting(light flirting) she asks me maybe i'm actually into her and not the other girl, i was kinda surprised and replied by saying we should go out some time and see.\n\n * So now to the actual questions: Did i handle it well in general? Should i go out with her?(I guess i have nothing to lose right?) keep in mind she is generally attractive physically but i don't feel like i know enough about her. What is your general opinion on how she behaved after her knowing i was into someone else.\n \n* Note i have little to no experience with relationships so anything is helpful! Thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hoping for the best here but want to see what others might glean from this. We have been dating for a little over 2 months, instant connection, spent a lot of time together the first month and a half. Then he got busy at work and side project and started being around less and responding intermittently to texts. \n\nI sensed something was up (assuming just stressed out) and started inviting him to more things and for him to stay over at my place more - with the intent of \"hey this will take your mind off stuff\" - \"not hey i am needy.\"\n\nAnyways, he was going to be out of town for the day and I sent him a text with a (tasteful and cute) photo of me and texted \"if you want to cuddle when you get back\" - no response. He had mentioned having issues with texts so I texted him a little later and was like \"did you get the photo?\" and he responded **\"yeah, sorry it did. it's not a great time but we should talk about this\"** and I responded that that would be good.\n\nThe next day I texted back that I wanted to talk and thanked him for bringing that up and said I sensed he was stressed which is why i was inviting him out and offering my company and he responded **\"yeah. sorry these projects just crept up on me\"**\n\nSo that is it, his responses were kind of vague so wondering what you all glean from it. I really like him and he has said the same about me, we haven't officially called whatever it is a relationship but i feel like it is, so this weirdness is really stressing me out.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was at my girlfriends house for the 3rd time this past weekend and her grandma caught us making out on the couch, she was really pissed and yelled at her about us being disrespectful, and that i also quit football so now she thinks I'm lazy i guess, she also said the usual \"that boy only has one thing on his mind\" phrase and now i don't think she'll even let us cuddle on the couch while watching a movie.I'm going to call her around 7:30( so that my girlfriend won't be there) and i was just looking for tips on what i should do or say.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in graduate school, and over the past several years, I've had what I would call a 'frenemy'. This girl has been hot and cold with me for as long as we've had classes together - sometimes she would invite me to spend time with her and her friends, and then completely stop talking to me, claiming that she's busy (which, as I've come to learn, 'busy' is 99% of the time a cover). She says a lot of nasty things about people, and then turns around and spends time with them. \n\nThis past year was really hard for me due to personal issues, and while she and I were never that close, we became closer. She became supportive and would listen to me. I thought maybe she had grown, and I started to trust her.\n\nThat all changed when one of her male friends (that she has a thing for) told her he was interested in me - and he and I never met. She completely stopped talking to me, and the only reason I know this is because of a mutual friend.\n\nI asked her in general if things were ok and how she was doing, and she said everything was good - so she wouldn't address this with me directly. I didn't want to directly say that I knew what her problem was, because I figured at this point, she should just be able to tell me what was up. \n\nMonths later, out of the blue, she texts me and says that she's been really busy and not to take it personally that she hasn't been around. I said that I do take it personally, and then she responded back with how she doesn't have the energy to deal with me because she's so 'busy'. \n\nI'm SO done with her, and I've totally disconnected from her, as I find this response to be seriously rude and dishonest.\n\nThe issue is, we have a lot of mutual friends. How can I handle my disdain for her gracefully?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Please don't mind the username, it was a throwaway for reasons obvious.\n\nI am 21, and I am largely an introvert. I am often thinking and I am truely caring for this girl I have dated for just about nine months. The problem is, I would anything for her, but all the little hints she drops, I am seemingly stupid and somehow let it fly past me. She lives by the absolute actions speak louder then words adage, but yet I just cannot manage to pick up the hints and move them to fruition. \n\nThis probably sounds repetitive, but after an hour conversation to how I have wronged her, I don't know what else I can say. I swear she deserves better, and I swear that I hold nothing but the highest regard for her and I would be devastated if I lose her, but just my mentality and my actions are very brief, calculated and very unemotional. I am also far from spontaneous. Hell, I cannot even choose dinner because I only care to get her what she wants. She always wishes I would take her out on a date or dinner, but it just never crosses my mind, not because of how much I care, but just because I am not any type of person who can actively make plans...\n\n Anyone else in this situation can give me a hand before I lose one of the best things I have had due to my stubborn and seemingly callous nature?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit! I've created this new account for anonymity. \n\nMy sister and I have a good relationship despite living half way around the world from one another. I recently found out I was pregnant and figured I shouldn't overthink it and just tell her as I would have told her in the past (before knowing about her visits with fertility doctors etc). She responded very sweetly and is texting me asking several excited questions and there doesn't seem to be any weirdness at all. She seems genuinely thrilled that I'm going to be a mum!\n\nHowever, I'm still a little worried and overthinking things in my head. I am worried that deep down she is sad and how I should best respect her feelings without making it an issue. The fertility issues she is having would have stayed between her and her husband had it not been for an awkward visit with my mother. My mum visited her (my parents also live in a different country.) and she had to tell my mum because there were so many secret appointments etc. My mum is not the most tactful person and rather than understand it was a private issue just got incredibly excited they were trying, to the point that when she left their house she left a note and candles in their bedroom wishing them luck. Cringe. So my sister and I have been bonding over how cheesy our mum is being.\n\nI'm looking for advice on how to go forward. Should I just pretend that everything is normal and follow her cues? Should I be more sensitive about the subject because of what she is going through?\n\nI can't help but feel guilty. I wasn't going to share with her how long we were trying but when she asked I couldn't lie to her. I feel awful that I got to tell the family happy news before she could. I feel guilty as a little sister to be pregnant before my big sister who deserves it so much. I started trying because it's the right time in my life but I was prepared for it to take much longer! I can't help but wish I had waited a little longer until she could have her moment.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was just sitting down to play with my favorite plug and a vibrator when my FWB texted me to tell me he wants me...I respond to tell him my current situation and that I was thinking of him, so he invites me over so he can fuck my ass properly.\n\nNow...my stomach's been bothering me for a few days, but I'm feeling alright, and the plug came out clean, so I figured it was no worries, right? I'm sure you already know, that wasn't right.\n\nWe were fooling around with the lights off, and things felt absolutely amazing...I get off, then he gets off...then he pulls out and makes a sort of surprised sound...I glance at him at notice that he's staring at his dick with an uncomfortable look. Then the smell hits me. Oh. Oh shit.\n\nHe was remarkably cool about it--grabbed a pack of baby wipes and we both cleaned up, he asked if I was okay, or if the sex was too rough, then assures me he's not upset and I shouldn't be embarrassed (of course, this doesn't stop me from being mortified). The sheets managed to be fine, somehow. We actually continued to hang out for several hours afterwards, and had sex a few more times before I headed home (though, we opted for the more traditional orifice after that...).", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been bothered all week about the fact that my now husband and I eloped over a month ago and he still hasn't told most of his friends and family. I talked to my husband about how this made me feel last weekend and he was very apologetic. He told me that he thought I wanted to keep it a secret but now that he heard how I felt, he claimed he would tell everyone. Since then he has told one friend. He told me that his friend was upset and that she felt hurt. I became so angry at her selfishness and I wonder if it's the reason that he hasn't told anyone else. He claims that he thinks most of his friends will be hurt. I now feel like I'm having to prepare to justify and defend my marriage. This time that should be happy and exciting for us has been turned into a guilt ridden, stressful situation that just feels downright negative. My husband is attempting to spare people's feelings, but in turn is hurting mine. I feel like his mistress instead of his wife. Has anyone else been through this?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met her at a coffee shop last semester and we started hanging out as friends. She is a freshman and has noted her biggest priority is transferring to another school with a more supportive and challenging department next spring. Being involved with a student organization, interning, working in the library, writing for her newspaper and taking upper-division classes, she told me she is going to hold off serious relationships until her junior year. \n\nI have to mention that along with being incredibly hot, she is very levelheaded and self-aware. Extremely attractive qualities in my opinion. \n\nThis is my last semester and I have been thinking lately of possibly asking her if casually dating each other seems like a good idea. Asking her yesterday, she told me we're in different life stages and if I can bear with her figuring out college while I'm leaving college, it could work out. This sounds reasonable to me, but I have to ask if this situation sounds unconventional.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My gf and I have been dating for more than 1.5 year and were friends for more than 3 years. I know a lot about her and she does the same about me. She's a really great person. I could spend the whole day describing how much I like her and how much I am lucky to be with her. But there's an issue in our relationship that I can't get over or keep up with. The issue is her crying during the majority of serious/heated conversations. When we strongly disagree on something and struggle to reach an agreement, I try to calm down, explain my opinion more precisely and ask more questions about the parts that I don't understand about her opinion, but instead of doing the same as I do, she starts getting frustrated, and cries. Reasonably it's the end of the talking, but for her it's not. She asks me to stay and listen to her expressing her frustration about the situation and me not agreeing with her (while she continues crying) instead of calmly discussing the actual problem. \n\nYesterday I tried to talk her about her crying problem and how her actions are unproductive in solving anything without hurting her feelings, but I apparently couldn't. She shifted the blame on me and accused me of not caring about her and not want to spend time with her. She stormed out of the house. Now it has been 24 hours since our fight. I called her at least three times but she didn't answer my calls. She probably staying at her parents' house.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been taking a tax course in university and I was thinking of ways to reduce my tax liability for the year. I had a good paid internship for most of the year so my income is fairly high and even though basic calculations have me receiving a refund for this tax year overall, it can still be increased.\n\nMy question is on common law relationships. Under my federal and provincial tax forms non-refundable credits can be claimed for a spouse or common law partner. For 2013 this will amount to 11,038 - the Net Income of said person. Technically I do not have a common law partner, just a long-term girlfriend who does not live with me (she lives at home and has very little income for 2013). If I were to claim her as a common law partner it would boost my refund by over 25% by my calculations. Would doing this be viable or is this something that can actually be audited by the CRA, what additional impact may this have on my return?\n\nIf you have any additional tax avoidance advice etc. for Canada that is also welcome! Especially thoughts that are not fairly obvious (like RRSP contributions).\n\nCheers,", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am going to attend the University of Texas next year, which is a good three hours from my hometown of Houston. I've forgotten how to make friends, as I haven't had to do it since 6th grade. I don't know how to do my own laundry, cook, or do anything involving living on my own. Any helpful tips in these areas would be...helpful. However, my primary concern lies in my relationship with my girlfriend. Yeah, I know, HEY EVERYBODY THIS GUY HAS A GIRLFRIEND and all of that stuff. But the main problem is, she's going to Texas State, not UT, which is a good 40 minutes to an hour away, and she is the only one with the car. Now I love her to death, and she loves me too (otherwise we wouldn't have been dating the last two years and such), but I am worried about our relationship. We go to different high schools now, but I still see her at least two or three times a week. Going to different colleges, I am not sure that we will see each other nearly that much without her sacrificing her life at school to come to Austin to see me. I feel that every time we bring up the topic, the outlook is bleaker and bleaker. I just really don't know how to handle the whole situation. I want to stay together more than anything in the world, but I really don't want her to sacrifice her social life or college experience either. People of Reddit, what should I do? As I said before, and help would be very....helpful.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight I broke up with my Girlfriend of 3 years because of several issues between us. We were very much in love with some big fights along the way but in the end I planned on marrying her eventually.\n\nI have been going through a lot of issues with my family and eventually problems with her because of the way she's acted toward me. While in the past she was extremely supportive and was prepared to give an arm and a leg to make things ok with any problems I've had in my life, she is now extremely annoyed,quick tempered, and basically tells me tough shit like I'm some inconvenience to her.\n\nShe has been acting completely different and was beyond cold to me and any issues I had, for Example : Whenever I would tell her the way she's acting towards me is hurting me and is harsh she would completely shut down and threaten me with things like, \"I'm done talking to you\" or \"you're pissing me off. Stop making an issue out of nothing.\" \n\nShe would essentially punish me for feeling sad and kick me when I'm down and basically turn back to previous arguments and imply that i deserve it because my actions have consequences and I acted similar at times in our relationship. Which is true, I was a jerk for a period of time a year or two back. But I didn't think that justified anyone acting that way.\n\n I felt it was extremely manipulative but I didn't do anything about it because I thought maybe it was a phase or things would be ok or she would snap out of it. Eventually it got extremely bad to the point of me having panic attacks and just being outright anxious over talking to her about me even feeling ill or sad. With nobody there to help me I knew I needed to get out and clear my head. \n\nBut I don't know what to do. I loved her so much and would want nothing more than to go back to the way things were before. But with the way things are it seems impossible. She doesn't seem like the same person at all. I want to move on but I don't know if it's the right thing or if I'm just praying for the impossible", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in a ldr with my boyfriend[24] of almost a year. Lately we've both been stressed...him more than me. He's been living in a place that he's unhappy at, mostly because of roommates. He works a job he's displeased with, one because of coworkers being so drama filled, and two the pay isn't enough to pay his bills. He has his own debts to worry about, plus paying to fix his car. \n\nI don't have a car, so if we want to see each other he has to come to me. I have my own debt that i've been trying to pay off. Also, i have been trying to join the NAVY since October. As far as the military goes its been a long process because of my debt, and me having a few slip-ups. \n\nTo the point; My boyfriend has been feeling less and less confident about the military working out. And in doing so, he seems more distant. He's saying that maybe we should focus on ourselves and our individual goals. I replied saying that we can do that and still be together, and he was iffy about it. \n\nI just don't understand whats going on. We both agree that breaks are stupid, and we love each other too much to breakup. And by love i mean we talk about marriage and long term goals. But what i'm upset about is, if things with the navy were going well, then he wouldn't be saying these things...at least i hope he wouldn't. And then I don't know what he means by the things he's saying? \n\nI don't know what he wants. I don't know if i'm over analyzing or if he's not being as open with me as he should be. Am i being to pushy? What should i do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sister is giving birth in a few months and she's asked me to be there when she delivers. Her boyfriend has left her, she has very few friends and doesn't get along with our parents. I feel like I'm the only one she has.\n\nI was happy to be there when she delivers, but unfortunately my girlfriend doesn't feel the same way. She says it's weird and this was something we were meant to share. \n\nRecent text messages:\n\n\"I'm always going to be last. I'm never going to be anyone's first option.\"\n\n\"Was she there to support you the past year when you needed motivation? Was she there when you were stressed?\"\n\nI love my girlfriend but I'm not backing down on this, unless I'm completely wrong, am I wrong?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need help/advice. I'm 22 now, so most of my friends are in different states for college. I am anxious most of the time, crave alone time when I'm out with a friend, and can be very introverted. I like hanging out with large groups of friends, as almost anything can be made fun this way. However, due to my location, this is hardly ever the case.\n\nI haven't seen or talked to any of my friends in a very very long time now. The only person I see regularly is my girlfriend. I have friends I talk to, but no actual close friends. I complain of feeling lonely, but if a friends asks to hang out, I feel almost sick just thinking about it. This leads my friends to think I'm being distant, or that I don't value their friendship. \n\nIt's just so awkward when it's me and 1 other friend alone. Nothing fun to do. Mostly quiet awkward talks. \n\nAny advice?...anything? Not sure what's wrong with me.\n\nThank you,\n-Heather", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Currently I am out of a job for about a month after 3 long years working for a major retail company. I am planning to stay far away from retail at least for now and am finally ready to hunker down and apply. Yay!\n\nI live north of Portland, OR where the most beautiful establishment i could possibly think of is about to become a reality.\nPurrington's Cat Lounge.\n\nThis place is literally perfect for me, with a cafe' that sells beer and wine, yummy foods, and has a lounge to be filled with CATS. \n\nThe application process is extremely easy, just an emailed resume and attached cover letter. I am pretty comfortable with my resume, but I've got a few questions on how to make my cover letter perfect.\n\nFirst, I think everyone knows Portland is a little eccentric and maybe not so run of the mill. Opening up a Cat Cafe, well you get it.\n\nMy resume is extremely professional so I wondering if I could get away with a very passionate cat crazed letter?\nI don't want the letter to be overly \"young\"? \nIve got tons of customer service background, and even cafe' background. But I'm just wondering how far i should take this. For instance, i have 3 cat tattoos (that still could be hidden if needed), 4 cats at home and never ending love for all things Meow.\n\nMaybe i'm just trying to ask, what would you do if something perfect for you came up and you dont want to blow it?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Firstly - sorry for the 'downer' on a day like today - just really on my mind.\n\nWell Reddit, another year has come around and its Christmas - I work in retail so I'm surrounded by people that are talking about doing everything with the family and friends, buying presents for everyone, so on and so fourth.\n\nWith my career, and it being my own choice, I sometimes have to move to different places to manage stores, its still a yes/no choice but to move up its something that I have to do and shouldn't really say NO to, as its something that is somewhat required of you (see of it as, what are you willing to give up to get a chance of a life time) - although I'm starting to think just how much of my own life am I giving up to chase my dreams?\n\nI don't live with my family anymore, and I'm roughly 1200km from them (not much, I know, but we are talking about $600 in flights, possibly more for return) - my girlfriend is now even further away, and shits getting pretty tough there too with the distance and not being able to be there for each other.\n\nI left most of my friends, and rarely hear from them now (could be partly my fault not speaking to them either, but frankly I'm pretty busy most of the time and we just end up drifting apart).\n\nSo reddit, without giving you the entire life story, I ask for your guidance:\n\nMy job could potentially give me (X) amount of money to live comfortably for the rest of my life, filling a dream that I fill I would love to achieve - but in the process losing the closeness of friends, family and loved ones - but possibly getting them back in the end?\n\nOr do I get out now, move back to family and loved ones (in an area possibly without as good job prospects and in some ways settle for 'second best' or have to work even harder to get where I want to be?\n\nIf you have any questions, I'll try to answer them - I mean, I don't have anything to do today on Christmas, right? I'm alone and self reflecting!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This all happened around three years ago when my older sister gave me her iPhone 3GS because she was upgrading to an iPhone 4. I was pretty stoked to own a smartphone (I had flip phones up until that point) so I immediately went in and explore the features that come with it. Later that night when I got board looking at the main apps I started diving down into Apple's bloatware. Apps like passport, news stand, game center and of course, Voice Memos. \n\nI was not prepared for what I was about to listen to. The first few memos were of my sister (poorly) singing or saying shitting \"thought provoking\" quotes about life. But the last one was different. Expecting more stupid shit, I listened and heard something shocking. My sister's boyfriend (now ex) was talking to her and saying REALLY sexual things to her and you could hear them kiss. Suddenly, she starts to groan as the distinct sound of fucking was heard. This lasted for a full minute (yeah impressive time bud) and I was left incredibly disturbed afterwards. I'll never look at her the same way again.\n\nMaybe next time sis you make sure you've deleted **everything** before you give a phone away.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A short description of the relationship and me, I guess. I'm a 19 year old jobless college student, and this is the first girl i've been interested in, and my first christmas having any kind of relationship, so i'm pretty lost. Unfortunately it's long distance, so it limits gifts a bit. She's also 21, and has a small amount of experience with dating. We were 'best internet friends' for a little over a year before this happened too, and we've been relationship-ish for probably a little over a month now.\n\nHer hobbies are pretty limited, video games and music basically. So I thought why not go with the cheesy choice of flowers. But fuck, flowers are expensive and die so easily. Basically my question is, is the reaction to flowers actually worth it? My decision is on you reddit, pls help. If you need any more info, just ask, I'm so lost LOL.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, looking for advice on how to deal with the situation.\n\nMy GF [23/F] and I [25/M] met online over Christmas and started dating at the very beginning of the year, so 5ish months now. We both knew that the relationship might not last forever because she is a foreign student and when she finishes studying she wants to travel. Until yesterday we hadn't spoken about what that meant for the relationship but we had often discussed her future plans. \n\nShe is a very sunny and loving person so when I couldn't get two words out of her yesterday I knew something was up. It took her about 5 hours to work up to telling me that she didn't want to get 'attached' because she would be leaving in a year. But that she still wanted to keep seeing me without the title BF & GF. \n\nI explained that I couldn't do that, or at least I don't think I can. I'm already attached and not humanly in control enough of my emotions to not get more attached as time passes. So whatever happens I feel like I lose, either we break up (which neither of us want) and deny ourselves present happiness to save future pain or we keep going and I have to constantly monitor my affections. \n\nPerhaps she is only bringing this up because she is getting attached and that scary her because of our possibly difficult future\n\nWe haven't reached a decision yet but I don't know what to do. Is there a third option? Am I wrong? Is she wrong?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm asking this on the behalf of my friend. \n\nShe was dating a guy for about a month and she broke it off because she was unsure and she kept going back and forth on her decision. And then he didn't want to deal with it anymore so they stopped talking. \n\nHe dated another girl fort three months whom he ended up breaking up with. During which my friend texted him and asked to be friends, he told her he liked another girl and doesn't think it's a good idea because he wasn't ready for it. \n\nThen after they broke up, she texted him and asked to be friends. \n\nHe said \"Maybe we could be friends, I'm not sure how close she'll be. \nShe said \"I'll text you in about a week to hang out if you're up for it.\nHe said \"Yea I don't know about all that yet\"\n\nNow my friend wants to invite him out to meet up with her and her friends when they go out for her birthday. Should she? For the record, I don't think she should. \n\nAlso she wants me to ask, is this getting to desperate?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Original Post: \n\nI contacted my therapist yesterday and visited the hospital to speak with him. He has agreed to take me back after I showed him the thread which I printed off. \n\nHe said this was way more serious than I had let on and that my medication might need to be adjusted along with some additional medications. He didn't says specifically what though because he obviously can't prescribe medication. He scheduled me and said he would talk to my psychologist", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The thing is that I been dating this girl for almost two months, but she has a boyfriend... When we first started talking she used to tell me about how shity this guy was with her, for example, he never took her out for dinner, never visited her, he prefered going out with his friends to drink, and almost never sends messages to her. The thing is that she tells me that she loves me and wants to be with me, but she doesn't break up with this guy...\nI made her confess to me that she still likes the guy a little, and that's hard for her to let him go. Then, that's not it... she got into this political party, in which young people like her go a participate with the candidate. Therefore, the coordinador from the party asked her to be his secretary, he's 25 years old. Since she got into it, she became different... she's cold and I been trying to let her go and become cold and when she sees that am about to leave her for sure, she start becoming sweet again... So there are two problems her boyfriend, and this new 25 year old guy that wants to get with her.\nOne could think, dude what the fuck are you doing there? But she helps and is friend with my brother, who's got a mental disease that makes him process as a 10 year old at his 18 years old, in school. There hasn't been a girl good enough to actually help my bro out, because many lose their patience... She good with him and makes him happy... she's leaving her boyfriend, according to her,next week so we can be together, but I'm still thinking about it because of the other guy... I suppose she's way too confused about her feelings... but whatever it is I want it to be over... I don't know if she really loves me or I'm just a game...", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've developed an extremely strong semi-long distance relationship. She only drinks on very few occasions and only smokes hookah every once in a while. I smoke weed/tobacco, drink, and do other drugs almost daily. She says she doesn't care, but I still refuse to smoke a tobacco product in front of her. We both fully plan on staying together throughout college and eventually ending up together. She seems to truly not care and we both believe that I will calm down as I develop more of a routine and grow up, and I believe that at this age if we are to stay together this age is the last chance I have to do these 'wild' things.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we've been living together for the past few months. Now, generally I've come to accept him for being a 'guy' and not cleaning up after himself. He has got a lot better at it though so I'll give him that. Anyway, this morning I went downstairs as usual to clean up a bit and when I went to pick up the remote off the floor I noticed a white mcdonalds cup sitting next to the chair. Thinking it was just a left over drink I went to go dump it in the sink only to realize that there was piss in the cup. I'm not sure how long it was sitting behind the chair but it smelled REALLY bad. It was pretty much full with ashes at the bottom of it [he smokes]. I don't really know how to go about talking to him about this or how to even bring it up. Advice anyone?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is still bothering me so I decided I was going to ask you guys.\n\nHe's 24, I'm 21, and we're in a seven month relationship.\n\nHe has this one female friend/co-worker that I do not like at all. She's very flirty with him, even in front of me. They became friends shortly after him and I started dating.\n\nYesterday, she gave him a big box of chocolates and a cute little card to go with it. I'm not the jealous type but this definitely made me jealous for some reason. I feel like she's overstepping boundaries but he doesn't see it. He thinks she's just being friendly and he doesn't think she has romantic feelings for him. \n\nApparently she saw the flowers he got me because he had them delivered to his office so he could surprise me with them when he got home. When she saw the flowers he said she was like, \"Oh my gosh! Did you get those for meeeeee?\" He said she was joking but it still pissed me off.\n\nWhat can I do about this girl? She always texts him, leaves comments on his Facebook wall, etc. \n\nAre there good ways to start a conversation about this girl? It's kind of difficult to bring it up out of the blue because he doesn't talk about her that often.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, fair warning that this may be kind of long.\n\nI'm studying abroad, and back in April I went to a show of my favorite band. After the show, I spoke for a little bit with the lead singer, and at the end he told me to add him on Facebook so he could pass along events going on in our city. At the beginning of May, he finally accepted my friend request and sent me a bunch of information about the events, and I told him to let me know if he was going to any of them. He told me he would or that we would plan something else and that he has a cool terrace at his house. He said he would be in town for the next two weeks, and I told him to let me know when it would be good for him. He never ended up messaging me.\n\nFast forward to a week ago, his band had a show scheduled and I wasn't able to get tickets before they sold out. I message him telling my problem and that I'm leaving Brazil soon and I want to see them before I go. He messages me back saying he can put my name on the list for the show and that he was sorry for never letting me know when it would be good for me to come over to his house and if I wanted, the invitation still stood. I thanked him and said I accepted the invitation. He messages me the next night asking if I was free and tells me to come over to his house. I do. We walk to go buy beer, he shows me a super pretty view of the city and kisses me, and we go back to his house and have sex. The whole time he was super sweet and caring with me, and I had a really nice time with him. A few days later, I go to his show and talk with him a little afterwards again. At the end, he asks when I'm leaving Brazil and tells me see you soon.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time posting here, so bear with me.\n\nMy girlfriend and I have had an interesting relationship. First off, it's an online one. We actually met on reddit, which grew to skype and texting. Shoot, we even sleep together with skype voice chat on. Been like this since February. She's great, really. Funny, charming, cute, wicked smart, the whole nine yards. We were planning on meeting up on my birthday about 2 months out. \n\nNow, here's the thing. She has pretty bad anxiety. Like, really really bad. I love her, and I do what I can to be supportive of her as much as I can, but as a long distance boyfriend, there isn't really much I can do. I feel like shit pretty often just cause I feel so helpless. Especially when I'm out doing something fun and she's inches from a panic attack because I can't respond as often. \n\nWe're taking a brief break here this morning because of a rough night, and me just needing a moment. Last night, she had a bad anxiety attack. Like, throwing up bad. She said that she isn't happy in life, but she is happy with me. I... well, dammit. I love her. She's a wonderful girl. But I sincerely just don't know if I wanna be with her, or if I just don't wanna be alone. Like the title says. I sincerely don't know. That's what I told her before we took this little break. \n\nI mean... I want her to be happy! I do! And I know I could be a better boyfriend, try being there for her more and stuff, but I just... dammit I just don't know. I need advice here, please. I don't know to keep things going (Longest I've ever been in a relationship here, like 9 months) Or to just break it off. \n\nHelp, please.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I moved in with this guy (I'll call him Stan) about 6 months ago. \nHe said he was a recovering alcoholic at first and he had been sober for a year or two. \nI learned later on that he was also a heavy narcotic user in the past, but he's put all that behind him years ago. \nHe and his partner (I'll call him Pete) went on vacation a ways away for eight days and are returning tomorrow (3/5/12). \nLate last night, I got a call from Pete who said that Stan had relapsed and was drunk and/or using drugs. \n \nWhat I'm looking for right now is how to approach this situation when they return. \nApparently, Stan feels really bad for what he did, but Pete doesn't want me to admit to Stan that I knew anything about what had happened. \nAnyone know what I should do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit. I could use your advice. Ever feel like you met the perfect person for you at the most imperfect part of your life? I'm about to graduate college and what that means to me is I can finally escape my shitty hometown and move to the other side of the country. My dream city.\n\nProblem is 2 years ago I met an amazing woman and fell in love with her. She says she loves me but she's not willing to make the 3000 mile move to a place where neither of us have friends or family or support of any kind.\n\nI feel like now that college is over if I stay here much longer I'm going to start planting my feet here. Then I'll be kicking myself forever for not following my dreams.\n\nBut what if this girl is the best it gets for me? What if I make no friends in the new city. What if I threw everything away for one giant risk that didn't pay out? \n\nIt feels like no matter what I'm setting myself up for regret.\n\nI figure this isn't an uncommon situation to be in. Perhaps if I hear how it worked out for other people it might make me less nervous about my choice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of a year and a half and I went on a beach holiday a couple of days ago where he told me he would like to stop all sexual activity. We have a good relationship and a seemingly good sex life, he wasn't a virgin when we started dating and i'm finding all this hard to understand even though we've had a long conversation about it. He has a fairly high sex drive so i'm sure its not that he's disinterested. He claimed that it was because of a couple of things that he wanted to do this. Firstly because he was raised in a fairly religious household where they constantly preached marriage before sex and that he felt guilty for breaking that and was now trying to make up for it. He said mostly though it was because he felt like he needed to respect me and the relationship more by not being so focused on sex. \n\nI respect his decision in all of this and am willing to wait if thats what he really needs. I've also never seen him as happy as he was after he made this decision, he said he felt like a weight had been lifted off him and that he could finally love me properly. I don't want to take this away from him but i'm scared for what this means in our relationship. Its one thing for a relationship to progress knowing you both want to wait for marriage, but another thing to go backwards from that kind of physical relationship. I was happy in our relationship and how it was but i now feel restricted, like there are now boundaries that i can't cross and i now can't be fully relaxed and me. I don't want to have to repress my sexual desires and needs but it sounds selfish to say so. I'm really not sure how to go about this because i love him and i won't leave him over this.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my ex were together for over 2 years and broke up exactly 4 months ago today. This happened 3 days ago.\n\nBasically I went out with some friends and got completely and utterly shit-faced.\nWhile not bad in and of itself I then met my ex's best friend and got talking to her.\n\nThen she mentions that it took my ex a very long time to stop being sad about the break up and then in my drunken stupor I started laughing in her face saying that I was still hopelessly in love with my ex and that I would have probably married her eventually if we hadn't broken up. I was very drunk and know I should have just shut up but it was all word vomit.\n\nWhen I woke up the next morning I texted her to please not say anything to my ex because I don't want to put her in that kind of situation as that wouldn't be fair if she has already started to move on and I would rather she do that and be happy than get set back because I'm an idiot.\n\nShe never replied so I assume she will/already has told my ex and considering she told my best friend when he asked what we were talking about and she can't keep things to herself in general ( sounds rude and mean but I can't really think of a better way to phrase it)\n\nNow I don't know what to do. Should I contact my ex and explain myself or let it go ? either way she knows.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So i have known this girl for about 3 months now. I had no idea that she had a boyfriend until yesterday when I overheard her friends talking about it. All these time she never hinted or said she was in a relationship. She is now pretty heartbroken. Like really really heartbroken. I heard it they did not work out at all but she's still deeply in love with him. I have not talked to her since they broke up, we always do before that. Now, I am also unsure if she knows the fact that I know what is going on (that she broke up and had a boyfriend).\nMy relationship with her got pretty close after a month knowing her. We almost have lunch and dinner 3-5 times a week. She always gives mixed signals to me to i am very 50/50 about her towards me. Really, I would never thought she had a boyfriend. She always said he was a friend. They probably only meet up like once a fortnight. Now, should i give her time to let her cool down from all these emotions? I shouldn't comfort her or anything right? What is the next step? :(", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend for 3+ years and I have started thinking about the future and marriage. One thing that bothers me sometimes is that I have been purposefully vague about my past relationships and I don't know if I need to open up to him and tell him everything. We are both quiet, introverted people that don't necessarily share every minute detail, so it hasn't been a big deal. \n\nI was in an emotionally abusive relationship in the past, and had a couple of short-term relationships after that where I was still emotionally unstable. I did some things I am not proud of (breaking up by no contact with one guy, dated another controlling man and then kissed someone else so we would break up) when I was younger. However, I've matured and learned about healthy relationships. I've been in 1-2 healthy relationships before I met my current boyfriend. Most people who know me now don't know any of this, and I an genuinely happy and fulfilled in my personal and professional life. It's only when I sometimes think back to the past I sort of freeze up inside.\n\nI have tried to see a couple of therapists (one after I ended the abusive relationship, and one a few years after that). But both of them stopped seeing me after a few sessions because I seemed pretty well-adjusted and was capable of dealing with the issues. I got some good advice about accepting myself and having healthy habits (exercise, eating well, sleeping well, etc.) to cope, but otherwise nothing major. The message I took away was that the past is in the past and I should work on the here and now. \n\nMy question is, do I need to tell my current boyfriend the entire truth? He knows about the abusive relationship (not the details, just that I was in one) and that I was \"wild\" in my youth (but again, not specifically what). I am very happy in my current relationship, we are both supportive of each other, and this never comes up. Do I need to try therapy again even if this isn't really causing me any daily stress?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm friends with my ex whom I no longer have any feelings for and who currently has a new girlfriend. It didn't bother me at first but now I notice that he does things with her that I had always wanted to do with him but he wouldn't want to. For example, I would have to beg to spend time with him sometimes and with his new gf he'll be there at a drop of a hat if she asks. It's really taking a beating to my self esteem and I keep wondering why he's such a good bf to her and why he wasn't to me. I know it's irrational but how can I shake it off? I keep trying but the feeling that I wasn't good enough creeps back in. \n\nAlso, keep in mind that he was my first relationship and this is the first time I'm dealing with a situation like this.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my gf and I have been arguing lately, there's been TONS of drama and our parents said we couldn't be together anymore because of all of it. I was upset but i got over it and said that we cant be together anymore and that after all this was over we could come back and see if we wanted to get back together. She wasn't up for that she wanted to just ignore what our parents said and that our relationship shouldn't be affected by it. Pretty much the whole Romeo and Juliet situation about dying in the name of love and she wouldn't live if i wasnt in her life.. We tried to keep seeing each other we only could at school and never hang out or see each other. I ended up telling her the same thing again that i couldn't do it, and that we were too young to be dealing with all of that. She again didn't listen to it and wanted to date me.. I keep going back and trying and i cant tell if it is that i still have feelings for her or i just don't want to see her with anyone else.. We did have sex with each other many times and spent as much time together as we could. For six months we spent almost every day together.. I'm just ready to either move on or fully commit to working things out.. Thank you for your time.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend of two and a half years dropped the bomb on me that he wants to break up.\n\nI've supported him through everything. From losing his license, to getting laid off at work, to finding out his brother is an addict, to dealing with a crazy ex, and more.\n\nHis reasons are he is frustrated by my poor stress management and also he has just decided that he doesn't want a long term relationship anymore. \n\nI have anxiety, it's something I've had my whole life. I went to therapy for it years ago and also last year again and I admitted that lately I have dropped the ball with it. I have been talking to my doctor recently about exploring some new options, maybe considering medication. His situations don't help with my anxiety or overall stress but other than that the relationship has been awesome. We have a lot of fun together and we share a lot of the same views about life and where we want to go in the future. We have so much in common and our personalities go together great. He has been a great boyfriend up until the last couple of months. When I brought it up to him that things are getting a little one sided that's when he told me he wants out.\n\nLast week he did have a pretty big falling out with his best friend over some stressful stuff (friendship ending type stuff) and on top of that he said he has been under a lot of stress at work. I'm wondering if this sudden decision is just him poorly handling stress and trying to shut down and not deal with our situation instead of resolve it.\n\nI managed to get him to think about reconsidering this week and we would talk again on Friday. Obviously I am hoping he chooses to try to work things out but honestly I think I am going to get broken up with a second time. \n\nAlmost everyone I talked to about it thinks there's another girl he's not telling me about. I want to break the silence we are supposed to be keeping and ask but I don't want to drive him away even more. I also don't think I can hang in there until Friday.\n\nhelp.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all,\n\nMy son attends a fabulous in-home daycare. Apparently, however, his wonderful, sweet caregiver is being harassed because I *gasp* parked on the street (as opposed to in the driveway) for (I timed it) ...108 seconds this morning. Less than 2 minutes. There was already a car in the driveway dropping off another child and I didn't want to block her in, as I know the mom and I know we both have the same time requirement for when to be at school. My husband with a more flexible schedule typically drops my son off, so it's not usually a big deal to wait. Anyhoo...it's not a gated community. It's a public street. Is that even legal for this guy to call and harass her? (Apparently this has happened with other parents and I mean, dude, get a life. Like does he stare out his window and just look for cars parked on the street? He must have. Total glassbowl, apparently.) Add to this the fact that there are *always* work trucks parked on the street because they're doing someone's lawn, or it's someone's housecleaning service. Right, OK, so it's cool for lawn guys to park huge-ass trucks on the street for hours at a time but my 4 door sedan being parked for less than 2 minutes is a crisis. \n\nHe apparently threatened to call the county to complain about her not paying proper taxes (which she does) and all kinds of other nonsense. Seriously, he's off his rocker about this. But is it legal? He's a realtor, so his info is publicly available. I really want to contact him and tell him that if my car is so terribly inconveniencing to him, he should speak to *me* about it instead of cowering behind stupid threats and harassing a sweet woman who watches babies all day.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "M(29) F(27)\n\nWe've been together for nearly five years, and the majority of our time together is euphoric. We haven't lost the spark with each other, and we continue to fall more and more in love. This isn't one-sided. \n\nLast night, however, we were watching The Addams Family for a while when he had to leave the living room to work in the kitchen (on the computer). This had already been the plan. I get up to get chips and catch him browsing google images of a grown Christina Ricci, but he quickly Xes out of the page when I come into the kitchen. Now, the actual looking of the photos wouldn't have alerted me. I would have simply thought he was comparing age. But when I asked him why he acted shady about it, he admitted he was gawking over her because he was attracted to her. \n\nI know men look at porn. That's never bothered me. But when you're five feet away from the person you're with, why gawk over a celebrity on the internet? The fact that it wasn't porn -- it was her beautiful face (I look nothing like her) -- and the fact that he was so defensive about it has left a lingering feeling of hurt. \n\nAm I being irrational?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been together since college. I was going through old pictures on our computer and I found this one naked picture of him from years ago. It's a picture of him standing there, dick in one hand, trying to grab the camera with the other, in the middle of saying something. It was obviously taken by someone. I can't figure out where it is because the flash was on the the room behind him in the pictures is dark. I know that we were together when the photo was taken because he wasn't that muscular before we started dating. \n\nI asked him about it and he swears that I took the picture and it was taken in our old apartment. I know it was a long time ago but I am certain that I didn't take the picture. There's no metadata for me to see what kind of camera it was taken on or anything so it's just his word against mine. From the size of the photo I can assume it was taken on his old digital camera because it matches up with other pictures he has from then. I also barely ever used his camera because I liked mine more. \n\nIt's been bothering me a lot and I can't stop thinking about it. I asked him last night if it's possible anyone saw him naked and took a picture and he said no at first but later said that maybe his old college friend (who is a woman) took it when he was changing, but he doesn't remember if he was ever naked around her. It seems very clear to me that he wasn't changing in that photo, he has a huge boner and is holding it. And even if he was just changing, why would he be doing that in front of her? \n\nI used to be so insecure about their friendship because she seemed like she was really into him but he swore nothing ever happened between them so I eventually learned to live with it. They don't talk anymore because we moved away. \n\nEverything is telling me that something is off here but I have no way of finding out so I'm really upset. Does this seem off to anyone else?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey reddit about a 2 weeks ago my doctor hsd some sort of complaint file against him and until it gets taken care of he cant write any rxs. long store short if been out of meds that without i can work or really function a normal person. every office ive called has just given me run around and told e if i get bad i cloud go to th ER witch i dont want to i want to me i want to work but with out my meds i cant is there any one out there that can please give me some advice on what i can do to get my meds asap and help would be greatly appreciated", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not actually graduating until next spring, but I thought that this would be a good time to ask, so I have plenty of time to get things in order or to possibly pursue some of the things that are advised.\n\nHere's the story: I'm 35 years old, a Marine Corps veteran and a married father of 3. At this time, my wife doesn't earn much at all and we're barely making it on my blue-collar income of around 43-48k/year (depends on overtime availability).\n\nI hate my job, and I'm finally finishing up my degree so that I can move into something else. Unfortunately, I've heard too many horror stories about recent grads being offered $13-15/hour and taking it because it's actually pretty good, relative to other offers or opportunities.\n\nI'm terrified that despite my education, I won't be able to move into anything that pays more than I'm currently making \"right out of the gate\", so to speak.\n\nI'm not afraid to move if I have to, and I can learn pretty much anything I need to. My BA will be in \"Integrative Leadership Studies\", which is just a generic Adult Degree program at my college.\n\nI'm not afraid to continue on to a graduate program, but I'd like to leave my current job first, if at all possible.\n\nDoes anyone have any advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi,\ntomorrow I'll meet Marie again (only the two of us as always). She told me regularly we are not dating. She just wants us to be friends or at least she said so. I never had this before. My brain automatically thinks: \"M and F are meeting regularly and they know each other for a short time = dates\". We always have a great time.\n\nI like her alot, dont want to lose her and I need to learn how not want to have sex with her. Or i need to learn what to do that she wants to have sex with me. (not only sex, cuddle/kissing, whatever you want, i just want to be close to her). \n\nIm very upset sometimes because of this situation, because i'm looking for a GF/FWB since 6 month now and i got the feeling we could have a great time together.\n\nWhat can i tell her tomorrow, to make clear I like her also in another way than she does, without risking to lose her?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I only recently found this subreddit and I am hooked so I'd thought i'd share my story..\n\nFirst off, this happened about 5-6 years ago so parts may be a little hazy.\nA bit of a background story to why I did this... My older brother would always annoy me by doing stupid little \"pranks\" and one day while I was eating dinner he thought it would be hilarious to pull my chair from underneath me (the oldest trick in the book). \n\nSo i decided that enough was enough and needed to plot my revenge. Given that I have more intelligence than he has and could only come up with old tricks, I wanted to put some thought into getting my revenge. One thing I noticed was that when he came back from work after a long day, he would always launch himself onto his bed to relax.\n\nOne day when he went to work, I spent about an hour or so turning everything (figuratively speaking) in his room upside down including all his pictures, alcohol bottles on his table, his TV (don't know how you can't notice this), posters and most importantly his bed.....yeah flipped it over so the base was on top and the mattress on the floor. I then remade his bed to make it look as normal as I possibly could so he wouldn't suspect a thing.\n\nThen I waited with much eagerness to fulfill my revenge and around 2 hours later he arrived home and surely enough went straight to his room. As my room was next to his, I was being as quiet as possible so he didn't know I was home and so I could hear my work coming to life.\n\nThat's when the inevitable happened......all I heard is a scream followed by a WTF!! Turns out the force of him landing and the hard impact onto the \"hardened mattress\", he also smashed his head. It wasn't until I came in laughing my ass off with a shit-eating grin from my proud work that he had also realised that everything else in his room was upside down. He then had to spend the next 1-2 hours putting everything back up the right way much to his annoyance.\n\nLets just say he stopped annoying me after that.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Reddit, I don't know where to start, but I'll begin by telling you that I have very recently been brutally honest with myself and it made me cry for ten minutes straight. \n\nI love attention, and because I am a very outgoing attractive girl, I garner a lot of it. I'm used to guys watching me walk by on the street, women looking at me with envy or judgement, and people listening to what I have to say when I talk. *Please, please*, don't see this as a conceited statement, I'm just laying groundwork here.\n\nRegardless of the attention I receive, the knowledge of my beauty and intelligence, there is *still* so much insecurity. So what do I do? I get a boyfriend and things always seem to accelerate super quickly. We move in together in the first couple of months or the \"L\" word is spoken (I hate to say it but my bf at the time is usually the first to), excessive amounts of time is spent together and when I think everything is going fine, **boom** the relationship dissolves and I'm left with myself. \n\nI used to write, words were my art. Fashion was something I was so passionate about and I had a stronger sense of self than I do now. I look in the mirror sometimes and don't know who I am (as cliche as it sounds.) I live in a suburban town (though I am close to a city) and I don't have any friends because they have all floated away in the midst of my relationships. When people ask me what I like to do for fun or what my hobbies are, I draw a complete blank. When I pick up a pen to write, I feel uninspired. \n\nI know, in my head and now in my heart, that the only way to figure myself out is to be without a bf, but that safety and comfort of always being wanted by one specific person will be gone, and it scares me to death.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm gay. Just came out. I'm 22. My best friend for years has been a straight guy.\n\nI don't let my orientation define me. I hate saying I'm gay. But I always think about this. \n\nI've crushed on him since the day I've met him. I've just dealt with it since he means a lot as a friend. Usually I don't associate with crushes for the heartache. But this time I am. \n\nI feel bad because no matter how much I try not to its just biology that my feelings for him will change how I act as a friend. I'm naturally just gonna feel a bit different around him because of the attraction. \n\nWe tell each other everything. Our relationship is reciprocal. We hang out. Text every day. Make sure we see each other when we both busy. We share feelings. He talks about his girlfriends with me, etc. I try to protect him and be a friend and he protects me too, but I can't help but feel like I wish I could have him. I don't let those feelings change how I act though. \n\nHe knows I'm gay and doesn't care. He knew a year ago before I told anyone. \n\nI just feel like an asshole if I'm going to try to find a boyfriend but in my head I love another guy I still see and talk to all the time. \n\nI always make male friends. I like them more. But I always crush on them eventually. I have a lot of love. I feel like this is wrong too.\n\nI get told its weird, cheating, wrong, etc. And I get told to find new friends and a real boyfriend. \n\nI feel like I'm doing something really wrong and that our relationship is extremely weird compared to most other peoples friends.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have our own small physical contacts that we both enjoy. I like it when she lays on my chest, she likes it when I squeeze her legs, things like that. I also like it when my hair is squeezed with a tight fist (put not pulled after the grab). I had told her I liked the feeling of that before, but never asked her to do it directly. One day when I was laying in her lap I asked if she would squeeze my hair, and she said no. When I asked her why not, she did not respond.\n\nI was a little hurt by her denial of my simple request, not because she didn't squeeze my hair, but because she wasn't willing to do something I though it felt good, with out a justification as to why. I don't actually like to squeeze her legs, I find it painful after an extended period (she knows it hurts, I've told her), but I do it because she likes it.\n\nUntil now, I had never specifically asked for any of this kind of physical contact, but once I told her directly about my desires, she actively avoids it now.\n\nWas I wrong to ask that of her?\n\nWas my request unreasonable?\n\nShould I feel hurt by her denial?\n\nWas I expecting something I shouldn't?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok so for a little backstory my mum started dating this guy when I was 4 before she divorced with my father. But after 1 year called it off with my father who later remarried and moved away but this new man has been a father figure to me ever since. So over this 11 year period there have been 8 accounts of both verbal and physical assault of which I witnessed ( most likely quiet a few more) and 2 of them involving me calling the police and him getting arrested and 1 failed attemp at a restraining order. \n\nOk so after all of this happened about 2010 she was finaly called it of with him which was hard as he controlled her financialy and less than 6 months later I see her phone in the table and a notification on the phone giving a time and address so it clicked she was back to dating him and thus began the cycle again of abuse and break up and this happened up until mid 2014. This is where the relationship stopped for a while until we then move in with him as a flat mate and this I find hard to believe as they sleep in the same bed and have heard them having sex even though we live in a 3 room flat. So can and should I try and forgive and become how it used to be even if he did what he did.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I met my boyfriend almost two years ago, he was fit and in shape. We used to run together and go hiking all the time. He was stressed out for awhile and drank a lot, and six months ago he had to move away for a different job. His new location doesn't have nice places to exercise outdoors, and he hates exercising indoors. He has gained about 30lbs since I met him and I know it affects his self-esteem. He recently found out that he is \"overweight\" and he constantly calls himself fat. I tell him that I love him and that if he is unhappy with his body image, he should exercise. But, he always makes excuses. I wonder if I should encourage him more. Is this a good idea or should I let him deal with this issue on his own. I don't want him to take my encouragement as \"I love you less because you're overweight.\" That's not the case. However, I do worry that if he continues to gain weight he could suffer health consequences since his family members have Type II Diabetes. I also just want him to feel better about himself. Any suggestions?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend had an affair. We've been together nearly 2 years. It's been several months since the affair ended and we are working on it. He's given 110% to proving himself and getting help for substance abuse issues as well. Things are better between us now than they've been in awhile. \n\nSometimes I have a really hard time coping with it. I guess I wanted to see if anyone had any advice they could offer? \n\nIt's like this awful rollercoaster sometimes. I can't believe he did such a hurtful and selfish thing to me, and to the other woman. She and I have talked at length, and while it's been helpful at answering questions, it's also just something else to be sad about. \n\nI know he regrets what he did. He's taken full responsibility for it, he hasn't shied away from anything I need to ask, and he's gone the extra mile to show me he wants to earn my trust back. \n\nHonestly sometimes I just feel so broken. And I don't want to keep throwing it in his face because he's well aware he fucked up and it's something we can either move past or stay stuck at. \n\nI want to move past it. I am obviously hurt and angry with him, but also with myself. I feel like by staying with him, I am making what he did okay. Or that I'm not respecting myself. On the other hand, I know people fuck up, and I've never been one to give up on people. \n\nIs this just going to take time? Am I being an idiot?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit,\n\nI'm posting this here in hopes that I'm not overreacting over something completely stupid. I (28F) have been dating my boyfriend (30M) for about four months. He has been posting pictures of his gorgeous coworker on his instagram, she's posting back hearts, and it's starting to make me feel sick. It would be one thing if he had told me that he's in love with me and I suppose I wouldn't feel so insecure - I'm pretty laid back, but she's really hot, and it's just striking me as being not cool under the circumstances.\n\nI was thinking that I would nicely say, \"I can't help but notice that you're posting a lot of pictures of that girl. I don't mean to let it bother me, but it makes me feel like she's important to you in some way which makes me feel pretty awful on many levels\". I don't even know. Part of me just wants to peace out. I'm too old for this and I already feel like I've had my heart trampled. \n\nHas anyone ever had to deal with something like this? Did it ultimately mean impending doom for the relationship? Do you think that my approach is appropriate, or am I overreacting?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi,\n\nMy ex broke up with me because she didn't feel the same way anymore and wanted to move on and meet other guys, which according to what she told me, did happen already. I am 100% aware that the relationship is over and I am 100% trying to move on right now.\n\nMy friends are extremely supportive and they always chill and distract me until late at night when they go home. I also got new hobbies like lifting, got a new haircut and did changes to my life to try and be a brand new person. However, I am having problems like not being able to sleep at night and even if I do, end up waking up extremely early. \n\nAt night, my heart will keep on pounding like a race horse when I am alone and no matter how hard I try I cannot distract the feeling. When I watch a tv show or play games the feeling stays and distracts me from whatever I am doing. When I finally fall asleep at 3AM I always end up waking up at around 7:30AM~ with strong thoughts on her and my heart pounding really fast again. When I go out and eat with my friends, a regular sized pho is usually an easy finish for me but lately I am struggling to eat even half of it. I lost all my appetite. \n\nI am trying really hard to get over this but it is so hard for me at night and in the morning, is there anything I could do to stop these feelings from getting to me? I have a counselor appointment booked for this weekend but for now I am really trying to get recommendations from all you experienced and amazing people to help me not get those pounding feelings anymore and to be able to eat.\n\nThank you so much for all the responses from my ex post, it really helped me make up my mind and I cannot thank you all enough for helping me through my toughest times.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my job sent me to Canada for shift work. 2 weeks on and then I get 1 week off. I gave my girlfriend the keys to my apartment to check my mail and house sit. I told her she could have her best friend over to watch Netflix or what not while I was gone but that was it. Well 5 days into my assignment she has her friend and they invite a guy friend over. They all start drinking. She skyped me about an hour early hiding the fact that she had anyone else over but her best friend. Well her best friend calls her ex boyfriend over and they start arguing. This leaves their guy friend and my girl friend in my room together. The guy tells her that he has a lot of emotions for her and they start making out, he then takes off her pants and they have sex for about a minute before my girlfriend said she couldn't do it. Then she gets up to go to the bathroom and he follows her and says yes she can. He put it back in her, but she stopped it again after about a minute. He then asked if she could blow him then, and she said she felt bad so she did for about 30 seconds before she stopped again. She called me right after and told me how sorry she was, and she didn't know it was going to happen. She told me alcohol was definitely a factor, and the whole ordeal has made her realize how much she loved me. She said she told him to stop because she knew it was so wrong, but it was hard to get him off of her. What do I do? This was in my house while I was gone in Canada! How do I look past this?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was in a relationship with someone I really loved. We lived together and I thought we were very happy. I ended up finding out that she had a very personal relationship with another guy for months. I guy I knew about, but didn't know the extent of their relationship. They may or may not have hooked up, but to me, that didn't matter. She betrayed my trust, so I ended it with her and moved out.\n\nThis was almost a year ago, and I feel pathetic that I haven't gotten over it. I first tried to work on improving myself. I went to the gym every day, kept myself busy, and did a few activities I had been wanting to do. It was nice, but I was still upset about the break up. Not to sound arrogant, but I'm a social guy and above average looks. I tried to distract myself by going on constant dates. This helped a bit, but now I am about 4 months into dating someone (we are not exclusive) and I feel like we should start being exclusive. Unfortunately, I find myself incredibly untrustworthy of her for no real reason. \n\nI have always been very trusting of my partners (obviously to a fault) and I think that is the way a healthy relationship should be. I don't want to be constantly doubting my partner, but unfortunately, that is my reality. My question is, how do I get back to my trusting ways? I don't want to be this guy that I am right now.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am coming to reddit because so far I haven't been able to find a legit animal behavioralist in my area. (I understand reddit is no substitute for that.)\n\nA little background. . . I have a 3 year old Australian Shepherd. He is very well behaved for the most part. He listens to all basic commands and makes good eye contact most of the time. He is quite defensive of the yard and property. If someone comes to the door or a loud car drives by he barks and growls. He quickly quiets down when you ask him to. (Most of the time except when he is in the yard alone) He gets along very well with other dogs and people. If someone new is coming to the house he is standoffish at first but quickly is very friendly. (As long as I say its ok) He is well excercised for the most part. (Walk to a field and then 45 minutes+ of running/fetch/frisbee) In the winter time he goes outside less but doesn't seem to act any differently. I do alot of indoor training/play with him as well.\n\nThe other day my friends phone rang and he stood up about to answered it. At the same time my dog started growling and attacked him. He stopped after a few seconds (gave him sit commands etc) but was still very heated. My friend went in the other room for his phone call and it seemed like my dog wanted to follow him. We both thought the ringtone agitated him.\n\nAre there any clear cut training methods to stop this behavior? It happened twice now with two different people. He is completely fine with the person before and shortly after it happens. It really comes out of nowhere. I have tried to replicate the scenario but haven't been able to. I have also shown him a ringing phone etc.\n\nAlso if anyone has tips about making him less defensive of the yard it would be great! Sometimes he barks at people that are 4+ houses away. Once he bolted out the door and barked and circled the mailman. I have watched a bunch of youtube videos and done alot of googling but haven't found anything that worked yet.I get that this particular breed is quite defensive.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just wanted to know if what I'm feeling is right. Basically there are two women I'll call one Cara and the other Steph. I arranged to have a dinner with Steph (she is an awesome cook), Cara was the driving force since they haven't seen each other in a while. This was 2 weeks ago. A few other people were invited, Cara asked Steph to make her favorite dish.\n\nDay of the dinner, Cara doesn't show. We were hanging out earlier but needed to do other things so we went our separate ways (3 hrs before the dinner). She didn't answer any calls or texts. Steph was upset but she said it was fine (probably isn't but I'm talking her through it).\n\nI was worried and called and next day (it was close to 24hrs since I last heard from her) and her friend picked up saying they're out bike riding. He puts Cara on the phone and she said she was sick and she currently doesn't have her phone on her. \n\nI've talked with Steph and Cara hasn't called or texted, nothing. I'm a bit upset. I honestly didn't think Cara would act this way, and frankly I'm disappointed. We hang out more often than Steph due to distance, but now I feel like she is just being rude. Cara is feeling a bit of tension from me since I've barely responded to her or talked to her (I help her with business for free when I have free time).\n\nShould I tell Cara my opinions? \n- That I think it was quite rude to stand people up \n- Not contact anyone involved at the dinner for over 22hrs (only being reached by someone contacting her) causing us to worry\n- Being \"sick\" with no phone but still well enough to go out? (I call bull but purely speculation)\n- And finally not even contacting Steph after missing a dinner planned for her\n\nOr am I wrong since it's her life (she and her friend sounded annoyed/tense? when I called)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We officially met about two years ago, before that we had gone to the same high school but never talked much. When we first met she was dating one of my good friends, and she had also got a job at the same place as me. We worked together a lot and would chat and occasionally hang out after work and started to become very good friends. Eventually her and her now ex broke up and I had developed a small crush but tried to repress my feelings for her because:\n\n1.) She was my good friend's ex.\n\n2.) We worked together.\n\n3.) I didn't want to ruin any sort of friendship we had. \n\nWe remained good friends, hanging out a lot with mutual friends or going out to eat or just sitting around listening to music. We started getting to know each other more and more, and seeing each other more and more. She is very similar to me, prideful, tends to be hot-headed but rational, likes a lot of things I like, is vocal about her opinion. We seem to really connect. \n\nAfter the this summer I quit my job and got a new one, while she stayed on for another month before finding somewhere else to work. Even though we weren't working together anymore we were still making plans 3-4 times a week, and I started to be more in tune with my feelings towards her. Now its the start of the new year, and I've accepted that I have very strong feelings for her, but I'm unsure how to proceed. I was wondering who else here has been in any kind of situation like this, and how it worked out for them.\n\nShould I tell her my feelings, or keep it to myself? Is it worth it risking our closeness to pursue a relationship? If we do date how should I handle my friend(her ex)? I have a sort of plan that I intend to put in motion in a couple weeks to ask her on a date. I can provide more details on that if anyone wants to know. \n\nI appreciate all advice and insight.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello,\n\nWhen we first got together, my sweet and lovely girlfriend told me loud and clear that she equated watching porn to infidelity and that she would break up with me if she ever caught me doing it.\n\nI admit straight away that I outright dismissed her message and continued watching porn on occasion; never when she was around and never on the expense of our sex life but behind her back and I often felt a twinge of shame. Yet, I kept on doing it.\n\nIt had to happen eventually. She discovered it yesterday and she has been devastated since then, sobbing uncontrollably for long bouts of time. Yet, she has also been kind, telling me how much she loves me and asking me rather than others for consolation (which I must say I feel very awkward about).\n\nImmediately after the revelation, I owned up, offering her to break up with me because I realized what a let-down I had been. She turned it down, saying that she would stay with me, but it will be over if I ever watch pornography again. Nor can I break up with her, seeing that she has personal issues where my support is extremely precious to her. Walking away could destroy her.\n\nThere's not much more to say. She and I go along together extremely well and I have to count myself lucky that she still wants to stay with me and I will have to work hard to win back her trust. Although I do think her equation between porn and infidelity is forced, I absolutely disregarded her warning and now I am paying the price. Still, I feel wretched, branded an adulterer and I fear that our future relationship will be entirely on her mercy. \n\nThere has been an incredible amount of anger and loathing over these past few days, but I now see that it is my responsibility to set things right. Still, should I just be completely meek in doing so or should I assert that, although I betrayed her trust, I haven't exactly killed anyone? \n\nI just want to hear your take. Is there something I have overlooked?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I had been dating for 15 months. \n\n**Last week my girlfriend went onto my Facebook account and read through my message history with a couple of girls.**\n\nShe was **searching for a specific girl that I used to flirt with in the past, and she found it.**\n\nWe had fought one time before about me flirting with this girl, and I stopped talking to her entirely for a couple of months (obviously she didn't believe I did).\n\nShe found messages between the girl and I around my birthday in February, and her (message girl) birthday in June. Needless to say they were flirty but with no intentions of ever acting upon them. The girl lives in Europe and I live on the East Coast. But my girlfriend doesn't believe that I ever stopped talking to her, and that I was flirty throughout our entire relationship.\n\nI have no evidence to disprove this, except for the fact that I don't have her on social media anymore (excluding Facebook, which I now deleted)\n\nYes I know it was stupid for me to flirt in the first place, but I can't help but feel like there is a massive invasion of privacy and that she shouldn't have seen the messages in the first place.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm writing this out as I'm extremely tired, because it's kinda keeping me up, so if my grammar is a bit weird and my sentences start to get away from me, sorry.\n\nMe and my Serious Girlfriend have been in a 6 month long distance relationship. And while I do love her, and I don't believe anything will change that, I do have a slight issue with her weight. It's always been my opinion that you can be whatever weight you want as long as it doesn't severely impact your health, and without giving numbers I did some brief BMI calculations and figured out that she is on the border between severe and morbid obesity.\n\nThis doesn't make me love her any less, but it is something I want to bring up with her, because I fear it will impact her health. If things go as planned I do intent on spending the rest of my life with this woman, and I don't want any time we have together to be cut short because of something that we can prevent, even if it means eating healthier and exercising with her a few times a week.\n\nI just don't know how to approach the subject with her without coming across as an asshole. I'm actually going to meet her for the first time in person on the night of the 27th, and I know something she's anxious about is that I won't love her as much in person, which is why I'm making sure to approach the subject as gingerly as possible.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Turning down a girl who's asked me out twice:\n\nThe way I see it, my options are:\n* Turn down / stall her invitation, to see if she can get the message herself. Hope I don't run into her sometime soon.\n* Let her know I'm not interested, but still would be up for meeting if she wants to be just friends.\n* Agree to meet, try to convey my lack of interest and hope she gets it\n* Agree to meet, tell her straight up what I feel if it looks she is trying to push it.\n\nI'm leaning towards option 2, but am not sure.\n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is my first relationship and he has past exes before. Everytime we have a big argument, he tells me that he's curious to see me with someone else just to see who is being reasonable or unreasonable. \n\nIs there an explanation for him to say that to me?\nOr is it okay for him to say that to me? \nShould I just brush it off?\n\nI love him so much and its only been a year together and this statement comes up often when we have a big fight usually from something that I bring up initially. \nThe arguement ends up being big because of misunderstandings and little details like tone of voice and attitudes while we're trying to solve the problem.\n\nHe says that he cares about me but would you say that to someone you care about?\n\nI feel so hurt when he says that to me. I would never want to see him with someone else, or even think about him seeing someone else.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "OK, here we go. Wind back the clock 10 years. \"N\" just dumped me after a series of falling outs. Turns out she'd been seeing \"J\" on the sly through a friends of friends thing; i.e. no physical contact, but both fancied the pants of each other. To her credit, she dumped me before laying a finger on him.\n\nI'm now married, as is she. No kids to complicate things.\n\nI was visiting the office next to hers (it turns out) and completely randomly bumped into her as she was heading out for lunch. Shock / surprise / awe all around and we go to a nearby coffee bar to get lunch & catch up.\n\nSo... long story short... we got along like a house on fire. It was as though we'd never broken up. We're talking long, lingering looks. Sly smiles. Random hand on knee action. The whole lot. Every feeling I ever had for her returned in a heartbeat; I'm pretty sure the feeling was mutual. We finished up lunch, had an awkward peck-on-the-cheek and agreed to be in touch \"soon\". She gave me her cellphone number (she tapped it into my phone).\n\nMy sensible side tells me I'm being an idiot and the \"fuck around with the ex\" effect is kicking in. and I mean in a sexual way; you know \"friends with benefits\" and all that. On the other hand, I don't think I ever got over her and all sorts of rekindling has just happened. I think it might be mutual.\n\nI'm fucked-up Reddit. I think I just need to delete the number and bury these phoenix feelings. What do you think?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, legaladvice. I can't believe I'm in this situation.\n\nI was recently promoted to Store Manager of a grocery store after the original manager quit (I was assisstant manager before for about 6 months).\n\nWe hired a woman, let's call her Sally, a couple of weeks ago. She's not terrible at her job (just basic cashier stuff) but she refuses to process payments that equal $6.66. I know, it sounds crazy.\n\nOur store prices everything ending in 28 cents as a ploy (kinda like Brandsmart). So anything priced at $6.28 will ring up to $6.66 after tax, and it happens quite often that people will buy just that one item (which I've learned after Sally started working here).\n\nEvery time this happens, one of the managers or supervisors has to take over because she refuses and sometimes it throws a spanner in the works. I brought it up with HR and they said I can't do anything about it because it's her religious freedom (since 666 is the number of the beast in Christianity).\n\nThe thing is, we have the same religion; we even go to the same church! But I don't think she should be able to use that excuse to not ring those transactions. I've offered to move her to another part of the store but she doesn't want to stock or do anything else.\n\nHR warned me not to decrease her hours or I'd get in trouble, but I just don't see how I can do my job properly if I have to take care of petty stuff like this.\n\nIs there a law or something that says I'm right? I don't want to go back to HR without knowing I'm 100% right that she shouldn't have the job if she can't perform all aspects of it.\n\nAnd if I'm wrong, I suppose I can bear it even if I do think it's ridiculous.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 23 (f). He's 22 and recently got engaged to his gf (23) of 2 years in November. \n\nWe've known each other for a little over 4 years (since freshmen in college) and have always had chemistry, but until last year I was in a committed relationship. \n\nI found out through the course of time that he used to have feelings for me before he met his fiance. Up until 5 or 6 months ago we've flirted as friends, but it's never escalated to anything I would note. \n\nYet since that point, we've become incredibly close- We did undergrad research, gamed together, went on road trips, etc.\n\nI've never felt this way about anyone, even my ex of 5 years. I feel like we're on equal levels/wavelengths and he makes me so incredibly happy. However, I always thought it would be too selfish of me to tell him how I feel.\n\nEither way I'm almost certain, even if he did share my feelings, he'd never leave his fiance. Yet, lately I've felt this urge to tell him I'm falling for him. He's going to be moving about 4 hours away for graduate school (moving in with fiance) in two weeks and I'm afraid I won't see him again. \n\nThe most confusing thing is that these past few weeks he's been going along with my flirting: offering me his sweatshirt when I'm cold, holding my hand on silly occasions, giving me back rubs, and showing some reservations about his fiance in regards to differences in lifestyles. \n\nI'm seriously conflicted over my next course of action. I'm very tempted to tell him the night before he leaves, but is it worth his possible (and my inevitable) heartache?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've had ups and downs throughout our relationship, been together for 2 years. She got a job as a gas station clerk about 6 months ago. She is very, i mean Very attractive, and guys feel the need to buy her snacks, lottery tickets, and straight up give her money as a \"tip\" Its always a different man, never gives me names when i ask, theyre just her friends. I asked her to stop excepting all of these gestures, but its still happening. id say about half the time i stop by to take her lunch some guy is just finishing up talking to her from behind the counter. I went in today and shes sitting there drawing on some new guys hand and arm with a sharpie. i mean this guy is smiling from ear to ear while shes hunched over him just doodling... then she sees me and Says \"dont start\" and quickly gets between us and starts blocking me and walks me out towards the door. I leave angry and dont even let her explain a word. She then proceeds to call me 46 times in half hour. Am i wrong for being pissed off?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So basically, I've been in a relationship for almost two years and it's had it's ups and downs. It started in university and since me and my girlfriend are both studying away from home, the relationship becomes long distance during summer and winter holidays. We tend to fight a lot more during this time, for example we haven't texted for two weeks.\n\nNow my best friend, I've known for around almost 6 years but haven't spent as many of those years with her due to studying abroad. However, when I come back home for summer break or winter break, we meet up and catch up. Everyone always told me that she's into Mr and said we should be a couple , friends family, but I never saw it and neither of us have ever brought up the topic with one another.\n\nLast winter break, I came home and my family went to meet my best friends family since they live in a different city. We ended up spending the night there and I hadn't seen her for two years at this point. That was the first time I felt something towards her. \n\nFast foward to today, my sister's wedding was yesterday and since my best friend is also sort of a family friend, we've been meeting up alot more then usual, and my feelings for her have escalated like crazy. However I'm heading back for university in 2 weeks and I want to tell her how I feel, but I'm still in a relationship even though we haven't texted in weeks. I can't bring myself to end it over texts, and I can't bring myself to tell my best friend how I feel while being in a relationship. Also, my family is moving this year, out of country so I may not see my best friend for another couple of years, and I'm afraid if I don't say anything now, that she'll find someone else thinking that I never liked her. I'd love some advice/guidance, literally anything would help..", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sometimes I get the feeling that hanging out with this close group of friends is allowing me to miss so many opportunities in life. My friends who I hang out with on a regular basis, and who I've known throughout college, are all pretty large in body size. Some of them are tipping on the edge of being overweight and some are obese. I'm the thinnest and most fit one in the group. I'm constantly out doing stuff, whether it be running and being active or making plans to go do active stuff, i.e. being outside. They never seem excited to do these sorts of things and would rather spend their nights inside, watching Netflix, drinking liquor/beer, or playing video games. It's really frustrating sometimes. They're a great group of people that I genuinely enjoy spending time with because they're good natured, funny, and we all support eachother when someone is going through a rough time. I just hate that they never want to be active and go to events/places like I do. It's always a fight for \"time\" and \"money\" and \"getting off work\", etc, etc - the list goes on. But I know that's it mostly bullshit because they are happy to plan an event where we get together at someone's house just to drink and have fun.\n\nI don't know what to do. I understand that I can meet more people who are into a similar lifestyle as mine (thank god my girlfriend is an active person), but I've known these guys for so long, I just wish I could motivate them into losing weight and being active - they have no idea what kind of life they're missing.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dear Reddit,I am a freshman in high-school, and there is this girl that I've kind of been on and off with since 7th grade. Now I know what your thinking, I am too young for 'love', but i am definitely certain that I am in love with this girl, for example her best friend who is extremely hot wanted to hook up with me over the summer, but I had to decline because I couldn't do that to her, it just wouldn't feel right...Now the reason we have been on and off is because I am incredibly shy, and so is she..Now the problem is that I have liked her for years and my family just moved 5 hours away from the city that I previously lived in, and i haven't talked to her in months. I am very scared that she has lost all interest in me. But i will go back to my hometown for voodoo fest, and jazzfest, and for the entire summer. But im just not sure on how to ask her on a date...Its really troubling me.. So Redditors of Reddit. PLEASE HELP ME OUT HERE!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'll try to make this short. My GF and I met at school and are currently apart for the summer in a LDR. Physically, she is very affectionate and whenever we're together it feels like we're extremely close. Verbally, we both like to rip on each other all the time. This is great and I love the dynamic because it's always fun and light hearted, but it only works when we have the physical affection to balance it out. She really has trouble expressing any affection verbally, so now that we're apart and continue our sarcastic dynamic, some issues have sprung up. I almost feel like I'm looked down at this point because there is just 0 reinforcement of her positive feelings towards me. We've talked about it and she feels horrible, but we honestly don't know how to fix it..help?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background:\n\nI work at a cast-iron foundry in N.E. Ohio, and for those of you who don't know, foundry work is some of the dirtiest, nastiest, toughest work around. 10 hour days are the minimum around here, and guys routinely log 60+hours a week like it's no big deal. We've got one crew who averages 13.5, 6 days a week. If it's 90 degrees outside, it's 140 next to the metal.\n\nAnyway, it recently came to my attention that one of the guys around here is illiterate. Straight up, can't read or write. He rides his bicycle about 18 miles (one-way) to get to work if he can't find a ride. He's in his early 50's, prepares molds for finishing, and drinks a case of PBR every single night. That's ALL I know about this dude.\n\nSo I got to thinking: How the hell does he survive? So much of society today depends on basic reading and writing skills. I don't want to ask him because I think it'd be a phenomenally rude thing to do, and in my experience people that can't read or write get pretty defensive about it.\n\nI'm over the fact that he never picked up these skills earlier in life. Whether he's stupid/lazy, has a learning disability, or just had a set of circumstances that prevented him from getting this basic education. I've put that from my mind and am now just trying to wrap my head around how he operates in the world.\n\nHow do people like this sign a lease? Buy things in stores? Manage money? Navigate to a new place? \n\nNow, immigrants who don't speak English and mentally challenged people are a different case. Usually they've got a support network to fall back on, or someone to watch over them. As far as I know, this dude is on his own.\n\nSo Reddit, any insight, or anecdotes about people you know in the same situation?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's the last day of the year. My family is quite big and most people live apart from each other. So for this year they decided to meet up at my grandmother's house: it's 21 people in a not so big house. I should mention most of them are also extremely right-wing, which made it hard for me to tell them I'm gay, so I kept postponing it.\n\nI should mention that my phone keeps dimming the lights when I read, so I put the screen to dim at 10 minutes but to lock at 15. It's usually not a problem since I always lock it manually when I put it down.\n\nWell, today I was sexting with my boyfriend on the bathroom. After a while I was super horny, so I threw my phone on the sink and went to take a quick shower. Once I finished it, I went to the room I was sharing with my cousin to put on some clothes.\n\nWell, as you may have guessed, my phone was untouched long enough to dim the lights, but not enough to lock itself. My cousin took my phone and saw a bunch of dirty texts between me and my boyfriend.\n\nAnd he told on me. He told on me hard.\n\nThey didn't say much to me, just a bunch of judgemental looks. I'm spending the night alone since it's too expensive to transfer my flight.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ever since I was in high school I have just been focused on working hard and getting to a college and my life would be set. Hell I even knew that this delusional way of thinking was wrong and I would constantly remind myself that life should be more of the journey to get the goal rather than fast forwarding to that point.\n\nI couldn't do it though. I never really had any friends worth giving a shit about and I could never stop thinking about getting to a better place. I just became more and more cynical and pessimistic. I continued to push through though. Past through the foggy haze of emotions.\n\nMy family and I are very distant b/c of a language barrier (english is my dominant and spanish is there second so I can't articulate as clearly) and I disagree with a lot of their conservative views. \n\nNow I'm in my second year of college doing relatively well in grades, and great health and fitness. But I just can't help but feel lonlier than ever. I've never had a real relationship with the opposite sex and everytime I've tried talking to a girl I just feel like we never have anything in common or that they're way out of my league. Which consequently makes me feel even more alienated and depressed.\n\nI've tried going to parties to socialize and sure it feels great for that short time but afterwards I realize that there was never really anyone to get intimate with and share my feelings with.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Context: I go to a large state school which is pretty much integrated into a major city. I am brown skinned (Indian). \n\nToday, I was just sitting at a bench near a bus stop eating a fig newton with my backpack next to me, alone. A city cop comes up to me and starts asking me questions about what I'm doing and stuff. I tell him I'm just sitting here eating breakfast before going to class. He asks me to empty my pockets and show him my ID. I'm not really too worried, and I have nothing to hide, so I show him my college ID and the contents of my pockets. In my pocket I had my wallet, phone, car keys and a small (3in) pocket knife with a bottle opener on the back. He takes the knife and asks me why I have it, I tell him that I have it for the bottle opener and opening boxes (part time job at a warehouse). He tells me to sit down, puts all my stuff on the bench away from me and calls for back up. He clearly states onto the radio that I am armed and dangerous. Two more cops show up in like 30 seconds, one male and one female. The first cop has me stand up and put my hands behind my head and him and the other cop start patting me down. The female cop starts going through my backpack, and finds (surprise) 2 text books, a laptop and a notebook. At this point, my class starts in about 5 minutes, I tell them I gotta go to class and they tell me that they still need me. The first cop starts asking me a bunch of random questions about my family and where I went to high school. And now the female cop is going through my wallet, she finds my military ID and shows it to the other 2 cops, who just realized that I am a Marne. They pretty much immediately let me go, and the first cop apologized to me for wasting my time. \n\nWhat does Reddit make of this?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obviously there's context here. Things like a frozen pipe that bursts in the winter are clearly an emergency.\n\nBut there's a lot of things I'm not sure how to classify. There are lots of costs of home ownership I *know* I will have to incur, although maybe not *when* I have to pay for them, such as:\n\n* Furnace replacement\n* Re-roofing the house\n* Replacing major appliances (washer, dryer, etc)\n\nDo these things count? Or should I be saving separately for this?\n\nI ask, because I'm finding myself a bit spread thin; I have money auto-deducted from my paycheque that goes to building my emergency fund, savings for my annual gym membership, my RSPs (I'm Canadian - this is like IRAs), my pension, etc.\n\nShould I be budgeting even more money for the re-roof I'll need to do in ~3-5 years, or is that what the emergency fund is for?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 26 and he's 29 and we 've been together for about 2 years now. When we first met he used to do a lot of sport and go to the gym almost everyday. As soon as we started dating he stopped all activities but kept eating a lot of junk food. After 2 years of inactivity he's gotten big and I'm just not attracted anymore but I feel horrible because he really is a great guy.\n\nI tried taking him to the gym with me since I also go there almost everyday, in those 2 years I managed to drag him with me 3 times. Each time he said he felt great and can't wait to go back there the next day but when the next day comes he just seat on his couch and stares at his television complaining that his muscles hurt and that he will take the \"day off\". Same thing with food. I've tried to make him eat healthy stuff and to stop drinking sugar drinks but he will still do it in hiding behind my back.\n\nI'm not sure how to approach this anymore. It's come to a point where we joke about his belly and he seems fine with it like that. He even told me \"I'm never going to have my abs back, I'm just not 21 anymore\". He's 29, if he feels old already I'm really worried.\n\nWe're not even having sex anymore. It's been months. I've tried to a few times but he says he doesn't feel good about the way he looks...I'm so confused as to what to do. After 2 years like this I'm about to give up. I fantasize about other men when I masturbate so this can't be a good thing. I used to be so attracted to him, I don't know what happened that he stopped wanting to look good for me as soon as we've been together.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened about 45m ago..\n\nSo as I was the last person to use the toilet in regulation time, shall we say, as in the last person before everyone goes to bed, it was my task to bleach it to make it lovely and clean for the first user tomorrow morning.. simple!..\n\nUh-uh..\n\nIn my infinite wisdom I decide that, to aid said cleaning process, a cocktail of bleach, Wilko's Rhubard and Vanilla Fragrance Explosion Bath Foam (enticing, I know) and Head and Shoulders would be applicable.. apparently not!..\n\nMere seconds after the flush, toilet explodes with suds and bubbles going everywhere, overflowing and basically looking like some sort of bubble bath monster has crawled through the depths of the plumbing system and then sloth-ed itself all over my bathroom floor.. honestly more bubbles than a standard 15y/o girl having a bath.. madness..\n\nThen entered a disturbed mother, who quickly turned from sleeping standard to the Incredible Hulk.. going to leave it overnight and hope the bubbles clear.. but just in case..\n\nAnyone know how to clear vast quantities of bubble-bath?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Some history I guess, we met in High School, and I graduated last year, while she graduated a year before. During the time I was still in school, she was working, but had quite a few days off, so she spent those days visiting me and the ex-friends(before they were Ex) at school.\n\n \n \n Fast forward, we're out of school, doing some upgrading at a place called Center High, which is like outreach for highschool, and those friends are now ex-friends, mainly because they, for some reason I'm unaware of, don't like ME anymore, but have no issue with my GF. I don't speak to them anymore, but they speak to my GF. Not saying I have an issue with that, it's nice to know that she has a group of people to back her up if we ever break up.\n \n \n Lately, they've been telling her things like she deserves better, or I'm always a jerk to her(ok, this one is completely untrue, and she knows it.) One of them(a girl) has even asked her out to dinner this Thursday, to give her some \"advice\" about the relationship. I'm worried that this \"advice\" will lead to our breakup which neither of us want, but if things go wrong, it'll happen. What do I do about us, and is it wrong to ask her not to go to that dinner?", "role": "user" } ]