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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been broken up and absolutely no contact for a year when suddenly she texts me out of the blue that:\n\n\" This guy at the fair I am at looks so much like you that it is crazy. The only difference is that he has a goatee. I am really glad you decided against growing it while we were together. This is why I told you it wouldn't look good on you.\"\n\nThen she attached a photo of the guy. He looks vaguely like me and the photo shows her posing with him at the fair.\n \nI texted her back immediately with \" LOL. I am good at with not having grown it. You had a valid point.\" I attached a picture of me and then I asked her how she was with a simple \" How are you doing? I hope you are well. It has been forever. \"\n\nAnd she never responded. We both have iphones and I got a read receipt but she never responded back. \n\nWe had a pretty emotional break up after she miscarried. I blamed her getting pregnant on purpose in the heat of the moment but later apologized. She attributed the miscarriage to the stress I caused her by throwing accusations at her but she later apologized for blaming me. \n\nIt was a pretty mutual split and we both asked for quiet time to get over it.\n\nI'd like to know how she is but I don't want to push her to responding and it is so weird to hear from her after a year. \n\nHow do I proceed? Can I ask her to catch up?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Thanks for clicking... So I live in a condo in Toronto and rent from the condo owners. About two three weeks ago me neighbors condo flooded and some damage occurred to the flooring and baseboards in my unit. The day it happened some workers (hired by the condo corporation) came and cleaned up the water, removed some flooring, put on dehumidfyers etc. They needed two weeks for the concrete under the carpet to fully dry before they replaced the base boards so fast forward to then and they also end up painting some of the walls. \n\nI wasn't home during this time but the concierge is supposed to have been there to monitor the work but regardless a painting of mine was damaged. Its not huge, but it is an original and there is now a tear in the canvas. I spoke the with building manager and he saw the damage and said he would see to it that I'm compensated and asked me to email him where I got the painting and how much it's worth. \n\nSo today he calls me and says that the contractor says they didnt do it, the condo Corp isnt responsible, and if I want to pursue it any further to take legal action. \n\nNow the painting is only worth about two hundred dollars so I'm guessing it's not worth it to sue, but the contractor is completely denying the damage. \n\nThe thing is that I'm absolutely sure it was them. It is literally my favorite painting and I definitely would have noticed a tear in the canvas as I see the painting very often being that it sits above my dinner table. \n\nBesides spreading word that the contractor's company will damage your property I'm not sure what else to do. I hesitated to mention them here because I'm not sure if I could be causing libel or whatnot. Basically that was literally my favourite painting and I'm just bent out of shape over it being ruined and them dismissing me with \"sue us.\" I know I can't replace the painting anyway i just sort of want some justice. Do I call and tell them my poor review of their business will cost them at least two hundred? Thanks in advance for any help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For some background: I grew up emotionally deprived, and didn't really start to understand that I was that way until my first relationship with a girl that turned abusive on both ends. I have a problem with empathy, and I am not easily emotionally moved by other people's emotions nor do I care autonomously about anyone.\n\nI like to believe I'm a good person. I don't hurt anyone or anything on purpose, I usually at least pretend to be sympathetic when people talk to me about their problems, but I've noticed I can't really do this with my boyfriend.\n\nI can't comfortably get close to him, emotionally, physically, or otherwise without feeling great levels of anxiety. When he was over at my house a few weeks ago and after he went to sleep, I had a good four hours of being awake brooding about how ridiculously bad at this I am, and I came to the conclusion that I just might not be dating material.\n\nI've known him for four years now, and we've been dating for eight months. In this eight months I grew distant pretty fast and I'm nowhere near as open with him as I used to be. My sexuality isn't a problem(I've had two sexual relationships prior to him and know for a fact I do indeed enjoy the male body), I think it's my romantic orientation. I might be aromantic, and I don't know how to approach this topic or even if I should. I don't feel intensely about anyone, not even him. I've been able to be incredibly close with other people who weren't romantically involved with me, even to the point I had a friend with benefits and I could share a bed with someone. I can't do any of that with him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He has in the past year put on a lot of weight (about 25kg) and it is affecting my sex life with him. \n\nI am not attracted to him because of his weight and it is creating a serious rift in our relationship. \nWe would never end the relationship because of it however, so I need a way to help him lose weight.\n\nI have tried multiple times to be his \"gym buddy\". I'd watch what he eats and make sure he gets enough exercise, as he will NOT do this by himself. \n\nBut every time I attempt to regulate his eating and exercise habits, he forcibly pushes me away and refuses my help, stating that he is fine.\n\nI have told him before that his weight is a threat to his own health and self-esteem, but nothing I can possibly say or do is changing his mind and making him reconsider his habits. The only thing that would convince him is telling him that I'm not attracted to him anymore because of his weight.\n\nOf course, I can't do that as it would break his heart. What do I do? He refuses to exercise or eat healthily, and pushes me away and gives up every single time I attempt to help him lose weight.\n\nI am only 18 and sex is still very important to me, but I'm finding it very hard to be with him (sexually) because of this problem.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok we meet in a city I'm planning on living in once I finish college. I had to go back home to finish my last semester. We started long distance in August and at first it was going great. I mean long distance is shitty but we were making it work, we talked on the phone everyday. She started her new job and was overwhelmed with working until 7 on some days. I should mention that there's a 3 hour difference between us, but she still found time to talk before I went to bed. \n\nThen I came to visit and she was so distant, she had ZERO interest in sex. We had sex once and she showed no emotion. We weren't really clicking with our conversations either then I went back home after a quick weekend visit. We haven't really recovered from that and she has been hanging out with one of her male coworkers a lot. Now we talk 3 times a week and hardly text. Every time I send something flirty, she just ignores it. Doesn't even acknowledge it. \n\nHas she just checked out? Maybe there is something we can do to fix the situation. Do you guys think she's cheating? What are your thoughts. Also I'm visiting her again tomorrow so should I even bring this up or wait to see how the visit goes. Also I'm moving back in 2 months, should I just stick it out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A girl I dated my freshman year of college called out of the blue and asked if I wanted to spend New Years with her. I said yes, but now I'm worried that she'll be disappointed as soon as she sees how fat I've gotten. I went from 160 to 200 pounds this year. She hasn't seen me in almost three years, so she'll definitely notice the change. We used to have really good sex and that's pretty much the only reason we stuck together for so long. I know by her tone that she's only looking for a hookup, but I'm actually scared that she might just laugh at me and tell me to leave. Should I just cancel?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for asking reddit for relationship advice. However this one blows me away and I am not sure what else to do. BACKGROUND:My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile. We typically see each other every night but on one occasion I hung out with friends an hour later than I had anticipated so we were unable to. I sent a text apologizing for losing track of time and response was sent a picture of the results of her cutting herself.\n This has never happened before but obviously makes me question the relationship! At what point are significant others responsible? I care about her but if not hanging out leads to cutting I am scared that what will result from ending the relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey /r/Running,\nI'm a 15 year old high school sophomore. I just found out I had a stress fracture (left foot, second metatarsal) a little while ago, and am forced to take time off. Hopefully I can start running again in late March/early April, and get in one race (probably not varsity though, as the season ends in late April, early May if our school goes to CIF). \n\nAnyway, when I start running again I don't want to be completely out of shape, especially since I already spent three long months developing cardio. Any advice for that I can to to insure that my cardio (and muscle development) doesn't go away completely? The cardio is especially important, since I primarily do the 1600 and 3200.\n\nMy local gym had a hand bike, but my family isn't doing so well financially, so I'm trying to not have to join. Right now I've flipped the bikes in my garage upside down and am using them as a hand bike, but they don't work my cardio like running or even a real hand bike. I can't bike since I have the boot on, and I'm going to the doctor Tuesday to see if I can do pool workouts (even if I can, I don't have a pool so I would have to get permission to use a friend's pool, and that could only happen probably 3 times a week or so).\n\nIn addition to any ideas for cardio, what weight training should I do? Ad I mentioned above, I do distance in track and cross country in the fall. Our team doesn't do weight training, but everyone says its important. Plus I need to strengthen myself to make sure I don't get injured again when I come back. I was out my freshman year in cross country because of tendinitis and osgood-slatter (spelling?) in my right knee, so I seem to be more prone to injuries that my teammates. Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Yep, my 28 year old adult sister was watching me try on my wedding dress, and I mentioned that I wanted to lose 5-10 pounds before the wedding. Her response was \"Oh good! Then you won't look like a sausage for the wedding!\" Uhh..rude? \n\nIf any of you remember that AMA a while back about her family shipping her off because she was \"demon possessed\" that was me, so I'm not at all surprised that someone in my family said something hurtful, but it still hurt. And I panicked. When I found out I was getting a huge bonus from work, I broke down stressing about whether or not I needed to go get a brand new dress because the other one made me sausage-y. \n\nWell, you know what? I love my dress. It looks amazing on me, and if someone thinks I look like a sausage, they can keep their opinions to themselves because it makes me feel AMAZING. Don't you ladies let anyone drag you down, because I promise you they WILL try. They don't even deserve the time it would take you to be concerned about the things they say or do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night my boyfriend and I were at my friend's house party. He was playing cards in the living room and I was hanging out in the kitchen but I could still see and hear what was going on. He was sitting next to this girl that we have met a couple of times before but don't regularly hang out with. At one point, she stood up, and apparently her legs were asleep and she fell back onto my boyfriends lap. He grabbed her hips and squeezed them and she sat there for like 3 or 4 seconds before finally getting up and he did nothign to get her off of him. I thought that was a little weird but was willing to let it go...\n\nProbably an hour or so later I went upstairs to go to the bathroom. The girl who was sitting on his lap walked out right as I was walking up to it but just walked right past me without saying anything. I shut the door and went to check behind the curtain to check for murderers (old habits die hard) and my boyfriend was just standing in the shower crouched down. We both screamed and I asked him wtf he was doing in there and he said he didn't know, he was just really drunk. He was supposed to be DD though so he was only going to have a couple of beers and thats really all I saw him drink anyways, he was coming to the kitchen each time he wanted another. It just seems really unlikely that he was somehow drunk enough to be standing in the shower and have no idea what he was doing there. The rest of the night he played up the \"Really drunk\" act and he continued to drink a lot, to the point where he probably actually was really drunk.\n\nIt just seems really suspicious to me but he swears up and down he is telling the truth. When I ask him if he can understand how it looks from my point of view he says he wouldn't be upset because both of those situations were innocent, but I'm not so sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, this is my first post (throwaway obvs) and I'm on mobile so please excuse any spelling/grammar mistakes. \n\nMy sister is horrible to live with she acts like a spoiled 2 year old I have a scar on my wrist from where she dug into my skin when I wouldn't move fast enough out of bed. \n\nToday she screamed at me for wanting McDonalds and then when I gave up and went to make myself some nachos she called me a fat shit, a fucking bitch and then she hit me and threw a loaf of bread at my face.\n\nShe then walked into my room and stayed there during my rising in loudness pleas for her to get out stating that 'I'm not going to leave until you calm down' even though I was saying that the only way I would calm down is if she left.\n\nPlease do not think this is a one off and that I'm Justin's whining my mum says that this is just what siblings do, but this is an almost weekly occurrence since she turned 13.\n\nMy parents are divorced and she hates our dad. Our mum is working most of the time to help us to afford everything as my sister doesn't contribute to the household - whereas I do. \n\nI tell my mum what she does but then she just tells of my sister and then my sister gets worse when mum has to go back to work\n\nI just can't continue to deal with her in this way and I feel so bad because I don't love her when I know you are supposed to love your family til you die.\n\nPlease I would just like coping mechanisms to deal with her until I can move out", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am not good for figuring out presents for myself but I recently saw this ring online that caught my attention. It's not entirely expensive, about $120. When I saw it I thought it was cool. It's actually black and has these cool gothic looking flowers on the sides but technically it is an engagement ring, it says so on the website. \n\nI really don't want to seem like I am passively aggressively asking for my boyfriend to propose. Because I am totally fine with and would almost rather continuing to be a live-in couple. My boyfriend isn't interested in marriage. His ex was a big traditionalist and would always go on and on about her dream wedding with him. Showing him dresses, rings and venues that she wanted to get married at. This always upset him because he said he doesn't like traditional romance and she would berate him for it calling him a bad boyfriend and saying things like \"he must not really love her.\" Besides her, he also isn't religious and doesn't want us to mingle money because he feels it would cause more arguments partially due to us having very different spending styles. All of this is fine with me (I actually earn more than he does). But I am rambling a bit. Should I just show him the ring? Should I just say fuck it and buy it for myself and ask for something less \"controversial\" or should I ask him but preface it with \"I know it's says engagement but I am not suggesting you propose.\" \n\nSeems like a very small issue and it really isn't a big one. I just don't want to ask people I know IRL because I don't feel like getting the \"WELL MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GET MARRIED! Why SHOULDN'T he propose???\" etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so I know my boyfriend has a fetish for thicker, curvy women and with round stomachs (pregnant included). At first I wasn't too worried about it because everyone has things they're into but I'm a slender girl and always have been. \n\nJust this morning, I saw an email pop up on his screen for a social/dating site called Feabie and the email was for account activation... and he did activate it last month according to the welcome invite. \n\nI automatically feel betrayed and angry, why would he need to join a social/dating site of any nature? I'm not comfortable with the fact that he's most likely on there to get off or make new 'friends'. \n\nI don't want to appear like I was snooping, because I wasn't, it just popped up on the screen. But I also feel I need to address this because it's already starting to brew negative feelings towards him. He makes comments way too often about how much he dislikes fat, and how he wouldn't date a fat girl but here he is on a new \"feeding\" social/dating site... wtf?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [F25] am the oldest kid in the family with a younger brother who is three years younger than me. Now I have grown up and look back into the past, I feel that my parents, especially my mom, has different treatments to me and my brother. She loves us dearly, I am sure. But I kinda sense that she is more protective of my brother.\nMy mom NEVER guide me throughout my life. She always told me that as a human, I am capable of learning anything on my own. So I learned most of the things on my own, through friends, through reading for example. What's interesting about my mom is, she always criticizes everything I do, like I am never good enough for her. I know that learning something on my own, without guidance from parents, I won't be perfect for the first time but still, she always says I am never good enough. Like for example, graduated in 4 years with two degrees with 3.7 GPA is not as good as my cousin's achievement. These kind of things cause our relationship to be not as close as between my mom and my brother.\nOn the other hand, my mom never criticizes my brother and is always protective of him. But when there is a problem, even for the smallest one like \"changing facebook setting\", she seeks my help, not my brother's.\nSo for parents out there, could you tell me why my mom is tough on me but still when there is problem she seeks my help not my brother's regardless the fact that she has closer relationship with my brother?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've been seeing this girl for the past month and things have been super intense, things were amazing, I couldn' stay away from her and I was sure I was in love.\n\nThe problem is that in January I am moving away for work, ~400mi., I know it's a relatively short distance, but it's a remote part of the country and I don't know how often I'll be able to get back. I've done LDR once and it was the most god awful experience, don't think I want to do it again.\n\nThe bigger and more realer problem though is that I went away on a business trip over this last weekend and I cheated on her. Yesterday when I got back we met up and she told me she was in love with me. I don't think I deserve her love anymore, and I'm not sure if I actually do love her, I mean, if it was so easy to just go ahead and fuck her over, then this can't be love, and if that happened over a weekend what will happen when I move away for good?!\n\nWell, after she said she loved me, I was at a lossfor words and all I could do was stay quiet. She asked me if I loved her back and I said I thought I did, but explained the moving away part. She already knew about it, and said she was ok with it and that she'd make it work.\n\nShe's the nicest girl I know and such a great person, but I just don't think I love her...\n\nGuess I'm a weak man, and I'm not sure what I hope to gain from writing this all down, but it's at the very least therapeutic, thanks.\n\nFire away, I guess.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throw-away here. My ex-boyfriend and I bought a dog together when we were together. We broke up January of 2012 and I received custody of her. We adopted her when she was just 8 weeks old. I've been toying with the idea of putting her up for adoption since we broke up because I feel like I cannot care for her like I used to when I was living with me ex. I would let him have her, except for the fact that he is a sociopath and we did not exactly have a healthy relationship. \n\nI've been living on my own since July of 2012. I feel pretty disconnected towards her, and seem to be getting angry with her. I do not want to be angry with her, and I do NOT hit her (I want to make this very clear), but I find myself getting more and more irritated. She always sleeps on the bed with me, but for some reason especially over the course of this last weekend, I couldn't sleep with her at the end of the bed where she ALWAYS sleeps. I kept having to tell her to get down because I was uncomfortable with her being there and I couldn't sleep. \n\nIs there a way I can fix my relationship with my dog, or would she be happier with another person (maybe family) that can give her happy attention instead of being annoyed of her 80% of the time? I know I'll be sad when she is gone, but it would seem selfish of me to continue to care for her when I feel annoyed with her most of the time.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I decided yesterday to leave my window open with a fan in front of it to let some fresher, cooler air in. It was open all day and kept the place relatively livable. At bedtime (aka 3 am) I go to my comfortably cool bedroom. I remember that the screen to my window had fallen off last summer. I think, \"phew, lucky the cat didn't go jumping out a two story window huh.\" I close the window, take off my pants, turn off my fishtank light and get in bed while calling my girlfriend on facetime. \nSOMETHING hits me in the face. It's dark, I don't know what it is. Figure it was a piece of hair or something dumb like that. But it keeps happening, as my girlfriend laughs at me freaking out from her safe distance inside my iphone. Finally, the thing that hit me in the face appears in the light of my phone, which it's clearly attracted to. It's a moth. I laugh it off and turn on the light so I can squish the motherfucker and sleep tight. As I turn on the light another one hits me in the face. I kill the one that's landed on the wall next to me, and go looking for the other one. \nThis is where I realize just how much I've fucked up. They must have been attracted to the light in my fish tank, and the window was open for hours. Now, I'm not scared of moths particularly, but this was an INCREDIBLE amount of moths in one place. And to make it even worse, my fan was drawing them in and turning them into projectiles aimed straight at me. I couldn't possibly find all of them, or get them to all stop flying long enough to kill them. I killed a few but my efforts were futile. There were so many fucking moths. \nI decided to give up my murder spree and just build an inpenetrable blanket fort around me, my bed, and my iphone so I could sleep in moth-free, albeit stuffy peace. I emerged in the morning to a moth-free room. I don't know where they went but I suspect they lie in wait...for revenge.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, guys!\n\nFirst of all, my friend was in a seven-year relationship, and he was cheated on for two years, and he recently found out (about six months ago). Finding out destroyed him completely, and he only recently began no-contact with his ex-girlfriend.\n\nNow, he and I have had sex three times sober, and a few more times drunk. We're close, and it just sort of began. He's always there for me, and me for him, and we help each other a lot with everything that could be going on. He also takes his time to make sure I feel good, have eaten, telling me I'm beautiful and wonderful. Recently, he told me I deserve the best and that I'm amazing, and that he would love to take a chance at happiness eventually, and that I'd be perfect, but that he isn't ready yet. I also give him plenty of advice about his situation whenever he asks, and I've seen him make progress, slowly.\n\nThe problem is, I've started to develop feelings for him, and I don't know what to do about any of this. I'd love to just tell him, but I know he's emotionally unavailable.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've always been independent and I love spending time alone. My new boyfriend of nearly 3 months doesn't seem to understand that. How am I supposed to convey my feelings without making him think that I don't love him anymore. When I cancel plans or tell him that I don't want to hang out with him/make excuses not to hang out, he gets angry and upset. \nI'm not sure how I should handle this situation. I know it's only been a short period of time but I love this guy, he is everything to me. \nIs it wrong that I don't want to always be with him? Is it wrong that I don't always want to talk to him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, I thought I was being careful, but here I am, confessing at the altar of Runnit, a runner's greatest sin: impatience.\n\nA week ago Sunday I went out for a 4 mile run as I am currently in the middle of a 10k training program. I started the run with what felt like a tight left glute, but I wasn't concerned. By mile 3 I was feeling some pain in my left hip (nothing super concerning), but finished my 4 miles because it had taken a lot of mental fortitude and willpower to get out there that day and I wanted to finish.\n\nI hobbled home and did some massage and stretching. Decided to rest up and heal. I skipped my scheduled Tuesday 3.5 mile, then the Thursday 2 mile, and now here I am going to skip my scheduled 4 mile run again because the pain hasn't really gone away. It's a dull, achey, pinching pain, maybe a 3 to 4 on the pain scale? Feels deep, but not in the actual joint itself.\n\nI've never experienced a sports injury like this before, and so I'm here wondering when and if you would see a doctor about this. I'm kind of crabby, because my race is at the end of June and I really want to at least perform moderately well on my first 10k.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a couple of questions and I would like your view on it: \n\n1. My boyfriend told me that it was fine if I found someone else to be with over the summer and that really upset me and made me feel that he wanted it. I told him that it hurt me and he apologised but is this a deal breaker?\n\n1. We are going to have to do long distance till september,any tips?\n\n1. He had a crush on his best friends sister who is probably going to be around and I feel a bit insecure due to the cheating jokes he use to make (before i told him to stop) how do I deal with this?\n\n1. He doesn't talk to me as much as I wanted him too until I told him to start talking to me more, is that a bad thing?\n\nThank you for taking the time out and reading this and also replying. :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm gonna try to make this quick, me (f25) and my ex (m28) are dating but are not official we were together 6 years, broken up for about 4 months. Because we aren't official, I can't get mad when he doesn't call, ect. However, last week, I asked him to call me on a certain day to set up plans for the weekend, and he didn't, so I did get upset. He got all upset because he's set up this rule that we can't see each other more than once a week because he's afraid of being official just yet and doesn't want to rush things. Fine, I'll respect that. I last saw him Sunday, called him Monday because I was feeling anxious about something and just needed to ask him for clarification. He was a little annoyed at it, at first but told me he saw where I was coming from. Have not heard from him since. On Friday we had a little argument, and he still texted me later that night to say hi...so I would have thought I would hear from him by now, as he's been texting me pretty much everyday. I'm wondering if he'll contact me tonight, as it's been a few days. \n\nI want to contact him because I have a lot of good/cool things I want to share with him, but because I want to give him his space and make him worry about me if I haven't contacted him first (I'm usually the first to contact) I'm hesitant. But, I'm just worried if I DON'T text him he'll just think I'm losing interest, but, the other day I made it pretty clear that I was all on board for getting back together officially when he was ready. I've read other posts where guys have said that if you want to contact him, just do it because if you don't, it shows disinterest, however, this situation is a little bit different. Am I doing the right thing by just waiting for him to contact me first so that I've given him some space?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Here's mine: Last summer Starcraft 2 came out; I had been waiting for over half a decade to play it. Early in the afternoon I biked as fast as I could to Bestbuy, grabbed a copy and began the two mile bike ride home. I'm the kind of person who only owns long sleeve shirts and long pants, so I was getting pretty hot at this point, but I knew it didn't matter because I was about to experience a game I'd waited years for...\n\nAs soon as I got home I rushed inside, sweaty and panting, and ripped open the box. As I was reading through the manuals I thought to myself \"No one's home, might as well take off my clothes to cool down.\" I quickly got comfortable on the couch, pants around my ankles, and was reading through the various booklets from the packaging with nerdy glee. \n\nAs it turned out, a friend of mine had gotten the game too (collector's edition) and had brought it over to show me. He knocked on the door directly across from the couch. This door has a stained glass pane in it.\n\nTo this day he makes fun of me for fapping to the Starcraft 2 manual.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off, I love my boyfriend. I would do anything for him without complaint, which I admit may be part of the problem. We have been together almost 2 years and moved in together about 6 months ago. \n\nHe has never been the mushy, overly romantic type, but recently I've been feeling that he does not appreciate or reciprocate the things I do for him. I cook dinner, clean the house, pack his lunch every day, do laundry (mine and his), and take care of our dog. I have no problem doing these things and the only thing I ask him to do to help out is wash the dishes and let the dog out sometimes if I can't. \n\nI wish he would put some effort into showing he appreciates me. I would love for him to do little things like help out without being asked, maybe bring me flowers or something every once in a while just to show he was thinking of me. I do things like this often- for example, pick up a six pack for him or give him a massage just because. I have tried verbalizing this to him but think it comes off as selfish and it hasn't made a difference. I just feel that he is taking me for granted. \n\nPlease help, I don't want this to turn into me being bitter towards him. Thank you!!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My beloved FH is working from home today, drat his eyes, while I'm an hour away in the office. While thinking longly of my bed, I realize that the save the dates that I'd designed & had printed should be coming in today, so I send him a quick message so he'd keep an eye open for them.\n\n>Me: Oh hey--We should be getting STDs today\n\n>FH: I don't want them!\n\n>Me: lol\n\n>You sure?\n\n>I paid a lot of money to get some...\n\n>FH: what are you referring to\n\n>Me: Save the Dates lol\n\n>FH: you spend too much time on that subreddit\n\n>and if you keep it up, I'm going to only speak to you in programming jargon\n\n>Me: :'(\n\nI mean, really--who doesn't want STDs?! ;)\n\nHope this story made you smile today!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Let me start off by saying that I know this isn't as important as other people's problems here but I need some advice on how to proceed on this situation.\n\nSo currently I have a crush on a girl from my school and things are actually going great. We're not there yet but we currently are really good friends and things seem to be moving towards better. A couple of months ago one of my friends keep telling me that he thinks my crush's friend is very pretty so I adviced him to write to either ask her out or start talking to her on facebook. He thought asking her out was a bit weird so they started talking and have been ever since. \n\nEver since they started talking, my crush told me that her friend has a little thing for my friend and I thought that was great. But a few days ago I overheard my friend saying that he just wants to have sex with her cause she is hot and then move on to the next girl. I of course told him to tell the girl now and not just use her emotions in his favor but he refuses so I said that if he doesn't and they ask me about his feelings I will tell them the truth. He got kind of mad and said that it's his business and that if I do that then he won't ever speak to me again. And of course any other guy in the class has sided with him saying that I don't know how to be a good friend.\n\nSo I just wanted to ask, do you think that I tell the girls the truth if they ever ask me about his intentions or should I lie for his sake as everyone else says?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The way I learn tends to follow a particular pattern. I try, I make a mistake, I shut down and become intensely frustrated. This will cause me to make more mistakes, to be too angry to focus on the task at hand.\n\nThis has become an issue learning to drive. I was doing a practice test, everything was going fine. I was about to enter a road and failed to give way to a car on my left that was entering the area I wanted to enter. My supervisor had to brake and point it out to me. I was to focused on the cars to my right, I didn't even see the car on the left, and part of me didn't even realise cars would ever be coming from that direction. \n\nI was stunned at my stupidity, so much so I was angry. Ranting, raving, to the point I was asked to calm down. I couldn't control the frustration, it was just this compulsion to tear myself apart. I can look back and only feel ashamed and stupid. Stupid for making the mistake and ashamed at my behaviour, but it doesn't stop me from making a new mistake and doing the same thing. \n\nI am part terrified I am not ready for the test if I don't know such obvious things, and part angry at my behavior, ashamed, everything. \n\nI have no idea why I behave this way, does anyone else? How can I overcome this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 21 and my husband is 24. We have been married for 2 years. He's the greatest guy ever and I trust that he won't try to hurt me, but I feel like some of his actions overstep boundaries. \n\nSometimes he'll stay over at a friend's house - sometimes male, sometimes female - without telling me. I really wish he'd let me know beforehand, even just texting me before I go to bed would fix this. A lot of his female friends are really flirty and physical too. They constantly hit on him, even in front of me, and hug a lot. I'm really uncomfortable with this and I asked him to ask his friends to back off a little, but they haven't. Sometimes when I call or text him I won't get a response for 6 hours or more. Sometimes it might be a day or two before I hear back from him.\n\nI talked to one of my friends about this and she thinks he's cheating, but I don't. I know him better than anyone else and I know he wouldn't hurt me.\n\nIs there anything I can do? Like I said, these things all make me uncomfortable even though I know nothing is wrong. I've talked to him about all this and nothing has changed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm 20 very shy because of my past but I am working on over coming that. I get along with everyone even though it takes me a while but I have never had close friends that I would hang out with and stuff. \n\nThe last 4 or 5 years I have traveled all over Australia for work so when I met some one I would only know them for 2 maybe 3 months then never talk to them again. I don't drink or party so that cuts a huge amount of people out but there must be more people like me but where and how?\n\nExtra note, my old Girl Friend deleted my FB account because I had all her friends added and I could never be bothered making a new one.\n\nEdit: Guy/girl friends not relationships.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We talked for hours and shared our interests, many of which we share. I became so infatuated with everything about him.. he is literally a male version of me. Then I found out he dropped out of community college and has been working as a cashier at a convenience store ever since.\n\nReddit, is it wrong that I suddenly became unattracted to him? Comparably, I have a high-paying job and I feel like taking this relationship any further, and even possibly to marriage, just couldn't work out. I feel terrible but does anyone understand my situation that can offer advice on what I should do? Am I wrong to think about it from a logical point of view, rather than a \"this could be my soul mate\" point?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here is the deal; I have two internship opportunities presented to me. \n \nThe first one is 12 week internship for a T-mobile located in the Seattle area. I found a temporary living situation which would cost me about 1,100 every month for a furnished studio apartment and all utilities. It pays 22/hr at about 40 hours a week along with $2,000 dollars for living expenses for my stay during the internship. After gas, food, rent and all that jazz I budgeted around a $8,000(minus taxes) dollar profit for my stay. The west coast is also where I desire to live someday, so it would be neat to test out the area even though its only a temporary spot.\n\nThe second internship is a 8 week internship in the D.C area, in Virginia technically about 20 minutes away from D.C. It puts me in an apartment with another intern paying for all my rent, appliances, and gives me a food plan. They also pay me 500 dollars a week so around $4,000 dollars for my stay (again minus taxes). They also mention that they train their interns and hope to hire them after graduation for a full time job which is comforting in today's job market.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everybody, I've been married for my wife for 2 years and dating for over 6. This has been slowly building the last year or so but exploded in the past few days. My wife has told me she feels like I am always the center of attention and that she constantly lives in my shadow. And honestly I 100% agree with her. I am in law school, and all anyone asks about is how I'm doing and how proud they are of me. I do make pretty good grades, but I don't tell people my grades my wife does. \n\nI do not know what to do to make her feel like the center of attention. We have even had to switch churches because at our previous church all people would ask was how law school was going, and they seemed to ignore her. I honestly hate being the center of attention and don't desire it at all. Up until now I've never been the center of attention so I don't know what to do and how to deflect the attention back to her. \n\nI would also love some advice on steps I can do to make her feel like the center of my world. I am thinking about planning a romantic weekend away sometime soon, but I am afraid that if I plan it and surprise her with it, it will still feel like she's just \"tagging along\" since I did all the planning. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background:\nMy brother is slow he has an iq of 69 and a normal iq is 70. he receives social security around 900 dollars a month. He rents a house next door to mine. The houses are located on the same property. He actively does crystal meth with my drug dealing neighbors down the block. My mother is an enabler giving my brother groceries and money. From a young age she instilled into me that family takes care of family. She continues to enable my brother by trying to manipulate me into believing that i need to take care of him.\n\nThe problem:\nSo my brother has been using again. His dealer/friend came up to me and decided to tell me he was using again. Not much he said but you know just a little. The drug use has changed him into a person i dont want to be around. i want to distance myself from him because of the drug use and his overall personality from it. I'm thinking of just staying away from both my mother and my brother. so how do i do it? how did you do distance yourself from negative family members? i don't want to just block and ignore more like a slow distancing process.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in a relationship with my husband for 3 years now (married 1year) and we have a child. We fell in love in college but our relationship started with him choosing between me and another woman (we started as FWB) and after a bit of drama (nothing to dramatic really) he chose to be with me in a commited relationship. Fast foward to last year around october, we are enjoying sime alcoholic beverages and he lets it slip that in the very early days of our relationship he cheated on me...3 times. Of course I was shocked, hurt, angry, ect but we were married at this point and he was very ashamed so we talked about it and I decided to just try and handle it. I let him know that his trust card had been revoked and it would take a lot of work and time to get it back. well here we are now, he has been working at this place for 2 years and recently told me of a woman that works in the pffice upstairs for weeks her name kept coming up and I even gave him a book to give to her on a subject we are both interested in. Yesterday he confessed they were attracted to one another and that he felt bad because she flirted with him and he let her and he flirted back. He told he had been working up the courage to tell me for a couple weeks now and he tells me he will tell her today he can no longer be aroumd her or talk to her because of their attraction. Problem solved? \n\nI told him I was happy he told me and did not freak out on him because I want him to tell me these things in the future but my self esteem has always suffered and now it is even more crushed. I do not know what to think or feel or how to get over his past cheating and become a confident person. I feel lost.. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've just come out of a 4 year relationships a month later set up a date with a girl I've had previous dates with. Our previous dates were always a bit awkward because we were both nervous and I've always found it hard to talk to the opposite sex (so lots of silence).\n\nSo I began talking to her again last week and I decided not to beat around the bush and asked if she wanted to catch up for coffee to which she agreed. So the beginning of the date kind of started awkward i found her eyes kept moving around the room and wouldn't keep eye contact for long, there were moments of short awkward pauses like before, she asked me questions about my family and about other things but I felt I was asking her more questions. The second half i felt we became more comfortable she kept moving her hair behind her ear, would smile more and kept eye contact more and we ended up talking straight for just over an hour. But after the date was over I feel disconnected or not reaching the level of intimacy that I feel i should've.\n\nI'm not sure if because of my low self esteem/ confidence of a bad breakup I'm overthinking or over expecting things or seeing shyness as being bored or uninterested, Or if shes sending me hints she wants to just be friends.\n\nAlso is it appropriate to send the night of the date a \"I had a great time, we should catch up again soon\" message?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I had a friend who died in a plane crash a few years ago. He was a pretty young guy, though 8 years older than me. It was very tragic and unexpected. His family has been good friends with my family for many years, and since we met when I was around 10 I had considered him a mentor to me -- he taught me a lot of things related to programming (which I was interested in as a teenager), helped instill a love of learning in me, and gave me a ton of life lessons in general all while making me feel that it was coming from a friend. All in all, he was a great guy. \n\nHis parents still visit mine quite a bit. One time when his mom was at my parents' I brought him up, thinking I would tell her some of my memories of him and basically telling her how much I admired and respected him. She started bawling inconsolably. This was maybe a year ago. This weekend, they were at my parents' place again. Me, my girlfriend, my sister, and his sister were sitting and talking. My girlfriend's socially awkward, high-functioning autistic 15 year old brother has started very much getting into learning about computers, and I try and emulate my friend towards him. My girlfriend's brother somehow became the subject of conversation, and I brought up my friend. I'm not sure how his sister took it -- there was a fleeting instant of very strong emotions on her face, but she shrugged it off and kept the conversation going.\n\nMy questions is, is this a big faux-pas? Should I avoid bringing him up in the future? Reddit, what do you think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a year ago I had a fling with a girl. It was odd, she dumped her boyfriend for me, we tried things out, but they got weird. I felt bad that she had just dumped her boyfriend, so I broke things off and we remained friends. She got back together with her ex not long after that and we didn't talk for a long time. He hates me and refused to allow her to talk to me. They broke up in the fall and we started talking and hanging out, but it seems like I'm her last resort friend. We barely talk, and the few times we hang out can be really cool, but they don't happen often at all. She just started hanging out with her ex again (like last week) and we don't talk anymore. I feel like I'm only there when she's either not with her boyfriend or bored and there's nobody else to talk to. We went on a date 2 weeks ago, and she spent a good hour and a half on her phone with other people, then went home and we haven't talked since. Sometimes weeks or months will go by before we talk and it bugs the shit out of me. It seems like we'll be fine for a week or two, talking every day and such, then she drops off the face of the Earth, then comes back for a week or two, then does the same thing. What do I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened last summer at UConn. I live in Connecticut.\n\nMy bestfriend has a girlfriend, who has an apartment at UConn. I like to drink and got really drunk walking around after we tried to sneak into a bar without paying the upfront tab.\n\nWe tried to get in through the kitchen. It smelt like buffalo wings, I led the way.\n\nNon-sequitur. \n\nWe got kicked out almost immediately. Being my drunk self, I lost my friends and made new friends, which I believe were frat boys. \n\nDrunk dancing like the left shark in the Super Bowl and started talking to hot black girls. They say they have a lesbian friend. Drunk JJ only hears Barney Stinson(I love HIMYM) say \"Make a lesbian straight. Legen-dary.\" \n\nMeet lesbian friend, hook up and dance, fall in drunken love with a girl who is cool. For the first time in my life, my hook up meant something. We talked and I actually liked this girl. \n\nFast forward 30 minutes later to a random dorm. She's hooking up with another random dude. And another dude. \n\nShe hooked up with 3 other dudes after me. I don't think she was a lesbian. \n\nDrunk JJ doesn't care. She jumps on my lap and starts kissing me again after these other dudes. I liked it till I get that I'm being played.\n\nMy heart was broken until I realized there's a lot of lesbians I can turn straight. \n\nAfter leaving this random dorm, I got attacked by a deer. A deer in the middle of UConn's campus jumped me. I ran away and lived to tell this story to reddit.\n\nI was so lost and drunk my best friends girlfriend had to find me. In the meantime, I ran into a skunk who ran away from me. I believe it was because of the fake lesbian smell.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello!\n\nI am currently renting an apartment in Philadelphia for 800 dollars and am planning to move out at the end of June (the end of my lease). Unfortunately, I made the great mistake of forgetting that there was a line in my lease that states it automatically renews unless I tell my landlord 60 days in advance that I will not be renewing. Instead I told him 45 days in advance. I was then told I am on the hook for another 12 months with an increase in rent (850) unless another person takes the lease.\n\n On the positive side, the real estate agency that works for my landlord is attempting to find a leaser now, but since the landlord wants 850 for the lease, it is proving a challenge for the agent to find someone. In the meantime, I've found a cheaper apartment including utilities down the street and already put a deposit down (685 for deposit + 345 for half month of rent). It should be noted that my current apartment is extremely expensive because of the inefficient heating (160/month in winter) and it's in a rundown old building.\n\nMy question is that if a person cannot be found for my current lease, does it make sense to lose my deposit at the other apartment complex and just stay at my current apartment? Or should I gamble that someone will be found by the agent in the next two weeks? Or should I pay a month of double rent in the hopes that someone takes the lease by the end of July. However, I cannot afford to pay the two leases at the same time for an extending period of time(poor, stupid grad student on loans).\n\nI understand that my woes are caused by my own mistake of not being aware of my own lease, but I am trying to rectify the situation now with your help. Thank you in advance, and please ask if you need more info.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In June I met a guy on OkCupid. We're 10 hours apart but we seemed to hit it off so we kept texting. Since then he's drove up here once for a 4 day weekend and we met half way another weekend. Both times things just feel comfortable, like we've known each other for a long time. \n\nA couple weeks ago I mentioned I was going to a party and he jokingly mentioned me not sleeping with other guys. I was taken aback since we'd never talked about being exclusive and I asked him about it. We talked for about four hours about a bad experience with his high school sweetheart (she cheated a couple times and dragged him along for a while). I told him I wouldn't sleep with anyone else if he didn't want me to. He said over and over again how he didn't want to make me do something, but I told him I cared about his opinion. He said he wasn't used to someone saying that (he's only had a couple short lived relationships since his hs ex). Over all the conversation ended great and he's been a lot sweeter to me.\n\nSo I'm going to see him for another long weekend at the end of September I think I want to ask him to make it official. We're already exclusive so I don't really see a reason not to. But if he chooses not to be official I feel it would be a good time to end the relationship. I really enjoy seeing him and talking to him, but I'm not sure I want to commit to him if he's not ready to commit to me. But I get that I'm young and can be a little over emotional, so I just want your guys' opinion on this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My sister lives and works in MN. She worked/works at a well-known hair salon as a cosmetologist. She's been working in the industry for a number of years with the bulk of her time spent at her current place of employment.\n\nIn April, she began experiencing pain and numbness in her right hand and wrist (severe carpal tunnel). Concerned, she called her primary care provider. Her PCP told her she will need to are an occupational health doctor because it appeared to be a work-related injury. She went to the new doctor and informed her employer. Additionally, she took all the right steps in filing a workman's comp claim as she was told her injury is a direct result of her occupation. \n\nHere's where it gets messy... My sister filed her claims right away and asked her boss/manager to submit the claims on their end. Her boss did not submit any claims to the insurance provider nor did she comply with state law. Her boss told her she had submitted the paper work many times but my sister called the companies to check and her boss had done no such thing.\n\nAfter many calls, emails, and legal advice... her boss finally submitted the claim. This was MONTHS after my sister initially submitted all her paperwork. Meanwhile, she has been waiting and not working. She has no income currently as she is unable to use to her dominant hand. She's continued her prescribed therapy and has been working closely with her doctor and now has obtained a lawyer.\n\nThe claim her employer finally filed was denied. The denial claims her injuries were not from work. Her lawyer has told her this denial most likely happened because her boss was so late on the claim. She has a deposition scheduled, but until then, she can't work. She's been told her appeal will most likely be denied and the insurance will claim it's a \"woman's issue\".\n\nShe will not get her back-pay. She will not have her medical bills covered. She cannot work until this is resolved.\n\nI am here asking if others have encountered this? Is there some else she can do? What are her options? Is she able to seek damages due to employer's negligence?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I think part of this has to do with the fact that I spend a lot of time with my boyfriend and his friends, so I'm constantly exposed to the way his friends talk about girls - not in a derogatory way, just kind of admiring certain girls' beauty and bodies. I feel really immature for getting insecure when this happens because I know I'm pretty and I'm sure any of those guys would say the same. My boyfriend has hinted that his friends have said things about me being attractive before, but he always refuses to go into detail. I just wish every time I hung out with them I wasn't wearing sweatpants with no makeup on, because I feel like then they'd think of me less like a bro, and more like a hot girl. When I talk to my boyfriend about this and he tells me I'm beautiful, it just seems meaningless because of course he'd say that - he's my boyfriend. I feel really stupid and selfish for wanting more because I'm truly in a really happy relationship. I am just sick of my insecurities and I was wondering if this is a normal thing to feel. Does any of this make sense? Sorry, I'm typing on my phone so it's hard to look back and proofread.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, In my geography class we have just completed a large piece of coursework that goes towards our final grade. And my teacher, quite stupidly, left them out on his desk at lunch. A few guys went up there took pictures of a pages of someone else's in our class. Also the guys that have took the pictures aren't the brightest and, from what I have seen of there work, are going to fail. Bear in mind these people are likely to fail most of there subjects anyway. This person was one of the top people in our geography class and everyone tries to copy from him. If anything I feel sorry for him.\nAnyway, I am no longer friends with the person that did it. But when I was friends with him I had access to his facebook account and I still do now. For some reason I was on his account and I saw that he got a message from one of his friends saying thanks for the pictures. I was intrigued so I looked, although I shouldn't of, and it was pictures of that piece of coursework. \nNow I'm caught in a bit of a dilemma. I'm not sure whether to report them to the teacher for copying and risk getting told off for being on someone else's facebook account. Or just let them get away with cheating.\n\nI just cannot make up my mind on whether to report them or not. Any advice on this matter would be a huge help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I apologize for the wall of text, but I want to be thorough with this.\n\nMy mom is 56, retired last summer, and kind of lapsing in the intellectual department. She's got nothing to do that occupies her time aside from watching TV. She's been doing more reading lately, even had me pick her up a booklight so should could read while my dad is asleep, but she's reading stuff that's clearly not intellectually challenging. She bought ~10 Debbie Macomber books at a garage sale and has been consuming then nonstop. She expressed some interest to me in reading something that's less fluffy, but I'm kind of at a loss on what to get her. \n\nI work in a bookstore, so you'd think that I'd be good at making these kinds of suggestions, and I've been trying with her. I tend to pick standard book club fodder, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society was a book that she claimed to like, but there are other things I've picked up for her that she hasn't seemed interested in. \n\nShe also doesn't want anything \"dark.\" She's constantly complaining about the media that my father and I consume being too dark, too creepy, too violent, too sad, so on and so on. She doesn't seem to want anything that is too deep on the emotional scale, so I don't know what to do. I tend to feel like a book is really great when it rips my heart into a million pieces and puts it back together again in a different shape. I don't think my mom wants that. \n\nI'd like to get her a series, I've been thinking about The No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency by Alexander McCall Smith, but I'm not sure. I haven't read them, so what with them being mysteries rather than romance, I'm afraid she'll think they're \"too dark\" all over again. She's voiced interest in some \"good nonfiction\" but I'm not sure where to go with that either, since reality is often darker than fiction.\n\nThanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, Reddit.\n\nHere goes… My dad's brother left Europe to work in Australia in 1978, long before I was born. During the time he was in his early 20's. My dad and the rest of the brothers escorted him to the airport, watched him take off and never heard from him again…\n\nLater on my relatives have tried to search for him in different ways – through Australian authorities, other relatives living in Australia, Red Cross, etc. without success. We know he got to Australia. We know he had a job waiting there. Other than that, the authorities at least won't tell anything. All we're left are the immigration selection documents and a bunch of photos taken at the airport.\n\nI gather there are two possible scenarios; a) he somehow died and went missing or b) he went missing willingly and had kept under the radar. Nobody knows why he would've done such a thing, though. Others think the authorities would've told had he died. It's been a long time since and we understand there's good change he's passed away but many of us still stay positive. The 70's were a lot different time and you probably could've disappeared if you wanted to.\n\nNow, I know the internet is a powerful tool and at this point, I turn to you and your advice. How would one use the internet to look for him? I don't think creating a Facebook page would do squat but I don't really know where to look from… Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me (22m)\n\nGf (21f)\n\nDating for 4 years. (Both virgins before hooking up)\n\nGf just admitted to me that she had sex with a random guy while drunk after a party. She is very ashamed/ regretful and is afraid that I will dump her (she admits that if I had have done that to her she would have dumped me).\n\nI'm happy that she was the one who told me, and feel weird just how much it doesn't hurt me (it helps that I know she is really sorry). I still trust her.\n\nWe have toyed with the idea of having a ffm threesome before (she is a bit bi-curious) but I decided against it since I knew how insanely jealous she would be afterwards.\n\nNow she will do anything to make it up to me and suggested the threesome. I'm not sure if she is just saying that to relieve her guilt, and don't want her to do something she doesn't want to. And most of all I don't want to lose her.\n\nSo guys and gals, are threesomes all they are cracked up to be? Does having a threesome adversely affect relationships?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, fellow redditors!\n\nI'm 20 years old and 23 weeks pregnant. I'm in a relationship with my BF (23) for a year now. Let's just say that my BF and I couldn't keep it in our pants and I got pregnant. It was to late for an abortion when we found out. I have been having some kidney problems and the pregnancy tests where negative. So we just assumed my period is late because of my kidneys. We could have applied for an abortion because of the \"special\" circumstances but we decided to keep the baby. My kidneys are fine now and I'm carrying a healthy little kicker.\n\nWell because of the circumstances, I feel like I'm ruining my BF's life. We decided to keep the baby together. And I told him that anytime he changes his mind he can get out. He says that it's his responsibility as well and that he loves me. But he just, well seems sad and stressed. I on the other hand am happy for the baby. Wasn't at first but I just got used to the idea. I guess it's all these pregnancy hormones at work, but I'm enjoying every kick I feel and the thought of holding my baby just blows my mind. In a good way. :)\n\nIt's not exactly what I planned but I don't feel like the baby is gonna ruin my life. Should I feel like that? If I feel a kick, or read something new about pregnancy/baby development I'm afraid to tell my BF. I'm afraid how he would feel if I reminded him that I'm pregnant. I know that I should just talk to him, but I'm afraid he will just say what I want to hear instead of being completaly honest. I just wish he was happy. With the idea of being with me and the baby, or if he would decide to leave. It would brake my heart but I love him and just wish he was happy one way or the other. \n\nWhat do you suggest? How can I ask him subtly how he feels and convince him if needed that he doesn't have to stay just out of guilt?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This will be a quick one (I hope) so bear with me.\n\nRecently, I discussed with my boyfriend that I felt we weren't having enough sex anymore. We have been together for 2.5 years and the past few times we have hung out, we have not had sex or he rebuffed my advances. He chalked it up to low energy and stress a few things which I understood, but it just felt very off. Not only could I not recall when we were having sex but when we did it wasn't good at all. At first he didn't agree with my sentiment about less sex, and in fact decided to point out my own shortcomings (regarding domestic tasks) but he took the initiative to initiate and it's been great. In fact, we've been having some of the best sessions we've ever had, and I feel that he used techniques he's never used before (sorry if it's TMI). I thought we were happy.\n\nThe next morning, we were joking around and it came to the point where I jokingly mentioned that he was trying to turn me into a housewife and he mentioned I was trying to turn him into a sex slave. That threw me off, but I let it go because I assumed he was joking. However, the very next day we were recalling the previous night's session and how much he enjoyed it. I casually brought up the sex slave comment. He then goes on to show the apparently grotesque face I made multiple times and how I was basically forcing his head.\n\nIt seemed like it was in the vein of joking but I felt humiliated. I feel sex is such a vulnerable state and his comments made me feel that he wasn't really into it and having a laugh at my expense, perhaps even resentful that he had to. When I brought up that what he said was rude, he noted that he was just kidding and didn't mean anything by it. But isn't there a truth in joking? It makes me feel like I can't voice my concerns and now I feel insecure about doing those acts. Am I just being over sensitive?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey All,\n\nSo I've just received news today that I've been offered an 11 month contract opportunity with one of the leading global tech/social companies however it's going to mean relocating away from my girlfriend of 18 months (who's amazing) if I accept.\n\nI'm super glad that I've been offered but equally worried as I don't want to lose my girlfriend who is great and incredibly supportive. We've spoken about this opportunity and she knows how ambitious I am and was happy for me to go for it but we're both going to be upset and miss each other if I accept and leave.\n\nThankfully the opportunity is in Dublin and we're currently in London so it's a 1 hour flight away and relatively cheap to get there and back.\n\nWhile I don't like the idea of leaving her I'm not sure if I'd ever get this kind of opportunity again. If it was any other company the choice would be clear but I feel that taking it would lead to amazing career progression, huge job satisfaction and hopefully continued training/development.\n\nWould love to get some final advice from anyone, especially if you've been in a similar situation.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is kinda non-romantic, I suppose. I recently made several new friends on twitter. All of them are girls. They're all fairly cute but I've been burned once by internet relationships and I wasn't really looking for another\n\nWell... I got drunk and told one of the girls that I thought she was really cute but that I \"didn't mean anything serious about it.\"\n\nI woke up in the morning and realized what I'd done and apologized and her exact words were \"no no, it's always nice to know somebody thinks you look nice :)\"\n\nI feel awful about it and I feel like a creep but I feel like apologizing further would just make it weirder. We haven't spoken since and I don't have many friends (even very casual ones like this one) and it just makes me feel worse that I think I accidentally fucked one up I think.\n\nI can include the exact messages exchanged if need be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend of just over a year broke up with me today because she just doesn't love me in the same way anymore. I'm 19 and she's 18 and we managed a semi LDR quite successfully for nearly 10 of those months.\n\nThe qualm is that we are both best friends and dont want to lose that. She still wants to talk just as much as we have and snuggle up on the sofa and watch movies and stuff.\nThings seemed to be going downhill for a while I guess (can barely remember the last time we had sex) but she had exams and was stressed so I was just hoping for her to snap out of it but apparently she isnt going to.\n\nWhat Im asking is what is the best way we can remain friends without me getting my heart broken. I'm suprisingly ok with the breakup so far perhaps because things have been getting more and more platonic anyway so we are just friends even if I want to be more than that.\nIm just rambling now though so any and all advice welcome.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Trebek's making his way down the line making small talk with the other contestants. You're next. What do you say?\n\nHere's mine: I was travelling in Germany a few years ago and took part in a pub crawl in Berlin. We were warned ahead of time not to make too much noise on the U-bahn (subway, metro, underground, whatever), presumably because they had received complaints. Being the sneaky Canadian devil that I am, I decided to take advantage of the sizeable complement of Aussies on the crawl to cause some ruckus. I started singing the first few lines of \"Waltzing Matilda\" under my breath and within 10 seconds most of the train was singing the anthem at full volume.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I went to a deftones show at the ventura majestic theater last night in Ventura, CA. When entering we consented to a search, we had nothing to hide. The girl going through my girlfriends purse spotted two containers with pills. One was an unmarked container with advil, the other was a rx for Bactrim. She immediately gave the rx bottle to her \"medic\" who locked it up. She started protesting and another guy said he was the medic and that he locked it up because the label was \"scuffed and said something about a phenyl\". He told is we could get it back after the show. Fast forward to close to the end of the show, and we come back. The second guy told us to call on Tuesday to get our drugs back. When we asked why he said because he had been trying to help us all night and my girlfriend had been a \"pain in the ass\" We called the cops and right before they showed up he gave us the pills back and kicked us out for no reason. When my girlfriend inspected her pills he said her molly was no longer in there (neither of us have ever even seen molly) We asked for his license number, to store rx meds it's our understanding you need a D.E.A. license? He refused. Anyway, we got the pills back and we got a incident number. Do we have any rights, is there a police report we can file or ???? Thanks y'all!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm 16. I never thought I'd realize what people meant about how it sucks, but it does. I'm trying to juggle crew rowing, 3 APs, and a social life. The stress is high. Recently, a lot of my friends have been talking about how they've started making out with girls, and I got a little jealous. I WAS 16 and I'd never kissed a girl before, and to be fair I'm a tad nerdy.\n\n So yesterday I'm hanging out with my best friend, also 16 although he goes to a different school, and a good coxswain (someone who steers the boat) friend (girl), a senior at a different school than me. After I drop off my (guy) friend, I start driving her back home as well. Since we're actually good friends, we start talking candidly, and eventually the conversation moves to kissing and relationships (she broke up with her boyfriend.)\n\n \n Before I know it, I'm asking her if she'd ever kiss me, and she said only if I don't tell anyone. So we start making out for the next 10 minutes. But today (the next day), I'm in a bind. I've texted and snapped her a few times but she's hardly replied, and her and I are meeting up again this saturday for her birthday. But I'm worried for many many reasons.\n\n1) I feel like we're taking things too fast and it'll just ruin what we have\n\n2) Although she does reply, I have to initiate the conversation first. \n\n3) I feel like she's using me as a fuck buddy (she literally said she'd bang me saturday) until she can get a permanent boyfriend.\n\n Thoughts?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok here is an update of a post I made yesterday. \n\nI'm 27 and she is 28. We've been together 2 1/2 yrs. and we live together.\n\nYesterday she got mad at me over the phone for not wanting to go to the beach the next day (she was on a lunch break). After we hung up she texted me and said I never try to spend time with her. I apologized and said let's go. She said she was over it and will go with friends. \n\nAfter that she texts me and says she is going out after work with friends and wont be home until late. She also said she can't go to my friends wedding next week. \n\nShe doesn't come home till midnight last night and when she walks in she doesn't speak to me and proceeds to watch tv in the living room and then she slept on the couch. \n\nIn the morning I wake and she is in the bed. I try to hug her but she pushes me away and says nothing. I fall back asleep. When I wake up again she is in the living watching tv. I say good morning and she doesn't reply back. \n\nNow I'm in the bedroom and she is on the couch watching tv. I don't want to fight with her but I want us to talk out the situation.\n\nI don't know what to do reddit. Is this acceptable for a partner to be like this? Should I talk to her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Tonight I met my parenting opposite and I wish I could say it was a good experience, that we learned from each other, had a good calm discussion and thoughtfully went our separate ways pondering the others perspective. I can't say any of that. I can say that she watched her son utilizing public property incorrectly and instead of correcting him and using it as a teaching moment she stood by and watched as my Mom attempted to correct him repeatedly, until finally telling the child she needed his full name to report to the police after they found the park property broken due to his choices. This woman then had the amazing audacity to come to my Mom and tell her how RUDE it was to scare her child by mentioning the cops! I jumped in with some words of my own and she told me how this is not how Christ would do things. I absolutely disagree, Christ was and is a great man because He does NOT accept improper behavior. He in fact threw the money changers out of the temple. Being Christlike does not being a doormat and never getting mad. Being Christlike means teaching children right from wrong even if their parents won't, making tough calls and being brave. We prayed for that little guy and his mother tonight that they might learn from this, but I doubt she will teach her son anything other than how his ego is worth more than being responsible for your actions and choices. This is disheartening. This is sad and this is how children now in our society will not recognize the little areas of black, white and grey and will grow up not recognizing big areas of black white and grey. My children are not angels and when they misbehave in public, I have them go tell people their apologies and what they have learned rather than defending bad choices. UGH! Parenting my own children is hard but parenting yours is ridiculous!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello fellow redditors,\n\nI am currently working for company A on a temporary contract basis which expires May 9th 2016. As I did not hear any offers from them I started my job search and got 2 interviews lined up (companies B and C). One of the interviews is with a company B which is a company I really want to work for but unfortunately they can only interview me this Friday. My current employer suddenly \"woke up\" at the end of last week and asked me to stay on a permanent basis with the same salary as before. I politely declined his offer because I know I can find a better deal elsewhere.\n\nThe next day company A asked me what's the minimum salary I would accept and I shot a number at them which I thought they would not accept (this company is a little bit cheap with its employees). To my surprise they told me that they are trying to negotiate with the higher management and will let me know their final decision tomorrow. I am also supposed to hear from company C tomorrow but that company apparently does not have any benefits so I would not be interested in working there. \n\nWhat should I do if company A will accept my counter offer? Should I be honest and tell them that I am waiting to hear from a company of my first choice? I really want to be as professional as possible and leave on good terms. There are number of things I don't like about company A such as location, organizational structure so I am really ready to leave but of course if I don't get an offer from company B then it would make sense to stay here at least for now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [28/F] met this guy [34/M] the other day for the first time after talking for almost a month. We met online, and clicked instantly. Since then we talked on the phone almost every night and slowly grew to really like each other. When we met for the first time, I felt no butterflies... just an instant comfort feeling. I didn't feel like that intense, nervous, immediate infatuation. We did end up having sex, and the entire time we were together, he just kept remarking on how \"good different\" everything was. \nI'm very confused. I purposely searched for guys that are not my type: passionate \"bad boys\" who party a lot. I've had a string of tumultuous relationships where the guy idolized me, fell in love with the idea of me, and once I fell from that pedestal it all crashed and burned. But, he's different. Very different...\nIs it possible to fall for someone without that instant tummy butterfly, fuzzy feeling? Or does this sound like more of just s friendship in the making?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and this guy have been going out for a few weeks, and we were both as happy as could be. We were always talking, and when we were together it was amazing. We were so grateful for each other. \n\nThe other day I was over to his place, and we were alone. We were just cuddled up on the couch and we were having a great time. Then his mother comes home without warning, and we scatter (this was low-key). \n\nI'm pretty sure she caught a glimpse of us together, then he went upstairs for about 10 minutes and comes back down and takes me home, and I thought nothing of it. On the way, he says we should take a bit of a break, and I thought okay, it was a close call, I get it. \n\nThen today he breaks up with me. I was blindsided. This is very sudden and I'm confused and angry (not at him) and crushed. He said he just doesn't feel the same way about me but still want's to be good friends. \n\nHow can someone go from wanting to never let go to not interested in 24 hours? I'm just so confused, I wish I knew what was really happening. What do you guys think?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been an introvert with social anxiety for as long as I can remember. I am self diagnosed but it's pretty obvious from the way I feel after years of, I guess I could call it, suffering. Anytime I am excluded by my friends, intentionally or not, I become very anxious, somewhat depressed and therefore, angry. It became significantly more problematic this past year. I was bullied, to put it bluntly. I was mocked, harassed, and for no good reason, feared for my health and safety. Being in situations like these gives me an intense sick feeling and I want to, in short, curl up and die. I frequently feel as though life would be easier if I didn't exist (even though that sentence doesn't actually make sense...) I am filled with terror at just the sight of some of these people and am constantly paranoid. I try to adopt an \"I don't care\" attitude and sometimes it makes me feel better, but I don't know how to relax and put these things out of my mind. It lead to me treating my best friend terribly and losing her, having no friends in the new place I was living, and lead to compulsive emotional eating, skipping classes (and failing exams, sure enough), rarely sleeping, and resorting to non-lethal methods of self harm as well as alcoholism for periods of time. I am seeking professional help, but I'm hoping someone out here can relate and give me some suggestions, or even just tell me that I'm not alone. I can give more information if anyone asks questions but I'm not sure what else to say at this point.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am not happy in the place where I live. I want to move to a new city, in a country not too far away (it takes <1h to fly there from here). I broke up with the girl I love for a month ago, for reasons I don't even really understand (i.e. that I am an idiot). We have been together for 3 years. \n\nNow I want to convince her to move with me, and that we move together. She has her friends here, where I have none. But we both love eachother. What is the best way to go around theese things? Has anyone else had a similar situation, what did you do and how did it turn out?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is happening now. I'm taking my regular morning poo and checking out reddit. Suddenly, a sneeze. I turn my head. Another sneeze. And another. Here's the thing. I sneezed so hard that it blew the last (nearly empty) roll of toilet paper onto the watery floor of the bathroom. Let me explain. My girlfriend, who is dear to my heart, has some bad habits. She gets out of the shower without drying off first, leaving a big wet mess on the floor. Also, she has a free standing toilet paper holder she likes to use as a balancing device for the tp (because who has time to put it on the roller?! And it's too hard! There's gotta be a better way!). Now the near empty tp roll is soaked, and I have no other option than to sit here and wait for the shit on my hairy bunghole to dry just enough that it won't mush around too much in my ass as I waddle over to the kitchen for some emergency paper towels.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been spending a lot of time with this guy I met about a month ago. I was physically attracted to him from the start, and grew to like his personality as well. We have been on a couple of dates in addition to hanging out as friends, and I really enjoy spending time with him. The problem is that he's great in when we're just hanging out, but if things start to get romantic he gets incredibly awkward and nervous and it just turns me off. When we've kissed I felt no sparks. If anything I just really want to break it off. \n\nI am very inexperienced with dating/relationships. I had never even kissed anybody before him. So, at first I chalked the bad kissing up to awkwardness on my part. After doing it a couple of other times though, my feelings haven't really changed. I'm starting to think I just don't have chemistry with him. What makes it complicated is that I do feel physically attracted to him, but when we kiss it just goes away. Could he just be a bad kisser?\n\nI don't want to lead him on if it turns out we don't have chemistry, but I also want to give this a chance because I like him. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just started working at an office job where I am an IT contractor. A female got hired as a temp soonafter and we hooked up twice. Within the first week of her working there. Fast forward like two weeks and she is hooking up with a full time employee now. Kissing inside the building we work at and I found out by questioning them leaving together almost every day. What do I do? It's got me all fucked up in the head and I have to watch this happen on a daily basis?\nWho flips a switch like that so easily and says, \"WELL I THOUGHT YOU ONLY WANTED TO HOOK UP AND I REALIZED I WANTED A RELATIONSHIP.\" She didn't even give me the option or share her feelings with me - just jumped ship. I am so confused and really just need some guidance here on how to deal with this in a work environment. This is a small office of 30 people with HQ located in Seattle so it is very intimate space in which I cannot avoid anyone. Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There was a girl who was interested in me at first, she found all of my jokes funny and we clicked in an almost brother/sister sense. She always texted me and seemed interested. I felt like she wanted me to ask her out on a date or something but I felt it was too early to go out of my comfort zone.\n\n Over the weekend she didn't reply to any of my texts unless it was absolutely necessary like homework, wtf? I see her she's in class that week and she's sitting with some other guy flirting it up! This didn't bother me all that much because I wouldn't mind being friends but she cut me off altogether, what gives?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background info - We only dated for a few months and were starting a relationship, but then things went terribly wrong and it ended. I love her. Her looks and personality were what I looked and dreamt for in a woman. We just clicked from the get go. I tried my hardest to make it work, but she obviously didn't feel the same + she was starting her new life at uni so why would she bother when she's got so many opportunities a head of her. \n\nMy problem - It hurts so much. The heartbreak is horrible! My heartstrings have been pulled so hard and I've never felt like this before. It fucking sucks! She wasn't even in my life that long yet she's affected it so much! (you can probably tell I haven't been in many or long relationships). I just want to move on with my life! And I know what you're going to say... go out and date new woman but its not that simple for some reason they most woman want nothing to do with me otherwise I would've been in plenty of long lasting relationships and lost my virginity by now. And the funny thing is I'm not even unattractive. \n\nI also want to add how lame I think it is that I cant stop lusting over someone that was in my life for such a short period, when theres no many people out there who've gone through divorce etc and they're doing just fine! my emotions are bullshit!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "During summer he lives in my hometown and has office here and in his hometown, 100km away where he lives rest of the year. But comes in my hometown regularly.\n\nI approached him. We were fuck buddies during summer before I went to college. No feelings. Usually sex is always better in my head, but this was different, it was damn good. He wasn't married then.\n\nI went to college. He got married. He said that we can continue our 'relationship' but during summer I travelled and worked abroad. Repeated that for 4 years. Minding my own business. We lost touch.\n\nIn June we met in our neighbourhood and he offered me a job. I was planning to go abroad again and he said that I can start when I want. This is my last year at uni, classes are easy and aren't mandatory. So I thought great, it is good job, good money and, most important, it will help me gain experience.\n\nI work there 6 weeks. I want him to fuck me. Now I sit in office, with two other co-workers, he is in his office few meters away and I imagining how he fucks me. No comment.\n\nHe flirts a little when we are alone, nothing inappropriate, we have lunch sometimes... He said that if I want, I just have to send him text and that was it. Didn't mention it again.\n\nI planned to work here until I finish uni and then I will move abroad for good. I have some dates, 'good' old Tinder, but nothing interesting.\n\nShould I quit? Or just shut up and stay strong? \nWorst thing is that I can't trust myself. I am all good for 5 days, don't even thing about him and then in one second everything changes and I am sooo close to click 'send'.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Recently just broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months. It was out of the blue and the break up was one sided. It was entirely his decision to end it. Apparently its the same old cliche line \"it's not you its me\". He needs to \"sort his shit out\".\n\nAnd now adding on to be even more cliche things there is a high chance I am pregnant. I took a home pregnancy test and it came back positive. In the mornings the past week I have felt extremely nauseous and have thrown up on multiple occasions and by the afternoon I'm fine. I'm going to make a doctors appointment tomorrow to go get a blood test to see if it is definite or not.\n\nDo I tell him or do I not tell him? He has made it pretty clear that he does not want to be with me but at the same time I know he still cares. I don't have any idea what to do. A large part of me doesn't want to tell him.\n \n\nAny advice please would be appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I spent four years living half a country away from my parents, and those four years were great, but expensive. So when my parents moved closer to me, I moved in with them, looking to save money and finish school. \n\nIt's been going pretty well. I go to church with them once a week (they're fundamentalist Christians), I don't drink or go to parties and I work to pay for school. They cover my room and board, and occasionally drive me around. \n\nLast week however, I had a friend come up from Toronto, (about an hour and a half away.) I went to a movie with said friend (Magic Mike) and told my parents I was going to see Abe Lincoln. Ignoring the fact that it's not as terrible as it sounds, that I'm 22 and lying to my parents, my mother somehow found out. \n\nNow she's all cold and \"I'm too angry, we'll talk about it later\" and I want to be like \"no! We're not going to talk about it later. We're not going to talk about it ever, because it's none of your business.\" I appreciate what they've done for me, and they've been a huge help, especially in the last few months, but sometimes I want to tell them that parts of my life have nothing to do with them. \n\nI'm tired of not dating because they won't approve of the guys I date and sick of listening to her every single week, \"will you be in heaven with us?\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "All my life I have struggled with grammar and was wondering whether it is possible to be gramar-disability or something similar.\n\nI speak four languages because we moved a lot when I was a kid. I picked all of them up by ear. However, it was very hard for me to pick up a language in a classroom setting (three years of French and I can barely string together a sentence without errors). I also bend and break grammatical rules in all the languages I speak, and don't have much of an ear for correct and proper sentence structure. I don't speak any of language perfectly.\n\nI ended up studying Indology, a subject that I love. Though the literature, philosophy etc is very easy for me, grammar is my huge stumbling block. I have a feeling that I have been learning the same basic grammar for years and still haven't got the hang of it. I keep on messing up even the very basics. (The language I study is a dead one, so I can't learn it by interacting with locals). Without the grammar I am unable to read texts independently, and this basically rules out any future job in the field.\n\nSo I was wondering whether it is possible that my brain is lacking something? Is it possible to be gramatically-challenged? (I am also mathematically challenged and even have problems with basic division). Anyone else have the same problem? Or am I just doing something wrong? Is there a better and more efficient way to learn grammar?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Posted about this earlier, but down to crunch time, so any final advice would be appreciated.\n\nGF is returning from a trip today. She has been gone for two weeks. I have been using this time to see how I feel about her while she was gone. We have been dating for six months.\n\nWhile I have enjoyed our time, I don't have the same feelings of love she has. She sees a long term future for us, and I unfortunately don't think I feel the same way. Therefore, while I am still on the fence, I am leaning towards breaking up with her.\n\nA few things that are making me hesitiatnt\n\n1) We were planning on celebrating our six month anniversary this weekend. She also just told me, she considers our anniversary to be today.\n\n2) She also recently told me that last time she was with a guy, they broke up when she returned from a trip. \n\n3) She has anxiety.\n\nAll of these factors coming in to play, I'm not sure if breaking up with her now is selfish of me, or is the bad timing just how it goes sometimes?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have 2 dogs. One loves everyone (after he growls and barks at you) and the other one trusts NO ONE but me. I got them both from the SPCA. The skittish dog is a Shiba Inu/Italian Greyhound mix and he's always been afraid of pretty much everything. \n When I brought him home he immediately hid underneath my bed but I won his trust with some bread crusts and after that he's been my shadow. This dog follows me EVERYWHERE (besides the bathroom, he hates baths). If I go upstairs, he goes upstairs. If I sit on the couch, he sits on the couch. \n Problem is, I've been dating my boyfriend for soon to be 3 years and have lived with him since November. My other dog loves him but my boy Haku doesn't really trust him or anyone. He won't sit in his lap or next to him and won't run or play with him. He only wants to be with me. I know it's gotta be frustrating for my boyfriend because he does try to bond with Haku but Haku doesn't really let him. Haku has become less afraid of him but still won't do much with him. I'm just wondering if there are any good ways for them to bond more. When we go for a walk, he walks Haku. He gives him treats and everything. But more than that, Haku won't have it. If he tries to run with Haku with him leashed, Haku will whine and look back and be miserable. \n Is there any way to get my dog to want to be with my boyfriend more than he already does? Or is he just a one person dog and that won't ever change?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She's amazing. Funny, super cute. She likes me, a lot, and we have a lot of physical contact. The problem is her family is super-Christian, and she, while not a fanatic, is very religious. I'm an atheist. It doesn't really bother her, and her religion doesn't really bother me. But it has restricted the bounds of our relationship.\n\nWe talked about the possibility of dating, and the way she sees it is that the relationship will never go very far, i.e. marriage. Not that she wants to go into a relationship only if she thinks she'll marry, but that she thinks that we can never break that barrier. She agrees that we'd be great together, and that we might date for years, but that eventually she KNOWS we would never go further than that.\n\nMy opinion is that we should take the happiness while we can get it. She doesn't want to go into a relationship knowing it will end, which seems pessimistic and a little illogical to me. Love is about risk, and in my opinion you go for it and if it hurts in the end, the happiness was worth it.\n\nI think that she thinks we're done talking about it, but I'm thinking about bringing it up again. Should I risk losing her friendship, which I don't really think would happen, but would be awful, in order to state my argument better?\n\nAdditionally, I'm totally not good enough for her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here is my issue. First some background, I am fairly recently divorced (1 year) coming out of a really bad marriage of 15 years. It was a bad breakup with lots of bitterness on both sides, add to that 2 kids who I now don't get to see as often as I would like. I went from that right into a horrible abusive relationship with a much younger woman (24 F) who essentially saw I was incredibly vulnerable and used me for financial gain while filling my head with how I was a really terrible person which is why I ended up divorced and that she didn't know why she stayed with me. The end result was any self esteem I had was ruined but I somehow got addicted to her. \n\nI finally left that relationship 3 months ago after I just couldn't take it anymore. I really worked to try and improve myself and have lost a bunch of weight and my general outlook on life has improved. I met a really nice woman a couple of weeks ago and we clicked. I really like her, she likes me and hey things seem to be looking up. \n\nSo the problem, we decided to become intimate and things seemed to be going good but I couldn't get hard. I was into it, wanted it but it just wasn't happening. First time ever for me that this occurred. I have no problem getting an erection if I masturbate so it's not physical but psychological. I still have in my head the crap my ex gf used to tell me plus I guess lingering guilt over my divorce. So how do I overcome this, because I really want to develop this into a healthy relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So in high school I asked a girl out. She turned me down. I still crushed on her for a while but eventually I graduated and went to college. I thought I wouldn't see her again so I gave up. She was different than previous crushes I've had because we still talk on Facebook from time to time. \n\nFast forward 4 years, I'm starting my third year at college and she just graduated high school and came to the same college as me. It's an art school so we are both doing some form of art. We like a lot of the same stuff. I'm crushing on her again but even more so than in high school. \n\nHer and her friend sat down with me and my friend the other day in the lounge while waiting for our next classes. We talked for a while. We talked about a bunch of stuff from video games to what she planned on doing when she graduates. from what I can tell, she is not interested in me at all though because I'm unattractive and she is very attractive. I don't know what to do. I am going to ask for her number when I talk to her next week but I don't want to make things awkward. She probably already knows I like her which could be awkward enough. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't know if this is normal. It doesn't seem normal. I have never dated or kissed someone and I feel like an outcast. Most my girl friends have done a lot of things and here I am, done absolutely nothing.\n\nI should probably approach guys much more, but I'm scared and insecure. I know that I'm plain average or ugly, so not many guys are interested. I never get approached by guys while many of my friends are approached whenever we are out. I remember being younger and out with my friends they all got to talk with guys while I was sitting there for myself and no guy would ever talk to me.\n\nI know that I have to suck up and realize the genetics didn't work in my favor. I'm an average looking girl. It's so hard to accept though.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This irks me quite a bit regarding the nature of people. I understand that \"negativity\" can be inferred as a trait amongst certain types of people, however, how does it help the situation when the same person receives a barrage of name calling such as \"negative nancy\"? Shit, is it even a \"trait\" at all? Perhaps nobody has actually helped this person see the positive light of things since the beginning of the downswing in their life? Is it hard for people to be uplifting to others when they clearly know that this person is having a difficult time in their lives? Actually, you don't even need to know whether someone is having a downswing in their life. It's just downright rude to call someone \"negative\" straight to their face when you aren't even aware of what may actually be going on behind the scenes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I work at a technical support help desk (I answer phones and provide support). I think one the most frustrating things about working as a support is when I try give the caller a reason for their issue, they believe it to not be correct. I'll elaborate with a story.\n\nSomeone calls in regarding an issue with logging in to blah blah. I ask what error message they receive. From her response I know that they are just using an incorrect password. I inform them that they are using an incorrect password. IMMEDIATELY they respond with, \"NO that is wrong I've had the same password for years.\" I reset their password and tell them to log in with the new password. They say, \"NOPE it's not working, don't you think it's my old password that I've been using for 2 years.\" I then begin to use their default username and the reset password to try and log in to see if their is an issue or that I might've put in the wrong reset password. I use the credentials and I log in. Surprise. I inform them that they should try again and now MAGICALLY it works for them... (surprise!). They then ask me what it could have been? I have to tell them it could have been a multitude of things when in fact, it was their fault all along. Sometimes I just want to say it was your own fault, idiot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I live in a shared house with 4 other friends. I got a call last night while playing Xbox with one of my buddies at around 3am from a (20F) friend asking to come round. She had been drinking but headed back early and said she was lonely (her exact words). She asked to come round and i said she could. I've known this girl a couple of years and she used to be FWB with one of the guys I live with. \n\nTurns out she was only walking from her house which is pretty close by and got to mine like 5 minutes after the phone call. I was downstairs with the buddy I was up with and we let her in. I don' think she was expecting me to be up with anyone else (can't be 100% sure on that though). One of the first things she commented on was about my new haircut and appearance (both positive) which she has never done in the past.\n\nI made her tea and soon after another housemate came down to see what was happening (her previous FWB). A lot of the conversation was directly between me and her and we really did have a laugh the whole time she was there. \n\nAfter about an hour she decided to head back and me and my buddies went back to my room. They immediately suggested she was hitting on me and that I should have walked her back but up to that point I'd assumed she genuinely was bored/lonely as I know that she lives with people that she doesn't know/like very well. Thing is they never allowed to both to be alone in the room so I wasn't sure if they were just joking around.\n\nJust to clarify she's never done anything like this before and is only a friend i see perhaps a couple of times a month. I messaged her soon after she left asking if she got back ok and she said she did.\n\nDo you guys think she was being flirty? I certainly didn't feel at the time she was giving enough signals that she was interested and even now looking back I think its unlikely.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 25 year old female, and living with my aunt and uncle until I can get back on my feet. For now, I sleep in the living room on a cot. For the past few months I have, on several occasions, awoken in the middle of the night to my cousin either touching me or standing over my bed. The touches haven't been anywhere sexual, mostly my feet, and a couple of times my leg or stomach (still incredibly uncomfortable). It has only been in the past 2 months that I have been aware of this behavior, but previous to this there have been times when he went out of his way to \"bump\" into my feet under the table, or to sit close to me and touch my arm. \n\nLately, when I have woken up to these unwanted touches, I tell him to leave me alone, and he backs off quickly, without a word. I have told my sister, who also sleeps nearby, and she tries to keep an eye out for me when she stays up late. We can't really say anything to my aunt or uncle because of our living situation, and our belief that they would take their son's side over ours, especially without proof.\n\nI find myself dreading going to sleep, and I've completely stopped talking to my cousin, opting to avoid all contact with him at all. He seems to show no remorse for his actions, especially after the first time I blatantly caught him in the act and told him for the first time to leave me alone. I can't stand this! What do I do? What's wrong with him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I was in a relationship with a girl from Canada, while I live in the US. After 8 months online, we decided to try to meet in person. The details aren't important, but just say there were some complications, and she decides that she doesn't want to keep waiting to be happy, she doesn't want to keep trying and failing, so she calls it off. The kicker to this story is that I have been dealing with depression for many, many years. She was the first person to really break through the mental walls I have set up over the last decade, and because of that, she was able to affect me on an emotional level I have never experienced. The downside to that is that now, because it's over, the hurt is deeper than I have ever felt. Anyone in a similar situation that can give tips on how to just go about my day-to-day?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. His ex-gf (first love) who he was still friends with but wanted to date again died about 3 years ago. He has a tattoo in memory of her and art and things she made him hung up in his room and car. The first year we dated was touch and go as to if he was ready to be in a relationship. I tried to be there for him as much as I could but it was hard for a beginning of a relationship. We have since moved forward and are in a very good place. I had been OK with her things everywhere because I knew it was understandable....he was grieving and it was not my place. Now we are moving in together and I feel weird having her things hung up in our place. We got in an argument about it and he got angry and said I shouldn't feel weird about her stuff and that I should look at it like these are things in memory of his friend, not ex. Am I being insensitive or is this understandable?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I recently broke up with my girlfriend of two months. We are currently in a semi-long distance relationship (1 hour away) because she goes to school in LA (her hometown is 6 hours away from me). I drive to visit once a week and my mom was starting to get a little angry because she says it's a waste of gas and I should only visit her once every 2 weeks.\n\nIn addition, my parents had two conditions for me to stay with her (1. She converts to Catholicism and 2. She agrees to move to southern California if we get married). Now my mother told me that I had to ask this right away before things get hard on me later. \n\nI personally don't care if she converts or not because I respect her own beliefs and I know that she respects mine. However, I really love my family and it made my mom sad at the thought of me possibly moving far away from her in the future and that she is of a different religion. I know that she is scared that I will get hurt because a long distance relationship is pretty risky but I really love this girl. My gf is really easy to talk to and really makes me happy. I have never met someone that clicks with me like her and I know that she feels the same way. The thought of us ending without closure makes me sad and I do not want to give up. \n\nMy gf said that she does not want to convert and that she does not want to be tied down on where to live in the future. She believes in just seeing where life takes her. \n\nI know my mom will get over the religion thing but I do not know how she will handle me possibly leaving my hometown in the future. I really do not want to end this relationship but at the same time I am scared because my parents will be disappointed in me if it messes up and I get hurt. \n\nI guess I am asking for some advice... Should I keep trying this relationship out and see what happens? Or should I just give up and move on.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I frequent the Dunkin Donuts near my house and recently have been being served by a particular employee. Had a brief chat today with her about brain farts and the really chilly weather outside. Ordered my coffee and another one for a family member. When I headed over to the pickup side of the counter she asked if the iced coffee was for me (it was). When I said yes she immediately got a size larger and remarked that she was giving it to me for free. Then she stopped me before I walked out and gave me a free coupon for next time. \n\nShe's always been super friendly when I order but never to this extent. How do I non-creepily go about testing the waters. I've always had this mental \"block\" towards hitting on cashiers. It just doesn't seem like good practice and could easily come across as being on the weird/stalker side of things. \n\nI realize that she may in fact have just been trying to keep up customer loyalty but there was definitely a flirty hint in the manner that she did all of this. \n\nHave you folks had situations like this? If so how did you approach it and what was the result?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, my feelings are a little hurt and I think this is a sign I should end this situation with a guy I'm seeing but I need some help in organizing my thoughts.\n\nI seen this guy about 1-3 times a week for the past 5 months and we communicate every single day. Last week I started getting weird vibes from him (he doesn't cuddle with me as much and looks at his phone more). After I left his apartment, he hasn't tried to initiate any conversation for about 5 days. His birthday was coming up and he was inviting his friends to hang out (both female and male) and did not invite me. I messaged him the day of his birthday to congratulate and asked if he was doing anything. He explained again he's going to hang out with his friends, but made no mentioning that he wanted me there. He also later in the night hung out with coworkers as well to celebrate.\n\nIn the past I've planned things for us and asked myself to hang out with him but generally if he's already out with people and I ask to join, he has a reason I shouldn't be there. He takes a lot of initiate so I think he just didn't want me there at his birthday.\n\nI feel like if I express my feelings I will seem needy. He's not my boyfriend. I feel like I don't seem important enough in his life to want me there to celebrate for him.\n\nI would like to continue to be his friend, but how do I express that I get the sense he doesn't like me as much anymore and it's better to end it now and the lack of invitation was a sign he didn't want me there?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My best friend and I had sex. We talked about sleeping together a couple weeks ago and I told him I didn't think it was a good idea because I know he has been talking to girls and I didn't want to get emotionally attached. \n\nIt kind of just happened Thursday, then he spent the night. I said I didn't want it to be weird now and he agreed. I felt him being different (distant) that day, so I texted him that night telling him I didn't want it to be weird, that it was just something fun that happened and I expect nothing from him. He said there's no awkwardness but he was still being weird! We usually talk all day every day and I have heard nothing. \n\nHe has been weird since and it is making me feel animosity towards him. I am very close to his mom, so this is going to cause us to be around each other a lot. We saw a movie with his mom today and I felt myself not even wanting to look at him. I'm mad he is making it weird and I just want some advice about how to talk to him so it can either go back to normal or we can decide what to do next.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well, this morning, for breakfast I had the typical: Omelet, hash browns, pancakes... \n\nWell, every time I eat those damn eggs, I tend to get really gaseous. I'm not talking typical farts, I mean those dreadful silent vomit inducing farts that are similar to those you get when you eat protein shakes or supplements.\n\nWell, I come back from the chow hall and start my work day. Well, I have to get up and grab something from across the room, and I can just feel my stomach rumbling...\n\nI get up, start walking, and I suddenly just can't hold it in anymore. I let out a silent fart. But you know, I can't just stand in one place and fart, since everyone there is going to look at me and wonder why the hell I'm standing there. So, I decide to walk quickly across the room, grab what I need, and walk back.\n\nA few seconds after I sit down back at my desk, my boss walks in. And as soon as he walks in, he can just smell it. He just stops, and has this look of pure pain in his face... \n\nHe quietly says to himself \"Who the F*ck just farted? It smells like god damn death.\" Since he's close to my desk, in an effort to protect my own ass, I say to him in a low voice \"Well sir, I think it was Jennifer over there...\" \n\nJust then he looks over at her, with this look of pure hate, and she looks back with a confused look on her face wondering what she did... I knew then I was safe. Unfortunately, he called her out on it, a few of the other workers bust out laughing, and its safe to say I fractured a coworkers friendship, since the boss said that I told him it was her...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Two months ago I met a European girl in a club. We slept together that night, and since then we've been in touch fairly often, and even done things like going to the beach together and a football match (she's a fan, don't worry I didn't drag her there). However we always made it clear that this is not some sort of relationship. She recently got out of an abusive one with a man she was going to marry and I know she needs some time to be free; I'll be leaving here back to Britain in a month or so too so I can't really date anyone per se...\n\nHowever every time I see her post a photo with another guy on Instagram, it eats me up inside. It makes me feel horrible. This is despite the fact that since I last saw her two weeks ago, I've had sex with someone else I'm planning to meet up with.\n\nAt this point I would like to appreciate that it is me at fault here, but how can I overcome this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, the actual thing happened about 2 weeks ago on my birthday but I currently don't know what to do.\n\nI've had a small crush on her for about 3 years now, but never wanted to risk messing anything up between us.\n\nSo it was my birthday and she called me and asked if I wanted to spend the day out with her, having nothing better to do I say yes. It started out with us going to the park and walking around for about 2 hours, then we went and watched a movie, and afterward we were hungry. We decided to go get some food, after about 10 minutes of talking and laughing at the restaurant table... I don't know what clicked in my head, but I decided to ask her out on an actual date...\n\nThe words escape my mouth \"Hey, uh, do you want to go out with me?\" \n\nShe starts crying... She got up and ran out... And while doing so, she accidentally slammed the table and I got a crotch full of ice cold water...\n\nI haven't heard from her since... Won't respond to my calls or texts... And school started back today and she avoided me like the plague... I don't know how to face her...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I mean what kind of guy doesnt want sex? I constantly have to initiate, and even when I do I get shut down the majority of times. We've talked about it many many times and he always says he will try harder but its good for like 2 weeks and then goes back to nothing. Ive asked him to go to the doctor and he says he will but never follows through.\n\nnow for the trust part- I know he looks at reddit gone wild and in the past ive found things- I hacked his reddit account (which i know is shitty of me) and found conversations with many girls who post naked pics. He posted for a casual encounter, which made us break up last year but we've since gotten back together. i also found fb messages asking to meet with a girl he had a one night stand with before he met me. \n\nI know I shouldnt go looking through his stuff but everytime I do I find something.\nnow im scared to look again in case I do. We've talked about all this and he said he doesnt have a reddit account anymore and doesnt do that stuff anymore but I just cant regain my trust in him. I will always feel like hes emotionally cheating on me. We got back together a year ago and I havent looked at anything since then but im always going to wonder if he is still doing it.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Earlier this morning I was out running the dogs (Westie, Goldendoodle, Black Lab, English Setter) with my father, uncle and a friend. My uncle has a beautiful/crazy fox red Golden retriever named Remmy. I decided to bring my new camera along, pop a few photos of some happy dogs. It was going to be a good day.\n\nWaiting for everybody to get situated before heading out, I was taking a few photos, but really just kind of standing around holding my camera at my side. I was not wearing the neck strap, because you know, I was just standing there.\n\nAbout this time Remmy, in her sheer bliss, sped past me and looped the neck strap around her neck and took off like a missile dragging a DSLR shaped anchor across the gravel parking lot. I am a big dude and the chase was not graceful. Luckily I'm only down one lens.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm a 22 year old gay guy who lives in Ontario right now. I'm about to finish my last semester of school in December, and graduate with a B.Eng in Aerospace Engineering. I've been with my partner for 2+ years, spent months and months with him over summers/breaks, and I'm planning on moving to be with him come January. I haven't done a co-op job placement, and have no experience in engineering specifically (I've worked retail, crappy cash job at a grocery store, and a dirty factory line worker at Michelin). My partner is ALSO graduating with a B.Eng in Mechanical Engineering this December, but he's done a placement, and he has a job lined up in Kentucky (a -GREAT- job).\n\nMy issue : How do I get into the US/stay there to be with him? I know my degree qualifies me for certain Visas under NAFTA (I don't remember the specific Visas), but with the current economy and my lack of experience there's no one who will sponsor my employment as an international person. The job my partner has is restricted to a specific area, so it's not like I can just find a job anywhere in the US and go ahead and move there, and his job is absolutely amazing for a fresh grad, so there's no way we're passing on it.\n\nI think illegal immigrants are a bad thing, that's for sure, but if I \"visited\", and just stayed, I would only be doing so because I'm treated as less than anyone who is straight and doing the same thing I am. I WANT to go there as a legal citizen and live out my life and work like any straight couple, but I'm at a loss.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little bit of history: I'm 23/m she's 22/f and we have been together on and off for 5-6 years now. This girl is my best friend and I will probably always love her no matter how things end up. She graduates from school in a few months and has this really great chance for a 1yr + internship in Boston, NY, or NJ (we currently live on the western part of the country) and may end up staying out of state beyond the 1yr if she finds a grad school she likes out there. Now the hard thing is that she wants me to move with her to where ever she ends up going and I flat out told her I wasn't comfortable with that at all! I don't even feel comfortable with moving in with her right now let alone leaving everything else behind to move across the country. I told her to go if she gets the opportunity because I'll be damned if I'm the thing to hold her back. The hard part about this is that we already tried the long distance thing at the beginning of her schooling 4 years ago and ended up breaking up for the first year that she was gone. She wants to go and would be willing to try the long distance thing again and keeps asking about my thoughts on doing LDR again. She also wants to try even though she seem hopeful it would work based on past experience and quite frankly I don't even want to try a LDR again (horrible shit). Every time she brings it up she basically leaves the decision on me about what we are going to do and I don't know what to do Reddit. Every time I think about it, something in me can't help but start counting down to the (final) end of our relationship even though I don't want it to end. Any advice? (sorry for the giant wall of text) and I will be happy to clarify anything if need be. Thanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background. We have been dating for almost 9 months and have had ups and downs with stresses of attending school and both doing hard science majors. \n\nBasically she claims that I only do nice things for her when something is going wrong and that when she does nice things (like a small note) I don't say anything. We have had arguments of this before and it had seemingly been resolved.\n\nNow that it is the summer and she is back home with her family about 5 hours away from me. I visited about 3 weeks ago and we had an amazing time. We both wish we could have spent the whole summer together. \n\nLast week she was agitated with her family, specifically her dad and brothers and I had spent a lot of time talking to her about her frustration. She said she did not feel like she was loved enough. So for the last week or so I have been trying to do nice things for her here and there because of this (like sending a handwritten card, and flowers). As this has been happening she seems to be getting more distant with me. I try and get at what is really bothering her and she is does not give me a straightforward answer. \n\nThen last night she just goes off on me late at night. Saying I am not good enough for her and that I am a self centered a-hole. Telling me to f off and she doesn't need me. Just continues to say all of these extremely hurtful things to me. I didn't try and reason with her much, just told her that whether you ever believe me or not I care for you deeply (and things along those lines).\n\nIt seems like she is taking all of her anger out on me from other things going on in her life and I do not understand how to respond. Should I try and talk to her or just leave her alone for while? I am at a loss of what to do because it seems like it is coming out of nowhere.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My BF makes about 1k after tax each week, while I am a broke college student. I can't work since I'm an international student. He often suggests eating out and our meals usually cost $20-30, tips included (which is one hour of work for him). He always asks for one check and pays for the meal. I always go to his place for the weekend because my dorm room is super small, so we don't cook and just eat out maybe three times over the weekend.\n\nI feel bad about letting him pay but I can't afford dinner for two so sometimes I buy him a drink or get movie tickets. I still feel bad about him paying for almost everything so how do I go about this? Should I just let him pay (he doesn't seem to mind at all but it bothers me. I don't want to be a gold-digger)? Please give me some suggestion! \n\nHe also paid for everything (dinner and drinks) on our first date, even though I said I'd buy him a drink since he already got dinner. He's really nice and I don't want him to do all the work in this relationship. Any comments, advice and suggestion would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, this all started a few months back when I first moved into my new place. I was low on groceries from moving and bought a ton of food to last me a couple of weeks. I figured I might as well by some potatoes because they're easy to make even though I rarely ate them growing up. After a few weeks, I was settled in but had yet to eat the potatoes that were sitting on the bottom of the shelf I put all my food on. They had started budding a bit and I decided that I should let them bud a bit more since I had never seen them grow more than the few little spots/eyes. So, after another month, they had budded a lot more to a point where they were piercing through the packaging. I thought this looked pretty cool and once again decided to keep them there to see how far they could go before I got bored of them, or when they started taking up too much space. Now, after a couple more months, I stopped checking on them and pretty much forgot they were even there. This was only until recently when I was throwing out any old food left on my shelves... Before this, there were a lot of bugs (I'm told fruit flies) in my house, but I guessed they were coming through my window from the creek nearby... However, when I was throwing out the old food, I noticed the potatoes had grown massively, and I could see they were falling apart when I picked them up. That's when I realized where the insects were coming from. Inside the packaging were dozens and dozens of larvae eating the potatoes. I immediately dropped the package in disgust and had chills running through my body. I picked it up after a few seconds of shouting \"HOLY SHIT\" over and over, and threw it away in the dumpster outside immediately... Now I'm just hoping the flies were only coming from the potatoes and not anything else I have neglected throwing away...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Couldn't help but have the thought cross my mind while hearing a One Direction song on the radio. There seems to be three main messages prevalent on top 40 pop stations these days: The sexualization of women, the urge to party away your problems, and you are beautiful and perfect in every way. \n\nI would argue two of these messages are marketed towards a specific audience: Insecure teenagers/young adults. The urge to party away your problems provides an escape from insecurity. The message of \"You are beautiful!\" would never work on an audience, unless that audience needed reinsurance of their self worth.\n\nThe third message works to generate the insecurities that make the other two messages effective. I think that the sexualization of women helps to instill insecurity, as obviously not all women fit that model. If I were to be told that a square jaw and blue eyes were the epitome of beauty and I did not have either, I would obviously feel worse about myself. And a song that suggested a way to forget this, or told me otherwise would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello!\n\nSo, here's the deal -- I've already lost quite a bit of weight. I'm 25, female, and 5'6\". In August of 2008, I had just quit grad school, hated my life, and was really exceptionally depressed. I was renting a tiny bedroom in a house in the middle of nowhere, and I had no job. [I weighed 245 pounds] I got a job waiting tables, and my weight slowly began to drop. Starting in November of 2009, I liked what had been happening and decided to actively try losing weight. By September 2010, [I was down to about 190] had a great job, great friends, and was really, really stoked.\n\nHere's where things get tricky. Around this time, I started dating a super-excellent guy. Our social circles have meshed effortlessly, and we spend a lot of time together. He's a really picky eater, though, and doesn't like most of the stuff that I do (which is, coincidentally, the food that's helped me lose weight), so we end up eating out a lot. Not only has my wallet taken a solid hit, I've gained about 15 pounds since we started dating. Not enough to really see, but I'm definitely more sluggish, and it bothers me a lot. On top of all this, I've become much more busy, now that I have a \"real\" job and I have an active group of friends.\n\nWhat do I do, folks? I really don't know where to go from here. I honestly don't know what a good goal weight for me is, and while I can work more activity into my life pretty easily, I don't know how to deal with the \"I'm always out, what on earth do I eat?\" problem.\n\nI'm sorry if this was weirdly-phrased and rambly -- I'll clarify if y'all have questions, but I really would love some help on how to get myself together again.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "23/m 22/f\n\nBeen walking the line with a gal for 3 years now. She is a tough Gal to read, Avoids talking about feelings and presents a tough front. She liked me first and I didint see the signs. I ended up getting interested in a other girls, may have accidentally kissed her roommate...\n\nShe has dated other boys, some who I have known/ been friends with. After a break up she was about to take a semester abroad, we hung out and eventually kissed. Then we talked about some of the feeling from the past. She later kissed a friend of mine, She left for semester abroad and while there sent me some E-mails that were more sentimental then any of our previous communications\n\nI started dating a girl while she was gone and we lost a bit of touch. She got into a relationship as well upon return. We both got into break ups and have been talking again, \n\nWe have hung out, cuddled, held hands but no kissing/etc. She is still kinda on and off with contact and initiation. If she wants to see me its on, but if i want to see her its not a guarantee. I dont know if Im just holding on to the past, but I really do like her and always have wished we could have dated, but am I letting that allow her to use my emotions and attention.\n\nHow should I deal with this Fickle situation, also do you all think she resents me for how things happened in the beginning?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist.\n I'm a 20 year old female. \n\nI never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. \n\nI squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. \n\nJust wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor.", "role": "user" } ]

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