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"content": "So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. About 3 weeks ago we had a massive fight because I found out he was having very sexual conversations with people he was meeting online. I should add that we were having sex daily, and more often than not, several times a day. I was and still am insanely hurt and it has left me insecure about whether or not I'm enough for him. He never met them physically, but I still strongly believe that I can consider it cheating. Anyway, the past few weeks have been a little rocky. I decided to give it a second chance because I want to believe that we can get through it. We get along still like we always have until he tries to have sex with me.\n\nWhen we start getting intimate my chest gets tight, like I'm having a panic attack. He started out saying he knew he fucked up big time and that he would wait until I trusted him like that again. Fast forward to late last week, we were play wrestling and I grazed his crotch (on accident), prompting him to say, very angrily, \"Hey, don't touch him. You won't help me get off, I have to do that by myself so don't tease me. It's not like you've been helping.\"\n\nAm I wrong to feel hurt by this? He acted understanding and now he's being passive aggressive about me not getting him off. I feel fine until he tries to have sex with me, and I don't know how long it'll take to change that. I do love him but I don't know if we can get through this now. His behavior lately is making it harder for me to heal from the situation that caused all of this. I have talked to my therapist about it and she said to give it time if I really want to try with him again but he has seemingly lost his patience.",
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"content": "Hello Reddit,\n\nMy best friend (a wonderful artist) and I (at best average writer) have been contemplating for a while, as a sort of hobby, to create our own comic. We understand it will take years to create anything worthy of being read but time is something we have! We've spent some time brainstorming ideas and such but unfortunately are lacking some inspiration. This is where you guys come in! We'd appreciate it if you could pick at your imagination and just suggest anything. Literally. Anything. We'd love to mix and match your many ideas together. \n\nWe'd be sure to keep you guys updated on the progress :)",
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"content": "So my on and off again girlfriend have one thing in common. We were both poor growing up her more so than I was. Her friend who had her daughter at 14 and for the major part of her life raised her by herself until she got married for 1 year to s long time friend and then divorced has at least accomplished the goal of keeping her sexually promiscous daughter on birth control.\nWhere my girlfriend takes excpetion is on the following issue.\nThe girl who is 16 \"lost\" her iphone 4S and demanded that she get an iphone5 as a replacement or else her \"rich kid\" friends would ostrocize her. But lets be real Leaside in Toronto Canada is more like a Middle Class Neighborhood where the families are two income and in mkst cases inherit the houses. Imho even if she was poor if they had a likeable personality she wouldn't be so caught up with kids who will alienate you for not having the latest thing.\nWhat my gf witnessed is that the mom went along with a plan to get a kid to pay up the difference for the newest phone for the daughter. To me this is a landmine my GF should say nothing. \nAlso getting a kid to give you a coupke of hundred just cause he happens to like this girl lets call her \"insecure teenager\" is just asking for drama. Hes 15y/o what happens if his parents finds out? \nAnd what about this girl? Is she being taught to use men and only value people on material wealth? Is this a white trash thing? \nIm an immigrant so although I was poor my rents encouraged me to treat people with dignity. My parents jobs also dealt with people with intelectual disabilities and battered women.\nMy Ex-gf=gf. Was raised by her grandparents so she was severely physically abused and had a certain level of candor instilled into her so I guess what Im wondering is How to encourage her to just avoid the topic altogether because its none of her business but also let her know that most people would also find it appaling that a 30 year old woman is encouraging her daughter who doesnt like this kid to take his money.",
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"content": "we have been dating for about four months (but have known each other a year and I know he's a bit older, that is not something we are concerned about) and he recently moved into Seattle. I live on an island off Seattle and since i'm still in school I can only see him on the weekends. \n\nBut this is the fourth weekend I haven't been able to see him. Our only form of communication is text and he has told me he doesnt like texting. He will usually only text back if I ask him a question (i'm always asking questions...) and it will take him anywhere from two mintues to 12 hours to get back to me. \n\nI haven't been able to see him because since he just moved, he's still getting settled and looking for a job. I know he cares about me. I feel like I might just be insecure and need to give it more time, but I have been really patient. \n\nAm I wasting my time or am I just insecure? I believe this relationship is worth the wait. What do you think?",
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"content": "Honey, I love it when you hold me close to you and reassure me that you would never cheat on me...again. You did in that first year we were dating, and we took two months to cool things off and try to regain trust. I gave you a second chance. But now, I can't even think about you even talking to another girl. Because I was so unaware of what plans you had in store the first time. Even typing this, I feel like I want to scream and throw things around. \n\nI get sick in my stomach and I don't have female friends...all because I'm afraid of competition. I'll admit it: I'm really insecure. I need male attention to feel good. But feeling like any girl you befriend is going to stab me in the back and take your heart away from me...it's eating me alive. \n\nI can't tell you how many hours I've spent aware planning our next fight. But things don't get better, because you say it's all in my head, that I'm making things up, and seeing them as worse than they are. And way deep down, I know that you love me more than anything. These last three years have been the best of my life - but also very stressful. \n\nBut I want you all to myself. And if my \"crazy\" behavior (isn't that how your best friend put it?) is what it takes to keep you, then damnit - I'll keep it up. \n\nI need you. You're what's left of my family, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.",
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"content": "Figured relationships would be a better sub than sex even though it's kind of centered around sex..\n\nI [20M] have a [15F] sister who I've always seen as innocent. Today I realized that even though I gladly know nothing of her sex life(existent or not) she isn't a 9 year old girl who doesn't know what sex is. I then started browsing Reddit and saw a post about how a dad had discovered his daughter pretty much riding her boyfriend. I thought about how not only our dad but a ton of dads are probably devastated that their \"little girl\" is having sex. At this point I was for some reason really angry and didn't know why. It then dawned on me that I was thinking about my future and if I were to catch my daughter in the act of sex I would probably punch a hole in the wall as to not make a scene...(Obviously kidding but would be really upset non the-less) \n\nNow I'm feeling guilty because if I had a son and I caught him having sex I'd be fine with it, maybe even a little proud. I'm feeling guilty because this is a huge double standard and at my current age, heck even when I was in high school I knew of plenty of girls who were sexually active and didn't see it as a big deal. I know I'm being completely irrational about this seeing as how I don't even have any kids, but I was wondering if anyone had any input on why I was getting so worked up over something that could be 25 years down the line? \n\nI think I'd be fine if I was kind of oblivious to it.. i.e. NOT walking in on my daughter doing cowgirl in my own home.. I'm not a violent person nor would I do anything to this theoretical kid having sexy times with my theoretical daughter, but if I were to see it happen I would just flip.. Any insight or experience dealing with the realization that your daughter is sexually active for when the future comes around?",
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"content": "There is this woman I worked with that I felt an attraction towards. The work we did didn't allow for much conversation so let's just say I know next to nothing about her. \n\nThere are some things she does that makes me think she is interested in me. For example, I notice her looking at me quite often. Also, she seems kind of shy around me.\n\nHowever, there are somethings that she also does that makes me think she doesn't like me. She has never made an attempt to talk to me. And she sometimes seems uncomfortable around me. I'm not sure if this is due to her shyness or if she genuinely does not like me.\n\nOne day I got into a fight with the boss and abruptly quit. No one at work, including the girl that I liked, knows why I quit.\n\nBut about a month after I returned to work working on a different shift. I know longer saw the girl that I liked except once in a while when we change shifts. One time I was late and running into the workplace when I saw her walking towards the bathroom. Immediately I made a left turn so it looked like I was avoiding her.\n\nIn my peripheral vision I saw her waving towards me but I ignored it. I think this might have been seen as my rejection of her. I've since realized what a huge mistake it was because it would have given me a chance to clear the air about my reasons for quitting. \n\nNow i want to give her my number and have her call me to see if we can have something outside of work. I'm not sure if what I did was bad enough that she has just turned off towards the idea of going out with me.",
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"content": "So tonight I (18) went with my buddy(17), we will call him A, to go pick up some money from another minor(16), we will call him M . He owed my buddy $20 and was completely glad to give him the money. Here's where things changed:\n\nI went across the street to go take a leak against a large wall in a greenbelt between houses, no big deal, when a woman comes out asking what I was doing. I assumed that she was going to call the cops on me for public urination, however, she actually thought I was hiding a bag of marijuana for M (I don't even involve myself with what the law considers drugs). She immediately grabbed me and attempted to take my car keys from my pock, but I pushed her off. She then approached A and tried to get into his car because he had a brown bag that he was taking out of his car, which, again, did not contain anything illegal. \n\nI already understand that I could have filled battery charges against her, but what would the attempt at taking my keys be considered attempted auto theft? There were multiple witnesses that saw her attack me.\n\nThanks.",
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"content": "Today I just received the most heartbreaking news that I have to soon deliver to my dad. Both of his parents died when he was in high school, and throughout his middle years his 2 brothers died, leaving him only with his sister. I just got a call that his sister had a heart attack and just passed away. Since his sister was the last blood relative left of my dad's family, I can't even bring myself to tell him of the news. It is by far one of the hardest things I've had to tell my any of my parents. What was the hardest thing you had to tell them?",
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"content": "So my boss's father died. I work the overnight shift and only see my boss once a year when he does yearly reviews. I have no personal connection with him, and I don't consider him a \"friend\". \n\nI was asked if I was going to the funeral and after I said no, I was demonized, \"Why not? Wouldn't you go to a friends funeral?\" \nAnd I replied that he wasn't my friend, I didn't know his father, and it would be disrespectful of me to go when I had no real connection to the deceased. Not to mention that I worked this weekend and had to sleep during the time of the funeral. \n\nThen I was asked to chip in for his condolence gift, which is usually a gift card to some local place when it's from my team. I don't feel like someone who makes a lot more than me would benefit from my contribution as much as I need it. I'm living check to check (and /r/borrow) and starting a second job soon. \n\nNow I'm getting shit for not going and not throwing in $20 or going to the funeral. \n\nAm I in the wrong?",
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"content": "In our relationship, we have had a rocky Summer and it is becoming an even rockier Fall. There have been a lot of important life events happening between myself (grad school), my friends (bachelor party/5 weddings) and my family (observing anniversaries of deaths in the family). For her, she wants me to compromise in the relationship by not seeing my family so much. I live about 30 miles from my parents and often have family visiting town. She feels like I'm not compromising, since I am often visiting family or they are visiting me. My girlfriend and I spend every day together during the week, but on the weekends we share time as a couple with our friends or family. \n\nHer family lives far away and we have spent a few weekends to visit them. My family is very important to me and she makes me feel like they are a burden or an obstacle to our relationship. But I feel like she doesn't make an effort to get to know them or to get close with them which is something important to me. I've about had it with this argument because we have been going back and forth all Summer about it. Am I being bull headed? I'm thinking this could be a deal killer.",
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"content": "Due to the age difference, I've never been close with my oldest brother. He moved out at 18 so I never really even got to know him. I only ever see him at Thanksgiving and we never talk. I'm a bit closer with his wife, in that we actually have conversations when I see her, which is still only twice a year (I live 2000 miles from where I grew up so I only visit twice a year).\n\nI came out to my parents and my other brother when I was 17. It took them a bit to get used to it but we're all good now. They've met two long-term girlfriends of mine, and my oldest brother and my sister-in-law also met them, but they were just introduced as, \"This is [name].\" It was pretty damn obvious that I was in a relationship with these girls, but nothing was explicitly said.\n\nA few years ago, I moved in with a girlfriend. We also went on a trip backpacking around Europe together and moved across the country together. Brother and sister-in-law knew about this. Again, pretty damn obvious, but again, nothing explicitly said.\n\nOne little thing that might be worth mentioning as backstory: when my brother was in high school, several of my mom's friends came out as gay. When he found out, he asked my mom, \"You're not going to suddenly say you're gay, right??\" It gave my mom the impression that he really wouldn't like it, and while I know that a gay sister is totally different from a gay mom, it gives me pause. When I've asked my mom about coming out to him, she says we'll cross that bridge when we get to it.\n\nIt's starting to feel ridiculous. I'm planning to bring my current girlfriend home this spring and I would really like to introduce her as, \"my girlfriend, [name].\" It's all but been said at this point, so can I do that? It seems unnecessary to say, \"oh, by the way, I'm gay,\" when I'm pretty sure they already know.",
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"content": "So I found a bottle of fish oil supplements...\n\nI was curious as to what they were because I had never seen them in the form they came in. They were in little oil filled pearls that are incredibly fun to try and fuck with. I'm a sucker for anything that is squishy like Laundry detergent packs.\n\nSo naturally, I tried to pop it. BAD. FUCKING. IDEA.\n\nI finally get it to pop and a little jet of oil shoots out. On my face.\n\nThe smell hits me like a truck. This overwhelming fishy odor, like someone left a halibut out to dry in the sun and forgot about it. Immediately, I can feel the smell bringing on nausea. I run to the toilet, but to no avail. I throw up right outside the bathroom doorway. \n\nI had just come back home from dinner so there was quite a lot to vomit. I tried to inch closer to the porcelain refuge of the toilet, but the force with which my body is spewing vomit makes it hard for me to make it. \n\nI slump over on my bathroom floor covered in vomit and fish oil. By this point, the smell has triggered an extremely painful migraine. \n\nMy only course of action was to clean myself and then the house. \n\nI hop in the shower and desperately try to wash the stink off my face, but it is no use. It's seeped in. I literally cannot rid the fish smell with any amount of soap and water. It's like I was sprayed by a skunk. A really fishy skunk.\n\nSo I re-dressed myself and cleaned the trail of vomit off the floor. The spray pattern of my spew spread across the floor like a freshly wet crime scene. Slippery. Noxious. Ugh. It still makes me sick to remember the smell.",
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"content": "First off I am a horrible story teller so bear with me.\n\nSo this happened a couple hours ago, I'm still not sure what to think. I attended highschool in a rather small town, so everyone there knew each other, and after I graduated I went to a local university. Now being young and wanting to get out of the house I decided to live on campus for the first year (or four).\n\nSmall town kid at an okay sized university I get pretty excited when I see someone I know from my town, so naturally I was pretty happy to bump into a girl, let's call her kat, in my building working on the janitorial staff, that I went to school with. She was about to go on break and I had a bit of time while I waited for my laundry so we sat in the longue and talked for a few minutes, right before she left her coworkers walked into the building (there are large glass windows so we can see who comes in/out).\n\nKat decides to cut her break short and go back to work, and I go upstairs to swap out my laundry. When I come back down the stairs as soon as I open the door I am confronted by a group of the cleaning staff and who I am assuming is security. They start asking me where Kat is and get upset when I don't know (why would I know where the cleaning staff is...) and then tell me I have to leave the premise because employees can't bring guests on campus. After explaining to them that I live here I was told that I should respect the fact that cleaning staff are here to work and not bother them. \n\nA few minutes later I decided to go up to join a group going for lazer tag and as I walked towards the staircase I hear screaming and crying \"I can't lose my job no no no!\" and I'm pretty sure it was Kat. I have no idea but I think I got her fired by talking to her for 10 minutes on her break.",
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"content": "I'm 20, this is new to me. My parents no longer work for the employer that provided the healthcare we had. My parents are more or less self employed, the healthcare was a perk for exclusively working with said employer. I'm now tasked with finding a health care plan for my family since my family trusts me with the decision (in other words, we don't have a fucking clue, but I'm the one going to college so I have to do it). \n\nInfo on my family: \n5 members . Mom & Pop both 40 yro. 20, 14, 5 yro boys.\n5 yro has asthma.\n20 yro has glasses (14 might need em)\nOther than that there are no other health problems. We really only need checkups (preventive medicine is the best!)\nSo how do I go about this?",
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"content": "I have these problem lately it's like a illness or something, i couldnt find out what it is from google. \n\nSo heres the thing, I sometimes fall to this dreamlike feeling randomly while awake and when I'm concious again I will feel clueless the place im at, the person im with and even sometimes question who i am although moment later everything will fall back to place and turns to normal. It always happens during i was talking to someone and maybe some of the words may have phased this condition, but so far I couldnt confirm. \n\nIt started happening early last month, march 2015. I am worried it will get worst then what it is now, I might just forget everything without prior notice. \n\nCould someone point me to a direction of what it is? Help me out here doctors of reddit. :(\n\n*few more info about me for diagnosis purpose : I have irregular sleeping pattern, college. I smoke pot weekly. No emotional breakdown, still have mom. I smoke cigs.",
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"content": "Some background about me: I've never started a relationship locally as I've dated online my whole life so I'm a bit lost on how to proceed. I've been out of a 4 year relationship for a month and a half and ready to move on, but I feel as if I'm obsessing over this new girl. I don't want to ruin a great friendship by asking her on a date, but I already feel like I'm extremely interested in her. \n\nI met girl [Amanda for throwaway] two weeks ago and we've hung out a few times now. We've also been non-stop texting until two days ago (I accidentally got over-stressed due to other matters and let on about it). We've gone on a few \"hangouts\", not official dates. Truth be told, I can't tell if she's interested in me or is just super friendly. \n\nFirst r/relationship post, sorry for mistakes",
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"content": "This whole not being in a relationship thing isn't really working out for me too well, especially with my mix of social anxiety. I have been single for over a year and a half now. I just really miss the day to day part of being in a relationship. Just like random trips to the grocery store or the mall together. Or waking up next to someone every morning. There are things I want to go out and do, but I avoid some of them because I just know they would be more fun if I had someone to do them with. So I just end up staying at home by myself a lot of the time instead of going out. Unfortunately for me, the prospects of me finding a girl to date and hopefully turn into a relationship are not very good right now and I don't really see them improving in the near future. Just looking for some suggestions or advice to help me get out of this downward spiral.",
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"content": "This is like those songs about the girl who left and the guys all depressed and wants her back. We used to talk everyday, hold hands, laugh and smile with each other. To me this was the most I ever felt connected to someone, never felt like this in my past serious relationships and I was happy to be with her. She goes to school long distance but she visits me, and I visit her for long periods of time. forward it to the last few months, we argue sometimes and she goes to korea for a month. When we talk she said she wants to risk things and breaks up with me. We talk a week later and she said she just came up with it at that time.\n\nThrough the week I felt depressed, I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep. When I went to work I couldn't talk, I quit my hobbies and cried daily. Now we're friends and the way she talks to me hurts me more. I don't know why she's doing this but it seems like she wants to move on. All my feelings are still strong, but when I talk to her, it feels like she's ready to move on. I never pushed anything on her when we talked, and I don't know what to do honestly. I love her and i'm depressed, she made me happy and now i'm a mess.",
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"content": "So my girlfriend of almost a year met a guy of the class above her at a university event. They became friends, and I'm not the jealous type so I thought nothing of it. I first became suspicious when she went to watch a movie with just the two of them at his place, but I didn't want to be an imposing dick so I didn't say anything about it (this was about 2 weeks ago and they met about a month ago). She went off to an exam today and forgot her phone at home. She kept getting texts and phone calls so I thought it might be a family emergency and I looked at her phone to check it out. It was the guy and he was sending her all sorts of sexual messages, and her responses were not as sexual but she was still saying some stuff. From it I've gathered they've hooked up at least once (I think sex), but she seams to be trying to put a stop to it. What do I do?",
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"content": "From what I understand the 401(k) allows you to select a portion of your income to be put aside while being tax exempt and sometimes an employer may offer to \"match up\" the amount you put in.\n\nHow does the 401(k) money grow? Can you invest the money in the fund? Does the employer offer a rate or is the \"match up\" amount the only amount you get?\n\nIf this being the case wouldn't it be much better in the long term to invest in stocks as historically the stock market is said to have a 10-11% growth on average (so no doubt there would be ridiculous downs and ups in between a few decades).\n\nI am going to basic training in a few weeks and is the first time i ever had money. So I want to make a wise decision.\n\nOne of the things i have to think about is college. If i decide to put aside a large chunk of the money I receive into the 401(k) then that money shouldn't be used for college as it would be deducted. I understand that the military will pay for some college through the GI Bill, however perhaps I decide to become a doctor and require additional schooling. Then instead of having invested money into the 401(k) wouldn't it have been wiser to have saved the money for schooling instead of investing it?\n\nUnfortunately my parents and friends are hopeless resources for this kind of information. I also don't know anyone who can help me with this kind of information so here I am.",
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"content": "I've been in an 8 year relationship with a great, beautiful girl. We have grown up together and we both love each other. She wants to get married, and I would like to get married but I've worried for a very long time about it.\n\nI have a secret desire to be with other women that I find more physically stimulating. I have an obsession with medium to larger boobs and more meat on a female body. My girlfriend's very petite and thin. Though I recognize and acknowledge her beauty, I'm half the time unsatisfied with our intimacy. This is a secret of mine, but she gets frustrated when I lack interest in sex, when sometimes I prefer to watch porn.\n\nBoth she and I are attractive people, but should I let my obsession stand in the way of us getting married? I don't want to divorce or cheat on her. We broke up briefly in the past because of these issues but we got back together because we really love each other and have a very strong emotional bond. Does marriage help kill these desires, or will I always crave this certain body type and live in misery?\n\nAnyone out there go through similar issues?",
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"content": "After having a pile of dry clean only clothes build up, I decided that I'd finally take it to the dry cleaners. Most of it is my wife's clothes but I did have some work shirts in there as well (total of about 19 pieces combined). So after the attendant separates the piles of clothes, counts them, enters them into the system and after I respond to his question of when do I want to pick them up, the total bill came out to $102.50. \n\nNow, I'll admit, I cringed hard but paid up and moved on so that these things wouldn't be sitting around any longer. When I tell the wife how much it cost, she immediately says that it was too much money and she doesn't wear half of that stuff anyway. Well excuse me! How the hell was I supposed to know you didn't want those clothes anymore? Anyway, we had it back and forth for a minute until she said she had to go back to work, said bye and hung up.",
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"content": "I apologise in advance but this will be a long one.\n\nOver the last few months, I feel as though I'm just a passenger in my relationship with my 25 y/o gf.\n\nWe have been together for three years, but aren't living together yet - because our job situations don't lend themselves to moving in. We have discussed it and we would like to when the time is right. (I'm in an entry-level position with opportunities to move in six to twelve months time and she has just secured a management job in a retail store.)\n\nI feel disconnected from her because of how she has been when we communicate.\n\nWe came back from a two-week vacation a month ago - the holiday was great. But since we have come back it's as if she's not making much of an effort for our relationship.\n\nBeforehand we used to text each other romantic/lovey things all the time. Now if I ask her to send me a 'nice' text she puts something generic or says she doesn't know what to put because she doesn't want to repeat herself - repeating herself would be hard to do because she doesn't say things in the first place.\n\nOne example - last night I told her I really wanted to have sex with her and her reply was along the lines of lol really?\n\nOur sex life isn't great. The last time we did was on holiday - so just over a month ago. I saw her at the weekend and we had planned to do stuff but she wanted to watch films instead and then before we realised it I had to take her home.\n\nShould I be worried about this lack of intimacy, or is it a common occurrence in relationships which have been this long?",
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"content": "I have a friend who is in all college-level classes and is supposed to graduate with an Associate's degree. However, the counselor who is supposed to deal only with students who are graduating with their A.D. somehow managed to give her college-level classes but claim she cannot get her A.D. and can only obtain a general degree. That means that the sixty-two college credits she has earned are pointless. \n\nShe is interested in knowing if she should drop the rest of her classes except for the two required senior classes. Or, should she keep them and graduate with a general degree and have sixty-two college credits to start college with. Dropping the classes will mean that her transcripts have 'withdrawn' on them and that might make her look bad to future .\n\nShe is simply interested in getting advice on the situation because it pretty much sucks that the last four years might end up being worthless.",
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"content": "I'm a 22 year old student, about to graduate with a bachelors in Criminology. \n\nI absolutely LOVED what I studied. I learned my school's department of Criminology is amazing and I have learned so much from the faculty. The only problem is I know I'll have to go to grad school to get the career I strive for.. which is working with bomb/food/drug dogs.\n\nThe thing is, I was incredibly blessed with parents who helped me pay for my college degree without taking out loans. Hearing about my friends and their loans makes me cringe. I don't understand how college grads are okay with going to school, graduating with the difficulty of finding a job, and paying off their loans.. all in turn with paying their living expenses. I know you can defer these loans but I still find it incredibly terrifying. \n\nI have friends entering programs for their doctorates, and I don't understand how they aren't panicking. Most of all, its for my friends who are working towards entering vet schools. Entering a veterinary program was my original goal, but I switched to criminology in hopes I could work with food/bomb/drug dogs. I would LOVE to be a vet, and have worked in various animal hospitals throughout my lifetime. So I'm a bit stuck as to whether I should start over or continue in my Criminology degree.",
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"content": "I love comic books. I enjoy posting about them on Reddit and i have a budding collection. When my niece comes to my house, she loves to look through my books, but [there is one in particular] she likes to take off the shelf because she can ask me who each character is when she's looking through it.\n\nAnyway, last week it blew her mind when i told her that these characters have normal names and begun teaching her them. In particular, she wanted to know who Batman, Superman, Green Lantern and Wonder Woman really were, so i told her.\n\nFast forward to yesterday, it's the last day of her nursery before the holidays so her mother (my sister) goes to pick her up. The teacher at the nursery told her that there had been a tiny incident and she just wanted her to know.\n\nIn front of say 20 children and 3 adults at the nursery, she told everyone that Superman's real name was *Clark Cunt*.\n\nThe adults tried not to laugh at her mistake and explained it was actually Kent, but my niece was adamant and said \"My uncle told me it was Clark Cunt\". My sister found the funny side to it, could have been worse i guess, it could have been the Winter Soldier instead.",
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"content": "For the past seven weeks there has been an intern at my company. She is doing a graduation internship there for about 2 more months. We talked a bit, she is going to the same college I went to (different degree though) and I made her laugh a couple times. To make it easier I know she's not seein anyone at the moment.\n\nThe reason I'm asking this is because I have never had a relationship that wasn't over the internet. In fact I only had the one online one... \n\nObviously I am not the most socially succesful guy, but the past years I made progress:\n\n- Lost weight (less than 1 kg to get my BMI under 25, that's pretty cool).\n- Went on my first date(s) last year.\n- Bought a car.\n- Got an okay financial situation.\n\nGetting along with friends, coworkers, familiy and random people is no problem. It's just that on date-like situation my personal pecularities are more likely to show as \"odd\". Perhaps this is just some lingering insecurity.\n\nBesides all that: this is at my job. I plan on leaving before I turn 25, but still possibly a bad idea?",
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"content": "I was showing my boyfriend photos from Greece when I was there a few years ago. he is a big history buff so we cuddled in bed and looked through the photos. I was there with my black boyfriend so he was of course in a lot of those photos. my new boyfriend asked who he was and when I said it was my ex-boyfriend he replied with a pained \"oh ok\" so we stopped looking at photos and watched some netflix instead.\n\nhe got really quiet and didnt want to cuddle anymore, he just sat and read a book. after a few hours i just had to ask\nhim what was up with his reaction to the photos with my boyfriend?\n\nHe said something like \"why would you even date me? if you like black guys so much why don't you date black guys? what's the point of being with me? im not your type\" \n\nI didn't even know I had a type. I just thought he was cute and nice so we dated. He didn't like my answer, got upset, we fought and he left.\n\nI don't really understand his reaction, it was actually very shocking. He has never come off as racist in the year I have known him, more like the opposite. He is a really sweet and fun guy and this was very out of character for him.\nthat was a week ago now and he didnt text me once. nothing. at first i expected an apology but got nothing so i started texting him and he is really distant and cold in his responses. i ask him what I did wrong and he doesnt answer me and avoids the subject. \n\ni ask him if he wants to break up and he said no and then stopped responding. what the hell is up with him?",
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"content": "You've basically become the internet for me, which is fine and all, but sitting here hour upon hour, day upon day frittering away my underemployment clicking on random cartoons and reading weird over-sharing posts that are neither enlightening or even very interesting, is basically like sitting at the breakfast table and reading the Capn' Crunch box. It's an enormous waste of fucking time. Sorry. \nYou're killing me. My attention span has been reduced to 3 nanoseconds and I blame you and your incessant comments and updates. \n\nI'm going to check in the next few days to see if the guy giving away the amp writes me back, but other than that I am fucking DONE. No more. The only time I'm coming back is when I have something to post that will genuinely benefit other humans. \n\nFor those of you anxiously awaiting my cookbook, rest easy papitos. It's in the works. You'll be the first to know. :)",
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"content": "So my daughter is sick, and last night before she went to bed I let her watch some My Little Pony on the iPad while she was curled up on the couch. No problems there. However after she went to bed, and I went to bed, I guess she woke up and got the iPad. (I left it on her dresser while I put her to bed, I never thought of her getting up and getting it because she never has before). \n\nAnyways, long story short I guess she clicked around The suggested videos enough and ended up seeing a video somebody made of the my little ponies being killed. She ran out to my husband who told me about it, but he said that they cut off pinkie pies horn (?) and used it to cut open another pony. He said it was pretty bad. She was very upset and came to bed with us last night.\n\nSo we immeadeately put a passcode on the iPad and deleted YouTube (there is a YouTube kids app out there that filters out bad stuff so that she can still watch normal stuff from time to time. We don't have cable or satellite so that was the way she watched kids shows).\n\nThis morning she told me \"mommy remember when grandma died? Last night I watched the ponies die\". That is all she has said about it (I asked her, how it made her feel but she was pretty noncommittal, and I told her I was sorry she saw that). What else can I do for her? She is already kind of a timid kid when it comes to scary things, except when it comes to Halloween, which she loves. Would it be appropriate to tell her that the video was just pretend, for Halloween? Or should I not bring it up unless she does again?",
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"content": "So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said \"I love you\" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out \"but I love you\". \n\nI've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well.",
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"content": "This has been a long standing issue. I trust him completely... outside of his drinking habits. It's the only thing he'll break his word on, and he does it repeatedly.\n\nLast night, he bought a six pack. That I'm fine with. Just before I served up dinner however, he wanted to go back there, and buy a bottle of whiskey. He said he wanted it for tomorrow night, when he planned to see a friend.\n\nHe promised one more drink, that's all. I wake up this morning, and there's half a bottle of whiskey gone.\n\nI feel betrayed every time this happens, and I don't know what to do. If I bring it up with him, he gets defensive and claims I'm asking him never to drink again, and that's not fair.",
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"content": "I'll try to make this as short as possible. For the last few months about 330-4 in the morning my wife and I have heard a car drive by. It has an after market muffler so it's very loud and can be heard in our room (which is on the opposite side of the street.) In September she had our baby so that is when I would occasionally hear it while feeding the baby in the middle of the night. I had just assumed whoever this was, was going to work, but the other night my wife was feeding the baby and saw the guy stop at our driveway, pull in and then turn around and leave. Obviously it was the same car because of the muffler. So last night my wife wakes up at 3 and goes into the living room to see if she can see if they do it again. Just as she was about to say screw it and come back to bed she hears the the car, and sure as shit it pulls in our driveway, and leaves. At this point my wife wakes me up quite frantic. So I have her call public safety and see what we should do. They had a detective call her back and they said they would patrol the neighborhood tonight and see if it happens again. Now we do not know if this happens every night or what, but it's kinda creeping me out. We have an alarm and I sleep with a .9 mm under my bed, but we have two children and this is fucked up to say the least. So tonight we are going to wake up at 3 and go into the living room and see if they come back and if they police get his ass. We live in the back of a quiet subdivision, hell I leave my keys in my truck, and nothing has ever been stolen, so for this area where we live it's quite odd. I also cannot think of any good reason this person would be turning around in our driveway. So anyways that's my story. Figured Reddit would be the perfect place to share my story. I will post what happens tomorrow. My question is what in the fuck is this guy doing? Your thoughts are welcome and anticipated. Thanks for reading.",
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"content": "I'm completely at a loss & could use some advice.\n\nBasically, my girlfriend started taking a new, significantly stronger birth control pill to regulate her period about 3 months ago. 3 weeks ago she said she feels she's fallen out of love with me & wants to end things. She said it's nothing I've done & that she's \"afraid of hurting me\" & she's had \"an uneasy feeling about the relationship recently\". \n\nOur relationship had been amazing up until this point. Everyone in her life has told her how amazing we are for each other & she's always agreed. Friends she hasn't seen in years can immediately tell that she's happier than she's ever been because of me. This came out of nowhere & completely blindsided me.\n\nWe didn't officially \"break up\" 3 weeks ago, but we haven't been in contact since, until yesterday. I'll be meeting with her tomorrow to talk. If she still insists it's nothing I've done...what should I say?\n\nI honestly think it's due to the hormonal changes the pills are causing. If something comes up tomorrow like another guy or something, I don't bring it up. But if it's nothing like that, how do I approach the subject gracefully? Nobody wants to hear, \"Hey, your emotions aren't your actual emotions, the drugs you're on are causing them\". I'm so scared of losing her over something that can be fixed. Help?",
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"content": "We've only been dating for 5 months and I know that the age difference has caused her stress. I've never met her parents and she's convinced that they won't accept me and will potentially disown her. I've only met one of her friends, for only a few minutes and things were cordial but apparently that friend is also disapproving of our relationship. \n\nOver the past couple of weeks she's been extremely affectionate, constantly telling me she loves me when we're together and texting/calling to tell me how much she misses me when we aren't. This was a big deal because before she said it for the first time she was convinced that she'd never be in love with anyone. The first time she told me, she cried hysterically. \n\nSunday night we got into a small argument which turned into a breakup argument in which she told me that she's not positive she's in love with me and though she likes me \"more than a lot\", she isn't always happy in her life and thinks that she should be happier. According to her, it \"isn't enough.\" \n\nI should add that this is the 3rd time we've broken up under similar circumstances. In the past she's always regretted her decision and come back. I love her but I don't know how much more of this I can take. The way we left it, she told me she wasn't sure if she wanted to break up or not and just needed time to think, but she sure seems to be leaning in the direction of ending it.",
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"content": "Fellow Redditors,\n\nI'm a long time reader with almost no contributions. I've watched many of you assist others, complete strangers, demonstrating the strong community built of selfless individuals here. I sincerely need some guidance here and would appreciate the same. I'm located in NJ.\n\nWhile I was 1500 miles away on a business trip, my brother (17, minor, licensed, and insured) took my car out after a snowstorm and went to a local football field in my community to do donuts - residents apparently called the police and they arrived shortly thereafter. He states he immediately stopped and waited for the officer to confront him. The police ended up towing the vehicle to the station (where it currently resides) and simply brought my brother home to his legal guardian, my grandmother. No official correspondence has been received from the police department at this point - its been 9 days since the incident.\n\nAttempts at retrieving the car have been unsuccessful. Initially, I was told that I could not obtain the car as there was a hold pending investigation and that I could get it back once these investigations were complete. Today, after countless calls to both the trooper that was on site, and the sargent on duty at the time, I was contacted and told that they have applied for forfeiture on the vehicle. \n\nDue to the ongoing and aggressive nature of my brothers activity, I've been told there is $3800 worth of damage. I want to make it clear that I acknowledge my brothers wrongdoing and will ensure, as the courts most certainly will, he repays back the township in more ways then one.\n\nMy issue here is that I've committed no crime but am somehow being punished. I'm an upstanding citizen that has no record, is a good person, and treats everyone fairly. Is this legal? Is it possible I could lose my car over this? If so, how can someone take my property like this? What are my options? What can I do?\n\nIt's worth noting that the car is complete legal and is registered, insured, and maintained as required by law. Additionally, there were no weapons, controlled substances, gambling, or prostitution involved here. According to NJ sanctions on this topic, apparently they play a role in the outcome. What I've stated is what happened, nothing more.",
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"content": "So fresh out of college, Northwestern Mutual talked us into a 80-year term life insurance plans for 300k each (wife and I). Premiums were around $70 monthly combined. We since rolled 75k of each into permanent life insurance. Now premiums are in excess of 200 monthly.\n\nSo I'm setting up a meeting to cancel all these and get them into a 30-year term plan with them, largely due to recommendations on this sub. That should free up a lot more budget for me. And I plan to take care of a couple debts with the difference, and eventually start rolling the difference into a RothIRA.\n\nI plan on keeping the 30-year insurance through them. But when I get into a Roth IRA, I'll do that through vangaard or something lower fees. NWM is notorious for getting 5% year on year, and I've seen many other options that yield better interest.\n\nHopefully, in 30 years (I'm 27), I'll be pretty financially set, and I'll either take another term life insurance at a higher rate, or ideally have enough of a retirement account not to have to worry about it.\n\nMy financial advisor there, I'm sure, will be adamant that I'm making a mistake. He already alluded to that in an email. I just want to make sure I'm armed with the right info and am confident in my decision going into it, and I\"m pretty new with all this.\n\nI'm doing the right thing, right?",
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"content": "We have been together for almost 4 years and a lot of the time I feel like we are just good friends who have sex. Any type of affection I give him is usually discounted as \"needy\" or \"clingy\" and not as \"I love you\". \n\nFor example, we work together and he was leaving early for a doc appt so I decided to walk out to the parking lot with him. He kept saying, \"It's ok\" and \"I'm fine you don't have to worry\", when all I was doing was just walking him out because I felt like it. \n\nAnother example was we hadn't really spent much time together in the past few weeks and so when we finally were able to hang out together I told him that I missed him. He looked at me weird and said, \"But I see you all the time....\", totally blowing off the fact that this was the first time we actually got to hang out in a while. Maybe he just didn't think about it, but it hurt because I felt like my feelings were petty and invalid. \n\nThese are just a few things that happened recently, but this is an ongoing issue with our relationship and I feel so unloved because I don't feel like my feelings are be reciprocated by him. Like my feelings are annoying to him and bother him. I don't want to break up, but I hate always wondering if he doesn't reciprocate my affection because he doesn't love me. He has mentioned that in previous relationships he was cuddly and affectionate, but his ex girlfriends were cold and distant (according to him).",
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"content": "Throwaway, obviously.\nHere's some background.\nThrowawayman2465 was the other guy. He knew. And did it anyway. The girl's boyfriend treats her pretty shittily. Not noticing her, diluting her problems into \"it's just a woman thing.\" All the time. \nHe's an ass. But that doesn't justify it.\nObviously we both feel terrible.\nBut here's the thing. We were amazing friends for a year before this. I mean, every day texting and intimate friends. She is the first person I have ever actually loved. Not in love, but loved.\nSuddenly, two weeks ago. She turns it off. I say anything about my day and the \"what's wrong? What's the matter? Talk to me.\" Is gone.\nShe just gets angry with me at the drop of a hat.\nShe stopped texting me as much and just doesn't give a shit. I keep asking her why and she just says shes not feeling great. While increasing the gulf of distance.",
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"content": "please help. 1.5 years ago ended an abusive relationship with a narcissist. White male, 7 years older. After him, I'm paranoid about getting involved with another. Terrified.\n\nMet new guy online.\n\nRed flags: \n\nrushed things \n\nDeleted dating profile after a week of texting \n\nConfessed he had omitted one of 3 divorces \n\nSays he falling for me\n\nSeems to agree with everything I say\n\nI can do no wrong \n\nWe talk for hours and hours and hours \n\nBasic timeline:\n\nHe lives out of town since I'm moving to his area for work in 3 months \n\nMet him in person 2 weeks later \n\nDecided to date\n\nVery attentive \n\nSaid he wants me to be in his house as often as possible \n\nFast forward to this week:\n\nCame to stay with him for a week\n\nPassionate first 2 days\n\nI feel nervous now\n\nI feel distance on his end \n\nHe seems more genuine when drunk\n\nHe can be very self centered \n\nHe can be kind of cold and off putting \n\nI'm scared he will turn out to be another narcissist \n\nHoweber he seems to do anything I ask\n\nAt the same time, I feel passive aggressiveness \n\nAs a result of my abusive relationship I became super Independent\n\nSo while here, I'm working and networking as well. Don't need him next to me 24/7.\n\nBut physically we are good.\n\nIdk- are white men typically cold and just not as passionate and caring as Hispanic men?? He seems to be super into me but shy in a way. \n\nIs it the age difference?\n\nOr worse yet- sociopath? I can't help but feel worried about that. I kept asking him to tell me about feeling scared or worried about ANYTHING and he's like, nah sweetie I don't freak out :)\n\nThat worries the fuck out of me. Help. Should I still keep waiting it out??",
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"content": "I play video games; I have since I was a kid starting with Pokemon red. I still play them everyday, yet I refuse to call myself a gamer.\n\nThe way I see it, gaming has become more popular than ever. There are more people playing then ever before and subsequently more self-proclaimed gamers. However, since it has become so main stream, I don't see how it's much different than saying \"I'm a TV watcher\" or \"music listener.\" Now if you said you only played tabletop or something, that'd be different.\n\nThe truth is that it isn't about being hardcore or even playing games. It's about wanting to be in a nerdy subculture that pretends it's niche when that couldn't be farther from the truth. Playing games is as mainstream as it gets.\n\nNo, it's about the culture that I think is frankly ridiculous. It's a bunch of nostalgia circlejerks and pseudo inside jokes for things that are actually quite popular (took an arrow to the knee, etc.) It doesn't matter if the latest call of duty (for example) is good or not, what matters is whether it's popular with \"gamers.\"\n\n\"CoD is the same every time but the new Pokemon is pretty swell.\" \n\nThis hypocrisy and favoritism makes my blood boil. I've never played call of duty because it's not my cup of tea, not because \"that's what casuals play.\" The whole PC master race also irritates me. Who really gives a shit what someones console preference is?\n\nI can't even finish my rant. It frustrates me that I ever called myself a gamer as a kid anyway. It's just so dumb.",
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"content": "Im going to try to keep this short but please let me know if I left out any important information. I am a high school senior and am considering going to the university of Alabama for a STEM to MBA program. I would have a full tuition scholarship with only about 8k/year expenses for room and board. I would prefer to get a degree in software engineering with the MBA. I was wondering if it would be worth it to go to a top-tier university for the same credentials or if saving the money is a better option in the long run. \n-Alabama~32k total for education\n-Prestigious university- 80-200k+ depending on scholarships available.\n-I have 34 ACT/ 2250 SAT and 3.9 unweighted GPA if it matters \n-I will have $70k at my disposal to use for college",
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"content": "I asked him the other day where he see's us in a year and he said 'living somewhere different' and then I asked 'together?' and he reacted like 'whoa slow down' (in a jokey but kind of non-jokey way) then he went on to say he doesn't see us having bought a place and living together but asked if i'd want to live with him when he gets the new place he's looking at... not in a 'i want you to live with me' kind of way but in a 'would you realllllyy want to' kind of way (don't know if that makes ANY sense but more like he wasn't suggesting we do but asking if that's what i want) and then dropped the conversation...\n\nI am struggling with anxiety issues at the moment which he knows of and I am working on. What I am struggling with the most is understanding if I am rationally thinking or not, so sometimes it helps to ask the internet...\n\nDo I mention this again and make sure he wants to live with me at some point within the next couple of years or drop it and wait until it comes up in conversation again?\n\nI've been being very insecure to my boyfriend and asking lots of questions or how he feels blah blah blah... so I'm trying to stop this as it's making our relationship difficult. But I'm struggling to drop this and I don't know what to do...\n\nSO i'm more asking not what I should do about the him and the living together situation but more should I mention it again or not?",
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"content": "A few years ago I quit my job to go back to graduate school. I knew going back to school would allow me to further my career but I also knew that during my time as a student I would have to live on a significantly lower income. There were some months where I just couldn't make rent, the car needed repairs, etc. My parents came to my rescue each time even though I knew they didn't have much money themselves (my mother is a nurse and my father is a civil servant). I am extremely thankful for them and I want to return the favor.\n\nNow that I have finished school and gotten a great job in my chosen career I want to take them on well deserved vacation. Here are the rules:\n\n1. They have never left the east coast United States so I would like to take them on a trip abroad. Domestic travel is ok too so I wouldn't mind hearing some suggestions.\n\n2. My parents are still young and in good health so suggestions on physical/adventurous activities are greatly appreciated. However, I don't think they would like camping trips or roughing it in the wilderness for an extended period of time.\n\n3. I want this to be a \"trip of a lifetime\" so I certainly don't mind spending money as long as they have a great time. We're not a very wealthy family though so let's keep the suggestions reasonable. \n\n4. Mostly I want a destination with a lot of culture, relaxation, interesting cuisine, and picture taking opportunities but I know that goes without saying.\n\nAnyway, I hope you guys can help!",
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"content": "First off, it'd be nice to mention that me and this girl dated for 5 years, from we were 16 to 21; through most of high school and college. Like any relationship, we had highs and lows brought on by both of us which always became passive aggressive.\n\nAfter one mistaken night, she felt I had taken advantage of her(however, I hadn't), broke up with me, and then proceeded to call me every name in the book to our social circle(abuser, manipulator, cheater, rapist, etc; all things which never happened). So we break up and neither of us take it well and we keep a thin line of communication which eventually breaks down. I start seeing somebody new and I presume she does too but I couldn't say for sure. \n\nAround this time, I find out she's been stalking me through a web service to monitor traffic for a personal blog that I host. It's obsessive, she checked it multiple times a day, even hundreds of times a month. At some point, she finally slows down on it months later, noticeably when she finds out me and a fling stopped seeing one another.\n\nThe kicker ends up being that I've still thought about this girl I dated for 5 years everyday since we've broken up. I want to reach out to her but we had such a toxic thing in the past but I know I've grown as person a long time since but I don't know what good it'd do breaking this near 2 years of silence. I don't have an endgame really; more than anything, I just want to hear from her and see how she's been particularly since she appears to be doing well, however I don't want to adversely affect her and cause more drama and emotional strife.",
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"content": "[Original Post](\n\nThings did not go as expected. I got to her apartment and there her friend was there, along with his father. i did not know what to do, so I put a mask on and was pleasant. I did not get to be alone with her until 11pm at which point she started a conversation about our relationship. It escalated, and I told her that I do not want to be in this relationship anymore, and that I haven't felt anything in the past few weeks. She did start crying, but to my surprise she was relatively calm. I was caught off guard because things did not go as planned. She explained herself and the way she views our relationship, and she was more rational than ever before. \n\nI ended up spending the night, and the emotional break down ensued. We are in relationship purgatory right now. The relationship is not over. I am considering my options right now. I am confused. I had a plan, I had reasons. \n\nI am afraid she is manipulating this to keep me in the relationship. I do not want to believe that, but some things do not add up.\n\nI will try to update more coherently throughout the day.",
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"content": "I had a very melancholic youth; I had teen parents who never married and separated when I was three. They moved to different towns and remarried. All four have been abusive throughout my life in different ways. I had to be the stable pillar for my two little sisters at my dad's and my little sister and brother at my mom's as I was traded between the two houses. Growing up, I was always miserable and lonely inside but never expressed it. I guess I didn't have it as bad as most, but it still hurt.\n\nWhen I went to college and finally got away, my life drastically improved in every way. I started my first major relationship with a wonderful girl (19M in a relationship with 19F for one year), her family loves me, I got my first job doing something I love, I do great in all my classes. I was finally happy, happier than I've ever been in my entire life. Everyone says I deserve it, and it's my reward for the awful childhood I survived. I can't express how happy I feel every day. \n\nExcept when I'm alone. When I'm alone, I have this awful, terrible dread come over me that I'm about to lose it all. I'm not allowed to be happy. Tomorrow, I'll die in a car crash. My girlfriend will be hurt. I'll lose my job. I'll fuck up my classes next semester. I feel like I'm waiting for it all to go away, any moment now. I struggle to remind myself that it's okay to live well, and all these things are unlikely. \n\nIt's starting to strain my relationship, as I feel like I'm becoming more clingy or watchful than I should be. I'm having a panic attack right now, because she dropped me off at my place and didn't text me that she got back safely like she usually does. She probably forgot is at home playing Fallout right now, but I can't help imagining the worst.\n\nI want this over. I want this done. How do I get over it and come to terms with my own happiness?",
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"content": "Obligatory this wasn't today, and instead was back on Thursday. I would've posted this then, but I've been caught up in revision and don't have much free time as of late.\n\nHere in the UK some schools (not sure if all) have a lesson period specified for P.S.E, where we cover everything from world events to psychology and stuff. In the case of my school, the usual 'forms' are split up so we are put with people from other forms in our year, which left me stuck with very few of my friends. For the lesson in question, we were doing something a little simpler: meeting new people. \n\nThe teacher decided that for the lesson we would partner up with someone who we normally wouldn't talk to in any other circumstances, and get to know one another. This in itself would have been bad enough for me, as I'm not exactly a social person, but to rub salt into the wound we had to have this conversation in front of the whole class.\n\nWe were each assigned a partner, and I was paired up with practically my worst nightmare: a typical jock; one of the most popular guys in school, captain of the football team, almost a foot taller than me and amazingly attractive (to the girls in my year). I crawled my way up to the front and stood there wondering what the fuck to say, when in my infinite wisdom it occurred to me: \"did you see that ludicrous display last night?\"\n\nMy partner just stood there, trying to comprehend what I had just said, the whole class sat in silence aside from my friend Tom who actually got the reference (only because I managed to get him hooked on the show a week prior) and Aliano (who was the subject of my last FU), who were both laughing their asses off. I could feel my face growing redder than a bloody stop sign, and I just walked off back to my seat and buried my face in shame, wishing for the day to end.",
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"content": "This happened today at around 2 AM...\n\nIt was the first party I managed to actually party at this year, being that I am usually a designated driver.\n\nI met this cute Catholic girl, let's call her Hillary. \n\nThings start off okay, I finally built up the courage to start making out with her. Now the kissing wasn't \"kissing\", it was what two drunk people would call making out. Basically a lot of excessive tongue and lip biting, but whatever -- it was still the most I have gotten in a month. \n\nThings start getting hot and heavy in my friends living room. We were both undoing each others pants and I thought we were both really into it. I started foreplay on my end, and she was doing something with my johnson that I don't seem to remember out of bleak drunkeness. \n\n\"Should we head back to your place?\" I asked, hoping my friend's living room floor wasn't my final rest stop for the night.\n\nShe gave no reply, but as I was about to kiss her again she pounced into the air and ran out the front door in what I thought was Mach 3.\n\n*I just stood there* for a moment in a lapse of utter confusion. My pants around my thighs and an erection making itself visible in my briefs, like a ghost in a sheet.\n\n**Now** I don't know exactly what happened. I knocked on my friends door (Let's call her Marie) and asked Marie what had just happened. \n\nMarie told me about Hillary's devotion to Catholicism, and how she was planning on waiting for marriage to *get down*.\n\nI have yet to hear from her, and I plan on apologizing for what happened when I see her next. I don't think I am in the wrong, neither of us are, but I think it was just a lack of communication at fault.",
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"content": "Link to original post: \n\nSo we ended up talking about everything last night. I told him all of my worries, and how I felt about the situation. He seemed to have something to say about everything I said. He was very comforting, and I felt like he really cared about me feels towards it all.\n\nAbout her coming down and everything, he basically just said he wants to close the door on that part of his life for good. She wanted to come and see his brother as well, hang out and catch up since it's been so long. He also reassured me that nothing would happen between them, that he is with me and she understands and respects that.\n\nI also asked if he felt that we have a future together, and he said for now he sees that, so long as nothing changes. I still feel kind of off about everything, but as I said I am a very anxious person. So I am just hoping that these are just irrational feelings that I have. Either way, i'll just say that I am just wanting this whole ordeal to be over, and for things to get back to normal.\n\nI would also like to give a big thank you to everyone who commented, it means a lot, and i'm sorry if I didn't have a chance to reply to all of them.",
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"content": "So today I fucked up and I'm now sitting in the ER being pumped full of fluids and fealing generally shitty. For all you armchair doctors out there I'll give you some background. Around the beginning of July I decided to get serious about taking care of myself I'm a 30 year old relatively In Shape guy. I'm 6'0 I have wide shoulders and can fit a 32 waist but wear a 34 for comfort weigh in at 195 to 197. Anyway I jog about 3 miles a day doing 10 minute miles, usually follow that up with some sit ups and have been running about 1000 kcal deficit a day, didn't get to that today instead I stopped at my parents to pick up my dogs was talking with my neighbors when I felt incredibley light headed and my heart started racing then according to them I seized up. When I awoke the two neighbors were completly freaked out and I knew shit had gone down cause I peed myself. Anyway so everybodies kinda freaking out and I just couldn't bring my heart rate down. I ate a banana and drank some water went down again for just a second, I sat up again and leaned against my truck where I went down for a third time and was out for a few longer seconds. That was my last seizure and than my heart went berserk I was hitting about 120-130 and blood pressure was plummeting. This would come in waves that started with me shaking and loosing the feeling in my fingers tips. Neighbors got me into their house and called another neighbor who is an ER doctor. She came by agreed that I was not doing well and that I should probably go for a ride to the local ER. That brings me to now, I've taken a saleen bag, a potassium bag, and magnesium.",
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"content": "Before I go, one thing. I used the phrase 'do not' instead of 'can not' in the title because 'do' Implies choice which ultimately we all have.\n\nMost of my friends consider me a very moral and ethical person with good character. Privately I feel deeply flawed and undeserving. I've done a lot of bad things one that brings pain to my chest is the betrayal of a friend because I lacked the courage to do the right thing.\n\nI was hired by this person in a large corporation and he quickly became my friend. He was one of the most brilliant people I have ever met and did not limit his thinking with the impossible. He pushed me to do things I considered impossible and as a result gave me invaluable insight into my own capabilities. \n\nUnfortunately he was not adept at playing the political game and after his corporate benefactor left the company he was politically exposed. I was young and new and his adversaries focused on me. \n\nInstead of trying to influence him and play a mediation role, I was afraid and tried to gain favor with both sides. As I saw he was losing the fight, I switched sides, and started treating him differently. He even called me out on it and I did not have the courage to tell him the truth.\n\nHe finally was fired, and while that outcome was likely inevitable, I had played a role in it to protect my own position. Quite bluntly, I betrayed him.\n\n3 years later we reconnected and rekindled the friendship. I still felt horrible and decided when a few of us were getting together the following week I was going to tell him the truth, even at the cost of our friendship.\n\nA day later I got a phone call from another friend who just said \"[name of friend I betrayed] is dead\".\n\nHe had been playing a sport at the age of 30 and dropped dead of a heart attack. He had a wife and two kids.\n\nMy cowardice and betrayal is something I carry with me to this day and I no longer have the ability to come clean.",
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"content": "Alright guys this fuck up happened about a year ago. I had just gone through a break up and seeing as that my friends were her friends, i started networking. I ended up becoming pretty close with this guy we'll call greg. Greg was... a clingy friend. He'd text me goodmorning everyday (treatment i didnt even get from my ex girlfriend), want to hangout all the time, and constantly poke and tag me in stuff on facebook. It didnt really bug me too much as im a pretty laid back guy, i just took it as an excited friend. The problem i did have with him is that when we went to parties, he'd get black out wasted and everyone we came with had to make sure he was okay the rest of the night. After 4-5 parties where this happened in a row, we decided not to invite him to the next one... which just happened to be one thrown at my house. So we're having a great time without Greg there to worry about, laughing and playing kings cup. That's when i get a call... Greg was on my front porch. He apparently forgot his phone charger at my house a couple days before and was there to get it. The party was in the backyard but luckily my lot is pretty deep and not a sound could be heard from the front porch. Quickly, i grabbed his charger and took it to greg, trying to rush him away before the last of the party animals arrived. He asked, \"Hey SequoiaT, know of any parties tonight?\" I just shook me head no while the rest of the squad walks up with two 36 packs and a bottle of rum. He gave me the dirtiest look and drove off. Havent heard a word from him since.",
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"content": "We've been together for a year now and things have turned to shit. It's like he's not interested in me anymore. He used to hug me, or tell me he missed me. None of that now. We don't talk. We just sit there sometimes.\n\n---\n\nBut I don't want it to end and I've bought this to his attention by talking with him. He says that his mind is already made up but wants to try and fix things anyhow. We've had talk after talk, yet nothing changes, and all I want for him is a little more effort.\n\n---\n\nWhat I want to know is what can I do to make him interested again? Is there anything I could say that may help? I really don't want this to go down the drain, but if it does, how can I deal with this break-up?",
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"content": "Hi, it's my first time writing here - also english is not my native language, so please excuse any mistakes.\nMy problem is that I realized I can't cope with rejection. As soon as a guy \"rejects\" me or states that he doesn't want a relationship/he's not interested I become obsessed (please note, not a stalker - I'm not *THAT* crazy) I just can't stop thinking about him and wondering what is wrong with me and why he's not interested in me.\n\nI am now aware that I really can't cope with rejection because of what happened two days ago.\nI was at a club, partying with some friends of mine, when a nice-but-really-not-my-type guy asks me a cigarette and after a quick talk kisses me. He wasn't really my type, but there was a good chemistry and I would have loved, maybe, to become FWB with him (or at least to give it a try) so I asked him if I could add him on facebook, so we could \"hang out sometimes\" and he tells me that it sounds like a great idea and also invites me to grab a coffee in the bar he works at.\nThe day after he REJECTS (not ignore, actually REJECTS) my friendship request on facebook, but adds a friend of a friend of mine.\n\nNeedless to say I felt like sh*t because I can't see what I did wrong. I wasn't being too clingy but neither too uninterested. I just tried to act friendly and he seemed to be enjoying it.\n\nOf course I'm trying to brush it off as \"I don't even know him, too bad for him\" and things like this, but actually I feel really terrible.\nI don't know what's wrong with me.\nAny advice?",
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"content": "This girl is in one of my classes at school so I see her fairly often and she is also part of my friend group, we sit next to each other in most of the classes and we get along quite well, she's funny, caring and an all-round good person. Recently I've started feeling more romantic feelings towards her, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't feel the same way, or anything similar towards me, one of the major signs to me being that if I want to talk with her over Facebook/text/whatever I have to be the one to initiate the conversation. \n\nNow normally I could deal with this, I would keep my feelings to myself and do nothing because I don't want to mess up a good friendship that will could last beyond graduation. However I've been struggling with depression and other issues that have put me in a really bad place mentally, and not telling her is making them worse, I feel like shit all the time. This happened to me around the same time last year and I flirted with suicide a couple of times, however this time even though I feel worse but not suicidal. Not telling her is one of the things contributing most to my mental state, so i want to tell her, but at the same time if I lose her friendship I'm scared it will tip me over the edge, literally.",
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"content": "My last relationship was almost 4 years ago. I haven't even spoken to another girl since then until recently. I met someone who is shaping up to be absolutely amazing and i've never, ever had this much in common with anyone. Not even my close friends. I'd hesitate to use the word perfect as nobody is perfect but she could just be perfect for *me*.\n\nNow we get to the bad part. When my last relationship fell apart, my life did too. I gained 9 stone, 4 of which i've managed to lose in the last few months. I became incredibly depressed and contemplated taking my own life on several occasions. I didn't handle it well at all. I absolutely hated myself. Words cannot describe the resentment I felt when I looked in the mirror.\n\nIt was as if every little problem i'd ever had culminated into one giant one and weighed me down entirely. I didn't have a life for several years and never even saw my friends or family for over 2. I made the conscious decision that i'd never, ever put my self in a position where I could get that hurt again as I slowly started to pick up the pieces of my life.\n\nFour months ago I went on anti-depressants and things felt better, most of the time that is. I started exercising, I started losing weight. I started to realise that I was a bit lonely and I wanted to explore relationships again. \n\nLittle did I know i'd meet someone who is a perfect match for me. Now i'm full of fear & doubt. So many negative questions flood my mind. Sometimes when she compliments me I feel it inside. The little voice that tells me i'm worthless and shouldn't listen to what she says. Other times I feel on top of the World, like nothing can bring me down.\n\nI'm confused. I'm feeling vulnerable and undeserving of happiness and I was just wondering if anyone had any advice to help me come to terms with whats going on. Everything has been going right lately but I still feel down. Life has only just started getting better, I couldn't bear to see the lights get shut off for another 4 years.",
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"content": "I'm on summer break from college and I'm entering my senior year, working in the middle of nowhere. I've spent the last two-three years gaming like a fiend.\n\nMost of the people who have made my acquaintance have been batshit (we're talking stabby-stabby stalker level) insane, and I find it very hard to see the good in people who approach me because of that (though I am trying to be more positive about people). I don't know how to strike up a conversation with people (unless it's about computers) and all of the guys who have approached me are just interested in fucking me because of the way I look.\n\nI'd like to expand my interests into something that is more than computers in gaming (sorry nerds, I think you're cool and all, but I don't think that staying with the same kind of people all the time is healthy.) Meetup.com currently only has Japanese Animation Club and something about stay home mothers in my area, so I guess I should start trying to teach myself to be less awkward. Any tips?",
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"content": "My upstairs neighbor was very peaceful and quiet until her boyfriend moved in. Now, there are occasionally loud fights. More frequently, however, they are talking very loudly into the night and seemingly moving furniture around/scraping up the floors. (My family owns the building which makes me really thrilled about the obvious floor scraping I hear... but that's neither here nor there.) \n\nNow, I recently found out that an ex-colleague of mine is good friends with the girl living upstairs. The ex-colleague and I are on friendly terms--we sometimes text and catch up on each other's lives. There have been times that I want to text ex-colleague and ask her to check up on her friend after hearing a nasty fight, but I refrain because it's none of my business. Anyway, it's important to me to stay on friendly terms with my ex-colleague because there is a very real chance we will become colleagues again in the next couple of years. I also work in a rather tight knit industry, so it would behoove me to just stay friendly either way.\n\nI know that the upstairs girl knows that we have a mutual friend and would report back if I did anything passive aggressive. I don't like confrontation and honestly, being passive aggressive would be my preferred way to handle this. My ex-colleague is the only reason I haven't taken a broom to the ceiling yet.\n\nSo, I come to you. Is there a diplomatic way to ask my upstairs neighbors to please shut the hell up?",
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"content": "My parents have opened credit cards in my name, without asking me, and I never found out until months later. \n\nNow I get hundreds of calls a week from companies about late payments that I am not responsible for. \n\nThey also forced me to take out $7500 in loans, which I didn't see a penny of, saying it would help the family. I was 19 and unemployed so they forced me to lie about having a job as well. \n\nMy credit is surely being ruined, as they are struggling so much that they literally cannot pay for any of the financial burden they put on me. \n\nLegally, is there anything I can do about this situation? I don't know anything about law, but isn't there a way they can relieve me of responsibility for paying these expenses, or something like that? Its not fair that I should get my credit ruined and possibly have to go bankrupt for money that I never borrowed.",
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"content": "For me, it was quite recently. In Sweden, where I live, we have national tests in Swedish, English and Math: Everyone in Sweden in the same age group take the same test at the same time. It's quite a big deal.\n\nRecently, I did mine in Oral English. We were in a group of five, discussing news stories. There is this guy who's a bit shy, and hadn't said anything through the 10 minutes we've been there, and the time is almost up for our group. Suddenly, he starts telling a story, and he's doing it good. \n\nIt was about a couple who was in Vegas, entered an elevator in their hotel. After them comes a black man in a hoodie. When he enters the elevator, and the doors are shut, he says \"down\". The couple dives to the floor, thinking they're getting mugged. The black guy laughs, presses his floor button, rides there and exists, still laughing. The next day, when checking out, the couple receives a bouquet of roses made out of $100 bills. In the bouquet is a note, which reads \"Thanks for the laughs! -Eddie Murphy\".\n\nhowever, as any frequent Snopes-visitor knows, this story is complete [bullshit] All while he was telling this story, I just wanted to go \"No. That never happened. It's an urban myth.\" But I couldn't just ruin his last try at a national test.",
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"content": "Alright, so i live in England, and she lives in Wales. I'm on my final year of college and then i'm going to find a job, that's as far as my plans go for now. She is on her final year of college, and when she finishes the course she'll be able to move to England in September to go to University. Seems simple enough, right? Just wait out the day until she can get here.\n\nNope. Her mother has a death grip on her. She's still forced to do chores, gets her phone and laptop taken off her when she makes small mistakes doing said chores (got grounded for a week for going upstairs for 10 minutes leaving the dog alone, for example). She's not allowed to visit me, and her mother has pretty much just taken everything off her because she hinted at it earlier, so now i'm in the dark about life over there for the time being. We both want her to just leave and move up here with me, which i'm completely fine with, but she **has** to stay and wait out these 8 months to finish her course. If it wasn't for that, she'd probably already be here with me.\n\nI can't see a way out of this so i figured i'd come here and see if anyone has an idea. I don't think social services is the way forward because there's no proper abuse, she's just being treated like a toddler instead of a young adult. I can understand some of her mother's concerns, it sure seems like i could just be some 40 year old paedophile, but even when i'm not in the question she just throws her weight around as an authority figure, takes things and dishes out punishment when she feels like it. I can't figure out any way at all to help, and moving down to Wales is not an option due to my own college course.\n\nAnyone got some ideas for me? This whole situation feels hopeless.",
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"content": "Okay, So today I was just thinking about my relationship with my boyfriend. I'm his first girlfriend (He's 28 and I'm 19, big age gap I know but we've never seen a problem with it, we both are mature and live on our own, etc) and from what he's told me he's just never known how to talk to girls. His friends have confirmed this. We've been dating for 4 months and he lives 5 minutes from me so we literally see each other almost every day. In the beginning, he always told me how amazing I was and how he was crazy about me. Now, I'm the only one who ever says those kinda of things. I know it isn't a big problem, because he shows he's caring in physical ways by making sure I'm taken care of, cuddling, etc. I stay the night at his place often and whenever I ask, he always says he wants me to stay. We have a great time together, and I always let him know that if he feels like we shouldn't hang out as much, then that's fine. He always seems to want to have me over and to spend time. Sex is great, I just feel like maybe our sexual relationship as developed further than our emotional one. So there's that. I'm sort of a shy person, but not when it comes to my feelings, I really do care for him and am head over heels for him. I let him know that, but for some reason, I expect at this point in our relationship feelings should be talked about more than I just telling him the occassional \"you mean the world to me\" or \"I'm crazy about you\" and him reciprocating it. I'm not talking about saying I love you, but you know there should be conversations about where the relationship is going.",
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"content": "Hi,\nI'm noticing something interesting today. I'm back to work and have three things I need to do. Two of those things I WANT to do, and one of them I HAVE to do.\n\nSo in my mind this puts the \"HAVE TO\" task at the top of the list of priorities, which also puts *procrastinating* on that task at the top of the list of priorities.\n\nI've hit the end of the day and have achieved neither the \"HAVE TO\" task, nor the \"WANT TO\" tasks. \n\nI compare this to the day before when I did my \"WANT TO\" tasks first, and simply breezed through my \"HAVE TO\" obligations for the rest of the day. \n\n**Perhaps there is something to this.** When you prioritise things you DON'T want to do, it makes you procrastinate - and procrastination creates a feeling of failure and puts your mind into a \"reluctance/apathy\" state which carries over into screwing up the things you DO want to achieve.",
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"content": "Hey everyone! So I met this wonderfully nice guy online. We talked for weeks (both online and phone calls) before deciding to finally meet. Our first date was pretty casual, we both had a drink at a blues bistro and ended the night with a hug. He even called me as soon as we got home and we talked for even longer. We were so excited about the date that we agreed to meet up again the following night. He's busy with an intense program at the moment, so he could only meet up for a couple of hours. He asked to come over which I was excited about. So he does and it starts off great, I make us tea, we talk. We then start to cuddle and that's when things get weird. We spoke the night before about how he wanted to kiss me and that I noticed but I wanted to wait until next time. So as we were cuddling I gradually kept making more and more moves initiating a kiss but he was so frigid and distant. I kept asking if everything was alright and whether I had overstepped and boundaries and he kept saying no. So when we finally kissed it was as if I had forced him into it, so much so that now I was uncomfortable for him. So I backed off and asked again if he was ok and he mentioned not wanting things to go to where they were headed (sex) which I had no intention of. But I guess the cuddling and kiss were too much for him. That night was two days ago and I haven't heard from him since (odd for him since he used to text me everyday). I'm just wondering whether to give him space and let him come talk it out whenever he's ready or confront him about it as soon as possible?",
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"content": "So back in April I financed a new car, spent roughly 40k on it and what not. Come into May and I lost my job, and now I have no way to afford the payments that I have. The day after I lost my job I contacted my bank and told them the situation and what not. \nFast forward to today, still jobless, I've only been able to pay them a few hundred towards the growing debt (roughly $2000 IIRC), but I look outside and my car is gone. Both sets of keys are here with me in my house, I have an alarm system on my car so I know it wasn't stolen and judging by the stack of letters from them saying action will be taken I assume it has been repo'd. \nI live in Alberta, and I guess I'm asking what there is to do in my situation.",
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"content": "Alright, I've lurked on the site awhile and I've seen that it has an awesome ability to help people, thanks to an awesome community. That being said, we'll see. I am an eighteen year old girl.\n\nSome background, I had four best friends in junior high, all of which were girls. High school came around, the grew closer, I kinda of drifted away, mostly because I had a long term boyfriend at the time. Now I'm graduated. I haven't had a comfortable conversation with a girl in...a very long time. I got out of an abusive relationship a few months ago and have had no one to depend on. Except for guys. So I'm talking to guy after guy, figuring out slowly they're all the same. (I know that's not actually true, but they all tend to act the same way around me.) I've driven guys off because I've been too dependent on them because that's how I became with my ex-boyfriend.\n\nMy problem is that it is almost impossible for me not to be overly dependent on my boyfriend because I have no friends. No girl friends to be exact. I wish so badly that I could just talk to them, but I don't think they really get me. I'm too weird. I really do not know how to approach girls or how to start friendships. I just don't get it.",
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"content": "First off, I am a 24 year old male in good health: 5'11\" 165 lbs. I have never had any kind of surgery.\n\nAbout a month ago I played my first full contact sport in my life and got knocked around quite a bit. I experienced soreness in my lower back, but at times there would be a sharp pain from a very specific location on my lower/middle back. About a month went by and nothing had changed. I feel the pain when flexing/extending my back, or when working out (squats, deadlifts, bent over rows). Since I first noticed the pain I lightened the frequency and lightened the weight of those specific lifts and just this week had some x-rays taken: \n\nBack-Front View: \nLeft-Right View: \n\nI was told there was a misalignment in L2, and disc degeneration between L4-L5 with small red arrows pointing to bone spurs. I have looked this up online but have not come across anything that is overly conclusive as to whether or not this is the case. I am merely looking for some reinforcement, or other thoughts as to the condition of my back.\n\nLike I said, this is completely new to me, so I am skeptical as to whether or not this is something I need professional treatment for, or if this is something I can treat on my own.",
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"content": "Carl and I have been dating for four months now. I love him a lot and he loves me a lot. I think he wants me to he around for a long time and I feel the same way. \n\nThe only issue with our relationship is school. He's taking a really tough class that just doesn't click with him. Normally you'd think this wouldn't be an issue, but it is. \n\nWhenever he's doing homework for this class, he gets really depressed and angry that he can't figure out the problems. Starts saying things like \"I hate myself\" and \"You should just kill me\". \n\nAs someone who has gone through depression, I see some symptoms in him and really wish he would see a counselor. I suggested it to him, but he said he could handle it himself and I'm not going to give him an ultimatum because I know that those aren't healthy. This is the only time he acts that way. He's almost always happier in person.\n\nI feel like he's upset because he feels inadequate because he can't do this class. He's not happy with his major. He's looking into other lines of work, but for now he's stuck in this class. \n\nI have no idea what to say to him when he gets like this. Humor doesn't work. Telling him that's it's going to be okay doesn't work. Telling him that everyone still loves him regardless doesn't work. He's tried tutoring, talking to the professor, anything. None of it has worked. I get sad whenever he talks this way, and being cheerful and upbeat about it takes energy. I've tried asking him what I should do in these situations, but he doesn't know. I'm a psych major and I don't know the first thing about the topic he's studying.\n\nI want to be as supportive as I can, but I'm at a loss here. \n\nAnybody know what I should say to him?",
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"content": "F/23/5'2\" SW: 190lbs GW: 135lbs CW: 140lbs -- -50lbs since January\n\nI've been lurking on here and commenting on other peoples' amazing success stories since January, and after today's little NSV, I decided it might be time to share some pictures. \n\nIn January, after seeing a picture of myself from Christmas (in album), I decided it was time for a change. For as long as I can remember, I had been overweight (obese, to be honest). I was unhappy and hopeless and pretty much had resigned myself to being that way forever. Fat and alone forever, if you will. Then, as I said, I saw that picture and I decided enough was enough. Something inside me just clicked and I got up off my ass, called the gym and bought a membership. It still took me a week after buying said membership to actually step foot in the gym, but I did it. I downloaded a C25K app, started logging EVERYTHING I consumed into MyFitnessPal, and bought a Fitbit. Those three things together had the pounds just falling off of me. \n\nIt's now 8 months later and I am 50 lbs lighter. I can run 4 miles without stopping, and I consistently eat between 1200-1400 calories a day. I'm still 5lbs from my original goal, and those last 5lbs aren't coming off easily -- but I'm happy with myself. Not just happy, I friggin love myself, you guys. I think I look damn good and I finally have the confidence to just be myself. \n\nAnyway, thanks for reading this far. And thanks to all of you inspiring people out there. You all are THE BEST motivation a girl could ask for. Keep on keeping on, friends.",
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"content": "My friend has been in a relationship for 2 years with a guy she met online on Tumblr. They've known each other for 4 years now but they still haven't met outside of Skype calls, and other online chat service. It's ruining her life. She's constantly crying and complaining about how much this guy messes up. She's always getting drunk because of something stupid this guy did, and I'm always there to pick her up for it. She always get drunk just to get even with him, and at one point she would cheat on him. Honestly, it happened more than once (happened 4 times, with 4 different guys) but for some crazy reason, they are still together. I asked her why she's still with him and she says \"It's cause he's hot\". And on not so rare occasions she would say \"If you love someone you'll fix your problems\". But is it really worth it? For a guy you still haven't met? How can I help my friend at least be happy. Whether they break up or not is not a concern for me. What matters is that she stops crying and stop making bad decisions. Also out of the 4 guys she's cheated on him with, she's still talking to him. The guy goes out of his way to help her. He likes her, and I know it's bad on his part but this guy cares more than her boyfriend does. He even baked her a cake and got her a gift for her birthday while travelling 2 hours just to drop it off. While her boyfriend wouldn't even greet her a happy birthday. It's honestly terrible seeing my friend friendzone a guy that deserves it much more. I don't know the situation completely, but I would love to hear a general opinion based on what guys have seen. Thank you. :)",
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"content": "edit typo: Me [24 M]\n\nWe've been working together for about 3 years and I just started to feel really attached to her in the last 4 months. I never told her and I did the best I could not to hint at anything because she is already in a relationship. I accepted that we will never be together and I'm starting to feel less shitty when I'm not around her. \n\nThe problem is. We still go to lunch together and see each other about once or twice a week. \n\nAny tips on how to forget about romantic feelings for her?",
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"content": "Hello people, I am in need of some relationship advice. To preface this I have to start by saying I've been cheated on in the past by 2 different girls one of which I was just shy of getting married to before she came clean...so I'm not the most trusting person in the world anymore.\nI have been seeing this girl for about 3 months now and when I first met her roughly 4.5 months ago she still had a boyfriend. I am aware that this looks like a rebound thing but he was a long distance bf and we've taken things very slow because I wanted to ensure that I was not a rebound. Things have been going smoothly with us and we get along very well. Over the summer she got another job and is moving to a new place (which is closer to her work and to me coincidentally) so she has not had as much free time to spend with me the last few weeks. Here is my problem, she is afraid of commitment especially since she just got out of a 2 year long distance relationship and she does not want to commit to becoming official. Another reason is that she has very little free time lately because of the new job and getting her house ready for the move. I have a growing fear that she doesn't want to commit because she wants to “shop around” I have this anxiety even though we have had the exclusive talk. \n\nSo how do I bridge this gap of where we are in the relationship?",
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"content": "I'm gonna drop the pretentious stuff and just get to the point.\n\nI realize that it is incredibly important to finish college. Here's the problem. I'm one of those guys who since he was young people have fawned over me being so smart. I never studied in school. I was lazy. I've had a lot of crappy stuff happen growing up too. My dad died when I was 9, I've moved across the country, my mother is completely insane (serious) so I've always kinda raised myself.\n\nI suck as a parent (at least to myself.)\n\nI don't know why I am the way I am. But I want to fucking change.\nI've been in community college since '07 I took a year off, and have been doing a few classes at a time. At this rate, I'll get out of college by the time I'm 35. I want to be able to just bow up and become this homework/school master and freaking be able to study and all that crap everyone else does.\n\nMy apologies, but I'm fairly emotionally right now. Many of the \"stupid jocks\" I graduated with are about to graduate college. Some of these guys did things like.. Oh yeah, let's see who can stay drunk the longest! 1 month in one guy's kidney's and liver started acting up so they stopped.. BUT MOTHER FUCKER HOW THE HELL ARE THEY ABOUT TO GRADUATE IN A FEW MONTHS?",
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"content": "I was seeing this guy for a month and it started off really strong. We would try to see each other all the time, we would talk on the phone every night for hours, we would text all day.\n\nWhen we first met, there was a lot of chemistry and we were very upfront about what we wanted - both of us wanted relationships as an endgoal.\n\nI was hesitant at first about being so lovey-dovey so quick, but he seemed so genuine when he told me how he felt, so I kind of dove in right behind him.\n\nAfter our first couple of dates, he went on vacation and things were still amazing. We would talk all the time and feelings only grew. He came back and we had another date (and sex) and things fizzled.\n\nAfter that, he flaked on our next planned date, but made sure to plan another one in its place. We did go out, had sex again, but things didn't change. It still felt different. I told him if he had lost interest, it was fine - it happens. But he still said he wanted to talk to and see me, but it was just work and distance (he lives an hour away) that was making it hard.\n\nWe tried make plans one more time for him to come down. He said \"he will let me know,\" and didn't end up texting me all that day. I broke things off because I've played this game before - someone who wants to be with me, would be. This guy did not. So I pretty much ended things, saying it was just disappointing but for the best, and he agreed.\n\nDays later, he texted me and apologized. Said the more he saw me, it didn't feel \"natural for us to be together\" and work just made it harder. Also told me it wasn't anyone else in the picture either. We kind of got into a back and forth and he admit, he just lost interest. He pretty much said he strung me along because \"he just wanted to like me back\" which is confusing to me, because in the beginning all he could talk about was how much he liked me.",
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"content": "Fucking webcomics. So I've had episodes before where after I read something, or more rarely though it still happens, if I watch something, I get into a funk/mood. Usually it's a...I hesitate to call it a depression as I feel that that simply makes light of a very serious condition, but at the same time, it's not as far off as I might think. The biggest cause of the mood swing is something that I desperately find to be awesome/cool/amazing/etc. but that either cannot be reality, or that the reality is so far off it might as well not be.\n\nThis time, I was reading a webcomic about a biology grad student accidentally being zapped by a genetics-modification ray, resulting in a six-armed heroine going about being a heroine. Standard stuff, though clichéd. However this is beside the point. What the point is is that, while I had never really been a fan of the style of comic that this was before, the twist/originality in this one has really struck a chord with me, and has caused a funk.\n\nPart of the reason why I am going to college for what I want is so that I can right what I find wrong with the world, which is not unreasonable, I think. I want to be a Bio-medical Engineer and make cybernetic limbs for amputees (or daring clients), work on BCI's to make this happen, all that good stuff. However, mucking about in genetics is something that also interests me, and creating something akin to the heroine from the comic described above is something that is of great interest to me as well. Well, more specifically, having our understanding of genetics that be great enough to allow for that to happen in the future. But this is a very dangerous proposal as it would undoubtedly be turned into a weapon a la \"supersoldiers\", if it is even possible. Truthfully, I'm thinking it's more of the latter than the former, that the biology/physics involved in making hybrids is so far out of reach that it is not worth doing so for the reasons I would do it, not to even mention the innumerable ethical reasons to not do so.",
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"content": "So we had been face-timing every night for almost a month. Chemistry was great and we're really into each other. On friday I stole my parents car (I don't get my license for another month and a half), picked her up, and went on a date. We basically went to town in the backseat and agreed to go to prom together and blah blah blah. Then I get the fucking retard idea to go drifting in her schools parking lot. Cops show up, shit hits the fan. Now her parents hate me, texted me saying never to text her again, and are trying to forbid her from texting me. What do?",
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"content": "Okay, so me and this girl have been hanging out a lot the last month, and she brought up the conversation of sexual partners. So, of course I tell her mine, 1(7 year relationship). I was not sure If I should ask her... but curiosity killed the cat, and she said 7.\n\nNow, you may be thinking oh 7 that aint shit, I thought the same thing. Until she added that 6 of them were one night stand while in college. and this just ate me alive. I am obviously into relationships, and not casual hookups/sex at all, and this kind of hit me like a bricks because I am not interested in someone who has had one night stands and would rather build something with someone who has had meaningful relationships. I played it off like it was cool, but I got home just now and am like wow... I just don't know how to feel or anything cause we have gotten super close.\n\nJust want to know how to approach the situation or how to ask her questions without seeming like an insecure guy/ shallow person because of her one night stands/promiscuity for the one night stands'.\n\nThanks guys.",
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"content": "Hello AskReddit, I did some preliminary searching and turned up nothing, so if this is a repost, I sincerely apologize.\n To the point; in the past I have burned numerous mp3 cds for my listening enjoyment. However, a 60 song playlist only lasts for so long. Recently, in a moment of nerd audacity I made the claim that I could burn a dvd disc in the same manner for a total tracklist of ~1000 songs (given the avg size of an mp3, etc, etc.) Am I correct? Or should I notify them that I may have made an error and cannot make an \"infinite playlist\", as it were.",
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"content": "My sister told me a few days ago that her boyfriend lied to her about having herpes. He said he was clean when she asked upfront, and then admitted later that he had herpes but was \"too scared to lose her\" if he told her. \n\nI don't really need to provide more evidence of his manipulative and unbelievable behaviour, but beyond that he's constantly talking about how \"vulnerable\" he's being with her and has said, and I quote, that he would \"lose his life\" if he lost her..??? They've been together for less than a month. He's being a manipulative and insane piece of shit and I'm really scared that she doesn't seem to care. \n\nI've told her exactly what my opinions are, and she respectfully told me to \"stop bashing her boyfriend\". There's no getting through to her and I don't want to distance her or alienate her because I don't know what this guy is going to do and I care about her so much. \n\nWhat should I do? Right now I'm just keeping quiet and staying out of it but if there's anything you guys can suggest that would be really helpful. Or maybe you'll tell me she's an adult who had made her own decisions, which is pretty much what I've been trying to remind myself lately even though that leaves me concerned and with no way to help.",
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"content": "Title says it all, we've been together on and off for about 9 months. Within these 9 months she has slept with me and one other person, her ex boyfriend before me. (Might not matter but, she has been sexual with 4 boys, excluding me.) Where as I have only been intimate with her (she is also the only girl I have ever had sex with)\n\nEarlier today I told her that I love her and want to be with her, but I also want to experience different people.\n\nWe live 2 hours away by plane in different countries so it's really difficult for us to see eachother often. The last time I saw her was the beginning of this month. \n\nShe has told me she never wants to speak to me again and to leave her alone, she told me to \"FUCK OFF\" and that she doesn't want anything to do with me. \n\nI was wondering how I could make this easier for her. I don't want her to be upset. I guess I don't really know what I'm asking, just advice and how I can keep being friends with her (most importantly, stay with her and still be able to explore different people)\n\nLittle",
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"content": "I'm having issues dealing with what feels like dual personalities of my SO's based on who we're around. I know this is not a novel issue for couples but its causing me a \nlot of unhappiness. \n\nHome life is characterized by my SO being normal, sweet, loving, fun, and friendly. When out and about together with certain people, she turns into a loud, obnoxious, often \nmean person who just seems to be trying really hard to be someone she's not(or who is she actually then?). This side of her honestly scares me. She's had two emotional(or worse?)\naffairs that I know of and both I \nattribute to this other side of her. We've worked past these for the most part but her 'bad side' is making it really had for me to get over them fully. I can't help but\nfeel that if this other side of her still exists, she's still capable of the lies and cheating from a year ago. When she's like this, I get a pretty overwhelming feeling of\npanic, loss of self esteem, and really feel like I need to get out. Her other side of course comes back and all the good things about our 4 year relationship come back and \nI find I lose all resolve. \n\nI feel trapped in a way. I don't who she'll be at any given time but can't seem to do anything about it because I can't bring myself to lose the girl(good side?) i really do\nlove. The plan was to get engaged this sumemr and married next but this issue continues to hold me back. If i marry her, I don't know who i'm really marrying. \n\nIt's probably insecurities that lead her to act like this around other people i'd guess. I've tried to talk to her about it several times but she gets really defensive and denies this\never happens while she just turns it around on me. \n\nAny advice?",
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"content": "So yesterday, while at work, I received a very weird message on my phone from a girl who pretended to be my boyfriend's ex girlfriend.\n\nShe trash talked my boyfriend, telling me she lost all her money, friends and family, because of him. That he only used her for her money. That his family is very fake (she met him supposedly) and in the end, they're going to marry him off with somebody from his own ancestry. That he dumps her, because she was older than him anyway. (Like I am) That he's very greedy (about money) and so on. That I have to watch out for him, because he has two complete different faces.\n\nWell, my boyfriend has never had a girlfriend before and I'm the first one to meet his parents and his friends, which has been confirmed. Next to that, he's the complete opposite of being greedy, so everything she said about him was a lie, expect for certain details about us (where his parents live, where we went on our summer trip) His parents are extremely upset by this person. (my mom, but they don't know that yet)\n\nI found out that she talks in the same way as my Mom does and she almost has the same phone number as her at the same provider. When I told her, his supposed ex-girlfriend, that, she immediately deleted her account.\n\nNow, my boyfriend never wants to meet my Mom and I don't know how I should approach this.",
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"content": "I am a twenty two years old who has tried all sort of ways to lose weight, going from starving myself , or eating 6 meals a day but nothing changed. \nI've been overweight like since ever.\n\nI tried aerobics recently but stopped quickly because i was too ashamed of my size. I am around 110kilo, 168cm and i dont have my menses regularly. I have symtoms of pcos, facial hair and the shit but none of the tests that i did turned out positive. \n\nI recently got into a LDR., (after like 4-5 years) (i dont date because i am ashamed of how i look like ) and my SO mentioned that we should both lose weight before he gets back to the country, so that we could have more fun together and i do agree with him. I feel tired and so lazy most of the time. \nI want to try anything that would make me feel comfortable and healthier. \n\nPls , post your before/after pics, anything that you give me motivation. How much do you think it's possible for me to lose in 6 months, realistically? For women mostly, what are the things that worked for you?",
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"content": "I'm a college male [22] and I work with a college girl [19] from my school, who has become one of my best friends since January. We took a summer class together, and she flirted with me. When I finally reciprocated, she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship.\n\nFast forward to this semester. She starts overtly flirting with me and calling me \"babe\" or \"boo\" constantly. Remembering what happened, I didn't reciprocate. \n\nYesterday, she told me she thinks I'm \"perfect.\" I started really liking her recently, so I basically told her I feel the same, and she again used the friend excuse. She even told me she started hooking up with a different friend a month ago and regrets it.\n\nMy question is this: Is she just keeping me there as a plan B? \n\nMore importantly, is she even really my friend, if she's wiling to play with my emotions like that?",
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"content": "I've been talking with this girl now for a week or so, if you wanna even call it that. We've kissed, gone out a few times, and both have made it very clear that we have feelings for each other. To put it simply, I never have actually had feelings for a girl like this before. (Truthfully, I'm known as a slut.) I genuinely and truthfully like this girl and have absolutely all intention on dating her so I definently am not looking to screw this up. She does seem to send mixed signals which I hate and always throws me for a loop. Any advice besides just taking it slow? Maybe exactly HOW to take it slow, considering I've never even done that before... Considering I'm paranoid parrot about things like this, even just reassurance would help. She usually texts me first and all that. (Seems silly to say, I know, but it does usually mean a girl has a lot of interest in a guy.) Simply, I'd just like some concrete, legit advice regarding the whole matter and even reassurance would help.",
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"content": "When i was 16 i had an abortion with my ex boyfriend. \nliving with guilt, \ntwo years later my boyfriend (23 M) and i (18 F) (being together for a year or so) at the time ended up being pregnant.\nAt first he wanted to have an abortion. \nI could not live with myself if i would have agreed to do so.\n2 months pass by and we have never been so in love. it was the holiday season and on christmas eve i began to bleed. i went to the ER and the doctors told me everything was fine and sent me home. (i saw a sonogram that day) Also that day he was not present due to being at work,\nthe day after christmas, i misscarried.\ni have never felt so empty in my life.\ni am sad whenever i see a baby, or an infant \nI want to have a child, but whenever i tell him he just says \"not right now\" or \"maybe when i'm 30\"\nwe have been together for about 2.5 years now. But this may be a deal breaker for me because of how i feel and how much i love him and want him to have my children.",
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"content": "So for some back story I am moving in with a few friends of mine. One of them and his family previously lived in a home with 3 bedrooms and an office. My friend and I thought I would be great to get 2 of our co workers to move in to make the payments possible. Well I don't make too much money and my friend said I would only have to pay 600$ a month of the 2700$. Because I get the office. Which has no doors. No closet and is the smallest room. He agreed to pay extra cause he wanted to master bedroom. Now he is taking his word back and saying I have to pay 700. But I think it is unfair cause everyone else gets their own closet and door to their room which are actually down the hall away from the noise. My room is right next to the noise and front door too. I know 100$ doesn't seem like much. But it would really help me out on making the rent cause I am going to school and working this semester too. What is a polite of saying. If I don't get the 600. I will be moving back home the next month.",
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"content": "I'm a generally friendly person and I get bored at school, so I like to have conversations with people. However, more often than not, I don't want to date the person or even hang out with them in \"real life\". I am very particular about the people I want to be friends with or date and I'm very observent of people's behavior and know fairly quickly what sort of relationship I'd want with the person. I can have a great conversation and have a lot in common with the person but feel no burning desire to hang out with them outside of a school setting. My problem is that a lot of the time people seem to misunderstand my intentions and mistake my friendly behavior as being interested in them (guys) or wanting to hang out with them. Personally, I get **really** irked if a person I talk to assumes that I'm interested in them and tries to pursue me, as a result of their pursuit, I usually end up avoiding them or ignoring them. Am I just being weird? If so, how do I fix it? and how do I know what \"vibe\" I'm giving off? So I can be more careful in the future.",
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"content": "8 years ago, as a sophmore, me and my buddies went to his car and smoked a bowl between classes, we show up to our next class about 5 minutes late, and the teacher being a bitch said we had to go to the office and sign in, so we do, and the office secretary obviously knew we were high so about 10 minutes after signing in, we're called into the office, I had a pipe and a 10 sack in my backpack so at this point I was shitting bricks, they placed me in this small ass 4x4 printer room with the yard duty. I knew I was screwed because the room was so small I had no chance to hide my stuff. I opened the small pocket of my backpack where everything was, and took out a pencil. I started twirling the pencil around in my hand and noticed that the yard duty was watching the pencil, so i keep doing that and then I flick it up in the air. As it falls to the ground, I reach for it, and with my other hand I grab my pipe and slide it under the printer. When my principal was done interrogating my friend I was called in. She had just escorted him to another room to sit until they figured out to do with us. I walk out the printer room, see she is across the room from her office, so I B-line into her office grab the weed and put it on the book case. Cop gets called in to search my things, and he's tripping because he keeps saying he could smell it. It was literally behind his head nose level. After searching my stuff 4 times he gives up. They lock me in the office and tell me to wait while the police officer talks to my principle. When I was alone for about 5 minutes, I took the weed off the bookcase and hid it in her desk drawer. I ended up getting suspended for being high and they tried to tell my mom I have a drug problem and wanted me to go to rehab. My mom pretty much laughed in her face and told her it's just marijuana. Never heard about it again, but the teacher did \"resign\" at the end of the year.",
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"content": "My girlfriend and I had a very strong loving relationship of 1.5 years, I am 18 and I am her first boyfriend whom she lost her virginity to. 3 months ago I went on my overseas experience and we agreed the before I left we would do long distance, unfortunately a week or so ago my girlfriend broke up with me saying she doesn't love me anymore (although I believe it's because we've had no physical contact, or that she's frustrated I'm on there) I followed the no contact rule and in just 2 days she messaged me saying she wants me back I accepted and then a few days she broke up with me again saying she doesn't love me (I believe it's because I allowed myself to look weak, she's not trying to screw me around she's just confused about her feelings) anyways I am in just in need of advice on how I should handle this second breakup she said she understands if I don't want to be friends with her and I said I do, however I have only let her contact me and have replied in a friendly and light manner. At this point I am wondering in order to make it more likely that I get her back as I am coming back from my travels in 1 and a half months and will be able to give her that physical contact whether I should continue being friends and have light chats or whether that we'll turn her off more and put me in the friend zone, or should I just drop contact with her for a month and then try talking to her after, I will see her again in 1 and half months anyways I just want to maximise me chances. Please help me out guys, thanks!",
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"content": "I apologize for any mistakes I make due to the fact that this is my first post and I have no idea what I'm doing. Please let me know how I could improve.\n---\nMy sister got dumped by her boyfriend about 3-4 weeks ago. They were only dating for roughly 4 months but she really liked this guy and apparently this guy really liked her (her friends were always going on about the way he looked at her and stuff).\n\nAnyways, he broke up with her due to the fact that they have no classes together and he would only see her in the morning, at lunch, after school, and on the weekends. She believes that he has found another girl and that this is just a cop out. He said that the love was still there and I think that gave her hope that they would get back together but I don't think that's going to happen.\n\nI keep getting off topic. She is trying to get over him and another guy asked her out but she didn't want to say yes but she did anyways because she would've felt bad had she said no. Now everytime she does something with him she is always comparring him to her ex. She goes on about how it doesn't feel the same and she does'nt get \"butterflies\" or nervous around him like she did with her ex.\n\nShe's still friends with her ex and texts him and her best friend is dating his best friend so she sees him almost everyday.\n\nSo, what can I do to help her get over her ex?\n\n---\n\nSorry if the text is long",
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"content": "Hi Reddit. Let me begin my question with a story. I apologize that I am skimping on details, but I dont want anybody to find out who I am. Anyway, I met this girl last summer in South America. (We are both from the US). From the second I met her, I immediately thought that I had never seen anyone as gorgeous as she was. I'll spare you the gooey details, but just assume that I became immediately crazy about her. We became really close while we were there, but our vacation ended with an abrupt halt after two and a half weeks. I was madly distraught on the plane flight home, and was a wreck for weeks over how much I missed her, and how sad I was that I never really told her how I felt. I told some of my friends, and they all said that I would get over her in due time. Well, it has been over a year, I haven't seen her in person the whole time, and I'm still as, if not more, crazy about her. The only times I really get to talk to her are our rare Skype \"dates,\" but other than that, nothing. We were so close in South America, but I don't know if she still feels the same way that I do. How do I tell someone I haven't seen in over a year that I am still crazy about them?",
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"content": "Hello,\n\nWhen we first got together, my sweet and lovely girlfriend told me loud and clear that she equated watching porn to infidelity and that she would break up with me if she ever caught me doing it.\n\nI admit straight away that I outright dismissed her message and continued watching porn on occasion; never when she was around and never on the expense of our sex life but behind her back and I often felt a twinge of shame. Yet, I kept on doing it.\n\nIt had to happen eventually. She discovered it yesterday and she has been devastated since then, sobbing uncontrollably for long bouts of time. Yet, she has also been kind, telling me how much she loves me and asking me rather than others for consolation (which I must say I feel very awkward about).\n\nImmediately after the revelation, I owned up, offering her to break up with me because I realized what a let-down I had been. She turned it down, saying that she would stay with me, but it will be over if I ever watch pornography again. Nor can I break up with her, seeing that she has personal issues where my support is extremely precious to her. Walking away could destroy her.\n\nThere's not much more to say. She and I go along together extremely well and I have to count myself lucky that she still wants to stay with me and I will have to work hard to win back her trust. Although I do think her equation between porn and infidelity is forced, I absolutely disregarded her warning and now I am paying the price. Still, I feel wretched, branded an adulterer and I fear that our future relationship will be entirely on her mercy. \n\nThere has been an incredible amount of anger and loathing over these past few days, but I now see that it is my responsibility to set things right. Still, should I just be completely meek in doing so or should I assert that, although I betrayed her trust, I haven’t exactly killed anyone? \n\nI just want to hear your take. Is there something I have overlooked?",
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"content": "this has probably been asked before.\n\nI have two 3 month old pomchi puppies. I'm in the process of teaching them everything, and of course because i have two litter mates it's double the effort. I'm also teaching them (boys) \"leave it\" and \"drop it\" One gets drop it, the other doesnt.\n\nThe one that doesn't get it got a hold of my Nintendo DS charger and chewed the plug (not the socket part but the part that goes into the DS) off of the wire. I didn't want him chewing it because the bare wires were showing now and it was still plugged in and i also didn't want him chewing on plastic he could swallow so i gave the command drop it tempted him with some delicious treats but he was content on keeping the charger with him. \n\nbecause of the exposed wire part i decided to grab it out of his reach (90% of the time he doesnt growl or care)\n\nthis time he did. he snapped and tried to bit me. got me in the hand but it didn't hurt because hes so small.\n\nafter i got it away i felt around the blanket he was sittin on to see if i missed any pieces and he tried two more times to bite and snap at my hand.\n\nIt was aggression.\n\nWhat do you recommend I do if the drop it or leave it or tempting with treats thing doesn't work (or they haven't learned it yet) \n\nor if hes chewing something dangerous or valuable to me that i accidentally drop and tries to bite me violently... how do i discipline him after this. \n\nsure i can try to avoid it, but what happens when it DOES happen.\n\nyes i AM n the process of teaching them the commands but i need to know what to do RIGHT after he bites me not how to avoid it .\n\nsorry. long",
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"content": "My boyfriend had a year long somewhat meaningful relationship before me. They were in love and were actually still a little flirty while him and I started seeing each other. He cut it off (it being their \"friendship\") with her as soon as he realized I was deeply hurt by this and now we've been together for 5 months so she's been irrelevant for a while now. At least for me. \n\nRecently I started noticing that she's still liking and commenting on his friends posts (some posts include my boyfriend and me) on both Instagram and Twitter. None of his friends talk to her anymore because she's out of the picture. I've blocked her and so did my boyfriend but his friends haven't. So I'm still able to see whether she's liked posts or not. \n\nI've also noticed that she took her Instagram off private mode just to get under my boyfriends skin with posts of her with another guy whom my boyfriend and her have had problems with in the past. \nIt's been something that is irritating me because she's purposefully trying to get under our skin and it's working. Shes tweeted that she was over him but clearly she isn't. \n\nI don't know how to get over her bothering us and how to help my boyfriend also not be upset about her since she's irrelevant to our relationship. \n\nI'm not the type that's overly insecure but his ex has always made me feel like I'm in a competition to prove who's the best. For some reason I feel like I'm always in second place. Any thoughts?",
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"content": "Hi there /r/relationship_advice , long time lurker here !\n\nI'm using a throwaway because my bf is a fellow redditor.\n \n\n A bit of background : I'm a 22 year old girl from Greece , I sat the national exams, managed to get myself in a CS Univeristy, which I unfortunately ended up abandoning after 1 year, since I had some personal issues. After a one year break , I decided that I had to do something in my life , and I ended up in a private CS (Computer Science ) college. \n \n\nMy boyfriend , followed the same process as me , but he got in a national Technical School ( maybe that's the wrong term ,but here we have : universities > technical schools , as we call them , or as I roughly translate at least :P ). He is now on his 10th year and he has to pass 1 lesson to get his degree. He is interested in computers , which has nothing to do with what he used to study.\n \n \n\n**The problem** : Well the obvious problem is that he thinks I'm getting a degree no matter what , because my father's paying a bunch of money. The other problem is that he thinks I'm stupid he explains the most basic stuff like he would explain it to a 4 year old.\n \n \n\nFor example: \"You cannot do [insert paragraph here] with this command, the database doesn't allow it\" . And I'm like \"yeah , I know, that's pretty basic stuff\".\n\nI'm seriously thinking of not inviting him to my graduation ceremony, because what's really the point? How should I handle this situation?",
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"content": "We rescued a Staffordshire Bull Terrier from a shelter ~6 months ago, when we got her she had a broken leg and was visibly skinny. 6 Months later she has put a lot of weight on and is a very energetic young dog (she is approx. 11 months old now) however, while searching online i find the ideal weight for bitches of her breed is 10~16kg, she weighs 16.5kg and her ribs are still *just* visible when you look at her. She gets fed 454g of raw minced beef per day and a handful of \"WainWrights\" dog kibble (not a cheap brand, but certainly not the best) per meal (2 meals per day), she also gets small portions of veg and gravy once a week when we have our Sunday roast dinner. Should i be able to make out the lines of her rib-cage when she is stood, I have been assuming this means she is still slightly underweight? I often vigorously play tug with her and she has become noticeably stronger since we got her and I believe it looks like she has packed on a lot of muscle which could account for the weight gain i guess?",
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