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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I overheard my father talking stating he is going to make my fiancé and I get a civil wedding however rules will have to follow. Due to the fact that my parents are caribbean and catholic living together before marriage is out of the question however my fiancé and I are in a long distance relationship. So following this civil wedding we are still not allowed to live together. He is making this VERY difficult and extremely embarrassing for me because this just adds another burden to my relationship with my man and we already have enough issues going on between us. I also fear this will just break us apart. What shall I do? \n\nI am currently fishing up grad school my fiancé is working two jobs and we are short in money but we are working towards saving our money together into an account and begin wedding planning and the future together. My mother is supportive of us so is his parents (whom where in a long distance relationship as well) its just my father thats making everything so difficult. Its either I choose him and his rules or I go against him and make way with my fiance and he cuts all ties with me as well as my extended family.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have known each other for a year, dating for 6 months.\n\nMy girlfriend moved back to her hometown 4 months ago, where her ex, who she dated for 5 years, also lives. We have been doing the long distance thing as best we can and I have even scheduled a trip out there.\n\nI recently found out she is getting texts from her ex all day long and even goes and hangs out with him. She and I talked about it and she assured me she doesn't like him anymore, but considers him a dear friend. She says that she is not interested in him, but she doesn't want to rock the boat and tell him to stop.\n\nI do not like this one bit. I of course do not want to giver an ultimatum, but I have tried saying I do not like it and she does not seem to get it only to tell me I have nothing to worry about. At this point I want to cancel the trip and say goodbye.\n\nMy question: Am I overreacting and need to grow up and get over it or should I just put an end to all of this drama and end it?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A year ago I was my friend was in a horrendous accident and got some wonderful help at kaiser. While staying with him over night there was a stressful moment asking nurses for painkillers. while my friend was pleading for drugs I passed out infront of the nurse. \n\nShe called an emergency code and I was put in a wheel chair and brought to the ER. Once there I caught my breath and felt fine and demanded to be released knowing the test the plained to run in me would cost a pretty Penny. I'm a student with no insurance. they insisted my school would cover me and took my information. 8 months pass and I get a call from debt collection that my debt has already been sold and I owe $1000. since I have savings below double digits I couldn't pay them. \n\nDoes anyone know of a program or fund I may qualify for that could absolve.my debt? I've ignored it got almost half a year and I fear our may ruin me if I ignore out longer", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have two friends who I've known for over 10 years, but recently I haven't been enjoying the time I've been spending with them.\n\nFor a few months when I've gone over to hang out with them, they have been doing the same thing every time; they are playing video games and vaping. I have nothing against what they do, but it isn't interesting to me. I just end up sitting on a couch watching them play games for 2-3 hours before I make up some excuse to go home. We also talk and joke around while they play which I enjoy. I've tried suggesting alternate things to do, however they usually turn them down.\n\nWhat makes this such a dilemma is the history we have together. They were friends who helped me through depression. There was a time when I wasn't going to school and started being homeschooled because I was too anxious and depressed, but they visited me at least once a week. I feel indebted to what they did for me. We've gone on trips together and have a ton of memories that are priceless to me. I feel obligated to remain their friend.\n\nI also feel like our relationship between the three of us is askew. They both live together and this has changed how we interact together. Both of them consider each other brothers, and I am just their friend. They have so much more in common that I feel isolated. One of the friends has also been a bit hostile towards me lately. I used to tease him more than my other friends, but have stopped and made it clear that I am trying to be kinder. It seems like he is trying to assert dominance or something...I don't know. I'm leaning more towards not hanging out with them. What do you think?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something.\nBy the time I'm writing this the following has happened:\nShe went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went.\nI talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa.\nShe also said they were going to tell my father some day.\nI told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference.\n\nNow, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "To start off, both me an my gf are still in high school and we've been dating for over 7 months and we love each other very much. \n\nThe story is, one night after work, my ex/ friend[17F] texted me asking if I wanted to hang and since I didn't want to go home at the time, I thought \"why not?\" (That was fault #1). I forgot to text my gf like I usually do so when she texted me, I straight out lied to her saying I was still working even though my shift ended (fault #2). \n\nWhile I was hanging out with my ex and another friend[18F] who is mutual between my gf and her, the other friend took a snapchat and sent it to gf, digging me in the hole I dug already, deeper. So I'm fucked by this time, and I didn't even know it. \n\nThe morning after, she calls me saying we need to talk. She confronts me about it and I confess everything. She then says \"I can't trust you anymore and I can't believe you lied to me -OP-.\" \n\nI need some idea that will help me earn her trust back before I lose her altogether. I understand if you do not assist me, and tell me that what I did was wrong, but I would be forever grateful to the reddit /r/relationships community if they helped a poor teenage soul out of the mess he made. Any ideas will help.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've [18M&F] been friends since middle school and started dating a little over two years ago. About a year ago I started at age 16/17 to notice guys a lot more and today it has evolved to me prefering to watch gay porn rather than straight, don't ask me how these things work. \n\nThat doesn't change my feelings for this girl, she's been my best friend for almost all my teenage years. We shared all our firsts, our sex life is great and she's the only person I feel I can trust completely (except maybe with the gay thing).\n\nEven with all that, I'm terrified I may slip one night in college and hook up with a guy which I must admit intrigues me greatly even though I can't imagine hurting her like that. I signed up on grindr six months ago just to see if there were guys in my neighborhood who I knew on there and that made me feel sick.\n\nShe told me two weeks ago that she can't imgaine being apart for so long every year and that she found similar courses at my college but it will cost her more so I'm not sure how to feel about that or what to do.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I don't mean to talk down on AA. It saved my alcoholic mom, who I love. But the other thing about my mom is that she's very, very right-wing. It makes me sad because she's a caring person, just really set in her conservative ways. Moving on, I'm a 26 year old alcoholic. I pay the bills, but I'm drinking 10-12 drinks, 5 nights a week; my life is a blur. Most of the people in my life don't know that I have a problem. I quit drinking once for almost a year, and then had my heart ripped out by my ex-girlfriend, and went right back to drinking. I've been to plenty of AA meetings and liked some aspects of them, but most of the people there seemed like they were in a cult. You're supposed to admit that you're powerless and the that only a \"Higher Power\" can help you. I know myself, and I will never be able to deal with all that hand holding and praying. I'm planning on quitting again. I know I can do this, but I would really appreciate any advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this happened about 20 minutes ago.\n\nI was in the back yard, replacing a damaged sprinkler head. I dug up the old one, and removed it when I noticed that the hole was slowly filling with muddy water. It was so murky, I could not see the bottom of this 5 inch deep hole. So, I get the new sprinkler, attach a 1 inch male coupling to the bottom, and then attach another 1 inch female coupling to that, so that the new sprinkler would sit a little higher, therefore be more visible while mowing. I lower this into hole, and start twisting, hoping that it will snag onto what I had assumed was another male end at the bottom.\n\nAfter doing this for about 2 or 3 minutes, I am starting to get frustrated. I reach in there to feel around, but the hole is too narrow for my grizzly-like hands. I try using towels to get the water out, to no avail. I try to widen the hole by using said water to turn dirt walls into mud, so that my hand might fit better. At this point, I am ten seconds away from making the hole larger using a shovel, and possibly having more dirt and debris fall in, when I look up at the old sprinkler head. I realize my foolishness. Attached to the bottom of it is the male coupling that I had been attempting to attach my female coupling to.\n\nI pop off the new female coupling, sink that sprinkler in, give it a good twist, and vam, bam, boosh. Filled up the hole, and am now sitting here, glad none of my friends were around. After realizing my mistake, I had it done and said with, within 1 minute.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Registered to make this post, so hello I guess. \nA bit of context:\n-Long distance relationship (7 months, 1.5 hrs away from each other)\n-I live in the country she lives in in the city\n-She is currently stressed from having to move out and find a new place\n-We both share the same career and share many interests, which is the initial reason I fell for her\n-I've been burned by high-maintenance model-tier women before so I was looking for something a bit more homely, but she's not unattractive at all \n\nBasically after sex the other night I couldn't 'arrive', and she got really upset claiming that 'this has been happening for weeks now'. She's been getting orgasms where as I haven't, and she basically assumed that I was no longer attracted to her. She made all sorts of threats about breaking up, cheating while I was away etc and when I called her on her BS manipulation she started crying. \n\nI'm not the most emotionally accessible guy, I take a LONG time to climax even with very attractive women, I still like her a lot and she's extremely useful to me.\n\nNeed a female perspective more than anything", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long time Redditor here. This is a throwaway, but I'm sure some friends will recognize me. I don't mind though.\n\nI'm 20 years old. I got kicked out of my parents' house recently, with absolutely no money to my name. All I have is this laptop, some clothes, and good friends. I'm staying with a friend for the time being, but I don't want to impede his family for longer than two months. However at the rate of my job search, I may have to stay for longer.\n\nDon't get me wrong, I'm not complaining about getting kicked out really. I wouldn't want to go back to my parents' house at this point. I will have to rise up and make a man of myself at some point in my life... but it just feels like I'm facing tremendous odds. I've applied at almost everywhere possible within a 3 mile radius (Outskirts of NYC), most places aren't hiring at this time (even McDonald's hasn't called me back yet). I'm not the kind of person to be above a minimum wage job (or two even!), but even those aren't hiring at this time.\n\nI managed to get sick right after I got kicked out, so I didn't do stunningly at my first interview. I'm also lacking in the official documents department. All I have is my birth certificate and high school diploma (my mother lost my social security card a while back so uh...).", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been close friends for five years, and have been in a long distance relationship for about five months now. He lives in Glasgow, Scotland, and I live on the east coast of the US. We voice chat most days, but often it seems like I dominate the conversations, and if I don't, there's a lot of silence. He's a very emotionally pent-up guy, and especially from a distance (we're aiming to meet in person next spring, as money constraints got in the way of it happening this summer), it's hard for me to gauge what he's feeling. He really hates discussing emotional stuff, so I try not to ask about it. \nBasically, I'm a giant blob of insecurity and sometimes I worry that he may not really be happy in this relationship and is just sparing my feelings or something. I don't know how to stop thinking like this. I know it's stupid and unhealthy. I just really adore him and I want him to be happy.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Probably not worthy of some of the stories on here, but it was a fuck up none the less. I had an interview today, and I checked last week that my smart shoes were still where I left them, opened my wardrobe, saw two leather shoes, good, still there, fantastic, I'll polish them the morning of the interview before I go. \n\nSome backstory may be required here, I may have mentioned on Reddit previously that I have rather large feet. (UK 14-15), so it's difficult to buy nice shoes that aren't for working on building sites. I buy them online, and I usually buy two or three pairs to see me through for at least a few months. I last bought shoes 12 months ago. \n\nAnyway, I pull them out this morning, and place them upon my bedroom floor, when it occurs to me that they're not exactly what I was hoping for. They were both for my left foot. Not a problem, I thought, dig deeper into the cupboard, and the right will be found. Was it fuck. I had the entire wardrobe out, and couldn't find a right shoe anywhere. I then spent an hour ringing around shoe shops in my relatively local area, asking if they did smart shoes in a size 15. No, they didn't. \n\nI was there, in a room full of suited guys, dressed in a shirt with dark jeans and bright white basketball trainers on.... Fortunately the company has no dress code, and someone else was wearing slightly less obnoxious trainers, and nothing was mentioned.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So like many other TIFUs this happened awhile ago. I beleive it was my freshman year of high school when it happened.\n\nI live near my high school so I always walk to and from my house to school. It's about a 10-15 minute walk, and there happens to be a small old persons and adult only hospital on my street. \n\nOne day after school, I was walking home as usual. I had my earphones on and was blasting my music full volume cause I like listening to music as I walk home.\n\nI was just crossing the street on green when I finally noticed that I was the only one crossing and even the cars had stopped. Okay? I though.\n\nSuddenly I look to my right just in time to see the ambulance coming from my street break just before it hit me. It was literally a few inches away from me. I froze for a second, but then broke out of my daze and hurried by.\n\nI still feel so incredibly bad for that, and since then I've never had my music as loud. And I've never walked with both earphones is either..", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Lately I have seen a lot of posts about women getting creeped out by guys flirting with them, taking \"no\" to mean \"yes\" and similar things. I agree that women should feel more comfortable with rejecting advances, and all around should have way more freedom in our society to be individuals.\n\nNow, I want to try and be a bit more flirtatious, my best friend who is just naturally friendly, is mock flirtatious with pretty much every guy and girl, and pretty much everyone loves him.\n\nI'm not saying I want to try and be him. But I know that I pretty much never flirt because I feel like if I flirt at all or give any kind of compliment, it could be taken as \"verbal abuse\". For example, I say \"Hey so and so, I love your hair, it looks really good\". There was one time I actually just genuinely liked how a girl's hair looked, it was a unique color, and wanted to compliment her on it. I asked a female friend of mine who was nearby if it would be okay if I told the girl, and my friend says it would have been creepy.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me 26f, sister 29f. \n\nI need some advice on how to approach my sister about her dating relationship. I need something better than \"WTF are you crazy?!\" I just learned from my sister that she's in a relationship with a married man. This sounds bad but it actually gets worse.\n\nWe've talked about guys before and I've never been thrilled with the people she's dated but this takes the cake. She hasn't told me everything, but what she has makes me very concerned. She says that she's in love with a married man. A married man who wants to be separated but is a coward about divorce and hasn't started divorce proceedings yet. He keeps saying he's going to and keeps trying to get reassurance that my sister will be there if he makes it official. \n\nThis \"great\" guy also offered to give her a child but to not marry her. This blows my mind. This guy sounds like a loser and somehow my sister isn't seeing this. The fact that he's cheating on his wife and the fact that my sister is often deployed in the Navy, which means she's not home for stretches at a time, makes me think that she's just his relationship on the side. \n\nI see a huge train wreck coming and I love my sister, but I don't know how to approach it without setting her on the defensive. She often believes that her opinion are right and everyone else's is wrong. I know I can't stop her actions, but I want to try and help her. I know anything I might say probably won't make a difference, but I have to try. She's my older sister and I love her, but she's always had issues with guys, probably stemming to the fact that her biological father abandoned her and my mother. \n\nSo.. any ideas on what to say? How to approach the situation without alienating her? How to somehow try to show her this guy isn't a good guy?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 8 months ago we had a very bad fight. She had caught me in a lie (nothing about cheating, but it was something I lied about my past that was important to her). She was on the verge of breaking up with me. All of a sudden, we were fine about a few weeks later, and we rarely fought about that reason. \n\nNow, I just came to realize after a breakdown she had, that she may actually want to break up with me but she can't because she relies upon me greatly (much greater than I thought) for financial reasons. Basically she'd be out on the street and so would her mom (she sends her money from her part time job). If it were only her she said she could be \"free\" in her own words (but I think she might have been implying that she *would* be free if she had the chance.\n\nI'm not 100% sure what she was saying, that she *would* definitely not be with me now if it weren't for financial support, or that she is just upset because she doesn't at least have that choice. \n\nI can't figure it out, and I am devistated obviously! She just went to sleep and I don't even know what to do. \n\nI don't want to force someone to be with me while they don't want this, love isn't a one way street. Even if she tries to \"make the best of it\" to be with me, I only want someone with me who's in it 100%, especially since we plan on getting married. \n\nWhat to do? If I leave her because she's not 100% (or so I think) I would feel guilty, on top of that, her and her mom on the street (or at the very best couch surfing with relatives).", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here's back story. My mom passed away almost two years ago and it's just been Dad and I since then.\n\nI'm working on getting out of the house soon but due to issues on both sides I've remained at home the past two years. Also felt very lost considering my Mom was my best friend in the universe.\n\nI knew my Dad would start dating again, I just didn't think it would be so soon. Without hardly any thoughts he has taken her out and said they are officially dating the next day just this past week.\n\nSo Relationships, this is where I come to you. How can I lessen the resentment I feel? I know I cannot compare this wonderful lady to my Mom but it's very difficult... I know she would want dad to be happy and find someone else but I'm not ready for the change. I'm not sure I can ever accept her at this point. \n\nI'm trying really hard to keep in mind that she can't replace my Mom.\n\nHas anyone else gone through this and if so, how did you get used to the new person? Sorry if it seems silly. I just needed somewhere to go with all of it. It's been stressful on me.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been on a couple dates with a 25F, I'm a 24M. We met on tinder and I really like her. We've only been on two dates and made-out both times. It's nothing serious but when I think about how this might play out, I am a bit confused. I guess I'm just now starting to think about the dynamics of real relationship with her. \n\nA couple factors:\nWe live in different cities about a half hour away, and we both have cars. She works in my city. But my worry is that we have no real connections (ie work or shared hobbies). As a result, I feel that our scheduling of dates is rather forced and there isn't any casual way just to hangout (essentially we are either on a date, or not hanging out at all). Is this normal at my age? This dynamic is new to me because I've never really dated outside of college (where at least we had our studies in common). In the past, it's always just been natural to hangout with things like studying and then schedule actual dates intermittently, but now it seems that \"dating\" is the only way to hangout with this girl. In essence its \"dating to date\" rather than knowing each other as friends and then dating. It just feels forced to me. That said, I'd love to be in a committed relationship and I am up to give this a real commitment. \n\nSo I guess my questions are: how does dating change after college change? in general, are you/the general populace in their mid 20's more inclined to make strong efforts to make a relationship work? How do relationships at this age progress into casual, just sitting in front of a TV sort of thing? \n\nMy inclination as of now is just go with the flow and see how things play out. But a part of me gets anxious knowing that I like her but not seeing a way of making it work", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm 18, male and live in Melbourne Australia. I weigh about 85kg and am always at that weight or +/- 1kg. I've got a bit of fat around and I'm fine with that, makes me more hugable. I know I'm not fat or obese at all, just straight up chubby. Some days I don't even think of how I look and can often go days, even weeks at a time without being self concious. \nThen I'll have a change in mood caused by someone or something annoying me then I'll stare in the mirror and thinking of the excess a fat around the belly button and my man boobs. Some days I change my t-shirt just so it's not as revealing but others I couldn't care less. \nI eat a pretty balanced diet, veggies almost every day, same with fruit, do quite a bit of walking which is incidental but helps to prevent extra kilos staying on. \nLook reddit, I'm one of the lucky ones, I know that, I can not recognise this shit for days at a time but then I lash out on my self and think of how fat I am and blah blah blah.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this actually just happened...I'm at work, obviously not being productive and browsing through reddit. I click a link that takes me to /r/creepy, a sub I haven't really looked at much. Apparently there's a small smudge on the screen when you browse that sub. I was not aware of this.\nFuck up, initiated...I spend 5 minutes first using the old spit and fingerwipe, then full blown windex and towel to try and clean it. I figured since it wasn't dirty, the screen must be about to go out. Since this clearly was not my fault, I called my boss and texted her a picture of said smudge. They've already ordered a new computer, she's going to call her techie daughter to try and \"fix\" it. I shut down the computer and put it in her office, and just grabbed her laptop that she keeps in there to continue my browsing.\nWhich leads me to go back to said page and see the smudge again. I've just realized I just got trolled by /r/creepy. I'm just really hoping her daughter doesn't use reddit very much :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Girl I've been talking to for the last 3 months said that one of my weaknesses was that I become attached and rush things.\n\nHow/what do I do? I know that this is ONE of the MANY reasons, on why she wants to take things slow. \n\nI guess until I can show her/she sees that I am independent and not super attached to her, and that I still like her just the same if not more. We won't move things forward with our relationship.\n\nShe still likes me a lot, obviously because we hangout all the time, and I just went to her hometown this past weekend, and met her fam, and literally all of her friends.\n\nI even admitting to liking her a lot and rushing things about a month ago by asking to be exclusive. Which she didn't want just yet. Because of her going off on vacation with her family all summer. (ONE of MANY reasons)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, in queue during construction just now, waiting for traffic to funnel down to one lane and the guy in font of me starts to swerve into the lane that is ending (as if to cut to the front and lessen his wait). Half in the other lane, half in ours, he is almost hit by a guy flying to the front of the line. (being almost hit by two other drivers from Iowa just 5 mins earlier I wasn't surprised that they didn't slow as they swerved around him.) I honk assuming he doesn't see the guy coming but he just glances at me in his side view and stays his course, causing about 4 semis and 8 other cards to swerve around him. Once the lane clears he finishes his lane change and does the one thing I wasn't expecting... he paces me. For the remaining mile of the lane only two cars get close enough to us to be forced into the queue behind me. The rest of the traffic in that lane notices what he is doing and starts merging a good 100 yards behind us. \n \nThis is one thing that has *ALWAYS* annoyed the hell out of me, When given MILES of warning that the lane will end people will always drive to the end of the lane and slow the traffic to a stop while the *nice* people let them in at the front of the queue.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm 20 f, my boss is around 50 years old, also f.\n\nSo I have two jobs, and the schedules for both jobs are made on a\nweekly basis. One of my jobs I have had for three years, the other one I have had for a month and a bit. I forgot to give my schedule from one job to my boss at my other job, and so I was not scheduled for this week. I didn't realize why I had not been put on the schedule until now.\n\nMy question is, since I royally screwed up, what can I do to redeem myself? I don't want to call my boss today because it is a Sunday and she has the day off. Mistakes aren't easily forgiven where I work, as far as I can tell, and the boss often makes comments about how the employees should be scared of her. I have screwed up at previous jobs (little things) but my boss was less intimidating than my current one, so I am not sure how to handle this situation.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll start by saying that I have two jobs, so I work a lot. One of them is a retail job, so I have a few customers who come in a lot and chat with me, and sometimes I go see them at our local arcade, and I hang out with them there when I see them. \n\nOne of the guys I met, Harvey, is really cool, and we have a similar interest in downhill longboarding. He told me I should come out and skate with our towns longboarding group. Being somewhat new to the area, I got excited to make new friends.\n\nTwo days later, I requested off of both my jobs (which was granted because I never ask for leave) to go skate. I then get a facebook message from Harvey, firmly uninviting me. It was because my boyfriend's ex, Jessica, is part of the skateboard group and said I'm not allowed to go. Harvey said I can come skate one day with a smaller group a friends another day. I didn't ask any questions, and just said okay. It really hurt my feelings at the time, but I'm over it now. This was a week ago\n\nHarvey came into my store yesterday, and apologized for what happened. He felt really bad. Apparently the day they went to go skate, Jessica just talked shit about me the whole time, even though I've never even met her. Whatever, right? \n\nBut then Harvey told me that Jessica was talking about hanging out with my boyfriend recently. My stomach dropped. I didn't want to seem caught off guard so I didn't ask any questions. \n\nI'm not a psycho controlling bitch. If he would have just told me, I wouldn't have minded. Now it seems really sketchy that he's hanging out with her without without telling me. I don't think he would cheat on me, but I still feel uneasy about all this and don't know how to confront him.\n\nI'm mostly posting here because I'm not sure how to confront him. There's a good chance he will freak out on me if I say something, so I really need advice on how to approach this situation.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 23 year old female who's been single for the past 3 years. My last relationship ended badly and I basically lost all desire for love and commitment. Just to understand what issues I am dealing with I should explain that he had no job, didn't graduate from high school, didn't pay or offer me anything but I was young and in love so it didn't matter. \n\nAnyway, since then I've become a bit of a lone wolf. I'm a fiercely independent woman, almost to a fault. I kind of feel like it may be that I'm trying to prove something but I'm not sure what that is.\n\nI met a guy about 5 months ago through some mutual friends. We have a lot of common interests like guns, camping and generally having a good time. We started dating seriously about a month ago and he refers to me as his girlfriend. \n\nWithin the past two days we've realized we are different. He's conservative with traditional values and I'm more liberal and unconventional. It's almost a good thing because he's grounding me a little more and I'm opening up his mind to different ways of thinking. However, I've realized that he's a bit self absorbed. Not in a narcissistic way but he only seems to be able to relate things through himself. I put a lot of effort into being interested in his projects but he doesn't make an effort to being interested in my projects. I can tell that issues from my last relationship are urging me to abandon ship immediately for fear of being hurt again and I wonder if I'm almost TRYING to find reasons to leave. \n\nBasically, we have two issues. I had basically conviced myself that I wanted to be alone but I found a guy I genuinely care about. He makes me happy and the thought of being with him doesn't make me nauseous. Secondly, are we incompatible or am I trying to make us incompatible? If I'm already sensing he's a little self absorbed should I continue this relationship?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Edit: Oops. I'm 23.\n\nWe met online about 2 months ago and it just seems to me like things should be going faster than this.\n\nWent on the first date maybe 2 months ago and it was pretty great but we've only been on 2 more dates since then. The last was the Saturday night/ Easter Sunday morning and we kissed/made out for a minute and that was really great but it doesn't seem to me that she has any time to meet again. We've literally only seen each other for a total of like 5hrs but I feel we have great conversations and I don't think I'm completely out of bounds in saying that we both find each other attractive.\n\nI texted her last Monday (the day after Easter) I believe and asked if she wanted to hang out again this past weekend and she seemed open to it but prefaced it that this is a very busy time (finals). We haven't talked on the phone at all and while I've texted her just about every or every other day she doesn't seem to respond as much. Should I just text her and tell her that I really liked the time we spent together so far and that I'd like to do it again when she has time or maybe I've been texting her too much/am always available(in a bad way)?\n\nIf it hasn't become clear I am quite inexperienced in all of this dating stuff. She's the first person I've been on a 2nd or 3rd date or even kissed in more than 5 years. So if you just tell me to relax and be patient or just communicate my feelings to her somehow then I will completely understand. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "He is not working for anybody. so there won't be any legal issues dating me. but as far as i know, he is not interested in dating coworkers :(\n\nI don't know if he likes me. He is super-nice to me. He is tough with others, if he have to. I am good looking, i guess. I have seen him checking me out,not in a creepy way or anything. I am really confused\n\nI don't know what to do. He care about me, like i am his little sister.That's scary, i guess he think i am a stupid young girl.i guess i talk too much. I don't want to hookup with him for one night.I feel in love with him on my first day with him. I never felt like this before.\n\nHe is a genius, outgoing, he dated a few girls since i met him. nothing serious. i heard that he was in a five year relationship before!\n\nI always compliment him. maybe too much.maybe He knows that i am flirting with him. I don't know if it's flirting, i feel very secure and comfortable around him, at the same time i get nervous around him for having these thought in my mind, all the time. \n\nThis one time, i had to meet him for a coffee to hand him some files. I asked him as a joke \"is this a date?\". he smiled.\n \nI like my job too. it would be great to have both. :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in plenty of short lived relationships before but I just can't seem to differentiate if they are real feelings or feelings I'm forcing myself to have because I am lonely.\n\nI have a really big trust issue because of my mother being a cheater and dragging me into her other relationships when I was young. Also, being in the military I see how quick people are to cheat on and lie to their SO.\n\nI am a really emotional yet reserved person, if that makes any sense? I also have anger issues, which I have been working on but it isn't an easy journey. I try to keep a distance from people because of these reasons and I know I can't be in a happy relationship unless I am happy with myself.\n\nEven though I feel that way, I still feel null and void of so many feelings. It makes it hard for me to truly connect with someone, because I feel like I do it out of loneliness or boredom. I've been through a lot in life already so I think way too much for my own good and I'm a lot to handle.\n\nI'm not trying to rush for a true love or anything like that. I just don't know if I'm even capable of realizing when I really have feelings for someone. \n\nPlus it doesn't help that I'm a lesbian and it hasn't been the easiest road for me.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I played football in High School and my senior year I suffered a concussion during a practice and tried to keep playing. One of the coaches made me sit out the rest of practice and I thought I would be fine.\n\nOver the next few months I had a few bouts of sleep paralysis (I would wake up and barely be able to move while my eyes would be darting back and forth uncontrollably.) This hasn't really happened the past few years, but occasionally in my sleep I will faintly remember clenching down with my teeth very hard or stretching one of my calves to the point where I pull a muscle. This too has happened less and less frequently over time, though.\n\nThe other side to this is that I know for a fact that I have been a more moody (for lack of a better word) person since it happened. I get angry/depressed way more than what I used to. I actually used to be really laid back, patient, and level. My grades/ability to learn has also taken a noticeable dip. I used to learn with ease and understand everything that I was taught in school. Now I struggle learning new materials and/or applying older concepts from high school/earlier in college (for example, remember something as simple as common denominators and using it for Calculus).\n\nBut the main reason I came here is because I never really told anyone much about this, and I am afraid that this is something that will plague me for the rest of my life. My biggest concern is that I lost some of my intellectual ability that I used to have, and am afraid this will affect my career prospects once I graduate.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She and I met in freshman year (I was 18, she 17) as neighbors in our dorm. We lived together for several years (about 3) but at some point started to have our insecurities interfere with our relationship. Our friendship faced several set backs and pretty much fizzled out in a rather dramatic fashion. At first this was okay. I was angry and couldn't communicate or forgive. At the time I didn't want to acknowledge that I had made mistakes too. \n\nA long while had gone by since I'd thought about her. I've been dealing with a lot and have kind of gone down this hermit path, I honestly have no friends in the city I live in. In my loneliness, the thoughts of our good times came to mind and I just started missing her so much. Now go to several days ago - I sent my friend an anonymous message on tumblr basically saying I loved them and always will. Of course this could be interpreted both as friendship-love or romantic, so this could have been unclear. A few messages later (still anonymous) it was basically said that she had realized who it was and that they had let it go (meaning our past problems). \n\nQUESTION: Now in my note I had hinted I wanted to rekindle our friendship so, should I take this 'all is forgiven' attitude as she is over the past and that's it- no chance; or, is the person over the past and open to something? Sorry that was pretty drawn out or if this all seems petty. It's just this person meant so much to me at one point. My feelings got hurt and I hurt their feelings, and then it was just done. Time has passed, making reconciliation that much more unlikely.\n\nAm I being delusional or weird for holding on to some memory of a person?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm dealing with an Internet company who buys junked/damaged cars. \n\nThey have made an offer on my beat-up truck. I'm fine with the offer but it's not outrageous or suspicious. \n\nThey wish for me to sign the title and fax them a copy. After this, they will dispatch a local driver to pick up the vehicle, title, and give me a check. \n\nObviously I'm exposed in accepting a check. However, their site appears legit and my phone interactions with them have set off no red flags. \n\nI've also Googled the company, without seeing posts from people claiming to have been scammed. \n\nIt is a relatively small amount of money in play here and it just seems like it would be a hell of a long scam just to get my old truck. \n\nWhat are your thoughts Reddit? I have left out the name of the company because I wasn't certain whether that was frowned upon. I can provide it if requested. I hope this question is thought provoking enough for Askreddit but I really wanted the opinion of the community.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a big fan of classics, so when I found out my wife's favorite book ever was The Count of Monte Cristo, I was intrigued as to why. Of course I had heard of it before back in literature class in high school, but I never had been motivated to pick it up and read it. I guess I thought I'd be missing out on several books by reading this one instead since, unabridged, it clocks in at over 1200 pages. Let me just say, I am so glad I finally worked up the courage to start, because, once I did, I couldn't put it down. I was dead to the rest of the world. The story is absolutely beautiful, and I really feel like Edmond Dantes exemplified a great literary hero we can all appreciate. Also, I have really enjoyed getting to know my wife better by reading and loving her favorite book. I don't mean to ramble, but after finishing The Count, I felt impelled to post to encourage anyone out there to pick it up and read it. It might seem like you aren't getting anywhere at first, and even in the middle, but the plot will unfold beautifully and you will be left extremely satisfied, and probably sad the story is only 1200 pages. You will not be disappointed!\n\nWAIT AND HOPE!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years and her mother finds me unattractive and keeps voicing it to my gf. I know it shouldn't bother me but she really values how her mother feels. It hurts my feelings because I'm afraid that she might not find me that attractive as well.\n\nBackground:\nI don't think i'm the hottest guy or anything but do believe that I am above average in the looks department. She is very attractive however and I think her mom doesn't think I'm good enough for her daughter. She says when her mom brings up these kinds of things she just brushes them off and \"doesn't take them to heart.\" \n\nIdk what to do at this point because I care about my girlfriend alot and don't want her mom to plant a seed in my girlfriends mind that I'm not good for her...The real kicker however is that we got engaged recently and these talks have gotten more frequent and its really starting to get under my skin.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am looking for advice regarding my exboyfriend. We dated for 5 and a half years before he drunkenly broke up with me one night after we had been looking at apartments to move into. We taught in Korea for a year and traveled SE Asia for a year and a half of our relationship. There was no warning for the breakup. I suspect that he got scared about long term commitment and moving out, but he stated that it was because he did not see a future with me. \n\nAfter about 2 months of being broken up, we decided to become friends... which quickly turned into friends with benefits. This has been happening for the past six months. Last month he told me that he didn't know if he wanted to try to be with me or if he should wait to see if he would find someone else... that being with me would be \"easy\" because he knows me so well. He refuses to say what we are and I want input about whether or not I should just give up and believe that we will never be together in that way again. \n\nHe is my best friend, so of course this hurts, but I don't know if I am wasting my time hoping that he will come around. Thanks", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were together on and off for 4 years but knew each other much longer. Our relationship was a hit and miss. We both did things that screwed us over and the whole thing was really toxic for the both of us I think. Its been a year since our big no-contact break up and I'm really starting to miss the **friendship**. \n\nI would never be able to date this person again, and I'm sure they feel the same about me, but I really miss hanging out with them or talking to them. Its been a year since we spoke though, I'm confused about why I am suddenly missing the company.\n\nI guess what I want to know is.. After going no contact for a year is it better to just try and forget about this and move on? \n\nAlso; I am in a happy healthy relationship now that makes me feel fulfilled. I don't think this a feeling of being lonely or wanting to rekindle something.. I just feel like I lost a best friend and its hitting me now, for some reason.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I genuinely enjoy being around my friend and I want to invite her to a party I will be having. However, I really hate her pseudo-boyfriend and do not want him there. The first time I met him she brought him to a previous party I had and he was completely awful - I mean he arrived intoxicated, was rude to my boyfriend, was rude to me, and I overheard him making comments about how lame we were. After we invited him into our home and have him free food and alcohol! He was so obnoxious that he literally broke up the party...everyone there expressed distaste with his demeanor and people were actually leaving because they didn't want to be around him.\n\nSome options:\n\nDon't invite her at all: difficult because she lives with another friend of ours who I do plan to invite and I won't be able to invite one without the other. I can not invite either but I am sure they will hear about it through the grapevine or someone will post something on social media, and I don't want to have to lie to them because I like them.\n\nTell her that this guy sucks: we are co workers and I don't want to make that awkward. Also, all of her other friends have already told him he sucks and she has been hard headed about it.\n\nI realize this sounds petty but I really don't want to spend any time around this Martin Shkreli wannabe if I don't have to.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been together with my gf for about two years now, and living together for one. \n\nThis last week she has been making these plans to go winter bathing and drinking with a male friend of hers. \n\nEven though she tells me that I am supposed to be there too, I can't help but feel that I actually wasn't supposed to join, as the plans had been made completely without input on day and time from me. Because of this, the set date (next Monday) is at a very bad time for me, and I am most likely not able to join. \n\nOn the same note, in thing that make me feel like I wasn't supposed to join, is the fact that I didn't even know about the idea before the day was already set, and I had to find out about it myself when it was written into her calender. \n\nThis whole situation is making me really uncomfortable because I don't find what's gonna happen appropriate without me and I don't know what to do. \n\nJust to clarify. I don't have any problems with her hanging out with her friends. It's the getting drunk and undressed that's bothering me.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "How do I deal with my father's retaliatory BS? The details are below.\n\nWe've been estranged for over 3 years now - I disengaged to distance myself from him, due to two decades of his alcoholic behavior and emotional abuse that was directed toward me. I tried setting some boundaries, and his responses were late-night phone calls that made me feel harassed and threatened.\n\nI'm trying to give him what he wants - a relationship. But I am also making clear that any relationship will be on my terms, and that boundaries must be respected. I expressed this in a recent email - I won't talk to him on the phone because he gets immediately verbose and nasty when I suggest he did something that hurt me, or I assert myself - in his world, everyone he has a relationship with must act like they are his subordinate.\n\nI'm getting massive pushback via email. It's like he didn't even read where I stated that his behavior hurt my feelings and made me feel harrassed. Instead, I get a lot of \"well you did [x] to me and it hurt MY feelings! How could you do that to ME?\" \n\nI admit I've made a lot of mistakes with my father, I've said a lot of things out of anger, but he's had many years to bring these things up with me - he chooses to bring them up when I say how hurt I feel by his treatment, as if \"well you did it too\" somehow justifies everything.\n\nI know his responses are petty bullshit. Retaliatory. Makes me feel manipulated. But I'm not sure how to respond. I *DO* want to apologize for some of the things I've said in anger, but if I do, he goes into \"you screwed up and now you're going to lick my boots...see everybody screws up....let's forgive and forget\" mode, and I end up right where I began, not getting any acknowledgement about MY hurt feelings.\n\nHow do I respond to this? I feel like I'm in a lose-lose situation. I know I cannot change him, but being completely estranged is very painful.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My ex boyfriend and I dated for 7 or so months. He was always really busy and I felt neglected, so much so that I ended the relationship. We had the best sex I have ever had in my life though. We've remained friends.\n\nThen I began to date this other guy, Tom. Tom and I were together for two and a half years. We lived together and everything was great until it wasn't anymore. He is 28 and I'm 25 and he just stopped being attracted to me I guess, because he would never try to sleep with me. I had to initiate everything and half the time he would reject me because he was on adderall or something. We didn't click sexually. In fact, when I told him how I wanted rough sex, he replied about how he \"isn't into rape\" and made me feel really shitty. I broke up with him last Thursday (it was very civil, he didn't try to get me to change my mind, it's very obvious he's no longer interested) and he is in the process of moving out. He's not staying at my house, he is just packing on the weekends (while i stay at my sisters) and should be out by the end of this weekend.\n\nI have been talking to my ex lately about my breakup and he's really been supportive. Not like a \"I want to get in your pants\" supportive, but just a really great listener. He's probably one of my best friends, but I really want to fuck him. In fact we've talked about it. Neither of us want to date again, we just both agreed it was like the best sex ever. My question is - do I go down the sticky friends with benefits road with my ex? I don't want to \"ruin\" our friendship, but we've already had sex before and I kind of feel like this would make our friendship stronger. He's the most open person ever sexually, we explore all kinds of fantasies. Of course I won't be sleeping with anyone until all of Tom's shit is out of my house because I need to make sure I close that door for real. Keep in mind I haven't have sex for about 5 or so months.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My apartment building has a very strange phenomenon where people will just sit in their cars for extended periods of time. Why? I have no fucking clue. This one lady I know for a fact lives there and I see her every afternoon sitting there when I pull in after work, and still sitting there a half hour later after I take a shower. The building faces the ocean, but these people choose to back into the parking spot so they are facing the building, middle of winter so it's cold as balls outside, and just sit there. Doing who the hell knows what. It's so weird.\n\nAnyway one morning I wake up and my roommates rockin a piss already. It's one of those mornings where I simply could not wait 30 seconds for him to finish, I had to piss *now*. I did the only logical thing and swung open the sliding door to the deck (that faces the parking lot/ocean) and do my business in the warm doorway, giving that dirty deck a nice golden shower. \n\nThis happened at 6:15 am. Before I pissed everywhere I was careful to check out the lot. Every single car was off. There was no wind; it was silent. I was sure no cars were running. I scanned each car individually and they all appeared totally empty. Perfect, open the flood gates.\n\nBut as fate would have it, on the one god damn morning I decide to piss out the deck door, halfway through my business some lone motherfucker just swings his car door open and hops out like it's nothing out of the ordinary to sit in his car at 6:15am doing literally nothing. I had my pants pulled down just enough to reveal just my dick; I don't even care if he saw it. I cared more about cutting off the flow and not dribbling all over the inside rug for fuck's sakes.\n\nWhat the fuck though, does anyone else experience this? People who live in a nice cushy apartment yet they will just... sit in their cars, regardless of the time of day?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello there fellow redditors,\ni have a problem and i need your help.^^\nHere goes the Backstory:\nI went to a friends party on the weekend. And there was this girl. I know her for quiet some time now and we have been sort of good friends. We hang out and had some fun. Now later that evening she would get closer to me and eventually we started to cuddle. There was also some kissing involved. ;)\nNow i'm currently working and living in a different city that is quiet far from my hometown(where the party took place). And when i come home i stay at my Moms place. My Mom is not that fund of me bringing home people she does not know in the middle of the night, so we couldn't go to my place. And that girl lives in another town, so we also couldn't go to hers.(Also i needed to catch a train earlier the next day) So i went home alone, even though she hinted that she would like to come back to my place with me.\nSo heres my problem. She is not that kind of girl that has lots of ONS or stuff like this, so this could turn into something more serious.(Which i would like) Now since that day, my brain went all like SUPER MEGA HYPE MODE activated. I believe this could be potentially bad. Do you have any advice on how to calm myself down? XD\n\nAlso English is not my first language. So sorry for all the grammar and spelling mistakes i made.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been friends with this girl for a couple of years already. Just a friend for her, not really for me, not that she knows. I doubt i have any chance, as i know that i am not her type, but i am starting to drown in personal hell and i am planning to proceed with confession. For which i want to give her a gift of a ring, no matter what her answer will be. I chose a very special ring, whose design will have a symbolic meaning, but there is a problem - it can't be resized later on. I need to know the size before ordering. As just a friend i don't have access to her own rings, i can't measure her hand in any way, nor do we have shared female friends whom i could confine with the problem. The only way to do so - is to ask. And so i need advice - how can i ask her about her ring size, without provoking the thought? Or at least do it humorous way, so that she thinks that it's a joke of some sort. Any advice is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Six months in a relationship with my Girlfriend and through our conversations I have come to the conclusion that we are not going to go all the way and that is fine. Basically our biggest issues stem from the fact that she does not have the life experiences that she feels that she needs and I am holding her back. \n\nI have no interest in being controlling and I have no right to tell my GF what she can and can't do but I am also entitled to have feelings about things. I have just let her know which actions I would find disrespectful or hurtful.\n\nAnyway in the short term this is fine and we really enjoy each other. Long term this is going to be a problem. She is not a bad person and I hope I am not either. This just isn't going to work long term.\n\nSo how long does the hive mind think is healthy to stay in a relationship that you know has to end? Everyone is different I would just like to establish a baseline.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit!\n\nI'm really lost and confused here. Me (M) and She both early 20s. \n\nI've been dating this girl for about 4 weeks, 'speaking to' for about 8. Today she tells me that she is Pregnant, from a fling, considered an abortion, but decided that's not for her, and she will become a parent by the end of the year. (She discussed this with me shortly after she found out herself).\n\nI don't know how to handle it, or how I'm supposed to fit into this life of hers. Obviously it means massive massive life changes in a few months time, and a massive shift in priorities either which way. \n\nBut at the moment I'm so confused at to what this means for me too. Last we spoke, I needed time to think, but I need a bit of advice from others external to the situation who can see things 'fresh'.\n\nMy thought process at the moment looks like this?\n\n* I'm not sure if I want kids\n\n* How do I date someone who is Pregnant / New Mother (especially when the child is someone elses)\n\n* How would I handle this if this was my own baby?\n\n* What does she need from me in terms of support?\n\n* Would it be unreasonable to 'break up' and 'cut my losses' as it were? \n\nEt Cetera, et cetera... \n\nSo, I'm struggling with the whole \"thinking\" part. I know at some point we need to sit down and talk together, that is a given. But as it stands now I don't know how to organise my thoughts in a sensible and coherent manner. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry if this is the wrong subreddit for this...\nSo my girlfriend is in our home town at the moment and I'll be traveling there to see her. We both haven't told our parents about our relationship, we have talked about this so we're both comfortable with it. My parents would react extremely surprised and would immediately want to know everything about her and meet her the same day.\n\nI need a car from my parents for the whole day to see her and really need an excuse firstly why I'm in town altogether and secondly why I need a car the whole day... Can you think of an excuse that might work? I still have friends there if that helps.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Seriously, I'm an idiot for getting myself into this.\n\nWhen I fall in love I just automatically give the person the benefit of the doubt, and my trust. Y'know, I thought if you love someone then that automatically means you should be able to trust them. If he tells me he doesn't trust me because he's scared, I'd just believe that shit without a second thought. \n\nAm I really that much of an idiot to just believe that? This guy is totally fucking around, I can't believe I'd be stupid enough to believe otherwise just because of love and just because *I'm* faithful. Stupid, stupid, stupid.\n\nBut now, I'm just going to numb myself out. I'm really good at that. I'm going to constantly assume the worst. I'm going to allow myself to keep falling in love with him (because honestly I couldn't stop myself if I tried) and I'm going to stay just as faithful as I've been this entire time, *but I'm not trusting him for shit*. Fuck that.\n\nI already know what's coming. I've probably been getting played since the beginning, and I'm definitely being played now. I'd be a fucking idiot to think this guy actually loves me. \n\nI mean really, why did I think I was special? What made me think I was so special that he would want to be with me exclusively? I only believed it because that's what I wanted, but what the fuck? Could I be a bigger fucking idiot? Damn.\n\nI'm just going to enjoy it while it lasts. Sooner or later it'll get more obvious that I'm being used and I'll be discarded, or the betraying will become apparent. Whatever comes first. So at least for now I can love him without being fully aware of how I'm being fucked.\n\nIt'll actually be cool to get my heart broken because then I can really numb out. Any faith I have in people would be sucked out and replaced with cold detachment. I'll shut people out of my heart in the name of defense. If I don't trust anyone to begin with, then they would have no chance to fuck me over. Awesome.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm doing much better now, but two or three years ago I went through a pretty bad time. I ended up with several relatively light scars on my forearms, belly, and upper thighs. Those ones are usually not noticeable and while some people point them out they're pretty easy to shrug off. However, I also have much deeper scars running up the entirety of my upper arms, and now that it's summer again and I'm going out in tshirts and tank tops, people won't stop asking about them. They're raised and heavy and very obviously self-inflicted. \n\nIt seems like everyone from my boss to my Spanish professor (in front of the whole class, which is what prompted this post) has pointed them out. Some people are nice about it, and of course some are really rude, but it always makes me uncomfortable because I just don't know what to tell them.\n\nI've tried covering the scars with concealer and followed some home remedies to make them less noticeable but nothing has really worked so far. I don't think they're going away any time soon, and I'm in the American south so it would be difficult to spend all summer in long sleeves or sweaters. \n\nI don't want to feel like my scars are something I should be ashamed of for the rest of my life. But I also don't want to be stuck explaining a very personal and painful part of my history to strangers all the time. With little kids I can spin some crazy story and laugh about it, with adults I usually tell them they're just old scars, but some people really won't take the hint. One of my coworkers straight up told me I was just looking for attention after I tried to shrug it off. But I don't want attention or pity or a therapy session with strangers; I just want to be able to wear short sleeves this summer.\n\nI guess I just don't know the etiquette on this. What can I say to people to let them know that while I appreciate their concern, I really don't want to talk about it? Or should I suck it up and stick with long sleeves for now?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few months ago, a female friend of mine who I've known since elementary school confessed she had romantic feelings towards me. \n\nI don't really reciprocate those feelings, I think, but I don't particularly care if she has a crush on me or not. I don't feel uncomfortable. I just don't want to hurt her feelings or damage our friendship, you know?\n\nAfter confessing, she said she'd try and forget about it. I don't want to act any differently around her or change our friendship just because she likes me, but she has behaved kinda flirtatiously since that time. Now, a few hours ago, she asked me if I wanted to \"go on a movie date in town\". \n\nNormally, I would suggest someone else come along, but this is a movie that everyone else in our friend group saw for its midnight premiere. I agreed to meet her but... I don't want this to be a date. I just want to hang out with a friend. I don't want to avoid spending time with her for \"what if\" situations.\n\nSince nothing has been explicitly said, I don't wanna come flat out \"I only like you as a friend\" unprovoked. It seems presumptuous to do so.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "there's this girl in my group of friends. we're in our late 20s and it's a mixed group of people. she's great but i noticed she has this quirk that's starting to get on my nerves.\n\noften when we hang out, she tells us how close she is to different guys in our group (obviously those guys aren't around when she says these things). not in a romantic way, but more in a prideful way.... to show how close and deep her connection is to these guys. it's often about personal things, about how those guys regularly feel comfortable to talk about their dating, family, personal lives with her.\n\nSometimes it's subtle (\"oh, dave and i just chatted about that issue over the phone last night\"), and sometimes it's not (\"he wouldn't do that. joe and i are really close. he's always told me about that thing since high school.\")\n\nwhat's going on here?\n\ni'm not threatened by her closeness to these guys. i'm a dude and many of these guys are my good friends. it's just weird that she's always talking about it and makes me think that it's a clue for some other issue entirely.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently in a Long Distance Relationship with my girlfriend. We're both in the US going to college on opposite sides of the country. We were high school sweethearts and have made it through almost 2 full years of college. We have a very loving relationship and I'm very happy to be in a relationship with her. \n\nMy girlfriend (let's call her Sue) is in a sorority and is very active in it. She recently went to a dance they call Formal, and had a blast. It's custom to take a date to these things, and since I wasn't there she took someone whose friends were going but otherwise wasn't technically allowed into the dance. I didn't have a problem with it because I figured they would just hang out with their separate friend groups once in the dance. \n\nSue told me that's exactly what happened and how she even got stood up by the guy - he kind of just showed up with his friends at the dance instead of meeting up beforehand. I was glad she had a good time despite that.\n\nI just checked Facebook and Sue has a new profile picture. It's her and the guy from last night. She is laughing and having a good time, with her hands on his back, and he's doing a somewhat funny face. It's a cute picture, but for some reason her having another guy in her Facebook profile picture makes me uncomfortable. \n\nI scrolled through some of her other pictures and this guy turns up on more than one occasion, even before the dance. I want to ask her if it's the same guy, but she is currently in a dance *performance* (not the same as the Formal she went to last night) so she is unreachable. \n\nNormally I'm not very jealous at all, but seeing that picture just made me sad and feel like I was being replaced for some reason. \n\nMy question is, is there any reason for me to be jealous? If not, please talk some sense into me! We've also been getting in a bunch of small arguments lately so I'd rather handle this in the easiest, most un-confrontational manner. I don't want to fight over this if it's nothing.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My coworker (I'll call him Alex) is a touchy feely guy. At first I didn't mind. Now I mind a whole lot. \n\nAlex will come up to me, and a few other female coworkers, and tickle us. 95% of the time it's unexpected and I don't even know he's coming up to me. It's always on my back, back of legs/knees, arm, elbow areas- basically commonly ticklish areas. \n\nThe first few times it was funny. Then it got annoying. Then it got downright creepy. I started gently saying \"please don't do that.\" I'm not sure if Alex thought I was kidding or what?\n\nNow, even as I back away from Alex when I know he's about to do it, Alex corners me/follows so he can tickle me. No lie.\n\nEarlier this week, I said \"do not touch me, Alex.\" The next day he was tickling me again. I said don't, and Alex just continued to try and touch me and mocked the way I said don't. \n\nI'm at my wits end. I am so uncomfortable, this makes me anxious, and I am starting to get nervous just being near him. Yes, I'm starting I get scared of my coworker. I honestly don't know though - maybe he thinks I'm kidding, maybe I'm not saying don't firmly enough. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello /r/relationships!\n\nMe and my SO for 3 months have been having a hard time expressing our feelings and it is kind of slowly breaking the relationship. \n\nSo a little background: I've been seeing this girl for almost 10 months now, however we didn't officially start dating until this September. \n\nWe click on a lot of levels and have a fantastic sex life.\n\nWe both had long-term relationships before this one that kind of messed us up too.\n\nMy question is, she will sometimes text me stuff like \"<3 <3 <3\" or \"thinking about you ;)\" and I never know how to respond.\n\nMy ex-girlfriend never did stuff like that and it feels weird to me text feelings like that. \n\nSo when I respond with \"ok :)\" or \":D <3\" she will get pretty upset and try to take back what she said because to her she feels like she is being rejected.\n\nHow can I make her understand that its not that I'm rejecting her, I just don't know what to do in that type of situation?\n\nThe L-word hasn't been said, but i've been hinting around it for a while and just waiting for the right time.\n\nI do think that I really do love this girl and want her for the long haul but I feel like this is just making it very hard\n\nAny advice will be greatly appreciated :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It's a long story and it doesn't really matter but essentially my friend's sister (lives in WI) met someone on Match.com and has sent somewhere in the neighborhood of $30k to this Internet woman who claims to live in Oregon.\n\nBased on [this Travel.state.gov report] (not to mention *common sense*) it is beyond a doubt that this person is a scammer.\n\nFor anyone who finds this thread in the future, a [quick search] of Reddit turned up the following similar old threads: [1] [2] [3] [4](\n\nThe scammer *IS* a real person, a white female with a foreign accent who claims to be Italian-American, has talked to my friend's sister on Skype, and based on some basic sleuthing has a phone number that seems to be a land line in Oregon. She claims to run an antique business that does appear to have a website, but there is zero actual information on it so it pretty clearly looks like a shell.\n\nSo far here are the best tips I've seen:\n\n* Reverse image search this lady's Match.com photos\n* Investigate the land line and antique business (not sure how)\n\nI would *happily* post this scammer's personal information on 4chan or wherever if I really knew how that worked but I understand the \"not your personal army\" business.\n\nIt has gotten so bad that my friend and other members of the family are saying that this sister needs to give them financial power of attorney so that she doesn't keep sending all her SSI checks to this sketchy woman. It's a good step but if the sister doesn't go along with it it'll never happen.\n\nI've seen advice on here before that ultimately going after the scammer isn't going to lead anywhere, and the problem needs to be fixed at home. I'm just asking to make sure.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, there's a lot going on here.\n\nI'm starting to wonder if I ever really loved my girlfriend. We just started hooking up and we're both \"nice\" people so it just grew from that. It is an \"ok\" relationship, functional and mature but there's never been much chemistry. I just feel like it's run it's course and we're not a good long term fit for living together/marriage/kids etc..\n\nI'm only really thinking about this because we've actually been quite close for the last year because her father was ill. Being supportive was the right thing to do and it's actually an easy role to do for someone you care about. He died recently and we can once again focus on each other but I find myself not really reentering the relationship or being particularly happy in the relationship. \n\nAt the same time, I've fallen in love with a new friend of a friend. We spend a lot of time together and I just click with her. She's amazing. I know she's not perfect and no one is but I can't help feeling this way (I'm not one to easily fall in love). I find myself smiling when I just think of her and she's always on my mind. I don't know how she feels at all (she's single but it's complicated) and I would never cheat on my girlfriend.\n\nMy girlfriend is still sort of recovering from her grieving process and with the holidays coming I feel like I'm trapped. I want to break up with her and I don't feel like I can as it would be so much more painful to her now. On the other hand, I feel awful that every minute I'm with her I'd rather be with this other girl or even alone.\n\nWhat should I do? I feel like I can't tell anyone because all my friends know at least one of the people. I don't want to break up with my girlfriend so soon after her father dying but I feel horrible that I love someone else and I'm not interested anymore.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit. Newcomer, here! I've been lurking for ages. Too long, in fact. So this was an excuse to change that because Reddit is the best place for this. My name was originally just to be quick, but now I'm going to continue with it!\n\nHere's the fuckin' deal. I am a college freshman currently taking English 102. My research topic is Internet Censorship. I'm supposed to do an observational study. I am allowed to use the internet itself, for example, a forum or, hell, even Reddit. Somebody viewed Occupy Wall Street for a paper about a person's voice in the world. Another person attended a lecture about Transcendentalism for her chosen topic of Thoreau. \n\nMy problem, what the fuck can I do? I am at a complete loss for this. \nThe stance I will be taking is AGAINST censorship of the internet. I've thought about pushing the envelope on a forum to see how much I can get away with before I begin getting censored\nAlso, if internet censorship has affected you, whether financially, emotionally, or in ANY form, I would enjoy an email interview with you. \nI need interviews as well...\n\nSORRY for the wall of text. Be like Good Guy Greg and help me out, please! I will be in your debt forever. \n\nThank you!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Title says a lot of it.\n\nShe was dating a guy when I met her. We became good friends and were able to talk pretty openly.\n\nShe would tell me she \"needed\" to have sex roughly once-a-day, good for her and for the guy.\n\nWinter break of last year comes around and she's unhappy in her relationship and cheats on the guy with me (I, to this day, feel terrible about this and have let the guy know how awful I feel about what I did). \n\nIt wasn't just a fling we were very attached to each other and I knew I loved her very quickly into our relationship. I know she loves me as well.\n\nWe never had a very good sex life (I bombed the first few times) and it has never recovered. I've tried talking about it, spicing things up, being spontaneous, etc. Nothing works. She says she wants to have sex and that we need to do it more often, but it really doesn't happen. I believe she has sex with me just enough to keep me around and keep me from having the conversation again. (roughly once a month)\n\nI want to fix this because I do love her, but she's already slowed down her sex drive. If we were to get married and have kids it would affect it that much more. \n\nAny advice?\n\nOH, i forgot to mention, her reasoning behind the lack of sex is: \"You will pay attention to me even if we don't have sex, he would just roll over and go to sleep if I didn't have sex with him\". I'm being punished for being a better bf I guess.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My neighbor and I have established an awesome relationship since summer (around July) of 2014. He's a great guy, a great father, and we have a lot in common, including lawn care. Being the guy that I am, if he has asked for help with his lawn, I've always given it, including borrowing the lawn mower, weed eater, and edger. He often pays for gas for equipment, repairs is if something is wrong or off, and always makes sure that both lawns (mine and my mother's) to great effect. But my mother feels like he is taking too much of an advantage of her and her equipment, and even me. She believes that he should pay me for the work I do with him, considering the cost of using the equipment, wear and tear, gas, time, etc.\n\nI'm not sure how to tell him that, and I'm scared that if I do it wrong, I'm going to lose a great friend, and an even better neighbor. Can anyone offer me some advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try my best and keep this a short post.\nAs the title says, our relationship has been spiraling downwards recently, and we just barely got through our 4 year anniversary. We both are unsure why but we argue so much the past couple months, and now it's reached a point where we are both sick of fighting and we both don't know what is wrong with us. On top of that, she made a point that we are both still young and I have not dated anyone else before (she is my first girlfriend so far, I want to keep it that way) and that I should see other girls because she is afraid that I will get bored of her in the future and possible cheat on her (I have no intention to). My girlfriend has several ex's but they are from when she was around 14 years old maybe younger, and they were 'stupid' high school crushes and that I was the first proper boyfriend.\nI'm also studying in Sydney for 4 years (we both live in Hong Kong) and we barely managed to do 1 year of long distance relationship, and she is unsure if she can handle 4 more years of LDR. She suggested we take a break from each other to see other people while I am away but now we are talking about if we should break up entirely.\n\nIs this just some silly young love? Do I actually need to date other girls? I doubt any other girl will be as good as her, even if she is my first and only girlfriend. I value this relationship too much. She does too, but it's not working out anymore.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I was driving to Upstate NY to help my SO move some of her deceased grandmother's possessions home. I had just driven from CA to VA without an incident. I was 13 minutes from my destination. A police officer was passing me as I looked at my GPS, which is on my phone, which was resting on my knee. He pulls me over. Mind you I was going the exact speed limit in the right most lane. \n\nTurns out that in the state of NY, I dont live there and I have obonly been there like 2 times prior, that driving while holding an electronic device of any type is illegal. So he takes my license and does a check in his car. It takes forever for him to do the lookup. While he was doing the lookup another officer pulls in behind him.\n\nI have watched cops before. It is never a good sign when backup arrives. I am thinking that I have some hidden parking ticket or warrant. Great I think, as I soil my pants just a little. The officer comes back up to my window. He hands me my license and apologizes that he is force to give me a ticket. He is nice enough to give me the DA's number and lets me use his pen, so long as I dont stab him in the neck with it. I asked if it would get me out of the ticket, had I stabbed him in the neck. He said no. \n\nI thanked the officer and asked if I were allowed to drive while holding printed instructions. He informed me thst in NY, at least, I could be drinking coffee, smoking a cigarette, eating breakfast, and read the Sunday paper. I just needed to keep one hand on the wheel. I thanked him and went on my way.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In my class, we're discussing greenhouse gases, and how humans are affecting the planet/climate. I saw a video a few months ago (I think it was from BBC?) about the permafrost beginning to melt in Russia, releasing tons of methane. I found the BBC video explaining that, but I saw a really awesome video about one scientist who has attempted to reverse the permafrost melt in one area and has succeeded. He bought a lot of herd animals that trampled the snow into the ground, and cut down some of the vegetation, and it has helped keep the permafrost cool enough to prevent methane release in that area. Does anyone remember that video, and if so, can you help me find it? I'm not having much luck.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my current GF for about 4 months now. Every since we've been together, everything has been fine. I've been perfectly happy with the way she looks, and everything about her. She's kind of conservative so we've just got to third base, but she just admitted to me that she hates for me to see her naked because she's gained a lot of weight in the last few months and she's uncomfortable with the way her body looks.\n\nI want her to get back into shape, and for her to be happy with herself and the way she looks. How should I go about doing that?\n\nI'm going to help her workout by going with her, but I'm only available to see her 2, maybe 3 days out of the week due to our schedules. Right now she has an ancient phone and keeps on talking about how she wants to get a iPhone, and she always wants to go to visit different cities. I was thinking about encouraging her by having her losing an X amount of pounds, and I'd get her either a new phone or take her on a vacation.\n\nAre there any negatives by doing this? I want to keep her motivated since I'm always working. \n\nAny additional tips or suggestions would be appreciated.\n\nThank you!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back story: We are a LDR relationship of sorts. At times we are separated by distance (different colleges) and other times by an overprotective parent (she was raised by her grandparents actually). We probably see each other only a few times a month at best, even when she is only minutes away. This is both of our first relationship. \n\nWe've always had issues with sexual matters. She would like to wait to be married to have sex. When we are together, we do mutual masturbation. Which I was okay with for a while but she is not always the most considerate partner. Most of the time she shows no interest in making me satisfied. \n\nI have tried talking to her but it seems I can only ever manage to get a few inches and it always seems to make her more bitter about it. The most recent talk was right before her grand father died a few months ago. I've tried to be as patient and caring as possible but I think resentment has been keeping me from being so as much as I could be. \n\nRight now would be a horrible time for me to break up with her. A lot of her family life is in turmoil and she is coming into her last semester of school and I am her sole emotional support. But waiting, I think would be worse. It makes me feel trapped which only increases the resentment. And she doesn't deserve that. \n\nIdeally, I could remain her friend and support her but I am not idealistic enough to think that will happen. Which is sad. She is my best friend, even though I think the resentment has poisoned that some too \n\nOn that note, if we broke up, I would likely lose a good deal of my friends but I would not begrudge them for that. They have been to her friends for a lot longer than they have been mine.\n\nFuck. I an bad at this. I have been thinking about this too long and I have lost sight of what is relevant or not too the matter so apologies if this seems scattered.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi all, not sure if I selected the right tag or not but I wanted to get your opinions and advice on a predicament I have.\n\nNext year my wife and child are going to move out as we are going to get divorced. As horrible as this will be, I need to focus on the future and for myself to be happy.\n\nOne thing I have always wanted to do and couldn't when my wife was here was to get a dog. I grew up with dogs and love them. I have really wanted a dog for years but my wife didn't want them. \n\nAnyway, as I would be divorced, it would mean I would be living on my own (in an apartment). I am concerned that it wouldn't really be fair on the dog to work a full time job and only spend time with it in the evenings and have it stay at home all day on its on.\n\nWhat are your thoughts and opinions on this sort of case? Particularly dog owners who live on their own - what do you do? \n\nAnother important matter is that I live in this country on my own, so I couldn't have family come over and see it etc (they are all back in England, whilst I'm in the USA).\n\nAnyway, sorry for the long post, but I wanted to see what you all thought on this? What advice you may have or if you can think of any tips? As much as I would love to get a dog, I want to get it in the right circumstances so I can be sure it is happy", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I always date crazy girls, the bad ones, hot but nutty, some friends are like I wish I could date that girl right up until she snaps and they see that and are like wow, glad it wasn't me.\n\nIt's a running joke among my friends at this point, nearly every girl I've met has some kind of disorder, they're clingy or bipolar or just aggressive, they're all kinky, almost every girl I've dated we've done some form of hardcore role play/bdsm. Nearly every time we act out these fucked up destructive scenarios that even some of bdsm folk I know were like that's intense.\n\nIt's just crazy, it's like a damn drug to me, I meet these really nice normal chicks occasionally and it's just like why can't I be attracted to you, why can't I like you. Sometimes I feel like I'm cursed to just date the girls who are bad for me, it's an addiction and I dunno what to do. \n\nIf there's something messed up with a girl and she's moderately attractive but there's a normal but extremely hot girl I always go for the nutty one and I do mean nutty. \n\nI dunno if I'm posting this in the right place, guess I just need someone or some people to give me some advice here, I'm gonna be heading into my thirties in a couple years and I want to be able to settle down, I don't want the girl whose a fucking tornado as the one I spend my life with, sure it's fun, but I've been there and been through so much with several of these girls and it's wearing me down as a person. \n\nAt 28 I feel emotionally/mentally exhausted.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened to me like 20 minutes.\n\nSo today was the first day of tafe. i honestly was expecting a terrible day ( because i left yr 12 to attend), but my expectations were exceded. There were only 3 other students in the class and there was a pair of good friends making the feel of the classroom bubbly and fun to be in. I had a good time so i whipped out my phone and music and started my way back to the train station. As i was really happy what had happened today i wasnt looking at the path i was walking on and this is where i TIFU.\n\nmy foot encountered a slimy surface as it walked over it. curious as i was i looked behind me... and there is was a huge piece of shit smeared over 30 cms long. i thought it mustve been like that. i look at the bottom of my shoe and it went from a black surface to a complete brown colour. so i spend about 3 minutes trying rub my shoe in te grass but the genius i was it sunk into the cracks of my shoe. best part was if i wasnt trying to clean it i wouldnt have mossed my train and now i have to wait 20mins...", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Just got inside from my apartment balcony after a half hour of trying to fish an envelope off the balcony below me with a tent pole. So I was going to throw my credit card down to my son's mom who was going to buy him some Pop Tarts because I'm on the 3rd floor and she'd just run down with the wrong card by accident and didn't want to come back up. I put it in a random envelope that was on my table just because it felt like the right thing to do before tossing it down and the envelope caught the wind and sailed onto the balcony directly beneath mine, which belongs to an unoccupied apartment. Too far from my balcony or the ground floor for a broom to reach, maintenance guy not available, I ponder 5 minutes or so. A light bulb flashes in my head....tent pole. I inserted each segment of the pole into the end of the other, but ultimately when I held it vertically the weight of it pulled it apart. Pulled it back up, scotch taped each joint (no good tape in the apartment, of course), gave it another 20 minutes, and bam, knocked it to the ground and went down and got it. My son's enjoying a blueberry poptart....Fuck yeah", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My former high school (I have moved away and graduated from college and started m life in another state) recently made the news on my Facebook feed for banning The Bluest Eye by Toni Morrison. The school board, earlier this year, approved he purchase of a classroom set, and it was on the syllabus since before school even started. The instructor gave a trigger warning and offered an alternate book (for those unaware, this book deals with incest/rape/racism). The students started the book, then a couple days in, the principal interrupted the class, snatched all the books from the students. \n\nI am against censorship. As a parent, I may not be encouraging my child to read this when she is younger, however, this is an AP English/History course of 11th graders. They are old enough to decide for themselves. A majority of these kids are college-bound, and this course is very similar to a college-level course. The instructors, one of whom I know, are very well-read and are always on hand for clarification/further understanding/questions/whatever from the students. As near-adults who have experienced 17 years of life now, a lot of the themes may be easy to relate to. Books not banned from this course/school include: Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, The Grapes of Wrath, and The Catcher in the Rye. \n\nDespite not living in my hometown any longer, I want to do something. I know someone started a petition on Change.org, but is there anything that can be done, like someone specific to contact or maybe a way to educate the public on the necessity of reading this book? My youngest sister is actually attending this school, and the students have expressed a desire to finish their book. The teachers both need help standing up for themselves as well.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this story started a week ago and concluded today. I live in a house, and my neighbours are 1 abbandoned house(some lady emigrated to Canada) and the other one is still a construction site, and its being like this for atleast 2 years since i moved in. That means there are lot of mice nesting in those 2 buildings. Being winter those little buggers always try to get in my house via the open door. Usually they are murdered by my trustworthy cocker spaniel but somehow this one kept escaping her for about a week. My wife started nagging me to get some traps and get the motherfucker, but i always said that i have faith in the dog. \n\n Today after i came from work, while my wife was cooking dinner i was browsing the inernets, suddenly my monitors black out, and the fan from my video card goes full throttle. I have a 290x reference so the fan goes real loud like 2 vacuum cleaners and 2 hair dryers all on max speed kinda like this . I power down the pc remove the panel and check the video card. I switch the bios from UBER mode to normal and power the pc again trying to determine if it was a bios issue. The fan goes again 100% and a mouse jumps from unused hdd bays. I power the pc down, remove the video card and see some mouse piss on it. \n\n The little fucker literally pissed on my card. I took the isopropyl alcohol and washed the back of the card real good the used a hair dryer on it for about 3 mins. Plugged in and it freaking worked!! Meanwhile the little fucker was laying dead in the middle of my living room with my dog wagging her tail proudly.When he jumped from my pc case he jumped right in front of my dog and got what it deserved by pissing on my precious. Also found out that he got inside the case by entering in the slot where i had a tv-tuner which i removed and forgot to put the back plate.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have always been confused since I was 13. I would usually watch gay porn mostly, but also watched straight.\n\nI would have a crush on girls or guys, but girls I felt more emotional about, guys more physical. Sometimes though I feel like I forced myself to crush on girls because that's what I wanted, but I really don't know.\n\nI was almost ready to just say I'm gay and be done with the confusion, but I met this girl and fell in love with her.\n\nShes my best friend and I love her, its just physically I don't know what it is I like.\n\nWe have sex, I get hard, everything goes fine just like you would expect. I just feel sometimes like I would like a male more, but I can still do everything and like it with a female.\n\nSometimes I feel like the only reason I get aroused during the sex is because it feels good, and the fact shes female just doesn't effect me.\n\nI have arguments in my head back and forth and don't know what to think?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A year ago I had a vague, pipe-dreamy idea for an interesting software project - a way of visually mapping politics in a procedural way. It got buried under the backend of my degree, until recently when I began to develop it as a commercial for-profit product. I am not a programmer in the slightest, but I've got a good idea of how this system might look, feel and function. I will explain more about this, but I'm posting for directions on where to look for people to get involved more than as a pitch.\n\nEven though I think this would work as a profitable, commercial product, it shouldn't be. It has to be free and open-source if it's really to meet its potential. I don't need to go through the various items of news that has led to the current climate of outrage against governments, but I will say that this has contributed to my decision to go open-source or nothing. I'm not sure I would be comfortable making money off this project, even though it will take skills, I think these exist in the public domain of willing volunteers.\n\nI realise I might end up explaining the whole thing, which is a big job, and I *will* do if necessary in an edit.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im going to green text this cause it's the only way I can explain.\n\n\\> Be me\n\n\\> 17, bored, horny af\n\n\\>Birthday is coming up next week\n\n\\> Pick up my phone and start texting GF\n\n\\> Ask her how her day was, etc.\n\n\\> finally we get to a pause\n\n\\> thisismychance.gif\n\n\\> *hey my b-day is coming up next week, anything you want to do?*\n\n\\>*not really* she replies\n\n\\> *well we could uhhh.... do the do?*\n\n\\> *what?*\n\n\\> abort.jpg\n\n\\> *I have only known you a month you . I don't think I can stay with you if this is how you're gonna act*\n\n\\> fuck me, i am an idiot\n\n\\> Bye for now, don't talk to me in the morning please\n\n\\> relationship.exe has been terminated, no backups found\n\nI swear to god I did not mean for this to happen, I am a selfish idiot. I did apologize, but to no avail. Am I a bad guy for wanting this? I'm probably an asshole.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First post, so please, only kind insults. \n\nThe horrible fruit of this fuck-up was reaped today, but sown last week. I work for a university, and developed a small crush on a girl (medical student) in another building who works in a friend's department. I began swinging by for \"coffee\" (i.e. sheepishly making woo and spending precious few seconds with crush) pretty regularly. Ostensibly, I was there to see my friend, while I actually was plotting to get a few seconds alone with this girl so that I could ask her to, erm, spend more seconds alone. She's pretty quiet, and though I'm not, we both tend to get drowned out in conversation by her boss, my friend, and another person in the department who seems to be constantly incensed by something or another. \n\nSo one day, after a frustrating encounter in which we (crush and I) both sat silently while other people in the room took turns shouting about the outrage du jour, I decided to write her a note. I was pretty cute about it. Wrote it on a piece of paper from the legal pad I had at my desk, put it in an official departmental envelope, then slipped that into a big interdepartmental envelope to be delivered. Bureaucracy at its finest. \n\nIt showed up today. Her boss decided it'd be fun to have her read it aloud. I was very gentlemanly and upright with this note, but it still managed to piss just about everyone off. My crush was mortified, her boss went on a tirade about how staff members (me) shouldn't date medical students (her), and my friend had to basically play my attorney/PR rep for the rest of the day trying to mitigate the catastrophe. The boss, in a move I can either describe as overly maternal or overly 19th century, forbade her from dating me. \n\nAlso, her boss is one of my references on an important application I put in with another department. So, ya know, that's pretty neat too, I guess.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bf and I have been together for about 2 years, in the beginning we took it slow, physically. Not necessarily on purpose, but because we both lived with our parents and our job schedules made it such that we had little time to get intimate.\n\nWhen we started to get intimate, it was very good. He is the best lover I've ever had. Given our living situation and our work schedules, we only got the opportunity for sex maybe 1x/week, at most 2x/week. He was never a sex-crazed guy who needed it all the time or even more than 1-2x/week. I, in some but not all of my past relationships, was used to sex more often, but in our situation it worked. \n\nOur relationship is really really good. He respects me, is ambitious, has a good job, gets along well with my family, etc etc. The problem is that in the last 6 months maybe, our sex life has really been lacking. Recently it's been 1x/month, and I'm afraid that this will end up ruining what I think is an otherwise perfect relationship. When we do have sex, I enjoy it so much, but I can't say i necessarily feel the need to have sex more often. Maybe that's because I'm so busy that I don't think about sex as much as i used to when I was less busy...\n\nWe both still have very different work schedules, he works evenings and I work days, so we rarely have sex at night. Usually it's in the morning but recently it seems that we are too busy even for that. To put into context, he recently started a new job where the hours are longer and we don't see each other as much.\n\nI am worried that we will lose that intimate part of our relationship, to the point where it'll get more platonic. Before him, i was used to having a lot of sex in a relationship, so even to begin with his lower sex-drive was an adjustment. Has anyone else been in a situation similar to this and can give me advice? did everything turn out okay?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I started \"casually\" seeing this guy, he warned me up front that he was going through the break up of a 4 year long marriage and it had only been a few months. \n\nSince he didn't really seem like someone I could see \"long term\" possibilities with I went with it anyways - he's cool and fun and that's all I wanted anyways. No rushin'.\n\nSince then I've developed feelings for him and he has been so great and cool about it all. He talks about me to his friends, we hang out with each others friends. Focus on not just having sloppy drunk sex, etc. Not really the stuff \"casual\" is made of. \n\nHe has started counselling and is focusing on himself and doing everything right, that he should be at this point.\n\nI, on the other hand, am feeling like it's a really bad time to be falling for him. I don't wanna put pressure on him to have to take care of my feelings right now - I think it will just lead to me getting hurt. Not to mention getting in the way of where he's trying to go right now. \n\nThe best thing I can think of is just pulling back and settling into just friends. Genuinely, without any ulterior motives. The problem is I don't know if i'd actually be cool with that - what if we are at a party with friends and he goes home with someone else? I'd be so bummed out. I try hanging out with other dudes too - but I just spend the entire time wishing I was hanging out with the person I actually wanna be making out with. \n \nIs there a way of being like \"hey call me as soon as you are over being heart broken\" ? Put him in my phone as \"call him in 2017\" ? Fake a \"just friends\" friendship till I make it (I'm sure i will - it's not been that long that I've had these feelings and I'll be fine) ?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I pulled a total bonehead maneuver today. Background: I take pills daily for blood pressure, cholesterol, acid reflux and Parkinson's. Most of them I take around 5, after I'm home from work. Two of the Parkinson's I have to also take when I wake up at 5, then at 9 and 1. Usually, I fill up the Pill daily box on Sunday night. But I was feeling lazy and I had missed the evening of Saturday and the afternoon of Sunday, so I had two doses ready to go. I figured I'd take the morning dose from one of those and refill for today, then do the whole week tonight. So, I'm up at 5 but not awake. I take the morning dose fine, but when I went to fill up for the missing daily does for today, I find a bottle of carbo/levo in the Target bottle.\nSo wait, there's more setup. Target fills the prescription with non-generic but I have switched to the mail pharmacy my health plan likes cause I get three months for the price of one. The Target bottle pill is smaller and a white table so I think, that's what the real thing should look like. What the heck, I have to use up those, so I put in it. And that's the one I take at 9 a.m.\nThe problem, Target does sell me my Ambien prescription and it puts it in the \"You're Never Going to Open This Sucker\" bottle. I had gotten tired of opening that bottle, so I put it in a all-used up carbo/levo bottle. I don't take my sleeping pills daily, just when I need them, so I know they're kept beside the t.v. Well, I know when I'm awake.\nI took the pill while I was on a email call, which aren't too hard, but I find myself losing focus. I get off the call and I get my review with my lead who has since moved on to another position so it's been a while. I'm feeling sick and falling asleep. I leave work wondering what the heck is wrong with me now and don't remember the bottle switch till I'm on the bus.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been together for 10 months and the last months have been a bit hard because I am out of the country for 5 months for an exchange program.\n\nI'm 20 years old and this is my first relationship. I have had sex with 2 other people before him (one night stands).\nThe sex with my boyfriend is good and he makes me happy. But I feel like, given my lack of experience, I can't yet decide for myself if he is the one. I'm not just talking about sex, I'm talking about compatibility in general. He loves me with all his heart, and I love him back, but some doubt slipped into my mind.\n\nI'm asking myself whether it wouldn't be better for me to be single for a while, to have fun, sleep around, don't worry about a relationship. And also: build a personality of my own and finding myself (this may sound cliche, but I feel like I need to find myself).\n\nIn short: I'm afraid that I'm giving up my good years, that I'm settling too soon, that I'm missing my chance on more experiences with sex and dating and that I don't fully know yet who I am and what I want in life.\n\nFor these reasons, it would be better to break up. But I'm not sure if that's the best thing to do because I do love him and I can see myself with him in 5 years. And I would feel bad to hurt him that much.\n\nSo, my questions: do you think living free for a while is worth losing a potential husband? Is it normal to have these doubts? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (26M) have been dating this girl (21F) for somewhere over a month now. I recently told her that we should be exclusive, but I am starting to regret that. There are a couple issues: first, the physical distance between us and, second, her disproportionate feelings toward me. \n\nHer parents live about 20 minutes away from me so the distance wasn't a big deal for our first couple of dates. However, she is an undergraduate in a college that is 2.5 hours away from the city that I live/grad school that I attend. I've gone up and spent the weekend at her place, and she recently came down and split time with her family and me. \n\nThat's when we had a conversation, and we agreed to be exclusive. We agreed to take turns seeing each other every 2 weeks or so. We text and skype quite often to compensate for the lack of personal interaction. \n\nIt's obvious to me that she has intense feelings toward me, but I just don't feel such mad \"love.\" Example: I barely use facebook except for the chat function, but she just litters my wall with stuff. At the end of our recent meetup where she came to see me, she actually cried when it was time to say goodbye for 2 weeks. \n\nDon't get me wrong. We get along great. We have a similar sense of humor and similar nerdy interests and similar political views. Our sexual compatibility is ridiculous. I just don't feel this young adoration that she seems to feel for me. \n\nI really don't know what to do; I'm a total relationship noob. I'm worried that the distance is too inconvenient. I'm worried that I'm going to break her little heart. I indirectly tossed out the idea of an open relationship to her, but she did not go for it at all. We get along great, but part of me thinks I should break it off. I've tentatively agreed to visit her in a couple of weeks. Help?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Three weeks ago, I had very awkward, drunk, sex with a guy I'm really into. We'd been hanging out for a couple months. He initiated so I felt confident that he didn't feel pressured or like I was being a creep. \n\nSince then I have asked him to hang out twice and on both occasions he had plans. The second time he offered to reschedule for this week so I said \"sure how about wednesday?\" and I haven't heard from him in 2 days. \n\nAfter we had sex, he texted me the next day and we've been keeping in friendly contact. But I still feel like he's avoiding me. If he liked me and wanted to spend time with me, why can't he find a single day in almost a month to hang out with me? I don't want to seem clingy by asking more than twice and pushing the issue. If he wanted to see me, he would, right?\n\nSo where do I go from here? Should I just assume he's not interested? I can take a hint but I would rather he be an adult about it and just say \"hey I don't really wanna see you anymore.\" I'm tired of guessing and I thought I would ask for some advice rather than get upset and text him something I regret.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a little awkward for me to share because I don't like to kiss and tell, but it's been bothering me and I can't get it out of my head. I want to know if this is as messed up as I think it is, or if I'm overreacting. \n\nMy girlfriend uses birth control, so we have sex without condoms, but as an extra precaution when I come, I pull out and come on her. The last time we had sex, right after I came, she commented about how much nicer it was that it all sort of pooled into one place (I pull her close to me and it has nowhere to go), unlike her ex, who I guess splattered all over her. \n\nI fully understand that I'm not the only guy she's had sex with. I may even have been open to talking about it in some other context. But to me, when I literally just pulled out and came on you, the last thing I want to hear is anything about your ex, and especially nothing comparing sex with me to sex with him. It threw me off my game for a minute and I got cold/distant. She complained that my reaction hurt her feelings and I could tell she wanted me to apologize or something. It was very late and I was tired, so I did. \n\nThe more I think about it, though, the more it bothers me. I feel like I was right. She's going to think whatever she's going to think, but to vocalize about sex and ex in the same sentence when I was just inside you seems like the height of rudeness. \n\nAm I wrong to feel this way? I'm curious how many of you would find it offensive, or if you think I'm being an idiot.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I meet this girl that had a huge crush on me. She wouldn't leave me alone, like she would draw picture of me and send them to me over facebook, at my graduation ceremony from school she ran up and hugged me and wouldn't let me go until I went berserk and told her to get off me. Our friend circles blended over a little and I felt quite bad for blowing my lid at her at my graduation cause it might've been kinda embarrassing since she was in the grade below me, and she asked me to go out on a date with her and if I don't enjoy it I'll never have to deal with her again. \n\nSo I went on this date with her, didn't enjoy it mainly cause she just sat there in silence. So it was time for me to drive her back home, she gets in and starts striping down and I told her I'm really not in the mood and she eventually started putting her clothes back on. She kept up her side of the promise and I never had to deal with her again. \n\nDuring my mid-semester break I met up with another girl that was pretty cool, we kept in contact while I was at uni. Now this girl met the crazy one and asked me what happened with this other girl cause she said \"We [plzhelpme121] dated for a while and then when we got to have sex and then I left her\". \n\nNow that my mid-semester break is coming up soon I wanted to see if I could pursue something with the sane girl, which I have explained myself to and I don't know what to do and don't feel like dealing with this shit atm.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been seeing this girl for almost a month and we really like each other, but ever since I've been hanging out with her my credit card dept has increased by 1500 dollars....on top of that I also owe 10000 in dept to student loans + car payments. I want to get rid of this dept asap, this way I'll be able to build my capital. \n\nSo when I told her that I want to cut down on my spending she said that it was a huge turn off for her and that what I said is a dealbreaker. \n\nSo should I just let the two of us break up, while I'm still not fully emotionally attached to her, or should I find a compromise with her? Or should I allow us to break up without resistance because she couldn't understand that I need to work on my finances (knowing that this issue would cause problems in the long run)?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Dr. X used to be my professor. He is in his 30s. I am 24. I switched my major and he is now my advisor and I am completely crushing. He is single and has asked me to do research with him.\n\nI need to know what I should do? Will this work out or is it a bad idea? We seem to have quite a bit in common and our conversations are really easy and flow. I just know we will be working together over the next two years and it will develop if we are into it. I am just at the point where I just want to see him every second and tell him, hey, I like you.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We're known each other from the internet for 7 years, exchanged pics, talked a lot in the past on the internet, liked each other a lot, but in the last 2 years, none of us kept in touch. \n\nWe work in different cities, 6-7 hours car distance. \n\nA few months ago, my job offered me the opportunity to work in his city, for 5 months. One week before I left, I contacted him and asked him out; he didn't know I was there. He accepted and we stayed like 6 hours to talk without any sexual or romantic topic. \n\nAt the end of the \"date\" he asked me when I'm coming back and he said that \"now you have my number, you can call me at any time\". And I told him that maybe we will see each other again and he said \"of course we will\" and that's it, he hadn't contacted me since and I don't know if I shoud do it, but I dont wanna push things... \n\nNow a little of myself: I'm recently out of a 5 year relationship and planned to relocate in that city and I feel stuck with this guy in my mind, because he is as I always known him: smart, interesting, people person, handsome etc. \n\nThe relocation means professional oportunities for me, but I'm not sure my boss will let me go and lately I also consider relocation for this guy but when I try to conclude things, I get extremely confused because I'm not sure he likes me more than an old internet buddy", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we dated long distance for a year, then I moved, and now we have lived together for a year. I think it's a pretty standard case of me finding out that we're actually not compatible. There are no glaring problems, I'm just increasingly not happy in the relationship as a whole and I know I would be much happier single.\n\nThe problem is that I don't have any money. When I first moved, I couldn't find a job for 6 months. The city I moved to has one of the highest unemployment rates in the country and despite a university degree and literally hundreds of applications, it took me a long time to finally find a part-time job in retail. During those 6 months, I used up all my savings even though my SO paid for the majority of the expenses. He can afford it since he has a very high paying job.\n\nNow I've reached the point where I've paid off my debt but just don't have the savings to live on my own. My city just happens to also be one of the most expensive places to live and I'm starting school again in the fall. I just can't figure out what my options are. My family doesn't live in the same place and I have commitments where I am so I can't just move back home.\n\nI've been keeping up appearances in my relationship for a couple months now but it's not fair to my SO and it's draining for me. What on earth should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've learned a few things about my father recently, and now i'm starting to think he is a pedophile.\n\nWhen my half brothers (Not related to my dad) were younger, he used to pinch their nipples until they whistled, and then he'd stop, my mum would say something or tell him to stop and he'd beat her, one time he smashed her foot in with a hammer and pissed himself laughing\n\nAlso found out that he did that, and some other things, of which were not disclosed to me, to his nieces and nephews when they were young.\n\nAlso, i remember when i was younger, he used to read / watch porn around me, i was pretty young, but obviously old enough to remember it. (4 or 5) He never did it when my mum was home, and i don't think she knew.\n\nCurrently living with SO and my mum, whenever he comes over to visit (Rarely due to my mother not liking him coming over) he'll sit down the whole time, until my daughter needs a nappy change, then he'll follow me to the nursery and watch.\n\nWhat the hell should i do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been dating my SO for 2.5 years, all long distance. I don't want to emphasis our issues as I've already made my decision. But I don't know how to execute.\n\nHe's been emotionally abusive and manipulative to me for the last 6 months. It's become unbearable. He plays mind games. He's emotionally and physically cheated on me. He would ignore me for days, weeks as punishment. He would break up with me and when I would plead, he'd take me back. Long story short, it's a very unhealthy relationship.\nI've been through some traumatic experiences with men, particularly him. I'm wondering if it's okay if I just disappear. I don't have the courage nor the strength to officially end things with him. I will get pulled back in. He doesn't love me. He doesn't care about me. He just likes the affection, my attention, and the feeling of control. He wants me to chase. I quit. Is it okay if I just block everything without saying a single word about it? He would never come to look for me. He really doesn't give a damn. He's never come to see me. I'm the one who did the traveling.\n\nLast night, I got my clarity. He broke up with me again and recanted it. I told him okay and went to sleep. He texted me this morning with a cute message. I really don't want to respond. I know a lot of people on Reddit believe that's unfair and will tell me to \"woman up\" but I don't trust myself. I need help and I need to get away from him. I love him but he's toxic. He's toxic to me and I need out.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in a leadership position in ROTC and we are in charge of drilling and marching cadets. I have a slacker who just won't pay attention or listen to rules. He is always half-assing everything, and in turn other cadets follow his influence. My colonel is chewing my ass because I'm responsible for him. \n\nNothing I do phases him; he's the kind that was forced by parents into ROTC, and he's the kind of person who never follows rules and does drugs and has attitude problems. \n\nI try being nice to him, but that doesn't work. I gradually became stricter and stricter, even issuing push ups, and he flat out gave attitude to me and refused to do them.\n\nHelp?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last week had the interesting sensation of being awake, but not being able to motivate my feet body to move, and after it happening twice talked to a few doctors, had some blood work done and am supposed to have a cmap test done after my next attack, but the only thing they could think of that fit my symptoms is Hypokalemic periodic paralysis. If everything comes back the way doctors think it will I will definitely be discharged, likely only with an administrative discharge (genetic disorder counts as pre-existing condition.)\nNo Idea where to even start planning my life now, planned to have almost 4 more years in the service and another few years of college to convince all my ducks to queue up properly, but instead looks like i'll be finding a new town to live in, getting a Mcjob and focusing on surviving for a while. Can't even think about going home at this point, my family would be understanding to an extent, but don't think I could deal with the look that I failed something that most of my family has made a career out of.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "heres the catch. we are both working on associate degrees at a community college. her major is photography and i don't have a major established yet. she believes that by moving to california after she earns her degree will put her at better odds to get a job in photography. we are still two years away from earning our associates but she wants me to decide right now if i want to move with her or not. we have been dating for almost 8 month and apparently not wanting to move to cali due to my uneasy feelings about leaving my life is a deal breaker for our relationship. she is so certain that her life will take her to california that she wont allow for the possibility of ending up somewhere else. what should i do? i really love her but what about my life..", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there i was, in the car with my friend while he was doing a doughnut around a blacked out lightpole, in an abandoned mall bothering nobody. He finished and we are about to leave. He steps out and i get in the driver seat and as i was leaving my car stalls. He comes out turns his light on and says \"what the fuck are you doing you little dipshit, then proceeds to keep cursing, saying he say me doing doughnuts and calling me names and kept on insisting on seeing me do something he couldnt have possibly seen. I was in the car, tires fresh with burned rubber smell, one of those wrong place in the wrong time moments. He asked for my registration and still caling me names, so i politely said \"sir i do not appreciated the name calling, can you please stop. Nope, he responds by slamming me on my car and handcuffing me saying \"hows my fucking voice now, and called me something along the lines of faggot or cunt. I forgot, i was to in shock that he was treating me like this when i was nothing but courteous and polite! even the other cop that showed up had a look on her face like wtf? i get put into his buddies car and he continues to go on and belittle me. So he ends me giving me three tickets, which im fighting, and im going to complain, my friends heard and saw it all (friend is a cop, told me the guy was out of line). All in all i could see if i had done something wrong, but even after trying to calmly talk to the guy, he was to busy being a jackass. oh, and i overheard him saying \"this is what happens when i have no action except for stupid shit like this\"", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened a few days ago. I fight recreationally with the local american pit fighters in town i was scheduled to have an exhibition with a fellow fighter in the gym i train at to test if i am ready to have my first real matches we get in the cage and are circling each other for a bit and \"feeling\" each other for weak spots. After a bit he attempted to give me a right hook that i saw coming so i grabbed his arm spun behind and put in an elbow leading to a submission. Heres where it gets hairy...we shake hands and he steps out quickly. After being congratulated a bit more i step out too immediately i am approached by a super-hot blond chick who seemed really excited. I said hi (my 19 y/o hormones raging) and she starts babbling on about the fight. I just keep on smiling and nodding as she leaned in and put her hands on my waist. Then she whispers in my ear \"you embarrased my boyfriend in there\" and scorpion kicks me in the face knocking me out for in front of everyone.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys! I'm 21 (as is my fiance),and we've been together for about two years. In total, our engagement will span about nine months, and we've got three months left (November 2012). We are choosing to do this because we love each other, we work well together, and we plan to be traveling a lot in the next few years (which you have more rights to each other as spouses than not, so we feel more comfortable). We are not particularly religious, it's not a shot gun wedding, and neither one of us is terminal. I rarely meet others who are either engaged for such a short time or who are young. Anyone else out there who's kind of like us? (Realistically, I appreciate all sharing!) Thanks guys! :)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "M28 with gf of 4yrs F21 just ran into one of the worse possible situations for me. \n\n My future in-laws and I began to speak about one year ago. They have been together for about 26 years, He is a overprotective jealous guy, she is a personal trainer. She decided to get her certification to become a personal trainer and got a job at a big box gym against her husbands wishes. She originally was working out of her home with elderly couples but it was not financially rewarding so she decided to work at a big box gym. \n\nThis morning on the way to work I was getting gas when she walked out of the gas station holding another personal trainers hand. As she was walking out I guess she spotted me and walked up to me and began to have a conversation with me while the guy waited in the card. She went on to say that they came by just to get coffee and some bottled water for later that day. She said they were just friends and hoped that I understand.\n\nAlthough I only seen them hold hands, I don't think this is normal. I don't know if I should tell my gf what I seen. I don't want to break her heart. Also, I'm sure she would tell her father which only ends with either them separating and maybe my gf or her mother blaming me for it, or they work it out, look like a guy that put my nose in where I shouldn't have.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "When I hear people argue in support of manned space travel, I usually hear the theme that man's destiny lies with space. I don't really see how that's true in our lifetimes with current technology. \n\n* Mars is a [toxic dump] Perchlorate is some [nasty stuff] even at low levels. \n* [Radiation] in space. People who support space travel always ignore the fact for some reason. Think about it, even a short trip to Mars could expose an astronaut to enough radiation to kill them. Not to mention all the radiation on Mars, which don't have an atmosphere or Van Allen belt comparable to Earth.\n* Space makes no economic sense. Currently mining in one of the most [war torn countries] on Earth in several orders of magnitude more easier and economic than sending a rocket out to some asteroid. The only exception to this might be helium-3, which even if we actually had the technology to use would be easier to mine roboticly. \n* Space is generally a cold barren shithole. There's not much to do on the moon, Mars is to toxic and exposed to radiation, so that leaves to asteroids and moons of Jupiter and Saturn. But really, what's even the point? We literally know of nothing there that would justify a single manned trip.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Three years ago I ended a 6 yr relationship, and it left me with a lot of trust issues. A few months after the split, my ex felt he needed to \"clear the air\" so that we could have a chance at reconciling. That involved my learning I had been completely oblivious to cheating, lying, and an arrest (yup, he went to jail for a few days and I had no idea). I know what you're thinking, that I am just super dumb. I wish that was the case, I'm college educated and have a professional career, just plain old gullible. In the aftermath, I have spent a year having exclusive relationships, the next having one night stands, and the last online dating. For the record online dating does nothing to improve trust issues, I had on guy tell me he slept with Cameron Diaz and another try to steal a set of golf clubs (and those are just the gems). \n\nThis afternoon the guy I have been seeing on and off for the last six months finally agreed to keep things casual. Now, I am free to date and see whomever I choose, and am contemplating whether I want to go the online route again. My casual relationships thus far have involved ignoring lies because the details aren't important. This isn't one sided, I fib about where I am when I'm out with other guys. Unfortunately, when I notice them my history and fear makes ignoring feel self-deprecating, and I struggle to forgive myself for ages after the bad ones. On the other hand, I am just not ready for the LTR I want, one missed text or phone call and I flip, but I'm not attracted to someone who caters to my every wish in the long term. So Reddit, I need suggestions on what to do next. \n\n- Side Note – During this last relationship I was in a place to tell my SO about how scared of lies I am and it got a lot better, so I know that in time it will get easier.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A couple months ago, I matched with a girl on Tinder, right before I went on a two week vacation. We've talked everyday, and eventually decided to meet up. When I came back, we've been hanging out every weekend, usually on short hiking trips. This past weekend I finally had the courage to ask her out, to which she said yes. Unfortunately, she mentioned that her father isn't too pleased that we're together fairly early on.\n\nI decided the best thing to do would be to meet with her parents, but I am now very nervous about making a good first impression. I have already decided on bringing a gift for the house and some nice flowers for her mom, but have no clue what to do / what to expect next.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: There is a road in my area where the speed limit drops from 50 to 35 as the road goes from 4 lanes to 2 as it goes through a residential area. This road is kind of a by-pass for a crowded section of Highway 9 (think of Bruce Springstein) in central NJ and also crosses a major east/west state highway so the local police hang out on that road to get speeders who don't bother to slow down. Locals are aware the police are usually there, somewhere on the road, and keep an eye on the speed limit.\n\nSo, one day, I am driving on that road to pick up my son from his karate class and notice the police car hanging out in a parking lot for a park about a half mile from where the speed limit decreases, hidden from the road (I usually look to see if a car is there or not). About 15 minutes later I am coming back with my son and slow down as the speed limit drops to 35. Of course some BENNY from NY (think of the cast of Jersey Shore) starts tailgating me and flashes his lights to go faster and gets increasingly frustrated as I refused to go faster. And then I remember the police officer and wondered if he was still in the park. Well, one way to find out.\n\nJust before the park, the road widens slightly to allow space for a left turn lane into the park. Just before we get to the park entrance I move my car ever so slightly onto the shoulder making the temptation too great for the BENNY. He seizes this opening to fly by me through the left turn lane. As I pass the park I notice that not only is my friend still there but his lights just popped on. He comes out of the park, I pull over like a driver is supposed to when an emergency vehicle has his lights on and watch him quickly close the distance between him and the BENNY.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were friends for 10 years, before we got together. He than told me once about his terrible childhood. (He told only 3 of his friends his story)\n\nNow we're a couple for quite a few months and well, sometimes there's stuff I know that reminds him of his childhood, but it's like he's forgotten that he had told me. So he keeps pretending that nothing happened.\n\nSome examples\nLately we were watching an old TVshow, that every child watched when we're young, like Sesamestreet, and he couldn't remember a thing. (Which I think is because he forced himself to forget everything.)\nHe likes christmas, but only the food, not the stuff with Santa, and he hates to get presents. (Which is the thing childs like the most about christmas.)\nAnd stuff like watching TVshows about raising children. We talk about how we're going to raise ours in the future and that we won't will be as horrible as the parents on TV. (But striking, the things he thinks are important are always the things his parents should have done, to save him from the traumatizing stuff.)\n\nI know he likes to put his problems far away. But on the other hand, I'm his girlfriend now and we're pretty serious, isn't it good to speak about it maybe just once, so he knows I know his secret/won't tell, and most of all, I'm always there for him?\n\nWhat do you think?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "edit: I had posted this yesterday, but deleted it because I felt a bit uncomfortable with myself putting it online. I'm not really sure if this will help, or just reinforce negative emotions. \n\nI had recently been talking with a girl for about 2 months. We had gone out on about 6 dates, and most of them would end up just crashing at my place, no sex we'd kiss and fool around a bit, which is new/cool. But through out the week we would text, not incessantly but generally throught a day or continue to the next day. Anyway she asked to just relax and watch movies at my place last weekend so we did, everything seemed cool, except an odd vibe after she left. But it seems like there is just a vibe of her trying to distance her self at thi spoint, if I text she'll respond, but isn't really trying to create a conversation or hasn't initiated one. It just seemed like a pretty quick change from just a week or 2 ago. Of course I've always been one to over anaylize so I'm not sure if I'm just doing that or not. I did wish her a happy xmas eve and she responded and we texted back and forth for a while. Then I texted her late xmas day (with some advice from a friend, suggesting I do what I want and not worry about others feelings) so I texted merry christmas, she texted back the same and actually asked how mine was, still not long. \nThe biggest Issues I'm having are, I wasn't hooked before I started feeling her pull away, now I all of sudden am in a funk and can't stop wanting to find out if I'm crazy. I'm also concerned I maybe creating a self-fifulling prophecy, and either become overbearing. Or she could think I'm pushing her away because I'm trying not to text her... I just really do not know what to do/ or think...", "role": "user" } ]