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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My SO and I have been dating since October last year and there are a few things that are really getting to me. There are a lot of signs that he is either super unromantic/unaffectionate as a person or he just isn't into me.\n\n-He only says I love you after I say it first. I asked him about it and he pretty much said that saying it back is enough. I'm not completely convinced.\n\n-He only ever initiates sex when drunk. And he doesn't do any foreplay. Never goes down on me. Not even making out or heavy petting. I don't think it's too much to ask to make out before sex. Is it? or even kiss my neck. Nibble my ear. Something. He has refused my advances when we've been sober a number of times but the few times he's accepted he'd have me do everything.\n\n-Never tells me he thinks I'm attractive out of his own volition. He says it's just not something he ever really learned to do. Could that be true?\n\n-He's not very affectionate. Only rubs my cheek. He doesn't like to be touched because he's ticklish/it's uncomfortable. But doesn't do much for me either. No back rubs or hand holding or playing with my hair or caressing of anything other that my cheek. \n\nAs for some background, my SO is a bigger guy who's struggling to lose weight and has medication for depression. He'll treat me to a movie or dinner when he can but I really don't feel loved from those gifts/actions.\n\nI'm losing it here. Am I asking too much of someone who struggles with confidence/self worth and depression and what can I do to help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have known this girl for about 2 years, we don't really call our periods of time together dating, but we have been living together for the past 6 months.\n\nEvery time something emotional comes up in a discussion with my friend, we make ourselves unavailable.\n\nHer modus operandi for handling stress is to \"Just move on\" and I understand where she is coming from, but when something has been coming up over and over again and I want to address it, that makes it hard. I get stuck on some things, things that are too personal to ask my friends about and things that she has made clear she does not want to discuss. I don't want to become too codependent but we should be able to talk about anything with a level tone and a clear goal, no?\n\nWhenever she has a problem with me, she will tell me I'm hurting her by doing X, etc and I ask her why or what I can do to change it, not trying to completely rely on her input but since she brought it up I want a good starting point, usually she will then nix the conversation and I am then at a complete loss... Silence follows because I want to be able to address the issue she brought up but I can't. The few times where she has continued to talk she either melts down by crying or melts down by yelling.\n\nWe are living together, we are both trying to find work, and we have until the end of this month to figure out an income situation or we are on the streets. I am tired of hurting her when we should be focusing on the present, but whenever I am in a good mood she constantly asks me if I am ok, and I reassure her to just be here now, if anything changes I'll let you know, everything is positive and good and nice. But sometimes she keeps asking until I'm pissed off. Whenever she's in a good mood, she likes to complain about her family and make fun of people, etc, and I get butthurt because I see a lot of those traits that she is hating on in myself. I don't want to join in on hating the people she hates because I feel like a massive hypocrite.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So...\nI have read other threads regarding the movie, but they were too old to comment on. I would like to make a small preamble:\n\nI know many things are wrong with part one; as an inquisitive atheist I knew most of the things he said apart from much of the stuff which turned out to be bullshit anyway. \n\nThe parts that I find intriguing are the last three parts. I don't know much about the federal reserve, so any input would be helpful. The bits about the US engineering the conflicts in WWI, WWII, and Vietnam I find somewhat dubious, but I might ask a friend of line who is a history buff to help me out with this, but again, any input would be great. \n\nNow with part two... I just don't know. I have sort of taken the South Park route and said \"how could a government as apparently inept as ours in so many other ways somehow be responsible for not just 9/11, but virtually every major war in the 20th century.\" But some of the things like the \"molten lead\" in pools around ground zero weeks after the attack, the fall of tower 7 which I have never heard about before this movie, the \"vaporizing\" planes of the Pentagon and the field in Virginia... How could they ID the suspects and yet say there was enough heat to vaporize steel? How could jet fuel \"vaporize\" a whole plane in these two instances and yet with countless other documented plane crashes could there be extensive wreckage? Where was NORAD during the whole thing? I don't know enough about architecture, not about the structure of the twin towers to have a truly informed opinion, but that's what I hope to gain from making this post.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit, I am 20M and she is 20F and we have been dating for about 2 years now. I am a soldier in the army and I am currently looking at a deployment in less than a year for 9 months. I joined the army while I was with her and she waited for me while I was gone for 4 months during OSUT. While I was gone she said it was the hardest thing she has ever had to deal with and she was completely miserable, but she managed to stick through it. I've mentioned my pending deployment recently and she doesn't even want to talk about it and ends up crying, she says she doesn't know if she can last that long without me. I am the kind of person where I need to bring things up and communicate issues in order to resolve them and she is the type of person that prefers to ignore it until you can't really ignore it anymore. Although she is like this it doesn't prevent us from being good at communication, we are usually pretty honest with each other. I feel like if we keep pushing off this subject that it wont be good when it comes time for me to leave for 9 months. At the moment our relationship isn't completely stable and I am not sure if withholding this will help when it comes time to depart.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I must preface this with where I'm at: one of the biggest party schools in the U.S. and one of the biggest portrayed hook-up cultures I have ever seen. I also do fall for some I date really quickly, so I get a bit more hooked at the beginning, but then mellow out really fast.\n\nI'll define \"nice:\" Actually taking women out on dates, being available, wanting to spend time with them, not ignoring them. Not letting petty shit bother me and letting them do them.\n\nWhenever I try to date women these days it seems like I'm torn between being the \"nice guy\" and being a gentlemen about things and being a complete douche. \n\nWhenever I'm a gentlemen, treat them well, take them out for drinks, and try to spend time with them they back way off. As soon as I pull the plug and back away they come back. As soon as I show lack of attention to them, they seem to try hard to get my attention back.\n\nFor example, one female friend who I've distanced myself from literally offered me sex (She is very attractive) if I would just take her out drinking with my friends. That's a bit of a red flag to me but the weird part is I ignore her for many reasons (one is she is a bit crazy at times and I just don't deal well with crazy) but she still throws herself at me.\n\nThe worst part is the women in my life I confide in tell me that's \"just how it works\" and \"play the game.\" So even though I'd love to spend time with someone I need to just make excuses and be busy 95% of the time? Then one day hang with them? That seems like one hell of a stupid game to me.\n\nQuestion: Should I just approach the dating scene in this atmosphere as, well, not a dating scene? Act like a typical \"Douche\" and confident guy and walk away?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay this may be a bit complicated but here it goes.\n\nComing home from a date yesterday, my gf told me that \"this might not be the right time for us. I'm so busy and I feel like I can never please you. I feel like you always blame me for not spending a lot of time with you.\" When I asked her if she was breaking up with me she said \"I never said that. But we need to figure something out.\" \n\nShe is a very busy girl and I totally support her in all the great things she does. And I've told her this many times. I don't mind being put on a backburner sometimes because that gives me some freedom to chill out with my friends. But me saying that I haven't blamed her for anything would be biased, however I don't think I really have. I think she blames herself. On a side note I have noticed she has become increasingly distant but she says that she still loves me. I haven't contacted her since I dropped her off at her place. I really don't want to break up with this girl. Any help or advice on how I should continue would be great. Ugh.\n\nThank you", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Mysterious situation. Sorry about the text wall. Located in the United States.\n\nA few months ago, I bid on (and won) an auction for tools and other supplies on a popular online auction website. The package was mysteriously delayed during shipping at one of USPS's sort facilities due to what I assumed was the rather extreme inclement weather.\n\nOnce I received the package, I found a letter from the postal service INSIDE the box stating that due to a mishap at the facility there were packages that became dislodged during shipping. If any problems arose to send a letter to their complaint department. The package did not contain the tools but rather an incredibly large number of sealed DVD sets to a very popular TV show. \n\nI contacted the seller and he had no idea what I was talking about with DVDs. He stated that he sent only the items pictured in the auction. I have no reason to believe that he was being disingenuous because when you compare the price of both items on Amazon, the overall value of the DVD sets is much, much higher.\n\nAfter some back and forth with the USPS I was able to reach someone who started an official search at the three USPS sort facilities in the region. After three months they terminated the search and stated that my item was not found. I also inquired what to do with the DVDs that I received. Initially they said to keep them sealed because if my original package was found, they may need me to send the DVDs back to the sort facility. But later they essentially told me on the phone that they didn't know what to do with the DVDs.\n\nMonths have gone by, and I decided to try and recoup my money so I've started selling them locally. I've only sold a handful, but I began to wonder what kind of legal ramifications I could run into ? Also I became paranoid that the DVDs may contain some kind of elicit or illegal material so I unwrapped several of them and skimmed through them on my computer. I could not find anything out of the ordinary. They appear to simply be the entire DVD set of the TV series.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We are both black, and I found out the girl I have been dating used to date exclusively only white men. Like exclusively until she met me. Her only partners have been white men. I mean, I am not cool with this. I am not into the interracial dating scene and this is really an issue with my psyche. I know this is racist. I get it, but this is really bothering me. She is an awesome chick, and I want to start a relatinship with her, but the thought that she only was with a \"select race\" of men bothers me. \n\nLike what made me so special, why is she hanging out with me now..... What changed her perceptions of black men in general as to why she did not like dating them until now... Reddit, hear me out on this. I know its racist, I know its a stupid thought, I know a lot of people on thissite are white, but i am not trying to start some kind of race war. I just have nowhere else to go, and i am an insecure black dude just looking for a hand here. \n\nSo how does one not be insecure about this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short my ex of our 4 year relationship wanted to have the single life kind of put me on the back burner, so we broke up, she jumped into a relationship, i went NC immediately and tried to move on and live my life. Her relationship failed, she messaged me telling me if we could be friends again, i don't think much of it so i say yes.\n\nShe tells me how good i was to her and how some lucky girl is going to get me and she wishes me the best. I say thank you and i tell her i hope to find that lucky girl.\n\nShe invites me to hang out with her and a friend of hers, and later he friend told me she was worried my ex would make it weird by bringing up our old relationship.\n\nDoes she want a friendship or something more?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm pretty sure my roommate has no intention of paying the final bills we move out. I have no direct evidence of this, but I'm in a situation where my roommate and I have had a serious falling out and he seems to do his best to screw me over on hundreds of little things. In addition, he has described himself more than once as \"vindictive\" without apology. Now that our lease is up and we're moving out, I fear that he won't pay his share of the utilities or internet bills, etc for the last month (these are in my name). Is there anything I can do to protect myself or should I just prepare to suck it up accept it. Also, we will have no reason to see each other and live in different cities afterwards.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've owned our puppy for 3 weeks and had finally trained him to go to the door when he needed to go out, but when we took him to the vet today to get some of his vaccinations, they told us he shouldn't go outside, because the Bordetella virus is going around. \n\nHe's only 3.5 months old, and we have to wait 3 weeks before we can give him a vaccine for Bordetella.\n\nSince we can't take him out for walks anymore, he's been peeing all over the house all day, and without being able to go outside, he's been misbehaving a very large amount since he can't expend any of his energy. We've tried to set up a small area on our patio for him to pee on, but he's not getting the point.\n\nIs this something we should actively be worried about? We're thinking about continuing to take him on walks, even though the vet advised against it, considering we're in an area without many stray dogs, and the dogs that are around, have owners who live near us, and therefore must be vaccinated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really hope you guys can help me on this one.\n\nSo I'm very technology savvy. I have worked in computer repair and the IT field for the last 7 years.\n\nI met my girlfriend her freshmen year of college (I was a sophomore transfer) and we've been dating each other our entire college career. She's graduating this year (I graduated last year and came back for an MS). I worked on her computer about a month ago because it was running slow, freezing, etc. so I looked at it over a night. While I had her computer, my curiosity got the best of me.\n\nI found myself in a junk folder that had a lot of misc stuff in it, under which I found a pro-con list that turned out to be about myself; the things she liked (pros) and the things she didn't like (cons). I saw it and it kind of shook me up. I didn't sleep well that night, as I drempt she broke up with me. The next morning I told her about the dream. She consoled me and said she wasn't breaking up with me anytime soon.\n\nMoving on, I found she had created an account on a dating advice forum, and I found all of her posts. The first ones were from back when she was in high school. Later on she posted about us. The most recent one was a day before our four year anniversary. It was asking for advice on how to break up with me because she is no longer happy in the relationship. In it she states that some of her friends and family have been telling her to break up with me for well over a year. We're involved in a lot of the same things, so it would be awkward for both of us to break up.\n\nIt's now 8 months later. I have never seen any signs from her personally that she is displeased with our relationship. I love her so much, but now that I've seen this, I feel she just puts up a front to make me happy and not make life a living hell while we still spend time together.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Quick overview: met girl, got number, coffee date. On the date she mentions how she has 2 kids form her ex. I have no problem with kids, so while inconvenient, not a dealbreaker. We go on a couple more dates, start having sex. Yesterday (after hanging out a couple more times), she tells me, oh should've mentioned, I'm 6 months along (from a different guy); yes, somehow I missed this completely (if you knew me this probably wouldn't be a big surprise).\n\nDespite similar senses of humor and the fact that we both liked sex, I didn't really see this relationship going anywhere, and had pretty much told her so (specifically that I wasn't in for anything long term). She seemed ok with that. \n\nNow that I found out about this though, I'm sort of done. It's not the fact that she's pregnant that bothers me, but the fact that she'll soon have 3 kids, one a newborn, a full time job, and online school; I work two jobs and I don't feel like scheduling my life around her. So, basically, how can I break this off without coming off like a complete asshole.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "when I first met this woman we were teenagers, i fell madly in love with her, but was always too shy to ask her out.\n\nshe was on my mind, even when i was madly in love with my wife, I would think back to her and wonder what she was doing where she was, was she happy. and I knew no matter how much i loved my wife, for just for the chance to know her again; just know her, that was all, i would leave my wife.\n\njust feeling that way made me feel like a shity person, so i would only let myself think of her every 2-3 years, maybe 4 times while I was with my wife.\n\nTime went on, and i split up with my wife, and when I was just content, not having to get to know someone again, she walked into my life.\n\nI flipped out at how she could be back in my life, after all this time, i had to get her number and find out what she had been doing.\n\nWe started meeting every tuesday at lunch time, it was all i could think of threw the week, my brain went stupid and I couldn't concentrate on my studies, i was 33 mind you, not a teenager anymore.\n\nanyway we ended up dating for a while, and I know from my point of view I made so many mistakes, rather than be myself I was telling myself to do dumb things. just thing contrary to who i normally was and am.\n\nWhile we were together i could not understand what i was feeling, I had never felt anything remotely like it, and could not really believe what i was feeling either. \n\nI believe she is my soulmate because of events in my life, and since the day I left her, she has not truly left my heart, and I fall deeper in love with her.\n\nthere is a lot more to the story, as in some of the reasons why i believe she is my soulmate, and she has moved on to a new guy and is in a great place personally i hear. I just wanted to get some other perspectives.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back story: we have been dating for 2 years. About a year and a half into our relationship I was checking his internet history just to find an old website with a recipe I made for dinner before. I usually don't mind my boyfriend watching porn. It's completely unrealistic to think guys don't fap. But I found out he had been messaging the girls on the subreddit complimenting them. I flipped out naturally because that was crossing the line. He said he was addicted to porn. He went to talk to a therapist who said he didn't need to be treated. I felt betrayed but still forgave him. \n\nFast forward 6 months: I find myself constantly needing to check his phone and computer to see if he watches it still or messages girls. I feel more insecure than ever. He caught me looking on his phone history. I was honest and told him that I was looking to see if he still is watching porn in random moments like he used to. What do I do? I don't like being like this. I want to trust him. I'm scared he is going to keep on doing it behind my back. \n\nAm I overreacting?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to having a family. We broke up because of infidelity.\n\nNow though, all that I want to do is go out and get plowed by pretty much any guy. I don't want a relationship, I just want to go out and have revenge sex. Why is that? I think I'm just so upset, and angry. I don't know what to do, or really how to handle this.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. Our relationship has always been me giving my 100% all the time. I feel like I am constantly needing to do something to keep her happy. Whenever she gets in a bad mood for no reason, I stress out over how I can help. The problem is that nothing I ever do seems to help. \n\nWe have talked about this too many times. She needs me to provide more in our relationship than i need from her to be happy. It leads to a point where I am doing things because I have to and not because i want to. For anyone out there who has been there, you understand. It is exhausting to be in a relationship where the person you want to please needs so much more than you do to be happy. We talked and she says that \"she is selfish and has been taking advantage of what i give\". Do I just take her word for it? she is more scared of losing me than she is of changing her personality.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I'm in a semi long distance relationship i go to school 6 hours away from where my Girlfriend lives. We've been dating ever since the spring semester started so roughly 2 months. I really like my girlfriend we have so many thing in common and a few differences i actually like. I've only gone back to visit and hang out with her once and saw her 3 days out of the 5 I was there. We went on a really nice date and was happy. \n\nNow there is this girl I met here on campus while playing soccer with some other people (2 weeks before i visited my girlfriend) who i talked to once and started to develop a crush on immediately, and i told myself it would go away. I would see her around campus but only greet until one day we had small talk. When i went back home to visit i thought that crush was long gone because like i said of how happy i was with my gf. \n\nI came back to school and saw her in the hallways and just greeted her. That instant the feeling of having a crush came back. I actually saw her earlier today and we had a nice conversation and asked her when they were playing soccer again and she asked for my number. I gave it to her. \n\nLittle note, my current gf is a type i usually dont go for and i didnt immediately have a crush on her (like the girl from school) i just started to like her becauee of how cool she and how fast we connected and clicked. The girl i have a crush on is my type and is also a very nice girl.\n\nMy predicament is that I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO. Spring break is this coming week so I am going back home.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So we've been only dating three months. It's really weird, but I find myself disgusted by him. I'm a little chubby, so what I'm about to say is kind of hypocritical, but he is pretty tall and heavy and sometimes he wears shirts that are too short so his fupa is just sort of out there. When he stands up, his belly hangs out the side. I'm not a small girl, but I try to avoid tight pants. His size also gets in the way of sex and the activities we do together. He gets tired pretty easily. \n\nHe's a wonderful, kind, sweet, generous human being -- pretty much one of the best human beings you can imagine, so I feel like such a schmuck having these feelings. I love spending time with him. I don't know why it didn't bother me before -- it's only been in the last few weeks where it's bugged me. \n\nI mean, people are kind of gross, anyway. Is this stupid to break up over? Why is this happening now and not before?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, I'm new to this subreddit. I came here because I've been overweight for most of my adult life and recently was diagnosed with a genetic medical condition that can only be treated by being a healthy body weight.\n\nSo for the last few months I have been working really hard (mostly the last month) at eating very healthy - 80% vegetables and fruit, vegetable based proteins more often than animal protein, major cuts in sugar and carb intake, etc.\n\nI have also been exercising a few times a week with a friend - going to the gym, aquasize, walking in the park. I work a desk job and 12 hour shifts, so I'm not nearly as active as I should be, but I'm getting better.\n\nSo what is really frustrating for me right now is that I have noticed I am getting skinnier. I can fit my old jeans that are 2 sizes smaller than the ones I've been wearing for the last year. My fat jeans are starting to feel more loose. Nobody has commented or noticed yet though, so I don't think it's much. But I have not lost any weight according to the scale! I keep going up and down a few pounds, but really I've only lost like 2 pounds from a month ago.\n\nI'm starting to think maybe my fat has just relocated? Am I doing something wrong with my diet and exercise? My medical condition (PCOS) makes it very hard for me to lose weight because it's a hormone imbalance, but it shouldn't be impossible... Just starting to feel very discouraged.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My wife and I met 10 years ago in college. Since then I've joined the army and been away a lot more than we expected, we've got a kid who is a low functioning autistic, we've had lots of struggles and managed to somehow stay together without killing each other.\n\nOne problem though is I've never been home for valentines day. I've always been away for work or dealing with some crisis or another (dodged the bullet this year, not leaving until the day after valentines day.)\n\nI'm the only one out of both of us who has a job and with a disabled kid life can get expensive, but I'd like to try to plan the perfect valentines day for the two of us. Problem is I'm not very creative and on a pretty tight budget. The only thing I know is I want to leave her some notes around the house leading up to V day and then I plan on taking her out for a Sushi dinner. That's all I've got so far.\n\nAny ideas from anyone? Help?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We went a few days without talking at all so I finally ask him what's up. He keeps saying he can't explain it but he's sorry and that the fire is gone from the relationship. We meet up to talk about it in person and he says he lately has no sex drive, asks me why we need to have sex every time we hang out (2-3 times per week usually).\n\nThis made me feel really insecure and took my self-esteem down a notch but told him I wanted to fix it. His solution was to keep on doing everything else the same but just take a break from sex to see if that fixes things. I feel that there is an underlying issue with the relationship such as him just losing interest because we've been together for a while. So I suggested a break from seeing each other/talking entirely and see how it feels.\n\nOn my end it feels like shit. I want to call him just to talk about our day or to say I miss him. I don't want to sound pathetic or desperate to him. It gets a little easier each day so I'm wondering if I should break it off completely so there's no lingering hope of getting back together. That's the only way I see myself truly moving on.\n\nShould I stay in a relationship where he is confused about his feelings and physically uninterested? Or should I break things off and try to move on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So backstory...\n\nWhen I was a teenager and masturbation was just becoming a regular thing for me (about 8 years ago), I used to do so in bed all the time. My comforter made this nice ridge along the outside of my mattress so I could come on the other side of it and let it dry there without having to worry about rolling over in it or anything. Our family's maid washed the sheets once a week, and since I wasn't doing this every night, I figured I was leaving no trace.\n\nTurns out I was wrong.\n\nI should mention here that I slept in a bunk bed, on the top bunk. There was no one sleeping on bottom, I just liked sleeping up there. In any case, when I was in high school, long after I'd moved on from masturbating in bed, I noticed some stains on the wall when I was in the bottom bunk reading. It looked like someone had dribbled coke or something on the wall and the syrup had dried into these little browning streaks. I couldn't see their origins, but it was clear they'd come from above. I investigated and found several impact sites, unmistakably wrought by my pubescent self-exploration.\n\nI freaked out a little and tried scrubbing them off, but when that didn't work I realized that it probably wouldn't ever matter; no one ever had any reason to get close enough to this wall in my room to notice and I doubted my family would ever have a need to move the bed, thereby discovering my embarrassing secret. I turned out to be wrong about that too.\n\nI'm at college now, and my mom recently informed me they're redoing the carpet in my old room this summer. That means they're definitely going to find it. I'm going back to house-sit next weekend though; my family will be gone. It's just gonna be me and whatever cleaning methods you guys can come up with.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone! One of my cats is about 10 years old now, she is pretty much strictly indoors save for some time she spends on our screened in porch each day. (She likes to watch the birds in the yard while she suns herself by the pool, quite the princess). Anyway, when she was younger she was very active and quite small, however with age she has put on a pretty hefty amount of weight. I feed her indoor cat food for weight control, I've switched brands a few times trying to find something that works, I've cut back on feeding her by a lot (she gets very angry and demanding when she wants food but I don't give in) however, nothing really seems to work. I've tried cat toys, and bought a harness thinking I could try to walk her but she just lays down and looks at me like I'm stupid. Basically I just want to know if you all have any suggestions for exercise or food. I care about her and don't want this to get any worse. I also have another cat that eats the same amount and type of food as her and is a completely normal weight and only a year younger, however he is a male, not sure if that makes a difference in predisposition for weight gain. They are also both fixed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "bottom-line up front: [32 M] moved cross-country to be closer to [32 F] long-time best friend and ex-gf. We love each other very much, but there's little romance. Need advice.\n\nMy girlfriend and I (32 F and 32 M, respectively) have known each other for a little over 10 years. We dated for 4 years when I started grad school including 3 years of a long-distance relationship (Hawai'i to Boston; major distance and time zone difference). She broke things off with me citing long-distance as the main issue, but we continued to talk frequently. We'd continue to see each other in person 1-3x per year, sometimes romantically. It's always been very easy for us to get along, and we never had any real fights.\n\nYada yada 5 years go by, I finish my Ph.D. and move from Hawai'i to Boston hoping to rekindle things. She graciously let's me move into her small apartment while I hunt for jobs (and maybe my own place?) We're suddenly playing house like an old married couple, cuddling, holding hands, dinner dates, etc. just nothing hot-and-sweaty romantic. She isn't interested in my advances. She doesn't like to talk about the issue, but says she just doesn't feel attracted to me in that sense right now.\n\nShe tells me she loves me very much, and I definitely share the sentiment. We've gotten to know each other very well over many years. She's my best friend, and I'm fairly certain she could be my future wife. We've talked about long-term plans and raising kids together, but it seems like the old spark is gone. I feel like her husband but not her lover.\n\nI'm worried I'm headed down the road to platonic cuddle-buddy friend zone or old married couple /r/deadbeadrooms.\n\nHow do I save my relationship? How do I rekindle the old spark and fix the broken romantic or intimate issues?\n\nThanks all.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [M/23] have been married for a little over a year and a half. I absolutely love my wife [F/25] and we are very happy together. We have a great sex life. I have no desire to cheat on her and I truly think that she is absolutely gorgeous, inside and out. \n\nThe problem is that whenever I am around her younger sister I am completely overwhelmed with sexual desire for her. It is literally all I can think about. I spend the entire time we are near each other imagining her naked and what it would be like to have sex with her. \n\nFortunately, we live 700 miles apart and I am only around her 2-3 times/year. However, my quality time with my wife's family and my desire for my wife are seriously hindered by this uncontrollable sexual desire for my sister-in-law during family trips, etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I broke up with my SO about 4 months ago - it was the cleanest possible breakup, due entirely to conflicting schedules and lack of time, so there was really no impetus for me to move on. We tried to be friends afterward and did our best, but communication quickly tapered off. I assumed from the lack of emotions I was feeling toward her and the lack of communication that I was getting over her.\n\nThen this week she visited my city.\n\nShe invited a bunch of our old friends (and myself) out for dinner, so I figured, sure, why not, let's cement her status as a friend. This will be casual enough.\n\nAnd it was. We had a great time, laughed like crazy, and found ourselves finishing each other's sentences like we did when we first fell for each other. It was a really fun night, closed with a loving goodbye hug.\n\nI say loving because the second I go, reality smacked me in the face. I was still in love with her, just as much as when I broke up with her. I spent the night brooding over it, and decided that the best course of action was to be blunt about it. I texted her the next day telling her in fairly simple terms what the night had done for me - it made me realize I was still head over heels for her.\n\nAnd she never responded.\n\nI'm entirely okay with that. Hell, I'm happy about that. It put things into perspective. Four months of acting like I was okay with being friends with a girl I never even had the chance to see that way wore on me. I realized how much self-respect I was abandoning just by keeping up this charade and allowing her to be how I validated myself.\n\nAnd, honestly? Fuck that. I'm awesome, and I don't need her to tell me that to know it. I feel like I've lifted a weight from my shoulders, and for the first time in four months I'm genuinely happy to be single. For the first time in four months I feel like a man instead of a teenager. I'm free from love because I told her I loved her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 19-year old guy who has an interest in a 19-year old girl in the year below me in college. I thought at one point that she had an interest in me, but I have discovered recently that she has an interest in another guy who is a senior. What's more, on a few occasions she has brought up her interest in this guy to me in conversation, which seems to suggest that she is oblivious to my interest in her. Further, it seems to suggest that she's just not interested in me. I know that if i had somewhat of an interest in two girls, I wouldn't bring up my interest in one to the other.\n\nSo a few of my friends suggested just asking her to dinner (on-campus, nothing fancy) sometime just to throw myself out there. If she says no then I'll move on. It might make things awkward between us but I think we'd manage. What do you think? I hung out with her last night and it was amazing but a few times she brought up this other guy and it just sucks a lot, so any advice would be awesome.\n\nI know this situation is nothing extraordinary, but it's been affecting me greatly recently so I would appreciate any advice. For example, I recently woke up from a dream where we hugged and spent what seemed like ages just thinking about it before I could manage to fall asleep again. Kind of embarrassing but it demonstrates how much my mind seems to fixate on this.\n\nThank you so much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically, my company pays $1000's of dollars every year to CapitalIQ for access to their financial database. I use it all the time (have to for my job) and have recently gotten frustrated because their customer service is saying they can't fix a simple bug in their web page.\n\nSee here: \n\nProblem I have is that CapitalIQ's website puts a huge notification (advertisements of other services) banner on the home screen that takes up over 20% of the vertical space. You can close the banner, but then if you refresh the page, the banner comes right back. \n\nSo basically, my company is already paying them a ton of money to use their software, and they are forcing me to see advertisements of other stuff they want to sell me. And I have to see those ads over and over and over again, every day, multiple times a day in fact (every page refresh).\n\nI've asked them to make each new banner go away forever once I close it. And *their response was effectively for me to go fuck myself for asking, it's too complicated, but they have logged my complaint and their engineers might look at it in September, but in the meanwhile, again I should continue to go fuck myself for asking.*\n\nI don't know much java script, but it seems like this should be like 2 lines of code to fix. I would really like to send them what the code looks like just to show them how utterly (a) lazy their engineers are and (b) lame and lazy their customer service support is.\n\nI was hoping a couple people on Reddit might be crack programmers or SW engineers who know enough about java and UIs to help me out.\n\nThanks-\nNazdaq", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm at my local library a lot, for the obvious reasons - mountains of books and a peaceful place to study. There's a reference librarian who works there, and I've had the massive hots for him since day one. He ticks a lot of boxes for me - tallish, sandy-haired, soft-spoken, well-dressed, good-looking in a flawed, accessible way. Plus, you know, he's a librarian, which is sexy. I also know from his staff bio on the library's website that he got his master's in the same town I lived in a few years ago, and the I'm tickled by the fact that we both lived there and ended up here, halfway across the country.\n\nThere are two problems here:\n\n1. I'm usually not good at cold approaches. I have a reasonable amount confidence in my ability to talk to strangers comfortably/engagingly, but I'm also introverted and neurotic and often don't have any idea how to go from Interest to Interaction. If someone strikes up a conversation with me I'm usually game, and if I can find a good excuse to chat someone up I'll sometimes go ahead and do it. I'm just a little stuck in this particular situation. Partly because ...\n\n2. I'm hesitant to approach people while they're on the clock. I've worked my fair share of jobs in which I was required to interact with the public, and I always hated it when a customer would try to pitch woo at me - the pressure to be polite is enormous, even if you're cringing inside. I'm not saying I'm gonna start pelvic thrusting at this guy while he's trapped behind his desk until he starts crying; I'd just like to talk to him a bit while also being sensitive to the fact that he might not welcome flirty interaction while he's working.\n\nPeople who are wiser and more well-adjusted than I, please advise. Should I even bother? If so, how should I go about it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a year and a half ago, I found I hand depression. Now depression to a person that has never had it and just hears it might label it as being sad and angry and down alot. \nDepression is actually much more than that, and it is hard to explain so I have a link here on 13 things to remember about a person with depression \n\nBasically, without creating an excuse, I was a bit rude,pushy and angry plus other things to some wonderful ladies I have met. One who has been absolutely incredible and I appreciate so much. I like talking to them and hanging out with them when I can. They have helped alot, I am getting better \n\nI dont ask here because I would not treat a women different when apologizing or that I want to sound stupid, I just want them to feel like my apology was genuine not like im giving them crap and will still be that way. What does everyone suggest I say? Do I tell them I have depression?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So there's this girl that is a friend of one of my female classmates. The girl doesn't go to my school, but lives reasonably close by. I noticed her a little while ago through the abundance of photos of her on Facebook -- she's a photographer and, honestly, has more albums than most people have photos -– and became extremely interested in her as I learned more about her interests. \n\nWe've interacted indirectly or inconsequentially a few times, such as when I complimented her on a few of her incredible photographs (sometimes she throws them on Instagram) and she thanked me in response. She has also been \"liking\" an increasing number of my posts and photos recently, and has \"poked\" me quite reliably on Facebook.\n\nI am not under the illusion that these social networking interactions are overly meaningful, nor have I drawn any foregone conclusions from our online interactions so far. I describe them here largely as a \"she knows I exist\" baseline from which to work.\n\nI've only ever seen her in person one time, though I did not have the chance (or the nerves) to approach her on that occasion. \n\nI'm a big believer in first impressions. \nI'm unsure if I should bite the bullet and formally initiate communication online, or try to orchestrate a face-to-face meeting (preferable, but more difficult to bring about in a timely manner) She works at an orchard and I was planning to go there for the apples once it gets warmer and introduce myself if I run into her.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My mom's boyfriend is a lazy ass who doesn't help her with anything and just stays with us rent free. He's an alcoholic and drinks everyday. Though he does work a few times a week, not sure what time. \n\nSo when he drinks, he passes out. He leaves his shitty music on blasting. Most of the time I fall asleep and it doesn't bother me but it really got to me tonight, as it's 2am on a Tuesday. I expected him to turn it off by 11 or 12 at the latest. \n\nSo I looked up how to disable his Internet connection from the smart TV that he's blasting it from. I tried installing my routers app, nothing. Tried going to my ip address router, nothing I could find to block the device connected. I tried to constantly reboot the router to knock it off but it only slightly stutters and goes back on when it reconnects. \n\nI don't want to change the name or password since my brother games late at night or my other brother watches movies. Having to explain to them about changing passwords as I'm a non confrontational person. \n\nFinally, I figured out that every device is unique. Not by the ip address but by something called the Mac address. I learned from my old jobs IT guy how he could only let people connect to the wifi unless he did something to let them through. \n\nApparently it's called access panel on my net gear router. So what I did was enable it, figure out my brothers devices and let them through, and tested to see what that fucking tv's MAC address is. Found out what it is and didn't let it through and he's still passed out sleeping. \n\nNow I can sleep in peace and quiet.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "R/books, hello!\n\nCan you all give me some good suggestions on fiction books that express the condition of being a guy or a man? \n\nNot books for men, there are plenty of lists I could go to Google for. I mean books that subtly and empathetically draw you into relating to the psyche of a man, seeing the world through a man's eyes and understanding the motivation for seeing the world and oneself this way.\n\nI want to understand the emotional repertoire and drive that lies behind 'respect', 'brotherhood', 'solidarity', 'fortitude' etc etc. Particularly, so much guy culture seems to be just that - about 'guys', a fixation on facile things with a slightly self-mocking tone.\n\n(I was brought up by my mum and inadvertently taught to find my masculinity a joke and to be ridiculed and repressed. I have long berated myself for my masculinity as 'stupid' and dangerous. I would like to change this. I have long gone to philosophy to address this but there is no feeling involved.)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi, hoping this is the right sub for my question, apologies if not.\n\nI was browsing my account on Credit Karma recently and saw the message that \"1 account has gone into collections\". I thought this couldn't be right, so I looked and it said I had a $277 balance in collections by an agency called \"Enhanced Recovery Company\". Around the same time my mom let me know that the company had been leaving messages for me on her home phone. \n\nI didn't see any way that this could be a legit debt, as my only debts are my car loan and one credit card. Also, I don't know how they got my mom's phone number, as I haven't used that number as my own in well over a decade. Every lease and agreement I've signed has been using my personal cell phone number.\n\nAbout two months ago I sent the company a debt validation letter via certified mail, and once they received it the phone calls stopped and I haven't heard back from them since. I'm just wondering what my next step should be in getting this removed from my credit report. \n\nThanks for any help you can give me!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background: We adopted two 8 month old kittens about a month ago from a shelter. The shelter staff said that as brother and sister they had to be adopted out together, and that fighting shouldn't be a problem. They are also currently entirely indoor, but in a couple of weeks when the weather improves in UK there going to be able to go outside in the day time.\n\nProblem: They have always done some rough housing, but in the last week this has got much worse. The two of them seem to constantly been pouncing and fighting each other now, and its gone from playing to hissing and yowling.\n\nIts particularly infuriating because it tends to start at about midnight and keep going till at least 3am disturbing everyones sleep.\n\nI know play fighting is common, and cats need to establish dominance when they first come into a new area but this is getting to be a bit of a problem, and i'm worried the smaller one will get hurt.\n\nAny ideas on how to stop this? is there something I can be doing to help them get along again or at least stop this fighting?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, a short back story for clarity:\nI have never introduced a significant other to my son since his father and I split up a couple years ago. I've tried to make it a point to not parade men in front of him, and to be honest, I haven't felt serious enough about any of the men I've dated to even consider bringing them around.\n\nSo I haven't really spent a lot of time considering the possibility of what could happen when someone finally does meet him. \n\nMy current boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a month. I had toyed with the idea of bringing up meeting my son to him, but decided it would be best to wait until he brought it up, because that would mean he's ready for it.\n\nHe did bring it up, and now we are planning an outing to the zoo together, just the three of us. \n\nHere's where I need some advice, or perhaps a similar situation that one of you may have gone through to comfort me a little. \n\nI'm definitely beginning to fall for this man. He is wonderful in every way so far. But what do I do if this ends up being too much for him to handle? I would like to be able to talk to him afterwards and ask him if he is still sure he's interested in pursuing this relationship after seeing a glimpse of what my child is like. Is this an appropriate thing to ask/talk about, and if so, how soon should I bring it up? \n\nI feel it's important to mention as a side note I bought him tickets to his favorite musical as a surprise (and they were not cheap!) and was planning on giving them to him as a \"Thank you\" after our date, but I am afraid that if he decides he isn't ready for something like this, he may feel obligated to stay with me after I had spent a small fortune on him... Should I still give them to him then, or wait?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright so background \n-Im a 25 year old male \n-Making $45k before tax/bonus. \n-Around March/April of 2014 i got a DUI, i could go into my story or excuse but wont, entered into a plea with the court in may 2015. \n-Drive a 2008 Nissan 350z \n\nThe 350z is a fun car but i want to change because A. I want something more practical with ipod hookup, side curtain airbags, rear view camera, traction control, be able to fit more than two people etc. and B. Pretty sure I'm paying $1850 a year for liability atm.... \n\nEven though normally i would look to get a gently used car a couple years old, I really want to get a car with autonomous features like auto braking or lane control etc. was looking at the new 2016 civic. \n\nOr was looking at 2013 accord, just to give an idea. Want something safe, reliable, well rated. etc. \n\nI have 5k cash and got a carmax estimate at $7k for the 350z, might be able to find one of those used dealers who offer $500-$1000 over carmax offer but thats what i have to put towards new car. \n\nIs a 2016 civic or 2013 accord a bad idea or out of my range? I want something decent that i can drive for a while but know im kinda more limited in everything i can do because of my DUI. \n\nSuggestions for insurance or car choice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically I'm a shallow piece of shit and need help. I don't really find my girlfriend attractive. All my life I've only gone for looks, which ended in breakups with my ex'es. \n\nWe've been together for 7 months. I thought I knew what love was before I knew her, but she has made me feel what REAL love is. \n\nI've actually never been happier. But... I don't really find her sexy. In the beginning when we started dating, (and you're gonna hate me for this), I actually covered her face with a pillow when we fucked or only wanted doggy. (This has changed ofcourse). \n\nShe isn't an ugly girl, she looks good, it's just I've been so stupid and shallow with girls my whole life. \n\nI'm wondering if anyone else has experienced something similar and overcame it? I want so badly to find her sexy, beucase she is so perfect in every other way. I want this to work!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I [20 f] had plans to hang out with my fwb [19 m] of about a month last night, which he blew off. When I asked him about it he said we could hang out today instead which I was fine with. He was ignoring me for a while and then just said he didn't want to see me anymore, totally out of the blue, because we \"never had much in common.\" (???) I kind of pressed him a little bit because I was confused and he gave me the whole it's not you thing, saying he just had no desire to hang out anymore but didn't know why. I really don't understand, as I saw him just a few days ago and we had sex and hung out for a long time it seemed fine. When I asked him about that he said he felt similarly then as well, which was pretty upsetting, and made me feel used and just generally pretty shitty. I just don't understand what's going on here and my efforts to talk about it have been ignored. My own insecurities make me feel like it's something I did or maybe he's not attracted to me. Is he being honest with me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a fetish that involves watching an everyday activity. This activity is not remotely sexual for most people and is something they often do socially. It's impossible to avoid entirely. \n\nOccasionally when I'm around family members and they're doing this activity, I'll feel a small bit of arousal coupled with A LOT of anxiety. I find myself wishing I had headphones on so I could look away and ignore the activity altogether - but that would be rude in a social setting and could draw attention to me. I feel panicked, suffocated, trapped and unable to talk out of shame. A couple of times I've quickly made an excuse and fled the room. Other times I've been irritable and rude, unable to focus on anything that's going on. Still other times I've been distracted enough not to be worried by it, or just not bothered by it at all. It's hard to predict when it's going to upset me.\n\nIt's only recently that I've started to feel so panicked about this (I used to deflect it by thinking about my boyfriend doing the activity instead, but he's now an ex and I can't really do that). It's nowhere near OCD level, but I don't want it to get worse. Any advice on how to manage this situation?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm gonna make this somewhat vague in the event she sees this so bear with me. \n\nI love my girlfriend very much. And 90 percent of the time, things between us are great. But we have a reoccurring issue of her bringing up me breaking up with her. Essentially, I broke up with her, we remained friends, and we got back together because I never really stopped loving her. During the time the we were apart she was raped in a situation she would not have been in had we still been together. Despite the fact that the breakup was some time ago, she still brings up how alone and hurt she felt every now and then. \n\nRecently she brought up the point that if I had never broken up with her she wouldn't have gotten raped and she feels this is the reason she can't get over our initial break up. She says she doesn't blame me but I can't help but blame myself for what happened. I try to be there for her as much as possible and I realize rape isn't something you can just forget, but the fact that it manifests itself in her occasionally guilting me for our break up hurts. And I know she's right that the rape would not have happened if I didnt break up with her. I'm losing sleep over it and even though things are normally good, I just want to know if there's anything i/we can do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Long story short, my soon to be ex-wife (married for 8 yrs) and I called it quits in the spring. She moved out of the house (for the second time) over a year ago. We've had issues for the past three years. We haven't been a couple for a long time now and rarely talked in the past year since she moved out. She hasn't been taking this as well as I have been. I was relieved when we decided to divorce as it was so much grief for so very long. I was also the one carrying the relationship. Needless to say, I've been living alone and with the encouragement of my friends and family I started dating at the beginning of the summer. As far as I know, my soon to be ex wife does not know. I do not know if she has been dating either. I have found a really amazing women and we have committed to each other and I can see this new relationship going somewhere. My problem is that I do not want my ex to find out I'm with someone else by seeing us out or by hearing second hand. I want to approach this as the adults we are. However, I am afraid that she'll get very upset and try to take it out on me financially throughout the divorce process. My gut says not to say anything unless it comes up but on the other hand, I want to get this off of my chest so I can be more public about this new relationship. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I graduated from highschool in 2012. I am now 20 years old (21 in June). So about 3 years ago my mom finally won custody over my sister and me after about 10 years of custody battles. The only problem is that all the years before took such a financial toll on my mom. So the past years she's basically been struggling to even be there for us at all. About 2 years ago she lost the apartment that we were living in. I had to live with my bestfriend for the last months of Highschool. My mom and sister stayed with one of her friends from the area. After Highschool we all moved in with my mom's parents. It's a mess really. I don't like going into detail on the living situation, but let's just say its very messy. I really don't like living like this although I have for the past couple of years.\n\nI have a pretty nice job at a high end computer retailer and I'm looking to continue education for a better career. The only problem is I really don't have the drive to do anything significant at the moment. What I would like to do is get my own apartment (Don't care about the size) and start again on my own. I feel like I've been dragged into a pit with the rest of my family that I cannot get out of. I just need some advice on how I can move forward. It probably doesn't help that I haven't been getting along with my mom lately. \n\nIn recent months she has denied my access to use the car (Which I ONLY use for work) and I had to improvise on ways to get to work everyday. It seems to have come to that again and I don't know if I'll be able to keep my job if I can't get there. The next best way would be by train which is a 3 hour ride so I have to get up 5 hours before my shift (Which is REALLY bad if my shift starts at 7am). Even worse the trains dont run at all the hours that I work and I just dont make enough for so many train rides.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone, first poster here, but coming to you as its the only place that I know that can help me really, so on with the show.\n\nI am male and in a 3 and a half year relationship with a female, we are both 19 seperated by a couple of moths,, and currently living in uni. We live in seperate flats at the moment, but beofr this we virtually lived in the same flat (1 room with a bathroom), I know this probably didnt help the situation.\n\nOur relationship has had some problems in the past with her being paranoid about other people, and that lasted about 6 months before finally everything was sorted out through the help of a counsiler and self help books. We were ok for a while, spendng a lot of time together and everything going fine, until recently things took a down turn.\n\nI have become the slightest bit paranoid with male friends, because it seems that suddendll her only outlook is towards friends, with her only ever talking about friends, and always seemingly to be on her phone. Our relationship is neglected, we barley spend \"quality\" time with each other (activities, films, ect.) and sex is completely out of the window, being 1-2 months bewteen it. I have moved back out into my own flat by a joint choice, as we feel the room apart will help us become us again. We do talk about it and she feels like she has done wrong in the relationship not being able to forgive her self with the paranoia at the start of our relations, or how she shouts and swears during conversations and discussions.\n\nAs well as this her familty has had a few problems, with only yesterday her dad having a heart attack, and her mum finding out he cheater on her a few months ago.\n\nSo here is the question /r/, how would i go about fixing this relationship and are we on the right lines to doing this?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, growing up I had a lot of issues with my childhood. My parents are drug addicts. My mother is a prostitute. My dad is a pimp. I was involved an underground child pornography/prostitution (though no penetration happened) ring. I grew up very severely abused emotionally, mentally, sexually, and physically. \n\nI was really lucky and got out of the ring at around 10 and cut my parents out of my life at 12 (mother) and 15 (father). I went through a couple periods of psychotic depression and anxiety but I've been \"clean\" for the last 2 years. I went through intensive therapy and still go to therapy occasionally. I'm very normal now. I'm a mostly happy person, I have a great support group of friends, I go to university, have a job, and many hobbies. \n\nIn short, I've become a really well adjusted and healthy person and worked really hard to get where I am. \n\nBut after dating for a while I've noticed when these things come to light people don't want to see me any longer. I don't really bring them up but they usually come up by the 4-6 month mark. I make a point of not going into detail. mostly saying that I had a bad childhood; maybe a mention of drug use and not speaking to my parents anymore. Twice now, I've been dumped for the sole reason that my past makes them feel uncomfortable. \n\nI'm still dating now and very happy with my relationships but I'm worried about the next time I get serious with someone and how they'll react but I don't think it's fair to keep things from them if they ask. \n\nSo, my questions are: \n\n* How do I handle these questions?\n* Does my past make me extremely undesirable even though I'm a healthy person now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me and my boyfriend (Jack) have been together for 1 year and it's been great.\n\nHe has a roommate (brittany) who is your typical blond girl(no hate). She is very beautiful and always has male attention wherever she goes. I was using his phone and looking for a picture he took of our cat I was going to send it to myself.\n\nI got to his gallery and I saw some pictures of her in lingerie posing. I later asked him about it and he told me nonchalantly that they used to have sex. My jaw hit the floor and I asked him what?\n\nHe said for about 6 months they had sex exclusively and that he was her first. He said he didn't think it was that big of a deal and that I'm just making something out of nothing \n\nI'm very uncomfortable because they live together and she is always all over him. Examples.\n\n•when she hugs him she pulls his head and puts it on her breasts this is so fucking wrong.\n\n•when they are talking she'll always make some sexual joke pertaining to their past escapades.\n\n•she's always texting him and even had to stop talking to me for a week because her cat died.\n\n•when we came back from our trip she answered the door in nothing but a towel and HUGGED him in nothing but a towel.\n\nThis sounds bad bit we have a good relationship but I can't help but feel like it's wrong on some level.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in junior standing right now where I'm supposed to figure out what I need to do with my life (grad school vs full-time job) and so I intended to go to grad school for a Masters and be done with school forever. The thing is I don't know what schools are truly good and worth their money for I/O programs. I've already crossed-searched to narrow it down to these and could narrow it further: CSU Long Beach, CSU San Bernardino, CSU San Francisco, San Jose State, San Diego State, Chapman University, and Claremont Graduate University. Yes? No? I should just travel back in time and start over?\n\nI am firm about staying in California for grad studies and if I/O doesn't work out, maybe MBA might? I would only stick around for my 4th year to buy time with getting research, internships, and minor in business administration. Would it even work out if I get a really good GMAT score with a minor in business administration?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been talking to this girl for a little while now, and she told me a few days ago that she doesn't eat. She is extremely thin, technically underweight, and thinks she is fat. \n\nShe was in a verbally abusive relationship before, and I feel like that's where this insecurity comes from. It's just so upsetting to me to think of how she starves herself to try to feel pretty, when she could eat all she wants every day and still be the cutest and most interesting person in the room. \n\nI've never dealt with a situation like this before, and would love it if anyone who has had experience with this (an SO who was anorexic or someone who has been through it themselves) could give me some tips on ways to help her gain confidence and let her know that she is in fact beautiful on the inside and out no matter what she weighs.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband was in an accident May 28th. He was not at fault because the driver he hit made an improper left turn causing my husband to basically T-Bone the guy causing damage to the front passenger's side of his car. He has full coverage and Financial Responsibility (SR22) insurance because we are financing the vehicle. The other party was cited for an improper left turn, no insurance (minimum cov. insurance is required in IL), and driving on a suspended license. We filed the claim the day after the accident online. A week later they mailed us the claim paperwork to fill out. One week after, they asked him to take the car to their approved auto body shop to have their adjuster look at the car. We persistently called about when the repairs would be done or quotes for repair and every time we would be thrown into a full mailbox and no one that actually answered would help or give us any information. The auto body tells us they are just waiting on the insurance company to approve starting the repairs. A month after the accident they asked us to send them a copy of the bill of sale and a history report of claims with his prior insurance (from which he had no claims.) Over two weeks ago they called my husband to say they are investigating the claim because he is married and I wasn't under the policy. The broker that signed us up asked us if we wanted to add me on and we declined to save money (Im under 25) and because I wouldn't be driving the car at all. So in two months, countless letters, and maybe 4 calls from them we have no car, no repairs, or even a repair quote. We don't have any money at all because to make matters worse my car was hit a week after his resulting in a total loss and a payout from my insurance. We used up all our \"rainy day\" savings to buy me a new car while waiting for my insurance to pay. We don't know what else to do other than hire a lawyer. Please help!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry if this is in the wrong place.\n\nIts a pretty standard story. Guy likes girl, guy is pretty sure girl likes him they talk a little bit, neither makes any overt statements, guy fails to ask girl out for a while.\n\nLogically I know that I want to ask this girl out. I've looked up all sorts of things to help with social anxiety and they help a little, but not enough. I can start conversations with her sometimes and that's nice and all but the pressure always stops me from asking her out.\n\nThe caveat: I have her phone number, she has mine, and I could ask her out over text no problem. I probably would eventually work up the [whatever you think it takes to overcome social anxiety] to ask her out in person, but I'm afraid it will take a while, and for a variety of reasons I don't want to wait long.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Link to previous post:\n\nSo we were talking about male/female relationships and our relationship needs, and I suddenly realized that while I need security, it's not x dollars/hour that gives security; it's the knowledge that your partner will be there for you through thick and thin, and that they accept you for who you are, flaws and all. And in my case, security also means that my partner is a good father and could be an enthusiastic and loving stepfather to my 3 kids. As far as social approval, anyone who judges him on something so superficial will be meeting the business end of my metaphorical shotgun. \n\nHis words also made me realize that he does feel bad about his job situation (a) because he doesn't enjoy it much, (b) because making money for The Man is not what he's about, (c) because he'd like to be able to afford more therapies for his son, and (d) because he doesn't want to have to mortgage his future by someday needing to draw from his retirement fund. He just doesn't know what to do about it. So I decided to offer to use my ambitious nature and whatever resources I can muster to help him get a more satisfying and lucrative job. He said he would love some help, and I hope I can succeed in my mission!\n\nI know we have known each other for only a month, but I feel like he may be \"the one.\" And as I'm 43, divorced, and thus have had significant life experience, I may actually be able to say that without a thundering eyeroll from r/relationships.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [26F] met by boyfriend [27M] my freshman year in college and we were each other's first real relationship. We have been dating for 6+ years, and lived together for 2, until I recently moved out of state for graduate school this past year. Ever since we have been long distance it seems like any small problem we have had in the past has just become magnified, and with the limited time and resources to see each other, our relationship has been stressed and we have been having a lot of arguments.\n\nOne of his close friends is going through a divorce, and ever since he found out he was really pushed away from me and keeps bringing up our problems. The thing that is bothering me is that, I knew he was friends with the divorcing couple since high school, but I thought he was closer to the guy friend. He was trying to be there for both of them, but the guy fell off the map and he is always talking with the girl discussing her problems and our relationship problems. I get the phone bill and see that during the time he needed \"space\" he has just been texting her back and forth throughout the day and night. When I came to visit last weekend, he even got texts from her at 2-3 am, which he renamed under a GUY friends name so I wouldn't know. He even lied to my face about who it was. My gut told me it wasn't, so I checked the phone bill and it was the girl.\n\nNow I know we are having problems, and I admit that 50% of that is my fault and being deceitful is 100% on him, but I don't know if I can trust him with a long distance relationship. I asked him to the see the conversation but he had deleted it because he said that her divorce was private or they were talking about problems in our relationship. We have talked about marriage and our future, so I do really believe we had a very serious relationship. Am I being naive to think that this is just due to the stress of our relationship right now? Can you recover trust in a long distance relationship or is it over?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My bf and I have been together for about 3 years and have a child together. I have been begging him to get help for his bi polar for two years now. He used to be physical but not anymore. \n\nWhen we argue it turns very heated and he ends up yelling and screaming, and I spend most of the argument begging him to lower his voice. \n\nI take care of all of our finances and pay rent, things are very tight money wise as he doesn't work and hasn't held a job for more then 3 months for well over two years.\n\nI tell him to get out when it seems he might become physical and he refuses to. Then at random arguments he actually does storm out but not be for breaking something or leaving with my bank card or taking the only form of entertainment I have with him.\n\nHere is where the co dependence kicks in. I beg him to come back, part of me feels like I can't live with out him and I need him and all that other crap. It makes me feel disgusted with my self to feel this way.\n\nHe says I nit pick at him and bitch at him because I bring things that upset me to him. That I treat him like he's a house pet because I tell him to get out when he is bordering on getting physical. That I'm checked out of the relationship because I don't support him in his struggle with his big polar ( I'm not equipped to sort out his mental issues, this is why I beg him to get help).\n\nMy self esteem is so in the shitter after this relationship has been on my shoulders for 3 years. How do I sort through these feelings of co dependency. So that I'm not some loser begging for him to come back.\n\nHas anyone else had a tough to end relationship? How did you set things final and how did you cope with the massive change?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 2 years ago I took up homebrewing as a hobby and recently I've been thinking about giving my operation a name and investigate possibly going pro a few years down the road if everything goes well. \n\nI recently thought of a name I love, but a short Google search shows that some homebrewer has already used the brewery name on untappd.com and brewshuttle.com. It appears that the only person interacting with him/her are friends and family. Neither account has been used in at least 12 months. I've already checked the surrounding states for similar businesses or trademarks and came up with no results. Should the few uses on the websites be enough to make me rethink the name? Or is this worth pursuing?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I recently started dating a girl that I like a lot, and for the most part everything's going great. The other night we had the 'dating history' talk that seems to pop up when relationships start getting serious. After I briefed her on my (admittedly meager) tally of sexual partners, I expected to hear something close to my own experience (she's 21). Instead she dropped a number that I didn't expect, given what I know about her. Not quite double-digits but on the margins. I haven't been able to stop thinking about it since, and it's driving me crazy. It's not an extremely high number and I like to think I'm open-minded about sex, but the fact that this has been consuming me makes me realize how many hang-ups I still have.\n\nSo, Reddit, what in your partner's sexual/dating history makes you uncomfortable or upset? How did you manage to get past it? And has anyone been in a relationship where you've lived in blissful ignorance of your partner's past?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I wake up late today, and realize I feel like shit. Nausea, dry heaves, the works. No matter how much water I drink, it's still there. So, I decide to go to the closest dining hall on campus, get some soup, tea, and something like ginger ale to try and ease it.\n\nThis particular dining hall does not have a bathroom, and has these tiny garbage cans.\n\nSo I'm getting my soup, when I start heaving again. This time I puke in my mouth. Trying to hold it in more, so I can find a garbage can, I clamp my mouth shut and cover it with my hand. It didn't help. A few seconds later and there's a large puddle of my vomit on the floor. And on my hands. And on my face. And on my shoes. And coming out my mouth and nose (remember how I clamped my mouth shut?).\n\nThen, before I can fully register what has just happened, I puke again, this time in the garbage can. I mostly hit on target. At that point someone from dining hall staff approaches me with a wet cloth, asking if I'm okay, and people are staring. After trying to clean off the best I can, I hightail it out of there.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend committed simple battery this Spring after punching another woman at a bar in here in Georgia.\n\nA few days after the incident, she was contacted by a police officer who informed her she had a warrant for her arrest. She turned herself in and spent 24 hours in jail before her initial hearing inside of the jail where she was informed of the charge against her. She was released and went home to await her court date.\n\nFlash forward to last month. She went to court on her scheduled date but was informed that her case was not ready and would be postponed for another three months. She was directed to the solicitor's office, where she was given an Acknowledgement of Court Date document (not sure if that's the actual title, but it included information about the arraignment rescheduling on it). That document, in addition to listing the revised date and time, also lists the charges she's facing. When she looked at the paper, she noticed a new charge had been included alongside the simple battery, masturbation for hire.\n\nNo where, not on the officer's report of the incident, nor the county court case website system, is there any mention of this charge, only on this scheduling document. She contacted her arresting officer, who said he did not arrest her for or charge her for it.\n\nThis document was hand written by someone in the solicitor's office, not printed from a computer, which leads me to believe it's a simple clerical error.\n\nMy question is how can we be certain that this charge was not erroneously added and will be brought up at her arraignment? If it is a clerical error as I suspect, is there anything we can do to petition the county to remove it or to ensure that the charge doesn't actually exist somewhere official?\n\nAny advice would be most appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend (19) and I (19/m) have been dating for 5 months now. I was given this awesome opportunity to work as an intern halfway across the country for the whole summer, from May 18 - August 25. I took the offer. My girlfriend and I have a very stable and happy relationship but we have never been away from each other for more than a week. Now we are away from each other for 3 months. We either text, call, or skype on a daily basis.\n\nMy girlfriend is incredibly beautiful and there are obviously guys who take interest in her. Sometimes these guys still pursue her even though they know that shes dating me. I don't believe my girlfriend is much of a flirt and she draws the line where it needs to be drawn. I have FULL trust in her. Bottom line: I have NO apparent reason to doubt her or have any fear of losing her because we constantly communicate and are honest with each other.\n\nLadies and gentlemen, I love this woman. I could potentially see myself spending the rest of my life with her. I don't understand why I still have these feelings and fears that I will lose her even though i put my FULL trust in her. I have talked to her about this and she has told me that she sometimes has the same exact feelings of insecurity about me being with other women even though she puts her full trust in me. Have any of you experienced this? What can I/we do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So our french teacher asked us to make an interview in french as a proyect, my friends and I made a pretty long video (compared to the other teams) in which I added a lot of memes when I edited it, and also I uploaded it to Youtube ( skip to minute 4, the first moments are really boring), then I sended it to our teacher, which had a blast watching it, but my friends and I had fear that we were going to show it to all the class, and that's exactly what happened. we first saw the other videos, which were poorly edited but really funny, but then the moment to watch our video came, and I was the only one of my friends that wanted our video to be watched because I had trust in my work.\nWhat happened next was really akward, the first 4 minutes everyone was bored af, because that's the only serious part, but then shit hits the fan and the memes start to appear, to be honest I was confident that they would at least giggle, then I was horrified because they had a face that subtly said \"what the fuck\", they laughed only once in a whole 11 minute video, at the end there is an akward silence in the classroom and our teacher only says \"well... everyone can have artistic liberty\", guess im not doing the graduation video anymore...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep this short and sweet. In the last few weeks of term at college I met this guy. We were basically unstoppable together. Spent every waking hour together, went on adventures, were a big bundle of energy, so alike in every way, amazing amazing sex. \n\nProblem was, he's a pro skier and is gone for 3/4s of the year training nonstop. We didn't talk about things before we left, but kept talking on the phone, texting for a while. \n\nThen we decided that we had to break things off. It would be almost a year before we would be in the same place again. Skiing is incredibly emotionally consuming. It was fine. I understood, it was for the best.\n\nBut it has been a month since we decided to break it off. It doesn't feel like I'm getting over him. Sure, I have a few moments here or there that are temporarily alright, but they are just tiny distractions from the fact that I miss him. We've barely talked in the past weeks. I'm so afraid that I will never find anyone that gives me such energy, that fits with me so wonderfully. I don't even know if I want to get over him. I don't know if he wants to get over me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone. I'm [26m] having some trouble trusting my gf's [24f] words.\n\nBackground:\n\nWe've been together for one year, and throughout this time, we've struggled with her being \"too nice\" to guys who have been interested in her. Guys will ask her to coffee or lunch and she'll assume it's friendly and go, until it doesn't turn friendly anymore.\n\nOne colleague, in particular, has been carpooling with her to work three times a week. He's asked her to breakfast/coffee/lunch, and she's gone, glad to have met a friend. When it went as far as dinner, that's when I put my foot down and asked her to think if this guy may have ulterior motives. Since then, no problems.\n\nShe's gone as far to say that he's become annoying and is immature, will say things that are inappropriate at work (nothing sexual in nature, but just inappropriate office gossip) and how annoying she finds him.\n\nToday, she had an office party. Her facebook updated and it shows her with this guy in multiple pictures, goofing off, her playing around with his tie, laughing, etc.\n\nI'm not jealous of him, but it's that when I listen to her complain about this guy, how annoying he is, how repulsive he is, and how she doesn't like this guy, and then I see pictures of her and him goofing off, it makes me sometimes question her words vs her actions.\n\nShould I even bring this up to her?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened this weekend and I've been thinking about whether or not I should share this with the world but here I go.\n\nI was taking a shit in my bathroom naked when I decided to check some emails on my phone. I had emailed Amazon the previous day to return some hair wax that I bought (the product I received wasn't the one that was displayed on Amazon)\n\nThe email from Amazon stated that in order to proceed with the return, I would have to take a picture of the wax and send it to them. No biggy! I thought and proceeded to finish taking my shit. After I wiped until white, I stood up and picked up the small container of hair wax and took a picture. I sent it to Amazon and went about my day. About a few hours later I receive an email from Amazon and I open it up and it stated:\n\nChoongsam,\n\nWe have reported your message with the picture to Amazon since you sent an inappropriate picture. We are going to close your return request and not authorize it.\n\nTLSS\n\nObviously, I was confused and had to recheck the image and lo and behold, I sent amazon a picture of the hair wax alright but at the bottom of the picture was my dick and balls.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about a year now, and my fears of commitment have been growing even since we got together. I know we're both young and teenagers feel like they'll be together forever, but we have not had a single fight. Ever. \n\nWhen we first got together, it was just about \"getting some\". As time passed, however, we found that we were perfect together. We share the same interests, personality, and we still have enough difference to make it interesting. Most of you might be asking yourselves \"where's the problem?\". \n\nWell, most people get married when they're older. They go through life, getting experience, learning stuff, meeting new people, and having some good stories to tell when they're at the bar with their friends. Instead of going out and meeting people, me and my girlfriend are happy to stay at home watching movies and eating pizza. If I let myself be happy (short-term) I could be trapped in a long-term relationship (love) that would deny me these experiences. I want to be single again.\n\nThen I look at all the older people, (like some on this Reddit) that are looking for EXACTLY what I have. If I abandon my girlfriend now, I could come crawling back five depressing years from now, only to find her with another guy. That's a horrible thought.\n\nSo, I need help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've just moved to a new area from Montana. While I've read tumblr/4chan dumps and whatnot, I really never thought this would happen to me.\n\nSo i go to a Wendy's after work for some fries and a frosty to have with me when I go Folfing right after. Long line through the drive through, so i go in. As I approach the door a younger woman is coming in behind me.\nNow, my reaction to ANYONE coming in a door behind me is to open/hold the door open for me. \n\nWell fuck you too FEMALE. Holy shit guys. I didnt know real people would get \"triggered\" by a common and nice gesture... i mean damn, i woulda held the door open for anyone, but i guess holding the door open for some \"dog kin pentasexual\" person is, \nA. A rape.(hily shit what?)\nB. Supporting a patriarchy (wtf?)\nC. I said \"sorry maam\" which is a normal responce to doing something a woman (or something that portrays a female externally. ... i guess) doesnt like.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Share your love/dating-stories of pure bullshitery. I'll start.\nOut on a date. After we've been to the movies, we hung out at a party, drank a little bit (I got a little tipsy, but she didn't). We go back to my place, and lay down on the couch. She's REALLY horny, and we start getting intimate. I start rubbing her tits and inner tighs, working my way down her pants, and undressing us. She climbs on top of me, and we start making out, still undressing.\nSuddenly, she flips the fuck out. She screams at me for not stopping her, and \"broke up\" with me, whatever relationship we ever had. We had an argument for about an hour, which she just kept telling me I was \"using her\". 10 minutes after she left, she told me not to take anything she said seriously. What the FUCK.\nShe apologized, and told me she still wanted us to be friends.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Sorry if this is rambly, I'm just super annoyed!)!My husband (24) and I [21/F] have been together 5 years. Lately, he has been really irritating me lately with his excessive phone use, and it's starting to get under my skin! He is constantly on his phone, either playing his stupid game or on Facebook or God knows what else. \n\nWe have a 1 year old son, and it's gotten to the point where he'll sit on the couch and play on his goddamn phone while my son tries to play with him. And it's ALL night. I am mainly the one playing and taking care of our son. He wasn't this bad before, he would put his phone down while our son was awake, but lately it doesn't matter.. I rarely have my phone. My son is usually throwing it around or it's on the floor. I only really use it when my son is napping or at night when my son is in bed. I DONT want to be one of those parents who's always on their phone, that's why I rarely have it on me when my son is awake. Plus, he's a handful enough already lol. Anyway, my husband is really irritating me with his phone use. And sometimes he can get a little weird with me touching it too. it always has to be in his reach. It's starting to make me wonder if maybe he's doing more than being on FB :-/ \n\nIve tried talking to him so many times about it. I've tried to talk to him about it nicely, and not so nicely. I bring up my concerns, but he usually stops for a couple hours or maybe one day, than goes right back. Tonight, I told him to please get off his phone and help with J (our son, he has a really bad cold) and he got mad, tossed his phone and just sat there and was all mad. It's getting ridiculous and I don't know what else to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "What are my options in relation to changes being made to my employment contract? Can I refuse to sign something I did not agree to without it affecting my employment?\n\nBackground:\nMy employer pays for our exams and training. It has not been stated that we would need to repay these costs until recently. It was announced last month (2 days after I booked my next exam) that we would be liable to repay costs in the event we leave the company within 36 months of the cost being incurred. Today we have been given a document stating it's an amendment to our contract amednmnd the changes are to be implemented immediately.\n\nMy problem is I have an interview lined up 31 March. I've had a first interview with the company (1 march) and they have called me back for a second interview. \n\nI calculate the costs I would owe my current employer as £530. I only earn £1,106 at present and cannot afford to lose that amount from my pay or I cannot afford to pay my half of the bills/rent and my SO wouldn't have the available funds to help me out.\n\nCan I refuse to sign this document? What is the smartest move here considering I did not agree to these costs prior to taking the exams and certainly wouldn't have sat them if I had known?\n\nMy issue is that I don't want to kick up a fuss and create tension if I don't end up getting the job. But on the other hand, the interview is promising (I have a friend at the company and the Directors I've already met have apparently gone up to her and told her how impressed hey were... so I'm hopeful).\n\nI think that's enough info.... but happy to expand if necessary. New job would be a £4,500 pay increase; walking distance so less fuel costs; less travel time etc.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have been together for over two years. We started dating senior year of high school and since then have had a colorful relationship. We're now at the same university but living in separate apartments. She has one roommate who a close friend but she's looking for a second. Today she told me she found one, however it would be a guy. This makes me extremely uncomfortable because she has left me for someone else once before and I feel given the opportunity she may do it again. I've told her politely that I was uncomfortable with the situation but she doesn't seem to care. How should I approach this if she goes through with it? Anyone have some advice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened last night. I just started college and last night me and a bunch of friends went out to one of the university hosted freshman dances. We all pregamed in the dorm a little bit and went out for the night. I unfortunately drank a bit too much and told my group (10-15 boys and girls) that I was going to go back to my room to sober up a bit but that they should all come back after the party was over to continue the night's shenanigans.\n\nI got back, I was drunk, forgot what I told them, and eventually opened up the hub and started jerking it. Of course, 30 minutes later, my entire floor came running into my room trying to party...and saw me ass naked spanking the monkey. The girls screamed and the guys laughed their asses off before leaving the room. So much for reinventing yourself in college...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm taking Cephalexin 500mg for every 6 hours (it says 4 times a day). However, since I had to wake up early in the morning to take a regular dosage, I had no recollection of taking it at all when I woke up later. I was so sure I didn't take it, so I took another dosage. After counting my pills, it seems that I actually DID take a dosage early in the morning..so I pretty much took a following dosage 3.5 hours after the previous one. Is this bad? I've been regularly doing 6 hours apart. Will this damage my liver?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I need help so let me start from the beginning of my problems my grandpa died, I was so sad I needed someone to talk to so I rushed into a relationship with a crazy women who would beg me to give her a baby and I'm like 17 so Wtf is wrong with you. I was drunk one night and she almost convinced me thank God for my friends. So I broke up with her and I met this girl through one of my lady friends and omg this girl was amazing, but I rushed into it too and we did things and within 6 days we broke up. Which is good because my best friend use to date her.\n\n So I'm really sad though and I was just talking and meeting people and eventually this girl walked over to me and said hey I love your smile it's adorable... Here I am think Jesus she's 6 footish and really hot, I'm really short so I was confused, but my wing was like yo wanna get something to eat with us. She said yes and while we were eating we talked for 3 hours and I found out she's model, but as great as that is I really liked her personality and I fell in love and she moved for a job so we broke up.\n\n I was crushed and ever since then I've had to get drink to even kiss a girl who's not her, but the weird thing is I'm over the model. I just can't find anyone I mean I use to have game now I can barely talk to a girl let alone get her to like me. Plus I already know I should just be myself but lately that seems harder and harder to do. I find myself a victim to my desire of wanting to be myself again. But even then I feel like I'm always going to be like this, this man who everyone says hi to and girls think is cute, but never can actually get a girl and actually have a meaningful relationship instead of this let's have sex and say we're dating bull shit I usually get.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello, I am in Texas and having an issue with my father about a medical settlement from when I was younger. When I was just a little boy, 5 or so, I had an accident at a hospital that doctor's thought would physically disable me for the rest of my life. \n\nLong story short, the hospital was found at fault and there was a settlement reached on my behalf including increasing payments every month for basically my entire life, as well as lump sums every few years.\n\nMy issue stems with my dad who is controlling all of the money, I am much older now, over 25, and he will not release any information about it to me. Any time that I ask him about it, he just talks a bunch of gibberish confusing me. In the past he had said I would get it when I was of age, which I had just assumed meant 18 or 21, and it was no big deal. \n\nHowever, now that I am older than my assumptions, he still will not tell me anything about it. I recently found a document that outlined some of the settlement (It seemed to be some sort of draft) that had a lawyers name on it and gave her a call, where she referred me to another lawyer who has not gotten back to me in about 2 months.\n\nAnyway, I am just curious about what I actually need to do. I don't want to ruin my relationship with my dad over it, cause he is actually a pretty great dad, but what other recourse do I have than to find a lawyer or something? I now have bills and a kid on the way, and access to that money would be fairly helpful in resolving some things.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am almost 28 and my wisdom teeth are just now coming in. It has been EXTREMELY painful for the past few days and almost nothing seems to stop the pain when it flares up. (Thankfully it stopped last night and hasn't started hurting today yet). I need to have them removed but I am not working, I live with my fiance who doesn't have a lot of extra money to pay for this stuff up front (like every dentist I've contacted said has to be done) and I don't have insurance. \n\nUpon calling around to a few dentists around the area (even a dentistry school), they've all said the same thing; \"You must pay at the time of service or go through carecard.com and get financed\". Well, that would be WONDERFUL if my credit wasn't already crap from my past. I literally wasn't approved for credit to have painful teeth removed and I don't know what to do. I left a message with social services to see if they can steer me in the right direction but does anyone know anywhere else I can try??", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey all. So, my girlfriend of a little over a year and I have been going fairly well throughout the last few months at University. However, the past few weekends I've been out of town so she hasn't had too much to do for fun. She has been hanging out with one of her new friends from one of her classes, let's call him Ted. \n\nTed and my GF have been texting, snapchatting, everything, which I don't have a problem with because as long as nobody gets the wrong idea about a friendship I'm not going to tell her how to live her life. \n\nHowever, when I was coming home one Sunday evening, she had been sporadically texting me all evening. I get a text around 8:30 (I'd gotten home around 7) saying that she's hanging out with her roommates and that she'll come over to my place soon so we can hang out. \n\nI then don't hear from her until 8:30 the following morning, and I had been calling and texting her throughout the night trying to get some sense of what she was doing. She doesn't mention anything of it, and apologizes. \n\nWell previously, after a discussion, I pried out of her that she wasn't with her roommates and she invited Ted back to her room after they got dinner together, all of which was taking place while I was already home. \n\nAfter more discussion, it turns out that they were on her bed together, while he was playing her guitar, and they ended up holding hands before she drove him home around 1:30.\n\nAll of this she would have never told me had I not insisted on having all the accurate information. She insists that nothing other than hand holding happened. \n\nIs this considered cheating? I feel as if I've been cheated on, at least emotionally, in that I feel completely disrespected and betrayed. Any thoughts or comments would be greatly appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Everething started last friday, we were on the party and I drunk to much, she was angry for me for that, but I apologized her and she said that she forgives me. \n\nAnd last week I said I take her on the concert, but I need to get tickets first. And I got the tickets. My mistake was I tell her about it day before the concert and she said she can't go. In day of concert She was angry about it and she said that I prefer go without her but with friends and I lie to her. I said that is not true and from the begining I wanted to go with her. I feelt bad for that she even could has thoughts like that. She was angry but later she said that ok. I said that I don't know now if I want to go to this concert by myself, and she said that I should. \n\nThis morning I said her that I was on this concert but I couldn't enjoy it. She said that I want to arouse pity in her and she doesn't want to talk. What should I do now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So a little back story. When I was a freshman in highschool I had a friend who was senior. He was nice guy and I kind of had that weird old brother type feeling for him. We shared a few classes and we always had a great time at school. Well, he graduated and started college, we added each other on facebook but never really talked outside that. Recently he's been hinted that he's like to take me out on a date sometime, which I would really like, but I'm afraid he wouldn't be able to see past our differences if he knew how different we really were.\n\nNow, he really doesn't know much about my opinions on things because I'm a little quiet, he however is constantly posting his opinions on facebook, so I know them all too well.\n\nI guess the biggest difference it religion. He's catholic and it's a huge part of his life. I've been an atheist since I was about 14. Now for me personally this isn't a huge deal. My last boyfriend was religious, and we simply avoided the subject, but I'm thinking that this guy is just a little too... uh... devoted to just brush it off.\n\nHe's also constantly going on about being pro life and anti gay marriage. He's started several 100+ comment flame wars by being so forward with his opinions. I'm very pro choice, and my believe that everyone deserves to be happy in regards to love. Again, not a big deal to me personally. You believe what you believe, and no one can chance that but you. Again though, he's not like that.\n\nOther than that though we have a lot in common and both obviously are attracted to each other. I'm just wondering if you guys think it's worth it to try and start a relationship.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello World!\n\nI have been around reddit for a while now (I lurked for a time, judge if you must), so I feel that I have a general understanding of how the hive-mind of reddit works. I was checking the front page this morning before heading to work when my friend checks the page over my shoulder to see the post about Rush Limbaugh calling Ms. Fike (Women's health advocate) a \"slut\". He is not a complete imbecile and rightfully finds this to be disturbing, as I do. He then looked to the left and found that, at the time, the post had gotten 1919 upvotes. Now I know that upvotes help good posts to the front page so that others may find them and join in the rabble, but it came off to my friend that reddit really liked the Limbaugh sentiment. Any thoughts on this issue? Install a \"rabble\" button?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been a Marketing Assistant at my company for 5 months now. This is my first job out of school and I couldn't be more miserable. I'm overworked and underpaid and I'm always taking the blame even when I'm not involved. I do not have a good work/life balance anymore. I am looked down upon when I do not continue work at home unpaid while others do nothing. Speaking of, I've taken on key functions of other employees jobs which I am not qualified for but my supervisor doesn't care. I cannot complete these tasks because I do not understand what I'm doing. I want to leave but I don't want potential employers to frown upon the \"5 months\". I can stay a little longer but I can't handle much more. When would it be acceptable to quit and not have potential employers look down upon my experience?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Everything is 90% good. \n\nHe hangs out with his 4 male friends on a regular basis to play a game that I don't like playing, so I never come. At times, those males bring their girlfriends or just female friends along, and it's always been fine with me.\n\nNow, however, a girl [23/f] \"Trisha\" is interested in becoming a regular part of their hangouts. The hangouts would be 4 guys (including my boyfriend) and now her. I barely know her, but from what I've seen of her on Facebook, she (based on the pictures):\n\n1. drinks a lot and flaunts it\n\n2. has stripped to her bra and underwear before with my boyfriend's friends\n\n3. grabs her boobs (through clothes) and holds them up for camera at a party environment \n\n4. stands on table while doing similar obnoxious behavior\n\nSoo... I don't think my boyfriend would cheat on me, but it makes me uncomfortable to imagine her becoming a regular part of their group. I also feel like it's almost disrespectful for him to be around someone like that on a regular basis. I've told him that it makes me uncomfortable, but he (he has had more social interaction with her than I have, but still pretty limited) says that those pictures are just pictures and don't represent who she really is. And that she is \"just one of the guys\" and not to worry about it.\n\nBut here I am, worrying and writing about it on Reddit. Is it unreasonable for me to be bothered by this girl becoming a regular part of their hangouts? And how wrong would it be for me to request that my boyfriend does not hang out with her, or significantly limits it, rather than having regular hangouts with her involved?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I realize this is definitely something that has been asked before but I am kind of at a standstill right now in my head and cannot get over one girl I used to know. Honestly, the song produced by Gotye couldn't be anymore true. Beautiful girl, friends for years, finally realize we both like each other but we go to schools in different states, fall in love, she breaks my heart by just cutting me off one day. Literally overnight just stopped talking to me. Ignored everything. It drives me up the wall to this day. \n\nI know I have seen worse situations reading through reddit for a couple of months now BUT trying to feel better about myself because some guy on the internet can sympathize with me only puts me at peace of mind for that instant. So I ask you...\n\nWhat have you done or think yo can do to really push forward in a time where your memories hold so strongly? I am only 20 and I realize I have many more women in my future but it is hard to replace certain people... Mind you I am writing this in November and this is a girl who hasn't spoken to me since the end of August. That is literally how much it affects me.\n\nI guess I will start the thread by suggesting what helps me most but it is what I get least of going to Community College until January. Being surrounded by new friendly faces. Having laughs and new memories with new friendly faces. Getting to know more people. I am very well off socially but I am stuck with the same people I have known since high school because of going to community college. I honestly cannot wait to meet new people at a different school.\n\nSo I guess it is your turn to tell me the best way to travel through forgetting about all the memories you have...honestly if anyone has a better idea than just creating endless new happy memories, my hat is off to you.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I work as a swim teacher, and this morning I had an early shift. I also worked yesterday so I had to hang my swim clothes to dry. I wake up, go outside, pick up all my swim clothes, go back inside, I take off my pants and undies and proceed to put on my work shorts when I feel a strange sensation on my left butt cheek. I'm really confused as to what it was because it hurt way too much for a thorn that might have gotten stuck in my clothes. At this point the pain gets stronger and stronger and I'm like what did I just do to warrant this pain?? I pull back my shorts a little and I see this little fuzz-WHAT THE FUCK THERE'S A BEE IN MY SHORTS. Fast forward a few hours after I've finished work: I got stung twice, and I still didn't kill that bugger although I don't know whether it was a yellow jacket or a honey bee so it could be dead already. Thankfully I wasn't allergic to bee stings because 15 minutes after that I was in the pool...longest 5 hours of my life. I suppose my consolation is that I wore my shorts right way around or I'd be in the hospital I imagine.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so I have quite a few things that have been a problem in my relationship that I havn't been able to workout with my SO.\n\nSome back story. We've been dating for over a year and recently (3 months ago) we moved in and this is when all of these problems became very prominent. \n\nFirst off I used to enjoy responsibly smoking cannabis and sometimes drinking with a few of my friends once or twice a week. By responsibly i mean we'd stay in the house, no driving, no hard liquor allowed, not allowed to do anything reckless which was enforced by all of us. Most nights consisted of playing smash Bros on the wii or watching animation domination. Nothing bad or reckless.\n\nTo my girlfriend this is absolutely the worst and scumiest thing to do and thinks all of them are low lifes. There is no compromising on me smoking or drinking. End of story.\n\nAnother thing is, we have sex regularly once every other day or so. But occasionally she will completely lose interest for anywhere from a few days to over a week. Now this is fine with me, everyone has different sex drives and that's alright. But it recently got brought to attention that she does not like me masturbating during our dry spells and porn is completely out of the question and so are nudes.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, so here's the situation. It's a bit messy. \n\nI was contacted to work on a project for a group of close friends, with one of them holding majority stake. The group of friends created an LLC.\n\nI signed an NDA, and I signed a contract outlining what work I need to do. Since that point in time, the group of friends tried to kick out the majority stakeholder, and he was having none of it. \n\nThe head dude decided to disband the LLC, and create a new one with him as the only person in it. Since then, the other guys decided to start up a new LLC with a similar idea, because they still want to move forwards with the project. \n\nI have a sneaking suspicion that the original dude wants to sue. I was just wondering if I have anything to worry about, as I'm not part of the new LLC, and the original LLC I signed the contract with has disbanded. Also, as a contracted programmer, I'm not necessarily providing any ideas or making my own thing, I'm just coding to their requirements.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've(18m) never had much luck with girls but I've been shaping up my life together and would like to be a little more adventurous when it comes to the relationship world. I broke up with her(17f) after a 1-1/2 year relationship and told her that this was why, ensuring her that it wasn't her. Obviously she was still upset, and now she's giving me a choice of either actually going my separate way and possibly losing her completely, or being with her. I don't want to be in a committed relationship right now, but I also love her still; neither of these options will work. I'm trying to make my own option, where we remain friends and possibly, after college, think about becoming more serious. Is this possible? And if so, how can I do it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I sold my car to someone a few months back. Let's call him Bob. I signed over the title to Bob and made him sign a bill of sale/notice of transfer. I got three copies, one of which I mailed to the tax collector's office the next day. I didn't hear anything from either the Bob or the tax collector for nearly two months. Then today, a friend of a Bob came by and said that Bob sold it to someone else, Jim. Bob never transferred thr title over to himself when he bought the car. Instead, he sold it to Jim. Jim tried to go get tags in his name, but can't because the title is still under my name. Bob and friend gave Jim my number and said that they aren't going to deal with the situation and Bob changed his number.Now Jim wants me to go with him to the DMV and sign the title over to him. That isn't legal, I think. Because I sold the car to Bob, and I already turned in the bill of sale/notice of transfer to the tax collector So isn't this out of my control and Bob's problem? I guess my question is what do I do about this, if anything at all? I Live in Florida if that's relevant.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been friends with this guy that goes to college on the same campus as me for over a year. We would always catch up and hang out between classes, and even have some homework nights that would involve wine and getting our work done. I had always had a crush on him but he is so hard to read that I thought I was completely friend zoned.\n\nIt wasn't until one night I came back from the bars early and wanted to keep drinking that I asked if he was down to hang out and drink. I went over and we drank, talked and ended up watching episode after episode of a TV show. No moves were made this entire time. Then as it reached the early hours of the morning I fell asleep during one of the episodes and he woke me up to basically making out with me and hooking up.\n\nAfter this I didn't know what to do so I just sort of waited for him to say anything and I think we were both in shock so I just got dressed and we swapped a few words and I dipped out. Just recently we hooked up again after he came to a kickback I threw and we went back to his apartment with friends to play some drinking games and then I went back to my place only to get an invite to come back down. After this hookup he's the one that left me and told me was only leaving bc he had to be up in 3 hours. But we never kiss or anything after its just put on clothes and awkwardly showing each other out the door.\n\nHis friends have been pushing me to go after him and saying that he's lazy in the fact that he can want something but never really goes out of his way to get things. He also has told his friends in front of me that you cant just be friends with girls and also be attracted to them and plan to hookup because it doesn't work that way. So should I try to go after it or just keep it how it is now? My friends tell me I'm the Ice Queen and I don't show enough interest.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She and I have been FWBs for a month now. We're in 12th grade and between college applications, family, work, and recent break ups we both want a sexual connection but not a committed relationship. We're each other's first FWBs and need to make sure we're not messing up in any major way.\n\nNeither of us have gotten tested for STDs, but we both haven't had sex with anyone else and aren't currently. We also use adequate protection.\n\nI laid out some ground rules. We can date around and sleep with other people, but will give each other a heads up in case we need to get tested. Also, no actual dates. No hang outs unless they involve sex. We go out sometimes, but it's to quickly grab food or condoms. I try to keep texting for planning when we meet up, but once every while it turns into actual conversations. She insists that we should hang out like normal friends every now and then since we have a couple common interests and live close. She says it's okay cause she's \"partially aromantic\", but I'm still hesitant.\n\nI'm not sure how to break the news to my parents. They still see me as their little boy and would probably be furious if they knew I'm not a virgin. I live with them but take care of myself for the most part (I cook, clean, do my own laundry, hold down a job, and get good grades in school. I was taught how to manage money and do taxes). I feel mature and stable enough to be sexually active but feel like parents won't see that.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About two years ago I asked a guy out from one of my classes. He accepted and we went out on a great date. He mentioned he had thought about asking me out but was too chicken to do it. Talked for hours, messed up and did a funny good night kiss, and he said he wanted to do it again. \n\nSo we went out on a second date to a movie. Another great date and driving me home he was so excited. Asking \"when can he see me again?\", \"can he see me this weekend,\" \"let's go to a museum and have a really wonderful time.\" Things like that. I go on dates and I can tell when someone is into to me or not. He was into me. I kissed me good night, and was excited to see him again.\n\nA couple of days before our next date I asked to confirm plans and he said \"we could still go out as friends sometime but he didn't have time for anything else right now\" I said \"I said, I understand maybe some other time then\" and that was that. \n\nSo yesterday I ran into him in the street, he told me just moved to my neighborhood. He seemed not unhappy to talk to me, and he remembered lots of things we talked about. He smiled a lot and was really friendly. Anyways I am still totally into him I discovered after we bumped into each other. Is there any way I can proceed? \n\nSince he called it off last time should I just let it go? Can I ask if he wants to hang out again sometime? Even as friends? Would it be creepy to add him on facebook? Anyways main question, should I just let it go?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After a good amount of relationships and dating I am starting to notice a trend with myself. After a while I find it hard to keep focused or interested in one girl and start looking for something \"new and exciting\". Part of it I think is I really enjoy meeting new people, learning about their lives and then experiencing new things with them. So after dating someone or being in a relationship for a while I often feel the need or just gravitate toward someone else who sparks my interest even if I know its not a long term deal. From there if anything I get fulfillment out of learning and talking to them about their views, life etc. Also the enjoyment of their different hobbies, likes or experiences we do together.\n---\nIdeally I know I one day want a family and kids, but I am not sure how I can stay in a long term relationship with this mindset and feeling. I know maybe I haven't found \"the one\" or been in true love, but I often wonder if I had the one, or am capable of just wanting to be with one person.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My dad is a narcissist and a high school teacher, throughout my adolescence he has compared my achievements to his students. At home he frequently made my younger brother and myself stand in front of him and tell him that I'm not better than him. \n\nObjectively I know I am a high achieving college student (I have 2 jobs, I'm on scholarship to an out of state university, do club sports, and have a job lined up after college) I am confident but at the same time can only value things comparatively (I'm good, but there's always someone better). I hadn't talked to my dad since I left for college 3 years ago but he sends me money and gifts all the time, which I frequently send home. He cheated on my mom 3x, she just recently left him. When I went home this past Christmas we had to spend time with him or he wouldn't sign the divorce papers, he resumed treatment of myself and my brother like before. \n\nI have never been in a relationship, if I like someone there is always someone better for them than me. I've seen a therapist and he said I need to reconnect with my dad. I refused. Any steps to moving on?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so I'm F25 and he's M27ish.\n\nSo one of my best friends and I met at a summer camp when we were both in primary school. She had a brother a couple years older, and the three of us would go on adventures across the neighborhood and wreak havoc in local playgrounds everywhere. Once high school started, my friend and I started drifting apart. Her family was incredibly religious and mine was becoming increasingly liberal in the changing political climate. Although our families remained friends throughout it all, I can't help but feel her parents seeing us as a bad influence. Although we lived down the street from each other, my friend and her brother were sent to private Christian schools for the rest of their education, giving me fewer reasons to see her or her brother.\n\nYears pass, my friend's brother moves out of state for college, and she follows suite after she's done with high school, and I don't really hear from them until four years later when he moves back home and I decide to solicit his help on a website I wanted to make. I felt like we really bonded over this. He was really cool and incredibly helpful, funny, and smart to boot! Although he went to a private schools, he's very open-minded about civil rights issues, we have similar political affiliations, watch the same TV shows, and he isn't ashamed to like musicals.\n\nMy main problem is that I've had a history of horrible relationships. Not even horrible in the way most people think. I feel like there's a very strong chance I'm asexual. I've been in four big relationships that I felt helped me become the person I am today, and I'm thankful for it, but they all ended with the fact that I was unwilling to have sex with my partner.\n\nI feel a sense of security with him, because I know he would never do anything outside of my comfort zone. However I don't start a lot of relationships because I feel guilty about not being able to satisfy my partners. One of my biggest concerns is that if he does wind up liking me back, and we start dating, and something happens causing us to break up, this could mean bad things for our family's already fragile relationship.\n\nOKSO", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am currently in Lima. Long story short, my bags got lost in Mexico City and I only received them last night. 5 days without anything kind of drained my budget pretty quickly and I need to get to Cuzco in the next few days. I have found it is pretty difficult to find out about bus companies without actually going to the bus station. The hostel I am staying in, The Point, only gives me times and prices for Cruz del Sur. It is a very safe and comfortable company, but a little bit more than I would like to pay. Also, just going to the bus station to check it out is an option, but that is another 20-30 soles I would rather not spend. I have about 115 Soles in my pocket and about 500 more available to me for about the next 8 days. Even if I could get the ball rolling and find a cheap bus to Ica or Huacachina. The safer the better, obviously. Just want to kind of get a feel for prices, it is my first time in South America. \n\nThanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "and she claims it's because of the anti-depressant she started taking a few months ago. we never had any sort of issue in the past, and while I know it's a common side effect of many drugs (I'm on some myself), I can't help but feel it's something to do with me.\n\nit's not that we won't sleep together, but she never starts anything any more, and if we do have sex, it's usually painful for her. I told her how it was concerning to me and bothering me, but she kind of puts it off to the side and it's something that is seriously bothering me. if I ask, she'll rarely not be up for it, but it doesn't seem like she's enjoying it at this point, which is something that makes it not enjoyable for either of us. I've brought up my concerns and she's dismissed them as silly, but when I ask her to try and take another drug or talk to her doctor about it, it just goes nowhere.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months and I thought things were serious enough for me to invite her to my family's home for the Xmas holiday break. I didn't ask if I could share a bedroom with her, because it was OK with my previous girlfriend. We moved our stuff into the same bedroom and spent the week there without incident.\nAfter she left, I had a couple days with my parents and my mom revealed she was worried about my girlfriend \"oozing sex\" and being way too touchy feely and that she wasn't emotionally mature. My mom and dad were upset that we just shared a bedroom without asking. (I have my own apartment and they know that we spend most of our weekends together.) Now my mom can be overly analytical of this stuff because she's in the counseling profession.\nMy girlfriend is pretty touchy feely but I like it and aren't all relationships mostly physical at the beginning? I think she's really smart and sexy and fun to be around. She is a bit younger than me so should I be worried about what my mom thinks? Might she have some validity for her concerns?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I've dealt with some anxiety/panic disorder issues since my college years. The worst of it was prior to me meeting him where I pretty much had a breakdown and started an antidepressant pill. \n\nI met him about a year after this and because of how well my life was going, and things were stable I decided to get off of the medication and test run how my anxiety was at that point. Well, things have been going pretty great until about six months ago when my medical boards occurred and other life changes to where my anxiety slowly started creeping back in and lately where I've been kind of going through some troublesome moments.\n\nNow, I don't like being on medication unless it is absolutely necessary and there's no other options or coping mechanisms for it. The thing is, he just thinks anxiety can disappear and truly doesn't understand it. His mother has severe anxiety so I'm just surprised he isn't more understanding of when I ask for space or react in different ways. \n\nHas anyone here been in a similar situation where your SO doesn't understand mental health? I'm pretty outgoing but sometimes certain situations/potential health scares will get me thinking and concerned and I can panic.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Okay, so my boyfriend tells me he is ping away for a week with his family to a remote location where there is no cell service or wifi so he won't be able to talk to me until he gets back. This is totally fine with me because we only see each other every couple days as it is and we aren't constantly talking to each other anyway. However, I was on Facebook after he had left on his trip and a friend of his who lives near me posted a picture of him at a party with her. Considering he's supposed to be in the middle of nowhere, I'm a little confused? Our relationship is pretty solid and I like to think if he just wanted to go party or something without me or if he needed space that he'd just say so but now I'm not so sure? Should I ask him about this Facebook post? Thanks for any advice in advance :)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been friends with him for years, I trust him with absolutely everything. We are so alike that sometimes it gets dangerous.. like with our arguments.\n\nHe refuses to accept he is wrong. He will fight until he is blue in the face until the other person (me) accepts that he is correct and I am wrong.\n\nOccasionally he would do/say something to hurt someone, without meaning to, and refuses to apologize. I have been in a situation where he said something he should not have, making someone feel very uncomfortable. His reason was that the person egged it out of him. When I told him the right thing to do was apologize because he hurt their feelings, he told me \"Why should I apologize when SHE is wrong?\"\n\nWhen he realizes he did something to make me feel bad, he'll apologize sarcastically upon my insistance and much arguing.\n\nI've learnt to stop arguing all together. When my opinion differs from his, I've learnt to just shut up. But recently, it's been getting harder and harder, and I feel like I'm starting to resent him because of it. I am very good with accepting defeat. The problem is, however, that when I am wrong, he makes me feel- without meaning to- like I should be ashamed for being wrong.\n\nI've spoken to him about this countless times but we are both so hard-headed that there is never any conclusion reached.\n\nHelp? :(", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the other day we were playing volleyball at my school and since there's people who can't play we're allowed to catch the ball. So I jump and push the ball where no one can reach it, but there's this black guy who dolphin dive and catch it (most amazing volleyball catch I ever saw) Me wanting to make a funny joke, told him he should get back in the NBA ( I actually wanted to say NFL because of that catch) but since I heard that joke about every black people being good at basketball, so many times, the word NBA just came automatically. Now he thinks I'm racist (Which I'm really not) Long story short, What's your worst racial comment/joke?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Well this is a strange question, but here it goes.\nI had been with a girl in a festival last year and I quite fell in love with her, we had sex and the next 6 month was quite rough for me since we lived far away and we spoke a lot, but she wanted to remain friends after all. It was hard but I accepted it. Now we'll be going to the same festival this year, and she said that \"everything will be the same\" and I don't know how should I feel about this.\n\nIt's true, it'd be great, but still I know that she does not mean it seriously at all, and I'm looking for a more serious relationship, also I just want to have fun with my other friends. \n\nOn the other hand I don't want to upset her either, which I guess I'd be doing if I said no or something along those lines.\n\nSo what is your opinion on this? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

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