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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About two years ago I [25/M] befriended this girl \"Julie\" [21/F] who I had eventually developed romantic feelings for (we've been flirting back and forth for months). Of course I was up front with her about my interest and it turns out that the feelings are not mutual. I still remember her saying \"Don't get weird on me now\" the day after my little revelation. \n\nSure rejection hurts, but we remained friends (I'm an idiot?), with her going as far as to tell me that I'm her \"closest guy friend.\"\n\nI couldn't just abandon her completely without feeling like a dirtbag now, but sticking around was getting increasingly painful. She would tell me about her one night stands and I would do my best to act like I didn't care. The conversations involving her seeing other guys ate away at me, so I finally tried my best to create some distance from her, never initiating contact and keeping any text replies very brief.\n\nSo things quiet down for about a year, and I *feel* like I've moved on. I had very brief flings with a few other girls, but haven't totally clicked with anyone yet.\n\nThen cut to last night when I get a [text message]( from Julie out of the blue.\n\nI don't know why, but I felt hurt by this for some reason, meaning I'm not completely over Julie *still*...\nSo if she is still causing me pain, do I just cut her out of my life for good?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ive been living with this girl (and two others) for 5 months and Im moving out in a few weeks. Ive been nuts about her the entire time Ive been living here, but we have just started to hit it off in the last few weeks.\n\nLast night we went to the huge park nearby and just talked for three hours. I otld her that if she is ever single agian Id like to see where things could go between us. I figured that was a respectful way of saying that I want her to dump her boyfriend and date me. Now Im at a dead end and no clue what my next move should be.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey there. I am a 15 year old boy who miraculously has managed to keep a girlfriend for nearly 8 months now. I love her very dearly.\n\nAbout two hours ago I decided to sent her a picture of myself in pajama pants just before going to bed. After she responds I say, \"Do you feel obligated to send a complimentary shirtless picture back?\". Normally, I would never say this seriously. It was just a joke, and I thought she saw that. \n\nJokingly, I push the request a bit. After that bit she isn't responding so I let her know it was all a joke. She didn't find it funny; she thought I was being real.\n\nShe has been mad and crying while I have been trying to clean after my insensitive, dick move. I was actually quite astonished to see her respond this way and this harshly. For the past hour I have been apologizing, and I have been trying to console her. Nothing has been helping.\n\nIn the end I feel horrible, regretful, helpless, and disgusted with myself.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend LARPs. Which is Live Action Roleplay. For his party I had the idea to ask the girl who runs it if she could make a personal quest for him and at the end would be a chest with new Larp gear I plan on buying for him.\n\nWell the idea turned into a small larp event in her backyard for his birthday party. The problem is I don't larp. So I would have to most likely sit the party out. I really wanted to go since I haven't been to one of his parties in a few years. Last year I was recovering from back surgery and the other years I had work.\n\nShould I just ait this one out now and not go or is there a way to cancel the idea without coming acrossed as a jerk?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I like the little cartons of flavoured milk and before you open then you give them a quick shake to stir it up. I don't usually have soft drink but in the case of a University musical theory exam I thought I could use something fizzy. \n\nI sit down, exam begins. I pick up my bottle of coke and give it two quick shakes and immediately open it, not realising what hell I have unleashed. It spews all over me, my phone and the chick sitting in front of me drenching her. She screeches like a wild yeti and here I am holding a now completely empty bottle with ruined exams in a 3 metre radius. I look like a complete jack ass and the professor didn't have any spare exams left so I will have to do it tomorrow. The chick I soaked burst into tears too, I apologised but it was too late for that. \n\nPhone is toast too.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm coming here to see if anyone would be willing to give me some advice on my chances of getting the person, who caused my recent car wreck, to pay for the damage to my car. So here's what happened. I was traveling about 30mph about 1 to 1 1/2 car lengths behind the person in front of me. As the driver in front of me was about to pass through our approaching intersection with a red light system, another car (the one who technically caused the accident) blew through his red light which caused the car in front of me to slam on his brakes which didn't give me enough time to stop so I rear ended him. The driver who ran the red light did not hit anyone so he kept on driving. There was no serious damage to the person I hit but my car has some damage to the bumper/hood but not internal damage that I can see.\n\nSo we called the cops, got a report, and they gave me a citation which I expected due to the rear end aspect. Here's the kicker. There was a witness who followed the driver which ran the red light and took down his license plate number. He gave all of that information to the police and gave me his contact information. He told me that he would testify on my behalf if I requested him to. \n\nThe reason I'm trying to find out is because I only have liability coverage on my insurance policy and since it's a rear end, the damage is considered my fault and probably not covered. What are my chances that I could hold the person who ran the red light responsible for my damages? Does having a witness help my chances or is this just a case of he said she said bs? I haven't gotten a quote on my damage yet so I don't know if it's worth the cost of having to lawyer up. If I had to make an educated guess I'd say around $1500-2000 worth of damage and labor. Is this something my insurance company should pursue? \n\nThanks in advance for any advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is pretty fucked. She just found out and told me about it, and they want her to start on Feb 2nd. We are going out to dinner later tonight to discuss it. In the case that this is a career making job (I will find out tonight), I almost feel like it is my responsibility to break up with her and let her go pursue her career. After all, its only been two months. The fucked thing is that I've really started falling hard for her and she told me that she loves me last time I saw her (pretty early in the relationship I know, but she definitely has extremely strong feeling for me). Is it appropriate for me to make the decision for her, as I know we are both still young, and potential career opportunities are important at this stage of life? Or should I let her make it on her own (probably stay)? Thanks in advance. I'm already starting to tear up for the first time in years.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys, been in relationship for half a year with my lovely girl. This is my first relationship so I want to know how to deal with this situation.\n\nA while back I was using her phone and she got a message on her social media website (she knows I know about it, but not that I actually found her profile). A guy she doesnt really know (loose acquaintance she put it) measages her Saying Hes coming to our town. She's from Russia so it's in Russian and she writes blogs on it so I like to read what she says. \n\nSo what he said was that he was going to surprise her with the date he was coming (I later found out using google translate). She made it seem like to me that she didn't really want to hang out with him since he's not even close to her, just a friend of a friend.\n\nWell I looked at her profile (it's public) and found out she commented on his photo being at the airport \"so ambiguous.\" So she messaged him as soon as he got to our city. I got curious and read it. I'm feeling insecure.\n\nShe doesn't know that I know. The guy is a single guy here and my gf is very pretty. I trust her, but this makes me VERY nervous even though I'm trying to rationally tell myself that it's ok.\n\nBut I can't get over that she really wants to meet up with someone she's not close to.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We've been married for four years, together for five. Suddenly all he wants to do is sniff my asshole and armpits regardless of when I last showered. I love him a lot of want to make him happy but it makes me feel so fucking gross. I've tried to be GGG about it and just let him but it really turns me off and the last thing I want is to have sex with him afterward. I just find myself getting angry and feeling used.\n\nThese days it's like he hugs me and cuddles me and them gets on his knees and shoves his face into my ass crack, or he hugs me and tries to shove his hand in my ass crack. I asked him if he could maybe build up to that instead of going for it right out of the gate but he doesn't seem amenable to it. I've started to turn him down every time he reaches for me because I don't want to be sniffed like a dog. I don't even want him to touch me anymore.\n\nHe confessed that he really wanted this when we were drunk one night and I said I would try it but I just can't get into it. He wants to stick his tongue into my asshole then kiss me and it makes me want to fucking vomit. He's hinted at wanting to try piss play too. I have absolutely no interest in that.\n\nI don't know what to do. I love him and I feel like I've tried to be as GGG about this as I can but fuck. There is SO MUCH kinky shit I'd be happy to try but why does it have to be this? Bodily wastes and armpit stank just have no appeal for me. I mean if he wanted to do all this shit fresh after a shower, sure, but he doesn't. He seems upset when I shower before bed now.\n\nSeriously, at a total loss here. When the fuck did I marry Napoleon?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys,\n\nI know a girl since elementary (we are both 18 now) and even though we went to different schools we kept in contact through messengers for the last 6 years. Neither of us expected any kind of relationship and therefore we could basically chat about anything (even about own relationships with other people). \n\nLike 2 months ago I split up with a girl and we started chatting even more frequently. 2 weeks ago she invited me to go ice skating which made me pretty sure that both of us want to get closer as it was a really cool evening and she kept smiling at staring at me (she brought a friend with her). like last week she asked me whether I had any plans for New Years Eve. \n\nI actually had plans with a few friends (I have very little friends after a incident I wont explain now because I could basically write a book about the last 3 years of my life) but I really want to go out with her. So I was invited to a party with people from her school. I dont know anyone except her and she asked me to bring a friend with me in case she is busy with someone else which I think is a perfectly fine reason. \n\nOf course I dont know anyone I could bring with me and as I am a little shy I find it difficult to start talking to people (both male and female).\n\nAlcohol is allowed of course.\n\nSo first question: Can you give me any advice on how to get started talking to people I dont know at all? Of course I could ask how this person got to know my friend or get involved in another conversation, but I doubt it will always work out. At least there is alcohol :P\n\nSecond: How do I behave concerning her? I think I can be pretty sure that she wants to have a relationship with me because of our past and her body language 2 weeks ago on the ice, but Im not sure how to behave in a group of people as I have never been in this situation.\n\nThanks for the answers :D", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I dated a girl (22) for a year and a half. We split in summer because I moved to Florida for summer. She got a job in Panama city, right when I came home from Florida. \n\nI'll spare the details but she met up with a boy who she met after knowing on the Internet for 6 years. He lived 3.5 hours away from her. The day they met in real life he asked her out. She said yes. \n\nFast forward 1 month... he moved in with her and they say I love you to eachother and I only found this out after creeping on her tumblr. Big mistake. But she'll text me every fucking week trying to be friendly I want nothing to do with her. But I still love her and haven't moved on. I was hoping she would eventually come back up to philly and we would work on things. Because I thought her behavior was extreme and just a front and irrational.\n\n How could a relationship with a stranger from the Internet work when he lives 3.5 hours away? Well after two or three weeks they live together and say I love you to eachother. Now I'm really depressed and feel like shit. Can anyone help, or try and explain what's going on?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am [18m] in college. I have been out and partying a lot recently, and have met some nice freshman girls on my travels. One girl [18F] stands out above all of the rest. We have hung out a few times over a 2 week period, and each time makes me want her more. When I asked her about dating, she mentioned she isn't over her \"summer fling\" [20/M] from her hometown. I enjoy time with her over everyone else, but I still want to get out and \"explore\". Essentially, my question is Would I look like an ass for hooking up with other girls while liking her? Could she be testing me to see whether I stick around? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Girlfriend's mother blocks all electronic communications between us (My number, email, youtube, even my imgur account has been put on some kind of watchlist, preventing me from talking to her without GF getting in trouble. Her mom refuses to be an adult and talk it out, rather she would be a brick wall. We live an hour apart from each other, none of us can drive yet, and even if I could, she's not about the #renegadelyfe and wouldn't sneak out, and she wouldn't be allowed out. Her mom doesn't let her go to 99% of school events, just because of the POSSIBILITY that I am there. Please note, I am not \"that kid\". I don't do drugs, I try to be respectable, I'm (to my knowledge and at my friend's opinions) not an asshole. What do, reddit? And yes, she is worth it.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "BT provided us with a \"homehub\" (router) which has a built in phone. The phone has never worked, and yet we can only use that phone to get the 'free' calls that we pay for. Because it doesn't work it means we have to use a second phone, which means we receive very high charges.\n\nMy father called BT support up and asked them if they could repair it and, failing that, replace it, because the damage is nothing to do with us, and any and all filters on the phone have been checked and replaced, yet still nothing. They said \"we will repair the phone happily, just pay us £140 and we will send out an engineer\"\n\nObviously we don't want this, we would rather just have a new hub, i mean it has to be cheaper for both sides for them to just replace it? it must cost them what, £40 to produce?\n\nanyway, down to the point, they aren't budging, is there anything anyone could suggest we do to make the robbing bastards give us what we pay (heavily) for?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have recently become self aware to the fact that I have been commentating everything in my head. For example, if I have a conversation with someone, instead of listening to what they are saying, I analyze the social iteration. In my head will be nonstop questions that play louder than the actual discussion. \"Does she think I am an idiot?\" \"Is he uncomfortable?\" \"Does she think I am creepy for making eye contact?\" \"Does he know I am not really paying full attention?\" There are a million other questions like that.\n\nEven as I have become self-aware of this, I still can't stop it and focus. Its been a problem mostly when communicating with people, but has effected other areas of my life such as concentrating on a project at work. Even now as I type this I can't really turn it off.\n\nI think its most troubling when having sex. Instead of getting into the zone, I am constantly thinking about all this other bullshit. How she perceives me, how animalistic it feels, etc. The best sex (and perhaps social interactions in general), have always been drunk. Being drunk is the only time I can really get into the zone and turn of the internal dialogue.\n\nIs there anyone else experiencing this? I'm sure everyone does to some extent but I feel other people have better control over it. I'm not sure if its just social anxiety disorder or what but….I'd really like to try to get a better handle over it. What are some techniques I can practice to turn off the voice inside my head?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "As said in the title, I'm an Australian, I'm 19 almost 20, haven't got my license yet and I'm working a dead end office job. I have always wanted to join the police though they said they prefer people 21 and older with life experience, so I am sitting in this shitty job with my shitty life, and hating it, so I decided maybe joining a branch of the Australian Military would help me, would that be something they would love to see on a resume?\nIf so, where in the military should I join? Typical Army? Become a sniper? Or maybe Navy, I want something active and never boring.\nI know this isn't the most typical question, but I'm desperate, I need something new and have always considered joining the military for a back up plan but this would be something good for my resume when I go to join the police, yes?\n\nAny information would be greatly appreciated, tips, inputs and just your opinion on the matter would help.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So over the past two years I've been lucky enough to save about 20k. I've got it all in my checking account right now. I'd like to move most of that money into a savings account to be sort of an emergency fund and move about 4-5k into a checking account for my bills and everyday expenses. Then, once I have the two accounts I can tailor my direct deposit paycheck to put the amount I'd like to save each month into my savings account and the rest will go into my checking. Does this sound like a good idea?\n\nI'd like this new checking account to be somewhere that doesn't charge me any fees. Right now I get docked 2 bucks at most ATM's and get a 5 dollar monthly fee...\n\n**Some other questions and facts about my self:**\n\nI've got 825 shares in MTW stock that I'd like to sell and put that money else where, but that's a whole other question and thread. This is worth about 13k right now. I'm also going to need to buy a new car here pretty soon.\n\nI'm young and have been lucky enough to save quite a bit of money. I don't know a lot about personal fiance so far though. Would it be a good idea to go to some sort of financial adviser to help me better plan out how to save my money?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So me of 21 finally got a confirmation that the girl(21), will allow me to take her on a \"date\". That made me extremely happy was finally able to \"grow the balls\" and ask. Which in return she said yes. Things are going great so far as a long distance relationship.\n\nThere are two major problems though. The first is that I'm currently in Germany on a tour for another 4 months. So the next time I'll be able to see her and actually take her on the date will be when I come home for PCS leave(In the army). We talk every day Via Phone and Skype etc, which is nice even though I've known her for 7 years this is really the first time I have been able to see her personality for what it is, and it is amazing. She really is Liking the LDR, because she says the last couple of boy friends she has been with sex has been really involved and obscured what she has really wanted. She says she brags about me all the time about how I'm Sweet and charming and thing of the like. What are your problems, success stories to help motivate me in that way. \n\nThe second thing is as much as I like her, she has HSV-1. With the amount of research I've done on this topic I'm skeptical about it. I am clean. I just don't know what to do. I like her...way to much for my own good, just to drop it off because of cold sores down below. As i mentioned above do you guys have any success stories, problems with a situation like this? I would really like some advice and other out looks then the obvious one of dude shes got the herp, just leave it, don't ever touch it.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So several months ago I met a friend through a MMO. I played with her and her husband and we gradually got closer as friends over time. A few weeks ago, it comes out that she enjoys erotic role playing and asks me if I want to try it out.\n\nThings go great, but I then ask about her husband and what he thinks about all this. She says it's cool and that he is totally fine with it. We do with several more times and she even goes as far as to tell me what her and her husband have done on several occasions.\n\nHowever, this is a problem now. I feel like I'm starting to get jealous of her when she does the same with other partners. When she talks about what she does with her husband, I don't feel anything though. \n\nIs this normal? I'm having a hard time sorting out my feelings on the matter. If I liked her, would I not also be jealous of her and her husband? Am I secretly a clinger? I just feel angry at myself for feeling this way most of the time.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so, **I've known this girl for about 3 and 1/2 years.** **I'm 21, she's 20,** both at the same college that we commute to, and live about 15 minutes away from each other. We went on dates on and off casually over time, and then **recently we made it official.** We are very natural together and are very easygoing with each other as a part of that. A couple weeks ago we had \"the talk\" and she said **she didn't want to be exclusive with me.** I said I was fine with that and she seemed pleased. Over the next few weeks though, **she began treating me more and more exclusively**, intentionally calling me her boyfriend, her other half, etc. We compliment each other very well, she enjoys my family, we have similar life goals, etc. \n\nShe has plenty of other guy friends and I respect her and have no problem with that, I'm not overbearing or trying to control with whom she can or can't spend time. (She's not one to be pressured into things.) We've spent time together with her and her other friends and **I've had time to witness how she interacts with these other guy friends, definitely not the same way she treats me.**\n\nThen, **last Saturday things got a bit steamy,** if you know what I mean, and we ended up sharing our first kiss. After this, however, we had a dead time (just small communication), and didn't spend time together until today (A week later). It went alright and she assured me that things were still great between us, she just needed a little time after so many emotions. She held me close and looked me straight in the eyes as she told me this, as well as gave me a reassuring squeeze. (This is the kind of assurance I'm talking about.)", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I plan on asking this girl out today that I work with. The only thing is, I'm not sure what to do for the date. Essentially, she goes to the college right next to mine (they're pretty close, like sometimes people from her college will go to the bars around here, etc), and I know her from work since we have the same fall internship. I asked her to a date night at my fraternity a couple weeks ago (pumpkin carving and beer) and she came by--we carved a pumpkin, had a few drinks, and generally hit it off before her roommate came by to pick her up. Now I'd like to ask her out for a legit date of some sort, but I'm unsure of what. Dinner seems a bit formal, and since I don't have a car (although I might be able to potentially borrow one to pick her up/drive somewhere) it's hard to think of a place that works transportation wise (unless she drives her car, but that seems kind of lame on my part), plus I suck at thinking of casual date ideas. Help? Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. I am a 22F and lately I have been going out with 23M weekly. We texted every day, planned outing to the zoo etc, picks me up for supper/ random movie outing etc. He even has a polaroid of us at the back of his phone and his friends tease us a lot. He bought me a Kiel James Patrick bracelet that I have been eyeing for a few months and even got himself the exact one too. \n\nHowever, he left for Australia to study for 1.5 years last week and even though we still text, I don't know if there is anything going on between us. He has never been in a relationship before and I just don't know what is going on... I don't know how to hint to him that I like him because I don't know if he likes me too. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a week ago I had sex with one of my friends when we were drunk after a party. Absolutely nothing had happened between us beforehand, and no one had ever said anything about any feelings, so it was kind of a surprise, but it wasn't weird or anything.\n\nWe've had sex a couple of times after that, but we spend a lot of time together because he's also one of my close friends and central to my group of friends. My best friend has said it looks like he's close to loving me already by the way he acts around me. He says things that I can tell are genuine but it's all seemed to come out of nowhere.\n\nWe haven't spoken much about the relationship but he keeps asking to and asking me on a proper date! \n\nI really don't want to lead him on if I don't want anything, but I just don't know yet. It's hardly been any time so I don't know if I am just developing feelings for him or if I won't. I don't know whether it's wrong to keep like seeing him if I'm unsure and he really likes me - I could end up liking him but it's that he is already so keen on me I don't want to end up hurting him. Especially as above all else, I don't want to lose him as a friend.\n\nIs it wrong to keep sleeping with him and seeing him when I'm not sure I like him like that yet? I don't know what could happen, but I don't want him to become too invested in something I'm not sure of yet.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl at the pool of my apartment complex about 10 days ago. I got her number, and she was pretty bad at responding to my texts and snapchats, so I took it as she wasn't interested in me and kind of let it go. Then this past Friday night, she hit me up and we went out to eat, but she brought along a girl friend. So again, I took that as she's not interested in being more than friends.\n\nThen this past Monday night, she hits me up and says she wants to come see my puppy at my apartment again, and that she needed a ride to my place. So i picked her up, and we ended up cuddling in my room for about 2 hours. Within the first 10 minutes or so, I went for a kiss but she said \"no not yet.\" But we continued cuddling then towards the end of the night when she was about to walk to her friends place in my same apartment complex, she let me kiss her, then we cuddled for a few more minutes and she left. \n\nShe then came back to my place again and had me bring her home, and I dropped her off and kissed her goodnight. \n\nWhat is the next step for me, in terms of wanting a relationship with her? How do I let my intentions known? How do I learn her intentions?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am trying to break up with my boyfriend of 1 year after discovering he has been dating someone else the entire time. I found out the truth about 5 days ago and ended it. He initially reacted with denial and then anger. Now he is apologetic and wants us to continue as before. \n\nI have blocked his calls and text messages. He sent me letters in the mail. He emailed me 30-40 times in 24 hours and seemed so down that I relented replied, saying I would \"consider talking to him\" ie over the phone. Then he immediately started planning to meet. Now he is talking about buying an engagement ring, quitting his job and moving with me to another country, etc. He has taken to calling me from different numbers and I think he is hiding his caller ID. I am looking for a job at the moment so really would like to answer any calls from unknown numbers but am afraid to.\n\nI have since only sent him terse emails saying explicitly that it is over. I did send him one longer, rant-y email in which I listed the various ways in which he has lied to me to convey the magnitude of his crime. \n\nI am worried that I am dealing with an obsessive person here who is becoming unhinged. I want to end this ASAP and move on with my life. I am somewhat afraid of him physically because he lives nearby, although to be fair he has never raised a hand at me before. We also work in the same field and he is significantly more senior than I. \n\nI don't understand why he is clinging so desperately to this relationship when he treated it with such utter disrespect when he had it. In any event, while I am somewhat curious to understand the perverse inner workings of his sick mind, I primarily just want him to lose interest in me and GO AWAY. He was quite controlling during the relationship and now I don't want him to morph into a psycho stalker. I don't want to provoke him. If it came down to it, do I have any legal rights to get the police to stop him from emailing/calling me so often (in New York)?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure if this is the correct place to post this but here goes. A little background, we live in the UK, my GF lives in a different city to me due to our work, and 3 months ago started working at a new post. What I'm about to write is what I've heard from her.\n\nShe went out for a Christmas party with work colleagues and as usual involved dinner and drinks/clubbing. At the end of the night she and her senior (A), who has a higher position, married with children, offered to walk her home. She agreed as she was a bit drunk at this point.\n\nPrevious to this she has talked about A as a mentor who has guided her through the new job an given her some good career guidance. Needless to say she trusted him as a friend.\n\nAnyway, once they were at her home he started making very aggressive advances including trying to remove her dress, kissing her & inappropriate touching. All the while she was saying 'Stop, this isn't right, you have a wife' etc. She made it quite clear about this. He continued and at one point he had removed his pants and was trying to get her to perform oral sex on him. Again she refused and he left shortly after. \n\nShe is extremely upset about this and doesn't want to report it to HR or the police as she doesn't want to relive it and would rather forget about it and try to move on, she believes this will give her closure. I can completely understand but to me the situation is much worse then she is giving off and this needs to be reported to their HR department at the very least.\n\nSince the night occurred she has only told a couple of friends (who do not know A) and me. One friend has told her not to do anything about it and says things like this happens, to me this is completely the wrong thing to say and trivialises the situation. \n\nAt the moment she is very upset and angry, (as am I, I feel by not being there I can't do anything) and would rather forget about what happened. I'm looking for a little guidance as to what I can do for her. Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a sophomore in college and I met this amazing girl about 6 weeks ago. She's a freshman, she seems to like me, acts flirty, and we've hung out a few times as friends and danced (grinded) together on several occasions. My main concern is her ex. I should start by saying that I know so much about the situation because my sister is sorority sisters with this girl and they've talked. The ex is 1,000 miles away for school but they'll both be back in their hometown during breaks. He was her first boyfriend, they dated about a year, were saying \"I love you,\" he took her virginity…the whole 9 yards. \n\nThey broke up the day before she moved out and the only reason they split was because of the distance. According to my sister, she (my sister) asked to see a picture of him and she had a few right on her phone to show her. She's also texted him since the breakup but I'm not sure how many times/who started it/what was said/etc. I really like this girl and we click, but I'm worried about this ex of hers.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "For some stupid reason I told this girl I met that I was form a different country (you see I come from a country that doesn't have the best cred in america and I was abit ashamed). When I met her I didnt think it was going to lead to anywhere so I wasn't that bothered about the white lie.\n\nHowever to my surprise I asked her out on a first date and she said yes. we are going out for the first time but I want to tell her the truth.\n\n How can I tell her without making myself look untrusting? I really am not that kind of perosn hence why I'm being upfront about it in first date before we start. \n\nShould I just say that I was just teasing her when I first met or it was just a joke? How can I not make it a big deal?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This was about an hour ago.\n\nSo my brother has a stick shift honda accord, and since my car was in the shop getting some work done. I borrowed my brothers honda. I was in a rush to get into my local safeway to pickup stuff to make dinner tonight. So not being used to driving stick, I didn't think to put the e-brake up. I just don't have the habit in me. So I leave my car and I'm inside shopping when I hear an employee announcing \"Owner of a Honda accord (insert license plate here) please come to customer service.\"\n\nSo I knew that was my car, I went up and there was a girl there that explained to me what had happened once I had left the car.\n\nHer story:\nShe was trying to back out and noticed a car a few car stalls to her right was also backing out. So she waited and realized this car is still backing out and has plenty of room to leave. And it continued backing and she realized theres no driver. So she hops out of her front seat and rushes to my car and starts pushing my car away from the car that was in the stall behind me. A few other people came to help and thanks to them there was no damage and my brother will never know what really happened while I was borrowing his car. \n\nMonday, am I right?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She was in her living room, watching TV. This was at about 8:30 in the morning, and she was exercising. She turned the TV up extra loud to hear it over her excercycle, and woke me up. I went in there asking for her to turn it down. She said she didn't have to; I explained that I always used headphones so she didn't have to deal with my noise and that she should give me a little more respect, given that I paid rent at the time.\n\nShe disagreed. I went back to my room, rather pissed off at the lack of equality. I had no lock on my door; but I had a dresser right next to it, so I pulled one of the drawers out enough so that it caused the door to not be openable. Then, I turned my speakers up really loud and blasted Gangnam Style on repeat, with the bass cranked up as high as it could go.\n\nIf you hate Gangnam Style for being overplayed, you will see why I chose that particular song. I personally don't mind it. But here's the thing about my bass; it vibrates the walls, making one hell of a lot of noise. Needless to say, my mom was not pleased and shut off the internet. But it was oh so worth it.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Basically I was with my ex girlfriend for over 2 years and I was madly in love with her (still am) I just can't get over her even though we broke up over a year and a half ago. It isn't as easy as cutting off all contact with her because I want nothing more than to be a good father to my son so that means constant contact. I think about her every single day and knowing that she doesn't feel the same way crushes me and send me into a state of depression.\n\nI feel like there is no one else out there. Sometimes it gets to the point I feel like dis appearing for good. I have nobody to talk to. All my time is spent up with working during the week and then spending time with my son at weekends so my social life is thst no existent I'd go so far as to say I have no friends. I just feel I'd be better off not being around \n\nWhat hurts the most it was such a stupid reason we broke up. I know she is over me because I've tried to tell her how I feel and she has just knocked me back and told me she doesn't feel the same way. Even writing this has knocked me for six.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I fucked up. I have been with my gf for 4 years and I was happy. I just threw all of that away 2 nights ago. I was drinking with some coworkers and it was this one coworker. I instantly regretted it and the morning of I told my gf my mistake. She cried and just ran out. I myself hate cheating too. I have a biological father who did that to my mother and I fucking did the same thing. She's on the other coast right now we were suppose to go together but I fucked up the previous night. We were planning on moving in together in September but I fucked it up. We haven't talked since she left. She said were on a break right now and we'll talk when she comes back in a week. I hate myself so much that I think the only way to make this right is if I just end myself so I can never hurt her again. I tried twice. My biggest fear right now is even if she takes me back it won't be remotely similar to what we had before. I don't think she'll be happy like that. I honestly don't know what will happen and I don't know if I can live with the results.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I guess you'd like some background information on me/the bf. I would describe our relationship as \"the best friends\" because I can say literally anything and he accepts it's dorkiness and awkwardness. We have been together for over a year now, and honestly, between you and me Reddit, I want to be with him for years. No, we have not said \"I love you\" yet, as he has told me he is hesitant and wants to wait as to be 100% certain, even though we are each others firsts, both sexually and gf/bf-wise. \nSo as most 16-year-old highschool girls, I am in a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend. Also as most highschool girls, I feel as though our feelings are mutuall and will carry on throughout the vastness of 'forever'.\nBut, I'm skeptical. I have, on previous (though fleeting) encounters with members of the opposite sex and with countless \"BFF\"s, felt the similar \"love\" I have with my boyfriend, but it always ended badly. I'm skeptical in the sense that I DON'T want this to end badly. \nI do love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I don't know how to say it without me feeling like that weird, clingy, gross gf that everyone hates. \nI want us to be definitely real and true. I just don't know how I should say it. This is obviously nerve-wracking and I just need advice. Help:(", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not using a throwaway, and I'll attempt to be as honest as I can. I'm a straight man, 26, and I've never considered myself prejudiced at all. But in the last couple of months I've come to a startling realization. \n\nGay men annoy me. \n\nIt's not hate, or discomfort. I'm against hate in any form, assuming a particular person hasn't done something to rouse my ire. I support gay marriage and consider myself an LGBT ally. I've had a lot of close gay friends - mostly through theatre - and I've kissed guys full on the lips in front of packed auditoriums 5 days a week without trepidation. As for lesbians, well, I get along better with them than with almost anyone else. I like hanging out with women, and when you take the whole \"are we gonna bang?\" tension out of the picture it's relaxing as can be.\n\nIt's not the being gay that annoys me. It's the acting gay - acting *really* gay. Everyone knows what I'm talking about. It just seems disingenuous when someone's being as flamboyant as possible. I can understand it when someone's just coming out and feels the need to express their sexual identity, or in a pride parade - go wild, I say. \n\nBut when I see adult men acting like total queens, I just want to tell them to grow the hell up. It feels the same as some good old boy chugging whiskey on his four wheeler wearing a Nascar hat and waving old glory on his way down to the still. Immature posturing. Blegh.\n\n**BUT.** I could totally be in the wrong here. I might just be an asshole. This bothers me. I've always tried to believe that people should be free to express themselves however they choose. I hope it's not the case, but are my feelings here prejudice? And, have you encountered this IRL? How do you feel about it? All love and respect to you, even if you hate me.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to make this as short as possible. I live with my dad and am currently dealing with some issues (depression, anxiety, possible bipolar). I recently had to drop out of college because every day is a struggle. About two months ago, my best friend moved in with me because her mother would not allow the lifestyle she adopted thanks to her new boyfriend. Since there's a spare room here, my dad and I had no problem with her staying. \n\nShe's not around much (she stays out all night with her boyfriend) but she and him are here every morning until my dad gets home from work (my dad would not allow this, so they're sneaky about it). Now, I have a boyfriend myself, so I understand the rush and need for each other, blah blah. But my mental state is pretty screwed, so I absolutely cannot stand to hear them having sex every day. I want silence and peace. I am VERY irritable and it drives me insane to hear them fucking in her room right next to mine, in the shower, and just recently in the fucking kitchen. \n\nI also hate myself for feeling this way, because I know that they mean no harm. She only knows about my anxiety, but I've made it my mission to hide all of my other issues from her. Not sure why, it just makes me too nervous. She's lovely and she'd do anything for me, so I don't know how to tell her that I go crazy every day when they're here. Please, any advice?? I just want some quiet time in my own damn room.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This is a thought I've had recently. The entertainment markets are so flooded with mundane, average media. From music, to movies, to [books](\n\nI've been trying to figure out why so many people are trying to be authors, musicians, or make indie films. It's not just because they think they have good ideas. I think it has to do with getting paid to do something you don't hate, or even love, even if you're only mediocre at it.\n\nBack before the internet, the cream still rose to the top because of how difficult distribution was. Only the best stood out. Fewer choices, but better quality. Now anyone can call themselves a musician with a webcam and some guitar lessons. Anyone can distribute a book online. Anyone can shoot a movie and edit it on their Macbook.\n\nI have a hard time finding good quality entertainment, especially music. It's not that the good ones aren't making music; it is that I don't have the spare time to hunt them down through the hordes of the average.\n\nDo you think that we have so many people trying to make a quick buck because of the way the copyright laws are written? If you you could only only own a copyright for 14 years, would you put in the effort to make a mundane one-hit wonder?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi reddit. I'm a 20 years old male and I would love some advice, I'm sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this.\n\nI will start out with the background info.\nI recently got out of a long relationship and the reason it fell apart basiclly was that there was a rumor that said I hooked up with one of my closest friends which is a girl lets call her Emma. This never happend, both Emma and I got a lot of shit because of it in both our reletionships. My relationship failed when my GF was deadset that this rumor was the truth and cheated on me because of it as a sort of payback. I can not deny that there is a attraction between Emma and me, but we have never acted on it. Emma just got out her relationship aswell because she got tired of her BF being a douche about this rumor. \n\nThe problem\nEmma and I always sort of hanged out with other friends when we both had a partner. But I got a text from Emma tonight asking if we should hang out just the two of us tomorrow night playing video games, watching movies and drink some. This will propbably lead to us hooking up and I would not be far out by saying it will probably lead to sex aswell. I would also not be far out by saying this will lead us to becoming fuck friends aswell. While I can honstley say that I have fantasized about having sex with her, now that the opportunity has presented itself I'm not sure what to do. \nOne part of me wants to have sex with her and see how it is since it ruined my relationship and I wouldn't mind having her as a fuck friend(she is smoking hot). But another part of me wonders if this will make it akward to stay friends, I really treasure her as one of my best friends and I really don't want to lose her as my friend because of this. \n\nAnd that is my problem Reddit, what do you guys think I should do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "(Sorry this is long, but I've done so much and I'm running out of options)\n\nSo I've had wrist pains for 3 years from typing and drawing. I'd take frequent breaks to stretch and rest and hand, invest in ergonomic equipment, stand when I work, align my desk ergonomically when I do sit, apply cold and hot wraps to my hand, taken ibuprofen, wear a hand brace at night and all day when I'm using my hand. \n\nThe pain has been manageable in the past, and I'm only 26. I'm fit, eat plenty of fruits and veggies, I don't drink or do any drugs. Not even prescription. No diseases or illnesses other than anxiety. As long as my hand gets rest, or I use my left hand whenever I can (the non dominant), the hand recovers fast.\n\nAfter being unemployed for months, I got this data entry job, which I was grateful for since someone with an art degree and social anxiety is not qualified for much else. Plus the 9-5 schedule allowed me to freelance art at night, my real passion.\n\nIt's been 2 weeks, and my right hand is in the worst pain it has ever been. Even with all of my methods listed above, my hand is constantly sore. My temp agency offers health insurance, but I'm not sure if I can afford it. Even if I had it, it would probably take months to get an appointment with a doctor. \n\nI'm terrified. I have some savings to get by for a few months, but I really don't want to lose this job, after struggling for months finding something that didn't give me panic attacks. But I don't want to damage my hand, either. What should I do?? I'm getting desperate, please help!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I graduated college with no debt 5 years ago (majored in English Literature, mistake number one), then threw that all in the garbage by taking out a large student loan to start a graduate program I subsequently quit.\n\nI have been working whatever part-time jobs come my way since then. I promised myself that if I ever go back to school, I would save up my money first and pay my own way because I felt so stupid about being in debt with this loan for no reason.\n\nBut I have recently decided what I want to do with my life. I want to go back to school to get started on this path, but my current job pays less than 10 dollars an hour and I can't imagine how long it would take to save up enough money to really get started.\n\nShould I go ahead and take out loans to finance my education now that I know what I want to do? Or is my guilt and hesitancy about debt rational? I know I'm miserable right now, but nothing is guaranteed and I feel like I may just be setting myself up for more misery and even deeper debt down the road if I still can't find a decent job later on (I want to go back to school to become a teacher and I know sometimes it's difficult for new teachers to find work). I really can't see finding a stable decent job with the degree I already have. I'd appreciate any advice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It was so hard. He is such a great guy. Great boyfriend material, would make a wonderful father - patient, caring, loving, and loyal. And I had to give that all up because it simply wasn't working. I haven't felt a pain like this. It's a huge loss that I don't know how I can get myself back up. All these fears in me - Will I ever find someone as good and love me as much as he did? What if he's the best I could do? \n\nI've been hanging on to this failing relationship for so long simply because I couldn't let go of someone so good even though I knew that we weren't compatible and was inevitably growing apart. I've invested so much of my emotions and time with him that I don't know how I will go on. I feel like dating is going to be hellish as I will be using my ex as a yardstick and just nitpick at everyone who doesn't match up. \n\nFor now I've gone no contact as most have advised. Any tips or story that is similar to mine? You letting go of a great person? How are you doing now? Have you met someone?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I just bought a house two months ago, got a phenomenal loan (15 year 3.75%) through USAA, and figured all was well. Reading through the mortgage terms, I knew there was a possibility that my mortgage could be sold to Fannie Mae or Freddie Mac, but was told by a representative that as my credit was impeccable and my loan terms were so good, it probably wouldn't happen - regrettably, I didn't record that or get it in writing. \n\nMy question is, is there anything that I can do to get my money away from Fannie Mae? I realize that USAA will still service the loan and nothing will change, I just don't like the idea of my mortgage supporting Fannie Mae. \n\nCalled the bank, was told that there was no change in the loan, as USAA was still servicing it. After emphasizing how much I didn't like Fannie Mae, I was placed on hold while the customer service rep talked to her supervisor, and was told that there was absolutely nothing USAA could do, and even if we refinanced it would probably happen again. Emphasizing again that as the loan was serviced by USAA nothing would change from my end, she politely told me not to worry about it anymore.\n\nSo now I ask you, reddit, is there anything I can do without giving up my rather fantastic loan?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Before I start, sorry about the language. Mobile phone user and not a native speaker.\n\nOkay, so here is what happened. My BF and I got into a fight while being drunk, about something stupid. After we got home he FB chatted this girl he used to work with (he initiated it), telling her she was beautiful etc. She answered him in a similar fashion, but told him that it she thought is was too bad that he had a girlfriend. My BF then told her that we had broken up that very night, and that he wanted to meet her.\n\nI saw the conversation the next morning, bc he left his Facebook open. I confronted it with him, and he apologised and explained himself (he ran into this girl at the bar we were that night) before accusing me of not \"trusting him enough\". I feel like he could have done some more explaining to help me understand why he did it (he said it was bc he was so angry with me) and convince me that I am the only girl for him. With permission, I read their entire facebook-chat, and they had not talked for months, and it was just work stuff. \n\nShould I forgive him?\nI keep thinking about it and I am super snappy towards him about everything. Usually I am very confident, but now I am more insecure than ever.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The other day I met a woman who is about my age(18-19) and we instantly clicked with each other, I found out something that she liked and we spoke about that for a good amount of time. It turned out that she was taking a language course of a language that I speak fairly well, and she said something along the lines of \"you should help me because I have a test soon\". I got her phone number and sent her a text message a few hours later on in the day, sometime around 8:30 PM or so. The conversation is going nicely, she suddenly starts speaking in the language and things were going well. I decided to ask her (in the language) if she has free time the next day and that I can help her if she has some time. Now I haven't received a response since ~4 days, her Test has already passed. I thought that she was probably busy, but I remembered that she told me that she is sometimes socially anxious, so I think it could be her being too shy or something. The message mightve also been a bit difficult for her to understand, but I don't know. I don't think she is \"over\" me, since she seemed very nice and we had a good discussion earlier. My friend who was there for part of the time even told me that he thought she probably liked me(the way she looked at me, was interested as we spoke, etc) and she seemed happy in the texts(used some smiley faces, and was nice)\n\nSo now I am thinking about sending her a text today or tomorrow, asking how the test went, because I really enjoyed talking to her and want to get to know her better. But I am afraid I will come off as too \"needy\" or something. I don't see her until 2 days from now and it's not certain that I will. I am really not sure what to do, since I have been thinking about her this entire week, I just want to be able to talk to her a bit.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Greetings people of r/jobs!\nI have been recently looking for a job that's a step up from what I do. It would take a while to explain exactly what I do, but here's the short version: I make microchips.\n\nI'm looking to relocate to Austin to help out a family member there and have seen a few positions that might fit me. But then there's the barrier of higher education. It kinda seems you need a four year degree and two associate degrees to become a waiter (exaggeration, but you get my point.).\n\nIn my current job, I learned how to operate machines I didn't even know existed prior to working there. I learned the ins and outs of how our product is made, all the steps and why. \n\nI even helped engineers modify one machine to fit our needs when previously it was collecting dust.\n\nAll this feels irrelevant because everyone says on their resume that they're a quick learner. In my case, it's not speculation. It's fact.\n\nI've got reference's in spades. Engineers, Technicians, Managers, even a guy who reports directly to our CEO.\n\nThat being said, I feel like I won't be noticed or quickly filtered out due to my lack of a degree. (Despite, in some cases, looking at job duties and knowing I could do said job standing on my head while juggling sparklers and chainsaws. Exaggeration again. I can't juggle.)\n\nAny advice beyond \"Get a degree\" would be helpful.\n\nRegards, Mad Fake Scientist.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It sounds simple enough but it really isn't. I'll try to be brief. My uncle's girlfriend is going to be having a baby soon, and they aren't sure if it's his or not. Either way they can't afford to having another kid, so they asked my mother if she'd adopt him/her. She and her husband (my step dad not biological father) agreed. Which is great and we're all incredibly happy if it all works out!\n\nNow my question is what exactly will my relation to this kid be? If my uncle is the dad that makes him/her my biological cousin. If not then biologically I'm not related to this kid at all. So then the kid will be adopted by my mother and step dad, making the kid either my half brother or sister, but also my cousin maybe...?\nBut either way he or she will be my adopted half brother or sister but also my cousin? But adopted and potentially biological? And isn't half brother or sister sharing one biological parent?\n\nI'm fairly confused. I'm just interested in know what exactly this kid's relation to me will be. Plus I have a fascination with complicated family ties.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello fellow PF redditors, I received a notice of tax deficiency from 2012 in the amount of $2,074. That year my ex-wife and I each had one 1099 to our names that were not properly filed. The notice includes the 1099 amounts and corresponding social security #s. \n\nWe divorced in 2014 and our divorce decree states \"each party shall be solely and separately responsible for paying any and all debts heretofore contracted or incurred by either in their own name.\" So, it appears that we are each individually responsible for these debts, and now I need to get the IRS to break this down and pursue her separately from me. I will appreciate any advice on how to get a hold of the IRS so this can be broken down and they can pursue each of us individually. I always feared that an issue like this would arise and force my ex and I to reconnect, and I do not want that. Thank you!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! \n\nBasically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. \n\nNow, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. \n\nSo is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Over the last couple weeks I have been thinking of ending things with my gf. Problem is that she lives with me also our relationship is somewhat good , we never fight and she is head over heels in love with me. I want to break up because my reason is simple. I want to be single , but i dont feel that would be a good enough explanation for her and could leave her worse off because there is no closure. I want to know , is the reason of wanting to be single a good enough explanation? I do not blame her or have any ill will toward her, and if we could somehow be friends in future I would welcome that because she is a great girl but I just want to be single. Easy as that\n\nAlso there is no warning signs at all so this would totaly blind side my gf if I told her I wanted to end things", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About a year ago, this guy asked my friend's sister to prom. He was interested in her, and she basically had no interest in him. She said yes, but only as friends. Even after this he clearly still had feelings for her. She didn't really have any interest in dating him, but she thought maybe she'd try going on a couple dates with him. She wasn't sure if she genuinely wasn't interested or she was just scared because she hadn't really had any relationship experience before. \n\nI know this guy because we have a class together and we sit together. He's somewhat shy, but sweet and funny. We've spent some time together, we co-led a group of kids at a volunteer event, and obviously I'm around him every day. I definitely have at least some feelings for him, and I can't really tell if he reciprocates, he's just generally a very quiet person.\n\nHim and my friend's sister went on a few dates, and as it turned out it was somewhat awkward and very very platonic. Neither of them attempted to make any move on the other, and things were generally very tense. Like, sitting down and having a pro-cons conversation about kissing eachother and then not kissing eachother tense. She plans on breaking whatever this is off with him the next time she sees him, but she doesn't even know if this will be necessary because they haven't even hung out in a month. Any interest that either of them had is dead.\n\nAs I said earlier, I kind of like this guy. Graduation is soon and we'll soon be going our separate ways, though we'll still be in the same area. Should I just give him my number, whether it turns out to be platonic or not? Or should I just steer clear?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a 39/f who went without sex for 5 years following a painful divorce. I did not have any clue about how to date, and my confidence was so low that I didn't even feel like a woman any more. Soooooo, I got sick of being overweight and eventually lost 35 pounds. \n\nMet a great guy when renting a U-Haul (he owns the rental place) and he flirted with me. I didn't think anything of it cause I didn't think he could possibly like ME. Then, he asked me over to watch a game one night...and we never made it to the end of the game. He apparently liked my body even if I didn't, and I was on cloud 9. Went out a couple more times, then he inexplicably dropped off the face of the earth for 4 weeks.\n\n I was hurt, but took it philosophically and signed up for a dating site - I am very sexually oriented, so I found a few \"encounters\" and started to relax a bit and enjoy being single. \n\nThen, he called me up & we resumed a ?relationship? - and we truly like each other as people, but had sex every time we met (apparently strong attraction both sides)\n\nRecently texted me & said he wanted more than just sex, and wanted to get to know me more. I said I wanted that, too. He then said that it would not be in my best interests to spend more time with him. Huh? What? My brain hurts. I asked him point blank if he wanted to break things off, and he said \"by no means!\"\n\nI like him lots, he is a good person, he has brought himself out of a lot of dark places, and I didn't expect to like him so much. \n\nI think IFU by having sex with him too soon. Is it fixable?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Actually a couple months ago. Forgot about it until now. I was on my school trip to DC, it was my first time going there so I was pumped. We went to see all of the main touristy attractions (this is day one) then lastly we go on this big yacht. It is pretty popular but I do not remember the name off of the top of my head. At this point I haven't slept for maybe 48 hours, as I can't sleep in vehicles and it is about an 8 hour ride down. I was sitting with my friend and looking out into the river, on the back of the boat. I lean over the railing and look down. My glasses decide to slide off my face. *Shit what do I do now?* I text my mom to tell her my new glasses just fell through the propeller of a huge boat and are now chilling in the Potomac. This was only at the start of the ride and I couldn't see at all for the rest of the time. Remember this is only day one out of two. I missed on seeing about half of the stuff, including Arlington, the Lincoln, Korean, and Vietnam memorials.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway cause she knows my account. \nI'll start by saying I am a very introverted person that is constantly surrounded by people. I work in HR and have 3 roommates and rarely get a moment to breath. So I recently got a chance to take a lengthy vacation, and I want to use it to take a cross-country road trip I've wanted for a long time. My plan is for it to take around 3 months, I'll be stopping at several national parks, big cities, and visiting my brother. \nThe issue here is that I told my best friend about it and she has assumed that I want her to come as well, since she's recently graduated and this would be a good time for her. While I love my best friend, this is defeating the purpose of the trip. Best friend is extremely extroverted, does not understand the concept of wanting to do something alone. She's also rather princessy, and would likely complain about a lot of the hikes/nature things I have planned. I wanted to pack my dog up and go, and enjoy some peace and quiet for once in my life. I know that 3-months in each other's faces would probably cause a fight, and that's the last thing I want to deal with on this trip. Is there a way I can tell her this is something I want to do alone, or should I just bring her and hope for the best? Would I regret going alone and halfway through, wish I had some company?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My current g/f (she is 24) of 5 years and I (am 28 turn 29 in Jan) are living together. She works in the financial business at a call center and I work at a engineering company designing and building plants. I am a recent grad and got a job here in the town she grew up in and where we both went to college. We have been talking and I told her at some point I will prob wind up in the field or will move to a job site for awhile to gain experience to advance. She straight up said if your career means that much to you then go. She refuses to leave our area b/c of family. I then asked what if I go to field and come home every other weekend or every weekend if it is close enough (a bunch of people do that in our office) and she said no, she doesn't do long distance relationships. She called me selfish and I should want to be with her. I tried to explain at some point I will need to go to advance my career and I cant work at the same job and the same area my entire life and her response was just find another job in the area. She responded we can't just get married and buy/build a house and just turn around and sell it, that it makes no sense we might as just rent. I am not looking to move nor do I want to really atm. If I do I want to come back to the area eventually. I just feel if the opportunity for a better job or good experience was come along in a different area i should be able to take it or at least discuss the options at the time and have the ability to maybe take it but she is basically say no now. I know it is kind of hard to play the what if game but feel this is something we would talk about before we think of marriage which i have been thinking about.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actualy happened yesterday night but anywho. Me and my SO had a friend coming over but we decided to have a quickie before our friend arrive. So etc things happen and then my SO gets a call from our friend saying that he was close to me and my SO's apartment. The thing is that right before the call happened I was at my climax and so when my SO answered the phone i was left there for barely 30secs but felt like hours. After the phone call is done we finish what we started but as I came to release a squeaky long fart follows. \n\nI couldn't believe that this happened to me, I have read stories about this happening on alot of sites like 9gag and here on Reddit. I was dying of embarassement.\n\nWe just laughed it off and now here I am laughing by myself writing this for you Redditors to enjoy!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After a fight and a verbal and mental attack on my wife[25] and I, I cut off my narc/manipulative mother[50s], enabler father[50s], golden child/narc sister[30s]. This fallout has been a lead up of about 3 years of back and forth, the actual fallout happened on my birthday after I didn't want my sister to watch my son one day.\n\nMy wife and I bought a new house and moved, I changed my phone number but today my dad texted my wife saying I need to call my mom, the doctor ordered immediate ultrasounds and not to let potentially her last Christmas be without her son.\n\nI am still seeking counseling and therapy, I finally feel accepted I need it and I don't think I am ready to open up conversations again... but what if he is right?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "my current girlfriend of two years as a close relationship with her ex-boyfriends family. And she wants to go hang out with them (ex won't be present) me personally don't like the idea and I think is wrong and disrespectful. She knows I don't like it that's why she has not seen them since we been together but still talks to them biweekly at least once. She invited me to come with her but I don't think that's a good idea and it will be really awkward. But she says she's going to see them soon with or without me and I don't know how to deal with this. What would you do if you are in this position? Also do you think it's worth leaving somebody over it?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "If I had been posting this a week ago I would've said that I really did love him (in that way). He's been my mentor for over a year now, and he's been helping me through a lot of personal issues. I used to have dreams about him that I thought were \"sexual\", but I've recently been piecing things together and that sexual desire was nothing more than a desire for a hug. He's grown into the father figure I haven't had since I moved out 5 years ago. The only problem is he has his own wife and kids. Taking on a 20 year old \"daughter\" probably isn't going to work for him.\n\nOnce a month we meet up for dinner and go over how things have been going. This month we talked a lot about my self confidence and how willing one should be to do things for others (two years ago I was raped and it's bee fucking up my self confidence ever since). I noticed how happy he was to succeed and how much it hurt him to witness my self destructive behavior. We were talking about a recent success when I told him that the only reason I've been working my ass off lately is for his approval. I also alluded to the fact that there are very few people I trust anymore, and he's probably the only person in the world I'd do anything for.\n\nIt's the truth, but I feel like I'm fucking our mentor/mentee relationship by telling him that. Part of the reason I need his approval so badly/would do anything for him is because I was in love with him, however incorrectly directed, for over a year which is something that should be left out of our relationship at this point. I feel guilty for bringing it up, and part of me thinks I should end our relationship before I cross the line again. I don't even feel like my current love for him is appropriate given his family situation. I'm only complicating his life now.\n\n;", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The southern argument was that since each State (or the people thereof) had voluntarily ratified the Constitution, they could also voluntarily UN-ratify it -- which is what the secession ordinance did. \n\nAbraham Lincoln's argument (and by extension that of the North) was that the Union was intended by the Founders to be permanent.\n\nEach of these arguments is consistent and plausible. What determined the matter was the war. Lacking any precedent, if South Carolina made secession stick, then it was legal; if she lost her bid to secede by being defeated in war, they secession was not legal. Since the South lost, secession is not legal", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So while walking around campus, I've seen this girl the last few days whom I've never seen before but who's really caught my eye. The only thing is that I have absolutely *zero* knowledge about her. Zilch. No idea her name, her age, major, anything. At the same time, I'm going to be leaving college for the summer, maybe permanently (I'm graduating but looking into a way to stay here and get a job), but more than anything, I don't want to leave here with any \"What if?\"s and all that jazz. \n \nSo, reddit, what's the best way to ask a girl you only see every once in a while in a way that doesn't come across as creeperish?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "It just seems like they're more trouble than they're worth. In the end, no matter how much fun you've had, friends will always turn their backs on you, leave you, or stab you in the back. Human relationships just don't seem worth it to me, but our whole culture seems to revolve around \"OMG YOU MUST HAZ FRIENDS AND LOVERS AND ASDFASGDFGDFG\". \n\nIf I need help moving, I'll hire movers. If I'm depressed, I'll go to a shrink. If I need a ride, I'll call a cab. If I need companionship, I'll cuddle my cat. \n\nThe only person in my life that I actually have any kind of connection to is my mom, and when I posed this question to her (\"Am I a freak for not wanting friends\"), she got this look on her face that reminded me of the scenes in Sherlock where John has to tell the titular sociopathic detective that something he just did was \"a bit not good\" according to societal norms. And it doesn't help that she nearly automatically disapproves of anyone I choose to attempt to befriend, because of her own relationship history and trust issues.\n\nI've tried to make friends. I honestly have. All of them want something from me, and give nothing in return. I'm tired of having \"friendships\" that consist soley of me bending over backwards for these selfish people, then having them ignore me should I ever ask for anything. I don't want to keep trying. There's a couple of people at school I've been talking with, and they keep pushing me to come over or go to lunch or hang out more, and it makes me sick to my stomach every time they bring it up. I don't want to be a bad person and hurt them, but at the same time, I can't take how much it hurts when these people reach out, not realizing I'm an asocial freak who is never going to be able to be the friend they want.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys. I met this girl at an event for incoming first year students. To make a long story short I got her number, we went out on one date a week ago which I think went pretty well (although it only ended in a hug which is fine I guess because I had only known her for a few days). We started texting/calling back and forth and she seemed into me (long thoughtful responses, exclamation marks, the odd emoji). I asked her out on a second date a week ago and she said yes. The date was set to be today, the day after our second freshman meetup so I texted her saying something along the lines of \"Aren't I lucky I get to spend two days in a row with you!\" to which she responded positively.\n\nOur second date was to be today, the day after another first year meetup. I wasn't particularly flirty with her at the meetup but when I got home I sent her a text saying something along the lines of \"I gotta be up early because I'm lucky enough to be spending the afternoon with a special someone! Night!\". A short while afterwords she said she couldn't meet up because her sister (who doesn't live with her, she lives alone) grounded her for not finishing her calculus assignments. When I asked her how her sister could ground her if she doesn't live with her she said \"she told her everything\". I'm not entirely sure if this is bullshit because she is really busy with this course she's taking (she was even doing work at the meetup last night). I said \"that's too bad some other time\". \n\nNow I'm not really sure what to do. I'm going on vacation tomorrow and likely won't be texting her and she hasn't texted me today. I don't know if I should text her tonight or just give up on her. I'm really not sure why I did wrong because she seemed really into me the night before the meetup. What do I do? Am I pretty much shit out of luck? Why has she suddenly changed her mind?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "In february, I went through a very hard breakup with this guy I was totally 100% in love with. He ended it by saying he loves me, but hes not in love with me and never talked to me again. It crushed me and I cried for 2 months straight. Last night we were having a party for my friend who is moving to Switzerland for a year. Somehow, he was invited and he was there. I wanted to leave immediately but I didn't want to come off weak so I stayed. He was with this girl that I've always hated, and just with her the entire night. ( They're not dating)Not my business, I don't care. \n\nHowever, he wouldn't even look at me. I've never felt so absolutely shitty to not even deserve a glance from someone that I dated for 1 year. I feel this is a really stupid and mundane thing to be upset about, but honestly I'm still not over the guy. It fucking hurt. I couldn't sleep when I got home and became increasingly upset about it. I also had multiple dreams about him and I would be lying if I said I don't miss him, but fuck I do and he just has no respect for me left. It just hurts and don't know what to do to calm down.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (f28) love my boyfriend (m30) of 18 months and we plan to get married. I know i want to spend the rest of my life with him. There is no doubt in my mind. But because of where I work, there is a chance I may run into my ex (m29) that I once had very strong feelongs for. I actually want to talk to him to clear some air that was left foggy when we ended things 2 yrs ago. I think talking to him and getting something off my chest would officially allow me to move forward in my current relationship. But I don't know how to bring it up to my boyfriend. Part of me thinks he will understand if I tell him and he will appreciate me being honest with him because that is how he is. But I'm also worried he'd be upset and that's the last thing I want.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Short version. I'm 46 years old with emphasis on OLD. Many miles on the engine. Bad joints, bad hip, fat, and at best average looks. I have a stable job but I've been single since my last relationship ended in 1995. \n\nFor reasons that are not clear to me I seem to have attracted the attention of a far younger, fitter, better looking etc. woman who has a stable career of her own and zero reason to be interested in me romantically. But given how isolated I've been for the past two decades, it may be she just sees me as a friend and this is all in my head. So I need to figure out what the heck is going on here. If it's just friendship, I can rest easy. Otherwise it's off to Belize on a fake passport. Facts:\n\n--She has asked me over to her place maybe half a dozen times, but has never been romantic with me.\n--More recently while sitting in my truck cab she leaned in for what I swear was a kiss, which I dodged and turned into a cheek hug.\n--She's since asked me out to lunch and requested I ask her next time (not sure what that's about)\n--She pm's me on facebook several times a day and has talked about very personal things with me.\n--Most recently we did a drive out to an event and she hugged after and later PM'ed me saying she had a fantastic time and loved hanging out with me. \n\nSo what is this? Is this just how younger people are now? How will I know if something more is happening here? She is WAY too good for the likes of me. And I'm way too old. So I just don't see how romance would ever function here. I mean literally I don't see how it could work. It would be like me being selected for an ascent team on K2. A great honor, but also patently insane. I'd know going in that the team would just end up having to carry me back down and probably get hurt in the process.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Reddit!\n\nI'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend and I can't help but feel like it will never happen for me.\n\nI'm not unattractive, I'm not high maintenance, I'm 420 friendly and a bit of a geek and constantly have male friends telling me I would make the perfect girlfriend.\n\nAbout a year ago, I started sleeping with a friend I really liked and thought he liked me too. But, it kind of just fizzled out because we started living together and if it had ended badly, it would have made things awkward with the other people we live with.\n\nI'm clearly good enough to have sex with but not good enough to be with?\n\nA year ago, I tried OkCupid in desperation. But, unfortunately, the area I'm from leaves a lot to be desired in the way of 'talent' and the few guys I did meet up with, I had no chemistry with.\n\nMy sister's recently got engaged, two of my friends are having a baby and pretty much all the others are in solid, stable relationships.\n\nI can't help but feel as though there's something completely wrong with me.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been in school to get a Bachelors of Science in communication through my school's film/video program. I have always had a love for story telling and filmmaking. \n\nHowever, more and more I realize that I am a storyteller first, and a filmmaker second. I have no desire to be in production. The two things I love are creating a story in pre-production and editing that story in the editing room during post-production. I have no *real* intention on being at production. I have been contemplating whether or not to switch my major. I haven't looked into it, but I know it will push me back at least a year (I am a junior). I am on my own as far as paying for my school and housing. I am worried switching my major is not a good choice, or even feasible without piling on more debt. \n\nOn the flip side, I love to write, I love making up stories and I can see myself doing this for the rest of my life. I could also say the same about post-production in film though.\n\nI was hoping to get some advice on what the best way in figuring out what exactly is best for me to make the best decision for me. Maybe some of you have been in a similar experience and can shed some light on the issue from your perspective. \n\nThank you for reading, and I hope someone can help.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met her about two months ago and have been texting her for the past month, I grew a pair and asked her out last week, we saw a movie a few days ago and after the movie we walked around the mall holding hands. The thing that worries me is that though she went on a date with me and held my hands, I feel she might be uninterested. The times we were together before the date and while texting I would compliment her, but she never returned the favor. Even when I asked for her birthday she never asked for mine. I don't know what to think of the situation. How should I play this out reddit?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello everyone\n\nI ( 18M ) have become to realize that I am an extremely manipulative, controlling, and jealous boyfriend to my girlfriend ( 17 F ). Things were going great until just recently, about 2 months ago, when for some reason I would just get extremely angry, jealous, irritated for little to no reason.\n\nFor example, we're both track and field runners ( we go to the same high school ). This is her first year of track and she decided to join the distance running team based off my recommendations ( I'm a distance runner, and she really enjoyed her first year of cross country ) But now she has decided to try pole vault, and for some reason, this is making me unreasonably mad and extremely jealous of the fact that that means she'll be spending time with 3 other males training, although she has 2 other girls with her. I have no idea what is wrong with me..\n\nI realize that I am being irrational and I beat myself up mentally for it, and tell myself I won't do it again, but then it just happens again, and the same cycle begins. \n\nI am leaving for college and will be ~2 hours away from home in a few months while she finishes her last year of high school ( She's a junior, I'm a senior ). My theory is I just want her for myself for the remaining 5-6 months before I leave because I doubt I'd be seeing her much more than once every other week\n \nYes, I have talked to her about this and she told me she has noticed my behavior changing and told me that I might just be having another bout with depression and anxiety, both of which I've had before. She honestly is the best and told me that \"We'd take it one day at a time and get over it together\". I want to know what I can do on my side to make this easier for her and myself.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone. My roommate and I are coming to the end of 2 years of living together. Long story short, I will not continue to live with him beyond 2 years.\n\nWe used to work together and I thought he had his act together. Little did I know it was all a front. He hardly leaves the apartment besides to go to work, never buys household goods, barely cleans up after himself, and definitely doesn't do his fair share of things around the apt.\n\nHe's generally a nice guy but he's completely oblivious and can be really inconsiderate. For example we used to smoke (weed) together from time to time. I am for the most part cool with it. Then it started turning into 12 hour smoke sessions where he would sit in his room all day smoking. I eventually asked him to stop smoking inside, but slowly he started to again. Finally one night, I had had enough and I called him out and he's taken to smoking outside.\n\nSo here's what happened. At the beginning of the month he told me a friend of his needed a place to stay for a few days. I obliged under the agreement that she wouldn't be in the apt all day (I'm working from home and interviewing, speaking on the phone with privileged information, financials, etc.)\n\nHere we are almost two weeks later. She's been here almost every day. The one day she wasn't here, he had his FWB staying the night.\n\nI'm incredibly annoyed at this point. I texted him yesterday (as I knew I wouldn't be home when he was.) Yet he never replied. I texted him again this AM and still crickets.\n\nMy friends say I'm more upset than I should be, but I think my anger is justified. It makes more work for me (constantly emptying the dishwasher, trash I only take out, lack of any kind of alone time in MY own apartment.) I'm not sure what to do at this point. I know I have to confront him but I feel like such a nag with these situations he puts me in. Any type of advice for confronting this would be really appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The day before she said this, she was at my house and I was complaining about how she never does anything when we're alone together, she always waits for me to do something. She doesn't touch me ever and she doesn't ever make a move. I need my physical stimuli haha! \n\nAnyways, that day I just felt so alone. She would literally stare into blank space instead of looking at me. She wouldn't acknowledge me stroking her leg or anything. All she wanted to do was play mariokart it seemed like. When I started complaining, she said that sometimes she feels like she doesn't know me and that she feels like we have way different takes on how a relationship should be. \n\nShe had to go home and we didn't finish the conversation, but I told her we need to talk about this face to face and not over messaging and she said okay. The problem with that is, she never has any time to talk face to face because she is in color guard at her school, but I was willing to wait until she did have time.\n\nThe next day, I tried talking to her over messaging, not about anything just a \"Hey, How was your day?\" and she blew me off. She said she had too much homework so she couldn't talk to me. I said, \"Okay, sorry, but real quick, can I pick you up from school tomorrow?\" and she said, \"I have things I need to do tomorrow, sorry\".\n\nI said, \"What about our relationship though? We really need to talk.\" and that's where she said, \"grades go out Friday, my education and eligibility for color guard are more of a priority right now\".\n\nI haven't talked to her since then. Should I give her some space? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been married for 7 years, and was together with my ex wife for about 2 years prior to that. We separated in spring (may/june), and we are done. Law here in Norway means we have to be separated for a year. We have two children together, 6 and 1,5 years old.\n\nI've met three women from Tinder, one of whom I'm now intimate with. We're very open with each other, and consider ourselves gf/bf and are exclusive. Neither of us have any hurry to make things very serious as we are both vulnerable because of past breakups. She will not be introduced to my kids before we're ready (after new year?).\n\nWe came home from a very nice weekend together a short while ago. One of my closest neighbors, who I also consider a friend, was outside. I introduced my new gf (only by name, but he probably read the situation), and had a talk with him about what he'd been up to the past weeks, as we'd both been on summer holiday. My wife lived here with me almost since we met. I felt awkward introducing someone new, and uneasy now after it's done.\n\nWe are both reluctant to officially announce being together, since our past breakups are not too far in the past (hers in june). We're not sneaking around or keeping it a secret, but we're not announcing it either. She's more reluctant then me as she has a past of some broken relationships.\n\nI'm still processing the breakup, and probably still will for several months. I feel like I'd be judged if I made this public, but this is'nt anything very unusual. Am I being crazy?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm unsure if this would be the correct subreddit, as it didn't seem to fit in elsewhere, maybe askreddit or legal? If not, here goes. \n\nA little background, I'm in the military and looking to buy some car parts. I saw on the Perrin Performance website that they have a \"Military and first responder discount\" [reddit!] . To be approved for this, you need to email or call the representative listed with a few requirements and also list the parts you wish to purchase. \n\nAfter sending all of this I received an email this afternoon statin all of the (newly) priced items at about 10-15% discount (awesome!). The email also includes the following text, which I found incredibly off.\n\n> If you'd like to complete an order, feel free to call or email me with your credit card number, expiration date, and 3 digit code OR send a paypal payment to [email protected], just put it to my attention. \n\nI shot the representative an email back asking if he could somehow give me a discount code equalling the amount of the discount I was to receive noted in his email, as it didn't feel right to do either of the options listed. I am also going to call tomorrow to see if he could answer some other questions I may have. \n\nI can't wrap my head around it being a scam, as it is from a reputable company, it just seems odd that the initial payment options listed were what he mentioned. \n\nAny help or suggestions would be great, or maybe someone has used their discounts before? For all I know this is completely normal, but I've never been asked to send my \"credit card number, expiration, and 3 digit code\" to someone via email.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been thinking about heading back to school and doing a Masters course in some business related field but I'm sick of all the stories of corporate greed, lies and selfishness. \n\nI think that corporations not only have a responsibility to their shareholders but also to their employees and to the better good of society/environment.\n\nAnyway, I'm an Aussie and I came across this course: \n[Graduate Certficate in Social Impact](\n\nSo my question is, would doing a course really make a difference if both government and corporations don't feel the need to uphold these ethics/responsibilities if it gets in the way of either the bottom line or popular votes?\n\nNow I know some of you will say, why don't you volunteer/spend time in a foreign land helping out/donate? Well, I've done all these things but yet, when I come back to working with large corporations/government, they're mostly measured by money and the perception that they're a responsible corporate citizen.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this happened a few weeks ago on my holiday to India. Back story: Indian toilets don't usually have toilet paper and are more often than not simply a hole in the ground that you squat over. I went to deposit a particularly nasty load of liquid shit or what the locals refer to as \"Delhi belly\". I'd also recently been given some very expensive glasses by my parents and was under pain of death not to lose them. So I was squatting down unleashing this never ending torrent of diarrhoea when my glasses dropped off my head and fell down the hole. In a state of blind panic and fear I shoved my hand into the bottomless pit of shit in an attempt to find my glasses and, after dipping my arm elbow-deep in shit, eventually discovered them and pulled them out. As they were covered in shit I didn't put them on and instead stumbled around outside half blind to find somewhere to wash them off, finding a small shack surrounded by what I assumed was a queue of people with a huge urn of water inside. Pushing through the crowd, I quickly rinsed my shit covered arm and glasses in this urn of cold water, returned the glasses to their rightful place and, feeling rather pleased with my lucky escape, strolled outside. I then realised my FU....the queue was full of people holding various jugs and cups and a sign on the shack read \"DRINKING WATER\" in bright red bold letters.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our friend married a guy that she met while he was in prison. he's \n\nserving 20 to life. I don't feel comfortable having him around our son\n\nor our home, but my wife claims he's her son too. I feel she should \n\nrespect my wishes.\n\nShe has also told me not to make her choose between the friend or myself.\n\nI don't plan on doing that but I'm afraid that she would choose the friend anyways.\n\nI'm also afraid that this is going to lead to divorce. He's also \n\ngotten into trouble for conspiricy to commit murder against a CO \n\nsince he's been in prison. I feel like I'm being forced to be ok with \n\nthis but I'm not. My wife is also very easily convinced by this \n\nfriend.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girl and I are flirting with the idea of a relationship, but I have cognitive dissonance. \n\nPoint 1:\n\nI'm [20]m and I have been dating a [20]f girl for the past 3 months. I have never had a serious relationship before. I have dated a few girls. I also go out clubbing a lot. I have talked to / hooked up with a lot of girls. This is the first girl I have had a really strong attraction to that goes beyond physical. \n\nPoint 2:\n\nFrom what I've seen of friends, family, and society in general, is that throughout your life you have numerous relationships. They go through stages: flirting, dating, new relationship energy, stability, conflict, end or marriage. Even though it feels amazing now, I'm only 20, and drawing on observation any relationship will probably end. I never want to get married, I don't believe in soul mates, and I don't want to spend my entire life with one girl. So, I know this relationship will sometime in the far away future end.\n\nPoint 3:\n\nI was socially inept in high school, I worked hard hammering out social interactions for months and months ingraining a deep sense of self-belief in myself. Now I love to go out and hook up with attractive girls, its challenging and exciting.\n\nI feel like I have to pick between self-development and my love for a girl. On one hand I really like this girl, I've never had a relationship before, and she's one of the few girls I've been attracted to. On the other hand, If I'm in a relationship I can't go out and hook up with hot girls, I can't keep improving my game, and what's the point in even having a relationship when I think it will probably end eventually. Thanks for reading.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with her for almost a year and a half now. Things lately due to life made us feel a little distant (more her than me) but things seem to be picking up now. \n\nHere's the thing, we only use condoms as our form of birth control. I'm getting more and more paranoid now about her getting pregnant to the point that I ask her to take plan B once in a while when I'm unsure of something and it's so bad that between her periods and when we aren't having sex I'm suffering anxiety over the idea of getting her pregnant somehow and having mild panic attacks over it. Especially when her irregular period gets weird like this month.\n\nUnfortunately she's a little bit hesitant about getting on birth control. She feels like it will add more stress to her life with the symptoms, possible adverse effects and so on. I don't want to deny either of us sex but I don't think I can continue having sex with her comfortably unless she's on birth control. I don't know if I'm being all wrong about this or what. Any advice? I'm worried that by asking and not being comfortable otherwise I'll be the downfall of our relationship", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me (female): 30\nPartner (male): 25\nLength of Relationship: 1 Year\n\nSo me and this man have been seeing each other, consistently, for a year now. When we are together, we are very very happy and we are very compatible in every way. I love spending as much time with him as possible, sleeping with him at night, waking up in the morning with him, making meals together, and sharing resources. I very much want to live with him eventually and wake up with him every day.\n\nHowever, as it stands, I don't get to spend every night with him. In fact, I never know when he will be around or not. So I'll spend a night on, a night off, maybe a couple of nights in a row, and then maybe not see him except for a meal and some sex here and there for a few days. I find myself lonely, and longing for him often. And of course, I want to have a home with someone one day, and I would like it to be with him. I want to grow old with him.\n\nHowever, as far as I know, he isn't \"ready\" yet, and who knows if he ever will be? What should I do? He's told me that he doesn't want me to leave him. He's told me that he feels \"at home\" when he is with me, but I long for something more consistent. Also, I don't want to scare him off by giving him an ultimatum, but I also don't want to wait around when I could potentially be having an awesome relationship with a guy who is absolutely certain he wants to have the kind of future with me.\n\nSo what should I do? Do guys normally take such a long time to feel like they want that with a girl? Have any of you \"waited\" for someone in a similar manner, and had it pay off? I've never been in a relationship, at any age, where a guy didn't want to share his home with me and sleep with me every night he possibly can.\n\nThanks for your answers.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks.\nThis is my first post ever on reddit, sorry if my grammar/format is off im a foreigner ;). Okay so about two weeks ago I was feeling kinda horny, and I felt like downloading hot or not and checking out some girls. I had to log in through facebook, and saw a friend of mine so I clicked on his profile and there was a web of mutual friends. So my friend, had a friend, who had a friend, who was a friends with this real cute girl (sorry, its confusing) and for some reason I scrolled down to her profile and saw her kik. I add her on Kik late at night, she adds me when she wakes up before school. We instantly hit it off and text each other during school the whole day and well into the morning (1am). We then talked the rest of the weekend and this whole week. We decided to meet up soon for a movie and some food. A couple hours later she tells me her friend had a mental breakdown, (this was like 3 hours ago), and confessed she almost killed herself last week. I conforted my lady friend who was in hysterics, and she asked if she could bring her friend along to cheer her up. So here we are having our first date together, alongside her depressed friend. Do you guys have any tips, because as far as im informed, first date arent usually under these conditions. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me (M/16) and my girlfriend (F/16) have been dating for a little over a month now. She and I have liked each other for quite some time but only recently made moves so this was something we both were very happy about. But you didn't click on this link to hear about that did you? Nah. Here's the important part. \n\nAbout a week before school started she went over to a friends house. One thing led to another and they went to a party at the friend's request. Now I feel like I should add that she *had* a bad drinking problem. She'd been trying to get it under control but I guess fate decided she was going to drink that night. \n\nIn the course of that night she hooked up with four different guys, multiple people have confirmed that this is true. I don't know how reliable these people are but when multiple people say something strikingly similar it is probably true. However, with all things there are doubts. I don't know if these sources were drunk and just *think* they saw it. Also I don't know if she even remembers anything and will be able to admit to anything if I confront her. \n\nOne of the girls at the party saw it and immediately told one of my friends because she knew he was friends with me - her boyfriend. And the girl went to him with this, not the other way around. Tonight me and a bunch of friends were hanging out and they sat me down and told me. Apparently they've known for a while but were gathering evidence and fact checking so they could tell me with confidence. \n\nThe dilemma here is this. I don't know what to do.\n\n1. Do I hold her accountable for her actions even though she was probably drunk? \n\n2. Do I confront her over text or in person? (She is away at the moment)\n\n3. Do I throw away a good relationship over one (four?) mistake(s)? \n\nI have never felt so lost in my life, I care about this girl more than I thought I could and to learn that she did something like this is the worst pain I've ever felt. Help.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I want to start off by saying my sister is an amazing personality and she's a fabulous woman, but there's a serious problem with her when it comes down to her body odor and body care. My little sister has ALWAYS fought people when they bring up her body odor, we've even brought her to a doctor once after we made her shower for a full week in a row to see if the smell will disappear - but it didn't, it actually got 10x worse. The doctor said the smell seemed more with her care of her body and surroundings than anything else, so that was that. After that, every time ANYONE brought up the hygiene issue, she would not make any excuses, she would actually do the total opposite - she becomes verbally abusive, result to names and then make it almost intolerable to talk to her.\n\nCut to two weeks ago, her friend had brought her home from school and I admit, her odor was fairly strong that day. My sister didn't see it, but her friend hosed her car with febreeze and rolled her windows down before pulling away. I didn't tell her, but I sure did bring her odor up again and was met with, again, verbally abusive language and behavior. \n\nAnother incident that happened is my sister went to use the bathroom on a following day while I had friends over. Her scent was SO OVERPOWERING that when my friend went in, he immediately came out and he had a visibly disturbed look on his face. He, having been my friend since elementary school, was honest with me and told me he smelled some really bad in our bathroom. I checked, it was indeed my sister's odor as it tends to linger. \n\nTHEN another incident where we went to the store, she was elsewhere in the establishment and I was in one aisle with another woman, who was 100% perfectly fine...until my sister showed up. She visibly looked uncomfortable and ended the conversation VERY quickly the second my sister arrived and stuck around for at least 15 seconds. I'm at my rope's end with this, I don't know what to do since she is reaching that age where she needs to get her act together for when she looks for work.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Alright, so my girlfriend and I met at a workshop a few weeks ago. We hit it off pretty well, and then camp ended. We ended up in a long distance relationship, and it worked fine for a week.\n\nLater, her 'best friend' (or at least so he claims) messages me through her account, telling me that we won't work out, that she doesn't really love me, that I don't deserve her, that I might end up killing her (yeah what), and that she almost died because of a previous relationship (no proof or explanation?) etc.\n\nSo this goes on for a week or so, with me trying to reason with this person (we'll refer to them as Unknown.) His messages sound overly possessive, and he's extremely rude, expecting me to beg. He completely ignores all of my points and says that I'm trolling.\n\nLater Unknown allows my girlfriend and I to talk over the phone, but he only lets her answer yes or no questions and has some 'restrictions' on what questions she can answer.\n\nDuring this call, she sounds really sad :C\nAt the end, she says that Unknown has a lot of threats, and is cut off by Unknown. He later says that she broke the rules of the restrictions and I won't be seeing her again.\n\nUnknown has no details known about him except for the fact that he is male and has threats. He contacted me through girlfriend's account.\n\nAny help? Thoughts, ideas? Thanks.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello. I would like to read a personal finance book that emphasizes long term planning, cost saving, and the idea of financial security over showing off status symbols. I want to read through this with my wife (of four years). I'm hoping that through the course of reading this we can have plenty of discussions about personal financial strategies. I have always been very financially aware and frugal, but my wife hasn't. She comes from a family that never budgeted or planned anything (and has been through bankruptcy). I feel that reading through a book and having discussions is likely much better than me just trying to lecture. Plus, I want her to see the merits of frugality on her own instead of feeling that it's just me imposing my scroogery. \n\nHere's the problem. She's an ahtropologist, currently in her PhD program (free tuition plus stipend!). I've read MND twice, but not for a few years. I'm afraid that she will get caught up on the portrayals of millionaires rather than focusing on the financial principles. From what I recall, the standard millionaire in the book is old, white, and male with a frugal, jill-of-all-trades stay-at-home wife. I don't want my wife to get indignant (or think that I'm hinting she be a stay-at-home mom) and refuse to accept anything the book has to offer. I know the financial principles are sound, but I'm afraid she won't be able to see them through the portrayl of the millionaires themselves. Any recommendations are appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry for the lack of better title... >.> and I hope this is the right section for these sort of concerns.\n\nI've always wanted a dog or cat, and I would discuss all kinds of pet related subjects with both pet owning and non-pet owning friends. One day a friend says \"dogs/cats obviously can't use toilet paper after they do their business, right? So imagine, anything they sit on... Floor, couch, bed, your shirt.... Isn't that gross...??? I agreed, it is a bit gross. It caused my mind to conjure chain events that made me shudder and slightly reconsider the idea of owning a dog/cat. I don't know much about dogs/cats so I am not even sure if there is merit to what he said. I don't know how common these ideas are but I would like to read how people feel about this topic!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So tonight I walk back to my apartment defeated and utterly lack the will to live right now.\nI'm an Intelligence Analyst for the Army National Guard. I hold a Top Secret Clearance. and Im 20.\nI'm already on diversion because when I was sober, I drove a drunk friend home, who happened to have weed on him when I was driving him home, to then be pulled over by the police.\nI'm on a 90 day diversion, 1 UA a month, everyday I call to see if my 'Color' is called to go take a breathalyser test. Tonight, I decided to have 2 shots with a friend (it takes alot to get me even buzzed) who is getting married in a week and I can't make it. Luckily enough, my other friend who was taking us to a place to meet other friends, got pulled over with an open container and breathalysed, and thrown in jail.\nI (being the good natured, newly renewed Christian I am(couple months,trying to turn a new leaf)) told the officer what happened the whole night. \nexplaining that I'd be totally F**ked if anything else happened to my record while on diversion. TS clearance- gone, ADOS job to pay bills - gone, and 1 of 2 other things would happen... A:I'd lose my clearance and HOPEFULLY be allowed to reclass to a different job, and owing the $20k, or B:Be kicked out of the military for not having the job they gave me, and still owe them $20k for the enlistment bonus.\nEither way I look at it.. I'm fucked because doing the good thing and telling the cop I had something to drink and cooperating with him about the night.\nSo my question is.. Why shouldn't I leave the country and just travel the world and leave all my family and life behind to travel and read the bible......\n\nAnd in the meantime.....AMA....I'll try my best.''", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys,\nI don't exactly frequent this subreddit but I'd really appreciate any advice you guys can give on where, how, when, why and what I should do with the money I've saved, as well as, what to do with future money I will save.\n\nIf you're curious for more information about my financial situation...\n\nBasically, since I started working at 15 I have saved half of almost all of my paychecks. I started doing this so I could have some spending money but also be able to save for bigger purchases (like my car last year)\n\nSince the beginning I have kept all saved money aside from my checking using a small safe only I know the passcode to.\n\nI have a small amount saved still and plan to continue saving half of my income as long as my expenses are almost non-existent like they are now.\n\nI have lived with various friends for the past 5 years and came to this subreddit since I didn't exactly have anyone to ask around me.\n\nAs for the half of my income that doesn't go to the safe, that is budgeted up to cover food, gas, and other expenses.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Thanks for taking the time to read this; its not something I really feel comfortable asking friends or family.\n\nI graduated college a year ago and moved about 2000 miles from home. My girlfriend still lives there, and we've been doing the long distance thing since I moved. She's graduating college this coming fall and the plan is (and has always been) that she would move in with me out here on the west coast. \n\nThe problem is that its a huge commitment, and I'm not sure I'm ready to make it. We've been together since we started college, so 4 years now, and our relationship is good by all measures. We don't fight often, and we get along in most ways. But if she moves out here, its solely for me. Her job prospects aren't as good as they would be in our home state, and she knows nobody here but me. I'm not sure if the grass would be greener elsewhere; I've met girls since I moved here who I seem to have more in common with.\n\nHalf of me thinks it would be crazy to throw away a healthy long term relationship just because I don't feel ready for it, and the other half of me thinks that if I have doubts now, it's just going to get worse over time, and it would be unfair to bring her here now.\n\nHas anyone been in a similar situation? How have things turned out? Any advice at all?\n\nAgain, I really appreciate your reading this. I feel like I don't really have anyone else to ask, and its consuming my thoughts.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I worked at a restaurant as my second job, after about a month and a half, things were not going as planned. I will spare the details. However, today, I knew I was going to quit, I was just going to wait until the end of my shift.\n\nThat's when the other food runner started acting like a millennial. First, she almost argued with me over the length of deployment in the military. I thought it was always 4 years, apparently to her, it's ALWAYS been 3. \n\nThen, while I'm sitting at the window waiting for food to come out, I hear her yell from the other side, \"If you're not doing anything, clean\"\n\nNow, I've worked in restaurants my whole life, I get the cleaning aspect and I usually am one to clean but I had just wiped down the counter and was talking to a server while waiting for the ticket to come up.\n\nWho does this bitch think she is? \n\nSo finally, I am refilling the ice and a manager comes up to me and goes, \"is everything okay? The food runner said that you are just talking and not working at all, are you good?\"\n\nOh no she didn't.\n\nThat's where I snapped. Calmly though. I was on the schedule to close and she was getting out in about 15 minutes. I went to the office to collect my tips and paychecks for the weeks past. The manager questioned slightly why I was leaving at 1015, I just said I was leaving at 1030 and was going to clock out right after . Our managers do not check schedules at all. \n\nI collected my tips and checks and walked out. Knowing I left early enough for them to notice and make her stay until close.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend has been my best friend for 8 years. We started dating when we ended up in the same town again after three years apart, and the friend/relationship side of things has gone really well.\n\nShe was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder at a young age, and has dealt with that, along with an eating disorder stemming from the anxiety and her mother and grandmother generally constantly telling her that her worth is in her beauty, (along with the normal patriarchal stuff telling women that, of course).\n\nI have loved her for a long time, and when we started dating, our sex life was pretty normal, exciting, and we had a really good time. Now, in the last three months, we've had sex four times, and barely messed around more than that. We've also stopped in the middle of sex every time because she got anxious or uncomfortable, or just made it very clear without saying it that she was.\n\nShe tells me that she wants to sleep with me, that she is attracted to me, but I'm terrified that she's with me for our relationship, but just isn't interested in sex with me, but is too anxious to tell me, for fear that I won't be able to handle it. \n\nWe've talked about this many times over the last few months, and now I feel like any time I try to do something sexy, or grab her when we lay down to sleep or touch her sensually, that she's just going to put up with me being close because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Please help me, I need advice, fam.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My boyfriend and I have been together for almost six years, and we're in college now. When he was a junior in high school (we had been together for 3 years around this time), he developed a crush on a girl in his class. He liked her for a while, and didn't tell me until 6 months later, when he was \"kind of getting over it.\" It's been years, and he hasn't really spoken to her, but today she IMs him out of nowhere and asks him to go with her to get her tattoo. He accepted and then told me about it. Although she is not into men, this has caused me some distress. Am I being paranoid?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Figured you guys would appreciate this more than my FH, so I'm unloading here instead of on him...haha. So a little backstory here - I ordered my dress back in March, and have since been put on a medication that's caused my appetite to skyrocket. I've always been petite, so gaining 10-12lbs in a few months has been a bit of a blow to my self-esteem (I know, it could be a lot worse and I'm still at a healthy weight, but I'm totally being a baby about it.) Monday night I got the exciting news that my dress was in, so I went tonight to go pick it up! Yayyyy/pleasegodihopeitstillfits. The lady had me try to put it on over my head...and it won't budge over my hips. Like, at all. Cue major panic and me silently dying on the inside. After a few minutes of trying she decided to have me step into it, and thankfully that worked! Phewwwww. Still a bit snug in my hips, but totally doable. Bonus sigh of relief: found out they're actually discontinuing my dress, so if I had waited much longer to shop I would have missed out!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone, first time posting here, I posted in relationshipadvice with a throwaway but fuck it it doesn't get much traffic, and I meed guidance - this girl and I are in college. I'm a year ahead of her and we met through a mutual friend and kind of hit it off. Since about November we've been hooking up, each time we go out together she ends up sleeping over and we have sex, cuddle and chat in the mornings, etc. She had previously been in a long term relationship before coming to college and ended it about a month before we started hooking up. \n\nHere's the thing - she says she doesn't want anything serious between us. The problem is I'm freaking infatuated with this girl and can't stop thinking about her - we get along so well and sex is great. We just click, yet she is adamant about just being fuckbuddies-ish and not getting serious. (I say 'ish' because I don't know what the fuck we are) Don't get me wrong, I'm always down for a no strings attached thing but I'm afraid I've got myself in too deep.. I'm really starting to develop feelings and don't know how to proceed. Another thing to note is she's slept with 2 people, her ex boyfriend and myself while I've slept with 14 (she knows this) which could impact her decision? Maybe.\n\nAnyways, I don't want to tell her all that in case she gets cold feet/nervous that I'm more into her, yet she's always sending mixed signals. Like, she told me shed be super jealous if I ever hooked up with another girl and we talk daily (texting, calls, on campus) yet she doesn't seem to want to be \"exclusive\" even though we basically are... I'm just really looking for some guidance here. I'm fine with going with the flow, but at this point'im scared getting too involved will end in me getting hurt. Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm a sophomore in college, and I started dating a girl (Let's call her Jenny) this past August, and we rushed into things.\nNow, I don't know what I really want or need out of a relationship, so I don't want to be in a relationship in general right now until I figure things out in my life. She's also not really who I thought she was, not as confident or independent as she first seemed. And I simply don't enjoy being with her anymore.\n\nWhy it's complicated: I was her first boyfriend, took her virginity (she'd only ever kissed like 3 guys before me), and we told each other we loved each other. She says it a lot. She's sort of dependent, and doesn't know how a relationship should work. I don't either, I've never been in healthy/happy ones. Only time I \"broke up\" with someone, I'd been seeing her for 2 months and just stopped responding to calls and texts and defriended her on Facebook (awful I know, we've reconciled since then (it was 3 years ago)) and I've been moving from relationship to romantic interest to relationship since like junior year of highschool.\n\n I want to be able to focus on my own life. \n\nAnyway, all of my friends who are girls are in her sorority, so I don't want all of them to hate me for breaking up with Jenny. There's also an extracurricular club, that Jenny is in with me, and we're going on a 5 day trip for that club in two weeks (Jenny, Me, and 4 other members of club were selected). Our 6 month anniversary will be in a week AND valentine's day is the day before the trip so I don't want Jenny to be alone, hating me right before the trip. \n\nHow do I break up with her, without all our mutual friends (her sorority sisters) hating me, and without it being super awkward in committee meetings or when we see each other?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Im 22 and shes 20. She hits me up online saying she's seen me at the bowling alley and was too shy to approach me. I find it flattering and she's pretty so we go out. We have a really good time. She's flirting a lot and were touching each other.\n\nI open up to her and tell her I've never kissed a girl and I'm a virgin. She finds it adorable and she flirts all night and makes me comfortable and then we kiss....several times. And again when I say goodbye. I was amazing. Never felt that happy before.\n\nI text her the next day saying I had a really good time. She says she did to and she asks me out for a second date. I text her the next few days trying to get the date going, but she appears busy and hard to meet with.\n\nFinally today she tells me she has been dealing with a lot of drama and personal stuff. Saying she doesnt know if she's looking for a relationship. Another guy she was involved with it in her head too.\n\nBasically I got dumped really early on, which I guess is better than later, but I really liked her and she really liked me. She made me develop a crush on her and now it's over and im sitting her alone.\n\nHow do I get out of this funk. She made me feel so good and not a lot of girls give me that feeling.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "About 4 years ago at the end of High School i had a wonderful (~year) relationship with a wonderful person (we'll call her D). Easily the best relationship ive ever had, i still have never been able to enjoy someone as much as i enjoyed D, i believe that feeling was genuinely mutual throughout the relationship. Towards the end of our fantastic relationship things began to just sort of fizzle out, which ended up with a lot of accusations and arguments, but ultimately no residual issues, Here we are 4 years later, ive only had a single serious relationship since D, i would definitely say ive moved on, but i dont think i will be ever able to forget the happiness i had when i was with her.\n\nHere is the confusing part, every so often we get in contact with each other again. Only once have we actually ended up hanging out and that was a business transaction a few years back. Somehow one of us about once a year will message the other one in attempts to say something yet nothing really gets conveyed. id almost call our conversations just 2 nervous people forcing themselves to communicate\n\nAgain, yesterday she messages me, im not sure if this was a fueled conversation or what but as bad as i am with women, i even thought she might be attempting to... reconnect? I also know that i hyper-analyze everything and im just trying to think nothing of it\n\nScreenshot of the conversation\n\na sidenote: when it comes to women and identifying emotional/sexual/physical ques i am positively horrific at it. i constantly confuse being flirty with being nice.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a job interview at GameStop, I was just wondering if anyone could tell me how much I should dress up for this interview? I don't want to under/over-dress. Also, is this something that I should bring a resume to? I have turned in my application and have gotten the interview, but I also want to get the job. I have previous experience including 3 years as an assistant manager at another retail store. I have since moved out of state for school and left on good terms. I would REALLY like to have this job. Any advice would be appreciated!", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. I'm having a difficult time, not because of being single per say, but because my two best friends go to college 2 hours away, and most of my other friends are better friends with my ex so they are kind of tipping me out.\n\nI've done grindr and tinder, and none of them have really led anywhere. I don't like to have sex with random people, I'd rather just get drunk or make out or whatever. \n\nNow that I'm back in school, what would you guys suggest for finding new friends, and maybe on down the road, a new boyfriend? Any advice?", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We were splitting all costs of living (food/bills/rent/ins) on an percentage of income base. I weighted it in her favor because she liked to go out and have fun with her friends more which I didn't mind as long as she was happy.\n\nTurns out she wasn't all that happy and broke up with me. But rent is $1300/mo and rent/insurance/bills is about $1750/mo total between us. Also the lease is ridiculous and wants the equivalent of 4 months rent in fees to break it. So I laid out the ground rules and said it's now 50-50 for that amount we still share. The difference between then and now is $200 more a month for her. She says she can't pay it for the next two months because of a $500 deductible for an auto-claim she filed a few months back, which is factual.\n\nHowever, I called bullshit on her inability to pay her new share. She has horrible spending problems, so I budgeted her monthly income and showed her after all her costs of living (sans the deductible) she had about $600/mo to blow on whatever she wanted for the month. I informed her that most people, when confronted with unexpected bills, take it out of savings and then recuperate the loss over time. She didn't like that because she only has $1200 in savings and that's for her family trip to the Keys in July.\n\nI'm a part owner of her bank account and therefore have access to her checking and savings straight from my own account. I'm thinking of pulling the $100 ($200 split over her two pay periods) and letting her figure it out on her own. I'm not going to play this bullshit where she wants a break on paying rent for now, because I know she'll never get around to paying it because she already owes me $700 from when I dug her out of credit card debt when we got together 2 years ago.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First off, my dad is a really strange guy. He's like that weird moldy stuff in the back of your fridge that you have no idea what it is. \n\nHe started dating a woman maybe 5 years ago. I don't really know, since he didn't tell any of us. He actually never formally told us, we kind of found out through seeing open emails and texts. But anyway. My family (minus me) & dads girlfriend went away on vacation for a week to visit my dads grandparents, and apparently it didn't go so well. My sibling overhead the two talking, and thought it sounded like they were arguing about why they shouldn't tell his parents about something and she shouldn't wear something. Vague, yeah. But he's been secretive about what he has gotten her for Christmas and has said somethings that seem to hint he's proposed to her.\n\nI want to approach this situation in a calm manner, but I'm not sure how. I know I'll be quite annoyed and offended if he doesn't tell us soon (one of his weird things is to keep important information from people, like not telling his parents that my sibling is having a baby), and so I don't want it to get to the point where he eventually tells us and I'll have trouble forgiving him for not even talking to us about it until he's planning the wedding or some shit.", "role": "user" } ]

[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obligatory, it didn't happen today (but around a month ago) and I am not a morning person. \n\nInterning at a company. One month in I had a meeting with my boss and his boss. We were to meet at 7 am. I usually get into work at 8:30 so 7 am was early for me (specially cause it's a 1 hour drive)\n\nI get to work at 6:50 and see my boss and he said go ahead into his boss's room (since he will be in the meeting late). I'm super tired and I walk into the room and wait. No one is in this room. 10 minutes pass, 20 minutes pass, and then 4 people walk in and I'm like finally (I have never met my boss's boss) and they all sit down and start discussing some project that makes no sense to me -- definitely not the project I was assigned. And I'm completely flabbergasted. I sat in that room for one and a half hours confused as hell.\n\nFinally the meeting ends and everyone starts asking me who I am, and I explain and then they tell me I got the wrong room. Completely embarrassed I leave and see my boss and his boss leaving the adjacent room. They ask where I was and I explain my story and they just laughed and said that I'll have a one on one meeting later this week since I missed the original meeting \n\nKept my job, looked like a dumbass, all in a good day's work. It's been over a month and everyone in our department constantly remind me of this whenever I go into conference rooms or meetings.", "role": "user" } ]