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[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So the title says it all. I am not new to running by any means. I want to get better at running and I know the general answer \"Run more\". I have ran a couple of 100 mile weeks but I'm down to about 50-60 mile week due to injury. I hope to be running ultra marathons in the next few years.\n\n I know this seems like a silly post but I've never really had anyone coaching me or anything so if there are any little things I can do to improve just a little I'd be happy to know about them!\n\nSome general information....\n\nI am an 18 year old male \n\nI am a vegetarian (I don't really think that matters but it'll cut out or add some dietary advice)\n\nInjury I had: Hip pain (Never really looked into it too much but the pain is gone now)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little background here : My ex broke up with me after cheating on me over a year ago. Five months after the break up, she worked her way back into my life and spent the next year dating other guys who weren't me and treated her like crap. Her mother has recently died and her father was released from jail around the same time of the break up. Her recent behavior has been convincing me that I am better off without her in my life but another part of me wants to keep her around to look out for her. What do you think I should do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi guys, little bit new to reddit and this side of it so let me know if I did something wrong with my post.\n\nA little info about us:\nWe both just graduated high school, she is going out of state, I'm staying in state. I met her because she was one of my mom's best students at her school. Lost touch for about two months then reconnected on her accord, went out a few times, texted a lot, decided we would go to prom together. \n\nA little info on me: I enjoy focusing on fitness and am a pretty active person overall, but I am a nerd in terms of gaming and movies/tv etc. I have never kissed a girl before (you know where that goes).\n\nA little info on her: Studious (valedictorian of her school), kind to everyone, hard to read (in terms of feelings). I'm unsure about how strong her feelings are for me. I am usually the one to ask her if she wants to do something. Not sure if she has dated anyone in the past.\n\nHere's the catch: She has already told me that she does not want to date anyone before college, but she is the first person I have had strong feelings for in the past couple of years. College for us starts in August.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "More\n\nWe don't want him to be thin to be more attractive or so that we will love him more, but we are convinced that he will be the first of us to die, beating even our parents.\n\nHe has been fat for twenty years, living alone and creating a now very long-term habit of unhealthy food and no exercise. \n\nHe doesn't seem depressed or unhappy, but I don't kid myself into thinking that he is satisfied with his life.\n\nMy mother has tried offering him every surgery, program, theraphy, etc, known to man with all expenses paid. My dad has done the same. One drunken night I told him he would get diabetes, lose a foot, go blind, etc, by message.\n\nWe walk on egg shells so as not to hurt him and not to push him away from us, but I feel we need to do everything we can to help him lose the weight (though I have no idea if he is even trying).", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "TIFU because my mom thought it was a great idea to try the new Atomic Hot Wings from a pizza place around here. Apparently the Hot Wings are so hot that you are required to sign a waiver before purchasing them. Knowing me, the hot sauce fiend - no problem! \n\nWhen she got home I immediately scarfed 3. They were EXTREMELY HOT WITH LITTLE TO NO TASTE, TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT AT ALL. Either way, I felt manly as heck. I had hair on my chest and everything. \n\nLater, I lied down in my bed and I started feeling myself up for no reason (you know you do it!). All of a sudden I start feeling this wicked burning sensation which at first felt kind good...not so soon after. All of a sudden there is a massive burning which I can only explain to you as a volcano erupting from my urethra. I rush to the sink and I start pouring cold water on it to no avail, my lil guy was literally burning it down. \n\nAfter an hour or so it went away after much sitting in the shower and weeping for my sin - when I came out everyone knew what was going on. My sister thought it was a good idea to tell everybody in the house, and they're all calling me Volcano Dick now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "BACKGROUND info on her. She has daddy issues and has a case of depression. Doesn't seem like she is able to open up, afraid of being settled. Tells me she feels claustrophobic.\n\nI've been dating her for just over a month and today we were about to have sex and went through foreplay and I couldn't get a hard on because I just wanted feeling it. She took this as it was her fault I couldn't get it and lost all mood and blamed it on herself and I told her it wasn't but because I was nervous a bit because I liked her. She then tells me she hasn't gone down this road in a relationship before, she is afraid because she might ruin it and what not. She tells me either we can just be friends and have no more kissing/sex or we can just have sex and no emotion with it. She tells me if I pick the sex one then I have to be okay with her getting with other guys and I'm not okay with that because I like her and truly would be jealous. It's just a part of me. We then laid in bed for a solid 20 minutes silent and then I broke the silence and I could tell my her body position she was closing herself off. By the end the mood became more cheerful, we went through some old photos of us. BUT at the end of the night when I left, there was no goodbye kiss, just a solid goodbye. I feel sad because I really really like this girl and she is my prom date too which is in a month and if things go south I just feel like I can't emotional be around her because it will hurt me too much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Not quite sure where to start but here it goes. I just graduated and got a decent job paying over 40k in an IT field right out of school; currently working for the City my university is in. Due to my parents making to much money and sinking the left over money they did have into a currently profitable business they started, I was left to pay for college on my own. My parents also made to much money during my schooling time for me to get any lower interest federal loans; because of how naive and stupid I was I decided that private student loans through Sallie Mae would be a good alternative, big fucking mistake. My loan principle right now is $94,000 with $16,000 in accrued interest over the 5 years I was in school ($20,000 a year tuition). Long story short my monthly payments will be well over half my monthly income roughly ~$1,200 a month. I have looked into extended repayment and interest only payments for the loans but that would only cut the monthly bill by ~$300 and in turn making my $94,000 turn into a fat $300,000 bill over 25 years; some of the loans have interest rates as high as 14%. With all of my bills (Rent, car, insurance, gas, food) I will be completely broke. I have looked into going through a few local credit unions to see if I can refinance with the help of having both my parents co-sign but none of them will loan me that kind of money. So I ask you Reddit in all your infinite wisdom to brain storm with me on other possible ways I can go about paying this back. I am starting to get some serious anxiety from this and right now its killing my relationship with my long term girlfriend. I am in desperate need of some help, guidance, and anything else that will make me feel any better about this. Thanks!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Obviously swim suit season is fast approaching, and I'd like to be in my best shape this summer. Here are the facts:\nI'm 21, female, and pretty much any extra weight I carry in my stomach.\n\nI'm not overweight by any means. I'm about 5'5\" and fluctuate between 120 and 125 pounds.\n\n*My body is...disproportionate, which will tie in with the first two bullets. I have very long legs, and a pretty short torso, which means pretty much ANY extra weight is visible in my stomach (since, as mentioned, I carry weight in my stomach).\n\nHere's where r/loseit comes in. What do I do to lose those stubborn pounds in my stomach? I'm very active, I play soccer and ultimate frisbee all the time, so it's not a big deal to exercise, and I eat fairly well, though I will splurge here and there. Are there specific stomach-targeting exercises or diets that have worked for other people? I feel like I've been carrying around these same 5 pounds for half a decade now.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've found recently that my girlfriend has been saying things which make me feel uncomfortable dye to the way they're said. We're not doing great at the minute so I'm concerned this is changing my thinking. \n\nEssentially, we had an argument recently and now talking between us is more stilted (we're in different countries right now, by the way). The things that have me worried are when she says things like she needs to talk to me to distract her from thinking about hurting herself and that she \"hopes I know\" she's depending on me to make her happy. \n\nI don't want to seem overly selfish, I'm concerned about that. Of course I want to help and I have for as long as we have been dating (around a year and a half now). It just feels like some of these things are more of a threat than asking for help. This is partially caused by the fact that when I try to offer suggestions they're met with rejection as being too hard, not what she wants as the solution or simply as not going to work. \n\nI feel guilty writing this and I feel guiltier that I've been considering the future of our relationship recently. It feels like she's making sure I know just how guilty I should feel if I left. This is made worse by her recently accusing me of fostering her dependency on me while I'm not dependant on her (I'm not sure how I did this and when I tried to offer her ways of becoming more independent they were shot down). \n\nAm I being selfish here and thinking too much about my self, not enough about her? I do want to help and I don't want to make it all about me but these thoughts keep coming back to me. I'm not sure what to do so any advice is appreciated. \nHas anyone experienced anything like this before?\nAm I wrong here and being overly defensive or is this manipulative?\nMost importantly, where do I go from here?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Throwaway because my spouse is a redditor and knows my regular username. I am 25 and he is 28, we've been married for five years.\n\nI recently found out that my husband was having an affair with a married woman at work - it lasted about two months. I'm obviously devastated, especially since we have a child already and I'm pregnant with our second.\n\nHe denies any feelings for her and says that the affair stemmed from his desire to feel needed and wanted, and that he's always been a people pleaser and just didn't have the balls to stop it without disappointing her. Once I found out, he finally got the motivation to cut her off completely.\n\nThat's his story, anyway, and it matches up with the things we've been uncovering about him in marriage counseling. I just feel so uneasy about that because it seems too convenient. The other woman was sending me texts and forwarding me things all in an attempt to show me how sweet he was to her (I've since blocked her), while he denies meaning any of it. Am I supposed to really believe that he didn't mean a word he said to her, but means everything he says to me?\n\nHe says he loves me and wants to fix everything, and he's been really committed to counseling and making positive changes in our marriage. I'll even admit that in general, our marriage seems to be better now in a lot of ways. I just have this nagging feeling that he was able to fool literally everyone in his life (the few that know about this have been completely shocked). \n\nI have zero experience with this myself or among my friends. Is it really possible for a guy to just \"fall into a dark place\" for so long and then snap out of it? Is it possible for a guy to fake genuine feelings for someone without meaning a word, but still be genuine toward his wife? \n\nAm I an idiot for trying? Can this even be turned around at all? I should add that he has a past history of dishonesty that I am always wanting to believe he has changed.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "specialist in Utah to correct this. Aleks was put into traction for about three days to help stretch out his spine so they had enough room to open the back of his head to fix everything. Surgery went better than expected. He was brought home a few weeks ago and seemed to be doing well, despite losing a lot of his motor skills due to the invasive surgery.\n\nAbout two weeks ago he had an MRI to check on his progress. Sadly this showed that the surgery did not work as well as originally thought. Aleks needed to go back to Utah.\n\nHe arrived in Salt Lake City this past Sunday and had surgery number 2 on Monday. This one went well and was not as invasive as the first (they were able to clean things up working through his nose). Yesterday they did an X-Ray to follow up and again found they would need to go back in to clean up some more. As you could imagine, Aleks had a panic attack upon hearing this. The third surgery involves cutting open the roof of his mouth to better access the point of surgery.\n\nAleks is in surgery for a third time as I am writing this. I wish him nothing but the best of luck and a speedy recovery. He is going to have to go though months of physical therapy just to be able to speak and swallow properly again. This type of stuff should not be happening to a 13 year old kid.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So you guys gave me a lot of amazing advice for my screwed up situation (which was here: but pretty much this girl I was with ended things after I called her out for texting her ex too much, and she exploded at me, yelled at me for accusing her, and then proceed to go to ex's house.) \n\nAnyway, I've been doing a good job avoiding her even in the same social circle, but two nights ago I saw here and she was all over me, trying to hook up, saying she was sorry, that she is bad at relationships, etc. The same thing I heard twice before when I gave her other chances and got back after we ended. \n\nShe tried to make out with me, and I cheeked her. It was one of the toughest things I had to do. Reddit, I have been with a lot of girls, but she is the second one ever I've loved, which makes this really hard for me. I feel awful, like I messed up not giving her another chance, and I know she was really upset, then wound up going to a party with these guys she knows. I can deduce what happened from there.\n\nI've been seeing other girls and even that night I wound up hooking up with someone else but all I could think about was her and upset about the whole situation. I realize it would be dumb to give her a fourth chance, and my feelings are sadness mixed with anger towards her... how do I keep sane during this? I feel so depressed about it all. I know she is really upset about it too (she may have drunk social media...)", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This happened today and I still feel pretty bad about it..oh boy. \n I was in class, done with my work, and bored. It's important to the story to tell you that I have an extremely glitchy iPhone 4. Well..I opened Facebook. I saw that this girl I hardly know posted a picture of her mom in the emergency room and that she wasn't doing good. I tried opening the picture to see the comments, because why not. \nThat's when my phone froze, it does this often. \n I started randomly clicking the screen because I was frustrated. At this point I was hardly paying attention, but I started accidentally typing a comment. You know how you can add stickers to comments on Facebook? Yeah, I did that. \n It was a sticker of this fish/man saying \"HAHA\". And then I accidentally posted it. \nAnd then the bell rang for lunch, so I didn't realize it for about a half an hour. Plenty of time for people to see what I posted.\nAnd then the comments started flooding in.\n\"What's wrong with you?\" \"What's your problem\"", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A few months ago, I found out my boyfriend was talking to some girl and flirting with her. I don't want to go into too much details about how I found out, but we had a period of about 3 weeks where we weren't talking too much because we were trying to figure things out. I know that while we weren't talking too much (and not officially on a break or broken up), he basically made her into his girlfriend. It really bothers me. Sometimes I'm just doing something random and my mind automatically goes back to that and I end up depressed. I keep getting paranoid and thinking that while I might be occupied with something else, he might go back and talk to her. He already said it was a huge mistake and that no one could ever replace me. It was just that new experience of a crush but it was stupid. I just need some help so I don't have to get so depressed and we can move ahead. I know it's getting better with time, but is there something that can help me just move past the hurt that's still in me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Story time!\n\nI took an English class at my community college last semester. In that class I met a girl, and from the very beginning I was... interested in her. We chit-chatted in class, we'd walk to our cars together, but when I tried to hang out with her she suddenly said, \"Sorry, I'm kinda seeing someone\".\n\nI mean, on the inside I was kind of upset, but I knew that even if she was equally interested in me that we'd both be going away to school at the end of the summer (Monterey, California for her/Boston, Massachussets for me). So, I just let it pass. But things between us never changed. We still chit-chatted throughout class and walked to our cars together. We'd spend hours sending texts messages about nothing. One of my coworkers somehow convinced me that she probably wasn't seeing anyone and it was just a 'test'.\n\nAnyways, summer is nearly over and in a couple weeks we'll each go to our separate campuses and (likely) never see each other again.\n\nMy question is... Should I tell this girl that I would've loved an opportunity to date her? If so, how should I go about that? And if not, why?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am without a home for the time being, but have been offered an opportunity to live with a redditor in San Diego. I can stop hanging out in from of subway and starbucks to use Internet and charge my phone, I can sleep in a room instead of a park and I can get a job and get my life back in order. I need a way there. The amazing redditor that offered me a room tried everything she could do to find a way to get me there. I'm about done as far as what I can think of to make the streets better, but it is still the streets. If anyone knows anyone that is going through central Illinois and can get me west, that is a start. Maybe we can find a way to get me a chain of rides it can work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So this was a few weeks ago, and I'm applying for a job at a local restaurant. My phone has been pretty slow recently, and occasionally freezes under intense use. \n\nAnyway, I call the boss of the place and start talking to him. He seemed pretty cool, and was Asian so he was a bit hard to understand. We talk for 5 minutes or so and I'm about halfway into a pre-interview (basically he was just getting my info and stuff) when suddenly I stop hearing his voice. \n\nShit.\n\nI look down at my phone, no display. Shake it, tap the power button, nothing. Balls, it froze.\n\nI look at my phone and yell \"YOU STUPID PIECE OF FUCKING SHIT GOD DAMMIT\" and proceed to be pissed at my phone for a solid 30 seconds before calming down and restarting my ~~shitbrick~~phone. \n\nI call him back and he seems much more softspoken. We hang up without scheduling an official interview. Damn\n\nSo around a week later I decide to listen to the phonecall, because I was curious what went wrong. I apologised for my phone cutting out and everything, so I had no idea why he was so different after my phone dropped.\n\nSo I listen to my recorded calls. Apparently my phone has a freezing order or some shit, because it cut out my speaker and screen before the apps running in the background- like my phone, recorder, and my microphone.\n\nSo at the end of my phonecall, my would-be employer got the entirety of my vulgar vocabulary while I thought my phone was off.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I broke up about a month ago. Since then, I've come to see the things that were my fault. She did some shit too, but most of the things she did were based on the fact that I was being a shitty boyfriend in some way or another. I don't think that absolves her of her responsibility for her actions, but it does make it a hell of a lot easier for me to forgive her for them. The trouble is, I love her, very much. And I do want to give it another shot. The things that I did wrong were mostly just taking her for granted. She's dating someone else right now, but I think that will end at some point. So I told her all of this, that I love her, want to spend the rest of my life with her, and I see the areas that I fucked up and really do think that I can change them (even saying that as a guy makes me feel like I'm conforming to some cliche, but I do actually mean it). When I told her this, she said that she really liked what I was saying, but our relationship deteriorated so much toward the end that she thinks it would take some time for her to not feel like we were just jumping back into it at the shitty point. I think I agree with her. If we got back into it right now, she would be standoffish and I would be paranoid and suspicious. But is it unhealthy to look at the end of this relationship as just a long break, and that we may be able to give it another shot at some point?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First time poster - I hope this is the right place to ask this.\n\nAnyways, I've been a student at a really intense prep school for the last two years. My life there's a grind - I routinely get under four hours of sleep a night, my day is completely structured from 6:30 AM to 9:30 PM, and my classes have really high expectations. I also do a lot of extracurriculars.\n\nThus far, I've managed to cope and be relatively happy. I got through two years of basically killing myself physically and mentally for a 4.0 GPA. I was super motivated to achieve.\nBut since the start of this year, I just haven't been able to keep up with this utterly crazy way of living. I'm still motivated - I want to work. But I can't. I will literally just sit in front of an assignment for hours trying to get myself to do it, but I just can't. I don't know why, but I just don't care anymore. I find it impossible to do my homework. I've tried setting timers, doing things in chunks, switching up subjects, cutting corners, giving myself rewards and breaks. But nothing works - I get my homework done, but only at 3:00 in the morning or between classes on the day it's due. This is unsustainable.\n\nMy parents tell me I'm suffering from burnout, that I can't keep doing this after two years. They're right. But the fact of the matter is I have to keep doing this, at least until college. I'm just starting Junior year, and from an academic/college resume standpoint I really can't afford to slack off. (I've already cut out extra courses and activities, so even now I'm already doing the bare minimum.)\n\nI'm also sort of disillusioned/depressed with school - the beginning of the year was tough for me both academically and emotionally. I'm not sure I've recovered from it yet.\n\nLooking around at other posts on reddit I'm starting to think I might be in the early stages of a psychosomatic breakdown.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend and I have/had been dating for 2 years. We recently made some major life moves - graduated from college, moved to NYC, dealt with employment/unemployment. She cheated on me. We were having some issues with my unemployment, paying the bills, feeling tied down and burdened. So I broke up with her. A few days later we decided that breaking up wasn't really what we wanted so now we're taking a break.\n\nBy break I mean - us moving into separate apartments, speaking as little as possible outside of logistical stuff, both working on getting our lives together independently, figuring out what we need both from one another and from life at large. We're going to reassess the situation in mid-February. So far, I've been able to get myself a fulltime job in my field and sign up with a ceramics studio - both of which are a pretty big deal for me, I'll spare you the details. \n\nBasically I'm asking for advice from those who have taken a break. If we do get back together, how do I just pick up where we left off? How do I get over the cheating? What if I want to get back together and she does nice or vice versa. Any advice or personal experience related to this will be helpful. Thanks a lot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Backstory: I moved to a new city about 6 months ago for a job where i met my friend Jane. During our training we became good friends, have some shared interests etc, but after training finished we haven't seen each other that much because of the type of work that we do (different shifts and etc).\n\nAbout the same time i met my gf, Sophie, who is just the sweetest and who i really care about. We dont share that many friends, she has hers and i have mine.\n\nProblem: Jane and I spoke a lot about how we love going to music festival etc, and how we should get together with the rest of the friends we made during our training and take some time off at the same time. We planned this quite early on (before i was serious with my gf), and we both applied for leave quite early for september (hoping that our friends would hop on once they saw we had booked our days off). They did, but applied later on, and just this week got rejected their application. I knew this could happen when we first planned the trip, but at that time i wasn't that serious with my girlfriend, so I thought going just with Jane would not be a problem.\n\nNow that I am more serious with Sophie though I wanted to talk with her before we booked any tickets, and she just said frankly that it would bother her if i left with only Jane. Now, me and jane can both rearrange our plans and do other things for the days off we have, but we have planned this trip for a long time, and we would both be very disappointed if we didn't go. I don't want friends or girlfriends hinder me for doing things that I really want to do, but at the same time I realise that it would be very selfish for me to got on this trip, and of course I don't want Sophie to be uncomfortable. My thoughts are really clashing here, and I need some outside perspective from you all; should I stay or should I go?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I asked this girl I had a huge crush on last year to hoco via text. We didn't really talk much last year but getting to know her via internet she's a really cool and very intelligent girl and I grew the man power to ask her to go with me. \n\nHere's the problem, I haven't sent her in over a year and she lives half an hour away how do I break the ice so it won't be awkward when we see each other face to face. \n\nWe're both really socially awkward and I feel like I set myself up for an awkward night. But she was really stoked I asked so I feel like she may have feelings for me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We go to german lessons together, I met her a week ago. Our 'german group' is really small (only 6 people) and we're actually the only people talking to each other. \n\nShe is very kind and friendly towards me and tries to initiate chat. She laughs hysterically(!) at some of my jokes (she doesn't laugh at ALL of them). She says \"hello\" in a very seductive way, yeah I know that's a stupid thing to say but I've never been greeted by a girl this way.\n\nNote that this girl is BEAUTIFUL. And I mean perfect 10/10 and probably gets any guy she wants. I gotta say I'm an average looking guy, slightly above average in best case. I'm really not that funny guy, I don't lack social skills but I'm a bit weird, in a positive way. \n\nIn normal circumstances, I'd say she's into me. But I really have nothing to show her what other guys don't already have! \n\nIs she maybe pranking me?\n\nOr does she genuinely likes me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Thank you all whom take the time to read and respond. I'm a guy who's 20 years of age and still coming out of my shell in relation to girls. My main fear and biggest obstacle is knowing when to draw the line being being confident (as I'm trying to be more of) and being perceived as a creep/perv. I've been told before that I'm aparently 'cute' so it's not my looks that worry me, I just really want to make sure I don't give off the wrong/bad vibe. Generally speaking, I'm not looking for someone just becuase of the sex, I'm trying to find someone to have a connection with on an emotional level, where we can tell each other anything and all that gooey stuff.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'll try to keep it somewhat brief. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. Once we were dating for awhile I realized she wasn't the most stable person... at all. She had very bad depression, anxiety, and migraines. She also gets jealous easily, has trust issues, and is slightly overweight. It took me a long time and a lot of effort to get her to go to her doctor to start taking meds. I tried to get her to see a therapist as well, but she only ended up going a few times and then gave up. When we were in college together still, her depression/anxiety was so bad that she gave up on going to classes and flunked out. She doesn't have her license, she currently works a minimum wage job and it's been 1-2 years since she's been in college. She was supposed to go last spring but that didn't work out, and she's supposed to go an upcoming semester but I'm not sure if she'll follow through. Her family is also pretty crazy which doesn't help the whole situation.\n\n---\n\nI see many people give the advice of leaving someone who seems depressed or has anxiety because \"they're crazy.\" I don't really see these people as crazy unless it's a serious case and they're doing extremely immature, insane things. To me, it seems a little rude to just assume they're crazy and tell people to run away. For whatever reason I decided to stay and help her instead of running away. She's definitely improved a lot, but still has some issues. I guess I cared about her enough to spend a lot of my time and energy to stay and help. My question to you is: When would you stay with \"crazy\"? What would make you stay, what would make you leave?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "After clicking around on the website for Cocks Communications and reaching multiple 404 errors for the gazillionth time (the \"pay your bill\" links always work flawlessly, of course), I sent this brief communique:\n\nWhy do so many of your links go to 404's? It's been like this forever. \nIt's as if you don't know about the problem or don't care. If you don't \nknow about the problem, maybe it's the TWELVE required fields a customer\nhas to fill out just to send you an email (like this). You should make \nit easier to contact your company... if you care about feedback. What \nthe hell am I saying? You're Cox. You don't care at all. It shows in \neverything you do. Why am I bothering to write this?\n\nThe crack customer service team over at Cocks Communications sent me this remarkably unhelpful response (text wall ahead): \n\nThank you for your e-mail. I understand you are currently experiencing \nconnectivity difficulties. I am sincerely sorry for this inconvenience.\n\nUnder these circumstances, it is somewhat effortful to determine the \ncause of your connectivity issue, since we are not able to troubleshoot \nyour computer directly. You might encounter isolated hardware \ndifficulties on your end, not visible from our side. I suggest you \nperform cable modem troubleshooting, by accessing the link below:\n\n*<snip 3 pages of utterly useless advice>", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey guys and girls,\n\nTo give a short summary, I had a long relationship since early teens, but it ended after 8 years, so I was 23 or so with no real dating experience. \n\nStarted dating, had a few girls, but there was one kind of special, lets call her Alice. I was totally into Alice, she was into me too but I completely f*cked that up, being too afraid to get physical and acting insecure. I do not know exactly what happened but one day Alice just stopped communicating with me. I tried a few times to get in touch again but she did not respond, so I blocked her on basically everywhere to stop me from writing to her (and it worked).\n\nIt has been more than a year since, I dated more girls since and found a GF, we are great, but sometimes I just cannot help my brain thinking about Alice. I did not try to get in touch with her (and I do not want to), it just feels weird and bad that sometimes I still think about Alice even though she was not really a GF and I had girls before and after Alice that I got way farther with (relationship-wise and physically) and I do not think about those at all.\n\nCan you please give me any advice on what to do about it ? Let me just point out I love my current GF very much. Thanks a lot.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months but we've been friends for around 3years and I've been in love with him for most of that. Thing is I find myself thinking about his exes (or, well...One ex in general - his most recent one). They were together for 10 and a bit months and I'm forever wondering if he still thinks of her, if he misses her, whether he wishes I were her and just general crazy stuff like that. They don't talk anymore and as far as I know she broke up with him but he didn't want to talk about it so I don't know why. I can't ever seem to get him to have a proper conversation about her (not that I ask often, I don't wanna reopen any old wounds he may have.) \n\nLast night it finally got the best of me and I admitted to him that I wonder these things. His reply was \"Well, you know all the answers to those,\" and he smiled at me and that was the end of that conversation.\n\nMy question is, how do I get over this without having to keep talking to him about it? Any advice is appreciated guys! (:", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my girlfriend are very close and so far, the relationship has been great for the most part. We like to tease and joke with each other, but sometimes she says things that really annoy me. And the thing is, she purposely tries to annoy me to the point that I'm mad because she thinks me getting upset is amusing. \n\nThe way she does this is by joking about leaving me for a coach at school(we'll call him coach tony). She'll say things like \"Oh say hi to tony for me, tell him that I miss him\" or \"me and tony had such a wonderful time last night\". I feel stupid that those comments annoy me, because coach tony is like 50-60 years old but still a good looking man. I know nothing would ever happen because that's just not the type of man he is and that's not the type of girl she is. But it still upsets/annoys me a good amount. She'll joke about breaking up with me for my little brother, which is also stupid because he's 12. And then sometimes she'll just pretend that we break up by saying things like \"oh it was nice knowing you\" or \"see you around school I guess\". All the comments she makes are along those lines and I know she doesn't really mean them but they still bother me. However, whenever she makes these comments she'll usually stop and try to defuse the situation before I get too upset. She'll say stuff like \"oh you know I'm just playing with you\" or \"I just think it's funny making you mad\".\n\nAm I being too sensitive by being really upset by these remarks? She says them at least a 2-3 times a week, and to me, it got old really fast.\nI know this sounds stupid coming from a 16 year old, but I really like her and want to make this relationship as best as it can be.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for over 5 years now, and I could honestly say that I am deeply in love with her. I've never felt so loved and happy before, and I believe that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Our sex life is out of this world, and I can't keep up with her, and we also have a really deep emotional connection. I'm about to ask her to marry me, however, I'm suddenly feeling really hesitant and I think it's because she's 6 years older than me...\n\nMy girlfriend has always been a lot less mature than me, and I think that stems from the fact that she lived a very sheltered life. I was also her first real boyfriend, and she lost her virginity to me. She also looks about 10 years younger than she is, and people are always amazed that she's older than me. In essence, I've always felt like the older, and more mature person in our relationship. We are also in the same place career wise, and we both discussed wanting to have kids in about 3-4 years from now. \n\nDespite this, though, I can't help but worry about our age difference...It feels nonexistent now, but I worry that It'll be evident in the future...At times I think that 6 years is such a small age gap and that my worries are incredibly immature and nonsensical. But at times I feel that our 6 year age difference is something to worry about, maybe not now, but in the future...\n\nI am deeply in love with this girl, and I've never been so physically and emotionally attracted to someone before. I'm about to ask her for marriage, but I can't get rid of the nagging thought that she's older than me.\n\nAm I crazy? Is a 6 year age difference really that big of a deal among adults?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I met this girl back in early November, and ever since, we've been talking to each other everyday. She always wishes me good night before sleeping, and I always respond the next day with good morning.\n\nTo give a little more background on her, she broke up with her boyfriend of 2 years about half a year ago, and ever since, she's been doing a lot of dating.\n\nEarlier this week, she told me she didn't want to be exclusive, and she's been seeing somebody else. Then, yesterday, she told me she liked me, but she thought I had too much experience. She followed this up by saying that she hasn't explored life or anything she wants and she's never been single so she's confused on dating. I think she's absolutely adorable in every way.\n\nOne more thing to note is that our relationship has been all through text messages. She lives a little bit aways and we've never been able to meet up because of bad timing and stuff. Though, we have tentative plans to have dinner next Thursday.\n\nReddit, what should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and this girl have been friends for a little bit. I felt like there has been an attraction between us so I asked her if she thought so. She said she thinks there is something between us but she doesn't want to pressure it.\n\nI asked her if her if she wanted to see where it could go, no pressure. Then she said she's doesn't know and wants to stay friends. I'm okay with that.\n\nNow we hung out again, and she says things that seem like she wants something. Like she's implying that she wants me. For example, We were talking and i mentioned that im slighty younger then her(by 9 months) and she says, \" I dont know if this is going to work out between us, i dont go for younger guys\" in a flirty way.\n\nWhat does she mean? I dont get it. Should i make my move next time?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi Ladies, \n\nI feel very sad, like extremely sad like my life is going nowhere. I've been looking for a job for a while and even though I have some good leads now that I feel extremely terrible like nothing is going good in my life, and I'm on my period. \n\nBefore my period started, it was my birthday I was happy and excited. Now I feel so down. I've never experienced something like this before. I am 25 and I had the PMS thing before but I was never feeling this sad in my life. And I really want to crawl in my bed and cry, didn't even spend Valentine's day with my boyfriend because I just was in a terrible mood, nothing seemed to cheer me up.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit! Over the past week or so my SO of 6 months has been acting pretty out of the norm with me... We normally always say goodnight before bed and say we love each other but this past week it just hasn't really happened, I've said it but it's not been reciprocated at all. On top of this there's been this guy she's been talking to [26M] who she says used to be nice but then got weird and sends her nudes all the time but she has never told him to leave her alone. As well as that, she doesn't like being known as my girlfriend or that I'm her boyfriend even though we do all the stuff, spend time together, go on dates etc. But she changes so much around our friends, and this has not just been recently this has been since we started speaking to each other. This comes then today, she was at my house and she tried to initiate sex, after messaging the guy, I said no because I thought something had happened in the messages but she insists all the time that he's the only one being weird. Shortly after I apologised because I didn't want it to seem like I didn't want her and then she broke down crying saying that it was because she was gonna miss me a lot when she went to uni, but the thing is that she's never done anything like it before, whenever I've been upset she's always been comforting and said that we'd still see each other, so that prompted me to think further that something had been said in the messages and she'd acknowledged that I realised. She's now at home and flaming me for apologising and wanting a reason to initiate it, when before she did, nothing was going on, I'd went to get us a drink and we'd actually had sex about 2 hours before and both gotten off. I'm really confused about what's going on, please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Back Story My Boyfriend told Me before we got together that He had a crush on this one girl before. After that we still weren't together but already pretty exclusive. He lied to me about meeting said girl saying he's meeting up with a friend.( he ended up not going because he decided to meet up with me instead ) but in my eyes He still did lie. I only found out about the lie 2 months into our actual relationship. We got into a discussion and I clearly told him that I don't want any lies. He then told me that he made a mistake and won't do it again and that he never wants any contact with this girl again. I grew really suspicious and such to be honest I didn't even know this girl but I resented her. ( insecurities ) so I looked at his profile often ( he gave me his password) he didn't delete her on facebook but I decided to let it pass. Because I really don't wanna be a psycho bitch. but now 8 months into our relationship, thanks to the facebook feature I saw that in the last 10 days he looked her up three times? Last time before that he looked her up in May. And it just bothers me. \n honestly I don't know how to feel about this I definitely want to bring it up somehow but I just don't know how? Or just any advice on how to deal with this situation better? I'm feeling like an insecure bitch but I can't help it", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have a history of ending relationships out of nowhere. I'm not entirely sure why besides that I just get scared of the commitment that comes with long term relationships.\n\nAs of recently, I have just been feeling really not myself. I have good days and I have bad days where I feel really low. On the good days I'm convinced that I'm just being weird and that it will pass. On bad days I feel really negative and agitated.\n\nAs of recently the low days are outnumbering the good days. I feel very irritable and I feel so bad for how my bf has to deal with it. I sometimes don't feel like being touched. He is so loving and just wants to be near me and snuggle all the time but it just makes me push him away and get agitated. The more I push the more he tries to fix it and by being more loving.\n\nI have zero sex drive and I end up declining his advances because I never feel up to it. We talked last night and he said he feels like I don't care about him as much anymore. That broke my heart because i feel absolutely terrible with how I have been treating him.. being distant and not wanting to have sex. And I know he has to feel that way based off of how I act but I am having a hard time dictating how I feel and why.\n\nI don't think it is the relationship unless I just don't like being smothered with attention but it feels more than that. I quit my recent job because it was too emotionally draining and I feel like I want something but I just can't put my finger on what.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (late20sF) have a friend (late20sM) that I've known casually for many years but have only hung out with a handful of times because we both have moved around a lot. Nothing explicitly romantic has ever happened between us, but we have a really good connection and sometimes I've wondered if we would have dated if the timing had worked out better. We now live about a half hour apart and recently we hung out for the first time in several months. I have a personal webpage that tracks analytics so I can see who visits my page and where they're located. Late that night, I got an alert that someone had just searched for me on google and had visited a few of the pages on my personal webpage. Based on the location I know it was him. \n\nIs this a strong sign he is interested in me? Or is it somewhat common for people to google random friends of theirs?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My so of 10 years, he went to a work do tonight after he left he stopped at a gas station to get me some water, when he got back he had a story of a women who started hitting on him, asking if she could touch his hair, his plans for the night, if she could have his number. He told me he showed her his wedding ring and said he was married, we laughed about the odd encounter and then he promptly fell asleep. \nI went to the bathroom and came back and checked he had his alarm set since he had passed out so quickly. That is when I noticed that his contacts were open with her name and number....\nReddit, what do I do? Do I give him the benefit of the doubt as I know he hates awkward situations and see him taking her number just to get rid of her or am I just being naive? Help a girl out please.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey everyone.\n\nMy Ex and I just started talking again after being broken up for 2 years. We have dated twice prior to that so this is our 3rd try. When we started talking again and after being on a few dates, we agreed that we want to take things slow although we still like each other and we both haven't been with anyone during our \"break\". Throughout the past few weeks we have been talking every single day, sometimes all day long (Facebook or whatsapp) until last week he just stopped responding mid-conversation. I thought he was just busy so I wasn't bothered. However after 8 days of him not responding to my last-message, I feel like he wants to play games and Im not up for that. \n\nQuite frankly, Im pissed off for him \"disappearing\" completely and then pretending nothing has happened (probably because he realized I'm not going to run after him, he texted me today about something totally random).\n\nI don't want to play and I don't want to rekindle things with someone who is still into it with 24 years of age. However I don't want to come across as a over-reacting bitch either, so my question is:\n\nShould I just tell him that Im not in for playing mind-games and then leave it be? How do I handle this nicely?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "She says it'll never happen again. But she said that last time too. This last year has been good. We've been relatively happy. Going to therapy and taking her meds. She's bi-polar.\n\nI went out of state to visit family. She was hanging out with friends, including the guy she cheated on me with a year and a half ago. He gave her his #. She called him, then went to his house, (just to hang out as friends), and they had sex. A few times during the week. \n\nWhen I got back I knew something was up. She was being extra nice and we actually had good sex, which was unusual. I attributed it to her missing me, but... I checked her phone and found that she had been calling someone. We made a therapy appointment the next day to clear the air. Her therapist and her weren't going to tell me what she did, but I figured it out and called her on it. She didn't deny it, so I threw my wedding ring and walk out saying it's over, that's after she begged me not to leave her. \"Please don't leave me. I love you. Please don't leave me.\" \n\n She said it happened because she's a messed up person. That she's an idiot. \n\nBut my willpower just left me and now I don't want to get divorced. We have a house together, a daughter, we're just started to get ahead on finances. The logical part of my brain knows I'll be happier with out her. But the other part of brain knows it wants to stay with her. I feel like I have no pride, no self-respect. We grew up together, half our lives. I have no clue life will be like with out her. \n\nOn the other hand. I don't want my life to change. If she does do the right things in the future, can't we be happy again?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been dating a girl for about a month and we've probably made out about twice and kissed several times. We're just a couple of high school seniors.\n\nShe really likes me and thinks I'm a great guy and thinks I treat her well.\n\n1) Anyway, I'm going home for summer break for about 3 months. She said that we should keep in touch and talk to eachother and then pick up once I get back. I'm worried that she'll meet another guy while I'm gone. How could I talk to her about this and my feelings without seeming clingy and weird? I understand that we're not exclusive but she's looking for a relationship..we just need to wait until I come back.\n\n2) I'm not sure if she's ready to have sex. What kind of questions should we ask eachother so I can find out if it's something she wants to do?\n\n3) I got her on the bed while we were making out and she said her mom was on the way so we couldn't do anything. So I said \"that's fine, we'll just do it next weekend\" and she said something like \"uh, there's actually this thing I have to do all day and I'm not sure if I'll have free time\". I don't know if she's lying because she's scared to be honest or if she just wants to wait.\n\n4) I've been on four dates already. Is it too early to ask for a relationship? Should I wait to ask her to be my gf after I come back from summer break?\n\nI don't want to pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to, but I want to make her happy. She has had several partners in the past and is experienced.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "His brother is 32 and his girlfriend is 21. She is a negative, mean and ignorant person. She is destroying relationships in the family. My boyfriend doesn't want to see his brother because of this girl. Every time shes around she is nothing but inconsiderate, rude and outright mean to him. Their dad doesn't want to come down and visit him for the same exact reason. His friends do not want to visit him for the same exact reason! This girl is ripping the family apart and taking everything from him. She also cheated on him already as well. They have been together since the middle of July in 2013 and she moved in with him three weeks later.\n\nIt is a shitty situation and I don't want to deal with the bull shit anymore. Family members are upset and insulted by her and no one wants to deal with it. I just want someone to say something and get it over with instead of walking around the issue and no one thinks it is their place to say something even though it is directly affecting them. I know it is not my place to say something to him but its been months now and I am ready to march over to his house and lay it out. He is a grown ass man not a child he can handle this type of conversation.\n\nIs it my boyfriend and their dads business to talk to him and share their concerns about this unhealthy relationship and tell him that they do not approve?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my girlfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago, but we haven't stopped talking since then. She told me she wanted to be a \"thing\" which wasn't too serious at all, but meant we would try and only want each other. She goes on vacation to the beach where many of our friends, including my best friend is there. I tell her I can't be just a thing with her because I want more. So the next day she gets drunk and tries to hookup with my bestfriend, he declines thankfully. She calls me about 45 minutes after it happens asking to get back together and then telling me what happened. I blew up on her, and was completely outraged. Then later in the night after a long fight of freaking out on her, I couldn't fight the feeling I still wanted her. Should I forgive her and try to work things out? Let me add she and all her friends said she missed me so much and wanted me back. My best friend was talking to her about our relationship for me, and that's when she asked him from being drunk and her excuse of \"missing me\" is why she did this. Should I tell her to fuck herself, or keep our love strong?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Please help me sort out my thoughts... I'm seriously freaking out about what to do.\n\nI've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and he's wonderful. We've been long distance for the past year, and I'll be the first to admit that I have jealous and insecure tendencies. I snooped on an old email of his a while back and saw that 6 year ago he posted on Craigslist a few times looking for casual encounters with transwomen. Since nothing was posted after we started dating, I didn't think to bring it up, especially because it seemed as though nothing actually happened from the email exchanges he had.\n\nFor some reason, I decided to just check Craigslist's casual encounters page under M4T today in his area, and found an ad with his picture on it. Unmistakingly him, as it's a nude he sent to only me a few months ago. Amongst his ad, it says \"I'm up for anything safe. Still haven't found what I'm looking for\"\n\nI'm in shock, feel like I've been cheated on - if not already, then this feels like premeditated cheating. I seriously don't know what to do or what to think. I know I need to talk to him about this immediately, but he doesn't get off work until a few hours. I don't even know how I should bring up that I found this - it was so random, and I don't know if it would be the best idea to bring up that I had snooped on his email earlier and found earlier postings which led me to snoop on Craigslist today.\n\nPlease help... I can't concentrate on anything besides this right now, and I can't stop freaking out.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I've been talking to this girl online for nearly nine months. She's on the other side of the country so we haven't met in person, but we text and tweet at each other every single day and we've had a voice call a few months back. I'm not entirely sure why I click so well with her- part of me wonders if I just got attached because she's been helping me through my depression and anxiety issues + it was my first year at a tiny private college so I didn't have a full social circle. At any rate, once we talk we can't shut up and it's been like that for nearly the entire 9 months. I don't know what I'd do if I didn't wake up to her texts every morning.\n\nAbout a month or two ago our interactions started to get a little more... flirty, I guess you can call it. I'm not sure what exactly caused this, but sometimes our conversations would veer off and it would be nothing but rather embarrassing threads where we talk about hugging or kissing when we meet up, or just blatant \"I love you\" and \"You mean a lot to me\". I'm also unsure of her orientation at this point- so far we've just been talking as friends, I think? I've never had this kind of exchange with friends before so I don't know. \n\nI was brought up in a rather conservative family and my parents have never so much as given me a hug, never mind verbal affection. It's a little disorientating for me because I'm starting to feel something serious for her but I don't know if I'm just feeling it because of her role in helping me with my depression and her general attitude of being friendly and affectionate to everyone.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am at the end of the road. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about ending my life and how I would do it. I was scheduled to be enrolled in a mental/behavioral outpatient program starting Monday. Then I got fired from my job. I'm getting dropped from my insurance. I had to cancel my registration. My dogs are the only thing keeping me here. I could find them a home. A beautiful life on a farm chasing rabbits and digging holes. Laying in the sun and rolling in deer poop. That makes me think about my life long dream. I want to open a shelter. A shelter for people and animals where they can go to live out their final days, or until they find something better, or until they can get on their feet enough to make it on their own. I want to call it The Farm. From lost without a cause to the terminally ill, I want to provide a place where people and animals can find themselves in the harmony and beauty of a relationship with each other. \nI lost my job Friday and found out today that I no longer have insurance. Against my better judgement and the wishes of the doctors I did see, I decided to get drunk. In a moment of what might have been delusion, I had an idea that if I could somehow find a way to contact a producer or someone like Marjorie Kaplan (the GM of Animal Planet) that they might find this idea as beautiful as I do. I think many people would want to see the story of animals or people coming together when their world is against them to live in a place that they can finally call home. I thought maybe if they agreed with me, they would fund the start up of my Farm, air a few seasons then I could continue the work of giving people and animals something to hope for. Maybe I'm delusional. You tell me. I can't afford healthcare. I looked for several hours and could not find a way to contact such a producer personally. Could you help me?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My husband and I have been together for 4 years. We are expecting a baby at the end of August. In the past, I have caught him lying about chewing tobacco, but never in the last year. I thought he was done with it. But recently, I was looking for nail clippers and looked in his grooming kit where I found a stash of it. I asked him about it and he told me he's been doing it a few times a day (some days not doing it at all though). He said he's trying to quit and wants to quit. He doesn't want our son that we're going to have to develop the habit. I told him to come talk to me whenever he feels a craving because I want to help him quit. \n\nBut this morning, I woke up and there was an empty pop bottle in the trash with chew residue in it. I'm not sure if I should ask him if he did it last night and see if he lies to me. \n\nI watched my grandmother go through lung cancer treatments and ultimately die from it. She was the closest family member I have and it's made me have a strong hate for tobacco. We live in a state where marijuana is legal and his job allows him to smoke. He's smoked weed for several years and I have absolutely no problem with it. But every time I think about tobacco and the harsh chemicals in it, and what it can do to a person, it really hurts me.\n\nMy friends say I'm overreacting. They say \"he could be doing worse.\" But I don't care. I don't like that I may one day have to see my husband go through treatments for cancer just like my grandma. It really hurts my heart and it's making me really stressed out. \n\nI don't know what the right thing to do is here... I know I can't control him. He knows how I feel about it but chooses to do it behind my back anyway. I don't know what the right thing is and I'm feeling really lost and hurt right now. So any advice how to approach this is appreciated.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I can't explain why but throughout my childhood my parents harassed me when I cried.\n\nBoth my mother and father would laugh at me and call me names. I was only about 5 years old.\n\nI cried when I was hurt or when I sad and would laugh and call me a \"faker\". When I didn't stop they would get angry and I'd get spanked until I shut up.\n\nI stopped crying at about 8 years old. I just never did it because I didn't want to get in trouble.\n\nMy parents were nicer too. They didn't laugh at me or spank me.\n\nWhen I was 13 my mom died from leukemia. It was really sad, and I did cry when my dad told me she was going to die. I cried so loud the neighbors called the cops. My voice was sore when I said goodbye to her.\n\nAfter that it was just my dad and I. He didn't really know how to raise me. Mom usually did that while he worked. He started beating me when I got into trouble, and wouldn't stop until I didn't cry anymore.\n\nLife wasn't easy. My grades were bad and I was kicked out of school for poor grades. \n\nBut I'm 18 now, and is been almost a year since he's hurt me. I cry when I'm sad now, and it's awesome.\n\nI'm not weak, I'm not faking. I'm sad, and I'm crying, and I feel better after.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really do think he's straight, but was just trying it out. We were drinking. We have kind of a flirty friendship, but I think he just likes the attention. I've told him before that I thought he was hot and he plays up to it a lot.\n\nWe were drinking and watching Game of Thrones and it was after a Dany sex scene and we started talking about who we like on the show and he grabbed my hand and put it on his crotch to show me how hard he was. I went with it and started stuff. \n\nI don't really remember the actual sex part, I blacked out, but I know we had it. I remember some things. I woke up the next day in my bed with him, we were both naked. I got in the shower and when I got out he was gone.\n\nHe's been really weird with me ever since. I'm not surprised, it was a mistake, but I hate that he doesn't even talk to or look at me. I'm willing to pretend it never happened if that'd make it easier for him, but he seriously is just giving me one word answers and not even looking at me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all. I will be attending a psych this afternoon but wanted to ask a few stuff here before if I should mention my problems.\n\nI started a birth control for the first time, Yaz/Yasmin, a pill, late September because my LDR boyfriend would be visiting me on October. A few days after bcp, I turned into a psychopath, severely depressed and severely annoying monster. I would always pick up fights. A day before he would fly out here, I made the biggest mess in our relationship ever. When he was here we had zero problems. Zero. The day he left I couldn't even move from my bed. Afterwards is just worse, break ups everyday. I kept using the pill until we found out it made me a monster. I stopped it right away and the fights stopped the same week. But now it left me emotionless and depressed for life. I feel so numb, sometimes no emotions for my boyfriend even though I know I love him. I don't feel happiness, I don't feel jealous of him, I don't feel any emotions besides pain, if it is considered and emotion. This makes a huge problem because when I am angry I started saying whatever is in my mind. \n\nThis morning when I woke up, I saw that he still was playing video games. I wrote a few hurtful things, one of which \"How do you expect me to plan a future with someone who obsessively plays video games?\" and we are on the verge of breaking up, he is sleeping now so I don't know really. \n\nMy question is, should I mention this to my psych today? That I am feeling numb, and how it is destroying my relationship?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "BF[21]and I [F22] don't see eye to eye. Should we be together?\nWe've been together for eight months now we were friends for a year dated for 6 months, before making it official. \nSix months into our relationship he looks in my phone while I was in the shower. It just so happens that this week my ex texts me and tells me he's going to go into surgery because he has cancer. He wants to see me, I agree, considering it wasn't a horrible break up or anything, I figured he was just afraid and needed some reassurance. He said,I love you, I said it back. \nI know this wasn't a good idea. I do care about him but, i am not in love with him. So my boyfriend reads this flips out, Says we need to break up. We break up for like four or five days, get back together for a week then out of no where he breaks up with me again. We get back together a week later.\nApparently he had a girl in his bed the night he broke up with me. \nHis roommates ex girlfriends friend, Get's wasted and falls asleep i his bed. Instead of sleeping on the couch, he sleeps beside her and she hugs him and kisses his back. That's all that happened according to him. \nThe roommates' ex girl friend set up the entire thing. She even gave my boyfriends number to the girl. He didn't even delete her phone number. Because he \"forgot\". That was two months ago. \nThis brings me to the situation today, He wants to go help the roommates ex girlfriend move.His other friend helped her moved and even said the girl that slept in his bed was there. I told him I didn't want him too because of the entire situation and he should not want to because it literally hurts my feelings. He doesn't agree and thinks I'm completely over reacting. He's actually pissed off that i feel this way.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I keep turning down those low paying jobs so I'm available to work when a higher paying job comes along, but it's getting to be very frustrating when I have no income right now.\n\nI'm working with a staffing company who gives me one day jobs so I can have at least a little bit of money and hopefully my unemployment is going to go through soon...still that's not enough to get my own place.\n\nI don't like sitting around the house all day just applying for jobs. I know a couple of people who enjoy sitting at home doing nothing -- I don't know how they do it. It's only been 3 weeks without a real steady job and I'm going nuts while I know someone who has been without a job for months and is okay with it. \n\nI feel like I'll be miserable if I take the lower pay opportunity, and then a higher pay job gets back to me once I started the lower pay job.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So, I really liked this girl(we are both 18) for a year now (we are classmates, now in our senior year), and last month she told me she had feelings for me too.\n\nWe started dating, going out and kissing and all seemed great untill we went to a bar with some friends and she started making out with some random dude she found there, and she spent whole night with him.\n\nI tried to end whatever we had together, but she told me next day that she was really sorry and that she was drunk, so I forgave her.\n\nFast forward till this week, i know she is still constantly talking with that guy, and even seeing him (I'm not supposed to know this). Even more, she started spending more time with her ex, who is still in her group of friends.\n\nI know that my chances are probably gone, and I'm trying to get over her, but the thing is we still have 2 months of classes together and I can't just ignore her, she's a very sensitive person and she always complained to me that she doesn't have close friends around her.\n\nAlso, I have an extremely important exam to take in 2 months, and I just can't focus on studying because I always think about her and what she is doing, I even check her FB and her friends' FB every hour or so.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I asked my best friend to be my girlfriend twice. The first time she said she wasn't ready. The second time, she said \"I still don't know. I like being friends\". I took that as sign that I'm just going to drop it. Alright, fair enough. Move on. We'll be friends. \n\nBut she hit me with a curve ball. She kissed me. I asked her what we are few days later and she said \"I don't know\". After prying into her a bit, she told me that she made a promise with her parents not to date in college (she admitted it was stupid). I told her I respect whatever decision you make, and she said \"I'm afraid I won't find a guy like you. You're the ideal guy for me. I don't want my first kiss, your first kiss to go to waste. I wanted you to be my first kiss. I like you. But my answer is no, to the most genuine guy I know and love, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry \". She was crying hard and logged off before I could say anything. \n\nShe respects her parents and never breaks promises. I feel like that was the deciding factor, not her true feelings. If I wait, I'd be waiting 2 years for when we both graduate from college.\n\n I need help as I'm blinded by emotion. I don't date people easily and that's what scares me.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So my fiancee and I just moved into an older house in California. We relocated for a job and put down most of our savings on our deposit and first months rent (our deposit was huuuuuge). But upon moving in, we realized the house was not adequately clean or ready for move in and within a few days we realized there is bad roach infestation throughout the entire house and garage.\n\nWe have notified the landlord of the problem in writing and said we will begin by deducting extermination traps from further rent if it not dealt with immediately and go from there. But we have not heard back.\n\nHowever upon talking to some friends in pest control, we could easily be looking at $350-500 in traps to make a reasonable dent in the population. And even then, it may still require professional assistance and cleaning.\n\nI literally have a deep phobia of roaches. Its actually my only and greatest fear. I haven't been able to sleep at all and want to cry because they are everywhere. My skin is crawling always because we keep finding them. I'm afraid to be alone in my house and want to leave so badly. I don't think I'm cut out for the extermination work (pulling out cabinets, drawers, pantries, garage, etc. and cleaning carcasses, eggs everywhere).\n\nEven though, I want to break the lease and leave the house as uninhabitable immediately there is a severe lack of housing availability in our city and it is next to impossible to acquire another place, especially with our current landlord holding all of our deposit/savings.\n\nPlease help! What do I do? I am considering living in my car or a hotel (if I can get it reimbursed) but am just at a loss of what to do. My goals are to not be living here with the roaches and to have the problem dealt with as timely as possible.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone, I'm 24(female) been with my 27 year old boyfriend for a year and a half. He's awesome and overall things are great. \n\nIn the past I've been cheated on emotionally and physically. I don't think that my current boyfriend is doing that...but I'm worried. \n\nHe is very over protective of his cellphone, he keeps it locked with a password. He works in customer service with a lot of young women, and adds them on facebook. I understand adding coworkers is very common, but it makes me uncomfortable. \n\nAm I being too sensitive? \n\nSo my question is, what is considered infidelity to you?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ok, I met this 33 year old woman a few months ago. We really hit it off and have been seeing quite a lot of each other. I think we both needed a bit of affection in our lives. \n\nThe future of this thing we got going came up. I've never been in a relationship and she is the 1st person I've become this involved with. I've explained that I'm not looking to settle down or have children for a very long time. She's convinced herself she's ok with that. But I know that I won't be the guy to give her children, no matter how long we stay together, and I know she'll become increasingly demanding of such commitment.\n\nWe were discussing whether it was worth seeing each other for any longer. We're both having a really good time together (great sex, great conversations, plenty of excitement) and none of us wants that to stop, but this relationship is essentially going nowhere. I've said it all depends on how long she can tolerate that for.\n\nThe question is, have you ever had a fulfilling short-term relationship with someone even though you both knew it wasn't going anywhere? Was the pain of parting worth the experience? It's coming up to halloween and bonfire night and christmas and it just doesn't seem like a great time to spend alone (though we do both have plenty of friends/family).\n\nMy thought was to have as much fun as we can together for the next few months and then amicably call it off. The only thing is, I don't want it to become even more painful to stop seeing each other. Surely a few months more won't make it much worse than it is now?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Our rescue cat, Abby, has always been picky with food. When we first got her, she was quite ill and didn't like to eat anyway so that was even more difficult. Every time we think she likes a food, she stops eating it within a week and won't eat it again (Only after we have bought a months supply...). \n\nThe thing is, we've tried to out-stubborn the cat, and it was a game of chicken we were never going to win. And then came kitty number two, Ollie, who is just the jabba the hutt of kitties.\n\nNot only will Ollie eat any left over food in Abby's bowl, but Abby doesn't want it and actively gives it to her baby sister. It got so bad that Abby was vomiting clear bile out of hunger at night... we tried separating them, getting new foods, giving dry food to snack on... it was no use, she didn't eat. Before anyone asks, she HAS been to the vet and they just said she's picky.\n\nFast forward to us getting a gift pack from our vet for the baby when we took Abby in to see if there is a problem. It has royal canin weaning kitty food, and we thought we'd see if Ollie liked it. Guess who likes it? Abby. It is kitty crack cocaine I don't know. We started sprinkling it on top of normal cat food, and guess what.. she eats it. It's like a seasoning.\n\nSo here is our doubt, is this ok to do? The vet seemed really passive about it, and I don't know how good this is to do. I looked up its ingredients and it almost seems just like a vitamin packed dry food. We are sprinkling so she doesn't eat more than a a few grams.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm not sure the details of the breakup are relevant here. I felt like shit for the first 2 weeks or so then picked myself up. I'd been feeling great and doing more stuff for myself and with mates, going out etc.\n\nI was sick this week and off work until Wednesday. Since then, I'm back to feeling awful, lonely and hopeless and she's back to the front of my mind. I haven't been able to concentrate since I've been back at work and I don't know what to do with myself.\n\nAlso have a really strong urge to call her/see her and try to talk which I know is stupid.\n\nAdvice?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have issues delegating (what I consider) pretty simple tasks to my wife. My schedule is pretty busy with work and I find myself asking her to do things like 1) go down to the HOA to talk about an issue that we both understand, 2) get ink cartridges refilled at Costco the next time she makes a trip, 3) get herself enrolled in a local junior college to take classes that she wants to take (she asked me for help getting started and I guided her to the online application, class schedule, etc), 4) fill out (or at least do the parts she can) her immigration paperwork, 5) make doctor's appointments and follow-ups.\n\nA lot of my impatience comes from me feeling like she's not putting in her best effort. I feel like I'm working with an uncooperative co-worker that doesn't know how to make a clean hand-off when they need help, and do it themselves when they don't need help. Everything I ask her to help out in doing, I end up spending more time in scattered (trivial) questions or helping with things out she can easily figure out by using Google. It's also personally very frustrating dealing with ineffectual people, and especially frustrating when there is a failure to complete necessary tasks to live.\n\nI know that she never paid a bill in her life before we got together, i.e., she didn't have much of the procedural skill set needed to survive. It seems like it could just be an avoidance/lack of confidence in doing these things. How can I help with this?\n\nI don't get what the problem is, because she puts in a lot of effort to take care of the domestic needs of our home and does a great job at it. It also doesn't seem like it'd be asking too much as she doesn't work and doesn't seem overloaded with what she does at home. She definitely isn't lazy.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I have been dating my SO for a year and a half now. He is the sweetest guy and we have much in common. \n\nI am almost done with my UG degree. He took a two year break from college so he is a little behind. But I think he is not doing as well as he claims because he is very vague about his classes. I think he feels insecure because I am almost done with school and when he was on academic probation before we got into a HUGE argument about it. I feel like if he does not get a degree we can't have a secure future together. \n\nI feel awful for thinking that way. Am I being a total a$$ about this? What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "We have been dating for over two years. And I am positive I want to marry her. Her family is giving her pressure about marriage and I want to make it clear that I will marry her. Her family is of a different culture and I have never meet her dad (lives in home country). Her uncle likes me a lot and approved of us. \n\n9 months ago I moved to another state for a job opportunity, it looks like I will get promoted to a long term position very soon. She was hesitant to move here. Today I learned that she would have moved if I proposed 9 months ago. I found out form a common friend.\n\nThe current situation is that I have limited money. Basically few hundred dollars in savings. I can not afford a ring right now, but I hope to save enough by March to buy a simple ring. Please share any websites you know that sell affordable rings. My job should be settled by March of next year. At which time I will ask her to move here and propose to her. \n\nMy question to you all is: 1) how can I comfort her and her family. She had a long talk with her dad today and was very sad. Most likely because of our relationship. 2) is proposing over the phone as bad as I think it is 3) should I go online ring shopping with her or keep it the ring a surprise.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I graduated in may 2014 in the DC area but couldn't start applying to jobs till April of this year due to family circumstances. So far I've applied to nearly 50+ places, 4 recruiters contacted me and added me to their available candidates list after a small interview (one of them got me a small office assignment but that's over) and gotten two interviews by myself (none of which panned out). I have experience in office software and am pretty well versed in excel (i'd say a little less than advanced but a lot more than proficient) and advanced mathematics. I have a GPA higher than 3 but lower than 3.5 which I don't mention in my resume. Could that be it? \n\nI don't understand what I'm doing wrong. So far I've been applying to anything remotely related with data, analysis, finance at entry level but I barely get any response. Data entry and admin assistant positions are no different. I also write cover letters for almost every place. I also don't know many people here since my family isn't really well connected enough for me to have great networking opportunities. I really don't know what to do next. I can't imagine how people applying to over 200-400 places deal with the frustrating and emotionally draining experience. I would really appreciate some advice from recent econ/finance grads or hiring personnel.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "My girlfriend is amazing, sweet, kind, loving, funny. I told her I loved her 2 years ago and have told her regularly ever since. However I have never quite managed to convince myself that is true.\n\nThis is my first serious relationship, I have never loved anyone before so I don't really have anything for comparison. I feel like I do love her, but there are many occasions where I am just not that fussed about seeing her, and when we are apart I don't have much urge to call/text her. She lives about 5 minutes walk away and I see her most days, but I find myself just wanting to be at home with my guy friends more and more. Due to being poor students there is not much we can do together except talk, watch TV, and drink. We have very different music tastes and she enjoys the clubbing scene whilst I do not. My guy friends share my music taste, love for good tv (not the shit that she watches), video gaming, cooking and occasional cannabis use. I feel like I just have more fun with my friends.\n\nOn the other side, I do have great conversations with my GF about lots of things, and love just lying in bed with her and cuddling. I also love having someone I can talk to about anything and I love comforting her when she's not having a good day. Recently due to a drunken argument she is on the verge of breaking up with me. My gut instinct is to fight for her back, but with all this on my mind I honestly cannot work out if I even want to or not. My emotions seem very confused and I don't know what I want.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi everyone,\n\nI have been with my girlfriend for seven months now and will be meeting her for the first time in one week. We've had our ups and downs, as any long distance relationship does, but we've been very good at communicating and, honestly, everything is perfect apart from the distance. I have never had any reason to suspect anything suspicious and I trust her.\n\nLast night, at midnight, she told me she was going to her university library to get some books. She texted me along the way (in the uber) and when she arrived. I told her to text me when she was leaving as I was worried because it was late and she did (1.5 hours later).\n\nNow, here are the inconsistencies. I do not want to reveal too many details due to privacy or in case someone she knows reads this. She said she would get these books and study there. When she texted me on her way back, she said she didn't study because she had to obtain files from the university computers which her professor had emailed them saying would be deleted (apparently emailed them at midnight..).\n\nThat is all fine, we say good night when she gets home and everything is great. I go on her email later to check her calendar and out of mere curiosity I open an Uber receipt that was sitting there. The time code and date both match the trip, but the address is not her university. Also, there was no uber receipt for her way back (maybe it was deleted, or it was never sent? I do not know how uber works, I never used it).\n\nI was really scared and called her in the middle of the night to ask her what was going on. She said it must be an old receipt and I felt like shit for suspecting anything. She said she could show me the books she got and even the 'new' receipt (whenever that arrives). I apologized profusely and that was it. But I am now starting to worry. Does Uber send receipts immediately? Should I suspect anything?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Ten months ago my girlfriend of nearly two years and I broke up. Her and I were perfect for each other. We got along better than I've ever gotten along with anyone, and we had more fun than you could imagine. We clicked- any problem that we had we could always work through. She made me feel a way I could never explain. I love her with all my heart, and I know that I will never again meet anyone as incredible as she was, and that I will never be able to love anyone in the way that I love her. To me, she is more beautiful than any supermodel or movie star, and it was as if our personalities were made to be together.\n\nTen months later, I am starting to realize that I am not going to be able to get her back. I have had a positive attitude throughout, thinking that if I believed things would get better they really would. I've been depressed, and am finally starting to realize that this miracle I've been hoping for may not come. \n\nI love her so completely and fully that I don't think I'll ever be able to get her out of my heart, and even if I met someone else I know it wouldn't ever be the same.\n\nReddit has been one of the things that has made me happy in this dark time of my life, so I need to ask you, what do I do now? What advice can you give?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I realized today that I (21 f) seriously have an issue with dependency. My ex bf (26 m) broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. It was a LDR and kind of feels like we broke up for no reason. I went to visit regularly but I suppose it wasn't enough for him. It hurts even more because we haven't kept in contact even though we're \"Friends.\" We were only together for about 9 months if you count the period of time we started talking. Right before getting into that relationship, I was with another guy (22 m) for about 3 years. We also don't keep in contact. And before that, I was kind of with a guy (23 m) that was in jail for about a year. Basically, I haven't been completely single in 4+ years. How do I get my mind off my exs and guys in general? I don't really want a relationship anytime soon. Was considering a fwb but I feel like I deserve more than just being someone's fuckbuddy. I don't really have friends so I feel stuck. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Today I received my admission letter, which was saying that I am offered a study place at university in Denmark. I have already payed a material fee of $250 a month ago. \n\nIt turned out that my girlfriend didn't get admitted, and she has no place to study at the moment. I really want to study abroad, but I don't want to leave her. What's worth noting is that I also got admitted to local university, so I can choose whether to go or stay.\n\nI'm young and bad at taking decisions, so I decided to ask you for an advice, perhaps from someone older than me. Thanks in advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hello all. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now. I feel like I've done a lot of things for her. We traveled a lot, I take her different places all the time for instance restaurants, museums, show her new things, etc. 95% of the time I pay for everything and everything we do is my idea which I have no problem with. I buy her little presents here and there, when she is sick I bring her medicine/food/soup to her work without her asking. I do small things for her all the time.\n\nHowever about 4 months ago, I thought about our relationship and I could not really think of a single thing she has ever done for me. I had a talk about it with her and her response was basically \"I'm a girl, I don't know what I should be doing.\" So I told her, \"do little things for me from time to time, you don't need to buy me anything. Bring me lunch to work one day and surprise me, that will make me happy, it doesn't need to be anything major.\" I may be a bit overreacting, but I feel that when you're in a relationship with somebody you should be doing things for them from time to time. 4 months have passed and nothing has happened.\n\nWe had another talk, and her response was basically similar to what she told me 4 months ago. I told her that I need to think about things and I haven't talked to her in 3 days. \n\nI'm not sure if I'm overreacting, but I feel like my efforts are not be reciprocated in any way and I feel like this is a one sided relationship. She tells me that she loves me, which I believe, but at the same time I need for that love to be shown in some way. Not sure where to go from here, I was hoping she would change a little bit as the relationship progressed. I understand there's an age difference and that could be part of it, but I think she's old enough to know how relationships work.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "If you check my other post, you'll get the back story. Please read it before you judge me. But long story short, husband recently told me he will cut off a female friend that had been trying to break us from the beginning, explained in the other post.\n\nI didn't fully believe him after reading a comment on my previous post so I snooped his emails with her. I found out that in summer 2014 while I was in a different city, he went on a weekend trip with her and her male friends to a different city. As far as I remember he had told me he was going to visit his family. We had been together for a year at that point.\n\nI'm very hurt and upset. My mom tells me to let it go and move on since he recently told me he'd stop talking to her. I can't help but remember this lie each time I look at him. It's him that lied to me, not her. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid of bringing it up because I found out through snooping. What should I do?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I suppose everyone will wonder how I'm able to view these texts. I'm not spying on him, (well, in a sense I'm not). My father and I have iPhones, and he logged into iMessage on my phone, and I guess that if he uses iMessage on his phone, if I'm logged into his account on my phone, I get all of his conversations. \n\nNow to the juicy part, for a lack of better terms. Over the past few days, I have read conversations of his to random number such as, and I quote, \"Wife is out of town. Wanna meet up? Name a price per hour.\" and also - \"Want to meet up? Missing you :( \". \n\nWhat scares me most about this is how sincere he sounds in the texts. Almost as if they have a semi-strong relationship, or as if they're somewhat dependent on each other. Fucking emoticons? My parents have been married for around 20 years, and I won't sit here and say that there hasn't been any sleeping around/cheating on my fathers side of the marriage. I don't have a close enough relationship with my parents where I feel I could talk to either of them about this. \n\nI also don't believe that I have a right to be reading theses conversations, whether he's my father or not. I was considering just logging out, and deleting all the conversations, but I'm not sure. My parents and I don't have the most personal relationships, and my childhood has always consisted of a one way relationship with them. They express their opinions to me, show me love, treat we decent(ish), and I listen, say yes sir and yes mam and move on. \n\nI have no idea what to do, and if anyone wants to know, there are about 10 conversations going on throughout the week.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So here it is. I have a boss who is helping me get a promotion. We spend alone time together and have often talked about personal issues, like family history and childhoods. often getting into personal and vulnerable issues. \n\nThe issue is that he has a long time GF who has told me he is not crazy about. he brings her up from time to time. She wants him to get married and have kids. he wants neither. he said he might just stay because he doesn't like change. he tells me he's lonely, even though she lives with him. \n\nBut he also listens to me... a lot... he thinks about things i say, and he remembers them. (i'm not sure if he does this with everyone). he has also watched my back in the office and does his best to support me and make sure i get my promotion. he offers tons of advice. sometimes our conversations are moody. I often confess a lot of personal things to him, and he will sometimes do the same. it feels very personal and intimate. these conversations can be dark and intense. sometimes those emotions are clearly written on our faces. He has also asked to spend time (getting lunch) with me out of the office. I have never done this with any of my other bosses. \n\nthe other day, i tried to help train a fellow employee and was being kind and nice to the employee. and my boss was upset with me. he lashed out (which he's never done) and asked me if I was bipolar and how i had changed to become such a different and happy person (in front of the new trainee). he then recoiled and withdrew. he asked me to leave his office.\n\nI like my boss. he's taken, but i feel a closeness to him. how can i tell if he is into me - or just likes having a sense of authority and mentorship over me? is there any way to tell ??? \n\nplease help. any advice is helpful. thank you !!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This morning, she and her boyfriend broke up. We've been here with her doing normal breakup things -- eating a lot, watching trashy TV, etc. -- when she suddenly asks my bf where her other TV is.\n\nHe goes...Huh, I don't think I've seen it.\n\nGo back a few months, she was letting some of her other son's friends stay at the house because they had nowhere else to go. They all have criminal records, mostly for theft. The TV was here...until they all left (when my bf's brother got locked up, so it didn't make sense for them to stay anymore).\n\nShe's going absolutely crazy now, ransacking the place as if the TV's going to be in a drawer or something. :/ She's also drunk, which isn't helping things much. I feel so bad...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "This actually happened about a week and a half ago. So, I recently moved to NYC from Miami to go to school. I decided to come up here a few months early to get acclimated, and I got a job at a Verizon retail store pretty quickly (had some experience).\n\nWe were kind of slow one day at work a couple weeks ago, and I don't know that many people yet because I just arrived a few months ago. This guy comes in for a phone charger, and I'm showing him options while making small talk. I asked him where he works, if he's from NY originally, etc. He gives me a business card and tells me to feel free to text him on his personal cell.\n\nI shoot him a text a few days later, and we agree to meet up for drinks at this bar he knows. I show up, we go inside, it's kind of a dive bar, which I'm cool with. We grab some bar food and a couple beers, and we're chatting away.\n\nBased on some comments, I start to get this vibe that he doesn't like women, which is fine, but then I start to get this vibe that he likes ME. We're a few drinks in, and he starts giving me the stare. I made this excuse to get out, and I agree to walk him to the subway before calling a cab. We get to the station, and he admits that he likes me a lot and wants to meet up again. I mustered something like \"Thanks, let's hang out again sometime,\" and then texted him later that I'm only interested in women but had a good time.\n\nEver since, I've been questioning the vibe that I'm putting out for him to have thought that I liked him romantically...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Last night my SO and I stumbled upon the subject of marriage. He said he never ever wants to get married. This was quite shocking for me because I DO eventually want to get married and I figured we were on the same page. \n\nWhen I asked him to explain why he doesn't ever want to get married he said something about not believing in marriage and that it is unneccesary. I couldn't really explain why I do want to get married other then saying its what people do when they love each other. I've just always dreamt about getting married and see no reason not to.\n\nAs far as I know there aren't any failed marriages in his surroundings so I don't believe its his experience with other marriages that turned him against marrying in general.\n\nLet me just make it clear that I do not want to marry right now or anything, we don't even live together and I like how things are now. I just want it to be a possibility in the future.\n\nI worry that this issue is eventually something that will end our relationship and while I am willing to make compromises I just don't understand his reasoning to not get married, hell I don't even fully understand why I do want to get married! \n\nI'm hoping some of you can help me understand why my SO is against marriage in general.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi so I have never used Reddit before. I have read the guide for submitting so I will hopefully be good. This is probably a really simple solution I am just having trouble seeing it.\n\nMy boyfriend had a girlfriend before me and he has some experience from that relationship. I have never been in a relationship before now and I have only had sex twice. My boyfriend is really outgoing, loud, popular at school and I am the exact opposite.\n\n I am to too shy. Which I am it's a major flaw I have I am always really timid to ask people for things. I have always been and I don't know why. Even if I know the person super well I am always to shy to ask something of them.\n\nI lost my virginity to him several days ago and we had sex again last night. He made it a very enjoyable experience but he made it all literally about me. He did not really let me do anything to him and he focused on me the entire time.\n\nI know this is probably a simple solution but I can't see it, how do I ask him to let me do some things to him?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm (20s f) a pretty avid runner. My apartment building has a small gym that I run at every day, the same time eacy night on week nights. I can't run outside as I am 9/10 on call for work and must be within 15 minutes of my laptop at all times. \n\nA couple of weeks ago 2 guys (20s? 30s?) started coming to this small gym at/slightly before the time I go. Great for them! Except they smell like sweaty funky taint marinated in ball funk. It's horrendous. I've seen people gag coming into the gym. Their miasma of stench is so pervasive you can almost taste it. Like I don't see how if you shower, launder your gym clothes, and wear deodorant you could possibly exude such a god awful BO fog. I suspect they don't do any of these things. \n\nIt's a small apartment gym. There's really no gym management to complain to. Would it be an asshole move to talk to them about this? I'm not generally good with people and I can't think of a non terrible way to tell these guys they fucking reek. I'm normally anti passive aggressive notes but would a note do it?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I currently am going to a community college and am sitting next to this girl who I like. Ive talked to her a few times during class ( a couple of \" how are you's\" and random stuff about the class in general/work). She has exactly the same attitude/sarcasm as me and I love it. I sit next to her in the front row of class and never know how to initiate something funny or interesting to talk about. From time to time she will watch me doodle on my notebook and pretends like she doesn't see me looking at her. We both think the class is really easy and super boring throughout it. \n\nRecently over the last 2 days we've been walking to the library together and talk about random class related stuff. She goes to the library most days and just watches TV ( she has like a 3 hour gap between classes) , yet everytime we walk together to the library, she just breaks off and goes to a computer and watches TV like I never exist. \n\nI want to talk to her outside of class and want to ask her out to do something but I dont know how to do it or initiate it. Need help/advice on how to take this further. First time posting here. Please help.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "First, the goods news. She is no longer living with cancer!\n\nThis morning when I woke up and for some reason grabbed my phone and checked Facebook immediately. I rarely do this. This first post I see is from my best friend announcing that today is a good day because she is cancer free. I was in shock because I didn't even know she had cancer!\n\nClearly she has her reasons for not sharing this information with me, but I feel like an absolutely terrible friend that she felt she could not tell me. Furthermore, I have known a lot of people to get cancer in the past 7 years, and I always would tell her \"so and so has cancer and I'm really sad, hoping she/he will get better soon\" and if I'd known she also had cancer I wouldn't have brought it up so much!\n\nA bit of background on our friendship and why I feel I've been an insufficient friend to her:\nWe met in elementary school and were bffs. During my second year of high school, I had to move so we stopped seeing each other as much. We still hung out when we could and she was always my best friend. At the end of high school I started dating a guy who turned out to be abusive. We were together for 5 years, and throughout that time period he slowly isolated me from my friends and family, and said mean things about the people closest to me. (Things like my parents didn't really love me and other fucked up things.)\n\nAnyway, I got out of that relationship, so i started hanging out with her more again. It was a relief to me that she didn't completely hate me for my time spent being distant. For the past five years we've lived in different cities, but we still see each other once in a while and write letters to each other. (We've always sent each other snail mail)\n\nI'm currently working on a reply to one of her letters, but I don't know how to approach this topic, since I found out through social media and not a personal message. I already feel terrible that I haven't even sent her a text.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Sorry if this is not the right subreddit for this, i never submit posts and don't know where this should go. Please direct me if needed.\n\nI'm 16 years old and I'm in 4 AP classes for my Junior year in High School. I took 2 AP classes my sophomore year. I plan on having a career in the medical field, although I'm not sure about it. \n\nMy actual question is; am i working too hard? Because of my classes, i have absolutely no free time. Once I come home from school with two backpacks filled with a 3 inch binder, 5 notebooks, and two textbooks; I sit at my desk and begin homework until the cushion of my desk seat is compressed so much it begins to hurt like a wooden chair. I work on homework from 3:00pm to 10:00pm (I do eat dinner in between these times though), and then fall asleep. \n\nI don't really have a social life, and most of my AP classes are incredibly difficult. While I may be in 4 AP classes this year, my 2 classes last year (AP Environmental Science, AP Physics) had an average grade of A and C, respectively. My Acc PreCalc class last year passed by with a C as well. I'm not good with numbers. Now I have AP Bio, AP Calc AB, AP English, and AP Stats, of which my current grades are A, C, C, A, respectively. And it's only October. I need help. :[\n\nShould I talk to my counselor and switch some classes to non AP's? Should I trudge on through? To be honest, I've been dragging myself for 2 years, always just passing. I keep going into harder classes because I think colleges like that, even if my own development of the subject isn't fully developed yet, i keep believing it'll get easier.\n\nWhat should I do? Thanks for any and all help on this!", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "7th grade, gym class. This year they started making us 'dress out' in shorts and t-shirts. Right around this time, I've become a fan of the freedom offered by not wearing underwear, and it is grand. \nOne day, without thinking it through, I bring breakaway shorts (i.e. with buttons on the sides) to change into for class. Naturally, flag football is that day's activity. \n\nSo we head out onto the field for our game. It is a beautiful day. The sun is shining; I distinctively remember a cool breeze. The girl's gym class walks the track around field while we play. \n\nI deliberately avoid the ball most of the game. We have about 10 minutes left to play and our QB sends me a pass. I tried to drop it but the pass was too perfect to play it off. So I bolt for the endzone, with (I'll call him) Nick's bitch ass chasing me. So I run it in and we all cheer, but fucking Nick is compelled to complete his defensive duty and take my flag.\n\nYou know what fucking happened. Goddamn Nick grabbed a fistful of flag and shorts, and with a seriously unnecessary flourish ripped it all away. \n\nSo everyone is laughing. Girls on the track are bumping into other girls who stopped to laugh. I'm struggling to cover up and get my shorts back at the same time, but fucking Nick plays keep-away. The coach eventually makes him give me my shorts, but the damage was done. My entire underworld had been illuminated. \n\nFucking Nick gets everyone to call me Commando for weeks. The story spreads and I try to say that I was wearing underwear and that he ripped those off too, but who am I fucking kidding.\n\nIt isn't so bad now, but super embarrasing at the time. As with many fuck-ups, there was a silver lining. Debra, the goth girl with inexplicable and intimidating sexual maturity, was apparently super turned on when she heard I didn't wear underwear. A couple years later we met at a party. I wore underwear by then, which disappointed her a bit, but she still rocked my world.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "From the very beginning of our relationship a year ago, bf [25] was uncomfortable with my [23] sexual/dating history. Complete double standards. I've done nothing he hasn't, and he's been with a lot more people. But he's always recognized that he's being irrational and that it's something he needs to get over. But we don't know what to do to help him get over this, and whenever we talk about it it only makes it worse. It's been a year and he insists he still needs more time to even know if it's possible. At what point do I walk?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "A little bit about us and our situation: the little guy is nearly 3, my husband and I both work full time, him at home, and me out of the house. We have in-home child-care (hubby locks himself in the office during the day, only coming out for bathroom and food). \n\nSleeping: We have very recently moved, we were in a basement suite where his room was right across from ours, so if he woke he could just come to us. We now have a full house, with our room being the loft upstairs, and his room on the main floor. He hasn't slept alone for awhile (even before we moved). We had done the CIO method when he was about a year, but we grew lax and he hasn't successfully slept in his own bed for about 6 months for more than a night or two every now and then.\n\nPotty Training: He refuses the potty. We've tried giving him a smarty every time he sits on the potty, sticker charts, we ask him if he has to go, asking him to sit on the potty, buying him special underwear that he only gets if he actually goes to the bathroom in the potty. He simply doesn't want to. He sees mommy and daddy going to the bathroom, he likes to flush the toilet, he knows what it's for. When we ask him if he would like to be a big boy, and wear big boy underwear he says no. \n\nSo parenting, any tips and tricks on how to get him to sleep alone and/or go on the potty? Which one would you tackle first? I feel like doing both at the same time would be too much for him.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "There were a few break-ins into cars and stuff in our neighborhood. My Dad decided that he wanted to buy a gun to protect the family in case of emergency. So he went out and bought a handgun. As far as I can tell, it's registered and legal. But the gun is making me very nervous and from what I looked up he isn't treating it like he should.\n\n1. He doesn't know how to shoot and doesn't want to learn – he says in case of emergency that his aim will be automatic and \"the adrenaline will get him through it\".\n2. He keeps it fully loaded all the time. I am the oldest in our house, my brother is 12 and my sister is 14, I'm worried they could just pick it up and accidentally shoot. \n3. He doesn't have a case for it and keeps it wherever he wants. He likes to keep in clean and loaded in case of emergency or whatever and leaves it lying on his nightstand, coffee tables, etc. \n\nAm I wrong to feel like this is unsafe? I tried to talk to him about it and he twisted it into me being an anti gun person and accused me of being brainwashed by Obama. He doesn't want to shoulder the extra expense of buying a case or a safe for it either, and he is very absentminded about where he leaves stuff anyway. I just want him to take proper safety precautions. Our Mom isn't in the picture so I have to figure this out. What do I do? How do I make him understand my feelings? Am I being overdramatic?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I will try to keep this short. \n\nJune, 2013 I noticed a big drop in my Credit Score. I had a collection from a hospital (They had a super old address on record and sent all bills there, I never received them. Eventually the unpaid bill went to Collections.) Since it was sent to collection I was no longer able to work with the hospital on paying it off. Medicredit was the collection agency, they allowed me to pay off half of it. I had to pull some money together, I called back and made the payment over the phone. \n\n7 months later I am pulling a credit report for a Home Mortgage I am applying for, It shows up as still unpaid. I contact the Medicredit, they say I never pay. I provide proof from my bank statement, the contact info was linked to their headquarters. I am told to email someone and they will look at it from the finance department. I do that and send a copy of the transaction info. I keep an eye out on my credit info, and it is removed in June. Fast forward to September, and it showed up again. I am trying to contact them again about this, but just get long wait, and no responses back from my multiple emails I have sent out. I am not sure what to do next. I want it removed from my credit. I paid it, and have proof. What options do I have?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So about 5 years ago I ended a 4 year long relationship with ex due to him having feeling for my younger sister. \nHis behavior was sleazy/flirty with my sister and he admitted he had feelings for sister to a mutual friend.\n\nI ended it after I found out that he was a compulsive liar, verbally abusive, physically destructive and after hearing about this infatuation with my sister.\n\nI met a guy a few years later and eventually we got married. \nSister stayed at my mum's house and would have my ex over to play games with her and her boyfriend. \nWhich made it awkward for my partner and I to visit my mum as he was almost always there. \nMum refused to put her foot down so we stopped visiting her.\n\nFast forward a couple years my sister has a new boyfriend now and they are planning to get married. \nShe has told me she is not sure if she will invite the ex and his gf or not. \nMind you they all hang out every weekend and are very close. \nI do not see her excluding them and feel that most people out there would not have to be put in an awkward situation such as this because a breakup is final.\nAm I being stupid?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hi All, I don't really know where to start so I'll just start blurting stuff out.\n\nWe've been having some issues for quite a while in our relationships, she has serious trust issues, insecurity and is emotionally abusive.\n\nI feel like I can't do anything without being in the wrong, if a female co-worker says bye to me or a female friend adds me on Facebook I get the whole \"Who is that? Why you haven't you told me about them before?\" She'll search people I mention and judge whether they're prettier than her... If I do actually add any female friends on social media she just starts talking shit about them or their actions until it's easier to just get delete them to avoid the trouble.\n\nI feel like she also tries to lure me into making statements she can use against me eg. \"Look at my friend in this picture, isn't she so much more pretty than me?\" \n\nIf we're not talking all day long she freaks out, if I only get to see her 2-3 times a week she freaks out.\n\nIf I want to spend time with my friends she starts acting like it's an issue but won't tell me what's wrong even if I ask.\n\nI told her last weekend that I don't feel like we have a connection anymore and she started screaming, crying and saying she was going to kill herself.\n\nI told her about all the issues I have and she promised she'd change but I think it's too late...\n\nI feel like my feelings have already changed for her and maybe I resent her? Like I used to love spending time with her and talking to her but now I don't even want to see her.\n\nI feel like I enjoy myself more talking to other people and being around other people.\n\nNormally after we have a big blow up or I'm angry about something it normally blows over the next day and I just kinda get over it - but this time it feels different.\n\nIs it wrong of me to feel this way? And does this mean it's the end? I've never been in another relationship so I'm not quite sure.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Me and my gf met each other online and still have not seen each other in person. That has not stopped us and we video chat often, and even fall asleep to each others faces on Skype. \n\nI will be leaving for the military and am putting together an \"Open When\" letter box for her and stuff to hold her over while I a away. Yes, I know it usually works the other way but I wanted to surprise her.\n \nAnyway, I will be putting things like photos and gifts. She is worried because she has gotten used to falling asleep with me like over the phone. I want some ideas on how to like... be there when i'm not there. I don't know about a video or voicemail that she will play on a loop because I feel like she will over play it and it will lose it's meaning. What are some ideas for a long distance couple that wants to feel like the other is there when we can't be?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I broke up with him because he treated me like crap and would've never broken up with me because he benefited a lot from me being there for him. I was very unhappy and was truly the worst version of myself. Hated it. So i finally broke it off. \n\nNow, it's an emotional roller coaster. I feel a lot better at times. But I miss him constantly. I love him. But I know that I don't want him back because I don't want to be that unhappy again. I've paid my dues and gave him way too many chances. \n\nIt's been two weeks since we broke up and i saw on his FB page that he's been making \"special\" friends. He's moving on and it really pains my heart to see it. I stopped following his feed but what's to say i don't slip and look at his page again and fall into this depressive cycle again. I want to eliminate him from my life for the time being. \n\nHere's my dilemma. I deleted his number and I do no initiate contact. But he texts from time to time and tells me he misses me. I don't see the point of us communicating and it honestly just makes the love-drug impossible to leave my body. I need time and space to heal. \n\nPlease help. I have a fear that I might sound rude and this is preventing me from affirming myself and standing up for myself. I want to tell my ex in a message that although we've agreed on staying friends, can that happen later and can I have time to heal?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Hey Reddit, I was wondering if you could help me out with this one. \nSo, here's the story so far: I'm friends with a girl (she is a good friend of my girlfriend) who, from my point of view, is a bit in a rough spot right now. She is 28, came out of a rather long, serious relationship (that lasted for about 8 years) a couple of years ago and hasn't had anything serious going for her ever since (apart from the occasional fuck).\n \nSo, about three weeks ago, she met this guy, who seemed like a regular bloke at first. They are both in their late 20s. So as things go, they started seeing each other quite often. She would sleep over at his place and he, in turns, would sleep over at hers. \nThere is just one problem though: no fucking. \n\nYou might say that this is not a problem as such, but you see, things are a bit weird. My friend has tried her best to initiate any kind of affectionate interaction. The closest was her grabbing his dick. He just laughed in return, said that he is a little bit tired and then they proceeded to hug each other and fall asleep (oh yeah they did make out once but did not proceed to sexual intercourse, since this bloke used the same excuse to \"get out of it\") \nSo, despite them seeing each other every day, despite clear initiatives coming from her side, nothing has happened yet. Weirder yet, my friend has totally fallen for this guy. The bloke doesn't seem to show clear signs of affection. But why would he then continue to see her every other day? Am I just over-analyzing stuff? Its weird, it seems to me that this guy is actually afraid of sex or something of that sort...", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I am currently 19 years old. A few years ago I use to do online graphic design, and would sell my products with the help of advertising on youtube, twitter, etc. Some people I would sell designs to could be really young. The problem is that after I would send the a file of the design they wanted to them, they would charge back the payment and keep the graphics I made as well as the money they were suppose to the pay. The problem with this is that since it was not a physical object, I could not prove I had ever sent anything. When I received money, I would send it straight into my checking account. Since PayPal can't touch my account, it would put me in debt if I got a charge back. My PayPal had been in debt for nearly 2 years before I received this letter. Will this cause any future problems? I don't feel as if I should be the one to pay it back. Not really sure what to do.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I [F25] recently have been thinking about getting in contact with an old friend [also F25] that moved overseas back in 2010. \n\nWe were really close throughout middle school, high school and afterward (been friends nearly 10 years) but had a bit of a falling out when she made plans to move countries to be with her BF at the time. \n\nWe basically had a fight about her going. I wanted to rent a place together, I told her about it plenty of times and even tried helping her find work to pay for her half. \n\nOne day she told me that she suddenly had plans to go be with some guy on the internet that lived overseas, she was leaving the following month. I told her it was a bad idea and she should just stay and get a place with me like we talked about before. She then told me I was a bad friend for trying to keep her from pursuing her BF. We stopped talking, she dropped all contact with me and that was it. \n\nTime went on; I went through my old high school things at my parent's place and got a bit emotional looking at old photos of the two of us with our other friends. \n\nOne thing led to another and I tracked her down on facebook. From the look of it she still lives overseas and is now married. \n\nI'm at a cross roads now about contacting her. I want to apologise and continue our friendship but I think it's a little too late now. I feel like an ass now for implying she was wasting her time going there in the first place.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "Background Story:\nFor the past 6 months my best friends sister and I decide to start dating. Ive been friends with her too, we've known each other since we were kids and hang out all the time. So in all, we have known each other for 10 years. There is an age difference between us (her 19 and im 25). I see her as an equal maturity wise, hell shes more so than I am. We have seen each other at our worst, we always laugh and have a good time. Plus, we didnt feel comfortable dating other people because we didnt have as much fun as we do with each other, hence why we both decided to see where this would go. \n\nNow to the issue:\nI hardly hear from her. We are both so busy with college and working, we just see each other on the weekends. I work about 50-60 hours a week along with being a full time college student. She works like 20 hours and is also a full time student. I always find time to ask her how her day is and how shes doing, but she never asks how im doing, even randomly or after I ask her. I dont see myself as \"needy\", I dont feel like I have to talk to her every second of the day. A few weeks ago she had an allergic reaction to something and had to be taken to the hospital. I found out about it via facebook. Alot of the times I find out whats going on through her mom. Hell when we are together in person, everything is alright. Ive talked to her about it saying \"well, just let me know whats up from time to time.\" and she agreed (this was before the trip to the hospital). Shes admitted this is the furthest shes been in a relationship.\n\nAlso, I feel like if I asked her to let me know whats up or see how things are going is like asking someone to care. I think caring should be common knowledge, and not bound to how much dating experience you have. It only takes a couple seconds to type out a text message.\n\nThanks ahead of time for the advice.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I am leaving for college in about three weeks, and my mom is already freaking out quite a bit. In fact, she has been getting progressively more upset ever since I graduated from high school in June. I feel awful because I know that she's upset, but it's really starting to drive me up a wall. Some background:\n\n* I am my mother's only child. After breaking up with my father, she eventually got married to my stepdad. They have decided not to have any more kids, though she does have two small dogs to nurture.\n* As my mom has pointed out, I have been in her life longer than she's been without me. (My mom got pregnant at 17, and I'm currently 18.)\n* My stepdad has a strange need to update me every time that my mom cries or gets upset about my leaving, and the guilt is really getting to me.\n* Both my mom and my stepdad seem to have some jealousy over the amount of time that I spend with my boyfriend, which I find to be unreasonable because I'm usually out with him when they are at work or in the evenings, when they are tired and reading or sleeping. The guilt over this is also starting to get to me.\n* I suspect that all of this is complicated by the fact that my college is about a 14-hour drive from my home.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I really don't know how this is going to go over because it's the old friendzone story and I feel pretty guilty about it. I met a smart, stable, funny guy on Tinder. But I have no interest in kissing him or doing anything intimate with him, even though he's good looking! Of course I couldn't tell I'd feel that way until we met in person. \n\nObviously Tinder guy does want a relationship. And I'm very bad at telling people things they don't want to hear. I haven't dated much and I don't really know how to handle this. How can I approach him without hurting his feelings? How likely is it that he'd want to be friends with me after meeting me in a romantic context? I want to keep him in my life solely because there are so few people I legitimately enjoy spending time with. We chat often by text and on FB but this really seems like the sort of thing I should talk to him about in person. Or maybe not, since we've only been on one date?", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I'm in my early 20s and live in the southern United States. I've had the same friends for forever and have had lots of great experiences with them in the past. In the last 2-3 years though they've become increasingly negative towards me.\n\nI'll often see a few of them individually and things will be fine, but in a group setting I'm often excluded, the only one chided, etc. Some of the things they say go out of bounds or they're things that apply to more than just me but I'm the only one who gets shit on for it. \n\nIn the past I've said things, but I'm told I'm just too sensitive or they're joking. When I decide not to participate when everyone is chatting online or in-person, they'll use that as an excuse to exclude me. When I make fun of someone, I'm either ignored or basically told to shut it. \n\nI'm not sure what to do. It's become increasingly stressful and these are my only 'friends'. Other people I know don't have friends like mine. We still have good times, but I feel like everything I do I'm being judged.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been exclusive with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, long distance for a few months. Our relationship wasn't always long distance, we used to live in the same city but I got accepted into medical school and had to move. He works in research and is applying for jobs in my city so that we can be together again in the future.\n\nI guess I'm just finding it hard to feel loved and desired with all this physical distance between us and I was hoping to get some advice or encouragement from fellow redditors on things we can do to close the (figurative) distance and perhaps some words of encouragement. Stories on how you did it or how friends have made a LDR work for them would also be much appreciated as one tends to not hear about when things work our so much. \n\nI have no desire to end the relationship and I love him very much.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "So I've been hanging out with this girl (F20) for a while now (about a year, more frequently recently). I (M21) even posted about her on this account. She basically is a very attractive girl who is also kind of a slut (objectively, she's cheated on all of her boyfriends). \n\nRecently I started developing feelings for her, which I am trying to avoid since nothing good would come out of it.\nI haven't seen her since I started feeling this, about a week ago. I'm pretty sure that she sees me only as a friend and I am perfectly fine with that, but today, she somewhat strangely asked me out.\n\nShe calls me and asks what I'm doing today, when I tell her not much, she's basically saying goodbye and about to hang up, so I ask her if she only called me to ask me that. I can tell she got nervous by how she started talking. She responded something like \"yeah, no, I was wondering if you wanna go for a drink.\" I obviously said sure, and we set a time and place.\n\nNow, there's nothing overly strange with this. She might just want to tell me some gossip like she's done before. But I'm freaking out nonetheless. I would love to be able to not think anything about it and be calm and go with it, but I can't help feeling jumpy and nervous.\n\nWhat should I do? Is there anything I can do to calm down and be more relaxed about this?\n\nAlso, what should I do once I get there? What if she's actually somewhat into me? WTF??\n\nThanks in advance.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "I (28 F) have been with my boyfriend (28 M) for 2 years. He's my best friend and we get along really well. He's a good boyfriend to me and we have a lot of fun together. He gets along great with my friends and family. However, lately the relationship feels stagnant and it seems like there is no future. I think the reason I feel this way is he has never communicated his feelings towards me and I am starting to develop stronger feelings towards him. We haven't said I love you, even though I do feel that way about him and have said it to him. I believe that saying those words shouldn't be rushed but he told me he doesn't know if he can be in love...ever. He doesn't know if he loves his family and he often feels \"nothing\" towards people. I think he might be suffering from some form of depression. If I try to talk about our relationship it usually turns into a fight where he totally shuts down. I've asked him several times if he wants to be together and that if he wants out we can still be friends. He always says he wants to be together when I give him this option. \n\nWe talked this weekend about it and he admitted he thinks he might have depression because he feels very up and down all the time and often feels \"nothing\" and wants to \"disappear.\" He said he doesn't know if he'll ever have strong enough feelings to be in love and that he's had this same problem in his last relationship.\n\nPart of me thinks he is suffering from depression and that things could change and that I should be there for him but part of me thinks it's stupid for me to hold out for someone who may never feel strongly enough about me in the way I need. I would like to stress that otherwise things are really great between us, we have the same interests, the same sense of humor, and he is truly my best friend.", "role": "user" } ]
[ { "content": "You are an AI assistant tasked with generating concise summaries for given texts. Your goal is to read the provided text and create a brief, clear, and informative summary that captures the main points and key information.\n\nHere are the steps you should follow:\n1. Read the provided text carefully.\n2. Identify the main ideas and key details.\n3. Write a concise summary that conveys the essence of the text without unnecessary details.\n\nBelow is the text that needs to be summarized:\n", "role": "system" }, { "content": "The Starbucks crowd can act really entitled, but there's no one worse than this 60+ year old regular. Let's call him Bill.\n\nBill and I like sitting in the same corner. I don't know why he does, but I do because it has space for me to put my stuff where it's out of everyone's way and not taking up a chair - it allows me to be considerate. When I get to Starbucks first, I sit there. Bill was so openly aggressive about it that I finally just sat somewhere else until he left and switched seats.\n\nBut an asshole is still an asshole, and he'd be aggressive towards me no matter where I sat. Not to mention, I come everyday and he doesn't, so there are days I'm trying to be considerate and ultimately end up losing out on the seat I like to a third party. But whatever, it's a seat - I don't own seats in Starbucks and I'm not going to make a fuss about it because I'm a grown up.\n\nWell, after Bill didn't show up two days this week, I decided I'm not waiting for him to have his seat, and he can grow up about it. He is about 40 years my senior, and there's no reason I should be more mature than him - girls don't mature that much faster than boys. Today I was ordering a bagel - yes, I order as cheap as I can when I'm here - and he saw me and called me a bitch. And he always throws comments my way, but that was unfairly harsh. I have done nothing to him other than like the same damn seat and finally had enough of letting him dictate my sitting habits.\n\nI'm starting to bet Bill was raised as an only child and never had kids of his own, because he has 0 signs of maturity despite how old he is. High road or low, he bitches at me for existing, and I'm not letting him drive me away.\n\nSorry for the rant, but seriously - how do people get to be that old and have the maturity of a two-year-old?", "role": "user" } ]

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